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I'm hanging out at a beautiful mansion.
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Inside, right now, real, attractive
couples are sleeping with whomever they
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and loving every second of it.
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That's right.
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They're swingers.
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And they're all convinced that this
lifestyle is the key to a loving, long
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-lasting relationship.
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You're about to meet a couple who's
ready to find out if swinging is right
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them. Take a look at this video.
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Hi, we're Amanda and Daniel living in
Topanga Canyon, and we're looking for a
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little adventure.
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We want to come to the swing house
because we're definitely curious about
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potential of being with other people.
We're both very open -minded, and we
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perceive this as being a problem in our
relationship.
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Hopefully, we're going to walk away from
it with some... really amazing
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memories, and we take our relationship
to another level.
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So, I've arranged for Amanda and Daniel
to join the no boundaries, no limits,
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swing party happening inside this house
right now. And from there, who knows?
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Will they jump in and swing like they've
been doing it for years?
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Or will it all be too much for them?
What will they have to say about it in
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morning? I'm Anna David. Hold on tight.
It is time to swing.
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It's crazy.
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I can't believe we're doing this. I
mean, either. But we've talked about it
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so long. It's been a long time in the
coming.
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As Daniel and I are riding in the limo,
we have no idea what to expect.
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A new experience for us.
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Off on another crazy adventure.
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Yeah, right?
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I've kind of been in denial for the past
couple days that this isn't really
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happening. Now here I am sitting in the
limo holding Daniel's hand. He looks
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nervous. You know, our palms are
sweating, and we're both really excited
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definitely nervous.
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A little apprehensive.
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Yeah, me too, but it'll be okay. As long
as we're together, it'll be fine.
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Amanda and I are embarking on this
sexual adventure together, and, you
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she's really nervous. We were...
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This far.
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We're this far from just bailing on the
whole thing. But we rallied, and we kind
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of looked into each other, and this is
something we've been talking about for a
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long time, and I think it's something we
both really want to experience.
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Here we are.
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You excited?
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I'm excited. Yeah? Yeah.
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Hello. Hello.
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Hi. I'm Anna. I'm Amanda. Nice to meet
you, Amanda. You must be Daniel.
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Yes. So this is a big step you guys are
taking today, kind of something entirely
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new. Oh, yeah. Definitely.
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How are you feeling about it?
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Got some butterflies going, yeah. Good.
That's to be expected. I'm excited. I
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like that you're nervous, but excited
too? Absolutely.
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Yeah, definitely.
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Well, there's just a couple things we
need to take care of, so why don't you
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come in the house with me? Okay,
wonderful.
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Come on.
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is what you make of it. We often say
people come in for the sex but stay for
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friendship. At the end of the day, it is
about each other.
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It just lets you be who you are, and it
doesn't matter if you have sex or not.
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Just being in a sexually free
environment is liberating.
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All right, so how are you guys doing
now?
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I'm definitely still a little bit
nervous, but I'm really excited to start
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meeting. And the other couple.
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Well, I think they're probably pretty
excited to make the movie. How about
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Daniel? I'm super curious. Yeah. Well,
it's getting a little more real as we
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closer. Oh, yeah. I've been in denial up
until about... Until about 10 seconds
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ago? Yeah.
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Well, so, you know, have you guys talked
about what your arrangements are?
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Yeah. Same room is one of the most
important ones. That one I don't think
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be changing at all throughout the course
of this. We're not interested in
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separate room interactions at all.
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The rules Amanda and I have going into
this are we're doing it together, and
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things can get out of hand if we're not
together and supporting each other. It's
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very easy for guys, especially, to get
carried away in this situation.
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We're going into it with the intention
of, you know, not having a full swap.
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We're kind of open more to a soft swap.
I see.
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At the same time, we're...
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ready to roll with it. And if we're
feeling it and, you know, both of us
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move forward, then, you know, we're
willing to do that.
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What we're comfortable with at this
point is doing a soft swap where, you
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I have sex with the girl and the guys
watch or they touch us. But at this
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we're not committed to a full swap,
although we're open to it. I mean, we
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want to keep the lines of communication
open in our relationship. And if the
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heat of the moment, if we're feeling it,
then we can discuss that with each
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other and we can take it there.
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I have a contract here for you to sign,
and the contract just basically explains
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that you're going to do whatever you
want for the allotted time.
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We have agreed to take part in a sexual
adventure over the next two days during
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which all the normal rules of a
monogamous relationship will be
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aside. I would cross out during which
all of the normal rules of a monogamous
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relationship, cross out the all and put
some, because not all of the normal
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rules are going to be set aside. Right,
because you are agreeing to be in the
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same room.
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Yeah. of the normal rule.
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The contract is a free pass to do
whatever we want over the next two days.
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promise not to hold what happens here
against each other once the adventure is
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over. And just sign your name at the
bottom.
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Happy birthday, baby.
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Is today your birthday?
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Yes, it is.
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Why the present?
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It is. Dealing with the devil.
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Okay.
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I'm going to hold on to this for you
guys.
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So now it's time for you to go get
changed, check out your room.
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I think there are some other couples
here who are kind of excited to meet you
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guys.
