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[man] Don't look so nervous.
It's just cold water.

[Deanne] Previously
on Virgins...

This is the first time
that I'm feeling

some type of excitement
about a guy.

I like that feeling.

-Are you guys ready
to take the plunge?
-[Deanne] I guess so.

But is he gonna run away

when he finds out
that I don't have
sexual experience?

[gasps]

[Alex] There we go.

I have like two voices
in my head.

One saying, "Don't do it!"
The other one saying,
"Do it!"

-[snickers]
-I... so appreciate that

you want to kiss me.

[Alex] Getting denied a kiss,

it's just confusing.

I'm not sure when we're going
to be able to see each other.

[exhales]

I don't know
if I want to get married

because I was before.

I need my person
to be dominant,

and, like, manhandle me.

-Spanking' my fetish.
-What?

We both are into BDSM.

Whoo-hoo!

But with Jeremy,
it didn't feel

as sexy as it looks in porn.

If I hear the word
"masturbation," I cringe.

I feel like it's so
uncomfortable for you,

the idea of testing yourself.

[Sonali] I'm feeling
annoyed by Wayne,
the sex surrogate,

because touching myself
is just not something
I wanna do.

I can't help it.
This is who I am.

-You--
-We're just going back
and forth.

Like, there's no solution,
right? I've had enough!

So the cold plunge event,

I met Alex.

And, you know, I was finally
in the space where I was like,

"Okay, this could
go somewhere,"
and I was excited about it.

But later on,
I did look at his Instagram.

He played volleyball.

-Okay.
-Super tall.

-[Jaime] He's cute.
-[Deanne speaking]

-Wait...
-Graduated in '24.

Oh, gosh. Of course.

I finally find one
that I might wanna go
on a second date with,

-and I think he's...
-Too young?

[sighs softly]

As a 35-year-old woman,
I do not want

to tell a 24-year-old guy

that I'm inexperienced
in dating and sex.

That, to me, is embarrassing.

So I am gonna go see
my matchmaker, Tammi, today.

-Hi. How are you?
-Good. Good.

-You look beautiful.
-Thank you. You too.

I love you in blue.

I don't want to slide back
into my comfort zone
of not dating at all.

And I think Tammi will help me

with my next steps
of how to move forward.

What have you been up to?

Oh, you know,
going on some dates.

There was one guy
that was really cute.

And we clicked,
and then he asked me out
on another date.

-Oh, good.
-And then...

-Oh, no. And then?
-I got home,

and I looked at his Instagram.

The most recent photos
were college graduation.

[gasps] Oh, no. How old is he?

So I looked up
a little bit more
and found out he's 24,

Oh!

And I think Deanne
is realizing,

uh, that it's hard out there.

[chuckling] It's hard
to meet somebody.

I think it takes practice
to get out there

and put yourself out there,
and you're doing
all those things.

As a matchmaker, I think
it is a good approach

to meet different people
different ways.

So I love that
you are open-minded

and doing these different ways
of dating people,

and it makes me think
of something I heard about
called UpDating.

And it's a live dating show

on stage with some comedians,

-which I know is--
-On stage?

I know. I know.
I know it's a little weird,
but I think it could be fun.

-And--
-Is there, like, an audience?

Yeah, there's
an audience watching.

This is sounding
completely nightmarish to me.

But you're blindfolded.
[laughs]

-That don't sound like fun?
-That sounds like

-a freaking dream.
-[laughing]

Some of Deanne's issues
are just her

not being open to the person
and more going off looks.

So I think, being blindfolded,
she doesn't see the person.

She's really just kind of
seeing the internal person

and see if there's...
chemistry or connection
that way.

The essence of me
trying new things lately,
I'm definitely open to it.

-I love it.
-I... you know,

I'm trying to put myself
out there in every which way.

So Tammi is an expert.
She's good at what she does.

And I think she's good
at reading people

and finding out
their differences.

And I'm clearly
a lot different

than a lot of her clientele.

So I think she's thinking
outside the box a little bit
for me.

You live once.
It'll be a good story to tell.

-So--
-Or you'll find the one.

-[laughs]
-Probably not, but maybe.

-You never know.
-Think positive. Positive.

[chuckles]

What does he want me to say?
Just like--

I understand that Wayne's
intentions are good.

He wants to help me,
but it's challenging.

I've been this way
for so long.

It is hard to imagine myself
in any other way.

But at the same time,

if I were to quit,
I would wonder...

what could have happened.

And I don't wanna live
in regret.

[clears throat]

Hi.

So I understand, and I wanna
acknowledge the frustration.

