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This programme contains
strong language and adult themes
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Marriage, to me, means everything.
Previously...
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I am extremely excited.
This is the most
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spontaneous thing I've
actually ever done.
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..four more courageous singles
said I do to a stranger.
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I'm extremely nervous.
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I want an epic love story.
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Whilst romance sparked
for one couple...
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It's love at first sight.
..for the other...
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What are you like when you're drunk?
..one bride's party spirit...
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Wild, argumentative.
Argumentative?
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..raised concerns for her groom.
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She is more fiery than I'm used to.
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That is a worry.
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And for Leigh and Leah...
I just want to go home.
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..struggles on the slopes...
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I might have a panic attack.
I'm not joking.
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..landed them in honeymoon hell.
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She doesn't understand the severity
of things until it gets too far.
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I've ballsed up, haven't I?
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SHE SOBS
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Tonight...
I don't struggle to meet women.
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I just haven't met the right person.
..two more bold singles...
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I'm attracted to the alpha male.
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I won't settle for anything less.
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..meet and marry at first sight.
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Hi. But one bride's rigid
expectations...
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I can't tell whether he's an alpha
or not.
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..bring a bitter disappointment.
He's not my type.
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You may now share your first kiss.
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I can't remember the last time I
was given the cheek, if I'm honest.
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Is that a first par? Bloody hell.
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Four more newlyweds...
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"It's time for your honeymoon.
The magical Morocco."
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..set off on their romantic escape.
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I cannot wait to get wavy, like.
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Joe's worst fears become reality.
You really pissed me off.
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Why? Cos you BLEEP are, man.
You actually BLEEP are.
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And Divarni's negative
conversations... Knowing that I
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could potentially be alone
for the rest of my life.
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That would be the worst.
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..unleash tension...
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Everything is so intense and so
deep.
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..that tears their honeymoon apart.
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The last thing I want to do is have
a talk about our traumas and then,
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like, get into bed with you.
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There's trouble in paradise,
isn't it?
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It's hot. God, I'm sweating here.
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I cannot wait to get in the pool.
Pina colada?
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Pina colada.
Cannot wait to get wavy, like.
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I'm still not 100% too certain
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where we are,
but it's absolutely amazing.
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Oh, my God.
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Champagne. Do you want some?
Of course I do.
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Jamaica. Is that right? Caribbean?
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I don't actually know.
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I don't know.
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This... We've got our own pool,
haven't we? ..is insane.
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I can't wait to jump in there.
It don't feel real to me.
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Na. You know what I mean?
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I still haven't come to terms
with that
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I'm actually married.
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Obviously, there are things I do
like about Maeve,
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but my first impressions were,
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I wasn't really sure if she is
what I needed.
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A few bevvies? Can't wait.
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She came across big,
brash personality. Um, yeah.
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And I just think it's going
to take some time just
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to see
if she isn't just a party girl.
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But I guess we'll find out.
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So, like,
one thing I might be concerned
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about is obviously
when we're both drinking...
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Yeah. ..how we're going to, like,
be with each other.
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Because obviously you said you were
like,
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proper argumentative and shit
when you're pissed.
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So... I'm all right.
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But the more I drink,
the more, like, cheeky I get. Yeah.
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The more looking
to, like, push your buttons I get.
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Cos you've calmed down.
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You know what I mean? And, like,
that's what I want to be like.
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So maybe you might possibly be
the one to try it.
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Well, calm us down, hopefully
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Do you think that'll happen?
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Right now, probably not.
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I've always sworn by
treat them mean,
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keep them keen.
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If you can handle me at my worst,
you can have me at my best.
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The more time I'm spending with Joe,
I'm starting to like him.
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And I feel like he's
a very easy person to talk to.
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But I still have my guard up.
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In my past relationships,
I have been walked all over.
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What can go wrong?
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Get a couple of drinks
down us and we'll sharp find out.
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Got you a little hot chocolate.
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I'll hold, you pour.
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OK. So the honeymoon.
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it has been up and down in terms of
where we're at.
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She has been a bit aggy
and stuff with me.
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It's emotionally draining.
I do feel like I'm giving more.
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And I want her to know that.
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I feel like at this point...
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..I feel like I'm maybe trying
a little bit harder.
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Are you?
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I'm always attentive with you.
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I'm like,
"Do you want this? Do you want that?
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"You look nice." Constantly giving
you compliments.
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For me, I need a little bit of,
like, flirtiness back.
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I don't want to flirt
with you because,
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like, that part
for me is just, like, not there yet.
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I don't want to rush myself.
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But you could be
a little bit more flirty, I think.
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"Oh, Leah,
your hair looks nice today.
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"Oh, Leah, I like the way
you're wearing your rings."
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OK. Do we want to just dig me out,
how fucking awful I am?
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I feel like we're
in this experiment.
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We need to, like,
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push ourselves more than we would
in the outside world.
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We have to meet in the middle
if we want it to try and work.
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Do you know what I mean?
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I know I'm not her type,
but also she's not my type.
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I still can have a flirt
and have a joke with her.
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Is she open to giving a little
bit more?
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Because if it's not, I can't
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see myself going through
this process.
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It's just a waste of time for me.
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Do you want to go and play
in the snow?
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No.
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God, no, no.
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Back in the UK... Close them!
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Julia-Ruth and Divarni are waking
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up to their first morning
as a married couple.
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How did you sleep? Fantastic.
How was yours?
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Hey, listen, I put my head on
the pillow and I was gone.
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First night with my wife
was very romantic.
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When I opened my eyes this morning,
I thought I was dreaming.
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My wife is a very beautiful woman.
I'm very attracted to her.
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I couldn't ask for anything better.
So it was it was good.
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It was just super, super,
super-duper comfortable.
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OK. Good.
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I feel like the wedding was such
a high,
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but I have woken up with like
a different thought this morning.
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I'm quite an openly sexual person,
but I'm not having that desire.
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So I do think that I just want
to take things slowly
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and at our pace
and just build from there.
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"Julia-Ruth and Divarni,
congratulations.
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"We hope you enjoyed your first
night as newlyweds.
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"Now it's time for your honeymoon
in the magical Morocco,
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"the perfect setting for
an enchanting love story to begin."
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I'm screaming. I love that.
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We're going to Morocco!
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I didn't get the initial spark
that I was hoping for with Divarni.
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Let's try and make the most of
being on the honeymoon and see if it
grows.
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Morocco! Morocco, here we come.
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Oh, I'm here for it.
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Morocco! Morocco! We're excited.
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We're ready. As Julia-Ruth
and Divarni
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jet off on honeymoon,
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another hopeful single is ready
to put her trust in the experts.
