All language subtitles for Sex Love Venice (2024).Retail

I'm Dr. Baldwin.

You're listening to
Love Bolt Radio Hour.

Thanks for tuning in on
this wonderful Wednesday.

Caller, how can I help you today?

Hey, my name is Jack.

I'm a huge fan of your show.

I've been listening
for a very long time.

Basically, I am a gay man.

I know you couldn't tell, but I am.

And I am turning 30, the big three-O.

Which basically means we
disappear in our community.

We cease to exist.

So I was wondering if
you had any advice on how

to make myself visible again.

Thank you, Jack.

First of all, age
doesn't have anything

to do with finding love.

You just have to
go out and look for it.

Don't be afraid to
strike up a conversation

with someone you
don't even know.

Sometimes, the best
people for us are the ones

we would never have thought
to be within the first place.

Love is out there, you just
need to be open to finding it.

All of us deserve to find
a little love now and then.

Why not start today?

I'm Dr. Baldwin, and
you're listening to Hot 103.5.

Are you close yet?
I have class.

So, how'd the date go?

Frustrating.

It feels like most gay guys
just want to be intimate

without any actual intimacy.

You know, it's like, sure,

we can have this great
time in bed or whatever,

but once it comes to actually
getting to know each other,

there's just nothing.

I'm sure not everyone's
like that, Michael.

There's gotta be guys
out there that are looking

for something meaningful,
just like you are.

Are you depressed?

I don't know.

I don't know.

Have you considered
talking to a therapist?

Honestly, I don't
think it would help.

Look, I just, I feel so lost right now.

Like I've forgotten how to be happy.

Like my inner bright light that was set

at 110 has just been replaced

by some cheap LED
bulb or something.

I mean, that's, that's
exactly why I think

therapy might be helpful.

They're like emotional electricians.

Mine's a genius, actually.

Want his info?

Maybe.

I just, I don't know if I'm
ready to open up to a stranger.

Yeah, I understand that.

But I mean, just remember, they've…

they've likely heard it all before.

Even the saucy bits.

I was nervous too, the first time.

-Dr. Gika?
-Yeah.

Maybe.

-Just think about it.
-Maybe.

You know I love you.

I love you, too.

Yeah, hi, my name is Michael.

I was referred to you
by my friend Liza.

She's one of your clients.

Okay.

Look, my, my partner
of ten years turned out

to be a sociopath.

He embezzled all of my
money and abandoned me,

and it's been almost a year,

and I'm still struggling with it.

Okay.

I'll see you Tuesday.

I feel like I've been living in

the shadows… since Bernie left.

That's his name.

After he did what he did,
it's like I can't trust myself

to make the right
decisions anymore.

You know, Michael, it's perfectly normal

to feel this after such betrayal.

But remember,
trust can always be rebuilt.

I feel like I've lost
who I am in some way.

I think I gave so much
of myself to this person.

How do you manage stress?

That's a, that's a loaded question.

I've been having a lot
of sex with strangers.

Okay.

A lot of strangers.

How do you feel before
and after each experience?

I don't feel present when I have sex.

I feel like I'm just going
through the motions.

Wow.

I feel like as a gay man, I'm sort of…

I don't know, I've been
conditioned to, to think that

that's all that there is.

I grew up watching a lot of porn.

Okay.

I thought that was love, you know.

I know it's not making me happy.

I crave more intimacy and meaning.

I don't want to just party,
go to the gym.

Sometimes I feel like
I'm just gonna be alone.

I recognize you're suffering, okay?

And I will support you as we
navigate this journey together

towards your healing and growth.

Over the next week,

I want you to think what
you want from your partner,

the qualities and the values.

It's been a long time
since I've really thought about

what I wanted in a partner.

Of course.

We'll start with this
exercise and go from there.

Okay.

Good boy.

Mom?

Michael, there's something
I want to talk to you about.

You know, your father wasn't
the first man to betray me.

Really?

You've never talked about that.

Well, it's not a topic I enjoy discussing,

but I want you to know that
I have been where you are,

and I came out stronger.

How?

My mother, your grandmother,
said something to me once

that I've never forgotten.

She said, "We come
from a long line of warriors.

You cut off our feet and we
will teach ourselves to walk."

-Jesus, Mom.
-I know, but it's true.

No matter what life
has thrown at us,

we've always found
a way to overcome it.

We're survivors.

And you, sweetheart,
you're no exception.

Now, Bernie may
have been a sociopath,

but that doesn't define you.

You're stronger than
you think, Michael.

You're a warrior
just like the rest of us,

and you'll find your
way through this.

Michael…

I am giving you a trip to Venice.

Mom, no.

This is too much,
you already pay my rent.

This is just for you.

Now, this is where
I went when your father left,

and it healed me in
ways I can't even describe.

I can't.

I cannot accept this.

Of course, you can.

You deserve it.

Plus, I'm rich.

Sweetie, Bernie's been out of your life

for almost a year now,
it is time for you to move on

and start enjoying life
and find yourself again.

