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We spend a lot of time worrying about career, money, what
people will think of us, and if we'll ever find love.
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After all, isn't that
what life is all about?
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Being in love?
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If it's meant to be, two
people will find each other.
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Turning 50 makes a guy think...
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Did I pick the right career?
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Did I pick the right person?
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Did I settle?
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Did I force my life to go the way
I think it should have gone?
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What will I do with the rest of my life?
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I only have about 35 years left.
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"I won't be a minute."
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"I went to get the paper.
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I turned the latch off!"
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"I forgot to turn it on again..."
"He's out there... he was coming in!"
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You look like you've had better days.
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Is it because you're turning 50?
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I don't know.
I don't know what's wrong with me.
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I feel disconnected.
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Oh my god, dude, what happened to my life?
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How did I get to be 50?
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There's something about those two numbers.
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I was OK at 49. I didn't feel anything, but just by those
two numbers changing to 50... It's freaking me out.
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It's just a number.
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That's what you say... until it hits you.
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"He's going through that mid-life crisis"
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I never knew what it meant. I never thought it
would be something I would have to deal with.
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I didn't think I'd live this long.
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What exactly is a mid-life crisis, anyway?
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From what I can tell, It's when you hit
that state of life where you question...
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if you've achieved your goals, rate your life on how happy you
are, if you did what you set out to do by a certain age...
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I think I'm going to throw up.
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I don't guess you can understand,
you're not there yet.
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Look, man. You take life way too seriously.
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You just got to go along for the ride.
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I wish I could be like that.
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I came from a poor family.
I always wanted to have more...
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for my life.
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But you seem like you have
everything you could need.
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You have a career... and Greg.
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There's a lot you don't
know about me and Greg.
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Yeah, I know Greg is a complete dickhead.
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I just think you can do better.
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Are we still having your birthday party?
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I guess. I don't care.
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Can I bring my cousin, from Indiana?
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Indiana? Yeah, I really think
you guys will hit it off.
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Indiana, huh? Farm boy, no doubt.
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Yeah. He's a super cool guy, he's in between jobs
right now and he wanted to come to town for a visit.
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Sure, bring him along.
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What's this?
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The small town where I grew up.
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My Great Grandma would take me and my brother every day in the
summer to Foster's Freeze. She'd call it 'Foyster's Freeze'.
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Between my Mom and my Grandparents,
we had a whole lot of love.
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My Dad didn't seem too
interested in me and my brother.
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From what Mom says, he never wanted kids.
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I just don't understand what happened.
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I was just 23! Look!
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So, are we going to see
your parents this summer?
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You keep talking about it,
but it never happens.
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"Never Happens"? What
do you mean it never happens?
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Forget it.
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I know your parents would like me.
I'm sure they would, babe.
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It's just...
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It's complicated.
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Sure it is, Greg.
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Everything is complicated, isn't it?
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That's what people say
when, they need an excuse.
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When they can't find one.
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C'mon, Babe. They're going to meet you.
I want them to meet you.
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Sometime... when it's right.
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It'll never be right.
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Who's this?
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Me.
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That one's from my eighth birthday party.
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My Dad thought it would be a great idea
to have a pinata. I was blindfolded.
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I finally broke the pinata, a kid shoved
me out of the way to get the candy.
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I cried, and my Dad scolded me.
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To this day, I still do not
understand the rules to pinata.
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Why the birthday kid is
blind when the candy falls.
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Yeah, life's real tough
when you're 8 years old.
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Who's this little Chubbie-Wubbie?
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This poor kid looks like
he had too many tacos.
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That's me, Greg.
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I was overweight until I was 16.
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Yep, it's an uphill
battle, the older we get.
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Weight. Wrinkles.
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It's only going to get harder
now that you're turning 50.
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Hey, we're doing Saturday alone
tomorrow, right? No business.
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Yeah yeah yeah babe, just pick
out some romantic movies.
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I'll make breakfast for us when I get back from
the gym and we'll have our alone day together.
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Gym?
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On your day off?
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Well, yeah, I mean I'll get back early.
Go early.
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You won't even be hereto
sleep in with me. Great.
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Hey, I'll be back in time for breakfast.
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No, it won't be early Greg.
It'll be 12 or 1.
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You know, it's always the same.
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Go to the gym, talk to your friends, work out, take some business
calls, stop by the office and then you'll finally make it back here.
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Look at me. I'm going to be a fatty if I keep eating
the food and meals that you keep making for me.
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Alright, maybe this is OK for
you, but it's not OK for me.
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That's what the gym is for Greg,
to burn off the calories.
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You know, I do 2 days at the gym, and 2 days walking. I'm
not going to make myself a complete lunatic like you.
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Look, babe. You don't have to get upset
over this, I was just stating a fact.
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Then you won't be needing
this cake I made for you.
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Hey listen. Come on, I didn't
mean to make you feel bad. OK?
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It's beautiful, alright?
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That's exactly what I'm talking about.
It's...
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We have cake or pie once a week, Greg.
Once a week.
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Don't you think that...
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Things are starting to come
together on this deal.
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That's good, Greg. Really great.
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How are things in the, uh...
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Indie movie business.
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Kinda slow. The economy.
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I had an hour long call
with my distributor today.
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Oh yeah? How did that go?
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It didn't go like I hoped it would.
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Hows that?
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DVD is dying. Everything is going
streaming, and people aren't buying.
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They said they aren't sure
they can take my next film.
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They told me, in so many words,
that they aren't interested.
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They suggested that I go
with another distributor.
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That could be good?
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There are just some business things to work
through if I'm going to get this next movie made.
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Maybe it's time for you to start doing something
that could bring you some real money.
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I... don't understand.
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I've been doing this for 12 years,
I bring in some real money.
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I think it's time to stop playing Movie
Guy, and maybe get serious about your life.
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Before you get too old.
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Greg, I love movies. I got into this
business because I want to entertain people.
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There are just some business
things I have to work through.
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Did I ever tell you how I
got into this business?
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I was 15 and some friends of mine...
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You guys went and saw Jaws, I know.
You've told me.
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Do you love me?
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Do I love you?
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What kind of question is that?
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Babe, I just think it's
time that you do something.
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Something you can enjoy
the rest of your life.
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You mean something you approve of?
I don't have to approve of anything.
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You've had your fun, you've
made your little film projects.
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Where did it get you? Look at you. 12 years older and
you're still wishing you can be the next Spielberg.
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Babe. There's only one Spielberg.
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For your information, Greg, I'm completely
aware that there is only 1 Spielberg.
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You know, people aspire to be
great film makers with big ideas.
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But I've always been
realistic about my career.
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All I ever wanted was
to make decent films.
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I don't have to be Spielberg,
I don't want to be Spielberg.
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But we see a movie like
Jaws and we say "Hey",
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that's what I want to do.
Make movies!".
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But it's a different world, Greg, things have changed. It's a
different business... you have no idea how this business operates.
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Now I'm fairly sure you
have no idea who I am.
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Look at me.
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I went to college for 4 years.
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I have a degree. Because my parents kept pushing
me, to do something... to want something better.
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So I finally got through it. I did it.
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I made something of myself.
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I just wish...
You wish I had done something with my life.
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That I had taken a different road?
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That I'd finally see the light?
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So you could be proud of me, show
me off to your parents. Right?
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You're not proud of me.
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I know you wish you didn't have to be embarrassed
of me around your stuck up Ivy League friends.
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So I'll ask you again.
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Greg, do you love me?
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I'm sorry I hurt your feelings.
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It wasn't my intentions.
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What were your intentions?
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I guess I have my answer.
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Your answer. What does that
mean you have your answer?
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If you love me.
Babe, you know I love you.
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Look, I have this business trip coming up. Can
we just talk about this when I get back, please?
