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WOMAN: Previously...
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You talk as though
you're above them.
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..the experts delivered
some hard truths
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at the Commitment Ceremony...
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That's your problem.
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..as Lauren and Clint
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chose to leave the experiment.
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MAN: I'm actually pretty embarrassed
for you.
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Can you see yourself falling in love
with Rhi?
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Yeah.
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Love and happiness
were on full display...
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Can you see yourself falling in love
with Jeff?
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I can.
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..as relationships continued
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their positive progress.
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I'm happy, you know.
We're in a great place right now.
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I'm also staying.
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ALESSANDRA: That's an enthusiastic,
big 'stay'.
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We love it.
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I defended you and your husband.
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When? When?
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Alessandra called out
Jamie's fight style.
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I'm like a mother bear.
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Mama bears don't do this
to their cubs.
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When you somebody
conduct themselves horribly,
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emulating that, you become worse
than the perpetrator.
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And thanks to
the experts' intervention,
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a friendship was rekindled...
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How I spoke to you,
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conducted myself,
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that was wrong, and I'm sorry.
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Thank you, Jamie.
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..before Jamie's bold declaration
to Dave.
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I said, "I love you.
Like, I really love you."
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OK, so you haven't said it back.
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(PENSIVE MUSIC)
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No.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Tonight...
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(KNOCK AT DOOR)
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Oh, my gosh.
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What?!
(LAUGHS)
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Are you lying?
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What's happening?
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..the experiment enters
a critical new phase.
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We have decided to bring back
a polarising element
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of Feedback Week,
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the partner swap.
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Over two big nights,
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Feedback Week will see
temporary new pairings...
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Honey, I'm home.
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RHI: 'Jacqui will pack her bags
and move in with Jeff.'
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TEEJAY: 'Beth will pack her bags
and move in with Ryan'. (LAUGHS)
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..as these new combinations
offer fresh perspective.
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ELIOT: Rhi and Jeff - I see them
as a kind of model couple.
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Maybe there's
something I can learn from this.
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While some embrace Feedback Week
and the partner swap...
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That's really constructive.
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Do you honestly think Dave and I
will last beyond this experiment?
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No.
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..others will be put to
the ultimate test.
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I don't wanna be doing this.
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What threatens to derail
Paul's marriage to Carina?
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Yeah.
Wow. That is so wrong.
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I'm quite of how she's gonna react.
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(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
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(JAUNTY MUSIC)
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It's the morning after
the fifth Commitment Ceremony,
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and everyone is still processing
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Lauren and Clint's
confrontational couch session...
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..which saw them face off
with the group...
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I do feel like the behaviour
at dinner parties,
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which is usually led by
the four of you in the corner there,
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is boganic behaviour.
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..and resulted
in the couple's abrupt exit
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from the experiment.
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JOHN: 'Leaving the zoo.'
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And another barb.
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I just feel like
she still couldn't see
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what was wrong with her behaviour.
TEEJAY: Yeah.
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She didn't have a spark
with her husband,
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she didn't care about
anyone's opinion,
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She couldn't learn anything
from the environment,
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and I'm really glad she's left,
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because she caused a rift
amongst all my friends.
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And the rift Lauren
created at the retreat
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came to a head last night
during Carina's couch session.
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The behaviour that I saw
at the girls' night,
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it was like
a 'Mean Girls' 2.0 environment.
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JAMIE: You're still suggesting
that I'm a mean girl.
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I defended you and your husband.
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And, in front of the experts,
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Jamie doubled down on her defence.
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I defend the cubs.
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I'm like a mother bear.
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ALESSANDRA: Mama bears
don't do this to their cubs.
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Your friends
were intimidated by you.
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And Alessandra's stern words
helped Jamie to see the light.
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Carina, that is my behaviour
that was wrong, and I'm sorry.
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Thank you, Jamie.
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(THOUGHTFUL MUSIC)
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I could see on your face
that you're feeling a lot better.
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Like, yeah, it's good. I'm glad.
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Yeah, I feel like a massive weight
has just lifted off my shoulders.
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Yeah.
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At the end of the day, like,
I am here for you
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and our relationship.
Yeah, exactly.
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So it feels so much lighter already
between you and me,
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knowing that that's sorted.
Yeah.
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And it means so much to me...
Yeah.
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..that you were
literally by my side.
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And that's all I could hope for.
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Paul and I just got through
a really tough time,
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so now I'm feeling very energised.
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I'm feeling really good
in my relationship with Paul.
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I feel like we are so connected
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and we are on the same page,
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like we were at the very beginning,
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and we, yeah,
couldn't be any better.
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While Carina and Paul are ready
to look ahead...
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(JAMIE SIGHS)
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..Jamie remains remorseful.
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I took the retreat
as, like, an opportunity
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to just release
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and say nasty things
and hurt people with my words.
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I was aggressive,
like, all these things,
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like,
that I personally don't agree with.
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But, like,
I'm really trying to remind myself
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that that's not who I am.
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DAVE: You are a good person,
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and you do have a good heart.
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And I know that,
because I know who you are.
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(GENTLE MUSIC)
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Thank you.
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The only silver lining
in this is Dave and I -
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we've come closer together.
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He was like, you know,
just reassuring me,
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and he comforted me the whole time.
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It was the couple's strong bond
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that prompted Jamie
to reveal her true feelings.
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Yeah, I covered his mouth.
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I said, "I'm gonna say something,
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"and I don't want you
to say anything."
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And I said, "I love you.
Like, I really love you.
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"Now goodnight,"
and I told him to go to bed.
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OK, so you haven't said it back.
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No.
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I obviously have stronger feelings
for Dave than he has for me.
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I've said I loved him,
and he hasn't.
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But I do think
he's got real feelings,
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and we are talking a life beyond
this experiment.
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Just because he's not
right where I am right now
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doesn't mean he's not on his path
to get there.
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Jamie saying that she loves me
six weeks in here
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sort of caught me by surprise.
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I'm not there yet
with the love side.
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I normally take a lot longer to...
to say those words.
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Jamie wasn't the only one
to confess her love last night.
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Our couch session was a bit cute.
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(LAUGHS) It was a bit cute.
Wasn't it?
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Can you see yourself falling in love
with Rhi?
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(LAUGHS) Real hard-hitting.
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Um...
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Yeah. (LAUGHS)
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Yeah.
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So, Rhi,
what about from your perspective?
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Can you see yourself
falling in love with Jeff?
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I can.
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I'm glad that happened,
because, you know,
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we haven't even talked about that
ourselves, and...
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..you know, I think without
Mel sort of drawing that out...
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Yeah.
It wouldn't have probably...
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It probably wouldn't have
come out of my mouth otherwise.
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(LAUGHS)
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You know, Mel brought
that out of Rhi last night,
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and I didn't have to do it,
so it made my job pretty easy.
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I'm blushing again.
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(CHUCKLES)
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You know, I don't wanna
get too far into the future,
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but if it is like it is now,
then it's gonna be awesome.
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Ah! (GRUNTS)
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(BOTH LAUGH)
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Mwah.
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(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
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This morning marks a major milestone
for our couples...
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..as they embark on
one of the most important phases
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of the experiment...
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..Feedback Week.
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And this year, our couples
are in for a major surprise.
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It just... It just...
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
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Oh. (LAUGHS)
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Baby, go get it.
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(LAUGHS) Yay!
Haven't heard a knock for a while.
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I know.
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Oh, my gosh.
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Don't read it in your head.
Read it out loud.
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Ooh.
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What?
(LAUGHS)
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No, what's happening?
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'Carina and Paul, as the experiment
enters its final weeks...'
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'..may be contemplating
whether your bond with your partner
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'is strong enough to withstand
life away from the experiment.'
