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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,500 --> 00:00:02,667 [man] Don't look so nervous. It's just cold water. 2 00:00:02,667 --> 00:00:04,166 [Deanne] Previously on Virgins... 3 00:00:04,166 --> 00:00:06,367 This is the first time that I'm feeling 4 00:00:06,367 --> 00:00:08,667 some type of excitement about a guy. 5 00:00:08,667 --> 00:00:10,166 I like that feeling. 6 00:00:10,166 --> 00:00:12,200 -Are you guys ready to take the plunge? -[Deanne] I guess so. 7 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:13,900 But is he gonna run away 8 00:00:13,900 --> 00:00:16,300 when he finds out that I don't have sexual experience? 9 00:00:16,700 --> 00:00:18,166 [gasps] 10 00:00:18,567 --> 00:00:19,700 [Alex] There we go. 11 00:00:19,700 --> 00:00:21,166 I have like two voices in my head. 12 00:00:21,166 --> 00:00:23,100 One saying, "Don't do it!" The other one saying, "Do it!" 13 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:27,266 -[snickers] -I... so appreciate that 14 00:00:27,266 --> 00:00:28,767 you want to kiss me. 15 00:00:28,767 --> 00:00:30,266 [Alex] Getting denied a kiss, 16 00:00:30,266 --> 00:00:31,667 it's just confusing. 17 00:00:31,667 --> 00:00:34,400 I'm not sure when we're going to be able to see each other. 18 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:36,100 [exhales] 19 00:00:36,100 --> 00:00:37,967 I don't know if I want to get married 20 00:00:37,967 --> 00:00:40,066 because I was before. 21 00:00:40,066 --> 00:00:41,900 I need my person to be dominant, 22 00:00:41,900 --> 00:00:43,767 and, like, manhandle me. 23 00:00:43,767 --> 00:00:46,266 -Spanking' my fetish. -What? 24 00:00:46,266 --> 00:00:49,000 We both are into BDSM. 25 00:00:49,867 --> 00:00:51,100 Whoo-hoo! 26 00:00:51,100 --> 00:00:53,567 But with Jeremy, it didn't feel 27 00:00:53,567 --> 00:00:56,467 as sexy as it looks in porn. 28 00:00:57,500 --> 00:01:00,667 If I hear the word "masturbation," I cringe. 29 00:01:00,667 --> 00:01:03,000 I feel like it's so uncomfortable for you, 30 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:04,867 the idea of testing yourself. 31 00:01:04,867 --> 00:01:08,266 [Sonali] I'm feeling annoyed by Wayne, the sex surrogate, 32 00:01:08,266 --> 00:01:11,967 because touching myself is just not something I wanna do. 33 00:01:11,967 --> 00:01:13,767 I can't help it. This is who I am. 34 00:01:13,767 --> 00:01:14,967 -You-- -We're just going back and forth. 35 00:01:14,967 --> 00:01:17,100 Like, there's no solution, right? I've had enough! 36 00:01:33,667 --> 00:01:35,500 So the cold plunge event, 37 00:01:35,500 --> 00:01:37,066 I met Alex. 38 00:01:37,066 --> 00:01:40,266 And, you know, I was finally in the space where I was like, 39 00:01:40,266 --> 00:01:43,066 "Okay, this could go somewhere," and I was excited about it. 40 00:01:43,066 --> 00:01:45,266 But later on, I did look at his Instagram. 41 00:01:45,266 --> 00:01:46,567 He played volleyball. 42 00:01:46,567 --> 00:01:48,300 -Okay. -Super tall. 43 00:01:48,300 --> 00:01:50,300 -[Jaime] He's cute. -[Deanne speaking] 44 00:01:50,300 --> 00:01:52,800 -Wait... -Graduated in '24. 45 00:01:53,500 --> 00:01:55,367 Oh, gosh. Of course. 46 00:01:55,367 --> 00:01:58,567 I finally find one that I might wanna go on a second date with, 47 00:01:58,567 --> 00:02:01,266 -and I think he's... -Too young? 48 00:02:01,266 --> 00:02:02,200 [sighs softly] 49 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:05,600 As a 35-year-old woman, I do not want 50 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:08,266 to tell a 24-year-old guy 51 00:02:08,266 --> 00:02:10,867 that I'm inexperienced in dating and sex. 52 00:02:10,867 --> 00:02:12,400 That, to me, is embarrassing. 53 00:02:14,567 --> 00:02:18,467 So I am gonna go see my matchmaker, Tammi, today. 54 00:02:18,467 --> 00:02:20,166 -Hi. How are you? -Good. Good. 55 00:02:20,166 --> 00:02:21,900 -You look beautiful. -Thank you. You too. 56 00:02:21,900 --> 00:02:23,900 I love you in blue. 57 00:02:23,900 --> 00:02:28,100 I don't want to slide back into my comfort zone of not dating at all. 58 00:02:28,100 --> 00:02:30,166 And I think Tammi will help me 59 00:02:30,166 --> 00:02:32,467 with my next steps of how to move forward. 60 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:34,500 What have you been up to? 61 00:02:34,500 --> 00:02:36,867 Oh, you know, going on some dates. 62 00:02:36,867 --> 00:02:39,600 There was one guy that was really cute. 63 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:42,066 And we clicked, and then he asked me out on another date. 64 00:02:42,066 --> 00:02:43,900 -Oh, good. -And then... 65 00:02:43,900 --> 00:02:46,266 -Oh, no. And then? -I got home, 66 00:02:46,266 --> 00:02:48,867 and I looked at his Instagram. 67 00:02:48,867 --> 00:02:52,667 The most recent photos were college graduation. 68 00:02:52,667 --> 00:02:55,166 [gasps] Oh, no. How old is he? 69 00:02:55,166 --> 00:02:57,967 So I looked up a little bit more and found out he's 24, 70 00:02:57,967 --> 00:02:59,667 Oh! 71 00:02:59,667 --> 00:03:03,500 And I think Deanne is realizing, 72 00:03:03,500 --> 00:03:06,000 uh, that it's hard out there. 73 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,166 [chuckling] It's hard to meet somebody. 74 00:03:08,166 --> 00:03:11,000 I think it takes practice to get out there 75 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:14,100 and put yourself out there, and you're doing all those things. 76 00:03:14,100 --> 00:03:18,500 As a matchmaker, I think it is a good approach 77 00:03:18,500 --> 00:03:20,667 to meet different people different ways. 78 00:03:20,667 --> 00:03:23,300 So I love that you are open-minded 79 00:03:23,300 --> 00:03:25,667 and doing these different ways of dating people, 80 00:03:25,667 --> 00:03:29,567 and it makes me think of something I heard about called UpDating. 81 00:03:29,567 --> 00:03:32,567 And it's a live dating show 82 00:03:32,567 --> 00:03:35,000 on stage with some comedians, 83 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:36,433 -which I know is-- -On stage? 84 00:03:36,433 --> 00:03:39,500 I know. I know. I know it's a little weird, but I think it could be fun. 85 00:03:39,500 --> 00:03:41,266 -And-- -Is there, like, an audience? 86 00:03:41,266 --> 00:03:44,266 Yeah, there's an audience watching. 87 00:03:44,266 --> 00:03:48,100 This is sounding completely nightmarish to me. 88 00:03:48,100 --> 00:03:50,500 But you're blindfolded. [laughs] 89 00:03:50,500 --> 00:03:52,100 -That don't sound like fun? -That sounds like 90 00:03:52,100 --> 00:03:54,400 -a freaking dream. -[laughing] 91 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:58,500 Some of Deanne's issues are just her 92 00:03:58,500 --> 00:04:02,500 not being open to the person and more going off looks. 93 00:04:02,500 --> 00:04:05,900 So I think, being blindfolded, she doesn't see the person. 94 00:04:05,900 --> 00:04:08,367 She's really just kind of seeing the internal person 95 00:04:08,367 --> 00:04:13,166 and see if there's... chemistry or connection that way. 96 00:04:13,166 --> 00:04:17,367 The essence of me trying new things lately, I'm definitely open to it. 97 00:04:17,367 --> 00:04:19,266 -I love it. -I... you know, 98 00:04:19,266 --> 00:04:21,467 I'm trying to put myself out there in every which way. 99 00:04:21,467 --> 00:04:24,266 So Tammi is an expert. She's good at what she does. 100 00:04:24,266 --> 00:04:26,467 And I think she's good at reading people 101 00:04:26,467 --> 00:04:28,667 and finding out their differences. 102 00:04:28,667 --> 00:04:30,567 And I'm clearly a lot different 103 00:04:30,567 --> 00:04:32,467 than a lot of her clientele. 104 00:04:32,467 --> 00:04:35,100 So I think she's thinking outside the box a little bit for me. 105 00:04:35,100 --> 00:04:37,767 You live once. It'll be a good story to tell. 106 00:04:37,767 --> 00:04:39,700 -So-- -Or you'll find the one. 107 00:04:39,700 --> 00:04:42,000 -[laughs] -Probably not, but maybe. 108 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:44,400 -You never know. -Think positive. Positive. 109 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:45,400 [chuckles] 110 00:04:55,600 --> 00:04:57,467 What does he want me to say? Just like-- 111 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:06,000 I understand that Wayne's intentions are good. 112 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:09,467 He wants to help me, but it's challenging. 113 00:05:09,467 --> 00:05:12,166 I've been this way for so long. 114 00:05:12,166 --> 00:05:14,667 It is hard to imagine myself in any other way. 115 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:19,567 But at the same time, 116 00:05:19,567 --> 00:05:21,967 if I were to quit, I would wonder... 117 00:05:23,100 --> 00:05:24,367 what could have happened. 118 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:27,467 And I don't wanna live in regret. 