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This programme contains
strong language, nudity
and scenes of a sexual nature
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The word virgin,
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people see it as a joke.
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It's quite upsetting.
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In a world where sex is everywhere...
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My God.
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..the truth is surprising,
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there are more adult virgins
than ever.
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Being a young adult in this day
and age, it's difficult.
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Social media. Dating apps.
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TV shows.
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Porn. Porn. Porn.
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Porn is everywhere.
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Are you self-conscious about our
genitals touching each other?
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Now... Yeah.
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..at this radical retreat,
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intimacy experts are offering
a very hands-on solution...
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Oh, yeah.
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She's a miracle worker.
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Woohoo.
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Like that? I like that.
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..to help Britain's virgins...
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Mmm.
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..lose the one thing...
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Do I make you nervous?
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..they feel is holding them back.
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I want to lose my virginity.
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It's now or never.
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But when the moment arrives...
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Would you like to move to the bed?
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..who will be ready...
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I just don't want anyone
to touch me.
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..to go all the way?
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You're so sexy.
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Yeah, so good.
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On the previous phase of
the course...
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This is my body.
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CHEERING
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..the group faced their body
hang-ups.
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This is my body.
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..and had an anatomy lesson.
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Down here is the vaginal opening.
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It inspired Dave
to begin intimate touching...
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I think today was
the biggest thing I've done so far.
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..while Zac...
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I would love to have sex with you.
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..is eager to move things on
with surrogate partner Kat.
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I'm feeling a little bit
of frustration.
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And even though Emma is finding her
flirty side...
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Oh, that's so sweet.
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Turning me on a little bit. Really?
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..one thing eludes her.
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I've never masturbated or
experienced an orgasm.
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Now...
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You can just start with your
fingers...
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Right. ..and then work your way up
to the vibrator.
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..the course is heading towards
its climax.
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Orgasms can come in different ways.
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If you don't know how
to orgasm, you just won't be able
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to share erotic energy
with someone else.
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Morning, boys, you all right?
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Yeah, you all right?
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Is that French toast?
Oh, it's not, no.
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It's another morning on
Virgin Island...
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Oh, no, my cheese.
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..and the next phase of the course
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will be a first for some of
the group...
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..learning about the elusive orgasm.
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Great.
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Oh, man.
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So far, I've found the course
actually quite life-changing,
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but I think it's
going to be difficult for me,
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cos I've never experienced
an orgasm.
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Oh, my.
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I'm ready for it.
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Part of my own,
sort of, ego, I guess,
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would be knowing how
to please a woman.
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In order to reach that sexual peak...
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Good morning. Good morning.
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Hello.
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Hello.
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..Celeste and Danielle are first
going to teach them
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a few positions to raise confidence
in the bedroom.
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So, in this next exercise,
we're going to help you
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get skilful moving bodies around in
a smooth, fluid way.
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And also add a little bit
of passionate talk.
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So, just one sentence
somewhere along
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the line you can say,
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"You're so sexy," or
"I love touching you",
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or, "You're so hot."
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Just something
that has passion in it.
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You ready to see the demo?
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First, there's the
sideways missionary.
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You're so gorgeous.
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Mmm.
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Then they switch to cowgirl.
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Next, it's the secondary missionary.
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And finally, the leapfrog.
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And that's how it's done.
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So, who wants to try it?
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I'll do it.
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GROUP CHEERS
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So far, Zac has been the most eager
in the group.
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Right, starting position.
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Starting position is relaxing.
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THEY LAUGH
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Yeah, right. Yeah, right.
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Yeah, just stay for a moment to
connect.
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Good.
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Sexy.
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Very. Yeah.
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I'm a lucky boy.
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Yeah, like that.
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Good.
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Good.
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Fantastic.
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Ahhhhh.
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Oh, that feels good.
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Like that? Mm-hm.
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THEY CHUCKLE
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Good. Love it.
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Ahhhh.
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Woohoo.
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OK, who's next?
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Yeah, I'll do it. Yeah, I'll do it.
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As the course has progresses,
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Dave is slowly but surely learning
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the skills to turn his
love life around.
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I've gotten to the point where
I'm sitting at home
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every weekend just doing nothing.
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I wanna go out and meet someone.
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I want that level of intimacy
with someone.
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It feels really nice to be here
with you.
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You've got great eyes. Mmm.
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You are very sexy.
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Yeah.
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Mmm, that feels really good.
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Mmmm.
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Ooh, I like that.
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Mmmm.
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Yeah.
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Yes, oh, yes.
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Exactly.
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You rocked it.
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It was surprisingly comfortable.
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In my head, I thought it was
going to be a lot more awkward.
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When the group arrived on
the island...
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Yes, fantastic.
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..they were too self-conscious
to relax into intimacy.
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OK. This is another good one.
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Like that? Oh, yeah.
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I like that.
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I love your lips.
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Yours are nice, too.
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Thank you.
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Now...
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And then you flip me over.
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Like? Exactly.
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..they're gaining the knowledge
to enjoy themselves.
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You're fucking sexy.
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Oh, gosh.
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Love that.
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You don't like compliments?
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No. You can tell me I'm doing well.
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That's different. OK.
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Like, "You're such a good girl?"
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No!
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Anyone else ready?
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Yeah, fuck it, let's do it.
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Oh, God.
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So far on the course,
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Emma hasn't embraced many of
the physical exercises.
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I am uncomfortable with
the idea of sex.
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I would like to be able to have
the confidence to be able
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to overcome my fear,
but it's just so awkward.
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If I ever experienced sex,
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I would be so lost.
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I wouldn't have a clue.
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You can tell me when you
feel ready.
