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- ♪♪ MTV ♪♪
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- Previously on
"Teen Mom: The Next Chapter"...
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- First time on a guy's trip.
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You made this thing
happen, big dawg.
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It was at this other table
with a dad
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and another little boy.
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So my mom goes,
is this your son?
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And the dad looked at her crazy
and was like, yeah, what's up?
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- Oh, Lord.
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- It's like these babies
are so young,
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and we're already dealing
with this stupid [bleep].
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- Hi, how are you?
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- I'm doing good.
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I'm actually
in Vegas right now.
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- No way.
- Yeah.
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I had a business meeting
with a cannabis company.
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I think my history
is going to have
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a lot to do with this brand.
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I have so many ideas.
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- Yeah, an actual partnership.
- Yeah.
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- Our life is extremely hectic
with all three kids
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having ball games and
practices, and it's hard
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for us to keep up
with everything.
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It's also extremely hard
for me and Taylor
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to find time for
just the two of us.
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- I'm calling from school
with the results
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of Kloie's assessment.
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I wanted to share
the good news.
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Kloie passed
with flying colors.
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- Awesome.
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Sean can go back to work.
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I do two jobs, so I'm like,
I bring in the bacon.
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- Watching you do all that
stuff is helping me find
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drive to pursue a career now.
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- Jeremy claimed that
Addie was at home
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seven hours by herself,
while I was at work,
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which is false.
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The cops came to the restaurant
and recommended that I file
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a protection order on Jeremy.
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So for the next 180 days,
I don't have to have
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any contact with Jeremy.
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What happened and what you
were dealt with
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when you saw the cops,
it wasn't ideal.
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Were you angry with me?
- Yeah.
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[upbeat rock music]
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♪♪ ♪♪
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[upbeat pop music]
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♪♪ ♪♪
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- Hey, girls. I'm so happy.
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Sean had such a good time
on the guys trip.
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I know he really,
really needed it.
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We've been homeschooling Kloie
for the last three months.
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Majority him, because my
work schedule has been hectic,
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but luckily, today Kloie
is starting her first day
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at her new private school,
and we cannot be more excited.
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What are we going to do
on our first day of school?
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- And what else?
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- Yeah. That's almost
the most important,
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but have fun.
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Does she not look
so stinking cute?
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- What do you think's going
to be your favorite part
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about your first day?
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- Your recess?
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- I said that.
- Oh.
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She gets two recesses.
- Oh, yeah.
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- And a snack time.
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- The second recess
specifically.
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OK.
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About to pull up
and right on time.
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- We here.
We here.
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- Are you excited?
- Are we there yet?
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Are we there yet?
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- You're nervous?
It's OK.
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- It's OK.
- It's OK to be nervous.
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It's because it's
your first day.
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- Yeah.
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- ♪♪ This whole world's made
of possibilities ♪♪
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- ♪♪ Let's get to work ♪♪
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♪♪ I'm gonna win it ♪♪
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♪♪ Let's get to work ♪♪
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- Hi, Chey!
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- Well, you look cute.
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- Hi.
[laughter]
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- You look cute too in your--
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- My woven coat.
- Hello.
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- Hi. Good. How are you?
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I'll do a regular margarita.
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- Can we have two?
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Zach was out of town.
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He went on a dad's trip
with the dads and Cory.
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- Thank you.
- Thank you.
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The last day they were there,
I took the kids
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to an indoor play thing,
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and then all of a sudden,
I see Ryder come down.
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Ryder is sobbing.
- Wow.
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- So it gets explained
that basically the boy
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called Ryder the n-word.
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- What?
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- And I'm like oh [bleep],
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and Ryder is,
like, distraught.
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- That is so crazy.
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- And I was so upset.
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- My heart just breaks because
that's probably one of her--
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- That's her first--
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- First encounter of being
on the side
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of getting a racist slur.
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- I was just so upset,
and I think
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I was more upset because Ryder
was looking at me like,
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you're not about
to do anything?
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Even though I grew up
in a very pro-Black home,
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I feel like when the
bold [bleep] happened,
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I got stuck.
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I didn't know how
to even react.
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I want to make sure
I'm doing the best I can
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as her mom to educate myself
on how to educate her
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the proper way.
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And I found an organization.
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So one thing I
was thinking about was
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asking Cory if he would be
open to all of us doing a call.
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How do we have these
conversations with our kids
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that are still so young?
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And I want us all
four to do it--
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- Together, so you're
all the same page.
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- Yes, so we're on
the same page.
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We all have different
backgrounds.
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Both my parents are Black,
but Zach and Cory,
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their moms are both white,
and their dads are Black.
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Taylor's parents are white.
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Everyone has a different
situation and scenario.
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We were all taught different
things, but at the end of day,
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we have one common denominator.
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We have a Black child.
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I hope that they're receptive.
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I don't know.
- OK, wait.
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You really think they
won't be receptive?
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- I think that they will be,
but I just think
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that it is a touchy subject.
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I think that it does sometimes
make people uncomfortable.
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They're going to have to
realize that they're going
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to have to deal with
it in different ways
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in their household than mine,
but they're still
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going to have to deal with it.
- Yeah.
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- ♪♪ When times are tough,
I'll walk ahead ♪♪
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♪♪ And brave the storm,
skies open ♪♪
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- Hi, baby.
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- ♪♪ I'm not hiding anymore ♪♪
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- What? What is it?
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- Let me see.
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I can't really see it.
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- Baby, it's a pimple.
We all get pimples.
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It's fine.
It's a zit.
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- They said I could go
with them to their dad's
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for, like, a day.
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- We'll see, baby.
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[mellow music]
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[knocking at door]
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[dog barking]
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- Hello.
- Hi.
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You just walk in?
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You don't--I don't even let
me open the door for you?
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- I knocked.
You're just too slow.
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I really did stop by here
to kind of check in on you.
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Are they changing anything as
far as the custody stuff goes
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with Jeremy for Addie?
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- We're doing all pass-offs
between me and Jeremy's mom.
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- And is that every weekend?
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- Every other weekend.
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And she goes to Jeremy's
when he's in town,
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which he's not
really ever in town
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because he moved
to Pennsylvania.
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Ever since the situation
with Jeremy happened,
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Addie has been struggling.
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At first, she was angry.
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She was blaming me,
and then she was sad.
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- Who knows what she's endured
or heard not around you?
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- I probably would have
never went out of my way
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to make sure she's seen
her grandparents if I'd known
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that stuff was
being said that she
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told me it was being said.
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That I'm being called
a [bleep], a bitch.
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Another thing,
Addie has been asking
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to go to Corey's house
with her sisters.
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When they leave, she becomes an
only child, and she gets bored,
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but there's more to it.
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I think she sees the girl--
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Ali and Leah go
there consistently.
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He's very present.
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We'll go to events,
and Corey's there.
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The last time Jeremy was at an
event for Addie, third grade.
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She's in fifth grade now.
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You know how that
feels to a kid?
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- Yeah.
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It's a lot of
different emotions.
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Does my dad love me?
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Why is my dad not?
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Why is my dad this?
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It's all these things
going on in her little mind
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that she doesn't even
know how to process.
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- I personally don't think
it's a great time right now,
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given the circumstances
with her dad.
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I think that counseling
would be beneficial for her
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to teach Addie
healthy coping mechanisms.
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- The stuff that Addie
is going through,
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Addie needs to go through it.
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She needs to face
the sadness and the anger
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in order to get
in a good place.
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♪♪ ♪♪
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[upbeat music]
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- ♪♪ Just cut it ♪♪
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♪♪ It's effortless ♪♪
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♪♪ Feels good to be me ♪♪
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- ♪♪ You smell like a monkey ♪♪
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♪♪ Look like one too ♪♪
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- Hi, ladies. All right.
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So wrestling season
is in full swing,
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and I've been helping coach
Jade and Maverick in wrestling,
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and I know they're going
to do great
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at their upcoming
state tournament.
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- ♪♪ Are you ready? ♪♪
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♪♪ Come on ♪♪
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♪♪ I'm on fire ♪♪
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- Oh, this is exciting now.
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This is the state tournament.
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This is what they
work all year for.
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- I know.
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[phone dings]
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- What?
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- Just got a
message offering me
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the head coaching job
for girls' wrestling
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at the high school.
- Really?
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- Mm-hmm.
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I kind of want to
jump up and down.
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[chuckles]
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[laughter]
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- But you'd be the first
girls' high school
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coach at that school.
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- I feel just, like, honored
to be thought of, though.
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- Yeah, absolutely.
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- And I'm just pumped
that another high school
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is getting a girls team because
that's always been my thing.
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Like, living in a wrestling
room but always being told
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you're a girl,
and you can't wrestle.
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- Can't wrestle, yeah.
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- So I just love that--
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it makes me really excited
for, like, all girls,
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but like our daughter because
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no one is ever going to tell
her girls can't wrestle.
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I need to come off the
adrenaline and the excitement
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to, like, realistically
think about it.
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[sighs] It's not just
me that it affects.
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It would affect you.
- Yeah.
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- It would affect our kids.
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It would affect
a lot of people,
255
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so I can't just do it
because I want to do it.
