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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:03,120 NARRATOR: Previously... JEFF: Here's a key to my apartment. 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:05,480 Oh, that's so cute. Thank you. 3 00:00:05,560 --> 00:00:08,200 Homestays saw significant breakthroughs... 4 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:11,000 DAVE: The hardest decision is to fight and that's what we want to do 5 00:00:11,040 --> 00:00:12,200 and I want to move forward. 6 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:14,880 ..as our couples began planning their futures 7 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:16,600 outside of the experiment. 8 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:23,840 If it all ended abruptly tomorrow, 9 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:25,720 is my daughter going to get her heart broken? 10 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:27,000 Um... 11 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:30,520 But Teejay left Beth feeling devastated. 12 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:32,640 There's obviously something that's lacking between us 13 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:35,320 for me to say, yes, I want to have a relationship with this person. 14 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:37,040 BETH: That was really hard to hear. 15 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:41,320 Your brain is so small. 16 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:43,480 My brain is small? Yeah. 17 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:47,560 And when Jacqui and Ryan sampled married life in the real world... 18 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:49,360 I didn't bring you here to listen to your bullshit. 19 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:52,560 Jacqui is the most difficult person I have ever tried to date 20 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:53,720 in my life. 21 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:55,880 ..tensions hit boiling point. 22 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:57,840 Your behaviour, it's not OK! 23 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,040 You're trying to talk over me and trying to shut me up. 24 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:01,800 I'm going to tell you exactly how I feel. 25 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:03,960 I think he's been absolutely gypped of this experiment 26 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:05,120 by being put with you. 27 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:07,440 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 28 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:08,640 Tonight... 29 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:10,760 (THUNDER CRASHES) 30 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:14,720 MEL: It's a storm outside, and there's about to be a storm inside. 31 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:19,880 It's the second-last dinner party of the experiment... 32 00:01:19,960 --> 00:01:22,440 Teejay, what on earth do you have to say to that, then? 33 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:26,440 ..and Teejay is at the centre of the storm. 34 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:27,960 I feel like you've really switched. 35 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:29,240 I can't answer that right now. 36 00:01:29,320 --> 00:01:32,680 Has he been entirely honest with Beth? 37 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:34,600 You should be able to say, 38 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:36,640 "Yes, I want to continue on the outside and get to know you," 39 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:38,040 and you couldn't answer it. 40 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,160 RHI: He gave me a house key, which was a bit cute. 41 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:42,320 That's awesome. 42 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:44,880 Some will celebrate their deeper bonds. 43 00:01:44,960 --> 00:01:46,600 It's actually quite lovely to watch, isn't it? 44 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,560 All reflecting on how well things are going. 45 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:50,800 It's beautiful. 46 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:52,720 But for Ryan... 47 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:54,560 I'm sick of it, Jacqui. I'm just sick of it. 48 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:55,800 I've had a gutful, mate. 49 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:57,240 Wow. OK. Wow. 50 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,600 ..he's reached his breaking point... 51 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:00,840 This is my house. 52 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:02,480 No, that's not what happened. I got yelled at. 53 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:03,600 Oh, my God. 54 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,040 I'm not going to sugarcoat things. 55 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:06,560 I'm not going to tolerate it anymore. 56 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:08,880 ..as he declares he wants out. 57 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:10,920 I can't... I can't do this, Jacqui. 58 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:13,440 Why don't you want to be someone great? 59 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:16,080 Ooh! Oh! 60 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:19,440 But Jacqui's not taking no for an answer. 61 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:21,200 I don't lose people. 62 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:22,960 People lose me. 63 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:24,080 (DRAMATIC MUSICAL BOOM) 64 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:25,800 (TENSE MUSIC FADES) 65 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,920 (UPLIFTING MUSIC) 66 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:35,960 After travelling far and wide across the country for homestays, 67 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,000 all our couples are back in Sydney 68 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:42,760 ahead of the seventh dinner party of the experiment. 69 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:44,640 CARINA: Today's dinner party. 70 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:46,880 PAUL: You look so good, babe. You look good as well. 71 00:02:46,920 --> 00:02:49,360 You look so suave. 72 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:53,960 Having returned from their homestay in Melbourne, 73 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:57,840 Rhi and Jeff are going into tonight's dinner party 74 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:00,320 with high hopes for the future. 75 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:02,360 Mine and Jeff's homestay went really well. 76 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:04,400 It was actually better than I expected. 77 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:07,640 Going into homestays, I was worried that the experiment 78 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:11,720 was the glue keeping us together, considering we did date before 79 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:16,360 and obviously it didn't work out, but homestays really did, I guess, 80 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,160 clear up those worries for me 81 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:21,600 because I feel like we were just instantly extremely comfortable 82 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:24,440 and it just felt natural, which was great. 83 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:28,480 During their homestay, Jeff felt so at home with Rhi 84 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:31,960 that he decided to take a significant step forward 85 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:33,720 in their relationship. 86 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:35,320 Here is a key to my apartment. 87 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:37,560 Oh, that's so cute. Thank you. 88 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:39,720 So, yeah, come over whenever. I will. 89 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:41,400 As much as possible. I definitely will. 90 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:44,160 Jeff giving me a key on the last day of homestays, 91 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:47,760 it just made me realise how serious this relationship really is. 92 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:49,120 You look great. Thank you. 93 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:50,480 Good, good. So do you. 94 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:54,320 It just made me extremely excited to actually start our lives 95 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:55,800 outside of the experiment. 96 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:56,960 Thank you. 97 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:58,280 I'll be a minute. All right. 98 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:00,640 Me and Rhi, like, we've been so good, 99 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:02,320 and homestays was a great week. 100 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:05,320 How weird does it feel being back in the apartment again? 101 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:06,440 I reckon it feels good being here. 102 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:07,800 Yeah. It feels like home. 103 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:09,040 Yeah, it does. 104 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:11,920 Homestays just confirmed that this relationship is real, 105 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:13,640 and it feels great to be in it. 106 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:14,920 Everyone will ask us how our homestays are. 107 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:16,240 We're like, "Yeah, it was good." Yeah. 108 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:17,880 Like, "Oh, move on." I've been there. 109 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:19,880 Yeah. You've been there, yeah. 110 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:22,680 Um, yeah. No, it was awesome. I had a great week. 111 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,200 Every day, every week, my feelings grow stronger 112 00:04:25,280 --> 00:04:27,360 and I'm excited about the next few weeks, 113 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,560 but I'm excited about life past the experiment. 114 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:30,760 All right, let's do it. 115 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:37,760 Rhi and Jeff aren't the only couple returning to Sydney on a high. 116 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:38,920 I'm feeling good. 117 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:40,680 I'm looking forward to the dinner party. 118 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:42,240 Coming back from homestays, 119 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:44,040 I think we're in a good place, if not a better place, 120 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:45,640 than we were before we left. 121 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:48,720 I enjoyed seeing what Awhina's life is like, 122 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:51,200 and me and Awhina obviously have some hurdles, 123 00:04:51,280 --> 00:04:52,760 considering the states that we live in, 124 00:04:52,840 --> 00:04:55,200 but we're in a good place in our relationship. 125 00:04:55,280 --> 00:04:57,800 I'm excited to see where life takes us. 126 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:01,080 You look nice, by the way. So do you. 127 00:05:01,160 --> 00:05:03,480 I like you in pink. I like you in pink. 128 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:04,640 We're matchy-matchy. 129 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,520 Yeah, I can't wait to tell everyone about our homestay 130 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:09,120 and how terrible you were. 131 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:11,960 (JOVIAL MUSIC, AWHINA GIGGLES) 132 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:14,000 How much your mum loved me. 133 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:15,320 (BOTH LAUGH) 134 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,680 Adrian and I are in a really good place right now. 135 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:20,520 We had a really great homestay, and I'm looking forward to 136 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:23,120 going into the dinner party because we're going in together. 137 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:24,960 And Adrian said he likes Perth, 138 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:28,360 and it's made me feel more confident about our relationship. 139 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:31,360 Your mum was cute. My mum is cute. 140 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:32,840 (AWHINA LAUGHS) 141 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:35,600 JAMIE: Oh, my God! 142 00:05:36,280 --> 00:05:37,600 DAVE: Yeah, it's for you. 143 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:39,320 Having gone into homestays 144 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:42,440 on a mission to win back his wife's heart... 145 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:47,400 ..Dave has been pulling out all the stops. 146 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:48,800 Have a look. 147 00:05:48,840 --> 00:05:50,720 Babe, this is, like, 400 bucks. 148 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:52,000 Is that your favourite one? 149 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:54,840 It is, but why don't you spend that much money? 150 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:58,240 I feel like I'm constantly eating my words about my relationship 151 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:00,520 because, as soon as I'm like, "Oh, there's no saving us," 152 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:02,040 then apparently there is saving us. 153 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:03,600 'Cause I care about you. 154 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:07,200 The last two weeks really tested us. 155 00:06:07,280 --> 00:06:11,440 But then, I think, like, just as we were, like, giving up, 156 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:14,320 kind of realised we don't want to not be in each other's lives, 157 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:16,120 and we don't want to lose each other. 158 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:19,400 For Dave, homestays was an opportunity 159 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:23,480 to reaffirm his commitment to fighting for Jamie. 160 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:26,680 I've seen you on the couch last week and I've seen how hurt you were. 161 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:31,080 That's not how I want this to go. 162 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:33,080 I don't want to hurt you at all. 163 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:34,560 I'm gonna have to put the effort in. 164 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:38,720 I want to work on expressing the emotional, romantic side. 165 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:40,720 You're worth doing that for. 166 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:47,840 And Dave also took the step of introducing Jamie 167 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:51,520 to the most important person in his life, his father. 168 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:54,560 It was super important for her to meet you for me. 169 00:06:54,640 --> 00:06:58,360 I was rapt to finally meet Jamie and she's wonderful. 170 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:01,080 He's very happy. You can tell. 171 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:03,680 You sexy minx. 172 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:08,440 I still can't get over this perfume. 173 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:10,200 (GENTLE MUSIC) 174 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:11,280 Like... Do you like it? 175 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:13,640 I just...it's like what rich people smell like. 176 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:14,720 Yeah. 177 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:16,840 I still... Your favourite perfume. 178 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:19,880 I think Jamie and I are in a really good place at the moment. 179 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:22,640 Homestays, for me, put things into perspective. 180 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:25,760 I realised that I want to make this work and I want to see this out. 181 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:26,960 Delish. (JAMIE GASPS) 182 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:30,600 Everyone's going to want to, like, have a bite of me tonight, I think. 183 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:33,960 Showing up romantically is a huge...huge thing for Jamie, 184 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:37,720 so I'm just trying to step up and be...be a good partner. 185 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:43,120 And I feel like she's totally worth the effort. 186 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:44,840 And with pink nails. Such a girly girl. 187 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:47,760 I know, I'm... First time I've had pink in so long. 188 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:49,480 I like it. Yeah. 189 00:07:49,560 --> 00:07:52,200 We're mixing it up because now we're back in Lavagirl era. 190 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:58,040 (MYSTIFYING MUSIC) 191 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:01,840 But unlike Jamie and Dave, homestays has only brought 192 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:05,760 more confusion to Beth and Teejay's relationship. 193 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:10,320 At last week's commitment ceremony, the lack of intimacy 194 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:13,600 in Beth and Teejay's marriage was in the spotlight. 