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Yeah.
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Maybe we should break up
for awhile, you know?
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Just until you figure out
whatever it is that you want.
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I'm here for you, if you want to
talk, but you need a break from me.
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Ya know? We have so many differences.
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You could use some time to do some soul
searching.
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We could talk about it
more when I get back.
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Later.
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I'm going to hit the sheets.
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I mean, I can stay with Jack and Hannah for
a few weeks until we get us worked out.
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They have an extra bedroom.
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OK, you look like a sad puppy today. Are
you going to tell me what's going on?
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Did something happen between you and Greg?
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We broke up. I guess.
I don't know.
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What?
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He left on a business trip. He wants me to
work on my life's plan while he is away.
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Go ahead. Say it. What?
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Finally! I mean... Oh...
God... what happened?
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Didn't he like his dinner.
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I don't know. I'll figure this
all out and let you know.
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I'm sorry. I know this must be hard for you. I'm your best friend and
I should be supportive, but it's no secret that I did not like Greg.
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I don't know what you saw in him.
He is a cold bastard.
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I'm sorry if that doesn't make you feel
better, but it makes me feel better.
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Come on, you're such a genuinely nice guy and
I hate seeing you so upset all the time.
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This is a good thing! You'll see! And my cousin is still
coming to visit and will be staying with me for a while.
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I want you to meet him.
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What? Come on, he's
a loner, you're a loner.
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You guys would be great friends.
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I just broke up and you've
already got me dating?
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No, no not dating. He's just
a coold guy, and frankly...
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I .. don't even... know
if he's into guys.
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Uh, maybe.
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He's shy, and I think people
take advantage of him.
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I want to see him with someone great.
He means a lotto me. OK?
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Listen, I'll have him message you.
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You know, I think you settled
when it came to Greg.
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I didn't settle.
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I don't think I did.
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I thought I was in love with him.
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James, I'm almost 50. I'm supposed
to be happy and in love. You know?
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I see this in a lot of people, you know? People would rather be
sort of OK and they'll do whatever it takes just to not be alone.
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Do you really want that?
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Do you want to sort of be in love and sort
of not in love and completely unfulfilled?
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You know, he always just wanted to be
romantic when it was on his terms.
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I, frankly would rather be single and liberated than
unhappy and disconnected for the rest of my life.
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There. I said it, mister.
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I guess I never expected much because
I didn't want to let myself down.
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I don't know what to do.
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Things are just getting to me.
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You know what?
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See this, James?
Do you know what this is?
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It's a state-issued food stamp.
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My mom used to have to use these to feed
me and my brother when we were kids.
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That's nothing to be embarrassed about.
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That's great James. The point is, I carry this with me to remind
me to work hard in my life and never let this happen to me.
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It mocks me and reminds me that if
I use this I have failed as a man.
230
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I don't know what the answers
are, can you tell me?
231
00:21:51,393 --> 00:21:56,149
I'm going to make damn sure I
don't end up on food stamps.
232
00:21:58,150 --> 00:22:00,073
I'm almost 50 years old.
233
00:22:00,402 --> 00:22:02,279
I'm supposed to be financially secure.
234
00:22:02,571 --> 00:22:07,919
I'm supposed to have a husband, and a
dog and be enjoying a Doris Day Life!
235
00:22:12,832 --> 00:22:14,755
I don't know.
236
00:22:19,839 --> 00:22:23,059
I guess I'll get another job to
help out until things get better.
237
00:22:24,051 --> 00:22:27,430
Oh, and I got another call back
from another distributor today.
238
00:22:27,721 --> 00:22:34,479
They said they will take my next movie if I'll do a 50/50 deal
plus pay all of the marketing costs. This business is a trap!
239
00:22:34,770 --> 00:22:40,527
Well did you tell them no? Of Course! It won't
even cover the movie's costs... it's ridiculous!
240
00:22:41,235 --> 00:22:45,832
I just want my camera crane shot
over the Kansas wheat fields.
241
00:22:46,407 --> 00:22:49,001
Okay, come on.
You need a drink.
242
00:22:49,618 --> 00:22:55,546
I need a drink. Great. I'm going to be a drunk
just like all the other writers and directors.
243
00:22:55,916 --> 00:23:00,217
Well, at least you will be part of
a crowd that's lonely at the top.
244
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,303
Come one, things'll be OK David.
245
00:23:03,591 --> 00:23:11,442
You know, life has it's own plan, I guess.
And Greg isn't worth giving up hope for.
246
00:23:11,724 --> 00:23:16,150
Maybe life has a new future mapped out
for you, something completely different.
247
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,273
A new husband, maybe?
248
00:23:19,690 --> 00:23:23,820
All my friends used to try to get
me to go out to bars and clubs.
249
00:23:24,194 --> 00:23:26,617
"You'll never find anyone
if you stay at home."
250
00:23:26,947 --> 00:23:32,044
I used to think I would be single all
my life, and I was OK with that.
251
00:23:36,332 --> 00:23:38,255
Then I met Greg.
252
00:23:39,877 --> 00:23:41,800
I thought he was the one.
253
00:23:46,926 --> 00:23:53,684
You know, I jused to joke that I was
holding out for my Indiana farmboy?
254
00:23:53,974 --> 00:23:58,730
Hey, you know, I'm from Indiana.
There are some really good people there.
255
00:24:02,483 --> 00:24:06,488
Oh, GOD no way. No way! Haha
256
00:24:07,488 --> 00:24:10,992
I reckon the Gods have
something else in mind for us.
257
00:24:11,283 --> 00:24:14,753
Come on. Let's go make some
margaritas and get smashed!
258
00:24:15,037 --> 00:24:18,587
Things'll be OK David.
I promise.
259
00:26:48,649 --> 00:26:50,572
Hi, uh... Shane!
260
00:26:50,859 --> 00:26:52,736
Hi, David, yes hi. Hello.
261
00:26:55,906 --> 00:26:58,592
It's nice to meet you, in person.
Yeah, you too.
262
00:26:58,618 --> 00:27:00,152
Welcome. Sorry, come on In.
263
00:27:03,789 --> 00:27:06,542
Can I get you a drink or something?
I've got water/coke/beer...
264
00:27:08,293 --> 00:27:10,216
I'll have a beer. Thanks.
Have a seat.
265
00:27:17,761 --> 00:27:22,892
So, you said on Facebook that you
were really into video games?
266
00:27:24,726 --> 00:27:26,649
Yeah. Yeah, I play them all the time.
267
00:27:32,943 --> 00:27:34,035
Sorry.
268
00:27:35,529 --> 00:27:37,452
So, you like horror movies.
269
00:27:38,115 --> 00:27:41,540
Yeah, mostly 40's and 50's sci-fi horror.
270
00:27:42,202 --> 00:27:44,363
Oh, I love those. I'm a big
fan of 70's horror movies.
271
00:27:44,913 --> 00:27:46,836
Race with the Devil, Piranha...
272
00:27:47,332 --> 00:27:50,051
Oh my god, you are an awesome person, Hove
those memes.
273
00:27:51,753 --> 00:27:58,056
You know, talking to you on facebook, I couldn't believe
the number of interests that you and I had in common.
274
00:27:59,052 --> 00:28:00,975
That's pretty cool.
275
00:28:01,263 --> 00:28:03,186
I'm a huge Peter Cushing fan.
276
00:28:03,515 --> 00:28:04,141
Mm.
277
00:28:04,474 --> 00:28:07,102
Oh, I see. You don't know who he is.
278
00:28:07,603 --> 00:28:09,526
I'm embarrassed.
I should know who he is.
279
00:28:09,813 --> 00:28:11,333
It's Ok, you are younger than me by...
280
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:13,363
I guess I'm more familiar with 80's movies.
