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The word virgin -
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people see it as a joke.
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it's quite upsetting.
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In a world where sex is everywhere...
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My god.
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..the truth is surprising.
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There are more adult virgins
than ever.
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Being a young adult in this day
and age, it's difficult.
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Social media.
Dating apps.
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TV shows.
Porn.
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Porn. Porn. Porn.
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Porn is everywhere.
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Are you self-conscious about our
genitals touching each other?
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Now...
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Yeah.
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..at this radical retreat,
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intimacy experts are offering
a very hands-on solution...
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Ahhh, yeah.
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She's a miracle worker.
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Woo-hoo.
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Like that? I like that.
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..to help Britain's virgins...
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Hmm...
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..lose the one thing...
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Do I make you feel nervous?
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..they feel is holding them back.
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I want to lose my virginity.
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It's now or never.
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But when the moment arrives...
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Would you like to move to the bed?
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..who will be ready...
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I just don't want anyone
to touch me.
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..to go all the way?
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You're so sexy.
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Yeah, so good.
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The last few days on Virgin Island
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have brought firsts for many.
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I think I managed
to achieve my first orgasm ever.
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While Charlotte bared all...
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How does it feel?
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It's refreshing.
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..Ben has been held back by his fear
of nudity.
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I'm basically like probably dressed
more than
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all of you put together.
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I like clothes.
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Clothes are a mark of civilisation.
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Zac's impatience led to a rift.
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I'm just not feeling that desire
from you.
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OK. That's enough for today.
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But reconciliation led to him to
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opening up like never before.
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I want to be more vulnerable.
I want to share that with you.
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Dave continued to progress.
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I had a little orgasm.
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And his aim is clear.
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I would like to lose my virginity.
Yay.
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As the final phase begins...
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Worship me.
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Time is running out for
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the group to get the most out of
the course.
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We invited 12 virgins onto
this island
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to help them explore
the concept of virginity.
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They found out who they are,
what they want.
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Don't be intimidated even though
there's a bed.
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Err...
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Now, it's an opportunity
to self-reflect
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about what they want to do sexually
at the retreat.
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Good morning.
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Another beautiful day at
Virgin Camp.
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It's the penultimate day on
Virgin Island.
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You gonna miss me? You gonna sob?
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"Jason, I miss you."
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I will miss...
I will miss your jokes.
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Aw!
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Obviously this is
the last two days.
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So, we're going to be
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getting into the really big stuff,
aren't we?
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I can't even guess what we're
gonna do.
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Oh, god.
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This final phase,
it's a way for them
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to kind of celebrate their
sexual power
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and all the learning they've done
so far.
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For each member of the group
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to achieve their individual goals,
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Celeste and Danielle
want to keep up the intensity.
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Escalation. What does that mean?
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It means taking it to
the next level.
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Scary. OK, yeah.
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Yeah.
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Let's go.
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Come on, let's escalate things.
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The final group workshop...
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Welcome.
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Hi, everybody.
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..will test exactly how far
the virgins have come
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and how far they're willing to go.
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This is it. Our final workshop.
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And this phase is all
about escalation,
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and you're just like, "What? Didn't
we escalate enough?"
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So, on the first day that we
came in,
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Andre demonstrated on Danielle
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an exercise called "up against
the wall."
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In the first workshop they
were terrified.
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We were actually worried that we
overwhelmed them
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so much they wouldn't be able
to continue.
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Now, Celeste and Danielle want them
to finally conquer their fears.
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It's your turn to bring all
of these tools together.
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Who wants to try it?
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Ooh, I saw that.
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APPLAUSE
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I'm quite scared around sex
and what it really is.
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I want to be more comfortable in
my skin,
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so that I can live my life to
the fullest, you know?
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Ah. Just when you are ready,
nod and I'll come to you.
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He arrived as one of
the quietest in the group.
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But now it's time for Dave
to show how far he's come.
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Ready?
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Yeah.
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Yeah, oh, yes.
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Ohh... Put your leg between my legs.
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Ohh...
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Oh...
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Hmm-mmm, that's so good.
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Inspired by Dave...
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Yeah, we're doing it together.
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..some of the others show off their
sexy skills.
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Mmm.
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Oh, yeah.
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Oh, yeah.
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But Ben needs a little warm-up.
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Sorry, yeah.
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Yeah, nice and hard.
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Yeah.
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Good, harder.
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Mmm, great.
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Last up...
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Are you pushing or being pushed?
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I'll push.
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Sweet.
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..23-year-old dog groomer Holly.
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A lot of different experiences in my
life
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have knocked me down a little bit.
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Yeah, good, right.
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I pretty much got bullied
for most of high school,
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because I was the quiet kid,
so I became quite withdrawn.
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I wish I could just leave the house
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and not care what other people
think and just be the real me.
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Mmmm, feels good?
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Yes.
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Can you take a moment,
can you believe yourselves?
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Talk about before and after.
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What is happening here?
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Do you think, like,
doing the pushing was fun?
