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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:03,128 --> 00:00:07,007 [logo music] 2 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:21,606 [dramatic music] 3 00:00:42,126 --> 00:00:45,964 Hey Tasha, do you want 4 00:00:42,126 --> 00:00:45,964 to go to the playground? 5 00:00:47,131 --> 00:00:48,967 We've been sitting here 6 00:00:47,131 --> 00:00:48,967 all day. 7 00:00:49,008 --> 00:00:50,092 So? 8 00:00:51,302 --> 00:00:53,679 Let's go inside and 9 00:00:51,302 --> 00:00:53,679 play on my Game Boy. 10 00:00:53,721 --> 00:00:55,932 No Bernie, I just 11 00:00:53,721 --> 00:00:55,932 wanna sit here. 12 00:00:59,518 --> 00:01:02,688 [boy scoffs] 13 00:00:59,518 --> 00:01:02,688 Look at what we got here. 14 00:01:02,730 --> 00:01:04,273 Let me see this. 15 00:01:04,315 --> 00:01:05,691 Give it back! 16 00:01:05,733 --> 00:01:07,526 Give it back to him! 17 00:01:09,153 --> 00:01:11,906 Go home and cry to 18 00:01:09,153 --> 00:01:11,906 your sickly mother! 19 00:01:11,948 --> 00:01:13,741 Don't you ever 20 00:01:11,948 --> 00:01:13,741 say that again! 21 00:01:19,163 --> 00:01:20,080 Tasha! 22 00:01:22,166 --> 00:01:23,083 Come here. 23 00:01:28,506 --> 00:01:30,508 Come all the way here, baby. 24 00:01:32,176 --> 00:01:34,094 What's wrong? 25 00:01:34,136 --> 00:01:35,095 [Tasha] Nothing. 26 00:01:35,137 --> 00:01:36,472 What happened? 27 00:01:36,514 --> 00:01:38,724 You and Bernie get mad 28 00:01:36,514 --> 00:01:38,724 at each other again? 29 00:01:40,726 --> 00:01:43,270 I see, somebody bothered you? 30 00:01:43,312 --> 00:01:44,897 Who was it? 31 00:01:44,939 --> 00:01:47,274 It was William. 32 00:01:44,939 --> 00:01:47,274 He was being mean. 33 00:01:47,316 --> 00:01:49,109 William? 34 00:01:49,151 --> 00:01:51,153 Oh girl, that boy ain't 35 00:01:49,151 --> 00:01:51,153 nothing but trouble. 36 00:01:51,195 --> 00:01:52,488 I'll go handle this. 37 00:01:52,530 --> 00:01:53,489 Uh Mama, lay back down. 38 00:01:53,531 --> 00:01:55,741 No, I can't have that, baby. 39 00:01:59,495 --> 00:02:03,708 I guess as much as I wanna get 40 00:01:59,495 --> 00:02:03,708 up I can't, baby. I... 41 00:02:05,501 --> 00:02:07,252 I just can't. 42 00:02:07,294 --> 00:02:09,129 It's okay, Mama. 43 00:02:10,214 --> 00:02:13,175 Go on stand in the 44 00:02:10,214 --> 00:02:13,175 middle of the floor. 45 00:02:13,217 --> 00:02:14,010 Go on. 46 00:02:16,512 --> 00:02:17,889 Now what? 47 00:02:17,930 --> 00:02:20,182 All right, I want you 48 00:02:17,930 --> 00:02:20,182 to ball your fists up 49 00:02:20,224 --> 00:02:23,268 as tightly as you can, and I 50 00:02:20,224 --> 00:02:23,268 want you to spin 'em around 51 00:02:23,310 --> 00:02:24,729 like a windmill. 52 00:02:26,271 --> 00:02:27,899 Huh? 53 00:02:27,940 --> 00:02:30,192 You know, like the big 54 00:02:27,940 --> 00:02:30,192 windmills we see on the farm. 55 00:02:30,234 --> 00:02:32,070 Why? 56 00:02:32,111 --> 00:02:34,196 Because when something or 57 00:02:32,111 --> 00:02:34,196 somebody bothers you, sweetie, 58 00:02:34,238 --> 00:02:35,447 you gotta fight back. 59 00:02:37,241 --> 00:02:39,451 I'm not always gonna be 60 00:02:37,241 --> 00:02:39,451 around to defend you. 61 00:02:41,286 --> 00:02:43,706 No, uh uh. Don't do that. 62 00:02:44,957 --> 00:02:46,333 Pick your head up. 63 00:02:47,251 --> 00:02:49,087 All right? Now on 64 00:02:47,251 --> 00:02:49,087 the count of three, 65 00:02:49,128 --> 00:02:52,256 I want you to spin your 66 00:02:49,128 --> 00:02:52,256 arms as wild as you can 67 00:02:52,297 --> 00:02:54,550 until you knock 'em down, okay? 68 00:02:54,592 --> 00:02:59,889 - Mm-hmm. 69 00:02:54,592 --> 00:02:59,889 - One, two, three. 70 00:02:59,931 --> 00:03:02,474 Spin 'em Tasha, there you 71 00:02:59,931 --> 00:03:02,474 go, there you go, baby. 72 00:03:02,516 --> 00:03:03,726 [laughing] 73 00:03:03,768 --> 00:03:04,643 I'm dizzy. 74 00:03:04,685 --> 00:03:06,854 [laughing] 75 00:03:06,896 --> 00:03:08,230 All right, come here. 76 00:03:09,273 --> 00:03:10,900 Get up here with me. 77 00:03:14,112 --> 00:03:17,281 You see Tasha, strength 78 00:03:14,112 --> 00:03:17,281 isn't just physical, 79 00:03:18,490 --> 00:03:21,077 it's mental and emotional too. 80 00:03:21,119 --> 00:03:23,704 And I need you to be strong. 81 00:03:25,123 --> 00:03:27,249 All right? You understand? 82 00:03:27,291 --> 00:03:28,208 You promise? 83 00:03:29,710 --> 00:03:30,711 Promise. 84 00:03:32,130 --> 00:03:33,672 Come here. 85 00:03:33,714 --> 00:03:36,134 [gentle music] 86 00:03:41,889 --> 00:03:46,685 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 87 00:03:48,104 --> 00:03:53,067 ♪ Happy birthday dear Tasha ♪ 88 00:03:53,109 --> 00:03:54,443 ♪ My beautiful, sexy, 89 00:03:53,109 --> 00:03:54,443 intelligent wife ♪ 90 00:03:54,485 --> 00:03:56,445 ♪ Who always makes me put 91 00:03:54,485 --> 00:03:56,445 the toilet seat down ♪ 92 00:03:56,487 --> 00:03:58,906 [laughing] 93 00:04:03,452 --> 00:04:06,288 Oh God Bernie! 94 00:04:06,330 --> 00:04:09,333 You woke me up when I have 95 00:04:06,330 --> 00:04:09,333 15 minutes of sleep left. 96 00:04:09,374 --> 00:04:12,419 Well, so what? 97 00:04:09,374 --> 00:04:12,419 It's your birthday. 98 00:04:12,461 --> 00:04:19,468 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 99 00:04:21,095 --> 00:04:25,099 Oh sing, my Barry White. Sing! 100 00:04:25,224 --> 00:04:26,642 [laughing] 101 00:04:26,684 --> 00:04:28,310 So go ahead. 102 00:04:28,352 --> 00:04:31,271 Make a wish and blow 103 00:04:28,352 --> 00:04:31,271 out that candle. 104 00:04:34,525 --> 00:04:35,734 Yeah, oh. 105 00:04:36,485 --> 00:04:38,320 My goodness, baby. 106 00:04:38,362 --> 00:04:39,530 What? 107 00:04:39,571 --> 00:04:41,866 Ohhh, I hope your wish 108 00:04:39,571 --> 00:04:41,866 was for fresher breath. 109 00:04:41,907 --> 00:04:43,325 - Bernie. 110 00:04:41,907 --> 00:04:43,325 - Goodness, woman. 111 00:04:43,367 --> 00:04:46,328 You need to use all of the 112 00:04:43,367 --> 00:04:46,328 toothpaste this morning. 113 00:04:46,370 --> 00:04:47,412 Are you serious-- 114 00:04:47,454 --> 00:04:49,040 And the mouthwash and 115 00:04:47,454 --> 00:04:49,040 you need to floss too. 116 00:04:49,081 --> 00:04:52,043 And you need to get 117 00:04:49,081 --> 00:04:52,043 a pack of Tic Tacs 118 00:04:52,084 --> 00:04:53,252 on your way to work. 119 00:04:53,293 --> 00:04:54,336 Shut it, Bernie. 120 00:04:54,378 --> 00:04:55,629 [laughs] 121 00:04:54,378 --> 00:04:55,629 I'm just saying. 122 00:04:55,671 --> 00:04:56,839 Would you shut up? 123 00:04:56,881 --> 00:05:00,425 Anyway, uh, me and Tony 124 00:04:56,881 --> 00:05:00,425 we gotta go lay a carpet 125 00:05:00,467 --> 00:05:03,262 at that new office 126 00:05:00,467 --> 00:05:03,262 complex on Blakely Road. 127 00:05:03,303 --> 00:05:05,848 It's not that far. I 128 00:05:03,303 --> 00:05:05,848 should be back in time 129 00:05:05,890 --> 00:05:07,641 to head out to your 130 00:05:05,890 --> 00:05:07,641 dad's for dinner. 131 00:05:07,683 --> 00:05:09,643 Is that tonight? 132 00:05:09,685 --> 00:05:11,854 Your birthday on another 133 00:05:09,685 --> 00:05:11,854 night we don't know about? 134 00:05:11,896 --> 00:05:15,274 No, it's just, you know 135 00:05:11,896 --> 00:05:15,274 I was just trying to think 136 00:05:15,315 --> 00:05:17,442 if maybe we could 137 00:05:15,315 --> 00:05:17,442 skip all the dramatics 138 00:05:17,484 --> 00:05:21,822 and just spend a nice quiet 139 00:05:17,484 --> 00:05:21,822 evening just the two of us. 140 00:05:21,864 --> 00:05:24,408 Like he's going to allow that. 141 00:05:24,449 --> 00:05:26,035 Melvin ain't the boss of me. 142 00:05:26,077 --> 00:05:28,495 No, he's just the 143 00:05:26,077 --> 00:05:28,495 boss of your birthday. 144 00:05:28,537 --> 00:05:31,540 - Hmm, he is isn't he? 145 00:05:28,537 --> 00:05:31,540 - Hmm. 146 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:34,418 Fine. 147 00:05:34,459 --> 00:05:38,380 You know, I'm going back to 148 00:05:34,459 --> 00:05:38,380 sleep for ten more minutes then. 149 00:05:38,422 --> 00:05:40,632 You got a little 150 00:05:38,422 --> 00:05:40,632 icing right there. 151 00:05:40,674 --> 00:05:42,093 Mmm, thank you. 152 00:05:42,134 --> 00:05:44,095 You get your last ten minutes 153 00:05:42,134 --> 00:05:44,095 of sleep birthday girl. 154 00:05:44,136 --> 00:05:45,971 All right my Barry White. 155 00:05:46,013 --> 00:05:47,472 - And I'll see you later. 156 00:05:46,013 --> 00:05:47,472 - I heard you. 157 00:05:47,514 --> 00:05:50,392 [Bernie] ♪ Happy 158 00:05:47,514 --> 00:05:50,392 breath day to you ♪ 159 00:05:50,434 --> 00:05:51,393 Stop, stop. 160 00:05:51,435 --> 00:05:53,604 [bell ringing] 161 00:05:53,645 --> 00:05:56,398 Boys and girls, I need you 162 00:05:53,645 --> 00:05:56,398 to be writing these math-- 163 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:57,816 [giggling] 164 00:05:57,858 --> 00:05:59,235 Math equations in 165 00:05:57,858 --> 00:05:59,235 your notebooks. 166 00:05:59,277 --> 00:06:01,612 [giggling] 167 00:06:01,653 --> 00:06:03,405 Enough with all the giggling. 168 00:06:03,447 --> 00:06:05,407 [laughs] 169 00:06:05,449 --> 00:06:06,825 Okay, what did I te-- 170 00:06:06,867 --> 00:06:10,829 [kids] Happy 171 00:06:06,867 --> 00:06:10,829 birthday, Mrs. Jackson. 172 00:06:10,871 --> 00:06:13,415 Oh, would you look at this. 173 00:06:13,457 --> 00:06:17,419 Thank you, that was so kind 174 00:06:13,457 --> 00:06:17,419 and thoughtful of each of you. 175 00:06:17,461 --> 00:06:19,421 Now if you would, please line up 176 00:06:19,463 --> 00:06:21,048 and place your beautiful 177 00:06:19,463 --> 00:06:21,048 cards on my desk. 178 00:06:21,090 --> 00:06:23,259 I will enjoy them later. 179 00:06:23,301 --> 00:06:26,220 Single file line everyone, 180 00:06:23,301 --> 00:06:26,220 single file line. 181 00:06:26,262 --> 00:06:28,013 Thank you, my dear. 182 00:06:28,055 --> 00:06:30,224 Thank you so much. 183 00:06:30,266 --> 00:06:31,642 That's so thoughtful. 184 00:06:33,477 --> 00:06:35,646 [dramatic music] 185 00:06:35,687 --> 00:06:37,815 [retching] 186 00:06:37,856 --> 00:06:40,109 [all] Ew! 187 00:06:40,151 --> 00:06:41,652 [coughing] 188 00:06:41,693 --> 00:06:44,446 Kids, if-- If you could excuse 189 00:06:41,693 --> 00:06:44,446 me for a moment, 190 00:06:44,488 --> 00:06:46,365 Take your seats. 191 00:06:44,488 --> 00:06:46,365 Take your seats. Okay. 192 00:06:46,406 --> 00:06:47,699 [Tasha] You know I threw 193 00:06:46,406 --> 00:06:47,699 up in front of the kids 194 00:06:47,741 --> 00:06:48,867 and grossed them out today? 195 00:06:48,909 --> 00:06:52,454 [Bernie] Yes, yes you 196 00:06:48,909 --> 00:06:52,454 told me several times. 197 00:06:52,496 --> 00:06:57,501 I got my usual morning coffee 198 00:06:52,496 --> 00:06:57,501 but... maybe the milk was sour. 199 00:06:57,542 --> 00:07:00,838 Yeah, maybe and you 200 00:06:57,542 --> 00:07:00,838 told me that too, look. 201 00:07:01,964 --> 00:07:04,925 We just stay a little while 202 00:07:01,964 --> 00:07:04,925 then we leave, all right? 203 00:07:04,967 --> 00:07:07,094 Hour tops. 204 00:07:07,136 --> 00:07:08,304 You promise? 205 00:07:08,346 --> 00:07:10,597 Yeah, I'm not trying to 206 00:07:08,346 --> 00:07:10,597 stay here all night. 207 00:07:10,639 --> 00:07:11,807 [chuckles] 208 00:07:11,849 --> 00:07:13,475 Come on, let's get 209 00:07:11,849 --> 00:07:13,475 this out of the way. 210 00:07:15,186 --> 00:07:17,396 -[chattering] 211 00:07:15,186 --> 00:07:17,396 -[door bell rings] 212 00:07:17,437 --> 00:07:19,481 [Bernie] Why is it so dark in 213 00:07:17,437 --> 00:07:19,481 here, man. It's nighttime. 214 00:07:19,523 --> 00:07:20,816 Turn the lights on. 215 00:07:20,858 --> 00:07:22,609 [all] Surprise! 216 00:07:22,651 --> 00:07:25,070 [cheering] 217 00:07:26,071 --> 00:07:28,199 [Melvin] There's 218 00:07:26,071 --> 00:07:28,199 my birthday girl. 219 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:29,283 Were you surprised? 220 00:07:29,325 --> 00:07:31,410 Surprised is an 221 00:07:29,325 --> 00:07:31,410 understatement, Daddy. 222 00:07:31,451 --> 00:07:33,662 You really didn't have to 223 00:07:31,451 --> 00:07:33,662 go through all this trouble. 224 00:07:33,704 --> 00:07:34,997 It was Brenda's idea. 225 00:07:35,039 --> 00:07:36,498 Melvin get that 226 00:07:35,039 --> 00:07:36,498 camera out of her face, 227 00:07:36,540 --> 00:07:37,875 the girl just got here. 228 00:07:37,916 --> 00:07:40,085 Happy 30th birthday, Tasha. 229 00:07:40,127 --> 00:07:41,295 Thank you so much, Brenda. 230 00:07:41,337 --> 00:07:43,505 Somebody make Tasha a plate. 231 00:07:43,547 --> 00:07:45,674 She's the birthday girl. 232 00:07:43,547 --> 00:07:45,674 She gets served first. 233 00:07:45,716 --> 00:07:50,179 And put a heap of my 234 00:07:45,716 --> 00:07:50,179 mac 'n' cheese on 235 00:07:45,716 --> 00:07:50,179 there, not Carol's. 236 00:07:50,221 --> 00:07:51,889 You don't want any of 237 00:07:50,221 --> 00:07:51,889 Carol's mac 'n' cheese, 238 00:07:51,930 --> 00:07:54,433 she don't use the right 239 00:07:51,930 --> 00:07:54,433 cheeses or seasonings, 240 00:07:54,474 --> 00:07:55,684 and I don't even know 241 00:07:54,474 --> 00:07:55,684 why she brought it 242 00:07:55,726 --> 00:07:57,519 when she knows mine is the best. 243 00:07:57,561 --> 00:07:59,688 Oh, trust me, I don't need a 244 00:07:57,561 --> 00:07:59,688 heap of anything tonight, okay? 245 00:07:59,730 --> 00:08:02,691 Of course you do, look at 246 00:07:59,730 --> 00:08:02,691 you, you're skin and bones. 247 00:08:02,733 --> 00:08:04,651 What you have against 248 00:08:02,733 --> 00:08:04,651 hips I'll never know. 249 00:08:04,693 --> 00:08:07,279 Wait are you serious, 250 00:08:04,693 --> 00:08:07,279 have you seen my, mmm. 251 00:08:07,321 --> 00:08:08,280 Okay, well put it there. 252 00:08:08,322 --> 00:08:09,531 [both] Uhhh, uhhh. 253 00:08:09,573 --> 00:08:10,490 One more. 254 00:08:10,532 --> 00:08:11,283 [both] Uhhh. 255 00:08:11,325 --> 00:08:13,535 - All right now. 256 00:08:11,325 --> 00:08:13,535 - All right now. 257 00:08:13,577 --> 00:08:15,495 Wow what a spread 258 00:08:13,577 --> 00:08:15,495 we got tonight, huh? 259 00:08:15,537 --> 00:08:16,330 Hi. 260 00:08:17,331 --> 00:08:19,666 Everybody come on in 261 00:08:17,331 --> 00:08:19,666 here and get some food. 262 00:08:19,708 --> 00:08:22,669 Okay, 'cause after 263 00:08:19,708 --> 00:08:22,669 this we're gonna watch 264 00:08:22,711 --> 00:08:24,880 Tasha's birth video. 265 00:08:24,922 --> 00:08:26,340 No, Daddy not tonight. 266 00:08:26,382 --> 00:08:28,092 Please, can we skip the 267 00:08:26,382 --> 00:08:28,092 birth video this year? 268 00:08:28,133 --> 00:08:29,427 You talking crazy. 269 00:08:29,468 --> 00:08:31,303 We watch that video every 270 00:08:29,468 --> 00:08:31,303 year since you was born. 271 00:08:31,345 --> 00:08:32,471 But we can skip this year. 272 00:08:32,512 --> 00:08:34,681 How about-- 273 00:08:32,512 --> 00:08:34,681 [whispers] Help me. 274 00:08:34,723 --> 00:08:36,100 Hi everybody. 275 00:08:36,141 --> 00:08:38,060 Daddy, we really gotta 276 00:08:36,141 --> 00:08:38,060 upgrade you on that camera. 277 00:08:38,102 --> 00:08:40,312 It's the best investment 278 00:08:38,102 --> 00:08:40,312 that I ever made this camera. 279 00:08:40,354 --> 00:08:41,188 VHS? 280 00:08:44,566 --> 00:08:46,485 Get that God damn 281 00:08:44,566 --> 00:08:46,485 camera out of my face 282 00:08:46,526 --> 00:08:47,486 and help me you idiot. 283 00:08:47,527 --> 00:08:48,946 [laughing] 284 00:08:50,448 --> 00:08:53,451 -[on TV] Screw you! 285 00:08:50,448 --> 00:08:53,451 -[screaming] 286 00:08:53,492 --> 00:08:55,494 -[crying out] 287 00:08:53,492 --> 00:08:55,494 -[gentle music] 288 00:09:00,958 --> 00:09:02,960 [grunting] 289 00:09:03,461 --> 00:09:05,045 [screaming] 290 00:09:07,631 --> 00:09:08,799 [thuds] 291 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:09,591 Oh my God. 292 00:09:09,633 --> 00:09:12,177 Baby, hey, Tasha. 293 00:09:12,219 --> 00:09:14,596 - Baby, hey, hey. 294 00:09:12,219 --> 00:09:14,596 - What happened? 295 00:09:14,638 --> 00:09:15,597 [Brenda] Could 296 00:09:14,638 --> 00:09:15,597 somebody get some water? 297 00:09:15,639 --> 00:09:16,556 Tasha? 298 00:09:18,642 --> 00:09:19,935 -[Bernie] Hey listen. 299 00:09:18,642 --> 00:09:19,935 -[Tasha] Hmm. 300 00:09:19,977 --> 00:09:24,398 - Um... 301 00:09:19,977 --> 00:09:24,398 - What? 302 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:25,607 I think you should 303 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:25,607 take one of those 304 00:09:25,649 --> 00:09:28,402 home pregnancy tests. 305 00:09:28,444 --> 00:09:32,572 Oh, Bernie. Honey for what? 306 00:09:32,614 --> 00:09:36,994 Seven years of being told 307 00:09:32,614 --> 00:09:36,994 that my eggs aren't fertile? 308 00:09:37,035 --> 00:09:39,413 Bernie, a baby isn't 309 00:09:37,035 --> 00:09:39,413 possible for us. 310 00:09:39,455 --> 00:09:42,249 Well, babe I get 311 00:09:39,455 --> 00:09:42,249 all that, but look... 312 00:09:44,001 --> 00:09:46,378 You threw up at school, 313 00:09:44,001 --> 00:09:46,378 you passed out at the party 314 00:09:46,420 --> 00:09:49,173 and your cycle is late. 315 00:09:49,214 --> 00:09:51,383 Isn't that what happen to a 316 00:09:49,214 --> 00:09:51,383 woman when she's pregnant? 317 00:09:51,425 --> 00:09:53,177 It's impossible. 318 00:09:53,218 --> 00:09:55,012 Okay, how late are you? 319 00:09:56,805 --> 00:09:59,641 - Two weeks. 320 00:09:56,805 --> 00:09:59,641 - See, two-- Come on. 321 00:09:59,683 --> 00:10:01,601 - What? 322 00:09:59,683 --> 00:10:01,601 - Just take the test, baby. 323 00:10:01,643 --> 00:10:05,689 Honey, if I am pregnant, I 324 00:10:01,643 --> 00:10:05,689 need a doctor to confirm it. 325 00:10:05,730 --> 00:10:08,275 Honey, listen it's almost 326 00:10:05,730 --> 00:10:08,275 time for my annual exam, 327 00:10:08,317 --> 00:10:11,028 I'll just get the 328 00:10:08,317 --> 00:10:11,028 full work up, okay? 329 00:10:11,069 --> 00:10:12,488 - Yeah? 330 00:10:11,069 --> 00:10:12,488 - That work? 331 00:10:12,530 --> 00:10:13,905 - That works. 332 00:10:12,530 --> 00:10:13,905 - Good. 333 00:10:13,947 --> 00:10:15,615 Good, all right. 