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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:07,530 --> 00:00:09,870 I'm hanging out at a beautiful mansion. 2 00:00:10,810 --> 00:00:17,430 Inside, right now, real, attractive couples are sleeping with whomever they 3 00:00:17,430 --> 00:00:19,770 and loving every second of it. 4 00:00:20,790 --> 00:00:21,790 That's right. 5 00:00:22,030 --> 00:00:23,570 They're swingers. 6 00:00:23,830 --> 00:00:29,550 And they're all convinced that this lifestyle is the key to a loving, long 7 00:00:29,550 --> 00:00:30,550 -lasting relationship. 8 00:00:32,110 --> 00:00:37,110 You're about to meet a couple who's ready to find out if swinging is right 9 00:00:37,110 --> 00:00:39,590 them. Take a look at this video. 10 00:00:41,150 --> 00:00:45,690 Hi, we're Amanda and Daniel living in Topanga Canyon, and we're looking for a 11 00:00:45,690 --> 00:00:46,669 little adventure. 12 00:00:46,670 --> 00:00:50,550 We want to come to the swing house because we're definitely curious about 13 00:00:50,550 --> 00:00:54,950 potential of being with other people. We're both very open -minded, and we 14 00:00:54,950 --> 00:00:57,270 perceive this as being a problem in our relationship. 15 00:00:57,650 --> 00:01:00,720 Hopefully, we're going to walk away from it with some... really amazing 16 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,460 memories, and we take our relationship to another level. 17 00:01:04,220 --> 00:01:11,020 So, I've arranged for Amanda and Daniel to join the no boundaries, no limits, 18 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:17,200 swing party happening inside this house right now. And from there, who knows? 19 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:20,140 Will they jump in and swing like they've been doing it for years? 20 00:01:20,380 --> 00:01:24,060 Or will it all be too much for them? What will they have to say about it in 21 00:01:24,060 --> 00:01:28,820 morning? I'm Anna David. Hold on tight. It is time to swing. 22 00:01:42,830 --> 00:01:43,469 It's crazy. 23 00:01:43,470 --> 00:01:46,770 I can't believe we're doing this. I mean, either. But we've talked about it 24 00:01:46,770 --> 00:01:49,570 so long. It's been a long time in the coming. 25 00:01:50,450 --> 00:01:54,570 As Daniel and I are riding in the limo, we have no idea what to expect. 26 00:01:54,990 --> 00:01:56,290 A new experience for us. 27 00:01:57,070 --> 00:01:58,390 Off on another crazy adventure. 28 00:01:58,770 --> 00:01:59,770 Yeah, right? 29 00:01:59,950 --> 00:02:03,050 I've kind of been in denial for the past couple days that this isn't really 30 00:02:03,050 --> 00:02:07,330 happening. Now here I am sitting in the limo holding Daniel's hand. He looks 31 00:02:07,330 --> 00:02:12,050 nervous. You know, our palms are sweating, and we're both really excited 32 00:02:12,050 --> 00:02:13,210 definitely nervous. 33 00:02:13,710 --> 00:02:16,070 A little apprehensive. 34 00:02:16,350 --> 00:02:20,750 Yeah, me too, but it'll be okay. As long as we're together, it'll be fine. 35 00:02:21,250 --> 00:02:26,010 Amanda and I are embarking on this sexual adventure together, and, you 36 00:02:26,030 --> 00:02:28,350 she's really nervous. We were... 37 00:02:29,020 --> 00:02:29,939 This far. 38 00:02:29,940 --> 00:02:36,120 We're this far from just bailing on the whole thing. But we rallied, and we kind 39 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:40,420 of looked into each other, and this is something we've been talking about for a 40 00:02:40,420 --> 00:02:44,660 long time, and I think it's something we both really want to experience. 41 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:51,360 Here we are. 42 00:02:51,640 --> 00:02:52,640 You excited? 43 00:02:52,820 --> 00:02:54,380 I'm excited. Yeah? Yeah. 44 00:02:56,660 --> 00:02:57,860 Hello. Hello. 45 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:02,110 Hi. I'm Anna. I'm Amanda. Nice to meet you, Amanda. You must be Daniel. 46 00:03:02,370 --> 00:03:07,170 Yes. So this is a big step you guys are taking today, kind of something entirely 47 00:03:07,170 --> 00:03:08,690 new. Oh, yeah. Definitely. 48 00:03:09,010 --> 00:03:10,490 How are you feeling about it? 49 00:03:10,930 --> 00:03:15,110 Got some butterflies going, yeah. Good. That's to be expected. I'm excited. I 50 00:03:15,110 --> 00:03:17,430 like that you're nervous, but excited too? Absolutely. 51 00:03:17,710 --> 00:03:18,369 Yeah, definitely. 52 00:03:18,370 --> 00:03:21,590 Well, there's just a couple things we need to take care of, so why don't you 53 00:03:21,590 --> 00:03:23,190 come in the house with me? Okay, wonderful. 54 00:03:23,550 --> 00:03:24,550 Come on. 55 00:03:28,740 --> 00:03:34,600 is what you make of it. We often say people come in for the sex but stay for 56 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:38,260 friendship. At the end of the day, it is about each other. 57 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:41,800 It just lets you be who you are, and it doesn't matter if you have sex or not. 58 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:46,320 Just being in a sexually free environment is liberating. 59 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:51,300 All right, so how are you guys doing now? 60 00:03:51,780 --> 00:03:56,260 I'm definitely still a little bit nervous, but I'm really excited to start 61 00:03:56,260 --> 00:03:57,520 meeting. And the other couple. 62 00:03:57,940 --> 00:04:01,660 Well, I think they're probably pretty excited to make the movie. How about 63 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:05,560 Daniel? I'm super curious. Yeah. Well, it's getting a little more real as we 64 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:09,020 closer. Oh, yeah. I've been in denial up until about... Until about 10 seconds 65 00:04:09,020 --> 00:04:09,719 ago? Yeah. 66 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:13,880 Well, so, you know, have you guys talked about what your arrangements are? 67 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:19,800 Yeah. Same room is one of the most important ones. That one I don't think 68 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:23,240 be changing at all throughout the course of this. We're not interested in 69 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:24,900 separate room interactions at all. 70 00:04:26,220 --> 00:04:30,460 The rules Amanda and I have going into this are we're doing it together, and 71 00:04:30,460 --> 00:04:35,360 things can get out of hand if we're not together and supporting each other. It's 72 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:40,960 very easy for guys, especially, to get carried away in this situation. 73 00:04:41,260 --> 00:04:46,280 We're going into it with the intention of, you know, not having a full swap. 74 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:49,900 We're kind of open more to a soft swap. I see. 75 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:51,600 At the same time, we're... 76 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:55,360 ready to roll with it. And if we're feeling it and, you know, both of us 77 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:58,960 move forward, then, you know, we're willing to do that. 78 00:04:59,180 --> 00:05:03,300 What we're comfortable with at this point is doing a soft swap where, you 79 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:07,700 I have sex with the girl and the guys watch or they touch us. But at this 80 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:12,580 we're not committed to a full swap, although we're open to it. I mean, we 81 00:05:12,580 --> 00:05:15,340 want to keep the lines of communication open in our relationship. And if the 82 00:05:15,340 --> 00:05:18,780 heat of the moment, if we're feeling it, then we can discuss that with each 83 00:05:18,780 --> 00:05:19,940 other and we can take it there. 