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- ♪♪ MTV ♪♪
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- Previously, on "Teen Mom:
The Next Chapter"...
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- Today, you not only unite
your separate lives,
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but you are bringing into
this new chapter,
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the love of your daughter,
Kloie.
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You may kiss
your gorgeous bride.
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[cheers and applause]
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- Ryder is getting older,
and she is figuring out
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more about her family dynamic.
- Guess what.
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And I get to go to Atlanta
with dad for his show.
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- You and your dad just
be making all these plans.
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- You and Cheyenne have had
kind of a rocky road at times.
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Now things are good.
Tell people how you got there.
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- We always put Ryder first.
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- The biggest thing in
coparenting is communication.
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- Are you ready
for your graduation?
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- Yeah.
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- Ryan would like to be here
to go to it,
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but I know he's proud of you.
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- What's, like,
the latest update with Ryan?
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- Right now,
he's in a halfway house.
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- OK.
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- I want to experience
living alone
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with just the girls.
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- You're not moving those girls
away from me.
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No way.
They're half mine.
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- Sorry, Mom.
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It's time for me to do
my own thing.
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- Dad wants to go into detox.
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- Where, Florida?
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- No, he's already here.
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- I made the promise that,
if he went into detox,
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that I would meet him there.
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Hi.
- I'm ready.
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[soft dramatic music]
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Maybe this is the real deal.
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[upbeat music]
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♪♪ ♪♪
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- ♪♪ Let's move ♪♪
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♪♪ ♪♪
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♪♪ Let's move ♪♪
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- I didn't know
y'all liked white rice.
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I found the forks.
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♪♪ ♪♪
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Here, Benny.
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Hi, ladies.
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OK, you guys
all need to buckle up
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because Benny's about to take
his learner's permit test.
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Can you believe that I have
a kid old enough to drive?
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I just have to make sure
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you don't ask
anyone questions, OK?
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As the proctor,
I have to tell you,
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you can't continue.
- You would do that?
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- Yes, I would, son.
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I'm not breaking
the law for you!
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- Nobody's gonna know.
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[quirky music]
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- Look around, Son.
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Open your pretty eyes
and look around.
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[upbeat music]
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♪♪ ♪♪
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- Oh, my God.
- What?
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- I failed.
Take it tomorrow?
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- If you want to.
- Well, yeah.
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- ♪♪ I can make it loud
with the bass clap, treble ♪♪
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♪♪ Turn it up now,
right now, no trouble ♪♪
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♪♪ I'm gonna do it ♪♪
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- Itching.
- Itching? Yeah.
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- You're gonna go
from "Dragon Ball Z"
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to a Smurf here shortly.
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So, how did Bentley do
on his driver's permit test?
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- He failed it.
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- Failed it?
- Mm-hmm.
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- I think he's
gonna be fine driving.
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Yeah, but every once
in a while,
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the common sense, just, phew!
And I'm like, "Oh, boy."
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- Yeah.
- And that's what scares me.
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- Mm-hmm. God, I hope and pray
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that our parenting
has been good.
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- Yeah.
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Now, I don't even want to think
about when you start driving.
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♪♪ ♪♪
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- Pretty sweet.
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♪♪ ♪♪
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It looks cool.
- Yeah, that's how I want it.
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♪♪ ♪♪
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- Hey, guys.
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I just got
to my sister's house.
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She asked me to come over
to talk about the next steps
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for my dad's recovery,
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and I know firsthand
how that can be,
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so I want to be of support
to him.
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He's just got to put
the work in himself too.
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- So, as you know,
dad's in detox.
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And then, once he gets
through the detox,
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he's gonna have to go to...
- A long-term.
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- A long-term rehab facility.
- Mm-hmm.
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- And everywhere
I've called about
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or I've tried to get him into,
they either want so much money,
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which neither one
of us can do...
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- Mm-hmm.
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- Or his insurance
are not accepted.
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So it's, like,
everywhere you go,
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there's, like, a--
it's a roadblock.
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It's just, I think it's more,
like, frustrating,
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because it's like, when
somebody does want the help,
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it's hard for them
to get the help.
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- Yeah, it's bull[bleep].
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I know we'll do
whatever it takes
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to make sure he gets into a
long-term facility after detox.
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He deserves that much.
Like, he's putting the work in.
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He's putting the effort in.
I respect that.
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And I think
that we can start there.
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- I don't want the universe
to keep working against him.
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It needs to work for him.
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- I think,
sometimes, the universe
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works against us to build us
and make us better.
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- That's very true.
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- I think that, if I hadn't
been through half of what
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I've been through in my life,
I would not be the woman
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and mother that I am today,
and able to overcome
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the obstacles
I'm even being faced with now.
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I know of some places.
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You know of some places.
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- Yeah.
- We'll figure it out.
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We'll find him a place,
wherever that might be.
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I will guide him along the way.
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I will be his support system.
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- ♪♪ Bring it to me closer ♪♪
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♪♪ I saw you from afar ♪♪
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♪♪ ♪♪
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[phone rings]
- Hello?
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- Hey, what's going on, Chey?
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- Nothing,
I'm just sitting at home.
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- I need to stop by
and ask you something.
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- So you're saying you want to
talk in-person about something?
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- Yeah, I'd just rather talk
without Ry being there.
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You know how she's all ears.
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It's kind of, like,
an adult conversation.
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So I was thinking
I could stop by quick
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before I pick her up
for school,
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and we could just talk.
- OK, that's fine.
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- Give me about 20 minutes,
and I'll be over.
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- OK, I'll see you soon.
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- ♪♪ Only if we're having fun ♪♪
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[doorbell rings]
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♪♪ We could have a little fun ♪♪
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- Hey!
- What's up?
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You guys are killing it
with the--
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- The Christmas décor?
- The Davis family, yeah.
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- Don't be a hater!
- I love it.
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No, I'm not.
It works.
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- Ace is asleep,
but Zach's golfing with my dad.
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- Oh.
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- What's up?
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- I wanted to come over
and talk to you about
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me having Ryder
for Christmas this year.
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We'll fly to Michigan.
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So, basically, I need her
for, like, ten days.
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- So her whole Christmas break?
- Yeah.
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I'ma be real with you,
the trip's already booked.
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- When did you book?
Because Christmas is now.
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I mean, we're in December,
so...
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- Yeah, I booked
a couple months ago.
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- And you didn't think maybe
to tell me then?
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- You know, I probably
should have asked you first.
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Well, I think the biggest thing
is that, usually,
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you've had her for Christmas.
- No, no, no.
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- Yeah, you've had her
for Christmas.
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- We share!
We split.
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You'll get her,
like, Christmas Eve.
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I'll have her
Christmas morning.
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You come get her
Christmas night or something.
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- But my family
doesn't live in LA, so...
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- That's not a me problem.
- Eventually, I'm gonna want--
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no, but you want
what's best for Ry.
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So, obviously, you want her
to see my family too.
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Your family gets to see Ryder
every Christmas.
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You go to my family
that lives in Michigan.
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It's like,
this is the first time
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where I could get
everyone together,
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bring Ryder,
celebrate it all as a family,
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and I just thought that,
you know, it would be nice.
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- And does Ryder
know about this?
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- Uh, maybe.
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- OK, you're just
digging a bigger hole.
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- I mean, but I got
everything set up.
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Like, if you could just
do me this one favor,
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you could have her
for Christmas next year.
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- What if I say no?
- Mm.
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You wouldn't have liked it
if I handled it this way.
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I don't like
how you're handling it.
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Ryder might have
to sit this one out.
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- You win.
It's your call.
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- Great. Thank you.
- Your call.
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- It is my call.
- You win.
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I handled it wrong.
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- So just go continue being
in the wrong somewhere else.
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- Peace, thank you.
- Please get out of my house.
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♪♪ ♪♪
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[upbeat music]
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♪♪ ♪♪
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- Hey, ladies.
Mrs. Austin here.
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Me and Sean just got back
from Turks and Caicos.
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We had an amazing honeymoon.
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We are settling
into married life.
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I absolutely love
being married.
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But we got Kloie
into a new school.
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It's a public school,
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and we've been dealing
with some issues
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that we haven't dealt with
at her private preschool.
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So we've been trying
to figure out
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just where to go from here.
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What's going on?
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- With Kloie,
we're picking up from school,
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and, you know, she's crying,
saying she doesn't like school.
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She's not having a good time.
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There was some issues
with, like, the kids
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kind of picking on her.
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We tried to talk to,
you know, the teacher.
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We talked to the counselor.
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We couldn't get answers,
so I'm like,
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"I can't continue to send
my kid to school
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for her to be miserable."
And we don't have a game plan.
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So me and Sean thought
it'd be a good idea
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to pull her out
and just do homeschooling.
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- So I'm gonna roll this,
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and whatever number
it lands on,
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you got to make that many, OK?
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Ooh, 13.
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Now you got to make one
with 13.
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- Oh, my God.
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- Well, that's why mom
and dad are right here.
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- So dramatic.
- Look, two.
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Now get another one.
Three, four.
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Put it here, put it here.
- Put it together.
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- Come on, dude.
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I'm trying--
you asked me to help you.
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And you're--
- Just gonna build a one.
