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- Dear Xxlovemykitty69xX,

it's known as paraphilic infantilism

but I'm at least pretty sure by now

you know he prefers the term adult baby.

Oh yes, I found you out.

No, he never locks his phone.

And yes, I find your screen name

to be in extremely poor taste.

Now, you might remember me from chatting.

You sent him, me, a message saying,

"Are we meeting tonight at the houseboat?"

And he, I, said, "Yeah, what time?"

And you said, "Whenever you're
ready to come by, baby man."

Baby man?

Baby man?

You know?

I cringe.

Someone else knows?

Then, I reread the message
and cringe all over again,

because I can't help but
notice your spelling.

C-U-M by.

That's fucking disgusting.

Who spells come like that?

Something else I noticed

is that your grammar is pretty bad.

I mean you didn't capitalize anything.

You spelled an entire
sentence with five vowels,

and I'm pretty sure night has a G in it.

Come on now, really?

Look, Xxlovemykitty69xX,

I'm not saying you're a bad person.

Hell, I'm not even saying

I haven't done some kinky shit myself.

I spent at least one year
as an internet dominatrix.

I enjoy light bondage and
an occasional spanking.

(hand smacks)

(laughs)

Sometimes in my weaker moments,

I'm even willing to
strap on a set of udders

and engage in cow play.

But this whole situation

begs the question,
"What's wrong with you?"

Because I'm assuming you know about me.

Because he had to tell
you about me, right?

There had to be one time,

one time maybe when he looked up at you,

his other surrogate mommy

suckling at a bottle of warm formula

that he mentioned my name,

the name of his girlfriend

and life partner of four years.

There had to be, had to be one time

when he whispered the name Zoe.

'Cause he loves me.

How could he not?

I'm fucking adorable.

Look,

I find all this highly disturbing,

and not

because I got a text message

from a girl named Xxlovemykitty69xX

who's apparently fucking my boyfriend.

But also, because maybe
that same boyfriend

doesn't love me as much as he promised.

And also because I'm baffled

that our society allows people
to be as D-U-M-B as you are.

But, I'm

disturbed,

shocked really

that there are at least two girls

in this town willing
to pretend my boyfriend

is a five foot, nine inch, 178-pound baby.

Two girls are willing to go
to a medical supply store

on the outskirts of town

and pick up extra large diapers.

Two girls are willing to
lie to the sales clerk

and say, "Oh yeah, Grandma's
not doing too well."

"Her Crohn's disease is actin'
somethin' awful this week."

Two girls are willing to
mix formula in a microwave,

put it in a bottle and feed it to him.

And at least one of those two girls

are willing to powder his nether regions

before doing it froggy
style at a houseboat.

Oh yes, yes, Xxlovemykitty69xX,

I saw the email about froggy style.

What kinda hell of a town is this?

I mean, who's reality am I living in?

Why do you have a houseboat?

And shit, why don't I
have a fucking houseboat?

Are the men in this town
really that unattractive

that my adult baby boyfriend is a catch?

Christ, seriously?

How is that even possible?

How did he find someone willing
to do for him what I do?

And even so, why was he looking?

Why would he keep coming to you

knowing I was willing
to do anything for him?

Even if you do what I do,

even if you do it better,

how could he do this to me?

What do you have that I don't have?

Huh?

What?

(upbeat jazz music)

- Miss Kathleen Sullivan,

you may not know this,

but Passover is a very sacred
time of year for the Jews.

It's a time of year

when family and friends
are joined together

to celebrate when we
as a people were freed

by the goodness of God.

It is a time of year

when we make and eat the
spiritual and symbolic food

which sustained us in the desert

as we wandered 40 long years

desperate and yearning
for our promised land,

the homeland from which we were exiled,

only to be enslaved

by the cruelest of pharaohs.

(Miriam sighs)

It is a time of year when we give thanks

that we are oppressed no longer,

that we are now a free people,

that we are a people
strengthened by our diaspora.

That we are a people made to absorb

and to change the culture of the lands

all the while never losing ourselves,

our God, our culture, our traditions.

Maybe the reason you don't understand this

is because your people
have never been enslaved,

have they, Kathleen?

Hmm?

Catholic people?

Have they been scattered across the globe?

Or systematically killed by the thousands?

Hmm?

Or what about the Irish people?

Have they been starved

or driven out of their
beloved countryside?

Have they been forced to move
to a harsher and new land,

discriminated against,
called terrible things,

made to work horrible, back-breaking jobs

just in order to feed their families?

Now, I'm no history buff,

but I pretty sure the
answer to that question

is a resounding no.

Everybody loves the Irish.

They always have.

I think it's their accents.

Anyway, my point is, I
almost can't blame you

for ruining the Seder
I took days preparing,

the one I slave over

so I can celebrate the joy
of triumphant liberation

with my grandchildren.

The one where my husband reads

from the same haggadah

that my mother gave us for a wedding gift.

God rest her soul.

I almost can't blame you,

because you probably didn't know

how important it was to me.

I mean, how could you?

Looking at you,

you seem to be what 15 years old?

You probably don't even
know how to spell haggadah.

I bet you don't even know what a Seder is.

You're used to Easter

with pastels and giant rabbits,

which I never understood personally.

The thing is,

how were you to know

that my husband was gonna tell everyone

about you at my Seder,

as opposed to waiting for any other time?

How could you have controlled
the clinking of his fork

against the copper wine goblet

that came over with my grandfather

when he first came to America?

What could you have done

to stop him from raising a toast

to the love of his life,

whom he recently met on Staten Island

at a dental hygienist job fair?

What could you have done

to stop him from telling everyone

including my children,

my grandchildren

and even that terrible girl
my grandson brought home

from college that you were his b'sheirt?

Or soulmate, because I'm
sure you don't speak Yiddish.

