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NARRATOR: Previously...
I did give Rory my number.
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Jacqui's confession.
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It's made me angry.
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That was something I would never do.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
Never.
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I don't want to stand there,
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pour my emotions out to you
for you to just reject me again.
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Beth and Teejay call it quits...
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I deserve to be with someone
that wants me.
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Makes sense.
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..both agreeing to
end their marriage
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before their final vows ceremony.
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And then...
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I'm not ready to walk away
from this.
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Today, I choose us.
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Let's give this a real shot.
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(BOTH LAUGH)
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Cuties.
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Jamie and Dave chose to
continue their marriage
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outside of the experiment.
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I wish I could wrap my legs around
you but I'd slit my dress.
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Later.
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It's best for both of us
that I walk away.
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An unexpected ending.
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You're not my future right now.
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Despite both agreeing to
end their relationship...
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Do you want to spend time
with me tonight?
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Yeah.
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..Awhina and Adrian's chemistry
proved too strong,
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leaving their relationship
in the air.
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So, we're just gonna go back home
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and see where we stand
and how we go.
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(AWHINA GIGGLES)
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Tonight...
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Ryan, in a world of red flags,
you are the red carpet.
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The most unexpected
and explosive final vows ever seen.
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I'm not a rehabilitation centre.
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Sorry, that's ridiculous.
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You can't call my final vows
ridiculous.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC BUILDS THEN FADES)
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Plus...
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JEFF: It's very rare that people
go from a romantic relationship
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to a friendship, then back
to a romantic relationship.
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Rhi and Jeff's final vows...
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You are worth every day, every week,
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every month it takes
to discover our happily ever after.
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It's the love story
of the experiment.
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Rhi...
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I am falling in love with you.
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(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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But first...
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Paul...
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The dramatic conclusion
to Carina and Paul's final vows.
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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(STIRRING MUSIC)
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The final vows ceremony has arrived
for Carina and Paul.
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Today, they will put their hearts
on the line...
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..and make a decision
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that could change
the course of their lives forever.
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(MUSIC CONTINUES)
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PAUL: Carina means a lot to me,
obviously.
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And I've actually realised that
even more
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after I nearly lost her
a few days ago.
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Making that foolish decision
to go and meet this other person,
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it was genuinely
a big mistake of mine.
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But there's been
a lot of forgiveness within us.
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We've always been able to, you know,
get back closer together,
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move forward from
all these challenges
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that were thrown at us
throughout the whole experiment.
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So, I'm very confident
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that she's going to be willing
to forgive me and move forward.
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CARINA: I was raised on forgiveness
and seeing the good in people.
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But then, on the other hand...
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..I don't know
if I know the real Paul
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'cause he wouldn't
put me in this position.
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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But I also know that,
when I do see him in person,
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I do crumble a little bit.
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Paul's very loving
and he is very affectionate.
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He fits so well in with my family
and I love that about him.
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So, can I forgive him?
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(MUSIC CONTINUES)
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I believe my decision
that I've made right now
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is the right one for myself,
and my future.
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(MUSIC BUILDS THEN FADES)
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(CHUCKLES)
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Wow.
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(BOTH CHUCKLE)
Wow.
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Hey.
Hi.
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How are you?
How are you?
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So good, it's so good to see you.
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I missed you.
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Oh, it's so good to see your face.
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Wow.
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All right, well...
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(CHUCKLES)
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I guess I'll start.
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All right.
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Carina...
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When I entered this experiment,
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I had no expectations, but my heart
was open, hoping to find love
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and to meet the partner I would
spend the rest of my life with.
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Little did I know that this journey
would lead me to you,
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someone who had already
crossed my path before.
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When I turned around on our
wedding day and saw your face...
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..it felt like fate.
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You look...
You look gorgeous.
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Wow.
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It felt like the universe
was giving us another chance.
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A chance to explore
what was once missed.
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I still remember how nervous I was
to meet your family.
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How are we?
Hello. Hello. Nice to meet you.
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Nice to meet you, too.
Yeah, welcome.
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So, is Carina everything
you expected her to be
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or wanting her to be or...?
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Honestly, even more than that.
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Carmel and Tony and everyone else
welcomed me with open arms,
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and I felt an instant connection
with them.
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And the feelings I started
developing for you were strong,
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stronger than I ever anticipated.
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But with those feelings came fear,
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fear of letting my walls down,
fear of being hurt again.
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Then came our first real challenge.
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In a moment of frustration
when I felt disrespected,
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I had made a terrible mistake.
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The guilt I felt afterward
was overwhelming.
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I cried for days,
consumed by disappointment
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for handling things so poorly.
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But, even in that dark moment,
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you stook by me
and I will never forget that.
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I saw how hard it was for you
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when we had to swap partners and
write letters raising our concern.
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When I expressed that, sometimes,
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I felt like you could be
a bit judgemental,
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I never meant to hurt you.
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Like, when I wrote the word "snob",
like, I...
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The meaning of it, I was thinking,
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maybe, maybe that's probably
a bit too strong of a word
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so that's why I didn't want
to read that again, I was, like...
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I'm sorry.
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Mm.
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I was simply trying to communicate
honestly, but I know it upset you.
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Still, you listened
and we talked through it.
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You apologised and we moved forward.
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I came out stronger
and more determined than ever
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to make things work.
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But then came the last major test
from the experts,
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the opportunity to meet
someone else, a potential match.
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I made the foolish decision to go.
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I know how much it hurt you, how
disheartened and betrayed you felt.
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You know you went on a date.
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You went on a date.
I know, but, like, look...
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That's a date.
I know.
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When I was there,
I was so embarrassed...
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No, I don't care!
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..and I was talking about you
the whole time...
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Good, go do it with other girls!
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I'm worth so much more than this!
No, no, no, no, babe!
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But, Carina...
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..what it showed me was
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that I had already found
what I was looking for.
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You've become such an important part
of my world,
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and the thought of losing you,
of not having you by my side,
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was a wake-up call I won't ignore.
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That feeling showed me just how much
I'm willing to fight for us.
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All I can do now
is ask for your forgiveness.
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Carina, you are
kind and compassionate
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with a patience that grounds me.
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Family means the world to you,
and your dedication to them
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shows me the kind of future
we could have together.
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Despite everything, we've always
managed to come back to each other,
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to forgive and to move forward.
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There's not a doubt in my mind
that you are the one for me,
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and I never want to risk
letting you go again.
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(SPEAKS FRENCH)
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And that means,
from this day forward,
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I commit to giving you my loyalty,
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to share every joy and face
every challenges together.
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With you, I'm ready to build
a future that will last.
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(PENSIVE MUSIC)
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Mm.
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That's sweet.
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Mm.
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Guess it's my turn.
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Okay, okay.
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Okay. Deep breath.
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Okay. Paul...
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(GENTLE MUSIC)
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I came into this experiment with the
hope of finding the love of my life.
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Dreaming of a trusting
and loving relationship,
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something I've struggled with
in the past.
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And then you came along.
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You immediately put me at ease.
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That's so good.
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I felt a spark and a connection
that I was eager to explore.
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I opened myself up to you,
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believing in the potential of
what we could create together.
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Here we go.
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Unified by our strong feelings
for one another, we were a team
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and nothing could come between us.
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But then some hurdles came our way.
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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Your frustration
got the better of you,
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and you reacted in a way
I never thought possible.
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But I found it in myself
to forgive you.
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Then came the honesty letter
you read to Awhina.
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I was blindsided and felt like
you had thrown me under the bus.
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Again, I forgave you
and wanted to continue
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allowing our relationship
to blossom.
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And blossom it did.
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(CHUCKLES)
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We had the best homestays in Perth,
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and my parents gave you
their seal of approval,
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which means everything to me.
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I was falling hard for you
and could see our future so clearly.
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But then you made a decision
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that would deeply impact
our relationship.
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You chose to go on a date
with another woman.
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Your decision and your actions
cast doubts in my mind
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and made me question
your emotional maturity
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for a long-term relationship.
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I spent the following days
feeling devastated,
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and found myself wondering who the
person was that I'd been living with
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for the past three months.
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Mm.
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(MELANCHOLIC MUSIC)
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Paul, I see the good in you
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and I know relationships
aren't always easy.
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They require work, honesty and a
willingness to learn from the past.
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We are human.
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We all make mistakes.
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And I would be a hypocrite
if I said I didn't have flaws.
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As a Christian,
I've been taught to forgive.
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I can't ignore the good times
in this experiment
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where you made me feel special
and cared for and loved.
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(BREATHES SHAKILY)
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(DISQUIETING MUSIC)
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However...
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..I vowed to myself that my
life partner would be a man
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I can...can completely trust.
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Throughout this experiment,
there's been multiple times
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where I've stood by you
and looked past things
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that you've done in the hope that
this would be it for me and for us.
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A few weeks ago, this decision
would have been easy for me.
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There'd be no question
I'd want to stay with you.
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But you threw it all away
in a selfish act.
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(MUSIC INTENSIFIES)
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You were given a test,
which you failed.
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In my eyes,
that was the final straw.
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I felt embarrassed...
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..humiliated and disrespected
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and I never want to
feel like that again.
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00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:24,240
I can't be with someone who makes me
feel like I'm not enough.
256
00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:26,040
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
257
00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:30,480
And, no matter how hard I try,
I can't look at you in the same way.
