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NARRATOR: Previously...
JEFF: Here's a key to my apartment.
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Oh, that's so cute. Thank you.
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Homestays saw
significant breakthroughs...
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DAVE: The hardest decision is to
fight and that's what we want to do
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and I want to move forward.
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..as our couples began
planning their futures
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outside of the experiment.
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If it all ended abruptly tomorrow,
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is my daughter going to
get her heart broken?
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Um...
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But Teejay left Beth
feeling devastated.
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There's obviously something
that's lacking between us
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for me to say, yes, I want to have
a relationship with this person.
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BETH: That was really hard to hear.
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Your brain is so small.
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My brain is small?
Yeah.
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And when Jacqui and Ryan sampled
married life in the real world...
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I didn't bring you here
to listen to your bullshit.
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Jacqui is the most difficult person
I have ever tried to date
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in my life.
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..tensions hit boiling point.
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Your behaviour, it's not OK!
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You're trying to talk over me
and trying to shut me up.
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I'm going to tell you
exactly how I feel.
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I think he's been absolutely
gypped of this experiment
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by being put with you.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Tonight...
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(THUNDER CRASHES)
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MEL: It's a storm outside, and
there's about to be a storm inside.
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It's the second-last
dinner party of the experiment...
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Teejay, what on earth
do you have to say to that, then?
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..and Teejay is at
the centre of the storm.
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I feel like you've really switched.
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I can't answer that right now.
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Has he been entirely honest
with Beth?
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You should be able to say,
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"Yes, I want to continue on
the outside and get to know you,"
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and you couldn't answer it.
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RHI: He gave me a house key,
which was a bit cute.
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That's awesome.
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Some will celebrate
their deeper bonds.
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It's actually quite lovely to watch,
isn't it?
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All reflecting on how well
things are going.
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It's beautiful.
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But for Ryan...
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I'm sick of it, Jacqui.
I'm just sick of it.
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I've had a gutful, mate.
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Wow.
OK. Wow.
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..he's reached his breaking point...
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This is my house.
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No, that's not what happened.
I got yelled at.
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Oh, my God.
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I'm not going to sugarcoat things.
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I'm not going to
tolerate it anymore.
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..as he declares he wants out.
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I can't...
I can't do this, Jacqui.
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Why don't you want
to be someone great?
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Ooh!
Oh!
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But Jacqui's not taking no
for an answer.
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I don't lose people.
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People lose me.
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(DRAMATIC MUSICAL BOOM)
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(TENSE MUSIC FADES)
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(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
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After travelling far and wide
across the country for homestays,
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all our couples are back in Sydney
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ahead of the seventh dinner party
of the experiment.
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CARINA: Today's dinner party.
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PAUL: You look so good, babe.
You look good as well.
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You look so suave.
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Having returned
from their homestay in Melbourne,
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Rhi and Jeff are going into
tonight's dinner party
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with high hopes for the future.
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Mine and Jeff's homestay
went really well.
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It was actually better
than I expected.
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Going into homestays, I was
worried that the experiment
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was the glue keeping us together,
considering we did date before
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and obviously it didn't work out,
but homestays really did, I guess,
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clear up those worries for me
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because I feel like we were just
instantly extremely comfortable
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and it just felt natural,
which was great.
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During their homestay,
Jeff felt so at home with Rhi
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that he decided to take
a significant step forward
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in their relationship.
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Here is a key to my apartment.
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Oh, that's so cute. Thank you.
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So, yeah, come over whenever.
I will.
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As much as possible.
I definitely will.
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Jeff giving me a key
on the last day of homestays,
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it just made me realise how serious
this relationship really is.
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You look great.
Thank you.
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Good, good.
So do you.
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It just made me extremely excited
to actually start our lives
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outside of the experiment.
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Thank you.
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I'll be a minute.
All right.
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Me and Rhi, like,
we've been so good,
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and homestays was a great week.
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How weird does it feel being
back in the apartment again?
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I reckon it feels good being here.
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Yeah. It feels like home.
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Yeah, it does.
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Homestays just confirmed
that this relationship is real,
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and it feels great to be in it.
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Everyone will ask us
how our homestays are.
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We're like, "Yeah, it was good."
Yeah.
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Like, "Oh, move on."
I've been there.
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Yeah. You've been there, yeah.
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Um, yeah. No, it was awesome.
I had a great week.
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Every day, every week,
my feelings grow stronger
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and I'm excited about
the next few weeks,
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but I'm excited about
life past the experiment.
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All right, let's do it.
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Rhi and Jeff aren't the only couple
returning to Sydney on a high.
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I'm feeling good.
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I'm looking forward
to the dinner party.
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Coming back from homestays,
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I think we're in a good place,
if not a better place,
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than we were before we left.
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I enjoyed seeing what
Awhina's life is like,
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and me and Awhina
obviously have some hurdles,
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considering the states
that we live in,
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but we're in a good place
in our relationship.
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I'm excited to see
where life takes us.
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You look nice, by the way.
So do you.
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I like you in pink.
I like you in pink.
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We're matchy-matchy.
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Yeah, I can't wait to tell
everyone about our homestay
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and how terrible you were.
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(JOVIAL MUSIC, AWHINA GIGGLES)
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How much your mum loved me.
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(BOTH LAUGH)
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Adrian and I are in
a really good place right now.
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We had a really great homestay,
and I'm looking forward to
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going into the dinner party
because we're going in together.
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And Adrian said he likes Perth,
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and it's made me feel more confident
about our relationship.
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Your mum was cute.
My mum is cute.
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(AWHINA LAUGHS)
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JAMIE: Oh, my God!
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DAVE: Yeah, it's for you.
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Having gone into homestays
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on a mission to win back
his wife's heart...
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..Dave has been pulling out
all the stops.
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Have a look.
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Babe, this is, like, 400 bucks.
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Is that your favourite one?
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It is, but why don't you spend
that much money?
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I feel like I'm constantly eating
my words about my relationship
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because, as soon as I'm like,
"Oh, there's no saving us,"
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then apparently there is saving us.
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'Cause I care about you.
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The last two weeks really tested us.
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But then, I think, like,
just as we were, like, giving up,
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kind of realised we don't want
to not be in each other's lives,
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and we don't want
to lose each other.
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For Dave, homestays
was an opportunity
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to reaffirm his commitment
to fighting for Jamie.
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I've seen you on the couch last week
and I've seen how hurt you were.
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That's not how I want this to go.
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I don't want to hurt you at all.
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I'm gonna have to put the effort in.
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I want to work on expressing
the emotional, romantic side.
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You're worth doing that for.
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And Dave also took the step
of introducing Jamie
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to the most important person
in his life, his father.
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It was super important
for her to meet you for me.
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I was rapt to finally meet Jamie
and she's wonderful.
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He's very happy. You can tell.
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You sexy minx.
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I still can't get over
this perfume.
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(GENTLE MUSIC)
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Like...
Do you like it?
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I just...it's like what
rich people smell like.
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Yeah.
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I still...
Your favourite perfume.
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I think Jamie and I are in
a really good place at the moment.
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Homestays, for me,
put things into perspective.
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I realised that I want to make this
work and I want to see this out.
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Delish.
(JAMIE GASPS)
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Everyone's going to want to, like,
have a bite of me tonight, I think.
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Showing up romantically
is a huge...huge thing for Jamie,
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so I'm just trying to step up
and be...be a good partner.
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And I feel like
she's totally worth the effort.
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And with pink nails.
Such a girly girl.
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I know, I'm...
First time I've had pink in so long.
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I like it.
Yeah.
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We're mixing it up because
now we're back in Lavagirl era.
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(MYSTIFYING MUSIC)
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But unlike Jamie and Dave,
homestays has only brought
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more confusion
to Beth and Teejay's relationship.
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At last week's commitment
ceremony, the lack of intimacy
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in Beth and Teejay's marriage
was in the spotlight.
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Why would you say, Teejay,
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that sexual intimacy
and, like, physical intimacy
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hasn't progressed for you two?
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I genuinely believe
it's an emotional connection thing,
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and I really want to feel like
our souls are intertwining...
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..before moving back into
the intimate side of things.
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Then, as they arrived
in Brisbane for homestays...
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Look at this!
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Little room.
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..Beth shared an update
in their relationship.
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We went on a date and then
that night we were intimate again,
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which was awesome.
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You put your stuff away first
and then I'll see what's left.
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He initiated it.
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He said this whole time
he needs more of a connection
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to sleep with me,
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so I hope that means that he does
have a emotional connection to me
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because otherwise, I guess,
it wouldn't make sense
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for him to initiate that.
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But a conversation
with Teejay's friends
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caused Beth to doubt
their connection.
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I think what we're trying
to work out at the moment
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is that is our connection going
to flourish into a relationship?
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Right.
Right.
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So, there's obviously something
that's lacking between us
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for me to say, "Yes, I want to have
a relationship with this person."
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And alone with his friends...
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I'll be back soon.
OK.
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..Teejay revealed his true feelings.
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So, as it stands, how do you feel?
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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If you were to tell me I have
to decide yes or no right now...
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(MUSIC CONTINUES)
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..then it has to be a no because
I'm not completely comfortable here.
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(MELANCHOLIC MUSIC)
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BETH: I have no idea
where I stand with Teejay.
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The things that have happened
recently in our relationship,
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we've had some great moments,
we've had some great conversations.
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We've obviously slept
with each other again.
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So, in my mind, I thought
everything was going really well,
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and then we get to homestays and
it's a completely different story.
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He's clearly been feeling unsure
about me before we went to homestays
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so why didn't he tell me?
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I would not have done homestays
if I knew he wasn't feeling me.
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I just wouldn't of.
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I would love for Teejay
to kind of make that commitment
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that we're willing to work on it
because I think he's great.
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I'm not saying that I need him
to get down on one knee
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and propose to me on the outside.
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All I'm asking is if he's open to
just work on it a little bit more.
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But I guess, from the conversation
from homestays,
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he just feels very closed off.
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Hi.
Hey.
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You look good.
You look good.
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You look good. How are you feeling?
Yeah, I'm all right.
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(DISCONCERTING MUSIC)
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Homestays were a little bit much.
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But, I mean, if that's where we are,
that's where we are,
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you know what I mean?
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So, it's not like we hate each other
or anything like that.
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Yeah.
256
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(MUSIC CONTINUES)
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I'm comfortable with walking in
however you want.
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Like, if you wanted to walk in
by yourself, I understand.
259
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But, if you want
to walk in together,
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like, I understand, too, as well.
261
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So, I just want to know what
you're...you're thinking there.
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Erm...
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I mean, it's hard because,
obviously, the last conversation,
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I think we are...
we are on different pages.
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Do you know what I mean?
Mm.
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So, I feel like, for us to walk in
together, it's confusing.
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Mm.
268
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Um, yeah.
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You're not wearing your wedding ring
so that makes sense.
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Yeah. Yeah.
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Yeah.
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(DOWNHEARTED MUSIC)
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It's pretty confronting
going into dinner parties,
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I guess, when you're
not in a good position,
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so, yeah, I don't know.
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I don't know.
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More so, I obviously don't want
people to come at you, either,
278
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so, you know, it's still
a nerve-racking situation.
