Original subtitles

PREVIOUSLY ON "90 DAY FIANCE:

HAPPILY EVER AFTER?"...

Paola: I'M REALLY HAPPY TO GO BACK AND SEE MY HUSBAND.

BUT AT THE SAME TIME, IT'S, LIKE, GOING BACK TO REALITY.

THIS CAREER IS NOT GONNA WORK IN THIS RELATIONSHIP.

I'M NOT HOLDING YOU BACK FROM ANYTHING!

SOME OF MY FRIENDS ARE NOT VERY HAPPY WITH ME.

PULL THE ANNULMENT TOMORROW

SO THAT YOU CAN FILE FOR DIVORCE.

[ ENGINE STARTS ]

AND COMING UP...

THAT MAKES ME UNCOMFORTABLE THAT YOU GO BEHIND MY BACK.

I'M GONNA BE A HOUSEWIFE SO I CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY

AND YOUR FAMILY HAPPY.

I'M DONE.

[ DOOR SLAMS ]

Melanie: DEVAR AND I JUST CAME BACK

AND THINGS ARE A LITTLE TENSE.

I LOVE YOU, MEL. YOU KNOW I'M ONLY HERE TO PROTECT YOU.

AND THAT'S MY JOB TO PROTECT HER.

WE'LL SEE WHEN YOU GET YOUR GREEN CARD,

AND YOU TAKE THE HELL OFF.

Kyle: NOON AND I ARE IN MINNESOTA TO VISIT MY MOM.

SO WE MIGHT MOVE A LITTLE BIT FURTHER AWAY THIS TIME.

-HOME -- HOME COUNTRY? -MAYBE.

SOUNDS LIKE A [BLEEP] PLACE TO LIVE, THEN. [ LAUGHS ]

I AM IN MIAMI TO TRY TO MEET WITH MOHAMED.

[ CRYING ]

Loren: ALEX AND I ARE RENEWING OUR VOWS IN ISRAEL.

NO. CLOSE THE DOOR.

-STOP. -NO! -STOP.

YOU NEED TO STOP.

WE'RE AT OUR WEDDING,

AND I DON'T EVEN WANNA WALK DOWN THE AISLE.

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'CAUSE IT MAKES ME FEEL GOOD, MAKES ME FEEL IT ALL NIGHT

STAND UP, YOU CAN SEE WHAT YOU WANNA SEE

HANDS UP, I CAN BE WHAT I WANNA BE

I'VE BEEN BACK TO MIAMI FOR A COUPLE WEEKS NOW.

AND I AM SO HAPPY TO BE HERE.

I AM GLAD THAT MY TRIP TO OHIO WENT WELL

AND I WAS ABLE TO GET DANIELLE TO PULL THE ANNULMENT.

AND NOW I'M JUST READY TO FOCUS ON MY NEW LIFE WITHOUT HER.

UH, THERE IS A LOT OF OPPORTUNITIES HERE FOR ME,

AND THINGS ARE GOING REALLY WELL.

-HEY. -OH, HI.

GREICE IS A GOOD FRIEND OF MINE.

SHE'S A VERY, VERY COOL PERSON.

NOW I DON'T HAVE LOUISA ANYMORE HERE IN MIAMI,

AND, UH, I'M GLAD TO HAVE A NEW FRIEND TO HANG OUT WITH.

WHERE'S YOUR FRIEND?

SHE'S OVER THERE.

OH. LOOK AT HER.

Mohamed: I AM HERE IN MIAMI,

AND THERE IS, LIKE, SO MANY PRETTY GIRLS.

IT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE WANTING ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP.

HOW ARE YOU?

MY NAME IS MOHAMED. -OH, MY NAME IS NANDA.

NANDA. NICE NAME.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S GONNA HAPPEN. [ LAUGHS ]

SO, I JUST CAME BACK FROM OHIO.

AND I'M STILL HAVING PROBLEMS THERE WITH MY -- WITH MY WIFE.

SHE IS A DRAMA PERSON

AND GIVING ME A HARD TIME FOR EVERYTHING.

I CANNOT SPEND ALL MY LIFE WITH SOMEONE LIKE THAT.

ALL I WANT IS TO HAVE A HAPPY LIFE HERE IN AMERICA,

BUT I AM SO AFRAID THAT DANIELLE,

SHE WILL NEVER LEAVE ME ALONE.

WHY?

WHY?

BECAUSE SHE'S ALWAYS,

LIKE, CALLING, CALLING, TEXTING, TEXTING.

SINCE I CAME BACK FROM OHIO,

UH, DANIELLE, SHE HAS BEEN, LIKE,

TEXTING ME AND E-MAILING ME, LIKE, TOO MUCH.

LIKE, I SAID, "WE CAN BE FRIENDS."

LOOK. BUT THE WAY SHE'S DOING IT,

IT'S, LIKE, SOMEBODY WHO'S VERY INTO A RELATIONSHIP,

NOT JUST, UH, SIMPLE FRIENDS.

SHE CALLED FIVE TIMES. SHE CALL. SHE CALL.

SHE CALL. I DON'T ANSWER HER.

-[ LAUGHS ] REALLY? -YES. YES. YES.

SHE CALLS ME ALL THE TIME.

UH, I DON'T HAVE A PICTURE HERE.

WHY NOT? IT'S YOUR WIFE.

IT'S -- IT'S NOT MY WIFE ANYMORE.

I'M JUST WAITING TO GET MY DIVORCE.

SHE WANT TO KNOW HOW SHE LOOK LIKE.

I DON'T BELIEVE THAT THERE IS SOME -- SOMEONE IS UGLY.

[ SPEAKS NATIVE LANGUAGE ]

[ LAUGHS ]

I DIDN'T KNOW THAT HIS WIFE IS CRAZY.

I WORRY ABOUT HIM BECAUSE THIS IS DANGEROUS.

SHE'S SICK.

MAYBE IT WAS A MISTAKE THAT I, UH,

ASK DANIELLE TO BE FRIENDS

BECAUSE NOW, THE WAY SHE'S TEXTING ME,

IT'S SHOWING ME THAT SHE IS NOT GETTING OVER IT.

NOW I AM WORRIED THAT DANIELLE,

SHE'S GONNA MAKE THIS DIVORCE GO, LIKE, AS LONG AS POSSIBLE.

