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[man] Don't look so nervous.
It's just cold water.
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[Deanne] Previouslyon Virgins...
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This is the first timethat I'm feeling
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some type of excitementabout a guy.
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I like that feeling.
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-Are you guys ready
to take the plunge?
-[Deanne] I guess so.
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But is he gonna run away
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when he finds out
that I don't have
sexual experience?
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[gasps]
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[Alex] There we go.
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I have like two voicesin my head.
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One saying, "Don't do it!"
The other one saying,
"Do it!"
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-[snickers]
-I... so appreciate that
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you want to kiss me.
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[Alex] Getting denied a kiss,
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it's just confusing.
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I'm not sure when we're goingto be able to see each other.
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[exhales]
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I don't know
if I want to get married
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because I was before.
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I need my person
to be dominant,
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and, like, manhandle me.
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-Spanking' my fetish.
-What?
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We both are into BDSM.
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Whoo-hoo!
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But with Jeremy,it didn't feel
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as sexy as it looks in porn.
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If I hear the word
"masturbation," I cringe.
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I feel like it's so
uncomfortable for you,
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the idea of testing yourself.
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[Sonali] I'm feelingannoyed by Wayne,the sex surrogate,
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because touching myself
is just not something
I wanna do.
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I can't help it.
This is who I am.
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-You--
-We're just going back
and forth.
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Like, there's no solution,
right? I've had enough!
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So the cold plunge event,
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I met Alex.
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And, you know, I was finally
in the space where I was like,
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"Okay, this could
go somewhere,"
and I was excited about it.
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But later on,I did look at his Instagram.
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He played volleyball.
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-Okay.
-Super tall.
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-[Jaime] He's cute.
-[Deanne speaking]
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-Wait...
-Graduated in '24.
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Oh, gosh. Of course.
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I finally find one
that I might wanna go
on a second date with,
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-and I think he's...
-Too young?
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[sighs softly]
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As a 35-year-old woman,
I do not want
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to tell a 24-year-old guy
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that I'm inexperienced
in dating and sex.
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That, to me, is embarrassing.
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So I am gonna go seemy matchmaker, Tammi, today.
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-Hi. How are you?
-Good. Good.
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-You look beautiful.
-Thank you. You too.
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I love you in blue.
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I don't want to slide back
into my comfort zone
of not dating at all.
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And I think Tammi will help me
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with my next stepsof how to move forward.
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What have you been up to?
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Oh, you know,
going on some dates.
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There was one guy
that was really cute.
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And we clicked,
and then he asked me out
on another date.
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-Oh, good.
-And then...
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-Oh, no. And then?
-I got home,
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and I looked at his Instagram.
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The most recent photos
were college graduation.
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[gasps] Oh, no. How old is he?
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So I looked up
a little bit more
and found out he's 24,
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Oh!
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And I think Deanne
is realizing,
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uh, that it's hard out there.
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[chuckling] It's hard
to meet somebody.
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I think it takes practice
to get out there
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and put yourself out there,
and you're doing
all those things.
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As a matchmaker, I think
it is a good approach
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to meet different people
different ways.
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So I love that
you are open-minded
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and doing these different ways
of dating people,
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and it makes me think
of something I heard about
called UpDating.
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And it's a live dating show
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on stage with some comedians,
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-which I know is--
-On stage?
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I know. I know.
I know it's a little weird,
but I think it could be fun.
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-And--
-Is there, like, an audience?
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Yeah, there's
an audience watching.
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This is sounding
completely nightmarish to me.
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But you're blindfolded.
[laughs]
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-That don't sound like fun?
-That sounds like
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-a freaking dream.
-[laughing]
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Some of Deanne's issues
are just her
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not being open to the person
and more going off looks.
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So I think, being blindfolded,she doesn't see the person.
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She's really just kind of
seeing the internal person
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and see if there's...
chemistry or connection
that way.
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The essence of me
trying new things lately,
I'm definitely open to it.
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-I love it.
-I... you know,
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I'm trying to put myself
out there in every which way.
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So Tammi is an expert.She's good at what she does.
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And I think she's good
at reading people
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and finding out
their differences.
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And I'm clearly
a lot different
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than a lot of her clientele.
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So I think she's thinkingoutside the box a little bitfor me.
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You live once.
It'll be a good story to tell.
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-So--
-Or you'll find the one.
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-[laughs]
-Probably not, but maybe.
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-You never know.
-Think positive. Positive.
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[chuckles]
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What does he want me to say?
Just like--
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I understand that Wayne's
intentions are good.
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He wants to help me,
but it's challenging.
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I've been this wayfor so long.
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It is hard to imagine myselfin any other way.
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But at the same time,
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if I were to quit,I would wonder...
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what could have happened.
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And I don't wanna live
in regret.
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[clears throat]
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Hi.
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So I understand, and I wanna
acknowledge the frustration.
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I'm not trying
to badger you or...
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Just trying to, honestly,
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just trying
to get information.
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I don't think you understand,
for an Indian woman,
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-what a big deal any sort
of physical intimacy is.
-Mmm-hmm.
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[Wayne] When I lookat Sonali upbringing,
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I can understand how sheended up in this space
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to where she is resistant
to the idea
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of what touch could be like
for her.
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Ultimately, I'm tryingto help her changethe narrative
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that she has createdaround sex, sexuality,
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and un-affirm
some of her beliefs.
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I get it. I know
I got a little triggered
and riled up,
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but I do feel safe around you,
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because otherwise
I wouldn't have let you
into my home, you know,
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I wouldn't have...
wouldn't be sitting next
to you on my couch,
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you know,
conversing like this.
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Yeah.
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-You are a professional.
-Yes.
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I do trust you
in that capacity.
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But if... if I may
ask you, um...
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if you would...
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if you would just...
if you would mind
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just massaging my back...
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-in a professional capacity.
-Yes.
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What do you say to that?
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So, um...
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Sonali is so in her headand so guarded.
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I'm trying to process
what's going on right now.
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I need to know
if this is organic.
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Is this something
you really want to experience?
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Because it kind of
feels abrupt.
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I want to make sure,
like, I want to be able
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-to give you an authentic,
organic touch.
-Of course.
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'Cause it doesn't feel good
to me to touch you
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and you don't actually
want me to touch you.
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No, but I did ask you.
No, you are a professional,
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and I know you're trying
to help me.
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-It's a sincere request.
-Okay. Yes.
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[Sonali] What Wayne and Ihave been discussing,
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it does make me uncomfortable.
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I'm a little
less uncomfortable,
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but I'm still uncomfortable.
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But I came hereto make progress,
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and I do trust Wayne enough,
at this point, to try this.
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[Wayne] So it seems like
you carry a lot of tension
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-up in this area right here.
-Yeah. Mmm-hmm.
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Well, you let me know
if it's... if it's not enough
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-or if it's too much, right?
-Okay.
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[inhales]
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Mmm.
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Become really present
in this space right here
where we are.
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[Sonali] Mmm.
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[Wayne] Mmm.
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You don't have to feel,
like, unsafe.
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Like, you are okay here.
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[exhales]
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♪ I hope you like it ♪
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♪ I hope you like it ♪
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♪ I hope you like it... ♪
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-Oh.
-[man] Oh, oh, oh.
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Hey, my gosh, Ryan,
if that hits that eight-ball
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-and that goes in...
-Go, go, go.
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-[Courtney] Oh! Hey, buddy.
-Hey. How's it going?
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I was pretty close. I said
about seven minutes, so...
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What am I... am I late?
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-A little bit.
-Yeah, like always, Alex.
