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Hello, I'm Alec Baldwin. Tonight, a
conversation with one of my favorite
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in our business.
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She's an actress, a producer, a book
publisher, the one, the only Sarah
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Parker. The former Sex and the City
star.
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and two -time Emmy winner, continues to
produce projects for movies and
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television, including her latest feature
film, Here and Now, which is in
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theaters and streaming.
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She is also a successful designer and
entrepreneur after launching her own
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of women's shoes called SJP.
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We're glad you've joined us. A
conversation with Sarah Jessica Parker
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right now.
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I have a silly image of you as a result
of a lot of the work you've done.
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I'll tee this up this way, which is my
ex -wife was one of these people who we
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would go to the Excelsior at the Lido in
Venice, and she was making a film. And
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we'd walk in, and we had just arrived in
Italy, and on every plain surface in
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the room, every coffee table, side
table, the bureau, the TV cabinet,
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there was a flat surface was a...
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with a gift for her.
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Dear Kim, please accept from Bottega
Veneta this little gift.
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Welcome to Italy.
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I see you, like, you're in the crayon,
you're somewhere around, and everywhere
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you go, people are like, blah, blah,
blah, blah, blah, blah, and just, you
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fashion, jewelry, shoes, all that other
stuff.
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Did that, is that something your
business sense?
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Is it something that you had to access
someone to help you make that that way?
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Did you have business sense yourself?
No, I mean, to be on the receiving end
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that? To be marketing and selling.
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the image of this glamorous... No, I've
never... You're on the TV show.
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Right. And fashion becomes a component
of that character.
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Correct, correct. Are you choosing the
clothes with... With Pat. With Pat? Yes,
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for sure. Or is Pat saying to you, I
think this will go?
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Long, five -hour fittings, many... Not
her, but you. As much of a collaboration
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as anything.
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I mean, an eye that is...
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completely unique is patricia field like
there is nobody on the face of the
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earth that sees the world the way she
sees it forever from the time she's been
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young adult and left her parents home um
but i brought her on um she and i had
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done a movie together uh david frankel
movie called miami rhapsody and i loved
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her and and barry jocelyn the producer
of our first year on the show said pat
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were like yes of course and she came but
We worked hand in glove.
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I mean, that was, I learned everything
from her, and she opened up those
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conversations. They were fittings, and
she had lots of ideas, but I never once
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said no to her.
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Even as outrageous and ridiculous and
unthinkable and as much of a possible
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disaster, I didn't care. I would do
anything for her. I would try anything
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But, yeah, it was definitely something
we worked on closely together.
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Oh, my God!
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Shh, Carrie.
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Do you know what the...
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We're not even supposed to be in here.
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Manolo Blahnik, Mary Janes. I thought
these were an urban shoeman. From that,
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you know, it's blurry.
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Who am I? Who is Carrie Bradshaw?
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And I think it was the beginning of all
of that gift giving and people telling
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me or us who we were. And I didn't need
to stoke those flames, nor was
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I interested. I love playing that
character.
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did everything possible to see it. But
you start to turn it into a business.
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Well. You start doing hair commercials
and this and this and this. Right. You
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take the glam thing into the business
world. No, true. And actually, I will
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and he will probably deny this, but I
kept saying no to the hair commercials.
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And because Kenny Lonergan kept saying
to me, like, you can't do that.
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You can never do that. And I was like,
really?
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You're possibly right, but then I spoke
to someone else and they were like, are
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you out of your freaking mind?
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You know, they're not asking that much
of you and it's an honor. These were
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early days of all that.
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And yeah, I did a fragrance, but I
wanted to do a fragrance since I was a
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woman. The first time I ever worked
outside on my own, I worked with someone
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who... wore fragrance and i grew up my
mom wore fragrance my mom has a whole
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thing about fragrance and saving up
money to go to dayton's in minneapolis
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buy her fragrance and um so it all sort
of came together but these were early
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days of of that this wasn't building a
brand or an empire that that didn't
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that language that vernacular all of
that plotting and strategizing
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That was not... Did you partner with
anybody in the overall, or was it just
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ad hoc? I worked with Cody on the
fragrance for years, and now I have a
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We work with somebody else, but it's not
part of a large company anymore.
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The shoe business I own with my partner,
George Malcomith III.
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I'm an employee of the Crown in
publishing.
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But these are all things that I...
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i'm doing because i i love the
production company is you know 12 14
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now and these are things i love doing
it's i am 100 involved in it for better
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worse few women had a career in which we
merge from from a program you do prime
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to do that kind of thing as a fashion
trend you know what i think though i
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that um you know and as we've all been
talking a lot about
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you know, changing the dynamics on a set
or in businesses across all industries,
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you know, 50 -50 by 2020.
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I will say that early on, men really
gave me the opportunity
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to be a producer, to be a business
person.
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It was because of Darren Star that I
work in business because he said to me
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I met him, when he asked me to do the
show, he said, you should produce a
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And I was like, I don't know how to
produce television. He's like, you'll
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Learn how to produce. So the first year,
be a consultant, and then you'll be a
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producer. Sit around smart people,
listen, pay attention, zip it, and
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And I did, and I learned that I loved
it. And then I met Catherine Walsh at
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Cody, who was one of the mucky mucks at
Cody.
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Brilliant. And she said, pay attention,
learn business, learn profits, and learn
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all of it.
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Learn what a tech package is. Learn
production overseas. Learn all of it.
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I had a lot of people, and men included,
in my early stages of learning business
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that were, I think, extremely generous
and open to hold, allowed another
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There's a maturity and a warmth and an
intelligence to you.
