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Colonel Cammermeyer,
we're ready to show you the patients.
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Thank you, Sergeant.
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-Ten-hut!
-At ease.
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-How you doing?
-Fine, sir.
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-Great.
-He's okay.
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Let's get this up here.
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Fine.
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Sergeant.
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Now.
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-Hurry! Get down!
-Come on!
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-Patient down.
-Let's get her.
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All right?
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Move it, move it!
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Fire when in position!
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-Heads up!
-Just get it off! Just get it off me!
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Bring him here! Bring him inside!
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-Cease fire!
-Let's go, let's go!
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-What about the comms tent?
-Here he is!
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-Transport, radio...
-Right here!
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-Right over there.
-Got it.
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Come on! Move it.
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Hurry! Hurry! Lock them down.
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-He's in.
-Go, go!
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Turkey One, this is base, Roger that.
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Sergeant Wilson.
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Hospital, at ease.
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Good job.
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Thank you. Turkey One, out.
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You just survived the surprise element
that was added to the exercise.
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This is as close to the real thing
as we hope you'll ever get.
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But a field hospital
is part of the combat zone.
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We know from Vietnam
that red crosses on our tents
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and the Geneva Convention
won't protect us.
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The objective tonight
was to test your response
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if the hospital itself were hit,
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if casualties included nurses and doctors,
and if patients were re-injured.
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You demonstrated that as Army reservists,
you can meet the challenge.
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I'd be proud to serve with you anywhere.
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And I'll miss you.
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Hospital, attention!
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Present arms!
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-Maybe they're just glad to be rid of me.
-No, ma'am.
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It's a nice sendoff.
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Are you joining the reserves in Seattle?
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Washington National Guard.
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We're all weekend warriors, Sergeant.
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I just hope they know a good commander
when they see one, ma'am.
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Thank you, Sergeant.
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Come on, soldier.
Let's get that vehicle refueled.
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Your mother's here.
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Mom!
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-Can I drive?
-I'm not going if he's driving.
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You're the one
that backed Dad's car into the tree.
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I'm going to drive. Just get in the car.
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-So how's it going? How's school?
-Okay.
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Is that the same as fine?
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-Shut up.
-Only a year to go, David.
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-If I live through math.
-If you live through Dad, actually.
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Andy, would you guys stop?
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What's going on?
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Well, I have some news.
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-Good or bad?
-Good.
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Actually, very good.
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This is my house.
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What?
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You want to see your weekend quarters?
I've moved back to Seattle.
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I'm back. I'm here.
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I'm home, guys.
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-Just like that?
-No, I worked at it.
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-Come on.
-You hurt her feelings.
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Okay, come on in.
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Up here is the living room.
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Dining room.
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The rug came with the house,
so we'll just let it wear out.
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Here's the kitchen.
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Well, what happened to San Francisco
and the Army?
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Oh, I transferred.
Your room's down here, Tom.
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-You and Andy.
-Oh, cool.
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-I get my own room?
-Yeah, until Matt gets back from Norway.
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Dad says Matt's gonna marry Lynette
when he gets home.
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-What?
-I guess so.
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-Well, I guess you'll have a room to yourself.
-Good.
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But I'll wait for Matt to tell me that.
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-Did you get fired, Mom?
-No, I didn't.
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I just realized that I couldn't stand
living so far away from you all,
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so I made a decision.
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-Do you like the house?
-Yeah, this is my bed next to the window.
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-It doesn't open anyway.
-Why don't you try unlocking it?
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-What are you looking at?
-Just you.
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Nice house.
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-You hungry?
-Yeah.
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-Who else wants to get something to eat?
-Hey.
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-You want to drive?
-Yep.
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Okay. Don't start, okay?
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-Where do you want to eat?
-I vote for burgers.
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Now that you're settled in here
with the Guard, what do you think?
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I like the way we're connected
to the community.
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It feels good to be
on the first line of defense,
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-whether that's a flood or an earthquake.
-Or riot.
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No, not many of those
in the State of Washington.
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I don't miss combat, Colonel.
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Me, I was always with the National Guard,
and I know regular Army thinks we're...
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You should hear what they say
about the Navy and the Air Force.
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What?
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I'm glad to be in the Guard, Colonel.
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I don't feel like I've left the Army.
We're part of the Army.
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Good answer.
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Three more coming in.
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-Sit down, Colonel.
-Thank you, sir.
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I've been looking over your record.
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Twenty-five years in the military,
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-Bronze Star in Vietnam.
-A lot of people went home with those.
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Assistant Chief Nurse,
Army Reserves Evac Hospital,
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V.A. Nurse of the Year award.
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You're working for the V up here now, too,
aren't you?
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In the Seizure Clinic, yes.
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Nine promotions,
clinical nurse specialist in neuro-oncology.
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And now you're going
for your doctorate in nursing science.
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-At the University of Washington.
-Just ambitious?
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Well, I guess I'm one of those people
who want to have it all.
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-Like four stars on your shoulder?
-Wouldn't mind.
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Is that honest enough?
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You think you can handle being Chief Nurse
of the Washington State National Guard?
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Because I want you for the position.
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Unless you feel overextended.
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Not that that word
even seems to be in your vocabulary.
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I like yes better than no.
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All right then, Colonel. You've got the job.
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Thank you, sir.
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Here they come.
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-Hi!
-Hey, guys.
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Good to see you.
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-We've made it.
-About time.
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-Happy weekend.
-Happy weekend! Hi!
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-It's good to see you.
-It's great to be here. Hi!
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-Thanks.
-Everything okay?
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You're not my nurse anymore, Grethe.
And, yeah, I'm fine.
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No headaches, no blind spots.
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What you see is what there is.
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Hey, pass it. Come on. Pass it.
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Excellent. See?
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I got another friend
to pick up at the bus station.
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-Feel like driving?
-Sure.
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Great.
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Hey, good looking.
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There she is.
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Hi, Professor.
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-Hiya, creep.
-Hi, creep.
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I'm still hoping
for some of that legendary rain.
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My friend Grethe. My friend Diane.
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-Hi.
-Hi, you like rain?
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On a barbecue? Not too much.
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Well, I'm from the desert.
I like shade and water.
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Like a little cow pony.
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It's great to see you.
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Grethe's Norwegian.
She can't get enough sun.
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-And you live in Seattle?
-Doesn't make any sense, does it?
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-It's good to see you.
-It's good to see you, too.
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Do you mind if we swing home
through town?
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I gotta pick something up at the market.
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I got it over here.
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Come on, Tom.
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Oh, no.
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-We'll get you.
-You ain't getting by!
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Yeah!
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-Come on, come play.
-Oh, no, thanks.
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-Come on.
-Oh, she doesn't want to.
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-I'm a dud.
-So, haul over here, dud.
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You're embarrassing me.
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Okay.
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Come on.
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-Okay, everybody set?
-Yeah.
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Okay, all right. Ten, ten, hut.
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Go, go, go.
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Touchdown!
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So, was I beautiful?
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Hang your head, Tom Dooley
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Hang your head and cry
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Killed poor Laura Foster
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Poor boy, you're bound to die
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Hang your head, Tom Dooley
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Hang your head and cry
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Killed poor Laura Foster
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Poor boy you're bound to die
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-Good night, sleep well.
-You, too.
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Sleep well.
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Are you gonna go with them?
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You know, I'm not really a dud.
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Oh, he was way out of line.
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Why? Means he liked me.
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-They're good kids.
-Yeah.
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They live with their father.
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I see them on weekends.
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Boys need a father.
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Maybe everybody needs a father.
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How long have you known Susan and Anne?
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When Anne had the brain surgery,
I was her nurse.
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-Oh, that was in San Francisco.
-I worked down there for a couple of years.
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The hospital didn't want
to let Susan room in with her.
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I took the position that they were a couple
just like any other couple.
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-And I can see you're persuasive.
-I'm persistent.
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You can usually get around the rules
if you know how.
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You wanna help me with my taxes?
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Kidding, Colonel.
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Now wait a minute.
All your kids are Mormons?
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Louis got converted after our divorce.
So, yeah, all my kids are Mormons.
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That's why Matt's in Norway, my oldest boy.
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He's on his mission.
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He speaks Norwegian.
I taught all of them Norwegian.
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Now, I'm still back on Louis.
Why did he become a Mormon?
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He likes structure.
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He's remarried.
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Are you ever tempted?
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To get married again? No.
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That's me.
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You made some improvements.
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Actually, I didn't.
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Can I keep it?
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All yours.
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I can't even draw a stick figure.
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That's okay.
I can't even put a Band-Aid on straight.
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Were you ever married?
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I had a long relationship.
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Even good things come to an end.
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She's still my friend.
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Friends are hard to come by.
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I bet you never come down to LA.
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I don't have anything against LA.
I just don't have much reason.
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-It's sunny.
-Well, there's that.
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My show's opening at the university,
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if you think you could play hooky
from your responsibilities.
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Never been to an art opening.
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They're hard.
The trick is to pretend you like the art.
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I don't pretend well.
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Why am I not surprised?
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Well, I'm brave, you can come anyway.
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-You'll take your chances?
-Oh, yeah. I usually do.
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Diane, your work is outstanding.
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Are you just saying that
because you want an A in class?
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-You already gave me an A.
-Oh, my God. I'm sorry.
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-But I'll take another one.
-Oh, you.
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-No, they're really, really great.
-Thank you, thank you.
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-Really.
-Excuse me.
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-Oh, God.
-"There's a primal poetry
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"in the creation of the image
of a simple object with a such purity
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"that it animates the painting field
by the sense of its existence.
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"There is a welcome calm
and an authoritative reticence."
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-What...
-Oh, you know what that means.
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You have an authoritative reticence yourself.
250
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Command presence.
251
00:16:26,165 --> 00:16:30,329
Works on dogs, boys and soldiers.
252
00:16:30,403 --> 00:16:33,133
-Diane, I hate to interrupt.
-Hi. You leaving?
253
00:16:33,205 --> 00:16:37,904
-We'll see you at the restaurant, okay?
-Oh, okay. I'll just see you out. Excuse me.
254
00:16:44,550 --> 00:16:48,077
So do you feel like going out
with everybody?
255
00:16:48,154 --> 00:16:50,247
Will your friend be there?
256
00:16:52,425 --> 00:16:54,950
Doubt it. She usually gets up early.
257
00:16:56,996 --> 00:16:59,123
We could go out by ourselves,
if you'd rather.
258
00:16:59,198 --> 00:17:02,224
-No, they're expecting you.
-Oh, they're fine.
259
00:17:03,402 --> 00:17:04,960
Do you want to?
260
00:17:05,905 --> 00:17:07,668
-Yeah.
-Okay.
261
00:17:11,277 --> 00:17:16,010
They were marching right down this street,
right past here.
262
00:17:17,016 --> 00:17:19,849
Not on the sidewalk. They filled the street.
263
00:17:19,919 --> 00:17:23,355
"Hey, hey, IbJ,
how many kids did you kill today?"
264
00:17:23,422 --> 00:17:24,684
It was wild.
265
00:17:24,757 --> 00:17:27,317
-Did you march?
-No.
266
00:17:28,060 --> 00:17:32,429
I was too busy learning how to paint.
But, you know, I was sympathetic.
267
00:17:32,698 --> 00:17:36,225
-I mean, we all understood...
-We were dying in Vietnam.
268
00:17:37,970 --> 00:17:39,961
That was the whole point.
269
00:17:40,940 --> 00:17:42,703
It was demoralizing.
270
00:17:43,075 --> 00:17:45,134
The dying or the marching?
271
00:17:52,752 --> 00:17:55,880
Are we gonna have an argument
on our first date?
272
00:18:01,927 --> 00:18:04,828
Is that what this is? A date?
273
00:18:07,767 --> 00:18:09,632
It's up to you, Grethe.
274
00:18:10,436 --> 00:18:13,496
-I don't know what I'm doing.
-Yes, you do.
275
00:18:17,643 --> 00:18:19,167
I think you do.
276
00:18:42,334 --> 00:18:44,359
-Morning.
-Hi, I'm making eggs.
277
00:18:49,141 --> 00:18:51,701
-Have you ever made eggs before?
-What do you mean?
278
00:18:51,777 --> 00:18:55,269
I mean, I'm quite a good cook
when I put my mind to it.
279
00:18:56,182 --> 00:18:58,650
No one ever makes scrambled eggs
in a sauce pan.
280
00:18:58,717 --> 00:19:00,810
Are you kidding? It is the only way...
281
00:19:00,886 --> 00:19:04,253
Put that back, go sit down.
I've read how to do this.
282
00:19:04,924 --> 00:19:06,585
Have it your way.
283
00:19:16,101 --> 00:19:17,363
Are you putting cream in there?
284
00:19:17,870 --> 00:19:19,235
They're already cooked.
285
00:19:19,305 --> 00:19:21,068
Okay, I'll shut up.
286
00:19:21,674 --> 00:19:23,301
You are so bossy.
287
00:19:24,143 --> 00:19:27,306
-That's what you like about me.
-I guess I must.
288
00:19:27,379 --> 00:19:30,974
-You're here.
-Well, I sure didn't fall for your uniform.
289
00:19:32,218 --> 00:19:35,210
No, no. I mean, you're very impressive in it.
290
00:19:35,521 --> 00:19:38,149
-You're easily impressed.
-Not at all.
291
00:20:05,985 --> 00:20:08,749
These are the best scrambled eggs
I've ever tasted.
292
00:20:08,821 --> 00:20:10,118
Thank you.
