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1926年 福建兴化汀港村的咸涩海风里
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林亚砚诞生于战火与渔歌交织的年代
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那个年代是北伐战争开端
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福建军阀混战
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兴化湾一带海盗猖獗
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石城 鹅头等渔村常遭劫掠
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渔民日子清苦
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战火蔓延
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许多人不得不远走他乡
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寻找生存的希望
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她挽起嫁衣
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跨进鹅头村吴家
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成为吴家的媳妇
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从没想过
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这场婚礼
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将成为一场横渡到南洋的开端
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1945至1949年
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中国大陆
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正处于国共内战最激烈的阶段
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政治环境极其动荡
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中共闽浙赣边区游击队
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活跃于莆田山区
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国民党加紧沿海征兵征粮
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兴化湾实行海禁
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海匪与溃兵混杂 汀港
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鹅头等渔村饱受袭扰
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1948年
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20岁的林亚砚和24岁的丈夫吴亚我
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丈夫爷爷奶奶
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丈夫的父母
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以及夫家三名兄弟
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和年幼的长子吴文明
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一同踏上了南洋的航程
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吴家还独留家中一名兄弟
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在莆田守护祖宅
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而林亚砚自己的娘家亲人
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全部留在兴化故土
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我们父辈的这边全部都来南洋
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只留下一个叔叔在中国
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而我的母亲却却是相反
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她是她的家族里面
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唯一陪我父亲来南洋的
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她的外家人全部都是在中国的
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莆田的汀港
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所以我们一定要完成她的心愿
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我们每年都带她回乡
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1948年
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林亚砚与丈夫吴亚我从莆田涵江出发
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踏上了远赴南洋的旅程
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她们先乘船抵达泉州中转
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随后换乘大船南下汕头
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再换乘货轮SS Sangola
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历经5-6天的海上颠簸
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最终于3月23日抵达新加坡红灯码头
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由莆仙同乡会接待
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登陆后他们继续坐船到麻坡
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在搭会唱歌的牛车 （指车轴声响) 来马六甲
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从轮船碾碎浪花的那一刻
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这个敢用远航丈量世界的女子
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正把一生酿成倔强的甜
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从此林亚砚背井离乡
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踏上未知的土地
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心里藏着对故乡的思念
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也怀揣着对未来的希冀
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她生性大胆
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心细如丝
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愿意闯荡
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愿意看世界
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愿意用脚步丈量未来
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时代的大环境给予了林亚砚机会
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而她也紧紧抓住了
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她不知道前方等待她的是什么
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但她始终勇敢向前
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1948年3月23日
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林亚砚与吴亚我夫妇
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在莆仙同乡会的安排下
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使用 landing permit 登岸准证
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登陆新加坡红灯码头