281
00:28:13,984 --> 00:28:18,581
I used to sleep in the living
room, so I'd watch a lot of TV.
282
00:28:19,031 --> 00:28:20,954
Oh yeah?
283
00:28:22,242 --> 00:28:27,214
Yeah, my family was pretty poor, so
we always lived in small places.
284
00:28:28,415 --> 00:28:30,338
My parents and sisters
would get the bedrooms.
285
00:28:31,084 --> 00:28:34,044
I never thought much about it. I guess
I always thought it was pretty cool.
286
00:28:34,338 --> 00:28:36,807
I guess I could watch movies anytime.
287
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,723
I read a lot too. I read a lot.
288
00:28:43,555 --> 00:28:45,478
Are you close with your family now?
289
00:28:46,016 --> 00:28:51,398
Yeah, yeah I am. My parents gave me and my sisters
a lot of love. We had a pretty good upbringing.
290
00:28:53,982 --> 00:28:55,905
I had a... similar youth.
291
00:28:56,193 --> 00:28:57,820
We moved a lot as kids.
292
00:28:58,153 --> 00:29:02,496
My dad decided he wanted to
be a pentecostal preacher.
293
00:29:02,522 --> 00:29:06,154
We lived in a lot of
towns, and a few states.
294
00:29:06,578 --> 00:29:12,506
So I'd stay up late at night
and watch Creature Feature.
295
00:29:12,793 --> 00:29:14,716
They showed a lot of horror movies.
I was hooked.
296
00:29:15,796 --> 00:29:17,719
Eh, I'm rambling.
297
00:29:18,173 --> 00:29:22,519
No no no, I like hearing you talk. I just don't
know all there is to know about horror movies.
298
00:29:23,011 --> 00:29:25,810
The rest of my time is spent playing retro
videogames.
299
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:28,563
Oh, retro games.
300
00:29:30,060 --> 00:29:32,609
Yeah, I'm a big fan of 70's and 80's games.
301
00:29:33,063 --> 00:29:34,986
I have, hundreds of them.
302
00:29:36,733 --> 00:29:41,785
My folks couldn't afford the cartridges.
I'd get them one or two a year.
303
00:29:42,281 --> 00:29:44,204
Birthday, Christmas...
304
00:29:45,784 --> 00:29:53,009
I'm sorry, I don't know what to say. I don't do well
with a lot of people. I'm very shy, I get nervous...
305
00:29:53,542 --> 00:29:55,465
Oh no, you're doing fine.
You're doing fine.
306
00:29:56,878 --> 00:30:03,011
Yeah, I'm not the most social guy myself.
I've had to be, but I don't like it much.
307
00:30:03,885 --> 00:30:06,258
Domestic type. Be in your
own safe environment,
308
00:30:06,284 --> 00:30:08,211
then you don't have
to talk to people.
309
00:30:08,557 --> 00:30:10,480
Exactly. You get it.
310
00:30:13,979 --> 00:30:15,902
I feel bad I've never heard of you.
311
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:17,908
You mean my movies?
312
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:20,323
Yeah.
I looked you up, and then I knew.
313
00:30:20,944 --> 00:30:23,293
Don't feel bad. How would
you know about me?
314
00:30:23,319 --> 00:30:25,145
I'm just a small
indie film maker.
315
00:30:25,574 --> 00:30:30,671
I did make one thriller. It did
well at first. Then tanked.
316
00:30:31,830 --> 00:30:37,587
It was supposed to be a silly,
tounge-in-cheek ghost story.
317
00:30:38,170 --> 00:30:41,250
I guess everyone wants everything perfect.
Sex, Gore... "More sex! More Gore!"
318
00:30:41,631 --> 00:30:43,133
It's hard to figure out.
319
00:30:45,218 --> 00:30:47,298
A lot of my fans want me to make more
romance/dramas.
320
00:30:49,848 --> 00:30:51,834
Since most of them are
about small-town life,
321
00:30:51,860 --> 00:30:53,844
I guess I'd like to live
most of them myself.
322
00:30:54,269 --> 00:30:56,192
You should try the midwest!
Indiana? Eh?
323
00:30:58,732 --> 00:31:00,655
Heh, sorry, that was stupid.
324
00:31:04,613 --> 00:31:06,933
I'd like to see your movies.
Maybe on our next movie night?
325
00:31:08,784 --> 00:31:11,545
How about you watch them alone and
then you can judge them in privacy.
326
00:31:11,703 --> 00:31:12,204
Ha Ha.
327
00:31:12,496 --> 00:31:17,336
Hey, do you got some time to stay?
For awhile?
328
00:31:17,362 --> 00:31:20,451
I've got some frozen pizza...
329
00:31:20,712 --> 00:31:21,793
Could put on some movies...
330
00:31:22,172 --> 00:31:25,691
Uh, yeah. I don't have
anything else to do today.
331
00:31:25,717 --> 00:31:27,124
Pizza sounds great.
332
00:31:27,427 --> 00:31:32,228
Yeah? You pick out the movies and
I'll get the pizza in the oven.
333
00:31:36,812 --> 00:31:40,282
So you say you like older videogames.
334
00:31:41,775 --> 00:31:43,698
Yeah, I have been doing
so since I was little.
335
00:31:46,321 --> 00:31:50,371
I'm not very coordinated.
I get... stressed with videogames.
336
00:31:50,742 --> 00:31:51,868
Wanna play one?
337
00:31:52,661 --> 00:31:54,584
You mean a videogame?
Right now?
338
00:31:54,955 --> 00:31:56,878
Yeah, right now, don't look so terrified.
339
00:31:57,958 --> 00:31:59,881
Yeah. Here.
340
00:32:00,252 --> 00:32:04,928
I don't know about this. It's all right. No
one is watching and I won't make fun of you.
341
00:32:06,216 --> 00:32:08,264
We'll start with something easy.
Ok, what do I do?
342
00:32:09,261 --> 00:32:11,184
So... left.
343
00:32:11,763 --> 00:32:13,231
Just start going forward.
344
00:32:13,557 --> 00:32:15,480
Go forward. It's this one. Oh.
345
00:32:16,017 --> 00:32:17,940
Back... wait, no wait..
Ohhhh...
346
00:32:18,854 --> 00:32:20,777
Up?
No, gotta start over. That's alright.
347
00:32:21,565 --> 00:32:22,532
Ok. Take it.
348
00:32:23,358 --> 00:32:26,862
And this pushes the.. No no, go
forward with that, and this steers.
349
00:32:27,654 --> 00:32:28,371
Ok.
350
00:32:31,074 --> 00:32:32,997
Good, Good. You have 2 lives.
351
00:32:33,743 --> 00:32:35,666
No no, come back...
No... you do it.
352
00:32:36,163 --> 00:32:38,086
All right, watch. You
push forward, I'll steer.
353
00:32:39,499 --> 00:32:41,422
Ok, push... Ok.. that's not going to work.
354
00:32:41,918 --> 00:32:43,841
Oh, no, you fire! Please. Ok.
355
00:32:44,337 --> 00:32:46,260
Push. Ready? Go right.
356
00:32:46,548 --> 00:32:47,674
Ok, now stop.
357
00:32:48,175 --> 00:32:50,098
Jump up. See? Yeah.
358
00:32:50,635 --> 00:32:51,636
Wait. No. Wait...
359
00:33:08,153 --> 00:33:10,076
Great cake, David!
Happy birthday!
360
00:33:10,405 --> 00:33:12,328
Where's the mister today?
361
00:33:13,116 --> 00:33:17,041
Mmm. He's gone. On a business trip. And
from David's life. Isn't that right, David?
362
00:33:17,954 --> 00:33:19,877
What? Thanks, James.
