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NARRATOR: Previously...
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What makes you better
than my twin sister?
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..feedback week exposed
some uncomfortable truths...
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..when Paul read back
his honestly letter to Carina.
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Did you read that part to Awhina?
Yeah.
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CARINA: Wow. Can't believe
this is what he thinks of me.
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ELIOT: Watching you two together,
I don't think it'll fizzle out.
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Fresh insight reaffirmed the positive
state of Rhi and Jeff's marriage.
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RHI: I'm really proud
of where we are
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and how we are feeling
about each other.
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JEFF: She sort of views
our relationship the same as me.
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We can both see a life outside
of this experiment together.
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ADRIAN: I'm gonna give you
some hard truths.
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If I was physically
and emotionally attracted to a girl,
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I would want to be all over them.
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But Jamie was left in shock...
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Are we having a lack of sex
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because you're not
in the love stage?
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I feel like...
Yes or no?
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Yes.
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..when Dave gave little reassurance
about his true feelings.
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You said you loved me
six weeks into this. I'm not there.
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Tonight...
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(SIGHS)
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..it's a sombre mood
at the dinner party...
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JAMIE: This is killing me.
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AWHINA: I felt really sad
seeing Jamie was by herself.
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BETH: They've been so solid. This is
just shocking, to be quite honest.
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(TAPS GLASS) Dinner is served.
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..before...
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You threw me under the bus
with Awhina.
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Are you gonna take accountability
for that, Paul?
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..Carina calls out Paul.
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That's not on me, that's on you.
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Made me feel like
I cannot trust you right now.
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Then...
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MEL: Gosh, Dave's so different.
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RYAN: I've never heard this side
of Dave before.
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JOHN: He's got a wall up.
He's detached.
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AWHINA: Who is that man?
That's not the Dave I've met.
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..Dave under the microscope.
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I'm planning a future with you
and you're telling me today,
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you're, like,
"I don't have those feelings."
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Haven't progressed for you.
When did you want to tell me that?
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Jamie bares her soul
as she fights for her marriage.
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It's... It's just a struggle
at the moment, so...
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Really?
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(CRIES)
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He's hurt me so much.
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Who am I trusting with my heart?
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That's not OK!
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(CRIES)
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(BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
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After a week of honest feedback
about their relationships,
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tonight our couples will gather
to reflect and unpack
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at the sixth dinner party.
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And for some couples, absence truly
has made the heart grow fonder.
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JEFF: Oh, you look amazing.
RHI: Thank you.
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(LAUGHS)
Wow.
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This dress is, yeah, full-on.
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You look nice.
Thank you.
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I wonder if you'll spill food
on yourself today.
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(BOTH LAUGH)
I hope not. I hope not.
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After the feedback week, Jeff and I
are in actually such a good place.
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I feel like I'm just so grateful
to be home and in his presence
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and just be close to him again.
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So, yeah, I'm happy.
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And I think feedback week
has brought up a lot of...
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Yeah.
..dirt...
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It has.
..that's been on people's minds.
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Yeah, for sure.
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Seeing Jacqui and Ryan tonight
is going to be very interesting.
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Jacqui's letter,
there was two and a half pages
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of negative things about Ryan
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and there was a lot of stuff
in there
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which would've been
quite confronting.
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Yeah, I'd imagine from what I saw
and heard in that letter,
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they must be in all sorts
at the moment.
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JACQUI: Is that with the pulp?
RYAN: It is with pulp.
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Can you make sure you, like, flip it
upside down before you pour?
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You already flipped it, though.
OK. Good.
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I've gotta admit, Jacqui's letter
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has sort of echoed around in my mind
for a little bit
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and I am pissed off.
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Just for you, I'll flip it
and this can be your glass.
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Yay! Thank you. I love the pulp.
All the pulp you want.
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Yeah. (CLAPS) Thank you. (LAUGHS)
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There's certain
character assumptions she's made
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and really harsh things
that she's said.
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"I'm concerned that you don't have
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"a stable and predictable
career set-up,
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"you financially contribute less
than I will
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"and I will be
the primary breadwinner,
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"putting you in a place
where you don't want to be.
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"I'm concerned you need
a submissive partner
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"and will only work
in a relationship with a trad wife,
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"which is a term for traditional
wife who submits on everything."
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You brought that to term into it.
Yeah.
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Oh, my god.
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Here is your pulp, madam.
Thank you, sir.
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RYAN: I know myself intimately
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and what she said
during that letter,
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like, yeah,
it's a little bit disturbing
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that she would use that language,
definitely.
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I'm really glad that we were forced
to go through that feedback.
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It was really helpful for me
to put stuff on the table
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and then have some of it addressed
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and I feel like we tend to fight
for a day
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and we kind of just get over it
and move on,
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so we're so used to kind of
resolving our own conflict
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that it doesn't really affect us
anymore.
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Ryan and I are so happy.
(LAUGHS)
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Like, genuinely,
we just get along so well.
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Jacq, I just want you to know
that...
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What?
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..I'm gonna take a while to try
and digest some of the terminology
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that you use in the way you feel.
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I actually feel feedback week
has improved our relationship.
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We've worked through issues
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and I feel like a lot of couples
don't discuss the tough issues.
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Like, planning how we're gonna have
kids together,
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where we're gonna live,
where we're gonna retire.
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A lot of the other couples
don't think that far ahead.
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I also realised when I got back here
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I actually love this apartment
with you...
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Mmm.
..and it is our home.
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Mmm.
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NARRATOR: Down the hall, one of
this year's most tumultuous couples
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are getting ready for tonight's
dinner party in separate apartments.
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ELIOT: The last interaction
with Veronica wasn't great.
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In fact, she stormed out and I've
been in the bachelor pad ever since.
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Again. (LAUGHS)
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Eliot started feedback week
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optimistic that he could improve
his relationship with Veronica
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by seeking some constructive advice
from Rhi.
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"Based on the conversations
that you've had with Veronica,
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"what is your impression
of what she thinks about me?"
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Like, you haven't made
eye contact with her...
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OK.
..and you're a bit more closed off.
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That's really constructive.
(LAUGHS)
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But Eliot was disappointed
when Veronica's honesty letter
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negatively compared him to Dave.
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VERONICA: "I don't have to prompt
Dave to open up.
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"When Dave and I have conversed,
it's effortless
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"and the communication
flows easily.
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"Dave makes me feel connected
and sane,
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"but unfortunately
I don't feel the same way with you."
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I don't know what to say.
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Veronica wrote a lot
about Dave in her letter,
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which is interesting
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when you're writing a letter
about our relationship.
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It sucks that you feel that way.
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I tried to connect with your letter
and I...
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Do you think that's appropriate,
that you're patronising me, Eliot?
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When you do that...
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Do you think that that's appropriate
that you're patronising me, Eliot?
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It turns out we still can't be
in the same room together.
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You have no respect
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and I'm not interested
in pursuing anything with you.
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You're beneath me.
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And the Oscar goes to... (APPLAUDS)
Veronica!
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ELIOT: I'm a little bit
disappointed.
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I feel like I did my best
to make this work.
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But Veronica's behaviour,
anyone would say is unacceptable.
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She has this hatred towards me.
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And so, going into
this dinner party,
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like, I feel like I'm going in
with my eyes open.
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I know exactly how Veronica feels
about me.
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Like, I don't really have
anything left to say to her.
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For Awhina, tonight's dinner party
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is a chance to get something
off her mind.
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AWHINA: Tonight, the things
that I want to voice, I'll voice.
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Carina's comments
towards my twin sister wasn't OK.
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So, yeah, I'm gonna address that.
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Do you want to go first?
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During feedback week,
Awhina learnt that Carina
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had made some disparaging
remarks about her twin sister,
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who Paul had previously dated.
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She said, "Oh, I didn't know you
would go for that kind of calibre."
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Yeah.
Wow.
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And I'll be honest with you,
this is giving me the ick.
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ADRIAN: How do you think
tonight's gonna go?
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It'll be interesting.
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When Paul had referenced
Carina saying
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that my twin sister
was in a different calibre,
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obviously that was a direct attack
to my twin sister
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and therefore me as well.
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Does it make me annoyed, frustrated?
Yes.
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What makes you think you're in a
different calibre to my twin sister?
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It was a very snobby comment.
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ADRIAN: In my world,
that doesn't stand.
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Who are you to judge someone else
when you don't know them?
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I don't know Carina enough
to call her a snob
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but if Paul's calling her a snob,
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then that says something,
in my eyes.
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CARINA: I feel a bit hurt
and blindsided
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by Paul's actions this week.
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I feel like I was thrown
under the bus.
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"Sometimes you can come
across as being a bit judgy."
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I told you about Cleo and then
you said to me that you...
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You said to me
that you were surprised
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that I would go
for that kind of calibre.
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Did you read that part to Awhina?
Yep.
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Bit of a slap in the face.
Bit of shock, yeah.
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Obviously I'm not proud
of the comment
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that I made about Awhina's sister.
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I got a little insecure
with the partner swap
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because Paul had a fling
with Awhina's sister
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and I acted out
in a little bit of jealousy
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and it was said to Paul in private,
thinking that he was my safe place.
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Yeah, I feel a bit betrayed,
but I'm not confrontational,
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so I just need time
to digest everything.
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Yeah.
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(PAUL WHISTLES)
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Wow.