334 00:10:18,369 --> 00:10:19,619 Get some rest. 335 00:10:21,705 --> 00:10:24,124 Okay, fine so 336 00:10:21,705 --> 00:10:24,124 let's play what if. 337 00:10:24,166 --> 00:10:25,543 Are you ready? 338 00:10:25,584 --> 00:10:26,335 Do I have a choice. 339 00:10:26,377 --> 00:10:28,920 - No. Okay. 340 00:10:26,377 --> 00:10:28,920 - Okay. 341 00:10:28,962 --> 00:10:34,676 What if, by some divine 342 00:10:28,962 --> 00:10:34,676 intervention, I am pregnant? 343 00:10:34,718 --> 00:10:36,720 - Hmm. 344 00:10:34,718 --> 00:10:36,720 - Mm-hmm. 345 00:10:36,761 --> 00:10:41,766 Would you want a baby 346 00:10:36,761 --> 00:10:41,766 boy or a baby girl? 347 00:10:43,185 --> 00:10:45,145 [chuckles] 348 00:10:43,185 --> 00:10:45,145 Well... 349 00:10:45,187 --> 00:10:48,357 Yeah, I don't know. It 350 00:10:45,187 --> 00:10:48,357 doesn't really matter. 351 00:10:48,399 --> 00:10:50,150 I just want a healthy baby. 352 00:10:50,192 --> 00:10:52,110 Boy, stop playing. 353 00:10:52,152 --> 00:10:55,322 You know you want a boy. You 354 00:10:52,152 --> 00:10:55,322 know you want a baby boy. 355 00:10:55,364 --> 00:10:58,576 Yeah, yeah, yeah. I 356 00:10:55,364 --> 00:10:58,576 mean, I admit I would... 357 00:10:59,743 --> 00:11:01,703 have a little more 358 00:10:59,743 --> 00:11:01,703 in common with a boy. 359 00:11:01,745 --> 00:11:03,121 Mm-hmm, just a little. 360 00:11:03,163 --> 00:11:04,122 Just a little bit. 361 00:11:04,164 --> 00:11:05,707 [laughs] 362 00:11:05,749 --> 00:11:11,088 - If he was anything like me 363 00:11:05,749 --> 00:11:11,088 he'd have that throwing arm. 364 00:11:05,749 --> 00:11:11,088 - Mm-hmm. 365 00:11:11,129 --> 00:11:13,090 I'd train him all 366 00:11:11,129 --> 00:11:13,090 the way up to the NFL. 367 00:11:13,131 --> 00:11:14,341 Aww. 368 00:11:14,758 --> 00:11:15,926 [gasps] 369 00:11:15,967 --> 00:11:18,720 And he could buy us a 370 00:11:15,967 --> 00:11:18,720 big house in the Hamptons. 371 00:11:18,762 --> 00:11:21,348 Where all the rich people live. 372 00:11:21,390 --> 00:11:23,141 We could go to all 373 00:11:21,390 --> 00:11:23,141 the dinner parties, 374 00:11:23,183 --> 00:11:26,895 and sip on our wine, and um... 375 00:11:23,183 --> 00:11:26,895 I would develop an accent, 376 00:11:26,937 --> 00:11:28,313 and I would go 377 00:11:26,937 --> 00:11:28,313 around saying things 378 00:11:28,355 --> 00:11:31,900 like um... "Lovely weather 379 00:11:28,355 --> 00:11:31,900 we're having, darling." 380 00:11:31,942 --> 00:11:33,527 Right, right? 381 00:11:33,569 --> 00:11:34,736 "How do you do? 382 00:11:34,778 --> 00:11:36,071 How do you do? 383 00:11:36,113 --> 00:11:38,323 How is the weather; Crisp 384 00:11:36,113 --> 00:11:38,323 and clean and fresh?" 385 00:11:38,365 --> 00:11:39,783 - Right. 386 00:11:38,365 --> 00:11:39,783 - You see I talk well? 387 00:11:39,824 --> 00:11:41,535 Yeah, yeah you 388 00:11:39,824 --> 00:11:41,535 gonna talk like that? 389 00:11:41,577 --> 00:11:43,120 You gonna have to do that on 390 00:11:41,577 --> 00:11:43,120 the other side of the room. 391 00:11:43,161 --> 00:11:46,123 Oh. And you don't 392 00:11:43,161 --> 00:11:46,123 drink wine so... 393 00:11:46,164 --> 00:11:48,542 - I bet I would start. 394 00:11:46,164 --> 00:11:48,542 - Right. 395 00:11:48,584 --> 00:11:51,545 When you're paying a hundred 396 00:11:48,584 --> 00:11:51,545 dollars a bottle, or a sip? 397 00:11:51,587 --> 00:11:52,712 - Shoot. 398 00:11:51,587 --> 00:11:52,712 -[laughs] 399 00:11:54,798 --> 00:11:59,303 Okay so, what if we had a girl. 400 00:11:59,344 --> 00:12:01,763 Oh, a baby girl? 401 00:11:59,344 --> 00:12:01,763 She'd be so cute. 402 00:12:01,805 --> 00:12:03,098 Yeah. 403 00:12:03,140 --> 00:12:08,103 I don't know maybe she 404 00:12:03,140 --> 00:12:08,103 would become president. 405 00:12:08,145 --> 00:12:09,521 Yes. 406 00:12:09,563 --> 00:12:11,731 And bring about world peace. 407 00:12:11,773 --> 00:12:12,524 I like that. 408 00:12:12,566 --> 00:12:13,775 - You like that? 409 00:12:12,566 --> 00:12:13,775 - Mm-hmm. 410 00:12:13,817 --> 00:12:15,777 Mmm. 411 00:12:13,817 --> 00:12:15,777 [gasps] Oh. 412 00:12:18,113 --> 00:12:19,323 Namaste. 413 00:12:20,824 --> 00:12:23,785 I'm pretty sure your using 414 00:12:20,824 --> 00:12:23,785 that word in the wrong context. 415 00:12:23,827 --> 00:12:28,332 I told you I just like 416 00:12:23,827 --> 00:12:28,332 saying it, joy stealer. 417 00:12:28,373 --> 00:12:30,334 All right, you keep saying 418 00:12:28,373 --> 00:12:30,334 it. Say it real low 419 00:12:30,375 --> 00:12:31,293 'cause I'm going to sleep. 420 00:12:31,335 --> 00:12:32,503 Stop. 421 00:12:32,544 --> 00:12:34,754 - Go to bed lady, goodness. 422 00:12:32,544 --> 00:12:34,754 - Whatever. 423 00:12:35,339 --> 00:12:38,425 Well Tasha, we're all done 424 00:12:35,339 --> 00:12:38,425 with your annual physical, 425 00:12:38,467 --> 00:12:40,010 we have your blood work, 426 00:12:40,051 --> 00:12:42,220 but because of your family's 427 00:12:40,051 --> 00:12:42,220 history with breast cancer... 428 00:12:42,262 --> 00:12:44,640 Ah, let me guess, you 429 00:12:42,262 --> 00:12:44,640 need me to go to radiology 430 00:12:44,682 --> 00:12:46,433 next door for my mammogram? 431 00:12:46,475 --> 00:12:47,476 Precisely. 432 00:12:48,852 --> 00:12:50,646 I've been getting mammograms 433 00:12:48,852 --> 00:12:50,646 for the past five years 434 00:12:50,688 --> 00:12:53,023 Doctor Bailey, I 435 00:12:50,688 --> 00:12:53,023 know the routine. 436 00:12:53,064 --> 00:12:56,818 But those machines, oh my God, 437 00:12:53,064 --> 00:12:56,818 they are so uncomfortable. 438 00:12:56,860 --> 00:12:59,446 I know that mammograms 439 00:12:56,860 --> 00:12:59,446 can be uncomfortable, 440 00:12:59,488 --> 00:13:01,823 but because you carry the 441 00:12:59,488 --> 00:13:01,823 mutated gene for breast cancer, 442 00:13:01,865 --> 00:13:03,659 it's really important 443 00:13:01,865 --> 00:13:03,659 that you get your checkups 444 00:13:03,701 --> 00:13:05,285 at this early age. 445 00:13:06,662 --> 00:13:07,663 Understood. 446 00:13:12,876 --> 00:13:14,794 But what if I am pregnant? 447 00:13:16,463 --> 00:13:19,424 I mean is it okay for me to 448 00:13:16,463 --> 00:13:19,424 get a mammogram right now? 449 00:13:19,466 --> 00:13:21,843 With all that radiation, 450 00:13:19,466 --> 00:13:21,843 it's just-- I don't-- 451 00:13:21,885 --> 00:13:24,429 Normally, mammograms 452 00:13:21,885 --> 00:13:24,429 are safe during pregnancy 453 00:13:24,471 --> 00:13:27,015 because the amount of 454 00:13:24,471 --> 00:13:27,015 radiation is minimal. 455 00:13:27,057 --> 00:13:30,644 But Tasha, I don't want 456 00:13:27,057 --> 00:13:30,644 you getting your hopes up. 457 00:13:30,686 --> 00:13:32,437 Your chances are less 458 00:13:30,686 --> 00:13:32,437 than five percent 459 00:13:32,479 --> 00:13:34,439 of becoming pregnant. 460 00:13:34,481 --> 00:13:36,816 Your eggs just aren't fertile. 461 00:13:38,235 --> 00:13:39,986 [dramatic music] 462 00:13:40,028 --> 00:13:40,820 I got it. 463 00:13:41,863 --> 00:13:43,198 I know. 464 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:45,409 Are you gonna be okay? 465 00:13:45,450 --> 00:13:48,245 I will be. [laughs] 466 00:13:48,286 --> 00:13:51,831 Okay well, get dressed 467 00:13:48,286 --> 00:13:51,831 and we'll talk soon okay? 468 00:13:51,873 --> 00:13:53,833 Thank you, Doctor Bailey. 469 00:13:58,046 --> 00:14:01,883 So we get the carpet 470 00:13:58,046 --> 00:14:01,883 out, ready to install it, 471 00:14:01,925 --> 00:14:05,429 and I unroll it and 472 00:14:01,925 --> 00:14:05,429 I see all these cuts, 473 00:14:05,470 --> 00:14:06,638 all through the whole roll, 474 00:14:06,680 --> 00:14:08,265 a whole bunch of 475 00:14:06,680 --> 00:14:08,265 cuts on the carpet. 476 00:14:08,306 --> 00:14:13,270 Yeah, it was completely 477 00:14:08,306 --> 00:14:13,270 ruined. Couldn't use any of it. 478 00:14:13,395 --> 00:14:17,190 The customer was unsatisfied, 479 00:14:13,395 --> 00:14:17,190 of course, for obvious reasons. 480 00:14:17,232 --> 00:14:18,817 And it set me and 481 00:14:17,232 --> 00:14:18,817 Tony back two days, 482 00:14:18,858 --> 00:14:19,984 we'll have to get new carpet 483 00:14:20,026 --> 00:14:21,319 and still have it 484 00:14:20,026 --> 00:14:21,319 installed on time. 485 00:14:21,361 --> 00:14:23,071 - Hmm. 486 00:14:21,361 --> 00:14:23,071 - It's crazy. 487 00:14:24,864 --> 00:14:25,657 Tasha? 488 00:14:26,866 --> 00:14:27,618 Baby? 489 00:14:27,659 --> 00:14:29,202 What's up? 490 00:14:29,244 --> 00:14:30,621 Have you listened 491 00:14:29,244 --> 00:14:30,621 to a word I said? 492 00:14:30,662 --> 00:14:34,291 Yeah, you said, "carpet, 493 00:14:30,662 --> 00:14:34,291 slices, pushback." 494 00:14:34,332 --> 00:14:35,125 Right. 495 00:14:36,668 --> 00:14:38,629 It's this funny thing about me 496 00:14:36,668 --> 00:14:38,629 though, you know, it's like 497 00:14:38,670 --> 00:14:43,467 when I talk to someone, I like 498 00:14:38,670 --> 00:14:43,467 when they interact with me, so. 499 00:14:44,426 --> 00:14:46,595 - Honey, I'm sorry. 500 00:14:44,426 --> 00:14:46,595 - Hmm. 501 00:14:46,637 --> 00:14:48,388 I don't know. I've just been 502 00:14:46,637 --> 00:14:48,388 having so much on my mind 503 00:14:48,430 --> 00:14:49,807 and of course I'm tired, 504 00:14:49,848 --> 00:14:51,391 I don't know what's 505 00:14:49,848 --> 00:14:51,391 going on with me. 506 00:14:51,433 --> 00:14:53,602 Well, thinking about 507 00:14:51,433 --> 00:14:53,602 the test results 508 00:14:53,644 --> 00:14:55,186 is not gonna make the 509 00:14:53,644 --> 00:14:55,186 phone ring any faster. 510 00:14:55,228 --> 00:14:56,020 Yeah. 511 00:14:57,021 --> 00:14:59,190 [door bell rings] 512 00:14:59,232 --> 00:15:02,193 Well, it did make something 513 00:14:59,232 --> 00:15:02,193 ring now didn't it? 514 00:15:02,235 --> 00:15:04,696 - Mm, mm, mm. 515 00:15:02,235 --> 00:15:04,696 - Yeah, you're funny. Not really. 516 00:15:04,738 --> 00:15:05,739 [laughs] 517 00:15:06,657 --> 00:15:07,866 - Be right back. 518 00:15:06,657 --> 00:15:07,866 - Mm-hmm. 519 00:15:10,994 --> 00:15:11,829 [door thuds] 520 00:15:11,870 --> 00:15:13,204 We have a guest. 521 00:15:13,246 --> 00:15:14,038 Hey. 522 00:15:15,666 --> 00:15:17,793 Just thought I'd come by 523 00:15:15,666 --> 00:15:17,793 and see how she was doing. 524 00:15:17,835 --> 00:15:19,961 Oh, I'm doing good 525 00:15:17,835 --> 00:15:19,961 Daddy, much better. 526 00:15:20,003 --> 00:15:20,962 How you doing, young man? 527 00:15:21,004 --> 00:15:22,589 I'm good man, we 528 00:15:21,004 --> 00:15:22,589 just having dinner. 529 00:15:22,631 --> 00:15:23,965 Good. 530 00:15:24,007 --> 00:15:25,383 'Cause I am hungry. 531 00:15:25,425 --> 00:15:27,427 Oh, I'll get you a bowl. 532 00:15:29,471 --> 00:15:31,807 So, Bernie informed me 533 00:15:29,471 --> 00:15:31,807 that the other night 534 00:15:31,849 --> 00:15:34,976 you got some really 535 00:15:31,849 --> 00:15:34,976 great video footage. 536 00:15:35,018 --> 00:15:37,937 - I always get good 537 00:15:35,018 --> 00:15:37,937 video footage. 538 00:15:35,018 --> 00:15:37,937 - Mm-hmm. 539 00:15:40,190 --> 00:15:44,152 Well, she says 540 00:15:40,190 --> 00:15:44,152 that she can't stand 541 00:15:44,194 --> 00:15:47,989 the fact that you always 542 00:15:44,194 --> 00:15:47,989 gotta video tape everything. 543 00:15:48,031 --> 00:15:48,990 I don't video everything. 544 00:15:49,032 --> 00:15:51,785 I just video the 545 00:15:49,032 --> 00:15:51,785 important stuff. 546 00:15:51,827 --> 00:15:53,995 So, me passing out at 547 00:15:51,827 --> 00:15:53,995 my party was important? 548 00:15:54,037 --> 00:15:56,164 Well, yeah. 549 00:15:56,206 --> 00:15:57,999 Daddy, come on, 550 00:15:56,206 --> 00:15:57,999 that is embarrassing. 551 00:15:58,041 --> 00:16:00,001 Don't show that video to anyone. 552 00:16:00,043 --> 00:16:02,003 When you say 553 00:16:00,043 --> 00:16:02,003 anyone, you mean what? 554 00:16:02,045 --> 00:16:03,421 Anyone. 555 00:16:06,216 --> 00:16:07,008 Fine. 556 00:16:09,052 --> 00:16:12,013 But one day, you're gonna 557 00:16:09,052 --> 00:16:12,013 look back at that footage 558 00:16:12,055 --> 00:16:14,015 and you gonna appreciate it. 559 00:16:14,057 --> 00:16:17,018 And then you gonna realize 560 00:16:14,057 --> 00:16:17,018 why I video everything. 561 00:16:17,060 --> 00:16:19,604 Because life is precious, baby, 562 00:16:19,646 --> 00:16:21,398 and I capture those moments 563 00:16:21,439 --> 00:16:24,150 so that you have 564 00:16:21,439 --> 00:16:24,150 something to hold onto. 565 00:16:24,192 --> 00:16:26,778 You even hold onto your 566 00:16:24,192 --> 00:16:26,778 mothers memory because of it. 567 00:16:26,820 --> 00:16:29,364 Yes, Daddy, and I 568 00:16:26,820 --> 00:16:29,364 do appreciate it, 569 00:16:29,406 --> 00:16:32,992 but video of me fainting 570 00:16:29,406 --> 00:16:32,992 needs to be destroyed. 571 00:16:34,411 --> 00:16:35,370 Have you gone to 572 00:16:34,411 --> 00:16:35,370 the doctor to find out 573 00:16:35,412 --> 00:16:36,371 why you passed out? 574 00:16:36,413 --> 00:16:40,584 Yes, and we're 575 00:16:36,413 --> 00:16:40,584 waiting on the results. 576 00:16:40,625 --> 00:16:45,171 Well, Brenda and I think it's 577 00:16:40,625 --> 00:16:45,171 because you don't eat right. 578 00:16:45,213 --> 00:16:47,006 You seriously gonna 579 00:16:45,213 --> 00:16:47,006 start that tonight? 580 00:16:47,048 --> 00:16:49,175 Well, just look at 581 00:16:47,048 --> 00:16:49,175 this for example, huh? 582 00:16:49,217 --> 00:16:53,054 I mean, what is this okay, 583 00:16:49,217 --> 00:16:53,054 this "egg poo young" nonsense? 584 00:16:53,096 --> 00:16:55,766 [laughs] 585 00:16:53,096 --> 00:16:55,766 It's egg foo yong, Melvin. 586 00:16:55,807 --> 00:17:00,854 "Poo young". Whatever it 587 00:16:55,807 --> 00:17:00,854 is, okay? It's not a 588 00:16:55,807 --> 00:17:00,854 wholesome meal. 589 00:17:00,896 --> 00:17:02,355 You know what you 590 00:17:00,896 --> 00:17:02,355 need to do, right? 591 00:17:02,397 --> 00:17:04,065 Take some cooking classes. 592 00:17:02,397 --> 00:17:04,065 [clears throat] 593 00:17:04,107 --> 00:17:05,149 Exactly. 594 00:17:05,191 --> 00:17:06,777 Excuse me? 595 00:17:06,818 --> 00:17:08,361 I didn't say nothing. 596 00:17:08,403 --> 00:17:11,448 You didn't marry me for 597 00:17:08,403 --> 00:17:11,448 my cooking, now did you? 598 00:17:11,489 --> 00:17:14,576 Mm. No ma'am I did not. 599 00:17:14,618 --> 00:17:17,913 Excuse me, I ain't trying 600 00:17:14,618 --> 00:17:17,913 to hear all that now, all right? 601 00:17:17,955 --> 00:17:18,789 What, Daddy? 602 00:17:18,830 --> 00:17:19,998 That we have sex? 603 00:17:20,039 --> 00:17:20,791 Tasha. 604 00:17:20,832 --> 00:17:22,375 [laughing] 605 00:17:22,417 --> 00:17:24,168 ♪ Let's get it on ♪ 606 00:17:24,210 --> 00:17:25,587 I tried to have 607 00:17:24,210 --> 00:17:25,587 that talk with you 608 00:17:25,629 --> 00:17:27,171 when you was a little girl. 609 00:17:27,213 --> 00:17:29,007 That talk with you about sex? 610 00:17:29,048 --> 00:17:30,759 You didn't want to 611 00:17:29,048 --> 00:17:30,759 hear nothing about it. 612 00:17:30,801 --> 00:17:32,343 Now look at you. 613 00:17:32,385 --> 00:17:34,805 [gentle music] 614 00:17:40,184 --> 00:17:43,146 Tasha. Tasha. 615 00:17:44,022 --> 00:17:44,815 Yeah? 616 00:17:46,149 --> 00:17:49,027 I want to talk to 617 00:17:46,149 --> 00:17:49,027 you for a minute. 618 00:17:52,405 --> 00:17:56,159 Brenda suggested that 619 00:17:52,405 --> 00:17:56,159 maybe you stay home today. 620 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,370 You know since you, well you 621 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,370 know, started menstruation. 622 00:17:59,412 --> 00:18:01,790 God Dad, don't 623 00:17:59,412 --> 00:18:01,790 say that out loud. 624 00:18:01,832 --> 00:18:05,209 I'm sorry, okay? I don't 625 00:18:01,832 --> 00:18:05,209 know all the rules. 626 00:18:06,169 --> 00:18:11,132 Um, did she teach you about 627 00:18:06,169 --> 00:18:11,132 those little pads? 628 00:18:11,174 --> 00:18:13,551 Please let this to 629 00:18:11,174 --> 00:18:13,551 be the end of the talk. 630 00:18:13,593 --> 00:18:14,594 Or my life. 631 00:18:16,179 --> 00:18:17,138 Do you want me to 632 00:18:16,179 --> 00:18:17,138 take you to the store? 633 00:18:17,180 --> 00:18:18,139 Do you need something? 634 00:18:18,181 --> 00:18:19,975 No. 635 00:18:20,017 --> 00:18:23,144 So, do you have any questions? 636 00:18:23,186 --> 00:18:24,103 No. 637 00:18:25,605 --> 00:18:29,359 Tasha, you know, since you are 638 00:18:25,605 --> 00:18:29,359 becoming a woman as of today, 639 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:32,362 I don't know, I thought maybe 640 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:32,362 you might have a few questions. 641 00:18:32,403 --> 00:18:34,906 Questions about what? 642 00:18:34,948 --> 00:18:36,157 [sighs] 643 00:18:36,199 --> 00:18:37,325 What do you know about sex? 644 00:18:37,367 --> 00:18:38,326 I'm not having 645 00:18:37,367 --> 00:18:38,326 this talk with you. 646 00:18:38,368 --> 00:18:40,161 Yes you are, okay. 647 00:18:40,203 --> 00:18:43,540 Your mother is not 648 00:18:40,203 --> 00:18:43,540 here, okay so, 649 00:18:43,581 --> 00:18:45,583 who else are you gonna 650 00:18:43,581 --> 00:18:45,583 talk to about it but me? 651 00:18:45,625 --> 00:18:46,543 Dad. 652 00:18:46,584 --> 00:18:49,170 Look Tasha, I am 653 00:18:46,584 --> 00:18:49,170 serious about this okay? 654 00:18:49,212 --> 00:18:52,757 When I was a kid, no one 655 00:18:49,212 --> 00:18:52,757 told me anything about sex. 656 00:18:52,799 --> 00:18:54,342 Everything I learned about sex 657 00:18:54,384 --> 00:18:57,595 was from a song called 658 00:18:54,384 --> 00:18:57,595 "Let's Get It On." 659 00:18:58,179 --> 00:18:59,180 Hmm. 660 00:18:59,222 --> 00:19:00,431 Have to look that one up. 661 00:19:00,473 --> 00:19:02,183 No you don't. 662 00:19:02,225 --> 00:19:07,355 Look many years from now... 663 00:19:02,225 --> 00:19:07,355 maybe when you're 60 or so, 664 00:19:07,397 --> 00:19:09,190 you know you're 665 00:19:07,397 --> 00:19:09,190 gonna wanna have sex. 666 00:19:09,232 --> 00:19:10,191 60 dad? 667 00:19:10,233 --> 00:19:11,192 Come on. 668 00:19:11,234 --> 00:19:13,945 All right, 40, 45, 669 00:19:11,234 --> 00:19:13,945 something like that. 670 00:19:13,987 --> 00:19:15,947 I'm not waiting that long, 671 00:19:15,989 --> 00:19:18,324 and let me save us both 672 00:19:15,989 --> 00:19:18,324 from this devastation. 