84 00:05:21,390 --> 00:05:26,230 I have a contract here for you to sign, and the contract just basically explains 85 00:05:26,230 --> 00:05:29,770 that you're going to do whatever you want for the allotted time. 86 00:05:30,250 --> 00:05:34,030 We have agreed to take part in a sexual adventure over the next two days during 87 00:05:34,030 --> 00:05:38,130 which all the normal rules of a monogamous relationship will be 88 00:05:38,130 --> 00:05:43,150 aside. I would cross out during which all of the normal rules of a monogamous 89 00:05:43,150 --> 00:05:46,450 relationship, cross out the all and put some, because not all of the normal 90 00:05:46,450 --> 00:05:48,750 rules are going to be set aside. Right, because you are agreeing to be in the 91 00:05:48,750 --> 00:05:49,750 same room. 92 00:05:50,070 --> 00:05:52,920 Yeah. of the normal rule. 93 00:05:54,280 --> 00:05:58,440 The contract is a free pass to do whatever we want over the next two days. 94 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:01,700 promise not to hold what happens here against each other once the adventure is 95 00:06:01,700 --> 00:06:05,440 over. And just sign your name at the bottom. 96 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:09,980 Happy birthday, baby. 97 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:11,500 Is today your birthday? 98 00:06:11,900 --> 00:06:12,799 Yes, it is. 99 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:13,800 Why the present? 100 00:06:15,500 --> 00:06:17,520 It is. Dealing with the devil. 101 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:19,720 Okay. 102 00:06:19,930 --> 00:06:21,650 I'm going to hold on to this for you guys. 103 00:06:21,890 --> 00:06:25,430 So now it's time for you to go get changed, check out your room. 104 00:06:26,090 --> 00:06:29,890 I think there are some other couples here who are kind of excited to meet you 105 00:06:29,890 --> 00:06:30,890 guys. 106 00:06:31,310 --> 00:06:34,530 Go have fun. All right. All right. You ready, baby? I'm ready. 107 00:06:42,990 --> 00:06:44,070 Wow. Wow. 108 00:06:45,210 --> 00:06:46,210 It's huge. 109 00:06:46,330 --> 00:06:47,330 It is. 110 00:06:47,790 --> 00:06:51,490 I'm looking around my room and I'm thinking, this is huge. I mean, this is 111 00:06:51,490 --> 00:06:53,010 the size of our entire house. 112 00:06:54,470 --> 00:06:59,830 Are you ready to go get ready? 113 00:07:00,110 --> 00:07:01,110 You want to take the first shower? 114 00:07:01,430 --> 00:07:02,430 All right. 115 00:07:09,530 --> 00:07:14,430 I grew up in an extremely Christian conservative household where I was 116 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:17,240 encouraged in any way to explore my sexuality. 117 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:21,220 So it's making me feel very nervous about this experience. 118 00:07:32,140 --> 00:07:35,040 I am 119 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:41,380 hoping to meet another couple that I 120 00:07:41,380 --> 00:07:43,420 really, really resonate with. 121 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:45,000 That's really important to me. 122 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:53,680 I really have to like the person underneath the body to want to have sex 123 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:54,680 them. 124 00:07:57,320 --> 00:07:57,900 Now, 125 00:07:57,900 --> 00:08:05,100 all 126 00:08:05,100 --> 00:08:08,840 of a sudden, the butterflies kick in. I'm really, really nervous. 127 00:08:12,330 --> 00:08:14,830 A little less nervous, a little more excited. 128 00:08:15,370 --> 00:08:19,090 I don't know. I think once we meet them, it'll really change the dynamic, and it 129 00:08:19,090 --> 00:08:24,530 won't be nearly as awkward of a feeling, you know? I agree. 130 00:08:25,230 --> 00:08:28,590 I'm contemplating running at this point. I have no idea what I'm about to walk 131 00:08:28,590 --> 00:08:30,910 into. This is like walking into the lion's den. 132 00:08:31,130 --> 00:08:35,610 But at the same time, I am still excited, and I'm still committed to 133 00:08:35,610 --> 00:08:36,610 through this experience. 134 00:08:38,300 --> 00:08:41,900 Meeting new people for the first time is really, really nerve -wracking. You get 135 00:08:41,900 --> 00:08:45,440 out and you meet these couples, and it's really, really uncomfortable the first 136 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:47,640 meeting. Is that the right husband and wife? 137 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:50,660 Are they going to be compatible with us? Yeah, you never know if you're going to 138 00:08:50,660 --> 00:08:51,399 have chemistry. 139 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:52,960 It's like dating all over again. 140 00:09:03,210 --> 00:09:06,290 Going into the bar, we were definitely nervous. This was like the moment of 141 00:09:06,290 --> 00:09:09,090 truth. There was all this buildup for days and weeks. 142 00:09:16,030 --> 00:09:20,670 As we came down to the end of the hall and saw all these couples waiting for 143 00:09:20,730 --> 00:09:24,110 it was a relief to see that we were dealing with real people here. 144 00:09:24,930 --> 00:09:26,410 Hello. I'm Nicoletta. 145 00:09:26,630 --> 00:09:28,610 Hi, I'm Amanda. Nice to meet you. 146 00:09:29,050 --> 00:09:30,050 I'm Ashley. 147 00:09:30,150 --> 00:09:31,250 Nice to meet you. 148 00:09:38,119 --> 00:09:40,760 Right off the bat, Giselle caught my eye. 149 00:09:40,980 --> 00:09:45,600 Like, she's a sexy little thing. She had everything I was looking for. And I 150 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:48,740 knew without even asking that Amanda was right on the same page with me. 151 00:09:51,420 --> 00:09:52,860 I see Giselle for the first time. 152 00:09:53,140 --> 00:09:57,220 Immediately inside of me, I felt that rush of instant attraction. 153 00:09:57,580 --> 00:10:00,860 Just the way that she looked me right in the eye and smiled, there was just kind 154 00:10:00,860 --> 00:10:01,860 of an instant spark. 155 00:10:02,060 --> 00:10:03,620 Giselle is definitely my type. 156 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:06,860 So what kind of boundaries do you guys have as couples? We don't have too many 157 00:10:06,860 --> 00:10:10,080 boundaries. No guy on guy stuff. We're full swap, same room. 158 00:10:10,340 --> 00:10:13,740 Yeah, it has to be same room. Same room, yeah. We've been together a long time, 159 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:17,400 and we will not play without one another. No, that's just not our thing. 160 00:10:17,400 --> 00:10:20,900 not at that level yet, of course. There's always growing stages, but we're 161 00:10:20,900 --> 00:10:21,879 not there. 162 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:25,520 We're at the point where we don't really have boundaries anymore. 163 00:10:25,880 --> 00:10:27,240 Not a lot of boundaries. Or not a lot of boundaries. 164 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:30,420 Don't touch my feet because I'm ticklish. 165 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:36,580 Having conversation with the other veteran couples, it's making me feel a 166 00:10:36,580 --> 00:10:41,100 bit more comfortable about the dynamic of being in a flinging type 167 00:10:41,680 --> 00:10:42,960 Today is actually my birthday. 168 00:10:45,780 --> 00:10:47,520 And so I'm turning 24 today. 