You look good.
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(LAUGHS)
We match each other.
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What do you expect from Awhina
towards me?
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I don't know.
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I feel like it's not a dinner party
if there's no drama, you know,
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so...
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I shouldn't have said the words
that I said
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and then obviously now she knows,
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so, yeah, I think it's best
if we maybe pull her to her side
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and I'm going to take
accountability and apologise.
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I guess now it's out there,
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I kind of regret
putting that out there
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but now it is done, so that's it.
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Yeah.
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Carina said that she is...you know,
she's taking accountability for it,
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so I'm, like, OK, cool, happy days.
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That is literally...
That's all I wanted to hear.
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You know, so that's it.
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Shall we?
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(KISSES, LAUGHS)
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I see that she regrets, you know,
the comment that she made.
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That's it.
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So, yeah, it's all good.
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I'll be right behind you.
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JEFF: Should we hit the road?
RHI: Yeah, let's do it.
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Alright, let's go.
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As most of our couples make their way
to tonight's dinner party...
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BETH: (LAUGHS) Like a bongo.
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RYAN: Let's go do this.
JACQUI: OK.
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Oh, wait. Oh.
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Thank you.
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..there's one couple
who have yet to depart.
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JAMIE: I think feedback week
was so necessary
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because it really allowed me
to sit and think...
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and start to put the puzzle pieces
together.
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After spending feedback week
with Adrian
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and receiving
some hard-hitting truths
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about her relationship with Dave...
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ADRIAN: He doesn't want you
getting too close to him
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so he keeps his distance
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and the hardest one,
he's not attracted.
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..Jamie was left questioning
Dave's level of attraction
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and overall feelings for her.
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When it comes to building a physical
and intimate relationship,
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the areas that you need to have
that are where it's lacking.
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Because I'm so much more deep,
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I feel like sex and all those
things are connected
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to all those feelings as well.
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So, then, you're saying
we don't have that much sex
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because you're not right
in your feels.
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Yeah, I'm not there yet.
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You're in a different spot
to where I am.
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So you said you loved me
six weeks into this. I'm not there.
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(SIGHS)
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JAMIE: Since my last conversation
with Dave,
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he hasn't tried to resolve
what we were talking about,
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he hasn't tried to reassure me.
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Considering we've had
so many weeks
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of being in, I guess, a good place,
well, what I thought anyways,
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I couldn't feel further apart
from him.
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I don't know what he's thinking,
I don't know what he's feeling.
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I don't know where his head's at.
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(LAUGHS)
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Um, look, I don't know.
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It's pretty shit.
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Hey.
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Hey.
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How you going?
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Well, obviously I've been better.
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Mmm.
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Haven't really spoken.
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Thought you maybe
would check in a little bit.
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I feel the same.
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The last conversation we had,
you kind of said
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that your feelings
aren't in the same place
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and I questioned
your attraction to me,
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so obviously imagine
how I'm feeling.
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Mm-hm.
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So, you don't think maybe that
would've been a good opportunity
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to maybe validate me?
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I don't know if you want to have
this conversation here
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or at the dinner party.
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Um...
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Don't you want to try and resolve it
with me
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before we go to a dinner party?
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00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:27,720
Well, I just don't...
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00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:30,560
Yeah, I mean, if you want to
have the conversation now,
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let's do it.
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I mean...
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What is with this reaction
right now?
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Like, where is your emotion in this?
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Did you not just hear what I said?
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I'm questioning your attraction
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and if you've got romantic feelings
for me.
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Do you understand
how upsetting that is?
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00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:48,520
Yeah.
And you're just, like...
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00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:50,400
"Well, do you want to talk about it
at the dinner party?"
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What? Dave, this is...
you and me right now.
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Mmm.
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I need to know
that you're here with me.
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I just don't see it.
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I've had time to think about it all
and when it was brought up,
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when you questioned my feelings,
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I guess I was really upset by you
questioning it
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00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:09,360
and I had to ask myself,
why was I upset?
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And, you know, it's because
that they're not there.
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The feelings aren't there
as much as I thought they would be
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and the intimacy things,
all those things, I have to go...
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I went away and thought about
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why I'm not showing up
in certain ways
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and it's just not there.
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I'm not expressing
the love that you have for me...
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you know,
I'm not mirroring that back.
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00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:41,080
Oh, look, I don't hate her guts.
I don't hate Jamie. I think...
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00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:45,160
No, I mean,
I don't hate her, but I do care...
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Like, I do care about her.
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Like, the whole way through,
I do care about her feelings.
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I've looked after her
and had her back
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and, you know,
wanted to see her happy.
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It doesn't take away from that.
335
00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:59,480
Like, it's just... I'm not
progressing in any other feelings,
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00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:02,920
so, it's...yeah, it sucks.
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00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:06,600
Do you understand
your words are really hurtful?
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00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:09,480
You could say it, like,
a little bit nicer, Dave.
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00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:11,440
You could have a little bit more
tact and be, like...
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'Cause you know
where my feelings are.
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Yeah.
You know where my feelings are.
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I don't think I was rude.
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00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:23,040
Dave, there's no sort of sincerity
or, like, empathy in your voice.
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00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:24,560
Of course there is. I'm...
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These are brutal words
and you're just, like, "Eh."
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You're not even, like,
"Jamie, like, I'm so sorry..."
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00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:33,920
Nothing.
Well, this is how I feel.
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00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:42,200
Um...
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I don't know, man.
She just seemed worked up.
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I don't think there was time.
(LAUGHS)
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I'm not feeling
as strong as you are
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and I'm sorry that it's happening
like this, but I can't...
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00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:55,840
No, I'm sorry that I had feelings
for...
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If you're gonna treat me like this
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and this is how you're gonna
approach the situation,
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like, I'm sorry for myself that
I had feelings for you like that,
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because that is not the Dave
I've been married to.
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After everything, that's how you're
gonna approach this conversation?
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00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,120
And now you're just gonna come in
and just be, like,
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00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:14,240
big boy, like, "Yeah, whatever,
not feeling it, sorry."
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00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:15,840
I'm sorry if it's coming across
that way.
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00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:17,320
It is coming across that way.
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00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:19,760
Sorry if it is,
but that's how I feel and I...
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00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:21,600
Oh, my god. I can't.
I can't, I can't.
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00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:23,360
Get out.
(CLEARS THROAT)
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I can't, like...
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
368
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(SIGHS)
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(CRIES)
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Who is that person? (CRIES)
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Who is that person?
He doesn't even care!
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(CRIES)
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I can't... I want him out
of this apartment.
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I don't want to carry on with him.
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00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:03,240
(CRIES) He's not the person I know.
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00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,120
(CRIES)
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Even if you don't have feelings
for me,
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you know how I feel about you
379
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and that's how
he's gonna approach it?
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00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:22,120
What the (BLEEP) is wrong with him?
That's disgusting.
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00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:24,240
I don't want to spend any more
time in this experiment
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with someone like that. (CRIES)
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Like, he's worse
than any of the others
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because he's lied to me
the whole time
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00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:32,480
and he's pretended to be someone
he's clearly not.
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00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:35,720
(CRIES)
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00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:38,720
(SIGHS)
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00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:42,520
(BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
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JOHN: Well, here we are,
the sixth dinner party
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and what is great this week
is that they had feedback...
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ALESSANDRA: Yes.
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00:19:57,360 --> 00:19:59,680
..from various individuals
in the group,
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00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:02,880
which is always very powerful
because, like in the real world,
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hearing a different perspective
can really change things.
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00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:08,280
And for some couples,
it will bring them closer together.
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00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:12,120
(LAUGHS)
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00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:14,680
They'll hear things
and they'll just take that on board
398
00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:17,760
and it will almost create
a stronger bond.
399
00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:20,000
(KISSES)
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00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:21,360
But for other couples,
401
00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:23,720
I think, particularly
this stage of the experiment,
402
00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:26,320
it really can create
a lot of questions
403
00:20:26,360 --> 00:20:28,440
about their long-term compatibility.
404
00:20:30,360 --> 00:20:31,760
ALESSANDRA: Absolutely.
405
00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:34,800
The couples that have
some cracks in their relationships,
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00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:36,680
they're gonna be magnified
407
00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:41,160
and it's the opportunity
to take that magnification
408
00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:44,160
and either work on them
and build on it and turn it over
409
00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:47,440
or maybe realise that they're not
really meant for one another.
410
00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:53,040
So, I guess it's time to see
who our first couple up is.
411
00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:00,440
(RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS)
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JAMIE: Excellent.
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00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:14,040
JOHN: Oh, it's Jamie on her own.
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00:21:14,120 --> 00:21:16,000
It's Jamie...
Fully solo.
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00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:18,240
MEL: I don't think
we've ever seen this before.
416
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:19,920
JAMIE: Well, I guess
it's the last time
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00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:21,800
I'll probably be cocktailing
in this room.
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00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,000
May as well enjoy it.
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00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:26,720
JOHN: This is the first time
that Jamie and Dave
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00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:28,800
have ever come in separately...
Yep.
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00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:30,200
..into a dinner party.
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00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,320
JAMIE: Cheers.
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00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:35,560
JOHN: What has happened
over this week for this couple?
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00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:37,360
MEL: That is quite a turnaround.
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00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:41,480
Especially after a declaration
of love last week on the couch.
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00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:42,920
Right.
