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Marriage, to me, means everything. Previously...

I am extremely excited. This is the most

spontaneous thing I've actually ever done.

..four more courageous singles said I do to a stranger.

I'm extremely nervous.

I want an epic love story.

Whilst romance sparked for one couple...

It's love at first sight. ..for the other...

What are you like when you're drunk? ..one bride's party spirit...

Wild, argumentative. Argumentative?

..raised concerns for her groom.

She is more fiery than I'm used to.

That is a worry.

And for Leigh and Leah... I just want to go home.

..struggles on the slopes...

I might have a panic attack. I'm not joking.

..landed them in honeymoon hell.

She doesn't understand the severity of things until it gets too far.

I've ballsed up, haven't I?

SHE SOBS

Tonight... I don't struggle to meet women.

I just haven't met the right person. ..two more bold singles...

I'm attracted to the alpha male.

I won't settle for anything less.

..meet and marry at first sight.

Hi. But one bride's rigid expectations...

I can't tell whether he's an alpha or not.

..bring a bitter disappointment. He's not my type.

You may now share your first kiss.

I can't remember the last time I was given the cheek, if I'm honest.

Is that a first par? Bloody hell.

Four more newlyweds...

"It's time for your honeymoon. The magical Morocco."

..set off on their romantic escape.

I cannot wait to get wavy, like.

Joe's worst fears become reality. You really pissed me off.

Why? Cos you BLEEP are, man. You actually BLEEP are.

And Divarni's negative conversations... Knowing that I

could potentially be alone for the rest of my life.

That would be the worst.

..unleash tension...

Everything is so intense and so deep.

..that tears their honeymoon apart.

The last thing I want to do is have a talk about our traumas and then,

like, get into bed with you.

There's trouble in paradise, isn't it?

It's hot. God, I'm sweating here.

I cannot wait to get in the pool. Pina colada?

Pina colada. Cannot wait to get wavy, like.

I'm still not 100% too certain

where we are, but it's absolutely amazing.

Oh, my God.

Champagne. Do you want some? Of course I do.

Jamaica. Is that right? Caribbean?

I don't actually know.

I don't know.

This... We've got our own pool, haven't we? ..is insane.

I can't wait to jump in there. It don't feel real to me.

Na. You know what I mean?

I still haven't come to terms with that

I'm actually married.

Obviously, there are things I do like about Maeve,

but my first impressions were,

I wasn't really sure if she is what I needed.

A few bevvies? Can't wait.

She came across big, brash personality. Um, yeah.

And I just think it's going to take some time just

to see if she isn't just a party girl.

But I guess we'll find out.

So, like, one thing I might be concerned

about is obviously when we're both drinking...

Yeah. ..how we're going to, like, be with each other.

Because obviously you said you were like,

proper argumentative and shit when you're pissed.

So... I'm all right.

But the more I drink, the more, like, cheeky I get. Yeah.

The more looking to, like, push your buttons I get.

Cos you've calmed down.

You know what I mean? And, like, that's what I want to be like.

So maybe you might possibly be the one to try it.

Well, calm us down, hopefully

Do you think that'll happen?

Right now, probably not.

I've always sworn by treat them mean,

keep them keen.

If you can handle me at my worst, you can have me at my best.

The more time I'm spending with Joe, I'm starting to like him.

And I feel like he's a very easy person to talk to.

But I still have my guard up.

In my past relationships, I have been walked all over.

What can go wrong?

Get a couple of drinks down us and we'll sharp find out.

Got you a little hot chocolate.

I'll hold, you pour.

OK. So the honeymoon.

it has been up and down in terms of where we're at.

She has been a bit aggy and stuff with me.

It's emotionally draining. I do feel like I'm giving more.

And I want her to know that.

I feel like at this point...

..I feel like I'm maybe trying a little bit harder.

Are you?

I'm always attentive with you.

I'm like, "Do you want this? Do you want that?

"You look nice." Constantly giving you compliments.

For me, I need a little bit of, like, flirtiness back.

I don't want to flirt with you because,

like, that part for me is just, like, not there yet.

I don't want to rush myself.

But you could be a little bit more flirty, I think.

"Oh, Leah, your hair looks nice today.

"Oh, Leah, I like the way you're wearing your rings."

OK. Do we want to just dig me out, how fucking awful I am?

I feel like we're in this experiment.

We need to, like,

push ourselves more than we would in the outside world.

We have to meet in the middle if we want it to try and work.

Do you know what I mean?

I know I'm not her type, but also she's not my type.

I still can have a flirt and have a joke with her.

Is she open to giving a little bit more?

