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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:02,160 NARRATOR: Previously... 2 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:09,960 What makes you better than my twin sister? 3 00:00:10,040 --> 00:00:14,000 ..feedback week exposed some uncomfortable truths... 4 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:19,760 ..when Paul read back his honestly letter to Carina. 5 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:22,840 Did you read that part to Awhina? Yeah. 6 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:26,640 CARINA: Wow. Can't believe this is what he thinks of me. 7 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:30,880 ELIOT: Watching you two together, I don't think it'll fizzle out. 8 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:36,240 Fresh insight reaffirmed the positive state of Rhi and Jeff's marriage. 9 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:38,120 RHI: I'm really proud of where we are 10 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:40,400 and how we are feeling about each other. 11 00:00:40,480 --> 00:00:42,040 JEFF: She sort of views our relationship the same as me. 12 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:45,040 We can both see a life outside of this experiment together. 13 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:46,960 ADRIAN: I'm gonna give you some hard truths. 14 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:50,400 If I was physically and emotionally attracted to a girl, 15 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:52,440 I would want to be all over them. 16 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:56,520 But Jamie was left in shock... 17 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:57,920 Are we having a lack of sex 18 00:00:58,000 --> 00:00:59,920 because you're not in the love stage? 19 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:01,800 I feel like... Yes or no? 20 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:03,680 Yes. 21 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:08,040 ..when Dave gave little reassurance about his true feelings. 22 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:11,960 You said you loved me six weeks into this. I'm not there. 23 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:15,120 Tonight... 24 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:18,080 (SIGHS) 25 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:23,760 ..it's a sombre mood at the dinner party... 26 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,000 JAMIE: This is killing me. 27 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:29,840 AWHINA: I felt really sad seeing Jamie was by herself. 28 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:34,200 BETH: They've been so solid. This is just shocking, to be quite honest. 29 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:36,600 (TAPS GLASS) Dinner is served. 30 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:37,760 ..before... 31 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:39,680 You threw me under the bus with Awhina. 32 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:42,040 Are you gonna take accountability for that, Paul? 33 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:44,680 ..Carina calls out Paul. 34 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:46,040 That's not on me, that's on you. 35 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:49,600 Made me feel like I cannot trust you right now. 36 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,040 Then... 37 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:54,480 MEL: Gosh, Dave's so different. 38 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:58,400 RYAN: I've never heard this side of Dave before. 39 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:01,120 JOHN: He's got a wall up. He's detached. 40 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:05,160 AWHINA: Who is that man? That's not the Dave I've met. 41 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:07,880 ..Dave under the microscope. 42 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:10,120 I'm planning a future with you and you're telling me today, 43 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:11,520 you're, like, "I don't have those feelings." 44 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:13,960 Haven't progressed for you. When did you want to tell me that? 45 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:18,040 Jamie bares her soul as she fights for her marriage. 46 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:20,640 It's... It's just a struggle at the moment, so... 47 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:24,000 Really? 48 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:25,760 (CRIES) 49 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:27,400 He's hurt me so much. 50 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:30,040 Who am I trusting with my heart? 51 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:31,640 That's not OK! 52 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:34,120 (CRIES) 53 00:02:38,640 --> 00:02:41,640 (BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS) 54 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:47,240 After a week of honest feedback about their relationships, 55 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:52,200 tonight our couples will gather to reflect and unpack 56 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:55,440 at the sixth dinner party. 57 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:59,960 And for some couples, absence truly has made the heart grow fonder. 58 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,680 JEFF: Oh, you look amazing. RHI: Thank you. 59 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:04,400 (LAUGHS) Wow. 60 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:06,120 This dress is, yeah, full-on. 61 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:08,280 You look nice. Thank you. 62 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:09,840 I wonder if you'll spill food on yourself today. 63 00:03:09,920 --> 00:03:11,360 (BOTH LAUGH) I hope not. I hope not. 64 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:15,200 After the feedback week, Jeff and I are in actually such a good place. 65 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:20,040 I feel like I'm just so grateful to be home and in his presence 66 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:21,880 and just be close to him again. 67 00:03:21,920 --> 00:03:24,320 So, yeah, I'm happy. 68 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:27,200 And I think feedback week has brought up a lot of... 69 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:28,720 Yeah. ..dirt... 70 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:30,400 It has. ..that's been on people's minds. 71 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:31,400 Yeah, for sure. 72 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:36,480 Seeing Jacqui and Ryan tonight is going to be very interesting. 73 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:38,560 Jacqui's letter, there was two and a half pages 74 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:41,080 of negative things about Ryan 75 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:42,600 and there was a lot of stuff in there 76 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:45,720 which would've been quite confronting. 77 00:03:46,880 --> 00:03:51,560 Yeah, I'd imagine from what I saw and heard in that letter, 78 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:54,200 they must be in all sorts at the moment. 79 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:03,880 JACQUI: Is that with the pulp? RYAN: It is with pulp. 80 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:06,560 Can you make sure you, like, flip it upside down before you pour? 81 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:08,840 You already flipped it, though. OK. Good. 82 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:10,800 I've gotta admit, Jacqui's letter 83 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:13,840 has sort of echoed around in my mind for a little bit 84 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:16,200 and I am pissed off. 85 00:04:16,280 --> 00:04:18,360 Just for you, I'll flip it and this can be your glass. 86 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:21,240 Yay! Thank you. I love the pulp. All the pulp you want. 87 00:04:21,280 --> 00:04:24,280 Yeah. (CLAPS) Thank you. (LAUGHS) 88 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:26,840 There's certain character assumptions she's made 89 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:28,960 and really harsh things that she's said. 90 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:31,160 "I'm concerned that you don't have 91 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:33,520 "a stable and predictable career set-up, 92 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:35,960 "you financially contribute less than I will 93 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:38,040 "and I will be the primary breadwinner, 94 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:40,280 "putting you in a place where you don't want to be. 95 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:42,680 "I'm concerned you need a submissive partner 96 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:46,800 "and will only work in a relationship with a trad wife, 97 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:50,360 "which is a term for traditional wife who submits on everything." 98 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:51,760 You brought that to term into it. Yeah. 99 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:52,920 Oh, my god. 100 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:55,640 Here is your pulp, madam. Thank you, sir. 101 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:58,120 RYAN: I know myself intimately 102 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:00,080 and what she said during that letter, 103 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:01,440 like, yeah, it's a little bit disturbing 104 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:03,120 that she would use that language, definitely. 105 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:07,680 I'm really glad that we were forced to go through that feedback. 106 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:10,320 It was really helpful for me to put stuff on the table 107 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:11,680 and then have some of it addressed 108 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,680 and I feel like we tend to fight for a day 109 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:16,880 and we kind of just get over it and move on, 110 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:19,440 so we're so used to kind of resolving our own conflict 111 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:21,320 that it doesn't really affect us anymore. 112 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:24,600 Ryan and I are so happy. (LAUGHS) 113 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:29,080 Like, genuinely, we just get along so well. 114 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,200 Jacq, I just want you to know that... 115 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:32,200 What? 116 00:05:32,280 --> 00:05:35,320 ..I'm gonna take a while to try and digest some of the terminology 117 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,200 that you use in the way you feel. 118 00:05:37,280 --> 00:05:40,320 I actually feel feedback week has improved our relationship. 119 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:41,960 We've worked through issues 120 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:44,760 and I feel like a lot of couples don't discuss the tough issues. 121 00:05:44,840 --> 00:05:47,000 Like, planning how we're gonna have kids together, 122 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:49,200 where we're gonna live, where we're gonna retire. 123 00:05:49,280 --> 00:05:52,040 A lot of the other couples don't think that far ahead. 124 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:54,040 I also realised when I got back here 125 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:55,680 I actually love this apartment with you... 126 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:57,720 Mmm. ..and it is our home. 127 00:05:57,760 --> 00:05:59,760 Mmm. 128 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:06,640 NARRATOR: Down the hall, one of this year's most tumultuous couples 129 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:10,920 are getting ready for tonight's dinner party in separate apartments. 130 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:14,720 ELIOT: The last interaction with Veronica wasn't great. 131 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:18,640 In fact, she stormed out and I've been in the bachelor pad ever since. 132 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:20,320 Again. (LAUGHS) 133 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:23,240 Eliot started feedback week 134 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:27,600 optimistic that he could improve his relationship with Veronica 135 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:30,080 by seeking some constructive advice from Rhi. 136 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:33,640 "Based on the conversations that you've had with Veronica, 137 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:37,320 "what is your impression of what she thinks about me?" 138 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:39,480 Like, you haven't made eye contact with her... 139 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:42,040 OK. ..and you're a bit more closed off. 140 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:43,960 That's really constructive. (LAUGHS) 141 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:48,560 But Eliot was disappointed when Veronica's honesty letter 142 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:51,040 negatively compared him to Dave. 143 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:53,200 VERONICA: "I don't have to prompt Dave to open up. 144 00:06:53,280 --> 00:06:55,360 "When Dave and I have conversed, it's effortless 145 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:56,800 "and the communication flows easily. 146 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:59,520 "Dave makes me feel connected and sane, 147 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,400 "but unfortunately I don't feel the same way with you." 148 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:03,960 I don't know what to say. 149 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:07,360 Veronica wrote a lot about Dave in her letter, 150 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:08,480 which is interesting 151 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:10,680 when you're writing a letter about our relationship. 152 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:12,480 It sucks that you feel that way. 153 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:14,600 I tried to connect with your letter and I... 154 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:17,240 Do you think that's appropriate, that you're patronising me, Eliot? 155 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:18,360 When you do that... 156 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:20,920 Do you think that that's appropriate that you're patronising me, Eliot? 157 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:23,560 It turns out we still can't be in the same room together. 158 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:25,360 You have no respect 159 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:27,400 and I'm not interested in pursuing anything with you. 160 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:28,520 You're beneath me. 161 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:33,360 And the Oscar goes to... (APPLAUDS) Veronica! 