256
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- ♪♪ We're gonna burn
like fire, here we go ♪♪
257
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♪♪ Turning that silver
into gold ♪♪
258
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- I'm still in Vegas, and
I'm really digging the vibe.
259
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I can definitely see
myself living here.
260
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- Oh, [bleep].
261
00:10:30,597 --> 00:10:32,065
- [laughs]
262
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I do not know how David
would take the news or react,
263
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and I'm scared of the
actions and repercussions
264
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that he might do.
265
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So I have a court date
next week
266
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to try and get a restraining
order for me and the kids.
267
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- Best way to see the city,
though.
268
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Are you excited
to come to Vegas?
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- Definitely.
- Yeah?
270
00:10:53,787 --> 00:10:55,756
- Yeah, I definitely want
to take the kids to do this.
271
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- ♪♪ Coming in hot ♪♪
272
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♪♪ Get ready ♪♪
273
00:11:01,562 --> 00:11:04,231
♪♪ We're coming in hot ♪♪
274
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♪♪ It's gonna get heavy ♪♪
275
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♪♪ We're coming in hot ♪♪
276
00:11:10,670 --> 00:11:12,573
- I have a couple of
houses for you to see.
277
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Best neighborhood
in Las Vegas due
278
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to its safety, good schools.
279
00:11:16,877 --> 00:11:19,179
- Yeah. This will be Jace's
fourth high school
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that he started this year.
281
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- Wow.
- Yeah.
282
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I got to keep an eye
on who he's with.
283
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I don't want him getting in
any trouble here, you know?
284
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[dramatic hip-hop music]
285
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♪♪ ♪♪
286
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- It's the first
time that you've
287
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ever had Jace where you're
able to really parent him.
288
00:11:40,034 --> 00:11:41,802
- Yeah, without anyone--
- Without--
289
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- Without my mom.
Without my mom.
290
00:11:43,804 --> 00:11:45,505
- Without anybody. Without CPS.
291
00:11:45,572 --> 00:11:47,340
- I know. I know.
- Without courts.
292
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- Jace feels like he's not
walking on eggshells anymore,
293
00:11:50,110 --> 00:11:51,712
and I feel like he's more
comfortable in the house
294
00:11:51,778 --> 00:11:53,547
because David's already
moved to the boat.
295
00:11:53,614 --> 00:11:56,283
- Yeah. So there's a lot
riding on this move.
296
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- Yeah.
297
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I'm really excited to
look at these houses.
298
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♪♪ ♪♪
299
00:12:05,693 --> 00:12:06,927
- Hey.
How's it going?
300
00:12:06,994 --> 00:12:08,595
- Guillermo.
- Nice to meet you.
301
00:12:08,662 --> 00:12:09,864
- Good to meet you.
- Hey, I'm Jenelle.
302
00:12:09,930 --> 00:12:11,164
- Hey, Jenelle.
- Nice to meet you.
303
00:12:11,231 --> 00:12:13,299
- Nice to meet you.
- Come on in.
304
00:12:13,366 --> 00:12:15,102
Do you see yourself staying
in Vegas long or--
305
00:12:15,169 --> 00:12:16,971
- Yeah, but I want
to give it, like,
306
00:12:17,037 --> 00:12:21,308
one to two years of renting,
so I get familiar
307
00:12:21,375 --> 00:12:23,277
with what I want permanently.
308
00:12:23,343 --> 00:12:25,011
- So this is a single story.
309
00:12:25,078 --> 00:12:28,915
- I prefer two story, so
everyone has their own space.
310
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- So we'll go ahead and take
a look at another property.
311
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[upbeat music]
312
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- ♪♪ Let's have some fun ♪♪
313
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- It is a four bedroom,
four bath.
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- I love it.
315
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I love the openness of it.
316
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I think my kids will
have enough space.
317
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I love the neighborhood.
318
00:12:41,895 --> 00:12:43,297
- You may have to
jump on it right away.
319
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This property in particular,
I can tell it's probably
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going to be gone soon, so--
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- OK.
- OK?
322
00:12:48,602 --> 00:12:50,037
- I'm going to think about
it and get back to you.
323
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- OK.
324
00:12:57,344 --> 00:12:59,046
- ♪♪ Look at the stars
shining for you ♪♪
325
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♪♪ For you, for you ♪♪
326
00:13:00,447 --> 00:13:02,582
♪♪ Slip in to bed,
make it smooth ♪♪
327
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♪♪ ♪♪
328
00:13:04,317 --> 00:13:06,586
[doorbell chimes]
329
00:13:08,054 --> 00:13:10,057
- Hey, slow down.
- Knock, knock.
330
00:13:10,124 --> 00:13:12,960
- Who is it?
- What's up, Ace?
331
00:13:13,026 --> 00:13:14,562
- It's Cory.
- Cory.
332
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- Good job, Ace.
- What's up, Chey.
333
00:13:17,030 --> 00:13:18,532
- Hi.
- Hi. Hi. Hi.
334
00:13:18,599 --> 00:13:21,134
I like how these brown pants
look with this green chair.
335
00:13:21,201 --> 00:13:22,469
- Bye.
- Bye.
336
00:13:22,536 --> 00:13:24,037
How was the guy's trip?
337
00:13:24,104 --> 00:13:27,307
- Guy's trip was perfect,
until I got that phone call
338
00:13:27,374 --> 00:13:29,677
from you talking about Ryder.
339
00:13:29,744 --> 00:13:32,179
It's hard because
we can't control
340
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the ignorance of other people.
- Right.
341
00:13:34,348 --> 00:13:36,416
- Daddy growing up
didn't respond well
342
00:13:36,483 --> 00:13:38,085
to when I was called that.
343
00:13:38,151 --> 00:13:39,519
You know what I mean?
344
00:13:39,586 --> 00:13:42,656
- But I remember growing up,
multiple conversations
345
00:13:42,723 --> 00:13:46,326
with my parents of them
talking about race.
346
00:13:46,393 --> 00:13:48,728
- And I think you're
lucky that you were raised
347
00:13:48,795 --> 00:13:50,931
in a family that
provided that for you
348
00:13:50,998 --> 00:13:53,767
and told you, hey, this is
what it's like to be Black.
349
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This is what it's like
growing up being Black.
350
00:13:56,003 --> 00:13:57,270
- Yeah. I was going to ask you
351
00:13:57,337 --> 00:13:59,373
what it was in your house.
352
00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:01,074
- In my house it
wasn't like that.
353
00:14:01,141 --> 00:14:02,576
I was raised by
my white mother.
354
00:14:02,642 --> 00:14:04,278
We never talked about color.
355
00:14:04,345 --> 00:14:06,313
Even when these
situations would arise
356
00:14:06,379 --> 00:14:08,415
and like I'd be
getting racist phone calls
357
00:14:08,481 --> 00:14:09,883
and things like that--
358
00:14:09,950 --> 00:14:12,419
- Would you tell your mom?
- Not really.
359
00:14:12,486 --> 00:14:13,888
I don't know.
360
00:14:13,954 --> 00:14:15,422
I would just keep it all in.
361
00:14:15,489 --> 00:14:17,424
- I couldn't imagine the
things that I've gone through
362
00:14:17,491 --> 00:14:19,360
and come home, and then
I'm just sitting there,
363
00:14:19,426 --> 00:14:22,263
and it's like no one's
talking about it.
364
00:14:22,329 --> 00:14:24,364
Or I don't have a
place to talk about it
365
00:14:24,431 --> 00:14:27,701
and feel like I'm
heard or understood.
366
00:14:27,768 --> 00:14:30,337
It's like you just had to
deal with that by yourself.
367
00:14:30,404 --> 00:14:32,706
- How can I tell
my white mother,
368
00:14:32,773 --> 00:14:35,275
tell me what it's like
to be Black?
369
00:14:35,342 --> 00:14:37,377
That's putting her
in a weird situation,
370
00:14:37,444 --> 00:14:39,279
where my dad should have had
that talk with me,
371
00:14:39,346 --> 00:14:41,448
but he wasn't around
when I was a kid.
372
00:14:41,515 --> 00:14:44,117
- Of course, we come from
very different backgrounds,
373
00:14:44,184 --> 00:14:48,522
and a part of raising a
child is figuring out, OK,
374
00:14:48,589 --> 00:14:50,157
what are the good things
that we want
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00:14:50,224 --> 00:14:52,026
to take from our parents,
or what are things that we want
376
00:14:52,092 --> 00:14:55,362
to do differently that maybe
our parents didn't do for us?
377
00:14:55,429 --> 00:14:58,299
And how do we pass
that on to Ryder?
378
00:14:58,365 --> 00:15:01,468
So Color of Change,
they educate other people
379
00:15:01,534 --> 00:15:03,036
on how to educate themselves
on how to deal
380
00:15:03,103 --> 00:15:05,805
with like racial differences
or how to talk to kids
381
00:15:05,872 --> 00:15:07,641
and just make sure
we're doing everything
382
00:15:07,708 --> 00:15:10,611
as parents to educate
ourselves on how
383
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to speak properly to our kids.
384
00:15:12,746 --> 00:15:13,947
- Yeah.
385
00:15:14,014 --> 00:15:16,683
- Would you guys be
open to doing that?
386
00:15:16,750 --> 00:15:18,085
- Yeah.
