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What you're about to see is real, real
couples in love, having sex outside
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relationship. They call it the
lifestyle.
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Other people call it swinging.
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In fact, inside this house behind me are
some completely normal, undeniably
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sexy, swinging couples who insist that
sleeping with other people actually
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improves their own relationship with
their partner. Oh, God.
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One new couple is about to join the
party.
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Here's the video they sent me.
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Hi, I'm Chazelle. And I'm Josh.
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And we've been together for two and a
half years.
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We're both very into music.
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I'm a lot more raw.
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Yeah. He's up on the mic, rapping, you
know, freestyling.
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To whom it may consume.
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While we play a tune and celebrate the
moon until it takes us through the sun.
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It's all in tune as one.
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We have a very strong sex drive, and we
have sex pretty often.
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This will be our first time doing
anything in the lifestyle with other
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I can't wait for it to start.
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So, I've secured Josh and Giselle an
invitation to an exclusive Anything Goes
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swing party going on in this house.
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What happens next is entirely up to
them.
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I'm Anna David. I give relationship
advice for a living. But I have a
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I'm going to have my hands full on this
one. Hold on tight.
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This is Swing.
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So we're on our way.
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This is it.
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You're pretty excited, maybe?
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Yeah, I'm pretty excited, actually.
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I don't know what I'm expecting.
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I have, like, butterflies right now,
actually.
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So I am a complete virgin to swinging. I
hadn't really ever considered it. It
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was definitely more Josh's idea to swing
than mine. And he didn't ever push it
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on me. He was like, do you want to do
this?
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And I was like, yes, I do. I want to try
it. I can't wait to meet the couple.
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Definitely.
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So cute when she's nervous. I think
she's kind of like a little kid about to
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step into a candy shop.
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We're here. We're here. You ready? Yeah.
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Okay, baby.
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You ready? I'm ready.
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All right, let's go.
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Hello. Hello.
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How are you? I'm Anna. I'm Giselle. Nice
to meet you, Giselle. I'm Josh.
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Nice to meet you, Josh. Welcome to the
house. Thank you. I think you guys are
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going to be very, very popular here.
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That's good to know.
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Let's do it.
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What was it like when we started doing
this 10 years ago? 10 years ago? It was
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amazing. Yeah? Holy shit, yeah. You
don't remember?
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I don't. You really don't. I mean, bits
and pieces.
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I can't believe. Do you remember our
wedding?
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Welcome to the house. How are you
feeling now, now that you're inside?
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I feel great.
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But is it becoming a little more real,
what's about to happen? Definitely. The
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ride up here was, you know, I started
getting the butterflies, but I'm still,
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you know, very eager to meet the couple.
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Giselle, you do know that you look like,
you know, the just patched, like,
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newbies. Yeah, I'm, you know, I'm like
that secretary freak, you know, like, so
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you wouldn't expect it. Like, take her
hair out of the bun and just watch out.
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Yeah, you know, we're looking to have
just a good, fun, party -type vibe, you
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know. Party naked. What would your ideal
couple be?
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I'm actually kind of hoping to hook up
with an experienced, like, older couple.
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And Josh?
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Honestly, I'm hoping that everybody's
really cool and we could maybe just have
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big orgy.
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I, you know, your wish may come true
here.
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So, the people in this house.
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They have rules.
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You know, each couple sort of works out
what they're comfortable with. Have you
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guys talked about what, you know, your
rules are?
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We've talked about our rules, yeah, and
we definitely like to do everything
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together. We definitely want to do this
as a unit. Like, you know, we want to be
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in the same room so we can experience
the whole thing together.
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Giselle and I have been discussing our
rules and our limitations, and we've
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thus far agreed that... As long as
there's no sack between her and another
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while I'm not playing, then I'm fine.
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But, you know, if somebody wants to eat
her pussy or something like that, you
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know, if she gets a little ravished in a
situation, that is what she came here
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to do. That'll be perfectly fine with
me. What I have here is a contract that
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basically says...
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What happens in this house stays in this
house, which just means you're not
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going to use it against her, you're not
going to use it against him later.
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Why don't you read it? You guys know
what you're signing.
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We agree to embark upon a special and
unique adventure during which all rules
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of a monogamous relationship are
suspended.
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We give one another full and complete
permission to explore, pursue, and
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in relationships with other partners,
both male and female, knowing that the
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ultimate goal is a stronger, healthier,
more fulfilling relationship for both
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parties. Sounds good? Sounds good.
Sounds good. Swinging is definitely all
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trust. This is an important piece of
paper for you to, you know, honor and
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seriously.
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And I will hold on to it.
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All right, you guys. So now it's time
for you to go get changed. Go out to the
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pool where the couples are waiting for
you. Cool. And, you know, remember that
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the goal of this is to make your
relationship stronger.
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I think it will.