162 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:36,640 ELIOT: I'm a little bit disappointed. 163 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:41,000 I feel like I did my best to make this work. 164 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:46,400 But Veronica's behaviour, anyone would say is unacceptable. 165 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:49,960 She has this hatred towards me. 166 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:53,040 And so, going into this dinner party, 167 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:55,360 like, I feel like I'm going in with my eyes open. 168 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:58,160 I know exactly how Veronica feels about me. 169 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:02,640 Like, I don't really have anything left to say to her. 170 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:10,680 For Awhina, tonight's dinner party 171 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:13,200 is a chance to get something off her mind. 172 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:17,920 AWHINA: Tonight, the things that I want to voice, I'll voice. 173 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:22,160 Carina's comments towards my twin sister wasn't OK. 174 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:25,200 So, yeah, I'm gonna address that. 175 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:27,480 Do you want to go first? 176 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:31,520 During feedback week, Awhina learnt that Carina 177 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:35,520 had made some disparaging remarks about her twin sister, 178 00:08:35,560 --> 00:08:37,600 who Paul had previously dated. 179 00:08:37,680 --> 00:08:41,280 She said, "Oh, I didn't know you would go for that kind of calibre." 180 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:44,080 Yeah. Wow. 181 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:52,680 And I'll be honest with you, this is giving me the ick. 182 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:55,200 ADRIAN: How do you think tonight's gonna go? 183 00:08:56,560 --> 00:08:57,880 It'll be interesting. 184 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:02,720 When Paul had referenced Carina saying 185 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:04,520 that my twin sister was in a different calibre, 186 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:07,840 obviously that was a direct attack to my twin sister 187 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:09,400 and therefore me as well. 188 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,480 Does it make me annoyed, frustrated? Yes. 189 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:18,320 What makes you think you're in a different calibre to my twin sister? 190 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:20,840 It was a very snobby comment. 191 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:24,760 ADRIAN: In my world, that doesn't stand. 192 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:28,080 Who are you to judge someone else when you don't know them? 193 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:31,120 I don't know Carina enough to call her a snob 194 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:32,960 but if Paul's calling her a snob, 195 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:35,320 then that says something, in my eyes. 196 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:48,640 CARINA: I feel a bit hurt and blindsided 197 00:09:48,680 --> 00:09:50,680 by Paul's actions this week. 198 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:54,840 I feel like I was thrown under the bus. 199 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:58,280 "Sometimes you can come across as being a bit judgy." 200 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:02,680 I told you about Cleo and then you said to me that you... 201 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:05,080 You said to me that you were surprised 202 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:06,360 that I would go for that kind of calibre. 203 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:12,960 Did you read that part to Awhina? Yep. 204 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:18,280 Bit of a slap in the face. Bit of shock, yeah. 205 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:21,720 Obviously I'm not proud of the comment 206 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:24,440 that I made about Awhina's sister. 207 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:29,880 I got a little insecure with the partner swap 208 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:36,160 because Paul had a fling with Awhina's sister 209 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:40,320 and I acted out in a little bit of jealousy 210 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:46,600 and it was said to Paul in private, thinking that he was my safe place. 211 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:53,840 Yeah, I feel a bit betrayed, but I'm not confrontational, 212 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:58,000 so I just need time to digest everything. 213 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:00,480 Yeah. 214 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:04,640 (PAUL WHISTLES) 215 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:06,320 Wow. You look good. 216 00:11:06,400 --> 00:11:07,800 (LAUGHS) We match each other. 217 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:13,240 What do you expect from Awhina towards me? 218 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:15,000 I don't know. 219 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:17,640 I feel like it's not a dinner party if there's no drama, you know, 220 00:11:17,680 --> 00:11:19,600 so... 221 00:11:19,680 --> 00:11:21,680 I shouldn't have said the words that I said 222 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:23,440 and then obviously now she knows, 223 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:26,480 so, yeah, I think it's best if we maybe pull her to her side 224 00:11:26,560 --> 00:11:32,640 and I'm going to take accountability and apologise. 225 00:11:32,680 --> 00:11:35,520 I guess now it's out there, 226 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:37,200 I kind of regret putting that out there 227 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:39,720 but now it is done, so that's it. 228 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:41,080 Yeah. 229 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:45,840 Carina said that she is...you know, she's taking accountability for it, 230 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:47,680 so I'm, like, OK, cool, happy days. 231 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:49,760 That is literally... That's all I wanted to hear. 232 00:11:49,800 --> 00:11:51,360 You know, so that's it. 233 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:52,920 Shall we? 234 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:54,160 (KISSES, LAUGHS) 235 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:56,600 I see that she regrets, you know, the comment that she made. 236 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:58,200 That's it. 237 00:11:58,240 --> 00:11:59,920 So, yeah, it's all good. 238 00:11:59,960 --> 00:12:02,520 I'll be right behind you. 239 00:12:05,560 --> 00:12:07,160 JEFF: Should we hit the road? RHI: Yeah, let's do it. 240 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:08,440 Alright, let's go. 241 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:12,000 As most of our couples make their way to tonight's dinner party... 242 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:13,240 BETH: (LAUGHS) Like a bongo. 243 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:15,560 RYAN: Let's go do this. JACQUI: OK. 244 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:17,320 Oh, wait. Oh. 245 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:20,080 Thank you. 246 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:26,880 ..there's one couple who have yet to depart. 247 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:38,240 JAMIE: I think feedback week was so necessary 248 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:43,560 because it really allowed me to sit and think... 249 00:12:44,680 --> 00:12:47,280 and start to put the puzzle pieces together. 250 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:51,200 After spending feedback week with Adrian 251 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:53,400 and receiving some hard-hitting truths 252 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:56,120 about her relationship with Dave... 253 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:58,000 ADRIAN: He doesn't want you getting too close to him 254 00:12:58,040 --> 00:12:59,360 so he keeps his distance 255 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:01,880 and the hardest one, he's not attracted. 256 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:05,440 ..Jamie was left questioning Dave's level of attraction 257 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:07,720 and overall feelings for her. 258 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:11,920 When it comes to building a physical and intimate relationship, 259 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:15,800 the areas that you need to have that are where it's lacking. 260 00:13:15,840 --> 00:13:17,520 Because I'm so much more deep, 261 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:19,760 I feel like sex and all those things are connected 262 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:21,160 to all those feelings as well. 263 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:24,960 So, then, you're saying we don't have that much sex 264 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:27,000 because you're not right in your feels. 265 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:28,600 Yeah, I'm not there yet. 266 00:13:28,680 --> 00:13:29,760 You're in a different spot to where I am. 267 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:33,960 So you said you loved me six weeks into this. I'm not there. 268 00:13:35,080 --> 00:13:36,400 (SIGHS) 269 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:43,240 JAMIE: Since my last conversation with Dave, 270 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:47,280 he hasn't tried to resolve what we were talking about, 271 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:49,560 he hasn't tried to reassure me. 272 00:13:49,640 --> 00:13:53,600 Considering we've had so many weeks 273 00:13:53,680 --> 00:13:58,720 of being in, I guess, a good place, well, what I thought anyways, 274 00:13:58,800 --> 00:14:02,000 I couldn't feel further apart from him. 275 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:05,080 I don't know what he's thinking, I don't know what he's feeling. 276 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:07,440 I don't know where his head's at. 277 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:14,520 (LAUGHS) 278 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:19,400 Um, look, I don't know. 279 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:22,480 It's pretty shit. 280 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:35,800 Hey. 281 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:39,360 Hey. 282 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:40,840 How you going? 283 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:43,320 Well, obviously I've been better. 284 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:44,720 Mmm. 285 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:48,200 Haven't really spoken. 286 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:50,840 Thought you maybe would check in a little bit. 287 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:53,040 I feel the same. 288 00:14:55,960 --> 00:15:00,040 The last conversation we had, you kind of said 289 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:01,840 that your feelings aren't in the same place 290 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:04,440 and I questioned your attraction to me, 291 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:07,480 so obviously imagine how I'm feeling. 292 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:08,560 Mm-hm. 293 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:10,960 So, you don't think maybe that would've been a good opportunity 294 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:12,600 to maybe validate me? 295 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:17,440 I don't know if you want to have this conversation here 296 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:18,480 or at the dinner party. 297 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:19,760 Um... 298 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:24,360 Don't you want to try and resolve it with me 299 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,120 before we go to a dinner party? 300 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:27,720 Well, I just don't... 301 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:30,560 Yeah, I mean, if you want to have the conversation now, 302 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:31,880 let's do it. 303 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:33,760 I mean... 304 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:36,760 What is with this reaction right now? 305 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:39,640 Like, where is your emotion in this? 306 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:42,800 Did you not just hear what I said? 307 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:43,960 I'm questioning your attraction 308 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:45,720 and if you've got romantic feelings for me. 309 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:47,320 Do you understand how upsetting that is? 310 00:15:47,400 --> 00:15:48,520 Yeah. And you're just, like... 311 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:50,400 "Well, do you want to talk about it at the dinner party?" 312 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:54,360 What? Dave, this is... you and me right now. 313 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:56,760 Mmm. 314 00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:58,520 I need to know that you're here with me. 315 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:00,480 I just don't see it. 316 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:03,360 I've had time to think about it all and when it was brought up, 317 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:04,760 when you questioned my feelings, 318 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:06,760 I guess I was really upset by you questioning it 319 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:09,360 and I had to ask myself, why was I upset? 320 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:13,120 And, you know, it's because that they're not there. 321 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,240 The feelings aren't there as much as I thought they would be 322 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:19,840 and the intimacy things, all those things, I have to go... 323 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:21,680 I went away and thought about 324 00:16:21,760 --> 00:16:24,120 why I'm not showing up in certain ways 325 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:25,480 and it's just not there. 326 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:29,000 I'm not expressing the love that you have for me... 327 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:30,560 you know, I'm not mirroring that back. 328 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:41,080 Oh, look, I don't hate her guts. I don't hate Jamie. I think... 