119 00:05:30,767 --> 00:05:31,867 [clears throat] 120 00:05:33,166 --> 00:05:34,867 Hi. 121 00:05:34,867 --> 00:05:39,000 So I understand, and I wanna acknowledge the frustration. 122 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:41,400 I'm not trying to badger you or... 123 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:42,800 Just trying to, honestly, 124 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:45,266 just trying to get information. 125 00:05:45,266 --> 00:05:48,100 I don't think you understand, for an Indian woman, 126 00:05:48,100 --> 00:05:51,800 -what a big deal any sort of physical intimacy is. -Mmm-hmm. 127 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:53,166 [Wayne] When I look at Sonali upbringing, 128 00:05:53,166 --> 00:05:55,367 I can understand how she ended up in this space 129 00:05:55,367 --> 00:05:57,800 to where she is resistant to the idea 130 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:00,166 of what touch could be like for her. 131 00:06:00,166 --> 00:06:02,400 Ultimately, I'm trying to help her change the narrative 132 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:05,100 that she has created around sex, sexuality, 133 00:06:05,100 --> 00:06:07,667 and un-affirm some of her beliefs. 134 00:06:07,667 --> 00:06:10,367 I get it. I know I got a little triggered and riled up, 135 00:06:10,367 --> 00:06:11,900 but I do feel safe around you, 136 00:06:11,900 --> 00:06:14,000 because otherwise I wouldn't have let you into my home, you know, 137 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:16,367 I wouldn't have... wouldn't be sitting next to you on my couch, 138 00:06:16,367 --> 00:06:17,900 you know, conversing like this. 139 00:06:17,900 --> 00:06:19,100 Yeah. 140 00:06:19,100 --> 00:06:20,900 -You are a professional. -Yes. 141 00:06:20,900 --> 00:06:22,400 I do trust you in that capacity. 142 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,367 But if... if I may ask you, um... 143 00:06:25,567 --> 00:06:27,400 if you would... 144 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:29,367 if you would just... if you would mind 145 00:06:29,367 --> 00:06:30,667 just massaging my back... 146 00:06:30,667 --> 00:06:32,667 -in a professional capacity. -Yes. 147 00:06:33,767 --> 00:06:34,967 What do you say to that? 148 00:06:36,266 --> 00:06:37,800 So, um... 149 00:06:40,266 --> 00:06:43,266 Sonali is so in her head and so guarded. 150 00:06:43,266 --> 00:06:47,667 I'm trying to process what's going on right now. 151 00:06:48,367 --> 00:06:50,266 I need to know if this is organic. 152 00:06:50,266 --> 00:06:52,767 Is this something you really want to experience? 153 00:06:52,767 --> 00:06:55,367 Because it kind of feels abrupt. 154 00:06:55,367 --> 00:06:58,166 I want to make sure, like, I want to be able 155 00:06:58,166 --> 00:07:01,300 -to give you an authentic, organic touch. -Of course. 156 00:07:01,300 --> 00:07:03,100 'Cause it doesn't feel good to me to touch you 157 00:07:03,100 --> 00:07:04,400 and you don't actually want me to touch you. 158 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:07,000 No, but I did ask you. No, you are a professional, 159 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:08,600 and I know you're trying to help me. 160 00:07:08,600 --> 00:07:10,900 -It's a sincere request. -Okay. Yes. 161 00:07:10,900 --> 00:07:13,266 [Sonali] What Wayne and I have been discussing, 162 00:07:13,266 --> 00:07:14,667 it does make me uncomfortable. 163 00:07:14,667 --> 00:07:16,266 I'm a little less uncomfortable, 164 00:07:16,266 --> 00:07:18,667 but I'm still uncomfortable. 165 00:07:18,667 --> 00:07:21,166 But I came here to make progress, 166 00:07:21,166 --> 00:07:24,900 and I do trust Wayne enough, at this point, to try this. 167 00:07:27,367 --> 00:07:28,600 [Wayne] So it seems like you carry a lot of tension 168 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:30,000 -up in this area right here. -Yeah. Mmm-hmm. 169 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:31,900 Well, you let me know if it's... if it's not enough 170 00:07:31,900 --> 00:07:33,266 -or if it's too much, right? -Okay. 171 00:07:33,266 --> 00:07:34,567 [inhales] 172 00:07:34,567 --> 00:07:35,900 Mmm. 173 00:07:36,967 --> 00:07:39,900 Become really present in this space right here where we are. 174 00:07:40,500 --> 00:07:41,567 [Sonali] Mmm. 175 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:44,467 [Wayne] Mmm. 176 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,266 You don't have to feel, like, unsafe. 177 00:07:49,266 --> 00:07:51,166 Like, you are okay here. 178 00:07:53,300 --> 00:07:54,667 [exhales] 179 00:07:55,367 --> 00:07:57,367 ♪ I hope you like it ♪ 180 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:04,567 ♪ I hope you like it ♪ 181 00:08:09,567 --> 00:08:11,166 ♪ I hope you like it... ♪ 182 00:08:11,166 --> 00:08:12,700 -Oh. -[man] Oh, oh, oh. 183 00:08:12,700 --> 00:08:15,200 Hey, my gosh, Ryan, if that hits that eight-ball 184 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:16,266 -and that goes in... -Go, go, go. 185 00:08:16,266 --> 00:08:18,166 -[Courtney] Oh! Hey, buddy. -Hey. How's it going? 186 00:08:18,166 --> 00:08:20,600 I was pretty close. I said about seven minutes, so... 187 00:08:20,600 --> 00:08:22,100 What am I... am I late? 188 00:08:22,100 --> 00:08:23,900 -A little bit. -Yeah, like always, Alex. 189 00:08:23,900 --> 00:08:25,667 No. Your late and my late is totally different. 190 00:08:27,100 --> 00:08:28,900 After Andrea friends owned me, 191 00:08:28,900 --> 00:08:32,567 I'm trying to figure out how to get through this. 192 00:08:32,567 --> 00:08:34,367 You did put yourself out there. 193 00:08:34,367 --> 00:08:36,000 You made a connection with somebody, 194 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:37,567 and you're gonna make another connection... 195 00:08:37,567 --> 00:08:38,634 [Samantha] And you could do it again. 196 00:08:38,634 --> 00:08:41,367 ...until you find... until you find that somebody. 197 00:08:41,367 --> 00:08:43,767 [Samantha] Now you've done that, you've already gotten out of your comfort zone. 198 00:08:43,767 --> 00:08:46,600 -Keep pushing yourself, like-- -[Carin] You can't get yourself down. 199 00:08:48,500 --> 00:08:52,266 [Alex] I feel like losing your virginity is supposed to be a connection. 200 00:08:52,266 --> 00:08:54,166 I want to experience that. 201 00:08:54,166 --> 00:08:56,066 I mean, it's not an easy thing to accomplish. 202 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:02,967 Because I had more matches. 203 00:09:02,967 --> 00:09:06,266 There is one girl that is standing out to me above the rest. 204 00:09:06,266 --> 00:09:07,567 And her name is Lauren. 205 00:09:08,066 --> 00:09:09,667 [Lauren speaking] 206 00:09:09,667 --> 00:09:10,867 [laughing] It's like... 207 00:09:11,266 --> 00:09:12,767 [Alex speaking] 208 00:09:15,100 --> 00:09:16,433 [laughs] 209 00:09:18,867 --> 00:09:21,567 [Alex] She has a very cute smile, nice blue eyes, 210 00:09:21,567 --> 00:09:24,200 and just her overall presence is... 211 00:09:25,166 --> 00:09:27,300 is nice. 212 00:09:27,300 --> 00:09:30,367 Like, this is the first time that you're bringing any kind of woman around. 213 00:09:30,367 --> 00:09:31,867 -[Samantha] Yeah. -How are you feeling? 214 00:09:31,867 --> 00:09:33,300 I'm nervous. 215 00:09:33,300 --> 00:09:35,100 -[Courtney] Are you? Okay. -Yeah. 216 00:09:35,100 --> 00:09:36,500 Tell us a little bit about her. 217 00:09:36,500 --> 00:09:37,967 [Alex] She's the same age as me. 218 00:09:37,967 --> 00:09:39,800 -She has a daughter. -[both] Okay. 219 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:41,400 [Courtney speaking] 220 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:44,367 She was kind of like a woman version of me. 221 00:09:44,367 --> 00:09:45,567 I mean, we laugh a lot. 222 00:09:45,567 --> 00:09:48,700 -[Courtney] A woman version of you. Oh. -[all chuckling] 223 00:09:48,700 --> 00:09:51,467 I'm really happy Alex is putting himself back out there, 224 00:09:51,467 --> 00:09:53,567 uh, and dating again. 225 00:09:53,567 --> 00:09:56,166 [Samantha] But I just think that he should have given himself a little bit of time 226 00:09:56,166 --> 00:09:58,567 -to kind of reevaluate... -[Courtney] Yeah, reevaluate, like... 227 00:09:58,567 --> 00:09:59,934 -...what went wrong. -...what went wrong with Andrea, 228 00:09:59,934 --> 00:10:03,600 and I don't want him to make those same mistakes with Lauren now. 229 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:06,700 Have you had that conversation with her about you being a virgin or no? 230 00:10:06,700 --> 00:10:08,100 -[Alex] No. -Okay. 231 00:10:08,100 --> 00:10:09,667 The timing wasn't right for that. 232 00:10:09,667 --> 00:10:11,233 -Not today, obviously, like-- -[Alex] No. 233 00:10:11,233 --> 00:10:12,900 -No, not today. Not today. -[Courtney] Okay, please don't have that conversation 234 00:10:12,900 --> 00:10:14,266 -with all of us present... -[Alex] No. 235 00:10:14,266 --> 00:10:17,100 -...'cause I feel like that's more of a-- -[Alex] No. 236 00:10:17,100 --> 00:10:21,066 Dating is hard, but being a virgin is ten times harder, 237 00:10:21,066 --> 00:10:23,767 because even if I connect with somebody, 238 00:10:23,767 --> 00:10:26,867 I have to find the right time to tell them. 239 00:10:26,867 --> 00:10:28,800 -[Courtney] I'm just really-- -Oh, she just texted me. 240 00:10:28,800 --> 00:10:30,166 -[Courtney] Oh, good. -She's here. 241 00:10:31,100 --> 00:10:33,800 I don't want to be too vulnerable too quick. 