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I DON'T KNOW.

SO, I GUESS WE CAN TRY TO GO AND CHECK OUT

SOME OF THE PLACES THAT WE KNOW HE LIKES TO GO.

OKAY.

THIS IS GEORGE STREET.

NOW, I DON'T KNOW WHERE THE HELL WE'RE AT, DANIELLE.

OH, MY GOD.

I DON'T KNOW WHERE THE HELL MOHAMED IS.

MY NAME IS DANIELLE.

I'M 43 YEARS OLD, AND I LIVE IN SANDUSKY, OHIO.

TWO YEARS AGO, I MET A MAN FROM TUNISIA ON A DATING WEBSITE.

OKAY?

SO, I'M WAITING TO GO THERE

TO SEE WHICH KIND OF WOMEN YOU HAVE THERE.

I IMMEDIATELY FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM.

WE TALKED EVERYDAY,

AND WE CONTINUED TO BUILD OUR RELATIONSHIP ONLINE.

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, AND I'M NOT EVER LEAVING YOU.

MOHAMED PROPOSED TO ME, AND WE COULDN'T WAIT

TO START OUR LIVES TOGETHER, SO WE APPLIED FOR A K-1 VISA.

[ SOBBING ]

[ Crying ] NO. NO.

WE HAD 90 DAYS TO GET MARRIED,

AND WE HAD CULTURE DIFFERENCES TO WORK OUT.

SO, WHERE I'M GOING TO SLEEP?

BECAUSE OF YOUR RELIGION AND STUFF...

YEAH.

...WHEN WE'RE BOTH HERE, YOU'LL HAVE TO SLEEP ON THE COUCH.

WE NEED TO HURRY UP AND TO GET MARRIED.

[ BOTH LAUGH ] YES.

DESPITE OUR DIFFERENCES, WE DECIDED TO PLAN OUR WEDDING.

BUT MOST OF MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY

WERE SUSPICIOUS OF MOHAMED.

SO, I'M GOING TO BE COMPLETELY HONEST.

OKAY.

I'M VERY, VERY WORRIED THAT YOU'LL END UP SCAMMING MY MOM.

BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED,

MOHAMED WAS WORRIED ABOUT HOW BAD MY FINANCIAL PROBLEMS ARE.

I WENT TO THE LAWYER NOW.

[ Crying ] IT'S NOT FAIR WHAT YOU'RE DOING...

...WAITING TILL THE DAY OF THE WEDDING TO DECIDE.

I JUST THOUGHT HE WAS FREAKING OUT

BECAUSE HE COULDN'T HANDLE THE SITUATION.

SO, I THOUGHT MAYBE ONCE WE GOT FURTHER ALONG, HE'D SETTLE DOWN.

SO, WE GOT MARRIED.

I NOW PRONOUNCE YOU HUSBAND AND WIFE.

YOU MAY KISS YOUR BRIDE.

Woman: SHE CAN KISS YOU, THOUGH, CAN'T SHE? ON THE CHEEK?

I THOUGHT IN THE BEGINNING, MOHAMED'S INTENTIONS WERE

TO BE WITH ME, BUT AS WE KEPT GOING INTO THE MARRIAGE,

THINGS STARTED CHANGING.

PEOPLE, THEY ARE SAYING I HAVE GIRLFRIENDS

AND THAT STUFF -- THAT'S WRONG.

I HAVE NO GIRLFRIENDS.

I TRUST YOU.

OKAY, THEN IF YOU BELIEVE ME,

JUST STAY AWAY FROM THE DRAMA,

AND LET US HAVE A NORMAL LIFE.

OKAY.

I GAVE HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT,

BUT MY FAMILY INSISTED HE WAS TAKING ADVANTAGE OF ME.

HE IS A PIECE OF [BLEEP]

WE'RE WORKING THROUGH THE ISSUE.

YOU CAN'T WORK ON IT WHEN HE'S SCREWING OTHER PEOPLE.

SO, THIS WEEK ON SOCIAL MEDIA,

ONE OF THE LADIES POSTED THAT SHE'S PREGNANT BY MOHAMED.

MOHAMED GOT HIS GREEN CARD 14 MONTHS AFTER THE MARRIAGE.

HE SPLIT TWO MONTHS AFTER THAT.

I HAVE NO IDEA WHERE MOHAMED IS RIGHT NOW.

MOHAMED HAS BEEN MISSING FOR A FEW DAYS,

SO ME AND MY FRIEND BETH

ARE TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHERE HE IS.

HE TOLD ME HE HAS A JOB, SO WE'RE TRYING TO FIND HIM.

IF HE WAS TRULY HERE FOR THE RIGHT REASONS TO BEGIN WITH --

WASN'T HERE JUST FOR A GREEN CARD --

THEN HE'D STILL BE A LITTLE BIT COMPASSION, AND THERE'S NOT.

YEAH.

DIDN'T HAVE THE COURTESY OF SAYING "I'M LEAVING."

HE JUST WALKED OUT THE DOOR.

TRULY WANT TO KNOW WHAT THE HELL DID I DO

TO MAKE HIS LIFE SO BAD?

NOTHING, YOU QUIT PLAYING THE GAME.

YOU QUIT LETTING HIM WALK ON YOU.

I DON'T THINK ANYBODY'S GONNA FAULT THE FACT THAT,

YOU KNOW, YOU DIDN'T SEE THE RED FLAGS

OR DIDN'T WANT TO ACKNOWLEDGE THE RED FLAGS...

MOHAMED TOLD ME THAT HE WORKED AT A PLASTICS COMPANY,

SO WE'RE GONNA HAVE TO GO TO THE PACIFIC AREA TOWN

WHERE THE FACTORIES ARE.

IS THIS IT?

YEP, THIS IS IT.

OKAY.

I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY.

I AM NERVOUS ABOUT THIS BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW HOW IT'S GONNA GO.

AMERICA, I'M HOME!

Mohamed: MY FIRST TIME TO AMERICA, IT WAS A CULTURE SHOCK.

Kyle: SHE'S LEAVING EVERYTHING SHE'S KNOWN TO BE WITH ME.

ARE YOU READY FOR THIS?

Russ: I AM CONCERNED HOW PAULA IS GOING TO FIT IN.

I'M A LITTLE CRAZY.

Loren: WHY ARE YOU SO ANGRY AT ME?

BECAUSE I WAS DISRESPECTED LIKE THAT.

I LOOKED AT FLIGHTS. I LOOKED AT GOING BACK HOME.

YOU'RE NOT GONNA HOOK UP WITH HIM

JUST SO YOU CAN GET A FREE PASS TO AMERICA, ARE YOU?

Beverly: HOW DOES SHE KNOW YOU'RE NOT

SLEEPING WITH WOMEN EVERY OTHER DAY?

Officiant #1: THERE IS NO GREATER GIFT

THAN THE LOVE THAT MAKES TWO PEOPLE ONE.

Officiant #2: I NOW PRONOUNCE YOU HUSBAND AND WIFE.

Officiant #3: YOU MAY KISS YOUR BRIDE.

[ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ]

All: MAZEL TOV!

[ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ]

Paola: THIS IS ME. THIS IS ME. THIS IS WHO I AM.

NO, YOU JUST NOW BECAME THIS PERSON.

I'M DONE. I'M DONE. I'M DONE. I'M DONE.

