All language subtitles for 7th Heaven s05e09 Tunes

And do you want to go for a ride or not?

Let's go.

I made my dad a good job and I got well
paid.

I blew it all at the payday.

A hundred dollars on a Cupid's dot.

No pretty chick is gonna make me crawl.

We'll be right back.

Oh, dog.

Hello, my love.

No way.

Yes. All right. Yes.

Get in the car.

What is wrong with you? What's wrong
with you? And when did you start hanging

out with guys like that?

They go to my school.

They asked me if I wanted to hang out
today, and that's all we're doing,

out and listening to music.

No, I've heard the music. I know the
music. And when did you start listening

that music?

It's rap.

I like it.

No, no, that's not rap. It's some kind
of perversion of rap. In fact, I think

it's an insult to the African -American
community for you to call that rap.

So don't be looking at me, Simon. I'm
not going to help you here.

Get in the car.

No.

And by the way, who I hang out with and
what music I listen to is none of your

business.

Seven heavens, when I see their happy
faces smiling back at

me.

Seven heavens, I know there's no greater
feeling than the love of

family. Where can you go

when the world don't treat you right?
The

answer is home.

7th Heaven 7th Heaven

7th Heaven

Did you see those guys? Those are not
guys Simon should be hanging out with.

And I really find that music disturbing.

I do, too. So maybe the thing to do is
get Simon over here and hang with him.

Talk to him. It's hard to be cool at
that age.

He's just trying to find that certain
bad attitude that attracts women.

At least guys that age think a certain
bad attitude attracts women. Well, they

aren't going to attract women by
blasting music that talks about beating

are they? Not likely.

I'm taking the car back to my uncle.
Then I'm going to work. I'll see you

you come in. I'm working a double shift.

You're not just gonna sit around here
all day waiting for Heather, are you?

I'm gonna sit around here and study.

Who is it?

Pants.

Pants who?

Pants Daddy.

Your mother went pants shopping. I'm
dropping off your share of the pants.

What?

Evidently, everyone in the family needs
pants.

Wow. These are nice.

They're like, uh... Big boy pants?

Yeah. Why'd she buy these?

Evidently, she felt you needed them.

For? She thought you might want to go
out sometime.

I believe she put it in something other
than jeans.

So she thinks I want to go out sometime.

Yeah. With Heather?

With Heather?

I asked you.

Are you seeing Heather again?

No. She came by to see me.

Oh. But I'm not going to see her again.

I'm not interested.

I met someone.

But I think Heather's interested.

Which is why she left the note.

and Mom bought the pants.

That's quite a theory.

Yeah.

So who are you interested in?

Oh, just a girl I met.

Hmm.

So, um, you know where Simon is?

Uh, he was hanging out with some new
friends at school.

Mm -hmm.

What, he's not hanging out with new
friends from school?

Oh, he's hanging out with them, all
right. Have you met them?

Oh, have you met him? No, but I've seen
him.

Have you seen him?

Oh. I'm gonna talk to him.

Why are you gonna talk to him?

Well, you'll know when you see these
guys.

Where did you see them?

When I was driving John around in his
uncle's convertible. Why were you

John around in his uncle's convertible?
So he could sing a B .B. King song.

And you were worried about Simon?

Yes, and by the way, do you know what
kind of music Simon and his friends are

listening to? You know, our whole
relationship has become just a series of

questions and answers, hasn't it?

Yeah, so answer me this.

Why is it that mothers just know how to
pick out pants?

I mean, have mothers been buying pants
for their sons since the beginning of

time? Did Mary buy pants for Jesus?

So you think Jesus wore pants to you?
Ring, ring. Is that the phone?

Oh, thanks for coming by. Look, love to
mom. Great pants.

I'll see you in church.

You're not just waiting around here so
you can tell Heather you're not

interested, are you?

No.

Well, I'm going to church.

If you happen to bump into your brother
again, tell him to drop by or call.

Look at you.

You look like you need a man.