JOHN: But he didn't say it back.
427
00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,160
Exactly.
He did not.
428
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:46,560
JAMIE: I may as well make myself
comfortable.
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00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,360
Sit anywhere I want.
430
00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:52,040
Something absolutely,
absolutely blew up here.
431
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,360
(VEHICLE APPROACHES)
432
00:22:00,120 --> 00:22:04,080
Oh, please, for the love of god, be
Awhina on the other end of the door.
433
00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,440
Well, this is the epitome
of how I'm feeling.
434
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:10,720
By myself. Excellent.
435
00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:12,480
It was really awkward
436
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,480
but also, like, probably better than
spending time with my husband,
437
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:16,640
so I was, like, why not?
438
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:18,840
I mean, imaginary friends
are probably the way to go.
439
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:21,640
Less talk back, less disappointment.
440
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:24,920
Now I'm talking to myself
like I'm losing my mind.
441
00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:28,120
Just talk to a pot plant,
talk to all my imaginary friends.
442
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,280
"How are you going, Jamie?"
"I'm really good. Thank you."
443
00:22:30,360 --> 00:22:33,600
Maybe I should do, like,
a sexy pose or something.
444
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:35,920
Like, a little 'welcome'.
445
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:40,400
JAMIE: I need anyone here right now.
Like, I'm dying to see my friends.
446
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:42,400
Maybe I came on the wrong night.
447
00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:50,360
(GASPS)
Oh, hey.
448
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:52,600
What's happening?
Thank god!
449
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:56,400
Like, please be you. I'm by myself.
Oh. OK.
450
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:58,240
ALESSANDRA: Awhina and Adrian.
451
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:00,800
MEL: We have support in the room.
452
00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,520
AWHINA: You look stunning and...
ADRIAN: You want a drink?
453
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:04,560
..you're by yourself.
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00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:06,600
JAMIE: Go get a drink,
'cause it's a long one.
455
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:09,560
AWHINA: I felt really sad
seeing Jamie was by herself.
456
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:13,280
If you had asked me a week ago
who was the last person
457
00:23:13,360 --> 00:23:15,840
I think would enter a dinner party
on their own,
458
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,000
it would've been Jamie,
459
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,960
so when I seen her by herself,
it was shocking,
460
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:21,440
it was confusing and I'm sad.
461
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,440
Adrian and I actually spoke about
462
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,160
how our bed's big enough
for you to come move in.
463
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,800
It's a really, really scary day...
464
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,880
When I have to look at
my relationship and lean on you two,
465
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:33,240
then it's a really scary day.
466
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,760
JEFF: Hey.
JAMIE: Thank god, all my people.
467
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:38,040
MEL: Here's Jeff and Rhi.
468
00:23:38,120 --> 00:23:39,520
JEFF: How are we?
RHI: Hi, guys.
469
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:42,720
I'm separated.
ADRIAN: You wouldn't believe it.
470
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:45,640
RHI: You look beautiful.
471
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,440
Oh, so do you.
I love that colour.
472
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:52,160
Seeing Jamie alone was
pretty heartbreaking, to be honest.
473
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,440
Like, her and Dave have been
one of the strongest couples
474
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:55,840
since the start.
475
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,040
It's really sad.
476
00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:58,120
JEFF: What is going on?
477
00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:01,960
Obviously when I was with
Adrian, we did partner swap.
478
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:05,520
An issue that was raised which I've
kept private out of respect for Dave
479
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:07,520
is he doesn't initiate sex.
RHI: Mm-hm.
480
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:08,920
Ever.
481
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:11,920
I raised it with Adrian
and he's, like,
482
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:13,840
"Yeah, but you're suppressing
your needs and that's not fair."
483
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:15,520
And I'm, like, "You know what,
you're right."
484
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,840
As I had time to think about it,
I started connecting the dots.
485
00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:23,320
All the physical touch, compliments,
it's all me.
486
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:28,280
He's not showing up for me
romantically whatsoever.
487
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:29,760
Mmm.
488
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:34,280
And then I was, like, "Shit.
Does Dave like me?
489
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,440
"Like, is he attracted to me?"
490
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,560
So I put it in the letter
and I go to address it
491
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:44,240
and I questioned his feelings -
he was very blase.
492
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:48,160
I was waiting for him to be,
like, "No, like, are you joking?"
493
00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:49,560
To validate you. Reassure you.
494
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:51,160
Imagine having a conversation
495
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:52,840
when you're questioning
someone's attraction,
496
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,120
not once do you go,
"Of course I'm attracted to you."
497
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:56,840
Yeah, that's not good.
498
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:58,720
And then he goes, "Yeah, look,
499
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:00,680
"I think my feelings
are in a different place.
500
00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,360
"My feelings never grew.
Like, they're not there."
501
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,640
MEL: So disappointing.
502
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,520
JOHN: This just doesn't sound like
the Dave that we've come to know.
503
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,520
It does not. No.
It does not at all.
504
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:13,880
It's like a different guy!
505
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,600
It's, like, "Glad this conversation
came up"
506
00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:19,240
because it made me realise
I don't have...
507
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,520
How do you just realise you don't
have those feelings for me?
508
00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:25,680
ADRIAN: The thing is with Dave,
though,
509
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:27,840
like, everything you say on
the couch, he's never spoke up.
510
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:29,320
JOHN: No.
MEL: That's right.
511
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,440
This is all news to us.
We've never heard this.
512
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:34,680
He hasn't said that in
such a definite way before, has he?
513
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:36,120
ALESSANDRA: Not at all.
He said, "I'm building.
514
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,160
"I'm not there yet,
but I can get there."
515
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,800
Whereas it sounds now like
he's actually said,
516
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:42,040
"No, I don't have
those feelings for you."
517
00:25:42,120 --> 00:25:43,360
Mmm.
Backtracking.
518
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:44,400
"I'm not getting there."
Yeah.
519
00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:48,720
JAMIE: And I'm, like,
you didn't think to tell me this?
520
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,160
We're planning a future together.
521
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,480
Oh, he's, like,
"I was planning a future too."
522
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,080
I'm, like, why would you plan
a future with me
523
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:56,560
if you don't have those feelings
for me?
524
00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,360
RHI: Yeah.
Like, what the (BLEEP) is this?
525
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:02,920
I feel like I had real feelings
for a fake relationship.
526
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:06,520
MEL: That's a huge statement...
JOHN: Yeah.
527
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,000
..from her, isn't it?
528
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:09,280
That's essentially her saying,
529
00:26:09,360 --> 00:26:11,520
"I feel like this whole
relationship has been a farce."
530
00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:13,880
Mm-hm.
Wow.
531
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,480
JAMIE: You guys know
who you're laying next to at night.
532
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,520
I didn't know who I was laying
next to.
533
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,400
ADRIAN: She honestly
got taken advantage of.
534
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,760
This whole time, Dave has sort of
somewhat been playing the game
535
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:26,120
to look like this great nice guy.
536
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:29,720
And I'm sure he is a nice guy,
but not that nice, let's be real.
537
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,240
I respect him finally being honest
538
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:33,320
but telling me...
539
00:26:33,360 --> 00:26:35,080
I wanted this to work.
540
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:36,840
He was just like, "That's how
the cookie crumbles."
541
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,600
JEFF: I was very shocked with
what I was hearing from Jamie.
542
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:43,400
Like, Dave's my best mate
in this experiment
543
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,640
and to see what's happening right
now has just got my mind racing.
544
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:47,680
I'm so confused.
545
00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:51,160
He's given me no indication
of having no feelings for Jamie.
546
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:52,920
It's just cold.
547
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,600
Like, the turnaround
from last week to this week
548
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,760
is just hard to wrap my head around.
549
00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,600
Dave and me are, like, really tight
550
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,080
and, like, even just hearing this,
I'm shocked.
551
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:05,320
TEEJAY: Hello.
BETH: Hi.
552
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,040
Do you guys want a drink?
WOMEN: No.
553
00:27:12,120 --> 00:27:15,320
JAMIE: So, Dave and I
obviously didn't walk in together.
554
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,760
I feel like I've got, like,
the same story.
555
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,680
ADRIAN: He pretty much said, like,
"I don't care." It is what it is.
556
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,160
JEFF: Yeah.
Is it saying that he likes Jamie?
557
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:25,680
ADRIAN AND JEFF: No.
He what?
558
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:26,800
ADRIAN: No. Legit. Nothing.
559
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,000
JEFF: From what we just got then...
What?
560
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:30,240
..they're done.
They're done, man.
561
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,920
I am perplexed,
to say the least,
562
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:36,920
that David and Jamie
aren't in a good place.
563
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:38,760
They're the pinnacle
of this experiment.
564
00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:40,200
They have each other's backs,
565
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,640
they speak so beautifully
about each other,
566
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:46,720
so to see this just crack
after a few days...
567
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:50,040
it's confronting.
568
00:27:50,120 --> 00:27:52,000
I really hope you're OK.
Honestly, like...
569
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,200
Thank you. Thank you.
Like, honestly.
570
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:55,800
Are you sure you're done?
Yeah.
571
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:57,200
You'll get through it.
572
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,920
Yeah, after what
you're saying, it's just, like...
573
00:27:59,960 --> 00:28:01,200
(BLEEP) hell.
574
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:02,760
I'm, like, I just can't...