293
00:20:10,389 --> 00:20:12,619
See, that's how you take a compliment.
294
00:20:12,691 --> 00:20:14,283
I'll try to remember.
295
00:20:15,194 --> 00:20:16,354
Toast.
296
00:20:24,236 --> 00:20:27,034
I wish you didn't have to go back to LA.
297
00:20:28,107 --> 00:20:31,372
-It'd be nice, wouldn't it?
-Yeah.
298
00:20:44,657 --> 00:20:47,592
-I left a message in your office.
-Hi, Jim. You could have beeped me.
299
00:20:47,660 --> 00:20:49,525
-I hate those things.
-What's up?
300
00:20:49,595 --> 00:20:50,687
I need to talk to you.
301
00:20:50,763 --> 00:20:53,095
-Do I have two minutes?
-No rush.
302
00:20:56,535 --> 00:20:57,900
You know when I hired you, Grethe,
303
00:20:57,970 --> 00:21:00,165
I told you
you were way overqualified for the position.
304
00:21:00,239 --> 00:21:02,935
I was grateful for the job.
Seattle's always been a tough market.
305
00:21:03,008 --> 00:21:04,635
I was afraid I wouldn't be able to keep you.
306
00:21:04,710 --> 00:21:06,007
You knew I had my kids up here.
307
00:21:06,078 --> 00:21:09,411
I hate to see people
underutilizing their abilities.
308
00:21:09,748 --> 00:21:11,648
Are you letting me go?
309
00:21:12,017 --> 00:21:13,917
No, I'm promoting you.
310
00:21:15,888 --> 00:21:18,789
I got enough money in the budget
for a new position.
311
00:21:18,857 --> 00:21:21,325
I want you to be the Neuro Coordinator
of the Seizure Clinic.
312
00:21:21,393 --> 00:21:24,089
I want you to run it.
I mean, why would I fire you?
313
00:21:24,163 --> 00:21:26,358
-You're my best nurse.
-Thank you, Jim.
314
00:21:26,432 --> 00:21:29,458
It comes with a raise and all that, you know?
315
00:21:32,204 --> 00:21:34,104
-You sound tense.
-No, I don't.
316
00:21:34,406 --> 00:21:36,601
Definitely a little wound up.
317
00:21:37,009 --> 00:21:40,843
I'm just tired, this research for my thesis.
318
00:21:41,213 --> 00:21:42,544
Then say good night.
319
00:21:43,082 --> 00:21:46,848
I got a letter from my father.
He's coming to live with me.
320
00:21:49,788 --> 00:21:53,280
He's old, but he's not blind, Diane.
He's gonna notice.
321
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:56,021
Well, do you talk about everything
he does in private?
322
00:21:56,095 --> 00:21:58,256
Sometimes I don't understand
how you think at all.
323
00:21:58,330 --> 00:22:00,127
No, I'm just saying
it doesn't have to come up.
324
00:22:00,199 --> 00:22:03,430
-Do I need pillow cases to go with these?
-I'm not going to pretend.
325
00:22:03,502 --> 00:22:05,993
Yes, you said that all ready. Here.
326
00:22:06,805 --> 00:22:09,069
Maybe I should get him solids.
327
00:22:09,808 --> 00:22:12,572
Why force somebody to hear something
they don't wanna hear, you know?
328
00:22:12,645 --> 00:22:15,239
-Your family knows.
-They do not.
329
00:22:17,916 --> 00:22:19,816
Well, okay,
they've probably figured it out by now,
330
00:22:19,885 --> 00:22:21,375
but we don't talk about it.
331
00:22:21,453 --> 00:22:23,216
There's lots of things
I wouldn't tell my family.
332
00:22:23,288 --> 00:22:25,813
-How about blue?
-No, it's too cold.
333
00:22:25,991 --> 00:22:29,290
-He'll feel right at home.
-Like what kind of thing?
334
00:22:32,064 --> 00:22:34,965
-Am I prying?
-Yes.
335
00:22:38,771 --> 00:22:41,001
White. You can't go wrong with white.
336
00:22:41,073 --> 00:22:45,203
He's only coming for two years.
He works his way around the family.
337
00:22:45,444 --> 00:22:47,344
-So, you want to call me in two years?
-No.
338
00:22:47,413 --> 00:22:50,382
No, I just haven't decided what to do yet.
339
00:22:50,549 --> 00:22:52,176
He has some neurologic problems.
340
00:22:52,251 --> 00:22:56,119
He hasn't been able to manage by himself
since my mother died.
341
00:22:56,321 --> 00:22:58,653
He doesn't need to know, Grethe.
342
00:22:58,891 --> 00:23:02,190
-I need him to know.
-Well, I think that's selfish.
343
00:23:02,428 --> 00:23:04,896
We have a complicated relationship.
344
00:23:04,963 --> 00:23:08,558
Which "we" are you talking about?
You and him, or you and me?
345
00:23:11,336 --> 00:23:12,462
Both.
346
00:23:14,740 --> 00:23:17,903
-You'll probably like each other.
-Yeah, well, I get on with most people.
347
00:23:17,976 --> 00:23:20,809
Well, so do I. My father's the exception.
348
00:23:22,448 --> 00:23:26,714
-Now what? Now what?
-No, okay, okay, you're in drive.
349
00:23:26,785 --> 00:23:29,481
If you want to start the engine,
put it into neutral.
350
00:23:31,957 --> 00:23:33,219
"Dear Far..."
351
00:23:37,963 --> 00:23:39,430
"Dear Father.
352
00:23:42,601 --> 00:23:44,068
"I've met someone
353
00:23:44,136 --> 00:23:48,004
"who has become very important to me. "
354
00:23:52,010 --> 00:23:53,272
Terrible.
355
00:23:57,950 --> 00:23:59,110
"Dear Far..."
356
00:24:00,452 --> 00:24:02,352
-How's it going?
-Fine.
357
00:24:03,288 --> 00:24:04,448
Lousy.
358
00:24:05,591 --> 00:24:07,252
You want some tea?
359
00:24:07,459 --> 00:24:09,222
-I'll make it.
-Okay.
360
00:24:26,945 --> 00:24:29,880
"Dear Far, before you move in with me,
361
00:24:30,215 --> 00:24:33,275
"you need to know
that I've come to understand
362
00:24:33,786 --> 00:24:35,481
"I'm a homosexual.
363
00:24:36,989 --> 00:24:40,652
"I'm perfectly happy,
and I don't need therapy.
364
00:24:41,827 --> 00:24:45,160
"But I can't and won't hide
who I am from you.
365
00:24:46,365 --> 00:24:49,300
"Now, neither one of us has to be dishonest.
366
00:24:50,202 --> 00:24:53,638
"You know you're welcome here
for as long as you want.
367
00:24:54,106 --> 00:24:56,700
"But I'm not gonna change my life.
368
00:24:57,643 --> 00:25:00,806
"Your only daughter, Grethe. "
369
00:25:12,324 --> 00:25:13,723
-Hello?
-It's me.
370
00:25:13,792 --> 00:25:15,191
Hi. Hi.
371
00:25:15,828 --> 00:25:17,955
My father wrote back two sentences.
372
00:25:18,030 --> 00:25:19,622
-Do you want to hear them?
-Sure.
373
00:25:19,698 --> 00:25:21,529
Okay, I'm translating from the Norwegian.
374
00:25:22,868 --> 00:25:25,860
"I'm sorry you had to say
anything about this.
375
00:25:26,205 --> 00:25:28,833
"I hope it doesn't hurt your career. "
376
00:25:28,907 --> 00:25:30,135
He's a tough man.
377
00:25:30,209 --> 00:25:31,904
Well, at least he didn't reject me.
378
00:25:31,977 --> 00:25:35,413
-He isn't right about your career, is he?
-No, he's just trying to criticize me.
379
00:25:37,583 --> 00:25:38,880
I miss you.
380
00:25:40,986 --> 00:25:42,749
I like hearing that.
381
00:25:44,423 --> 00:25:45,651
So what should I call him?
382
00:25:45,724 --> 00:25:48,693
Well, I call him Far,
which is Norwegian for Father.
383
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,957
-I don't think I'd better.
-Well, his name's Yahn.
384
00:25:52,464 --> 00:25:53,590
Listen, I feel terrible.
385
00:25:53,665 --> 00:25:55,394
Look at me and look at you,
you look so nice.
386
00:25:55,467 --> 00:25:57,128
You look fine.
He probably won't even notice.
387
00:25:57,202 --> 00:25:59,432
-How about Dr. Cammermeyer?
-That's safe.
388
00:26:04,509 --> 00:26:06,306
-How do you do?
-Hey.
389
00:26:09,214 --> 00:26:11,273
Far, this is Diane.
390
00:26:18,457 --> 00:26:23,190
My daughter tells me
you're some kind of a artist professor.
391
00:26:24,396 --> 00:26:25,727
Well, yes.
392
00:26:26,331 --> 00:26:29,732
I mean, I am an artist and I do teach.
So, yeah.
393
00:26:29,801 --> 00:26:34,738
-I don't know anything about art.
-Don't apologize. Neither does Grethe.
394
00:26:36,942 --> 00:26:39,809
-Tell me your name again.
-Diane.
395
00:26:42,581 --> 00:26:45,311
I may need to ask you more than once.
396
00:26:47,219 --> 00:26:49,779
It's perfectly all right, Professor.
397
00:26:59,798 --> 00:27:02,790
I'm on my way to the library.
I'll catch you later.
398
00:27:02,868 --> 00:27:04,836
Oh, good one, Bosco!
399
00:27:05,804 --> 00:27:06,964
Diane.
400
00:27:08,740 --> 00:27:10,298
Hi. See you.
401
00:27:12,945 --> 00:27:15,778
Why didn't you tell me
it was this hard to get a PhD?
402
00:27:15,847 --> 00:27:19,283
Oh, you thought that if I could get one,
anybody could, huh?
403
00:27:19,351 --> 00:27:20,784
Don't start.
404
00:27:22,120 --> 00:27:23,883
Did Far drive you crazy?
405
00:27:23,956 --> 00:27:27,255
No, actually, we had a good time.
He talked about the Norwegian resistance.
406
00:27:27,326 --> 00:27:30,955
-He's trying to impress you.
-Well, I hear that's a good thing.
407
00:27:31,029 --> 00:27:32,690
Know why he's being so pleasant?
408
00:27:32,764 --> 00:27:35,164
Because he's pretending
we're just a couple of friends.
409
00:27:35,233 --> 00:27:37,167
-We are.
-No, like we don't matter to each other.
410
00:27:37,235 --> 00:27:39,100
-Grethe.
-I want him to understand.
411
00:27:39,171 --> 00:27:42,163
No, you want him to accept it.
You want him to approve it.
412
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,708
Yes. Right. Yes.
413
00:27:45,610 --> 00:27:47,271
Well, you know,
you're gonna be disappointed.
414
00:27:47,346 --> 00:27:49,075
Look, would you slow down?
415
00:27:49,147 --> 00:27:50,774
Jeez! Gotta do up my shoe.
416
00:27:55,287 --> 00:27:58,381
You know, a couple of years ago,
Far was doing our family book.
417
00:27:58,457 --> 00:28:00,550
He's a fool for genealogy.
418
00:28:01,059 --> 00:28:02,856
And he wrote down...
419
00:28:03,929 --> 00:28:06,489
He wrote down that he has three children.
420
00:28:06,565 --> 00:28:08,965
Except that there are four of us.
421
00:28:09,234 --> 00:28:12,067
He has three boys, is what he meant.
422
00:28:13,438 --> 00:28:14,666
Oh, God.
423
00:28:15,941 --> 00:28:19,240
-Why do you have him stay with you?
-He's my father.
424
00:28:20,545 --> 00:28:24,208
But just once before the man's dead
I'd like to hear him say,
425
00:28:24,716 --> 00:28:26,445
"I'm proud of you.
426
00:28:30,122 --> 00:28:32,522
"You did a good job, Margarethe."
427
00:28:33,825 --> 00:28:35,850
I mean, what does it take?
428
00:28:35,994 --> 00:28:40,397
My medals, my marriage, my sons, my rank?
429
00:28:40,799 --> 00:28:42,562
I mean, he's tough.
430
00:28:45,904 --> 00:28:47,997
You impress everybody else.
431
00:28:54,212 --> 00:28:55,736
You impress me.
432
00:29:05,323 --> 00:29:10,158
I'm going to upgrade my security clearance
to top-secret
433
00:29:10,595 --> 00:29:12,995
-and apply to the War College.
-What?
434
00:29:13,065 --> 00:29:15,898
I have the background.
I have the experience.
435
00:29:15,967 --> 00:29:19,425
I want to be Chief Nurse
of the entire National Guard.
436
00:29:21,807 --> 00:29:23,832
I'm gonna make General.
437
00:29:26,545 --> 00:29:28,911
Well, that'll sure impress
the hell out of your dad.
438
00:29:28,980 --> 00:29:31,278
It has nothing to do with him.
439
00:29:32,984 --> 00:29:34,076
Good.
440
00:29:34,619 --> 00:29:38,612
I never told anyone I rolled that jeep.
I wanted to finish my tour.
441
00:29:39,291 --> 00:29:41,759
I was dumb enough to want to stay in Nam.
442
00:29:41,827 --> 00:29:43,954
I was stationed in Long Bihn.
443
00:29:44,129 --> 00:29:46,029
Yeah, I was at Da Nang.
444
00:29:47,065 --> 00:29:49,363
-Headaches?