329 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:45,160 No, I mean, I don't hate her, but I do care... 330 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:47,320 Like, I do care about her. 331 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:49,800 Like, the whole way through, I do care about her feelings. 332 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:51,960 I've looked after her and had her back 333 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:54,160 and, you know, wanted to see her happy. 334 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:55,560 It doesn't take away from that. 335 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:59,480 Like, it's just... I'm not progressing in any other feelings, 336 00:16:59,520 --> 00:17:02,920 so, it's...yeah, it sucks. 337 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:06,600 Do you understand your words are really hurtful? 338 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:09,480 You could say it, like, a little bit nicer, Dave. 339 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:11,440 You could have a little bit more tact and be, like... 340 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:13,840 'Cause you know where my feelings are. 341 00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:16,800 Yeah. You know where my feelings are. 342 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:18,160 I don't think I was rude. 343 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:23,040 Dave, there's no sort of sincerity or, like, empathy in your voice. 344 00:17:23,080 --> 00:17:24,560 Of course there is. I'm... 345 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:27,160 These are brutal words and you're just, like, "Eh." 346 00:17:27,240 --> 00:17:29,880 You're not even, like, "Jamie, like, I'm so sorry..." 347 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:33,920 Nothing. Well, this is how I feel. 348 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:42,200 Um... 349 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:45,560 I don't know, man. She just seemed worked up. 350 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:47,440 I don't think there was time. (LAUGHS) 351 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:50,480 I'm not feeling as strong as you are 352 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:53,440 and I'm sorry that it's happening like this, but I can't... 353 00:17:53,520 --> 00:17:55,840 No, I'm sorry that I had feelings for... 354 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:57,560 If you're gonna treat me like this 355 00:17:57,640 --> 00:17:59,200 and this is how you're gonna approach the situation, 356 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:02,320 like, I'm sorry for myself that I had feelings for you like that, 357 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:05,160 because that is not the Dave I've been married to. 358 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:09,120 After everything, that's how you're gonna approach this conversation? 359 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,120 And now you're just gonna come in and just be, like, 360 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:14,240 big boy, like, "Yeah, whatever, not feeling it, sorry." 361 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:15,840 I'm sorry if it's coming across that way. 362 00:18:15,880 --> 00:18:17,320 It is coming across that way. 363 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:19,760 Sorry if it is, but that's how I feel and I... 364 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:21,600 Oh, my god. I can't. I can't, I can't. 365 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:23,360 Get out. (CLEARS THROAT) 366 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:24,840 I can't, like... 367 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:29,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 368 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:33,880 (SIGHS) 369 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:39,600 (CRIES) 370 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:49,080 Who is that person? (CRIES) 371 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:51,400 Who is that person? He doesn't even care! 372 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:53,440 (CRIES) 373 00:18:56,760 --> 00:18:58,880 I can't... I want him out of this apartment. 374 00:18:58,920 --> 00:19:00,720 I don't want to carry on with him. 375 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:03,240 (CRIES) He's not the person I know. 376 00:19:03,280 --> 00:19:05,120 (CRIES) 377 00:19:12,760 --> 00:19:14,160 Even if you don't have feelings for me, 378 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:15,800 you know how I feel about you 379 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:17,960 and that's how he's gonna approach it? 380 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:22,120 What the (BLEEP) is wrong with him? That's disgusting. 381 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:24,240 I don't want to spend any more time in this experiment 382 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:26,440 with someone like that. (CRIES) 383 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:28,200 Like, he's worse than any of the others 384 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:30,120 because he's lied to me the whole time 385 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:32,480 and he's pretended to be someone he's clearly not. 386 00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:35,720 (CRIES) 387 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:38,720 (SIGHS) 388 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:42,520 (BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS) 389 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:53,880 JOHN: Well, here we are, the sixth dinner party 390 00:19:53,960 --> 00:19:56,440 and what is great this week is that they had feedback... 391 00:19:56,480 --> 00:19:57,280 ALESSANDRA: Yes. 392 00:19:57,360 --> 00:19:59,680 ..from various individuals in the group, 393 00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:02,880 which is always very powerful because, like in the real world, 394 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:05,320 hearing a different perspective can really change things. 395 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:08,280 And for some couples, it will bring them closer together. 396 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:12,120 (LAUGHS) 397 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:14,680 They'll hear things and they'll just take that on board 398 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:17,760 and it will almost create a stronger bond. 399 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:20,000 (KISSES) 400 00:20:20,040 --> 00:20:21,360 But for other couples, 401 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:23,720 I think, particularly this stage of the experiment, 402 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:26,320 it really can create a lot of questions 403 00:20:26,360 --> 00:20:28,440 about their long-term compatibility. 404 00:20:30,360 --> 00:20:31,760 ALESSANDRA: Absolutely. 405 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:34,800 The couples that have some cracks in their relationships, 406 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:36,680 they're gonna be magnified 407 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:41,160 and it's the opportunity to take that magnification 408 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:44,160 and either work on them and build on it and turn it over 409 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:47,440 or maybe realise that they're not really meant for one another. 410 00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:53,040 So, I guess it's time to see who our first couple up is. 411 00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:00,440 (RESOUNDING MUSIC PLAYS) 412 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:10,920 JAMIE: Excellent. 413 00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:14,040 JOHN: Oh, it's Jamie on her own. 414 00:21:14,120 --> 00:21:16,000 It's Jamie... Fully solo. 415 00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:18,240 MEL: I don't think we've ever seen this before. 416 00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:19,920 JAMIE: Well, I guess it's the last time 417 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:21,800 I'll probably be cocktailing in this room. 418 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,000 May as well enjoy it. 419 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:26,720 JOHN: This is the first time that Jamie and Dave 420 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:28,800 have ever come in separately... Yep. 421 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:30,200 ..into a dinner party. 422 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,320 JAMIE: Cheers. 423 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:35,560 JOHN: What has happened over this week for this couple? 424 00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:37,360 MEL: That is quite a turnaround. 425 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:41,480 Especially after a declaration of love last week on the couch. 426 00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:42,920 Right. JOHN: But he didn't say it back. 427 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,160 Exactly. He did not. 428 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:46,560 JAMIE: I may as well make myself comfortable. 429 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,360 Sit anywhere I want. 430 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:52,040 Something absolutely, absolutely blew up here. 431 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,360 (VEHICLE APPROACHES) 432 00:22:00,120 --> 00:22:04,080 Oh, please, for the love of god, be Awhina on the other end of the door. 433 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,440 Well, this is the epitome of how I'm feeling. 434 00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:10,720 By myself. Excellent. 435 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:12,480 It was really awkward 436 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,480 but also, like, probably better than spending time with my husband, 437 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:16,640 so I was, like, why not? 438 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:18,840 I mean, imaginary friends are probably the way to go. 439 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:21,640 Less talk back, less disappointment. 440 00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:24,920 Now I'm talking to myself like I'm losing my mind. 441 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:28,120 Just talk to a pot plant, talk to all my imaginary friends. 442 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,280 "How are you going, Jamie?" "I'm really good. Thank you." 443 00:22:30,360 --> 00:22:33,600 Maybe I should do, like, a sexy pose or something. 444 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:35,920 Like, a little 'welcome'. 445 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:40,400 JAMIE: I need anyone here right now. Like, I'm dying to see my friends. 446 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:42,400 Maybe I came on the wrong night. 447 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:50,360 (GASPS) Oh, hey. 448 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:52,600 What's happening? Thank god! 449 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:56,400 Like, please be you. I'm by myself. Oh. OK. 450 00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:58,240 ALESSANDRA: Awhina and Adrian. 451 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:00,800 MEL: We have support in the room. 452 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,520 AWHINA: You look stunning and... ADRIAN: You want a drink? 453 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:04,560 ..you're by yourself. 454 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:06,600 JAMIE: Go get a drink, 'cause it's a long one. 455 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:09,560 AWHINA: I felt really sad seeing Jamie was by herself. 456 00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:13,280 If you had asked me a week ago who was the last person 457 00:23:13,360 --> 00:23:15,840 I think would enter a dinner party on their own, 458 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,000 it would've been Jamie, 459 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,960 so when I seen her by herself, it was shocking, 460 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:21,440 it was confusing and I'm sad. 461 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,440 Adrian and I actually spoke about 462 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,160 how our bed's big enough for you to come move in. 463 00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,800 It's a really, really scary day... 464 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,880 When I have to look at my relationship and lean on you two, 465 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:33,240 then it's a really scary day. 466 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,760 JEFF: Hey. JAMIE: Thank god, all my people. 467 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:38,040 MEL: Here's Jeff and Rhi. 468 00:23:38,120 --> 00:23:39,520 JEFF: How are we? RHI: Hi, guys. 469 00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:42,720 I'm separated. ADRIAN: You wouldn't believe it. 470 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:45,640 RHI: You look beautiful. 471 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,440 Oh, so do you. I love that colour. 472 00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:52,160 Seeing Jamie alone was pretty heartbreaking, to be honest. 473 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,440 Like, her and Dave have been one of the strongest couples 474 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:55,840 since the start. 475 00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,040 It's really sad. 476 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:58,120 JEFF: What is going on? 477 00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:01,960 Obviously when I was with Adrian, we did partner swap. 478 00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:05,520 An issue that was raised which I've kept private out of respect for Dave 479 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:07,520 is he doesn't initiate sex. RHI: Mm-hm. 480 00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:08,920 Ever. 481 00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:11,920 I raised it with Adrian and he's, like, 482 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:13,840 "Yeah, but you're suppressing your needs and that's not fair." 483 00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:15,520 And I'm, like, "You know what, you're right." 484 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,840 As I had time to think about it, I started connecting the dots. 485 00:24:18,920 --> 00:24:23,320 All the physical touch, compliments, it's all me. 486 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:28,280 He's not showing up for me romantically whatsoever. 487 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:29,760 Mmm. 488 00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:34,280 And then I was, like, "Shit. Does Dave like me? 489 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,440 "Like, is he attracted to me?" 490 00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,560 So I put it in the letter and I go to address it 491 00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:44,240 and I questioned his feelings - he was very blase. 492 00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:48,160 I was waiting for him to be, like, "No, like, are you joking?" 