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CARINA: Deep down, all I want
is love and to love someone...
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RHI: That feeling in my stomach,
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that feeling of knowing
that you've found your person.
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NARRATOR: 12 weeks ago...
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JAMIE: (GASPS) Yes!
Sorry, Dad.
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..24 singles across Australia...
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Hey, Rhi.
Hi, Jeff.
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..took a life-changing leap of faith.
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WOMAN: They're twins!
(CHEERING)
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..marrying a stranger
in the search for true love.
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Here is a spare key to my apartment.
(LAUGHS)
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RYAN: I'll put you third.
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(CRIES)
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LAUREN: He's leaving.
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And after three months...
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..of one of the most remarkable
experiments...
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Who are you calling a mean girl?
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JACQUI: Why don't you want to be
someone great?
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CARINA: Get your shit and leave!
EXPERTS: Oooh!
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(GLASS TINKLES)
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..our remaining six couples
attended their final dinner party.
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Awhina and Adrian imploded
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when they met
who they could've been matched with.
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Let's not hide behind
this challenge.
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I am not the right person.
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What the hell does that mean?
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Like, if you're truly happy
with your relationship,
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you wouldn't have gone on the date.
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I wasn't thinking straight
and I'm so sorry for that.
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Paul expressed his remorse
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for going on the date
as part of final test week.
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Try harder. No, I'm a catch!
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But Carina was not
in a forgiving mood.
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Continuously apologising
and saying sorry...
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It's not enough.
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And now, over two big nights,
it's the final vows ceremonies.
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DAVE: I'm taking this decision
very seriously.
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Which of our couples will continue
their marriage beyond the experiment?
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CARINA: It's one of
the biggest decisions
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I've had to make in my life.
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JACQUI: I have something else
I want to tell you as well.
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Jacqui's shock confession...
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I don't really like
keeping secrets from you.
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..leaves Ryan reeling.
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It's made me angry.
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What are you gonna do?
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Awhina's ultimate decision.
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Would you be happy
if you had a daughter
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to be with someone like Adrian?
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It's the conclusion
no-one saw coming.
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(CLEARS THROAT)
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And...
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Carina, you are kind
and compassionate.
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All I can do now
is ask for your forgiveness.
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..can Carina forgive Paul
one last time?
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(RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS)
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The experiment is drawing to a close
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and the time for final vows is almost
here for our remaining couples...
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JEFF: Mwah! Argh.
(RHI LAUGHS)
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..Jamie and Dave...
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JAMIE: Oh, who's gonna carry
all my stuff?
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..Rhi and Jeff...
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How are you gonna go
without me?
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RHI: It'll be an adjustment,
for sure.
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..Carina and Paul,
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Jacqui and Ryan
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and Awhina and Adrian.
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They'll now separate
and spend time weighing up
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if they'll continue as a couple
in the outside world...
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JAMIE: Babe, you forgot
all our honeymoon shells.
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You've gotta take them.
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RHI: It's gonna feel weird, like,
not doing our morning routine.
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JEFF: I know.
Walking to the gym.
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Yeah.
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..and reveal their decision
when they meet again at final vows.
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The final vows is the ultimate step
of the experiment.
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Our couples must now take
some time apart
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to reflect on their time
in the experiment
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before they make
the life-changing decision
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on whether to remain as a couple
or go their separate ways.
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This time will prove testing
for our couples
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and they'll turn to their family
and friends
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to question if their relationship
will be strong enough
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to continue when they leave
the bubble of the experiment.
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(DAVE LAUGHS)
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JAMIE: This is so weird!
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I'm so used to being next to Dave
in our apartment all the time.
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It feels like this is our home.
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You know, if these walls could talk.
(LAUGHS)
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They wouldn't say too much
exciting things,
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just apparently Dave being goofy
and me being nuts. (LAUGHS)
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Do you think we get to keep
our wedding photos?
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I mean, I don't think
they're gonna fit in my suitcase.
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It's just bittersweet
'cause again I'm saying goodbye
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and it's the last time I'll say
hello or goodbye to Dave
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in this apartment.
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(LAUGHS)
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So, yeah, it's a bit sad.
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DAVE: Think of our first day
in here.
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It's just wild
that we've come that far.
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To go from, you know, honeymoon
and moving in here
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and the ups and downs,
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like, I'm super proud of us
and the work we've done.
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The bond between Jamie and I
feels strong.
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We've overcome the biggest hurdles
and we've come out stronger.
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My feelings for Jamie
have progressed.
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I think that I've put in the effort
and I've been showing up for Jamie.
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And now look at us.
You're gonna move in with my dog.
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(LAUGHS)
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I'm excited to move out.
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I feel like it's a sort of a new
beginning again for Jamie and I.
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Before they say goodbye, the experts
have a surprise for Jamie and Dave,
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a look back at where it all began
with their wedding video.
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Oh, babe, our wedding!
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Oh, god.
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Oh, my god. Is that a neck tat?
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(LAUGHS) Yeah.
(EXCLAIMS) Yes!
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Sorry, Dad.
(BOTH LAUGH)
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Sold. Sold.
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(BOTH LAUGH)
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Hey, that's the first time
I ever met you as your little self.
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That's so cute.
(LAUGHS)
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When Jamie did come
down the aisle and said, you know,
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the neck tat thing, that just made
me feel so comfortable.
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The attraction is also
her personality.
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She's a little pocket rocket.
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But we have a bond, so, you know,
she supported me from the start.
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"I must admit, when I found out
there was a match for me,
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"I was genuinely shocked.
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"Either they found
someone as crazy as I am..."
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(LAUGHS)
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.."or there's a nice guy out there
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"about to get
the shock of his life."
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(LAUGHS)
This is so crazy.
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(BOTH LAUGH)
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We were two strangers.
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We were kind of lucky. We kind of
hit it off from the start.
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Dave's someone
who sees me to my core.
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Like, he never doubts me.
He doesn't question me.
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He always backs me.
Dave is a great guy.
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(ON VIDEO) Hey, I'm Dave, your big
friendly giant soon-to-be husband.
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And, yeah,
I'm glad I did this with Dave.
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I'd like to start off
with these vows.
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Having a long arms, long legs,
big feet,
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there's also something big
you can't see.
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Oh, my god.
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I have an extremely big...heart.
(LAUGHTER)
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What are (BLEEP) loser.
(LAUGHS)
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I got the ick watching myself.
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Oh, man.
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It's just so embarrassing.
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But it was sweet to relive
that moment again.
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(LAUGHS)
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Looking back on the wedding day
and honeymoon, moving in here,
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everything, I wouldn't change
a thing about Jamie.
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I really wouldn't...
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MAN: You may now kiss each other.
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
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..because Jamie has been there
for me
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and made me so comfortable
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and be able to express myself
and not judged.
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(LAUGHS)
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I think she embraces
the big goofball I am as well.
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Do the thing.
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Do it. (LAUGHS)
No.
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(LAUGHS) Do it. Just go...
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You're such a freak.
You're a freak.
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(LAUGHS)
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Yeah, she's an amazing,
amazing woman.
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Obviously, going to final vows,
we do have a lot to think about.
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And we're not going
"Everything's gonna be amazing,
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"we're gonna go to Melbourne
and we're gonna have babies and..."
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No, we're, like, realistic
in what's going on.
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We're, like, we know we both need
to figure out,
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like, yeah, if this is something
that is going to go the distance.
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Do you need a heartburn tablet?
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JAMIE: Like, I do have real feelings
for Dave
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but Dave needs to keep showing up
for me,
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so I need to think about
all these things.
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(LAUGHS)
Goodbye.
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This decision is gonna be
a massive one.
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This is crazy!
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I'm sort of freaking out
a little bit
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not knowing what's gonna happen.
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Bye, darling.
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I know how much I care about Jamie
and I don't want to lose her.
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I don't know
what Jamie's decision is gonna be.
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Oh. (LAUGHS)
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Like a little sad movie.
End of a bloody era.
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Oh!
(DOOR CLOSES)
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NARRATOR: As Jamie and Dave
go their separate ways
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to prepare for their final vows
in a few days time,
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one bride is already making
the unprecedented decision
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to pull the pin on her marriage
and leave the experiment today.
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BETH: I don't need to hear it.
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I can't fight for somebody
that just doesn't want me.
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BETH: It's very loud and clear
that you don't want to be with me.
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I can't go to final vows.
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MAN: Can I ask you,
if it all ended abruptly tomorrow,
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is my daughter gonna get
her heart broken?
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Um...
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TEEJAY: I care so much for Beth,
so...
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I care about my dog.
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Darling, twice today, you didn't
have your wedding ring on.
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Because I was an emotional to you
because I like you, that's why.
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I like you too, darling.
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All I wanted from you was to know
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that you liked me
just a little bit...
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That is not what you said, darling.
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BETH: I'm not the kind of partner
that walks away from something,
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so I wrote 'stay'.
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JOHN: Teejay, stay or leave?
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I wrote 'leave'.
Mmm.
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BETH: So, how was your date?
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It was fine. Got along well.
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I was trying to see
where that sort of pushed me,
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whether it was to or from you.
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And it kind of just left me neutral,
to be completely honest with you.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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I feel like I don't want to
stand there,
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put on another white dress
like I did on my wedding day,
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pour my heart out to you,
pour my emotions out to you
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for you to just reject me again.
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You know, I deserve to be
with someone
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that wants me and is sure about me.
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I agree.
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So, final vows is not happening.
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This is just where we leave it.
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That makes sense.
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I'm disappointed that I couldn't
give Beth what she needed
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in this relationship.
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Yeah, I just didn't feel
the deep romance growing for me
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and that's just how I feel.
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I'm upset that we couldn't end this
on good terms.
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BETH: That conversation
has made me feel so shit.
