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Tell Curtis it's time to go.
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Thank you.
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Hey, Ma, Hey, Jazzy.
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Hi, Calvin.
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You guys ready to go?
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Yes.
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Baby, where is
Miranda and the kids?
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Calvin Junior got a
haircut, so she went
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to take him to get a new hat.
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Huh?
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What?
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Who cut his hair?
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I did.
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Why did you do that?
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Why did you do that today?
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We're trying to take
pictures with my mother
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and the grandkids.
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How can we take pictures
with no grandkids?
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Photoshop.
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She'll be here soon.
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You know what?
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Sometimes, you just don't
get it, do you, baby?
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What's up family?
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Hey, CJ.
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Hey, baby.
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Wait a minute, don't
tell me Janine is
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still at home getting dressed.
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- No, she's in the car.
- Good.
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Good.
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Good.
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On her way to pick up Malik.
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Wait, wait, wait.
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I thought he was
catching the bus home.
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He got on the wrong bus.
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Did he?
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You know what?
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He's going to meet us there.
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CJ!
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What else could go wrong?
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Miranda is not here.
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Janine is not here.
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OK!
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Jazzy, [inaudible].
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All right, come on.
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Let's get this over with.
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Curtis, what are you doing?
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What?
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Going to take pictures
with your Mama.
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Then I'm going fishing!
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You know, they got the
best lakes up there, CJ.
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No, you're not.
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No, you're not.
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Yes, I am.
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Baby, Jazmine had
her heart set on it.
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Uncle Curtis, I never said
anything about going fishing.
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You know I love her so much.
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I used to be his excuse
to fish when I was your age.
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Go change, baby.
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Please.
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Just go.
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Please.
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Go change.
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Hello.
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Hi, Evey.
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Yes, baby, we are
running a little late,
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but we're on our way.
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We're actually-- You're
on your way here?
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Why?
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What?
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What's wrong?
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Mama is gone.
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Again?
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Ella, y'all need to buy
a Lojack for your Mama.
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No, Curtis.
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My mother just died.
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[theme music]
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OK.
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We just need to keep
her strength up.
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That's all.
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Good.
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Because I got her
some leftovers.
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No, no, CJ.
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No, get her the-- she'll eat
the granola and the yogurt.
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That's what she likes.
- No, wait.
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Wait, wait.
She probably wants some fruit.
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Strawberries and raspberries.
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Oh, no.
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No, Dad.
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Get her some hot tea.
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It'll help her relax.
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OK.
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Maybe we need to ask
her what she wants
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before I take any more orders.
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I'm fine.
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The last thing I need,
really, is people
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coming over here talking
about, "Ella, you
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gotta keep your strength.
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Ella, you got to eat something.
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And you know you like granola."
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[laughs] Yes, but god is good.
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You know, she was looking
through this photo album
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earlier.
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Maybe I could show
her some pictures!
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Help cheer her up.
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Here she comes.
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Here she comes.
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I'll show her this
one of her and her Mama.
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You know, if I so much
as see a picture of her,
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I'll just lose it!
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Yes?
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So what can we do now?
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I know what she's doing.
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She trying to act strong.
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She trying to act like
she got it all together.
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I know your mama.
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She going to come in here.
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She going to break down.
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And then we going to
have to comfort here.
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Then she's going to
pull it all together.
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And then she's going
to want some rest.
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Trust me.
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Auntie.
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Yeah, baby.
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I'm so sorry.
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Thank you CJ.
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It's OK.
- Yeah, Mama.
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What can we do?
We just want to--
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Calvin, I can tell you.
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We're going to have a
lot of company over here.
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So Curtis, I would really
appreciate if you would
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clean off their back porch.
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Calvin, could you please
clean out the back room
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and clean it up for my sister?
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CJ, when they bring
the food over,
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could you please
just serve it for me?
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Thank you.
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But, Aunt Ella, what do I do?
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Stay out of the kitchen.
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You know you can't cook.
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[laughter]
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I can cook.
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No, you can't.
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Hi!
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Hi girl.
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That traffic was a tough fight.
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Aw, well driving on that
interstate can be rough.
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No girl.
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I'm talking about a real fight.
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This truck driver
cut off this woman,
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and she got out of her
car and let him have it.
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Evie, that was you wasn't it?
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It was not the day.
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Oh that's--
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[laughter]
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Ella.
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How you doing, girl?
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I'm good.