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I hope so.
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I just started feeling like a rock star,
like the old limo thing, this big room.
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Like, it's just, wow, I feel, like,
special.
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Maybe we should have a quickie before we
go out. I'm down to have a quickie
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before I go out there.
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I'm getting in this house. I'm getting
in this vibe. I'm like, okay, this is
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real. I'm here. I need to start getting
excited.
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Not that I wasn't already excited.
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I'm not nervous at all about the
situation. I'm actually just very
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like to get in there and get it started.
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This is definitely, I think, taking the
next step in our relationship.
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Like, seriously, really?
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About the whole sex and other people,
like, you know? It's a big thing. A lot
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people wouldn't even consider it. A lot
of couples wouldn't even be comfortable.
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Okay.
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I don't.
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I'm really ready to get it kicked off
myself.
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I really feel like this is going to be a
great experience, and we're going to
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have a good time. Let's get in there.
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So, ready or not, let's go for it. Let's
go, right?
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The first time Michael introduced me to
the lifestyle, he approached me, and he
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was like, hey, baby, this is something
I've experienced in the past, and what
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you think? And I was all for it.
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And so we go.
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The first lifestyle party. And the first
one was amazing.
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The first one was really fun.
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And I couldn't wait for the next time.
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You were literally asking, when's the
next party? When's the next party?
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Look at me now.
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walking out to the pool area to meet all
these couples.
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And, you know, I'm nervous.
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It's been an awesome life. I would
actually, yes, I'm extremely bisexual.
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I would say that I'm much more attracted
to girls than guys.
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We have a connection.
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So this is my beautiful, beautiful,
beautiful, beautiful girlfriend of nine
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years. Nine years.
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We're definitely open to learning from
everyone.
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It's about asking permission, and it
goes back to that. You said it. It's
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respect. All the couples had something
different to say about it. I feel like I
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was gaining knowledge.
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The do's and don'ts of swinging.
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If the door is closed, it means you
can't come in. You don't just barge in.
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have to knock.
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I feel like Giselle and I might be like
kids on our first day at class, and
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we're out here, and we're getting a
little bit of an education on the
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If the door's partly open, that means
they want you to come in and see, but
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know what I mean?
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You know, if it's wide open, I mean,
come on in.
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When I first met Early, I thought he was
attractive.
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He's really nice. He's really funny. He
made me laugh.
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And my first thought, you know, is I've
never been with Black Eye, but...
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I would be really down to get with this
black guy.
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I like to give and receive, so.
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And he does too.
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Everyone's like, well, we just do girl,
girl. We just do soft swap. We just do,
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you know. We don't do anything. We just
like to sit and look at each other.
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Immediately.
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I already knew who Giselle was vibing
on, and I already knew who I was vibing
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on. Ashley is a gorgeous little five
-foot stick of dynamite, and I'm really
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hoping that we can get a little time
with Ashley in early tonight. That would
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great. All right, guys, we're going to
play a game. Let's play a game. All
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right, let's get this out.
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Game time!
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Going to our first lifestyle party.
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Mm -hmm.
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I was kind of nervous, but I kind of
knew what to expect.
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I wasn't really nervous, but I knew what
to expect, right?
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Yeah, but we were both on the same page
as far as knowing what we were getting
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into. And we just kind of went in both
feet.
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But again, you can't know what your
limitations are if you don't try them.
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you don't try them out, right?
Absolutely.
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This is called Eat My Cherry.
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I want to get all the guys. All the
guys, sit over here. Grab a seat and
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the bowl. Girls, you're going to take
the cherries one by one out of the bowl
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with your mouth only. Take the cherry
and then put it in the bowl on the man's
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side. Whoever has all the cherries out
of the bowl on this side is the winner
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this game. Okay. All right? Use your
mouth on the cherries. On your mark, get
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set.
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I was paired up with Early. We won the
game. And I'm thinking in my head, I
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Ashley to give me a lap down.
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I'm really attracted to Ashley.
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I think she's really cute.
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I'm watching Ashley grind on Giselle and
I'm thinking
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I'd like to see a lot more of this later
on tonight.
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When she kisses me, it took me by
surprise, but I really enjoyed it.
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When Ashley was on my lap, I was just
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thinking about how much I wanted to just
grab her ass.
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I like this girl. I want to experiment
and play with her later. That's what I
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was thinking.
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Like, let's do some stuff.
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What's next?
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So we're walking up to our room, covered
in grass and cherry juice, and we want
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to shower off and get ready for the rest
of the night, and all of a sudden Mike
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and Meg pop out of nowhere wanting to
take a shower with us. So, okay.
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We're all feeling each other out right
now, and that's good. You know, I like
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it. I like the assertiveness. I like
that they came in and showed us that
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were interested.