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It's obvious that he doesn't want me
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and he doesn't want
this relationship
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and I can't go to final vows
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and stand in front of someone
that I've had feelings for,
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confess that I wanted a future
with them,
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for them to tell me that, again,
"I don't see a future with you."
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I'm not gonna put my energy into it.
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I'm not wasting my (BLEEP) time
anymore.
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Oh, god.
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(CRIES) I'm so sick of crying.
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(CRIES)
246
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BETH: I genuinely thought
247
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that we would walk out
of this experiment together.
248
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I thought we were perfectly matched
249
00:11:58,560 --> 00:12:02,400
and now, going from that
to where we are...
250
00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:04,760
just...
251
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It's so sad that it didn't work out.
252
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
253
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NARRATOR: Down the hall,
254
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Carina and Paul are packing up
in separate apartments,
255
00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:33,800
with Paul's decision to take part
in the final test...
256
00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:38,000
still driving a wedge
between the couple.
257
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I was hoping to move out,
you know, in better circumstances,
258
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in a better headspace, you know,
and with Carina by my side
259
00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,560
but I know...I know she was
obviously in a...
260
00:12:50,600 --> 00:12:52,240
still in a bit of a bad headspace
261
00:12:52,280 --> 00:12:55,680
since I made the decision
to go on the date.
262
00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:57,080
You know... (LAUGHS)
263
00:12:57,120 --> 00:13:01,240
So, if you're so happy,
why are you here?
264
00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:06,000
I just wish that she would've been
at least able to, yeah...
265
00:13:06,040 --> 00:13:08,400
just to, I guess, maybe just to tell
the rest of the group, you know,
266
00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:10,960
also how amazing I've been
267
00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:13,720
and all the things that I've done
for her as well, you know.
268
00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:15,680
I'd love to go with Carina...
269
00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:17,960
I'd love to go and sit down with her
one more time
270
00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:19,160
and have one last chat.
271
00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:22,560
Hopefully she'll want to receive...
272
00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:27,240
you know, my apology
a bit better than last night...
273
00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:29,920
and hopefully she'll be
a bit more receptive
274
00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:32,120
to the things I have to say.
275
00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:36,000
Yes, we've had little ups
and downs.
276
00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:39,040
There's been times where
we've hurt each other
277
00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:40,760
and we've always decided
to forgive each other.
278
00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:45,000
Hey.
Hey.
279
00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:46,760
How are you?
Good. How are you?
280
00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:48,080
Good.
281
00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:51,960
Yeah, I think there is a possibility
of us to reconnect, 100%.
282
00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:53,960
You know, like, I just...
283
00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:57,480
I've always, you know, followed
and trusted my gut feelings
284
00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:00,000
and I do have a gut feeling
that we can come back from this.
285
00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:02,680
Ah... How are you?
286
00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:04,200
How are you feeling
after last night?
287
00:14:04,240 --> 00:14:05,640
Um...
288
00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:08,320
I don't know. Yeah.
289
00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:10,240
Lonely.
Sorry?
290
00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:11,680
Lonely.
Oh, lonely.
291
00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,880
Yeah. Really lonely.
Like, a sense of emptiness.
292
00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:16,120
Yeah.
293
00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:18,320
So, yeah...
I understand.
294
00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:20,160
..pretty disappointed.
295
00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:22,600
Yeah.
296
00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:29,600
I just want to tell you again
how much I care for you
297
00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:31,400
and how much I care
for our relationship
298
00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:35,040
and, yeah, like, again,
I'm just so sorry, again,
299
00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:37,920
if my actions, you know,
300
00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:40,960
that decision I took
has made you feel
301
00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:42,240
the way you're feeling right now.
302
00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:47,120
I just really want you to understand
that I'm not a bad person,
303
00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:48,520
I'm not a nasty person.
304
00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:53,040
I don't have any sort of bad,
malicious intention in me.
305
00:14:53,080 --> 00:14:57,880
I never meant to actively hurt you
or to hurt your feelings.
306
00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:01,160
I'm so sorry and I promise you,
I will do everything to fix this,
307
00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:03,560
everything in my power to fix this.
308
00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:05,600
Yeah.
309
00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:12,040
I really regret
taking that decision.
310
00:15:12,080 --> 00:15:13,720
I didn't think.
311
00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:17,320
I started to see a future with you
outside this experiment, you know,
312
00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:18,920
like, quite early on,
you know, and...
313
00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:21,280
Yeah, but then why would you say
yes to that?
314
00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:23,000
Yeah, I know. And I know
it doesn't make sense...
315
00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:25,440
That just does not make sense, Paul.
I know, I know it doesn't...
316
00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:29,040
I want to be
like a mature relationship.
317
00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:31,960
I feel like that was
a very immature,
318
00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:34,400
irrational decision to make,
319
00:15:34,440 --> 00:15:35,840
so it's obviously making me
question...
320
00:15:35,880 --> 00:15:36,880
Yep.
321
00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:38,800
..are you the right fit for me
in my future?
322
00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:45,280
I really do hope that you will be
able to forgive me for that action
323
00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:47,960
and to move past that
and to continue with me.
324
00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:53,200
Yeah. Like, I don't know
where to go from here.
325
00:15:53,240 --> 00:15:56,360
I'm just begging you to, like...
begging you to hear this from me.
326
00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:58,320
I want this relationship so bad.
327
00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:03,160
And if it makes you feel better,
you know, like,
328
00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:06,000
I am bloody so attracted to you.
329
00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:07,240
I talk to all the boys.
330
00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:10,280
Just look at me, right,
because it's so important...
331
00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:13,800
So I look the boys and I'm, like,
"Goddamn, boys, look at my wife.
332
00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:14,960
"How hot is she," you know.
333
00:16:16,920 --> 00:16:18,280
(PAUL LAUGHS)
(CARINA HALF-LAUGHS)
334
00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,360
I've only said nice things
about you, you know.
335
00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:22,840
I just love being around you.
336
00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:26,840
Yeah.
337
00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:33,120
I feel like his words are just words
and he hasn't come across sincere.
338
00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:36,280
I just want you to know,
I just like you so much.
339
00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:38,320
How can you be saying
all those words
340
00:16:38,360 --> 00:16:40,720
and put me in this situation...
341
00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:44,080
Thanks for coming by the apartment.
342
00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:45,920
Say goodbye to it.
343
00:16:45,960 --> 00:16:47,400
I'm gonna miss you.
344
00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:48,720
Come here.
345
00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:50,040
Mmm.
346
00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:52,000
..and just feeling
completely let down,
347
00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:57,040
blindsided, exhausted, drained,
feeling like I'm not worthy
348
00:16:57,080 --> 00:16:59,800
and feeling like
my world's crashing.
349
00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:02,680
It's not good enough.
350
00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:05,720
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
351
00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:13,000
(LAUGHS)
352
00:17:14,320 --> 00:17:15,520
Oh...
353
00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:19,880
Mmm.
354
00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:23,840
(KISSES)
OK.
355
00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:28,600
I feel like I'm really reassuring
Carina by what I'm saying.
356
00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:31,880
Good luck with packing. (LAUGHS)
357
00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:35,200
I know you have a lot of stuff.
So much stuff.
358
00:17:35,240 --> 00:17:38,520
You know, like, I was able to put
a little bit of a smile on her face.
359
00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:41,440
I was, like, "OK, this is
a good sign." (LAUGHS)
360
00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:44,880
(BLOWS KISS)
I'll miss you.
361
00:17:44,920 --> 00:17:46,720
(DOOR OPENS)
362
00:17:46,760 --> 00:17:49,840
I'm just so convinced
and just deep down in my heart,
363
00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:52,320
I know we can come back
from this silly decision
364
00:17:52,360 --> 00:17:54,640
going on this date...
(DOOR CLOSES)
365
00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:57,160
..and we can make
this relationship work.
366
00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:01,960
OK.
367
00:18:11,040 --> 00:18:14,000
(BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
368
00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:17,080
NARRATOR: It's the final day
in the apartments
369
00:18:17,120 --> 00:18:21,400
and as the remaining couples
pack for their journey home
370
00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:23,120
ahead of final vows,
371
00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:27,080
Carina has taken the last opportunity
before she leaves...
372
00:18:27,120 --> 00:18:29,040
Oh, god. What is this?
373
00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:30,720
..to watch her wedding video.
374
00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:35,640
(GENTLE MUSIC PLAYS)
375
00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:41,360
(GASPS)
376
00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:47,360
Oh, my god.
377
00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:52,600
Nice to meet you. Paul.
Hi, Paul.
378
00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:55,120
You look very handsome.
Thank you.
379
00:18:55,160 --> 00:18:57,480
God, you're gorgeous.
(LAUGHS)
380
00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:02,280
"One thing I promise you
from this moment forward
381
00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:03,320
"is that I will keep you safe.
382
00:19:03,360 --> 00:19:06,160
"I will be your protector,
your rock to lean on
383
00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:07,720
"when times get tough.
384
00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:12,440
"I'm ready more than ever
to embrace the possibility
385
00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:14,720
"of finding unconditional love."
386
00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:18,680
CARINA: Our wedding day
was so beautiful.
387
00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:20,440
(LAUGHTER)
388
00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:22,520
My family were all there
to be a part of it.
389
00:19:22,560 --> 00:19:25,160
"I promise to build with you
a home filled with love."
390
00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:30,560
We've come such a long way and we've
built so many memories together.
391
00:19:30,600 --> 00:19:35,200
"I am ready for the missing puzzle
pieces to complete my love story."
392
00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:37,200
PAUL: That was beautiful.
Thank you.
393
00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:39,480
(APPLAUSE)
(BOTH LAUGH)
394
00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:43,640
CARINA: We had really good times.