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Go have fun. All right. All right. You
ready, baby? I'm ready.
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Wow. Wow.
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It's huge.
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It is.
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I'm looking around my room and I'm
thinking, this is huge. I mean, this is
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the size of our entire house.
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Are you ready to go get ready?
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You want to take the first shower?
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All right.
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I grew up in an extremely Christian
conservative household where I was
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encouraged in any way to explore my
sexuality.
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So it's making me feel very nervous
about this experience.
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I am
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hoping to meet another couple that I
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really, really resonate with.
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That's really important to me.
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I really have to like the person
underneath the body to want to have sex
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them.
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Now,
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all
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of a sudden, the butterflies kick in.
I'm really, really nervous.
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A little less nervous, a little more
excited.
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I don't know. I think once we meet them,
it'll really change the dynamic, and it
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won't be nearly as awkward of a feeling,
you know? I agree.
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I'm contemplating running at this point.
I have no idea what I'm about to walk
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into. This is like walking into the
lion's den.
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But at the same time, I am still
excited, and I'm still committed to
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through this experience.
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Meeting new people for the first time is
really, really nerve -wracking. You get
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out and you meet these couples, and it's
really, really uncomfortable the first
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meeting. Is that the right husband and
wife?
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Are they going to be compatible with us?
Yeah, you never know if you're going to
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have chemistry.
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It's like dating all over again.
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Going into the bar, we were definitely
nervous. This was like the moment of
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truth. There was all this buildup for
days and weeks.
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As we came down to the end of the hall
and saw all these couples waiting for
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it was a relief to see that we were
dealing with real people here.
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Hello. I'm Nicoletta.
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Hi, I'm Amanda. Nice to meet you.
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I'm Ashley.
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Nice to meet you.
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Right off the bat, Giselle caught my
eye.
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Like, she's a sexy little thing. She had
everything I was looking for. And I
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knew without even asking that Amanda was
right on the same page with me.
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I see Giselle for the first time.
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Immediately inside of me, I felt that
rush of instant attraction.
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Just the way that she looked me right in
the eye and smiled, there was just kind
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of an instant spark.
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Giselle is definitely my type.
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So what kind of boundaries do you guys
have as couples? We don't have too many
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boundaries. No guy on guy stuff. We're
full swap, same room.
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Yeah, it has to be same room. Same room,
yeah. We've been together a long time,
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and we will not play without one
another. No, that's just not our thing.
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not at that level yet, of course.
There's always growing stages, but we're
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not there.
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We're at the point where we don't really
have boundaries anymore.
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Not a lot of boundaries. Or not a lot of
boundaries.
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Don't touch my feet because I'm
ticklish.
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Having conversation with the other
veteran couples, it's making me feel a
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bit more comfortable about the dynamic
of being in a flinging type
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Today is actually my birthday.
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And so I'm turning 24 today.
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Guys, talk about any crazy fantasies
that you might have.
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I love the thought of watching her get
down with another girl.
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I want
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to get tied up.
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I have always had the fantasy of being
tied up. And, you know, it's never
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come to fruition. Hopefully that's where
the night leads us. You know, if one of
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you wants to experiment with something,
the other one's a little iffy about it.
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Maybe let it happen.
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With us, it's all about, you know, I
mean, like, you can really feel out
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with people, too. You know what I mean?
That's, like, the biggest way not to
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cross the line, I think, with a lot of
people, you know? I don't know. I think
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the best way to not cross the line is to
be clear.
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Giselle's partner, Josh, has struck me
as a little bit abrasive just in the
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first moment. Just in that instant, I
didn't have that same connection that I
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had with her. I didn't find him as
physically attractive, and at the same
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Daniel and I had made an agreement not
to go full swap, so I still see them as
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couple that could work fine in the
dynamic that Daniel and I have set for
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other.
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Hey, hey, you guys want to go play a
game in the next room?
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So we're going to play bunny dots.
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You start this off, and I'll spin it.
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and whatever it says, right hand, left
hand, put it on the dot. If you fall,
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have to take off some clothes. Deal?
Deal, no deal?
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Deal. We are now going to play bunny
dots, which I have no idea what that is,
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and I'm not totally sure how I feel
about getting naked in front of all
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different people. I am a little bit
uncomfortable about playing, so it's
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to be really interesting.
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Ready?
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Right hand yellow.
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Left hand blue.
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Left hand, red.
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Left hand, green.
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I can deal with this. You can deal with
that.
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Ashley,
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right hand, green.
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All the
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guys are trying to make me fall down. I
got Billy on one side, like, bouncing
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his butt on me. And I got Early, like,
picking his fingers up in my feet,
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to make me, like, ticklish.
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Left hand blue.
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Right foot blue.
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Oh,
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she's down.
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She's down.
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Right foot green.
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I don't think he's going to win.
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I've never thought that I would be
capable of pushing those boundaries.
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I was surprised, but proud of myself.
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But I was definitely surprised.
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Left foot red.
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Holy shit.
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Yeah! Put your green hand backwards
along the belt of your leg towards the
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one. Why? Ashley got to go this way last
time. Ashley, right foot, right foot,
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left foot. All right.