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Oh, my God. It's so funny. You guys came
into the room just for me to talk
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about. You guys, like, sharing our
hours. It's so funny you guys came in
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I'm so glad, too.
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We're seeing them naked and we're
touching each other.
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And so, yeah, I definitely thought they
were probably going to be, you know, the
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couple.
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I felt sexy, you know. I actually kind
of felt like doing more, but I was, I
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don't know, I had these, like, reserves.
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Okay, I think we're done.
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Okay.
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I mean, the ice was definitely starting
to break.
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Well, thank you for letting us join you.
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Ready here?
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We'll see you guys next year.
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Sounds fun.
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Sounds fun.
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Soft swap is really hard to define in
the lifestyle. It could mean you're in
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same room with another couple just doing
your own thing. It could mean that you
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do oral on other people and you do
everything except penetration.
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It might just be girl, girl and the guys
watch.
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And then there's full swap, which is
what we do. That's basically anything
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It's more fun.
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So what do you guys think about the
other people here this weekend?
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They're great.
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Yeah. They're laid back, cool.
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Both of them have made the decision.
They know what they want. They know what
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they don't want.
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And that's that. Yeah. She's hot. She's
a cutie. She's really cool.
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Yeah. We're all high later.
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We showered with them. They're fun.
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Brag on, Blair. Brag on.
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That was really fun.
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I really enjoyed my kiss with Ashley.
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Did you? Yeah, I did. I'm getting in
this vibe, and I think it's human
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We all have desires to get with other
people sometimes.
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I definitely want to, and I'm ready to
do it.
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But what about Meg and Ryan?
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They're fun.
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They're fun, huh?
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That was really cool that they came in
the shower with us.
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Well, you know, I really feel like, too,
in this situation, you know, like, I
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don't think any doors should be closed.
You know, I think we should just go all
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out. Yeah, for sure.
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What do you think of the newbie?
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Hot. You like Giselle?
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Yeah, she's very pretty.
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Very nice, yeah.
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So what do you think of him?
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I like him. I like his long hair.
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So what do you think about Giselle and
how interested she is in women and
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I mean... All girls either want to find
out or want to try it.
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That's right.
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Who are you most down for?
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Honestly, probably Ashley.
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I would say I'm more attracted to girls
than guys.
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There's just something about girls that
I'm just way more down for.
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You know that I don't have any problems,
like, making the first move, you know?
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But I guess in this situation, it's like
I don't really know what to do.
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I don't want to, like...
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freak anyone out.
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Yeah, I think everybody's here to get
their freak on, though. I know. We're
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trying to freak out. We're trying to
freak on. I know. You know, I thought I
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going to be able to make the first move,
but I think I'm going to have more
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trouble with that than I thought I
would.
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I guess that's what I'm trying to do. So
if I make the first move, would that
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make it easier?
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Probably.
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I'm nervous.
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I, you know, we just met all these
couples and, you know, I'm starting to
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know them, but I still, you know, I
don't...
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I don't know what to expect. Is there
anything that you'd really like to do
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tonight?
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I just want to, like, you know, have
some girl play, you know.
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That would be fun.
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Sounds like fun.
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You want to do full swap?
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What are we here for?
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I'm down for that.
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Okay, well, let's go for it.
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Okay. I'm really ready to get it kicked
off myself. You know, my nerves are very
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tamed right now because, you know, I
know Giselle's coming back to me at the
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of the night, and I'm really just
completely going with the flow right
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great.
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I mean, like, this is awesome.
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That's crazy.
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I'm here to welcome you to your first
night in the lifestyle.
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Cheers.
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Cheers.
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So here's the deal. You get to have as
much fun as you want. You get to do
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whatever you want.
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But you also have to deal with whatever
consequences come up. Does that sound
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fair? Yes.
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Absolutely. Okay, then. Now, the rest of
you, remember, they're new to this.
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So you're going to be the ones that are
showing them the rope.
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Okay, who's got the rope?
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I'm going to be back in the morning to
check up on you.
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We'll have tons of stories probably for
you. I can only imagine.
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I would like to propose a toast. To
Giselle and Josh.
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May you have a night that you
absolutely, positively never forget.
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To the lifestyle.
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This has definitely been something we've
wanted to do for a really long time.
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And so, I don't know, we're really
excited about it. And I'm blushing right
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I think Giselle is a lot less nervous
than when she first started. I think
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the ice has been officially broken. I
think her comfortability level has gone
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leaps and bounds.
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She's just really flowing with it and
just really in the moment.
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It's really awesome to see.
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We want to kick off the night with a lot
of activity. Us beautiful women are
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going to have a lingerie party.
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We are going to go get changed into
lingerie.
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Now that's a party.
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So us guys, why don't we go into the
living room, hang out, talk, drink,
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We're going to go in the guest room and
all get changed and come out for a
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minute. I like dressing up in lingerie.
