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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:04,760 CARINA: Deep down, all I want is love and to love someone... 2 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:06,600 RHI: That feeling in my stomach, 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:10,400 that feeling of knowing that you've found your person. 4 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:12,880 NARRATOR: 12 weeks ago... 5 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:15,760 JAMIE: (GASPS) Yes! Sorry, Dad. 6 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:18,520 ..24 singles across Australia... 7 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:20,280 Hey, Rhi. Hi, Jeff. 8 00:00:20,320 --> 00:00:22,760 ..took a life-changing leap of faith. 9 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:24,680 WOMAN: They're twins! (CHEERING) 10 00:00:24,720 --> 00:00:28,560 ..marrying a stranger in the search for true love. 11 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:31,720 Here is a spare key to my apartment. (LAUGHS) 12 00:00:31,760 --> 00:00:33,880 RYAN: I'll put you third. 13 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:34,920 (CRIES) 14 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:37,440 LAUREN: He's leaving. 15 00:00:37,480 --> 00:00:39,000 And after three months... 16 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:44,480 ..of one of the most remarkable experiments... 17 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:46,800 Who are you calling a mean girl? 18 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:48,640 JACQUI: Why don't you want to be someone great? 19 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:50,600 CARINA: Get your shit and leave! EXPERTS: Oooh! 20 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:51,920 (GLASS TINKLES) 21 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:56,080 ..our remaining six couples attended their final dinner party. 22 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:01,280 Awhina and Adrian imploded 23 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:05,000 when they met who they could've been matched with. 24 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:06,760 Let's not hide behind this challenge. 25 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:08,760 I am not the right person. 26 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,120 What the hell does that mean? 27 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:18,120 Like, if you're truly happy with your relationship, 28 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:19,560 you wouldn't have gone on the date. 29 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:21,560 I wasn't thinking straight and I'm so sorry for that. 30 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:24,080 Paul expressed his remorse 31 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:27,680 for going on the date as part of final test week. 32 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:30,280 Try harder. No, I'm a catch! 33 00:01:30,320 --> 00:01:33,880 But Carina was not in a forgiving mood. 34 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:35,800 Continuously apologising and saying sorry... 35 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:37,360 It's not enough. 36 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:46,360 And now, over two big nights, it's the final vows ceremonies. 37 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,520 DAVE: I'm taking this decision very seriously. 38 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:53,320 Which of our couples will continue their marriage beyond the experiment? 39 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:55,680 CARINA: It's one of the biggest decisions 40 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:57,440 I've had to make in my life. 41 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:00,440 JACQUI: I have something else I want to tell you as well. 42 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:02,560 Jacqui's shock confession... 43 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:04,280 I don't really like keeping secrets from you. 44 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,440 ..leaves Ryan reeling. 45 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:07,840 It's made me angry. 46 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:09,160 What are you gonna do? 47 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,640 Awhina's ultimate decision. 48 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:13,960 Would you be happy if you had a daughter 49 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:15,800 to be with someone like Adrian? 50 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:18,440 It's the conclusion no-one saw coming. 51 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:19,880 (CLEARS THROAT) 52 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:22,360 And... 53 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,000 Carina, you are kind and compassionate. 54 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:27,920 All I can do now is ask for your forgiveness. 55 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:31,440 ..can Carina forgive Paul one last time? 56 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:39,480 (RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS) 57 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:47,080 The experiment is drawing to a close 58 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:52,560 and the time for final vows is almost here for our remaining couples... 59 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:55,320 JEFF: Mwah! Argh. (RHI LAUGHS) 60 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:57,080 ..Jamie and Dave... 61 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:59,600 JAMIE: Oh, who's gonna carry all my stuff? 62 00:02:59,640 --> 00:03:00,960 ..Rhi and Jeff... 63 00:03:01,000 --> 00:03:02,280 How are you gonna go without me? 64 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:04,120 RHI: It'll be an adjustment, for sure. 65 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:06,560 ..Carina and Paul, 66 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:08,440 Jacqui and Ryan 67 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:13,800 and Awhina and Adrian. 68 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:17,720 They'll now separate and spend time weighing up 69 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,800 if they'll continue as a couple in the outside world... 70 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:23,920 JAMIE: Babe, you forgot all our honeymoon shells. 71 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:25,160 You've gotta take them. 72 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:28,760 RHI: It's gonna feel weird, like, not doing our morning routine. 73 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:30,320 JEFF: I know. Walking to the gym. 74 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:31,480 Yeah. 75 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:34,920 ..and reveal their decision when they meet again at final vows. 76 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:40,120 The final vows is the ultimate step of the experiment. 77 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:42,520 Our couples must now take some time apart 78 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:45,120 to reflect on their time in the experiment 79 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:47,720 before they make the life-changing decision 80 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:51,200 on whether to remain as a couple or go their separate ways. 81 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:53,560 This time will prove testing for our couples 82 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:56,200 and they'll turn to their family and friends 83 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:58,480 to question if their relationship will be strong enough 84 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:01,520 to continue when they leave the bubble of the experiment. 85 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:11,920 (DAVE LAUGHS) 86 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:13,800 JAMIE: This is so weird! 87 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:18,760 I'm so used to being next to Dave in our apartment all the time. 88 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:20,760 It feels like this is our home. 89 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:24,680 You know, if these walls could talk. (LAUGHS) 90 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:27,880 They wouldn't say too much exciting things, 91 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,680 just apparently Dave being goofy and me being nuts. (LAUGHS) 92 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:33,040 Do you think we get to keep our wedding photos? 93 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:34,760 I mean, I don't think they're gonna fit in my suitcase. 94 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:37,520 It's just bittersweet 'cause again I'm saying goodbye 95 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:40,640 and it's the last time I'll say hello or goodbye to Dave 96 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:42,280 in this apartment. 97 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:43,520 (LAUGHS) 98 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:45,840 So, yeah, it's a bit sad. 99 00:04:45,880 --> 00:04:48,720 DAVE: Think of our first day in here. 100 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,000 It's just wild that we've come that far. 101 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:53,280 To go from, you know, honeymoon and moving in here 102 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:55,160 and the ups and downs, 103 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:59,600 like, I'm super proud of us and the work we've done. 104 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,440 The bond between Jamie and I feels strong. 105 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:05,920 We've overcome the biggest hurdles and we've come out stronger. 106 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:09,560 My feelings for Jamie have progressed. 107 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:13,440 I think that I've put in the effort and I've been showing up for Jamie. 108 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,400 And now look at us. You're gonna move in with my dog. 109 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:17,760 (LAUGHS) 110 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:19,840 I'm excited to move out. 111 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:23,280 I feel like it's a sort of a new beginning again for Jamie and I. 112 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:29,040 Before they say goodbye, the experts have a surprise for Jamie and Dave, 113 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:33,760 a look back at where it all began with their wedding video. 114 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:36,240 Oh, babe, our wedding! 115 00:05:42,280 --> 00:05:43,320 Oh, god. 116 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,080 Oh, my god. Is that a neck tat? 117 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:50,160 (LAUGHS) Yeah. (EXCLAIMS) Yes! 118 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:53,760 Sorry, Dad. (BOTH LAUGH) 119 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:55,400 Sold. Sold. 120 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,480 (BOTH LAUGH) 121 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:01,080 Hey, that's the first time I ever met you as your little self. 122 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,240 That's so cute. (LAUGHS) 123 00:06:03,280 --> 00:06:05,960 When Jamie did come down the aisle and said, you know, 124 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:09,760 the neck tat thing, that just made me feel so comfortable. 125 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:12,360 The attraction is also her personality. 126 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:13,840 She's a little pocket rocket. 127 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:19,080 But we have a bond, so, you know, she supported me from the start. 128 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,200 "I must admit, when I found out there was a match for me, 129 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:23,600 "I was genuinely shocked. 130 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,480 "Either they found someone as crazy as I am..." 131 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:27,320 (LAUGHS) 132 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:28,360 .."or there's a nice guy out there 133 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:29,640 "about to get the shock of his life." 134 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:31,720 (LAUGHS) This is so crazy. 135 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:33,040 (BOTH LAUGH) 136 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:34,880 We were two strangers. 137 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,640 We were kind of lucky. We kind of hit it off from the start. 138 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:41,440 Dave's someone who sees me to my core. 139 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:44,240 Like, he never doubts me. He doesn't question me. 140 00:06:44,280 --> 00:06:47,240 He always backs me. Dave is a great guy. 141 00:06:47,280 --> 00:06:50,920 (ON VIDEO) Hey, I'm Dave, your big friendly giant soon-to-be husband. 142 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:53,440 And, yeah, I'm glad I did this with Dave. 143 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:55,560 I'd like to start off with these vows. 144 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,600 Having a long arms, long legs, big feet, 145 00:06:58,640 --> 00:06:59,920 there's also something big you can't see. 146 00:06:59,960 --> 00:07:01,720 Oh, my god. 147 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:05,080 I have an extremely big...heart. (LAUGHTER) 148 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:08,480 What are (BLEEP) loser. (LAUGHS) 149 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:10,160 I got the ick watching myself. 150 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:11,600 Oh, man. 151 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:12,760 It's just so embarrassing. 152 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:16,280 But it was sweet to relive that moment again. 153 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:17,520 (LAUGHS) 154 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:19,960 Looking back on the wedding day and honeymoon, moving in here, 155 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,000 everything, I wouldn't change a thing about Jamie. 156 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:23,360 I really wouldn't... 157 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:25,360 MAN: You may now kiss each other. (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 158 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:28,560 ..because Jamie has been there for me 159 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:30,720 and made me so comfortable 160 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:33,800 and be able to express myself and not judged. 161 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:35,080 (LAUGHS) 162 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:37,520 I think she embraces the big goofball I am as well. 163 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:39,000 Do the thing. 164 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:40,640 Do it. (LAUGHS) No. 165 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:43,160 (LAUGHS) Do it. Just go... 166 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:46,960 You're such a freak. You're a freak. 