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No. Your late and my late
is totally different.
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After Andrea friends owned me,
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I'm trying to figure out
how to get through this.
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You did put yourself
out there.
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You made a connection
with somebody,
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and you're gonna make
another connection...
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[Samantha] And you could
do it again.
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...until you find...
until you find that somebody.
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[Samantha] Now you've done
that, you've already gotten
out of your comfort zone.
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-Keep pushing yourself, like--
-[Carin] You can't
get yourself down.
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[Alex] I feel like losingyour virginity is supposedto be a connection.
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I want to experience that.
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I mean, it's not
an easy thing to accomplish.
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Because I had more matches.
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There is one girl that
is standing out to me
above the rest.
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And her name is Lauren.
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[Lauren speaking]
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[laughing] It's like...
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[Alex speaking]
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[laughs]
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[Alex] She hasa very cute smile,nice blue eyes,
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and just her
overall presence is...
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is nice.
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Like, this is the first time
that you're bringing any kind
of woman around.
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-[Samantha] Yeah.
-How are you feeling?
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I'm nervous.
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-[Courtney] Are you? Okay.
-Yeah.
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Tell us a little bit
about her.
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[Alex] She's the same age
as me.
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-She has a daughter.
-[both] Okay.
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[Courtney speaking]
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She was kind of like
a woman version of me.
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I mean, we laugh a lot.
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-[Courtney] A woman version
of you. Oh.
-[all chuckling]
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I'm really happy
Alex is putting himself
back out there,
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uh, and dating again.
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[Samantha] But I just thinkthat he should have givenhimself a little bit of time
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-to kind of reevaluate...
-[Courtney] Yeah,reevaluate, like...
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-...what went wrong.
-...what went wrong
with Andrea,
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and I don't want him to makethose same mistakeswith Lauren now.
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Have you had that conversation
with her about you being
a virgin or no?
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-[Alex] No.
-Okay.
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The timing wasn't right
for that.
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-Not today, obviously, like--
-[Alex] No.
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-No, not today. Not today.
-[Courtney] Okay, please don't
have that conversation
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-with all of us present...
-[Alex] No.
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-...'cause I feel like
that's more of a--
-[Alex] No.
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Dating is hard,
but being a virgin
is ten times harder,
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because even if I connect
with somebody,
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I have to find the right time
to tell them.
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-[Courtney] I'm just really--
-Oh, she just texted me.
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-[Courtney] Oh, good.
-She's here.
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I don't want to be
too vulnerable too quick.
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I kind of realizedthat with Andrea...
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and I think maybe
that's kind of why
I got friend-zoned.
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I don't... I don't wanna
go too fast with it.
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All right, I'm gonna
go outside and meet her
real quick.
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How are you feeling, Alex?
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[Alex] Nervous.
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For him to bring, like,
her here to meet us,
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I think it's a really big deal
'cause he's never done
that before, Ryan. [chuckles]
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-Yeah, I know.
He has to be nervous.
-Like, this is all real.
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The first thing
that comes to my mind
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is your marriage.
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See, I'm gonna cry now.
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My divorce left me embarrassed
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with no confidence.
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That person who is no longer
in your life
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is holding you hostage.
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And you've coupled that
with pornography.
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I am headed
to Dr. Ty's office.
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Since my last session,
I actually put myself
out there.
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I went to a, uh, BDSM club,
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Oh! Ow!
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I got spanked.
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Good girl.
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Whoo-hoo!
266
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And I had a couple of dates.
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But a part of me
is very disappointed
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because I am desperately
trying to find my person,
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and it's seeming to be
harder than I thought.
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And I just feel ashamed
about that.
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Like, you know,
it makes me feel like
what's wrong with me.
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It is the story of my life.
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It really, really is.
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And I don't understand.
I don't understand.
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Part of me is thinking that
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sex and love connection
will not happen for me.
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Tell me how things have been
since we last spoke.
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I've been on two dates.
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[Dr. Tyrenia] Very nice.
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-Um, first one started off
very well.
-Okay.
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Uh, later on,
he showed his ass.
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And then I had to dismiss him
because he was being
very disrespectful.
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How did you communicate
all of that to him?
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I just dismissed myself.
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Um, had to block.
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So you didn't communicate
with him at all?
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No.
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Then I went on a date
with another guy,
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and he cooked dinner,
which was nice.
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Jeremy is into spanking.
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So we tried it out
and it was very fun.
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Was it, um,
erotically charging
for you at all?
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Most of it was
curiosity and fun,
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but it wasn't all there.
295
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So what made it
not that for you?
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I guess, 'cause I'm just not,
like, sexually attracted
to him.
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I think that's what
threw it off like--
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What is he missing?
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I feel like, you know,
I'm bigger than him.
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And how is he gonna, like...
301
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manhandle me in the bedroom?
302
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Like, I don't think that he's,
like, dominant enough for me.
303
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But Rhasha, you're doing
a lot of judging.
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You don't know
what that man got.
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You don't know.
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Let me... Let me say this
in this moment...
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You have created
this unrealistic person
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-that you feel would be
the perfect person for you.
-Yeah.
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And you've coupled that
with pornography.
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And now you're looking
for that to manifest
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to the point that you found
a way to disqualify
poor Jeremy.
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You say he's not dominant.
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Rhasha is lookingfor this person
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that checks all the boxes.
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In that,
there is an unrealistic view
and expectation.
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Both of those datesthat she went on,
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it wasn't so muchwhat they did or didn't do.
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When she's not able
to check off those boxes,
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automatically,
there is the thought
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that they would not be able
to give her what she needs.
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The first thing that comes
to my mind is your marriage.
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You're holding
what he did to you
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against people you have met
and haven't even met yet.
324
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But it's not okay
because someone used you
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to hold everybody responsible
for what that person did
to you.
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See, I'm gonna cry now.
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And that person who
is no longer in your life
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is holding you hostage.
329
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[Rhasha] It was emotional.
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My divorce
left me embarrassed.
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It left me with no confidence.
332
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It left me feeling ugly,
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unworthy, unwanted.
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My ex-husbandstill has a hold on me...
335
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as far as the trauma.
336
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And I have been
dismissing people too soon.
337
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Just trying to protect myself,I guess.
338
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[Dr. Tyrenia] I want you
to practice
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increasing your intimacy
340
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not just with partners,
341
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but also just the people
that are around us.
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That will better help you
to have intimate connection,
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communication with people
that you're going to meet
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-and that you're gonna
bring into your life.
-Yeah.
345
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I need to actually own
my demons
346
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and take responsibility
on some things
347
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I don't think correctly about.
348
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I actually have been talkingto a new guy.
349
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I was definitely thinking
about dismissing him
350
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because he canceled twice
on me.
351
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But after talking to Dr. Ty,
352
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I am thinking about giving himanother chance
353
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and just try to do better.
354
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I want you to really think
about what it is
you're looking for...
355
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Yeah.
356
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...because I think
if you don't...
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you're not gonna find it.
358
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[upbeat music playing]
359
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LA, welcome to UpDating.
360
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[crowd cheering]
361
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Who wants to see
a make out tonight?
362
00:16:54,700 --> 00:16:56,600
-[crowd cheering]
-Okay.
363
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And, uh, who wants
to see love?
364
00:16:59,367 --> 00:17:00,767
[crowd cheering]
365
00:17:00,767 --> 00:17:02,500
You're at the wrong show
if you want that.
366
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[all chuckling]
367
00:17:06,367 --> 00:17:09,367
[Deanne] The matchmakersigned me upfor this UpDating show.