And that he was divorcing me

so he could marry you.

What could you have done?

Nothing.

Not a thing, Kathleen.

I don't remember much

about that last conversation
with my husband.

My daughter said I fainted after he left.

But what I do remember

is that when I came to

I was surrounded by people.

My family.

It was in that moment of utter humiliation

that I realized the only
one who abandoned me

was my husband, not my children,

not my grandchildren,

not even that terrible girl.

Even though I was alone

for the first time in 30 years,

I wasn't by myself.

So I got up and we
continued on with dinner

as if nothing happened,
nothing had changed.

And then after dinner,

we got drunk as families sometimes do,

and we talked about what
a little tramp you must be

and what an ass my husband is.

Because he is.

One giant ass. (Laughs)

But he's your ass now, Kathleen Sullivan.

Mazel tov.

(audience cheers)

(upbeat jazz music)

- Dear Trevor,

I am a good Christian girl.

I am.

I promise.

(organ music)

I read the Bible,

I pray for the sick,

I vote Republican

and I go to Church every Sunday.

Sometimes I even go on Wednesdays
when I'm not at the gym.

I am so Christian, in fact,
that I married a TV preacher,

a hot TV preacher

with his thick, wavy, dark hair.

Blue eyes, dashing smile.

I sometimes imagine if
I could go back in time

and look in on the Garden of Eden,

I would see his likeness
reflected in Adam,

the first man.

The one made in God's own image.

Now, all the women in the congregation,

they seem to agree with me.

They come up to me,

take my hands and say,

"Bethany, you are so lucky."

And I just smile, gently correcting them,

"No, dear, I'm blessed, just blessed."

Lord, he is such a handsome man

and a good one on top of that.

In fact, just last year

we went on a mission trip to Africa,

where he literally built a
mud hut with his bare hands.

And bare chest.

Muscles, rippling in the sun.

Tan skin dripping

with earthy, salty sweat.

Now, I know it's not
right for a woman to lust,

but I did.

I lusted mightily for my husband.

I simply couldn't help myself.

All he had to do was look
at me and I was a goner.

Lately though, he seemed a
little bit less interested in me.

(playful orchestral music)

He'd get home from work

and kiss me on the cheek,

whereas before he would
kiss me firmly on the mouth,

letting me know that I was his woman.

I guess bedtime also became
something of a chore for him,

because lace teddies and
ruffled purple undies

seemed sorta, well, overdone.

And although he was always nice about it,

I just wasn't gettin' what
my heart was desirin'.

Then one night,

just as I was about to
demand physical satisfaction,

he turned and asked me if I wouldn't mind.

You know.

Believe me, I minded.

I looked him square in the eye and I said,

"Now Andrew, I love you."

"I would do anything for you."

"But what you are askin'
is just plain sodomy,"

"and we don't sodomize in this house."

I rolled over.

I turned out the lights

as I felt my needs deflate
like a birthday balloon.

It wasn't too long after that

that I first found out about you, Trevor,

and at first it was hard.

He told me that he loved you,

(organ music)

but that he wanted me
to stand by his side,

to be his wife and his partner.

To love him in spite of his wretchedness,

to help him protect what he
had worked so hard to build.

He begged me for my
silence and my fidelity.

I told him I needed more time.

I spent all that afternoon
trying desperately trying

to come to terms with
my husband's sinfulness

by vomiting in the second master bathroom.

And as I lay on that cool tile floor

staring up at the fresco we had painted

as the two of us as angels in heaven,

I actually thought about leaving.

I was gonna leave him, Trevor.

Then I did what any girl
in my position would do,

I drank a box of wine.

And when I finally sobered up,

I went home to my mother.

Now my mama, she doesn't
mince words too much.

So she just said,

"I coulda told you that man was a homo."

"Ain't you ain't never seen"

"those ice cream colored clothes of his?"

I paused.

Well, I thought they were dapper.

"Well, you've always had bad taste in men"

"and in clothes, apparently."

So I asked her, I said, "What do I do?"

And she said, "Well, I
reckon you got two options."

"You can stay, or you can go."

And I said, "Well I know that, mama",

"but what do you think I should do?"

And she said, "Honestly, you should do"

"whatever gets you the
most money, sweetheart."

I decided then and there
to take my mother's advice.

I was gonna do whatever
got me the most money.

I had an A in accounting
at junior college,

so I just knew that my math
was going to be accurate.

I took into account the following factors,

the TV show, the book deal,

the public speaking engagements,

not to mention our yearly
stipend from the church.

I also took into account
future book deals,

television specials, and retreats

with us as special guests.

As it turns out,

my husband as a corporation
was worth millions to me,

whereas leaving him and
potentially destroying his fortune

was not quite so lucrative.

Besides, I also figure, if
you two are eventually caught,

I'll still probably come
out of it all right.

I'm the scorned wife of a
closeted homosexual TV preacher.

Now, that has book deal
written all over it.

Besides, Andrew already
promised me a new boat

and a baby if I stay.

As it turns out staying with Andrew

and with you, Trevor,

is going to be our best option.

But if we're going to share him,

we need to work out some kinks first.

To start, I get him on
all of major holidays,

especially once the new baby comes.

These include Thanksgiving,

Christmas, Easter and Independence Day.

(soft doo-wop music)

You can have him on all the
ones where there's dress up,

like Halloween and Mardi Gras.

I know your people like that sorta thing.

I also concede Valentine's
if you so desire.

I'm just not into it anymore.

Next, you're not to be
seen in public together

at any time except for on Halloween

or at a masquerade ball, see above,

as to not arouse suspicion from the media.

You can come to church, if you'd like.

I'm not gonna keep you from the Lord,

and the way that man preaches,

well I imagine it'd be
damn near impossible

to keep you from comin'.

