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What you're about to see is real, real couples in love, having sex outside

relationship. They call it the lifestyle.

Other people call it swinging.

In fact, inside this house behind me are some completely normal, undeniably

sexy, swinging couples who insist that sleeping with other people actually

improves their own relationship with their partner. Oh, God.

One new couple is about to join the party.

Here's the video they sent me.

Hi, I'm Chazelle. And I'm Josh.

And we've been together for two and a half years.

We're both very into music.

I'm a lot more raw.

Yeah. He's up on the mic, rapping, you know, freestyling.

To whom it may consume.

While we play a tune and celebrate the moon until it takes us through the sun.

It's all in tune as one.

We have a very strong sex drive, and we have sex pretty often.

This will be our first time doing anything in the lifestyle with other

I can't wait for it to start.

So, I've secured Josh and Giselle an invitation to an exclusive Anything Goes

swing party going on in this house.

What happens next is entirely up to them.

I'm Anna David. I give relationship advice for a living. But I have a

I'm going to have my hands full on this one. Hold on tight.

This is Swing.

So we're on our way.

This is it.

You're pretty excited, maybe?

Yeah, I'm pretty excited, actually.

I don't know what I'm expecting.

I have, like, butterflies right now, actually.

So I am a complete virgin to swinging. I hadn't really ever considered it. It

was definitely more Josh's idea to swing than mine. And he didn't ever push it

on me. He was like, do you want to do this?

And I was like, yes, I do. I want to try it. I can't wait to meet the couple.

Definitely.

So cute when she's nervous. I think she's kind of like a little kid about to

step into a candy shop.

We're here. We're here. You ready? Yeah.

Okay, baby.

You ready? I'm ready.

All right, let's go.

Hello. Hello.

How are you? I'm Anna. I'm Giselle. Nice to meet you, Giselle. I'm Josh.

Nice to meet you, Josh. Welcome to the house. Thank you. I think you guys are

going to be very, very popular here.

That's good to know.

Let's do it.

What was it like when we started doing this 10 years ago? 10 years ago? It was

amazing. Yeah? Holy shit, yeah. You don't remember?

I don't. You really don't. I mean, bits and pieces.

I can't believe. Do you remember our wedding?

Welcome to the house. How are you feeling now, now that you're inside?

I feel great.

But is it becoming a little more real, what's about to happen? Definitely. The

ride up here was, you know, I started getting the butterflies, but I'm still,

you know, very eager to meet the couple.

Giselle, you do know that you look like, you know, the just patched, like,

newbies. Yeah, I'm, you know, I'm like that secretary freak, you know, like, so

you wouldn't expect it. Like, take her hair out of the bun and just watch out.

Yeah, you know, we're looking to have just a good, fun, party -type vibe, you

know. Party naked. What would your ideal couple be?

I'm actually kind of hoping to hook up with an experienced, like, older couple.

And Josh?

Honestly, I'm hoping that everybody's really cool and we could maybe just have

big orgy.

I, you know, your wish may come true here.

So, the people in this house.

They have rules.

You know, each couple sort of works out what they're comfortable with. Have you

guys talked about what, you know, your rules are?

We've talked about our rules, yeah, and we definitely like to do everything

together. We definitely want to do this as a unit. Like, you know, we want to be

in the same room so we can experience the whole thing together.

Giselle and I have been discussing our rules and our limitations, and we've

thus far agreed that... As long as there's no sack between her and another

while I'm not playing, then I'm fine.

But, you know, if somebody wants to eat her pussy or something like that, you

know, if she gets a little ravished in a situation, that is what she came here

to do. That'll be perfectly fine with me. What I have here is a contract that

basically says...

What happens in this house stays in this house, which just means you're not

going to use it against her, you're not going to use it against him later.

Why don't you read it? You guys know what you're signing.

We agree to embark upon a special and unique adventure during which all rules

of a monogamous relationship are suspended.

We give one another full and complete permission to explore, pursue, and

in relationships with other partners, both male and female, knowing that the

ultimate goal is a stronger, healthier, more fulfilling relationship for both

parties. Sounds good? Sounds good. Sounds good. Swinging is definitely all

trust. This is an important piece of paper for you to, you know, honor and

seriously.

And I will hold on to it.