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Everybody's going to be tired for a
second after a game like this. Yeah,
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a battle of attrition.
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Both ways.
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Ah!
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Dual winners, you get whatever you want
from whoever you want.
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Amanda,
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what would you like?
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I have no idea what I want.
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I don't know. I think I need another
drink first.
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Amanda's prize is another cocktail.
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Honestly, I need a little break.
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That was pretty hot, and it was fun
watching you guys.
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I only lost one article at closing. Have
either one of you ever been, like,
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jealous at all?
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Oh, yeah, we both have.
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experience jealousy but what's been so
great about our relationship is that
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when we feel that we're able to talk
about it you know and if i start to feel
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uncomfortable or feel left out i let him
know so you guys are halfway over the
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hurdle already it's a really difficult
thing to let someone that you you know
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hold just so dear to you to give that
person to someone else is i mean that's
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that's scary it's like you know you
gotta you gotta set your ego aside
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jealousy and just all this other stuff
that starts coming up.
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Yeah, when we started, I was very
jealous. I realized that there's a
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between just having sex, just fucking,
and loving someone and having
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romantic, intimate relationships.
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I kind of imagined that the residents
weren't going to be as real as they
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that they were all going to be couples
without a real care about whether or not
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the person they're with is sleeping with
someone else. I was pleasantly
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surprised to find that they were all
extremely genuine people.
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And I'm interested to see how far we
take it or how far we feel comfortable
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taking it. I mean, my desire to not
engage in sex with another man at this
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point. isn't about jealousy, at least
for me. It's more about the fact that
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is a way of becoming intimate with a
person.
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And whether it's with a girl or a man,
it's something about them that I like
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that I want to give them pleasure
because of who they are.
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That mental hang -up of, like, you know,
seeing Dana with another girl, is this
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going to work for me? Am I going to be
really upset? Or just being worried,
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like, is Dana going to start liking her
more than me?
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Or, you know, is this going to cause us
to break up? Whatever happens, we wish
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you guys good luck. Yeah.
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Ah, taking one for the team, huh?
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Yeah. You don't ever do that, do you?
Yeah, no.
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There's never a reason to settle.
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It's hard to find a couple that's, you
know, the guy's exactly what you're
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looking for and the girl's exactly what
I'm looking for and she is exactly what
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you're looking for as well.
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Yeah, but then you just keep looking.
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I've had to take one for the team
because obviously we've never had a guy
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that you've had to take one for the team
on, right?
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I don't think so. I don't remember.
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Have you had an opportunity to talk to
Amanda yet and feel out who you're
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feeling the most? I mean, like, and you
don't have to tell me. I'm just
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wondering. No, I'll tell you. Like,
she's definitely, she's feeling your
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big bit.
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You know, I've only, I'm, you know, I'm
so new still that it's hard to grasp
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and explain everything.
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Now that I've had my first experience,
like, I'm really glad, you know, I got
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it. And it's, like, now I, like, kind of
understand, like, more about it.
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Because there's so much, like, it's so
deep, kind of, in a way.
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Some people, some people just want to
fuck or whatever. But it seems like to
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most couples, they want to actually
have, like, a connection.
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Yeah. And that's, like, really
important, you know. That's definitely
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for me at least, that I need with a
person. Because for me...
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Whether it's a man or a woman, it's
about having a connection with them.
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And then even if it's not love, but just
like, I like who you are, I like the
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resonance between us, and I want to give
you pleasure because I like who you are
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as a person.
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I feel totally comfortable with her from
the beginning.
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And I can tell right away that she's not
the kind of girl that is just like, oh,
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you're hot, let's have sex.
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Like, when I walked into the room and
met all of you guys, you were the first
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person I felt a really strong attraction
to.
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And it was more than the fact that
you're obviously a beautiful girl. It
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just the fact that I felt like we would
get along on a lot of other levels.
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For sure.
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I definitely felt that, too. I'm not 100
% there yet with your guy, though.
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She's pretty much feeling more just your
girl, not so much the whole... Well,
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you know what? If me be, though,
tonight...
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We have a little room off to the side,
you know, like we can all go over there.
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You know what I mean? I can take a seat.
You can take a seat. We can let them
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talk. We can all talk.
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We weren't feeling Josh as much right
off the bat, but we're going into it
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the expectation of only going for a soft
swap.
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I'm really optimistic that it's going to
go well.
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I would like to kiss you right now.
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I would like to kiss you too.
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I think you're really beautiful just
now.
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Well, I think you're really beautiful,
too. Yeah.
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You guys are like... Guys, we've got to
get ready for tonight.
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Time to get ready for tonight.
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It's about time to get sexy, ladies.
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I really like Amanda.
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I think she's so cute.
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I think she's... I think we relate on so
many levels.
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I'd really love to get to talk to her a
little more and maybe, like, we already
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kissed. I don't know if you know that,
but we kissed already.
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And it was nice.
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Are you clicking with any girls?
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I'm clicking with Giselle.
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I am.
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Yeah. I mean, I think all the girls are
great. Don't get me wrong. I think so,
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too. Yeah. But I would put her at the
top of my list.