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'Sometimes the best perspective
is an outsider's point of view'.
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We have decided to bring back
a polarising element
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of Feedback Week,
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the partner swap.
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'For the next three days,
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'Veronica will pack her bags
and move in with Dave...'
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What?
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'..while Rhi will move into
your apartment with Eliot.' (LAUGHS)
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This is not about trading partners.
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That's crazy.
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This is designed to give
a fresh perspective
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to the relationship.
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TEEJAY: 'Beth will pack her bags
and move in with Ryan...' (LAUGHS)
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Are you joking?
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'..while Carina will move into
your apartment with Teejay.'
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(LAUGHS)
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Are you... Are you lying?
(LAUGHS) That's...
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What the hell am I gonna learn
from Ryan?
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His relationship's a shitshow.
What's he gonna do,
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tell me to stop speaking
and silence me?
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I don't think so, mate.
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If he does serve you up
a large serving of bullshit...
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..you can bite your lip.
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I will absolutely not be
biting my lip with Ryan.
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'For the next three days,
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'Jacqui will pack her bags
and move in with Jeff
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'while Beth will move into
your apartment with Ryan.'
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(LAUGHS)
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(COUGHS AND LAUGHS)
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You got Beth.
Good lord.
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She's gonna be such a nightmare
for you.
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No!
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So, Beth's gonna be telling you
what to work on.
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You've gotta tell Beth
what to work on.
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I'm not seeing Beth
help any relationship so far.
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She's kind of, like,
just been explosive or vulgar.
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And if she's asking about
our relationship,
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it's gonna be, you know,
sunshine and rainbows
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as far as she's concerned.
(CHUCKLES)
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Thankfully, it's gonna be easy,
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because Jacqui and I are in
a really good spot.
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How are you gonna go with Jeff?
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I don't wanna go into their room.
It's apparently...
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Well, it's a studio.
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I've been in it before. It's tiny.
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So that's your biggest issue -
is the size of the room?
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Well, I'm a bit worried about Rhi.
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She thinks, yeah...
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Oh, can you imagine
her reading the letter now?
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She will be freaking out.
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They'll be having a conversation now
about it, like... (GASPS)
254
00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,400
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
255
00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:52,720
'For the next three days,
256
00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:55,160
'Rhi will pack her bags
and move in with Eliot...
257
00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:58,120
'..while Jacqui will move into
your apartment with Jeff.'
258
00:10:58,200 --> 00:10:59,400
What?!
(LAUGHS)
259
00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:02,440
(LAUGHS)
260
00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:03,640
Jacqui?
261
00:11:03,680 --> 00:11:05,320
(SLURPS)
262
00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:07,160
(LAUGHS)
Oh, my god.
263
00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:08,400
Well, she thinks you're a bit cute,
264
00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:09,800
so that makes sense.
(GROANS)
265
00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:11,520
I don't think Jacqui
has any feelings for me.
266
00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:13,600
Well,
I hope she has no feelings for me,
267
00:11:13,680 --> 00:11:17,840
because, yeah, that would be
very strange and uncomfortable.
268
00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:19,040
Either way,
269
00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:20,680
Jacqui's quite a lot.
270
00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:23,320
This three days is gonna feel like
three years, seriously.
271
00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,600
(LAUGHS)
272
00:11:25,680 --> 00:11:27,520
I'm really confident
in mine and Jeff's relationship,
273
00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:29,960
so I personally
don't feel bothered by it.
274
00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:31,600
I think it'll be very interesting.
275
00:11:31,680 --> 00:11:35,080
She's not gonna wanna move back in
with Ryan after living with you.
276
00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,280
(LAUGHS)
277
00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:39,680
While Rhi is finding some humour
in the task...
278
00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:43,640
..Eliot is looking at the positives.
279
00:11:43,680 --> 00:11:45,480
I was not expecting this.
280
00:11:46,680 --> 00:11:47,720
But it might be good for us.
281
00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,200
It might be good
to get some outside perspective
282
00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:52,720
on day-to-day living.
283
00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:54,320
Looking at Rhi and Jeff,
284
00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:56,480
I see them as
a kind of a model couple.
285
00:11:56,560 --> 00:11:58,720
They have
a really good understanding
286
00:11:58,760 --> 00:11:59,800
of each other.
287
00:11:59,880 --> 00:12:02,160
You contrast that with
my relationship with Veronica.
288
00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:05,840
I really find that there's
kind of very little understanding.
289
00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:08,400
Maybe there's something
I can learn from this.
290
00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:10,640
I'm curious to see how much reading
you're gonna get done with Rhi.
291
00:12:10,680 --> 00:12:12,120
(CHUCKLES)
292
00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:17,640
I'm looking forward to seeing
if Dave gets through the three days.
293
00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:20,480
You think he
might get...?
294
00:12:20,560 --> 00:12:22,640
Why would he wouldn't get through
the three days?
295
00:12:22,680 --> 00:12:23,880
(LAUGHS) Why can't you...?
296
00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:25,080
Why would you say that?
You just...
297
00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:26,360
What's a criticism, though?
298
00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:28,120
You just had a dig at me
because I'm always reading.
299
00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:30,200
I'm not digging. I'm observing.
300
00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:32,440
Yeah, no, I... So I can...
It's an observation.
301
00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:34,040
I read sometimes,
and sometimes I don't read.
302
00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:35,240
You read very often.
303
00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:38,560
Yeah. OK.
You do read a lot.
304
00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:39,640
I'm not criticising.
305
00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:41,240
I would say
I spend less time reading
306
00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:42,600
than you spend in the bathroom.
307
00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:45,440
(TENSE MUSIC)
308
00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:48,360
That's just...
That's really just being honest.
309
00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:49,800
OK, babe.
310
00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:53,440
You are always negative towards me,
and I don't know how to, like...
311
00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:55,120
You literally just said...
..navigate it.
312
00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:56,160
.."All you do is read."
313
00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:58,000
I'm just addressing the things
that you're saying...
314
00:12:58,080 --> 00:12:59,360
No, you read all...
..that aren't true.
315
00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:01,880
I said I under... I wonder
if you'll read as much with me
316
00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:03,560
as you will with Rhi.
That's a snide remark.
317
00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,160
It's not a snide remark.
Of course I'm gonna...
318
00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:06,400
BOTH: Obviously...
No, it's not.
319
00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:07,600
I'm allowed to address things.
320
00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:12,840
Veronica didn't really tell me much
about...
321
00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:14,720
..what she's expecting.
322
00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:18,080
It felt like
she was just more focused on
323
00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:19,160
trying to criticise me.
324
00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,200
You never have anything positive
to say to me.
325
00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:23,520
Everything is so negative with you.
326
00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:25,000
You know,
I'm at the point where it's like
327
00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:28,680
I need someone to move in here
with us, basically,
328
00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:30,680
to have a functional relationship
with Veronica.
329
00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:33,240
I'm done with this conversation now,
Eliot.
330
00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:36,480
I'm gonna go start packing my bags
to move in with Dave.
331
00:13:36,560 --> 00:13:38,560
Hopefully he's able to have
a normal conversation with me.
332
00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:40,760
I find that hard to believe.
333
00:13:42,680 --> 00:13:44,920
I think Rhi will be
much more reasonable,
334
00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:46,760
like I'll know what...
335
00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:50,880
..you know, Rhi is thinking,
what she's trying to tell me.
336
00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:54,120
(TENSE MUSIC)
337
00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:56,840
While Eliot is looking forward to
Rhi's perspective...
338
00:13:58,120 --> 00:13:59,200
..across the hall,
339
00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:01,760
Awhina is apprehensive.
340
00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:04,360
Three days.
341
00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:06,560
Adrian.
It'd be weird for you, to be honest.
342
00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:07,600
Why? What am I doing?