242 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:36,300 I kind of realized that with Andrea... 243 00:10:36,300 --> 00:10:39,867 and I think maybe that's kind of why I got friend-zoned. 244 00:10:39,867 --> 00:10:43,100 I don't... I don't wanna go too fast with it. 245 00:10:43,100 --> 00:10:45,800 All right, I'm gonna go outside and meet her real quick. 246 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:47,367 How are you feeling, Alex? 247 00:10:48,567 --> 00:10:49,567 [Alex] Nervous. 248 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:53,867 For him to bring, like, her here to meet us, 249 00:10:53,867 --> 00:10:56,467 I think it's a really big deal 'cause he's never done that before, Ryan. [chuckles] 250 00:10:56,467 --> 00:10:58,867 -Yeah, I know. He has to be nervous. -Like, this is all real. 251 00:11:05,967 --> 00:11:08,266 The first thing that comes to my mind 252 00:11:08,266 --> 00:11:10,900 is your marriage. 253 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:13,567 See, I'm gonna cry now. 254 00:11:13,567 --> 00:11:16,700 My divorce left me embarrassed 255 00:11:16,700 --> 00:11:18,266 with no confidence. 256 00:11:18,266 --> 00:11:20,667 That person who is no longer in your life 257 00:11:20,667 --> 00:11:22,767 is holding you hostage. 258 00:11:22,767 --> 00:11:25,867 And you've coupled that with pornography. 259 00:11:43,467 --> 00:11:46,367 I am headed to Dr. Ty's office. 260 00:11:46,367 --> 00:11:49,967 Since my last session, I actually put myself out there. 261 00:11:49,967 --> 00:11:53,700 I went to a, uh, BDSM club, 262 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:56,166 Oh! Ow! 263 00:11:56,667 --> 00:11:58,467 I got spanked. 264 00:11:58,467 --> 00:11:59,467 Good girl. 265 00:12:00,300 --> 00:12:01,767 Whoo-hoo! 266 00:12:01,767 --> 00:12:04,767 And I had a couple of dates. 267 00:12:04,767 --> 00:12:07,767 But a part of me is very disappointed 268 00:12:07,767 --> 00:12:11,266 because I am desperately trying to find my person, 269 00:12:11,266 --> 00:12:15,867 and it's seeming to be harder than I thought. 270 00:12:15,867 --> 00:12:17,266 And I just feel ashamed about that. 271 00:12:17,266 --> 00:12:19,700 Like, you know, it makes me feel like what's wrong with me. 272 00:12:22,867 --> 00:12:24,667 It is the story of my life. 273 00:12:24,667 --> 00:12:25,767 It really, really is. 274 00:12:25,767 --> 00:12:28,300 And I don't understand. I don't understand. 275 00:12:28,300 --> 00:12:30,100 Part of me is thinking that 276 00:12:30,100 --> 00:12:32,700 sex and love connection will not happen for me. 277 00:12:34,500 --> 00:12:37,200 Tell me how things have been since we last spoke. 278 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:39,166 I've been on two dates. 279 00:12:39,166 --> 00:12:40,133 [Dr. Tyrenia] Very nice. 280 00:12:40,133 --> 00:12:44,166 -Um, first one started off very well. -Okay. 281 00:12:44,166 --> 00:12:47,166 Uh, later on, he showed his ass. 282 00:12:47,166 --> 00:12:50,467 And then I had to dismiss him because he was being very disrespectful. 283 00:12:50,467 --> 00:12:52,266 How did you communicate all of that to him? 284 00:12:52,266 --> 00:12:53,600 I just dismissed myself. 285 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:54,867 Um, had to block. 286 00:12:54,867 --> 00:12:57,467 So you didn't communicate with him at all? 287 00:12:58,367 --> 00:12:59,367 No. 288 00:12:59,367 --> 00:13:02,500 Then I went on a date with another guy, 289 00:13:02,500 --> 00:13:04,767 and he cooked dinner, which was nice. 290 00:13:04,767 --> 00:13:06,567 Jeremy is into spanking. 291 00:13:06,567 --> 00:13:10,000 So we tried it out and it was very fun. 292 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:12,967 Was it, um, erotically charging for you at all? 293 00:13:12,967 --> 00:13:15,567 Most of it was curiosity and fun, 294 00:13:15,567 --> 00:13:17,900 but it wasn't all there. 295 00:13:17,900 --> 00:13:20,500 So what made it not that for you? 296 00:13:20,500 --> 00:13:23,567 I guess, 'cause I'm just not, like, sexually attracted to him. 297 00:13:23,567 --> 00:13:25,500 I think that's what threw it off like-- 298 00:13:25,500 --> 00:13:26,667 What is he missing? 299 00:13:27,567 --> 00:13:30,567 I feel like, you know, I'm bigger than him. 300 00:13:30,567 --> 00:13:32,867 And how is he gonna, like... 301 00:13:33,567 --> 00:13:35,100 manhandle me in the bedroom? 302 00:13:35,100 --> 00:13:38,266 Like, I don't think that he's, like, dominant enough for me. 303 00:13:38,266 --> 00:13:40,000 But Rhasha, you're doing a lot of judging. 304 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:41,867 You don't know what that man got. 305 00:13:41,867 --> 00:13:43,767 You don't know. 306 00:13:43,767 --> 00:13:46,266 Let me... Let me say this in this moment... 307 00:13:46,266 --> 00:13:50,600 You have created this unrealistic person 308 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:55,166 -that you feel would be the perfect person for you. -Yeah. 309 00:13:55,166 --> 00:13:58,166 And you've coupled that with pornography. 310 00:14:00,467 --> 00:14:03,166 And now you're looking for that to manifest 311 00:14:03,166 --> 00:14:06,266 to the point that you found a way to disqualify poor Jeremy. 312 00:14:07,066 --> 00:14:08,400 You say he's not dominant. 313 00:14:10,700 --> 00:14:13,066 Rhasha is looking for this person 314 00:14:13,066 --> 00:14:15,500 that checks all the boxes. 315 00:14:15,500 --> 00:14:19,567 In that, there is an unrealistic view and expectation. 316 00:14:19,567 --> 00:14:21,767 Both of those dates that she went on, 317 00:14:21,767 --> 00:14:25,867 it wasn't so much what they did or didn't do. 318 00:14:25,867 --> 00:14:28,500 When she's not able to check off those boxes, 319 00:14:28,500 --> 00:14:30,567 automatically, there is the thought 320 00:14:30,567 --> 00:14:35,500 that they would not be able to give her what she needs. 321 00:14:35,500 --> 00:14:40,367 The first thing that comes to my mind is your marriage. 322 00:14:40,367 --> 00:14:43,300 You're holding what he did to you 323 00:14:43,300 --> 00:14:46,367 against people you have met and haven't even met yet. 324 00:14:46,367 --> 00:14:50,400 But it's not okay because someone used you 325 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:54,867 to hold everybody responsible for what that person did to you. 326 00:14:56,467 --> 00:14:57,800 See, I'm gonna cry now. 327 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:07,567 And that person who is no longer in your life 328 00:15:07,567 --> 00:15:09,400 is holding you hostage. 329 00:15:13,100 --> 00:15:14,367 [Rhasha] It was emotional. 330 00:15:15,767 --> 00:15:19,066 My divorce left me embarrassed. 331 00:15:19,700 --> 00:15:22,400 It left me with no confidence. 332 00:15:22,967 --> 00:15:24,767 It left me feeling ugly, 333 00:15:25,266 --> 00:15:28,800 unworthy, unwanted. 334 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:31,300 My ex-husband still has a hold on me... 335 00:15:31,900 --> 00:15:33,266 as far as the trauma. 336 00:15:34,567 --> 00:15:39,567 And I have been dismissing people too soon. 337 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,367 Just trying to protect myself, I guess. 338 00:15:44,066 --> 00:15:46,266 [Dr. Tyrenia] I want you to practice 339 00:15:46,266 --> 00:15:49,200 increasing your intimacy 340 00:15:49,200 --> 00:15:51,066 not just with partners, 341 00:15:51,066 --> 00:15:53,700 but also just the people that are around us. 342 00:15:53,700 --> 00:15:57,600 That will better help you to have intimate connection, 343 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:00,767 communication with people that you're going to meet 344 00:16:00,767 --> 00:16:03,200 -and that you're gonna bring into your life. -Yeah. 345 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:06,467 I need to actually own my demons 346 00:16:06,467 --> 00:16:08,800 and take responsibility on some things 347 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:11,800 I don't think correctly about. 