Sweetheart, you're worth finding.

Just a minute!

Michael, what are you doing here?

Madame Zara,
I just need a minute, okay?

I just wanna ask you
a couple questions.

-I'm confused.
-Can't you see the sign?

No readings today, I'm not working.

Well, I figured you of all people

would know that I was coming.

Gimme a call tomorrow
and we'll make an appointment.

But I mean, I really need to
know what I should do about

-traveling alone…
-Michael!

For the first time
since the breakup.

My spirits are off the clock.

I have no idea what
they're gonna say.

Just one reading.
Come on, please.

Love, travel.

Definitely travel.

Casanova?

What?

Oh, they're telling me
you need to see the wizard.

The wizard? Come on.

Please, Madame Zara. Come on.

Michael, it's like
going to the dentist

when you need a haircut,
so just go and see him.

I've got a vegan lasagna in the oven,

and I'm not gonna let
it burn because of you.

Bye.

Professor,

what is it about life and love

that makes it seem
so incomprehensible?

None of that can be
grasped with your mind,

but with your entire being.

It's like the wind

moving around us and through us.

The wind does not
discriminate or judge.

And it's within you just
waiting to be released.

Yes, but how?

The key is to be present.

To feel without
judgment or expectation.

Let go of your fears and doubts

that keep you from
fully experiencing life.

Allow yourself to be vulnerable.

And in doing so, you open
yourself up to the world.

I'm afraid of being hurt again.

Fear, my dear boy,
is a natural part of life.

But when we let it control us,

it keeps us from
experiencing the beauty

that life has to offer.

Embracing life means
facing those fears.

And in doing so, we become
stronger and more resilient.

Trust in yourself and
the journey you are on.

Embracing the unknown.

The limitless possibilities
grant us a taste

of the sublime, a glimpse
of the transcendent.

It is in the pursuit of the elusive…

that we find not only our
passion, but our humanity.

A love then becomes a journey,
a quest for the ineffable.

And it is in that very act of seeking

that we come to know ourselves.

The unknown becomes an invitation,

an unbridled exploration.

And it is there at the
very edge of the infinite.

That one must find
the courage to leap,

hands outstretched…

and embrace it.

Have you ever had a partner?

I had many partners in my time.

Each one unique…

and beautiful in their own way.

Love and sensuality are not
only about physical pleasure,

it is about understanding
the very essence

of the other person.

And allowing them to see your own.

It is a dance of souls…

as much as it is a dance of bodies.

To discern between
connection and attraction…

attune to your emotions…

and understand your feelings.

My mom gifted me a trip to Venice, Italy.

Oh, Venice.

I don't know if I should go or not.

I haven't traveled since the breakup.

If I were in your shoes,
I would embrace this opportunity

with an open heart and an eager mind.

And dream big.

Fear not.

How do you do?

I'm Jack.

May I get you started
with something to drink?

Oh, gin martini, filthy, three olives.

Water's fine.

-Just a glass of Prosecco.
-You got it.

What just happened?

Oh, okay so my mom
offered me this trip to Venice.

-Venice?
-Yeah.

-Italy?
-Yes.

Really, now?

Well, aren't you concerned
about your emotional state?

I don't know, okay?

I just want to escape

and kind of forget about
everything for a while.

-No, no, no, no.
-You have to.

-Don't listen to her.
-Don't listen to him.

I've always wanted to go to Italy.

Italy…

I mean the, the men
there, the food, the wine.

-Okay.
-The men.

Okay, the men, yeah.

Well, consider the flooding

and the fact that the city is sinking.

Dave, Venice isn't sinking tomorrow.

But you know how
romantic that place is, okay?

Michael, you'll be
surrounded by couples, okay?

It could make you feel awful.

I mean, just terrible.

I need to go,
I need to see that life goes on.

You know,
if you're gonna go soul-searching,

Venice is as good a place as any.

-Yes.
-Okay, but what if you

have a breakdown there, okay?

You won't have any
friends or support system.

Yeah, you know, maybe
you should take someone along

with you, a travel
companion you can confide in.

You know, that's
actually not a bad idea.

Me? Oh, my God, I love you.

Okay, hold on,
hold on, hold on.

Okay, let's not get
carried away here.

Okay, what about your jobs?

-Oh, you're just--
-Your responsibilities

You're just jealous, Dave.

I'm not jealous, okay?

I'm not jealous, Michael,
I'm just concerned.

Well, we appreciate
that concern, Dave,

but I think a month in Venice
could do wonders for me.

Yeah, we'll send you pictures, Dave.

Maybe bring back some Murano glass.

-Oh, some Murano glass?
-Yeah.

Yeah, it'll probably break on the plane.

Murano glass.

You know, we should take Dave.

Oh, my God.

A group trip to Venice
sounds like a blast.

-Oh, my God.
-No, no, it doesn't.

-It doesn't sound like a blast.
-Yes, it does.

No, it sounds terrible. No, I can't.

I have, I have my job, okay?

And my cat.

-His cat.
-You have a cat, Dave?