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随后在安排下
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他们在马六甲登记为中华民国侨民
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他们在
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大厝内门牌33号落脚
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这里见证了她人生的新篇章
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也承载了她生命中最重要的喜悦
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她的长女吴秀花 次子吴吉堂
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三子吴金城 四女吴秀英 四子吴金华
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相继在此诞生
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日子虽然清贫
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但林亚砚没有选择依附丈夫
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而是毅然走进建筑工地
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成为一名水泥工地的担泥工人
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她是水泥地的花
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她的手掌磨满了茧
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她粗糙的掌纹已刻满未来蓝图的印记
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肩上的担子从未放下
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一头挑着建筑工地的水泥
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一头和从事渔业的丈夫一起
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挑着孩子的衣食住行
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她坚韧的身影影响了后来的家族
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许多子孙在她的熏陶下
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选择了建筑行业
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1957年5月
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吴亚我在马六甲登记
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成为了大英帝国及其殖民地公民
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citizen of the United Kingdom and colonies
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随后在1957年6月7日
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吴亚我正式登记为马来亚联邦公民
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紧接着林亚砚也在同年11月29日
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成为马来亚联邦公民
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1959年 四子吴金华满月后
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林亚砚与丈夫携手
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购置了位于Pengkalan Rama Pantai的新家
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在这个新居所
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她继续见证孩子们的成长
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五子吴金来 六子吴金春
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七子吴金聪 也在这里相继出生
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我七八岁的时候
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有一天晚上
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刮大风下大雨了
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那时候你知道我们是很穷
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就给下大雨打雷
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我就惊醒说
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我注意到我的母亲
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我们同每个人就住在同一间房间
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我母亲醒了
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进来一个一个孩子
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去盖被
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所以我到今天
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我还是有记住这件事件
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这个家不仅是栖身之所
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更成为一个家族梦想的起点
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见证了岁月的变迁
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承载了一代人的奋斗与希望
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我母亲生了7男2女9个孩子
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那么她每天都鼓励孩子们
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一定要多生育
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所以我们这9个孩子
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也为她生了30多位的孙子
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我们的从这30多位孙子里面又生了30多
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将近40位的曾孙
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所以可以说是她福气很好 哈哈哈
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我婆婆很喜欢小孩子
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当一个孙已经成年了
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她第一个她就问我们有男朋友了吗
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有女朋友了吗
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结了婚过后
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她又会问我们几时要生
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哈哈哈 其实主要是因为她
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她非常喜欢小孩子
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她认为她要每个人都开支散叶
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她随时会带出一本簿子
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然后里面有写我们全家人的电话号码
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她有空的话就会联系
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1970年代 44岁的林亚砚