387
00:15:18,152 --> 00:15:20,654
It's just something to
add to our toolbox, right?
388
00:15:20,721 --> 00:15:22,389
It's getting help
from a professional.
389
00:15:22,456 --> 00:15:24,892
How do we explain
it to a six-year-old
390
00:15:24,959 --> 00:15:27,328
and break it down in terms
that she understands?
391
00:15:27,394 --> 00:15:28,562
- And we're going
to have to deal
392
00:15:28,628 --> 00:15:29,897
with this in different ways.
393
00:15:29,963 --> 00:15:31,165
I mean, at the end of
the day, I'm Black.
394
00:15:31,232 --> 00:15:32,499
Taylor is white.
395
00:15:32,566 --> 00:15:34,034
- I told Taylor, and
she was really upset
396
00:15:34,101 --> 00:15:35,969
and wants to learn
however she can help.
397
00:15:36,036 --> 00:15:38,805
- We need to all educate
ourselves, so I want Taylor--
398
00:15:38,872 --> 00:15:40,507
I want Zach to
do the call also.
399
00:15:40,574 --> 00:15:42,209
- Sounds good.
- Good.
400
00:15:42,276 --> 00:15:43,710
- Yeah.
401
00:15:45,212 --> 00:15:48,315
- ♪♪ This is gonna be good ♪♪
402
00:15:48,382 --> 00:15:49,816
♪♪ This is gonna be good ♪♪
403
00:15:49,883 --> 00:15:52,719
- That house on Lexington
is currently pending.
404
00:15:52,786 --> 00:15:55,055
Did you see any other
houses you want me
405
00:15:55,122 --> 00:15:56,323
to look up some information on?
406
00:15:56,390 --> 00:15:57,892
Question mark.
407
00:15:57,958 --> 00:15:59,993
Kloie is at her
first day of school,
408
00:16:00,060 --> 00:16:03,030
and I've been a nervous
wreck thinking about her,
409
00:16:03,096 --> 00:16:06,466
but I've been trying to
keep myself busy with work.
410
00:16:06,533 --> 00:16:08,768
Luckily, today, me
and Sean are going to go
411
00:16:08,835 --> 00:16:10,737
out and have lunch together.
412
00:16:10,804 --> 00:16:12,205
So it's going to
be nice to just have
413
00:16:12,272 --> 00:16:13,541
some time for me and him.
414
00:16:13,607 --> 00:16:16,477
Oh, thank you, my good man.
415
00:16:16,543 --> 00:16:18,745
Beer cheese and pretzels?
416
00:16:18,812 --> 00:16:20,347
- Sure.
417
00:16:20,414 --> 00:16:23,216
Well, I'm definitely happy that
Kloie is in this new school
418
00:16:23,283 --> 00:16:26,019
because I was worried about
her being scared to go back
419
00:16:26,086 --> 00:16:28,088
to school and stuff like that.
- Yeah.
420
00:16:28,155 --> 00:16:30,690
- She was not thrilled
with that last school,
421
00:16:30,757 --> 00:16:32,960
and homeschooling
was very stressful.
422
00:16:33,027 --> 00:16:34,828
It's not for the
weak hearted at all.
423
00:16:34,895 --> 00:16:38,198
Now I'm going to start,
you know, looking for a new job
424
00:16:38,265 --> 00:16:39,833
and a career path.
425
00:16:39,900 --> 00:16:42,269
- Sean has always struggled
figuring out what
426
00:16:42,336 --> 00:16:44,238
he wants to do for a career.
427
00:16:44,305 --> 00:16:45,872
What's going on with the job?
428
00:16:45,939 --> 00:16:47,508
I thought you said you
put in your two weeks,
429
00:16:47,575 --> 00:16:49,609
and then you just
never went back.
430
00:16:49,676 --> 00:16:51,245
- I'm doing all
of this for you.
431
00:16:51,312 --> 00:16:52,613
- Oh, yeah.
432
00:16:52,679 --> 00:16:54,181
- Got a job interview
on Thursday--
433
00:16:54,248 --> 00:16:56,650
spraying people's yards
with mosquito repellent.
434
00:16:56,717 --> 00:16:59,486
I don't mind doing
general labor.
435
00:16:59,553 --> 00:17:01,454
Just kind of going
with the flow right now.
436
00:17:01,521 --> 00:17:03,590
- But now that we're married,
I want him to have
437
00:17:03,657 --> 00:17:05,559
a job that he can be proud of.
438
00:17:05,626 --> 00:17:07,460
I think you should
think about doing
439
00:17:07,527 --> 00:17:10,263
trades or schooling,
like I did real estate--
440
00:17:10,330 --> 00:17:12,332
like even home inspection.
441
00:17:12,399 --> 00:17:16,470
Since you already have all that
experience in construction,
442
00:17:16,537 --> 00:17:18,472
I feel like it's
an easy transition.
443
00:17:18,538 --> 00:17:20,207
- This actually sounds
like a good idea.
444
00:17:20,274 --> 00:17:21,475
- Yeah.
445
00:17:21,542 --> 00:17:23,277
So you do electrical,
like roof--
446
00:17:23,343 --> 00:17:25,279
it's basically like you do
a little bit of everything
447
00:17:25,345 --> 00:17:26,781
that you're checking.
448
00:17:26,847 --> 00:17:29,617
I feel like that would be
something that would be easy.
449
00:17:29,683 --> 00:17:30,951
You could be your own boss.
- Yeah.
450
00:17:31,018 --> 00:17:33,053
That sounds like
a good idea, though.
451
00:17:33,120 --> 00:17:34,521
Thank you.
452
00:17:34,587 --> 00:17:36,223
- If you can have
self-discipline and be able
453
00:17:36,290 --> 00:17:38,826
to push yourself to grow,
that's the big thing that
454
00:17:38,892 --> 00:17:42,329
you have to have is just
major self-discipline.
455
00:17:42,396 --> 00:17:44,665
- So I think when
we get home tonight,
456
00:17:44,731 --> 00:17:48,201
I'll start doing some research,
see what kind of classes
457
00:17:48,268 --> 00:17:50,404
are available out there
and get the ball rolling
458
00:17:50,471 --> 00:17:53,740
with the home inspector.
- Yeah.
459
00:17:53,807 --> 00:17:57,544
I think that'd be dope, and we
could be a little dream team.
460
00:17:57,611 --> 00:17:59,513
- Perfect.
461
00:17:59,579 --> 00:18:02,316
[acoustic music]
462
00:18:02,383 --> 00:18:05,218
- ♪♪ Let us dream again ♪♪
463
00:18:05,285 --> 00:18:07,320
♪♪ Doesn't have to end ♪♪
464
00:18:07,387 --> 00:18:08,789
♪♪ We leave it all behind ♪♪
465
00:18:08,855 --> 00:18:11,591
- How's school?
- Good. Good.
466
00:18:11,658 --> 00:18:14,161
- If you guys want A1,
I'll put it on the table.
467
00:18:14,227 --> 00:18:16,163
You're welcome.
468
00:18:16,229 --> 00:18:19,700
- Addie has been asking
if she can come up
469
00:18:19,767 --> 00:18:21,668
to the house sometimes.
470
00:18:21,735 --> 00:18:24,238
- Yeah. That's something--
we can look at it.
471
00:18:24,304 --> 00:18:28,642
We just gotta make sure, like,
all parties are in favor.
472
00:18:28,709 --> 00:18:30,911
- When we're not there,
it's just her and my mom.
473
00:18:30,977 --> 00:18:32,646
My mom takes her,
does a bunch of stuff.
474
00:18:32,713 --> 00:18:35,015
But a mom can only
be one person.
475
00:18:35,082 --> 00:18:37,184
And I think she
looks up to how close
476
00:18:37,251 --> 00:18:39,319
me and Allie are with our dad.
477
00:18:39,386 --> 00:18:40,955
- Yeah. That's something that
478
00:18:41,021 --> 00:18:42,923
I've strived to do since
y'all was born.
479
00:18:42,989 --> 00:18:45,025
Even though y'all came
early in my life,
480
00:18:45,091 --> 00:18:47,394
it was like I knew what
I had to do.
481
00:18:47,461 --> 00:18:49,996
So I made it a priority.
482
00:18:50,063 --> 00:18:51,865
- She just wants
a father figure.
483
00:18:51,932 --> 00:18:53,067
- Right.
484
00:18:53,133 --> 00:18:55,002
- And I don't know
how to help her,
485
00:18:55,069 --> 00:18:56,871
but I've always had my
dad, so I don't know.
486
00:18:56,937 --> 00:18:59,073
- So the best thing
to do, I think,
487
00:18:59,139 --> 00:19:04,678
to help her would be just to,
like, let her talk about it.
488
00:19:04,745 --> 00:19:06,280
Just listen.
489
00:19:06,346 --> 00:19:08,182
Mainly listen to her.
490
00:19:08,249 --> 00:19:14,888
- ♪♪ Darlin', I know
that you're waiting ♪♪
491
00:19:14,955 --> 00:19:20,694
♪♪ And lately,
I've been waiting here too ♪♪
492
00:19:20,761 --> 00:19:23,197
♪♪ Maybe ♪♪
493
00:19:23,263 --> 00:19:24,598
- What is that?
