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Previously
on Forgive Me.
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This is my friend, Noelle.
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That should tell you something
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when all your
dreams are martyrs.
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I don't think
that I'm a martyr.
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- Forgive me.
- How do I know you?
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- Forgive me Father.
- I've seen you out there.
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Sorry.
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I've sinned.
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It's been a few months
since my last confession.
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Okay.
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Maybe a year.
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I've...
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Been two-faced to my boss.
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Got a promotion, got
some extra money.
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Office politics.
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You're staring.
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It's okay.
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It's just.
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There's not really much
else to look at in here.
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Duh.
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How long have you
been coming here?
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About three years.
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You haven't confessed before.
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I've been pretty good.
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I'm contemplating divorce.
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Well.
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I think that married people do.
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You know it's part of deciding
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whether or not to
stay committed.
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But you gotta look at it,
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you gotta think about
what life would be like
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to not be married.
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I have to counsel
you to stay married.
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No matter what?
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Well, it's a
blessed sacrament,
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a sacred vow.
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It's not as blessed as
I thought it would be.
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Never is.
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A lot of people do it.
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You know get a divorce.
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Yeah but I mean that doesn't
mean that it's right for you.
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What the Lord has
joined together let
men not put us under.
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To the church it's not like
a breaking of a contract
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between two people.
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You know it's a threat
to your salvation.
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When people get married,
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God sees them as one person so.
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You're not gonna just go back
to being two separate people,
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you're gonna become
one broken person.
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It's alright, I know it's
a little bit, it's weird,
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it's hard to visualize or
conceptualize whatever.
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Why?
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Why do I want a divorce?
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Yeah.
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I think I just
married too young.
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I haven't lived enough life
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to settle down.
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That's not really a reason.
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Well I thought it was.
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My friends seemed to think so.
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What do you want,
you wanna go out
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and get laid by a bunch of
different people or something?
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You think that's like a more
exciting, happy way to live?
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Yeah.
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I wouldn't know,
but God doesn't want
you to get a divorce
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this we know for sure so.
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I mean there's other things.
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That's not what
God wants for you
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and it's not even
what you think it is.
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It's not a way to be happy.
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Maybe I just haven't
met the right person yet.
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You're not gonna
get a do-over.
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What's gone so wrong
in your marriage?
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How long have you been married?
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Five years.
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What changed between the
first four years and now?
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Nothing.
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Nothing at all.
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I just, well things
change pretty quickly
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after the first few months but.
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I guess I've just been
waiting four years
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for it to go back to
the way it started.
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That's why they
call it a honeymoon.
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Are there children involved?
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No.
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No, no, no.
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Do you want children?
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I might.
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Well yeah.
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Well not now.
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Jamie doesn't.
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You know I think people
wait too long these days.
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You know it's like
you have it at 16
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or you have one at 36 and then
there's nothing in between.
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I know a lot of women they,
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they waited too long.
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They can't have a child.
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They put their career first.
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We would probably adopt.
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Look.
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The church doesn't
sanction divorce.
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They don't believe in it.
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It's a civil matter.
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You know you gotta go to a court
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for someone to say that
your marriage is over.
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To the church it's a much
more spiritual thing.
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Marriage is a sacrament.
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Sacraments don't end.
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We weren't married in church,
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we were married
down at city hall.
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Well.
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Okay well that's not a
sacramental marriage.
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Right.
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I mean the church, they
don't recognize marriages
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made outside of the church.
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I'd say that if you
wanted to get married
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in a church in the future,
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then you'd probably want to
disclose the civil union.
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Maybe keep a just in case
annulment in your back pocket,
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you know, but it would be
a parish by parish thing.
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Okay relax.
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You're already on
my second marriage.
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And your adverse reaction
to a second marriage,
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it should tell you
that you're not ready
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to give up on this one.
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You have to say that.
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No.
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I'm pretty sure I just
married you off again.
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But,
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maybe you think your
marriage can be saved?
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Have you tried therapy?
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Have you tried counseling?
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No.
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This where I
tell you to come back here
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for counseling.
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By you?
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It would probably
be Father Phil
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or Father Gene.
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They don't have the experience,
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but I really, I don't
know what they're
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ever gonna tell
you about marriage.
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They lived together
for four years,
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but it's not the same thing.
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So.