169 00:10:47,780 --> 00:10:50,560 Guys, talk about any crazy fantasies that you might have. 170 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:53,080 I love the thought of watching her get down with another girl. 171 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:55,720 I want 172 00:10:55,720 --> 00:11:01,640 to get tied up. 173 00:11:05,010 --> 00:11:09,750 I have always had the fantasy of being tied up. And, you know, it's never 174 00:11:09,750 --> 00:11:14,550 come to fruition. Hopefully that's where the night leads us. You know, if one of 175 00:11:14,550 --> 00:11:18,030 you wants to experiment with something, the other one's a little iffy about it. 176 00:11:19,170 --> 00:11:20,230 Maybe let it happen. 177 00:11:20,490 --> 00:11:23,590 With us, it's all about, you know, I mean, like, you can really feel out 178 00:11:23,590 --> 00:11:26,390 with people, too. You know what I mean? That's, like, the biggest way not to 179 00:11:26,390 --> 00:11:29,530 cross the line, I think, with a lot of people, you know? I don't know. I think 180 00:11:29,530 --> 00:11:31,470 the best way to not cross the line is to be clear. 181 00:11:35,790 --> 00:11:39,190 Giselle's partner, Josh, has struck me as a little bit abrasive just in the 182 00:11:39,190 --> 00:11:43,010 first moment. Just in that instant, I didn't have that same connection that I 183 00:11:43,010 --> 00:11:47,270 had with her. I didn't find him as physically attractive, and at the same 184 00:11:47,310 --> 00:11:50,750 Daniel and I had made an agreement not to go full swap, so I still see them as 185 00:11:50,750 --> 00:11:53,970 couple that could work fine in the dynamic that Daniel and I have set for 186 00:11:53,970 --> 00:11:54,970 other. 187 00:11:55,190 --> 00:11:57,410 Hey, hey, you guys want to go play a game in the next room? 188 00:12:00,870 --> 00:12:02,310 So we're going to play bunny dots. 189 00:12:02,650 --> 00:12:04,630 You start this off, and I'll spin it. 190 00:12:05,549 --> 00:12:10,890 and whatever it says, right hand, left hand, put it on the dot. If you fall, 191 00:12:10,890 --> 00:12:13,330 have to take off some clothes. Deal? Deal, no deal? 192 00:12:13,550 --> 00:12:18,550 Deal. We are now going to play bunny dots, which I have no idea what that is, 193 00:12:18,650 --> 00:12:22,890 and I'm not totally sure how I feel about getting naked in front of all 194 00:12:22,890 --> 00:12:27,170 different people. I am a little bit uncomfortable about playing, so it's 195 00:12:27,170 --> 00:12:28,149 to be really interesting. 196 00:12:28,150 --> 00:12:29,150 Ready? 197 00:12:29,790 --> 00:12:30,950 Right hand yellow. 198 00:12:31,770 --> 00:12:32,770 Left hand blue. 199 00:12:34,209 --> 00:12:35,390 Left hand, red. 200 00:12:36,650 --> 00:12:37,910 Left hand, green. 201 00:12:38,390 --> 00:12:40,450 I can deal with this. You can deal with that. 202 00:12:41,230 --> 00:12:42,230 Ashley, 203 00:12:42,910 --> 00:12:43,910 right hand, green. 204 00:12:45,450 --> 00:12:51,250 All the 205 00:12:51,250 --> 00:12:56,490 guys are trying to make me fall down. I got Billy on one side, like, bouncing 206 00:12:56,490 --> 00:13:00,050 his butt on me. And I got Early, like, picking his fingers up in my feet, 207 00:13:00,050 --> 00:13:01,730 to make me, like, ticklish. 208 00:13:03,370 --> 00:13:04,370 Left hand blue. 209 00:13:06,190 --> 00:13:09,850 Right foot blue. 210 00:13:12,370 --> 00:13:13,370 Oh, 211 00:13:13,810 --> 00:13:16,970 she's down. 212 00:13:17,450 --> 00:13:18,450 She's down. 213 00:13:19,490 --> 00:13:20,710 Right foot green. 214 00:13:21,470 --> 00:13:22,950 I don't think he's going to win. 215 00:13:24,570 --> 00:13:30,670 I've never thought that I would be capable of pushing those boundaries. 216 00:13:31,950 --> 00:13:33,570 I was surprised, but proud of myself. 217 00:13:33,810 --> 00:13:35,030 But I was definitely surprised. 218 00:13:37,110 --> 00:13:38,110 Left foot red. 219 00:13:39,210 --> 00:13:40,210 Holy shit. 220 00:13:40,590 --> 00:13:45,210 Yeah! Put your green hand backwards along the belt of your leg towards the 221 00:13:45,210 --> 00:13:49,350 one. Why? Ashley got to go this way last time. Ashley, right foot, right foot, 222 00:13:49,430 --> 00:13:50,470 left foot. All right. 223 00:13:51,290 --> 00:13:56,090 Everybody's going to be tired for a second after a game like this. Yeah, 224 00:13:56,090 --> 00:13:57,090 a battle of attrition. 225 00:13:57,630 --> 00:13:58,630 Both ways. 226 00:13:58,650 --> 00:13:59,650 Ah! 227 00:14:05,980 --> 00:14:09,380 Dual winners, you get whatever you want from whoever you want. 228 00:14:11,940 --> 00:14:12,940 Amanda, 229 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:27,600 what would you like? 230 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:32,200 I have no idea what I want. 231 00:14:32,670 --> 00:14:33,990 I don't know. I think I need another drink first. 232 00:14:34,350 --> 00:14:35,870 Amanda's prize is another cocktail. 233 00:14:36,350 --> 00:14:38,150 Honestly, I need a little break. 234 00:14:45,730 --> 00:14:48,490 That was pretty hot, and it was fun watching you guys. 235 00:14:48,690 --> 00:14:51,990 I only lost one article at closing. Have either one of you ever been, like, 236 00:14:52,010 --> 00:14:53,690 jealous at all? 237 00:14:53,970 --> 00:14:55,430 Oh, yeah, we both have. 238 00:14:56,160 --> 00:15:00,620 experience jealousy but what's been so great about our relationship is that 239 00:15:00,620 --> 00:15:04,040 when we feel that we're able to talk about it you know and if i start to feel 240 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:07,800 uncomfortable or feel left out i let him know so you guys are halfway over the 241 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:12,420 hurdle already it's a really difficult thing to let someone that you you know 242 00:15:12,420 --> 00:15:17,680 hold just so dear to you to give that person to someone else is i mean that's 243 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:21,800 that's scary it's like you know you gotta you gotta set your ego aside 244 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:25,660 jealousy and just all this other stuff that starts coming up. 245 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:29,920 Yeah, when we started, I was very jealous. I realized that there's a 246 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:35,820 between just having sex, just fucking, and loving someone and having 247 00:15:35,820 --> 00:15:38,460 romantic, intimate relationships. 248 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:42,720 I kind of imagined that the residents weren't going to be as real as they 249 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:46,900 that they were all going to be couples without a real care about whether or not 250 00:15:46,900 --> 00:15:49,720 the person they're with is sleeping with someone else. I was pleasantly 251 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:53,280 surprised to find that they were all extremely genuine people. 252 00:15:54,540 --> 00:15:58,020 And I'm interested to see how far we take it or how far we feel comfortable 253 00:15:58,020 --> 00:16:03,340 taking it. I mean, my desire to not engage in sex with another man at this 254 00:16:03,340 --> 00:16:08,280 point. isn't about jealousy, at least for me. It's more about the fact that 255 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,220 is a way of becoming intimate with a person. 