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- Well, are you counting to 13?
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How many are there?
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- Count those blocks.
- Use your finger.
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- Six.
- Yep, there are six.
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- OK, so now,
how many more do you need?
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- Six more?
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- Almost, you need seven more.
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So put seven more.
248
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- And then she can use these
as, like,
249
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counting reference
or something.
250
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- OK, so we're not doing
what I was doing?
251
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- No, because I'm like,
this is just
252
00:10:00,667 --> 00:10:01,802
gonna be easier
for her visually.
253
00:10:01,868 --> 00:10:02,670
- This is pretty easy
if she would have
254
00:10:02,736 --> 00:10:04,171
got to 13 real quick.
255
00:10:04,238 --> 00:10:06,040
- She just seemed like she
was more interested in this.
256
00:10:06,106 --> 00:10:07,241
- Oh, OK.
257
00:10:07,307 --> 00:10:08,742
- Here, do you want
to do this one?
258
00:10:08,808 --> 00:10:10,177
You can glue this one.
259
00:10:10,244 --> 00:10:12,446
- Look, these are the words
that you got to glue.
260
00:10:12,513 --> 00:10:14,148
- Yeah, I got it.
261
00:10:14,214 --> 00:10:15,583
- I can help!
- I know.
262
00:10:15,649 --> 00:10:16,884
I'm just saying--
- I'll just go.
263
00:10:16,950 --> 00:10:18,251
- We don't need two people
barking at her.
264
00:10:18,318 --> 00:10:19,252
- All right, I'll just go
in the other room then.
265
00:10:19,319 --> 00:10:20,487
- OK, perfect.
266
00:10:20,554 --> 00:10:22,289
I just feel like
it's overwhelming for her.
267
00:10:22,356 --> 00:10:23,557
- Well, it's not,
if you wouldn't--
268
00:10:23,624 --> 00:10:24,891
if you would just let me talk
269
00:10:24,958 --> 00:10:26,426
instead of cutting me off
and saying, "You got it."
270
00:10:26,493 --> 00:10:28,161
- Come here, Kloie.
271
00:10:28,228 --> 00:10:29,830
- That's the most annoying
[bleep] part.
272
00:10:29,897 --> 00:10:31,665
- Yeah, but I'm saying,
she's six years old.
273
00:10:31,732 --> 00:10:33,134
Her attention span--
274
00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:35,769
- Right, but it doesn't matter
who's talking to her.
275
00:10:35,835 --> 00:10:38,706
You got to be under control
of everything.
276
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- ♪♪ I am glad ♪♪
277
00:10:41,341 --> 00:10:44,744
♪♪ On you,
anticipation for you ♪♪
278
00:10:44,811 --> 00:10:46,313
♪♪ But all I see
is just a snapshot ♪♪
279
00:10:46,379 --> 00:10:49,416
- So, this past year,
I bought a new house.
280
00:10:49,482 --> 00:10:51,051
We are loving it,
281
00:10:51,118 --> 00:10:53,086
but we are definitely farther
from my mom and sister
282
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than we are used to.
283
00:10:54,622 --> 00:10:56,456
Throughout my
whole entire life,
284
00:10:56,523 --> 00:10:58,225
it was just me,
my mom, and my sister.
285
00:10:58,292 --> 00:10:59,927
We were always together.
286
00:10:59,994 --> 00:11:03,697
And my mom,
she's been our rock.
287
00:11:03,764 --> 00:11:06,033
But over the years,
we started learning
288
00:11:06,100 --> 00:11:08,969
that our mom has lied to us
about some pretty big things.
289
00:11:09,036 --> 00:11:11,705
She kept a really big secret
from my sister.
290
00:11:11,772 --> 00:11:13,073
- I'm scared
she's gonna tell me
291
00:11:13,140 --> 00:11:14,674
that's not
my biological father.
292
00:11:14,741 --> 00:11:15,842
Let's be real here.
293
00:11:19,079 --> 00:11:21,181
- You can't be mad at me,
Brittany!
294
00:11:21,248 --> 00:11:22,583
You can't!
295
00:11:22,650 --> 00:11:24,285
- And when I wanted
to reach out to my dad,
296
00:11:24,351 --> 00:11:26,754
I found out my mom had already
been in contact with him
297
00:11:26,820 --> 00:11:28,088
and never told us.
298
00:11:28,155 --> 00:11:29,656
- Why didn't you tell us
about the letter?
299
00:11:29,723 --> 00:11:30,758
I feel like
that's something that...
300
00:11:30,824 --> 00:11:32,059
- I don't know.
I just forgot.
301
00:11:32,125 --> 00:11:32,893
- You could have told us.
- You didn't forget.
302
00:11:32,959 --> 00:11:34,427
You just [bleep] lied.
303
00:11:34,494 --> 00:11:37,064
- I will never apologize for
protecting you girls, never.
304
00:11:37,131 --> 00:11:39,933
- You're not protecting nobody.
You're hurting people.
305
00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:42,803
You're making it about you.
- Shut up!
306
00:11:42,870 --> 00:11:44,338
- I love my mom,
but all these lies
307
00:11:44,405 --> 00:11:46,840
have definitely affected
the way we look at her.
308
00:11:46,907 --> 00:11:49,476
And lately, she has
been acting strange,
309
00:11:49,543 --> 00:11:52,679
so I need all the support
I can get at the moment,
310
00:11:52,746 --> 00:11:54,648
and luckily, I have
good friends who help.
311
00:11:54,715 --> 00:11:58,051
- 13, 14, 15, 16, 17.
- All right.
312
00:11:58,118 --> 00:12:00,287
See, that's how
I know how to do math.
313
00:12:00,353 --> 00:12:01,655
I need fingers.
314
00:12:01,722 --> 00:12:03,124
I'm gonna go talk
to your mom,
315
00:12:03,190 --> 00:12:04,892
and then you show me how to do
the rest of the homework.
316
00:12:04,958 --> 00:12:06,693
- OK.
- OK?
317
00:12:07,594 --> 00:12:09,196
- Hola, mommy.
318
00:12:09,263 --> 00:12:10,931
- I always said I wanted to
help you put your laundry away.
319
00:12:10,998 --> 00:12:13,533
- Yeah, well, where the [bleep]
is it gonna go?
320
00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:15,269
This is laundry day.
321
00:12:15,336 --> 00:12:18,539
So, honestly, like,
there's so much that's been,
322
00:12:18,605 --> 00:12:20,574
like, happening with my mom.
323
00:12:20,641 --> 00:12:22,343
- Did she say something?
Is it her behavior?
324
00:12:22,409 --> 00:12:23,711
- Her behavior.
325
00:12:23,778 --> 00:12:25,145
She's been just,
like, acting out.
326
00:12:25,212 --> 00:12:28,149
Like, she'll call us,
cursing us out, crying.
327
00:12:28,215 --> 00:12:30,217
Like, a lot of weird,
different things is going on.
328
00:12:30,284 --> 00:12:31,651
Did I tell you how
she almost fought Brittany
329
00:12:31,718 --> 00:12:34,154
at a restaurant?
- No.
330
00:12:34,221 --> 00:12:36,089
- She threw water at Britt--
- Why?
331
00:12:36,156 --> 00:12:37,557
- There was just
a disagreement.
332
00:12:37,624 --> 00:12:39,293
My mom--
333
00:12:39,359 --> 00:12:41,761
- Wow, what did Brittany do?
334
00:12:41,828 --> 00:12:43,630
- Nothing, because
the girls were there.
335
00:12:43,697 --> 00:12:45,699
- Oh, [bleep].
336
00:12:45,765 --> 00:12:47,901
- And my sister is,
like, fed up with her.
337
00:12:47,968 --> 00:12:49,703
My sister has her blocked.
338
00:12:49,770 --> 00:12:50,604
My sister wants no contact,
no nothing.
339
00:12:50,671 --> 00:12:51,772
- I was gonna say that.
340
00:12:51,839 --> 00:12:52,739
Knowing Brittany,
she's probably like,
341
00:12:52,806 --> 00:12:53,974
"You're cut off."
342
00:12:54,041 --> 00:12:55,242
- And she is getting married
this year.
343
00:12:55,309 --> 00:12:56,777
We should be focusing on that.
344
00:12:56,843 --> 00:12:59,113
- Have you guys spoken
to your mom to see,
345
00:12:59,179 --> 00:13:00,714
like, what's actually
happening with her?
346
00:13:00,780 --> 00:13:02,516
Because now you guys
are not at the house.
347
00:13:02,583 --> 00:13:04,618
So, before,
she was occupied with you
348
00:13:04,684 --> 00:13:06,220
and Brittany and the girls,
349
00:13:06,287 --> 00:13:08,956
and now she has all
this free time in the world,
350
00:13:09,022 --> 00:13:11,859
and now she can't keep
everything bottled up anymore.
351
00:13:11,925 --> 00:13:14,394
- Something has to change
352
00:13:14,461 --> 00:13:17,764
because I'm not gonna allow
you to do these things
353
00:13:17,831 --> 00:13:19,533
in front of my kids.
- Yeah.
354
00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:26,640
♪♪ ♪♪
355
00:13:31,011 --> 00:13:33,880
- Hello?