BECAUSE SHE KNOWS VERY WELL THAT WHEN IT'S OVER,

AND THE DIVORCE IS, UH, FINALIZED, I WILL...

...TO MAKE HER STOP TALKING TO ME.

THE ONLY WAY TO MAKE DANIELLE,

LIKE, STOP DOING ALL THIS DRAMA IS TO CUT HER OFF.

Paola: SINCE I CAME BACK FROM MIAMI,

RUSS AND I HAVE BEEN ARGUING ABOUT MIAMI VERSUS SEATTLE

AND WHAT KIND OF PICTURE I'M ALLOWED TO TAKE.

I DON'T WANNA HAVE A PROBLEM WITH YOU

IF I HAVE A JOB LIKE THAT.

-ALL I'M SAYING IS... -NO, BUT YOU'RE SAYING,

"BAD, BAD." -THINK OF THE WHOLE PICTURE.

THE BIG PICTURE FOR YOU AND YOUR JOB.

I'M NOT HOLDING YOU BACK FROM ANYTHING.

WHAT ABOUT GOING TO SEATTLE?

I'M NOT SAYING TO HAVE TO MOVE TO SEATTLE.

I NEVER SAID THAT.

WE HAD A CHANCE TO CALM DOWN AFTER THAT FIGHT THAT WE HAD.

AND I WANT TO SHOW MY HUSBAND

THAT I LOVE HIM WITH A LITTLE SURPRISE

THAT I GOT FOR HIM.

I GOT YOU SOMETHING FROM MIAMI. -OH, DID YOU?

YEAH.

OH, NICE, A LITTLE MAGNET FOR OUR FRIDGE.

AND SOMETHING ELSE.

-A SHOT GLASS! -AND IT'S ORANGE.

AND AN ORANGE DOLPHIN. DOLPHINS.

DID YOU SEE ANY DOLPHINS? -NO.

BUT SOMEONE OFFERED ME, FOR FOOD, DOLPHINS.

AND I'M LIKE, "WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?"

BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW

IF I REALLY WANNA SHOW HIM THE PICTURES

THAT I TOOK IN MIAMI.

HEY. BEAUTIFUL.

JUST THROW IT AT ME.

[ CAMERA SHUTTER CLICKING ]

I ACTUALLY REALLY LIKE THEM.

THEY END UP LOOKING SO GOOD.

DO YOU WANNA SEE THE PICTURES?

I DON'T KNOW. DO I?

YEAH. I LIKE THEM.

I DO LIKE THEM. -I MEAN, I'M A LITTLE AFRAID.

PLEASE JUST OPEN YOUR MIND. THIS IS A PROFESSIONAL GUY.

-OKAY. -THANK YOU.

I'M GONNA LET YOU ACTUALLY LOOK

AT THE PICTURE BY YOURSELF, OKAY?

I'M NOT SURE WHAT TO EXPECT, BABE.

YOU'RE AFRAID TO SHOW ME?

I'M GONNA HAVE A DRINK OUTSIDE WHILE YOU JUST...

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.

Paola: I WANT HIM TO JUST --

TO RELAX AND CALM DOWN

AND SEE HOW HE WILL FEEL ABOUT IT.

AND THEN HE JUST...

HE CAN COME TO ME AND TALK ABOUT IT.

SWIMSUIT, I WASN'T TOO THRILLED ABOUT.

IT'S PRETTY SMALL. -THAT'S ONE OF MY FAVORITES.

IT'S A LITTLE RISQUE. A LITTLE REVEALING, ISN'T IT?

IT'S NEW.

YOU LOOK CUTE.

IT'S NOT AS REVEALING AS I THOUGHT IT WOULD BE.

SEE?

I STARTED LOOKING THROUGH THESE PHOTOS,

AND PAO'S LOOKING GREAT. I'M ACCEPTING IT.

NEXT THING I KNOW, I START SCROLLING DOWN.

ALL RIGHT. NOW I'M ONTO THE BLACK TOP AND JEAN SHORTS.

IT'S, LIKE, THINKING ABOUT IT IS DRIVING ME INSANE.

YOU'VE UNTIED YOURSELF.

WAS THIS YOUR DECISION,

OR THE PHOTOGRAPHER TELLING YOU TO DO THIS OR WHAT?

[ SIGHS ]

OKAY.

REALLY?

IT...

I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY. -I MEAN, YOU TURN TOO...

YEP, NOW YOU'VE TURNED.

Paola: I DON'T KNOW. I JUST HATE FEELING, LIKE, GUILTY.

I -- I DON'T WANNA FEEL THAT

I'M DOING SOMETHING WRONG WHEN I'M NOT.

BUT IT'S JUST BEING IN OKLAHOMA,

JUST MAKING ME CHANGE THE WAY I THINK.

BEFORE, YOU WERE WEARING SOMETHING SKIMPY.

NOW YOU'RE NOT WEARING ANYTHING.

I -- I'M WEARING A SHORT.

I DON'T FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH THAT.

BUT I LIKE THEM.

I MEAN, THERE ARE PEOPLE AROUND YOU.

YOU'RE IN A PUBLIC PLACE. AND YOU'RE TOPLESS.

WE DISCUSSED THE BOUNDARIES.

AND THAT'S JUST ON A BIKINI.

YOU DIDN'T CONSENT WITH ME.

YOU DIDN'T ASK IF THAT'S OKAY FOR YOU TO DO THAT.

WELL, THIS IS GONNA HAPPEN A LOT.

-THIS IS GOING TO HAPPEN A LOT? -YEAH.

THIS IS THE KIND OF PICTURE THAT I HAVE TO DO,

AND I HAVE TO BE LIKE THAT SOMETIMES.

AND I'M SUPPOSED TO BE OKAY WITH IT?

AS YOUR HUSBAND, YOU SHOULD CONSENT WITH ME.

-BABY, LOOK WHAT HAPPENED. -THAT IS DISRESPECTFUL TO ME.

AND YOU GO BEHIND MY BACK.

THIS IS MY BODY.

THIS IS WHAT I WANNA DO. THIS IS MY CAREER.

YES. OF COURSE. I SHOULD HAVE ASKED YOU.