-That's why they sell aspirin.
445
00:29:49,434 --> 00:29:51,493
Okay, look straight ahead.
446
00:29:51,603 --> 00:29:53,628
You still dream about it?
447
00:29:54,673 --> 00:29:55,765
Yeah.
448
00:29:57,542 --> 00:29:59,567
See you next week, Frank.
449
00:30:00,946 --> 00:30:05,007
Would you have this sent down
to Dr. Christianson, please? Whoops!
450
00:30:15,994 --> 00:30:17,825
Colonel Cammermeyer.
451
00:30:17,896 --> 00:30:19,989
Agent Cole,
Department of Investigative Services.
452
00:30:20,065 --> 00:30:21,555
-Sorry I'm late.
-Oh, no problem.
453
00:30:21,633 --> 00:30:24,158
-You ever applied for an upgrade before?
-No.
454
00:30:24,236 --> 00:30:26,466
I ask, you answer. Very basic.
455
00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,169
Have you ever received treatment
456
00:30:30,242 --> 00:30:34,076
for any mental, emotional, psychological
or personality disorder?
457
00:30:34,146 --> 00:30:37,138
I had some counseling
to help me get through my divorce,
458
00:30:37,215 --> 00:30:39,843
but that's not a disorder,
in answer to your question.
459
00:30:39,918 --> 00:30:43,684
-Do you use alcohol on a regular basis?
-I stopped drinking 10 years ago.
460
00:30:43,755 --> 00:30:46,690
-Did you have a problem?
-I didn't want to have a problem.
461
00:30:46,758 --> 00:30:48,692
-lllegal drugs?
-No.
462
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:50,125
-Never?
-No.
463
00:30:52,764 --> 00:30:55,756
Have you ever engaged in immoral conduct?
464
00:30:55,834 --> 00:30:56,926
No.
465
00:30:59,137 --> 00:31:01,162
What do you mean by immoral?
466
00:31:03,108 --> 00:31:05,167
Those defined
by the Department of Defense.
467
00:31:05,243 --> 00:31:09,145
Alcohol abuse, drug abuse, homosexuality,
adultery, sexual acts with a minor...
468
00:31:09,214 --> 00:31:10,704
I'm a lesbian.
469
00:31:17,422 --> 00:31:21,051
-You're an active lesbian?
-I have an emotional...
470
00:31:23,328 --> 00:31:25,796
I connect emotionally to women.
471
00:31:27,933 --> 00:31:29,127
Sexually?
472
00:31:29,201 --> 00:31:31,601
It doesn't have anything to do
with sexual activity.
473
00:31:31,670 --> 00:31:33,900
Then what makes you a lesbian?
474
00:31:36,374 --> 00:31:37,807
My feelings.
475
00:31:38,109 --> 00:31:39,542
About women?
476
00:31:41,046 --> 00:31:42,741
More about myself.
477
00:31:45,150 --> 00:31:46,640
It's who I am.
478
00:31:47,252 --> 00:31:49,243
Being a homosexual is not illegal
479
00:31:49,321 --> 00:31:52,256
according to
the Uniform Code of Military Justice.
480
00:31:52,324 --> 00:31:55,384
Only homosexual acts are,
and that's not what I'm talking about.
481
00:31:55,460 --> 00:31:58,395
When you were married,
were you faithful to your husband?
482
00:31:58,463 --> 00:32:00,931
For all 15 years. Yes.
483
00:32:00,999 --> 00:32:03,900
So how many women
have you had sex with?
484
00:32:03,969 --> 00:32:07,063
-I never said I did.
-Yeah, but you have had relationships.
485
00:32:07,138 --> 00:32:11,541
-I'm trying to understand. Help me out.
-This is who I am.
486
00:32:12,210 --> 00:32:14,644
How many ways can I explain it to you?
487
00:32:14,713 --> 00:32:18,080
So if you don't engage in conduct,
how do you know you're a lesbian?
488
00:32:18,149 --> 00:32:20,049
Maybe you're celibate.
489
00:32:20,118 --> 00:32:21,915
-You're not listening.
-Oh, I am.
490
00:32:21,987 --> 00:32:24,854
Being a lesbian
is part of someone's identity.
491
00:32:24,923 --> 00:32:27,084
Nothing more, nothing less.
492
00:32:27,158 --> 00:32:31,185
-I have patients. I need to get back to work.
-We're almost done.
493
00:32:33,798 --> 00:32:36,130
What possessed you to tell them?
494
00:32:36,434 --> 00:32:38,334
Nobody ever asked before.
495
00:32:38,403 --> 00:32:40,530
At least I don't remember them asking.
496
00:32:40,605 --> 00:32:43,438
Anyway, this is for top-secret clearance.
497
00:32:45,810 --> 00:32:48,608
I didn't know he was going to ask, Diane.
498
00:32:49,381 --> 00:32:51,906
Anyway, it's the truth.
499
00:32:51,983 --> 00:32:54,178
It'll be easier for us to plan our schedules.
500
00:32:54,252 --> 00:32:57,244
Now you won't have to waste a weekend
a month at the base.
501
00:32:57,322 --> 00:32:59,415
You know you've cooked your own goose.
502
00:32:59,491 --> 00:33:01,755
Why? I'm not a security risk.
503
00:33:01,826 --> 00:33:04,192
I can't be blackmailed
if I've already told the Army.
504
00:33:04,262 --> 00:33:05,422
There'd be no leverage.
505
00:33:06,064 --> 00:33:07,964
Then why do you look so gray
around the gills?
506
00:33:08,033 --> 00:33:11,264
There were restrictions against women.
There were restrictions against blacks.
507
00:33:11,336 --> 00:33:14,794
There was a regulation against mothers.
Policies change.
508
00:33:14,873 --> 00:33:18,172
-The Army is a reasonable organization.
-Oh, really?
509
00:33:18,510 --> 00:33:23,140
-It takes... It judges a situation by its merits.
-Not according to history.
510
00:33:23,615 --> 00:33:25,139
Were you there?
511
00:33:26,217 --> 00:33:29,118
-You are such a soldier.
-I am.
512
00:33:29,554 --> 00:33:32,614
I have 23 years of service. That has to count.
513
00:33:32,857 --> 00:33:35,189
The Army takes care of its own.
514
00:33:36,528 --> 00:33:38,291
It's where I belong.
515
00:33:39,864 --> 00:33:43,163
Would you have told them anything
if we'd never met?
516
00:33:46,271 --> 00:33:47,295
No.
517
00:33:48,206 --> 00:33:51,471
I probably would have
just kept on lying to myself.
518
00:33:52,644 --> 00:33:55,875
Grethe, you have a big fat mouth.
519
00:34:02,754 --> 00:34:05,314
-So what happens now?
-I don't know.
520
00:34:06,091 --> 00:34:07,149
Maybe nothing.
521
00:34:07,225 --> 00:34:10,661
Oh, I thought I was an optimist.
You're off the scale.
522
00:34:11,763 --> 00:34:13,128
I love you.
523
00:34:34,452 --> 00:34:36,215
On the firing line...
524
00:34:36,287 --> 00:34:37,481
Colonel Cammermeyer.
525
00:34:37,555 --> 00:34:39,045
...cease fire.
526
00:34:50,301 --> 00:34:53,964
We've been contacted by
the Defense Investigative Services, Colonel.
527
00:34:54,038 --> 00:34:55,835
You received an adverse report.
528
00:34:55,907 --> 00:34:57,875
Based on your own statement.
529
00:34:57,942 --> 00:34:59,671
That I'm a lesbian?
530
00:35:00,779 --> 00:35:03,646
As a result,
your security clearance has been pulled.
531
00:35:03,715 --> 00:35:07,845
And your federal recognition
is under consideration for withdrawal.
532
00:35:07,952 --> 00:35:11,854
-The Guard is trying to discharge me?
-Not the Guard. The Army.
533
00:35:11,923 --> 00:35:15,723
-I'm allowed to say I'm homosexual.
-Not since 1982.
534
00:35:16,060 --> 00:35:18,858
Regulation AR 135-1 75.
535
00:35:19,464 --> 00:35:20,726
Which is?
536
00:35:21,666 --> 00:35:24,533
You're the legal adviser.
Tell her the wording.
537
00:35:24,602 --> 00:35:26,536
The regulation says that
538
00:35:26,604 --> 00:35:31,132
if a member states
that he or she is a homosexual or bisexual,
539
00:35:31,209 --> 00:35:33,837
then that member will be removed
from the military,
540
00:35:33,912 --> 00:35:35,311
unless there's a further finding
541
00:35:35,380 --> 00:35:39,111
that the member is not a homosexual
or a bisexual.
542
00:35:39,918 --> 00:35:42,284
So my statement is all that it takes?
543
00:35:42,353 --> 00:35:45,914
The military has discharged 15,000 soldiers
in the last 10 years.
544
00:35:45,990 --> 00:35:47,787
Where do you think
those people went, Colonel?
545
00:35:47,859 --> 00:35:50,657
I had no idea. Transferred?
Everyone moves around.
546
00:35:50,728 --> 00:35:53,253
You could avoid charges
if you want to resign, Colonel.
547
00:35:53,331 --> 00:35:55,629
No, sir, I refuse to resign.
548
00:35:56,935 --> 00:35:59,403
Are we allowed to keep her serving?
549
00:35:59,471 --> 00:36:02,133
Well, until the Army takes formal action.
550
00:36:02,207 --> 00:36:04,300
I'm sorry this is happening.
551
00:36:04,375 --> 00:36:05,842
Yes, sir, so am I.
552
00:36:05,910 --> 00:36:08,845
I always thought you had a lot of potential.
553
00:36:09,614 --> 00:36:11,138
Thank you, sir.
554
00:36:11,583 --> 00:36:13,244
Don't bury me yet.
555
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:17,920
-Is that all, sir?
-That's all.
556
00:37:02,267 --> 00:37:05,236
It'd be midnight
and the sky'd still be blue outside.
557
00:37:05,303 --> 00:37:08,602
-You could read a newspaper.
-And what were you doing up at midnight?
558
00:37:08,673 --> 00:37:10,538
Oh, you stepped in it now.
559
00:37:10,608 --> 00:37:12,041
-Thinking of you.
-Yeah, right.
560
00:37:12,110 --> 00:37:13,668
Bravo, bravo.
561
00:37:14,245 --> 00:37:16,679
-Hey.
-Here we are.
562
00:37:17,081 --> 00:37:18,548
-All right.
-Wow.
563
00:37:18,616 --> 00:37:20,811
-Welcome home, Matt.
-Thank you, Mor.
564
00:37:20,885 --> 00:37:23,786
Oh, I love it when you call me Mor.
That's Norwegian for mother.
565
00:37:23,855 --> 00:37:26,653
Did you go see
where we used to live in Oslo?
566
00:37:26,724 --> 00:37:27,748
Couldn't find it.
567
00:37:27,825 --> 00:37:31,226
The Nazis had their headquarters
across the street from us.
568
00:37:31,296 --> 00:37:36,199
We were hiding members of the resistance,
right under their big noses.
569
00:37:36,267 --> 00:37:38,132
Your mother used to smuggle guns.
570
00:37:38,202 --> 00:37:41,171
I remember,
under my blanket in my baby carriage.
571
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:42,604
With her on top of them.
572
00:37:42,674 --> 00:37:45,234
-Wasn't that dangerous with a baby?
-Oh, yeah.
573
00:37:45,310 --> 00:37:47,437
Far, could we please hear about Matt?
574
00:37:47,512 --> 00:37:50,003
This girl is marrying into the family.
575
00:37:50,081 --> 00:37:52,015
She needs to know what we are all about.
576
00:37:52,083 --> 00:37:54,210
-She knows.
-Matt, cut the cake.
577
00:37:54,285 --> 00:37:55,616
Good idea.
578
00:37:56,521 --> 00:37:59,581
-Make them big slices.
-Oh, this looks good.
579
00:38:00,325 --> 00:38:02,316
Why did you tell your father
you were getting married,
580
00:38:02,393 --> 00:38:03,655
and you didn't tell me?
581
00:38:03,728 --> 00:38:06,788
-You knew how Lynette and I felt.
-Sure I did.
582
00:38:06,864 --> 00:38:09,526
I just didn't want
to tell you over the phone, transatlantic.
583
00:38:09,601 --> 00:38:10,693
You told him.
584
00:38:10,768 --> 00:38:14,260
Just so he'd start making arrangements
with the Bishop.
585
00:38:15,206 --> 00:38:18,073
You're not Mormon. You can't do it, Mor.
586
00:38:18,743 --> 00:38:21,177
You can't even go to the ceremony.
587
00:38:21,379 --> 00:38:22,812
A lot of people can't.
588
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:24,939
You gotta be an active member
with a certain standing
589
00:38:25,016 --> 00:38:27,075
to be allowed inside the temple.
590
00:38:27,151 --> 00:38:29,984
Even some of Lynette's relatives can't go.
591
00:38:30,455 --> 00:38:31,922
Her mother will be there.
592
00:38:31,990 --> 00:38:35,949
Please don't make this into a big thing,
because I can't fix it.
593
00:38:40,431 --> 00:38:43,923
I'll be waiting for you right outside
that temple door.
594
00:38:46,671 --> 00:38:47,660
Okay.
595
00:38:51,609 --> 00:38:53,577
What would happen if we both just quit?
596
00:38:53,645 --> 00:38:56,842
You know, to hell with the careers.
We'd still get our pension.