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Maybe therapy,
maybe a counselor,
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I just don't you should give
up before you try everything.
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Haven't come to
this decision lightly.
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You said you
were contemplating.
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So.
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Have you told your wife
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what your thinking?
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My husband.
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Jamie's my husband, not my wife.
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Dude.
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Sorry, sorry to assume.
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Are you kidding me?
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You really didn't know?
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Maybe my gaydar's not so good.
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Mine must not be either.
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I'm a priest.
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Dude.
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Why do you think I'm gay?
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Seriously?
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Yeah what is it?
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Why do you think I'm gay?
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Well, the way you look
at me for one thing.
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Even at Mass when
you're up there.
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You know you're reading.
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You're just staring at me.
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Look I didn't even
know where I saw you.
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What?
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Well you seemed pretty
familiar when I sat down.
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It's not.
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Flustered even.
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That's not what I meant.
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I just meant that I didn't
know where I'd seen you.
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Before, but you were in a dream.
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So you're dreaming about me?
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No.
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I'm the man of your dreams.
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Whoa.
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No.
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No definitely not.
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Nightmares, you
know what I mean?
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It's not like I was
having a dream about you.
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It wasn't you.
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It was just your face.
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It's just a face
from my memory banks.
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I just
thought you were torn.
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Torn about things.
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No.
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No, no.
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You don't think about me?
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No.
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Just dreams.
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So your marriage was
a same sex marriage.
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Yeah.
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Otherwise known as a marriage.
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Well then I advise you that
you were right to end it.
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The church doesn't
recognize a marriage
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made outside the church.
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So a gay divorce
is a lesser sin
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than staying gay married?
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The Pope's been
pretty clear on it.
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Oh, what did Papa have to say?
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That gay marriage is
an attack on the family.
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That it threatens
the natural order.
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That it's an attack on the
essence of the human creature
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and a threat to world peace.
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So me and my husband are
a threat to world peace.
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What are we gonna go drop
a gay bomb on Europe?
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Ridiculous.
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How?
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Substitute Jews, destroy
the essence of human nature.
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Your marriage,
not your existence.
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There's nothing wrong
with your feelings.
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Love.
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Love is great.
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You know, but sex
between two men,
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it's a sin.
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So is sex between a man and
a woman for the most part.
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Yeah in every circumstance,
except for marriage.
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Look I can forgive
you of the acts.
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The sex acts if
you're genuinely sorry
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and you don't want
to do it anymore.
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I don't want to
stop having sex.
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I want to have more sex.
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That's a big part of
why I want a divorce.
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I can't forgive
you for something
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that you're just going
to go out and do again.
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I didn't come here to
confess being married.
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I came here to confess
thinking about a divorce.
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I can forgive you
in a general way
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to recognize your
feeling of contrition.
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I come here and I tell you
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that my marriage
is falling apart
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and you can't even
talk about it.
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You guys are all
obsessed with gay sex,
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everything else gets lost.
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I come in and I tell you
that I lied to my boss
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and I'm thinking about
having a divorce.
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Can you focus on that please?
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How bad of a sin is it
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to have divorce?
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In your case not so bad.
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Oh in my case,
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yeah okay because there
are no other sins.
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I could pray all day,
I could stay married.
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I could spend the
rest of my life
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at ministering to
lepers, wouldn't matter.
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I'm still going to burn in hell.
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I didn't say that.
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You don't have to.
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You know I was born gay.
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And when I was baptized,
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that was supposed
to be a fresh start.
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That original sin
got wiped away.
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Can you just treat me
like a human being?
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If I come here to confess a lie.
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Just forgive me for it.
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If I come in here and
confess an infidelity,
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forgive me for it.
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If I come in here confess
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I ate an entire bag of
marshmallows in one sitting
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just forgive me for it.
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Even though I'm gay.
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Did you?
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Eat the marshmallows?
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00:13:11,895 --> 00:13:12,964
Yes.
271
00:13:12,964 --> 00:13:13,791
A whole bag?
272
00:13:13,791 --> 00:13:15,447
Yeah.
273
00:13:16,413 --> 00:13:17,482
Pretty glutenous.
274
00:13:17,482 --> 00:13:19,585
Thank you.
