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Female Narrator:
Previously on 'Forgive Me':
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You're drunk! You're drunk
right now so there's no point
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in me trying to have
this conversation with you.
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I'm not doing
this with you again.
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I'm not gonna do it,
we do this every time!
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Did you not get a call?
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No?
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Your brother's in
the ICU, he's in a coma.
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Liam?
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Christopher.
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I just, I just saw him,
I saw him two weeks ago!
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I thought you knew,
that's why I'm here!
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They can't
do a transplant.
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You have to be sober for six
months to even get on a list.
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Can I give
him a kidney?
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Don't even
think about it!
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On the thir--
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on the third
day he rose again.
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He ascended into heaven and
is seated at the right hand--
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♪ 'Ave Maria' by
Christopher Frances Mitchell ♪
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♪ 'Ave Maria' by
Christopher Frances Mitchell ♪
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Hi!
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Hi.
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I thought you'd be
at the hospital today.
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How's your brother?
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He died.
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I'm sorry.
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Thank you-- Can I?
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'Course.
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In the name of the Father,
and the Son and the Holy Spirit.
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Forgive me, Father,
for I have sinned.
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It's been a couple weeks
since my last confession.
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I'm listening.
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I unplugged him.
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Yeah?
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I didn't want him
to suffer anymore.
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Of course.
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Now I'm thinking I did
not do the right thing.
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It's a terrible
sin, isn't it?
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Circumstances.
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It is though, isn't it?
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We're not, we're not
obligated, as Catholics,
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to use extraordinary
measures to prolong life.
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Your brother was
gonna die anyway.
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I mean, that's why they asked
you in to do the last rites.
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That was more to calm my mother
down about eternal damnation.
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Right. How is she?
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How do you think?
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I'm sure it's hard.
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What about feeding him?
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Feeding a sick person. That
doesn't seem extraordinary.
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You feed sick people,
you feed people every day.
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Yeah. That's right.
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To stop feeding is a, a point
of controversy, in the church.
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You mean a sin?
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Yeah. To some people.
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To church
higher ups, yes.
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It's a sin.
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But what, you, you
don't believe that?
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You don't
adhere to that?
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Well. I do. I
just... empathize.
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And the cardinals and
archbishops don't empathize?
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I didn't say that.
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Let's just stick
to your confession.
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I killed him. I
decided to kill him.
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It's not the same.
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I unplugged him.
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You regret
unplugging your brother.
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Today I do. I do...
and I don't, and I do.
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That's grieving.
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It's guilt.
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What else are
you guilty about?
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I mean, what sins
are you guilty about?
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I didn't... help him.
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When he was drunk.
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When he would call,
I wouldn't pick it up.
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And every time I
did, he was drunk.
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Every time I saw him.
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And I rationalized that
he wasn't always drunk.
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But that somehow it
was associated with me.
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Like he'd get drunk to
work up the nerve to talk to me
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or he'd, he'd decide when he was
drunk that he wanted to see me
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or call me because
he thought of some great joke
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or whatever but...
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I made it up in my head that
he was sober sometimes so...
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so I could ignore it.
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So I could ignore him.
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20/20 hindsight.
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I was kidding myself.
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If I wasn't gonna do something,
if I wasn't gonna intervene,
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then who would?
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You couldn't know
what would happen.
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That he would drink
himself into a coma.
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Into death.
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Actually...
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I mean, I didn't but...
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I could have.
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Our grandfather
and our father--
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it wasn't
exactly the same thing
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but it was
drinking that killed them.
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I don't know.
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So. You ignored your
brother in his time of need.
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Yeah. Which was
always, pretty much.
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Were you never close?
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No, we were.
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I think as kids,
we were very close.
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I really
looked up to him.
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He was the good
looking one, y'know,
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he was the
athletic one.
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I was a few
years younger,
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he was better
than me, at everything.
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And he was funny.
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He doted on me...
his little brother.
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He guided me, he protected
me, right through our childhood.
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He, he was always braver.
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He was more passionate,
he had more gusto than me.
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But he always just
slowed his step a bit.
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He always let me catch up and
he always let me be on his teams
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even though I was always the
reason that the team would lose.
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Every time.