BUT DON'T COMPROMISE OUR RELATIONSHIP

BY PUSHING YOURSELF -- THAT MAKES ME UNCOMFORTABLE.

AND OUTSIDE OF...

WELL, I DIDN'T KNOW THAT YOU WERE LIKE THAT.

YES, YOU DID.

I ALREADY SAID... -NO, NO, NO, NO.

WHEN I MET YOU IN COLOMBIA, YOU WEREN'T LIKE THAT.

IF... I'VE ALREADY TOLD YOU...

YOU WERE, LIKE, SO HAPPY WITH YOUR SEXY WIFE.

AND NOW THAT YOU'RE HERE IN OKLAHOMA NOW,

YOU JUST GOT ALL YOUR [BLEEP] BACK.

IF I ALREADY TOLD YOU THAT I WASN'T HAP--

THAT'S IT. AND I'M DONE.

LIKE, SERIOUSLY, I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.

YOU HAVE TO THINK ABOUT IT.

IF YOU ACTUALLY WANNA BE WITH SOMEONE

WHO REALLY LOVE TO BE A MODEL

AND WANTS TO MAKE IT AS A MODEL,

AND HAVE TO DEAL WITH ALL THIS [BLEEP]

WELL, MAYBE YOU SHOULD CONSIDER OUR RELATIONSHIP.

I'M GONNA BE A HOUSEWIFE SO I CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY

AND YOUR FAMILY HAPPY.

AND I'M DONE.

LIKE, SERIOUSLY, I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.

I'M GONNA BE A HOUSEWIFE

SO I CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY AND YOUR FAMILY HAPPY.

SHE'S IN A PUBLIC PLACE. SHE'S NOT WEARING A TOP.

SHE HAS GONE BEYOND WHAT WE HAD EVEN CONSIDERED AS A LIMIT.

I'M NOT HAPPY WITH THIS AT ALL.

Paola: THIS IS ME. THIS IS ME.

THIS IS WHO I AM AND I'M NOT GONNA CHANGE THAT.

NO. YOU JUST NOW BECAME THIS PERSON.

SEXY PICTURES AND THINGS LIKE THAT ARE GONNA HAPPEN.

YOU DIDN'T EVEN TALK TO ME ABOUT IT.

RUSS, BECAUSE THIS IS MY -- THIS IS MY JOB.

THIS IS WHAT I WANNA DO.

AND I'M NOT SAYING THAT I WANNA BE NAKED

OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT.

I'M JUST SAYING THAT THIS IS --

THIS IS SOMETHING THAT CAN HAPPEN.

BECAUSE AT THE END...

WHENEVER WE WERE THINKING ACTING AND MODELING, BIKINI.

THAT WAS THE EXTENT WE WERE CONSIDERING.

BABY, YOU...

SO NOW WHAT YOU SEE IS SOMETHING FURTHER.

NO, I SEE YOU BEING IN THE MIDDLE OF EVERY DECISION

THAT I CAN MAKE IN THERE.

LIKE, I CAN SEE MYSELF...

WELL, THAT'S MARRIAGE.

Russ: IF MY FAMILY WAS TO SEE THESE PICTURES,

THEY WOULD BE SHOCKED.

AND I DON'T FEEL LIKE THEY WOULD RESPECT PAO

TO THE LEVEL THAT THEY HAVE RIGHT NOW.

I WAS RAISED WITH DIFFERENT MORALS AND STANDARDS.

THESE THINGS HAPN.

BUT YOU'RE NOT READY. YOU'RE NOT READY.

AND I DON'T THINK I CAN DO THIS.

NO. I'M NOT READY FOR IT. IF THIS IS THE LEVEL

THAT IT'S ALREADY AT, I'M NOT READY FOR IT.

NO.

I FEEL THERE IS...

THAT I WASTE MY TIME IN MIAMI BECAUSE, WELL, MIAMI'S A BEACH.

SO IT'S, LIKE, A LOT OF BIKINI IN THERE AND SEXY PICTURE.

A LOT OF LATIN CULTURE THAT ARE USED TO THIS KIND OF MODEL GIGS.

AND...

I'M NOT IN THAT --

I'M NOT THERE YET.

I...

I REALLY DID COME IN HERE FROM COLOMBIA

AND GIVING UP EVERYTHING.

SO I NEED TO SACRIFICE

MY MORALS AND MY STANDARDS... -YOUR MORALS?

YEAH.

I NEED TO SACRIFICE THOSE THINGS?

WELL, WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY, ME OR THAT?

I GAVE UP EVERYTHING IN COLOMBIA. DON'T WORRY.

I WILL GIVE UP MY CAREER TOO. DON'T WORRY.

LET ME BE A MOTHER AND I WILL GET A [BLEEP] JOB.

I DON'T WANNA KEEP TALKING ABOUT THIS [BLEEP]

YOU KNOW WHAT? DON'T WORRY.

I'M SO USED TO MAKE PEOPLE HAPPY

AND PUT MYSELF THE LAST.

SO I'M DONE.

I'M DONE. I'M DONE. I'M DONE.

[ DOOR SLAMS ] I'M DONE.

I THINK AT THIS POINT,

IT'S MAKING THE DECISION OF...

I JUST HAVE TO PLEASE EVERYBODY.

NOW THAT I GET THE CHANCE TO DO THIS IN MIAMI,

I'M LIKE...

I CANNOT DO IT BECAUSE I HAVE TO ASK HIM PERMISSION.

DEVAR AND I JUST CAME BACK FROM OUR FIRST TRIP TO JAMAICA

SINCE WE'VE BEEN MARRIED AND THINGS ARE A LITTLE TENSE.

WHILE WE WERE IN JAMAICA, WE MET UP WITH A FEW OF HIS SISTERS.

SO HOW HAVE THINGS BEEN GOING FOR YOU?

KIND OF SEEMS ROUGH. I'M NOT WORKING.

BUT...

I GOT SOME CASH FOR YOU. SPEND IT WISELY.

THANK YOU.

I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY DEVAR FEELS

IT'S NECESSARY TO GIVE MONEY TO HIS SISTER

WHEN SHE'S COMPLETELY CAPABLE OF WORKING.

