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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:06,920 The word virgin - 2 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:08,880 people see it as a joke. 3 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:10,480 it's quite upsetting. 4 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:15,680 In a world where sex is everywhere... 5 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:16,800 My god. 6 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:18,600 ..the truth is surprising. 7 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:21,280 There are more adult virgins than ever. 8 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:24,720 Being a young adult in this day and age, it's difficult. 9 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:26,280 Social media. Dating apps. 10 00:00:26,320 --> 00:00:27,600 TV shows. Porn. 11 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:28,760 Porn. Porn. Porn. 12 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:30,120 Porn is everywhere. 13 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,200 Are you self-conscious about our genitals touching each other? 14 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:34,240 Now... 15 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:35,280 Yeah. 16 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:37,200 ..at this radical retreat, 17 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:41,080 intimacy experts are offering a very hands-on solution... 18 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:42,200 Ahhh, yeah. 19 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:43,520 She's a miracle worker. 20 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:44,960 Woo-hoo. 21 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:46,600 Like that? I like that. 22 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:48,000 ..to help Britain's virgins... 23 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:49,720 Hmm... 24 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:51,400 ..lose the one thing... 25 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:52,920 Do I make you feel nervous? 26 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:54,680 ..they feel is holding them back. 27 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:56,760 I want to lose my virginity. 28 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:59,040 It's now or never. 29 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:01,640 But when the moment arrives... 30 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:03,880 Would you like to move to the bed? 31 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:06,400 ..who will be ready... 32 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,680 I just don't want anyone to touch me. 33 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:12,040 ..to go all the way? 34 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:14,080 You're so sexy. 35 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:15,160 Yeah, so good. 36 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:25,840 The last few days on Virgin Island 37 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:28,000 have brought firsts for many. 38 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:32,640 I think I managed to achieve my first orgasm ever. 39 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:34,480 While Charlotte bared all... 40 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:35,520 How does it feel? 41 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:36,560 It's refreshing. 42 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,600 ..Ben has been held back by his fear of nudity. 43 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:41,000 I'm basically like probably dressed more than 44 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:42,840 all of you put together. 45 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:43,880 I like clothes. 46 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,120 Clothes are a mark of civilisation. 47 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,720 Zac's impatience led to a rift. 48 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:51,120 I'm just not feeling that desire from you. 49 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:53,680 OK. That's enough for today. 50 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:55,720 But reconciliation led to him to 51 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:58,080 opening up like never before. 52 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:03,720 I want to be more vulnerable. I want to share that with you. 53 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:05,360 Dave continued to progress. 54 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:09,480 I had a little orgasm. 55 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:11,560 And his aim is clear. 56 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:15,600 I would like to lose my virginity. Yay. 57 00:02:15,640 --> 00:02:17,600 As the final phase begins... 58 00:02:17,640 --> 00:02:18,640 Worship me. 59 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:19,720 Time is running out for 60 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,480 the group to get the most out of the course. 61 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:24,960 We invited 12 virgins onto this island 62 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,120 to help them explore the concept of virginity. 63 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:30,400 They found out who they are, what they want. 64 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:32,800 Don't be intimidated even though there's a bed. 65 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:34,680 Err... 66 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:37,160 Now, it's an opportunity to self-reflect 67 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:39,920 about what they want to do sexually at the retreat. 68 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:51,760 Good morning. 69 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,680 Another beautiful day at Virgin Camp. 70 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:57,320 It's the penultimate day on Virgin Island. 71 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:00,280 You gonna miss me? You gonna sob? 72 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:02,000 "Jason, I miss you." 73 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,400 I will miss... I will miss your jokes. 74 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:05,600 Aw! 75 00:03:05,640 --> 00:03:06,800 Obviously this is the last two days. 76 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:07,840 So, we're going to be 77 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,600 getting into the really big stuff, aren't we? 78 00:03:10,640 --> 00:03:12,320 I can't even guess what we're gonna do. 79 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:13,920 Oh, god. 80 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:16,760 This final phase, it's a way for them 81 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:20,040 to kind of celebrate their sexual power 82 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:24,000 and all the learning they've done so far. 83 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:25,160 For each member of the group 84 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,920 to achieve their individual goals, 85 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:31,120 Celeste and Danielle want to keep up the intensity. 86 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:33,160 Escalation. What does that mean? 87 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:35,800 It means taking it to the next level. 88 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:37,440 Scary. OK, yeah. 89 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:39,760 Yeah. 90 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:41,280 Let's go. 91 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:43,640 Come on, let's escalate things. 92 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,520 The final group workshop... 93 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:46,680 Welcome. 94 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:48,680 Hi, everybody. 95 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:52,920 ..will test exactly how far the virgins have come 96 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:54,760 and how far they're willing to go. 97 00:03:57,760 --> 00:04:01,200 This is it. Our final workshop. 98 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,840 And this phase is all about escalation, 99 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:09,440 and you're just like, "What? Didn't we escalate enough?" 100 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:12,640 So, on the first day that we came in, 101 00:04:12,680 --> 00:04:15,000 Andre demonstrated on Danielle 102 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:17,040 an exercise called "up against the wall." 103 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:25,160 In the first workshop they were terrified. 104 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,360 We were actually worried that we overwhelmed them 105 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:31,440 so much they wouldn't be able to continue. 106 00:04:34,960 --> 00:04:39,280 Now, Celeste and Danielle want them to finally conquer their fears. 