343
00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:09,280
(CHUCKLES)
344
00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:12,280
'Awhina will pack her bags
and move in with...
345
00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:14,880
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
346
00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:16,000
'..Paul.'
347
00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:18,040
That is weird.
That's weird.
348
00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:21,080
(TENSE MUSIC)
349
00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:28,200
Not really, though.
350
00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:34,720
(TENSE MUSIC)
351
00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:37,600
'..while Awhina moves into
your apartment with Paul.'
352
00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:39,120
(LAUGHS) What the (BLEEP)?
No!
353
00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:42,080
I don't like that.
354
00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:43,400
No, I don't wanna do that.
355
00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:48,560
Why Awhina out of all the girls?
356
00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:51,600
A few weeks ago...
357
00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:56,280
..Paul told me that he had
a little fling back in the day...
358
00:14:57,960 --> 00:14:59,440
..with Awhina's twin sister.
359
00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:02,840
(TENSE MUSIC)
360
00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:07,720
So, yeah...
361
00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:11,280
You've already
slept with her sister.
362
00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:12,960
Now you're gonna sleep
in the same bed as her.
363
00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:16,000
(TENSE MUSIC)
364
00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:21,480
Yeah, obviously thought... Yeah.
365
00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:23,840
'Cause, like, your sister dated,
like...
366
00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:27,600
It is a bit odd.
367
00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:31,400
He and my twin sister have a history
prior to this experience.
368
00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:33,360
Beautiful.
369
00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:35,480
But they're both from Perth,
370
00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:38,760
and they were very casual
a couple of years ago.
371
00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:40,360
I can't really remember
the timeframe.
372
00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:41,760
It was very short-lived.
373
00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:45,280
But she had nothing bad
to say about Paul,
374
00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,880
so I feel like it'll be a breeze
for me.
375
00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:50,520
My twin sister and I
speak every day,
376
00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:52,200
maybe, like, two, three,
four times a day.
377
00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:55,040
She knows that...
378
00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:57,760
I've spoken to her in regards
to Paul being here
379
00:15:57,840 --> 00:15:59,760
and saying
that we've actually become,
380
00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:01,000
like, good friends.
381
00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:04,720
Paul's a really nice guy...
382
00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:07,240
..so this doesn't need to be
a big deal.
383
00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:11,760
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
384
00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:15,400
My heart's racing.
(CHUCKLES)
385
00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:17,320
What's up?
My heart is actually racing.
386
00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:21,120
(TENSE MUSIC)
387
00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:23,080
Look, I mean... (SIGHS)
388
00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:26,120
..no hard feelings towards Awhina,
but...
389
00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:30,400
..Awhina and her sister
look identical.
390
00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:35,520
So I don't want
Awhina moving into our apartment
391
00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:38,480
and sleeping in our bed
with my husband.
392
00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:41,520
(TENSE MUSIC)
393
00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:48,840
WOMAN: Our couples are in shock...
394
00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:51,000
JEFF: Don't leave me.
(LAUGHS)
395
00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:52,880
Please?
396
00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:53,920
No!
397
00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:56,120
Do I get conjugal visits?
398
00:16:56,960 --> 00:16:58,920
..after learning that,
for the first stage
399
00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:00,480
of Feedback Week,
400
00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:04,920
the experts are reintroducing
the partner-swap task.
401
00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:06,720
Are you writing me a little letter?
402
00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:09,720
That will be cute
when I read that later.
403
00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:12,480
The partner-swap task
will allow our couples
404
00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:15,920
to gain an outside perspective
on their relationships
405
00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:20,080
so they can make informed decisions
when deciding their future
406
00:17:20,120 --> 00:17:21,320
beyond the experiment.
407
00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:23,600
JACQUI:
What if she cuts our photos in half?
408
00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:25,520
This is our shrine,
and no-one's gonna touch it.
409
00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:29,360
While this is unconventional
and confronting,
410
00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:31,080
it could also be the very thing
411
00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,880
that gives our couples
some much-needed clarity
412
00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:35,160
over their relationships.
413
00:17:37,120 --> 00:17:41,160
While Awhina's twin sister shares
a past romance with Paul,
414
00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:43,880
Awhina's been quick
to embrace the idea
415
00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:46,400
of moving into Paul's apartment.
416
00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:48,480
How do you think
it's gonna be living with Paul?
417
00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:51,040
I actually reckon
it's gonna be very easy.
418
00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:54,600
Like, he and I have, like,
formed a friendship here.
419
00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:56,680
He seems pretty quiet.
420
00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:59,280
Paul's a really nice guy.
We are friends.
421
00:17:59,360 --> 00:18:00,680
I'm telling you,
I survived my husband
422
00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:03,120
for the last eight weeks.
I can survive anyone for three days.
423
00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:04,520
(LAUGHS)
424
00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:07,600
Do you think Carina and Paul
are on the same page?
425
00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:09,640
They seem pretty smitten
with each other.
426
00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:11,760
And they seem in a good place.
427
00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:14,880
Are you gonna miss me? (LAUGHS)
428
00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:16,120
No.
(LAUGHS)
429
00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:17,960
Yeah, me and Awhina
are in a good place right now.
430
00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:21,800
I think maybe she'll realise
maybe she does miss me.
431
00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:24,960
Maybe she might realise
how good she has it.
432
00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:27,640
Oops. (SNORTS)
433
00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:28,680
Do not help me, please.
434
00:18:28,720 --> 00:18:30,040
Thanks, babe. No, thanks.
435
00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:31,760
(LAUGHS)
436
00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:33,640
But down the hall...
437
00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:38,080
..Carina's still struggling
to come to terms with the idea
438
00:18:38,120 --> 00:18:40,000
of Awhina moving in.
439
00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:42,040
Are you OK?
No, I'm not OK.
440
00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:43,240
Oh.
441
00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:45,040
I'm uncomfortable.
442
00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:47,680
Oh, baby.
443
00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:50,960
(DOWNBEAT MUSIC)
444
00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:52,920
Oh, hey.
445
00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:53,960
Sit down.
446
00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:57,200
I'm just thinking about the fact
447
00:18:57,280 --> 00:19:01,520
that I have to actively
loan my husband out to Awhina
448
00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:04,880
when Paul has history
with her twin sister.
449
00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:06,120
It's just weird.
450
00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,360
Look at me. What's going on
through your head at the moment?
451
00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:11,000
Everything.
I'm trying to process it all...
452
00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:12,080
Yeah, I get it.
453
00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,000
..and how, like,
uncomfortable I am with it.
454
00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:18,560
I get a bit protective
and possessive,
455
00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:23,160
and sharing my husband
with another woman...
456
00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:25,960
..it's like a form of cheating.
457
00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:27,320
(SNIFFLES)
458
00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:30,520
It completely goes against
my values,
459
00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:31,960
my religion,
460
00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:33,480
the way I was raised.
461
00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:36,800
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
462
00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,280
So, before we start,
I'll just say a very quick prayer.
463
00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:40,840
Father, Son, Holy Spirit.
464
00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:42,240
Amen. Dear Lord,
465
00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:43,440
we thank you for...
466
00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:45,880
I was born and raised as a Catholic.
467
00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:49,280
I see it as a sense of community,
468
00:19:49,360 --> 00:19:51,480
and it brings out
the good in people.
469
00:19:52,360 --> 00:19:54,000
Guys, help yourself, please.
470
00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:55,120
(LAUGHTER)
471
00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:56,800
Everyone dig in.
472
00:19:57,760 --> 00:19:59,280
Yes, like,
473
00:19:59,360 --> 00:20:03,440
I can be very conservative
and traditional, but, you know,
474
00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:07,080
from seeing my parents being married
for almost 45 years,
475
00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:10,760
and they met
when they were 15 and 16.