597
00:38:56,914 --> 00:38:59,576
I'd be agreeing with Army regulations.
598
00:39:02,286 --> 00:39:04,982
-Do you believe everything has a purpose?
-A purpose?
599
00:39:05,056 --> 00:39:06,683
-Yeah.
-Maybe.
600
00:39:06,891 --> 00:39:09,860
I'm gonna change the regulations, Diane.
601
00:39:12,864 --> 00:39:15,025
I had to fall in love with a hero.
602
00:39:15,099 --> 00:39:17,431
-I'm not a hero.
-Just a Viking.
603
00:39:17,869 --> 00:39:21,600
Vikings die with their swords in hand,
don't you know that?
604
00:39:22,340 --> 00:39:23,602
Oh, dear.
605
00:39:24,275 --> 00:39:26,004
How did you find this lawyer?
606
00:39:26,077 --> 00:39:29,012
I started with the ACLU,
and they referred me to LAMBDA.
607
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:30,672
Which is what? What does that stand for?
608
00:39:30,748 --> 00:39:33,945
Oh, Grethe, wait, wait.
This isn't the Army, okay?
609
00:39:35,453 --> 00:39:38,616
LAMBDA offers free legal counsel
to gays and lesbians.
610
00:39:38,690 --> 00:39:42,490
-Are they lesbians?
-What does it matter? It's non-profit.
611
00:39:44,062 --> 00:39:46,292
And this is just dinner, okay?
612
00:39:47,065 --> 00:39:49,090
Do you remember her name?
613
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:52,933
Hi, I'm Mary Newcombe.
Colonel Cammermeyer?
614
00:39:53,471 --> 00:39:55,598
Hello. You're a kid.
615
00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:58,736
Oh, I'm old enough to know
that's a compliment. Thank you.
616
00:39:58,810 --> 00:40:00,368
-Diane, hi.
-Hey.
617
00:40:00,445 --> 00:40:01,935
-And I'm Chris.
-Hi.
618
00:40:02,013 --> 00:40:03,071
Come on in.
619
00:40:03,147 --> 00:40:06,014
I invited another client for you to talk to
before you make up your mind.
620
00:40:06,084 --> 00:40:08,484
-Captain Dusty Pruitt.
-Colonel.
621
00:40:08,553 --> 00:40:11,716
Meet another dyke
who didn't keep her mouth shut.
622
00:40:12,557 --> 00:40:14,684
No, I was on active duty for eight years.
623
00:40:14,759 --> 00:40:18,456
I didn't transfer to the Reserves
until I started divinity school.
624
00:40:18,529 --> 00:40:22,522
Dusty gave an interview to the LA Times
identifying herself as a lesbian.
625
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:24,124
And a minister.
626
00:40:25,336 --> 00:40:27,896
Did you think
soldiers had First Amendment rights?
627
00:40:27,972 --> 00:40:29,872
No way. No, ma'am.
628
00:40:29,941 --> 00:40:32,102
You were discharged just for saying it?
629
00:40:32,176 --> 00:40:35,009
They parked a van of agents
outside my church.
630
00:40:35,079 --> 00:40:37,172
They put a car in front of my apartment.
631
00:40:37,248 --> 00:40:41,082
My phone clicked so much it sounded
like mice were eating the line. I know.
632
00:40:41,152 --> 00:40:44,815
I got so sick of it, one night I went out
and invited them in for coffee.
633
00:40:45,389 --> 00:40:47,653
-Did they accept?
-No, they were too embarrassed.
634
00:40:47,725 --> 00:40:50,159
They just drove off and never came back.
635
00:40:51,662 --> 00:40:54,062
You think the Army's your family.
636
00:40:54,832 --> 00:40:56,857
You think it's your life.
637
00:40:57,568 --> 00:40:59,468
Except, maybe,
your family could forgive you.
638
00:40:59,537 --> 00:41:01,334
There's nothing to forgive.
639
00:41:01,405 --> 00:41:03,873
Were you ever in the closet, Mary?
640
00:41:03,941 --> 00:41:06,034
Not as far in as you were.
641
00:41:06,410 --> 00:41:09,709
-Or as Grethe is.
-Diane's still got the door closed.
642
00:41:10,348 --> 00:41:12,680
No, no.
I just don't have the itch to tell, you know?
643
00:41:12,750 --> 00:41:15,014
I mean, it's not such a novelty to me.
644
00:41:15,086 --> 00:41:16,485
Just because you're honest with yourself,
645
00:41:16,554 --> 00:41:18,488
there's no reason the whole world
has to know about it.
646
00:41:18,556 --> 00:41:20,023
Right, right.
647
00:41:20,458 --> 00:41:22,392
You know, I don't know.
648
00:41:23,161 --> 00:41:25,925
I'd like not having to hide, you know?
649
00:41:26,697 --> 00:41:29,325
I'm very proud of the life I've made.
I'm happy.
650
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:30,526
I'm happy, too.
651
00:41:30,601 --> 00:41:34,002
All these happy people at the same table.
I'm touched. I am.
652
00:41:34,071 --> 00:41:36,733
Would you take on the Army again
if you could do it over?
653
00:41:36,808 --> 00:41:39,800
Nothing's gonna change unless
people stick up for themselves, Colonel.
654
00:41:39,877 --> 00:41:43,210
You have to decide
what kind of tolerance you have, Grethe.
655
00:41:43,281 --> 00:41:45,875
Because when we lose the first round,
and we will,
656
00:41:45,950 --> 00:41:50,546
we're gonna have to sue in Civil Court,
and that puts you way out in public.
657
00:41:50,888 --> 00:41:52,685
Now, are you ready to have
everyone that knows you
658
00:41:52,757 --> 00:41:54,054
know you're a lesbian?
659
00:41:54,125 --> 00:41:56,457
Your colleagues, your family,
660
00:41:58,396 --> 00:41:59,727
your kids?
661
00:42:06,470 --> 00:42:07,494
No.
662
00:42:07,872 --> 00:42:10,534
Then resign. Go gracefully.
663
00:42:10,608 --> 00:42:14,203
Bow out now, keep your benefits,
save your time and mine.
664
00:42:20,384 --> 00:42:22,852
-They're lesbians.
-No kidding.
665
00:42:24,822 --> 00:42:26,517
I'm not like them.
666
00:42:26,657 --> 00:42:29,490
Did you think you were gonna sue
from the closet?
667
00:42:31,529 --> 00:42:33,087
I didn't think about it.
668
00:42:33,164 --> 00:42:36,133
You're the highest-ranking officer
ever charged with being gay.
669
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:38,191
It's the kind of thing
people are going to notice.
670
00:42:38,269 --> 00:42:40,169
I haven't been charged.
671
00:42:44,008 --> 00:42:48,069
The boys could hate me.
They could refuse to see me.
672
00:42:50,815 --> 00:42:53,750
I could lose my kids, Diane.
I mean, why should I risk that?
673
00:42:53,818 --> 00:42:55,911
-Okay, then that's the decision.
-No, I can't do it.
674
00:42:55,987 --> 00:42:57,079
I agree.
675
00:42:57,154 --> 00:42:59,019
I don't know why you wanna be
in the military, anyway,
676
00:42:59,090 --> 00:43:00,216
with their attitudes.
677
00:43:00,291 --> 00:43:01,553
They're dinosaurs.
678
00:43:01,626 --> 00:43:04,857
You were a combat nurse.
You served in Vietnam.
679
00:43:04,929 --> 00:43:07,363
You would have died for the Army,
and they would have let you.
680
00:43:07,431 --> 00:43:10,559
No questions asked. So, goodbye, Army.
Who cares?
681
00:43:11,969 --> 00:43:13,061
I do.
682
00:43:14,538 --> 00:43:16,335
You're unbelievable.
683
00:43:19,243 --> 00:43:21,734
I was asked a direct question.
I gave a direct answer.
684
00:43:21,812 --> 00:43:24,542
As an officer, I didn't have any choice.
685
00:43:25,016 --> 00:43:26,415
There wasn't any choice.
686
00:43:26,484 --> 00:43:29,817
The regulation has an escape hatch
built into it.
687
00:43:30,288 --> 00:43:35,021
"Unless there is a further finding
that the member is not a homosexual."
688
00:43:35,359 --> 00:43:36,690
What if we found that?
689
00:43:36,761 --> 00:43:38,592
You could have been having a mid-life crisis
690
00:43:38,663 --> 00:43:42,827
or some sort of post-trauma syndrome
or short-term mental breakdown.
691
00:43:42,900 --> 00:43:45,596
-You could take it back, Grethe.
-Recant.
692
00:43:45,803 --> 00:43:48,067
You don't have to do Joan of Arc here.
693
00:43:48,139 --> 00:43:51,870
-If I said it wasn't true, I'd be lying.
-I'm not suggesting you lie.
694
00:43:51,943 --> 00:43:54,707
But couldn't you have had
a moment of sexual confusion
695
00:43:54,779 --> 00:43:56,542
and gotten over it?
696
00:43:57,348 --> 00:43:59,339
-No.
-Fine.
697
00:44:03,988 --> 00:44:06,081
I can't lie about who I am.
698
00:44:06,457 --> 00:44:09,051
I'd rather lose my uniform than my integrity.
699
00:44:09,126 --> 00:44:12,687
And you will, you know.
You're throwing away your career.
700
00:44:13,197 --> 00:44:14,596
I could win.
701
00:44:14,899 --> 00:44:18,835
You could commit murder
and have a better chance of staying in.
702
00:44:23,574 --> 00:44:25,337
What are you doing?
703
00:44:26,644 --> 00:44:28,077
-Come on.
-What is this?
704
00:44:28,145 --> 00:44:30,010
-Where's the D?
-Go.
705
00:44:30,548 --> 00:44:34,279
-Hey, Mom, what are you doing?
-It's the last three minutes.
706
00:44:34,352 --> 00:44:36,115
I need to talk to you.
707
00:44:36,187 --> 00:44:37,916
Now what did we do?
708
00:44:38,789 --> 00:44:40,620
-Yeah, what?
-Nothing.
709
00:44:41,692 --> 00:44:43,319
This is about me.
710
00:44:47,098 --> 00:44:49,123
I'm going to sue the Army.
711
00:44:50,401 --> 00:44:51,527
What?
712
00:44:57,541 --> 00:45:02,274
They want to discharge me
because I told them I'm a lesbian.
713
00:45:13,858 --> 00:45:16,190
-Here. Mor, here.
-Thank you.
714
00:45:18,863 --> 00:45:22,026
You're not a lesbian. They don't have kids.
715
00:45:22,099 --> 00:45:23,930
Where'd you get your information?
716
00:45:24,001 --> 00:45:27,095
If you want to have nothing to do with me...
717
00:45:27,171 --> 00:45:30,470
No, please don't cry, Mor.
718
00:45:31,275 --> 00:45:34,244
Mor, we already know.
719
00:45:37,848 --> 00:45:38,906
How?
720
00:45:39,917 --> 00:45:43,250
I didn't realize it that long ago myself.
721
00:45:44,989 --> 00:45:46,217
Dad did.
722
00:45:48,726 --> 00:45:50,193
He said that?
723
00:45:51,695 --> 00:45:54,186
Hey, it's old news.
724
00:45:54,598 --> 00:45:56,498
Not to everybody else.
725
00:45:57,134 --> 00:45:58,533
When I sue,
726
00:46:01,138 --> 00:46:03,129
it'll be in the newspapers.
727
00:46:03,207 --> 00:46:07,200
I'll be on the news.
People are going to know.
728
00:46:07,845 --> 00:46:09,335
Like Lynette.
729
00:46:09,647 --> 00:46:11,512
I told her on our first date.
730
00:46:11,882 --> 00:46:12,940
What?
731
00:46:13,017 --> 00:46:15,648
If she'd had a problem with it,
we wouldn't be together.
732
00:46:15,648 --> 00:46:16,512
If she'd had a problem with it,
we wouldn't be together.
733
00:46:17,283 --> 00:46:20,218
You were the first gay person
she'd ever met.
734
00:46:20,319 --> 00:46:23,413
-Why does everyone have to find out?
-Who cares?
735
00:46:26,458 --> 00:46:28,585
You want to ask me anything?
736
00:46:29,595 --> 00:46:30,687
Yeah.
737
00:46:32,598 --> 00:46:37,433
When did you decide to become a lesbian?
738
00:46:57,189 --> 00:46:59,589
I think I always knew.
739
00:47:01,226 --> 00:47:03,717
I just couldn't admit it to myself.
740
00:47:05,631 --> 00:47:08,361
We have to go. We told Dad we'd be home.
741
00:47:08,534 --> 00:47:11,401
Already? Tom!
742
00:47:15,341 --> 00:47:16,433
Tom?
743
00:47:18,477 --> 00:47:19,842
I love you.
744
00:47:26,418 --> 00:47:28,181
-Bye, Mom.
-Bye-bye.
745
00:47:32,491 --> 00:47:34,459
-I love you.
-I love you.
746
00:48:00,919 --> 00:48:03,979
When you're in the military,
you have to believe in the greater plan.
747
00:48:04,056 --> 00:48:06,684
You have to find meaning in adversity.
748
00:48:07,559 --> 00:48:09,993
Most people find a lawyer instead.
749
00:48:11,430 --> 00:48:15,230
You know, if the Army's smart,
it'll lose the paperwork.
750
00:48:15,534 --> 00:48:20,096
-You are too pure a test to the policy.
-The Army's very good at paperwork.