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I'm ready. I'm excited.
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Let's go, guys.
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I'm successful,
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fiercely independent...
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..and determined.
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Three, two, one.
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LAUGHTER
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The gym's a huge part of my life.
I love to feel healthy.
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I love to feel strong.
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And I think that's
why I'm attracted to the alpha male.
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I'm attracted to the big man
that can lead me by the hand.
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Are we ready? Mm-hm. Lovely.
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I'm an aesthetics nurse
and I run my own clinic from home.
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I absolutely love my job.
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I've managed to build a business
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on my own from the ground up.
It's thriving.
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Is that OK? You're feeling all
right? And I'm so proud of that.
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Because I know
that it's me who's achieved that.
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When you're entrepreneurial,
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you strive for more all the time.
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My standards are very high.
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I like things to be in order,
and I like things to look nice.
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I won't settle
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for anything less than perfection
in my life,
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and I feel the same
about my relationships.
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I was with my ex-partner
for eight years and we got engaged,
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and a little while after
that I broke off the engagement.
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When he proposed,
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there was something inside me
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that was saying, "I'm not sure if
this is 100% right."
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Making the decision
that I made to break off
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the engagement obviously changed
the course of my life,
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but changed me as a person.
Yeah, it was
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heartbreaking for us all, you know,
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because we just...we just thought
that was your course to be on.
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There is somebody out there
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that is just going to be perfect
for what you want.
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I have a really clear idea of
the type of person that I want,
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the values that I want him to have,
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the way
that I want him to live his life,
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and what would work well for me
in that sense.
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And I haven't ever felt that before.
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I want to be with a partner
and think,
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"This is everything
that I've ever wanted."
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So if you found somebody
that wasn't your type,
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would you be willing to put the work
in and the effort
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in if he didn't
tick those boxes straight away?
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I feel like I'm the type of person
that needs them
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boxes ticked instantly.
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And if they're not, in my mind
I think, "It's not going to work.
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"It's not going to work.
Just move on."
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I'm attracted to the alpha male.
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Somebody tall,
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confident,
and who's sure of themselves.
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I want him
to have really strong family values
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and want to have a family
in the future with me.
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I want him to be kind
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and respectful,
to have a lot of get up and go.
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And to be really funny.
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I'm really ready to find the one.
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And something as crazy and as wild
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as this feels
like the right next step.
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I have got 100% hit rate
in my flirting.
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Listen, don't ask my friends what
they say, just ask me.
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It's 100%.
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We never thought we'd see the day
that Bailey gets married.
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I always thought I'd get married.
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Like, chill out on that.
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Everyone grows up. I'm not
like a massive flirt any more.
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Much. A little bit.
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BAILEY LAUGHS
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If there was a dating review
website,
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I think I'd have five stars. I think
I'm a catch.
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Yeah, I mean, yeah, look at me.
I enjoy being tall.
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I think that is such a good trait
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when you're trying to
approach women.
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I've got to put my height on a
dating app.
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I put, "Hi, I'm 6'4".
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Yeah. "Remember, I'm 6'4"."
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I'm definitely an extrovert.
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I'm just loud, so I end
up being centre of attention.
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I like to think of myself somewhat
as an entrepreneur.
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I'm kind of like the Richard Branson
of Brighton.
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I own a microbrewery.
It helps me on dates loads.
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I mean, if I'm in a bar
that sells the beer,
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it'd be like, "Oh, oh,
they sell my beer here, do they?"
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Like I didn't know already.
Works a charm, you see.
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That works a treat.
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My beer is named
after my gorgeous little daughter.
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Wow. Look at that.
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You ready? Here we go.
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Becoming a dad is the best
thing I've ever done.
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She's the most important person
in my life.
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I just have another level to love
with Bluebell.
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Who's your best friend? You.
Who's my best friend?
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Me. Yeah!
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Family is super important to me.
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I split
up with my daughter's mother,
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and it was something I never wanted
to do.
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We came to kind of the harsh reality
that we would be happier separated.
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I do want more kids one day,
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so I think
that makes it even more important
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to be in a strong relationship and
to be really close with my partner.
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Be really sure about them.
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Why is love so important to you now?
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Oh! Love means everything to me.
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I'd love to be married.
I'd love to start building a future,
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maybe build on my family
and have a family together.
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All of these things are important
to me.
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But the right person,
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someone I could see forever
with. Just a team-mate.
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Like, someone to bring out the best
in me.
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And then I can hopefully do
that with her. Yeah.
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I'm looking for sparks.
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Honesty, kindness,
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entrepreneurial spirit.
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I think there's that fairy tale out
there for everyone.
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And, yeah, I'm here searching
for mine.
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Rebecca and Bailey are a
fascinating couple.
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Let's start with Rebecca,
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who is possibly one
of our trickiest brides to match.
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She's confident, career driven,
a high achiever,
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and she demands perfection
in all aspects of her life,
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including her partner.
She wants a husband with an alpha
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personality who can match her energy
and drive.
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It's a very high bar,
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but I think we may have cracked it
with Bailey.
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He's an entrepreneur, self-assured,
a leader in his peer group,
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and he radiates charm
and confidence.
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Absolutely.
Bailey is a big personality,
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but Rebecca's direct
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and honest characteristics
will keep him on his toes.
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And they both have a genuine
love of family,
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which, as a loving father,
is a crucial quality for Bailey.
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And let's not forget,
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they are both highly active
and extroverts
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who love the company
of other people,
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so they should really
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bounce off each other's
positive energy.
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If the spark ignites for these two,
there could be fireworks.
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Rebecca and Bailey.
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I just want there to be
like that spark and that connection.
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And then I look
at him and I'm like, "Oh, OK."
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Do you feel like when you see
him, you'll know? Yeah.
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Straight away? Yeah.
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I'll know within ten seconds.
I'm just that type of person,
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though, aren't I?
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You do need to give people a chance
as well.
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Rebecca likes everything
her own way.
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And, you know,
she's got certain standards
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that she wants everybody to live
up to.
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But she does maybe need
to compromise a little bit.
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I want somebody who, like,
is a typical alpha guy.
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I'm always attracted to, like,
the tallest guys.
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I hope he's well dressed, clean,
big feet,
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gym bod, a six pack, discipline,
and they work really hard.
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I would say you're picky.
You have got your standards.
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You have, and you know
what you want.
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God, it feels
so real now you're here.
318
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I didn't sleep at all last night.
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What, nervous? No. I'm ready, I'm
ready.
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I can't believe it.
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00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:44,320
The day is here.
I'm about to be a husband.
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I'm going to have a wife.
I can't wait to meet her.