258
00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:36,760
The trust is broken
and I can't come back from that.
259
00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:40,920
Paul, I was yours.
260
00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:44,200
You had me and you ruined it.
261
00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:50,240
And now you're going to have to live
with that for the rest of your life.
262
00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:52,840
(DISQUIETING MUSIC CONTINUES)
263
00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:03,800
(MUSIC INTENSIFIES)
264
00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:09,560
(MUSIC FADES)
265
00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:16,120
(TENSE MUSIC RACES)
266
00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:24,840
No matter how hard I try,
I can't look at you in the same way.
267
00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:28,600
Paul, I was yours.
268
00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:31,480
You had me and you ruined it.
269
00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:34,200
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
270
00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:38,040
And now you're going to have to live
with that for the rest of your life.
271
00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:41,200
(MUSIC BUILDS THEN FADES)
272
00:14:45,360 --> 00:14:48,280
(UNEASY MUSIC)
273
00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:03,640
(MUSIC FADES)
274
00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:11,520
(SOMBRE MUSIC)
275
00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:23,800
(PAUL EXHALES SHAKILY)
276
00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:27,000
(UNEASY MUSIC)
277
00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:36,360
(PAUL SOBS UNDER HIS BREATH)
278
00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:50,160
(BLEEP).
279
00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:53,320
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
280
00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:57,680
(BLEEP), I'm so sorry.
281
00:15:59,880 --> 00:16:02,560
I'm just blank. Like, I'm done.
282
00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:06,560
I mean, it wasn't easy.
It wasn't easy.
283
00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:08,600
I was going back and forth.
I know, I just...
284
00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:11,880
I seriously thought you were going
to be able to move past this one.
285
00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:16,120
(MELANCHOLIC MUSIC)
286
00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:18,680
I just...
I just still had hopes.
287
00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:23,200
I just can't... like,
I thought you would know me.
288
00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:26,120
Like, you literally stayed
at my family's home the week before.
289
00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:28,640
Like, that doesn't fly with me.
290
00:16:34,440 --> 00:16:35,520
Oh, (BLEEP).
291
00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:37,440
I actually can't believe
this is happening.
292
00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:44,120
(SOMBRE MUSIC)
293
00:16:48,320 --> 00:16:50,920
(PAUL EXHALES SHAKILY)
294
00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:57,880
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
295
00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:06,600
Do you think that you'll be able
to forgive me, like, in the future?
296
00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:12,720
Maybe forget about it?
297
00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:15,720
(TENSE MUSIC)
298
00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:18,600
(PAUL SNIFFLES)
299
00:17:20,120 --> 00:17:22,760
(MUSIC RACES)
300
00:17:22,800 --> 00:17:24,120
Okay.
301
00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,840
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
302
00:17:43,360 --> 00:17:45,680
(MUSIC FADES)
303
00:17:50,960 --> 00:17:54,320
(PAUL SOBS UNDER HIS BREATH)
304
00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:58,160
(GENTLE MUSIC)
305
00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:02,920
It's really hard
walking away from him.
306
00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:05,280
(SNIFFLES)
307
00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:10,360
It's not the happy ending
that I was wanting.
308
00:18:13,480 --> 00:18:17,640
I just feel like
I've got the ickiness in me.
309
00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:18,800
(PAUL SOBS)
310
00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:21,800
And I can't look at Paul
the same way.
311
00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:28,000
I'm deserving of loyalty,
trust and respect.
312
00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:31,320
Love shouldn't be this hard.
313
00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:39,440
(SOMBRE MUSIC)
314
00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:47,000
(SNIFFLES, EXHALES DEEPLY)
315
00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:59,000
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
316
00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:00,600
I'm (BLEEP) heartbroken right now.
317
00:19:05,120 --> 00:19:07,160
Can't believe it's...
it's over.
318
00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:14,480
No.
319
00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:15,960
Like, literally, none
320
00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:17,080
I just want to go...
321
00:19:17,120 --> 00:19:18,600
I just want to go give her
the biggest hug,
322
00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:19,800
and I just want to ask her to...
323
00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:20,920
I just want to...
324
00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:22,960
I don't know, I just...
I feel like asking her to...
325
00:19:24,120 --> 00:19:26,920
..maybe try a little harder
to move past it.
326
00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:28,080
I just...
327
00:19:28,120 --> 00:19:30,560
I just want to try to convince her
again, you know, like...
328
00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:37,000
(TENSE MUSIC)
329
00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:39,760
I would like to think that she's
gonna regret her decision, you know?
330
00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,120
Part of me is still hoping
331
00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:43,200
that she's going to regret taking
that decision, that, you know,
332
00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:48,160
she'll reach out and she'll,
you know, decide to continue.
333
00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:55,000
If she does, I'll be here
with open arms, of course, 100%.
334
00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:57,480
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
335
00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:01,480
I don't have it in me anymore
to continue to forgive.
336
00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:06,120
I made this decision
for my future Carina's self.
337
00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:12,520
As much as it hurts me,
338
00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:18,240
this is truly me putting my
foot down and putting myself first.
339
00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:23,720
Still to come...
340
00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:25,840
I can't believe
we're actually leaving right now.
341
00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:27,040
Yeah, I know.
342
00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:30,280
Rhi and Jeff
farewell their marital home
343
00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:33,400
and welcome an exciting new future.
344
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:34,560
You look so good.
345
00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:37,000
And Jeff finally says the words.
346
00:20:37,040 --> 00:20:38,000
Rhi...
347
00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:42,320
..that Rhi and everyone
have been waiting for.
348
00:20:42,360 --> 00:20:43,880
I am falling in love with you.
349
00:20:43,920 --> 00:20:45,200
Oh, that's so nice.
350
00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:47,720
And...
351
00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:49,960
RYAN: This is it.
This is the finale.
352
00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:53,120
An unforgettable final vows.
353
00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:54,680
JACQUI: I've got some iconic lines
354
00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:56,600
that will go down in history
as memorable.
355
00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:58,000
It's a ceremony...
356
00:20:58,040 --> 00:20:59,720
I'm sorry. That's ridiculous.
357
00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:01,520
Don't call my final vows
ridiculous.
358
00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:05,200
..that will go down in
Married at First Sight history.
359
00:21:05,240 --> 00:21:07,320
I'm the problem.
I didn't say you're the problem.
360
00:21:07,360 --> 00:21:09,560
I said your pride is the problem.
No, no, no, it's all blame this way.
361
00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:11,640
Your pride is...
No, it's not you're the problem.
362
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,200
Your pride is the problem.
There's a difference.
363
00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:15,120
Just keep...come on
with the criticism. Come on.
364
00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:18,600
(PLAYFUL MUSIC ENDS WITH FLOURISH)
365
00:21:22,120 --> 00:21:25,120
(STIRRING MUSIC)
366
00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:27,080
After three months,
367
00:21:27,120 --> 00:21:31,000
the Married at First Sight
experiment has come to an end.
368
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:36,640
The final two couples
must now take some time apart...
369
00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:38,360
Your wedding photo.
Thank you.
370
00:21:38,400 --> 00:21:41,760
..to weigh up if they would like
to continue their relationship
371
00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:43,720
outside the experiment.
372
00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:46,120
RHI: Where are you going to
put this, by your bedside?
373
00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:47,480
Yeah, I am.
374
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:48,880
Put it...
375
00:21:48,920 --> 00:21:51,600
Gonna look at you every night
while we're apart.
376
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:52,800
(RHI GIGGLES)
377
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:54,600
It's going to be hard
leaving this apartment,
378
00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:56,440
and Rhi and myself
going our separate ways.
379
00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,320
Day in, day out,
Rhi's been the constant.
380
00:21:59,360 --> 00:22:01,040
Living in this apartment's
been a constant.
381
00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,440
The experts, the experiment
and now that's done.
382
00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:05,800
It's going to be an adjustment,
383
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:09,520
and, yeah, I guess the sad thing is
is me not seeing Rhi every day.
384
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:11,600
I can't believe
we're actually leaving right now.
385
00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:13,520
Yeah, I know. Me either.
386
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:15,200
Are you gonna miss me?
387
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:16,800
I will, 100%.
388
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:19,040
It's definitely a sad day
leaving the apartment.
389
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:20,920
This has been home
for the last three months,
390
00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:23,920
and it's where Jeff and I
have built our relationship
391
00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:25,920
and made it what it is today.
392
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:27,880
All right, let's get out of here.
393
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:28,960
Let's.
394
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,600
To be leaving the experiment
right now
395
00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:33,920
in a relationship
that I'm certain about,
396
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:35,520
I actually can't believe it.
397
00:22:36,120 --> 00:22:38,360
I truly do feel like
I'm in the right relationship.
398
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:40,440
I feel like
I am meant to be with Jeff.
399
00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:43,320
(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
400
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:47,200
One more.
401
00:22:48,040 --> 00:22:49,120
(RHI CHUCKLES)
402
00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:54,840
So, as much as
it feels extremely sad,
403
00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:58,240
I am really excited for
outside of the experiment
404
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:00,960
because I know that
it will be great, as well.
405
00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:04,640
See you at final vows.
See you at final vows.
406
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:05,960
See ya.
See ya.
407
00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:12,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
408
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:17,480
The last couple to pack their bags
for home are Jacqui and Ryan,
409
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:20,200
whose future is up in the air.
