All language subtitles for mary_tyler_moore_s01e21_the_boss_isnt_coming_to_dinner

How will you make it on your own?

This world is awfully big.

Girl, this time you're all alone.

But it's time you started living.

It's time you let someone else do some
giving.

Love is all around, no need to waste it.
You can have a town, why don't you take

it?

You might just make it after long.

You might just make it after long.

I mean, when he walked down the aisle
with his daughter on his arm, he was

positively glowing.

Well, that's because he and I spent a
few hours before the wedding working on

that glow.

Gee, I don't know what it is about
weddings. Everybody is so happy and

with love.

Even the weather was lovely.

Oh, it had to be. I predicted rain.

Hey, Lou.

Hey. Congratulations. What a terrific
wedding. Oh, it was. We were just

about it.

Coffee? Oh, I'd love it. Thank you.
Yeah, it was a terrific wedding, wasn't

Even the kids had a really good time.

Too bad they had to leave so early.

Oh, did they? I didn't see them leave.
Yeah, remember after the ceremony when

they walked back up the aisle? Yeah.
They just kept right on going, right in

their car.

We got outside just in time to throw
rice at their skid marks.

Who needs a bride and groom for a great
wedding, huh? And it was a great

wedding. Yeah.

You know, that woman, my wife, raised
three daughters from scratch.

Three daughters, three weddings.

Now they're all out on their own. Their
lives are ahead of them and ours.

Suddenly our house is so quiet.

Must be an awful feeling.

No, it's a great feeling.

It's the first time in our lives we can
be alone together.

Oh, come on, Mr. Grant. You must have
been alone together when you were first

married. No.

We moved in with her folks.

We didn't move out until our first
daughter was born.

Then our second daughter was born. Then
our third daughter was born.

It seems like most of our marriage we
spend with a kid in wet pajamas in bed

between us.

I don't know how we ever had a third
kid.

Hey, wait till you see what I got here.
Guess what this is.

It looks like one of those artificial
logs.

It's one of those artificial logs.

Well, that was my next guess.

Tonight I'm going to go home early. I'm
going to put the chain on the lock, soft

music on the FM, and light my log.

The wife and I will have a few drinks,
you know, kind of relax, and then...

Well, if you guys want to talk, you
know, I've got some work... No, no, no,

That's all I was planning to tell
anyway.

But you guys have some work to do.

Oh, uh, Mr. Grant. Huh?

The wedding is over and you and Mrs.
Grant are free.

What is it, Mary?

Well, I was just wondering if you and
Mrs. Grant would like to come to my

for dinner one night this week.

This week, huh?

Well, yeah. You know, just a nice quiet
evening. The boss for dinner and all.

This week, huh?

Yeah. Is this week bad for you?

Well, yeah. As a matter of fact, it is.

I plan to be burning a lot of logs this
week.

Oh, well, then next week.

Better. Much better.

The fire ought to be dying down by then.

Hey, everybody.

Hiya, Gordy. Great day, isn't it? Well,
if you call a driving rainstorm with

occasional hail a great day.

Oh, you don't understand.

When a weatherman predicts showers and
gets a rainstorm like this, it's like

hitting a home run with the bases
loaded.

Hi, Lou. Hi, Lou.

Morning, Mr. Graham.

Five mornings in a row.

Maybe he's having trouble lighting his
log.

Yes, Mr. Graham.

Mary, come in here.

Yes, I'll be right there, sir.

Good luck.

Who messed up my desk?

I like it straightened up. I like it
unstraightened up. Well, I just sorted

your papers and I put them in your desk
drawer. They're right there at your

fingertips. No.

The top of my empty desk is at my
fingertips.

What I'm trying to say is my desk is my
castle.

For years, when people saw my messy
desk, they knew I was working.

Now they come in, they see a clean desk,
they know you're working. I want them

to know I'm working.

Do I make myself clear?

Uh, you'd like your mess back?

Very much.

I think this pile was here.

Here. There.

Here.

There.

Anything else?

No, that's about it for now.

Oh, Mr. Grant. About a week ago, I asked
if you and Mrs. Grant would like to

come to my house for dinner? Yes.

Well, it's been about a week, and I was
wondering if you'd like to come over

tomorrow night.

No, I don't think so.

Oh.

Well, you see, tomorrow night's not too
good.

I'm, uh, I mean, uh... Oh, listen, no, I
understand.

That's no idea.

and Mrs.

Grant have made plans to go out, or
maybe you're just staying home.

In any case, you've made some sort of
plans to maybe do nothing at all, right?

Yeah, it's in there somewhere.

Some other time, then.

Uh -huh.

Rhoda called. She wants you to pick her
up after work.

