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- Yep, you're probably right.
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I don't know what I'm talking about.
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Forget about my degree and experience.
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What's important, after all, how you feel.
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You tell me you like girls?
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Great, go for it, buddy.
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You like boys?
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All the better.
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(sighs) You do what you feel.
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I could tell you all about safe sex,
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give you a condom, but it'd
only be a matter of time
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before you picked up some ungodly STD.
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Unleashing all your carnal
cravings on whatever sweet thing
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walked through the door, yeah.
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But I won't stop you.
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Nope, you enjoy your herpes.
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- What the fu...?
(tapping)
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♪ Lord can you give me
a little bit of grace ♪
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♪ Oh can you hear me, it's
been one of those days ♪
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♪ Oh oh oh oh, please don't delay ♪
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♪ Oh oh oh oh ♪
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- Tastes like s'mores.
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- I like it black.
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- You're missing out on a
whole world of flavor, man.
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(traffic rumbling)
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- [Man] Hey, nice car, man.
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- [Dave] Belonged to my ex.
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- [Man] What was his name?
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♪ Lord can you give me a
whole lot of strength ♪
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♪ Cause I keep reliving
every single mistake ♪
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♪ Oh oh oh oh please don't delay ♪
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♪ Please don't delay ♪
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(laughing)
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- Dave Hopper, my savior.
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(laughing)
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Get in here.
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Look at you, big boy, look at,
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you look good, considering, yeah.
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Let's go take a look at
your office, come on.
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- Well, show me the way.
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It's a closet.
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- It's a start.
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- Uh huh, the door is
bigger than the entire room.
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(Gordon laughs)
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You stole my title.
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- One of the best student
papers I ever read.
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How do you do it?
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- Well, when you're in
chapel five days a week,
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you got a lot to pull from.
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Most of us used to swipe
our card and leave anyways.
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- Until that landed you and your buddies
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in front of my disciplinary board.
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You really should not have
run from the campus cops.
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(laughs)
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I just couldn't take another installment
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of Dr. Nessey's, The Four
Voices of the Tishbite.
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- The tortures of the damned, my friend.
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- What ever happened to him?
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- His wife left him for a woman.
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(Gordon laughs)
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I'm sorry, I didn't mean...
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It's too soon, right?
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- That's all right.
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At least she left me the car, right?
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And the car payments and the student loans
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and the...
- That's,
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that is all behind you.
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Now you are back with friends.
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So where are you staying?
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(gentle music)
(birds chirping)
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- Aunt Patty.
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- [Gordon] Ah.
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- [Dave] I'm surprised
she's still breathing.
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♪ God knows I'd save your ass ♪
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♪ God knows I'd save your ass ♪
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♪ But there was not much left to save ♪
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(gentle music)
(door creaking)
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Patty?
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Patty?
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Patty?
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Whoa, what?
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Mm, uh mm.
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Yeah, I need to report a dead body.
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- Gotcha, Dave.
(Dave yells)
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(laughs) Gotcha.
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I've been waiting weeks to do this.
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What took you so long?
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(Patty laughs)
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(upbeat music)
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(students chattering)
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- Good morning, everyone.
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- [Students] Good morning.
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My name is Mr. Hopper.
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Welcome to Psych 101.
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Now, as far as I'm concerned the basis
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for our understanding of human behavior
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can clearly be found in the Bible,
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and that's where we'll begin.
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Now we're gonna start each class
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by answering one question.
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Any question, I will give you
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my honest black and white answer.
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Give me something tough.
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Anything.
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Mr. Uh?
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- Nate.
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Why does God hate gay people?
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(chuckles)
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- There it is.
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The issue of your generation, the gays.
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We hear things like it's the new normal,
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an acceptable lifestyle,
and that Christians,
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and others who oppose that
practice are homophobic.
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Nate, I'm not afraid of homosexuality,
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I just know that it's wrong.
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It destroys people and families.
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I've seen it.
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(knocking)
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- [Gordon] Come in.
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(door creaks)
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- What's this?
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Building a house?
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- Uh huh, for the psych department.
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- We have a psych department?
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- Not yet.
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We wanna get the Cash Feed
property over on Wabash,
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have it ready for the fall.
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- Oh yeah, love that building.
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Who's gonna head it?
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- I was hoping that you would.
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- I've taught like one class.
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- Nobody cares.
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You've got real-world experience.
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You're young, you're committed.
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Board eats that sort of stuff up.
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(sighs)
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- What?
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- It's ridiculous, I'm starting to think
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we may not be able to get it.
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- Well, what ever happened to
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attempt great things, expect great things?
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- There's a support group, okay?
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The recently deceased
owner of the property
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willed it to them as long as they
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could raise money to pay the back taxes,
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and it's only rumors, I have
no way of knowing for sure,
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but it sounds like they're getting close.
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- Is there no other building?
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- (chuckles) Not like that.
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Not at that price or with that history.
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It's breath-taking.
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(sizzling)
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- It smells good in there, Patty.
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Do you need any help?
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- [Patty] Do you like vajatas?
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- What?
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- [Patty] Vajatas.
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Do you like them?
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- Fajitas, I love fajitas.
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- That's what I said.
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Go have a seat.
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(sighs)
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- Let me go check out the group.
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- [Gordon] Hmm?
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- The support group, just check it out.
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Not say anything, find out how
close they are to the money.
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- I don't know, Dave.
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That sounds a little deceitful.
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- It's research.
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Where do they meet?
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(Gordon grumbles)
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- Over by that hippie
church on Main Street.
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I think.
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(upbeat music)
(birds chirping)
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(sighs)
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- [Gina] Hi, are you here for the group?
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- I think so.
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- Great!
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Come on in.
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- [Dave] That's how it works.
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(chattering)
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- Hey, am I at the right place?
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- It depends, are you gay?
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It's not a trick question.
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- Your shirt says you are, come on.
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Hey guys, Alyssa's gonna be late
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so I'm gonna lead discussion tonight.
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- [Richard] Oh, no he didn't!
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- Yes, right in the middle of service!
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We were at the alter-call-thing
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and the pastor says to
me, with his mic on,
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are you a lesbian?
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- [Richard] Girl, he didn't.
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- And I said, I'm not here for
sex, I'm here for salvation
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and I'll go find it elsewhere, thank you.
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(Richard laughs)
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- That was like eight
years ago though, babe.
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- More things are much
better now, more accepting.
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- Some of us are changing.
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- I guess, let's start like usual,
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everyone says their name
and why they're here.
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Rosa, can you start?
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- My name is Rosa and I'm
here to support my wife,
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although I don't think it's worth the cost
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of a baby sitter.
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And to make sure she grows up
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in a less hateful world than we did.
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Bruce?
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- Hello, my name is Bruce.
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And I've been a member of the
gay community my whole life.
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- Hi everyone, I'm Richard,
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and I'm here to love on my family.
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That's what you are, you're my family.
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- His family doesn't like him.
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- Well, I'm Kyle, and I've
been questioning my sexuality
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for about four years now.
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- He's not gay.
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- I'm Mark, I'm the pastor
at the church next door.
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I love people, that's why I'm here.
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What about you?
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Mm-hmm.
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- Oh, uh, I don't really...
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- It's okay to just start with your name.
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- Right, oh okay.
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Um, my name is Dave.
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Just moved here a few days ago.
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Uh, living with my aunt and I don't like
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to talk about my sexuality.
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- It's okay, we all understand.
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We're really glad you're here.
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- We've all been there.
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- [Gina] Erika, do you wanna go?
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- Pass.
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- We can do that?
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- Okay.
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Does anyone have anything
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they need support with tonight?
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(door bangs)
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- That little shit behind
the counter did it again.
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Every time I go to that
gas station on the corner
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I catch him spewing his hate!
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Your god is love, bitch, why can't you be?
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(thuds)
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- [Mark] It's okay.
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- (sighs) Hi.
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- [Group] Hi.
(laughing)
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- Not gay.
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- I just got back from
the attorney's office,
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and we're all set to go on the property.
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We just need to get the money
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to cover the taxes and it's ours!
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- Well, how much money do we need?
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- $50 thousand in 30 days
and we're at about 10.
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- We need everyone at
the car wash, everyone.
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- Yes, please.
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- Uh, sorry, car wash?
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- Yeah, yep, a car wash.
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- It just seems like
a lot of cars to wash.
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- Honey, you have not seen us wash cars.
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(laughing)
- Okay?
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- Right.
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(upbeat music)
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- Girl.
Okay, on you.
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We'll see you soon.
267
00:14:27,519 --> 00:14:28,669
- All right, now.
- Okay.
268
00:14:28,719 --> 00:14:29,680
- Only one cookie now.
269
00:14:29,730 --> 00:14:32,397
- I deserve it, thank you, okay?
270
00:14:38,122 --> 00:14:39,122
- I'm Dave.
271
00:14:40,321 --> 00:14:42,581
(Alyssa laughs)
272
00:14:42,631 --> 00:14:44,464
- Sorry, I'm so sorry.
273
00:14:45,329 --> 00:14:46,112
- [Dave] Mm-hmm.
274
00:14:46,162 --> 00:14:48,968
- I had to do something about your shirt.
275
00:14:49,018 --> 00:14:51,018
- So I hear you're not...
276
00:14:52,759 --> 00:14:53,901
- Not what?
277
00:14:53,951 --> 00:14:55,930
- Uh, afraid of a challenge.
278
00:14:55,980 --> 00:14:57,632
- [Alyssa] No.
279
00:14:57,682 --> 00:14:59,408
- 40,000 in three weeks.
280
00:14:59,458 --> 00:15:01,796
- This shelter is gonna happen.
281
00:15:01,846 --> 00:15:02,923
- Shelter?
282
00:15:02,973 --> 00:15:04,794
- It's for everyone who
needs a place to feel safe.
283
00:15:04,844 --> 00:15:07,013
- Well, isn't that what
Good Shepherd's for?
284
00:15:07,063 --> 00:15:09,553
- Not if you're gay, darling.
285
00:15:09,603 --> 00:15:12,405
- Bruce, have you met Dave?
286
00:15:12,455 --> 00:15:14,215
- Yes, we have, we met at the circle.
287
00:15:14,265 --> 00:15:17,432
And Dave is new to town, he is single,
288
00:15:18,657 --> 00:15:21,149
and he lives with his aunt.
289
00:15:21,199 --> 00:15:23,139
And he hasn't talked about
sexuality much though.
290
00:15:23,189 --> 00:15:24,870
- Oh, that's understandable.
291
00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:26,625
It gets better.
292
00:15:26,675 --> 00:15:28,508
- Be seeing you, Dave.
293
00:15:31,049 --> 00:15:33,686
(Gordon humming)
294
00:15:33,736 --> 00:15:34,755
- Oh.
295
00:15:34,805 --> 00:15:36,794
- Why didn't you tell me?
296
00:15:36,844 --> 00:15:38,064
- Do they have it?
297
00:15:38,114 --> 00:15:39,087
- [Dave] Did you know?
298
00:15:39,137 --> 00:15:40,856
- Do they have it?
299
00:15:40,906 --> 00:15:42,720
- No, they don't.
- Excellent.
300
00:15:42,770 --> 00:15:43,812
(Gordon laughs)
301
00:15:43,862 --> 00:15:47,362
- Not even close. (Sighs)
302
00:15:48,259 --> 00:15:50,342
Gordon, it's a gay group.
303
00:15:53,248 --> 00:15:55,028
- All right, that would
have been nice to know.
304
00:15:55,078 --> 00:15:57,177
- That would have been
great to know actually
305
00:15:57,227 --> 00:16:01,433
and you know you'd think
they want it for a gay bar
306
00:16:01,483 --> 00:16:03,987
or maybe some sort of sex house.
307
00:16:04,037 --> 00:16:07,363
But they want it for a homeless shelter.
308
00:16:07,413 --> 00:16:08,483
Did you know that?
309
00:16:08,533 --> 00:16:10,650
- No Dave, how could I know that?
310
00:16:10,700 --> 00:16:13,582
And so what if they want
it for a homeless shelter?
311
00:16:13,632 --> 00:16:14,645
You want those poor kids
312
00:16:14,695 --> 00:16:17,630
taken off the street taken by sodomites?
313
00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:19,763
- No.
- No, of course not.
314
00:16:21,215 --> 00:16:23,693
But like I said they're unorganized.
315
00:16:23,743 --> 00:16:25,592
All they have are car washes.
316
00:16:25,642 --> 00:16:28,041
- You haven't seen gays wash cars.
317
00:16:28,091 --> 00:16:30,512
- I will this weekend.
318
00:16:30,562 --> 00:16:31,562
- Will what?
319
00:16:32,835 --> 00:16:34,409
You're going back?
320
00:16:34,459 --> 00:16:36,442
Why would you you do that?
321
00:16:36,492 --> 00:16:37,275
- Because what if I...
322
00:16:37,325 --> 00:16:38,492
- Sabotage it?
323
00:16:41,536 --> 00:16:44,365
Jesus flipped over tables
and whipped sinners
324
00:16:44,415 --> 00:16:47,003
to rid the temple of evil.
325
00:16:47,053 --> 00:16:49,386
Desperate times, my brother.
326
00:16:51,260 --> 00:16:52,510
Ha, great idea.
327
00:16:54,153 --> 00:16:56,820
- So who's got a question today?
328
00:16:58,670 --> 00:16:59,686
Yes, Nate.
329
00:16:59,736 --> 00:17:02,701
- Does a person choose to be gay?
330
00:17:02,751 --> 00:17:04,084
- Wow, obsessed?
331
00:17:05,679 --> 00:17:09,471
Okay, well it's complicated,
but in most cases,
332
00:17:09,521 --> 00:17:11,717
the psycho-social choice
can be traced back
333
00:17:11,767 --> 00:17:16,141
to some kind of abuse or
negative impact growing up.
334
00:17:16,191 --> 00:17:19,023
Call it a distant father,
an overbearing mother.
335
00:17:19,073 --> 00:17:21,074
Sometimes it's as simple as a gay man
336
00:17:21,124 --> 00:17:23,245
has never had a chance to be with a woman,
337
00:17:23,295 --> 00:17:25,738
hindering his sexual development.
338
00:17:25,788 --> 00:17:28,353
- So they're attracted to the same sex
339
00:17:28,403 --> 00:17:32,162
because they never
kissed the opposite sex?
340
00:17:32,212 --> 00:17:33,545
- Psycho-social.
341
00:17:36,091 --> 00:17:37,439
- When have you kissed a man?
342
00:17:37,489 --> 00:17:40,288
(students laughing)
343
00:17:40,338 --> 00:17:41,675
- I'm sorry?
344
00:17:41,725 --> 00:17:44,160
- I don't know, maybe you
don't know you're gay.
345
00:17:44,210 --> 00:17:45,210
Maybe if you kissed a man
346
00:17:45,250 --> 00:17:46,777
you'd find you really like men.
347
00:17:46,827 --> 00:17:49,739
(students laughing)
348
00:17:49,789 --> 00:17:50,789
- Stop it.
349
00:17:53,844 --> 00:17:55,579
(door creaks)
350
00:17:55,629 --> 00:17:58,578
(clanging)
351
00:17:58,628 --> 00:17:59,628
- Patty?
352
00:18:02,807 --> 00:18:03,846
Patty?
(grunts)
353
00:18:03,896 --> 00:18:04,806
- I ain't Patty.
354
00:18:04,856 --> 00:18:06,189
- Holy, clearly.
355
00:18:07,285 --> 00:18:08,372
Who are you?
356
00:18:08,422 --> 00:18:09,422
- Frank.
357
00:18:10,196 --> 00:18:13,174
You must be Dave, Patty tells me
358
00:18:13,224 --> 00:18:15,640
you don't know how to please a woman.
359
00:18:15,690 --> 00:18:19,652
- Um, okay Frank, that
is none of your business
360
00:18:19,702 --> 00:18:21,619
and it's mostly untrue.
361
00:18:22,576 --> 00:18:26,486
- Ain't nobody ever told you
how to be a 60 minute man?
362
00:18:26,536 --> 00:18:27,408
- Um...
363
00:18:27,458 --> 00:18:29,507
- A 60 minute man.
364
00:18:29,557 --> 00:18:34,012
15 minutes a cuddling,
15 minutes a smooching,
365
00:18:34,062 --> 00:18:35,219
15 minutes a rubbing...
366
00:18:35,269 --> 00:18:36,769
- Whoa, okay, wow.
367
00:18:38,940 --> 00:18:40,522
Thank you, please stop though.
368
00:18:40,572 --> 00:18:41,844
Why are you here, Frank?
369
00:18:41,894 --> 00:18:45,398
- I'm whatcha call Patty's
friend with benefits.
370
00:18:45,448 --> 00:18:49,340
We share our Social
Security income and meds.
371
00:18:49,390 --> 00:18:53,180
I give her my downers and
she gives me her uppers.
372
00:18:53,230 --> 00:18:54,074
(laughs)
373
00:18:54,124 --> 00:18:55,036
- Okay.
374
00:18:55,086 --> 00:18:56,055
Where is she?
375
00:18:56,105 --> 00:18:57,438
- [Patty] Frank.
376
00:18:59,605 --> 00:19:04,084
- I tell you what, you
go give her these pills,
377
00:19:04,134 --> 00:19:06,134
but you gotta wear this.
378
00:19:07,356 --> 00:19:08,855
- Um, mm, I don't...
379
00:19:08,905 --> 00:19:10,636
- Oh, it'll freak her out.
380
00:19:10,686 --> 00:19:13,207
She's all the time pullin' crap with me
381
00:19:13,257 --> 00:19:14,978
and she'll get you before long?
382
00:19:15,028 --> 00:19:16,248
- She already did.
383
00:19:16,298 --> 00:19:18,048
- Here's your chance.
384
00:19:21,268 --> 00:19:23,029
(pills rattling)
- Gonna regret this.
385
00:19:23,079 --> 00:19:24,299
Mm-hmm.
386
00:19:24,349 --> 00:19:26,227
It's a bad idea.
(solemn music)
387
00:19:26,277 --> 00:19:27,444
Bad, bad idea.
388
00:19:29,177 --> 00:19:31,677
- [Patty] Frank, where you at?
389
00:19:34,523 --> 00:19:36,219
Frank, I'm ready for you.
390
00:19:36,269 --> 00:19:37,052
(Patty screams)
(Frank laughing)
391
00:19:37,102 --> 00:19:38,432
- Oh!
- Oh no.
392
00:19:38,482 --> 00:19:39,482
- No.
393
00:19:40,396 --> 00:19:42,313
- [Frank] Gotcha Patty!
394
00:19:43,441 --> 00:19:44,639
- [Dave] Frank.
395
00:19:44,689 --> 00:19:47,772
(cell phone buzzing)
396
00:19:49,644 --> 00:19:50,533
- At night?
397
00:19:50,583 --> 00:19:52,125
(crickets chirping)
398
00:19:52,175 --> 00:19:54,342
(humming)
399
00:20:02,324 --> 00:20:04,491
- Woo, our first customer!
400
00:20:05,493 --> 00:20:07,083
Your wash will be for free, handsome,
401
00:20:07,133 --> 00:20:09,133
but then you gotta help.
402
00:20:11,751 --> 00:20:14,501
- Okay, none of this makes sense.