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再次为自己的人生
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做出了一个非凡的决定
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她随
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着自己的长子吴文明 次子吴吉堂
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三子吴金城和大媳妇薛凤珠
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勇敢踏上前往新加坡的旅程
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继续打拼
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她不是被生活推着走
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而是主动迈步向前
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很辛苦就对了
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我妈妈是一个世界上最好的人
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没有再找第二个了
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她是本身也是下手去做了
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很苦了
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我们都是一起在做的
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她也是跟着拿锄头的
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我在这边我要讲一下
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是我应该感激我母亲和我的二哥
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我的头一桶金
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老实讲是他们协助到我的
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所以是不简单的 头一桶金
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她常常叮嘱孩子
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诚信比金钱更重要
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在新加坡的这些年
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她是一位母亲
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更是一名战友
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与孩子们并肩作战
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用汗水铺垫她们的未来
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她时常跟我们讲
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起屋子不能够偷工减料
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她给我这个理念
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Zero Defect 零的缺陷
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不可以偷工减料
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我把这个概念
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也是带进我们马六甲建筑厂公会
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我记得一次我去她的家
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她问我在工地做什么工
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我就跟她讲
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我最近在下石头 固地基
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她就问我有没有加洋灰啊
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洋灰一定要加
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地基很重要
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要做好来 这个东西
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1980年代她回到马六甲
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继续与孩子们并肩打拼于建筑工地
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直到家婆中风
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她才放下工具
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回归家庭
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悉心照料
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直至1982年送别家婆最后一程
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岁月无言
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她用行动书写了孝与情
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时光流转
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林亚砚数次踏上归乡之路
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包括1983年与1993年
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她回到莆田
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与思念已久的娘家人重逢
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那一刻乡音未改
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亲情如旧
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仿佛一首埋藏在心底的老歌
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被岁月轻轻吟唱
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这次20年来
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她也很喜欢
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每年都要回乡
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回她的莆田
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她的老家
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目的就是要回去看她的
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儿童时候的老朋友
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我们也完成她的心愿
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我们的政府跟中国邦交之后
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所以她过后每年都要回去
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1998年3月11日
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丈夫吴亚我离世
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同时收到通知
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老宅的土地被地主收回
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那一年林亚砚72岁
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正式步入人生的暮年
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她的身旁不再是砖石和泥浆
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而是一群环绕她的孙辈
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从照片里可以看到