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Where do you think you get that from?
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Well, that's very kind of you. I hope I
would like to be that person you
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describe.
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I think if you're lucky, you get to be
around people that you mimic.
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You see in others qualities.
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You admire that about them. You wish you
possessed growing up, honestly. And who
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was it you?
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I think early on, my mom.
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Is she alive? She's alive, yeah. What is
she like?
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She just turned 80 in July, and she's
very bright.
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She's raised eight kids, no money.
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She was an educator.
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She's been on the front lines fighting
for things she believed in long
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before it was fashionable. She was
talking about apartheid in the 50s by
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on her college campus. And what of that
did you pick up from her? All of that. I
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mean, I picked up her.
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Her desire to be in the world, she's a
deeply curious person. She is a reader.
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She can't get enough information.
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She sleeps with the radio on always. I
was in her house on Friday, and I was
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like, where is that radio? She's like,
oh, it's on here, and it's like, oh,
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in my house.
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But she believes in being, she is civic
-minded to her core. She believes.
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That it is our responsibility to be
engaged. And she really means on a local
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level, city, state, federal.
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So she is one woman I admire a lot. But
Claire Bloom, for instance. How do you
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know her? I did a play on Broadway with
her when I was 11. Which one?
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The Innocent.
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And Harold Pinter directed it.
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And she was... I'd never seen anybody.
I'd never...
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Well, I'd never been around.
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I mean, I was from Cincinnati, Ohio.
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I hadn't yet moved to New York City.
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And she was elegant and specific,
professional,
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demanding, high standard. She said to
me, if you ever turn into a professional
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child, I will never speak. We will not
speak again. We will be estranged.
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And I knew exactly what she meant.
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I would sit in her dressing room.
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And I would watch her get ready before
the show. And I would stand in the wings
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anytime I wasn't on stage.
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And I would just stand by the speaker
and listen to her.
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And she has the most beautiful diction.
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You know, she was with Philip Roth at
the time.
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You know, and he, my mom, like,
worshipped Philip Roth.
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So, like, I was around people.
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And I would just...
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see things in them qualities in them i
would see somebody be really nice to the
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dresser you know like i can't explain it
but you're you're exposed to all of it
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all day long we're all exposed to it
doesn't matter matter whether we go into
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the plumbing business or architects or
teachers or gardeners we're exposed to
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these possibilities all day long we're
exposed to people being decent to each
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other as much as we are People being
disappointing.
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So we have a choice.
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And I learned from early on, you're much
better in the world if you're decent
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to somebody. Things have a... You'll
last longer. Happier. The process is
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far more pleasant.
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And you get more out of it, I think.
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Carrie, listen. It is different. Oh,
it's never different. It's six years of
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never being different.
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But this is it. I am done.
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Don't call me ever again. Forget you
know my number. In fact, forget you know
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name.
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And you can drive down the street all
you want.
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Because I don't live here anymore.
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Are you...
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you know, coming out of, you know, a
very famous TV show, which we won't
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on a lot. That's okay, that's right.
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But what I'm saying is, I only use that
as a point of reference in terms of
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doing a show like Sex and the City, when
that's over, you go make a lot of
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films.
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When you leave TV a hit, I always say
the same thing
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about you and Gandolfini, people who
change the fortunes of a company.
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a company that had kind of dabbled
unsuccessfully in original programming
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then had two shows which were the
original programming for a cable company
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long, long time and made them a fortune.
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And when you leave that, you leave that
series TV thing where there's certain
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pluses and minuses.
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And did you decide you'd had enough of
that? You didn't want to get back into
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series TV and you don't do it again for
like 12 years, right? Yeah.
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I didn't think I would do a television
series again.
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At that time, it just seemed only
because of what it asks of you time
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especially when it's on film, and what I
feel like it deserves.
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Like, I love working in television.
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But Michael Patrick taught me you should
just turn yourself over to it. It's a
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finite period of time.
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If it's 18 hours a day and that's what
it really is deserving of, you have to
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give it. You have to be a total
thoroughbred. You have to cross the
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bloody. And I believe that.
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I had a child, he was just about 12, 14
months old, and I thought, oh, I could
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tell he needed me in a different way. I
could tell that he was at a point...
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When you finished or when you started?
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When I was just starting to think about
leaving the television series of Sex and
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the City, I was like, my son is...
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And I've been able to be absent in
certain ways. And now I don't think I
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nor do I want to be.
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And I thought, I can't go back to
television right now because I know what
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want to be to him.
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And film is like, boop. Or play is even
sometimes, boop.
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But TV is this, you know, revolving
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It's like a chapter.
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Yeah. And I, so I didn't think. But
then, you know, then we started
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divorce. And I didn't, I wasn't
developing. It wasn't an idea I had for
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all. I thought of lots of other people
who I assumed would play the part.
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But then eventually it came to me. You
weren't going to do it?
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No. It was just an idea I loved. I loved
exploring.
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I wanted to look at an American
marriage, like a middle class.
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Or the ideal of being a middle class
American marriage. And what does that
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like today?
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And how are people functioning?
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And what did you find?
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So what we found is that people are
pretty lousy at divorcing.
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They don't do it well. Most people
haven't done it more than once anyway,
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it's a new experience. So why would they
be good at it?
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I don't know, Alec.
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I was bored, and it was no picnic.
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Let me just say, which was not unicorns
and canteens. I know, I didn't mean to
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bring it up.