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Your list as well. Yeah.
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Yeah, we like the same thing. Isn't that
great?
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Daniel actually mentioned to me that
he'd really like them.
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Well, I guess not one -on -one, but two
-on -two time just to get to know us.
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Asked them what their selection was, and
they said that we were their top pick.
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Really? Yeah, that's exciting.
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That's really cool.
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I definitely like them. I think they
seem like they could be a lot of fun. I
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don't really know what they have in
store for us yet, but whatever it is.
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I think I would be really comfortable
swinging with them.
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It's your birthday.
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It's all about you today.
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So let's get you a beautiful woman to
make some sweet love to. And, you know,
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I think it's awesome to get to watch
something like that for a chance.
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So that's, you know, I'm happy.
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So tonight's theme is Pimpin' Ho Night.
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Costume parties are always fun. It's
always an interesting thing to see how
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people take that theme and where they
take it to. So I'm sure it's going to be
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fun regardless of what happens.
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Yeah. What do you think, baby?
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Damn, you look good in leopard.
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And we match.
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Going to our first lifestyle party, I
was kind of...
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Kind of nervous, but we were both on the
same page as far as knowing. Trying it
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out, right. Yeah, trying it out and
knowing what we were getting into.
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Yeah. Maybe on a different page than
other people.
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Right. Most people seem to not know.
Yeah. Most people seem to not have a
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as to what swinging means. Yeah. And we
just kind of, you know, went in. We'll
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beat.
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I have always been really interested in
role play. Again, it's not something
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that Daniel and I have really
experienced together. He is kind of a
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more like the quiet reserve type, but I
love to dress up. Oh, man.
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Welcome. Hey.
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Hey.
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And does everybody know it's Amanda's
birthday?
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Bad news is, like, we don't have a cake
or a candle or anything else, but we
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kind of think you might find something
else to blow.
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So, may I propose a toast to new friends
and a night you'll never forget.
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So, you guys, have a great night.
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I'll see you in the morning. I'll be
back to check in.
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catalyst for the night's event, I was
surprised that she kind of took things
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right away. I mean, we hadn't even been
down there very long when she walked up
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with this black bondage tape.
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And I was like, oh, really?
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Okay. It's not sticky at all. Yeah, but
it sticks to itself.
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Are you all blushing?
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Oh, shucks. Would you like to come with
me?
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Okay.
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I guess I'm going to stay.
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You tell me when it's not okay.
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Okay. Or you have to tell me you like,
you don't like.
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She's leading me into the living room,
and I'm definitely nervous. I've never
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done this before. I don't know what the
hell I'm thinking.
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I'm going to blame it on the vodka.
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If you're going to lay down.
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Not being able to like, you know, you're
like going crazy with pleasure, but you
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can't do anything about it because
you're tied up. I don't know. I've
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that fantasy.
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I guess part of the like submissive in
me wanting to be dominated by, you know,
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a man. I'd always imagine it being with
a man, but, you know, I'm not opposed to
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it being with women either.
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Is this okay? Comfortable?
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Okay. And now I'm going to have you hold
her leg.
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How do you like it?
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Okay.
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It's my girl's birthday.
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I want to see her get what she came here
for.
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Everything else for me is just a plus.
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She's like very sensually running her
hands lightly over my body, and the
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sensation is just amazing.
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It feels so good. And the fact that I'm
blindfolded and tied just kind of just
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amplifies the senses.
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you know, like tenfold. Like everything
just becomes so much more intense.
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You want more?
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Mm -hmm.
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Is there another room we should go in?
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Oh, okay.
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Would you like to go in there? Yeah,
let's go.
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Ooh.
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I like being tied up.
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Yeah. Ew.
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Goodness, I feel... That was a nice
little preview. Yeah.
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I definitely feel pretty proud of myself
that I was able to go so far so quickly
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and still feel so comfortable.
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I mean, I'm here and I'm committed and
I'm ready to explore this.
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As we enter the bread room, you know,
I'm struck by how sensual it is. I mean,
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there's red velvet everywhere, and the
whole thing is just mattresses and
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pillows and treasure chests of play toys
and, you know, tables with candles and
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lube everywhere. I mean, it's kind of a
perfect setup, quite honestly.
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It is very sensual. That's what I like
about it. Woo!
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Comfortable. It was so fun! I know!
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We are...
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Taking it from where we left it up
there. Oh, wow. That's sexy. That's hot.
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That is sexy. Oh, that is hot. Okay.
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Happy birthday to Amanda.
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Oh, happy girl.
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We're in another world right now.
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Good one.
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What is that? What is that right here?
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We need four people, everybody to hold.
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That's a lot more vulnerable.
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Yeah.
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Just to have three beautiful women
catching me at the same time, such a
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vulnerable place to be that, you know,
once I made the decision to really just
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let go and enjoy the experience.
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It was completely erotic.
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I was looking away.
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There it goes.
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being stimulated by God knows who at
this point. I never thought that I would
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able to orgasm that quickly, especially
in a group of people, but I was
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pleasantly surprised to find that I
could, not only once, but twice within
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10 minutes.