348 00:16:11,800 --> 00:16:15,600 I actually have been talking to a new guy. 349 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:17,867 I was definitely thinking about dismissing him 350 00:16:17,867 --> 00:16:20,200 because he canceled twice on me. 351 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,500 But after talking to Dr. Ty, 352 00:16:22,500 --> 00:16:24,667 I am thinking about giving him another chance 353 00:16:24,667 --> 00:16:27,800 and just try to do better. 354 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:31,000 I want you to really think about what it is you're looking for... 355 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:32,900 Yeah. 356 00:16:33,667 --> 00:16:35,567 ...because I think if you don't... 357 00:16:36,567 --> 00:16:37,767 you're not gonna find it. 358 00:16:41,767 --> 00:16:43,467 [upbeat music playing] 359 00:16:48,166 --> 00:16:51,100 LA, welcome to UpDating. 360 00:16:51,100 --> 00:16:52,800 [crowd cheering] 361 00:16:52,800 --> 00:16:54,700 Who wants to see a make out tonight? 362 00:16:54,700 --> 00:16:56,600 -[crowd cheering] -Okay. 363 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:59,367 And, uh, who wants to see love? 364 00:16:59,367 --> 00:17:00,767 [crowd cheering] 365 00:17:00,767 --> 00:17:02,500 You're at the wrong show if you want that. 366 00:17:02,500 --> 00:17:03,967 [all chuckling] 367 00:17:06,367 --> 00:17:09,367 [Deanne] The matchmaker signed me up for this UpDating show. 368 00:17:09,367 --> 00:17:11,200 It's way outside of my comfort zone. 369 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:13,867 It's not something I would ever sign myself up for. 370 00:17:13,867 --> 00:17:15,867 Now that I'm actually here in the green room, 371 00:17:15,867 --> 00:17:17,367 -I'm hearing the audience. - [audience cheering at a distance] 372 00:17:17,367 --> 00:17:21,367 It's really loud, and I am terrified. 373 00:17:21,367 --> 00:17:22,567 Hello. Hello. 374 00:17:22,567 --> 00:17:24,900 -[both] What's going on? -Hi. Deanne. Nice to meet you. 375 00:17:24,900 --> 00:17:26,300 -Harrison. Nice to meet you. -Brandon. What's going on? 376 00:17:26,300 --> 00:17:27,567 -Jaime. -Brandon. 377 00:17:29,667 --> 00:17:31,700 We're the hosts and creators of UpDating. 378 00:17:31,700 --> 00:17:34,967 It's a comedy show that puts on blind dates in front of audiences, 379 00:17:34,967 --> 00:17:37,166 and we've been bringing love all over the world 380 00:17:37,166 --> 00:17:38,166 the past few years. 381 00:17:38,166 --> 00:17:39,867 [Harrison] We specialize in getting a lot 382 00:17:39,867 --> 00:17:41,767 of second dates happen from UpDating, 383 00:17:41,767 --> 00:17:42,867 which is really cool. 384 00:17:42,867 --> 00:17:44,367 So no matter what happens on stage, 385 00:17:44,367 --> 00:17:47,066 there's a good chance you'll get a date after the show. 386 00:17:47,066 --> 00:17:48,600 [Brandon] I will actually bet all my money that 387 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:49,800 you're gonna end up with a guy tonight. 388 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:51,300 -[Deanne] Aw. -You guys be nice to her, though. 389 00:17:51,300 --> 00:17:53,200 -[Harrison] No. We're gonna be very, very nice. -[Deanne] Yeah. 390 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:57,667 I know that the comedians 391 00:17:57,667 --> 00:18:00,600 are going to push the limit 392 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:02,367 on the questions that they ask me. 393 00:18:02,367 --> 00:18:04,567 -Here's your blindfold. So... put it on. -Okay. 394 00:18:04,567 --> 00:18:07,000 Just put it on, and then you'll take my hand. 395 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:08,367 Ooh. Okay. 396 00:18:08,367 --> 00:18:09,767 They're there to get some type 397 00:18:09,767 --> 00:18:11,767 of spicy content for themselves. 398 00:18:11,767 --> 00:18:15,000 This is something you'll never forget the rest of your life. 399 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:16,600 -This is scary. -Welcome. Welcome. 400 00:18:17,667 --> 00:18:20,400 [Harrison] Ladies and gentlemen of Los Angeles, 401 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:22,667 give it up for Deanne! 402 00:18:22,667 --> 00:18:24,767 -[crowd cheering] -Deanne! 403 00:18:24,767 --> 00:18:26,467 [Deanne] Oh, God... 404 00:18:26,467 --> 00:18:28,567 -This is so scary. -Oh, really? 405 00:18:28,567 --> 00:18:30,767 Oh, well, it's gonna get scarier. Um... 406 00:18:31,467 --> 00:18:34,100 She really looks nervous. 407 00:18:34,100 --> 00:18:36,967 I hate to see her uncomfortable, but at the same time, 408 00:18:36,967 --> 00:18:38,767 maybe this is what Deanne needs, 409 00:18:38,767 --> 00:18:41,166 to just get out of that comfort zone 410 00:18:41,166 --> 00:18:45,767 and start having a sex life like the rest of the world. 411 00:18:45,767 --> 00:18:48,100 [Brandon] What brings you here? Why are you single? 412 00:18:48,100 --> 00:18:51,200 Okay, well, I don't know. I've just been single my whole life, 413 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:54,266 -I've never had a boyfriend... -Oh, [bleep]. 414 00:18:54,266 --> 00:18:57,367 -Whoa! That just got very depressing. -[audience titters] 415 00:18:57,367 --> 00:18:59,600 -Oh, [bleep] -I appreciate that. 416 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:00,767 [all chuckling] 417 00:19:00,767 --> 00:19:03,367 I am not excited in the slightest. 418 00:19:03,367 --> 00:19:06,166 Being blindfolded in front of an audience 419 00:19:06,166 --> 00:19:08,400 gives me so much anxiety. 420 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:11,100 So I'm really hopeful that they bring in 421 00:19:11,100 --> 00:19:13,767 a really nice, hot, attractive guy 422 00:19:13,767 --> 00:19:15,266 that would be a good fit for me. 423 00:19:15,266 --> 00:19:16,867 That'll make it worth it. 424 00:19:16,867 --> 00:19:19,066 Why do you think that is? Why do you think it hasn't happened? 425 00:19:19,066 --> 00:19:21,867 And then, like, what are you looking for? 426 00:19:21,867 --> 00:19:24,667 Someone that I actually am attracted to and feel chemistry with. 427 00:19:24,667 --> 00:19:26,967 And I don't really want to settle. 428 00:19:27,867 --> 00:19:29,000 -[crowd cheering] -[Harrison] They like that. 429 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:30,800 [Deanne] Thanks, guys. 430 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:32,600 Yeah, Brandon. I was gonna ask Deanne something. 431 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,367 When was the last time you had a... a hookup? 432 00:19:35,367 --> 00:19:37,400 -[inhales sharply] -Yeah? 433 00:19:39,867 --> 00:19:43,400 -Probably like 2017. -[audience gasping] 434 00:19:44,567 --> 00:19:46,400 [Deanne] I know, guys. I know. 435 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:48,667 [Brandon] What happened the last time you were with someone? 436 00:19:48,667 --> 00:19:53,467 -Like, was... -Uh... really just kissing that last time. 437 00:19:53,467 --> 00:19:54,767 Oh, so it wasn't even-- 438 00:19:54,767 --> 00:19:58,000 No, it wasn't sex. It was just kissing. 439 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:00,767 So I don't really tell people about my lack of sexual experience. 440 00:20:01,767 --> 00:20:03,667 Now. I'm up on this stage 441 00:20:03,667 --> 00:20:06,000 in front of hundreds of people, 442 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:09,000 and I'm instantly feeling like the situation's my worst nightmare. 443 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:13,166 -Oh, so have you ever... -Uh... 444 00:20:13,166 --> 00:20:14,567 I need to leave this stage right now? 445 00:20:14,567 --> 00:20:16,000 [audience titters] 446 00:20:17,100 --> 00:20:18,233 No. 447 00:20:20,066 --> 00:20:22,066 -[Brandon] How old are you? -[Deanne] Thirty five. 448 00:20:22,066 --> 00:20:23,266 [all gasping] 449 00:20:25,166 --> 00:20:27,467 -Would you like a drink? -Wine. Please. 450 00:20:27,467 --> 00:20:30,166 I really like her, and I am getting nervous 451 00:20:30,166 --> 00:20:31,867 that I might mess it up. 452 00:20:31,867 --> 00:20:34,100 Red? White? Like, you gotta ask. 453 00:20:34,100 --> 00:20:36,266 -Wait... what type of wine? -[both chuckling] 454 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:40,367 -Alex has zero game. Um, let's be real. -Yeah. 455 00:20:46,367 --> 00:20:48,600 -[Samantha] I'm just really-- -Oh, she just texted me. 456 00:20:48,600 --> 00:20:49,900 Oh, good. 457 00:20:52,367 --> 00:20:54,000 -[Alex] Hey. -Hi. 458 00:20:55,000 --> 00:20:56,467 -How's it going? -How are you? 459 00:20:56,467 --> 00:20:58,667 -Good. How are you? Good to see you. -Oh, good to see you, too. 460 00:20:58,667 --> 00:21:00,600 -All right. Gonna walk inside, all right? -Yeah. 461 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:01,900 -It's freezing. -Yeah. 462 00:21:04,900 --> 00:21:07,467 -Hello. -This is Lauren. 