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Yup.
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Take your time.
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I'm ready. You're ready? Yeah. OK.
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I'm going to do it nice and slow.
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Yeah? Mm-hm.
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So get yourself settled there.
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You can touch back.
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Yeah, feel free.
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OK, come down here to me.
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Down here.
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Hmmm. There we go.
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Oh. That's perfect.
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Perfect.
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Hmmm.
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You want a little tap?
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Mm-hm. Why not?
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Woo.
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Wow.
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You all right?
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That was a massive step up from
what we usually do. Yeah.
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I mean, you, you were definitely
the dominant one.
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Exactly,
I was having a good time as well.
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All that being thrown around.
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You, yours was the hardest to watch,
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only cos of how intimate it was,
do you know what I mean?
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Yeah. Honestly, it was proper like
softcore porn.
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Yeah.
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Did you get a boner?
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Yeah, of course I did.
You did, yeah?
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Yeah, dude.
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I found the workshop a little bit
tough.
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I thought that I was ready for it,
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but once I was on the bed with
Celeste,
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I don't think I was.
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I mean, I'm glad that I gave it a
go,
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but I just think I was like a dead,
limp fish.
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I think, with Emma,
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I was a little bit surprised when
she said
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she wanted to do the positions.
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It was still a little bit too much
for her.
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I also think that she maybe doesn't
know what she likes,
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so maybe some work supporting her
to discover more of her body.
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Yeah. We're going to talk with all
the women
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about their masturbation practises,
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because my mission is for all of
them to have orgasms
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before they leave the island.
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To do that,
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the experts decide to give the girls
a lesson in pleasuring...
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Hey, beauties!
THEY SHOUT GREETINGS
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..self-pleasuring.
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So, here we have a box of toys.
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This is an opportunity to find
pleasure with yourself.
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A lot of times, women don't even
know that self-pleasure is for them,
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they don't even think about
masturbating,
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and a lot of women are, like,
hesitant to even try it.
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But, if you learn the experience of
orgasm for yourself,
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you actually have a much easier
time doing it with a partner.
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These little pulse vibrators,
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you have quite even distribution
of vibration.
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These tongue-like toys
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are for moving up and down the
front of your vulva.
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Don't just hold the toy there
and lie limp,
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in order to have an orgasm, the
blood has to move to your genitals,
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and moving makes a huge difference.
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I do it. I miss my box at home.
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THEY LAUGH
Ah!
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Your pleasure box!
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It's an opportunity to explore,
like, what feels good for you.
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And, like, being able to build an
association of
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"I have fun with my body. "
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So, are we keeping these? Taking
them back to our cabins?
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Yeah, babe!
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You can choose between you which one
you want to take.
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I want this one.
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THEY LAUGH
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Questions. Tell me.
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Like, whether this would work
for me?
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Like, could I get pleasure from
this?
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This will work for you.
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OK, see you later, have fun! Thank
you! Bye.
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What one are you having, T?
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I haven't decided.
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Ooh, that one works!
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It's like a little fan.
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It is like a little fan.
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Right, OK.
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OK, I'm going to go and
"read my book!"
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SHE LAUGHS
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With batteries charged, the girls
head off for some privacy,
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and Emma prepares to attempt her
first-ever orgasm...
270
00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:56,960
Emma, it's Aisha. Hello.
271
00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:58,640
..with one last tip from Aisha.
272
00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:00,960
Self-pleasuring without lube
273
00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:02,880
is like trying to tongue kiss
without saliva.
274
00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:04,800
Oh, my god!
SHE LAUGHS
275
00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:09,200
Someone's going to walk past and
just hear loads of noise!
276
00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:11,360
VIBRATOR BUZZES
277
00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:25,000
Do it, do it! It's too cold!
278
00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:26,800
On this private island retreat...
279
00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:29,680
HE WHOOPS
280
00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:32,480
..12 virgins have jumped in at the
deep end...
281
00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:34,840
When you go on the rocks, be very
careful you don't get cut up.
282
00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:36,600
I'm not going on the rocks. OK.
283
00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:37,840
I'm not as brave as Viraj.
284
00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:45,880
..and Emma has taken her first steps
into the world of self-pleasure.
285
00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:50,400
I did experiment with my vibrator
for the first time.
286
00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:51,440
It was a little bit...
287
00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:53,880
..uneasy at first -
288
00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:57,760
I think I was just getting used to
the rhythm of my body
289
00:13:57,800 --> 00:13:59,520
and how things work,
290
00:13:59,560 --> 00:14:03,000
but I don't think I actually
experienced an orgasm.
291
00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:04,080
I just...
292
00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:06,280
I think I just need to make myself
feel more "sexy"
293
00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:07,400
in some sort of way.
SHE LAUGHS
294
00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:11,840
As Emma works on her technique,
295
00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:14,320
Dave and Zac discuss it...
296
00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:16,400
I reckon there's loads of people
who've had sex
297
00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:19,920
who are doing it horribly. Yeah,
right. I think so.
298
00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:22,560
Because I there's no way my mates
299
00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:24,520
know all the shit that I've been
taught.
300
00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:29,320
..and one of the key tips for getting
in the mood is good communication.
301
00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:31,920
Does that feel nice, or not? Yeah,
it does.
302
00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:33,640
Could you do it a little bit lower,
as well?
303
00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:35,600
Like, that's really nice,
but a bit lower as well.
304
00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:38,040
Look at us communicating!
305
00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:39,560
Won't Danielle and Celeste be
proud?
306
00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:40,960
Oh, yeah that's it.
307
00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:42,320
That's really nice.
308
00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:43,760
Oh, yeah!