279
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Maybe we should
walk in together then.
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OK.
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So it's more comfortable,
and then we can just get in there
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and have the conversations
and that's it.
283
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That's fine with me.
284
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So, I'm happy with that.
285
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OK.
286
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While Beth and Teejay
put on a united front,
287
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Jacqui is getting ready alone
for the first time ever
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after a heated argument with
Ryan's friends during homestays.
289
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So you're just, like,
throwing dirt on me,
290
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but you're not even listening
to anything I'm saying.
291
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How does it feel, Jacqui?
If you want to communicate...
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All you've done is throw dirt
on him.
293
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Two sets of paperwork saying...
OK, calm down.
294
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No! You've been rude to him
the whole time.
295
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He's been ripped of this experiment.
296
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Jacqui, we sat there and watched
your behaviour last time.
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You were so rude.
He's been ripped of this experiment.
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JACQUI: I'm feeling fine
about the dinner party.
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I've done nothing wrong.
300
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Absolutely, absolutely
nothing wrong.
301
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It's clear as daylight.
302
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At Ryan's place,
when his friends came for me,
303
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that felt like a really unjustified,
malicious attack on my heart.
304
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And he just sat there.
305
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Just disgusting behaviour.
306
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(TENSE MUSIC)
307
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Like, I've obviously
had real concerns
308
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about Ryan and his behaviour,
309
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but I've been trying to give him
the benefit of the doubt
310
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and try to see the good in him
and try and look for the good.
311
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Now I realise that
supporting him as my husband
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is a detriment to the world.
313
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(MUSIC CONTINUES)
314
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I feel fine about seeing Ryan
at the dinner party.
315
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I'll just give him the opportunity
to explain what happened
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and apologise.
317
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He's not going to get away with
not giving me an apology.
318
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Jacqui might be looking
for an apology,
319
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but Ryan is looking
for a quick exit.
320
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Tonight is going to be
pretty definitive
321
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in terms of Jacqui and I's
relationship.
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I haven't seen Jacqui at all
since she left my place,
323
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and kinda chucked a little tantrum
and walked out.
324
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Now, I'm not saying that
I condone the raised voices,
325
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but, at the same time,
my friends are protective of me.
326
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They love me.
327
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They've heard the terrible things
that she's said and done.
328
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I love having a bit of stubble
at the very least.
329
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Why do you not care
if your wife finds you attractive?
330
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Jacqui is the most difficult person
I've ever tried to date in my life.
331
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It's something as
simple as a beard.
332
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..about anything because
your brain is so small.
333
00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:06,760
I didn't come to your home
to argue with you.
334
00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:08,080
(FROSTY MUSIC)
335
00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:10,560
I didn't bring you here
to listen to your bullshit either.
336
00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:13,160
"Move office back into office".
337
00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:14,480
(JACQUI GIGGLES)
338
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See, she's happy.
Look, her tail's wagging now.
339
00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:18,840
Jacqui, this is my dog, all right?
340
00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:20,800
I know what she tries to
get away with, all right?
341
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So, if you could just respect that,
that'd be great.
342
00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:27,720
I feel this whole week
has just really highlighted to me
343
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just how incompatible we are.
344
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We make progress
and then we burn down.
345
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Like, we launch the rocket
and then we fall back to earth.
346
00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:36,280
And I can't do the yo-yo anymore.
It's...
347
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It's not what I want for my life.
348
00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:41,480
It all accumulates into me feeling
like, "What am I doing here?"
349
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Like, this person is not healthy
to be around
350
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because she's so full of criticism.
351
00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:48,920
Tonight, I'm not going
to sugarcoat things.
352
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I'm going to let my voice be heard,
353
00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:52,960
and shed light on what
I've been dealing with.
354
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I want to make sure
that my side is heard.
355
00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:01,520
Nothing can make this right
between us.
356
00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:03,400
(DRAMATIC MUSIC FADES)
357
00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:08,720
(DISQUIETING MUSIC)
358
00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:13,280
(RAIN PATTERS)
359
00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:15,480
(MUSIC INTENSIFIES)
360
00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:20,880
(MUSIC FADES)
361
00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:23,400
It's a nice day for a dinner party.
Isn't it?
362
00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:26,240
It's nice to be excited
for this dinner party.
363
00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:27,480
Yeah.
364
00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:29,920
I actually can't wait to go in there
and give you the biggest cuddle.
365
00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:34,400
JOHN: Well, we are just about there.
366
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This is the second-last dinner party
for the entire experiment.
367
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And this week they've had homestays,
368
00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:46,600
which is the perfect opportunity to
really try on your partner for size
369
00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:50,440
in the real world and get more
of that critical feedback
370
00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:51,880
from family and loved ones.
371
00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:52,960
Yeah.
372
00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:56,600
And, of course,
coming, then, into the dinner party
373
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where they're going to be feeling
the effects of that homestay.
374
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Are they feeling that they can
bask in, like, the gloriousness
375
00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:04,280
of how good it was?
376
00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:06,680
Or are there real cracks
that have now been shown
377
00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:09,280
and they're really standing
on shaky ground?
378
00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:11,560
(RAIN PATTERS)
379
00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:15,040
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
380
00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:23,320
JOHN: No, this is undoubtedly
a very important dinner party
381
00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:24,680
for all our couples.
382
00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:29,880
(UNSETTLING MUSIC)
383
00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:33,720
(MUSIC FADES)
384
00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:36,840
All right. First ones in.
385
00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:39,080
Awhina and Adrian are here.
Yeah.
386
00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:40,680
I don't think we've ever been first.
387
00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:42,160
I know.
I kind of like it.
388
00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:43,280
(PEACEFUL MUSIC)
389
00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:44,920
They're looking pretty loved up.
390
00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:46,760
You know, they're flirting
with each other.
391
00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:48,000
They're being cutesy.
392
00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:51,800
Hey! Oops.
Oops.
393
00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:53,320
(AWHINA GIGGLES)
394
00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:55,520
Adrian and I are in a good place,
395
00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:57,640
so it's really nice that
we can walk in together.
396
00:16:57,720 --> 00:16:59,920
There's been a, you know, few times
where we've come in alone,
397
00:16:59,960 --> 00:17:01,600
so it's nice coming in united.
398
00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:03,080
I'm looking forward
to telling everyone else
399
00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:04,680
about our homestay, to be fair.
400
00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:05,960
Yeah, we had fun.
401
00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:09,600
Hey.
402
00:17:10,120 --> 00:17:11,320
Hey.
403
00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:12,600
Oh!
Rhi and Jeff.
404
00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:14,920
Rhi and Jeff looking radiant.
405
00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:17,600
Very happy entrance. Lovely to see.
Yeah.
406
00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:18,800
Thank you.
407
00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:23,160
Comfortable, at ease, smiley,
just happy and radiant.
408
00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:26,400
How'd you guys go?
409
00:17:27,120 --> 00:17:28,520
Yeah, we had a really good homestay.
410
00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,560
It was...it was really good,
like, overall,
411
00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:35,240
because it just made me realise that
outside of the experiment will work.
412
00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:37,040
ADRIAN: It's important, yeah,
that everyone gets along.
413
00:17:37,120 --> 00:17:41,120
It's so good to see that going home
reinforced how strong they are
414
00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:42,320
for these two.
415
00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:43,960
They do look really strong,
don't they?
416
00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:45,240
Yeah.
Yeah.
417
00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:47,200
Kissy-kissy.
418
00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:49,360
(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
419
00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:50,760
(AWHINA SQUEALS)
420
00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:52,400
Hey.
Hey!
421
00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:53,880
Oh!
422
00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:56,320
Jamie and Dave.
423
00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,160
Well, you're holding hands.
That's a good start.
424
00:17:58,200 --> 00:17:59,880
Good sign to begin with.
425
00:17:59,960 --> 00:18:01,640
AWHINA: Gorgeous.
Hello!
426
00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:03,840
Hey.
I love pink on you, Awhina.
427
00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:05,760
ADRIAN: Well, I'm assuming
homestays went well.
428
00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,160
JAMIE: Yeah!
429
00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:09,960
One of the big things that came out
from last commitment ceremony
430
00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:13,040
was Dave was detached,
431
00:18:13,120 --> 00:18:16,440
and we put it on him that,
if he's going to stick around,
432
00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:18,640
he's got to do some heavy lifting
and win her back.
433
00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:23,360
RHI: How were your homestay?
434
00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:25,400
Everything kind of turned around.
435
00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:27,960
We just...it was like old times,
it was better.
436
00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:29,880
He's bought flowers.
437
00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:31,760
He bought my favourite perfume.
438
00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:32,920
Oh, showin' up.
439
00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:34,840
(GENTLE MUSIC)
440
00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,040
She did meet...
She did meet my dad.
441
00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:39,240
We had a really nice catch-up.
442
00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:40,400
So good.
443
00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:43,640
MEL: This was a big step for him.
444
00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:46,080
It is great to see Dave
really stepping up,
445
00:18:46,120 --> 00:18:47,960
taking our advice on board.
446
00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:49,720
Yeah.
This is great.
447
00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:51,880
We had some good news about him.
448
00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:52,960
He...
449
00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:55,480
His...his cancer's,
like, shrunk significantly.
450
00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:57,280
Wow.
Unbelievable.
451
00:18:57,320 --> 00:18:58,920
Yeah, it was good. It was good.
452
00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:00,280
That's amazing.
453
00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,000
Oh, that's awesome.
454
00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:03,360
That's so good.
455
00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:08,080
MAN: Oh!
CARINA: Hello!
456
00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:09,600
RHI: Aw...
PAUL: Hello, guys.
457
00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:10,840
Carina and Paul.
458
00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:13,240
Hey, sir.
My brother. How are you, man?
459
00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:15,400
How are you, man?
I'm good. Good to see you, dude.
460
00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:17,480
Both seem happy.
BOTH: Yeah.
461
00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:18,720
JAMIE: How was your homestay?
462
00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:20,840
It was really good.
Like, it was so nice.
463
00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:23,640
My family were like,
"He's already a son to us."
464
00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,320
And I was like, "Whoa."
I was like, "Oh, my God, OK.
465
00:19:26,360 --> 00:19:28,440
"Whoa, tigers. Like, relax."
466
00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:32,920
It is so bloody nice to see
everyone in this room loved up.
467
00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:34,040
(AWHINA SIGHS)
468
00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:35,440
I feel I can breathe again.
469
00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:38,080
I'm going to be drinking my wine
and minding my own business.
470
00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:40,400
No, actually, no.
Never mind my own business.
471
00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:42,480
I'm going to be minding
everyone else's business.
472
00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:44,720
(RAIN PATTERS)
473
00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:46,440
(TENSE MUSIC)
474
00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:50,320
Yep.
(SCOFFS)
475
00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:55,920
(MUSIC RACES)
476
00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:58,360
Do you reckon everyone's homestays
were as good as ours?
477
00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:01,440
Like, the other couples have come
off a couple of real rough weeks.
478
00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:02,560
Like Teejay and Beth.
479
00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:05,320
When they left it,
they didn't seem strong at all.