403
00:20:18,039 --> 00:20:20,206
(humming)
404
00:20:28,318 --> 00:20:31,568
(garage door rattling)
405
00:20:36,968 --> 00:20:37,968
Okay.
406
00:20:39,565 --> 00:20:41,076
♪ Show me what you got for me ♪
407
00:20:41,126 --> 00:20:43,200
♪ I wanna see what you got for me ♪
408
00:20:43,250 --> 00:20:45,230
♪ I want it all like a shopping spree ♪
409
00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:47,487
♪ I want y'all on top of me ♪
410
00:20:47,537 --> 00:20:49,244
♪ Show me what you got for me ♪
411
00:20:49,294 --> 00:20:51,191
♪ I wanna see what you got for me ♪
412
00:20:51,241 --> 00:20:53,274
♪ I want it all like a shopping spree ♪
413
00:20:53,324 --> 00:20:55,173
♪ I want y'all on top of me ♪
414
00:20:55,223 --> 00:20:56,282
♪ Watching you wine I had to stop ♪
415
00:20:56,332 --> 00:20:57,360
♪ And hit rewind on that ass ♪
416
00:20:57,410 --> 00:20:58,327
♪ Caught the pause like what's the play ♪
417
00:20:58,377 --> 00:20:59,367
♪ I guess the time moving fast ♪
418
00:20:59,417 --> 00:21:01,802
♪ Slow motion like juvenile ♪
419
00:21:01,852 --> 00:21:03,171
♪ I'm a have to call ya mom on that ass ♪
420
00:21:03,221 --> 00:21:04,004
♪ Get 'em daddy ♪
421
00:21:04,054 --> 00:21:05,236
♪ I don't think they gone
have a problem with that ♪
422
00:21:05,286 --> 00:21:06,497
♪ Came from a dollar all I needed ♪
423
00:21:06,547 --> 00:21:07,878
♪ Was some commas to add, Shakespeare ♪
424
00:21:07,928 --> 00:21:09,316
♪ But we ain't tryin' to
have no drama with that ♪
425
00:21:09,366 --> 00:21:10,441
♪ Bought a white house like all I needed ♪
426
00:21:10,491 --> 00:21:13,658
♪ Was Obama with that ♪
427
00:21:19,017 --> 00:21:20,017
No.
428
00:21:20,930 --> 00:21:22,443
- Oh, I'm not asking.
429
00:21:22,493 --> 00:21:23,335
- [Dave] No.
430
00:21:23,385 --> 00:21:24,916
(water splashing)
431
00:21:24,966 --> 00:21:26,022
- [Alyssa] Go.
432
00:21:26,072 --> 00:21:27,341
(screams)
433
00:21:27,391 --> 00:21:28,994
(laughs) No, no, no.
434
00:21:29,044 --> 00:21:31,102
(rock music)
435
00:21:31,152 --> 00:21:31,969
♪ Gimme a second ♪
436
00:21:32,019 --> 00:21:34,682
♪ I'm trying to select the
appropriate weapon, uh ♪
437
00:21:34,732 --> 00:21:35,515
♪ Watch where you steppin' ♪
438
00:21:35,565 --> 00:21:38,184
♪ Them snakes all around you
know they connected, uh ♪
439
00:21:38,234 --> 00:21:39,017
♪ When I was a kid ♪
440
00:21:39,067 --> 00:21:40,905
♪ My grandmamma told me
I can't go to heaven ♪
441
00:21:40,955 --> 00:21:41,810
♪ So I stopped praying ♪
442
00:21:41,860 --> 00:21:43,709
- Oh no, keep that one, that one's on us.
443
00:21:43,759 --> 00:21:44,542
You go ahead.
444
00:21:44,592 --> 00:21:46,325
♪ Got nothing to lose, I'm all in ♪
445
00:21:46,375 --> 00:21:48,030
♪ Walking the edge, don't fall in ♪
446
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:49,846
♪ Enough of the lies, don't apologize ♪
447
00:21:49,896 --> 00:21:50,985
♪ I don't understand are you foreign ♪
448
00:21:51,035 --> 00:21:52,061
Keep your money.
449
00:21:52,111 --> 00:21:52,894
This one's on us.
450
00:21:52,944 --> 00:21:55,181
♪ This is a site, grab all
your people and log in ♪
451
00:21:55,231 --> 00:21:57,049
♪ I'm waiting, don't care
how long it's gonna take ♪
452
00:21:57,099 --> 00:21:57,899
♪ Watching and waiting ♪
This one's on us.
453
00:21:57,949 --> 00:21:58,814
♪ For that first mistake ♪
454
00:21:58,864 --> 00:22:00,507
Go ahead.
♪ Don't come up missing ♪
455
00:22:00,557 --> 00:22:02,361
♪ Just checking the listings ♪
456
00:22:02,411 --> 00:22:04,358
♪ I'm always aware of
your current position ♪
457
00:22:04,408 --> 00:22:06,121
♪ I just hold out till
the perfect conditions ♪
458
00:22:06,171 --> 00:22:06,954
♪ Coming alive ♪
459
00:22:07,004 --> 00:22:09,783
♪ Whoa oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪
460
00:22:09,833 --> 00:22:10,622
♪ Heat of the night ♪
461
00:22:10,672 --> 00:22:13,325
♪ Whoa, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪
462
00:22:13,375 --> 00:22:14,158
♪ Now is the time ♪
463
00:22:14,208 --> 00:22:16,864
♪ Whoa, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪
464
00:22:16,914 --> 00:22:18,468
♪ Don't try to hide ♪
465
00:22:18,518 --> 00:22:20,957
♪ 'Cause I'm gonna hunt
you like an animal ♪
466
00:22:21,007 --> 00:22:21,943
♪ Benefit of the doubt ♪
467
00:22:21,993 --> 00:22:23,644
♪ We the ones ♪
(sizzling)
468
00:22:23,694 --> 00:22:26,111
(chattering)
469
00:22:27,084 --> 00:22:28,263
Kyle?
470
00:22:28,313 --> 00:22:30,230
- I didn't do anything.
471
00:22:31,147 --> 00:22:35,064
(speaking in foreign language)
472
00:22:44,230 --> 00:22:45,730
(Dave sighs)
473
00:22:45,780 --> 00:22:47,496
- How was the baptism?
474
00:22:47,546 --> 00:22:48,461
(birds chirping)
475
00:22:48,511 --> 00:22:49,511
- Success.
476
00:22:51,311 --> 00:22:53,057
There's no way they
made money off of that.
477
00:22:53,107 --> 00:22:54,857
- I don't wanna know.
478
00:23:00,906 --> 00:23:02,552
- So what's the deal with the bi's?
479
00:23:02,602 --> 00:23:03,385
(upbeat music)
480
00:23:03,435 --> 00:23:05,865
I mean, make up your mind already.
481
00:23:05,915 --> 00:23:06,934
Am I right?
482
00:23:06,984 --> 00:23:10,081
And you guys, you've got it the hardest.
483
00:23:10,131 --> 00:23:12,053
Raising that girl.
484
00:23:12,103 --> 00:23:14,658
No greater responsibility.
485
00:23:14,708 --> 00:23:18,708
How does it feel to know
that your support group
486
00:23:19,624 --> 00:23:21,457
thinks you're not gay?
487
00:23:22,483 --> 00:23:23,483
Hmm.
488
00:23:24,525 --> 00:23:28,858
If it were me, I'd find a
place I was more accepted.
489
00:23:30,083 --> 00:23:34,583
I look at you and I look at
everyone else around here,
490
00:23:35,504 --> 00:23:37,694
don't near cares like you do.
491
00:23:37,744 --> 00:23:39,712
Where's their passion?
492
00:23:39,762 --> 00:23:41,595
I see it in your eyes.
493
00:23:42,584 --> 00:23:43,865
Don't see it in theirs.
494
00:23:43,915 --> 00:23:44,698
(gasps)
495
00:23:44,748 --> 00:23:47,248
You've been here what, a year?
496
00:23:48,546 --> 00:23:51,555
Still no gender neutral bathrooms.
497
00:23:51,605 --> 00:23:53,203
Must be tough.
498
00:23:53,253 --> 00:23:56,987
Do they have to get
childcare or do homework?
499
00:23:57,037 --> 00:23:59,507
Get their kid to school?
500
00:23:59,557 --> 00:24:00,776
Nope.
501
00:24:00,826 --> 00:24:02,331
You know why?
502
00:24:02,381 --> 00:24:04,357
They're too busy having fun.
503
00:24:04,407 --> 00:24:05,244
- What is it I've been saying,
504
00:24:05,294 --> 00:24:07,884
for the love of God, pick a side already.
505
00:24:07,934 --> 00:24:11,157
- But I'm so gay I make
circles look straight.
506
00:24:11,207 --> 00:24:13,840
- There's always been this
voice telling me that.
507
00:24:13,890 --> 00:24:18,700
You know, inside my head, I
just don't want to believe it.
508
00:24:18,750 --> 00:24:20,463
- It's true.
509
00:24:20,513 --> 00:24:23,013
- Dude, I use the ladies room.
510
00:24:25,002 --> 00:24:26,002
- Right.
511
00:24:32,604 --> 00:24:35,271
(door creaking)
512
00:24:36,542 --> 00:24:39,650
- Hey, how's everyone doing?
513
00:24:39,700 --> 00:24:41,614
- (chuckles) That's funny that you ask.
514
00:24:41,664 --> 00:24:43,442
- I just wish everyone
(group arguing)
515
00:24:43,492 --> 00:24:45,123
would care as much as I do!
516
00:24:45,173 --> 00:24:47,172
- Don't act like we're not sitting here
517
00:24:47,222 --> 00:24:48,797
with a bunch of hypocrites.
518
00:24:52,650 --> 00:24:54,950
- Do not talk to us like that.
519
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,333
- Bruce, apologize to Erika.
520
00:25:00,263 --> 00:25:02,430
- Y'all, snap it together!
521
00:25:03,386 --> 00:25:04,636
Get your lives.
522
00:25:05,811 --> 00:25:06,601
Do I have to remind you?
523
00:25:06,651 --> 00:25:08,975
This is not who we are.
524
00:25:09,025 --> 00:25:10,709
We're together because
no one else wants us
525
00:25:10,759 --> 00:25:12,522
and to make sure we're there for others
526
00:25:12,572 --> 00:25:14,912
who don't have anyone else either.
527
00:25:14,962 --> 00:25:18,440
Erika, honey, we know
you've gone through so much
528
00:25:18,490 --> 00:25:20,645
and have grown stronger for it.
529
00:25:20,695 --> 00:25:22,394
That's why we love you.
530
00:25:22,444 --> 00:25:27,225
Bruce, you keep your
close-minded hate to yourself.
531
00:25:27,275 --> 00:25:29,708
Miss Gina, Miss Rosa,
532
00:25:29,758 --> 00:25:32,297
you're doing a beautiful thing with Chloe,
533
00:25:32,347 --> 00:25:35,990
but that blessing was your choice, okay?
534
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:37,040
- Yeah.
535
00:25:38,282 --> 00:25:40,032
And Kyle, poor child,
536
00:25:41,507 --> 00:25:42,840
you are not gay.
537
00:25:44,808 --> 00:25:46,225
So let it go, boo boo.
538
00:25:46,275 --> 00:25:47,775
We still love you.
539
00:25:49,321 --> 00:25:50,821
- All right, good.
540
00:25:52,679 --> 00:25:57,136
So, the numbers are in from
the car wash, and it's bad.
541
00:25:57,186 --> 00:25:58,953
It's like $130 bad.
542
00:25:59,003 --> 00:25:59,786
- [Richard] Uh-huh.
543
00:25:59,836 --> 00:26:01,557
- But we washed like a thousand cars!
544
00:26:01,607 --> 00:26:03,823
- [Gina] Yeah, we charged $20 a pop!
545
00:26:03,873 --> 00:26:05,482
- But after the accident with lights
546
00:26:05,532 --> 00:26:07,391
and the sound system,
we didn't make enough.
547
00:26:07,441 --> 00:26:08,263
- [Group] Kyle!
548
00:26:08,313 --> 00:26:10,375
- I told you I didn't touch it.
549
00:26:10,425 --> 00:26:12,054
- It's fine, it's okay.
550
00:26:12,104 --> 00:26:14,894
Everyone had fun and people
learned about the shelter,
551
00:26:14,944 --> 00:26:16,561
so that's good.
552
00:26:16,611 --> 00:26:19,415
We also have the 5k next
week, so that'll help.
553
00:26:19,465 --> 00:26:21,326
Speaking of which, after group
554
00:26:21,376 --> 00:26:24,793
I need help making signs, any volunteers?
555
00:26:25,844 --> 00:26:29,177
- Uh, I could, if nobody else wanted to.
556
00:26:31,947 --> 00:26:32,947
- Okay.
557
00:26:42,828 --> 00:26:45,014
- [Dave] Bruce kinda
told me you're not gay.
558
00:26:45,064 --> 00:26:46,064
- Kind of?
559
00:26:48,326 --> 00:26:51,399
- Well he mouthed it to
me at my first meeting.
560
00:26:51,449 --> 00:26:52,531
(Alyssa laughs)
561
00:26:52,581 --> 00:26:56,229
- Well that man does too
many things with his mouth.
562
00:26:56,279 --> 00:26:57,279
- So?
563
00:26:58,365 --> 00:26:59,532
- [Alyssa] No.
564
00:27:00,405 --> 00:27:01,274
- Oh, no?
565
00:27:01,324 --> 00:27:02,824
- [Alyssa] Um-hmm.
566
00:27:04,767 --> 00:27:06,628
- Then why the meetings?
567
00:27:06,678 --> 00:27:07,845
- For support.
568
00:27:09,490 --> 00:27:12,220
- [Dave] Seems like you
do more than support.
569
00:27:12,270 --> 00:27:13,289
You kinda run the place.
570
00:27:13,339 --> 00:27:14,418
- Yeah.
571
00:27:14,468 --> 00:27:16,645
How long have you lived here?
572
00:27:16,695 --> 00:27:18,778
- I'm actually from here.
573
00:27:19,706 --> 00:27:22,992
- Yeah, I um, just moved
back a few days ago.
574
00:27:23,042 --> 00:27:25,161
- Well three years ago, before me,
575
00:27:25,211 --> 00:27:29,182
there was another guy
that ran the group, Ryan.
576
00:27:29,232 --> 00:27:31,482
He was confident, handsome.
577
00:27:33,643 --> 00:27:36,572
Great with people, very gay.
578
00:27:36,622 --> 00:27:38,723
A little bit like you.
579
00:27:38,773 --> 00:27:40,809
The shelter was his dream.
580
00:27:40,859 --> 00:27:43,610
He would bring in homeless
teens off the street
581
00:27:43,660 --> 00:27:45,781
and try and get them in at Good Shepherd,
582
00:27:45,831 --> 00:27:50,831
but their sponsors didn't want
the gays hurting their image.
583
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,513
- The image of a homeless shelter.
584
00:27:55,752 --> 00:27:58,797
- So he would take them
to the shelter in Orlando.
585
00:27:58,847 --> 00:28:01,396
Mark volunteers there sometimes.
586
00:28:01,446 --> 00:28:03,148
And then Ryan realized that
587
00:28:03,198 --> 00:28:05,195
there is enough gay youth here
588
00:28:05,245 --> 00:28:07,662
that we needed our own place.
589
00:28:08,535 --> 00:28:10,702
- So what happened to him?
590
00:28:20,984 --> 00:28:24,484
- One night he was locking up after group,
591
00:28:29,822 --> 00:28:31,572
some guys jumped him.
592
00:28:34,221 --> 00:28:36,888
They found him the next morning.
593
00:28:39,203 --> 00:28:40,203
Beaten,
594
00:28:41,232 --> 00:28:44,065
and strangled with a rainbow flag.
595
00:28:58,681 --> 00:29:00,231
He was my brother.
596
00:29:00,281 --> 00:29:02,864
(solemn music)
597
00:29:05,574 --> 00:29:07,741
(sobbing)
598
00:29:16,301 --> 00:29:17,968
That's why I'm here.
599
00:29:20,391 --> 00:29:22,308
To make his dream real.
600
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:34,040
You know?
601
00:29:38,876 --> 00:29:40,209
Bruce was right.
602
00:29:41,981 --> 00:29:43,564
You are kinda cute.
603
00:29:45,815 --> 00:29:46,921
- What?
604
00:29:46,971 --> 00:29:49,138
- It's too bad you're gay.
605
00:29:52,472 --> 00:29:55,001
- (scoffs) Excuse me?
606
00:29:55,051 --> 00:29:57,631
- You're just so refreshing.
607
00:29:57,681 --> 00:29:59,260
So many new people feel the need
608
00:29:59,310 --> 00:30:02,060
to overemphasize their sexuality.
609
00:30:03,757 --> 00:30:07,674
What I love about you is
you don't have to try,
610
00:30:08,531 --> 00:30:11,364
your gayness just flows naturally.
611
00:30:13,709 --> 00:30:14,719
(laughs)
612
00:30:14,769 --> 00:30:18,439
Do you have any idea
what I would do to you
613
00:30:18,489 --> 00:30:19,549
if you were straight?
614
00:30:19,599 --> 00:30:21,827
(Dave grunts)
615
00:30:21,877 --> 00:30:23,761
(Alyssa laughs)
616
00:30:23,811 --> 00:30:27,610
(chuckles)
(sighs)
617
00:30:27,660 --> 00:30:30,633
- Your gayness flows naturally?
618
00:30:30,683 --> 00:30:32,766
(laughs)
619
00:30:33,980 --> 00:30:37,344
- Not funny man, they think that I'm gay!
620
00:30:37,394 --> 00:30:38,608
- [Gordon] All of them?
621
00:30:38,658 --> 00:30:40,512
- Apparently, something about
622
00:30:40,562 --> 00:30:42,673
not having to force my sexuality.
623
00:30:42,723 --> 00:30:43,506
(chuckles)
624
00:30:43,556 --> 00:30:46,709
- Look Dave, this is a good thing.
625
00:30:46,759 --> 00:30:49,187
They trust you now, you
gotta keep 'em trusting you.
626
00:30:49,237 --> 00:30:52,404
(cell phone vibrates)
627
00:30:55,337 --> 00:30:56,645
What?
628
00:30:56,695 --> 00:30:59,523
- They want me to go to some
place called The Closet.
629
00:30:59,573 --> 00:31:02,641
(Gordon laughs)
630
00:31:02,691 --> 00:31:04,514
It's a gay bar, Dave.
631
00:31:04,564 --> 00:31:06,522
A very classy place.
632
00:31:06,572 --> 00:31:07,572
Phenomenal.
633
00:31:09,794 --> 00:31:11,306
- Should I go?
634
00:31:11,356 --> 00:31:13,986
- Absolutely, the door is wide open, Dave.
635
00:31:14,036 --> 00:31:16,141
Get in there and strike.
636
00:31:16,191 --> 00:31:17,989
You be careful okay?
637
00:31:18,039 --> 00:31:20,824
Make sure you bottle up that
natural gayness of yours.