I mean, what girl doesn't? You know, we
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like looking sexy.
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So all the girls go to my room to change
into the lingerie.
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Cute. It was cool.
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And then what are you going over there
for, Giselle?
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I think it was the same thing.
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What's that?
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That's perfect.
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And I just let them go.
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Okay. And I let the nipples pop out.
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That is awesome.
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So raise your hand if you've had sex
today.
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Jesus. Any questions for us?
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Well, I know you mentioned you do just
soft swap. Are you the only couple here
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that does just soft swap?
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Cool. So everybody else is full swap,
though.
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Okay. That's a big question. You know
what I mean? That tells a lot.
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It's just being comfortable and having
fun.
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When we first started in the lifestyle,
we had...
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I mean, we had tons of rules. There was
no kissing, and there was no oral, and
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there was just all kinds of rules. You
never know how far the boundaries are
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going to be unless you test them. And we
tested them, and we decided that that's
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not for us anymore. Our feelings are
very important.
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Yeah, the emotions of the lifestyle can
be really tricky, so you've got to make
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sure it's something that both you and
her are comfortable with.
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Are you having a good time?
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It's very, like, different.
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Josh and I talked about it, and we're
both stoked that, like, everyone's
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cool. What do you think of Early?
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I think he's cute.
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Because he's so outgoing and so funny
and chill and just like, yeah, I like
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He's cool.
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He's a cool guy.
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What's your ultimate fantasy?
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I just want to have a big orgy.
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I just think, like, everyone together is
just, like, so much better because
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it's, like, you know.
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Absolutely. I'm not really that nervous
anymore, you know. I'm getting, I'm
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starting to get really comfortable, and
I'm letting go.
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So, earlier, did you like the kiss? Your
little lap dance?
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Was that hot?
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Popped you a cherry for you?
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Yeah. Let's have a kiss again.
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Right, now that's fun.
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Thank you
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What do you guys want to have happen
tonight? My picture perfect?
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We would have a complete orgy.
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Honestly. You know, I like to go big or
go home. Go big or go home.
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You want to do that? Yeah. Cheers.
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Cheers to that.
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Somebody hold on.
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Ooh! Ah!
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Dang them!
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Who's that now?
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Holy cow. You already got better.
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You guys have not seen the Red Room. You
haven't seen it yet?
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Well, grab your socks and your cocks and
let's go.
365
00:28:23,290 --> 00:28:26,610
Let's go. First of all, I'm wondering,
why is it called the Red Room?
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Here we go.
367
00:28:32,610 --> 00:28:34,690
Oh, my God. And the Red Room.
368
00:28:35,130 --> 00:28:37,710
And I am just super nervous.
369
00:28:38,170 --> 00:28:39,470
What's up with this, right?
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This is dope.
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00:28:41,050 --> 00:28:46,370
I am getting, oh, my gosh, I am turning
beet red. My heart is.
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00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:52,360
pounding out of my chest wow this is the
red room for a reason it's just amazing
373
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:58,860
it looks like the it looks like just a
big play pen for adults this is good
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00:28:58,860 --> 00:29:05,840
stuff right here right when we get in
the red room giselle looks at me
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and i can tell that she'd like to talk
are you eager to get back in there i
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absolutely am
377
00:29:16,460 --> 00:29:18,640
I'm nervous, but I'm okay.
378
00:29:19,260 --> 00:29:20,260
It's, like, exciting.
379
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:23,920
It's like before you get on a roller
coaster. It's like you're really
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but once you get on the ride, it's,
like, so fun.
381
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,200
The whole vibe is set up so sensual.
382
00:29:31,700 --> 00:29:34,940
And that is so awesome. Like, I'm so
glad it's sensual.
383
00:29:35,660 --> 00:29:42,320
That's definitely, from my first
experience, I couldn't ask for more, you
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Are you comfortable?
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Are you okay?
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00:29:45,390 --> 00:29:47,450
I said I'm ready to get back in there.
Okay.
387
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:29,120
You know, of course, first things first,
Ashley and Giselle have some business
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to tend to, and they're all over each
other, and it's just fucking amazing.
389
00:31:50,330 --> 00:31:52,230
It was so amazing.
390
00:31:52,490 --> 00:31:54,690
It was just so incredible to feel.
391
00:31:54,890 --> 00:32:01,370
Like, there were so many hands just
touching, like, every inch of my body.
392
00:32:01,410 --> 00:32:06,650
like, different girls are kissing me.
And I closed my eyes because it was... I
393
00:32:06,650 --> 00:32:10,750
just wanted to just completely let go.
I'm completely letting go.
394
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,620
The Red Room is just amazing.
395
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:08,960
I mean, everybody is just so open.
396
00:33:09,220 --> 00:33:13,240
Everybody's just really enjoying each
other, and I really like the way it's
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developing. I like that nobody's really
pushing each other's limits.