480
00:20:05,360 --> 00:20:07,720
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
481
00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:14,320
(EXUBERANT GREETINGS)
482
00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:15,680
PAUL: Here they are.
JAMIE: Oh!
483
00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:18,120
Hello.
Hello!
484
00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:19,760
Uh, Beth and Teejay.
Beth and Teejay.
485
00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:22,600
After the last commitment ceremony
with Beth and Teejay,
486
00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:24,400
there was no physical affection.
487
00:20:25,360 --> 00:20:28,440
Are we going to see a softening
between the two of them tonight?
488
00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:30,960
(TENSE MUSIC)
489
00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:32,400
RHI: You look so good.
490
00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:33,960
BETH: Thank you.
So, so good.
491
00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:35,600
JAMIE: I need to know
what's going on.
492
00:20:38,360 --> 00:20:39,480
My parents asked us,
493
00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:41,320
"Do you see this progressing
on the outside?"
494
00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:43,760
And I sat there and I said, "I do,
it's something I want to work on."
495
00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:45,800
And he paused.
(UNNERVING MUSIC)
496
00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:48,120
And then he was like,
"It's something we're navigating."
497
00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:50,320
And then, in front of his friends,
he said,
498
00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:52,320
"I don't see it progressing
into a relationship."
499
00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,040
I was left feeling so embarrassed.
500
00:20:56,120 --> 00:20:58,640
Like, why would you do that to me
in front of people?
501
00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:00,440
MEL: Oh, that would really hurt.
502
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,560
That's so tough for Beth.
Yes.
503
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:07,600
Beth has never had a relationship
so this is completely new for her,
504
00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:10,840
and, for Beth, this is very, very
confusing and for the group.
505
00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:12,960
For him to say 'stay',
506
00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:15,680
he knew homestays
were around the (BLEEP) corner,
507
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,320
so why did you not tell me before?
508
00:21:17,360 --> 00:21:18,800
Yeah, exactly.
509
00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
510
00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:23,480
JAMIE: I feel for Beth.
511
00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:25,600
I'd feel completely blindsided.
512
00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:28,080
I've been in that position.
513
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,440
I was there last week
and you've got to speak your truth,
514
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:31,920
otherwise nothing's going to change.
515
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:35,600
Why come to Brisbane,
spend time with my family
516
00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,800
and then tell me
you don't see a future?
517
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:41,280
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
518
00:21:41,360 --> 00:21:44,120
JACQUI: I'm actually kind of excited
to walk in alone for the first time.
519
00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:46,160
I actually signed up
for a good husband,
520
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:47,640
but this man is not good.
521
00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:48,720
He actually...
522
00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:50,920
When I think of him,
I just think of evil.
523
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:52,840
I think of a black smoke.
524
00:21:54,400 --> 00:22:00,520
# And I think to myself
what a wonderful world. #
525
00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:02,480
(FRAUGHT MUSIC)
526
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:04,680
I actually think Ryan
is on the wrong track in life,
527
00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:06,160
and he needs to be put back
in his place
528
00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:07,440
so he can figure it out himself.
529
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,480
I didn't come here
to support an evil person.
530
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:14,920
He's not self-aware at all.
531
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:16,800
(RAIN PATTERS)
532
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:20,120
# All by myself
533
00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:25,640
# Don't wanna be all by myself. #
534
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:29,000
Actually, it's probably better
this way.
535
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:37,320
The one thing I'm expecting out of
tonight is an apology from Ryan.
536
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:42,400
Ultimately, I need him to make it up
to me now because I'm done.
537
00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,360
(MELANCHOLIC MUSIC)
538
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,800
Look, there's nothing
I need to apologise for.
539
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:49,800
It's so clear as daylight.
540
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:52,240
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
541
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:58,720
Uh-oh.
Hey!
542
00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:00,720
(MEL GASPS)
JOHN: Oh!
543
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:02,880
Jacqui's by herself.
544
00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,360
Is this the first time she's
walked in as separate from Ryan?
545
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:06,560
Absolutely.
Yeah.
546
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:09,240
We've never seen Jacqui and Ryan
separate like this.
547
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,120
You're going to need to
get a drink real quick
548
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:12,960
and sit down and tell us everything.
549
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:14,360
Yeah. Thank you, Jeff.
All good.
550
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:15,960
I appreciate that.
No worries.
551
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,240
JEFF: Oh, let's have a seat.
552
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:19,280
(TENSE MUSIC)
553
00:23:19,360 --> 00:23:22,040
Jacqui, what the hell's going on?
Yeah.
554
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:23,240
You're in the hot seat.
555
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,240
AWHINA: Tell us. Tell us everything.
Yeah.
556
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:27,040
OK, so, it started off
really well.
557
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,880
Like, we went to Manly first
and we actually had a lovely time.
558
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,080
(OFF-BEAT MUSIC)
559
00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:35,080
We went on a date.
Ryan bought me flowers.
560
00:23:35,120 --> 00:23:37,040
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
561
00:23:37,120 --> 00:23:39,280
Um, and then we drove
to Campbelltown.
562
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:41,200
So, we sit down with our friends
563
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,960
and, basically, we're just having
a normal conversation.
564
00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:45,880
And then, all of a sudden,
565
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,480
his friend brings up
the letter-writing task...
566
00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,520
..and just starts digging into me.
567
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,840
So, Ryan had relayed stuff like,
568
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,360
Jacqui said I can't provide for
her family and stuff like this,"
569
00:23:58,400 --> 00:23:59,640
which I didn't do.
570
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:04,840
"I'm concerned that you financially
contribute less than I will.
571
00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:08,520
"It's 'cause I'm not convinced that
you have enough financial skills".
572
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,240
I didn't say that. And so...
573
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:12,400
I heard it but anyway.
574
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:16,440
It just got more heated.
They just started yelling.
575
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,000
Like, I'm not even kidding
when it was, like,
576
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:22,880
nothing short of
just verbal attacks.
577
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:25,600
I got scolded, as well.
578
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,720
What sort of stuff were they saying?
579
00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:31,160
Things like, "Ryan is stitched up
being with you.
580
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:32,840
"You think you're better than him."
581
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:34,440
Yelling that...?
They're yelling that?
582
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:35,760
Yelling it at me.
583
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:40,760
JEFF: What about the letter comment?
584
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:44,400
Of course.
585
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:47,760
(TENSE MUSIC)
586
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,920
What's remarkable here
is, traditionally,
587
00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,960
when someone walks into
a cocktail party on their own,
588
00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:54,920
they have the support of the group.
589
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,560
This time around,
Jacqui doesn't have that.
590
00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:59,600
Well, it seems to be quite clear
591
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:01,880
that the group don't really
trust Jacqui.
592
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:03,200
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
593
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:06,320
I'm not validating what Ryan
or his friends said in any way,
594
00:25:06,360 --> 00:25:09,160
but, that letter you wrote him,
595
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,000
God, it was...
596
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,120
It would have been hard
to hear for anyone.
597
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,120
Yeah, exactly.
598
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,800
But, also, I feel like
we don't hear his side too much.
599
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,320
Like, he doesn't really
talk about his side too much.
600
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,920
RYAN: I think she's going to be
playing the victim card
601
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:27,240
very, very hard tonight.
602
00:25:28,120 --> 00:25:29,880
There's things I got
to get off my chest.
603
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:33,360
Literally, homestays week
was the tipping point
604
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,440
and it's fallen the wrong way.
605
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,120
Jacqui was disrespectful, rude
606
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,640
and judgemental of all aspects
of my life.
607
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:41,920
Like, her conduct was...
was disgraceful.
608
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:45,240
Like, Ryan just sat there
and didn't do anything.
609
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:47,280
Like, a grown man
was yelling at me,
610
00:25:47,360 --> 00:25:49,840
your friends were speaking to me
like I was a dog
611
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,040
and you just sat there
and said nothing.
612
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,080
This week could have been
so much better
613
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,360
if Jacqui had
a bit more self-awareness,
614
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:00,080
a bit more consideration
615
00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:04,600
and took some accountability
for her behaviour.
616
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:06,520
ADRIAN: Where are you at now
with Ryan?
617
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,760
Well, I'm like, well,
you not only owe me an apology,
618
00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:11,840
but, like,
you need to make it up to me.
619
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,480
So, you're saying
you want an apology?
620
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:14,640
So, if he gives you an apology,
621
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,280
you're like,
"Oh, sweet, it's all good again"?
622
00:26:16,360 --> 00:26:18,320
No, I said I want him
to make it up to me.
623
00:26:18,360 --> 00:26:20,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
624
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,240
There's just bad behaviour
happening.
625
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:26,880
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
626
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:28,760
I'm not going to
tolerate it anymore.
627
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,960
It's made me angry
and, at the end of the day,
628
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:35,480
I'm not someone who's vindictive
but things need to come to light,
629
00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:38,360
and she needs to be able to
demonstrate that her behaviour
630
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,080
can be called out, as well,
even if she thinks she's above it.
631
00:26:41,120 --> 00:26:42,760
I'm just done with it.
632
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:45,720
(MUSIC BUILDS)
633
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:47,880
Hola.
634
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:49,920
(DRAMATIC MUSIC FADES)
635
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:55,080
(TENSE MUSIC)
636
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:01,040
Hola.
Hi.
637
00:27:01,120 --> 00:27:03,040
Hello.
Hello.
638
00:27:03,120 --> 00:27:04,200
Where's Jacqui?
How are you?
639
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:06,160
And there he is.
Oh, here's Ryan.
640
00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:08,120
(RYAN LAUGHS)
BETH: Hello!
641
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,200
Hi. I love the green.
Thank you.
642
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:11,680
Love the suit.
Thank you.
643
00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,280
Hi. How are you?
Hey, Rhi, how are you?
644
00:27:13,360 --> 00:27:15,000
Good, how are you going?
Yeah, really good.
645
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:18,640
I'm just amazed that the most
confident he's been walking in
646
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:19,720
has been on his own.
647
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:20,880
MEL: Alone.
648
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:22,000
How are you, my bro?
649
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:23,760
I mean, that's saying something.
650
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,760
Hey, brother.
How are you, my bro?
651
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:27,320
How are you, man?
Really well.
652
00:27:27,360 --> 00:27:28,560
(RYAN LAUGHS)
653
00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,960
Walking in alone, oh, it's got
a unique charm to it, doesn't it?
654
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:34,200
Hi, Jacqui.
655
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,240
Mwah. Did you call me Jacqui?
Sorry, Jamie.
656
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,320
(HEARTY LAUGHTER)
657
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,120
Just got to show up
in one of your sharpest suits,
658
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:41,560
and just own the moment.
659
00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,760
Teejay. How are you, my bro?
660
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:45,600
(TENSE MUSIC)
661
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,600
If you're going to show up,
just show up as your best self.
662
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:49,840
(PLAYFUL SIGH)
663
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,400
Like a gladiator.
664
00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:52,560
Yeah.
665
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:55,360
Hello.
Hi.
666
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:59,160
Jacqui was standing there
waiting for him to acknowledge her.
667
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:00,440
That doesn't look...
668
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:02,440
That's not looking good.
Not looking good at all.
669
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:05,040
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
670
00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:08,480
Oh. Hello.
Hello.
671
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,040
I was just going to see how you are.