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And when I messed up and they
sent me to bed without dinner,
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he would put
food in his pockets
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and he'd sneak
it up to the bedroom.
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That's so sweet.
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He taught me
everything I know about women.
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How much is that?
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Exactly,
but, I mean he tried.
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Well, you must have picked
something up, father.
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Christopher was always
the one to stay in touch.
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He was the one to
pick up the phone.
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He was the one to
drop in on me here.
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He attended this church?
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No, but he
visited me here...
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because it was the
only way he could see me
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because I was an ass.
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Well, you didn't
want to see him.
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He drank too much.
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Just like our
father and our mother.
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It bothered me.
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He was a mean drunk?
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No.
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No, I mean he had a...
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he had a tongue
on him. Drunk or not.
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But you know people can,
people can say anything.
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So long as it's
genuinely funny.
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And he was just relentless
in trying to make me laugh
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and I'd just
kick him out.
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I'd hang up. I'd
make some excuse to leave.
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Whatever.
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Well, he knew
that you loved him.
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Brothers do.
That's why they fight.
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I was able to sit
with him in the hospital
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and tell him
that I loved him.
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That I admired him.
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That he was a good
person and that he was loved.
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I find myself thinking about
what Christopher would have done
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if he, if he had
more time on this Earth
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and I don't, I
don't have an answer,
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I don't imagine that
he would have either.
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When I was praying for
his recovery in the ICU,
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I kept asking God to just
please let him get better,
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so he could
keep fucking up!
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Y'know, keep drinking.
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Doctors told me
that if he recovered,
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that if he had anything to
drink, at all, he would die.
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And I just, I knew, in my
heart that if he got better,
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that's what would
happen, he would recover,
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he would start drinking again
and he would just die anyway.
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And I started to pray
that if that was what
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was going to happen
to just let him die sooner,
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rather than later
and save him the agony.
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Save my grandmother
and my mother, the agony.
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I prayed for
my brother to die.
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People do pray for
death, to end the suffering.
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Your brother is with God.
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Not if anything that
I was taught about hell
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and the Devil is true.
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Don't think that way.
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You gave him
the last rites?
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He was in a coma.
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He didn't confess, he
didn't get any comfort from it.
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You don't know.
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You should get
comfort from it.
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When I'm giving other
people the last rites,
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strangers, even I, I
felt a lot of conviction.
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It felt useful.
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With my brother
it was just hollow.
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It felt like I was doing it for
my grandmother or for myself,
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but it wasn't for him.
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I should've done it,
or one of the other guys.
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No, no. I wanted to,
it's okay, I wanted to do it
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and my family did too.
They wanted me to do it.
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When somebody's in a
coma and they're dying
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everybody's
so... helpless!
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It was something, at least,
I could do, for my grandmother
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and for my mother, I
know that for them it was,
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uh, it was
like a payoff.
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Y'know, for all those years
that I spent being a priest.
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I wish that I
had more time with him,
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I just wish that I had done
something to figure it out.
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Why did you
stop being close?
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Was it the booze?
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No, long before that.
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Parents.
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Divorce, step-parents.
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He went off to
live with our father,
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and I, I, I just, I just
stayed with my grandmother.
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Christopher was old enough to
take care of himself basically,
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at that point so
he didn't have to...
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rely on my father, he was, he
was hard for my gram to handle.
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Why?
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I dunno, I , I didn't
think he was so bad, but I mean,
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when he was fourteen,
fifteen, she said he had to go.
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She didn't
want him around.
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They protected
you from the reasons
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because
you were littler.
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Maybe.
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Maybe, I mean it
was, it was kid stuff,
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It was, it was
throwing a party
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while my
grandparents were out of town
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and some
neighbour called the cops.
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Y'know, sneaking
out and drinking, yeah.
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But if, if you're concerned
about your teenager drinking,
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you don't send them
to live in some boarding house
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surrounded by
a dozen alcoholics.
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I'm sorry.
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I'm, I'm sorry, you
don't need to hear all this.
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I feel like I'm finally
getting to know you a bit.
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Not in the good way.
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I'm not here to
judge you, or your family.
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It was always just bad.
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I didn't, I didn't see
him for a really long time.
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You were separated from
him when you were young.
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What about as adults?
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I mean, I'd see him.