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What did you think when you left Dirty
Rock? Were you like, well, that's, I'm
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not. I did that. Well, I had an unusual
thing because, I mean, your show,
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although was this kind of obviously
quartet of these famous women, it was
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nonetheless your show. You're the
principal. I mean, everybody could see
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And on 30 Rock.
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I mean, I got as much out of it as you
can get, even though it was her show.
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created it for her.
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And I was very happy to go along for the
ride.
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And I enjoyed it. And I had this weird
thing that I learned a profound lesson
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from, which was we went along and season
one was this developmental thing. And
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then season two, we get a lot of good
response. And then season three and
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we win every award there is to be given.
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And season five, everybody agreed, was
the most anemic writing -wise, because
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the writing was everything.
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And then we all come back thinking,
let's just do six and get out of here.
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six comes, and it's a renaissance.
Everybody's a ball. I turn and I go,
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sign for 789. Oh, my God. I'm ready to
sign for 789. How could I live without
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this? And she was tired, because she had
her second kid. Yeah.
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And I always tell the same story, which
is not meant with any judgment.
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I said, when Tina Fey came in to
rehearse one morning and laid down on
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couch, I said, I knew we were done.
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Yeah. Tina never laid down on the couch.
It's hard to shoulder all of that. I
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mean, it's a massive undertaking. But in
that time that you're doing films and
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other things, when we're going to get
into your...
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your empire of what you've been doing,
but when you're doing other things in
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between, to script the TV series, do you
have the same kind of control you had
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in TV? And if not, did you miss that? Is
that one of the reasons you went back
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to TV, was because you have more
control?
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I didn't miss control when, A, I haven't
earned it, or there's no reason for me
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to have it. I like being an actor for
hire a lot. I like working for other,
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with, other people.
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That's not what you were with Star and
Michael Patrick King.
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I was a producer on that show. And over
time, I grew
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to be in a position of some authority
and control.
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And I hope I was honorable with that and
not drunk or anything with power.
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But I love that. I love producing
television.
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I love all of it. I love the development
process. I love crewing up. I
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love...
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Contracts, I love all of it.
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But I don't always want that much
responsibility.
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And so I'm very happy to be hired to do
a play and or a movie that I'm not
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producing and have nothing to do with.
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And there are times when I'm producing
where I'm not as involved in the
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So I don't have to turn as much of
myself over to it. But in television,
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particularly, I like to because I just
feel I know it now so well.
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And I feel I can be useful. And also...
youthful to actors and crew members and
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advocate and, I don't know, you know, be
good for them.
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You have made many trips to the theater.
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And your husband is famous as much as
performing in the theater and his movies
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and so forth.
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What's that like in your house with the
two of you?
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You're not on Broadway at the same time.
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Well, it's a privilege to make a choice.
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And I wish...
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frankly, all the other millions of
working parents in this country could
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the liberty of more choice in their life
professionally.
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I think about that a lot.
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Come home and be with their kids in a
way that they can't. Choose the kind of
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work they want to do and feel confident
in the kind of daycare that exists or
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childcare that exists or the quality of
the school they're sending their child
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to. Maternity leave. Maternity leave,
paid sick leave, like all these things
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that I wish very much that we were doing
better.
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more we were doing better by all those
women and men both now you do this show
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recently uh divorce and uh uh and i i
think to myself you know is marriage in
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your mind you've been in a famous
marriage for a long long time you only
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once to one person but also this idea
that like in my mind marriage is a
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decision that you make is marriage a
decision you think for people that use
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there and go we're gonna is it for you
I'm like a little boy now. Whenever my
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wife is awake, I'm like, where are you
going? Hello?
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I'm like John Lennon and Yoko.
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What? Where?
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You're going to the bathroom?
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Hurry back.
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For how long?
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Yes. Yes.
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That's hilarious.
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I don't think it's the same kind of
decision it is when you make it as when
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choose to be in it and stay. We were
fairly young. We've been married 21
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and been together.
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Therefore, 27 years, 26 years.
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But when you decide to get married when
you're young, you decide to get married.
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So that is a decision. But then you stay
married.
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And I think that is a more important
decision than the initial decision to
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marry. That's what I'm talking about.
Yes.
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Marriage is a decision to stay there.
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Yeah. And I think if you get, the longer
you stay, if you're willing, like if
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you are choosing to stay, I now say that
it's amazing
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how much.
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his life means to me how much he means
how like his disappointments are mine
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more so than my own his triumphs are
mine like i sure i'm sure
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there are many days he doesn't like me i
don't like him so much he annoys me
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it's just little silly things but but
the things that don't matter this is the
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big revelation the things that don't
matter don't matter like and so
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if you can Like, talk yourself out loud
out of making a fuss.
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And that's not that we don't fight. I'm
not saying that we're a sort of ideal,
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incredibly content couple 24 hours a
day. But I do think that we're, like, I
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don't, well, I don't want to be anywhere
else. I want to be old for sure with
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him. I see our future.
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And I'm excited about it. Like, I'm
excited about my future with him.
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How many times did you have intercourse
with his French?
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Oh, um, one, um,
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around 30, 32.
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I want to say that I did a movie with
you once.
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I love that movie. We did this movie,
State in Maine, that Mamet wrote and
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directed. And him directing is always an
unusual experience.
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Oh, my God. He's such an odd bird. But
can I just tell you, I would drive home
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on the weekends.
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You were going home, too. We were all
driving home because we were shooting in
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Massachusetts, so we could drive home on
the weekends. Manchester by the Sea.
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Yeah. And Philip and I would drive home
on the weekends and drive back. And
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every weekend.