167 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:48,280 (LAUGHS) 168 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,640 Yeah, she's an amazing, amazing woman. 169 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:57,640 Obviously, going to final vows, we do have a lot to think about. 170 00:07:57,680 --> 00:07:59,600 And we're not going "Everything's gonna be amazing, 171 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:02,040 "we're gonna go to Melbourne and we're gonna have babies and..." 172 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:04,160 No, we're, like, realistic in what's going on. 173 00:08:04,200 --> 00:08:06,600 We're, like, we know we both need to figure out, 174 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:10,040 like, yeah, if this is something that is going to go the distance. 175 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:11,880 Do you need a heartburn tablet? 176 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,680 JAMIE: Like, I do have real feelings for Dave 177 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:16,520 but Dave needs to keep showing up for me, 178 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:18,880 so I need to think about all these things. 179 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:21,000 (LAUGHS) Goodbye. 180 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,920 This decision is gonna be a massive one. 181 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:26,600 This is crazy! 182 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:29,240 I'm sort of freaking out a little bit 183 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:30,600 not knowing what's gonna happen. 184 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:31,600 Bye, darling. 185 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:35,080 I know how much I care about Jamie and I don't want to lose her. 186 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:38,920 I don't know what Jamie's decision is gonna be. 187 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:42,920 Oh. (LAUGHS) 188 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:46,920 Like a little sad movie. End of a bloody era. 189 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:49,960 Oh! (DOOR CLOSES) 190 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:52,680 NARRATOR: As Jamie and Dave go their separate ways 191 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:57,520 to prepare for their final vows in a few days time, 192 00:08:57,560 --> 00:09:01,760 one bride is already making the unprecedented decision 193 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:08,480 to pull the pin on her marriage and leave the experiment today. 194 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:09,960 BETH: I don't need to hear it. 195 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:12,920 I can't fight for somebody that just doesn't want me. 196 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:15,360 BETH: It's very loud and clear that you don't want to be with me. 197 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:16,800 I can't go to final vows. 198 00:09:22,560 --> 00:09:26,400 MAN: Can I ask you, if it all ended abruptly tomorrow, 199 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,880 is my daughter gonna get her heart broken? 200 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:32,600 Um... 201 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:36,200 TEEJAY: I care so much for Beth, so... 202 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:37,320 I care about my dog. 203 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,360 Darling, twice today, you didn't have your wedding ring on. 204 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,680 Because I was an emotional to you because I like you, that's why. 205 00:09:43,720 --> 00:09:45,000 I like you too, darling. 206 00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:47,880 All I wanted from you was to know 207 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:50,120 that you liked me just a little bit... 208 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:52,240 That is not what you said, darling. 209 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:55,400 BETH: I'm not the kind of partner that walks away from something, 210 00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:59,520 so I wrote 'stay'. 211 00:09:59,560 --> 00:10:02,200 JOHN: Teejay, stay or leave? 212 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:06,320 I wrote 'leave'. Mmm. 213 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:08,840 BETH: So, how was your date? 214 00:10:09,680 --> 00:10:11,960 It was fine. Got along well. 215 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:15,080 I was trying to see where that sort of pushed me, 216 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:16,240 whether it was to or from you. 217 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:20,120 And it kind of just left me neutral, to be completely honest with you. 218 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:27,600 Yeah. Yeah. 219 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:30,840 I feel like I don't want to stand there, 220 00:10:30,880 --> 00:10:33,480 put on another white dress like I did on my wedding day, 221 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:35,000 pour my heart out to you, pour my emotions out to you 222 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:36,880 for you to just reject me again. 223 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:40,240 You know, I deserve to be with someone 224 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:41,880 that wants me and is sure about me. 225 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:43,120 I agree. 226 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:50,320 So, final vows is not happening. 227 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:52,320 This is just where we leave it. 228 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:56,200 That makes sense. 229 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:01,360 I'm disappointed that I couldn't give Beth what she needed 230 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:02,400 in this relationship. 231 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:06,440 Yeah, I just didn't feel the deep romance growing for me 232 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:09,680 and that's just how I feel. 233 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:12,800 I'm upset that we couldn't end this on good terms. 234 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:17,240 BETH: That conversation has made me feel so shit. 235 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:19,800 It's obvious that he doesn't want me 236 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:21,200 and he doesn't want this relationship 237 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:23,440 and I can't go to final vows 238 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:27,680 and stand in front of someone that I've had feelings for, 239 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:30,440 confess that I wanted a future with them, 240 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:33,880 for them to tell me that, again, "I don't see a future with you." 241 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:35,200 I'm not gonna put my energy into it. 242 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:37,160 I'm not wasting my (BLEEP) time anymore. 243 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:43,200 Oh, god. 244 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:49,200 (CRIES) I'm so sick of crying. 245 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:53,000 (CRIES) 246 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:54,520 BETH: I genuinely thought 247 00:11:54,560 --> 00:11:56,520 that we would walk out of this experiment together. 248 00:11:56,560 --> 00:11:58,520 I thought we were perfectly matched 249 00:11:58,560 --> 00:12:02,400 and now, going from that to where we are... 250 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:04,760 just... 251 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:07,240 It's so sad that it didn't work out. 252 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:10,280 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 253 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:24,920 NARRATOR: Down the hall, 254 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:30,000 Carina and Paul are packing up in separate apartments, 255 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:33,800 with Paul's decision to take part in the final test... 256 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:38,000 still driving a wedge between the couple. 257 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:44,280 I was hoping to move out, you know, in better circumstances, 258 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,480 in a better headspace, you know, and with Carina by my side 259 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,560 but I know...I know she was obviously in a... 260 00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:52,240 still in a bit of a bad headspace 261 00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:55,680 since I made the decision to go on the date. 262 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:57,080 You know... (LAUGHS) 263 00:12:57,120 --> 00:13:01,240 So, if you're so happy, why are you here? 264 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:06,000 I just wish that she would've been at least able to, yeah... 265 00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:08,400 just to, I guess, maybe just to tell the rest of the group, you know, 266 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:10,960 also how amazing I've been 267 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:13,720 and all the things that I've done for her as well, you know. 268 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:15,680 I'd love to go with Carina... 269 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:17,960 I'd love to go and sit down with her one more time 270 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:19,160 and have one last chat. 271 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:22,560 Hopefully she'll want to receive... 272 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:27,240 you know, my apology a bit better than last night... 273 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:29,920 and hopefully she'll be a bit more receptive 274 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:32,120 to the things I have to say. 275 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:36,000 Yes, we've had little ups and downs. 276 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:39,040 There's been times where we've hurt each other 277 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:40,760 and we've always decided to forgive each other. 278 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:45,000 Hey. Hey. 279 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:46,760 How are you? Good. How are you? 280 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:48,080 Good. 281 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:51,960 Yeah, I think there is a possibility of us to reconnect, 100%. 282 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:53,960 You know, like, I just... 283 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:57,480 I've always, you know, followed and trusted my gut feelings 284 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:00,000 and I do have a gut feeling that we can come back from this. 285 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:02,680 Ah... How are you? 286 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:04,200 How are you feeling after last night? 287 00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:05,640 Um... 288 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:08,320 I don't know. Yeah. 289 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:10,240 Lonely. Sorry? 290 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:11,680 Lonely. Oh, lonely. 291 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,880 Yeah. Really lonely. Like, a sense of emptiness. 292 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:16,120 Yeah. 293 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:18,320 So, yeah... I understand. 294 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:20,160 ..pretty disappointed. 295 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:22,600 Yeah. 296 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:29,600 I just want to tell you again how much I care for you 297 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:31,400 and how much I care for our relationship 298 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:35,040 and, yeah, like, again, I'm just so sorry, again, 299 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:37,920 if my actions, you know, 300 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:40,960 that decision I took has made you feel 301 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:42,240 the way you're feeling right now. 302 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:47,120 I just really want you to understand that I'm not a bad person, 303 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:48,520 I'm not a nasty person. 304 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:53,040 I don't have any sort of bad, malicious intention in me. 305 00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:57,880 I never meant to actively hurt you or to hurt your feelings. 306 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:01,160 I'm so sorry and I promise you, I will do everything to fix this, 307 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:03,560 everything in my power to fix this. 308 00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:05,600 Yeah. 309 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:12,040 I really regret taking that decision. 310 00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:13,720 I didn't think. 311 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:17,320 I started to see a future with you outside this experiment, you know, 312 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:18,920 like, quite early on, you know, and... 313 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:21,280 Yeah, but then why would you say yes to that? 314 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:23,000 Yeah, I know. And I know it doesn't make sense... 315 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:25,440 That just does not make sense, Paul. I know, I know it doesn't... 316 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:29,040 I want to be like a mature relationship. 317 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:31,960 I feel like that was a very immature, 318 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:34,400 irrational decision to make, 319 00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:35,840 so it's obviously making me question... 320 00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:36,880 Yep. 321 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:38,800 ..are you the right fit for me in my future? 322 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:45,280 I really do hope that you will be able to forgive me for that action 323 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:47,960 and to move past that and to continue with me. 324 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:53,200 Yeah. Like, I don't know where to go from here. 325 00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:56,360 I'm just begging you to, like... begging you to hear this from me. 326 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:58,320 I want this relationship so bad. 327 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:03,160 And if it makes you feel better, you know, like, 328 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:06,000 I am bloody so attracted to you. 329 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:07,240 I talk to all the boys. 330 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:10,280 Just look at me, right, because it's so important... 