395
00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:46,640
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
396
00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:50,160
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
397
00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:52,720
PAUL: Honestly, I'm over the moon.
Like, I'm just, like, all giggly.
398
00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,520
I feel like a little kid,
to be honest. (LAUGHS)
399
00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:57,200
Like, she is perfect.
400
00:19:57,240 --> 00:19:59,440
(CRIES)
401
00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:02,640
CARINA: I thought,
"Finally, I'm not alone."
402
00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:04,080
(APPLAUSE)
403
00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:09,280
How did we end up here?
404
00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:16,680
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
405
00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:25,160
I feel like we've gone through
so much together
406
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:31,160
and really just, like, grown a lot
throughout this whole experiment.
407
00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:37,520
You know, there's so many
beautiful qualities about him...
408
00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:43,000
and I understand he's not perfect,
I'm not perfect, we make mistakes...
409
00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:45,920
but then I'm, like...
410
00:20:49,120 --> 00:20:51,600
"Where is he?"
(HALF-LAUGHS)
411
00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:58,320
Going into final vows,
412
00:20:58,360 --> 00:21:01,960
I feel very uncertain
about the future with Paul.
413
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,800
We've gone through a lot
in a short amount of time,
414
00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:08,600
so am I ready to give that up?
415
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:13,200
Can I forgive and move on and create
new memories with Paul...
416
00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:20,920
or abort mission and run away
and end this while I can,
417
00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:22,560
because I don't want
to get hurt again.
418
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:27,320
And I've already gotten hurt
419
00:21:27,360 --> 00:21:30,640
multiple times in this journey
with Paul
420
00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:33,200
and just feeling completely let down
421
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:38,640
and feeling like
Paul doesn't respect me.
422
00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:45,240
And now I'm leaving
the apartment alone.
423
00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:58,160
NARRATOR: With the final hour in
their marital home fast approaching,
424
00:21:58,200 --> 00:22:00,000
Jacqui has decided...
425
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:05,360
..it's now time to make
a last-minute confession.
426
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,640
RYAN: What have you got,
you sneaky thing?
427
00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:08,960
JACQUI: OK.
428
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:12,120
I wanted to be honest with Ryan
429
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,800
and I wanted to lay it
all on the table.
430
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:19,080
I don't want there to be secrets
between us.
431
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,120
During final test week...
432
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:25,120
Hi.
MAN: Hello. How are you?
433
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:25,960
Good.
434
00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:27,200
Jacqui.
435
00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:28,680
..both Jacqui and Ryan
436
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:32,560
chose to meet up
with their other potential matches.
437
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:37,320
Honestly, meeting you has been like
a breath of fresh air. (LAUGHS)
438
00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:40,720
Yeah.
439
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:47,320
And later, while they both came clean
to each other about meet-ups...
440
00:22:47,360 --> 00:22:49,400
I will be honest.
441
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:52,080
I went on the date too.
442
00:22:52,120 --> 00:22:53,760
..there was an important detail...
443
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,800
Yeah.
..Jacqui left out.
444
00:23:00,360 --> 00:23:02,920
I didn't tell Ryan
that I swapped numbers with Rory,
445
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,480
but he didn't ask, so it's OK.
446
00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:08,360
(LAUGHS)
447
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,360
Is that a bag inside a bag?
I got you a bag.
448
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:13,960
Whoa.
(LAUGHS)
449
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:17,320
I gave Rory my number.
450
00:23:17,360 --> 00:23:19,280
(LAUGHS)
Yeah.
451
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:23,600
But now, yeah, I just...
452
00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:26,040
I just...feel a bit guilty.
453
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:28,960
(EXHALES)
454
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:30,400
Spoiling me.
455
00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:33,720
Why? What else have you done?
(LAUGHS)
456
00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:38,000
(SIGHS)
457
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:45,760
Thank you for being the best husband
that I could've had.
458
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,640
And I have something else
I want to tell you as well.
459
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,360
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
460
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:54,080
I just want you to know as well
461
00:23:54,120 --> 00:23:56,400
because I don't really like
keeping secrets from you...
462
00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:58,280
Oh!
463
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,680
..that I did give Rory my number.
464
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:05,480
But we didn't talk
465
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:09,520
and it made me realise that,
actually,
466
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:14,200
you are the one I want.
467
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:17,320
Mmm.
Like...
468
00:24:17,360 --> 00:24:18,960
(CLEARS THROAT)
469
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:25,760
I've no intention of meeting up with
Rory after this experiment at all.
470
00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:27,400
You know that's not OK.
471
00:24:27,440 --> 00:24:30,080
So, Rory's now thinking,
472
00:24:30,120 --> 00:24:31,720
"Oh, I'll message her
even though she's married,"
473
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:32,840
because that's the sign.
474
00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:34,000
Like, you've given him a big sign.
475
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,400
It's made me angry.
Made you angry?
476
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,800
Yeah.
(TENSE MUSIC)
477
00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:45,920
Volunteering your number,
that is the absolute biggest signal
478
00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:48,560
of, like, "Come and get me"
you can give.
479
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:50,880
It's, like, do you want to get got?
Do you want to get pursued?
480
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:54,800
No, definitely not happy with that.
481
00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:59,400
I feel as if that was something
I would never (BLEEP) do. Never.
482
00:25:01,120 --> 00:25:03,280
There's no excuse
for giving your number out.
483
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,920
There's still this wedding ring on.
484
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:07,920
You giving him your number...
485
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,400
is a strong sign that you think
there is no future with us.
486
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,640
I do see a future with us, though,
Ryan.
487
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,400
JACQUI: My feelings towards Ryan
haven't changed.
488
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,280
What we've built together
hasn't changed
489
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:22,920
and I still am committed to Ryan.
490
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:25,400
We've got, like, great photos.
491
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:28,960
We can do a lingerie photo
shoot together.
492
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:32,720
Like... Like, I have no intention
of seeing Rory outside.
493
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:36,240
I don't have one-night stands.
I do not do that.
494
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:40,640
Like, if I build a relationship
with someone, it's forever.
495
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:42,720
Like, I intend them to be
at my funeral
496
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:44,240
and I intend to be at their funeral.
497
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:46,920
Like, that's how...
That's how forward-looking I am.
498
00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:49,960
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
499
00:25:56,640 --> 00:26:00,040
NARRATOR: With their time
in the apartment drawing to a close,
500
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,080
Awhina and Adrian
have still not spoken
501
00:26:03,120 --> 00:26:07,720
after an emotionally charged argument
at the dinner party.
502
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,440
ADRIAN: I don't want to be in
a relationship, me personally,
503
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,920
that I even, me, consider going on
another date with someone else.
504
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:16,240
The more I see on this...
505
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,080
Let's not hide
behind this challenge, Adrian.
506
00:26:18,120 --> 00:26:19,600
What challenge?
507
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:20,880
You see any point
going to final vows?
508
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:21,920
No.
509
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,360
Adrian, I agree. I agree.
510
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:26,760
And again...
I agree.
511
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,560
..ask me the question tomorrow...
(BLEEP) final vows.
512
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
513
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,440
Yeah, I'm not sure about Adrian
and I's relationship right now.
514
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:44,200
There are better ways he and I
both could've handled last night
515
00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:45,760
and the situation.
516
00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:47,360
Last, like, day
we're seeing each other
517
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,680
and I didn't want
last night's dinner party
518
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,920
to be the last impression Adrian has
of me and our relationship.
519
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,760
I still want to make up with Adrian.
520
00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:02,760
I do regret that last night
ended the way it did.
521
00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,520
Our communication was so off.
522
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:10,920
I did want to have an enjoyable
last dinner party with you.
523
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:14,000
I was just feeling upset 'cause
everything was coming to an end.
524
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:17,640
But, Adrian, I think I was just
seeking reassurance from you
525
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,160
that I wasn't getting...
I did.
526
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,320
..and I was mad you did it
because, yes, I was jealous.
527
00:27:21,360 --> 00:27:24,440
Obviously there must be some doubt
in our relationship.
528
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:26,760
Absolutely.
529
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:28,240
I don't want to be curious
about anyone else.
530
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:29,920
But at the end of the day,
531
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,320
this is not where I want to be and
this is not what I want to be doing.
532
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,320
If you're in a secure relationship,
you should never go.
533
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:42,880
It was still wrong.
534
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,840
Everything I said
was 100% honest.
535
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,960
And it's the truth.
536
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:53,720
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
537
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:57,640
Who is it?
538
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,960
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
539
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:12,040
It's an iPad.
540
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:16,280
It's our wedding video.
541
00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:23,120
I'm not watching it yet. I'm sad.
542
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
543
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:35,680
NARRATOR: Still to come,
the first final vows ceremonies...
544
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:38,280
"I deserved to be loved, Dave..."
545
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:42,200
Has love run its course
for Jamie and Dave?
546
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:43,560
.."and I just don't know
547
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,640
"whether I'm willing to wait to see
if you can get there too."
548
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,240
And one of the most
unexpected endings
549
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:55,160
in the history of the experiment.
550
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,320
"Adrian, our road hasn't always
been easy
551
00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:01,880
"but I see the potential for us to
build a beautiful life together."
552
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:13,720
NARRATOR:
With the impending final vows
553
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:16,560
weighing heavily on their minds,
554
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:20,480
our first three couples have headed
home across Australia
555
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,880
to contemplate their decision.
556
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,040
Hey. Hey, bud.
557
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,440
They'll spend the week apart,
558
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:34,520
reflecting on whether to continue
their relationships
559
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,240
outside the experiment
560
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:39,400
or leave their marriages for good.
561
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:43,280
Having just arrived
in Melbourne...
562
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:48,560
Jamie is already reminiscing about
her time in the experiment
563
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,800
with the help of a gift from Dave.
564
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:56,160
"To Jamie. You're so special to me.