195 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:15,480 Why would you say, Teejay, 196 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:18,120 that sexual intimacy and, like, physical intimacy 197 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:19,480 hasn't progressed for you two? 198 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:22,160 I genuinely believe it's an emotional connection thing, 199 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:24,600 and I really want to feel like our souls are intertwining... 200 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:27,960 ..before moving back into the intimate side of things. 201 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:32,360 Then, as they arrived in Brisbane for homestays... 202 00:08:32,400 --> 00:08:33,920 Look at this! 203 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:35,320 Little room. 204 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:38,840 ..Beth shared an update in their relationship. 205 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:41,960 We went on a date and then that night we were intimate again, 206 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:43,160 which was awesome. 207 00:08:43,240 --> 00:08:45,320 You put your stuff away first and then I'll see what's left. 208 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:46,360 He initiated it. 209 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,120 He said this whole time he needs more of a connection 210 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:49,200 to sleep with me, 211 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:52,360 so I hope that means that he does have a emotional connection to me 212 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:54,160 because otherwise, I guess, it wouldn't make sense 213 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:55,560 for him to initiate that. 214 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:58,160 But a conversation with Teejay's friends 215 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:01,280 caused Beth to doubt their connection. 216 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,800 I think what we're trying to work out at the moment 217 00:09:03,880 --> 00:09:07,320 is that is our connection going to flourish into a relationship? 218 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:08,600 Right. Right. 219 00:09:08,680 --> 00:09:10,760 So, there's obviously something that's lacking between us 220 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:13,760 for me to say, "Yes, I want to have a relationship with this person." 221 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:15,720 And alone with his friends... 222 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:17,200 I'll be back soon. OK. 223 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:20,360 ..Teejay revealed his true feelings. 224 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:22,080 So, as it stands, how do you feel? 225 00:09:22,120 --> 00:09:23,840 (TENSE MUSIC) 226 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:27,440 If you were to tell me I have to decide yes or no right now... 227 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:28,680 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 228 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:31,720 ..then it has to be a no because I'm not completely comfortable here. 229 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:34,440 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 230 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:36,280 BETH: I have no idea where I stand with Teejay. 231 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,880 The things that have happened recently in our relationship, 232 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:43,040 we've had some great moments, we've had some great conversations. 233 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,120 We've obviously slept with each other again. 234 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:48,600 So, in my mind, I thought everything was going really well, 235 00:09:48,680 --> 00:09:51,560 and then we get to homestays and it's a completely different story. 236 00:09:52,760 --> 00:09:56,680 He's clearly been feeling unsure about me before we went to homestays 237 00:09:56,720 --> 00:09:58,640 so why didn't he tell me? 238 00:09:59,960 --> 00:10:02,920 I would not have done homestays if I knew he wasn't feeling me. 239 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:04,200 I just wouldn't of. 240 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:07,880 I would love for Teejay to kind of make that commitment 241 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:10,320 that we're willing to work on it because I think he's great. 242 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:12,560 I'm not saying that I need him to get down on one knee 243 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:14,320 and propose to me on the outside. 244 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:19,440 All I'm asking is if he's open to just work on it a little bit more. 245 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:21,280 But I guess, from the conversation from homestays, 246 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:22,840 he just feels very closed off. 247 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:29,480 Hi. Hey. 248 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:32,280 You look good. You look good. 249 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:34,200 You look good. How are you feeling? Yeah, I'm all right. 250 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:36,200 (DISCONCERTING MUSIC) 251 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:39,760 Homestays were a little bit much. 252 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:43,080 But, I mean, if that's where we are, that's where we are, 253 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:44,240 you know what I mean? 254 00:10:44,320 --> 00:10:46,880 So, it's not like we hate each other or anything like that. 255 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:48,400 Yeah. 256 00:10:48,440 --> 00:10:49,800 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 257 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:51,960 I'm comfortable with walking in however you want. 258 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:54,080 Like, if you wanted to walk in by yourself, I understand. 259 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:55,560 But, if you want to walk in together, 260 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:56,720 like, I understand, too, as well. 261 00:10:56,800 --> 00:10:59,080 So, I just want to know what you're...you're thinking there. 262 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:00,600 Erm... 263 00:11:00,680 --> 00:11:03,880 I mean, it's hard because, obviously, the last conversation, 264 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:06,480 I think we are... we are on different pages. 265 00:11:06,560 --> 00:11:07,720 Do you know what I mean? Mm. 266 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:12,280 So, I feel like, for us to walk in together, it's confusing. 267 00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:13,400 Mm. 268 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:16,360 Um, yeah. 269 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:20,000 You're not wearing your wedding ring so that makes sense. 270 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:21,800 Yeah. Yeah. 271 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:24,680 Yeah. 272 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:26,920 (DOWNHEARTED MUSIC) 273 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:28,920 It's pretty confronting going into dinner parties, 274 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:30,840 I guess, when you're not in a good position, 275 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:32,760 so, yeah, I don't know. 276 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:34,240 I don't know. 277 00:11:35,760 --> 00:11:38,520 More so, I obviously don't want people to come at you, either, 278 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:41,720 so, you know, it's still a nerve-racking situation. 279 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:43,360 Maybe we should walk in together then. 280 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:44,400 OK. 281 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:46,800 So it's more comfortable, and then we can just get in there 282 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:49,240 and have the conversations and that's it. 283 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:50,280 That's fine with me. 284 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:52,760 So, I'm happy with that. 285 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:53,960 OK. 286 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:58,880 While Beth and Teejay put on a united front, 287 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:03,320 Jacqui is getting ready alone for the first time ever 288 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:08,440 after a heated argument with Ryan's friends during homestays. 289 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:10,320 So you're just, like, throwing dirt on me, 290 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:12,280 but you're not even listening to anything I'm saying. 291 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:13,960 How does it feel, Jacqui? If you want to communicate... 292 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:15,400 All you've done is throw dirt on him. 293 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:17,880 Two sets of paperwork saying... OK, calm down. 294 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:20,200 No! You've been rude to him the whole time. 295 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:21,280 He's been ripped of this experiment. 296 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:23,520 Jacqui, we sat there and watched your behaviour last time. 297 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:25,800 You were so rude. He's been ripped of this experiment. 298 00:12:27,560 --> 00:12:30,240 JACQUI: I'm feeling fine about the dinner party. 299 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:32,400 I've done nothing wrong. 300 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:34,440 Absolutely, absolutely nothing wrong. 301 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:36,080 It's clear as daylight. 302 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:39,600 At Ryan's place, when his friends came for me, 303 00:12:39,680 --> 00:12:45,160 that felt like a really unjustified, malicious attack on my heart. 304 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:47,960 And he just sat there. 305 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:50,360 Just disgusting behaviour. 306 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:52,040 (TENSE MUSIC) 307 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,680 Like, I've obviously had real concerns 308 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:56,160 about Ryan and his behaviour, 309 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:58,600 but I've been trying to give him the benefit of the doubt 310 00:12:58,680 --> 00:13:01,720 and try to see the good in him and try and look for the good. 311 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:05,080 Now I realise that supporting him as my husband 312 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:06,600 is a detriment to the world. 313 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:08,040 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 314 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:10,680 I feel fine about seeing Ryan at the dinner party. 315 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:13,760 I'll just give him the opportunity to explain what happened 316 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:15,440 and apologise. 317 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:19,240 He's not going to get away with not giving me an apology. 318 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:22,360 Jacqui might be looking for an apology, 319 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:26,600 but Ryan is looking for a quick exit. 320 00:13:26,680 --> 00:13:28,920 Tonight is going to be pretty definitive 321 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:31,320 in terms of Jacqui and I's relationship. 322 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:35,200 I haven't seen Jacqui at all since she left my place, 323 00:13:35,280 --> 00:13:38,800 and kinda chucked a little tantrum and walked out. 324 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:41,680 Now, I'm not saying that I condone the raised voices, 325 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:44,640 but, at the same time, my friends are protective of me. 326 00:13:44,680 --> 00:13:45,840 They love me. 327 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:48,400 They've heard the terrible things that she's said and done. 328 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:52,200 I love having a bit of stubble at the very least. 329 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:54,560 Why do you not care if your wife finds you attractive? 330 00:13:55,840 --> 00:14:00,120 Jacqui is the most difficult person I've ever tried to date in my life. 331 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:02,120 It's something as simple as a beard. 332 00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:04,400 ..about anything because your brain is so small. 333 00:14:04,480 --> 00:14:06,760 I didn't come to your home to argue with you. 334 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:08,080 (FROSTY MUSIC) 335 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:10,560 I didn't bring you here to listen to your bullshit either. 336 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:13,160 "Move office back into office". 337 00:14:13,200 --> 00:14:14,480 (JACQUI GIGGLES) 338 00:14:14,560 --> 00:14:16,960 See, she's happy. Look, her tail's wagging now. 339 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:18,840 Jacqui, this is my dog, all right? 340 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:20,800 I know what she tries to get away with, all right? 341 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:24,080 So, if you could just respect that, that'd be great. 342 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:27,720 I feel this whole week has just really highlighted to me 343 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:29,480 just how incompatible we are. 344 00:14:29,560 --> 00:14:31,280 We make progress and then we burn down. 345 00:14:31,360 --> 00:14:33,560 Like, we launch the rocket and then we fall back to earth. 346 00:14:33,640 --> 00:14:36,280 And I can't do the yo-yo anymore. It's... 347 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:38,400 It's not what I want for my life. 348 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:41,480 It all accumulates into me feeling like, "What am I doing here?" 349 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:43,960 Like, this person is not healthy to be around 350 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:45,440 because she's so full of criticism. 351 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:48,920 Tonight, I'm not going to sugarcoat things. 352 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:50,720 I'm going to let my voice be heard, 353 00:14:50,800 --> 00:14:52,960 and shed light on what I've been dealing with. 354 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:55,640 I want to make sure that my side is heard. 355 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:01,520 Nothing can make this right between us. 356 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:03,400 (DRAMATIC MUSIC FADES) 357 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:08,720 (DISQUIETING MUSIC) 358 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:13,280 (RAIN PATTERS) 359 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:15,480 (MUSIC INTENSIFIES) 360 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:20,880 (MUSIC FADES) 361 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:23,400 It's a nice day for a dinner party. Isn't it? 362 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:26,240 It's nice to be excited for this dinner party. 363 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:27,480 Yeah. 364 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:29,920 I actually can't wait to go in there and give you the biggest cuddle. 365 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:34,400 JOHN: Well, we are just about there. 366 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:38,440 This is the second-last dinner party for the entire experiment. 367 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:42,240 And this week they've had homestays, 368 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:46,600 which is the perfect opportunity to really try on your partner for size 369 00:15:46,680 --> 00:15:50,440 in the real world and get more of that critical feedback 370 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:51,880 from family and loved ones. 371 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:52,960 Yeah. 372 00:15:53,760 --> 00:15:56,600 And, of course, coming, then, into the dinner party 373 00:15:56,680 --> 00:15:59,600 where they're going to be feeling the effects of that homestay. 374 00:15:59,680 --> 00:16:03,120 Are they feeling that they can bask in, like, the gloriousness 375 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:04,280 of how good it was? 376 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:06,680 Or are there real cracks that have now been shown 377 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:09,280 and they're really standing on shaky ground? 378 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:11,560 (RAIN PATTERS) 379 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:15,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 380 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:23,320 JOHN: No, this is undoubtedly a very important dinner party 381 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:24,680 for all our couples. 382 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:29,880 (UNSETTLING MUSIC) 383 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:33,720 (MUSIC FADES) 384 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:36,840 All right. First ones in. 385 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:39,080 Awhina and Adrian are here. Yeah. 386 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:40,680 I don't think we've ever been first. 387 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:42,160 I know. I kind of like it. 388 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:43,280 (PEACEFUL MUSIC) 389 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:44,920 They're looking pretty loved up. 390 00:16:45,000 --> 00:16:46,760 You know, they're flirting with each other. 391 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:48,000 They're being cutesy. 