107 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:44,120 It's your turn to bring all of these tools together. 108 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:45,400 Who wants to try it? 109 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:51,360 Ooh, I saw that. 110 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:53,400 APPLAUSE 111 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:59,560 I'm quite scared around sex and what it really is. 112 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:02,680 I want to be more comfortable in my skin, 113 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:04,520 so that I can live my life to the fullest, you know? 114 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:08,960 Ah. Just when you are ready, nod and I'll come to you. 115 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,600 He arrived as one of the quietest in the group. 116 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,240 But now it's time for Dave to show how far he's come. 117 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:16,760 Ready? 118 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:17,800 Yeah. 119 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:27,840 Yeah, oh, yes. 120 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:30,120 Ohh... Put your leg between my legs. 121 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,080 Ohh... 122 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:36,880 Oh... 123 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:43,400 Hmm-mmm, that's so good. 124 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:50,000 Inspired by Dave... 125 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:52,560 Yeah, we're doing it together. 126 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:55,280 ..some of the others show off their sexy skills. 127 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:57,520 Mmm. 128 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:01,680 Oh, yeah. 129 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:03,120 Oh, yeah. 130 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,160 But Ben needs a little warm-up. 131 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:10,880 Sorry, yeah. 132 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:12,600 Yeah, nice and hard. 133 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:14,080 Yeah. 134 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:15,480 Good, harder. 135 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:18,080 Mmm, great. 136 00:06:24,840 --> 00:06:25,880 Last up... 137 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:27,680 Are you pushing or being pushed? 138 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:28,720 I'll push. 139 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:29,760 Sweet. 140 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:32,560 ..23-year-old dog groomer Holly. 141 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:38,960 A lot of different experiences in my life 142 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:40,240 have knocked me down a little bit. 143 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:43,800 Yeah, good, right. 144 00:06:43,840 --> 00:06:48,040 I pretty much got bullied for most of high school, 145 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:52,320 because I was the quiet kid, so I became quite withdrawn. 146 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:54,120 I wish I could just leave the house 147 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:57,600 and not care what other people think and just be the real me. 148 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,960 Mmmm, feels good? 149 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:03,160 Yes. 150 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:12,680 Can you take a moment, can you believe yourselves? 151 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,960 Talk about before and after. 152 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:18,760 What is happening here? 153 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:25,240 Do you think, like, doing the pushing was fun? 154 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,520 Yeah, shall we do that at the hangout? 155 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:29,640 Can I push you, Ben? All right, then. 156 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,920 After the final workshop, some of the students... 157 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:33,960 Ben's gonna walk to you, 158 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:35,760 you put your hand on him, push him up. 159 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:38,400 Yeah. That's it, yeah, pull him pull him close, 160 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:40,160 with that hand. There we go. 161 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:41,640 ..have become the teachers. 162 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:43,280 Do you wanna do an advanced wall push? 163 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:45,080 Go on. 164 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,160 Whoa! 165 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:51,240 Hey, Dave. 166 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:52,720 Hello. How was yours? 167 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:54,080 I think it was good, yeah. 168 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,360 The neck bit, that was great. 169 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:57,640 But it's Dave who's probably 170 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:00,440 transformed the most within the group. 171 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:01,720 I'm more confident. 172 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:03,320 Like, I'm not going to start approaching random people 173 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:04,520 and start pushing them up against walls, 174 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,280 but I'm going to try and speak to them a little bit. 175 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:11,240 Dave, when I think about how he arrived, 176 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:14,200 just totally inside of himself, you know. 177 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:17,760 For him to just come out to the level he has is just, like... 178 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:19,320 Meteoric, yeah. 179 00:08:19,360 --> 00:08:21,000 We've been escalating quite a bit, 180 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:22,560 and so we're going to do oral today, 181 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:26,120 but also practising, like, staying connected, 182 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:29,120 because I think that's something he still struggles with a little bit. 183 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:39,280 Hi. 184 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:40,760 How are you? I'm good. 185 00:08:43,680 --> 00:08:46,040 Right this way. 186 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:49,480 To test Dave's ability to connect 187 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,600 Kat is escalating to the bedroom for the first time. 188 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,680 Don't be intimidated even though there's a bed. 189 00:08:58,720 --> 00:08:59,920 Err... 190 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:02,640 It's OK. 191 00:09:02,680 --> 00:09:03,680 I'm... 192 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:07,760 Losing my virginity, 193 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:10,120 I want to be ready for it, you know? 194 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:15,640 But I've just got to go in and just see what happens. 195 00:09:15,680 --> 00:09:18,360 I just want to return to all my friends and family 196 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:20,320 and just be a completely different person. 197 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:24,120 Throughout the course, 198 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:26,840 Dave has shown an interest in oral sex. 199 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:30,200 You know, I'd pick her up, 200 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:33,720 take her down on the bed and I'd probably, 201 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:35,760 do something with oral sex, I don't know what I'm doing. 202 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:39,320 OK. 203 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:44,440 I wanna work on staying in connection through transitions, 204 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:46,760 and then practising oral. 205 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:49,640 How are you feeling about that? 206 00:09:49,680 --> 00:09:55,320 I feel... I feel excited about it, but I'm overthinking it. 207 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:56,360 Yeah. Yeah. 208 00:09:56,400 --> 00:09:59,200 Just trust yourself. 209 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:02,960 Surrogate partner therapy is working really well for Dave. 210 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:06,520 Maybe practise moving when you want to, 211 00:10:06,560 --> 00:10:08,520 if you wanna come closer, 212 00:10:08,560 --> 00:10:11,680 and practise staying in connection. 