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Would you like some water? You know one
of the great things about being a
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swinger is you never have to worry
anymore about drinking off someone
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glass. You've swapped something far more
intimate than taking off your cup.
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Well, after my second orgasm, I was
pretty much ready for a break.
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That
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was an
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amazing experience.
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I mean, there was nothing about it at
any point that I really feel.
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Awkward. Everyone was extremely
respectful and also just, you know, very
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sensitive to what I was feeling in the
moment and, you know, picked up on what
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wanted and what I didn't want. I felt
100 % comfortable with everything that
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going on.
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So,
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you
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know, that was kind of the end of the
Red Room experience. We decided to go
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find out what all the rest of the
couples were doing because, you know,
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weren't there.
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And that's how you do it.
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Giselle is definitely my type. What I
would love to do to Giselle is just kind
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of dominate her, kind of hold her down
and, you know, just be able to taste
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I want to know what she tastes like and
just, you know, listen to her whisper as
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I make her come.
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It's really hard to keep myself just
laying there because I want to jump on
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so bad. It's such a turn on.
461
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:50,680
What I really wanted to complete my
birthday experience was to have Josh and
462
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,840
Giselle come up to our room alone to
play.
463
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:03,420
After the scene, I feel like I know you
guys really well by now.
464
00:34:03,700 --> 00:34:08,360
From the first instance I walked into
that room, the moment I walked in and
465
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:10,120
your eyes, I was like, Giselle's it.
466
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,460
Like, that's it. I'm done. I made my
choice. That's it.
467
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:18,620
Josh and Giselle are here in our room,
and we're really enjoying the dynamic of
468
00:34:18,620 --> 00:34:20,940
hanging out. They're just both such
interesting people.
469
00:34:21,639 --> 00:34:23,560
Situations like these are ideal.
470
00:34:24,139 --> 00:34:27,980
Everybody gets to know each other.
Everybody knows where they're at. It's
471
00:34:27,980 --> 00:34:29,100
important. It is.
472
00:34:29,670 --> 00:34:33,750
I'm feeling a lot more comfortable with
Josh now because I really understand who
473
00:34:33,750 --> 00:34:37,210
he is, and I also understand a little
bit about why he might have made that
474
00:34:37,210 --> 00:34:41,610
comment in the beginning. And I'm really
starting to have an attraction to him,
475
00:34:41,690 --> 00:34:44,850
and so I can see playing with him. I'm
not unopposed to it.
476
00:34:52,330 --> 00:34:56,130
It just started with a couple simple
kisses, and the next thing I know, I
477
00:34:56,130 --> 00:34:59,290
we're rolling around on the bed,
grabbing on each other, biting on each
478
00:34:59,330 --> 00:35:00,430
It was just so hot.
479
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:41,940
They're having their fun, and then we
sort of split up, and we each started
480
00:35:41,940 --> 00:35:44,000
having sex with our girls.
481
00:35:50,060 --> 00:35:51,320
Oh, God.
482
00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:04,140
I wrapped up first, and Amanda and I
went into the bathroom for a little bit
483
00:36:04,140 --> 00:36:06,140
to just kind of clean up.
484
00:36:07,240 --> 00:36:10,760
She went to the bathroom, and I went
back out to hang out.
485
00:36:16,660 --> 00:36:23,560
One thing leads to another, and Giselle
asked
486
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:27,980
me, would you mind if she went down on
me? And I was like, I don't think so. I
487
00:36:27,980 --> 00:36:31,440
mean, she's going to be out in a few,
you know, less than a minute. So, yeah,
488
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:32,520
sure, get it going.
489
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,920
I'm feeling the second round here.
490
00:36:36,250 --> 00:36:42,190
I'm pushing the boundary. It wasn't
really a conscious push. It just was a
491
00:36:42,190 --> 00:36:43,190
with the flow.
492
00:36:44,730 --> 00:36:49,470
I walk back into the room. Giselle and
Daniel are having oral sex with each
493
00:36:49,470 --> 00:36:52,330
other. And we had already made these
rules.
494
00:36:52,530 --> 00:36:54,350
We weren't going to swap with the
opposite sex.
495
00:36:54,730 --> 00:36:57,390
And it was all going to be same room and
that we were going to communicate.
496
00:36:57,690 --> 00:37:01,890
And I am quite disappointed to find that
the moment I leave the room, I come
497
00:37:01,890 --> 00:37:04,730
back and Daniel has kind of broken these
rules.
498
00:37:08,620 --> 00:37:11,940
A little bit past what we had talked
about. Looking back on it, I wish I had
499
00:37:11,940 --> 00:37:15,160
held off for 30 seconds. I pushed the
boundary a little bit.
500
00:37:16,660 --> 00:37:20,980
So I asked myself, how do I feel about
this right now, in this moment, watching
501
00:37:20,980 --> 00:37:21,979
him with her?
502
00:37:21,980 --> 00:37:27,280
And I found that the more that I'm
watching that, the more aroused I'm
503
00:37:28,860 --> 00:37:32,700
It actually doesn't bother me nearly as
much as I had anticipated.