Because if it's not, I can't

see myself going through this process.

It's just a waste of time for me.

Do you want to go and play in the snow?

No.

God, no, no.

Back in the UK... Close them!

Julia-Ruth and Divarni are waking

up to their first morning as a married couple.

How did you sleep? Fantastic. How was yours?

Hey, listen, I put my head on the pillow and I was gone.

First night with my wife was very romantic.

When I opened my eyes this morning, I thought I was dreaming.

My wife is a very beautiful woman. I'm very attracted to her.

I couldn't ask for anything better. So it was it was good.

It was just super, super, super-duper comfortable.

OK. Good.

I feel like the wedding was such a high,

but I have woken up with like a different thought this morning.

I'm quite an openly sexual person, but I'm not having that desire.

So I do think that I just want to take things slowly

and at our pace and just build from there.

"Julia-Ruth and Divarni, congratulations.

"We hope you enjoyed your first night as newlyweds.

"Now it's time for your honeymoon in the magical Morocco,

"the perfect setting for an enchanting love story to begin."

I'm screaming. I love that.

We're going to Morocco!

I didn't get the initial spark that I was hoping for with Divarni.

Let's try and make the most of being on the honeymoon and see if it grows.

Morocco! Morocco, here we come.

Oh, I'm here for it.

Morocco! Morocco! We're excited.

We're ready. As Julia-Ruth and Divarni

jet off on honeymoon,

another hopeful single is ready to put her trust in the experts.

I'm ready. I'm excited.

Let's go, guys.

I'm successful,

fiercely independent...

..and determined.

Three, two, one.

LAUGHTER

The gym's a huge part of my life. I love to feel healthy.

I love to feel strong.

And I think that's why I'm attracted to the alpha male.

I'm attracted to the big man that can lead me by the hand.

Are we ready? Mm-hm. Lovely.

I'm an aesthetics nurse and I run my own clinic from home.

I absolutely love my job.

I've managed to build a business

on my own from the ground up. It's thriving.

Is that OK? You're feeling all right? And I'm so proud of that.

Because I know that it's me who's achieved that.

When you're entrepreneurial,

you strive for more all the time.

My standards are very high.

I like things to be in order, and I like things to look nice.

I won't settle

for anything less than perfection in my life,

and I feel the same about my relationships.

I was with my ex-partner for eight years and we got engaged,

and a little while after that I broke off the engagement.

When he proposed,

there was something inside me

that was saying, "I'm not sure if this is 100% right."

Making the decision that I made to break off

the engagement obviously changed the course of my life,

but changed me as a person. Yeah, it was

heartbreaking for us all, you know,

because we just...we just thought that was your course to be on.

There is somebody out there

that is just going to be perfect for what you want.

I have a really clear idea of the type of person that I want,

the values that I want him to have,

the way that I want him to live his life,

and what would work well for me in that sense.

And I haven't ever felt that before.

I want to be with a partner and think,

"This is everything that I've ever wanted."

So if you found somebody that wasn't your type,

would you be willing to put the work in and the effort

in if he didn't tick those boxes straight away?

I feel like I'm the type of person that needs them

boxes ticked instantly.

And if they're not, in my mind I think, "It's not going to work.

"It's not going to work. Just move on."

I'm attracted to the alpha male.

Somebody tall,

confident, and who's sure of themselves.

I want him to have really strong family values

and want to have a family in the future with me.

I want him to be kind

and respectful, to have a lot of get up and go.

And to be really funny.

I'm really ready to find the one.

And something as crazy and as wild

as this feels like the right next step.

I have got 100% hit rate in my flirting.

Listen, don't ask my friends what they say, just ask me.

It's 100%.

We never thought we'd see the day that Bailey gets married.

I always thought I'd get married.

Like, chill out on that.

Everyone grows up. I'm not like a massive flirt any more.

Much. A little bit.

BAILEY LAUGHS

If there was a dating review website,

I think I'd have five stars. I think I'm a catch.

Yeah, I mean, yeah, look at me. I enjoy being tall.

I think that is such a good trait

when you're trying to approach women.

I've got to put my height on a dating app.

I put, "Hi, I'm 6'4".

Yeah. "Remember, I'm 6'4"."

I'm definitely an extrovert.

I'm just loud, so I end up being centre of attention.

I like to think of myself somewhat as an entrepreneur.

I'm kind of like the Richard Branson of Brighton.

I own a microbrewery. It helps me on dates loads.

I mean, if I'm in a bar that sells the beer,

it'd be like, "Oh, oh, they sell my beer here, do they?"