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I was convinced I was going to be fired.
Every weekend I waited to hear from
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somebody in David Mamet's office that I
was going to be fired. I was so nervous
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that whole movie.
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I think because I admired you had done
by then. You were like one of his
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repertory leading men. You had worked
with him.
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I had only been his audience, and I knew
how exact he was about words and
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language. And I didn't know if I could
be like you guys. Like, I didn't know
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to be Mamet. I didn't know what could my
version of Mamet be, and would it be
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acceptable to Mamet?
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It's not like we were doing a Mamet play
and he wasn't there.
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He was there.
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Yeah, yeah. And he was specific. And he
was every bit as demanding as I wanted
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him to be because I wanted to live up to
this opportunity.
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But literally every freaking Sunday, I
would say to Matthew, I'd be like, this
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could be it. Like, I might not. That's
what came up when we went to the Red
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Oh, my God. Do you remember how crazy?
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People were screaming at Matthew.
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People were screaming.
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Screaming. And he's like, eh.
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And do you remember he, we had to have
security.
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Take do you not remember that yeah, but
he told me wherever he goes there is
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Now the but I love that movie well, I
love that movie what I
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realized was I'm like, you know I
wouldn't say terrified but concerned
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Was I getting what he wanted? Could I
give him what he wanted? Did I want to
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give him what he wanted?
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And someone has said to me, why would
you take the instincts that got you
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you are today and just throw them out
the window to suit somebody? Right. You
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what you do.
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And, you know, De Niro sat here and
said, I'm never going to tell somebody,
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this, don't do this. When I hire you,
there's a thing I hire you to do. And
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you come, just do that. And if it
doesn't work out in the part, if I was
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mistaken, it's not your fault. I'll
never make you feel bad. That was
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I'll never make you feel badly about
what I hired you to do. I knew what I
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getting into it. If it doesn't work,
it's my fault. And I'll never forget
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you did the podcast, you said that the
tendency was to try to act the whole
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scene yourself.
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You said that's the thing you learned
not to do. And the other person wasn't
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hitting the ball back the way you were
used to.
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Because you had many co -stars, many
scene mates over the years of the show.
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you can't make them be what you, by you,
you turn into a bad actor. Right.
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You become a bad actor and you focus on
them.
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Yeah. I love, I always remember you said
that. It's hard to remember to do that
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when you're in it. And, you know, who am
I to say that someone's not, you know.
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To my standards.
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But, you know, when you're moving
through that many people, the numbers...
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machine is more oiled than theirs.
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Yeah, and it's also so hard. You know,
you've seen people... It's so hard to
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come on a show for one day. It's so
terrifying, and everybody's so
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and knows the thing.
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I mean, if there was one job that I felt
like was most important, sometimes it
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was that. It was to try to make every
visitor feel comfortable. Welcome.
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Like, don't worry...
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We all want you here. Take your time.
Like, it's just terrifying. But we just
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say, we just say, Maine and Mamet would
say to me, oh, you know, that voice, oh,
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oh, you should go in and do it again.
And, you know, just don't put anything
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it. I mean, I really feel like you're
putting a lot on it. You know, and I
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like, I didn't know what to do. So
they're going, really? You do?
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Oh, I'm sorry.
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I said, do you want me to go out and do
it again? He goes, yeah, just take
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everything off it. I go out and do
exactly what I did the previous day.
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And he goes, oh, let's do another one.
You still think you're, I go.
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I thought I took a lot off of it then. I
thought I really laid back and took a
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lot of it off. It's still too much. He's
like, yeah, well, whatever. Let's do it
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again. I go out and do it exactly the
same way again. He'd be like, okay,
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move on. He's like, how much time do we
have?
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It's an indie.
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We don't have $50 million to make this
movie.
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Speaking of which, there's a moment in
that movie which to me defines you in
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my mind. Okay.
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And that is that when you act with
people,
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who would work for you in your heart and
your soul. My character, Bob, is in the
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car accident. Name Bob.
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Bob Barringer.
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I always remember this because the scene
that was funny that you're in is the
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guy comes who's the real cop.
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They hired the local covers like Mr.
Barringer, Mr.
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Barringer. They think I've had this kind
of like, you know, Chappaquiddick
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moment when he was in the car and Julia
Stiles. And you come in the door and you
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and I are acting in the, we're the
actors who are acting in the movie. And
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come to the door breathlessly. And I'll
never forget, I thought, oh my God, how
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generous of you that you love Bob.
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You came to the door and you went, Bob?
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Are you all right?
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And I thought to myself, it said
everything. You and I were in love. We'd
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sex back when we did our last movie.
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We did Desire Under the Elms at the
Pasadena Playhouse, whatever.
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And it was all there.
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00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:35,300
And I thought, who is more beautiful and
who is more winning on film than you?
418
00:26:35,360 --> 00:26:39,220
When you came in that doorway, it set
the whole movie for me. You came in and
419
00:26:39,220 --> 00:26:43,140
you were like, Pa, are you all right?
And I was kind of like.
420
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,400
And I literally thought in my mind this
kind of Reagan -esque kind of like
421
00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:49,420
blithe way. I looked at you and I was
kind of like, I'm a lot better now.
422
00:26:49,860 --> 00:26:50,920
But you're here.
423
00:26:56,120 --> 00:27:00,900
I always cry at the last scene of that
movie when she sees him in front of the
424
00:27:00,900 --> 00:27:05,440
hotel with his new wife. The simple
girl. And she reaches up and smooths his
425
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:09,460
hair away. And she says to him, your
girl is lovely Hubble.