All right, you guys. So now it's time for you to go get changed. Go out to the

pool where the couples are waiting for you. Cool. And, you know, remember that

the goal of this is to make your relationship stronger.

I think it will.

I hope so.

I just started feeling like a rock star, like the old limo thing, this big room.

Like, it's just, wow, I feel, like, special.

Maybe we should have a quickie before we go out. I'm down to have a quickie

before I go out there.

I'm getting in this house. I'm getting in this vibe. I'm like, okay, this is

real. I'm here. I need to start getting excited.

Not that I wasn't already excited.

I'm not nervous at all about the situation. I'm actually just very

like to get in there and get it started.

This is definitely, I think, taking the next step in our relationship.

Like, seriously, really?

About the whole sex and other people, like, you know? It's a big thing. A lot

people wouldn't even consider it. A lot of couples wouldn't even be comfortable.

Okay.

I don't.

I'm really ready to get it kicked off myself.

I really feel like this is going to be a great experience, and we're going to

have a good time. Let's get in there.

So, ready or not, let's go for it. Let's go, right?

The first time Michael introduced me to the lifestyle, he approached me, and he

was like, hey, baby, this is something I've experienced in the past, and what

you think? And I was all for it.

And so we go.

The first lifestyle party. And the first one was amazing.

The first one was really fun.

And I couldn't wait for the next time.

You were literally asking, when's the next party? When's the next party?

Look at me now.

walking out to the pool area to meet all these couples.

And, you know, I'm nervous.

It's been an awesome life. I would actually, yes, I'm extremely bisexual.

I would say that I'm much more attracted to girls than guys.

We have a connection.

So this is my beautiful, beautiful, beautiful, beautiful girlfriend of nine

years. Nine years.

We're definitely open to learning from everyone.

It's about asking permission, and it goes back to that. You said it. It's

respect. All the couples had something different to say about it. I feel like I

was gaining knowledge.

The do's and don'ts of swinging.

If the door is closed, it means you can't come in. You don't just barge in.

have to knock.

I feel like Giselle and I might be like kids on our first day at class, and

we're out here, and we're getting a little bit of an education on the

If the door's partly open, that means they want you to come in and see, but

know what I mean?

You know, if it's wide open, I mean, come on in.

When I first met Early, I thought he was attractive.

He's really nice. He's really funny. He made me laugh.

And my first thought, you know, is I've never been with Black Eye, but...

I would be really down to get with this black guy.

I like to give and receive, so.

And he does too.

Everyone's like, well, we just do girl, girl. We just do soft swap. We just do,

you know. We don't do anything. We just like to sit and look at each other.

Immediately.

I already knew who Giselle was vibing on, and I already knew who I was vibing

on. Ashley is a gorgeous little five -foot stick of dynamite, and I'm really

hoping that we can get a little time with Ashley in early tonight. That would

great. All right, guys, we're going to play a game. Let's play a game. All

right, let's get this out.

Game time!

Going to our first lifestyle party.

Mm -hmm.

I was kind of nervous, but I kind of knew what to expect.

I wasn't really nervous, but I knew what to expect, right?

Yeah, but we were both on the same page as far as knowing what we were getting

into. And we just kind of went in both feet.

But again, you can't know what your limitations are if you don't try them.

you don't try them out, right? Absolutely.

This is called Eat My Cherry.

I want to get all the guys. All the guys, sit over here. Grab a seat and

the bowl. Girls, you're going to take the cherries one by one out of the bowl

with your mouth only. Take the cherry and then put it in the bowl on the man's

side. Whoever has all the cherries out of the bowl on this side is the winner

this game. Okay. All right? Use your mouth on the cherries. On your mark, get

set.

I was paired up with Early. We won the game. And I'm thinking in my head, I

Ashley to give me a lap down.

I'm really attracted to Ashley.

I think she's really cute.

I'm watching Ashley grind on Giselle and I'm thinking

I'd like to see a lot more of this later on tonight.

When she kisses me, it took me by surprise, but I really enjoyed it.

When Ashley was on my lap, I was just

thinking about how much I wanted to just grab her ass.

I like this girl. I want to experiment and play with her later. That's what I

was thinking.

Like, let's do some stuff.

What's next?

So we're walking up to our room, covered in grass and cherry juice, and we want

to shower off and get ready for the rest of the night, and all of a sudden Mike

and Meg pop out of nowhere wanting to take a shower with us. So, okay.

