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September the 1st is set to be a big
day.
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It was Erin's birthday.
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She was having the time of her life.
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It was her time to shine, and it was
amazing.
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Erin has been counting down the days to
her 19th birthday.
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She plans to celebrate.
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She knew who she was. She had a lot of
confidence, which I admired.
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Erin gets ready to go out dancing with
her friends. Her favorite thing was to
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dance. I think it was kind of a big deal
that she was able to go to a place like
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that.
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Erin was looking for a wonderful
birthday celebration and night out with
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friends. The celebratory mood shifts
when Erin's on -off boyfriend, Joshua
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Garcia, arrives.
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This was not a good relationship.
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I was definitely uneasy about Aaron
going out that night, knowing that Josh
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going to be around.
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I told her I don't like him, I don't
think it's safe, and I don't want him
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because I don't think he's a good
person.
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His friend was going to be driving them,
and I said, well, you've got precious
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cargo. He said, absolutely, you can have
a good time and we'll be home early.
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No one knew it would be her last night
out.
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Like something in me, like my soul, you.
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She was gone.
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In San Antonio, Texas, 18 -year -old
Erin Castro eagerly awaits her birthday.
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Birthdays are always a big deal in our
family, but Erin had a way of making her
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birthday a bigger deal in our family.
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So it was exciting because she's the
baby, and we always like to shower her
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a lot of love.
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Erin loved the bus.
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Loved it.
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It's her day, and we are doing
everything Erin loves to do.
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She was like, I'm so excited.
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I'm going to be older.
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There was a lot of positive things that
were coming up for Erin. We were looking
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for a car for her.
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She was looking to go to school.
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There was a lot of things that were
exciting to make this birthday extra
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special.
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She was working at her mom's restaurant.
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She loved it there.
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We worked as waitresses together.
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It wasn't so much work for us. It was
more just hanging out with family.
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She made sure to let everyone know that
her birthday was coming up.
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The customers loved her. She would be
laughing, joking, doing the things, and
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it'd be like, Erin, you have to get to
work.
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They loved her, and she loved them.
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She had regular customers Monday through
Friday.
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But she wanted everyone to make sure
they came back on Saturday for her
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birthday.
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On Saturday, September 1, 2018, Erin
turns 19.
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She has a shift at the hot diner.
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No bother that it was her birthday and
she was going to work.
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It was exactly where she wanted to be
that day.
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Everybody that she told came in
throughout the whole day and would come
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her happy birthday and bring her gifts.
It was like a whole thing.
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She always was super giggly and really
radiant. She was just so positive and
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just full of life that I loved about
her.
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We all came to the hut to come see her,
and we spent hours
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sitting at the table just talking to
her.
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She was having the time of her life.
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I was like, aren't you supposed to be
working?
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And she was like, yeah, but it's okay.
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She wanted to spend time with my great
-grandmother, and she wanted to spend
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time with us.
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We were there with her all day long, and
at the end of the day, her stepdad had
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bought her a cake with a bunch of
animals on it. It looked like for maybe
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preschooler, but it was perfect for her.
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We all sang her happy birthday. They
sang her happy birthday quite a bit
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throughout the day.
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This place was crowded.
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We would close at 3, but everybody was
just enjoying time, spending time seeing
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her. So I don't think we closed until
later because of that.
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It was just a great day.
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The past year hasn't been easy for Erin.
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A turbulent relationship with her high
school sweetheart has caused a lot of
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heartache.
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Erin and Joshua met when Erin was 14.
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This was not a good relationship.
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It was toxic. It was controlling.
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Nobody liked Joshua Garcia.
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Nobody wanted her to spend time with
him.
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I told her I don't like him because I
don't think he's a good person.
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One of the things I think that was
hardest for her friends and family was
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kind of rollercoaster relationship, not
only in terms of the dynamics, but in
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terms of them breaking up and getting
back together.
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On the evening of her birthday, Erin
plans to go dancing.