672
00:28:10,120 --> 00:28:12,680
I'm doing good. How are you?
Yeah? Yeah?
673
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,480
Feeling fresh, looking fresher.
674
00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:16,200
Yeah.
675
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,640
I was expecting
Ryan to walk through the door
676
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,920
with his tail between his legs
and come over and apologise,
677
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:28,040
but, instead,
Ryan is acting like he's a bachelor
678
00:28:28,120 --> 00:28:31,440
just arrived for a party,
and he's done nothing wrong.
679
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,240
And it's not OK.
680
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,320
Do you have anything
you want to say to me?
681
00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:42,920
Um...
682
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,240
"Do you have anything
you want to say to me?"
683
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:49,520
(TENSE MUSIC)
684
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,040
"Have you got anything
you want to say?"
685
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,120
That was a demand.
686
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:55,400
Wasn't really a question.
687
00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:59,040
I hadn't planned on it directly.
You hadn't planned on anything?
688
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:03,760
Jacqui wants me to apologise
for being alive, literally.
689
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:06,280
But what have I got to be sorry for?
Nothing.
690
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:11,200
There's things I've got in my head
that I want to express.
691
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:12,280
Yeah.
692
00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,560
It was a real shame that things
crashed and burned at the end there.
693
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,320
Yeah. It's, uh, not ideal.
694
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:22,880
What about you?
695
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,560
Do you have anything else to say?
696
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,800
(MUSIC RACES)
697
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:28,200
What do you mean?
698
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:32,200
Like, the reason why I left,
why we're not together tonight.
699
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:33,520
(MUSIC BUILDS)
700
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:35,080
(GLASS DINGS)
701
00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:38,000
Dinner is served.
702
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:40,960
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
703
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,120
Ryan was saved by the bell.
704
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,680
Ryan is not going to get away
from me at the dinner party.
705
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:49,880
MEL: Isn't it fascinating?
706
00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:54,040
It's a storm outside, and there's
about to be a storm inside.
707
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:55,880
It's very interesting timing.
708
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:56,960
Yes.
709
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,120
Jacqui's come in tonight
looking for an apology,
710
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,920
and it's very clear
Ryan's not going to give her one.
711
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,880
He's come in with a very
different mindset, hasn't he?
712
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:09,400
RYAN: I'm just ready
to get this over and done with.
713
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,560
I'm ready to speak my truth.
714
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:13,560
PAUL: The table is getting smaller,
right?
715
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:17,760
So, all this here that's on
my chest is going to be vocalised.
716
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,360
I don't really care what Jacqui's
asking for me at this point,
717
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,960
because, honestly, I'm checked out.
718
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:28,880
JACQUI: Yeah.
719
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:30,120
WOMAN: Cheers.
720
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:33,120
(GROUP TOASTS)
721
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,160
(JACQUI LAUGHS)
722
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:38,200
(UNSETTLING MUSIC)
723
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,720
TEEJAY: You said to me I'm...
724
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:51,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
725
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:52,800
(RYAN SIGHS)
726
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,800
He doesn't even seem to realise
he owes me an apology.
727
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:57,680
He is so delusional.
728
00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,520
It blows my brains out.
729
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:07,560
(DEEP SIGH)
730
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,880
I'm going to be
pulling that man aside,
731
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:11,600
and I'm going to teach him a lesson.
732
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,600
(TENSE MUSIC)
733
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:19,760
JEFF: Well, uh, Jacqui and Ryan,
734
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,320
I'm pretty sure everyone's keen
to hear what's actually going on.
735
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:23,520
Yeah.
736
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:29,120
Ah, ah, everyone, everyone...
737
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,040
(PLAYFUL MUSIC)
738
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:35,120
Yeah, I've got some things
I need to get off my chest.
739
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,040
Ooh.
Ooh!
740
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,760
About the whole week,
like, the full story and whatnot,
741
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:41,680
and, yeah, might as well
start at the beginning.
742
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,120
(MUSIC INTENSIFIES)
743
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,040
So, we turned up at her place.
744
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,280
Within five minutes of
going into her place,
745
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:52,360
like, we plopped on the bed,
we're having a nice chat,
746
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,320
and then she brings up something
again for the 50th time.
747
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:56,400
She goes...
748
00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,280
"Why won't you shave your beard?"
749
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:00,560
Oh, wow.
Huh?
750
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:02,120
Oh, my God. Are you serious?
What?
751
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,920
Oh, mate, the whole
clean-shaven blonde thing again.
752
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:09,560
Like, I don't (BLEEP) know, man.
Like...
753
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:10,840
JEFF: That's why I grew a beard.
754
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,120
(MAN LAUGHS)
755
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:14,480
It's like, this is garbage.
756
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:16,600
Like, we've had this conversation
a million times.
757
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:18,040
What is the point of this?
758
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:20,160
And she goes, "I'm going to
shave it off when you sleep."
759
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:23,280
(TENSE MUSIC)
760
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,840
But you know what?
It's his body, his choice.
761
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:29,480
Exactly. It's my body.
762
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:31,440
This is what I want to do
with my facial hair.
763
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:34,480
It actually sounds like a
stupid discussion, Jacqui, come on.
764
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:36,560
I know it's stupid
because that's not what happened.
765
00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:40,440
MAN: No, no.
RYAN: That's bullshit.
766
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:42,320
She goes, "Oh, oh, like,
767
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,480
"you're refusing to have
an intellectual discussion
768
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,200
"with me about it
because of your small brain."
769
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,240
(DISCONCERTING MUSIC)
770
00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,720
Wow.
OK. Wow.
771
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,440
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
772
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:00,880
Jacqui, this...
That's not OK.
773
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,440
You can't be saying that to Ryan.
Exactly.
774
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:04,880
That's not what happened.
775
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:06,960
You can't be saying that
to anyone, not just Ryan.
776
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:08,800
Exactly, 100%.
I didn't say that.
777
00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:10,640
That's not even the best part.
778
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:12,280
What's the best part, Ryan?
Oh...
779
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:13,960
AWHINA: Tell us the best part.
780
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,200
We showed up to my place
and, honestly, like,
781
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:20,960
my mood just went up.
782
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,240
You know, like, it's my sanctuary.
I love being around here.
783
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:27,360
I worked my arse off
for seven years renting, saving
784
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,160
to be able to buy a house
before I was 30.
785
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:30,480
Yeah.
Absolutely love it.
786
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:31,840
It's like my pride and joy.
787
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:33,120
(TENSE MUSIC)
788
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:34,320
Can I ask you something, guys?
789
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,360
Did anyone else
walk into anyone else's place
790
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:40,320
and start telling them
where to move things and saying,
791
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:42,040
"I don't like this
and you should do this"?
792
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:44,160
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
793
00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:45,840
Like re-arranging stuff?
794
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:47,600
Yeah, like, "Take that poster down.
I don't like it.
795
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:49,280
"What's that doing on the table?"
Jacqui, why?
796
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,520
"Take all these collectables."
That's not how it went.
797
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:53,240
Like, I have a whiteboard at home
798
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:55,000
and she's going around
writing things on there,
799
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:56,320
what I should change.
800
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:57,560
(BLEEP) hell.
801
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,320
She's even telling me
how to raise Freya, my dog.
802
00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:02,600
This is my house.
No, that's not what happened.
803
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:04,240
I got yelled at...
Exact...
804
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,240
..because I wasn't walking the dog
the way he wanted to.
805
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,000
So, are you saying
he yelled at you for that?
806
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:09,680
Yeah.
He actually yelled?
807
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,160
So they're both telling
two different stories here.
808
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:13,240
Yes.
809
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:15,920
So, it's really hard to know
what actually happened.
810
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,400
Ryan, did you...? Did you yell?
No, I didn't.
811
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,760
That's...that's her
dramatising shit, mate.
812
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:22,080
It's drama.
813
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:25,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC BUILDS)
814
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:29,280
(MUSIC FADES)
815
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,960
(TENSE MUSIC)
816
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,640
So, are you saying
he yelled at you for that?
817
00:34:37,720 --> 00:34:39,080
Yeah.
He actually yelled?
818
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:41,800
Ryan, did you...?
Did you yell?
819
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:42,920
No, I didn't.
820
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,200
That's...that's her
dramatising shit, mate.
821
00:34:45,240 --> 00:34:46,480
It's drama.
822
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:51,960
JOHN: Well, what I do know
is that, the way Ryan talks now,
823
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:53,480
there's a real bite in it...
824
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:54,480
Yeah.
825
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,840
..that perhaps we haven't seen
to that degree before.
826
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:57,960
Yes.
827
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:00,640
After the dog walk
was the friends' lunch.
828
00:35:00,720 --> 00:35:03,760
So, Adam and Carla,
two of my best mates,
829
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,000
they came in and they were
asking about the relationship.
830
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:07,080
They were like,
831
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,240
"Do you appreciate what
he's built for himself?
832
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,000
"Do you appreciate his lifestyle?"
That kind of stuff?
833
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,040
That's not what happened. Continue.
Oh, yes it is. Yes, it is.
834
00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:14,920
Yes, it is.
They were asking you questions.
835
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:16,400
Yeah, and then what happened?
836
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,800
And then what happened was
they asked her,
837
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:21,600
"Why do you think you guys
have disagreements?"
838
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:23,280
(TENSE MUSIC)
839
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:25,680
And then she goes, "Oh, because
Ryan always gets defensive."
840
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,800
And then she goes and doubles down
on the first time and she goes,
841
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,840
"Ryan actually is a liar,"
right to their face once again.
842
00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:34,320
(DISQUIETING MUSIC)
843
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:36,320
I didn't say that.
Yes, you did.
844
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,520
(MUSIC INTENSIFIES)
845
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:41,840
Things got a little bit heated
and I do not condone, like,
846
00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,960
the raised voices,
particularly from my friends' side,
847
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:47,600
but she wasn't answering
any of their questions.
848
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:49,640
She was just piling more shit on me.
849
00:35:49,720 --> 00:35:51,120
I was actually trying
to engage with them.
850
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:52,480
I was trying to answer
their questions
851
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:53,880
and then they just
weren't listening,
852
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:57,000
and then it just started
with throwing insults at me.
853
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:00,280
Oh, they did not
throw insults at you.
854
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:01,800
And I believe it
was toxic behaviour.
855
00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:04,000
JAMIE: Was someone standing up
and yelling over Jacqui?
856
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:05,080
No.
Yes.
857
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:06,280
No, he did not stand up and yell...
858
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:07,920
He was going...
(BREATHES STRANGELY)
859
00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:09,400
Oh...
And, like, animated...
860
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:12,440
I started crying and she was yelling
at me too and you just sat there.
861
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:13,640
You know what, you know what,
862
00:36:13,720 --> 00:36:16,600
because you kept blaming
their best mate, right?
863
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:18,800
Excuse me?
You've taken zero accountability.
864
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:20,480
You took zero accountability.
Ryan.
865
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:23,080
You were sitting there deflecting
it all onto me once again.
866
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:24,440
It's not true.
867
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:25,760
Whenever the heat is on you,
868
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,080
whenever you have to
demonstrate ownership,
869
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:29,680
you never do it.