Okay, but why go to
Italy when I could just order

the pasta right here tonight?

Did you look at the menu?
They have penne.

Eating the penne
here is not the same

as walking ancient
streets, tasting real gelato,

and soaking up all the Italian--

-Filthy martini
-Men.

And a Prosecco for you.

And my number if you want it.

-Oh, my God.
-You're on fire.

The Italian men are gonna eat you up.

You guys, look, if you want to come…

I wanna come.

I would be really thrilled,
but it's no pressure.

Oh yeah, no pressure.

Okay, alright.

Alright, fine, fine. Okay?

But don't blame me when the city sinks.

To "Le Dolce Vita"!

To "Le Dolce Vita".

Fuck.

Okay.

Wanna stay over?

You don't have to go.

I gotta work tomorrow.

I'd like to see you again.

I don't know, I'm, I'm
really busy with work.

Okay.

When are you off next?

Why?
We already fucked.

Oh.

Yeah, okay.

Alright, cool.

Well, my ride's here.

So should I…

Are you gonna pay for it?

You know what? See you later.

Oh.

Wow.

Hello.

-Hello.
-Hi.

You are checking in?

Yes.

-Can I have your passport, please?
-Yes.

-Thank you.
-Thanks. Wow, this is so nice.

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So, how about a day trip to Murano?

I really want to see
the glass blowers.

I bet you do.

Yeah, yeah. I do bet you do.

When would you guys go?

-You guys?
-Yeah, you guys.

-Why wouldn't you go?
-Yeah, this is a group trip, Dave.

No, it's not. No, not to Murano.

I never agreed to Murano, okay?

There's no Murano in my plans.

What do you have against Murano?

-Glass-blowing?
-Are you a Muranoist?

No, I'm not a Muranoist,
if that's even a thing, okay?

No, the glass-blowing,
it's very dangerous.

Do you know how many
tragedies happen a year

in glass-blowing, and let
alone in Murano alone?

It… it's countless, okay?

They're silenced.

So there's so many
you cannot count them?

Yeah, that's what I just said.
Countless, okay?

You guys are the part
of the problem. Okay?

You go and support Murano
and their glass-blowing.

What about supporting their victims, okay?

-And Murano
-How do you know so much about this?

Because I… I do my research

-before I go somewhere.
-He did his research.

-He really did.
-Which one's better, okay?

-Oh, my God.
-That one, Dave.

How many die a year?

You said, do you know how many--

We didn't say deaths, okay?

You did, you said you--

I said tragedies.

You need this trip
more than both of us.

-Our plan is working.
-I'm so glad he came.

Yeah.

Yeah, I'm here, okay?

But I'm just a little
tired and this caffeine,

I don't know,
it's having adverse effects.

-Okay?
-Like what?

I'm going to the bathroom
a lot more than I used to.

Why are there two toilets?

Oh, one's to wash your butt hole.

It just sprays on your
hole, it feels amazing.

That's a bidet, Dave.

A bidet Dave?

-A bi-Dave
-Yes, a bi-Dave.

You've never heard of a bidet?

-A bidet?
-A bidet.

-No.
-French.

It washes your butt?

Yeah, its squirts water
like on your butthole.

I've been to plenty of
bathrooms, okay,

and I've never seen two
toilets, let alone your bidet.

Oh, bi-Dave. Oh, bi-Dave.

You look like you've
been up to something.

Oh, no.

I was just out exploring,
soaking in the ambiance.

That's great.

Want a glass of wine?

No, I'm just tired.

Oh, I'm gonna go to bed.

Hey.

You know you can
tell me anything, right?

Yeah, I know.

I'm just tired, okay?

Okay.

Goodnight.

So, I came across this
profile of a guy named Marco,

and I wasn't gonna tell you,
but after some chatting back

and forth, he invited me to get coffee.

-When?
-No.

Today.

We should be there in case,
you know, back up.

You guys, I can handle myself.

Yeah, we know you can, Michael,

but we're just concerned
about your safety, that's all.

Fine, okay? You can come.

But you have to promise
me that you'll be discreet.

Oh, of course. We
won't even look at you.

Oh, definitely.

Are you kidding me?
We'll be practically invisible.

Us?

That looks kind
of like the picture.

-Hi, nice to meet you.
-Hello.

Oh, he's so handsome.

Yeah, no, I know.
I know he's handsome.

He's too handsome, okay?

What if he's in the
mafia or something?

Oh, Dave, not every
Italian guy's in the mafia.

Okay, but guys that
look like him, okay?

He has to be in the mafia.

He has ties, I can tell.

So tell me, what is your favorite
thing about Venice so far?

I think it's the way the city seems

to seduce you at every turn.

You know, the winding canals,
the mysterious alleyways.

It's all so seductive and tempting.

Oh, yes.

A city of temptation.

It has a way of drawing you
in and making you crave more.

Have you tried the famous gelato?

Not yet.

It's rich, creamy, and
simply melts in your mouth.

Really?

Okay, maybe you can
show me your favorite place.