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Yeah, shall we do that at
the hangout?
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Can I push you, Ben?
All right, then.
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After the final workshop,
some of the students...
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Ben's gonna walk to you,
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you put your hand on him,
push him up.
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Yeah. That's it,
yeah, pull him pull him close,
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with that hand. There we go.
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..have become the teachers.
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Do you wanna do
an advanced wall push?
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Go on.
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Whoa!
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Hey, Dave.
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Hello. How was yours?
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I think it was good, yeah.
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The neck bit, that was great.
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But it's Dave who's probably
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transformed the most within
the group.
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I'm more confident.
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Like, I'm not going to start
approaching random people
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and start pushing them up
against walls,
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but I'm going to try
and speak to them a little bit.
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Dave, when I think about how
he arrived,
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just totally inside of himself,
you know.
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For him to just come out to
the level he has is just, like...
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Meteoric, yeah.
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We've been escalating quite a bit,
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and so we're going to do oral
today,
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but also practising,
like, staying connected,
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because I think that's something he
still struggles with a little bit.
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Hi.
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How are you? I'm good.
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Right this way.
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To test Dave's ability to connect
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Kat is escalating to the bedroom
for the first time.
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Don't be intimidated even though
there's a bed.
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Err...
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It's OK.
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I'm...
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Losing my virginity,
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I want to be ready for it,
you know?
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But I've just got to go in
and just see what happens.
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I just want to return
to all my friends and family
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and just be a completely
different person.
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Throughout the course,
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Dave has shown an interest in
oral sex.
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You know, I'd pick her up,
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take her down on the bed
and I'd probably,
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do something with oral sex,
I don't know what I'm doing.
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OK.
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I wanna work on staying in
connection through transitions,
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and then practising oral.
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How are you feeling about that?
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I feel... I feel excited about it,
but I'm overthinking it.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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Just trust yourself.
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Surrogate partner therapy is
working really well for Dave.
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Maybe practise moving
when you want to,
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if you wanna come closer,
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and practise staying in connection.
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Yeah, that's nice.
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But he still worries too much about
getting it wrong
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and can get really in his head.
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One of the biggest things to do
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is normalising
the experience of sex.
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When you feel your body being loved
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and then you feel pleasure
from that,
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it makes all of
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the external things just not matter
as much.
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Is it OK for you to give
and receive oral?
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Yep.
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OK, so you can just lie down.
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Be gentle at first.
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Yeah, that's good.
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Mmm.
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Mmm.
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Are you able to go faster?
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It feels so good.
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How are you feeling?
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I feel good.
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Thank you for all of this.
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You're welcome.
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Yeah, it's the first time I've ever
been involved in like
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a proper sexual act. It feels good.
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It's like a weight off
my shoulders.
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See you tomorrow.
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But I feel like there's still
further for me to go.
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I... I do think I'm ready now
to lose my virginity.
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Less squeeze.
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Act like it's my cock.
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What's the worst possible option?
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Continuing the theme of escalation...
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I think lick bum is pretty good.
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Big bum's pretty good.
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..the group are playing
a game of sexy dice.
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Kiss arm.
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Who's your victim?
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Beautiful.
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As the virgins get touchy-feely with
each other...
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Lick mouth. Yes, yes!
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..even Holly, one of the quieter
members of the group,
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is throwing herself in.
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We've been working two weeks
for this, come on.
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OK, go.
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One, two, three, four, five.
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Yay, well done.
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There's something about Holly
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that has lots of potential
but she's still kind of,
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yeah, hiding.
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We need to really understand what's
holding her back in order
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to help her, like, move forward.
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I'm so happy I'm going to spend some
time with you.
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It can feel lonely just when
you see,
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like, all your friends are getting
into relationships and, like,
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a big worry of mine is that
I'm always going to be alone,
268
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like, I'll never have a family
269
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and have that perfect life that I
guess I'm, like, dreaming of.
270
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Let's shake it.
271
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Before Holly leaves the island...
272
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Soak it in just enjoy the sun.
273
00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:57,880
Danielle wants to encourage her
to feel more confident
274
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and finally come to terms
with her true self.
275
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How are you doing?
Do you like the activities?
276
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I think they've been tough.
277
00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:10,240
It's bringing up a lot of feelings I
didn't know I had.
278
00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:11,280
Hm-hm.
279
00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:13,840
So it's, kind of, tough learning
that side of myself.
280
00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:16,560
Do you do you wanna share
with me a little bit more, like?
281
00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:19,680
I'm not sure I fully understand it
myself yet. Yeah.
282
00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:21,440
It's just lots of big emotions.
283
00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:23,440
Yeah, in your chest?
284
00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:24,480
Yeah. In your belly?
285
00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:25,800
Kind of both.
286
00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:33,680
After her talk with Danielle...
287
00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:34,920
I'm gonna be sad going home,
288
00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:37,840
opening my curtains
and just seeing the local pub.
289
00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:40,760
Is that what it is when you open
your curtains?