213 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:13,040 Yeah, that's nice. 214 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,280 But he still worries too much about getting it wrong 215 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:23,760 and can get really in his head. 216 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:28,920 One of the biggest things to do 217 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:33,560 is normalising the experience of sex. 218 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:35,640 When you feel your body being loved 219 00:10:35,680 --> 00:10:37,520 and then you feel pleasure from that, 220 00:10:37,560 --> 00:10:39,080 it makes all of 221 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:42,120 the external things just not matter as much. 222 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:55,040 Is it OK for you to give and receive oral? 223 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:56,080 Yep. 224 00:10:56,120 --> 00:10:57,440 OK, so you can just lie down. 225 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:02,760 Be gentle at first. 226 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:07,760 Yeah, that's good. 227 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:11,320 Mmm. 228 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:17,040 Mmm. 229 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:27,040 Are you able to go faster? 230 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:40,480 It feels so good. 231 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:48,200 How are you feeling? 232 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,200 I feel good. 233 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:51,880 Thank you for all of this. 234 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:53,200 You're welcome. 235 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:56,960 Yeah, it's the first time I've ever been involved in like 236 00:11:57,000 --> 00:12:00,360 a proper sexual act. It feels good. 237 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,920 It's like a weight off my shoulders. 238 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:04,280 See you tomorrow. 239 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:06,760 But I feel like there's still further for me to go. 240 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:10,800 I... I do think I'm ready now to lose my virginity. 241 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:22,360 Less squeeze. 242 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:24,040 Act like it's my cock. 243 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:29,920 What's the worst possible option? 244 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:32,560 Continuing the theme of escalation... 245 00:12:32,600 --> 00:12:33,880 I think lick bum is pretty good. 246 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,320 Big bum's pretty good. 247 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:39,720 ..the group are playing a game of sexy dice. 248 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:41,040 Kiss arm. 249 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:42,080 Who's your victim? 250 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:47,000 Beautiful. 251 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:52,240 As the virgins get touchy-feely with each other... 252 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:55,000 Lick mouth. Yes, yes! 253 00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:58,040 ..even Holly, one of the quieter members of the group, 254 00:12:58,080 --> 00:12:59,360 is throwing herself in. 255 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:02,680 We've been working two weeks for this, come on. 256 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:03,960 OK, go. 257 00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:08,000 One, two, three, four, five. 258 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:11,160 Yay, well done. 259 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:13,720 There's something about Holly 260 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:17,320 that has lots of potential but she's still kind of, 261 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:18,840 yeah, hiding. 262 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:21,440 We need to really understand what's holding her back in order 263 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:23,360 to help her, like, move forward. 264 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:30,240 I'm so happy I'm going to spend some time with you. 265 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:33,000 It can feel lonely just when you see, 266 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:35,680 like, all your friends are getting into relationships and, like, 267 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:39,520 a big worry of mine is that I'm always going to be alone, 268 00:13:39,560 --> 00:13:40,960 like, I'll never have a family 269 00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:43,840 and have that perfect life that I guess I'm, like, dreaming of. 270 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:48,640 Let's shake it. 271 00:13:48,680 --> 00:13:51,120 Before Holly leaves the island... 272 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:54,800 Soak it in just enjoy the sun. 273 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:57,880 Danielle wants to encourage her to feel more confident 274 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:01,240 and finally come to terms with her true self. 275 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:06,560 How are you doing? Do you like the activities? 276 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:07,720 I think they've been tough. 277 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:10,240 It's bringing up a lot of feelings I didn't know I had. 278 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:11,280 Hm-hm. 279 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:13,840 So it's, kind of, tough learning that side of myself. 280 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:16,560 Do you do you wanna share with me a little bit more, like? 281 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:19,680 I'm not sure I fully understand it myself yet. Yeah. 282 00:14:19,720 --> 00:14:21,440 It's just lots of big emotions. 283 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:23,440 Yeah, in your chest? 284 00:14:23,480 --> 00:14:24,480 Yeah. In your belly? 285 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:25,800 Kind of both. 286 00:14:30,960 --> 00:14:33,680 After her talk with Danielle... 287 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:34,920 I'm gonna be sad going home, 288 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:37,840 opening my curtains and just seeing the local pub. 289 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:40,760 Is that what it is when you open your curtains? 290 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:42,360 Holly seems ready to share 291 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:45,200 her inner-most feelings with Viraj. 292 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:48,920 I don't know. It's just been intense. 293 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:49,960 Are you not grateful for it? 294 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:53,720 Yeah. It's just I've 295 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:55,600 a lot of things going on in my head. 296 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:00,280 What do you feel like you've learned from this? 297 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:05,360 That I might like girls. I don't know. 298 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:07,920 Yeah? That's a really big thing though, 299 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:12,200 that that's a big change, like, is that how you feel? 300 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:13,760 Sometimes I don't know if it's like, 301 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:15,080 I connect with people just as, like, 302 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,840 on a friendship thing or if it's anything more. 303 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:20,440 Hm, yeah, I get that. 304 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:24,320 I feel like I find it hard to distinguish between the two. 305 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:25,640 Yeah. 306 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:26,680 I'm unsure. 307 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:29,720 Why is it so difficult? 308 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:35,680 Why can't it just be simple? Hm. 309 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:37,000 I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed. 310 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:40,320 All these feelings are emerging, 311 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:42,400 that I'm unfamiliar with, 312 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:45,840 so I think it's just trying to deal with them and it's... 313 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:48,080 Yeah, a lot to process. 314 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:49,720 Do you want to do some yoga? 315 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:51,400 Yeah, but what kind of yoga? 316 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:53,240 Strip yoga. 317 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:54,520 I'm already wearing a bikini, 318 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,040 I don't know how much more I can strip. 