Sure. Everybody always wants you to pick
them up after work.

Huh? Oh, I'm sorry, Marie. I'm just...
I'm a little upset, that's all. Yeah,

coming out of that door seems to do that
to people.

Murray, when you and your wife came to
my house for dinner, you had a good

didn't you? We had a great time. You're
a terrific cook.

No, I'm a terrific cook.

Now, look, Mary, the reason Marie and I
haven't invited you for dinner is

because... Oh, Murray, no.

No, Mary, we want to. Murray, no.
Murray, I don't want to come to your

dinner.

you're having trouble getting people to
come to your house for dinner, I'd love

to.

What is it?

Marie, look, I don't know how the
subject got around to your house for

but what I was talking about was the
Grants refusing to come to my house for

dinner. Oh, then it's at your place. Oh,
Ted, there is no dinner. It's been

canceled. Oh, that's too bad. I was
looking forward to it.

Maybe Mr. Grant just doesn't believe in
socializing with the people he works

with. Well, I don't think that's it. I
mean, when Marie and I had the Grants

dinner, we had... You had them, uh, for
dinner?

Well, only three or four times. But
you're right,

Mary. They didn't enjoy it.

Well, they certainly enjoyed it at my
place. You had them, too?

Oh, yes.

And I really put out a great gourmet
spread.

And boy, did they eat it up.

You know there wasn't one piece of
chicken left in that bucket?

Well, it seems that everybody here has
had the grants to dinner.

Except me.

Now, look, Mary.

Lou is the kind of guy that goes to a
lot of banquets and dinners.

He was probably busy for the night you
asked him for.

You think so? Sure.

Why don't you pick another night when
he's free?

I will.

Uh, Mr. Grant.

Huh?

Are you busy Thursday night?

Thursday night? No, I don't think so.
Oh, good.

Why? Because I want to have you and Mrs.
Grant to my house for dinner.

Oh.

I just remembered, Mary, I'm sorry, but
we are kind of busy on Thursday night.

Well, that's, no, that's okay, because I
just remembered that I'm kind of busy

on Thursday night, too.

Wish I knew why Mr. Grant keeps turning
me down. I know what you mean.

It's been years, and I still don't know
why they turn me down for that

stewardess job.

Oh, come on, Rhoda. Lots of girls don't
make it as stewardesses. For a bus

company?

Maybe your boss just doesn't like you.

Oh, thanks. I really needed that.

Could be his wife, ma 'am. Maybe she
can't stand you. I've got to find out.

I'm going to call her. Good.

Hello, ma 'am.

Hey, if they accept, tell them to bring
their own pizza.

Hello, Mrs.

Grant. It's Mary Richards.

Oh, I'm fine, thank you.

Mrs. Grant, I'm just calling to find out
if you and Mr. Grant would like to come

over and have dinner with me one night
this week. Or next week.

Whenever you say.

You're kidding.

Well, Mrs.

Grant, I'm...

Awfully sorry that I bothered you.

Goodbye. Oh, Mary, kid.

Listen, when I said she hated you, I had
no way... She doesn't hate me, Rhoda.

It's worse.

She and Mr. Grant have separated.

No.

This old Italian fisherman was walking
down the road. Oh, this is really a

story. It's just funny.

And... And this car goes by and this
little boy sticks his head out the

and he says, Hey, old fisherman.

And the old fisherman says, Hey, that's
no way to talk to a fisherman, huh?

And then the boy says, the boy says, No,
wait. The father of the boy says,

Hey, what'd he say?

Hey. Don't tell me. Don't tell me. Oh,
this is going to be one of those big

jokes. I can tell.

Hi, Mary.

Oh, wait a minute, wait a minute. I know
the punchline. I just have to get all

that stuff up front.

Is Mr. Grant in? Not yet.

I guess I'll just ask Chuckles the
clown.

Gee, he got such a big laugh this
morning when he told it on his show.

Chuckles gets laughs no matter what joke
he tells. When he gets to the

punchline, his nose lights up and his
pants fall down.

Mary, what's wrong?

Oh, nothing. I'm a little depressed,
that's all. It's nothing.

Hi, Lou. Morning, Marie.

Uh, Mary, would you please get Mrs.
Grant on the phone for me?

Oh, yes, sir. I'd be delighted to get
Mrs. Grant on the phone for you.

I'll have to remember that the next time
I get depressed.

Just get Mrs. Grant on the phone.

Hello, Mrs. Grant. Good morning. Hi. Mr.
Grant's calling. One moment, please.

Mr. Grant, good morning. Hi. Mrs. Grant
on two.

You gonna keep it to yourself or tell
your fellow worker?

Well, I just... Feel great.