The word of God drips from
his tongue like honey.

Next, he can't spend more money
on you than he does on me.

Also, you need to satisfy him sexually

in that way that he likes to be satisfied.

I can't satisfy him that way,

and I am not even gonna try it.

I imagine in time, he'll be able

to make love to me again,

even if he thinks about
you while he's doing it.

That will have to be good enough for me.

And finally, if you decide
that you no longer love him

or can't live this way,

we'll pay you a lump
sum for your discretion.

I hope that you appreciate
that my husband is a good man

and a hero to many people.

We can't have him going
and losing everything

just because of where he likes to put his.

I hope that this agreement
is good enough for you.

I pray that it satisfies
you as much as possible.

That it keeps you quiet and mindful

of the work that my husband
has done for America.

And that on some level,

it makes you happy even.

Because I'd like to think

at least one of us is a little bit happy.

(jazz music)

- Stephanie, Stephanie, Stephanie.

Sometimes, I'll be watching the news

or reading a book and
someone, usually a man,

will say something like,

"We attempted to besiege the castle, sir,"

"but their fortress was impregnable,"

or "We tried to convert the people, sir",

"but the beliefs of the
natives is impregnable."

Or my favorite, "True courage
is a result of reasoning",

"but a brave mind is always impregnable,"

like they know what impregnable is.

Like you know what impregnable is.

You know what's impregnable, Stephanie?

Me.

I'm fucking impregnable.

In fact, let me tell you just
how fucking impregnable I am.

Three miscarriages,

two ectopic pregnancies,

followed by the cauterization
of my fallopian tubes.

Yes, they had to burn my tubes shut.

That's how fucking impregnable I am.

Now I come from a huge family,

and I'm not talking about 2.5 kids,

suburban bullshit huge.

I'm talking about huge.

I'm talking about family reunions

where you didn't know everybody.

I'm talking about eight different shades

of lipstick on your cheeks

from your aunts kissing you

when you visited grandma's
house for Christmas huge.

I'm talking two full roster teams

when we had our annual Thanksgiving
Day flag football game.

Get it, Stephanie?

Huge.

The women in my family
were built for babies,

and I didn't think I was any different.

Why would I be different?

Why would God make me different?

But after enough trial and error,

after enough loss,

I knew I was different.

I knew that it was gonna
be difficult for me

to even get pregnant,

let alone carry a baby to term.

So I did what anybody
in my family would do

if they found out they
couldn't have a baby.

I prayed.

And I'm not talking going
to church on Sundays,

nibbling on a wafer asking God

if he wouldn't mind
giving me a baby praying.

I'm talking about praying.

I'm talking about having people lay hands

on my empty belly praying.

I'm talking about joining
an infertility group

and prayer circle that met at Denny's

on Tuesday nights praying.

I'm talking about rededicating
myself every month,

just in case God didn't think
I was praying enough praying.

I prayed so much that every
breath I took was a prayer.

My God was vast.

Infinite.

I saw God in a badly designed waiting room

with uncomfortable chairs,

or in an ugly exam room,

even in a pipette holding
my most precious assets.

I put my all my hopes into medicine,

because I had seen real miracles there.

But my miracle didn't happen,

and now it never will.

Ever since the day I was wheeled

newly sterilized from the hospital,

I've tried to reconcile my belief in God,

and my belief in prayer,

and in the power of medicine

with this gaping hole in my existence.

My childless existence.

And let me tell you, Stephanie,
it has not been easy.

Nights awake,

crying on my husband's strong shoulders.

Sitting in an empty room,

now an office,

where during my first cautionary pregnancy

I had the walls painted a sky blue,

good for a boy or a girl.

(somber music)

I became so focused on what I was missing

that I didn't see what I
had done to my marriage

and what you were doing with my husband.

Did he ever tell you how
he told me, Stephanie?

How he sat me down at dinner

at our restaurant and whispered,

"I have something to tell you."

And I knew he was leaving me.

He whispered, "You're gonna hate me."

"No," I said, "no."

"You won't forgive me."

"No," I said, "No."

"I have to."

"Stop, stop."

"I'm gonna be a father."

Ooh, I didn't see that one coming.

"Did you hear me?" he said.

"Sheila, I'm gonna be a father."

"I'm sorry."

But I had heard him very clearly.

And I'd already begun to pray.

I couldn't pray for you to lose the baby

or for my husband wanna come back to me.

Instead, I prayed that
the baby you were to bear

would be the size of a watermelon.

And I'm not talking about
a sweet, dainty, seedless

little watermelon that you buy

at the grocery store watermelon.

I'm talking about at least
10 pounds, 25 inches,

making you about as fat
as Oprah in the 90s,

only to have you push it
out of your exhausted body

making your lips the size of dog ears.

Making you wide enough
for a mack truck through.

Then, I stopped for a moment,

and I prayed that its size
would reflect its health,

that this baby would have
the healthiest set of lungs

to scream for you,

oh and a healthy sense of defiance

to make its childhood and adolescence

extra hard for you both.

And I looked up at him through my tears

and the beating of my broken heart.

"Sheila," he said, "Are you all right?"

I said I was and I was praying.

He rolled his eyes.

I said, "I'm praying for your baby."

His face softened.

"Thank you," he said.

"Thank you."

And then he grasped my hands

and started softly sobbing.

"Thank you, thank you, thank you."

The next few days came and went.

And most of the time,
I prayed for your baby.

And then finally I stopped praying for you

and started praying for me, for strength,

for courage, for an impregnable spirit

to support this impregnable body.

After all these years
of unanswered prayers,

miraculously, amazingly,

I feel strong and brave

and completely unbreakable.

And finally, my miracle came in the form

of a phone call from our
mutual mother-in-law.