476
00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:14,360
I just think of marriage
as like a fairytale -
477
00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:19,360
you know, being married once
and once only,
478
00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:22,000
so that's where I come from.
479
00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,200
For me, like, loyalty is everything.
480
00:20:27,360 --> 00:20:28,960
I don't wanna do it.
481
00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:31,200
(SIGHS) I don't.
But...
482
00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:32,800
(VOICE BREAKS)
I don't agree with it.
483
00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:35,720
Like, I don't wanna be doing this.
484
00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:41,440
Like, this doesn't feel like
it's gonna bring me closer to you.
485
00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:47,640
Is there something that scares you?
Are you scared of anything?
486
00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:49,640
I'm not... No, I just...
I just wanna...
487
00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:51,400
..think it's very weird.
It's like...
488
00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:52,440
Yeah, maybe.
489
00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:53,480
..the fact that, you know,
490
00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:57,720
like, you'll be having a shower,
and then she's, like, in the room.
491
00:20:57,760 --> 00:20:59,800
I can't. It's just (BLEEP) weird,
492
00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:02,040
and they're our... It's our bed.
493
00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:04,920
(TENSE MUSIC)
494
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,840
The thing I've had
with Awhina's twin sister, Cleo,
495
00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:09,280
was two years ago,
496
00:21:09,360 --> 00:21:12,200
and Carina has absolutely nothing
to worry about.
497
00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:13,240
It is weird.
498
00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:16,680
I'm feeling hell awkward and weird
about the whole thing as well.
499
00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:19,920
I feel like Carina's just gone for
a little holiday with Teejay.
500
00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:21,360
That's it. (LAUGHS)
501
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,520
Yeah, honestly, I'm OK.
Yeah, I'm fine with it. Yeah.
502
00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:28,960
(TENSE MUSIC)
503
00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:31,840
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
504
00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:37,800
(SIGHS)
505
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:39,600
What the hell is that?
506
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:43,400
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
507
00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:44,440
AWHINA: Hi. (LAUGHS)
508
00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:46,080
Oh shit.
(LAUGHS)
509
00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:48,960
How are you?
510
00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:50,200
Carina's just there.
511
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:54,280
Hi. Are you OK?
(LAUGHS)
512
00:21:54,360 --> 00:21:56,760
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm OK.
Are you... Have you been crying?
513
00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:58,200
Yeah, I just don't like this.
Yeah.
514
00:21:58,280 --> 00:21:59,600
She's... Yeah.
Oh, mate.
515
00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:01,040
Carina's feeling
really uncomfortable
516
00:22:01,120 --> 00:22:02,440
with the whole...
Carina.
517
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,400
Carina and I were just having a chat
about it,
518
00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:08,520
and then, yeah,
next minute Cleo walked in.
519
00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:11,080
It was very awkward.
520
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:12,800
Kind of like didn't know
where to stand.
521
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:13,880
I was like, "Oh." (CHUCKLES)
522
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:17,400
No.
523
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,760
(LAUGHS)
524
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:21,320
(BLEEP) Cleo, Awhina. Sorry.
525
00:22:21,360 --> 00:22:22,400
You know what?
526
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,800
Adrian practically
threw me out of the room.
527
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:26,720
(LAUGHS)
528
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:28,760
He was like, "Get out!"
529
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,280
(LAUGHS) He even told me
he'll pack my bags.
530
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:32,320
(LAUGHS)
531
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:34,080
Oh, my gosh. (LAUGHS)
He did.
532
00:22:34,120 --> 00:22:35,560
(LAUGHS)
533
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:36,680
And you know what I was like?
534
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:37,800
I literally was like,
535
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:40,040
"This is gonna be
a cruisy three days for me."
536
00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:41,680
Like, it's a long time.
537
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:42,800
One night is fine.
538
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,000
A sleepover, no worries. But...
Babe, sweetie, three days.
539
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:46,920
Saturday, we'll be back.
(SIGHS)
540
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:51,280
Kind of understand
where Carina is at with this task.
541
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,040
But I'm used to
being in relationships
542
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:55,640
where my partner worked away,
543
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:58,160
so I don't think
it's such a big deal.
544
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:00,320
Is Carina sad
'cause she's gonna miss you
545
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,600
or she feels uncomfortable
living with someone else?
546
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,640
Well, she feels uncomfortable
with the whole situation.
547
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:07,600
(TENSE MUSIC)
548
00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:09,120
Literally from day one, you know,
549
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,560
I haven't done anything for Carina
to not trust me.
550
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,840
So it does come across as Carina's,
you know,
551
00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:17,280
a little bit jealous
about the situation.
552
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:18,320
All good?
553
00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:24,360
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
554
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:25,720
OK, bye.
555
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:28,200
Bye, babe.
Have fun.
556
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:29,480
You have fun with Teejay.
557
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:30,760
Yes, thank you.
558
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,200
Um, yeah...
559
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,320
I'll see you...
See you, baby.
560
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:37,480
Come here.
..in three days.
561
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:41,360
(TENSE MUSIC)
562
00:23:44,360 --> 00:23:46,880
(GROANS) This is...
Oh...
563
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:48,760
Well, this is weird. (CHUCKLES)
564
00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:49,800
(CHUCKLES)
565
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:51,440
(CHUCKLES)
566
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,360
I kind of just feel like
it's like a friend sleepover now.
567
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:54,960
Yeah, legit.
568
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:57,040
But our reaction
was definitely different
569
00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:58,960
to yours and Carina's. (LAUGHS)
570
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:02,280
(TENSE MUSIC)
571
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:04,760
(CARINA SNIFFLES)
572
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:06,920
(CRIES)
573
00:24:08,360 --> 00:24:11,360
(DOWNBEAT MUSIC)
574
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:13,280
Feeling overwhelmed with emotion...
575
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,160
..Carina's requested
a temporary room to go to
576
00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,400
until she decides whether or not
577
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:22,880
to participate
in the partner-swap task.
578
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:27,080
I wouldn't be doing this
in the outside world.
579
00:24:27,120 --> 00:24:28,680
Like, you don't, like, sleep...
580
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:30,640
..do sleepovers.
581
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:32,880
Like, imagine if my husband
was doing, like,
582
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:34,640
a sleepover with another woman,
583
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:36,600
like, that's just (BLEEP) weird.
584
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:38,680
Even if they're just friends,
585
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:39,840
like, it's...
586
00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:41,960
Like, he'll be showering,
and then she's, like,
587
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:43,000
in the room next door.
588
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,360
Like, that's just weird to me.
589
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,920
Like, I don't feel comfortable
with that. (SNIFFLES)
590
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:53,640
(SIGHS) I trust him a lot,
but it's just like...
591
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,040
..this doesn't seem right in my gut.
592
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:58,400
Like, I feel off about it.
593
00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,280
(SOBS)
594
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:05,320
(POIGNANT MUSIC)
595
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,880
(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
596
00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,400
WOMAN: The partner-swap stage
of Feedback Week
597
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:14,640
has officially begun...
598
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,480
Time to go.
599
00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,320
OK. Oh!
600
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:22,160
..and our brides are preparing
to move into their new apartments
601
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:24,280
for the next three days.
602
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,080
Rhi is moving in with Eliot...
603
00:25:26,120 --> 00:25:27,520
(LAUGHS)
604
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:28,560
Hey, hey.
Hey.
605
00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:29,600
Oh, my god.
How are you?
606
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:30,960
How's it going?
Good.
607
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:33,240
Oh, my goodness.
608
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:36,480
..and Jamie's
going to be living with Adrian...
609
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:39,720
Oh, that is so cute.
610
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:42,920
I can't believe this is...
You guys have sex on this bed.
611
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:46,040
..while Veronica moves in with Dave.