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Get me down that aisle.
She might not like you.
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Are you worried about that at all?
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No, I'm not worried about that.
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She'll love me. Like, it's fine.
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I'm obviously Mr Confident. I'm not
used to people not fancying me.
328
00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:02,880
I get a lot of numbers,
get a lot of dates.
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Is she going to be in love as soon
as she sees me?
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He's always confident. A bit too
confident at times.
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Try and crack on with her
for the first night.
332
00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:16,840
What and she's... If she's
not feeling it...
333
00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:20,280
Yeah. ..how would you react to that?
I don't know.
334
00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:21,760
Listen, I'm not even thinking
about it.
335
00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:23,120
It's never happened.
336
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I definitely am looking
to settle down.
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I just haven't met the right person.
338
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I want to call someone my wife.
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And I want to be
with someone forever.
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Hello, hello.
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00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:26,840
All right? Hi. How's it going?
Hello.
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HE LAUGHS
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What's your name?
I'm Bailey. Bailey?
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Yeah. Nice to meet you all.
You all look lovely.
345
00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:39,240
Thank you.
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00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:43,360
Rebecca knows what she wants.
347
00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:48,520
So I will know from Rebecca's face
if this is not her dream man.
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I'm picturing, like, a man
who's got, like,
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stature about him.
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I want him to be a dominant figure.
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I've walked away from something
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before because
I didn't want to settle.
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And if they don't tick enough boxes
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for me straight away...
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..I will say how I feel.
356
00:19:48,120 --> 00:19:49,880
How's it going? You all right? Hi.
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HE LAUGHS
358
00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:54,280
How are you? Nice to meet you. Nice
to meet you, too. I'm Rebecca.
359
00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:55,800
Hi, Rebecca. I'm Bailey.
Nice to meet you.
360
00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:57,480
Bailey? Yeah.
361
00:19:57,520 --> 00:20:00,560
You look lovely.
Thank you so much. So do you.
362
00:20:02,360 --> 00:20:05,960
She's absolutely stunning.
I can't believe it.
363
00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,800
She's right up my street.
She's a bit of me.
364
00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,480
God, you look lovely, by the way.
Really lovely.
365
00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:13,880
Yeah, honestly. Yeah.
Very happy. Big smiles.
366
00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:16,160
Look at me. I'm like a Cheshire cat.
367
00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:30,840
How tall are you? 6'4". 6'4"?!
368
00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:32,600
Yeah. Is that all right?
369
00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:40,480
He's not 6'4".
370
00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:44,120
I guess 6'1".
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00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:47,960
I said I would know within ten
seconds.
372
00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:54,360
And alarm bells are going off
in my head.
373
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He's not my type.
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00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:03,640
Oh, God.
375
00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:13,760
Thank you, all, for
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coming to celebrate
this very special occasion.
377
00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:19,560
Now, in these beautiful
surroundings,
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00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:21,040
we come to the vows which
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00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,400
Rebecca and Bailey
have written to each other.
380
00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:31,360
I always tell my friends
that first dates should be casual.
381
00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:34,880
Nothing too fancy. Don't overdress.
382
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:38,280
And whatever you do,
never talk about marriage.
383
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:40,960
But, well,
here we are. Nice to meet you.
384
00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:47,240
But in all seriousness,
I vow to be your biggest fan,
385
00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:51,160
your supportive team-mate
and your personal comedian.
386
00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,600
Always there to make you smile
when you need cheering up.
387
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:56,480
So here's to laughter...
388
00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:00,160
..happiness and, who knows,
389
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:01,520
hopefully - one day - love.
390
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,000
So let's do this.
391
00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:09,440
To my husband...
392
00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,840
..never in a million years did I
think I'd stand
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00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:17,280
in front of a stranger
and agree to marry them.
394
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:20,560
I decided this year was the year
that I would say yes to everything,
395
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:21,960
to every opportunity,
396
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:25,760
to every invitation,
but more importantly to you.
397
00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:27,560
I want to get to know the real you.
398
00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,280
I know we may go through
tough times together,
399
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,440
but all I ask... I'm going to cry.
400
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,640
..all I ask
is that you try to love me...
401
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:39,480
Sorry.
402
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,320
..that you try to love me just
as I am.
403
00:22:43,120 --> 00:22:44,400
Please just accept me
404
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,400
and let me show you
how magical life can be
405
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,680
with me by your side.
406
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,080
Excuse me.
407
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:54,640
So to my husband,
I say yes to you today.
408
00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:59,560
And hopefully I will
say yes every day thereafter.
409
00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,120
I'm going to start welling up.
I can't speak.
410
00:23:05,360 --> 00:23:06,640
I don't want... I'm trying to...
411
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,840
..I'm trying to be all macho,
ain't I?
412
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:14,520
I don't think he's an alpha.
413
00:23:16,120 --> 00:23:17,600
No.
414
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:19,840
Rebecca, I give you this ring.
415
00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:22,440
Wear it with joy
and as a symbol of our unity.
416
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,440
Bailey, I give you this ring with
sincerity
417
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,280
and as a symbol of our unity.
418
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:33,360
Bailey, Rebecca,
you may now share your first kiss.
419
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,160
No.
420
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:46,440
Like, a kiss on the mouth isn't
right for me at this stage.
421
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:52,440
Please join me in giving them your
warmest congratulations.
422
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,040
Thank you. Thank you.
423
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,880
I can't remember the last time I
was given the cheek, if I'm honest.
424
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:10,880
I wanted a kiss.
425
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:12,120
Oh, God, I don't know.
426
00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:14,200
Was that a first
par? Bloody hell.
427
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:21,000
I felt straight away there
was no real sexual pull.
428
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:25,120
I don't know if he'd be my type
that I'd gravitate to.
429
00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,280
I'm a man on a mission now.
430
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,120
I'm a man on a mission to get
a kiss.
431
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:32,960
Maybe a bit of tongue later.
432
00:24:41,360 --> 00:24:42,960
Oh, my God.
433
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:44,240
JULIA-RUTH LAUGHS
434
00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:47,000
The experts have definitely
got this right.
435
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:48,440
I've literally met someone
436
00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:51,320
that I didn't
truly believe ever existed.
437
00:24:51,360 --> 00:24:54,080
Ah. This looks really nice.
You know what?
438
00:24:54,120 --> 00:24:56,520
I think I can stay here
for a few nights.
439
00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:57,760
Cool.
440
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,280
I've been married
for less than 24 hours.
441
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:08,040
The lack of physical desire
does bother me a little bit.
442
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:11,160
I love someone
who is excited about life.
443
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:14,120
And I'm getting the impression
that Divarni is low energy.