638
00:31:20,874 --> 00:31:22,751
(laughs)
639
00:31:22,801 --> 00:31:25,168
(tapping)
640
00:31:25,218 --> 00:31:27,801
(gentle music)
641
00:31:50,011 --> 00:31:51,928
- You look so handsome.
642
00:31:53,947 --> 00:31:55,280
Just like Frank.
643
00:31:59,100 --> 00:32:01,183
(snorts)
644
00:32:02,737 --> 00:32:03,737
- Perfect.
645
00:32:05,408 --> 00:32:08,480
- [Patty] First date since Samantha?
646
00:32:08,530 --> 00:32:10,030
- It's not a date.
647
00:32:11,111 --> 00:32:13,135
- Don't come back fore 10.
648
00:32:13,185 --> 00:32:16,685
You might see something you don't want to.
649
00:32:35,835 --> 00:32:38,335
- Yep, looks pretty gay to me.
650
00:32:40,312 --> 00:32:43,312
(crickets chirping)
651
00:32:45,139 --> 00:32:46,533
- Hey.
652
00:32:46,583 --> 00:32:48,096
- Hey.
653
00:32:48,146 --> 00:32:51,245
Wow, you really clean up nicely.
654
00:32:51,295 --> 00:32:52,558
- Thanks.
655
00:32:52,608 --> 00:32:55,025
You are... also wearing clothes.
656
00:32:57,030 --> 00:32:58,240
- Yeah, you like?
657
00:32:58,290 --> 00:33:00,922
- (laughs) That scarf though.
658
00:33:00,972 --> 00:33:01,972
- No.
- Uh.
659
00:33:04,223 --> 00:33:05,990
I'm glad you came out tonight.
660
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,529
- Yeah, uh, and thanks for inviting me.
661
00:33:08,579 --> 00:33:11,836
I haven't really been out since
662
00:33:11,886 --> 00:33:13,886
Sam... left me for a woman.
663
00:33:15,423 --> 00:33:16,552
- He did?
664
00:33:16,602 --> 00:33:17,602
Oh, Dave.
665
00:33:18,701 --> 00:33:19,951
- Yep, a woman.
666
00:33:20,893 --> 00:33:22,867
- Two timing man-whore.
667
00:33:22,917 --> 00:33:23,917
- Mm-hmm.
668
00:33:24,869 --> 00:33:28,462
I don't know, I guess
I took it pretty bad.
669
00:33:28,512 --> 00:33:29,846
(sighs)
670
00:33:29,896 --> 00:33:31,869
I feel like I must not
have been enough man
671
00:33:31,919 --> 00:33:35,919
to leave Sam the only
choice of switching sides.
672
00:33:37,572 --> 00:33:39,475
Most days are okay though,
673
00:33:39,525 --> 00:33:43,275
but then all it takes
is seeing an old photo,
674
00:33:44,735 --> 00:33:48,106
or I could be at a movie and reach over,
675
00:33:48,156 --> 00:33:50,489
but realize there's no hand.
676
00:33:53,593 --> 00:33:56,654
Ah I just wish I could hold your hand
677
00:33:56,704 --> 00:33:58,287
one more time, Sama...
678
00:34:00,277 --> 00:34:01,277
man.
679
00:34:03,071 --> 00:34:04,725
Sam-a-man, I used to call him Sam-a-man
680
00:34:04,775 --> 00:34:07,425
because he was so much man.
681
00:34:07,475 --> 00:34:09,556
(laughs)
682
00:34:09,606 --> 00:34:10,618
- [Bouncer] Good evening Alyssa.
683
00:34:10,668 --> 00:34:12,181
- Hi, Jason.
(upbeat music)
684
00:34:12,231 --> 00:34:14,148
- Here you go.
685
00:34:14,198 --> 00:34:16,781
(door squeaks)
686
00:34:21,042 --> 00:34:22,209
- Deep breath.
687
00:34:26,033 --> 00:34:28,783
(door squeaking)
688
00:34:38,357 --> 00:34:39,502
(gasps)
689
00:34:39,552 --> 00:34:40,552
- Ready?
690
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:43,925
- Um.
691
00:34:43,975 --> 00:34:44,975
- Come on.
692
00:34:46,218 --> 00:34:48,773
(door creaking)
♪ ♪
693
00:34:48,823 --> 00:34:53,823
♪ ♪
(chattering)
694
00:34:58,261 --> 00:35:00,186
- I see what they did there.
695
00:35:00,236 --> 00:35:03,653
♪ ♪
696
00:35:04,511 --> 00:35:06,842
Not as gay as I expected.
697
00:35:06,892 --> 00:35:08,142
- Give it time.
698
00:35:09,140 --> 00:35:13,360
- [Dave] How does a straight
woman fit into a gay bar?
699
00:35:13,410 --> 00:35:14,456
They don't mind?
700
00:35:14,506 --> 00:35:16,262
- No, they don't mind as long
701
00:35:16,312 --> 00:35:19,012
as I follow the straight girl rules.
702
00:35:19,062 --> 00:35:21,395
My vagina has no power here.
703
00:35:22,234 --> 00:35:24,286
I mean the straight girls are
used to getting free drinks
704
00:35:24,336 --> 00:35:25,876
and being the center of attention at bars.
705
00:35:25,926 --> 00:35:28,314
That doesn't happen here.
706
00:35:28,364 --> 00:35:29,802
- (clears throat) Makes sense.
707
00:35:29,852 --> 00:35:31,670
- Straight guys can be here too.
708
00:35:31,720 --> 00:35:32,950
They just need to need to know
709
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:34,555
that around midnight that's when the party
710
00:35:34,605 --> 00:35:36,522
can get a little crazy.
711
00:35:38,361 --> 00:35:40,611
- How crazy are we talking?
712
00:35:41,927 --> 00:35:43,010
- You'll see.
713
00:35:44,378 --> 00:35:46,705
- [Richard] What does that do to a person?
714
00:35:46,755 --> 00:35:49,050
- I've just never been
hurt that way, you know?
715
00:35:49,100 --> 00:35:52,873
I saw things no one should ever see.
716
00:35:52,923 --> 00:35:53,967
Disturbing stuff.
717
00:35:54,017 --> 00:35:56,354
I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.
718
00:35:56,404 --> 00:36:00,131
And then Frank, that old dirty bastard.
719
00:36:00,181 --> 00:36:02,029
He was downstairs laughing.
720
00:36:02,079 --> 00:36:02,935
Yeah.
721
00:36:02,985 --> 00:36:05,149
I'll never look at my Aunt
Patty the same way again.
722
00:36:05,199 --> 00:36:06,499
- She sounds amazing.
723
00:36:06,549 --> 00:36:09,244
- No, she is a dirty old witch
724
00:36:09,294 --> 00:36:12,121
is what she is. (Sighs)
725
00:36:12,171 --> 00:36:14,030
I didn't want to move in with her.
726
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,130
I had no choice, I lost everything.
727
00:36:16,180 --> 00:36:17,802
- Well, you can always
move with me, I mean.
728
00:36:17,852 --> 00:36:19,410
Mi casa, su casa.
729
00:36:19,460 --> 00:36:21,043
- Ooh, almost time.
730
00:36:22,540 --> 00:36:23,929
- I should probably get going.
731
00:36:23,979 --> 00:36:24,965
- No, no, no, stay for just a minute.
732
00:36:25,015 --> 00:36:27,865
- [All] And three, two, one.
733
00:36:27,915 --> 00:36:30,764
(chattering)
734
00:36:30,814 --> 00:36:32,961
(upbeat music)
735
00:36:33,011 --> 00:36:35,678
- Oh, are we going to wash cars.
736
00:36:38,204 --> 00:36:40,371
- Yeah.
- I love this song.
737
00:36:41,406 --> 00:36:42,497
♪ Let's go ♪
738
00:36:42,547 --> 00:36:46,239
♪ We them rebels everybody
wanna talk about ♪
739
00:36:46,289 --> 00:36:49,973
♪ We stay up all night and
cause a riot scream and shout ♪
740
00:36:50,023 --> 00:36:53,741
♪ Get on the floor, on the
floor, if you really 'bout it ♪
741
00:36:53,791 --> 00:36:57,330
♪ Don't take it slow, take it
slow, everybody's shouting ♪
742
00:36:57,380 --> 00:37:01,176
♪ Jump up and down,
wave them hands around ♪
743
00:37:01,226 --> 00:37:04,927
♪ Jump up and down, make it super loud ♪
744
00:37:04,977 --> 00:37:08,715
♪ Jump up and down,
wave them hands around ♪
745
00:37:08,765 --> 00:37:12,523
♪ Jump up and down, make it super loud ♪
746
00:37:12,573 --> 00:37:14,453
♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪
747
00:37:14,503 --> 00:37:16,320
♪ Make it super loud ♪
748
00:37:16,370 --> 00:37:18,153
♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪
749
00:37:18,203 --> 00:37:20,183
♪ Make it super loud ♪
750
00:37:20,233 --> 00:37:22,057
♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪
751
00:37:22,107 --> 00:37:23,895
♪ Make it super loud ♪
752
00:37:23,945 --> 00:37:25,823
♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪
753
00:37:25,873 --> 00:37:29,956
♪ Make it super loud, loud, loud ♪
754
00:37:34,650 --> 00:37:35,650
- Dave?
755
00:37:36,913 --> 00:37:39,929
- I can't even get hit on by a gay dude.
756
00:37:39,979 --> 00:37:41,633
And I was just drunk.
757
00:37:41,683 --> 00:37:44,850
Drunk and dancing like really dancing.
758
00:37:46,566 --> 00:37:48,459
- [Gordon] Okay, I am putting the brakes
759
00:37:48,509 --> 00:37:51,069
on this thing right now.
760
00:37:51,119 --> 00:37:53,814
- What if we're wrong about them?
761
00:37:53,864 --> 00:37:55,447
- Wrong about them?
762
00:37:58,592 --> 00:38:00,666
Who am I talking to right now?
763
00:38:00,716 --> 00:38:02,049
Not Dave Hopper.
764
00:38:03,614 --> 00:38:07,239
Not the guy who's world was
ripped apart by their agenda.
765
00:38:07,289 --> 00:38:10,826
Not the guy who's wife was
seduced by another woman
766
00:38:10,876 --> 00:38:13,031
and ruined his practice.
767
00:38:13,081 --> 00:38:16,289
Totally destroyed his chance
of a normal, fulfilling life!
768
00:38:16,339 --> 00:38:18,339
(sighs)
769
00:38:19,209 --> 00:38:21,876
I wanna talk to that Dave, okay?
770
00:38:23,116 --> 00:38:24,904
'Cause I'm in his corner, buddy.
771
00:38:24,954 --> 00:38:26,624
I can give him another chance.
772
00:38:26,674 --> 00:38:29,507
When he shows up, you let me know.
773
00:38:30,490 --> 00:38:32,573
'Cause I'm ready to help.
774
00:38:33,679 --> 00:38:34,679
All right?
775
00:38:38,410 --> 00:38:40,424
- Just not sure we're
doing the right thing.
776
00:38:40,474 --> 00:38:42,891
- Sweet creeping Judas, Dave.
777
00:38:44,812 --> 00:38:47,419
Stop going to the group, stay sober,
778
00:38:47,469 --> 00:38:50,408
get a grip on your class and on yourself.
779
00:38:50,458 --> 00:38:51,458
Okay?
780
00:38:52,718 --> 00:38:53,718
Okay.
781
00:38:57,294 --> 00:38:58,686
(Gordon humming)
782
00:38:58,736 --> 00:39:01,569
(energetic music)
783
00:39:09,594 --> 00:39:11,606
- You ready for this?
784
00:39:11,656 --> 00:39:12,879
- The 5K?
785
00:39:12,929 --> 00:39:14,663
- No, the shelter.
(crowd chattering)
786
00:39:14,713 --> 00:39:15,939
Huge job.
787
00:39:15,989 --> 00:39:20,058
You know, operations, reports, finances.
788
00:39:20,108 --> 00:39:20,922
One thing to own a property,
789
00:39:20,972 --> 00:39:23,453
another thing to keep
it running long term.
790
00:39:23,503 --> 00:39:24,914
- You know? You're right.
791
00:39:24,964 --> 00:39:25,964
- I am?
792
00:39:27,663 --> 00:39:29,713
- Yeah, we don't really
have that experience.
793
00:39:29,763 --> 00:39:33,346
- Well, better to be
honest about that now.
794
00:39:34,205 --> 00:39:36,038
Maybe we should just...
795
00:39:37,142 --> 00:39:38,951
- Field trip.
796
00:39:39,001 --> 00:39:39,903
- A what?
797
00:39:39,953 --> 00:39:41,372
- Field trip.
798
00:39:41,422 --> 00:39:43,811
Mark volunteers at the shelter in Orlando.
799
00:39:43,861 --> 00:39:46,134
He could take us all
there, show us around,
800
00:39:46,184 --> 00:39:47,559
show us how it's done.
801
00:39:47,609 --> 00:39:48,656
Give us a tour.
802
00:39:48,706 --> 00:39:50,788
Great idea Dave!
803
00:39:50,838 --> 00:39:51,838
Bloop.
804
00:39:53,107 --> 00:39:54,690
You betta' stretch.
805
00:39:56,157 --> 00:39:57,868
Good morning, everyone.
806
00:39:57,918 --> 00:39:59,800
(upbeat music)
(crowd cheering)
807
00:39:59,850 --> 00:40:01,209
Oh, you look amazing.
808
00:40:01,259 --> 00:40:02,528
Are you ready to do this?
809
00:40:02,578 --> 00:40:03,517
- [Crowd] Yeah!
810
00:40:03,567 --> 00:40:04,576
- All right, let's count down.
811
00:40:04,626 --> 00:40:06,496
All together, here we go, ready.
812
00:40:06,546 --> 00:40:08,237
- [All] Three,
813
00:40:08,287 --> 00:40:09,287
two,
814
00:40:09,999 --> 00:40:11,442
one.
815
00:40:11,492 --> 00:40:16,492
(air horn honking)
(vocalizing)
816
00:40:24,898 --> 00:40:25,681
♪ Come on, come on ♪
817
00:40:25,731 --> 00:40:29,091
♪ Strut up to the scene
like it's a party ♪
818
00:40:29,141 --> 00:40:32,074
♪ Let's all move together to the sound ♪
819
00:40:32,124 --> 00:40:35,971
♪ Oh a heated fever
rising in my head space ♪
820
00:40:36,021 --> 00:40:40,040
♪ Up so high I'm never coming down ♪
821
00:40:40,090 --> 00:40:41,846
♪ Never coming down never ♪
822
00:40:41,896 --> 00:40:43,106
- [Woman] Oh, sorry.
823
00:40:43,156 --> 00:40:45,329
(laughing)
824
00:40:45,379 --> 00:40:46,743
- [Teen] Hey, I love your shirt.
825
00:40:46,793 --> 00:40:47,576
- Oh thanks.
- I actually have one
826
00:40:47,626 --> 00:40:48,640
just like it.
- You do?
827
00:40:48,690 --> 00:40:49,806
- Yeah.
- Yeah, it's pretty nice.
828
00:40:49,856 --> 00:40:50,977
(chattering)
829
00:40:51,027 --> 00:40:52,610
- [Teen] Yeah, I do.
830
00:40:55,409 --> 00:40:56,992
- [Woman] Woo, woo.
831
00:40:59,353 --> 00:41:02,270
Woo.
(upbeat music)
832
00:41:11,272 --> 00:41:12,785
- Really?
833
00:41:12,835 --> 00:41:13,918
A church van?
834
00:41:14,881 --> 00:41:17,948
Am I the only one afraid
we're gonna burst into flames?
835
00:41:17,998 --> 00:41:20,748
- Hey, if Jesus can handle
all the sexual purity
836
00:41:20,798 --> 00:41:23,316
that's happened back there on youth trips,
837
00:41:23,366 --> 00:41:25,070
he can handle a couple of flamers.
838
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:26,120
- Ooh, ooh.
839
00:41:37,022 --> 00:41:41,484
♪ Ah, ah, ah, ah, gayin'
alive, gayin' alive ♪
840
00:41:41,534 --> 00:41:45,451
♪ Ah, ah, ah, ah, gayin' alive ♪
841
00:41:48,254 --> 00:41:49,254
(laughing)
842
00:41:49,300 --> 00:41:51,929
♪ Gayin' alive, gayin' alive ♪
843
00:41:51,979 --> 00:41:52,762
- [Mark] That's good.
844
00:41:52,812 --> 00:41:54,136
- Thank you.
- Hey.
845
00:41:54,186 --> 00:41:55,979
What's he doing?
846
00:41:56,029 --> 00:41:57,856
- It's a game that Kyle plays.
847
00:41:57,906 --> 00:41:59,818
You take a song and
replace one of the words
848
00:41:59,868 --> 00:42:00,927
with the word gay.
849
00:42:00,977 --> 00:42:03,192
- Yeah, but it has to make sense.
850
00:42:03,242 --> 00:42:05,160
- Right, so Bruce, can you give us one?
851
00:42:05,210 --> 00:42:07,293
- Uh, yeah, let me think.
852
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:12,358
♪ Gay you, gay me ♪
853
00:42:12,408 --> 00:42:14,141
♪ Gay for everyone ♪
854
00:42:14,191 --> 00:42:16,335
♪ That's the way it should be. ♪
855
00:42:16,385 --> 00:42:18,210
- Good job, Bruce.
- So good.
856
00:42:18,260 --> 00:42:19,985
Oh okay, me.
857
00:42:20,035 --> 00:42:23,285
♪ No gay, but to-gay ♪
858
00:42:24,293 --> 00:42:25,442
- Oh my god.
859
00:42:25,492 --> 00:42:27,990
♪ It's a beautiful gay ♪
860
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:30,918
♪ Don't let it get away ♪
861
00:42:30,968 --> 00:42:32,466
- Okay, okay, I got one guys
862
00:42:32,516 --> 00:42:36,328
♪ Hey I just met you and this is crazy ♪
863
00:42:36,378 --> 00:42:40,348
♪ So here's my number,
so call me gay-by. ♪
864
00:42:40,398 --> 00:42:41,650
- No, nope.
865
00:42:41,700 --> 00:42:42,723
- Hmm-uh, uh mm.
866
00:42:42,773 --> 00:42:43,989
- That was painful.
867
00:42:44,039 --> 00:42:45,109
- [Kyle] Nope.
868
00:42:45,159 --> 00:42:46,451
- Well I give up.
- It does not work.
869
00:42:46,501 --> 00:42:47,389
- [Mark] I'm sorry.
870
00:42:47,439 --> 00:42:49,057
- [Kyle] I appreciate the effort.
871
00:42:49,107 --> 00:42:50,690
- You got anything?
872
00:42:51,947 --> 00:42:52,947
You go.
873
00:42:53,767 --> 00:42:55,106
- Uh, mm.
874
00:42:55,156 --> 00:42:56,418
- Oh c'mon, this is a safe space.
875
00:42:56,468 --> 00:42:59,102
- Yeah, it's a no judgment zone.
876
00:42:59,152 --> 00:42:59,935
- You don't wanna hear me it,
877
00:42:59,985 --> 00:43:01,625
you don't wanna hear me sing.
(chattering)
878
00:43:01,670 --> 00:43:02,670
- Please.