I think he just called you a bad word.

A really, really bad word.

Hey, look.

The little one knows what I called her
sister.

But the sister don't know.

Or she know it true.

She know it true?

Look, you ignorant little... What are
you, a pimp?

Get away from me.

Nice one, Matt.

All right.

Gotta go.

Do something.

Like what?

Like get that guy out of here.

He didn't hurt you. He slapped me.

From the looks of it, it couldn't have
hurt.

You're disgusting.

In fact, you're just as disgusting as he
is.

I want to see the manager.

That'd be me.

Next in line.

What's a pimp?

It's a guy that hates women.

Hey, congratulations.

Congratulations on what?

On being a woman? On my being slapped?

Or being called that name? But maybe you
didn't see or hear that guy. Or maybe

you didn't think that he did anything
other than hurt my dignity. And that's

okay, huh?

Is that what you think?

No. I meant congratulations on being our
100th customer today.

You just won three tickets to the 39
concert and a free CD.

No way!

Who? 39.

Hottest selling teen band in America.

I've never heard of them. Good. You can
drag me.

I've heard of them.

Thanks, mister.

39?

Isn't that Simon with the woman hitter?

You know that guy?

That's Norton. He's a friend of mine.
Why?

A friend from where? Where did you meet
him? At school.

Where did you get these clothes?

Oh, these are my clothes. I just made a
few adjustments. Like it?

No, not especially.

Simon, your friend, called me a name and
slapped me on the butt in the record

store. Norton?

He was just kidding around. Believe me,
he couldn't have been serious.

Simon, he slapped me.

Well, he didn't hurt you, did he? Yes,
he hurt me.

He humiliated me.

And that hurt.

A lot.

What do you want me to do about it?

I want you to understand that I am not a
punching bag.

I am not a trash can that guys can throw
their filthy thoughts or words into.

I am a person, Simon. I am your sister.

Do something.

Oh, no.

Hey, Mom, that pimp behind you just
called Lucy a bad word.

This is my mother. This is my sister.

So this is your mother.

I see the resemblance.

And I like it.

Well, what you say, Mama?

I say you're all pathetic. Go home.

Why don't you go home?

You don't belong on the streets.

Because you've got no respect for me.

For no man.

Maybe I should teach you some respect.

You want a piece of this?

I brought seven kids into this world. I
can take one out.

Are you looking at me?

Are you looking at me?

Huh?

You better be looking at me, because I
am one good -looking man, and it's

ladies' night, so come on over. Yeah.

Hi.

Look, if this is about Mary, I don't
think this is a good time for you to

This is Reverend Camden.

Reverend Camden, this is Cheryl.

This is about us.

We want to get married.

I just saw Ruthie. What's up?

One of my friends is goofing around, and
he may have gone a little too far.

May have?

Ruthie, upstairs, please.

You too.

What the heck happened?

Simon's little friend... Norton.

Simon's little friend Norton harassed
Lucy in the record store. He called her

name, slapped her on the derriere before
exiting the record store where he then

harassed and threatened me. And the name
he called Lucy?

The B word. What?

I'm gonna... I'm gonna...

No, I took care of it. She threatened to
beat him up.

Talk to him. Then I'm going to talk to
him. Then I'm going to go over to his

little friend Norton's house and talk to
Norton and Norton's mother.

Where did you get those pants?

Matt's. There's old ones.

Do you know where that particular
fashion trend got started?

Prison.

You know where you're going if you keep
wearing your pants like that?

Prison. Come on.

But we can get back to the pants. Who's
Norton? He's the guy I go to school

with. Other than that, what made you
want to choose to be friends with this

Norton chose me.

And he asked me if I wanted to hang out
today.

He's probably not someone I want to be
friends with now, but aren't you making

too big a deal out of this?

Back up to probably. He's probably not
someone you want to be friends with?

Probably?

Which brings us to, can we make too big
a deal out of someone calling your

sister that word?

Are you out of your ever -loving mind?