Like I didn't know already. Works a charm, you see.

That works a treat.

My beer is named after my gorgeous little daughter.

Wow. Look at that.

You ready? Here we go.

Becoming a dad is the best thing I've ever done.

She's the most important person in my life.

I just have another level to love with Bluebell.

Who's your best friend? You. Who's my best friend?

Me. Yeah!

Family is super important to me.

I split up with my daughter's mother,

and it was something I never wanted to do.

We came to kind of the harsh reality that we would be happier separated.

I do want more kids one day,

so I think that makes it even more important

to be in a strong relationship and to be really close with my partner.

Be really sure about them.

Why is love so important to you now?

Oh! Love means everything to me.

I'd love to be married. I'd love to start building a future,

maybe build on my family and have a family together.

All of these things are important to me.

But the right person,

someone I could see forever with. Just a team-mate.

Like, someone to bring out the best in me.

And then I can hopefully do that with her. Yeah.

I'm looking for sparks.

Honesty, kindness,

entrepreneurial spirit.

I think there's that fairy tale out there for everyone.

And, yeah, I'm here searching for mine.

Rebecca and Bailey are a fascinating couple.

Let's start with Rebecca,

who is possibly one of our trickiest brides to match.

She's confident, career driven, a high achiever,

and she demands perfection in all aspects of her life,

including her partner. She wants a husband with an alpha

personality who can match her energy and drive.

It's a very high bar,

but I think we may have cracked it with Bailey.

He's an entrepreneur, self-assured, a leader in his peer group,

and he radiates charm and confidence.

Absolutely. Bailey is a big personality,

but Rebecca's direct

and honest characteristics will keep him on his toes.

And they both have a genuine love of family,

which, as a loving father, is a crucial quality for Bailey.

And let's not forget,

they are both highly active and extroverts

who love the company of other people,

so they should really

bounce off each other's positive energy.

If the spark ignites for these two, there could be fireworks.

Rebecca and Bailey.

I just want there to be like that spark and that connection.

And then I look at him and I'm like, "Oh, OK."

Do you feel like when you see him, you'll know? Yeah.

Straight away? Yeah.

I'll know within ten seconds. I'm just that type of person,

though, aren't I?

You do need to give people a chance as well.

Rebecca likes everything her own way.

And, you know, she's got certain standards

that she wants everybody to live up to.

But she does maybe need to compromise a little bit.

I want somebody who, like, is a typical alpha guy.

I'm always attracted to, like, the tallest guys.

I hope he's well dressed, clean, big feet,

gym bod, a six pack, discipline, and they work really hard.

I would say you're picky. You have got your standards.

You have, and you know what you want.

God, it feels so real now you're here.

I didn't sleep at all last night.

What, nervous? No. I'm ready, I'm ready.

I can't believe it.

The day is here. I'm about to be a husband.

I'm going to have a wife. I can't wait to meet her.

Get me down that aisle. She might not like you.

Are you worried about that at all?

No, I'm not worried about that.

She'll love me. Like, it's fine.

I'm obviously Mr Confident. I'm not used to people not fancying me.

I get a lot of numbers, get a lot of dates.

Is she going to be in love as soon as she sees me?

He's always confident. A bit too confident at times.

Try and crack on with her for the first night.

What and she's... If she's not feeling it...

Yeah. ..how would you react to that? I don't know.

Listen, I'm not even thinking about it.

It's never happened.

I definitely am looking to settle down.

I just haven't met the right person.

I want to call someone my wife.

And I want to be with someone forever.

Hello, hello.

All right? Hi. How's it going? Hello.

HE LAUGHS

What's your name? I'm Bailey. Bailey?

Yeah. Nice to meet you all. You all look lovely.

Thank you.

Rebecca knows what she wants.

So I will know from Rebecca's face if this is not her dream man.

I'm picturing, like, a man who's got, like,

stature about him.

I want him to be a dominant figure.

I've walked away from something

before because I didn't want to settle.

And if they don't tick enough boxes

for me straight away...

..I will say how I feel.

How's it going? You all right? Hi.

HE LAUGHS

How are you? Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you, too. I'm Rebecca.

Hi, Rebecca. I'm Bailey. Nice to meet you.

Bailey? Yeah.

You look lovely. Thank you so much. So do you.

She's absolutely stunning. I can't believe it.

She's right up my street. She's a bit of me.

God, you look lovely, by the way. Really lovely.

Yeah, honestly. Yeah. Very happy. Big smiles.

Look at me. I'm like a Cheshire cat.

How tall are you? 6'4". 6'4"?!