And I feel great just seeing you feel
great.

What's so great?

Well, Mr. Grant is calling Mrs. Grant,
and his life just went out.

Come in.

Mr. Grant?

Can I get your signature on these?

What are you so happy about?

Well, Mr. Grant, look, I know that I'm
not supposed to know, but... Well, now

that you and Mrs. Grant are back
together again...

I know, and I am very, very happy.

And you're also very, very wrong.

Wrong? Very, very.

Well, I just assumed that when you
called Mrs. Grant... Mary, the reason I

called Mrs.

Grant was because I had all these dirty
shirts.

I asked her if she'd still do them for
me.

She said she'd just as soon not.

I'm sorry that you're separated.

I'm not.

I'm not.

I look at a separation like I look at
two boxers who are going to their

between rounds.

That doesn't mean the fight is over,
Mary.

It just means they're resting.

So, last week when you went home to your
wife with your log, you just seemed

so... Look, this is none of my business.

No, no, no. Please sit.

I'm glad you brought this up.

You see, Mary, you're about the only
person whose opinion I value around

Well, thank you, Mr. Grant. I do try
to... Because I know you won't do

stupid like try to give me advice or
comment in any way whatsoever.

Oh. When I went home early last week, I
was really looking forward to being

alone with my wife.

When I got there, I was alone all right.

No wife.

Where was she? Enrolling at the
University of Minnesota.

My wife's a co -ed.

Well, Mr.

Grant, she was probably looking for a
way to fill her days. Mary, what I think

you just said is a comment. Right.

Sorry. It's just that it's very hard not
to comment when you care.

Do you know what it's like to come home
and find a 43 -year -old woman doing

homework?

She doesn't study all the time.

No, the rest of the time she sleeps.

You get very tired when you're doing
homework, you know.

Finally, it got so bad, I had to lay
down the law.

I said, Edie, if you don't quit school
right now, I am walking.

And just to give it a little more
emphasis, I started walking toward the

I figured she'd call my name and that'd
be it.

But I didn't hear my name.

So I started walking slower.

Slower.

The next thing I knew, I was in St.
Paul.

Where are you staying?

A hotel.

How's Mrs. Grant doing?

Oh, B's and C's.

And how is she doing living alone?

She doesn't seem to mind it. Her
schoolwork takes up most of her time.

I'd heard about this change of life
thing, but I never thought it would be

Well, Mr. Grant, I know you've heard
this too, but, well, if there's anything

can do... Oh, thanks, Mary.

Listen,

don't worry.

She'll be calling me pretty soon.

I'll win.

That's no way to talk to a fisherman,
huh?

Then the father of the voices, and I
wrote it down so I'd get it right. The

father of the voices.

Yeah, but that's a great way to talk to
a... Can you make that last word up?

It looks like a muff laugh.

Muff laugh.

I see nothing happened while I was gone.

It still isn't happening.

Ted's been trying to tell the same joke
for the past 20 minutes.

Good, I could use a laugh right now.
Well, you better not listen to him.

What did Lou get you for this time?

Oh, Murray, I wish I could tell you, but
it's kind of a personal matter and I

just, I can't tell you. About Lou and
his wife breaking up?

When did you find out? Lou called me the
night it happened. Talking about the

Grinch, huh? Too bad.

See, can you make this word out, Murray?

Ted, you do too.

Well, sure.

We all know. I guess you're the last to
find out. But don't feel bad, Mary. I

mean, it's something guys tell guys.

It's not the kind of thing a woman can
help you with.

Uh, Mary.

Yes, Mr. Grant. Uh, it just occurred to
me that I could use a little female

advice. I mean, you're a woman, and I'd
really like to hear what you have to say

about all this.

Well, I'd be glad to, Mr. Grant.

Yes, glad to.

Well, uh...

What about tonight? We could go
downstairs and have a cocktail.

Oh, that would be great. Fine.

Yes. I'd like that very much.

If any of you other guys want to join us
for a few blasts tonight, you're all

welcome.

Bourbon seven.

Scotch rocks.

Scotch water.

Cream de menthe frappe.

For the lady.

Oh, no, that's for him.

So that's why your tongue is always
green.

There, I got it.

Happy hour is over in four minutes.

Should I order your next round now?
Yeah. Look, I'll take care of it. No, I

it. No, look, Gordy, I'll take care of
it. I got it. I have some extra money.

Hold it, hold it, hold it.

I have a simple solution to the problem.

Murray said it first, so he pays.

Gordy gets the third round.

Who's got the round after Gordy? I guess
that's you, Mayor.

I'm just kidding. Could you tell I'm
kidding?

Well, here we are. Yeah.

Uh -huh.