- Hola, hola.
356
00:13:33,947 --> 00:13:35,449
Do you think you can come over?
357
00:13:35,516 --> 00:13:39,186
I would like to talk to mom,
all three of us, together.
358
00:13:39,252 --> 00:13:41,855
- I agree.
I do want to talk.
359
00:13:41,922 --> 00:13:43,456
- All right,
I'm gonna text mom.
360
00:13:43,523 --> 00:13:45,159
- OK, I'll be there
in a little while.
361
00:13:45,225 --> 00:13:47,561
- All right, bye.
- All right, bye.
362
00:13:47,628 --> 00:13:50,530
[tense music]
363
00:13:50,597 --> 00:13:57,671
♪♪ ♪♪
364
00:14:10,450 --> 00:14:12,252
- There's so much [bleep].
365
00:14:12,319 --> 00:14:14,888
They have no idea.
366
00:14:14,955 --> 00:14:19,326
♪♪ ♪♪
367
00:14:24,197 --> 00:14:25,732
- ♪♪ All out of money,
and you're running behind ♪♪
368
00:14:25,799 --> 00:14:28,402
♪♪ Oh, oh,
daddy took your ride ♪♪
369
00:14:28,468 --> 00:14:30,537
♪♪ Everything sucks,
and it's all bad news ♪♪
370
00:14:30,604 --> 00:14:34,842
♪♪ But don't worry, I got you ♪♪
371
00:14:34,908 --> 00:14:36,643
- What are you doing?
372
00:14:36,710 --> 00:14:38,245
Are you studying to get
your learner's permit?
373
00:14:38,312 --> 00:14:39,346
- Yeah.
374
00:14:39,413 --> 00:14:41,548
- What do you do
at a roundabout?
375
00:14:41,615 --> 00:14:42,917
- Yield.
376
00:14:42,983 --> 00:14:44,551
It's, like, a rolling stop.
377
00:14:44,618 --> 00:14:47,120
- Rolling stop,
that's a good term, OK.
378
00:14:47,187 --> 00:14:49,356
When else would you
have to yield?
379
00:14:49,422 --> 00:14:52,693
- Getting on the highway.
- Yeah, good job.
380
00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:54,928
- ♪♪ Hey,
nothing's gonna stop me ♪♪
381
00:14:54,995 --> 00:14:57,564
♪♪ Now 'cause
I'm feeling good ♪♪
382
00:14:57,631 --> 00:15:01,668
♪♪ Oh, oh, oh,
I'm feeling good ♪♪
383
00:15:03,237 --> 00:15:05,072
- Do you ever come in here,
like,
384
00:15:05,138 --> 00:15:07,507
fully prepared to do something,
and then you see it
385
00:15:07,574 --> 00:15:09,977
and you're like, "Oh, no."
386
00:15:10,044 --> 00:15:11,478
I can't believe Benny failed.
387
00:15:11,545 --> 00:15:13,747
I think he thought
it was gonna be easy.
388
00:15:13,814 --> 00:15:16,984
- We need to set up some rules.
- Hm.
389
00:15:17,050 --> 00:15:19,619
Well, you can drive
only when accompanied
390
00:15:19,686 --> 00:15:22,589
by a licensed driver
over the age of 21,
391
00:15:22,656 --> 00:15:24,658
who has to be riding
in the front seat.
392
00:15:24,725 --> 00:15:26,660
- He don't need to be driving
anybody else's car
393
00:15:26,726 --> 00:15:28,262
that's not a family member,
to be honest.
394
00:15:28,328 --> 00:15:29,763
- That's facts.
395
00:15:29,830 --> 00:15:31,932
So, just kind of, like,
only comfortable with Bentley
396
00:15:31,998 --> 00:15:35,302
driving with, like, me or you
or my parents, your parents,
397
00:15:35,369 --> 00:15:36,770
or Jen and Larry.
398
00:15:36,837 --> 00:15:39,640
But I think there's a lot
of things that have gone on
399
00:15:39,706 --> 00:15:41,375
with Ryan in the last year.
400
00:15:41,442 --> 00:15:43,010
About three months ago,
401
00:15:43,077 --> 00:15:44,945
Ryan was released
from his halfway house
402
00:15:45,012 --> 00:15:46,647
and moved into
Jen and Larry's.
403
00:15:46,714 --> 00:15:48,481
Shortly after he was released,
404
00:15:48,548 --> 00:15:49,916
he was pulled over
for speeding.
405
00:15:49,983 --> 00:15:52,319
Because of his DUI
earlier this year,
406
00:15:52,385 --> 00:15:53,821
Ryan will have
a restricted license
407
00:15:53,887 --> 00:15:55,622
for a year.
408
00:15:55,689 --> 00:15:59,326
However, he's sober
and is doing well.
409
00:15:59,393 --> 00:16:04,165
- I think Ryan's
doing good in his recovery.
410
00:16:04,231 --> 00:16:06,600
- But like, I don't know.
411
00:16:06,667 --> 00:16:10,370
I feel like there's still
some proving
412
00:16:10,437 --> 00:16:13,640
he has to do
before we'll let Bentley
413
00:16:13,707 --> 00:16:17,944
drive a vehicle if Ryan
is the licensed adult
414
00:16:18,011 --> 00:16:19,513
in the car with him.
415
00:16:19,580 --> 00:16:20,747
After Bentley gets
a little practice
416
00:16:20,814 --> 00:16:22,082
under his belt,
and I think that's
417
00:16:22,148 --> 00:16:23,784
just a conversation we have
418
00:16:23,850 --> 00:16:25,686
with Bentley and Ryan,
just to make sure
419
00:16:25,753 --> 00:16:27,688
we're all on the same page
of what the rules are
420
00:16:27,755 --> 00:16:28,989
and stuff like that.
What do you think?
421
00:16:29,056 --> 00:16:30,858
How do you feel about it?
- I agree.
422
00:16:30,924 --> 00:16:34,828
Yeah, I think some
more proving, you know?
423
00:16:34,895 --> 00:16:36,397
- At the end of the day,
like, it's--
424
00:16:36,463 --> 00:16:38,165
the main goal is what
it's always been,
425
00:16:38,232 --> 00:16:41,668
which is, like, to make
this once boy, now young man,
426
00:16:41,735 --> 00:16:46,540
grow into a healthy,
self-sufficient,
427
00:16:46,607 --> 00:16:48,309
responsible adult.
428
00:16:48,375 --> 00:16:49,576
The way things are going,
429
00:16:49,643 --> 00:16:52,012
we can all be a part
of that process.
430
00:16:52,079 --> 00:16:53,580
- Yeah.
431
00:16:53,647 --> 00:16:55,215
- But we have to be
on the same page.
432
00:16:55,282 --> 00:16:56,317
- Right.
433
00:16:56,384 --> 00:16:59,152
- How did we get here?
[laughs]
434
00:16:59,219 --> 00:17:02,222
I want off this roller coaster.
435
00:17:02,289 --> 00:17:05,258
[upbeat music]
436
00:17:05,325 --> 00:17:08,428
♪♪ ♪♪
437
00:17:08,495 --> 00:17:10,063
- ♪♪ Set up the attention ♪♪
438
00:17:10,130 --> 00:17:12,666
♪♪ We 'bout ready for action ♪♪
439
00:17:12,732 --> 00:17:16,503
- Cory came over
and basically dropped a bomb,
440
00:17:16,570 --> 00:17:20,640
that he bought Ryder
a ticket to go to Michigan
441
00:17:20,707 --> 00:17:22,709
for Christmas break.
- Did he ask you?
442
00:17:22,776 --> 00:17:24,879
- Well, he told me
he bought the ticket.
443
00:17:24,945 --> 00:17:26,747
He's planned the trip
and talked to Ryder about it,
444
00:17:26,814 --> 00:17:28,381
and now this is him asking me.
445
00:17:28,448 --> 00:17:30,684
- That means she's not gonna be
with us on Christmas, at all?
446
00:17:30,750 --> 00:17:32,986
- Well, that is
the conversation.
447
00:17:33,053 --> 00:17:35,355
I get that he wants
to experience Christmas
448
00:17:35,422 --> 00:17:37,591
with his kids and his family.
449
00:17:37,657 --> 00:17:40,427
It's the way
you went about doing it that,
450
00:17:40,493 --> 00:17:41,829
I can't co-parent like that.
451
00:17:41,895 --> 00:17:43,430
Like, we've never
co-parented like that.
452
00:17:43,496 --> 00:17:45,766
So why are you
all of a sudden doing it?
453
00:17:45,833 --> 00:17:47,133
- But, like, you have
to put your feelings aside,
454
00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:49,302
and, you know, we kind of
live by the motto,
455
00:17:49,369 --> 00:17:52,172
put the kids first.
You got to put the kids first.
456
00:17:52,239 --> 00:17:53,674
It sucks.
It sucks.
457
00:17:53,741 --> 00:17:56,209
I'm mad [bleep].
- This one's tough.
458
00:17:56,276 --> 00:17:57,544
I'm sorry.
459
00:17:57,611 --> 00:17:59,379
I'm struggling 'cause,
you know, that's my girl.