She told me that you had twins.

(Sheila laughs)
(playful music)

And that they were very big

and very healthy,

and you were very, very tired.

But not as tired as you're going to be.

Maybe God was listening
after all. (Laughs)

Ah, yes!

(jazz music)

- Looking back, Patricia,

I think my first clue

that our marriage wasn't going to work

probably should have been
his rampant cocaine habit.

It might have been that, I don't know.

I guess it coulda been the DUls too

or maybe the lack of a driver's license,

or decent credit,

or a job.

Mighta been the felony charges.

It's hard to say.

All I know is

these are easy things to overlook.

I mean, what did I know about cocaine?

I always thought this town was
too small for street drugs.

And as for the DUls,

well those were a mistake.

"Youthful Indiscretion," he said.

Besides, he was already
in AA when I met him.

So I thought that was a good sign.

Showed real promise.

The lack of a driver's license
had to do with the DUls.

So I couldn't really hold
that against him twice.

Bad credit was a result of no credit.

I mean, who was gonna give
this guy a credit card, right?

Especially with no job?

And as for the felony charges, well,

those were a surprise up
until after the wedding.

Yep.

Pete was just one a those
guys trouble followed.

And I'm one a those girls
who follows trouble.

So I spent long days and nights

trying to get him to come around

to being the marrying kind,

to be the man who spends
his days looking for a job

instead of drinking away
his unemployment check.

(soft jazz music)

To be the man who helps with the dishes

instead of passing out on the toilet.

The man who shows up
when his daughter is born

instead of skipping town
with his junkie girlfriend.

I don't think it's that hard.

Not in the grand scheme of things,

Not after all he's put us through.

It's funny but,

before I knew for sure that
Caroline was conceived,

I thought about leaving him, Patricia.

I imagined throwing him to the wolves,

or in his case, the county cops,

just to see if he could
make it without me.

But before he even knew I'd
considered evicting him,

I took that pregnancy test,

which came up positive, obviously.

So when he got home,

I told him what was what.

I told him things just had to get better.

It wasn't just about me and him anymore.

We were a family.

And then, amazingly,

things got better.

They really did.

For about 16 hours.

Then came the infamous
Conception Reception

the guys threw for him downtown

after they heard the news.

I heard it was quite a rager.

I probably would've gone if
I'd known there was a party

to celebrate my pregnancy,

or if I'd known he'd meet you there.

Leave it to Pete

to pick up a girl at his own baby shower.

Now Patricia,

you might be wondering
why I'm writing you.

And what I'm writing to ask
you is pretty reasonable.

So before you get all
huffy and up in arms,

I want you to know

that I am not trying to win him back.

Hell, I'm not even trying to
get him to pay child support

because I think collecting
it'd be more trouble

than it's actually worth.

What I really want from you,

and I guess from Pete,

is my ring back.

It's kind of important that I get it,

and I know he took it when he left,

because he threatened to stab
me if I didn't hand it over.

I'm pretty sure he probably gave it to you

as a promise of his love and fidelity,

or he sold it for crack,

whatever one seemed like
a better idea at the time.

I don't know what happened to it,

but I think I'd like to have it back.

It isn't so much that it's worth anything.

I mean, it's a little scrap of a diamond

in a yellow gold setting,

but I bought it for myself

with the money I made
working at the grocery store,

because I wanted people to stop asking me

if I knew where Caroline's dad was.

See, he never actually
got me a wedding band,

even when we got married, which was fine.

I don't feel the need

to justify my relationships in jewelry,

but eventually walking
around in my fat stomach

felt a little embarrassing
without the ring.

It's not so much that
I was ashamed of myself

or of my daughter,

but of Pete

for not loving us enough to get sober,

get a job, get a house
in a good part of town.

I bought the ring,

because I was tired of making excuses

for a man that wasn't
worth making excuses for.

Someday I want to give
that ring to my daughter,

so I can lie to her.

So I can tell her that
her father was a good man

who made a mistake,

that he loved her enough,

loved us enough to promise us forever.

And even if he was too sick to keep it,

he gave us this ring to
remember a promise by.

I think she deserves at least that

considering she'll probably
never know the man.

If you don't send the ring back,

I'll assume you sold it for blow

which would be pretty standard for Pete.

But I want you to know

that it'd be too bad
really if you'd done that.

Some guys around town

have been asking lots of
questions about you two,

and if you're gettin' this letter,

I know where you are.

I know because the last time
Pete and I took a vacation,

we were secretly laying low
where you folks are now.

So far, you've been lucky.

My delicate condition has
made me a bit forgetful

when say approached by a scary guy

in a hoodie who hangs out by the 7-Eleven.

But my guess is if that
ring doesn't show up

in about a week,

my memory's gonna start
getting real clear,

if you know what I mean.

Hopefully you know what I mean, Patricia.

(upbeat jazz music)

- Oh Pilar,

(soft music)

I know your English leaves
something to be desired,

so just try to stay with me, okay?

Wonderful.

Now, I've given this a lot of thought,

and I have decided that I don't care

if she calls you momma
every once in a while.

In fact, the women from my mother's group

say that it's normal for children

to attach to people like you,

the people who provide for
their most basic needs,

the feeding, the
diapering, the comforting.

But as children get older

and their need for physical comfort

gives way to the need for emotional

and financial support,

the one they cling to,

the one they rely on,

is their real mother,

as nannies fade into their memories

like wallpaper on childhood bedrooms.

When Rebecca's old enough,

she will see that you
are not a mother to her.

You are a servant to her family.

One unwashed window,

one missed soccer practice,

one missing piece of silverware
away from deportation.

So you see,

it's totally fine with
me if she calls you that.

Totalmente bien even,

because you are not her mother.

You are her nanny.

You work for momma.