331 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:13,800 So I look the boys and I'm, like, "Goddamn, boys, look at my wife. 332 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:14,960 "How hot is she," you know. 333 00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:18,280 (PAUL LAUGHS) (CARINA HALF-LAUGHS) 334 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,360 I've only said nice things about you, you know. 335 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:22,840 I just love being around you. 336 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:26,840 Yeah. 337 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:33,120 I feel like his words are just words and he hasn't come across sincere. 338 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:36,280 I just want you to know, I just like you so much. 339 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:38,320 How can you be saying all those words 340 00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:40,720 and put me in this situation... 341 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:44,080 Thanks for coming by the apartment. 342 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:45,920 Say goodbye to it. 343 00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:47,400 I'm gonna miss you. 344 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:48,720 Come here. 345 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:50,040 Mmm. 346 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:52,000 ..and just feeling completely let down, 347 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:57,040 blindsided, exhausted, drained, feeling like I'm not worthy 348 00:16:57,080 --> 00:16:59,800 and feeling like my world's crashing. 349 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:02,680 It's not good enough. 350 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:05,720 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 351 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:13,000 (LAUGHS) 352 00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:15,520 Oh... 353 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:19,880 Mmm. 354 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:23,840 (KISSES) OK. 355 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:28,600 I feel like I'm really reassuring Carina by what I'm saying. 356 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:31,880 Good luck with packing. (LAUGHS) 357 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:35,200 I know you have a lot of stuff. So much stuff. 358 00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:38,520 You know, like, I was able to put a little bit of a smile on her face. 359 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:41,440 I was, like, "OK, this is a good sign." (LAUGHS) 360 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:44,880 (BLOWS KISS) I'll miss you. 361 00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:46,720 (DOOR OPENS) 362 00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:49,840 I'm just so convinced and just deep down in my heart, 363 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:52,320 I know we can come back from this silly decision 364 00:17:52,360 --> 00:17:54,640 going on this date... (DOOR CLOSES) 365 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:57,160 ..and we can make this relationship work. 366 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:01,960 OK. 367 00:18:11,040 --> 00:18:14,000 (BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS) 368 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:17,080 NARRATOR: It's the final day in the apartments 369 00:18:17,120 --> 00:18:21,400 and as the remaining couples pack for their journey home 370 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:23,120 ahead of final vows, 371 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:27,080 Carina has taken the last opportunity before she leaves... 372 00:18:27,120 --> 00:18:29,040 Oh, god. What is this? 373 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:30,720 ..to watch her wedding video. 374 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:35,640 (GENTLE MUSIC PLAYS) 375 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:41,360 (GASPS) 376 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:47,360 Oh, my god. 377 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:52,600 Nice to meet you. Paul. Hi, Paul. 378 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:55,120 You look very handsome. Thank you. 379 00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:57,480 God, you're gorgeous. (LAUGHS) 380 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:02,280 "One thing I promise you from this moment forward 381 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:03,320 "is that I will keep you safe. 382 00:19:03,360 --> 00:19:06,160 "I will be your protector, your rock to lean on 383 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:07,720 "when times get tough. 384 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:12,440 "I'm ready more than ever to embrace the possibility 385 00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:14,720 "of finding unconditional love." 386 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:18,680 CARINA: Our wedding day was so beautiful. 387 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:20,440 (LAUGHTER) 388 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,520 My family were all there to be a part of it. 389 00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:25,160 "I promise to build with you a home filled with love." 390 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:30,560 We've come such a long way and we've built so many memories together. 391 00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:35,200 "I am ready for the missing puzzle pieces to complete my love story." 392 00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:37,200 PAUL: That was beautiful. Thank you. 393 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:39,480 (APPLAUSE) (BOTH LAUGH) 394 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:43,640 CARINA: We had really good times. 395 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:46,640 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 396 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:50,160 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 397 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:52,720 PAUL: Honestly, I'm over the moon. Like, I'm just, like, all giggly. 398 00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,520 I feel like a little kid, to be honest. (LAUGHS) 399 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:57,200 Like, she is perfect. 400 00:19:57,240 --> 00:19:59,440 (CRIES) 401 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:02,640 CARINA: I thought, "Finally, I'm not alone." 402 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:04,080 (APPLAUSE) 403 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:09,280 How did we end up here? 404 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:16,680 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 405 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:25,160 I feel like we've gone through so much together 406 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:31,160 and really just, like, grown a lot throughout this whole experiment. 407 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:37,520 You know, there's so many beautiful qualities about him... 408 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:43,000 and I understand he's not perfect, I'm not perfect, we make mistakes... 409 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:45,920 but then I'm, like... 410 00:20:49,120 --> 00:20:51,600 "Where is he?" (HALF-LAUGHS) 411 00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:58,320 Going into final vows, 412 00:20:58,360 --> 00:21:01,960 I feel very uncertain about the future with Paul. 413 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,800 We've gone through a lot in a short amount of time, 414 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:08,600 so am I ready to give that up? 415 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:13,200 Can I forgive and move on and create new memories with Paul... 416 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:20,920 or abort mission and run away and end this while I can, 417 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:22,560 because I don't want to get hurt again. 418 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,320 And I've already gotten hurt 419 00:21:27,360 --> 00:21:30,640 multiple times in this journey with Paul 420 00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:33,200 and just feeling completely let down 421 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:38,640 and feeling like Paul doesn't respect me. 422 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:45,240 And now I'm leaving the apartment alone. 423 00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:58,160 NARRATOR: With the final hour in their marital home fast approaching, 424 00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,000 Jacqui has decided... 425 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:05,360 ..it's now time to make a last-minute confession. 426 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,640 RYAN: What have you got, you sneaky thing? 427 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:08,960 JACQUI: OK. 428 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:12,120 I wanted to be honest with Ryan 429 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,800 and I wanted to lay it all on the table. 430 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:19,080 I don't want there to be secrets between us. 431 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,120 During final test week... 432 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:25,120 Hi. MAN: Hello. How are you? 433 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:25,960 Good. 434 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:27,200 Jacqui. 435 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:28,680 ..both Jacqui and Ryan 436 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:32,560 chose to meet up with their other potential matches. 437 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:37,320 Honestly, meeting you has been like a breath of fresh air. (LAUGHS) 438 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:40,720 Yeah. 439 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:47,320 And later, while they both came clean to each other about meet-ups... 440 00:22:47,360 --> 00:22:49,400 I will be honest. 441 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:52,080 I went on the date too. 442 00:22:52,120 --> 00:22:53,760 ..there was an important detail... 443 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,800 Yeah. ..Jacqui left out. 444 00:23:00,360 --> 00:23:02,920 I didn't tell Ryan that I swapped numbers with Rory, 445 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,480 but he didn't ask, so it's OK. 446 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:08,360 (LAUGHS) 447 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,360 Is that a bag inside a bag? I got you a bag. 448 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:13,960 Whoa. (LAUGHS) 449 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:17,320 I gave Rory my number. 450 00:23:17,360 --> 00:23:19,280 (LAUGHS) Yeah. 451 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:23,600 But now, yeah, I just... 452 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,040 I just...feel a bit guilty. 453 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:28,960 (EXHALES) 454 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:30,400 Spoiling me. 455 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:33,720 Why? What else have you done? (LAUGHS) 456 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:38,000 (SIGHS) 457 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:45,760 Thank you for being the best husband that I could've had. 458 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,640 And I have something else I want to tell you as well. 459 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,360 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 460 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:54,080 I just want you to know as well 461 00:23:54,120 --> 00:23:56,400 because I don't really like keeping secrets from you... 462 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:58,280 Oh! 463 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,680 ..that I did give Rory my number. 464 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:05,480 But we didn't talk 465 00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:09,520 and it made me realise that, actually, 466 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:14,200 you are the one I want. 467 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,320 Mmm. Like... 468 00:24:17,360 --> 00:24:18,960 (CLEARS THROAT) 469 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:25,760 I've no intention of meeting up with Rory after this experiment at all. 470 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,400 You know that's not OK. 471 00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:30,080 So, Rory's now thinking, 472 00:24:30,120 --> 00:24:31,720 "Oh, I'll message her even though she's married," 473 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:32,840 because that's the sign. 474 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:34,000 Like, you've given him a big sign. 475 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,400 It's made me angry. Made you angry? 476 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,800 Yeah. (TENSE MUSIC) 477 00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:45,920 Volunteering your number, that is the absolute biggest signal 478 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,560 of, like, "Come and get me" you can give. 479 00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:50,880 It's, like, do you want to get got? Do you want to get pursued? 480 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:54,800 No, definitely not happy with that. 481 00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:59,400 I feel as if that was something I would never (BLEEP) do. Never. 482 00:25:01,120 --> 00:25:03,280 There's no excuse for giving your number out. 483 00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,920 There's still this wedding ring on. 484 00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:07,920 You giving him your number... 485 00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,400 is a strong sign that you think there is no future with us. 486 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,640 I do see a future with us, though, Ryan. 487 00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,400 JACQUI: My feelings towards Ryan haven't changed. 488 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,280 What we've built together hasn't changed 489 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:22,920 and I still am committed to Ryan. 490 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:25,400 We've got, like, great photos. 491 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:28,960 We can do a lingerie photo shoot together. 492 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:32,720 Like... Like, I have no intention of seeing Rory outside. 493 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,240 I don't have one-night stands. I do not do that. 494 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:40,640 Like, if I build a relationship with someone, it's forever. 495 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:42,720 Like, I intend them to be at my funeral 496 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:44,240 and I intend to be at their funeral. 