It would be my pleasure.

Just be prepared.

Once you've had a taste,
you'll never want to stop.

Well, Venice seems
like the perfect place

to explore all kinds of things.

Venice, my dear friend, is a living,

breathing work of art.

Passion flows through its canals

like blood through our veins.

In every corner, you will
find mystery and seduction.

The shadows hold secrets that only

the bravest souls dare to uncover.

Here, the spirit of Casanova,

the legendary lover, lingers on.

He was a man who understood
the importance of pleasure.

He had an insatiable
hunger for new experiences

and an undying thirst for the
carnal of delights of the flesh.

Just like the great Casanova,
we too can surrender ourselves

to the sensual temptations of Venice.

We can lose ourselves
in the labyrinth of desire.

Where every touch,
every taste, every whisper…

is a tantalizing invitation

to explore the depths of our own spirit.

Imagine for a moment
that we can be the subject

of our own masterpiece,
a symphony of sights and moans.

A tapestry of lust and longing.

A fresco painted with
the strokes of our body…

as we succumb to the
ecstasy that awaits us.

As we embrace the
pleasures of Venice,

let us also embrace the
truth that lies within us.

The truth is that we are
creatures of desire,

longing to be touched, to be tasted,

to be consumed by the fire
that burns within our souls.

And now, invite your curiosity…

and allow yourself to dive
into the abyss of the unknown.

And emerge reborn forever changed…

by the magic and the passion…

that is Venice.

Sound good?

Yeah.

Sounds good.

Oh, Michael, hi.
We didn't see you there.

Guys, I'd like you to meet Marco.

Marco, these are my
friends, Liza and Dave.

It's a pleasure to meet you guys.

Oh, the pleasure is ours, I'm sure.

So Marco, what
exactly is it that you do?

I'm a calligraphy instructor.

Marco's gonna play tour guide today,
so we'll see you a little later.

Oh, my God, that's a great idea.

Yeah, we would love a local
to show us around.

Oh, no, no…

-A private guide? How fantastic!
-Oh, my God, yeah.

Well, it would be a
pleasure to show you all

the hidden treasures of Venice.

-Okay.
-Let's go, let's do it.

-Yeah.
-Where are we going first?

This is all part of the Church
of Saint Mary of Miracles.

Now we're entering
the sestiere of Cannaregio.

Okay.

Oh, okay.

Shall we have some Cicchetti?

What's Cicchetti?

Cicchetti are small bites.

The word comes from Old
Venetian that means a little bit of.

Sounds yummy-oso.

We should probably have
some Cicchetti here, I think.

-Oh, okay.
-This is actually a lovely place.

It means small bites,
Old Venetian for a little bit of.

A little bit of.

Oh, the spicy olives
are extraordinary.

-You have to try them.
-Spicy olives?

Let's get some.

Hey, don't fall for his good looks.

Here we go.

You are in for a treat.

Oh, my God.

Really good.

Why are you eating it?

You don't even know what it is.

Because I'm adventurous, Dave.

Alright?

This thing is delicious.

It does taste amazing,

-Did you try it?
-Yeah, I tried it.

-Oh, nice.
-Yeah.

-Right?
-Yeah,

-it's really good.
-Really good.

I hope to see
you all again soon.

Maybe we can continue
our adventure tomorrow.

Oh, yeah, looking forward to it.

-Yeah.
-See you inside for drinks?

-Good night.
-Bye.

Goodnight, you guys.

Marco, I just wanted
to say thank you

for showing us around today.

We really had such an amazing time.

It was my pleasure, Michael.

I had a wonderful time,

but maybe it's best if
we take things slow.

I'm a bit old-fashioned that way.

Okay, I understand.

Sweet dreams.

Sweet dreams.

I think he's being careful.
Oh, there he is.

-Hey.
-Hi.

I have to say, Michael,
he seems like a total catch.

I still don't trust this guy, okay?

There's something off about him.

I don't know if it's his
charm or his good looks,

but it's all a little too
perfect if you ask me.

It's like he's hiding something.

-Oh, Dave.
-What?

We barely know the guy.

He was nothing but kind all day.

Yeah, I think he's so nice.

-And handsome.
-Definitely handsome.

And that voice,
I could listen to it all day.

Cheers to that.

So Michael, any
late-night rendezvous

with Marco after
we all went to bed?

No, nothing like that.

He didn't come back?

Really?

That's not like you, Michael.

You see, I told you,

I told you there's something
off about this guy, Michael.

-Okay?
-Or he's just a gentleman, Dave.

I mean, not everyone jumps
into bed after the first date.

Hey, I don't always do that either.

Still, it's a little unusual for you,

especially considering all the
chemistry you two seem to have.

I don't know.

Maybe he's just old-fashioned, okay?

And maybe I should try
taking things slow for once.

It's kind of refreshing, isn't it?

I mean, in this day
and age, it's hard to find

someone who actually wants to take
their time and get to know you.

No.

No. Or maybe he's playing
some kind of game, okay?