368
00:17:09,367 --> 00:17:11,200
It's way outsideof my comfort zone.
369
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It's not something I wouldever sign myself up for.
370
00:17:13,867 --> 00:17:15,867
Now that I'm actually here
in the green room,
371
00:17:15,867 --> 00:17:17,367
-I'm hearing the audience.- [audience cheering
at a distance]
372
00:17:17,367 --> 00:17:21,367
It's really loud,
and I am terrified.
373
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Hello. Hello.
374
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-[both] What's going on?
-Hi. Deanne. Nice to meet you.
375
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-Harrison. Nice to meet you.
-Brandon. What's going on?
376
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-Jaime.
-Brandon.
377
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We're the hosts
and creators of UpDating.
378
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It's a comedy show
that puts on blind dates
in front of audiences,
379
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and we've been bringing love
all over the world
380
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the past few years.
381
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[Harrison] We specializein getting a lot
382
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of second dates happenfrom UpDating,
383
00:17:41,767 --> 00:17:42,867
which is really cool.
384
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So no matter
what happens on stage,
385
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there's a good chance
you'll get a date
after the show.
386
00:17:47,066 --> 00:17:48,600
[Brandon] I will actually bet
all my money that
387
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you're gonna end up
with a guy tonight.
388
00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:51,300
-[Deanne] Aw.
-You guys be nice
to her, though.
389
00:17:51,300 --> 00:17:53,200
-[Harrison] No. We're gonna
be very, very nice.
-[Deanne] Yeah.
390
00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:57,667
I know that the comedians
391
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are going to push the limit
392
00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:02,367
on the questions
that they ask me.
393
00:18:02,367 --> 00:18:04,567
-Here's your blindfold.
So... put it on.
-Okay.
394
00:18:04,567 --> 00:18:07,000
Just put it on,
and then you'll take my hand.
395
00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:08,367
Ooh. Okay.
396
00:18:08,367 --> 00:18:09,767
They're there to get some type
397
00:18:09,767 --> 00:18:11,767
of spicy content
for themselves.
398
00:18:11,767 --> 00:18:15,000
This is something
you'll never forget
the rest of your life.
399
00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:16,600
-This is scary.
-Welcome. Welcome.
400
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[Harrison] Ladies
and gentlemen of Los Angeles,
401
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give it up for Deanne!
402
00:18:22,667 --> 00:18:24,767
-[crowd cheering]
-Deanne!
403
00:18:24,767 --> 00:18:26,467
[Deanne] Oh, God...
404
00:18:26,467 --> 00:18:28,567
-This is so scary.
-Oh, really?
405
00:18:28,567 --> 00:18:30,767
Oh, well,
it's gonna get scarier. Um...
406
00:18:31,467 --> 00:18:34,100
She really looks nervous.
407
00:18:34,100 --> 00:18:36,967
I hate to seeher uncomfortable,but at the same time,
408
00:18:36,967 --> 00:18:38,767
maybe this is whatDeanne needs,
409
00:18:38,767 --> 00:18:41,166
to just get out
of that comfort zone
410
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and start having a sex life
like the rest of the world.
411
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[Brandon] What brings
you here? Why are you single?
412
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Okay, well, I don't know.
I've just been single
my whole life,
413
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-I've never had a boyfriend...
-Oh, [bleep].
414
00:18:54,266 --> 00:18:57,367
-Whoa! That just got
very depressing.
-[audience titters]
415
00:18:57,367 --> 00:18:59,600
-Oh, [bleep]
-I appreciate that.
416
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[all chuckling]
417
00:19:00,767 --> 00:19:03,367
I am not excited
in the slightest.
418
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Being blindfolded
in front of an audience
419
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gives me so much anxiety.
420
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So I'm really hopefulthat they bring in
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a really nice,
hot, attractive guy
422
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that would be a good fitfor me.
423
00:19:15,266 --> 00:19:16,867
That'll make it worth it.
424
00:19:16,867 --> 00:19:19,066
Why do you think that is?
Why do you think
it hasn't happened?
425
00:19:19,066 --> 00:19:21,867
And then, like,
what are you looking for?
426
00:19:21,867 --> 00:19:24,667
Someone that I actually
am attracted to and feel
chemistry with.
427
00:19:24,667 --> 00:19:26,967
And I don't really
want to settle.
428
00:19:27,867 --> 00:19:29,000
-[crowd cheering]
-[Harrison] They like that.
429
00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:30,800
[Deanne] Thanks, guys.
430
00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:32,600
Yeah, Brandon. I was gonna
ask Deanne something.
431
00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,367
When was the last time
you had a... a hookup?
432
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-[inhales sharply]
-Yeah?
433
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-Probably like 2017.
-[audience gasping]
434
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[Deanne] I know, guys. I know.
435
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[Brandon] What happened
the last time you were
with someone?
436
00:19:48,667 --> 00:19:53,467
-Like, was...
-Uh... really just kissing
that last time.
437
00:19:53,467 --> 00:19:54,767
Oh, so it wasn't even--
438
00:19:54,767 --> 00:19:58,000
No, it wasn't sex.
It was just kissing.
439
00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,767
So I don't really
tell people about my lack
of sexual experience.
440
00:20:01,767 --> 00:20:03,667
Now. I'm up on this stage
441
00:20:03,667 --> 00:20:06,000
in front of hundredsof people,
442
00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:09,000
and I'm instantly feeling
like the situation's
my worst nightmare.
443
00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:13,166
-Oh, so have you ever...
-Uh...
444
00:20:13,166 --> 00:20:14,567
I need to leave
this stage right now?
445
00:20:14,567 --> 00:20:16,000
[audience titters]
446
00:20:17,100 --> 00:20:18,233
No.
447
00:20:20,066 --> 00:20:22,066
-[Brandon] How old are you?
-[Deanne] Thirty five.
448
00:20:22,066 --> 00:20:23,266
[all gasping]
449
00:20:25,166 --> 00:20:27,467
-Would you like a drink?
-Wine. Please.
450
00:20:27,467 --> 00:20:30,166
I really like her,
and I am getting nervous
451
00:20:30,166 --> 00:20:31,867
that I might mess it up.
452
00:20:31,867 --> 00:20:34,100
Red? White?
Like, you gotta ask.
453
00:20:34,100 --> 00:20:36,266
-Wait... what type of wine?
-[both chuckling]
454
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:40,367
-Alex has zero game.
Um, let's be real.
-Yeah.
455
00:20:46,367 --> 00:20:48,600
-[Samantha] I'm just really--
-Oh, she just texted me.
456
00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:49,900
Oh, good.
457
00:20:52,367 --> 00:20:54,000
-[Alex] Hey.
-Hi.
458
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-How's it going?
-How are you?
459
00:20:56,467 --> 00:20:58,667
-Good. How are you?
Good to see you.
-Oh, good to see you, too.
460
00:20:58,667 --> 00:21:00,600
-All right. Gonna walk inside,
all right?
-Yeah.
461
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:01,900
-It's freezing.
-Yeah.
462
00:21:04,900 --> 00:21:07,467
-Hello.
-This is Lauren.
463
00:21:07,467 --> 00:21:09,266
-Hi, Lauren.
-This is Ryan.
464
00:21:09,266 --> 00:21:11,266
-Lauren. Nice to meet you.
-I'm Ryan. Nice to meet you.
465
00:21:11,266 --> 00:21:13,367
-My sister Courtney.
-Courtney. It's nice
to meet you.
466
00:21:13,367 --> 00:21:14,667
Nice to meet you.