Thank you for being you."
565
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,120
And we did leave things
in a really good spot
566
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:00,600
and right now, like, I miss him.
567
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,200
God, that was, like, on the way
to our honeymoon.
568
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:06,400
This experiment has been,
like, the best thing I've ever done
569
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,400
in my entire life
570
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:11,400
and Dave has been the best person
to do it with.
571
00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:13,240
Oh, our little apartment!
572
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:16,040
He made me feel comfortable
straight away.
573
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:20,240
(LAUGHS) The coffee...
The coffee machine is my nightclub.
574
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,880
(BOTH LAUGH)
575
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:25,040
Oh, dinner party.
576
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:26,880
When we go to dinner parties
577
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:28,680
and, like, you know
someone's got your back,
578
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:30,720
like, that's, like, that's...phew...
579
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,680
(SQUEALS)
..you can't ask for more than that.
580
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:35,440
Look at this dress!
Look at this lady.
581
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:36,800
Come on, give us a spin.
Give us a spin.
582
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:38,040
MAN: Give her a spin.
Look at that!
583
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:39,880
Shocker! We're together again!
584
00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:41,560
OTHERS: Hello!
585
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,600
I've got the little...
586
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:45,920
We balance each other out.
587
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:48,120
We work really well
being that fire and ice.
588
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,400
Oh, my little bed!
589
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,440
(LAUGHS)
590
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:56,120
I bought a little...
591
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:01,280
OK. You guys have gotta go.
(LAUGHS)
592
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:04,360
Jesus Christ. Holy shit.
593
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:06,680
(LAUGHS)
Here we go.
594
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,480
(LAUGHS)
595
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:12,120
"To be continued."
596
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,000
I am hopeful for the future
597
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:18,440
because I've seen all the good
foundation we do have as a couple.
598
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,600
But he just makes me
a better person.
599
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:21,840
MAN: Aw!
600
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,400
I just get to the experience
all this amazing joy that we have
601
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,120
within our little home
602
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:30,120
and, like, we truly are having
the best experiment.
603
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:32,120
Here you go, Dave.
604
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:36,080
You don't even match my aesthetic
but you're still going on there.
605
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:37,880
Lucky you.
606
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:45,880
I came into this experiment
looking for a partner
607
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,760
and someone to love and someone
that I could be myself around
608
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,520
and someone with a big personality
609
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:53,640
and I honestly think I got more than
what I was looking for
610
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:54,720
in this experiment.
611
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:57,120
I've never dated someone
with such a big personality.
612
00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:00,720
You know, being apart from Jamie
is making me miss her.
613
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:02,920
She's an amazing person.
She makes me laugh.
614
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:06,240
Is it sleeping in your bed?
Yeah.
615
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,640
I'm the only one that should be
moulting in the house.
616
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:10,400
(BOTH LAUGH)
617
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:11,480
DAVE: She's just hilarious.
618
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,360
Today? Today?
619
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:14,840
(SCREAMS) No!
620
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:16,160
Why would they do this?
What is it?
621
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:18,880
I don't have a dress!
It's a (BLEEP) wedding!
622
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:19,960
(LAUGHS) Let's go.
623
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:29,560
Get in the shower.
624
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:31,560
DAVE: She makes me laugh
all the time.
625
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:34,200
My red flag list...
626
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,040
(BOTH LAUGH)
627
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:39,600
..they wear Crocs, TNs,
Birkenstocks, Doc Martens
628
00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:41,360
or any form of a sandal.
629
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,200
God, I'm such a funny bitch.
630
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:44,520
DAVE: She's affectionate...
631
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:46,280
(LAUGHS)
632
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,280
Jamie has made me feel so good.
633
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,000
She's everything.
634
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:53,880
It went so well for so long
and it was bloody awesome
635
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,480
and I (BLEEP) up everything.
636
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,040
Some of the needs,
I wasn't showing up for Jamie
637
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:03,840
and it sort of derailed us
a little bit.
638
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:07,720
I said "I love you.
Like, I really love you."
639
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,080
OK, so you haven't said it back?
No.
640
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,760
When Jamie told me she loved me,
I freaked out a little bit
641
00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:18,080
and I'm not proud of the way
that I've treated her.
642
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:21,640
Who have I been laying next to
this whole experiment, Dave?
643
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:23,200
I'm not at the level of love
that you have.
644
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:26,600
It's not "Tell me you love me!"
It's how far in we are!
645
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:29,960
You have not shown up for me!
(CRIES)
646
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:31,800
I'm ashamed of the way
I handled that.
647
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:34,600
I wasn't showing up for Jamie
romantically
648
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,160
and I hope she can forgive me.
649
00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,160
Since then, I've put in the effort.
650
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,920
I've shown up,
brought the flowers...
651
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:44,960
And that one too.
652
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:48,080
..the gifts...
Babe, this is, like, 400 bucks.
653
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:49,720
Your favourite perfume.
It is.
654
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:51,480
But why would you spend
that much money?
655
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:53,360
Because I care about you.
656
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:55,000
DAVE: I've told her
how I feel about her.
657
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:58,480
I want to work on expressing
the emotional, romantic side.
658
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,640
You're worth doing that for.
659
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:03,000
(KISS)
660
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:04,560
She met my dad.
661
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:06,120
Good, how are you?
I get to finally meet you.
662
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:07,400
I know.
663
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:09,600
DAVE: And I just hope that I was
able to make things right.
664
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:13,800
I want her to be in my life because
I have strong feelings for her
665
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:15,400
and I care about her a lot,
666
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:19,080
but, yeah, I'm not confident
in her decision.
667
00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:21,200
I don't know how she's gonna be
feeling in this time.
668
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:27,440
NARRATOR: Across town, Jamie is
catching up with her sister Georgia.
669
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:29,600
JAMIE: Are you warding me off
from you?
670
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,040
GEORGIA: No, this is good energy.
671
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:33,520
So, are you gonna tell me the juice
672
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,440
or am I gonna sit here
like a dickhead with an evil eye?
673
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:37,720
(LAUGHS) No.
674
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:39,520
The last time they saw each other,
675
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:44,800
Georgia expressed doubt about
the couple's future together.
676
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:46,480
So, are you falling in love
with Jamie?
677
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,640
I'm not falling in love
at the moment, no.
678
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:49,800
Love's not there.
679
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:51,400
That doesn't make sense to me.
680
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:52,640
How can you see a future
with someone
681
00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:54,560
you don't have
a love connection with?
682
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:57,080
Well, that's why I'm confused...
That's what I don't understand.
683
00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:59,440
Since we were here,
684
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:03,600
I can actually feel the feelings
have shifted majorly.
685
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:06,200
So he's expressed it now he's got
romantic feelings for you?
686
00:35:06,240 --> 00:35:08,560
He said now that he definitely
feels like he has, like,
687
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:10,840
those romantic feelings...
So, what's changed?
688
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:14,760
It's just, like, we do have this,
like, really nice bond.
689
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:16,560
That's where the confusion's lying,
though.
690
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:18,840
Like, I'm not against you and Dave
being in each other's lives.
691
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,160
It's just that
I will always struggle
692
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:24,000
to see the romantic thing
with you two.
693
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:29,400
JAMIE: My sister is someone
who doesn't hold back
694
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:32,240
and I can't really disagree
with Georgia
695
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:35,440
'cause she's reaffirming concerns
I already had.
696
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:39,080
We've got everything that makes us
such a good partnership
697
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:40,240
and this friendship
698
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:43,440
and all our problem areas
are in terms of romantic.
699
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:46,680
I don't necessarily think
this makes sense.
700
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:50,640
You just have to think about if you
can actually see a future with him
701
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,680
outside of the experiment.
702
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:56,600
I think she's lying to herself.
703
00:35:58,200 --> 00:35:59,760
There's no romance.
704
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,480
It's still to me sounding like
they've got a fantastic friendship.
705
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,080
Do I think it will get anywhere?
No.
706
00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:11,080
But if it makes her happy, sure.
707
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:14,760
My opinion remains where it was
when I saw you and Dave for lunch
708
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:17,000
of, "What are we doing here?
Friends?"
709
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:23,600
This conversation
has reaffirmed my concerns
710
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:25,600
and definitely has made me feel
a bit silly
711
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,160
when you say some things out loud.
712
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:32,240
This experiment, there's so much
of, like, putting in the effort
713
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:34,920
and trying to make it work,
no matter what.
714
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,320
I think that's where
we're struggling to differentiate
715
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:41,840
whether we're here because we want
to be around each other,
716
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:44,120
we have these feelings
and it's all amazing
717
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:46,400
or if we're just trying to
make it work.
718
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:56,320
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
719
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:01,400
NARRATOR: Today is the day
of the final vows...
720
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:06,200
where Jamie and Dave
must make a choice.
721
00:37:07,720 --> 00:37:12,160
Will they commit to a future together
beyond the experiment
722
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,320
or walk away forever?
723
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:21,480
JAMIE: I told Dave I loved him.
724
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:27,400
But then our energy shifted
so dramatically.
725
00:37:29,720 --> 00:37:32,120
I have no idea if our feelings
will ever match.
726
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,560
Not being able to tell Dave
how I feel
727
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:41,120
or what I'm gonna say
728
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,600
is, like, impacting my throat chakra
729
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:45,240
'cause you can't get
your words out.
730
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:46,440
Then everything, like...
731
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:48,600
Now everything's sore
and just blocked.
732
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:51,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
733
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:54,800
DAVE: After the way I've acted
towards Jamie,
734
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,160
I think I've given her enough reason
to doubt my feelings.
735
00:38:01,720 --> 00:38:05,720
But I've got myself back
to that place
736
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,320
where I can see and want a future
737
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:11,760
and I hope I've done enough
to win her back.
