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- ♪♪ MTV ♪♪
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- ♪♪ Let's move ♪♪
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- What's, like, the
latest update with Ryan?
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- Bentley is actually
getting to know--
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- His dad?
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- --him, not someone who's
intoxicated on something.
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- Yeah.
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- How long you been sober now?
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- Five months.
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I go to meetings.
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I got a sponsor.
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I do everything
they tell me to do.
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- Amazing.
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- Oh, my gosh.
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Don't bring it up right now.
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- I'm not gonna be naive
to you guys, um,
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having little crushes
in school.
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Middle school is an
awkward stage, you know?
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Your bodies are changing.
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You guys are three
years away from the age
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I was when I had you guys.
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- IVF pregnancy rates
are around 65% to 70%.
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We would leave the tubes alone.
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We wouldn't have to do
any types of surgeries.
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- I think--
- IVF.
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- --IVF is the best option.
- OK.
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- Yeah.
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- So now our only stress
is my blood sugars.
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- We got to get that on point.
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- But she didn't say
I couldn't start IVF.
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She said I would
have to get it down
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before they impregnated me.
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- I just don't want
my kids to look at me
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and be like, you kept
me from my grandma.
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Nova's the oldest, so I
don't want it to affect her.
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- Checking in with her,
she's very wise.
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She's smart.
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- Tyler, you and I
have been talking
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about your feelings
of giving up
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your first child for adoption.
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- I'm really, really sorry.
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[crying]
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- Sorry for what?
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- We didn't get to parent her.
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- My mom went
to a rehab center.
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You have to make a
promise to me and the kids
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that you are gonna stay there
for as long as you need.
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At the end of the day, for me,
I still see her as the most
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important person in my life.
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- Oh, 'cause she is.
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But just because she
is an important person
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don't mean she's a good person
to me or, like, she did good.
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You know?
- Yeah.
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[upbeat music]
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♪♪ ♪♪
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- Girls.
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I have some big and funny news.
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If anyone is available,
hop on the Zoom,
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because I'm logging
on right now.
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- Hi.
- Hi.
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- Hey, guys.
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- Hi, guys.
- Hey.
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- How are y'all?
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- Thanks for jumping on.
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Oh, guys, Leah just texted me.
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She's trying to join.
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She's just having some
technical difficulty.
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- Mackenzie, How's Khes doing?
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- Khes is good.
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We just decided that we
are going to be doing IVF.
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So Khesanio doesn't
have any kids,
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and we didn't know
if he had good sperm.
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So he had to go
give a sperm sample.
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- We have the magazines right
there to make this process
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as smooth as possible.
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- Oh.
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- How was it?
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- One of the hardest things
I've ever done in my life.
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- The sperm concentration,
yours came back at 41 million.
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An average or normal sample
is above 15 million, 1-5.
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So you're more
than above average.
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[laughs]
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- Wow.
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- He's got good sperm.
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- Swim, swim, swim.
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[laughter]
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- So, Maci,
how are things with you?
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I see that Ryan has
a new girlfriend.
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- What does Bentley
think about her?
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- Her and Bentley get
along really well.
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And even, like,
when Ryan's at work
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and Bentley has a
game or something,
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like, she will come to the
game, like, by herself.
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- Wow.
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- I like that.
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- Don't say that.
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- Damn.
- OK.
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We got it.
- Damn.
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- We got it.
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Zach, come get him!
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He's cussing!
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[laughter]
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- Get him!
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- ♪♪ My people my crew ♪♪
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♪♪ My D1s and my boos ♪♪
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♪♪ We ride or die
through day and night ♪♪
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- And go!
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- Go!
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[laughter]
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- [giggles]
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- I drew a picture.
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- Oh, wow.
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Let me see.
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Is that us on a swing?
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- In a tree?
- Yeah.
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- I totally see it.
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- [giggles]
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- That is so cool.
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"I love you so much,
and I'm so happy that I
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"have you as my father.
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When the daddy
and the daughter"--
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- "When the daddy and
daughter dance happens"--
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- I know.
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It's tomorrow!
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Are you so pumped?
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That's so sweet.
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All right.
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- And then you guys are gonna
go out to dinner, right?
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- Yeah, right before.
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- You have to show her how
a real man treats a lady.
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- Daddy-daughter dance.
- Daddy-daughter dance.
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Are you pumped?
- Yes.
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- I'm excited.
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I can't wait.
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We get dressed up, feel
good, go out to, like,
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a really nice restaurant.
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- It's just very special.
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And sometimes it's only
a one life experience,
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so you got to love it.
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- ♪♪ Hey now listen love ♪♪
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♪♪ Run down, hear me out ♪♪
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- Oh, my god.
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My first daddy-daughter dance.
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- I think next
year you'll have--
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- Veda too?
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- --Veda and Nova.
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- Yeah,
that'll be fun, actually.
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- I think things like
this, it's also important
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because it shows
daughters how they're
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supposed to be treated by
guys, even if it is her dad.
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- And it's just, like,
nice that like, you know,
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these things--
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first off, they're not
gonna last forever.
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- No.
- You know?
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They're gonna grow up and
they're not gonna ever gonna
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want to do anything like that.
So--
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- Yeah.
Have fun with your kids.
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- Yeah.
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Nova's the first daughter
that I'm actually raising.
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And so it's super important
for me
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to make her feel special.
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I just wonder, like,
does Brandon and Carly,
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do they go-- do they
go on those dances?
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- Right?
- Like, you know what I mean?
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Like, I wonder.
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- I feel like they're
a popular thing to do,
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so I would think so.
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I don't know.
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- I mean, like I said, I didn't
get to do it with Carly and I--
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it's my first
daddy-daughter dance--
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- Well, you get to do it
with these three ones.
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- --and I get to
do it with them.
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And, I don't know.
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It just makes you
appreciate stuff a lot more.
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- I think that's, like,
good core memories,
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some good quality time.
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- Yeah.
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You got to, like, really
just not take it for granted
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and really treasure it.
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You know what I mean?
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- ♪♪ Ocean tide that
I'm pulling into ♪♪
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♪♪ You can try to hide
but it's coming for you ♪♪
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♪♪ Only think you know ♪♪
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- What you doing?
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- Studying.
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- Are you?
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So how are your classes going?
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- Good.
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- How about your friends?
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How is your friend circle?
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- Good.
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- Do your friends
have boyfriends?
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- Yeah, well, some of 'em.
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- Yeah?
- Yeah.
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- And what about you?
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- Yeah, I got me a
little boyfriend myself.
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- OK.
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A little boyfriend.
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It's typical teenage stuff.
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But, you know, the--
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of course you know the rules.
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Open communication-- I want
to be able to listen to you
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and not be talking at you.
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I would-- I would like
to see your path in life
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look a lot different
than mine was.
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If you have any questions with
your dating and social life,
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definitely let me know.
- Mm-hmm.
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- ♪♪ Here in the moment ♪♪
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♪♪ Chasing the stars
into the night ♪♪
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♪♪ I wanna see
what I can find ♪♪
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- Hello?
- Hello.
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- Hey.
- Hey.
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What's up?
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- One of the reasons
I was calling
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is because, did you know
that Aaliyah is dating a boy?
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I don't know how
to feel about it.
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Is this a normal age?
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- Yeah.
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I mean, I think, you know,
if they want to go on a date,
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then, yeah, we should--
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I think we should be
open to that, you know?
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- Oh, no.
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[laughs] I don't
know what to think.
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I can't believe we're here.
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Um--
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- Yeah, I mean,
probably time to start
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talking about birth control
and, you know,
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stuff like that.
- Well, and I think the way
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to go into that--
it has nothing
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to do with the boyfriend.
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At the age of 13,
they're actually supposed
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to go and see a gynecologist.
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But I was like, I thought
that was a little too soon.
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So I was like, all right,
you know, maybe now
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that they're 14.
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OK, maybe a gynecologist
will open those conversations
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and talk to them about all
of this stuff, as well.
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- All we can do is--
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is provide a very open
door of communication.
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- I think, overall, we're doing
the best we can as long as we
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stay on the same page.
- All right.
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- All right, bye.
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- All right, bye.
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- ♪♪ Light flash, photograph ♪♪
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♪♪ Looking like I found a way ♪♪
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♪♪ ♪♪
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♪♪ Done that, there and back ♪♪
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♪♪ Looking like I found a way ♪♪
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♪♪ ♪♪
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- What are you working on?
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- Just cleaning up the website.
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I put some stuff on sale.
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[cell phone ringing]
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- Hello?
- Hey.
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Hey, how are you?
- Good.
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How are you?
- I'm good.
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So I was talking to
Amanda this week,
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and we're gonna go
have lunch tomorrow
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and wondered if
you wanted to join.
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- Yeah, definitely.
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That sounds cool.
- OK, awesome.
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- Yeah.
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Just let me know where.
I'll be there.
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- OK.
- All right.
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Thank you.
- See you then.
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- Bye.
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- Bye-bye.
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- That'd be interesting.
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- It will be.
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I haven't really got
to, like, spend like,
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a significant amount
of time with her
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without, like,
a bunch of people
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around or, like,
at a sporting event
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where so much is going on.
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You know?
- Mm-hmm.
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- It'd be cool.
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- Did you know Amanda before
her and Ryan got together?
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- No, but kind of, yes.
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She was in my class.
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She was in the
"16 and Pregnant" episode.
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♪♪ ♪♪
283
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- Oh, my god.
284
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What is that?
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[gasps]
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- Bentley.
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- That's funny.
288
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- Isn't that crazy?
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- Well, Ryan's come a
long way in the last year.
290
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He seems like he's doing good.