497 00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,920 Like, that's how... That's how forward-looking I am. 498 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:49,960 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 499 00:25:56,640 --> 00:26:00,040 NARRATOR: With their time in the apartment drawing to a close, 500 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,080 Awhina and Adrian have still not spoken 501 00:26:03,120 --> 00:26:07,720 after an emotionally charged argument at the dinner party. 502 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,440 ADRIAN: I don't want to be in a relationship, me personally, 503 00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,920 that I even, me, consider going on another date with someone else. 504 00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:16,240 The more I see on this... 505 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,080 Let's not hide behind this challenge, Adrian. 506 00:26:18,120 --> 00:26:19,600 What challenge? 507 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:20,880 You see any point going to final vows? 508 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:21,920 No. 509 00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,360 Adrian, I agree. I agree. 510 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:26,760 And again... I agree. 511 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,560 ..ask me the question tomorrow... (BLEEP) final vows. 512 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,520 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 513 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,440 Yeah, I'm not sure about Adrian and I's relationship right now. 514 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:44,200 There are better ways he and I both could've handled last night 515 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:45,760 and the situation. 516 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,360 Last, like, day we're seeing each other 517 00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,680 and I didn't want last night's dinner party 518 00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,920 to be the last impression Adrian has of me and our relationship. 519 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,760 I still want to make up with Adrian. 520 00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:02,760 I do regret that last night ended the way it did. 521 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,520 Our communication was so off. 522 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,920 I did want to have an enjoyable last dinner party with you. 523 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:14,000 I was just feeling upset 'cause everything was coming to an end. 524 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:17,640 But, Adrian, I think I was just seeking reassurance from you 525 00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,160 that I wasn't getting... I did. 526 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,320 ..and I was mad you did it because, yes, I was jealous. 527 00:27:21,360 --> 00:27:24,440 Obviously there must be some doubt in our relationship. 528 00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:26,760 Absolutely. 529 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:28,240 I don't want to be curious about anyone else. 530 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:29,920 But at the end of the day, 531 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,320 this is not where I want to be and this is not what I want to be doing. 532 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,320 If you're in a secure relationship, you should never go. 533 00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:42,880 It was still wrong. 534 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,840 Everything I said was 100% honest. 535 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,960 And it's the truth. 536 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:53,720 (KNOCK AT DOOR) 537 00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:57,640 Who is it? 538 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,960 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 539 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,040 It's an iPad. 540 00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,280 It's our wedding video. 541 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:23,120 I'm not watching it yet. I'm sad. 542 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,120 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 543 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:35,680 NARRATOR: Still to come, the first final vows ceremonies... 544 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:38,280 "I deserved to be loved, Dave..." 545 00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:42,200 Has love run its course for Jamie and Dave? 546 00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:43,560 .."and I just don't know 547 00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,640 "whether I'm willing to wait to see if you can get there too." 548 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,240 And one of the most unexpected endings 549 00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:55,160 in the history of the experiment. 550 00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,320 "Adrian, our road hasn't always been easy 551 00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:01,880 "but I see the potential for us to build a beautiful life together." 552 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:13,720 NARRATOR: With the impending final vows 553 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:16,560 weighing heavily on their minds, 554 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:20,480 our first three couples have headed home across Australia 555 00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,880 to contemplate their decision. 556 00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,040 Hey. Hey, bud. 557 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,440 They'll spend the week apart, 558 00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:34,520 reflecting on whether to continue their relationships 559 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,240 outside the experiment 560 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:39,400 or leave their marriages for good. 561 00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:43,280 Having just arrived in Melbourne... 562 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:48,560 Jamie is already reminiscing about her time in the experiment 563 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,800 with the help of a gift from Dave. 564 00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:56,160 "To Jamie. You're so special to me. Thank you for being you." 565 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,120 And we did leave things in a really good spot 566 00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:00,600 and right now, like, I miss him. 567 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,200 God, that was, like, on the way to our honeymoon. 568 00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:06,400 This experiment has been, like, the best thing I've ever done 569 00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,400 in my entire life 570 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,400 and Dave has been the best person to do it with. 571 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,240 Oh, our little apartment! 572 00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:16,040 He made me feel comfortable straight away. 573 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:20,240 (LAUGHS) The coffee... The coffee machine is my nightclub. 574 00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,880 (BOTH LAUGH) 575 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:25,040 Oh, dinner party. 576 00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:26,880 When we go to dinner parties 577 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:28,680 and, like, you know someone's got your back, 578 00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:30,720 like, that's, like, that's...phew... 579 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,680 (SQUEALS) ..you can't ask for more than that. 580 00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:35,440 Look at this dress! Look at this lady. 581 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:36,800 Come on, give us a spin. Give us a spin. 582 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:38,040 MAN: Give her a spin. Look at that! 583 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:39,880 Shocker! We're together again! 584 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,560 OTHERS: Hello! 585 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,600 I've got the little... 586 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:45,920 We balance each other out. 587 00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,120 We work really well being that fire and ice. 588 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,400 Oh, my little bed! 589 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,440 (LAUGHS) 590 00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:56,120 I bought a little... 591 00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,280 OK. You guys have gotta go. (LAUGHS) 592 00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:04,360 Jesus Christ. Holy shit. 593 00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:06,680 (LAUGHS) Here we go. 594 00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,480 (LAUGHS) 595 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:12,120 "To be continued." 596 00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,000 I am hopeful for the future 597 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:18,440 because I've seen all the good foundation we do have as a couple. 598 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,600 But he just makes me a better person. 599 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:21,840 MAN: Aw! 600 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,400 I just get to the experience all this amazing joy that we have 601 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,120 within our little home 602 00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:30,120 and, like, we truly are having the best experiment. 603 00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,120 Here you go, Dave. 604 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:36,080 You don't even match my aesthetic but you're still going on there. 605 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:37,880 Lucky you. 606 00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:45,880 I came into this experiment looking for a partner 607 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,760 and someone to love and someone that I could be myself around 608 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,520 and someone with a big personality 609 00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:53,640 and I honestly think I got more than what I was looking for 610 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:54,720 in this experiment. 611 00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:57,120 I've never dated someone with such a big personality. 612 00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:00,720 You know, being apart from Jamie is making me miss her. 613 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:02,920 She's an amazing person. She makes me laugh. 614 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:06,240 Is it sleeping in your bed? Yeah. 615 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,640 I'm the only one that should be moulting in the house. 616 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:10,400 (BOTH LAUGH) 617 00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:11,480 DAVE: She's just hilarious. 618 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,360 Today? Today? 619 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:14,840 (SCREAMS) No! 620 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:16,160 Why would they do this? What is it? 621 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:18,880 I don't have a dress! It's a (BLEEP) wedding! 622 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:19,960 (LAUGHS) Let's go. 623 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:29,560 Get in the shower. 624 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:31,560 DAVE: She makes me laugh all the time. 625 00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,200 My red flag list... 626 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,040 (BOTH LAUGH) 627 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:39,600 ..they wear Crocs, TNs, Birkenstocks, Doc Martens 628 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,360 or any form of a sandal. 629 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,200 God, I'm such a funny bitch. 630 00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:44,520 DAVE: She's affectionate... 631 00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:46,280 (LAUGHS) 632 00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,280 Jamie has made me feel so good. 633 00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,000 She's everything. 634 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:53,880 It went so well for so long and it was bloody awesome 635 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,480 and I (BLEEP) up everything. 636 00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,040 Some of the needs, I wasn't showing up for Jamie 637 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:03,840 and it sort of derailed us a little bit. 638 00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:07,720 I said "I love you. Like, I really love you." 639 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,080 OK, so you haven't said it back? No. 640 00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,760 When Jamie told me she loved me, I freaked out a little bit 641 00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:18,080 and I'm not proud of the way that I've treated her. 642 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:21,640 Who have I been laying next to this whole experiment, Dave? 643 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:23,200 I'm not at the level of love that you have. 644 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:26,600 It's not "Tell me you love me!" It's how far in we are! 645 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,960 You have not shown up for me! (CRIES) 646 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:31,800 I'm ashamed of the way I handled that. 647 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:34,600 I wasn't showing up for Jamie romantically 648 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,160 and I hope she can forgive me. 649 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,160 Since then, I've put in the effort. 650 00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,920 I've shown up, brought the flowers... 651 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:44,960 And that one too. 652 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:48,080 ..the gifts... Babe, this is, like, 400 bucks. 653 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:49,720 Your favourite perfume. It is. 654 00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:51,480 But why would you spend that much money? 655 00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:53,360 Because I care about you. 656 00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:55,000 DAVE: I've told her how I feel about her. 657 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:58,480 I want to work on expressing the emotional, romantic side. 658 00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,640 You're worth doing that for. 659 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:03,000 (KISS) 660 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:04,560 She met my dad. 661 00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:06,120 Good, how are you? I get to finally meet you. 662 00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:07,400 I know. 663 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:09,600 DAVE: And I just hope that I was able to make things right. 