309
00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,160
Now that Taylor has come out as gay,
310
00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,840
Celeste and Danielle have
a new plan for her.
311
00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:52,600
It's all about de-shamifying what
turns her on.
312
00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:54,720
She outed herself for liking a
praise kink,
313
00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:56,480
she loved being called a 'good
girl',
314
00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:58,000
which was very embarrassing for
her...
315
00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:00,600
SHE LAUGHS
..so all of her work is to explore
316
00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:02,720
pleasure and sensation with a woman.
317
00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:04,240
Yeah, I think in session today,
318
00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:06,160
we'll just keep normalising
her desire
319
00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:08,240
so she can learn what she likes,
320
00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:10,200
and to just have a chance
to experience it.
321
00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:15,040
But first, surrogate partner Kat
322
00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:19,520
must help Taylor overcome her fear
of intimacy and rejection.
323
00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:22,920
My biggest fear is that I finally
have sex with someone
324
00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:24,520
and I'm really bad at it.
325
00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:27,200
Are they gonna then turn around
and it will be my fault? And...
326
00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:30,360
Yeah, it's one of those where you
just...
327
00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:33,280
You don't want to do it in case it
goes wrong.
328
00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:37,920
I was thinking we could maybe try,
like,
329
00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:39,640
something a little more organic.
Mm-hm.
330
00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:42,360
Like maybe some, like, kissing
and, like... Oh... ..moving.
331
00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:44,120
SHE LAUGHS
Does that feel...?Um...
332
00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:47,240
Um... We can start slow.
333
00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:49,120
Yeah. Yeah. If we could start slow,
334
00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:51,400
because I've never kissed anyone
sober, so...
335
00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:53,280
Never? No.
336
00:15:57,800 --> 00:15:59,360
Is that OK? Mm-hm.
337
00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:03,760
Are you sure? Mm-hm.
338
00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:07,320
I feel like this is, like, really
nice, and we're really close,
339
00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:08,720
but I also feel like...
340
00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:11,120
I feel really not pretty, and I
don't like... Oh...
341
00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:12,680
I know but, like...
342
00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:17,560
Thank you.
343
00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:21,840
I just feel, like...big and clunky
and...
344
00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:25,600
It feels so good.
SHE CHUCKLES
345
00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:28,720
Like, I promise you - it feels
so good.
346
00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:30,480
Mm.
347
00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:31,840
Do you want to go on top of me?
348
00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:35,160
Can I try?
349
00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:38,440
It feels like you would be too
pretty for me.
350
00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:41,760
I understand what you're thinking...
Mm-hm.
351
00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:44,840
..but I feel like you're wrong. You
don't know what I like.
352
00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:47,640
I have a lot of desire, and what
I'm thinking is -
353
00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:49,600
I'm wondering what's comfortable
for you,
354
00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:51,880
and I'm wondering what you feel
safe with,
355
00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:55,160
and I don't want my desire to be
too much, as...
356
00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:58,640
THEY LAUGH
357
00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:00,840
Sorry, I panicked!
THEY LAUGH
358
00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:03,120
That was excellent!
THEY LAUGH
359
00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:05,520
You want more?
360
00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:06,640
I want more.
361
00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:09,080
THEY LAUGH
I don't know.
362
00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:35,440
Fuck it.
363
00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:36,840
THEY CHUCKLE
364
00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:46,920
TAYLOR CHUCKLES
365
00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:55,760
TAYLOR CHUCKLES
366
00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:11,400
How did it go?
367
00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:13,000
Really good. Uh...
SHE LAUGHS
368
00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:15,960
We kissed. Aw!
369
00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:17,520
We were, like, sat this far apart,
370
00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:21,080
literally just whispering at each
other - like, really, really close -
371
00:18:21,120 --> 00:18:23,520
and that's when I started to feel
really connected.
372
00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:24,960
I really, like, enjoyed it.
373
00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:27,680
When I arrived at the island,
374
00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:30,720
I felt scared. I felt scared of
sex, I felt scared of my sexuality,
375
00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:33,720
and I felt scared of just
everything to do with sex.
376
00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:36,560
But now I feel a lot more confident,
I feel like I learned a lot,
377
00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:40,720
and, obviously, I feel a lot more
gay!
378
00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:42,840
SHE LAUGHS
379
00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:47,360
So, what's your prostate? What's a
prostate?
380
00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:48,720
It's, like, further up.
381
00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:51,320
Oh, I thought your prostate was
your testicles. No.
382
00:18:51,360 --> 00:18:52,360
Oh, shit.
383
00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:53,600
But I got a B in biology.
384
00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:58,360
After Taylor experienced her first
meaningful kiss...
385
00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,000
The only thing I haven't done before
is kissing. Yeah.
386
00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:01,920
That's the only thing I want to
know. Yeah. Kissing.
387
00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:05,120
..Jason hopes to follow suit.
388
00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:06,440
Never kissed anyone.
389
00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:08,160
In my adult life, never kissed
anyone.
390
00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:09,280
Ever.
391
00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:11,640
So, I know my first kiss is going to
be sloppy and weird,
392
00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:13,200
and get my tongue, go "blurgh,"
393
00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:14,640
that kind of thing.
HE LAUGHS
394
00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:17,280
I can only imagine the horror...the
horror of the first one.
395
00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:21,520
Having arrived at the retreat unable
to even hug,
396
00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:23,840
Jason is conquering his fear of
intimacy...
397
00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:27,840
..so now, expert Joy wants to raise
the stakes.
398
00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:36,600
What I want to do today is continue
to feel the present moment,,,
399
00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:38,200
Mm-hm. ..while we connect.
400
00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:41,400
And we can practice also... Yeah.