575
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,280
I was just talking to the boys
about it and just, like,
576
00:28:05,360 --> 00:28:07,320
every time we've talked about
you guys outside of this...
577
00:28:07,360 --> 00:28:08,360
it's, like, "Yeah, (BLEEP)."
578
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:09,600
That's what I mean.
579
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:11,440
Like, I thought this was, like,
someone
580
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,520
that I was gonna build a life with.
(CRIES)
581
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:15,280
Oh...
BETH: Sweetheart.
582
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,160
(CRIES)
583
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:19,920
Oh, babe.
584
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:23,280
(SPEAKS INDISTINCTLY)
585
00:28:23,360 --> 00:28:25,280
AWHINA: I've never seen Jamie
that hurt.
586
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:26,920
She was blindsided.
587
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,080
You know,
there was no rollercoaster.
588
00:28:29,120 --> 00:28:30,880
There was no build-up to this.
589
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,600
It was just, like, they were 100%
and then suddenly zero.
590
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:35,760
How would anyone feel
in that position?
591
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,560
I'm mad at that man.
I'm not happy.
592
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:39,680
I just don't know...
593
00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,960
Was I in a fake relationship
this whole way through?
594
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,040
No, you weren't. He was.
595
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:45,480
It's so mean.
596
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:47,600
It's horrible. He led you on
and I'm not happy.
597
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:52,480
Dave hurt someone who's really close
to me and I'm not OK with that.
598
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,760
I will listen
to what he has to say...
599
00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:59,800
but if I think it's bullshit,
I'm gonna call him out.
600
00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:02,640
So mean. Like...
It's... It's... It's...
601
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,760
If you didn't have feelings for me,
why don't you tell me?
602
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:08,720
Why did you not let... You could've
had your guard up, at least,
603
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:10,000
not fall in love.
604
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:11,640
(CRIES)
605
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,240
I just don't want to see him.
I don't want to look at him.
606
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,800
(CRIES)
607
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:21,480
I don't even want this anymore.
I don't want this.
608
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:22,680
(SETS RING ASIDE)
609
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:36,360
It was three pages long.
610
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:38,240
(LAUGHS) What?
611
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,080
A quarter of the first page
was good stuff...
612
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:41,360
Yeah.
..and the rest was bad.
613
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:48,000
I said, "Jacq, this is gonna
sound brutal and harsh
614
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,040
"but your relationship's
going nowhere."
615
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:51,960
(LAUGHS)
616
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:56,600
CONTESTANTS: Hey.
617
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:57,880
Hi.
618
00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,560
MEL: Oh, Jacqui and Ryan.
619
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:08,480
That's wild.
620
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,040
RYAN: Hey, how are you?
BETH: Good. How are you?
621
00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,000
Yeah, really well.
622
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:14,240
JEFF: Jacqui's letter was
two and a half pages of bad stuff.
623
00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:15,800
RHI: How about you?
JACQUI: Yeah, good.
624
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:16,920
We had a good week.
625
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:18,880
And then they walk in together
and it's, like, happy families.
626
00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:20,320
And I'm, like...
627
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,640
I literally can't believe...
628
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,680
Like, I don't even know how
they're smiling with each other.
629
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:26,080
(POP!)
630
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:41,760
Oh...
631
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:01,960
PAUL: Are you?
CARINA: Yeah, of course.
632
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,080
Are you OK?
633
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:20,160
Mmm?
634
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:29,600
Are you sure?
635
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:35,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
636
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:37,480
(CHEERING)
Hello!
637
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,200
Hi.
(BOTH LAUGH)
638
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,360
How are we?
I was about to trip.
639
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:42,200
(LAUGHS)
640
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,840
MEL: Carina and Paul.
641
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:51,400
Carina looks very cautious,
tentative...
642
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,360
JOHN: Yeah, they do look cautious.
I agree.
643
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,000
That was an unusual entrance...
ALESSANDRA: Yes.
644
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:56,480
..for these two.
645
00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:00,240
WOMAN: I think the cross is giving,
like, Kim K Dolce era.
646
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,360
I'm a newborn Christian.
647
00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,880
I had to go to church on Sunday,
say some prayers.
648
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,640
Was that your first time
since the experiment started?
649
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:11,200
Yeah.
Yeah.
650
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:14,160
Cheers.
Cheers. Cheers, cheers.
651
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:16,640
AWHINA: I think Carina's putting on
a happy face.
652
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,120
That's fine for now,
653
00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:22,560
but I don't appreciate the comment
you made about my twin sister.
654
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,080
You've made it on zero facts...
655
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:26,920
and I'm still waiting
for that apology.
656
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,440
RYAN: How was Eliot to be around?
RHI: He was great to be around.
657
00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:31,480
Yeah.
He's a really nice guy.
658
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:32,800
The place was really clean.
659
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:35,040
He brought me, like,
heaps of fresh fruit and stuff.
660
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:35,880
JACQUI: Oh, wow.
661
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:37,280
Yeah, he's, like,
"I know you're into fitness
662
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:38,720
"so I bought you fresh fruit."
Wow!
663
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:40,200
I'm, like, "Thanks."
On his best behaviour.
664
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:41,200
Yeah.
(LAUGHTER)
665
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,800
OTHERS: Hey!
MAN: Where's V?
666
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,240
JOHN: Oh, Eliot!
MEL: What is going on here?
667
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,200
I don't know.
And where's Veronica?
668
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,040
But this feedback week has not
been good for some of our couples.
669
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:53,680
ALESSANDRA: No.
RHI: Hi.
670
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:54,920
ELIOT: Hey. How are you?
671
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:56,280
Oh...
How are you?
672
00:32:56,360 --> 00:33:00,720
I'm disappointed that Eliot walked
into the dinner party alone tonight.
673
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:05,640
I feel like Eliot and I had a great
time and I tried to be constructive
674
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,720
in, like, you know, the feedback
that I was giving to Eliot,
675
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:12,240
but clearly something's happened.
676
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:15,200
ELIOT: I tried to take on
some of your advice
677
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:18,120
and, yeah, I think it actually went
the other way.
678
00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,400
After her letter,
it was, like, kaboom.
679
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:25,040
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, she packed her stuff.
680
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,920
She's gone. Anyway, here we are.
I'm sorry...
681
00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,400
No, it's...
..that that happened.
682
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:30,440
That really sucks.
683
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,440
And then Dave spent three days with
a V and his relationship's done.
684
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:35,080
She said she had the best time
in the world with Dave.
685
00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,520
MEL: Oh, here we are.
686
00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:46,840
WOMAN: Hi.
MAN: Hey.
687
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,320
ALESSANDRA: Veronica's here.
VERONICA: Don't all jump up at once.
688
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:50,600
(LAUGHS)
689
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,400
JOHN: There's a lot of solo people
in there tonight.
690
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:56,160
MEL: There are.
Two couples, completely separate.
691
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:02,760
VERONICA: Going into the cocktail
party, the reception is cold.
692
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:07,040
Eliot didn't even bother to walk
to me to come and say hello to me
693
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:10,160
and if he thinks that I'm gonna
move 100m across the room
694
00:34:10,240 --> 00:34:13,360
and he's not gonna make
the 2m step to say hello to me,
695
00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:14,560
like, I don't care.
696
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:24,760
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
697
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,480
(LOW-LEVEL CONVERSATION)
698
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:33,200
MAN: Are we missing anyone...
699
00:34:33,240 --> 00:34:34,920
ADRIAN: David.
700
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:40,960
MEL: Dave must be very anxious
about how the night's gonna go.
701
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:55,280
JOHN: Dave is gonna walk into a group
702
00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:58,800
that is ready to ask him
the hard questions.
703
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,680
ALESSANDRA:
Well, they've certainly all seen
704
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:12,160
the effect of them
walking in separately
705
00:35:12,240 --> 00:35:14,760
and how Jamie is feeling
and reacting
706
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,320
and it's clearly very heartfelt
and genuine
707
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:18,800
that she's very, very sad.
708
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:24,120
(LAUGHS)
709
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:37,360
100%.
710
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:42,280
I like Dave, but do I think
he's done Jamie dirty? 100%.
711
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:45,880
Yeah, I am.
712
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:52,960
There's so much to unpack here.
713
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:55,840
Dave definitely has a lot
to answer for tonight.
714
00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:57,560
(CLOSES DOOR)
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
715
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:04,760
(CONVERSE INAUDIBLY)
716
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,920
DAVE: Ladies and gentlemen.
JEFF: Big D.
717
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,600
WOMAN: Hey.
Are you OK?
718
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,040
Yeah.
BETH: Hello.
719
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:15,680
Looking good.
TEEJAY: You too, mate.
720
00:36:15,720 --> 00:36:18,000
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
721
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,080
Hey, Jamie.
722
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:29,080
VERONICA: Hi. How you going?
How you going?
723
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,320
JACQUI: Did he say hi to you?
JAMIE: Yeah.
724
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,920
But, like, it's so uncomfortable.
Like, I'm like...
725
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:39,840
Oh, my god. It's so uncomfortable.
Is that a window I can jump out of?
726
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,680
(LAUGHTER)
727
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:45,920
From everything I heard
from Jamie so far, it's not great.
728
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,960
But then, Dave seems like he's OK.
729
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,480
So, yeah, I just want to hear
what he has to say.
730
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:53,240
Obviously got the rundown
from Jamie.