612
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,080
How fun, huh?
613
00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:49,520
I was a bit nervous.
I'm not gonna lie.
614
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:53,000
I was like, "Jamie loves me."
(LAUGHS)
615
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,800
From what I've seen,
Dave's quite a nice guy,
616
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,880
so I think this is gonna be
a really chill couple of days.
617
00:26:00,120 --> 00:26:01,760
But while the other participants
618
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:05,080
are settling into
their temporary new homes,
619
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:09,920
Beth is taking her time packing
to delay her move-in with Ryan.
620
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:11,160
I just feel like it's never been
621
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,000
a productive conversation
with him at all, so...
622
00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:15,360
Yeah.
623
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,400
The two of them clashed
at the retreat
624
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:21,320
when Beth confronted Ryan
for prioritising the gym
625
00:26:21,360 --> 00:26:23,440
over intimacy with his wife.
626
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:24,920
You'd rather save your energy
for the...
627
00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,560
..the iron than her (BLEEP)?
(JACQUI LAUGHS)
628
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:28,880
Excuse my language.
Jeez Louise. No, well,
629
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,200
you better be excused...
But like...
630
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:31,400
..because that's like... Come on,
631
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,680
you're being really, really blunt
and offensive about it.
632
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:34,920
That's offensive.
633
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:39,960
I'm, like...
I'm open to learning things,
634
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:41,160
but I'm like... I...
635
00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,400
I hope I learn something.
636
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,400
So, Beth's gonna be telling you
what to work on.
637
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,480
You've gotta tell Beth
what to work on.
638
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,320
It could be a disaster
when she comes in,
639
00:26:51,360 --> 00:26:52,520
she's argumentative, she's rude,
640
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:54,920
and she could be on
a reconnaissance mission
641
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:57,160
to try get up dirt
on our relationship.
642
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,440
You know what? Jeff's gonna ask you
a lot of questions as well,
643
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:01,880
you know?
About you?
644
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:03,240
About me, about the relationship.
645
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,120
I think he's gonna be like,
646
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:10,320
"Jacqui, do you see, like,
living forever with this guy?"
647
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,160
Are you nervous?
648
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:14,560
Well, I mean, not nervous,
649
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,360
but I know that you don't have
much of a filter. (CHUCKLES)
650
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:21,280
Interesting.
651
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:23,920
Some people
might wanna sort of dig in
652
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:27,800
and create a more divisive angle
for this task,
653
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:31,120
but we've discussed it, like,
four or five times already.
654
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:33,080
I've got faith
that she's gonna speak on the work
655
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,640
that we've put in day in, day out
to be better.
656
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,080
Just remember, like,
outside opinions,
657
00:27:39,120 --> 00:27:41,600
outside 'advice' has...
658
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,840
Is not helpful.
..has been helpful 1% of the time.
659
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:46,160
(LAUGHS)
Yeah, I hear you.
660
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:51,840
I've discovered that Ryan has
an extreme sense of masculine pride.
661
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:56,720
Ryan wants me to stay silent
and just, like, put on a happy face.
662
00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:00,960
But I do wanna get Jeff's opinion
663
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:04,560
and maybe even help Ryan understand
gender equality and that, like,
664
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:07,840
traditional notions of masculinity
are a little bit outdated.
665
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:10,680
But I don't want it to be like,
666
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:12,080
"Ryan,
you need to be more like Jeff."
667
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,840
That would
really destroy Ryan's pride and ego.
668
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:17,640
I can't even... (LAUGHS)
669
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:19,120
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
670
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:22,080
(LAUGHS)
(SIGHS) I'll get it.
671
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,920
I'll get it. You stay here.
I've got it.
672
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,600
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
673
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,280
Oh, hi.
Hi. You're still here.
674
00:28:29,360 --> 00:28:30,320
Yeah.
Hi.
675
00:28:30,360 --> 00:28:34,520
(TENSE MUSIC)
676
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:36,080
Hi.
Welcome.
677
00:28:36,120 --> 00:28:37,280
Thanks.
678
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:39,680
Wow.
679
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:42,160
You guys have a lot of pictures.
680
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:43,240
Yeah.
681
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:44,800
Don't you?
So that's the shrine over there.
682
00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:45,840
Stunning.
683
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,720
Well, very interesting.
Yeah.
684
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,280
When I walk into their home,
685
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:53,840
there's photos everywhere.
686
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:57,880
Like, they've got a shrine.
They've got a shrine.
687
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,040
It's not the Jacqui and Ryan
that we see, is it?
688
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:05,520
Yeah, welcome to our place.
689
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,760
Their relationship
seems lovey-dovey.
690
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,240
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
691
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:13,720
But when I see them together
692
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,280
at cocktail parties
and dinner parties
693
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:18,360
and at the retreat,
completely different relationship.
694
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:20,680
That's really shocked me,
695
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,320
so I wanna get to the bottom
of the issues that they're having.
696
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:28,800
What did you feel when you saw
the names on the note, on the task?
697
00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,320
Um, it was 100% horror.
698
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,800
And I'm sure I probably wasn't
your first choice either.
699
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,000
No, no.
Yeah.
700
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:37,760
So, yeah...
701
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:41,520
I think about this with glee.
702
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,720
When Teejay and Beth
open the envelope and saw my name,
703
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:46,720
how they squirmed.
You know, it's delicious.
704
00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:49,200
What?
705
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,720
Oh, yeah, um... (CHUCKLES)
We might be...
706
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,360
We might be putting out a swear jar.
707
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:57,520
Yeah.
(LAUGHS)
708
00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:58,960
You've got to be (BLEEP) joking.
709
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:00,520
(COUPLE LAUGH)
710
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,200
The swear jar was like
a bit of a gag,
711
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:05,840
but if she starts swearing at me,
like, that'd be the end of it.
712
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:07,680
You can piss off out of here.
713
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,320
Well, I've already broke it.
(COUPLE LAUGH)
714
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,480
That's OK.
We can give you one warning.
715
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:15,520
(LAUGHS)
716
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:16,800
I won't be here to enforce
the rules,
717
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,120
so I'll leave it in my...
trusted hands of my husband,
718
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:20,440
who'll enforce the rules.
Mm.
719
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:23,480
(TENSE MUSIC)
720
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:28,840
Beth's spent a lot of time
judging our relationship,
721
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:31,920
just throwing out pure ignorance
and vulgarity and swearing,
722
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:32,960
all that type of stuff.
723
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:35,360
So she's gonna get an insight
into it
724
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,000
and hopefully maybe
shut the (BLEEP) up as well.
725
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:41,520
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
726
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,160
OK, well, I guess I'm going now.
727
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,080
Alright, I'll give you a hand.
Thanks, Ryan.
728
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:48,480
Have fun.
Thank you.
729
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:51,800
Enjoy my hubby.
Bye.
730
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:53,080
(RYAN LAUGHS)
I will.
731
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,120
(LAUGHS)
I'll get the door for you.
732
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:56,320
Thank you.
733
00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,960
While Beth puts on a brave face,
734
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:02,880
Jacqui has her own concerns over
what she's walking into.
735
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:06,080
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
736
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,600
Never had any hard feelings
towards Jeff,
737
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:12,840
but I know Rhi
is probably extra anxious.
738
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:16,000
Even just a friendly coffee
triggered her
739
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:18,360
to react in this insane way.
740
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:23,720
Like, the smallest thing
can upset her.
741
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:25,600
I reached out for support.
742
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,440
It was that I wanted a man's opinion
about some of the things...
743
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,320
But you could have a man's opinion
with me there.
744
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,800
A lot of girls can experience
envy and jealousy,
745
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:39,080
and I wouldn't be surprised
if Rhi's going through that.