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Fingers crossed.
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And, you know,
the little bit I've
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been around him and Amanda,
they seem to be doing good.
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So--
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- Yeah.
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How do you feel about, like,
our kids being around people
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that haven't had
the easiest road
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or made the best decisions?
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[upbeat guitar music]
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♪♪ ♪♪
301
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- I mean, it's fine.
302
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I'm always gonna to
put my kids first.
303
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But, like, I'd rather get
to know somebody first.
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- Definitely.
305
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But I also feel like it's
important as parents to, like,
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let people show up--
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- Yeah.
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- --and show who they are--
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- Mm-hmm.
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- --before just saying,
like, oh, you've made
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this mistake or this mistake.
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I don't want anything
to do with you.
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Like, I don't want my
kids to be like that
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or treat people that way.
315
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- Yeah.
316
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[rock music]
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♪♪ ♪♪
318
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- What are you doing?
319
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How has your day been?
320
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- Good.
321
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- So I'm having lunch with
Maci and your mom tomorrow.
322
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- Are you nervous?
323
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- I'm always nervous.
324
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I want a friendship with Maci
just because, for one, having
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the father of your
kids new girlfriend,
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you want to know who they are.
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And you want your kid to be
comfortable around 'em,
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trust 'em.
329
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I just want them to have
that security with me, so--
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- I think it'll be OK.
331
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- It is important
that they like me
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because I just want them
to be comfortable around me.
333
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I want 'em to know the
things they've heard or read
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is not me.
335
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It's just very important to me.
336
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Family is very important
to me and that their kids
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are OK around me.
338
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I just want--
everything to be OK.
339
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[rock music]
340
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♪♪ ♪♪
341
00:11:26,053 --> 00:11:27,088
- Hey, guys.
342
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So my mom has been
at the treatment
343
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center for about three
weeks now for substance use.
344
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And it's really hard,
'cause I'm only able to talk
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to her once a week.
346
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But every time that
I do talk to her,
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she just sounds more
and more better.
348
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All the feedback
has been really positive.
349
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So I'm glad that she's taking
this treatment center seriously
350
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and she's getting the
help that she needs.
351
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[cell phone rings]
352
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I think she's calling.
353
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Hi, Mom.
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- How are you, baby?
You OK?
355
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- Yeah, I'm good.
How are you?
356
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- I'm doing good.
I have to tell you something.
357
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You're not gonna believe it.
358
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Today, I ended the detox.
359
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- Wow.
Are you--
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- Are you excited?
361
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- I was shocked,
'cause I thought I had,
362
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like, two more weeks to go.
363
00:12:17,004 --> 00:12:18,439
- Yeah?
364
00:12:18,506 --> 00:12:19,906
- But when they said that
I don't have it no more,
365
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I was like, wait.
What does that mean?
366
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She goes,
you're already detoxed.
367
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- Do you feel better?
368
00:12:24,011 --> 00:12:25,879
- I'm just exhausted because
I haven't slept all week.
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It's OK.
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I'll fall asleep eventually.
371
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- Well, are you
proud of yourself?
372
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- Yeah, I really am.
373
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- You sound great.
374
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You sound happy.
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You sound alive.
376
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- Yeah, I'm optimistic,
that's for sure, Briana.
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The fact that I stopped
drinking methadone
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is blowing me
the [bleep] away.
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It actually made me sad
to think that I stood
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in that [bleep]
for pain, and they
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never advised me to get off.
382
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- Yeah.
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But look at you.
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- I know.
I love you.
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I got to go.
OK?
386
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- OK.
- I love you.
387
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- I love you.
- I love you.
388
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I love you, baby.
Bye.
389
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- Bye.
- Bye.
390
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[gentle music]
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♪♪ ♪♪
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[line trilling]
393
00:13:14,094 --> 00:13:14,862
- Hello?
394
00:13:14,928 --> 00:13:17,465
- Hey, I spoke to Mom.
395
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- How was that?
396
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- It was-- it was great.
397
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She sounds absolutely amazing.
398
00:13:24,004 --> 00:13:25,639
- How do you feel about
talking to her, then?
399
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- It was fine.
400
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It was a good conversation.
401
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I don't think there's ever
been a bad conversation
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since she's been out there.
403
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I'm also gonna reach
out to her therapist,
404
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'cause I think that's
much, much, much needed.
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We cannot--
406
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- Yeah.
407
00:13:39,553 --> 00:13:40,688
- She cannot come
back home without
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us doing a session together.
409
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- Yeah, I agree with
that one, 1,000%.
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- All right, love you.
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- OK, bye.
- All right.
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Love you. Bye.
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- OK.
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[The Fancee's "feelin' Fancy"]
415
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- ♪♪ Feeling fancy ♪♪
416
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- 5, 7, and 1, 3.
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Straight, Jaxie.
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1, 3-- back handspring.
419
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Thank you.
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00:14:10,483 --> 00:14:11,752
Guess what, girls.
421
00:14:11,819 --> 00:14:13,554
A huge opportunity
fell into my lap,
422
00:14:13,621 --> 00:14:16,256
and I bought a cheer gym
with one of my friends.
423
00:14:16,323 --> 00:14:18,559
And I'm having
a big grand opening
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00:14:18,625 --> 00:14:19,593
in a couple of months.
425
00:14:19,660 --> 00:14:21,262
7, hands, 1--
426
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It's gonna be a lot of
work, but so worth it.
427
00:14:24,965 --> 00:14:27,167
And I'm so excited.
428
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Much better.
429
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There's a lot going
on, and today I
430
00:14:30,337 --> 00:14:32,973
do have another appointment
with the fertility clinic
431
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to get more
information about IVF.
432
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OK, we're here.
433
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[light music]
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♪♪ ♪♪
435
00:14:46,386 --> 00:14:47,354
- Hello.
436
00:14:47,421 --> 00:14:48,856
- Hi, I'm Brandy.
437
00:14:48,923 --> 00:14:51,391
I'm one of the IVF coordinators
here at our Tampa office.
438
00:14:51,458 --> 00:14:54,995
So I printed a sample
calendar so we can go over,
439
00:14:55,061 --> 00:14:57,864
and then it'll give you an
idea of what a cycle looks
440
00:14:57,931 --> 00:14:59,066
like with us.
441
00:14:59,132 --> 00:15:00,367
- OK.
442
00:15:00,433 --> 00:15:01,768
- During your first
week of birth control,
443
00:15:01,835 --> 00:15:02,836
we usually have
you do something
444
00:15:02,903 --> 00:15:04,905
called a trial transfer.
445
00:15:04,972 --> 00:15:07,307
- So I had to take birth
control to get pregnant.
446
00:15:07,374 --> 00:15:08,909
- We have you take
birth control so that we
447
00:15:08,976 --> 00:15:10,744
can get a hold of your cycle.
448
00:15:10,811 --> 00:15:12,179
So that's the goal.
449
00:15:12,246 --> 00:15:14,614
- I am a Type I
diabetic, so anything
450
00:15:14,681 --> 00:15:19,653
that messes with my hormones,
especially birth control--
451
00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:21,154
- Yeah.
452
00:15:21,221 --> 00:15:23,223
- --will, like, literally
cancel my insulin.
453
00:15:23,290 --> 00:15:25,626
And then my sugars will be
high, which is very dangerous.
454
00:15:25,693 --> 00:15:27,294
- Yeah.
455
00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:29,563
- But also, I tried birth
control once in my entire life
456
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and it made my sugar go
through the roof and mess with
457
00:15:33,133 --> 00:15:35,469
my physical and mental health.
458
00:15:35,535 --> 00:15:38,405
Yeah.
459
00:15:38,472 --> 00:15:40,607
- The only thing is if you
don't do the birth control,
460
00:15:40,674 --> 00:15:44,111
if for some reason you ovulate
or your blood level's off,
461
00:15:44,178 --> 00:15:45,612
we might have to
postpone your cycle.
462
00:15:45,679 --> 00:15:48,048
So that's why we like to
really do the birth control,
463
00:15:48,114 --> 00:15:50,851
so that we can get your
hormones down to a baseline.
464
00:15:50,918 --> 00:15:52,319
We control it.
465
00:15:52,386 --> 00:15:54,287
And then we build on top
of it with the hormones.
466
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- What else is involved?
467
00:15:55,889 --> 00:15:57,991
- So if that
appointment goes well,
468
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we would have you start
your injections the next--
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usually the next day.
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00:16:02,529 --> 00:16:04,031
- OK.
471
00:16:04,098 --> 00:16:05,633
So there's a lot of
medications involved, which
472
00:16:05,699 --> 00:16:08,369
all mess with your hormones.
473
00:16:08,436 --> 00:16:10,437
[somber music]
474
00:16:10,504 --> 00:16:12,606
- Well, we are-- you're
trying to have a baby.
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00:16:12,673 --> 00:16:13,673
[laughs]
476
00:16:13,740 --> 00:16:15,175
- Right.
477
00:16:15,242 --> 00:16:17,311
I also went through awful,
awful, awful, awful,
478
00:16:17,378 --> 00:16:20,614
awful depression--
479
00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:21,681
- Mm-hmm.
480
00:16:21,748 --> 00:16:22,816
- --after having my third.
481
00:16:22,883 --> 00:16:23,951
- Yeah.
482
00:16:24,018 --> 00:16:25,452
- That's due to off hormones.
483
00:16:25,519 --> 00:16:28,756
Like, when I say awful,
I mean, it was crippling.
484
00:16:28,822 --> 00:16:31,591
- Mm-hmm.
485
00:16:31,658 --> 00:16:34,494
- Also, you didn't have any
help, too, with anything.