Pilar, I'd like to think
that we've welcomed you in,

accepted you into our home,

allowed you to stay with us.

We've given you a room,

Sundays off, Christmas bonuses, sick days.

We've even let you relax
poolside when we're not home.

Now, we don't let the gardener do that.

All we ask is that you do as you're told.

Is that too much?

Because apparently,

it has become something
of a hassle for you.

When you came to me the
other night in tears

covered in those bruises

telling me that my husband
had been touching you,

what was I supposed to say?

My husband touches you.

What am I supposed to do about it?

I can't control my husband.

I can't quell his desire for
the tenderness of a woman.

I don't get to determine

as the years go by,

who he loves or for whom he lusts.

I merely accept the fact
that sometimes the woman

that fills that void is someone like you,

a sad, doe-eyed thing

with a convenient proximity to his penis.

Perhaps you should feel flattered.

The way he looks at you,

I practically feel him harden

in the dead air between us.

And while he admires your distant,

unattainable sexualidad,

I am left completely and utterly alone.

So there, he's touching you.

He's touching you.

Of course he's touching you.

He's touched everyone except for me

since Rebecca was born.

Now, I'll admit I haven't
been the same since,

not in body anyway,

and parts of me that were
once beautiful to the eye,

to the fingers, to the mouth,

are now only vaguely
recognizable to myself.

It's natural that over time,

he had to find other bodies

to seek those softest of womanly places.

So you see,

it's not his fault.

It's mine.

I haven't looked right
in my own body in years.

This is something you wouldn't understand,

even if I said it in Spanish.

Right now you are young
and you are beautiful,

not like I was not 10 years ago

when my husband left his first
wife to make me his bride.

Now, I can imagine that you're
still quite uncomfortable

and that this place does
not feel like home to you.

Perhaps it never did.

Now you're telling me that you're leaving.

What could I possibly do
to make things better?

Should I say that I sympathize with you?

That I should leave too?

That my husband's a dog?

How about this,

it might make you feel better to know

that he does not love you.

He does not want to make you his new wife.

He does not wanna make you
a real part of this family.

And though things are hard right now,

I promise, it won't last beyond
his next romantic conquest.

Someday and probably very soon,

you'll be just like me,

completely ignored.

So maybe you can consider
staying for Rebecca.

I think, and I could be very, very wrong

that she might love you,

the way that children love their mothers.

You know, that unconditional,

heartsick way that children
love their mothers.

And because of that, I have
to ask you to consider this.

I know dignity has no price,

but maybe the happiness
of my daughter does.

And hopefully this is it.

(upbeat jazz music)

- Maureen Pender,

what the fuck are you doing in my house?

I leave town for one week, one week,

and I come home to find
your underwear in my hamper,

your soap in my shower,

your boots in my closet,

and your crappy country
music on my coffee table.

You creepily cleaned the fridge.

You did my laundry.

It looks like you may
have vacuumed the rugs

and dusted the mantle.

If I didn't find this so fucking weird,

I would say you were Martha Stewart,

a picture of domestic goddess-ness.

But it is fucking weird,

because you are 18 years old.

Shouldn't you be out seeing
a movie with your friends?

Or planning what you're
going to take in college?

Or I don't know, doing
your goddamn homework

for once in your life?

Because that's what I would be doing,

if I were, I don't know,
say a high school senior.

Look.

I let you walk our dog,
because as your teacher,

I wanted to help you out.

Let you earn a little extra cash

before you went off to college.

I mean, God knows no
one else would hire you.

You're a sweet girl

but not motivated.

Pretty, not popular.

And from what I can tell,

your parents are assholes.

So I thought, I could
provide a positive influence

in what I am sure was a formative

and probably tumultuous time for you.

And you know what?

Maybe I did.

Of course this was all before,

before you came to know Malcolm

in all the ways you came to
know him both behind my back

and in front of my nose,

which shouldn't have shocked me, really.

I mean, what could be more
attractive to a selfish man

than a beautiful girl

with everything to lose

and no self-esteem whatsoever?

No big surprises there.

What is surprising, even to me,

is that now you're telling
me you love each other?

Really?

Fine, you know what?

You want him, you can have him.

I do have one last lesson
to teach you though

before I am out of your life forever.

Before my name is just a
faraway murmur on your lips

before the time before you, plural.

I want to teach you one last lesson,

and given the circumstances,

it may be the only thing I
ever taught you worth a damn.

So I should tell you
before you get too involved

in this affair of yours,

that no matter how much
you clean the house

or make yourself a soft
pillow for his body

or handkerchief for his tears,

soon you will only be good for one thing.

And that one thing

is pork chops.

Now, my pork chops are something
I kinda pride myself on,

and I wouldn't give this
recipe to just about anyone,

but he is sort of fond
of them, so to speak.

Or shall I say, he requires them, often.

So I am going to do you a massive favor,

and I'm gonna tell you how to make them,

so that when you have
nothing left to talk about

and no physical chemistry left whatsoever,

and you're sitting on the
couch looking into his eyes

and you can feel him slipping

from your tenuous grasp,

you can make these and he'll smile.

And he'll remember why
he fell in love with me

and translate that to you.

So here's how you do it.

You take pork chops, raw ones,

and you put them on a plate.

You add salt and pepper,

and then you fry them in butter.

Three minutes on each side,

maybe four, depending on the thickness.

That's it.

Nothing to it.

But if you're feeling really ambitious,

and you feel like making a meal

that might warrant a marriage proposal,

I wouldn't recommend it.

He's not good at them.

You might try making fettuccine
Alfredo as a side dish.

Now fettuccine is a bit harder
as it involves boiling water.

So what you do is you take some water,

and you put it on a stove top in a pot

until it boils.

Then you add in the noodles.