460
00:17:59,446 --> 00:18:02,883
But Cory is a great dad,
461
00:18:02,950 --> 00:18:07,621
and I feel he bends for you,
as well.
462
00:18:09,123 --> 00:18:11,691
He'll say, "Why, when?"
But he pays for those parties.
463
00:18:11,758 --> 00:18:13,560
He helps you pay
for those birthday parties.
464
00:18:13,627 --> 00:18:14,728
He doesn't fuss.
465
00:18:14,795 --> 00:18:16,163
I'm just saying, you know,
466
00:18:16,230 --> 00:18:18,299
Cory basically does
what you ask.
467
00:18:18,366 --> 00:18:19,699
Does he not?
468
00:18:22,436 --> 00:18:24,438
- I'm not saying
that he's a bad guy.
469
00:18:24,505 --> 00:18:25,605
- I know, I know.
470
00:18:25,672 --> 00:18:26,574
- I'm not saying
he's a bad dad.
471
00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:27,874
- Cory is a good dad.
472
00:18:27,941 --> 00:18:29,009
- It's just the way
he went about it.
473
00:18:29,076 --> 00:18:30,578
- I know, I know.
474
00:18:30,644 --> 00:18:31,878
- I'm not saying anything
negative about him.
475
00:18:31,945 --> 00:18:33,514
I'm just saying, "[bleep] him."
476
00:18:33,580 --> 00:18:34,981
- I know
you don't want to hear it,
477
00:18:35,048 --> 00:18:37,717
but this is part
of co-parenting,
478
00:18:37,784 --> 00:18:39,419
is making the sacrifice.
479
00:18:39,486 --> 00:18:43,623
So what are we leaning towards?
We're leaning towards--
480
00:18:43,690 --> 00:18:45,426
- I'm not leaning
towards anything.
481
00:18:45,493 --> 00:18:48,028
I think I'm just
at a point of, like,
482
00:18:48,094 --> 00:18:50,764
I'm just gonna ask Ryder
what she wants to do.
483
00:18:50,831 --> 00:18:54,802
[soft dramatic music]
484
00:18:54,868 --> 00:19:01,575
- ♪♪ I wish you were braver ♪♪
485
00:19:01,642 --> 00:19:06,680
♪♪ I can't stay here anymore ♪♪
486
00:19:06,746 --> 00:19:09,717
- Santa, so, you have
to put your name,
487
00:19:09,784 --> 00:19:12,285
your age,
if you've been nice,
488
00:19:12,352 --> 00:19:14,355
naughty,
or a little bit of both.
489
00:19:14,421 --> 00:19:17,524
Ace, have you been
nice, naughty, or both?
490
00:19:17,591 --> 00:19:18,992
- Both.
- We know.
491
00:19:19,059 --> 00:19:20,427
- Yeah,
that sounds about right.
492
00:19:20,494 --> 00:19:22,463
- Ryder, have you been
nice, naughty, or both?
493
00:19:22,529 --> 00:19:24,298
- Both.
- I love the honesty!
494
00:19:24,365 --> 00:19:25,899
- At least they're honest!
- I love it.
495
00:19:25,966 --> 00:19:29,502
Santa is gonna love
the honesty too.
496
00:19:29,569 --> 00:19:33,140
You're moving.
- [laughs]
497
00:19:33,206 --> 00:19:34,841
- Ry?
- Yeah.
498
00:19:34,908 --> 00:19:36,644
- I want to talk
about Christmas with you.
499
00:19:36,710 --> 00:19:38,979
- You do?
- I do.
500
00:19:39,045 --> 00:19:42,583
I know your dad told you
about going on a trip.
501
00:19:42,650 --> 00:19:45,252
- I think it sounds
cool and exciting.
502
00:19:45,319 --> 00:19:46,620
- You think it sounds cool
and exciting?
503
00:19:46,687 --> 00:19:47,988
- Yeah.
504
00:19:48,055 --> 00:19:51,725
- Do you understand that,
if you go on the trip,
505
00:19:51,792 --> 00:19:53,527
you're not gonna
spend Christmas here,
506
00:19:53,594 --> 00:19:54,794
or your break here?
507
00:19:54,861 --> 00:19:56,830
You're gonna be with
your dad and his family.
508
00:19:56,897 --> 00:19:59,266
- Like, this is the country.
- OK.
509
00:19:59,333 --> 00:20:02,202
- I fly all the way
to the other side?
510
00:20:02,269 --> 00:20:03,771
- Yeah.
- What?
511
00:20:03,838 --> 00:20:05,706
So this is you,
and this is me.
512
00:20:05,773 --> 00:20:07,140
- I'm gonna be
on the other side.
513
00:20:07,207 --> 00:20:08,742
You can't call me, like,
if you're at your dad's house
514
00:20:08,809 --> 00:20:11,812
and say, "I want to come home,"
and I come over and get you.
515
00:20:11,879 --> 00:20:14,481
Are you OK with that?
- Yes.
516
00:20:14,547 --> 00:20:16,750
- OK.
517
00:20:16,817 --> 00:20:18,619
We're both really good parents.
518
00:20:18,686 --> 00:20:21,355
He is a really good dad.
He loves Ry.
519
00:20:21,422 --> 00:20:22,822
He loves all his girls.
520
00:20:22,889 --> 00:20:24,658
So I have to respect that,
521
00:20:24,724 --> 00:20:29,796
and I have to allow him
to create memories
522
00:20:29,863 --> 00:20:33,467
with Ryder and his family
that are just for them.
523
00:20:33,534 --> 00:20:35,936
And because of that,
I'm trying not to be selfish
524
00:20:36,003 --> 00:20:38,772
in my own feelings,
and it's hard.
525
00:20:38,839 --> 00:20:40,707
It's hard for me to hide them.
526
00:20:40,774 --> 00:20:45,312
♪♪ ♪♪
527
00:20:49,350 --> 00:20:52,252
[upbeat music]
528
00:20:52,319 --> 00:20:55,756
♪♪ ♪♪
529
00:20:55,823 --> 00:20:59,593
- Homeschooling is not easy,
not for the faint of heart.
530
00:20:59,660 --> 00:21:02,129
Big round of applause for
all the teachers out there.
531
00:21:02,196 --> 00:21:03,830
This has been so tough.
532
00:21:03,897 --> 00:21:08,635
But I need some adult time,
some me time, some tea time.
533
00:21:08,702 --> 00:21:10,337
So I'm gonna go out tonight
534
00:21:10,404 --> 00:21:12,405
and have some dinner
with my friend Karem
535
00:21:12,472 --> 00:21:13,907
and my friend Chelsea.
536
00:21:13,974 --> 00:21:15,442
- Hi!
- Hey.
537
00:21:15,509 --> 00:21:17,210
- This is my friend, Karem.
- Nice to meet you.
538
00:21:17,277 --> 00:21:18,345
I'm Chelsea.
- Hi.
539
00:21:18,412 --> 00:21:21,482
♪♪ ♪♪
540
00:21:21,549 --> 00:21:23,484
- Me and Karem
used to be friends
541
00:21:23,550 --> 00:21:24,852
when we were, like,
I don't even know how old
542
00:21:24,918 --> 00:21:27,688
it was, like, 14?
- Don't say the ages.
543
00:21:27,754 --> 00:21:32,092
- And then, Chelsea, I haven't
seen you since the wedding.
544
00:21:32,159 --> 00:21:33,627
- Yeah.
- It was fun.
545
00:21:33,693 --> 00:21:36,397
Did you have fun?
- I had a great time.
546
00:21:36,463 --> 00:21:38,299
- I just talked to Amber.
547
00:21:38,365 --> 00:21:40,367
She said that
she had a great time.
548
00:21:40,434 --> 00:21:43,604
♪♪ ♪♪
549
00:21:43,670 --> 00:21:45,739
- But I think
she has a new boyfriend now.
550
00:21:45,806 --> 00:21:49,476
- I don't-- you know,
the details are a little fuzzy,
551
00:21:49,543 --> 00:21:51,245
but I had a great time.
552
00:21:51,311 --> 00:21:53,080
- Love was in the air.
553
00:21:53,147 --> 00:21:54,615
- So how is it being married?
554
00:21:54,682 --> 00:21:56,884
- I think it just feels
mad professional,
555
00:21:56,950 --> 00:21:59,686
when I'm like, "My husband,"
556
00:21:59,753 --> 00:22:02,056
instead of being like,
"My boyfriend!"
557
00:22:02,122 --> 00:22:04,558
So pray for me.
558
00:22:04,624 --> 00:22:07,695
You know, I took Kloie
out of school.
559
00:22:07,761 --> 00:22:10,698
I've been homeschooling her
because Kloie
560
00:22:10,764 --> 00:22:12,566
was kind of getting picked on.
She'd come home.
561
00:22:12,633 --> 00:22:14,067
She would cry
and say she didn't want
562
00:22:14,134 --> 00:22:15,135
to go to school,
which was weird
563
00:22:15,201 --> 00:22:16,737
because she loved preschool.
564
00:22:16,804 --> 00:22:19,540
So, right now, I'm just looking
into gonna a private school,
565
00:22:19,607 --> 00:22:21,208
like, not doing
homeschooling forever.