493 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:49,560 To validate you. Reassure you. 494 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:51,160 Imagine having a conversation 495 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:52,840 when you're questioning someone's attraction, 496 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,120 not once do you go, "Of course I'm attracted to you." 497 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:56,840 Yeah, that's not good. 498 00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:58,720 And then he goes, "Yeah, look, 499 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:00,680 "I think my feelings are in a different place. 500 00:25:00,760 --> 00:25:03,360 "My feelings never grew. Like, they're not there." 501 00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,640 MEL: So disappointing. 502 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,520 JOHN: This just doesn't sound like the Dave that we've come to know. 503 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:12,520 It does not. No. It does not at all. 504 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:13,880 It's like a different guy! 505 00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:17,600 It's, like, "Glad this conversation came up" 506 00:25:17,680 --> 00:25:19,240 because it made me realise I don't have... 507 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,520 How do you just realise you don't have those feelings for me? 508 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:25,680 ADRIAN: The thing is with Dave, though, 509 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:27,840 like, everything you say on the couch, he's never spoke up. 510 00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:29,320 JOHN: No. MEL: That's right. 511 00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,440 This is all news to us. We've never heard this. 512 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:34,680 He hasn't said that in such a definite way before, has he? 513 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:36,120 ALESSANDRA: Not at all. He said, "I'm building. 514 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:38,160 "I'm not there yet, but I can get there." 515 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,800 Whereas it sounds now like he's actually said, 516 00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:42,040 "No, I don't have those feelings for you." 517 00:25:42,120 --> 00:25:43,360 Mmm. Backtracking. 518 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:44,400 "I'm not getting there." Yeah. 519 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:48,720 JAMIE: And I'm, like, you didn't think to tell me this? 520 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,160 We're planning a future together. 521 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,480 Oh, he's, like, "I was planning a future too." 522 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:55,080 I'm, like, why would you plan a future with me 523 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:56,560 if you don't have those feelings for me? 524 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,360 RHI: Yeah. Like, what the (BLEEP) is this? 525 00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:02,920 I feel like I had real feelings for a fake relationship. 526 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:06,520 MEL: That's a huge statement... JOHN: Yeah. 527 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,000 ..from her, isn't it? 528 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:09,280 That's essentially her saying, 529 00:26:09,360 --> 00:26:11,520 "I feel like this whole relationship has been a farce." 530 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:13,880 Mm-hm. Wow. 531 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:16,480 JAMIE: You guys know who you're laying next to at night. 532 00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:18,520 I didn't know who I was laying next to. 533 00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:22,400 ADRIAN: She honestly got taken advantage of. 534 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,760 This whole time, Dave has sort of somewhat been playing the game 535 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:26,120 to look like this great nice guy. 536 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:29,720 And I'm sure he is a nice guy, but not that nice, let's be real. 537 00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,240 I respect him finally being honest 538 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:33,320 but telling me... 539 00:26:33,360 --> 00:26:35,080 I wanted this to work. 540 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:36,840 He was just like, "That's how the cookie crumbles." 541 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,600 JEFF: I was very shocked with what I was hearing from Jamie. 542 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:43,400 Like, Dave's my best mate in this experiment 543 00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:46,640 and to see what's happening right now has just got my mind racing. 544 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:47,680 I'm so confused. 545 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:51,160 He's given me no indication of having no feelings for Jamie. 546 00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:52,920 It's just cold. 547 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,600 Like, the turnaround from last week to this week 548 00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:57,760 is just hard to wrap my head around. 549 00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,600 Dave and me are, like, really tight 550 00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,080 and, like, even just hearing this, I'm shocked. 551 00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:05,320 TEEJAY: Hello. BETH: Hi. 552 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,040 Do you guys want a drink? WOMEN: No. 553 00:27:12,120 --> 00:27:15,320 JAMIE: So, Dave and I obviously didn't walk in together. 554 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,760 I feel like I've got, like, the same story. 555 00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,680 ADRIAN: He pretty much said, like, "I don't care." It is what it is. 556 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,160 JEFF: Yeah. Is it saying that he likes Jamie? 557 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:25,680 ADRIAN AND JEFF: No. He what? 558 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:26,800 ADRIAN: No. Legit. Nothing. 559 00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,000 JEFF: From what we just got then... What? 560 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:30,240 ..they're done. They're done, man. 561 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,920 I am perplexed, to say the least, 562 00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:36,920 that David and Jamie aren't in a good place. 563 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:38,760 They're the pinnacle of this experiment. 564 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:40,200 They have each other's backs, 565 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,640 they speak so beautifully about each other, 566 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:46,720 so to see this just crack after a few days... 567 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:50,040 it's confronting. 568 00:27:50,120 --> 00:27:52,000 I really hope you're OK. Honestly, like... 569 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,200 Thank you. Thank you. Like, honestly. 570 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:55,800 Are you sure you're done? Yeah. 571 00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:57,200 You'll get through it. 572 00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,920 Yeah, after what you're saying, it's just, like... 573 00:27:59,960 --> 00:28:01,200 (BLEEP) hell. 574 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:02,760 I'm, like, I just can't... 575 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,280 I was just talking to the boys about it and just, like, 576 00:28:05,360 --> 00:28:07,320 every time we've talked about you guys outside of this... 577 00:28:07,360 --> 00:28:08,360 it's, like, "Yeah, (BLEEP)." 578 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:09,600 That's what I mean. 579 00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:11,440 Like, I thought this was, like, someone 580 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:13,520 that I was gonna build a life with. (CRIES) 581 00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:15,280 Oh... BETH: Sweetheart. 582 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,160 (CRIES) 583 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:19,920 Oh, babe. 584 00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:23,280 (SPEAKS INDISTINCTLY) 585 00:28:23,360 --> 00:28:25,280 AWHINA: I've never seen Jamie that hurt. 586 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:26,920 She was blindsided. 587 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,080 You know, there was no rollercoaster. 588 00:28:29,120 --> 00:28:30,880 There was no build-up to this. 589 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,600 It was just, like, they were 100% and then suddenly zero. 590 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:35,760 How would anyone feel in that position? 591 00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,560 I'm mad at that man. I'm not happy. 592 00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:39,680 I just don't know... 593 00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,960 Was I in a fake relationship this whole way through? 594 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,040 No, you weren't. He was. 595 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:45,480 It's so mean. 596 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:47,600 It's horrible. He led you on and I'm not happy. 597 00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:52,480 Dave hurt someone who's really close to me and I'm not OK with that. 598 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,760 I will listen to what he has to say... 599 00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:59,800 but if I think it's bullshit, I'm gonna call him out. 600 00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:02,640 So mean. Like... It's... It's... It's... 601 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,760 If you didn't have feelings for me, why don't you tell me? 602 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:08,720 Why did you not let... You could've had your guard up, at least, 603 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:10,000 not fall in love. 604 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:11,640 (CRIES) 605 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,240 I just don't want to see him. I don't want to look at him. 606 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,800 (CRIES) 607 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:21,480 I don't even want this anymore. I don't want this. 608 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:22,680 (SETS RING ASIDE) 609 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:36,360 It was three pages long. 610 00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:38,240 (LAUGHS) What? 611 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:40,080 A quarter of the first page was good stuff... 612 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:41,360 Yeah. ..and the rest was bad. 613 00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:48,000 I said, "Jacq, this is gonna sound brutal and harsh 614 00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,040 "but your relationship's going nowhere." 615 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:51,960 (LAUGHS) 616 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:56,600 CONTESTANTS: Hey. 617 00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:57,880 Hi. 618 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,560 MEL: Oh, Jacqui and Ryan. 619 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:08,480 That's wild. 620 00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,040 RYAN: Hey, how are you? BETH: Good. How are you? 621 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,000 Yeah, really well. 622 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:14,240 JEFF: Jacqui's letter was two and a half pages of bad stuff. 623 00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:15,800 RHI: How about you? JACQUI: Yeah, good. 624 00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:16,920 We had a good week. 625 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:18,880 And then they walk in together and it's, like, happy families. 626 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:20,320 And I'm, like... 627 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,640 I literally can't believe... 628 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,680 Like, I don't even know how they're smiling with each other. 629 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:26,080 (POP!) 630 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:41,760 Oh... 631 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:01,960 PAUL: Are you? CARINA: Yeah, of course. 632 00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,080 Are you OK? 633 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:20,160 Mmm? 634 00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:29,600 Are you sure? 635 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:35,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 636 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:37,480 (CHEERING) Hello! 637 00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,200 Hi. (BOTH LAUGH) 638 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,360 How are we? I was about to trip. 639 00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:42,200 (LAUGHS) 640 00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,840 MEL: Carina and Paul. 641 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:51,400 Carina looks very cautious, tentative... 642 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,360 JOHN: Yeah, they do look cautious. I agree. 643 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,000 That was an unusual entrance... ALESSANDRA: Yes. 644 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:56,480 ..for these two. 645 00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:00,240 WOMAN: I think the cross is giving, like, Kim K Dolce era. 646 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:02,360 I'm a newborn Christian. 647 00:32:02,440 --> 00:32:05,880 I had to go to church on Sunday, say some prayers. 648 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,640 Was that your first time since the experiment started? 649 00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:11,200 Yeah. Yeah. 650 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:14,160 Cheers. Cheers. Cheers, cheers. 651 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:16,640 AWHINA: I think Carina's putting on a happy face. 652 00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,120 That's fine for now, 653 00:32:19,200 --> 00:32:22,560 but I don't appreciate the comment you made about my twin sister. 654 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,080 You've made it on zero facts... 655 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:26,920 and I'm still waiting for that apology. 656 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,440 RYAN: How was Eliot to be around? RHI: He was great to be around. 657 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:31,480 Yeah. He's a really nice guy. 658 00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:32,800 The place was really clean. 659 00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:35,040 He brought me, like, heaps of fresh fruit and stuff. 