We're all feeling each other out right now, and that's good. You know, I like

it. I like the assertiveness. I like that they came in and showed us that

were interested.

Oh, my God. It's so funny. You guys came into the room just for me to talk

about. You guys, like, sharing our hours. It's so funny you guys came in

I'm so glad, too.

We're seeing them naked and we're touching each other.

And so, yeah, I definitely thought they were probably going to be, you know, the

couple.

I felt sexy, you know. I actually kind of felt like doing more, but I was, I

don't know, I had these, like, reserves.

Okay, I think we're done.

Okay.

I mean, the ice was definitely starting to break.

Well, thank you for letting us join you.

Ready here?

We'll see you guys next year.

Sounds fun.

Sounds fun.

Soft swap is really hard to define in the lifestyle. It could mean you're in

same room with another couple just doing your own thing. It could mean that you

do oral on other people and you do everything except penetration.

It might just be girl, girl and the guys watch.

And then there's full swap, which is what we do. That's basically anything

It's more fun.

So what do you guys think about the other people here this weekend?

They're great.

Yeah. They're laid back, cool.

Both of them have made the decision. They know what they want. They know what

they don't want.

And that's that. Yeah. She's hot. She's a cutie. She's really cool.

Yeah. We're all high later.

We showered with them. They're fun.

Brag on, Blair. Brag on.

That was really fun.

I really enjoyed my kiss with Ashley.

Did you? Yeah, I did. I'm getting in this vibe, and I think it's human

We all have desires to get with other people sometimes.

I definitely want to, and I'm ready to do it.

But what about Meg and Ryan?

They're fun.

They're fun, huh?

That was really cool that they came in the shower with us.

Well, you know, I really feel like, too, in this situation, you know, like, I

don't think any doors should be closed. You know, I think we should just go all

out. Yeah, for sure.

What do you think of the newbie?

Hot. You like Giselle?

Yeah, she's very pretty.

Very nice, yeah.

So what do you think of him?

I like him. I like his long hair.

So what do you think about Giselle and how interested she is in women and

I mean... All girls either want to find out or want to try it.

That's right.

Who are you most down for?

Honestly, probably Ashley.

I would say I'm more attracted to girls than guys.

There's just something about girls that I'm just way more down for.

You know that I don't have any problems, like, making the first move, you know?

But I guess in this situation, it's like I don't really know what to do.

I don't want to, like...

freak anyone out.

Yeah, I think everybody's here to get their freak on, though. I know. We're

trying to freak out. We're trying to freak on. I know. You know, I thought I

going to be able to make the first move, but I think I'm going to have more

trouble with that than I thought I would.

I guess that's what I'm trying to do. So if I make the first move, would that

make it easier?

Probably.

I'm nervous.

I, you know, we just met all these couples and, you know, I'm starting to

know them, but I still, you know, I don't...

I don't know what to expect. Is there anything that you'd really like to do

tonight?

I just want to, like, you know, have some girl play, you know.

That would be fun.

Sounds like fun.

You want to do full swap?

What are we here for?

I'm down for that.

Okay, well, let's go for it.

Okay. I'm really ready to get it kicked off myself. You know, my nerves are very

tamed right now because, you know, I know Giselle's coming back to me at the

of the night, and I'm really just completely going with the flow right

great.

I mean, like, this is awesome.

That's crazy.

I'm here to welcome you to your first night in the lifestyle.

Cheers.

Cheers.

So here's the deal. You get to have as much fun as you want. You get to do

whatever you want.

But you also have to deal with whatever consequences come up. Does that sound

fair? Yes.

Absolutely. Okay, then. Now, the rest of you, remember, they're new to this.

So you're going to be the ones that are showing them the rope.

Okay, who's got the rope?

I'm going to be back in the morning to check up on you.

We'll have tons of stories probably for you. I can only imagine.

I would like to propose a toast. To Giselle and Josh.

May you have a night that you absolutely, positively never forget.

To the lifestyle.

This has definitely been something we've wanted to do for a really long time.

And so, I don't know, we're really excited about it. And I'm blushing right

I think Giselle is a lot less nervous than when she first started. I think

the ice has been officially broken. I think her comfortability level has gone

leaps and bounds.

She's just really flowing with it and just really in the moment.