486
00:16:34,561 --> 00:16:35,562
So that could be it.
487
00:16:35,629 --> 00:16:37,030
- I don't want to be depressed.
488
00:16:37,097 --> 00:16:38,765
- Don't worry, baby.
Don't worry.
489
00:16:38,832 --> 00:16:40,166
I'll be strong for you.
490
00:16:40,233 --> 00:16:42,503
- I-- yes, I finally
have a good partner.
491
00:16:42,570 --> 00:16:48,709
But I'm just saying, like,
I was, like, suicidal.
492
00:16:48,775 --> 00:16:49,977
Yeah.
493
00:16:50,044 --> 00:16:52,846
So, like,
this medicine scares me.
494
00:17:12,766 --> 00:17:15,102
- ♪♪ 2, 3, ready ♪♪
495
00:17:15,169 --> 00:17:22,109
♪♪ ♪♪
496
00:17:22,176 --> 00:17:23,143
- Is that OK?
497
00:17:23,209 --> 00:17:24,478
- Yes.
498
00:17:24,544 --> 00:17:26,346
- It's a nice day, isn't it?
499
00:17:26,413 --> 00:17:28,215
- Yeah.
500
00:17:28,282 --> 00:17:30,650
- You guys are 14.
501
00:17:30,717 --> 00:17:33,020
And since you're
14 now, I think
502
00:17:33,086 --> 00:17:34,955
it's important that
we get you established
503
00:17:35,022 --> 00:17:37,324
with a gynecologist.
504
00:17:37,391 --> 00:17:38,659
I think it's about that time.
505
00:17:38,726 --> 00:17:40,460
Based off of what
I've been reading,
506
00:17:40,527 --> 00:17:44,331
they say that you should
be around the age of 13.
507
00:17:44,398 --> 00:17:47,501
But didn't think at 13
you guys were exactly ready.
508
00:17:47,568 --> 00:17:50,270
But now I hear conversations
of social life,
509
00:17:50,337 --> 00:17:54,074
friends having boyfriends,
you guys have a boyfriend--
510
00:17:54,140 --> 00:17:55,242
- Not me.
511
00:17:55,308 --> 00:17:56,777
- --all that kind of stuff.
512
00:17:56,844 --> 00:17:58,512
[chuckles] But I know
that it's around that age.
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00:17:58,579 --> 00:18:01,848
Either way, it's important
to get established
514
00:18:01,915 --> 00:18:05,552
with a gynecologist, not
just because of a social life
515
00:18:05,619 --> 00:18:07,821
and dating life,
but also because it's
516
00:18:07,888 --> 00:18:10,190
extremely important that you
keep up with your health.
517
00:18:10,257 --> 00:18:12,659
- What's the gynecologist
appointment gonna be like?
518
00:18:12,726 --> 00:18:14,395
- I think you'll learn
about women's health.
519
00:18:14,462 --> 00:18:16,696
I think you'll learn about
the options you have,
520
00:18:16,763 --> 00:18:19,766
if you have heavy flows,
if you have light flows.
521
00:18:19,833 --> 00:18:21,568
I think they'll
do breast exams.
522
00:18:21,635 --> 00:18:23,336
Us women go through a lot
at the end of the day.
523
00:18:23,403 --> 00:18:25,205
Do you guys feel like it's
embarrassing sometimes?
524
00:18:25,272 --> 00:18:27,775
It's OK, 'cause I-- if it is--
'cause I feel like
525
00:18:27,841 --> 00:18:29,276
you guys are at
that age where it is like,
526
00:18:29,343 --> 00:18:30,310
oh, my god.
527
00:18:30,377 --> 00:18:32,079
- I don't get embarrassed.
528
00:18:32,146 --> 00:18:33,513
Well, I only get embarrassed if
you'd say it around my friends.
529
00:18:33,580 --> 00:18:35,049
- Yeah.
530
00:18:35,116 --> 00:18:36,350
- 'Cause I'm like,
come on, like, this is enough.
531
00:18:36,416 --> 00:18:38,051
- Mm-hmm.
532
00:18:38,118 --> 00:18:40,821
So I feel like I
lacked that education,
533
00:18:40,887 --> 00:18:43,857
so sometimes I'm over
the top with trying
534
00:18:43,924 --> 00:18:47,394
to express it to you guys
and teach you guys about it.
535
00:18:47,460 --> 00:18:48,762
And I can understand.
536
00:18:48,829 --> 00:18:50,698
But by the time I
did get information,
537
00:18:50,764 --> 00:18:52,966
I was already pregnant
with you guys.
538
00:18:53,033 --> 00:18:55,569
Let me just be on top of it
because you're gonna date.
539
00:18:55,635 --> 00:18:56,870
You're gonna have fun.
540
00:18:56,937 --> 00:18:58,705
You're gonna have
a social life.
541
00:18:58,772 --> 00:19:01,208
- I think I'm ready to go
and learn more from them.
542
00:19:01,275 --> 00:19:02,476
- What about you?
543
00:19:02,542 --> 00:19:03,944
- Yeah, I feel ready.
544
00:19:04,010 --> 00:19:05,312
- OK.
545
00:19:05,379 --> 00:19:06,914
- And you guys know you
can always talk to me.
546
00:19:06,980 --> 00:19:11,285
Your health and wellness
is always my priority.
547
00:19:11,352 --> 00:19:12,286
I love you guys.
548
00:19:12,353 --> 00:19:15,455
- Love you, too.
549
00:19:15,522 --> 00:19:17,057
- I'm proud of you.
550
00:19:17,124 --> 00:19:21,996
- ♪♪ Today what it brings
is what it brings ♪♪
551
00:19:22,063 --> 00:19:24,764
♪♪ And it feels like the
summer vibes go on endlessly ♪♪
552
00:19:24,831 --> 00:19:27,334
- Are you so excited
to go with your dad?
553
00:19:27,401 --> 00:19:28,369
- Yeah.
554
00:19:28,436 --> 00:19:29,870
- Let's go change.
555
00:19:29,937 --> 00:19:31,438
- When you think
about being a parent
556
00:19:31,505 --> 00:19:33,239
and then you think about
being a birth parent--
557
00:19:33,306 --> 00:19:35,242
and I've done both--
adoption is crazy.
558
00:19:35,309 --> 00:19:36,643
It feels different.
559
00:19:36,710 --> 00:19:40,714
You do a lot of-- a lot of
thinking, and wondering,
560
00:19:40,781 --> 00:19:41,748
and questioning.
561
00:19:41,815 --> 00:19:44,551
- You are so pretty.
562
00:19:44,618 --> 00:19:46,487
- I mean, there's
always the what-ifs.
563
00:19:46,553 --> 00:19:48,489
Like, sometimes you think about
it and it makes you happy.
564
00:19:48,555 --> 00:19:50,557
And then sometimes you think
about it and it makes you sad.
565
00:19:50,624 --> 00:19:53,660
What would it have been like
to be able to take Carly
566
00:19:53,727 --> 00:19:55,095
on a daddy-daughter dance?
567
00:19:55,162 --> 00:19:56,864
I don't want to take
this time for granted.
568
00:19:56,931 --> 00:20:00,000
I didn't get to do anything
with Carly special,
569
00:20:00,067 --> 00:20:02,102
like, for her just being her.
570
00:20:02,169 --> 00:20:04,037
And so I need to make sure
that I do it with Nova
571
00:20:04,104 --> 00:20:06,407
and do it with Veda and
Rya as they get older,
572
00:20:06,473 --> 00:20:08,642
because it goes by so fast.
573
00:20:08,708 --> 00:20:10,144
[doorbell rings]
- Somebody's here.
574
00:20:10,211 --> 00:20:11,211
- Oh, wait.
575
00:20:11,278 --> 00:20:13,313
What?
What?
576
00:20:13,380 --> 00:20:14,381
But it's raining.
577
00:20:14,448 --> 00:20:15,883
- Answer the door.
578
00:20:15,949 --> 00:20:18,285
- I know.
579
00:20:18,351 --> 00:20:19,286
- Hello--
580
00:20:19,353 --> 00:20:20,387
- [chuckles]
581
00:20:20,454 --> 00:20:22,489
- --beautiful child.
582
00:20:22,556 --> 00:20:23,691
I got you flowers.
583
00:20:23,758 --> 00:20:25,225
- Thank you.
584
00:20:25,292 --> 00:20:27,361
- Are you ready
to go on our date?
585
00:20:27,428 --> 00:20:29,229
- Yeah.
586
00:20:29,296 --> 00:20:30,263
- Stand right here.
587
00:20:30,330 --> 00:20:31,398
Big smile.
588
00:20:31,465 --> 00:20:32,632
OK, ready?
589
00:20:34,635 --> 00:20:37,404
- I love it.
590
00:20:37,470 --> 00:20:39,006
You look so pretty, Nova.
591
00:20:39,073 --> 00:20:40,173
- So pretty.
592
00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:41,308
[giggles] OK.
593
00:20:41,375 --> 00:20:42,810
You ready?
594
00:20:42,876 --> 00:20:45,646
- ♪♪ That it's ever gonna be
this good ♪♪
595
00:20:45,713 --> 00:20:47,347
- Rock and roll.
596
00:20:47,414 --> 00:20:52,453
♪♪ ♪♪
597
00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:53,520
OK, Novalee.
598
00:20:53,587 --> 00:20:54,855
Thank you.
599
00:20:54,922 --> 00:20:56,256
Can you guys make
a Shirley Temple?
600
00:20:56,323 --> 00:20:57,224
She wants to try one of those.