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You know Mama would have
wanted us to be all right.
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That's not all she wanted.
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What do you mean?
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She had been working
on her last wishes
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for quite some time.
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OK.
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In a two page letter.
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Dearest girls, if
you are reading this,
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I've gone to Glory.
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And the yams were delicious.
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[laughter]
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What yams?
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Glory is a restaurant
near the home.
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[laughter]
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While there, I realized what
I wanted for my home going.
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A horse drawn carriage.
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That's classy.
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Doves a piece, to be
released at the cemetery.
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That's interesting.
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Everyone should wear a touch
of pink, my favorite color.
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That's Mama.
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An air conditioned coffin.
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[laughter]
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Just in case it
wasn't my time to go,
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please bury me with a telephone.
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Evie!
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A rotary phone with a cord,
cause I don't want to be down
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there and run out of minutes.
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You are joking!
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Mom!
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I wish I was.
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Well you know
better than mean.
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She was not in her right mind.
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Be that as it may,
this is what she wanted.
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OK, but that's ridiculous.
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An air conditioner in a coffin?
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What else in there?
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I don't know.
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I didn't read it all.
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Well let's just read it now.
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I-- I can't.
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Evie, we are going to
get through this, OK?
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I can't do this right now.
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Evelyn, wait.
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Please.
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What's wrong?
Evelyn!
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Just give me a minute!
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Why Marlow, why?
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[laughter]
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Marlow, why?
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Ah, OK.
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Ah.
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You're grieving?
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Of course, Cousin Curtis.
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Cousin?
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Just so sorry for our loss.
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OK.
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Thank you.
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Look here.
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I also want to offer my services
as a part time pallbearer
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at a freelance casket jumper.
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What?
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A part time pallbearer and
a freelance casket jumper.
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What is that?
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What?
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You don't know?
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Man, I will jump in the
casket before anybody
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else get a chance to.
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See?
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Mama, don't go!
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[laughter]
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Take me with you, take me
with you, take me with you!
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[laughter]
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How much it cost for
you to jump in the lake?
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Flip the card over.
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[laughter]
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I can't stand you.
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Look, there's nobody
jumping in no casket,
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it's not take kind
of funeral, OK?
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Ella wants to be simple,
elegant, and classy.
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This is how it's going to be.
- Really?
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How much are tickets?
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We're not selling
tickets for it?
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Two drink minimum?
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- No.
- Cool.
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[inaudible]
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[laughter]
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Ella?
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In here!
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You want some tea?
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No, thank you.
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I just spoke to
the funeral home.
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Good.
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And the total cost
is going to be $11,000.
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OK.
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Well then that settles it.
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We will not do everything
on Mama's list.
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You ain't got to
worry about that.
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I did not order
everything she wanted.
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Well, will her
insurance policy cover it?
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I should be asking you that?
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Because she didn't
leave me a dime.
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But she left you $100,000.
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OK.
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There must be some
type of mistake.
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Well she had
this big insurance
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policy, and one beneficiary.
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You!
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That can't be right.
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Ella.
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That's how she was.
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That's the mama you never knew.
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Why would she do that?
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Because she hated my father.
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She did not hate Daddy.
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Mama loved him until
the day he died.
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I said she hated my father.
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What are you talking about?
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Ella, you weren't just coming
home to take a family portrait.
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I told Mama it
was time you knew.
278
00:09:05,689 --> 00:09:06,379
Knew what?
279
00:09:09,103 --> 00:09:11,965
Mama had me before
she got married.
280
00:09:12,068 --> 00:09:13,827
And my daddy never came around.
281
00:09:13,931 --> 00:09:15,724
And then she met the man
who would be your father.
282
00:09:15,827 --> 00:09:17,137
Evie, no, no.
283
00:09:17,241 --> 00:09:19,068
I do not receive that.
284
00:09:19,172 --> 00:09:20,482
Ella, it's true.
285
00:09:20,586 --> 00:09:23,793
Listen, my mother dies, and
you come here to tell me this?
286
00:09:23,896 --> 00:09:24,655
Ella!
287
00:09:24,758 --> 00:09:25,965
It's not as bad as it sounds.
288
00:09:26,068 --> 00:09:27,344
Evie!
289
00:09:27,448 --> 00:09:31,310
Who else knew that my mother
had a child out of wedlock?
290
00:09:31,413 --> 00:09:33,965
Well, everybody.