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She and her friends had been talking
about going to Club Lush for about a
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and they decided they were going to go
the night of her birthday.
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She loved, loved dancing.
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Even her mom was telling her, you know,
if you don't end up with a career, you
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don't get a job, you should be a backup
dancer, because she was great at it.
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So there was like an 18 and up club.
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I think it was kind of a big deal that
she was able to go to a place like that.
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Erin's friends arranged to meet at her
home before getting ready together.
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Our friends started coming over, a
couple of her girlfriends, and you heard
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in the other room laughing and having
fun and doing all the things that girls
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together.
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She had music playing loud, putting on
makeup.
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That was one of the main things, putting
on makeup. It took forever, now that I
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think about it.
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She had ordered a beautiful dress and
some shoes to go, and
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that was what she was going to wear to
go out, and she looked stunning.
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Erin's mother, Raina, is surprised by
the appearance of one guest.
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I go in to check on, you know, just to
say hi, and Josh was there.
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I was under the impression it was going
to be her and her girlfriends.
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But it's her day, and by all means, I
wanted her to have a good time.
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Garcia wants Aaron to ride with him, and
her friends are strongly encouraging
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her to ride with them.
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I said, would you like me to Uber you?
He said, no, that his friend was going
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be driving them.
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And I said, well, you've got precious
cargo.
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The phone calls almost immediately
started.
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She tells Rena, Mom, I'm in the car with
Joshua.
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And she starts talking about that she's
getting concerned and that things are
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getting bad.
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Now I just wanted her home and started
to tell her, let me go get you.
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Let me go pick you up.
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Forty minutes later, her mom gets
another call.
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hysterical, crying, that he had hit her.
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She's screaming.
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And all of a sudden she says, he stabbed
me.
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And that's when I heard like the
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worse gut -wrenching scream.
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The phone went dead.
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Erin Castro's birthday celebrations have
taken a terrifying turn.
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What should have been a night of dancing
has descended into violence.
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Her mother, Raina, is frantic with worry
about her youngest child, Erin, the
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baby of the family.
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Erin had two older sisters and an older
brother.
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She was funny.
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She could be a little annoying at times.
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But at the end of the day, I saw her as
like my baby.
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I even had her saved in my phone as the
baby.
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Growing up here in South Texas, we've
got...
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Hardly any winter, so it's warm all year
long.
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A favorite thing for all the kids to do
was we'd always gravitate to my parents'
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house, to the swimming pool.
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Erin was fearless. She did everything
100%. She had a lot of confidence, which
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admired. And for her to be so young and
for me to be the oldest one, I admired
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that from her.
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I love you, Aaron.
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I thought she was beautiful. She
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was just an amazing person.
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I honestly didn't believe that anyone
could make Aaron feel bad about the way
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she looked.
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I didn't.
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feel that that was possible because of
how high
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she held herself in her standards.
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But when that dam broke, it came rushing
down. It happened so fast.
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14, Erin enrolls at John Marshall High
School where she meets Joshua Garcia.
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Erin loved school.
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She didn't have to put in too much
effort.
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It just came naturally.
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She told me she had a crush.
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I think she thought that I would have
said something as in like, you're too
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young.
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So she would just tell me, she's like,
oh, I have a crush and that's it.
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She knows me too well.
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I guess a little bit furthermore into
their relationship was when I started
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noticing, because she would go on dates
and stuff.
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Getting a little older, you know, she'd
ask for a little bit more space.
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But I trusted Erin, and I trust her
judgment.
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I took them to the movies, and I picked
them up.
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I was like, well, as long as he's making
you happy, then I'm happy for you.
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Erin's boyfriend's life is very
different from her own.
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They didn't really have much in common
from my understanding.
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She comes from a very, very supportive
family, very loving family.
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His family is much more complicated,
much more chaotic.
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I have other opinions from other people
that have said, you know, that Josh is
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sweet and, you know, kind and stuff like
that. I never saw that side of Josh. I
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don't think the people he hung out with
were...