319 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:02,640 While Holly ponders... 320 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:05,760 I want you to practise reading my body. 321 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:06,800 Hm-mm. 322 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:08,800 ..across the island... 323 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:10,400 You can touch my ass. 324 00:16:10,440 --> 00:16:13,440 It'd feel really good to me if you touch my ass. 325 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:16,560 ..Zac is learning how to stay attuned to Kat. 326 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:20,480 Maybe I think you might like more... 327 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:21,600 Kissing? 328 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:23,120 Yeah. 329 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:25,800 And he's finally getting the results he craves. 330 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:43,600 Zac has learned a lot about how 331 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:47,360 to show up in a relationship, how to attune to people. 332 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:49,840 I feel like that's really important for him. 333 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:53,640 So, I feel really confident 334 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:55,400 for Zac going out into the real world. 335 00:16:57,280 --> 00:16:58,960 You're starting to enjoy this. 336 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:01,960 That feel really good, could you tell in my body? 337 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:04,560 Yeah? Definitely. Yeah, yeah. 338 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:06,880 It's been the time of my life, being here. 339 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:10,160 Kat - she has helped me a lot, and, you know, 340 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:11,640 I'll forever be grateful for that. 341 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:14,640 That was nice. I feel close. 342 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:16,880 I just feel far more prepared for it, 343 00:17:16,920 --> 00:17:21,840 and I feel ready to hopefully be 344 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:24,840 the confident player when I get back, with any luck. 345 00:17:30,120 --> 00:17:32,920 Hardly anyone's around, I don't know where everyone is. 346 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:34,840 Where's Tom, is he out the water? 347 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:36,320 Is he still there? 348 00:17:36,360 --> 00:17:38,240 He's still there, look. 349 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:39,280 He's like a fish. 350 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:42,520 Whilst at the retreat, 351 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:44,720 Ben has learned to let his guard down, 352 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:47,280 but there is one fundamental obstacle standing in 353 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:50,040 the way of losing his virginity. 354 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:51,600 Oh, God, the thought of being naked in front 355 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:54,320 of somebody absolutely terrifies me. 356 00:17:54,360 --> 00:17:56,880 I've never been in, like, showers where everyone's naked, 357 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:58,960 that would just... Absolutely not. 358 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:00,120 Even when it's just me in the house 359 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:02,880 I would not be naked at all, I'm just that kind of person. 360 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:05,520 The experts believe that Ben must overcome 361 00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:06,680 his fear of nudity 362 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:09,040 for relationships to flourish back home. 363 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:11,520 Hello. Hey. Do you want to take your shoes off? 364 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:12,560 Yeah, sure. 365 00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:15,480 Ben needs to relax into his body, 366 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:19,760 into the moment and, yeah, come out of his head. 367 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:22,200 Society makes it very difficult. 368 00:18:22,240 --> 00:18:25,800 He has some ideas about how he should look, 369 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:28,360 and I think that scares him. 370 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:29,400 Let's first start. 371 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:31,080 I just want you to put your hands on my hips. 372 00:18:31,120 --> 00:18:32,120 Mm-hm. 373 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:34,320 And I'm gonna just move your body a little bit. 374 00:18:34,360 --> 00:18:35,800 Mm-hm. 375 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,920 Joy gets him in the mood to loosen up... 376 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:40,160 That's really good, 377 00:18:40,200 --> 00:18:43,960 do you feel how connected we are in that? 378 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:46,120 Quite fluid and less stiff. 379 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:47,600 ..before escalating. 380 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:50,040 Why don't you take your shirt off? 381 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:52,480 This shirt? Or the T-shirt as well? 382 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:53,800 What do you feel comfortable with? 383 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:01,000 I would love to feel more confident myself in how I look. 384 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:02,560 I don't smile in pictures a lot of the time 385 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:04,760 and I think that's actually a left over from school 386 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:06,080 because I got, you know, teased about 387 00:19:06,120 --> 00:19:07,920 having chubby cheeks or something. 388 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:09,560 But, ultimately, yeah, it'd be nice just to, 389 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:11,680 just to be more confident in myself and how I look, 390 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:13,480 but unfortunately, that's...that's hard to change. 391 00:19:15,120 --> 00:19:16,960 What I'm gonna be doing is touching in 392 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:19,400 a way that feels connecting. 393 00:19:33,640 --> 00:19:34,920 Do you wanna try it with me? 394 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:35,960 Yeah, sure. 395 00:19:39,560 --> 00:19:41,760 Where would you like to be touched? 396 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:44,240 I kind of want you to just explore. Hm. 397 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,200 But exploring is leading to overthinking. 398 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:54,560 Never know what position to go in. 399 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:55,640 Yeah, it's hard, right? 400 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:57,480 I don't want to crush you. 401 00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:59,720 It's OK, you won't crush me. 402 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:01,720 Ben's becomingly increasingly awkward. 403 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:06,960 Can I move you? 404 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:08,000 Yeah, yeah. 405 00:20:10,920 --> 00:20:13,040 I want to switch over again, sorry. 406 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:14,840 And it's stalling his progress. 407 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:21,480 How do you feel? 408 00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:22,920 Um... I don't know. 409 00:20:22,960 --> 00:20:24,720 I wish I had eight arms, it would be easier. 410 00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:30,880 But Joy wants to challenge Ben, before time on the island runs out. 411 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:34,720 So, next time think about whether you feel comfortable 412 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:36,080 being naked together. 413 00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:43,160 I think, you know, nakedness is...to me it's a private thing. 414 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:44,720 Yeah. 415 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:52,000 I mean, obviously I know the experts, 416 00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:53,480 that they're not sort of judging you 417 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:54,520 in that same sort of way anyway, 418 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:55,920 but really makes me uncomfortable. 419 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:01,280 I don't think I'll ever be able to go through with it 420 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:02,600 and not be so afraid. 