601
00:20:57,291 --> 00:20:58,191
I'm fine with the water.
602
00:20:58,258 --> 00:20:59,526
OK.
603
00:20:59,593 --> 00:21:00,594
Shrimp and Brussels sprouts--
- OK, sound good.
604
00:21:00,661 --> 00:21:01,561
- --just to start.
605
00:21:01,628 --> 00:21:02,730
Thank you.
606
00:21:02,796 --> 00:21:04,198
This is your first dance.
607
00:21:04,264 --> 00:21:05,733
It's my first
daddy-daughter dance.
608
00:21:05,799 --> 00:21:07,268
Never done it before.
- Cool.
609
00:21:07,335 --> 00:21:08,602
- Thank you.
610
00:21:08,668 --> 00:21:09,970
- A couple plates--
you're welcome.
611
00:21:10,037 --> 00:21:11,605
- I think I brought
your mom here.
612
00:21:11,671 --> 00:21:12,606
- Really?
613
00:21:12,673 --> 00:21:13,640
- Yeah.
614
00:21:13,707 --> 00:21:14,675
- Like, on a date?
615
00:21:14,742 --> 00:21:16,209
- Yeah.
616
00:21:16,276 --> 00:21:17,377
- Why were you and mom
kissing when you were 14?
617
00:21:17,444 --> 00:21:18,479
- That's my--
618
00:21:18,545 --> 00:21:19,480
- Why were we kissing at 14?
619
00:21:19,546 --> 00:21:20,647
- --biggest question.
620
00:21:20,714 --> 00:21:22,249
- Because we liked each other.
621
00:21:22,316 --> 00:21:24,852
- And you couldn't hold
back, let me guess.
622
00:21:24,919 --> 00:21:26,487
- I guess not, no.
623
00:21:26,553 --> 00:21:28,622
We met when we were 13, so--
624
00:21:28,688 --> 00:21:30,123
- Oh!
625
00:21:30,190 --> 00:21:32,292
- Why, do you think that's
weird that me and Mom--
626
00:21:34,127 --> 00:21:36,397
- [chuckles]
When we were 14.
627
00:21:36,463 --> 00:21:38,132
- No.
628
00:21:38,199 --> 00:21:40,401
I mean, like, if you guys loved
each other that much, I'm fine.
629
00:21:40,467 --> 00:21:43,871
Because if you didn't--
if that didn't happen, then
630
00:21:43,937 --> 00:21:45,606
this would be not happening.
631
00:21:45,672 --> 00:21:47,007
- Yeah, that's very true.
632
00:21:47,074 --> 00:21:48,209
Thank you.
633
00:21:48,275 --> 00:21:51,145
- And I'm glad that
I'm your child.
634
00:21:51,211 --> 00:21:52,079
- Yeah, me too.
635
00:21:52,145 --> 00:21:53,747
I'm glad you're my kid, too.
636
00:21:53,813 --> 00:21:55,916
It's been a while since I
was young like you were.
637
00:21:55,982 --> 00:21:58,185
So, like, what does it
mean when you're, like--
638
00:21:58,251 --> 00:22:01,722
what do boyfriends and
girlfriends do in your grade?
639
00:22:01,788 --> 00:22:02,790
Like, what do they do?
640
00:22:02,856 --> 00:22:04,357
- They just hang out a lot.
641
00:22:04,424 --> 00:22:06,393
They hug each other.
642
00:22:06,460 --> 00:22:08,729
They're very clingy
together sometimes.
643
00:22:08,795 --> 00:22:09,930
- OK.
644
00:22:09,997 --> 00:22:11,065
Do they kiss each other?
- No.
645
00:22:11,131 --> 00:22:12,465
- Oh, OK.
I don't know.
646
00:22:12,532 --> 00:22:13,534
I don't know.
All right.
647
00:22:13,601 --> 00:22:14,802
- [laughs]
- I don't know.
648
00:22:14,869 --> 00:22:15,802
I'm just asking.
649
00:22:15,869 --> 00:22:17,737
- [laughs]
650
00:22:18,539 --> 00:22:19,840
- Well, that's good.
651
00:22:19,906 --> 00:22:21,308
- You would notice
if I was doing it.
652
00:22:21,375 --> 00:22:22,375
- No, I would not.
653
00:22:22,442 --> 00:22:23,811
That's why I'm asking you.
654
00:22:23,877 --> 00:22:24,812
I'd hope that you
would tell-- you know,
655
00:22:24,878 --> 00:22:26,046
that's why I'm asking.
656
00:22:26,113 --> 00:22:27,314
- I'm telling the
truth right now.
657
00:22:27,381 --> 00:22:28,715
I have never kissed a boy.
- No, no, no.
658
00:22:28,782 --> 00:22:31,952
I trust you.
I trust that you'll tell me.
659
00:22:32,019 --> 00:22:33,153
All right.
You ready, Freddy?
660
00:22:33,220 --> 00:22:35,122
Off to the--
- Off to the dance.
661
00:22:35,189 --> 00:22:36,489
- --the dance.
662
00:22:36,556 --> 00:22:39,993
- ♪♪ Ain't nothing better
than this ♪♪
663
00:22:43,997 --> 00:22:46,834
[killbunny's "Cruel"]
664
00:22:46,901 --> 00:22:50,738
- ♪♪ I know love can be
so cruel ♪♪
665
00:22:50,804 --> 00:22:52,806
♪♪ Do you think
that we deserve this ♪♪
666
00:22:52,873 --> 00:22:54,642
- Hey, y'all,
I'm actually heading out
667
00:22:54,708 --> 00:22:59,646
to have lunch with Jen
and Ryan's girlfriend, Amanda.
668
00:22:59,713 --> 00:23:01,382
You know, Ryan and I
have worked really hard
669
00:23:01,449 --> 00:23:04,551
over the last couple of years
to have just a more stable
670
00:23:04,618 --> 00:23:06,120
co-parenting relationship.
671
00:23:06,187 --> 00:23:08,689
And therapy and Al-Anon
has made me more confident
672
00:23:08,756 --> 00:23:10,991
in creating new relationships.
673
00:23:11,057 --> 00:23:12,893
So I'm going to lunch.
674
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:13,928
Hey.
675
00:23:13,994 --> 00:23:15,062
- Hey.
676
00:23:15,129 --> 00:23:16,163
- How are you?
- Good.
677
00:23:16,230 --> 00:23:17,498
How are y'all?
- Good.
678
00:23:17,564 --> 00:23:18,799
- Hey, how are y'all doing?
- Good.
679
00:23:18,866 --> 00:23:19,900
How are you?
- Good. How are you?
680
00:23:19,967 --> 00:23:21,167
- I'm good.
681
00:23:21,234 --> 00:23:22,169
What can I start y'all
off to drink with?
682
00:23:22,236 --> 00:23:23,737
- I want a water, please.
- Water.
683
00:23:23,803 --> 00:23:26,373
- I'll have a pinot grigio.
- I'll take an Angry Orchard.
684
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:28,108
- Is that not crazy
that we've known
685
00:23:28,175 --> 00:23:29,677
each other since high school?
686
00:23:29,744 --> 00:23:30,911
- That is crazy.
687
00:23:30,978 --> 00:23:32,412
I loved that school.
688
00:23:32,479 --> 00:23:34,481
How did you end up
at the adult high school?
689
00:23:34,548 --> 00:23:36,717
- I got kicked out of public
schools just from drugs,
690
00:23:36,783 --> 00:23:40,821
and fighting, and getting
in trouble, getting
691
00:23:40,888 --> 00:23:42,122
arrested at a young age.
692
00:23:42,188 --> 00:23:44,291
I mean, I don't know why
it took so long to learn,
693
00:23:44,357 --> 00:23:47,294
but I've went through,
like, the ringer.
694
00:23:47,360 --> 00:23:48,762
Like, I'm not going
back out there.
695
00:23:48,828 --> 00:23:49,797
- Mm-hmm.
696
00:23:49,864 --> 00:23:51,398
Have you ever had
this long sober?
697
00:23:51,465 --> 00:23:53,801
- So I had almost
two years sober.
698
00:23:53,868 --> 00:23:56,270
And then that's when my
parents ended up passing away.
699
00:23:56,336 --> 00:23:57,404
- OK.
700
00:23:57,471 --> 00:23:59,273
- My mom was related to drugs.
701
00:23:59,339 --> 00:24:00,674
She was always in
active addiction, so--
702
00:24:00,741 --> 00:24:04,477
and then she started
using with me.
703
00:24:04,544 --> 00:24:06,146
I don't want to make out
like she's a bad parent.
704
00:24:06,213 --> 00:24:07,848
Like, she was young.
705
00:24:07,915 --> 00:24:10,517
And then, shortly after, my
father just got bone cancer,
706
00:24:10,584 --> 00:24:13,153
stage 4, and passed
away, which is also
707
00:24:13,220 --> 00:24:14,355
not an excuse to go back out.
708
00:24:14,421 --> 00:24:16,824
But, yeah, it was very hard.
709
00:24:16,891 --> 00:24:20,026
- So-- and you will
be sober a year?
710
00:24:20,093 --> 00:24:22,529
- I'm happy where
I'm at in life and--
711
00:24:22,596 --> 00:24:23,531
- You should be really proud.
- Yeah.
712
00:24:23,597 --> 00:24:24,898
You should be very proud.
713
00:24:24,965 --> 00:24:26,433
- And even when I
was sober before,
714
00:24:26,500 --> 00:24:27,835
I've never been just, like,
mentally, emotionally happy.
715
00:24:27,902 --> 00:24:31,204
- I wouldn't want somebody
to judge me based off
716
00:24:31,271 --> 00:24:32,839
anything I've done in my past.