467
00:21:14,667 --> 00:21:15,900
-My other sister Samantha.
-Samantha.
468
00:21:15,900 --> 00:21:18,100
-Nice to meet you.
-Lauren. Nice to meet you.
469
00:21:18,100 --> 00:21:20,667
-Do you want me
to take your bag?
-Yeah. Thank you.
470
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[Courtney] I thinkLauren's beautiful.
471
00:21:22,166 --> 00:21:24,100
Um. to be honest, I don't know
that she's somebody
472
00:21:24,100 --> 00:21:25,467
that I would have seen
Alex go for.
473
00:21:25,467 --> 00:21:27,000
But I'm really gladto see Alex
474
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step out of his comfort zone
a little bit.
475
00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:32,200
-Do you... uh,
would you like a drink?
-Yes.
476
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:33,667
-This one's yours.
-Oh.
477
00:21:33,667 --> 00:21:35,567
-What would you like? Wine.
-Wine. Please.
478
00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:38,300
-All right.
I'll get you a wine.
-Thank you.
479
00:21:39,300 --> 00:21:40,467
Wait, Ryan's kicking
your butt.
480
00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:43,634
[laughing]
481
00:21:45,967 --> 00:21:48,066
-Like red, white.
Like, you gotta ask.
-I'm gonna go by a hunch.
482
00:21:48,066 --> 00:21:49,600
-Chardonnay.
-Chardonnay. All right.
483
00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:51,467
-All right. Yeah.
-Thank you. [laughs]
484
00:21:51,467 --> 00:21:52,767
-Alex has zero game.
-Yeah.
485
00:21:52,767 --> 00:21:53,767
Uh, let's be real.
486
00:21:53,767 --> 00:21:57,166
Watching itis kind of entertaining.
487
00:21:57,166 --> 00:22:00,600
It's kind of cringey,
too, though, because I just...
I feel bad for him.
488
00:22:04,667 --> 00:22:06,100
Are you? Don't be nervous.
Don't be nervous.
489
00:22:06,100 --> 00:22:07,133
-All right. Don't be nervous.
-Okay.
490
00:22:08,266 --> 00:22:10,900
My first date with Alexwent really well.
491
00:22:10,900 --> 00:22:12,467
I thinkthat he's really funny.
492
00:22:12,467 --> 00:22:13,867
We have the good banter
back and forth,
493
00:22:13,867 --> 00:22:16,467
and humor is something
that I look for in a partner.
494
00:22:16,467 --> 00:22:21,900
I am surprised that he'shaving me meet his sisterson our second date.
495
00:22:21,900 --> 00:22:23,600
I... I know that family
means a lot to him.
496
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:24,734
Family means a lot to me
as well.
497
00:22:24,734 --> 00:22:27,367
I think his, like, sistersare like his best friends,
498
00:22:27,367 --> 00:22:30,700
but, um, it's still
nerve racking
to walk into all of that
499
00:22:30,700 --> 00:22:32,900
and just... and try to be
myself, I guess.
500
00:22:35,367 --> 00:22:36,767
IT Compliance Analyst.
501
00:22:37,700 --> 00:22:39,300
[both laugh]
502
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,000
[Alex speaking]
503
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:42,567
-S-M-R-T.
-[laughs]
504
00:22:42,567 --> 00:22:46,600
[laughs] Smrt. Smrt.
505
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:52,200
It's weird going
from never dating
to kind of starting to,
506
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:56,867
and knowing
that I'm one step closer
to me losing my virginity,
507
00:22:56,867 --> 00:22:58,667
it's surreal to me.
508
00:22:58,667 --> 00:23:00,400
-Bottom right. Bottom right.
-Right next to where he was.
509
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,100
Yes, you know.
510
00:23:02,100 --> 00:23:04,700
[both] Oh!
511
00:23:04,700 --> 00:23:07,867
-All right. Way to come back.
-What a comeback.
512
00:23:07,867 --> 00:23:10,367
[Alex] I don't want to getahead of myself.
513
00:23:10,367 --> 00:23:14,100
But in this moment,
I feel like
things are going good.
514
00:23:14,100 --> 00:23:16,867
-Lauren, it was so nice
to meet you.
-[Lauren] Yes.
515
00:23:16,867 --> 00:23:19,066
-I'm a hugger.
I'm a hugger, so...
-I know. I am too.
516
00:23:19,066 --> 00:23:21,567
[Courtney] Lauren seems to bea good fit for Alex.
517
00:23:21,567 --> 00:23:24,000
Um, they seem like they have
some things in common
which is nice.
518
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,100
[Samantha] Alex needs to justpump the brakes a little bit
519
00:23:26,100 --> 00:23:28,900
and not put
so much pressure on it
because he is a good catch.
520
00:23:28,900 --> 00:23:30,700
-Thank you.
-Yep.
521
00:23:30,700 --> 00:23:34,900
I'm feeling excited.
I'm feeling happy.
I'm feeling nervous.
522
00:23:34,900 --> 00:23:37,800
Your sisters were really nice.
You have to tell them that.
523
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:39,767
-[Alex] I will.
-[Lauren] They were
very welcoming.
524
00:23:39,767 --> 00:23:43,166
I'm just really shocked
that she's into me, 'cause...
525
00:23:44,266 --> 00:23:45,867
...I didn't think I was gonna
get this far.
526
00:23:45,867 --> 00:23:48,166
Okay. Thank you so much.
All right.
527
00:23:49,700 --> 00:23:50,867
All right.
528
00:23:50,867 --> 00:23:52,500
-All right. I'll let you in.
-Oh, thank you.
529
00:23:52,500 --> 00:23:53,567
Yeah. No problem.
530
00:23:53,567 --> 00:23:57,266
Lauren is the complete
package. She is perfect.
531
00:23:57,266 --> 00:24:01,100
And I want to show herthat I'm serious about takingthings to the next level.
532
00:24:01,100 --> 00:24:06,200
In my perfect scenario,
I can ultimately see myself
losing my virginity to her.
533
00:24:16,567 --> 00:24:18,467
I'm definitely
gonna bring this one.
534
00:24:19,867 --> 00:24:21,367
Looks amazing.
535
00:24:21,367 --> 00:24:26,967
When Dr Ty told me
I need to work on intimacy,
I think it's beyond sexual.
536
00:24:26,967 --> 00:24:29,100
I think it's aboutjust opening up
537
00:24:29,100 --> 00:24:33,367
to being my real
authentic self
with anybody around me.
538
00:24:33,367 --> 00:24:35,367
Yeah, this is gonna be cute.
539
00:24:37,367 --> 00:24:41,100
I've been talking
to my friend Jessica
about my sexual situation,
540
00:24:41,100 --> 00:24:42,800
and she knows I'm a virgin.
541
00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:44,367
She's my spicy friend.
542
00:24:44,367 --> 00:24:46,400
She's very knowledgeableabout sex.
543
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,800
Hey!
544
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:50,266
Let me bring that.
545
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:55,166
She's been asking me to goto this adult resort,
546
00:24:55,166 --> 00:24:57,600
and I said yes.
547
00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:59,867
It may be a little bitadvanced for me,
548
00:24:59,867 --> 00:25:04,500
but I'm open to learning
and seeing things,
549
00:25:04,500 --> 00:25:08,066
just being intimatewith people in generaland letting people in.
550
00:25:08,066 --> 00:25:09,667
I'm gonna bring this as well.
551
00:25:09,667 --> 00:25:12,266
Because why not?
552
00:25:12,266 --> 00:25:14,367
I'm gonna be
in this pool, heavy.