Yeah. Is that all right?

He's not 6'4".

I guess 6'1".

I said I would know within ten seconds.

And alarm bells are going off in my head.

He's not my type.

Oh, God.

Thank you, all, for

coming to celebrate this very special occasion.

Now, in these beautiful surroundings,

we come to the vows which

Rebecca and Bailey have written to each other.

I always tell my friends that first dates should be casual.

Nothing too fancy. Don't overdress.

And whatever you do, never talk about marriage.

But, well, here we are. Nice to meet you.

But in all seriousness, I vow to be your biggest fan,

your supportive team-mate and your personal comedian.

Always there to make you smile when you need cheering up.

So here's to laughter...

..happiness and, who knows,

hopefully - one day - love.

So let's do this.

To my husband...

..never in a million years did I think I'd stand

in front of a stranger and agree to marry them.

I decided this year was the year that I would say yes to everything,

to every opportunity,

to every invitation, but more importantly to you.

I want to get to know the real you.

I know we may go through tough times together,

but all I ask... I'm going to cry.

..all I ask is that you try to love me...

Sorry.

..that you try to love me just as I am.

Please just accept me

and let me show you how magical life can be

with me by your side.

Excuse me.

So to my husband, I say yes to you today.

And hopefully I will say yes every day thereafter.

I'm going to start welling up. I can't speak.

I don't want... I'm trying to...

..I'm trying to be all macho, ain't I?

I don't think he's an alpha.

No.

Rebecca, I give you this ring.

Wear it with joy and as a symbol of our unity.

Bailey, I give you this ring with sincerity

and as a symbol of our unity.

Bailey, Rebecca, you may now share your first kiss.

No.

Like, a kiss on the mouth isn't right for me at this stage.

Please join me in giving them your warmest congratulations.

Thank you. Thank you.

I can't remember the last time I was given the cheek, if I'm honest.

I wanted a kiss.

Oh, God, I don't know.

Was that a first par? Bloody hell.

I felt straight away there was no real sexual pull.

I don't know if he'd be my type that I'd gravitate to.

I'm a man on a mission now.

I'm a man on a mission to get a kiss.

Maybe a bit of tongue later.

Oh, my God.

JULIA-RUTH LAUGHS

The experts have definitely got this right.

I've literally met someone

that I didn't truly believe ever existed.

Ah. This looks really nice. You know what?

I think I can stay here for a few nights.

Cool.

I've been married for less than 24 hours.

The lack of physical desire does bother me a little bit.

I love someone who is excited about life.

And I'm getting the impression that Divarni is low energy.

Wow. Just different energy to mine.

If I had to design my own house, it would look like this.

Yeah? But it would have pillars as well.

Oh, pillars. I love... I love a house with pillars.

I don't want a boring life. I want to do fun things together.

Maybe that spark will come in time.

Um, it hasn't really at the moment.

It's our final dinner of the honeymoon.

I'm hoping to clear the air.

I've sort of had to think about how I'm behaving.

I know that I've had moments

where I could have been more open and I could have put more effort in.

So I want her to know that I'm going to take on board what she said.

We've had moments, I think,

where we've been sort of up and down.

I've maybe realised that there is an element of me

that is maybe a bit more distant with you

because of things I've been through in the past.

Subconsciously, I've built a wall up so much since I've been single.

It's like I've turned a switch off

and I'm struggling to turn that switch back on.

And that is why there's a bit of me that's kind

of like kicking myself a little bit.

I'm like, "Why is that bit not there?"

Yeah. Because, like, I am attracted to you in a lot of ways.

What I really appreciate today is me telling you

that I feel like we need to meet 50-50

and already you've gone away

and you've worked on that straight away within hours.

Do you know what I mean? Yeah. See, I can be sweet.

It makes me feel like I'm definitely heard.

Thank you.

So I feel like she is trying.

No, I'll feed it to you. I'm trying to be romantic.

Sorry. You asked for effort. I'm giving you effort.

Mm-hm.

The sand on my feet... Ow! I think I just stepped on a rock.

Thank you very much. Ow! I've just kicked the table.

Oh. This is nice, isn't it? Yeah.

Joe is a really nice guy.

I didn't even know his name 24 hours ago,

and now I'm in this amazing place in the Caribbean,

I think, and I'm having a really good time.

Oh, fucking hell!

Are you being a lady tonight?

SHE BURPS

I think the biggest stumbling block about Maeve is she's got this big

sort of character that's almost boisterous energy.

Ha-ha! Fuck me, that is strong, you know. Oh!

But I feel like I need to get

to know each other on a deeper level tonight.