I'm not ha - I'm happy about it, Dad,
but guys do say that word all the time.

You actually think there's a
justification?

It was probably a really, really bad
word when you were growing up, but I

think it's that bad anymore.

It's lost some of its edge because it's
on TV, it's in movies, it's on

practically every CD.

You really don't get this, and rather
than hear any more about the extent to

which you don't get it, I'll explain it
to you.

This is the oldest hate crime on Earth.
This is the hatred of women.

It's wrapped up in a thing called
harassment.

Okay, I get it.

But please, don't let Mom go over to
Norton's house.

Let me handle this. I'm begging you. If
either of you go over there, this guy's

just going to make me look like a big
baby, and that's all I need.

Robbie and Cheryl, his fiancée, are in
your office?

I didn't have a chance to tell you. That
jerk has a fiancée?

Yes, and it's not our daughter.

Well, I hope you're not planning on
marrying them because we know how Robbie

Palmer treats women.

Which could mean, of course, that he's
just telling us that he's getting

so that we'll tell Mary that he's
getting married so she can track him

tell him not to get married.

I think the bride -to -be looks a little
too happy to be up to any scam.

No, they want to get married.

Well, then she's got to be pregnant
because he's not the marrying kind.

Well, I've married pregnant couples
before. It's not the best way to begin a

marriage, but it's not the worst either.

No, the worst place to begin a marriage
is with a partner who has no respect for

women. Maybe he's changed.

You wouldn't marry the guy off just to
keep him away from our daughter, would

you?

Of course not.

I shouldn't keep them waiting.

What's the good time?

It's probably not going to get any
better today.

Go.

We'll get out of your way as quickly as
possible.

Maybe please go to the concert.

I don't know. You seem a little young
for a concert.

Are you familiar with this band, 13 or
47 or 79 or whatever?

I listen to the CD, and there's nothing
harmful about the lyrics.

Other than they say the same thing over
and over and over again.

What are the songs about?

What? Love.

Right.

It's really innocent.

Their biggest hit is called Puppy Me,
Puppy You.

It's about puppy love.

Real puppy love. A golden retriever
puppy, to be exact.

Fine.

But if it's a rough crowd, I want you to
come home immediately.

I sincerely doubt it'll be a rough
crowd.

But if it is, we'll be right out of
there.

Thank you, thank you, thank you. I've
got to go get ready.

Do you think Mary still talks to Robbie?

Mary doesn't talk to me, so I don't
know.

Do you know that Robbie's getting
married?

I knew you were listening.

Sort of.

How do you do it?

How do you just get past being called
that name and forget about it and go on?

told you.

I don't like it, but I've just become
immune to it. Don't become immune to it.

Because it's wrong.

It's just wrong.

Are you stacking the CDs for the ORs?

Yes, Dr. Walker, I am. I'm scheduled for
OR 3 at 7 a .m. Put this in the mix.

I listened on the way over here.

Great.

Hold on, Doc.

I'm sorry, I can't help you out.

Why not?

Because I can't take responsibility for
putting this into the consciousness of

the world, much less the
subconsciousness of some poor patient.

If you want to hear that, you've got to
take care of it yourself.

You're kind of making yourself not
needed, aren't you?

And if you're not needed, well, what
happens to your job?

That was the threat, wasn't it?

It's okay, really, it is, because I am
certain, absolutely certain, that if it

came down to firing me for refusing to
play this music, that nobody on the

hospital board would do it.

How dare you talk to me like that? How
dare I not be afraid of you?

Because I'm right, and you know it. I
would have thought that you like this

of music.

Why?

Because I'm black?

Well,

that's a very wrong assumption, Dr.
Walker, and prejudicial.

Which doesn't surprise me at all,
because when a man listens to this kind

music, it means he has a prejudice
against women.

And men who hate women hate a lot of
other people, including minorities.

I think that's a wrong assumption on
your part. I don't hate anyone.

That CD has sold millions of copies. You
think everyone who listens to it hates

women. Yes, I do.