738
00:38:14,720 --> 00:38:16,640
I want to show Jamie that I care
739
00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:18,160
and I want to show Jamie
740
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:19,840
that our relationship is not worth
just throwing away
741
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:24,800
and hopefully she feels
the same way.
742
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:27,840
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
743
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:33,840
JAMIE: I definitely fell in love
with the qualities Dave has,
744
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:37,000
but can we do life together?
745
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:39,560
I do get really caught up
in feelings
746
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,760
without even thinking things
through.
747
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:43,600
(LAUGHS)
Hey, you.
748
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:45,480
Hey, stranger.
749
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,480
JAMIE: But I'm feeling confident
about my decision.
750
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:49,160
I've put a lot of thought into it
751
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:51,760
and I feel like I've made
the right decision.
752
00:38:51,800 --> 00:38:54,800
(BOTH LAUGH)
753
00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,200
This is the longest
we haven't seen each other.
754
00:38:59,240 --> 00:39:01,840
I know, it's been a while.
755
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:04,040
I'm looking forward to yours.
756
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:06,160
(LAUGHS)
757
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:08,280
(CLEARS THROAT)
758
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:16,560
"Jamie...
759
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:19,280
"the moment I saw you
walking down the aisle,
760
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:22,200
"my heart nearly jumped
out of my chest.
761
00:39:22,240 --> 00:39:23,320
You looked like a firecracker
762
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,800
"packed into the smallest,
most perfect package."
763
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:27,640
(LAUGHS)
764
00:39:27,680 --> 00:39:30,160
"And that moment on, I knew this was
gonna be something unforgettable.
765
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:35,000
"Six weeks into our marriage,
you told me you loved me.
766
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:36,560
"It was overwhelming.
767
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:38,880
"I wasn't ready
to say those words back,
768
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:41,240
"but I promised that I would
show up no matter what
769
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:42,760
"and over the past three months,
770
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:44,840
"I've done my best
to live up to that promise.
771
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:47,200
"Through all of this,
772
00:39:47,240 --> 00:39:49,640
"you've become one of
the closest people to me in my life.
773
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:53,840
"I came here looking for something
that could last,
774
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:55,120
"something worth holding onto
775
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:58,880
"and with you,
I believe that's possible.
776
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:02,880
"So, today, I choose us.
777
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:05,640
"Let's give this a real shot.
778
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:07,920
"I want to leave here with you
779
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:10,480
"and whatever comes next,
I'm ready if you are."
780
00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:12,080
(LAUGHS)
781
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,200
Yay.
782
00:40:16,240 --> 00:40:17,680
(LAUGHS)
783
00:40:21,240 --> 00:40:23,040
(EXHALES)
784
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:28,480
Anyways, you go.
785
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:32,560
Are you ready?
(EXHALES) Yep.
786
00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:34,360
OK.
787
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:37,360
(EXHALES)
788
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:49,960
Are you ready?
789
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:53,840
(EXHALES) Yep.
OK.
790
00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:58,800
(EXHALES)
791
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:02,760
"Dave...
792
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:08,960
"I came into this experiment
hoping I'd find my person.
793
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,920
"I wanted to break all cycles
and finally find the nice guy
794
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:17,200
"who would make me feel heard,
valued and seen.
795
00:41:17,240 --> 00:41:23,000
"When we first met
on our beautiful wedding day,
796
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:24,240
"everything felt easy.
797
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:28,040
"There was a natural
connection between us,
798
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:30,120
"one that felt like
it had the potential
799
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,840
"to grow to something truly special.
800
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,920
"From the very start, you made me
feel safe, understood
801
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,320
"and free to be my full, loud self.
802
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:42,960
"You've been patient with me...
803
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:47,120
"but beyond that,
you've genuinely made my life better
804
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:48,360
"just by being in it.
805
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:55,400
"We've been like fire and ice,
where I'm loud, passionate
806
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:58,600
"and then you bring calm
and balance.
807
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,160
"You create such
a peaceful environment around us
808
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,200
"and I love that I feel safe,
supported
809
00:42:05,240 --> 00:42:08,000
"and truly free to be myself
when I'm with you.
810
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,560
"Throughout this journey,
no matter what happened,
811
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,280
"I knew I'd have your back
and you'd have mine.
812
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:18,880
"And that's the kind of partnership
813
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:20,840
"anyone would be lucky to experience
even once.
814
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:25,240
"By the time we reached retreat,
815
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,640
"my feelings for you had grown
so much.
816
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,960
"Saying 'I love you' felt so right
and so natural.
817
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:37,800
"Even though you didn't say it back,
it didn't change how I felt.
818
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:42,280
"I was happy to be in my feels
fully and unapologetically.
819
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:47,200
"But during feedback week,
our intimacy issues came to light
820
00:42:47,240 --> 00:42:50,360
"and unfortunately that also
uncovered something deeper...
821
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:54,360
"that your romantic feelings
weren't progressing
822
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:55,520
"in the way I'd hoped.
823
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:01,400
"I felt truly blindsided
in this moment
824
00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,960
"as the relationship I thought
was going so incredibly well
825
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:05,240
"was potentially a lie."
826
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:08,360
"That realisation hit me hard.
827
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:13,320
"I questioned our relationship,
you as a person and even myself.
828
00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:19,000
"It made me question if I'd really
fallen in love with you
829
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:20,800
"or just the idea of you.
830
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:27,160
"After feedback week, we moved
straight into homestays.
831
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:30,360
"I went in feeling hurt,
unsure about our relationship
832
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,040
"and doubting our future.
833
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:37,360
"We managed to find our way back
and find hope in each other again.
834
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,440
"But I'd be lying
if I said I wasn't concerned...
835
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:47,640
"concerned that your feelings
will never match mine.
836
00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:54,400
"I've wondered if you can give me
what I need emotionally
837
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:56,280
"or if you feel like
we're forcing something
838
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,080
"that doesn't come naturally to you.
839
00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:03,680
"I don't want either of us
to feel like we're settling
840
00:44:03,720 --> 00:44:06,240
"or to be in a relationship where
one of us isn't truly fulfilled.
841
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:11,160
"I deserved to be loved, Dave,
842
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:13,800
"and I just don't know
whether I'm willing to wait to see
843
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:15,000
"if you can get there too.
844
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:21,120
"But I also know that I'm not ready
to walk away from this
845
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:22,240
"or from you."
846
00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:25,400
Aw!
847
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:28,200
"And my heart tells me
that I'm not ready to let go of you
848
00:44:28,240 --> 00:44:29,680
"and everything
we've built together."
849
00:44:31,360 --> 00:44:34,120
"So, yes, I do want to
take this relationship
850
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:35,240
"beyond the experiment
851
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,280
"because I don't think
it's the end of our story.
852
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:41,440
"In fact, it may just be
the beginning."
853
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:44,480
That's so sweet!
(LAUGHS)
854
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:47,080
(BOTH LAUGH)
855
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,240
Cue the music.
We did it.
856
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,440
(RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS)
857
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:52,800
Well done.
858
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:59,280
(BOTH LAUGH)
859
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:01,520
I wish I could wrap my legs
around you but I'll split my dress.
860
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:03,280
Later. Later.
(LAUGHS)
861
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:05,840
We did it. I was about to say,
"Please don't put a plot twist.
862
00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:07,920
"I'm not in the mood."
(BOTH LAUGH)
863
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,280
Obviously I'm so excited to be
standing here with Dave.
864
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:13,120
Like, I'm so happy. Like, we've put
in so much work for so long.
865
00:45:13,160 --> 00:45:15,000
It wasn't for nothing.
866
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:17,560
We're finally at this place
where we're both on the same page
867
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:19,440
and we want to give it a go,
that we're both optimistic.
868
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:22,400
OK. Let's go, my little backpack.
(LAUGHS)
869
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:25,120
I came here for my man
and I'm leaving with my man.
870
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:28,360
How good. We did it.
Yeah.
871
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,080
Love.
872
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:33,200
This experiment's taught me so much
about myself and her
873
00:45:33,240 --> 00:45:34,320
and I feel like, to me,
874
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:37,040
Jamie's someone that I value
very much in my life.
875
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:40,520
We should celebrate
with skinny-dipping in the pond.
876
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:42,040
(BOTH LAUGH)
877
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:43,320
That's the dynamic.
878
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:46,160
Yin and yang. Hot and cold...
Very much so.
879
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:47,240
..kind of vibe.
880
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:50,600
I mean, you're calm, I'm crazy,
so it's, like, we just balance.
881
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:51,720
Very true.
882
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:53,080
And plus,
how boring would his life be
883
00:45:53,120 --> 00:45:55,080
if he didn't have a little spicy wog
in there?
884
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:56,640
That's true.
885
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,360
I need to walk funny
so my heels don't get stuck.
886
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,440
(LAUGHS)
887
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:06,440
NARRATOR: Still to come...
888
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:09,440
Would you be happy for your daughter
to be with someone like Adrian?
889
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:15,600
..the most unexpected end
to a final vows ever seen.
890
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:17,960
"Awhina, I have real feelings
for you."
891
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:21,080
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
892
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:28,520
NARRATOR: After several days apart,
893
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:33,120
Awhina and Adrian are reflecting
on their tumultuous marriage
894
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:37,920
and weighing up the life-changing
decision in front of them.
895
00:46:37,960 --> 00:46:42,120
ADRIAN: Going into finals vows,
this decision's huge.
896
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:46,040
I'm not quite sure where I am right
now and what I want to do with it.
897
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:50,680
AWHINA: Throughout this experiment,
we've had a lot of ups and downs.
898
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,560
Our relationship has
definitely been a rollercoaster
899
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:56,720
'cause Adrian and I
are just both fiery personalities.