673 00:19:18,366 --> 00:19:21,202 I've already had 674 00:19:18,366 --> 00:19:21,202 sex ed at school. 675 00:19:21,244 --> 00:19:25,206 I know about sex, the vagina, 676 00:19:21,244 --> 00:19:25,206 penis, egg, and sperm. 677 00:19:25,248 --> 00:19:27,375 Sexually transmitted 678 00:19:25,248 --> 00:19:27,375 diseases, all that. 679 00:19:27,417 --> 00:19:29,753 - Okay, but there's more-- 680 00:19:27,417 --> 00:19:29,753 - But nothing, Dad. 681 00:19:29,794 --> 00:19:31,337 Stop stressing. I'm gonna wait 682 00:19:31,379 --> 00:19:33,965 till I get married to have sex. 683 00:19:34,007 --> 00:19:35,550 I want to have a 684 00:19:34,007 --> 00:19:35,550 beautiful wedding, 685 00:19:35,592 --> 00:19:37,176 just like you and Mom had. 686 00:19:37,218 --> 00:19:40,221 I want a house full 687 00:19:37,218 --> 00:19:40,221 of children, five. 688 00:19:40,263 --> 00:19:41,765 Five? 689 00:19:41,806 --> 00:19:43,725 And I have their 690 00:19:41,806 --> 00:19:43,725 names picked out too. 691 00:19:43,767 --> 00:19:46,310 Patricia, after Mom of course. 692 00:19:46,352 --> 00:19:49,188 Candice, so I can 693 00:19:46,352 --> 00:19:49,188 nickname her Candy. 694 00:19:50,774 --> 00:19:53,151 Oh wait, that sounds like a 695 00:19:50,774 --> 00:19:53,151 stripper name. Scratch that one. 696 00:19:53,192 --> 00:19:55,319 And Alfonzo is gonna be amazing. 697 00:19:55,361 --> 00:19:58,406 Okay. I see you have this 698 00:19:55,361 --> 00:19:58,406 all planned out, all right? 699 00:19:58,448 --> 00:20:00,617 We don't have to go through 700 00:19:58,448 --> 00:20:00,617 every single detail. 701 00:20:00,658 --> 00:20:04,328 Great. Now I 702 00:20:00,658 --> 00:20:04,328 gotta go to school. 703 00:20:04,370 --> 00:20:06,998 [gentle music] 704 00:20:09,375 --> 00:20:10,585 Good talk, huh? 705 00:20:13,379 --> 00:20:14,213 I hope. 706 00:20:19,177 --> 00:20:20,511 Great work, Zinobia. 707 00:20:20,553 --> 00:20:25,349 -[clapping] 708 00:20:20,553 --> 00:20:25,349 -[phone buzzing] 709 00:20:26,017 --> 00:20:28,436 All right class, I need 710 00:20:26,017 --> 00:20:28,436 to return a quick call, 711 00:20:28,478 --> 00:20:31,272 but I will be right at 712 00:20:28,478 --> 00:20:31,272 the door if you need me. 713 00:20:31,314 --> 00:20:34,567 You may talk. Quietly. 714 00:20:39,572 --> 00:20:41,282 Hello? 715 00:20:41,324 --> 00:20:44,786 Yes, this is Tasha Jackson 716 00:20:41,324 --> 00:20:44,786 returning your call. 717 00:20:46,579 --> 00:20:48,957 Okay, so my results aren't in? 718 00:20:48,999 --> 00:20:50,000 Oh, they are? 719 00:20:51,334 --> 00:20:53,503 Well, why can't you just give 720 00:20:51,334 --> 00:20:53,503 them to me over the phone? 721 00:20:53,544 --> 00:20:56,131 [dramatic music] 722 00:20:56,173 --> 00:20:57,715 Oh, of course my husband 723 00:20:56,173 --> 00:20:57,715 and I will be there 724 00:20:57,757 --> 00:20:59,300 if Dr. Bailey insists. 725 00:20:59,342 --> 00:21:01,970 [dramatic music] 726 00:21:05,974 --> 00:21:07,934 I apologize for the delay. 727 00:21:07,976 --> 00:21:09,310 It's all right. 728 00:21:09,352 --> 00:21:12,147 Mr. and Mrs. Jackson, 729 00:21:09,352 --> 00:21:12,147 Tasha's results are in 730 00:21:12,189 --> 00:21:14,357 but I wanted to speak 731 00:21:12,189 --> 00:21:14,357 with you personally 732 00:21:14,398 --> 00:21:18,195 because her results are 733 00:21:14,398 --> 00:21:18,195 well, delicate in nature. 734 00:21:19,779 --> 00:21:21,531 What is it, Doctor? 735 00:21:21,572 --> 00:21:23,116 I thought about 736 00:21:21,572 --> 00:21:23,116 how to tell you this 737 00:21:23,158 --> 00:21:25,035 but there's only one 738 00:21:23,158 --> 00:21:25,035 way to say it so, 739 00:21:25,076 --> 00:21:27,704 I'm just gonna come out with it. 740 00:21:27,745 --> 00:21:30,915 You have defied the odds, Tasha. 741 00:21:30,957 --> 00:21:32,333 You're pregnant. 742 00:21:32,375 --> 00:21:33,334 - Oh my God! 743 00:21:32,375 --> 00:21:33,334 - Are you serious? 744 00:21:33,376 --> 00:21:34,335 Oh my God! 745 00:21:34,377 --> 00:21:35,920 -[laughing] 746 00:21:34,377 --> 00:21:35,920 -[crying] 747 00:21:35,962 --> 00:21:37,338 Oh, Bernie. 748 00:21:37,380 --> 00:21:38,923 Are you serious? 749 00:21:38,965 --> 00:21:40,508 Nine weeks along. 750 00:21:40,550 --> 00:21:41,342 A baby. 751 00:21:42,969 --> 00:21:44,012 Wow. 752 00:21:46,556 --> 00:21:51,061 But a mass was found 753 00:21:46,556 --> 00:21:51,061 on your mammogram. 754 00:21:51,102 --> 00:21:53,730 - Wait. 755 00:21:51,102 --> 00:21:53,730 - What? 756 00:21:53,771 --> 00:21:57,901 Wait no, no, no. I've been 757 00:21:53,771 --> 00:21:57,901 getting my mammogram for years, 758 00:21:57,942 --> 00:22:00,195 and my results have 759 00:21:57,942 --> 00:22:00,195 always been clean. 760 00:22:00,237 --> 00:22:02,321 I know, and I'm sorry, 761 00:22:02,363 --> 00:22:05,700 but unfortunately 762 00:22:02,363 --> 00:22:05,700 this result was not. 763 00:22:05,742 --> 00:22:07,952 Whoa hold on a second, wait. 764 00:22:09,537 --> 00:22:10,914 Just so I can 765 00:22:09,537 --> 00:22:10,914 understand you clearly, 766 00:22:10,955 --> 00:22:12,916 are you saying my wife 767 00:22:10,955 --> 00:22:12,916 has breast cancer? 768 00:22:12,957 --> 00:22:14,918 No, I'm not saying that at all. 769 00:22:14,959 --> 00:22:17,503 A biopsy will have to be 770 00:22:14,959 --> 00:22:17,503 preformed to determine that. 771 00:22:17,545 --> 00:22:20,131 What I'm saying is 772 00:22:17,545 --> 00:22:20,131 that Tasha has a mass, 773 00:22:20,173 --> 00:22:22,341 and as you both already know 774 00:22:20,173 --> 00:22:22,341 she carries a mutated gene. 775 00:22:22,383 --> 00:22:24,719 The BRCA1 she inherited 776 00:22:22,383 --> 00:22:24,719 from her mother. 777 00:22:24,761 --> 00:22:26,721 This mutation causes 778 00:22:24,761 --> 00:22:26,721 a greater risk 779 00:22:26,763 --> 00:22:28,973 of developing breast cancer. 780 00:22:29,015 --> 00:22:30,349 Okay, but... 781 00:22:32,518 --> 00:22:34,896 but, she can get the biopsy back 782 00:22:34,938 --> 00:22:37,899 and find out the 783 00:22:34,938 --> 00:22:37,899 mass isn't cancerous, 784 00:22:37,941 --> 00:22:40,401 and she and the baby 785 00:22:37,941 --> 00:22:40,401 will be fine, right? 786 00:22:40,443 --> 00:22:41,903 Yes, of course. 787 00:22:41,945 --> 00:22:44,405 The mass can be benign. 788 00:22:44,447 --> 00:22:46,324 And what if it isn't? 789 00:22:46,365 --> 00:22:49,327 If it's malignant, 790 00:22:46,365 --> 00:22:49,327 then your oncologist will 791 00:22:49,368 --> 00:22:50,411 talk to you about 792 00:22:49,368 --> 00:22:50,411 the next steps. 793 00:22:50,453 --> 00:22:54,415 No, no, Doc, you could 794 00:22:50,453 --> 00:22:54,415 just tell us right now. 795 00:22:54,457 --> 00:22:57,794 You're a doctor, you have 796 00:22:54,457 --> 00:22:57,794 an idea of what'll happen. 797 00:22:57,835 --> 00:22:58,628 Please. 798 00:23:00,838 --> 00:23:01,965 I'm sorry I... 799 00:23:05,135 --> 00:23:09,555 Listen, we've been wanting 800 00:23:05,135 --> 00:23:09,555 this baby for a long time. 801 00:23:09,597 --> 00:23:11,057 Yes. 802 00:23:11,099 --> 00:23:14,936 Right, we've been through 803 00:23:11,099 --> 00:23:14,936 too much so just, just tell us. 804 00:23:15,728 --> 00:23:18,940 Okay normally, in a case such 805 00:23:15,728 --> 00:23:18,940 as this, with the pregnancy 806 00:23:18,982 --> 00:23:24,321 in it's early stages, if the 807 00:23:18,982 --> 00:23:24,321 mass is indeed malignant, 808 00:23:24,362 --> 00:23:27,115 depending on the 809 00:23:24,362 --> 00:23:27,115 stage that it's in, 810 00:23:27,157 --> 00:23:28,449 then your 811 00:23:27,157 --> 00:23:28,449 oncologist might suggest 812 00:23:28,491 --> 00:23:30,118 that you terminate the pregnancy 813 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,121 and receive treatment 814 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,121 immediately. 815 00:23:33,163 --> 00:23:34,956 Terminate the pregnancy? 816 00:23:38,335 --> 00:23:40,920 God. Bernie. 817 00:23:47,135 --> 00:23:47,927 Tasha. 818 00:23:51,514 --> 00:23:55,101 If it's between 819 00:23:51,514 --> 00:23:55,101 you and this baby... 820 00:23:55,143 --> 00:23:58,938 I mean, it's no... real choice 821 00:23:55,143 --> 00:23:58,938 in the matter, you know? 822 00:24:00,481 --> 00:24:01,524 Are you serious? 823 00:24:02,733 --> 00:24:06,696 Just, we have options. 824 00:24:02,733 --> 00:24:06,696 Right? 825 00:24:06,737 --> 00:24:08,489 Tasha let me order the biopsy 826 00:24:08,531 --> 00:24:10,658 and let's look at the results 827 00:24:08,531 --> 00:24:10,658 before you get yourself upset. 828 00:24:10,700 --> 00:24:13,536 I mean, in your condition 829 00:24:10,700 --> 00:24:13,536 it is very important 830 00:24:13,577 --> 00:24:14,495 that you remain calm. 831 00:24:14,537 --> 00:24:15,496 [Tasha] Oh God, I can't. 832 00:24:15,538 --> 00:24:16,497 Tasha, baby. 833 00:24:16,539 --> 00:24:17,707 [Tasha] I can't! 834 00:24:18,916 --> 00:24:20,084 Thank you. 835 00:24:20,126 --> 00:24:21,085 Tasha. 836 00:24:21,127 --> 00:24:22,128 [crying] 837 00:24:25,548 --> 00:24:27,550 [sobbing] 838 00:24:38,353 --> 00:24:39,520 Tasha. 839 00:24:39,562 --> 00:24:40,897 Don't you speak to me. 840 00:24:40,938 --> 00:24:43,524 Wait, don't use that 841 00:24:40,938 --> 00:24:43,524 teacher voice on me. 842 00:24:43,566 --> 00:24:46,652 How dare you say 843 00:24:43,566 --> 00:24:46,652 that if it's between me 844 00:24:46,694 --> 00:24:48,863 and the baby there's 845 00:24:46,694 --> 00:24:48,863 no other choice? 846 00:24:48,905 --> 00:24:50,907 My body, my choice. 847 00:24:50,948 --> 00:24:52,700 Hey, wait a second, 848 00:24:50,948 --> 00:24:52,700 you're my wife, okay? 849 00:24:52,742 --> 00:24:54,327 - I have a say in this. 850 00:24:52,742 --> 00:24:54,327 - No, you don't, Bernie. 851 00:24:54,369 --> 00:24:57,121 Yes, I do, Tasha! 852 00:24:54,369 --> 00:24:57,121 I do have a say! Okay? 853 00:24:59,749 --> 00:25:01,418 [sighs] 854 00:25:05,129 --> 00:25:07,548 Why is this happening to me? 855 00:25:07,590 --> 00:25:09,717 Why is this happening to us? 856 00:25:10,718 --> 00:25:11,552 Listen. 857 00:25:11,594 --> 00:25:12,511 What? 858 00:25:14,347 --> 00:25:16,474 Let's not do 859 00:25:14,347 --> 00:25:16,474 this to each other. 860 00:25:16,515 --> 00:25:17,516 Not right now. 861 00:25:19,894 --> 00:25:22,563 The biopsy could 862 00:25:19,894 --> 00:25:22,563 come back benign 863 00:25:22,605 --> 00:25:25,608 and everything will be okay. 864 00:25:25,649 --> 00:25:26,650 All right? 865 00:25:28,527 --> 00:25:29,946 - Okay. 866 00:25:28,527 --> 00:25:29,946 - Okay. 867 00:25:29,987 --> 00:25:31,281 - Come on. 868 00:25:29,987 --> 00:25:31,281 - I'm sorry, Bernie. 869 00:25:31,322 --> 00:25:34,075 No, that's okay, come on. 870 00:25:34,117 --> 00:25:35,118 It's gonna be all right. 871 00:25:37,328 --> 00:25:39,330 [door bell rings] 872 00:25:41,707 --> 00:25:42,583 Daddy. 873 00:25:42,625 --> 00:25:44,710 [crying] 874 00:25:47,630 --> 00:25:49,590 It's malignant. 875 00:25:49,632 --> 00:25:50,549 Damn it. 876 00:25:51,884 --> 00:25:54,304 My baby, my baby, my baby. 877 00:25:56,097 --> 00:25:57,640 When I had that biopsy done, 878 00:25:57,681 --> 00:26:01,394 I just knew that everything 879 00:25:57,681 --> 00:26:01,394 was gonna be okay. 880 00:26:02,645 --> 00:26:05,564 But the oncologist 881 00:26:02,645 --> 00:26:05,564 said that I have... 882 00:26:06,690 --> 00:26:09,902 I have invasive ductal 883 00:26:06,690 --> 00:26:09,902 carcinoma stage two. 884 00:26:12,322 --> 00:26:15,074 It's an aggressive 885 00:26:12,322 --> 00:26:15,074 form of breast cancer. 886 00:26:15,116 --> 00:26:19,537 I know. It's what your 887 00:26:15,116 --> 00:26:19,537 mother had, stage four. 888 00:26:20,538 --> 00:26:23,624 Yeah so, Melvin, 889 00:26:20,538 --> 00:26:23,624 Brenda will you please 890 00:26:23,666 --> 00:26:25,042 help me talk some 891 00:26:23,666 --> 00:26:25,042 sense into her? 892 00:26:25,084 --> 00:26:26,627 Please? 893 00:26:26,669 --> 00:26:29,630 The oncologist said that we 894 00:26:26,669 --> 00:26:29,630 should terminate the pregnancy 895 00:26:29,672 --> 00:26:31,841 now so that she can 896 00:26:29,672 --> 00:26:31,841 start her treatment. 897 00:26:31,882 --> 00:26:33,259 Terminate the pregnancy? 898 00:26:33,301 --> 00:26:34,260 Yes. 899 00:26:34,302 --> 00:26:35,636 This is our baby, Bernie. 900 00:26:35,678 --> 00:26:37,638 How many times do I have 901 00:26:35,678 --> 00:26:37,638 to remind you of that? 902 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,265 That's our baby. 903 00:26:39,307 --> 00:26:41,476 Tasha honey, 904 00:26:39,307 --> 00:26:41,476 this is your life. 905 00:26:41,518 --> 00:26:46,481 Yes. Yes. This 906 00:26:41,518 --> 00:26:46,481 is my life. Mine. 907 00:26:46,523 --> 00:26:48,065 Who around this table 908 00:26:46,523 --> 00:26:48,065 understands that? 909 00:26:48,107 --> 00:26:49,859 What is there to understand? 910 00:26:49,900 --> 00:26:51,652 Huh? 911 00:26:51,694 --> 00:26:54,071 The oncologist said that 912 00:26:51,694 --> 00:26:54,071 her cancer's treatable 913 00:26:54,113 --> 00:26:55,614 if we start now, Tasha. 914 00:26:58,075 --> 00:26:59,452 Did you ask the 915 00:26:58,075 --> 00:26:59,452 doctor what would happen 916 00:26:59,494 --> 00:27:00,703 if she's waits till 917 00:26:59,494 --> 00:27:00,703 after the pregnancy? 918 00:27:00,744 --> 00:27:03,456 Yeah, and if she waits 919 00:27:00,744 --> 00:27:03,456 until the baby is born, 920 00:27:03,498 --> 00:27:04,665 then the cancer could grow 921 00:27:04,707 --> 00:27:07,251 and it may be too late 922 00:27:04,707 --> 00:27:07,251 to do anything about it. 923 00:27:07,293 --> 00:27:12,256 Tasha, baby, what 924 00:27:07,293 --> 00:27:12,256 do you want to do? 925 00:27:12,298 --> 00:27:14,633 I want to have our baby. 926 00:27:15,885 --> 00:27:18,262 Look, whatever time I 927 00:27:15,885 --> 00:27:18,262 have left on this earth 928 00:27:18,304 --> 00:27:20,681 I would rather spend it 929 00:27:18,304 --> 00:27:20,681 having a baby to love, 930 00:27:20,723 --> 00:27:22,099 than without one. 931 00:27:23,726 --> 00:27:29,023 Daddy, this is a miracle. 932 00:27:23,726 --> 00:27:29,023 This baby is a gift from God. 933 00:27:29,065 --> 00:27:32,235 What part about that don't 934 00:27:29,065 --> 00:27:32,235 you understand, Bernie? 935 00:27:32,276 --> 00:27:35,029 You know what, I'm not gonna 936 00:27:32,276 --> 00:27:35,029 sit here and listen to this. 937 00:27:35,071 --> 00:27:36,447 So what, you're 938 00:27:35,071 --> 00:27:36,447 just gonna walk away? 939 00:27:36,489 --> 00:27:39,700 You're just gonna walk away? 940 00:27:39,742 --> 00:27:42,912 Let him go. He has 941 00:27:39,742 --> 00:27:42,912 a lot to process. 942 00:27:43,704 --> 00:27:44,663 Trust me, I know. 943 00:27:46,082 --> 00:27:47,458 The thought about 944 00:27:46,082 --> 00:27:47,458 losing the only woman 945 00:27:47,500 --> 00:27:50,836 that you've ever loved... 946 00:27:47,500 --> 00:27:50,836 It's a lot to deal with. 947 00:27:50,878 --> 00:27:52,463 So what? 948 00:27:52,505 --> 00:27:54,715 You two gonna gang up on me too? 949 00:27:54,757 --> 00:27:56,259 Is that it? 950 00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:58,844 We're not gonna 951 00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:58,844 gang up on you, Tasha, 952 00:27:58,886 --> 00:28:02,723 but if your doctor is urging 953 00:27:58,886 --> 00:28:02,723 you to terminate the pregnancy, 954 00:28:02,765 --> 00:28:05,643 then you need to listen to him. 955 00:28:05,684 --> 00:28:08,646 I seen what this disease 956 00:28:05,684 --> 00:28:08,646 can do first hand 957 00:28:08,687 --> 00:28:11,232 and baby, I don't 958 00:28:08,687 --> 00:28:11,232 wish that on you. 959 00:28:11,274 --> 00:28:13,817 [dramatic music] 960 00:28:13,859 --> 00:28:14,860 Hey, come here. 961 00:28:16,070 --> 00:28:17,696 Come over here with us. 962 00:28:20,741 --> 00:28:21,576 My girls. 963 00:28:25,704 --> 00:28:27,081 [laughing] 964 00:28:27,123 --> 00:28:31,043 ♪ And I try to care from 965 00:28:27,123 --> 00:28:31,043 an angel made for me ♪ 966 00:28:31,085 --> 00:28:32,044 ♪ Made for me ♪ 967 00:28:32,086 --> 00:28:33,837 ♪ Made for me ♪ 968 00:28:33,879 --> 00:28:37,758 ♪ Made for me ♪ 969 00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:38,676 Patricia. 970 00:28:40,094 --> 00:28:40,928 Patricia. 971 00:28:44,474 --> 00:28:46,850 Tasha, call 911 like 972 00:28:44,474 --> 00:28:46,850 we practiced, come on. 973 00:28:46,892 --> 00:28:47,726 Tasha, now! 974 00:28:49,479 --> 00:28:50,271 Patricia. 975 00:28:52,106 --> 00:28:57,153 [Melvin] Even though I 976 00:28:52,106 --> 00:28:57,153 saw how much pain this 977 00:28:52,106 --> 00:28:57,153 disease caused her, 978 00:28:57,820 --> 00:29:00,781 I was equally hurt 979 00:28:57,820 --> 00:29:00,781 that you had to grow up 980 00:29:00,823 --> 00:29:02,492 without her guidance. 981 00:29:06,412 --> 00:29:08,914 [Brenda] Hey Tashy, 982 00:29:06,412 --> 00:29:08,914 you wanna come out 983 00:29:08,956 --> 00:29:09,790 and get something to eat? 984 00:29:09,832 --> 00:29:12,751 I know you must be hungry. 985 00:29:12,793 --> 00:29:14,920 I'm not hungry. 986 00:29:14,962 --> 00:29:15,754 You sure? 987 00:29:20,176 --> 00:29:25,806 You know, Tasha you can 988 00:29:20,176 --> 00:29:25,806 talk to me about anything. 989 00:29:25,848 --> 00:29:28,559 Just like your momma did. 990 00:29:28,601 --> 00:29:31,979 I mean, I wasn't her 991 00:29:28,601 --> 00:29:31,979 best friend for nothing. 992 00:29:34,898 --> 00:29:35,774 Okay. 993 00:29:37,818 --> 00:29:39,153 I'm here if you need me. 994 00:29:39,195 --> 00:29:41,989 [dramatic music] 995 00:29:51,624 --> 00:29:52,416 [Bernie] Hey, Tasha. 996 00:29:52,458 --> 00:29:53,751 Hey, Bernie. 