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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:03,630 --> 00:00:05,710 This is an ABC color mistake. 2 00:00:10,330 --> 00:00:14,490 Hello, I'm Alec Baldwin. Tonight, a conversation with one of my favorite 3 00:00:14,490 --> 00:00:15,490 in our business. 4 00:00:15,590 --> 00:00:20,970 She's an actress, a producer, a book publisher, the one, the only Sarah 5 00:00:20,970 --> 00:00:23,670 Parker. The former Sex and the City star. 6 00:00:24,240 --> 00:00:28,300 and two -time Emmy winner, continues to produce projects for movies and 7 00:00:28,300 --> 00:00:32,700 television, including her latest feature film, Here and Now, which is in 8 00:00:32,700 --> 00:00:33,740 theaters and streaming. 9 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:39,460 She is also a successful designer and entrepreneur after launching her own 10 00:00:39,460 --> 00:00:41,920 of women's shoes called SJP. 11 00:00:42,180 --> 00:00:46,780 We're glad you've joined us. A conversation with Sarah Jessica Parker 12 00:00:46,780 --> 00:00:47,780 right now. 13 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:11,440 I have a silly image of you as a result of a lot of the work you've done. 14 00:01:12,380 --> 00:01:16,480 I'll tee this up this way, which is my ex -wife was one of these people who we 15 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:21,940 would go to the Excelsior at the Lido in Venice, and she was making a film. And 16 00:01:21,940 --> 00:01:25,920 we'd walk in, and we had just arrived in Italy, and on every plain surface in 17 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:31,320 the room, every coffee table, side table, the bureau, the TV cabinet, 18 00:01:31,320 --> 00:01:32,840 there was a flat surface was a... 19 00:01:33,070 --> 00:01:34,750 with a gift for her. 20 00:01:35,090 --> 00:01:41,490 Dear Kim, please accept from Bottega Veneta this little gift. 21 00:01:41,690 --> 00:01:42,970 Welcome to Italy. 22 00:01:43,710 --> 00:01:48,950 I see you, like, you're in the crayon, you're somewhere around, and everywhere 23 00:01:48,950 --> 00:01:52,830 you go, people are like, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, and just, you 24 00:01:52,890 --> 00:01:56,710 fashion, jewelry, shoes, all that other stuff. 25 00:01:57,090 --> 00:02:00,790 Did that, is that something your business sense? 26 00:02:01,390 --> 00:02:05,830 Is it something that you had to access someone to help you make that that way? 27 00:02:05,870 --> 00:02:10,009 Did you have business sense yourself? No, I mean, to be on the receiving end 28 00:02:10,009 --> 00:02:14,210 that? To be marketing and selling. 29 00:02:15,020 --> 00:02:19,360 the image of this glamorous... No, I've never... You're on the TV show. 30 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:22,240 Right. And fashion becomes a component of that character. 31 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,900 Correct, correct. Are you choosing the clothes with... With Pat. With Pat? Yes, 32 00:02:26,020 --> 00:02:27,900 for sure. Or is Pat saying to you, I think this will go? 33 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:32,620 Long, five -hour fittings, many... Not her, but you. As much of a collaboration 34 00:02:32,620 --> 00:02:34,140 as anything. 35 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:37,240 I mean, an eye that is... 36 00:02:37,930 --> 00:02:41,910 completely unique is patricia field like there is nobody on the face of the 37 00:02:41,910 --> 00:02:46,210 earth that sees the world the way she sees it forever from the time she's been 38 00:02:46,210 --> 00:02:52,490 young adult and left her parents home um but i brought her on um she and i had 39 00:02:52,490 --> 00:02:56,590 done a movie together uh david frankel movie called miami rhapsody and i loved 40 00:02:56,590 --> 00:03:02,110 her and and barry jocelyn the producer of our first year on the show said pat 41 00:03:02,110 --> 00:03:06,690 were like yes of course and she came but We worked hand in glove. 42 00:03:06,930 --> 00:03:12,670 I mean, that was, I learned everything from her, and she opened up those 43 00:03:12,670 --> 00:03:15,870 conversations. They were fittings, and she had lots of ideas, but I never once 44 00:03:15,870 --> 00:03:16,809 said no to her. 45 00:03:16,810 --> 00:03:21,270 Even as outrageous and ridiculous and unthinkable and as much of a possible 46 00:03:21,270 --> 00:03:25,230 disaster, I didn't care. I would do anything for her. I would try anything 47 00:03:26,050 --> 00:03:29,270 But, yeah, it was definitely something we worked on closely together. 48 00:03:30,270 --> 00:03:31,270 Oh, my God! 49 00:03:31,570 --> 00:03:32,570 Shh, Carrie. 50 00:03:32,670 --> 00:03:34,250 Do you know what the... 51 00:03:34,730 --> 00:03:36,130 We're not even supposed to be in here. 52 00:03:36,530 --> 00:03:42,530 Manolo Blahnik, Mary Janes. I thought these were an urban shoeman. From that, 53 00:03:42,590 --> 00:03:44,150 you know, it's blurry. 54 00:03:44,650 --> 00:03:46,690 Who am I? Who is Carrie Bradshaw? 55 00:03:47,010 --> 00:03:53,950 And I think it was the beginning of all of that gift giving and people telling 56 00:03:53,950 --> 00:04:00,890 me or us who we were. And I didn't need to stoke those flames, nor was 57 00:04:00,890 --> 00:04:02,650 I interested. I love playing that character. 58 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:06,320 did everything possible to see it. But you start to turn it into a business. 59 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:10,860 Well. You start doing hair commercials and this and this and this. Right. You 60 00:04:10,860 --> 00:04:15,560 take the glam thing into the business world. No, true. And actually, I will 61 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:20,620 and he will probably deny this, but I kept saying no to the hair commercials. 62 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:25,320 And because Kenny Lonergan kept saying to me, like, you can't do that. 63 00:04:25,540 --> 00:04:27,720 You can never do that. And I was like, really? 64 00:04:30,030 --> 00:04:32,650 You're possibly right, but then I spoke to someone else and they were like, are 65 00:04:32,650 --> 00:04:33,650 you out of your freaking mind? 66 00:04:33,930 --> 00:04:37,870 You know, they're not asking that much of you and it's an honor. These were 67 00:04:37,870 --> 00:04:39,910 early days of all that. 68 00:04:40,550 --> 00:04:45,190 And yeah, I did a fragrance, but I wanted to do a fragrance since I was a 69 00:04:45,190 --> 00:04:50,530 woman. The first time I ever worked outside on my own, I worked with someone 70 00:04:50,530 --> 00:04:54,260 who... wore fragrance and i grew up my mom wore fragrance my mom has a whole 71 00:04:54,260 --> 00:04:58,100 thing about fragrance and saving up money to go to dayton's in minneapolis 72 00:04:58,100 --> 00:05:03,180 buy her fragrance and um so it all sort of came together but these were early 73 00:05:03,180 --> 00:05:09,440 days of of that this wasn't building a brand or an empire that that didn't 74 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:13,380 that language that vernacular all of that plotting and strategizing 75 00:05:14,250 --> 00:05:17,550 That was not... Did you partner with anybody in the overall, or was it just 76 00:05:17,550 --> 00:05:22,470 ad hoc? I worked with Cody on the fragrance for years, and now I have a 77 00:05:22,670 --> 00:05:27,590 We work with somebody else, but it's not part of a large company anymore. 78 00:05:27,890 --> 00:05:31,490 The shoe business I own with my partner, George Malcomith III. 79 00:05:32,050 --> 00:05:34,930 I'm an employee of the Crown in publishing. 