746
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:40,720
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
747
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:43,160
So I know she's probably gonna
take it out on me a little bit,
748
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:47,120
so I have to walk across eggshells
while I'm in Jeff's apartment,
749
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:48,640
because everything I do
750
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,680
will probably be interrogated
by Rhi.
751
00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:52,920
Who could this be?
752
00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,080
Hello, Jac.
(LAUGHS)
753
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:57,480
Come in.
Hello.
754
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:58,520
Who would have thought?
755
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,120
Who would have thought?
How are you?
756
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:01,320
Good.
Let me help you with your bag.
757
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:03,600
Thank you. Oh, very nice of you.
(GRUNTS) Nah, all good. It's heavy.
758
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:05,080
I brought you something.
759
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:07,440
A dress to iron.
760
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:09,680
Sorry, to steam. (LAUGHS)
(LAUGHS)
761
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:11,440
I need this steamed
before the next DP,
762
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:12,600
so it's like, "Why not?"
763
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:14,480
I can steam that for you.
Yeah, that'd be great. Thanks.
764
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:15,640
No issues. Come in.
765
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:16,760
Thank you.
766
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:17,880
Come, come.
767
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:19,160
Yeah, it's a... (LAUGHS)
768
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,640
I did find that quite funny,
that Jacqui's walked in the door
769
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:23,200
and gone, "I've got a dress
for you to steam."
770
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:24,760
I was like,
"Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. #
771
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:27,080
Hopefully she settles in
and chills out a little bit.
772
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:29,160
Hope you like salmon.
773
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:30,920
I love salmon.
I actually brought my own salmon.
774
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:32,560
Oh, did you? Don't worry. I'll...
I brought...
775
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:33,880
I'm gonna cook you a dinner tonight.
776
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:34,920
Yay! Oh, my god.
Yeah.
777
00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,280
I was like, "OK, I'm gonna show up
with my dress ready to be steamed,
778
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,320
"my belly empty and..." (LAUGHS)
779
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,360
Jeff has been incredibly welcoming.
780
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,680
Salmon's my favourite,
and it'll be the first time
781
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,520
that someone's cooked for me
on this experiment.
782
00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:47,840
(LAUGHS)
783
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:51,280
(TENSE MUSIC)
784
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:54,760
(CLEARS THROAT) Um...
785
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,480
I'm looking forward to
786
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:58,840
understanding more about
your relationship.
787
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:00,560
You know, like, obviously,
788
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,400
you're probably gonna be curious
and whatnot.
789
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:03,440
Yeah.
790
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:04,680
And I'll be as open
as I choose to be.
791
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:07,760
We made a promise to each other
792
00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:09,960
that we wouldn't get
other people's opinions
793
00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:11,600
and divulge details about
our relationship.
794
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:14,640
So I trust Jacqui completely
in that regard.
795
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,720
So,
who has Jacqui gone to stay with?
796
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:20,000
She's going to be shacking up
with Jeff.
797
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:21,680
Interesting.
798
00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:23,960
And you're feeling fine about her
going to Jeff's?
799
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:25,200
Yeah, absolutely.
OK, that's good.
800
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:26,440
Yeah, yeah.
That's great.
801
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:28,240
I think they're just gonna tiptoe
around each other.
802
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:29,440
Yeah, OK.
Yeah.
803
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:30,840
(LAUGHS)
804
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,400
Look at this.
Put me on the tools straight away.
805
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:37,240
Do you enjoy doing this?
806
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:40,160
It's soothing.
807
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:47,200
I feel like I've been struggling
to connect with Ryan
808
00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:48,480
on certain levels,
809
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,600
and Jeff is just so hospitable.
810
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:52,640
(LAUGHS)
811
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,800
So I think the next few days
with Jeff are gonna be great.
812
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:56,840
(LAUGHS)
813
00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:00,960
I should have brought
all my dresses. (LAUGHS)
814
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:02,160
Still to come,
815
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:04,680
Beth and Ryan go head-to-head.
816
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:08,160
If I've seen shit behaviour,
I'm going to call it out...
817
00:34:08,240 --> 00:34:10,480
Mm-hm.
..whether you like it or not.
818
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:12,560
We don't give a shit any more.
819
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:14,360
And Paul drops a bombshell.
820
00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:17,480
When I told Carina about Cleo,
821
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:18,520
she said...
822
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:21,560
Wow.
823
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:24,600
(TENSE MUSIC)
824
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:32,920
(MOMENTOUS MUSIC)
825
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:36,960
WOMAN: The partner-swap phase
of Feedback Week continues.
826
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:39,920
And for Eliot, the thought
of getting another perspective
827
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:44,000
on his relationship has him
buzzing with excitement.
828
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:46,520
I know that you're into health
and fitness,
829
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:48,840
so I was like, "I'll run down
and make a little fruit bowl."
830
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,440
Oh, thank you. That's so nice.
831
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:54,920
There's a lot of things about
Jeff and her that work.
832
00:34:55,720 --> 00:34:58,240
It's something to look to aspire to.
833
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:00,040
We really haven't spoken much,
834
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,880
but I know that you like
health and fitness, so...
835
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:03,920
Thank you.
836
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,080
I really want to get to know Eliot
a little bit
837
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:09,680
and see how he lives day to day
838
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,760
and if I can help
their relationship in any way.
839
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:13,960
Do you want a hand with anything?
840
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:15,760
Nah, that's so fine. Thank you.
841
00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,800
I won't be a sec.
I honestly didn't pack that much.
842
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,200
As the new pairings settle in...
843
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,160
..the experts are hopeful
the tasks they've devised
844
00:35:25,240 --> 00:35:28,200
will help facilitate discussion
and feedback.
845
00:35:30,240 --> 00:35:32,600
Oh, what?
PAUL: Is there... Oh. (LAUGHS)
846
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,760
Another bloody letter!
Another letter.
847
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:36,320
It say 'Rhi and Eliot' on it?
848
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:38,560
(BOTH LAUGH)
849
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:41,680
'Beth and Ryan, a fresh set of eyes
on your relationship
850
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:43,800
'can help you to explore
the reasons why
851
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:46,120
'things are going wrong
or build on what's going well.'
852
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:47,280
'In this task,
853
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,760
'you will each be required
to write tough questions
854
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:51,160
'about your relationship...
855
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:55,120
'..seeking your new pairing's
opinion.'
856
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:58,880
'These questions must be
well considered and hard-hitting.'
857
00:35:58,920 --> 00:35:59,960
MEL: For our participants,
858
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:01,360
the hard-hitting questions
859
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:05,240
will allow them to learn
how others view their relationship -
860
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:06,440
the good and the bad.
861
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:10,360
'Be - underlined - brutally honest.'
862
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:14,040
'Don't waste this opportunity
to face the hard truth head-on.
863
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:15,520
'The experts.'
864
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:17,280
By seeking
their new pairing's opinions,
865
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:20,640
our hope is that they will learn
some strategies to implement
866
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,440
into their own relationships.
867
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,320
I'm a very honest person,
so I'm ready for it.
868
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:25,360
You are?
Oh, god, yeah.
869
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,000
I had no idea.
Oh, god, yeah.
870
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:28,640
(BOTH LAUGH)
871
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:31,080
WOMAN: And the first pairing
872
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:33,920
to take on
the 'hard-hitting questions' task
873
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,000
are Rhi and Eliot.
874
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:37,200
ELIOT: Looking at Rhi and Jeff,
875
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,560
I don't think there's a lot
I can really lend
876
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:40,680
to their relationship,
877
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,200
but I see them as
a kind of a model couple.
878
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,760
Yeah, I look forward to finding out
more about what's going on
879
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:48,960
in their relationship.
880
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,280
Alright, you ready?
Ready.