751
00:48:20,172 --> 00:48:23,608
You know,
conduct is such a stupid distinction.
752
00:48:24,009 --> 00:48:25,340
If it doesn't interfere with the military,
753
00:48:25,411 --> 00:48:27,379
what difference does it make what you do?
754
00:48:27,446 --> 00:48:30,006
-Is that gonna be your argument?
-Discrimination and prejudice.
755
00:48:30,082 --> 00:48:31,674
That's the case.
756
00:48:31,750 --> 00:48:35,686
There is no legitimate basis
for treating gays and straights differently.
757
00:48:35,754 --> 00:48:37,813
The policy's built on nothing
but fear and prejudice.
758
00:48:37,890 --> 00:48:40,188
So strike it down, clean and simple.
759
00:48:40,259 --> 00:48:43,057
-Do you think it will work?
-Probably not.
760
00:48:44,063 --> 00:48:46,190
I don't want to mislead you, Grethe.
761
00:48:46,265 --> 00:48:48,597
This particular U.S. Supreme Court
has gone out of its way
762
00:48:48,667 --> 00:48:50,999
to avoid protecting homosexuals.
763
00:48:52,237 --> 00:48:54,137
I'm a positive thinker.
764
00:48:55,541 --> 00:48:56,633
Good.
765
00:49:34,213 --> 00:49:36,204
I have something for you.
766
00:49:37,516 --> 00:49:39,507
But if you don't like it,
you have to give it back to me,
767
00:49:39,585 --> 00:49:40,779
because I like it myself.
768
00:49:40,853 --> 00:49:43,083
Well, then you should keep it.
769
00:49:43,322 --> 00:49:45,256
I want you to have it.
770
00:49:59,972 --> 00:50:02,202
It's an Edwardian buckle ring.
771
00:50:22,728 --> 00:50:25,492
We can get it sized down if you like it.
772
00:50:26,465 --> 00:50:28,262
Just don't be polite.
773
00:50:33,238 --> 00:50:34,569
I love it.
774
00:51:00,299 --> 00:51:01,323
Yo.
775
00:51:02,935 --> 00:51:04,835
Jim, can I talk to you?
776
00:51:05,404 --> 00:51:06,462
Sit.
777
00:51:10,976 --> 00:51:12,841
What can I do for you?
778
00:51:14,012 --> 00:51:17,004
You know how I can't afford to lose this job.
779
00:51:17,916 --> 00:51:19,508
What's happened?
780
00:51:21,053 --> 00:51:22,543
I'm a lesbian.
781
00:51:24,356 --> 00:51:28,793
Thank God. I thought it was something else,
something really scandalous.
782
00:51:29,228 --> 00:51:32,629
I am so naive, Grethe,
it never even occurred to me.
783
00:51:34,600 --> 00:51:37,034
The Army's trying to discharge me.
784
00:51:37,869 --> 00:51:39,598
You told everybody.
785
00:51:40,472 --> 00:51:42,565
I'm gonna fight it.
786
00:51:43,709 --> 00:51:44,971
So everybody's going to know about it.
787
00:51:45,043 --> 00:51:46,408
The patients are going to hear about it.
788
00:51:46,478 --> 00:51:47,877
Their families, the administration...
789
00:51:47,946 --> 00:51:52,315
Look, if I fired everyone on staff
who was gay, the hospital would shut down.
790
00:51:52,751 --> 00:51:56,209
You're a good nurse, Grethe.
Anything else is your private life.
791
00:51:56,288 --> 00:51:59,189
You don't have to worry
about your job here.
792
00:52:00,225 --> 00:52:01,556
Thank you.
793
00:52:03,729 --> 00:52:07,165
I don't know
why you keep opening your mouth about it.
794
00:52:08,567 --> 00:52:10,797
Where's your sense of privacy?
795
00:52:13,772 --> 00:52:16,366
I'm sorry if it embarrasses you, Far.
796
00:52:22,547 --> 00:52:23,878
Good night.
797
00:52:25,150 --> 00:52:26,515
Margarethe?
798
00:52:29,154 --> 00:52:31,850
Do you know why I never hugged my sons?
799
00:52:34,026 --> 00:52:35,755
You didn't want to.
800
00:52:38,797 --> 00:52:39,786
I did.
801
00:52:42,167 --> 00:52:45,000
I was afraid they would
become homosexuals.
802
00:52:50,409 --> 00:52:52,843
And you ended up with one anyway.
803
00:52:54,680 --> 00:52:57,171
At least it was only your daughter.
804
00:53:00,786 --> 00:53:02,515
Are you blaming me?
805
00:53:08,427 --> 00:53:10,190
You missed so much.
806
00:53:21,873 --> 00:53:26,071
You can't control who people are, Far.
807
00:53:35,787 --> 00:53:37,118
Good night.
808
00:53:52,137 --> 00:53:55,937
The first ward I worked on in the Army
was OBlGYN,
809
00:53:57,142 --> 00:54:00,737
so I thought I knew everything there was
to know about childbirth.
810
00:54:00,812 --> 00:54:02,439
Until I had Matt.
811
00:54:03,548 --> 00:54:06,108
I didn't know that you fall in love.
812
00:54:06,685 --> 00:54:10,917
The moment they put him in my arms,
I was awed.
813
00:54:12,991 --> 00:54:14,754
He was so beautiful.
814
00:54:16,027 --> 00:54:18,461
They took him down to the nursery.
815
00:54:18,964 --> 00:54:21,524
I remember the hospital was really quiet.
816
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:23,761
There was nobody in the halls.
817
00:54:23,835 --> 00:54:27,931
I couldn't sleep,
so I got up and I went down to see him,
818
00:54:28,006 --> 00:54:30,770
even though I couldn't feel my legs.
819
00:54:31,576 --> 00:54:33,737
Just to see if he was real.
820
00:54:34,946 --> 00:54:37,380
I couldn't believe that something
821
00:54:38,717 --> 00:54:41,652
so fragile and irreversible
822
00:54:42,854 --> 00:54:44,617
had happened to me.
823
00:54:45,357 --> 00:54:47,222
He was a gift of love.
824
00:54:53,632 --> 00:54:55,759
So now he's getting married.
825
00:54:57,736 --> 00:54:59,499
How did that happen?
826
00:55:01,173 --> 00:55:02,697
Here they come.
827
00:55:02,774 --> 00:55:04,366
All right. Okay.
828
00:55:07,412 --> 00:55:09,209
-Excuse me.
-Congratulations.
829
00:55:09,281 --> 00:55:10,543
Yeah, I'm just trying to get in.
830
00:55:10,615 --> 00:55:13,584
-Is that Louis?
-He used to be very handsome.
831
00:55:14,286 --> 00:55:16,914
Then your kids got it from both sides.
832
00:55:23,862 --> 00:55:25,625
Matt. Matt, come on.
833
00:55:29,734 --> 00:55:32,498
-Wake up, wake up. They're coming.
-Okay.
834
00:55:33,872 --> 00:55:35,134
-Hi.
-Hl.
835
00:55:36,041 --> 00:55:37,702
I wish you could have been inside.
836
00:55:37,776 --> 00:55:39,505
Did somebody from the church come
and sit with you?
837
00:55:39,578 --> 00:55:41,842
Yes, a very nice man came out to ask
if we had any questions.
838
00:55:41,913 --> 00:55:43,312
But I didn't have any.
839
00:55:43,381 --> 00:55:44,871
A married man!
840
00:55:46,184 --> 00:55:47,310
-Hi.
-Hi.
841
00:55:47,385 --> 00:55:50,081
-Congratulations.
-Thank you for coming.
842
00:55:53,725 --> 00:55:54,783
Far.
843
00:55:58,597 --> 00:56:00,121
I'm glad you're here.
844
00:56:00,198 --> 00:56:01,426
Hi, dud.
845
00:56:02,701 --> 00:56:05,329
-It went smooth as glass.
-I'm glad.
846
00:56:05,403 --> 00:56:08,065
I'd like you to meet my friend Diane.
847
00:56:10,809 --> 00:56:12,470
How do you do?
848
00:56:12,777 --> 00:56:14,176
Hi. Hi. Hi.
849
00:56:14,246 --> 00:56:16,373
-Congratulations.
-Thank you.
850
00:56:18,450 --> 00:56:20,008
Picture. Picture!
851
00:56:20,085 --> 00:56:22,110
-Come on. Let's... Far, over here.
-Where, where, where?
852
00:56:22,420 --> 00:56:23,785
Thank you.
853
00:56:25,891 --> 00:56:27,085
All right, great.
854
00:56:27,158 --> 00:56:29,888
Why don't you get
on the other side of Grandpa there?
855
00:56:29,961 --> 00:56:31,553
Everybody ready?
856
00:56:32,264 --> 00:56:34,289
Great. Now how about a kiss?
857
00:56:34,366 --> 00:56:35,526
Great.
858
00:56:41,373 --> 00:56:44,831
-The car's over here.
-I'm going with Mom. I told you.
859
00:56:47,612 --> 00:56:49,307
Are you all right?
860
00:56:53,985 --> 00:56:56,385
-Problems?
-Sort of.
861
00:56:56,454 --> 00:56:57,648
-I'll get that.
-Thank you.
862
00:56:57,722 --> 00:56:59,519
Watch your head, dud.
863
00:57:05,230 --> 00:57:08,757
Yeah, I was wondering
if I could come stay with you.
864
00:57:09,501 --> 00:57:11,628
You know how I hate to get
between you and your dad.
865
00:57:11,703 --> 00:57:13,068
No, I don't want to live there anymore.
866
00:57:13,138 --> 00:57:15,333
I want to move in with you,
but if that's a problem...
867
00:57:15,407 --> 00:57:18,433
It isn't. No, I'd love to have you home.
I'd be thrilled.
868
00:57:18,510 --> 00:57:20,171
You not liking guys and all that,
and I'm a guy...
869
00:57:20,245 --> 00:57:21,439
David.
870
00:57:22,180 --> 00:57:25,343
My sexual orientation
has nothing to do with you.
871
00:57:26,551 --> 00:57:28,644
I love you for who you are.
872
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:32,014
So please,
don't stereotype me like that, okay?
873
00:57:32,724 --> 00:57:34,089
I'm coming.
874
00:57:34,292 --> 00:57:35,554
So can I?
875
00:57:36,695 --> 00:57:38,322
You know you can.
876
00:57:43,702 --> 00:57:46,694
-Your father will blame me.
-What else is new?
877
00:57:48,873 --> 00:57:50,306
That made me laugh.
878
00:57:50,375 --> 00:57:52,002
I'll take Far up.
879
00:58:26,277 --> 00:58:29,804
If I don't resign immediately,
they're going to court-martial me.
880
00:58:29,881 --> 00:58:31,348
Oh, they don't call it a court-martial.
881
00:58:31,416 --> 00:58:35,216
They called it an Administrative Board
Hearing. It's the same thing.
882
00:58:35,286 --> 00:58:37,584
They're coming after me, Diane.
883
00:58:38,390 --> 00:58:41,416
Why don't you just take it easy on yourself,
884
00:58:41,493 --> 00:58:43,654
just for once, and back off.
885
00:58:45,664 --> 00:58:47,928
You know, I had this little fantasy.
886
00:58:47,999 --> 00:58:51,025
I thought I'd be Chief Nurse
of the entire National Guard.
887
00:58:51,102 --> 00:58:54,196
General Cammermeyer
would be living in Washington, DC.
888
00:58:54,272 --> 00:58:56,740
I'd finally retire. Full military honors.
889
00:58:56,808 --> 00:58:58,833
And then I'd say, "You know what?
890
00:58:58,910 --> 00:59:02,539
"I've been a lesbian all this time,
and it didn't matter at all."
891
00:59:04,449 --> 00:59:06,280
It's a pretty story.
892
00:59:06,885 --> 00:59:10,150
And it's really a pity
it didn't turn out that way.
893
00:59:10,255 --> 00:59:12,348
Well, the story's not over.
894
00:59:17,462 --> 00:59:18,986
I wish it were.
895
00:59:21,199 --> 00:59:23,292
Then why don't you go home, Diane?
896
00:59:23,368 --> 00:59:26,895
If this is too hard for you,
why don't you just go home?
897
00:59:29,207 --> 00:59:32,699
-Careful. I might think you mean it.
-I do.
898
00:59:58,937 --> 01:00:00,700
Afternoon, Colonel.
899
01:00:00,872 --> 01:00:02,601
I've been trying to get letters of support
900
01:00:02,674 --> 01:00:04,665
-from some of the other Chief Nurses.
-Let me guess.
901
01:00:04,743 --> 01:00:06,438
Nobody wants to put their head
in the block for you?
902
01:00:06,511 --> 01:00:08,502
Well, it doesn't have to be
from the medical community.
903
01:00:08,580 --> 01:00:10,480
-You mean me?
-We worked together, Colonel.
904
01:00:10,548 --> 01:00:13,142
-You could...
-No, your evaluations speak for themselves.
905
01:00:13,218 --> 01:00:15,277
And I have letters and commendations
to back them up.
906
01:00:15,353 --> 01:00:17,651
Only nobody wants to challenge the policy.
907
01:00:17,722 --> 01:00:19,713
Maybe they agree with it.
908
01:00:19,891 --> 01:00:22,325
-Do you?
-Even people with a high tolerance
909
01:00:22,393 --> 01:00:24,258
don't out and out want gays in the military.
910
01:00:24,329 --> 01:00:26,889
They're not gonna start recruiting for gays.
What do you expect?