Beverly: THERE ARE PIECES THAT ARE HIDDEN WITHIN DEVAR

THAT I FIND EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE.

ANSWER THE QUESTION DEVAR. WHAT ARE YOU HIDING IN JAMAICA?

IT SEEMS TO ME LIKE AMERICANS ARE CRAZY PEOPLE.

STOP TRYING TO BE SMOOTH AND LIE TO EVERYONE.

I'M NOT BEING SMOOTH.

DO YOU WANT ME TO REVEAL WHO YOU REALLY ARE?

WOULD YOU RATHER STAY IN AMERICA,

OR DO YOU WANT TO GO BACK TO THAILAND?

GO BACK TO THAILAND.

YOU TOLD YOUR MOM MY BIGGEST SECRET.

I KNOW. IT'S TIME TO LET EVERYBODY KNOW.

HE'S BACK ON THE DATING SITE THAT YOU GUYS MET ON.

[ SNIFFLES ]

I DON'T APPROVE OF THAT.

I DON'T APPROVE OF YOU JUST DOING THAT BEHIND MY BACK.

I FEEL USED AND LIKE TRASH.

WHY WOULD I WANT YOU TO STAY HERE?

IT'S NOT YOUR COUNTRY. IT'S NOT YOUR HOUSE.

YOU DON'T HAVE THE KEYS OF THIS COUNTRY.

HERE WE GO.

Danielle: [ Crying ] 'CAUSE IF YOU TRULY LOVE SOMEONE,

YOU'RE NOT GONNA DO THE THINGS THAT HE'S DONE.

[ SOBBING ]

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I'M LOREN, THIS IS MY HUSBAND, ALEXEI,

AND WE LIVE IN HOLLYWOOD, FLORIDA.

I MET ALEX ON A TRIP TO ISRAEL,

AND WHEN I SAW HIM, I WAS LIKE, "WOW."

DEFINITELY GONNA HOOK UP WITH HIM.

AND EVERY TIME, I JUST KIND OF FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM.

ALEXEI PROPOSED TO ME WHEN I WAS VISITING HIM IN ISRAEL,

AND HE MANAGED TO SURPRISE ME, SO I WAS REALLY HAPPY.

WE APPLIED FOR A VISA, AND HE GOT DENIED.

AND THEN WE FINALLY GOT APPROVED.

WE GOT APPROVED?!

We got approved.

[ Chuckling ] Stop freaking out.

WE'RE GETTING MARRIED!

90 DAYS. IT'S NOT A LONG TIME.

AND THEN I WAS ADJUSTING TO LIFE LIVING WITH MY PARENTS AGAIN...

Marlene: YOU GET THE GRAND TOUR.

...AND LIVING WITH HIM AND ALL OF US UNDER ONE ROOF.

REMEMBER THE RULES.

KNOCK ON THE DOOR AND WAIT FOR A RESPONSE.

WHAT'S THE FIRST RULE? I DON'T WANT TO HEAR IT.

DURING THE 90 DAYS, I DEFINITELY FELT GUILTY

THAT I WAS THE REASON ALEX LEFT HIS FRIENDS AND FAMILY.

I THINK THAT WILL ALWAYS BE WITH ME.

THEY SAID MY BROTHER HAD A BREAKDOWN BECAUSE I LEFT.

Marlene: LIKE, SHE'S UPSET. SHE'S CRYING SO...

NO?

I FEEL LIKE A MONSTER, AND I'M NOT A BAD PERSON.

SO, THE 90 DAYS WERE STRESSFUL.

IT WAS A LOT OF UPS AND DOWNS.

I ASKED YOU NOT TO GO TO A STRIP CLUB, AND YOU DID.

OH, MY GOD. IT WAS MY BACHELORETTE PARTY.

I LOOKED AT FLIGHTS. I LOOKED AT GOING BACK HOME.

ARE YOU KIDDING ME?

AND THROW EVERYTHING THAT WE'VE BEEN THROUGH

JUST DOWN THE DRAIN.

BUT YOU KNOW WHAT, THEN IT WAS HARD,

BUT LOOKING BACK, IT WAS WORTH IT.

IT WAS WORTH IT.

CAN YOU BELIEVE WE'RE MARRIED?

DID YOU EVER THINK WE WOULD GET MARRIED?

NOT REALLY.

I DIDN'T HAVE A CHOICE.

[ BOTH LAUGH ]

I AM FOR MY BELOVED, AND MY BELOVED IS FOR ME.

All: MAZEL TOV!

[ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ]

SINCE WE'VE BEEN MARRIED, WE GOT OUR OWN APARTMENT.

WE BOTH HAVE GOTTEN JOBS.

HE GOT HIS WORK PERMIT, HE GOT A GREEN CARD.

I WORK FOR A WATCH COMPANY.

IT WAS VERY EXCITING TO FINALLY GET MY WORK PERMIT

AND TO START, YOU KNOW, LIVING A REAL LIFE.

SO, A LOT OF GOOD THINGS HAVE HAPPENED FOR US.

OH, MY GOD. HE WALKS AROUND

NAKED ALL THE TIME. IT'S AMAZING.

NOT ALL THE TIME. NOT ALL THE TIME.

[ LAUGHS ]

SO, ALEX AND I ARE RENEWING OUR VOWS

IN A FEW MONTHS IN ISRAEL.

AND DO A BIG CEREMONY FOR MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS

BECAUSE I WANT THEM TO SHARE THIS DAY WITH ME.

I PROMISED ALEX'S PARENTS

THAT WE WOULD COME BACK FOR A CEREMONY FOR THEM.

THERE IS A LOT OF PRESSURE GOING INTO THIS

BECAUSE I NEED THIS WEDDING TO BE PERFECT.

BECAUSE I NEED TO PROVE TO HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS

THAT I'M THE PERFECT PERSON TO BE HIS WIFE.

MY FRIEND KAREN,

SHE IS BASICALLY MY WEDDING PLANNER IN ISRAEL.

I'VE NEVER BEEN TO AN ISRAELI WEDDING.

I DON'T REALLY KNOW WHAT TO EXPECT.

YOU KNOW, I GOOGLED VIDEOS AND STUFF,

AND I SEE, LIKE, FIREWORKS AND DOVES FLYING OUT,

AND, LIKE, IS THAT WHAT WE'RE GOING WITH?

AT A WEDDING?

APPARENTLY, I'M GOING TO WALK DOWN THE AISLE TO FIREWORKS

AND THEN BLOWING A SHOFAR, WHICH IS LIKE A HORN.

I'M GOING TO HAVE BUBBLES FOR MY FIRST DANCE.

LIKE IT'S JUST...

THERE IS, LIKE, A LOT TO DO.

IT'S NOT EVEN ABOUT, LIKE, THE CEREMONY BEING PERFECT,

I JUST WANT THEM TO SEE THAT WHETHER HE'S IN ISRAEL

OR IN AMERICA, HE MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE.

BABE. YEAH?

WE GOT TO PICK OUT THESE INVITATIONS.

YEAH, OKAY.

AND I HAVE A BUNCH OF OTHER STUFF

THAT I NEED TO GO OVER WITH YOU.

Alexei: I'M NOT A PLANNER, AND I'M MORE GO WITH THE FLOW.

LOREN IS VERY CONTROLLING, AND DOESN'T ACCEPT ANYTHING I SAY.

HMM.