870
00:36:29,720 --> 00:36:31,840
(TENSE MUSIC)
871
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:33,400
I'm sick of it.
You can't say that.
872
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,240
No-one deserves to be treated
like that.
873
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:36,840
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
874
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:38,480
Ryan, did they start yelling at her
875
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,960
or did Jacqui do something
for them to get heated?
876
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,720
I told them about what Jacqui said
about me in that letter.
877
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:45,640
She said I don't work as hard
as her.
878
00:36:45,720 --> 00:36:46,680
Ooh.
Oh.
879
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:49,720
And "I have serious concerns
about your financial future".
880
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,080
Wow.
That's not what I said.
881
00:36:53,240 --> 00:36:57,160
"I am concerned that you financially
contribute less than I will,
882
00:36:57,240 --> 00:36:59,640
"and I will end up
being the primary breadwinner.
883
00:36:59,720 --> 00:37:02,720
"I'm concerned
you don't work as hard as me".
884
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,800
I know what was said in the letter
because she read it to me.
885
00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:08,400
I heard it with my own ears.
886
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:09,800
I read it with my own eyes.
887
00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:14,240
I know what was in the letter,
so I know Jacqui's lying there.
888
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,560
If you're lying about that,
which I know is fact,
889
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,680
then how can I believe
anything else you say?
890
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,000
Jacqui, in all seriousness,
in the cocktail party,
891
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:23,160
I called out one of your lies
straight away.
892
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:24,360
I didn't address it then,
893
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,680
but you were talking about
what Ryan earned and his job,
894
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:28,240
and it wasn't good enough
and you said...
895
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:29,600
I didn't write that, Jeff.
896
00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:31,160
RYAN: Oh, my God.
ADRIAN: You read it to him.
897
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:32,440
RYAN: And the career thing came up.
898
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:33,960
JEFF: I heard it, you read it to me.
899
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,320
You said you were concerned
with what his job is
900
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:37,600
and how much he earns.
901
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:38,840
I didn't say that.
902
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:40,400
BETH: Jacqui, Jeff is not a liar.
903
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,000
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
904
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:44,040
I'm not a liar!
905
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:48,760
The facts are I said I am concerned
about the financial predictability
906
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:50,000
and stability.
907
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,760
Jacqui, essentially,
he just doesn't earn enough money?
908
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,160
I didn't say that, Jeff.
909
00:37:57,960 --> 00:37:59,240
That is not the issue.
910
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,520
(MUSIC BUILDS)
911
00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:03,440
I did not say
he's not good enough for me.
912
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,720
I've never, ever, ever said
this man is not good enough for me.
913
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:15,560
(MUSIC BUILDS THEN FADES)
914
00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,400
Jacqui, you know, honestly,
if that letter got read to me,
915
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:20,600
I wouldn't be here right now.
916
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:22,600
Yeah, I deserve to be yelled at,
yeah.
917
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:24,040
That's what you're saying.
918
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,640
(MELANCHOLIC MUSIC)
919
00:38:26,720 --> 00:38:29,000
I feel like I'm disappointed
in some of the group
920
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:34,640
for trying to defend behaviour
which is absolutely unacceptable.
921
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,960
Ryan is a great storyteller.
922
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:39,440
He does misrepresent
and misconstrue the facts,
923
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:42,560
but he is very convincing
in the way he tells it.
924
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:45,480
He believes his own lies,
people believe his lies
925
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,120
and that makes people turn on me.
926
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:50,360
JAMIE: 'Cause, obviously,
Ryan's really upset.
927
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:54,760
And he distracts everyone from
the big elephant in the room,
928
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:58,720
which is I was yelled at,
I was scolded, I was ganged up
929
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:03,640
and I was verbally abused by his
friends while he was sitting there,
930
00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:05,280
and he did nothing.
931
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:06,920
Jacqui,
932
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:08,680
you've been backed on the couch
many times
933
00:39:08,720 --> 00:39:10,280
and Ryan's had to apologise.
934
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:13,240
I think, sometimes, you need to be
able to own you're a part, as well.
935
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:15,800
For being scolded at?
936
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:17,920
(JACQUI CHORTLES)
937
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:22,040
Yeah, I'm sorry, guys, I'm sorry
I caused someone to scold at me.
938
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:23,120
I'm sorry.
939
00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:24,520
Honestly, I'm like...
940
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,640
I'm, like, losing my brain
right now.
941
00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:27,760
Are you serious?
942
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:29,080
(TENSE MUSIC)
943
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:31,720
It's clear that Ryan
has been feeling this big,
944
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,320
and he's had enough.
945
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:34,360
Yeah.
946
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:38,600
I mean, what we're seeing tonight is
Ryan getting to that tipping point.
947
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:44,160
And I think, you know, really,
for Jacqui to have any chance
948
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:45,840
of turning this around,
949
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,040
she would have to understand
how her words are landing,
950
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:51,400
and I don't think
she's really got that.
951
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:52,480
No.
952
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,280
Ryan's owned it but I haven't
heard you own up to one thing.
953
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:58,000
What would you like me to own up to?
Well, something that you've done.
954
00:39:58,040 --> 00:39:59,360
What have I done?
955
00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,400
(MUSIC ABRUPTLY FADES)
956
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,280
(TENSE MUSIC RESUMES)
957
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:06,440
Jacqui, Jacqui,
958
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:09,440
I haven't heard where you've said
you've gone wrong.
959
00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,840
I think I'm too honest, yeah.
960
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:17,760
Too honest. That's a unique.
961
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,480
But Jacqui, but Jacqui,
that's not nice, either,
962
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,280
because you've said
some mean comments.
963
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:23,520
That's saying...
964
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:25,320
That's saying
what you're saying is truthful.
965
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:26,640
What did I say that's mean?
966
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:32,360
In this whole homestay, you
don't think there's any part
967
00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:35,320
that maybe you went a bit too far
or you said the wrong thing
968
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:38,800
or, like, you could have handled
yourself a little bit better?
969
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,200
(TENSE MUSIC RACES)
970
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:45,040
OK, I can own up.
971
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:46,680
(MUSIC FADES)
972
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:50,440
I'm sorry for not walking Freya
the way you wanted me to.
973
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:52,560
Oh, yeah, just go for the petty one.
BETH: Jacqui...
974
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:54,280
Seriously...
JAMIE: Jacqui.
975
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,520
You're a smart girl. You know
that was passive-aggressive.
976
00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,080
ADRIAN: What about...?
It's not!
977
00:40:58,120 --> 00:40:59,760
I've... Oh, my God.
978
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:01,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
979
00:41:01,720 --> 00:41:04,840
Of course, Jacqui denied
she said anything negative.
980
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,120
You know, just absolute garbage.
981
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:08,200
Garbage.
982
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:11,400
You know, like,
when she has to take ownership,
983
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:13,920
she either refuses to
or is incapable of it.
984
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,600
This is the difficulties
I'm having with my relationship.
985
00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:19,960
(JACQUI CHORTLES)
986
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:21,240
No-one here is amused.
987
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:23,120
No-one here is amused by that shit.
988
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:24,840
Come on, Jacqui, don't.
989
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:27,920
And then the group's now
seen that tonight.
990
00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:32,400
I feel vindicated in the way
that I was able to tell my story
991
00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:36,040
start to finish, vocalise that
and get everyone in the awareness
992
00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:37,920
of what's going on
in the relationship.
993
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,000
No-one here is amused, Jacqui.
994
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:48,720
RYAN: Jacqui laughing
995
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:51,560
and, like, trying to get
a little bit of denial in there
996
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:53,360
and just saying, like,
"Oh, that's not what happened,"
997
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:56,120
it's really highlighted to me
why we don't match.
998
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:58,320
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
999
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,160
I'm just sick of it.
I've had a gutful, mate.
1000
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:01,480
I've had an absolute (BLEEP) gutful.
1001
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:03,240
Yeah, you seem really hurt.
1002
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:05,600
I feel like it's been
a long time coming
1003
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:06,960
that you've kept your mouth closed.
1004
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:08,040
Honestly, honestly.
1005
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:09,720
This is actually the first time
in the whole experiment
1006
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:12,000
you've actually said
what you wanted to say.
1007
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,640
Because I'm quite, like,
a positive person,
1008
00:42:15,720 --> 00:42:18,800
not, like, diplomatic, but I do
like to look at the bigger picture
1009
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:21,520
and say, like,
we've processed a lot,
1010
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:22,920
we've had a lot of conflict,
1011
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:24,880
but I just want to see
something beyond it,
1012
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:28,000
and this week has just highlighted
to me that maybe there just isn't.
1013
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,120
(GENTLE PIANO CHORD)
1014
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:35,360
(GENTLE MUSIC)
1015
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:37,320
Adrian and I had
a really great homestay.
1016
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:38,440
That's awesome.
1017
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,440
Adrian said he really loved Perth.
1018
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,040
Yeah, no, it went good.
I had a great time.
1019
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:43,760
I actually really like Perth.
1020
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,440
Awhina and Adrian
have done a good job
1021
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:50,080
sticking out this experiment
with all its up and downs.
1022
00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:53,160
It's nice to see that,
like, it's paid off.
1023
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,680
(LAUGHTER)
1024
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,520
AWHINA: Beth, how was your homestay?
1025
00:43:04,240 --> 00:43:05,440
Um...
1026
00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,840
Honestly, it didn't go the way
that I thought it was going to go.
1027
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:10,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
1028
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:11,840
How come?
1029
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,840
Um, Teejay came home to my house
and spent time with my family,
1030
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:16,800
and then we had a dinner
that night with my family,
1031
00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:19,720
and my best friend came
and they asked us a question,
1032
00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,280
and it was something
along the lines of,
1033
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:24,400
"Do you see this progressing
on the outside?"
1034
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:26,880
And, obviously, I sat there
and I said that I do,
1035
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:30,040
and he kind of paused and then, um,
1036
00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,200
said that it's something that
we're still trying to navigate.
1037
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:37,120
And I'm going to be honest,
1038
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:40,200
that answer was, like,
a little bit shit to hear
1039
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:42,280
because, obviously, I was like,
"It's something I want."
1040
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:45,720
And for him to not really
have, like, a solid answer,
1041
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:48,000
I was a little bit, like,
OK, kind of disappointing.
1042
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:50,880
And then, the day after,
we met his friends,
1043
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:52,760
and they asked a similar question,
1044
00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:54,600
and, again, I sat there
and said that I do,
1045
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:57,160
and he sat there and said
that he doesn't see this
1046
00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:58,600
progressing into a relationship.
1047
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,480
RHI: At all?
I said...
1048
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:04,160
You did say you don't see it
progressing...
1049
00:44:04,240 --> 00:44:05,800
I said there needs to be
factors that improve
1050
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:07,000
for it to be in a relationship.
1051
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:09,280
There was...it was a yes or no
answer and I...yeah.
1052
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,360
Again, it just seemed like
he couldn't really answer it
1053
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:13,440
and, to me,
to not be able to answer that
1054
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:17,120
when we've been here this long
really disappointed me and hurt me.
1055
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:20,880
And, to be quite honest with you,
1056
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:22,680
sat there, I felt really embarrassed
1057
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:24,600
that I was like,
"Yeah, I see this working,"
1058
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:25,840
and he just couldn't answer it.