Sure is good to be out drinking with the
boys.

Yeah, it's healthy to get away from my
wives once in a while. I'll drink to

that. Amen.

Say, Gordy, what did the twins do last
night?

Oh, it was too much. They were falling
all over themselves.

Gordy, I didn't know you had twins.

No, Mary.

He's talking about the Minnesota Twins.

You know, baseball, round white ball.

Yes, I know, Mr.

Grant. I just thought that... No, no,
don't apologize. You're just being a

typical woman.

You give a woman a big, thick newspaper,
she always picks out the sports page to

put under the dog food dish.

Our lady does the same kind of thing.

As soon as she hears a kickoff on
television, that's when she turns on a

cleaner. That's another one.

My old lady used to do the same thing.

That's why I moved out.

What are you talking about? You've never
been married.

Well, it's just as hard living with a
mother as it is with a wife.

Oh, a real old lady.

Imagine my wife wanting to improve
herself by going back to school.

And at her age.

She doesn't want to be a housewife
anymore.

So what's she taking in college?

Home economics.

She's going for a master's, then a Ph
.D.

Mr. Grant, that's terrific. What's the
matter with that?

Well, for one thing, I don't want us to
be introduced as Mr.

and Dr.

Grant.

Women, they don't know what they want.

Are you sure you know what you want, Mr.
Grant?

I know exactly what I want.

Here's the second round.

Thanks, Murr. Oh, it's my pleasure, Ted.

Why don't you try it sometime, see what
it's like?

I'd like to propose a toast.

To men's lib.

Let's hang on to what little we got.

I'll drink tonight.

Hold it!

I, uh, can't drink to that.

Mr. Grant, you invited me so that you
could hear a woman's point of view.

And I've appreciated it.

like some kind of idiot acting like I
agree with everything you've said.

We respect you for that, Mayor.

That's right.

You're some kind of woman. But I don't
agree with everything you've said.

Uh -uh. As a matter of fact, I don't
agree with anything you've said.

Oh, that's because you're a woman and
you're on their side.

Sides? Oh, Mr. Grant, that is just dumb.

And that was an unfortunate...
Unfortunate choice of words.

I mean, you're sitting here, and your
wife is sitting at home, and you're both

miserable.

You're not winning anything, Mr. Grant.
You're both losing.

What are you getting so excited about?
Well, he asked me. No, I didn't. Yes,

did earlier, back at the office.

Oh, yeah.

Look, I'm sorry if I put a damper on
things, but we'd rather have me be

wouldn't you?

No, I don't think so.

Listen, I...

I've got a date. I really have to be
going.

Please, don't anybody get up.

How are you going to get up? You're
right. Everybody get up, please.

Thank you very much, and I'll see you
all at the office tomorrow.

Can I have your drink, Mayor?

Yeah, sure, Ted.

Good night.

Good night.

Stick to your guns, Lou.

Once you let a woman push you around,
you're sunk.

What time you got, Gordy?

Quarter to eight. I've got to get going.
I told Marie I had a news conference

until 7 .30.

Now I have to think of some new kind of
excuse.

Wait a minute. I'll walk out with you. I
want to say goodnight to my kid. See

you tomorrow.

Take it easy, Father. See you in the
morning.

Oh, I suppose you have to get somewhere,
too.

Oh, no, Lou. We can stay as late as you
want.

Say, Lou, I got a great idea.

There's this new club we could go to
across town. I understand it's a pretty

risky show.

Now, I...

I don't think so, Ted.

Hey, Ted.

You got a dime?

Why, is it my turn to leave a tip?

No, I gotta make a phone call.

Oh, sure, Lou.

Thanks.

Edie. Lou.

How you doing?

Yeah.

Yeah.

Me too.

Listen,

Edie.

If you're not doing anything tonight,
I'm coming home.

Yeah. Yeah, I... I know what you mean,
baby.

Me too.

Yeah, all right. What?

Oh.

Okay.

A quart of milk.

A lot of butter.

Bacon.

American cheese.

And an artificial log.

Bye -bye.

Newsroom.

Oh, hello, Mrs. Grant.

Yes, he is. Just a moment, please.

Uh, Mr. Grant?

Mrs. Grant on two.

I know why she's calling.

Remember inviting Mrs. Grant and me for
dinner?

Of course I do. When would you like to
come? Tuesday, Wednesday, you name it.

can't make it.

Oh. But she would like you to come to
our place for dinner tonight.

Tonight? Oh, well, thank you. Yes, I'd
like to do that. We're having chilled

vichyssoise, veal scallopini, noodles
almondine, and baked Alaska.

Wow, that sounds terrific.

Leftovers from her home economics test.

leftovers. She got a C minus.