80 00:05:36,490 --> 00:05:38,490 But these are all things that I... 81 00:05:40,110 --> 00:05:45,050 i'm doing because i i love the production company is you know 12 14 82 00:05:45,050 --> 00:05:51,990 now and these are things i love doing it's i am 100 involved in it for better 83 00:05:51,990 --> 00:05:57,950 worse few women had a career in which we merge from from a program you do prime 84 00:05:57,950 --> 00:06:02,430 to do that kind of thing as a fashion trend you know what i think though i 85 00:06:02,430 --> 00:06:05,990 that um you know and as we've all been talking a lot about 86 00:06:06,830 --> 00:06:11,970 you know, changing the dynamics on a set or in businesses across all industries, 87 00:06:12,090 --> 00:06:13,390 you know, 50 -50 by 2020. 88 00:06:13,650 --> 00:06:20,310 I will say that early on, men really gave me the opportunity 89 00:06:20,310 --> 00:06:23,190 to be a producer, to be a business person. 90 00:06:23,710 --> 00:06:29,930 It was because of Darren Star that I work in business because he said to me 91 00:06:29,930 --> 00:06:33,150 I met him, when he asked me to do the show, he said, you should produce a 92 00:06:33,210 --> 00:06:35,250 And I was like, I don't know how to produce television. He's like, you'll 93 00:06:35,790 --> 00:06:38,350 Learn how to produce. So the first year, be a consultant, and then you'll be a 94 00:06:38,350 --> 00:06:43,050 producer. Sit around smart people, listen, pay attention, zip it, and 95 00:06:43,750 --> 00:06:47,350 And I did, and I learned that I loved it. And then I met Catherine Walsh at 96 00:06:47,350 --> 00:06:49,670 Cody, who was one of the mucky mucks at Cody. 97 00:06:50,790 --> 00:06:56,410 Brilliant. And she said, pay attention, learn business, learn profits, and learn 98 00:06:56,410 --> 00:06:58,590 all of it. 99 00:06:59,070 --> 00:07:03,330 Learn what a tech package is. Learn production overseas. Learn all of it. 100 00:07:05,030 --> 00:07:11,630 I had a lot of people, and men included, in my early stages of learning business 101 00:07:11,630 --> 00:07:16,870 that were, I think, extremely generous and open to hold, allowed another 102 00:07:17,130 --> 00:07:21,710 There's a maturity and a warmth and an intelligence to you. 103 00:07:22,310 --> 00:07:24,170 Where do you think you get that from? 104 00:07:24,910 --> 00:07:28,710 Well, that's very kind of you. I hope I would like to be that person you 105 00:07:28,710 --> 00:07:29,710 describe. 106 00:07:31,660 --> 00:07:37,280 I think if you're lucky, you get to be around people that you mimic. 107 00:07:37,620 --> 00:07:40,400 You see in others qualities. 108 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:45,940 You admire that about them. You wish you possessed growing up, honestly. And who 109 00:07:45,940 --> 00:07:46,699 was it you? 110 00:07:46,700 --> 00:07:48,640 I think early on, my mom. 111 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,120 Is she alive? She's alive, yeah. What is she like? 112 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:59,000 She just turned 80 in July, and she's very bright. 113 00:07:59,840 --> 00:08:02,680 She's raised eight kids, no money. 114 00:08:02,940 --> 00:08:03,940 She was an educator. 115 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:12,620 She's been on the front lines fighting for things she believed in long 116 00:08:12,620 --> 00:08:16,400 before it was fashionable. She was talking about apartheid in the 50s by 117 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:20,100 on her college campus. And what of that did you pick up from her? All of that. I 118 00:08:20,100 --> 00:08:21,100 mean, I picked up her. 119 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:27,740 Her desire to be in the world, she's a deeply curious person. She is a reader. 120 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:29,480 She can't get enough information. 121 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:35,720 She sleeps with the radio on always. I was in her house on Friday, and I was 122 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:38,460 like, where is that radio? She's like, oh, it's on here, and it's like, oh, 123 00:08:38,460 --> 00:08:39,460 in my house. 124 00:08:40,659 --> 00:08:45,860 But she believes in being, she is civic -minded to her core. She believes. 125 00:08:46,830 --> 00:08:53,250 That it is our responsibility to be engaged. And she really means on a local 126 00:08:53,250 --> 00:08:55,710 level, city, state, federal. 127 00:08:56,150 --> 00:09:01,390 So she is one woman I admire a lot. But Claire Bloom, for instance. How do you 128 00:09:01,390 --> 00:09:05,090 know her? I did a play on Broadway with her when I was 11. Which one? 129 00:09:05,330 --> 00:09:06,330 The Innocent. 130 00:09:06,610 --> 00:09:08,430 And Harold Pinter directed it. 131 00:09:09,190 --> 00:09:15,290 And she was... I'd never seen anybody. I'd never... 132 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:16,780 Well, I'd never been around. 133 00:09:17,140 --> 00:09:18,820 I mean, I was from Cincinnati, Ohio. 134 00:09:19,100 --> 00:09:21,720 I hadn't yet moved to New York City. 135 00:09:22,420 --> 00:09:29,400 And she was elegant and specific, professional, 136 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:36,280 demanding, high standard. She said to me, if you ever turn into a professional 137 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:39,920 child, I will never speak. We will not speak again. We will be estranged. 138 00:09:40,140 --> 00:09:41,880 And I knew exactly what she meant. 139 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:43,800 I would sit in her dressing room. 140 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:50,380 And I would watch her get ready before the show. And I would stand in the wings 141 00:09:50,380 --> 00:09:51,920 anytime I wasn't on stage. 142 00:09:52,420 --> 00:09:55,260 And I would just stand by the speaker and listen to her. 143 00:09:55,980 --> 00:09:58,100 And she has the most beautiful diction. 144 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:01,360 You know, she was with Philip Roth at the time. 145 00:10:01,780 --> 00:10:05,500 You know, and he, my mom, like, worshipped Philip Roth. 146 00:10:05,980 --> 00:10:07,720 So, like, I was around people. 147 00:10:08,140 --> 00:10:09,300 And I would just... 148 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:15,740 see things in them qualities in them i would see somebody be really nice to the 149 00:10:15,740 --> 00:10:21,740 dresser you know like i can't explain it but you're you're exposed to all of it 150 00:10:21,740 --> 00:10:26,560 all day long we're all exposed to it doesn't matter matter whether we go into 151 00:10:26,560 --> 00:10:31,540 the plumbing business or architects or teachers or gardeners we're exposed to 152 00:10:31,540 --> 00:10:35,080 these possibilities all day long we're exposed to people being decent to each 153 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:39,300 other as much as we are People being disappointing. 154 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:41,680 So we have a choice. 155 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:49,420 And I learned from early on, you're much better in the world if you're decent 156 00:10:49,420 --> 00:10:55,720 to somebody. Things have a... You'll last longer. Happier. The process is 157 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:57,820 far more pleasant. 158 00:10:58,300 --> 00:11:00,740 And you get more out of it, I think. 159 00:11:08,680 --> 00:11:13,240 Carrie, listen. It is different. Oh, it's never different. It's six years of 160 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:14,340 never being different. 161 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:16,380 But this is it. I am done. 162 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:22,100 Don't call me ever again. Forget you know my number. In fact, forget you know 163 00:11:22,100 --> 00:11:23,100 name. 164 00:11:27,620 --> 00:11:30,080 And you can drive down the street all you want. 165 00:11:30,540 --> 00:11:33,040 Because I don't live here anymore. 