879
00:43:04,309 --> 00:43:06,642
- Ah okay, you asked for it.
880
00:43:07,856 --> 00:43:10,611
♪ This is the gay, this is the gay ♪
881
00:43:10,661 --> 00:43:14,936
♪ That the Lord has
made, that the Lord has ♪
882
00:43:14,986 --> 00:43:17,653
C'mon, I only know church songs.
883
00:43:20,773 --> 00:43:22,280
- Now we're gonna burst into flames.
884
00:43:22,330 --> 00:43:23,618
- Yeah, a little bit.
(Alyssa laughing)
885
00:43:23,668 --> 00:43:26,251
(gentle music)
886
00:43:29,130 --> 00:43:31,547
(chattering)
887
00:43:33,783 --> 00:43:35,304
- This is the zebra house,
888
00:43:35,354 --> 00:43:38,338
where "sexually unacceptable" teens go
889
00:43:38,388 --> 00:43:42,377
when their parents or God kicks them out.
890
00:43:42,427 --> 00:43:44,442
- I'm intersex, it means
891
00:43:44,492 --> 00:43:47,213
I'm not biologically male or female.
892
00:43:47,263 --> 00:43:50,136
My insides are kind of a mix up.
893
00:43:50,186 --> 00:43:52,952
But I was raised in the Christian church
894
00:43:53,002 --> 00:43:55,192
and I get to hear all these sermons
895
00:43:55,242 --> 00:43:56,909
about man and woman.
896
00:43:59,883 --> 00:44:02,986
When I'm not strictly either.
897
00:44:03,036 --> 00:44:04,505
- I identify as gender-fluid,
898
00:44:04,555 --> 00:44:07,715
which means that I believe
that I am both male and female.
899
00:44:07,765 --> 00:44:10,285
- I didn't fit into the exact binary
900
00:44:10,335 --> 00:44:11,733
that people thought I should.
901
00:44:11,783 --> 00:44:14,471
That my mom thought I fit into.
902
00:44:14,521 --> 00:44:17,021
That physically I should have.
903
00:44:18,209 --> 00:44:20,668
- The first time that I thought
something was different,
904
00:44:20,718 --> 00:44:22,330
I was probably about nine.
905
00:44:22,380 --> 00:44:24,910
I was in Catholic school
since I was five years old.
906
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:28,759
Actually got kicked out
for coming out as gay
907
00:44:28,809 --> 00:44:30,287
at that point in my life.
908
00:44:30,337 --> 00:44:32,471
- When I was 11, I used
to fight with my mom
909
00:44:32,521 --> 00:44:34,167
about wanting to wear my brother's clothes
910
00:44:34,217 --> 00:44:35,321
'cause I had four brothers.
911
00:44:35,371 --> 00:44:37,401
I have seven siblings.
912
00:44:37,451 --> 00:44:39,389
I knew back then that something about me
913
00:44:39,439 --> 00:44:41,344
was way more masculine than just feminine.
914
00:44:41,394 --> 00:44:43,143
- People ask me, they're
like oh, so you're gay
915
00:44:43,193 --> 00:44:45,778
and I'm like no, not gay.
916
00:44:45,828 --> 00:44:48,175
It's always one of the
first questions I get
917
00:44:48,225 --> 00:44:52,591
or the normal question of "What
do you have in your pants?"
918
00:44:52,641 --> 00:44:55,253
I just kind of roll my
eyes and I answer people.
919
00:44:55,303 --> 00:44:56,950
I'm like what does it matter though?
920
00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:01,721
- My family aren't as
loving as they say they are.
921
00:45:01,771 --> 00:45:05,809
Even though they say that
they do not judge others
922
00:45:05,859 --> 00:45:09,281
and they love thy neighbor,
that might be true,
923
00:45:09,331 --> 00:45:11,994
but just not when it's
in the family, you know?
924
00:45:12,044 --> 00:45:15,627
- I used to cry out to
God and ask him why,
925
00:45:17,135 --> 00:45:19,437
why did, if he formed me in the womb,
926
00:45:19,487 --> 00:45:23,058
why did he choose to form me in this way.
927
00:45:23,108 --> 00:45:25,019
- My mother has allowed
me back into her house,
928
00:45:25,069 --> 00:45:27,574
but she's like I don't
care if you like girls,
929
00:45:27,624 --> 00:45:30,038
just don't be someone who's transgender.
930
00:45:30,088 --> 00:45:32,280
Just don't mess with
your gender, you know.
931
00:45:32,330 --> 00:45:34,007
That's how God made you.
932
00:45:34,057 --> 00:45:37,268
You've already proven
that something's wrong
933
00:45:37,318 --> 00:45:39,766
by liking the same sex.
934
00:45:39,816 --> 00:45:42,527
- This person that I am, Christina
935
00:45:42,577 --> 00:45:44,868
isn't this body, it's me, it's a voice
936
00:45:44,918 --> 00:45:48,507
that I hope can speak to this world.
937
00:45:48,557 --> 00:45:50,128
- I love my mother, though.
938
00:45:50,178 --> 00:45:52,903
She is a wonderful woman.
939
00:45:52,953 --> 00:45:53,957
I think the world of her
940
00:45:54,007 --> 00:45:56,045
and I'll always love my mommy.
941
00:45:56,095 --> 00:45:58,078
Even if she doesn't want me
to call her mommy one day.
942
00:45:58,128 --> 00:46:00,731
(solemn music)
943
00:46:00,781 --> 00:46:03,287
Just have a hard time having to sit around
944
00:46:03,337 --> 00:46:05,371
with my family as they're all happy
945
00:46:05,421 --> 00:46:07,091
with one another and knowing that
946
00:46:07,141 --> 00:46:08,809
they don't feel that way about me.
947
00:46:08,859 --> 00:46:11,558
Not knowing what they say
about me when I'm not around.
948
00:46:11,608 --> 00:46:13,494
What does my mom tell her
friends and her family
949
00:46:13,544 --> 00:46:14,462
that I'm doing?
950
00:46:14,512 --> 00:46:17,387
I learned that she doesn't even
tell 'em that I'm homeless.
951
00:46:17,437 --> 00:46:19,589
I wonder what my mom
tells all her friends.
952
00:46:19,639 --> 00:46:23,839
I wonder what's her
idea of a perfect child.
953
00:46:23,889 --> 00:46:27,377
And I wish that I was good
enough to be that child
954
00:46:27,427 --> 00:46:30,094
worth just telling people about.
955
00:46:31,041 --> 00:46:35,124
- I just come to hang out
on nights and weekends.
956
00:46:37,446 --> 00:46:39,742
This is, this is the only place
957
00:46:39,792 --> 00:46:43,375
where I feel like I
have a voice, you know?
958
00:46:44,660 --> 00:46:46,577
Like I actually matter.
959
00:46:55,682 --> 00:46:56,682
I'm sorry.
960
00:47:06,485 --> 00:47:07,568
- Nate, Nate.
961
00:47:09,157 --> 00:47:10,954
- What are you doing here?
962
00:47:11,004 --> 00:47:13,232
Were you following me?
963
00:47:13,282 --> 00:47:14,282
- No.
964
00:47:15,116 --> 00:47:17,954
- So you're here with them.
965
00:47:18,004 --> 00:47:20,430
How's that gonna look
to the administration?
966
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:23,980
- Look, you can't tell anybody I was here.
967
00:47:24,833 --> 00:47:26,673
- Is that really what
you came out here to say?
968
00:47:26,711 --> 00:47:29,015
Why am I gonna tell them, huh?
969
00:47:29,065 --> 00:47:31,460
Oh hey, Dr. Woodman, I was
at my afternoon gay house
970
00:47:31,510 --> 00:47:33,672
when your puppet came visiting.
971
00:47:33,722 --> 00:47:35,935
Oh why were you at that gay house, Nate?
972
00:47:35,985 --> 00:47:37,318
Because I'm gay.
973
00:47:38,972 --> 00:47:40,472
Yeah, I'd be done.
974
00:47:41,693 --> 00:47:42,591
- We could help you.
975
00:47:42,641 --> 00:47:44,852
- Help, seriously?
976
00:47:44,902 --> 00:47:46,892
I've heard a month of your help.
977
00:47:46,942 --> 00:47:48,530
No thank you.
978
00:47:48,580 --> 00:47:49,970
And you know what, don't worry.
979
00:47:50,020 --> 00:47:52,637
I'm not gonna tell anyone
your little secret.
980
00:47:52,687 --> 00:47:53,627
Can't have anyone knowing
981
00:47:53,677 --> 00:47:57,139
you've been spending time
with the unforgivable.
982
00:47:57,189 --> 00:47:58,189
- Nate.
983
00:47:58,956 --> 00:47:59,956
Nate!
984
00:48:03,999 --> 00:48:05,166
I had no idea.
985
00:48:06,785 --> 00:48:08,535
- Why would you, huh?
986
00:48:09,485 --> 00:48:13,985
All you do is answer the
questions, you never ask any.
987
00:48:15,424 --> 00:48:18,291
- I don't have any answers right now.
988
00:48:18,341 --> 00:48:19,508
But I think...
989
00:48:22,021 --> 00:48:25,100
You know what, I don't
know what to think either.
990
00:48:25,150 --> 00:48:26,400
But this place,
991
00:48:28,299 --> 00:48:31,799
it's good and I feel like you should stay.
992
00:48:33,928 --> 00:48:37,011
- [Phone] Call from Hot Sweet Muffin.
993
00:48:38,101 --> 00:48:39,301
- That's rather inappropriate.
994
00:48:39,334 --> 00:48:40,117
- [Phone] Call from
995
00:48:40,167 --> 00:48:40,950
Hot Sweet Muffin.
And gross.
996
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:43,417
It's coming from your pocket.
997
00:48:44,893 --> 00:48:48,525
- [Phone] Call from Hot Sweet Muffin.
998
00:48:48,575 --> 00:48:49,825
- It's my aunt.
999
00:48:50,665 --> 00:48:51,801
Hello?
1000
00:48:51,851 --> 00:48:56,851
(gentle music)
(rain pattering)
1001
00:49:00,162 --> 00:49:03,534
Patty, I told you, you
need to take it easy.
1002
00:49:03,584 --> 00:49:05,039
- You know a hug would go a lot further
1003
00:49:05,089 --> 00:49:06,237
than words right now.
1004
00:49:06,287 --> 00:49:09,776
- You don't understand,
she's just always...
1005
00:49:09,826 --> 00:49:10,908
You know what, nevermind.
1006
00:49:10,958 --> 00:49:13,828
- This girl doesn't know how to have fun.
1007
00:49:13,878 --> 00:49:16,557
Every time she thinks it's an emergency.
1008
00:49:16,607 --> 00:49:21,107
- Well look, Patty, take it
easy, get some rest, okay?
1009
00:49:22,626 --> 00:49:23,626
- Thank you.
1010
00:49:28,016 --> 00:49:29,639
The paramedic said you passed out!
1011
00:49:29,689 --> 00:49:30,602
You all right?
1012
00:49:30,652 --> 00:49:34,017
- Tell me something great you did today.
1013
00:49:34,067 --> 00:49:36,581
- Today has not been great.
1014
00:49:36,631 --> 00:49:39,964
- Bull shit, tell me then a small great.
1015
00:49:41,586 --> 00:49:42,499
- Learned a new game.
1016
00:49:42,549 --> 00:49:43,749
(Patty coughs)
1017
00:49:43,799 --> 00:49:46,463
- Ah good, will you teach it to me?
1018
00:49:46,513 --> 00:49:47,946
- No.
(coughs)
1019
00:49:47,996 --> 00:49:49,579
- Oh it sounds bad.
1020
00:49:51,406 --> 00:49:54,823
What were you doing when you got the call?
1021
00:49:54,873 --> 00:49:58,912
- I was unraveling a
bandage and pouring salt
1022
00:49:58,962 --> 00:50:01,379
into student's deepest wound.
1023
00:50:03,802 --> 00:50:07,134
- Have you seen my silk flowers?
1024
00:50:07,184 --> 00:50:09,040
- You can't miss 'em.
1025
00:50:09,090 --> 00:50:12,494
I had Frank plant them years ago.
1026
00:50:12,544 --> 00:50:13,381
(coughs)
1027
00:50:13,431 --> 00:50:15,036
- For the emphysema?
1028
00:50:15,086 --> 00:50:16,705
- Just wanted my flower beds
1029
00:50:16,755 --> 00:50:19,252
to look beautiful all year long,
1030
00:50:19,302 --> 00:50:21,712
no matter the season.
1031
00:50:21,762 --> 00:50:24,091
- Except they look fake.
1032
00:50:24,141 --> 00:50:26,912
- Most people go their whole lives,
1033
00:50:26,962 --> 00:50:29,110
thinking they can be silk flowers.
1034
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:30,581
(gentle music)
1035
00:50:30,631 --> 00:50:33,131
They love the beauty of summer
1036
00:50:35,191 --> 00:50:39,691
without the growth of spring,
and the death of winter,
1037
00:50:41,088 --> 00:50:42,921
or the doubts of fall.
1038
00:50:50,606 --> 00:50:51,983
- My favorite part is the line
1039
00:50:52,033 --> 00:50:54,081
where the black and white meet.
1040
00:50:54,131 --> 00:50:58,482
It's clear, it's obvious,
there's no gray and no doubt.
1041
00:50:58,532 --> 00:51:01,377
- I'm not so sure
doubt's such a bad thing.
1042
00:51:01,427 --> 00:51:03,281
I'm late for class.
1043
00:51:03,331 --> 00:51:04,936
- So why don't I join you.
1044
00:51:04,986 --> 00:51:07,595
(students chattering)
1045
00:51:07,645 --> 00:51:09,144
Good morning, everyone.
1046
00:51:09,194 --> 00:51:11,323
Carry on. (Chuckles)
1047
00:51:11,373 --> 00:51:12,373
Hi.
1048
00:51:13,867 --> 00:51:15,148
- Morning, everyone.
1049
00:51:15,198 --> 00:51:16,948
- [Students] Morning.
1050
00:51:18,398 --> 00:51:22,065
- Let's continue with
Behavioral Psychology.
1051
00:51:23,942 --> 00:51:26,609
- What about the question today?
1052
00:51:28,825 --> 00:51:30,325
- Right, question.
1053
00:51:32,515 --> 00:51:33,298
Who's got a...
1054
00:51:33,348 --> 00:51:36,703
- How is the gay thing
different from slavery?
1055
00:51:36,753 --> 00:51:38,670
Or oppression of women?
1056
00:51:40,119 --> 00:51:41,217
- I'm sorry?
1057
00:51:41,267 --> 00:51:44,708
- The Bible has been used to
support both of those things.
1058
00:51:44,758 --> 00:51:46,937
Before the Civil War,
slavery was supported
1059
00:51:46,987 --> 00:51:48,993
by white pastors saying that slaves
1060
00:51:49,043 --> 00:51:51,545
should respect their masters.
1061
00:51:51,595 --> 00:51:53,133
And men have always used the new testament
1062
00:51:53,183 --> 00:51:56,527
to keep women silent in the church.
1063
00:51:56,577 --> 00:51:59,149
How do we know that
homosexuality is different
1064
00:51:59,199 --> 00:52:02,268
than these things the church
used to support with Scripture?
1065
00:52:02,318 --> 00:52:04,529
- Nate, these are complicated issues.
1066
00:52:04,579 --> 00:52:06,491
- Now, pardon me.
1067
00:52:06,541 --> 00:52:07,874
Um, Nate, is it?
1068
00:52:09,528 --> 00:52:10,550
- Yeah.
1069
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:13,896
- Nate, you are absolutely right.
1070
00:52:13,946 --> 00:52:16,235
The Bible has been misused time and again
1071
00:52:16,285 --> 00:52:18,154
to justify racism, slavery,
1072
00:52:18,204 --> 00:52:20,773
and the oppression of women,
even calling it God's work
1073
00:52:20,823 --> 00:52:23,651
and that is shameful, absolutely shameful.
1074
00:52:23,701 --> 00:52:24,821
All right?
1075
00:52:24,871 --> 00:52:29,052
But as you start to
closely study scripture,
1076
00:52:29,102 --> 00:52:33,371
you're gonna find that there
has always been this tension,
1077
00:52:33,421 --> 00:52:36,605
this opposing narrative that
actually calls for women
1078
00:52:36,655 --> 00:52:38,728
to be in leadership and denounces slavery
1079
00:52:38,778 --> 00:52:41,282
as contrary to God's will.
1080
00:52:41,332 --> 00:52:42,702
Dig in there, read it closely,
1081
00:52:42,752 --> 00:52:45,440
you are gonna find it, I promise you.
1082
00:52:45,490 --> 00:52:48,338
However, even though some
people try to bend scripture
1083
00:52:48,388 --> 00:52:49,679
to fit their own personal beliefs,
1084
00:52:49,729 --> 00:52:52,787
there is no narrative anywhere
1085
00:52:52,837 --> 00:52:55,154
in the Bible that affirms homosexuality
1086
00:52:55,204 --> 00:52:58,316
or calls it anything other than a sin.
1087
00:52:58,366 --> 00:53:02,276
- But love is the ultimate
message of the Scriptures, right?
1088
00:53:02,326 --> 00:53:03,826
- [Gordon] Uh-huh.
1089
00:53:04,888 --> 00:53:07,438
- If we love, then aren't we kinda stuck
1090
00:53:07,488 --> 00:53:09,655
affirming our gay friends?
1091
00:53:10,871 --> 00:53:13,666
- Okay. (Clears throat)
1092
00:53:13,716 --> 00:53:18,337
Nate, we have certainly
made plenty of mistakes,
1093
00:53:18,387 --> 00:53:21,291
and gays who think they're Christians
1094
00:53:21,341 --> 00:53:23,004
have suffered at the hands of the Church.
1095
00:53:23,054 --> 00:53:26,052
Which many times has failed
1096
00:53:26,102 --> 00:53:27,185
to treat them
1097
00:53:28,331 --> 00:53:29,664
with compassion,
1098
00:53:32,629 --> 00:53:35,374
but we all know that God's
ways are best, right?
1099
00:53:35,424 --> 00:53:37,710
We agree on that, we believe it.
1100
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:40,010
And the greatest expression
1101
00:53:40,875 --> 00:53:41,958
of God's love
1102
00:53:44,243 --> 00:53:46,076
is to speak his truth.
1103
00:53:48,671 --> 00:53:49,671
Case closed.
1104
00:53:51,121 --> 00:53:52,704
Have a blessed day.
1105
00:53:59,954 --> 00:54:01,536
- Okay.
1106
00:54:01,586 --> 00:54:04,669
So what's important to remember here.
1107
00:54:06,127 --> 00:54:07,877
Nate, what are you...
1108
00:54:08,872 --> 00:54:09,872
Nate.
1109
00:54:22,525 --> 00:54:25,108
(door rattles)
1110
00:54:30,647 --> 00:54:32,135
(chattering)
1111
00:54:32,185 --> 00:54:34,050
- Hey guys, Rosa and I wanna invite you
1112
00:54:34,100 --> 00:54:35,907
to Chloe's birthday party on Saturday.
1113
00:54:35,957 --> 00:54:37,846
It's over on that new place at Clompton,
1114
00:54:37,896 --> 00:54:40,840
with the weird inflatable things.