MM-HMM.

THAT'S IT. WE'RE DOING IT AGAIN.

AGAIN.

AND IT'S REALLY, REALLY HARD

BECAUSE IT'S CULTURALLY DIFFERENT,

AND I REALLY, REALLY NEED YOUR HELP.

I'M -- THAT'S WHAT I'M DOING, YOU KNOW?

[ CHUCKLES ]

WE NEED TO PICK OUT THE MENU,

BUT YOU'RE GONNA HAVE TO TRANSLATE THAT FOR ME

BECAUSE IT'S IN HEBREW.

IF YOU WOULD LEARN HEBREW LIKE YOU PROMISED ME

SINCE, LIKE, DAY ONE --

I'M TRYING TO LEARN IT.

DO YOU KNOW I GET A HEBREW WORD OF THE DAY SENT TO MY E-MAIL?

HOW ARE YOU TRYING?

HEBREW WORD OF THE DAY SENT TO YOUR E-MAIL?

YEAH, IT'S BETTER THAN NOTHING.

Alexei: MY WHOLE FAMILY IS VERY EXCITED FOR THE WEDDING.

WE ARE VERY CLOSE, SO WHEN WE GO TO ISRAEL,

IT'S GONNA FEEL GOOD TO BE AROUND THEM,

AND IT'S GONNA BE HARD TO LEAVE.

THIS WAS PRODUCTIVE.

NO, IT WASN'T. I DON'T HAVE MY INVITATIONS.

I JUST WANT THIS TO BE PERFECT, AND I'M STRESSING ABOUT THAT.

SO, I'M WORRIED ABOUT ALEX FEELING COMFORTABLE

AND ADJUSTING TO SEEING HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS.

AND...MY BIGGEST FEAR IS THAT HE'S GONNA WANT TO GO

AND STAY THERE AND NOT COME BACK HERE.

Paola: IT'S SUPPOSED TO BE AMERICA --

OPPORTUNITIES AND ALL THOSE THINGS.

I DIDN'T KNOW THAT IT'S GONNA BE SO HARD TO FIND A JOB.

HE LIED.

OF COURSE HE LIED.

HE'S BEEN LYING.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON.

HI, Y'ALL, COME ON DOWN TO TRACTOR BOB'S

YANMAR TRACTOR DEALERSHIP.

THE NUMBER-ONE TRACTOR DEALER IN THE U.S.

WE'VE GOT COMPACT UTILITY TRACTORS.

SUB-COMPACT TRACTORS.

AND COMPACT TRACTORS.

IF YOU KNOW TRACTORS, THEN YOU SHOULD KNOW BOB.

'CAUSE I DON'T SELL NO CHEAP-ASS TRACTORS!

[ RICOCHET! ]

GOOD. THAT WAS GOOD!

Paola: I'M PAOLA, AND THIS IS MY HUSBAND, RUSS,

AND WE LIVE IN OKLAHOMA CITY, OKLAHOMA.

Russ: I MET PAO WHEN I LIVED IN COLUMBIA.

I WAS WORKING WITH AN OIL-AND-GAS COMPANY.

AND WE WERE DATING.

THEN I GOT TRANSFERRED BACK TO UNITED STATES,

AND THAT'S WHEN WE DECIDED THAT WE'RE GOING TO GET MARRIED.

BRINGING A FIERY LATINA

INTO A VERY CONSERVATIVE ENVIRONMENT IN THE SOUTH,

THERE WERE CULTURAL DIFFERENCES THAT WE HAD TO WORK THROUGH.

GOOD MORNING.

YOU WANT TO GO PUT SOMETHING --

HEY. A ROBE ON.

GOOD IDEA.

THANK YOU.

Russ: SHE'S BEAUTIFUL, SHE'S SEXY, AND...

[Laughing] I LOVE A GOOD, JUICY ASS.

PAO HAD NO IDEA WHAT SHE WAS GETTING INTO

WHEN SHE MOVED TO THE SOUTH.

[ LAUGHS ] POOR GIRL.

WHO LIKES TEQUILA?

EVEN THOUGH WE HAD TO WORK THROUGH

A LOT OF CULTURAL DIFFERENCES WITH MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY,

WE WERE MADLY IN LOVE.

BY THE POWERS VESTED IN ME,

I NOW PRONOUNCE YOU HUSBAND AND WIFE.

AND WE ARE MARRIED, BUT IT HASN'T BEEN EASY.

LIVING IN OKLAHOMA CITY IS A CHALLENGE.

I'M HOMESICK MOST OF THE TIME.

I DON'T HAVE MANY FRIENDS.

THE CULTURE IS REALLY DIFFERENT.

THE HARDEST PART FOR ME IS RUSS LOST HIS JOB

AND EVERYTHING IS DIFFERENT.

AND I'VE BEEN UNSUCCESSFUL IN FINDING A NEW JOB,

AND IT DEFINITELY PUTS A STRAIN ON OUR RELATIONSHIP.

NOW I'M THE ONLY ONE WHO'S WORKING RIGHT NOW,

SO I HAVE TO PAY THE BILLS.

I CAN HELP YOU TO GET THAT BOOTY THAT YOU WANT.

HOW DID YOU FIGURE OUT ALL THE STUFF YOU NEEDED

TO GET SCHOOL SLOTS?

WELL, IT DEFINITELY DIDN'T COME EASY.

I HAD TO ASK A LOT OF QUESTIONS.

HAVE YOU SPOKE WITH YOUR TEAM LEADER YET?

I NEED TO GET ALL THE JOBS THAT I CAN GET AT THIS POINT.

I DIDN'T KNOW THAT IT'S GONNA BE FOR YOU

SO HARD TO FIND A JOB.

LIKE, I THOUGHT THAT YOU BEING AN ENGINEER,

IT WILL BE, LIKE, REALLY QUICK.

IT'S VERY DISCOURAGING. I MEAN...

THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE AMERICA --

THE OPPORTUNITIES AND ALL THOSE THINGS?

WE GOT A LOT TO HANDLE RIGHT NOW.

WE JUST HAVE TO KEEP THE BUDGET TIGHT,

MAKE MONEY WHEN WE CAN MAKE MONEY.

WE'LL MAKE IT WORK. YEAH.

Russ: IT HAS BEEN NONSTOP SINCE PAO HAS ARRIVED HERE,

AND HERE WE ARE AT AN EVEN MORE STRESSFUL TIME

THAN I'VE EVER BEEN IN.

THIS RELATIONSHIP IS GOING THROUGH A LOT.

YEP, THIS IS IT.

MOHAMED HAD TOLD ME HE WORKED AT A FACTORY IN TOWN,

SO GOING THERE IS MY BEST CHANCE TO GET AN EXPLANATION FROM HIM.

I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY.

Woman: HELLO. HELLO.

UM, I'M HERE TO LEAVE A MESSAGE FOR MOHAMED.

Beth: WE THOUGHT THIS IS WHERE HE WORKED SO...

NOPE. THAT WOULD BE IT.

Beth: I ABSOLUTELY, 100% BELIEVE

THAT HE USED DANIELLE TO GET THE GREEN CARD.

AS MUCH AS IT HURTS, SHE NEEDS TO GET ANGRY.

HE LIED.

OF COURSE, HE LIED. HE'S BEEN LYING.

Danielle: I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON.