I'm not trying
to badger you or...

Just trying to, honestly,

just trying
to get information.

I don't think you understand,
for an Indian woman,

-what a big deal any sort
of physical intimacy is.
-Mmm-hmm.

[Wayne] When I look
at Sonali upbringing,

I can understand how she
ended up in this space

to where she is resistant
to the idea

of what touch could be like
for her.

Ultimately, I'm trying
to help her change
the narrative

that she has created
around sex, sexuality,

and un-affirm
some of her beliefs.

I get it. I know
I got a little triggered
and riled up,

but I do feel safe around you,

because otherwise
I wouldn't have let you
into my home, you know,

I wouldn't have...
wouldn't be sitting next
to you on my couch,

you know,
conversing like this.

Yeah.

-You are a professional.
-Yes.

I do trust you
in that capacity.

But if... if I may
ask you, um...

if you would...

if you would just...
if you would mind

just massaging my back...

-in a professional capacity.
-Yes.

What do you say to that?

So, um...

Sonali is so in her head
and so guarded.

I'm trying to process
what's going on right now.

I need to know
if this is organic.

Is this something
you really want to experience?

Because it kind of
feels abrupt.

I want to make sure,
like, I want to be able

-to give you an authentic,
organic touch.
-Of course.

'Cause it doesn't feel good
to me to touch you

and you don't actually
want me to touch you.

No, but I did ask you.
No, you are a professional,

and I know you're trying
to help me.

-It's a sincere request.
-Okay. Yes.

[Sonali] What Wayne and I
have been discussing,

it does make me uncomfortable.

I'm a little
less uncomfortable,

but I'm still uncomfortable.

But I came here
to make progress,

and I do trust Wayne enough,
at this point, to try this.

[Wayne] So it seems like
you carry a lot of tension

-up in this area right here.
-Yeah. Mmm-hmm.

Well, you let me know
if it's... if it's not enough

-or if it's too much, right?
-Okay.

[inhales]

Mmm.

Become really present
in this space right here
where we are.

[Sonali] Mmm.

[Wayne] Mmm.

You don't have to feel,
like, unsafe.

Like, you are okay here.

[exhales]

♪ I hope you like it ♪

♪ I hope you like it ♪

♪ I hope you like it... ♪

-Oh.
-[man] Oh, oh, oh.

Hey, my gosh, Ryan,
if that hits that eight-ball

-and that goes in...
-Go, go, go.

-[Courtney] Oh! Hey, buddy.
-Hey. How's it going?

I was pretty close. I said
about seven minutes, so...

What am I... am I late?

-A little bit.
-Yeah, like always, Alex.

No. Your late and my late
is totally different.

After Andrea friends owned me,

I'm trying to figure out
how to get through this.

You did put yourself
out there.

You made a connection
with somebody,

and you're gonna make
another connection...

[Samantha] And you could
do it again.

...until you find...
until you find that somebody.

[Samantha] Now you've done
that, you've already gotten
out of your comfort zone.

-Keep pushing yourself, like--
-[Carin] You can't
get yourself down.

[Alex] I feel like losing
your virginity is supposed
to be a connection.

I want to experience that.

I mean, it's not
an easy thing to accomplish.

Because I had more matches.

There is one girl that
is standing out to me
above the rest.

And her name is Lauren.

[Lauren speaking]

[laughing] It's like...

[Alex speaking]

[laughs]

[Alex] She has
a very cute smile,
nice blue eyes,

and just her
overall presence is...

is nice.

Like, this is the first time
that you're bringing any kind
of woman around.

-[Samantha] Yeah.
-How are you feeling?

I'm nervous.

-[Courtney] Are you? Okay.
-Yeah.

Tell us a little bit
about her.

[Alex] She's the same age
as me.

-She has a daughter.
-[both] Okay.

[Courtney speaking]

She was kind of like
a woman version of me.

I mean, we laugh a lot.

-[Courtney] A woman version
of you. Oh.
-[all chuckling]

I'm really happy
Alex is putting himself
back out there,

uh, and dating again.

[Samantha] But I just think
that he should have given
himself a little bit of time

-to kind of reevaluate...
-[Courtney] Yeah,
reevaluate, like...

-...what went wrong.
-...what went wrong
with Andrea,

and I don't want him to make
those same mistakes
with Lauren now.

Have you had that conversation
with her about you being
a virgin or no?

-[Alex] No.
-Okay.

The timing wasn't right
for that.

-Not today, obviously, like--
-[Alex] No.

-No, not today. Not today.
-[Courtney] Okay, please don't
have that conversation

-with all of us present...
-[Alex] No.