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Y'know, every year or two
he'd drop in or he'd call,
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but we'd just, we always ended
up talking about the same shit,
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the same childhood stuff.
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He'd, he'd bring up,
every time I saw him,
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he'd bring up how
he'd forgiven our dad.
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Y'know, he could see our
father in a different light,
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not, not through the
hurt eyes of a child,
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but from the point
of view of a grown man.
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"We always
had food in our stomachs,
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we always had a
roof over our heads".
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Y'know, my memory
of these things is that,
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they were always way
more precarious, but that's it,
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that's all he every
wanted to talk about!
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Why? Why do think he
told you that every time?
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I think he wanted
to convince himself.
251
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Maybe he wanted
to convince you.
252
00:15:45,826 --> 00:15:47,826
No, we just, we
didn't see each other.
253
00:15:47,929 --> 00:15:50,068
We didn't see each
other enough as adults,
254
00:15:50,171 --> 00:15:51,688
we had to go
back twenty years
255
00:15:51,791 --> 00:15:53,516
to find anything
we shared in common,
256
00:15:53,619 --> 00:15:55,688
every single one of
those memories is hard.
257
00:15:55,791 --> 00:15:58,102
Maybe he wanted you
to forgive your dad...
258
00:16:00,550 --> 00:16:04,344
or...
259
00:16:05,860 --> 00:16:09,653
because he
wanted forgiveness too?
260
00:16:09,757 --> 00:16:13,860
Maybe. Yeah.
261
00:16:13,964 --> 00:16:22,137
So you're
saying, all those things,
262
00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:25,653
all that conflict
and baggage between you,
263
00:16:25,757 --> 00:16:28,826
they coloured your
decisions in the hospital?
264
00:16:28,929 --> 00:16:31,137
I just wanted to
keep on ignoring him.
265
00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:35,550
But you weren't
ignoring it. You were there.
266
00:16:35,653 --> 00:16:40,137
In the hospital,
doing difficult things.
267
00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:42,137
He opened his
eyes for awhile.
268
00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:43,929
A half-hour.
269
00:16:47,550 --> 00:16:54,550
He heard my voice and he
opened his eyes and he listened.
270
00:16:54,653 --> 00:16:58,550
I thought, well
that's, that's amazing.
271
00:16:58,653 --> 00:17:04,378
Add ten minutes a day, one
to that, and in a month or two
272
00:17:04,481 --> 00:17:08,206
he would be able to
stay awake for half a day.
273
00:17:08,309 --> 00:17:11,722
And I just thought
maybe, give it time.
274
00:17:11,826 --> 00:17:17,447
He moved his arm, up a bit,
like an inch, they told me,
275
00:17:17,550 --> 00:17:19,481
and I figured,
there's that too.
276
00:17:19,584 --> 00:17:23,378
We give it a year, or two
and maybe he lifts his arm
277
00:17:23,481 --> 00:17:26,722
all the way up over his
head, or maybe he walks.
278
00:17:26,826 --> 00:17:30,206
Just little improvements.
279
00:17:30,309 --> 00:17:32,378
But then I
started to think.
280
00:17:32,481 --> 00:17:33,757
How?
281
00:17:34,826 --> 00:17:36,102
Where?
282
00:17:36,929 --> 00:17:43,206
My grandfather's been in
bed y'know, for years now.
283
00:17:43,309 --> 00:17:45,206
I mean at first
I figured we just,
284
00:17:45,309 --> 00:17:48,206
we could throw
them in bed together
285
00:17:48,309 --> 00:17:51,206
and what's the difference?
Grammy can wipe two butts.
286
00:17:51,309 --> 00:17:54,378
He's on all
these machines.
287
00:17:54,481 --> 00:17:59,206
He had a tube down
his neck to breath.
288
00:17:59,309 --> 00:18:01,653
He had a tube
in his nose to eat.
289
00:18:01,757 --> 00:18:08,275
He had, ten or
twelve IV drips.
290
00:18:08,378 --> 00:18:11,619
A shunt in his
kidney. A shunt!
291
00:18:11,722 --> 00:18:17,722
A catheter and I dunno,
something to draw the shit out.
292
00:18:17,826 --> 00:18:19,895
Colostomy.