494
00:19:24,665 --> 00:19:26,934
- Jelly.
- Ooh.
495
00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:28,468
So how you been?
- Good.
496
00:19:28,535 --> 00:19:30,070
- Good.
497
00:19:30,136 --> 00:19:32,840
I know you keep asking to go
to your sister's dad's house.
498
00:19:32,906 --> 00:19:34,842
Why do you want to go?
499
00:19:34,908 --> 00:19:37,278
- I just feel like I've always
wanted to see Sissy's at,
500
00:19:37,344 --> 00:19:39,813
like, their dad's and
like, what they do there
501
00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:41,615
because they always
come back having
502
00:19:41,681 --> 00:19:43,017
fun stories and stuff.
503
00:19:43,084 --> 00:19:45,452
- Well, it's probably not
going to happen right now,
504
00:19:45,519 --> 00:19:46,987
but I'm sure it's
something that we
505
00:19:47,054 --> 00:19:49,757
can explore in the future.
You know?
506
00:19:49,823 --> 00:19:52,325
- Yeah.
- Are you open to feedback?
507
00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:54,895
- Yeah.
508
00:19:54,962 --> 00:19:58,865
- You're very expressive,
and bubbly,
509
00:19:58,932 --> 00:20:01,602
the go-to comedian
in this family.
510
00:20:01,668 --> 00:20:04,638
And sometimes I
think when we exude
511
00:20:04,705 --> 00:20:08,342
those personalities,
we oftentimes
512
00:20:08,408 --> 00:20:11,278
suppress big emotions.
513
00:20:11,345 --> 00:20:13,214
Something that I do--
and I think it's something
514
00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:15,315
that you might like--
is counseling.
515
00:20:15,382 --> 00:20:17,184
- What do you do at counseling?
516
00:20:17,250 --> 00:20:21,555
- You can openly express the
good, the bad, the in-between.
517
00:20:21,622 --> 00:20:24,325
It opens the door
for you to explore
518
00:20:24,391 --> 00:20:26,794
those emotions that
sometimes we want to keep
519
00:20:26,860 --> 00:20:29,062
under laughter and jokes.
520
00:20:29,129 --> 00:20:33,734
As your mom, I think it would
100% be in your best interest
521
00:20:33,801 --> 00:20:36,403
to be able to express
even the stuff that's
522
00:20:36,470 --> 00:20:39,573
not so great to talk
about to someone
523
00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:42,476
that is a neutral party.
524
00:20:42,543 --> 00:20:43,844
- Yeah, I'm open to it.
525
00:20:43,911 --> 00:20:45,813
I'd like to go.
- You would?
526
00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:48,114
- Yeah.
- Okay.
527
00:20:48,181 --> 00:20:50,918
I took in to consideration
Addie wanting
528
00:20:50,984 --> 00:20:54,388
to go to Corey's house,
and I just don't think that
529
00:20:54,454 --> 00:20:56,156
it's a great idea right now.
530
00:20:56,222 --> 00:20:58,959
And I don't want any
more confusion for Addie.
531
00:20:59,026 --> 00:21:01,362
I don't want her to see
Allie and Leah's relationship
532
00:21:01,428 --> 00:21:05,899
with their dad and
become upset with that,
533
00:21:05,966 --> 00:21:10,003
so I just think that it's best
we kind of work through
534
00:21:10,070 --> 00:21:12,639
what we're going through
together right now.
535
00:21:12,706 --> 00:21:15,142
She can talk to me, but it's
hard to talk to a parent
536
00:21:15,209 --> 00:21:17,011
when they're also arguing
with the other parent,
537
00:21:17,077 --> 00:21:18,612
and I think that's why
it's important for her
538
00:21:18,679 --> 00:21:20,247
to have a counselor.
539
00:21:20,314 --> 00:21:23,183
♪♪ ♪♪
540
00:21:27,054 --> 00:21:29,956
[upbeat music]
541
00:21:30,023 --> 00:21:36,197
♪♪ ♪♪
542
00:21:36,263 --> 00:21:38,232
[doorbell chimes]
543
00:21:38,298 --> 00:21:40,433
- Hello.
What up?
544
00:21:40,500 --> 00:21:42,102
- Hi, guys.
- Hi.
545
00:21:42,169 --> 00:21:43,470
- What's up?
What's up?
546
00:21:43,537 --> 00:21:45,105
- How are you doing?
- I'm okay. How are you?
547
00:21:45,172 --> 00:21:46,540
- Good, good, good.
- Hi.
548
00:21:46,606 --> 00:21:48,775
- Hi.
- Hi, Maymay.
549
00:21:48,842 --> 00:21:50,878
- Glad that we were all able
to get together
550
00:21:50,944 --> 00:21:52,579
to have this talk, you know?
551
00:21:52,646 --> 00:21:55,949
Just to come up, and I
mean, have experts tell us,
552
00:21:56,016 --> 00:21:58,652
you know, their opinions on the
situation and how to handle it
553
00:21:58,718 --> 00:22:00,454
because it's going
to happen again.
554
00:22:00,521 --> 00:22:02,355
- Yeah, it's easier
when sometimes you
555
00:22:02,422 --> 00:22:04,258
bring in an outside opinion.
- All right.
556
00:22:04,325 --> 00:22:06,560
Let's get on this call.
- Yeah.
557
00:22:06,626 --> 00:22:09,397
So the kids can go upstairs
and hang with the babysitter.
558
00:22:09,463 --> 00:22:11,131
[line trilling]
559
00:22:11,198 --> 00:22:12,600
- Hi, you all.
560
00:22:12,666 --> 00:22:14,601
My name is Brittany Hogan.
- I'm Cheyenne.
561
00:22:14,668 --> 00:22:15,770
Hi.
562
00:22:15,836 --> 00:22:17,470
This is my husband, Zach.
563
00:22:17,537 --> 00:22:19,906
We co-parent Ryder
with Cory and Taylor.
564
00:22:19,973 --> 00:22:21,408
- How's it going?
565
00:22:21,475 --> 00:22:25,112
- So our wonderful
friends at Color of Change
566
00:22:25,179 --> 00:22:28,248
told me that there have been
some situations going on
567
00:22:28,315 --> 00:22:29,950
that you need assistance with.
568
00:22:30,017 --> 00:22:32,386
And so my first question is,
Have any of your children
569
00:22:32,452 --> 00:22:34,555
experienced any
racial hostility?
570
00:22:34,622 --> 00:22:38,825
- Ryder experienced it by
getting called the n-word.
571
00:22:38,892 --> 00:22:42,263
This is her first encounter
with, like, blatant racism.
572
00:22:42,329 --> 00:22:45,399
I think for us,
we want to know how
573
00:22:45,465 --> 00:22:48,335
to have those
uncomfortable conversations
574
00:22:48,402 --> 00:22:52,272
without it being an
innocence breaker
575
00:22:52,339 --> 00:22:53,907
because she is only six?
576
00:22:53,974 --> 00:22:56,544
And how do you navigate
them as she gets older
577
00:22:56,610 --> 00:22:58,812
and she's going to continue
to experience it more?
578
00:22:58,879 --> 00:23:03,016
- I think that one of the best
ways of being able to do this,
579
00:23:03,083 --> 00:23:06,687
I feel like, is through books,
especially when it comes
580
00:23:06,753 --> 00:23:08,788
to stories that you're
reading with her
581
00:23:08,855 --> 00:23:12,192
in the evening before bed,
having conversations.
582
00:23:12,259 --> 00:23:14,161
There are so many stories
that tell the stories
583
00:23:14,228 --> 00:23:16,029
of Black people who
stood up for themselves
584
00:23:16,096 --> 00:23:18,766
and showing the power
of what it means to be Black,
585
00:23:18,832 --> 00:23:21,835
and then also showing us
just loving and living
586
00:23:21,902 --> 00:23:23,971
and thriving
and feeling worthy.
587
00:23:24,038 --> 00:23:25,673
- I like the book idea.
- I like the book idea.
588
00:23:25,739 --> 00:23:27,441
- That's a really good idea.
589
00:23:27,508 --> 00:23:29,309
- That's the beauty
of Black stories
590
00:23:29,376 --> 00:23:30,611
being in your household.
591
00:23:30,678 --> 00:23:32,246
Representation matters.
592
00:23:32,313 --> 00:23:33,847
- I can't relate
to her in that way,
593
00:23:33,914 --> 00:23:38,118
so I don't know how to
go about talking to her
594
00:23:38,185 --> 00:23:39,886
about something like that.
595
00:23:39,953 --> 00:23:42,122
- It is a different experience
than what you have,
596
00:23:42,189 --> 00:23:44,891
but there are ways that
you can still show up.
597
00:23:44,958 --> 00:23:46,827
There are ways to
say that, you know,
598
00:23:46,894 --> 00:23:50,030
I don't know what this is
like, but I empathize with you.
599
00:23:50,097 --> 00:23:51,932
I hear you. I see you.
600
00:23:51,998 --> 00:23:53,900
I support you, and I love you.
- Yeah.
601
00:23:53,967 --> 00:23:56,003
- Sometimes, it's just
the words that get us there,
602
00:23:56,070 --> 00:23:58,038
and then we have to do
that individual work,
603
00:23:58,105 --> 00:24:00,907
so we can show up and be
great in these spaces as well.