-...'cause I feel like
that's more of a--
-[Alex] No.

Dating is hard,
but being a virgin
is ten times harder,

because even if I connect
with somebody,

I have to find the right time
to tell them.

-[Courtney] I'm just really--
-Oh, she just texted me.

-[Courtney] Oh, good.
-She's here.

I don't want to be
too vulnerable too quick.

I kind of realized
that with Andrea...

and I think maybe
that's kind of why
I got friend-zoned.

I don't... I don't wanna
go too fast with it.

All right, I'm gonna
go outside and meet her
real quick.

How are you feeling, Alex?

[Alex] Nervous.

For him to bring, like,
her here to meet us,

I think it's a really big deal
'cause he's never done
that before, Ryan. [chuckles]

-Yeah, I know.
He has to be nervous.
-Like, this is all real.

The first thing
that comes to my mind

is your marriage.

See, I'm gonna cry now.

My divorce left me embarrassed

with no confidence.

That person who is no longer
in your life

is holding you hostage.

And you've coupled that
with pornography.

I am headed
to Dr. Ty's office.

Since my last session,
I actually put myself
out there.

I went to a, uh, BDSM club,

Oh! Ow!

I got spanked.

Good girl.

Whoo-hoo!

And I had a couple of dates.

But a part of me
is very disappointed

because I am desperately
trying to find my person,

and it's seeming to be
harder than I thought.

And I just feel ashamed
about that.

Like, you know,
it makes me feel like
what's wrong with me.

It is the story of my life.

It really, really is.

And I don't understand.
I don't understand.

Part of me is thinking that

sex and love connection
will not happen for me.

Tell me how things have been
since we last spoke.

I've been on two dates.

[Dr. Tyrenia] Very nice.

-Um, first one started off
very well.
-Okay.

Uh, later on,
he showed his ass.

And then I had to dismiss him
because he was being
very disrespectful.

How did you communicate
all of that to him?

I just dismissed myself.

Um, had to block.

So you didn't communicate
with him at all?

No.

Then I went on a date
with another guy,

and he cooked dinner,
which was nice.

Jeremy is into spanking.

So we tried it out
and it was very fun.

Was it, um,
erotically charging
for you at all?

Most of it was
curiosity and fun,

but it wasn't all there.

So what made it
not that for you?

I guess, 'cause I'm just not,
like, sexually attracted
to him.

I think that's what
threw it off like--

What is he missing?

I feel like, you know,
I'm bigger than him.

And how is he gonna, like...

manhandle me in the bedroom?

Like, I don't think that he's,
like, dominant enough for me.

But Rhasha, you're doing
a lot of judging.

You don't know
what that man got.

You don't know.

Let me... Let me say this
in this moment...

You have created
this unrealistic person

-that you feel would be
the perfect person for you.
-Yeah.

And you've coupled that
with pornography.

And now you're looking
for that to manifest

to the point that you found
a way to disqualify
poor Jeremy.

You say he's not dominant.

Rhasha is looking
for this person

that checks all the boxes.

In that,
there is an unrealistic view
and expectation.

Both of those dates
that she went on,

it wasn't so much
what they did or didn't do.

When she's not able
to check off those boxes,

automatically,
there is the thought

that they would not be able
to give her what she needs.

The first thing that comes
to my mind is your marriage.

You're holding
what he did to you

against people you have met
and haven't even met yet.

But it's not okay
because someone used you

to hold everybody responsible
for what that person did
to you.

See, I'm gonna cry now.

And that person who
is no longer in your life

is holding you hostage.

[Rhasha] It was emotional.

My divorce
left me embarrassed.

It left me with no confidence.

It left me feeling ugly,

unworthy, unwanted.

My ex-husband
still has a hold on me...

as far as the trauma.

And I have been
dismissing people too soon.

Just trying to protect myself,
I guess.

[Dr. Tyrenia] I want you
to practice

increasing your intimacy

not just with partners,

but also just the people
that are around us.

That will better help you
to have intimate connection,

communication with people
that you're going to meet

-and that you're gonna
bring into your life.
-Yeah.

I need to actually own
my demons

and take responsibility
on some things

I don't think correctly about.

I actually have been talking
to a new guy.

I was definitely thinking
about dismissing him

because he canceled twice
on me.

But after talking to Dr. Ty,

I am thinking about giving him
another chance

and just try to do better.

I want you to really think
about what it is
you're looking for...

Yeah.

...because I think
if you don't...

you're not gonna find it.

[upbeat music playing]

LA, welcome to UpDating.

[crowd cheering]

Who wants to see
a make out tonight?