553
00:25:14,367 --> 00:25:19,500
I also did decide to contactthis new guy, William,
554
00:25:19,500 --> 00:25:21,567
and we went out
a couple of times already.
555
00:25:22,867 --> 00:25:24,700
I just got finished my date.
556
00:25:25,767 --> 00:25:31,166
And it was really,
really good!
557
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:35,200
It was really, really good.
558
00:25:38,867 --> 00:25:42,367
It's really new,
so it's no label on it yet.
559
00:25:42,367 --> 00:25:46,100
He hasn't asked me anything
about being exclusive.
560
00:25:49,166 --> 00:25:50,200
He's cool with it.
561
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,266
[producer speaking]
562
00:25:52,266 --> 00:25:53,734
I kissed him on the cheek.
563
00:25:53,734 --> 00:25:57,600
We gave each other a hug
when we were leaving
and I kissed him on the cheek.
564
00:25:58,467 --> 00:25:59,467
Yeah.
565
00:26:02,767 --> 00:26:05,600
-What's... [chuckles]
-Jessica.
566
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,667
-I mean this looks cool.
-Don't worry about no...
567
00:26:07,667 --> 00:26:09,767
Listen, listen, listen,
listen, listen.
568
00:26:09,767 --> 00:26:12,266
-Mom.
-Jessica.
569
00:26:12,266 --> 00:26:16,700
Can you come here and listen
to what your child
is talking about?
570
00:26:16,700 --> 00:26:19,567
[Rhasha] So I told my momand sisterthat I'm going to a resort,
571
00:26:19,567 --> 00:26:22,767
but I didn't tell them
what kind of resort
I'm going to.
572
00:26:22,767 --> 00:26:25,967
I am just preparing myselffor the shenanigans
573
00:26:25,967 --> 00:26:28,667
that come with telling
Iris and Jessica.
574
00:26:28,667 --> 00:26:30,967
-I'm gonna show you
all these outfits.
-Okay.
575
00:26:30,967 --> 00:26:32,800
This is one of my
favorite ones.
576
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,166
-This is my...
-[Iris] Girl, you're gonna
have something over there.
577
00:26:35,166 --> 00:26:37,000
Lingerie? No, this is like
lingerie pajamas.
578
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:38,967
Like, you know
what I'm saying?
Sleepwear, like...
579
00:26:38,967 --> 00:26:40,266
Sleepwear. That ain't nothing.
580
00:26:40,266 --> 00:26:42,567
Where would you wear
the lingerie at though?
581
00:26:42,567 --> 00:26:44,600
[Rhasha] It could be by myself
in my room.
582
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,600
[Jessica] You might as well
not wear that.
583
00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,700
-It's about seduction.
-[scoffs]
584
00:26:48,700 --> 00:26:52,166
-Who are you seducting?
-[Rhasha] I mean,
just even yourself.
585
00:26:52,166 --> 00:26:53,867
You know, just feeling sexy.
586
00:26:53,867 --> 00:26:57,100
The resort I'm going to
has a pool,
so I got my bathing suit.
587
00:26:57,100 --> 00:26:58,600
What?
588
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:00,400
What's wrong with that?
589
00:27:01,100 --> 00:27:03,266
-Listen, I'm grown.
-Rhasha.
590
00:27:03,266 --> 00:27:06,100
-Yeah, you're grown.
-This is stuff that you would
not normally wear.
591
00:27:06,100 --> 00:27:10,533
You don't have anything like,
no jeans or anything
like that?
592
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:14,900
It's an adult resort.
593
00:27:17,367 --> 00:27:19,367
Where you can be free.
594
00:27:19,367 --> 00:27:22,767
-You can be free.
-And explore yourself.
595
00:27:22,767 --> 00:27:26,166
Is it just like maybe
a nudist?
596
00:27:26,166 --> 00:27:28,166
[Rhasha] It's not nudist,
but you can be.
597
00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:31,667
What I think happensat adult resorts
598
00:27:31,667 --> 00:27:34,967
is everybody is just
like screwing everybody,
like every turn you take.
599
00:27:34,967 --> 00:27:37,800
And they're like all meshed
into one big monster.
600
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,467
And like you got arms
and legs hanging out,
601
00:27:39,467 --> 00:27:42,667
like, and eyeballs everywhere,
like all kinds
of body anatomy.
602
00:27:42,667 --> 00:27:44,867
Like everywhere.I could be wrong.
603
00:27:44,867 --> 00:27:48,767
But that's what I feel
that I may see and experience.
604
00:27:51,100 --> 00:27:52,266
You're not gonna do that.
605
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:54,867
[sighs]
606
00:27:54,867 --> 00:27:56,367
I mean, well...
607
00:27:56,367 --> 00:27:57,867
[Jessica] I mean,
she's grown, Mom.
608
00:27:57,867 --> 00:27:59,400
-I mean, she grown.
-[Iris] I know she is.
I know she is.
609
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:00,467
You know?
610
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,266
Why you gotta dothis experience?
611
00:28:03,266 --> 00:28:06,166
Well, she's a grown woman
and hasn't experienced
anything,
612
00:28:06,166 --> 00:28:08,166
as far as, like, sexual,
you know, you can't.
613
00:28:08,166 --> 00:28:09,266
Well, I haven't neither.
614
00:28:09,266 --> 00:28:11,467
Okay, but you're still
married, and you've got kids.
615
00:28:11,467 --> 00:28:13,066
So you've had that experience.
616
00:28:13,066 --> 00:28:17,100
Okay, Rhasha gonna seea bunch of ass and titties.
617
00:28:17,100 --> 00:28:19,900
That's on her because...
618
00:28:19,900 --> 00:28:21,600
That's what she
want to see, you know?
619
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:23,567
[laughs]
620
00:28:24,467 --> 00:28:27,467
-Jess. [laughs]
-I just hope she got
her shots.
621
00:28:28,100 --> 00:28:30,000
I mean, I'm gonna boost you
622
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:31,500
-because you're grown.
-Help me out.
That's what I'm saying.
623
00:28:31,500 --> 00:28:34,166
-You're grown.
You do whatever you wanna do.
-[Rhasha] Right.
624
00:28:34,166 --> 00:28:40,000
I understand the concerns,
but I need to be open
in the moment.
625
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,000
And I'm still gonna dowhat I dobecause I'm grown.
626
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:44,667
[chuckles]
627
00:28:44,667 --> 00:28:46,867
I've got gray hairs
on my vagina. I'm grown.
628
00:28:46,867 --> 00:28:49,100
[laughs] I'm grown.
629
00:28:49,100 --> 00:28:52,000
I'm just gonna explore
and have a good time...
630
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,100
-Yeah, I get it.
-...and see, like, there's
no expectations at all.
631
00:28:54,100 --> 00:28:57,066
I'm just going there
and experience my sexuality.
632
00:28:57,066 --> 00:28:58,467
[Jessica speaking]
633
00:28:58,467 --> 00:28:59,900
[Rhasha] What sexuality?
634
00:28:59,900 --> 00:29:03,367
Jessica, I have sexuality,
okay?
635
00:29:12,667 --> 00:29:15,000
[Sonali sighs and groans]
636
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:18,467
What does that feel like
for you?
637
00:29:19,367 --> 00:29:20,800
It is pleasurable.
638
00:29:21,867 --> 00:29:25,967
And it doesn't. It has nothing
to do with the physical act
of sex.
639
00:29:25,967 --> 00:29:28,000
-This is a pleasurable
act, right?
-Right.
640
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:29,367
And it's intimate, right?