293
00:18:19,999 --> 00:18:22,550
My worse fear wasn't
that he was going to die
294
00:18:22,653 --> 00:18:25,309
it was that he was
just going to go on living.
295
00:18:27,826 --> 00:18:29,860
Just lay there.
296
00:18:29,964 --> 00:18:33,275
Some vegetative state.
297
00:18:33,378 --> 00:18:35,515
He only woke
up that once.
298
00:18:35,619 --> 00:18:37,999
He just, he opened his
eyes from time to time,
299
00:18:38,102 --> 00:18:39,206
before and after that.
300
00:18:43,344 --> 00:18:48,895
Those breathing
machines, they, they,
301
00:18:48,999 --> 00:18:51,344
they were
painful for him.
302
00:18:51,446 --> 00:18:54,275
Every breath was a blast
of air forced into his lungs,
303
00:18:54,377 --> 00:18:57,344
it was a,
it was a spasm.
304
00:18:57,446 --> 00:19:04,722
It was just too long to live
like that, so, I unplugged him.
305
00:19:04,826 --> 00:19:08,584
I knew I was going to burn
in hell for it, I did it anyway.
306
00:19:08,688 --> 00:19:10,999
You're not going
to burn in hell.
307
00:19:11,102 --> 00:19:13,860
Isn't that what I
would tell somebody else
308
00:19:13,964 --> 00:19:16,343
who turned off a
life-support machine?
309
00:19:16,446 --> 00:19:19,722
No, not necessarily.
310
00:19:19,826 --> 00:19:21,964
Did you turn off
the feeding tube?
311
00:19:22,068 --> 00:19:23,550
Did you
withhold water?
312
00:19:23,653 --> 00:19:25,722
I mean, how
far did you go?
313
00:19:25,826 --> 00:19:29,343
He died, within two minutes
of turning that ventilator off,
314
00:19:29,446 --> 00:19:30,722
two, three minutes.
315
00:19:30,826 --> 00:19:32,860
I figured we'd cross
the feeding tube business
316
00:19:32,964 --> 00:19:36,068
when we came to it but we
didn't have to think about it.
317
00:19:36,171 --> 00:19:40,412
So the breathing machine
really was doing everything.
318
00:19:40,515 --> 00:19:42,309
Liver, kidney, lungs.
319
00:19:43,722 --> 00:19:45,446
Dominoes.
320
00:19:45,550 --> 00:19:46,964
Crashed.
321
00:19:47,068 --> 00:19:49,343
Then he
really was dead.
322
00:19:49,446 --> 00:19:51,377
You turned off a
breathing machine.
323
00:19:51,481 --> 00:19:52,791
You didn't
terminate a life.
324
00:19:52,895 --> 00:19:54,377
He was not dead.
325
00:19:54,481 --> 00:19:56,999
He wasn't dead until I
turned off those machines!
326
00:20:01,550 --> 00:20:04,895
Listen to me,
if this thing,
327
00:20:04,999 --> 00:20:08,377
if this thing in
my head comes for me,
328
00:20:09,722 --> 00:20:11,653
if it comes
to kill me...
329
00:20:14,619 --> 00:20:18,757
I will not
die like that.
330
00:20:18,860 --> 00:20:20,446
I'm not going
on a ventilator
331
00:20:20,550 --> 00:20:22,964
and I'm not going
on a feeding tube.
332
00:20:23,068 --> 00:20:25,860
So you promise me,
that if it gets to that point
333
00:20:25,964 --> 00:20:28,515
where I need a ventilator
or a tube, or anything,
334
00:20:28,619 --> 00:20:32,722
any kind of machine
that you will just...
335
00:20:32,826 --> 00:20:36,688
you just wheel me out. You wheel
me out, take me to the beach.
336
00:20:36,791 --> 00:20:39,895
I'd rather die
from too much sun.
337
00:20:42,377 --> 00:20:44,584
I'm sorry.
338
00:20:44,688 --> 00:20:48,033
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry.
339
00:20:52,722 --> 00:20:55,860
Okay.
340
00:20:55,964 --> 00:20:58,722
I absolve you, in
the name of the Father,
341
00:20:58,826 --> 00:21:00,999
the Son, and
the Holy Spirit.