290
00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:42,360
Holly seems ready to share
291
00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:45,200
her inner-most feelings with Viraj.
292
00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:48,920
I don't know. It's just
been intense.
293
00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:49,960
Are you not grateful for it?
294
00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:53,720
Yeah. It's just I've
295
00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:55,600
a lot of things going on in
my head.
296
00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:00,280
What do you feel like you've learned
from this?
297
00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:05,360
That I might like girls.
I don't know.
298
00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:07,920
Yeah? That's a really big
thing though,
299
00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:12,200
that that's a big change,
like, is that how you feel?
300
00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:13,760
Sometimes I don't know if it's
like,
301
00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:15,080
I connect with people just as,
like,
302
00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,840
on a friendship thing or if it's
anything more.
303
00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:20,440
Hm, yeah, I get that.
304
00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:24,320
I feel like I find it hard
to distinguish between the two.
305
00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:25,640
Yeah.
306
00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:26,680
I'm unsure.
307
00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:29,720
Why is it so difficult?
308
00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:35,680
Why can't it just be simple? Hm.
309
00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:37,000
I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed.
310
00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:40,320
All these feelings are emerging,
311
00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:42,400
that I'm unfamiliar with,
312
00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:45,840
so I think it's just trying
to deal with them and it's...
313
00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:48,080
Yeah, a lot to process.
314
00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:49,720
Do you want to do some yoga?
315
00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:51,400
Yeah, but what kind of yoga?
316
00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:53,240
Strip yoga.
317
00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:54,520
I'm already wearing a bikini,
318
00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,040
I don't know how much more
I can strip.
319
00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:02,640
While Holly ponders...
320
00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:05,760
I want you to practise
reading my body.
321
00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:06,800
Hm-mm.
322
00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:08,800
..across the island...
323
00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:10,400
You can touch my ass.
324
00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:13,440
It'd feel really good
to me if you touch my ass.
325
00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:16,560
..Zac is learning how
to stay attuned to Kat.
326
00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:20,480
Maybe I think you might like more...
327
00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:21,600
Kissing?
328
00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:23,120
Yeah.
329
00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:25,800
And he's finally getting
the results he craves.
330
00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:43,600
Zac has learned a lot about how
331
00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:47,360
to show up in a relationship,
how to attune to people.
332
00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:49,840
I feel like that's really important
for him.
333
00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:53,640
So, I feel really confident
334
00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:55,400
for Zac going out into
the real world.
335
00:16:57,280 --> 00:16:58,960
You're starting to enjoy this.
336
00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:01,960
That feel really good,
could you tell in my body?
337
00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:04,560
Yeah? Definitely. Yeah, yeah.
338
00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:06,880
It's been the time of my life,
being here.
339
00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:10,160
Kat - she has helped me a lot,
and, you know,
340
00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:11,640
I'll forever be grateful for that.
341
00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:14,640
That was nice. I feel close.
342
00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:16,880
I just feel far more prepared
for it,
343
00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:21,840
and I feel ready to hopefully be
344
00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:24,840
the confident player when
I get back, with any luck.
345
00:17:30,120 --> 00:17:32,920
Hardly anyone's around,
I don't know where everyone is.
346
00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:34,840
Where's Tom, is he out the water?
347
00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:36,320
Is he still there?
348
00:17:36,360 --> 00:17:38,240
He's still there, look.
349
00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:39,280
He's like a fish.
350
00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:42,520
Whilst at the retreat,
351
00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:44,720
Ben has learned
to let his guard down,
352
00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:47,280
but there is one fundamental
obstacle standing in
353
00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:50,040
the way of losing his virginity.
354
00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:51,600
Oh, God, the thought of being naked
in front
355
00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:54,320
of somebody absolutely terrifies
me.
356
00:17:54,360 --> 00:17:56,880
I've never been in, like, showers
where everyone's naked,
357
00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:58,960
that would just... Absolutely not.
358
00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:00,120
Even when it's just me in the house
359
00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:02,880
I would not be naked at
all, I'm just that kind of person.
360
00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:05,520
The experts believe that
Ben must overcome
361
00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:06,680
his fear of nudity
362
00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:09,040
for relationships
to flourish back home.
363
00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:11,520
Hello. Hey. Do you
want to take your shoes off?
364
00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:12,560
Yeah, sure.
365
00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:15,480
Ben needs to relax into his body,
366
00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:19,760
into the moment and,
yeah, come out of his head.
367
00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:22,200
Society makes it very difficult.
368
00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:25,800
He has some ideas about how he
should look,
369
00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:28,360
and I think that scares him.
370
00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:29,400
Let's first start.
371
00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:31,080
I just want you
to put your hands on my hips.
372
00:18:31,120 --> 00:18:32,120
Mm-hm.
373
00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:34,320
And I'm gonna just move your body
a little bit.
374
00:18:34,360 --> 00:18:35,800
Mm-hm.
375
00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,920
Joy gets him in the mood
to loosen up...