410
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:22,880
Honestly, meeting you has been
like a breath of fresh air.
411
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:24,480
(CHORTLES)
412
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,520
During final test week...
413
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:30,520
Yeah.
414
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:34,720
..Jacqui swapped numbers with
her other potential match, Rory.
415
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:37,080
I did give Rory my number.
416
00:23:37,120 --> 00:23:39,280
And when she confessed to Ryan...
417
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:40,320
Hm.
418
00:23:40,360 --> 00:23:41,520
..he was furious.
419
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,160
You know that's not okay.
420
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:45,120
So, Rory's now thinking,
421
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,120
"Oh, I'll message her
even though she's married,"
422
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:48,280
because that's the sign.
423
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:49,760
Like, you've given him a big sign.
424
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:52,160
It's made me angry.
425
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:57,440
This morning, there's been yet
another shocking development.
426
00:23:57,480 --> 00:23:59,600
(GENTLE MUSIC)
427
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:01,520
Like, I'm just so happy
that we've...
428
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,320
This is our home.
We've got the shrine.
429
00:24:03,360 --> 00:24:05,400
We've got all the flowers,
we've got chess.
430
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:06,800
We've got...
BOTH: Yeah.
431
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,200
It's just really nice.
It's just Jacqui and Ryan's cave.
432
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,280
It is. It's really nice.
433
00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:13,040
Oh, I'm gonna miss it.
434
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:14,240
Yeah.
435
00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:16,080
It's been a massive week.
436
00:24:16,120 --> 00:24:17,880
It's been a rollercoaster week
for me.
437
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:19,800
I've been through
a lot of ups and downs
438
00:24:19,840 --> 00:24:23,120
and, learning that Jacqui
gave out her number,
439
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:24,280
it was a bloody shock.
440
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,320
But, as we came to the end
of this experiment,
441
00:24:27,360 --> 00:24:29,160
there was just this flood
of memories.
442
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:30,640
There was this flood of moments.
443
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,560
And it's hard to keep being angry
and being mad.
444
00:24:34,600 --> 00:24:37,280
I can remember...
every time I look at one,
445
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:39,080
it's like a portal to that moment.
446
00:24:39,120 --> 00:24:42,400
Maybe we can take turns at picking
what photos are our favourite.
447
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,480
Okay. Are you ready?
All right, you go first.
448
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:45,680
I pick this one.
449
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:47,960
Okay.
450
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,160
Looking at the shrine,
it just reminds me of
451
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:51,480
we have had some amazing moments.
452
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:54,560
I'm going to take this one.
453
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:57,040
(JACQUI SQUEALS)
That is a cute one.
454
00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:02,440
I did love twirling her
into the dinner party
455
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:04,200
when we walked in first.
456
00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:07,680
Hey, the floor is ours, baby.
I know.
457
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:09,320
Let's do a twirl.
We're first.
458
00:25:09,360 --> 00:25:11,800
(JACQUI GIGGLES)
459
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,120
You look so happy.
460
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:16,400
I mean, look at you.
461
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:19,080
You've got this red...
this blonde girl kissing you.
462
00:25:19,120 --> 00:25:20,600
Of course you're happy.
Mm.
463
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:25,560
Every single dinner party,
commitment ceremony and date,
464
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:28,520
we had the... we had the camera out,
and we're just like,
465
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:29,680
"Let's make a new moment."
466
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:31,720
You know, and that's
what it's been built on.
467
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:33,960
I look at it
and I can't help but smile.
468
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:37,000
And now taking it down,
like, piece by piece,
469
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,280
it feels like
a little part of us is dying.
470
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,320
I'm gonna tear up in a second.
Aw!
471
00:25:42,360 --> 00:25:43,520
Are you?
472
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:44,880
Aw!
473
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:46,000
It's okay.
474
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:47,360
It's beautiful, aye?
475
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:48,520
All our memories.
476
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:51,920
Yeah, it's sad.
477
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:53,560
You know, I'm gonna...
I'm gonna miss those...
478
00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:55,440
I'm gonna miss those moments.
479
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:58,320
(KNOCKING AT DOOR)
480
00:25:58,360 --> 00:25:59,440
Okay.
481
00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,600
Before leaving their marital home,
482
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:05,640
the experts have arranged a surprise
for Jacqui and Ryan.
483
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:07,760
What is this? This is not a letter.
484
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:11,920
A look back to where it all began
with their wedding video.
485
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:13,440
(RYAN CHUCKLES)
What have we got?
486
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:17,000
I am stoked that we're in
a really good place at the moment
487
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:18,240
before final vows.
488
00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:22,560
Like, Ryan's so happy and his mood
and energy has just blossomed
489
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:24,160
over the past 24 hours,
490
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:28,440
and I don't feel guilty
for hurting him anymore.
491
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:30,080
Ready?
Yeah.
492
00:26:30,120 --> 00:26:32,160
(GENTLE MUSIC)
493
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,760
Oh!
Look at you!
494
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,320
Oh, my God! Oh, my God!
495
00:26:37,360 --> 00:26:39,200
I'm really grateful for Ryan,
496
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,800
and I am grateful that
he came on this journey with me.
497
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,120
Look at me. I was shitting it, hey?
Oh, my God, that's so Ryan.
498
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:45,960
I love Ryan. Like, I do.
499
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:48,280
And I want him in my life.
500
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,160
Oh, there's me!
There... Oh! Look at that.
501
00:26:52,200 --> 00:26:54,200
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
502
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,480
Oh, you look great.
Thank you.
503
00:26:57,360 --> 00:26:59,320
(JACQUI GIGGLES)
504
00:26:59,360 --> 00:27:01,280
Wow.
505
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:03,400
Hey.
Hi.
506
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:04,840
I'm Ryan.
Jacqui.
507
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,480
Nice to meet you.
Nice to meet you.
508
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:08,320
Oh, my God. Yes. We're here.
509
00:27:08,360 --> 00:27:10,120
Finally.
(JACQUI GIGGLES)
510
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:13,280
Seeing our wedding video takes me
right back to the beginning.
511
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:17,440
In that moment, I felt like we just
were holding each other's gaze.
512
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:19,760
It was almost like we were
holding hands through our eyes.
513
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:25,760
Jacqui, I'm now your husband,
514
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:27,480
and, from the moment
I learned we were matched,
515
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,360
I've thought about you every single
day.
516
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:30,360
Aw.
517
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:34,080
My life, my heart
and my identity as a man,
518
00:27:34,120 --> 00:27:35,440
they're all yours now, Jacqui.
519
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:37,000
Yay!
520
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,280
(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
521
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:44,000
I will literally ask you a million
questions to get to know you.
522
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:45,760
I will be brutally honest
523
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:48,560
when I feel like there's something
that could make you a better man.
524
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:51,160
So, let's just make the most
of what we've been handed,
525
00:27:51,200 --> 00:27:52,960
and shoot for the sun together.
526
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:54,480
That was amazing.
527
00:27:56,080 --> 00:28:00,800
Watching her walk down the aisle
and having those vows together,
528
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:02,600
where's a lot of warmth in my heart.
529
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:05,920
..Ryan and Jacqui
as husband and wife.
530
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:07,160
You may kiss.
531
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:10,480
And, leaving this experiment,
I'll still be wearing the ring.
532
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:14,760
I'll still be committed
to how I'm feeling.
533
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:16,240
(APPLAUSE)
534
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:17,800
Head on down the aisle, guys.
535
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:19,080
Boys!
536
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,040
Yep, yep. Head down the...
537
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:23,480
Oh.
538
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:29,720
Watching our wedding video, it's
really just hit me deep and hard.
539
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:31,320
(JACQUI CHUCKLES)
540
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,160
He doesn't know how
to take the lead.
541
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,640
(SHRILL MUSIC)
542
00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:39,000
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
543
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,360
I'm not happy being here with you.
544
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:42,880
(JACQUI SHIVERS)
545
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:46,400
Definitely want to keep you warm.
I hate girls getting cold.
546
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:47,960
I get super protective.
547
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,320
Is Ryan a good husband?
Absolutely not.
548
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:53,040
I'll put you third.
549
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:55,200
He doesn't make me feel like
the most beautiful
550
00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:56,880
or important person in the world.
551
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:59,560
I'm not going to sit there
and listen to you do things
552
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:03,320
that I see as, like,
just below the standard.
553
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:05,320
All right, I've heard enough
about your standards.
554
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,800
Why don't you want
to be someone great?
555
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:11,400
(MUSIC SWELLS)
556
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:16,040
So, reflecting on the relationship,
it's been emotionally exhausting.
557
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:21,240
I feel this gut feeling of, like,
this relationship isn't good for me.
558
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:22,600
(REFLECTIVE MUSIC)
559
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:24,000
Things that I'm unhappy with
560
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:25,800
still haven't been resolved
in the relationship, still...
561
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:27,120
which are deal-breakers for me.
562
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:28,560
(TENSE MUSIC)
563
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:30,840
It's making me question
whether it's worth
564
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:33,640
continuing our relationship
on the real world.
565
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,920
Can't forget this,
where it all started.
566
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,080
(MUSIC BUILDS)
567
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:42,720
I don't want to sacrifice
too much to be with someone
568
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,920
who's not giving me much in return.
569
00:29:45,960 --> 00:29:47,200
Yeah.