392 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:51,800 Hey! Oops. Oops. 393 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:53,320 (AWHINA GIGGLES) 394 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:55,520 Adrian and I are in a good place, 395 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:57,640 so it's really nice that we can walk in together. 396 00:16:57,720 --> 00:16:59,920 There's been a, you know, few times where we've come in alone, 397 00:16:59,960 --> 00:17:01,600 so it's nice coming in united. 398 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:03,080 I'm looking forward to telling everyone else 399 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:04,680 about our homestay, to be fair. 400 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:05,960 Yeah, we had fun. 401 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:09,600 Hey. 402 00:17:10,120 --> 00:17:11,320 Hey. 403 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:12,600 Oh! Rhi and Jeff. 404 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:14,920 Rhi and Jeff looking radiant. 405 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:17,600 Very happy entrance. Lovely to see. Yeah. 406 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:18,800 Thank you. 407 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:23,160 Comfortable, at ease, smiley, just happy and radiant. 408 00:17:24,960 --> 00:17:26,400 How'd you guys go? 409 00:17:27,120 --> 00:17:28,520 Yeah, we had a really good homestay. 410 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,560 It was...it was really good, like, overall, 411 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:35,240 because it just made me realise that outside of the experiment will work. 412 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:37,040 ADRIAN: It's important, yeah, that everyone gets along. 413 00:17:37,120 --> 00:17:41,120 It's so good to see that going home reinforced how strong they are 414 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:42,320 for these two. 415 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:43,960 They do look really strong, don't they? 416 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:45,240 Yeah. Yeah. 417 00:17:46,080 --> 00:17:47,200 Kissy-kissy. 418 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:49,360 (UPLIFTING MUSIC) 419 00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:50,760 (AWHINA SQUEALS) 420 00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:52,400 Hey. Hey! 421 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:53,880 Oh! 422 00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:56,320 Jamie and Dave. 423 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,160 Well, you're holding hands. That's a good start. 424 00:17:58,200 --> 00:17:59,880 Good sign to begin with. 425 00:17:59,960 --> 00:18:01,640 AWHINA: Gorgeous. Hello! 426 00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:03,840 Hey. I love pink on you, Awhina. 427 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:05,760 ADRIAN: Well, I'm assuming homestays went well. 428 00:18:05,800 --> 00:18:07,160 JAMIE: Yeah! 429 00:18:07,240 --> 00:18:09,960 One of the big things that came out from last commitment ceremony 430 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:13,040 was Dave was detached, 431 00:18:13,120 --> 00:18:16,440 and we put it on him that, if he's going to stick around, 432 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:18,640 he's got to do some heavy lifting and win her back. 433 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:23,360 RHI: How were your homestay? 434 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:25,400 Everything kind of turned around. 435 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:27,960 We just...it was like old times, it was better. 436 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:29,880 He's bought flowers. 437 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:31,760 He bought my favourite perfume. 438 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:32,920 Oh, showin' up. 439 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:34,840 (GENTLE MUSIC) 440 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,040 She did meet... She did meet my dad. 441 00:18:37,080 --> 00:18:39,240 We had a really nice catch-up. 442 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:40,400 So good. 443 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:43,640 MEL: This was a big step for him. 444 00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:46,080 It is great to see Dave really stepping up, 445 00:18:46,120 --> 00:18:47,960 taking our advice on board. 446 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:49,720 Yeah. This is great. 447 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:51,880 We had some good news about him. 448 00:18:51,920 --> 00:18:52,960 He... 449 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:55,480 His...his cancer's, like, shrunk significantly. 450 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:57,280 Wow. Unbelievable. 451 00:18:57,320 --> 00:18:58,920 Yeah, it was good. It was good. 452 00:18:58,960 --> 00:19:00,280 That's amazing. 453 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,000 Oh, that's awesome. 454 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:03,360 That's so good. 455 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:08,080 MAN: Oh! CARINA: Hello! 456 00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:09,600 RHI: Aw... PAUL: Hello, guys. 457 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:10,840 Carina and Paul. 458 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:13,240 Hey, sir. My brother. How are you, man? 459 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:15,400 How are you, man? I'm good. Good to see you, dude. 460 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:17,480 Both seem happy. BOTH: Yeah. 461 00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:18,720 JAMIE: How was your homestay? 462 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:20,840 It was really good. Like, it was so nice. 463 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:23,640 My family were like, "He's already a son to us." 464 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,320 And I was like, "Whoa." I was like, "Oh, my God, OK. 465 00:19:26,360 --> 00:19:28,440 "Whoa, tigers. Like, relax." 466 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:32,920 It is so bloody nice to see everyone in this room loved up. 467 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:34,040 (AWHINA SIGHS) 468 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:35,440 I feel I can breathe again. 469 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:38,080 I'm going to be drinking my wine and minding my own business. 470 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:40,400 No, actually, no. Never mind my own business. 471 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:42,480 I'm going to be minding everyone else's business. 472 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:44,720 (RAIN PATTERS) 473 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:46,440 (TENSE MUSIC) 474 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:50,320 Yep. (SCOFFS) 475 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:55,920 (MUSIC RACES) 476 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:58,360 Do you reckon everyone's homestays were as good as ours? 477 00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:01,440 Like, the other couples have come off a couple of real rough weeks. 478 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:02,560 Like Teejay and Beth. 479 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:05,320 When they left it, they didn't seem strong at all. 480 00:20:05,360 --> 00:20:07,720 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 481 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:14,320 (EXUBERANT GREETINGS) 482 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:15,680 PAUL: Here they are. JAMIE: Oh! 483 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:18,120 Hello. Hello! 484 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:19,760 Uh, Beth and Teejay. Beth and Teejay. 485 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:22,600 After the last commitment ceremony with Beth and Teejay, 486 00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:24,400 there was no physical affection. 487 00:20:25,360 --> 00:20:28,440 Are we going to see a softening between the two of them tonight? 488 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:30,960 (TENSE MUSIC) 489 00:20:31,000 --> 00:20:32,400 RHI: You look so good. 490 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:33,960 BETH: Thank you. So, so good. 491 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:35,600 JAMIE: I need to know what's going on. 492 00:20:38,360 --> 00:20:39,480 My parents asked us, 493 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:41,320 "Do you see this progressing on the outside?" 494 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:43,760 And I sat there and I said, "I do, it's something I want to work on." 495 00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:45,800 And he paused. (UNNERVING MUSIC) 496 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:48,120 And then he was like, "It's something we're navigating." 497 00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:50,320 And then, in front of his friends, he said, 498 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:52,320 "I don't see it progressing into a relationship." 499 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,040 I was left feeling so embarrassed. 500 00:20:56,120 --> 00:20:58,640 Like, why would you do that to me in front of people? 501 00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:00,440 MEL: Oh, that would really hurt. 502 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,560 That's so tough for Beth. Yes. 503 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:07,600 Beth has never had a relationship so this is completely new for her, 504 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:10,840 and, for Beth, this is very, very confusing and for the group. 505 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:12,960 For him to say 'stay', 506 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:15,680 he knew homestays were around the (BLEEP) corner, 507 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,320 so why did you not tell me before? 508 00:21:17,360 --> 00:21:18,800 Yeah, exactly. 509 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,640 (TENSE MUSIC) 510 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:23,480 JAMIE: I feel for Beth. 511 00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:25,600 I'd feel completely blindsided. 512 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:28,080 I've been in that position. 513 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,440 I was there last week and you've got to speak your truth, 514 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:31,920 otherwise nothing's going to change. 515 00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:35,600 Why come to Brisbane, spend time with my family 516 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,800 and then tell me you don't see a future? 517 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:41,280 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 518 00:21:41,360 --> 00:21:44,120 JACQUI: I'm actually kind of excited to walk in alone for the first time. 519 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:46,160 I actually signed up for a good husband, 520 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:47,640 but this man is not good. 521 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:48,720 He actually... 522 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:50,920 When I think of him, I just think of evil. 523 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:52,840 I think of a black smoke. 524 00:21:54,400 --> 00:22:00,520 # And I think to myself what a wonderful world. # 525 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:02,480 (FRAUGHT MUSIC) 526 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:04,680 I actually think Ryan is on the wrong track in life, 527 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:06,160 and he needs to be put back in his place 528 00:22:06,200 --> 00:22:07,440 so he can figure it out himself. 529 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,480 I didn't come here to support an evil person. 530 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:14,920 He's not self-aware at all. 531 00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:16,800 (RAIN PATTERS) 532 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:20,120 # All by myself 533 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:25,640 # Don't wanna be all by myself. # 534 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:29,000 Actually, it's probably better this way. 535 00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:37,320 The one thing I'm expecting out of tonight is an apology from Ryan. 536 00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:42,400 Ultimately, I need him to make it up to me now because I'm done. 537 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,360 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 538 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,800 Look, there's nothing I need to apologise for. 539 00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:49,800 It's so clear as daylight. 540 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:52,240 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 541 00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:58,720 Uh-oh. Hey! 542 00:22:58,800 --> 00:23:00,720 (MEL GASPS) JOHN: Oh! 543 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:02,880 Jacqui's by herself. 544 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:05,360 Is this the first time she's walked in as separate from Ryan? 545 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:06,560 Absolutely. Yeah. 546 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:09,240 We've never seen Jacqui and Ryan separate like this. 547 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,120 You're going to need to get a drink real quick 548 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:12,960 and sit down and tell us everything. 549 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:14,360 Yeah. Thank you, Jeff. All good. 550 00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:15,960 I appreciate that. No worries. 551 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,240 JEFF: Oh, let's have a seat. 552 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:19,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 553 00:23:19,360 --> 00:23:22,040 Jacqui, what the hell's going on? Yeah. 554 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:23,240 You're in the hot seat. 555 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,240 AWHINA: Tell us. Tell us everything. Yeah. 556 00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:27,040 OK, so, it started off really well. 557 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,880 Like, we went to Manly first and we actually had a lovely time. 558 00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:33,080 (OFF-BEAT MUSIC) 559 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:35,080 We went on a date. Ryan bought me flowers. 560 00:23:35,120 --> 00:23:37,040 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 561 00:23:37,120 --> 00:23:39,280 Um, and then we drove to Campbelltown. 562 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:41,200 So, we sit down with our friends 563 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,960 and, basically, we're just having a normal conversation. 564 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:45,880 And then, all of a sudden, 565 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,480 his friend brings up the letter-writing task... 566 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:52,520 ..and just starts digging into me. 567 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,840 So, Ryan had relayed stuff like, 568 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,360 Jacqui said I can't provide for her family and stuff like this," 569 00:23:58,400 --> 00:23:59,640 which I didn't do. 570 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:04,840 "I'm concerned that you financially contribute less than I will. 571 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:08,520 "It's 'cause I'm not convinced that you have enough financial skills". 572 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,240 I didn't say that. And so... 573 00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:12,400 I heard it but anyway. 574 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:16,440 It just got more heated. They just started yelling. 575 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:21,000 Like, I'm not even kidding when it was, like, 576 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:22,880 nothing short of just verbal attacks. 577 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:25,600 I got scolded, as well. 578 00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,720 What sort of stuff were they saying? 579 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:31,160 Things like, "Ryan is stitched up being with you. 580 00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:32,840 "You think you're better than him." 581 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:34,440 Yelling that...? They're yelling that? 582 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:35,760 Yelling it at me. 583 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:40,760 JEFF: What about the letter comment? 584 00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:44,400 Of course. 585 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:47,760 (TENSE MUSIC) 586 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,920 What's remarkable here is, traditionally, 587 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,960 when someone walks into a cocktail party on their own, 588 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:54,920 they have the support of the group. 589 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:57,560 This time around, Jacqui doesn't have that. 590 00:24:57,600 --> 00:24:59,600 Well, it seems to be quite clear 591 00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:01,880 that the group don't really trust Jacqui. 592 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:03,200 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 593 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:06,320 I'm not validating what Ryan or his friends said in any way, 594 00:25:06,360 --> 00:25:09,160 but, that letter you wrote him, 595 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:11,000 God, it was... 596 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,120 It would have been hard to hear for anyone. 597 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,120 Yeah, exactly. 