641
00:29:29,367 --> 00:29:31,767
-This is very... This is
pretty intimate, right?
-[Sonali] Right.
642
00:29:34,500 --> 00:29:35,867
Mmm.
643
00:29:35,867 --> 00:29:39,000
Getting touched by a man
who I don't know very well,
644
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,200
that is not something
I'm comfortable with at all.
645
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,667
Even when I go for a massage,I request a female masseuse.
646
00:29:44,667 --> 00:29:47,800
So for me to allow him
to do this to me
is a huge deal.
647
00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:50,100
-Is this...
-Yeah, it feels nice.
648
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:54,000
[chuckles]
649
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,100
I might apply a little bit
more pressure,
so stay right here.
650
00:29:56,100 --> 00:29:57,900
I'm just standing up
to get more leverage.
651
00:29:58,500 --> 00:30:00,200
Oh.
652
00:30:02,667 --> 00:30:04,567
-What does that feel like?
-Amazing.
653
00:30:04,567 --> 00:30:05,567
Oh.
654
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:08,600
I am in an absolute daze.
655
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:10,367
I feel very comfortableand safe.
656
00:30:10,367 --> 00:30:12,500
The pleasurable sensations
that I'm feeling,
657
00:30:12,500 --> 00:30:16,166
it gives me some hopethat maybe one day,hopefully soon,
658
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,800
I'd be able to enjoy
sexual pleasure.
659
00:30:21,166 --> 00:30:23,567
[Wayne] And I think broadening
our perspective
660
00:30:23,567 --> 00:30:25,400
and understanding
of what intimacy is...
661
00:30:26,567 --> 00:30:28,066
-...is helpful.
-Right.
662
00:30:28,066 --> 00:30:31,300
[Wayne] You know,
because we just associate sex
with intimacy.
663
00:30:31,300 --> 00:30:33,967
Intimacy is so many
other things.
664
00:30:33,967 --> 00:30:37,600
[Sonali] I feel I haveexperienced a breakthroughwith Wayne.
665
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,400
I do feel closer to him.
666
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:42,500
I wish I could have that
done to me every hour.
[laughs]
667
00:30:42,500 --> 00:30:43,834
Can I do something
really quick?
668
00:30:43,834 --> 00:30:45,567
Can I hold your hands
real quick?
I wanna say something to you.
669
00:30:45,567 --> 00:30:46,667
Since we've been
working together,
670
00:30:46,667 --> 00:30:49,166
it's my first time seeing you,
like, your guard down
671
00:30:49,166 --> 00:30:51,367
and just being able
to receive.
672
00:30:51,367 --> 00:30:54,266
I hope for you
that you are able to...
673
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:59,166
...allow yourself to be open
to trying new things.
674
00:30:59,166 --> 00:31:01,700
-I feel positive for you. Yes.
-You feel optimistic?
675
00:31:01,700 --> 00:31:03,266
Optimistic for sure.
676
00:31:03,266 --> 00:31:06,400
[Sonali] I must say,I am really proud of myselfright now.
677
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:11,867
I feel stronger, more brave
when it comes to pleasure
and touch.
678
00:31:11,867 --> 00:31:14,967
And I think that havinga more open mind
679
00:31:14,967 --> 00:31:18,166
will allow me to overcomemy physical barrier
680
00:31:18,166 --> 00:31:21,367
and experience physical
intimacy with a man.
681
00:31:21,367 --> 00:31:24,667
I know how this may
be a big ask for you,
but can I have a hug?
682
00:31:24,667 --> 00:31:26,000
-Sure.
-Yes.
683
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:28,000
-Thank you, Wayne
-[Wayne] Thank you.
684
00:31:34,300 --> 00:31:38,000
-Oh, so have you ever?
-[Deanne] Uh...
685
00:31:39,066 --> 00:31:40,367
No.
686
00:31:40,367 --> 00:31:41,700
[gasping]
687
00:31:42,767 --> 00:31:45,000
I mean, look, Deanne,
you came to a show.
688
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,600
A lot of people have
come out of this
with their partner.
689
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,266
Yeah, how many?
690
00:31:49,266 --> 00:31:51,166
[Brandon] Um... um...
691
00:31:51,166 --> 00:31:52,667
More times
than you've had sex.
692
00:31:52,667 --> 00:31:54,600
[all laughing]
693
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:57,800
I think Deanne being
a 35-year-old virgin
694
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:01,200
is definitely, like,
not a lifestyle
I recommend to most people.
695
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,066
What did I get myself into?
696
00:32:03,066 --> 00:32:04,300
[laughs]
697
00:32:04,300 --> 00:32:06,266
[Harrison] This is someonewho could be sexually active,
698
00:32:06,266 --> 00:32:07,500
and I'm sure a lot of guys
pursue her.
699
00:32:07,500 --> 00:32:09,767
But she's choosing not to.
It's very interesting.
700
00:32:09,767 --> 00:32:13,700
Do I think she's gonna leave
the show tonight
and be humping someone?
701
00:32:13,700 --> 00:32:16,967
Probably not. But I do think
that we're gonna
bring her closer
702
00:32:16,967 --> 00:32:18,266
to losing her virginitythan anything else.
703
00:32:18,266 --> 00:32:21,367
So, Deanne, you're about
to meet your boyfriend.
704
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,166
Guys, give it up for Conrad.
705
00:32:24,166 --> 00:32:26,166
[audience cheering]
706
00:32:26,166 --> 00:32:27,867
[Deanne] What is going on?
707
00:32:27,867 --> 00:32:29,967
[Brandon] Uh, Deanne,
this is Conrad.
708
00:32:29,967 --> 00:32:32,467
Um, and, Conrad, um...
709
00:32:32,467 --> 00:32:34,667
-Hi, Deanne. Hi.
-Hi, Conrad.
710
00:32:34,667 --> 00:32:36,266
[Brandon] So, Conrad,
right off the bat,
711
00:32:36,266 --> 00:32:39,467
try to just win Deanne over
right now.
712
00:32:39,467 --> 00:32:40,667
One, two, three.
713
00:32:40,667 --> 00:32:43,166
-Hi, Deanne.
I'm emotionally available.
-Yeah.
714
00:32:43,767 --> 00:32:47,367
Oh, my [bleep] God.
715
00:32:47,367 --> 00:32:48,967
Who is he?
716
00:32:48,967 --> 00:32:51,166
I just moved to LA
from New York,
717
00:32:51,166 --> 00:32:54,266
and I'm pretty independent
and happy.
718
00:32:54,266 --> 00:32:56,967
And I'm just looking
for someone
to kind of share life with.
719
00:32:56,967 --> 00:33:00,200
And I just want
to find someone who helps,
you know, make my life better.
720
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:01,567
and I can make
their life better.
721
00:33:02,166 --> 00:33:03,500
Oh, I like that.
722
00:33:03,500 --> 00:33:05,166
[Brandon] So, Deanne,
what question do you have?
723
00:33:05,166 --> 00:33:08,467
Okay. This is a question
the crowd's not
gonna like, but...
724
00:33:09,467 --> 00:33:11,000
...I want kids in my future.
725
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:13,400
The police are here.
We don't give a [bleep].
726
00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,200
[audience laughing]
727
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,367
[Deanne] A guy
that I seriously date
has to want kids.
728
00:33:17,367 --> 00:33:19,567
[Conrad] I do want kids. Um,
729
00:33:19,567 --> 00:33:20,967
I would love to have four.
730
00:33:20,967 --> 00:33:23,166
One of my brothers is adopted,
so would love to have
three biological
731
00:33:23,166 --> 00:33:25,000
and one adopted kid someday.