997 00:29:53,792 --> 00:29:56,337 Your mommy's 998 00:29:53,792 --> 00:29:56,337 gone to Heaven, huh? 999 00:29:56,379 --> 00:29:59,840 My dog Split went to heaven 1000 00:29:56,379 --> 00:29:59,840 too, guess it's a good place. 1001 00:29:59,882 --> 00:30:01,842 That's what they say in church. 1002 00:30:01,884 --> 00:30:03,927 Remember the day 1003 00:30:01,884 --> 00:30:03,927 of the funeral? 1004 00:30:03,969 --> 00:30:07,765 How could I forget? Yeah. 1005 00:30:07,806 --> 00:30:09,559 [dramatic music] 1006 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,769 Heard your mom kicked 1007 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,769 the bucket, shrimp. 1008 00:30:11,810 --> 00:30:16,106 -[whacks] 1009 00:30:11,810 --> 00:30:16,106 -[cries out] 1010 00:30:16,148 --> 00:30:18,526 When I pulled you 1011 00:30:16,148 --> 00:30:18,526 out of that fight... 1012 00:30:18,568 --> 00:30:19,902 Tasha, stop! 1013 00:30:19,943 --> 00:30:22,530 Tasha, I said stop! 1014 00:30:22,572 --> 00:30:26,909 ...I knew right then and there, 1015 00:30:22,572 --> 00:30:26,909 I could only do so much for you. 1016 00:30:26,950 --> 00:30:29,870 You really need to think 1017 00:30:26,950 --> 00:30:29,870 about the possibility 1018 00:30:29,912 --> 00:30:32,790 of this child growing 1019 00:30:29,912 --> 00:30:32,790 up without you. 1020 00:30:34,375 --> 00:30:36,960 Now come on, Daddy's 1021 00:30:34,375 --> 00:30:36,960 gonna take you home. 1022 00:30:38,379 --> 00:30:41,882 I mean one minute we 1023 00:30:38,379 --> 00:30:41,882 can't have any kids. 1024 00:30:41,924 --> 00:30:45,302 The next minute... 1025 00:30:41,924 --> 00:30:45,302 You know? 1026 00:30:45,803 --> 00:30:49,890 It's all so much all 1027 00:30:45,803 --> 00:30:49,890 of a sudden, man. 1028 00:30:49,932 --> 00:30:51,642 Yeah, I know. 1029 00:30:51,684 --> 00:30:54,562 I mean, I can't pretend I never 1030 00:30:51,684 --> 00:30:54,562 wanted children, you know? 1031 00:30:56,105 --> 00:30:57,106 Hmm. 1032 00:30:59,149 --> 00:31:01,736 But when we found out 1033 00:30:59,149 --> 00:31:01,736 Tasha couldn't have any, 1034 00:31:01,778 --> 00:31:03,904 I was cool with that, you know. 1035 00:31:03,946 --> 00:31:06,532 I wasn't going 1036 00:31:03,946 --> 00:31:06,532 anywhere. I love her. 1037 00:31:06,574 --> 00:31:07,784 Yeah, I get it. 1038 00:31:15,792 --> 00:31:17,960 I don't want this baby, Tony. 1039 00:31:20,588 --> 00:31:25,593 It might not be right 1040 00:31:20,588 --> 00:31:25,593 but, that's how I feel. 1041 00:31:27,553 --> 00:31:29,513 You'll come around. 1042 00:31:29,555 --> 00:31:30,556 I doubt it. 1043 00:31:33,976 --> 00:31:35,894 - She needs you man. 1044 00:31:33,976 --> 00:31:35,894 - Mm-mm. 1045 00:31:37,146 --> 00:31:41,358 Bro, she don't need me. 1046 00:31:37,146 --> 00:31:41,358 She got it all figured out. 1047 00:31:42,568 --> 00:31:43,736 She's so damn stubborn. 1048 00:31:43,778 --> 00:31:44,570 Yeah. 1049 00:31:49,158 --> 00:31:51,577 [door bangs] 1050 00:31:56,999 --> 00:32:00,586 I tucked her in just like 1051 00:31:56,999 --> 00:32:00,586 I did when she was little. 1052 00:32:00,628 --> 00:32:02,505 She was spent. 1053 00:32:02,546 --> 00:32:03,339 I'm sure. 1054 00:32:08,135 --> 00:32:10,929 I can't believe 1055 00:32:08,135 --> 00:32:10,929 this is happening. 1056 00:32:10,971 --> 00:32:11,764 Not to her. 1057 00:32:14,975 --> 00:32:16,560 Can I get a cup of tea? 1058 00:32:21,023 --> 00:32:22,024 What? 1059 00:32:22,065 --> 00:32:23,984 You mad at me? 1060 00:32:24,026 --> 00:32:25,944 I don't know, am I? 1061 00:32:26,987 --> 00:32:29,990 What does-- 1062 00:32:26,987 --> 00:32:29,990 What's that 1063 00:32:26,987 --> 00:32:29,990 supposed to mean. 1064 00:32:30,032 --> 00:32:33,994 It means... When will I 1065 00:32:30,032 --> 00:32:33,994 be enough for you, Melvin? 1066 00:32:34,036 --> 00:32:37,748 I don't know what the 1067 00:32:34,036 --> 00:32:37,748 hell you talking about. 1068 00:32:44,547 --> 00:32:45,715 All these years I've been here, 1069 00:32:45,756 --> 00:32:47,925 I feel like I'm 1070 00:32:45,756 --> 00:32:47,925 invisible to you. 1071 00:32:47,966 --> 00:32:49,092 Invisible? 1072 00:32:49,134 --> 00:32:50,010 You're standing 1073 00:32:49,134 --> 00:32:50,010 right in front of me. 1074 00:32:50,052 --> 00:32:51,094 Do you see me? 1075 00:32:51,136 --> 00:32:54,515 'Cause I feel like I'm 1076 00:32:51,136 --> 00:32:54,515 standing in Patricia's shadow. 1077 00:32:54,557 --> 00:32:56,726 Nothing I do is ever 1078 00:32:54,557 --> 00:32:56,726 good enough for you. 1079 00:32:56,767 --> 00:32:58,018 Not when I helped you take care 1080 00:32:58,060 --> 00:33:00,103 of my best friend 1081 00:32:58,060 --> 00:33:00,103 until her death. 1082 00:33:00,145 --> 00:33:02,022 Not even when I 1083 00:33:00,145 --> 00:33:02,022 helped you raise Tasha 1084 00:33:02,064 --> 00:33:03,399 while I'm raising my own boys. 1085 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:07,027 Not once have I ever 1086 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:07,027 felt appreciated. 1087 00:33:07,069 --> 00:33:09,822 We're in a relationship Brenda, 1088 00:33:07,069 --> 00:33:09,822 that's not enough for you? 1089 00:33:09,864 --> 00:33:11,198 No, it's not. 1090 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:12,408 Then what do you 1091 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:12,408 want from me, huh? 1092 00:33:12,449 --> 00:33:14,034 A thank you? 1093 00:33:14,076 --> 00:33:15,244 Do you love me? 1094 00:33:17,454 --> 00:33:19,206 My only child 1095 00:33:17,454 --> 00:33:19,206 just walked in here 1096 00:33:19,248 --> 00:33:21,625 and told me she 1097 00:33:19,248 --> 00:33:21,625 has breast cancer 1098 00:33:21,667 --> 00:33:23,419 and she's foregoing treatment 1099 00:33:23,460 --> 00:33:26,046 for a child she may never raise. 1100 00:33:27,464 --> 00:33:30,634 Every bit of love, 1101 00:33:27,464 --> 00:33:30,634 every bit of support, 1102 00:33:30,676 --> 00:33:33,637 every bit of strength, 1103 00:33:30,676 --> 00:33:33,637 everything I have in me 1104 00:33:33,679 --> 00:33:36,181 is going to my daughter. 1105 00:33:36,223 --> 00:33:39,226 You either accept that, or not. 1106 00:33:41,061 --> 00:33:42,020 I'm going to bed. 1107 00:33:53,115 --> 00:33:56,410 -[dramatic music] 1108 00:33:53,115 --> 00:33:56,410 -[crying] 1109 00:33:56,452 --> 00:33:58,078 [knocking] 1110 00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,039 [Melvin] Tasha baby, 1111 00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,039 please open the door. 1112 00:34:02,458 --> 00:34:04,084 Tasha's in the bathroom, 1113 00:34:02,458 --> 00:34:04,084 she won't come out. 1114 00:34:04,126 --> 00:34:06,295 I didn't know what to 1115 00:34:04,126 --> 00:34:06,295 do so I called you. 1116 00:34:06,336 --> 00:34:10,007 It's fine. She's 12 years old. 1117 00:34:10,048 --> 00:34:14,094 If she's not coming out of the 1118 00:34:10,048 --> 00:34:14,094 bathroom it's for one reason. 1119 00:34:14,136 --> 00:34:18,056 Sanitary napkins. She's 1120 00:34:14,136 --> 00:34:18,056 crossed over into womanhood. 1121 00:34:19,308 --> 00:34:21,101 How could I not know that? 1122 00:34:21,143 --> 00:34:23,520 Don't beat 1123 00:34:21,143 --> 00:34:23,520 yourself up about it. 1124 00:34:23,562 --> 00:34:26,565 Tasha honey, it's Brenda. 1125 00:34:27,858 --> 00:34:28,859 Can I come in? 1126 00:34:30,444 --> 00:34:32,446 [creaks] 1127 00:34:35,658 --> 00:34:37,618 I'll be in the kitchen. 1128 00:34:37,660 --> 00:34:38,661 It'll be fine. 1129 00:34:38,702 --> 00:34:39,536 Yeah. 1130 00:34:42,039 --> 00:34:44,625 [water splashing] 1131 00:34:46,418 --> 00:34:47,711 She's growing up. 1132 00:34:48,838 --> 00:34:51,131 Best to let her stay 1133 00:34:48,838 --> 00:34:51,131 home from school today. 1134 00:34:51,173 --> 00:34:52,967 Experiencing that 1135 00:34:51,173 --> 00:34:52,967 for the first time 1136 00:34:53,009 --> 00:34:54,677 can be a little traumatic. 1137 00:34:54,718 --> 00:34:55,678 Thank you, Brenda. 1138 00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:57,095 Mm-hmm. No problem. 1139 00:35:01,141 --> 00:35:03,978 [sighs] You know, 1140 00:35:04,020 --> 00:35:06,146 with Patricia 1141 00:35:04,020 --> 00:35:06,146 gone I just feel as though 1142 00:35:06,188 --> 00:35:08,524 there's so much 1143 00:35:06,188 --> 00:35:08,524 she's missing out on 1144 00:35:08,565 --> 00:35:09,817 that I can't give to her. 1145 00:35:09,859 --> 00:35:11,151 Well, I'm not her mother, 1146 00:35:11,193 --> 00:35:14,613 but I'm always here 1147 00:35:11,193 --> 00:35:14,613 to help you with her. 1148 00:35:14,655 --> 00:35:16,198 I don't want to burden you. 1149 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,117 It's no burden. 1150 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,117 I can help her. 1151 00:35:20,995 --> 00:35:21,996 And you. 1152 00:35:24,832 --> 00:35:27,417 [dramatic music] 1153 00:35:30,212 --> 00:35:32,172 - I can't. 1154 00:35:30,212 --> 00:35:32,172 - Yes, you can. 1155 00:35:32,214 --> 00:35:35,051 [dramatic music] 1156 00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:42,432 Melvin. 1157 00:35:44,434 --> 00:35:47,021 You're a man with needs. 1158 00:35:47,063 --> 00:35:49,439 I'm a woman with the same needs. 1159 00:35:51,233 --> 00:35:54,152 My needs are taken 1160 00:35:51,233 --> 00:35:54,152 care of just fine. 1161 00:35:55,696 --> 00:35:58,156 Oh, I see. 1162 00:35:59,909 --> 00:36:03,871 So, you can be with other 1163 00:35:59,909 --> 00:36:03,871 women, just not me. Is that it? 1164 00:36:03,913 --> 00:36:06,456 Brenda, it's not 1165 00:36:03,913 --> 00:36:06,456 easy for you and me. 1166 00:36:06,498 --> 00:36:09,251 You were her best friend. 1167 00:36:09,292 --> 00:36:10,878 It's been four years. 1168 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,089 You think I don't know that? 1169 00:36:13,130 --> 00:36:17,885 She's gone Melvin, and 1170 00:36:13,130 --> 00:36:17,885 I'm here, and I love you. 1171 00:36:17,927 --> 00:36:19,469 And that little girl upstairs, 1172 00:36:19,511 --> 00:36:21,847 - I love her like she's my own. 1173 00:36:19,511 --> 00:36:21,847 - I know that. 1174 00:36:21,889 --> 00:36:22,848 Then why? 1175 00:36:22,890 --> 00:36:24,850 I just-- Look I 1176 00:36:22,890 --> 00:36:24,850 just can't, okay? 1177 00:36:24,892 --> 00:36:26,852 Can't is not a reason. 1178 00:36:26,894 --> 00:36:28,228 Why don't you just 1179 00:36:26,894 --> 00:36:28,228 consider the fact that-- 1180 00:36:28,270 --> 00:36:31,690 Look, I'm still in 1181 00:36:28,270 --> 00:36:31,690 love with my wife, okay? 1182 00:36:33,109 --> 00:36:36,862 Look, I don't want 1183 00:36:33,109 --> 00:36:36,862 to hurt you, Brenda. 1184 00:36:36,904 --> 00:36:38,238 I took care of her 1185 00:36:36,904 --> 00:36:38,238 when that cancer 1186 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,198 was just eating her away. 1187 00:36:41,700 --> 00:36:44,244 I did everything I 1188 00:36:41,700 --> 00:36:44,244 could to keep her here. 1189 00:36:44,286 --> 00:36:47,456 Because Tasha needed her mother. 1190 00:36:47,497 --> 00:36:49,458 I took care of her too. 1191 00:36:49,499 --> 00:36:51,501 I was right there with you. 1192 00:36:52,836 --> 00:36:56,715 So you expect me to just 1193 00:36:52,836 --> 00:36:56,715 make love to her best friend? 1194 00:36:56,757 --> 00:36:57,758 Yes. 1195 00:36:59,676 --> 00:37:01,720 You just don't understand. 1196 00:37:01,762 --> 00:37:03,639 I can't betray 1197 00:37:01,762 --> 00:37:03,639 Patricia like that. 1198 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:06,266 You can't betray a dead woman. 1199 00:37:08,477 --> 00:37:12,856 I didn't mean that. I'm sorry. 1200 00:37:12,898 --> 00:37:15,985 Look, I know she's dead, okay? 1201 00:37:16,026 --> 00:37:19,279 And she's not coming back. 1202 00:37:19,321 --> 00:37:24,660 And you're a beautiful 1203 00:37:19,321 --> 00:37:24,660 woman. Any man would be 1204 00:37:19,321 --> 00:37:24,660 lucky to have you. 1205 00:37:24,701 --> 00:37:26,286 But I'm not gonna sit here 1206 00:37:26,328 --> 00:37:30,707 and pretend that I want any 1207 00:37:26,328 --> 00:37:30,707 more from you than friendship. 1208 00:37:30,749 --> 00:37:32,751 I don't need anymore friends. 1209 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,883 I can't do this anymore. 1210 00:37:41,343 --> 00:37:45,889 Brenda, don't leave. 1211 00:37:41,343 --> 00:37:45,889 Tasha needs you. 1212 00:37:47,850 --> 00:37:49,893 If only you needed me too. 1213 00:37:49,935 --> 00:37:52,270 [dramatic music] 1214 00:37:53,313 --> 00:37:55,691 [door clatters] 1215 00:38:02,572 --> 00:38:03,573 Hey. 1216 00:38:04,366 --> 00:38:05,617 Hey. 1217 00:38:05,659 --> 00:38:09,329 I have a sonogram 1218 00:38:05,659 --> 00:38:09,329 appointment this morning. 1219 00:38:09,371 --> 00:38:11,456 You think you could make it? 1220 00:38:13,834 --> 00:38:19,256 Um, yeah, I don't think so 1221 00:38:13,834 --> 00:38:19,256 babe. I don't think I can. 1222 00:38:19,297 --> 00:38:20,465 Could you try? 1223 00:38:23,177 --> 00:38:24,220 I gotta work. 1224 00:38:25,303 --> 00:38:26,471 [clears throat] 1225 00:38:28,891 --> 00:38:31,476 [dramatic music] 1226 00:38:35,939 --> 00:38:40,861 All right. Okay, thanks 1227 00:38:35,939 --> 00:38:40,861 for telling me. Okay. 1228 00:38:40,903 --> 00:38:45,032 That was Tasha. She has 1229 00:38:40,903 --> 00:38:45,032 a sonogram this morning. 1230 00:38:45,074 --> 00:38:47,826 What? You still 1231 00:38:45,074 --> 00:38:47,826 not talking to me? 1232 00:38:47,868 --> 00:38:49,411 For what? 1233 00:38:49,452 --> 00:38:51,329 I don't have anything to say. 1234 00:38:51,371 --> 00:38:53,957 Then don't say 1235 00:38:51,371 --> 00:38:53,957 anything. 1236 00:38:53,999 --> 00:38:57,211 We just uh... 1237 00:38:53,999 --> 00:38:57,211 make up. 1238 00:38:59,171 --> 00:39:02,340 Aren't we a little 1239 00:38:59,171 --> 00:39:02,340 too old for make up sex? 1240 00:39:02,382 --> 00:39:06,344 I don't know. 1241 00:39:02,382 --> 00:39:06,344 Tell me when we're finished. 1242 00:39:06,386 --> 00:39:08,972 [dramatic music] 1243 00:39:11,725 --> 00:39:13,393 The gel is warm. 1244 00:39:13,435 --> 00:39:14,352 Okay. 1245 00:39:18,398 --> 00:39:19,775 Oh. 1246 00:39:18,398 --> 00:39:19,775 [laughs] 1247 00:39:23,112 --> 00:39:25,530 All right, here we go. 1248 00:39:29,952 --> 00:39:30,953 There. 1249 00:39:32,454 --> 00:39:35,415 [laughs] It looks like a 1250 00:39:32,454 --> 00:39:35,415 little kidney bean. 1251 00:39:35,457 --> 00:39:37,167 [laughs] 1252 00:39:37,209 --> 00:39:40,003 Yes, that's what it's supposed 1253 00:39:37,209 --> 00:39:40,003 to look like at this gestation. 1254 00:39:40,045 --> 00:39:41,297 Wow. 1255 00:39:41,713 --> 00:39:43,465 Well, is everything okay, 1256 00:39:41,713 --> 00:39:43,465 is the heart beating? 1257 00:39:43,506 --> 00:39:46,302 Heart beat is strong. 1258 00:39:46,343 --> 00:39:47,427 You're about 11 weeks along. 1259 00:39:47,469 --> 00:39:49,721 [laughing] 1260 00:39:54,143 --> 00:39:56,436 Miss Jackson, are you okay? 1261 00:39:56,478 --> 00:39:58,897 I wish my husband 1262 00:39:56,478 --> 00:39:58,897 was here is all. 1263 00:39:58,939 --> 00:40:01,483 We'll print a 1264 00:39:58,939 --> 00:40:01,483 picture out for him. 1265 00:40:01,524 --> 00:40:03,443 No one wants to do 1266 00:40:01,524 --> 00:40:03,443 the first... ya know, 1267 00:40:03,485 --> 00:40:04,903 sonogram alone, you know? 1268 00:40:04,945 --> 00:40:06,404 Oh yeah, I understand. 1269 00:40:07,489 --> 00:40:08,698 Did we miss it? 1270 00:40:08,740 --> 00:40:10,492 Oh my God, you're here? 1271 00:40:10,533 --> 00:40:16,165 Oh, Brenda and Daddy. 1272 00:40:10,533 --> 00:40:16,165 Oh, here you go. 1273 00:40:17,207 --> 00:40:18,458 We would have been 1274 00:40:17,207 --> 00:40:18,458 here earlier but um-- 1275 00:40:18,500 --> 00:40:19,709 Traffic. 1276 00:40:19,751 --> 00:40:21,295 - Yeah. 1277 00:40:19,751 --> 00:40:21,295 - We were caught in traffic. 1278 00:40:21,337 --> 00:40:24,089 Yeah, caught in traffic, good 1279 00:40:21,337 --> 00:40:24,089 traffic-- I mean, big traffic. 1280 00:40:24,131 --> 00:40:25,465 Yeah. 1281 00:40:25,507 --> 00:40:26,424 Okay? 1282 00:40:27,926 --> 00:40:29,469 All right, let's fire this thing 1283 00:40:27,926 --> 00:40:29,469 up so I can see this baby. 1284 00:40:29,511 --> 00:40:31,096 [nurse] Oh, yeah, sure thing. 1285 00:40:31,138 --> 00:40:33,015 Oh, yeah. 1286 00:40:33,056 --> 00:40:36,810 [Melvin] Look, I got the baby 1287 00:40:33,056 --> 00:40:36,810 on film before it's even here! 1288 00:40:36,852 --> 00:40:38,645 [laughs] 1289 00:40:38,687 --> 00:40:41,564 I know. It's so tiny. 1290 00:40:38,687 --> 00:40:41,564 [laughs] 1291 00:40:43,108 --> 00:40:45,319 Okay, here goes nothing. 1292 00:40:46,195 --> 00:40:48,446 [sighs] 1293 00:40:46,195 --> 00:40:48,446 [clears throat] 1294 00:40:48,488 --> 00:40:54,995 Hello there, um... well, today 1295 00:40:48,488 --> 00:40:54,995 has been all in all, uh... 1296 00:40:55,037 --> 00:40:56,997 Oh my God. 1297 00:40:57,039 --> 00:41:01,168 What the hell am 1298 00:40:57,039 --> 00:41:01,168 I trying to say? 1299 00:41:01,210 --> 00:41:02,585 Oh, I got it. [clears throat] 1300 00:41:04,838 --> 00:41:09,968 All right, um... Hey there 1301 00:41:04,838 --> 00:41:09,968 little person, whoever you are. 1302 00:41:10,010 --> 00:41:12,512 My name is Tasha, Tasha Jackson 1303 00:41:12,554 --> 00:41:18,310 and um... 1304 00:41:12,554 --> 00:41:18,310 I recently turned 30 and um... 1305 00:41:18,352 --> 00:41:22,522 Damn it. This thing's 1306 00:41:18,352 --> 00:41:22,522 not even recording. 1307 00:41:22,564 --> 00:41:24,524 Okay, okay here we go. 1308 00:41:28,695 --> 00:41:30,488 Hello, little one. 1309 00:41:30,530 --> 00:41:32,282 [laughs] 1310 00:41:32,324 --> 00:41:34,993 I am your mommy, Tasha, 1311 00:41:35,035 --> 00:41:38,997 and right now you 1312 00:41:35,035 --> 00:41:38,997 are in my tummy, see? 1313 00:41:39,039 --> 00:41:41,041 [laughs] 1314 00:41:41,583 --> 00:41:45,545 Um, I am recording this 1315 00:41:41,583 --> 00:41:45,545 because apparently 1316 00:41:45,587 --> 00:41:48,590 your grandfather Melvin 1317 00:41:45,587 --> 00:41:48,590 had it right all along. 