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that good of a crowd.
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As the relationship continues, those
around Erin sense a change in her.
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And I didn't see anything until, I would
say, her junior year. And it was very
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subtle.
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It was just something wasn't right.
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She'd be like, hey, can you pick me up
from school? I don't want to be here.
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So I thought that was a little weird,
and that's why I was like, well, aren't
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you, like, isn't your boyfriend there?
Don't you want to spend time with him?
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And she'd be like, no, I just want to go
home.
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I definitely saw a change in her
confidence.
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She would brush it away and always have
an explanation for it.
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But I definitely saw changes even in her
makeup, in her clothes.
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She was like, I don't want to wear
makeup, and it kind of shocked me.
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because she was the one that was, like,
very presentable.
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Hey, what's wrong?
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Like, are you okay?
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She'd be like, yeah, I'm fine.
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I just didn't feel like wearing makeup,
which was really weird.
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It doesn't take long for Erin to start
confiding in her friends about what's
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going on behind the scenes.
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She was telling me, like, you know, Josh
was telling me, no, you're ugly, you're
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fat, you have acne, things like that.
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So he's constantly trying to control
her. He's constantly trying to kind of
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undermine and undercut her and make her
feel like nobody else would want you.
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You're lucky to have me.
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Erin has kept Joshua's cruelty hidden
from her family.
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But when the school gets involved, that
all changes.
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Like most teenagers, her prized
possession was her backpack with all her
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in it, makeup, etc.
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And somebody from the school had called.
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Her boyfriend had been arguing with her.
He'd taken her backpack away and
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wouldn't give it back and fled the
school because he didn't want her
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makeup.
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The relationship continues.
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So do the calls from the school.
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He was yelling at her in the hallway,
calling her awful names in front
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of everyone.
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Then I'd hear that he had looked through
Aaron's phone.
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Aaron had got a text from another boy
and that Joshua, who was looking through
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her phone, had seen this text and
actually attacked this boy and broken
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nose.
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We had mediations with the deputy that
patrols the
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school and makes sure the children are
safe.
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And I'll never forget that her senior
year, he looked at her
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to her face and said, one day he's going
to kill you.
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Raina presses charges against Garcia.
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He's expelled from the school, and Erin
stops seeing him.
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Her sister encourages her to seek out
less serious, less unhealthy
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relationships.
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She had crushes and stuff, and I'd be
like, well, you should talk to him.
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You should go for it. You're not
married.
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I thought she was moving on. I was, in a
way, happy.
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She was speaking to somebody else.
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Josh. I guess ended up finding out that
she was speaking to somebody else.
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And he went and reached out to that guy
and let him know, you know, to stay away
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from Aaron. If he didn't, he was going
to hurt him.
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Aaron was, since he could talk, was
excited about wearing big dresses and
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makeup.
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So I knew that prom would be a very
important part of Aaron's school time.
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Aaron, on the one hand, being starting
to be told by...
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Joshua Garcia, that she's not attractive
or she's heavy.
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She's unfortunately getting some
confirmation of this because people who,
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especially boys at school, will have
nothing to do with her.
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But the irony is it's because of Joshua
Garcia. It's because of his actions.
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They're afraid to be around Aaron
because of what this guy might do to
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I felt so bad for Aaron.
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She was becoming isolated.
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But us as a family, we always try to
help each other.
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And my amazing son -in -law, he said,
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well, I'm not from here, Erin. Let's go.
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Erin always looked beautiful. But that
night, she glowed.
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She just was so happy and full of hope,
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you know.
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Confident Aaron.
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Joshua Garcia always has a strategy to
get Aaron back.
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Whether it be him calling and saying he
was going to hurt himself or a sub story
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about how his family didn't care about
him.
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She felt sorry for him.
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She wanted to help him in any way
because she was loving.
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And I think she tried.
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to change how he was.
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An abusive relationship doesn't start
when somebody hits you.