291
00:09:34,068 --> 00:09:36,034
Everybody?
292
00:09:36,137 --> 00:09:37,241
Everybody but me?
293
00:09:37,344 --> 00:09:38,689
She didn't know how you
were going to take it.
294
00:09:38,793 --> 00:09:40,862
How am I'm
supposed to take it?
295
00:09:40,965 --> 00:09:42,275
Ella, calm down.
296
00:09:42,379 --> 00:09:43,275
Calm down.
297
00:09:43,379 --> 00:09:44,758
Evie, who was it?
298
00:09:44,862 --> 00:09:45,517
Who is he?
299
00:09:45,620 --> 00:09:46,310
Is he still alive?
300
00:09:46,413 --> 00:09:47,448
Who is he?
301
00:09:47,551 --> 00:09:49,689
Well, let's just
say that Uncle Bernard
302
00:09:49,793 --> 00:09:51,931
ain't really your uncle.
303
00:09:52,034 --> 00:09:54,586
The man with the
moonshine still in the woods
304
00:09:54,689 --> 00:09:55,758
with the wooden leg?
305
00:09:55,862 --> 00:09:56,689
That is your father?
306
00:09:56,793 --> 00:09:58,103
He was a war hero!
307
00:09:58,206 --> 00:10:01,827
A war hero who has
children all over town!
308
00:10:01,931 --> 00:10:03,310
That's not the point.
309
00:10:03,413 --> 00:10:06,137
Well why didn't
you tell me before?
310
00:10:06,241 --> 00:10:08,413
Because it wasn't my
place while she was alive.
311
00:10:08,517 --> 00:10:09,793
And I just thought--
- You know what?
312
00:10:09,896 --> 00:10:11,068
I don't want to hear any more.
I don't want to--
313
00:10:11,172 --> 00:10:12,482
enough.
OK?
314
00:10:12,586 --> 00:10:16,103
This is way too much for me to
have to deal with right now.
315
00:10:16,206 --> 00:10:17,931
I just need to go lay
down, unless, of course,
316
00:10:18,034 --> 00:10:21,275
you have something else that
you would like to spring on me.
317
00:10:21,379 --> 00:10:23,655
Besides me losing my job
and being in foreclosure?
318
00:10:23,758 --> 00:10:25,103
No, nothing at all.
319
00:10:30,620 --> 00:10:34,482
God, this is not funny.
320
00:10:34,586 --> 00:10:35,275
This is a mess.
321
00:10:41,448 --> 00:10:42,137
What do you think?
322
00:10:42,241 --> 00:10:43,586
Oh!
323
00:10:43,689 --> 00:10:45,551
Oh, Jazzy.
324
00:10:45,655 --> 00:10:47,103
You look beautiful.
325
00:10:47,206 --> 00:10:48,172
Well thank you.
326
00:10:48,275 --> 00:10:50,896
A splash of pink,
just like Mama wanted.
327
00:10:54,310 --> 00:10:58,448
So, Auntie Ella,
you going to be OK?
328
00:10:58,551 --> 00:11:00,379
Baby, I'm going to be fine.
329
00:11:00,482 --> 00:11:02,551
Thank you for asking.
330
00:11:02,655 --> 00:11:06,620
If you need someone to talk
to during your stages of grief,
331
00:11:06,724 --> 00:11:09,517
I'm here.
332
00:11:09,620 --> 00:11:11,793
Thank you.
333
00:11:11,896 --> 00:11:15,931
And it is also
very important that--
334
00:11:16,034 --> 00:11:18,206
that the subject--
335
00:11:18,310 --> 00:11:21,172
I mean, I mean you, you--
336
00:11:21,275 --> 00:11:25,517
that you move through
depression and all
337
00:11:25,620 --> 00:11:28,655
that you move on to acceptance.
338
00:11:28,758 --> 00:11:30,758
Oh really?
339
00:11:30,862 --> 00:11:32,896
And then what should
we do, Doctor?
340
00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:36,586
Well, Auntie Ella,
we should just--
341
00:11:36,689 --> 00:11:40,137
We should just--
342
00:11:40,241 --> 00:11:41,103
We should--
343
00:11:41,206 --> 00:11:42,517
Auntie Ella, look, we--
344
00:11:47,379 --> 00:11:51,068
We should what?
345
00:11:51,172 --> 00:11:52,827
We should-- we
should make sure I
346
00:11:52,931 --> 00:11:54,689
charge up my phone
before I try and diagnose
347
00:11:54,793 --> 00:11:55,517
you on the internet.