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Nobody's disrespecting one another, and
everybody just really seems to be here
399
00:33:21,740 --> 00:33:22,740
to have a good time.
400
00:33:24,820 --> 00:33:27,880
I loved everybody's vibe. I loved
everybody's interaction.
401
00:33:29,220 --> 00:33:30,960
People left when they were ready to.
402
00:33:31,470 --> 00:33:37,790
And early, Ashley, Giselle, and myself,
you know, continued on.
403
00:33:37,950 --> 00:33:44,150
And it turned into just a full swap by
the end. And, yeah, it was a great time.
404
00:35:29,710 --> 00:35:30,710
How do you feel?
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00:35:30,870 --> 00:35:33,050
I'm, like, speechless, honestly.
406
00:35:33,790 --> 00:35:37,310
That was such an amazing experience.
407
00:35:39,950 --> 00:35:42,130
I had no idea, honestly.
408
00:35:42,550 --> 00:35:48,450
When I, like, started getting involved,
like, I was a little nervous, but then
409
00:35:48,450 --> 00:35:53,750
once I started, like, I let go, and it
was awesome. I
410
00:35:53,750 --> 00:35:57,110
wasn't nervous at all.
411
00:35:57,660 --> 00:35:59,340
And I just wanted to just enjoy myself.
412
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:03,040
And I did. I feel like, yeah, that's
awesome.
413
00:36:11,279 --> 00:36:14,400
Most of the time we find that we get up
the next morning and there's no tension
414
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:17,960
between couples. We have breakfast. We
chat about things from the night before.
415
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:21,780
We chat about, you know, the next party.
Yeah. They're making coffee and, you
416
00:36:21,780 --> 00:36:24,880
know, sometimes they'll come out nude
and they'll slap you on the butt or, you
417
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:28,420
know, grab your boobs or something. But
it's all joking and it's just normal.
418
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:29,840
Then you get dressed and you start your
day.
419
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:44,980
This was such an amazing experience. I
think we're both really lucky to have
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00:36:44,980 --> 00:36:45,980
this experience.
421
00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:52,600
I feel that I really dove into the whole
lifestyle, like, very
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00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,600
confidently.
423
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:59,560
I actually got comments, you know, like
everyone was like, wow, you're really
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00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:03,880
comfortable right now. And it was really
just because everyone was just so
425
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:08,180
comfortable to be with. And I'm a really
sexual person, you know, and I just let
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00:37:08,180 --> 00:37:09,180
go.
427
00:37:13,390 --> 00:37:14,710
I had a lot of fun last night.
428
00:37:15,870 --> 00:37:16,870
Did you?
429
00:37:18,250 --> 00:37:24,190
Yeah. I really don't know how to
describe when I was getting completely
430
00:37:24,190 --> 00:37:26,190
ravished by everyone.
431
00:37:26,970 --> 00:37:28,750
I just, like, I don't even know.
432
00:37:29,010 --> 00:37:30,710
I wasn't even there, I felt like.
433
00:37:30,930 --> 00:37:34,690
I was just, like, out of my body,
letting it all happen.
434
00:37:35,870 --> 00:37:40,090
I just didn't even know how, like,
orgies even went. Like, I've seen orgies
435
00:37:40,090 --> 00:37:41,090
TV, you know.
436
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:44,680
But once you're in the situation, like,
what do I do now?
437
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:47,020
What did you think of Early?
438
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:48,800
I like him.
439
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:50,600
He's cool.
440
00:37:50,780 --> 00:37:54,700
He's, like, funny and confident.
441
00:37:55,300 --> 00:37:56,320
I like that.
442
00:37:56,980 --> 00:38:02,280
Watching Giselle have sex with Early,
definitely an interesting experience.
443
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:07,040
Very interesting seeing it from the
outside view, watching somebody that you
444
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,180
have sex with on a daily basis have sex.
445
00:38:10,460 --> 00:38:12,300
And it actually, it's quite a turn on.
446
00:38:12,700 --> 00:38:13,700
Ashley was great.
447
00:38:13,980 --> 00:38:14,980
Yeah, Ashley was.
448
00:38:15,240 --> 00:38:16,240
She's hilarious.
449
00:38:16,260 --> 00:38:18,040
She's got a really big personality.
450
00:38:18,740 --> 00:38:22,260
All bottled up in a little five foot
body.
451
00:38:22,500 --> 00:38:23,500
Yeah.
452
00:38:23,700 --> 00:38:28,320
I feel like our relationship has like
been taken to the next level.
453
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,840
This was definitely like a trust thing
for me.
454
00:38:32,140 --> 00:38:36,460
You know, I wouldn't have been able to
do it if you weren't like really chill,
455
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:39,400
you know, really cool about it. We
didn't have any problems.