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And it's so important for us to talk
about the signs that are not violent
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physically, because oftentimes the
physical violence, it is the third
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a football game.
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There were instances that Erin would
have bruises on her leg.
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Or arms and she could always make an
excuse for them.
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Erin's friends believe Joshua Garcia is
the one causing her injuries.
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They also believe Erin is in real
danger.
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Erin had told me to pick her up. She was
at the apartment of Josh.
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We got to my apartment.
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And she was bruised up from her arm
because he was, like, grabbing her.
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And she was crying, saying that he was
being, like, ugly towards her.
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I believe Aaron at first wanted to
leave, and he wasn't letting her leave.
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And he had to go gun out on Aaron.
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So this was a serious domestic violence,
which is really shocking when you have
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somebody who is that young.
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I was planning to go out to a house
party with our mutual friend.
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And Erin had called me on my phone that
she was with Josh.
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She said she was going to walk home.
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It was just a 10 -minute walk.
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We ended up leaving the party.
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We tried calling.
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We tried texting.
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She never responded.
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I felt like, I don't know if I heard a
whimper.
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So I turned on the light, and when I
looked at her, her face was bruised.
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She had awful road burn on her leg.
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She tried to say that she got into a
fight with some girls.
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And I immediately said, no, Erin, no.
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The truth is more shocking than they can
imagine.
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Erin has been subjected to a thickening
attack.
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He beat her, broke her nose.
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Threw her out of the moving vehicle, ran
her over, and then went looking for
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her.
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Aaron is terrified, and she ends up
hiding in the bushes from him.
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And he is circling around and looking
for her.
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And he ends up finding her, and he
wrestles her back in the car.
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And he got her back in his car.
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And then he stopped at the gas station
by the house and was attempting to clean
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her up and put makeup on her.
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And then he proceeded to leave her off
down the street from the house and had
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walk home scared with a broken leg.
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To see her like that hurt.
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We called the police immediately.
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made a police report, filed charges.
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I took her to the hospital, and that was
the second time that a complete
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stranger would tell her to her face that
he was going to kill her.
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Sixteen -year -old Aaron Castro has been
subjected to a violent and sustained
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attack at the hands of on -off
boyfriend, 17 -year -old Joshua Garcia.
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He's charged with aggravated assault
with a deadly weapon and detained
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his indictment by a grand jury.
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With Garcia behind bars, Aaron's family
are relieved to see an opportunity for a
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fresh start, one without him.
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Everybody was definitely involved in
trying to have Erin know how much she
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loved.
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Maybe it was something awful that we
were going to go through, but she was
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to come out as a victor on the other
side.
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Finally, I felt like she was serious.
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Your spark is back. You're happy.
There's no reason for you to even think
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talk to that person anymore.
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Something was going to come out of it
good, and it did for a while.
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The phone calls started even when he was
in jail.
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And it was all directed at, it's your
fault.
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Everybody who knew Erin talked about
what a giving person that she was and
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a loving person that she was. And I
think that's for the most part a
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You have that personality and you
encounter the wrong person.
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That empathy and that compassion, it can
almost be used as a weapon against you.
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It was hard for me trying to stay and
save her from him when she just wanted
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save him.
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I did start to see the anxious Erin came
back.
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You know, when that phone would ring,
she'd have to get to it and be private
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with it.
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I found out later on that he recanted
her story.
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Erin submitted an affidavit saying that
the injuries she sustained were not
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Joshua Garcia's fault.
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She caused them herself, she said. He
was released from jail.
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She didn't present any charges.
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And it was really heartbreaking to watch
that she still wanted to be with him
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after he hurt her.
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We had a lot of conversations about what
was holding her.
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I can remember us sitting on my bed and
talking about it and her crying.
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And I believe it was a fear that maybe
all the things that he had told her
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be true.
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This kind of coercive control and abuse
can wear anybody down over time.
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Erin believed things will be different
this time.
