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For you, what is the meaning of love?

For me...

Uhm...

Give respect to your partner,

and give him time,

so he will not seek it from someone else.

Hmm...

Love?

I still don't know what love is for others,

but for me, love is...

when you communicate and support each other,

your relationship will go well and you'll be happy.

Well...

That's what I think love is.

Love?

Love is...

When you accept everything about your partner,

everything bad about him and everything good about him,

I think that's love.

Is sex important in your life?

Very important.

Why?

That makes your relationship much deeper.

Wow!

This is so nice!

- We're staying here? - Yes, honey!

It's our honeymoon...

Hey, isn't this expensive?

Don't worry.

Of course, it's our honeymoon,

so it should be special.

Hey!

Hey, let's do it later!

Hey, let's do it later...

For you, is physical love important?

Why?

Yes.

Why is it important?

So he can feel your love.

Shit!

How do you decide if you love someone?

Do you decide based on sex?

Or...

Is it based on emotional love?

Well...

There's the part about communication.

If you decide based only on sex without communication,

you won't be able to handle the relationship.

Well...

Love is more important. I think.

Kara?

Kara?

Marvin?

Hey, Marvin is that you?

What are you doing here?

This is my husband...

It's our honeymoon!

Maybe you can take us around?

Oh, he's your husband?

Kenji.

Are you free?

Yes I'm free, I'm not busy right now.

So, let's go?

- Let's go! - Come on!

How did you end up here in Japan?

Because my father is here.

My stepdad is here.

That's why I came to Japan.

What's your job again? You're a "Man for Hire?"

Yeah, it's like this...

You can rent me to accompany you anywhere you like.

Or just to keep you company.

There are a lot of lonely Japanese people.

So I keep them company.

You make good money?

It's not bad...

- Maybe in a day at least 30 thousand yen? - Wow!

And if they're really satisfied 50,000 yen.

In a day.

Wow, that's a big deal!

Not really, I've got so much expenses.

Is that all that keeps you busy?

For now, yeah. Because...

I like skateboarding, and snowboarding...

I just do it in my free time.

When I run out of money.

So whereabouts do you live?

Near Ueno, I live near Ueno.

Hmm...

Max, you're an engineer, right?

What kind of engineer?

Civil, bro...

Wow, civil engineer!

You must make a lot of money!

That's how you could afford to rent this unit.

Kenji?

Why did you change your name to Kenji?

Aren't you Marvin?

Well, it's because my stepdad adopted me.

So I changed my name to Kenji.

I'm not Marvin anymore.

Oh, that's why....

[sighs]

Good for you, you were able to move abroad.

- Not really... - Me, all I do is work.

I've always wanted to move to some other country.

- What do you wanna do? - Shit! I can't even do it.

I can't even take a leave.

- Hmm... - All I do is work.

I totally envy you, bro.

- You're in a better place. - Why do you say that?

You don't need to envy me.

Wait, why did you stop drinking?

Well... I think I'm good.

I'm getting sleepy.

- Shit... - Do you still want more?

Bottoms up, bro...

Hey Kenji...

It's getting late.

You probably already missed the last train.

I know, I'll probably just take a taxi home.

But taxi fare is so expensive.

Then why don't you just stay here?

There's another room upstairs...

Are you sure?

I don't want to bother you two...

Especially Max...

But sure!

I'll just take the first train tomorrow.

Kenji.

- Kenji. - Hmm?

Hey, Kenji!

Hey!

What are you doing here?

I can't sleep.

You should be with Max!

Why, don't you miss me?

But you two just got married!

Huh?

So what?

No, it's not like that.

Of course, I missed you too. But...

Max is a nice guy...

Let him be, he's just sleeping.

Hey!

What are you doing?

Why? Don't you want to?

No, it's not like that!

Max is such a nice guy!

So what?

I knew it, you're gay!

I'm not gay! What are you talking about?

All our classmates told me you're gay, now I know!

Hey, what are you doing here?

Obviously, we need to talk.

You're a "Man For Hire", right?

Well, here's ten thousand yen!

Take off your pants...

Here's 20 thousand yen...

Here's 30 thousand yen...

- Kara, please. - Here's 40 thousand yen...

That's already 50 thousand yen!

Kara...

I'm not a prostitute!

How dare you...

You're already paid for.

Just lie down.

Son of a bitch!

Bullshit!

Hurry, just go!

Hey, you guys!

You're swimming and didn't even invite me?

Alright...

I'll join you guys.

Looks like you're having fun here!

Babe, you woke up?

Son of a bitch! Who is this?

Do you think physical love is important?

Why?

Physical love?

Physical love is...

Very important...

But...

Love is more important, I think.

Kenji, what are you doing?

Tanya, wait a minute!

What do you mean? Who is this bitch?

Who the hell are you?

Come here, you bitch!

I said, come here!

What are you doing, and who is this bitch?

- She's just a friend. - What do you mean friend?

- Wait a minute! - Wait what?

- I said wait! - I don't need your explanation.

It's very obvious. I've been texting you!

That's why...

How come you never replied?

Because we were talking.

Because I've been working.

Working? You call this working?

Is this what you call work? You're an animal!

You're an animal!

- I'll explain... - I don't need your explanation!