664 00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:13,800 I want her to be in my life because I have strong feelings for her 665 00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:15,400 and I care about her a lot, 666 00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:19,080 but, yeah, I'm not confident in her decision. 667 00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:21,200 I don't know how she's gonna be feeling in this time. 668 00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:27,440 NARRATOR: Across town, Jamie is catching up with her sister Georgia. 669 00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:29,600 JAMIE: Are you warding me off from you? 670 00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,040 GEORGIA: No, this is good energy. 671 00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:33,520 So, are you gonna tell me the juice 672 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,440 or am I gonna sit here like a dickhead with an evil eye? 673 00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:37,720 (LAUGHS) No. 674 00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:39,520 The last time they saw each other, 675 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:44,800 Georgia expressed doubt about the couple's future together. 676 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:46,480 So, are you falling in love with Jamie? 677 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,640 I'm not falling in love at the moment, no. 678 00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:49,800 Love's not there. 679 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:51,400 That doesn't make sense to me. 680 00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:52,640 How can you see a future with someone 681 00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:54,560 you don't have a love connection with? 682 00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:57,080 Well, that's why I'm confused... That's what I don't understand. 683 00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:59,440 Since we were here, 684 00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:03,600 I can actually feel the feelings have shifted majorly. 685 00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:06,200 So he's expressed it now he's got romantic feelings for you? 686 00:35:06,240 --> 00:35:08,560 He said now that he definitely feels like he has, like, 687 00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:10,840 those romantic feelings... So, what's changed? 688 00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:14,760 It's just, like, we do have this, like, really nice bond. 689 00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:16,560 That's where the confusion's lying, though. 690 00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:18,840 Like, I'm not against you and Dave being in each other's lives. 691 00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,160 It's just that I will always struggle 692 00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:24,000 to see the romantic thing with you two. 693 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:29,400 JAMIE: My sister is someone who doesn't hold back 694 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:32,240 and I can't really disagree with Georgia 695 00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:35,440 'cause she's reaffirming concerns I already had. 696 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:39,080 We've got everything that makes us such a good partnership 697 00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:40,240 and this friendship 698 00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:43,440 and all our problem areas are in terms of romantic. 699 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,680 I don't necessarily think this makes sense. 700 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,640 You just have to think about if you can actually see a future with him 701 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,680 outside of the experiment. 702 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:56,600 I think she's lying to herself. 703 00:35:58,200 --> 00:35:59,760 There's no romance. 704 00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,480 It's still to me sounding like they've got a fantastic friendship. 705 00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,080 Do I think it will get anywhere? No. 706 00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:11,080 But if it makes her happy, sure. 707 00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:14,760 My opinion remains where it was when I saw you and Dave for lunch 708 00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:17,000 of, "What are we doing here? Friends?" 709 00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:23,600 This conversation has reaffirmed my concerns 710 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:25,600 and definitely has made me feel a bit silly 711 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,160 when you say some things out loud. 712 00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:32,240 This experiment, there's so much of, like, putting in the effort 713 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:34,920 and trying to make it work, no matter what. 714 00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,320 I think that's where we're struggling to differentiate 715 00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:41,840 whether we're here because we want to be around each other, 716 00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:44,120 we have these feelings and it's all amazing 717 00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,400 or if we're just trying to make it work. 718 00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:56,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 719 00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:01,400 NARRATOR: Today is the day of the final vows... 720 00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:06,200 where Jamie and Dave must make a choice. 721 00:37:07,720 --> 00:37:12,160 Will they commit to a future together beyond the experiment 722 00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,320 or walk away forever? 723 00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,480 JAMIE: I told Dave I loved him. 724 00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:27,400 But then our energy shifted so dramatically. 725 00:37:29,720 --> 00:37:32,120 I have no idea if our feelings will ever match. 726 00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,560 Not being able to tell Dave how I feel 727 00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:41,120 or what I'm gonna say 728 00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,600 is, like, impacting my throat chakra 729 00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:45,240 'cause you can't get your words out. 730 00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:46,440 Then everything, like... 731 00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:48,600 Now everything's sore and just blocked. 732 00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:51,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 733 00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:54,800 DAVE: After the way I've acted towards Jamie, 734 00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,160 I think I've given her enough reason to doubt my feelings. 735 00:38:01,720 --> 00:38:05,720 But I've got myself back to that place 736 00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,320 where I can see and want a future 737 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,760 and I hope I've done enough to win her back. 738 00:38:14,720 --> 00:38:16,640 I want to show Jamie that I care 739 00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:18,160 and I want to show Jamie 740 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:19,840 that our relationship is not worth just throwing away 741 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:24,800 and hopefully she feels the same way. 742 00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:27,840 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 743 00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:33,840 JAMIE: I definitely fell in love with the qualities Dave has, 744 00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:37,000 but can we do life together? 745 00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:39,560 I do get really caught up in feelings 746 00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,760 without even thinking things through. 747 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:43,600 (LAUGHS) Hey, you. 748 00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:45,480 Hey, stranger. 749 00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,480 JAMIE: But I'm feeling confident about my decision. 750 00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,160 I've put a lot of thought into it 751 00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:51,760 and I feel like I've made the right decision. 752 00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,800 (BOTH LAUGH) 753 00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,200 This is the longest we haven't seen each other. 754 00:38:59,240 --> 00:39:01,840 I know, it's been a while. 755 00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:04,040 I'm looking forward to yours. 756 00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:06,160 (LAUGHS) 757 00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:08,280 (CLEARS THROAT) 758 00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:16,560 "Jamie... 759 00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,280 "the moment I saw you walking down the aisle, 760 00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:22,200 "my heart nearly jumped out of my chest. 761 00:39:22,240 --> 00:39:23,320 You looked like a firecracker 762 00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,800 "packed into the smallest, most perfect package." 763 00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:27,640 (LAUGHS) 764 00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:30,160 "And that moment on, I knew this was gonna be something unforgettable. 765 00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:35,000 "Six weeks into our marriage, you told me you loved me. 766 00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:36,560 "It was overwhelming. 767 00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:38,880 "I wasn't ready to say those words back, 768 00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,240 "but I promised that I would show up no matter what 769 00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:42,760 "and over the past three months, 770 00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:44,840 "I've done my best to live up to that promise. 771 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:47,200 "Through all of this, 772 00:39:47,240 --> 00:39:49,640 "you've become one of the closest people to me in my life. 773 00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,840 "I came here looking for something that could last, 774 00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:55,120 "something worth holding onto 775 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:58,880 "and with you, I believe that's possible. 776 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:02,880 "So, today, I choose us. 777 00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:05,640 "Let's give this a real shot. 778 00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:07,920 "I want to leave here with you 779 00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:10,480 "and whatever comes next, I'm ready if you are." 780 00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:12,080 (LAUGHS) 781 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,200 Yay. 782 00:40:16,240 --> 00:40:17,680 (LAUGHS) 783 00:40:21,240 --> 00:40:23,040 (EXHALES) 784 00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:28,480 Anyways, you go. 785 00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:32,560 Are you ready? (EXHALES) Yep. 786 00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,360 OK. 787 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:37,360 (EXHALES) 788 00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:49,960 Are you ready? 789 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:53,840 (EXHALES) Yep. OK. 790 00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:58,800 (EXHALES) 791 00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:02,760 "Dave... 792 00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:08,960 "I came into this experiment hoping I'd find my person. 793 00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,920 "I wanted to break all cycles and finally find the nice guy 794 00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,200 "who would make me feel heard, valued and seen. 795 00:41:17,240 --> 00:41:23,000 "When we first met on our beautiful wedding day, 796 00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:24,240 "everything felt easy. 797 00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:28,040 "There was a natural connection between us, 798 00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:30,120 "one that felt like it had the potential 799 00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,840 "to grow to something truly special. 800 00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,920 "From the very start, you made me feel safe, understood 801 00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,320 "and free to be my full, loud self. 802 00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:42,960 "You've been patient with me... 803 00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:47,120 "but beyond that, you've genuinely made my life better 804 00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:48,360 "just by being in it. 805 00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:55,400 "We've been like fire and ice, where I'm loud, passionate 806 00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:58,600 "and then you bring calm and balance. 807 00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,160 "You create such a peaceful environment around us 808 00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,200 "and I love that I feel safe, supported 809 00:42:05,240 --> 00:42:08,000 "and truly free to be myself when I'm with you. 810 00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,560 "Throughout this journey, no matter what happened, 811 00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,280 "I knew I'd have your back and you'd have mine. 812 00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:18,880 "And that's the kind of partnership 813 00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:20,840 "anyone would be lucky to experience even once. 814 00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:25,240 "By the time we reached retreat, 815 00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,640 "my feelings for you had grown so much. 816 00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,960 "Saying 'I love you' felt so right and so natural. 817 00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:37,800 "Even though you didn't say it back, it didn't change how I felt. 818 00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:42,280 "I was happy to be in my feels fully and unapologetically. 819 00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:47,200 "But during feedback week, our intimacy issues came to light 820 00:42:47,240 --> 00:42:50,360 "and unfortunately that also uncovered something deeper... 821 00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:54,360 "that your romantic feelings weren't progressing 822 00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:55,520 "in the way I'd hoped. 