570
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,920
(MELANCHOLIC MUSIC)
571
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,800
(TRANQUIL MUSIC)
572
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:03,800
Our final two couples
have returned home...
573
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:06,880
Freya. Freya!
574
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:09,560
..where they'll spend time apart
575
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:13,880
considering what their future will
look like beyond the experiment.
576
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:16,280
RHI: Gosh, it's so weird to be home.
577
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:21,640
In Melbourne,
having only just returned home,
578
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:25,200
Rhi and Jeff
are already missing each other.
579
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:26,960
JEFF: This is weird.
580
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:28,960
No Rhi-Rhi.
581
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:31,160
Coming home now,
it's a bit of an adjustment.
582
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:34,000
I love hanging around Rhi
and spending every day with her,
583
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:37,080
and, now that I'm not,
it's very strange.
584
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:41,720
I think me missing Rhi already
is a fair indication of how I feel.
585
00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:43,960
We've had a lot of fun together.
586
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:46,600
We are very compatible.
587
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:48,960
Our personalities are so similar.
588
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:52,520
We are on the same wavelength
with a lot of stuff,
589
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,480
and we find, a lot of the times,
we're thinking the same thing.
590
00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:57,360
Yeah, it's pretty cool.
591
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,800
It's very rare that people go
from a romantic relationship
592
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:03,720
to a friendship, then back
to a romantic relationship,
593
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:07,000
and that was a challenge
off the bat for us.
594
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:12,440
Thinking back to the wedding day
and that moment I've turned around
595
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:14,520
and I saw Rhi...
596
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:15,960
(NERVOUS SIGH)
597
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,800
Oh, my God.
598
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:18,840
Hey, Rhi.
599
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:20,760
Hi, Jeff.
600
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,200
I think the first thing
that went through my head was,
601
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,240
"Shit, this isn't going to work."
602
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:26,520
What the hell?
Oh!
603
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,200
When I walked down the aisle,
I saw Jeff.
604
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:34,840
I remember thinking to myself,
"Oh, no, I know him.
605
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:35,960
"Like, this isn't gonna work."
606
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:38,880
And I had all different
awkward moments like,
607
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:41,080
"Oh, gosh,
we've been together before.
608
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,080
"I've been to his house.
I've slept in his bed."
609
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,360
Like, there was just
so many things going on.
610
00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:46,480
And then I'm like,
611
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:49,600
"And now I have to explain this
to everyone, and Australia."
612
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:57,160
Mine and Jeff's biggest challenge
at the start of our relationship
613
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,320
was getting past the friend zone.
614
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:02,120
Yeah, I just didn't think
615
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:05,040
that I would be able to be romantic
with Jeff again,
616
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,360
but the tasks from the experts
were extremely helpful.
617
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,200
Like, I think they are the reason
618
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:12,720
that we are no longer
in the friend zone.
619
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:15,280
Confessions week
was actually a great week for us.
620
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:17,480
As challenging as the tasks were,
621
00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:19,160
it really did bring us
closer together.
622
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:20,840
Usually, the more I hang out
with someone,
623
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:23,720
the less likely I am
to see a potential relationship.
624
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:26,960
But, with you,
the more we are together,
625
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:28,840
the more potential I see in us.
626
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:32,000
PS - you need to make
the first move.
627
00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:34,080
Yeah, confessions week was great.
628
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:37,040
As soon as she said she was certain,
that gave me certainty,
629
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,720
and that was, like,
a turning point for us.
630
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:41,240
You're...
You're supposed to spin!
631
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:44,920
Thinking back, those tasks
helped us open up to each other,
632
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:46,960
and we were very vulnerable.
633
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:49,600
Share a 2-minute makeout session.
634
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:52,080
And that was important.
635
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:53,720
You know, I got to see
a different side to Rhi
636
00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:54,960
that I'd never seen before.
637
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:56,720
And then, yeah, from that moment on,
638
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:59,040
it was a rapid rise
with the feelings.
639
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:00,200
(JEFF CHUCKLES)
640
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,720
I feel like, every week,
our relationship has progressed
641
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:08,040
at such an amazing pace
and we just got stronger each week.
642
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:09,960
Home stays did give us a taste
643
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:12,960
of what after the experiment
will look like.
644
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:14,560
It's so nice having you here.
645
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:18,120
And I feel like I was extremely
comfortable in Jeff's space.
646
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:20,360
It felt right.
647
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,960
I love spending every minute
of every day with her,
648
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:28,640
and life with Rhi post-experiment
to me looks great.
649
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:31,680
So, I wanted to move
the relationship to the next level.
650
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:33,440
Here is a key to my apartment.
651
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:35,640
Oh. That's so cute. Thank you.
652
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,920
Everything I asked for is Rhi,
653
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:43,000
and I am excited about
what life looks like with her.
654
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,600
It's now time for Rhi and Jeff
to confirm their feelings
655
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:51,040
at final vows...
656
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:57,440
..and make a decision that could
change the course of their lives.
657
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,440
The list of positives in
my relationship with Jeff
658
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,160
is absolutely massive.
659
00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:07,400
He's like a best friend
and a partner all wrapped in one.
660
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:09,360
Yeah, I got exactly what I wanted.
661
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:12,800
It feels good.
662
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:14,200
It feels right.
663
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:21,560
(TRANQUIL MUSIC)
664
00:34:24,240 --> 00:34:26,400
This relationship
definitely feels right.
665
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:30,520
Rhi is everything that I want
in a partner.
666
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:42,840
I haven't been this happy
in a long time.
667
00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:45,440
(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
668
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,560
I feel really good
about telling Rhi my decision.
669
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:51,240
It is a big moment.
670
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:56,600
I can't wait for life outside
of this experiment with Rhi.
671
00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:01,480
Honestly, I can't wait to
see what the future holds.
672
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,480
(GENTLE MUSIC)
673
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:11,160
After all these years
of being uncertain,
674
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:16,200
it feels amazing to feel
the most certain I have been.
675
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:20,040
I love the way I feel
when I'm around Jeff.
676
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:25,480
He just makes my life
feel so much lighter.
677
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:31,400
I feel like I am a happier version
of myself when I'm with him.
678
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:34,160
I'm really excited to see Jeff,
679
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:37,000
and I'm really excited
to hear his final vows,
680
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:40,080
because I'm excited
to read my final vows to him.
681
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:42,880
I'm definitely
pouring my soul out today.
682
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:47,840
The best-case scenario is
we skip away into the sunset.
683
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:55,880
I'm just ready to do life with him,
to be honest.
684
00:35:58,960 --> 00:35:59,920
Wow.
685
00:35:59,960 --> 00:36:01,920
(RHI LAUGHS)
686
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:06,360
Thanks.
You look unbelievable.
687
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:08,400
You look so good, too.
688
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,440
You look so good.
You look so good.
689
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:20,720
(GENTLE MUSIC FADES)
690
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:26,960
(TRANQUIL MUSIC)
691
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:37,240
(BIRDSONG)
692
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,360
(RHI CHUCKLES)
693
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:42,600
You look amazing.
Thank you.
694
00:36:47,720 --> 00:36:49,440
You look so good.
695
00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:50,600
Thank you.
Wow.
696
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:51,880
I'm really nervous now.
697
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:53,120
Nothing to be nervous about.
698
00:36:53,720 --> 00:36:54,800
Yeah.
699
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:57,440
Are you ready?
Yeah.
700
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:02,920
(JEFF CLEARS THROAT)
701
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:06,600
Rhi-Rhi...
702
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:10,120
Thinking back to our wedding day,
703
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:13,160
at the altar, I was so nervous
to marry a stranger.
704
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:16,800
The moment I turned around and
saw your face walking towards me,
705
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:19,360
I could tell we were just
as shocked as each other.
706
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:23,840
I thought to myself,
there's no way this could work.
707
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:29,800
But, moving into this experiment,
the experts threw us tasks
708
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:32,120
that forced us to be vulnerable
and open up.
709
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:35,960
We both shared things
we haven't told many people.
710
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:40,280
And, although it was tough,
I started to see you differently
711
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:41,880
and the wheels started to turn.
712
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:45,040
The moment you said
you were certain about us
713
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:46,960
was the biggest turning point
for me.
714
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:48,440
It changed everything.
715
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,480
(GENTLE MUSIC)
716
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:53,760
Knowing my feelings
were being matched
717
00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:56,120
gave me the confidence
and reassurance I needed.
718
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:58,760
I started to picture
our future together,
719
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,240
and I knew I wanted you around
as much as possible...
720
00:38:02,240 --> 00:38:04,440
..which is why I gave you
a key to my home.
721
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:07,120
I can say with my whole heart
722
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:09,760
that I'm thankful we gave ourselves
to this experiment.
723
00:38:11,240 --> 00:38:13,960
This has, hands down, been one of
the most challenging experiences
724
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:17,320
of my life,
but with high risk comes high reward
725
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:20,200
and the reward for it all
is you, Rhi.
726
00:38:20,240 --> 00:38:21,520
Oh.
727
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:22,760
That's so nice.
728
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:29,120
Rhi, this is my commitment to you.
729
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:31,280
The person you have seen
through this experiment
730
00:38:31,320 --> 00:38:32,600
is exactly who I am.
731
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,800
I will be there every day
to cook you delicious meals,
732
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:41,360
steam your dresses when needed,
laugh together,
733
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,000
most importantly,
734
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:46,040
continue to grow this relationship
we never expected to work.