660 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:35,880 JACQUI: Oh, wow. 661 00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:37,280 Yeah, he's, like, "I know you're into fitness 662 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:38,720 "so I bought you fresh fruit." Wow! 663 00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:40,200 I'm, like, "Thanks." On his best behaviour. 664 00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:41,200 Yeah. (LAUGHTER) 665 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,800 OTHERS: Hey! MAN: Where's V? 666 00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,240 JOHN: Oh, Eliot! MEL: What is going on here? 667 00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,200 I don't know. And where's Veronica? 668 00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:52,040 But this feedback week has not been good for some of our couples. 669 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:53,680 ALESSANDRA: No. RHI: Hi. 670 00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:54,920 ELIOT: Hey. How are you? 671 00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:56,280 Oh... How are you? 672 00:32:56,360 --> 00:33:00,720 I'm disappointed that Eliot walked into the dinner party alone tonight. 673 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:05,640 I feel like Eliot and I had a great time and I tried to be constructive 674 00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,720 in, like, you know, the feedback that I was giving to Eliot, 675 00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:12,240 but clearly something's happened. 676 00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:15,200 ELIOT: I tried to take on some of your advice 677 00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:18,120 and, yeah, I think it actually went the other way. 678 00:33:18,200 --> 00:33:21,400 After her letter, it was, like, kaboom. 679 00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:25,040 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, she packed her stuff. 680 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:27,920 She's gone. Anyway, here we are. I'm sorry... 681 00:33:28,000 --> 00:33:29,400 No, it's... ..that that happened. 682 00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:30,440 That really sucks. 683 00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,440 And then Dave spent three days with a V and his relationship's done. 684 00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:35,080 She said she had the best time in the world with Dave. 685 00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:44,520 MEL: Oh, here we are. 686 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:46,840 WOMAN: Hi. MAN: Hey. 687 00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:49,320 ALESSANDRA: Veronica's here. VERONICA: Don't all jump up at once. 688 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:50,600 (LAUGHS) 689 00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,400 JOHN: There's a lot of solo people in there tonight. 690 00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:56,160 MEL: There are. Two couples, completely separate. 691 00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:02,760 VERONICA: Going into the cocktail party, the reception is cold. 692 00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:07,040 Eliot didn't even bother to walk to me to come and say hello to me 693 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:10,160 and if he thinks that I'm gonna move 100m across the room 694 00:34:10,240 --> 00:34:13,360 and he's not gonna make the 2m step to say hello to me, 695 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:14,560 like, I don't care. 696 00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:24,760 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 697 00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,480 (LOW-LEVEL CONVERSATION) 698 00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:33,200 MAN: Are we missing anyone... 699 00:34:33,240 --> 00:34:34,920 ADRIAN: David. 700 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:40,960 MEL: Dave must be very anxious about how the night's gonna go. 701 00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:55,280 JOHN: Dave is gonna walk into a group 702 00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:58,800 that is ready to ask him the hard questions. 703 00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,680 ALESSANDRA: Well, they've certainly all seen 704 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:12,160 the effect of them walking in separately 705 00:35:12,240 --> 00:35:14,760 and how Jamie is feeling and reacting 706 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,320 and it's clearly very heartfelt and genuine 707 00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:18,800 that she's very, very sad. 708 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:24,120 (LAUGHS) 709 00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:37,360 100%. 710 00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:42,280 I like Dave, but do I think he's done Jamie dirty? 100%. 711 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:45,880 Yeah, I am. 712 00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:52,960 There's so much to unpack here. 713 00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:55,840 Dave definitely has a lot to answer for tonight. 714 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:57,560 (CLOSES DOOR) (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 715 00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:04,760 (CONVERSE INAUDIBLY) 716 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,920 DAVE: Ladies and gentlemen. JEFF: Big D. 717 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,600 WOMAN: Hey. Are you OK? 718 00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,040 Yeah. BETH: Hello. 719 00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:15,680 Looking good. TEEJAY: You too, mate. 720 00:36:15,720 --> 00:36:18,000 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 721 00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,080 Hey, Jamie. 722 00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:29,080 VERONICA: Hi. How you going? How you going? 723 00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,320 JACQUI: Did he say hi to you? JAMIE: Yeah. 724 00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:35,920 But, like, it's so uncomfortable. Like, I'm like... 725 00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:39,840 Oh, my god. It's so uncomfortable. Is that a window I can jump out of? 726 00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,680 (LAUGHTER) 727 00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:45,920 From everything I heard from Jamie so far, it's not great. 728 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,960 But then, Dave seems like he's OK. 729 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,480 So, yeah, I just want to hear what he has to say. 730 00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:53,240 Obviously got the rundown from Jamie. 731 00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:56,800 Oh, yeah. Oh, you know, then? I don't have to explain it. 732 00:37:01,720 --> 00:37:02,560 TEEJAY: Yeah. 733 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:03,920 We didn't expect this 734 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:07,080 'cause we thought you guys were so just so solid, so good. 735 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:08,840 And we were. Yeah. 736 00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:10,840 And we are. We're great. 737 00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:15,720 Feedback week, Adrian sort of asked Jamie 738 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:17,960 are my feelings there for her 739 00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:20,600 and then, when it was brought up to me, 740 00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:23,040 getting my feelings questioned, 741 00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,280 that's what prompted it, was me... to sit down after feedback... 742 00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:28,200 "What am I feeling?" Yeah. What am I actually feeling? 743 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:32,040 But, yeah, I'm not... I'm not there. 744 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,520 DAVE: I want to feel those things that Jamie is feeling 745 00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,760 but it's just, the things that she wants, I can't give it to her. 746 00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:39,440 JOHN: Oh, there you go. 747 00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:41,240 MEL: "There's things that she wants and I can't give it to her." 748 00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:46,120 DAVE: Like, yeah, I care about her, so it's, like... 749 00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:48,640 I don't hate the girl. 750 00:37:48,720 --> 00:37:50,880 JOHN: Oh! ALESSANDRA: The girl! 751 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:52,280 MEL AND ALESSANDRA: "I don't hate the girl." 752 00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:53,800 ALESSANDRA: That's what he said. 753 00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:57,800 Oh, gosh. 754 00:37:57,840 --> 00:38:00,200 "I don't hate the girl." 755 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:03,160 That's a far cry from "I'm in love with you." 756 00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:07,960 Wow. 757 00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:13,440 (TAPS GLASS) Dinner is served. 758 00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:23,400 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 759 00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:57,760 JOHN: This is a bit of a frosty room. 760 00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:01,920 MEL: Very, very quiet. 761 00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:07,560 Feels tense. Feels awkward. 762 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,720 RYAN: I'm having a good-sized glass. 763 00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:16,560 That's intense. MAN: Yeah. Yeah. 764 00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:19,520 (LOW-LEVEL CONVERSATION) (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 765 00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:37,040 CARINA: There's definitely some tension between everyone 766 00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:38,360 at the dinner table tonight 767 00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,960 and I'm honestly nervous. 768 00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:43,640 Like, I feel like I need to speak to Awhina. 769 00:39:43,720 --> 00:39:47,920 It is super important that I explain my comment 770 00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,480 that I made about Awhina's sister... 771 00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:56,560 and fully just apologise and take accountability for it. 772 00:39:56,640 --> 00:40:01,320 I have to do this now, but I don't know how she's gonna act. 773 00:40:02,720 --> 00:40:06,640 Can I pull you two aside? Do you want to come? 774 00:40:06,720 --> 00:40:11,440 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) (LOW-LEVEL CONVERSATION) 775 00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:22,360 (EXHALES) PAUL: Alright. 776 00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,800 First of all, I want to take full accountability 777 00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:33,400 for saying what I said 778 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:35,760 and it's not nice. 779 00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:39,400 I'm fully aware of the comments that I made. 780 00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:43,400 They're not nice words and I... 781 00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:44,480 Can I have a private chat with Carina? 782 00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:46,680 Sorry. Yeah, that's OK. 783 00:40:46,720 --> 00:40:48,240 You can. That's fine. 784 00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:54,200 We don't need an audience. 785 00:40:54,240 --> 00:40:56,200 AWHINA: Carina's calibre comment... 786 00:40:56,240 --> 00:40:58,160 Um... 787 00:40:58,240 --> 00:41:00,120 ..obviously that was a direct attack to my twin sister 788 00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:02,400 and it was a bit snobbish. 789 00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:04,200 It really pissed me off. 790 00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:07,560 I feel like some very real apologies need to be said from Carina. 791 00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:13,480 I just, yeah, I'm... I'm... 792 00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:16,240 I take full accountability for what I said. 793 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:21,120 That comment that I made. 794 00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:24,600 It was a rude comment, it was disrespectful and I judged you 795 00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:28,880 and I put you and your sister in a context that's not a nice light. 796 00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:32,200 I felt really upset because when Paul obviously mentioned that, 797 00:41:32,240 --> 00:41:33,360 that's my twin sister. 798 00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:34,400 Yeah. 799 00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:36,000 So, when he mentioned it, I was, like, "Oh!" 800 00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,360 It was, like, a baseless comment. It was. 801 00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:39,880 I felt super insecure 802 00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:43,800 when I found out how you and Paul knew each other 803 00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,120 because he didn't tell me or care to tell me 804 00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,760 that he knew a girl that was coming to the experiment, 805 00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:49,800 let alone from Perth 806 00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,480 and let alone that he had gotten with her twin sister 807 00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:52,480 and had a fling with her, 808 00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:56,160 so obviously there's a lot of things that are gonna play up in my mind. 809 00:41:56,240 --> 00:41:58,760 I said that comment in confidence with Paul 810 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,760 and I didn't want any of that to come up. 811 00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:03,840 I was, like, "Paul, how is Awhina gonna feel?" 812 00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:05,440 Hurt. I felt hurt. 813 00:42:07,240 --> 00:42:09,520 I'm sorry if I disrespected you 814 00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:13,400 and I'm sorry if that comment just hurt you so much. 815 00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,800 I didn't mean it... I accept your apology. 816 00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:17,200 And I think that you truly mean it. 817 00:42:17,240 --> 00:42:18,760 I do accept Carina's apology. 818 00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:23,080 It was from a place of jealousy, insecurity. I understand that. 819 00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:26,280 And to be honest, I just want to move forward. 820 00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:28,560 That's enough sorries. 821 00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:33,440 They both have issues that they still need to work on together. 822 00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:38,680 Carina's feeling very hurt and she felt betrayed by Paul. 823 00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:42,760 PAUL: How are you feeling? Hmm? 824 00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:45,760 Yeah, I'm definitely... 