OLDEAND ALSO DEVAR'S R SISTERS

LIVE IN A REALLY, REALLY, REALLY NICE HOUSE.

THEY REALLY SHOULD BE HELPING HER OUT.

SO YOU CONTRIBUTE TO THE HOUSE?

DID HE GIVE YOU ANY MONEY?

Melanie: I MEAN, I'M STILL PRIMARILY

MAKING MOST OF THE MONEY, UM, IN THE HOUSEHOLD.

AND THERE'S A LOT OF BILLS THAT NEED TO BE PAID.

I MEAN, FOR SHE TO BE SIGNING MOST OF THE BILLS, THAT'S CRAZY.

[ LAUGHS ]

DEVAR AND I DID LEAVE JAMAICA ON COMPLETELY DIFFERENT PAGES

WHEN IT COMES TO HELPING OUT HIS FAMILY FINANCIALLY.

-YOU NEED ANYTHING ELSE? -JUST RANCH. -YOU S

MM-HMM.

I MENTIONED TO MY SISTER, BEV,

WHAT HAD HAPPENED IN JAMAICA WITH DEVAR'S FAMILY,

AND, OF COURSE, SHE INSISTED ON COMING OVER FOR DINNER.

BEVERLY IS VERY, VERY SKEPTICAL.

SHE STILL HAS MANY CONCERNS WITH DEVAR.

SHE THINKS THAT DEVAR HAS CHILDREN OVER THERE,

THAT HE HAS PAST WIVES OVER THERE.

UM, HER MIND IS ENDLESS.

AND SHE KIND OF THINKS OF ANYTHING

AND EVERYTHING THAT IS WRONG WITH DEVAR.

I KNOW SHE'S GONNA GRILL YOU AT DINNER.

SO... -SHE GONNA GRILL ME?

[ DOORBELL RINGS ]

HI!

-WELL, HELLO, MELANIE. -HOW ARE YA?

I'M GOOD. HOW ARE YOU?

YOU WANT SOMETHING TO DRINK? I'LL GRAB YOU SOME WINE.

OH, I WANT SOME WINE. DEFINITELY.

BEING HERE IN AMERICA, THE HARDEST THING

FOR ME TO GET USED TO, ACTUALLY,

IS MEL'S SISTER, BEVERLY.

OH, GOD. THERE'S SO MUCH TO SAY.

LET ME SEE WHERE TO START. -YOU MET HER AT A RESORT.

SO HOW MANY OTHERS HAVE YOU MET LIKE HER?

YOU KNOW, YOU'RE IN JAMAICA. SHE'S HERE.

YOU GET WOMEN IN AND OUT OF YOUR LIFE

BASICALLY EVERY DAY, EVERY WEEK.

BUT THEY'RE THERE. AND I'M, LIKE,

EVERY PERSON THAT YOU SLEPT WITH,

NOW YOU'RE SLEEPING WITH HER,

WHICH MEANS NOW SHE'S SLEEPING WITH ALL THOSE PEOPLE

WITH THE BIG SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES.

GOD, DEVAR.

ALL RIGHT. LET'S EAT. I'M STARVING.

YOU SURE YOU'RE OKAY?

-YEAH. YOU AIN'T MAD AT ME?

NAH.

-I'M COMING IN. -I'M GONNA HAVE A BITE OF FOOD.

-YEAH. -I'M GONNA HAVE A BITE, TOO.

SO MEL WAS TELLING ME ABOUT YOUR WHOLE JAMAICA TRIP.

AND SHE EXPLAINED THAT YOUR TWO SISTERS

ARE FINANCIALLY WELL OFF.

UM, NICE HOMES.

WHY IS YOUR OTHER SISTER ASKING YOU FOR MONEY?

SO YOU DON'T REALLY HAVE TO SEND YOUR MONEY THERE.

SHE IS MY FAMILY.

YOU'RE PART OF MY FAMILY AS WELL.

SO IF I CAN HELP HER, SHE ASKS, I WILL.

Melanie: YOU'RE GONNA HELP HER HOW?

I'M WORKING.

I'M EARNING AN INCOME. -CORRECT. YOU ARE.

HOWEVER, I'VE SUPPORTED YOU FOR THE PAST 2 YEARS.

SO, WE ARE NOT SENDING ANY MONEY

BACK TO YOUR SISTER WHO IS ABLE TO WORK.

SHE'S ABLE TO WORK, BUT SHE'S NOT WORKING NOW.

BY HER CHOICE.

I THINK THAT DEVAR WANTS TO PROVIDE FOR HIS YOUNGER SISTER

BECAUSE IT'S THE CULTURE OF JAMAICA.

BUT RIGHT NOW, I'M PRIMARILY

MAKING THE MAJORITY OF THE MONEY.

SO HIS SISTERS AND HIS FAMILY

FROM JAMAICA REALLY NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND THAT.

WHY IS SHE NOT WORKING?

I'M NOT QUITE SURE.

I LOVE YOU, MEL.

YOU KNOW I'M ONLY HERE TO PROTECT YOU.

THAT'S MY JOB TO PROTECT HER.

I DON'T SEE THE WAY YOU'RE PROTECTING HER.

WE'LL SEE WHEN YOU GET YOUR GREEN CARD

AND YOU TAKE THE HELL OFF.

A LOT OF COUPLES END UP GETTING DIVORCED OVER FINANCES.

AND I REALLY HOPE THAT DEVAR AND I CAN FIGURE IT OUT EARLY

AND MOVE FORWARD IN OUR MARRIAGE.

WE'VE BEEN TRYING TO HAVE BABY SINCE OUR WEDDING.

BUT WE STILL DON'T HAVE IT.

[ CRYING ]

WE COULD CRY

WE COULD CRY FOR YESTERDAY

WE COULD TRY

WE COULD TRY FOR A BETTER WAY

SO WE WILL CRY, WE WILL CRY FOR YESTERDAY

Daya: OH, YEAH.

LOOK AT THIS, BABE.

DAYA AND I JUST RECENTLY TRIED TO RECONNECT WITH MY MOM

AND STEPDAD, WHICH DIDN'T GO TOO WELL.

YEAH. WHEN I FIRST HEARD THAT,

YOU KNOW, BRETT WAS MAKING THAT DECISION

TO GO OVERSEAS TO FIND A BRIDE...