735
00:38:48,920 --> 00:38:50,960
At 39, I don't have time to waste
736
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:52,800
in relationships that
aren't right for me.
737
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:54,960
I know how much of a commitment
this is.
738
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:57,600
We are deciding our future.
739
00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:02,760
With all this being said,
I can confidently say...
740
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:05,240
Rhi...
741
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:08,760
..I am falling in love with you.
742
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:12,720
(BOTH CHUCKLE SOFTLY)
743
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:14,600
Rhi, you're it for me.
744
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:18,800
I choose you
and I hope this is forever.
745
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:21,920
Oh, that's so nice.
746
00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:26,200
(ETHEREAL MUSIC)
747
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,120
They were amazing.
748
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:31,480
Thank you.
749
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:36,920
All right.
750
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:40,680
Jeffy...
751
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:43,440
I'm standing here
looking up at a face
752
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:45,240
I didn't quite marry at first sight.
753
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:48,440
And, I'll be honest,
I was disappointed
754
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,200
knowing I wasn't getting
the experience I signed up for
755
00:39:51,240 --> 00:39:53,720
and marrying someone at first sight.
756
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,560
The challenge of turning
camaraderie into romance
757
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,440
was definitely something
we both committed to exploring.
758
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:03,800
But there were times
where I questioned
759
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:06,560
whether we could ever take this
relationship further than friends.
760
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:11,680
I am proud of how
we moved through it all together,
761
00:40:11,720 --> 00:40:13,760
eventually throwing
the friendship pants away.
762
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:18,200
Before I continue,
I just want to say thank you.
763
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:23,240
I would not be standing here
more confident than when I arrived
764
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:25,560
if it wasn't for you
standing at the end of the aisle.
765
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,800
(GENTLE MUSIC)
766
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:29,600
I'm truly the luckiest person
767
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:32,240
not only in this experiment
but in the world.
768
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:38,920
My doubts and uncertainty have
consumed me in past relationships.
769
00:40:41,760 --> 00:40:44,520
I was waiting for these concerns
to creep into our relationship,
770
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:48,120
and, if they did, I was worried
they wouldn't disappear.
771
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:49,360
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
772
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:52,800
But, Jeff, you have never
given me a reason to doubt you.
773
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:55,920
I can confidently say
now I am certain.
774
00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:59,880
You are worth every day, every week,
every month
775
00:40:59,920 --> 00:41:02,480
it takes to discover
our happily ever after.
776
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:04,200
You tick every single box.
777
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:07,400
You are consistent,
generous and kind.
778
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,120
Life with you is just lighter,
779
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:12,440
and I'm so lucky to be able to hang
out with my best friend every day.
780
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:16,320
During our time apart,
781
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:19,280
what stands out to me whilst
reflecting on our time together
782
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,160
is how much time and effort
we have both put in
783
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:24,880
over the past three months,
and how much you mean to me.
784
00:41:26,240 --> 00:41:29,360
I walked into this experiment
with hope, but nothing to lose.
785
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:32,360
But now I can say that
I am leaving this experiment
786
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,200
standing here today
with everything to lose, you.
787
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:39,640
Moving into life
post this experiment,
788
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:42,080
I can promise everything
you have seen to date -
789
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:44,080
my time, affection and loyalty.
790
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:47,080
I can promise to support you,
see your point of view,
791
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:49,960
kiss you every day
and eat everything you cook for me.
792
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:52,560
I can promise a chance to discover
793
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:54,840
what we were meant to be
the second time around.
794
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:58,600
Jeff, I have never
been in love before,
795
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:01,360
but there is something different
here and right now...
796
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:03,720
..I can say...
797
00:42:04,240 --> 00:42:05,760
..I'm falling in love with you.
798
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:08,600
(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
799
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:10,400
That is so nice.
That's all.
800
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:20,760
Thanks.
(BOTH LAUGH)
801
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:23,280
Yeah! Yay!
We made it!
802
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:24,960
We made it!
803
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,000
That was amazing.
Thank you. You're amazing.
804
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:29,360
Our vows were similar.
805
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:31,080
They actually were very similar.
806
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,120
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
807
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:36,640
To hear that
Rhi's falling in love with me
808
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:38,960
as I'm falling in love with her,
it feels amazing.
809
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:40,680
I feel like I'm on top of the world.
810
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:43,120
You ready?
Yeah.
811
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,640
How are you feeling?
I feel great. I feel great.
812
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:46,840
That's good.
813
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:48,280
Oh!
814
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:49,480
That was actually so nice.
815
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:53,160
I feel like my nerves started to go
away as soon as I started to read.
816
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:54,400
(BOTH LAUGH)
817
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:57,680
I am so grateful for this experiment
in so many ways.
818
00:42:57,720 --> 00:43:00,880
I really couldn't see
our relationship blossoming
819
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:03,680
into anything more than friends
outside of the experiment,
820
00:43:03,720 --> 00:43:06,080
so, it has been life-changing.
821
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:08,600
We definitely got
the fairy-tale ending, for sure.
822
00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:10,040
BOTH: Yay!
823
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:15,840
Whoo! We out.
824
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:18,160
It worked!
825
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:19,680
(RHI LAUGHS)
826
00:43:19,720 --> 00:43:21,160
Back to Melb.
827
00:43:21,200 --> 00:43:22,760
For the beginning
of the relationship.
828
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:24,320
Yeah.
(BOTH LAUGH)
829
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,960
(STIRRING MUSIC)
830
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:36,400
The final couple to make
their decision at final vows
831
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:39,000
are Jacqui and Ryan,
832
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:42,040
who've returned to their
respective homes in Sydney
833
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:44,880
to reflect on their
upcoming decision.
834
00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:50,520
For Ryan, returning home
has given him some peace of mind.
835
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:52,520
(DARK, BROODING MUSIC)
836
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:54,120
(UNSHEATHS SWORD)
837
00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:59,160
Coming back to my sanctuary is...
there's a certain peace,
838
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,000
but there's also the quiet.
839
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:03,040
I feel good now.
840
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:06,400
I feel really (BLEEP) good now.
841
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:08,960
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
842
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:10,640
I do love my solo peace,
843
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:12,160
but at the same time, like,
844
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:14,360
it does feel like
something is missing, you know?
845
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:16,160
(RYAN GROANS, JACQUI LAUGHS)
846
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,320
All right. I'll miss you.
847
00:44:19,720 --> 00:44:22,480
When I did leave Jacqui,
it was a bit emotional.
848
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:24,240
(REFLECTIVE MUSIC)
849
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:26,880
Like, the goodbye
was much harder than I thought.
850
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:31,680
And, yeah, like,
I do miss Jacqui already.
851
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:34,160
I miss her already.
852
00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:38,880
Coming back to Manly, I feel like
nothing's missing, I feel happy.
853
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:40,600
(DISQUIETING MUSIC)
854
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:44,840
I don't feel a sense of attachment
to Ryan anymore,
855
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:48,240
and I don't feel like I want to...
856
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:51,880
I don't feel like I want him here.
857
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:53,560
I feel like I'm happier alone.
858
00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:55,640
(MUSIC SWELLS THEN FADES)
859
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:58,120
I'm sitting alone
in my little castle.
860
00:44:58,160 --> 00:45:01,280
It's lovely,
but I miss living with someone,
861
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:02,760
having someone around.
862
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:06,960
Like, I'm getting older
and I'm 100% ready for marriage
863
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:10,680
and a wife and a happy team life.
864
00:45:10,720 --> 00:45:13,680
You know, like, someone...
like a dog mum for Freya.
865
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:17,000
So, I've grown massively
in this experiment,
866
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:19,600
and...
(SIGHS)..
867
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:23,800
I feel... I definitely feel
more accepted by Jacqui.
868
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:27,960
I think that she sees me
as kind of, like, husband material.
869
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:29,680
(TENSE MUSIC)
870
00:45:29,720 --> 00:45:31,280
Ryan, he's...
871
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:35,000
He's not a good husband.
872
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:36,200
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
873
00:45:36,240 --> 00:45:37,640
Can I give her my coat?
874
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,120
Cool. If you want.
875
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:40,800
You don't need to ask.
876
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:44,280
I was hoping for a groom who
was gonna straight away be like,
877
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,280
"I can't wait to give this woman
my jacket.
878
00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:49,440
"Like, I can't wait to take the lead
in our relationship."
879
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:50,880
But, from the wedding day,
880
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:53,760
I knew that I was dealing
with an inexperienced groom
881
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:56,000
and this was going to take
a lot of work on my end
882
00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:57,440
to make the relationship work.
883
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:02,880
I definitely feel like
she's put aside her own pride
884
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:07,360
and toxic communication
and whatever else,
885
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:11,840
and embracing that
she does have a good man here.
886
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:17,160
You know, and that, husband
and wife, partner to partner,
887
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:21,360
there is... there is love
without the heavy conditions.
888
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:24,040
(SOMBRE MUSIC)
889
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,160
I think Ryan has shown
a real lack of impressiveness.
890
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:29,480
Like, he's just underwhelming.
891
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:34,840
I put so much time and effort
into this man,
892
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:37,640
but I don't think
Ryan's ever gonna change.
893
00:46:39,720 --> 00:46:42,640
Like, he's basically
shat on all my work and effort,
894
00:46:42,680 --> 00:46:45,880
and I'm pushing a big, heavy
boulder up a hill here
895
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:47,800
and it's gonna fall back
and squash me.