256 00:16:10,660 --> 00:16:14,380 And whether it's with a girl or a man, it's something about them that I like 257 00:16:14,380 --> 00:16:16,820 that I want to give them pleasure because of who they are. 258 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:21,380 That mental hang -up of, like, you know, seeing Dana with another girl, is this 259 00:16:21,380 --> 00:16:25,060 going to work for me? Am I going to be really upset? Or just being worried, 260 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:27,540 like, is Dana going to start liking her more than me? 261 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:31,060 Or, you know, is this going to cause us to break up? Whatever happens, we wish 262 00:16:31,060 --> 00:16:32,060 you guys good luck. Yeah. 263 00:16:37,290 --> 00:16:39,210 Ah, taking one for the team, huh? 264 00:16:40,190 --> 00:16:42,670 Yeah. You don't ever do that, do you? Yeah, no. 265 00:16:42,950 --> 00:16:45,190 There's never a reason to settle. 266 00:16:45,450 --> 00:16:51,150 It's hard to find a couple that's, you know, the guy's exactly what you're 267 00:16:51,150 --> 00:16:55,750 looking for and the girl's exactly what I'm looking for and she is exactly what 268 00:16:55,750 --> 00:16:56,750 you're looking for as well. 269 00:16:56,870 --> 00:16:58,570 Yeah, but then you just keep looking. 270 00:16:59,010 --> 00:17:03,050 I've had to take one for the team because obviously we've never had a guy 271 00:17:03,050 --> 00:17:04,930 that you've had to take one for the team on, right? 272 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:07,859 I don't think so. I don't remember. 273 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:16,260 Have you had an opportunity to talk to Amanda yet and feel out who you're 274 00:17:16,260 --> 00:17:19,040 feeling the most? I mean, like, and you don't have to tell me. I'm just 275 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:25,079 wondering. No, I'll tell you. Like, she's definitely, she's feeling your 276 00:17:25,079 --> 00:17:26,079 big bit. 277 00:17:26,099 --> 00:17:33,000 You know, I've only, I'm, you know, I'm so new still that it's hard to grasp 278 00:17:33,000 --> 00:17:34,220 and explain everything. 279 00:17:35,040 --> 00:17:39,220 Now that I've had my first experience, like, I'm really glad, you know, I got 280 00:17:39,220 --> 00:17:43,120 it. And it's, like, now I, like, kind of understand, like, more about it. 281 00:17:43,180 --> 00:17:46,520 Because there's so much, like, it's so deep, kind of, in a way. 282 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:51,760 Some people, some people just want to fuck or whatever. But it seems like to 283 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:53,980 most couples, they want to actually have, like, a connection. 284 00:17:54,500 --> 00:17:57,820 Yeah. And that's, like, really important, you know. That's definitely 285 00:17:58,020 --> 00:18:00,940 for me at least, that I need with a person. Because for me... 286 00:18:01,310 --> 00:18:05,050 Whether it's a man or a woman, it's about having a connection with them. 287 00:18:05,370 --> 00:18:09,370 And then even if it's not love, but just like, I like who you are, I like the 288 00:18:09,370 --> 00:18:12,910 resonance between us, and I want to give you pleasure because I like who you are 289 00:18:12,910 --> 00:18:13,649 as a person. 290 00:18:13,650 --> 00:18:16,510 I feel totally comfortable with her from the beginning. 291 00:18:16,930 --> 00:18:21,890 And I can tell right away that she's not the kind of girl that is just like, oh, 292 00:18:21,930 --> 00:18:22,930 you're hot, let's have sex. 293 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:26,260 Like, when I walked into the room and met all of you guys, you were the first 294 00:18:26,260 --> 00:18:28,000 person I felt a really strong attraction to. 295 00:18:28,300 --> 00:18:31,240 And it was more than the fact that you're obviously a beautiful girl. It 296 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:35,820 just the fact that I felt like we would get along on a lot of other levels. 297 00:18:36,020 --> 00:18:36,659 For sure. 298 00:18:36,660 --> 00:18:40,460 I definitely felt that, too. I'm not 100 % there yet with your guy, though. 299 00:18:42,900 --> 00:18:48,920 She's pretty much feeling more just your girl, not so much the whole... Well, 300 00:18:48,940 --> 00:18:51,560 you know what? If me be, though, tonight... 301 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:55,440 We have a little room off to the side, you know, like we can all go over there. 302 00:18:56,500 --> 00:19:00,040 You know what I mean? I can take a seat. You can take a seat. We can let them 303 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:01,540 talk. We can all talk. 304 00:19:01,780 --> 00:19:07,260 We weren't feeling Josh as much right off the bat, but we're going into it 305 00:19:07,260 --> 00:19:10,120 the expectation of only going for a soft swap. 306 00:19:10,340 --> 00:19:13,180 I'm really optimistic that it's going to go well. 307 00:19:14,100 --> 00:19:15,820 I would like to kiss you right now. 308 00:19:16,020 --> 00:19:17,020 I would like to kiss you too. 309 00:19:17,940 --> 00:19:19,820 I think you're really beautiful just now. 310 00:19:39,050 --> 00:19:41,130 Well, I think you're really beautiful, too. Yeah. 311 00:19:41,790 --> 00:19:44,270 You guys are like... Guys, we've got to get ready for tonight. 312 00:19:44,570 --> 00:19:45,790 Time to get ready for tonight. 313 00:19:46,030 --> 00:19:47,950 It's about time to get sexy, ladies. 314 00:19:51,610 --> 00:19:52,930 I really like Amanda. 315 00:19:53,190 --> 00:19:54,710 I think she's so cute. 316 00:19:55,530 --> 00:20:00,110 I think she's... I think we relate on so many levels. 317 00:20:02,810 --> 00:20:06,730 I'd really love to get to talk to her a little more and maybe, like, we already 318 00:20:06,730 --> 00:20:09,070 kissed. I don't know if you know that, but we kissed already. 319 00:20:09,750 --> 00:20:12,490 And it was nice. 320 00:20:14,350 --> 00:20:15,790 Are you clicking with any girls? 321 00:20:16,950 --> 00:20:18,370 I'm clicking with Giselle. 322 00:20:19,450 --> 00:20:20,450 I am. 323 00:20:20,490 --> 00:20:24,830 Yeah. I mean, I think all the girls are great. Don't get me wrong. I think so, 324 00:20:24,850 --> 00:20:28,250 too. Yeah. But I would put her at the top of my list. 325 00:20:28,750 --> 00:20:30,210 Your list as well. Yeah. 326 00:20:31,149 --> 00:20:33,310 Yeah, we like the same thing. Isn't that great? 327 00:20:35,470 --> 00:20:38,030 Daniel actually mentioned to me that he'd really like them. 328 00:20:39,030 --> 00:20:43,850 Well, I guess not one -on -one, but two -on -two time just to get to know us. 329 00:20:44,190 --> 00:20:48,170 Asked them what their selection was, and they said that we were their top pick. 330 00:20:48,930 --> 00:20:50,570 Really? Yeah, that's exciting. 331 00:20:50,870 --> 00:20:51,870 That's really cool. 332 00:20:52,290 --> 00:20:55,950 I definitely like them. I think they seem like they could be a lot of fun. I 333 00:20:55,950 --> 00:21:00,150 don't really know what they have in store for us yet, but whatever it is. 334 00:21:00,760 --> 00:21:03,260 I think I would be really comfortable swinging with them. 335 00:21:05,540 --> 00:21:06,540 It's your birthday. 336 00:21:07,020 --> 00:21:08,240 It's all about you today. 337 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:15,500 So let's get you a beautiful woman to make some sweet love to. And, you know, 338 00:21:15,540 --> 00:21:19,100 I think it's awesome to get to watch something like that for a chance. 339 00:21:19,300 --> 00:21:22,560 So that's, you know, I'm happy. 340 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:28,560 So tonight's theme is Pimpin' Ho Night. 341 00:21:29,130 --> 00:21:32,770 Costume parties are always fun. It's always an interesting thing to see how 342 00:21:32,770 --> 00:21:36,570 people take that theme and where they take it to. So I'm sure it's going to be 343 00:21:36,570 --> 00:21:37,890 fun regardless of what happens. 