731
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:56,800
Oh, yeah. Oh, you know, then?
I don't have to explain it.
732
00:37:01,720 --> 00:37:02,560
TEEJAY: Yeah.
733
00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:03,920
We didn't expect this
734
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:07,080
'cause we thought you guys
were so just so solid, so good.
735
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:08,840
And we were.
Yeah.
736
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:10,840
And we are. We're great.
737
00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:15,720
Feedback week,
Adrian sort of asked Jamie
738
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:17,960
are my feelings there for her
739
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:20,600
and then, when it was brought up
to me,
740
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:23,040
getting my feelings questioned,
741
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,280
that's what prompted it, was me...
to sit down after feedback...
742
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:28,200
"What am I feeling?" Yeah.
What am I actually feeling?
743
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:32,040
But, yeah, I'm not...
I'm not there.
744
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,520
DAVE: I want to feel those things
that Jamie is feeling
745
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,760
but it's just, the things that
she wants, I can't give it to her.
746
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:39,440
JOHN: Oh, there you go.
747
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:41,240
MEL: "There's things that she wants
and I can't give it to her."
748
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,120
DAVE: Like, yeah, I care about her,
so it's, like...
749
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:48,640
I don't hate the girl.
750
00:37:48,720 --> 00:37:50,880
JOHN: Oh!
ALESSANDRA: The girl!
751
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:52,280
MEL AND ALESSANDRA:
"I don't hate the girl."
752
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:53,800
ALESSANDRA: That's what he said.
753
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:57,800
Oh, gosh.
754
00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,200
"I don't hate the girl."
755
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,160
That's a far cry from
"I'm in love with you."
756
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:07,960
Wow.
757
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:13,440
(TAPS GLASS) Dinner is served.
758
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:23,400
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
759
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:57,760
JOHN: This is a bit of a frosty room.
760
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:01,920
MEL: Very, very quiet.
761
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:07,560
Feels tense. Feels awkward.
762
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,720
RYAN: I'm having a good-sized glass.
763
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:16,560
That's intense.
MAN: Yeah. Yeah.
764
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:19,520
(LOW-LEVEL CONVERSATION)
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
765
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:37,040
CARINA: There's definitely
some tension between everyone
766
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:38,360
at the dinner table tonight
767
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,960
and I'm honestly nervous.
768
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:43,640
Like, I feel like I need to speak
to Awhina.
769
00:39:43,720 --> 00:39:47,920
It is super important
that I explain my comment
770
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,480
that I made about
Awhina's sister...
771
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:56,560
and fully just apologise
and take accountability for it.
772
00:39:56,640 --> 00:40:01,320
I have to do this now, but I don't
know how she's gonna act.
773
00:40:02,720 --> 00:40:06,640
Can I pull you two aside?
Do you want to come?
774
00:40:06,720 --> 00:40:11,440
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
(LOW-LEVEL CONVERSATION)
775
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:22,360
(EXHALES)
PAUL: Alright.
776
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,800
First of all,
I want to take full accountability
777
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:33,400
for saying what I said
778
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:35,760
and it's not nice.
779
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:39,400
I'm fully aware of the comments
that I made.
780
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:43,400
They're not nice words and I...
781
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:44,480
Can I have a private chat
with Carina?
782
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:46,680
Sorry.
Yeah, that's OK.
783
00:40:46,720 --> 00:40:48,240
You can. That's fine.
784
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:54,200
We don't need an audience.
785
00:40:54,240 --> 00:40:56,200
AWHINA: Carina's calibre comment...
786
00:40:56,240 --> 00:40:58,160
Um...
787
00:40:58,240 --> 00:41:00,120
..obviously that was a direct attack
to my twin sister
788
00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,400
and it was a bit snobbish.
789
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,200
It really pissed me off.
790
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:07,560
I feel like some very real apologies
need to be said from Carina.
791
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:13,480
I just, yeah, I'm... I'm...
792
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:16,240
I take full accountability
for what I said.
793
00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:21,120
That comment that I made.
794
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:24,600
It was a rude comment, it was
disrespectful and I judged you
795
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:28,880
and I put you and your sister in
a context that's not a nice light.
796
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:32,200
I felt really upset because when
Paul obviously mentioned that,
797
00:41:32,240 --> 00:41:33,360
that's my twin sister.
798
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:34,400
Yeah.
799
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:36,000
So, when he mentioned it,
I was, like, "Oh!"
800
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,360
It was, like, a baseless comment.
It was.
801
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:39,880
I felt super insecure
802
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:43,800
when I found out
how you and Paul knew each other
803
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,120
because he didn't tell me
or care to tell me
804
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,760
that he knew a girl that was coming
to the experiment,
805
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:49,800
let alone from Perth
806
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,480
and let alone that he had gotten
with her twin sister
807
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:52,480
and had a fling with her,
808
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:56,160
so obviously there's a lot of things
that are gonna play up in my mind.
809
00:41:56,240 --> 00:41:58,760
I said that comment
in confidence with Paul
810
00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,760
and I didn't want any of that
to come up.
811
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:03,840
I was, like, "Paul, how is Awhina
gonna feel?"
812
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:05,440
Hurt. I felt hurt.
813
00:42:07,240 --> 00:42:09,520
I'm sorry if I disrespected you
814
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:13,400
and I'm sorry if that comment
just hurt you so much.
815
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,800
I didn't mean it...
I accept your apology.
816
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:17,200
And I think that you truly mean it.
817
00:42:17,240 --> 00:42:18,760
I do accept Carina's apology.
818
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:23,080
It was from a place of jealousy,
insecurity. I understand that.
819
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:26,280
And to be honest,
I just want to move forward.
820
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:28,560
That's enough sorries.
821
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:33,440
They both have issues that
they still need to work on together.
822
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:38,680
Carina's feeling very hurt
and she felt betrayed by Paul.
823
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:42,760
PAUL: How are you feeling? Hmm?
824
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:45,760
Yeah, I'm definitely...
825
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:49,160
Are you feeling a bit lighter
now that you've apologised to her
826
00:42:49,240 --> 00:42:52,000
and that she's told you
that she's OK with it?
827
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:53,640
Yeah.
Are you feeling better?
828
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:54,640
OK. Yeah?
829
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:56,440
Do you understand now, like
830
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:59,400
the reason why I was feeling
a little bit disheartened
831
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,240
at your reaction after my letter?
832
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:02,400
Because I just...
833
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:07,120
It's, like, you couldn't see at all
where I was coming from
834
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:12,160
and so, obviously, like, I felt like
my concerns were irrelevant.
835
00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:14,920
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
836
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:18,440
Which is why, like, the way
it escalated, I just... I just...
837
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,600
What escalated?
838
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:24,040
Well, the whole letter thing
just completely escalated.
839
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:28,280
You threw me under the bus
with Awhina's sister.
840
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,840
Are you gonna take accountability
for that, Paul?
841
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,880
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
842
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:44,600
PAUL: You couldn't see at all
where I was coming from
843
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:49,280
and so, obviously, like, I felt like
my concerns were irrelevant,
844
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:52,200
which is why, like,
the way it escalated, I just...
845
00:43:52,240 --> 00:43:53,240
What escalated?
846
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:56,480
Well, the whole letter thing
just completely escalated.
847
00:43:56,560 --> 00:44:00,400
You threw me under the bus
with Awhina's sister.
848
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:03,080
Are you gonna take accountability
for that, Paul?
849
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:05,400
Yeah, I did say to you... I have.
850
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:07,200
Because obviously I'm affected
by that and that...
851
00:44:07,240 --> 00:44:08,040
I know.
852
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,040
..another girl who has nothing
to do with our relationship,
853
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:14,040
that I came to you in private
feeling like I can be confident
854
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:17,160
and that's where I have my walls up
right now
855
00:44:17,240 --> 00:44:20,040
because I felt like
no matter what the comment was...
856
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:22,240
And, yes, it wasn't
the right comment and I feel...
857
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:26,400
Why can't we just leave it there?
Yes, it was the wrong thing...
858
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:27,600
Because you're still saying...
859
00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:29,800
Why do you have to say that I threw
you under the bus and everything?
860
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:33,080
No-one had to know about that
but you and me.
861
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:37,040
I came to you
and I told you how I felt
862
00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,120
and that I was insecure...
863
00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,160
Yeah, but that's not on me,
that's on you.
864
00:44:41,240 --> 00:44:42,800
It's not my fault
if you're insecure.
865
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:43,880
I just said the comment, though,
866
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:46,800
thinking that it was gonna just stay
between you and me.
867
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:49,640
And you're the one that brought this
out into the open
868
00:44:49,720 --> 00:44:53,840
and all I wanted was to have
a confident conversation
869
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:57,240
between you and me, thinking
I'm your wife and you're my husband.
870
00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:59,880
Right now, I feel like I've been
thrown under the bus
871
00:44:59,920 --> 00:45:01,200
and my guard is up.
872
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:04,680
PAUL: She probably didn't expect me
to bring it up to Awhina
873
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:06,760
but it's not like
I was just standing there
874
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:08,080
in front of the whole group
875
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:09,800
and just announcing
to the whole group,
876
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:11,240
"Hey, by the way, this is what
she said," you know.
877
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:14,920
And honestly, like,
I still stand by it.