598 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,800 But, also, I feel like we don't hear his side too much. 599 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,320 Like, he doesn't really talk about his side too much. 600 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,920 RYAN: I think she's going to be playing the victim card 601 00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:27,240 very, very hard tonight. 602 00:25:28,120 --> 00:25:29,880 There's things I got to get off my chest. 603 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:33,360 Literally, homestays week was the tipping point 604 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,440 and it's fallen the wrong way. 605 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,120 Jacqui was disrespectful, rude 606 00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,640 and judgemental of all aspects of my life. 607 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:41,920 Like, her conduct was... was disgraceful. 608 00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:45,240 Like, Ryan just sat there and didn't do anything. 609 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:47,280 Like, a grown man was yelling at me, 610 00:25:47,360 --> 00:25:49,840 your friends were speaking to me like I was a dog 611 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,040 and you just sat there and said nothing. 612 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,080 This week could have been so much better 613 00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:58,360 if Jacqui had a bit more self-awareness, 614 00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:00,080 a bit more consideration 615 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:04,600 and took some accountability for her behaviour. 616 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:06,520 ADRIAN: Where are you at now with Ryan? 617 00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,760 Well, I'm like, well, you not only owe me an apology, 618 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:11,840 but, like, you need to make it up to me. 619 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,480 So, you're saying you want an apology? 620 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:14,640 So, if he gives you an apology, 621 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:16,280 you're like, "Oh, sweet, it's all good again"? 622 00:26:16,360 --> 00:26:18,320 No, I said I want him to make it up to me. 623 00:26:18,360 --> 00:26:20,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 624 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,240 There's just bad behaviour happening. 625 00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:26,880 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 626 00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:28,760 I'm not going to tolerate it anymore. 627 00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:31,960 It's made me angry and, at the end of the day, 628 00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:35,480 I'm not someone who's vindictive but things need to come to light, 629 00:26:35,560 --> 00:26:38,360 and she needs to be able to demonstrate that her behaviour 630 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,080 can be called out, as well, even if she thinks she's above it. 631 00:26:41,120 --> 00:26:42,760 I'm just done with it. 632 00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:45,720 (MUSIC BUILDS) 633 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:47,880 Hola. 634 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:49,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC FADES) 635 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:55,080 (TENSE MUSIC) 636 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:01,040 Hola. Hi. 637 00:27:01,120 --> 00:27:03,040 Hello. Hello. 638 00:27:03,120 --> 00:27:04,200 Where's Jacqui? How are you? 639 00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:06,160 And there he is. Oh, here's Ryan. 640 00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:08,120 (RYAN LAUGHS) BETH: Hello! 641 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:10,200 Hi. I love the green. Thank you. 642 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:11,680 Love the suit. Thank you. 643 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,280 Hi. How are you? Hey, Rhi, how are you? 644 00:27:13,360 --> 00:27:15,000 Good, how are you going? Yeah, really good. 645 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:18,640 I'm just amazed that the most confident he's been walking in 646 00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:19,720 has been on his own. 647 00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:20,880 MEL: Alone. 648 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:22,000 How are you, my bro? 649 00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:23,760 I mean, that's saying something. 650 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:25,760 Hey, brother. How are you, my bro? 651 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:27,320 How are you, man? Really well. 652 00:27:27,360 --> 00:27:28,560 (RYAN LAUGHS) 653 00:27:28,640 --> 00:27:31,960 Walking in alone, oh, it's got a unique charm to it, doesn't it? 654 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:34,200 Hi, Jacqui. 655 00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,240 Mwah. Did you call me Jacqui? Sorry, Jamie. 656 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,320 (HEARTY LAUGHTER) 657 00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,120 Just got to show up in one of your sharpest suits, 658 00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:41,560 and just own the moment. 659 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,760 Teejay. How are you, my bro? 660 00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:45,600 (TENSE MUSIC) 661 00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,600 If you're going to show up, just show up as your best self. 662 00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:49,840 (PLAYFUL SIGH) 663 00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,400 Like a gladiator. 664 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:52,560 Yeah. 665 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:55,360 Hello. Hi. 666 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:59,160 Jacqui was standing there waiting for him to acknowledge her. 667 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:00,440 That doesn't look... 668 00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:02,440 That's not looking good. Not looking good at all. 669 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:05,040 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 670 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:08,480 Oh. Hello. Hello. 671 00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,040 I was just going to see how you are. 672 00:28:10,120 --> 00:28:12,680 I'm doing good. How are you? Yeah? Yeah? 673 00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:14,480 Feeling fresh, looking fresher. 674 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:16,200 Yeah. 675 00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,640 I was expecting Ryan to walk through the door 676 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,920 with his tail between his legs and come over and apologise, 677 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:28,040 but, instead, Ryan is acting like he's a bachelor 678 00:28:28,120 --> 00:28:31,440 just arrived for a party, and he's done nothing wrong. 679 00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,240 And it's not OK. 680 00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,320 Do you have anything you want to say to me? 681 00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:42,920 Um... 682 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,240 "Do you have anything you want to say to me?" 683 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:49,520 (TENSE MUSIC) 684 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,040 "Have you got anything you want to say?" 685 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:54,120 That was a demand. 686 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:55,400 Wasn't really a question. 687 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:59,040 I hadn't planned on it directly. You hadn't planned on anything? 688 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:03,760 Jacqui wants me to apologise for being alive, literally. 689 00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:06,280 But what have I got to be sorry for? Nothing. 690 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:11,200 There's things I've got in my head that I want to express. 691 00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:12,280 Yeah. 692 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,560 It was a real shame that things crashed and burned at the end there. 693 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,320 Yeah. It's, uh, not ideal. 694 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:22,880 What about you? 695 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,560 Do you have anything else to say? 696 00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,800 (MUSIC RACES) 697 00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:28,200 What do you mean? 698 00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:32,200 Like, the reason why I left, why we're not together tonight. 699 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:33,520 (MUSIC BUILDS) 700 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:35,080 (GLASS DINGS) 701 00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:38,000 Dinner is served. 702 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:40,960 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 703 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,120 Ryan was saved by the bell. 704 00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,680 Ryan is not going to get away from me at the dinner party. 705 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:49,880 MEL: Isn't it fascinating? 706 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:54,040 It's a storm outside, and there's about to be a storm inside. 707 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:55,880 It's very interesting timing. 708 00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:56,960 Yes. 709 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,120 Jacqui's come in tonight looking for an apology, 710 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:02,920 and it's very clear Ryan's not going to give her one. 711 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:06,880 He's come in with a very different mindset, hasn't he? 712 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:09,400 RYAN: I'm just ready to get this over and done with. 713 00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:11,560 I'm ready to speak my truth. 714 00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:13,560 PAUL: The table is getting smaller, right? 715 00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:17,760 So, all this here that's on my chest is going to be vocalised. 716 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,360 I don't really care what Jacqui's asking for me at this point, 717 00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:23,960 because, honestly, I'm checked out. 718 00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:28,880 JACQUI: Yeah. 719 00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:30,120 WOMAN: Cheers. 720 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:33,120 (GROUP TOASTS) 721 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,160 (JACQUI LAUGHS) 722 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:38,200 (UNSETTLING MUSIC) 723 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,720 TEEJAY: You said to me I'm... 724 00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:51,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 725 00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:52,800 (RYAN SIGHS) 726 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,800 He doesn't even seem to realise he owes me an apology. 727 00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:57,680 He is so delusional. 728 00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,520 It blows my brains out. 729 00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:07,560 (DEEP SIGH) 730 00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,880 I'm going to be pulling that man aside, 731 00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:11,600 and I'm going to teach him a lesson. 732 00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,600 (TENSE MUSIC) 733 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:19,760 JEFF: Well, uh, Jacqui and Ryan, 734 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,320 I'm pretty sure everyone's keen to hear what's actually going on. 735 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:23,520 Yeah. 736 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:29,120 Ah, ah, everyone, everyone... 737 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,040 (PLAYFUL MUSIC) 738 00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:35,120 Yeah, I've got some things I need to get off my chest. 739 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,040 Ooh. Ooh! 740 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,760 About the whole week, like, the full story and whatnot, 741 00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:41,680 and, yeah, might as well start at the beginning. 742 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,120 (MUSIC INTENSIFIES) 743 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,040 So, we turned up at her place. 744 00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,280 Within five minutes of going into her place, 745 00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:52,360 like, we plopped on the bed, we're having a nice chat, 746 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,320 and then she brings up something again for the 50th time. 747 00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:56,400 She goes... 748 00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,280 "Why won't you shave your beard?" 749 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:00,560 Oh, wow. Huh? 750 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:02,120 Oh, my God. Are you serious? What? 751 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,920 Oh, mate, the whole clean-shaven blonde thing again. 752 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:09,560 Like, I don't (BLEEP) know, man. Like... 753 00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:10,840 JEFF: That's why I grew a beard. 754 00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,120 (MAN LAUGHS) 755 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:14,480 It's like, this is garbage. 756 00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:16,600 Like, we've had this conversation a million times. 757 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:18,040 What is the point of this? 758 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:20,160 And she goes, "I'm going to shave it off when you sleep." 759 00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:23,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 760 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,840 But you know what? It's his body, his choice. 761 00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:29,480 Exactly. It's my body. 762 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:31,440 This is what I want to do with my facial hair. 763 00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:34,480 It actually sounds like a stupid discussion, Jacqui, come on. 764 00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:36,560 I know it's stupid because that's not what happened. 765 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:40,440 MAN: No, no. RYAN: That's bullshit. 766 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:42,320 She goes, "Oh, oh, like, 767 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,480 "you're refusing to have an intellectual discussion 768 00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,200 "with me about it because of your small brain." 769 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,240 (DISCONCERTING MUSIC) 770 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,720 Wow. OK. Wow. 771 00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,440 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 772 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:00,880 Jacqui, this... That's not OK. 773 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,440 You can't be saying that to Ryan. Exactly. 774 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:04,880 That's not what happened. 775 00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:06,960 You can't be saying that to anyone, not just Ryan. 776 00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:08,800 Exactly, 100%. I didn't say that. 777 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:10,640 That's not even the best part. 778 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:12,280 What's the best part, Ryan? Oh... 779 00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:13,960 AWHINA: Tell us the best part. 780 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,200 We showed up to my place and, honestly, like, 781 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:20,960 my mood just went up. 782 00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,240 You know, like, it's my sanctuary. I love being around here. 783 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:27,360 I worked my arse off for seven years renting, saving 784 00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:29,160 to be able to buy a house before I was 30. 785 00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:30,480 Yeah. Absolutely love it. 786 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:31,840 It's like my pride and joy. 787 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:33,120 (TENSE MUSIC) 788 00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:34,320 Can I ask you something, guys? 789 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,360 Did anyone else walk into anyone else's place 790 00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:40,320 and start telling them where to move things and saying, 791 00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:42,040 "I don't like this and you should do this"? 792 00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:44,160 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 793 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:45,840 Like re-arranging stuff? 794 00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:47,600 Yeah, like, "Take that poster down. I don't like it. 795 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:49,280 "What's that doing on the table?" Jacqui, why? 796 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,520 "Take all these collectables." That's not how it went. 797 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:53,240 Like, I have a whiteboard at home 798 00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:55,000 and she's going around writing things on there, 799 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:56,320 what I should change. 