823 00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:01,400 "I felt truly blindsided in this moment 824 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,960 "as the relationship I thought was going so incredibly well 825 00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:05,240 "was potentially a lie." 826 00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:08,360 "That realisation hit me hard. 827 00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:13,320 "I questioned our relationship, you as a person and even myself. 828 00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:19,000 "It made me question if I'd really fallen in love with you 829 00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:20,800 "or just the idea of you. 830 00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:27,160 "After feedback week, we moved straight into homestays. 831 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:30,360 "I went in feeling hurt, unsure about our relationship 832 00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,040 "and doubting our future. 833 00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:37,360 "We managed to find our way back and find hope in each other again. 834 00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,440 "But I'd be lying if I said I wasn't concerned... 835 00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:47,640 "concerned that your feelings will never match mine. 836 00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:54,400 "I've wondered if you can give me what I need emotionally 837 00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:56,280 "or if you feel like we're forcing something 838 00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,080 "that doesn't come naturally to you. 839 00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:03,680 "I don't want either of us to feel like we're settling 840 00:44:03,720 --> 00:44:06,240 "or to be in a relationship where one of us isn't truly fulfilled. 841 00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:11,160 "I deserved to be loved, Dave, 842 00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:13,800 "and I just don't know whether I'm willing to wait to see 843 00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:15,000 "if you can get there too. 844 00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:21,120 "But I also know that I'm not ready to walk away from this 845 00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:22,240 "or from you." 846 00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:25,400 Aw! 847 00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:28,200 "And my heart tells me that I'm not ready to let go of you 848 00:44:28,240 --> 00:44:29,680 "and everything we've built together." 849 00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:34,120 "So, yes, I do want to take this relationship 850 00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:35,240 "beyond the experiment 851 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,280 "because I don't think it's the end of our story. 852 00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:41,440 "In fact, it may just be the beginning." 853 00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:44,480 That's so sweet! (LAUGHS) 854 00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:47,080 (BOTH LAUGH) 855 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,240 Cue the music. We did it. 856 00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,440 (RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS) 857 00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:52,800 Well done. 858 00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:59,280 (BOTH LAUGH) 859 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:01,520 I wish I could wrap my legs around you but I'll split my dress. 860 00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:03,280 Later. Later. (LAUGHS) 861 00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:05,840 We did it. I was about to say, "Please don't put a plot twist. 862 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:07,920 "I'm not in the mood." (BOTH LAUGH) 863 00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,280 Obviously I'm so excited to be standing here with Dave. 864 00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:13,120 Like, I'm so happy. Like, we've put in so much work for so long. 865 00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:15,000 It wasn't for nothing. 866 00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:17,560 We're finally at this place where we're both on the same page 867 00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:19,440 and we want to give it a go, that we're both optimistic. 868 00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:22,400 OK. Let's go, my little backpack. (LAUGHS) 869 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:25,120 I came here for my man and I'm leaving with my man. 870 00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:28,360 How good. We did it. Yeah. 871 00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,080 Love. 872 00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:33,200 This experiment's taught me so much about myself and her 873 00:45:33,240 --> 00:45:34,320 and I feel like, to me, 874 00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:37,040 Jamie's someone that I value very much in my life. 875 00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:40,520 We should celebrate with skinny-dipping in the pond. 876 00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:42,040 (BOTH LAUGH) 877 00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:43,320 That's the dynamic. 878 00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:46,160 Yin and yang. Hot and cold... Very much so. 879 00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:47,240 ..kind of vibe. 880 00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:50,600 I mean, you're calm, I'm crazy, so it's, like, we just balance. 881 00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:51,720 Very true. 882 00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:53,080 And plus, how boring would his life be 883 00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:55,080 if he didn't have a little spicy wog in there? 884 00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:56,640 That's true. 885 00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,360 I need to walk funny so my heels don't get stuck. 886 00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,440 (LAUGHS) 887 00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:06,440 NARRATOR: Still to come... 888 00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:09,440 Would you be happy for your daughter to be with someone like Adrian? 889 00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:15,600 ..the most unexpected end to a final vows ever seen. 890 00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:17,960 "Awhina, I have real feelings for you." 891 00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:21,080 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 892 00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:28,520 NARRATOR: After several days apart, 893 00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:33,120 Awhina and Adrian are reflecting on their tumultuous marriage 894 00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:37,920 and weighing up the life-changing decision in front of them. 895 00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:42,120 ADRIAN: Going into finals vows, this decision's huge. 896 00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:46,040 I'm not quite sure where I am right now and what I want to do with it. 897 00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:50,680 AWHINA: Throughout this experiment, we've had a lot of ups and downs. 898 00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,560 Our relationship has definitely been a rollercoaster 899 00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:56,720 'cause Adrian and I are just both fiery personalities. 900 00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:01,080 But I don't think I've hidden from anybody 901 00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:02,600 throughout this entire experiment 902 00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:04,800 how physically attracted I am to Adrian. 903 00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:08,520 Adrian and I definitely have chemistry. 904 00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:10,640 It's like the devil comes out when he smiles at me. 905 00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:14,280 He has, like, this cheeky little smirk he does. 906 00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:16,160 It's so hot. (LAUGHS) 907 00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:18,640 Like, some things, like sparks and connections, 908 00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:19,880 is just something you can't explain. 909 00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:23,920 That is there, 100%, no questions. 910 00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,280 Me and Awhina have had our ups and downs, 911 00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:29,880 but the most challenging thing for our relationship 912 00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:31,840 is we live in different states. 913 00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:38,000 How do we navigate a relationship when one of us lives in Sydney 914 00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:39,440 and the other lives in WA? 915 00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:43,600 I have a son to think about. 916 00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:47,240 I don't know if we're strong enough as a couple right now 917 00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:48,320 to make that work. 918 00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:52,920 NARRATOR: Hoping for some much-needed advice... 919 00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:56,560 Hi, Fifi. Hey, twinnie. 920 00:47:56,600 --> 00:48:00,280 ..Awhina is chatting with her twin sister Cleo. 921 00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:03,680 It's final vows, Fi. What are you gonna do? 922 00:48:03,720 --> 00:48:05,600 What am I gonna do? 923 00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:10,520 Again, I'm still confused about what I'm gonna do. 924 00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:13,840 And what do you think Adrian's gonna say at the end? 925 00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:20,280 I don't know, but he lives in Sydney. 926 00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,880 He's pretty adamant that's his home 927 00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:27,440 and...I'm not planning on moving to Sydney. 928 00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:29,600 Yeah. 929 00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:33,200 And I know that even without long distance, 930 00:48:33,240 --> 00:48:35,360 we would have real hurdles. 931 00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:37,560 If his life is never going to be in Perth 932 00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:39,320 and your life is never going to be in Sydney... 933 00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:44,680 it would never work. 934 00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:47,280 Yeah. 935 00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:50,840 You and I both know I've got feelings for Adrian. (LAUGHS) 936 00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:52,080 Yes. 937 00:48:57,240 --> 00:48:59,960 I do think Adrian's got feelings for me. 938 00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:05,000 He does have a caring side. 939 00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:09,280 I don't think Adrian's a bad person. 940 00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:12,240 Do I think he's good enough for you? No. 941 00:49:14,240 --> 00:49:17,080 I don't think he really gets involved in your life much. 942 00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:19,720 I don't think he asks a lot about your life back home. 943 00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,880 I think, from the start, he was very much for himself. 944 00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:25,840 If you could honestly ask yourself, 945 00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,560 would you be happy, if you had a daughter, 946 00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:31,440 for your daughter to be with someone like Adrian? 947 00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:49,560 It's time for Awhina and Adrian to declare their feelings at final vows 948 00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:54,680 and with it, make a decision that could change their lives forever. 949 00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:58,520 AWHINA: My vows have been hard to write 950 00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:03,080 and I've been really conflicted on the direction to go 951 00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:06,240 and I feel like I keep changing my mind. 952 00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:11,320 Adrian and I, we do have some massive hurdles 953 00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:15,800 and I'm not sure those issues are something he or I could overcome. 954 00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:21,320 But at the same time, when I'm spending time with Adrian, 955 00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,760 we do have chemistry. 956 00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:26,840 I can definitely see a future with someone like Adrian. 957 00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:30,920 ADRIAN: At the end of the day, 958 00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:32,840 I came here to walk away with a relationship 959 00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:35,400 and very rare do you find someone 960 00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:38,160 that makes you feel comfortable with who you are. 961 00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:41,600 I met a beautiful person in Awhina. 962 00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:45,760 We have a connection there and we do care for each other 963 00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:47,280 and it just feels right. 964 00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:53,160 But at the same time, to make it work, 965 00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:56,920 we both need to be 100% certain that there is a future... 966 00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:01,840 because it is a huge commitment. 967 00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:05,280 I might have to move my whole lifestyle somewhere else... 968 00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:08,560 away from my family, away from my friends. 969 00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:12,920 But I ask myself, is that really what I want to do 970 00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:14,800 and is this relationship really worth it? 971 00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,840 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 972 00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,880 My decision right now is definitely the right decision. 973 00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:31,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 974 00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:39,760 AWHINA: By saying yes and continuing things on the outside, 975 00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:44,040 am I just leading myself to future heartbreak... 976 00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:49,160 when long distance doesn't work out? 977 00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:55,760 But then again, am I ready to stop talking or seeing Adrian forever? 