I AM HOPING THAT IT'S JUST A PHASE

AND THAT HE'LL COME BACK AFTER HE COOLS OFF.

THERE'S THE OTHER PART OF ME THAT JUST WANTS TO SHAKE MYSELF

AND SAY, "WHAT ARE YOU THINKING?"

BECAUSE HE'S DONE SO MUCH TO ME.

[ SNIFFLES ]

MOHAMED.

MY NAME IS MOHAMED. I AM 28 YEARS OLD.

I CAME TO THIS COUNTRY TWO YEARS AGO FROM TUNISIA

TO BE WITH DANIELLE AND START A LIFE TOGETHER.

DANIELLE MADE A LOT OF PROMISES,

AND SHE SAID THAT OUR LIFE IS GONNA BE GREAT HERE,

BUT IT TURNED OUT TO BE ALL LIES.

I CANNOT TAKE IT ANYMORE.

HEY, TOM. MOHAMED, HOW YOU DOING?

I RECENTLY LEFT, AND I HAVE BEEN STAYING WITH A FRIEND IN TOWN

UNTIL I FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO NEXT.

[ CHUCKLES ] IT'S COMPLETELY CRAZY.

WHAT'S GOING ON?

MY NAME IS TOM. I KNOW MOHAMED.

I HAPPENED TO MEET HIM AT WALMART ONE DAY.

WE JUST STARTED TALKING.

WE'VE BECOME REALLY GOOD FRIENDS SINCE THEN.

DANIELLE IS NOT THE RIGHT PERSON FOR ME AT ALL.

WE ARE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT.

THE WAY THAT SHE'S TREATING ME, IT'S LIKE NOT A HUSBAND.

SHE'S TREATING ME MORE LIKE A SON.

SHE WAS MEAN TO ME A LOT.

SHE WAS DISRESPECTFUL FOR ME A LOT.

I TRIED SO MANY TIMES WITH HER, AND SHE SAID OKAY,

SHE'S GONNA TRY TO MAKE THINGS BETTER, BUT SHE NEVER DID.

SO, I WAS ASKING MYSELF, WHY DO I HAVE TO BE IN THAT SITUATION?

AM I GOING TO SPEND ALL MY LIFE BEING UNCOMFORTABLE

WITH SOMEONE LIKE DANIELLE?

I GAVE UP, LIKE, ALMOST EVERYTHING IN MY COUNTRY --

MY JOB, MY FRIENDS, MY FAMILY, AND EVERYTHING.

AND YOU KNOW WHAT SHE DID? SHE LIED TO ME.

REALLY?

ABOUT HER FINANCES.

SHE LIED TO ME ABOUT EVERYTHING.

WHY YOU DIDN'T TELL ME THAT YOU HAVE PROBLEMS B

'CAUSE I WAS SCARED THAT YOU WOULDN'T WANT ME.

IT'S NOT ABOUT SCARED. THAT YOU WOULDN'T WANT ME.

I WAS FIGHTING WITH HER AND, LIKE, ARGUING WITH HER.

THAT NIGHT, SHE WENT TO THE CLOSET,

AND SHE TOOK ALL MY CLOTHES AND START THROWING THEM OUTSIDE.

SO, WHAT I DID, I GRAB MY SUITCASE,

I PUT EVERYTHING INSIDE, I LEFT.

UNBELIEVABLE.

I DIDN'T LET DANIELLE KNOW WHERE I LEAVING AFTER I LEFT HER,

BECAUSE I KNEW THAT SHE'S GONNA SHOW UP AND DO SOME CRAZINESS.

WERE YOU IN LOVE WITH DANIELLE?

IT WAS LIKE MORE FEELING LONELY

THAN LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO BE LIKE MY PARTNER IN MY LIFE.

WAS THERE EVER, LIKE, ANY PHYSICAL ATTRACTION?

I DIDN'T HAVE, LIKE, A GIRLFRIEND BEFORE OR, LIKE,

BEING WITH SOMEONE BEFORE, SO IT WAS MY FIRST EXPERIENCE.

THINGS ARE VERY DIFFERENT IN MY COUNTRY,

AND BECAUSE I AM A MUSLIM,

DATING IS NOT THE SAME WAY YOU DO IT HERE IN AMERICA.

AND I WAS THINKING MAYBE THE WAY THE PERSON IS LOOKING LIKE

IS NOT VERY IMPORTANT AS MUCH AS HOW IS THE PERSON FROM INSIDE,

HOW THAT PERSON IS GONNA TREAT YOU.

BUT ATTRACTION, LIKE, PHYSICAL ATTRACTION, IT MATTERS A LOT.

I'M NOT GONNA SPEND MY LIFE BY MYSELF

JUST BECAUSE I HAD A BAD EXPERIENCE WITH SOMEONE.

THE WAY I WAS THINKING ABOUT IT,

I THOUGHT IF MY MARRIAGE DOESN'T WORK OUT,

I WOULD GET MY DIVORCE, AND I WILL GO BACK TO MY COUNTRY.

BUT I DO LIKE AMERICA BECAUSE I GOT USED TO THE CULTURE,

SO I HOPE I CAN STAY IN THIS COUNTRY.

I SEE MYSELF HERE.

SO, IS THERE EVER A POSSIBILITY THAT YOU WOULD --

OR A SITUATION THAT WOULD LEAD YOU BACK TO DANIELLE?

OOH, OOH!

YEAH

BA, BA-BA, BA, BA-BA, BA, BA

MM-HMM.

I'M DEVAR, AND SHE'S MY LOVELY LADY, MELANIE.

Melanie: DEVAR HAS BEEN IN AMERICA

AND WE'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR NINE MONTHS.

SINCE WE'VE BEEN MARRIED,

WE'VE BEEN LIVING IN OUR SMALL TOWN IN PENNSYLVANIA.

SINCE I'VE BEEN HERE,

I THINK I MET ABOUT TWO BLACK PEOPLE SO FAR.

BEING HERE IN PENNSYLVANIA,

I ACTUALLY FEEL LIKE AN OUTSIDER.

DEVAR REALLY STICKS OUT HERE.

I KIND OF SEE SOME PEOPLE DOING, LIKE,

A BEHIND-THE-SCENE WHISPERING.

SEE THAT LADY CHECKING YOU OUT?

[ LAUGHS ] THE LADY? OH, YEAH.

MAYBE SHE WANT TO COME OVER AND TOUCH.

[ LAUGHS ] MAYBE.

SOME WILL LOOK.

I KNOW THEY WANT TO SAY SOMETHING, BUT THEY DON'T.

I DON'T KNOW IF THEY'RE SCARED OR NOT,

BUT I WISH THEY WILL SAY IT.

THERE'S NOT REALLY MUCH TO DO HERE.

EXCEPT WORKING OUT.

MAKE BABIES.

OH, YEAH.

THAT'S ALL YOU EVER WANT TO DO.

WE COULD HAVE SEX FIVE DAYS IN A ROW,

AND ON THE SIXTH DAY, HE'S LOOKING AT ME.

HE DRIVES ME CRAZY.

[ LAUGHS ]

ALLS HE WANTS TO DO IS HAVE SEX.

[ GROWLING ] FEELS SO GOOD.

SHE CALLS ME THE BLACK STALLION.

NO, THAT WAS HIS NICKNAME IN JAMAICA WHEN I MET HIM --

STALLION. DID I TAME THE STALLION?