911
01:00:26,965 --> 01:00:29,866
-You think I should be discharged?
-I'm not talking about you, Colonel.
912
01:00:29,934 --> 01:00:33,097
Don't you think people should be judged
by the work they do, not who they are?
913
01:00:33,171 --> 01:00:35,366
Nobody would have ever known
if you hadn't said anything.
914
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:38,898
Regulations are regulations.
You knew the consequences.
915
01:00:50,588 --> 01:00:52,488
Watch your step, ma'am.
916
01:00:54,092 --> 01:00:56,492
-Thank you. Good night.
-Good night.
917
01:01:37,468 --> 01:01:41,564
-You should have called. I'm working.
-I was afraid you wouldn't talk to me.
918
01:01:41,639 --> 01:01:43,038
I shouldn't.
919
01:01:46,311 --> 01:01:47,710
I miss you.
920
01:01:50,181 --> 01:01:51,580
I need you.
921
01:01:55,787 --> 01:01:58,483
-You can say something here.
-Like what?
922
01:01:59,224 --> 01:02:00,816
Like, it's okay.
923
01:02:00,892 --> 01:02:04,089
Or like you've been waiting
for the phone to ring.
924
01:02:07,332 --> 01:02:08,993
I'm old-fashioned.
925
01:02:09,701 --> 01:02:12,135
I'm still waiting for the apology.
926
01:02:13,504 --> 01:02:14,903
I apologize.
927
01:02:16,507 --> 01:02:18,031
Not convincing.
928
01:02:25,817 --> 01:02:27,182
Excuse me.
929
01:02:35,894 --> 01:02:37,452
That's for you.
930
01:02:51,175 --> 01:02:52,437
Open it.
931
01:03:12,797 --> 01:03:15,095
I had a duplicate made for you.
932
01:03:20,238 --> 01:03:21,398
Grethe.
933
01:03:30,448 --> 01:03:33,576
We're gonna grow old together, you and me.
934
01:03:43,628 --> 01:03:48,031
You know, I finally realized
I can be very slow sometimes.
935
01:03:49,534 --> 01:03:53,061
But if I have to make a choice
between the Army and you,
936
01:03:56,007 --> 01:03:57,907
I'd rather be with you.
937
01:04:00,878 --> 01:04:03,108
You shouldn't have to choose.
938
01:04:03,681 --> 01:04:05,649
That's what's so insane.
939
01:04:21,065 --> 01:04:23,590
You know,
Carson seen him practicing that gun trick.
940
01:04:23,668 --> 01:04:25,568
Not for killing Shep, they wasn't.
941
01:04:25,636 --> 01:04:27,433
How do you know? Now, how do you know?
942
01:04:27,505 --> 01:04:31,168
Didn't they link up the very first stinking day
that they went with the rawhiders?
943
01:04:31,242 --> 01:04:33,107
And who got Shep to hire him?
944
01:04:33,177 --> 01:04:35,304
I'm home. Where is everyone?
945
01:04:35,380 --> 01:04:36,404
I'm saying that this wasn't...
946
01:04:36,481 --> 01:04:39,814
Hi, Andy. I didn't see your car.
947
01:04:40,718 --> 01:04:43,846
-I came on the bus.
-He ran away from home.
948
01:04:45,256 --> 01:04:46,382
What?
949
01:04:46,457 --> 01:04:49,392
I didn't run away. I moved out.
950
01:04:50,495 --> 01:04:53,362
-I'm too old to run away.
-Come talk to me.
951
01:04:53,431 --> 01:04:57,891
And we know that he gave
that sheep herding killer, Jubal Troop, a job.
952
01:04:58,403 --> 01:05:00,928
A job. He made him a foreman.
953
01:05:01,005 --> 01:05:03,269
Maybe I'm part of the problem.
954
01:05:04,308 --> 01:05:07,573
Maybe I give you too much freedom
when you're here.
955
01:05:08,212 --> 01:05:11,477
What if I said
you had to go back to your father's?
956
01:05:13,084 --> 01:05:15,575
I'd move in with one of my friends.
957
01:05:15,653 --> 01:05:17,985
So it wouldn't change anything?
958
01:05:20,625 --> 01:05:21,649
No.
959
01:05:28,032 --> 01:05:29,499
Welcome home.
960
01:05:39,811 --> 01:05:41,369
Yes, thank you.
961
01:05:42,313 --> 01:05:43,974
-Let's get it over with.
-Okay, smile.
962
01:05:44,048 --> 01:05:46,676
-Big smiles.
-Say cheese.
963
01:05:49,153 --> 01:05:50,450
Can we be ready in two weeks?
964
01:05:50,521 --> 01:05:53,251
Why is the Army in such a hurry?
I mean, after all this time?
965
01:05:53,324 --> 01:05:54,951
Well, I think
they finally caught on to the fact
966
01:05:55,026 --> 01:05:56,550
the Guard isn't trying to get rid of her.
967
01:05:56,627 --> 01:05:57,855
Here's an admitted homosexual
968
01:05:57,929 --> 01:05:59,954
and it's had no impact
on your unit whatsoever.
969
01:06:00,031 --> 01:06:01,965
-People like her.
-Even worse.
970
01:06:02,033 --> 01:06:04,695
The longer you stay,
the more you undermine the policy.
971
01:06:04,769 --> 01:06:07,294
-I thought you were going on a vacation.
-Here I am.
972
01:06:07,371 --> 01:06:08,804
You want to hear something ironic?
973
01:06:08,873 --> 01:06:12,502
The date of the hearing
is the 30th anniversary of my swearing in.
974
01:06:12,577 --> 01:06:14,772
The Army's always had perfect timing.
975
01:06:14,846 --> 01:06:16,905
Now there are two doctors in the family, Far.
976
01:06:16,981 --> 01:06:20,747
I should have gotten a PhD myself,
but I didn't do it.
977
01:06:25,189 --> 01:06:28,488
Amazing how he just managed
to make your graduation about him.
978
01:06:28,559 --> 01:06:31,494
-I thought you liked him so much.
-I do, just not right at the moment.
979
01:06:31,562 --> 01:06:34,622
That is the nicest thing he's ever said to me.
980
01:06:35,867 --> 01:06:38,563
My God. I'm gonna go make some tea.
981
01:06:41,305 --> 01:06:43,865
-All right. What? Who wanted a picture?
-I do.
982
01:06:43,941 --> 01:06:46,102
-Here you go.
-Let me try to put this thing on again.
983
01:06:46,344 --> 01:06:47,368
All right.
984
01:06:49,380 --> 01:06:50,642
-It's okay?
-Perfect. Yeah.
985
01:06:50,715 --> 01:06:52,182
-Ready?
-Yeah.
986
01:06:52,250 --> 01:06:53,581
All right.
987
01:06:53,818 --> 01:06:54,978
Here we go.
988
01:06:55,052 --> 01:06:57,577
-Okay. Take one more now.
-Okay.
989
01:06:59,157 --> 01:07:01,751
It's an honor to be
your military defense counsel, Colonel.
990
01:07:01,826 --> 01:07:03,157
Thank you.
991
01:07:03,294 --> 01:07:06,092
It's going to be a challenge for me
in many ways.
992
01:07:06,164 --> 01:07:07,563
That's for sure.
993
01:07:07,632 --> 01:07:11,033
Well, then, let's get started. Please.
994
01:07:12,103 --> 01:07:15,698
The Army is not going to look at my record
and everything I've done
995
01:07:15,773 --> 01:07:17,536
and discharge me for saying four words.
996
01:07:17,608 --> 01:07:20,668
It's not about you, Colonel.
It's about military policy,
997
01:07:20,745 --> 01:07:22,975
and whether the government
has the right to discriminate.
998
01:07:23,047 --> 01:07:24,412
Against me.
999
01:07:25,750 --> 01:07:27,012
So, what do we have here?
1000
01:07:27,084 --> 01:07:29,075
Okay, we've got the PERSEREC Report,
1001
01:07:29,153 --> 01:07:31,087
commissioned by
the Department of Defense in '88,
1002
01:07:31,155 --> 01:07:33,055
concluded that gays are not security risks,
1003
01:07:33,124 --> 01:07:35,092
they don't disrupt order,
discipline or morale.
1004
01:07:35,159 --> 01:07:37,525
Recommendation, lose the policy.
1005
01:07:37,595 --> 01:07:40,462
It must have killed them
to have to pay for that.
1006
01:07:40,531 --> 01:07:43,557
-What happened to it?
-It was buried by the Pentagon.
1007
01:07:43,634 --> 01:07:46,194
-Now, the Crittenden Report.
-That's an oldie.
1008
01:07:46,270 --> 01:07:48,830
1957, done for the Secretary of the Navy.
1009
01:07:48,906 --> 01:07:51,466
It said,
"No data shows that gays can't serve well."
1010
01:07:51,542 --> 01:07:53,874
What do they think we've been doing
all these years?
1011
01:07:53,945 --> 01:07:57,142
Even the Pentagon admits
10% of the military is gay or lesbian,
1012
01:07:57,215 --> 01:08:00,207
which makes for 100,000 people
on active duty.
1013
01:08:00,284 --> 01:08:03,185
How do they keep saying
that we undermine the unit's effectiveness
1014
01:08:03,254 --> 01:08:04,312
when we're there?
1015
01:08:04,388 --> 01:08:08,051
That's why the policy's not legitimate.
Gays aren't the problem.
1016
01:08:08,125 --> 01:08:10,616
Bias and prejudice are the problem.
1017
01:08:11,229 --> 01:08:12,594
Let's keep going.
1018
01:08:12,663 --> 01:08:16,121
Okay, I think you might find this one
very interesting.
1019
01:08:16,634 --> 01:08:18,727
We went to see our bishop today.
1020
01:08:18,803 --> 01:08:20,794
-Are you pregnant, Lynette?
-No.
1021
01:08:20,871 --> 01:08:21,895
Not yet.
1022
01:08:25,276 --> 01:08:28,109
He was wonderful.
We were talking to him about you.
1023
01:08:28,179 --> 01:08:30,704
He told us it was important to support you.
1024
01:08:30,781 --> 01:08:33,545
You're my mother, no matter what you do.
1025
01:08:33,618 --> 01:08:35,745
He's not in favor of your lifestyle,
of course, but...
1026
01:08:35,820 --> 01:08:37,481
Which part?
1027
01:08:38,322 --> 01:08:40,153
The part where I pay my taxes?
1028
01:08:40,224 --> 01:08:44,490
The part where I hold a job? Where I make
a home for my father and kids?
1029
01:08:44,695 --> 01:08:46,595
Where I defend my country?
1030
01:08:48,432 --> 01:08:51,299
We want to testify at the hearing for you.
1031
01:08:53,237 --> 01:08:55,637
The Bishop said we could do that.
1032
01:09:01,679 --> 01:09:03,647
-Can I come in, Mor?
-Lynette.
1033
01:09:03,714 --> 01:09:06,410
Yeah, Lynette, come and help me.
I'm having a terrible crisis.
1034
01:09:06,484 --> 01:09:08,008
-What's wrong?
-I can't do up my zipper.
1035
01:09:08,085 --> 01:09:10,144
-Oh, okay.
-You know, I've only worn the trousers.
1036
01:09:10,221 --> 01:09:11,745
I haven't worn the skirt since the '70s,
1037
01:09:11,822 --> 01:09:13,517
and I don't have time to go out
and get a girdle.
1038
01:09:13,591 --> 01:09:14,785
-You don't need a girdle.
-Okay.
1039
01:09:14,859 --> 01:09:16,690
Here, I'm gonna count to three
and breathe in, okay?
1040
01:09:16,761 --> 01:09:18,661
-Okay.
-One, two, three.
1041
01:09:21,098 --> 01:09:22,725
-There.
-Oh, good.
1042
01:09:23,234 --> 01:09:25,862
That's going to be me in a few months.
1043
01:09:27,138 --> 01:09:28,765
You are pregnant.
1044
01:09:29,440 --> 01:09:31,101
We just found out.
1045
01:09:33,244 --> 01:09:35,303
Oh, that's wonderful news.
1046
01:09:35,546 --> 01:09:37,514
Oh! Wonderful.
1047
01:09:37,581 --> 01:09:40,015
Listen, I really think Matt wanted
to tell you himself, so...
1048
01:09:40,084 --> 01:09:43,076
That's okay. I can hear news like that twice.
1049
01:09:43,688 --> 01:09:44,985
Matt's a very lucky man.
1050
01:09:45,056 --> 01:09:47,251
-Ready?
-Yeah, almost.
1051
01:09:48,959 --> 01:09:49,983
Okay.
1052
01:09:50,061 --> 01:09:52,586
-Does it feel okay?
-Yeah. It'll be okay.
1053
01:09:53,898 --> 01:09:55,422
You look great.
1054
01:09:56,133 --> 01:09:57,327
Thanks.
1055
01:10:01,839 --> 01:10:03,431
It's down there.
1056
01:10:04,875 --> 01:10:06,968
-Hello.
-Good morning, Colonel.
1057
01:10:07,044 --> 01:10:08,068
-Nice to see you.
-Hi.
1058
01:10:08,145 --> 01:10:09,612
The Board will come to order.
1059
01:10:09,680 --> 01:10:11,170
The Board of Officers has been called
1060
01:10:11,248 --> 01:10:13,512
to determine
if federal recognition should be withdrawn
1061
01:10:13,584 --> 01:10:17,520
from Colonel Margarethe Cammermeyer
on the basis of homosexuality.