732
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,100
Yo, this guy is literally God.
733
00:33:27,100 --> 00:33:28,467
[audience laughing]
734
00:33:29,567 --> 00:33:31,967
These comedians
have ridiculous questions.
735
00:33:31,967 --> 00:33:33,567
They have a ridiculous method.
736
00:33:33,567 --> 00:33:36,700
But I do think that they found
a good one in Conrad.
737
00:33:36,700 --> 00:33:39,000
What do you... what do you
look for in a partner?
738
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,400
But then a more fun question.
What's your ick?
739
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,300
That you... latent guys,
that just turns you off?
740
00:33:43,300 --> 00:33:44,600
Um, everything.
741
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:48,000
[audience laughing]
742
00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,867
[Deanne] I think hispersonality is great and I'mreally liking it right now.
743
00:33:50,867 --> 00:33:54,767
I'm just really hoping
that I find him
physically attractive as well.
744
00:33:54,767 --> 00:33:57,200
You guys are going
to take your blindfolds
745
00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:02,567
off in five, four,
three, two, one.
746
00:34:03,166 --> 00:34:05,300
[audience cheering]
747
00:34:05,300 --> 00:34:06,567
Hi.
748
00:34:06,567 --> 00:34:08,567
-Nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you, too.
749
00:34:09,900 --> 00:34:10,967
She's cute.
750
00:34:10,967 --> 00:34:12,967
Deanne has beautiful eyes.
751
00:34:12,967 --> 00:34:16,066
I loved seeing them
when she took off
the blindfold,
752
00:34:16,066 --> 00:34:18,066
and I feel like her
physical appearance
753
00:34:18,066 --> 00:34:19,367
definitely matches
her personality.
754
00:34:19,367 --> 00:34:22,166
She seems super fun
and outgoing,
and she's beautiful,
755
00:34:22,166 --> 00:34:24,367
and I'm excited
to get to know her more.
756
00:34:24,367 --> 00:34:28,367
Deanne, did you want
to tell him, like, you know,
what you haven't been doing?
757
00:34:29,500 --> 00:34:32,166
I haven't been hooking up
with people a lot.
758
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:34,800
Okay.
759
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,000
-Yeah, that's cool.
-I don't think it's bad
760
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,000
to not be hooking up
all the time.
761
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:42,800
Conrad, how long would you be
willing to wait for a person
to go all the way?
762
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,700
Uh... um,
if it's the right person,
763
00:34:45,700 --> 00:34:47,166
I don't think you can put
a timeline on it.
764
00:34:47,166 --> 00:34:49,567
[audience groans in affection]
765
00:34:49,567 --> 00:34:52,066
I definitely don't think
Deanne will have sex
with anyone
766
00:34:52,066 --> 00:34:53,667
if she's not dating
them seriously.
767
00:34:53,667 --> 00:34:57,266
But what I'll say isif someone could takeDeanne's V card,
768
00:34:57,266 --> 00:34:59,300
Conrad is the guy
that could get it done.
769
00:34:59,900 --> 00:35:01,767
Eyes closed. Look straight.
770
00:35:03,300 --> 00:35:07,300
Thumb up
if you are interested
in the person next to you.
771
00:35:07,300 --> 00:35:12,467
Thumb down if you are not,
in three, two, one.
772
00:35:14,567 --> 00:35:17,667
[all] Oh!
773
00:35:18,467 --> 00:35:20,800
Like, this was like wild.
774
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:23,700
Conrad has that thingthat some guys have
775
00:35:23,700 --> 00:35:25,367
that makes you really
attracted to them.
776
00:35:25,367 --> 00:35:26,800
That makes you really
want them.
777
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:28,767
[Brandon] Give it up
for Conrad.
778
00:35:28,767 --> 00:35:31,300
-Wow.
-[audience cheering]
779
00:35:31,300 --> 00:35:32,400
All right.
780
00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:35,200
I would want to, you know,
781
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:36,767
end up hooking up with him.
782
00:35:36,767 --> 00:35:39,100
I think it would be easierto start a sexual relationship
783
00:35:39,100 --> 00:35:41,100
with someone like Conrad,who is so nice.
784
00:35:41,100 --> 00:35:45,000
I think someone like him
would probably be
a great start to that.
785
00:35:45,767 --> 00:35:48,000
♪ Da-da-da-da ♪
786
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:50,900
-Oh.
-Yeah!
787
00:35:50,900 --> 00:35:52,467
-[Jessica] We have arrived.
-Oh, my goodness.
788
00:35:52,467 --> 00:35:55,266
Walking through those doors
is a whole new world.
789
00:35:55,266 --> 00:35:58,066
Naked people,people making out.
790
00:35:58,066 --> 00:35:59,567
Oh my gosh, look at that.
791
00:35:59,567 --> 00:36:01,667
-Candyland for adults.
-Candyland
792
00:36:01,667 --> 00:36:02,867
Oh, my goodness!
793
00:36:02,867 --> 00:36:05,667
I am about to live my life.
My best life.
794
00:36:05,667 --> 00:36:07,200
[laughs]
795
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:17,467
-[Jessica] Girl, what's up?
Are you excited?
-I'm excited.
796
00:36:17,467 --> 00:36:19,166
Let's get on this road.
797
00:36:19,166 --> 00:36:23,100
[Rhasha] Jessica and Iare headed outto the adults-only resort
798
00:36:23,100 --> 00:36:24,867
for a fun and sexy weekend.
799
00:36:24,867 --> 00:36:26,600
And we are ready
to get the party started.
800
00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,467
I got stuff to, uh,
update you on.
801
00:36:29,467 --> 00:36:31,567
I met a guy.
802
00:36:31,567 --> 00:36:32,600
Oh.
803
00:36:33,767 --> 00:36:34,800
Dang.
804
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:37,900
-Yes. And his name
is William.
-[Jessica] Okay.
805
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:40,400
Uh-huh.
806
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,100
He's sweet and caring.
807
00:36:43,100 --> 00:36:45,900
-And he makes me feel safe.
-Okay.
808
00:36:45,900 --> 00:36:48,567
-[Jessica] Perfect.
-I really like him.
809
00:36:48,567 --> 00:36:49,934
Girl, I love that for you.
810
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,166
Um, I think... I think
we're going
in the right direction.
811
00:36:55,166 --> 00:36:57,533
Absolutely. Absolutely.
812
00:37:00,066 --> 00:37:03,967
I haven't yet because
I am more trying
813
00:37:03,967 --> 00:37:06,400
to build an honest
connection with him.
814
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:09,367
And once that connection,
um, and trust is built,
815
00:37:09,367 --> 00:37:11,567
I think that I will let him
816
00:37:11,567 --> 00:37:15,800
know my curiosity about it
and see if he's...
he's cool with it.
817
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:17,800
Okay, so now let's... let's
talk about this now.
818
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,200
-So we're on our way
to this resort, right?
-Mmm-hmm.
819
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,567
Have you thought about
inviting him?
820
00:37:22,567 --> 00:37:25,367
Um, I thought about it,
but I'm kind of nervous.
821
00:37:25,367 --> 00:37:27,867
-Why?
-Because, like,
we're still kind of new,
822
00:37:27,867 --> 00:37:29,166
and then, like,
on the last minute,
823
00:37:29,166 --> 00:37:31,967
and you know,
so I don't... I wasn't sure.
824
00:37:31,967 --> 00:37:33,767
Okay, But wait. Listen.
825
00:37:33,767 --> 00:37:35,300
This is the perfect
opportunity.