421 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:22,400 How do you feel about it being the last day? 422 00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:24,080 I'm quite emotional, to be honest. Are you? 423 00:21:24,120 --> 00:21:25,560 Yeah, I actually am, yeah. 424 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:29,280 I'm gonna miss everyone. Yeah. 425 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:32,000 It may be the final morning on Virgin Island, 426 00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:35,600 but for some, there's unfinished business. 427 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:39,920 I think I would like to maybe get naked in front of Joy 428 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,800 because if I can break that barrier then it'll probably be easier 429 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:43,080 when I'm with somebody, 430 00:21:43,120 --> 00:21:44,320 I just want to see where it goes. 431 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:49,520 I feel like if I do lose my virginity today, 432 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:51,960 it will be a huge step forward. 433 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,160 But I think everyone's nervous about it the first time. 434 00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:00,040 Morning. You all right? Yeah, I'm grand. How are you? 435 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:04,360 I'm all right. All good things come to an end. 436 00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:06,880 Yeah, it's been, like, a big process. 437 00:22:06,920 --> 00:22:08,320 It's hard to, kind of, 438 00:22:08,360 --> 00:22:13,600 share like your deepest secrets and struggles with people. 439 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:20,640 Oh, this might be the last time. 440 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:21,680 Our last day. 441 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:24,640 Let's take the alcohol. They can't kick us off. 442 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:28,200 Overnight, Holly has been doing some thinking. 443 00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:30,320 Hi. 444 00:22:30,360 --> 00:22:33,080 Before coming here I'd always just said 445 00:22:33,120 --> 00:22:34,880 "Oh, I'm straight," 446 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:39,280 but coming here I feel like it's been more clear 447 00:22:39,320 --> 00:22:41,160 that I am bisexual, 448 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,720 and, yeah, I'm proud. 449 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:45,840 And she's asked Celeste 450 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:48,800 to help her open up to the rest of the group. 451 00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:53,680 Holly has something that she wants to share with all of you. 452 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:56,480 Something I've struggled with a lot and coming here I've, 453 00:22:56,520 --> 00:22:57,960 kind of, had the time to think about it, 454 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,480 and have the confidence to speak out, 455 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:04,800 is about my sexuality 456 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:09,240 and I'm bisexual, I've now discovered. 457 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,720 Woo! 458 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,760 Welcome to the club. 459 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:19,560 Well done, Queen, smashed it. 460 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:20,960 Proud of you. 461 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:24,640 Thank you, guys, that was terrifying. 462 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:29,440 I definitely would've suppressed it for longer if I hadn't come here. 463 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,160 So proud of you. 464 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:32,960 Thank you. 465 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,080 Having all the support from the group 466 00:23:35,120 --> 00:23:38,640 it gave me that confidence to tell it to the world, 467 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:40,200 and I couldn't have done it without them. 468 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,480 I always thought I'd be a great dominatrix. 469 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:49,920 I feel that for you. Thank you. 470 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:51,440 Yeah. Is that the whipping one? 471 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:52,880 Yeah. You want to whip people, and stuff? OK. 472 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:53,920 I'd like to whip people. 473 00:23:59,960 --> 00:24:02,240 As she's progressed through the course... 474 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:03,960 Hi, hi. Hi, hi. 475 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:07,160 ..Charlotte has overcome her body issues. 476 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:08,920 What would feel comfortable for you? 477 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,520 Maybe some body caress? 478 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,640 And now she knows exactly what she wants. 479 00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:16,080 I have an idea. 480 00:24:16,120 --> 00:24:19,000 I wanna take my top off and I wanna straddle you. 481 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:20,400 OK, you want me laying down? 482 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:21,440 Yes. 483 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,520 Knees down. 484 00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:27,840 Yes, ma'am. Arms further. 485 00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:32,080 OK, grip my hips. 486 00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:37,400 Oh, that's nice. Worship me. 487 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:42,200 You are so beautiful. 488 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:43,520 Having you straddle me 489 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:45,480 is almost overwhelming for my body. 490 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,600 You are a fucking goddess. 491 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:06,120 I wanna grab your chest. 492 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:07,960 You have full permission. 493 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,080 Yay. 494 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:14,080 You are firm. 495 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:22,200 That feeling your body on mine. 496 00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,920 Feeling your touch feels really good on me, goddess. 497 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:37,400 Thank you for this gift. 498 00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:44,640 I wanna say how proud I am. 499 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:48,680 That was a big leap, to ask for what you needed. 500 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,560 I adore Andre, I adore him completely. 501 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,080 It was through him that I was really able to be like, 502 00:25:58,120 --> 00:26:00,240 "OK, this is what I want." 503 00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:05,040 I went into this with the mindset of, 504 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,880 "He is a tool, a very enjoyable tool 505 00:26:07,920 --> 00:26:11,280 "for me to kind of get what I want out of it." 506 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:15,000 Ohh, I just had so much fun. 507 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,960 I feel so ready for everything now. 508 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,040 While many are finding their body confidence... 509 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,400 I like being naked by myself. I don't. 510 00:26:27,440 --> 00:26:29,360 ..Ben still has work to do. 511 00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,080 Me and my ex, even though we were together, 512 00:26:31,120 --> 00:26:32,320 and, you know, I was staying over, 513 00:26:32,360 --> 00:26:33,560 I got changed in the bathroom. 514 00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:34,960 It's like, it's weird. 515 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:36,280 It's just a big step for me. 516 00:26:40,120 --> 00:26:43,160 In a final bid to overcome his fear of nudity... 517 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:46,400 Hey. 518 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:47,680 Hello. 519 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,440 ..Joy has a new plan. 520 00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:51,840 I know it's a stretch, 521 00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,920 but I'd love to practise the animal game with you... 522 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:56,000 Mm. 523 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:57,280 ..in our, maybe our underwear? 524 00:26:59,960 --> 00:27:01,840 In an early group workshop, 525 00:27:01,880 --> 00:27:05,880 Ben couldn't bear to even watch the animal game. 526 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,440 So can we stay connected while we undress? 