401
00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:43,680
..taking clothes off, if you feel
comfortable.
402
00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:44,800
I can do that, yeah.
403
00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:46,200
You don't have to take it off.
404
00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:09,920
Do you want to lie down?
405
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:11,840
Yeah, yeah. Yeah, lets... I'm up
for that, yeah.
406
00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:13,400
That sounds good?
HE LAUGHS
407
00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:19,320
As Joy escalates the intimacy,
408
00:20:19,360 --> 00:20:21,160
Jason isn't holding back.
409
00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:25,840
So, is he ready for another first?
410
00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,440
HE EXHALES
411
00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,920
HE BREATHES HEAVILY
412
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:05,160
Phew!Yeah.
THEY CHUCKLE
413
00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:06,600
I've come a long way.
HE CHUCKLES
414
00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:09,960
Yeah, you really have. You really
have, seriously.
415
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:11,320
I never thought I'd get this far.
416
00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:14,120
Wow, you kiss good!
THEY LAUGH
417
00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:15,160
And you touch good.
418
00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:18,040
Well, thank you.
419
00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:20,120
I hope I kiss half as good as you.
420
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,080
It's beautiful, connecting with you.
421
00:21:22,120 --> 00:21:23,360
You are a beautiful man.
422
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,760
You're a beautiful woman.Yeah, thank
you.
423
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,080
OK, bye.
424
00:21:32,120 --> 00:21:33,160
It's hard to put into words. I...
425
00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:36,680
The best feeling in the world.
426
00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:39,640
All my life, I've been wondering how
my first kiss will go
427
00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,320
with a woman on the lips.
428
00:21:41,360 --> 00:21:44,680
I know it's not sex, but still...it
feels great.
429
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:47,200
I thought I'd be crap, but
apparently I'm a natural.
430
00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:52,520
How did it go? Great.
431
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:54,760
What happened? We was kissing on
the lips, and shit.
432
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:57,560
I haven't got to that yet. On the
lips? Yeah. Oh, shit.
433
00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,400
I thought we weren't meant
to kiss on the lips.
434
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:00,440
I think we can get to that.
435
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:04,000
When do we think people's therapy
sessions will move to, like,
436
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,760
touching and that? Mine already
have. They already have, yeah.
437
00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:08,960
What, your therapist has sucked
you off?
438
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:11,200
No, not yet, but they might do
today.
439
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:12,840
I might ask her for that, she would
probably do it.
440
00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:17,040
Zac feels he's made such good
progress, that he's ready for more.
441
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:21,080
I might fucking lose my virginity
tonight.
442
00:22:21,120 --> 00:22:22,360
I dunno. I reckon tonight...
443
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:23,480
I don't think it will get to it
tonight,
444
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:26,080
I think it will be the next one.
Mm. Cos I think there's still...
445
00:22:26,120 --> 00:22:27,960
- What for you? No, for you.
- There's still plenty of time.
446
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:29,960
Well, I mean... I would know better
than you... Don't rush it.
447
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:31,560
No, I'm not saying that, but I'm...
..about that.
448
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:33,280
I'm not trying to assume what
you want... I know.
449
00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:35,960
I'm saying what they will... I'm
saying what I think they will do.
450
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:37,600
Yeah, they might think it's
too fast. Yeah.
451
00:22:43,120 --> 00:22:45,120
As evening falls...
452
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:47,520
See you later, Zac. Have fun!
453
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:51,080
..Zac's extreme confidence is still
playing on Emma's mind.
454
00:22:51,120 --> 00:22:54,720
The thing is, Zac reckons he's
going to lose his virginity tonight,
455
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:58,120
and I'm like, fair play - I really
like his ambitious thinking -
456
00:22:58,160 --> 00:22:59,920
but if you go into it thinking
that,
457
00:22:59,960 --> 00:23:02,120
are you setting yourself a false
expectation?
458
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:05,440
And then are you going to be upset
if it doesn't happen? Mmm.
459
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:08,840
Hello. Hello.
460
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:10,320
And also, I feel like the
therapists -
461
00:23:10,360 --> 00:23:13,720
if they don't think someone's ready
for something that severe... Mm.
462
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:15,800
..they are not going to let it
happen. No.
463
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,640
How have you been feeling since our
last session?
464
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,000
I'm feeling good excited, actually.
Yeah. Yeah.
465
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:25,960
Um...
466
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:27,720
Yeah, I'm keen to move forward,
definitely.
467
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:30,960
Do you want to get going?
468
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:33,280
Yes, please. Yep? Yeah.
469
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:35,040
OK. So, we're just going to start
standing.
470
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:40,600
If it feels OK, we're going to take
off our clothes. Does it feel OK?
471
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:41,880
Yeah. Yeah? OK.
472
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:47,760
Surrogate partner therapy is
definitely about way more than sex.
473
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:51,960
It's about teaching really basic
relationship skills
474
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:56,560
like connections, how to relate to
others, being more organic.
475
00:23:56,600 --> 00:24:00,680
So I think people need to connect
in a therapeutic way.
476
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:06,040
Kat has an exercise to build that
bond.
477
00:24:07,120 --> 00:24:09,080
She wants them to look into
each other's eyes
478
00:24:09,120 --> 00:24:11,840
and share their honest,
unspoken feelings.
479
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,960
I think I want to move forward.
480
00:24:23,120 --> 00:24:24,120
What does that mean?
481
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,440
I want to touch you, and be touched
by you. Mm-hm.
482
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,200
I think there's something in, like,
483
00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,400
emphasis on wanting to connect
with your touch
484
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:36,520
that makes me feel like an
immediate, like,
485
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:37,600
"Oh, wait - I'm here."