826
00:37:35,300 --> 00:37:40,200
All you can do is just ask,
you know, so think about it.
827
00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:45,600
I am feeling like, is he gonna
enjoy coming to see me
even though we're new?
828
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,700
And it's an adult resort.
829
00:37:48,700 --> 00:37:54,100
So I'm worried about
if he thinks that, you know,
I'm moving too fast.
830
00:37:54,100 --> 00:37:59,367
This weekend, I want you
to literally
give yourself permission
831
00:38:00,066 --> 00:38:02,266
to explore new things.
832
00:38:02,266 --> 00:38:04,700
I'm going to give myself
permission to explore
new things.
833
00:38:04,700 --> 00:38:05,900
Say it again.
834
00:38:05,900 --> 00:38:10,567
I'm going to give myself
permission to explore
new things!
835
00:38:10,567 --> 00:38:12,800
-That's what I want for you.
Yes.
-Yes. Yes.
836
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,567
[Rhasha] And we
are here, baby.
837
00:38:14,567 --> 00:38:16,500
-[Jessica] I'm ready.
I'm ready.
-[Rhasha] I'm ready.
838
00:38:16,500 --> 00:38:19,100
I like it a lot, honey.
They are not ready for us.
839
00:38:19,100 --> 00:38:20,667
-They ain't ready.
-[Rhasha laughs]
840
00:38:20,667 --> 00:38:22,266
Oh, my goodness.
841
00:38:22,266 --> 00:38:25,767
We're here to have all fun
and see all the things.
842
00:38:25,767 --> 00:38:27,000
So if you're ready to party,
843
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,567
-this is the place
to be for sure.
-Oh!
844
00:38:30,367 --> 00:38:31,767
Ooh!
845
00:38:31,767 --> 00:38:34,367
-That's nice.
-Oh, my gosh.
846
00:38:34,367 --> 00:38:36,300
-[Jessica] We have arrived.
-[Rhasha] Oh, my goodness.
847
00:38:36,300 --> 00:38:38,767
Walking through those doors
is a whole new world.
848
00:38:39,266 --> 00:38:40,700
A whole new world.
849
00:38:40,700 --> 00:38:45,567
I'm seeing peoplein the hot tub, naked people.
850
00:38:45,567 --> 00:38:47,100
People making out.
851
00:38:47,100 --> 00:38:48,100
Oh, my gosh, Look at that.
852
00:38:48,100 --> 00:38:50,266
-Candyland.
-Candyland.
853
00:38:50,266 --> 00:38:52,266
Jesus.
854
00:38:52,266 --> 00:38:54,867
-[Rhasha] Oh, my goodness.
-[Jessica] Candyland.
855
00:38:54,867 --> 00:38:57,900
-A game for adults, Honey.
-[Rhasha] Oh, my goodness.
856
00:38:57,900 --> 00:39:02,000
I am a 42-year-old virgin
at an adult resort
857
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:03,467
Ooh-ooh.
858
00:39:04,100 --> 00:39:05,266
[laughing]
859
00:39:05,266 --> 00:39:06,867
And I am about
to live my life.
860
00:39:06,867 --> 00:39:08,166
My best life.
861
00:39:08,166 --> 00:39:11,066
I just, like, would like
William to see this.
862
00:39:11,066 --> 00:39:13,300
[Jessica] You know,
I too would like William
to see this.
863
00:39:13,300 --> 00:39:16,266
So why don't you text
your boo thing?
864
00:39:16,266 --> 00:39:18,900
-[Rhasha] Really?
-Yes. Why not?
865
00:39:20,266 --> 00:39:22,367
-Okay. I mean, like...
-Yeah, you just, like,
text him and just say,
866
00:39:22,367 --> 00:39:25,000
"You know what?
This is a sweet room.
867
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:27,467
It'll be so much sweeter
with you here."
868
00:39:27,467 --> 00:39:29,367
Is it too short notice?
869
00:39:29,367 --> 00:39:31,200
You think he's gonna tell you?
No, I don't.
870
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:34,266
[Rhasha] William comingto the resort, like,I'm nervous
871
00:39:34,266 --> 00:39:39,767
that he's going to think
that I am really wild
and crazy.
872
00:39:39,767 --> 00:39:43,567
But the more I'm here,
the more I'm missing him.
873
00:39:43,567 --> 00:39:45,400
This is it. This is what
you gotta do.
874
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:52,000
Okay. I have this sweet room.
875
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:55,900
and I would like for you
to join me.
876
00:39:56,700 --> 00:39:58,567
-Yes.
-Sent.
877
00:39:59,667 --> 00:40:01,667
I don't know
if he's gonna say yes.
878
00:40:01,667 --> 00:40:04,000
And what if he says no?
879
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:07,100
And I'm like, "Oh, my God,
is this really gonna happen?"
880
00:40:07,100 --> 00:40:09,166
Oh, my God, he's texting back.
881
00:40:09,166 --> 00:40:10,266
[Jessica] I love it.
882
00:40:11,367 --> 00:40:12,867
-This is sexy.
-[screams excitedly]
883
00:40:15,100 --> 00:40:17,467
-I hope you like red wine.
-I do. I love red.
884
00:40:17,467 --> 00:40:21,000
Conrad is super cute.He's super nice.
885
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,266
It's Deanne's world.
I'm just living in it.
886
00:40:23,266 --> 00:40:24,734
[Deanne] I can tell Conraddoes want to kiss me.
887
00:40:24,734 --> 00:40:29,367
Who knows? I could just have
a sex life without it meaning
so much more.
888
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,266
-[Alex] This is gonna be fun.
-[Lauren laughs]
889
00:40:33,266 --> 00:40:34,834
I haven't seen
a round bed before.
890
00:40:34,834 --> 00:40:38,600
-[Alex] Me neither.
-[Lauren] Look at the ceiling.Oh, my. Lots of mirrors.
891
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,867
I am fantasizing
what will happen.
892
00:40:40,867 --> 00:40:43,467
But I don't feel likeI'll enjoy the weekend
893
00:40:43,467 --> 00:40:45,500
if I don't tell Lauren
that I'm a virgin.
894
00:40:45,500 --> 00:40:47,367
I have something
I need to tell you.
895
00:40:47,367 --> 00:40:50,667
The last time I told someonethat I was a virgin,
896
00:40:50,667 --> 00:40:53,300
that didn't go well,
so I'm very nervous.
897
00:40:56,667 --> 00:40:58,800
-I'm kind of talking
to someone.
-Okay.
898
00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:00,266
-Whoa.
-Okay.
899
00:41:00,266 --> 00:41:01,300
I like William a lot.
900
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:04,100
-Yeah.
-Okay. Come on.
901
00:41:04,100 --> 00:41:05,367
It just feels natural.
902
00:41:05,367 --> 00:41:06,500
Kiss me, William.
903
00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:08,667
It's real life.
904
00:41:08,667 --> 00:41:12,567
It's happening,and I'm excitedand scared at the same time.
905
00:41:13,467 --> 00:41:15,667
-Oh, my goodness.
-Welcome to the temple.
906
00:41:15,667 --> 00:41:18,467
I'm going to meet
with a priestess healer.
907
00:41:18,467 --> 00:41:20,266
It's an honor
to have you here.
908
00:41:20,266 --> 00:41:22,567
[Sonali] I'll try anythingto be able to have sex.
909
00:41:22,567 --> 00:41:26,200
What we're gonna do is just
place this tool at the door.
910
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:29,367
[groans] Oh, my gosh,
I didn't expect this
to happen.
73246
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