Really? Yes.

Really and truly.

Okay.

Okay, maybe you're right.

I never really thought about it.

I apologize.

I'm under a lot of pressure, and there's
no justifying it, really.

I apologize.

Apology accepted.

Maybe I can buy you a cup of coffee
sometime.

I overheard you talking to Dr. Walker,
and I was wondering if I might buy that

cup of coffee for you myself.

Maybe when I get off work?

No, you may not.

But I'd be more than happy to buy you
one.

My name is John Hamilton.

I know. I've seen you here before. I've
asked around about you.

I'm Priscilla Carter.

I'm a volunteer.

So, what time would you like that
coffee?

Afternoon shift is over at four. I
usually take a break then.

Okay, so I'll meet you in the cafeteria
at four.

Okay.

Oh, heaven.

Hey.

Is that your girlfriend?

I just met her, but it would be nice to
have a girlfriend.

How you doing?

Really well, thanks.

Matt got your note.

I was hoping I'd find him here.

No, he didn't make the schedule today.
Matt has a lot of studying to do, so

probably at home right now. So, if you
want to go over, I could give him a call

and make sure he's there.

I just came from there.

But if we talk soon, can you tell him
that I'll be dropping by again? You're

around seven?

I have something I want to tell him.

Okay.

Oh, what's going on?

I didn't see you come in.

He came over to pick me up.

I hadn't really pictured you leaving the
house quite yet.

I'm not sure I pictured you leaving the
house before Christmas.

Mom, you have to let me talk to Norton.

And I want to talk to him over at
Matt's, where it's just the guys and no

parents around.

Well, isn't that what went on today?
Just the guys and no parents around?

Let him talk to him. If you and Dad go
over there, you're just going to make

look bad in school.

I feel bad about what he did. It was
wrong.

And I want to tell him how wrong it was.
Me.

Not my mommy or my daddy. You guys are
just dying to embarrass me. The only

reason you're talking to me is because
you don't want me to talk to him. That

doesn't make you the man here.

You have to want to talk to him because
what he did was wrong.

Fine, it was wrong.

But I want to know that he knows that it
was wrong. I want an apology.

I have to get him to apologize?

Yes. And it better be a real apology.

Those are the new pants I bought you?

Yeah, thanks.

Don't they look great, huh?

It's kind of a shame wasting them on us.
You know, those pants need to be dry

cleaned.

What are you smiling about?

Did Dad tell you Heather left me a note?

She wants to talk to me?

No. He didn't tell you that? No, but he
didn't even tell me that Mary's old

boyfriend, Robbie, wants to marry his
old girlfriend, Cheryl, and that they

your father to tie the knot.

Robbie's getting married?

Unless your father comes through and
does the right thing, yes.

I don't want to sound redundant. I know
I probably said this a half a dozen

times already, but now that I think of
it, it actually is a classic.

Marriage is a big step.

Yes, a step in the right direction.

Still, it is a big step.

It is. I'm just agreeing with the
Reverend.

Robbie and I have been together for a
long time.

We love each other.

It's time we were a family.

Well, it's nice to have a family.

My family split up years ago, and my mom
lives with her boyfriend.

And you live... I live in the apartment
I've had since I was 16, and my mother's

boyfriend wanted me out of the house.

And the two of you will be living at her
apartment, or what, with Robbie's mom?

Robbie's mom just took off.

Robbie, your mom took off? We were
having financial trouble.

She moved to Florida.

My oldest brother's in school down
there. What about the house?

The bank came after.

She gave it up.

So where are you living now?

Oh.

Is that why you're in such a hurry to
get married? Because you're living

together?

Any answer will do.

Look, I'm not here to judge you. I'm
just trying to get to know you.

I don't have to live there. I have a
job.

But he likes living there.

Is there any particular reason why you
wanted me to marry the two of you?

Not like we know a lot of ministers. And
I want a church wedding.

Robbie said he thought you'd do it.

And it's just that, well... You already
know what kind of guy I am.