166 00:11:34,580 --> 00:11:35,580 Are you... 167 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:40,140 you know, coming out of, you know, a very famous TV show, which we won't 168 00:11:40,140 --> 00:11:41,240 on a lot. That's okay, that's right. 169 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:44,960 But what I'm saying is, I only use that as a point of reference in terms of 170 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:48,760 doing a show like Sex and the City, when that's over, you go make a lot of 171 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:49,760 films. 172 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:55,920 When you leave TV a hit, I always say the same thing 173 00:11:55,920 --> 00:12:00,780 about you and Gandolfini, people who change the fortunes of a company. 174 00:12:01,290 --> 00:12:06,030 a company that had kind of dabbled unsuccessfully in original programming 175 00:12:06,030 --> 00:12:10,630 then had two shows which were the original programming for a cable company 176 00:12:10,630 --> 00:12:13,410 long, long time and made them a fortune. 177 00:12:13,710 --> 00:12:18,010 And when you leave that, you leave that series TV thing where there's certain 178 00:12:18,010 --> 00:12:19,790 pluses and minuses. 179 00:12:20,090 --> 00:12:23,190 And did you decide you'd had enough of that? You didn't want to get back into 180 00:12:23,190 --> 00:12:26,270 series TV and you don't do it again for like 12 years, right? Yeah. 181 00:12:26,710 --> 00:12:29,230 I didn't think I would do a television series again. 182 00:12:29,770 --> 00:12:34,890 At that time, it just seemed only because of what it asks of you time 183 00:12:34,990 --> 00:12:38,790 especially when it's on film, and what I feel like it deserves. 184 00:12:38,990 --> 00:12:40,990 Like, I love working in television. 185 00:12:42,250 --> 00:12:46,530 But Michael Patrick taught me you should just turn yourself over to it. It's a 186 00:12:46,530 --> 00:12:47,590 finite period of time. 187 00:12:47,950 --> 00:12:51,610 If it's 18 hours a day and that's what it really is deserving of, you have to 188 00:12:51,610 --> 00:12:55,490 give it. You have to be a total thoroughbred. You have to cross the 189 00:12:55,490 --> 00:12:58,550 bloody. And I believe that. 190 00:12:59,530 --> 00:13:06,370 I had a child, he was just about 12, 14 months old, and I thought, oh, I could 191 00:13:06,370 --> 00:13:10,390 tell he needed me in a different way. I could tell that he was at a point... 192 00:13:10,390 --> 00:13:11,390 When you finished or when you started? 193 00:13:11,690 --> 00:13:16,150 When I was just starting to think about leaving the television series of Sex and 194 00:13:16,150 --> 00:13:17,710 the City, I was like, my son is... 195 00:13:19,380 --> 00:13:23,640 And I've been able to be absent in certain ways. And now I don't think I 196 00:13:23,740 --> 00:13:24,719 nor do I want to be. 197 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:28,320 And I thought, I can't go back to television right now because I know what 198 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:29,320 want to be to him. 199 00:13:29,340 --> 00:13:33,680 And film is like, boop. Or play is even sometimes, boop. 200 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:36,840 But TV is this, you know, revolving door. 201 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:38,240 It's like a chapter. 202 00:13:38,340 --> 00:13:42,880 Yeah. And I, so I didn't think. But then, you know, then we started 203 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:46,840 divorce. And I didn't, I wasn't developing. It wasn't an idea I had for 204 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:50,870 all. I thought of lots of other people who I assumed would play the part. 205 00:13:52,150 --> 00:13:53,970 But then eventually it came to me. You weren't going to do it? 206 00:13:54,350 --> 00:13:57,750 No. It was just an idea I loved. I loved exploring. 207 00:13:58,250 --> 00:14:01,470 I wanted to look at an American marriage, like a middle class. 208 00:14:02,470 --> 00:14:07,490 Or the ideal of being a middle class American marriage. And what does that 209 00:14:07,490 --> 00:14:08,169 like today? 210 00:14:08,170 --> 00:14:09,990 And how are people functioning? 211 00:14:10,450 --> 00:14:12,090 And what did you find? 212 00:14:12,710 --> 00:14:16,610 So what we found is that people are pretty lousy at divorcing. 213 00:14:18,150 --> 00:14:22,230 They don't do it well. Most people haven't done it more than once anyway, 214 00:14:22,230 --> 00:14:24,450 it's a new experience. So why would they be good at it? 215 00:14:25,370 --> 00:14:26,410 I don't know, Alec. 216 00:14:26,870 --> 00:14:29,190 I was bored, and it was no picnic. 217 00:14:29,970 --> 00:14:35,470 Let me just say, which was not unicorns and canteens. I know, I didn't mean to 218 00:14:35,470 --> 00:14:36,009 bring it up. 219 00:14:36,010 --> 00:14:40,570 What did you think when you left Dirty Rock? Were you like, well, that's, I'm 220 00:14:40,570 --> 00:14:45,610 not. I did that. Well, I had an unusual thing because, I mean, your show, 221 00:14:45,770 --> 00:14:51,810 although was this kind of obviously quartet of these famous women, it was 222 00:14:51,810 --> 00:14:54,650 nonetheless your show. You're the principal. I mean, everybody could see 223 00:14:55,110 --> 00:14:57,190 And on 30 Rock. 224 00:14:59,920 --> 00:15:02,900 I mean, I got as much out of it as you can get, even though it was her show. 225 00:15:02,900 --> 00:15:04,000 created it for her. 226 00:15:04,580 --> 00:15:07,040 And I was very happy to go along for the ride. 227 00:15:07,440 --> 00:15:11,340 And I enjoyed it. And I had this weird thing that I learned a profound lesson 228 00:15:11,340 --> 00:15:14,840 from, which was we went along and season one was this developmental thing. And 229 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:17,940 then season two, we get a lot of good response. And then season three and 230 00:15:17,980 --> 00:15:19,520 we win every award there is to be given. 231 00:15:20,140 --> 00:15:24,100 And season five, everybody agreed, was the most anemic writing -wise, because 232 00:15:24,100 --> 00:15:25,100 the writing was everything. 233 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:28,760 And then we all come back thinking, let's just do six and get out of here. 234 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:32,140 six comes, and it's a renaissance. Everybody's a ball. I turn and I go, 235 00:15:32,140 --> 00:15:36,020 sign for 789. Oh, my God. I'm ready to sign for 789. How could I live without 236 00:15:36,020 --> 00:15:38,400 this? And she was tired, because she had her second kid. Yeah. 237 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:41,820 And I always tell the same story, which is not meant with any judgment. 238 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:45,620 I said, when Tina Fey came in to rehearse one morning and laid down on 239 00:15:45,620 --> 00:15:47,680 couch, I said, I knew we were done. 240 00:15:47,900 --> 00:15:52,040 Yeah. Tina never laid down on the couch. It's hard to shoulder all of that. I 241 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:55,160 mean, it's a massive undertaking. But in that time that you're doing films and 242 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:56,880 other things, when we're going to get into your... 243 00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:01,440 your empire of what you've been doing, but when you're doing other things in 244 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:06,420 between, to script the TV series, do you have the same kind of control you had 245 00:16:06,420 --> 00:16:09,040 in TV? And if not, did you miss that? Is that one of the reasons you went back 246 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:10,440 to TV, was because you have more control? 