MM-HMM.

OKAY. THAT WAS A GOOD ANSWER, BABE.

OH, MY GOSH.

I MET DEVAR WHEN I WAS ON VACATION IN JAMAICA.

HE WAS A VERY, VERY HANDSOME MAN THAT I SEEN

AS HE WAS WALKING OUT OF THE WATER,

AND I ASKED HIM TO ACCOMPANY ME OFF THE RESORT

FOR A RUN, AND HE AGREED.

I DEFINITELY SAY YES, BUT IN MY MIND,

I WASN'T REALLY THINKING ABOUT RUNNING ONE BIT.

I WASN'T REALLY THINKING ABOUT RUNNING EITHER.

I JUST WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM.

[ LAUGHS ]

ON MY THIRD OR FOURTH TRIP BACK TO JAMAICA,

THAT'S WHEN I REALIZED THAT THE RELATIONSHIP

WAS GOING SOMEWHERE.

I'VE BEEN IN PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIPS BEFORE,

BUT WHEN I MEET MY LOVELY LADY, MELANIE, EVERYTHING CHANGED.

CHEERS.

WE WERE AT DINNER, AND DEVAR PROPOSED TO ME, AND I SAID YES.

THOUGHT, "OKAY, WE'RE GONNA GET MARRIED AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS,

AND WE'RE JUST GONNA BE ON THE ROLLER-COASTER RIDE TOGETHER."

AND, THEN, WE ENDED UP APPLYING FOR THE K-1 VISA,

AND HE WAS ABLE TO COME BACK WITH ME TO THE U.S.

THE FIRST 90 DAYS WERE WILD,

ESPECIALLY INTRODUCING HIM TO HUNTER.

READY?

[ CHUCKLES ] I HIT IT.

THAT WAS GOOD.

IT'S GONNA BE FUN HAVING YOU HERE.

Melanie: HIM AND HUNTER HIT IT OFF FROM THE GET-GO,

BUT INTRODUCING HIM TO MY FAMILY WAS CRAZY.

AND WERE YOU MARRIED BEFORE?

NO, NEVER BEEN MARRIED BEFORE.

HOW MANY GIRLFRIENDS?

WHAT?

I'M JUST CURIOUS.

HOW MANY GIRLFRIENDS? YEAH.

UH...I THINK IT WAS ABOUT, UH, ONE.

I FIND THAT A LITTLE HARD TO BELIEVE, BUT WHATEVER.

YEAH, ME, TOO. WE DON'T HAVE TO BELIEVE IT. MEL DOES.

Melanie: MY SISTERS WERE SUSPICIOUS OF DEVAR

FROM THE VERY BEGINNING, AND THEY BROUGHT UP

SOME QUESTIONS THAT I NEVER THOUGHT TO ASK.

IS YOUR PLAN TO HELP YOUR SISTERS PAY THEIR MORTGAGE

WHILE YOU'RE UP HERE?

MOST DEFINITELY.

WHAT PERCENTAGE ARE YOU GONNA SEND BACK TO THEM?

I'M JUST CURIOUS.

MAYBE I WILL DO THAT PRENUP.

IT'S MY LIFE, IT'S, YOU KNOW, MY FUTURE,

AND ULTIMATELY, IT'S MY DECISION.

I KNEW I WANTED TO MARRY HIM.

YOU ARE THE LOVE OF MY LIFE.

YOU ARE THE MISSING HALF THAT MADE ME WHOLE.

I PRONOUNCE YOU HUSBAND AND WIFE.

DEVAR, YOU MAY KISS YOUR BRIDE.

[ CHEERS AND APPLAUSE ]

Melanie: WHILE HUNTER IS AWAY AT SUMMER CAMP,

DEVAR AND I ARE GONNA BE GOING BACK TO JAMAICA

SO HE CAN VISIT HIS FRIENDS AND FAMILY

AND GO BACK TO HIS CULTURE.

TONIGHT, I AM MEETING UP WITH MY SISTER BEV.

IT'S ABOUT TIME YOU GET HERE.

I HAVEN'T SEEN BEV SINCE WE'VE GOTTEN MARRIED,

SO I'M NOT REALLY SURE HOW SHE'S FEELING ABOUT DEVAR.

I AM A LITTLE BIT NERVOUS.

SHE IS VERY MUCH NOT SHY

ABOUT TELLING ME HOW SHE FEELS ABOUT HIM.

SO, WHEN ARE YOU LEAVING FOR JAMAICA?

IN TWO DAYS, WE'RE HEADING OUT.

IT SHOULD BE INTERESTING. FIRST TIME BACK...

YEAH.

...IN A LONG TIME FOR HIM.

ALL RIGHT. WHERE ARE WE SITTING?

NOW, SINCE DEVAR HAS BEEN HERE AND SINCE YOU GUYS GOT MARRIED,

DEVAR DIDN'T GET A JOB RIGHT AWAY.

CORRECT.

SO HOW MUCH DID YOU PUT OUT FOR DEVAR?

ARE YOU BROKE YET?

HONESTLY,

I THINK THAT I'VE PROBABLY SPENT IN TOTAL,

WITH THE WEDDING, THE FLIGHTS, THE HOTELS,

PROBABLY ABOUT $38,000.

ARE YOU KIDDING ME, MEL? I'M NOT.

THAT IS INSANE. I KNOW, BUT --

YOU COULD HAVE BOUGHT A MAN FOR $38,000.

I DON'T WANT TO BUY A MAN! OH, MY GOD.

I DON'T WANT TO BUY A MAN. I LOVE HIM.

AND THAT WAS OVER A TWO YEARS' PERIOD OF TIME.

IT WASN'T JUST ONE YEAR.

AND YOU JUSTIFY THAT?

I MAKE MY OWN MONEY, I LIVE MY OWN LIFE,

AND I ANSWER TO NO ONE.

SO IF I WANT TO SPEND...

$50,000 ON A MAN FROM JAMAICA THAT I'M IN LOVE WITH,

THEN I'M GONNA DO IT.

I THINK YOU STILL HAVE A LOT MORE TO LEARN ABOUT HIM.

DO YOU AGREE?

YEAH. I'M GONNA MEET HIS SISTERS FOR THE FIRST TIME.

I FIND THAT VERY ODD. YOU WERE THERE 19 TIMES.

I WILL ALWAYS BE THE COP. I WILL ALWAYS BE WATCHING DEVAR.

100%, ALL THE TIME,

NO MATTER WHAT THE MAN IS DOING, I WILL ALWAYS BE THERE.

WHEN I WAS AT HIS HOME, HIS TWO SISTERS WERE THERE,

AND IT JUST NEVER CAME UP ABOUT ME MEETING HIS OTHER SISTERS.

DO YOU THINK THAT DEVAR'S HIDING SOMETHING?

YOU THINK THERE COULD BE SOME CHILDREN THERE?

LIKE HIS CHILDREN?

YEAH.

I'M HOPING FOR MELANIE'S BENEFIT HE DOESN'T HAVE ANY SECRETS,

BUT I THINK SHE STILL HAS A LOT TO LEARN,

AND I AM CURIOUS WHEN MEL DOES DO THIS TRIP

WHAT SHE IS GONNA FIND OUT.