504
00:37:37,900 --> 00:37:43,000
Amanda had a moment of uncertainty, but
she took a second, processed it, and
505
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:48,220
realized that it really wasn't that big
a deal. That right there was my favorite
506
00:37:48,220 --> 00:37:49,440
part of the whole experience.
507
00:37:55,150 --> 00:37:59,490
Proud of myself that I was able to just
go through that experience and take it
508
00:37:59,490 --> 00:38:03,430
for what it was and come out on the
other end, not only not being bothered
509
00:38:03,430 --> 00:38:05,390
it, but finding it erotic and
pleasurable.
510
00:38:05,730 --> 00:38:08,530
And I think I have learned a great deal
from that.
511
00:38:30,150 --> 00:38:31,870
Did you have fun last night?
512
00:38:32,110 --> 00:38:33,109
Yeah.
513
00:38:33,110 --> 00:38:35,230
They seemed like a very nice couple.
514
00:38:35,630 --> 00:38:38,590
I think it was a perfect way for Amanda
to spend her birthday.
515
00:38:38,930 --> 00:38:40,190
It seemed like she had a lot of fun.
516
00:38:40,470 --> 00:38:41,810
I think they fit in great.
517
00:38:42,150 --> 00:38:47,170
I think I know Amanda did just fine last
night. They meshed real well with the
518
00:38:47,170 --> 00:38:49,870
crowd, and it seemed to fit right in.
519
00:38:53,980 --> 00:38:55,020
Morning. Good morning.
520
00:38:55,380 --> 00:38:56,380
How are you?
521
00:38:56,540 --> 00:39:00,440
I'm doing well. Yeah. I imagine it was
sort of a crazy night last night.
522
00:39:00,720 --> 00:39:02,200
It was a very crazy night. Nah.
523
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:08,520
We have a therapist downstairs to talk
to you guys because when you do anything
524
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:12,340
that's new and that's intimate and that
involves somebody you love, it's sort of
525
00:39:12,340 --> 00:39:15,000
going to stir up some emotions that may
surprise you.
526
00:39:15,380 --> 00:39:18,020
You guys are going to go downstairs to
talk to her. The only rule is just be
527
00:39:18,020 --> 00:39:21,740
honest with her, be honest with each
other, and it should all be good.
528
00:39:22,330 --> 00:39:23,330
Sounds like fun.
529
00:39:23,710 --> 00:39:25,570
Okay, cool. I'll see you guys later.
530
00:39:26,070 --> 00:39:27,390
What do you think? You ready to do this?
531
00:39:27,610 --> 00:39:28,770
Yeah, let's go meet this therapist.
532
00:39:29,050 --> 00:39:30,050
Go bear all?
533
00:39:31,410 --> 00:39:33,230
I'm pretty sure we did that last night.
Yeah.
534
00:39:38,130 --> 00:39:41,810
I'm Dr. Lori Buckley, and I'm a
relationship and therapist.
535
00:39:42,470 --> 00:39:45,370
Tell me how it was. What was it like for
you last night?
536
00:39:45,610 --> 00:39:46,850
I found it very enjoyable.
537
00:39:47,130 --> 00:39:51,370
I kind of had immediate attraction to
one of the girls here. That worked out
538
00:39:51,370 --> 00:39:54,870
nicely. It did, it did. I was a little
unsure about her guy at first. He came
539
00:39:54,870 --> 00:39:56,710
off slightly abrasive and I was kind of
like, eh.
540
00:39:57,090 --> 00:40:00,250
It's a different attraction with him
than it is with her. Something like this
541
00:40:00,250 --> 00:40:03,610
great because we come in and it kind of
mixes us up a little bit.
542
00:40:03,850 --> 00:40:07,870
Yeah, you get some new ideas too
watching other couples, you know, and
543
00:40:07,870 --> 00:40:08,870
way that they have sex.
544
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:12,480
One of the things that we kind of walked
away from is something I never
545
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:18,060
expected, but I think I'm really into
bondage and fetish play. I had no idea
546
00:40:18,060 --> 00:40:20,600
that was true about me. So you learned
this last night? I did, and now I'm
547
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:24,660
really excited to try more. I'm like,
let's go home and buy a wedding prop.
548
00:40:25,780 --> 00:40:27,220
So that's something you learned.
549
00:40:27,420 --> 00:40:29,800
Yeah. What else did you learn last
night?
550
00:40:30,620 --> 00:40:34,840
Even coming into this, I wasn't really
that interested in the orgy aspect, and
551
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,300
we kind of had a little bit of that.
552
00:40:37,029 --> 00:40:41,750
down in the Red Room before Giselle and
Josh and Daniel and I got to play by
553
00:40:41,750 --> 00:40:46,290
ourselves. And it was fun, but it was
just too much stimulation for me. Like,
554
00:40:46,290 --> 00:40:49,570
there's just too much going on, you
know? So the orgy thing doesn't work for
555
00:40:49,570 --> 00:40:53,770
you, but you like being with maybe just
one couple. I really do like that
556
00:40:53,770 --> 00:40:56,130
dynamic. Sounds good to me, right?