348
00:11:55,620 --> 00:11:57,517
[laughter]
349
00:11:57,620 --> 00:11:59,310
Thank you baby.
350
00:11:59,413 --> 00:12:02,379
But I am all right.
351
00:12:02,482 --> 00:12:03,310
OK?
352
00:12:03,413 --> 00:12:05,068
I'm all right.
353
00:12:05,172 --> 00:12:08,724
But thank you for
asking again and again.
354
00:12:08,827 --> 00:12:10,172
OK.
355
00:12:10,275 --> 00:12:14,793
But Auntie Ella, you haven't
cried or anything yet.
356
00:12:14,896 --> 00:12:17,068
Jazzy, my mother's
in a better place.
357
00:12:17,172 --> 00:12:20,172
And nothing can
bring me down today.
358
00:12:20,275 --> 00:12:21,827
It's for Grandma, Pop,
359
00:12:21,931 --> 00:12:23,448
Look, I don't care.
360
00:12:23,551 --> 00:12:25,172
Look, real men don't wear pink.
361
00:12:25,275 --> 00:12:28,758
Pink is the new black.
362
00:12:28,862 --> 00:12:30,482
And slapping is
the new high five.
363
00:12:30,586 --> 00:12:31,275
Come here.
364
00:12:31,379 --> 00:12:32,103
[laughter]
365
00:12:32,206 --> 00:12:32,965
Today, Curtis?
366
00:12:33,068 --> 00:12:33,758
Today?
367
00:12:38,310 --> 00:12:40,172
[laughter]
368
00:12:40,275 --> 00:12:41,241
See.
369
00:12:41,344 --> 00:12:42,310
Thank you.
370
00:12:42,413 --> 00:12:46,034
Real men do wear pink.
371
00:12:46,137 --> 00:12:47,517
Thank you.
372
00:12:47,620 --> 00:12:51,482
[gasps] There's a limit, Ella.
373
00:12:51,586 --> 00:12:54,758
[laughter]
374
00:12:54,862 --> 00:12:58,620
[SINGING] Swing
low sweet chariot.
375
00:13:01,965 --> 00:13:03,931
Coming for to carry me home.
376
00:13:04,034 --> 00:13:05,344
Lloyd.
377
00:13:05,448 --> 00:13:07,310
Will you please swing back to
whatever candy store you got
378
00:13:07,413 --> 00:13:09,172
that cotton candy suit from?
379
00:13:09,275 --> 00:13:09,965
[laughter]
380
00:13:10,068 --> 00:13:11,000
Look.
381
00:13:11,103 --> 00:13:12,586
Mother Thompson
would want all of us
382
00:13:12,689 --> 00:13:15,275
to be very kind to one
another today, all right?
383
00:13:15,379 --> 00:13:18,827
To make sure everyone's
needs are met.
384
00:13:18,931 --> 00:13:20,551
You ain't getting no money.
385
00:13:20,655 --> 00:13:22,689
It stays in the family.
386
00:13:22,793 --> 00:13:24,103
Cousin Curtis!
387
00:13:24,206 --> 00:13:25,551
I'm offended!
388
00:13:25,655 --> 00:13:29,551
Look, Mother Thompson simply
wanted all of us family members
389
00:13:29,655 --> 00:13:31,379
too wear a splash of pink.
390
00:13:31,482 --> 00:13:32,896
Oh, so that's why
you went swimming
391
00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:34,344
in a bottle of Pepto Bismol?
392
00:13:34,448 --> 00:13:35,172
[laughter]
393
00:13:35,275 --> 00:13:36,586
I see.
394
00:13:36,689 --> 00:13:38,758
Train a child and
away she go, huh?
395
00:13:38,862 --> 00:13:49,931
[laughter]
396
00:13:50,034 --> 00:13:51,275
Excuse me everybody.
397
00:13:51,379 --> 00:13:52,827
Excuse me everybody.
398
00:13:52,931 --> 00:13:53,620
Thank you!
399
00:13:53,724 --> 00:13:55,448
Thank you for coming!
400
00:13:55,551 --> 00:13:56,551
Thank you so much for coming!
401
00:13:56,655 --> 00:13:57,758
We're so glad you're here.