While their doing their noodle thing,

it's about nine to 10 noodle minutes,

you saute, fry, some garlic
and shallots in a pan.

When that's about done,

the noodles should be ready,

and you take them out, strain them,

and put 'em to the side.

Now, in the pot where you
originally cooked the noodles,

you are going to add two parts cream

to one part Parmesan cheese

and some more butter,

and then you mix it all up

until it's a nice sauce.

Then, you add in the
shallots and the garlic.

Some salt, some pepper,
little bit of nutmeg.

Come to think of it,

I don't know if he likes nutmeg or not.

But if you do, and you might,

go ahead and add some for yourself.

You are after all the one cooking dinner.

Now, when that's a nice cheesy blend,

go ahead and add back in the noodles.

Mix it all up,

and then put it on a plate

next to a pork chops.

And I promise you, he
will promise to love you

until the world runs out of pigs.

(upbeat percussion music)

- Tiffanie Renee Hoyt,

if I ever see you,

I'm gonna put a meat cleaver

right between your eyes.

Not really. (Laughs)

Because I'm actually gonna rip

into your stomach with my bare hands,

twisting my fingers around your intestines

and pulling them out

and wrapping them around your throat.

Maybe then if you're
still gasping for air,

I'll put what's left of
your insides in your mouth.

So you can taste your own shit.

I don't reckon you've ever eaten shit.

Have you, Tiffanie Renee?

You see, there was this one time,

just this one time,

the dog had an accident in the house

on the carpet, beige carpet,

new beige carpet,

after I begged Chris for hardwood.

"Hardwood's too expensive"
is what Chris told me.

The dog got in the garbage,

ate half a dozen raw eggs post-dated,

some coffee grounds,

maybe some paper, and he shit

all over that new beige carpet

before I even remembered that
I'd left the garbage pail

on the kitchen floor.

So I get home from work.

I park the car.

I put my key in the door, open it,

pushin' it open with my knee,

holding a small bag of groceries,

new eggs, a purse.

And then the smell hit me.

Like a ton of bricks it hit me.

I looked down,

and there was shit everywhere.

I found the dog under
the dining room table,

and I wail on him for awhile,

mostly out of fear.

He knows what I'm in
for, so he forgives me,

for leavin' the garbage pail on the floor,

for makin' him so sick

that he couldn't wait
for me to let him out,

for beatin' him so bad
that he couldn't stand.

But I had to stop,

because I gotta think.

So before I get real scared,

I go under the kitchen sink.

I get a bucket, I get some water,

and I start scrubbin'.

I scrub until my hands are raw with blood

and lye soap that I made myself.

And hardly any time has
passed before I hear a click

and the door open

and a creak.

And the creak sounds like a gunshot.

I freeze.

I stop

breathin'.

I stop hearing the footsteps
on the new beige carpet.

You see, Tiffanie Renee, there
wasn't enough time to clean.

There wasn't enough time to
get the mess up off the floor,

and that was the first time,

the only time that I ever tasted shit.

And that shit was mixed with blood

in my mouth from coughing.

And salt from the tears and
sweat falling down my face,

the kind of sweat you only sweat

when you know the last taste you'll have

in your mouth is waste.

And the tears you only cry
when you are begging Jesus

to forgive you for beating the dog so bad.

It was only other time
it was ever worse for me.

And that was the time that he
got home from being with you.

He never did hide you
like a decent man might.

He would wave you around in front of me

like an American flag on Independence Day.

There was pictures of
you in his desk drawer,

notes from you in his wallet,

and after a night of being with you,

he'd come in the front
door smelling like you

with the mark of your kiss on his neck

and your name on his lips.

And he'd look at me disappointed.

(soft music)

I'd have dinner waiting
for him in the oven,

and the house would be mostly spotless.

And sometimes, I'd do my
hair and put on lip gloss.

And he'd still look at me disappointed.

I felt like dying, Tiffanie Renee.

I really did.

I think I died once every minute

on every day I was with him,

and probably twice a minute
on the days he was with you.

And after all I've been through

and after all he's done,

for him to look at me
disgusted after being with you

is more than any woman can bear.

So I don't suppose

I can be any clearer

or any more up front

when I tell you that if I see you,

the things I'm gonna do to
you ain't gonna be pleasant.

They're gonna hurt you.

They're gonna make you wish you were dead.

And then I'm gonna do you
the biggest favor of all.

I'm gonna kill you.

I'm gonna kill you, Tiffanie Renee,

in the most painful way I can think of.

But I want you to remember

through your pained and bloody screams

and your tearful pleas

and your broken sobs

that what I'm doing for you is a favor.

Because if you stay with him,

if you replace me,

you'll die a lot more often than that.

(upbeat jazz music)

- I was going to go more traditional,

but I decided as usual

to follow my heart.

So I picked this one.

It's not quite white,

but I always thought white made me look

sick or pale

or just generally yucky.

(soft doo-wop music)

He liked it, Lila, he did.

He liked the way it hugged
the curves of my figure,

the way the sparkly things, the beading,

the way it sparkled in the
light at the reception hall.

And I'm pretty sure he liked it best,

at least I think he liked it best,

when he unbuttoned it

button by button

down the back of my trembling body

in the honeymoon suite,

while our guests downstairs
danced the night away.

I think he liked this dress best

as a billowing pile of lace

and light and beauty

just gently lain on a hardwood floor.

We heard the music
playing softly downstairs

as we climbed into bed.

And he held my cold hands

and pressing his lips to my neck.

"It's okay," he said.

"I love you."

He tried to comfort his nervous bride

as I lie beneath him
for the very first time.

Looking back on it,

nervous isn't the word
I would use for someone

who waited until their wedding night.

Stupid might be the word.

Naive is another good choice.

Bleeding maybe.

I wasn't nervous, I was in awe.