566
00:22:21,275 --> 00:22:22,643
- Are you the only one
homeschooling her,
567
00:22:22,709 --> 00:22:24,545
or does Sean help?
- We both do it.
568
00:22:24,611 --> 00:22:26,279
But Sean's obviously home
with her more.
569
00:22:26,346 --> 00:22:27,648
So he does it.
570
00:22:27,715 --> 00:22:30,718
But I know it's got to be hard,
staying at home.
571
00:22:30,784 --> 00:22:32,152
I feel like that job
is harder than what I do.
572
00:22:32,219 --> 00:22:33,554
I couldn't stay at home.
573
00:22:33,621 --> 00:22:34,888
- I tried to home-school
my daughter
574
00:22:34,955 --> 00:22:39,493
for, like, two weeks.
I don't have it in me.
575
00:22:39,559 --> 00:22:42,662
- Really quick,
to mom's night out.
576
00:22:44,231 --> 00:22:46,867
Cheers, guys.
577
00:22:46,934 --> 00:22:48,469
♪♪ ♪♪
578
00:22:48,535 --> 00:22:50,103
- Nope, still don't like it.
579
00:22:50,170 --> 00:22:57,277
♪♪ ♪♪
580
00:23:02,950 --> 00:23:07,020
- I mean, the home-school
is not for the weak-hearted.
581
00:23:07,087 --> 00:23:08,488
- Yeah.
582
00:23:08,555 --> 00:23:10,690
- Sometimes, I'm a little quick
to get upset,
583
00:23:10,757 --> 00:23:13,560
but being around her
all day long,
584
00:23:13,627 --> 00:23:18,599
every minute of the day,
is not easy to do.
585
00:23:18,665 --> 00:23:20,167
I feel like
she needs her own time.
586
00:23:20,234 --> 00:23:21,502
I need my own time.
587
00:23:21,569 --> 00:23:23,604
And you need your own time,
too, so...
588
00:23:23,671 --> 00:23:25,339
- Yeah, going back to school,
I think
589
00:23:25,405 --> 00:23:26,840
she'll be a lot happier
because when
590
00:23:26,907 --> 00:23:29,577
she was at
the private preschool,
591
00:23:29,643 --> 00:23:32,480
she was really happy.
- Yeah.
592
00:23:32,546 --> 00:23:35,082
- I think once Kloie starts
back in private school,
593
00:23:35,148 --> 00:23:38,686
it'll be way better
for me and Sean's relationship.
594
00:23:38,753 --> 00:23:40,454
I think this whole experience
595
00:23:40,521 --> 00:23:41,955
just made me hypervigilant
596
00:23:42,022 --> 00:23:44,725
on what I'm looking for
in a school.
597
00:23:44,792 --> 00:23:47,594
I think a lot of this is
just, like, a learning curve
598
00:23:47,661 --> 00:23:49,162
and a learning experience
on how
599
00:23:49,229 --> 00:23:50,797
we make choices for our kid.
600
00:23:50,864 --> 00:23:53,734
And it'll be such
a huge relief when
601
00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:57,271
we get her into a school
that, you know, fits her,
602
00:23:57,338 --> 00:23:59,973
and she's happy.
603
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:03,143
- ♪♪ We were formed
in the fire ♪♪
604
00:24:03,210 --> 00:24:05,245
♪♪ Gasoline to the fire ♪♪
605
00:24:05,312 --> 00:24:07,448
- Hey, y'all,
Bentley spent some more time
606
00:24:07,515 --> 00:24:09,349
studying for his permit test,
607
00:24:09,416 --> 00:24:11,252
so he took it again.
608
00:24:11,318 --> 00:24:12,719
- Passed.
609
00:24:12,786 --> 00:24:16,123
- He got his learner's permit!
610
00:24:16,190 --> 00:24:17,290
Terrifying.
611
00:24:17,357 --> 00:24:19,693
How do you feel?
- Relieved.
612
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:21,428
- Are you ready?
- Yes.
613
00:24:21,495 --> 00:24:22,896
- I'm not!
614
00:24:22,963 --> 00:24:24,431
♪♪ ♪♪
615
00:24:24,498 --> 00:24:26,600
- ♪♪ When we rise
like a phoenix ♪♪
616
00:24:26,667 --> 00:24:29,269
♪♪ Back from the ashes ♪♪
617
00:24:29,336 --> 00:24:34,107
♪♪ Nothing's gonna keep us
down, down, down, yeah ♪♪
618
00:24:34,174 --> 00:24:40,013
♪♪ ♪♪
619
00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:41,915
- Bentley, did you get
your learner's permit?
620
00:24:41,982 --> 00:24:43,717
- Mm-hmm.
- You pass your test?
621
00:24:43,784 --> 00:24:46,419
- Yeah.
- Boom.
622
00:24:49,289 --> 00:24:52,292
- That thing that's up here
in the windshield,
623
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,027
it's called a rear view mirror.
624
00:24:54,094 --> 00:24:56,863
And that is used
when people are behind you
625
00:24:56,930 --> 00:24:58,565
and they want by.
626
00:24:58,632 --> 00:24:59,900
You put that thing
that's called a blinker on,
627
00:24:59,967 --> 00:25:03,503
and you move over
and let the fast guy go on by.
628
00:25:03,570 --> 00:25:06,006
- Ryan, you got any rules?
- Just be careful.
629
00:25:06,072 --> 00:25:10,177
- I guess you could say that
poetic justice is being served
630
00:25:10,244 --> 00:25:12,979
right now with Ryan
having a restricted license,
631
00:25:13,046 --> 00:25:16,984
while Bentley is getting
a restricted license.
632
00:25:17,051 --> 00:25:19,653
I mean, at least Bentley's
got a perfect example
633
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:21,355
of what not to do.
634
00:25:21,422 --> 00:25:24,358
- ♪♪ We'll be all right ♪♪
635
00:25:24,425 --> 00:25:31,131
♪♪ ♪♪
636
00:25:31,198 --> 00:25:33,634
- After doing some research,
I found a long-term
637
00:25:33,700 --> 00:25:36,003
rehab program for my dad.
638
00:25:36,070 --> 00:25:40,174
So, today, I'm going to
pick him up from detox,
639
00:25:40,241 --> 00:25:41,508
and I'm gonna take him there.
640
00:25:41,575 --> 00:25:42,877
I think that it will
be good for us
641
00:25:42,943 --> 00:25:44,811
to have that time alone
and kind of
642
00:25:44,878 --> 00:25:45,946
try to get to know each other.
643
00:25:48,415 --> 00:25:49,850
All right, you ready?
644
00:25:49,916 --> 00:25:52,786
- Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- Whoo!
645
00:25:52,853 --> 00:25:54,188
- ♪♪ I don't give a ♪♪
646
00:25:54,255 --> 00:25:57,023
♪♪ I don't care
what the world thinks ♪♪
647
00:25:59,193 --> 00:26:01,161
- How are you?
Are you just feeling anxious?
648
00:26:01,228 --> 00:26:02,763
I feel like you're--
- How am I feeling?
649
00:26:02,830 --> 00:26:04,832
- Yeah, I feel like you're
a little fidgety over there.
650
00:26:04,898 --> 00:26:07,101
- I am, a little bit.
651
00:26:07,168 --> 00:26:09,703
I mean, I--
652
00:26:09,770 --> 00:26:12,739
I don't know what to expect.
- Mm-hmm.
653
00:26:12,806 --> 00:26:15,843
- I just hope these people
are as good as the last ones.
654
00:26:15,910 --> 00:26:20,547
- When I went into the
rehab facility in Arizona,
655
00:26:20,614 --> 00:26:22,916
I was scared.
- You was?
656
00:26:22,983 --> 00:26:26,386
- Yes.
- So how are you feeling?
657
00:26:26,453 --> 00:26:29,656
- I am so--
a little tired.
658
00:26:29,723 --> 00:26:31,424
And I've been sick
to my stomach.
659
00:26:31,491 --> 00:26:33,060
I'm gonna need help
with the girls
660
00:26:33,127 --> 00:26:38,432
while I go and do his therapy,
like, like, I guess,
661
00:26:38,498 --> 00:26:40,134
at a facility or something.
662
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:41,668
So you guys are gonna go
to your daddy's tomorrow,
663
00:26:41,735 --> 00:26:43,437
and Mommy's gonna go leave
664
00:26:43,504 --> 00:26:45,239
to go to therapy
for a little while.
665
00:26:45,305 --> 00:26:48,075
Listen, so I'm just gonna leave
for a few weeks, OK?
666
00:26:48,141 --> 00:26:50,678
And Mommy's gonna talk
to you every day.
667
00:26:50,744 --> 00:26:52,012
I think, more than anything,
668
00:26:52,078 --> 00:26:54,047
I didn't want to have
to leave my kids.
669
00:26:54,114 --> 00:26:57,718
But I know that
leaving my kids was--
670
00:26:57,785 --> 00:27:01,788
for 30 days was the best thing
671
00:27:01,855 --> 00:27:03,657
that I could do for them
at that time.
672
00:27:03,724 --> 00:27:05,426
They were my life.
673
00:27:05,492 --> 00:27:06,993
I was never a bad mom.