402
00:13:57,862 --> 00:13:59,517
And because
everybody did not get
403
00:13:59,620 --> 00:14:01,655
a chance to speak
at the funeral,
404
00:14:01,758 --> 00:14:03,793
we wanted to give
you an opportunity.
405
00:14:03,896 --> 00:14:06,344
So we're going to start with
Calvin, my youngest son.
406
00:14:09,724 --> 00:14:11,551
Hey.
407
00:14:11,655 --> 00:14:16,724
My grandmother was a gentle,
strong, bold, and honest woman.
408
00:14:16,827 --> 00:14:18,137
And I'll never forget her.
409
00:14:18,241 --> 00:14:20,344
She was an amazing matriarch.
410
00:14:20,448 --> 00:14:23,137
One day, I called her
and I said, Grandma.
411
00:14:23,241 --> 00:14:24,517
This is your favorite grandson.
412
00:14:24,620 --> 00:14:25,689
She said, hey Tony.
413
00:14:28,724 --> 00:14:29,827
I said, no.
414
00:14:29,931 --> 00:14:31,931
This is your other
favorite grandson.
415
00:14:32,034 --> 00:14:33,965
And she said, oo, hey Larry.
416
00:14:34,068 --> 00:14:35,793
For a second, I thought
you were Calvin.
417
00:14:35,896 --> 00:14:37,103
And I can't stand his daddy.
418
00:14:40,137 --> 00:14:41,655
But she knew it
was me all along.
419
00:14:41,758 --> 00:14:45,931
[laughter]
420
00:14:46,034 --> 00:14:48,620
No she didn't.
421
00:14:48,724 --> 00:14:50,551
That was my momma.
422
00:14:50,655 --> 00:14:53,689
She gave the warmest hugs
and the sweetest kisses.
423
00:14:53,793 --> 00:14:57,068
And there will never be another
woman like her, right Ella?
424
00:14:57,172 --> 00:14:59,275
Never ever.
425
00:14:59,379 --> 00:15:02,551
That woman could check our
homework, check our hair,
426
00:15:02,655 --> 00:15:05,689
and check our bad attitudes
all while making dinner, right?
427
00:15:05,793 --> 00:15:08,413
And if you didn't have your
act together before the bologna
428
00:15:08,517 --> 00:15:10,379
bubbled up in the
middle, you were
429
00:15:10,482 --> 00:15:12,310
gonna get your butt bubbled.
430
00:15:12,413 --> 00:15:14,827
[laughter]
431
00:15:14,931 --> 00:15:17,068
No, that's what
she would say to us.
432
00:15:17,172 --> 00:15:20,068
Listen, my mother gave me-- you
remember the thrift store doll?
433
00:15:20,172 --> 00:15:21,172
Yeah.
434
00:15:21,275 --> 00:15:23,344
My mother gave me
this thrift store doll.
435
00:15:23,448 --> 00:15:27,896
It was the ugliest doll I had
ever seen in my life, Jazzy.
436
00:15:28,000 --> 00:15:33,413
This doll had one
eye and one shoe.
437
00:15:33,517 --> 00:15:34,689
Oh goodness.
438
00:15:34,793 --> 00:15:36,793
And you would pull the
little string on the doll,
439
00:15:36,896 --> 00:15:40,655
and you'd hear her
say, I love you Mommy.
440
00:15:40,758 --> 00:15:44,034
I love you, Mommy!
441
00:15:44,137 --> 00:15:48,724
I love you Mommy.
442
00:15:48,827 --> 00:15:52,000
I love you.
443
00:15:52,103 --> 00:15:54,275
I love you, Ma.
444
00:15:54,379 --> 00:15:55,172
I love you so--
445
00:15:55,275 --> 00:16:02,689
[cries] Curtis.
446
00:16:13,172 --> 00:16:14,000
So what do you think?
447
00:16:14,103 --> 00:16:14,793
What do you think?
448
00:16:14,896 --> 00:16:16,068
It--
449
00:16:16,172 --> 00:16:17,620
That's too flaky.
450
00:16:17,724 --> 00:16:20,344
Crust is too flaky?
451
00:16:20,448 --> 00:16:21,758
Just like Mama's.
452
00:16:25,758 --> 00:16:27,586
OK.
453
00:16:27,689 --> 00:16:28,827
Are you OK?
454
00:16:28,931 --> 00:16:31,068
You all right now?
455
00:16:31,172 --> 00:16:32,758
Don't say you fine.