463 00:21:07,467 --> 00:21:09,266 -Hi, Lauren. -This is Ryan. 464 00:21:09,266 --> 00:21:11,266 -Lauren. Nice to meet you. -I'm Ryan. Nice to meet you. 465 00:21:11,266 --> 00:21:13,367 -My sister Courtney. -Courtney. It's nice to meet you. 466 00:21:13,367 --> 00:21:14,667 Nice to meet you. 467 00:21:14,667 --> 00:21:15,900 -My other sister Samantha. -Samantha. 468 00:21:15,900 --> 00:21:18,100 -Nice to meet you. -Lauren. Nice to meet you. 469 00:21:18,100 --> 00:21:20,667 -Do you want me to take your bag? -Yeah. Thank you. 470 00:21:20,667 --> 00:21:22,166 [Courtney] I think Lauren's beautiful. 471 00:21:22,166 --> 00:21:24,100 Um. to be honest, I don't know that she's somebody 472 00:21:24,100 --> 00:21:25,467 that I would have seen Alex go for. 473 00:21:25,467 --> 00:21:27,000 But I'm really glad to see Alex 474 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,166 step out of his comfort zone a little bit. 475 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:32,200 -Do you... uh, would you like a drink? -Yes. 476 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:33,667 -This one's yours. -Oh. 477 00:21:33,667 --> 00:21:35,567 -What would you like? Wine. -Wine. Please. 478 00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:38,300 -All right. I'll get you a wine. -Thank you. 479 00:21:39,300 --> 00:21:40,467 Wait, Ryan's kicking your butt. 480 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:43,634 [laughing] 481 00:21:45,967 --> 00:21:48,066 -Like red, white. Like, you gotta ask. -I'm gonna go by a hunch. 482 00:21:48,066 --> 00:21:49,600 -Chardonnay. -Chardonnay. All right. 483 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:51,467 -All right. Yeah. -Thank you. [laughs] 484 00:21:51,467 --> 00:21:52,767 -Alex has zero game. -Yeah. 485 00:21:52,767 --> 00:21:53,767 Uh, let's be real. 486 00:21:53,767 --> 00:21:57,166 Watching it is kind of entertaining. 487 00:21:57,166 --> 00:22:00,600 It's kind of cringey, too, though, because I just... I feel bad for him. 488 00:22:04,667 --> 00:22:06,100 Are you? Don't be nervous. Don't be nervous. 489 00:22:06,100 --> 00:22:07,133 -All right. Don't be nervous. -Okay. 490 00:22:08,266 --> 00:22:10,900 My first date with Alex went really well. 491 00:22:10,900 --> 00:22:12,467 I think that he's really funny. 492 00:22:12,467 --> 00:22:13,867 We have the good banter back and forth, 493 00:22:13,867 --> 00:22:16,467 and humor is something that I look for in a partner. 494 00:22:16,467 --> 00:22:21,900 I am surprised that he's having me meet his sisters on our second date. 495 00:22:21,900 --> 00:22:23,600 I... I know that family means a lot to him. 496 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:24,734 Family means a lot to me as well. 497 00:22:24,734 --> 00:22:27,367 I think his, like, sisters are like his best friends, 498 00:22:27,367 --> 00:22:30,700 but, um, it's still nerve racking to walk into all of that 499 00:22:30,700 --> 00:22:32,900 and just... and try to be myself, I guess. 500 00:22:35,367 --> 00:22:36,767 IT Compliance Analyst. 501 00:22:37,700 --> 00:22:39,300 [both laugh] 502 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,000 [Alex speaking] 503 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:42,567 -S-M-R-T. -[laughs] 504 00:22:42,567 --> 00:22:46,600 [laughs] Smrt. Smrt. 505 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:52,200 It's weird going from never dating to kind of starting to, 506 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:56,867 and knowing that I'm one step closer to me losing my virginity, 507 00:22:56,867 --> 00:22:58,667 it's surreal to me. 508 00:22:58,667 --> 00:23:00,400 -Bottom right. Bottom right. -Right next to where he was. 509 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,100 Yes, you know. 510 00:23:02,100 --> 00:23:04,700 [both] Oh! 511 00:23:04,700 --> 00:23:07,867 -All right. Way to come back. -What a comeback. 512 00:23:07,867 --> 00:23:10,367 [Alex] I don't want to get ahead of myself. 513 00:23:10,367 --> 00:23:14,100 But in this moment, I feel like things are going good. 514 00:23:14,100 --> 00:23:16,867 -Lauren, it was so nice to meet you. -[Lauren] Yes. 515 00:23:16,867 --> 00:23:19,066 -I'm a hugger. I'm a hugger, so... -I know. I am too. 516 00:23:19,066 --> 00:23:21,567 [Courtney] Lauren seems to be a good fit for Alex. 517 00:23:21,567 --> 00:23:24,000 Um, they seem like they have some things in common which is nice. 518 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,100 [Samantha] Alex needs to just pump the brakes a little bit 519 00:23:26,100 --> 00:23:28,900 and not put so much pressure on it because he is a good catch. 520 00:23:28,900 --> 00:23:30,700 -Thank you. -Yep. 521 00:23:30,700 --> 00:23:34,900 I'm feeling excited. I'm feeling happy. I'm feeling nervous. 522 00:23:34,900 --> 00:23:37,800 Your sisters were really nice. You have to tell them that. 523 00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:39,767 -[Alex] I will. -[Lauren] They were very welcoming. 524 00:23:39,767 --> 00:23:43,166 I'm just really shocked that she's into me, 'cause... 525 00:23:44,266 --> 00:23:45,867 ...I didn't think I was gonna get this far. 526 00:23:45,867 --> 00:23:48,166 Okay. Thank you so much. All right. 527 00:23:49,700 --> 00:23:50,867 All right. 528 00:23:50,867 --> 00:23:52,500 -All right. I'll let you in. -Oh, thank you. 529 00:23:52,500 --> 00:23:53,567 Yeah. No problem. 530 00:23:53,567 --> 00:23:57,266 Lauren is the complete package. She is perfect. 531 00:23:57,266 --> 00:24:01,100 And I want to show her that I'm serious about taking things to the next level. 532 00:24:01,100 --> 00:24:06,200 In my perfect scenario, I can ultimately see myself losing my virginity to her. 533 00:24:16,567 --> 00:24:18,467 I'm definitely gonna bring this one. 534 00:24:19,867 --> 00:24:21,367 Looks amazing. 535 00:24:21,367 --> 00:24:26,967 When Dr Ty told me I need to work on intimacy, I think it's beyond sexual. 536 00:24:26,967 --> 00:24:29,100 I think it's about just opening up 537 00:24:29,100 --> 00:24:33,367 to being my real authentic self with anybody around me. 538 00:24:33,367 --> 00:24:35,367 Yeah, this is gonna be cute. 539 00:24:37,367 --> 00:24:41,100 I've been talking to my friend Jessica about my sexual situation, 540 00:24:41,100 --> 00:24:42,800 and she knows I'm a virgin. 541 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:44,367 She's my spicy friend. 542 00:24:44,367 --> 00:24:46,400 She's very knowledgeable about sex. 543 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:48,800 Hey! 544 00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:50,266 Let me bring that. 545 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:55,166 She's been asking me to go to this adult resort, 546 00:24:55,166 --> 00:24:57,600 and I said yes. 547 00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:59,867 It may be a little bit advanced for me, 548 00:24:59,867 --> 00:25:04,500 but I'm open to learning and seeing things, 549 00:25:04,500 --> 00:25:08,066 just being intimate with people in general and letting people in. 550 00:25:08,066 --> 00:25:09,667 I'm gonna bring this as well. 551 00:25:09,667 --> 00:25:12,266 Because why not? 552 00:25:12,266 --> 00:25:14,367 I'm gonna be in this pool, heavy. 553 00:25:14,367 --> 00:25:19,500 I also did decide to contact this new guy, William, 554 00:25:19,500 --> 00:25:21,567 and we went out a couple of times already. 555 00:25:22,867 --> 00:25:24,700 I just got finished my date. 556 00:25:25,767 --> 00:25:31,166 And it was really, really good! 557 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:35,200 It was really, really good. 558 00:25:38,867 --> 00:25:42,367 It's really new, so it's no label on it yet. 559 00:25:42,367 --> 00:25:46,100 He hasn't asked me anything about being exclusive. 560 00:25:49,166 --> 00:25:50,200 He's cool with it. 561 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,266 [producer speaking] 562 00:25:52,266 --> 00:25:53,734 I kissed him on the cheek. 563 00:25:53,734 --> 00:25:57,600 We gave each other a hug when we were leaving and I kissed him on the cheek. 564 00:25:58,467 --> 00:25:59,467 Yeah. 565 00:26:02,767 --> 00:26:05,600 -What's... [chuckles] -Jessica. 566 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,667 -I mean this looks cool. -Don't worry about no... 567 00:26:07,667 --> 00:26:09,767 Listen, listen, listen, listen, listen. 568 00:26:09,767 --> 00:26:12,266 -Mom. -Jessica. 569 00:26:12,266 --> 00:26:16,700 Can you come here and listen to what your child is talking about? 570 00:26:16,700 --> 00:26:19,567 [Rhasha] So I told my mom and sister that I'm going to a resort, 571 00:26:19,567 --> 00:26:22,767 but I didn't tell them what kind of resort I'm going to. 572 00:26:22,767 --> 00:26:25,967 I am just preparing myself for the shenanigans 573 00:26:25,967 --> 00:26:28,667 that come with telling Iris and Jessica. 574 00:26:28,667 --> 00:26:30,967 -I'm gonna show you all these outfits. -Okay. 575 00:26:30,967 --> 00:26:32,800 This is one of my favorite ones. 576 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:35,166 -This is my... -[Iris] Girl, you're gonna have something over there. 