363
00:33:20,457 --> 00:33:27,841
We're just celebrating the old days gone of David being jerked
around by Greg, and celebrating his new life full of happiness.
364
00:33:29,299 --> 00:33:31,222
How come I didn't hear about it before now?
365
00:33:32,427 --> 00:33:35,306
Sorry Ace, I'm not sure if it's final.
366
00:33:36,848 --> 00:33:38,771
Oh, but it is final, isn't it David?
367
00:33:39,518 --> 00:33:41,862
So, what happened?
How did this come to be?
368
00:33:43,772 --> 00:33:46,025
Oh, yes David.
Please tell us how this all came to be.
369
00:33:47,359 --> 00:33:49,282
So, how's the cake?
370
00:33:52,781 --> 00:33:57,912
So, how are you doing with it, David?
Turning the big 50?
371
00:33:58,995 --> 00:34:04,001
Scared? Frantic? Having panic
attacks every 8 hours?
372
00:34:04,876 --> 00:34:08,631
Yes, it's true. I'm now 50.
373
00:34:10,382 --> 00:34:12,305
How's that working out for you?
374
00:34:16,429 --> 00:34:18,352
Ok, you want to know how I'm handling it?
375
00:34:18,807 --> 00:34:19,979
Well...
376
00:34:21,518 --> 00:34:24,442
It seems life doesn't go according to plan.
Does it Ace?
377
00:34:25,272 --> 00:34:26,273
No.
378
00:34:26,898 --> 00:34:30,823
By the time I was 14, I knew
I wanted to make movies.
379
00:34:31,403 --> 00:34:37,160
By the time I was 16, my parents were
divorced, and I had to put my dreams aside.
380
00:34:39,327 --> 00:34:42,126
I went to work at other jobs,
to help my mom and brother.
381
00:34:42,414 --> 00:34:48,467
My dad had left us in his mid-life crisis, and
he didn't give my mom one penny to support us.
382
00:34:49,379 --> 00:34:53,680
So, she had to work 3 jobs
to raise 2 teenage boys.
383
00:34:54,801 --> 00:34:57,304
If not for my grandparents
helping us, well...
384
00:34:58,013 --> 00:35:03,013
So, by 18 I had no money for film school. I wasn't
even sure, then, if that's what I even wanted to do.
385
00:35:10,609 --> 00:35:12,532
But, I knew one thing.
386
00:35:14,279 --> 00:35:21,788
By age 20, I would someday
meet a great guy.
387
00:35:23,830 --> 00:35:25,753
Have a wonderful husband.
388
00:35:26,249 --> 00:35:28,172
Three dogs.
389
00:35:29,669 --> 00:35:33,719
A country house, complete with a
Doris Day pool and garden.
390
00:35:35,008 --> 00:35:38,729
That's what I was sure would happen.
At least, I hoped it would, anyway.
391
00:35:42,432 --> 00:35:50,432
So I've lived in four different states. Eighteen
different houses in twelve different towns.
392
00:35:52,359 --> 00:35:54,236
Still, I've managed to keep my
vision clear this whole time.
393
00:35:54,653 --> 00:36:00,376
Doing films, striving for that big break.
Having that house in the country and...
394
00:36:01,534 --> 00:36:03,457
now I'm 50.
395
00:36:07,999 --> 00:36:09,922
I live in a condo.
396
00:36:10,210 --> 00:36:12,087
That Greg owns.
397
00:36:16,049 --> 00:36:17,972
And he doesn't seem to love me.
398
00:36:22,681 --> 00:36:24,842
Somehow, I don't think my
life plan is going to happen.
399
00:36:30,689 --> 00:36:36,321
Is that about right?
Did I cover everything? James?
400
00:36:38,446 --> 00:36:39,993
Um...
401
00:36:42,575 --> 00:36:44,498
Anyone want more cake?
402
00:36:47,205 --> 00:36:51,051
I guess that's what you
call a mid-life crisis.
403
00:36:53,461 --> 00:36:58,558
You know, I always wondered
what I had to look forward to.
404
00:36:58,842 --> 00:37:00,892
I never thought I'd
get older, you know?
405
00:37:00,918 --> 00:37:03,418
Especially in my early
twenties, I mean, who did?
406
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:10,313
I remember people telling me that when I
turned 25, the years would go by so... fast.
407
00:37:12,105 --> 00:37:14,028
That was 14 years ago.
408
00:37:17,527 --> 00:37:19,450
God. I'm going to get older.
409
00:37:19,904 --> 00:37:21,827
There's no way out of it.
410
00:37:22,323 --> 00:37:30,323
I just... In 5 years from now I'm
going to be in the middle of my life.
411
00:37:32,459 --> 00:37:34,962
I don't know how I'm going to handle that.
412
00:37:36,713 --> 00:37:38,636
Oh god, now I'm depressed.
413
00:37:40,550 --> 00:37:45,351
You need some more frosting. Here,
have some more cake.
414
00:37:45,889 --> 00:37:51,771
You know what? If I'm going to get old and die, why does it
matter how much money I make or how many calories I eat?
415
00:37:52,270 --> 00:37:54,193
Seconds.
416
00:37:56,691 --> 00:37:58,614
Well, I keep going.
I keep trying.
417
00:37:59,694 --> 00:38:01,617
I keep thinking.
418
00:38:02,822 --> 00:38:05,182
You know? Maybe it is time I do
something else with my life.
419
00:38:06,242 --> 00:38:09,837
I've got about 35 years left.
If my health holds out.
420
00:38:10,330 --> 00:38:14,176
You know, I never thought
I'd live to hear the words:
421
00:38:14,459 --> 00:38:17,508
"You really should get a colon
exam at your age." Hahahahahaha
422
00:38:21,508 --> 00:38:25,979
I never thought I'd that I'd hear you
saying that you were worrying about 50.
423
00:38:27,388 --> 00:38:29,311
That has kind of taken me aback.
424
00:38:30,099 --> 00:38:32,022
I don't understand.
425
00:38:34,062 --> 00:38:35,985
Life is phases we go through.
426
00:38:37,232 --> 00:38:39,155
50 is a phase.
427
00:38:40,902 --> 00:38:44,202
This is the great time
of life, in your 50's.
428
00:38:44,489 --> 00:38:46,958
Because you have this background.
429
00:38:47,367 --> 00:38:49,290
Half a century of background.
430
00:38:49,744 --> 00:38:54,215
Now you can take what you learned
and put it into real use.
431
00:38:54,582 --> 00:38:56,505
We're talking about your career.
432
00:38:56,793 --> 00:38:58,753
This should be the highlight
of your career time.
433
00:38:59,045 --> 00:39:00,012
It should be.
434
00:39:00,421 --> 00:39:04,767
And I know it probably will be
if you got your act together.
435
00:39:06,386 --> 00:39:07,638
50 is irrelevant.
436
00:39:08,221 --> 00:39:10,144
78 is irrelevant.
437
00:39:11,266 --> 00:39:12,643
30 is irrelevant.
438
00:39:12,976 --> 00:39:14,228
And 40 is irrelevant.
439
00:39:14,519 --> 00:39:15,566
That's all.
440
00:39:16,229 --> 00:39:18,857
Just stages.
In our life, that's all.
441
00:39:19,315 --> 00:39:23,946
Oh god, you guys get me going
on stuff like this. Cramp.
442
00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:28,480
What am I going to do with you? I'm going to hit you
with my purse, that's what I'm going to do with you.
443
00:39:31,786 --> 00:39:33,709
But I love you, you know that.
444
00:39:34,038 --> 00:39:38,168
And I'm so glad you chose
me to be your friend.
445
00:39:38,626 --> 00:39:40,754
It's the best thing in the world.
446
00:39:42,005 --> 00:39:45,054
Well, I'm never getting old.