Who's turning down a good-looking
sex pot like Michael?

Tell me that, huh?

Guys.
It's actually a good point.

Look, I actually appreciate
that he didn't just want

to jump into bed with me.

I mean, fine, yeah,
I was a little disappointed,

but I'm so much more excited
to explore more than his body.

Marco, there's something
I want to share with you.

My last relationship ended very badly.

I was betrayed and abandoned by someone

that I really thought I could trust.

I'm so sorry. No, it's okay.

It's… it's a terrible thing
to experience betrayal.

-Yeah.
-Especially from somebody you love.

Yeah, it is.

You're strong and resilient, for sure.

It's good that you are
opening up to new experiences.

How do you know I have?

Well, for starters,
you are sitting in Venice,

and not locked in
your room back home.

I guess you're right.

I don't know, somehow
you just always know

the right thing to say.

It's nice getting to know you.

I feel the same way.

When I'm close to you,
I feel this intense heat,

this passion that I
haven't felt in ages.

It's just so exciting.

I can't stop thinking
about getting you naked.

Let's enjoy the magic of waiting.

But I want to feel you.

Marco, I don't know
what you're saying.

Desire has the power to elevate us,

to transport us to a realm where

pleasure and passion merge.

But we must also remember…

to balance our desire with restraint.

I want to kiss you so badly.

Yes, that is the
sweet pain of desire.

Desire is not always
easily contained.

I find that incredibly sexy.

Do you ever think about
your own true desire?

What do you mean?

I've realized that I crave more
than just physical intimacy.

I mean, sex is great,
don't get me wrong.

You know I love that.

But I do want a deeper
connection with someone.

You know, in here, there's
like this bleeding vibe.

It's a city that seems to be sinking,

and yet it just keeps going.

Maybe that's what
love is all about.

Gorgeous, charming,

but also delicate…

and at the whim of
whatever life throws at you.

Yeah, totally.

And yet with all that
fragility, we still chase after it.

Passion, love.

Maybe that's why
you're drawn to Marco.

Well, I mean, he has this
passion, this charm about him.

I just can't help but
wonder what he's…

-What he's hiding?
-Yeah.

That's the beauty of
human connection, Michael.

We're all a mix of
tough and vulnerable.

Look at Dave.

I see what you mean.

Yeah.

I mean, it's up to us to
navigate those complexities

and find the love that endures.

Isn't it amazing how

love can be both our sanctuary
and our greatest challenge?

I mean, I think
that's what's made

my past relationships so difficult.

'Cause I was so consumed
with the appearance of it all,

and yet, never once did I confront
the vulnerability and the fear.

Absolutely.

And the duality of love is
what makes it so compelling.

Crave the comfort
and security it provides

while simultaneously
facing the uncertainties

and complexities
that come with it.

It's a delicate balance
between being resilient

and willing to surrender.

Love and Venice, both bound
by the same intoxicating dance

between strength and vulnerability.

It's no wonder you were drawn
to Marco here of all places.

Well, perhaps the fact
that he's taking things slow is

just an opportunity for us
to truly explore the depths

of our connection instead
of just getting swept away

with the rush of it all.

You know, I've
been thinking about

how we often judge each other

and the concept of being judgmental.

In my opinion, judgment
is just a construct.

Doesn't really exist.

So you're saying
we're all just making it up

as we go along, like some
kind of mass hallucination?

No, I think there's
some truth to that actually.

Like we're all just
projecting our own

stuff onto other people, right?

It's less about the
person we're judging

and more about what's
going on in our own heads.

Exactly.

If we can step back
and recognize that,

we can open ourselves up
to more genuine connections

and understanding instead of letting
judgments cloud our view of others.

You know, this idea of judgments and
constructs leads me to another thought.

That there's no such thing as
good or bad, or right or wrong.

It reminds me of something Alan Watts
or somebody once said

that in the grand scheme of the universe,
the only thing that exists is what is.

Whatever that is,
it's neither good nor bad,

nor right nor wrong.

It simply is.

How so?

Well, it's easy to get caught up

in our own subjective experiences

and categorize everything
into these dualities.

But if we step back beyond
our personal judgments and perception,

we can see that the world, the universe,
and everything in it are interconnected

and constantly changing.

It's a dance of existence,

a cosmic ballet where each element
is part of the bigger picture.

By letting go of these
arbitrary labels we've created,

we can appreciate the beauty
and complexity of life as it is.

In that perspective,
there is no need to cling to

these polarizing notions of
good and bad and right and wrong.

We can simply be present,

experiencing each moment
fully and with openness,

embracing the infinite dance
that is the essence of being.

Hold on a second, Marco.

If there's no such thing as good or bad
or right or wrong,

then how do we make decisions?

I mean, morality
is universally understood.

There's no openness to it.

There's gotta be good and bad
because it helps us make decisions.

I mean, there has to be
some foundation to morality,

and if there isn't, then we'd all
just be running around lawless.

Dave, I understand your concerns,

but let's consider the
etymology of the world's morality.