444
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,240
Wow. Just different energy to mine.
445
00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:21,280
If I had to design my own house,
it would look like this.
446
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,400
Yeah? But it would have pillars
as well.
447
00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:26,880
Oh, pillars. I love...
I love a house with pillars.
448
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:31,920
I don't want a boring life.
I want to do fun things together.
449
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:33,880
Maybe that spark will come in time.
450
00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:36,080
Um, it hasn't really at the moment.
451
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:49,240
It's our final dinner
of the honeymoon.
452
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:50,800
I'm hoping to clear the air.
453
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:54,040
I've sort of had to think
about how I'm behaving.
454
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:55,320
I know that I've had moments
455
00:25:55,360 --> 00:25:59,280
where I could have been more open
and I could have put more effort in.
456
00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:01,880
So I want her to know that I'm going
to take on board what she said.
457
00:26:03,120 --> 00:26:04,680
We've had moments, I think,
458
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:06,640
where we've been sort of
up and down.
459
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:11,720
I've maybe realised
that there is an element of me
460
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:15,440
that is maybe a bit more distant
with you
461
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,800
because of things I've been through
in the past.
462
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:24,520
Subconsciously, I've built a wall
up so much since I've been single.
463
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,200
It's like I've turned a switch off
464
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,280
and I'm struggling to turn
that switch back on.
465
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,680
And that is why there's a bit
of me that's kind
466
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:33,880
of like kicking myself a little bit.
467
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,160
I'm like, "Why is that bit not
there?"
468
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:39,800
Yeah. Because, like, I am attracted
to you in a lot of ways.
469
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:46,320
What I really appreciate today
is me telling you
470
00:26:46,360 --> 00:26:48,160
that I feel like we need
to meet 50-50
471
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,040
and already you've gone away
472
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:53,080
and you've worked on
that straight away within hours.
473
00:26:53,120 --> 00:26:55,600
Do you know what I mean? Yeah.
See, I can be sweet.
474
00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:00,840
It makes me feel
like I'm definitely heard.
475
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,720
Thank you.
476
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,400
So I feel like she is trying.
477
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,160
No, I'll feed it to you.
I'm trying to be romantic.
478
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:12,360
Sorry. You asked for effort.
I'm giving you effort.
479
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:13,680
Mm-hm.
480
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:31,680
The sand on my feet... Ow!
I think I just stepped on a rock.
481
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:35,920
Thank you very much. Ow!
I've just kicked the table.
482
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,320
Oh. This is nice, isn't it? Yeah.
483
00:27:38,360 --> 00:27:40,720
Joe is a really nice guy.
484
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,440
I didn't
even know his name 24 hours ago,
485
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:47,960
and now I'm in this amazing place
in the Caribbean,
486
00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:51,760
I think,
and I'm having a really good time.
487
00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:56,800
Oh, fucking hell!
488
00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,800
Are you being a lady tonight?
489
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,120
SHE BURPS
490
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:06,040
I think the biggest stumbling block
about Maeve is she's got this big
491
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,440
sort of character that's almost
boisterous energy.
492
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,760
Ha-ha! Fuck me, that is strong, you
know. Oh!
493
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:14,720
But I feel like I need to get
494
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:16,600
to know each other on
a deeper level tonight.
495
00:28:21,120 --> 00:28:22,560
So you do love being a mum? Yeah.
496
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,760
Oh, yeah. The best feeling in the
world. Best feeling in the world.
497
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,240
I miss my son loads now.
498
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:30,880
Seeing his little face
in the morning,
499
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:34,680
like, oh, I just squeeze him. Like,
I wake up, like, ten minutes earlier
500
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,160
just to give him a cuddle. That's
nice. It's the best.
501
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:38,880
Honestly, man, he melts my heart.
502
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:41,000
Like, he is my best friend.
503
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:45,200
But there
are times when it is, like, hard.
504
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:48,280
Yeah. Because I've got
to be like the mam, the dad, like.
505
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:49,560
And obviously I had him at 20,
506
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,280
like, I've always been the person
that's provided,
507
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:53,760
like, paid all the bills
and everything.
508
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:57,280
Yeah.
So I am quite, like, independent.
509
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,720
See, I respect that massively. Yeah.
510
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:02,640
You are a caring person,
511
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,440
and I probably get
that vibe off you.
512
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,440
And that's exactly what I asked for.
Someone that's got a good heart.
513
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,000
And I genuinely do think you've got
a heart of gold. Honest.
514
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:11,400
Aww!
515
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:12,840
That is actually nice.
516
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,000
But I think you're put on this,
like...
517
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:23,160
..facade.
But I know there's a soft interior.
518
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:24,400
I can just see it.
519
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:29,760
I don't really open up to people.
It's like I am shit scared
520
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,920
of talking about how I actually
feel.
521
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:33,800
When people say
that I have got a soft side,
522
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,040
people do take the piss out of you,
523
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,160
and I don't want
that to happen again.
524
00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,720
But it's nice
that he actually listens to me.
525
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:41,280
I've never had that.
526
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,440
Here we are. Here we are.
Here we are.
527
00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:59,800
I definitely find
Julia-Ruth...attractive.
528
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:01,840
Getting to know her
throughout this honeymoon stage,
529
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:03,840
I feel
like it's just really confirming
530
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,040
what I've been looking
for a very long time.
531
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:11,840
So what was your first thought?
Or how did you feel
532
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:13,720
when you turned around
and you saw me?
533
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:17,480
When I turned around, and I saw you
all smiling and walking up,
534
00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:23,760
I was so happy. Nervous. But I was
stupid happy, man. Stupid.
535
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:25,920
You're absolutely beautiful.
536
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:30,800
That's really nice.
537
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:36,080
What was your thinking
when you saw me?
538
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,080
I was like flooded with
so many, like, emotions.
539
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:45,720
Excited and nervous. And it was...
It was a lot to take in.
540
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:46,840
You were very confident.
541
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,480
You were very calm
when I was nervous.
542
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:51,600
And I liked the fact
that we had a lot in common.
543
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:55,720
But,
544
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:56,800
um...
545
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:02,040
I think it is fair to say that there
546
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,720
was an expectation
maybe on, like, height.
547
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:12,360
I mean,
I have dated like taller guys.
548
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:13,520
Huh.
549
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:14,920
Mm-hm.
550
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,560
He just feels like
a really nice friend, at the moment.
551
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,600
I don't want to be mean to him.
552
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:33,560
Well.
553
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:44,160
That shocks me.
I'm not no basketball player.
554
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,320
Yeah, that hurt. Shit!
555
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:12,760
I definitely fancy her.