900
00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:01,080
But I don't think I've hidden
from anybody
901
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:02,600
throughout this entire experiment
902
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:04,800
how physically attracted I am
to Adrian.
903
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:08,520
Adrian and I
definitely have chemistry.
904
00:47:08,560 --> 00:47:10,640
It's like the devil comes out
when he smiles at me.
905
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:14,280
He has, like,
this cheeky little smirk he does.
906
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:16,160
It's so hot. (LAUGHS)
907
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:18,640
Like, some things,
like sparks and connections,
908
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:19,880
is just something you can't explain.
909
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:23,920
That is there, 100%, no questions.
910
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,280
Me and Awhina
have had our ups and downs,
911
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:29,880
but the most challenging thing
for our relationship
912
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:31,840
is we live in different states.
913
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:38,000
How do we navigate a relationship
when one of us lives in Sydney
914
00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:39,440
and the other lives in WA?
915
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:43,600
I have a son to think about.
916
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:47,240
I don't know if we're strong enough
as a couple right now
917
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:48,320
to make that work.
918
00:47:50,880 --> 00:47:52,920
NARRATOR: Hoping for
some much-needed advice...
919
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:56,560
Hi, Fifi.
Hey, twinnie.
920
00:47:56,600 --> 00:48:00,280
..Awhina is chatting with
her twin sister Cleo.
921
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:03,680
It's final vows, Fi.
What are you gonna do?
922
00:48:03,720 --> 00:48:05,600
What am I gonna do?
923
00:48:05,640 --> 00:48:10,520
Again, I'm still confused about
what I'm gonna do.
924
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:13,840
And what do you think
Adrian's gonna say at the end?
925
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:20,280
I don't know,
but he lives in Sydney.
926
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:22,880
He's pretty adamant that's his home
927
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:27,440
and...I'm not planning
on moving to Sydney.
928
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:29,600
Yeah.
929
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:33,200
And I know
that even without long distance,
930
00:48:33,240 --> 00:48:35,360
we would have real hurdles.
931
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:37,560
If his life is never going to be
in Perth
932
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:39,320
and your life
is never going to be in Sydney...
933
00:48:43,400 --> 00:48:44,680
it would never work.
934
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:47,280
Yeah.
935
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:50,840
You and I both know I've got
feelings for Adrian. (LAUGHS)
936
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:52,080
Yes.
937
00:48:57,240 --> 00:48:59,960
I do think Adrian's got feelings
for me.
938
00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:05,000
He does have a caring side.
939
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:09,280
I don't think Adrian's a bad person.
940
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:12,240
Do I think he's good enough for you?
No.
941
00:49:14,240 --> 00:49:17,080
I don't think he really gets
involved in your life much.
942
00:49:17,120 --> 00:49:19,720
I don't think he asks a lot
about your life back home.
943
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,880
I think, from the start,
he was very much for himself.
944
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:25,840
If you could honestly ask yourself,
945
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,560
would you be happy,
if you had a daughter,
946
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:31,440
for your daughter to be
with someone like Adrian?
947
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:49,560
It's time for Awhina and Adrian to
declare their feelings at final vows
948
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:54,680
and with it, make a decision that
could change their lives forever.
949
00:49:56,680 --> 00:49:58,520
AWHINA: My vows
have been hard to write
950
00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:03,080
and I've been really conflicted
on the direction to go
951
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:06,240
and I feel like I keep changing
my mind.
952
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:11,320
Adrian and I, we do have
some massive hurdles
953
00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:15,800
and I'm not sure those issues are
something he or I could overcome.
954
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:21,320
But at the same time,
when I'm spending time with Adrian,
955
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:23,760
we do have chemistry.
956
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:26,840
I can definitely see a future
with someone like Adrian.
957
00:50:29,680 --> 00:50:30,920
ADRIAN: At the end of the day,
958
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:32,840
I came here
to walk away with a relationship
959
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:35,400
and very rare do you find someone
960
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:38,160
that makes you feel comfortable
with who you are.
961
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:41,600
I met a beautiful person in Awhina.
962
00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:45,760
We have a connection there
and we do care for each other
963
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:47,280
and it just feels right.
964
00:50:50,120 --> 00:50:53,160
But at the same time,
to make it work,
965
00:50:53,200 --> 00:50:56,920
we both need to be 100% certain
that there is a future...
966
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:01,840
because it is a huge commitment.
967
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:05,280
I might have to move my whole
lifestyle somewhere else...
968
00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:08,560
away from my family,
away from my friends.
969
00:51:08,600 --> 00:51:12,920
But I ask myself,
is that really what I want to do
970
00:51:12,960 --> 00:51:14,800
and is this relationship
really worth it?
971
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,840
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
972
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,880
My decision right now
is definitely the right decision.
973
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:31,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
974
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:39,760
AWHINA: By saying yes and continuing
things on the outside,
975
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:44,040
am I just leading myself
to future heartbreak...
976
00:51:46,520 --> 00:51:49,160
when long distance
doesn't work out?
977
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:55,760
But then again, am I ready to stop
talking or seeing Adrian forever?
978
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:58,720
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
979
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:06,360
What's happening? Mmm?
980
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:09,000
How are you feeling?
981
00:52:09,040 --> 00:52:10,800
(SARCASTICALLY) Great.
982
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
983
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:34,800
What's happening? Mmm?
984
00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:39,160
How are you feeling?
985
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:41,560
(SARCASTICALLY) Great.
986
00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:45,040
Well, I might as well start.
987
00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:51,840
"Awhina...
988
00:52:54,640 --> 00:52:56,800
"coming into this experiment
four months ago,
989
00:52:56,840 --> 00:52:58,800
"I was standing at the altar...
990
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:02,520
"excited,
991
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:04,920
"knowing my future person
would be walking down the aisle."
992
00:53:09,720 --> 00:53:11,560
"I remember the moment
I first saw you.
993
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:15,160
"I thought,
'This man is way too hot.
994
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:17,920
"'What am I getting myself into?'"
(LAUGHTER)
995
00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:20,000
Hey, how you going? I'm Adrian.
996
00:53:20,040 --> 00:53:21,600
Hi.
Nice to meet you.
997
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:23,840
You're actually way too hot.
I'm actually not happy.
998
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:25,520
OK.
(LAUGHTER)
999
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:28,200
"I can confirm
I still think you're way too hot."
1000
00:53:28,240 --> 00:53:29,760
(LAUGHS)
1001
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:32,360
"But I've come to see
that you're also kind, funny,
1002
00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:34,200
"stubborn, creative and curious.
1003
00:53:34,240 --> 00:53:37,320
"I see the potential for us
to build a beautiful life together.
1004
00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:42,160
"I can't deny that we have
this unexplainable chemistry."
1005
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,320
"Our energy towards one another
is undeniable.
1006
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:54,080
"It's a connection...
I can't explain it in words.
1007
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:57,880
"We could have fun
doing the most simple task
1008
00:53:57,920 --> 00:53:59,520
"and end up with sore cheeks
from smiling too much.
1009
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:03,920
"You make me laugh, you challenge me
and you make me feel seen.
1010
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:07,040
"In those moments,
you have made me see
1011
00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:08,400
"a possible happy future with you."
1012
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,560
"When things are good,
they truly are great."
1013
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:18,640
(EXHALES)
1014
00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:21,520
"Our journey has been
a mix of ups and downs,
1015
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:23,640
"often leaving me unsure
where we stand...
1016
00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:27,040
"and there have been times
I've felt disappointed
1017
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:28,120
"by the support
I've received from you.
1018
00:54:29,520 --> 00:54:31,040
"Sometimes in this experiment,
1019
00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:33,520
"I didn't feel seen by you,
truly seen.
1020
00:54:35,520 --> 00:54:37,840
"I tried my best at times to express
what I need from you
1021
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:39,680
"and it often felt like
a losing battle."
1022
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:44,840
"Looking back, I can admit
1023
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:46,880
"I could have been a better partner
to you.
1024
00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:51,320
"We've both felt like we haven't had
each other's back
1025
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:54,280
"and that we haven't shown up
for each other."
1026
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,520
"The fact you live in Sydney
while I have my life in Perth...
1027
00:55:04,720 --> 00:55:07,400
"my son's life is there,
my community is there
1028
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:10,120
"and just as mine is in Perth,
yours is in Sydney.
1029
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:16,240
"The brown-haired, brown-eyed boy
I've been looking for is at home,
1030
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:17,360
"missing his mum.
1031
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:24,160
"You're not my future right now.
1032
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:30,080
"This is where our journey ends."
1033
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:33,120
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
1034
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:45,400
"You are an amazing mother
1035
00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:47,520
"and I understand how important
it is for you to get back to Perth
1036
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:48,720
"to be with your son.
1037
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:52,800
"And that's the problem.
1038
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:57,160
"After everything, I believe these
hurdles are too big to overcome,
1039
00:55:57,200 --> 00:56:00,840
"which is why I'm now deciding
that it's best for both of us
1040
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:03,120
"that I walk away."
1041
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:06,080
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1042
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:11,040
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
1043
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:40,600
Don't look at me like that, Adrian.
1044
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:55,920
Stop smiling at me.
1045
00:57:02,720 --> 00:57:06,360
You have said you wouldn't want to
do this experience
1046
00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:07,880
with anyone else.
1047
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:12,640
Yeah.
1048
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:16,160
Do you want to spend time with me
tonight?
1049
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:18,800
Yeah.
1050
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:23,280
Do you want to still talk to me?
1051
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:25,440
Yeah, of course.
1052
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:28,840
Is that on a friendship level
or is that romantic?
1053
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:34,680
But you're choosing to walk away.
1054
00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:39,080
Adrian, you like me.
1055
00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:40,360
I know I do.
1056
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:42,160
Yeah, I know you do.
1057
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:46,280
Right now, we're both saying
we like each other.