So you do love being a mum? Yeah.

Oh, yeah. The best feeling in the world. Best feeling in the world.

I miss my son loads now.

Seeing his little face in the morning,

like, oh, I just squeeze him. Like, I wake up, like, ten minutes earlier

just to give him a cuddle. That's nice. It's the best.

Honestly, man, he melts my heart.

Like, he is my best friend.

But there are times when it is, like, hard.

Yeah. Because I've got to be like the mam, the dad, like.

And obviously I had him at 20,

like, I've always been the person that's provided,

like, paid all the bills and everything.

Yeah. So I am quite, like, independent.

See, I respect that massively. Yeah.

You are a caring person,

and I probably get that vibe off you.

And that's exactly what I asked for. Someone that's got a good heart.

And I genuinely do think you've got a heart of gold. Honest.

Aww!

That is actually nice.

But I think you're put on this, like...

..facade. But I know there's a soft interior.

I can just see it.

I don't really open up to people. It's like I am shit scared

of talking about how I actually feel.

When people say that I have got a soft side,

people do take the piss out of you,

and I don't want that to happen again.

But it's nice that he actually listens to me.

I've never had that.

Here we are. Here we are. Here we are.

I definitely find Julia-Ruth...attractive.

Getting to know her throughout this honeymoon stage,

I feel like it's just really confirming

what I've been looking for a very long time.

So what was your first thought? Or how did you feel

when you turned around and you saw me?

When I turned around, and I saw you all smiling and walking up,

I was so happy. Nervous. But I was stupid happy, man. Stupid.

You're absolutely beautiful.

That's really nice.

What was your thinking when you saw me?

I was like flooded with so many, like, emotions.

Excited and nervous. And it was... It was a lot to take in.

You were very confident.

You were very calm when I was nervous.

And I liked the fact that we had a lot in common.

But,

um...

I think it is fair to say that there

was an expectation maybe on, like, height.

I mean, I have dated like taller guys.

Huh.

Mm-hm.

He just feels like a really nice friend, at the moment.

I don't want to be mean to him.

Well.

That shocks me. I'm not no basketball player.

Yeah, that hurt. Shit!

I definitely fancy her. She's obviously gorgeous,

but I'm struggling to tell where she's at a little bit.

This way for me.

We look good. What do you reckon?

Do we? Yeah, I think we look good.

Yeah, I hope so.

Bailey is so complimentary of me,

but I just don't know if, like, the fancying is there for me.

What's your type? I like a real masculine energy.

Yeah. Sweet. Yeah. What are you like with your mates?

I'm the loud one. Yeah. I'm proper extroverted.

Yeah. What about you?

I'd say I'm like the leader of the girls. Are you?

Yeah. We're both alphas, then, are we?

See, I don't get that vibe at all. What? From me?

Yeah. Do you not? No. What am I giving? Beta vibes?

What's going on? I'm obviously the alpha.

Could I get a kiss for the camera? Is that OK?

Please. I really don't feel like the kissing now.

Can I kiss on the cheek?

Yeah, you can kiss on the cheek.

There we go.

I've got the cheek again, but I can't work it out.

I can't believe it.

I don't think I see the Type A character from him yet.

I don't know if we've got different

definitions of what an alpha might be.

You OK?

No. You'll be all right.

Hold on, hold on, hold on. Don't move.

Don't move it just yet. We like the shaking.

Ah! Go on!

My feelings have definitely

progressed with Maeve. I was a bit unsure at the wedding,

but just getting to know her

gradually, I'm getting signs that Maeve's sort of letting me in.

Oh, my God! Oh, my God! Oh, my God! Fucking hell!

I nearly knocked myself out.

I'm not doing that ever again. Well done.

What I've found is the more time that I'm spending with him,

I am starting to like him.

It's nice, isn't it, to go out your comfort zone?

No! Well done. You smashed that!

That was the worst thing I've ever done in my life.

You smashed it. I was crying at the top.

Me other boyfriends that I've been with are nothing compared to Joe.

Like, Joe makes me feel really comfortable.

And he reassures me quite a lot.

But I've still got my guard up massively,

so I don't want to give him 100% just yet.

Fuck that!

How are you feeling?

Um...

Not great. OK.

There's tension for sure.

When Julia-Ruth shared

her perspective on first thoughts at the wedding,

yeah, that hurt,

but I'm still physically attracted to her.

I'm emotionally attached to her for sure,

and I really want this to work as much as possible.

I'll just let my character be bigger and taller,

so that's where my mind's at,

really and truly.

Just feel like there's still more days left... Mm-hm.