825 00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:49,160 Are you feeling a bit lighter now that you've apologised to her 826 00:42:49,240 --> 00:42:52,000 and that she's told you that she's OK with it? 827 00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:53,640 Yeah. Are you feeling better? 828 00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:54,640 OK. Yeah? 829 00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:56,440 Do you understand now, like 830 00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:59,400 the reason why I was feeling a little bit disheartened 831 00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,240 at your reaction after my letter? 832 00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:02,400 Because I just... 833 00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:07,120 It's, like, you couldn't see at all where I was coming from 834 00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:12,160 and so, obviously, like, I felt like my concerns were irrelevant. 835 00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:14,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 836 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:18,440 Which is why, like, the way it escalated, I just... I just... 837 00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,600 What escalated? 838 00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:24,040 Well, the whole letter thing just completely escalated. 839 00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:28,280 You threw me under the bus with Awhina's sister. 840 00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:32,840 Are you gonna take accountability for that, Paul? 841 00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,880 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 842 00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:44,600 PAUL: You couldn't see at all where I was coming from 843 00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:49,280 and so, obviously, like, I felt like my concerns were irrelevant, 844 00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:52,200 which is why, like, the way it escalated, I just... 845 00:43:52,240 --> 00:43:53,240 What escalated? 846 00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:56,480 Well, the whole letter thing just completely escalated. 847 00:43:56,560 --> 00:44:00,400 You threw me under the bus with Awhina's sister. 848 00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:03,080 Are you gonna take accountability for that, Paul? 849 00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:05,400 Yeah, I did say to you... I have. 850 00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:07,200 Because obviously I'm affected by that and that... 851 00:44:07,240 --> 00:44:08,040 I know. 852 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,040 ..another girl who has nothing to do with our relationship, 853 00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:14,040 that I came to you in private feeling like I can be confident 854 00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:17,160 and that's where I have my walls up right now 855 00:44:17,240 --> 00:44:20,040 because I felt like no matter what the comment was... 856 00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:22,240 And, yes, it wasn't the right comment and I feel... 857 00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:26,400 Why can't we just leave it there? Yes, it was the wrong thing... 858 00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:27,600 Because you're still saying... 859 00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:29,800 Why do you have to say that I threw you under the bus and everything? 860 00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:33,080 No-one had to know about that but you and me. 861 00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:37,040 I came to you and I told you how I felt 862 00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,120 and that I was insecure... 863 00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,160 Yeah, but that's not on me, that's on you. 864 00:44:41,240 --> 00:44:42,800 It's not my fault if you're insecure. 865 00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:43,880 I just said the comment, though, 866 00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:46,800 thinking that it was gonna just stay between you and me. 867 00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:49,640 And you're the one that brought this out into the open 868 00:44:49,720 --> 00:44:53,840 and all I wanted was to have a confident conversation 869 00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:57,240 between you and me, thinking I'm your wife and you're my husband. 870 00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:59,880 Right now, I feel like I've been thrown under the bus 871 00:44:59,920 --> 00:45:01,200 and my guard is up. 872 00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:04,680 PAUL: She probably didn't expect me to bring it up to Awhina 873 00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:06,760 but it's not like I was just standing there 874 00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:08,080 in front of the whole group 875 00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:09,800 and just announcing to the whole group, 876 00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:11,240 "Hey, by the way, this is what she said," you know. 877 00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:14,920 And honestly, like, I still stand by it. 878 00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:17,600 The fact that you keep saying, like, I'm throwing you under the bus, 879 00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:20,680 that makes me feel the next time if I have to bring concerns, 880 00:45:20,720 --> 00:45:22,040 are you gonna do the same? 881 00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,200 Are you gonna bring your walls up and are you gonna feel, like, 882 00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,200 attacked or think that I've thrown you under the bus? 883 00:45:26,240 --> 00:45:27,840 No, because you... 884 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:29,400 See, that's the problem I have at the moment. 885 00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:31,280 Oh, that's the problem you have? 886 00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:33,800 As my husband, I would think 887 00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:35,640 that you would just keep it within us. 888 00:45:35,720 --> 00:45:39,120 I felt like you put a knife to my heart and I feel like... 889 00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:40,720 That's a bit excessive. No, it's not, Paul... 890 00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:42,400 because I actually have strong feelings for you. 891 00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:46,240 It's made me feel like I cannot trust you right now 892 00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,000 because I'm scared! 893 00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,640 I've done everything from day one to create that safe space. 894 00:45:50,680 --> 00:45:52,920 I haven't done anything... 895 00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:55,360 And how do you not see that you literally threw me under the bus 896 00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:57,400 for another wife? 897 00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:01,000 We are just not seeing eye to eye right now. 898 00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:03,640 Because of one comment that I brought in the letter 899 00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,400 has made you...get your walls up. 900 00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:09,960 CARINA: I feel like right now I can't trust him 901 00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:14,760 and it's making me question our relationship. 902 00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:16,080 Yeah. 903 00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:23,560 RYAN: Mmm. 904 00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:26,600 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 905 00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:30,920 I'm just, like, happy. 906 00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:34,520 Like, for once, like, Ryan and I have got no drama going on. 907 00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:37,360 I honestly... It sounds so weird, 908 00:46:37,440 --> 00:46:39,840 but I feel like we've got one of the strongest relationships 909 00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,560 just because, like, we don't sugar-coat things 910 00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:45,400 and we are really honest with each other. 911 00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:47,080 I actually think we're a role model for the other couples, 912 00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:48,360 whether they know it or not. 913 00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:51,120 (LAUGHTER) 914 00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:54,160 JEFF: Obviously I spent a few days with Jacqui 915 00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:57,560 and the things she wrote... (LAUGHS) 916 00:46:57,640 --> 00:47:00,200 ..the things she wrote in the honesty letter, 917 00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,920 like, I cannot believe they're living together. 918 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:06,280 Like, she's read that out to him and they're still together. 919 00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:09,360 Like, the letter was damning for the relationship. 920 00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:13,000 And then I see them tonight, you know, holding hands, kissing, 921 00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:16,840 like nothing's wrong in their relationship and it's just... 922 00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:20,200 It just doesn't add up. Like, to me, there's no future. 923 00:47:20,240 --> 00:47:21,520 Hey, Ryan. 924 00:47:21,600 --> 00:47:23,680 Hey, Ryan. I've got a question for you, Ryan. 925 00:47:23,720 --> 00:47:25,280 Yeah, go. Go. 926 00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,160 When Jacqui was reading that letter to you, 927 00:47:27,240 --> 00:47:28,520 was there alarm bells going off about that? 928 00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:30,480 About a few things in there. 929 00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:32,560 Just for context, the letter was about two and a half pages 930 00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:33,920 of negative things in the relationship. 931 00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,040 How did you feel when that letter got read out to you? 932 00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:39,640 Well, at the same time... He overreacted and go... (GASPS) 933 00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:41,120 (LAUGHS) 934 00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:43,640 You know, I was shocked at some of the things you said 935 00:47:43,720 --> 00:47:45,560 because you used a lot of extreme language, alright? 936 00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:46,880 You accused me... 937 00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:48,960 You said, "I'm worried you don't work as hard as me." 938 00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:51,080 You insulted my finances, you insulted my career, 939 00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:54,200 you insulted my... almost my whole character, bro. 940 00:47:54,240 --> 00:47:56,840 That letter was garbage, you know. 941 00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:58,960 Like, it's a distorted view 942 00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,240 and you ask anyone else in the world who knows me 943 00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:02,600 and that's not my character. 944 00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:05,040 I disagree with your use of terminology 945 00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:07,960 saying, like, "Ryan needs submission, needs a trad wife." 946 00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:11,040 BETH: A what? A trad wife. 947 00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:12,800 What's that? A traditional wife. 948 00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:13,640 TEEJAY: Oh, sorry. Yeah. 949 00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:14,600 It's like someone who takes 950 00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:16,400 a submissive position in the relationship. 951 00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:19,720 Oh, please, like, could you get any more melodramatic? 952 00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:24,200 You know, I want to clarify, I do not desire that at all. 953 00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,120 I feel like the letter was a great prompt 954 00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,800 to get me to write down all of my concerns that I've been having, 955 00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:30,560 so I feel like the letter worked because... 956 00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:32,280 I definitely got some feedback, right? 957 00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:33,840 The letter worked? Can I talk? Can I talk? 958 00:48:33,920 --> 00:48:36,640 That letter worked. Can I talk? 959 00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:38,480 That makes sense. 960 00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:40,760 The letter worked. (LAUGHS) 961 00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:43,040 Well... 962 00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:46,280 ELIOT: (LAUGHS) Jeff is shocked. 963 00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,760 I've actually given up trying to understand their relationship. 964 00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:50,840 What, was I listening to a different letter? 965 00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:53,960 When you hear John, Alessandra and Mel say they're confused, 966 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:55,280 what hope do I have? 967 00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:58,560 I'm just a mere mortal. (LAUGHS) 968 00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:06,480 NARRATOR: Coming up, Jamie's heartbreak. 969 00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:09,240 Not tell me you love me! Look how far in we are! 970 00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:11,120 You have not showed up for me! (CRIES) 971 00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:12,880 No! 972 00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:14,640 Dave's moment of truth. 973 00:49:14,720 --> 00:49:17,440 Dave, I just want to know, like, do you want to fight for this? 974 00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:20,360 JEFF: You want this, don't you? 975 00:49:20,440 --> 00:49:22,280 Like, do you want this relationship? 976 00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,600 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 977 00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:35,240 RHI: Are you alright? JEFF: Yeah, always. 978 00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:39,440 MEL: Amongst all the chaos tonight, 979 00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:41,320 isn't it wonderful to see Rhi and Jeff? 980 00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:42,320 ALESSANDRA: Yes. 981 00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:43,880 They're like the centre of the storm. 982 00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:47,040 Really solid, connecting with each other, 983 00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:48,360 checking in with each other. 