1058
00:57:46,320 --> 00:57:49,200
Well, I mean, like I said...
Adrian...
1059
00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:55,520
It's whether or not you still
want to see where this goes
1060
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:57,440
and clearly you still do.
1061
00:57:57,480 --> 00:57:59,640
I do, but then I think about...
No, you do.
1062
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:01,040
That's the answer.
Yeah, but...
1063
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:02,160
You do.
But the reality...
1064
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:03,680
You do.
I do, but the reality...
1065
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:04,920
(BOTH LAUGH)
1066
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:06,520
Then our answers sound stupid.
1067
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:11,800
I feel like we looked at
this decision too black-and-white.
1068
00:58:13,240 --> 00:58:14,720
Yeah.
1069
00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:19,560
Do you want to try right now,
though, and see what...
1070
00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:20,640
Yeah, but...
1071
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:23,600
..our connection looks like
outside of this experiment, Adrian?
1072
00:58:25,640 --> 00:58:28,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1073
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:41,280
That's all I'm asking.
1074
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:44,440
Yes.
1075
00:58:46,240 --> 00:58:47,680
Hmm.
1076
00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:51,280
OK. Cool.
1077
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:54,720
I hope you realise
the decision's been made now.
1078
00:58:56,080 --> 00:58:58,320
Yeah, it is.
1079
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:05,880
Of course.
1080
00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:11,920
You can explain this.
(LAUGHS)
1081
00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:14,080
Why do I have to explain everything?
1082
00:59:14,120 --> 00:59:16,160
I think I did most of the talking
in there.
1083
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:19,600
I was feeling really, like,
anxious out there
1084
00:59:19,640 --> 00:59:21,280
when I was walking down the stairs.
1085
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:26,680
Yeah, we're going out together
1086
00:59:26,720 --> 00:59:29,200
and I think we both know
the situation we're in.
1087
00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:31,680
There's no pressure to it.
(LAUGHS)
1088
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:34,640
So we're just gonna go back home
1089
00:59:34,680 --> 00:59:36,480
and see where we stand
and how we go.
1090
00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:39,800
(KISS)
1091
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:41,040
Awhina's a lucky woman.
1092
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:42,880
Oh, of course.
1093
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:46,520
Definitely still the same Adrian.
(LAUGHS)
1094
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:02,520
The future is bright.
1095
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:04,640
(BOTH LAUGH)
1096
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:09,120
NARRATOR: Coming up...
1097
01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:12,200
You went and met up
with another woman.
1098
01:00:12,240 --> 01:00:16,680
I feel like I'm not worthy, I'm not
blonde, I don't have long legs,
1099
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:18,520
like, I'm not skinny enough...
1100
01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:22,280
..can Carina move past the hurt
and forgive Paul again?
1101
01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:24,840
What is inside your heart?
1102
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:33,680
(BELLS RING)
1103
01:00:33,720 --> 01:00:37,600
NARRATOR: In Sydney,
Carina's mum, Carmel,
1104
01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:41,760
has flown all the way from Perth
to be by her daughter's side
1105
01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:44,720
while she makes
this momentous decision.
1106
01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:48,400
We have the church behind us.
1107
01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:50,000
The cathedral.
Yep.
1108
01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:52,880
St Mary's Cathedral.
It's beautiful.
1109
01:00:55,920 --> 01:00:59,480
My mum knows that I'm not
in the best frame of mind.
1110
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:02,800
She knows my headspace
is all over the shop.
1111
01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:07,600
So, yeah, I just really want to tell
her what I'm currently going through
1112
01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:10,000
so she can give me the right advice,
1113
01:01:10,040 --> 01:01:13,520
because her opinion
means so much to me.
1114
01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:18,360
So, Carina, the last time I saw you,
you were at home with Paul
1115
01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:20,040
and things looked great.
1116
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:25,680
Obviously, coming back
to Sydney, we were on a high.
1117
01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:27,000
We were so happy
1118
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:31,240
and I think the last week
has changed dramatically.
1119
01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:35,760
Last week, we had our final task
by the experts
1120
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:39,520
to see if we wanted to go on
a date with someone
1121
01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:44,320
that they matched us with
and thought we were compatible with
1122
01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:48,920
and Paul decided to go on a date
with another woman.
1123
01:01:48,960 --> 01:01:51,320
Oh, Carina!
Yeah.
1124
01:01:54,520 --> 01:01:57,600
Are you thinking that,
like, I'm gonna be OK with that?
1125
01:01:57,640 --> 01:02:00,360
Like, you didn't consider
my feelings again!
1126
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:03,240
Let's stop this (BLEEP) now.
No! I'm (BLEEP) done!
1127
01:02:03,280 --> 01:02:05,560
I'm actually done.
Get your shit and leave.
1128
01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:07,000
(SIGHS)
I'm done.
1129
01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:17,000
It instantly... I just was shocked
by the choice that he made
1130
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:19,080
and it's just not good enough
for me.
1131
01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:20,600
No, it's not good enough.
1132
01:02:20,640 --> 01:02:23,760
I feel very shocked to hear
what happened with Carina
1133
01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:28,000
because at homestay,
Paul came across beautifully
1134
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:30,600
and I thought that they gelled
so well together.
1135
01:02:30,640 --> 01:02:34,800
I'm just devastated.
Absolutely devastated.
1136
01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:38,440
It's fully disrespected me.
He has.
1137
01:02:38,480 --> 01:02:44,200
Like, I understand it's OK
to be curious, but don't act on it.
1138
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:46,280
If we're going out
into the real world
1139
01:02:46,320 --> 01:02:49,440
and we are faced with a situation
like this...
1140
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:50,840
You face big temptations
every day in life.
1141
01:02:50,880 --> 01:02:52,240
Yeah.
1142
01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:54,240
And you cannot fall
for these temptations.
1143
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:56,960
He came back and he was, like,
"I missed you so much.
1144
01:02:57,000 --> 01:02:59,800
"I was talking about you
the whole time"
1145
01:02:59,840 --> 01:03:00,840
and I was, like,
1146
01:03:00,880 --> 01:03:04,400
"The fact is that you went
and met up with another woman."
1147
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:09,320
That is so detrimental
on any woman's self-esteem.
1148
01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:11,720
Like, I have such low self-esteem
1149
01:03:11,760 --> 01:03:17,720
when I've worked so hard to build
what I am inside and out
1150
01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:19,520
and then when this happens,
1151
01:03:19,560 --> 01:03:22,520
I feel like all of that
has just come crashing down
1152
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:25,720
and I'm not good enough,
I'm not worthy, I'm not blonde,
1153
01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:28,600
I don't have long legs,
like, I'm not skinny enough.
1154
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:30,640
Like, these are all things
that are going in my mind
1155
01:03:30,680 --> 01:03:32,800
because he did that, Mum.
1156
01:03:32,840 --> 01:03:35,920
It's, like, I'm not the one doing
the wrong, but I'm copping it.
1157
01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:39,840
Yeah.
Like, it's a lose-lose situation.
1158
01:03:39,880 --> 01:03:45,040
And I'm, like, envisioning him
at that restaurant
1159
01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:48,640
or at the bar like with another
woman and I'm just, like, "Why?
1160
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:51,080
"Like, just say no."
1161
01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:54,800
But the fact that he didn't even
realise he's hurting you...
1162
01:03:54,840 --> 01:03:56,520
Exactly, Mum.
..is upsetting.
1163
01:03:56,560 --> 01:03:58,600
That's lacking
emotional intelligence.
1164
01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:00,440
That's exactly
what the experts said.
1165
01:04:00,480 --> 01:04:03,080
Does he make you happy at all?
He does.
1166
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:04,280
Yeah.
Yeah.
1167
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:06,160
But that's why I'm hurt,
because I'm, like, how...
1168
01:04:06,200 --> 01:04:08,640
Like, why do you not know me?
1169
01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:11,040
(CRIES)
1170
01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:14,360
I'm just angry.
Yes.
1171
01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:15,680
Disappointed.
1172
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:19,720
This has hurt her deeply,
1173
01:04:19,760 --> 01:04:23,800
but I'm really in two minds
1174
01:04:23,840 --> 01:04:27,120
because from what she told me
throughout the experiment,
1175
01:04:27,160 --> 01:04:31,000
they were supportive of each other,
they were happy together,
1176
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:34,080
she felt she was paired up
with the right person.
1177
01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:36,120
(BOTH LAUGH)
1178
01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:44,040
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
(GLASSES TINKLE)
1179
01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:45,120
(PAUL LAUGHS)
1180
01:04:47,400 --> 01:04:49,760
It's a choice that's not as easy
1181
01:04:49,800 --> 01:04:51,720
as what I thought it would've been
for her.
1182
01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:56,320
He's made the wrong choice,
but we make mistakes in life
1183
01:04:56,360 --> 01:04:58,200
and we need to forgive.
1184
01:04:58,240 --> 01:05:01,160
That's part of our faith,
our Christian faith, Carina,
1185
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:03,560
where we do need to forgive people.
1186
01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:06,000
At the end of the day,
we are human beings
1187
01:05:06,040 --> 01:05:08,400
and we do make mistakes in life.
1188
01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:11,840
I think if she looks at the happy
times that they've had together...
1189
01:05:11,880 --> 01:05:14,640
Yeah.
..maybe she can forgive him.
1190
01:05:14,680 --> 01:05:16,960
What is inside your heart?
1191
01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:19,000
You need to go with your heart.
1192
01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:22,560
And if you think
he's genuinely sorry,
1193
01:05:22,600 --> 01:05:25,840
maybe you can find it
in your heart to forgive him
1194
01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:28,360
and move forward.
1195
01:05:28,400 --> 01:05:31,000
Yeah.