604
00:24:00,974 --> 00:24:03,911
As parents, as co-parents,
you all will continue
605
00:24:03,977 --> 00:24:06,146
to have to have
a meeting of the minds
606
00:24:06,212 --> 00:24:09,049
and realize that you all come
from this in a different way
607
00:24:09,115 --> 00:24:10,417
and a different background.
608
00:24:10,484 --> 00:24:12,052
We've all been socialized.
609
00:24:12,118 --> 00:24:13,621
We all have bias.
610
00:24:13,687 --> 00:24:16,022
That is just a natural
part of this experience,
611
00:24:16,089 --> 00:24:19,059
and we have to know when
to check our biases,
612
00:24:19,126 --> 00:24:21,728
when to listen, when
to be empathetic.
613
00:24:21,795 --> 00:24:25,599
And then you all will do
what's best for your children.
614
00:24:25,665 --> 00:24:27,501
- I really appreciate
you taking the time
615
00:24:27,567 --> 00:24:29,002
and having the
conversation with us.
616
00:24:29,069 --> 00:24:30,438
- Yes.
Thank you.
617
00:24:30,504 --> 00:24:32,206
Thank you.
- Thank you all so much.
618
00:24:32,273 --> 00:24:33,874
You all have a good night.
- OK.
619
00:24:33,941 --> 00:24:36,143
We'll see you.
Have a good one.
620
00:24:36,210 --> 00:24:39,179
- ♪♪ I'm out here working
on my all-time high ♪♪
621
00:24:39,246 --> 00:24:41,715
♪♪ ♪♪
622
00:24:41,782 --> 00:24:43,550
- Girls, you're never
going to believe this.
623
00:24:43,617 --> 00:24:46,921
I got offered a job
to be the girls'
624
00:24:46,987 --> 00:24:49,756
wrestling coach
at a high school.
625
00:24:49,823 --> 00:24:53,127
I don't even know what to say,
but I can't think about it
626
00:24:53,193 --> 00:24:55,095
because today, I have
to focus on Jade
627
00:24:55,162 --> 00:24:57,831
and Maverick's wrestling
team that I coach
628
00:24:57,898 --> 00:25:00,100
because we have to go
get a state title.
629
00:25:00,167 --> 00:25:01,902
I don't even know
what to think.
630
00:25:01,968 --> 00:25:03,637
I'm so excited.
631
00:25:03,704 --> 00:25:05,705
Good.
Wrestle, wrestle, wrestle.
632
00:25:07,474 --> 00:25:10,110
[cheering]
633
00:25:10,177 --> 00:25:12,513
[indistinct]
634
00:25:12,580 --> 00:25:15,515
[tense music]
635
00:25:15,582 --> 00:25:20,987
♪♪ ♪♪
636
00:25:30,664 --> 00:25:37,737
♪♪ ♪♪
637
00:25:39,673 --> 00:25:41,475
- Maverick wrestled so good.
638
00:25:41,541 --> 00:25:42,976
He was on a roll there
for a little bit,
639
00:25:43,043 --> 00:25:48,249
and then it kind of
just ended badly.
640
00:25:48,315 --> 00:25:50,951
You know what I mean?
- Babe.
641
00:25:51,018 --> 00:25:53,087
- It was just--what?
642
00:25:53,153 --> 00:25:55,889
- Can we not do this?
I'm so tired.
643
00:25:55,956 --> 00:26:00,327
- I was just telling a story.
- I'm over it.
644
00:26:00,394 --> 00:26:02,129
- Over me talking?
645
00:26:02,196 --> 00:26:03,663
- It's just a lot.
646
00:26:03,730 --> 00:26:04,898
- I mean, I hadn't got
to talk to you all day.
647
00:26:04,965 --> 00:26:06,600
I was just telling the story.
648
00:26:06,667 --> 00:26:08,669
- My brain is so mushy.
649
00:26:08,735 --> 00:26:11,271
I don't even feel like
I have the capacity
650
00:26:11,338 --> 00:26:14,574
to, like, interact.
651
00:26:14,641 --> 00:26:17,978
- When you just shut me
down, like, I can't--
652
00:26:18,045 --> 00:26:19,913
I can't talk.
653
00:26:19,980 --> 00:26:22,249
And it seems little.
I get it.
654
00:26:22,316 --> 00:26:24,584
But this is where I just put
it in, put it to the side,
655
00:26:24,651 --> 00:26:26,353
bury it down inside.
656
00:26:26,420 --> 00:26:29,556
But then it'll happen again,
and then it'll happen again.
657
00:26:29,623 --> 00:26:32,693
- Our lives are busy,
and hard, and hectic.
658
00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:34,428
It's so much.
659
00:26:34,495 --> 00:26:37,130
I don't get to sit down.
660
00:26:37,197 --> 00:26:40,768
- Sometimes I just want you
to listen for just a sec.
661
00:26:40,834 --> 00:26:44,104
- It's never on purpose,
but I'll try my best.
662
00:26:44,170 --> 00:26:45,706
- OK.
663
00:26:45,773 --> 00:26:48,842
- I do appreciate when you
do talk to me like this
664
00:26:48,909 --> 00:26:52,746
because I feel like this
conversation is productive.
665
00:26:52,812 --> 00:26:56,150
- Yeah.
- I'm sorry.
666
00:26:56,217 --> 00:26:57,684
- All good.
667
00:26:57,751 --> 00:26:59,386
- Can't promise I'll
change it overnight,
668
00:26:59,453 --> 00:27:02,389
but I'll definitely try.
669
00:27:02,455 --> 00:27:03,858
- All right. How about this?
670
00:27:03,924 --> 00:27:06,293
Let's get these
bags and go inside.
671
00:27:06,360 --> 00:27:09,029
- Give me a hug.
672
00:27:09,096 --> 00:27:10,697
Mm.
673
00:27:10,764 --> 00:27:12,499
All right.
You carry all the bags.
674
00:27:12,566 --> 00:27:14,601
- Oh, great.
- [laughs]
675
00:27:14,668 --> 00:27:18,405
- ♪♪ We only want to go wild ♪♪
676
00:27:18,472 --> 00:27:20,374
♪♪ Only want to go wild ♪♪
677
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:24,044
- I found a place I love, and
things are falling into place,
678
00:27:24,111 --> 00:27:26,046
but I need to run
it all by my lawyer.
679
00:27:26,113 --> 00:27:28,615
What would be the custody
situation with Ensley
680
00:27:28,682 --> 00:27:30,417
if I did decide to move?
681
00:27:30,484 --> 00:27:32,653
- That's something that we
can work out, hopefully.
682
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:34,555
- After speaking
with my lawyer,
683
00:27:34,622 --> 00:27:36,357
I'm way more comfortable
moving out
684
00:27:36,423 --> 00:27:37,858
of North Carolina with my kids.
685
00:27:37,924 --> 00:27:39,793
- So what do you think
about everything?
686
00:27:39,859 --> 00:27:41,862
- I'm really happy about
the last house we saw.
687
00:27:41,929 --> 00:27:44,131
I think I want to
sign on it, too.
688
00:27:44,198 --> 00:27:45,966
- Really?
- Mm-hm.
689
00:27:46,033 --> 00:27:47,635
- When?
690
00:27:47,701 --> 00:27:49,903
- Like, as soon as I can.
691
00:27:49,970 --> 00:27:51,539
- Like, right now?
- Yeah.
692
00:27:51,605 --> 00:27:55,109
You can do it right now, OK?
693
00:27:55,176 --> 00:27:57,478
[tense music]
694
00:27:57,544 --> 00:27:59,880
[line trilling]
695
00:27:59,946 --> 00:28:01,381
- Luis Guillermo.
696
00:28:01,448 --> 00:28:03,817
- Hey, this is Jenelle Eason
from yesterday.
697
00:28:03,884 --> 00:28:05,386
- Yeah, hi, Jenelle.
How are you?
698
00:28:05,452 --> 00:28:07,121
- I was just calling
because I just wanted
699
00:28:07,188 --> 00:28:08,889
to let you know I'm going to
sign
700
00:28:08,956 --> 00:28:10,591
on that second house.
- All right.
701
00:28:10,657 --> 00:28:12,192
Sounds great.
- Thank you.
702
00:28:12,259 --> 00:28:13,393
- All right.
We'll see you soon.
703
00:28:13,460 --> 00:28:15,362
- Thanks. Bye.
704
00:28:15,429 --> 00:28:18,298
- That's big.
- Done.
705
00:28:18,365 --> 00:28:19,766
Don't test me.
706
00:28:19,833 --> 00:28:21,068
I think Vegas is
definitely going
707
00:28:21,135 --> 00:28:23,036
to be a space
like my safe haven
708
00:28:23,103 --> 00:28:26,206
and definitely a good
safe haven for my kids.
709
00:28:26,273 --> 00:28:28,542
There's just so
much to look forward to
710
00:28:28,609 --> 00:28:30,110
for this move to Vegas.
711
00:28:30,177 --> 00:28:31,378
- Cheers to that.
712
00:28:31,445 --> 00:28:33,013
- [laughs]
713
00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,349
This is definitely a new
start for me and the kids.