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In reality, Garcia's behavior is getting
worse.
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There is no word that Aaron is safe from
him.
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I know he had broken into Aaron's house.
I'm not sure if it was like once or
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twice where Aaron was afraid sometimes
to go to sleep.
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It was just like chipping away from her
inch by inch. That's what his goal was,
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to just chip her slowly, bring
everything down.
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It was the hardest time I've had as a
mother, wrestling with what to do.
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And my baby, she was my daughter. I so
desperately wanted to
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fix it.
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And I obviously knew that this
relationship was going to continue.
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So we were out one day, and we were
going to go to lunch. And she said,
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was going to hang out with Josh.
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And I made the decision to ask her to
invite him to come
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with us.
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I think I was desperate at the time, and
I was just trying to be encouraging.
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And I told him, you know, just be good
to my daughter, and I'll be good to you,
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and things will work out.
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And it seemed promising for a while.
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But then the whole, like, roller coaster
of arguments started again.
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There was an element of fear.
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Aaron felt like he was omnipotent, that
he could do anything he wanted to
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without there being really any
repercussions.
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I recall one time he had told Aaron when
she was at my apartment that he was
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going to show up with a gun and kill us
and things like that.
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Erin kept watching through the window.
She was scared.
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It went downhill pretty fast, and before
I knew it, it was her birthday was
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coming up.
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That morning, she woke up excited and
happy.
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She said, you know, I got to get to
work.
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I think she knew she had an audience
that was going to be waiting for her.
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I was not working.
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I picked up my great -grandmother, and
we all came to the hut to come see her.
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I felt like she was in a good headspace.
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I thought there was a click in her head
that she's ready to move on and do the
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things that she wants to do.
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The conversation we had at the table,
while she was working was about her
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to college.
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Erin wanted to be a veterinarian and
loved animals ever since she was a
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We had three adopted dogs that she had
brought home.
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I still have Lola with me.
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As evening comes, Erin prepares for the
next phase of her birthday celebrations.
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She's going to get together with some of
her friends and start celebrating with
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them.
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Erin has gotten all dressed up in a
special outfit and done her makeup and
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everything, and Joshua Garcia shows up.
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Joshua and his friend are drinking.
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He takes Erin aside to speak to her.
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Within minutes, Her friends see that
she's in tears and had taken off a
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glamorous birthday outfit.
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Before I knew it, she was changing. She
said, well, I just didn't feel
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comfortable in that.
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It's all about him and him exerting
control over her.
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Josh affected her self -esteem and stuff
like that.
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He would tell her that she was bad.
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And she was telling me, like, you know,
Josh was telling me that my clothes
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didn't fit me, that it was too tight on
me, things like that.
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Even on her birthday, which is such a
special occasion for Aaron, that he is
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only able to come in and to start
controlling her, her mood, her feelings,
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her demeanor, what she wears, but he's
willing to do that.
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I was definitely uneasy about Aaron
going out that night, just knowing that
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was going to be around.
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Erin is supposed to ride with her
friends. Now she says she will travel
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Josh and his friend. They set off in the
green SUV that Josh has borrowed from
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his brother.
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They've been gone less than an hour when
Raina receives a call from Erin.
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They were fighting and I said, well,
it's your birthday.
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You shouldn't be fighting.
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The fighting escalates quickly.
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Erin gets out of the car at a gas
station and calls her friends.
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Erin texts her friends, we're fighting,
please come pick me up.
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Her friends can't find out where she is
exactly.
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And they're also, you know, frustrated
because they're calling her.
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She's not answering.
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Her friends, her thinking.
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We've heard this song before.
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I started to get the understanding that
she was not with her friends and that
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she was with him and his friends.
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Really start to panic.
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Josh has got Aaron back in his car. He's
driving towards the Camp Bullis Road.
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He called his brother to meet him.
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He gets there driving the silver Lexus.
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Initially what he sees is Garcia in the
front seat hitting Aaron in the back
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seat.