1115
00:54:40,890 --> 00:54:43,189
- Hey, are you sure you
want a bunch of old folks
1116
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:45,475
attending her 10th birthday party?
1117
00:54:45,525 --> 00:54:47,253
- Her friends will be there, too,
1118
00:54:47,303 --> 00:54:48,712
but when we asked who she wanted,
1119
00:54:48,762 --> 00:54:51,662
she said her 2nd family
and that would be you guys.
1120
00:54:51,712 --> 00:54:53,051
- Please say you'll come.
1121
00:54:53,101 --> 00:54:54,705
- Of course, we'd be honored.
1122
00:54:54,755 --> 00:54:55,755
Thank you.
1123
00:54:56,740 --> 00:54:58,573
Okay, now to business.
1124
00:54:59,892 --> 00:55:00,804
We are not even close.
1125
00:55:00,854 --> 00:55:03,187
We need 32,000 in two weeks.
1126
00:55:04,222 --> 00:55:06,234
So time to brainstorm.
1127
00:55:06,284 --> 00:55:08,357
Give me what you got,
there are no bad ideas.
1128
00:55:08,407 --> 00:55:09,608
- Hey, listen to this.
1129
00:55:09,658 --> 00:55:11,382
We find the biggest church in town,
1130
00:55:11,432 --> 00:55:14,330
we have a huge bake sale
in front of their doors,
1131
00:55:14,380 --> 00:55:17,220
we all wear T-shirts
that say "Youth Group."
1132
00:55:17,270 --> 00:55:19,148
All right, I mean who's gonna know?
1133
00:55:19,198 --> 00:55:19,981
(group laughs)
1134
00:55:20,031 --> 00:55:21,191
- I was wrong.
1135
00:55:21,241 --> 00:55:22,098
No.
1136
00:55:22,148 --> 00:55:23,953
- What about a town hall meeting?
1137
00:55:24,003 --> 00:55:27,253
You know a chance to tell
people why we need this,
1138
00:55:27,303 --> 00:55:28,834
how it's gonna help.
1139
00:55:28,884 --> 00:55:30,597
We could set up a open mic,
1140
00:55:30,647 --> 00:55:33,044
give people the opportunity
to voice their opinion.
1141
00:55:33,094 --> 00:55:36,362
- So they can tell us
they hate us to our faces.
1142
00:55:36,412 --> 00:55:38,253
- I don't know about that.
1143
00:55:38,303 --> 00:55:39,638
- Oh I don't know, I
think we have more support
1144
00:55:39,688 --> 00:55:41,004
than you think.
1145
00:55:41,054 --> 00:55:43,179
- Yeah, we're running out of options here.
1146
00:55:43,229 --> 00:55:44,231
This could work.
1147
00:55:44,281 --> 00:55:46,876
We can do a silent
auction at the same time.
1148
00:55:46,926 --> 00:55:48,803
- Yeah, I mean if we're
going to hear hater's hate,
1149
00:55:48,853 --> 00:55:51,503
we might as well take their money too.
1150
00:55:51,553 --> 00:55:53,655
- Are you sure you can handle that?
1151
00:55:53,705 --> 00:55:55,774
- I don't think we have a choice.
1152
00:55:55,824 --> 00:55:58,491
(Patty snoring)
1153
00:56:16,461 --> 00:56:18,049
(moans)
1154
00:56:18,099 --> 00:56:19,099
- Hey.
1155
00:56:21,462 --> 00:56:24,335
- When's the last time
you've been out of the house?
1156
00:56:24,385 --> 00:56:27,305
♪ Easily the most
emotional of all emotions ♪
1157
00:56:27,355 --> 00:56:30,220
♪ Obsession manifested but
disguised as devotion ♪
1158
00:56:30,270 --> 00:56:32,540
♪ Well I guess it's just too soon ♪
1159
00:56:32,590 --> 00:56:36,566
♪ To say we're never gonna make it ♪
1160
00:56:36,616 --> 00:56:39,004
♪ 'Cause I been around the world ♪
1161
00:56:39,054 --> 00:56:42,554
♪ And yeah, it's oh so full of hatred ♪
1162
00:56:42,604 --> 00:56:45,633
♪ But there's love ♪
1163
00:56:45,683 --> 00:56:49,321
♪ We already know that it's all we need ♪
1164
00:56:49,371 --> 00:56:52,193
♪ There's love ♪
1165
00:56:52,243 --> 00:56:54,928
♪ And I don't wanna know where we'd be ♪
1166
00:56:54,978 --> 00:56:56,648
♪ No without love ♪
1167
00:56:56,698 --> 00:57:01,698
(Patty moaning)
(crickets chirping)
1168
00:57:02,878 --> 00:57:03,878
- Oh yes.
1169
00:57:05,593 --> 00:57:06,593
Yes!
1170
00:57:07,522 --> 00:57:08,584
(Patty moans)
1171
00:57:08,634 --> 00:57:09,967
This is so good.
1172
00:57:13,526 --> 00:57:15,211
- Let's go, c'mon.
- Oh.
1173
00:57:15,261 --> 00:57:19,761
(Patty moaning)
Yeah, come with mommy.
1174
00:57:20,865 --> 00:57:22,626
- This was perfect.
1175
00:57:22,676 --> 00:57:23,676
Thank you.
1176
00:57:25,305 --> 00:57:27,138
- Yeah, you want more?
1177
00:57:28,510 --> 00:57:30,240
- No, I can't have any more.
1178
00:57:30,290 --> 00:57:33,290
But I have to go to the ladies room.
1179
00:57:37,723 --> 00:57:38,506
- [Dave] You got it?
1180
00:57:38,556 --> 00:57:39,973
- [Patty] Mm-hmm.
1181
00:57:41,018 --> 00:57:42,518
- That's bullshit.
1182
00:57:43,674 --> 00:57:45,815
Are you kidding me?
1183
00:57:45,865 --> 00:57:48,615
And they're just telling you now?
1184
00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:52,103
No, it's just, it's just wrong.
1185
00:57:53,391 --> 00:57:54,398
(sighs)
1186
00:57:54,448 --> 00:57:56,706
Well, we are gonna work it out.
1187
00:57:56,756 --> 00:57:59,716
And we're gonna find
something even better.
1188
00:57:59,766 --> 00:58:02,552
Of course, love you, too.
1189
00:58:02,602 --> 00:58:03,602
Bye.
1190
00:58:04,755 --> 00:58:06,456
- Didn't sound good.
1191
00:58:06,506 --> 00:58:07,511
- Nope.
1192
00:58:07,561 --> 00:58:10,539
The inflatable place just
canceled Chloe's party!
1193
00:58:10,589 --> 00:58:11,972
- No!
1194
00:58:12,022 --> 00:58:14,511
- Yeah, the whole
bullshit about not wanting
1195
00:58:14,561 --> 00:58:16,796
to support that lifestyle.
1196
00:58:16,846 --> 00:58:18,917
- [Patty] You do have friends.
1197
00:58:18,967 --> 00:58:19,750
(Alyssa laughs)
1198
00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:21,162
- Yeah.
1199
00:58:21,212 --> 00:58:25,202
Patty, this is Alyssa,
Alyssa, my aunt Patty.
1200
00:58:25,252 --> 00:58:26,968
- Hot Sweet Muffin.
1201
00:58:27,018 --> 00:58:28,240
So nice to meet you.
1202
00:58:28,290 --> 00:58:30,090
- It's nice meeting you.
1203
00:58:30,140 --> 00:58:31,885
Is everything okay?
1204
00:58:31,935 --> 00:58:33,685
- Uh, not really, um,
1205
00:58:35,234 --> 00:58:36,900
some of my friends, well our friends
1206
00:58:36,950 --> 00:58:38,905
just found out their
daughter's birthday party
1207
00:58:38,955 --> 00:58:39,966
has just been canceled.
1208
00:58:40,016 --> 00:58:41,174
- Oh why?
1209
00:58:41,224 --> 00:58:43,001
- A location thing.
1210
00:58:43,051 --> 00:58:45,232
- Well she can have it at my house.
1211
00:58:45,282 --> 00:58:46,561
- Really?
- (chuckles) Uh-uh.
1212
00:58:46,611 --> 00:58:48,099
- [Patty] Yes.
- I wouldn't wanna impose.
1213
00:58:48,149 --> 00:58:49,686
- Oh we have a big house.
1214
00:58:49,736 --> 00:58:50,743
- It's not real big.
1215
00:58:50,793 --> 00:58:52,770
- That's great, they'll be thrilled!
1216
00:58:52,820 --> 00:58:54,208
How many people can you take?
1217
00:58:54,258 --> 00:58:55,283
- Three, four.
1218
00:58:55,333 --> 00:58:56,927
- Everyone!
1219
00:58:56,977 --> 00:58:58,928
I love parties!
(Alyssa laughs)
1220
00:58:58,978 --> 00:58:59,761
- Okay great, we will bring everyone then.
1221
00:58:59,811 --> 00:59:01,894
- All of you.
- Thank you.
1222
00:59:02,818 --> 00:59:05,249
This is huge, I appreciate it.
1223
00:59:05,299 --> 00:59:07,549
- Hey guys, sorry I'm late.
1224
00:59:08,889 --> 00:59:09,889
All right.
1225
00:59:10,859 --> 00:59:13,776
Nate, what do you got for me today?
1226
00:59:20,867 --> 00:59:22,367
Anybody seen Nate?
1227
00:59:26,903 --> 00:59:27,903
Where is he?
1228
00:59:29,103 --> 00:59:30,962
- Hi Dave, how are you?
1229
00:59:31,012 --> 00:59:32,355
- Where is he?
1230
00:59:32,405 --> 00:59:34,049
- Where's who?
1231
00:59:34,099 --> 00:59:35,071
- Nate.
1232
00:59:35,121 --> 00:59:38,804
- Nate is no longer with us at Lakeside.
1233
00:59:38,854 --> 00:59:41,316
Don't tell me you didn't know.
1234
00:59:41,366 --> 00:59:44,255
He can't be here, all right?
1235
00:59:44,305 --> 00:59:46,837
- How can we help him by ignoring him?
1236
00:59:46,887 --> 00:59:49,934
- We're not ignoring him
Dave, we're confronting him
1237
00:59:49,984 --> 00:59:51,698
with his need to change.
1238
00:59:51,748 --> 00:59:55,247
Oh for heaven's sake, look,
you've lost sight of the truth.
1239
00:59:55,297 --> 00:59:58,316
I told you to stop going to the group.
1240
00:59:58,366 --> 01:00:00,546
You've already done plenty of damage.
1241
01:00:00,596 --> 01:00:02,846
(rumbling)
1242
01:00:16,933 --> 01:00:19,192
- No.
(engine rumbling)
1243
01:00:19,242 --> 01:00:20,156
Wait!
1244
01:00:20,206 --> 01:00:20,997
Wait!
1245
01:00:21,047 --> 01:00:21,923
Wait!
1246
01:00:21,973 --> 01:00:23,317
Wait, wait!
1247
01:00:23,367 --> 01:00:25,685
(groans)
1248
01:00:25,735 --> 01:00:28,829
(sighs) Come on.
1249
01:00:28,879 --> 01:00:32,975
- [Erika] You know this is
a children's party, right?
1250
01:00:33,025 --> 01:00:35,136
(birds chirping)
1251
01:00:35,186 --> 01:00:37,241
- Doesn't have to be.
1252
01:00:37,291 --> 01:00:39,874
(gentle music)
1253
01:01:09,328 --> 01:01:10,494
- [Erika] Perfect, thank you.
1254
01:01:10,544 --> 01:01:11,544
- [Dave] Oh.
1255
01:01:17,090 --> 01:01:20,691
Hey, I, um, give you a heads
up about my Aunt Patty.
1256
01:01:20,741 --> 01:01:22,011
- So excited to meet her!
1257
01:01:22,061 --> 01:01:22,844
- No.
1258
01:01:22,894 --> 01:01:24,587
- Yes I am.
1259
01:01:24,637 --> 01:01:27,716
- What I mean is she's kinda
up there in age, ya know?
1260
01:01:27,766 --> 01:01:29,266
Not really...
- Woo.
1261
01:01:31,620 --> 01:01:32,620
- With us.
1262
01:01:34,090 --> 01:01:36,340
- Girl, you look beautiful!
1263
01:01:37,219 --> 01:01:38,439
You must be Patty.
1264
01:01:38,489 --> 01:01:40,177
- Thank you.
(Richard chuckles)
1265
01:01:40,227 --> 01:01:41,830
This is a gift.
1266
01:01:41,880 --> 01:01:43,291
- [Frank] Sorry I'm late.
1267
01:01:43,341 --> 01:01:47,674
That fudge packer at the
grocery store took forever.
1268
01:01:50,708 --> 01:01:52,274
- They're here, come on.
1269
01:01:52,324 --> 01:01:53,740
- [Richard] Oh come on, Miss Patty!
1270
01:01:53,790 --> 01:01:55,990
Don't get your vintage
Chenille all snagged up, girl.
1271
01:01:56,040 --> 01:01:57,321
- What is he doing here?
1272
01:01:57,371 --> 01:01:58,461
- [Patty] I needed my uppers!
1273
01:01:58,511 --> 01:01:59,320
- Shh!
1274
01:01:59,370 --> 01:02:00,153
- Sorry.
1275
01:02:00,203 --> 01:02:00,986
- Girl.
1276
01:02:01,036 --> 01:02:02,036
- Sorry.
1277
01:02:03,605 --> 01:02:05,639
- Okay guys, remember this was
thrown together last minute,
1278
01:02:05,689 --> 01:02:07,359
so we have to appreciate
what we have, okay?
1279
01:02:07,409 --> 01:02:08,909
- [Children] Okay.
1280
01:02:10,328 --> 01:02:11,302
- [All] Surprise!
1281
01:02:11,352 --> 01:02:12,238
(upbeat music)
1282
01:02:12,288 --> 01:02:15,046
(chattering)
1283
01:02:15,096 --> 01:02:16,596
- [Rosa] You guys!
1284
01:02:17,507 --> 01:02:18,663
- [Gina] This is too much.
1285
01:02:18,713 --> 01:02:20,642
- [Erika] This is just right.
1286
01:02:20,692 --> 01:02:23,842
- And I'm Frank, Patty's
friend with benefits.
1287
01:02:23,892 --> 01:02:24,709
(Frank laughs)
1288
01:02:24,759 --> 01:02:27,176
(chattering)
1289
01:02:33,930 --> 01:02:36,280
♪ When I go walking ♪
1290
01:02:36,330 --> 01:02:38,927
♪ With you downtown ♪
1291
01:02:38,977 --> 01:02:39,760
♪ You brush up against me ♪
1292
01:02:39,810 --> 01:02:41,210
Now tell me if that ain't good enough
1293
01:02:41,260 --> 01:02:44,331
to make the dead part of
your anatomy come alive!
1294
01:02:44,381 --> 01:02:45,536
- Ooh.
1295
01:02:45,586 --> 01:02:47,203
- [Dave] Frank!
(laughs)
1296
01:02:47,253 --> 01:02:48,184
Frank!
1297
01:02:48,234 --> 01:02:49,664
♪ Get that feeling ♪
1298
01:02:49,714 --> 01:02:51,933
♪ I get that feeling ♪
1299
01:02:51,983 --> 01:02:54,917
♪ And you know what that means ♪
1300
01:02:54,967 --> 01:02:58,402
♪ When I'm driving and you lean in close ♪
1301
01:02:58,452 --> 01:03:00,246
- I've always been a firm believer
1302
01:03:00,296 --> 01:03:02,742
that you plant it where
the woman wants it.
1303
01:03:02,792 --> 01:03:04,059
- [Dave] Frank!
1304
01:03:04,109 --> 01:03:04,892
Frank.
1305
01:03:04,942 --> 01:03:07,627
♪ Well I get that feeling,
get that feeling ♪
1306
01:03:07,677 --> 01:03:10,145
♪ Yeah, you give it to
me, get that feeling ♪
1307
01:03:10,195 --> 01:03:12,664
♪ Oh I get that feeling,
get that feeling ♪
1308
01:03:12,714 --> 01:03:14,439
♪ And you know what that means ♪
1309
01:03:14,489 --> 01:03:15,582
- No, no, no, no, no, no.
1310
01:03:15,632 --> 01:03:17,221
♪ Take me to church ♪
1311
01:03:17,271 --> 01:03:19,854
(upbeat music)
1312
01:03:36,431 --> 01:03:41,257
♪ You are sleeping at half past three ♪
1313
01:03:41,307 --> 01:03:43,631
♪ But I know you know, girl ♪
1314
01:03:43,681 --> 01:03:46,401
♪ A man's got his needs ♪
1315
01:03:46,451 --> 01:03:48,998
♪ So I get that feeling,
get that feeling ♪
1316
01:03:49,048 --> 01:03:51,570
♪ Oh, I get that feeling,
get that feeling ♪
1317
01:03:51,620 --> 01:03:54,167
♪ Oh, I get that feeling ♪
1318
01:03:54,217 --> 01:03:56,936
♪ And you know what it means ♪
1319
01:03:56,986 --> 01:04:01,738
♪ I lose control ♪
1320
01:04:01,788 --> 01:04:06,788
♪ I done lost control ♪
1321
01:04:07,125 --> 01:04:12,125
♪ Done lost control ♪
1322
01:04:12,288 --> 01:04:15,455
♪ I done lost control ♪
1323
01:04:24,700 --> 01:04:25,950
- [Rosa] Chloe?
1324
01:04:30,300 --> 01:04:31,758
- [Mark] Your town hall meeting is a go.
1325
01:04:31,808 --> 01:04:33,977
It's Friday night at my church.
1326
01:04:34,027 --> 01:04:35,027
- Really?
1327
01:04:36,362 --> 01:04:39,619
I thought that was kind of a bad idea.
1328
01:04:39,669 --> 01:04:40,798
People might not like you
1329
01:04:40,848 --> 01:04:43,618
shoving the gay agenda in their face.
1330
01:04:43,668 --> 01:04:46,668
- Seriously, the radical gay agenda?
1331
01:04:48,591 --> 01:04:51,906
The only agenda I have
is to love the unloved.
1332
01:04:51,956 --> 01:04:54,405
Those kids who get
kicked out of their homes
1333
01:04:54,455 --> 01:04:58,205
in the name of religion
or moral superiority.
1334
01:04:59,618 --> 01:05:03,251
They don't even know what love looks like.
1335
01:05:03,301 --> 01:05:07,825
They're labeled an outsider,
or a queer, or worse.
1336
01:05:07,875 --> 01:05:09,321
I like to imagine what would be possible
1337
01:05:09,371 --> 01:05:13,121
if we chose to love
rather than label people.
1338
01:05:18,563 --> 01:05:19,868
- [Alyssa] He did these himself?
1339
01:05:19,918 --> 01:05:22,504
- He and his ex did them together.
1340
01:05:22,554 --> 01:05:26,304
- Oh, well they'd look
great with some color.
1341
01:05:27,442 --> 01:05:28,338
- I thought you left.
1342
01:05:28,388 --> 01:05:29,780
- Oh, I was going to, but Aunt Patty
1343
01:05:29,830 --> 01:05:31,541
invited me to stay for dinner.