714
00:28:35,416 --> 00:28:37,785
- ♪♪ All night, yeah,
you been on a mission ♪♪
715
00:28:37,852 --> 00:28:39,987
- But I have to first
face Dave in court
716
00:28:40,054 --> 00:28:41,821
for the restraining order,
so I'm excited
717
00:28:41,888 --> 00:28:43,990
and scared
at the same time now.
718
00:28:44,057 --> 00:28:46,059
So much has happened
in North Carolina.
719
00:28:46,126 --> 00:28:49,296
It's just traumatized all
of us in different ways.
720
00:28:49,363 --> 00:28:50,864
Cool.
Thank you.
721
00:28:50,931 --> 00:28:52,932
I appreciate it.
Thank you, sir.
722
00:28:52,999 --> 00:28:54,568
- It's official.
- Thank you.
723
00:28:54,634 --> 00:28:56,237
I got the key.
- Yay.
724
00:28:56,303 --> 00:28:57,337
- Got it.
725
00:29:03,377 --> 00:29:05,079
- ♪♪ Whoo-hoo ♪♪
726
00:29:05,145 --> 00:29:07,380
♪♪ Uh-huh, uh-huh ♪♪
727
00:29:07,447 --> 00:29:09,883
♪♪ You got me feeling
whoo-hoo ♪♪
728
00:29:09,950 --> 00:29:11,785
♪♪ ♪♪
729
00:29:11,851 --> 00:29:13,420
- Sissy, do you have
your lunch box?
730
00:29:13,486 --> 00:29:14,989
- No.
Your lunch box is right here.
731
00:29:15,055 --> 00:29:16,056
- OK, then we're good.
732
00:29:16,122 --> 00:29:17,057
- You love your new school?
733
00:29:17,124 --> 00:29:18,492
- Who put this in here?
734
00:29:18,559 --> 00:29:20,060
- I did, silly goose.
- You want this?
735
00:29:20,127 --> 00:29:22,329
- I figured you might want
a snack when we got out.
736
00:29:22,396 --> 00:29:24,398
- How was it?
- Good.
737
00:29:24,465 --> 00:29:25,999
- Was it good?
- Yeah.
738
00:29:26,066 --> 00:29:28,035
- Did you have fun?
Your teacher said it was good.
739
00:29:28,102 --> 00:29:29,303
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
740
00:29:29,370 --> 00:29:30,971
- That's awesome.
741
00:29:31,037 --> 00:29:35,242
- I mean, all my friends
are girls, except one.
742
00:29:35,309 --> 00:29:37,044
- All your class
friends like you?
743
00:29:37,111 --> 00:29:39,213
- Mm-hmm.
- I'm so happy, dude.
744
00:29:39,279 --> 00:29:41,281
Yay.
- That's great.
745
00:29:41,348 --> 00:29:42,950
- And it was less boring, too.
746
00:29:43,017 --> 00:29:44,251
- Oh, yeah?
747
00:29:44,318 --> 00:29:46,386
- So this school is funner?
- Mm-hm.
748
00:29:46,453 --> 00:29:48,154
- So you're excited
to go back tomorrow?
749
00:29:48,221 --> 00:29:50,190
- Mm-hm.
- Oh, yeah, baby.
750
00:29:50,257 --> 00:29:52,259
I'm going to cry.
- You're so happy.
751
00:29:52,326 --> 00:29:54,628
- I don't know why.
- We had a long day.
752
00:29:54,694 --> 00:29:57,397
- Yeah.
I'm so happy for you, baby.
753
00:29:58,966 --> 00:30:00,501
- Yeah.
- Oh, yes.
754
00:30:00,567 --> 00:30:02,936
- Yes.
- Can I just eat?
755
00:30:03,003 --> 00:30:04,337
[indistinct speech]
756
00:30:04,404 --> 00:30:07,241
[laughter]
757
00:30:07,307 --> 00:30:08,842
- You're happy for me?
758
00:30:08,909 --> 00:30:10,144
both: I'm so happy.
759
00:30:10,211 --> 00:30:11,512
- Dad's so happy
for you he's crying.
760
00:30:11,578 --> 00:30:13,413
- 'Cause you're so happy.
761
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,183
I'm so emotional.
762
00:30:16,250 --> 00:30:18,652
- ♪♪ If I keep on moving ♪♪
763
00:30:18,719 --> 00:30:21,221
♪♪ ♪♪
764
00:30:21,288 --> 00:30:23,190
- Can you make me a red panda?
765
00:30:23,257 --> 00:30:25,792
♪♪ ♪♪
766
00:30:25,859 --> 00:30:29,162
- Babe, can you help me
with this real quick?
767
00:30:29,229 --> 00:30:31,765
So this one looks pretty good.
768
00:30:31,831 --> 00:30:34,100
Professional Home
Inspection Institute.
769
00:30:34,167 --> 00:30:36,670
Qualifications are you
have to be at least 18,
770
00:30:36,737 --> 00:30:39,639
complete a pre-licensing
course of at least 60 hours
771
00:30:39,706 --> 00:30:41,809
provided by a board-approved
course provider.
772
00:30:41,876 --> 00:30:43,610
- Yes.
So you just do the online?
773
00:30:43,677 --> 00:30:45,145
- Yeah.
774
00:30:45,212 --> 00:30:48,515
I have to pass the National
Home Inspector Examination,
775
00:30:48,582 --> 00:30:51,418
and it says that this
course fully prepares me.
776
00:30:51,485 --> 00:30:53,754
- If you--once you
start something, though--
777
00:30:53,821 --> 00:30:55,188
you know how I am.
778
00:30:55,255 --> 00:30:58,225
I don't start anything,
unless I'm 100% dedicated.
779
00:30:58,292 --> 00:31:02,529
You're going to start this
and put 100% into it, right?
780
00:31:02,595 --> 00:31:04,131
I'm guessing that's
why you want to do it.
781
00:31:04,197 --> 00:31:05,599
- Yeah.
Yeah.
782
00:31:05,666 --> 00:31:07,467
I think I'm going to go
with this class over here.
783
00:31:07,534 --> 00:31:09,336
- I'm proud of you.
I think that'll be--
784
00:31:09,403 --> 00:31:11,271
that'll be a great new journey.
785
00:31:11,338 --> 00:31:12,706
- Yeah.
786
00:31:14,108 --> 00:31:16,910
- I want to be able to be there
and support him
787
00:31:16,977 --> 00:31:20,080
and support him through school,
like he's always supported me,
788
00:31:20,147 --> 00:31:23,650
and I'm really proud of him for
starting this whole new career.
789
00:31:23,717 --> 00:31:25,886
I feel like life is
a crazy roller coaster,
790
00:31:25,953 --> 00:31:29,957
but boy, is it so amazing
compared to, like,
791
00:31:30,023 --> 00:31:31,324
five years ago.
792
00:31:31,391 --> 00:31:33,194
I just really hope
he follows through.
793
00:31:33,260 --> 00:31:34,928
- Bam.
794
00:31:34,995 --> 00:31:36,730
I registered for school.
795
00:31:36,797 --> 00:31:37,865
- Good job.
796
00:31:37,932 --> 00:31:40,867
[upbeat music]
797
00:31:40,934 --> 00:31:42,803
♪♪ ♪♪
798
00:31:42,869 --> 00:31:44,371
- I'm home.
799
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,175
Come on.
You're the food reviewer.
800
00:31:48,242 --> 00:31:50,411
- Hot.
- You helped me make this.
801
00:31:50,477 --> 00:31:52,479
I really don't want to be here.
802
00:31:52,545 --> 00:31:54,314
But this week,
I have a court case
803
00:31:54,381 --> 00:31:55,715
for a pending
restraining order,
804
00:31:55,782 --> 00:31:57,384
so we'll see how that goes.
805
00:31:57,451 --> 00:31:59,886
I don't feel safe when
I'm in North Carolina
806
00:31:59,953 --> 00:32:04,424
because I don't know if or
where I can run into David.
807
00:32:04,491 --> 00:32:07,661
I think that's
David's white truck.
808
00:32:09,063 --> 00:32:11,832
David's just capable
of intimidating me.
809
00:32:11,899 --> 00:32:13,300
I feel harassed.
810
00:32:13,366 --> 00:32:15,101
I feel stalked.
811
00:32:15,168 --> 00:32:19,440
Now, every white truck on
the highway I'm staring at,
812
00:32:19,507 --> 00:32:22,042
and I don't know if it's him.
813
00:32:22,109 --> 00:32:24,978
[tense music]
814
00:32:25,045 --> 00:32:26,580
♪♪ ♪♪
815
00:32:26,646 --> 00:32:29,016
So I just woke up,
and I have court today,
816
00:32:29,083 --> 00:32:31,885
and my nerves are shot.
817
00:32:33,587 --> 00:32:36,523
[somber music]
818
00:32:36,590 --> 00:32:38,925
♪♪ ♪♪
819
00:32:38,992 --> 00:32:42,162
[breathing heavily]
820
00:32:42,229 --> 00:32:46,700
♪♪ ♪♪
821
00:32:46,766 --> 00:32:49,369
I keep having panic attacks.
822
00:32:50,804 --> 00:32:54,608
I keep thinking about how
I have to go on stand.