-[crowd cheering]
-Okay.

And, uh, who wants
to see love?

[crowd cheering]

You're at the wrong show
if you want that.

[all chuckling]

[Deanne] The matchmaker
signed me up
for this UpDating show.

It's way outside
of my comfort zone.

It's not something I would
ever sign myself up for.

Now that I'm actually here
in the green room,

-I'm hearing the audience.
- [audience cheering
at a distance]

It's really loud,
and I am terrified.

Hello. Hello.

-[both] What's going on?
-Hi. Deanne. Nice to meet you.

-Harrison. Nice to meet you.
-Brandon. What's going on?

-Jaime.
-Brandon.

We're the hosts
and creators of UpDating.

It's a comedy show
that puts on blind dates
in front of audiences,

and we've been bringing love
all over the world

the past few years.

[Harrison] We specialize
in getting a lot

of second dates happen
from UpDating,

which is really cool.

So no matter
what happens on stage,

there's a good chance
you'll get a date
after the show.

[Brandon] I will actually bet
all my money that

you're gonna end up
with a guy tonight.

-[Deanne] Aw.
-You guys be nice
to her, though.

-[Harrison] No. We're gonna
be very, very nice.
-[Deanne] Yeah.

I know that the comedians

are going to push the limit

on the questions
that they ask me.

-Here's your blindfold.
So... put it on.
-Okay.

Just put it on,
and then you'll take my hand.

Ooh. Okay.

They're there to get some type

of spicy content
for themselves.

This is something
you'll never forget
the rest of your life.

-This is scary.
-Welcome. Welcome.

[Harrison] Ladies
and gentlemen of Los Angeles,

give it up for Deanne!

-[crowd cheering]
-Deanne!

[Deanne] Oh, God...

-This is so scary.
-Oh, really?

Oh, well,
it's gonna get scarier. Um...

She really looks nervous.

I hate to see
her uncomfortable,
but at the same time,

maybe this is what
Deanne needs,

to just get out
of that comfort zone

and start having a sex life
like the rest of the world.

[Brandon] What brings
you here? Why are you single?

Okay, well, I don't know.
I've just been single
my whole life,

-I've never had a boyfriend...
-Oh, [bleep].

-Whoa! That just got
very depressing.
-[audience titters]

-Oh, [bleep]
-I appreciate that.

[all chuckling]

I am not excited
in the slightest.

Being blindfolded
in front of an audience

gives me so much anxiety.

So I'm really hopeful
that they bring in

a really nice,
hot, attractive guy

that would be a good fit
for me.

That'll make it worth it.

Why do you think that is?
Why do you think
it hasn't happened?

And then, like,
what are you looking for?

Someone that I actually
am attracted to and feel
chemistry with.

And I don't really
want to settle.

-[crowd cheering]
-[Harrison] They like that.

[Deanne] Thanks, guys.

Yeah, Brandon. I was gonna
ask Deanne something.

When was the last time
you had a... a hookup?

-[inhales sharply]
-Yeah?

-Probably like 2017.
-[audience gasping]

[Deanne] I know, guys. I know.

[Brandon] What happened
the last time you were
with someone?

-Like, was...
-Uh... really just kissing
that last time.

Oh, so it wasn't even--

No, it wasn't sex.
It was just kissing.

So I don't really
tell people about my lack
of sexual experience.

Now. I'm up on this stage

in front of hundreds
of people,

and I'm instantly feeling
like the situation's
my worst nightmare.

-Oh, so have you ever...
-Uh...

I need to leave
this stage right now?

[audience titters]

No.

-[Brandon] How old are you?
-[Deanne] Thirty five.

[all gasping]

-Would you like a drink?
-Wine. Please.

I really like her,
and I am getting nervous

that I might mess it up.

Red? White?
Like, you gotta ask.

-Wait... what type of wine?
-[both chuckling]

-Alex has zero game.
Um, let's be real.
-Yeah.

-[Samantha] I'm just really--
-Oh, she just texted me.

Oh, good.

-[Alex] Hey.
-Hi.

-How's it going?
-How are you?

-Good. How are you?
Good to see you.
-Oh, good to see you, too.

-All right. Gonna walk inside,
all right?
-Yeah.

-It's freezing.
-Yeah.

-Hello.
-This is Lauren.

-Hi, Lauren.
-This is Ryan.

-Lauren. Nice to meet you.
-I'm Ryan. Nice to meet you.

-My sister Courtney.
-Courtney. It's nice
to meet you.

Nice to meet you.

-My other sister Samantha.
-Samantha.

-Nice to meet you.
-Lauren. Nice to meet you.