527 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:09,480 Mm. 528 00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:13,880 With most clothes removed... 529 00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:19,720 Even as we get down, we can keep that connection. 530 00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:26,480 ..Ben tries to let animal instinct take over. 531 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,640 How does that feel to you? 532 00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:38,960 Yeah, I sort of feel the connection. 533 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,080 Is kissing on your...? Yeah. 534 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:51,680 Losing himself in the moment, 535 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,800 Ben seems to have let go of his inhibitions. 536 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:58,200 Would you like to move to the bed? 537 00:27:58,240 --> 00:27:59,480 Yeah. 538 00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:03,520 But will it be enough to finally bare all? 539 00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:08,880 That was fun. It was. 540 00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:12,000 Do you think we should disrobe? 541 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:15,120 Yeah, let's do it. 542 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:17,080 I have to break this barrier. 543 00:28:17,120 --> 00:28:19,120 Let me put up this. 544 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:23,560 Joy puts up a screen, so Ben's body is for her eyes only. 545 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,200 Are you ready? Yeah, let's go. OK. 546 00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:35,840 Is my body normal? Your body is beautiful, yes. 547 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:38,000 All normal down there? 548 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:42,680 I think better than with clothes on. Really? Yes. 549 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,200 I've broken another barrier. 550 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,640 I'm proud of you. Thank you. 551 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:52,640 Do you feel complete? 552 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,480 Yeah, I think that's a good way to end it. 553 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:55,840 Yeah, great. 554 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:00,760 I'm so incredibly proud of him. 555 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:03,640 He's opened in ways that I can't even believe, 556 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:05,200 and I feel honoured 557 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:09,560 he allowed me to be the one to accompany him on that journey. 558 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:14,680 Hello! Hello. 559 00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:16,600 You all right? 560 00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,680 So, I just saw Joy. 561 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:19,760 Ooh, la-la! 562 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:22,040 My journey is complete. 563 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,760 I didn't lose my virginity, but... Did you... 564 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:26,160 ..get your cock out? 565 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:30,160 Joy is the only person that's seen me naked. 566 00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:32,040 So, did you see her fully naked? 567 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:35,960 It's nice to break that barrier. 568 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:37,640 Hopefully when I'm in the real world 569 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,600 and I get to that stage again, it'll be a lot easier. 570 00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:42,160 I won't be in my head all the time. 571 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,440 I have changed and that's all I needed, really, 572 00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:45,760 was just that confidence. 573 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:48,280 I haven't had her fully naked in a one to one, 574 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:50,560 so you did more than me. Yeah, but you climaxed, I didn't. 575 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:55,040 Ba-ba-ba-ba-ba-ba. 576 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,040 Bi-bi-bi. 577 00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,040 Bisexual! 578 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,400 I'm not the only gay in the village! 579 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,760 This evening, there'll be a graduation ceremony 580 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:09,080 to end the course. 581 00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:10,720 What are you wearing tonight? 582 00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,880 I got, like, a full-on suit. Really? Yeah. 583 00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:15,760 Does anyone want to swap outfits? 584 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:17,560 I'll wear your dress. 585 00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:20,080 And the group has been set a final exercise - 586 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:22,560 to write a letter to a future lover. 587 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:26,640 I don't like writing letters. Can I write a text instead? 588 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:31,200 Would shagging by the Tesco bins be a bit too graphic? Yeah. 589 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:35,160 I know how to start mine. "Dear Emma..." 590 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,960 Oh, my God. Bleurgh! 591 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:41,040 Me and Viraj are very good friends. 592 00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:42,840 A friendship with a good connection. 593 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:46,480 So I think, get back to the UK, 594 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:48,560 and if it works, then it works. 595 00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:51,440 I don't think I will close myself off any more. 596 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:58,480 For Dave, a lover could be more imminent. 597 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:02,880 After two weeks of intense treatment, and years of longing, 598 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:06,040 he could be on the verge of achieving what he came here for. 599 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,000 Enjoy. Have fun. 600 00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,840 Being a virgin at 24, I hate it. 601 00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:19,960 My biggest fear is that I'll find someone that I genuinely care about, 602 00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:22,880 and I won't be ready to have a proper relationship with them. 603 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:26,120 You know, it could be the love of my life, 604 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,560 and I could just be too awkward, and I could blow it. 605 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:35,320 Hello. Hey. 606 00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,040 How are you doing? 607 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,640 Are you still feeling good about intercourse? 608 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:47,800 Yeah, yeah. Yeah, cool. 609 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,680 BOTH LAUGH 610 00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:53,040 So lie down. 611 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:58,640 So we'll just start in the way that we've been starting, 612 00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:01,320 just letting it be organic, staying in connection, and kissing. 613 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:03,440 Yeah, that sounds good. 614 00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:05,240 OK. 615 00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,240 OK, clothes off. 616 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:39,000 Grab that condom. 617 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:42,640 Do you know how? No. 618 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:45,280 You just pinch the top, 619 00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,360 and you want to roll it all the way. 620 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:52,680 OK, just start slow. 621 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:04,920 I'll be honest, I'm struggling a little bit. 622 00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,360 Just relax. 623 00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:12,880 I think I'm putting a bit too much pressure on myself. 624 00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:23,640 Has everyone written their letters? 625 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,280 No. I've got writer's block. 