984 00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:51,840 They're really still a team. It's great to see. 985 00:49:52,720 --> 00:49:54,880 RHI: I'm feeling great. 986 00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:58,680 I'm so grateful for you. Thank you. 987 00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:00,320 (LAUGHS) That's OK. 988 00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:02,480 (LAUGHS) You're cute. 989 00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:04,080 (LAUGHS) 990 00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:09,680 (BOTH LAUGH) 991 00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:16,000 (TENSE MUSIC) 992 00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:19,440 RHI: Do you want a little bit of red or white? 993 00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:21,640 DAVE: Red's fine. OK. 994 00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:27,320 JAMIE: I just... I don't want to look at him. 995 00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:30,320 He makes me feel sick. 996 00:50:34,240 --> 00:50:36,960 The way we left this morning... 997 00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:41,760 I feel like I have more questions than answers. 998 00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:43,960 You have just broken me. 999 00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:49,520 And after everything we've been through, like, 1000 00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,040 creating this partnership 1001 00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:54,880 I thought I was gonna carry through in my life, 1002 00:50:54,960 --> 00:50:58,840 the least you can do is try to sort it out, try to apologise. 1003 00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:02,720 Anything that makes me feel like this wasn't all bullshit. 1004 00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:04,040 Anything. 1005 00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:12,120 Well, guys, I'm a little bit shocked 1006 00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:14,120 to see Jamie and Dave walk in separately tonight. 1007 00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:15,960 I don't know the full story. 1008 00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,480 I'd really love to know, because you guys seem so pure, 1009 00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:20,440 so united, so strong. 1010 00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:23,200 Yeah, what's happened, guys? 1011 00:51:23,240 --> 00:51:27,560 (TENSE MUSIC) 1012 00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:29,600 Um... 1013 00:51:29,680 --> 00:51:35,240 From partner swap, I raised an issue with Adrian. 1014 00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:39,840 I wanted feedback on the fact that Dave doesn't initiate intimacy. 1015 00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:45,800 And he's not really showing up for me romantically. 1016 00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:53,480 It causes concern as to how you, I don't know, 1017 00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:55,760 maybe don't desire me in that way. 1018 00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:01,800 So, when I raised this conversation with Dave, 1019 00:52:01,880 --> 00:52:05,080 I questioned his overall feelings for me 1020 00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:08,760 and then you came to the conclusion 1021 00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:11,720 that, you know, the feelings are on a different spot, 1022 00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:13,520 which we're aware, they are in a different spot 1023 00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:16,600 and that's what's impacting you to show intimacy 1024 00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:18,760 or showing up romantically. 1025 00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:22,120 And then you came to the apartment today... 1026 00:52:23,200 --> 00:52:26,360 you decided to tell me you realised, 1027 00:52:26,440 --> 00:52:28,520 yeah, your feelings haven't progressed. 1028 00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:29,880 You're not feeling it. 1029 00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:39,040 There was no emotion. You just blanked me. 1030 00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:41,480 Yeah, 'cause it was awkward. 'Cause it was awkward. 1031 00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:43,600 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1032 00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:47,680 Yeah, but, like... You can finish talking. 1033 00:52:47,720 --> 00:52:48,840 I'll tell you where I'm at. 1034 00:52:56,120 --> 00:52:57,280 Um... 1035 00:53:00,000 --> 00:53:01,280 I don't know. 1036 00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:05,240 There was nothing. 1037 00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:07,960 There was no remorse, compassion, empathy. 1038 00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:13,360 You broke my heart and you didn't care. 1039 00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,760 And it made me freak out. 1040 00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:20,560 Really? 1041 00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:24,720 MEL: Gosh, Dave's so different! 1042 00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:27,200 JOHN: He's got a wall up, he's detached. 1043 00:53:27,240 --> 00:53:28,880 He's checked out. 1044 00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:31,160 This is not the Dave we know. No. 1045 00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:48,320 JAMIE: Who have I been laying next to this whole experiment, Dave? 1046 00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:54,560 DAVE: OK, well, this is where I'm coming in. 1047 00:53:54,640 --> 00:54:00,400 At feedback week, it freaked me out, the intimacy thing being brought up. 1048 00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:02,560 That's when I had to sit back and think about it all. 1049 00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:07,400 I realised that I can't express myself 1050 00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:08,240 the way that you want me to... 1051 00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:13,200 because I am not at the level of... 1052 00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:15,400 I'm not at the level of love that you have. 1053 00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:22,000 And my feelings aren't gradually getting bigger and bigger 1054 00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:23,200 at the moment. 1055 00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:33,840 We're so far in 1056 00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:35,800 and now you've realised your feelings aren't progressing? 1057 00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:40,160 You're telling me because I asked you and you've spent time away, 1058 00:54:40,200 --> 00:54:41,920 you realise you don't? 1059 00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:44,160 I had to really think about it, yeah. 1060 00:54:45,920 --> 00:54:47,760 We're three months into living with each other 1061 00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:49,400 and it's still... It's two months, but... 1062 00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:51,240 It's still not... OK, sorry, two months. 1063 00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:52,800 JOHN: Oooh. 1064 00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:58,560 When you made the comment that your feelings haven't progressed, 1065 00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:00,680 at what stage do you mean it hasn't progressed? 1066 00:55:00,760 --> 00:55:02,840 Like, we understand you don't love Jamie... 1067 00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:04,040 Well, it's been a while. 1068 00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:06,920 I've mentioned it all the time on the couch, that I'm... 1069 00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:08,000 (BANGS TABLE) 1070 00:55:09,720 --> 00:55:12,440 Who has heard that his feelings have not been progressing 1071 00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:13,280 on the couch? 1072 00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:16,400 No, I'm not saying... I didn't say that. 1073 00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:17,800 I said I address it on the couch all the time 1074 00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:19,400 that I'm worried about my feelings 1075 00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:23,720 and that I can't express the love that you do to me. 1076 00:55:23,760 --> 00:55:26,160 What couch session was I a part of, 1077 00:55:26,240 --> 00:55:28,080 'cause that's not what you said to me on the couch. 1078 00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:29,360 MEL: No. JOHN: Not sure about that. 1079 00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:30,920 No. ALESSANDRA: Mm-mm. 1080 00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:32,880 JEFF: Like, what we've seen, retreat, 1081 00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:35,000 like, even going back the week before that, 1082 00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:37,040 like, it was all looking so positive 1083 00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:39,320 and then now it's just, like, turned on its head, 1084 00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:42,520 which is hard for me personally to wrap my head around. 1085 00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:45,200 Until the last few days, 1086 00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:48,000 I've seen no, like, chinks in their armour at all. 1087 00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:52,720 They've been as solid as anyone, so I just want to know, like, 1088 00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:54,840 Dave, did you actually have feelings for Jamie? 1089 00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:56,560 Like, or did you coast through this whole time? 1090 00:55:57,720 --> 00:56:00,440 RHI: I don't know whether Dave has just come to the realisation 1091 00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:03,080 that he's not 100% in it. 1092 00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:06,720 Jamie has admitted to loving him. 1093 00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:10,160 When someone's falling in love with you and didn't feel the same, 1094 00:56:10,240 --> 00:56:12,520 you think you would say something a little bit sooner. 1095 00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:14,360 I still care about her. 1096 00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:18,640 It's... It's just a struggle at the moment, so... 1097 00:56:18,720 --> 00:56:21,560 How are you expressing your feeling for me? 1098 00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:24,160 You don't tell me, you don't show me... 1099 00:56:24,240 --> 00:56:25,600 That's what I mean. I'm not where you are at. 1100 00:56:25,680 --> 00:56:29,080 How do you think I'm going to feel when we're so far in, Dave? 1101 00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:31,520 So, why are you putting a time limit on it? I take a long time. 1102 00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:34,680 It's not "Tell me you love me." It's how far in we are! 1103 00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:38,600 You have not shown up for me! (CRIES) No... 1104 00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:41,640 (SOLEMN MUSIC) (CRIES) 1105 00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:59,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1106 00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:02,240 (JAMIE CRIES) 1107 00:57:06,960 --> 00:57:08,760 JAMIE: He's hurt me so much. 1108 00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:11,360 (CRIES) 1109 00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:13,400 Who am I trusting with my heart? 1110 00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:14,840 It's not OK! 1111 00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:17,240 (CRIES) 1112 00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:19,000 You don't just need to be in love with me 1113 00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:20,760 to show up for me romantically! 1114 00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:22,920 We've built three months together, Dave! 1115 00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:25,040 Three months and I'm planning a future with you 1116 00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:26,480 and you're telling me today, you're, like, "I don't have..." 1117 00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:28,240 Those feelings haven't progressed for you. 1118 00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:29,680 When did you want to tell me that? 1119 00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:32,440 (TENSE MUSIC) 1120 00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:44,280 Yeah. That's what I'm saying, mate. 1121 00:57:44,360 --> 00:57:45,600 I'm being honest with how I (BLEEP) feel. 1122 00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:46,440 ADRIAN: Yeah, yeah. 1123 00:57:46,520 --> 00:57:47,840 So how do you want me to not be (BLEEP)... 1124 00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:50,200 No, but it's not, Dave... But who are you to ask me? 1125 00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:52,600 Like, sorry I'm not absolutely (BLEEP) perfect. 1126 00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:53,960 Like, Jesus Christ. 1127 00:57:57,280 --> 00:58:02,240 ADRIAN: I don't buy Dave and, like, why are you getting so defensive? 1128 00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:04,880 I think Dave has been feeling a certain type of way for a while 1129 00:58:04,960 --> 00:58:08,680 and that week away from Jamie, he really realised 1130 00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:12,440 that, yeah, Jamie is not the person that I want. 1131 00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:15,360 This is the first speed hump that we've had and it freaks me out. 1132 00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:18,120 JEFF: Yeah. Yeah. It's a big speed hump. But... 1133 00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:22,160 What's confusing, Dave, 1134 00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:23,640 is you sit on the couch at the commitment ceremony, 1135 00:58:23,720 --> 00:58:25,520 you back up everything Jamie's saying about, you know, 1136 00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:28,920 you guys pursuing this after, potential living situations... 1137 00:58:29,000 --> 00:58:30,960 ELIOT: Yeah. That's why we're all so confused. 1138 00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:32,400 But, yes, thank you. 1139 00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:33,880 I sat on the couch next to you 1140 00:58:33,960 --> 00:58:35,600 thinking we're building a future together. 1141 00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:37,320 OK, well... 1142 00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:41,280 Who is that man? 1143 00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:46,560 That's not the Dave I've met. There's just...with no emotion. 1144 00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:50,480 To find out today his feelings haven't progressed 1145 00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:53,880 and the way he delivered it was without compassion... 1146 00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:58,720 isn't someone who's upset that their partner's hurting. 