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His friend manages to pull him out of
the car. When he does...
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And Joshua jumps in the back seat and
continues to hit Erin.
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I'm calling and calling and calling and
calling, like, oh, just redial, redial,
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redial.
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All these texts that I was sending her,
like, answer your phone now. Answer your
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phone now.
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Forty minutes later, her mom gets
another call.
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And Erin is panicked.
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I can't get out of the car. I don't know
where I am.
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She's screaming, and all of a sudden she
says, Joshua stabbed me.
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I'm bleeding in my neck, I'm bleeding in
my face, and I can't get out of the
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car. And all of a sudden she hears this
just blood -curdling scream.
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At this point, Garcia grabs her by the
hair, throws her on the ground, kicks
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in the ribs, and kicks her in the head.
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and she's not really moving.
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And the phone goes, Dad.
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I could see the time was still going, so
she was on the other end.
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And so I kept saying, Erin, Erin, and I
didn't want to hang up, so I got the
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neighbor to call the police for me.
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Erin is laying on the ground.
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She is behind the green 4Runner.
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that they arrived in, and she's also in
front of the silver Lexus that his
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brother drove.
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So his brother decides to get in the car
and turn the 4Runner around, and all of
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a sudden, Joshua Garcia jumped in the
Lexus, accelerates, and rolls over
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Aaron's body, runs over her, and then
stops, reverses,
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and rolls over her again, backs up over
her.
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He gets out of the car and he kicks her
and they all drive off.
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Her mom spends the next hour and 20
minutes or so hanging onto this phone,
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desperately hoping that her daughter is
going to come back on the line.
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Police are triangulating Erin's phone
and have been briefed to look out for
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green SUV that Joshua's driving.
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I thought, you know, if we just get
enough information, we'll be able to
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her and bring her home.
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Police would basically track the signal
where Erin's phone had pinged last.
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And they drive to Campbell's Road. They
find Erin on the side of the road in the
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breakdown lane.
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The police showed up at the house, and I
think I just fell to my knees and said,
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no, no,
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no. Like, I knew, like, something in me,
like, my soul knew
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she was gone.
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to think of having to go through life
without my daughter.
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I wouldn't think that was possible.
464
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:46,580
has been beaten and run over repeatedly.
465
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:50,080
Her injuries are too catastrophic to
survive.
466
00:35:50,620 --> 00:35:55,560
Just hours into her 19th birthday, she
is pronounced dead.
467
00:35:57,020 --> 00:36:03,140
Ex -boyfriend Joshua Garcia is the prime
suspect, but he is on the run.
468
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:08,700
Police are on the lookout for this
green.
469
00:36:09,390 --> 00:36:10,450
you know, forerunner.
470
00:36:10,690 --> 00:36:14,310
And they noticed a silver Lexus driving
off kind of, you know, fast.
471
00:36:15,170 --> 00:36:19,590
After they find Aaron and realize kind
of what has happened, they become
472
00:36:19,590 --> 00:36:21,550
concerned that perhaps this car was
involved.
473
00:36:22,050 --> 00:36:24,590
And so they began looking for this car
as well.
474
00:36:25,510 --> 00:36:26,690
They were looking for him.
475
00:36:27,210 --> 00:36:29,070
I had put him like an address that I
knew.
476
00:36:30,410 --> 00:36:34,770
We have Joshua driving the silver Lexus.
And we have this brother, he's in the
477
00:36:34,770 --> 00:36:35,689
green forerunner.
478
00:36:35,690 --> 00:36:37,990
At some point, they stop at a Walmart.
479
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:39,440
And they switch.
480
00:36:39,780 --> 00:36:42,040
Garcia is making his way back home.
481
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:47,140
He makes a phone call to his mom and
tells her, essentially, that he has run
482
00:36:47,140 --> 00:36:48,240
over his girlfriend.
483
00:36:52,460 --> 00:36:56,260
They all meet back at this Studio 6
hotel.