878
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:17,600
The fact that you keep saying, like,
I'm throwing you under the bus,
879
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:20,680
that makes me feel the next time
if I have to bring concerns,
880
00:45:20,720 --> 00:45:22,040
are you gonna do the same?
881
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,200
Are you gonna bring your walls up
and are you gonna feel, like,
882
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,200
attacked or think that
I've thrown you under the bus?
883
00:45:26,240 --> 00:45:27,840
No, because you...
884
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:29,400
See, that's the problem
I have at the moment.
885
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:31,280
Oh, that's the problem you have?
886
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:33,800
As my husband, I would think
887
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:35,640
that you would just keep it
within us.
888
00:45:35,720 --> 00:45:39,120
I felt like you put a knife
to my heart and I feel like...
889
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:40,720
That's a bit excessive.
No, it's not, Paul...
890
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:42,400
because I actually have
strong feelings for you.
891
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:46,240
It's made me feel like
I cannot trust you right now
892
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,000
because I'm scared!
893
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,640
I've done everything from day one
to create that safe space.
894
00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,920
I haven't done anything...
895
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:55,360
And how do you not see that
you literally threw me under the bus
896
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,400
for another wife?
897
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:01,000
We are just not seeing
eye to eye right now.
898
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:03,640
Because of one comment
that I brought in the letter
899
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,400
has made you...get your walls up.
900
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:09,960
CARINA: I feel like right now
I can't trust him
901
00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:14,760
and it's making me question
our relationship.
902
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:16,080
Yeah.
903
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:23,560
RYAN: Mmm.
904
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:26,600
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
905
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:30,920
I'm just, like, happy.
906
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:34,520
Like, for once, like, Ryan and I
have got no drama going on.
907
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:37,360
I honestly... It sounds so weird,
908
00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:39,840
but I feel like we've got
one of the strongest relationships
909
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,560
just because, like,
we don't sugar-coat things
910
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:45,400
and we are really honest
with each other.
911
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:47,080
I actually think we're a role model
for the other couples,
912
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:48,360
whether they know it or not.
913
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:51,120
(LAUGHTER)
914
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:54,160
JEFF: Obviously I spent a few days
with Jacqui
915
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:57,560
and the things she wrote... (LAUGHS)
916
00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:00,200
..the things she wrote
in the honesty letter,
917
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,920
like, I cannot believe
they're living together.
918
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:06,280
Like, she's read that out to him
and they're still together.
919
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:09,360
Like, the letter was damning
for the relationship.
920
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:13,000
And then I see them tonight,
you know, holding hands, kissing,
921
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:16,840
like nothing's wrong in their
relationship and it's just...
922
00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:20,200
It just doesn't add up.
Like, to me, there's no future.
923
00:47:20,240 --> 00:47:21,520
Hey, Ryan.
924
00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:23,680
Hey, Ryan. I've got a question
for you, Ryan.
925
00:47:23,720 --> 00:47:25,280
Yeah, go. Go.
926
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,160
When Jacqui was reading
that letter to you,
927
00:47:27,240 --> 00:47:28,520
was there alarm bells going off
about that?
928
00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:30,480
About a few things in there.
929
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:32,560
Just for context, the letter was
about two and a half pages
930
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:33,920
of negative things
in the relationship.
931
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,040
How did you feel when
that letter got read out to you?
932
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:39,640
Well, at the same time...
He overreacted and go... (GASPS)
933
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:41,120
(LAUGHS)
934
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:43,640
You know, I was shocked
at some of the things you said
935
00:47:43,720 --> 00:47:45,560
because you used a lot of
extreme language, alright?
936
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:46,880
You accused me...
937
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:48,960
You said, "I'm worried
you don't work as hard as me."
938
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:51,080
You insulted my finances,
you insulted my career,
939
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:54,200
you insulted my...
almost my whole character, bro.
940
00:47:54,240 --> 00:47:56,840
That letter was garbage, you know.
941
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:58,960
Like, it's a distorted view
942
00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,240
and you ask anyone else in the world
who knows me
943
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:02,600
and that's not my character.
944
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:05,040
I disagree
with your use of terminology
945
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:07,960
saying, like, "Ryan needs
submission, needs a trad wife."
946
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:11,040
BETH: A what?
A trad wife.
947
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:12,800
What's that?
A traditional wife.
948
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:13,640
TEEJAY: Oh, sorry. Yeah.
949
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:14,600
It's like someone who takes
950
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:16,400
a submissive position
in the relationship.
951
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:19,720
Oh, please, like, could you get
any more melodramatic?
952
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:24,200
You know, I want to clarify,
I do not desire that at all.
953
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,120
I feel like the letter
was a great prompt
954
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,800
to get me to write down all of my
concerns that I've been having,
955
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:30,560
so I feel like the letter
worked because...
956
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:32,280
I definitely got some feedback,
right?
957
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:33,840
The letter worked?
Can I talk? Can I talk?
958
00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:36,640
That letter worked.
Can I talk?
959
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:38,480
That makes sense.
960
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:40,760
The letter worked. (LAUGHS)
961
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:43,040
Well...
962
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:46,280
ELIOT: (LAUGHS) Jeff is shocked.
963
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,760
I've actually given up trying to
understand their relationship.
964
00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:50,840
What, was I listening
to a different letter?
965
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:53,960
When you hear John, Alessandra
and Mel say they're confused,
966
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:55,280
what hope do I have?
967
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:58,560
I'm just a mere mortal. (LAUGHS)
968
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:06,480
NARRATOR: Coming up,
Jamie's heartbreak.
969
00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:09,240
Not tell me you love me!
Look how far in we are!
970
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:11,120
You have not showed up for me!
(CRIES)
971
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:12,880
No!
972
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:14,640
Dave's moment of truth.
973
00:49:14,720 --> 00:49:17,440
Dave, I just want to know, like,
do you want to fight for this?
974
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:20,360
JEFF: You want this, don't you?
975
00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,280
Like, do you want
this relationship?
976
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,600
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
977
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:35,240
RHI: Are you alright?
JEFF: Yeah, always.
978
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:39,440
MEL: Amongst all the chaos tonight,
979
00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:41,320
isn't it wonderful to see
Rhi and Jeff?
980
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:42,320
ALESSANDRA: Yes.
981
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:43,880
They're like the centre
of the storm.
982
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:47,040
Really solid,
connecting with each other,
983
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:48,360
checking in with each other.
984
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:51,840
They're really still a team.
It's great to see.
985
00:49:52,720 --> 00:49:54,880
RHI: I'm feeling great.
986
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:58,680
I'm so grateful for you.
Thank you.
987
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:00,320
(LAUGHS)
That's OK.
988
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:02,480
(LAUGHS)
You're cute.
989
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:04,080
(LAUGHS)
990
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:09,680
(BOTH LAUGH)
991
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:16,000
(TENSE MUSIC)
992
00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,440
RHI: Do you want a little bit of red
or white?
993
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:21,640
DAVE: Red's fine.
OK.
994
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:27,320
JAMIE: I just...
I don't want to look at him.
995
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:30,320
He makes me feel sick.
996
00:50:34,240 --> 00:50:36,960
The way we left this morning...
997
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:41,760
I feel like I have more questions
than answers.
998
00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:43,960
You have just broken me.
999
00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:49,520
And after everything
we've been through, like,
1000
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,040
creating this partnership
1001
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:54,880
I thought I was gonna carry
through in my life,
1002
00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:58,840
the least you can do is try
to sort it out, try to apologise.
1003
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:02,720
Anything that makes me feel like
this wasn't all bullshit.
1004
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:04,040
Anything.
1005
00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:12,120
Well, guys, I'm a little bit shocked
1006
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:14,120
to see Jamie and Dave walk in
separately tonight.
1007
00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:15,960
I don't know the full story.
1008
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,480
I'd really love to know,
because you guys seem so pure,
1009
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:20,440
so united, so strong.
1010
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:23,200
Yeah, what's happened, guys?
1011
00:51:23,240 --> 00:51:27,560
(TENSE MUSIC)
1012
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:29,600
Um...
1013
00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:35,240
From partner swap,
I raised an issue with Adrian.
1014
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:39,840
I wanted feedback on the fact that
Dave doesn't initiate intimacy.
1015
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:45,800
And he's not really showing up for me
romantically.
1016
00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:53,480
It causes concern as to how you,
I don't know,
1017
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:55,760
maybe don't desire me in that way.
1018
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:01,800
So, when I raised this conversation
with Dave,
1019
00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:05,080
I questioned his overall feelings
for me
1020
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:08,760
and then you came to the conclusion
1021
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:11,720
that, you know, the feelings
are on a different spot,
1022
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:13,520
which we're aware,
they are in a different spot
1023
00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:16,600
and that's what's impacting you
to show intimacy
1024
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:18,760
or showing up romantically.
1025
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:22,120
And then you came to the apartment
today...
1026
00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:26,360
you decided to tell me you realised,
1027
00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:28,520
yeah, your feelings
haven't progressed.
1028
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:29,880
You're not feeling it.
1029
00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:39,040
There was no emotion.
You just blanked me.
1030
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:41,480
Yeah, 'cause it was awkward.
'Cause it was awkward.
1031
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:43,600
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1032
00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:47,680
Yeah, but, like...
You can finish talking.
1033
00:52:47,720 --> 00:52:48,840
I'll tell you where I'm at.