1062
01:10:17,588 --> 01:10:19,647
Do you have any questions
regarding your rights?
1063
01:10:19,724 --> 01:10:20,850
No, I don't.
1064
01:10:20,925 --> 01:10:22,859
Is the government ready
to proceed with its case?
1065
01:10:22,927 --> 01:10:24,292
Yes, ma'am.
1066
01:10:25,329 --> 01:10:26,796
Try to relax.
1067
01:10:34,672 --> 01:10:37,835
As far as the evidence
for eliminating Colonel Cammermeyer,
1068
01:10:37,908 --> 01:10:42,277
we're going to introduce a sworn statement
made by Colonel Cammermeyer herself
1069
01:10:42,346 --> 01:10:45,076
during the performance
of a security investigation,
1070
01:10:45,149 --> 01:10:48,778
in which, as you'll see,
she admits to being a homosexual.
1071
01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:51,418
It is the government's position
that her statement,
1072
01:10:51,489 --> 01:10:53,548
in combination with the regulations,
1073
01:10:53,624 --> 01:10:57,526
will control your findings
and your recommendations in this case,
1074
01:10:57,595 --> 01:11:00,155
which must be
to eliminate Colonel Cammermeyer
1075
01:11:00,231 --> 01:11:01,528
from the military.
1076
01:11:01,599 --> 01:11:04,796
I hate having to wait out here
while Mor's inside.
1077
01:11:05,236 --> 01:11:07,864
Nothing they could say
could change our testimony.
1078
01:11:07,938 --> 01:11:09,565
It's just rules of the law.
1079
01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:14,077
-I wonder how she's doing.
-I signed an affidavit for her saying I know.
1080
01:11:14,211 --> 01:11:16,475
So how exactly can she be blackmailed
1081
01:11:16,547 --> 01:11:20,449
when her whole family's
already aware of what she is?
1082
01:11:21,385 --> 01:11:22,750
Who she is.
1083
01:11:23,854 --> 01:11:27,790
The Army doesn't care, Far.
They just want her out.
1084
01:11:28,359 --> 01:11:30,850
I'm not denying that I said I was a lesbian.
1085
01:11:30,928 --> 01:11:32,418
Colonel Cammermeyer,
1086
01:11:32,496 --> 01:11:36,364
why did you disclose
your sexual orientation to the DlS Agent?
1087
01:11:36,634 --> 01:11:39,364
Because he asked, and it was the truth.
1088
01:11:40,004 --> 01:11:41,904
And I was being honest.
1089
01:11:41,972 --> 01:11:45,703
It seemed like that was
the very premise of everything I stood for
1090
01:11:45,776 --> 01:11:48,006
in my entire life and career.
1091
01:11:48,446 --> 01:11:50,744
I mean,
if there was ever a place to be truthful,
1092
01:11:50,815 --> 01:11:55,218
it's when you're being asked
as part of a top-secret security clearance.
1093
01:11:59,824 --> 01:12:01,155
-Hi.
-Hi.
1094
01:12:01,225 --> 01:12:04,717
-How's it going in there?
-It's a little early to know.
1095
01:12:04,795 --> 01:12:05,819
Hi.
1096
01:12:06,597 --> 01:12:09,122
-I'm glad you're here.
-Yeah, me, too.
1097
01:12:11,202 --> 01:12:13,193
-How are you doing?
-Okay.
1098
01:12:14,572 --> 01:12:16,767
-Why don't you take Far home?
-Sure.
1099
01:12:16,841 --> 01:12:19,571
Far, why don't you go home, all right?
This is gonna take a while.
1100
01:12:19,643 --> 01:12:22,942
You have a perfectly normal life.
Can they see that?
1101
01:12:28,953 --> 01:12:31,717
-Would you like to go with them?
-We can stay if you need us.
1102
01:12:31,789 --> 01:12:33,689
Why don't you go ahead?
I'll be there later, all right?
1103
01:12:33,757 --> 01:12:34,917
-You sure?
-Yeah, I'm sure.
1104
01:12:34,992 --> 01:12:36,084
-Okay.
-Okay.
1105
01:12:36,160 --> 01:12:37,684
-Make sure Far eats something.
-I will.
1106
01:12:37,761 --> 01:12:38,887
Okay.
1107
01:12:39,263 --> 01:12:41,254
Bye, guys. Bye.
1108
01:12:44,068 --> 01:12:46,901
She is such a valuable asset
to the military system.
1109
01:12:46,971 --> 01:12:49,633
And since there has been no record of,
1110
01:12:50,140 --> 01:12:53,132
let's say, social disruptions of any kind,
1111
01:12:53,577 --> 01:12:56,842
I recommend that this board
might consider a waiver
1112
01:12:57,147 --> 01:13:00,173
or variance
or whatever would be the proper wording
1113
01:13:00,251 --> 01:13:04,347
that would allow her to continue functioning
just as she has been.
1114
01:13:04,588 --> 01:13:07,614
So, you disagree
with Army policy and regulation
1115
01:13:07,691 --> 01:13:11,252
which provides that someone
who has admitted to being a homosexual
1116
01:13:11,328 --> 01:13:12,522
should be discharged.
1117
01:13:12,596 --> 01:13:13,722
Is that correct?
1118
01:13:13,797 --> 01:13:16,357
I understand I'm here to present information
1119
01:13:16,433 --> 01:13:19,596
on her ability
to function in the military system.
1120
01:13:19,670 --> 01:13:24,073
But you do understand what Army policy is
in this case, do you not?
1121
01:13:24,875 --> 01:13:29,073
I don't wish to make a public statement
that I'm against Army policy.
1122
01:13:29,146 --> 01:13:31,876
I don't want to take on the Army policy.
1123
01:13:32,516 --> 01:13:33,813
Okay, sir.
1124
01:13:33,884 --> 01:13:37,650
Are you aware of any family members
whose relationship with your mother
1125
01:13:37,721 --> 01:13:41,885
has been damaged or affected
by her revealing her sexual orientation?
1126
01:13:41,959 --> 01:13:44,018
Her father lives with her.
1127
01:13:44,161 --> 01:13:46,959
My brothers have chosen to live with her.
1128
01:13:47,164 --> 01:13:49,689
Our relationship with her
has been strengthened.
1129
01:13:49,767 --> 01:13:52,361
If nothing else, it's been opened up.
1130
01:13:53,938 --> 01:13:55,599
I love my mother.
1131
01:13:56,874 --> 01:13:59,308
She's never pushed her ways on me.
1132
01:14:00,144 --> 01:14:02,669
She's never pushed her ways on anybody.
1133
01:14:02,746 --> 01:14:06,045
She said, "You're who you are.
Make the most of it."
1134
01:14:08,052 --> 01:14:10,987
I think she should be able to do that herself.
1135
01:14:11,055 --> 01:14:13,387
She made me part of the family.
1136
01:14:14,224 --> 01:14:18,888
We sit together and we watch TV
and we bawl our heads off on the sad shows
1137
01:14:19,263 --> 01:14:21,060
or we laugh together.
1138
01:14:21,832 --> 01:14:23,663
She taught me how to make Norwegian pies.
1139
01:14:23,734 --> 01:14:26,430
I mean, those are the kinds of things
we do together.
1140
01:14:26,503 --> 01:14:29,939
So whatever else she does
doesn't change my judgment of her.
1141
01:14:30,007 --> 01:14:33,773
It just makes me stronger in the fact
that I know she's doing what's right for her.
1142
01:14:33,844 --> 01:14:35,368
She was honest.
1143
01:14:36,780 --> 01:14:38,771
And that makes me very proud.
1144
01:14:38,849 --> 01:14:41,215
Paragraph 2-37 of the Reg.
1145
01:14:41,952 --> 01:14:45,388
"Homosexuality is incompatible
with military service."
1146
01:14:46,423 --> 01:14:48,118
Now, you may not agree with it,
1147
01:14:48,192 --> 01:14:51,161
but you'll have to admit
that's pretty unambiguous.
1148
01:14:51,228 --> 01:14:55,528
This board does not have the option
to disregard this policy or to change it.
1149
01:14:55,599 --> 01:14:59,228
That is up to people higher
than any of us in this room to do.
1150
01:14:59,303 --> 01:15:03,103
You, therefore, have no choice
except to recommend discharge.
1151
01:15:04,842 --> 01:15:07,675
Now, I know it is not a happy thing to do.
1152
01:15:08,212 --> 01:15:11,943
It is certainly not something
that any of us enjoy, including myself,
1153
01:15:12,016 --> 01:15:13,916
but it is inescapable.
1154
01:15:13,984 --> 01:15:18,614
As soldiers, we have to follow our orders
whether we agree with them or not.
1155
01:15:19,623 --> 01:15:24,117
Now, the defense has presented a case,
arguing that this policy is wrong.
1156
01:15:24,828 --> 01:15:27,626
I, as government counsel,
have not made any argument
1157
01:15:27,698 --> 01:15:29,757
that the policy is right.
1158
01:15:29,833 --> 01:15:31,425
I don't have to.
1159
01:15:31,802 --> 01:15:33,565
The policy is there.
1160
01:15:34,138 --> 01:15:36,470
And the policy is clear.
1161
01:15:38,375 --> 01:15:41,367
The government recommends
honorable discharge.
1162
01:15:42,680 --> 01:15:44,841
You've heard experts testify
that there are few,
1163
01:15:44,915 --> 01:15:47,884
if any, differences
between homosexuals and heterosexuals
1164
01:15:47,951 --> 01:15:51,944
in terms of mental health or sexual conduct,
including promiscuity.
1165
01:15:52,022 --> 01:15:55,822
You've heard the experts testify
that gays are not security risks,
1166
01:15:55,893 --> 01:15:59,522
that their sexual orientation
does not affect their job performance
1167
01:15:59,596 --> 01:16:01,223
nor their ability to lead.
1168
01:16:01,298 --> 01:16:04,631
That gays do not try
to convert heterosexuals.
1169
01:16:04,702 --> 01:16:08,001
That those are stereotypes based in fear,
not fact.
1170
01:16:09,206 --> 01:16:12,869
This case before you
involves one of our country's oldest
1171
01:16:12,943 --> 01:16:15,434
and most cherished traditions.
1172
01:16:15,512 --> 01:16:18,447
A tradition that we were willing
to go to war for,
1173
01:16:18,515 --> 01:16:21,916
to let members of our armed services
fight and die for.
1174
01:16:21,985 --> 01:16:25,512
And that's a tradition
and heritage of personal freedom.
1175
01:16:26,223 --> 01:16:30,922
The Pledge of Allegiance ends
with "liberty and justice for all."
1176
01:16:31,862 --> 01:16:35,161
It doesn't say, "Except for homosexuals."
1177
01:16:36,767 --> 01:16:39,930
At this time, my client,
Colonel Cammermeyer,
1178
01:16:40,471 --> 01:16:42,769
would like to make a statement.
1179
01:16:44,508 --> 01:16:46,942
This has been a crossroads for me,
1180
01:16:47,111 --> 01:16:50,239
whether to back down or to stand up
1181
01:16:50,314 --> 01:16:53,875
for what I truly believe is my right
as a human being.
1182
01:16:53,951 --> 01:16:58,445
That my career, my abilities,
my contribution,
1183
01:16:59,223 --> 01:17:02,249
have nothing to do
with my sexual orientation.
1184
01:17:03,794 --> 01:17:07,161
Throughout the world,
the only way change can be made
1185
01:17:07,264 --> 01:17:10,529
is by someone stepping forth
and exposing themselves
1186
01:17:10,601 --> 01:17:13,832
so that people become aware
that there are differences
1187
01:17:13,904 --> 01:17:15,701
and that that's okay.
1188
01:17:16,473 --> 01:17:18,566
So, I choose to be here,
1189
01:17:19,743 --> 01:17:22,041
to sit before you and my family
1190
01:17:23,447 --> 01:17:25,108
and be vulnerable,
1191
01:17:25,816 --> 01:17:29,274
in the hopes that I can be
a little bit of an influence
1192
01:17:29,620 --> 01:17:31,383
in making a change,
1193
01:17:31,789 --> 01:17:35,350
in allowing us to serve
as we have done in the past
1194
01:17:35,425 --> 01:17:38,053
and will continue to do in the future.
1195
01:17:39,696 --> 01:17:43,996
I appreciate your attentiveness,
and I thank you very much.
1196
01:17:59,817 --> 01:18:01,614
They're ready for us.
1197
01:18:17,267 --> 01:18:19,462
Would you stand, Margarethe?
1198
01:18:23,006 --> 01:18:26,464
I truly believe that you are
one of the great Americans, Margarethe.
1199
01:18:26,543 --> 01:18:28,704
And I've admired you for a long time
1200
01:18:28,779 --> 01:18:31,145
and the work you've done
for the Army National Guard.
1201
01:18:31,215 --> 01:18:32,876
I really mean that.
1202
01:18:32,950 --> 01:18:36,249
But it's my sad duty
to read what I'm going to read.
1203
01:18:37,955 --> 01:18:42,415
"Colonel Cammermeyer has proven to be
a great asset to both the active
1204
01:18:42,492 --> 01:18:46,451
"and the reserve component,
the medical profession as a whole.
1205
01:18:46,964 --> 01:18:50,695
"She has consistently provided
superb leadership
1206
01:18:50,767 --> 01:18:54,328
"and has many outstanding
accomplishments to her credit,
1207
01:18:54,404 --> 01:18:56,634
"both military and civilian.