..to see where it's going to go. Yeah.

Sometimes it's easier to adjust to your partner's needs.

And I feel like it just depends

on circumstances, situations, time.

Divarni is just boring.

I just want to, like, let our hair down.

So today I just want to see him, like,

have fun with cooking Moroccan food. And then maybe the physical

attraction would have come just a little bit easier.

This is me right now in my element. Yeah.

Super happy. I love eating, I love good food.

Lots of flavours. Spices.

Nice.

I'm really trying to have fun.

But the conversation has been a bit of a struggle.

Can I borrow your knife? OK.

So, yeah, it's not ideal. It's not fun.

Hello, everyone. All right. Hello.

Oh! What do you reckon?

Yeah. I want to be punching.

What do you drink? Er, anything. Are you...? Do you drink?

Do you drink? You do drink? Just not like loads. OK, I don't drink loads.

But, um, no, a little bit. Is it just because I said I drink?

No, no, I mean, I actually don't drink loads.

But, um. Yeah. Anything. Beer. Wine.

So do you drink a lot of them?

Not a lot. I feel like you're going to lie to me.

No, no, not loads. I'm a social drinker.

Do you go out quite a lot? Not like... What? Like, depends

what you mean. Socially - no.

Like to watch the football at the pub,

then a little bit, but, like,

it's like literally to do that and go home.

You can say who you go out. No, no, no,

I swear. I just want you to tell me how you act like you are.

Like, I just want to get to know you properly.

Do you know what I mean?

When somebody is an alpha,

they don't try too hard to be like that.

Yeah, like fitness is like a big part of my life.

Yeah, I like training, so I like being in the gym.

Always in the gym. I go every day. I can never go a week without going.

I went, like, 24 days in the in the month.

So, yeah, I'm always in the gym.

He's saying so much shit. I know.

HE SNORES

I do worry about the authenticity.

I'll be back.

Oh, you're off, are you? I'm off.

I'm going to go and speak to your friends.

Wait, who are you speaking to? My friends?

I'm not sure if Bailey is being really real with me.

Hello there. So... What do you want to know?

The goss. OK. Tell me all the goss.

Fire away. Fire away. Is he six foot four?

There's no way he's six four.

He's about six two on a good day, I think.

So, he said to me that he trained every day.

When he says train, he means he does five press-ups in the morning.

It is a white lie. It makes no sense to me.

I don't mind. I don't need someone

who goes to the gym every single day.

Just be honest.

What's he been like in past relationships with people?

Oh, no!

No, no. The thing is...the thing is,

with his, er, his ex,

I can kind of see in ways, like,

how he, like, sort of changed a little bit.

He changed his dress sense a little bit.

He changed his dress sense. Yeah. To match the partner.

I think so. Really? Yeah.

Oh, no, I don't like that. Yeah. I like someone who's just,

like, dead sure of themselves. Yeah, yeah. Won't change for anyone.

I have got concerns around Bailey.

An alpha doesn't change for anybody. I want to get to know somebody

for who they are and to fall in love with that.

But he's putting on, like, a bit of a show, and it worries me.

Right. What we got here? I'm really looking forward

to having another night with Joe tonight.

Are we liking it?

Oh, wow.

I think I'm having a really good time with him.

I want it. Burning me...me soul.

Fucking hell!

But it's really hard when I start meeting someone

because I've always got in the back of my mind

they're going to hurt you.

So I'm just trying to take it moment by moment.

Today has been one of the most craziest days of my life.

Zip-lining through a jungle. It has been a lot, like.

Yeah. How are you feeling about everything?

I'm good. Yeah. I think it's nice to see you,

like, do all this...this, like, different shit.

But obviously you said that you have, like, a guard up.

And I think when, like, me and you were in the villa,

that's when, like, your guard comes down.

But when we're more in,

like a public setting, it goes back up again.

But it's my job as a husband to sort of get

that guard down and really get to know her more.

You've really pissed me off. Why have I pissed you off?

Cos you have. For what reason? You just have. Why?

Because I actually feel myself going to kick off soon.

What do you mean? I haven't said nothing. Yeah.

You're saying that I don't fucking open up.

Yeah, but you need to explain what...

Do you know what I mean?

I just don't want everyone to see that I'm like this.

Like what? Well, obviously, like, I've got this big,

like, personality that I don't give a fuck.

And like, obviously, you know that I've got a softer side.

I don't want everyone to see that.

Do you know what I mean? That's part of your personality,

so why wouldn't you?

Cos I don't. Why do you care about that? Cos I do.