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她的笑容温暖
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身旁围绕着子孙
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满堂家庭聚会填满了她的日程
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她的日子也过得非常非常的好
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她每天都在期待下一个节日是什么
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比方说新春之后
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她就在等待元宵
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元宵之后又等待清明
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清明之后
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等下又端午节之后又有尾牙
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还有很多
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又有中秋
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太过多节日了
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2000年 当她的家
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那个承载了她半生风雨的老宅
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被地主收回
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她轻轻的道别
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像是对过去岁月的最后一声叹息
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回不去的人生
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不能重来的青春
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这间承载了她半生风雨的老宅
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见证了孩子们的成长和家族的欢笑
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如今成为回忆中的风景
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往事已然成歌
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从那时起
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林亚砚便选择在人生的归程中
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在9个孩子的家中旅居
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孩子多就好
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像现在
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像我们兄弟
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只要出国
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还有其他的孩子家可以去
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还有很多地方去嘛
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所以这个孩子多的好处
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我下定一个决心
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我一旦有回到马六甲
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我希望我母亲能够住在我的家
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我能够好好照顾她
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儿子们为她置办了一处安稳的住所
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并请了专门的看护
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然而她的心
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始终牵挂着那上百人的子孙后代
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温暖的叮咛从未停止
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她的记忆力犹如洋灰般凝固
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阿嫲
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有什么要说的
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刚才有说
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孙无够
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要更多
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是啦是啦
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要多多孙子
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很多孙子
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孙子辈啊
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多少都不够
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哈哈 越多越好
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是越多越好
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现在100个
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明年要200个
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哈好 好
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明年要200个
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好 好
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很孝顺
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孝顺
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逐日孝论
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大家都孝顺
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每位媳妇
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全部都孝顺
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都孝顺
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2021年 吴林亚砚慈善基金成立
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这是她的孩子们
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特别是兴安会馆名誉会长吴金成
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以她的名义设立的120万令吉的基金
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每年岁末发放援助金于
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有需要的贫老
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岁月流转
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她的人生不仅仅停留在家庭的回忆里
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还化作善意的光
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继续照亮她人
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在小时候
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每年也是有这个赠贫