577 00:26:35,166 --> 00:26:37,000 Lingerie? No, this is like lingerie pajamas. 578 00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:38,967 Like, you know what I'm saying? Sleepwear, like... 579 00:26:38,967 --> 00:26:40,266 Sleepwear. That ain't nothing. 580 00:26:40,266 --> 00:26:42,567 Where would you wear the lingerie at though? 581 00:26:42,567 --> 00:26:44,600 [Rhasha] It could be by myself in my room. 582 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:46,600 [Jessica] You might as well not wear that. 583 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,700 -It's about seduction. -[scoffs] 584 00:26:48,700 --> 00:26:52,166 -Who are you seducting? -[Rhasha] I mean, just even yourself. 585 00:26:52,166 --> 00:26:53,867 You know, just feeling sexy. 586 00:26:53,867 --> 00:26:57,100 The resort I'm going to has a pool, so I got my bathing suit. 587 00:26:57,100 --> 00:26:58,600 What? 588 00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:00,400 What's wrong with that? 589 00:27:01,100 --> 00:27:03,266 -Listen, I'm grown. -Rhasha. 590 00:27:03,266 --> 00:27:06,100 -Yeah, you're grown. -This is stuff that you would not normally wear. 591 00:27:06,100 --> 00:27:10,533 You don't have anything like, no jeans or anything like that? 592 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:14,900 It's an adult resort. 593 00:27:17,367 --> 00:27:19,367 Where you can be free. 594 00:27:19,367 --> 00:27:22,767 -You can be free. -And explore yourself. 595 00:27:22,767 --> 00:27:26,166 Is it just like maybe a nudist? 596 00:27:26,166 --> 00:27:28,166 [Rhasha] It's not nudist, but you can be. 597 00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:31,667 What I think happens at adult resorts 598 00:27:31,667 --> 00:27:34,967 is everybody is just like screwing everybody, like every turn you take. 599 00:27:34,967 --> 00:27:37,800 And they're like all meshed into one big monster. 600 00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,467 And like you got arms and legs hanging out, 601 00:27:39,467 --> 00:27:42,667 like, and eyeballs everywhere, like all kinds of body anatomy. 602 00:27:42,667 --> 00:27:44,867 Like everywhere. I could be wrong. 603 00:27:44,867 --> 00:27:48,767 But that's what I feel that I may see and experience. 604 00:27:51,100 --> 00:27:52,266 You're not gonna do that. 605 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:54,867 [sighs] 606 00:27:54,867 --> 00:27:56,367 I mean, well... 607 00:27:56,367 --> 00:27:57,867 [Jessica] I mean, she's grown, Mom. 608 00:27:57,867 --> 00:27:59,400 -I mean, she grown. -[Iris] I know she is. I know she is. 609 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:00,467 You know? 610 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,266 Why you gotta do this experience? 611 00:28:03,266 --> 00:28:06,166 Well, she's a grown woman and hasn't experienced anything, 612 00:28:06,166 --> 00:28:08,166 as far as, like, sexual, you know, you can't. 613 00:28:08,166 --> 00:28:09,266 Well, I haven't neither. 614 00:28:09,266 --> 00:28:11,467 Okay, but you're still married, and you've got kids. 615 00:28:11,467 --> 00:28:13,066 So you've had that experience. 616 00:28:13,066 --> 00:28:17,100 Okay, Rhasha gonna see a bunch of ass and titties. 617 00:28:17,100 --> 00:28:19,900 That's on her because... 618 00:28:19,900 --> 00:28:21,600 That's what she want to see, you know? 619 00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:23,567 [laughs] 620 00:28:24,467 --> 00:28:27,467 -Jess. [laughs] -I just hope she got her shots. 621 00:28:28,100 --> 00:28:30,000 I mean, I'm gonna boost you 622 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:31,500 -because you're grown. -Help me out. That's what I'm saying. 623 00:28:31,500 --> 00:28:34,166 -You're grown. You do whatever you wanna do. -[Rhasha] Right. 624 00:28:34,166 --> 00:28:40,000 I understand the concerns, but I need to be open in the moment. 625 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:43,000 And I'm still gonna do what I do because I'm grown. 626 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:44,667 [chuckles] 627 00:28:44,667 --> 00:28:46,867 I've got gray hairs on my vagina. I'm grown. 628 00:28:46,867 --> 00:28:49,100 [laughs] I'm grown. 629 00:28:49,100 --> 00:28:52,000 I'm just gonna explore and have a good time... 630 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,100 -Yeah, I get it. -...and see, like, there's no expectations at all. 631 00:28:54,100 --> 00:28:57,066 I'm just going there and experience my sexuality. 632 00:28:57,066 --> 00:28:58,467 [Jessica speaking] 633 00:28:58,467 --> 00:28:59,900 [Rhasha] What sexuality? 634 00:28:59,900 --> 00:29:03,367 Jessica, I have sexuality, okay? 635 00:29:12,667 --> 00:29:15,000 [Sonali sighs and groans] 636 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:18,467 What does that feel like for you? 637 00:29:19,367 --> 00:29:20,800 It is pleasurable. 638 00:29:21,867 --> 00:29:25,967 And it doesn't. It has nothing to do with the physical act of sex. 639 00:29:25,967 --> 00:29:28,000 -This is a pleasurable act, right? -Right. 640 00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:29,367 And it's intimate, right? 641 00:29:29,367 --> 00:29:31,767 -This is very... This is pretty intimate, right? -[Sonali] Right. 642 00:29:34,500 --> 00:29:35,867 Mmm. 643 00:29:35,867 --> 00:29:39,000 Getting touched by a man who I don't know very well, 644 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,200 that is not something I'm comfortable with at all. 645 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:44,667 Even when I go for a massage, I request a female masseuse. 646 00:29:44,667 --> 00:29:47,800 So for me to allow him to do this to me is a huge deal. 647 00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:50,100 -Is this... -Yeah, it feels nice. 648 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:54,000 [chuckles] 649 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:56,100 I might apply a little bit more pressure, so stay right here. 650 00:29:56,100 --> 00:29:57,900 I'm just standing up to get more leverage. 651 00:29:58,500 --> 00:30:00,200 Oh. 652 00:30:02,667 --> 00:30:04,567 -What does that feel like? -Amazing. 653 00:30:04,567 --> 00:30:05,567 Oh. 654 00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:08,600 I am in an absolute daze. 655 00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:10,367 I feel very comfortable and safe. 656 00:30:10,367 --> 00:30:12,500 The pleasurable sensations that I'm feeling, 657 00:30:12,500 --> 00:30:16,166 it gives me some hope that maybe one day, hopefully soon, 658 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,800 I'd be able to enjoy sexual pleasure. 659 00:30:21,166 --> 00:30:23,567 [Wayne] And I think broadening our perspective 660 00:30:23,567 --> 00:30:25,400 and understanding of what intimacy is... 661 00:30:26,567 --> 00:30:28,066 -...is helpful. -Right. 662 00:30:28,066 --> 00:30:31,300 [Wayne] You know, because we just associate sex with intimacy. 663 00:30:31,300 --> 00:30:33,967 Intimacy is so many other things. 664 00:30:33,967 --> 00:30:37,600 [Sonali] I feel I have experienced a breakthrough with Wayne. 665 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:39,400 I do feel closer to him. 666 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:42,500 I wish I could have that done to me every hour. [laughs] 667 00:30:42,500 --> 00:30:43,834 Can I do something really quick? 668 00:30:43,834 --> 00:30:45,567 Can I hold your hands real quick? I wanna say something to you. 669 00:30:45,567 --> 00:30:46,667 Since we've been working together, 670 00:30:46,667 --> 00:30:49,166 it's my first time seeing you, like, your guard down 671 00:30:49,166 --> 00:30:51,367 and just being able to receive. 672 00:30:51,367 --> 00:30:54,266 I hope for you that you are able to... 673 00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:59,166 ...allow yourself to be open to trying new things. 674 00:30:59,166 --> 00:31:01,700 -I feel positive for you. Yes. -You feel optimistic? 675 00:31:01,700 --> 00:31:03,266 Optimistic for sure. 676 00:31:03,266 --> 00:31:06,400 [Sonali] I must say, I am really proud of myself right now. 677 00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:11,867 I feel stronger, more brave when it comes to pleasure and touch. 678 00:31:11,867 --> 00:31:14,967 And I think that having a more open mind 679 00:31:14,967 --> 00:31:18,166 will allow me to overcome my physical barrier 680 00:31:18,166 --> 00:31:21,367 and experience physical intimacy with a man. 681 00:31:21,367 --> 00:31:24,667 I know how this may be a big ask for you, but can I have a hug? 682 00:31:24,667 --> 00:31:26,000 -Sure. -Yes. 683 00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:28,000 -Thank you, Wayne -[Wayne] Thank you. 684 00:31:34,300 --> 00:31:38,000 -Oh, so have you ever? -[Deanne] Uh... 685 00:31:39,066 --> 00:31:40,367 No. 686 00:31:40,367 --> 00:31:41,700 [gasping] 687 00:31:42,767 --> 00:31:45,000 I mean, look, Deanne, you came to a show. 688 00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,600 A lot of people have come out of this with their partner. 