I had waited my whole
life for that moment,

a moment that intensified our relationship

solidifying our commitment to one another

in an indelicate exchange
of bodily fluids.

It was supposed to be magic.

I personally envisioned
rose petals and fireworks,

but instead as everyone said it might be,

it wound up being sort of awkward,

which was fine.

In the months that followed

that silly awkwardness was replaced

with tender affections.

Evenings spent trying to
figure out the other's body

turned into mornings relaxing comfortably

with entwined fingers and legs.

Wasteful, dewy kisses matured

into the deep, passionate embrace

of tongue and breath and lips

that led once more to
un-awkward, tender affecting.

Our bed was our own private fort

that became a sanctuary of body and mind.

I told him my secrets

and my fears,

and he named our first
three unborn children.

I spent many lazy hours

with my head on his chest
listening contentedly

to the sound of his softly beating heart.

I was never happier in my whole life

than I was in the moments
that we wasted there

in the feminine bed that I adorned

with soft, pink sheets,

for it was between them
that we forged a bond

wrought of iron.

You might ask then

why I'm writing you this letter.

Why I'm not ensconced in
the arms of my beloved

courting his fantasies of wife and lover.

Why the bond of iron has become

like the soft gold of our wedding bands

worn away by brutal time.

Lila, at this reunion of yours,

he saw you dance

as though time had stopped,

crystallizing you at 16
and himself barely 17.

And in a moment of nostalgic bliss,

he took your cool, dry hands

and remembered how good it felt

to twirl you in his arms.

And though he's only admitted
to one shameful kiss,

one moment of lapsed
character or judgment,

(somber music)

I know that it gave way
to painful fantasies

of alternate lives,

alternate realities in which
you were his loving spouse,

and I was merely

a pretty girl he saw in a
grocery store that one time.

The tears stung

like shards of glass cutting
through my watery eyes

as I asked him what he'd done.

And wickedly he said,

he thought maybe and only for a moment

that he'd made a mistake,

that he'd chosen the
wrong woman for his bride.

But he regretted it.

"Can't you see?" he said.

"You're all I only ever wanted."

"It's natural to doubt and to question."

"I love you," he said.

"You're all I've ever wanted."

But by then it was too late.

The damage had been done.

As I crawled into bed that night,

lost in a sea of blankets,

I waited for him.

I waited for him to join
me in our safest place.

I waited for him to fill
the space between my body

and the emptiness that surrounded it.

But he slept on the couch that night,

and in the morning, he was gone.

He left a note.

Call me when you're ready.

I never did.

Living with knowing

that after all we'd been through together,

after the time spent lying
helplessly in his loving arms

planning a life and a future

that did not involve him ever
questioning the choice he made

when he chose me for his mate.

Knowing that he ever thought of leaving me

or that he'd made some terrible mistake

makes me unable to continue.

Tuesday, Lila,

is mine and Charlie's
fifth wedding anniversary.

I will not be there to celebrate it.

- My dearest June,

(soft rockabilly music)

I met Harold for the first
time on a Friday evening

in 1951 at a USO dance

organized by my big sister, Clara.

Her husband Edward was
a career Naval Airman,

and she'd roped me in to a
hostessing a canteen dance

for a group of boys going to Korea.

I was only 16 at the time,

much more interested in baseball

than a bunch of rowdy,
desperate teenagers in uniform,

but my mother figured it
might be a good chance

for her peculiar daughter
to get out of the house.

Usually on Fridays, I'd listen
to baseball on the radio

with my dad. (Laughs)

We were lifelong Brooklyn Dodgers fans,

which wound up breaking our hearts

a few short years later.

So when we couldn't be at the park,

we were at the kitchen
table listening intently

to every broadcast.

I knew all the stats and I oughta.

After all, my dad had been
quizzing me since I was six,

and by the time I was 12,

I knew everything there was
to know about the Dodgers.

We'd be at a game, or a party,

or even at the coffee
reception after Mass,

and he'd say something like, "Hey Peaches",

"what was the batting average
of Pee Wee Reese in 1947?"

And I'd think for a minute.

"284." (laughs)

The crowd of guys he called
over would hoot and cheer,

and my dad would laugh.

After six girls, my dad
finally had a buddy.

Lost in a sea of ribbons and curls,

high heels and lipstick, he
had someone to relate to.

Though he loved us all, he
spent lots of time with me.

One summer, he taught me
to throw and to catch.

And he even taught me how to hit

my cousin Mikey's tough curve ball.

The dance was nothing
special to say the least.

With the schmaltzy music,

stars and stripes crepe paper decorations

and crumbly cookies,

it was certainly not something

I would have missed my weekly date

with my dad and the Dodgers for.

Content to ladle punch into
cups and stare at the clock,

I passed the time wondering

if Newcombe was gonna pitch
a no-hitter that night.

He'd had a good year so far,

one that wound up being his best ever

with 164 strikeouts.

I didn't even notice Harold looking at me

until he came up to the table.

"You wanna dance, Harriet?"
he asked, reading my name tag.

"No," I told him.

"Come on, sweetheart, I'm goin' to war."

"I might die."

I stared him down.

"Fine," I said.

"But that excuse only works once."

He laughed.

"I'm not kidding you," I said.

"All right, all right.

"I'm not a bad guy,
you'll see," he promised.

That's what they all say.

But the two of us danced
under the dim lights

of the Knights of Columbus Hall,

my hands on his shoulders
and his on my hips.

He told me all about
his family in Brooklyn,

his dog Rex, and his big brothers

who fought in World War II.

I probably couldn't have
been less interested

in anything he had to say
until suddenly he goosed me,

just to make sure I was paying attention.

I squealed, and he grinned at me

with his Cheshire Cat teeth.

"You awake there, sweetheart?"