1147 00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:00,400 That's someone who doesn't care. 1148 00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:05,440 I still don't feel any compassion from you. I really don't. 1149 00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:09,320 I don't know who I've been laying in bed next to. 1150 00:59:09,400 --> 00:59:12,320 I feel like our entire relationship is a (BLEEP) lie. 1151 00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:17,560 The way you're looking at me, the way you're next to me, 1152 00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:21,720 the way you handled every situation is proving what I'm saying is true. 1153 00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:24,120 And that is what hurts more than anything. 1154 00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:28,440 Well, I think it's been great 1155 00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:30,360 and I've had so many just good memories... 1156 00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:32,280 I'm so glad you had fun. 1157 00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:35,320 It's been amazing. It's been great. Yeah. 1158 00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:36,880 And I think you're a wonderful person 1159 00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:39,880 and I think you're one of the best I've ever met, so... 1160 00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:41,720 Wow. That's really validating. 1161 00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:43,800 JOHN: It's like a guy that wants to get out of a relationship 1162 00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:45,160 but doesn't know how to say it. 1163 00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:48,440 MEL: He's sending very mixed messages. 1164 00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:51,520 There's a little bit of hope. "I don't have the feelings..." 1165 00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:53,480 DAVE: I want this to work. And I do. 1166 00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:55,680 JAMIE: I don't feel it. This is your chance right now. 1167 00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:56,800 Of course you don't feel it. 1168 00:59:56,880 --> 00:59:59,280 You're (BLEEP) fuming, so you're not gonna feel it right now. 1169 01:00:01,360 --> 01:00:05,360 RYAN: I've never heard this side of Dave before. 1170 01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:07,640 I feel as if that those two could've had each other's backs 1171 01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:09,480 through a winter storm, you know. 1172 01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:12,880 I saw that as, like, out of character. 1173 01:00:12,960 --> 01:00:15,320 He's been arcing up a little bit all night. 1174 01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:17,320 How am I supposed to believe you? 1175 01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:20,600 I feel like I trusted you with my heart and you shat on it. 1176 01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:21,840 That hurts me when you say that. 1177 01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:25,120 Yeah, it does and I put in real feelings... 1178 01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:27,720 It hurts you when I say that? 1179 01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:29,480 Imagine how I'm feeling. Yeah, exactly. 1180 01:00:29,560 --> 01:00:32,200 But I'm just saying, don't say that I don't feel hurt 1181 01:00:32,280 --> 01:00:33,680 and I'm pretending to be hurt, because it does. 1182 01:00:33,760 --> 01:00:37,240 JOHN: Oh, no. He didn't just say it hurts him. 1183 01:00:37,280 --> 01:00:40,120 Oh, Dave. No. 1184 01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:43,440 PAUL: Dave, do you think that eventually your feelings 1185 01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:44,960 will grow the same way... I am hopeful... 1186 01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:47,120 ..the same way Jamie has feelings for you? 1187 01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,040 That's why I've put in all this work to get here. 1188 01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:50,640 Hopeful is just a word. 1189 01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:52,240 Like, do you feel it progressing that way 1190 01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:53,440 or are you just hopeful? 1191 01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:55,480 Hopeful is just a word out there, you know. 1192 01:00:55,560 --> 01:00:57,360 I feel like I'm struggling. Yeah, I do. 1193 01:00:57,440 --> 01:00:58,600 Yeah. But I do have hope for it. 1194 01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:00,880 Like... Why do you struggle, do you think? 1195 01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:02,600 I don't know. Do you know what I mean? 1196 01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:03,760 I don't know. 1197 01:01:03,840 --> 01:01:06,000 When was, like, the point where the feelings stopped progressing? 1198 01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:07,480 Oh, man, I don't know. You don't know? 1199 01:01:07,560 --> 01:01:09,080 I don't know. OK. 1200 01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:12,320 JOHN: Every time they back him into a corner... 1201 01:01:12,360 --> 01:01:13,400 ALESSANDRA: He doesn't know. 1202 01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:15,960 Someone that would want it to work 1203 01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:17,480 would have a very different presentation 1204 01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:18,600 than what we're saying right now... 1205 01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:19,720 MEL: Absolutely. ALESSANDRA: Yeah. 1206 01:01:19,800 --> 01:01:21,360 ..saying, "What can I do? I'll do it." 1207 01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:22,560 Exactly. 1208 01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:25,200 JAMIE: You're about to lose me and you're just like... 1209 01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:29,120 Well, I'm under fire at the moment. I feel uncomfortable... 1210 01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:33,000 No, actually...everyone is actually letting you off very (BLEEP) easy. 1211 01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:35,560 They're asking you questions. (GROANS) 1212 01:01:35,640 --> 01:01:37,600 No-one's coming at you. You've come at everyone. 1213 01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:38,760 We're not coming at you because we... 1214 01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:41,520 ..we want this relationship to work. I'm getting questioned. 1215 01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:42,560 I'm uncomfortable. Yeah. 1216 01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:43,600 So it's hard. That's fair. 1217 01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:45,360 But at the end of the day, we're all coming from a good place. 1218 01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:47,160 We've seen how amazing your relationship has been... 1219 01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:48,320 Mm-hm. 1220 01:01:48,400 --> 01:01:52,000 ..so, like, to see it just go down the drain now would be tragic. 1221 01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:53,120 Yeah. 1222 01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:54,520 So it's all coming from a good place. 1223 01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:57,000 JEFF: I'd hate this relationship to end. 1224 01:01:57,080 --> 01:01:59,000 Like, they've been together for a long time 1225 01:01:59,080 --> 01:02:01,160 and they've been through some tough stuff, 1226 01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:02,440 so hopefully he can realise 1227 01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:04,400 that this relationship is not worth throwing away. 1228 01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:05,960 What's changed? 1229 01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:10,560 I don't know. I... Yeah. 1230 01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:14,360 ADRIAN: Dave and Veronica are being very quiet 1231 01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:16,360 about their time together, you know. 1232 01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:17,720 It's got me thinking. 1233 01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:22,200 You know what doesn't make sense to me, is that... 1234 01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:25,720 You know what doesn't make sense to me, is you spent two days with V 1235 01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:27,120 and all of a sudden, you realise, 1236 01:02:27,200 --> 01:02:30,040 "Oh, shit, I actually don't know if I've got these feelings 1237 01:02:30,080 --> 01:02:32,480 "for, you know...for Jamie." 1238 01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:35,880 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1239 01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:40,200 Did you spend time with V 1240 01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:41,800 and be, like, "Oh, you know what, maybe V's more my type"? 1241 01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:44,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1242 01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:47,840 JAMIE: Is V more your type? "This is what I've realised." 1243 01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:56,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1244 01:02:56,640 --> 01:02:59,480 You spent two days with V and all of a sudden you realise, 1245 01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:02,600 "Oh, shit, I actually don't know if I've got these feelings 1246 01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:05,280 "for, you know...for Jamie." 1247 01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:07,080 Did you spend time with V and be, like, 1248 01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:08,360 "Oh, you know what, maybe V's more my type"? 1249 01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:13,520 Oh, my god. What are you talking about? 1250 01:03:15,040 --> 01:03:17,280 Is V more your type? 1251 01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:21,360 No. No. 1252 01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:24,920 Veronica and I spent three days together 1253 01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:26,280 and we had a laugh and we got along. 1254 01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:28,920 And that's it. That's not what it was at all. 1255 01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:31,760 DAVE: I feel like Adrian's a bit of a snake. 1256 01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:35,120 Well, asking those kind of questions 1257 01:03:35,200 --> 01:03:39,040 and clearly seeing where Jamie and I are, it's snake-like. 1258 01:03:39,120 --> 01:03:42,280 ELIOT: Veronica said that the two days she spent with Dave, 1259 01:03:42,360 --> 01:03:45,880 she felt more connected than with me for a whole month. 1260 01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:47,000 It's not hard. 1261 01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:49,320 He actually looked at my eyeballs and he was talking to me, Eliot. 1262 01:03:49,400 --> 01:03:51,200 Stop trying to make it something that it's not. 1263 01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:58,160 Eliot was trying to imply that Dave and I have a "connection". 1264 01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:00,520 Unbelievable. 1265 01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:04,240 Oh, yeah, not a vibe. Not a vibe. 1266 01:04:05,520 --> 01:04:08,600 Dave, I just want to know, do you want to fight for this? 1267 01:04:08,680 --> 01:04:11,080 Like, do you see any worth in fighting for what's there? 1268 01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:12,000 RHI: And there's no right answer. 1269 01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:14,680 Like, say actually how you feel 'cause she needs the truth. 1270 01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:17,120 JEFF: Do you want this... You want this, don't you? 1271 01:04:17,160 --> 01:04:19,040 Like, do you want this relationship? 1272 01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:21,840 Of course I want this to work. 1273 01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:28,760 You are so special to me. 1274 01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:32,720 You know who I am, you really do 1275 01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:34,400 and this is a situation I've handled badly. 1276 01:04:37,760 --> 01:04:39,680 I really do care about you, Jamie. 1277 01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:43,680 You know, I do want to fight for this. 1278 01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:47,520 You need to figure out... If you want to be with me, prove it. 1279 01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:51,680 I cannot carry this team anymore. Yeah, OK. 1280 01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:54,280 It is your turn to pull your finger out of your arse 1281 01:04:54,360 --> 01:04:57,000 if you want to be with me, because I (BLEEP) deserve everything. 1282 01:04:57,040 --> 01:04:58,680 Yeah, OK. 1283 01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:01,240 I'm not gonna put anything into this anymore. 1284 01:05:03,080 --> 01:05:06,760 If you're really that dead keen on me, prove it. 1285 01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:09,000 DAVE: I'll be happy to. 1286 01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:14,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1287 01:05:22,400 --> 01:05:23,600 Still married. 1288 01:05:26,400 --> 01:05:27,560 (GULPS) 1289 01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:30,560 NARRATOR: Sunday night... 1290 01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:33,560 I feel inadequate sometimes. I feel like I don't measure up... 1291 01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:36,320 ..vulnerabilities laid bare. 1292 01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:39,920 It's because maybe he's not attracted to me like I am to him. 1293 01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:44,440 It's the second-last commitment ceremony of the experiment. 1294 01:05:44,520 --> 01:05:46,600 I came here to find my forever person. 1295 01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:49,600 I wholeheartedly hope that it's Jeff. 1296 01:05:49,680 --> 01:05:50,960 ALESSANDRA: I love that. MEL: Yeah. 1297 01:05:51,000 --> 01:05:55,440 JOHN: Somebody over there is lying. 1298 01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:57,680 The experts apply the pressure... 1299 01:05:57,760 --> 01:05:59,280 You're lacking emotional intelligence. 1300 01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:02,280 There seems to be a sensitivity chip missing. 1301 01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:06,240 ..as Paul faces the consequences of his honesty letter. 1302 01:06:06,320 --> 01:06:08,920 I felt like I can't fully trust him right now. 1303 01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:10,560 Are you now questioning whether or not 1304 01:06:10,640 --> 01:06:12,600 you and Paul are truly compatible as a couple? 1305 01:06:14,480 --> 01:06:17,520 I didn't expect that. (GROANS) 1306 01:06:17,560 --> 01:06:19,560 And then... 1307 01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:23,360 JOHN: We spent five couch sessions with you 1308 01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:26,040 thinking everything is going well. 1309 01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:28,160 ..Dave's moment of truth. 1310 01:06:28,240 --> 01:06:31,320 Do you have romantic feelings for Jamie, Dave? 1311 01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:32,880 DAVE: Um... 1312 01:06:34,360 --> 01:06:35,680 RYAN: (WHISPERS) Damn. 1313 01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:43,720 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv 98964

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