557
00:40:56,550 --> 00:41:01,070
So if you don't mind, I'd like to spend
some time alone with you. Just have the
558
00:41:01,070 --> 00:41:04,650
chance for us to talk one -on -one.
Okay. All right. I'll see you in a
559
00:41:04,650 --> 00:41:05,650
bit. Bye -bye.
560
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:06,920
Good luck.
561
00:41:08,820 --> 00:41:12,500
I just wanted to be able to spend a
little bit of time alone with you, see
562
00:41:12,500 --> 00:41:16,120
there's anything on your mind, any
concerns or questions that you would
563
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:17,120
bring up.
564
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:23,020
There was a moment last night where I
went into the bathroom and I came back
565
00:41:23,020 --> 00:41:27,680
Daniel and Giselle were doing their
thing and I was just like... What were
566
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:28,680
doing?
567
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:29,638
Oral sex.
568
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:34,400
Okay. Which is considered soft swap, but
the dynamic we had discussed was girl
569
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:35,400
on girl.
570
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:38,500
And then you play with me and him play
with her. Yeah, and you're not feeling
571
00:41:38,500 --> 00:41:42,180
honored in that moment. Yeah, I mean,
that's the thing. I would be okay with
572
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:43,400
I just want the communication.
573
00:41:43,620 --> 00:41:45,040
I don't want to walk in and be shocked.
574
00:41:45,340 --> 00:41:48,440
And you discussed this with him? I did,
and he kind of gave me the mail like,
575
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,780
well, I thought it counted because we
said softball often and we weren't
576
00:41:50,780 --> 00:41:51,759
actually having sex.
577
00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:55,840
So as you go back out into the house,
maybe you can open up and share some of
578
00:41:55,840 --> 00:42:00,440
that pain as well so he can really get
it and hear it and understand it. And
579
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:04,320
then I believe that the chances of it
happening again are going to be greatly
580
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:05,320
decreased.
581
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:06,198
I agree.
582
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:10,540
It's been really a pleasure talking to
you. Thank you for opening up to me.
583
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:15,220
Daniel did break the rules. I do feel a
little betrayed, even though I
584
00:42:15,220 --> 00:42:20,560
understand that, you know, in the
moment, most men would succumb to that
585
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,920
pressure. The minor encounter between
him and Giselle, which was very, very
586
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:27,660
minor. I mean, it wasn't anywhere on a
scale to like.
587
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:32,400
have an issue about, really. But I did
feel that he was able to understand
588
00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:35,920
I was coming from and, you know, take
that to heart. And I don't think he
589
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:36,738
do that again.
590
00:42:36,740 --> 00:42:40,880
This is just a chance for you to be able
to ask me any questions, talk about
591
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,440
anything. You know, just for us to have
some one -on -one time.
592
00:42:45,100 --> 00:42:49,460
What's on my mind? Well, I don't know. I
feel pretty comfortable with how
593
00:42:49,460 --> 00:42:50,460
everything's gone.
594
00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:53,780
Daniel's kind of closed mouth.
595
00:42:54,240 --> 00:42:56,900
He's probably in there saying, like,
he's got nothing to say.
596
00:42:57,450 --> 00:43:00,650
Okay, well, let's talk about last night.
Let's talk about what happened.
597
00:43:01,230 --> 00:43:04,590
Towards the end of the evening, we
retired up to the bedroom, and Josh and
598
00:43:04,590 --> 00:43:09,950
Giselle came up to meet us a little bit
later, and we just had a really fun,
599
00:43:10,050 --> 00:43:13,050
comfortable evening. We were all just
talking and touching.
600
00:43:13,270 --> 00:43:16,810
I mean, we could have just kept going
all night, but, well, we did keep going
601
00:43:16,810 --> 00:43:20,050
all night, you know, in the thought of
her and another woman.
602
00:43:20,890 --> 00:43:23,990
And the other guy in that situation
is...
603
00:43:25,390 --> 00:43:29,650
You know, initially, it wasn't something
I was interested in. So initially, you
604
00:43:29,650 --> 00:43:32,290
didn't feel comfortable with her having
sex with a guy?
605
00:43:32,510 --> 00:43:35,690
Going into this whole thing, you know,
like, that was kind of more what I was
606
00:43:35,690 --> 00:43:39,650
looking for was, you know, a threesome.
But as we start to explore this, I
607
00:43:39,650 --> 00:43:44,470
really think that it's a better dynamic
and, you know, just a more even balance
608
00:43:44,470 --> 00:43:49,250
to have a couple versus a threesome. You
don't really have any concerns except
609
00:43:49,250 --> 00:43:52,610
for maybe Amanda's concerns.
610
00:43:52,950 --> 00:43:54,270
I don't stress about...
611
00:43:54,730 --> 00:43:55,730
Too much in general.
612
00:43:55,970 --> 00:44:00,810
And, you know, so really my concerns are
more for her well -being.
613
00:44:01,030 --> 00:44:06,430
So as long as there's no deceit,
deception, dishonesty, it's good. Yeah.
614
00:44:06,710 --> 00:44:09,030
Yeah. Is that what attracts you to the
lifestyle?