717
00:24:32,906 --> 00:24:34,240
And that's been
a lot of-- like,
718
00:24:34,307 --> 00:24:35,542
she and I have talked about it.
719
00:24:35,608 --> 00:24:38,179
That's been big for
me the last few years,
720
00:24:38,245 --> 00:24:39,380
especially with
me and Ryan just,
721
00:24:39,446 --> 00:24:40,981
like, trying to co-parent--
- Yeah.
722
00:24:41,048 --> 00:24:45,051
- --and trying to get on a
better and a more healthy
723
00:24:45,118 --> 00:24:47,354
co-parenting relationship.
724
00:24:47,421 --> 00:24:48,956
And it's like, I can't--
725
00:24:49,022 --> 00:24:52,426
I can't hold any of the
bull[bleep] against anybody.
726
00:24:52,492 --> 00:24:55,028
- I know, like, we've known
each other since high school.
727
00:24:55,095 --> 00:24:58,932
But even, like, reuniting with
you, I was, like, so nervous.
728
00:24:58,999 --> 00:25:01,935
Like, I didn't know how
your energy was gonna be.
729
00:25:02,002 --> 00:25:05,873
But I was like, she makes me
feel, like, so comfortable.
730
00:25:05,939 --> 00:25:08,142
- It's-- for me, I don't
know, it was your energy.
731
00:25:08,209 --> 00:25:10,577
But also, like, I just
feel like you can't really
732
00:25:10,644 --> 00:25:13,147
move forward or start
anywhere if you're just
733
00:25:13,214 --> 00:25:14,481
constantly thinking about--
- You're very open-minded.
734
00:25:14,547 --> 00:25:15,682
Yeah.
735
00:25:15,749 --> 00:25:16,750
- --or listening
to other people.
736
00:25:16,817 --> 00:25:18,451
- Yeah, I respect that.
737
00:25:18,518 --> 00:25:21,388
- I just have to say that you
and Ryan getting together,
738
00:25:21,455 --> 00:25:22,556
I didn't understand.
739
00:25:22,623 --> 00:25:26,460
I didn't want it at all.
740
00:25:26,527 --> 00:25:27,661
- Yeah, I know.
- You know.
741
00:25:27,728 --> 00:25:29,162
[laughter]
- Yeah.
742
00:25:29,229 --> 00:25:30,731
- Amanda knows.
- I was so scared to meet you.
743
00:25:30,797 --> 00:25:32,132
- I'm, like, in my
head, like, I felt
744
00:25:32,199 --> 00:25:33,533
the exact same way in my head.
745
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:35,168
I'm like, ugh.
746
00:25:35,235 --> 00:25:36,870
- It was just like, Ryan,
you've been through all this
747
00:25:36,937 --> 00:25:38,038
so far.
748
00:25:38,105 --> 00:25:39,406
You're doing good,
and then you're
749
00:25:39,473 --> 00:25:40,740
going to get into
a relationship
750
00:25:40,807 --> 00:25:41,942
with somebody
that's in recovery.
751
00:25:42,008 --> 00:25:42,943
- I understand.
752
00:25:43,010 --> 00:25:44,144
Like, if it was my son--
753
00:25:44,211 --> 00:25:45,479
- Yeah.
754
00:25:45,545 --> 00:25:47,615
- --you know,
I'd be like, hold on.
755
00:25:47,681 --> 00:25:48,849
- Are we sure about this?
756
00:25:48,915 --> 00:25:50,550
- Whoa, whoa, whoa.
[laughter]
757
00:25:50,617 --> 00:25:51,718
- Can't we wait a little bit?
- So I get it.
758
00:25:51,785 --> 00:25:52,653
Like, I try to be open-minded.
759
00:25:52,719 --> 00:25:54,321
Like, I get it.
760
00:25:54,388 --> 00:25:56,623
And we had a serious talk
about it, and he has told me
761
00:25:56,690 --> 00:25:59,693
and I have told him, like,
if you relapse, like,
762
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:00,961
you need to leave
me and vice versa.
763
00:26:01,027 --> 00:26:02,430
- Mm-hmm.
764
00:26:02,496 --> 00:26:03,931
- And he's like, if I
relapse, like, I'm leaving you
765
00:26:03,998 --> 00:26:05,499
and there'll be no
strings attached.
766
00:26:05,566 --> 00:26:09,302
And, you know,
we agreed upon that.
767
00:26:09,369 --> 00:26:14,674
But I also feel like if
you, like, love someone--
768
00:26:14,741 --> 00:26:16,777
and, like, so all I
want to do is see him do
769
00:26:16,843 --> 00:26:18,612
good, like, see him be a dad.
- Mm-hmm.
770
00:26:18,679 --> 00:26:19,946
- Because, like,
I've been through this--
771
00:26:20,013 --> 00:26:21,214
- Right.
772
00:26:21,281 --> 00:26:22,349
- --literally since
I was 12 years old.
773
00:26:22,416 --> 00:26:23,650
Like, it's consistency.
774
00:26:23,717 --> 00:26:24,919
The more you do
it, the more you--
775
00:26:24,985 --> 00:26:26,486
- The easier it
gets type of thing.
776
00:26:26,553 --> 00:26:27,988
- It is.
777
00:26:28,054 --> 00:26:29,756
Like, you will never
be happy, like, using.
778
00:26:29,823 --> 00:26:32,359
And active addiction,
like, it's never--
779
00:26:32,426 --> 00:26:33,460
- It always kind
of ends up at the--
780
00:26:33,527 --> 00:26:35,229
- It always ends.
781
00:26:35,295 --> 00:26:36,664
- The end of the road is the
same every time type of thing.
782
00:26:36,730 --> 00:26:37,864
- Yes, every single time.
- Yeah.
783
00:26:37,931 --> 00:26:41,034
[gentle guitar music]
784
00:26:41,101 --> 00:26:42,703
♪♪ ♪♪
785
00:26:42,770 --> 00:26:46,040
[tense music]
786
00:26:46,107 --> 00:26:47,574
- OK, guys.
787
00:26:47,641 --> 00:26:50,611
I just received a message
from my mom's therapist
788
00:26:50,678 --> 00:26:52,713
at the treatment center,
and she says that she's
789
00:26:52,779 --> 00:26:54,581
gonna give me a call.
790
00:26:54,648 --> 00:26:56,483
She's basically telling me
that my mom
791
00:26:56,550 --> 00:26:57,818
isn't doing too well.
792
00:26:57,885 --> 00:26:59,419
And I'm a little
confused, because I
793
00:26:59,486 --> 00:27:02,756
personally thought that
everything has been going well.
794
00:27:02,823 --> 00:27:04,725
This is just stressing me out.
795
00:27:04,792 --> 00:27:08,596
[cell phone rings]
796
00:27:08,662 --> 00:27:09,630
Hello?
797
00:27:09,696 --> 00:27:11,231
- Hey, it's me.
798
00:27:11,298 --> 00:27:12,232
- Hey, how are you?
799
00:27:12,299 --> 00:27:13,534
- Good.
800
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:15,235
So, yeah, I went
over there right now.
801
00:27:15,302 --> 00:27:16,770
They told me she didn't do
any of their groups
802
00:27:16,837 --> 00:27:18,239
or anything today.
803
00:27:18,305 --> 00:27:19,639
- Why?
- Yeah.
804
00:27:19,706 --> 00:27:20,974
I mean, this is ridiculous.
805
00:27:21,041 --> 00:27:22,877
I mean, she's not
doing anything.
806
00:27:22,943 --> 00:27:24,812
- So, like, what is she doing,
just sitting there and being
807
00:27:24,878 --> 00:27:26,546
silent the whole time?
808
00:27:26,613 --> 00:27:29,016
- So she's just
being in a bad mood
809
00:27:29,083 --> 00:27:31,352
or she'll go outside with a
blanket wrapped around her.
810
00:27:31,418 --> 00:27:33,987
And I just ignore her, 'cause
I'm not gonna deal with that.
811
00:27:34,054 --> 00:27:36,723
I said, you know, Roxy,
this isn't doing any good.
812
00:27:36,790 --> 00:27:38,425
I'm not doing this anymore.
813
00:27:38,492 --> 00:27:40,461
While you're here, you've
got to work this program.
814
00:27:40,527 --> 00:27:41,729
- Wow.
815
00:27:41,795 --> 00:27:43,630
She's been lying
to us for so long.
816
00:27:43,697 --> 00:27:49,002
♪♪ ♪♪
817
00:27:52,939 --> 00:27:55,943
[rock music]
818
00:27:56,010 --> 00:27:57,511
- ♪♪ The things that you say ♪♪
819
00:27:57,578 --> 00:27:59,513
♪♪ And the way you react ♪♪
820
00:27:59,580 --> 00:28:01,314
♪♪ You learn
your own patterns ♪♪
821
00:28:01,381 --> 00:28:03,917
♪♪ And trace them
all back to the sword ♪♪
822
00:28:03,984 --> 00:28:06,253
- Going through IVF
while running a new gym
823
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:07,854
is gonna be a lot.
824
00:28:07,921 --> 00:28:09,824
- I'll do your classes.
I'll go in there and jump.
825
00:28:09,890 --> 00:28:11,124
Hey!
Hey!
826
00:28:11,191 --> 00:28:14,161
Mack is not here,
but I am here.
827
00:28:14,228 --> 00:28:16,463
Mack is not here,
but I am here.
828
00:28:16,529 --> 00:28:18,065
To the right,
to the right, to the right.