800 00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:57,560 (BLEEP) hell. 801 00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,320 She's even telling me how to raise Freya, my dog. 802 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:02,600 This is my house. No, that's not what happened. 803 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:04,240 I got yelled at... Exact... 804 00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,240 ..because I wasn't walking the dog the way he wanted to. 805 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:08,000 So, are you saying he yelled at you for that? 806 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:09,680 Yeah. He actually yelled? 807 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,160 So they're both telling two different stories here. 808 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:13,240 Yes. 809 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:15,920 So, it's really hard to know what actually happened. 810 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,400 Ryan, did you...? Did you yell? No, I didn't. 811 00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,760 That's...that's her dramatising shit, mate. 812 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:22,080 It's drama. 813 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:25,120 (DRAMATIC MUSIC BUILDS) 814 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:29,280 (MUSIC FADES) 815 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,960 (TENSE MUSIC) 816 00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,640 So, are you saying he yelled at you for that? 817 00:34:37,720 --> 00:34:39,080 Yeah. He actually yelled? 818 00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:41,800 Ryan, did you...? Did you yell? 819 00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:42,920 No, I didn't. 820 00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,200 That's...that's her dramatising shit, mate. 821 00:34:45,240 --> 00:34:46,480 It's drama. 822 00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:51,960 JOHN: Well, what I do know is that, the way Ryan talks now, 823 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:53,480 there's a real bite in it... 824 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:54,480 Yeah. 825 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:56,840 ..that perhaps we haven't seen to that degree before. 826 00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:57,960 Yes. 827 00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:00,640 After the dog walk was the friends' lunch. 828 00:35:00,720 --> 00:35:03,760 So, Adam and Carla, two of my best mates, 829 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,000 they came in and they were asking about the relationship. 830 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:07,080 They were like, 831 00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:09,240 "Do you appreciate what he's built for himself? 832 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:11,000 "Do you appreciate his lifestyle?" That kind of stuff? 833 00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:13,040 That's not what happened. Continue. Oh, yes it is. Yes, it is. 834 00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:14,920 Yes, it is. They were asking you questions. 835 00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:16,400 Yeah, and then what happened? 836 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,800 And then what happened was they asked her, 837 00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:21,600 "Why do you think you guys have disagreements?" 838 00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:23,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 839 00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:25,680 And then she goes, "Oh, because Ryan always gets defensive." 840 00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,800 And then she goes and doubles down on the first time and she goes, 841 00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,840 "Ryan actually is a liar," right to their face once again. 842 00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:34,320 (DISQUIETING MUSIC) 843 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:36,320 I didn't say that. Yes, you did. 844 00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,520 (MUSIC INTENSIFIES) 845 00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:41,840 Things got a little bit heated and I do not condone, like, 846 00:35:41,920 --> 00:35:44,960 the raised voices, particularly from my friends' side, 847 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:47,600 but she wasn't answering any of their questions. 848 00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:49,640 She was just piling more shit on me. 849 00:35:49,720 --> 00:35:51,120 I was actually trying to engage with them. 850 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:52,480 I was trying to answer their questions 851 00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:53,880 and then they just weren't listening, 852 00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:57,000 and then it just started with throwing insults at me. 853 00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:00,280 Oh, they did not throw insults at you. 854 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:01,800 And I believe it was toxic behaviour. 855 00:36:01,880 --> 00:36:04,000 JAMIE: Was someone standing up and yelling over Jacqui? 856 00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:05,080 No. Yes. 857 00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:06,280 No, he did not stand up and yell... 858 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:07,920 He was going... (BREATHES STRANGELY) 859 00:36:08,000 --> 00:36:09,400 Oh... And, like, animated... 860 00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:12,440 I started crying and she was yelling at me too and you just sat there. 861 00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:13,640 You know what, you know what, 862 00:36:13,720 --> 00:36:16,600 because you kept blaming their best mate, right? 863 00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:18,800 Excuse me? You've taken zero accountability. 864 00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:20,480 You took zero accountability. Ryan. 865 00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:23,080 You were sitting there deflecting it all onto me once again. 866 00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:24,440 It's not true. 867 00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:25,760 Whenever the heat is on you, 868 00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:28,080 whenever you have to demonstrate ownership, 869 00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:29,680 you never do it. 870 00:36:29,720 --> 00:36:31,840 (TENSE MUSIC) 871 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:33,400 I'm sick of it. You can't say that. 872 00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,240 No-one deserves to be treated like that. 873 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:36,840 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 874 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:38,480 Ryan, did they start yelling at her 875 00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,960 or did Jacqui do something for them to get heated? 876 00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,720 I told them about what Jacqui said about me in that letter. 877 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:45,640 She said I don't work as hard as her. 878 00:36:45,720 --> 00:36:46,680 Ooh. Oh. 879 00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:49,720 And "I have serious concerns about your financial future". 880 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,080 Wow. That's not what I said. 881 00:36:53,240 --> 00:36:57,160 "I am concerned that you financially contribute less than I will, 882 00:36:57,240 --> 00:36:59,640 "and I will end up being the primary breadwinner. 883 00:36:59,720 --> 00:37:02,720 "I'm concerned you don't work as hard as me". 884 00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,800 I know what was said in the letter because she read it to me. 885 00:37:06,840 --> 00:37:08,400 I heard it with my own ears. 886 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:09,800 I read it with my own eyes. 887 00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:14,240 I know what was in the letter, so I know Jacqui's lying there. 888 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,560 If you're lying about that, which I know is fact, 889 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,680 then how can I believe anything else you say? 890 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:21,000 Jacqui, in all seriousness, in the cocktail party, 891 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:23,160 I called out one of your lies straight away. 892 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:24,360 I didn't address it then, 893 00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,680 but you were talking about what Ryan earned and his job, 894 00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:28,240 and it wasn't good enough and you said... 895 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:29,600 I didn't write that, Jeff. 896 00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:31,160 RYAN: Oh, my God. ADRIAN: You read it to him. 897 00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:32,440 RYAN: And the career thing came up. 898 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:33,960 JEFF: I heard it, you read it to me. 899 00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,320 You said you were concerned with what his job is 900 00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:37,600 and how much he earns. 901 00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:38,840 I didn't say that. 902 00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:40,400 BETH: Jacqui, Jeff is not a liar. 903 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,000 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 904 00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:44,040 I'm not a liar! 905 00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:48,760 The facts are I said I am concerned about the financial predictability 906 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:50,000 and stability. 907 00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,760 Jacqui, essentially, he just doesn't earn enough money? 908 00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:56,160 I didn't say that, Jeff. 909 00:37:57,960 --> 00:37:59,240 That is not the issue. 910 00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,520 (MUSIC BUILDS) 911 00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:03,440 I did not say he's not good enough for me. 912 00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,720 I've never, ever, ever said this man is not good enough for me. 913 00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:15,560 (MUSIC BUILDS THEN FADES) 914 00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:19,400 Jacqui, you know, honestly, if that letter got read to me, 915 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:20,600 I wouldn't be here right now. 916 00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:22,600 Yeah, I deserve to be yelled at, yeah. 917 00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:24,040 That's what you're saying. 918 00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,640 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 919 00:38:26,720 --> 00:38:29,000 I feel like I'm disappointed in some of the group 920 00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:34,640 for trying to defend behaviour which is absolutely unacceptable. 921 00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:36,960 Ryan is a great storyteller. 922 00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:39,440 He does misrepresent and misconstrue the facts, 923 00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:42,560 but he is very convincing in the way he tells it. 924 00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:45,480 He believes his own lies, people believe his lies 925 00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:47,120 and that makes people turn on me. 926 00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:50,360 JAMIE: 'Cause, obviously, Ryan's really upset. 927 00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:54,760 And he distracts everyone from the big elephant in the room, 928 00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:58,720 which is I was yelled at, I was scolded, I was ganged up 929 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:03,640 and I was verbally abused by his friends while he was sitting there, 930 00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:05,280 and he did nothing. 931 00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:06,920 Jacqui, 932 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:08,680 you've been backed on the couch many times 933 00:39:08,720 --> 00:39:10,280 and Ryan's had to apologise. 934 00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:13,240 I think, sometimes, you need to be able to own you're a part, as well. 935 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:15,800 For being scolded at? 936 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:17,920 (JACQUI CHORTLES) 937 00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:22,040 Yeah, I'm sorry, guys, I'm sorry I caused someone to scold at me. 938 00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:23,120 I'm sorry. 939 00:39:23,160 --> 00:39:24,520 Honestly, I'm like... 940 00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,640 I'm, like, losing my brain right now. 941 00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:27,760 Are you serious? 942 00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:29,080 (TENSE MUSIC) 943 00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:31,720 It's clear that Ryan has been feeling this big, 944 00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:33,320 and he's had enough. 945 00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:34,360 Yeah. 946 00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:38,600 I mean, what we're seeing tonight is Ryan getting to that tipping point. 947 00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:44,160 And I think, you know, really, for Jacqui to have any chance 948 00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:45,840 of turning this around, 949 00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:49,040 she would have to understand how her words are landing, 950 00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:51,400 and I don't think she's really got that. 951 00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:52,480 No. 952 00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,280 Ryan's owned it but I haven't heard you own up to one thing. 953 00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:58,000 What would you like me to own up to? Well, something that you've done. 954 00:39:58,040 --> 00:39:59,360 What have I done? 955 00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:01,400 (MUSIC ABRUPTLY FADES) 956 00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,280 (TENSE MUSIC RESUMES) 957 00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:06,440 Jacqui, Jacqui, 958 00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:09,440 I haven't heard where you've said you've gone wrong. 959 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,840 I think I'm too honest, yeah. 960 00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:17,760 Too honest. That's a unique. 961 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,480 But Jacqui, but Jacqui, that's not nice, either, 962 00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,280 because you've said some mean comments. 963 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:23,520 That's saying... 964 00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:25,320 That's saying what you're saying is truthful. 965 00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:26,640 What did I say that's mean? 966 00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:32,360 In this whole homestay, you don't think there's any part 967 00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:35,320 that maybe you went a bit too far or you said the wrong thing 968 00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:38,800 or, like, you could have handled yourself a little bit better? 969 00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:41,200 (TENSE MUSIC RACES) 970 00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:45,040 OK, I can own up. 971 00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:46,680 (MUSIC FADES) 972 00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:50,440 I'm sorry for not walking Freya the way you wanted me to. 973 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:52,560 Oh, yeah, just go for the petty one. BETH: Jacqui... 974 00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:54,280 Seriously... JAMIE: Jacqui. 975 00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,520 You're a smart girl. You know that was passive-aggressive. 976 00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,080 ADRIAN: What about...? It's not! 977 00:40:58,120 --> 00:40:59,760 I've... Oh, my God. 978 00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:01,640 (TENSE MUSIC) 979 00:41:01,720 --> 00:41:04,840 Of course, Jacqui denied she said anything negative. 980 00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,120 You know, just absolute garbage. 981 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:08,200 Garbage. 982 00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:11,400 You know, like, when she has to take ownership, 983 00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:13,920 she either refuses to or is incapable of it. 984 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,600 This is the difficulties I'm having with my relationship. 985 00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:19,960 (JACQUI CHORTLES) 986 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:21,240 No-one here is amused. 987 00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:23,120 No-one here is amused by that shit. 988 00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:24,840 Come on, Jacqui, don't. 989 00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:27,920 And then the group's now seen that tonight. 990 00:41:28,000 --> 00:41:32,400 I feel vindicated in the way that I was able to tell my story 991 00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:36,040 start to finish, vocalise that and get everyone in the awareness 992 00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:37,920 of what's going on in the relationship. 993 00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,000 No-one here is amused, Jacqui. 