881
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:56,360
Jeff and I dated for a month
last year, and it fizzled out.
882
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:59,160
Can you see that happening again
this time around?
883
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:02,600
Was it like,
884
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:03,760
um,
885
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,480
you were moving away from each other
or...?
886
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:10,320
So, both of us had just come out
of long-term relationships.
887
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,440
OK.
And we were both the first person
888
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,280
that each other had dated.
Oh.
889
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:19,240
So, if I'm being honest...
890
00:37:20,240 --> 00:37:24,160
..the fact that you have
kind of found each other before
891
00:37:24,240 --> 00:37:26,240
tells me
that there's a lot of suitability
892
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:27,320
between you two.
Yeah.
893
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:28,400
Do you know what I mean?
Yeah.
894
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:30,440
And now that
you're in a better position...
895
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,280
..I don't think it'll fizzle out.
896
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:36,840
Like, watching you two together,
897
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:41,960
I can tell you kind of understand
your differences and accept them.
898
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:45,320
I think that that's beautiful, yeah.
899
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,520
If I was gonna bet, I'd probably bet
that it is gonna continue...
900
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:49,640
OK. Yeah.
..after this, right?
901
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:51,040
That's good to hear.
902
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:52,480
As much as Jeff and I are amazing,
903
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:55,640
we get on and I can't fault
our relationship right now,
904
00:37:55,720 --> 00:37:58,120
it feels great
to have that confidence
905
00:37:58,160 --> 00:37:59,880
from an outsider's perspective.
906
00:37:59,920 --> 00:38:01,440
It's really nice to hear.
907
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:05,240
Alright, so, my turn.
908
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,480
To be honest,
since the Commitment Ceremony,
909
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,920
I've had Veronica's motivations
in question.
910
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:14,640
When we did have our worst week,
911
00:38:14,720 --> 00:38:17,960
Veronica chose
to go and confide in Lauren
912
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,480
and speak to her
about the situation.
913
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:22,640
Just seems like...
914
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:23,960
..like I'm in this experiment
915
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:25,680
with someone
that doesn't really like me.
916
00:38:25,720 --> 00:38:30,000
(TENSE MUSIC)
917
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:31,760
And sometimes with Veronica,
918
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:35,720
it feels like
she absolutely hates my guts.
919
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:40,880
So, like, the fact
that Rhi is friendly with Veronica,
920
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:42,680
she can kind of give me
a bit of a window
921
00:38:42,720 --> 00:38:44,480
into what Veronica might be feeling.
922
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:49,160
Then, you know, maybe there's
some hope that we can connect.
923
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:54,440
Based on the conversations
that you've had with Veronica...
924
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,320
..what is your impression
of what she thinks about me?
925
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:04,280
She mentioned that, you know...
926
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,280
..when she's walked into a room
a couple of times,
927
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:09,560
like, you haven't made eye contact
with her and...
928
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,120
OK.
..and you're a bit more closed off.
929
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:13,520
Right.
930
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:15,520
Look, I, like, switch off,
read my book
931
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,080
and, like, have a bit of silence.
Like...
932
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:18,480
Oh, definitely, yeah.
Yeah.
933
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:21,440
She did mention that she wished
934
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,880
that you were
a little bit more open.
935
00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,200
I feel like
there's the smallest things
936
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:30,120
that you would need to do
to help that.
937
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:31,200
Yeah.
938
00:39:31,240 --> 00:39:33,280
And it could just be that,
939
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,680
now that she's mentioned
the eye-contact thing,
940
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:36,720
maybe just, yeah...
Yeah.
941
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:38,400
..upping your game
a little bit there.
942
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:39,760
Yeah.
Seeing how you go.
943
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:41,760
That's really constructive.
(CHUCKLES)
944
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:45,360
While Eliot opens himself up
to Rhi's advice...
945
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:51,480
..Veronica's eager
to raise her own concerns with Dave.
946
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:57,320
Do you think Eliot and I
are emotionally compatible?
947
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:01,000
DAVE: It's clear to see
that there's a disconnect
948
00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:02,320
with you and Eliot.
949
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,120
From what I hear
from your couch sessions,
950
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:06,760
you've been a lot more open
than he has.
951
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:09,520
Yeah, it's been challenging.
952
00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:16,120
Like, he doesn't tell me much
about just even his day.
953
00:40:17,720 --> 00:40:21,400
After what happened with Lauren,
I think he's super, super cautious.
954
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:25,360
And until he's 100%,
120% sure about someone,
955
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:26,600
I don't think he's gonna let 'em in,
956
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:29,400
because he's actually probably
pretty scarred.
957
00:40:31,720 --> 00:40:35,000
He just isn't willing to hear
that I've apologised,
958
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:40,200
and it does feel like
he's not really overly excited
959
00:40:40,240 --> 00:40:41,600
to, like, hear my opinion.
960
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:44,560
(TENSE MUSIC)
961
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:45,640
In any relationship,
962
00:40:45,720 --> 00:40:47,640
whether it's a friendship
or anything, you need to have...
963
00:40:47,720 --> 00:40:48,960
Yeah.
..that sort of comfort in,
964
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:50,680
"Oh, you're gonna open up?
I'll open up."
965
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:52,040
Yeah.
If you're not getting that back,
966
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:53,800
then how are you gonna
express yourself?
967
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:54,840
That's it.
968
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:57,640
Dave is very easy to talk to.
969
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:59,960
He offers his opinions openly.
970
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:02,280
We could talk all day long probably.
971
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,320
(TENSE MUSIC)
972
00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:12,040
Do you think Veronica and I
are a good match?
973
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:16,000
Um,
974
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:17,400
obviously, at the moment,
975
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:19,480
your couch sessions -
976
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:20,600
they're hard to watch,
977
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:23,360
because you can see that both of you
mean well.
978
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:28,040
And, actually, if you did find
that middle ground...
979
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:33,040
..I think that you and Veronica
definitely have potential.
980
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:35,960
(GENTLE MUSIC)
981
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:37,280
I think that's a great way
to look at it.
982
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,240
It's like we are a good match
if we can learn to...
983
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:41,640
Yeah.
..speak each other's language.
984
00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:45,360
Being able
to have these conversations with Rhi
985
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:46,640
I think has been really helpful.
986
00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:51,000
It kind of shows you
that there is a path forward...
987
00:41:52,720 --> 00:41:56,360
..and also maybe Veronica
has picked up from Dave that...
988
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,600
..she has been a little bit
too critical of me in certain ways.
989
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:02,680
Is Eliot your type?
990
00:42:02,720 --> 00:42:05,640
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
991
00:42:05,720 --> 00:42:08,640
Like, in terms of a relationship
that I would wanna be in,
992
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:10,560
it's probably like you and Jeff.
993
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:13,600
I can see that, like,
994
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:17,280
you guys are considering
your partners' needs.
995
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:19,880
Eliot wouldn't even know,
996
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:21,800
'cause he's not interested.
That's..
997
00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:23,320
You know?
That's nice for you to say, though.
998
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,280
Yeah.
That's good. That's cool.
999
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:27,640
Unfortunately,
Eliot's not able to reach in
1000
00:42:27,720 --> 00:42:29,480
and talk about things that are,
like,
1001
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:31,320
a little bit more important
or vulnerable.
1002
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:32,600
And, therefore,
1003
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:34,720
communication with Eliot
is far more difficult.
1004
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:38,280
(TENSE MUSIC)
1005
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:42,040
I honestly feel like I've had
more conversation with you
1006
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,040
than I've had with him
the whole time I've known him.
1007
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:47,040
Yeah, I do feel like
1008
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:48,880
I probably would have been
better matched with Dave.
1009
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:52,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1010
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:54,080
But I'd also be better matched
1011
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,480
with probably almost every person
on this floor.