456
00:38:39,930 --> 00:38:40,930
We didn't.
457
00:38:42,010 --> 00:38:47,270
We got through our first swinging
experience not pissed off at each other.
458
00:38:49,730 --> 00:38:50,930
That's a good thing, right?
459
00:38:57,050 --> 00:39:02,790
What all went down last night?
460
00:39:03,110 --> 00:39:04,890
I think Josh and Giselle definitely.
461
00:39:05,690 --> 00:39:11,450
fit in quite well with everybody. I
think it'll work for her. I was like,
462
00:39:11,450 --> 00:39:13,830
at these two, you know. We're not
beginners anymore.
463
00:39:14,470 --> 00:39:16,630
And everybody kind of started.
464
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It started off spread, you know, like
mattress, you know, everybody had a
465
00:39:21,300 --> 00:39:25,400
mattress. The lines on the mattress,
between the mattresses started becoming
466
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:27,200
more blurred, you know.
467
00:39:27,900 --> 00:39:31,860
Then we had a couple little interesting
issues of nipple rings lost.
468
00:39:32,660 --> 00:39:33,740
Where's the balls?
469
00:39:33,960 --> 00:39:37,600
Well, I've got balls, not those balls,
the metal balls, Will.
470
00:39:38,620 --> 00:39:40,100
Giselle did a great job.
471
00:39:41,230 --> 00:39:44,410
Getting to know everybody a little bit
last night.
472
00:39:45,590 --> 00:39:48,930
She's a good kisser. She kind of went
around everybody.
473
00:39:49,550 --> 00:39:53,230
Everybody almost pretty much got a
little taste.
474
00:39:53,570 --> 00:39:56,350
A little smack on the ass.
475
00:39:59,250 --> 00:40:06,030
So who
476
00:40:06,030 --> 00:40:08,410
instigated the Ashley?
477
00:40:09,140 --> 00:40:10,180
Giselle format.
478
00:40:10,460 --> 00:40:15,700
We started out there with the game, when
we played the cherry game, and then she
479
00:40:15,700 --> 00:40:19,380
kind of instigated it when we were in
the red room, and that really broke the
480
00:40:19,380 --> 00:40:19,779
ice for me.
481
00:40:19,780 --> 00:40:22,180
Don't they just look like a good pair
anyway?
482
00:40:22,720 --> 00:40:27,020
And I just made the decision to let go.
483
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:32,520
No worries about Josh freaking out or
being... If I say I'm willing to try
484
00:40:32,520 --> 00:40:34,260
something, I'll see it out.
485
00:40:35,310 --> 00:40:38,230
I mean, either way. And then if we
decided we didn't like it, then maybe we
486
00:40:38,230 --> 00:40:41,390
wouldn't do it again, you know? So you
do like it. You are going to do it
487
00:40:41,410 --> 00:40:46,410
Yeah. There was, like, one moment in
time where I had, like, looked over and
488
00:40:46,410 --> 00:40:50,890
saw Josh, and I was just thinking, like,
it was, like, weird for, like, one
489
00:40:50,890 --> 00:40:53,630
second, and then it totally wasn't
anymore, so.
490
00:40:55,770 --> 00:40:57,630
Good morning, Lifestylers.
491
00:40:57,850 --> 00:40:58,850
Good morning, Anna.
492
00:40:59,370 --> 00:41:01,390
You look like you had a fun night.
493
00:41:01,730 --> 00:41:03,050
We did. We did.
494
00:41:05,670 --> 00:41:08,710
You swap for the first time ever. Yeah.
495
00:41:09,470 --> 00:41:10,730
And for the second time.
496
00:41:12,730 --> 00:41:15,310
So that's bound to bring up some
emotions, right?
497
00:41:15,770 --> 00:41:18,930
Possibly jealousy, maybe just joy.
498
00:41:19,530 --> 00:41:23,910
I've got a wonderful therapist, a couple
of counselors for you guys to talk to
499
00:41:23,910 --> 00:41:29,170
to sort of, you know, suss everything
out. And the only thing that I ask, just
500
00:41:29,170 --> 00:41:31,250
be honest with her and with each other.
501
00:41:31,810 --> 00:41:33,270
Deal? Deal.
502
00:41:33,570 --> 00:41:37,010
All right, then. Let's get going. You
know, therapists charge by the hour.
503
00:41:39,270 --> 00:41:42,890
This lifestyle forces you to communicate
because you know people want to have
504
00:41:42,890 --> 00:41:46,170
sex with your wife or you want to have
sex with another world. And you can't
505
00:41:46,170 --> 00:41:47,170
just go off and do that.
506
00:41:48,310 --> 00:41:51,470
You can try. You have to talk about it.