247 00:16:10,660 --> 00:16:15,880 I didn't miss control when, A, I haven't earned it, or there's no reason for me 248 00:16:15,880 --> 00:16:21,240 to have it. I like being an actor for hire a lot. I like working for other, 249 00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:22,400 with, other people. 250 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:26,620 That's not what you were with Star and Michael Patrick King. 251 00:16:27,070 --> 00:16:33,330 I was a producer on that show. And over time, I grew 252 00:16:33,330 --> 00:16:37,290 to be in a position of some authority and control. 253 00:16:38,270 --> 00:16:45,030 And I hope I was honorable with that and not drunk or anything with power. 254 00:16:45,590 --> 00:16:48,010 But I love that. I love producing television. 255 00:16:48,250 --> 00:16:55,010 I love all of it. I love the development process. I love crewing up. I 256 00:16:55,010 --> 00:16:56,010 love... 257 00:16:56,650 --> 00:16:58,290 Contracts, I love all of it. 258 00:16:58,790 --> 00:17:01,710 But I don't always want that much responsibility. 259 00:17:02,070 --> 00:17:06,470 And so I'm very happy to be hired to do a play and or a movie that I'm not 260 00:17:06,470 --> 00:17:07,849 producing and have nothing to do with. 261 00:17:08,130 --> 00:17:11,270 And there are times when I'm producing where I'm not as involved in the 262 00:17:11,550 --> 00:17:15,990 So I don't have to turn as much of myself over to it. But in television, 263 00:17:16,069 --> 00:17:21,510 particularly, I like to because I just feel I know it now so well. 264 00:17:21,970 --> 00:17:27,579 And I feel I can be useful. And also... youthful to actors and crew members and 265 00:17:27,579 --> 00:17:32,320 advocate and, I don't know, you know, be good for them. 266 00:17:32,820 --> 00:17:36,060 You have made many trips to the theater. 267 00:17:36,260 --> 00:17:41,880 And your husband is famous as much as performing in the theater and his movies 268 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:42,859 and so forth. 269 00:17:42,860 --> 00:17:45,240 What's that like in your house with the two of you? 270 00:17:45,620 --> 00:17:47,560 You're not on Broadway at the same time. 271 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:51,640 Well, it's a privilege to make a choice. 272 00:17:51,900 --> 00:17:53,080 And I wish... 273 00:17:53,639 --> 00:17:58,780 frankly, all the other millions of working parents in this country could 274 00:17:58,780 --> 00:18:01,400 the liberty of more choice in their life professionally. 275 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:03,480 I think about that a lot. 276 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:07,340 Come home and be with their kids in a way that they can't. Choose the kind of 277 00:18:07,340 --> 00:18:10,880 work they want to do and feel confident in the kind of daycare that exists or 278 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:14,560 childcare that exists or the quality of the school they're sending their child 279 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:17,480 to. Maternity leave. Maternity leave, paid sick leave, like all these things 280 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:22,360 that I wish very much that we were doing better. 281 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:28,540 more we were doing better by all those women and men both now you do this show 282 00:18:28,540 --> 00:18:35,200 recently uh divorce and uh uh and i i think to myself you know is marriage in 283 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:38,480 your mind you've been in a famous marriage for a long long time you only 284 00:18:38,480 --> 00:18:42,940 once to one person but also this idea that like in my mind marriage is a 285 00:18:42,940 --> 00:18:47,000 decision that you make is marriage a decision you think for people that use 286 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:50,660 there and go we're gonna is it for you I'm like a little boy now. Whenever my 287 00:18:50,660 --> 00:18:52,800 wife is awake, I'm like, where are you going? Hello? 288 00:18:53,660 --> 00:18:55,640 I'm like John Lennon and Yoko. 289 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:57,520 What? Where? 290 00:18:58,220 --> 00:18:59,400 You're going to the bathroom? 291 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:00,959 Hurry back. 292 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:01,939 For how long? 293 00:19:01,940 --> 00:19:03,280 Yes. Yes. 294 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:05,160 That's hilarious. 295 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:12,700 I don't think it's the same kind of decision it is when you make it as when 296 00:19:12,700 --> 00:19:17,640 choose to be in it and stay. We were fairly young. We've been married 21 297 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:18,640 and been together. 298 00:19:19,189 --> 00:19:22,210 Therefore, 27 years, 26 years. 299 00:19:22,570 --> 00:19:25,570 But when you decide to get married when you're young, you decide to get married. 300 00:19:25,610 --> 00:19:27,610 So that is a decision. But then you stay married. 301 00:19:27,890 --> 00:19:32,270 And I think that is a more important decision than the initial decision to 302 00:19:32,270 --> 00:19:33,510 marry. That's what I'm talking about. Yes. 303 00:19:33,990 --> 00:19:35,570 Marriage is a decision to stay there. 304 00:19:35,790 --> 00:19:40,910 Yeah. And I think if you get, the longer you stay, if you're willing, like if 305 00:19:40,910 --> 00:19:47,510 you are choosing to stay, I now say that it's amazing 306 00:19:47,510 --> 00:19:48,510 how much. 307 00:19:48,700 --> 00:19:55,020 his life means to me how much he means how like his disappointments are mine 308 00:19:55,020 --> 00:20:01,940 more so than my own his triumphs are mine like i sure i'm sure 309 00:20:01,940 --> 00:20:05,380 there are many days he doesn't like me i don't like him so much he annoys me 310 00:20:05,380 --> 00:20:10,660 it's just little silly things but but the things that don't matter this is the 311 00:20:10,660 --> 00:20:17,040 big revelation the things that don't matter don't matter like and so 312 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:21,850 if you can Like, talk yourself out loud out of making a fuss. 313 00:20:22,050 --> 00:20:27,070 And that's not that we don't fight. I'm not saying that we're a sort of ideal, 314 00:20:27,210 --> 00:20:33,290 incredibly content couple 24 hours a day. But I do think that we're, like, I 315 00:20:33,290 --> 00:20:38,090 don't, well, I don't want to be anywhere else. I want to be old for sure with 316 00:20:38,090 --> 00:20:40,290 him. I see our future. 317 00:20:40,830 --> 00:20:44,690 And I'm excited about it. Like, I'm excited about my future with him. 318 00:20:45,310 --> 00:20:48,550 How many times did you have intercourse with his French? 319 00:20:49,690 --> 00:20:54,410 Oh, um, one, um, 320 00:20:58,430 --> 00:21:02,670 around 30, 32. 321 00:21:10,910 --> 00:21:13,430 I want to say that I did a movie with you once. 322 00:21:14,219 --> 00:21:17,960 I love that movie. We did this movie, State in Maine, that Mamet wrote and 323 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:21,640 directed. And him directing is always an unusual experience. 324 00:21:22,140 --> 00:21:25,660 Oh, my God. He's such an odd bird. But can I just tell you, I would drive home 325 00:21:25,660 --> 00:21:26,359 on the weekends. 326 00:21:26,360 --> 00:21:29,080 You were going home, too. We were all driving home because we were shooting in 327 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:32,320 Massachusetts, so we could drive home on the weekends. Manchester by the Sea. 328 00:21:32,620 --> 00:21:38,580 Yeah. And Philip and I would drive home on the weekends and drive back. And 329 00:21:38,580 --> 00:21:39,580 every weekend. 