978 00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:58,720 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 979 00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:06,360 What's happening? Mmm? 980 00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:09,000 How are you feeling? 981 00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:10,800 (SARCASTICALLY) Great. 982 00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,800 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 983 00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:34,800 What's happening? Mmm? 984 00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:39,160 How are you feeling? 985 00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,560 (SARCASTICALLY) Great. 986 00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:45,040 Well, I might as well start. 987 00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:51,840 "Awhina... 988 00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:56,800 "coming into this experiment four months ago, 989 00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:58,800 "I was standing at the altar... 990 00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:02,520 "excited, 991 00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:04,920 "knowing my future person would be walking down the aisle." 992 00:53:09,720 --> 00:53:11,560 "I remember the moment I first saw you. 993 00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:15,160 "I thought, 'This man is way too hot. 994 00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:17,920 "'What am I getting myself into?'" (LAUGHTER) 995 00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:20,000 Hey, how you going? I'm Adrian. 996 00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:21,600 Hi. Nice to meet you. 997 00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:23,840 You're actually way too hot. I'm actually not happy. 998 00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:25,520 OK. (LAUGHTER) 999 00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:28,200 "I can confirm I still think you're way too hot." 1000 00:53:28,240 --> 00:53:29,760 (LAUGHS) 1001 00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:32,360 "But I've come to see that you're also kind, funny, 1002 00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:34,200 "stubborn, creative and curious. 1003 00:53:34,240 --> 00:53:37,320 "I see the potential for us to build a beautiful life together. 1004 00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:42,160 "I can't deny that we have this unexplainable chemistry." 1005 00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,320 "Our energy towards one another is undeniable. 1006 00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:54,080 "It's a connection... I can't explain it in words. 1007 00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:57,880 "We could have fun doing the most simple task 1008 00:53:57,920 --> 00:53:59,520 "and end up with sore cheeks from smiling too much. 1009 00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:03,920 "You make me laugh, you challenge me and you make me feel seen. 1010 00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:07,040 "In those moments, you have made me see 1011 00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:08,400 "a possible happy future with you." 1012 00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,560 "When things are good, they truly are great." 1013 00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:18,640 (EXHALES) 1014 00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:21,520 "Our journey has been a mix of ups and downs, 1015 00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:23,640 "often leaving me unsure where we stand... 1016 00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:27,040 "and there have been times I've felt disappointed 1017 00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:28,120 "by the support I've received from you. 1018 00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:31,040 "Sometimes in this experiment, 1019 00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:33,520 "I didn't feel seen by you, truly seen. 1020 00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:37,840 "I tried my best at times to express what I need from you 1021 00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:39,680 "and it often felt like a losing battle." 1022 00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:44,840 "Looking back, I can admit 1023 00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:46,880 "I could have been a better partner to you. 1024 00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:51,320 "We've both felt like we haven't had each other's back 1025 00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:54,280 "and that we haven't shown up for each other." 1026 00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,520 "The fact you live in Sydney while I have my life in Perth... 1027 00:55:04,720 --> 00:55:07,400 "my son's life is there, my community is there 1028 00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:10,120 "and just as mine is in Perth, yours is in Sydney. 1029 00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:16,240 "The brown-haired, brown-eyed boy I've been looking for is at home, 1030 00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:17,360 "missing his mum. 1031 00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:24,160 "You're not my future right now. 1032 00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:30,080 "This is where our journey ends." 1033 00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:33,120 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 1034 00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:45,400 "You are an amazing mother 1035 00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:47,520 "and I understand how important it is for you to get back to Perth 1036 00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:48,720 "to be with your son. 1037 00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:52,800 "And that's the problem. 1038 00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:57,160 "After everything, I believe these hurdles are too big to overcome, 1039 00:55:57,200 --> 00:56:00,840 "which is why I'm now deciding that it's best for both of us 1040 00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:03,120 "that I walk away." 1041 00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:06,080 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1042 00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:11,040 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 1043 00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:40,600 Don't look at me like that, Adrian. 1044 00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:55,920 Stop smiling at me. 1045 00:57:02,720 --> 00:57:06,360 You have said you wouldn't want to do this experience 1046 00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:07,880 with anyone else. 1047 00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:12,640 Yeah. 1048 00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:16,160 Do you want to spend time with me tonight? 1049 00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:18,800 Yeah. 1050 00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:23,280 Do you want to still talk to me? 1051 00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:25,440 Yeah, of course. 1052 00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:28,840 Is that on a friendship level or is that romantic? 1053 00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:34,680 But you're choosing to walk away. 1054 00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:39,080 Adrian, you like me. 1055 00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:40,360 I know I do. 1056 00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:42,160 Yeah, I know you do. 1057 00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:46,280 Right now, we're both saying we like each other. 1058 00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:49,200 Well, I mean, like I said... Adrian... 1059 00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:55,520 It's whether or not you still want to see where this goes 1060 00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:57,440 and clearly you still do. 1061 00:57:57,480 --> 00:57:59,640 I do, but then I think about... No, you do. 1062 00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:01,040 That's the answer. Yeah, but... 1063 00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:02,160 You do. But the reality... 1064 00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:03,680 You do. I do, but the reality... 1065 00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:04,920 (BOTH LAUGH) 1066 00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:06,520 Then our answers sound stupid. 1067 00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:11,800 I feel like we looked at this decision too black-and-white. 1068 00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:14,720 Yeah. 1069 00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:19,560 Do you want to try right now, though, and see what... 1070 00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:20,640 Yeah, but... 1071 00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:23,600 ..our connection looks like outside of this experiment, Adrian? 1072 00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1073 00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:41,280 That's all I'm asking. 1074 00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:44,440 Yes. 1075 00:58:46,240 --> 00:58:47,680 Hmm. 1076 00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:51,280 OK. Cool. 1077 00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:54,720 I hope you realise the decision's been made now. 1078 00:58:56,080 --> 00:58:58,320 Yeah, it is. 1079 00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:05,880 Of course. 1080 00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:11,920 You can explain this. (LAUGHS) 1081 00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:14,080 Why do I have to explain everything? 1082 00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:16,160 I think I did most of the talking in there. 1083 00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:19,600 I was feeling really, like, anxious out there 1084 00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:21,280 when I was walking down the stairs. 1085 00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:26,680 Yeah, we're going out together 1086 00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:29,200 and I think we both know the situation we're in. 1087 00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:31,680 There's no pressure to it. (LAUGHS) 1088 00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:34,640 So we're just gonna go back home 1089 00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:36,480 and see where we stand and how we go. 1090 00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:39,800 (KISS) 1091 00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:41,040 Awhina's a lucky woman. 1092 00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:42,880 Oh, of course. 1093 00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:46,520 Definitely still the same Adrian. (LAUGHS) 1094 01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:02,520 The future is bright. 1095 01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:04,640 (BOTH LAUGH) 1096 01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:09,120 NARRATOR: Coming up... 1097 01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:12,200 You went and met up with another woman. 1098 01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:16,680 I feel like I'm not worthy, I'm not blonde, I don't have long legs, 1099 01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:18,520 like, I'm not skinny enough... 1100 01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:22,280 ..can Carina move past the hurt and forgive Paul again? 1101 01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:24,840 What is inside your heart? 1102 01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:33,680 (BELLS RING) 1103 01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:37,600 NARRATOR: In Sydney, Carina's mum, Carmel, 1104 01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:41,760 has flown all the way from Perth to be by her daughter's side 1105 01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:44,720 while she makes this momentous decision. 1106 01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:48,400 We have the church behind us. 1107 01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:50,000 The cathedral. Yep. 1108 01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:52,880 St Mary's Cathedral. It's beautiful. 1109 01:00:55,920 --> 01:00:59,480 My mum knows that I'm not in the best frame of mind. 1110 01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:02,800 She knows my headspace is all over the shop. 1111 01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:07,600 So, yeah, I just really want to tell her what I'm currently going through 1112 01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:10,000 so she can give me the right advice, 1113 01:01:10,040 --> 01:01:13,520 because her opinion means so much to me. 1114 01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:18,360 So, Carina, the last time I saw you, you were at home with Paul 1115 01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:20,040 and things looked great. 1116 01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:25,680 Obviously, coming back to Sydney, we were on a high. 1117 01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:27,000 We were so happy 1118 01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:31,240 and I think the last week has changed dramatically. 1119 01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:35,760 Last week, we had our final task by the experts 1120 01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:39,520 to see if we wanted to go on a date with someone 1121 01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:44,320 that they matched us with and thought we were compatible with 1122 01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:48,920 and Paul decided to go on a date with another woman. 1123 01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:51,320 Oh, Carina! Yeah. 1124 01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:57,600 Are you thinking that, like, I'm gonna be OK with that? 1125 01:01:57,640 --> 01:02:00,360 Like, you didn't consider my feelings again! 1126 01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:03,240 Let's stop this (BLEEP) now. No! I'm (BLEEP) done! 1127 01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:05,560 I'm actually done. Get your shit and leave. 1128 01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:07,000 (SIGHS) I'm done. 1129 01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:17,000 It instantly... I just was shocked by the choice that he made 1130 01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:19,080 and it's just not good enough for me. 1131 01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:20,600 No, it's not good enough. 1132 01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:23,760 I feel very shocked to hear what happened with Carina 1133 01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:28,000 because at homestay, Paul came across beautifully 1134 01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:30,600 and I thought that they gelled so well together. 1135 01:02:30,640 --> 01:02:34,800 I'm just devastated. Absolutely devastated. 1136 01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:38,440 It's fully disrespected me. He has. 1137 01:02:38,480 --> 01:02:44,200 Like, I understand it's OK to be curious, but don't act on it. 1138 01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:46,280 If we're going out into the real world 1139 01:02:46,320 --> 01:02:49,440 and we are faced with a situation like this... 1140 01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:50,840 You face big temptations every day in life. 1141 01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:52,240 Yeah. 1142 01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:54,240 And you cannot fall for these temptations. 