486
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:40,600
Hmm.
487
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:43,160
So what are you noticing? Honestly,
I feel a little...
488
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:47,760
..coldness from you.
489
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:49,240
Yeah, I'm just not feeling...
490
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,080
..that desire from you that I need.
491
00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:55,960
Yeah.
492
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:57,800
I mean, if I'm being totally honest,
493
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:02,040
I feel that, like, emphasis on that
physical part... Yeah.
494
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:04,240
..that's when I get a little
protective.
495
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:13,480
I think I came in here, you know,
confident and...
496
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,720
..Excited. Mm-hm. I don't if...
497
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:23,200
..you're as used to that in this
line of work,
498
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:27,280
and I don't know if you find that
intimidating?
499
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:36,560
And I'm trying to help you learn how
to, like, attune.
500
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:40,480
But I don't know. I'm feeling
blocked,
501
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,080
and I'm trying to understand why.
502
00:25:47,120 --> 00:25:50,480
Maybe it just doesn't work between
you and me.
503
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:51,520
That might be.
504
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:01,200
OK, then I think we'll get dressed
505
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:03,640
and that's enough for today. OK.
506
00:26:16,360 --> 00:26:19,440
Hey. Hi. You all right? No.
507
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:22,160
What's up?
508
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:25,760
We're here to support each other,
yeah?
509
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,040
ZAC SIGHS
510
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,680
Morning, morning. Morning. Morning.
511
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:45,720
Morning Viraj, you all right?
512
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,680
It's morning on day ten of the
retreat...
513
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,920
What do you think was on the cards
today then, eh?
514
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:53,080
Um...
515
00:26:53,120 --> 00:26:56,160
Oh, god, what if today is like,
just whack it off or something?
516
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:57,920
THEY LAUGH
517
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:01,160
..Zac is feeling reflective...
518
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:06,000
My session with Kat yesterday
went terribly.
519
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:09,000
It caused me a lot of distress that
I would rather do without.
520
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,640
I'm feeling a lot more reserved and
cautious.
521
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,600
..and everyone has noticed.
522
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,600
Who do you think is actually going
to sleep with their therapist?
523
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,160
I would've said Zac, but after his
little tumble yesterday,
524
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:28,040
now I'm not so sure he's going to.
He wasn't good this morning.
525
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:29,080
He walked past my cabin,
526
00:27:29,120 --> 00:27:31,080
and I was like, "How are you?" And
he was like, he's shit. Yeah.
527
00:27:31,120 --> 00:27:32,120
Damn.
528
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:38,360
Issues inevitably arise in surrogate
partner therapy
529
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,920
as it's such a unique relationship,
530
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:44,880
which is why a clinical therapist is
on hand to help solve problems.
531
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:46,680
DOOR OPENS
Hello.Hi!
532
00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:59,640
All righty, so I'm going to kind
of open it up.
533
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,800
I want to hear a little bit from
you both of.. Mm-hm.
534
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:03,760
...what's been going on, so if
you...
535
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:05,800
Can you kind of share a little with
me?
536
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:13,560
So, I left our session last night
feeling very confused.
537
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:16,520
It's not that I felt like I did
anything wrong, but...
538
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:21,320
..I felt like maybe I might've made
you uncomfortable?
539
00:28:21,360 --> 00:28:23,400
And, you know, I'm sorry if that's
the case.
540
00:28:25,360 --> 00:28:29,760
Can you, you know, give me a little
bit about your experience Kat?
541
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:32,320
So we undressed, and we were
standing across from each other,
542
00:28:32,360 --> 00:28:34,160
do you remember exactly what you
said?
543
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:35,760
Yeah, I...
HE SIGHS
544
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,600
I said that I thought you might
feel maybe intimidated.
545
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:41,000
That's what it was. Yeah. Saying I
felt intimidated by... Yeah.
546
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,640
It, like... That was definitely the
point at which I was like,
547
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:44,960
"And the door is closed."
SHE CHUCKLES
548
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:48,000
Yeah, I'm sorry that my words
549
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:49,480
sort of, did that.
HE CHUCKLES
550
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:54,200
Yeah. What were you noticing inside
of yourself?
551
00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:00,400
I was trying to figure out what was,
I think, going on inside your head,
552
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:02,320
but I'm not a mind-reader.
HE LAUGHS
553
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,840
I wasn't expecting you to be
a mind-reader,
554
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:08,120
I was telling you what was going on,
and I felt like,
555
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:11,320
instead of meeting that
vulnerability with vulnerability,
556
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:12,560
you met it with blame.
557
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:16,520
Mm.
558
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:19,360
Is it OK if I touch your knee?
HE SNIFFLES
559
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,760
Yeah? Talk to me about what's coming
up?
560
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:33,040
You know, I find it hard to trust
others emotionally.
561
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:36,040
And be vulnerable...
562
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:39,360
..that's something I can't do.
563
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:40,640
Hmm.
564
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,720
Can I challenge your language
there?
565
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:49,840
I think it's something you can do,
and I think it's OK to work with Kat
566
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:51,040
building that muscle.
567
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:52,200
She's willing to meet you
568
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,440
in your humanity, and your
vulnerability, and your fear
569
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,960
because that's what a partnership
is.
570
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:00,240
Thank you.
571
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:01,560
I want be more vulnerable.
572
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,040
I want to share that with you.
573
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:10,440
I want that connection.
574
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:20,240
See you soon.
575
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:26,120
I understand a little bit more how,
perhaps,
576
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:27,320
things could've gone better,
577
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:32,080
and how I should shape my
expectations, as well.