- Why? - Are you kidding me?

What are you doing with a man and a woman? You're disgusting!

- That's what I'm trying to explain! - You call this a job?

Who are you?

How did you even get in here?

I saw it on the GPS that you were here!

But that's not important now!

You're an animal! Who are you?

- You bitch! - Wait a minute... wait a minute!

I said wait a minute!

I said, let me explain!

I don't understand what's going on here!

That's why!

You always get angry so quickly!

Who are you?

What are you doing here and how did you get in?

I should be asking you that. That guy is my boyfriend!

- Who are you? - That's my wife!

That's my boyfriend!

Will you please stop? Stop it!

Let me explain, please calm down!

Let's talk. Just calm down.

I can't.

Kenji, how can you do this?

Just please calm down.

- I can't calm down! - I said, let me explain!

But first, please calm down.

I can't explain if you don't calm down...

Calm down...

Are you okay?

Have you calmed down?

Please explain.

Okay, I'll explain.

But if I talk in Japanese they won't understand.

So I'll explain in Tagalog.

Let me speak in Tagalog,

so you guys can understand.

Please do. You've been speaking Japanese all through out.

We don't understand anything.

I'm sorry.

Can someone explain what's happening here?

We're on our honeymoon.

Then I bumped into them on the street.

This is Kara.

She's my ex-girlfriend.

Your ex?

But I didn't expect to see her.

But how did you end up like this?

- We were all drunk... It's a long story. - It's a long story.

It's a long story.

Calm down.

I'm sorry.

I'm so sorry.

Please understand.

It's okay, it's okay.

Just stop crying.

I'm sorry.

Tanya, please forgive me!

- Tanya. - It's okay, it's okay.

I'm sorry.

Let's say you might be perfect.

But I feel something is missing.

Maybe...

Maybe, I found in her what I wanted.

What do you want?

I can't explain it!

Is this what you want?

If this is what you want, then I will give it to you.

I just don't want to lose you!

I'm really sorry.

I'm sorry.

What was your biggest regret about someone you really loved?

Yes, there's someone...

Well...

I was very stupid...

But she still continued to support me...

No matter how many times I made mistakes.

She always forgave me.

She always understood me.

If I could talk to her right now...

If I could say one thing...

forgive me for wasting your life away on me.

I want to say, I'm really sorry.

If you had a chance to talk to someone you really loved,

what would you tell him right now?

Perhaps we could correct all the mistakes we made,

and maybe try

to fix everything that we have broken.

That's all.

What is your biggest regret

about someone you really loved?

That I gave him all of me.

Why do you regret that?

Because at that time...

There was almost nothing left of me.

Is physical love important?

Why?

For me, sex is, of course,

It is a form of communication beyond talking.

That's how you feel

your partner's love.

That's why I like

physical love in a relationship.

Do you decide love for someone

based on how you're satisfied with sex with that someone?

From my experience,

I've never had anyone like that.

Is there someone you can never forget

because you enjoyed the sex so much?

Hmm...

I don't think so... no one.

Have you ever had sex without love?

Yes I have, but...

As expected, I was never satisfied.

Have you ever loved someone even without sex?

Never.

Have you ever had sex without love?

No, I haven't tried.

Have you ever loved someone without sex?

Not yet.

Have you ever had sex without love?

Of course.

No matter how...

I mean, if there's no love,

if you don't feel any love,

you won't know how to please your partner

then you can never enjoy sex together.

so after you have an orgasm, it doesn't really feel good.

Is there someone you'll never forget

because you enjoyed the sex so much?

Well, there was one.

Why did you break up?

Well, because I cheated on her.

Whose fault was it?

No, it was my fault.

I met a cute girl,

we dated and slept together,

we got caught...

And that was the end of it.

Please define love.

Love?

Love is...

I think love is when...

you learn to accept both the good and the bad in your partner.

I think that's love.

If you had a chance to talk

to the only person you ever loved,

what would you tell him right now?

Thank you for everything.

I'm so grateful.

Do you want to say something?

Anything? About sex and love?

Is there a difference between sex and love?

Almost the same for me.

Babe, Japan is so nice, isn't it?

It really is.

Don't worry.

We'll come back here next year.

I feel like I want to live here.

It's so expensive here!

Next time, we'll just extend our vacation here.

Maybe for two weeks, babe.

But maybe if you find a job here,

I think we can do it... we can live here.

Well, we can think about it.

But for now...

Maybe we'll just extend our vacation.

Surely, we'll come back here next year.

I feel like life is so much easier here.

If you ask me, I'd rather live here.

Maybe you're just getting carried away, babe.

Maybe once a year,

we can go back to Japan for vacation.

Besides, think about it.

If we stay here...

our future kids

will most probably speak Japanese.

I have a hard time understanding Japanese.

And babe,

I just can't leave my job in Manila.

As for me, babe... I think I'll just stay here.

I'll ask Kenji

to help me find an apartment.

I'm sure there's a cheap apartment I can rent here.

Babe...

But what about me?

How come you never showed up until now?

You know... I've waited for you for so long.

Max loves you.

But like I said,

you're the one I love.

We're not meant to be.

Which is more important?

The feeling of love?

Or physical love?

Both...

Why?

Because that's how you will feel...

the real meaning of love.