1344
01:05:31,591 --> 01:05:34,599
- [Patty] Isn't that be nice, Dave?
1345
01:05:34,649 --> 01:05:36,149
- Yeah, very nice.
1346
01:05:37,297 --> 01:05:40,008
Could I borrow you real quick, Patty?
1347
01:05:40,058 --> 01:05:41,641
- Excuse me.
- Yeah.
1348
01:05:43,717 --> 01:05:44,777
- [Dave] What are you doing?
1349
01:05:44,827 --> 01:05:45,640
- I've seen the way
1350
01:05:45,690 --> 01:05:47,552
you look at her.
- Shh.
1351
01:05:47,602 --> 01:05:49,962
It's not a good time, okay?
1352
01:05:50,012 --> 01:05:51,184
It's complicated.
1353
01:05:51,234 --> 01:05:52,284
- [Patty] Samantha?
1354
01:05:52,334 --> 01:05:54,468
- Don't say her name, please.
1355
01:05:54,518 --> 01:05:55,518
- Ooh.
1356
01:05:56,743 --> 01:05:58,412
She's a lesbian!
1357
01:05:58,462 --> 01:06:00,667
(gasps) Look at how progressive I am,
1358
01:06:00,717 --> 01:06:03,422
having a lesbian for dinner!
1359
01:06:03,472 --> 01:06:05,221
Or does she swing both ways?
1360
01:06:05,271 --> 01:06:09,104
Isn't that what you young
men like these days?
1361
01:06:15,418 --> 01:06:19,501
- So, Aunt Patty, Frank
seems like quite a catch.
1362
01:06:20,558 --> 01:06:22,225
- He keeps me young.
1363
01:06:23,476 --> 01:06:25,181
- You two ever hook up?
1364
01:06:25,231 --> 01:06:26,844
- Oh, no.
1365
01:06:26,894 --> 01:06:27,992
We do have sex though.
1366
01:06:28,042 --> 01:06:29,382
(Alyssa laughs)
1367
01:06:29,432 --> 01:06:31,432
- This was a great idea.
1368
01:06:36,219 --> 01:06:38,491
- Dave never told me you
could cook like this.
1369
01:06:38,541 --> 01:06:39,541
- Dave.
1370
01:06:40,531 --> 01:06:41,917
- I don't talk about my personal life.
1371
01:06:41,967 --> 01:06:43,939
- He talks in his sleep, though.
1372
01:06:43,989 --> 01:06:45,307
You should hear him talk about Sam...
1373
01:06:45,357 --> 01:06:46,883
- Patty.
1374
01:06:46,933 --> 01:06:48,197
Uh-mm.
(Alyssa chuckles)
1375
01:06:48,247 --> 01:06:51,555
- Okay, we won't talk about Sam.
1376
01:06:51,605 --> 01:06:54,684
- Oh, how long have you
two known each other?
1377
01:06:54,734 --> 01:06:56,998
- Um, we've known each other a few weeks.
1378
01:06:57,048 --> 01:06:58,867
- No, I meant you and Saman...
1379
01:06:58,917 --> 01:06:59,917
- Mm.
1380
01:07:00,738 --> 01:07:02,430
This broccoli is so good.
1381
01:07:02,480 --> 01:07:03,480
- No, I've never met Sam.
1382
01:07:03,527 --> 01:07:05,395
Just know what little Dave has told me.
1383
01:07:05,445 --> 01:07:07,924
- Oh, I thought by the
way you said the name,
1384
01:07:07,974 --> 01:07:09,075
that you had known h...
1385
01:07:09,125 --> 01:07:11,097
(Dave groans)
1386
01:07:11,147 --> 01:07:12,323
- Broccoli.
1387
01:07:12,373 --> 01:07:14,585
(groans)
- No, never net him.
1388
01:07:14,635 --> 01:07:17,135
(Dave coughs)
1389
01:07:20,896 --> 01:07:23,063
(gasping)
1390
01:07:27,216 --> 01:07:28,167
- I don't,
1391
01:07:28,217 --> 01:07:29,000
I don't think,
1392
01:07:29,050 --> 01:07:30,876
I don't think that's how you...
1393
01:07:30,926 --> 01:07:32,758
(Dave groaning)
1394
01:07:32,808 --> 01:07:36,141
(Dave gasping)
- Got it.
1395
01:07:41,453 --> 01:07:42,236
(Dave coughs)
1396
01:07:42,286 --> 01:07:43,286
- You okay?
1397
01:07:44,841 --> 01:07:47,396
- They were such a sweet couple.
1398
01:07:47,446 --> 01:07:50,604
And then that tramp ripped Dave's heart
1399
01:07:50,654 --> 01:07:53,866
right out of his chest and pounded on it.
1400
01:07:53,916 --> 01:07:56,499
(Alyssa moans)
1401
01:08:01,610 --> 01:08:03,026
- Genius.
1402
01:08:03,076 --> 01:08:03,946
- [Dave] What'd I do?
1403
01:08:03,996 --> 01:08:07,433
- No, the silk flowers,
they always stay colorful.
1404
01:08:07,483 --> 01:08:10,085
- Oh yeah, something about the emphysema,
1405
01:08:10,135 --> 01:08:11,135
real ones make it worse.
1406
01:08:11,165 --> 01:08:13,024
(Alyssa sighs)
1407
01:08:13,074 --> 01:08:14,741
- I love that woman.
1408
01:08:16,042 --> 01:08:17,357
You're lucky to have her.
1409
01:08:17,407 --> 01:08:20,861
- (inhales) So lucky.
1410
01:08:20,911 --> 01:08:22,531
- Good night, Alyssa!
1411
01:08:22,581 --> 01:08:27,515
Dave hasn't had this much
fun since Samantha left.
1412
01:08:27,565 --> 01:08:30,859
(door bangs shut)
1413
01:08:30,909 --> 01:08:32,326
- Who's Samantha?
1414
01:08:36,238 --> 01:08:37,689
- My ex-wife.
1415
01:08:37,739 --> 01:08:39,156
- Say that again?
1416
01:08:40,164 --> 01:08:42,247
- Samantha is my ex-wife.
1417
01:08:44,873 --> 01:08:46,434
(Alyssa clears throat)
1418
01:08:46,484 --> 01:08:50,734
- And by wife you mean
a gender neutral term
1419
01:08:50,784 --> 01:08:52,617
for your male partner?
1420
01:08:55,555 --> 01:08:57,055
You lying bastard.
1421
01:08:58,733 --> 01:09:01,316
- Wait, wait, hold on, hold on!
1422
01:09:03,016 --> 01:09:05,077
I said she was a man because,
1423
01:09:05,127 --> 01:09:07,341
I've never talked about
anything like that before.
1424
01:09:07,391 --> 01:09:10,576
And I didn't think that you would believe
1425
01:09:10,626 --> 01:09:13,436
I've lived as a straight
guy all those years.
1426
01:09:13,486 --> 01:09:14,486
I didn't.
1427
01:09:15,950 --> 01:09:17,426
- That shit happens all the time,
1428
01:09:17,476 --> 01:09:20,360
why wouldn't we believe you?
1429
01:09:20,410 --> 01:09:22,827
- I don't know, I'm an idiot.
1430
01:09:29,342 --> 01:09:33,085
- My therapist says I
need to work on my past
1431
01:09:33,135 --> 01:09:36,195
by giving people a second chance.
1432
01:09:36,245 --> 01:09:38,165
- That's good advice.
1433
01:09:38,215 --> 01:09:39,215
- Shut up.
1434
01:09:40,277 --> 01:09:41,277
I will not,
1435
01:09:42,856 --> 01:09:44,680
let you get me this mad.
1436
01:09:44,730 --> 01:09:46,365
(engine cranking)
- I'm sorry.
1437
01:09:46,415 --> 01:09:47,665
- Yes, you are.
1438
01:09:48,919 --> 01:09:51,502
(gentle music)
1439
01:10:07,157 --> 01:10:12,157
♪ I am a phony posing as a phonyless ♪
1440
01:10:14,148 --> 01:10:16,231
♪ Person ♪
1441
01:10:17,674 --> 01:10:18,905
- Mr. Hopper?
1442
01:10:18,955 --> 01:10:20,331
- Oh, yeah?
1443
01:10:20,381 --> 01:10:23,214
Sorry, Taylor, read the scripture.
1444
01:10:25,700 --> 01:10:27,093
- Do not be fooled.
1445
01:10:27,143 --> 01:10:29,964
Those who sin sexually, worship idols,
1446
01:10:30,014 --> 01:10:32,890
take part in adultery, those
who are male prostitutes,
1447
01:10:32,940 --> 01:10:36,405
or men who have sexual
relations with other men,
1448
01:10:36,455 --> 01:10:39,623
those who steal, are greedy, get drunk,
1449
01:10:39,673 --> 01:10:42,154
lie about others, or rob these people
1450
01:10:42,204 --> 01:10:44,195
will not inherit God's kingdom.
1451
01:10:44,245 --> 01:10:49,245
♪ I am a phony posing as a phonyless ♪
1452
01:10:50,794 --> 01:10:52,877
♪ Person ♪
1453
01:11:05,902 --> 01:11:06,854
- You know, absolutely,
1454
01:11:06,904 --> 01:11:08,322
you will be the very first person I call.
1455
01:11:08,372 --> 01:11:09,932
Of course.
1456
01:11:09,982 --> 01:11:12,887
All right, have a good day, goodbye.
1457
01:11:12,937 --> 01:11:13,845
(sighs)
1458
01:11:13,895 --> 01:11:15,646
Have a seat, Dave,
you're making me nervous.
1459
01:11:15,696 --> 01:11:16,696
- I'm done.
1460
01:11:18,083 --> 01:11:20,901
- You're done for the day or?
1461
01:11:20,951 --> 01:11:22,362
- Forever, I'm done.
1462
01:11:22,412 --> 01:11:23,765
(Gordon sighs)
1463
01:11:23,815 --> 01:11:25,599
- This is because of Nate?
1464
01:11:25,649 --> 01:11:27,455
Why does this mean so much to you?
1465
01:11:27,505 --> 01:11:30,432
- Because, Gordon, Nate matters.
1466
01:11:30,482 --> 01:11:32,078
Things we do matter.
1467
01:11:32,128 --> 01:11:35,128
The things that we say, they matter.
1468
01:11:37,122 --> 01:11:39,705
(Gordon sighs)
1469
01:11:43,114 --> 01:11:44,588
- Think about this, Dave.
1470
01:11:44,638 --> 01:11:46,924
- I have.
- Have you?
1471
01:11:46,974 --> 01:11:47,757
Where you gonna work?
1472
01:11:47,807 --> 01:11:49,432
Where are you gonna go?
1473
01:11:49,482 --> 01:11:51,448
To your girlfriend who thinks you're gay?
1474
01:11:51,498 --> 01:11:53,142
Your crazy Aunt Patty?
1475
01:11:53,192 --> 01:11:55,179
We have to stand for the truth, man,
1476
01:11:55,229 --> 01:11:56,912
because nobody else will.
1477
01:11:56,962 --> 01:11:58,696
Love speaks the truth.
1478
01:11:58,746 --> 01:12:00,335
That's the only way we can fix him.
1479
01:12:00,385 --> 01:12:01,281
- He's not broken!
1480
01:12:01,331 --> 01:12:03,914
(solemn music)
1481
01:12:05,253 --> 01:12:06,758
- Dave, have you thought about
1482
01:12:06,808 --> 01:12:09,326
who your new friends really are?
1483
01:12:09,376 --> 01:12:11,704
The scriptures are very clear on this.
1484
01:12:11,754 --> 01:12:12,916
They're right there next to
1485
01:12:12,966 --> 01:12:15,167
the idolaters and the adulterers.
1486
01:12:15,217 --> 01:12:18,279
This is who you're supporting now.
1487
01:12:18,329 --> 01:12:19,329
- Support?
1488
01:12:20,830 --> 01:12:24,018
You want to talk to me about support?
1489
01:12:24,068 --> 01:12:25,543
(scoffs) Okay.
1490
01:12:25,593 --> 01:12:28,293
How was I supported when the
church turned their back on me
1491
01:12:28,343 --> 01:12:31,074
after Samantha left, huh?
1492
01:12:31,124 --> 01:12:34,216
When I heard whispers and
those Christian parents
1493
01:12:34,266 --> 01:12:36,717
who boycotted my practice
because, according to them,
1494
01:12:36,767 --> 01:12:39,934
I allowed my own wife to be perverted.
1495
01:12:40,778 --> 01:12:42,376
That's not okay.
1496
01:12:42,426 --> 01:12:46,176
So let's talk about this list of sinners.
1497
01:12:46,226 --> 01:12:49,393
The cheats, the greedy, the idolaters.
1498
01:12:50,544 --> 01:12:54,211
When I look at Erika,
Bruce, Kyle, and Nate.
1499
01:12:55,675 --> 01:12:56,804
I don't see the people who have anything
1500
01:12:56,854 --> 01:12:59,315
to do with that list.
1501
01:12:59,365 --> 01:13:00,365
I see,
1502
01:13:02,025 --> 01:13:04,525
I see a love I never saw here.
1503
01:13:07,110 --> 01:13:10,277
So you can keep your psych department.
1504
01:13:17,511 --> 01:13:18,511
- Dave.
1505
01:13:20,512 --> 01:13:22,705
It actually sounds really nice,
1506
01:13:22,755 --> 01:13:24,908
this place you've found.
1507
01:13:24,958 --> 01:13:26,848
I'm sure it feels good.
1508
01:13:26,898 --> 01:13:30,594
And I'm sure you think it's
some new kind of enlightenment.
1509
01:13:30,644 --> 01:13:34,988
But it's not real, Dave and
I can't go there with you.
1510
01:13:35,038 --> 01:13:37,121
I can't ignore the truth.
1511
01:13:39,761 --> 01:13:42,011
There's no love without it.
1512
01:13:46,710 --> 01:13:49,627
(crowd chattering)
1513
01:13:53,390 --> 01:13:55,226
- Good evening.
1514
01:13:55,276 --> 01:13:57,746
Thank you for coming out tonight.
1515
01:13:57,796 --> 01:14:00,573
I would like to introduce
my good friend, Alyssa.
1516
01:14:00,623 --> 01:14:04,123
(cheering and applauding)
1517
01:14:08,751 --> 01:14:13,751
- (sighs) Thank you again for
spending your evening with us.
1518
01:14:14,548 --> 01:14:16,744
For those of you who don't know me.
1519
01:14:16,794 --> 01:14:19,152
My name is Alyssa Cane.
1520
01:14:19,202 --> 01:14:21,285
My brother was Ryan Cane.
1521
01:14:23,647 --> 01:14:25,564
You all know the story.
1522
01:14:27,232 --> 01:14:30,787
We are here tonight to
finish what he started,
1523
01:14:30,837 --> 01:14:31,997
so that such hate would never
1524
01:14:32,035 --> 01:14:34,780
be a part of this town again.
1525
01:14:34,830 --> 01:14:37,354
So we are launching a Zebra House
1526
01:14:37,404 --> 01:14:40,654
at the Wabash property down the street.
1527
01:14:42,393 --> 01:14:45,476
A shelter for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual,
1528
01:14:48,373 --> 01:14:50,711
and Transgender teens could go
1529
01:14:50,761 --> 01:14:53,903
when they have no other place to turn.
1530
01:14:53,953 --> 01:14:58,036
We understand this is a
new concept for our area,
1531
01:14:59,137 --> 01:15:02,237
and you might have some questions
1532
01:15:02,287 --> 01:15:04,280
and we're here to answer them.
1533
01:15:04,330 --> 01:15:06,861
As well as ask for your financial support
1534
01:15:06,911 --> 01:15:09,987
because we can not do this without you.
1535
01:15:10,037 --> 01:15:11,187
Thank you.
1536
01:15:11,237 --> 01:15:14,070
With that, the microphone is open.
1537
01:15:27,051 --> 01:15:28,301
- Hi, I'm Nate.
1538
01:15:30,624 --> 01:15:34,707
I've been to a place like
this before in Orlando,
1539
01:15:35,707 --> 01:15:39,457
without that place, I
wouldn't be here today.
1540
01:15:40,741 --> 01:15:42,158
It saved my life.
1541
01:15:43,680 --> 01:15:47,097
- Thank you.
(applauding)
1542
01:15:53,960 --> 01:15:56,552
- I'm not really good with
mics, I'll just stay here.
1543
01:15:56,602 --> 01:15:57,769
- That's okay.
1544
01:15:59,693 --> 01:16:03,693
- I don't get the whole
gay thing, I never have.
1545
01:16:04,581 --> 01:16:07,776
But, that doesn't mean
it's not a real issue.
1546
01:16:07,826 --> 01:16:11,312
These kids, they don't
deserve to live on the streets
1547
01:16:11,362 --> 01:16:14,245
because of something they can't control.
1548
01:16:14,295 --> 01:16:17,115
I'm in your corner for a hundred dollars.
1549
01:16:17,165 --> 01:16:20,082
- Yes.
(applauding)
1550
01:16:21,640 --> 01:16:22,484
- Thank you.
1551
01:16:22,534 --> 01:16:25,201
(clears throat)
1552
01:16:26,354 --> 01:16:29,604
- I'm here as a woman married to a man,
1553
01:16:30,675 --> 01:16:32,503
the way it should be.
1554
01:16:32,553 --> 01:16:36,136
You all seem nice, but
I can't support you.
1555
01:16:38,358 --> 01:16:41,380
I wish it was different, I really do,
1556
01:16:41,430 --> 01:16:44,474
but I can't change what the Bible says.
1557
01:16:44,524 --> 01:16:47,274
I know you'll think this is hate.
1558
01:16:48,124 --> 01:16:49,874
But I don't hate you.
1559
01:16:51,589 --> 01:16:52,589
I love you.
1560
01:16:54,906 --> 01:16:57,145
I just can't stand by
1561
01:16:57,195 --> 01:16:59,858
and let you ruin the sanctity of marriage.
1562
01:16:59,908 --> 01:17:02,381
- Oh for the love of God.
(crowd chattering)
1563
01:17:02,431 --> 01:17:06,307
- Mrs. Waters, thank you
for your comment really,
1564
01:17:06,357 --> 01:17:08,146
and even though tonight we're not talking
1565
01:17:08,196 --> 01:17:10,196
about marriage equality,
1566
01:17:11,124 --> 01:17:14,700
I want to personally apologize to you
1567
01:17:14,750 --> 01:17:17,053
that it's destroying the
sanctity of your third marriage.
1568
01:17:17,103 --> 01:17:19,167
(laughing)
1569
01:17:19,217 --> 01:17:20,884
- Oh, no she didn't.
1570
01:17:26,137 --> 01:17:29,320
- I've been learning in
class about black and white,
1571
01:17:29,370 --> 01:17:33,203
and this is certainly a
black and white issue.
1572
01:17:35,735 --> 01:17:38,059
(solemn music)
1573
01:17:38,109 --> 01:17:42,190
It's a perversion, an unnatural lifestyle
1574
01:17:42,240 --> 01:17:44,652
that leads to destruction.