For what? Yeah,

but that isn't a reason, is it? Well, yeah. It is.

It's a very fucking valid reason.

What? Because I do. Yeah.

I kept my guard up really, really quick.

And that is the type of person that I am.

I don't want anyone really to see how vulnerable

I can be because I've been hurt so many times.

But I feel like he's just said this out of nowhere,

so me guard's gone straight back up.

I didn't want to piss you off, like.

Yeah, but you've actually hit a nerve, though.

Why?

Because you have. For what reason? Because you just have,

and I'm not going round and round in circles.

But you have just hit a nerve. Yeah,

but you've got to give a reason for it.

What? Oh, right. Right. Go on. You're pissing me off.

Why? Cos you're fucking are, man. You actually fucking are.

I just want her to feel more connected to me.

And my main concern is

that we don't actually get there in the end.

I'm feeling a little uneasy right now.

Like her not, like, opening up as much.

It's something that I felt that I had to brought up.

When I have a few drinks, I get in my head a little bit,

and little things just trigger me.

And I flew off the handle for no reason.

I never liked to say I'm in the wrong about anything,

even when I am in the wrong,

but I need to tell him how I'm really feeling.

You know, last night was a lot, wasn't it?

Yeah. I mean...

..I feel like it's not really resolved what I was saying.

Do you know what it is? I don't want people to see that

I've got that softer side.

I do struggle opening up, and, like, even just opening up to you

about little things like that's massive for me.

I honestly, I hate feeling vulnerable,

but I just feel like every time

when I let more people in, that's when I get fucked over more.

Yeah.

So that's why I'm always a bit of a...dick.

But I wouldn't... I'm not going to fuck you over.

Do you know what I mean?

No need to worry about it.

Everyone else has, though. So do you know what I mean?

Yeah,

yeah, I do. I do. But I did feel bad.

You don't actually need to.

It was just like a misunderstanding, and it's fine.

He's making me feel really, like, really reassured about everything.

Like, he's the kindest soul that I've actually ever met.

And I feel like no matter what I say,

he's not going to judge us.

So I do think I'm going to be a little bit more open with him.

I'm just trying to, like, learn about you.

I feel closer to you now than I did before.

I feel more comfortable around you.

We've just got to take a day at a time, though, haven't we?

And that's what I think. And to be fair,

I was pretty scared at what,

like, drunk you were going to be like.

But you weren't that bad. That wasn't anything.

That was literally just

me saying I needed to get away from you.

Like that was... I was scared

for my safety, to be fair. Shut up, man!

Your friends were very telling about how you are.

Yeah. In a good way.

They said that you don't go to the gym... Blud...!

And...you're not six foot four.

That's wild.

Everything I've said has been total truth.

Total truth. Honestly.

I want you to be 100% you. That's so important to me.

Like, I want you to just be yourself.

I feel I've always been true of myself.

Your friends didn't say that.

They said that when you was with an ex...

Yeah. ..she dressed quite quirky.

And they said that you, like, matched that.

Yeah. And you dressed in a similar way. Yeah,

that's probably a bit more true.

I don't want you to change at all for me.

But I wouldn't see it changing. I would see it growing with someone.

I think I've grown from all of my past relationships,

and it's kind of made me into the person I am today.

I think, like, I want to meet someone that I can grow with

and they can grow with me, and I think that's healthy.

OK.

He seems like he's got the gift of the gab.

I just want to make sure that the person I'm with,

and they're really sure of themselves

and they don't change for an ex or anybody else.

Come on then, let's cheers. Cheers. Cheers.

Oh, no!

Come on.

This is nice. Got the honeymoon suite, look.

So we need to discuss

the sleeping arrangements. Oh, yeah. Yeah.

What are your thoughts?

Uh, yeah, it's up to you, babe, yeah.

I can take the sofa. I'm very much a gentleman.

It's up to you. Totally up to you. Yeah.

OK. I mean,

if you're happy to sleep on the sofa, that'd be great.

I just want, like, a clear... Yeah. ..divide between us,

just for now. Yeah, we can certainly get on, yeah.

Yeah. Is that OK with you? Yeah. That's fine. Yeah.

Good.

I was not expecting that in the slightest, but I'm

still interested, don't get me wrong.

I think there's still something there to work on.

See you in the morning, wifey.

Goodnight. Night.

I'm just not there yet. It's so early on.

I don't know if I've, like, met the real him yet.

I need to build that connection

before I can be physically intimate with him.

We've got a nice milk... Milk bath.

It says, "I heart you."

I thought it said, "Joe."

SHE LAUGHS

I definitely think the argument's brought us closer together.