689 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,266 Yeah, how many? 690 00:31:49,266 --> 00:31:51,166 [Brandon] Um... um... 691 00:31:51,166 --> 00:31:52,667 More times than you've had sex. 692 00:31:52,667 --> 00:31:54,600 [all laughing] 693 00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:57,800 I think Deanne being a 35-year-old virgin 694 00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:01,200 is definitely, like, not a lifestyle I recommend to most people. 695 00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,066 What did I get myself into? 696 00:32:03,066 --> 00:32:04,300 [laughs] 697 00:32:04,300 --> 00:32:06,266 [Harrison] This is someone who could be sexually active, 698 00:32:06,266 --> 00:32:07,500 and I'm sure a lot of guys pursue her. 699 00:32:07,500 --> 00:32:09,767 But she's choosing not to. It's very interesting. 700 00:32:09,767 --> 00:32:13,700 Do I think she's gonna leave the show tonight and be humping someone? 701 00:32:13,700 --> 00:32:16,967 Probably not. But I do think that we're gonna bring her closer 702 00:32:16,967 --> 00:32:18,266 to losing her virginity than anything else. 703 00:32:18,266 --> 00:32:21,367 So, Deanne, you're about to meet your boyfriend. 704 00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:24,166 Guys, give it up for Conrad. 705 00:32:24,166 --> 00:32:26,166 [audience cheering] 706 00:32:26,166 --> 00:32:27,867 [Deanne] What is going on? 707 00:32:27,867 --> 00:32:29,967 [Brandon] Uh, Deanne, this is Conrad. 708 00:32:29,967 --> 00:32:32,467 Um, and, Conrad, um... 709 00:32:32,467 --> 00:32:34,667 -Hi, Deanne. Hi. -Hi, Conrad. 710 00:32:34,667 --> 00:32:36,266 [Brandon] So, Conrad, right off the bat, 711 00:32:36,266 --> 00:32:39,467 try to just win Deanne over right now. 712 00:32:39,467 --> 00:32:40,667 One, two, three. 713 00:32:40,667 --> 00:32:43,166 -Hi, Deanne. I'm emotionally available. -Yeah. 714 00:32:43,767 --> 00:32:47,367 Oh, my [bleep] God. 715 00:32:47,367 --> 00:32:48,967 Who is he? 716 00:32:48,967 --> 00:32:51,166 I just moved to LA from New York, 717 00:32:51,166 --> 00:32:54,266 and I'm pretty independent and happy. 718 00:32:54,266 --> 00:32:56,967 And I'm just looking for someone to kind of share life with. 719 00:32:56,967 --> 00:33:00,200 And I just want to find someone who helps, you know, make my life better. 720 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:01,567 and I can make their life better. 721 00:33:02,166 --> 00:33:03,500 Oh, I like that. 722 00:33:03,500 --> 00:33:05,166 [Brandon] So, Deanne, what question do you have? 723 00:33:05,166 --> 00:33:08,467 Okay. This is a question the crowd's not gonna like, but... 724 00:33:09,467 --> 00:33:11,000 ...I want kids in my future. 725 00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:13,400 The police are here. We don't give a [bleep]. 726 00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,200 [audience laughing] 727 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:17,367 [Deanne] A guy that I seriously date has to want kids. 728 00:33:17,367 --> 00:33:19,567 [Conrad] I do want kids. Um, 729 00:33:19,567 --> 00:33:20,967 I would love to have four. 730 00:33:20,967 --> 00:33:23,166 One of my brothers is adopted, so would love to have three biological 731 00:33:23,166 --> 00:33:25,000 and one adopted kid someday. 732 00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,100 Yo, this guy is literally God. 733 00:33:27,100 --> 00:33:28,467 [audience laughing] 734 00:33:29,567 --> 00:33:31,967 These comedians have ridiculous questions. 735 00:33:31,967 --> 00:33:33,567 They have a ridiculous method. 736 00:33:33,567 --> 00:33:36,700 But I do think that they found a good one in Conrad. 737 00:33:36,700 --> 00:33:39,000 What do you... what do you look for in a partner? 738 00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,400 But then a more fun question. What's your ick? 739 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,300 That you... latent guys, that just turns you off? 740 00:33:43,300 --> 00:33:44,600 Um, everything. 741 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:48,000 [audience laughing] 742 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:50,867 [Deanne] I think his personality is great and I'm really liking it right now. 743 00:33:50,867 --> 00:33:54,767 I'm just really hoping that I find him physically attractive as well. 744 00:33:54,767 --> 00:33:57,200 You guys are going to take your blindfolds 745 00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:02,567 off in five, four, three, two, one. 746 00:34:03,166 --> 00:34:05,300 [audience cheering] 747 00:34:05,300 --> 00:34:06,567 Hi. 748 00:34:06,567 --> 00:34:08,567 -Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you, too. 749 00:34:09,900 --> 00:34:10,967 She's cute. 750 00:34:10,967 --> 00:34:12,967 Deanne has beautiful eyes. 751 00:34:12,967 --> 00:34:16,066 I loved seeing them when she took off the blindfold, 752 00:34:16,066 --> 00:34:18,066 and I feel like her physical appearance 753 00:34:18,066 --> 00:34:19,367 definitely matches her personality. 754 00:34:19,367 --> 00:34:22,166 She seems super fun and outgoing, and she's beautiful, 755 00:34:22,166 --> 00:34:24,367 and I'm excited to get to know her more. 756 00:34:24,367 --> 00:34:28,367 Deanne, did you want to tell him, like, you know, what you haven't been doing? 757 00:34:29,500 --> 00:34:32,166 I haven't been hooking up with people a lot. 758 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:34,800 Okay. 759 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,000 -Yeah, that's cool. -I don't think it's bad 760 00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:38,000 to not be hooking up all the time. 761 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:42,800 Conrad, how long would you be willing to wait for a person to go all the way? 762 00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,700 Uh... um, if it's the right person, 763 00:34:45,700 --> 00:34:47,166 I don't think you can put a timeline on it. 764 00:34:47,166 --> 00:34:49,567 [audience groans in affection] 765 00:34:49,567 --> 00:34:52,066 I definitely don't think Deanne will have sex with anyone 766 00:34:52,066 --> 00:34:53,667 if she's not dating them seriously. 767 00:34:53,667 --> 00:34:57,266 But what I'll say is if someone could take Deanne's V card, 768 00:34:57,266 --> 00:34:59,300 Conrad is the guy that could get it done. 769 00:34:59,900 --> 00:35:01,767 Eyes closed. Look straight. 770 00:35:03,300 --> 00:35:07,300 Thumb up if you are interested in the person next to you. 771 00:35:07,300 --> 00:35:12,467 Thumb down if you are not, in three, two, one. 772 00:35:14,567 --> 00:35:17,667 [all] Oh! 773 00:35:18,467 --> 00:35:20,800 Like, this was like wild. 774 00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:23,700 Conrad has that thing that some guys have 775 00:35:23,700 --> 00:35:25,367 that makes you really attracted to them. 776 00:35:25,367 --> 00:35:26,800 That makes you really want them. 777 00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:28,767 [Brandon] Give it up for Conrad. 778 00:35:28,767 --> 00:35:31,300 -Wow. -[audience cheering] 779 00:35:31,300 --> 00:35:32,400 All right. 780 00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:35,200 I would want to, you know, 781 00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:36,767 end up hooking up with him. 782 00:35:36,767 --> 00:35:39,100 I think it would be easier to start a sexual relationship 783 00:35:39,100 --> 00:35:41,100 with someone like Conrad, who is so nice. 784 00:35:41,100 --> 00:35:45,000 I think someone like him would probably be a great start to that. 785 00:35:45,767 --> 00:35:48,000 ♪ Da-da-da-da ♪ 786 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:50,900 -Oh. -Yeah! 787 00:35:50,900 --> 00:35:52,467 -[Jessica] We have arrived. -Oh, my goodness. 788 00:35:52,467 --> 00:35:55,266 Walking through those doors is a whole new world. 789 00:35:55,266 --> 00:35:58,066 Naked people, people making out. 790 00:35:58,066 --> 00:35:59,567 Oh my gosh, look at that. 791 00:35:59,567 --> 00:36:01,667 -Candyland for adults. -Candyland 792 00:36:01,667 --> 00:36:02,867 Oh, my goodness! 793 00:36:02,867 --> 00:36:05,667 I am about to live my life. My best life. 794 00:36:05,667 --> 00:36:07,200 [laughs] 795 00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:17,467 -[Jessica] Girl, what's up? Are you excited? -I'm excited. 796 00:36:17,467 --> 00:36:19,166 Let's get on this road. 797 00:36:19,166 --> 00:36:23,100 [Rhasha] Jessica and I are headed out to the adults-only resort 798 00:36:23,100 --> 00:36:24,867 for a fun and sexy weekend. 