She's obviously gorgeous,
556
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:16,240
but I'm struggling to tell
where she's at a little bit.
557
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:17,560
This way for me.
558
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,120
We look good.
What do you reckon?
559
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:21,560
Do we? Yeah, I think we look good.
560
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:22,920
Yeah, I hope so.
561
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,960
Bailey is so complimentary of me,
562
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:31,160
but I just don't know if,
like, the fancying is there for me.
563
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:37,240
What's your type?
I like a real masculine energy.
564
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:39,240
Yeah. Sweet. Yeah.
What are you like with your mates?
565
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:41,240
I'm the loud one. Yeah.
I'm proper extroverted.
566
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,880
Yeah. What about you?
567
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:47,240
I'd say I'm like the leader of
the girls. Are you?
568
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,160
Yeah. We're both alphas, then, are
we?
569
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:52,560
See, I don't get that vibe at all.
What? From me?
570
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,880
Yeah. Do you not? No.
What am I giving? Beta vibes?
571
00:32:57,760 --> 00:32:59,720
What's going on?
I'm obviously the alpha.
572
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,760
Could I get a kiss for the camera?
Is that OK?
573
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,200
Please. I really don't feel like
the kissing now.
574
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:06,360
Can I kiss on the cheek?
575
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,080
Yeah, you can kiss on the cheek.
576
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:18,040
There we go.
577
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,280
I've got the cheek again,
but I can't work it out.
578
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:25,120
I can't believe it.
579
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,720
I don't think I see the
Type A character from him yet.
580
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:34,680
I don't know if we've got different
581
00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:36,960
definitions of
what an alpha might be.
582
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:45,360
You OK?
583
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:50,200
No. You'll be all right.
584
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:51,720
Hold on, hold on,
hold on. Don't move.
585
00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:54,080
Don't move it just yet.
We like the shaking.
586
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,120
Ah! Go on!
587
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:00,480
My feelings have definitely
588
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,400
progressed with Maeve.
I was a bit unsure at the wedding,
589
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:05,120
but just getting to know her
590
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,360
gradually, I'm getting signs
that Maeve's sort of letting me in.
591
00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:10,800
Oh, my God! Oh, my God! Oh, my God!
Fucking hell!
592
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,360
I nearly knocked myself out.
593
00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:15,480
I'm not doing that ever again.
Well done.
594
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,840
What I've found is the more time
that I'm spending with him,
595
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,560
I am starting to like him.
596
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:21,280
It's nice, isn't it,
to go out your comfort zone?
597
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:24,560
No! Well done. You smashed that!
598
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:27,240
That was the worst thing I've ever
done in my life.
599
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,280
You smashed it. I was crying at the
top.
600
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,960
Me other boyfriends that I've been
with are nothing compared to Joe.
601
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,480
Like, Joe makes me feel really
comfortable.
602
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:39,520
And he reassures me quite a lot.
603
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:41,720
But I've still got my guard
up massively,
604
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:44,680
so I don't want to give him 100%
just yet.
605
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:49,960
Fuck that!
606
00:34:58,440 --> 00:34:59,760
How are you feeling?
607
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:02,280
Um...
608
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:05,440
Not great. OK.
609
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:09,920
There's tension for sure.
610
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:10,960
When Julia-Ruth shared
611
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:13,200
her perspective on first thoughts at
the wedding,
612
00:35:13,240 --> 00:35:15,680
yeah, that hurt,
613
00:35:15,720 --> 00:35:17,840
but I'm still physically attracted
to her.
614
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,800
I'm emotionally attached to her
for sure,
615
00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,360
and I really want this
to work as much as possible.
616
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,520
I'll just let my character be bigger
and taller,
617
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:28,560
so that's where my mind's at,
618
00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,240
really and truly.
619
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,800
Just feel like there's still more
days left... Mm-hm.
620
00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:38,320
..to see where it's going to go.
Yeah.
621
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:42,400
Sometimes it's easier to adjust
to your partner's needs.
622
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:45,800
And I feel like it just depends
623
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:49,160
on circumstances,
situations, time.
624
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:53,480
Divarni is just boring.
625
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:56,320
I just want to, like,
let our hair down.
626
00:35:57,760 --> 00:35:59,280
So today I just want to see him,
like,
627
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:03,560
have fun with cooking Moroccan food.
And then maybe the physical
628
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:05,960
attraction would have come just
a little bit easier.
629
00:36:21,240 --> 00:36:23,640
This is me right now in my element.
Yeah.
630
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:27,280
Super happy. I love eating,
I love good food.
631
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,240
Lots of flavours. Spices.
632
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:36,320
Nice.
633
00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:43,320
I'm really trying to have fun.
634
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:48,160
But the conversation has been
a bit of a struggle.
635
00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:52,600
Can I borrow your knife? OK.
636
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,960
So, yeah, it's not ideal.
It's not fun.
637
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,640
Hello, everyone. All right. Hello.
638
00:37:24,720 --> 00:37:26,840
Oh! What do you reckon?
639
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:30,520
Yeah. I want to be punching.
640
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:37,120
What do you drink? Er, anything. Are
you...? Do you drink?
641
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:40,400
Do you drink? You do drink? Just not
like loads. OK, I don't drink loads.
642
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,080
But, um, no, a little bit.
Is it just because I said I drink?
643
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:44,840
No, no, I mean,
I actually don't drink loads.
644
00:37:46,720 --> 00:37:48,720
But, um. Yeah. Anything. Beer. Wine.
645
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:50,840
So do you drink a lot of them?
646
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:52,720
Not a lot. I feel like you're going
to lie to me.
647
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:55,280
No, no, not loads.
I'm a social drinker.
648
00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:00,080
Do you go out quite a lot? Not
like... What? Like, depends
649
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:01,600
what you mean. Socially - no.
650
00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:03,320
Like to watch the football at
the pub,
651
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:04,760
then a little bit, but, like,
652
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,240
it's like literally to do
that and go home.
653
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:10,280
You can say who you go out. No, no,
no,
654
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:15,360
I swear. I just want you
to tell me how you act like you are.
655
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:17,080
Like, I just want to get
to know you properly.
656
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:18,520
Do you know what I mean?
657
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:22,280
When somebody is an alpha,
658
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:24,440
they don't try too hard to be
like that.
659
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:28,240
Yeah, like fitness is like a big
part of my life.
660
00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,800
Yeah, I like training,
so I like being in the gym.
661
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,600
Always in the gym. I go every day.
I can never go a week without going.
662
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:38,240
I went, like, 24 days in the
in the month.
663
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:40,600
So, yeah, I'm always in the gym.
664
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,400
He's saying so much shit. I know.