344 00:21:39,530 --> 00:21:41,650 Yeah. What do you think, baby? 345 00:21:42,110 --> 00:21:43,390 Damn, you look good in leopard. 346 00:21:44,190 --> 00:21:45,190 And we match. 347 00:21:46,910 --> 00:21:53,890 Going to our first lifestyle party, I was kind of... 348 00:21:54,670 --> 00:21:58,450 Kind of nervous, but we were both on the same page as far as knowing. Trying it 349 00:21:58,450 --> 00:22:01,550 out, right. Yeah, trying it out and knowing what we were getting into. 350 00:22:01,770 --> 00:22:04,310 Yeah. Maybe on a different page than other people. 351 00:22:04,510 --> 00:22:07,570 Right. Most people seem to not know. Yeah. Most people seem to not have a 352 00:22:07,570 --> 00:22:11,890 as to what swinging means. Yeah. And we just kind of, you know, went in. We'll 353 00:22:11,890 --> 00:22:12,890 beat. 354 00:22:40,710 --> 00:22:44,770 I have always been really interested in role play. Again, it's not something 355 00:22:44,770 --> 00:22:49,830 that Daniel and I have really experienced together. He is kind of a 356 00:22:49,830 --> 00:22:53,870 more like the quiet reserve type, but I love to dress up. Oh, man. 357 00:22:54,190 --> 00:22:55,490 Welcome. Hey. 358 00:22:55,810 --> 00:22:56,810 Hey. 359 00:22:57,390 --> 00:22:59,030 And does everybody know it's Amanda's birthday? 360 00:23:00,070 --> 00:23:05,650 Bad news is, like, we don't have a cake or a candle or anything else, but we 361 00:23:05,650 --> 00:23:08,110 kind of think you might find something else to blow. 362 00:23:09,170 --> 00:23:15,090 So, may I propose a toast to new friends and a night you'll never forget. 363 00:23:17,830 --> 00:23:23,870 So, you guys, have a great night. 364 00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,480 I'll see you in the morning. I'll be back to check in. 365 00:23:54,129 --> 00:23:58,930 catalyst for the night's event, I was surprised that she kind of took things 366 00:23:58,930 --> 00:24:02,610 right away. I mean, we hadn't even been down there very long when she walked up 367 00:24:02,610 --> 00:24:05,450 with this black bondage tape. 368 00:24:05,650 --> 00:24:07,350 And I was like, oh, really? 369 00:24:08,250 --> 00:24:11,270 Okay. It's not sticky at all. Yeah, but it sticks to itself. 370 00:24:11,730 --> 00:24:12,870 Are you all blushing? 371 00:24:13,570 --> 00:24:15,710 Oh, shucks. Would you like to come with me? 372 00:24:16,030 --> 00:24:17,030 Okay. 373 00:24:17,250 --> 00:24:18,530 I guess I'm going to stay. 374 00:24:22,510 --> 00:24:24,810 You tell me when it's not okay. 375 00:24:25,030 --> 00:24:27,850 Okay. Or you have to tell me you like, you don't like. 376 00:24:28,350 --> 00:24:33,050 She's leading me into the living room, and I'm definitely nervous. I've never 377 00:24:33,050 --> 00:24:34,810 done this before. I don't know what the hell I'm thinking. 378 00:24:35,750 --> 00:24:37,190 I'm going to blame it on the vodka. 379 00:24:37,990 --> 00:24:39,950 If you're going to lay down. 380 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:48,220 Not being able to like, you know, you're like going crazy with pleasure, but you 381 00:24:48,220 --> 00:24:51,740 can't do anything about it because you're tied up. I don't know. I've 382 00:24:51,740 --> 00:24:52,740 that fantasy. 383 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:57,940 I guess part of the like submissive in me wanting to be dominated by, you know, 384 00:24:57,940 --> 00:25:02,040 a man. I'd always imagine it being with a man, but, you know, I'm not opposed to 385 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:03,040 it being with women either. 386 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:05,260 Is this okay? Comfortable? 387 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:10,840 Okay. And now I'm going to have you hold her leg. 388 00:25:12,180 --> 00:25:13,600 How do you like it? 389 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:14,880 Okay. 390 00:25:22,280 --> 00:25:23,420 It's my girl's birthday. 391 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:27,900 I want to see her get what she came here for. 392 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,600 Everything else for me is just a plus. 393 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,820 She's like very sensually running her hands lightly over my body, and the 394 00:25:42,820 --> 00:25:44,540 sensation is just amazing. 395 00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:49,980 It feels so good. And the fact that I'm blindfolded and tied just kind of just 396 00:25:49,980 --> 00:25:51,320 amplifies the senses. 397 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:55,440 you know, like tenfold. Like everything just becomes so much more intense. 398 00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:28,080 You want more? 399 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:29,520 Mm -hmm. 400 00:26:41,360 --> 00:26:43,660 Is there another room we should go in? 401 00:26:43,940 --> 00:26:44,940 Oh, okay. 402 00:26:44,980 --> 00:26:47,040 Would you like to go in there? Yeah, let's go. 403 00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:48,240 Ooh. 404 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:51,300 I like being tied up. 405 00:26:51,540 --> 00:26:52,840 Yeah. Ew. 406 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,760 Goodness, I feel... That was a nice little preview. Yeah. 407 00:27:00,030 --> 00:27:05,570 I definitely feel pretty proud of myself that I was able to go so far so quickly 408 00:27:05,570 --> 00:27:07,570 and still feel so comfortable. 409 00:27:07,950 --> 00:27:12,190 I mean, I'm here and I'm committed and I'm ready to explore this. 410 00:27:23,450 --> 00:27:28,210 As we enter the bread room, you know, I'm struck by how sensual it is. I mean, 411 00:27:28,210 --> 00:27:31,410 there's red velvet everywhere, and the whole thing is just mattresses and 412 00:27:31,410 --> 00:27:37,110 pillows and treasure chests of play toys and, you know, tables with candles and 413 00:27:37,110 --> 00:27:40,770 lube everywhere. I mean, it's kind of a perfect setup, quite honestly. 414 00:27:41,130 --> 00:27:43,930 It is very sensual. That's what I like about it. Woo! 415 00:27:44,470 --> 00:27:46,390 Comfortable. It was so fun! I know! 416 00:27:47,910 --> 00:27:49,130 We are... 417 00:27:49,500 --> 00:27:54,240 Taking it from where we left it up there. Oh, wow. That's sexy. That's hot. 418 00:27:54,540 --> 00:27:56,640 That is sexy. Oh, that is hot. Okay. 419 00:27:58,500 --> 00:28:01,280 Happy birthday to Amanda. 420 00:28:01,820 --> 00:28:03,180 Oh, happy girl. 421 00:28:16,810 --> 00:28:18,510 We're in another world right now. 422 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:18,360 Good one. 423 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:21,140 What is that? What is that right here? 424 00:29:24,020 --> 00:29:26,280 We need four people, everybody to hold. 425 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,340 That's a lot more vulnerable. 426 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:33,720 Yeah. 427 00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:39,060 Just to have three beautiful women catching me at the same time, such a 428 00:29:39,060 --> 00:29:43,640 vulnerable place to be that, you know, once I made the decision to really just 429 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:45,280 let go and enjoy the experience. 430 00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:46,820 It was completely erotic. 