829
00:28:18,132 --> 00:28:20,100
To the left--
830
00:28:20,167 --> 00:28:21,134
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
831
00:28:21,201 --> 00:28:22,736
- You look stressed out.
832
00:28:22,803 --> 00:28:26,540
- Yeah, I am, because there's
more medication involved
833
00:28:26,607 --> 00:28:29,143
that puts my diabetes at risk.
834
00:28:29,209 --> 00:28:31,111
There's so much
that goes into this.
835
00:28:31,178 --> 00:28:33,747
But when I say
we're talking about
836
00:28:33,814 --> 00:28:36,383
medicine that's going to
mess with my mental health--
837
00:28:36,449 --> 00:28:37,884
- I mean, it's not
necessarily that you're
838
00:28:37,951 --> 00:28:39,720
gonna end up back there.
839
00:28:39,786 --> 00:28:41,054
There's a possibility.
840
00:28:41,121 --> 00:28:42,622
At the end of the day,
like, I wouldn't just
841
00:28:42,689 --> 00:28:45,392
have you go through this
whole thing on your own.
842
00:28:45,458 --> 00:28:48,329
- What if I go so crazy
you will leave me?
843
00:28:48,395 --> 00:28:51,398
What if I just do
and say crazy things?
844
00:28:51,464 --> 00:28:53,333
I mean, Josh literally
couldn't handle it.
845
00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:54,668
He just left.
846
00:28:54,735 --> 00:28:56,270
Like, he was like,
this is too much.
847
00:28:56,337 --> 00:28:59,206
I don't-- I can't be
with someone depressed.
848
00:29:01,708 --> 00:29:05,446
- I ain't going
nowhere, Mackie Boo.
849
00:29:05,513 --> 00:29:08,581
We just got to do our best
to get to where we want to.
850
00:29:08,648 --> 00:29:11,518
- I know that, like,
you're so good at shutting
851
00:29:11,585 --> 00:29:14,755
down any negativity and
just, like, keeping positive.
852
00:29:14,822 --> 00:29:15,989
And I love you for that.
853
00:29:16,056 --> 00:29:17,558
- Yeah, which is
different for you, though.
854
00:29:17,625 --> 00:29:19,894
- Sometimes, though,
you need to let me just let
855
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:21,829
out some negative emotions.
856
00:29:21,895 --> 00:29:26,166
- ♪♪ Write the same
story over again ♪♪
857
00:29:26,233 --> 00:29:27,567
- I love Khesanio.
858
00:29:27,634 --> 00:29:30,571
But anytime I try
to explain my fears,
859
00:29:30,638 --> 00:29:33,740
his response is simply,
let's just be positive.
860
00:29:33,807 --> 00:29:35,542
[laughs] So that's hard.
861
00:29:35,609 --> 00:29:38,245
But Khesanio is my rock.
862
00:29:38,311 --> 00:29:41,315
I think that's the only reason
I'm even willing to do this,
863
00:29:41,382 --> 00:29:45,519
is because I know I do
have a solid partner.
864
00:29:45,586 --> 00:29:48,655
I am going to see an
endocrinologist, a doctor
865
00:29:48,722 --> 00:29:50,758
who specializes in diabetes,
866
00:29:50,825 --> 00:29:53,093
to make sure IVF
is safe for me.
867
00:29:53,159 --> 00:29:58,465
I am definitely scared, but
this is my best shot at having
868
00:29:58,532 --> 00:30:01,368
a baby with Khesanio.
869
00:30:01,434 --> 00:30:02,936
- ♪♪ Take my hand ♪♪
870
00:30:03,003 --> 00:30:04,371
♪♪ Let's move together ♪♪
871
00:30:04,438 --> 00:30:07,674
♪♪ We don't have to
walk alone ♪♪
872
00:30:07,741 --> 00:30:12,446
- Come on, my pocket
full of sunshine.
873
00:30:12,512 --> 00:30:14,515
- Why does it stink in here?
874
00:30:14,582 --> 00:30:15,949
- Today, we're picking
up your sisters
875
00:30:16,016 --> 00:30:18,886
and going to their
gynecologist appointment.
876
00:30:18,952 --> 00:30:20,387
It's a doctor's appointment.
877
00:30:20,454 --> 00:30:22,356
You'll learn more about it
the older you get there,
878
00:30:22,422 --> 00:30:23,456
soon-to-be middle-schooler.
879
00:30:23,523 --> 00:30:25,159
- I already know about it.
880
00:30:25,226 --> 00:30:28,128
[light music]
881
00:30:28,195 --> 00:30:30,730
♪♪ ♪♪
882
00:30:30,797 --> 00:30:31,899
- Hello.
883
00:30:31,966 --> 00:30:34,034
- Hi, baby.
884
00:30:34,101 --> 00:30:35,302
Hi, Aleeah.
885
00:30:35,368 --> 00:30:36,837
- Where are you going?
886
00:30:36,904 --> 00:30:38,405
- We got to get to the
gynecologist appointment.
887
00:30:38,472 --> 00:30:39,840
Are you guys ready for it?
- Yeah.
888
00:30:39,906 --> 00:30:41,341
- OK.
889
00:30:41,408 --> 00:30:42,276
Do you guys want me to
go in there with you?
890
00:30:42,343 --> 00:30:43,944
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
891
00:30:44,011 --> 00:30:46,279
- I'll do my best to bounce
back and forth to each room
892
00:30:46,346 --> 00:30:47,715
since it's your
first appointment.
893
00:30:47,781 --> 00:30:49,649
But the older you get,
the more independent
894
00:30:49,716 --> 00:30:52,753
you'll become when going
to your doctor's appointments.
895
00:30:52,820 --> 00:30:53,720
- How's it gonna be?
896
00:30:53,787 --> 00:30:55,889
- It won't be invasive at all.
897
00:30:55,956 --> 00:30:59,360
Basically, you're just gonna
get established with them.
898
00:30:59,427 --> 00:31:00,927
- All right.
899
00:31:00,994 --> 00:31:02,362
- You guys got this.
900
00:31:02,429 --> 00:31:06,199
- ♪♪ We all get by
on a little love ♪♪
901
00:31:06,266 --> 00:31:10,404
♪♪ ♪♪
902
00:31:10,471 --> 00:31:11,505
- Sit there.
903
00:31:11,572 --> 00:31:12,940
- Addie made you
guys something.
904
00:31:13,007 --> 00:31:14,207
- Oh.
- Careful.
905
00:31:14,274 --> 00:31:15,308
- Is it hot?
- Thank you.
906
00:31:15,375 --> 00:31:16,377
- Yeah.
It's hot chocolate.
907
00:31:16,444 --> 00:31:18,646
- Grab it by the handle.
- Hot.
908
00:31:18,712 --> 00:31:20,014
- So I wanted to check
in on you guys, too.
909
00:31:20,081 --> 00:31:21,047
So was it scary?
910
00:31:21,114 --> 00:31:22,182
- No.
- No?
911
00:31:22,249 --> 00:31:23,317
- Not really.
912
00:31:23,384 --> 00:31:24,518
I mean, going in was kind of--
913
00:31:24,584 --> 00:31:25,786
- Just nerve-racking?
914
00:31:25,853 --> 00:31:26,953
- Yeah.
915
00:31:27,020 --> 00:31:28,288
But once you talk
to them, they don't
916
00:31:28,355 --> 00:31:29,857
make you feel like you're new.
917
00:31:29,923 --> 00:31:31,825
They make you feel like
you've been there for years.
918
00:31:31,892 --> 00:31:34,428
- Was there anything that you
learned at the doctor's office
919
00:31:34,494 --> 00:31:36,297
that isn't taught in school?
920
00:31:36,363 --> 00:31:38,131
- I knew all of it from you.
921
00:31:38,198 --> 00:31:40,201
But the school didn't
teach me anything about it.
922
00:31:40,267 --> 00:31:41,936
- No.
923
00:31:42,002 --> 00:31:44,004
- I don't think that it's
fair that other parents don't
924
00:31:44,070 --> 00:31:45,306
teach their kids this stuff.
925
00:31:45,372 --> 00:31:46,806
- I mean,
there's a lot of girls,
926
00:31:46,873 --> 00:31:48,575
especially at your
school-- and we've had
927
00:31:48,642 --> 00:31:51,278
conversations about it--
that don't have this access.
928
00:31:51,344 --> 00:31:53,681
- I think when
you're in sixth grade
929
00:31:53,747 --> 00:31:55,616
you should know everything.
Like, there should be--
930
00:31:55,683 --> 00:31:57,284
- Really?
- I agree.
931
00:31:57,351 --> 00:31:58,686
- What do you guys
think that we could
932
00:31:58,752 --> 00:32:02,289
do to help change
the access that women
933
00:32:02,356 --> 00:32:04,458
do have in our area, or girls?
934
00:32:04,525 --> 00:32:05,692
- We could change laws.
935
00:32:05,759 --> 00:32:06,960
- Yeah.
936
00:32:07,027 --> 00:32:08,295
They could learn about
it in school more.
937
00:32:08,362 --> 00:32:09,964
- Yeah.
938
00:32:10,030 --> 00:32:11,998
- So we can look up local
state delegates, legislators,
939
00:32:12,065 --> 00:32:15,536
and reach out to them and
voice our concerns and what
940
00:32:15,602 --> 00:32:18,639
we would like to see happen.
941
00:32:18,706 --> 00:32:20,340
If I was you,
Aleeah, I would look up
942
00:32:20,407 --> 00:32:23,710
Charleston, West Virginia,
lawmakers, female lawmakers.
943
00:32:23,777 --> 00:32:25,145
- I mean, I found Kayla Young.