It has its origins in religious doctrine

and was shaped by the church
to impose certain values and beliefs.

Before the development of religious
institutions, as we know them,

there were different ways in which
societies understood and approached

the concepts of right and wrong.

Totally.

And while it's true that
people have always

had a sense of ethics
and social responsibility,

the idea of a singular
objective standard of right

and wrong didn't always exist.

Blame the church?

What I'm saying is that
there's no inherent good or bad,

I'm suggesting that our perception of
these concepts are fluid and subjective.

Depending on the personal
and cultural lenses through

which you view the world.

The challenge lies in recognizing

and appreciating its
diversity of perspectives.

And finding ways to
coexist harmoniously

even when our values and beliefs differ.

Exactly.

Our judgments are shaped
by our own personal experiences

and the values we've been taught.

So when we label
something as good or bad,

we're often projecting our own beliefs

and expectations onto the situation
instead of just observing it as it is.

Yeah, I am as I am.

No, no, no, no.
But what about murderers, okay?

Are you saying
they're not bad people?

How can you not judge something

so evil when it causes
so much suffering?

Dave, let me give you
a different perspective.

When a lion kills
a goat for dinner,

we don't consider the
lion evil or a murderer.

We understand that it's
just a lion being a lion.

It's just part of the natural order.

And the lion is simply
following its instincts to survive.

It simply is what it is.

But murderers as in people?

I'm not condoning monstrous
acts committed by people.

But my point is that merely
labeling someone as bad

or evil doesn't solve the problem.

Or help us understand the underlying
issues that drive such behavior.

We must examine
the complex factors

and circumstances that
contribute to those actions.

In doing so, we can work
towards addressing the root causes

and creating a more empathetic
and compassionate society.

Rather than merely labeling
and condemning individuals

based on our own subjective
moral judgments.

So with that line of thinking,

even something like pornography
could be considered a construct, right?

I mean, it's really only
considered bad or taboo

because of the way
society perceives it.

I think that's a stretch.

Actually, Michael has a point.

Just like our moral judgments, our
perception of what constitutes pornography

is shaped by cultural and societal values.

If you look at nature
and the animal kingdom,

mating and reproduction
are just natural parts of life.

There's no shame or taboo
attached to these acts in the wild.

Agreed.

If two birds are
having sex on a branch

and another bird sees,
that bird's not gonna be like,

"Oh my God, how
offensive, get a room."

-You know? At least, I don't think.
-Yes.

Yes, in a way, what we label
as pornography

could also
be seen as a construct created

by human judgment
and societal norms.

It doesn't mean we should
completely disregard any negative

aspects associated with it,

but it's essential that we
recognize that our perception

of it is highly influenced by the
way through which we view the world.

What might be
considered inappropriate

or offensive in one
culture could be entirely

accepted in another.

And during the Renaissance
works about the depicted nudity

or sensual themes such as Botticelli's

"The Birth of Venus" or
Michelangelo's "David,"

were often criticized and censored.

Today we see these masterpieces
as timeless expressions

of human beauty and creativity.

So, now you see, the
concept of what is pornographic

or taboo changes across
cultures and throughout history.

These variations
further support the idea

that our judgments are
merely constructs shaped

by cultural values and beliefs
rather than absolute truths.

Yeah, I remember when I
was a kid, even the slightest hint

of nudity on TV would cause an
uproar where now there's like full-on sex

in several major TV shows and
it's considered completely normal.

And even artistic.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Like the rimming scene in White Lotus.

-Dave.
-That was artistic.

Well, it just goes to
show that our perceptions

and standards change over time.

It's fascinating.

Exactly, my friends.

When we, as a species,
can finally eliminate judgment

from our beings,
we'll have come a long way.

It's about embracing
the ever-changing nature

of our understanding and
allowing ourselves to grow

and evolve without
being constrained by

outdated concepts of
what is right and wrong.

Only then can we truly
appreciate the full spectrum

of human experiences and the
beautiful complexity of life itself.

The best things in
life are usually illegal,

immoral of fat.

Some people are
all three, you know?

And some people are all three.

What did Cinderella say
when she got to the ball?

I don't know.

What is that?

You don't get it?

You still don't get it.

Is she giving a
blowjob to somebody?

Yes, she's balls
deep. You get it?

She went to the ball.

-She wasn't balls deep when she went…
-She went to the ball.

-Oh, the ball.
-Balls deep.

-I get it.
-Okay, you don't like my jokes.

No, no, it's great.
It was a good joke.

-Was it a bird?
-A bird.

Oh look, there it is again.

Fluttering away.

Must be a desperate bird.

A desperate twink bird.

What do you think it
would be like to be a bird?

Oh, I would love to be a bird.

Is this sexual?

It's pretty good.

-Is it?
-Yeah.

Okay, so if I do it like…

Not sexual?

How you do it is sexual.

-A heart with our legs.
-Yes.

I like that.

You have a big foot as well.

Thank you.

Funny, but…

Is it fine?

I can't believe it's
my last day in Venice.