330 00:21:40,430 --> 00:21:45,210 I was convinced I was going to be fired. Every weekend I waited to hear from 331 00:21:45,210 --> 00:21:49,910 somebody in David Mamet's office that I was going to be fired. I was so nervous 332 00:21:49,910 --> 00:21:50,910 that whole movie. 333 00:21:51,390 --> 00:21:57,150 I think because I admired you had done by then. You were like one of his 334 00:21:57,150 --> 00:22:00,190 repertory leading men. You had worked with him. 335 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:06,100 I had only been his audience, and I knew how exact he was about words and 336 00:22:06,100 --> 00:22:09,840 language. And I didn't know if I could be like you guys. Like, I didn't know 337 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:13,540 to be Mamet. I didn't know what could my version of Mamet be, and would it be 338 00:22:13,540 --> 00:22:15,620 acceptable to Mamet? 339 00:22:15,820 --> 00:22:17,900 It's not like we were doing a Mamet play and he wasn't there. 340 00:22:18,620 --> 00:22:19,599 He was there. 341 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:23,400 Yeah, yeah. And he was specific. And he was every bit as demanding as I wanted 342 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:26,480 him to be because I wanted to live up to this opportunity. 343 00:22:27,140 --> 00:22:33,260 But literally every freaking Sunday, I would say to Matthew, I'd be like, this 344 00:22:33,260 --> 00:22:36,520 could be it. Like, I might not. That's what came up when we went to the Red 345 00:22:36,580 --> 00:22:38,120 Oh, my God. Do you remember how crazy? 346 00:22:38,540 --> 00:22:39,940 People were screaming at Matthew. 347 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:41,240 People were screaming. 348 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:42,880 Screaming. And he's like, eh. 349 00:22:43,260 --> 00:22:46,400 And do you remember he, we had to have security. 350 00:22:47,409 --> 00:22:52,870 Take do you not remember that yeah, but he told me wherever he goes there is 351 00:22:52,870 --> 00:22:59,830 Now the but I love that movie well, I love that movie what I 352 00:22:59,830 --> 00:23:03,330 realized was I'm like, you know I wouldn't say terrified but concerned 353 00:23:04,140 --> 00:23:08,040 Was I getting what he wanted? Could I give him what he wanted? Did I want to 354 00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:09,100 give him what he wanted? 355 00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:13,420 And someone has said to me, why would you take the instincts that got you 356 00:23:13,420 --> 00:23:16,600 you are today and just throw them out the window to suit somebody? Right. You 357 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:17,600 what you do. 358 00:23:17,900 --> 00:23:22,120 And, you know, De Niro sat here and said, I'm never going to tell somebody, 359 00:23:22,120 --> 00:23:26,240 this, don't do this. When I hire you, there's a thing I hire you to do. And 360 00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:29,220 you come, just do that. And if it doesn't work out in the part, if I was 361 00:23:29,220 --> 00:23:33,360 mistaken, it's not your fault. I'll never make you feel bad. That was 362 00:23:34,120 --> 00:23:39,620 I'll never make you feel badly about what I hired you to do. I knew what I 363 00:23:39,620 --> 00:23:42,780 getting into it. If it doesn't work, it's my fault. And I'll never forget 364 00:23:42,780 --> 00:23:46,560 you did the podcast, you said that the tendency was to try to act the whole 365 00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:47,560 scene yourself. 366 00:23:47,890 --> 00:23:52,370 You said that's the thing you learned not to do. And the other person wasn't 367 00:23:52,370 --> 00:23:53,990 hitting the ball back the way you were used to. 368 00:23:54,230 --> 00:23:58,070 Because you had many co -stars, many scene mates over the years of the show. 369 00:23:58,070 --> 00:24:02,650 you can't make them be what you, by you, you turn into a bad actor. Right. 370 00:24:03,090 --> 00:24:05,290 You become a bad actor and you focus on them. 371 00:24:05,510 --> 00:24:08,770 Yeah. I love, I always remember you said that. It's hard to remember to do that 372 00:24:08,770 --> 00:24:12,610 when you're in it. And, you know, who am I to say that someone's not, you know. 373 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:14,679 To my standards. 374 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:18,160 But, you know, when you're moving through that many people, the numbers... 375 00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:19,460 machine is more oiled than theirs. 376 00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:23,400 Yeah, and it's also so hard. You know, you've seen people... It's so hard to 377 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:26,600 come on a show for one day. It's so terrifying, and everybody's so 378 00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:27,600 and knows the thing. 379 00:24:28,420 --> 00:24:33,240 I mean, if there was one job that I felt like was most important, sometimes it 380 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:36,520 was that. It was to try to make every visitor feel comfortable. Welcome. 381 00:24:37,120 --> 00:24:38,880 Like, don't worry... 382 00:24:39,610 --> 00:24:42,870 We all want you here. Take your time. Like, it's just terrifying. But we just 383 00:24:42,870 --> 00:24:46,570 say, we just say, Maine and Mamet would say to me, oh, you know, that voice, oh, 384 00:24:47,070 --> 00:24:52,070 oh, you should go in and do it again. And, you know, just don't put anything 385 00:24:52,070 --> 00:24:54,410 it. I mean, I really feel like you're putting a lot on it. You know, and I 386 00:24:54,590 --> 00:24:58,130 like, I didn't know what to do. So they're going, really? You do? 387 00:24:58,450 --> 00:24:59,490 Oh, I'm sorry. 388 00:24:59,970 --> 00:25:02,130 I said, do you want me to go out and do it again? He goes, yeah, just take 389 00:25:02,130 --> 00:25:04,550 everything off it. I go out and do exactly what I did the previous day. 390 00:25:04,790 --> 00:25:07,650 And he goes, oh, let's do another one. You still think you're, I go. 391 00:25:08,010 --> 00:25:11,210 I thought I took a lot off of it then. I thought I really laid back and took a 392 00:25:11,210 --> 00:25:14,830 lot of it off. It's still too much. He's like, yeah, well, whatever. Let's do it 393 00:25:14,830 --> 00:25:17,870 again. I go out and do it exactly the same way again. He'd be like, okay, 394 00:25:17,870 --> 00:25:19,750 move on. He's like, how much time do we have? 395 00:25:20,070 --> 00:25:21,049 It's an indie. 396 00:25:21,050 --> 00:25:23,310 We don't have $50 million to make this movie. 397 00:25:23,850 --> 00:25:30,410 Speaking of which, there's a moment in that movie which to me defines you in 398 00:25:30,410 --> 00:25:32,070 my mind. Okay. 399 00:25:32,290 --> 00:25:35,030 And that is that when you act with people, 400 00:25:35,919 --> 00:25:41,800 who would work for you in your heart and your soul. My character, Bob, is in the 401 00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:42,800 car accident. Name Bob. 402 00:25:43,020 --> 00:25:44,020 Bob Barringer. 403 00:25:44,700 --> 00:25:48,980 I always remember this because the scene that was funny that you're in is the 404 00:25:48,980 --> 00:25:50,060 guy comes who's the real cop. 405 00:25:50,360 --> 00:25:53,140 They hired the local covers like Mr. Barringer, Mr. 406 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:56,620 Barringer. They think I've had this kind of like, you know, Chappaquiddick 407 00:25:56,620 --> 00:26:01,140 moment when he was in the car and Julia Stiles. And you come in the door and you 408 00:26:01,140 --> 00:26:04,360 and I are acting in the, we're the actors who are acting in the movie. And 409 00:26:04,360 --> 00:26:07,220 come to the door breathlessly. And I'll never forget, I thought, oh my God, how 410 00:26:07,220 --> 00:26:09,960 generous of you that you love Bob. 411 00:26:10,460 --> 00:26:12,600 You came to the door and you went, Bob? 412 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:15,020 Are you all right? 