994 00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:48,720 RYAN: Jacqui laughing 995 00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:51,560 and, like, trying to get a little bit of denial in there 996 00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:53,360 and just saying, like, "Oh, that's not what happened," 997 00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:56,120 it's really highlighted to me why we don't match. 998 00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:58,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 999 00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,160 I'm just sick of it. I've had a gutful, mate. 1000 00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:01,480 I've had an absolute (BLEEP) gutful. 1001 00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:03,240 Yeah, you seem really hurt. 1002 00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:05,600 I feel like it's been a long time coming 1003 00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:06,960 that you've kept your mouth closed. 1004 00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:08,040 Honestly, honestly. 1005 00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:09,720 This is actually the first time in the whole experiment 1006 00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:12,000 you've actually said what you wanted to say. 1007 00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,640 Because I'm quite, like, a positive person, 1008 00:42:15,720 --> 00:42:18,800 not, like, diplomatic, but I do like to look at the bigger picture 1009 00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:21,520 and say, like, we've processed a lot, 1010 00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:22,920 we've had a lot of conflict, 1011 00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:24,880 but I just want to see something beyond it, 1012 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:28,000 and this week has just highlighted to me that maybe there just isn't. 1013 00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:32,120 (GENTLE PIANO CHORD) 1014 00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:35,360 (GENTLE MUSIC) 1015 00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:37,320 Adrian and I had a really great homestay. 1016 00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:38,440 That's awesome. 1017 00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,440 Adrian said he really loved Perth. 1018 00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,040 Yeah, no, it went good. I had a great time. 1019 00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:43,760 I actually really like Perth. 1020 00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,440 Awhina and Adrian have done a good job 1021 00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:50,080 sticking out this experiment with all its up and downs. 1022 00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:53,160 It's nice to see that, like, it's paid off. 1023 00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,680 (LAUGHTER) 1024 00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,520 AWHINA: Beth, how was your homestay? 1025 00:43:04,240 --> 00:43:05,440 Um... 1026 00:43:05,520 --> 00:43:08,840 Honestly, it didn't go the way that I thought it was going to go. 1027 00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:10,640 (TENSE MUSIC) 1028 00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:11,840 How come? 1029 00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,840 Um, Teejay came home to my house and spent time with my family, 1030 00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:16,800 and then we had a dinner that night with my family, 1031 00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:19,720 and my best friend came and they asked us a question, 1032 00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,280 and it was something along the lines of, 1033 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:24,400 "Do you see this progressing on the outside?" 1034 00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:26,880 And, obviously, I sat there and I said that I do, 1035 00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:30,040 and he kind of paused and then, um, 1036 00:43:30,120 --> 00:43:32,200 said that it's something that we're still trying to navigate. 1037 00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:37,120 And I'm going to be honest, 1038 00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:40,200 that answer was, like, a little bit shit to hear 1039 00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:42,280 because, obviously, I was like, "It's something I want." 1040 00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:45,720 And for him to not really have, like, a solid answer, 1041 00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:48,000 I was a little bit, like, OK, kind of disappointing. 1042 00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:50,880 And then, the day after, we met his friends, 1043 00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:52,760 and they asked a similar question, 1044 00:43:52,840 --> 00:43:54,600 and, again, I sat there and said that I do, 1045 00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:57,160 and he sat there and said that he doesn't see this 1046 00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:58,600 progressing into a relationship. 1047 00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,480 RHI: At all? I said... 1048 00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:04,160 You did say you don't see it progressing... 1049 00:44:04,240 --> 00:44:05,800 I said there needs to be factors that improve 1050 00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:07,000 for it to be in a relationship. 1051 00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:09,280 There was...it was a yes or no answer and I...yeah. 1052 00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,360 Again, it just seemed like he couldn't really answer it 1053 00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:13,440 and, to me, to not be able to answer that 1054 00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:17,120 when we've been here this long really disappointed me and hurt me. 1055 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:20,880 And, to be quite honest with you, 1056 00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:22,680 sat there, I felt really embarrassed 1057 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:24,600 that I was like, "Yeah, I see this working," 1058 00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:25,840 and he just couldn't answer it. 1059 00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:27,680 (TENSE MUSIC) 1060 00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:31,080 Oh, Beth, the most confident person on the planet, 1061 00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:33,960 would feel dejected in that situation. 1062 00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:35,200 ALESSANDRA: Of course. 1063 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:38,280 Have you guys slept together since the first time again? 1064 00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:40,240 Yes. 1065 00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,160 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1066 00:44:42,240 --> 00:44:45,000 And that's why I'm just so confused and lost. 1067 00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:47,240 We both wrote 'stay' at the commitment ceremony, 1068 00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:49,560 and then Teejay initiated sex with me again. 1069 00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:53,000 And, as we all know, he can't be intimate with me 1070 00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:54,600 unless there's a deeper connection. 1071 00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:56,000 So, then that makes me think... 1072 00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:00,680 Of course, I'm going to think Teejay is connecting with me more. 1073 00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:02,120 It made me feel good... JAMIE: Ah... 1074 00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:04,200 ..'cause that's what he said he needed the whole time. 1075 00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,200 And then, days later, you're telling me 1076 00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,200 that you can't see a future with me and see it progressing, 1077 00:45:09,240 --> 00:45:11,680 so I'm just so blindsided by it, 1078 00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:14,320 and I wish you had enough respect and care for me 1079 00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:16,520 to tell me before homestays because that was... 1080 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:19,160 No, Teejay, that was really big for me to see you with my family. 1081 00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:20,360 And do you know what? 1082 00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:23,640 It hurts that now you're like, "Nah, I don't see it." 1083 00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:26,080 (TENSE MUSIC) 1084 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:27,880 Well, there's a lot of mixed messages 1085 00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,520 that Teejay is sending to Beth, basically. 1086 00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:31,560 Mm. 1087 00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:34,160 And the issue here is that you can see 1088 00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:35,960 it plays with Beth's head. 1089 00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:37,000 Yes! 1090 00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:39,120 She gets inside there, overanalyses it, 1091 00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:40,600 thinks, "Maybe I've got to do more," 1092 00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:46,240 and it's very hard for Beth not to feel like she's to blame. 1093 00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:50,080 Teejay, what on earth do you have to say to that, then? 1094 00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:53,960 Obviously, everyone wants to hear why... 1095 00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:55,240 why did that happen then, T. 1096 00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:56,600 BETH: So confused. TEEJAY: Absolutely. 1097 00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:58,520 Because you talked about that emotional connection for a long time 1098 00:45:58,560 --> 00:45:59,600 and then it's happened. 1099 00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:00,960 Yeah. So... 1100 00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:02,720 After you said at the dinner party 1101 00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:04,640 that you didn't think I was physically attracted to you 1102 00:46:04,720 --> 00:46:06,480 because I hadn't been sleeping with you 1103 00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:08,480 made me think maybe I am in my own head about it, 1104 00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:10,400 and I self-reflected. 1105 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:11,960 I... maybe I was in my own head about it, 1106 00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:14,680 and I thought I would initiate intimacy 1107 00:46:14,720 --> 00:46:16,520 because that's what you wanted. 1108 00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:18,360 (DISQUIETING MUSIC) 1109 00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:20,600 The invitation to include sexuality 1110 00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:25,320 is not about simply, you know, her needs, meeting her needs. 1111 00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:28,400 It's about him saying that he wanted to connect, 1112 00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:30,040 and that is a way to connect. 1113 00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:33,440 From the homestays, I was met with a lot of yes or no questions. 1114 00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:35,680 You know, "Are you going to break my daughter's heart?" 1115 00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:39,160 My friends even questioning, I guess, where we're at, too. 1116 00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:41,000 It kind of made me think, 1117 00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:44,040 "Is Beth the right one for me? Am I the right one for Beth?" 1118 00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:46,680 I...I had to say how I was feeling in the moment. 1119 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:50,240 So, are you saying that homestays has changed your opinion of me? 1120 00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:52,160 After getting pushed into a corner asking... 1121 00:46:52,240 --> 00:46:53,680 Pushed into a corner, are you joking? 1122 00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:55,760 Absolutely, it felt like that, darling. 1123 00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:58,040 (TENSE MUSIC) 1124 00:46:59,920 --> 00:47:03,600 I can understand where Beth is seeing some serious confusion. 1125 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:05,360 Last week with the experts, 1126 00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:08,560 Teejay was talking a lot about souls intertwining 1127 00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:10,920 for intimacy to happen. 1128 00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:12,720 But then intimacy happened. 1129 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:15,080 But now, when you get asked, 1130 00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:17,640 "Do you want there to be a future outside of the experiment?" 1131 00:47:17,720 --> 00:47:19,960 And you can't answer that question straight away, 1132 00:47:20,000 --> 00:47:21,080 like, it just doesn't make sense. 1133 00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:23,720 (DISCONCERTING MUSIC) 1134 00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:26,520 I don't think he's into Beth like Beth's into him. 1135 00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:29,160 Your dad said to me, "If the experiment ends tomorrow, yes or no, 1136 00:47:29,240 --> 00:47:30,720 "is my daughter going to get her heart broken?" 1137 00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:32,000 I know, and he used the wrong word. 1138 00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:33,760 He probably should have said, "Is she going to be hurt?" 1139 00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:36,240 I understand that, darling, but I was... 1140 00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:37,640 I was diplomatic in the way that I answered 1141 00:47:37,720 --> 00:47:39,440 Because I don't want to give a yes or a no. 1142 00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:40,600 Why are you snickering? 1143 00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:42,040 Because I feel like you're... 1144 00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:44,760 I feel like you're blaming my family's questions. 1145 00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:50,240 If you if you liked me enough or saw a future with me, 1146 00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:51,840 questions wouldn't throw you off. 1147 00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:53,920 It didn't throw me off. I answered them. 1148 00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:55,520 I didn't want to say yes or no. 1149 00:47:57,400 --> 00:47:58,960 TEEJAY: I'm in a bit of a seesaw at the moment. 1150 00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:00,880 There's parts of me that wants to try, 1151 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,280 and there's parts of me that says I haven't felt my emotions grow 1152 00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:04,880 in the past fortnight. 1153 00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:08,040 So, I don't want to give a yes or a no 1154 00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:10,440 because that ends or closes the conversation. 1155 00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:14,880 We're still trying to work out whether this is 1156 00:48:14,960 --> 00:48:16,600 a really good friendship or a relationship, 1157 00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:17,680 and I just don't think that it's... 1158 00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:19,560 Well, friends don't have sex. Totally. 1159 00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:21,840 And I feel like you've really switched. 1160 00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:24,640 I'm still here because I like you. 1161 00:48:24,720 --> 00:48:26,600 I'm here for the same reason. We've built... 1162 00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:28,960 We get along so well. Our banter is amazing. 1163 00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:30,720 We've proved that we're honest we're loyal. 1164 00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:34,320 To me, to throw that away is stupid. 1165 00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:36,360 But, babe, you asked me for a yes or a no. 1166 00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:38,440 You said, "So it's a no, then?" That's what your answer was to me. 1167 00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:41,680 All I wanted to know was if you wanted to continue on the outside. 1168 00:48:41,720 --> 00:48:42,720 That's it. 1169 00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:44,760 Babe, I said I can't give you that answer right now. 1170 00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:46,760 See, and that's what hurt is you can't give me that answer. 1171 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:48,840 You said, "I want to give you 100%..." 1172 00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:49,960 You should be able to say, 1173 00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:52,440 "Yes, I want to continue on the outside and get to know you," 1174 00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:54,040 and you couldn't answer it. 1175 00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:56,400 You couldn't answer it. 1176 00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:57,920 (FRAUGHT MUSIC) 1177 00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:00,760 He's able to be asked a yes or no question, 1178 00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:02,200 "Do you see a future in this?" 1179 00:49:02,240 --> 00:49:03,440 And he can't answer it, 1180 00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:05,360 and then he's able to blame that 1181 00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:07,440 on the person that's asked the question. 1182 00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:08,880 It is very frustrating. 