426
00:27:10,180 --> 00:27:11,180
You're a...
427
00:27:11,679 --> 00:27:15,800
Famous New Yorker and the Mount Rushmore
of famous New Yorkers. You're on that
428
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:19,880
mountainside. We'll save that. You and
Howard and De Niro and whoever the
429
00:27:20,220 --> 00:27:24,560
Maybe me. I might be in a distant
background there. Ruth Gordon. Ruth
430
00:27:24,740 --> 00:27:25,740
yeah.
431
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,340
Jane Jacobs. Tony Randall. Yes.
432
00:27:28,780 --> 00:27:31,380
To this day, I remember Tony Randall's
phone number.
433
00:27:31,850 --> 00:27:36,070
Because his voice was so sing -songy. He
came to a dressing room of a Broadway
434
00:27:36,070 --> 00:27:37,610
show I was in. At the Roundabout?
435
00:27:37,950 --> 00:27:41,170
When I was on Broadway doing Streetcar.
And he came to my dressing room and he
436
00:27:41,170 --> 00:27:43,570
goes, I'm doing a production for the
National Actors Theater.
437
00:27:44,030 --> 00:27:45,870
What would you do with Petrified Forest?
438
00:27:46,150 --> 00:27:47,330
Would you like to play Duke Man -T?
439
00:27:48,610 --> 00:27:51,750
He goes, please call me my number is 724
-24.
440
00:27:52,770 --> 00:27:54,170
Oh, that's a good Upper West Side
number.
441
00:27:54,390 --> 00:27:55,390
724 -24.
442
00:27:56,850 --> 00:27:59,030
That's the Upper West Side Prefix. Yeah,
724.
443
00:27:59,330 --> 00:28:01,950
724 has to be Upper West Side. And when
I moved, well, now you take your prefix
444
00:28:01,950 --> 00:28:04,410
with you. Yeah, I know. It doesn't say
anything. I moved downtown, and I'm
445
00:28:04,470 --> 00:28:06,230
where's my 254 prefix? I live downtown.
446
00:28:06,630 --> 00:28:09,530
Now, I've known you in a kind of
quasiple.
447
00:28:09,830 --> 00:28:12,790
You may not remember this. I found
pictures in my basement.
448
00:28:13,470 --> 00:28:17,070
I've been going through boxes of old
stuff. Are they from the toxic waste
449
00:28:17,070 --> 00:28:21,150
caravan from L .A.? No, they're from the
1988 Democratic Convention in Atlanta.
450
00:28:21,570 --> 00:28:25,310
No, I know. The famous Rob Lowe sex tape
trip that you and I were on.
451
00:28:25,510 --> 00:28:29,530
Yes. Patrick Lippert. Patrick Lippert
and I organized that whole trip.
452
00:28:31,670 --> 00:28:33,810
He and I sat up for weeks.
453
00:28:34,250 --> 00:28:37,190
And in the days leading up to everybody
traveling to Atlanta, we put together
454
00:28:37,190 --> 00:28:38,990
all of your folders.
455
00:28:39,210 --> 00:28:41,530
We put together all the information you
needed.
456
00:28:41,730 --> 00:28:45,410
I stood and watched Rob get in that
elevator. And I was like, who is Rob?
457
00:28:46,670 --> 00:28:52,070
30 years later, let me say, thank you.
Oh, my goodness. We were there. It was
458
00:28:52,070 --> 00:28:55,410
like a movie. So Patrick Lippert
politicized a bunch of people on the
459
00:28:55,410 --> 00:28:58,020
Coast. Jane Fonda and Tom Hayden were
together.
460
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:02,740
Going to the house and out to drive. All
the time to those meetings. And I came
461
00:29:02,740 --> 00:29:06,620
up from a political family. My family
were very involved in politics long
462
00:29:06,620 --> 00:29:07,459
I was born.
463
00:29:07,460 --> 00:29:08,840
Local Democratic politics.
464
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:11,200
In Minneapolis.
465
00:29:11,340 --> 00:29:12,340
Always in Cincinnati.
466
00:29:12,540 --> 00:29:16,560
Previously in Ohio or in Iowa. My father
was a writer. Grader's Ice Cream.
467
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:18,080
Grader's Ice Cream.
468
00:29:18,420 --> 00:29:22,660
My father was a writer at Iowa Writers
Workshop also.
469
00:29:22,980 --> 00:29:24,200
So everywhere they went.
470
00:29:24,570 --> 00:29:28,890
they were involved in politics and I
worked for the McGovern campaign.
471
00:29:29,210 --> 00:29:34,150
I worked for, you know, so I came up in
politics, but I was so happy when
472
00:29:34,150 --> 00:29:38,970
Patrick reached out and we were all put
together in Los Angeles. That was a
473
00:29:38,970 --> 00:29:44,450
pretty amazing time. And I think was
enormously, well, obviously it was
474
00:29:44,450 --> 00:29:47,850
informative, but I think it changed the
course of a lot of people's lives,
475
00:29:47,930 --> 00:29:49,530
whether they stayed working.
476
00:29:50,490 --> 00:29:56,070
um for a party or they just stayed
engaged they stayed engaged and active
477
00:29:56,070 --> 00:30:00,350
that was amazing i mean you weren't on
the toxic waste caravan as i call it i
478
00:30:00,350 --> 00:30:03,950
don't recall i might remember that we
went on the caravan up and down the
479
00:30:03,950 --> 00:30:08,050
of california because people were
dumping all right so you were in atlanta
480
00:30:08,050 --> 00:30:11,650
was amazing because clinton spoke do you
remember that we go we go to pat duff
481
00:30:11,650 --> 00:30:16,550
produced the yeah we go there as guests
If I recall correctly, we were guests of
482
00:30:16,550 --> 00:30:17,850
the California delegation.