376
00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:40,160
That's really good,
377
00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:43,960
do you feel how connected we are
in that?
378
00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:46,120
Quite fluid and less stiff.
379
00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:47,600
..before escalating.
380
00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:50,040
Why don't you take your shirt off?
381
00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:52,480
This shirt? Or the T-shirt as well?
382
00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:53,800
What do you feel comfortable with?
383
00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:01,000
I would love to feel more confident
myself in how I look.
384
00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:02,560
I don't smile in pictures a lot of
the time
385
00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:04,760
and I think that's actually
a left over from school
386
00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:06,080
because I got, you know,
teased about
387
00:19:06,120 --> 00:19:07,920
having chubby cheeks or something.
388
00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:09,560
But, ultimately, yeah,
it'd be nice just to,
389
00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:11,680
just to be more confident in myself
and how I look,
390
00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:13,480
but unfortunately, that's...that's
hard to change.
391
00:19:15,120 --> 00:19:16,960
What I'm gonna be doing is
touching in
392
00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:19,400
a way that feels connecting.
393
00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:34,920
Do you wanna try it with me?
394
00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:35,960
Yeah, sure.
395
00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:41,760
Where would you like to be touched?
396
00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:44,240
I kind of want you to just explore.
Hm.
397
00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,200
But exploring is leading
to overthinking.
398
00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:54,560
Never know what position to go in.
399
00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:55,640
Yeah, it's hard, right?
400
00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:57,480
I don't want to crush you.
401
00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:59,720
It's OK, you won't crush me.
402
00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:01,720
Ben's becomingly
increasingly awkward.
403
00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:06,960
Can I move you?
404
00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:08,000
Yeah, yeah.
405
00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:13,040
I want to switch over again, sorry.
406
00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:14,840
And it's stalling his progress.
407
00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:21,480
How do you feel?
408
00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:22,920
Um... I don't know.
409
00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:24,720
I wish I had eight arms,
it would be easier.
410
00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:30,880
But Joy wants to challenge Ben,
before time on the island runs out.
411
00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:34,720
So, next time think about whether
you feel comfortable
412
00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:36,080
being naked together.
413
00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:43,160
I think, you know, nakedness is...to
me it's a private thing.
414
00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:44,720
Yeah.
415
00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:52,000
I mean, obviously I know the
experts,
416
00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:53,480
that they're not sort
of judging you
417
00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:54,520
in that same sort of way anyway,
418
00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:55,920
but really makes me uncomfortable.
419
00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:01,280
I don't think I'll ever be able
to go through with it
420
00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:02,600
and not be so afraid.
421
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:22,400
How do you feel about it being
the last day?
422
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:24,080
I'm quite emotional, to be honest.
Are you?
423
00:21:24,120 --> 00:21:25,560
Yeah, I actually am, yeah.
424
00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:29,280
I'm gonna miss everyone. Yeah.
425
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:32,000
It may be the final morning on
Virgin Island,
426
00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:35,600
but for some, there's unfinished
business.
427
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:39,920
I think I would like
to maybe get naked in front of Joy
428
00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,800
because if I can break that barrier
then it'll probably be easier
429
00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:43,080
when I'm with somebody,
430
00:21:43,120 --> 00:21:44,320
I just want to see where it goes.
431
00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:49,520
I feel like if I do lose my
virginity today,
432
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:51,960
it will be a huge step forward.
433
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,160
But I think everyone's nervous
about it the first time.
434
00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:00,040
Morning. You all right? Yeah, I'm
grand. How are you?
435
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:04,360
I'm all right. All good things come
to an end.
436
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,880
Yeah, it's been, like,
a big process.
437
00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,320
It's hard to, kind of,
438
00:22:08,360 --> 00:22:13,600
share like your deepest secrets
and struggles with people.
439
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,640
Oh, this might be the last time.
440
00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:21,680
Our last day.
441
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:24,640
Let's take the alcohol. They can't
kick us off.
442
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:28,200
Overnight, Holly has been doing some
thinking.
443
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:30,320
Hi.
444
00:22:30,360 --> 00:22:33,080
Before coming here I'd always just
said
445
00:22:33,120 --> 00:22:34,880
"Oh, I'm straight,"
446
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:39,280
but coming here I feel like
it's been more clear
447
00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,160
that I am bisexual,
448
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,720
and, yeah, I'm proud.
449
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:45,840
And she's asked Celeste
450
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:48,800
to help her open up to
the rest of the group.
451
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:53,680
Holly has something that she wants
to share with all of you.
452
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:56,480
Something I've struggled with
a lot and coming here I've,
453
00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:57,960
kind of, had the time to think
about it,
454
00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,480
and have the confidence
to speak out,
455
00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:04,800
is about my sexuality
456
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:09,240
and I'm bisexual,
I've now discovered.
457
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,720
Woo!
458
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,760
Welcome to the club.
459
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:19,560
Well done, Queen, smashed it.
460
00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:20,960
Proud of you.
461
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:24,640
Thank you, guys, that was
terrifying.