275
00:13:19,585 --> 00:13:20,585
Seriously that's
gonna be like a bunch
276
00:13:20,585 --> 00:13:21,654
of Hail Mary's right there.
277
00:13:23,413 --> 00:13:24,895
What else you got?
278
00:13:26,585 --> 00:13:28,757
I dropped my
nephew on his head.
279
00:13:28,757 --> 00:13:29,999
Not on purpose.
280
00:13:29,999 --> 00:13:31,482
No.
281
00:13:31,482 --> 00:13:33,309
I was juggling him technically.
282
00:13:33,309 --> 00:13:35,378
Oh so you're stupid.
283
00:13:35,378 --> 00:13:36,206
Yeah.
284
00:13:38,999 --> 00:13:39,929
What about the infidelity?
285
00:13:39,929 --> 00:13:42,309
Did you cheat on your husband?
286
00:13:44,413 --> 00:13:45,722
Yeah.
287
00:13:45,722 --> 00:13:46,791
How many times?
288
00:13:46,791 --> 00:13:48,447
Once.
289
00:13:51,068 --> 00:13:54,275
Are you just afraid
of telling him or
290
00:13:55,757 --> 00:13:59,137
you're worried that the
relationship can't be healed?
291
00:13:59,137 --> 00:13:59,895
But I...
292
00:14:02,137 --> 00:14:05,309
I think about it
a lot, cheating.
293
00:14:05,309 --> 00:14:06,206
Being free.
294
00:14:09,860 --> 00:14:13,653
Being with someone that
doesn't just love you.
295
00:14:16,309 --> 00:14:18,171
But gets you, you know?
296
00:14:23,791 --> 00:14:25,344
Maybe you hide
too much from him.
297
00:14:25,344 --> 00:14:26,964
He doesn't listen.
298
00:14:26,964 --> 00:14:28,964
Tells me I don't listen.
299
00:14:30,413 --> 00:14:34,447
But really we just have nothing
in common to talk about.
300
00:14:34,447 --> 00:14:36,688
Did you before?
301
00:14:36,688 --> 00:14:40,482
I don't know we were
always kind of opposite.
302
00:14:40,482 --> 00:14:43,860
And now it makes
you feel lonely.
303
00:14:43,860 --> 00:14:46,895
Now it makes me
think of other men.
304
00:14:47,895 --> 00:14:49,826
But let me ask you, I mean,
305
00:14:49,826 --> 00:14:51,068
are you sure it's
not just your guilt
306
00:14:51,068 --> 00:14:53,482
that's hurting your marriage?
307
00:14:58,619 --> 00:15:00,551
There's someone else.
308
00:15:01,516 --> 00:15:02,757
Not the boss.
309
00:15:05,413 --> 00:15:06,516
In my head.
310
00:15:08,068 --> 00:15:08,999
Constantly.
311
00:15:10,309 --> 00:15:12,551
You're in love?
312
00:15:12,551 --> 00:15:14,860
Maybe a little infatuated.
313
00:15:22,551 --> 00:15:25,584
I don't even think
I can be with him.
314
00:15:26,516 --> 00:15:27,344
I mean.
315
00:15:28,551 --> 00:15:30,378
I don't even think
I can have him.
316
00:15:30,378 --> 00:15:31,378
Necessarily.
317
00:15:33,722 --> 00:15:36,860
But the fact that
I think about it.
318
00:15:36,860 --> 00:15:38,344
Doesn't that mean?
319
00:15:39,482 --> 00:15:41,722
Well no, I mean people,
320
00:15:41,722 --> 00:15:43,964
you're gonna have infatuations
right your entire life.
321
00:15:43,964 --> 00:15:46,206
Everyone fantasizes it's...
322
00:15:47,378 --> 00:15:48,653
I would say just train yourself
323
00:15:48,653 --> 00:15:50,309
to be less sinful
in your thoughts.
324
00:15:50,309 --> 00:15:53,999
You're not going to be
able to not have them.
325
00:15:58,482 --> 00:16:02,619
I just don't want to be
lonely for the rest of my life.
326
00:16:04,619 --> 00:16:06,999
It scares me too sometimes.
327
00:16:09,309 --> 00:16:12,964
If you didn't want
to be alone, why'd
you become a priest?
328
00:16:12,964 --> 00:16:13,791
Well.
329
00:16:15,275 --> 00:16:19,068
Because I think with God
you're never truly alone.