431 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,360 I was looking away. 432 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:29,560 There it goes. 433 00:31:01,870 --> 00:31:06,750 being stimulated by God knows who at this point. I never thought that I would 434 00:31:06,750 --> 00:31:10,730 able to orgasm that quickly, especially in a group of people, but I was 435 00:31:10,730 --> 00:31:15,010 pleasantly surprised to find that I could, not only once, but twice within 436 00:31:15,010 --> 00:31:15,849 10 minutes. 437 00:31:15,850 --> 00:31:18,390 Would you like some water? You know one of the great things about being a 438 00:31:18,390 --> 00:31:21,910 swinger is you never have to worry anymore about drinking off someone 439 00:31:21,910 --> 00:31:26,810 glass. You've swapped something far more intimate than taking off your cup. 440 00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:33,180 Well, after my second orgasm, I was pretty much ready for a break. 441 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:38,360 That 442 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:45,120 was an 443 00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,120 amazing experience. 444 00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:49,100 I mean, there was nothing about it at any point that I really feel. 445 00:31:50,199 --> 00:31:53,920 Awkward. Everyone was extremely respectful and also just, you know, very 446 00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:57,480 sensitive to what I was feeling in the moment and, you know, picked up on what 447 00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:01,100 wanted and what I didn't want. I felt 100 % comfortable with everything that 448 00:32:01,100 --> 00:32:02,100 going on. 449 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:04,640 So, 450 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:11,540 you 451 00:32:11,540 --> 00:32:15,840 know, that was kind of the end of the Red Room experience. We decided to go 452 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:18,600 find out what all the rest of the couples were doing because, you know, 453 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:19,600 weren't there. 454 00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:36,960 And that's how you do it. 455 00:33:00,210 --> 00:33:05,410 Giselle is definitely my type. What I would love to do to Giselle is just kind 456 00:33:05,410 --> 00:33:10,230 of dominate her, kind of hold her down and, you know, just be able to taste 457 00:33:10,290 --> 00:33:15,150 I want to know what she tastes like and just, you know, listen to her whisper as 458 00:33:15,150 --> 00:33:16,150 I make her come. 459 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:33,940 It's really hard to keep myself just laying there because I want to jump on 460 00:33:33,940 --> 00:33:35,600 so bad. It's such a turn on. 461 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:50,680 What I really wanted to complete my birthday experience was to have Josh and 462 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,840 Giselle come up to our room alone to play. 463 00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:03,420 After the scene, I feel like I know you guys really well by now. 464 00:34:03,700 --> 00:34:08,360 From the first instance I walked into that room, the moment I walked in and 465 00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:10,120 your eyes, I was like, Giselle's it. 466 00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,460 Like, that's it. I'm done. I made my choice. That's it. 467 00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:18,620 Josh and Giselle are here in our room, and we're really enjoying the dynamic of 468 00:34:18,620 --> 00:34:20,940 hanging out. They're just both such interesting people. 469 00:34:21,639 --> 00:34:23,560 Situations like these are ideal. 470 00:34:24,139 --> 00:34:27,980 Everybody gets to know each other. Everybody knows where they're at. It's 471 00:34:27,980 --> 00:34:29,100 important. It is. 472 00:34:29,670 --> 00:34:33,750 I'm feeling a lot more comfortable with Josh now because I really understand who 473 00:34:33,750 --> 00:34:37,210 he is, and I also understand a little bit about why he might have made that 474 00:34:37,210 --> 00:34:41,610 comment in the beginning. And I'm really starting to have an attraction to him, 475 00:34:41,690 --> 00:34:44,850 and so I can see playing with him. I'm not unopposed to it. 476 00:34:52,330 --> 00:34:56,130 It just started with a couple simple kisses, and the next thing I know, I 477 00:34:56,130 --> 00:34:59,290 we're rolling around on the bed, grabbing on each other, biting on each 478 00:34:59,330 --> 00:35:00,430 It was just so hot. 479 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:41,940 They're having their fun, and then we sort of split up, and we each started 480 00:35:41,940 --> 00:35:44,000 having sex with our girls. 481 00:35:50,060 --> 00:35:51,320 Oh, God. 482 00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:04,140 I wrapped up first, and Amanda and I went into the bathroom for a little bit 483 00:36:04,140 --> 00:36:06,140 to just kind of clean up. 484 00:36:07,240 --> 00:36:10,760 She went to the bathroom, and I went back out to hang out. 485 00:36:16,660 --> 00:36:23,560 One thing leads to another, and Giselle asked 486 00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:27,980 me, would you mind if she went down on me? And I was like, I don't think so. I 487 00:36:27,980 --> 00:36:31,440 mean, she's going to be out in a few, you know, less than a minute. So, yeah, 488 00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:32,520 sure, get it going. 489 00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,920 I'm feeling the second round here. 490 00:36:36,250 --> 00:36:42,190 I'm pushing the boundary. It wasn't really a conscious push. It just was a 491 00:36:42,190 --> 00:36:43,190 with the flow. 492 00:36:44,730 --> 00:36:49,470 I walk back into the room. Giselle and Daniel are having oral sex with each 493 00:36:49,470 --> 00:36:52,330 other. And we had already made these rules. 494 00:36:52,530 --> 00:36:54,350 We weren't going to swap with the opposite sex. 495 00:36:54,730 --> 00:36:57,390 And it was all going to be same room and that we were going to communicate. 496 00:36:57,690 --> 00:37:01,890 And I am quite disappointed to find that the moment I leave the room, I come 497 00:37:01,890 --> 00:37:04,730 back and Daniel has kind of broken these rules. 498 00:37:08,620 --> 00:37:11,940 A little bit past what we had talked about. Looking back on it, I wish I had 499 00:37:11,940 --> 00:37:15,160 held off for 30 seconds. I pushed the boundary a little bit. 500 00:37:16,660 --> 00:37:20,980 So I asked myself, how do I feel about this right now, in this moment, watching 501 00:37:20,980 --> 00:37:21,979 him with her? 502 00:37:21,980 --> 00:37:27,280 And I found that the more that I'm watching that, the more aroused I'm 503 00:37:28,860 --> 00:37:32,700 It actually doesn't bother me nearly as much as I had anticipated. 504 00:37:37,900 --> 00:37:43,000 Amanda had a moment of uncertainty, but she took a second, processed it, and 505 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:48,220 realized that it really wasn't that big a deal. That right there was my favorite 506 00:37:48,220 --> 00:37:49,440 part of the whole experience. 507 00:37:55,150 --> 00:37:59,490 Proud of myself that I was able to just go through that experience and take it 508 00:37:59,490 --> 00:38:03,430 for what it was and come out on the other end, not only not being bothered 509 00:38:03,430 --> 00:38:05,390 it, but finding it erotic and pleasurable. 510 00:38:05,730 --> 00:38:08,530 And I think I have learned a great deal from that. 511 00:38:30,150 --> 00:38:31,870 Did you have fun last night? 512 00:38:32,110 --> 00:38:33,109 Yeah. 513 00:38:33,110 --> 00:38:35,230 They seemed like a very nice couple. 