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那时候我婆婆我公公她们都有去荷兰街
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一起排队领赠贫
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有一天我记得是我婆婆回来之后
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满头都是血
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就可能被人推倒
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就流血 所以有给我一个印象
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这个社会很多穷人
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有一个念头
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我们来做一个这个基金会
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捐献给这些老人家
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2024年4月6日
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在第四个儿子
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拿督斯里吴金华的安排下
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林亚砚随同五代子孙一同回到湄洲
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前往拜祭妈祖
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向故土和祖先祈福
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四子吴金华
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亦是时任的
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马来西亚兴安会馆总会总会长
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岁月可以带走青丝
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却带不走她的记忆
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林亚砚的记性好的惊人
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家族几代人的往事
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名字 支脉
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她都记得一清二楚
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时间在她心里从未模糊
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她的记忆力太好了
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她不止能认得
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还能够把她的名字叫出来
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曾孙还可以
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她的记忆力到现在还是非常非常的好
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非常非常的强
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这个是她的一个特点
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有一天我的司机讲boss 我很惊讶
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阿嫲
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要去神庙的路线她记得一清二楚
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何时转左及转右
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我真的非常惊讶
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她还有那个记忆力
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她要去到某某
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她所要去的那个神庙
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她还能够指挥
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叫我的司机要转左还是转右
359
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所以我的司机 很吃惊
360
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有一件事件在Umbai
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她们去挖蚝
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9个人在车祸里面
363
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7个人丧生
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你还记得以前9个人去挖蚝
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丧生多少人
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她总说钱要花在刀刃上
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日子才能越过越稳
368
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破旧的衣裳缝缝补补还能再穿
369
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米粒落桌上也要拾起
370
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柴米油盐都来之不易
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她的节俭不是吝啬
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而是对生活的珍惜
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对未来的谋划
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正是这份持家有道
375
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让一家大小都学会了惜物知足
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我母亲因为她穷
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她很节省
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教育我们不偷不抢
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这个是我们做人的道理了
380
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我记得小时候在老家Pengkalan Rama的时候
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她经常对我们说食物不要浪费
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一定要把碗里面的食物吃完
383
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假如我们有带她去吃东西
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我们不跟她讲价钱的
385
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她问几多钱
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假如价格是300块
387
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你讲150元就好
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以后来这里
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很好很好
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以后可来这里
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意思将以后给再倒回来啦
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假如你如实告知
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这里太贵了
394