462
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:29,440
I definitely would've suppressed it
for longer if I hadn't come here.
463
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,160
So proud of you.
464
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:32,960
Thank you.
465
00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,080
Having all the support from
the group
466
00:23:35,120 --> 00:23:38,640
it gave me that confidence
to tell it to the world,
467
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:40,200
and I couldn't have done it
without them.
468
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,480
I always thought I'd be
a great dominatrix.
469
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:49,920
I feel that for you. Thank you.
470
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:51,440
Yeah. Is that the whipping one?
471
00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:52,880
Yeah. You want to whip people,
and stuff? OK.
472
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:53,920
I'd like to whip people.
473
00:23:59,960 --> 00:24:02,240
As she's progressed through
the course...
474
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:03,960
Hi, hi. Hi, hi.
475
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:07,160
..Charlotte has overcome her
body issues.
476
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:08,920
What would feel comfortable
for you?
477
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,520
Maybe some body caress?
478
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,640
And now she knows exactly what
she wants.
479
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,080
I have an idea.
480
00:24:16,120 --> 00:24:19,000
I wanna take my top off
and I wanna straddle you.
481
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:20,400
OK, you want me laying down?
482
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:21,440
Yes.
483
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,520
Knees down.
484
00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:27,840
Yes, ma'am. Arms further.
485
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:32,080
OK, grip my hips.
486
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:37,400
Oh, that's nice. Worship me.
487
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:42,200
You are so beautiful.
488
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:43,520
Having you straddle me
489
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:45,480
is almost overwhelming for my body.
490
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,600
You are a fucking goddess.
491
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:06,120
I wanna grab your chest.
492
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:07,960
You have full permission.
493
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,080
Yay.
494
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:14,080
You are firm.
495
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,200
That feeling your body on mine.
496
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,920
Feeling your touch feels really good
on me, goddess.
497
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:37,400
Thank you for this gift.
498
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:44,640
I wanna say how proud I am.
499
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:48,680
That was a big leap,
to ask for what you needed.
500
00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,560
I adore Andre, I adore him
completely.
501
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,080
It was through him that
I was really able to be like,
502
00:25:58,120 --> 00:26:00,240
"OK, this is what I want."
503
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:05,040
I went into this with
the mindset of,
504
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,880
"He is a tool, a very enjoyable
tool
505
00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:11,280
"for me to kind of get what
I want out of it."
506
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:15,000
Ohh, I just had so much fun.
507
00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,960
I feel so ready for everything now.
508
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,040
While many are finding their
body confidence...
509
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,400
I like being naked by myself.
I don't.
510
00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,360
..Ben still has work to do.
511
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,080
Me and my ex, even though we
were together,
512
00:26:31,120 --> 00:26:32,320
and, you know, I was staying over,
513
00:26:32,360 --> 00:26:33,560
I got changed in the bathroom.
514
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:34,960
It's like, it's weird.
515
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:36,280
It's just a big step for me.
516
00:26:40,120 --> 00:26:43,160
In a final bid to overcome his fear
of nudity...
517
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:46,400
Hey.
518
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:47,680
Hello.
519
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,440
..Joy has a new plan.
520
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:51,840
I know it's a stretch,
521
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,920
but I'd love to practise
the animal game with you...
522
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:56,000
Mm.
523
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:57,280
..in our, maybe our underwear?
524
00:26:59,960 --> 00:27:01,840
In an early group workshop,
525
00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:05,880
Ben couldn't bear to even watch
the animal game.
526
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,440
So can we stay connected while
we undress?
527
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:09,480
Mm.
528
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:13,880
With most clothes removed...
529
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:19,720
Even as we get down,
we can keep that connection.
530
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:26,480
..Ben tries to let animal instinct
take over.
531
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,640
How does that feel to you?
532
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:38,960
Yeah, I sort of feel
the connection.
533
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,080
Is kissing on your...? Yeah.
534
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,680
Losing himself in the moment,
535
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,800
Ben seems to have let go
of his inhibitions.
536
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:58,200
Would you like to move to the bed?
537
00:27:58,240 --> 00:27:59,480
Yeah.
538
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:03,520
But will it be enough
to finally bare all?
539
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:08,880
That was fun. It was.
540
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:12,000
Do you think we should disrobe?
541
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:15,120
Yeah, let's do it.
542
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,080
I have to break this barrier.
543
00:28:17,120 --> 00:28:19,120
Let me put up this.
544
00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:23,560
Joy puts up a screen,
so Ben's body is for her eyes only.
545
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,200
Are you ready? Yeah, let's go. OK.
546
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:35,840
Is my body normal?
Your body is beautiful, yes.
547
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:38,000
All normal down there?
548
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:42,680
I think better than with clothes on.
Really? Yes.
549
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,200
I've broken another barrier.
550
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,640
I'm proud of you. Thank you.
551
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:52,640
Do you feel complete?
552
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,480
Yeah, I think that's a good way
to end it.