1034
00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:57,280
Um...
1035
00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:01,280
I don't know.
1036
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:05,240
There was nothing.
1037
00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:07,960
There was no remorse,
compassion, empathy.
1038
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:13,360
You broke my heart
and you didn't care.
1039
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,760
And it made me freak out.
1040
00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:20,560
Really?
1041
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:24,720
MEL: Gosh, Dave's so different!
1042
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:27,200
JOHN: He's got a wall up,
he's detached.
1043
00:53:27,240 --> 00:53:28,880
He's checked out.
1044
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:31,160
This is not the Dave we know.
No.
1045
00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:48,320
JAMIE: Who have I been laying next to
this whole experiment, Dave?
1046
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:54,560
DAVE: OK, well, this is where
I'm coming in.
1047
00:53:54,640 --> 00:54:00,400
At feedback week, it freaked me out,
the intimacy thing being brought up.
1048
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:02,560
That's when I had to sit back
and think about it all.
1049
00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:07,400
I realised
that I can't express myself
1050
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:08,240
the way that you want me to...
1051
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:13,200
because I am not
at the level of...
1052
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:15,400
I'm not at the level of love
that you have.
1053
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:22,000
And my feelings aren't gradually
getting bigger and bigger
1054
00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:23,200
at the moment.
1055
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:33,840
We're so far in
1056
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:35,800
and now you've realised
your feelings aren't progressing?
1057
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:40,160
You're telling me because I asked you
and you've spent time away,
1058
00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:41,920
you realise you don't?
1059
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:44,160
I had to really think about it,
yeah.
1060
00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:47,760
We're three months into
living with each other
1061
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:49,400
and it's still...
It's two months, but...
1062
00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:51,240
It's still not...
OK, sorry, two months.
1063
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:52,800
JOHN: Oooh.
1064
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:58,560
When you made the comment that
your feelings haven't progressed,
1065
00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:00,680
at what stage do you mean
it hasn't progressed?
1066
00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:02,840
Like, we understand
you don't love Jamie...
1067
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:04,040
Well, it's been a while.
1068
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:06,920
I've mentioned it all the time
on the couch, that I'm...
1069
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:08,000
(BANGS TABLE)
1070
00:55:09,720 --> 00:55:12,440
Who has heard that his feelings
have not been progressing
1071
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:13,280
on the couch?
1072
00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:16,400
No, I'm not saying...
I didn't say that.
1073
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:17,800
I said I address it on the couch
all the time
1074
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:19,400
that I'm worried about my feelings
1075
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:23,720
and that I can't express the love
that you do to me.
1076
00:55:23,760 --> 00:55:26,160
What couch session was I a part of,
1077
00:55:26,240 --> 00:55:28,080
'cause that's not what you said to me
on the couch.
1078
00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:29,360
MEL: No.
JOHN: Not sure about that.
1079
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:30,920
No.
ALESSANDRA: Mm-mm.
1080
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:32,880
JEFF: Like, what we've seen,
retreat,
1081
00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:35,000
like, even going back
the week before that,
1082
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:37,040
like, it was all looking so positive
1083
00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:39,320
and then now it's just, like,
turned on its head,
1084
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:42,520
which is hard for me personally
to wrap my head around.
1085
00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:45,200
Until the last few days,
1086
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:48,000
I've seen no, like,
chinks in their armour at all.
1087
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:52,720
They've been as solid as anyone,
so I just want to know, like,
1088
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:54,840
Dave, did you actually
have feelings for Jamie?
1089
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:56,560
Like, or did you coast through
this whole time?
1090
00:55:57,720 --> 00:56:00,440
RHI: I don't know whether Dave
has just come to the realisation
1091
00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:03,080
that he's not 100% in it.
1092
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:06,720
Jamie has admitted to loving him.
1093
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:10,160
When someone's falling in love
with you and didn't feel the same,
1094
00:56:10,240 --> 00:56:12,520
you think you would say something
a little bit sooner.
1095
00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:14,360
I still care about her.
1096
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:18,640
It's... It's just a struggle
at the moment, so...
1097
00:56:18,720 --> 00:56:21,560
How are you expressing
your feeling for me?
1098
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:24,160
You don't tell me,
you don't show me...
1099
00:56:24,240 --> 00:56:25,600
That's what I mean.
I'm not where you are at.
1100
00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:29,080
How do you think I'm going to feel
when we're so far in, Dave?
1101
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:31,520
So, why are you putting a time limit
on it? I take a long time.
1102
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:34,680
It's not "Tell me you love me."
It's how far in we are!
1103
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:38,600
You have not shown up for me!
(CRIES) No...
1104
00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:41,640
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
(CRIES)
1105
00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:59,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1106
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:02,240
(JAMIE CRIES)
1107
00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:08,760
JAMIE: He's hurt me so much.
1108
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:11,360
(CRIES)
1109
00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:13,400
Who am I trusting with my heart?
1110
00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:14,840
It's not OK!
1111
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:17,240
(CRIES)
1112
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:19,000
You don't just need to be in love
with me
1113
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:20,760
to show up for me romantically!
1114
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:22,920
We've built three months together,
Dave!
1115
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:25,040
Three months and I'm planning
a future with you
1116
00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:26,480
and you're telling me today,
you're, like, "I don't have..."
1117
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:28,240
Those feelings haven't progressed
for you.
1118
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:29,680
When did you want to tell me that?
1119
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,440
(TENSE MUSIC)
1120
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:44,280
Yeah. That's what I'm saying, mate.
1121
00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:45,600
I'm being honest
with how I (BLEEP) feel.
1122
00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:46,440
ADRIAN: Yeah, yeah.
1123
00:57:46,520 --> 00:57:47,840
So how do you want me
to not be (BLEEP)...
1124
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:50,200
No, but it's not, Dave...
But who are you to ask me?
1125
00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:52,600
Like, sorry I'm not absolutely
(BLEEP) perfect.
1126
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:53,960
Like, Jesus Christ.
1127
00:57:57,280 --> 00:58:02,240
ADRIAN: I don't buy Dave and, like,
why are you getting so defensive?
1128
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:04,880
I think Dave has been feeling
a certain type of way for a while
1129
00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:08,680
and that week away from Jamie,
he really realised
1130
00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:12,440
that, yeah, Jamie is not the person
that I want.
1131
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:15,360
This is the first speed hump that
we've had and it freaks me out.
1132
00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:18,120
JEFF: Yeah.
Yeah. It's a big speed hump. But...
1133
00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:22,160
What's confusing, Dave,
1134
00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:23,640
is you sit on the couch
at the commitment ceremony,
1135
00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:25,520
you back up everything
Jamie's saying about, you know,
1136
00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:28,920
you guys pursuing this after,
potential living situations...
1137
00:58:29,000 --> 00:58:30,960
ELIOT: Yeah.
That's why we're all so confused.
1138
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:32,400
But, yes, thank you.
1139
00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:33,880
I sat on the couch next to you
1140
00:58:33,960 --> 00:58:35,600
thinking we're building
a future together.
1141
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:37,320
OK, well...
1142
00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:41,280
Who is that man?
1143
00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:46,560
That's not the Dave I've met.
There's just...with no emotion.
1144
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:50,480
To find out today
his feelings haven't progressed
1145
00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:53,880
and the way he delivered it
was without compassion...
1146
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:58,720
isn't someone who's upset
that their partner's hurting.
1147
00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:00,400
That's someone who doesn't care.
1148
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:05,440
I still don't feel any compassion
from you. I really don't.
1149
00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:09,320
I don't know who I've been laying
in bed next to.
1150
00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:12,320
I feel like our entire relationship
is a (BLEEP) lie.
1151
00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:17,560
The way you're looking at me,
the way you're next to me,
1152
00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:21,720
the way you handled every situation
is proving what I'm saying is true.
1153
00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:24,120
And that is what hurts
more than anything.
1154
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:28,440
Well, I think it's been great
1155
00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:30,360
and I've had so many
just good memories...
1156
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:32,280
I'm so glad you had fun.
1157
00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:35,320
It's been amazing. It's been great.
Yeah.
1158
00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:36,880
And I think
you're a wonderful person
1159
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:39,880
and I think you're one of the best
I've ever met, so...
1160
00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:41,720
Wow. That's really validating.
1161
00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:43,800
JOHN: It's like a guy that
wants to get out of a relationship
1162
00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:45,160
but doesn't know how to say it.
1163
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:48,440
MEL: He's sending
very mixed messages.
1164
00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:51,520
There's a little bit of hope.
"I don't have the feelings..."
1165
00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:53,480
DAVE: I want this to work. And I do.
1166
00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:55,680
JAMIE: I don't feel it.
This is your chance right now.
1167
00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:56,800
Of course you don't feel it.
1168
00:59:56,880 --> 00:59:59,280
You're (BLEEP) fuming, so you're
not gonna feel it right now.
1169
01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:05,360
RYAN: I've never heard this side
of Dave before.
1170
01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:07,640
I feel as if that those two
could've had each other's backs
1171
01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:09,480
through a winter storm, you know.
1172
01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:12,880
I saw that as, like,
out of character.
1173
01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:15,320
He's been arcing up a little bit
all night.
1174
01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:17,320
How am I supposed to believe you?
1175
01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:20,600
I feel like I trusted you
with my heart and you shat on it.
1176
01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:21,840
That hurts me when you say that.