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因为我母亲觉得太贵了
395
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所以她知道
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所以太贵
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她就不再来
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她就打死不来
399
00:14:36,166 --> 00:14:40,866
我们兄弟姐妹生长在一个贫苦的家庭
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父母
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生活节俭
402
00:14:45,933 --> 00:14:47,766
勤奋治家
403
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她叫我们把家庭顾好
404
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还要勤劳
405
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我们说到这一点
406
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苦难从未让她低头
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困境之中
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她总是默默寻找出路
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丈夫捕鱼
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她便去工地扛泥
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一双手撑起9个孩子的生活
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她不抱怨命运的不公
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而是用行动改写人生
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她是风雨中不倒的树
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是贫寒岁月里点燃希望的灯
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我觉得那个其实
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那个时代
418
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我们莆田人
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捕鱼的妇女都是很辛苦
420
00:15:21,933 --> 00:15:23,433
我可以讲的是很辛苦的
421
00:15:23,433 --> 00:15:25,433
所以我妈妈是其中一个
422
00:15:25,566 --> 00:15:27,733
那个时代的捕鱼的妇女
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每个都是差不多
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在这样的情况之下
425
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用生命去搏来维持生活费
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她是非常勤劳
427
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她有空的话
428
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她就会去我的家旁边
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看有野草
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帮忙去修一下拔草
431
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这样子
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她觉得是一种运动
433
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我母亲
434
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是在建筑场地做工
435
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她时常到今天
436
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她退休了
437
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她还是很喜欢去建筑场地
438
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我觉得阿嫲的为人
439
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是非常的值得让我们尊敬
440
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有什么事
441
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就是今日事今日毕
442
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我的父亲还有
443
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我家族的人是有这种精神
444
00:16:01,266 --> 00:16:02,733
有一种饿叫
445
00:16:02,733 --> 00:16:03,533
阿嫲 觉得你饿
446
00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:05,066
吃饱了吗
447
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这是她见到孙子时最常说的话
448
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她假如一回到这边
449
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阿嫲有回来呀
450
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我们要过去呀
451
00:16:14,866 --> 00:16:15,966
看看阿嫲
452
00:16:15,966 --> 00:16:17,400
跟阿嫲一起聊天
453
00:16:17,566 --> 00:16:20,933
曾孙跟她的关系都非常非常的好
454
00:16:20,933 --> 00:16:23,366
因为她太过喜欢小孩子了
455
00:16:23,366 --> 00:16:26,400
单单在这两年内
456
00:16:26,733 --> 00:16:28,233
她也很很有福气
457
00:16:28,666 --> 00:16:30,666
我们的孙子们
458
00:16:30,666 --> 00:16:33,466
她的孙子为她增添了 大概我相信
459
00:16:34,166 --> 00:16:36,366
将近10个男孙
460
00:16:36,533 --> 00:16:37,933
所以她很有福气
461
00:16:37,966 --> 00:16:38,866
就这两年内
462
00:16:38,866 --> 00:16:41,366
将近10位的男孙曾孙
463
00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:42,533
她很高兴
464
00:16:42,533 --> 00:16:43,566
她每年都是
465
00:16:43,566 --> 00:16:46,966
每天都是催着媳妇快点生
466
00:16:46,966 --> 00:16:48,000
早点生
467
00:16:48,066 --> 00:16:50,200
多生 这样的情况
468
00:16:50,633 --> 00:16:52,533
然后也不负她的所愿
469
00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:54,000
我小时候说
470
00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:55,600
我们也是住在老家
471
00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:56,233
Pengkalan Rama
472
00:16:56,233 --> 00:16:58,533
我的婆婆是非常节俭
473
00:16:58,633 --> 00:17:01,866
然后我记得以前我们的煮水
474
00:17:01,866 --> 00:17:06,466
我们全部都是要拍木枝和树枝去煮滚水
475
00:17:06,466 --> 00:17:08,766
然后她每天都很早起来
476
00:17:08,766 --> 00:17:11,666
可能 4点到5点吧
477
00:17:11,933 --> 00:17:15,166
她起来她就会去煲Kopi O
478
00:17:15,166 --> 00:17:16,933
一醒来就问我们吃饱了吗
479
00:17:16,933 --> 00:17:18,600
就叫我们快点去吃
480
00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:21,166
她实际上都会怕我们这些
481
00:17:21,366 --> 00:17:23,566