1183 00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:10,440 If you're trying to communicate 1184 00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:13,640 and you're not getting clear answers to a very direct question, 1185 00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:15,440 it makes her doubt her position. 1186 00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:18,240 So, once again, her insecurities are playing in, 1187 00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:21,680 and you see that hint of desperation because she does like him. 1188 00:49:21,720 --> 00:49:22,720 Yeah. 1189 00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:28,480 Still to come... 1190 00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,920 Can Teejay give a straight answer... 1191 00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:32,600 Why are you still here? 1192 00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:34,880 Well, it's a dinner party but, like... 1193 00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:35,920 Oh, (BLEEP) me. 1194 00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:37,120 And later... 1195 00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,640 Ryan, I'm not going to sit there and listen to you do things 1196 00:49:39,720 --> 00:49:42,560 that I see as, like, below the standard. 1197 00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,880 Oh, I've heard enough about your standards. 1198 00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:48,680 Is this the end of the road for Jacqui and Ryan? 1199 00:49:48,720 --> 00:49:50,160 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1200 00:49:50,240 --> 00:49:52,240 Why don't you want to be someone great? 1201 00:49:53,720 --> 00:49:55,360 (MUSIC FADES) 1202 00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:01,000 (TENSE MUSIC) 1203 00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:02,080 TEEJAY: 100%... 1204 00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:03,200 You should be able to say, 1205 00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,600 "Yes, I want to continue on the outside and get to know you," 1206 00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:07,200 and you couldn't answer it. 1207 00:50:08,200 --> 00:50:09,640 You couldn't answer it. 1208 00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:14,160 Are you willing to keep trying within this experiment? 1209 00:50:15,600 --> 00:50:17,640 ADRIAN: She needs to know how you feel, bro, about her. 1210 00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:20,120 I can't answer that right now, I really can't. 1211 00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:22,680 See? This is what I (BLEEP) mean, He can't give an answer. 1212 00:50:22,720 --> 00:50:23,920 Ever. 1213 00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:26,600 Look at how you're, like, addressing me. 1214 00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:28,880 You...twice today, you didn't have your wedding ring on. 1215 00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:32,480 Because I was emotional to you 'cause (BLEEP) like you, that's why. 1216 00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:33,960 I like you too, darling. 1217 00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,560 (TENSE MUSIC) 1218 00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:47,200 All I wanted from you was to know that you liked me 1219 00:50:47,240 --> 00:50:48,360 just a little bit, 1220 00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:51,320 enough to actually want to progress this on the outside. 1221 00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:52,760 That is not what you said, darling. 1222 00:50:54,240 --> 00:50:56,200 Take a shot every time Teejay says "darling". 1223 00:50:56,240 --> 00:50:58,760 (QUIZZICAL MUSIC) 1224 00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:00,000 You never asked me 1225 00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:02,160 if I wanted to keep trying in this experiment, darling. 1226 00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:05,520 Oh, drink. 1227 00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:07,360 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1228 00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:08,800 I don't know, I just... 1229 00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:10,600 I want to know, why are you still here 1230 00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:13,360 and why did you come to homestays if you don't see a future with me? 1231 00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:15,920 I... I want a perspective on our relationship, darling. 1232 00:51:15,960 --> 00:51:18,800 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1233 00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:21,040 Darling! 1234 00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:23,240 You're blaming questions. I feel like you're just using... 1235 00:51:23,320 --> 00:51:24,680 Because it's a yes or a no... ..excuses. 1236 00:51:24,720 --> 00:51:26,040 Darling, it's not an excuse. 1237 00:51:26,080 --> 00:51:27,280 Cheers. 1238 00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:29,400 (LAUGHTER) 1239 00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:32,320 I...if I don't know what to do, then I don't know what to do, darling. 1240 00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:33,520 Way! 1241 00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:37,200 Right now, do you want to work on it? 1242 00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:39,920 And it doesn't matter what the answer is 1243 00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:41,120 'cause I just need to hear it. 1244 00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:44,040 I need to know, like, why are you still here? 1245 00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:46,200 Well, it's a dinner party but, like... 1246 00:51:46,240 --> 00:51:47,400 Oh, (BLEEP) me. 1247 00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:48,720 Well, you just... 1248 00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:50,440 Whatever, I can't be arsed. 1249 00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:52,280 You're being so petty right now, seriously. 1250 00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:53,320 Are you kidding me? 1251 00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:54,840 You've never asked yes or no questions. 1252 00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:56,080 See, this is the point. 1253 00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:58,240 You don't understand what I'm (BLEEP) saying. 1254 00:51:58,280 --> 00:51:59,640 You really (BLEEP) don't. 1255 00:51:59,720 --> 00:52:01,360 But, darling, darling, what I'm saying is 1256 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:02,960 I'm not blaming the questions, darling. 1257 00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:04,080 Darling. 1258 00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:06,440 (PLAYFUL MUSIC) 1259 00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:09,920 That's, like, 133 darlings too many. Mm-hm. 1260 00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:12,960 I'm just (BLEEP) in the head right now. 1261 00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:14,240 I'm a bit mind(BLEEP, to be honest. 1262 00:52:14,320 --> 00:52:16,640 I just need him to, like, just be straight up, 1263 00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:18,240 be blunt and tell me how you feel. 1264 00:52:20,680 --> 00:52:22,920 (BLEEP) hell. 1265 00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,520 What a shitshow. 1266 00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,000 Sorry, boys and girls. 1267 00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:30,960 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 1268 00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:32,400 Hello. Hello. 1269 00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:34,400 Is anyone sitting here? No, you. 1270 00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:39,240 Erm... 1271 00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:41,800 I mean, I guess that was a lot, wasn't it? 1272 00:52:41,840 --> 00:52:42,920 A little bit. 1273 00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:44,120 Yeah. 1274 00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:48,320 I guess I just want to know, like, obviously, we are nearing the end. 1275 00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:50,400 Are you wanting to work on this on the outside? 1276 00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:51,480 And you didn't say yes. 1277 00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:54,200 So, to me, that means you're not really sure. 1278 00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:57,600 But why do I need to give a yes or a no right now? 1279 00:52:57,680 --> 00:52:58,960 Like I feel claustrophobic with that. 1280 00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:00,600 (TENSE MUSIC) 1281 00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:02,800 Well, they are at a crossroads, aren't they? 1282 00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:06,040 Tonight's been really difficult for Teejay and Beth. 1283 00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:08,880 She's saying quite clearly 1284 00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:10,680 that there is something still there for her. 1285 00:53:10,720 --> 00:53:11,800 Yeah. 1286 00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:14,400 And I think the problem here is he's not saying, 1287 00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:15,800 "Yes, I'm into you." 1288 00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:17,480 Exactly. Or, "No, I'm not." 1289 00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:23,320 So, she still has that little morsel of hope that it could work out. 1290 00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:28,960 It's OK if you are, but I do feel like you're very checked out. 1291 00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:32,040 And I get that you don't know where your head's at, 1292 00:53:32,080 --> 00:53:33,360 and that's so fine. 1293 00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:36,840 But, like, I... I'll be honest. 1294 00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:38,760 I don't want to leave, I really don't. 1295 00:53:38,800 --> 00:53:40,120 Then write 'stay'. 1296 00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:42,120 But I don't want to keep you here if you don't... 1297 00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:44,280 You're not going to keep me here beyond my... 1298 00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:45,920 Like, you're not kidnapping me. 1299 00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:49,960 I know, but what I'm saying is I don't want to write 'stay' if you... 1300 00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:51,840 I won't be upset if you write 'stay'. 1301 00:53:51,880 --> 00:53:54,400 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 1302 00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:57,760 But I can't write 'stay' if you want to leave. 1303 00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:00,520 If you don't want to be here, that's so fine. 1304 00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:01,680 I just need to... 1305 00:54:01,720 --> 00:54:02,960 I just need to hear it. 1306 00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,400 I just don't want to rush something right now. 1307 00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:09,160 Like, I just need to process for a bit. 1308 00:54:09,200 --> 00:54:10,480 Sure, of course. 1309 00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:11,800 That's not me saying no. 1310 00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:13,360 Mm-hm, of course, yeah. 1311 00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:17,000 It was good to talk to Teejay away from the table. 1312 00:54:17,040 --> 00:54:19,280 I mean, it helped me. 1313 00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:22,200 Obviously, I told Teejay I want to stay in this experiment. 1314 00:54:22,240 --> 00:54:24,240 It felt good to get it off my chest. 1315 00:54:24,280 --> 00:54:25,360 All right. 1316 00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:32,040 (UNSETTLING MUSIC) 1317 00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:43,320 I mean, it would have been nice 1318 00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:45,600 to hear that Teejay still wanted to stay, 1319 00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:47,880 but he said his head's all over the place. 1320 00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:49,920 He's unsure how he feels. 1321 00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:52,880 Me too. 1322 00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:55,800 And that's so fine. 1323 00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:57,400 If that's where he's at, that's where he's at. 1324 00:54:57,480 --> 00:54:59,840 But... and he didn't sit there and say, 1325 00:54:59,920 --> 00:55:01,880 "Nah, we're writing leave. I'm going." 1326 00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:03,600 So, that's a positive sign. 1327 00:55:04,240 --> 00:55:07,200 It's up to him, you know? We will see. 1328 00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:13,240 (MUSIC FADES) 1329 00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:20,080 (SOFT MUSIC) 1330 00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:25,040 (LAUGHTER) 1331 00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:30,520 PAUL: So, your...your homestay, you two went well, then? 1332 00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:31,760 Yeah, it was so good. 1333 00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:34,360 He gave me a house key which was a bit cute. 1334 00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:35,560 No way! 1335 00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:38,160 Oh, that's actually... that means that means a lot. 1336 00:55:38,240 --> 00:55:40,320 I know. That's (BLEEP)... all right. 1337 00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:42,200 He's like, "Come over as much as possible." 1338 00:55:42,240 --> 00:55:43,520 I'm like, "Thank you." 1339 00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:44,680 That's awesome. So...yeah. 1340 00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:47,960 I don't think we've ever seen a homestay 1341 00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:50,080 result in the handing over of the key. 1342 00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:51,360 Yeah, that's big-time. I know. 1343 00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:52,800 That's a big deal. 1344 00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:55,320 Did you hear that, by the way? She got a key from Jeff. 1345 00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:57,280 CARINA: What the hell? No! Yeah. 1346 00:55:57,360 --> 00:55:59,200 Oh, my God. I love that. 1347 00:55:59,240 --> 00:56:00,560 Guys, that's really sweet. 1348 00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:01,880 (LAUGHTER) 1349 00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:03,480 That's super special. 1350 00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:05,840 Yeah, yeah, it feels like... Happy for you two. 1351 00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:08,400 Made me really excited for after the experiment. 1352 00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:09,680 After the experiment, yeah. Yeah. 1353 00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:11,440 Yeah, it was really nice. And it just... 1354 00:56:11,520 --> 00:56:14,720 Yeah, it just confirmed that, like, our relationship will work 1355 00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:15,880 outside of the experiment. 1356 00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:17,080 No doubt. It was really nice. 1357 00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:18,120 Of course. Yeah. 1358 00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:19,160 It was the same for us, 1359 00:56:19,240 --> 00:56:21,200 like, the homestay just made me feel so secured. 1360 00:56:21,240 --> 00:56:22,240 Yeah. 1361 00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:24,600 So reassured for, like, continuing this on the outside. 1362 00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:25,880 Yeah. 1363 00:56:25,960 --> 00:56:27,720 That's really nice. Incredible. 1364 00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:33,760 It's actually quite lovely to watch, isn't it? 1365 00:56:33,840 --> 00:56:35,760 At this end of the table, we've got Rhi and Jeff, 1366 00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:37,680 we've got Karina and Paul, 1367 00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:39,760 all reflecting on how well things are going. 1368 00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:44,000 It's beautiful. It is. 1369 00:56:50,360 --> 00:56:53,240 (BOISTEROUS LAUGHTER) 1370 00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:05,920 Particularly... 1371 00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:11,640 I can see that Ryan's hurting, 1372 00:57:11,720 --> 00:57:14,120 whatever it was that I did to hurt him. 1373 00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:23,640 (SOFT MUSIC) 1374 00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:26,080 I think, like, I know that the letter I wrote was quite mean 1375 00:57:26,160 --> 00:57:30,320 and not mean, but it was, like, a hard truth to hear, probably, 1376 00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:33,080 and I feel pretty sad that I've hurt Ryan. 1377 00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:35,400 Um, I didn't realise he was hurting so much. 1378 00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:41,400 I just wish he could talk to me and communicate normally, 1379 00:57:41,480 --> 00:57:44,080 and currently it sucks because I'm getting a stone wall. 1380 00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:45,120 Like, I'm... 1381 00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:48,000 I'm trying to get through to him but he's really just checked out. 1382 00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:51,800 I don't want to lose Ryan. 1383 00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:53,480 I don't want to lose Ryan as a friend. 1384 00:57:53,560 --> 00:57:56,120 I...like, you know, I'm genuinely trying to build 1385 00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:58,080 the best relationship I can with this man. 1386 00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:03,520 AWHINA: The only reason you've got that to lean on 1387 00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:06,760 is because Beth has it in her to instantly put blame on herself. 