553
00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:55,840
Yeah, great.
554
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:00,760
I'm so incredibly proud of him.
555
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,640
He's opened in ways
that I can't even believe,
556
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:05,200
and I feel honoured
557
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:09,560
he allowed me to be the one
to accompany him on that journey.
558
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:14,680
Hello! Hello.
559
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,600
You all right?
560
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,680
So, I just saw Joy.
561
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:19,760
Ooh, la-la!
562
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,040
My journey is complete.
563
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,760
I didn't lose my virginity, but...
Did you...
564
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:26,160
..get your cock out?
565
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:30,160
Joy is the only person
that's seen me naked.
566
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,040
So, did you see her fully naked?
567
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:35,960
It's nice to break that barrier.
568
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:37,640
Hopefully when I'm in the real world
569
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,600
and I get to that stage again,
it'll be a lot easier.
570
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:42,160
I won't be in my head all the time.
571
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,440
I have changed
and that's all I needed, really,
572
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:45,760
was just that confidence.
573
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:48,280
I haven't had her fully naked
in a one to one,
574
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:50,560
so you did more than me.
Yeah, but you climaxed, I didn't.
575
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:55,040
Ba-ba-ba-ba-ba-ba.
576
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,040
Bi-bi-bi.
577
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,040
Bisexual!
578
00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,400
I'm not the only gay in the village!
579
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,760
This evening,
there'll be a graduation ceremony
580
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:09,080
to end the course.
581
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:10,720
What are you wearing tonight?
582
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,880
I got, like, a full-on suit. Really?
Yeah.
583
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:15,760
Does anyone want to swap outfits?
584
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:17,560
I'll wear your dress.
585
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:20,080
And the group has been set
a final exercise -
586
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:22,560
to write a letter
to a future lover.
587
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:26,640
I don't like writing letters.
Can I write a text instead?
588
00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:31,200
Would shagging by the Tesco bins
be a bit too graphic? Yeah.
589
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:35,160
I know how to start mine.
"Dear Emma..."
590
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,960
Oh, my God. Bleurgh!
591
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:41,040
Me and Viraj are very good friends.
592
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:42,840
A friendship with a good connection.
593
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:46,480
So I think, get back to the UK,
594
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,560
and if it works, then it works.
595
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:51,440
I don't think I will close myself
off any more.
596
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:58,480
For Dave,
a lover could be more imminent.
597
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:02,880
After two weeks of intense
treatment, and years of longing,
598
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:06,040
he could be on the verge
of achieving what he came here for.
599
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,000
Enjoy. Have fun.
600
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,840
Being a virgin at 24, I hate it.
601
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:19,960
My biggest fear is that I'll find
someone that I genuinely care about,
602
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:22,880
and I won't be ready to have
a proper relationship with them.
603
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:26,120
You know, it could be the love of my
life,
604
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,560
and I could just be too awkward,
and I could blow it.
605
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:35,320
Hello. Hey.
606
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,040
How are you doing?
607
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,640
Are you still feeling good
about intercourse?
608
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,800
Yeah, yeah. Yeah, cool.
609
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,680
BOTH LAUGH
610
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,040
So lie down.
611
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:58,640
So we'll just start in
the way that we've been starting,
612
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:01,320
just letting it be organic,
staying in connection, and kissing.
613
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:03,440
Yeah, that sounds good.
614
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:05,240
OK.
615
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,240
OK, clothes off.
616
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:39,000
Grab that condom.
617
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:42,640
Do you know how? No.
618
00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:45,280
You just pinch the top,
619
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,360
and you want to roll it all
the way.
620
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:52,680
OK, just start slow.
621
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,920
I'll be honest,
I'm struggling a little bit.
622
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,360
Just relax.
623
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:12,880
I think I'm putting
a bit too much pressure on myself.
624
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:23,640
Has everyone written their letters?
625
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,280
No. I've got writer's block.
626
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,160
Whilst most of the group
are preparing letters
627
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:31,520
for tonight's graduation ceremony...
628
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:34,160
Just go with the flow,
write what comes to mind.
629
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:35,960
In the Zen den...
630
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,000
Just relax.
631
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:42,400
..Dave is trying to get back
on track with Kat.
632
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:15,160
DEEP BREATHING
633
00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:26,640
You're so sexy.
634
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,320
Yeah, feels so good.
635
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:36,280
BREATHY GASPING
636
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,960
Did you come? Yeah. Yeah.
637
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:51,800
How are you feeling? Good.
638
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:54,800
Yeah, a lot better? Yeah. Yeah.
That's good.
639
00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:58,680
After 12 days...
640
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:04,360
..Dave has completed his course
of therapy on Virgin Island.
641
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,600
Thank you for this.
642
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:10,080
And how does it feel
now you're not a virgin?
643
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:12,160
THEY LAUGH
644
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:17,200
I feel really good,
but how do you feel?
645
00:35:17,240 --> 00:35:18,720
Mmmm.