330
00:16:20,619 --> 00:16:24,378
I mean understand now that
God can't fulfill the need
331
00:16:24,378 --> 00:16:25,860
for human contact.
332
00:16:26,929 --> 00:16:29,515
Not intimate contact, but just,
333
00:16:31,619 --> 00:16:33,413
being close, talking,
334
00:16:34,964 --> 00:16:37,584
touching somebody who gets you.
335
00:16:39,171 --> 00:16:39,999
Yeah.
336
00:16:41,447 --> 00:16:42,929
That's exactly it.
337
00:16:57,860 --> 00:16:58,688
Thanks.
338
00:17:02,413 --> 00:17:04,240
I think you should
say 20 Hail Mary's.
339
00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:05,068
20?
340
00:17:05,068 --> 00:17:06,344
Yeah.
341
00:17:06,344 --> 00:17:08,999
But I'll say half
of them for you.
342
00:17:08,999 --> 00:17:10,240
Why would you do that?
343
00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,137
Because I was a jerk.
344
00:17:13,895 --> 00:17:15,206
You had a lot of really
good sins to confess
345
00:17:15,206 --> 00:17:17,515
and I got caught up in that one.
346
00:17:17,515 --> 00:17:21,688
Well maybe that
should tell you something.
347
00:17:21,688 --> 00:17:24,653
Sorry man I only
do pinky holding.
348
00:17:42,275 --> 00:17:46,033
I dreamt about him and then
he turned out to be real.
349
00:17:46,033 --> 00:17:49,515
I think Sebastian
attends our church.
350
00:17:49,515 --> 00:17:52,171
I mean that's gotta be
where I saw him right?
351
00:17:52,171 --> 00:17:53,515
He's a member of
the congregation.
352
00:17:53,515 --> 00:17:56,102
That's gotta be
where I saw his face.
353
00:17:56,102 --> 00:17:57,619
You know what he looks like,
354
00:17:57,619 --> 00:18:01,240
but I just don't remember
seeing him before today.
355
00:18:01,240 --> 00:18:04,240
It's like my brain picked
his face out of the crowd
356
00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:06,102
or something.
357
00:18:06,102 --> 00:18:10,068
I've never heard a confession
from a gay guy before.
358
00:18:10,068 --> 00:18:12,826
Well you probably have.
359
00:18:12,826 --> 00:18:15,240
They just don't confess that.
360
00:18:19,171 --> 00:18:21,895
He told me he knew some
good priests who were gay.
361
00:18:21,895 --> 00:18:22,722
Yep.
362
00:18:24,102 --> 00:18:26,826
But that that's not
allowed anymore these days.
363
00:18:26,826 --> 00:18:28,515
Well.
364
00:18:28,515 --> 00:18:30,584
Grandfathered in I guess.
365
00:18:31,860 --> 00:18:34,722
When you're a priest
what does it matter
366
00:18:34,722 --> 00:18:37,584
who you're not having sex with?
367
00:18:37,584 --> 00:18:39,137
We're all celibate.
368
00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:42,999
This guy was struggling.
369
00:18:42,999 --> 00:18:44,895
I just was not helpful.
370
00:18:47,653 --> 00:18:51,791
It's just gotta eat you up
inside to be gay and Catholic.
371
00:18:52,895 --> 00:18:53,722
Yeah.
372
00:18:55,102 --> 00:18:56,584
Sometimes it does.
373
00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:10,791
You can't be a sin.
374
00:19:12,791 --> 00:19:14,895
You can only commit them.
375
00:19:22,653 --> 00:19:23,481
This,
376
00:19:25,791 --> 00:19:27,895
this is awkward.
377
00:19:27,895 --> 00:19:28,722
No.
378
00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:36,550
Do you wanna watch Homeland?
379
00:19:38,964 --> 00:19:39,791
Yeah.
380
00:19:50,999 --> 00:19:53,481
Let's all sing.
381
00:20:07,481 --> 00:20:09,102
So the girl stays.
382
00:20:10,619 --> 00:20:13,308
Till you sort yourself out.
383
00:20:13,308 --> 00:20:14,653
Thank you.
384
00:20:14,653 --> 00:20:16,068
I'm talking weeks,
385
00:20:16,068 --> 00:20:17,895
not months, not years.