So I wouldn't have to explain that to
anyone.

Is there something you're not telling
me?

No.

Okay.

Well, um... Cheryl and me...

Cheryl and I... Well, uh...

We're gonna have a baby.

We're leaving!

Have a good time. Remember the rules!

Why are you wearing that? Why are you
wearing that?

Is that Happy's collar?

I brought it. I'll give it back.

No! No?

You gotta be kidding.

Me? Yes, you.

You can't go out in that, that, what?

The costume.

Who are you dressed up as?

I think she's dressed like the band.

Now can we go? We're gonna be late.

This whole day is making my head hurt.

I wasn't going to let her out of the
house like that.

Thank you. Look, I volunteered for this
evening, and I'm responsible.

Please, I'll take her upstairs and
explain to her why she can't dress like

But everyone's going to be dressed like
this.

All the girls going to the concert dress
like this.

You're the one who's going to look
weird. I'm not changing.

You are changing. First your clothes,
and then your attitude.

What are you going to say to Simon?

I'm going to tell Simon that he needs to
have a word with his mother about the

way she treats his friends.

Then I'm going to try to get a sister
from him.

So you don't think this music has
anything to do with the way these guys

around women?

It's just music.

I swear Norton was just kidding around.

It was supposed to be a joke. He just
made a bad choice in words.

He wasn't going to try to teach Mom
anything. Come on.

So explain it to me. What's the joke?

Seriously, what's funny about
intimidating or humiliating Mom or Lucy

other woman with words like that? Who
are you?

Tipper Gore?

What's wrong with Tipper Gore?

You know, I happen to think she's right.
I do. As crazy as that sounds, I do.

I mean, you can't print the lyrics to
these songs, so how can you sell the

stuff? I would have been better off with
Mom and Dad.

Yeah, probably.

When did you get so conservative?

Oh, maybe after watching a long line of
battered women come in and out of the

emergency room.

But that has nothing to do with this
music.

This music never hurt anyone.

You're kidding yourself.

Millions of guys listen to this music.
Do you know how many copies of that CD

were sold?

No, I don't, and I don't care. And I
don't hate anyone personally. I don't

to be part of some larger group hate
against half the population.

You say this is about hate, but the guys
who make that CD, they say it's about

love.

Have you ever seen these guys in
concert? There are black people, white

all kinds of people.

Again, you're kidding yourself. This is
about anything but love.

I mean, there's no justification for
making it seem as if any segment of the

population is less than human.

That's what this music does.

And when you take that idea and you say
it over and over, that idea becomes part

of the overall consciousness.

It's propaganda, Simon. That's how
propaganda works.

And the fact that it's propaganda and
song and people are making millions of

dollars off of it doesn't mean that it's
right.

Yeah, but right or wrong, this is about
free speech.

What happened to the First Amendment?

What happened to it?

Shank versus the United States, that's
what happened.

You can't yell fire if there isn't one.
There's no fire, Simon. There's no

enemy. Women aren't the enemy. Ignorance
is the enemy.

I know that.

No. No, I don't think you do know that.
And if you have no understanding of the

issue, what's your strategy for getting
this Norton to apologize to Mom and

Lucy?

How are you going to do that when you're
really Norton's protector and advocate?

I am not. I barely know him.

I just don't want to ruin my reputation
in high school.

Exactly what do you want your reputation
to be?

The concert starts in 15 minutes. We can
still

get there if you want. I'm not changing.

Fine. Don't change.

But you're too young to dress like that.

Let me give it a shot. I don't want
Ruthie to miss her concert.

I cannot let you go to the concert
dressed like this, even if every single

there is dressed the same way.

You don't understand.

What don't I understand?

It's fun to dress like this. It's sexy.

What is sexy?

Do you think you should try to be sexy
if you don't know what sexy is?

Ruthie, I don't think you're too young
to dress like this. I think you're too

smart to dress like this.

Oh, boy, here it comes.

Lecture launched by a compliment.