413 00:26:15,580 --> 00:26:20,280 And I thought to myself, it said everything. You and I were in love. We'd 414 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,580 sex back when we did our last movie. 415 00:26:22,860 --> 00:26:27,140 We did Desire Under the Elms at the Pasadena Playhouse, whatever. 416 00:26:27,460 --> 00:26:29,300 And it was all there. 417 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:35,300 And I thought, who is more beautiful and who is more winning on film than you? 418 00:26:35,360 --> 00:26:39,220 When you came in that doorway, it set the whole movie for me. You came in and 419 00:26:39,220 --> 00:26:43,140 you were like, Pa, are you all right? And I was kind of like. 420 00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,400 And I literally thought in my mind this kind of Reagan -esque kind of like 421 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:49,420 blithe way. I looked at you and I was kind of like, I'm a lot better now. 422 00:26:49,860 --> 00:26:50,920 But you're here. 423 00:26:56,120 --> 00:27:00,900 I always cry at the last scene of that movie when she sees him in front of the 424 00:27:00,900 --> 00:27:05,440 hotel with his new wife. The simple girl. And she reaches up and smooths his 425 00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:09,460 hair away. And she says to him, your girl is lovely Hubble. 426 00:27:10,180 --> 00:27:11,180 You're a... 427 00:27:11,679 --> 00:27:15,800 Famous New Yorker and the Mount Rushmore of famous New Yorkers. You're on that 428 00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:19,880 mountainside. We'll save that. You and Howard and De Niro and whoever the 429 00:27:20,220 --> 00:27:24,560 Maybe me. I might be in a distant background there. Ruth Gordon. Ruth 430 00:27:24,740 --> 00:27:25,740 yeah. 431 00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,340 Jane Jacobs. Tony Randall. Yes. 432 00:27:28,780 --> 00:27:31,380 To this day, I remember Tony Randall's phone number. 433 00:27:31,850 --> 00:27:36,070 Because his voice was so sing -songy. He came to a dressing room of a Broadway 434 00:27:36,070 --> 00:27:37,610 show I was in. At the Roundabout? 435 00:27:37,950 --> 00:27:41,170 When I was on Broadway doing Streetcar. And he came to my dressing room and he 436 00:27:41,170 --> 00:27:43,570 goes, I'm doing a production for the National Actors Theater. 437 00:27:44,030 --> 00:27:45,870 What would you do with Petrified Forest? 438 00:27:46,150 --> 00:27:47,330 Would you like to play Duke Man -T? 439 00:27:48,610 --> 00:27:51,750 He goes, please call me my number is 724 -24. 440 00:27:52,770 --> 00:27:54,170 Oh, that's a good Upper West Side number. 441 00:27:54,390 --> 00:27:55,390 724 -24. 442 00:27:56,850 --> 00:27:59,030 That's the Upper West Side Prefix. Yeah, 724. 443 00:27:59,330 --> 00:28:01,950 724 has to be Upper West Side. And when I moved, well, now you take your prefix 444 00:28:01,950 --> 00:28:04,410 with you. Yeah, I know. It doesn't say anything. I moved downtown, and I'm 445 00:28:04,470 --> 00:28:06,230 where's my 254 prefix? I live downtown. 446 00:28:06,630 --> 00:28:09,530 Now, I've known you in a kind of quasiple. 447 00:28:09,830 --> 00:28:12,790 You may not remember this. I found pictures in my basement. 448 00:28:13,470 --> 00:28:17,070 I've been going through boxes of old stuff. Are they from the toxic waste 449 00:28:17,070 --> 00:28:21,150 caravan from L .A.? No, they're from the 1988 Democratic Convention in Atlanta. 450 00:28:21,570 --> 00:28:25,310 No, I know. The famous Rob Lowe sex tape trip that you and I were on. 451 00:28:25,510 --> 00:28:29,530 Yes. Patrick Lippert. Patrick Lippert and I organized that whole trip. 452 00:28:31,670 --> 00:28:33,810 He and I sat up for weeks. 453 00:28:34,250 --> 00:28:37,190 And in the days leading up to everybody traveling to Atlanta, we put together 454 00:28:37,190 --> 00:28:38,990 all of your folders. 455 00:28:39,210 --> 00:28:41,530 We put together all the information you needed. 456 00:28:41,730 --> 00:28:45,410 I stood and watched Rob get in that elevator. And I was like, who is Rob? 457 00:28:46,670 --> 00:28:52,070 30 years later, let me say, thank you. Oh, my goodness. We were there. It was 458 00:28:52,070 --> 00:28:55,410 like a movie. So Patrick Lippert politicized a bunch of people on the 459 00:28:55,410 --> 00:28:58,020 Coast. Jane Fonda and Tom Hayden were together. 460 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:02,740 Going to the house and out to drive. All the time to those meetings. And I came 461 00:29:02,740 --> 00:29:06,620 up from a political family. My family were very involved in politics long 462 00:29:06,620 --> 00:29:07,459 I was born. 463 00:29:07,460 --> 00:29:08,840 Local Democratic politics. 464 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:11,200 In Minneapolis. 465 00:29:11,340 --> 00:29:12,340 Always in Cincinnati. 466 00:29:12,540 --> 00:29:16,560 Previously in Ohio or in Iowa. My father was a writer. Grader's Ice Cream. 467 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:18,080 Grader's Ice Cream. 468 00:29:18,420 --> 00:29:22,660 My father was a writer at Iowa Writers Workshop also. 469 00:29:22,980 --> 00:29:24,200 So everywhere they went. 470 00:29:24,570 --> 00:29:28,890 they were involved in politics and I worked for the McGovern campaign. 471 00:29:29,210 --> 00:29:34,150 I worked for, you know, so I came up in politics, but I was so happy when 472 00:29:34,150 --> 00:29:38,970 Patrick reached out and we were all put together in Los Angeles. That was a 473 00:29:38,970 --> 00:29:44,450 pretty amazing time. And I think was enormously, well, obviously it was 474 00:29:44,450 --> 00:29:47,850 informative, but I think it changed the course of a lot of people's lives, 475 00:29:47,930 --> 00:29:49,530 whether they stayed working. 476 00:29:50,490 --> 00:29:56,070 um for a party or they just stayed engaged they stayed engaged and active 477 00:29:56,070 --> 00:30:00,350 that was amazing i mean you weren't on the toxic waste caravan as i call it i 478 00:30:00,350 --> 00:30:03,950 don't recall i might remember that we went on the caravan up and down the 479 00:30:03,950 --> 00:30:08,050 of california because people were dumping all right so you were in atlanta 480 00:30:08,050 --> 00:30:11,650 was amazing because clinton spoke do you remember that we go we go to pat duff 481 00:30:11,650 --> 00:30:16,550 produced the yeah we go there as guests If I recall correctly, we were guests of 482 00:30:16,550 --> 00:30:17,850 the California delegation. 483 00:30:18,390 --> 00:30:20,230 Hayden arranged for us to go. 484 00:30:20,430 --> 00:30:21,750 And we go there. 485 00:30:22,550 --> 00:30:29,130 But what I'm suggesting is that you are politically engaged to whatever degree. 486 00:30:29,230 --> 00:30:30,830 But you're not noisy about that. 487 00:30:31,310 --> 00:30:33,190 You feel smart. 488 00:30:33,510 --> 00:30:37,070 You felt you needed to do that. Don't contaminate your work with your 489 00:30:37,070 --> 00:30:38,070 opinion all the time. 490 00:30:38,170 --> 00:30:41,450 I don't feel comfortable screaming and yelling about it. 491 00:30:43,020 --> 00:30:48,260 I feel it just becomes an unbearably loud 492 00:30:48,260 --> 00:30:53,540 battle where absolutely nobody is listening to anybody. 493 00:30:53,940 --> 00:30:57,680 And you don't win by writing in caps. 494 00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:02,220 You don't win by trying to get in an argument on Instagram. 495 00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:06,320 Not that, frankly, that I'm interested in winning, actually. That's not the 496 00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:09,640 point. But you're not going to find satisfaction in feeling heard. 