896
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:49,480
So, I'm going. Like, I'm out.
897
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:50,600
Yeah.
898
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:53,280
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
899
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:57,720
I'm thinking very carefully about
what I want to say at final vows,
900
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:02,800
and I want to make sure
my words hit home.
901
00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:06,760
Like, I don't want to just summarise
902
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:08,520
because I don't think
Ryan will understand.
903
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:10,840
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
904
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:13,520
I've got some iconic lines
that are really funny.
905
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:15,880
I'm proud of them.
I'm going to be laughing about them.
906
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,480
And, for once, I can speak
without being interrupted,
907
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:21,320
and Ryan has to sit there
and listen to me.
908
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:24,200
(MUSIC BUILDS THEN FADES)
909
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,640
While Jacqui is clear
about her decision...
910
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:35,280
..Ryan is seeking some advice
from best mates Adam and Karla...
911
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:36,600
How you doing, man?
912
00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:40,520
..who've previously had
a fiery exchange with Jacqui.
913
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:42,800
I need to feel like
in a relationship...
914
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:45,000
You want me to be silent. I know.
No, no, no, I need to feel like...
915
00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:47,360
You do, you do. You don't want me
to voice my concern.
916
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:49,440
Do you not do that to him?
917
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:50,840
It's because he's telling lies.
918
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:52,480
And then you called him
a gaslighter.
919
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:55,000
Everything that you tell us
goes completely against
920
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:56,400
the character we know as Ryan.
921
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:58,480
From what I've gathered
from Jacqui,
922
00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:02,440
she's not willing to compromise
about anything in the relationship.
923
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:04,640
Honestly, I didn't really hear
924
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:07,520
anything positive from her
about Ryan.
925
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:10,680
Oh, well,
since your last little encounter...
926
00:48:10,720 --> 00:48:12,400
Oh, yeah.
..there's been some developments.
927
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:16,160
So, after we left you guys,
we were separate in the apartments.
928
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:19,440
And at the last commitment ceremony
where I did write 'leave'...
929
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:20,960
I wrote 'leave'.
Oh, you wrote 'leave'.
930
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:22,160
Did ya?
I wrote 'leave'.
931
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:23,360
(TENSE MUSIC)
932
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:24,400
And then she came over,
933
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:27,120
she was, like, emotionally
breaking down, saying, like,
934
00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:28,560
"This is worth fighting for.
935
00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:30,040
"I want to show you
that I do accept you.
936
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:31,440
"I want to do this.
I want to do that."
937
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:33,160
And, you know what,
and to her credit,
938
00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:35,800
she actually made some
really big gestures after that.
939
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:37,080
Okay.
Yeah.
940
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:40,440
So, how do you feel about her now
after everything?
941
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:41,720
Everything's played out.
942
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:44,200
Like, where's your head at
in terms of the final vows?
943
00:48:44,240 --> 00:48:46,200
What's important to you?
944
00:48:46,240 --> 00:48:48,040
I feel as if I've done
a lot of thinking,
945
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:50,320
a massive amount of thinking, hey?
946
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:52,560
I remember back
and then there's this...
947
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:54,320
There's these memories
that surface up, and I'm like,
948
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:56,760
you know, that was fun,
that was wholesome, that was light.
949
00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:58,120
There was banter.
Yeah, I did...
950
00:48:58,160 --> 00:48:59,360
I did get a bit emotional.
951
00:49:00,240 --> 00:49:01,480
So, are you happy?
952
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:04,400
At this point,
I'm feeling really good.
953
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:05,760
Yeah. You feel happy?
954
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:07,280
I feel really good right now.
955
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:08,480
(CURIOUS MUSIC)
956
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:09,760
It's been a different tone for me.
Okay.
957
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:11,480
Like, there's been
a lot more respect.
958
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:13,360
There's been a lot more, like,
959
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:16,640
just willing to give
the relationship space,
960
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:18,920
not just insisting that
it has to meet her standard.
961
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:20,600
Yeah, okay, that's good.
That's a big change.
962
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:25,760
Ryan's saying that her attitude
towards him has completely changed.
963
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:30,360
Um, can a leopard really change
their spots, you know what I mean?
964
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:31,560
(TENSE MUSIC)
965
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:33,880
Well, my honest opinion is
I think he should bail,
966
00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:35,600
and he should cut ties completely.
967
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:38,280
He's a sweet, genuine guy,
968
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:43,880
and I feel like she is
not sweet and genuine.
969
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:45,160
You know what?
970
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:48,120
You're like a brother to me
and I love you with all my heart.
971
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:49,640
Likewise.
All right?
972
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:51,440
And I just want you to be happy.
973
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:55,880
From what I've seen
and from what I've heard,
974
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:58,960
how she's treated you
has been absolutely disgusting.
975
00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:03,840
I'm so gutted that you got
stuck with her on this experiment.
976
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:05,680
Being treated like shit
for three months
977
00:50:05,720 --> 00:50:07,600
and then two weeks of goodness,
978
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:09,320
like, I think it's too little,
too late.
979
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:10,680
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
980
00:50:10,720 --> 00:50:12,440
I don't want you to be
put through the grinder.
981
00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:14,840
I just want you to be happy,
982
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:17,440
and you need to make the best
decision that's best for you.
983
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:20,320
And you need to
really think about it.
984
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:22,760
But I think the juice
ain't worth the squeeze.
985
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:24,920
(TENSE MUSIC)
986
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:31,320
So, uh, Adam and Karla
gave me some very wise counsel.
987
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:33,920
Is two weeks of goodness
988
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:37,360
trump three months
of being dragged over the coals?
989
00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:41,480
And now I'm thinking about
all these memories.
990
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:46,560
Excuse me?
991
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:49,680
It's a betrayal,
no matter how you look at it.
992
00:50:57,560 --> 00:50:58,760
There was judgement.
993
00:50:58,800 --> 00:50:59,960
Something as simple as a beard.
994
00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:01,520
I can't have a conversation with you
about anything
995
00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:02,800
'cause your brain is so small.
996
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:05,280
My brain is small?
Yeah.
997
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:06,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
998
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:09,800
And I'm concerned that I will be
the primary breadwinner,
999
00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:11,840
putting you in a place
where you don't want to be,
1000
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:14,080
which might be
the primary caregiver.
1001
00:51:15,720 --> 00:51:18,760
There was definitely betrayal
of trust at some points, as well.
1002
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:21,200
There's no excuse
for giving your number out.
1003
00:51:21,240 --> 00:51:23,040
There's still this wedding ring on.
1004
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:25,680
You giving him your number...
1005
00:51:25,720 --> 00:51:27,680
(SOMBRE MUSIC)
1006
00:51:27,720 --> 00:51:30,440
..is a strong sign that you think
there is no future with us.
1007
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:33,200
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1008
00:51:33,240 --> 00:51:37,840
Yeah, Adam and Karla, they really
made me consider where I'm standing.
1009
00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:42,760
And now I've got, like,
even more to think about
1010
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:44,440
going into final vows.
1011
00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:48,280
Strangely enough,
I'm not 100% either way,
1012
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:51,120
but I think they've helped
a little bit.
1013
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,560
(MUSIC ENDS WITH A FLOURISH)
1014
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:56,320
Next...
1015
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:58,080
(ROUSING MUSIC)
1016
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:00,800
Jacqui and Ryan's final vows.
1017
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:04,040
Here we are again.
1018
00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:09,880
(MUSIC BUILDS THEN FADES)
1019
00:52:15,080 --> 00:52:18,120
(GENTLE MUSIC)
1020
00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:22,480
It's now time for Jacqui and Ryan's
final vows ceremony...
1021
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:28,240
..where they will be reunited
to make a life-altering decision.
1022
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:33,680
Will they continue their
relationship beyond the experiment
1023
00:52:33,720 --> 00:52:35,920
or walk away for good?
1024
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:40,040
RYAN: There's been a couple of
events throughout this experiment,
1025
00:52:40,080 --> 00:52:43,840
which has made me really question if
there is, like, genuine hope for us
1026
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:45,160
on the outside.
1027
00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:50,080
My concern is that Jacqui
does have very high standards,
1028
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:51,880
can be a little bit judgemental
1029
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:55,560
and my trust was broken
a couple of times.
1030
00:52:56,240 --> 00:52:58,800
But, at the same time,
from the last few weeks,
1031
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:01,960
she really tried to renew all the
hope and the fire and the flame
1032
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:06,000
in this relationship and make me
feel accepted and make me feel like
1033
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:07,560
this is worth fighting for.
1034
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:09,600
She's going to love this.
1035
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:10,960
(CHUCKLES)
1036
00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:12,480
It's all been spinning around.
1037
00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:14,440
It's all been in this vortex
in my head.
1038
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:16,760
And, now that we're here today
at final vows,
1039
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:19,280
this is it, this is the finale.
1040
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:20,520
Wow.
1041
00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:24,000
With this decision, even though
I'm not 100% confident,
1042
00:53:24,040 --> 00:53:27,400
I do feel it's the right one.
1043
00:53:28,720 --> 00:53:31,280
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1044
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:34,520
I'm absolutely ready
to give my decision today.
1045
00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:38,520
All I can think about
is spending my life free from Ryan.