674
00:27:07,060 --> 00:27:08,529
I just got hooked
on medications
675
00:27:08,595 --> 00:27:09,963
that were prescribed to me.
676
00:27:10,030 --> 00:27:12,599
And then I felt like
it was sink or swim,
677
00:27:12,666 --> 00:27:14,167
but I kept sinking.
678
00:27:14,234 --> 00:27:17,170
- Yeah, well, I felt so bad
doing them with you myself.
679
00:27:17,237 --> 00:27:19,606
It still bugs me.
680
00:27:21,508 --> 00:27:23,077
I've given you
a stick of dynamite.
681
00:27:23,143 --> 00:27:26,079
Be careful of this.
It's lit. But--
682
00:27:28,215 --> 00:27:29,749
- It's OK.
683
00:27:31,518 --> 00:27:33,720
- Hey, you got to be careful
with a stick of dynamite.
684
00:27:35,188 --> 00:27:38,925
- If anything, I held
a bigger grudge because
685
00:27:38,992 --> 00:27:40,427
you just vanished
when I was young.
686
00:27:40,494 --> 00:27:42,496
And I think there was
a lot of responsibility
687
00:27:42,563 --> 00:27:45,499
put on me as the oldest.
688
00:27:45,565 --> 00:27:47,033
And, yes, I looked like you,
689
00:27:47,100 --> 00:27:50,304
and I acted
a little bit like you.
690
00:27:50,370 --> 00:27:53,773
And I-- Mom was angry.
691
00:27:57,010 --> 00:27:59,680
There's always
a mountain to climb.
692
00:27:59,747 --> 00:28:01,047
You just got to keep climbing.
693
00:28:01,114 --> 00:28:02,483
And then,
when you think that there's
694
00:28:02,550 --> 00:28:03,617
not gonna be
another mountain,
695
00:28:03,684 --> 00:28:05,018
let me just tell you what.
696
00:28:05,085 --> 00:28:06,353
There will be another
mother[bleep] mountain
697
00:28:06,419 --> 00:28:07,721
that you got to climb.
698
00:28:07,788 --> 00:28:09,756
And you just got to keep going.
699
00:28:09,823 --> 00:28:12,159
You got to keep going.
- Yep.
700
00:28:12,226 --> 00:28:14,161
- Now the ball
is in your court.
701
00:28:14,227 --> 00:28:15,763
- Yep.
702
00:28:15,829 --> 00:28:18,132
You know, I've not only
got the position
703
00:28:18,198 --> 00:28:19,800
of getting my life back
in order,
704
00:28:19,866 --> 00:28:22,169
but being able to be
in my grandkids' life.
705
00:28:22,236 --> 00:28:25,172
You lose so much of your life
on that stuff that you don't--
706
00:28:25,239 --> 00:28:28,375
you don't even know.
You don't even realize.
707
00:28:28,441 --> 00:28:33,447
- If you stick to this
and you follow through--
708
00:28:33,514 --> 00:28:34,781
- If, what you mean, if?
709
00:28:34,848 --> 00:28:38,619
- When you follow through
with this
710
00:28:38,685 --> 00:28:41,721
and you keep up
with your recovery,
711
00:28:41,788 --> 00:28:44,724
that's really
where your starting over
712
00:28:44,791 --> 00:28:46,393
will come into play.
713
00:28:46,460 --> 00:28:50,831
And I think a lot of times
that you might have missed out
714
00:28:50,897 --> 00:28:53,233
on with us,
you'll be able to regain that
715
00:28:53,300 --> 00:28:56,636
and find healing
in building a relationship
716
00:28:56,703 --> 00:28:57,804
with your grandchildren.
717
00:28:57,871 --> 00:28:59,373
It's your legacy.
718
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,075
- You know, that's
a big part of my recovery.
719
00:29:01,141 --> 00:29:02,342
- Yes.
720
00:29:02,409 --> 00:29:06,880
- Because if I even go back,
I lose all that.
721
00:29:06,947 --> 00:29:09,250
- Yeah.
- Look what I'm losing.
722
00:29:09,316 --> 00:29:10,684
[somber pop music]
723
00:29:10,751 --> 00:29:12,152
- ♪♪ Everything's changed ♪♪
724
00:29:12,219 --> 00:29:14,855
♪♪ Now, you're on a plane,
leaving ♪♪
725
00:29:14,921 --> 00:29:16,423
- Uh-oh, there it is.
726
00:29:16,490 --> 00:29:20,127
- ♪♪ All you know for ♪♪
727
00:29:20,194 --> 00:29:21,761
- It's pretty!
728
00:29:21,828 --> 00:29:23,330
- It don't look too old,
does it?
729
00:29:23,397 --> 00:29:24,932
- No, it looks nice.
730
00:29:24,998 --> 00:29:27,468
It looks homey.
731
00:29:27,534 --> 00:29:28,935
All right, you ready?
732
00:29:31,138 --> 00:29:35,743
- I got to strip search,
get in the shower.
733
00:29:35,809 --> 00:29:37,945
- You got this.
734
00:29:38,012 --> 00:29:39,947
There's a lot
of mixed emotions.
735
00:29:40,014 --> 00:29:42,816
And it's scary
because here I am,
736
00:29:42,883 --> 00:29:44,117
getting emotionally invested.
737
00:29:44,184 --> 00:29:46,954
But I am beyond proud of my dad
738
00:29:47,020 --> 00:29:49,690
for taking the step
to go to rehab.
739
00:29:49,757 --> 00:29:52,459
It's not an easy step to make,
740
00:29:52,526 --> 00:29:55,329
especially knowing
what you're gonna go through
741
00:29:55,395 --> 00:30:02,002
and staying committed.
He's about to go in.
742
00:30:02,069 --> 00:30:06,340
I'm proud of this young man,
this young mountain man.
743
00:30:06,407 --> 00:30:09,643
Let's go.
You ready?
744
00:30:09,709 --> 00:30:11,712
You got any last words?
- Huh?
745
00:30:11,779 --> 00:30:13,581
- You got
any last words to say?
746
00:30:13,647 --> 00:30:15,115
Or, well--
- No, let's get it done.
747
00:30:15,182 --> 00:30:16,417
- Let's get it.
- Get her done.
748
00:30:16,483 --> 00:30:18,718
- OK, let's get her done.
749
00:30:25,492 --> 00:30:27,194
- ♪♪ It feels good to be me ♪♪
750
00:30:27,261 --> 00:30:30,030
♪♪ Na, na, na, na, na, na ♪♪
751
00:30:30,096 --> 00:30:32,265
♪♪ It feels good to be free ♪♪
752
00:30:32,332 --> 00:30:33,800
- Hey, y'all.
753
00:30:33,867 --> 00:30:35,269
OK, I really need
y'all to pray for me
754
00:30:35,335 --> 00:30:36,971
because I'm about
to take Bentley
755
00:30:37,037 --> 00:30:39,573
on his first practice drive.
756
00:30:41,308 --> 00:30:42,943
I'm anxious
to see how this goes.
757
00:30:43,010 --> 00:30:45,345
I'm definitely not gonna be
buying a 15-year-old
758
00:30:45,412 --> 00:30:46,814
a car anytime soon.
759
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:50,050
So, for now, he'll just
use mine and Taylor's cars.
760
00:30:50,116 --> 00:30:51,718
Bless us.
761
00:30:51,785 --> 00:30:54,054
- ♪♪ It feels good to be free ♪♪
762
00:30:54,121 --> 00:30:55,989
♪♪ Da, da, da, da, da, da ♪♪
763
00:30:56,056 --> 00:30:57,491
♪♪ Yeah ♪♪
764
00:30:57,558 --> 00:31:00,527
♪♪ It feels good to be me ♪♪
765
00:31:00,594 --> 00:31:05,032
- For now, obviously
you can't drive with anybody
766
00:31:05,099 --> 00:31:07,968
but me and Taylor.
767
00:31:08,034 --> 00:31:09,870
If you're at your mee-mee
and papaw's and want to,
768
00:31:09,937 --> 00:31:12,606
and they're OK with it,
I don't see why not,
769
00:31:12,672 --> 00:31:14,441
but I want you to get
some practice under your belt
770
00:31:14,507 --> 00:31:15,775
before you drive with Ryan.
771
00:31:17,211 --> 00:31:19,146
- I'm backing up.
772
00:31:19,213 --> 00:31:22,049
[upbeat music]
773
00:31:22,116 --> 00:31:26,453
♪♪ ♪♪
774
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:29,056
- I got a fun
little test for you.
775
00:31:29,122 --> 00:31:30,757
Just try and parallel park.
776
00:31:30,824 --> 00:31:32,993
♪♪ ♪♪
777
00:31:33,059 --> 00:31:34,261
We have cones.
- Oh.
778
00:31:34,328 --> 00:31:35,462
- [laughs]
779
00:31:37,164 --> 00:31:40,000
[soft dramatic music]
780
00:31:40,067 --> 00:31:42,769
So we have to pretend
like there's cars.
781
00:31:47,341 --> 00:31:50,777
- Now, all the way left,
and go slow, slow.
782
00:31:52,512 --> 00:31:54,514
You're hitting the cones.