-Do you want me
to take your bag?
-Yeah. Thank you.

[Courtney] I think
Lauren's beautiful.

Um. to be honest, I don't know
that she's somebody

that I would have seen
Alex go for.

But I'm really glad
to see Alex

step out of his comfort zone
a little bit.

-Do you... uh,
would you like a drink?
-Yes.

-This one's yours.
-Oh.

-What would you like? Wine.
-Wine. Please.

-All right.
I'll get you a wine.
-Thank you.

Wait, Ryan's kicking
your butt.

[laughing]

-Like red, white.
Like, you gotta ask.
-I'm gonna go by a hunch.

-Chardonnay.
-Chardonnay. All right.

-All right. Yeah.
-Thank you. [laughs]

-Alex has zero game.
-Yeah.

Uh, let's be real.

Watching it
is kind of entertaining.

It's kind of cringey,
too, though, because I just...
I feel bad for him.

Are you? Don't be nervous.
Don't be nervous.

-All right. Don't be nervous.
-Okay.

My first date with Alex
went really well.

I think
that he's really funny.

We have the good banter
back and forth,

and humor is something
that I look for in a partner.

I am surprised that he's
having me meet his sisters
on our second date.

I... I know that family
means a lot to him.

Family means a lot to me
as well.

I think his, like, sisters
are like his best friends,

but, um, it's still
nerve racking
to walk into all of that

and just... and try to be
myself, I guess.

IT Compliance Analyst.

[both laugh]

[Alex speaking]

-S-M-R-T.
-[laughs]

[laughs] Smrt. Smrt.

It's weird going
from never dating
to kind of starting to,

and knowing
that I'm one step closer
to me losing my virginity,

it's surreal to me.

-Bottom right. Bottom right.
-Right next to where he was.

Yes, you know.

[both] Oh!

-All right. Way to come back.
-What a comeback.

[Alex] I don't want to get
ahead of myself.

But in this moment,
I feel like
things are going good.

-Lauren, it was so nice
to meet you.
-[Lauren] Yes.

-I'm a hugger.
I'm a hugger, so...
-I know. I am too.

[Courtney] Lauren seems to be
a good fit for Alex.

Um, they seem like they have
some things in common
which is nice.

[Samantha] Alex needs to just
pump the brakes a little bit

and not put
so much pressure on it
because he is a good catch.

-Thank you.
-Yep.

I'm feeling excited.
I'm feeling happy.
I'm feeling nervous.

Your sisters were really nice.
You have to tell them that.

-[Alex] I will.
-[Lauren] They were
very welcoming.

I'm just really shocked
that she's into me, 'cause...

...I didn't think I was gonna
get this far.

Okay. Thank you so much.
All right.

All right.

-All right. I'll let you in.
-Oh, thank you.

Yeah. No problem.

Lauren is the complete
package. She is perfect.

And I want to show her
that I'm serious about taking
things to the next level.

In my perfect scenario,
I can ultimately see myself
losing my virginity to her.

I'm definitely
gonna bring this one.

Looks amazing.

When Dr Ty told me
I need to work on intimacy,
I think it's beyond sexual.

I think it's about
just opening up

to being my real
authentic self
with anybody around me.

Yeah, this is gonna be cute.

I've been talking
to my friend Jessica
about my sexual situation,

and she knows I'm a virgin.

She's my spicy friend.

She's very knowledgeable
about sex.

Hey!

Let me bring that.

She's been asking me to go
to this adult resort,

and I said yes.

It may be a little bit
advanced for me,

but I'm open to learning
and seeing things,

just being intimate
with people in general
and letting people in.

I'm gonna bring this as well.

Because why not?

I'm gonna be
in this pool, heavy.

I also did decide to contact
this new guy, William,

and we went out
a couple of times already.

I just got finished my date.

And it was really,
really good!

It was really, really good.

It's really new,
so it's no label on it yet.

He hasn't asked me anything
about being exclusive.

He's cool with it.

[producer speaking]

I kissed him on the cheek.

We gave each other a hug
when we were leaving
and I kissed him on the cheek.

Yeah.

-What's... [chuckles]
-Jessica.

-I mean this looks cool.
-Don't worry about no...

Listen, listen, listen,
listen, listen.

-Mom.
-Jessica.

Can you come here and listen
to what your child
is talking about?

[Rhasha] So I told my mom
and sister
that I'm going to a resort,

but I didn't tell them
what kind of resort
I'm going to.

I am just preparing myself
for the shenanigans

that come with telling
Iris and Jessica.

-I'm gonna show you
all these outfits.
-Okay.