It's really awesome to see.

We want to kick off the night with a lot of activity. Us beautiful women are

going to have a lingerie party.

We are going to go get changed into lingerie.

Now that's a party.

So us guys, why don't we go into the living room, hang out, talk, drink,

We're going to go in the guest room and all get changed and come out for a

minute. I like dressing up in lingerie. I mean, what girl doesn't? You know, we

like looking sexy.

So all the girls go to my room to change into the lingerie.

Cute. It was cool.

And then what are you going over there for, Giselle?

I think it was the same thing.

What's that?

That's perfect.

And I just let them go.

Okay. And I let the nipples pop out.

That is awesome.

So raise your hand if you've had sex today.

Jesus. Any questions for us?

Well, I know you mentioned you do just soft swap. Are you the only couple here

that does just soft swap?

Cool. So everybody else is full swap, though.

Okay. That's a big question. You know what I mean? That tells a lot.

It's just being comfortable and having fun.

When we first started in the lifestyle, we had...

I mean, we had tons of rules. There was no kissing, and there was no oral, and

there was just all kinds of rules. You never know how far the boundaries are

going to be unless you test them. And we tested them, and we decided that that's

not for us anymore. Our feelings are very important.

Yeah, the emotions of the lifestyle can be really tricky, so you've got to make

sure it's something that both you and her are comfortable with.

Are you having a good time?

It's very, like, different.

Josh and I talked about it, and we're both stoked that, like, everyone's

cool. What do you think of Early?

I think he's cute.

Because he's so outgoing and so funny and chill and just like, yeah, I like

He's cool.

He's a cool guy.

What's your ultimate fantasy?

I just want to have a big orgy.

I just think, like, everyone together is just, like, so much better because

it's, like, you know.

Absolutely. I'm not really that nervous anymore, you know. I'm getting, I'm

starting to get really comfortable, and I'm letting go.

So, earlier, did you like the kiss? Your little lap dance?

Was that hot?

Popped you a cherry for you?

Yeah. Let's have a kiss again.

Right, now that's fun.

Thank you

What do you guys want to have happen tonight? My picture perfect?

We would have a complete orgy.

Honestly. You know, I like to go big or go home. Go big or go home.

You want to do that? Yeah. Cheers.

Cheers to that.

Somebody hold on.

Ooh! Ah!

Dang them!

Who's that now?

Holy cow. You already got better.

You guys have not seen the Red Room. You haven't seen it yet?

Well, grab your socks and your cocks and let's go.

Let's go. First of all, I'm wondering, why is it called the Red Room?

Here we go.

Oh, my God. And the Red Room.

And I am just super nervous.

What's up with this, right?

This is dope.

I am getting, oh, my gosh, I am turning beet red. My heart is.

pounding out of my chest wow this is the red room for a reason it's just amazing

it looks like the it looks like just a big play pen for adults this is good

stuff right here right when we get in the red room giselle looks at me

and i can tell that she'd like to talk are you eager to get back in there i

absolutely am

I'm nervous, but I'm okay.

It's, like, exciting.

It's like before you get on a roller coaster. It's like you're really

but once you get on the ride, it's, like, so fun.

The whole vibe is set up so sensual.

And that is so awesome. Like, I'm so glad it's sensual.

That's definitely, from my first experience, I couldn't ask for more, you

Are you comfortable?

Are you okay?

I said I'm ready to get back in there. Okay.

You know, of course, first things first, Ashley and Giselle have some business

to tend to, and they're all over each other, and it's just fucking amazing.

It was so amazing.

It was just so incredible to feel.

Like, there were so many hands just touching, like, every inch of my body.

like, different girls are kissing me. And I closed my eyes because it was... I

just wanted to just completely let go. I'm completely letting go.

The Red Room is just amazing.

I mean, everybody is just so open.

Everybody's just really enjoying each other, and I really like the way it's

developing. I like that nobody's really pushing each other's limits.

Nobody's disrespecting one another, and everybody just really seems to be here

to have a good time.

I loved everybody's vibe. I loved everybody's interaction.

People left when they were ready to.

And early, Ashley, Giselle, and myself, you know, continued on.

And it turned into just a full swap by the end. And, yeah, it was a great time.

How do you feel?

I'm, like, speechless, honestly.

That was such an amazing experience.

I had no idea, honestly.