386
00:20:22,550 --> 00:20:24,206
What's the matter?
387
00:20:27,584 --> 00:20:29,722
You're not sure she's your kid?
388
00:20:29,722 --> 00:20:31,619
No I'm sure.
389
00:20:34,722 --> 00:20:39,308
You're having second
thoughts about the Priesthood?
390
00:20:39,308 --> 00:20:41,308
When you become a priest,
391
00:20:41,308 --> 00:20:42,964
you sacrifice a lot.
392
00:20:44,033 --> 00:20:45,964
But you get protection.
393
00:20:47,068 --> 00:20:49,206
You don't get to see this.
394
00:20:52,343 --> 00:20:54,446
Watch your kids get sick,
395
00:20:56,171 --> 00:20:57,446
fall, and fail.
396
00:20:59,515 --> 00:21:01,757
Worst feeling in the world.
397
00:21:03,550 --> 00:21:04,688
I love you.
398
00:21:07,999 --> 00:21:10,550
I just want you to know
that I'm really grateful
399
00:21:10,550 --> 00:21:15,033
for everything you did
for me when I was kid.
400
00:21:15,033 --> 00:21:18,929
And I know I never
told you that before.
401
00:21:18,929 --> 00:21:20,929
Well, no one ever did.
402
00:21:23,722 --> 00:21:27,757
I just feel like I
was so young you know?
403
00:21:27,757 --> 00:21:29,239
I didn't know what it would mean
404
00:21:29,239 --> 00:21:32,999
to take care of somebody's
else's kid until now.
405
00:21:35,860 --> 00:21:38,308
Great granddaughter.
406
00:21:38,308 --> 00:21:40,205
Never thought I'd say that.
407
00:21:40,205 --> 00:21:43,584
Maybe from your
brothers, but you never.
408
00:21:43,584 --> 00:21:46,964
Listen I was talking
to my boss, the Prelate,
409
00:21:46,964 --> 00:21:51,584
and I was asking him if he'd
think about maybe moving me.
410
00:21:51,584 --> 00:21:52,619
You know like a
mid-sized parish,
411
00:21:52,619 --> 00:21:55,205
somewhere I'd be
the only priest.
412
00:21:55,205 --> 00:21:57,377
Like the living situation
might be easier to change.
413
00:21:57,377 --> 00:21:59,377
And?
414
00:21:59,377 --> 00:22:01,102
He told me I wasn't ready.
415
00:22:01,102 --> 00:22:02,929
That I need to prove myself.
416
00:22:02,929 --> 00:22:04,239
Are you ready?
417
00:22:06,550 --> 00:22:08,999
I wasn't ready to be a mother.
418
00:22:10,274 --> 00:22:11,964
I fucked that all up.
419
00:22:20,722 --> 00:22:24,515
You did really, really
good the second time.
420
00:22:25,619 --> 00:22:28,826
I never got my
daughter's forgiveness.
421
00:22:34,757 --> 00:22:37,239
But I did get a second chance.
422
00:22:40,343 --> 00:22:42,377
Listen if she stays here,
423
00:22:42,377 --> 00:22:44,446
there's a chance she
might be difficult.
424
00:22:44,446 --> 00:22:46,377
Okay she's bounced
around a lot lately
425
00:22:46,377 --> 00:22:50,205
from place to place,
I know that she has.
426
00:22:50,205 --> 00:22:52,619
Just figure out
what you're doing.
427
00:22:52,619 --> 00:22:54,170
I've got my limits.
428
00:22:56,343 --> 00:22:58,136
And you're this close.
429
00:24:18,964 --> 00:24:22,722
♪ I'm talking about
430
00:24:22,722 --> 00:24:26,274
♪ I'm talking about weight
431
00:24:28,136 --> 00:24:31,446
♪ That can't be carried
432
00:24:33,791 --> 00:24:37,412
♪ I'm talking about
433
00:24:37,412 --> 00:24:40,964
♪ I'm talking about weight
434
00:24:42,515 --> 00:24:45,826
♪ That can't be carried
435
00:24:48,584 --> 00:24:52,446
♪ I'm talking about
436
00:24:52,446 --> 00:24:55,999
♪ I'm talking about weight
437
00:24:57,446 --> 00:25:00,791
♪ That can't be carried
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