626 00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:29,160 Whilst most of the group are preparing letters 627 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:31,520 for tonight's graduation ceremony... 628 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:34,160 Just go with the flow, write what comes to mind. 629 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:35,960 In the Zen den... 630 00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,000 Just relax. 631 00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:42,400 ..Dave is trying to get back on track with Kat. 632 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:15,160 DEEP BREATHING 633 00:34:24,680 --> 00:34:26,640 You're so sexy. 634 00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,320 Yeah, feels so good. 635 00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:36,280 BREATHY GASPING 636 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,960 Did you come? Yeah. Yeah. 637 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:51,800 How are you feeling? Good. 638 00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:54,800 Yeah, a lot better? Yeah. Yeah. That's good. 639 00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:58,680 After 12 days... 640 00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:04,360 ..Dave has completed his course of therapy on Virgin Island. 641 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,600 Thank you for this. 642 00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:10,080 And how does it feel now you're not a virgin? 643 00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:12,160 THEY LAUGH 644 00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:17,200 I feel really good, but how do you feel? 645 00:35:17,240 --> 00:35:18,720 Mmmm. 646 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,240 I feel good about being the person 647 00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:24,320 with him in that important moment, 648 00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:27,360 and I think he has changed so much. 649 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:29,680 He knows a lot more about what he wants 650 00:35:29,720 --> 00:35:34,360 and it's a lot easier if you've done it once. 651 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,720 So I think that will help. Yeah. 652 00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,880 Yeah, I think you've done a really good job. 653 00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:41,920 THEY LAUGH 654 00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,480 Thank you. 655 00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:48,280 I'm proud that I can finally say I'm not a virgin any more. 656 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:50,720 I've still got a lot of catching up to do, 657 00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:53,600 but I feel like I'm on the board now. 658 00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:58,480 Take care. Yeah. I'll see you later. 659 00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:02,760 Now I can go and properly progress 660 00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,960 with some sort of idea of what I'm doing. 661 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:10,240 The fact that I'm no longer a virgin is great, it's just relief. 662 00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:20,160 Did you have a session? Yeah. How'd it go? I think it went well, yeah. 663 00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:23,680 You cool? Yeah, I'm just really tired. 664 00:36:23,720 --> 00:36:26,120 Exhausting day. 665 00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,400 You know what, it's the last one, mate. 666 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:32,240 I'm going to miss it. 667 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:33,840 Let's go. 668 00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:35,520 End of an era. 669 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,520 The end of a chapter. 670 00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:44,120 As the sun starts to set for the final time on Virgin Island, 671 00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:47,280 the group are getting ready for graduation. 672 00:36:48,720 --> 00:36:50,280 It's really sad. Yeah, 673 00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,640 I'm going to miss everyone so much, so... 674 00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:53,960 I am going to miss the island 675 00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:58,160 and the routine, I think I'll miss a lot as well. 676 00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:00,160 Very lovely. 677 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,880 You look gorgeous, darling. 678 00:37:06,720 --> 00:37:09,120 Wouldn't it be funny if we went in there and they were all naked? Yeah. 679 00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,040 Do you think we get a certificate? 680 00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:14,160 Look at them all down there. 681 00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:19,600 Wooo! 682 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:27,440 Graduation is a time 683 00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:32,200 for you to gather up all of your new-found confidence and skills 684 00:37:32,240 --> 00:37:35,200 and get ready to take them out into the world. 685 00:37:35,240 --> 00:37:37,720 So we're going to invite you up one by one, 686 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:41,520 because we did ask you to write a letter to a future lover. 687 00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:48,840 The retreat was emotional for Taylor, 688 00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,800 but she discovered her true sexuality. 689 00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:53,840 Dear future lover, 690 00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:57,800 I have spent so long being scared of who I was, 691 00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,400 what people thought, who I was supposed to be and what I wanted. 692 00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:02,480 But hear this. I'm not scared any more, 693 00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:03,720 I'm terrified. 694 00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:07,360 Being terrified means I've found something that I don't want to lose. 695 00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:11,840 And if I'm terrified of losing you, 696 00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:13,720 then maybe you'll be terrified of losing me. 697 00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:16,640 But if it all gets too real, remember, 698 00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:18,320 sing loudly, not well, 699 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,480 laugh at everything that you can and lick bum. 700 00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:22,520 LAUGHTER 701 00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:29,440 Taylor wasn't the only one to find their true identity. 702 00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,480 Dear future lover, we haven't met yet, 703 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,200 but I have been on one hell of a self-discovery journey. 704 00:38:36,240 --> 00:38:39,200 I feel like I am able to be my true full self 705 00:38:39,240 --> 00:38:40,840 and show you all of me. 706 00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:43,000 I used to think hiding my feelings was my superpower, 707 00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,440 but really, it was my biggest weakness. 708 00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:48,200 It took me a long time to be happy with who I am as a person, 709 00:38:48,240 --> 00:38:50,120 and there's no way I can go back to hiding. 710 00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:56,960 Look at you. Exactly. 711 00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:00,800 The Tom that you are is just gorgeous. 712 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:01,960 Thank you. 713 00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:10,320 For Ben, the island has meant overcoming rejection head-on. 714 00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:15,000 Dear lover, this man you see before you now is not the man I once was. 715 00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:17,600 For a long time, I thought I was repulsive, 716 00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:20,360 undesirable and that I could never be loved. 717 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,040 I now know that I was wrong. 718 00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:25,480 I went to an intimacy retreat. 719 00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,840 It was a bold step, but one that changed my life forever. 720 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:31,640 It was here that I learned of my sexual self, 721 00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:35,320 and it was here that I learned how to be wanted. 722 00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:36,960 This journey has been tough, 723 00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:38,360 but I wouldn't change a thing 724 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,760 because it ultimately led me to you. 725 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:44,240 Thank you for loving me and showing me that I can love myself. 