See how smart that is? What a great
observation, Luz. Come on, sit down.

for you, too.

I think you should be able to dress

any way you want.

Your hair, your makeup, your clothes
should be an expression of who you are.

In an ideal world...

you should be able to walk down a dark
alley late at night wearing a tube top

and a miniskirt, if that's what you
want.

You're both beautiful girls, and you
both have beautiful bodies.

However, and this is a big however, so
pay attention, this is not an

ideal world, and you cannot walk down a
dark alley late at night in a tube top

and a miniskirt.

Any more than you can go to a concert
wearing a dog collar and a bikini.

There are some men who think of women as
things.

To them, we all look alike, sound alike,
behave alike.

Because to them, we are things.

Things to be owned, things to be
dominated, things to be used and abused.

Because we are less than they are.

We are less than human.

Those men have all sorts of excuses for
their bad behavior towards us.

They saw the bad behavior at the movies.

They are animals, and their bad behavior
is part of their nature.

We are worthless, and their bad behavior
is their right.

Every excuse in the world.

But these excuses did not begin with bad
TV or movies or music or tube tops and

miniskirts.

These excuses have been around probably
since the first man tried to explain

away his bad behavior or be punished for
it.

Blaming the way we dress for their bad
behavior is wrong.

It's also wrong for you to take away
your own individuality by mimicking what

you see instead of being who you are.

Be brave.

Be you.

Be an individual.

I haven't heard anything yet that would
make me want to apologize if I were

Norton.

What's with you?

I just had a date with Miss Wright.

I'm not kidding you. I just met my
future bride.

Uh -huh. Well, I met mine last week, and
this week I don't even know where she

is. Well, I have an address.

A phone number. And I'm taking her to
church tomorrow.

Did I interrupt something?

Simon's friend Norton is coming over.

Uh -oh.

Uh -oh what?

I forgot to call you and let you know
Heather's dropping by.

When? How do you know this?

I bumped into her right after I bumped
into Ms. Wright.

And she should be here around 7.

Norton should be here around 7.

Back away or I'll hurt him.

Do something before this idiot hurts
someone.

These guys tried to attack me.

It's okay.

Simon, my man, we were just having a
little fun. Let me up. I don't know what

happened. I got out of my car and all of
a sudden they came up to my face and

started pulling my clothes.

What is wrong with him?

You are going to go over to my house and
you are going to apologize to my mother

and my sister for what you did. But not
before you apologize to Heather. That's

my brother's friend.

She's deaf, man. How could you? I didn't
know she was deaf. Lighten up.

You know she was a person, didn't you?

Looks like the apologies are going to
have to wait.

These guys are attacking.

Nice try, Sonny. One of the neighbors
called it in. She's an all -on video.

Shh. Baby's thinking.

Come in.

Thanks, but no thanks.

What? Is Robbie with you?

No. I wanted to talk to you alone.

And then maybe you should talk to Robbie
alone.

Oh, okay.

I'm not pregnant.

I thought I was, but I'm not.

I've known for a few days, but I don't
want to tell Robbie because I know he

won't marry me.

I guess he has to know, but remember, if
you don't marry us, he'll end up with

Mary.

He thinks he loves her, but I know he
loves me, too.

And I love him.

I really, really love him.

I know you do.

Otherwise, you wouldn't be telling me
this.

Are you sure you're okay?

I'm fine.

It wasn't the first time I had to defend
myself, but I'm happy you came out of

the building when you did.

Well, it looked as if you had everything
under control.

Mom thought it was a good idea for me to
take some classes back in high school,

and she was right.

What? I never knew that about you. You
know, that's your new self -defense.

There's a lot you don't know about me.

You passed?

Oh, yes.

My mom bought them.

They look good.

I came over here tonight to tell you
something.

I'm dating someone.

And before anyone else told you, I
thought I should.

Before anyone like my mom told me?

She doesn't know.

But I was afraid she would see us or you
would see us.

Why is that?