1046
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:42,120
I have given Ryan
all the opportunity in the world
1047
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:45,600
to grow and become the best man
he could be for me,
1048
00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:48,160
but I didn't get the husband
I asked for.
1049
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:50,200
I got the opposite
of what I asked for.
1050
00:53:50,240 --> 00:53:52,840
It's very important to me
that I speak the truth.
1051
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:55,400
So, like, I've got some iconic lines
1052
00:53:55,440 --> 00:53:57,800
that will go down in history
as memorable.
1053
00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:00,200
I think Ryan will be blown away.
1054
00:54:00,920 --> 00:54:02,440
I think he'll be lost for words.
1055
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:03,960
Oh, shit.
1056
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:05,120
Yeah.
1057
00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:07,360
I'm really excited
to deliver a speech.
1058
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,680
(CHORTLES)
1059
00:54:09,720 --> 00:54:12,680
(MUSIC INTENSIFIES THEN FADES)
1060
00:54:13,960 --> 00:54:14,960
(CHUCKLES)
1061
00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:18,480
Hi.
1062
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:20,760
You look amazing.
1063
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:22,400
Thank you.
1064
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:25,440
(GENTLE MUSIC)
1065
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:29,120
Hey, wifey.
1066
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:33,000
Here we are again.
1067
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:34,760
Yeah.
1068
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:38,280
How are you?
1069
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:39,560
Are you ready?
1070
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:41,360
Yeah, I'm ready.
1071
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:43,080
(TENSE MUSIC)
1072
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:44,360
Okay.
1073
00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:47,200
Dear Jacqui, my wife...
1074
00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:52,320
It still feels like we're riding
the wave of a crazy, vivid dream.
1075
00:54:52,360 --> 00:54:54,480
Ry-Ry and Jacqs
together at the end,
1076
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:55,880
still laughing at ourselves.
1077
00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:00,040
Good thing there's no chance
of another dip malfunction.
1078
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:01,800
(BOTH LAUGH)
1079
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:03,040
Yeah.
1080
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:05,560
As I began to write
these final vows,
1081
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:08,880
the words wanted to spill out
and scatter in all directions.
1082
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:12,000
I've chosen just a few
to stand before you today
1083
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:16,280
as your husband, your partner,
your man.
1084
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:19,600
Jacqui...
1085
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:22,680
I came into this experiment
with the deepest desire
1086
00:55:22,720 --> 00:55:25,440
for a connection that lasts forever.
1087
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:28,040
From the moment we met,
that first touch,
1088
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:31,680
we connected unreservedly
with care, cuddles
1089
00:55:31,720 --> 00:55:34,800
and crossing the space of any
sadness to embrace each other.
1090
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:39,120
Jacqui, we were wild, wonderful
and weird as hell.
1091
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:43,000
The connection we built slowly
transformed a strange apartment
1092
00:55:43,040 --> 00:55:44,320
into our home.
1093
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:46,880
Our heart-shaped shrine
contained the power
1094
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:50,000
to transport us back
through every photo memory.
1095
00:55:51,120 --> 00:55:56,080
But, I have to admit,
when we first moved in, I thought,
1096
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:59,120
"Oh, God, who the hell
have I shacked up with?
1097
00:55:59,160 --> 00:56:00,480
"A high-maintenance nightmare?"
1098
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:03,160
(RYAN CHUCKLES, TENSE MUSIC)
1099
00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:06,400
The endless parade of clothing
and online shopping,
1100
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:08,240
always patiently giving you
my thoughts
1101
00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:10,720
even when asked for
the hundredth time,
1102
00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:12,680
"Hey, Ryan, what do you think
of this dress?"
1103
00:56:12,720 --> 00:56:14,600
(RYAN LAUGHS)
1104
00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:16,920
Living together,
I couldn't wrap my head around
1105
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:18,800
how someone couldn't cook
and became hysterical
1106
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:21,480
about the position of a couch
and shoes on the bed.
1107
00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:23,720
I like your gorgeous hair...
1108
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:27,120
..even when it was a tangled mess
in the morning.
1109
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:30,120
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1110
00:56:30,160 --> 00:56:31,840
I like our sexy time.
1111
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:33,360
(HIGH-PITCHED CHUCKLE)
1112
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:34,480
Thank you.
1113
00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:36,120
(RYAN SIGHS DEEPLY)
1114
00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:39,840
All that being said,
it's impossible to overlook
1115
00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:43,240
the roadblocks and issues
casting doubt over the future.
1116
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:47,440
I did become frustrated,
a little bit angry at times
1117
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:49,360
with the arguments that happened.
1118
00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:53,280
The way you tried to
push your agenda across,
1119
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:56,320
badger my stances
on major life decisions
1120
00:56:56,360 --> 00:57:00,120
such as children and being
a stay-at-home dad was judgemental,
1121
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:03,560
hurtful and aimed at
chipping away at your husband,
1122
00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:05,640
not accepting me for who I am.
1123
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:10,280
I will never allow any person
on this planet to criticise
1124
00:57:10,320 --> 00:57:13,600
all the self-work I've done,
my career, finances
1125
00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:14,840
or my masculinity.
1126
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:18,320
A healthier relationship
is not a performance review.
1127
00:57:19,080 --> 00:57:21,040
After declaring
at the last commitment ceremony
1128
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:23,040
that this marriage
was worth fighting for,
1129
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:25,000
your behaviour during
the final test
1130
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:26,640
undermined it almost completely.
1131
00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:29,360
Meeting and entertaining
another single man,
1132
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:32,000
throwing yourself entirely
into his company,
1133
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:33,840
even giving him your number,
1134
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:37,800
to my values, that's the bedrock
of disloyalty and disrespect.
1135
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:39,080
(TENSE MUSIC)
1136
00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:40,440
Outside this experiment,
1137
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:43,720
I genuinely fear the differences
in our worlds,
1138
00:57:43,760 --> 00:57:46,120
our friends and our loved ones
clashing,
1139
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:47,720
our careers and our dreams.
1140
00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:50,680
Right now, I feel
1141
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:53,320
we aren't strong enough
to continue this marriage.
1142
00:57:54,360 --> 00:57:55,600
(DEEP EXHALE)
1143
00:57:56,760 --> 00:57:58,880
My heart is heavy
with this decision.
1144
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:00,840
(BREATHES SHAKILY)
1145
00:58:00,880 --> 00:58:02,560
(MUSIC BUILDS)
1146
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:05,760
I will be walking away
from this relationship.
1147
00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:11,520
For that and for saying
you had crazy eyes, I'm sorry.
1148
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:13,640
(HIGH-PITCHED CHUCKLE)
1149
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:15,200
I'm sorry.
1150
00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:16,440
Thank you.
1151
00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:18,720
(DEEP EXHALE)
1152
00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:21,040
Hit me with it.
Ryan...
1153
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:22,360
(TENSE MUSIC)
1154
00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:26,840
I can honestly say
I gave this experience and you
1155
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:28,640
everything I could,
1156
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:31,200
leaving absolutely
no stone unturned.
1157
00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:34,680
But please don't mistake
my meekness for weakness,
1158
00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:36,160
my tolerance for approval,
1159
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:38,720
my forgiveness for satisfaction.
1160
00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:43,200
Relationships shouldn't feel
this heavy, anxious and painful.
1161
00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:44,680
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1162
00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:47,480
The good times in our relationship
were only possible
1163
00:58:47,520 --> 00:58:50,040
because I temporarily
ignored my feelings,
1164
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:55,520
was understanding, patient,
forgiving, empathetic, optimistic
1165
00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:58,280
and forever hopeful
that you would change.
1166
00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:01,160
But, Ryan, you didn't.
1167
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:02,520
(RYAN EXHALES DEEPLY)
1168
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:04,600
There has been a lack of romance,
1169
00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:06,440
a lack of effort from you,
1170
00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:07,880
poor communication,
1171
00:59:07,920 --> 00:59:09,880
no compromise
1172
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:11,280
and dominance.
1173
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:13,600
You crossed the majority
of my boundaries,
1174
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:16,080
and your conduct fell
well below the standard
1175
00:59:16,120 --> 00:59:18,160
of what I'm willing to accept
in a marriage.
1176
00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:21,600
If this experiment
taught me anything,
1177
00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:24,200
it's that you shouldn't
try and fix your husband.
1178
00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:25,920
He needs to do the work on his own.
1179
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:31,080
I'm not a rehabilitation centre
for a man...
1180
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:33,280
(UNSETTLING MUSIC)
1181
00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:36,560
I'm sorry, that's ridiculous,
but go on.
1182
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:38,080
Okay, I'll hear you out.
1183
00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:40,160
Don't call my final vows
ridiculous.
1184
00:59:40,200 --> 00:59:41,400
That's not nice.
1185
00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:42,840
Rehabilitation.
1186
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:46,400
I don't want to be spoken over
when I try and speak.
1187
00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:47,920
I was...
Yeah, right.
1188
00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:49,640
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1189
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:51,080
Nup.
I want...
1190
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:52,760
Please let me speak.
1191
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:55,120
My only tip for you
1192
00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:58,720
is to look into how pride might
affect your openness and growth,
1193
00:59:58,760 --> 01:00:01,960
and, from there,
lean into a bit of humility.
1194
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:04,920
Tolerating your behaviour
is isolating.
1195
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:08,200
The way you speak and control
the people and animals you love
1196
01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:09,440
scares me.