799 00:36:24,867 --> 00:36:26,600 And we are ready to get the party started. 800 00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,467 I got stuff to, uh, update you on. 801 00:36:29,467 --> 00:36:31,567 I met a guy. 802 00:36:31,567 --> 00:36:32,600 Oh. 803 00:36:33,767 --> 00:36:34,800 Dang. 804 00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:37,900 -Yes. And his name is William. -[Jessica] Okay. 805 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:40,400 Uh-huh. 806 00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,100 He's sweet and caring. 807 00:36:43,100 --> 00:36:45,900 -And he makes me feel safe. -Okay. 808 00:36:45,900 --> 00:36:48,567 -[Jessica] Perfect. -I really like him. 809 00:36:48,567 --> 00:36:49,934 Girl, I love that for you. 810 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:55,166 Um, I think... I think we're going in the right direction. 811 00:36:55,166 --> 00:36:57,533 Absolutely. Absolutely. 812 00:37:00,066 --> 00:37:03,967 I haven't yet because I am more trying 813 00:37:03,967 --> 00:37:06,400 to build an honest connection with him. 814 00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:09,367 And once that connection, um, and trust is built, 815 00:37:09,367 --> 00:37:11,567 I think that I will let him 816 00:37:11,567 --> 00:37:15,800 know my curiosity about it and see if he's... he's cool with it. 817 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:17,800 Okay, so now let's... let's talk about this now. 818 00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,200 -So we're on our way to this resort, right? -Mmm-hmm. 819 00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,567 Have you thought about inviting him? 820 00:37:22,567 --> 00:37:25,367 Um, I thought about it, but I'm kind of nervous. 821 00:37:25,367 --> 00:37:27,867 -Why? -Because, like, we're still kind of new, 822 00:37:27,867 --> 00:37:29,166 and then, like, on the last minute, 823 00:37:29,166 --> 00:37:31,967 and you know, so I don't... I wasn't sure. 824 00:37:31,967 --> 00:37:33,767 Okay, But wait. Listen. 825 00:37:33,767 --> 00:37:35,300 This is the perfect opportunity. 826 00:37:35,300 --> 00:37:40,200 All you can do is just ask, you know, so think about it. 827 00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:45,600 I am feeling like, is he gonna enjoy coming to see me even though we're new? 828 00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,700 And it's an adult resort. 829 00:37:48,700 --> 00:37:54,100 So I'm worried about if he thinks that, you know, I'm moving too fast. 830 00:37:54,100 --> 00:37:59,367 This weekend, I want you to literally give yourself permission 831 00:38:00,066 --> 00:38:02,266 to explore new things. 832 00:38:02,266 --> 00:38:04,700 I'm going to give myself permission to explore new things. 833 00:38:04,700 --> 00:38:05,900 Say it again. 834 00:38:05,900 --> 00:38:10,567 I'm going to give myself permission to explore new things! 835 00:38:10,567 --> 00:38:12,800 -That's what I want for you. Yes. -Yes. Yes. 836 00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,567 [Rhasha] And we are here, baby. 837 00:38:14,567 --> 00:38:16,500 -[Jessica] I'm ready. I'm ready. -[Rhasha] I'm ready. 838 00:38:16,500 --> 00:38:19,100 I like it a lot, honey. They are not ready for us. 839 00:38:19,100 --> 00:38:20,667 -They ain't ready. -[Rhasha laughs] 840 00:38:20,667 --> 00:38:22,266 Oh, my goodness. 841 00:38:22,266 --> 00:38:25,767 We're here to have all fun and see all the things. 842 00:38:25,767 --> 00:38:27,000 So if you're ready to party, 843 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,567 -this is the place to be for sure. -Oh! 844 00:38:30,367 --> 00:38:31,767 Ooh! 845 00:38:31,767 --> 00:38:34,367 -That's nice. -Oh, my gosh. 846 00:38:34,367 --> 00:38:36,300 -[Jessica] We have arrived. -[Rhasha] Oh, my goodness. 847 00:38:36,300 --> 00:38:38,767 Walking through those doors is a whole new world. 848 00:38:39,266 --> 00:38:40,700 A whole new world. 849 00:38:40,700 --> 00:38:45,567 I'm seeing people in the hot tub, naked people. 850 00:38:45,567 --> 00:38:47,100 People making out. 851 00:38:47,100 --> 00:38:48,100 Oh, my gosh, Look at that. 852 00:38:48,100 --> 00:38:50,266 -Candyland. -Candyland. 853 00:38:50,266 --> 00:38:52,266 Jesus. 854 00:38:52,266 --> 00:38:54,867 -[Rhasha] Oh, my goodness. -[Jessica] Candyland. 855 00:38:54,867 --> 00:38:57,900 -A game for adults, Honey. -[Rhasha] Oh, my goodness. 856 00:38:57,900 --> 00:39:02,000 I am a 42-year-old virgin at an adult resort 857 00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:03,467 Ooh-ooh. 858 00:39:04,100 --> 00:39:05,266 [laughing] 859 00:39:05,266 --> 00:39:06,867 And I am about to live my life. 860 00:39:06,867 --> 00:39:08,166 My best life. 861 00:39:08,166 --> 00:39:11,066 I just, like, would like William to see this. 862 00:39:11,066 --> 00:39:13,300 [Jessica] You know, I too would like William to see this. 863 00:39:13,300 --> 00:39:16,266 So why don't you text your boo thing? 864 00:39:16,266 --> 00:39:18,900 -[Rhasha] Really? -Yes. Why not? 865 00:39:20,266 --> 00:39:22,367 -Okay. I mean, like... -Yeah, you just, like, text him and just say, 866 00:39:22,367 --> 00:39:25,000 "You know what? This is a sweet room. 867 00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:27,467 It'll be so much sweeter with you here." 868 00:39:27,467 --> 00:39:29,367 Is it too short notice? 869 00:39:29,367 --> 00:39:31,200 You think he's gonna tell you? No, I don't. 870 00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:34,266 [Rhasha] William coming to the resort, like, I'm nervous 871 00:39:34,266 --> 00:39:39,767 that he's going to think that I am really wild and crazy. 872 00:39:39,767 --> 00:39:43,567 But the more I'm here, the more I'm missing him. 873 00:39:43,567 --> 00:39:45,400 This is it. This is what you gotta do. 874 00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:52,000 Okay. I have this sweet room. 875 00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:55,900 and I would like for you to join me. 876 00:39:56,700 --> 00:39:58,567 -Yes. -Sent. 877 00:39:59,667 --> 00:40:01,667 I don't know if he's gonna say yes. 878 00:40:01,667 --> 00:40:04,000 And what if he says no? 879 00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:07,100 And I'm like, "Oh, my God, is this really gonna happen?" 880 00:40:07,100 --> 00:40:09,166 Oh, my God, he's texting back. 881 00:40:09,166 --> 00:40:10,266 [Jessica] I love it. 882 00:40:11,367 --> 00:40:12,867 -This is sexy. -[screams excitedly] 883 00:40:15,100 --> 00:40:17,467 -I hope you like red wine. -I do. I love red. 884 00:40:17,467 --> 00:40:21,000 Conrad is super cute. He's super nice. 885 00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:23,266 It's Deanne's world. I'm just living in it. 886 00:40:23,266 --> 00:40:24,734 [Deanne] I can tell Conrad does want to kiss me. 887 00:40:24,734 --> 00:40:29,367 Who knows? I could just have a sex life without it meaning so much more. 888 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,266 -[Alex] This is gonna be fun. -[Lauren laughs] 889 00:40:33,266 --> 00:40:34,834 I haven't seen a round bed before. 890 00:40:34,834 --> 00:40:38,600 -[Alex] Me neither. -[Lauren] Look at the ceiling. Oh, my. Lots of mirrors. 891 00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,867 I am fantasizing what will happen. 892 00:40:40,867 --> 00:40:43,467 But I don't feel like I'll enjoy the weekend 893 00:40:43,467 --> 00:40:45,500 if I don't tell Lauren that I'm a virgin. 894 00:40:45,500 --> 00:40:47,367 I have something I need to tell you. 895 00:40:47,367 --> 00:40:50,667 The last time I told someone that I was a virgin, 896 00:40:50,667 --> 00:40:53,300 that didn't go well, so I'm very nervous. 897 00:40:56,667 --> 00:40:58,800 -I'm kind of talking to someone. -Okay. 898 00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:00,266 -Whoa. -Okay. 899 00:41:00,266 --> 00:41:01,300 I like William a lot. 900 00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:04,100 -Yeah. -Okay. Come on. 901 00:41:04,100 --> 00:41:05,367 It just feels natural. 902 00:41:05,367 --> 00:41:06,500 Kiss me, William. 903 00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:08,667 It's real life. 904 00:41:08,667 --> 00:41:12,567 It's happening, and I'm excited and scared at the same time. 905 00:41:13,467 --> 00:41:15,667 -Oh, my goodness. -Welcome to the temple. 906 00:41:15,667 --> 00:41:18,467 I'm going to meet with a priestess healer. 907 00:41:18,467 --> 00:41:20,266 It's an honor to have you here. 908 00:41:20,266 --> 00:41:22,567 [Sonali] I'll try anything to be able to have sex. 909 00:41:22,567 --> 00:41:26,200 What we're gonna do is just place this tool at the door. 910 00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:29,367 [groans] Oh, my gosh, I didn't expect this to happen. 73246

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