1575
01:17:44,702 --> 01:17:46,226
My Bible is very clear
1576
01:17:46,276 --> 01:17:50,955
when it says we need to separate
ourselves from such evil.
1577
01:17:51,005 --> 01:17:51,788
(sighs)
1578
01:17:51,838 --> 01:17:53,755
Look, I'm sorry, ma'am.
1579
01:17:55,289 --> 01:17:56,872
But it's the truth.
1580
01:17:59,530 --> 01:18:01,554
Your brother was an abomination.
1581
01:18:01,604 --> 01:18:03,377
(crowd chattering)
1582
01:18:03,427 --> 01:18:04,210
It's the truth.
1583
01:18:04,260 --> 01:18:07,759
(dramatic music)
1584
01:18:07,809 --> 01:18:09,642
1 Corinthians 6:9, 10.
1585
01:18:11,097 --> 01:18:12,866
It's in the Bible.
1586
01:18:12,916 --> 01:18:13,986
- That, that's enough.
1587
01:18:14,036 --> 01:18:15,203
That's enough!
1588
01:18:19,543 --> 01:18:21,213
That's not love.
1589
01:18:21,263 --> 01:18:22,513
That's not God.
1590
01:18:24,277 --> 01:18:25,360
- Mr. Hopper?
1591
01:18:27,519 --> 01:18:29,102
What are you doing?
1592
01:18:33,695 --> 01:18:35,362
- You know this kid?
1593
01:18:36,428 --> 01:18:40,428
- Yeah, he's my professor
at Lakeside Christian.
1594
01:18:41,447 --> 01:18:42,947
He taught me that.
1595
01:18:46,718 --> 01:18:48,718
You, you taught me that.
1596
01:18:51,845 --> 01:18:54,928
Everything I just said came from you.
1597
01:18:56,527 --> 01:18:58,110
I don't understand.
1598
01:18:59,290 --> 01:19:03,373
Have you been playing both
sides the entire time?
1599
01:19:07,835 --> 01:19:10,252
(chattering)
1600
01:19:23,278 --> 01:19:25,939
(chattering)
1601
01:19:25,989 --> 01:19:27,238
- [Gina] I'm gonna get a
little more mean about this.
1602
01:19:27,288 --> 01:19:29,526
I'm just saying you guys
are being way too nice.
1603
01:19:29,576 --> 01:19:31,390
All I'm saying is that from now on
1604
01:19:31,440 --> 01:19:32,815
maybe we should be a
little bit more careful
1605
01:19:32,865 --> 01:19:34,058
about who we let in.
1606
01:19:34,108 --> 01:19:35,992
- Preacher, you need to pray for him.
1607
01:19:36,042 --> 01:19:37,739
- I will, Richard, I will.
1608
01:19:37,789 --> 01:19:39,110
- [Rosa] How are you not angry?
1609
01:19:39,160 --> 01:19:39,943
- [Mark] Calm down.
1610
01:19:39,993 --> 01:19:40,915
- [Rosa] I'm not gonna calm...
1611
01:19:40,965 --> 01:19:41,748
If you tell me to calm down.
1612
01:19:41,798 --> 01:19:43,548
- You son of a bitch!
1613
01:19:49,029 --> 01:19:50,612
- Are you even gay?
1614
01:19:51,819 --> 01:19:52,819
- Oh my god.
1615
01:19:53,677 --> 01:19:55,115
- [Kyle] I knew it, I knew it.
1616
01:19:55,165 --> 01:19:57,055
- What about the car wash?
1617
01:19:57,105 --> 01:19:58,147
- That was you!
1618
01:19:58,197 --> 01:19:58,980
- And he blamed him.
1619
01:19:59,030 --> 01:20:00,535
- Come on.
- That was Dave?
1620
01:20:00,585 --> 01:20:01,446
- Piece of shit.
1621
01:20:01,496 --> 01:20:02,279
- [Kyle] You see.
1622
01:20:02,329 --> 01:20:04,412
I told you guys.
1623
01:20:05,491 --> 01:20:06,536
- I don't know what to say.
1624
01:20:06,586 --> 01:20:09,091
- You'd better figure something out!
1625
01:20:09,141 --> 01:20:10,065
- You know Mulberry had
1626
01:20:10,115 --> 01:20:13,365
a same-sex homecoming couple last year?
1627
01:20:15,704 --> 01:20:18,120
I was raised in Mulberry.
1628
01:20:18,170 --> 01:20:22,613
A gay kid growing up in the
south in the 50s and 60s.
1629
01:20:22,663 --> 01:20:24,163
That was not easy.
1630
01:20:25,906 --> 01:20:28,989
I had my share of slurs and beatings,
1631
01:20:31,375 --> 01:20:33,533
but I was one of the lucky ones.
1632
01:20:33,583 --> 01:20:36,083
My parents always accepted me.
1633
01:20:37,020 --> 01:20:39,241
And it made things better.
1634
01:20:39,291 --> 01:20:41,639
Oh things are much better now.
1635
01:20:41,689 --> 01:20:43,480
We got over Stonewall.
1636
01:20:43,530 --> 01:20:44,702
We got over the AIDS crisis
1637
01:20:44,752 --> 01:20:47,750
and the lies they told about us.
1638
01:20:47,800 --> 01:20:49,644
We can even marry now, which is something
1639
01:20:49,694 --> 01:20:53,919
I thought I would never see in a lifetime.
1640
01:20:53,969 --> 01:20:57,784
But I have been living in a dream world.
1641
01:20:57,834 --> 01:21:00,917
One where, well, everyone is changing
1642
01:21:02,720 --> 01:21:07,720
and getting over their fear and
accepting us as just people.
1643
01:21:08,199 --> 01:21:09,737
(gentle music)
1644
01:21:09,787 --> 01:21:13,159
But tonight, (chuckles)
1645
01:21:13,209 --> 01:21:17,542
Tonight pulled up emotions
I had buried for decades.
1646
01:21:19,838 --> 01:21:22,170
Words that killed me as a kid.
1647
01:21:22,220 --> 01:21:25,887
Words that will kill
every kid in that room.
1648
01:21:27,287 --> 01:21:31,059
And I'm tired of living the dream world.
1649
01:21:31,109 --> 01:21:34,359
I'm gonna speak up and I'm gonna fight.
1650
01:21:36,043 --> 01:21:39,293
And thank you, David, for reminding me.
1651
01:21:45,947 --> 01:21:47,798
- I believe that the way we treat people
1652
01:21:47,848 --> 01:21:50,591
who we disagree with the most
1653
01:21:50,641 --> 01:21:53,141
is our true test of our faith.
1654
01:21:54,981 --> 01:21:57,824
So, I won't hold this against you.
1655
01:21:57,874 --> 01:21:58,657
- I will.
1656
01:21:58,707 --> 01:21:59,490
(group chattering)
- Absolutely.
1657
01:21:59,540 --> 01:22:00,887
- [Bruce] You can forget that idea.
1658
01:22:00,937 --> 01:22:01,720
- Me too, really.
1659
01:22:01,770 --> 01:22:02,660
- Get a life.
1660
01:22:02,710 --> 01:22:03,710
- Please.
1661
01:22:04,512 --> 01:22:07,595
- [Phone] Call from Hot Sweet Muffin.
1662
01:22:09,087 --> 01:22:10,476
- You sure he ain't gay?
1663
01:22:10,526 --> 01:22:12,798
- [Phone] Call from Hot.
1664
01:22:12,848 --> 01:22:13,848
- Hello?
1665
01:22:15,124 --> 01:22:16,466
Frank.
1666
01:22:16,516 --> 01:22:17,460
(solemn music)
1667
01:22:17,510 --> 01:22:18,872
Okay.
1668
01:22:18,922 --> 01:22:20,445
I'm coming.
1669
01:22:20,495 --> 01:22:23,412
(melancholy music)
1670
01:22:42,253 --> 01:22:44,780
I never thought you
cared about that thing.
1671
01:22:44,830 --> 01:22:47,068
- I don't care about that thing.
1672
01:22:47,118 --> 01:22:49,285
I care about what it says.
1673
01:22:50,587 --> 01:22:52,926
- I'm not sure I follow.
1674
01:22:52,976 --> 01:22:56,309
- People like you care about that thing.
1675
01:22:58,010 --> 01:22:59,927
Care about the answers.
1676
01:23:01,223 --> 01:23:05,254
You spend your whole life
reading it, studying it,
1677
01:23:05,304 --> 01:23:07,609
down to every last syllable.
1678
01:23:07,659 --> 01:23:09,242
You obsess with it,
1679
01:23:10,659 --> 01:23:13,076
but you miss what it's about.
1680
01:23:14,539 --> 01:23:18,224
There's a lot in here I don't understand,
1681
01:23:18,274 --> 01:23:20,774
but I do know what it's about.
1682
01:23:22,865 --> 01:23:26,698
Mystery is God's way of
keeping humans humble.
1683
01:23:29,623 --> 01:23:32,956
- Sounds like a complicated way to live.
1684
01:23:34,022 --> 01:23:36,094
- Maybe you've done that to yourself.
1685
01:23:36,144 --> 01:23:38,811
(rain pounding)
1686
01:23:50,579 --> 01:23:52,870
- [Dave] How much do you know?
1687
01:23:52,920 --> 01:23:53,920
- Enough.
1688
01:23:56,443 --> 01:23:58,281
- Why didn't you stop me?
1689
01:23:58,331 --> 01:23:59,998
- That's not my job.
1690
01:24:01,118 --> 01:24:03,035
You're a grown-ass man.
1691
01:24:04,019 --> 01:24:06,574
My job was to love you.
1692
01:24:06,624 --> 01:24:08,574
And give you a place to stay
1693
01:24:08,624 --> 01:24:11,465
when you had no place to stay,
1694
01:24:11,515 --> 01:24:14,062
when nobody wanted you.
1695
01:24:14,112 --> 01:24:16,695
(solemn music)
1696
01:24:17,960 --> 01:24:19,710
- I really messed up.
1697
01:24:21,162 --> 01:24:23,699
Really hurt some people.
1698
01:24:23,749 --> 01:24:25,832
- Well, go make it right.
1699
01:24:27,359 --> 01:24:29,711
- [Dave] I don't even know where to start.
1700
01:24:29,761 --> 01:24:30,761
- Come here.
1701
01:24:40,091 --> 01:24:43,430
There's this thing the Jews do.
1702
01:24:43,480 --> 01:24:44,300
- I'm not Jewish.
1703
01:24:44,350 --> 01:24:46,748
- (chuckles) But your boy, Jesus was.
1704
01:24:46,798 --> 01:24:49,305
(Dave laughs)
1705
01:24:49,355 --> 01:24:53,718
They don't start their day
in the morning the way we do.
1706
01:24:53,768 --> 01:24:56,601
They start at sundown, before bed,
1707
01:24:58,318 --> 01:25:00,568
and reflect upon their day.
1708
01:25:02,395 --> 01:25:06,145
At the end of the day,
for the past 60 years,
1709
01:25:07,607 --> 01:25:09,024
I've asked myself
1710
01:25:10,424 --> 01:25:12,174
who did I love today?
1711
01:25:16,135 --> 01:25:19,302
You say you don't know where to start.
1712
01:25:21,583 --> 01:25:22,916
Start with love.
1713
01:25:26,956 --> 01:25:29,373
Who did you love today, Dave?
1714
01:25:37,736 --> 01:25:40,413
- Have you seen any of these yet?
1715
01:25:40,463 --> 01:25:41,880
- Read 'em to me.
1716
01:25:46,982 --> 01:25:50,482
- I need to hear your laugh one more time.
1717
01:25:52,718 --> 01:25:55,885
Thank you for showing me what love is.
1718
01:25:59,322 --> 01:26:03,162
Hot Sweet Muffin got
me huffin' and puffin'.
1719
01:26:03,212 --> 01:26:04,212
Frank.
1720
01:26:07,159 --> 01:26:10,909
Thank you for listening
when no one else did.
1721
01:26:13,100 --> 01:26:16,683
Patty, you made me
believe in people again.
1722
01:26:19,538 --> 01:26:23,621
You were the first person
I felt actually saw me.
1723
01:26:25,647 --> 01:26:28,647
You made it okay for me to be weird.
1724
01:26:33,407 --> 01:26:35,824
You're pretty popular, Patty.
1725
01:26:38,382 --> 01:26:39,382
Patty?
1726
01:26:47,094 --> 01:26:48,380
(melancholy music)
1727
01:26:48,430 --> 01:26:49,213
- [Pastor] I think we all remember
1728
01:26:49,263 --> 01:26:52,132
the first time we met Patty.
1729
01:26:52,182 --> 01:26:53,241
And if you were like me,
1730
01:26:53,291 --> 01:26:55,225
the first time you met her you were,
1731
01:26:55,275 --> 01:26:59,507
well you didn't know exactly
what to think of her.
1732
01:26:59,557 --> 01:27:01,798
If there's one thing Patty taught me,
1733
01:27:01,848 --> 01:27:03,369
it was what living and loving
1734
01:27:03,419 --> 01:27:06,855
without labels actually looks like.
1735
01:27:06,905 --> 01:27:09,639
And that reminds me of 1 Corinthians 13
1736
01:27:09,689 --> 01:27:13,447
that's sometimes referred
to as the love chapter,
1737
01:27:13,497 --> 01:27:16,668
if I speak in the tongues
of mortals and angels
1738
01:27:16,718 --> 01:27:21,392
but do not have love, I'm a
noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
1739
01:27:21,442 --> 01:27:23,692
(knocking)
1740
01:27:42,632 --> 01:27:45,299
(door clatters)
1741
01:27:54,919 --> 01:27:59,919
- Oh yeah, I've been embracing
the colors more lately.
1742
01:28:00,174 --> 01:28:02,211
- The place goes to auction next week.
1743
01:28:02,261 --> 01:28:03,709
We'll all be there.
1744
01:28:03,759 --> 01:28:05,277
- You guys don't have a prayer.
1745
01:28:05,327 --> 01:28:08,435
- Yeah, it's kind of more of a statement.
1746
01:28:08,485 --> 01:28:10,568
- Why are you here, Nate?
1747
01:28:11,473 --> 01:28:16,376
- I was kind of hoping that
you weren't going to be here.
1748
01:28:16,426 --> 01:28:18,843
- [Dave] Sorry to disappoint.
1749
01:28:21,903 --> 01:28:24,320
- I need to tell you a story.
1750
01:28:25,320 --> 01:28:28,071
Before I came out to my mom,
1751
01:28:28,121 --> 01:28:30,456
I had it all perfectly planned out.
1752
01:28:30,506 --> 01:28:32,477
I rehearsed different
responses depending on
1753
01:28:32,527 --> 01:28:35,077
if she'd hit me or hug me.
1754
01:28:35,127 --> 01:28:37,512
I mean I really didn't
have a reason to be scared,
1755
01:28:37,562 --> 01:28:40,994
she was always supportive
of other gay kids at school,
1756
01:28:41,044 --> 01:28:43,335
but my friends said that
she would be different
1757
01:28:43,385 --> 01:28:45,635
with her own kid, you know.
1758
01:28:51,346 --> 01:28:55,897
One day I just, I went
off script and I said it.
1759
01:28:55,947 --> 01:28:58,126
I told her I was gay.
1760
01:28:58,176 --> 01:29:00,176
- So she kicked you out?
1761
01:29:03,127 --> 01:29:04,460
- She hugged me.
1762
01:29:05,624 --> 01:29:07,791
Told me that she loved me.
1763
01:29:08,760 --> 01:29:09,927
We both cried.
1764
01:29:10,969 --> 01:29:13,886
That's my favorite memory with her.
1765
01:29:14,865 --> 01:29:17,148
- So what happened?
1766
01:29:17,198 --> 01:29:19,588
- She got this job in Orlando
1767
01:29:19,638 --> 01:29:22,350
and things started getting rough at home.
1768
01:29:22,400 --> 01:29:25,436
So she started going to this
counselor on her lunch break
1769
01:29:25,486 --> 01:29:29,273
to work on her issues, I guess, she said.
1770
01:29:29,323 --> 01:29:30,656
But she changed.
1771
01:29:33,000 --> 01:29:34,833
Seemed distant.
1772
01:29:34,883 --> 01:29:37,849
Questioning if I was really gay or not.
1773
01:29:37,899 --> 01:29:41,540
Started to sound a lot
like you do in class.
1774
01:29:41,590 --> 01:29:43,507
One day, she came home.
1775
01:29:52,264 --> 01:29:54,347
I need you to watch this.
1776
01:30:05,912 --> 01:30:09,591
- [Nate's Dad] Honey, come
on, let's get this started.
1777
01:30:09,641 --> 01:30:14,215
- [Nate's Mom] Nate, honey,
I want to tell you something
1778
01:30:14,265 --> 01:30:16,515
before I say anything else.
1779
01:30:18,263 --> 01:30:19,263
I love you.
1780
01:30:20,330 --> 01:30:22,572
- [Nate] Yeah, yeah, I know.
1781
01:30:22,622 --> 01:30:24,549
- [Nate's Mom] I know you've been gay
1782
01:30:24,599 --> 01:30:27,563
since you been a little boy.
1783
01:30:27,613 --> 01:30:30,235
- [Nate] Yeah, so you know by this point
1784
01:30:30,285 --> 01:30:32,909
that it's not a choice.
1785
01:30:32,959 --> 01:30:35,078
- [Nate's Mom] It is a choice.
1786
01:30:35,128 --> 01:30:37,711
- [Nate] No, it's not a choice.
1787
01:30:39,443 --> 01:30:43,372
- [Nate's Mom] In that
case, you have a choice now.
1788
01:30:43,422 --> 01:30:45,231
You could either get help or move out.
1789
01:30:45,281 --> 01:30:47,584
I can't support your lifestyle.
1790
01:30:47,634 --> 01:30:50,213
- [Nate] Mom, it's not a...
1791
01:30:50,263 --> 01:30:52,076
It's who I am.
1792
01:30:52,126 --> 01:30:54,395
- [Nate's Mom] My baby
was not born a queer.
1793
01:30:54,445 --> 01:30:57,426
- [Nate] I don't know
where this is coming from?
1794
01:30:57,476 --> 01:31:00,615
- [Nate's Mom] From the Bible, from God.
1795
01:31:00,665 --> 01:31:03,154
- [Nate] No, you didn't say this before.
1796
01:31:03,204 --> 01:31:05,954
You weren't like this, you loved me.
1797
01:31:06,004 --> 01:31:07,087
You loved me.
1798
01:31:08,196 --> 01:31:09,838
- I still love you.
1799
01:31:09,888 --> 01:31:11,228
- No, no, that's not what...
1800
01:31:11,278 --> 01:31:13,678
(yelling)
(screaming)
1801
01:31:13,728 --> 01:31:15,574
- [Nate's Dad] Get back
you son-of-a-bitch!
1802
01:31:15,624 --> 01:31:16,604
- [Nate] What is wrong with you?
1803
01:31:16,654 --> 01:31:18,991
- [Nate's Mom] Stop!
1804
01:31:19,041 --> 01:31:21,791
There's something wrong with you.
1805
01:31:23,103 --> 01:31:24,948
- [Nate] There's nothing wrong with me.
1806
01:31:24,998 --> 01:31:27,690
- [Nate's Dad] You're a disgrace.