1318 00:41:48,631 --> 00:41:52,010 Important things should 1319 00:41:48,631 --> 00:41:52,010 be captured on film. 1320 00:41:52,052 --> 00:41:56,181 So here I am recording 1321 00:41:52,052 --> 00:41:56,181 this just for you. 1322 00:41:56,223 --> 00:42:00,643 So, I am 11 weeks 1323 00:41:56,223 --> 00:42:00,643 pregnant with you 1324 00:42:00,685 --> 00:42:04,564 and I also have breast cancer. 1325 00:42:04,606 --> 00:42:06,233 Just like my mom. 1326 00:42:09,611 --> 00:42:11,238 But I want you to know 1327 00:42:12,364 --> 00:42:19,204 that no matter what 1328 00:42:12,364 --> 00:42:19,204 happens, I chose you. 1329 00:42:19,246 --> 00:42:25,543 You are loved, 1330 00:42:19,246 --> 00:42:25,543 and I will always, 1331 00:42:25,585 --> 00:42:27,963 always be here with you. 1332 00:42:29,631 --> 00:42:31,383 [Bernie] Tasha. 1333 00:42:31,425 --> 00:42:34,177 That's your loud daddy. 1334 00:42:34,219 --> 00:42:35,595 Yeah? 1335 00:42:35,637 --> 00:42:36,554 Breakfast. 1336 00:42:42,018 --> 00:42:43,437 What's all this? 1337 00:42:45,439 --> 00:42:47,774 What do you mean, 1338 00:42:45,439 --> 00:42:47,774 it's breakfast. 1339 00:42:47,816 --> 00:42:50,777 Well, I can see that, it's 1340 00:42:47,816 --> 00:42:50,777 just your idea of breakfast 1341 00:42:50,819 --> 00:42:52,195 is usually cereal. 1342 00:42:52,237 --> 00:42:53,238 Yeah, well. 1343 00:42:55,449 --> 00:42:56,241 Not today. 1344 00:42:58,243 --> 00:43:00,120 Bernie, don't do this. 1345 00:43:01,663 --> 00:43:02,956 Do what? 1346 00:43:02,998 --> 00:43:06,584 Start doing all this 1347 00:43:02,998 --> 00:43:06,584 extra unnecessary stuff. 1348 00:43:07,794 --> 00:43:09,587 It's just breakfast, Tasha. 1349 00:43:09,629 --> 00:43:14,384 No, it's not, it's um... 1350 00:43:09,629 --> 00:43:14,384 "You know I think you're 1351 00:43:09,629 --> 00:43:14,384 gonna die soon, 1352 00:43:14,426 --> 00:43:17,179 so let me start doing this 1353 00:43:14,426 --> 00:43:17,179 extra stuff to compensate 1354 00:43:17,220 --> 00:43:18,763 for what I should have 1355 00:43:17,220 --> 00:43:18,763 been doing all along." 1356 00:43:18,805 --> 00:43:20,765 That's not fair, Tasha. 1357 00:43:20,807 --> 00:43:24,186 Okay? I made breakfast 1358 00:43:20,807 --> 00:43:24,186 because I wanted to. 1359 00:43:24,227 --> 00:43:25,603 So this is the 1360 00:43:24,227 --> 00:43:25,603 part where we start 1361 00:43:25,645 --> 00:43:26,771 talking about what's fair? 1362 00:43:26,813 --> 00:43:27,981 No, you don't want to 1363 00:43:26,813 --> 00:43:27,981 have that conversation 1364 00:43:28,023 --> 00:43:29,399 with me right now, trust me. 1365 00:43:29,441 --> 00:43:32,652 Oh, yes I do. I do want 1366 00:43:29,441 --> 00:43:32,652 to have this conversation. 1367 00:43:32,694 --> 00:43:34,571 All right, let's have 1368 00:43:32,694 --> 00:43:34,571 the conversation. 1369 00:43:34,612 --> 00:43:37,574 How are you gonna 1370 00:43:34,612 --> 00:43:37,574 convince me or anybody else 1371 00:43:37,615 --> 00:43:39,576 that you're being fair to 1372 00:43:37,615 --> 00:43:39,576 yourself and your husband 1373 00:43:39,617 --> 00:43:42,662 by keeping this baby instead 1374 00:43:39,617 --> 00:43:42,662 of saving your own life? 1375 00:43:42,704 --> 00:43:46,583 Hmm? Explain to me how 1376 00:43:42,704 --> 00:43:46,583 that's fair. I'm listening. 1377 00:43:46,624 --> 00:43:50,753 Bernie, this is not 25 years 1378 00:43:46,624 --> 00:43:50,753 ago when my mother had cancer. 1379 00:43:50,795 --> 00:43:53,590 There are new treatments 1380 00:43:50,795 --> 00:43:53,590 and medicines... 1381 00:43:53,631 --> 00:43:56,385 You are acting as if you're 1382 00:43:53,631 --> 00:43:56,385 about to plan my funeral. 1383 00:43:56,426 --> 00:43:58,595 I might have to. 1384 00:43:58,636 --> 00:44:01,056 Do you understand that, 1385 00:43:58,636 --> 00:44:01,056 Tasha? I just might have to. 1386 00:44:01,097 --> 00:44:03,683 God, you don't think 1387 00:44:01,097 --> 00:44:03,683 that I'm afraid of that? 1388 00:44:03,725 --> 00:44:05,768 I am, God knows I wanna live. 1389 00:44:05,810 --> 00:44:08,646 Then do what needs 1390 00:44:05,810 --> 00:44:08,646 to be done, okay? 1391 00:44:10,773 --> 00:44:12,775 [crying] 1392 00:44:18,907 --> 00:44:19,908 God. 1393 00:44:21,201 --> 00:44:26,206 You are so damn 1394 00:44:21,201 --> 00:44:26,206 stubborn and naive. 1395 00:44:27,749 --> 00:44:30,168 And what if I lose you, huh? 1396 00:44:30,210 --> 00:44:31,169 Hmm? What then? 1397 00:44:31,211 --> 00:44:32,421 What do I do? 1398 00:44:36,425 --> 00:44:39,428 I've loved you my 1399 00:44:36,425 --> 00:44:39,428 entire life, Tasha. 1400 00:44:40,429 --> 00:44:43,557 Oh Bernie, I am so sorry. 1401 00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:48,604 I am so-- 1402 00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:48,604 I am so sorry. 1403 00:44:49,771 --> 00:44:52,148 [whispering] Ok, um... 1404 00:44:52,190 --> 00:44:53,567 Look, you ready to go? 1405 00:44:53,609 --> 00:44:55,944 Oh my God, my feet 1406 00:44:53,609 --> 00:44:55,944 are killing me. 1407 00:44:55,985 --> 00:44:57,571 You're walking around 1408 00:44:55,985 --> 00:44:57,571 campus all day 1409 00:44:57,613 --> 00:44:58,738 and then you come 1410 00:44:57,613 --> 00:44:58,738 here work at night, 1411 00:44:58,780 --> 00:45:00,490 I bet your feet do hurt. 1412 00:45:02,075 --> 00:45:04,369 Don't expect no foot 1413 00:45:02,075 --> 00:45:04,369 rub or nothing, though. 1414 00:45:04,411 --> 00:45:05,954 Thanks for coming all 1415 00:45:04,411 --> 00:45:05,954 this way to pick me up. 1416 00:45:05,995 --> 00:45:10,917 It aint nothing, you know, 1417 00:45:05,995 --> 00:45:10,917 that's what best friends 1418 00:45:05,995 --> 00:45:10,917 are for, right? 1419 00:45:10,959 --> 00:45:11,960 Yes. 1420 00:45:12,419 --> 00:45:14,921 [Bernie] Why 1421 00:45:12,419 --> 00:45:14,921 am I picking you up? 1422 00:45:14,963 --> 00:45:16,756 Because I asked you to. 1423 00:45:16,798 --> 00:45:19,759 I know that, your dad 1424 00:45:16,798 --> 00:45:19,759 couldn't pick you up? 1425 00:45:19,801 --> 00:45:22,929 - I'm trying to surprise him. 1426 00:45:19,801 --> 00:45:22,929 - Aww. 1427 00:45:22,971 --> 00:45:24,764 Ain't that sweet. 1428 00:45:24,806 --> 00:45:25,932 Why are you coming home now? 1429 00:45:25,974 --> 00:45:28,560 It's not a holiday or 1430 00:45:25,974 --> 00:45:28,560 a break or anything. 1431 00:45:28,602 --> 00:45:31,521 Tomorrow's the 1432 00:45:28,602 --> 00:45:31,521 anniversary of Mom's death. 1433 00:45:31,563 --> 00:45:33,773 [sighs] 1434 00:45:33,815 --> 00:45:36,359 I don't like leaving 1435 00:45:33,815 --> 00:45:36,359 him home alone you know? 1436 00:45:36,401 --> 00:45:39,946 Yeah, I bet that. 1437 00:45:36,401 --> 00:45:39,946 That's what's up. 1438 00:45:39,988 --> 00:45:40,947 Don't act like you 1439 00:45:39,988 --> 00:45:40,947 ain't gonna put no money 1440 00:45:40,989 --> 00:45:42,782 in my gas tank, though. 1441 00:45:42,824 --> 00:45:44,159 So what, you broke again? 1442 00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:45,577 What? 1443 00:45:45,619 --> 00:45:47,912 Girl, you got jokes. 1444 00:45:45,619 --> 00:45:47,912 Nah, I ain't broke. 1445 00:45:47,954 --> 00:45:49,122 I got a little 1446 00:45:47,954 --> 00:45:49,122 something happening. 1447 00:45:49,164 --> 00:45:50,748 Doing what? 1448 00:45:50,790 --> 00:45:51,916 Don't look at me like that. 1449 00:45:51,958 --> 00:45:54,586 I ain't doing nothing 1450 00:45:51,958 --> 00:45:54,586 illegal, Tasha. 1451 00:45:54,628 --> 00:45:55,545 Hey yo, 1452 00:45:54,628 --> 00:45:55,545 for real, I'm not. 1453 00:45:55,587 --> 00:45:57,547 [laughs] 1454 00:45:57,589 --> 00:45:59,757 I got a job at this 1455 00:45:57,589 --> 00:45:59,757 carpet company. 1456 00:45:59,799 --> 00:46:02,218 Bernie, you the dude 1457 00:45:59,799 --> 00:46:02,218 that can barely vacuum. 1458 00:46:02,260 --> 00:46:05,930 Well, I guess that's something 1459 00:46:02,260 --> 00:46:05,930 we got in common then. 1460 00:46:05,972 --> 00:46:07,599 Well, good for you then. 1461 00:46:09,392 --> 00:46:12,187 Take care of you 1462 00:46:09,392 --> 00:46:12,187 too, if you let me. 1463 00:46:14,814 --> 00:46:16,733 Okay, you see Bernie that's 1464 00:46:14,814 --> 00:46:16,733 what I'm talking about. 1465 00:46:16,816 --> 00:46:17,775 You play too much. 1466 00:46:26,159 --> 00:46:28,953 Brenda, hey. It's been a while. 1467 00:46:31,164 --> 00:46:33,791 Melvin, hi. 1468 00:46:34,959 --> 00:46:38,129 Yeah, what five years at least. 1469 00:46:38,171 --> 00:46:39,964 Six years to be exact. 1470 00:46:41,591 --> 00:46:43,552 What are you doing here? 1471 00:46:43,593 --> 00:46:44,844 Well, you know a 1472 00:46:43,593 --> 00:46:44,844 little market like this 1473 00:46:44,886 --> 00:46:46,137 is the best place to 1474 00:46:44,886 --> 00:46:46,137 get a good steak. 1475 00:46:46,179 --> 00:46:47,764 It's the best market in town. 1476 00:46:47,805 --> 00:46:49,932 I was just picking up my 1477 00:46:47,805 --> 00:46:49,932 seasonings for my jerk chicken. 1478 00:46:49,974 --> 00:46:51,768 Ah, your jerk chicken, yeah. 1479 00:46:51,809 --> 00:46:53,144 I remember that. 1480 00:46:53,186 --> 00:46:54,896 So, how's Tasha? 1481 00:46:54,937 --> 00:46:56,523 - She's in college now. 1482 00:46:54,937 --> 00:46:56,523 - Wow. 1483 00:46:56,565 --> 00:46:58,941 Yeah, actually I was 1484 00:46:56,565 --> 00:46:58,941 hoping she'd come home 1485 00:46:58,983 --> 00:47:01,819 in a few days, for you know... 1486 00:47:02,779 --> 00:47:04,531 Uh, but she's busy studying. 1487 00:47:04,573 --> 00:47:07,534 Tomorrow's the anniversary 1488 00:47:04,573 --> 00:47:07,534 of Patricia's passing. 1489 00:47:07,576 --> 00:47:09,911 Yeah. What's going on 1490 00:47:07,576 --> 00:47:09,911 with you? You married? 1491 00:47:09,952 --> 00:47:11,538 You not married? What? 1492 00:47:11,580 --> 00:47:14,541 No, no, no. Been 1493 00:47:11,580 --> 00:47:14,541 there done that. 1494 00:47:14,583 --> 00:47:16,543 Yeah, I remember you having 1495 00:47:14,583 --> 00:47:16,543 a hard time with your divorce. 1496 00:47:16,585 --> 00:47:20,880 Oh, no not really. He 1497 00:47:16,585 --> 00:47:20,880 was a lying, manipulative, 1498 00:47:20,922 --> 00:47:24,926 narcissistic, weak example of 1499 00:47:20,922 --> 00:47:24,926 a man. Easy to walk away from. 1500 00:47:24,967 --> 00:47:26,762 Damn, tell me how 1501 00:47:24,967 --> 00:47:26,762 you really feel. 1502 00:47:26,803 --> 00:47:28,846 [chuckles] 1503 00:47:30,139 --> 00:47:33,727 Well, listen, it was 1504 00:47:30,139 --> 00:47:33,727 good to see you Melvin. 1505 00:47:33,769 --> 00:47:36,896 Give Tasha my love and 1506 00:47:33,769 --> 00:47:36,896 tell her I miss her. 1507 00:47:36,938 --> 00:47:41,859 What about me? I mean, do 1508 00:47:36,938 --> 00:47:41,859 you miss me even a little? 1509 00:47:44,153 --> 00:47:47,532 You were such a constant 1510 00:47:44,153 --> 00:47:47,532 in our lives for years, 1511 00:47:47,574 --> 00:47:50,535 and these past years without 1512 00:47:47,574 --> 00:47:50,535 you, I really regret it. 1513 00:47:50,577 --> 00:47:54,330 If I could go back I 1514 00:47:50,577 --> 00:47:54,330 would-- Well it's not important. 1515 00:47:54,372 --> 00:47:56,124 I really miss you, Brenda. 1516 00:47:56,165 --> 00:47:58,126 I'm not Patricia, Melvin. 1517 00:47:58,167 --> 00:47:59,586 I know that. 1518 00:48:01,630 --> 00:48:03,923 I was never trying 1519 00:48:01,630 --> 00:48:03,923 to take her place. 1520 00:48:03,965 --> 00:48:06,926 I was just trying to be there 1521 00:48:03,965 --> 00:48:06,926 in whatever capacity I could. 1522 00:48:06,968 --> 00:48:11,765 I realize that, and I took 1523 00:48:06,968 --> 00:48:11,765 you for granted and I'm sorry. 1524 00:48:12,557 --> 00:48:16,561 Yes, I do miss you. 1525 00:48:18,354 --> 00:48:20,940 Well, what are you 1526 00:48:18,354 --> 00:48:20,940 doing tonight? 1527 00:48:20,982 --> 00:48:21,983 Are you busy? 1528 00:48:22,024 --> 00:48:23,109 Would you like to have dinner? 1529 00:48:23,151 --> 00:48:25,570 Remember, I cook a mean steak. 1530 00:48:26,988 --> 00:48:32,952 Thank you, but um... 1531 00:48:26,988 --> 00:48:32,952 I'm gonna pass on dinner. 1532 00:48:32,994 --> 00:48:34,579 You take care of yourself, okay? 1533 00:48:48,217 --> 00:48:49,135 Melvin. 1534 00:48:51,346 --> 00:48:53,139 I like my steaks rare. 1535 00:48:54,766 --> 00:48:55,933 Okay. 1536 00:48:55,975 --> 00:48:56,768 Cabernet? 1537 00:48:59,771 --> 00:49:00,730 Daddy! 1538 00:49:02,023 --> 00:49:02,940 Daddy, I'm home! 1539 00:49:07,028 --> 00:49:07,945 Daddy! 1540 00:49:10,114 --> 00:49:10,948 Brenda? 1541 00:49:12,116 --> 00:49:12,950 Oh! 1542 00:49:16,037 --> 00:49:18,289 Oh my God, I can't believe this. 1543 00:49:18,331 --> 00:49:20,082 And on the anniversary 1544 00:49:18,331 --> 00:49:20,082 of my mother's death? 1545 00:49:20,124 --> 00:49:22,001 That is totally disrespectful. 1546 00:49:22,043 --> 00:49:24,921 Well, technically it's 1547 00:49:22,043 --> 00:49:24,921 not on the anniversary. 1548 00:49:24,962 --> 00:49:27,965 That's tomorrow, but I mean-- 1549 00:49:28,966 --> 00:49:31,720 To me, your dad and Brenda 1550 00:49:28,966 --> 00:49:31,720 makes sense, you know? 1551 00:49:31,761 --> 00:49:32,721 Really, Bernie? 1552 00:49:32,762 --> 00:49:34,305 She was my mother's best friend. 1553 00:49:34,347 --> 00:49:36,933 Yeah I know, but I mean... 1554 00:49:36,974 --> 00:49:39,018 What do you mean? 1555 00:49:36,974 --> 00:49:39,018 What do you mean? 1556 00:49:39,060 --> 00:49:43,481 Look, it's not like he's 1557 00:49:39,060 --> 00:49:43,481 cheating on your moms, you know? 1558 00:49:43,523 --> 00:49:47,610 And Brenda, I mean, I'm just 1559 00:49:43,523 --> 00:49:47,610 saying-- I'd hit it. 1560 00:49:47,652 --> 00:49:48,486 [smacks] 1561 00:49:48,528 --> 00:49:50,029 Ow, hey come on 1562 00:49:48,528 --> 00:49:50,029 stop hitting on me. 1563 00:49:50,071 --> 00:49:52,031 No, not when you 1564 00:49:50,071 --> 00:49:52,031 say dumb crap like that. 1565 00:49:52,073 --> 00:49:53,491 Come on Tasha, are you serious? 1566 00:49:53,533 --> 00:49:55,493 What, you think your dad's 1567 00:49:53,533 --> 00:49:55,493 gonna go the rest of his life 1568 00:49:55,535 --> 00:49:57,036 without gettin' some? 1569 00:49:57,078 --> 00:49:59,915 Come on man, you 1570 00:49:57,078 --> 00:49:59,915 need to chill out. 1571 00:49:59,956 --> 00:50:01,290 I don't need to do anything, 1572 00:50:01,332 --> 00:50:03,919 but go back to school right now. 1573 00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,504 No. no. Right now? 1574 00:50:06,546 --> 00:50:07,881 - Yes. 1575 00:50:06,546 --> 00:50:07,881 - No, no. 1576 00:50:07,923 --> 00:50:09,090 We're not going back right 1577 00:50:07,923 --> 00:50:09,090 now, we just got here. 1578 00:50:09,131 --> 00:50:13,970 I'm not turning around and 1579 00:50:09,131 --> 00:50:13,970 taking you all the way back. 1580 00:50:14,303 --> 00:50:15,430 Fine. 1581 00:50:18,099 --> 00:50:20,685 Can I spend the night 1582 00:50:18,099 --> 00:50:20,685 at your house then? 1583 00:50:20,727 --> 00:50:23,521 I really don't want 1584 00:50:20,727 --> 00:50:23,521 to got home tonight. 1585 00:50:25,106 --> 00:50:26,691 Are you finished yet? 1586 00:50:26,733 --> 00:50:28,484 Bernie, I told you not to look. 1587 00:50:28,526 --> 00:50:31,905 I'm not looking, 1588 00:50:28,526 --> 00:50:31,905 all right? I'm just tired. 1589 00:50:31,947 --> 00:50:33,072 You know, it took me four 1590 00:50:31,947 --> 00:50:33,072 hours to come get you 1591 00:50:33,114 --> 00:50:35,116 and four hours to come back. 1592 00:50:41,122 --> 00:50:41,915 Okay, I'm done. 1593 00:50:41,957 --> 00:50:42,749 Thank you. 1594 00:50:52,508 --> 00:50:55,470 Bernie, what are you doing? 1595 00:50:55,511 --> 00:50:58,514 I'm not sleeping 1596 00:50:55,511 --> 00:50:58,514 in my clothes. 1597 00:51:00,809 --> 00:51:02,184 Oh, man. 1598 00:51:03,728 --> 00:51:06,272 No, no, no, no, no, 1599 00:51:03,728 --> 00:51:06,272 you sleep on the floor 1600 00:51:06,314 --> 00:51:07,899 and I'm gonna sleep in the bed. 1601 00:51:07,941 --> 00:51:09,484 Tasha, I am not sleeping 1602 00:51:07,941 --> 00:51:09,484 on the floor okay? 1603 00:51:09,525 --> 00:51:12,194 I'm tired. I just wanna 1604 00:51:09,525 --> 00:51:12,194 get in my own bed. 1605 00:51:12,236 --> 00:51:14,280 Ain't nobody gonna 1606 00:51:12,236 --> 00:51:14,280 touch you girl, move. 1607 00:51:14,322 --> 00:51:16,115 But, what if your mom comes in? 1608 00:51:16,157 --> 00:51:18,868 She's not coming in here. 1609 00:51:16,157 --> 00:51:18,868 She works the night shift now. 1610 00:51:25,291 --> 00:51:26,083 Bernie? 1611 00:51:28,586 --> 00:51:30,005 Huh? 1612 00:51:30,505 --> 00:51:33,132 How many girls 1613 00:51:30,505 --> 00:51:33,132 have you been with? 1614 00:51:33,174 --> 00:51:34,091 What? 1615 00:51:36,594 --> 00:51:39,014 Tasha, you crazy girl, 1616 00:51:36,594 --> 00:51:39,014 go to bed. 1617 00:51:44,393 --> 00:51:46,395 Did you love any of them? 1618 00:51:51,233 --> 00:51:52,027 No. 1619 00:51:53,611 --> 00:51:56,113 So, you've never been in love? 1620 00:51:57,198 --> 00:51:58,783 Well, yeah. 1621 00:52:01,870 --> 00:52:02,871 With who? 1622 00:52:07,583 --> 00:52:10,127 [gentle music] 1623 00:52:13,798 --> 00:52:14,590 With you. 1624 00:52:15,884 --> 00:52:18,177 [scoffs] Me? 1625 00:52:18,219 --> 00:52:21,180 You can't be in love with me. 1626 00:52:18,219 --> 00:52:21,180 I'm your best friend. 1627 00:52:21,222 --> 00:52:23,850 That's more the reason, right? 1628 00:52:33,026 --> 00:52:34,527 Make love to me, then. 1629 00:52:34,569 --> 00:52:35,319 What? 1630 00:52:35,361 --> 00:52:36,153 Nah. 1631 00:52:37,238 --> 00:52:38,155 What do you mean, "nah"? 1632 00:52:38,197 --> 00:52:39,741 No. 1633 00:52:39,782 --> 00:52:42,201 What, is there 1634 00:52:39,782 --> 00:52:42,201 something wrong with me? 1635 00:52:42,243 --> 00:52:44,746 No, there's nothing 1636 00:52:42,243 --> 00:52:44,746 wrong with you I'm just... 1637 00:52:44,787 --> 00:52:46,789 Okay, well then why not? 1638 00:52:56,382 --> 00:52:59,969 I'm not making love to 1639 00:52:56,382 --> 00:52:59,969 you until I marry you, okay? 1640 00:53:00,011 --> 00:53:01,178 Marry me? 1641 00:53:04,181 --> 00:53:07,769 Bernie you are so stupid 1642 00:53:04,181 --> 00:53:07,769 sometimes. Oh my gosh. 1643 00:53:08,770 --> 00:53:09,562 Marry me. 1644 00:53:11,773 --> 00:53:14,776 No, I'm not stupid, Tasha. 