When I, like, started getting involved, like, I was a little nervous, but then

once I started, like, I let go, and it was awesome. I

wasn't nervous at all.

And I just wanted to just enjoy myself.

And I did. I feel like, yeah, that's awesome.

Most of the time we find that we get up the next morning and there's no tension

between couples. We have breakfast. We chat about things from the night before.

We chat about, you know, the next party. Yeah. They're making coffee and, you

know, sometimes they'll come out nude and they'll slap you on the butt or, you

know, grab your boobs or something. But it's all joking and it's just normal.

Then you get dressed and you start your day.

This was such an amazing experience. I think we're both really lucky to have

this experience.

I feel that I really dove into the whole lifestyle, like, very

confidently.

I actually got comments, you know, like everyone was like, wow, you're really

comfortable right now. And it was really just because everyone was just so

comfortable to be with. And I'm a really sexual person, you know, and I just let

go.

I had a lot of fun last night.

Did you?

Yeah. I really don't know how to describe when I was getting completely

ravished by everyone.

I just, like, I don't even know.

I wasn't even there, I felt like.

I was just, like, out of my body, letting it all happen.

I just didn't even know how, like, orgies even went. Like, I've seen orgies

TV, you know.

But once you're in the situation, like, what do I do now?

What did you think of Early?

I like him.

He's cool.

He's, like, funny and confident.

I like that.

Watching Giselle have sex with Early, definitely an interesting experience.

Very interesting seeing it from the outside view, watching somebody that you

have sex with on a daily basis have sex.

And it actually, it's quite a turn on.

Ashley was great.

Yeah, Ashley was.

She's hilarious.

She's got a really big personality.

All bottled up in a little five foot body.

Yeah.

I feel like our relationship has like been taken to the next level.

This was definitely like a trust thing for me.

You know, I wouldn't have been able to do it if you weren't like really chill,

you know, really cool about it. We didn't have any problems.

We didn't.

We got through our first swinging experience not pissed off at each other.

That's a good thing, right?

What all went down last night?

I think Josh and Giselle definitely.

fit in quite well with everybody. I think it'll work for her. I was like,

at these two, you know. We're not beginners anymore.

And everybody kind of started.

It started off spread, you know, like mattress, you know, everybody had a

mattress. The lines on the mattress, between the mattresses started becoming

more blurred, you know.

Then we had a couple little interesting issues of nipple rings lost.

Where's the balls?

Well, I've got balls, not those balls, the metal balls, Will.

Giselle did a great job.

Getting to know everybody a little bit last night.

She's a good kisser. She kind of went around everybody.

Everybody almost pretty much got a little taste.

A little smack on the ass.

So who

instigated the Ashley?

Giselle format.

We started out there with the game, when we played the cherry game, and then she

kind of instigated it when we were in the red room, and that really broke the

ice for me.

Don't they just look like a good pair anyway?

And I just made the decision to let go.

No worries about Josh freaking out or being... If I say I'm willing to try

something, I'll see it out.

I mean, either way. And then if we decided we didn't like it, then maybe we

wouldn't do it again, you know? So you do like it. You are going to do it

Yeah. There was, like, one moment in time where I had, like, looked over and

saw Josh, and I was just thinking, like, it was, like, weird for, like, one

second, and then it totally wasn't anymore, so.

Good morning, Lifestylers.

Good morning, Anna.

You look like you had a fun night.

We did. We did.

You swap for the first time ever. Yeah.

And for the second time.

So that's bound to bring up some emotions, right?

Possibly jealousy, maybe just joy.

I've got a wonderful therapist, a couple of counselors for you guys to talk to

to sort of, you know, suss everything out. And the only thing that I ask, just

be honest with her and with each other.

Deal? Deal.

All right, then. Let's get going. You know, therapists charge by the hour.

This lifestyle forces you to communicate because you know people want to have

sex with your wife or you want to have sex with another world. And you can't

just go off and do that.

You can try. You have to talk about it. But then you're going to have a whole

other issue. So you can, you know, but you have to talk about it. The lifestyle

forces you to do that. It helps to get to know your partner better, too.

Hi Giselle and Josh.

Welcome. I'm Dr. Lori Buckley.

And I'm here to talk to you about your relationship, your experience.

Tell me what it's been like so far.

It was amazing, honestly.