665
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,440
HE SNORES
666
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,040
I do worry about the authenticity.
667
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:55,080
I'll be back.
668
00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:56,680
Oh, you're off, are you? I'm off.
669
00:38:56,720 --> 00:38:59,280
I'm going to go
and speak to your friends.
670
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:01,120
Wait, who are you speaking to? My
friends?
671
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:04,400
I'm not sure if Bailey
is being really real with me.
672
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:08,360
Hello there. So...
What do you want to know?
673
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:11,120
The goss. OK.
Tell me all the goss.
674
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,880
Fire away. Fire away.
Is he six foot four?
675
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:15,320
There's no way he's six four.
676
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:19,080
He's about six two
on a good day, I think.
677
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:26,480
So, he said to me
that he trained every day.
678
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,520
When he says train, he means he
does five press-ups in the morning.
679
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:33,000
It is a white lie.
It makes no sense to me.
680
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:35,000
I don't mind. I don't need someone
681
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:37,080
who goes to the gym
every single day.
682
00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:38,440
Just be honest.
683
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:42,080
What's he been like
in past relationships with people?
684
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:46,160
Oh, no!
685
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,600
No, no. The thing is...the thing is,
686
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:50,880
with his, er, his ex,
687
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:53,400
I can kind of see in ways, like,
688
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:56,920
how he, like, sort of changed
a little bit.
689
00:39:56,960 --> 00:39:58,560
He changed his dress sense a little
bit.
690
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:00,920
He changed his dress sense. Yeah.
To match the partner.
691
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,640
I think so. Really? Yeah.
692
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:06,240
Oh, no, I don't like that. Yeah.
I like someone who's just,
693
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,960
like, dead sure of themselves. Yeah,
yeah. Won't change for anyone.
694
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:12,240
I have got concerns around Bailey.
695
00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:16,240
An alpha doesn't change for anybody.
I want to get to know somebody
696
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:19,040
for who they are
and to fall in love with that.
697
00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:22,520
But he's putting on, like,
a bit of a show, and it worries me.
698
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,480
Right. What we got here?
I'm really looking forward
699
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,880
to having another night
with Joe tonight.
700
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:40,200
Are we liking it?
701
00:40:41,720 --> 00:40:43,000
Oh, wow.
702
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,880
I think I'm having
a really good time with him.
703
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:50,840
I want it. Burning me...me soul.
704
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:53,480
Fucking hell!
705
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:58,760
But it's really hard
when I start meeting someone
706
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:00,840
because I've always got
in the back of my mind
707
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:02,480
they're going to hurt you.
708
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:05,400
So I'm just trying to take it moment
by moment.
709
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:10,000
Today has been one of
the most craziest days of my life.
710
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:13,000
Zip-lining through a jungle.
It has been a lot, like.
711
00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,040
Yeah. How are you feeling
about everything?
712
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,800
I'm good. Yeah.
I think it's nice to see you,
713
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,720
like, do all this...this,
like, different shit.
714
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:24,200
But obviously you said
that you have, like, a guard up.
715
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:28,880
And I think when, like,
me and you were in the villa,
716
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:31,360
that's when,
like, your guard comes down.
717
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:32,760
But when we're more in,
718
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:35,200
like a public setting, it goes back
up again.
719
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:40,000
But it's my job
as a husband to sort of get
720
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:42,880
that guard down and really get
to know her more.
721
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:47,800
You've really pissed me off.
Why have I pissed you off?
722
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:50,240
Cos you have. For what reason?
You just have. Why?
723
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:52,560
Because I actually feel myself going
to kick off soon.
724
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:54,800
What do you mean?
I haven't said nothing. Yeah.
725
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:56,560
You're saying
that I don't fucking open up.
726
00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:59,160
Yeah, but you need to explain
what...
727
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:00,360
Do you know what I mean?
728
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:02,880
I just don't want everyone to see
that I'm like this.
729
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:05,280
Like what? Well, obviously, like,
I've got this big,
730
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:07,400
like, personality that I don't
give a fuck.
731
00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:09,720
And like, obviously, you know
that I've got a softer side.
732
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:11,360
I don't want everyone to see that.
733
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,480
Do you know what I mean?
That's part of your personality,
734
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:16,520
so why wouldn't you?
735
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:19,480
Cos I don't. Why do you care about
that? Cos I do.
736
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:20,560
For what? Yeah,
737
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:23,280
but that isn't a reason,
is it? Well, yeah. It is.
738
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:24,800
It's a very fucking valid reason.
739
00:42:26,240 --> 00:42:28,320
What? Because I do. Yeah.
740
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:39,560
I kept my guard up really,
really quick.
741
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:41,520
And that is the type of person
that I am.
742
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:43,480
I don't want anyone really
to see how vulnerable
743
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:46,120
I can be because I've been hurt
so many times.
744
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,920
But I feel like he's just said this
out of nowhere,
745
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:50,880
so me guard's gone straight back up.
746
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:55,280
I didn't want to piss you off, like.
747
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:57,240
Yeah, but you've actually hit a
nerve, though.
748
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:58,600
Why?
749
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:00,880
Because you have. For what reason?
Because you just have,
750
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:02,680
and I'm not going round and round
in circles.
751
00:43:02,720 --> 00:43:04,320
But you have just hit a nerve. Yeah,
752
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:05,920
but you've got to give a reason
for it.
753
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:12,480
What? Oh, right. Right.
Go on. You're pissing me off.
754
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:15,680
Why? Cos you're fucking are, man.
You actually fucking are.
755
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,200
I just want her to feel more
connected to me.
756
00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:27,760
And my main concern is
757
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:30,120
that we don't actually get there
in the end.
758
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,560
I'm feeling a little
uneasy right now.
759
00:43:57,600 --> 00:43:59,560
Like her not, like, opening
up as much.
760
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:01,640
It's something that I felt
that I had to brought up.
761
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,800
When I have a few drinks, I get
in my head a little bit,
762
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,120
and little things just trigger me.
763
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,800
And I flew off the handle
for no reason.
764
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,200
I never liked to say I'm
in the wrong about anything,
765
00:44:17,240 --> 00:44:18,680
even when I am in the wrong,
766
00:44:18,720 --> 00:44:21,480
but I need
to tell him how I'm really feeling.
767
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:29,520
You know, last night was a lot,
wasn't it?
768
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:31,760
Yeah. I mean...
769
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,960
..I feel like it's not really
resolved what I was saying.
770
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:37,760
Do you know what it is?
I don't want people to see that
771
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:39,720
I've got that softer side.
772
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:43,240
I do struggle opening up, and,
like, even just opening up to you
773
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:45,960
about little things
like that's massive for me.