It was important that Maeve sort of opened up.

I do feel like we are

understanding each other more and more every day.

Cheers for the last day. Cheers.

Feeling great after last night.

Me and Maeve had a really nice time when we got to the villa.

We really did get to know each other on a deeper level.

One thing led to another, and that's it.

That's all I'm saying.

Oh, God!

I can...tell you now,

that is definitely more than a good body.

He is a very... He's a good time guy.

Hello. Hello. Hi. How are you? Good. Thanks.

How are you doing? Yes.

At the moment, I feel like it's feeling really awkward.

Hey. Whoa. That's mad.

Today I just want us to have lots of laughs and trying to focus on,

like, the good things and the energy.

Whoa!

Jeez.

Yo.

I didn't envision my honeymoon to be like this,

but marriage, just as we all know, it's not going to be easy.

Ultimately, this is just another opportunity just

to get close to my wife.

And I still strongly believe that we can get over this hump.

You hear that? Pure silence.

That's nice.

That's really nice.

Oh, look at that.

Are you, like, a scenic person?

Like views and all of that? Yeah? Yeah.

I actually did very well in the subject

of earth and space in school.

OK.

This is quite hard.

I'm struggling with the conversation.

Kind of just live a fearless life.

I just kind of just step into

the unknown, whatever that looks like. Mm.

How I've grown up,

I've always been a protector or just a facilitator, keeping the peace.

Mm.

Are you afraid of heights? Nah. No? No. Are you?

No, no, no, no. Yeah?

Do you have any, like, fears?

Like, what scares you the most?

Growing up, I was always alone, even with my whole family.

And I think knowing that I could potentially be alone

for the rest of my life, that would be the worst.

Yeah.

That's not what I meant at all.

With Divarni, it is quite difficult to find

the fun light-hearted side and just be a bit carefree.

Yeah, it's just too deep. I don't know.

I think the worst thing is that I've always went

through life questioning why certain things happened.

It's always hit and misses. That's a strange way to look at it.

No. Not really.

No-one caters to me. That shit sucks.

He doesn't see any positives or, like, that with me,

it's just like...

It's like...it's just too much.

You focus on the negative.

You're saying it sucked.

You sit in the negativity and you attract negativity

and draw negativity and it will keep coming back.

Camel ride was a disaster.

It's just hard. It just feels like it's...

Just, like, a lot of negativity.

I can't...I can't lift us both up.

I can't.

This is definitely one of

the hardest challenges I've been through.

And I don't want it to be translated that the information

that I was given was from a negative place.

It was more of just me opening up.

How you doing?

OK.

HE CLEARS THROAT

It's pretty intense. Mm-hm. Very much intense.

I just feel like what I needed was just a little bit of positivity

and fun so we can feel the attraction.

But on the camels, it was just like I sat there

and you literally spat out one thing after another.

I don't want you to feel you can't

open up to me, cos that's not what the case is.

There just needs to be a balance and like a time and a place for things.

So, I came into this experiment to find my person,

have someone that I can, as well as having fun,

off-load to, and someone that ultimately understands me.

It wasn't intentional to put you

in that situation where it was like,

"Damn, I'm trying to be Mr Negative."

It was just something that hit me in that moment,

and I was just pouring out the feelings.

But the way you say things,

it's just like a tornado of negativity.

And it's hard to want to be intimate

and grow and develop something when everything is

so intense and so deep.

The last thing I want to do is have

a talk about traumas and then, like, get into bed with you.

Maybe, like, just for tonight,

we'll just do separate rooms, just to be clear.

And then tomorrow we'll, like,

regroup and just start like a fresh new day and like a clean slate.

Shit. That's how I'm honestly feeling.

Um...

I feel like I've just been attacked.

The thing that hurt me the most is sleeping in separate rooms.

But if she needs her space, I'll give her space.

There's trouble in paradise, innit?

Next time...

I know what I want and what I don't want, it has to be right.

..one more couple says I do. but expectations...

I would like to be matched with someone who is a silver fox.

Sense of humour.

..are quickly tested.

Well, here's my version.

Oh, you're joking!

He's not the silver fox I had in mind.

Bailey seeks a more intimate connection.

I feel more comfortable now with my hands on you than off you.

I personally wouldn't kiss somebody as soon as I've met them.

That's just a bit too soon for me.

And for Julia-Ruth and Divarni...

Divarni and I slept separately.

I haven't seen him since.

..the road to a honeymoon reunion...

You don't really get a second chance with a woman like that.

..is heading for a dead end.

This is not how I wanted my honeymoon to go.