Melanie: BEV HAS A WAY OF MAKING ME THINK ABOUT THINGS DIFF

SO I AM DEFINITELY GONNA ASK SOME QUESTIONS

WHEN I GET TO JAMAICA.

HE'S BACK ON THE DATING SITE THAT YOU GUYS MET ON.

[ SNIFFLES ]

Paola: I HAVEN'T SEEN MY FAMILY FOR ALMOST TWO YEARS.

[ SMOOCHES ] [ SPEAKING SPANISH ]

FOR THE FIRST TIME, I ACTUALLY AM QUESTIONING

IF I'M GONNA BE HAPPY HERE.

[ LAUGHING ] HEY.

DA-DA, DA-DA, DA, OW, MM

I NEED TO CALL MY MOM. I'M PREPARING.

YOU NEED TO CALL YOUR MOM?

YEAH. YEAH?

BUT I NEED YOU TO BE QUIET.

WHY?

THEY DON'T KNOW THAT YOU'RE NOT WORKING, SO --

I WOULD RATHER YOU TALK TO THEM ABOUT IT.

NO, BABY. YOU KNOW WHAT? JUST WAIT A SECOND.

IT'S GONNA BE MY BIRTHDAY SOON,

SO I DON'T WANT TO STRESS THEM,

AND I DON'T WANT THEM TO BE WORRIED ABOUT US.

SO, THEY THINK THAT YOU'RE WORKING.

SERIOUSLY? YES.

Russ: TOMORROW'S PAO'S BIRTHDAY,

AND SHE HASN'T SEEN HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS IN COLOMBIA

IN A LONG TIME, AND I'M OUT OF WORK,

SO THINGS ARE REALLY COMPLICATED RIGHT NOW.

HELLO.

[ ALL CONVERSING IN SPANISH ]

AMERICAN DREAM...

[ LAUGHS ]

I DON'T LIKE TO TELL MY MOTHER HOW SAD I AM,

BECAUSE SHE JUST WILL START CRYING,

AND I HATE WHEN SHE GETS UPSET OR SAD.

[ SMOOCHES ] OH, MY GOODNESS! HELLO.

I'M GONNA MEET YOU ONE DAY, I PROMISE.

I JUST WANT TO EAT YOU UP.

I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT I HAVEN'T MET MY NEPHEW,

AND I MISS ALL THOSE THINGS SINCE I MOVE HERE.

I HAVEN'T SEEN MY FAMILY FOR ALMOST TWO YEARS AND A HALF.

[ Voice breaking ] MY FAMILY IS REALLY CLOSE,

AND SEEING THEM ALL THERE TOGETHER...

I JUST REALLY WANT TO BE THERE.

UNO, DOS...

[ LAUGHS ] AY, MAMI.

[ SNIFFLES ] I'M OKAY. I'M FINE.

OKAY, MOM, I'LL TALK TO YOU LATER, OKAY?

I LOVE YOU GUYS. TE QUIERO MUCHO.

[ SMOOCHES ] [ SPEAKING SPANISH ]

CHAU.

OKAY. OOPS.

WASN'T EXPECTING THAT.

THAT WAS NICE. THAT WAS GOOD OF THEM.

YEAH, I REALLY MISS THEM.

YOU DO MISS THEM.

I DO. YOU DO MISS THEM, BABE.

PAO CAME TO THE UNITED STATES BECAUSE OF ME,

AND I WANT HER TO BE HAPPY HERE,

AND IT JUST -- IT TEARS MY HEART APART

THAT I CAN'T PROVIDE THAT FOR HER.

AND IT DOES MAKE ME WORRY -- HOW HAPPY IS SHE HERE?

IF I CAN'T MAKE PAO HAPPY,

I'M NOT SURE WHERE THAT WILL LEAVE US.

COME HERE, MI AMOR.

I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.

YOU ARE STILL GONNA HAVE A GOOD BIRTHDAY, I PROMISE.

[ CHUCKLES ] YEAH, OKAY.

I'M STILL, LIKE --

THERE ARE MOMENTS THAT I'M HAPPY,

BUT MOST OF THE TIME, I'M NOT.

FOR THE FIRST TIME, I ACTUALLY AM QUESTIONING

IF I'M GONNA BE HAPPY HERE.

WHAT ARE YOU DOING?

OH, I'M GOING TO LOOK

AND SEE IF I GOT ANY MESSAGES FROM MOHAMED.

ONCE MOHAMED GOT HIS GREEN CARD, HE SPLIT.

IT'S BEEN ALMOST A WEEK SINCE MOHAMED HAS LEFT.

I'M REALLY UPSET, BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON.

SO, HAVE YOU GUYS -- LIKE, HAVE YOU TALKED SINCE THEN,

SINCE IT'S BEEN LIKE A WHILE NOW?

I HAVEN'T TALKED TO HIM PERSONALLY.

HE'S ONLY SENT ME MESSAGES ON FACEBOOK OR E-MAILS,

AND I FOUND OUT THAT HE HAD A DATING PROFILE.

SO, HE'S BACK ON THE DATING SITE THAT YOU GUYS MET ON?

YEAH, AND HE SAYS HE'S SINGLE ON THERE.

IT'S LITERALLY LIKE WHAT HE -- WHAT HAPPENED

WITH YOU, HE'S DOING OVER AGAIN.

IT'S INSANE THAT HE'S USING THE SAME DATING WEBSITE

THAT HE MET ME ON.

IT'S LIKE A BIG SLAP IN THE FACE.

I NEVER REALLY TRUSTED HIM FROM THE BEGINNING ANYWAYS.

I KIND OF, LIKE, TRIED TO BE NICE TO HIM,

AND, THEN, WITHIN -- WHAT WAS IT? A MONTH? --

A MONTH, HE STARTED, LIKE, SCREAMING AT YOU AND STUFF.

WHEN I WANT TO TALK ABOUT SOMETHING,

YOU DON'T EVER WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT.

[ SNIFFLES ]

AND RIGHT AFTER THAT, I HATED HIM FROM THEN ON.

Faith: IT'S REALLY INFURIATING,

KNOWING THAT HE CAN COME IN AND JUST BE A HOME WRECKER

AND THEN PRETTY MUCH JUST DISAPPEAR

AND NOT FEEL ANY REMORSE OR ANYTHING FOR IT.

DO YOU SEE WHY, LIKE,

EVERYBODY KIND OF WAS SUSPICIOUS OF HIM THE WHOLE TIME NOW?

LIKE, YOU'RE NOT BLINDED BY LOVE.

IT'S KIND OF LIKE YOU SEE WHY

EVERYBODY HATED HIM FROM THE BEGINNING.

I DIDN'T THINK HE WOULD DO THAT TO ME...

YEAH.

...BECAUSE I TRUSTED HIM AND LOVED HIM.

I DON'T THINK HE EVER REALLY HAD THE IDEA OF BEING WITH MY MOM.

I THINK SHE'S STILL IN A LITTLE BIT OF DENIAL,

HOPING MAYBE THINGS WILL JUST, LIKE,

SUDDENLY FLASH BACK TO WHAT THEY WERE, BUT THEY'RE NOT.

BASICALLY, HE REALLY DON'T HAVE TO COME BACK,

BECAUSE HE GOT, BASICALLY, I THINK, WHAT HE WANTED --

THE GREEN CARD.

HE GOT IT, AND THEN HE LEFT.

MM-HMM.

Danielle: I'M FACED WITH A VERY HARD DECISION.