646
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,240
I feel good
about being the person
647
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:24,320
with him in that important moment,
648
00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:27,360
and I think he has changed so much.
649
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,680
He knows a lot more about what
he wants
650
00:35:29,720 --> 00:35:34,360
and it's a lot easier
if you've done it once.
651
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,720
So I think that will help. Yeah.
652
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,880
Yeah, I think you've done
a really good job.
653
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:41,920
THEY LAUGH
654
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,480
Thank you.
655
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:48,280
I'm proud that I can finally say
I'm not a virgin any more.
656
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:50,720
I've still got a lot of catching up
to do,
657
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,600
but I feel like I'm on
the board now.
658
00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:58,480
Take care.
Yeah. I'll see you later.
659
00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:02,760
Now I can go and properly progress
660
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,960
with some sort of idea
of what I'm doing.
661
00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:10,240
The fact that I'm no longer a virgin
is great, it's just relief.
662
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:20,160
Did you have a session? Yeah. How'd
it go? I think it went well, yeah.
663
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:23,680
You cool?
Yeah, I'm just really tired.
664
00:36:23,720 --> 00:36:26,120
Exhausting day.
665
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,400
You know what, it's the last one,
mate.
666
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,240
I'm going to miss it.
667
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:33,840
Let's go.
668
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:35,520
End of an era.
669
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,520
The end of a chapter.
670
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:44,120
As the sun starts to set for
the final time on Virgin Island,
671
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:47,280
the group are getting ready
for graduation.
672
00:36:48,720 --> 00:36:50,280
It's really sad. Yeah,
673
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,640
I'm going to miss everyone so much,
so...
674
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:53,960
I am going to miss the island
675
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:58,160
and the routine,
I think I'll miss a lot as well.
676
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:00,160
Very lovely.
677
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,880
You look gorgeous, darling.
678
00:37:06,720 --> 00:37:09,120
Wouldn't it be funny if we went in
there and they were all naked? Yeah.
679
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,040
Do you think we get a certificate?
680
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:14,160
Look at them all down there.
681
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,600
Wooo!
682
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:27,440
Graduation is a time
683
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:32,200
for you to gather up all of your
new-found confidence and skills
684
00:37:32,240 --> 00:37:35,200
and get ready to take them out
into the world.
685
00:37:35,240 --> 00:37:37,720
So we're going to invite you up
one by one,
686
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:41,520
because we did ask you to write
a letter to a future lover.
687
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:48,840
The retreat was emotional
for Taylor,
688
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,800
but she discovered
her true sexuality.
689
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:53,840
Dear future lover,
690
00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:57,800
I have spent so long
being scared of who I was,
691
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,400
what people thought, who I was
supposed to be and what I wanted.
692
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,480
But hear this.
I'm not scared any more,
693
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:03,720
I'm terrified.
694
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:07,360
Being terrified means I've found
something that I don't want to lose.
695
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:11,840
And if I'm terrified of losing you,
696
00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:13,720
then maybe you'll be terrified
of losing me.
697
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:16,640
But if it all gets too real,
remember,
698
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:18,320
sing loudly, not well,
699
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,480
laugh at everything that you can
and lick bum.
700
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:22,520
LAUGHTER
701
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:29,440
Taylor wasn't the only one
to find their true identity.
702
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,480
Dear future lover,
we haven't met yet,
703
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,200
but I have been on one hell
of a self-discovery journey.
704
00:38:36,240 --> 00:38:39,200
I feel like I am able
to be my true full self
705
00:38:39,240 --> 00:38:40,840
and show you all of me.
706
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:43,000
I used to think hiding my feelings
was my superpower,
707
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,440
but really, it was my
biggest weakness.
708
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:48,200
It took me a long time to be happy
with who I am as a person,
709
00:38:48,240 --> 00:38:50,120
and there's no way I can go back
to hiding.
710
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:56,960
Look at you. Exactly.
711
00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:00,800
The Tom that you are
is just gorgeous.
712
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:01,960
Thank you.
713
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:10,320
For Ben, the island has meant
overcoming rejection head-on.
714
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:15,000
Dear lover, this man you see before
you now is not the man I once was.
715
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:17,600
For a long time,
I thought I was repulsive,
716
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:20,360
undesirable and that
I could never be loved.
717
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,040
I now know that I was wrong.
718
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:25,480
I went to an intimacy retreat.
719
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,840
It was a bold step, but one
that changed my life forever.
720
00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:31,640
It was here that I learned
of my sexual self,
721
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:35,320
and it was here that I learned
how to be wanted.
722
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:36,960
This journey has been tough,
723
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:38,360
but I wouldn't change a thing
724
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,760
because it ultimately led me to you.
725
00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:44,240
Thank you for loving me and showing
me that I can love myself.
726
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:49,600
Thank you.
727
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:51,480
Amazing.
728
00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:57,320
For many, discovering
self-confidence has been key.
729
00:39:57,360 --> 00:40:01,400
Dear future lover, I want to thank
you for taking my hand
730
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:04,440
and coming with me on
an amazing adventure.