It was just such a crazy experience. I let everything go in my mind. I didn't

question myself. So I just kind of felt around and like crawled around and early

had... Started, like, you know, feeling me up, and everyone was kind of feeling

me up, actually, for a little while.

It was very intense.

So this was the first time that you had seen Giselle with another guy.

Mm -hmm.

Tell me a little bit more about what that was like for you.

It was fun.

Yeah, and hearing her say it, you're good. It doesn't bother me.

Okay. You know, like, I'm the kind of person that I either go big or I go

Well, speaking of going big or going home...

I think now would be a good time to speak with you alone.

Why don't I first speak with you, Giselle? When Josh met me, I was a

conservative girl.

And Josh just, you know, he's wild.

He's very wild.

He's really helped me, like, be more confident and be, like, you know.

I don't know, stand out for myself.

So Giselle, this is just a time for us to spend together if there's anything.

Maybe that's on your mind that you didn't feel comfortable talking about in

front of Josh.

My only concern with swinging with Josh is that we're going to be in a really

cool situation and we're having a lot of fun and just suddenly his mood just

flip -flops and then kind of he kills the vibe and then it's all weird. And I

don't want to be selfish, you know. Nothing wrong with that.

course you're going to be selfish right you want to be able to enjoy yourself to

take care of yourself you know selfish gets a bad rap sometimes go forward

yourself take advantage of this opportunity and see what happens this

is definitely about you know testing the waters and pushing the boundaries and

i'm very ready to do that and i think josh is too i just think he needs to

himself in a little bit, whereas I could just dive headfirst in.

Now I'm going to spend time with you. I just wanted to have a chance just to see

if there was anything that you wanted to talk about.

It's really funny what's happened with us.

We've had this really weird flip where it's like, she's like...

calmed me down quite a bit, turned me into a bit of a homebody.

But at the same time, I kind of flipped her wig and made her want to get real

rowdy. You complement each other. So I want your honest opinion. What do you

think about the lifestyle for a couple that's in our situation?

Well, I'll just say, generally speaking, the lifestyle people, couples who

choose to engage in it, for some, it's great.

It can be something that can enhance your relationship instead of it being

something that is a way for you to get pleasure outside of your relationship.

Do you see the difference? It's a subtle distinction, but it's really, really

important. So I'm going to say to you, if you continue to be open and talk,

about your concerns, talk about your feelings with Giselle, then it could be

something really great for you. I care very deeply about Giselle. I think

obvious.

I mean, I'm all in with Giselle. I could see how this lifestyle could really

bring people closer together.

Hey, guys.

Josh, Giselle.

It's been a mind -blowing couple of days.

Definitely. Yes, it really has.

Yeah, you came in here a swinger virgin.

Now you're like lifestylers, right?

We're getting there, you know.

Well, alas, it's now time to say your goodbyes.

And for you guys to say your goodbyes to them. I'll give you a few minutes. I'll

meet you out front.

Okay. Okay. All right. We'll be right out.

Bye. Oh, my God. How are you?

Nice meeting you guys. Have fun. Nice meeting you.

Thank you. Thank all of you, like, for making our experience so awesome.

I had, like, the best.

mind -blowing time of my life.

So, I can't wait to do it again.

Hope to see you again.

Yes, everyone.

Gosh,

I'm going to miss them.

Okay, guys.

There's just one more thing before you head back to your real life.

This is the contract you signed.

Basically, it was a two -day pass to do whatever you want with whoever you want.

So, here's the question.

Do we tear it up?

You guys go back to your regular life and monogamy?

Or do you want to try this again? Just basically, was it a fling?

Or do you want to swing again?

Well, actually, I want to answer your question with a question.

We've been talking about it, and we'd actually really like to stay if we

Really? Yeah. If we could. Yeah.

Awesome. That can certainly be arranged.

I'm feeling like I don't want to leave.

Giselle doesn't want to leave.

You know, I can rock on. You know, we could stay.

I'm really looking forward to getting to know the other couples a lot better.

I'm definitely willing and ready.

to move forward with any one of them as long as Giselle likes their partner. You

know, as I said, I'm a connoisseur of women, and, you know, I'm ready to pour

glass. Looks like you get the rest of the day off.

Thank you very much.

And Josh, Giselle, welcome back to the house.

Thank you.