This is one of my
favorite ones.

-This is my...
-[Iris] Girl, you're gonna
have something over there.

Lingerie? No, this is like
lingerie pajamas.

Like, you know
what I'm saying?
Sleepwear, like...

Sleepwear. That ain't nothing.

Where would you wear
the lingerie at though?

[Rhasha] It could be by myself
in my room.

[Jessica] You might as well
not wear that.

-It's about seduction.
-[scoffs]

-Who are you seducting?
-[Rhasha] I mean,
just even yourself.

You know, just feeling sexy.

The resort I'm going to
has a pool,
so I got my bathing suit.

What?

What's wrong with that?

-Listen, I'm grown.
-Rhasha.

-Yeah, you're grown.
-This is stuff that you would
not normally wear.

You don't have anything like,
no jeans or anything
like that?

It's an adult resort.

Where you can be free.

-You can be free.
-And explore yourself.

Is it just like maybe
a nudist?

[Rhasha] It's not nudist,
but you can be.

What I think happens
at adult resorts

is everybody is just
like screwing everybody,
like every turn you take.

And they're like all meshed
into one big monster.

And like you got arms
and legs hanging out,

like, and eyeballs everywhere,
like all kinds
of body anatomy.

Like everywhere.
I could be wrong.

But that's what I feel
that I may see and experience.

You're not gonna do that.

[sighs]

I mean, well...

[Jessica] I mean,
she's grown, Mom.

-I mean, she grown.
-[Iris] I know she is.
I know she is.

You know?

Why you gotta do
this experience?

Well, she's a grown woman
and hasn't experienced
anything,

as far as, like, sexual,
you know, you can't.

Well, I haven't neither.

Okay, but you're still
married, and you've got kids.

So you've had that experience.

Okay, Rhasha gonna see
a bunch of ass and titties.

That's on her because...

That's what she
want to see, you know?

[laughs]

-Jess. [laughs]
-I just hope she got
her shots.

I mean, I'm gonna boost you

-because you're grown.
-Help me out.
That's what I'm saying.

-You're grown.
You do whatever you wanna do.
-[Rhasha] Right.

I understand the concerns,
but I need to be open
in the moment.

And I'm still gonna do
what I do
because I'm grown.

[chuckles]

I've got gray hairs
on my vagina. I'm grown.

[laughs] I'm grown.

I'm just gonna explore
and have a good time...

-Yeah, I get it.
-...and see, like, there's
no expectations at all.

I'm just going there
and experience my sexuality.

[Jessica speaking]

[Rhasha] What sexuality?

Jessica, I have sexuality,
okay?

[Sonali sighs and groans]

What does that feel like
for you?

It is pleasurable.

And it doesn't. It has nothing
to do with the physical act
of sex.

-This is a pleasurable
act, right?
-Right.

And it's intimate, right?

-This is very... This is
pretty intimate, right?
-[Sonali] Right.

Mmm.

Getting touched by a man
who I don't know very well,

that is not something
I'm comfortable with at all.

Even when I go for a massage,
I request a female masseuse.

So for me to allow him
to do this to me
is a huge deal.

-Is this...
-Yeah, it feels nice.

[chuckles]

I might apply a little bit
more pressure,
so stay right here.

I'm just standing up
to get more leverage.

Oh.

-What does that feel like?
-Amazing.

Oh.

I am in an absolute daze.

I feel very comfortable
and safe.

The pleasurable sensations
that I'm feeling,

it gives me some hope
that maybe one day,
hopefully soon,

I'd be able to enjoy
sexual pleasure.

[Wayne] And I think broadening
our perspective

and understanding
of what intimacy is...

-...is helpful.
-Right.

[Wayne] You know,
because we just associate sex
with intimacy.

Intimacy is so many
other things.

[Sonali] I feel I have
experienced a breakthrough
with Wayne.

I do feel closer to him.

I wish I could have that
done to me every hour.
[laughs]

Can I do something
really quick?

Can I hold your hands
real quick?
I wanna say something to you.

Since we've been
working together,

it's my first time seeing you,
like, your guard down

and just being able
to receive.

I hope for you
that you are able to...

...allow yourself to be open
to trying new things.

-I feel positive for you. Yes.
-You feel optimistic?

Optimistic for sure.

[Sonali] I must say,
I am really proud of myself
right now.

I feel stronger, more brave
when it comes to pleasure
and touch.

And I think that having
a more open mind

will allow me to overcome
my physical barrier

and experience physical
intimacy with a man.

I know how this may
be a big ask for you,
but can I have a hug?

-Sure.
-Yes.