447
00:39:47,135 --> 00:39:49,058
Sorry, I don't really do jokes.
448
00:39:52,348 --> 00:39:53,941
I don't know.
449
00:39:56,769 --> 00:40:00,114
To be honest, I never really
minded getting older.
450
00:40:00,857 --> 00:40:04,828
I made peace with the very simple
truth that one day I'll die.
451
00:40:05,361 --> 00:40:07,284
No real way of changing that.
452
00:40:07,697 --> 00:40:10,701
You know, Ace, like you said.
I'm in my... uh...
453
00:40:11,326 --> 00:40:13,249
I'm in my 30's.
454
00:40:13,661 --> 00:40:15,781
I'm in my 30's phase.
I'm right in the middle of that.
455
00:40:16,539 --> 00:40:18,462
It's been good so far.
456
00:40:21,628 --> 00:40:23,909
I'm pretty lucky in that I
have a pretty teriffic family.
457
00:40:24,380 --> 00:40:26,621
I know that no matter what,
I'm going to always be happy-
458
00:40:26,841 --> 00:40:29,310
Of which one member is sitting
right in front of me.
459
00:40:29,677 --> 00:40:32,476
I have as good as a cousin
as I could ever hope for.
460
00:40:32,972 --> 00:40:34,770
Yeah.
But... I don't know... I mean...
461
00:40:35,099 --> 00:40:39,195
I guess if worse comes to worse, I
could just marry a videogame.
462
00:40:39,604 --> 00:40:43,484
That's pretty much the
definition of my happiness.
463
00:40:49,948 --> 00:40:51,871
Who knows, David.
464
00:40:52,158 --> 00:40:54,877
Maybe there's a greater
purpose in your life.
465
00:40:55,161 --> 00:40:57,789
Maybe you just don't know it yet.
466
00:40:58,122 --> 00:41:00,250
And it's right in front of you.
467
00:41:11,260 --> 00:41:13,183
David!
468
00:41:16,349 --> 00:41:17,601
David?
469
00:41:22,063 --> 00:41:23,986
Happy Birthday!
470
00:41:29,278 --> 00:41:30,621
Hey... uh...
471
00:41:37,036 --> 00:41:38,959
I...
I didn't know if I should come by.
472
00:41:45,545 --> 00:41:47,468
It's your house.
473
00:41:48,339 --> 00:41:49,431
Yeah.
474
00:41:51,718 --> 00:41:55,439
Yeah, it's just... I want you to stay here.
475
00:41:58,099 --> 00:42:00,022
Until... uh...
476
00:42:00,893 --> 00:42:02,816
Us.
477
00:42:06,190 --> 00:42:08,113
If there's a future.
478
00:42:10,361 --> 00:42:12,284
Yeah.
479
00:42:17,994 --> 00:42:19,917
So, uh...
480
00:42:22,540 --> 00:42:24,463
How are things?
481
00:42:26,294 --> 00:42:28,217
Alright. Yeah?
482
00:42:29,005 --> 00:42:30,507
I guess.
483
00:42:34,594 --> 00:42:36,517
I've been doing a lot of thinking.
Oh yeah? You know what? Me too!
484
00:42:36,971 --> 00:42:38,894
Yeah, I've been doing a lot of thinking.
485
00:42:41,642 --> 00:42:43,565
Yeah, umm.. I mean.. Look...
486
00:42:44,145 --> 00:42:48,116
It was wrong of me to say some of those
things to you. I get that. I know.
487
00:42:52,987 --> 00:42:57,743
If you want to eat junk food...
I shouldn't pick on you.
488
00:43:00,995 --> 00:43:02,918
And I should support you.
489
00:43:03,498 --> 00:43:05,421
Your career choices.
490
00:43:06,834 --> 00:43:14,834
I know.. maybe... sometimes... you
can be a little too sensitive...
491
00:43:16,803 --> 00:43:19,977
I don't think I'm too sensitive.
492
00:43:22,767 --> 00:43:25,409
Even if I am... I just want
to be sure that, sometimes,
493
00:43:25,435 --> 00:43:27,792
my life is the one I want
with the person I want.
494
00:43:42,829 --> 00:43:47,426
You know, Greg, I have busted my ass for
years to make something of my life.
495
00:43:48,709 --> 00:43:52,213
I'm not sure sometimes if I'm doing
it right, but shouldn't that be OK?
496
00:43:52,797 --> 00:43:56,847
If I talk it out. If I'm allowed to
express my thoughts and my feelings.
497
00:43:57,343 --> 00:44:00,096
Yeah, fine. Look, listen... that's great.
498
00:44:00,763 --> 00:44:04,385
I want you to do that,
and if you want me...
499
00:44:04,411 --> 00:44:06,261
I can be that for you.
500
00:44:11,482 --> 00:44:13,029
Just“.
501
00:44:16,821 --> 00:44:18,744
Just give me another chance.
502
00:44:23,369 --> 00:44:27,545
How about we have your
birthday dinner together.
503
00:44:29,709 --> 00:44:31,632
Just the two of us.
504
00:44:32,128 --> 00:44:33,630
Tomorrow night.
505
00:44:34,463 --> 00:44:36,386
I'll give you a break from me tonight.
506
00:44:37,758 --> 00:44:39,681
Tomorrow can be you and me.
507
00:44:41,012 --> 00:44:42,935
Alone.
508
00:44:47,935 --> 00:44:49,858
I have to think about things.
509
00:44:51,689 --> 00:44:53,612
Think about it.
510
00:45:10,166 --> 00:45:13,295
Eh? Eh?
511
00:45:18,507 --> 00:45:22,228
Maybe there is hope for us.
Yeah, that's all I'm asking.
512
00:45:22,929 --> 00:45:24,852
Come on.
513
00:45:26,641 --> 00:45:29,481
You know, I'm really not as bad as
your friend James makes me out to be.
514
00:45:38,945 --> 00:45:40,868
Besides...
515
00:45:42,448 --> 00:45:44,371
Once you and I get worked out...
516
00:45:45,243 --> 00:45:50,295
Maybe you and I can figure out
how to get you back to school...
517
00:45:54,043 --> 00:45:55,966
and then work on a new career.
518
00:45:59,006 --> 00:46:00,929
Improve on your life a little bit.
519
00:46:09,058 --> 00:46:10,981
Yeah.
520
00:46:13,187 --> 00:46:16,361
Take away some of that insecurity
that you have. You know?
521
00:46:18,818 --> 00:46:22,038
I know you aren't as happy as you could be.
522
00:46:25,449 --> 00:46:27,668
You just need to make some changes.
523
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:39,843
Oh, boy.
524
00:46:40,881 --> 00:46:44,181
Well.. I'd better get going.
525
00:46:52,351 --> 00:46:54,820
It's up early, and back
to they gym before work.
526
00:47:06,073 --> 00:47:07,996
Hey, Greg...
527
00:47:11,037 --> 00:47:12,960
You really had me there.
528
00:47:19,378 --> 00:47:22,848
That you really care about me, my
life, all of things you said...
529
00:47:31,807 --> 00:47:34,686
I think what you want is someone who...
530
00:47:35,186 --> 00:47:39,157
you can show off.
531
00:47:39,482 --> 00:47:43,112
Someone you can take home to mom and dad.
532
00:47:44,070 --> 00:47:51,955
Someone who is pretty and well-built.
Someone who is scrubbed up and...
533
00:47:52,370 --> 00:47:54,293
your equal.
534
00:47:54,747 --> 00:47:56,920
But that person isn't me.
What are you saying?
535
00:47:57,416 --> 00:47:59,339
I like who I am.
536
00:48:00,127 --> 00:48:03,927
I like that I was raised by my
mom and my oakie grandparents.