1645 00:53:17,779 --> 00:53:19,781 I'm gonna marry you one day. 1646 00:53:21,574 --> 00:53:22,575 I'm serious. 1647 00:53:27,204 --> 00:53:30,332 But, for right now I'm gonna 1648 00:53:27,204 --> 00:53:30,332 get some sleep. All right? 1649 00:53:30,374 --> 00:53:31,208 Goodnight. 1650 00:53:39,759 --> 00:53:41,260 Come on in and take a seat. 1651 00:53:41,302 --> 00:53:43,304 We're just getting started. 1652 00:53:43,345 --> 00:53:45,765 Okay. Thank you. 1653 00:53:46,766 --> 00:53:48,143 I know we are 1654 00:53:46,766 --> 00:53:48,143 all going through 1655 00:53:48,184 --> 00:53:50,311 a lot of emotion right now. 1656 00:53:50,352 --> 00:53:54,941 Ranging from fear 1657 00:53:50,352 --> 00:53:54,941 to self pity to, well, 1658 00:53:54,983 --> 00:53:57,526 feeling less than a woman. 1659 00:53:57,568 --> 00:53:59,946 But your focus should 1660 00:53:57,568 --> 00:53:59,946 not be on those things. 1661 00:53:59,988 --> 00:54:03,032 Your focus should be 1662 00:53:59,988 --> 00:54:03,032 sharing your information 1663 00:54:03,074 --> 00:54:06,202 and your resources 1664 00:54:03,074 --> 00:54:06,202 to help one another. 1665 00:54:08,329 --> 00:54:10,498 Black women are more 1666 00:54:08,329 --> 00:54:10,498 likely to be diagnosed 1667 00:54:10,539 --> 00:54:13,501 with breast cancer, and 1668 00:54:10,539 --> 00:54:13,501 have more aggressive forms 1669 00:54:13,542 --> 00:54:16,504 of the disease than white women. 1670 00:54:16,545 --> 00:54:20,133 Each of you have your own 1671 00:54:16,545 --> 00:54:20,133 set of unique circumstances, 1672 00:54:20,175 --> 00:54:22,927 but we are dealing with a 1673 00:54:20,175 --> 00:54:22,927 disease that can be cured 1674 00:54:22,969 --> 00:54:26,305 if monitored and 1675 00:54:22,969 --> 00:54:26,305 treated properly. 1676 00:54:26,347 --> 00:54:30,977 We need to give our breasts 1677 00:54:26,347 --> 00:54:30,977 the attention they deserve. 1678 00:54:32,561 --> 00:54:35,731 So, does anyone want to share? 1679 00:54:35,773 --> 00:54:36,565 Anybody? 1680 00:54:38,567 --> 00:54:40,319 Oh yeah, Denise. 1681 00:54:40,361 --> 00:54:45,491 Well, I just had day 30 of 1682 00:54:40,361 --> 00:54:45,491 my chemo, I'm almost done. 1683 00:54:45,533 --> 00:54:47,702 [clapping] 1684 00:54:47,743 --> 00:54:51,330 I know, what a wonderful thing. 1685 00:54:51,372 --> 00:54:53,332 And I feel good today. 1686 00:54:53,374 --> 00:54:54,667 I'm strong. 1687 00:54:56,377 --> 00:54:59,338 I know I can beat this thing. 1688 00:54:59,380 --> 00:55:02,008 How wonderful for you, Denise, 1689 00:55:02,050 --> 00:55:03,509 but some of us don't 1690 00:55:02,050 --> 00:55:03,509 have enough time left 1691 00:55:03,551 --> 00:55:05,553 to think about next year. 1692 00:55:06,762 --> 00:55:09,348 Let me just remind you 1693 00:55:09,390 --> 00:55:12,351 that we were just at Jasmine's 1694 00:55:09,390 --> 00:55:12,351 funeral last weekend. 1695 00:55:12,393 --> 00:55:15,479 I mean, she was just sitting 1696 00:55:12,393 --> 00:55:15,479 here with us, now she's gone. 1697 00:55:15,521 --> 00:55:19,358 I haven't forgotten 1698 00:55:15,521 --> 00:55:19,358 about Jasmine. 1699 00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:23,112 Yeah, well, some of us are 1700 00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:23,112 barely hanging on to hope. 1701 00:55:23,154 --> 00:55:25,364 But y'all wanna post your 1702 00:55:23,154 --> 00:55:25,364 little pictures on social media 1703 00:55:25,406 --> 00:55:27,700 of your bald heads 1704 00:55:25,406 --> 00:55:27,700 and your smiles, 1705 00:55:27,742 --> 00:55:30,119 like this isn't killing women. 1706 00:55:30,161 --> 00:55:32,496 Women do that to 1707 00:55:30,161 --> 00:55:32,496 encourage one another; 1708 00:55:32,538 --> 00:55:36,375 to let each other know 1709 00:55:32,538 --> 00:55:36,375 they can get through this. 1710 00:55:36,417 --> 00:55:38,502 I'm angry. 1711 00:55:38,544 --> 00:55:39,962 I'm hurt. 1712 00:55:41,422 --> 00:55:43,340 And I hate... 1713 00:55:45,801 --> 00:55:49,305 that this 1714 00:55:45,801 --> 00:55:49,305 is happening to me. 1715 00:55:49,346 --> 00:55:53,101 My cancer is terminal. 1716 00:55:53,142 --> 00:55:58,147 I have kids for God's sake. 1717 00:55:58,522 --> 00:56:02,151 What are they gonna 1718 00:55:58,522 --> 00:56:02,151 do without me? 1719 00:56:04,820 --> 00:56:06,322 Tell me that? 1720 00:56:06,363 --> 00:56:08,407 Look, I know that 1721 00:56:06,363 --> 00:56:08,407 you are so angry-- 1722 00:56:08,449 --> 00:56:09,617 You're damn right I am. 1723 00:56:09,658 --> 00:56:13,412 I wanna live! 1724 00:56:13,454 --> 00:56:14,705 Oh, God, we all want that. 1725 00:56:14,747 --> 00:56:18,167 I'm sorry, excuse 1726 00:56:14,747 --> 00:56:18,167 me? What did you say? 1727 00:56:20,211 --> 00:56:22,004 You wanna talk? 1728 00:56:20,211 --> 00:56:22,004 Tell me your name. 1729 00:56:24,924 --> 00:56:29,095 I'm Tasha Jackson and 1730 00:56:24,924 --> 00:56:29,095 I was simply agreeing 1731 00:56:29,137 --> 00:56:31,722 with the fact that 1732 00:56:29,137 --> 00:56:31,722 we all want to live. 1733 00:56:33,724 --> 00:56:37,478 Well, the great news is 1734 00:56:33,724 --> 00:56:37,478 that I just found out 1735 00:56:37,519 --> 00:56:41,440 that I'm pregnant 1736 00:56:37,519 --> 00:56:41,440 with my first child. 1737 00:56:41,482 --> 00:56:46,321 A baby that I have wanted and 1738 00:56:41,482 --> 00:56:46,321 prayed for my entire life. 1739 00:56:46,362 --> 00:56:49,782 A baby that, clinically 1740 00:56:46,362 --> 00:56:49,782 speaking, I was never supposed 1741 00:56:49,824 --> 00:56:53,828 to be able to conceive 1742 00:56:49,824 --> 00:56:53,828 because I'm infertile. I was. 1743 00:56:53,869 --> 00:56:58,082 On the flip side is the 1744 00:56:53,869 --> 00:56:58,082 reason we are all here. 1745 00:56:58,124 --> 00:57:01,794 I too have been diagnosed 1746 00:56:58,124 --> 00:57:01,794 with breast cancer. 1747 00:57:03,504 --> 00:57:07,466 My doctor has advised that 1748 00:57:03,504 --> 00:57:07,466 I terminate my pregnancy 1749 00:57:07,508 --> 00:57:11,637 in order to begin 1750 00:57:07,508 --> 00:57:11,637 treatments immediately. 1751 00:57:11,679 --> 00:57:14,307 But sacrificing my 1752 00:57:11,679 --> 00:57:14,307 child's life in order 1753 00:57:14,349 --> 00:57:18,936 to save mine is a decision 1754 00:57:14,349 --> 00:57:18,936 that I simply cannot make. 1755 00:57:20,104 --> 00:57:21,689 Adopt a baby. 1756 00:57:21,730 --> 00:57:25,193 Terminate your pregnancy 1757 00:57:21,730 --> 00:57:25,193 and save your life. 1758 00:57:25,234 --> 00:57:27,486 Take it from someone who 1759 00:57:25,234 --> 00:57:27,486 isn't gonna beat this thing. 1760 00:57:27,528 --> 00:57:29,530 Charlene, please. 1761 00:57:31,740 --> 00:57:36,495 Can you tell me, why 1762 00:57:31,740 --> 00:57:36,495 is it so important 1763 00:57:36,537 --> 00:57:39,957 that you would risk your 1764 00:57:36,537 --> 00:57:39,957 own life for this baby? 1765 00:57:42,835 --> 00:57:44,461 Do you have children? 1766 00:57:44,503 --> 00:57:46,463 Yes, I have three. 1767 00:57:48,549 --> 00:57:52,761 Would you risk your life 1768 00:57:48,549 --> 00:57:52,761 in order to protect them? 1769 00:57:52,803 --> 00:57:55,723 Would you die to save them? 1770 00:57:55,764 --> 00:57:57,766 Of course I would. 1771 00:57:58,559 --> 00:58:03,064 Even though my child 1772 00:57:58,559 --> 00:58:03,064 is still inside of me, 1773 00:58:03,105 --> 00:58:05,482 I feel that exact same way. 1774 00:58:09,570 --> 00:58:11,572 Okay ladies, I'll 1775 00:58:09,570 --> 00:58:11,572 see you next week. 1776 00:58:17,578 --> 00:58:20,664 Uh, Tasha. 1777 00:58:20,706 --> 00:58:23,459 This is Dr. Lopez's card. 1778 00:58:26,670 --> 00:58:28,547 I know you think 1779 00:58:26,670 --> 00:58:28,547 you're the only woman 1780 00:58:28,589 --> 00:58:32,260 who has cancer while 1781 00:58:28,589 --> 00:58:32,260 pregnant, but you're not. 1782 00:58:32,301 --> 00:58:33,052 Go see him. 1783 00:58:33,094 --> 00:58:35,679 [dramatic music] 1784 00:58:37,598 --> 00:58:39,558 [Tasha] I was told that you 1785 00:58:37,598 --> 00:58:39,558 could help me Dr. Lopez. 1786 00:58:40,601 --> 00:58:43,604 There has to be another option. 1787 00:58:43,645 --> 00:58:45,564 Now, I have received all 1788 00:58:43,645 --> 00:58:45,564 of your medical records 1789 00:58:45,606 --> 00:58:47,608 that were transferred 1790 00:58:45,606 --> 00:58:47,608 to my office, 1791 00:58:47,649 --> 00:58:49,818 and I cannot say that 1792 00:58:47,649 --> 00:58:49,818 terminating your pregnancy 1793 00:58:49,860 --> 00:58:54,490 at this juncture was the wrong 1794 00:58:49,860 --> 00:58:54,490 advice from your oncologist. 1795 00:58:55,116 --> 00:58:58,827 In fact, it's normal practice 1796 00:58:55,116 --> 00:58:58,827 to suggest termination 1797 00:58:58,869 --> 00:59:01,914 in the first trimester when 1798 00:58:58,869 --> 00:59:01,914 there's cancer present. 1799 00:59:01,956 --> 00:59:05,626 You need treatment Mrs. 1800 00:59:01,956 --> 00:59:05,626 Jackson, you need it now. 1801 00:59:05,667 --> 00:59:08,421 You have an aggressive 1802 00:59:05,667 --> 00:59:08,421 form of breast cancer. 1803 00:59:08,463 --> 00:59:10,589 Hormones that your body's 1804 00:59:08,463 --> 00:59:10,589 producing during your pregnancy 1805 00:59:10,631 --> 00:59:15,470 will only cause the tumor 1806 00:59:10,631 --> 00:59:15,470 to grow and possibly spread. 1807 00:59:15,844 --> 00:59:18,597 You cannot afford to wait. 1808 00:59:18,639 --> 00:59:23,602 What I can't afford 1809 00:59:18,639 --> 00:59:23,602 is to abort my baby. 1810 00:59:23,644 --> 00:59:25,020 Then I will do 1811 00:59:23,644 --> 00:59:25,020 everything in my power 1812 00:59:25,062 --> 00:59:29,442 to keep your baby safe 1813 00:59:25,062 --> 00:59:29,442 while you receive treatment. 1814 00:59:29,484 --> 00:59:31,402 You will? 1815 00:59:31,444 --> 00:59:32,236 I will. 1816 00:59:33,654 --> 00:59:35,614 But this will be 1817 00:59:33,654 --> 00:59:35,614 a long hard road, 1818 00:59:35,656 --> 00:59:38,242 nothing about this will be easy. 1819 00:59:40,661 --> 00:59:42,579 What do we need to do? 1820 00:59:42,621 --> 00:59:46,167 Well, the first step is a 1821 00:59:42,621 --> 00:59:46,167 mastectomy of the left breast 1822 00:59:46,208 --> 00:59:49,586 with a partial 1823 00:59:46,208 --> 00:59:49,586 reconstruction, immediately. 1824 00:59:51,213 --> 00:59:52,631 I understand your concerns. 1825 00:59:52,673 --> 00:59:55,968 Surgery is always a 1826 00:59:52,673 --> 00:59:55,968 risk, pregnant or not. 1827 00:59:56,010 --> 00:59:59,596 And the closer the 1828 00:59:56,010 --> 00:59:59,596 surgery is to the uterus, 1829 00:59:59,638 --> 01:00:03,600 we run the risk of a 1830 00:59:59,638 --> 01:00:03,600 spontaneous abortion. 1831 01:00:03,642 --> 01:00:07,396 However, I feel certain that 1832 01:00:03,642 --> 01:00:07,396 we can preform the surgery 1833 01:00:07,438 --> 01:00:09,231 and keep the baby safe. 1834 01:00:10,232 --> 01:00:11,984 So that's it? 1835 01:00:12,026 --> 01:00:14,153 We do the surgery now, 1836 01:00:12,026 --> 01:00:14,153 while I'm pregnant, 1837 01:00:14,195 --> 01:00:15,612 and the chemo after? 1838 01:00:16,989 --> 01:00:18,157 You will be receiving chemo 1839 01:00:18,199 --> 01:00:20,159 during your pregnancy 1840 01:00:18,199 --> 01:00:20,159 Mrs. Jackson. 1841 01:00:20,201 --> 01:00:21,743 What? 1842 01:00:21,785 --> 01:00:24,663 How on earth is that possible? 1843 01:00:24,705 --> 01:00:27,958 Dr. Lopez, I saw first hand what 1844 01:00:24,705 --> 01:00:27,958 that chemo did to my mother 1845 01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:30,586 and it sucked the 1846 01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:30,586 life out of her. 1847 01:00:30,627 --> 01:00:32,171 How could I go through 1848 01:00:30,627 --> 01:00:32,171 something like that 1849 01:00:32,213 --> 01:00:35,757 while I'm pregnant? How 1850 01:00:32,213 --> 01:00:35,757 could my baby survive that? 1851 01:00:35,799 --> 01:00:38,760 While there are certain 1852 01:00:35,799 --> 01:00:38,760 types of chemo that would harm 1853 01:00:38,802 --> 01:00:42,681 the baby, there are other 1854 01:00:38,802 --> 01:00:42,681 types that will be harmless, 1855 01:00:42,723 --> 01:00:45,767 spread out over a period of 1856 01:00:42,723 --> 01:00:45,767 every three weeks for six 1857 01:00:42,723 --> 01:00:45,767 months, 1858 01:00:45,809 --> 01:00:47,728 and I will connect 1859 01:00:45,809 --> 01:00:47,728 with your obstetrician. 1860 01:00:47,769 --> 01:00:51,648 We will monitor both you 1861 01:00:47,769 --> 01:00:51,648 and the baby very closely. 1862 01:00:53,401 --> 01:00:56,404 I'm sorry, but this 1863 01:00:53,401 --> 01:00:56,404 is a lot to process. 1864 01:00:58,739 --> 01:01:00,157 I must tell you that 1865 01:00:58,739 --> 01:01:00,157 while I am certain 1866 01:01:00,199 --> 01:01:02,826 that we can keep the baby safe, 1867 01:01:02,868 --> 01:01:06,747 I cannot be certain of 1868 01:01:02,868 --> 01:01:06,747 how the cancer will react. 1869 01:01:06,788 --> 01:01:09,708 So what you're 1870 01:01:06,788 --> 01:01:09,708 telling me is that 1871 01:01:09,750 --> 01:01:15,214 I could go through all of 1872 01:01:09,750 --> 01:01:15,214 this and still won't be cured? 1873 01:01:15,631 --> 01:01:16,965 Yes. 1874 01:01:17,007 --> 01:01:18,717 The reality is we can 1875 01:01:17,007 --> 01:01:18,717 give you this treatment 1876 01:01:18,759 --> 01:01:21,345 and it will not work. 1877 01:01:21,387 --> 01:01:24,139 Even as doctors we cannot 1878 01:01:21,387 --> 01:01:24,139 ignore the possibility 1879 01:01:24,181 --> 01:01:30,605 that your husband would raise 1880 01:01:24,181 --> 01:01:30,605 this child, your child, alone. 1881 01:01:31,772 --> 01:01:33,732 The choice is yours, 1882 01:01:31,772 --> 01:01:33,732 Mrs. Jackson. 1883 01:01:33,774 --> 01:01:37,612 But I promise to be with 1884 01:01:33,774 --> 01:01:37,612 you every step of the way. 1885 01:01:40,406 --> 01:01:42,699 I see that you're married too. 1886 01:01:43,992 --> 01:01:46,954 What would you tell your wife 1887 01:01:46,995 --> 01:01:50,958 if she were the one 1888 01:01:46,995 --> 01:01:50,958 that was sitting here? 1889 01:01:50,999 --> 01:01:52,751 I'd tell her to keep that baby 1890 01:01:52,793 --> 01:01:55,212 and to start her treatment now. 1891 01:01:58,799 --> 01:02:02,052 This is the... 1892 01:01:58,799 --> 01:02:02,052 This is the lobby. 1893 01:02:02,678 --> 01:02:03,638 [Tony] All right, this 1894 01:02:02,678 --> 01:02:03,638 must be upstairs. 1895 01:02:03,679 --> 01:02:04,930 Yeah. 1896 01:02:04,972 --> 01:02:06,348 [Tony] I hope they got 1897 01:02:04,972 --> 01:02:06,348 the AC up there. 1898 01:02:06,390 --> 01:02:08,684 I know, this 1899 01:02:06,390 --> 01:02:08,684 heat is killing me. 1900 01:02:08,725 --> 01:02:09,685 You ain't lying. 1901 01:02:11,812 --> 01:02:13,564 And this is the extra for... 1902 01:02:13,606 --> 01:02:14,649 I don't even know 1903 01:02:13,606 --> 01:02:14,649 what this is for. 1904 01:02:14,690 --> 01:02:16,358 [Bernie] We got room 1905 01:02:14,690 --> 01:02:16,358 for the other one. 1906 01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:17,192 Hey. 1907 01:02:18,193 --> 01:02:19,987 I need to talk to you. 1908 01:02:21,614 --> 01:02:22,364 Hey, Tony. 1909 01:02:22,406 --> 01:02:23,782 Hey, Tasha. 1910 01:02:23,824 --> 01:02:26,327 Bernie told me about the 1911 01:02:23,824 --> 01:02:26,327 baby, congratulations. 1912 01:02:26,368 --> 01:02:27,119 Thanks. 1913 01:02:27,161 --> 01:02:27,953 What? 1914 01:02:29,955 --> 01:02:31,915 You mind giving us a minute? 1915 01:02:31,957 --> 01:02:33,750 I'll be inside. 1916 01:02:33,792 --> 01:02:34,543 Good seeing you, Tasha. 1917 01:02:34,585 --> 01:02:35,461 Bye. 1918 01:02:38,380 --> 01:02:41,758 What do you gotta tell 1919 01:02:38,380 --> 01:02:41,758 me that couldn't be-- 1920 01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:43,802 couldn't be said 1921 01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:43,802 on the phone Tasha? 1922 01:02:43,844 --> 01:02:46,138 All right, first you need to get 1923 01:02:43,844 --> 01:02:46,138 rid of your little attitude. 1924 01:02:46,180 --> 01:02:48,807 I'm working babe, okay? 1925 01:02:48,849 --> 01:02:50,142 What is it? 1926 01:02:50,184 --> 01:02:51,560 I went to see a new 1927 01:02:50,184 --> 01:02:51,560 oncologist this morning 1928 01:02:51,602 --> 01:02:54,771 to get a second opinion. 1929 01:02:54,813 --> 01:02:55,772 So, you went to the 1930 01:02:54,813 --> 01:02:55,772 doctor without me? 1931 01:02:55,814 --> 01:02:56,691 Yes. 1932 01:02:58,400 --> 01:02:59,735 I mean, it's not 1933 01:02:58,400 --> 01:02:59,735 like you were there 1934 01:02:59,776 --> 01:03:01,820 for my sonogram appointment, 1935 01:02:59,776 --> 01:03:01,820 so what's your point? 1936 01:03:01,862 --> 01:03:04,823 Babe, you're really 1937 01:03:01,862 --> 01:03:04,823 pushing it, all right? 1938 01:03:04,865 --> 01:03:07,826 Just tell me what happened. 1939 01:03:07,868 --> 01:03:10,538 He said that I 1940 01:03:07,868 --> 01:03:10,538 can keep the baby 1941 01:03:10,579 --> 01:03:14,124 and begin treatment for 1942 01:03:10,579 --> 01:03:14,124 the cancer right now. 1943 01:03:14,166 --> 01:03:17,545 That he could keep 1944 01:03:14,166 --> 01:03:17,545 our baby safe. 1945 01:03:17,586 --> 01:03:18,546 He said that? 1946 01:03:18,587 --> 01:03:19,380 Yeah. 1947 01:03:21,798 --> 01:03:26,387 But in addition to the chemo, 1948 01:03:21,798 --> 01:03:26,387 I also have to have a surgery. 1949 01:03:27,179 --> 01:03:28,597 What kind of surgery? 1950 01:03:30,807 --> 01:03:31,808 A mastectomy. 1951 01:03:33,561 --> 01:03:37,773 That I have to have my left 1952 01:03:33,561 --> 01:03:37,773 breast removed immediately. 