Yeah, I'm really
gonna miss it here.

Oh, shocking.

-I know.
-Yeah.

Well, luckily I still have
a few days to explore

and oh, soak up all
the Venetian charm I can.

Oh, that reminds me.

Michael, I can't help but
wonder, is Marco a good kisser?

Actually, we haven't
even made out yet.

What, really? You?

Yeah, I would've
thought you guys

would've gotten each
other pregnant by now.

You know, guys, as much as I do appreciate
the slow pace and the buildup,

yeah, I admit that it's
driving me a bit crazy.

What if he isn't
attracted to me?

Oh, sweetie, I highly
doubt that's the case.

I've seen the way he looks
at you, it makes me horny.

She's right.

There's definitely a
genuine chemistry there.

She's definitely right.

Don't overthink it, Mikey, okay?

Just enjoy the ride and
let things happen naturally.

Or you can confront
him and be open

and honest about how you feel.

It's not like you live
here and time is limited.

What do you have to lose?

It's natural to be vulnerable.

I know, but with Marco,
it's just so different.

We've been taking things slow

and I actually kind
of appreciate that,

but I just don't know
where we stand.

I mean, what if he doesn't
feel the same way about me?

Be honest, be open,
share your feelings.

Ask him about his
thoughts, about his intentions.

You're right, I do,
I need to talk to him, I just…

Dr. Gika, I don't want
to scare him away

or come across as too needy.

Just be honest
and open with him.

Okay.

You know, connect
with your inner voice.

Yeah, I will.

I'm very proud of you, Michael.

You're making great progress.

Marco?

I've been thinking
a lot about us…

and there's something I
want to talk to you about.

Of course, what is it?

I'm really enjoying
our time together

and the slow buildup of our
relationship has been intense

and so exciting, but look,
I, I need to admit to you

that it's driving me crazy.

I'm finding myself second-guessing
whether you are actually

even attracted to me or if
you just see me as a friend.

Michael.

I want you to know that I,
I am genuinely attracted to you

and I care for you deeply.

But I…

I appreciate that my pace
might not be what you're used to

and I apologize if that has caused
you any inconvenience, any frustration.

Thank you.

You're welcome.

I've always believed
that taking things slow

can create a stronger,
more meaningful bond.

But I also appreciate
that everyone's needs

and desires are different.

Marco, I understand
your perspective on

taking things slow, I do,

but I have to remind
you that I don't live here

and I am going back
to the US next week.

We met on a hookup app and,

and I'm thrilled that our connection
has become so much more meaningful,

but I don't want to leave
Venice with any regrets.

I hear you.

Good.

So, if we are going
to fool around,

let's get this show on the road.

What do you say?

I think you're ready.

Wait.

Now we'll have sex.

But what I'd like you
to do is focus on each

of the five senses while we are.

One sense at a time.

First, focus on
everything you can hear.

Really listen to
everything you can.

This will help you.

Allow your ears to
swim into my body.

Hear my heartbeat, hear yours.

Tell me, what else do you hear?

I hear my voice.

The sounds of my
breath and your heart.

I'm so hard.

Throbbing.

What do you hear when I do this?

Yes, that's right.

I hear you, too,
surprised and wanting.

I like the way you
sound when I touch you.

Focus on hearing despite
what I'm doing down here.

Listen to the sounds outside.

Hear the seagulls.

Yes, and the bells.

Listen to the sounds
my tongue makes

as it glides along the
length of your cock.

Oh, my God, oh, my God.

Allow yourself to be swept away

by the cosmic orchestra

that plays the
soundtrack of the universe.

As you listen, begin to
let go of your limitations,

your fears, and your
past experiences.

Open your mind to the
possibilities of a new way

of thinking, a fresh perspective

that transcends the boundaries

of your previous understandings.

Embrace the sounds and
vibrations that echo within you.

Unlock the hidden
chambers of your mind.

That's right.

Now, get ready
to step into a world

of boundless possibilities

as you embrace this
newfound awareness.

Prepare to embark on a
journey of transformation

that will forever change
the course of your life.

Are you ready?

Yes.

Now feel.

Feel everything.

Let your awareness expand.

Feel the texture of my
skin on your fingertips,

the liquidity and the
hardness of my cock

as it brushes against your skin.

Allow yourself to
connect with the energy

that courses through your body.

And feel it resonating
with the energy

that exists within your eyes.

Let me inside you.

Feel me sliding into you.

Embrace not only the
sensations of contact,

but also the emotions
that flow from within.

The love and vulnerability.

The joy and passion.

Let your heart open up to others

as we dive into the
depth of our feelings,

discovering the
infinite well of feelings

that make us who we are.

Oh, my God.

Feel it, sense it.

Each sensation.

Lift your focus to
everything you can taste.

Salty.

Tell me, what do you smell?

You're spicy, you're fresh.

You smell like a campfire.

Like we're out in the woods.

Take your time, we're not
rushing towards anything.

We're here together.

Go ahead, take me in.

Good talk.