497 00:31:10,540 --> 00:31:15,040 So I like to work differently. And I think because I've always worked in 498 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,840 politics, I've always or rather I should say I've always been politically 499 00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:23,740 active. I don't want to distract from what I think needs to be done or ways in 500 00:31:23,740 --> 00:31:27,760 which I can be helpful. And oftentimes it's nothing that anybody was just, you 501 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,700 know, the phone bank or the thing or licking envelopes or whatever it is. 502 00:31:31,660 --> 00:31:36,140 But I am so deeply distressed by. 503 00:31:36,750 --> 00:31:39,490 the state of affairs that I don't want to contribute. 504 00:31:39,710 --> 00:31:43,170 And I don't think I would be helpful. I don't think it comes naturally to me to 505 00:31:43,170 --> 00:31:45,990 be really aggressive. 506 00:31:46,530 --> 00:31:49,730 I think I can be effective in other ways. It's funny that you say that 507 00:31:49,730 --> 00:31:51,430 because... Let me be clear about something, though. 508 00:31:51,810 --> 00:31:56,270 I am not without extremely strong opinions. And those that are close to me 509 00:31:56,270 --> 00:31:58,390 know me know that I... You? 510 00:31:58,730 --> 00:32:04,790 I am almost incapable of not spouting off. Sure. 511 00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:06,800 Where and when is the question. 512 00:32:07,020 --> 00:32:08,020 Right, exactly. 513 00:32:17,340 --> 00:32:21,780 When did you find time to do this, this little venture of yours? 514 00:32:22,220 --> 00:32:28,160 Describe what's going on with you in the publishing world. That's a book called 515 00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:31,420 A Place for Us, written by an extraordinarily... 516 00:32:33,610 --> 00:32:40,250 uh what's the word um preternaturally gifted uh young woman named fatima 517 00:32:40,250 --> 00:32:45,310 mirza named rave reviews yes so i met a woman named molly stern who's a big 518 00:32:45,310 --> 00:32:49,470 fancy pants publisher at crown and all sorts of other imprints inside crown and 519 00:32:49,470 --> 00:32:54,810 we started talking about books and i'm a reader and like a greedy 520 00:32:55,710 --> 00:32:58,770 I have my whole life been a reader. My whole family is. My mother's a reader. 521 00:32:58,770 --> 00:32:59,770 siblings are readers. 522 00:32:59,930 --> 00:33:00,950 We didn't have a television. 523 00:33:01,190 --> 00:33:04,790 We had to read books. No one was allowed to leave the house without a book 524 00:33:04,790 --> 00:33:05,790 growing up. 525 00:33:06,510 --> 00:33:08,590 And so we started talking about books. 526 00:33:09,050 --> 00:33:11,970 And it turned out that Molly was about to publish a book that I had been trying 527 00:33:11,970 --> 00:33:13,790 to get my hands on for a long time. 528 00:33:15,340 --> 00:33:20,280 faking that I worked for media. I was trying to call other international 529 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:23,240 territories, trying to get this book by Herman Koch called Dinner. 530 00:33:23,980 --> 00:33:26,760 Well, I felt like it was borderline. 531 00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:30,140 But anyway, like that's my book. So she sent me some books. 532 00:33:30,580 --> 00:33:31,680 A book club started. 533 00:33:32,060 --> 00:33:35,460 We started reading books, yet to be published books, so we could talk about 534 00:33:35,460 --> 00:33:39,380 emerging writers and support our independent booksellers and libraries. 535 00:33:39,380 --> 00:33:40,380 book club still in formation? 536 00:33:40,730 --> 00:33:45,090 It's not really, but from that. I wanted to join. Oh, you could absolutely join. 537 00:33:45,230 --> 00:33:46,290 Oh, there's no fee. 538 00:33:46,650 --> 00:33:51,910 Oh, no. I'll pay a substantial fee. When we rally again. To be in townhouse in 539 00:33:51,910 --> 00:33:53,350 downtown with you reading book? 540 00:33:53,550 --> 00:33:54,550 Book clubs are amazing. 541 00:33:54,610 --> 00:34:00,670 I love book clubs. It's like time suspends and everything else goes away 542 00:34:00,670 --> 00:34:05,570 you're on a vacation for just four hours. The only time I have to read is 543 00:34:05,570 --> 00:34:06,750 12. That's why I'm so tired. 544 00:34:06,970 --> 00:34:07,970 So anyway. 545 00:34:09,069 --> 00:34:12,610 People from Crown came and said, listen, you love books and you have strong 546 00:34:12,610 --> 00:34:15,350 feelings about them. And would you ever consider an imprint? And I, of course, 547 00:34:15,370 --> 00:34:17,610 said no. And I don't know anything about it. And I've got no business. 548 00:34:17,969 --> 00:34:21,690 They said, no, you should and you will. And we'll surround you with people that, 549 00:34:21,690 --> 00:34:23,370 you know, I'm not an editor. I don't. 550 00:34:23,770 --> 00:34:27,409 So they convinced me. But I specifically asked if I could work within the 551 00:34:27,409 --> 00:34:31,230 Hogarth imprint, which is an old imprint that I love. And I love its history. It 552 00:34:31,230 --> 00:34:33,210 was started by Virginia Woolf and Leonard Woolf. 553 00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:37,679 And I loved what they were doing. It had sort of been reborn recently in this 554 00:34:37,679 --> 00:34:39,739 country and in the U .K. 555 00:34:40,219 --> 00:34:41,719 And so I started this imprint. 556 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:47,500 And after many months of reading manuscripts and losing out on some and 557 00:34:47,500 --> 00:34:51,880 on others, this manuscript came to us in the spring of 2017. 558 00:34:52,260 --> 00:34:57,600 And like I said, it was by this young woman who was just graduating the Iowa 559 00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:59,000 Writers Workshop. 560 00:34:59,780 --> 00:35:01,840 Her name was Fatima Fareem Mirza. 561 00:35:03,370 --> 00:35:09,510 And I was, I don't know, 7 % through the book, according to my e -reader. 562 00:35:09,870 --> 00:35:12,850 And I was overcome. 563 00:35:13,250 --> 00:35:20,050 And I just knew that this was not only an important new American voice, but 564 00:35:20,050 --> 00:35:25,230 that it was a really powerful story. So your involvement with this doesn't 565 00:35:25,230 --> 00:35:29,450 really require too much of a shift in your schedule and time commitments. I 566 00:35:29,450 --> 00:35:32,550 read. Yeah, you're an avid reader anyway. I just read. This was a 567 00:35:33,260 --> 00:35:35,420 And so this was our first, this was our inaugural title. 568 00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:43,200 And she published in number 12. She shared the 12th spot on 569 00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:46,980 the New York Times bestseller list her first week, which is very unusual for 570 00:35:46,980 --> 00:35:49,940 literary fiction. This is literary fiction, which is this kind of unique 571 00:35:49,940 --> 00:35:53,040 genre of publishing. And I'm so proud of her. 572 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:56,360 And this book has, it's in its seventh or eighth printing. 573 00:35:56,940 --> 00:36:00,620 And it's really resonated with so many. 574 00:36:01,190 --> 00:36:03,310 It is a book for our time. 575 00:36:03,890 --> 00:36:05,430 How so? Why do you think? 576 00:36:06,930 --> 00:36:13,650 Well, it's about a family of immigrants. It's about parents who came 577 00:36:13,650 --> 00:36:17,150 here from India, whose children were born in America. 578 00:36:19,290 --> 00:36:24,730 It's about an American family in all its plurality. It's about parenting, and 579 00:36:24,730 --> 00:36:25,730 it's about... 