1953 01:03:40,568 --> 01:03:44,154 But Bernie, the point is, 1954 01:03:40,568 --> 01:03:44,154 we can keep our baby. 1955 01:03:49,159 --> 01:03:51,119 Yeah, yeah. 1956 01:03:51,161 --> 01:03:52,871 [crying] 1957 01:03:52,913 --> 01:03:54,331 That's exactly what 1958 01:03:52,913 --> 01:03:54,331 we're gonna do. 1959 01:03:54,373 --> 01:03:57,167 Oh God, I was hoping 1960 01:03:54,373 --> 01:03:57,167 you would say that. 1961 01:03:58,835 --> 01:04:04,341 My big announcement is... 1962 01:03:58,835 --> 01:04:04,341 my husband and I are 1963 01:03:58,835 --> 01:04:04,341 having a baby. 1964 01:04:04,383 --> 01:04:06,885 [laughs] 1965 01:04:06,927 --> 01:04:09,513 Now, because I will 1966 01:04:06,927 --> 01:04:09,513 need plenty of rest, 1967 01:04:09,555 --> 01:04:11,724 I am going on leave after today, 1968 01:04:11,766 --> 01:04:14,893 and you all are getting 1969 01:04:11,766 --> 01:04:14,893 a substitute teacher. 1970 01:04:14,935 --> 01:04:16,729 [groans] 1971 01:04:16,771 --> 01:04:19,898 I know, I will miss each 1972 01:04:16,771 --> 01:04:19,898 and every one of you 1973 01:04:19,940 --> 01:04:23,235 very, very much. 1974 01:04:23,277 --> 01:04:24,194 Yes, Aubrey? 1975 01:04:24,236 --> 01:04:25,529 But your tummy isn't big. 1976 01:04:25,571 --> 01:04:27,782 [laughs] 1977 01:04:27,823 --> 01:04:30,909 That's because the 1978 01:04:27,823 --> 01:04:30,909 baby is still growing. 1979 01:04:30,951 --> 01:04:32,536 KJ. 1980 01:04:32,578 --> 01:04:33,537 How did the baby 1981 01:04:32,578 --> 01:04:33,537 get in your stomach? 1982 01:04:33,579 --> 01:04:35,539 [light hearted music] 1983 01:04:35,581 --> 01:04:37,332 We all know the 1984 01:04:35,581 --> 01:04:37,332 stork doesn't drop off 1985 01:04:37,374 --> 01:04:39,668 the baby at the hospital. 1986 01:04:39,710 --> 01:04:40,877 [all] Mm-hmm. 1987 01:04:41,754 --> 01:04:44,923 Okay, let's change 1988 01:04:41,754 --> 01:04:44,923 the subject, shall we? 1989 01:04:44,965 --> 01:04:49,303 If you all could open up your 1990 01:04:44,965 --> 01:04:49,303 science readers to page 11, 1991 01:04:49,344 --> 01:04:51,930 and not that kind of science. 1992 01:04:51,972 --> 01:04:55,934 Okay mammals, that's what we're 1993 01:04:51,972 --> 01:04:55,934 gonna talk about, mammals. 1994 01:05:04,151 --> 01:05:06,737 Bernie honey, come on, 1995 01:05:04,151 --> 01:05:06,737 come on and sit down. 1996 01:05:06,779 --> 01:05:08,739 You gotta think positive. 1997 01:05:08,781 --> 01:05:09,948 I'm sure Tasha and the baby 1998 01:05:09,990 --> 01:05:11,950 are gonna get through 1999 01:05:09,990 --> 01:05:11,950 the surgery just fine. 2000 01:05:11,992 --> 01:05:13,910 And what if they don't? 2001 01:05:15,537 --> 01:05:16,913 You know, cause if 2002 01:05:15,537 --> 01:05:16,913 Tasha wakes up, 2003 01:05:16,955 --> 01:05:20,292 and finds out anything 2004 01:05:16,955 --> 01:05:20,292 happened to that baby. 2005 01:05:20,334 --> 01:05:22,294 She'll never forgive 2006 01:05:20,334 --> 01:05:22,294 herself, or me. 2007 01:05:22,336 --> 01:05:23,295 None of this is your fault. 2008 01:05:23,337 --> 01:05:25,130 It is my fault, Melvin. 2009 01:05:26,965 --> 01:05:30,761 I should have done something 2010 01:05:26,965 --> 01:05:30,761 else, I don't know. 2011 01:05:35,349 --> 01:05:38,310 Mom and baby are fine. 2012 01:05:38,769 --> 01:05:40,103 Mrs. Jackson did great. 2013 01:05:40,145 --> 01:05:42,981 We were able to get her 2014 01:05:40,145 --> 01:05:42,981 left breast and the tumor. 2015 01:05:43,023 --> 01:05:44,441 [chuckling] 2016 01:05:47,110 --> 01:05:48,696 Thank you, Doc. 2017 01:05:48,737 --> 01:05:49,488 Thank you. 2018 01:05:49,530 --> 01:05:50,698 Your welcome. 2019 01:05:50,739 --> 01:05:53,283 Hey, you'll be able 2020 01:05:50,739 --> 01:05:53,283 to see her soon. 2021 01:05:53,325 --> 01:05:54,075 Okay. 2022 01:05:54,117 --> 01:05:56,953 [dramatic music] 2023 01:06:03,210 --> 01:06:06,087 ♪ Butterflies and 2024 01:06:03,210 --> 01:06:06,087 Barbie dolls ♪ 2025 01:06:06,129 --> 01:06:09,299 ♪ Pigtails, playing 2026 01:06:06,129 --> 01:06:09,299 in my mothers heels ♪ 2027 01:06:09,341 --> 01:06:14,137 ♪ Summer days playing dress 2028 01:06:09,341 --> 01:06:14,137 up just being so innocent ♪ 2029 01:06:16,139 --> 01:06:19,685 ♪ Catching fireflies 2030 01:06:16,139 --> 01:06:19,685 trying to count the stars ♪ 2031 01:06:19,727 --> 01:06:23,021 ♪ Singing and dancing no 2032 01:06:19,727 --> 01:06:23,021 matter where we were ♪ 2033 01:06:23,063 --> 01:06:26,066 ♪ Finding laughter in 2034 01:06:23,063 --> 01:06:26,066 anything and everything ♪ 2035 01:06:26,107 --> 01:06:30,946 ♪ Just being girls ♪ 2036 01:06:31,613 --> 01:06:35,992 ♪ And that's all I want ♪ 2037 01:06:38,078 --> 01:06:44,919 ♪ That's all I've 2038 01:06:38,078 --> 01:06:44,919 got to remember you ♪ 2039 01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:49,757 ♪ When we were young 2040 01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:49,757 wild and free ♪ 2041 01:06:51,091 --> 01:06:52,551 There you go. 2042 01:06:54,177 --> 01:06:57,472 You showed me this recipe, now 2043 01:06:54,177 --> 01:06:57,472 you're gonna eat this thing. 2044 01:06:57,514 --> 01:07:00,976 ♪ Double Dutch and lollipops ♪ 2045 01:07:01,017 --> 01:07:02,644 ♪ One dollar bills running 2046 01:07:01,017 --> 01:07:02,644 for the ice cream truck ♪ 2047 01:07:02,686 --> 01:07:04,062 -[retching] 2048 01:07:02,686 --> 01:07:04,062 - Ok, ok sweetie. 2049 01:07:04,104 --> 01:07:06,690 ♪ Fire crackers on the fourth ♪ 2050 01:07:06,732 --> 01:07:10,736 ♪ Hit the pool do a 2051 01:07:06,732 --> 01:07:10,736 belly flop ♪ 2052 01:07:19,119 --> 01:07:22,080 Come on not too much, Brenda. 2053 01:07:22,122 --> 01:07:23,916 Listen. 2054 01:07:23,958 --> 01:07:26,251 If there's one thing I know 2055 01:07:23,958 --> 01:07:26,251 how to do it's beat a face. 2056 01:07:26,293 --> 01:07:28,503 [giggles] 2057 01:07:30,798 --> 01:07:32,048 Yeah. 2058 01:07:32,507 --> 01:07:34,509 All right, here ya go. 2059 01:07:36,136 --> 01:07:36,971 Oh. 2060 01:07:37,012 --> 01:07:38,054 Do you like it? 2061 01:07:40,015 --> 01:07:43,059 Oh, I look just like Mama. 2062 01:07:44,686 --> 01:07:46,062 Yeah, ya do. 2063 01:07:49,817 --> 01:07:52,987 Brenda, I miss her so much. 2064 01:07:53,028 --> 01:07:57,115 Me too, but she would 2065 01:07:53,028 --> 01:07:57,115 be so proud of you. 2066 01:07:57,157 --> 01:08:00,368 And so happy about 2067 01:07:57,157 --> 01:08:00,368 that grandbaby. 2068 01:08:00,410 --> 01:08:01,411 I know. 2069 01:08:03,246 --> 01:08:07,125 Brenda, I know for 2070 01:08:03,246 --> 01:08:07,125 the first two years 2071 01:08:07,167 --> 01:08:10,545 I was very upset 2072 01:08:07,167 --> 01:08:10,545 about you and Daddy. 2073 01:08:10,587 --> 01:08:14,132 Oh, listen that's water 2074 01:08:10,587 --> 01:08:14,132 under the bridge girl. 2075 01:08:14,174 --> 01:08:20,263 I know that I was young, 2076 01:08:14,174 --> 01:08:20,263 and I just didn't understand. 2077 01:08:21,015 --> 01:08:23,976 But, I want you to know 2078 01:08:21,015 --> 01:08:23,976 how beyond grateful 2079 01:08:24,018 --> 01:08:26,020 I am that he has you. 2080 01:08:27,187 --> 01:08:30,106 And even though he may be a 2081 01:08:27,187 --> 01:08:30,106 little complicated at times... 2082 01:08:30,148 --> 01:08:31,733 [giggles] 2083 01:08:33,234 --> 01:08:37,656 -...know how much he loves you. 2084 01:08:33,234 --> 01:08:37,656 - Well, 2085 01:08:37,698 --> 01:08:39,825 I can certainly 2086 01:08:37,698 --> 01:08:39,825 say I love him. 2087 01:08:41,493 --> 01:08:45,080 Now, let's get that dress on. 2088 01:08:45,121 --> 01:08:47,082 We are going to 2089 01:08:45,121 --> 01:08:47,082 shower you with gifts. 2090 01:08:47,123 --> 01:08:48,166 [laughs] 2091 01:08:48,208 --> 01:08:50,544 [light hearted music] 2092 01:08:50,585 --> 01:08:52,170 [all] Aw. 2093 01:08:52,212 --> 01:08:54,715 -[Brenda laughing] 2094 01:08:52,212 --> 01:08:54,715 -[clapping] 2095 01:08:54,756 --> 01:08:56,717 [Brenda] That is so adorable. 2096 01:08:58,218 --> 01:09:00,136 [cries out] 2097 01:09:00,178 --> 01:09:01,262 -[chattering] 2098 01:09:00,178 --> 01:09:01,262 -[clapping] 2099 01:09:01,304 --> 01:09:04,058 Look at these booty shorts. 2100 01:09:04,099 --> 01:09:05,183 Baby booty-- 2101 01:09:04,099 --> 01:09:05,183 Come on man. 2102 01:09:05,225 --> 01:09:07,185 Look at this! 2103 01:09:05,225 --> 01:09:07,185 The little-- Who did this one? 2104 01:09:07,227 --> 01:09:10,313 Oh my God, that 2105 01:09:07,227 --> 01:09:10,313 is so beautiful. 2106 01:09:10,355 --> 01:09:12,691 Oh. Precious. Isn't 2107 01:09:10,355 --> 01:09:12,691 that sweet, Carol? 2108 01:09:12,733 --> 01:09:14,234 It's so precious. 2109 01:09:14,275 --> 01:09:17,195 Oh, we're not gonna have 2110 01:09:14,275 --> 01:09:17,195 to buy clothes for years. 2111 01:09:17,237 --> 01:09:18,864 Thank you so much. 2112 01:09:22,993 --> 01:09:24,953 A diaper bag. 2113 01:09:24,995 --> 01:09:26,204 [Brenda] You can use that. 2114 01:09:26,246 --> 01:09:28,749 Oh, let's see if I 2115 01:09:26,246 --> 01:09:28,749 can put it on now. 2116 01:09:28,790 --> 01:09:30,166 [cheering] 2117 01:09:30,208 --> 01:09:32,961 [Brenda] Oh, look at that. 2118 01:09:30,208 --> 01:09:32,961 That is so great. 2119 01:09:33,003 --> 01:09:35,756 [clapping] 2120 01:09:35,797 --> 01:09:37,049 [Brenda] Nice. 2121 01:09:38,466 --> 01:09:41,803 Oh, get up off the floor. 2122 01:09:38,466 --> 01:09:41,803 What is wrong with you? 2123 01:09:41,845 --> 01:09:45,807 Would you get up off the floor? 2124 01:09:41,845 --> 01:09:45,807 You are out of your mind. 2125 01:09:45,849 --> 01:09:48,226 Get up off the floor, would you? 2126 01:09:48,268 --> 01:09:50,020 You are in the way. 2127 01:09:50,062 --> 01:09:51,813 Daddy gets every shot-- 2128 01:09:50,062 --> 01:09:51,813 Oh, here we go again. 2129 01:09:51,855 --> 01:09:54,232 Here we are again bro. 2130 01:09:51,855 --> 01:09:54,232 Melvin. 2131 01:09:54,274 --> 01:09:55,817 Here we go. Look. 2132 01:09:55,859 --> 01:09:58,236 [laughs] 2133 01:09:58,278 --> 01:10:01,865 Today, I am 33 weeks pregnant, 2134 01:10:02,282 --> 01:10:05,243 and we also had 2135 01:10:02,282 --> 01:10:05,243 your baby shower. 2136 01:10:07,287 --> 01:10:11,249 The biggest news, is that 2137 01:10:07,287 --> 01:10:11,249 you are gonna be here 2138 01:10:11,291 --> 01:10:14,210 in about, oh just 2139 01:10:11,291 --> 01:10:14,210 a few short weeks. 2140 01:10:15,295 --> 01:10:18,006 Oh honey, see the 2141 01:10:15,295 --> 01:10:18,006 doctor's gonna perform 2142 01:10:18,048 --> 01:10:20,258 what they call a C-section. 2143 01:10:20,300 --> 01:10:22,803 And that means he's gonna 2144 01:10:20,300 --> 01:10:22,803 cut you outta mommy's tummy. 2145 01:10:22,844 --> 01:10:24,805 Now, I know that may sound gross 2146 01:10:24,846 --> 01:10:26,807 and it may be too 2147 01:10:24,846 --> 01:10:26,807 much information, 2148 01:10:26,848 --> 01:10:30,602 but the point is that you 2149 01:10:26,848 --> 01:10:30,602 are going to be here soon 2150 01:10:30,644 --> 01:10:32,813 and safe. 2151 01:10:32,854 --> 01:10:37,025 Keep on doing what you're 2152 01:10:32,854 --> 01:10:37,025 doing girl, you are so strong. 2153 01:10:37,067 --> 01:10:41,237 And promise me that you're 2154 01:10:37,067 --> 01:10:41,237 always gonna be that way. 2155 01:10:43,949 --> 01:10:45,283 Oof! 2156 01:10:45,325 --> 01:10:49,079 My goodness, time 2157 01:10:45,325 --> 01:10:49,079 for a potty break. 2158 01:10:49,121 --> 01:10:51,081 Mommy can't keep going like this 2159 01:10:51,123 --> 01:10:54,250 with a three pound 2160 01:10:51,123 --> 01:10:54,250 Patricia on her bladder. 2161 01:10:56,503 --> 01:10:57,462 All right. 2162 01:10:57,504 --> 01:10:58,463 [groaning] 2163 01:10:58,505 --> 01:11:01,758 How do I get out of this chair? 2164 01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:04,260 Okay, here goes. 2165 01:11:05,720 --> 01:11:07,472 [splashing] 2166 01:11:07,514 --> 01:11:09,307 -[dramatic music] 2167 01:11:07,514 --> 01:11:09,307 -[gasping] 2168 01:11:09,349 --> 01:11:11,476 Oh my God. 2169 01:11:11,518 --> 01:11:15,522 Bernie? I think my 2170 01:11:11,518 --> 01:11:15,522 water just broke! 2171 01:11:23,363 --> 01:11:24,865 The baby's here. 2172 01:11:24,906 --> 01:11:26,950 She and Tasha are 2173 01:11:24,906 --> 01:11:26,950 doing just fine. 2174 01:11:26,992 --> 01:11:28,326 [laughing] 2175 01:11:28,368 --> 01:11:30,328 Congratulations, Daddy. 2176 01:11:30,370 --> 01:11:32,914 Ah, thank you. Oh, my God. 2177 01:11:34,499 --> 01:11:38,670 She's uh... She's a 2178 01:11:34,499 --> 01:11:38,670 little small, but they say 2179 01:11:34,499 --> 01:11:38,670 she's doing good. 2180 01:11:38,712 --> 01:11:39,671 Amazing. 2181 01:11:39,713 --> 01:11:41,089 - Yeah. 2182 01:11:39,713 --> 01:11:41,089 - And how's my baby girl? 2183 01:11:41,131 --> 01:11:43,675 She was a champ bro. 2184 01:11:41,131 --> 01:11:43,675 Melvin, she was a champ. 2185 01:11:43,717 --> 01:11:44,885 Oh, that's my baby. 2186 01:11:44,926 --> 01:11:46,678 Thank God. Thank God. 2187 01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:48,471 I cannot believe this. 2188 01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:48,471 I'm a papa. 2189 01:11:48,513 --> 01:11:49,472 Yes, you are. 2190 01:11:49,514 --> 01:11:52,517 And uh... 2191 01:11:49,514 --> 01:11:52,517 you're a proud grandpapa. 2192 01:11:54,394 --> 01:11:56,437 Yeah, uh, okay. I guess I am. 2193 01:11:56,479 --> 01:11:58,648 [laughing] 2194 01:11:58,690 --> 01:12:01,526 Congratulations. 2195 01:12:01,985 --> 01:12:03,987 Baby, you did so good. 2196 01:12:05,113 --> 01:12:08,283 Oh yes, we just saw 2197 01:12:05,113 --> 01:12:08,283 the baby in NICU. 2198 01:12:08,324 --> 01:12:10,660 Daddy, could you stop? 2199 01:12:08,324 --> 01:12:10,660 I look a mess. 2200 01:12:10,702 --> 01:12:12,079 What you talking about? 2201 01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:14,873 You look great, I 2202 01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:14,873 mean considering. 2203 01:12:16,917 --> 01:12:19,920 Tasha's a mommy. You did it. 2204 01:12:21,504 --> 01:12:22,672 I did, didn't I? 2205 01:12:22,714 --> 01:12:24,465 Yes, you did, baby. 2206 01:12:24,507 --> 01:12:26,426 She's healthy and wonderful. 2207 01:12:26,467 --> 01:12:28,428 Yeah, she is. 2208 01:12:28,469 --> 01:12:30,264 Knock knock. [chuckles] 2209 01:12:30,305 --> 01:12:32,057 [Tasha] Oh, Dr. Lopez. 2210 01:12:32,099 --> 01:12:33,433 Your OB called my office 2211 01:12:33,474 --> 01:12:35,643 and let me know you 2212 01:12:33,474 --> 01:12:35,643 delivered the baby last night 2213 01:12:35,685 --> 01:12:37,437 and everything went well. 2214 01:12:37,478 --> 01:12:39,273 Thank you. 2215 01:12:39,314 --> 01:12:41,399 No thanks needed. I'm just 2216 01:12:39,314 --> 01:12:41,399 glad she arrived safely. 2217 01:12:41,441 --> 01:12:42,776 Yes. 2218 01:12:42,817 --> 01:12:43,651 [Lopez] A little earlier 2219 01:12:42,817 --> 01:12:43,651 than we would have liked. 2220 01:12:43,693 --> 01:12:44,652 [laughing] 2221 01:12:44,694 --> 01:12:45,445 A little early. 2222 01:12:45,486 --> 01:12:46,863 What about Tasha? 2223 01:12:46,905 --> 01:12:49,074 Well, she has two 2224 01:12:46,905 --> 01:12:49,074 more chemo sessions. 2225 01:12:49,116 --> 01:12:51,659 And then we'll get the 2226 01:12:49,116 --> 01:12:51,659 MRI, see if she's cleared. 2227 01:12:51,701 --> 01:12:53,494 Could we not talk 2228 01:12:51,701 --> 01:12:53,494 about that right now 2229 01:12:53,536 --> 01:12:55,538 and focus on celebrating? 2230 01:12:55,580 --> 01:12:59,417 Well, you do that and 2231 01:12:55,580 --> 01:12:59,417 I will see you later. 2232 01:12:59,459 --> 01:13:00,418 Everybody take care. Huh? 2233 01:13:00,460 --> 01:13:02,129 - Thank you. 2234 01:13:00,460 --> 01:13:02,129 - Thank you. 2235 01:13:03,463 --> 01:13:04,923 Well, I don't know about ya'll, 2236 01:13:04,965 --> 01:13:07,717 but I can't wait to 2237 01:13:04,965 --> 01:13:07,717 get that baby home. 2238 01:13:07,759 --> 01:13:09,136 Now listen, you don't have 2239 01:13:07,759 --> 01:13:09,136 to worry about a thing. 2240 01:13:09,177 --> 01:13:10,929 I'm gonna come over. I'm 2241 01:13:09,177 --> 01:13:10,929 gonna sleep on the couch. 2242 01:13:10,971 --> 01:13:13,932 I'm gonna fix the formula. 2243 01:13:10,971 --> 01:13:13,932 I'm gonna change the diapers. 2244 01:13:13,974 --> 01:13:16,434 I'm gonna get up in the middle 2245 01:13:13,974 --> 01:13:16,434 of the night with the baby. 2246 01:13:16,476 --> 01:13:17,435 I know Bernie don't know nothing 2247 01:13:17,477 --> 01:13:18,728 about taking care of no baby. 2248 01:13:18,770 --> 01:13:20,355 [laughs] 2249 01:13:20,396 --> 01:13:22,941 I was praying 2250 01:13:20,396 --> 01:13:22,941 you would say that. 2251 01:13:22,983 --> 01:13:26,153 I don't know what we would 2252 01:13:22,983 --> 01:13:26,153 do without you, Brenda. 2253 01:13:26,194 --> 01:13:29,447 I don't think Bernie knows 2254 01:13:26,194 --> 01:13:29,447 how to change a diaper. 2255 01:13:29,489 --> 01:13:30,531 I don't think so either. 2256 01:13:30,573 --> 01:13:32,700 [giggles] 2257 01:13:32,742 --> 01:13:35,162 [gentle music] 2258 01:13:36,537 --> 01:13:38,039 [Bernie] Look who's here. 2259 01:13:38,539 --> 01:13:40,334 [Tasha] Oh, honey. 2260 01:13:40,375 --> 01:13:42,502 [Bernie] I know, I know. 2261 01:13:42,543 --> 01:13:44,338 Oh my God, would you 2262 01:13:42,543 --> 01:13:44,338 look at that girl? 2263 01:13:44,379 --> 01:13:45,505 Look at this big old baby. 2264 01:13:45,546 --> 01:13:47,341 Oh. 2265 01:13:47,382 --> 01:13:49,550 - Hey, little mama. 2266 01:13:47,382 --> 01:13:49,550 - Oh. 2267 01:13:49,592 --> 01:13:51,219 - Come here. 2268 01:13:49,592 --> 01:13:51,219 - How precious is she? 2269 01:13:51,261 --> 01:13:52,512 Come here, what 2270 01:13:51,261 --> 01:13:52,512 you smiling at? 2271 01:13:52,553 --> 01:13:55,515 - Hi. 2272 01:13:52,553 --> 01:13:55,515 - Huh, what you smiling at? 2273 01:13:55,556 --> 01:13:56,933 Come on. 2274 01:13:56,975 --> 01:13:59,102 -[crying] 2275 01:13:56,975 --> 01:13:59,102 - I know, I know, I know. 2276 01:13:59,144 --> 01:14:01,188 - It's okay. 2277 01:13:59,144 --> 01:14:01,188 - Come to Mama. 2278 01:14:01,604 --> 01:14:04,732 It's okay. 2279 01:14:04,774 --> 01:14:06,526 Patricia, it's fine. 2280 01:14:06,567 --> 01:14:07,485 It's all right, baby. 2281 01:14:07,527 --> 01:14:08,486 Don't cry, honey. 2282 01:14:08,528 --> 01:14:09,487 Here you go. 2283 01:14:09,529 --> 01:14:10,488 It's okay. 2284 01:14:10,530 --> 01:14:12,157 - Here you go. 2285 01:14:10,530 --> 01:14:12,157 - There you go. 2286 01:14:14,368 --> 01:14:16,494 That's what that girl wanted. 