1196
01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:35,720
You need to pray about it
and ask God for his blessings
1197
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:37,720
and it's up to you, my dear.
1198
01:05:39,160 --> 01:05:41,160
I can't make the decision for you.
1199
01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:43,080
OK? But we'll be here for you.
Thank you.
1200
01:05:43,120 --> 01:05:45,120
Love you.
Love you too.
1201
01:05:45,160 --> 01:05:48,400
CARINA: Paul made a mistake
and that's very evident.
1202
01:05:48,440 --> 01:05:49,840
We make mistakes.
1203
01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:55,880
I think I have to figure out
if I can move on and forgive him.
1204
01:05:57,360 --> 01:06:00,840
My mum's wisdom
has definitely given me more clarity
1205
01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:02,880
about the decision
I'm going to make.
1206
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:26,280
NARRATOR: The final vows ceremony
has arrived for Carina and Paul.
1207
01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:30,760
Today they will reveal their
true feelings for one another...
1208
01:06:32,440 --> 01:06:35,800
and make a life-changing decision.
1209
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:41,240
And the moment can't come
quick enough for Paul...
1210
01:06:42,520 --> 01:06:46,040
who is in no doubt
about his decision today,
1211
01:06:46,080 --> 01:06:48,960
as he is desperate to reconnect
with Carina.
1212
01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:51,840
PAUL: I look forward
to seeing Carina.
1213
01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:53,800
I'm really excited to see her face.
I haven't seen her in a few days.
1214
01:06:53,840 --> 01:06:54,960
I've missed her heaps.
1215
01:06:57,600 --> 01:07:01,760
And I can't wait to be able
to deliver my vows...
1216
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:06,360
yeah, express to her
how much I like her.
1217
01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:11,680
This whole journey, you know,
it's been beautiful,
1218
01:07:11,720 --> 01:07:12,760
it's been amazing.
1219
01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:17,080
There's been
many, many beautiful moments.
1220
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:18,680
Just a couple of hiccups
along the way.
1221
01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:26,200
We've just come out of
a bit of a rough moment,
1222
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:27,800
you know, so I'm just hoping
1223
01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:30,040
that she's gonna be willing
to forgive me for that
1224
01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:33,040
and to move forward and to continue
this relationship on the outside.
1225
01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:37,960
Hopefully she's gonna reflect on
1226
01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:39,360
all these beautiful moments
that we've had
1227
01:07:39,400 --> 01:07:41,680
and, you know, on that strong
connection that we've had
1228
01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:43,320
from pretty much day one
1229
01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:46,160
and, yeah, I'm hoping that
she's gonna express all that.
1230
01:07:49,320 --> 01:07:52,440
I'm feeling extremely, extremely
confident about my decision.
1231
01:07:54,120 --> 01:07:55,680
Right now,
the only thing that I want
1232
01:07:55,720 --> 01:07:58,320
is I just want Carina to tell me
that she's forgiven me
1233
01:07:58,360 --> 01:08:01,360
and that she's OK with everything,
that she wants to move forward,
1234
01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:04,040
she want to continue
this relationship back in Perth,
1235
01:08:04,080 --> 01:08:09,440
that she wants to continue doing
life with me and that's all I want.
1236
01:08:19,360 --> 01:08:21,320
CARINA: It's one of
the biggest decisions
1237
01:08:21,360 --> 01:08:23,480
I've had to make in my life.
1238
01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:27,960
It's a weird feeling.
I feel really torn...
1239
01:08:29,920 --> 01:08:31,320
because I have been hurt
1240
01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:32,960
and I don't want to get hurt
anymore.
1241
01:08:35,400 --> 01:08:40,840
But at the same time, I don't want
to give up on what we've built.
1242
01:08:43,480 --> 01:08:46,400
We've created so many
wonderful memories together...
1243
01:08:48,040 --> 01:08:51,040
and we have a strong connection.
1244
01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:59,120
I can see a future with Paul.
1245
01:08:59,160 --> 01:09:00,400
(MEN LAUGH)
1246
01:09:00,440 --> 01:09:02,720
And he really did get along
with my family.
1247
01:09:02,760 --> 01:09:06,520
My family were, like, "Wow,
he fits in so easily and so well."
1248
01:09:06,560 --> 01:09:10,120
We're very happy to have you
as part of our family, Paul.
1249
01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:11,160
Thank you.
1250
01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:13,080
And just remember,
perseverance and forgiveness.
1251
01:09:13,120 --> 01:09:15,720
Mmm.
You need to forgive.
1252
01:09:15,760 --> 01:09:18,160
I know that relationships
are not easy
1253
01:09:18,200 --> 01:09:22,880
and I was raised on forgiveness
and seeing the good in people.
1254
01:09:27,640 --> 01:09:30,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1255
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:40,240
CARINA: There are so many
great qualities about Paul.
1256
01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:41,920
I never felt
coming into this experiment
1257
01:09:41,960 --> 01:09:44,160
that I would just feel
so comfortable.
1258
01:09:44,200 --> 01:09:47,720
I'm very grateful for that
and I'm very grateful for Carina.
1259
01:09:47,760 --> 01:09:49,040
But the way you look,
1260
01:09:49,080 --> 01:09:51,120
I don't even know if I want to
get to the dinner party anymore.
1261
01:09:51,160 --> 01:09:52,640
(BOTH LAUGH)
1262
01:09:58,520 --> 01:10:00,760
But then there's also
the other side...
1263
01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:03,080
(TENSE MUSIC)
1264
01:10:03,120 --> 01:10:07,440
..where there have been red flags
throughout the experiment.
1265
01:10:07,480 --> 01:10:08,800
(GLASS TINKLES)
1266
01:10:09,920 --> 01:10:13,560
I did something
that I absolutely regret.
1267
01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:23,600
CARINA: Trust is a real big one
for me
1268
01:10:23,640 --> 01:10:24,760
and it's so important and crucial
1269
01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:28,800
and for my own partner to have
my back, no matter what.
1270
01:10:33,840 --> 01:10:35,960
I feel like there's been times
in the experiment
1271
01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:38,360
when Paul has thrown me
under the bus.
1272
01:10:39,880 --> 01:10:42,160
PAUL: So I feel like
she is a bit of a snob sometimes.
1273
01:10:45,400 --> 01:10:47,920
Paul has let me down
on multiple occasions
1274
01:10:47,960 --> 01:10:49,800
throughout this experiment.
1275
01:10:49,840 --> 01:10:52,600
I want to give him
the benefit of the doubt,
1276
01:10:52,640 --> 01:10:56,080
but I can't stop fixating
on the thought
1277
01:10:56,120 --> 01:11:00,200
and the fact that he did action
his curiosity
1278
01:11:00,240 --> 01:11:03,160
and he went and met up
with another woman.
1279
01:11:03,200 --> 01:11:05,120
When I was there...
No!
1280
01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:07,680
..I was so embarrassed and I was
talking about you the whole time.
1281
01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:09,560
No, don't do it with other girls!
1282
01:11:09,600 --> 01:11:11,800
I'm worth so much more than this!
No, no, no, wait!
1283
01:11:11,840 --> 01:11:14,840
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1284
01:11:16,080 --> 01:11:18,600
But even with everything
that's happened...
1285
01:11:19,720 --> 01:11:25,560
I still have feelings towards him,
I care for him, I really miss him.
1286
01:11:28,960 --> 01:11:31,400
And I crumble when I see him.
1287
01:11:31,440 --> 01:11:34,360
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1288
01:11:41,240 --> 01:11:42,680
Wow. (LAUGHS)
1289
01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:46,640
Wow. (LAUGHS)
1290
01:11:46,680 --> 01:11:48,360
Hey.
Hi.
1291
01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:50,200
How are you?
How are you?
1292
01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:52,200
You look so good.
It's so good to see you.
1293
01:11:52,240 --> 01:11:53,600
God, I miss you.
1294
01:11:56,920 --> 01:11:58,720
You look so good.
1295
01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:02,560
How are you feeling?
1296
01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:04,480
Nervous.
1297
01:12:04,520 --> 01:12:07,080
Nervous. Yes. Me too. Me too.
1298
01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:16,440
Alright. Well... (LAUGHS)
I guess I'll start. (LAUGHS)
1299
01:12:16,480 --> 01:12:19,480
(TENSE MUSIC)
1300
01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:25,880
NARRATOR: Tomorrow night...
1301
01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:30,080
"Ryan, in a world of red flags,
you are the red carpet."
1302
01:12:31,680 --> 01:12:36,160
..the most unexpected
and explosive final vows ever seen.
1303
01:12:36,200 --> 01:12:38,720
"I'm not
a rehabilitation centre..."
1304
01:12:38,760 --> 01:12:40,200
(LAUGHS) Sorry, that's ridiculous.
1305
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:42,280
Don't call my final vows ridiculous.
1306
01:12:42,320 --> 01:12:44,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1307
01:12:44,720 --> 01:12:45,760
Plus...
1308
01:12:45,800 --> 01:12:48,320
JEFF: It's very rare that people
go from a romantic relationship
1309
01:12:48,360 --> 01:12:51,320
to a friendship, then back to
a romantic relationship.
1310
01:12:51,360 --> 01:12:54,120
..Rhi and Jeff's final vows...
1311
01:12:54,160 --> 01:12:57,760
"You are worth every day,
every week, every month it takes
1312
01:12:57,800 --> 01:12:59,200
"to discover
our happily ever after."
1313
01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:04,600
It's the love story
of the experiment.
1314
01:13:04,640 --> 01:13:07,720
Rhi, I am falling in love with you.
1315
01:13:10,480 --> 01:13:11,960
And...
1316
01:13:12,000 --> 01:13:13,000
Paul...
1317
01:13:13,040 --> 01:13:18,040
..the dramatic conclusion
to Carina and Paul's final vows.
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