342
00:21:05,446 --> 00:21:07,757
Oh, almighty and
most merciful God,
343
00:21:07,860 --> 00:21:09,791
I...
344
00:21:09,895 --> 00:21:11,999
give thanks with all
the powers of my soul
345
00:21:12,102 --> 00:21:14,964
for this and all other
mercies, graces and blessings
346
00:21:15,068 --> 00:21:16,584
bestowed upon me,
347
00:21:16,688 --> 00:21:18,757
and prostrating
myself at your sacred feet,
348
00:21:18,860 --> 00:21:22,068
I offer myself
henceforth to be forever yours.
349
00:21:22,171 --> 00:21:25,929
Let nothing in life or
death ever separate me from you.
350
00:21:26,033 --> 00:21:29,068
I renounce with my whole soul
all of my treasons against you
351
00:21:29,171 --> 00:21:33,688
and all of the abominations
and the sins of my past life.
352
00:21:33,791 --> 00:21:36,584
I renew my
promises made at Baptism,
353
00:21:36,688 --> 00:21:39,412
and I dedicate myself,
from this day forward
354
00:21:39,515 --> 00:21:41,584
to your
eternal service.
355
00:21:41,688 --> 00:21:44,999
Grant that moving
forward, I may detest sin
356
00:21:45,102 --> 00:21:49,515
more than death itself
and avoid all such occasions,
357
00:21:49,619 --> 00:21:52,757
occurrences and companies as
have unhappily brought me to it.
358
00:21:52,860 --> 00:21:56,412
This I ask, through the
aid of your divine grace,
359
00:21:56,412 --> 00:21:59,137
without which I
can do nothing. Amen.
360
00:22:03,239 --> 00:22:04,550
Feel better?
361
00:23:10,584 --> 00:23:12,550
Next time on 'Forgive Me':
362
00:23:16,550 --> 00:23:18,550
Don't sit
with my family.
363
00:23:18,550 --> 00:23:20,205
I'm a friend.
364
00:23:20,205 --> 00:23:22,722
Not that
good a friend.
365
00:23:22,722 --> 00:23:24,619
Look I'm just, I'm
asking you, please.
366
00:23:24,619 --> 00:23:26,722
All these people already
know, they're already talking,
367
00:23:26,722 --> 00:23:29,722
don't make my brothers
funeral about you, okay?
368
00:23:29,722 --> 00:23:33,653
Just, sit back here.
369
00:23:33,653 --> 00:23:37,033
I'm here to
comfort your grandma.
370
00:23:37,033 --> 00:23:46,068
That's fine, you can
comfort her, in private.
371
00:23:53,929 --> 00:23:55,895
Figured it was
my only chance.
372
00:23:55,895 --> 00:23:58,067
Oh you know, you could
always be a lay-reader.
373
00:23:58,067 --> 00:24:00,722
No. Pope or nothing.
374
00:24:00,722 --> 00:24:02,205
I want to be in charge.
375
00:24:10,999 --> 00:24:13,033
Look, I gotta
tell you something.
376
00:24:13,033 --> 00:24:15,170
It can wait.
377
00:24:15,170 --> 00:24:16,860
No, it's important.
378
00:24:16,860 --> 00:24:18,308
It's a funeral--
379
00:24:18,826 --> 00:24:21,619
What, you finally fucking
proved it to me, did ya?
380
00:24:21,619 --> 00:24:22,999
Shut your mouth.
381
00:24:24,757 --> 00:24:25,826
want me to stay!
382
00:24:25,826 --> 00:24:27,619
No, listen,
listen to me!
383
00:24:27,619 --> 00:24:29,205
When your brother
was in the hospital
384
00:24:29,205 --> 00:24:31,999
and the doctor
went over his options,
385
00:24:31,999 --> 00:24:33,929
I realized
things had to change.
386
00:24:37,826 --> 00:24:41,619
I want you to
confess something to me.
387
00:24:41,619 --> 00:24:43,964
That's not
how this works.
388
00:24:43,964 --> 00:24:46,619
I can see you
struggling with whatever it is
389
00:24:46,619 --> 00:24:50,964
you pretend isn't
going on in your life, okay?
390
00:24:50,964 --> 00:24:54,999
You want to lie about it,
but you can't fight it either.
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