Do you want wine?

-Greetings.
-Greetings.

I will see you tomorrow.

Meet me at my place.

Of course.

So, what happened?

It was intense.

I suddenly felt self-conscious
or somehow exposed.

I don't know, I, it's like he
was looking right through me.

I felt transparent, like he
could see into my heart.

What I felt, what I thought.

It was wonderful,
but nerve-wracking.

How did it feel?

I was desperate for it.

I really was.

My ex never accepted or
showed any interest in me.

With Bernie, it had been
all business, you know?

Just cold and surface.

Nothing sensual or kind,

and I feel like
Marco could see that.

Like he could see me.

You know, I actually
started wondering,

is the cliche about Europeans
being great lovers true?

Am I just like
living in a dream?

So what do you think?

It occurred to me that the
entire time I was with my ex,

I had really
externalized my senses.

All of them.

My internal feelings
and experiences

had just taken the back burner.

So what changed?

Last night woke me up.

My spirit and my soul
returned to my body.

My senses flooded back inside me

with this spectacular roar.

You know what?

It felt like the first time

that I've had sex
in my entire life.

Because everything was
so new and so profound.

There was also
something else I noticed.

What?

Marco's place is so nice,

there has to be more to his story.

Sounds like what you
experienced last night

is what I call conscious sex.

Yes, that's exactly right.

Conscious sex.

Conscious sex is a powerful and
transformative approach to intimacy.

It goes beyond just
physical connection.

When we engage in conscious sex,

we are fully present
in the moment.

Connecting our minds, our bodies,

and spirits with our partner.

You'll find that it has the power

to transform not only your
relationship with the world

around you, but your
relationship with yourself.

Marco.

Now, today, what
I'd like you to do,

let's focus on your actions,
focus on what you're doing

and how you're doing it

and how it's
affecting my senses.

You can imagine, but
you won't know for sure.

Explore those things one by one.

Find out.

Investigate.

How many colors do
you see in my eyes?

Green, gold,

yellow, orange.

Green.

You said green already.

Being present and consciously aware
of everything I was doing,

it was like
stepping into a world of magic.

And it wasn't just about
me and my desires.

It was about us together

as two people fully
engaged in the moment.

And the more I focused on you,

the more incredible the
experience became for me in return.

Very good.

Meet me again tomorrow.

It was unlike anything
I've ever felt before.

We shared a connection
that was like so much deeper.

It was transformative.

Oh, do tell.

It was like time stopped

and we were in our
own little world together

just the two of us.

You know, it was an
experience beyond pleasure,

it was exploring his
existence, his soul,

and just being in tune with him.

Amazing.

Yeah, it really is.

You know, I feel like
a different person now.

Like reborn, like I've
discovered a part of myself

that I didn't even know existed.

It's such an incredible feeling.

I'm so happy for you, Michael.

You truly deserve this.

Goodbye.

Now we will combine
what we've learned

and experienced
about each other.

We will meld.

There will be no barriers
to where your senses end

and mine begin, only oneness.

We will combine our bodies

and all our senses at once,

all together at the same time.

One moment our
souls seemed to merge…

and I couldn't tell where
I ended and you began,

or the other way around.

I felt the wholeness,

or the oneness you mentioned.

I've never experienced
that before, Marco.

When I came,

my legs started shaking.

My heart and soul
filled with this brilliant

white light.

My body became an
explosion from a firework

shooting glittering sparks in
all directions like a supernova.

In that moment, I
understood the universe.

Thank you.

Marco.

Good morning.

Good morning.

Today, I'll teach you the
most important lesson.

Each time you meet
someone, whether it be a lover,

friend, colleague, neighbor,
or a person on the street,

find something about them

that you can instantly love.

It doesn't have
to be anything big.

It could be their little finger,

their laugh, or
the way they walk.

It can be anything at all,
so long as you can love it.

For me might be
that little dimple I first

saw on the side of your smile.

Whatever it is, if
you can invite love

and love's energy into
your experience,

no matter what you do with that other
person, no matter what you…

create, what you
work on or talk about,

share sexually or
engage in professionally,

the process will flourish
from that initial place.

With love, you will
enhance the outcome of all

that you do no matter what.

Come on.

Michael, before we
part ways, I just want

to give you something to
remember our time together.

This acorn symbolizes
planting good seeds in life.

Every moment we spend
with those we love is a seed,

one that can grow
into something beautiful

and lasting like a mighty oak.

I want you to remember
to cherish every moment…

no matter where life takes us.

Thank you, Marco.

This means more to
me than you can imagine.

No matter what
our journeys take us,

know that I love you, Michael.

I always will.

I want to remember to
treasure every moment,

every connection,
every heartbeat,

and live a life full of
love and connection.

You deserve it.

I love you too, Marco.

I don't even know what to say.

You've shown me a world that
I never thought I would know

and I will always,
I will always be grateful

for our time together.

You will always have a
very special place in my heart.

May we meet again
in this life or another.

Bye.

Thank you so much, Marco.

Thank you so much.