615
00:44:09,410 --> 00:44:14,030
Yeah. People are so committed to their
monogamous relationship that they end up
616
00:44:14,030 --> 00:44:17,870
hurting the person they love the most
because they can't be honest with them.
617
00:44:18,050 --> 00:44:22,050
Yeah. And I think people in general
would.
618
00:44:22,549 --> 00:44:28,610
benefit hugely from just being able to
be more open about these insecurities,
619
00:44:28,730 --> 00:44:33,210
which once you get them out there in the
light, it's really not that big a deal.
620
00:44:33,490 --> 00:44:39,030
Well, I want you to definitely go out
there, enjoy yourself, and I hope you
621
00:44:39,030 --> 00:44:41,910
a really good time your rest of your
stay here.
622
00:44:42,470 --> 00:44:43,470
Okay.
623
00:44:44,330 --> 00:44:47,670
We love to be with people that are going
to be our friends.
624
00:44:48,030 --> 00:44:49,710
Yeah, we don't like one -night stands.
625
00:44:50,620 --> 00:44:54,720
When you have friends that you can
actually play with, you can connect
626
00:44:54,720 --> 00:44:57,700
emotionally and physically and
everything on the same level.
627
00:44:57,920 --> 00:44:59,500
Kind of like the icing on the cake.
628
00:45:01,620 --> 00:45:02,620
Amazing.
629
00:45:06,820 --> 00:45:07,820
Hello, guys.
630
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:10,600
You've had your experience in the house.
631
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:13,380
Now, alas, the time has come to say
goodbye.
632
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:19,320
Why don't you go find the other
residents, say goodbye, and I'll meet
633
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,960
front? Okay. All right. See you soon.
634
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,900
Well, it was definitely an adventure.
635
00:45:25,380 --> 00:45:26,339
It was that.
636
00:45:26,340 --> 00:45:32,920
I am so sad that I'm leaving the swing
house right now. I
637
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:36,160
can't believe it seems like such a short
amount of time.
638
00:45:56,359 --> 00:46:00,200
This experience definitely opened the
door for us. It didn't really change how
639
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:05,900
feel about her in any way, but it
definitely opened us up to the
640
00:46:05,900 --> 00:46:06,879
doing this again.
641
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,840
Did you guys have fun? We had so much
fun. We had a really good time. Did you
642
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:13,860
guys push the envelope a little bit? We
did, we did. We would have loved to have
643
00:46:13,860 --> 00:46:18,040
the opportunity to push it even further,
but the hourglass has run dry.
644
00:46:21,100 --> 00:46:22,560
She had a good birthday.
645
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:23,760
I did.
646
00:46:23,820 --> 00:46:26,260
Happy birthday. Thank you, guys.
647
00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:27,480
Thank you so much.
648
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:31,480
Daniel and I stand where we've always
stood, on extremely solid ground. Our
649
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:35,300
relationship feels just as wonderful and
as loving and as committed as it ever
650
00:46:35,300 --> 00:46:38,440
was. Okay, so there's just one more
thing before you guys go back to your
651
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:42,360
regular life. This is the contract you
signed when you got here.
652
00:46:42,660 --> 00:46:46,060
This basically gave you a free pass to
experiment with other people.
653
00:46:46,340 --> 00:46:48,300
Question is, do you want to tear it up?
654
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:53,280
Or now that you've experienced the
lifestyle, do you want to maybe hang on
655
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:59,300
it? I guess what I'm asking is, was it a
fling or do you want to swing again?
656
00:47:03,540 --> 00:47:07,580
The sexual adventure, it's a really
tough thing to jump into.
657
00:47:10,700 --> 00:47:13,320
I think the gods are telling us we
should hang on to it.
658
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:16,040
I want to swing again.
659
00:47:16,300 --> 00:47:17,300
I want to swing again.
660
00:47:18,190 --> 00:47:21,670
I really truly feel that this is a huge
hurdle that Daniel and I have gotten
661
00:47:21,670 --> 00:47:25,710
over. In the heat of the moment,
watching him with Giselle, I was able to
662
00:47:25,710 --> 00:47:29,110
that guard down and really see it for
what it was, which was, you know, just a
663
00:47:29,110 --> 00:47:30,110
beautiful experience.
664
00:47:30,250 --> 00:47:33,490
I feel like I just made a bunch of new
friends, and now I've got to go away.
665
00:47:33,950 --> 00:47:37,330
I think that Daniel and I have very much
enjoyed our experience here at the
666
00:47:37,330 --> 00:47:39,330
Swing House, and we definitely would
like to continue.
667
00:47:39,670 --> 00:47:44,350
You know, we saw how much more it is
than just facts with other random
668
00:47:44,490 --> 00:47:46,990
It's a way of making, you know, genuine
new friends.
669
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:50,600
And really sharing all of yourself with
them. Yeah.
670
00:47:51,060 --> 00:47:52,060
Yeah.
671
00:47:52,240 --> 00:47:53,640
It's a really beautiful experience.
672
00:47:53,900 --> 00:47:54,900
It really was. Yeah.
673
00:47:56,580 --> 00:47:58,120
Well, this was an experience to
remember.
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