731
00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:06,240
Thank you for having all the love
for me
732
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,520
that I once struggled
to have for myself.
733
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:11,920
Being my true self
is when I can excel.
734
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:13,720
You are a woman now.
735
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:17,440
Thank you, thank you so much.
I'm so frigging proud of you.
736
00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,480
Thank you!
737
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:23,240
Dear future lover/lovers,
738
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:26,480
I want you to be patient
with me while I continue to learn,
739
00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:28,880
grow and inevitably make mistakes.
740
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:31,160
I want us to worship one another,
741
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,400
I want everyone to see our love.
742
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,960
I wasn't sure if I would ever get to
a point in my life
743
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:40,760
where I truly believed that I was
worthy of being loved.
744
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:42,880
I don't expect anything from you,
745
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:46,520
except you must ride the elephant
with me on our wedding day.
746
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:54,160
Sorry for only lasting 20 seconds.
747
00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,520
I was overwhelmed by your beauty.
748
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:59,040
I promise tomorrow will be better,
749
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:02,960
because I'm going to use the skills
I learned from the intimacy retreat.
750
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:10,360
Dave.
751
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:16,960
He arrived on the island as one of
the quietest in the group,
752
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:19,720
but slowly, he's found his voice.
753
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:21,920
Dear my future lover,
754
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:23,720
despite all my continued flaws,
755
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,040
like my constant awkwardness,
756
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:27,880
you've always loved me.
757
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,480
I can't put into words
how much I appreciate that.
758
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,880
You're everything I've ever wanted,
and you complete me.
759
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:39,000
I know that you're going to go out
there and break many hearts.
760
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,240
Um, sorry.
761
00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:51,640
After weeks of being surprised by
the experts,
762
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:55,000
the group now have a surprise
for them.
763
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:57,320
We've all been through so much
with you,
764
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,280
and we all want to give our thanks.
765
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:02,720
I personally want to thank you
for your patience
766
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:04,120
and understanding.
767
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:06,920
You helped me feel confident
and see who I am
768
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:10,360
and see myself in
a place beyond here
769
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:13,080
and I really, really appreciate
everything you've done for me,
770
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:14,440
and thank you all.
771
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:15,800
Thank you.
772
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:22,760
This group are some of
the bravest, wisest,
773
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:27,160
most engaged and loving people
that I have ever worked with,
774
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:29,760
and seeing their transformation,
775
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:31,400
yeah, I can't even...
776
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:32,640
I can't even...
777
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:36,120
I want to thank you
778
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:37,960
for the most unforgettable
experience of my entire life.
779
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:39,720
Nothing's going to ever come
close to this,
780
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:40,840
and it's been incredible.
781
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:45,560
Thank you so much to my lovely Andre
782
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:49,400
for creating that beautiful space
for me
783
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:51,680
to feel vulnerable
784
00:42:51,720 --> 00:42:54,600
and like if I was
going to fall, you would catch me.
785
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,760
Wrong day to wear make-up.
786
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,600
I can say confidently
you've changed my life,
787
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:05,760
changed all these people's lives,
and always remember that.
788
00:43:07,240 --> 00:43:11,000
Before I came here, I was at
the lowest point in my life.
789
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,960
I had no idea how to love myself,
790
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,440
how to love others,
791
00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,920
and each and every one
of you has inspired me.
792
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:22,920
And I don't know how I would ever be
able to repay what you've given us.
793
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,680
Woo!
794
00:43:32,720 --> 00:43:34,400
We've graduated!
795
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,400
From the people who came off
of that boat
796
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:39,920
to the people
who I'm looking at now,
797
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,200
it's unrecognisable,
798
00:43:42,240 --> 00:43:44,160
and I have only hope for them
799
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:46,880
to have the most amazing
sex and relationship lives
800
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:48,640
going out into the world.
801
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:53,080
We want to invite you
to a closing but beginning circle.
802
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,440
Join us.
803
00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:58,560
Even though I didn't lose
my virginity on the island,
804
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:00,520
I've learned so much more
about myself,
805
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:02,600
and I feel like now
when I go on to the outside world,
806
00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:06,120
I'll be so ready
for my new intimate journey.
807
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:10,480
Your courage is going to inspire
so many people out there.
808
00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:15,400
You're going to take
the world by storm, I can feel it.
809
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:16,960
It's all about kind of reaching out
810
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,120
and being like, "Hey,
maybe I would like some help."
811
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:22,760
Congratulations!
812
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:24,720
Woo!
813
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:31,280
They're beautiful human beings
that just didn't know it.
814
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:32,400
Cheers.
815
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:36,440
I'm so honoured and proud to be
a part of this project.
816
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:40,240
This place, I recommend it
to anyone.
817
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,360
My intimacy journey from here -
818
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:44,320
going to go back to Rochdale,
819
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:47,120
take it by storm,
820
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:49,160
and, yeah, lock up your sons.
821
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:52,840
We've graduated from sex camp!
60157
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