1807
01:31:27,740 --> 01:31:30,073
- [Nate] I'm not a disgrace.
1808
01:31:31,382 --> 01:31:35,169
- [Nate's Dad] I can't
believe that I have said
1809
01:31:35,219 --> 01:31:37,386
that my son is a disgrace.
1810
01:32:10,649 --> 01:32:11,649
- Nate.
1811
01:32:14,076 --> 01:32:15,243
It's not true.
1812
01:32:18,298 --> 01:32:22,048
- I came here to tell
you that I forgive you.
1813
01:32:25,868 --> 01:32:27,178
- You're not a disgrace.
1814
01:32:27,228 --> 01:32:28,780
(Nate sniffles)
1815
01:32:28,830 --> 01:32:30,163
- I forgive you.
1816
01:32:34,322 --> 01:32:37,557
(Nate crying)
1817
01:32:37,607 --> 01:32:40,190
- [Dave] You're not a disgrace.
1818
01:32:53,567 --> 01:32:56,677
(faint chattering)
1819
01:32:56,727 --> 01:32:59,310
(door banging)
1820
01:33:02,685 --> 01:33:05,825
- We're here for the auction.
1821
01:33:05,875 --> 01:33:07,002
- [Clerk] You're early.
1822
01:33:07,052 --> 01:33:08,462
- We wanted to be early.
1823
01:33:08,512 --> 01:33:10,894
- [Clerk] Fill one of these out.
1824
01:33:10,944 --> 01:33:13,694
- Okay.
- Auction starts at three.
1825
01:33:14,967 --> 01:33:15,967
- Thank you.
1826
01:33:30,810 --> 01:33:33,745
♪ This is the gay, this is the gay ♪
1827
01:33:33,795 --> 01:33:38,795
♪ That the Lord has made,
that the Lord has made ♪
1828
01:33:39,239 --> 01:33:42,324
♪ Goodness gracious gay balls of fire ♪
1829
01:33:42,374 --> 01:33:43,157
(laughs)
1830
01:33:43,207 --> 01:33:46,504
♪ Oh, I heard it through the gay-vine ♪
1831
01:33:46,554 --> 01:33:47,944
- Yeah, girl.
1832
01:33:47,994 --> 01:33:51,987
♪ Been living most our lives
living in a gay-ster's paradise ♪
1833
01:33:52,037 --> 01:33:53,397
- Aha.
1834
01:33:53,447 --> 01:33:57,775
♪ You're so gay, you probably
think this song is about you ♪
1835
01:33:57,825 --> 01:33:59,452
♪ You're so gay ♪
1836
01:33:59,502 --> 01:34:02,522
♪ You probably think
this song is about you ♪
1837
01:34:02,572 --> 01:34:04,743
♪ Don't you, don't you ♪
1838
01:34:04,793 --> 01:34:06,331
- Yeah, that's what I'm talking about.
1839
01:34:06,381 --> 01:34:08,631
(laughing)
1840
01:34:11,068 --> 01:34:13,833
(footsteps tapping)
1841
01:34:13,883 --> 01:34:15,416
(sighs)
1842
01:34:15,466 --> 01:34:18,049
(gentle music)
1843
01:34:20,056 --> 01:34:21,530
- [Clerk] How can I help you?
1844
01:34:21,580 --> 01:34:24,654
- Hi, I'm here for the auction.
1845
01:34:24,704 --> 01:34:25,704
- You're early.
1846
01:34:25,749 --> 01:34:26,657
- [Gordon] Mm-hmm.
1847
01:34:26,707 --> 01:34:27,741
- Fill one of these out.
1848
01:34:27,791 --> 01:34:29,417
- Thank you.
1849
01:34:29,467 --> 01:34:30,634
Um, thank you.
1850
01:34:42,030 --> 01:34:44,139
- Auction starts at three.
1851
01:34:44,189 --> 01:34:45,189
- Thank you.
1852
01:34:55,794 --> 01:34:57,804
(clears throat)
1853
01:34:57,854 --> 01:34:59,567
- [Gordon] I don't see your picket signs.
1854
01:34:59,617 --> 01:35:01,234
- [Erika] And who the hell are you?
1855
01:35:01,284 --> 01:35:04,692
- Gordon Woodman, the Dean
at Lakeside Christian.
1856
01:35:04,742 --> 01:35:06,798
- You're the son-of-a-bitch who used Dave.
1857
01:35:06,848 --> 01:35:08,798
- Send that kid to the meeting too?
1858
01:35:08,848 --> 01:35:13,475
- From what I hear, Mr. Hopper
kinda did that to himself.
1859
01:35:13,525 --> 01:35:15,775
(chuckles)
1860
01:35:18,567 --> 01:35:21,339
♪ You're so gay ♪
1861
01:35:21,389 --> 01:35:24,759
♪ [All] You probably think
this song is about you ♪
1862
01:35:24,809 --> 01:35:28,059
♪ Don't you, don't you ♪
1863
01:35:29,497 --> 01:35:31,914
(chattering)
1864
01:35:38,662 --> 01:35:40,912
(rumbling)
1865
01:36:20,433 --> 01:36:21,516
- 725 Wabash.
1866
01:36:22,897 --> 01:36:25,197
- Can I say something?
1867
01:36:25,247 --> 01:36:27,440
- But that's not how it works.
1868
01:36:27,490 --> 01:36:28,503
- Sorry.
1869
01:36:28,553 --> 01:36:30,873
- That's not how this works.
1870
01:36:30,923 --> 01:36:34,676
- Okay, so we're probably not gonna get
1871
01:36:34,726 --> 01:36:36,963
what we came here for today,
1872
01:36:37,013 --> 01:36:42,013
and we've all been through
way more than we should have,
1873
01:36:42,030 --> 01:36:45,244
but I know we're stronger because of it.
1874
01:36:45,294 --> 01:36:46,544
I love you all.
1875
01:36:47,433 --> 01:36:49,575
- Well, I'm inspired.
1876
01:36:49,625 --> 01:36:52,225
Let's just start the
bidding at 19,000, shall we?
1877
01:36:52,275 --> 01:36:55,284
- We'll start the bidding at 10,000.
1878
01:36:55,334 --> 01:36:58,662
$10,000, do I hear 10,000?
- Here.
1879
01:36:58,712 --> 01:37:01,249
- [Auctioneer] 10,000, do I hear 15, 15?
1880
01:37:01,299 --> 01:37:02,299
- Here.
1881
01:37:02,349 --> 01:37:04,932
- 15,000, do I hear 20, 20,000?
1882
01:37:05,805 --> 01:37:06,805
- $18,427.
1883
01:37:09,760 --> 01:37:13,177
- [Auctioneer] $18,427, do I hear 20, 25?
1884
01:37:14,054 --> 01:37:15,304
- $50 thousand.
1885
01:37:18,925 --> 01:37:20,214
- [Woman] 52,000.
1886
01:37:20,264 --> 01:37:22,950
- [Auctioneer] 52,000, going once.
1887
01:37:23,000 --> 01:37:24,000
- $60,000!
1888
01:37:25,865 --> 01:37:27,471
- 62,000.
1889
01:37:27,521 --> 01:37:30,066
- 62,000, going once.
- For God's sake.
1890
01:37:30,116 --> 01:37:31,283
$100 thousand.
1891
01:37:38,790 --> 01:37:42,207
- [Auctioneer] $100 thousand, going once.
1892
01:37:43,350 --> 01:37:46,230
$100 thousand, going twice.
1893
01:37:46,280 --> 01:37:48,780
(door clangs)
1894
01:37:50,414 --> 01:37:51,430
- [Dave] Hold on!
1895
01:37:51,480 --> 01:37:52,263
- What's he doing?
1896
01:37:52,313 --> 01:37:53,563
- I don't know.
1897
01:37:54,628 --> 01:37:55,628
- Excuse me.
1898
01:38:01,618 --> 01:38:03,137
Okay.
1899
01:38:03,187 --> 01:38:04,187
Ah.
1900
01:38:05,333 --> 01:38:07,679
All right, can you?
1901
01:38:07,729 --> 01:38:09,316
Okay, thank you.
1902
01:38:09,366 --> 01:38:12,875
All right, I know none of you want
1903
01:38:12,925 --> 01:38:16,083
to hear anything I have to say now,
1904
01:38:16,133 --> 01:38:19,138
but just give me one moment.
1905
01:38:19,188 --> 01:38:20,188
Please.
1906
01:38:22,021 --> 01:38:23,021
All right.
1907
01:38:25,740 --> 01:38:28,449
I know that I have caused each
1908
01:38:28,499 --> 01:38:31,897
and every one of you some sort of pain.
1909
01:38:31,947 --> 01:38:34,447
And I am deeply, deeply sorry.
1910
01:38:39,620 --> 01:38:41,146
I've always measured my success
1911
01:38:41,196 --> 01:38:43,863
based on having all the answers.
1912
01:38:44,888 --> 01:38:45,671
(gentle music)
1913
01:38:45,721 --> 01:38:49,388
And that arrogance has
caused a lot of pain.
1914
01:38:51,894 --> 01:38:54,227
Today, the only thing I know
1915
01:38:56,237 --> 01:38:58,854
is that I don't really know a lot
1916
01:38:58,904 --> 01:39:00,654
about anything, life,
1917
01:39:02,412 --> 01:39:03,662
love, struggle.
1918
01:39:05,929 --> 01:39:08,179
I saw all of you as broken.
1919
01:39:10,522 --> 01:39:12,355
You were never broken.
1920
01:39:14,896 --> 01:39:15,896
I was.
1921
01:39:17,780 --> 01:39:20,407
- I believe we were at sold.
1922
01:39:20,457 --> 01:39:21,957
- Oh, uh, 200,000.
1923
01:39:24,521 --> 01:39:25,731
- [Auctioneer] $200 thousand.
1924
01:39:25,781 --> 01:39:27,186
- You can't be serious.
1925
01:39:27,236 --> 01:39:29,627
You can't even pay your car payments.
1926
01:39:29,677 --> 01:39:31,839
- [Dave] Call it a gift from Aunt Patty.
1927
01:39:31,889 --> 01:39:33,806
- David, don't do this.
1928
01:39:34,758 --> 01:39:37,258
- The bid is at $200 thousand.
1929
01:39:40,122 --> 01:39:42,946
- [Auctioneer] $200 thousand, going once.
1930
01:39:42,996 --> 01:39:44,329
- $400 thousand.
1931
01:39:47,204 --> 01:39:50,204
(melancholy music)
1932
01:39:50,254 --> 01:39:52,671
- [Auctioneer] $400 thousand.
1933
01:39:53,723 --> 01:39:55,890
$400 thousand, going once.
1934
01:39:58,264 --> 01:40:00,514
$400 thousand, going twice.
1935
01:40:04,832 --> 01:40:06,499
$400 thousand, sold.
1936
01:40:29,269 --> 01:40:30,436
- Hey, Alyssa.
1937
01:40:32,497 --> 01:40:34,580
Hey, could I have a ride?
1938
01:40:35,972 --> 01:40:37,124
(Alyssa sighs)
1939
01:40:37,174 --> 01:40:38,937
- That was really nice
what you did back there,
1940
01:40:38,987 --> 01:40:40,971
but we're not okay.
1941
01:40:41,021 --> 01:40:42,289
- Yeah, I know.
1942
01:40:42,339 --> 01:40:45,416
But Patty left you something.
1943
01:40:45,466 --> 01:40:46,966
It's at her house.
1944
01:40:51,626 --> 01:40:52,626
- Get in.
1945
01:41:00,788 --> 01:41:03,538
(birds chirping)
1946
01:41:07,977 --> 01:41:09,894
- Come on, it's inside.
1947
01:41:13,967 --> 01:41:16,634
(keys jingling)
1948
01:41:21,615 --> 01:41:22,865
One more thing.
1949
01:41:24,113 --> 01:41:25,946
You gotta put this on.
1950
01:41:32,402 --> 01:41:34,051
- This is getting weird.
1951
01:41:34,101 --> 01:41:35,518
- It's not weird.
1952
01:41:39,281 --> 01:41:40,155
Almost there.
1953
01:41:40,205 --> 01:41:41,538
- [Alyssa] Okay.
1954
01:41:44,020 --> 01:41:45,275
- Okay.
1955
01:41:45,325 --> 01:41:46,135
Stay right here.
1956
01:41:46,185 --> 01:41:47,185
- Okay.
1957
01:41:53,521 --> 01:41:55,669
- [Dave] You can take it off now.
1958
01:41:55,719 --> 01:41:56,714
- I don't know. I'm
kinda getting used to it.
1959
01:41:56,764 --> 01:41:57,547
- [Dave] Just take it off.
1960
01:41:57,597 --> 01:41:58,597
- Okay.
1961
01:42:02,077 --> 01:42:03,715
(laughs)
1962
01:42:03,765 --> 01:42:05,246
Frank.
1963
01:42:05,296 --> 01:42:07,629
She wanted to give me Frank.
1964
01:42:09,210 --> 01:42:11,793
(gentle music)
1965
01:42:19,126 --> 01:42:20,797
The Ryan Home?
1966
01:42:20,847 --> 01:42:22,014
- [Dave] Yeah.
1967
01:42:24,787 --> 01:42:27,478
- (crying) The Ryan Home?
1968
01:42:27,528 --> 01:42:30,609
- [Dave] Ryan's dream, here.
1969
01:42:30,659 --> 01:42:31,659
Now.
1970
01:42:33,149 --> 01:42:35,164
- Is this real?
1971
01:42:35,214 --> 01:42:35,997
- [Dave] Patty left me the house,
1972
01:42:36,047 --> 01:42:38,399
she said fill it with love,
1973
01:42:38,449 --> 01:42:40,972
you're the most loving people I know.
1974
01:42:41,022 --> 01:42:43,105
(crying)
1975
01:42:46,961 --> 01:42:48,991
- The Ryan Home.
1976
01:42:49,041 --> 01:42:50,041
- Hell yes.
1977
01:42:52,435 --> 01:42:53,685
- It's perfect.
1978
01:42:57,228 --> 01:42:59,229
I won't disappoint her.
1979
01:42:59,279 --> 01:43:00,279
I promise.
1980
01:43:19,097 --> 01:43:20,113
- Hey look what I made
1981
01:43:20,163 --> 01:43:22,439
for my favorite people
in the entire universe.
1982
01:43:22,489 --> 01:43:23,272
Hand-crafted.
1983
01:43:23,322 --> 01:43:25,588
All natural, chocolate chip cookies.
1984
01:43:25,638 --> 01:43:28,005
(chattering)
1985
01:43:30,141 --> 01:43:31,593
- The most important part
1986
01:43:31,643 --> 01:43:34,233
about being a 60 minute man
1987
01:43:34,283 --> 01:43:36,804
is step three, the rubbing.
1988
01:43:36,854 --> 01:43:38,614
A lot of guys don't understand that,
1989
01:43:38,664 --> 01:43:41,247
so let me show you what I mean.
1990
01:43:45,209 --> 01:43:49,170
♪ Oh happy gay, oh happy gay ♪
1991
01:43:49,220 --> 01:43:53,414
♪ Oh happy gay, oh happy gay ♪
1992
01:43:53,464 --> 01:43:56,916
♪ The LGBT, oh happy gay ♪
(doorbell ringing)
1993
01:43:56,966 --> 01:43:59,799
♪ I said the LGBT ♪
1994
01:44:01,786 --> 01:44:02,684
- [Alyssa] Charley?
1995
01:44:02,734 --> 01:44:04,401
I'm Alyssa, come in.
1996
01:44:05,469 --> 01:44:08,903
Glad you made it.
(triumphant music)
1997
01:44:08,953 --> 01:44:10,870
Let me show you around.
1998
01:44:25,802 --> 01:44:28,052
(knocking)
1999
01:44:30,149 --> 01:44:31,615
Dave, this is Charley.
2000
01:44:31,665 --> 01:44:33,493
- Charley, I'm glad you're here.
2001
01:44:33,543 --> 01:44:35,126
Nice to meet you.
2002
01:44:36,023 --> 01:44:37,273
- Welcome home.
2003
01:44:50,884 --> 01:44:53,467
(gentle music)
2004
01:45:11,353 --> 01:45:14,401
♪ Hey Jesus can you hear me now ♪
2005
01:45:14,451 --> 01:45:17,388
♪ It's been awhile since I came out ♪
2006
01:45:17,438 --> 01:45:22,438
♪ I was wonderin' do
you love me the same ♪
2007
01:45:24,812 --> 01:45:28,914
♪ You see I've loved
you since I was young ♪
2008
01:45:28,964 --> 01:45:32,015
♪ Tried to be the greatest son ♪
2009
01:45:32,065 --> 01:45:37,065
♪ Now I'm wonderin' could
they love me the same ♪
2010
01:45:39,389 --> 01:45:43,043
♪ 'Cause I know that
I could never change ♪
2011
01:45:43,093 --> 01:45:46,966
♪ I tried so hard and
brought so much pain ♪
2012
01:45:47,016 --> 01:45:52,016
♪ And I just wanna be loved for who I am ♪
2013
01:45:53,965 --> 01:45:57,676
♪ I know that I could never change ♪
2014
01:45:57,726 --> 01:46:01,465
♪ I tried so hard and
brought so much pain ♪
2015
01:46:01,515 --> 01:46:06,515
♪ And I just wanna be loved for who I am ♪
2016
01:46:08,959 --> 01:46:13,959
♪ I just wanna be loved ♪
2017
01:46:15,168 --> 01:46:20,168
♪ For who I am ♪
2018
01:46:24,113 --> 01:46:26,985
♪ Hey Jesus can you hear me out ♪
2019
01:46:27,035 --> 01:46:30,218
♪ I just want to love like everyone else ♪
2020
01:46:30,268 --> 01:46:35,268
♪ I was wonderin' since
you made me this way ♪
2021
01:46:38,588 --> 01:46:41,735
♪ Do you want me to fall in love ♪
2022
01:46:41,785 --> 01:46:46,785
♪ To know what it's like
to love someone else ♪
2023
01:46:47,796 --> 01:46:52,196
♪ In the most intimate way ♪
2024
01:46:52,246 --> 01:46:55,867
♪ 'Cause I know that
I could never change ♪
2025
01:46:55,917 --> 01:46:59,458
♪ I tried so hard, brought so much pain ♪
2026
01:46:59,508 --> 01:47:04,508
♪ And I just wanna be loved for who I am ♪
2027
01:47:07,028 --> 01:47:10,378
♪ I know that I could never change ♪
2028
01:47:10,428 --> 01:47:13,977
♪ I tried so hard, brought so much pain ♪
2029
01:47:14,027 --> 01:47:19,027
♪ And I just wanna be loved for who I am ♪
2030
01:47:21,770 --> 01:47:26,770
♪ I just wanna be loved ♪
2031
01:47:27,844 --> 01:47:30,427
♪ For who I am ♪
2032
01:48:05,920 --> 01:48:08,937
♪ Hey Jesus can you hear me out ♪
2033
01:48:08,987 --> 01:48:12,195
♪ I just wanna love like everyone else ♪
2034
01:48:12,245 --> 01:48:17,245
♪ I was wonderin' could
you love me the same ♪
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