783
00:31:57,551 --> 00:31:58,886
The cones are the car.
784
00:31:58,953 --> 00:32:02,389
[upbeat music]
785
00:32:02,455 --> 00:32:05,225
OK, put it in park.
Let's go look and see.
786
00:32:05,292 --> 00:32:07,594
♪♪ ♪♪
787
00:32:07,661 --> 00:32:10,263
Bentley is learning to drive.
788
00:32:10,330 --> 00:32:11,732
Are you on the concrete?
789
00:32:11,799 --> 00:32:14,168
- I did perfect.
790
00:32:14,234 --> 00:32:16,003
- I wouldn't say perfect.
791
00:32:16,069 --> 00:32:18,172
But it's not terrible.
792
00:32:18,239 --> 00:32:20,808
I mean, you really have
to have faith and trust
793
00:32:20,875 --> 00:32:24,044
that you've done a good job
as a parent.
794
00:32:24,111 --> 00:32:28,215
But they have to learn to
trust themselves and--
795
00:32:28,282 --> 00:32:30,150
and make decisions
on their own.
796
00:32:30,217 --> 00:32:33,420
But it's absolutely terrifying.
797
00:32:33,487 --> 00:32:36,323
♪♪ ♪♪
798
00:32:36,390 --> 00:32:39,292
[soft dramatic music]
799
00:32:39,359 --> 00:32:43,397
♪♪ ♪♪
800
00:32:43,463 --> 00:32:45,866
- Mom says she's on her way.
801
00:32:45,932 --> 00:32:48,235
- How are you feeling?
- I'm feeling OK.
802
00:32:48,301 --> 00:32:50,404
How are you feeling?
- I don't know.
803
00:32:50,471 --> 00:32:52,172
- Part of me wants to believe
804
00:32:52,239 --> 00:32:53,740
it's gonna be the best
conversation we've ever
805
00:32:53,807 --> 00:32:55,609
had throughout our whole life,
806
00:32:55,675 --> 00:32:59,212
but then another part
of me is like, "Hmm,
807
00:32:59,279 --> 00:33:01,182
we're not gonna get anywhere."
We'll figure it out.
808
00:33:01,248 --> 00:33:03,984
- I just hope she respects the
fact that the kids are here,
809
00:33:04,051 --> 00:33:05,452
and she doesn't act out.
810
00:33:05,519 --> 00:33:06,921
♪♪ ♪♪
811
00:33:06,987 --> 00:33:09,523
- ♪♪ Oh, you never
saw it coming ♪♪
812
00:33:09,590 --> 00:33:12,726
♪♪ Break you
with a bang so easily ♪♪
813
00:33:12,792 --> 00:33:14,995
♪♪ Oh, you never
saw it coming ♪♪
814
00:33:15,061 --> 00:33:17,130
- Whoever guesses it right,
whoever guesses right--
815
00:33:17,197 --> 00:33:20,434
Yeah.
- Sushi.
816
00:33:20,500 --> 00:33:22,435
- Dumplings!
- Hey, you're so smart.
817
00:33:22,502 --> 00:33:24,237
Get out of here.
- For real.
818
00:33:24,304 --> 00:33:25,906
- A cat.
819
00:33:25,973 --> 00:33:29,343
A pig, a pig, a roasted pig!
- Yes!
820
00:33:29,410 --> 00:33:30,644
- Hi, guys.
821
00:33:30,711 --> 00:33:32,813
- Hey.
- Hey, Mom.
822
00:33:32,879 --> 00:33:35,081
- What's happening?
- What are you doing?
823
00:33:35,148 --> 00:33:37,417
- Hey, Brittany.
- Hey.
824
00:33:37,484 --> 00:33:40,354
- All right,
I want you guys to go
825
00:33:40,421 --> 00:33:41,888
play a video game with Steven.
826
00:33:41,955 --> 00:33:44,124
- Go play with
your uncle, please.
827
00:33:46,994 --> 00:33:48,128
- How are you, mom?
828
00:33:48,194 --> 00:33:49,563
- I feel like
I got hit by a truck.
829
00:33:49,630 --> 00:33:51,699
[bleep] everything.
830
00:33:51,765 --> 00:33:54,834
Menopause, my anxiety
is through the roof.
831
00:33:54,901 --> 00:33:57,571
Just everything hit me at once.
832
00:33:57,637 --> 00:33:59,306
- Is it 'cause you're alone?
833
00:33:59,373 --> 00:34:02,208
When we all lived with you,
it was a great distraction.
834
00:34:02,275 --> 00:34:05,279
And now, you don't have
that distraction anymore.
835
00:34:05,346 --> 00:34:06,480
You start to get
in your thoughts,
836
00:34:06,547 --> 00:34:08,048
and I don't think
they're pretty thoughts.
837
00:34:08,114 --> 00:34:09,583
- No.
838
00:34:09,650 --> 00:34:11,652
- And now, you're
just going downhill.
839
00:34:11,718 --> 00:34:15,089
- I am, really, really fast.
840
00:34:15,155 --> 00:34:18,125
I'm so cold, my back.
841
00:34:18,192 --> 00:34:20,093
You have traumas.
842
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,830
You have traumas, right?
We all have them.
843
00:34:22,896 --> 00:34:24,331
- Mm-hmm.
844
00:34:24,397 --> 00:34:25,900
- But there are some traumas
845
00:34:25,966 --> 00:34:27,868
that you just
don't come back from.
846
00:34:27,935 --> 00:34:32,006
The toxicity
that I grew up around,
847
00:34:32,073 --> 00:34:35,275
and I don't only mean,
like, regular dysfunction,
848
00:34:35,342 --> 00:34:37,444
I mean addiction.
849
00:34:37,510 --> 00:34:39,246
Shooting heroin
into my father's arm
850
00:34:39,312 --> 00:34:41,649
was the least of my worries.
851
00:34:41,715 --> 00:34:43,617
- So how do you feel
if you can't come back
852
00:34:43,684 --> 00:34:44,985
from some traumas,
853
00:34:45,052 --> 00:34:46,787
this stuff
that you've done to us?
854
00:34:46,854 --> 00:34:48,789
You treat me like [bleep].
You talk to me like [bleep].
855
00:34:48,856 --> 00:34:50,724
You always cross
the [bleep] boundary.
856
00:34:50,791 --> 00:34:51,959
And what if
we can't come back from that
857
00:34:52,026 --> 00:34:53,527
and we just
can't be around you?
858
00:34:53,593 --> 00:34:55,763
- And that's the [bleep] truck
that's hitting me right now.
859
00:34:55,829 --> 00:34:59,032
The fear, the anxiety for what
I've done to you guys,
860
00:34:59,099 --> 00:35:01,168
what I've put you guys
through, in particular you,
861
00:35:01,234 --> 00:35:03,103
those are the things
that I have to deal with.
862
00:35:03,170 --> 00:35:05,306
- At the end of the day,
your mental health
863
00:35:05,372 --> 00:35:07,574
is doing too much to us,
and especially to me,
864
00:35:07,641 --> 00:35:09,910
and I cannot take it no more.
- I agree.
865
00:35:09,976 --> 00:35:11,712
- So then get the mental help.
- You're getting married.
866
00:35:11,778 --> 00:35:13,013
I want us to focus on that.
867
00:35:13,079 --> 00:35:15,015
- You might not be there
if you act like this.
868
00:35:15,081 --> 00:35:17,751
- I can't even believe you're
bringing that up right now.
869
00:35:17,818 --> 00:35:20,120
- Because it's the truth.
- That is such a low blow.
870
00:35:20,187 --> 00:35:23,857
- It's not a low blow.
- I'm gonna go.
871
00:35:23,924 --> 00:35:27,061
No, no, no, no, no, no,
I'm not doing this.
872
00:35:27,127 --> 00:35:30,297
I'm not doing this, no.
- See what I mean?
873
00:35:30,363 --> 00:35:31,798
The wedding?
874
00:35:31,865 --> 00:35:34,735
That is the ultimate,
the ultimate.
875
00:35:34,802 --> 00:35:37,003
- You're not taking
accountability for nothing.
876
00:35:37,070 --> 00:35:38,371
Like, literally,
what the [bleep]
877
00:35:38,438 --> 00:35:40,140
is this conversation?
It does not make sense.
878
00:35:40,207 --> 00:35:41,808
[tense music]
879
00:35:59,393 --> 00:36:02,162
- ♪♪ That's our style ♪♪
880
00:36:02,229 --> 00:36:05,232
♪♪ That's our style ♪♪
881
00:36:05,299 --> 00:36:06,600
[upbeat music]
882
00:36:06,667 --> 00:36:08,102
♪♪ Look how we grow ♪♪
883
00:36:08,169 --> 00:36:11,305
♪♪ We start the fire,
we start the show ♪♪
884
00:36:11,372 --> 00:36:13,406
- Oh, that's how.
885
00:36:13,473 --> 00:36:16,911
That's how it's going
around here now.
886
00:36:16,977 --> 00:36:19,914
Ace, I'm gonna have
to talk to you later too.
887
00:36:19,980 --> 00:36:24,451
- I just want to say,
it was never a problem for her
888
00:36:24,518 --> 00:36:27,320
to go and be with you
or your family.