823
00:32:54,674 --> 00:32:59,045
It's just all very scary.
824
00:33:01,148 --> 00:33:05,986
I'm, like, shaking,
but I got to do it.
825
00:33:06,052 --> 00:33:07,854
I'm really sick
of feeling this way.
826
00:33:07,921 --> 00:33:10,424
And just even though
he's not here,
827
00:33:10,491 --> 00:33:14,794
it's like I'm still walking
on eggshells, which sucks.
828
00:33:16,163 --> 00:33:21,134
- ♪♪ And I should
have known by now ♪♪
829
00:33:21,201 --> 00:33:25,105
♪♪ Why do you got
a let me down ♪♪
830
00:33:25,172 --> 00:33:27,574
[phone ringing]
♪♪ Alone together ♪♪
831
00:33:27,641 --> 00:33:29,410
- Hey.
- How are you?
832
00:33:29,476 --> 00:33:31,979
- Good.
How are you?
833
00:33:32,045 --> 00:33:33,547
- I'm good.
834
00:33:33,614 --> 00:33:35,182
What are you up to?
835
00:33:35,249 --> 00:33:38,385
- My restraining order between
me and David got put in place.
836
00:33:38,452 --> 00:33:43,390
- ♪♪ I can't stay here anymore ♪♪
837
00:33:43,457 --> 00:33:46,060
- Oh, my God.
838
00:33:46,126 --> 00:33:48,528
- That includes the kids.
839
00:33:48,595 --> 00:33:53,233
- Oh. Do the kids know that the
restraining order is in place?
840
00:33:53,300 --> 00:33:54,635
- Jace does know.
841
00:33:54,701 --> 00:33:55,803
I did tell Jace
because he was like,
842
00:33:55,869 --> 00:33:57,270
why are you going to court?
843
00:33:57,337 --> 00:33:59,573
You know, all these fears
in my head, they are just--
844
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:02,075
like, they're just
poof, gone now.
845
00:34:02,142 --> 00:34:04,711
But also, I signed
the lease in Vegas.
846
00:34:04,778 --> 00:34:06,713
I can move in,
like, immediately.
847
00:34:06,780 --> 00:34:09,416
- Vegas!
- Yeah.
848
00:34:09,482 --> 00:34:11,585
- You finally decided to leave.
849
00:34:11,652 --> 00:34:13,187
- I know, finally.
850
00:34:13,254 --> 00:34:14,989
- Well, you know,
you can always call me
851
00:34:15,055 --> 00:34:17,291
if you need any help
with anything
852
00:34:17,358 --> 00:34:19,192
or just to vent, you know.
853
00:34:19,259 --> 00:34:20,961
- Yeah. I appreciate it.
854
00:34:21,027 --> 00:34:23,597
- Big things happening
for Jenelle.
855
00:34:30,304 --> 00:34:32,839
[intense electronic music]
856
00:34:32,906 --> 00:34:34,875
- ♪♪ Don't you
underestimate me ♪♪
857
00:34:34,942 --> 00:34:37,243
♪♪ Size you up,
bring on the heat ♪♪
858
00:34:37,310 --> 00:34:39,946
- So the state tournament
was so much fun.
859
00:34:40,013 --> 00:34:41,882
Maverick got fourth place.
860
00:34:41,949 --> 00:34:45,118
And Jade, she didn't place,
but she wrestled hard.
861
00:34:45,185 --> 00:34:46,553
She tried her best.
862
00:34:46,620 --> 00:34:48,155
I'm really, really
proud of her.
863
00:34:48,221 --> 00:34:50,190
We had an absolute blast.
864
00:34:50,257 --> 00:34:53,326
And I would love
to do this full time,
865
00:34:53,393 --> 00:34:55,829
but it is exhausting
and draining.
866
00:34:55,896 --> 00:34:57,831
And It a lot out of me,
867
00:34:57,897 --> 00:35:01,434
and then that trickles down
into my marriage.
868
00:35:01,501 --> 00:35:03,937
Taylor and I, we got
in a small argument.
869
00:35:04,004 --> 00:35:05,505
We were able to
work through it,
870
00:35:05,572 --> 00:35:08,142
but I just feel like
if I take this
871
00:35:08,208 --> 00:35:10,610
full-time coaching job that
872
00:35:10,677 --> 00:35:12,546
this is going to happen
more often.
873
00:35:12,612 --> 00:35:15,415
So I really don't know
what to do.
874
00:35:15,482 --> 00:35:17,751
Can I get a Bud Light
with a cold glass?
875
00:35:17,818 --> 00:35:21,055
- Can I get a half
and a half tea?
876
00:35:21,121 --> 00:35:22,556
- The high school offered me
877
00:35:22,622 --> 00:35:24,825
the girls' wrestling head
coaching job.
878
00:35:24,891 --> 00:35:26,960
- Wow.
- Yeah.
879
00:35:27,027 --> 00:35:30,897
Kind of [bleep] my pants and
said whoo-hoo at the same time.
880
00:35:30,964 --> 00:35:32,466
[laughter]
881
00:35:32,533 --> 00:35:35,635
- That's so cool first of
all that girls wrestling is
882
00:35:35,702 --> 00:35:37,304
becoming so big that
they're starting,
883
00:35:37,370 --> 00:35:39,907
but then to think of you
when they were looking
884
00:35:39,973 --> 00:35:41,608
for a coach, that's awesome.
885
00:35:41,675 --> 00:35:43,777
Have you given much
thought about how
886
00:35:43,844 --> 00:35:46,313
you would be able to
manage anything like that?
887
00:35:46,380 --> 00:35:49,116
- I mean, basically, from
1:00 p.m. I would either be
888
00:35:49,182 --> 00:35:51,151
leaving my house
or leaving and not
889
00:35:51,218 --> 00:35:53,287
getting home until 8:30, 9:00.
890
00:35:53,353 --> 00:35:58,058
Taylor would have to be
with Jade, Mav, or Bentley.
891
00:35:58,125 --> 00:35:59,960
If I take this,
everything looks
892
00:36:00,027 --> 00:36:01,729
totally different for Taylor.
893
00:36:01,795 --> 00:36:03,130
- What did Taylor say?
894
00:36:03,197 --> 00:36:04,998
- He's like, if you want
to do it, we'll find a way.
895
00:36:05,065 --> 00:36:06,634
We'll figure it out.
896
00:36:06,700 --> 00:36:08,268
- I think if your kids
were a little bit older,
897
00:36:08,335 --> 00:36:09,703
it might be a
little bit easier.
898
00:36:09,769 --> 00:36:11,972
- I feel like there
will be time for that
899
00:36:12,038 --> 00:36:13,607
in the next few years.
900
00:36:13,674 --> 00:36:16,543
But right now, I feel
like it is the time that's
901
00:36:16,610 --> 00:36:19,279
supposed to be about them.
902
00:36:19,346 --> 00:36:22,349
This opportunity is
like a dream come true,
903
00:36:22,416 --> 00:36:25,151
but to be the parent
that I want to be,
904
00:36:25,218 --> 00:36:28,755
be the mom and wife,
friend, person that
905
00:36:28,822 --> 00:36:31,459
I want to be,
I can't take the job right now,
906
00:36:31,525 --> 00:36:35,495
so that's how I know that this
is the right decision.
907
00:36:35,562 --> 00:36:38,599
- ♪♪ I don't know
how you did it ♪♪
908
00:36:38,666 --> 00:36:40,934
♪♪ But all I know is
I can't get enough ♪♪
909
00:36:41,001 --> 00:36:42,335
♪♪ ♪♪
910
00:36:42,402 --> 00:36:44,038
- I think the books is
the best way
911
00:36:44,104 --> 00:36:45,739
to communicate to
a six-year old.
912
00:36:45,805 --> 00:36:47,308
- Because that was
our biggest thing.
913
00:36:47,374 --> 00:36:49,043
How do we get through
to a six-year-old
914
00:36:49,109 --> 00:36:50,711
these world problems?
915
00:36:50,777 --> 00:36:52,913
- Stories.
- You know, racism itself.
916
00:36:52,979 --> 00:36:55,449
And by her suggesting books,
it was just like, boom,
917
00:36:55,516 --> 00:36:57,484
there it is.
Ryder loves to read.
918
00:36:57,551 --> 00:37:00,320
She loves to sit down at
night and just have a story.
919
00:37:00,387 --> 00:37:02,623
- I'm going to order
a book for Ryder.
920
00:37:02,689 --> 00:37:05,259
- ♪♪ I let it go ♪♪
921
00:37:05,325 --> 00:37:08,261
[vocalizing]
922
00:37:08,328 --> 00:37:12,966
♪♪ ♪♪
923
00:37:13,033 --> 00:37:15,769
- Whoa, a book.
A book.
924
00:37:15,836 --> 00:37:17,504
It has chickens.
925
00:37:17,571 --> 00:37:19,306
- OK.
- Wow.
926
00:37:19,373 --> 00:37:20,941
- How about we take a
break and we read it?
927
00:37:21,007 --> 00:37:22,709
Come up here with me.
928
00:37:24,010 --> 00:37:25,246
- OK.