I WASN'T GOING THERE TO FIND A BRIDE.

WHAT'D YOU GO THERE TO FIND?

-I FOUND HER. -OH, REALLY?

REALLY? -SHUT UP.

-WHOA. -EXCUSE ME?

DAYA AND I HAVE DECIDED TO START FOCUSING ON EACH OTHER

AND STARTING OUR OWN FAMILY

INSTEAD OF STRESSING OUT OVER OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH MINE.

I JUST CAN'T WAIT TO, LIKE, HAVE LITTLE ONES IN,

YOU KNOW, RUNNING AROUND IN A ROOM.

DID YOU SAY "LITTLE ONES"? LIKE, MORE THAN ONE?

YEAH. I WANT MORE THAN ONE. I JUST DON'T WANT ONE.

HMM.

Daya: WE'VE BEEN TRYING TO HAVE BABY

SINCE RIGHT AFTER OUR WEDDING.

BUT UNFORTUNATELY, WE STILL DON'T HAVE IT.

MY FRIENDS GET PREGNANT,

LIKE, WHEN THEY WERE, LIKE, IN THEIR 20s, YOU KNOW?

AND LOOK AT ME. I'M 31 AND HAPPILY MARRIED.

BUT, YOU KNOW, I...I WANT A KID.

I WANT A BABY.

I WOULD BE VERY SCARED TO, LIKE, HEAR THAT FROM A DOCTOR,

TELLING ME THAT I CAN'T GET PREGNANT AT ALL.

WHEN YOU GO TO THE DOCTOR, I WANNA GO WITH YOU THIS TIME,

AND I WANNA TAKE NOTES.

WHEN I WAS IN THE PHILIPPINES, I WENT TO A DOCTOR.

AND HE TOLD ME THAT I NEED TO GET PREGNANT

AT THE AGE OF 30, OR ELSE I WOULD HAVE A PROBLEM.

BUT AT THE TIME I WAS YOUNG

AND I WAS NOT READY TO HAVE A BABY.

I DIDN'T TAKE IT SERIOUSLY.

NOW THAT I'M 31,

IT'S SINK IN THAT MAYBE HE WAS RIGHT.

I KNOW THAT IF YOU'RE UNDER TOO MUCH PRESSURE,

IT'S NEVER GONNA HAPPEN.

I KNOW.

Brett: IN THE FILIPINO CULTURE,

IT'S VERY COMMON FOR THE WOMEN TO HAVE BABIES IN THEIR 20s.

THAT'S WHY WE'RE TRYING TO GO TO THE DOCTOR TO FIGURE OUT

WHAT'S GOING ON SO THAT WE'RE -- WE DON'T WASTE ANY MORE TIME.

Daya: TODAY, I AM HOPING I'D BE ABLE TO HAVE THE ANSWER

ON WHY I CAN'T GET PREGNANT.

HELLO. GOOD MORNING.

-HOW ARE YOU? -I HAD MY BLOOD TEST DONE

AND WAS GONNA FIND OUT THE RESULT TODAY.

HOPEFULLY MY BLOOD RESULTS WILL, LIKE, BE OKAY.

-HELLO. HOW ARE YOU GUYS DOING? -GOOD.

HOW ARE YOU? -I'M WELL.

I'M DR. LAU. -I'M BRETT.

-BRETT. -DAYA.

-NICE TO MEET YOU. -NICE TO MEET YOU.

OKAY, SO BASICALLY YOUR GENERAL,

YOU KNOW, BLOOD TESTS WERE ALL NORMAL

EXCEPT ONE THING.

EXPLORE WHY THIS, UM, NUMBER'S HIGH.

[ SIGHS ]

I REALLY, REALLY, REALLY WANTED TO HAVE A BABY SO BAD.

JUST A SEC. [ CHUCKLES ]

IT'S ALL RIGHT.

LIKE [SNIFFLES] I GUESS IT --

IT'S JUST NOT THE RIGHT TIME YET.

LIKE, MAYBE GOD IS NOT READY

TO GIVE THAT BABY YET FOR US.

BUT WE HAVE THIS HUGE HOPE

AND FAITH THAT IN GOD'S PERFECT TIME,

HE WILL GIVE IT TO US.

[ BIRDS CHIRPING ]

I GOT A WISH THAT'S ONLY MINE

I GOT A WISH THAT MUST SEEM DUMB TO YOU

I'M GONNA WISH AS HARD AS I CAN

LET ME TELL YA

Danielle: I'M GOING FOR A WALK WITH BETH TODAY

TO TELL HER THAT I PULLED THE ANNULMENT.

AND I DON'T THINK SHE'S GOING TO BE TOO HAPPY.

SINCE MOHAMED CAME TO OHIO

AND CONVINCED ME TO PULL THE ANNULMENT,

WE HAVE AGREED TO WAIT TO FILE FOR DIVORCE

'CAUSE WITH THE DIVORCE, HE WON'T BE DEPORTED.

-YOU NOT WORKING TONIGHT? -NO.

WELL, THAT'S GOOD.

SO WHAT'S GOING ON?

SO, ME AND MOHAMED WENT TO THE COURTHOUSE.

-MM-HMM. -AND WE PULLED THE ANNULMENT.

EVERYTHING THAT YOU PUT IN THAT ANNULMENT

YOU BELIEVED, CORRECT?

-YES. -YOU THOUGHT THAT HE HAD

USED YOU FOR THE GREEN CARD.

YOU WANTED TO HAVE HIM DEPORTED.

SO THEN WHY WOULD YOU PULL IT?

BECAUSE HE ASKED ME TO.

I PULLED THE ANNULMENT BECAUSE AS LONG AS MOHAMED

IS WILLING TO REMAIN FRIENDS WITH ME,

I'M WANTING TO GIVE IT A CHANCE.

I DON'T WANNA LOSE HIM OUT OF MY LIFE.

SO YOU THINK A DIVORCE WILL BE BETTER FOR BOTH OF YOU?

UM, I'M HOPING SO.

HE SAID HE'S NOT GONNA TREAT ME BAD AND STUFF NO MORE.

I HOPE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING.

I'M NOT HAPPY ABOUT IT.