好像我们吃不饱
482
00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:25,033
就是很担心我们
483
00:17:25,033 --> 00:17:25,833
这样
484
00:17:26,033 --> 00:17:27,466
你一定要吃饱才有力
485
00:17:27,466 --> 00:17:30,266
每当我们去探望她的时候
486
00:17:30,266 --> 00:17:32,233
她都会问我们一句话吃饱了吗
487
00:17:32,233 --> 00:17:33,233
肚子有饿吗
488
00:17:33,266 --> 00:17:34,566
要喝 Milo 吗
489
00:17:34,633 --> 00:17:36,033
回想我们过大日子
490
00:17:36,033 --> 00:17:37,200
新年节日
491
00:17:37,733 --> 00:17:39,933
她会知道我们想吃什么
492
00:17:39,933 --> 00:17:41,633
她就会早上会起来
493
00:17:41,833 --> 00:17:42,766
会早点起来
494
00:17:42,766 --> 00:17:44,866
然后去巴刹特地去买那个东西
495
00:17:44,966 --> 00:17:46,466
然后晚上会煮给我们吃
496
00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:47,966
那些曾孙
497
00:17:47,966 --> 00:17:49,666
孙子 都很喜欢她的
498
00:17:49,666 --> 00:17:51,633
因为她的身上有一个磁场
499
00:17:52,133 --> 00:17:54,133
一股感觉让人很舒服
500
00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:56,200
很慈悲的一个形象
501
00:17:56,333 --> 00:17:57,200
就好像我的孙
502
00:17:57,200 --> 00:17:58,333
虽然很少回来
503
00:17:58,333 --> 00:18:01,166
但是如果回来还会往她身上去
504
00:18:01,433 --> 00:18:02,466
在这个时代
505
00:18:02,666 --> 00:18:04,333
方言常常被遗忘
506
00:18:04,433 --> 00:18:06,000
但在林亚砚的家里
507
00:18:06,000 --> 00:18:07,366
它成了爱的纽带
508
00:18:07,933 --> 00:18:11,000
许多孙子为了能与阿嫲多说几句话
509
00:18:11,133 --> 00:18:13,400
特意学会福建话与兴化话
510
00:18:13,766 --> 00:18:16,066
她们不愿让语言成为隔阂
511
00:18:16,266 --> 00:18:17,433
只因阿嫲的回应里
512
00:18:17,433 --> 00:18:19,166
一句话一个眼神
513
00:18:19,233 --> 00:18:20,800
便胜过千言万语
514
00:18:21,233 --> 00:18:22,533
我的阿嫲
515
00:18:22,533 --> 00:18:23,800
她是不会讲华语
516
00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:27,166
所以我们跟她沟通都是在讲福建话
517
00:18:27,466 --> 00:18:29,200
所以
518
00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:31,733
比较普通的还是能沟通
519
00:18:32,066 --> 00:18:34,966
我只记得小时候每次去阿嫲家
520
00:18:34,966 --> 00:18:37,600
最喜欢就是阿嫲我爱买冰淇淋
521
00:18:37,766 --> 00:18:43,033
然后阿嫲就每次就 做么还要买冰淇淋
522
00:18:43,033 --> 00:18:46,533
她还是会给我们去买
523
00:18:46,633 --> 00:18:47,800
给我们去吃
524
00:18:48,133 --> 00:18:50,333
记得我读小学的时候
525
00:18:50,766 --> 00:18:53,833
有些时候还会去她的房间跟她一起睡
526
00:18:54,633 --> 00:18:55,766
说有时隔天早上
527
00:18:56,166 --> 00:18:59,200
早上我们准备好了要去学校
528
00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:00,000
还问我们
529
00:19:00,366 --> 00:19:01,566
你有带钱吗
530
00:19:01,733 --> 00:19:05,366
她有时间还是会拿一毛钱两毛钱
531
00:19:05,366 --> 00:19:07,466
给我们去学校去买点东西吃
532
00:19:07,633 --> 00:19:10,933
林亚砚在婆媳之间从不居高临下
533
00:19:10,966 --> 00:19:12,766
而是以一颗体谅的心
534
00:19:12,866 --> 00:19:14,933
温柔的守护着家庭的和谐
535
00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:16,566
她情绪安稳
536
00:19:16,633 --> 00:19:19,033
不声不响的卸下长辈的威压
537
00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:21,833
也不在儿女之间添一分负累
538
00:19:22,166 --> 00:19:24,800
家婆的位子不是用来指责
539
00:19:24,866 --> 00:19:26,133
是用来理解
540
00:19:26,533 --> 00:19:28,066
她的媳妇们谈起她
541
00:19:28,166 --> 00:19:29,433
总是红了眼眶
542
00:19:29,466 --> 00:19:30,833
不是因为委屈
543
00:19:30,866 --> 00:19:32,066
而是因为感动
544
00:19:32,066 --> 00:19:34,866
我嫁进来生了孩子
545
00:19:34,866 --> 00:19:37,766
她就会天天早早就煮给我们吃
546
00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:39,433
小孩子满月
547
00:19:39,433 --> 00:19:42,800
她会拿那个刀片帮我的儿子剃头
548
00:19:43,333 --> 00:19:44,933
她的手法真的是很好
549
00:19:44,933 --> 00:19:48,300
只是一只刀片她就能剃得漂亮
550
00:19:48,766 --> 00:19:50,566
长命百岁
551
00:19:50,566 --> 00:19:52,833
嗯嗯
552
00:19:52,833 --> 00:19:55,066
我家婆 是一个很好的家婆
553
00:19:55,066 --> 00:19:56,466
也是一个好妈妈
554
00:19:57,233 --> 00:19:59,800
她 就很谦虚的人
555
00:19:59,966 --> 00:20:02,633
很低调所以她的人缘很好
556
00:20:02,633 --> 00:20:04,366
她也不会在别人的面前
557
00:20:04,366 --> 00:20:06,833
炫耀自己的富贵荣华
558
00:20:06,933 --> 00:20:08,133
非常的低调
559
00:20:08,133 --> 00:20:10,566
从她的身上学了好多的东西
560
00:20:10,633 --> 00:20:11,833
做人的道理
561
00:20:12,066 --> 00:20:14,933
佩服她真的是一个好妈妈
562
00:20:14,933 --> 00:20:16,333
我们很疼我家婆
563
00:20:16,333 --> 00:20:18,200
我家婆也是很疼我们
564
00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:20,433
没有骂过一句话
565
00:20:20,466 --> 00:20:23,766
我今年嫁给我老公已经37年了
566
00:20:23,766 --> 00:20:24,766
我家婆
567
00:20:24,966 --> 00:20:26,433
一次都没有骂过我们
568
00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:27,733
所有媳妇都一样
569
00:20:27,733 --> 00:20:30,066
不是我一个而已 而是6个媳妇
570
00:20:30,066 --> 00:20:31,233
都是一样的
571
00:20:31,466 --> 00:20:33,266
所以我们很疼我家婆
572
00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:35,733
虽然我家婆已经100岁了
573
00:20:35,733 --> 00:20:37,966
可是她不会给到你很麻烦
574
00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:39,466
我要和你说什么了呀
575
00:20:39,466 --> 00:20:41,233
我突然想不起了
576
00:20:41,666 --> 00:20:43,666
想不起了
577
00:20:43,666 --> 00:20:44,366
嗯嗯
578
00:20:44,366 --> 00:20:45,933
你住我家吗你开心吗
579
00:20:45,933 --> 00:20:47,933
欢喜 欢喜
580
00:20:47,933 --> 00:20:51,133
我住哪里都欢喜
581
00:20:55,433 --> 00:20:56,066
你欢喜啦
582
00:20:56,066 --> 00:20:56,866
很热闹是吗
583
00:20:56,866 --> 00:20:57,666
很热闹
584
00:20:57,666 --> 00:20:58,766
我家里很热闹
585
00:21:01,166 --> 00:21:02,133
很热闹