944
00:32:25,211 --> 00:32:26,146
- Yes.
945
00:32:26,212 --> 00:32:27,714
Love her.
946
00:32:27,781 --> 00:32:29,850
If you're serious about
this, send her a message.
947
00:32:29,917 --> 00:32:31,385
Hey, Kayla Young.
948
00:32:31,451 --> 00:32:33,019
Be like, I have some
concerns about, you know,
949
00:32:33,086 --> 00:32:37,891
women's health if you're
willing to help us.
950
00:32:37,958 --> 00:32:38,859
You messaged her?
951
00:32:38,926 --> 00:32:42,529
OK, my future little lawmaker.
952
00:32:42,596 --> 00:32:44,665
Teens will be teens.
953
00:32:44,732 --> 00:32:47,901
And if I would have had
sex education in school,
954
00:32:47,968 --> 00:32:49,770
maybe I wouldn't
have been a teen mom.
955
00:32:49,836 --> 00:32:54,208
There were dreams I had
that didn't happen because I
956
00:32:54,274 --> 00:32:55,809
had an unplanned pregnancy.
957
00:32:55,876 --> 00:32:57,811
And I can teach them
all day, every day.
958
00:32:57,878 --> 00:33:01,348
But that's why I still
think it's important to have
959
00:33:01,415 --> 00:33:05,652
comprehensive sexual
education and a gynecologist
960
00:33:05,719 --> 00:33:08,188
for them to go to.
961
00:33:08,255 --> 00:33:12,292
[gentle music]
962
00:33:12,359 --> 00:33:15,362
- ♪♪ Are you keeping
your door open? ♪♪
963
00:33:15,429 --> 00:33:18,131
- So after the phone call
with my mom's therapist,
964
00:33:18,198 --> 00:33:21,168
they suggested that me
and Brittany and my mom
965
00:33:21,235 --> 00:33:24,771
do a virtual therapy session
over the phone to figure
966
00:33:24,838 --> 00:33:26,440
out what's been going on.
967
00:33:26,506 --> 00:33:27,974
I was shocked, because
all the other phone
968
00:33:28,041 --> 00:33:30,344
calls that I had with my
mom were good phone calls.
969
00:33:30,411 --> 00:33:32,446
Like, she seemed happy.
970
00:33:32,513 --> 00:33:33,546
She seemed alive.
971
00:33:33,613 --> 00:33:34,982
She even sounded different.
972
00:33:35,048 --> 00:33:38,451
So, to me, I took that
as that was all a front.
973
00:33:38,518 --> 00:33:39,520
Hi.
974
00:33:39,587 --> 00:33:40,788
- I bring goodies.
975
00:33:40,855 --> 00:33:41,922
- I wanted to
show you the pool.
976
00:33:41,989 --> 00:33:43,123
- Mm, let me see.
977
00:33:43,189 --> 00:33:44,524
- Let's go outside
so I can show you.
978
00:33:44,591 --> 00:33:48,061
Hey, look at how cute this is.
979
00:33:48,128 --> 00:33:49,129
Is it a vibe?
980
00:33:49,196 --> 00:33:50,898
This is gonna be so fun.
981
00:33:50,964 --> 00:33:52,866
- Me and my Lupus are gonna
have a great time this summer.
982
00:33:52,933 --> 00:33:55,102
- Are you ready for
the session today?
983
00:33:55,169 --> 00:33:57,271
Do you have anything you
may want to say to her?
984
00:33:57,338 --> 00:33:58,305
- Yeah.
985
00:33:58,372 --> 00:34:00,006
I don't like her.
986
00:34:00,073 --> 00:34:01,741
She's a liar and I don't trust
her, 'cause how she pretend she
987
00:34:01,808 --> 00:34:03,144
was doing good
on the phone to you.
988
00:34:03,210 --> 00:34:04,612
- Yeah,
and then she really wasn't.
989
00:34:04,678 --> 00:34:06,013
- Like, I'm not having that.
990
00:34:06,079 --> 00:34:07,648
- I think I just want to,
like, ask her,
991
00:34:07,715 --> 00:34:09,115
like, what's really
going on with you?
992
00:34:09,182 --> 00:34:11,084
Like, what's the tea?
'Cause we're lost here.
993
00:34:11,151 --> 00:34:12,552
- The tea is gonna be lies,
girl.
994
00:34:12,619 --> 00:34:14,221
Why are you even asking?
995
00:34:14,288 --> 00:34:15,456
- Well, she can't lie because
somebody's gonna be there.
996
00:34:15,523 --> 00:34:16,757
- I don't want--
997
00:34:16,823 --> 00:34:18,191
I want my life to
be stress-free.
998
00:34:18,258 --> 00:34:19,526
I'm gonna tell her,
you bring me no peace--
999
00:34:19,593 --> 00:34:20,628
- Mm-hmm.
- --just chaos.
1000
00:34:20,694 --> 00:34:21,862
So stay the [bleep] away.
1001
00:34:21,929 --> 00:34:24,197
[phone rings]
- Oh, [bleep].
1002
00:34:29,469 --> 00:34:30,438
Hello?
1003
00:34:30,504 --> 00:34:31,472
- Hey, Bri.
1004
00:34:31,538 --> 00:34:32,939
- Hi.
1005
00:34:33,006 --> 00:34:35,342
- Are you ready to merge
with me and Brittany?
1006
00:34:35,409 --> 00:34:38,312
- Yeah, she's actually
here with me right now.
1007
00:34:38,379 --> 00:34:45,518
♪♪ ♪♪
1008
00:34:46,987 --> 00:34:49,089
- I don't give a [bleep]
what you say, Roxanne.
1009
00:34:49,156 --> 00:34:51,625
Because at the end
of the day, you
1010
00:34:51,692 --> 00:34:53,794
have never been a good parent.
1011
00:34:53,860 --> 00:34:55,228
You're just selfish, Mom.
1012
00:34:55,295 --> 00:34:57,731
[bleep].
1013
00:34:57,798 --> 00:34:59,332
I'm [bleep] out of here.
1014
00:34:59,399 --> 00:35:01,902
- I told her how I felt.
1015
00:35:01,969 --> 00:35:04,572
[bleep] out of here, bitch.
You're not [bleep] my life.
1016
00:35:04,638 --> 00:35:06,139
They were like,
oh, we're working
1017
00:35:06,206 --> 00:35:07,875
on her breathing exercises
to get into her trauma.
1018
00:35:07,942 --> 00:35:10,111
And I said,
can I say something?
1019
00:35:10,177 --> 00:35:12,346
I don't give a [bleep] about
her breathing exercises
1020
00:35:12,412 --> 00:35:13,747
or her mother[bleep] trauma.
1021
00:35:13,814 --> 00:35:15,216
Don't want you in my
life if you're going
1022
00:35:15,282 --> 00:35:17,351
to keep up the bull[bleep].
1023
00:35:17,417 --> 00:35:18,719
So, yeah, that's how I feel.
1024
00:35:18,786 --> 00:35:19,953
Case closed.
1025
00:35:28,195 --> 00:35:31,131
[somber music]
1026
00:35:31,198 --> 00:35:32,533
♪♪ ♪♪
1027
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,835
- My sister just
went off on my mom.
1028
00:35:34,902 --> 00:35:36,970
And then my mom is saying
all these mean things
1029
00:35:37,037 --> 00:35:40,574
to my sister like [bleep]
you, shut the [bleep] up.
1030
00:35:40,641 --> 00:35:42,876
Like, it was just
a back and forth thing.
1031
00:35:42,943 --> 00:35:46,680
We have, like, this, like,
toxic triangle going on
1032
00:35:46,747 --> 00:35:49,182
and it has to stop.
1033
00:35:50,851 --> 00:35:53,387
- Did you tell
that to your mom?
1034
00:35:53,454 --> 00:35:56,556
[tense music]
1035
00:35:58,659 --> 00:36:01,128
- She understood
because I have kids.
1036
00:36:01,194 --> 00:36:04,030
And they play a big
role in my kids' life,
1037
00:36:04,097 --> 00:36:07,634
both my mom and my sister.
1038
00:36:07,701 --> 00:36:10,170
♪♪ ♪♪
1039
00:36:10,237 --> 00:36:12,172
It's too much to handle.
1040
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:14,808
We had an hour to talk
to my mom and she hung up
1041
00:36:14,875 --> 00:36:16,509
30 minutes in.
1042
00:36:16,576 --> 00:36:18,678
And we didn't even really
get to talk about anything.
1043
00:36:18,745 --> 00:36:20,580
My mom's time there
is very limited.
1044
00:36:20,647 --> 00:36:21,882
And then why am I
the only one that
1045
00:36:21,949 --> 00:36:24,184
is, like, acting
like an [bleep] adult
1046
00:36:24,251 --> 00:36:26,153
in this situation?
1047
00:36:26,219 --> 00:36:29,990
It's unfortunate because
there's kids involved.
1048
00:36:30,057 --> 00:36:33,627
It's literally just me
and the two girls
1049
00:36:33,694 --> 00:36:36,730
and my mom and my sister.
1050
00:36:36,797 --> 00:36:40,300
At the end of the day,
we all have one goal.
1051
00:36:40,367 --> 00:36:42,770
And that's for everybody
to be able to get
1052
00:36:42,837 --> 00:36:45,472
along and come together
as a big, happy family.
1053
00:36:45,539 --> 00:36:47,340
And if we all have
the same goal in mind,
1054
00:36:47,407 --> 00:36:50,777
why are we all not working
together to make that happen?