-Thank you, Wayne
-[Wayne] Thank you.

-Oh, so have you ever?
-[Deanne] Uh...

No.

[gasping]

I mean, look, Deanne,
you came to a show.

A lot of people have
come out of this
with their partner.

Yeah, how many?

[Brandon] Um... um...

More times
than you've had sex.

[all laughing]

I think Deanne being
a 35-year-old virgin

is definitely, like,
not a lifestyle
I recommend to most people.

What did I get myself into?

[laughs]

[Harrison] This is someone
who could be sexually active,

and I'm sure a lot of guys
pursue her.

But she's choosing not to.
It's very interesting.

Do I think she's gonna leave
the show tonight
and be humping someone?

Probably not. But I do think
that we're gonna
bring her closer

to losing her virginity
than anything else.

So, Deanne, you're about
to meet your boyfriend.

Guys, give it up for Conrad.

[audience cheering]

[Deanne] What is going on?

[Brandon] Uh, Deanne,
this is Conrad.

Um, and, Conrad, um...

-Hi, Deanne. Hi.
-Hi, Conrad.

[Brandon] So, Conrad,
right off the bat,

try to just win Deanne over
right now.

One, two, three.

-Hi, Deanne.
I'm emotionally available.
-Yeah.

Oh, my [bleep] God.

Who is he?

I just moved to LA
from New York,

and I'm pretty independent
and happy.

And I'm just looking
for someone
to kind of share life with.

And I just want
to find someone who helps,
you know, make my life better.

and I can make
their life better.

Oh, I like that.

[Brandon] So, Deanne,
what question do you have?

Okay. This is a question
the crowd's not
gonna like, but...

...I want kids in my future.

The police are here.
We don't give a [bleep].

[audience laughing]

[Deanne] A guy
that I seriously date
has to want kids.

[Conrad] I do want kids. Um,

I would love to have four.

One of my brothers is adopted,
so would love to have
three biological

and one adopted kid someday.

Yo, this guy is literally God.

[audience laughing]

These comedians
have ridiculous questions.

They have a ridiculous method.

But I do think that they found
a good one in Conrad.

What do you... what do you
look for in a partner?

But then a more fun question.
What's your ick?

That you... latent guys,
that just turns you off?

Um, everything.

[audience laughing]

[Deanne] I think his
personality is great and I'm
really liking it right now.

I'm just really hoping
that I find him
physically attractive as well.

You guys are going
to take your blindfolds

off in five, four,
three, two, one.

[audience cheering]

Hi.

-Nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you, too.

She's cute.

Deanne has beautiful eyes.

I loved seeing them
when she took off
the blindfold,

and I feel like her
physical appearance

definitely matches
her personality.

She seems super fun
and outgoing,
and she's beautiful,

and I'm excited
to get to know her more.

Deanne, did you want
to tell him, like, you know,
what you haven't been doing?

I haven't been hooking up
with people a lot.

Okay.

-Yeah, that's cool.
-I don't think it's bad

to not be hooking up
all the time.

Conrad, how long would you be
willing to wait for a person
to go all the way?

Uh... um,
if it's the right person,

I don't think you can put
a timeline on it.

[audience groans in affection]

I definitely don't think
Deanne will have sex
with anyone

if she's not dating
them seriously.

But what I'll say is
if someone could take
Deanne's V card,

Conrad is the guy
that could get it done.

Eyes closed. Look straight.

Thumb up
if you are interested
in the person next to you.

Thumb down if you are not,
in three, two, one.

[all] Oh!

Like, this was like wild.

Conrad has that thing
that some guys have

that makes you really
attracted to them.

That makes you really
want them.

[Brandon] Give it up
for Conrad.

-Wow.
-[audience cheering]

All right.

I would want to, you know,

end up hooking up with him.

I think it would be easier
to start a sexual relationship

with someone like Conrad,
who is so nice.

I think someone like him
would probably be
a great start to that.

♪ Da-da-da-da ♪

-Oh.
-Yeah!

-[Jessica] We have arrived.
-Oh, my goodness.

Walking through those doors
is a whole new world.

Naked people,
people making out.

Oh my gosh, look at that.

-Candyland for adults.
-Candyland

Oh, my goodness!

I am about to live my life.
My best life.

[laughs]

-[Jessica] Girl, what's up?
Are you excited?
-I'm excited.

Let's get on this road.

[Rhasha] Jessica and I
are headed out
to the adults-only resort

for a fun and sexy weekend.

And we are ready
to get the party started.

I got stuff to, uh,
update you on.

I met a guy.

Oh.

Dang.