484
00:36:56,860 --> 00:37:01,920
CCC footage shows Joshua Garcia in the
parking lot.
485
00:37:02,300 --> 00:37:04,920
There's some video of...
486
00:37:05,180 --> 00:37:07,800
Joshua throwing some shoes away in the
gutter.
487
00:37:08,740 --> 00:37:12,260
When police would show up initially,
Joshua's not there.
488
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:17,740
But later on, they find out that he has
returned to the hotel. They show up and
489
00:37:17,740 --> 00:37:18,740
they arrest him.
490
00:37:22,060 --> 00:37:24,120
The two vehicles are recovered.
491
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:30,080
A knife is found in the SUV and the
Lexus shows clear damage as well as
492
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:36,010
bloodstains. but Joshua Garcia accepts
no responsibility for Aaron's death.
493
00:37:36,790 --> 00:37:42,290
When they bring Joshua Garcia in for
questioning, he says Aaron suddenly
494
00:37:42,290 --> 00:37:47,350
him as he's driving and that he doesn't
know what to do, so he lets her out of
495
00:37:47,350 --> 00:37:49,890
the car and drives off.
496
00:37:50,490 --> 00:37:55,790
She may have fallen down, but he had no
idea that she was dead.
497
00:37:57,290 --> 00:38:03,260
Later, however, he acknowledges... He
did hit Erin with a knife, only, of
498
00:38:03,260 --> 00:38:05,700
course, because Erin is attacking him as
he's driving.
499
00:38:06,940 --> 00:38:12,720
And that, yes, he did run over her once
with a car because he was afraid she was
500
00:38:12,720 --> 00:38:15,580
going to call the police and he was
going to have to go back to jail.
501
00:38:24,420 --> 00:38:25,700
Charged with Erin's murder.
502
00:38:26,860 --> 00:38:32,780
Garcia spends almost three years in Bear
County Jail, his family unable to raise
503
00:38:32,780 --> 00:38:34,480
the $200 ,000 bail.
504
00:38:35,900 --> 00:38:42,820
On his 23rd birthday, he appeared in the
227th District Court. He pleaded
505
00:38:42,820 --> 00:38:47,580
guilty to Aaron's murder and was
sentenced to 35 years in prison.
506
00:38:47,780 --> 00:38:51,880
He will be eligible for parole after
serving half that sentence.
507
00:38:52,980 --> 00:38:56,020
The nature of death murder is...
508
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:57,340
Incredibly violent.
509
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:00,300
It is brutal.
510
00:39:01,540 --> 00:39:06,100
He is literally trying to erase this
person from the face of the earth and
511
00:39:06,100 --> 00:39:08,460
leaving her on the side of the road like
a piece of garbage.
512
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:15,980
They never ever even looked at us or to
Aaron's mom or ever tried to apologize.
513
00:39:16,820 --> 00:39:18,880
It's like Aaron's life didn't matter to
him.
514
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:25,240
They gave him 32 years and I feel like
he's only going to be 50.
515
00:39:26,060 --> 00:39:32,560
He can still date and he can still live
his life, and that's not justice because
516
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:36,940
she's not here. She can't have the life
that she wanted or deserved.
517
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:43,380
Erin's loved ones will never know the
truth of what happened that night, but
518
00:39:43,380 --> 00:39:46,500
they believe Erin had finally had enough
of Garcia.
519
00:39:49,240 --> 00:39:54,500
That day on her birthday, I do feel like
she was ready to leave.
520
00:39:54,990 --> 00:40:01,350
I do feel like she was going to break up
and move on
521
00:40:01,350 --> 00:40:02,770
with her life.
522
00:40:03,950 --> 00:40:10,910
I feel like there was an argument that
happened because I know something had
523
00:40:10,910 --> 00:40:15,270
to set him off, and I feel like that was
the argument that she didn't want to be
524
00:40:15,270 --> 00:40:16,270
with him anymore.