1055
00:36:50,844 --> 00:36:53,847
♪♪ ♪♪
1056
00:36:57,752 --> 00:37:00,787
[Layup's "Feels Like Family"]
1057
00:37:00,854 --> 00:37:07,261
♪♪ ♪♪
1058
00:37:07,328 --> 00:37:11,598
- Trying to decide
what area will
1059
00:37:11,665 --> 00:37:14,568
be the next declutter area,
but I can't overthink it.
1060
00:37:14,635 --> 00:37:16,169
Because if I
overthink it, I'll get
1061
00:37:16,236 --> 00:37:18,071
overwhelmed and
not want to do it.
1062
00:37:18,138 --> 00:37:19,640
- How did lunch go with Amanda?
1063
00:37:19,707 --> 00:37:20,641
- It was good.
1064
00:37:20,708 --> 00:37:21,709
I don't know.
1065
00:37:21,776 --> 00:37:23,510
She's just really
easy to talk to.
1066
00:37:23,577 --> 00:37:25,779
Like, I just feel like they
are both very much aware
1067
00:37:25,846 --> 00:37:29,650
that you're supposed to
be in recovery for a year
1068
00:37:29,716 --> 00:37:31,752
before you get into
a relationship.
1069
00:37:31,819 --> 00:37:33,787
But, I mean, they're already
like, nine months into it.
1070
00:37:33,854 --> 00:37:35,256
At this point,
I mean, what are you
1071
00:37:35,322 --> 00:37:37,224
gonna do, break up
for a few months
1072
00:37:37,290 --> 00:37:38,959
till they're both out a year?
Like--
1073
00:37:39,025 --> 00:37:40,260
- Let me ask you this.
1074
00:37:40,327 --> 00:37:41,428
Does it make you
nervous now they've
1075
00:37:41,495 --> 00:37:43,097
been together for a while?
1076
00:37:43,163 --> 00:37:47,234
It's almost like, we don't
have to worry about just Ryan--
1077
00:37:47,301 --> 00:37:48,235
- Yeah.
1078
00:37:48,302 --> 00:37:50,971
- --but Amanda too.
1079
00:37:51,037 --> 00:37:52,639
- I mean, yeah.
1080
00:37:52,706 --> 00:37:55,909
- It seems like things are
going really well and headed
1081
00:37:55,976 --> 00:37:57,744
in the right direction,
that it would
1082
00:37:57,811 --> 00:38:00,647
kind of be devastating to
have a setback like that.
1083
00:38:00,714 --> 00:38:02,883
- I would be lying
if I said it didn't--
1084
00:38:02,950 --> 00:38:03,917
- Right.
1085
00:38:03,984 --> 00:38:05,419
- --worry me.
1086
00:38:05,486 --> 00:38:08,021
But, at the same time,
I think it's out of my control.
1087
00:38:08,088 --> 00:38:13,694
So I'm not gonna let the worry
or the anxiety control me.
1088
00:38:13,761 --> 00:38:14,728
- Yeah.
1089
00:38:14,795 --> 00:38:16,797
- You know?
1090
00:38:16,864 --> 00:38:19,966
[light music]
1091
00:38:20,033 --> 00:38:25,239
You know, it's been a very
long road for Ryan, obviously,
1092
00:38:25,305 --> 00:38:26,941
but you know, for everyone.
1093
00:38:27,007 --> 00:38:29,109
- You feel good about
where Bentley's at?
1094
00:38:29,176 --> 00:38:30,411
- Yeah, I do.
1095
00:38:30,478 --> 00:38:32,146
I mean, I'm having
conversations
1096
00:38:32,213 --> 00:38:34,781
with Bentley as like,
you can hope for the best,
1097
00:38:34,848 --> 00:38:37,384
and keep hoping,
and always have hope.
1098
00:38:37,451 --> 00:38:41,422
But it's--
it's a tough road, so--
1099
00:38:41,489 --> 00:38:43,757
From what I see with
Amanda and Ryan,
1100
00:38:43,823 --> 00:38:45,859
they both really care
about each other.
1101
00:38:45,926 --> 00:38:48,896
And with her past
and everything,
1102
00:38:48,962 --> 00:38:53,100
she is a very
positive light for not
1103
00:38:53,166 --> 00:38:55,002
only Ryan, but Bentley too.
1104
00:38:55,069 --> 00:38:57,638
But also,
if this doesn't work out,
1105
00:38:57,705 --> 00:38:59,039
how will that affect
Ryan's sobriety?
1106
00:39:02,709 --> 00:39:07,547
- ♪♪ Make 'em do
a double take ♪♪
1107
00:39:07,614 --> 00:39:09,449
♪♪ Show 'em
what your mama made ♪♪
1108
00:39:09,516 --> 00:39:12,619
♪♪ ♪♪
1109
00:39:12,686 --> 00:39:15,922
♪♪ Let 'em know your name ♪♪
1110
00:39:15,989 --> 00:39:17,157
- [laughs]
1111
00:39:17,224 --> 00:39:19,326
- I can't wait
to get these heels off.
1112
00:39:19,392 --> 00:39:20,828
- Pain is beauty, kid.
1113
00:39:20,894 --> 00:39:22,329
- Did you have fun?
- It was great.
1114
00:39:22,396 --> 00:39:23,931
I had a blast.
- Did you?
1115
00:39:23,998 --> 00:39:25,165
- Not a lot of the dad's
movin' and groovin', though.
1116
00:39:25,232 --> 00:39:26,132
I'll tell you that.
1117
00:39:28,969 --> 00:39:30,838
- I'm getting old.
I'm getting old.
1118
00:39:30,905 --> 00:39:31,972
That's how I know
I'm getting old.
1119
00:39:32,039 --> 00:39:33,640
Raging with kids,
I'm getting tired.
1120
00:39:33,707 --> 00:39:35,743
- Baltierras tearing
up the dance floor.
1121
00:39:35,810 --> 00:39:37,244
- Oh, yeah.
1122
00:39:37,311 --> 00:39:39,080
Our area, everyone-- I mean,
they were like, get away.
1123
00:39:39,146 --> 00:39:41,881
That was me whipping--
spinning and whipping around.
1124
00:39:41,948 --> 00:39:44,551
[laughter]
1125
00:39:44,617 --> 00:39:46,186
- Yeah, a couple of
girls looked at us like--
1126
00:39:46,253 --> 00:39:47,754
[laughter]
1127
00:39:48,655 --> 00:39:51,024
I'm stuffed and I'm tired.
1128
00:39:51,091 --> 00:39:52,525
- I told her, I was like--
1129
00:39:52,592 --> 00:39:53,693
- And your feet were
killing you, weren't they?
1130
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:54,928
- Oh, yeah.
She kept-- yeah.
1131
00:39:54,995 --> 00:39:57,931
- Welcome to heels.
1132
00:39:57,998 --> 00:39:59,833
- I think you're an awesome,
kid.
1133
00:39:59,900 --> 00:40:01,468
- I think you're an awesome--
- You're so smart.
1134
00:40:01,535 --> 00:40:02,603
You're wise.
1135
00:40:02,669 --> 00:40:04,671
You think deep about things.
1136
00:40:04,738 --> 00:40:06,706
- Well, I think you're
an amazing father.
1137
00:40:06,773 --> 00:40:08,008
I love you very much.
1138
00:40:08,075 --> 00:40:10,477
And you always
answer my questions
1139
00:40:10,544 --> 00:40:12,346
when I get very curious.
1140
00:40:12,413 --> 00:40:14,448
I'm very grateful for you
taking me to the dance.
1141
00:40:14,515 --> 00:40:18,785
- Oh, I loved it.
1142
00:40:18,852 --> 00:40:21,588
- ♪♪ I'm taking it
as it comes ♪♪
1143
00:40:21,655 --> 00:40:23,156
♪♪ I'm splashing down ♪♪
1144
00:40:23,223 --> 00:40:24,458
♪♪ It's all so wrong ♪♪
1145
00:40:24,525 --> 00:40:27,661
♪♪ It's me I'll measure ♪♪
1146
00:40:27,727 --> 00:40:30,531
♪♪ But the glory comes
after the fight ♪♪
1147
00:40:30,598 --> 00:40:33,233
♪♪ 'Cause we face it together ♪♪
1148
00:40:33,300 --> 00:40:36,036
♪♪ And what you
feel is home now ♪♪
1149
00:40:36,103 --> 00:40:42,443
♪♪ You got to take
it as it comes ♪♪
1150
00:40:42,510 --> 00:40:45,545
♪♪ I'm taking it as it comes ♪♪
1151
00:40:45,612 --> 00:40:47,948
♪♪ ♪♪
1152
00:40:48,015 --> 00:40:53,887
♪♪ I'm taking it as it comes ♪♪
1153
00:40:53,954 --> 00:40:56,623
♪♪ I'm taking it
as it comes ♪♪
1154
00:41:04,631 --> 00:41:06,033
- Are you gonna show your
sister what they do
1155
00:41:06,100 --> 00:41:09,136
with a tampon?
1156
00:41:09,203 --> 00:41:11,672
- You might not be able to do
what you want to do.
1157
00:41:11,739 --> 00:41:14,408
- I just feel like it's like
a mother-son conversation.
1158
00:41:14,475 --> 00:41:16,610
- You think that's affecting
your guys', like, relationship?
1159
00:41:16,677 --> 00:41:18,079
- 100%.
1160
00:41:18,145 --> 00:41:22,616
- All my time, money has been
poured into this gym.
1161
00:41:22,682 --> 00:41:24,685
- I went to look at rings
the other day,
1162
00:41:24,752 --> 00:41:26,920
but I want to ask you first
if I can marry her.
1163
00:41:26,987 --> 00:41:29,689
[gentle music]
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