-Yes. And his name
is William.
-[Jessica] Okay.

Uh-huh.

He's sweet and caring.

-And he makes me feel safe.
-Okay.

-[Jessica] Perfect.
-I really like him.

Girl, I love that for you.

Um, I think... I think
we're going
in the right direction.

Absolutely. Absolutely.

I haven't yet because
I am more trying

to build an honest
connection with him.

And once that connection,
um, and trust is built,

I think that I will let him

know my curiosity about it
and see if he's...
he's cool with it.

Okay, so now let's... let's
talk about this now.

-So we're on our way
to this resort, right?
-Mmm-hmm.

Have you thought about
inviting him?

Um, I thought about it,
but I'm kind of nervous.

-Why?
-Because, like,
we're still kind of new,

and then, like,
on the last minute,

and you know,
so I don't... I wasn't sure.

Okay, But wait. Listen.

This is the perfect
opportunity.

All you can do is just ask,
you know, so think about it.

I am feeling like, is he gonna
enjoy coming to see me
even though we're new?

And it's an adult resort.

So I'm worried about
if he thinks that, you know,
I'm moving too fast.

This weekend, I want you
to literally
give yourself permission

to explore new things.

I'm going to give myself
permission to explore
new things.

Say it again.

I'm going to give myself
permission to explore
new things!

-That's what I want for you.
Yes.
-Yes. Yes.

[Rhasha] And we
are here, baby.

-[Jessica] I'm ready.
I'm ready.
-[Rhasha] I'm ready.

I like it a lot, honey.
They are not ready for us.

-They ain't ready.
-[Rhasha laughs]

Oh, my goodness.

We're here to have all fun
and see all the things.

So if you're ready to party,

-this is the place
to be for sure.
-Oh!

Ooh!

-That's nice.
-Oh, my gosh.

-[Jessica] We have arrived.
-[Rhasha] Oh, my goodness.

Walking through those doors
is a whole new world.

A whole new world.

I'm seeing people
in the hot tub, naked people.

People making out.

Oh, my gosh, Look at that.

-Candyland.
-Candyland.

Jesus.

-[Rhasha] Oh, my goodness.
-[Jessica] Candyland.

-A game for adults, Honey.
-[Rhasha] Oh, my goodness.

I am a 42-year-old virgin
at an adult resort

Ooh-ooh.

[laughing]

And I am about
to live my life.

My best life.

I just, like, would like
William to see this.

[Jessica] You know,
I too would like William
to see this.

So why don't you text
your boo thing?

-[Rhasha] Really?
-Yes. Why not?

-Okay. I mean, like...
-Yeah, you just, like,
text him and just say,

"You know what?
This is a sweet room.

It'll be so much sweeter
with you here."

Is it too short notice?

You think he's gonna tell you?
No, I don't.

[Rhasha] William coming
to the resort, like,
I'm nervous

that he's going to think
that I am really wild
and crazy.

But the more I'm here,
the more I'm missing him.

This is it. This is what
you gotta do.

Okay. I have this sweet room.

and I would like for you
to join me.

-Yes.
-Sent.

I don't know
if he's gonna say yes.

And what if he says no?

And I'm like, "Oh, my God,
is this really gonna happen?"

Oh, my God, he's texting back.

[Jessica] I love it.

-This is sexy.
-[screams excitedly]

-I hope you like red wine.
-I do. I love red.

Conrad is super cute.
He's super nice.

It's Deanne's world.
I'm just living in it.

[Deanne] I can tell Conrad
does want to kiss me.

Who knows? I could just have
a sex life without it meaning
so much more.

-[Alex] This is gonna be fun.
-[Lauren laughs]

I haven't seen
a round bed before.

-[Alex] Me neither.
-[Lauren] Look at the ceiling.
Oh, my. Lots of mirrors.

I am fantasizing
what will happen.

But I don't feel like
I'll enjoy the weekend

if I don't tell Lauren
that I'm a virgin.

I have something
I need to tell you.

The last time I told someone
that I was a virgin,

that didn't go well,
so I'm very nervous.

-I'm kind of talking
to someone.
-Okay.

-Whoa.
-Okay.

I like William a lot.

-Yeah.
-Okay. Come on.

It just feels natural.

Kiss me, William.

It's real life.

It's happening,
and I'm excited
and scared at the same time.

-Oh, my goodness.
-Welcome to the temple.

I'm going to meet
with a priestess healer.

It's an honor
to have you here.

[Sonali] I'll try anything
to be able to have sex.

What we're gonna do is just
place this tool at the door.

[groans] Oh, my gosh,
I didn't expect this
to happen.