1388 00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:07,960 Teejay, how do you think Beth...? 1389 00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:12,320 What more could she give you for you to feel like she has...? 1390 00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:16,760 Please? 1391 00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:20,200 (DEEP EXHALE) 1392 00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:22,840 (TENSE MUSIC) 1393 00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:27,480 TEEJAY: I'm asking what more I can do. 1394 00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:29,560 You're saying there's more I can do and you don't... 1395 00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:32,080 BETH: I tried to communicate... 1396 00:58:32,120 --> 00:58:33,400 JACQUI: I feel like I'm losing Ryan. 1397 00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,840 I feel like he's really throwing in the towel. 1398 00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:39,520 So, it makes me sad that, like, 1399 00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:42,160 this has potentially caused the end of our relationship 1400 00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:43,880 is a silly fight with his friends. 1401 00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:49,480 You mentioned the tipping point earlier, 1402 00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:50,600 and I think you're right. 1403 00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:54,800 He's flipped over the hill and he's now very detached. 1404 00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:57,160 And I think she's just cottoned on to it. 1405 00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:58,360 Yeah. 1406 00:58:58,440 --> 00:59:02,640 And, interestingly, now Jacqui starts to soften. 1407 00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:04,760 Well, she realises he's serious. 1408 00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:08,040 She's desperately trying to hang on to the relationship. 1409 00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:10,120 She realises it's slipping through her fingers. 1410 00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:13,840 (TENSE MUSIC FADES) 1411 00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:17,480 OK, can I ask three questions? 1412 00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:20,360 Are you sorry for what Adam and Carla did? 1413 00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:23,360 Are you sorry for not standing up for me in the moment? 1414 00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:24,480 No. 1415 00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:27,280 (UNSETTLING MUSIC) 1416 00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:31,520 Do you understand why their behaviour was wrong, like, the tone? 1417 00:59:31,600 --> 00:59:34,120 Those are my best mates and they mean more to me than you. 1418 00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:36,640 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1419 00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:39,960 Ryan, I found that really traumatic. 1420 00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:44,400 That was a really bad experience for me and I'm still not over it. 1421 00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:49,440 I came into tonight just wanting to, like, ask for an apology from you 1422 00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:51,960 and to get you to say that you'll make it up to me 1423 00:59:52,000 --> 00:59:53,320 for not standing up for me 1424 00:59:53,400 --> 00:59:55,400 because it really cut me deep, that experience. 1425 00:59:56,680 --> 00:59:59,560 Jacqui, you said horrible things about me. 1426 00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:02,880 It doesn't... regardless of what I said, you don't do that. 1427 01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:07,400 Ryan, I'm doing this for the better of both of us. 1428 01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:10,640 No...no woman deserves to be yelled at, Ryan. 1429 01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:12,800 Jacqui... I'm doing you a favour. 1430 01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:13,840 I'm doing... 1431 01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:15,440 How the (BLEEP) are you doing me a favour? 1432 01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:18,280 Because it's....it's like giving you the opportunity to work on it. 1433 01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:20,200 That's it, I don't like the way you speak to me 1434 01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:21,720 when you say that kind of stuff, as well. 1435 01:00:21,800 --> 01:00:24,280 "This is a coachable moment. This is an opportunity to work on it." 1436 01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:26,640 Ryan, I'm not going to sit there and listen to you do things 1437 01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:30,320 that I see as, like, just below the standard. 1438 01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:32,640 Oh, I've heard enough about your standards. 1439 01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:34,600 I'm allowed high standards. 1440 01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:36,280 I've heard enough. 1441 01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:38,680 Why don't you want to be someone great? 1442 01:00:40,440 --> 01:00:41,680 Wow. 1443 01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:43,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1444 01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:44,440 Ooh. Oh! 1445 01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:46,880 (SHOCKED GASP) Wow. 1446 01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:49,920 (MUSIC BUILDS) 1447 01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:51,560 (DRAMATIC BOOM) 1448 01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:56,640 (TENSE MUSIC) 1449 01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:01,160 Why don't you want to be someone great? 1450 01:01:02,800 --> 01:01:04,000 Wow. 1451 01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:07,080 Ooh. Oh! 1452 01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:09,240 (SHOCKED GASP) Wow. 1453 01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:14,400 Why don't I want to be someone great? 1454 01:01:14,480 --> 01:01:17,200 You see how that's insulting, right, don't you? 1455 01:01:18,200 --> 01:01:19,280 Why do you want...? 1456 01:01:19,320 --> 01:01:21,400 Why don't you want to be someone 1457 01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:24,800 who's on a level where they're approachable and want...? 1458 01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:26,200 I do want to be on a level. 1459 01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:27,680 I really do. 'Cause you're (BLEEP) not. 1460 01:01:27,720 --> 01:01:30,280 (DISCONCERTING MUSIC) 1461 01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:35,080 You are judgemental or you're hypercritical 1462 01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:37,200 or you're hypersensitive. 1463 01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:39,760 I'm not happy being here with you. 1464 01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:46,680 I'm telling you what I needed from you tonight. 1465 01:01:46,760 --> 01:01:48,560 I need to know what you want from me. 1466 01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:50,480 I want something you can't give me. 1467 01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:51,720 Which is? 1468 01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:53,040 Acceptance. 1469 01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:54,720 I do accept you. No, you don't. 1470 01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:55,880 I think you're confused. 1471 01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:57,960 You do not accept me because you're always making lists. 1472 01:01:58,000 --> 01:01:59,080 Ryan, I'm accepting you. 1473 01:02:00,240 --> 01:02:02,440 OK, yeah, maybe I've changed your dress a little bit, 1474 01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:04,520 but, like, you look good. 1475 01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:05,800 (JACQUI GIGGLES) 1476 01:02:05,840 --> 01:02:07,560 (TENSE MUSIC) 1477 01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:09,440 Jacqui, I need to say something to you, right? 1478 01:02:09,480 --> 01:02:10,600 Yeah. 1479 01:02:11,400 --> 01:02:12,760 And it's OK. 1480 01:02:12,800 --> 01:02:14,040 And it's OK. 1481 01:02:14,120 --> 01:02:20,200 You don't like me for who I am, and that is fine. 1482 01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:23,520 I love myself. I'm confident in myself. 1483 01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:26,200 I have an amazing life, right, 1484 01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:29,920 and your influence on it at the moment is destructive 1485 01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:32,840 because you're trying to change it. 1486 01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:34,680 That's not what a relationship is. 1487 01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:37,200 But you came here to learn. 1488 01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:38,800 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1489 01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:39,960 I'm exhausted. 1490 01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:41,640 I'm exhausted trying to get through to her, 1491 01:02:41,680 --> 01:02:42,720 trying to get through to her. 1492 01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:44,280 I'm exactly what you asked for. No. 1493 01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:46,640 Someone independent, ambitious, goal-oriented... 1494 01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:48,120 And she's not hearing it. 1495 01:02:48,160 --> 01:02:49,800 I am, like, basically, your Eve. 1496 01:02:49,840 --> 01:02:51,400 You're the Adam. I'm the Eve. 1497 01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:53,240 I was brought here to you. 1498 01:02:57,560 --> 01:02:59,120 (JACQUI CHUCKLES) 1499 01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:03,400 (DEEP EXHALE) 1500 01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:08,320 Jacqui's really trying her best to, like, rebuild us. 1501 01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:14,880 Is there anything worth salvaging here? 1502 01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:17,080 (TENSE MUSIC) 1503 01:03:17,160 --> 01:03:21,600 Is there anything here that you want to spend more time with? 1504 01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:24,160 Jesus wept, Jacqui. 1505 01:03:24,240 --> 01:03:27,560 I'm like, "Are you serious? Is this what you really want?" 1506 01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:31,600 Do you really want to go through more of this? 1507 01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:33,920 Because I don't. I really don't. 1508 01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:39,600 You don't want to spend any more time on this? 1509 01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:43,600 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC, DEEP EXHALE) 1510 01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:50,200 I can't salvage it. 1511 01:03:52,960 --> 01:03:54,480 Wow. 1512 01:03:54,560 --> 01:03:57,120 I think she's starting to have this realisation that, 1513 01:03:57,160 --> 01:03:58,520 "I've pushed him too far." 1514 01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:00,000 It's a little panic. Yeah. 1515 01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:01,440 From her. 1516 01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:02,760 Jacqui, can I ask you, 1517 01:04:02,840 --> 01:04:04,880 this is something I need to know about you as a person. 1518 01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:05,960 Yeah. 1519 01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:08,040 When you're looking at your potential partner, 1520 01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:10,760 when you're looking at your boyfriend, looking at your husband, 1521 01:04:10,800 --> 01:04:12,960 do you always have to make a list? 1522 01:04:14,440 --> 01:04:19,040 Wouldn't you rather find someone that meets your high standards? 1523 01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:22,800 There's no-one out there that meets my standards. 1524 01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:23,960 (SIGHS) 1525 01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:25,800 Well... 1526 01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:28,520 You need to ease the (BLEEP) up 1527 01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:31,560 because us criticising each other 1528 01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:34,040 and feeling like we need to have things in our head 1529 01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:36,360 to say to each other when we next see each other 1530 01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:39,720 just to prove a point, it's such a hostile environment. 1531 01:04:41,640 --> 01:04:43,880 I'm not doing that. It's just you. 1532 01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:47,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1533 01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:49,800 And that's what upsets me 1534 01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:52,160 is, like, you say these things and it's just not true. 1535 01:04:52,200 --> 01:04:53,480 I do validate your feelings. 1536 01:04:53,520 --> 01:04:54,720 I am accepting you. 1537 01:04:54,760 --> 01:04:56,280 I don't think I'm better than you. 1538 01:04:56,320 --> 01:04:58,440 And, like, I'm trying so hard. 1539 01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:00,400 (CHUCKLES) 1540 01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:02,280 I can't... I can't do this, Jacqui. 1541 01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:05,040 (TENSE MUSIC) 1542 01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:07,040 I'm exhausted mentally. 1543 01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:10,000 I'm sorry you're exhausted. 1544 01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:12,600 I, like, honestly, I thought I was done 1545 01:05:12,640 --> 01:05:14,480 coming into tonight but, like... 1546 01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:19,200 It was because I just thought Ryan was completely in the wrong. 1547 01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:21,840 And now, after spending time with him and hearing that, actually, 1548 01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:23,280 he's hurting because of me, 1549 01:05:23,360 --> 01:05:25,680 it made me want to, like, keep working on the relationship. 1550 01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:28,480 I'm sorry that little letter is still hurting you. 1551 01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:30,760 (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC) 1552 01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:33,760 I didn't mean to hurt you. 1553 01:05:36,080 --> 01:05:37,760 I think it just hurts because, like, 1554 01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:42,040 I feel like I drove him away from trying so hard, 1555 01:05:42,120 --> 01:05:45,240 and I feel like the effort I put into the relationship 1556 01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:47,840 and me being honest is what drove him away. 1557 01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:49,840 I'm sorry, 1558 01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:52,440 and I'm sorry for telling you how your house should be run. 1559 01:05:52,480 --> 01:05:53,640 I am. 1560 01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:56,520 I'm sorry I have hurt you. 1561 01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:58,600 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1562 01:05:58,640 --> 01:06:01,480 I can't believe I'm losing Ryan. 1563 01:06:01,520 --> 01:06:03,480 (DRAMATIC BOOM) 1564 01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:09,600 (SOFT, DISQUIETING MUSIC) 1565 01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:15,760 I don't lose people. 1566 01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:17,640 People lose me. 1567 01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:20,600 (ETHEREAL MUSIC) 1568 01:06:20,640 --> 01:06:22,840 NARATOR: Sunday night... 1569 01:06:23,720 --> 01:06:28,120 It's the final commitment ceremony of the experiment. 1570 01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:32,760 JOHN: The very last opportunity to get feedback from the experts 1571 01:06:32,840 --> 01:06:35,920 to make an accurate decision going into final vows. 1572 01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:38,600 No more beating around the bush. 1573 01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:41,440 The experts apply the pressure. 1574 01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:45,360 Is it just really as simple as you're just not that into her? 1575 01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:48,200 Tough questions... 1576 01:06:48,280 --> 01:06:51,360 Do you think Awhina could be that right person for you? 1577 01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:53,080 Um... 1578 01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:55,720 ..leads to unexpected bombshells. 1579 01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:58,440 At the moment, I don't think I'm in love with Dave. 1580 01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:01,000 And then... 1581 01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:04,480 We're having a conversation about how you have made Ryan feel. 1582 01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:07,600 The experts hold Jacqui to account... 1583 01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:08,720 As a person. 1584 01:07:10,280 --> 01:07:11,600 Jacqui, Jacqui... I'm not sure what's funny. 1585 01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:14,600 ..and they are not in a laughing mood. 1586 01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:18,600 Why are you laughing about something that is so important to him? 1587 01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:19,880 Just sit with that. 1588 01:07:19,920 --> 01:07:21,160 Now back to you, Ryan. 1589 01:07:21,240 --> 01:07:23,920 Will Jacqui and Ryan quit the experiment 1590 01:07:23,960 --> 01:07:26,440 just days before the final vows? 1591 01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:27,760 Um... 1592 01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:29,160 (SHOCKED GASPS) WOMAN: What? 1593 01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:30,200 Oh, my God... 1594 01:07:30,240 --> 01:07:32,840 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1595 01:07:32,880 --> 01:07:35,880 (MUSIC FADES) 1596 01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:39,880 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv 122603

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