578
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:33,600
Maybe just slow it down,
579
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,800
go at a better pace, and try again
next time.
580
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:40,840
Hello, beautiful people.
581
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,320
Hey, hey! Feeling any better?
582
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:47,120
Yeah. A lot better, actually. Good.
583
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,400
I feel like I have a plan of what I
need to do.
584
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:54,920
While Zac is feeling positive
again...
585
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:56,520
Spray the boobs.
586
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:59,400
..23-year-old Pia hopes to overcome
the one issue
587
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:01,760
standing in the way of losing her
virginity.
588
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:06,520
I struggle a lot with, like,
penetration and that side of things.
589
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:08,880
Yeah. Fair enough, yeah. So, it's
just, like, figuring out
590
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,560
what's going on down there.
HE CHUCKLES
591
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:13,960
I haven't had sex.
592
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:15,240
I'm worried about it hurting.
593
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:18,600
I'm worried about having an
uncomfortable, painful experience.
594
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,840
I've gotten to the point where
I think this might be
595
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:22,520
the person I lose my virginity to,
596
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:25,640
but my chest gets tight, I feel
like I can't breathe,
597
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:27,720
I just get so anxious. I just feel
like I can't do it!
598
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,560
SHE LAUGHS
Um...
599
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:32,040
Cos I really want to get past these
anxieties,
600
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:35,200
but I'm not sure...how?
601
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:36,840
Um...
602
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:37,880
Yeah.
603
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,000
Sorry just it's...
604
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:44,720
SHE LAUGHS
It's really hard.
605
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:47,280
Hello, Pia.
606
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,600
The experts have sent Pia
to meet Thomas,
607
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:52,600
who may be able to help
through sensual massage.
608
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:57,240
So, I would be curious
to know before we start,
609
00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,520
like, what's your intention for
the session, what's your goal.
610
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:04,280
Yeah, so, because of my issues
with, like, penetration and stuff,
611
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,320
I've never really been able
to explore it.
612
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:09,400
Every time I've done it, even with
myself, I've kind of just, like,
613
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,520
panicked and freaked out
and stuff... Yeah.
614
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:13,760
..because it just felt
uncomfortable. Yeah.
615
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,640
So, yeah, if I could just understand
myself a bit better. Yeah.
616
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,640
Learn how to be relaxed while
receiving touch, maybe. Exactly.
617
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:23,400
That's great. So, basically,
this session we'll do, like,
618
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:26,000
step-by-step exploration
of your genitals. OK.
619
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:29,680
What's pleasant, what's pleasurable,
what's not pleasurable.
620
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:33,040
If you wish so,
you can be fully naked.
621
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,200
As you prefer. OK. Cool.
622
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,760
Any more questions before we start?
Erm... I don't think so.
623
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:41,400
OK. We're all good.
Great. Sounds good.
624
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:45,520
Thomas will use a technique
known as "genital mapping" -
625
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:50,880
an erotic exploration of the vagina
through touch that releases tension.
626
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,360
Pia really struggles
with vaginismus.
627
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:58,840
Vaginismus is basically, like,
your vagina really being so clenched
628
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:02,000
that it cannot let anything in.
629
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:05,720
Usually the source is both
physical and mental.
630
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:09,440
I feel she's really anxious,
so it might be really useful
631
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,840
to do some body work
in order to release the tension.
632
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:15,280
So, ready?
633
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:18,080
Yeah, ready.
634
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:22,080
Just going really slow. You can
tell me how much pressure you need.
635
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,160
Ow. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Painful?
636
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,080
A little bit, yeah. Yeah.
637
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,520
I can feel a bit of clenching
in your vagina. Yeah.
638
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:33,000
Just try to breathe into it
and see, like,
639
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,160
if it moves, if it changes
640
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,200
just being really welcoming
with the sensation.
641
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,720
Yeah, that feels less uncomfortable.
642
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,000
Yeah, that feels OK.
643
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:49,520
Perfect.
644
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:53,920
Now I will just apply a bit more
pressure for you to feel it. Yeah.
645
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:55,640
Yeah, that feels OK.
646
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:01,760
And applying some motion to see
if it helps with your tightness.
647
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,240
That's nice. It's nice? Yeah?
648
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:10,840
Mmm.
649
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:13,320
Mmm.
650
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,000
Mmm.
651
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:18,760
PIA GROANS
652
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,040
Ah, that's beautiful.
653
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:25,760
I don't feel scared of it anymore.
I feel, erm...
654
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,160
..more like I have
a better understanding
655
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:31,520
of myself and my vagina,
so I'm very happy.
656
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:35,960
As Pia basks in the glow of her
first successful penetration...
657
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:40,520
Jason, look at my little pet.
Oh, my God! OK.
658
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,240
..there's one thing
on Jason's mind, too.
659
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:48,080
It takes men 30 seconds
to two minutes, I think,
660
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:51,520
for a man to get an erection and
stuff, and basically ready for sex,
661
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,600
but it can take women
30 to 40 minutes.
662
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:56,000
Fuck off!
663
00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:01,000
Jason has dived headfirst
into somatic therapy.
664
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:03,520
In some ways I feel like
he gets the most pleasure
665
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,160
out of touch experiences
of anybody who arrived,
666
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:08,720
and this is somebody
who couldn't even receive a hug.
667
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:13,240
But there's definitely still
things for him to work on.
668
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,960
After his first kiss, the experts
think Jason is ready to experience
669
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:19,760
a whole new level
of intimate touch...
670
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:21,520
Hi. Hello. You all right?
671
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:24,240
..so he's having another session
with Joy.
672
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:30,360
So, do you feel ready to take your
clothes off, into the buff? Yeah.