537
00:48:05,716 --> 00:48:08,344
I like that I come from a good upbringing.
538
00:48:08,844 --> 00:48:11,485
You know, maybe we didn't have
everything, but I had what I needed.
539
00:48:15,184 --> 00:48:17,144
You'd never want to take
me home to your parents.
540
00:48:17,686 --> 00:48:19,609
I'm not from the right side of the tracks.
541
00:48:21,816 --> 00:48:24,660
You know, maybe I don't make enough
money, but maybe I never will.
542
00:48:24,985 --> 00:48:29,035
Maybe I'll always like fried baloney
sandwiches and walks in the country.
543
00:48:34,161 --> 00:48:36,121
At the end of the day I
can live with my choices.
544
00:48:39,625 --> 00:48:41,548
I need to make the right choice...
545
00:48:46,590 --> 00:48:48,513
."about us.
546
00:48:55,599 --> 00:48:57,522
You're saying no?
547
00:49:11,615 --> 00:49:14,619
I'll stay with James until I
get this figured out and...
548
00:49:15,077 --> 00:49:17,000
No no no no, it's fine, it's fine.
549
00:49:17,455 --> 00:49:19,378
Just stay here, whatever.
550
00:49:20,124 --> 00:49:22,047
A week, two weeks, it's fine.
551
00:52:58,550 --> 00:53:05,809
So I moved to Oregon, for a
year to help my grandfather.
552
00:53:08,602 --> 00:53:10,525
Wound up living there for three years.
553
00:53:11,146 --> 00:53:13,069
Wrote a few of my scripts there.
554
00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:16,323
In the cold of winter.
555
00:53:18,779 --> 00:53:20,702
I had no friends, no social life.
556
00:53:21,740 --> 00:53:23,663
Just me and my dog.
557
00:53:26,161 --> 00:53:29,791
I was glad to do it. Glad to help
my grandpa through his final years.
558
00:53:31,250 --> 00:53:36,472
It humbles you fast when you
see how fast life goes.
559
00:53:36,797 --> 00:53:40,927
When we all end up in the
same position when we're old.
560
00:53:41,260 --> 00:53:43,183
You were really great to do that.
561
00:53:43,554 --> 00:53:46,478
A lot of people would have
never even gotten involved.
562
00:53:47,683 --> 00:53:52,280
My parents were really great
to me and my sisters.
563
00:53:52,646 --> 00:53:54,569
I was just a happy kid playing videogames.
564
00:53:56,900 --> 00:54:00,404
Other than wanting us get good
grades in school and be good people,
565
00:54:00,779 --> 00:54:05,080
They never pressured us to do
anything that didn't make us happy.
566
00:54:06,034 --> 00:54:10,790
Maybe I should have worried more about
the future, or had bigger goals.
567
00:54:11,373 --> 00:54:13,296
I'm basically happy.
568
00:54:13,667 --> 00:54:19,094
When I was twelve, my dad came to me
and said that we were moving again.
569
00:54:19,506 --> 00:54:22,541
He had a new job, so we
had to move to the next
570
00:54:22,567 --> 00:54:25,538
town over and change schools.
The whole thing.
571
00:54:28,098 --> 00:54:31,318
We used to have this cool,
blue Chevy van, 1980's model.
572
00:54:32,019 --> 00:54:35,492
One day, on his way to the
plastics factory, the drive
573
00:54:35,518 --> 00:54:39,053
train broke, so he called to
say that he would be late.
574
00:54:39,651 --> 00:54:42,405
So, after three years
with the company...
575
00:54:42,431 --> 00:54:47,676
- Perfect job record -Never missed a day.
- Never called in late -Never was sick.
576
00:54:48,786 --> 00:54:51,289
The dickhead called him and said
to not even bother coming in.
577
00:54:56,251 --> 00:54:58,420
He always felt bad that
he was just a worker bee.
578
00:54:58,446 --> 00:54:59,746
He always wanted more for us.
579
00:55:06,178 --> 00:55:09,899
After seeing how my dad never did
much with his life... I wanted more.
580
00:55:13,769 --> 00:55:16,488
He called me a dreamer,
told me to get real.
581
00:55:16,814 --> 00:55:20,535
Get a job, any job.
Making movies won't pay the bills.
582
00:55:21,527 --> 00:55:23,780
You should be proud of what you have done.
It's more than most people.
583
00:55:24,196 --> 00:55:26,917
It seems like you have really busted
your ass for all of these years.
584
00:55:27,741 --> 00:55:31,336
Never expected or wanted to get rich.
I just wanted to do what I love.
585
00:55:31,870 --> 00:55:33,793
Aren't you doing just that?
586
00:55:34,164 --> 00:55:36,883
Make a movie every year or so,
live the life the way you want?
587
00:55:37,501 --> 00:55:41,131
So your plan didn't take you to
be a big time Hollywood director.
588
00:55:42,172 --> 00:55:45,847
OK, so you're an Indie film maker, with
some really good films under your belt.
589
00:55:46,552 --> 00:55:49,647
I mean, hey, most good films
come from guys like you.
590
00:55:55,602 --> 00:55:58,606
Oh, um... I should probably get going.
You probably want to get to bed.
591
00:55:59,022 --> 00:56:02,617
Oh, no no no! I'm going to be up for hours. I usually
stay up to one or two in the morning, playing videogames.
592
00:56:03,277 --> 00:56:05,200
Plus, it's pouring out.
593
00:56:07,656 --> 00:56:10,000
You know what?
I'd love another beer.
594
00:56:11,326 --> 00:56:12,168
Hey, uh... Um...
595
00:56:14,830 --> 00:56:19,836
I'm going to a film festival next weekend.
They are showing one of my movies.
596
00:56:20,252 --> 00:56:26,009
They're giving me a free place to stay... and I
didn't know if you wanted to go with me and.. Yes.
597
00:56:26,466 --> 00:56:28,969
I would love to go.
That would be... cool.
598
00:56:29,511 --> 00:56:31,434
Really?
599
00:56:32,180 --> 00:56:34,103
Great!
600
00:56:46,069 --> 00:56:47,992
"Looks like eight or ten out there now."
601
00:56:50,073 --> 00:56:51,996
"There are a lot out back too!"
602
00:57:13,889 --> 00:57:15,812
You know, this movie really scared
the crap out of me when I was a kid.
603
00:57:16,683 --> 00:57:18,606
They're coming to get you, Barbra!
604
00:57:19,436 --> 00:57:21,359
You do that really good.
Ha! Thank you.
605
00:57:24,274 --> 00:57:28,034
There you go again, making me think you are this
awesome guy that has the same interests as me.
606
00:57:31,156 --> 00:57:33,534
You really notice details.
You're smart.
607
00:57:34,451 --> 00:57:36,374
Oh, you! Go on.
608
00:57:38,372 --> 00:57:40,452
Plus, I don't think most
people would say I'm smart.
609
00:57:41,375 --> 00:57:49,351
Sometimes people confuse social anxiety or
shyness for being dumb or stuck up, but...
610
00:57:50,300 --> 00:57:52,769
You know what... that's their issue.
611
00:57:54,888 --> 00:57:56,811
I think you're a great guy.
612
00:57:57,975 --> 00:58:00,694
I've only known you a couple of weeks.
613
00:58:02,521 --> 00:58:06,992
Believe me, by the time you turn 50, you really
shouldn't care about what people think of you.
614
00:58:10,153 --> 00:58:12,076
I really liked the movie.
Uh... Your movie.
615
00:58:12,614 --> 00:58:15,413
I liked being a part of it.
The film festival, I've never been to one.
616
00:58:17,869 --> 00:58:20,338
It always makes me a bit anxious, having to talk
to a room of about two hundred or so people.