I DON'T THINK SHE SHOULD HAVE PULLED IT YET.

I JUST DON'T TRUST HIM.

I DON'T THINK THAT HE'S BEING HONEST WITH HER.

I THINK HE'S LYING TO HER

AND MANIPULATING HER TO GET WHAT HE WANTS AS USUAL.

Danielle: HE SAID I CAN ALWAYS GO SEE HIM.

I CAN TALK TO HIM AND STUFF LIKE THAT.

DOES HE HAVE A JOB AND THINGS DOWN THERE?

HE SAYS HE HAS A JOB.

AND HE HAS A PLACE.

BUT HE HASN'T TOLD ME NOTHING ABOUT THE JOB OR THE PLACE.

SO YOU HAVE NO IDEA WHERE HE WORKS, AS USUAL.

-YEAH. -YOU HAVE NO IDEA

WHAT HIS ADDRESS IS -- TYPICAL.

YEAH. I DON'T KNOW.

AND YOU EXPECT THAT HE'S GONNA BE HONEST WITH YOU.

I'M WORRIED THAT IT'S POSSIBLY A LIE

TO JUST GET WHAT HE WANTED, THE ANNULMENT GONE,

AND THAT HE'S NOT GOING TO KEEP HIS WORD

IN REMAINING FRIENDS WITH ME.

BECAUSE THIS AIN'T THE FIRST TIME HE'S MADE PROMISES

AND HE'S BROKE 'EM.

DID HE EVER TELL YOU WHY EXACTLY HE WANTED IT PULLED?

-FOR IMMIGRATION. -SO IT --

THE GREEN CARD DOES MATTER. -YEAH.

EVEN THOUGH HE'S MADE VERY CLEAR THAT IT DOESN'T MATTER.

IT DOES. YEAH.

AND THAT DOESN'T MAKE YOU A LITTLE BIT SUSPICIOUS?

I DOES A LITTLE BIT.

BUT I'M TRYING TO GIVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT.

I KNOW THAT MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS

ARE GOING TO BE UPSET

BECAUSE THEY'RE GOING TO THINK THAT MOHAMED WON

AND THAT I GAVE INTO HIM.

WHAT DOES YOUR HEART TELL YA?

MY HEART'S TELLING ME THAT I NEED TO TRY TO TRUST HIM.

AND HE NEEDS TO TRY TO TRUST ME.

AND WHAT DOES YOUR HEAD TELL YA?

MY HEAD IS TELLING ME TO BE CAREFUL.

DAMN CAREFUL. I JUST DON'T TRUST HIM.

HE'S A PIG.

BETH FEELS THAT MOHAMED SHOULD BE DEPORTED.

AND SHE DON'T THINK IT WOULD BE FAIR

THAT HE GETS TO STAY IN THE COUNTRY

BECAUSE HE CAME HERE ON A K-1 VISA

TO MARRY ME AND BUILD A LIFE.

AND HE HASN'T BUILT A LIFE WITH ME.

SO SHE THINKS IT'S NOT RIGHT FOR HIM TO STAY.

WELL, I HOPE HE DOES WHAT YOU WANT HIM TO DO.

AND I HOPE HE'S HONEST ABOUT THINGS.

I'M HOPING I'M NOT MAKING A MISTAKE.

I HOPE YOU'RE NOT EITHER.

[ LAUGHS ] I DON'T KNOW WHY ITS SO HARD.

[ Voice breaking ] I HAVE TOURETTE'S SYNDROME.

NOON AND I ARE IN MINNESOTA TO VISIT MY MOM.

SO WE MIGHT MOVE A LITTLE BIT FURTHER AWAY THIS TIME.

-HOME -- HOME COUNTRY? -MAYBE.

SOUNDS LIKE A [BLEEP] TO LIVE, THEN. [ LAUGHS ]

I'M KIND OF SHOCKED AT THE RESPONSE FROM ALEXEI'S FRIENDS.

I THOUGHT THAT THEY WOULD BE EXCITED

THAT WE'RE DOING THIS WEDDING CEREMONY FOR THEM.

BUT IT'S BEEN THE OPPOSITE.

-THIS ONE? -YEAH.

RIGHT HERE. -OKAY.

EVER SINCE WE GOT TO ISRAEL, IT'S JUST BEEN, LIKE,

A PROBLEM AFTER A PROBLEM AFTER A PROBLEM.

Alexei: SOME OF MY FRIENDS ARE NOT VERY HAPPY WITH ME.

I DON'T WANNA BE RUDE. BUT...

AND IT'S STRESSING ME OUT,

AND I'M TICKING, AND IT'S FRUSTRATING.

AND I CAN ONLY HOLD SOMETHING IN FOR SO LONG.

DID YOU -- DID YOU BRING THAT BIG BREAD?

-YES. -AH!

Loren: WE'RE DOING A FAMILY PICNIC TODAY

AND SINCE I HAVE EVERYBODY HERE,

I THINK THAT THIS IS THE BEST TIME FOR ME

TO JUST OPEN UP ABOUT MY TOURETTE'S.

AND IF I'M GONNA DO IT, NOW'S THE TIME.

I DON'T WANNA LIE ANYMORE.

I DON'T WANNA HIDE BEHIND IT ANYMORE.

LISTEN. MY PARENTS, THEY LOVE YOU.

SO JUST GET IT OFF YOUR HEART.

JUST GET IT OFF YOUR HEART, AND IT WILL ONLY MAKE IT BETTER.

ALEX TOLD HIS MOM THAT I HAVE TOURETTE'S,

BUT I'VE NEVER TALKED TO HER ABOUT IT.

AND ALEX'S DAD AND BROTHER DON'T KNOW.

I DON'T KNOW HOW THEY'LL REACT. AND I'M NOT PERFECT.

BUT I WANT THEM TO THINK THAT I'M PERFECT FOR THEIR SON STILL.

I KNOW YOU'RE SCARED.

THERE'S NOTHING TO BE SCARED OF.

OKAY?

I'VE KEPT THE FACT THAT I HAVE TOURETTE'S FOR OVER 20 YEARS.

AND NOW THAT ALEX IS MY HUSBAND, HIS PARENTS ARE MY FAMILY

AND THEY NEED TO KNOW.