514 00:38:35,630 --> 00:38:38,590 I think it was a perfect way for Amanda to spend her birthday. 515 00:38:38,930 --> 00:38:40,190 It seemed like she had a lot of fun. 516 00:38:40,470 --> 00:38:41,810 I think they fit in great. 517 00:38:42,150 --> 00:38:47,170 I think I know Amanda did just fine last night. They meshed real well with the 518 00:38:47,170 --> 00:38:49,870 crowd, and it seemed to fit right in. 519 00:38:53,980 --> 00:38:55,020 Morning. Good morning. 520 00:38:55,380 --> 00:38:56,380 How are you? 521 00:38:56,540 --> 00:39:00,440 I'm doing well. Yeah. I imagine it was sort of a crazy night last night. 522 00:39:00,720 --> 00:39:02,200 It was a very crazy night. Nah. 523 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:08,520 We have a therapist downstairs to talk to you guys because when you do anything 524 00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:12,340 that's new and that's intimate and that involves somebody you love, it's sort of 525 00:39:12,340 --> 00:39:15,000 going to stir up some emotions that may surprise you. 526 00:39:15,380 --> 00:39:18,020 You guys are going to go downstairs to talk to her. The only rule is just be 527 00:39:18,020 --> 00:39:21,740 honest with her, be honest with each other, and it should all be good. 528 00:39:22,330 --> 00:39:23,330 Sounds like fun. 529 00:39:23,710 --> 00:39:25,570 Okay, cool. I'll see you guys later. 530 00:39:26,070 --> 00:39:27,390 What do you think? You ready to do this? 531 00:39:27,610 --> 00:39:28,770 Yeah, let's go meet this therapist. 532 00:39:29,050 --> 00:39:30,050 Go bear all? 533 00:39:31,410 --> 00:39:33,230 I'm pretty sure we did that last night. Yeah. 534 00:39:38,130 --> 00:39:41,810 I'm Dr. Lori Buckley, and I'm a relationship and therapist. 535 00:39:42,470 --> 00:39:45,370 Tell me how it was. What was it like for you last night? 536 00:39:45,610 --> 00:39:46,850 I found it very enjoyable. 537 00:39:47,130 --> 00:39:51,370 I kind of had immediate attraction to one of the girls here. That worked out 538 00:39:51,370 --> 00:39:54,870 nicely. It did, it did. I was a little unsure about her guy at first. He came 539 00:39:54,870 --> 00:39:56,710 off slightly abrasive and I was kind of like, eh. 540 00:39:57,090 --> 00:40:00,250 It's a different attraction with him than it is with her. Something like this 541 00:40:00,250 --> 00:40:03,610 great because we come in and it kind of mixes us up a little bit. 542 00:40:03,850 --> 00:40:07,870 Yeah, you get some new ideas too watching other couples, you know, and 543 00:40:07,870 --> 00:40:08,870 way that they have sex. 544 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:12,480 One of the things that we kind of walked away from is something I never 545 00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:18,060 expected, but I think I'm really into bondage and fetish play. I had no idea 546 00:40:18,060 --> 00:40:20,600 that was true about me. So you learned this last night? I did, and now I'm 547 00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:24,660 really excited to try more. I'm like, let's go home and buy a wedding prop. 548 00:40:25,780 --> 00:40:27,220 So that's something you learned. 549 00:40:27,420 --> 00:40:29,800 Yeah. What else did you learn last night? 550 00:40:30,620 --> 00:40:34,840 Even coming into this, I wasn't really that interested in the orgy aspect, and 551 00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,300 we kind of had a little bit of that. 552 00:40:37,029 --> 00:40:41,750 down in the Red Room before Giselle and Josh and Daniel and I got to play by 553 00:40:41,750 --> 00:40:46,290 ourselves. And it was fun, but it was just too much stimulation for me. Like, 554 00:40:46,290 --> 00:40:49,570 there's just too much going on, you know? So the orgy thing doesn't work for 555 00:40:49,570 --> 00:40:53,770 you, but you like being with maybe just one couple. I really do like that 556 00:40:53,770 --> 00:40:56,130 dynamic. Sounds good to me, right? 557 00:40:56,550 --> 00:41:01,070 So if you don't mind, I'd like to spend some time alone with you. Just have the 558 00:41:01,070 --> 00:41:04,650 chance for us to talk one -on -one. Okay. All right. I'll see you in a 559 00:41:04,650 --> 00:41:05,650 bit. Bye -bye. 560 00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:06,920 Good luck. 561 00:41:08,820 --> 00:41:12,500 I just wanted to be able to spend a little bit of time alone with you, see 562 00:41:12,500 --> 00:41:16,120 there's anything on your mind, any concerns or questions that you would 563 00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:17,120 bring up. 564 00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:23,020 There was a moment last night where I went into the bathroom and I came back 565 00:41:23,020 --> 00:41:27,680 Daniel and Giselle were doing their thing and I was just like... What were 566 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:28,680 doing? 567 00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:29,638 Oral sex. 568 00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:34,400 Okay. Which is considered soft swap, but the dynamic we had discussed was girl 569 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:35,400 on girl. 570 00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:38,500 And then you play with me and him play with her. Yeah, and you're not feeling 571 00:41:38,500 --> 00:41:42,180 honored in that moment. Yeah, I mean, that's the thing. I would be okay with 572 00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:43,400 I just want the communication. 573 00:41:43,620 --> 00:41:45,040 I don't want to walk in and be shocked. 574 00:41:45,340 --> 00:41:48,440 And you discussed this with him? I did, and he kind of gave me the mail like, 575 00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,780 well, I thought it counted because we said softball often and we weren't 576 00:41:50,780 --> 00:41:51,759 actually having sex. 577 00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:55,840 So as you go back out into the house, maybe you can open up and share some of 578 00:41:55,840 --> 00:42:00,440 that pain as well so he can really get it and hear it and understand it. And 579 00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:04,320 then I believe that the chances of it happening again are going to be greatly 580 00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:05,320 decreased. 581 00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:06,198 I agree. 582 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:10,540 It's been really a pleasure talking to you. Thank you for opening up to me. 583 00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:15,220 Daniel did break the rules. I do feel a little betrayed, even though I 584 00:42:15,220 --> 00:42:20,560 understand that, you know, in the moment, most men would succumb to that 585 00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,920 pressure. The minor encounter between him and Giselle, which was very, very 586 00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:27,660 minor. I mean, it wasn't anywhere on a scale to like. 587 00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:32,400 have an issue about, really. But I did feel that he was able to understand 588 00:42:32,400 --> 00:42:35,920 I was coming from and, you know, take that to heart. And I don't think he 589 00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:36,738 do that again. 590 00:42:36,740 --> 00:42:40,880 This is just a chance for you to be able to ask me any questions, talk about 591 00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,440 anything. You know, just for us to have some one -on -one time. 592 00:42:45,100 --> 00:42:49,460 What's on my mind? Well, I don't know. I feel pretty comfortable with how 593 00:42:49,460 --> 00:42:50,460 everything's gone. 594 00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:53,780 Daniel's kind of closed mouth. 