1208
01:18:57,608 --> 01:19:02,102
"Notwithstanding, the Board finds
that Colonel Margarethe Cammermeyer
1209
01:19:02,179 --> 01:19:04,204
"is a homosexual
1210
01:19:04,281 --> 01:19:08,479
"as defined in AR 135-175
1211
01:19:08,986 --> 01:19:13,480
"and as evidenced by her statement
to the Defense Investigative Services
1212
01:19:13,557 --> 01:19:16,253
"on 28 April, 1989,
1213
01:19:17,160 --> 01:19:19,287
"and by her admission under oath
1214
01:19:19,363 --> 01:19:22,560
"to this Board that she is a lesbian.
1215
01:19:25,769 --> 01:19:29,000
"We recommend
that Colonel Cammermeyer's
1216
01:19:29,072 --> 01:19:32,041
"federal recognition be withdrawn.
1217
01:19:32,876 --> 01:19:37,609
"And that upon her discharge
from the U.S. Army Reserve National Guard
1218
01:19:38,715 --> 01:19:41,843
"an Honorable Discharge Certificate
1219
01:19:42,352 --> 01:19:44,115
"should be awarded. "
1220
01:19:51,228 --> 01:19:52,559
Ten-hut!
1221
01:19:54,131 --> 01:19:55,598
As you were.
1222
01:20:02,239 --> 01:20:04,036
Thank you very much.
1223
01:20:05,175 --> 01:20:07,166
I'll miss all of you very much.
1224
01:20:07,244 --> 01:20:09,109
-It's been an honor to serve with you.
-Bye.
1225
01:20:09,179 --> 01:20:11,113
-Thank you.
-Take care.
1226
01:20:13,050 --> 01:20:14,517
Present arms!
1227
01:20:23,126 --> 01:20:25,822
Today, my attorneys are filing
a federal lawsuit
1228
01:20:25,896 --> 01:20:28,524
to challenge the ban as unconstitutional.
1229
01:20:29,099 --> 01:20:31,693
I gave everything I could to the military
1230
01:20:31,768 --> 01:20:35,169
and will continue to do what I can
to achieve equality.
1231
01:20:35,238 --> 01:20:37,900
I'm extremely proud to be an American,
1232
01:20:38,075 --> 01:20:40,373
proud to have worn the uniform.
1233
01:20:40,544 --> 01:20:44,207
I'd not exactly expected
that my retirement or my discharge
1234
01:20:44,281 --> 01:20:45,942
from the military would end like this.
1235
01:20:46,016 --> 01:20:49,611
I had hoped all my life
it would be passing in review
1236
01:20:49,686 --> 01:20:51,449
in a parade of some kind.
1237
01:20:51,521 --> 01:20:53,648
Colonel, why didn't you lie?
1238
01:20:54,891 --> 01:20:58,622
Because as an officer, as a human being,
I don't lie.
1239
01:20:59,262 --> 01:21:02,197
I'd rather take the consequences
for being honest.
1240
01:21:02,265 --> 01:21:03,323
Thank you.
1241
01:21:03,400 --> 01:21:06,369
Colonel Cammermeyer,
what plans do you have for the future?
1242
01:21:07,971 --> 01:21:10,235
What plans do you have
for the future, Colonel?
1243
01:21:10,307 --> 01:21:13,242
What does this country need
with people like you?
1244
01:21:13,310 --> 01:21:15,301
You're nothing
but dirt-digging troublemakers.
1245
01:21:15,379 --> 01:21:18,678
-Grethe, you don't have to go over there.
-Yes, I do.
1246
01:21:18,749 --> 01:21:20,979
The America I love and I'd give my life for.
1247
01:21:21,051 --> 01:21:23,281
-I almost did.
-I wish you had.
1248
01:21:23,920 --> 01:21:25,683
He was in the Air Force for 30 years,
1249
01:21:25,756 --> 01:21:27,553
protecting this country
against people like you.
1250
01:21:27,624 --> 01:21:31,219
-That's not what he was protecting it from.
-You make me want to vomit.
1251
01:21:31,294 --> 01:21:33,762
You call a press conference
just to cause problems.
1252
01:21:33,830 --> 01:21:36,424
-I'm trying to enlighten.
-Just to make trouble.
1253
01:21:36,500 --> 01:21:38,627
Trouble. That's what it's for.
1254
01:21:38,702 --> 01:21:39,862
Shame.
1255
01:21:40,303 --> 01:21:42,168
What's your name, sir?
1256
01:21:42,239 --> 01:21:43,934
She hates me without even knowing me.
1257
01:21:44,007 --> 01:21:45,975
Did you think you were gonna
change her mind?
1258
01:21:46,043 --> 01:21:49,604
-What did you do that for, Grethe?
-Because I'm a soldier.
1259
01:23:23,240 --> 01:23:25,504
-Where's Mom? She said she'd pick me up.
-Hi.
1260
01:23:25,575 --> 01:23:28,669
She was doing an interview. It ran long.
Hop in.
1261
01:23:36,052 --> 01:23:37,349
All safe?
1262
01:23:39,756 --> 01:23:42,589
-What happened?
-It's not that interesting.
1263
01:23:43,293 --> 01:23:45,591
-Did you win or lose?
-Won.
1264
01:23:45,662 --> 01:23:48,790
-Great. Want an ice cream?
-Yeah.
1265
01:23:48,865 --> 01:23:50,423
Okay, let's go.
1266
01:23:57,507 --> 01:24:00,203
Did you know that Walt Whitman was gay?
1267
01:24:03,213 --> 01:24:04,976
So was Michelangelo.
1268
01:24:05,048 --> 01:24:06,675
So is Elton John.
1269
01:24:07,284 --> 01:24:09,775
-So is Gertrude Stein.
-Who?
1270
01:24:10,654 --> 01:24:11,746
Tom.
1271
01:24:12,622 --> 01:24:15,113
Is there anything you want to ask me?
Because you can.
1272
01:24:15,192 --> 01:24:17,183
I'll give you an answer.
1273
01:24:17,761 --> 01:24:19,888
If someone's mother is gay,
1274
01:24:20,997 --> 01:24:23,022
does that mean he is, too?
1275
01:24:23,099 --> 01:24:26,535
-Is that what your friends said?
-They're not friends.
1276
01:24:27,504 --> 01:24:28,766
Listen.
1277
01:24:30,907 --> 01:24:33,239
Some people are gay. Most people aren't.
1278
01:24:33,310 --> 01:24:36,370
And it's been that way
as long as people have walked on the earth.
1279
01:24:36,446 --> 01:24:38,437
I mean, nobody knows why.
1280
01:24:38,582 --> 01:24:41,449
Maybe it's biology or environment or both.
1281
01:24:42,485 --> 01:24:43,679
But...
1282
01:24:46,156 --> 01:24:49,421
But gay parents don't make gay children
1283
01:24:49,492 --> 01:24:52,120
any more often than straight parents.
1284
01:24:52,395 --> 01:24:53,521
Okay?
1285
01:24:55,999 --> 01:24:57,660
So stop worrying.
1286
01:24:58,201 --> 01:25:00,692
You'd probably know by now, anyway.
1287
01:25:01,438 --> 01:25:03,963
Did you ever wish you were straight?
1288
01:25:05,942 --> 01:25:08,740
I can't imagine life without your mother.
1289
01:25:09,379 --> 01:25:12,212
-Don't tell her we talked, okay?
-No. Okay.
1290
01:25:13,450 --> 01:25:16,886
I need to see the Colonel,
and I know she's back there.
1291
01:25:17,053 --> 01:25:19,783
Dr. Cammermeyer, there's a patient here.
1292
01:25:20,357 --> 01:25:21,756
She sees me.
1293
01:25:23,994 --> 01:25:24,983
Excuse me.
1294
01:25:29,165 --> 01:25:30,462
What can I do for you, Frank?
1295
01:25:30,533 --> 01:25:33,900
Do you know what the most important thing
is to an infantry man?
1296
01:25:33,970 --> 01:25:35,995
-His weapon.
-His buddy.
1297
01:25:37,140 --> 01:25:41,099
And you can be my buddy
and share my foxhole any time, Colonel.
1298
01:25:52,555 --> 01:25:54,523
-Did you clean it?
-Yeah.
1299
01:25:54,791 --> 01:25:57,021
Well, you don't need stitches.
1300
01:25:57,294 --> 01:25:59,956
You know, I'm supposed to be the soldier,
not you.
1301
01:26:00,030 --> 01:26:01,691
I never thought...
1302
01:26:02,766 --> 01:26:05,291
I didn't expect to drag you into it.
1303
01:26:05,602 --> 01:26:08,400
-You did what you had to do.
-Yeah, did I?
1304
01:26:09,606 --> 01:26:11,369
You were right, Mom.
1305
01:26:12,776 --> 01:26:16,473
-Did you kick his butt?
-Yeah.
1306
01:26:18,281 --> 01:26:20,545
-Am I done?
-Yeah.
1307
01:26:27,457 --> 01:26:29,948
I lost my job
because of an archaic regulation
1308
01:26:30,026 --> 01:26:31,960
that says I can't exist.
1309
01:26:32,028 --> 01:26:36,260
I still love the military,
not for what it is but for what it can be.
1310
01:26:36,599 --> 01:26:38,829
That's why I'm suing the Army.
1311
01:26:38,935 --> 01:26:40,732
And to get back in.
1312
01:26:41,471 --> 01:26:45,168
Yeah, my kids will tell you.
I like to finish what I start.
1313
01:26:46,743 --> 01:26:48,734
-You're about to meet a woman...
-You're missing it.
1314
01:26:48,812 --> 01:26:51,246
I'll see the tape. Are we taping it?
1315
01:26:51,314 --> 01:26:52,679
Yeah, yeah.
1316
01:26:53,116 --> 01:26:56,313
Colonel Margarethe Cammermeyer
is the highest-ranking military officer
1317
01:26:56,386 --> 01:26:59,116
ever to be discharged for homosexuality.
1318
01:26:59,222 --> 01:27:04,182
Now that Grethe's secret is out in the open,
so is a relationship with Diane, an artist.
1319
01:27:04,260 --> 01:27:07,525
And Grethe, who used to think
of the military as her family,
1320
01:27:07,597 --> 01:27:10,225
finds her own children
are her greatest allies.
1321
01:27:10,300 --> 01:27:13,133
I remember her saying, I don't know why...
1322
01:27:19,576 --> 01:27:20,702
I'm sorry.
1323
01:27:20,777 --> 01:27:22,074
It was supposed to be from a distance.
1324
01:27:22,145 --> 01:27:23,510
I didn't know they were gonna
show my face.
1325
01:27:23,580 --> 01:27:24,740
They gave my name!
1326
01:27:24,814 --> 01:27:27,476
-Only your first name.
-Oh, right. "Diane, the artist."
1327
01:27:27,550 --> 01:27:28,642
-I warned you.
-Yes.
1328
01:27:28,718 --> 01:27:32,415
But I didn't expect to be outed
on primetime television!
1329
01:27:36,726 --> 01:27:38,819
Hey, dud, it's your sister.
1330
01:27:46,636 --> 01:27:48,228
Tell her I died.
1331
01:27:53,176 --> 01:27:54,837
Tell her yourself.
1332
01:28:00,150 --> 01:28:02,209
Diane, is that you?
1333
01:28:13,463 --> 01:28:15,693
She wasn't crazy about my hat.
1334
01:28:16,666 --> 01:28:17,997
That's it?
1335
01:28:19,669 --> 01:28:21,330
She always knew.
1336
01:28:21,404 --> 01:28:24,100
She was afraid to say anything
because I never did.
1337
01:28:30,013 --> 01:28:34,279
You know, you think people are never gonna
figure it out, but they do.
1338
01:28:35,351 --> 01:28:37,012
They even survive.
1339
01:28:40,723 --> 01:28:43,624
I thought I looked rather nice in that hat.
1340
01:28:44,594 --> 01:28:46,926
-Yeah. So did I.
-Yeah.
1341
01:28:50,867 --> 01:28:54,325
You know, this is the best thing
that ever could have happened to us, Diane.
1342
01:28:54,404 --> 01:28:57,271
-What we were meant to do.
-Yeah.
1343
01:28:59,209 --> 01:29:01,109
No matter what happens.
1344
01:29:14,958 --> 01:29:18,894
Grethe Cammermeyer received a wildly
enthusiastic reception this afternoon
1345
01:29:18,962 --> 01:29:22,732
when she spoke at a heavily attended
gay-pride rally in Seattle.
1346
01:29:39,749 --> 01:29:42,547
I feel very humbled being here today.
1347
01:29:43,286 --> 01:29:44,685
Thank you.
1348
01:29:46,122 --> 01:29:48,647
People ask, who are we?
1349
01:29:49,392 --> 01:29:52,520
We are their daughters, their sisters,
1350
01:29:53,029 --> 01:29:55,862
their sons, their nurses,
1351
01:29:56,499 --> 01:30:01,402
their mechanics, their athletes, their police.
1352
01:30:02,171 --> 01:30:05,163
We're your doctors, your fathers,
1353
01:30:05,375 --> 01:30:08,606
your politicians, your soldiers,
1354
01:30:08,845 --> 01:30:11,370
your mothers, your friends.
1355
01:30:12,282 --> 01:30:14,614
We live with you, care for you,
1356
01:30:15,285 --> 01:30:17,515
help you, protect you,
1357
01:30:18,421 --> 01:30:22,551
teach you, love you and need you.
1358
01:30:23,660 --> 01:30:26,993
All we ask is that you let us.
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