1059
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:27,680
(TENSE MUSIC)
1060
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:31,080
Oh, Beth, the most
confident person on the planet,
1061
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:33,960
would feel dejected
in that situation.
1062
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:35,200
ALESSANDRA: Of course.
1063
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:38,280
Have you guys slept together
since the first time again?
1064
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:40,240
Yes.
1065
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,160
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1066
00:44:42,240 --> 00:44:45,000
And that's why
I'm just so confused and lost.
1067
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:47,240
We both wrote 'stay'
at the commitment ceremony,
1068
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:49,560
and then Teejay initiated sex
with me again.
1069
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:53,000
And, as we all know,
he can't be intimate with me
1070
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:54,600
unless there's a deeper connection.
1071
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:56,000
So, then that makes me think...
1072
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:00,680
Of course, I'm going to think
Teejay is connecting with me more.
1073
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:02,120
It made me feel good...
JAMIE: Ah...
1074
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:04,200
..'cause that's what he said
he needed the whole time.
1075
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,200
And then, days later,
you're telling me
1076
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,200
that you can't see a future
with me and see it progressing,
1077
00:45:09,240 --> 00:45:11,680
so I'm just so blindsided by it,
1078
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:14,320
and I wish you had enough respect
and care for me
1079
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:16,520
to tell me before homestays
because that was...
1080
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:19,160
No, Teejay, that was really big
for me to see you with my family.
1081
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:20,360
And do you know what?
1082
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:23,640
It hurts that now you're like,
"Nah, I don't see it."
1083
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:26,080
(TENSE MUSIC)
1084
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:27,880
Well, there's a lot
of mixed messages
1085
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,520
that Teejay is sending
to Beth, basically.
1086
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:31,560
Mm.
1087
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:34,160
And the issue here
is that you can see
1088
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:35,960
it plays with Beth's head.
1089
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:37,000
Yes!
1090
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:39,120
She gets inside there,
overanalyses it,
1091
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:40,600
thinks, "Maybe I've got to do more,"
1092
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:46,240
and it's very hard for Beth
not to feel like she's to blame.
1093
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:50,080
Teejay, what on earth
do you have to say to that, then?
1094
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:53,960
Obviously, everyone
wants to hear why...
1095
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:55,240
why did that happen then, T.
1096
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:56,600
BETH: So confused.
TEEJAY: Absolutely.
1097
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:58,520
Because you talked about that
emotional connection for a long time
1098
00:45:58,560 --> 00:45:59,600
and then it's happened.
1099
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:00,960
Yeah.
So...
1100
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:02,720
After you said at the dinner party
1101
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:04,640
that you didn't think
I was physically attracted to you
1102
00:46:04,720 --> 00:46:06,480
because I hadn't been sleeping
with you
1103
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,480
made me think maybe I am
in my own head about it,
1104
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:10,400
and I self-reflected.
1105
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:11,960
I... maybe I was
in my own head about it,
1106
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:14,680
and I thought
I would initiate intimacy
1107
00:46:14,720 --> 00:46:16,520
because that's what you wanted.
1108
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:18,360
(DISQUIETING MUSIC)
1109
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:20,600
The invitation to include sexuality
1110
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:25,320
is not about simply, you know,
her needs, meeting her needs.
1111
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:28,400
It's about him saying
that he wanted to connect,
1112
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:30,040
and that is a way to connect.
1113
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:33,440
From the homestays, I was met
with a lot of yes or no questions.
1114
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:35,680
You know, "Are you going to
break my daughter's heart?"
1115
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:39,160
My friends even questioning,
I guess, where we're at, too.
1116
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:41,000
It kind of made me think,
1117
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:44,040
"Is Beth the right one for me?
Am I the right one for Beth?"
1118
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:46,680
I...I had to say how I was feeling
in the moment.
1119
00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:50,240
So, are you saying that homestays
has changed your opinion of me?
1120
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:52,160
After getting pushed into
a corner asking...
1121
00:46:52,240 --> 00:46:53,680
Pushed into a corner,
are you joking?
1122
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:55,760
Absolutely, it felt like that,
darling.
1123
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:58,040
(TENSE MUSIC)
1124
00:46:59,920 --> 00:47:03,600
I can understand where Beth is
seeing some serious confusion.
1125
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:05,360
Last week with the experts,
1126
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:08,560
Teejay was talking a lot
about souls intertwining
1127
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:10,920
for intimacy to happen.
1128
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:12,720
But then intimacy happened.
1129
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:15,080
But now, when you get asked,
1130
00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:17,640
"Do you want there to be a future
outside of the experiment?"
1131
00:47:17,720 --> 00:47:19,960
And you can't answer that
question straight away,
1132
00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:21,080
like, it just doesn't make sense.
1133
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:23,720
(DISCONCERTING MUSIC)
1134
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:26,520
I don't think he's into Beth
like Beth's into him.
1135
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:29,160
Your dad said to me, "If the
experiment ends tomorrow, yes or no,
1136
00:47:29,240 --> 00:47:30,720
"is my daughter going to
get her heart broken?"
1137
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:32,000
I know, and he used the wrong word.
1138
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:33,760
He probably should have said,
"Is she going to be hurt?"
1139
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:36,240
I understand that, darling,
but I was...
1140
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:37,640
I was diplomatic in the way
that I answered
1141
00:47:37,720 --> 00:47:39,440
Because I don't want to give
a yes or a no.
1142
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:40,600
Why are you snickering?
1143
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:42,040
Because I feel like you're...
1144
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:44,760
I feel like you're blaming
my family's questions.
1145
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:50,240
If you if you liked me enough
or saw a future with me,
1146
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:51,840
questions wouldn't throw you off.
1147
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:53,920
It didn't throw me off.
I answered them.
1148
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:55,520
I didn't want to say yes or no.
1149
00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:58,960
TEEJAY: I'm in a bit of a seesaw
at the moment.
1150
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:00,880
There's parts of me
that wants to try,
1151
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,280
and there's parts of me that says
I haven't felt my emotions grow
1152
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:04,880
in the past fortnight.
1153
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:08,040
So, I don't want to give
a yes or a no
1154
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:10,440
because that ends or closes
the conversation.
1155
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:14,880
We're still trying to work out
whether this is
1156
00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:16,600
a really good friendship
or a relationship,
1157
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:17,680
and I just don't think that it's...
1158
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:19,560
Well, friends don't have sex.
Totally.
1159
00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:21,840
And I feel like
you've really switched.
1160
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:24,640
I'm still here because I like you.
1161
00:48:24,720 --> 00:48:26,600
I'm here for the same reason.
We've built...
1162
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:28,960
We get along so well.
Our banter is amazing.
1163
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:30,720
We've proved that we're honest
we're loyal.
1164
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:34,320
To me, to throw that away
is stupid.
1165
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:36,360
But, babe, you asked me
for a yes or a no.
1166
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:38,440
You said, "So it's a no, then?"
That's what your answer was to me.
1167
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:41,680
All I wanted to know was if you
wanted to continue on the outside.
1168
00:48:41,720 --> 00:48:42,720
That's it.
1169
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:44,760
Babe, I said I can't give you
that answer right now.
1170
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:46,760
See, and that's what hurt
is you can't give me that answer.
1171
00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:48,840
You said, "I want
to give you 100%..."
1172
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:49,960
You should be able to say,
1173
00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:52,440
"Yes, I want to continue on
the outside and get to know you,"
1174
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:54,040
and you couldn't answer it.
1175
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:56,400
You couldn't answer it.
1176
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:57,920
(FRAUGHT MUSIC)
1177
00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:00,760
He's able to be asked
a yes or no question,
1178
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:02,200
"Do you see a future in this?"
1179
00:49:02,240 --> 00:49:03,440
And he can't answer it,
1180
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:05,360
and then he's able to blame that
1181
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:07,440
on the person that's
asked the question.
1182
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:08,880
It is very frustrating.
1183
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:10,440
If you're trying to communicate
1184
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:13,640
and you're not getting clear answers
to a very direct question,
1185
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:15,440
it makes her doubt her position.
1186
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:18,240
So, once again, her insecurities
are playing in,
1187
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:21,680
and you see that hint of desperation
because she does like him.
1188
00:49:21,720 --> 00:49:22,720
Yeah.
1189
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:28,480
Still to come...
1190
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,920
Can Teejay give a straight answer...
1191
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:32,600
Why are you still here?
1192
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:34,880
Well, it's a dinner party
but, like...
1193
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:35,920
Oh, (BLEEP) me.
1194
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:37,120
And later...
1195
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,640
Ryan, I'm not going to sit there
and listen to you do things
1196
00:49:39,720 --> 00:49:42,560
that I see as, like,
below the standard.
1197
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,880
Oh, I've heard enough
about your standards.
1198
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:48,680
Is this the end of the road
for Jacqui and Ryan?
1199
00:49:48,720 --> 00:49:50,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1200
00:49:50,240 --> 00:49:52,240
Why don't you want
to be someone great?
1201
00:49:53,720 --> 00:49:55,360
(MUSIC FADES)
1202
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:01,000
(TENSE MUSIC)
1203
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:02,080
TEEJAY: 100%...
1204
00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:03,200
You should be able to say,
1205
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,600
"Yes, I want to continue
on the outside and get to know you,"
1206
00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:07,200
and you couldn't answer it.
1207
00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:09,640
You couldn't answer it.
1208
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:14,160
Are you willing to keep trying
within this experiment?
1209
00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:17,640
ADRIAN: She needs to know
how you feel, bro, about her.
1210
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:20,120
I can't answer that right now,
I really can't.
1211
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:22,680
See? This is what I (BLEEP) mean,
He can't give an answer.
1212
00:50:22,720 --> 00:50:23,920
Ever.
1213
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:26,600
Look at how you're,
like, addressing me.
1214
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:28,880
You...twice today, you didn't
have your wedding ring on.
1215
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:32,480
Because I was emotional to you
'cause (BLEEP) like you, that's why.
1216
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:33,960
I like you too, darling.
1217
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,560
(TENSE MUSIC)
1218
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:47,200
All I wanted from you
was to know that you liked me
1219
00:50:47,240 --> 00:50:48,360
just a little bit,
1220
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:51,320
enough to actually want to
progress this on the outside.
1221
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:52,760
That is not what you said, darling.
1222
00:50:54,240 --> 00:50:56,200
Take a shot every time
Teejay says "darling".
1223
00:50:56,240 --> 00:50:58,760
(QUIZZICAL MUSIC)
1224
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:00,000
You never asked me
1225
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:02,160
if I wanted to keep trying
in this experiment, darling.
1226
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:05,520
Oh, drink.
1227
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:07,360
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1228
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:08,800
I don't know, I just...
1229
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:10,600
I want to know,
why are you still here
1230
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:13,360
and why did you come to homestays
if you don't see a future with me?
1231
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:15,920
I... I want a perspective
on our relationship, darling.
1232
00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:18,800
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1233
00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:21,040
Darling!
1234
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:23,240
You're blaming questions.
I feel like you're just using...
1235
00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:24,680
Because it's a yes or a no...
..excuses.