That was when I slapped
him across the mouth

and walked out.

I was a lady after all.

As it turned out, his
father worked with mine,

much to my embarrassment,

and the next time I laid eyes
on Harold was two years later

on Long Island, where my father's company

was hosting a Labor Day
picnic for employees

and their families.

Harold was home from Korea and
tagged along with his folks.

He didn't recognize me,

but that big mouth father of his caught me

out of the corner of his eye
at the goddamn punch bowl

and he said, "Hey, isn't
that Give 'em Hell Harriet?"

(playful music)

Give 'em Hell Harriet was
my nickname after the dance.

It was the height of the
Truman administration,

and everyone thought
that it was very clever.

"Yeah, that's her," he said.

He was dressed in his uniform.

"With an arm like yours," he said,

"You should play in the
softball game this afternoon."

"As a matter of fact
smart ass, I'm pitching."

And I did.

I knocked his smart ass to
the ground with the ball,

but immediately after I whacked him,

I was so overcome with
guilt I rushed to his side,

and yelled at him, "Goddamn it Harold",

"you had to crowd the plate?"

He fell in love with me right then, June.

And although I'm sure it
was because of my nerve

or my temper or maybe my sense of humor,

I bet it didn't hurt

that my measurements were 37, 23 and 36,

just like Marilyn Monroe.

We saw each other every day after that,

and eventually he asked
Give 'em Hell Harriet

to be his girl.

He had to ask four times

before I finally accepted.

And when I did, I realized I loved him.

I loved him with everything I had.

Naturally, this isn't easy for me

to leave him here alone.

I just didn't have much
choice in the matter.

When it all started a few years ago,

I thought I could take care of him.

It was only occasional issues,

nothing that couldn't be
fixed with gentle reminders.

I would leave sticky notes on the stove.

Don't forget to turn off stove.

And on the door, please shut door.

In the bathroom, please turn off faucet.

But soon the words stopped
making sense to him,

and then eventually the world
stopped making sense to him.

He began to lose the world,

and when he lost his world, I lost him.

(somber music)

That was when I found this place.

It's clean, it's quiet,

the visiting hours are
unlimited for immediate family.

So I've been able to join him every day

for as long as we wanted to.

We would sit, hold hands in the sun room,

and talk about our day.

His eyes would light
up when I would visit,

and I'd kiss him, like I still do,

I kiss him on the forehead.

Harold Angel, that's what I call him.

It's corny, I know.

So shoot me. (Laughs)

But lately he's been forgetting me.

My kisses, though welcomed,
have become foreign.

My visits, though frequent
are now punctuated

with the pain of loss and confusion.

And I admit, it's harder now

that I've been noticing
that he's become rather

fond of you.

I'll come in sometimes,

when you don't know I'm there,

and I'll watch you from another room.

I notice that occasionally
you'll fondly hold his hand

or exchange fond and loving glances.

The orderlies say that that's normal.

That he doesn't remember
that he has a wife

and that he's seeking the companionship.

The last time I was there,
I couldn't help myself.

I had to talk to you.

I had to tell you that
this was my husband,

and that you can't have
him, June, you can't.

I've loved this man for 57 years,

58 in August.

And I've cared for this
man every day of life,

and I don't know how not to care for him.

I went over to you both.

Harold smiled his same familiar
smile and said, "Oh June",

"this is, this is."

And he looked up at me and he said,

"This is my friend."

Reluctantly I extended my hand to you.

You shook it demurely

as I told you my name was Harriet.

And in a moment of recognition
that was all too brief,

Harold looked at me and said,
"Give 'em Hell Harriet."

Harold beamed with pride at
the distant memory of my name,

and you nodded politely.

I'll admit, you are very polite.

The two of you went right back to talking,

as I sat in the recliner
adjacent to your love seat.

You told him about your children,

and he told you about how his big brother

who got the Purple Heart at Normandy,

about how brave he was.

Your eyes glistened.

He was so pleased at
how interested you were.

And through the fog of his disease,

I saw a flicker of light
that was the man I married.

The young man,

handsome in his uniform,

so proud, so damn cheeky,

and so eager to impress a pretty girl.

That was when I realized he loved you,

oh, and not the same way he loved me

and not better than he loved me,

but he did love you.

He loved you, and he wanted
you to be his companion.

I resigned myself to this that day,

and in my resignation, I went home

and wrote a brief, but comprehensive list

that I have included for you here.

It has a few things on it

that you should know about Harold,

my husband of 57 years,

58 in August.

One,

(somber music)

Harold never liked to talk about his war.

He lost friends and unit members,

and I think he always secretly felt

like no matter what he did there,

it never would have been as good

or as brave or as heroic

as what his brothers did in World War II.

So do him a favor, June.

Listen to the war stories
about his brothers

but never make him tell you his.

Two, Harold, lately,

seems to like his meals in the afternoon.

Waffles are a new favorite.

He likes them with syrup and whipped cream

if you can manage it.

Three, Harold wakes up at night.

He feels lost most of the time,

and wants to walk until he
finds where he's supposed to go.

The doctors call it sun-downing.

I call it itchy foot.

The nurses will probably
have to handle this,

but if you do stay in the same room,

and one night you wake up alone,

I don't want you to be afraid like I was.

And I'm sure he's safe here

with you.

Four, he's terribly afraid of bugs,

palmettos especially,
but he'll never tell you.

He's too proud.

Everything else, June,

you'll just find out on your own.

You'll find out in the
times you spend talking,

whispering love through hearing aids,

gazing at each other through
thick prescription lenses.

All while I look on, like I do every day

in another room,

occasionally interrupting to
kiss my Harold on the forehead

just to let him know I was there.

Because I was there.

Sincerely, Give 'em Hell Harriet.

(seductive jazz music)