2287 01:14:16,536 --> 01:14:18,538 Good job, Daddy. 2288 01:14:19,747 --> 01:14:21,916 And Mommy can't wait 2289 01:14:19,747 --> 01:14:21,916 to get up from here 2290 01:14:21,958 --> 01:14:23,918 and take care of you herself. 2291 01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:25,503 Mommy needs to 2292 01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:25,503 give it some time. 2293 01:14:25,545 --> 01:14:26,504 I know. 2294 01:14:26,546 --> 01:14:27,922 All right, don't over do it. 2295 01:14:27,964 --> 01:14:29,132 You just finished your 2296 01:14:27,964 --> 01:14:29,132 last chemo session, 2297 01:14:29,174 --> 01:14:30,717 and you need your energy 2298 01:14:30,758 --> 01:14:32,927 to celebrate this 2299 01:14:30,758 --> 01:14:32,927 little lady coming home. 2300 01:14:32,969 --> 01:14:34,512 Hey, baby. 2301 01:14:34,554 --> 01:14:35,471 Oh, wow. 2302 01:14:36,556 --> 01:14:37,557 Honey, could you 2303 01:14:36,556 --> 01:14:37,557 please take her? 2304 01:14:37,598 --> 01:14:38,516 Hm? 2305 01:14:38,558 --> 01:14:40,101 Take her I can't. 2306 01:14:40,143 --> 01:14:43,521 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 2307 01:14:40,143 --> 01:14:43,521 I got you. I got you. 2308 01:14:43,563 --> 01:14:48,026 When are, um, Daddy and Brenda 2309 01:14:43,563 --> 01:14:48,026 supposed to get here? 2310 01:14:48,860 --> 01:14:50,237 Um, they said they should 2311 01:14:48,860 --> 01:14:50,237 be here within the hour. 2312 01:14:50,278 --> 01:14:51,238 [crying] 2313 01:14:51,279 --> 01:14:52,406 Okay. 2314 01:14:53,489 --> 01:14:56,534 Did you make that last 2315 01:14:53,489 --> 01:14:56,534 bottle before you left? 2316 01:14:56,576 --> 01:14:58,036 I'm doing it right now. 2317 01:14:58,078 --> 01:15:00,705 Baby, are you sure you 2318 01:14:58,078 --> 01:15:00,705 got it? 'Cause I don't... 2319 01:15:00,747 --> 01:15:02,916 Yeah, sure, yeah. 2320 01:15:02,957 --> 01:15:04,542 You don't sound too convincing. 2321 01:15:04,584 --> 01:15:05,752 I got it. 2322 01:15:07,087 --> 01:15:11,299 -[crying] 2323 01:15:07,087 --> 01:15:11,299 -[breathing] 2324 01:15:12,842 --> 01:15:15,262 Okay, okay, Mommy's coming. 2325 01:15:17,138 --> 01:15:19,515 Mommy's coming, baby. 2326 01:15:17,138 --> 01:15:19,515 Don't cry, honey. 2327 01:15:20,558 --> 01:15:21,351 Okay. 2328 01:15:22,560 --> 01:15:25,521 Just give Mommy some time, okay? 2329 01:15:25,563 --> 01:15:27,107 Mommy time. 2330 01:15:27,148 --> 01:15:30,318 Oh, Patricia don't cry, baby. 2331 01:15:30,360 --> 01:15:31,527 Okay? 2332 01:15:32,153 --> 01:15:34,155 Okay, I'm coming baby. 2333 01:15:35,365 --> 01:15:38,368 I'm coming. Just give 2334 01:15:35,365 --> 01:15:38,368 me some time, okay? 2335 01:15:39,619 --> 01:15:42,580 Okay, I'm coming, baby. 2336 01:15:42,622 --> 01:15:44,582 Okay, I'm coming. 2337 01:15:44,624 --> 01:15:46,000 [thuds] 2338 01:15:46,042 --> 01:15:48,253 -[dramatic music] 2339 01:15:46,042 --> 01:15:48,253 -[baby crying] 2340 01:15:49,379 --> 01:15:52,006 Here we go. I don't know if 2341 01:15:49,379 --> 01:15:52,006 this is gonna be enough, but... 2342 01:15:52,048 --> 01:15:52,840 Tasha! 2343 01:15:55,469 --> 01:15:58,430 Between the chemo 2344 01:15:55,469 --> 01:15:58,430 and the pregnancy, 2345 01:15:58,472 --> 01:16:00,265 she's extremely anemic. 2346 01:16:01,641 --> 01:16:03,310 She's losing blood 2347 01:16:01,641 --> 01:16:03,310 flow to her brain 2348 01:16:03,351 --> 01:16:05,603 and it's caused her 2349 01:16:03,351 --> 01:16:05,603 to slip into a coma. 2350 01:16:05,645 --> 01:16:07,814 Now, there are different 2351 01:16:05,645 --> 01:16:07,814 medicines we are trying, 2352 01:16:07,855 --> 01:16:11,651 but a blood transfusion 2353 01:16:07,855 --> 01:16:11,651 may have to be performed. 2354 01:16:14,488 --> 01:16:17,615 Without proper blood 2355 01:16:14,488 --> 01:16:17,615 flow to her brain, 2356 01:16:17,657 --> 01:16:19,617 her organs could shut down. 2357 01:16:19,659 --> 01:16:23,788 And if that happens, there's 2358 01:16:19,659 --> 01:16:23,788 not much that we can do. 2359 01:16:23,830 --> 01:16:25,623 Mrs. Jackson needs to fight. 2360 01:16:25,665 --> 01:16:27,834 [beeping] 2361 01:16:31,463 --> 01:16:36,009 Did you know you were 2362 01:16:31,463 --> 01:16:36,009 named after your grandmama? 2363 01:16:31,463 --> 01:16:36,009 [chuckles] 2364 01:16:36,050 --> 01:16:40,638 That's right. 2365 01:16:36,050 --> 01:16:40,638 I loved me some her. 2366 01:16:40,680 --> 01:16:44,642 She was my bestest friend 2367 01:16:40,680 --> 01:16:44,642 in the whole world. 2368 01:16:44,684 --> 01:16:46,811 I had just moved 2369 01:16:44,684 --> 01:16:46,811 to the neighborhood, 2370 01:16:46,853 --> 01:16:49,814 and I didn't have one friend. 2371 01:16:49,856 --> 01:16:51,649 For weeks I sat up on my porch 2372 01:16:51,691 --> 01:16:54,986 and watched her playing 2373 01:16:51,691 --> 01:16:54,986 jump rope across the street. 2374 01:16:55,028 --> 01:16:56,988 Finally one day, she 2375 01:16:55,028 --> 01:16:56,988 marched over to me 2376 01:16:57,030 --> 01:17:00,200 and said, "What's 2377 01:16:57,030 --> 01:17:00,200 wrong with you? 2378 01:17:00,241 --> 01:17:03,661 Get off that porch right now 2379 01:17:00,241 --> 01:17:03,661 and come and play with me." 2380 01:17:03,703 --> 01:17:07,623 And from that day forward we 2381 01:17:03,703 --> 01:17:07,623 were connected at the hip. 2382 01:17:07,665 --> 01:17:09,250 Until the day she passed. 2383 01:17:11,044 --> 01:17:12,628 I never heard that story about 2384 01:17:12,670 --> 01:17:15,006 how you and Patricia met before. 2385 01:17:15,048 --> 01:17:17,258 I didn't hear you come in. 2386 01:17:19,719 --> 01:17:20,636 How's Tasha? 2387 01:17:24,432 --> 01:17:26,684 Nothing's really changed. 2388 01:17:26,726 --> 01:17:29,645 I mean, she had a... 2389 01:17:31,689 --> 01:17:37,695 pregnancy, 2390 01:17:31,689 --> 01:17:37,695 a mastectomy, chemo, 2391 01:17:37,737 --> 01:17:41,074 delivered a baby 2392 01:17:37,737 --> 01:17:41,074 safely, all for what? 2393 01:17:41,115 --> 01:17:43,743 So she can get laid up in a 2394 01:17:41,115 --> 01:17:43,743 hospital fighting for her life? 2395 01:17:43,784 --> 01:17:44,660 Anemic? 2396 01:17:46,538 --> 01:17:47,705 And we still don't know 2397 01:17:46,538 --> 01:17:47,705 if the cancer's gone 2398 01:17:47,747 --> 01:17:48,873 into remission yet. 2399 01:17:48,915 --> 01:17:49,707 I know. 2400 01:17:51,125 --> 01:17:54,879 It's so unfair. I wish 2401 01:17:51,125 --> 01:17:54,879 I could go see her. 2402 01:17:54,921 --> 01:17:59,050 You can. I can sit with 2403 01:17:54,921 --> 01:17:59,050 the baby. 2404 01:17:59,092 --> 01:18:02,720 No, she'd want me to stay 2405 01:17:59,092 --> 01:18:02,720 here and take care of Patricia. 2406 01:18:02,762 --> 01:18:06,766 I was thinking that uh... 2407 01:18:02,762 --> 01:18:06,766 we should get married. 2408 01:18:10,604 --> 01:18:15,316 I've been waiting a long 2409 01:18:10,604 --> 01:18:15,316 time to hear those words, but... 2410 01:18:16,776 --> 01:18:17,735 But what? 2411 01:18:19,112 --> 01:18:21,739 You're scared 2412 01:18:19,112 --> 01:18:21,739 right now, Melvin. 2413 01:18:21,781 --> 01:18:24,075 You don't know what's 2414 01:18:21,781 --> 01:18:24,075 gonna happen with Tasha, 2415 01:18:24,117 --> 01:18:25,743 and you want me to stick around. 2416 01:18:25,785 --> 01:18:26,869 That's not it. 2417 01:18:26,911 --> 01:18:28,746 Yes, it is. 2418 01:18:28,788 --> 01:18:32,667 I left once and you're 2419 01:18:28,788 --> 01:18:32,667 thinking maybe I'll leave again. 2420 01:18:32,708 --> 01:18:35,253 And you don't like to be alone. 2421 01:18:35,295 --> 01:18:38,047 Don't tell me what I'm 2422 01:18:35,295 --> 01:18:38,047 feeling and what I'm thinking. 2423 01:18:38,089 --> 01:18:41,676 I asked you because I love you. 2424 01:18:41,717 --> 01:18:43,470 And yes, I know what I said 2425 01:18:41,717 --> 01:18:43,470 to you when I found out 2426 01:18:43,511 --> 01:18:46,847 about Tasha was harsh, 2427 01:18:43,511 --> 01:18:46,847 and I'm sorry for that. 2428 01:18:46,889 --> 01:18:49,684 But I really do love you. 2429 01:18:49,725 --> 01:18:52,520 And you've taken care 2430 01:18:49,725 --> 01:18:52,520 of my family for me. 2431 01:18:52,562 --> 01:18:54,939 You think I do 2432 01:18:52,562 --> 01:18:54,939 all this for you? 2433 01:18:56,941 --> 01:18:59,860 I take care of all of 2434 01:18:56,941 --> 01:18:59,860 you because my best 2435 01:18:56,941 --> 01:18:59,860 friend isn't here 2436 01:18:59,902 --> 01:19:02,614 to take care of you herself. 2437 01:19:05,074 --> 01:19:06,784 I'm taking care of the baby 2438 01:19:06,826 --> 01:19:08,453 and trying to make sure 2439 01:19:06,826 --> 01:19:08,453 Bernie has a hot meal 2440 01:19:08,495 --> 01:19:09,829 when he gets home. 2441 01:19:09,870 --> 01:19:14,292 I don't have time to think 2442 01:19:09,870 --> 01:19:14,292 about marrying you right now. 2443 01:19:15,876 --> 01:19:19,589 [dramatic music] 2444 01:19:19,631 --> 01:19:21,633 [beeping] 2445 01:19:25,052 --> 01:19:26,304 Tasha. 2446 01:19:28,764 --> 01:19:29,599 Wake up. 2447 01:19:34,854 --> 01:19:36,523 Patricia needs you, baby. 2448 01:19:37,732 --> 01:19:38,816 I need you. 2449 01:19:38,858 --> 01:19:43,863 -[beeping] 2450 01:19:38,858 --> 01:19:43,863 -[dramatic music] 2451 01:19:47,074 --> 01:19:50,495 [light hearted music] 2452 01:19:51,871 --> 01:19:53,831 I'm sorry. It'll be over... 2453 01:19:51,871 --> 01:19:53,831 It'll be over soon. I'm sorry. 2454 01:19:53,873 --> 01:19:54,832 [crying] 2455 01:19:54,874 --> 01:19:56,834 I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 2456 01:19:56,876 --> 01:19:58,712 Oh my God, I'm sorry. 2457 01:20:04,050 --> 01:20:08,846 Oh my God. I know. 2458 01:20:04,050 --> 01:20:08,846 I know, I'm sorry. 2459 01:20:08,888 --> 01:20:11,807 -[dramatic music] 2460 01:20:08,888 --> 01:20:11,807 -[beeping] 2461 01:20:17,897 --> 01:20:18,814 [Patricia] Tasha. 2462 01:20:20,650 --> 01:20:21,651 Tasha. 2463 01:20:27,448 --> 01:20:28,866 Mama? 2464 01:20:28,908 --> 01:20:30,535 I thought I 2465 01:20:28,908 --> 01:20:30,535 taught you to fight? 2466 01:20:32,328 --> 01:20:33,871 You did. 2467 01:20:33,913 --> 01:20:36,957 Well, why aren't you 2468 01:20:33,913 --> 01:20:36,957 fighting this, baby? 2469 01:20:36,999 --> 01:20:40,545 Mama, I fought the 2470 01:20:36,999 --> 01:20:40,545 good fight, but I can't. 2471 01:20:40,587 --> 01:20:42,922 - I'm tired. 2472 01:20:40,587 --> 01:20:42,922 - Oh, you fight anyway, honey. 2473 01:20:42,963 --> 01:20:45,550 You ball your fist up and 2474 01:20:42,963 --> 01:20:45,550 you swing at this thing 2475 01:20:45,592 --> 01:20:48,762 with everything you got, honey. 2476 01:20:48,803 --> 01:20:50,471 - But, I can't-- 2477 01:20:48,803 --> 01:20:50,471 - No buts. 2478 01:20:52,890 --> 01:20:56,852 Don't give up. 2479 01:20:52,890 --> 01:20:56,852 You can't give up. 2480 01:20:58,938 --> 01:21:00,898 - Mama. 2481 01:20:58,938 --> 01:21:00,898 -[Patricia] You got it. 2482 01:21:00,940 --> 01:21:02,108 Mama, wait. 2483 01:21:02,149 --> 01:21:06,195 Mama, wait don't go. 2484 01:21:02,149 --> 01:21:06,195 Mama. 2485 01:21:06,946 --> 01:21:09,865 Mama, don't leave 2486 01:21:06,946 --> 01:21:09,865 me again, please. 2487 01:21:09,907 --> 01:21:11,867 [beeping] 2488 01:21:15,079 --> 01:21:19,834 -[coughing] 2489 01:21:15,079 --> 01:21:19,834 -[crying out] 2490 01:21:19,875 --> 01:21:22,044 Bernie, wake up. She's awake. 2491 01:21:23,254 --> 01:21:24,422 [Bernie] Baby! 2492 01:21:24,464 --> 01:21:25,632 [Melvin] I'm gonna 2493 01:21:24,464 --> 01:21:25,632 go get a nurse. 2494 01:21:25,673 --> 01:21:28,008 Okay. Hey, hey look 2495 01:21:25,673 --> 01:21:28,008 at me, hey baby look, 2496 01:21:28,050 --> 01:21:29,927 you have a tube in your throat. 2497 01:21:29,969 --> 01:21:30,928 Somebody's coming to get it. 2498 01:21:30,970 --> 01:21:31,721 Melvin went to go 2499 01:21:30,970 --> 01:21:31,721 get someone, okay? 2500 01:21:31,763 --> 01:21:34,515 Relax. 2501 01:21:31,763 --> 01:21:34,515 They'll take it out, okay. 2502 01:21:34,557 --> 01:21:38,561 [upbeat music] 2503 01:21:43,566 --> 01:21:50,573 ♪ Happy birthday, Mommy 2504 01:21:43,566 --> 01:21:50,573 Happy birthday, Mommy ♪ 2505 01:21:53,951 --> 01:22:00,333 ♪ Happy birthday dear Mommy ♪ 2506 01:22:00,374 --> 01:22:06,213 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 2507 01:22:09,258 --> 01:22:11,552 Go ahead. Make a wish. 2508 01:22:13,554 --> 01:22:14,972 All my wishes have come true. 2509 01:22:15,014 --> 01:22:15,931 Yes. 2510 01:22:17,016 --> 01:22:18,518 Where's that little munchkin? 2511 01:22:18,559 --> 01:22:21,729 She's finally asleep, right 2512 01:22:18,559 --> 01:22:21,729 as we're about to leave. 2513 01:22:21,771 --> 01:22:23,147 Oh, course she is. 2514 01:22:24,732 --> 01:22:27,276 You know what, um, I've been 2515 01:22:24,732 --> 01:22:27,276 playing with this for a while. 2516 01:22:27,318 --> 01:22:30,488 This short hair's 2517 01:22:27,318 --> 01:22:30,488 not so bad is it? 2518 01:22:30,530 --> 01:22:33,991 I think you look 2519 01:22:30,530 --> 01:22:33,991 gorgeous either way. 2520 01:22:34,033 --> 01:22:36,911 Gorgeous and cancer-free. 2521 01:22:36,952 --> 01:22:39,163 Gorgeous and cancer-free. 2522 01:22:39,205 --> 01:22:39,997 Yes. 2523 01:22:42,958 --> 01:22:45,085 So what, you're just 2524 01:22:42,958 --> 01:22:45,085 gonna eat my cupcake? 2525 01:22:45,127 --> 01:22:46,713 You gonna eat this? 2526 01:22:46,754 --> 01:22:48,715 - Really, Bernie? 2527 01:22:46,754 --> 01:22:48,715 - What? 2528 01:22:48,756 --> 01:22:50,299 ♪ When I heard your 2529 01:22:48,756 --> 01:22:50,299 heart beat ♪ 2530 01:22:50,341 --> 01:22:52,343 ♪ When I heard your 2531 01:22:50,341 --> 01:22:52,343 heart beat ♪ 2532 01:22:52,385 --> 01:22:59,058 ♪ I made me right 2533 01:22:52,385 --> 01:22:59,058 Oh Oh ♪ 2534 01:22:59,099 --> 01:23:03,020 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2535 01:22:59,099 --> 01:23:03,020 When I heard your heart beat ♪ 2536 01:23:03,062 --> 01:23:07,983 ♪ I changed my life ♪ 2537 01:23:10,110 --> 01:23:13,489 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2538 01:23:10,110 --> 01:23:13,489 When I heard your heart beat ♪ 2539 01:23:13,531 --> 01:23:15,032 And it's about time 2540 01:23:13,531 --> 01:23:15,032 you put a ring on it. 2541 01:23:15,074 --> 01:23:17,117 [chuckling] 2542 01:23:20,955 --> 01:23:22,039 [clapping] 2543 01:23:22,081 --> 01:23:23,040 There we go. 2544 01:23:23,082 --> 01:23:26,126 [light-hearted music] 2545 01:23:44,311 --> 01:23:49,316 ♪ This overwhelming 2546 01:23:44,311 --> 01:23:49,316 love I have inside me ♪ 2547 01:23:49,525 --> 01:23:54,113 ♪ Could ignite the 2548 01:23:49,525 --> 01:23:54,113 city lights, yeah ♪ 2549 01:23:55,155 --> 01:24:00,787 ♪ Unconditional love I 2550 01:23:55,155 --> 01:24:00,787 understand now as I hold you ♪ 2551 01:24:01,621 --> 01:24:04,373 ♪ Ever so tight ♪ 2552 01:24:04,415 --> 01:24:07,877 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2553 01:24:04,415 --> 01:24:07,877 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2554 01:24:07,919 --> 01:24:11,923 ♪ I made things right ♪ 2555 01:24:12,506 --> 01:24:15,676 ♪ Yeah ♪ 2556 01:24:15,718 --> 01:24:18,721 ♪♪ 2557 01:24:38,491 --> 01:24:43,537 ♪ This overwhelming love 2558 01:24:38,491 --> 01:24:43,537 I have inside me ♪ 2559 01:24:43,579 --> 01:24:46,081 ♪ Could ignite the 2560 01:24:43,579 --> 01:24:46,081 city lights ♪ 2561 01:24:46,123 --> 01:24:47,082 ♪ Yeah ♪ 2562 01:24:49,168 --> 01:24:55,466 ♪ Unconditional love I 2563 01:24:49,168 --> 01:24:55,466 understand now as I hold you ♪ 2564 01:24:55,508 --> 01:24:58,135 ♪ Ever so tight ♪ 2565 01:24:58,177 --> 01:25:01,555 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2566 01:24:58,177 --> 01:25:01,555 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2567 01:25:01,597 --> 01:25:06,101 ♪ I changed my life ♪ 2568 01:25:06,143 --> 01:25:08,688 ♪ Changed my life ♪ 2569 01:25:08,729 --> 01:25:12,441 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2570 01:25:08,729 --> 01:25:12,441 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2571 01:25:12,483 --> 01:25:16,654 ♪ I made things right ♪ 2572 01:25:16,696 --> 01:25:19,156 ♪ Made things right ♪ 2573 01:25:19,198 --> 01:25:22,869 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2574 01:25:19,198 --> 01:25:22,869 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2575 01:25:22,910 --> 01:25:27,456 ♪ I made things right ♪ 2576 01:25:27,498 --> 01:25:28,499 ♪ Yeah ♪ 2577 01:25:31,502 --> 01:25:37,257 ♪ Just to know you are 2578 01:25:31,502 --> 01:25:37,257 on your way ♪ 2579 01:25:37,299 --> 01:25:42,179 ♪ Makes life more living 2580 01:25:37,299 --> 01:25:42,179 every day ♪ 2581 01:25:42,221 --> 01:25:47,852 ♪ To give a home 2582 01:25:42,221 --> 01:25:47,852 and your seed ♪ 2583 01:25:47,894 --> 01:25:51,064 ♪ And she'll give you 2584 01:25:47,894 --> 01:25:51,064 back your legacy ♪ 2585 01:25:51,105 --> 01:25:52,732 ♪ Ohh ♪ 2586 01:25:52,773 --> 01:25:55,651 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2587 01:25:52,773 --> 01:25:55,651 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2588 01:25:55,693 --> 01:26:00,197 ♪ I changed my life ♪ 2589 01:26:00,239 --> 01:26:02,199 ♪ Yeah ♪ 2590 01:26:02,241 --> 01:26:06,203 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2591 01:26:02,241 --> 01:26:06,203 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2592 01:26:06,245 --> 01:26:10,875 ♪ I made things right ♪ 2593 01:26:10,917 --> 01:26:13,210 ♪ Ohh ♪ 2594 01:26:13,252 --> 01:26:17,214 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2595 01:26:13,252 --> 01:26:17,214 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2596 01:26:17,256 --> 01:26:21,427 ♪ I changed my life ♪ 2597 01:26:21,468 --> 01:26:23,846 ♪ Ohh ♪ 2598 01:26:23,888 --> 01:26:28,059 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2599 01:26:23,888 --> 01:26:28,059 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2600 01:26:28,101 --> 01:26:32,438 ♪ I made things right ♪ 2601 01:26:32,479 --> 01:26:34,231 ♪ Yeah ♪ 2602 01:26:34,273 --> 01:26:40,195 ♪♪ 158300