IF HE'S NOT COMING BACK,

I NEED TO EITHER FILE AN ANNULMENT OR A DIVORCE

AND TRY TO GET HIM OUT OF THIS COUNTRY.

[ SNIFFLES ]

IT HURTS.

MM-HMM.

BUT THEN I HAVE TO FACE REALITY

THAT HE WASN'T HERE FOR THE RIGHT REASONS.

Loren: PLANNING THIS WEDDING HAS REALLY BROUGHT UP

ISSUES BETWEEN ALEX AND I,

AND ONE THING THAT'S REALLY BOTHERING ME IS THAT ALEX

REALLY DOESN'T WANT MY BEST FRIEND, SARAH,

AT THE WEDDING IN ISRAEL.

I MEAN, THE LAST TIME THEY SAW EACH OTHER

WAS AT THE BACHELORETTE PARTY,

AND THEY DIDN'T REALLY LEAVE ON GOOD TERMS.

WHOO!

STRIPPERS ARE PAID ENTERTAINMENT.

THERE'S NO REAL MEN HITTING ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND.

NOT HAVING MY BEST FRIEND AT THE WEDDING IN ISRAEL WITH ME

REALLY UPSETS ME, SO I WANT TO TALK TO ALEX

AND SEE IF I CAN CHANGE HIS MIND.

YOU AND I DISCUSSED, LIKE, SARAH COMING TO THE WEDDING.

MM-HMM.

AND I KNOW HOW UPSET YOU GOT, BUT SHE'S MY BEST FRIEND.

Alexei: SARAH IS NOT THE EASIEST TOPIC IN OUR HOUSE.

BEFORE THE BACHELORETTE PARTY,

I STRAIGHT UP TOLD SARAH "DON'T GET ANY STRIPPERS."

I DON'T WANT STRIPPERS. ONE THING I'M ASKING FOR.

DON'T DO THAT."

AND BY HER NOT, YOU KNOW, NOT LISTENING,

I FELT THAT SHE COMPLETELY DISRESPECTED ME.

I DON'T LIKE HER. I DON'T LIKE HER.

THE IMPRESSION I GOT FROM HER IS NO GOOD.

I DON'T LIKE HOW SHE BEHAVED HERSELF.

I DON'T LIKE HOW YOU HANDLE YOURSELF WHEN YOU'RE AROUND HER.

SO, WHAT CAN I DO? I DON'T LIKE HER.

YEAH, WHAT HAPPENED HAPPENED. IT IS WHAT IT IS.

BUT I JUST THINK YOU NEED TO GET OVER IT.

GET OVER IT. IT HAPPENED.

DON'T TELL ME TO GET OVER ANYTHING.

"GET OVER IT, GET OVER IT." I GOT OVER IT.

BUT IT'S BECAUSE OF THAT -- NO, YOU DIDN'T.

BECAUSE IT'S BECAUSE OF THAT IMPRESSION.

SHUT UP, YOU, ALREADY.

LOREN ALWAYS TELLS ME, "GET OVER IT, GET OVER IT,"

AND IT ANNOYS ME, 'CAUSE I DON'T HAVE TO.

I DON'T KNOW. LIKE, WHY DO I HAVE TO DO THAT?

NO, I DON'T NEED TO TRY MAKE GOOD WITH HER.

YEAH, YOU DO, BECAUSE I'M YOUR WIFE.

NO, I DON'T.

I'M YOUR WIFE, AND SHE'S MY BEST FRIEND.

NO, I DON'T.

AND A RELATIONSHIP DOESN'T WORK

UNLESS THE COUPLE GETS ALONG WITH EACH OTHER'S FRIENDS.

AND SHE'S GONNA BE IN MY LIFE, WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT.

AND I HOPE THAT YOU EVENTUALLY LIKE IT, BECAUSE I'M SICK OF IT.

IT'S BEEN ALMOST A YEAR.

IT'S RIDICULOUS.

AND I FEEL LIKE YOU'RE PUTTING ME IN A SITUATION

WHERE I HAVE TO CHOOSE BETWEEN MY BEST FRIEND OR MY HUSBAND.

WHAT DO YOU NEED TO CHOOSE?

BECAUSE LOOK, YOU DON'T EVEN LIKE HER.

YOU DON'T LIKE TALKING ABOUT IT.

I DON'T [BLEEP]

DO I HAVE TO LIKE SOMEBODY? I DON'T LIKE A PERSON.

THAT'S MY BEST FRIEND. IT'S NOT JUST SOMEBODY.

SHE KEEPS ASKING ME AND ASKING ME ABOUT THE SAME THING.

THAT GETS ME REALLY MAD,

'CAUSE SHE CAN'T FORCE ME TO LIKE SOMEONE IF I DON'T.

I DON'T LIKE HER. I DON'T TRUST HER.

YOU WANT ME TO SAY, "OH, YEAH, I'M SO HAPPY"?

NO, I'M NOT. I'M NOT. I'M TELLING YOU HOW IT IS.

OKAY, I'M DONE. I'M DONE. I CAN'T DO IT.

FIGHTING AND STRESS, IT AFFECTS ME DIFFERENTLY,

BECAUSE I SUFFER FROM SOMETHING THAT A LOT OF PEOPLE

DON'T KNOW ABOUT, AND I'M JUST NOT DOING WELL RIGHT NOW.

I GOT ONE LAST PRESENT FOR YOU. THIS IS LIKE FROM MY CHILDHOOD.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH THIS.

MAKE ME LOOK LIKE A [BLEEP] [BLEEP]

Mohamed: I HAVEN'T SPOKE TO DANIELLE SINCE I LEFT.

IT'S A LITTLE BIT SAD FOR ME.

WHERE ARE YOU TAKING ME?

YOU KNOW WHERE WE'RE GOING?

Russ: TODAY'S PAO'S BIRTHDAY.

SHE'S A LITTLE DOWN BECAUSE SHE'S NOT IN COLOMBIA

SPENDING IT WITH HER FAMILY.

I CAN'T TAKE PAO TO COLOMBIA, BUT I CAN BRING COLOMBIA TO PAO.

SHE DESERVES IT.

SO EXCITED! YAY!

IT'S A LATIN CUISINE.

I'M GONNA GIVE HER A TASTE OF COLOMBIA TONIGHT.

Paola: IN COLOMBIA, NORMALLY,

I CELEBRATE MY BIRTHDAY WITH MY WHOLE FAMILY.

I HAVE A GREAT TIME. OH, MY GOSH.

I DO A LOT OF THINGS WITH THEM, AND I'M ALWAYS HAPPY.

All: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

THIS IS ALL SO GREAT! I'M SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU GUYS.

RUSS ACTUALLY INVITED MY FRIENDS MORGAN AND KRISTINE.

OH, MY GOSH! THAT LOOKS SO GOOD!

TODAY HAVE BEEN GREAT. LIKE, DID A GREAT JOB.

BUT ACTUALLY, I GOT A LITTLE SAD.

I GOT A TEXT MESSAGE, LIKE A VOICE MESSAGE, FROM MY BROTHER.

AND IT'S BEEN SO LONG SINCE I HAVE SEEN MY FAMILY.

NOT HAVING YOUR FAMILY AT SOMETHING, LIKE,

FEELING LIKE YOU DON'T HAVE ANYONE AROUND YOU, LIKE,

NO ONE TO TALK TO...