929
00:37:25,312 --> 00:37:26,947
It's called "Preaching"--
930
00:37:27,014 --> 00:37:30,383
- "To The Chickens."
931
00:37:30,450 --> 00:37:32,853
- She's still a kid,
so everything to her
932
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:34,488
is still a story.
933
00:37:34,555 --> 00:37:38,125
I just want her to hear the
stories and to empower her.
934
00:37:38,191 --> 00:37:41,695
"One day the rolling store man
stopped by to make a trade.
935
00:37:41,761 --> 00:37:44,531
But John did not want to part
with any of his chickens.
936
00:37:44,598 --> 00:37:46,633
He knew that they would
want to stay with him.
937
00:37:46,700 --> 00:37:48,569
The chickens stayed
on the farm.
938
00:37:48,636 --> 00:37:51,405
And John learned to speak up
for those who could
939
00:37:51,472 --> 00:37:53,574
not speak up for themselves."
940
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:55,810
Maybe one day something
happens at school,
941
00:37:55,876 --> 00:37:57,777
and she picks it up
from the story,
942
00:37:57,844 --> 00:37:59,547
and then she comes home
and says, why did this
943
00:37:59,613 --> 00:38:01,015
because the story said this?
944
00:38:01,081 --> 00:38:02,816
So you know how mommy's
always telling you
945
00:38:02,883 --> 00:38:05,886
to be a advocate for yourself
and to stand up for yourself?
946
00:38:05,952 --> 00:38:07,187
- Yes.
947
00:38:07,254 --> 00:38:08,856
- That's the same thing.
948
00:38:08,922 --> 00:38:10,657
Sometimes you can
stand up for yourself,
949
00:38:10,724 --> 00:38:12,459
and sometimes you help
to stand up for those who
950
00:38:12,526 --> 00:38:14,160
can't stand up for themselves.
951
00:38:14,227 --> 00:38:17,665
I like this part where it says,
"blessed are the peacemakers.
952
00:38:17,731 --> 00:38:21,501
Blessed are those who hunger
and thirst for righteousness."
953
00:38:21,568 --> 00:38:23,370
- What does righteousness mean?
954
00:38:23,437 --> 00:38:24,471
- Like, to do the right thing.
955
00:38:24,538 --> 00:38:25,939
- Oh.
- Mm-hmm.
956
00:38:26,006 --> 00:38:28,509
This is something that now
we're doing more
957
00:38:28,575 --> 00:38:31,845
and definitely with
more reason behind it.
958
00:38:31,912 --> 00:38:33,414
What did you think
about the book, Ry?
959
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:35,249
- I think it was awesome.
960
00:38:35,315 --> 00:38:36,550
- You think it was awesome?
961
00:38:38,352 --> 00:38:43,791
- ♪♪ You and I get
through the wreckage ♪♪
962
00:38:43,858 --> 00:38:46,360
- Hey.
You snuck up on me.
963
00:38:46,426 --> 00:38:47,961
- Hi, ladies.
- Hi.
964
00:38:48,028 --> 00:38:49,096
- How are you today?
965
00:38:49,163 --> 00:38:50,397
- I'll just have
a glass of Moscato.
966
00:38:50,464 --> 00:38:51,698
- And I'll take
a dirty Martini.
967
00:38:51,765 --> 00:38:53,066
- Dirty Martini.
- Thank you.
968
00:38:53,133 --> 00:38:54,234
- Thank you.
- Of course.
969
00:38:54,301 --> 00:38:55,436
- Where's the girls?
- With their dad.
970
00:38:55,503 --> 00:38:56,670
- Where's Addie?
With her dad?
971
00:38:56,737 --> 00:38:58,305
- No.
Addie is with my mom.
972
00:38:58,372 --> 00:39:01,074
Jeremy is being
a pain in the ass.
973
00:39:01,141 --> 00:39:02,776
Basically, it's our
custody arrangement.
974
00:39:02,842 --> 00:39:05,613
We both have shared
decision making
975
00:39:05,679 --> 00:39:08,516
when it comes
to medical, education.
976
00:39:08,582 --> 00:39:09,817
Thank you.
- Thank you so much.
977
00:39:09,884 --> 00:39:11,084
- Thank you.
978
00:39:11,151 --> 00:39:12,686
- After everything
happened with Jeremy,
979
00:39:12,752 --> 00:39:14,722
I think that it's important
that Addie goes to counseling,
980
00:39:14,789 --> 00:39:17,257
so that way she can
express her emotions freely
981
00:39:17,324 --> 00:39:20,694
and work through the emotions
behind coping mechanism.
982
00:39:20,761 --> 00:39:23,497
Jeremy doesn't want to
sign the consent for Addie
983
00:39:23,564 --> 00:39:26,000
to go to counseling.
984
00:39:26,066 --> 00:39:27,501
- Why?
985
00:39:27,568 --> 00:39:28,969
- He doesn't even
give a reason.
986
00:39:29,036 --> 00:39:30,571
- That's ridiculous.
987
00:39:30,638 --> 00:39:33,540
- It's ridiculous because what
are you benefiting from that?
988
00:39:33,607 --> 00:39:35,142
- If you think that
Addie needs the therapy,
989
00:39:35,209 --> 00:39:36,577
why would he go against that?
990
00:39:36,644 --> 00:39:38,078
It's just therapy.
991
00:39:38,144 --> 00:39:39,480
Like, what is the big deal?
992
00:39:39,546 --> 00:39:40,848
Why do you not want
her in therapy?
993
00:39:40,914 --> 00:39:43,016
- What are you gaining
from her not going?
994
00:39:43,083 --> 00:39:44,718
- Right.
995
00:39:44,785 --> 00:39:47,187
- Are you afraid she's going to
say something to the counselor
996
00:39:47,254 --> 00:39:48,622
that would get you in trouble?
997
00:39:48,688 --> 00:39:50,023
- So what are you
supposed to do?
998
00:39:50,090 --> 00:39:51,859
- Call my family attorney.
999
00:39:51,926 --> 00:39:53,294
It's all I can do.
1000
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:55,595
It does feel like
everything with Jeremy
1001
00:39:55,662 --> 00:39:58,365
is going to get more
and more dysfunctional.
1002
00:39:58,432 --> 00:40:02,469
It's really challenging
to try to have
1003
00:40:02,535 --> 00:40:05,105
a relationship with a toxic ex.
1004
00:40:05,171 --> 00:40:08,709
And over time I have
covered up many things
1005
00:40:08,775 --> 00:40:10,978
to make sure she had a good
relationship with her father,
1006
00:40:11,044 --> 00:40:13,047
probably because I didn't
have a good relationship
1007
00:40:13,113 --> 00:40:14,714
with my father.
1008
00:40:14,781 --> 00:40:17,751
And I wanted to make sure that
my kids never experienced that.
1009
00:40:17,818 --> 00:40:21,454
I feel like I let
her down by being
1010
00:40:21,521 --> 00:40:23,824
in a split home situation.
1011
00:40:23,890 --> 00:40:27,661
But...
1012
00:40:27,727 --> 00:40:29,997
I don't know.
We just do the best we can.
1013
00:40:30,064 --> 00:40:31,899
[somber music]
1014
00:40:31,965 --> 00:40:34,634
- ♪♪ I can see it happening ♪♪
1015
00:40:34,701 --> 00:40:37,771
♪♪ Some kind of awakening ♪♪
1016
00:40:37,838 --> 00:40:42,609
♪♪ Here the sound,
it calls to me ♪♪
1017
00:40:42,676 --> 00:40:45,779
♪♪ Do you feel it? ♪♪
1018
00:40:45,846 --> 00:40:50,050
♪♪ Do you feel it? ♪♪
1019
00:40:50,117 --> 00:40:54,488
♪♪ Do you feel it now? ♪♪
1020
00:40:54,555 --> 00:40:56,990
♪♪ Do you feel it? ♪♪
1021
00:40:57,057 --> 00:41:03,196
♪♪ ♪♪
1022
00:41:08,469 --> 00:41:09,569
- Next on "Teen Mom:
The Next Chapter"...
1023
00:41:09,636 --> 00:41:10,871
- Are you ready
to go on our date?
1024
00:41:10,938 --> 00:41:12,172
- Daddy-Daughter Dance.
1025
00:41:12,238 --> 00:41:14,407
- Did you know that
Aleeah's dating a boy?
1026
00:41:15,943 --> 00:41:17,912
- Did you know Amanda before
her and Ryan got together?
1027
00:41:17,978 --> 00:41:19,313
- She was in my class.
1028
00:41:19,380 --> 00:41:21,182
- The things they've heard
or read, it's not me.
1029
00:41:21,248 --> 00:41:22,850
I just want them to be
comfortable around me.
1030
00:41:22,916 --> 00:41:24,318
- Birth control
to get pregnant--
1031
00:41:24,385 --> 00:41:26,754
that will cancel my insulin,
which is very dangerous.
1032
00:41:26,821 --> 00:41:29,289
- My mom's therapist says that
she isn't doing too well.
1033
00:41:29,356 --> 00:41:30,991
- She's a liar
and I don't trust her.
1034
00:41:31,057 --> 00:41:32,926
- We have this toxic triangle
going on,
1035
00:41:32,993 --> 00:41:34,461
and it has to stop.
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