1197
01:00:09,480 --> 01:00:10,800
(EXASPERATED SIGH)
1198
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:13,320
You've allowed your friends
to scold me.
1199
01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:16,040
Yelling and scolding adults
is disgusting.
1200
01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:18,200
You planned a gang attack on me.
1201
01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:20,680
Oh, good Lord, a gang attack, okay.
1202
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:22,800
Or being told how to walk a dog.
1203
01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:25,040
That's my dog.
1204
01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:28,160
Your complete lack of
self-reflection, apologies,
1205
01:00:28,200 --> 01:00:30,720
pride and ego are the reason
we couldn't deal with our key issues
1206
01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:32,000
in this relationship.
1207
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:34,800
I was always open and willing
to listen and fix.
1208
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:37,000
It's not me.
Your pride is the problem.
1209
01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:40,880
I'm the problem. Typical.
1210
01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:42,960
I didn't say you're the problem.
I said your pride is the problem.
1211
01:00:43,000 --> 01:00:44,600
No, no, no. It's all blame this way.
Pride is...
1212
01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:47,040
It's not you are the problem.
Your pride is the problem.
1213
01:00:47,080 --> 01:00:48,120
There's a difference.
1214
01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:49,960
No, just keep...come on
with the criticism. Come on.
1215
01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:53,120
As a man...
1216
01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:55,840
..you're not perfect.
1217
01:00:55,880 --> 01:00:57,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1218
01:00:57,160 --> 01:00:58,920
It's not the 1920s anymore.
1219
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:01,920
I don't want to be the wife
to a man.
1220
01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:04,600
I want to be the wife to a husband.
1221
01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:08,000
So, today, I choose peace,
1222
01:01:08,040 --> 01:01:10,480
and to walk away
from this relationship.
1223
01:01:11,520 --> 01:01:13,000
(DEEP-PITCHED CHUCKLE)
1224
01:01:13,040 --> 01:01:14,200
Ryan...
1225
01:01:14,960 --> 01:01:18,000
In a world of red flags,
you are the red carpet.
1226
01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:21,040
(TENSE, UNNERVING MUSIC)
1227
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:29,840
(UNSETTLING MUSIC)
1228
01:01:29,880 --> 01:01:32,360
As a person and a man...
1229
01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:35,360
..you're not perfect.
1230
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:38,640
It's not the 1920s anymore.
1231
01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:41,080
I don't want to be the wife
to a man.
1232
01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:43,440
I want to be the wife to a husband.
1233
01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:45,680
So, today, I choose peace,
1234
01:01:45,720 --> 01:01:48,080
and to walk away
from this relationship.
1235
01:01:49,240 --> 01:01:52,760
Ryan, in a world of red flags,
you are the red carpet.
1236
01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:57,040
Mm-hm.
1237
01:01:57,080 --> 01:01:58,920
(TENSE MUSIC)
The red carpet.
1238
01:01:58,960 --> 01:02:00,720
Yeah.
Very strong words.
1239
01:02:00,760 --> 01:02:02,200
To Ryan,
1240
01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:05,400
while I love it when your big biceps
pick me up and hug me,
1241
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:07,320
dip me and throw me in the pool,
1242
01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:09,560
they'll never be the reason
I get pregnant.
1243
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:13,600
(UNSETTLING MUSIC)
1244
01:02:13,640 --> 01:02:14,720
Goodbye.
1245
01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:19,800
Goodbye and thanks
for all the criticism.
1246
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:22,320
You really haven't grown,
not one bit.
1247
01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:25,040
Be gone with you,
you horrible woman.
1248
01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:26,440
Be gone with you.
1249
01:02:26,480 --> 01:02:28,640
What a (BLEEP) shamble.
1250
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:31,880
Honestly, that was
utterly disgusting.
1251
01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:34,600
Jacqui is so full of shit.
1252
01:02:34,640 --> 01:02:36,840
She's calling me the red carpet.
1253
01:02:38,200 --> 01:02:39,320
Oh, brother.
1254
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:42,200
The pot calling the kettle black
is so rich.
1255
01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:44,560
"Oh, Ryan, I'm not
a rehabilitation centre."
1256
01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:46,400
Who the (BLEEP)
do you think you are?
1257
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:48,600
I wouldn't even send my dog
to see you.
1258
01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:50,720
No-one ever meets her standards.
1259
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:53,840
You're a liar. You're deceitful.
You're manipulative.
1260
01:02:53,880 --> 01:02:55,200
Pathetic.
1261
01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:58,360
She's the most difficult person
I've ever had to try and be with,
1262
01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:00,720
and I'm glad I don't
have to try anymore.
1263
01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:03,240
But you know what?
1264
01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:05,040
There is freedom now.
1265
01:03:05,080 --> 01:03:06,160
You know?
1266
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:07,520
I feel vindicated.
1267
01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:09,040
I feel good.
1268
01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:11,280
Like a gladiator
at the end of his career.
1269
01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:13,640
Done enough war,
I've done enough battle.
1270
01:03:13,680 --> 01:03:17,000
Set me free, set me free.
1271
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:19,120
Whoo-hoo.
1272
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:20,280
(PLAYFUL MUSIC)
1273
01:03:20,320 --> 01:03:21,640
No more Ryan.
1274
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:24,640
I feel so proud of myself right now.
I'm so happy.
1275
01:03:24,680 --> 01:03:26,160
It's a long time coming.
1276
01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:29,000
I never really felt like I was
in a real marriage with this man.
1277
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:31,080
Why am I wasting my time?
1278
01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:33,080
Now I just have myself
to worry about,
1279
01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:34,920
and my friends and my family
and my life.
1280
01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:36,240
I don't have to deal with bullshit.
1281
01:03:36,280 --> 01:03:38,640
Like, he was not happy
that I walked away.
1282
01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:40,120
(GIGGLES)
1283
01:03:40,160 --> 01:03:42,120
I could tell, like,
his pride was triggered.
1284
01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:43,720
He's gonna call the boys.
1285
01:03:43,760 --> 01:03:46,160
He's gonna plan an attack
into the reunion.
1286
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:49,120
I feel like
an independent woman again,
1287
01:03:49,160 --> 01:03:51,520
and I wouldn't have it
any other way.
1288
01:03:54,680 --> 01:03:56,040
Um... Oh, God.
1289
01:03:56,080 --> 01:03:59,320
So, I am hopeful that
I will find my person.
1290
01:03:59,360 --> 01:04:00,800
I just don't know
when it's gonna be.
1291
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:02,480
(CAR ENGINE REVS)
1292
01:04:02,520 --> 01:04:05,920
I have a feeling that it's going to
happen sooner than I think, though.
1293
01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:07,120
Yeah.
1294
01:04:07,160 --> 01:04:08,920
(TENSE MUSIC, ENGINE PURRS)
1295
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:12,680
Being in a relationship with her
is exhausting.
1296
01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:16,840
Why would anybody want to show up
for this critical, horrible person?
1297
01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:20,440
I feel sorry for the next man who
comes along and tries to be with her
1298
01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:22,840
because, unless he makes,
like, ten million a year
1299
01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:26,160
or whatever else that twisted mind
of hers dreams up,
1300
01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:29,520
she's going to take you
and she's going to mould you
1301
01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:32,120
and manipulate you the same way
she tried to do to me.
1302
01:04:32,160 --> 01:04:35,880
Princess Jacqui wants her doormat
of a man she can just walk all over.
1303
01:04:35,920 --> 01:04:37,040
(GOLF BALL CLINKS)
1304
01:04:37,080 --> 01:04:39,200
Run. Just run now.
1305
01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:40,800
(MUSIC ENDS)
1306
01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:45,600
VOICE OVER: Whatever you do..
1307
01:04:45,640 --> 01:04:48,240
(EVIL LAUGHTER) Nobody knows what's
really going on.
1308
01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:51,560
..don't..look away.
1309
01:04:51,600 --> 01:04:53,400
Since the experiment
we've been in touch..
1310
01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:56,800
(LAUGHS) ..and we've touched each
other. (BOTH LAUGH)
1311
01:04:57,800 --> 01:04:58,960
VOICE OVER: The phenomenon..
1312
01:04:59,000 --> 01:05:03,720
(CROSS TALK) ...that's gripped
Australia...is about to go..
1313
01:05:03,760 --> 01:05:05,120
Stop, stop, stop, stop.
1314
01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:06,400
..ballistic.
1315
01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:09,040
You guys started
this whole connection
1316
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:11,360
when we were still married. (GASPS)
1317
01:05:11,400 --> 01:05:15,480
You have a warriors mentality.
..the ultimate warrior.
1318
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:18,160
Jaqui's gone from a Kia to a Ferrari.
1319
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:22,640
Zip it!
Will leave the nation..
1320
01:05:22,680 --> 01:05:26,160
I tried my arse off,
my literal arse.
1321
01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:29,280
(SCREAMS) I did!
(THUNDER CRACKS) Thunderstruck!
1322
01:05:29,840 --> 01:05:32,680
Appreciate Jacqui like a work of art.
1323
01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:37,240
Over two big nights.
I'm going to tell you the way it is.
1324
01:05:37,960 --> 01:05:39,800
And look at me
when I'm talking to you.
1325
01:05:39,840 --> 01:05:43,720
Because I won't get another chance
to give this to you straight.
1326
01:05:44,360 --> 01:05:47,840
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