774
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:49,240
I honestly,
I hate feeling vulnerable,
775
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:50,440
but I just feel like every time
776
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:53,640
when I let more people in,
that's when I get fucked over more.
777
00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:54,840
Yeah.
778
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:58,000
So that's
why I'm always a bit of a...dick.
779
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:00,840
But I wouldn't...
I'm not going to fuck you over.
780
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:01,920
Do you know what I mean?
781
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:05,880
No need to worry about it.
782
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:09,680
Everyone else has,
though. So do you know what I mean?
783
00:45:09,720 --> 00:45:10,880
Yeah,
784
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:14,480
yeah, I do. I do.
But I did feel bad.
785
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:15,680
You don't actually need to.
786
00:45:15,720 --> 00:45:19,360
It was just like a misunderstanding,
and it's fine.
787
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:26,120
He's making me feel really, like,
really reassured about everything.
788
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:29,480
Like, he's the kindest soul
that I've actually ever met.
789
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:30,880
And I feel like no matter
what I say,
790
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:32,280
he's not going to judge us.
791
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:35,400
So I do think I'm going to be
a little bit more open with him.
792
00:45:36,720 --> 00:45:40,440
I'm just trying to, like,
learn about you.
793
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:43,320
I feel closer to you now than I did
before.
794
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:45,520
I feel more comfortable around you.
795
00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:49,840
We've just got to take
a day at a time, though, haven't we?
796
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:51,960
And that's what I think.
And to be fair,
797
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:53,520
I was pretty scared at what,
798
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:54,880
like, drunk you were
going to be like.
799
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:57,720
But you weren't that bad.
That wasn't anything.
800
00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:58,800
That was literally just
801
00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:00,760
me saying I needed
to get away from you.
802
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:01,840
Like that was... I was scared
803
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:04,480
for my safety, to be fair.
Shut up, man!
804
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:14,760
Your friends were very telling
about how you are.
805
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:15,920
Yeah. In a good way.
806
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:22,280
They said that you don't go to the
gym... Blud...!
807
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:25,440
And...you're not six foot four.
808
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:29,320
That's wild.
809
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:34,120
Everything I've
said has been total truth.
810
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:37,040
Total truth. Honestly.
811
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:41,720
I want you to be 100% you.
That's so important to me.
812
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:43,200
Like,
I want you to just be yourself.
813
00:46:43,240 --> 00:46:44,800
I feel I've always been true
of myself.
814
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:46,080
Your friends didn't say that.
815
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:50,840
They said
that when you was with an ex...
816
00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:53,520
Yeah. ..she dressed quite quirky.
817
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:57,920
And they said that you, like,
matched that.
818
00:46:57,960 --> 00:46:59,800
Yeah. And you dressed in a similar
way. Yeah,
819
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:01,160
that's probably a bit more true.
820
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:03,720
I don't want you to change at
all for me.
821
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:13,840
But I wouldn't see it changing.
I would see it growing with someone.
822
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,800
I think I've grown from all of
my past relationships,
823
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:21,120
and it's kind of made me
into the person I am today.
824
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:23,480
I think, like, I want to meet
someone that I can grow with
825
00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:25,760
and they can grow with me,
and I think that's healthy.
826
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:28,240
OK.
827
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:32,040
He seems like he's got the gift of
the gab.
828
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,840
I just want to make sure
that the person I'm with,
829
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:36,200
and they're really sure
of themselves
830
00:47:36,240 --> 00:47:39,520
and they don't change for an ex
or anybody else.
831
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:41,280
Come on then, let's cheers.
Cheers. Cheers.
832
00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:44,560
Oh, no!
833
00:47:45,720 --> 00:47:46,760
Come on.
834
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:57,120
This is nice.
Got the honeymoon suite, look.
835
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,600
So we need to discuss
836
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:02,720
the sleeping arrangements.
Oh, yeah. Yeah.
837
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:03,760
What are your thoughts?
838
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:09,840
Uh, yeah, it's up to you, babe,
yeah.
839
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:13,320
I can take the sofa.
I'm very much a gentleman.
840
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:14,960
It's up to you.
Totally up to you. Yeah.
841
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:19,680
OK. I mean,
842
00:48:19,720 --> 00:48:22,240
if you're happy to sleep on
the sofa, that'd be great.
843
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:27,800
I just want, like, a clear... Yeah.
..divide between us,
844
00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:30,560
just for now. Yeah,
we can certainly get on, yeah.
845
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:34,320
Yeah. Is that OK with you?
Yeah. That's fine. Yeah.
846
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:35,880
Good.
847
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:39,800
I was not expecting
that in the slightest, but I'm
848
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:41,680
still interested,
don't get me wrong.
849
00:48:41,720 --> 00:48:43,400
I think there's still
something there to work on.
850
00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:46,720
See you in the morning, wifey.
851
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:49,240
Goodnight. Night.
852
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:54,040
I'm just not there yet.
It's so early on.
853
00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:56,920
I don't know if I've, like,
met the real him yet.
854
00:48:57,960 --> 00:48:59,120
I need to build that connection
855
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:01,360
before I can
be physically intimate with him.
856
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:22,920
We've got a nice milk... Milk bath.
857
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:24,880
It says, "I heart you."
858
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:26,200
I thought it said, "Joe."
859
00:49:26,240 --> 00:49:27,280
SHE LAUGHS
860
00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:31,920
I definitely think the argument's
brought us closer together.
861
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:34,520
It was important
that Maeve sort of opened up.
862
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:35,600
I do feel like we are
863
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:38,000
understanding each other more
and more every day.
864
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:41,040
Cheers for the last day. Cheers.
865
00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:42,520
Feeling great after last night.
866
00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:45,080
Me and Maeve had a really nice time
when we got to the villa.
867
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:48,280
We really did get to know each other
on a deeper level.
868
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:50,600
One thing led to another,
and that's it.
869
00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:52,200
That's all I'm saying.
870
00:49:52,240 --> 00:49:53,720
Oh, God!
871
00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:57,040
I can...tell you now,
872
00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,200
that is definitely more than a good
body.
873
00:49:59,240 --> 00:50:02,040
He is a very... He's a good time
guy.
874
00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,120
Hello. Hello. Hi.
How are you? Good. Thanks.
875
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:18,960
How are you doing? Yes.
876
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:22,880
At the moment, I feel
like it's feeling really awkward.
877
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,680
Hey. Whoa. That's mad.
878
00:50:25,720 --> 00:50:29,120
Today I just want us to have lots
of laughs and trying to focus on,
879
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:31,200
like,
the good things and the energy.