But then you're going to have a whole
507
00:41:51,470 --> 00:41:55,370
other issue. So you can, you know, but
you have to talk about it. The lifestyle
508
00:41:55,370 --> 00:41:58,270
forces you to do that. It helps to get
to know your partner better, too.
509
00:42:01,190 --> 00:42:02,210
Hi Giselle and Josh.
510
00:42:02,470 --> 00:42:04,750
Welcome. I'm Dr. Lori Buckley.
511
00:42:05,230 --> 00:42:09,630
And I'm here to talk to you about your
relationship, your experience.
512
00:42:09,990 --> 00:42:12,590
Tell me what it's been like so far.
513
00:42:12,890 --> 00:42:14,930
It was amazing, honestly.
514
00:42:15,290 --> 00:42:22,010
It was just such a crazy experience. I
let everything go in my mind. I didn't
515
00:42:22,010 --> 00:42:27,690
question myself. So I just kind of felt
around and like crawled around and early
516
00:42:27,690 --> 00:42:31,750
had... Started, like, you know, feeling
me up, and everyone was kind of feeling
517
00:42:31,750 --> 00:42:33,310
me up, actually, for a little while.
518
00:42:33,730 --> 00:42:35,230
It was very intense.
519
00:42:35,710 --> 00:42:40,210
So this was the first time that you had
seen Giselle with another guy.
520
00:42:40,510 --> 00:42:41,328
Mm -hmm.
521
00:42:41,330 --> 00:42:43,530
Tell me a little bit more about what
that was like for you.
522
00:42:43,850 --> 00:42:44,850
It was fun.
523
00:42:44,990 --> 00:42:48,110
Yeah, and hearing her say it, you're
good. It doesn't bother me.
524
00:42:48,350 --> 00:42:52,530
Okay. You know, like, I'm the kind of
person that I either go big or I go
525
00:42:52,730 --> 00:42:54,690
Well, speaking of going big or going
home...
526
00:42:55,370 --> 00:42:58,630
I think now would be a good time to
speak with you alone.
527
00:42:59,550 --> 00:43:03,450
Why don't I first speak with you,
Giselle? When Josh met me, I was a
528
00:43:03,450 --> 00:43:04,450
conservative girl.
529
00:43:04,630 --> 00:43:08,290
And Josh just, you know, he's wild.
530
00:43:08,510 --> 00:43:09,510
He's very wild.
531
00:43:09,630 --> 00:43:14,150
He's really helped me, like, be more
confident and be, like, you know.
532
00:43:15,050 --> 00:43:16,490
I don't know, stand out for myself.
533
00:43:16,770 --> 00:43:20,850
So Giselle, this is just a time for us
to spend together if there's anything.
534
00:43:21,390 --> 00:43:24,750
Maybe that's on your mind that you
didn't feel comfortable talking about in
535
00:43:24,750 --> 00:43:25,649
front of Josh.
536
00:43:25,650 --> 00:43:30,190
My only concern with swinging with Josh
is that we're going to be in a really
537
00:43:30,190 --> 00:43:35,010
cool situation and we're having a lot of
fun and just suddenly his mood just
538
00:43:35,010 --> 00:43:39,450
flip -flops and then kind of he kills
the vibe and then it's all weird. And I
539
00:43:39,450 --> 00:43:41,710
don't want to be selfish, you know.
Nothing wrong with that.
540
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:46,700
course you're going to be selfish right
you want to be able to enjoy yourself to
541
00:43:46,700 --> 00:43:51,600
take care of yourself you know selfish
gets a bad rap sometimes go forward
542
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:57,440
yourself take advantage of this
opportunity and see what happens this
543
00:43:57,440 --> 00:44:03,740
is definitely about you know testing the
waters and pushing the boundaries and
544
00:44:03,740 --> 00:44:10,010
i'm very ready to do that and i think
josh is too i just think he needs to
545
00:44:10,010 --> 00:44:14,930
himself in a little bit, whereas I could
just dive headfirst in.
546
00:44:15,730 --> 00:44:19,090
Now I'm going to spend time with you. I
just wanted to have a chance just to see
547
00:44:19,090 --> 00:44:21,150
if there was anything that you wanted to
talk about.
548
00:44:21,390 --> 00:44:23,310
It's really funny what's happened with
us.
549
00:44:23,970 --> 00:44:27,670
We've had this really weird flip where
it's like, she's like...
550
00:44:28,320 --> 00:44:31,660
calmed me down quite a bit, turned me
into a bit of a homebody.
551
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:36,480
But at the same time, I kind of flipped
her wig and made her want to get real
552
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:40,940
rowdy. You complement each other. So I
want your honest opinion. What do you
553
00:44:40,940 --> 00:44:45,900
think about the lifestyle for a couple
that's in our situation?
554
00:44:46,460 --> 00:44:51,560
Well, I'll just say, generally speaking,
the lifestyle people, couples who
555
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:54,380
choose to engage in it, for some, it's
great.