1143 01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:56,960 He came back and he was, like, "I missed you so much. 1144 01:02:57,000 --> 01:02:59,800 "I was talking about you the whole time" 1145 01:02:59,840 --> 01:03:00,840 and I was, like, 1146 01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:04,400 "The fact is that you went and met up with another woman." 1147 01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:09,320 That is so detrimental on any woman's self-esteem. 1148 01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:11,720 Like, I have such low self-esteem 1149 01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:17,720 when I've worked so hard to build what I am inside and out 1150 01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:19,520 and then when this happens, 1151 01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:22,520 I feel like all of that has just come crashing down 1152 01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:25,720 and I'm not good enough, I'm not worthy, I'm not blonde, 1153 01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:28,600 I don't have long legs, like, I'm not skinny enough. 1154 01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:30,640 Like, these are all things that are going in my mind 1155 01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:32,800 because he did that, Mum. 1156 01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:35,920 It's, like, I'm not the one doing the wrong, but I'm copping it. 1157 01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:39,840 Yeah. Like, it's a lose-lose situation. 1158 01:03:39,880 --> 01:03:45,040 And I'm, like, envisioning him at that restaurant 1159 01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:48,640 or at the bar like with another woman and I'm just, like, "Why? 1160 01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:51,080 "Like, just say no." 1161 01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:54,800 But the fact that he didn't even realise he's hurting you... 1162 01:03:54,840 --> 01:03:56,520 Exactly, Mum. ..is upsetting. 1163 01:03:56,560 --> 01:03:58,600 That's lacking emotional intelligence. 1164 01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:00,440 That's exactly what the experts said. 1165 01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:03,080 Does he make you happy at all? He does. 1166 01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:04,280 Yeah. Yeah. 1167 01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:06,160 But that's why I'm hurt, because I'm, like, how... 1168 01:04:06,200 --> 01:04:08,640 Like, why do you not know me? 1169 01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:11,040 (CRIES) 1170 01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:14,360 I'm just angry. Yes. 1171 01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:15,680 Disappointed. 1172 01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:19,720 This has hurt her deeply, 1173 01:04:19,760 --> 01:04:23,800 but I'm really in two minds 1174 01:04:23,840 --> 01:04:27,120 because from what she told me throughout the experiment, 1175 01:04:27,160 --> 01:04:31,000 they were supportive of each other, they were happy together, 1176 01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:34,080 she felt she was paired up with the right person. 1177 01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:36,120 (BOTH LAUGH) 1178 01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:44,040 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) (GLASSES TINKLE) 1179 01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:45,120 (PAUL LAUGHS) 1180 01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:49,760 It's a choice that's not as easy 1181 01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:51,720 as what I thought it would've been for her. 1182 01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:56,320 He's made the wrong choice, but we make mistakes in life 1183 01:04:56,360 --> 01:04:58,200 and we need to forgive. 1184 01:04:58,240 --> 01:05:01,160 That's part of our faith, our Christian faith, Carina, 1185 01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:03,560 where we do need to forgive people. 1186 01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:06,000 At the end of the day, we are human beings 1187 01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:08,400 and we do make mistakes in life. 1188 01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:11,840 I think if she looks at the happy times that they've had together... 1189 01:05:11,880 --> 01:05:14,640 Yeah. ..maybe she can forgive him. 1190 01:05:14,680 --> 01:05:16,960 What is inside your heart? 1191 01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:19,000 You need to go with your heart. 1192 01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:22,560 And if you think he's genuinely sorry, 1193 01:05:22,600 --> 01:05:25,840 maybe you can find it in your heart to forgive him 1194 01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:28,360 and move forward. 1195 01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:31,000 Yeah. 1196 01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:35,720 You need to pray about it and ask God for his blessings 1197 01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:37,720 and it's up to you, my dear. 1198 01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:41,160 I can't make the decision for you. 1199 01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:43,080 OK? But we'll be here for you. Thank you. 1200 01:05:43,120 --> 01:05:45,120 Love you. Love you too. 1201 01:05:45,160 --> 01:05:48,400 CARINA: Paul made a mistake and that's very evident. 1202 01:05:48,440 --> 01:05:49,840 We make mistakes. 1203 01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:55,880 I think I have to figure out if I can move on and forgive him. 1204 01:05:57,360 --> 01:06:00,840 My mum's wisdom has definitely given me more clarity 1205 01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:02,880 about the decision I'm going to make. 1206 01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:26,280 NARRATOR: The final vows ceremony has arrived for Carina and Paul. 1207 01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:30,760 Today they will reveal their true feelings for one another... 1208 01:06:32,440 --> 01:06:35,800 and make a life-changing decision. 1209 01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:41,240 And the moment can't come quick enough for Paul... 1210 01:06:42,520 --> 01:06:46,040 who is in no doubt about his decision today, 1211 01:06:46,080 --> 01:06:48,960 as he is desperate to reconnect with Carina. 1212 01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:51,840 PAUL: I look forward to seeing Carina. 1213 01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:53,800 I'm really excited to see her face. I haven't seen her in a few days. 1214 01:06:53,840 --> 01:06:54,960 I've missed her heaps. 1215 01:06:57,600 --> 01:07:01,760 And I can't wait to be able to deliver my vows... 1216 01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:06,360 yeah, express to her how much I like her. 1217 01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:11,680 This whole journey, you know, it's been beautiful, 1218 01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:12,760 it's been amazing. 1219 01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:17,080 There's been many, many beautiful moments. 1220 01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:18,680 Just a couple of hiccups along the way. 1221 01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:26,200 We've just come out of a bit of a rough moment, 1222 01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:27,800 you know, so I'm just hoping 1223 01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:30,040 that she's gonna be willing to forgive me for that 1224 01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:33,040 and to move forward and to continue this relationship on the outside. 1225 01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:37,960 Hopefully she's gonna reflect on 1226 01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:39,360 all these beautiful moments that we've had 1227 01:07:39,400 --> 01:07:41,680 and, you know, on that strong connection that we've had 1228 01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:43,320 from pretty much day one 1229 01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:46,160 and, yeah, I'm hoping that she's gonna express all that. 1230 01:07:49,320 --> 01:07:52,440 I'm feeling extremely, extremely confident about my decision. 1231 01:07:54,120 --> 01:07:55,680 Right now, the only thing that I want 1232 01:07:55,720 --> 01:07:58,320 is I just want Carina to tell me that she's forgiven me 1233 01:07:58,360 --> 01:08:01,360 and that she's OK with everything, that she wants to move forward, 1234 01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:04,040 she want to continue this relationship back in Perth, 1235 01:08:04,080 --> 01:08:09,440 that she wants to continue doing life with me and that's all I want. 1236 01:08:19,360 --> 01:08:21,320 CARINA: It's one of the biggest decisions 1237 01:08:21,360 --> 01:08:23,480 I've had to make in my life. 1238 01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:27,960 It's a weird feeling. I feel really torn... 1239 01:08:29,920 --> 01:08:31,320 because I have been hurt 1240 01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:32,960 and I don't want to get hurt anymore. 1241 01:08:35,400 --> 01:08:40,840 But at the same time, I don't want to give up on what we've built. 1242 01:08:43,480 --> 01:08:46,400 We've created so many wonderful memories together... 1243 01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:51,040 and we have a strong connection. 1244 01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:59,120 I can see a future with Paul. 1245 01:08:59,160 --> 01:09:00,400 (MEN LAUGH) 1246 01:09:00,440 --> 01:09:02,720 And he really did get along with my family. 1247 01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:06,520 My family were, like, "Wow, he fits in so easily and so well." 1248 01:09:06,560 --> 01:09:10,120 We're very happy to have you as part of our family, Paul. 1249 01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:11,160 Thank you. 1250 01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:13,080 And just remember, perseverance and forgiveness. 1251 01:09:13,120 --> 01:09:15,720 Mmm. You need to forgive. 1252 01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:18,160 I know that relationships are not easy 1253 01:09:18,200 --> 01:09:22,880 and I was raised on forgiveness and seeing the good in people. 1254 01:09:27,640 --> 01:09:30,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1255 01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:40,240 CARINA: There are so many great qualities about Paul. 1256 01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:41,920 I never felt coming into this experiment 1257 01:09:41,960 --> 01:09:44,160 that I would just feel so comfortable. 1258 01:09:44,200 --> 01:09:47,720 I'm very grateful for that and I'm very grateful for Carina. 1259 01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:49,040 But the way you look, 1260 01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:51,120 I don't even know if I want to get to the dinner party anymore. 1261 01:09:51,160 --> 01:09:52,640 (BOTH LAUGH) 1262 01:09:58,520 --> 01:10:00,760 But then there's also the other side... 1263 01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:03,080 (TENSE MUSIC) 1264 01:10:03,120 --> 01:10:07,440 ..where there have been red flags throughout the experiment. 1265 01:10:07,480 --> 01:10:08,800 (GLASS TINKLES) 1266 01:10:09,920 --> 01:10:13,560 I did something that I absolutely regret. 1267 01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:23,600 CARINA: Trust is a real big one for me 1268 01:10:23,640 --> 01:10:24,760 and it's so important and crucial 1269 01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:28,800 and for my own partner to have my back, no matter what. 1270 01:10:33,840 --> 01:10:35,960 I feel like there's been times in the experiment 1271 01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:38,360 when Paul has thrown me under the bus. 1272 01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:42,160 PAUL: So I feel like she is a bit of a snob sometimes. 1273 01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:47,920 Paul has let me down on multiple occasions 1274 01:10:47,960 --> 01:10:49,800 throughout this experiment. 1275 01:10:49,840 --> 01:10:52,600 I want to give him the benefit of the doubt, 1276 01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:56,080 but I can't stop fixating on the thought 1277 01:10:56,120 --> 01:11:00,200 and the fact that he did action his curiosity 1278 01:11:00,240 --> 01:11:03,160 and he went and met up with another woman. 1279 01:11:03,200 --> 01:11:05,120 When I was there... No! 1280 01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:07,680 ..I was so embarrassed and I was talking about you the whole time. 1281 01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:09,560 No, don't do it with other girls! 1282 01:11:09,600 --> 01:11:11,800 I'm worth so much more than this! No, no, no, wait! 1283 01:11:11,840 --> 01:11:14,840 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1284 01:11:16,080 --> 01:11:18,600 But even with everything that's happened... 1285 01:11:19,720 --> 01:11:25,560 I still have feelings towards him, I care for him, I really miss him. 1286 01:11:28,960 --> 01:11:31,400 And I crumble when I see him. 1287 01:11:31,440 --> 01:11:34,360 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1288 01:11:41,240 --> 01:11:42,680 Wow. (LAUGHS) 1289 01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:46,640 Wow. (LAUGHS) 1290 01:11:46,680 --> 01:11:48,360 Hey. Hi. 1291 01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:50,200 How are you? How are you? 1292 01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:52,200 You look so good. It's so good to see you. 1293 01:11:52,240 --> 01:11:53,600 God, I miss you. 1294 01:11:56,920 --> 01:11:58,720 You look so good. 1295 01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:02,560 How are you feeling? 1296 01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:04,480 Nervous. 1297 01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:07,080 Nervous. Yes. Me too. Me too. 1298 01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:16,440 Alright. Well... (LAUGHS) I guess I'll start. (LAUGHS) 1299 01:12:16,480 --> 01:12:19,480 (TENSE MUSIC) 1300 01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:25,880 NARRATOR: Tomorrow night... 1301 01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:30,080 "Ryan, in a world of red flags, you are the red carpet." 1302 01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:36,160 ..the most unexpected and explosive final vows ever seen. 1303 01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:38,720 "I'm not a rehabilitation centre..." 1304 01:12:38,760 --> 01:12:40,200 (LAUGHS) Sorry, that's ridiculous. 1305 01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:42,280 Don't call my final vows ridiculous. 1306 01:12:42,320 --> 01:12:44,680 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1307 01:12:44,720 --> 01:12:45,760 Plus... 1308 01:12:45,800 --> 01:12:48,320 JEFF: It's very rare that people go from a romantic relationship 1309 01:12:48,360 --> 01:12:51,320 to a friendship, then back to a romantic relationship. 1310 01:12:51,360 --> 01:12:54,120 ..Rhi and Jeff's final vows... 1311 01:12:54,160 --> 01:12:57,760 "You are worth every day, every week, every month it takes 1312 01:12:57,800 --> 01:12:59,200 "to discover our happily ever after." 1313 01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:04,600 It's the love story of the experiment. 1314 01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:07,720 Rhi, I am falling in love with you. 1315 01:13:10,480 --> 01:13:11,960 And... 1316 01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:13,000 Paul... 1317 01:13:13,040 --> 01:13:18,040 ..the dramatic conclusion to Carina and Paul's final vows. 102820

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