I KNOW THAT SHE MISSES HER MOM A LOT, BUT,

YOU KNOW, WE'RE HERE FOR HER, AND WE LOVE HER.

SO, WE'RE MAKING THIS LIKE AN ALCOHOLIC-TYPE SITUATION.

YOU'LL FEEL BETTER.

HERE IS OUR WAITER WITH YOUR BIRTHDAY GIFT.

CHEERS, GUYS.

CHEERS. HAPPY BIRTHDAY.

THANK YOU.

DRINK MORE.

YEAH.

WHO LIKES TEQUILA?

[ LAUGHTER ] TAS, TAS, TAS!

WE'RE NOT BLOOD-RELATED, BUT, LIKE, WE'RE YOUR FAMILY HERE.

WE LOVE YOU.

I ACTUALLY, LIKE -- I --

I'M TR-- BABY, YOU'RE DOING AWESOME TODAY. I JUST --

I'M REALLY HOMESICK. LIKE --

Russ: NO, IT'S OKAY. I KNOW YOU ARE.

I'M MISSING MY --

MISSING MY MOTHER SO MUCH.

YES.

ON ANOTHER NOTE...

ALL RIGHT. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH!

DEEP BREATH.

YAY.

YAY!

AWW.

LOVE YOU, BABY. I LOVE YOU, TOO.

ALL RIGHT, BABY, I GOT ONE LAST PRESENT FOR YOU.

LET'S SEE. WHAT'S THIS?

YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT IT IS, DO YOU?

THIS IS, LIKE, FROM MY CHILDHOOD.

IT'S A NERF GUN, AND YOU CAN SHOOT AT ME ALL THE TIME.

IS THAT FOR ME OR FOR YOU?

IT'S FOR YOU!

I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH THIS.

SHOOT AT ME. SHOOT IT AT ME.

OH, BELIEVE ME, I WILL. LIKE, ARE YOU KIDDING ME,

GIVING ME THIS GIFT? PFFT!

REALLY? THAT'S WHAT YOU'RE SAYING?

I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY ABOUT THIS.

IT'S THE FUN. IT'S A FUN GIFT.

I JUST --

IT'S FROM MY CHILDHOOD.

BABY, DON'T MAKE THIS LIKE THAT.

THIS IS AWKWARD. I'M NOT.

LIKE, SERIOUSLY, DON'T GET IT TOO HARD.

IT'S HOW YOU RESPONDED TO IT.

[BLEEP] [BLEEP] MAKE ME LOOK LIKE

RUSS GAVE ME A TOY GUN OR SOMETHING.

I DIDN'T UNDERSTAND WHAT HE WAS TRYING TO SAY

OR THE JOKE OR ANYTHING, AND I'M NOT AN AMERICAN GIRL.

I'M NOT FROM HERE. I NEVER PLAY WITH THOSE THINGS.

I DON'T UNDERSTAND HIS JOKES, AND HE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND MINE.

NO, I AM UPSET.

I WOULD NOT HAVE EVEN BROUGHT IT

IF YOU'RE GONNA RESPOND LIKE THAT.

I -- I DON'T KNOW. I WASN'T -- I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY.

IT'S A NERF GUN.

I WAS TRYING TO PUT A LITTLE FUN AT THE END OF THE NIGHT.

THERE'S SOME BIG CULTURAL DIFFERENCES.

I'M HAVING A HARD TIME, LIKE, CONNECTING WITH HER.

Mohamed: I HAVEN'T SPOKE TO DANIELLE SINCE I LEFT.

IT'S A LITTLE BIT SAD FOR ME.

[ CELLPHONE CHIMING ]

SO, WHAT'S UP?

WOMAN: Nothing.

I WAS TALKING TO MY FRIEND TODAY.

YOU KNOW, THINGS WAS BEING, LIKE, REALLY CRAZY WITH ME.

OH, THAT'S WHY I'M TALKING TO YOU RIGHT NOW.

OKAY, WHEN?

ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT A COUPLE MONTHS OR A COUPLE WEEKS?

Like, as soon as possible.

AS SOON AS POSSIBLE?

If you're ready, I'm ready.

I HAVE TO GET AWAY FROM DANIELLE.

THAT'S THE FIRST IMPORTANT THING I HAVE TO DO.

I FEEL LIKE I'M FORCED.

SO, MY PLAN IS TO LEAVE SANDUSKY, OHIO,

BECAUSE I STRUGGLED ENOUGH IN THAT PLACE.

SO, DOES THAT MEAN THAT WE'RE GONNA LIVE TOGETHER?

WE'LL BE LIVING TOGETHER IN THE SAME PLACE?

[ LAUGHS ] Yeah!

Be roommates! OH, ROOMMATES? OKAY.

[ LAUGHS ] ALL RIGHT, THEN.

[ CAMERA SHUTTER CLICKING ]

GOOD. GIVE ME THAT

"I'M UP TO SOMETHING" LOOK AGAIN LIKE YOU DID.

I'M JUST THINKING ABOUT MY HUSBAND. OH, MY GOSH!

I'LL -- I'LL TRY TO PROTECT YOU?

[ LAUGHS ]

Mohamed: SHE'S A BEAUTIFUL AMERICAN GIRL.

SHE'S BLOND, SHE'S TALL, AND EVERYTHING.

DREAMS DO COME TRUE.

Loren: THERE'S SOMETHING THAT A LOT

[ CLEARS THROAT ]

BUT IT'S TIME THAT PEOPLE KNEW.

[ SIGHS ]

I'M NOT SENDING HER MONEY IF SHE'S NOT WORKING,

IF SHE'S FULLY CAPABLE OF WORKING.

I GOT SOME CASH FOR YOU. SPEND IT WISELY.

THANK YOU.

WHEN I HEARD THAT BRETT WAS MAKING THAT DECISION

TO GO OVERSEAS TO FIND A BRIDE, YOU WORRY.

SHE DOESN'T KNOW ANY OF US.

I'VE BEEN TRYING MY BEST. I'M WORKING SO HARD FOR IT.

I GAVE UP A LOT TO COME HERE. I THINK I DESERVE TO BE HAPPY.

SHE'S SEEING WHAT LIFE IS LIKE HERE,

AND IT BOTHERS ME THAT SHE MAY NEVER FEEL AT HOME.

I GUESS THAT'S IT.

YEAH.

Loren: ALEX AND I ARE RENEWING OUR VOWS IN ISRAEL.

[ CAMERA SHUTTER CLICKS ]

I DID THE BEST THAT I COULD, AND I --

WELL, I DID THE [BLEEP] BEST THAT I COULD, TOO.

YOU JUST CUT ME OFF. THIS IS NOT HAPPENING.

WHERE ARE YOU GOING? AWAY FROM YOU.

I'M SERIOUSLY GONNA KILL HIM.

LOREN --

I'M GONNA BE A HOUSEWIFE

SO I CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY AND YOUR FAMILY HAPPY.

WELL, IT'S GONNA BE MY CAREER OR BEING WITH RUSS.

Danielle: GOING TO MIAMI IS MY LAST CHANCE TO SAVE MY MARRIAGE.

YOU ARE A USER, MOHAMED! YOU USED ME!

I WILL GET YOUR [BLEEP] ASS DEPORTED!

[ SIREN WAILING ]

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