456
00:16:32,862 --> 00:16:34,344
I'm in pain.
457
00:16:34,448 --> 00:16:36,827
I really, really am.
458
00:16:36,931 --> 00:16:38,000
But I will be fine.
459
00:16:38,103 --> 00:16:42,379
This is just a whole lot
to have to deal with.
460
00:16:42,482 --> 00:16:45,931
Maybe I shouldn't have told
you about my father and Mom.
461
00:16:46,034 --> 00:16:46,827
Maybe--
462
00:16:46,931 --> 00:16:49,517
That doesn't even matter.
463
00:16:49,620 --> 00:16:53,137
You live your whole life
with the image of somebody
464
00:16:53,241 --> 00:16:57,482
and in an instant,
that image changes.
465
00:16:57,586 --> 00:17:02,103
But what never changes
is what Mama did for us.
466
00:17:02,206 --> 00:17:04,137
She raised us.
467
00:17:04,241 --> 00:17:08,310
And she made us the
women that we are today.
468
00:17:08,413 --> 00:17:11,137
Whatever she did
before I got here
469
00:17:11,241 --> 00:17:16,206
and whoever she did it with,
doesn't mean a thing to me.
470
00:17:16,310 --> 00:17:18,000
Doesn't matter one bit.
471
00:17:18,103 --> 00:17:20,931
That was my mama.
472
00:17:23,931 --> 00:17:25,793
And I loved her.
473
00:17:25,896 --> 00:17:28,310
Thank you Ella.
474
00:17:28,413 --> 00:17:29,896
You're welcome.
475
00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:36,310
And, I want you to take this.
476
00:17:36,413 --> 00:17:37,344
This is for you.
477
00:17:37,448 --> 00:17:38,344
No, no, no.
478
00:17:38,448 --> 00:17:40,137
She gave that to you.
479
00:17:40,241 --> 00:17:40,931
I shouldn't take it.
480
00:17:41,034 --> 00:17:42,379
No.
481
00:17:42,482 --> 00:17:47,758
What you should have done was
read the ending of the letter.
482
00:17:47,862 --> 00:17:50,241
Right here.
483
00:17:50,344 --> 00:17:53,310
Don't order the
creamed corn at Glory's.
484
00:17:53,413 --> 00:17:54,137
Below that.
485
00:17:54,241 --> 00:17:56,000
Very bottom.
486
00:17:56,103 --> 00:18:00,551
This insurance money ain't
nothing but paper to me.
487
00:18:00,655 --> 00:18:01,896
Ella, look up for you sister.
488
00:18:08,068 --> 00:18:10,310
And make sure you
split down the middle.
489
00:18:17,379 --> 00:18:18,620
This is more than half.
490
00:18:18,724 --> 00:18:19,931
Yes.
491
00:18:20,034 --> 00:18:23,413
And it would have been all
if I didn't have to give
492
00:18:23,517 --> 00:18:24,551
some to Calvin and Miranda.
493
00:18:27,620 --> 00:18:31,586
You are always looking out
for others before yourself.
494
00:18:31,689 --> 00:18:32,551
Just like Mama.
495
00:18:39,724 --> 00:18:41,965
This-- this-- this,
we never talk about.
496
00:18:42,068 --> 00:18:42,931
Turn the page.
497
00:18:43,034 --> 00:18:45,310
I don't have a comment.
498
00:18:45,413 --> 00:18:47,206
Do you remember
these Easter dresses?
499
00:18:47,310 --> 00:18:49,482
Yes, I remember those dresses.
500
00:18:49,586 --> 00:18:51,551
Mama had band-aids
on every finger
501
00:18:51,655 --> 00:18:54,034
after she finished
those dresses.
502
00:18:54,137 --> 00:18:54,965
Woo.
503
00:18:55,068 --> 00:18:56,172
Don't Don't do it.
Don't do it.
504
00:18:56,275 --> 00:18:56,965
There your prom date.
505
00:18:57,068 --> 00:18:58,379
Don't do that.
506
00:18:58,482 --> 00:19:00,482
That's your prom date.
507
00:19:00,586 --> 00:19:02,241
I wonder where he is now?
508
00:19:02,344 --> 00:19:04,344
Married with 12 children.
509
00:19:04,448 --> 00:19:05,655
Oh god!
510
00:19:05,758 --> 00:19:08,379
Thank you for helping
me dodge that bullet!
511
00:19:08,482 --> 00:19:10,241
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