AND I WANT THEM TO HEAR IT FROM ME,

THE RIGHT WAY AS IT SHOULD BE.

YOU OKAY? ARE YOU TODAY TO TALK?

YOU OKAY? OKAY, ALL RIGHT.

I'M JUST NERVOUS. I WANNA GET IT OVER WITH

BECAUSE I'M WORKING MYSELF UP OVER IT,

AND THEY KNOW I AM,

BECAUSE IT'S NOT SOMETHING I TALK ABOUT WITH PEOPLE.

I DON'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO SAY IT. HUH.

I'M NOT PREGNANT. DON'T WORRY.

DON'T SCARE ME LIKE THAT.

GO AHEAD. -I CAN'T EVEN SAY IT.

-GO AHEAD. -[ CHUCKLES ]

I DON'T KNOW WHY IT'S SO HARD. SO...

IT'S OKAY. LOREN. IT'S OKAY.

I HAVE TOURETTE'S SYNDROME.

[ SPEAKS NATIVE LANGUAGE ]

DO YOU KNOW WHAT IT IS?

I'M, LIKE, SHAKING.

AND IT'S, LIKE A NEUROLOGICAL

AND NERVOUS SYSTEM DISORDER WHERE...

YOU KNOW WHEN I USED TO SNIFF A LOT

AND I WOULD SAY, "IT'S ALLERGIES"?

[ SPEAKS NATIVE LANGUAGE ]

I HAVE TICS.

THEY'RE, UM, LIKE, INVOLUNTARY MOVEMENTS AND --

AND SOUNDS.

IS IT TRANSFERRED GENETICALLY?

WELL, WHEN WE FOUND OUT,

AND SHE WAS 7, ONE OF THE FIRST THINGS I FOUND OUT,

AND THEY SAID, "IT'S NOT GENETICALLY TRANSFERRED."

WHEN PEOPLE HEAR "TOURETTE'S," THEY THINK THAT,

YOU KNOW, PEOPLE JUST SCREAM OR --

OR MAKE WEIRD MOVEMENTS AND STUFF.

AND THERE'S SO MUCH MORE TO IT.

THEY'RE SAYING, "I LOVE YOU."

THEY LO -- THEY LOVE YOU TOO.

AND EVEN IF YOU HAD NO FEET OR HANDS,

IT DOESN'T MATTER.

THEY'RE SAYING FROM THE MOMENT

SHE MET YOU, BEFORE I TOLD HER,

YOU WENT RIGHT INTO HER HEART

AND SHE KNEW THAT YOU WERE A GREAT PERSON.

AND THIS LITTLE THINGS ON THE SIDE ARE NOTHING COMPARED

TO WHAT A GREAT PERSON YOU ARE.

YOU'RE FAMILY. -AW.

THANK YOU. NOW I HAVE TO GO HUG HER.

I HAVE TO GO HUG HER.

I JUST SAID IT.

AND I JUST FEEL MUCH BETTER.

I DO. I FEEL LIKE...AHH.

EVEN THOUGH ALEX AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED ALMOST A YEAR NOW,

I JUST... NOW I FEEL LIKE FAMILY.

LIKE, THEY'VE ACCEPTED ME AS THEIR DAUGHTER,

AND I'VE REALLY OPENED UP TO THEM.

DO YOU STILL LOVE ME?

IT FELT SO GOOD TO TELL ALEX'S PARENTS THAT I HAVE TOURETTE'S.

AND IT'S JUST, LIKE, A WEIGHT LIFTED OFF MY SHOULDERS.

BUT NOW THAT THE WEDDING'S TOMORROW,

IT'S JUST A BALL OF STRESS RIGHT NOW.

I NEED EVERYTHING TO BE PERFECT BECAUSE I WANT THEM TO SEE

THAT HE MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE BY LEAVING EVERYTHING IN ISRAEL

TO COME BE WITH ME.

[ CHATTER ]

YOU SOMETIMES STRETCH THE TRUTH

ABOUT A COUPLE DIFFERENT THINGS.

LET'S TALK ABOUT MONEY.

A LOT OF COUPLES END UP GETTING DIVORCED OVER FINANCES.

MAYBE YOU DON'T LIKE ME ANYMORE. YOU WANNA SHIP ME BACK HOME.

Danielle: MOHAMED HAS BEEN BACK IN MIAMI.

I'VE TEXTED HIM, LIKE, 30 TIMES.

AND HE HASN'T RESPONDED.

THIS IS THE INFORMATION I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR.

WELL, MOHAMED, YOU'VE MADE THIS MISTAKE.

[ THUNDER RUMBLES ]

MR. WALTERS?

HOW YA FEELING ABOUT LAST NIGHT?

LAST NIGHT, WE HAD, UM, DINNER WITH MY SISTER, BEV.

AND IT GOT REALLY, REALLY HEATED.

SHE WAS A LITTLE HARSH.

BUT SHE BRINGS UP SOME VERY GOOD POINTS

AND SOME VERY GOOD QUESTIONS.

THE BOTTOM LINE IS, THOUGH, DEVAR,

SHE'S JUST TRYING TO LOOK OUT FOR ME.

NO, THAT'S NOT LOOKING OUT.

THAT'S LOOKING OVER.

BUT I THINK THAT THAT MIGHT BE STEMMING FROM YOU

SOMETIMES STRETCH THE TRUTH ABOUT A COUPLE DIFFERENT THINGS.

SO LET'S TALK ABOUT MONEY.

SOMETIMES I THINK DEVAR JUST TRIES TO PACIFY ME

AND TELL ME THAT HE'S REALLY NOT GONNA SEND MONEY HOME.

BUT THEN HE DOES, AND THAT PISSES ME OFF.

YOU'RE THE BREADWINNER OF THE FAMILY.

AND, UH, ME AS A MAN,

THAT'S THE ROLE I SHOULD BE PLAYING.

YOU HAVE TO GET THROUGH SCHOOL FIRST.

A YEAR FROM NOW, I SEE MYSELF, LIKE, WORKING,

DOING COMMERCIAL DIVING.

MM-HMM.

BUT WE'RE NOT GONNA SUPPORT HER.

IT'S GONNA BE KIND OF AS NEEDED.

AS NEEDED.