880
00:50:31,240 --> 00:50:33,120
Whoa!
881
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:34,800
Jeez.
882
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:38,920
Yo.
883
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:42,120
I didn't envision my honeymoon to be
like this,
884
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:45,160
but marriage, just as we all know,
it's not going to be easy.
885
00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:46,880
Ultimately, this is just another
opportunity just
886
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:48,000
to get close to my wife.
887
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:51,560
And I still strongly believe
that we can get over this hump.
888
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:55,280
You hear that? Pure silence.
889
00:50:57,840 --> 00:50:58,880
That's nice.
890
00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:02,040
That's really nice.
891
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:11,560
Oh, look at that.
892
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:14,880
Are you, like, a scenic person?
893
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:18,320
Like views and all of that? Yeah?
Yeah.
894
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:22,920
I actually did very well in the
subject
895
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:26,200
of earth and space in school.
896
00:51:26,240 --> 00:51:27,280
OK.
897
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:30,080
This is quite hard.
898
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:31,600
I'm struggling with
the conversation.
899
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:34,960
Kind of just live a fearless life.
900
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:37,680
I just kind of just step into
901
00:51:37,720 --> 00:51:40,080
the unknown,
whatever that looks like. Mm.
902
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:42,840
How I've grown up,
903
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:47,000
I've always been a protector or just
a facilitator, keeping the peace.
904
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:48,080
Mm.
905
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:52,160
Are you afraid of heights? Nah. No?
No. Are you?
906
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:53,720
No, no, no, no. Yeah?
907
00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:58,480
Do you have any, like, fears?
908
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:00,440
Like, what scares you the most?
909
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:03,760
Growing up, I was always alone,
even with my whole family.
910
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:06,240
And I think knowing
that I could potentially be alone
911
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:09,320
for the rest of my life,
that would be the worst.
912
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:11,480
Yeah.
913
00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:15,240
That's not what I meant at all.
914
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,840
With Divarni, it is quite difficult
to find
915
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:20,720
the fun light-hearted side
and just be a bit carefree.
916
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:24,440
Yeah, it's just too deep. I don't
know.
917
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:26,360
I think the worst thing is
that I've always went
918
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:29,000
through life questioning
why certain things happened.
919
00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:32,720
It's always hit and misses.
That's a strange way to look at it.
920
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:34,240
No. Not really.
921
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:37,720
No-one caters to me. That shit
sucks.
922
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:41,760
He doesn't see any positives
or, like, that with me,
923
00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:42,800
it's just like...
924
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:46,240
It's like...it's just too much.
925
00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:48,000
You focus on the negative.
926
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:50,000
You're saying it sucked.
927
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:52,920
You sit in the negativity
and you attract negativity
928
00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:56,160
and draw negativity
and it will keep coming back.
929
00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:01,840
Camel ride was a disaster.
930
00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:07,240
It's just hard. It just feels like
it's...
931
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:09,600
Just, like, a lot of negativity.
932
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,320
I can't...I can't lift us both up.
933
00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:13,400
I can't.
934
00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:21,440
This is definitely one of
935
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:23,120
the hardest
challenges I've been through.
936
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:25,720
And I don't want it to be translated
that the information
937
00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:28,120
that I was given was from a negative
place.
938
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:30,080
It was more of just me opening up.
939
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:37,720
How you doing?
940
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:39,920
OK.
941
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:42,480
HE CLEARS THROAT
942
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:49,920
It's pretty intense. Mm-hm.
Very much intense.
943
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:53,400
I just feel like what I needed
was just a little bit of positivity
944
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:56,400
and fun so we can
feel the attraction.
945
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:59,760
But on the camels,
it was just like I sat there
946
00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:03,360
and you literally spat out one thing
after another.
947
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:04,840
I don't want you to feel you can't
948
00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:07,480
open up to me, cos that's not
what the case is.
949
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:11,880
There just needs to be a balance and
like a time and a place for things.
950
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:17,160
So, I came into this experiment
to find my person,
951
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:21,040
have someone that I can, as well
as having fun,
952
00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:26,000
off-load to, and someone
that ultimately understands me.
953
00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:27,440
It wasn't intentional to put you
954
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:29,400
in that situation where it was like,
955
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,680
"Damn, I'm trying to be Mr
Negative."
956
00:54:31,720 --> 00:54:34,480
It was just something
that hit me in that moment,
957
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:37,600
and I was just pouring out the
feelings.
958
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:40,840
But the way you say things,
959
00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:44,200
it's just like a tornado
of negativity.
960
00:54:44,240 --> 00:54:47,160
And it's hard to want to be intimate
961
00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:49,840
and grow and develop something
when everything is
962
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:52,000
so intense and so deep.
963
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:53,760
The last thing I want to do is have
964
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:56,600
a talk about traumas and then, like,
get into bed with you.
965
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:07,240
Maybe, like, just for tonight,
966
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:09,280
we'll just do separate rooms,
just to be clear.
967
00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:10,400
And then tomorrow we'll, like,
968
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:13,920
regroup and just start like a fresh
new day and like a clean slate.
969
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:19,640
Shit.
That's how I'm honestly feeling.
970
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:20,720
Um...
971
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:24,360
I feel like I've just been attacked.
972
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:27,000
The thing that hurt me the most
is sleeping in separate rooms.
973
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:30,480
But if she needs her space,
I'll give her space.
974
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:33,080
There's trouble in paradise, innit?
975
00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:44,280
Next time...
976
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:47,160
I know what I want and what I don't
want, it has to be right.
977
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:51,760
..one more couple says I do.
but expectations...
978
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:56,120
I would like to be matched
with someone who is a silver fox.
979
00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:57,400
Sense of humour.
980
00:55:57,440 --> 00:55:59,200
..are quickly tested.
981
00:55:59,240 --> 00:56:00,880
Well, here's my version.
982
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:01,960
Oh, you're joking!
983
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:05,520
He's not the silver fox I had
in mind.
984
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:09,280
Bailey seeks a more
intimate connection.
985
00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:12,560
I feel more comfortable now with my
hands on you than off you.
986
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:15,360
I personally wouldn't kiss somebody
as soon as I've met them.
987
00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:17,280
That's just a bit too soon for me.
988
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:19,640
And for Julia-Ruth and Divarni...
989
00:56:19,680 --> 00:56:21,320
Divarni and I slept separately.
990
00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:22,880
I haven't seen him since.
991
00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:24,960
..the road to a honeymoon reunion...
992
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:28,000
You don't really get a second chance
with a woman like that.
993
00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:29,400
..is heading for a dead end.
994
00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:31,680
This is not how I wanted
my honeymoon to go.
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