1236
00:51:24,720 --> 00:51:26,040
Darling, it's not an excuse.
1237
00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:27,280
Cheers.
1238
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:29,400
(LAUGHTER)
1239
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:32,320
I...if I don't know what to do, then
I don't know what to do, darling.
1240
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:33,520
Way!
1241
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,200
Right now,
do you want to work on it?
1242
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:39,920
And it doesn't matter
what the answer is
1243
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:41,120
'cause I just need to hear it.
1244
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:44,040
I need to know, like,
why are you still here?
1245
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:46,200
Well, it's a dinner party
but, like...
1246
00:51:46,240 --> 00:51:47,400
Oh, (BLEEP) me.
1247
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:48,720
Well, you just...
1248
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:50,440
Whatever, I can't be arsed.
1249
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:52,280
You're being so petty right now,
seriously.
1250
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:53,320
Are you kidding me?
1251
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:54,840
You've never asked
yes or no questions.
1252
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:56,080
See, this is the point.
1253
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:58,240
You don't understand
what I'm (BLEEP) saying.
1254
00:51:58,280 --> 00:51:59,640
You really (BLEEP) don't.
1255
00:51:59,720 --> 00:52:01,360
But, darling, darling,
what I'm saying is
1256
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:02,960
I'm not blaming the questions,
darling.
1257
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:04,080
Darling.
1258
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:06,440
(PLAYFUL MUSIC)
1259
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:09,920
That's, like, 133 darlings too many.
Mm-hm.
1260
00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:12,960
I'm just (BLEEP) in the head
right now.
1261
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:14,240
I'm a bit mind(BLEEP, to be honest.
1262
00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:16,640
I just need him to, like,
just be straight up,
1263
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:18,240
be blunt and tell me how you feel.
1264
00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:22,920
(BLEEP) hell.
1265
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,520
What a shitshow.
1266
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,000
Sorry, boys and girls.
1267
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:30,960
(MELANCHOLIC MUSIC)
1268
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:32,400
Hello.
Hello.
1269
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:34,400
Is anyone sitting here?
No, you.
1270
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:39,240
Erm...
1271
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:41,800
I mean, I guess that was a lot,
wasn't it?
1272
00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:42,920
A little bit.
1273
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:44,120
Yeah.
1274
00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:48,320
I guess I just want to know, like,
obviously, we are nearing the end.
1275
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:50,400
Are you wanting to work on this
on the outside?
1276
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:51,480
And you didn't say yes.
1277
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:54,200
So, to me, that means
you're not really sure.
1278
00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:57,600
But why do I need to give
a yes or a no right now?
1279
00:52:57,680 --> 00:52:58,960
Like I feel claustrophobic
with that.
1280
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:00,600
(TENSE MUSIC)
1281
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:02,800
Well, they are at a crossroads,
aren't they?
1282
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:06,040
Tonight's been really difficult
for Teejay and Beth.
1283
00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:08,880
She's saying quite clearly
1284
00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:10,680
that there is something
still there for her.
1285
00:53:10,720 --> 00:53:11,800
Yeah.
1286
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:14,400
And I think the problem here
is he's not saying,
1287
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:15,800
"Yes, I'm into you."
1288
00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:17,480
Exactly.
Or, "No, I'm not."
1289
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:23,320
So, she still has that little morsel
of hope that it could work out.
1290
00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:28,960
It's OK if you are, but I do
feel like you're very checked out.
1291
00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:32,040
And I get that you don't know
where your head's at,
1292
00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:33,360
and that's so fine.
1293
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:36,840
But, like, I... I'll be honest.
1294
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:38,760
I don't want to leave,
I really don't.
1295
00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:40,120
Then write 'stay'.
1296
00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:42,120
But I don't want to keep you here
if you don't...
1297
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:44,280
You're not going to keep me here
beyond my...
1298
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:45,920
Like, you're not kidnapping me.
1299
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:49,960
I know, but what I'm saying is I
don't want to write 'stay' if you...
1300
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:51,840
I won't be upset
if you write 'stay'.
1301
00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:54,400
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
1302
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:57,760
But I can't write 'stay'
if you want to leave.
1303
00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:00,520
If you don't want to be here,
that's so fine.
1304
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:01,680
I just need to...
1305
00:54:01,720 --> 00:54:02,960
I just need to hear it.
1306
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,400
I just don't want to rush something
right now.
1307
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:09,160
Like, I just need to process
for a bit.
1308
00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:10,480
Sure, of course.
1309
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:11,800
That's not me saying no.
1310
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:13,360
Mm-hm, of course, yeah.
1311
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:17,000
It was good to talk to Teejay
away from the table.
1312
00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:19,280
I mean, it helped me.
1313
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:22,200
Obviously, I told Teejay
I want to stay in this experiment.
1314
00:54:22,240 --> 00:54:24,240
It felt good to get it off my chest.
1315
00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:25,360
All right.
1316
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:32,040
(UNSETTLING MUSIC)
1317
00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:43,320
I mean, it would have been nice
1318
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:45,600
to hear that Teejay
still wanted to stay,
1319
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:47,880
but he said his head's
all over the place.
1320
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:49,920
He's unsure how he feels.
1321
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:52,880
Me too.
1322
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:55,800
And that's so fine.
1323
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:57,400
If that's where he's at,
that's where he's at.
1324
00:54:57,480 --> 00:54:59,840
But...
and he didn't sit there and say,
1325
00:54:59,920 --> 00:55:01,880
"Nah, we're writing leave.
I'm going."
1326
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:03,600
So, that's a positive sign.
1327
00:55:04,240 --> 00:55:07,200
It's up to him, you know?
We will see.
1328
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:13,240
(MUSIC FADES)
1329
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:20,080
(SOFT MUSIC)
1330
00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:25,040
(LAUGHTER)
1331
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:30,520
PAUL: So, your...your homestay,
you two went well, then?
1332
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:31,760
Yeah, it was so good.
1333
00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:34,360
He gave me a house key
which was a bit cute.
1334
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:35,560
No way!
1335
00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:38,160
Oh, that's actually...
that means that means a lot.
1336
00:55:38,240 --> 00:55:40,320
I know.
That's (BLEEP)... all right.
1337
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:42,200
He's like,
"Come over as much as possible."
1338
00:55:42,240 --> 00:55:43,520
I'm like, "Thank you."
1339
00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:44,680
That's awesome.
So...yeah.
1340
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:47,960
I don't think we've ever seen
a homestay
1341
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:50,080
result in the handing over
of the key.
1342
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:51,360
Yeah, that's big-time.
I know.
1343
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:52,800
That's a big deal.
1344
00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:55,320
Did you hear that, by the way?
She got a key from Jeff.
1345
00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:57,280
CARINA: What the hell? No!
Yeah.
1346
00:55:57,360 --> 00:55:59,200
Oh, my God.
I love that.
1347
00:55:59,240 --> 00:56:00,560
Guys, that's really sweet.
1348
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:01,880
(LAUGHTER)
1349
00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:03,480
That's super special.
1350
00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:05,840
Yeah, yeah, it feels like...
Happy for you two.
1351
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:08,400
Made me really excited
for after the experiment.
1352
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:09,680
After the experiment, yeah.
Yeah.
1353
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:11,440
Yeah, it was really nice.
And it just...
1354
00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:14,720
Yeah, it just confirmed that,
like, our relationship will work
1355
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:15,880
outside of the experiment.
1356
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:17,080
No doubt.
It was really nice.
1357
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:18,120
Of course.
Yeah.
1358
00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:19,160
It was the same for us,
1359
00:56:19,240 --> 00:56:21,200
like, the homestay just
made me feel so secured.
1360
00:56:21,240 --> 00:56:22,240
Yeah.
1361
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:24,600
So reassured for, like,
continuing this on the outside.
1362
00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:25,880
Yeah.
1363
00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:27,720
That's really nice.
Incredible.
1364
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:33,760
It's actually quite lovely
to watch, isn't it?
1365
00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:35,760
At this end of the table,
we've got Rhi and Jeff,
1366
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:37,680
we've got Karina and Paul,
1367
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:39,760
all reflecting on how well
things are going.
1368
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:44,000
It's beautiful.
It is.
1369
00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:53,240
(BOISTEROUS LAUGHTER)
1370
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:05,920
Particularly...
1371
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:11,640
I can see that Ryan's hurting,
1372
00:57:11,720 --> 00:57:14,120
whatever it was
that I did to hurt him.
1373
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:23,640
(SOFT MUSIC)
1374
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:26,080
I think, like, I know that
the letter I wrote was quite mean
1375
00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:30,320
and not mean, but it was, like,
a hard truth to hear, probably,
1376
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:33,080
and I feel pretty sad
that I've hurt Ryan.
1377
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:35,400
Um, I didn't realise
he was hurting so much.
1378
00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:41,400
I just wish he could talk to me
and communicate normally,
1379
00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:44,080
and currently it sucks
because I'm getting a stone wall.
1380
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:45,120
Like, I'm...
1381
00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:48,000
I'm trying to get through to him
but he's really just checked out.
1382
00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:51,800
I don't want to lose Ryan.
1383
00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:53,480
I don't want to lose Ryan
as a friend.
1384
00:57:53,560 --> 00:57:56,120
I...like, you know, I'm genuinely
trying to build
1385
00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:58,080
the best relationship I can
with this man.
1386
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:03,520
AWHINA: The only reason
you've got that to lean on
1387
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:06,760
is because Beth has it in her
to instantly put blame on herself.
1388
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:07,960
Teejay, how do you think Beth...?
1389
00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:12,320
What more could she give you
for you to feel like she has...?
1390
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:16,760
Please?
1391
00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:20,200
(DEEP EXHALE)
1392
00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:22,840
(TENSE MUSIC)
1393
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:27,480
TEEJAY: I'm asking
what more I can do.
1394
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:29,560
You're saying there's more I can do
and you don't...
1395
00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:32,080
BETH: I tried to communicate...
1396
00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:33,400
JACQUI: I feel like I'm losing Ryan.
1397
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,840
I feel like he's really
throwing in the towel.
1398
00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:39,520
So, it makes me sad that, like,
1399
00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:42,160
this has potentially caused
the end of our relationship
1400
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:43,880
is a silly fight with his friends.
1401
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:49,480
You mentioned the tipping point
earlier,
1402
00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:50,600
and I think you're right.
1403
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:54,800
He's flipped over the hill
and he's now very detached.
1404
00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:57,160
And I think she's just
cottoned on to it.
1405
00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:58,360
Yeah.
1406
00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:02,640
And, interestingly,
now Jacqui starts to soften.
1407
00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:04,760
Well, she realises he's serious.
1408
00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:08,040
She's desperately trying to
hang on to the relationship.
1409
00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:10,120
She realises it's slipping
through her fingers.
1410
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:13,840
(TENSE MUSIC FADES)
1411
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:17,480
OK, can I ask three questions?
1412
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:20,360
Are you sorry
for what Adam and Carla did?
1413
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:23,360
Are you sorry for not standing up
for me in the moment?
1414
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:24,480
No.
1415
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:27,280
(UNSETTLING MUSIC)
1416
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:31,520
Do you understand why their
behaviour was wrong, like, the tone?