595 00:42:54,240 --> 00:42:56,900 He's probably in there saying, like, he's got nothing to say. 596 00:42:57,450 --> 00:43:00,650 Okay, well, let's talk about last night. Let's talk about what happened. 597 00:43:01,230 --> 00:43:04,590 Towards the end of the evening, we retired up to the bedroom, and Josh and 598 00:43:04,590 --> 00:43:09,950 Giselle came up to meet us a little bit later, and we just had a really fun, 599 00:43:10,050 --> 00:43:13,050 comfortable evening. We were all just talking and touching. 600 00:43:13,270 --> 00:43:16,810 I mean, we could have just kept going all night, but, well, we did keep going 601 00:43:16,810 --> 00:43:20,050 all night, you know, in the thought of her and another woman. 602 00:43:20,890 --> 00:43:23,990 And the other guy in that situation is... 603 00:43:25,390 --> 00:43:29,650 You know, initially, it wasn't something I was interested in. So initially, you 604 00:43:29,650 --> 00:43:32,290 didn't feel comfortable with her having sex with a guy? 605 00:43:32,510 --> 00:43:35,690 Going into this whole thing, you know, like, that was kind of more what I was 606 00:43:35,690 --> 00:43:39,650 looking for was, you know, a threesome. But as we start to explore this, I 607 00:43:39,650 --> 00:43:44,470 really think that it's a better dynamic and, you know, just a more even balance 608 00:43:44,470 --> 00:43:49,250 to have a couple versus a threesome. You don't really have any concerns except 609 00:43:49,250 --> 00:43:52,610 for maybe Amanda's concerns. 610 00:43:52,950 --> 00:43:54,270 I don't stress about... 611 00:43:54,730 --> 00:43:55,730 Too much in general. 612 00:43:55,970 --> 00:44:00,810 And, you know, so really my concerns are more for her well -being. 613 00:44:01,030 --> 00:44:06,430 So as long as there's no deceit, deception, dishonesty, it's good. Yeah. 614 00:44:06,710 --> 00:44:09,030 Yeah. Is that what attracts you to the lifestyle? 615 00:44:09,410 --> 00:44:14,030 Yeah. People are so committed to their monogamous relationship that they end up 616 00:44:14,030 --> 00:44:17,870 hurting the person they love the most because they can't be honest with them. 617 00:44:18,050 --> 00:44:22,050 Yeah. And I think people in general would. 618 00:44:22,549 --> 00:44:28,610 benefit hugely from just being able to be more open about these insecurities, 619 00:44:28,730 --> 00:44:33,210 which once you get them out there in the light, it's really not that big a deal. 620 00:44:33,490 --> 00:44:39,030 Well, I want you to definitely go out there, enjoy yourself, and I hope you 621 00:44:39,030 --> 00:44:41,910 a really good time your rest of your stay here. 622 00:44:42,470 --> 00:44:43,470 Okay. 623 00:44:44,330 --> 00:44:47,670 We love to be with people that are going to be our friends. 624 00:44:48,030 --> 00:44:49,710 Yeah, we don't like one -night stands. 625 00:44:50,620 --> 00:44:54,720 When you have friends that you can actually play with, you can connect 626 00:44:54,720 --> 00:44:57,700 emotionally and physically and everything on the same level. 627 00:44:57,920 --> 00:44:59,500 Kind of like the icing on the cake. 628 00:45:01,620 --> 00:45:02,620 Amazing. 629 00:45:06,820 --> 00:45:07,820 Hello, guys. 630 00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:10,600 You've had your experience in the house. 631 00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:13,380 Now, alas, the time has come to say goodbye. 632 00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:19,320 Why don't you go find the other residents, say goodbye, and I'll meet 633 00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,960 front? Okay. All right. See you soon. 634 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,900 Well, it was definitely an adventure. 635 00:45:25,380 --> 00:45:26,339 It was that. 636 00:45:26,340 --> 00:45:32,920 I am so sad that I'm leaving the swing house right now. I 637 00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:36,160 can't believe it seems like such a short amount of time. 638 00:45:56,359 --> 00:46:00,200 This experience definitely opened the door for us. It didn't really change how 639 00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:05,900 feel about her in any way, but it definitely opened us up to the 640 00:46:05,900 --> 00:46:06,879 doing this again. 641 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,840 Did you guys have fun? We had so much fun. We had a really good time. Did you 642 00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:13,860 guys push the envelope a little bit? We did, we did. We would have loved to have 643 00:46:13,860 --> 00:46:18,040 the opportunity to push it even further, but the hourglass has run dry. 644 00:46:21,100 --> 00:46:22,560 She had a good birthday. 645 00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:23,760 I did. 646 00:46:23,820 --> 00:46:26,260 Happy birthday. Thank you, guys. 647 00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:27,480 Thank you so much. 648 00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:31,480 Daniel and I stand where we've always stood, on extremely solid ground. Our 649 00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:35,300 relationship feels just as wonderful and as loving and as committed as it ever 650 00:46:35,300 --> 00:46:38,440 was. Okay, so there's just one more thing before you guys go back to your 651 00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:42,360 regular life. This is the contract you signed when you got here. 652 00:46:42,660 --> 00:46:46,060 This basically gave you a free pass to experiment with other people. 653 00:46:46,340 --> 00:46:48,300 Question is, do you want to tear it up? 654 00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:53,280 Or now that you've experienced the lifestyle, do you want to maybe hang on 655 00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:59,300 it? I guess what I'm asking is, was it a fling or do you want to swing again? 656 00:47:03,540 --> 00:47:07,580 The sexual adventure, it's a really tough thing to jump into. 657 00:47:10,700 --> 00:47:13,320 I think the gods are telling us we should hang on to it. 658 00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:16,040 I want to swing again. 659 00:47:16,300 --> 00:47:17,300 I want to swing again. 660 00:47:18,190 --> 00:47:21,670 I really truly feel that this is a huge hurdle that Daniel and I have gotten 661 00:47:21,670 --> 00:47:25,710 over. In the heat of the moment, watching him with Giselle, I was able to 662 00:47:25,710 --> 00:47:29,110 that guard down and really see it for what it was, which was, you know, just a 663 00:47:29,110 --> 00:47:30,110 beautiful experience. 664 00:47:30,250 --> 00:47:33,490 I feel like I just made a bunch of new friends, and now I've got to go away. 665 00:47:33,950 --> 00:47:37,330 I think that Daniel and I have very much enjoyed our experience here at the 666 00:47:37,330 --> 00:47:39,330 Swing House, and we definitely would like to continue. 667 00:47:39,670 --> 00:47:44,350 You know, we saw how much more it is than just facts with other random 668 00:47:44,490 --> 00:47:46,990 It's a way of making, you know, genuine new friends. 669 00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:50,600 And really sharing all of yourself with them. Yeah. 670 00:47:51,060 --> 00:47:52,060 Yeah. 671 00:47:52,240 --> 00:47:53,640 It's a really beautiful experience. 672 00:47:53,900 --> 00:47:54,900 It really was. Yeah. 673 00:47:56,580 --> 00:47:58,120 Well, this was an experience to remember. 57915

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