525
00:40:17,230 --> 00:40:23,050
Joshua Garcia felt that Aaron was his
possession, and he could essentially do
526
00:40:23,050 --> 00:40:24,210
whatever he wanted to with her.
527
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:31,540
And that if she didn't go along with all
the things that, in his mind, a
528
00:40:31,540 --> 00:40:35,460
relationship was supposed to be like,
that she deserved whatever she got.
529
00:40:39,420 --> 00:40:44,280
They did show up to the funeral, but I
couldn't walk inside. It was too hard
530
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:45,280
me.
531
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:49,000
I got a lot of support,
532
00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:53,920
but I also got a lot of...
533
00:40:54,730 --> 00:40:58,490
People that reached out to me and let me
know that they had been in
534
00:40:58,490 --> 00:41:02,490
relationships like this or their
daughter was in a relationship like
535
00:41:02,990 --> 00:41:09,810
And I know that it was becoming very
536
00:41:09,810 --> 00:41:15,490
evident that this wasn't just an
isolated thing with Aaron, that this was
537
00:41:15,490 --> 00:41:16,490
problem.
538
00:41:18,570 --> 00:41:25,340
My mom called me and was telling me that
You know, we have to do something.
539
00:41:27,980 --> 00:41:33,700
So we just grabbed all our family
members and we talked about the idea of
540
00:41:33,700 --> 00:41:34,700
starting a foundation.
541
00:41:35,780 --> 00:41:40,100
If this family didn't do something, then
who would?
542
00:41:43,400 --> 00:41:48,020
The Aaron Rios Castro Foundation was
established to tackle domestic abuse.
543
00:41:49,380 --> 00:41:53,300
It aims to enlighten, educate and
support young people.
544
00:41:53,790 --> 00:41:54,990
giving advice and scholarships.
545
00:41:56,830 --> 00:41:59,090
Those are conversations that have to be
had.
546
00:42:00,410 --> 00:42:04,870
We can't brush those things under the
rug. We have to take them serious, and
547
00:42:04,870 --> 00:42:05,870
need to educate early.
548
00:42:07,170 --> 00:42:12,030
When I go speak at high schools, all
these girls remind me of Erin.
549
00:42:12,250 --> 00:42:13,630
They could have all been Erin.
550
00:42:14,690 --> 00:42:21,310
And to try to help those, to try to help
those that are going through something.
551
00:42:22,350 --> 00:42:28,850
We want them to know that they're not
alone going through this. And I feel
552
00:42:28,850 --> 00:42:31,210
I should be one of the ones to talk
about it.
553
00:42:31,910 --> 00:42:36,150
My sister's life was taken because of
this, and I'm going to say something
554
00:42:36,290 --> 00:42:39,030
And I'm not going to sugarcoat it.
555
00:42:40,150 --> 00:42:43,890
To share our story keeps her alive with
me.
556
00:42:45,570 --> 00:42:50,450
But I think the biggest thing is seeing
how it's helped other teenagers.
557
00:42:56,010 --> 00:43:02,150
Joshua Garcia's warped ideas of love
meant that Erin's 19th birthday was her
558
00:43:02,150 --> 00:43:06,550
last night out, leaving behind a family
who strived to associate that
559
00:43:06,550 --> 00:43:10,310
anniversary with positivity and love for
Erin.
560
00:43:27,410 --> 00:43:29,350
She wouldn't want to hide her story.
561
00:43:29,570 --> 00:43:33,390
She'd want the world to know, and if she
could save one life, then we're saving
562
00:43:33,390 --> 00:43:35,030
everybody.
563
00:43:36,630 --> 00:43:37,810
That's the spirit of Erin.
564
00:43:38,630 --> 00:43:41,990
She'd never want one of her friends to
go through what she went through.
565
00:43:42,770 --> 00:43:47,290
She'd never want a stranger to go
through what she went through.
566
00:43:47,710 --> 00:43:48,710
That's Erin.
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