483
00:30:18,390 --> 00:30:20,230
Hayden arranged for us to go.
484
00:30:20,430 --> 00:30:21,750
And we go there.
485
00:30:22,550 --> 00:30:29,130
But what I'm suggesting is that you are
politically engaged to whatever degree.
486
00:30:29,230 --> 00:30:30,830
But you're not noisy about that.
487
00:30:31,310 --> 00:30:33,190
You feel smart.
488
00:30:33,510 --> 00:30:37,070
You felt you needed to do that. Don't
contaminate your work with your
489
00:30:37,070 --> 00:30:38,070
opinion all the time.
490
00:30:38,170 --> 00:30:41,450
I don't feel comfortable screaming and
yelling about it.
491
00:30:43,020 --> 00:30:48,260
I feel it just becomes an unbearably
loud
492
00:30:48,260 --> 00:30:53,540
battle where absolutely nobody is
listening to anybody.
493
00:30:53,940 --> 00:30:57,680
And you don't win by writing in caps.
494
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:02,220
You don't win by trying to get in an
argument on Instagram.
495
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:06,320
Not that, frankly, that I'm interested
in winning, actually. That's not the
496
00:31:06,320 --> 00:31:09,640
point. But you're not going to find
satisfaction in feeling heard.
497
00:31:10,540 --> 00:31:15,040
So I like to work differently. And I
think because I've always worked in
498
00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:17,840
politics, I've always or rather I should
say I've always been politically
499
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:23,740
active. I don't want to distract from
what I think needs to be done or ways in
500
00:31:23,740 --> 00:31:27,760
which I can be helpful. And oftentimes
it's nothing that anybody was just, you
501
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:30,700
know, the phone bank or the thing or
licking envelopes or whatever it is.
502
00:31:31,660 --> 00:31:36,140
But I am so deeply distressed by.
503
00:31:36,750 --> 00:31:39,490
the state of affairs that I don't want
to contribute.
504
00:31:39,710 --> 00:31:43,170
And I don't think I would be helpful. I
don't think it comes naturally to me to
505
00:31:43,170 --> 00:31:45,990
be really aggressive.
506
00:31:46,530 --> 00:31:49,730
I think I can be effective in other
ways. It's funny that you say that
507
00:31:49,730 --> 00:31:51,430
because... Let me be clear about
something, though.
508
00:31:51,810 --> 00:31:56,270
I am not without extremely strong
opinions. And those that are close to me
509
00:31:56,270 --> 00:31:58,390
know me know that I... You?
510
00:31:58,730 --> 00:32:04,790
I am almost incapable of not spouting
off. Sure.
511
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:06,800
Where and when is the question.
512
00:32:07,020 --> 00:32:08,020
Right, exactly.
513
00:32:17,340 --> 00:32:21,780
When did you find time to do this, this
little venture of yours?
514
00:32:22,220 --> 00:32:28,160
Describe what's going on with you in the
publishing world. That's a book called
515
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:31,420
A Place for Us, written by an
extraordinarily...
516
00:32:33,610 --> 00:32:40,250
uh what's the word um preternaturally
gifted uh young woman named fatima
517
00:32:40,250 --> 00:32:45,310
mirza named rave reviews yes so i met a
woman named molly stern who's a big
518
00:32:45,310 --> 00:32:49,470
fancy pants publisher at crown and all
sorts of other imprints inside crown and
519
00:32:49,470 --> 00:32:54,810
we started talking about books and i'm a
reader and like a greedy
520
00:32:55,710 --> 00:32:58,770
I have my whole life been a reader. My
whole family is. My mother's a reader.
521
00:32:58,770 --> 00:32:59,770
siblings are readers.
522
00:32:59,930 --> 00:33:00,950
We didn't have a television.
523
00:33:01,190 --> 00:33:04,790
We had to read books. No one was allowed
to leave the house without a book
524
00:33:04,790 --> 00:33:05,790
growing up.
525
00:33:06,510 --> 00:33:08,590
And so we started talking about books.
526
00:33:09,050 --> 00:33:11,970
And it turned out that Molly was about
to publish a book that I had been trying
527
00:33:11,970 --> 00:33:13,790
to get my hands on for a long time.
528
00:33:15,340 --> 00:33:20,280
faking that I worked for media. I was
trying to call other international
529
00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:23,240
territories, trying to get this book by
Herman Koch called Dinner.
530
00:33:23,980 --> 00:33:26,760
Well, I felt like it was borderline.
531
00:33:27,360 --> 00:33:30,140
But anyway, like that's my book. So she
sent me some books.
532
00:33:30,580 --> 00:33:31,680
A book club started.
533
00:33:32,060 --> 00:33:35,460
We started reading books, yet to be
published books, so we could talk about
534
00:33:35,460 --> 00:33:39,380
emerging writers and support our
independent booksellers and libraries.
535
00:33:39,380 --> 00:33:40,380
book club still in formation?
536
00:33:40,730 --> 00:33:45,090
It's not really, but from that. I wanted
to join. Oh, you could absolutely join.
537
00:33:45,230 --> 00:33:46,290
Oh, there's no fee.