580 00:36:28,100 --> 00:36:32,840 honoring people who sacrifice for you and being a person of faith, but having 581 00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:36,200 different feelings about how you are observant and finding your own way in 582 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:37,200 world as a young person. 583 00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:43,500 It's about being a first -generation Muslim American immigrant or child of 584 00:36:43,500 --> 00:36:48,860 immigrant parents and what that means and the lens through which they 585 00:36:48,860 --> 00:36:52,980 feel seen and what it really feels like to be in that community. 586 00:36:53,930 --> 00:36:57,050 It's touching. It's about all of our lives. Is it a movie? It's about 587 00:36:57,050 --> 00:36:58,050 we make. 588 00:36:58,250 --> 00:36:59,250 Is it a movie? 589 00:36:59,770 --> 00:37:02,730 Maybe, although that I didn't even occur to me. Yeah, no. 590 00:37:03,050 --> 00:37:06,490 It's just an exquisite, beautiful, unforgettable read. It would be funny if 591 00:37:06,490 --> 00:37:12,770 reveal your passion and your loyalty even to the literary world is greater 592 00:37:12,770 --> 00:37:15,690 movies or TV. And people in your life are going, this is a movie. And you're 593 00:37:15,690 --> 00:37:16,690 like, no, no. 594 00:37:17,110 --> 00:37:20,490 I don't want that. Yeah, it has to be looked at in its purest form because I 595 00:37:20,490 --> 00:37:22,910 don't want anyone to think like this is all some mercenary effort. 596 00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:33,120 And you have a new album. 597 00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:34,440 I do? 598 00:37:34,620 --> 00:37:35,660 Yeah, it's my ninth. 599 00:37:36,100 --> 00:37:38,500 I mean, if you don't count the duet album. 600 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:42,260 Believe me, I don't count that album. Oh, a lot of people like that record. 601 00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:44,280 Plus their hearts. 602 00:37:46,240 --> 00:37:49,000 And the new one's called... Third and A. 603 00:37:50,180 --> 00:37:53,980 It's where I first lived in New York. I watched your movie. Here and Now. Here 604 00:37:53,980 --> 00:37:54,718 and Now. 605 00:37:54,720 --> 00:37:59,000 And, I mean, obviously you have an image. 606 00:37:59,740 --> 00:38:05,840 of someone who is beautiful and funny and talented and smart, always smart in 607 00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:06,840 everything you do. 608 00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:10,000 And then was it something where you wanted to do a movie and go, I don't 609 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:14,860 do anything that I've done. There's a kind of a warmth, there's a charm that's 610 00:38:14,860 --> 00:38:18,420 embedded in nearly all of what you do. Did you just decide you want to do a 611 00:38:18,420 --> 00:38:20,880 movie where like, let's go dark? 612 00:38:22,300 --> 00:38:26,300 Well, I, we started thinking about the idea. 613 00:38:26,970 --> 00:38:31,710 of telling this story a while ago, and there was a filmmaker I really admired 614 00:38:31,710 --> 00:38:34,270 named Fabien Constant, and he's a French filmmaker. 615 00:38:34,490 --> 00:38:38,950 He's a documentarian. He's known for making documentaries, and I really, I 616 00:38:38,950 --> 00:38:44,930 his work for many, many years, and we were just trying to figure out what we 617 00:38:44,930 --> 00:38:48,550 could do with him and what was interesting to him, and the script came 618 00:38:48,550 --> 00:38:53,950 I didn't have one thing to say. 619 00:38:54,410 --> 00:38:58,650 Like, no. I mean, I had no... I had a punctuation. 620 00:38:58,950 --> 00:39:05,310 And I loved the script. And I had never played anybody like it. And I had lost 621 00:39:05,310 --> 00:39:10,270 one of my closest friends to glioblastoma very recently. 622 00:39:11,190 --> 00:39:13,310 And I had watched my friend. 623 00:39:14,210 --> 00:39:19,490 I had seen her through her diagnosis. And I had watched the remainder of her 624 00:39:19,490 --> 00:39:21,770 life, which was 14 months. 625 00:39:22,230 --> 00:39:28,490 Exactly what the doctors tell my character, Vivian. And I just, I don't 626 00:39:28,490 --> 00:39:32,690 really wanted to do it. And all the parts and pieces came together with such 627 00:39:32,690 --> 00:39:36,790 ease, I couldn't kind of believe it. Everybody said yes. Every actor said yes 628 00:39:36,790 --> 00:39:40,470 immediately. No one sat around. We didn't have to call people back twice. 629 00:39:41,130 --> 00:39:43,890 Every DP, every production designer. 630 00:39:44,290 --> 00:39:45,330 Came together. It was. 631 00:39:45,590 --> 00:39:49,530 And we made the movie for less than $2 million in 16 days. 632 00:39:49,830 --> 00:39:50,830 And it was. 633 00:39:51,740 --> 00:39:55,580 One of the great, great professional experiences I've had in forever. 634 00:39:56,080 --> 00:40:00,600 Wow. Rufus Wayne Wright wrote the music. Yeah, all in New York. No dressing 635 00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:01,760 rooms, no trailers, nothing. 636 00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:03,480 Staying on the set. 637 00:40:03,620 --> 00:40:08,880 Yeah, or finding like an empty car to take my wig off or get undressed or a 638 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:09,718 stranger's apartment. 639 00:40:09,720 --> 00:40:11,080 They're like, come on in. You can change here. 640 00:40:12,220 --> 00:40:14,380 Bing bong. They were like, oh, my God. 641 00:40:14,660 --> 00:40:18,080 You're like, no, I know. Yes, thank you so much. We sent flowers, candles. 642 00:40:18,340 --> 00:40:20,460 Can I use your bathroom? Many thank you to everybody. 643 00:40:21,150 --> 00:40:22,150 Provided shelter. 644 00:40:22,830 --> 00:40:26,670 But I think it's a beautiful movie. I love it. Thank you. Oh, thank you. 645 00:40:26,890 --> 00:40:30,010 Thank you so much. Thank you so much. And here we go. It's a nice 646 00:40:30,250 --> 00:40:36,670 David. Sarah Jessica Parker's new film, Here and Now, is currently in theaters 647 00:40:36,670 --> 00:40:41,550 and streaming. We leave you again tonight with a story from earlier in the 648 00:40:41,550 --> 00:40:45,050 as animated by acclaimed illustrator Stephen Brodner. 649 00:40:45,310 --> 00:40:47,330 Thanks for joining us. We'll see you next time. 650 00:40:50,809 --> 00:40:53,390 My dad, I always tell people, my dad had one piece of insight. 651 00:40:53,670 --> 00:40:57,110 I fell in love with a girl in college, and my dad was a schoolteacher, and he 652 00:40:57,110 --> 00:41:00,770 was constantly reading the paper and hidden, and the news was on, and the 653 00:41:00,770 --> 00:41:04,490 Vietnam War when I was a kid. And I come home from college, I'm like 19 years 654 00:41:04,490 --> 00:41:08,110 old, I fall in love with this girl in college, and I start to mine him for 655 00:41:08,110 --> 00:41:11,150 information about the courtship and my mother and how that all comes about. 656 00:41:11,530 --> 00:41:14,730 And he's very mute about that. And he's behind the paper. And whatever I say 657 00:41:14,730 --> 00:41:18,190 leads up to the moment. The vault is going to open up. My father's going to 658 00:41:18,190 --> 00:41:23,350 me love advice, romantic advice, sexual advice, some kind of advice for the 659 00:41:23,350 --> 00:41:26,250 first time ever in my life. And he lowers the paper. He looks at me and 660 00:41:26,430 --> 00:41:29,150 let me put it to you this way. 661 00:41:29,690 --> 00:41:34,210 If you meet two women and you love them both very much, and one of them has a 662 00:41:34,210 --> 00:41:36,530 lot of money, you'll know what to do. 663 00:41:38,010 --> 00:41:40,740 And he puts the paper back over him and says. I thought that was it. It was the 664 00:41:40,740 --> 00:41:41,740 only romantic advice. 665 00:41:42,180 --> 00:41:43,320 Marry a woman with a lot of dough. 60431

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