556
00:44:54,810 --> 00:44:59,590
It can be something that can enhance
your relationship instead of it being
557
00:44:59,590 --> 00:45:05,390
something that is a way for you to get
pleasure outside of your relationship.
558
00:45:05,930 --> 00:45:09,230
Do you see the difference? It's a subtle
distinction, but it's really, really
559
00:45:09,230 --> 00:45:14,930
important. So I'm going to say to you,
if you continue to be open and talk,
560
00:45:14,930 --> 00:45:19,030
about your concerns, talk about your
feelings with Giselle, then it could be
561
00:45:19,030 --> 00:45:22,530
something really great for you. I care
very deeply about Giselle. I think
562
00:45:22,530 --> 00:45:23,530
obvious.
563
00:45:24,090 --> 00:45:27,790
I mean, I'm all in with Giselle. I could
see how this lifestyle could really
564
00:45:27,790 --> 00:45:28,950
bring people closer together.
565
00:45:31,690 --> 00:45:32,690
Hey, guys.
566
00:45:33,130 --> 00:45:34,130
Josh, Giselle.
567
00:45:34,170 --> 00:45:36,130
It's been a mind -blowing couple of
days.
568
00:45:36,670 --> 00:45:37,990
Definitely. Yes, it really has.
569
00:45:38,310 --> 00:45:40,290
Yeah, you came in here a swinger virgin.
570
00:45:40,710 --> 00:45:43,150
Now you're like lifestylers, right?
571
00:45:44,110 --> 00:45:45,310
We're getting there, you know.
572
00:45:45,510 --> 00:45:48,210
Well, alas, it's now time to say your
goodbyes.
573
00:45:48,450 --> 00:45:51,790
And for you guys to say your goodbyes to
them. I'll give you a few minutes. I'll
574
00:45:51,790 --> 00:45:52,790
meet you out front.
575
00:45:52,890 --> 00:45:55,050
Okay. Okay. All right. We'll be right
out.
576
00:45:56,150 --> 00:45:59,090
Bye. Oh, my God. How are you?
577
00:46:00,870 --> 00:46:04,990
Nice meeting you guys. Have fun. Nice
meeting you.
578
00:46:05,610 --> 00:46:12,470
Thank you. Thank all of you, like, for
making our experience so awesome.
579
00:46:12,690 --> 00:46:13,870
I had, like, the best.
580
00:46:14,920 --> 00:46:16,640
mind -blowing time of my life.
581
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:19,520
So, I can't wait to do it again.
582
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:21,300
Hope to see you again.
583
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:22,680
Yes, everyone.
584
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:24,600
Gosh,
585
00:46:25,660 --> 00:46:26,660
I'm going to miss them.
586
00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,820
Okay, guys.
587
00:46:30,100 --> 00:46:32,820
There's just one more thing before you
head back to your real life.
588
00:46:33,060 --> 00:46:35,020
This is the contract you signed.
589
00:46:35,420 --> 00:46:40,580
Basically, it was a two -day pass to do
whatever you want with whoever you want.
590
00:46:40,700 --> 00:46:41,760
So, here's the question.
591
00:46:42,300 --> 00:46:43,600
Do we tear it up?
592
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:46,400
You guys go back to your regular life
and monogamy?
593
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:51,700
Or do you want to try this again? Just
basically, was it a fling?
594
00:46:52,300 --> 00:46:54,280
Or do you want to swing again?
595
00:47:05,620 --> 00:47:09,220
Well, actually, I want to answer your
question with a question.
596
00:47:10,810 --> 00:47:15,430
We've been talking about it, and we'd
actually really like to stay if we
597
00:47:16,410 --> 00:47:18,890
Really? Yeah. If we could. Yeah.
598
00:47:19,390 --> 00:47:21,770
Awesome. That can certainly be arranged.
599
00:47:22,430 --> 00:47:24,430
I'm feeling like I don't want to leave.
600
00:47:24,730 --> 00:47:26,230
Giselle doesn't want to leave.
601
00:47:26,470 --> 00:47:28,810
You know, I can rock on. You know, we
could stay.
602
00:47:29,070 --> 00:47:32,770
I'm really looking forward to getting to
know the other couples a lot better.
603
00:47:32,930 --> 00:47:34,790
I'm definitely willing and ready.
604
00:47:35,580 --> 00:47:40,200
to move forward with any one of them as
long as Giselle likes their partner. You
605
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:43,740
know, as I said, I'm a connoisseur of
women, and, you know, I'm ready to pour
606
00:47:43,740 --> 00:47:46,400
glass. Looks like you get the rest of
the day off.
607
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:48,140
Thank you very much.
608
00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:51,880
And Josh, Giselle, welcome back to the
house.
609
00:47:52,460 --> 00:47:53,460
Thank you.
50555
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