617
00:58:20,706 --> 00:58:22,629
You pulled it off well.
618
00:58:23,667 --> 00:58:27,592
The story really moved me.
You're a good writer... sincere.
619
00:58:29,006 --> 00:58:31,725
Small town, down home.
620
00:58:33,719 --> 00:58:37,269
I've tried other styles,
but I keep hitting blocks.
621
00:58:38,932 --> 00:58:43,153
I keep coming back to small town life.
Places where most of us come from.
622
00:58:44,062 --> 00:58:45,985
People must like your movies.
623
00:58:46,606 --> 00:58:47,858
I don't know... I guess.
624
00:58:50,402 --> 00:58:53,827
I keep getting ripped apart
in reviews, for being sappy.
625
00:58:54,865 --> 00:58:56,788
So what?
Life IS sappy at times.
626
00:58:58,160 --> 00:59:00,083
Plus, that's just some person's opinion.
627
00:59:01,204 --> 00:59:03,127
You'd love it in Indiana.
628
00:59:03,498 --> 00:59:06,672
Perfect place to write, small town.
Four seasons means four books.
629
00:59:07,419 --> 00:59:09,342
Indiana, huh?
630
00:59:10,255 --> 00:59:12,178
I always liked the midwest.
631
00:59:12,632 --> 00:59:14,555
Small towns.
632
00:59:16,762 --> 00:59:19,106
Older buildings and front porch houses.
633
00:59:22,893 --> 00:59:25,021
Well, it's just something to think about.
634
00:59:30,484 --> 00:59:35,866
"Doctor Grimes, your entire staff has been working very
hard to find a solution to what's been happening."
635
00:59:38,033 --> 00:59:42,789
You know, this is one of the first horror
movies I ever saw, back in the 70's.
636
00:59:46,083 --> 00:59:48,006
Back in the olden' days.
637
00:59:49,002 --> 00:59:51,860
When movies were good,
there was no cable.
638
00:59:51,886 --> 00:59:54,875
Just 3 networks and a
few local TV stations.
639
00:59:55,842 --> 01:00:00,439
David, that was a really
really really long time ago.
640
01:00:00,806 --> 01:00:02,103
I know. Ha!
641
01:00:02,891 --> 01:00:07,613
I'm an old man shane.
Older than you by a lot.
642
01:00:11,608 --> 01:00:12,860
What?
643
01:00:13,401 --> 01:00:15,324
David, 50 is not that old.
644
01:00:17,322 --> 01:00:20,622
Are you bugged that we can't be friends
because you are 15 years older than me?
645
01:00:20,909 --> 01:00:22,832
Age is just a number, it doesn't matter.
646
01:00:23,995 --> 01:00:26,874
15 years is a pretty huge gap.
647
01:00:28,041 --> 01:00:31,887
Different tastes, different
ways of thinking.
648
01:00:32,504 --> 01:00:34,427
David, age really doesn't matter.
649
01:00:35,298 --> 01:00:38,677
To me, at least. When I look at you,
I don't see your age, all right?
650
01:00:58,113 --> 01:00:59,615
I... just have to ask you something.
651
01:00:59,906 --> 01:01:01,783
I'm sorry for being so forward.
652
01:01:04,035 --> 01:01:09,758
James is really concerned about me, and he is a
good friend to me and a great cousin to you.
653
01:01:14,421 --> 01:01:16,344
But...
654
01:01:17,883 --> 01:01:19,806
I don't know if you're straight...
or... gay...
655
01:01:20,594 --> 01:01:25,350
He thought that we might get along great,
that we might be perfect as friends.
656
01:01:26,516 --> 01:01:28,657
I don't know, I never got
around to asking him.
657
01:01:28,683 --> 01:01:30,421
He seems to think
that, maybe you are.
658
01:01:30,729 --> 01:01:32,231
I guess. I don't know.
659
01:01:37,819 --> 01:01:41,995
I'm sorry, you know we're
just going to be... friends, then“.
660
01:01:42,407 --> 01:01:45,456
And that's good with me.. that's good...
661
01:01:51,917 --> 01:01:53,840
AH! Oh, I'm sorry!
662
01:01:54,169 --> 01:01:56,129
Oh, I'm sorry, I'm so sorry!
No, no, It's alright!
663
01:01:56,796 --> 01:01:58,719
Are you OK? It's OK, It's OK!
664
01:01:59,925 --> 01:02:02,144
It's OK! Kiss me, quick!
665
01:02:37,128 --> 01:02:39,051
I'm having so much fun with you.
666
01:02:40,257 --> 01:02:42,297
You know what, mister, I'm
having fun with you too.
667
01:02:48,848 --> 01:02:53,024
I don't think I've had this
much fun in a long, long time.
668
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:57,403
You're funny. You're sweet.
669
01:02:57,691 --> 01:03:01,946
You're kind, and you're damn hot.
670
01:03:02,445 --> 01:03:04,368
Hot?
671
01:03:04,739 --> 01:03:06,662
Haha... that's rich!
672
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:09,123
Look, David, you are a very hot man!
673
01:03:09,995 --> 01:03:11,918
I'm a man that's getting old.
674
01:03:12,372 --> 01:03:15,013
Oh, David, not the age thing again.
I thought we talked about this.
675
01:03:18,878 --> 01:03:21,131
I don't know how to get past that.
676
01:03:26,136 --> 01:03:29,936
We've known each other
for such a short time.
677
01:03:32,517 --> 01:03:37,398
I am completely and
absolutely crazy about you.
678
01:03:40,066 --> 01:03:41,989
But you are 15 years younger than me.
679
01:03:44,571 --> 01:03:49,702
I have no expectations, I mean... look, wait.
I know, I remember what it was like.
680
01:03:50,118 --> 01:03:55,124
You are just having fun, and that's OK.
David, David...
681
01:03:56,458 --> 01:03:58,381
We talked about this.
682
01:03:58,918 --> 01:04:00,841
Age doesn't matter to me.
683
01:04:01,254 --> 01:04:03,774
Alright? It really, really doesn't.
Age really is just a number.
684
01:04:04,424 --> 01:04:06,347
I think James is right.
685
01:04:08,762 --> 01:04:10,685
I think we are just perfect for each other.
686
01:04:12,432 --> 01:04:14,355
And I'm crazy about you.
687
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:22,401
I'm not going to go second guessing it because you
are too old, or because I'm too young. Alright?
688
01:04:23,318 --> 01:04:27,368
I don't know what's been going on
here since I met you, but I ...um..
689
01:04:31,534 --> 01:04:33,912
I've never been this
happy before in my life.
690
01:04:43,338 --> 01:04:45,261
I want you to be happy.
691
01:04:45,715 --> 01:04:48,059
David, the universe wants you to be happy.
692
01:04:49,636 --> 01:04:51,559
Alright?
Do what you want in life.
693
01:04:52,472 --> 01:04:55,726
Make a lot of money. Make no money.
Make some money. Make all the money.
694
01:04:59,020 --> 01:05:02,524
What matters is that you have done good.
695
01:05:03,441 --> 01:05:09,790
And that you have done good for others. That can
only come from having a good heart, which you have.
696
01:05:20,375 --> 01:05:26,007
I just never believed I'd meet
anybody that would like me for me.
697
01:05:29,342 --> 01:05:31,720
That I deserved to be happy.
Why?
698
01:05:32,804 --> 01:05:34,727
Oh, I don't know.
699
01:05:40,311 --> 01:05:42,234
My dad...
700
01:05:44,399 --> 01:05:48,404
I guess I never felt
that he approved of me.
701
01:05:50,822 --> 01:05:53,120
I mean, maybe he loved me in his own way.
702
01:05:55,910 --> 01:05:57,833
If he ever told me...