726 00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:49,600 Thank you. 727 00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:51,480 Amazing. 728 00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:57,320 For many, discovering self-confidence has been key. 729 00:39:57,360 --> 00:40:01,400 Dear future lover, I want to thank you for taking my hand 730 00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:04,440 and coming with me on an amazing adventure. 731 00:40:04,480 --> 00:40:06,240 Thank you for having all the love for me 732 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,520 that I once struggled to have for myself. 733 00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:11,920 Being my true self is when I can excel. 734 00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:13,720 You are a woman now. 735 00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:17,440 Thank you, thank you so much. I'm so frigging proud of you. 736 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,480 Thank you! 737 00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:23,240 Dear future lover/lovers, 738 00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:26,480 I want you to be patient with me while I continue to learn, 739 00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:28,880 grow and inevitably make mistakes. 740 00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:31,160 I want us to worship one another, 741 00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:33,400 I want everyone to see our love. 742 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,960 I wasn't sure if I would ever get to a point in my life 743 00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:40,760 where I truly believed that I was worthy of being loved. 744 00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:42,880 I don't expect anything from you, 745 00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:46,520 except you must ride the elephant with me on our wedding day. 746 00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:54,160 Sorry for only lasting 20 seconds. 747 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,520 I was overwhelmed by your beauty. 748 00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:59,040 I promise tomorrow will be better, 749 00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:02,960 because I'm going to use the skills I learned from the intimacy retreat. 750 00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:10,360 Dave. 751 00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:16,960 He arrived on the island as one of the quietest in the group, 752 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:19,720 but slowly, he's found his voice. 753 00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:21,920 Dear my future lover, 754 00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:23,720 despite all my continued flaws, 755 00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,040 like my constant awkwardness, 756 00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:27,880 you've always loved me. 757 00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,480 I can't put into words how much I appreciate that. 758 00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,880 You're everything I've ever wanted, and you complete me. 759 00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:39,000 I know that you're going to go out there and break many hearts. 760 00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,240 Um, sorry. 761 00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:51,640 After weeks of being surprised by the experts, 762 00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:55,000 the group now have a surprise for them. 763 00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:57,320 We've all been through so much with you, 764 00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,280 and we all want to give our thanks. 765 00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:02,720 I personally want to thank you for your patience 766 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:04,120 and understanding. 767 00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:06,920 You helped me feel confident and see who I am 768 00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:10,360 and see myself in a place beyond here 769 00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:13,080 and I really, really appreciate everything you've done for me, 770 00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:14,440 and thank you all. 771 00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:15,800 Thank you. 772 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:22,760 This group are some of the bravest, wisest, 773 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:27,160 most engaged and loving people that I have ever worked with, 774 00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:29,760 and seeing their transformation, 775 00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:31,400 yeah, I can't even... 776 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:32,640 I can't even... 777 00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:36,120 I want to thank you 778 00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:37,960 for the most unforgettable experience of my entire life. 779 00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:39,720 Nothing's going to ever come close to this, 780 00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:40,840 and it's been incredible. 781 00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:45,560 Thank you so much to my lovely Andre 782 00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:49,400 for creating that beautiful space for me 783 00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:51,680 to feel vulnerable 784 00:42:51,720 --> 00:42:54,600 and like if I was going to fall, you would catch me. 785 00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,760 Wrong day to wear make-up. 786 00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,600 I can say confidently you've changed my life, 787 00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:05,760 changed all these people's lives, and always remember that. 788 00:43:07,240 --> 00:43:11,000 Before I came here, I was at the lowest point in my life. 789 00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,960 I had no idea how to love myself, 790 00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,440 how to love others, 791 00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,920 and each and every one of you has inspired me. 792 00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:22,920 And I don't know how I would ever be able to repay what you've given us. 793 00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,680 Woo! 794 00:43:32,720 --> 00:43:34,400 We've graduated! 795 00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,400 From the people who came off of that boat 796 00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:39,920 to the people who I'm looking at now, 797 00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,200 it's unrecognisable, 798 00:43:42,240 --> 00:43:44,160 and I have only hope for them 799 00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:46,880 to have the most amazing sex and relationship lives 800 00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:48,640 going out into the world. 801 00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:53,080 We want to invite you to a closing but beginning circle. 802 00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,440 Join us. 803 00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:58,560 Even though I didn't lose my virginity on the island, 804 00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:00,520 I've learned so much more about myself, 805 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:02,600 and I feel like now when I go on to the outside world, 806 00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:06,120 I'll be so ready for my new intimate journey. 807 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:10,480 Your courage is going to inspire so many people out there. 808 00:44:10,520 --> 00:44:15,400 You're going to take the world by storm, I can feel it. 809 00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:16,960 It's all about kind of reaching out 810 00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,120 and being like, "Hey, maybe I would like some help." 811 00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:22,760 Congratulations! 812 00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:24,720 Woo! 813 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:31,280 They're beautiful human beings that just didn't know it. 814 00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:32,400 Cheers. 815 00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:36,440 I'm so honoured and proud to be a part of this project. 816 00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:40,240 This place, I recommend it to anyone. 817 00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,360 My intimacy journey from here - 818 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:44,320 going to go back to Rochdale, 819 00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:47,120 take it by storm, 820 00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:49,160 and, yeah, lock up your sons. 821 00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:52,840 We've graduated from sex camp! 60157

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