1177
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:25,120
Yeah, it does
and I put in real feelings...
1178
01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:27,720
It hurts you when I say that?
1179
01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:29,480
Imagine how I'm feeling.
Yeah, exactly.
1180
01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:32,200
But I'm just saying,
don't say that I don't feel hurt
1181
01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:33,680
and I'm pretending to be hurt,
because it does.
1182
01:00:33,760 --> 01:00:37,240
JOHN: Oh, no.
He didn't just say it hurts him.
1183
01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:40,120
Oh, Dave. No.
1184
01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:43,440
PAUL: Dave, do you think
that eventually your feelings
1185
01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:44,960
will grow the same way...
I am hopeful...
1186
01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:47,120
..the same way Jamie
has feelings for you?
1187
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,040
That's why I've put in
all this work to get here.
1188
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:50,640
Hopeful is just a word.
1189
01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:52,240
Like, do you feel it progressing
that way
1190
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:53,440
or are you just hopeful?
1191
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:55,480
Hopeful is just a word out there,
you know.
1192
01:00:55,560 --> 01:00:57,360
I feel like I'm struggling.
Yeah, I do.
1193
01:00:57,440 --> 01:00:58,600
Yeah.
But I do have hope for it.
1194
01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:00,880
Like...
Why do you struggle, do you think?
1195
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:02,600
I don't know.
Do you know what I mean?
1196
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:03,760
I don't know.
1197
01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:06,000
When was, like, the point where
the feelings stopped progressing?
1198
01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:07,480
Oh, man, I don't know.
You don't know?
1199
01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:09,080
I don't know.
OK.
1200
01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:12,320
JOHN: Every time
they back him into a corner...
1201
01:01:12,360 --> 01:01:13,400
ALESSANDRA: He doesn't know.
1202
01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:15,960
Someone that would want it to work
1203
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:17,480
would have
a very different presentation
1204
01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:18,600
than what we're saying right now...
1205
01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:19,720
MEL: Absolutely.
ALESSANDRA: Yeah.
1206
01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:21,360
..saying, "What can I do?
I'll do it."
1207
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:22,560
Exactly.
1208
01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:25,200
JAMIE: You're about to lose me
and you're just like...
1209
01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:29,120
Well, I'm under fire at the moment.
I feel uncomfortable...
1210
01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:33,000
No, actually...everyone is actually
letting you off very (BLEEP) easy.
1211
01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:35,560
They're asking you questions.
(GROANS)
1212
01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:37,600
No-one's coming at you.
You've come at everyone.
1213
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:38,760
We're not coming at you
because we...
1214
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:41,520
..we want this relationship to work.
I'm getting questioned.
1215
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:42,560
I'm uncomfortable.
Yeah.
1216
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:43,600
So it's hard.
That's fair.
1217
01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:45,360
But at the end of the day, we're all
coming from a good place.
1218
01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:47,160
We've seen how amazing
your relationship has been...
1219
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:48,320
Mm-hm.
1220
01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:52,000
..so, like, to see it just go
down the drain now would be tragic.
1221
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:53,120
Yeah.
1222
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:54,520
So it's all coming
from a good place.
1223
01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:57,000
JEFF: I'd hate this relationship
to end.
1224
01:01:57,080 --> 01:01:59,000
Like, they've been together
for a long time
1225
01:01:59,080 --> 01:02:01,160
and they've been through
some tough stuff,
1226
01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:02,440
so hopefully he can realise
1227
01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:04,400
that this relationship
is not worth throwing away.
1228
01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:05,960
What's changed?
1229
01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:10,560
I don't know. I... Yeah.
1230
01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:14,360
ADRIAN: Dave and Veronica
are being very quiet
1231
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:16,360
about their time together, you know.
1232
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:17,720
It's got me thinking.
1233
01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:22,200
You know what doesn't make sense
to me, is that...
1234
01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:25,720
You know what doesn't make sense
to me, is you spent two days with V
1235
01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:27,120
and all of a sudden, you realise,
1236
01:02:27,200 --> 01:02:30,040
"Oh, shit, I actually don't know
if I've got these feelings
1237
01:02:30,080 --> 01:02:32,480
"for, you know...for Jamie."
1238
01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:35,880
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1239
01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:40,200
Did you spend time with V
1240
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:41,800
and be, like, "Oh, you know what,
maybe V's more my type"?
1241
01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:44,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1242
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:47,840
JAMIE: Is V more your type?
"This is what I've realised."
1243
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:56,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1244
01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:59,480
You spent two days with V
and all of a sudden you realise,
1245
01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:02,600
"Oh, shit, I actually don't know
if I've got these feelings
1246
01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:05,280
"for, you know...for Jamie."
1247
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:07,080
Did you spend time with V
and be, like,
1248
01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:08,360
"Oh, you know what,
maybe V's more my type"?
1249
01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:13,520
Oh, my god.
What are you talking about?
1250
01:03:15,040 --> 01:03:17,280
Is V more your type?
1251
01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:21,360
No. No.
1252
01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:24,920
Veronica and I
spent three days together
1253
01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:26,280
and we had a laugh and we got along.
1254
01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:28,920
And that's it.
That's not what it was at all.
1255
01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:31,760
DAVE: I feel like
Adrian's a bit of a snake.
1256
01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:35,120
Well,
asking those kind of questions
1257
01:03:35,200 --> 01:03:39,040
and clearly seeing where
Jamie and I are, it's snake-like.
1258
01:03:39,120 --> 01:03:42,280
ELIOT: Veronica said that
the two days she spent with Dave,
1259
01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:45,880
she felt more connected
than with me for a whole month.
1260
01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:47,000
It's not hard.
1261
01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:49,320
He actually looked at my eyeballs
and he was talking to me, Eliot.
1262
01:03:49,400 --> 01:03:51,200
Stop trying to make it
something that it's not.
1263
01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:58,160
Eliot was trying to imply that
Dave and I have a "connection".
1264
01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:00,520
Unbelievable.
1265
01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:04,240
Oh, yeah, not a vibe. Not a vibe.
1266
01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:08,600
Dave, I just want to know,
do you want to fight for this?
1267
01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:11,080
Like, do you see any worth
in fighting for what's there?
1268
01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:12,000
RHI: And there's no right answer.
1269
01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:14,680
Like, say actually how you feel
'cause she needs the truth.
1270
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:17,120
JEFF: Do you want this...
You want this, don't you?
1271
01:04:17,160 --> 01:04:19,040
Like, do you want this relationship?
1272
01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:21,840
Of course I want this to work.
1273
01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:28,760
You are so special to me.
1274
01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:32,720
You know who I am, you really do
1275
01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:34,400
and this is a situation
I've handled badly.
1276
01:04:37,760 --> 01:04:39,680
I really do care about you, Jamie.
1277
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:43,680
You know,
I do want to fight for this.
1278
01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:47,520
You need to figure out... If you want
to be with me, prove it.
1279
01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:51,680
I cannot carry this team anymore.
Yeah, OK.
1280
01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:54,280
It is your turn to pull your finger
out of your arse
1281
01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:57,000
if you want to be with me, because
I (BLEEP) deserve everything.
1282
01:04:57,040 --> 01:04:58,680
Yeah, OK.
1283
01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:01,240
I'm not gonna put anything into this
anymore.
1284
01:05:03,080 --> 01:05:06,760
If you're really that dead keen
on me, prove it.
1285
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:09,000
DAVE: I'll be happy to.
1286
01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:14,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1287
01:05:22,400 --> 01:05:23,600
Still married.
1288
01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:27,560
(GULPS)
1289
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:30,560
NARRATOR: Sunday night...
1290
01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:33,560
I feel inadequate sometimes.
I feel like I don't measure up...
1291
01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:36,320
..vulnerabilities laid bare.
1292
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:39,920
It's because maybe he's not
attracted to me like I am to him.
1293
01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:44,440
It's the second-last commitment
ceremony of the experiment.
1294
01:05:44,520 --> 01:05:46,600
I came here to find
my forever person.
1295
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:49,600
I wholeheartedly hope
that it's Jeff.
1296
01:05:49,680 --> 01:05:50,960
ALESSANDRA: I love that.
MEL: Yeah.
1297
01:05:51,000 --> 01:05:55,440
JOHN: Somebody over there is lying.
1298
01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:57,680
The experts apply the pressure...
1299
01:05:57,760 --> 01:05:59,280
You're lacking
emotional intelligence.
1300
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:02,280
There seems to be
a sensitivity chip missing.
1301
01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:06,240
..as Paul faces the consequences
of his honesty letter.
1302
01:06:06,320 --> 01:06:08,920
I felt like I can't fully trust him
right now.
1303
01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:10,560
Are you now questioning
whether or not
1304
01:06:10,640 --> 01:06:12,600
you and Paul are truly compatible
as a couple?
1305
01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:17,520
I didn't expect that. (GROANS)
1306
01:06:17,560 --> 01:06:19,560
And then...
1307
01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:23,360
JOHN: We spent five couch sessions
with you
1308
01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:26,040
thinking everything is going well.
1309
01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:28,160
..Dave's moment of truth.
1310
01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:31,320
Do you have romantic feelings
for Jamie, Dave?
1311
01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:32,880
DAVE: Um...
1312
01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:35,680
RYAN: (WHISPERS) Damn.
1313
01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:43,720
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