703
01:05:59,289 --> 01:06:01,212
just once...
704
01:06:02,876 --> 01:06:04,799
if I ever meant anything to him.
705
01:06:09,048 --> 01:06:10,345
I never knew if I was...
706
01:06:11,217 --> 01:06:12,594
important.
707
01:06:13,219 --> 01:06:16,473
Well you are very important to me.
708
01:06:16,806 --> 01:06:17,773
OK?
709
01:06:18,391 --> 01:06:20,314
Uh, listen.
710
01:06:23,438 --> 01:06:25,816
I know you are going through
some stuff right now.
711
01:06:26,983 --> 01:06:32,285
But, um... I'm pretty sure I want to
spend the rest of my life with you.
712
01:06:54,260 --> 01:06:56,183
Sorry.
713
01:07:39,847 --> 01:07:41,770
How's it hanging there, guy?
714
01:07:42,392 --> 01:07:45,862
You're looking pretty serious
today, whats going on with you?
715
01:07:53,069 --> 01:07:54,992
It's Shane.
716
01:07:57,448 --> 01:07:59,371
The young man, huh?
717
01:08:01,202 --> 01:08:03,375
It's getting really serious.
718
01:08:05,748 --> 01:08:07,671
Serious is good.
719
01:08:10,128 --> 01:08:12,256
Ace, he's 15 years younger than me.
720
01:08:12,922 --> 01:08:16,426
Well, as the young people say, BFD.
You know?
721
01:08:17,885 --> 01:08:25,019
You cannot look at age the
same way that society does.
722
01:08:25,435 --> 01:08:27,358
You are smarter than that.
723
01:08:29,355 --> 01:08:32,950
Patrick was 23 years younger than me.
724
01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:36,283
And guess what?
725
01:08:36,863 --> 01:08:38,240
I'm still here.
726
01:08:40,283 --> 01:08:46,586
You cannot think about your mate
in any other way than just:
727
01:08:47,040 --> 01:08:52,843
'This is today! We are in
love and today is our day!
728
01:08:53,630 --> 01:08:56,759
And you go through life every day that way.
729
01:08:57,091 --> 01:08:58,183
That's it.
730
01:08:59,177 --> 01:09:01,305
Do you run into problems?
Hell yes.
731
01:09:02,930 --> 01:09:04,853
Life isn't a bowl of cherries.
732
01:09:05,516 --> 01:09:07,894
It's got a lot of pits in it too.
733
01:09:10,480 --> 01:09:12,403
You know, he wants to move to Indiana?
734
01:09:14,359 --> 01:09:16,828
Been there done that kind of thing too.
Mmhmm.
735
01:09:18,446 --> 01:09:22,326
Can't tell you how many times Patrick and I
moved in those 12 years that we were together.
736
01:09:23,117 --> 01:09:28,544
Plenty. Was it all his, all mine?
No. It was ours.
737
01:09:29,082 --> 01:09:31,005
We had to come to an agreement.
738
01:09:31,584 --> 01:09:37,967
As far as Indiana? I wouldn't move there.
I came from a farm in South Dakota.
739
01:09:38,299 --> 01:09:41,250
I don't want to move back
to the farm country again.
740
01:09:41,276 --> 01:09:42,500
As much as I love it.
741
01:09:42,887 --> 01:09:46,437
If I go to Indiana, I...
I won't be able to see you.
742
01:09:48,601 --> 01:09:53,448
Do people have.. cars and
trains and airplanes now?
743
01:09:56,609 --> 01:09:57,952
Aha! Yeah. They do.
744
01:09:58,319 --> 01:10:00,492
I could see you, you could see me.
745
01:10:03,157 --> 01:10:09,756
Time is irrelevant, age is irrelevant.
It's two human souls getting together.
746
01:10:14,961 --> 01:10:16,884
You jump at it.
747
01:10:18,214 --> 01:10:20,387
Don't you dare talk your way out of this.
748
01:10:21,092 --> 01:10:22,435
Go.
749
01:10:23,553 --> 01:10:25,476
Hello Indiana.
750
01:10:33,104 --> 01:10:36,654
"We all strive for the perfect life."
751
01:10:37,024 --> 01:10:40,324
It's not about money, or fame.
752
01:10:40,695 --> 01:10:43,118
It's about the kind of person we become.
753
01:10:43,406 --> 01:10:47,206
Every choice we make, takes
us down a different road.
754
01:10:47,535 --> 01:10:55,261
When I'm on my deathbed and I reflect, I just
want to be sure I made a difference in the world.
755
01:10:55,668 --> 01:10:57,591
In someone's life.
756
01:11:00,798 --> 01:11:03,221
"That I didn't just... take up space."
757
01:11:05,428 --> 01:11:07,351
Hey there, mister.
758
01:11:07,805 --> 01:11:09,728
You ready to go?
759
01:11:11,350 --> 01:11:13,273
You are my best friend.
760
01:11:13,895 --> 01:11:16,899
I never dreamt the two of
you would fall in love.
761
01:11:17,523 --> 01:11:20,367
But, I'm so happy you did!
You guys mean the world to me.
762
01:11:20,693 --> 01:11:23,913
So, no long goodbyes, no tears or anything.
I love you both.
763
01:11:24,197 --> 01:11:27,246
And I just know you two
will be together forever.
764
01:11:27,533 --> 01:11:29,456
I just know these things, alright?
765
01:11:29,911 --> 01:11:31,834
I wish you'd come with us.
766
01:11:32,121 --> 01:11:34,044
You guys had better get going!
767
01:11:40,922 --> 01:11:43,926
By the way... I put in my job notice.
768
01:11:44,258 --> 01:11:48,104
I'll be there in three months. I couldn't be
without my two best friends, now could I?
769
01:11:51,349 --> 01:11:53,272
What just happened?
770
01:12:00,107 --> 01:12:02,030
We're really going to do this...
771
01:12:03,152 --> 01:12:05,450
We are all packed up and moving to Indiana.
772
01:12:06,113 --> 01:12:09,868
My folks are excited to meet you
and I can't wait to show you off.
773
01:12:11,202 --> 01:12:13,546
What? What's wrong?
774
01:12:15,289 --> 01:12:19,010
You really love me, don't you? Because
I really love you with all my heart.
775
01:12:19,836 --> 01:12:22,134
Are you sure you want to do this?
What?
776
01:12:28,177 --> 01:12:30,600
I just want to thank you.
777
01:12:31,347 --> 01:12:35,147
For giving me love and support...
778
01:12:35,476 --> 01:12:37,478
and a new third act in my life.
779
01:12:40,314 --> 01:12:42,442
I thought I'd die alone, an old man.
780
01:12:44,110 --> 01:12:48,832
Thanks for taking care of me when I'm old and
feeble when I can't take care of myself.
781
01:12:49,657 --> 01:12:53,207
Well...
I'm just doing it for the insurance money.
782
01:12:53,536 --> 01:12:55,459
I love you.
783
01:12:55,872 --> 01:12:58,625
I love you.
No matter what we have to go through.
784
01:12:59,876 --> 01:13:03,756
I can't imagine not spending every
day of every year forever with you.
785
01:13:04,171 --> 01:13:06,094
The day I met you my world changed.
786
01:13:06,424 --> 01:13:09,553
It was lonely, I just existed.
787
01:13:17,310 --> 01:13:19,904
"I actually got my farmboy from Indiana."
788
01:13:22,648 --> 01:13:25,868
I never thought it would take me
50 years to find my true love.
789
01:13:27,445 --> 01:13:29,823
But maybe that whole fate thing is true.
790
01:13:30,323 --> 01:13:35,250
The day we met was the best day of my life.
791
01:13:35,745 --> 01:13:43,745
"And now, every day is the best day ever."66325
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