889
00:36:27,387 --> 00:36:30,357
My issue was just the way
that you went about it.
890
00:36:30,424 --> 00:36:33,193
I feel like the reason
that we co-parent so well,
891
00:36:33,260 --> 00:36:35,595
and have, and I want
to continue to do
892
00:36:35,662 --> 00:36:37,664
is the way that we communicate.
893
00:36:37,731 --> 00:36:40,968
- You know, I could have went
about it differently, for sure.
894
00:36:41,035 --> 00:36:44,204
I apologize for putting that
all on you at once, right?
895
00:36:44,271 --> 00:36:45,772
That's not fair for you.
896
00:36:45,839 --> 00:36:48,475
- Zach told me earlier
that I have to just think
897
00:36:48,542 --> 00:36:50,811
about what we always preach,
and that that's
898
00:36:50,877 --> 00:36:52,479
that the kids come first,
899
00:36:52,546 --> 00:36:54,014
and that's the only way
that this can work.
900
00:36:54,081 --> 00:36:56,817
So I talked to Ryder about it,
901
00:36:56,883 --> 00:36:59,787
and I asked Ry
what she wanted to do.
902
00:36:59,853 --> 00:37:01,355
- Mm-hmm.
903
00:37:01,421 --> 00:37:04,524
- She definitely
is excited about going,
904
00:37:04,591 --> 00:37:08,729
and I'm not gonna
take that away from her.
905
00:37:08,796 --> 00:37:11,031
- Good!
906
00:37:11,097 --> 00:37:16,203
So the answer is yes!
907
00:37:16,269 --> 00:37:19,473
- But I don't want that
to become a trend,
908
00:37:19,540 --> 00:37:21,174
especially for,
like, holidays,
909
00:37:21,241 --> 00:37:23,076
because Christmas is
a big deal...
910
00:37:23,143 --> 00:37:24,478
- Right.
911
00:37:24,544 --> 00:37:26,479
- And I want her too.
912
00:37:26,546 --> 00:37:29,116
I think, moving forward,
ideally,
913
00:37:29,182 --> 00:37:30,918
I don't want to start a trend
of, like,
914
00:37:30,984 --> 00:37:33,186
you have her this Christmas
and I have her next Christmas,
915
00:37:33,253 --> 00:37:35,455
especially if we're both home
916
00:37:35,522 --> 00:37:36,757
and we're ten minutes
away from each other.
917
00:37:36,823 --> 00:37:38,425
There's no reason
to me why Ryder
918
00:37:38,492 --> 00:37:39,960
can't experience
both of her parents
919
00:37:40,027 --> 00:37:41,462
on Christmas Day.
920
00:37:41,528 --> 00:37:43,831
The conversation
comes into place if one of us
921
00:37:43,897 --> 00:37:45,332
want to travel that year.
922
00:37:45,398 --> 00:37:48,101
I just think the times
where that happens,
923
00:37:48,168 --> 00:37:52,372
a conversation is held prior
to a conversation with her,
924
00:37:52,439 --> 00:37:53,840
and prior to a ticket
being purchased.
925
00:37:53,907 --> 00:37:55,809
- Yes, ma'am.
926
00:37:57,678 --> 00:38:00,647
I'll come by and pick her up
and grab all her stuff
927
00:38:00,714 --> 00:38:04,151
and, yeah, we'll be on our way.
- OK.
928
00:38:04,218 --> 00:38:07,154
[somber music]
929
00:38:07,221 --> 00:38:10,557
♪♪ ♪♪
930
00:38:10,624 --> 00:38:12,492
The Grinch is here.
931
00:38:12,559 --> 00:38:15,762
The Grinch is here!
932
00:38:15,829 --> 00:38:17,464
I'm sorry.
933
00:38:17,531 --> 00:38:19,199
You made me feel so bad.
934
00:38:19,266 --> 00:38:22,369
♪♪ ♪♪
935
00:38:22,436 --> 00:38:24,471
- Actually, I'm gonna cry.
936
00:38:24,538 --> 00:38:26,840
Ry, I'm gonna miss you, OK?
- OK.
937
00:38:26,907 --> 00:38:30,010
- You're gonna have
the best Christmas ever, OK?
938
00:38:30,076 --> 00:38:31,578
Just remember to call me.
939
00:38:33,347 --> 00:38:36,883
Co-parenting comes
with sacrifice.
940
00:38:38,052 --> 00:38:40,387
- You're OK.
941
00:38:40,453 --> 00:38:43,157
I'm proud of you.
I am.
942
00:38:43,224 --> 00:38:44,758
- It's weird because
I have two kids,
943
00:38:44,825 --> 00:38:46,660
so I have to suck it up
and get it together
944
00:38:46,727 --> 00:38:50,497
because I still have to make it
a good Christmas for my son.
945
00:38:50,564 --> 00:38:53,333
But at the end of the day,
we're gonna miss her.
946
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:54,735
I'm gonna miss her.
947
00:38:54,802 --> 00:39:00,173
♪♪ ♪♪
948
00:39:00,240 --> 00:39:03,243
[soft dramatic music]
949
00:39:03,310 --> 00:39:05,012
♪♪ ♪♪
950
00:39:05,079 --> 00:39:06,747
- [bleep] wedding.
951
00:39:06,813 --> 00:39:08,883
I can't believe
she just said that.
952
00:39:08,949 --> 00:39:11,618
- You knew she was gonna
act a fool
953
00:39:11,685 --> 00:39:12,986
the moment you brought that up.
954
00:39:13,053 --> 00:39:15,022
♪♪ ♪♪
955
00:39:15,089 --> 00:39:17,224
- She's doing too much.
I'm over her.
956
00:39:17,291 --> 00:39:21,495
♪♪ ♪♪
957
00:39:21,562 --> 00:39:25,132
- Mm-mm, I'm tired of
[bleep] living this life.
958
00:39:25,199 --> 00:39:28,536
♪♪ ♪♪
959
00:39:28,602 --> 00:39:30,270
- What is that?
960
00:39:30,337 --> 00:39:32,873
♪♪ ♪♪
961
00:39:32,940 --> 00:39:35,943
What is that?
What is that?
962
00:39:36,010 --> 00:39:37,544
What's in there?
963
00:39:37,611 --> 00:39:39,246
- The medication
I paid for, Briana.
964
00:39:39,313 --> 00:39:40,714
Help yourself.
965
00:39:40,781 --> 00:39:43,550
It's a narcotic.
It's methadone!
966
00:39:47,988 --> 00:39:49,289
- You were on drugs?
967
00:39:49,356 --> 00:39:52,259
[somber music]
968
00:39:52,326 --> 00:39:58,231
♪♪ ♪♪
969
00:39:58,298 --> 00:40:01,234
- ♪♪ Do you even care? ♪♪
970
00:40:01,301 --> 00:40:04,571
♪♪ Did you ever love me? ♪♪
971
00:40:04,638 --> 00:40:09,810
♪♪ Are you even there, love? ♪♪
972
00:40:09,877 --> 00:40:11,678
♪♪ ♪♪
973
00:40:11,745 --> 00:40:16,784
♪♪ Where do we go from here? ♪♪
974
00:40:16,851 --> 00:40:22,823
♪♪ Never knew
we could fall this far ♪♪
975
00:40:22,889 --> 00:40:29,062
♪♪ I can feel it fall apart ♪♪
976
00:40:29,129 --> 00:40:31,665
♪♪ So where do we go? ♪♪
977
00:40:31,732 --> 00:40:35,269
♪♪ Where do we go from here? ♪♪
978
00:40:35,335 --> 00:40:41,308
♪♪ I can feel it fall apart ♪♪
979
00:40:41,375 --> 00:40:43,744
♪♪ So where do we go? ♪♪
980
00:40:43,811 --> 00:40:47,447
♪♪ Where do we go from here? ♪♪
981
00:40:47,514 --> 00:40:49,683
♪♪ Where do we go? ♪♪
982
00:40:49,750 --> 00:40:53,653
♪♪ Where do we go from here? ♪♪
983
00:41:01,061 --> 00:41:02,229
- Next on "Teen Mom:
The Next Chapter"...
984
00:41:02,296 --> 00:41:03,731
- Can I take swimming lessons?
985
00:41:03,797 --> 00:41:05,232
- My only concern
is her thinking
986
00:41:05,299 --> 00:41:07,801
she's Wonder Woman overnight.
- I am a divorced woman.
987
00:41:07,868 --> 00:41:09,436
- Tubal reversal
to get pregnant
988
00:41:09,503 --> 00:41:11,505
is around 15%
to 20% success rate.
989
00:41:11,572 --> 00:41:13,340
- Are you excited
to go to grandma's?
990
00:41:13,406 --> 00:41:15,342
- She's got to be able
to earn trust back somehow.
991
00:41:15,409 --> 00:41:16,543
- The other day,
he experienced
992
00:41:16,610 --> 00:41:17,811
my first manic episode.
993
00:41:17,878 --> 00:41:19,313
This is something
I don't want to mess up.
994
00:41:19,379 --> 00:41:21,315
- I don't want you
around the kids.
995
00:41:21,382 --> 00:41:23,583
- [bleep] you and your sister.
73593
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