673
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,520
Yeah? Cool. OK. I'm up for it.
674
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:39,280
THEY GIGGLE
675
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,520
Can we connect? Yes. Just...
676
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:46,840
Is that nice? Yes.
677
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:53,000
You see? Yeah.
We don't even have to try.
678
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:57,760
I'm aroused. Yeah. Yeah.
679
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:01,360
Yeah, I noticed.
Can I give you a kiss?
680
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:02,760
Yeah.
681
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:14,720
JOY LAUGHS
682
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,520
Gorgeous eyes. Thank you.
683
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:23,240
So do you. Thank you.
684
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,240
JASON BREATHES HEAVILY
685
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:47,760
Oh, yeah.
686
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,240
JASON BREATHES HEAVILY
687
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:09,520
Woo.
688
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:14,920
THEY LAUGH
Yeah.
689
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:16,520
Thank you, Joy.
690
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:18,760
I seriously mean it. Thank you.
691
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:21,760
There's Jason. Hello.
692
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,240
Still a virgin. Ah, dammit.
693
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,440
But we went on the bed, rolled
around on there... Fuck off!
694
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,320
..took her bra off...
Was this in the tipi? In the tipi.
695
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,240
Kissing and stuff, and then...
696
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:33,880
And then I climaxed.
697
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:35,440
Wow.
698
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:40,000
It's easier said than done, but just
being in the moment really helps.
699
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,520
I'm ready for the real world now.
700
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:44,360
But I'm really uncomfortable.
701
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:46,840
Can I go to my tent?
I need to change my boxers...
702
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:48,640
HE LAUGHS
..please.
703
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:57,640
It's the afternoon
on Virgin Island.
704
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:02,000
Are you whacking it all off?
All of it? Yep, all of it's going.
705
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:04,920
Who's shaving it? Me.
706
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:08,960
And after his setback with Kat,
Zac's ready for a fresh start.
707
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:13,080
Do you want all these bits
of fuzz to go as well?
708
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:15,840
Yeah, honestly,
I want everything to go.
709
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:17,400
Ready? I'm ready.
710
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:19,680
Do you want to say anything? No.
711
00:38:19,720 --> 00:38:22,160
Do it.
LAUGHTER
712
00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:25,400
Off it goes. Yay!
713
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,680
OK, here you go. Brilliant.
714
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:33,400
What does this symbolise for you?
New beginnings.
715
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:34,920
Yay!
716
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:38,240
HE LAUGHS
It's been a long time coming.
717
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:41,280
Oh, we're going to slap
this head so hard.
718
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:45,160
I can't wait until it's proper
smooth. It looks so good.
719
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:48,160
This is a good head.
I'd like rubbing this head.
720
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,680
Like a genie in a lamp.
Feel the fuzz.
721
00:38:50,720 --> 00:38:52,680
Feel the fuzz.
722
00:38:53,720 --> 00:38:55,680
ZAC LAUGHS
723
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:58,520
Feeling good.
724
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:02,560
It's like a fresh fade. Honestly,
it's well nice. It is, isn't it?
725
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:04,160
It's really good.
726
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:06,520
Whilst the group admires
Zac's new look,
727
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,720
Viraj and Emma are talking orgasms.
728
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:11,320
So you didn't go back to your tent
and have a wank?
729
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,400
No, no.
VIRAJ LAUGHS
730
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:15,240
Have you had one since being here?
731
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:18,400
Do you want to know? Yeah. Yeah,
the fact that you're no answer
732
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:20,040
is definitely an answer.
733
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:21,680
Have you?
734
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:24,400
Really?!
735
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:26,400
No comment. Come on.
736
00:39:27,720 --> 00:39:30,160
Maybe.Maybe.
VIRAJ LAUGHS
737
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:32,840
I have a little bit,
but I haven't orgasmed though.
738
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:38,280
After Emma's unsuccessful
attempt to reach orgasm,
739
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:42,680
Celeste wants to teach her how
to get the most out of her vibrator
740
00:39:42,720 --> 00:39:45,680
so that she can climax
for the first time.
741
00:39:45,720 --> 00:39:48,560
Can you bring out your toy and I can
just show you a little bit...
742
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:51,600
Yes, of course I can. ..because
I think that might help you. Yeah.
743
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:54,800
That's the kind I use, too, so
I'm very familiar. OK, brilliant.
744
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,280
The first time you kind of
have to hold it down. Right.
745
00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:00,680
To me, that feels quite, like,
vicious. OK, so, actually...
746
00:40:00,720 --> 00:40:03,920
..you can just start, like,
with your fingers,
747
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:07,160
and then work your way
up to the vibrator.
748
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:11,640
The hands, I'm just a bit unsure
on how to approach it.
749
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:15,160
So, at first, you can just,
like, do, like, very light...
750
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:18,320
OK. ..and then just explore
751
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:22,040
and see where the place feels
like the most sensation... Right.
752
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,680
..and then you might just
make little circles there.
753
00:40:24,720 --> 00:40:27,400
Sometimes you have to get kind of
fast in order to actually
754
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:30,120
get to orgasm, and, like,
when I masturbate, it's like,
755
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,880
who cares what my body looks like
or what it's doing.
756
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:35,680
I'm just thinking, "How do
I get that sensation more?"
757
00:40:35,720 --> 00:40:38,880
With an orgasm, as such,
is it an instant, like...
758
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:40,680
..climax and then it drops?
759
00:40:40,720 --> 00:40:44,400
Or when you're up there, does it
last? It'll be like a slow build.
760
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,160
Once you're up there,
you'll probably feel a release.
761
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:50,320
Sometimes you feel your muscles
sort of go like...that. Right, OK.