538
00:33:46,650 --> 00:33:51,910
Oh, no. I'll pay a substantial fee. When
we rally again. To be in townhouse in
539
00:33:51,910 --> 00:33:53,350
downtown with you reading book?
540
00:33:53,550 --> 00:33:54,550
Book clubs are amazing.
541
00:33:54,610 --> 00:34:00,670
I love book clubs. It's like time
suspends and everything else goes away
542
00:34:00,670 --> 00:34:05,570
you're on a vacation for just four
hours. The only time I have to read is
543
00:34:05,570 --> 00:34:06,750
12. That's why I'm so tired.
544
00:34:06,970 --> 00:34:07,970
So anyway.
545
00:34:09,069 --> 00:34:12,610
People from Crown came and said, listen,
you love books and you have strong
546
00:34:12,610 --> 00:34:15,350
feelings about them. And would you ever
consider an imprint? And I, of course,
547
00:34:15,370 --> 00:34:17,610
said no. And I don't know anything about
it. And I've got no business.
548
00:34:17,969 --> 00:34:21,690
They said, no, you should and you will.
And we'll surround you with people that,
549
00:34:21,690 --> 00:34:23,370
you know, I'm not an editor. I don't.
550
00:34:23,770 --> 00:34:27,409
So they convinced me. But I specifically
asked if I could work within the
551
00:34:27,409 --> 00:34:31,230
Hogarth imprint, which is an old imprint
that I love. And I love its history. It
552
00:34:31,230 --> 00:34:33,210
was started by Virginia Woolf and
Leonard Woolf.
553
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:37,679
And I loved what they were doing. It had
sort of been reborn recently in this
554
00:34:37,679 --> 00:34:39,739
country and in the U .K.
555
00:34:40,219 --> 00:34:41,719
And so I started this imprint.
556
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:47,500
And after many months of reading
manuscripts and losing out on some and
557
00:34:47,500 --> 00:34:51,880
on others, this manuscript came to us in
the spring of 2017.
558
00:34:52,260 --> 00:34:57,600
And like I said, it was by this young
woman who was just graduating the Iowa
559
00:34:57,600 --> 00:34:59,000
Writers Workshop.
560
00:34:59,780 --> 00:35:01,840
Her name was Fatima Fareem Mirza.
561
00:35:03,370 --> 00:35:09,510
And I was, I don't know, 7 % through the
book, according to my e -reader.
562
00:35:09,870 --> 00:35:12,850
And I was overcome.
563
00:35:13,250 --> 00:35:20,050
And I just knew that this was not only
an important new American voice, but
564
00:35:20,050 --> 00:35:25,230
that it was a really powerful story. So
your involvement with this doesn't
565
00:35:25,230 --> 00:35:29,450
really require too much of a shift in
your schedule and time commitments. I
566
00:35:29,450 --> 00:35:32,550
read. Yeah, you're an avid reader
anyway. I just read. This was a
567
00:35:33,260 --> 00:35:35,420
And so this was our first, this was our
inaugural title.
568
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:43,200
And she published in number 12. She
shared the 12th spot on
569
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:46,980
the New York Times bestseller list her
first week, which is very unusual for
570
00:35:46,980 --> 00:35:49,940
literary fiction. This is literary
fiction, which is this kind of unique
571
00:35:49,940 --> 00:35:53,040
genre of publishing. And I'm so proud of
her.
572
00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:56,360
And this book has, it's in its seventh
or eighth printing.
573
00:35:56,940 --> 00:36:00,620
And it's really resonated with so many.
574
00:36:01,190 --> 00:36:03,310
It is a book for our time.
575
00:36:03,890 --> 00:36:05,430
How so? Why do you think?
576
00:36:06,930 --> 00:36:13,650
Well, it's about a family of immigrants.
It's about parents who came
577
00:36:13,650 --> 00:36:17,150
here from India, whose children were
born in America.
578
00:36:19,290 --> 00:36:24,730
It's about an American family in all its
plurality. It's about parenting, and
579
00:36:24,730 --> 00:36:25,730
it's about...
580
00:36:28,100 --> 00:36:32,840
honoring people who sacrifice for you
and being a person of faith, but having
581
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:36,200
different feelings about how you are
observant and finding your own way in
582
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:37,200
world as a young person.
583
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:43,500
It's about being a first -generation
Muslim American immigrant or child of
584
00:36:43,500 --> 00:36:48,860
immigrant parents and what that means
and the lens through which they
585
00:36:48,860 --> 00:36:52,980
feel seen and what it really feels like
to be in that community.
586
00:36:53,930 --> 00:36:57,050
It's touching. It's about all of our
lives. Is it a movie? It's about
587
00:36:57,050 --> 00:36:58,050
we make.
588
00:36:58,250 --> 00:36:59,250
Is it a movie?
589
00:36:59,770 --> 00:37:02,730
Maybe, although that I didn't even occur
to me. Yeah, no.
590
00:37:03,050 --> 00:37:06,490
It's just an exquisite, beautiful,
unforgettable read. It would be funny if
591
00:37:06,490 --> 00:37:12,770
reveal your passion and your loyalty
even to the literary world is greater
592
00:37:12,770 --> 00:37:15,690
movies or TV. And people in your life
are going, this is a movie. And you're
593
00:37:15,690 --> 00:37:16,690
like, no, no.
594
00:37:17,110 --> 00:37:20,490
I don't want that. Yeah, it has to be
looked at in its purest form because I
595
00:37:20,490 --> 00:37:22,910
don't want anyone to think like this is
all some mercenary effort.
596
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:33,120
And you have a new album.