1417
00:59:31,600 --> 00:59:34,120
Those are my best mates
and they mean more to me than you.
1418
00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:36,640
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1419
00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:39,960
Ryan, I found that really traumatic.
1420
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:44,400
That was a really bad experience
for me and I'm still not over it.
1421
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:49,440
I came into tonight just wanting to,
like, ask for an apology from you
1422
00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:51,960
and to get you to say
that you'll make it up to me
1423
00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:53,320
for not standing up for me
1424
00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:55,400
because it really cut me deep,
that experience.
1425
00:59:56,680 --> 00:59:59,560
Jacqui, you said horrible things
about me.
1426
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:02,880
It doesn't... regardless of
what I said, you don't do that.
1427
01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:07,400
Ryan, I'm doing this for
the better of both of us.
1428
01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:10,640
No...no woman
deserves to be yelled at, Ryan.
1429
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:12,800
Jacqui...
I'm doing you a favour.
1430
01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:13,840
I'm doing...
1431
01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:15,440
How the (BLEEP)
are you doing me a favour?
1432
01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:18,280
Because it's....it's like giving you
the opportunity to work on it.
1433
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:20,200
That's it, I don't like
the way you speak to me
1434
01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:21,720
when you say that kind of stuff,
as well.
1435
01:00:21,800 --> 01:00:24,280
"This is a coachable moment. This is
an opportunity to work on it."
1436
01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:26,640
Ryan, I'm not going to sit there
and listen to you do things
1437
01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:30,320
that I see as, like,
just below the standard.
1438
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:32,640
Oh, I've heard enough
about your standards.
1439
01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:34,600
I'm allowed high standards.
1440
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:36,280
I've heard enough.
1441
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:38,680
Why don't you want to be
someone great?
1442
01:00:40,440 --> 01:00:41,680
Wow.
1443
01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:43,040
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1444
01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:44,440
Ooh.
Oh!
1445
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:46,880
(SHOCKED GASP)
Wow.
1446
01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:49,920
(MUSIC BUILDS)
1447
01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:51,560
(DRAMATIC BOOM)
1448
01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:56,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
1449
01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:01,160
Why don't you want to be
someone great?
1450
01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:04,000
Wow.
1451
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:07,080
Ooh.
Oh!
1452
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:09,240
(SHOCKED GASP)
Wow.
1453
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:14,400
Why don't I want to be
someone great?
1454
01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:17,200
You see how that's insulting,
right, don't you?
1455
01:01:18,200 --> 01:01:19,280
Why do you want...?
1456
01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:21,400
Why don't you want to be someone
1457
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:24,800
who's on a level where
they're approachable and want...?
1458
01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:26,200
I do want to be on a level.
1459
01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:27,680
I really do.
'Cause you're (BLEEP) not.
1460
01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:30,280
(DISCONCERTING MUSIC)
1461
01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:35,080
You are judgemental
or you're hypercritical
1462
01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:37,200
or you're hypersensitive.
1463
01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:39,760
I'm not happy being here with you.
1464
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:46,680
I'm telling you
what I needed from you tonight.
1465
01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:48,560
I need to know
what you want from me.
1466
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:50,480
I want something you can't give me.
1467
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:51,720
Which is?
1468
01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:53,040
Acceptance.
1469
01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:54,720
I do accept you.
No, you don't.
1470
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:55,880
I think you're confused.
1471
01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:57,960
You do not accept me because
you're always making lists.
1472
01:01:58,000 --> 01:01:59,080
Ryan, I'm accepting you.
1473
01:02:00,240 --> 01:02:02,440
OK, yeah, maybe I've changed
your dress a little bit,
1474
01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:04,520
but, like, you look good.
1475
01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:05,800
(JACQUI GIGGLES)
1476
01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:07,560
(TENSE MUSIC)
1477
01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:09,440
Jacqui, I need to say something
to you, right?
1478
01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:10,600
Yeah.
1479
01:02:11,400 --> 01:02:12,760
And it's OK.
1480
01:02:12,800 --> 01:02:14,040
And it's OK.
1481
01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:20,200
You don't like me for who I am,
and that is fine.
1482
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:23,520
I love myself.
I'm confident in myself.
1483
01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:26,200
I have an amazing life, right,
1484
01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:29,920
and your influence on it
at the moment is destructive
1485
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:32,840
because you're trying to change it.
1486
01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:34,680
That's not what a relationship is.
1487
01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:37,200
But you came here to learn.
1488
01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:38,800
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1489
01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:39,960
I'm exhausted.
1490
01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:41,640
I'm exhausted
trying to get through to her,
1491
01:02:41,680 --> 01:02:42,720
trying to get through to her.
1492
01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:44,280
I'm exactly what you asked for.
No.
1493
01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:46,640
Someone independent,
ambitious, goal-oriented...
1494
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:48,120
And she's not hearing it.
1495
01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:49,800
I am, like, basically, your Eve.
1496
01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:51,400
You're the Adam. I'm the Eve.
1497
01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:53,240
I was brought here to you.
1498
01:02:57,560 --> 01:02:59,120
(JACQUI CHUCKLES)
1499
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:03,400
(DEEP EXHALE)
1500
01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:08,320
Jacqui's really trying her best
to, like, rebuild us.
1501
01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:14,880
Is there anything
worth salvaging here?
1502
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:17,080
(TENSE MUSIC)
1503
01:03:17,160 --> 01:03:21,600
Is there anything here that
you want to spend more time with?
1504
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:24,160
Jesus wept, Jacqui.
1505
01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:27,560
I'm like, "Are you serious?
Is this what you really want?"
1506
01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:31,600
Do you really want to
go through more of this?
1507
01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:33,920
Because I don't. I really don't.
1508
01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:39,600
You don't want to spend
any more time on this?
1509
01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:43,600
(MELANCHOLIC MUSIC, DEEP EXHALE)
1510
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:50,200
I can't salvage it.
1511
01:03:52,960 --> 01:03:54,480
Wow.
1512
01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:57,120
I think she's starting
to have this realisation that,
1513
01:03:57,160 --> 01:03:58,520
"I've pushed him too far."
1514
01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:00,000
It's a little panic.
Yeah.
1515
01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:01,440
From her.
1516
01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:02,760
Jacqui, can I ask you,
1517
01:04:02,840 --> 01:04:04,880
this is something I need to know
about you as a person.
1518
01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:05,960
Yeah.
1519
01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:08,040
When you're looking at
your potential partner,
1520
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:10,760
when you're looking at your
boyfriend, looking at your husband,
1521
01:04:10,800 --> 01:04:12,960
do you always have to make a list?
1522
01:04:14,440 --> 01:04:19,040
Wouldn't you rather find someone
that meets your high standards?
1523
01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:22,800
There's no-one out there
that meets my standards.
1524
01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:23,960
(SIGHS)
1525
01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:25,800
Well...
1526
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:28,520
You need to ease the (BLEEP) up
1527
01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:31,560
because us criticising each other
1528
01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:34,040
and feeling like we need
to have things in our head
1529
01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:36,360
to say to each other
when we next see each other
1530
01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:39,720
just to prove a point,
it's such a hostile environment.
1531
01:04:41,640 --> 01:04:43,880
I'm not doing that.
It's just you.
1532
01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:47,320
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1533
01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:49,800
And that's what upsets me
1534
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:52,160
is, like, you say these things
and it's just not true.
1535
01:04:52,200 --> 01:04:53,480
I do validate your feelings.
1536
01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:54,720
I am accepting you.
1537
01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:56,280
I don't think I'm better than you.
1538
01:04:56,320 --> 01:04:58,440
And, like, I'm trying so hard.
1539
01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:00,400
(CHUCKLES)
1540
01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:02,280
I can't...
I can't do this, Jacqui.
1541
01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:05,040
(TENSE MUSIC)
1542
01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:07,040
I'm exhausted mentally.
1543
01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:10,000
I'm sorry you're exhausted.
1544
01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:12,600
I, like, honestly,
I thought I was done
1545
01:05:12,640 --> 01:05:14,480
coming into tonight but, like...
1546
01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:19,200
It was because I just thought Ryan
was completely in the wrong.
1547
01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:21,840
And now, after spending time
with him and hearing that, actually,
1548
01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:23,280
he's hurting because of me,
1549
01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:25,680
it made me want to, like,
keep working on the relationship.
1550
01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:28,480
I'm sorry that little letter
is still hurting you.
1551
01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:30,760
(MELANCHOLIC MUSIC)
1552
01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:33,760
I didn't mean to hurt you.
1553
01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:37,760
I think it just hurts
because, like,
1554
01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:42,040
I feel like I drove him away
from trying so hard,
1555
01:05:42,120 --> 01:05:45,240
and I feel like the effort
I put into the relationship
1556
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:47,840
and me being honest
is what drove him away.
1557
01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:49,840
I'm sorry,
1558
01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:52,440
and I'm sorry for telling you
how your house should be run.
1559
01:05:52,480 --> 01:05:53,640
I am.
1560
01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:56,520
I'm sorry I have hurt you.
1561
01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:58,600
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1562
01:05:58,640 --> 01:06:01,480
I can't believe I'm losing Ryan.
1563
01:06:01,520 --> 01:06:03,480
(DRAMATIC BOOM)
1564
01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:09,600
(SOFT, DISQUIETING MUSIC)
1565
01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:15,760
I don't lose people.
1566
01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:17,640
People lose me.
1567
01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:20,600
(ETHEREAL MUSIC)
1568
01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:22,840
NARATOR: Sunday night...
1569
01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:28,120
It's the final commitment ceremony
of the experiment.
1570
01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:32,760
JOHN: The very last opportunity
to get feedback from the experts
1571
01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:35,920
to make an accurate decision
going into final vows.
1572
01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:38,600
No more beating around the bush.
1573
01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:41,440
The experts apply the pressure.
1574
01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:45,360
Is it just really as simple as
you're just not that into her?
1575
01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:48,200
Tough questions...
1576
01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:51,360
Do you think Awhina
could be that right person for you?
1577
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:53,080
Um...
1578
01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:55,720
..leads to unexpected bombshells.
1579
01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:58,440
At the moment,
I don't think I'm in love with Dave.
1580
01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:01,000
And then...
1581
01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:04,480
We're having a conversation
about how you have made Ryan feel.
1582
01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:07,600
The experts hold Jacqui
to account...
1583
01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:08,720
As a person.
1584
01:07:10,280 --> 01:07:11,600
Jacqui, Jacqui...
I'm not sure what's funny.
1585
01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:14,600
..and they are not
in a laughing mood.
1586
01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:18,600
Why are you laughing about something
that is so important to him?
1587
01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:19,880
Just sit with that.
1588
01:07:19,920 --> 01:07:21,160
Now back to you, Ryan.
1589
01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:23,920
Will Jacqui and Ryan
quit the experiment
1590
01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:26,440
just days before the final vows?
1591
01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:27,760
Um...
1592
01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:29,160
(SHOCKED GASPS)
WOMAN: What?
1593
01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:30,200
Oh, my God...
1594
01:07:30,240 --> 01:07:32,840
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1595
01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:35,880
(MUSIC FADES)
1596
01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:39,880
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