586
00:21:03,033 --> 00:21:05,066
我老实讲我家婆
587
00:21:05,066 --> 00:21:07,800
假如真的再多一次出世
588
00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:09,400
我可以再做她的媳妇
589
00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:10,800
还我还很要的
590
00:21:10,933 --> 00:21:12,000
我特别感恩
591
00:21:12,333 --> 00:21:14,033
就是说我们才嫁进来
592
00:21:14,033 --> 00:21:16,533
她会每天叫我们回来吃饭
593
00:21:16,666 --> 00:21:18,433
吃午餐 等等
594
00:21:18,833 --> 00:21:20,600
非常非常善良的人
595
00:21:20,833 --> 00:21:24,533
教我们怎样做人做事
596
00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:27,966
我是一个单亲长大的家庭
597
00:21:27,966 --> 00:21:29,633
她教我很多 就像妈妈一样
598
00:21:29,666 --> 00:21:31,466
什么事她都教我
599
00:21:31,466 --> 00:21:32,800
我特别感动
600
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:34,533
遇到非常好的家婆
601
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:36,800
大家都很孝顺
602
00:21:38,066 --> 00:21:39,600
所有媳妇都孝顺
603
00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:41,333
孩子们都很孝顺
604
00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:45,033
我们的关系其实超过了媳妇跟家婆
605
00:21:45,033 --> 00:21:47,166
因为我们的关系更亲密
606
00:21:47,166 --> 00:21:48,666
我们可以什么都讲
607
00:21:48,733 --> 00:21:49,966
她不会跟你计较
608
00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:51,733
她也会教会你
609
00:21:51,733 --> 00:21:53,366
什么是以诚待人
610
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,166
以德服人
611
00:21:55,166 --> 00:21:56,566
这个就是我们的家婆
612
00:21:57,233 --> 00:21:58,600
她用一生诠释
613
00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:00,400
什么叫不成为孩子的负担
614
00:22:00,833 --> 00:22:03,133
她体会儿女成家后的艰辛
615
00:22:03,233 --> 00:22:04,466
所以从不多言
616
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:06,600
只是悄悄站在她们身后
617
00:22:07,133 --> 00:22:09,633
她也常叮咛孩子不要怕吃亏
618
00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:11,433
吃亏也不能去伤人
619
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:12,933
吃亏天补
620
00:22:13,066 --> 00:22:14,433
天公疼憨人
621
00:22:14,766 --> 00:22:16,466
那是她一生的信念
622
00:22:16,566 --> 00:22:18,866
是她对良心最温柔的坚持
623
00:22:19,366 --> 00:22:20,666
她把这一份心意
624
00:22:20,833 --> 00:22:23,533
悄悄埋进了每一个后代的骨血里
625
00:22:24,266 --> 00:22:26,433
她对我们身体都是很好
626
00:22:26,566 --> 00:22:28,633
她不会乱乱骂人的
627
00:22:28,966 --> 00:22:31,966
教我们孩子做好人
628
00:22:32,366 --> 00:22:33,166
不要骗
629
00:22:33,533 --> 00:22:34,866
也不要去欺负人
630
00:22:35,166 --> 00:22:37,800
她对待人很好的
631
00:22:38,033 --> 00:22:39,633
她会原谅人
632
00:22:39,633 --> 00:22:41,400
她不会跟人家计较的
633
00:22:41,466 --> 00:22:42,633
一个好母亲
634
00:22:43,466 --> 00:22:46,800
处处为人着想
635
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:48,833
待人要很慈善的
636
00:22:49,366 --> 00:22:51,733
从来没有讲过人家的不好的
637
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:52,866
都是好的
638
00:22:53,366 --> 00:22:55,400
对很多东西我还要学习了
639
00:22:55,433 --> 00:22:56,400
计较的少
640
00:22:56,466 --> 00:22:58,433
付出的多一点
641
00:22:58,433 --> 00:22:59,833
不要怕吃亏了
642
00:22:59,966 --> 00:23:01,966
很多时候很多人都是怕吃亏
643
00:23:02,166 --> 00:23:04,666
但是我家婆身上就算你对她不好
644
00:23:04,666 --> 00:23:05,933
她都不会对你不好
645
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:07,800
这个就是她的特点
646
00:23:07,966 --> 00:23:10,600
对我的婆婆有一个印象比较深刻的
647
00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:14,033
就是有一次我们一起 去回乡旅行
648
00:23:14,033 --> 00:23:15,833
从那边我感觉到她很爱我们
649
00:23:15,833 --> 00:23:18,233
一上了飞机就是要关手机
650
00:23:18,233 --> 00:23:19,266
全部人都要关手机
651
00:23:19,266 --> 00:23:22,033
她看到旁边有人在玩手机
652
00:23:22,033 --> 00:23:24,600
我第一次看她生气就是因为这个事情
653
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,233
在这么我吃到那么大
654
00:23:26,233 --> 00:23:27,600
没有看过她发过脾气
655
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,166
因为我们全部都在飞机上
656
00:23:29,266 --> 00:23:30,533
回望她的一生
657
00:23:30,666 --> 00:23:32,133
从渔村到南洋
658
00:23:32,233 --> 00:23:35,166
从建筑工地到家族的精神支柱
659
00:23:35,433 --> 00:23:37,166
她并非来自富贵人家
660
00:23:37,266 --> 00:23:39,533
却留下了一份最珍贵的财富
661
00:23:39,533 --> 00:23:40,766
给后代子孙
662
00:23:40,866 --> 00:23:43,766
并将一生过成了最恢弘的建筑
663
00:23:44,166 --> 00:23:45,666
遗财不如遗德
664
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:47,566
积善之家必有馀庆
665
00:23:47,933 --> 00:23:49,333
她留给后人的
666
00:23:49,433 --> 00:23:52,933
正是那句朴实却深远的教诲
667
00:23:52,966 --> 00:23:54,333
要成事 必先学会做人
668
00:23:54,733 --> 00:23:57,633
这句话成了代代相传的根基
669
00:23:57,800 --> 00:23:59,833
沉淀在每一个子孙心中
670
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,800
化作他们行事为人的准则与力量
671
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:04,533
林亚砚的一生
672
00:24:04,633 --> 00:24:06,533
是风雨中挺立的身影
673
00:24:06,600 --> 00:24:08,366
是岁月里最温润的光
674
00:24:08,933 --> 00:24:11,466
水泥地上一朵花倔强生长
675
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:12,733
花香四溢
676
00:24:12,733 --> 00:24:13,666
不争不抢
677
00:24:13,766 --> 00:24:15,133
却用自己的方式
678
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:17,533
让世界多了一抹柔和的香气
679
00:05:24,833 --> 00:05:29,700
We have more than 30 grandchildren from these 30 grandchildren
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