He's a professor at Crawford.

Oh.

But is that ethical?

It's fun.

Really, he's a nice man.

He's a little older than me, but he's a
very nice man. And I'm on his class.

He just teaches there.

I hope the new pants weren't for me.

No, they're just new pants.

You were the best dressed man at the
police station.

Ah, thanks.

I never liked that kind of music.

But I never really thought about how
much it affects our society until I saw

those tapes of the young women being
attacked.

Central Park last time?

That was so bad.

But then, my sister, my mother, women in
general, for all of us, that kind of

humiliation and assault happens every
day in this country.

We hear it on the news, we read it in
the newspapers, but we never see it up

close and personal like those tapes show
it.

And you have to ask, who was making the
tapes? Why?

Where were the police? Why didn't
anybody stop those guys?

Then I realized,

Those guys are everywhere.

They're all over the world. And as the
world gets smaller, the hatred of women

seems to be getting bigger.

The way you look, there's men trying to
prove their manhood by how much they can

oppress women.

I thought we were past all that, but I
guess we're back to all of that. And the

only way I know how to stop it is to
voice my concerns about it and not

that type of mentality in any way.

I don't buy music with lyrics that are
oppressive.

It's wrong, Simon.

And it's wrong for August.

Matt told me what happened.

What are you going to do when Norton
comes to school on Monday?

Norton's not my biggest worry.

My biggest worry is that you might never
respect me as a man.

Because I acted like a stupid kid today.

I'm just trying so hard to find a way to
fit in.

I'm still trying to justify my
stupidity.

You raised me better.

You deserve better.

I'm still learning about this stuff, but
I promise you, I never want to be a

part of anything that humiliates you and
Lucy and Ruthie.

I love you, Mom.

I'm really, really sorry.

I can't believe she would trick me.

But she did eventually.

Tell you the truth.

I'm not talking about that.

I'm talking about she tricked me into
having sex.

Tricked you?

She told me she had some kind of female
problem that would clear up only if we

had sex.

Some sort of plumbing disorder.

A birth defect.

That could only be cleared up with sex?

You really should not be out there
having sex if you don't know any more

women than that.

No, you shouldn't be.

Having sex, period.

Take some time off.

Absorb some of the lessons you've
learned here today.

Like?

Just give me a for instance.

For instance, you don't have sex when
you're not married.

One reason being you might get pregnant
and marry someone that you don't want to

be with for the rest of your life.

Yeah, that's good. Not to mention that
it's not right to have...

A child suffers for a lifetime of being
in the middle of a bad relationship

because you couldn't sacrifice one night
of sex.

That's good, too.

Not to mention that the only way to get
respect from a woman is to show respect

to a woman.

What does this have to do with
respecting women? I mean, I respect

You took my daughter to a motel to have
sex with her, trying to talk her into it

by telling her how much you loved her,
all the while...

Still seeing Cheryl, your girlfriend,
for several years.

You're still mad about that, aren't you?

Yes, I am.

But my point is that you don't lie or
cheat or

use women if you have respect for them.

Right. I think you might want to write
that down.

Okay.

Good evening, ladies.

Is that what you wore to the concert?

No, I changed my mind about the concert.

We went to a hamburger drive -in, ate in
the car, and talked.

Now I don't have to get dressed for bed.
Isn't that cool?

Yes, it's very cool.

So, have you talked to my sister lately?

Yeah, I told her I was getting married.

I heard.

Congratulations.

Good night.

Good night.

Better be going.

Wait.

Will you be talking to Mary again?

I don't think so, Reverend Camden. I
think I should just let her think I got

married. That way she knows for sure
it's over and she can find someone in

Buffalo.

It'll help her settle in there.

Maybe she'll go to school, make some
real friends, you know?

On the other hand, if I'm to be
respectful of my daughter, I have to

the truth.

I hope she gives you the chance.

Look I know she's not talking to you,
but she can't stay mad at a nice guy

you forever Thanks for saving my life I
Mean that