762
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:53,000
Because that's what actually
happens in your body.
763
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,040
Different women are different. Yeah.
764
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:58,880
So I was thinking today, maybe
we could have a rite of passage...
765
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:02,680
Yeah. ..where you become an adult
in the erotic realm. Yes.
766
00:41:02,720 --> 00:41:04,680
Yes? OK, yeah. Is that OK? Yeah.
767
00:41:04,720 --> 00:41:07,680
I want you to think of this
self-pleasuring experience
768
00:41:07,720 --> 00:41:12,360
like this is Emma
becoming a powerful,
769
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:16,080
wise woman in the world. Yeah.
770
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:19,160
We've made a special space... OK.
771
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:22,200
..for you to be able to
have that alone time. OK.
772
00:41:22,240 --> 00:41:24,240
Ready?
773
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,240
Oh, my God,
is it going to happen now?
774
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:29,400
Oh, my God! Yeah, I'm taking you
over to the room.
775
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:31,640
Fuck. OK, OK...
CELESTE LAUGHS
776
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:33,200
Thank you, thank you.
777
00:41:33,240 --> 00:41:35,000
Right, OK.
778
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,400
This is scary.
SHE LAUGHS
779
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,920
After an hour of alone time,
Emma emerges.
780
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:59,880
I think I managed to achieve
my first orgasm ever.
781
00:41:59,920 --> 00:42:04,680
It's such a weird feeling
because it's kind of unpredictable
782
00:42:04,720 --> 00:42:06,480
and it's hard to explain.
783
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,600
It kind of left me speechless
a little bit.
784
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,160
It just... I feel like
everything makes sense.
785
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:15,080
That sounds so weird
but I just feel a lot more at peace.
786
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:18,200
I couldn't even imagine
the feeling of it.
787
00:42:18,240 --> 00:42:20,400
All this build up,
788
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:23,320
and, "How have I only just
done that?", sort of thing.
789
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:25,600
How have I not explored this before?
790
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:28,400
And I think I'm just looking
forward to the next one.
791
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,800
But it's not just Emma
that's learning more
792
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:38,520
about the female anatomy.
793
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:41,920
The first time I touched her vagina,
Kat started laughing at me because
794
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:45,080
I made a really weird face because
I didn't expect it to feel...
795
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:47,720
It's so, like, jelly-like.
I didn't expect that.
796
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:50,160
Hang on. Have you felt it, then?
Yeah.
797
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:52,240
What, Kat? Yeah.
798
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,160
Really? Oh, cool.
799
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,240
After touching a vagina,
Dave's a changed man.
800
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,160
But he still hasn't had any sex
with a partner.
801
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:06,160
I just want to actually get over
these difficulties I have.
802
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:10,520
That could be really,
really life-changing.
803
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:13,680
Hi. Hello. How're you?
804
00:43:13,720 --> 00:43:15,160
Good.
805
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:19,720
I'm really scared that I could just
be too awkward and I could blow it.
806
00:43:23,720 --> 00:43:28,440
So, on the orgasm phase
of the course, Kat escalates.
807
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:33,120
My suggestion for today
would be to do turn taking
808
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:37,720
more erotic genital touch
with, like, a soft goal of orgasm.
809
00:43:41,720 --> 00:43:44,720
I feel, obviously,
slightly nervous.
810
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:46,400
About escalation?
811
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,160
Yeah... Yeah.
812
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:51,680
Like...
813
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:55,680
Do you know what I mean?
814
00:43:55,720 --> 00:43:58,160
I wouldn't be hard on yourself
about it.
815
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:01,040
Try just relaxing. Yeah. Yeah.
816
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:04,360
OK, are you ready to get going?
Yeah, sure.
817
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:07,600
So we're going to undress.
818
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:14,960
So you can go ahead and lie down.
819
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:18,680
And I want you to just
direct my touch.
820
00:44:18,720 --> 00:44:20,360
OK. Yeah?
821
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:25,680
Would you be able to just start
on my balls?
822
00:44:26,720 --> 00:44:28,600
Like that? Yeah.
823
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:31,560
And maybe move up to...
824
00:44:32,720 --> 00:44:35,680
..the bottom of, erm...
825
00:44:35,720 --> 00:44:37,640
..my dick.
826
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:44,160
Yeah, that's nice.
827
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:46,760
That feels good?
Yeah, that feels good.
828
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,520
All of it feels good.
829
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:53,680
Just close your eyes.
830
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:11,680
Yes? Yeah.
831
00:45:12,720 --> 00:45:14,480
THEY GIGGLE
832
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:17,680
But this session is all about
taking turns.
833
00:45:17,720 --> 00:45:20,160
The oil is there. Yeah.
834
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,160
And go for it.
835
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:23,680
OK.
836
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:28,360
Mm, a little slower.
837
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:33,600
And then just do
a little more pressure.
838
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,080
KAT GROANS
839
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:45,400
I had a little orgasm.
840
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,680
Is it OK to go into, like, cuddling?
841
00:45:50,720 --> 00:45:52,320
Cuddling? Yeah.
842
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,280
THEY LAUGH
Yeah.
843
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:02,080
What would you like to do
with the next session?
844
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:06,320
I would like to lose my virginity.
You would? Yeah. Yay.
845
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:08,160
THEY LAUGH
846
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:13,600
Next time... Would you like to move
to the bed? Yeah, let's do it.
847
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:15,640
..who out of the group...
848
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:19,120
You are a fuckin' goddess.
849
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,120
..will make the most of...
850
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:27,200
..their last days on Virgin Island?
851
00:46:27,240 --> 00:46:29,600
HE BREATHES HEAVILY
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