597
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:34,440
I do?
598
00:37:34,620 --> 00:37:35,660
Yeah, it's my ninth.
599
00:37:36,100 --> 00:37:38,500
I mean, if you don't count the duet
album.
600
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:42,260
Believe me, I don't count that album.
Oh, a lot of people like that record.
601
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:44,280
Plus their hearts.
602
00:37:46,240 --> 00:37:49,000
And the new one's called... Third and A.
603
00:37:50,180 --> 00:37:53,980
It's where I first lived in New York. I
watched your movie. Here and Now. Here
604
00:37:53,980 --> 00:37:54,718
and Now.
605
00:37:54,720 --> 00:37:59,000
And, I mean, obviously you have an
image.
606
00:37:59,740 --> 00:38:05,840
of someone who is beautiful and funny
and talented and smart, always smart in
607
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:06,840
everything you do.
608
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:10,000
And then was it something where you
wanted to do a movie and go, I don't
609
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:14,860
do anything that I've done. There's a
kind of a warmth, there's a charm that's
610
00:38:14,860 --> 00:38:18,420
embedded in nearly all of what you do.
Did you just decide you want to do a
611
00:38:18,420 --> 00:38:20,880
movie where like, let's go dark?
612
00:38:22,300 --> 00:38:26,300
Well, I, we started thinking about the
idea.
613
00:38:26,970 --> 00:38:31,710
of telling this story a while ago, and
there was a filmmaker I really admired
614
00:38:31,710 --> 00:38:34,270
named Fabien Constant, and he's a French
filmmaker.
615
00:38:34,490 --> 00:38:38,950
He's a documentarian. He's known for
making documentaries, and I really, I
616
00:38:38,950 --> 00:38:44,930
his work for many, many years, and we
were just trying to figure out what we
617
00:38:44,930 --> 00:38:48,550
could do with him and what was
interesting to him, and the script came
618
00:38:48,550 --> 00:38:53,950
I didn't have one thing to say.
619
00:38:54,410 --> 00:38:58,650
Like, no. I mean, I had no... I had a
punctuation.
620
00:38:58,950 --> 00:39:05,310
And I loved the script. And I had never
played anybody like it. And I had lost
621
00:39:05,310 --> 00:39:10,270
one of my closest friends to
glioblastoma very recently.
622
00:39:11,190 --> 00:39:13,310
And I had watched my friend.
623
00:39:14,210 --> 00:39:19,490
I had seen her through her diagnosis.
And I had watched the remainder of her
624
00:39:19,490 --> 00:39:21,770
life, which was 14 months.
625
00:39:22,230 --> 00:39:28,490
Exactly what the doctors tell my
character, Vivian. And I just, I don't
626
00:39:28,490 --> 00:39:32,690
really wanted to do it. And all the
parts and pieces came together with such
627
00:39:32,690 --> 00:39:36,790
ease, I couldn't kind of believe it.
Everybody said yes. Every actor said yes
628
00:39:36,790 --> 00:39:40,470
immediately. No one sat around. We
didn't have to call people back twice.
629
00:39:41,130 --> 00:39:43,890
Every DP, every production designer.
630
00:39:44,290 --> 00:39:45,330
Came together. It was.
631
00:39:45,590 --> 00:39:49,530
And we made the movie for less than $2
million in 16 days.
632
00:39:49,830 --> 00:39:50,830
And it was.
633
00:39:51,740 --> 00:39:55,580
One of the great, great professional
experiences I've had in forever.
634
00:39:56,080 --> 00:40:00,600
Wow. Rufus Wayne Wright wrote the music.
Yeah, all in New York. No dressing
635
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:01,760
rooms, no trailers, nothing.
636
00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:03,480
Staying on the set.
637
00:40:03,620 --> 00:40:08,880
Yeah, or finding like an empty car to
take my wig off or get undressed or a
638
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:09,718
stranger's apartment.
639
00:40:09,720 --> 00:40:11,080
They're like, come on in. You can change
here.
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00:40:12,220 --> 00:40:14,380
Bing bong. They were like, oh, my God.
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You're like, no, I know. Yes, thank you
so much. We sent flowers, candles.
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Can I use your bathroom? Many thank you
to everybody.
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Provided shelter.
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But I think it's a beautiful movie. I
love it. Thank you. Oh, thank you.
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Thank you so much. Thank you so much.
And here we go. It's a nice
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David. Sarah Jessica Parker's new film,
Here and Now, is currently in theaters
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and streaming. We leave you again
tonight with a story from earlier in the
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as animated by acclaimed illustrator
Stephen Brodner.
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Thanks for joining us. We'll see you
next time.
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My dad, I always tell people, my dad had
one piece of insight.
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I fell in love with a girl in college,
and my dad was a schoolteacher, and he
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was constantly reading the paper and
hidden, and the news was on, and the
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Vietnam War when I was a kid. And I come
home from college, I'm like 19 years
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old, I fall in love with this girl in
college, and I start to mine him for
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information about the courtship and my
mother and how that all comes about.
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And he's very mute about that. And he's
behind the paper. And whatever I say
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leads up to the moment. The vault is
going to open up. My father's going to
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me love advice, romantic advice, sexual
advice, some kind of advice for the
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first time ever in my life. And he
lowers the paper. He looks at me and
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let me put it to you this way.
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If you meet two women and you love them
both very much, and one of them has a
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lot of money, you'll know what to do.
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And he puts the paper back over him and
says. I thought that was it. It was the
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only romantic advice.
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Marry a woman with a lot of dough.
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