OKAY.

-YOU SURE? -YES.

BECAUSE YOU SEEM TO THINK ABOUT THAT A LOT.

IF YOU WERE GONNA DO IT REGULARLY,

IT WOULD BOTHER ME.

Melanie: FOR ME, HAVING TO PAY

FOR EVERYTHING SINCE THE TIME I MET HIM,

PAYING FOR TRIPS GOING BACK AND FORTH TO JAMAICA,

PAYING FOR THE WHOLE PROCESS OF THE K-1 VISA

AND THEN ALSO THE PERMANENT RESIDENT WAS A LOT ON ME.

BUT I THINK AS A WIFE,

MY PRIORITY IS TO MAKE SURE THAT HE FEELS SUCCESSFUL.

TO PUT HIM THROUGH SCHOOL, TO MAKE SURE HE FINDS A JOB

THAT HE LIKES AND HE'S SUCCESSFUL IN.

AFTER YOU GET YOUR GREEN CARD, THAT'S GONNA BE KEY, YOU KNOW?

'CAUSE WE NEED THAT IN ORDER

FOR YOU TO BE ABLE TO GET FINANCIAL AID

TO GO TO SCHOOL.

I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART. AND I TRUST YOU 100%.

TWO YEARS TO THE DAY

SINCE WE PARTED WAYS AND THAT DAY

YOU SAID WE'D ALWAYS STAY

FRIENDS TO THE END, BE IT BY PAPER AND PEN

I GUESS I FIGURED YOU'D NEED ME TILL GOD KNOWS WHEN

MOHAMED HAS BEEN BACK IN MIAMI FOR A FEW WEEKS.

AND I HAVEN'T HEARD ANYTHING FROM HIM.

I'VE TEXTED HIM, LIKE, 30 TIMES.

AND HE HASN'T RESPONDED.

WELL, I'VE TRIED CALLING HIM, LIKE, 10 TIMES,

AND HE DON'T PICK UP -- IT GOES STRAIGHT TO VOICEMAIL.

AND I'VE WRITTEN PROBABLY ABOUT FOUR OR FIVE E-MAILS,

AND HE DON'T RESPOND TO THEM EITHER.

[ Line ringing ]

YOUR CALL HAS BEEN FORWARDED

TO AN AUTOMATED VOICE MESSAGING SYSTEM.

IT HURTS WHEN MOHAMED IGNORES ME

BECAUSE BEFORE HE LEFT TO GO BACK TO MIAMI,

HE SAID THAT WE WOULD REMAIN FRIENDS

AND WE WOULD TALK TO EACH OTHER AND HE'D ALWAYS BE THERE.

AND THEN WHEN HE TURNS AROUND AND DOES THE EXACT OPPOSITE,

IT UPSETS ME.

HE'S CONTINUING TO IGNORE ME, LIKE HE'S BEEN DOING.

I'LL SEND HIM A TEXT. SEE IF HE ANSWERS IT.

I EXPECTED THAT HE WOULD KEEP HIS PROMISE

BECAUSE I GAVE HIM

WHAT HE WANTED BY PULLING THE ANNULMENT.

SO I EXPECTED HE WOULD DO ME THE FAVOR

BY KEEPING HIS PROMISE OF BEING A FRIEND

AND BEING THERE FOR ME.

EVEN THOUGH MOHAMED'S NOT TALKING TO ME,

I RECENTLY FOUND SOME INFORMATION

THAT MOHAMED DIDN'T WANT ME TO HAVE.

AND I FOUND IT ON OUR JOINT BANK ACCOUNT.

MOHAMED HAS CHANGED THE ADDRESS.

HE'S CHANGED THE ADDRESS TO A FLORIDA ADDRESS.

AND THIS IS THE PIECE OF INFORMATION

I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR: HIS ADDRESS.

[ CHUCKLES ]

HOW STUPID IS IT OF HIM

TO GO AND CHANGE THE JOINT BANK ACCOUNT?

BECAUSE HE MUST THINK THAT I'M NEVER GONNA LOOK

AT THE JOINT BANK ACCOUNT.

WELL, MOHAMED, YOU'VE MADE THIS MISTAKE.

I DECIDED THAT I'M GOING TO MIAMI TO FIND OUT

WHAT IS GOING ON.

BECAUSE HE'S MY HUSBAND.

FOOTSTEPS IN THE DARK FOLLOWING YOU HOME

RUNNING THROUGH THE PARK, YOU THINK THAT YOU'RE ALONE

HOLY [BLEEP]

WHAT THE [BLEEP]

I AM THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE

YOU JUST DON'T KNOW IT YET

ONCE I'VE GOT YOU IN MY ARMS I'LL NEVER, NEVER

NEVER LET YOU GO

SHE'S CRAZY.

NORMAL PEOPLE, THEY DON'T DO THIS.

DANIELLE, SOMETIMES, SHE GET PHYSICAL.

I'M SCARED THAT HIS WIFE DO SOMETHING BAD.

Mohamed: I NEED TO FILE A REPORT AGAINST MY WIFE.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT SHE'S CAPABLE OF.

Kyle: NOON AND I ARE IN MINNESOTA TO VISIT MY MOM.

SO WE MIGHT MOVE A LITTLE BIT FURTHER AWAY THIS TIME.

-HOME -- HOME COUNTRY? -MAYBE.

SOUNDS LIKE A [BLEEP] PLACE TO LIVE, THEN. [ LAUGHS ]

THOSE PICTURES IN MIAMI WERE NOT OKAY.

[ Chuckling ] EASIER TO CHANGE HUSBAND THAN CAREER.

Russ: DON'T MOCK ME WITH YOUR [BLEEP]

I AM IN MIAMI TO TRY TO MEET WITH MOHAMED.

[ CRYING ]

Loren: ALEX AND I ARE RENEWING OUR VOWS IN ISRAEL.

NO. CLOSE THE DOOR.

NO! -STOP.

STOP. YOU NEED TO STOP.

WE'RE AT OUR WEDDING AND I DON'T EVEN WANNA WALK DOWN THE AISLE.

DO NOT PUT THIS ON [BLEEP] TV.

I'LL -- I'LL SERIOUSLY RIP YOUR [BLEEP] OFF.