1012
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:58,000
(CHUCKLES)
1013
00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:00,840
I have PTSD from this paper.
(BOTH LAUGH)
1014
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:03,840
(TENSE MUSIC)
1015
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:09,000
(JAUNTY MUSIC)
1016
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:10,840
WOMAN:
The experts have reintroduced
1017
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:14,480
the partner-swap task
as part of Feedback Week.
1018
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:17,760
And despite her serious reluctance
this morning,
1019
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:22,800
Carina has decided to participate
and move into Teejay's apartment.
1020
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:23,840
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
1021
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:28,560
Hi! (LAUGHS)
Hey, roomie. How are you, darling?
1022
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,560
Good. How are you?
Good, thank you. Welcome.
1023
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:34,000
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
Wow. Isn't this...?
1024
00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:36,720
Isn't this a pleasant encounter?
1025
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:38,240
Right?
Your Airbnb for the next few days.
1026
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:40,280
I know. This is so cool.
Welcome. Make yourself at home.
1027
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:41,800
Do you want a coffee or a tea
or something?
1028
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:43,240
I'm OK. Thank you.
OK.
1029
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:46,360
I've taken a bit of time
to digest all of this
1030
00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:49,320
and process my many, many emotions
1031
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:51,400
and feelings
that are going on inside me.
1032
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:55,920
Yeah, I'm trying to embrace more
of what has come my way.
1033
00:43:56,720 --> 00:43:58,800
I'm, like, shook...
Yeah?
1034
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:00,200
..at all of this.
1035
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:02,360
I'm just still trying
to process everything,
1036
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:04,160
to be honest with you.
1037
00:44:04,240 --> 00:44:07,040
I think I'm trying to look at this
from a perspective of,
1038
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,320
like, learning.
Beth and I have obviously had issues
1039
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,160
with that connection kind of thing,
which you and Paul are super...
1040
00:44:12,240 --> 00:44:13,760
like, you guys are great at.
Yeah.
1041
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:17,000
So... it would be cool to see,
I guess, a different perspective.
1042
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,000
Although they've had a little bit
of a tumultuous past,
1043
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:22,680
they do have
a really beautiful connection,
1044
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:24,880
and that's something
that I want Beth and I to build on.
1045
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:26,800
Hopefully Carina opens up
a bit to me,
1046
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:29,320
and maybe then I can give
a little bit of advice too.
1047
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,200
I guess I didn't see it
from that point of view.
1048
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,320
I was coming from a place of, like,
maybe, protection.
1049
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:39,240
I think, maybe,
I am falling for him more
1050
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:40,360
than I thought...
Yeah.
1051
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,840
..because I am, like,
very protective.
1052
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,680
That's beautiful.
I'm like, "That's my man."
1053
00:44:44,720 --> 00:44:46,040
Yeah.
1054
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:47,760
Well, look, let me show you around.
1055
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:49,360
(BOTH LAUGH)
1056
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:51,040
You're currently in the lounge room.
Wow. Yeah.
1057
00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:53,080
That, way over there,
is the dining room.
1058
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:56,360
I hope she feels more comfortable,
you know, having the bed, and...
1059
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,520
I'm gonna give her her own space
and whatnot too, so...
1060
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:00,680
I hope I can make her feel
a little bit more comfortable
1061
00:45:00,720 --> 00:45:02,200
over these next couple of days.
1062
00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:05,840
And that's the tour. (CHUCKLES)
Wow.
1063
00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:08,720
So, honestly, make yourself at home.
Thank you very much.
1064
00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:10,520
Now that I've reflected on it,
1065
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:15,400
I can see that if I did not care
about Paul so much,
1066
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:16,960
and what we are building,
1067
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:20,520
I wouldn't find this as difficult
as I have been.
1068
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:22,840
Beautiful day in Sydney.
OK.
1069
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,480
Across the hall,
Jamie is finding herself
1070
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:27,600
right at home,
1071
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:31,440
spending Feedback Week
with her friend's husband, Adrian.
1072
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:34,400
I actually think Adrian and I
are quite excited. It's, like,
1073
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:36,480
we actually get along, and we...
1074
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:38,080
..we have
very similar points of view.
1075
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:42,560
Welcome home.
(LAUGHS) This is so weird.
1076
00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:46,720
Veronica is probably
the last person I wanted into...
1077
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:48,360
..like, in my apartment.
1078
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:51,080
Right now, like, I'm very much,
like, in Eliot's corner.
1079
00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,320
Yeah.
Yeah.
1080
00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:55,120
She really tries
to make him look like
1081
00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:56,920
he doesn't validate her...
That's exactly right.
1082
00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:58,800
..this, and... I don't know.
Yeah. Yeah.
1083
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:01,160
The minute she sits on the couch,
1084
00:46:01,240 --> 00:46:03,640
it's legit, like,
a completely different person.
1085
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:06,960
She always thinks
she's gonna land with the experts.
1086
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:09,920
Oh, yeah.
And then he just goes, "No."
1087
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:11,000
(CHUCKLES)
Legit.
1088
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:12,160
That's exactly what I said.
1089
00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:16,520
The scary thing is you and I
often have the same thoughts.
1090
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:18,160
Oh, legit.
(CHUCKLES)
1091
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:21,920
Already I felt like I'm coming over
1092
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:23,920
and having a goss sesh with,
like, my girlfriends.
1093
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:25,840
'Cause me and Adrian
were sitting there with our coffee,
1094
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:29,200
and we were, like... (BABBLES)
So off to a good start. (CHUCKLES)
1095
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:33,080
Down the hall,
1096
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:36,240
Beth is hoping
to finally get some insight
1097
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:38,440
into Ryan's marriage with Jacqui
1098
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:43,400
as the pair take on
the 'hard-hitting questions' task.
1099
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:46,320
You ready to nail the task?
Oh, we're gonna nail the task.
1100
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:47,880
Mm-hm.
(CHUCKLES)
1101
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:52,200
As much as me and Ryan have clashed,
I am happy to work around it,
1102
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:55,200
because I do still wanna help him
and his relationship.
1103
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:57,640
Do you wanna start?
I will start, yes.
1104
00:46:57,680 --> 00:46:58,720
OK.
1105
00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:00,400
I mean, obviously,
I've come into the apartment,
1106
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:01,760
and there's photos of them
everywhere,
1107
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:04,520
and they seem really happy,
but why don't we see that, then?
1108
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:07,840
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1109
00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:09,680
So, first one is...
1110
00:47:09,720 --> 00:47:11,440
(CHUCKLES)
1111
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:12,760
OK.
1112
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:15,320
'Rather than having a one-on-one
1113
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:18,960
'and being actually curious about
mine and Jacqui's relationship,
1114
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:20,640
'you've listened to other opinions
1115
00:47:20,720 --> 00:47:22,760
'and only taken
a negative and judgemental view.
1116
00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:24,600
'Why is that?'
1117
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:26,840
I mean,
actions speak louder than words.
1118
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:28,720
Our reception was going well,
and then, I guess,
1119
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:31,040
I feel like
it kind of just got turned to shit,
1120
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:33,200
because you and Jacqui
had a blow-up.
1121
00:47:33,240 --> 00:47:34,240
(CLEARS THROAT)
1122
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:38,520
It's a betrayal,
no matter how you look at it.
1123
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:39,800
JACQUI: It's not a betrayal, Ryan!
1124
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:41,760
What's happening?
1125
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:42,800
Who knows?
1126
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:49,280
Dinner and a show, babe, innit?
1127
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,000
The wedding wasn't our finest hour.
Yeah.
1128
00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:54,240
But, since then,
we've made a lot of progress.
1129
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:55,280
Mm-hm.
1130
00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:57,720
And you could have asked questions
along the way.
1131
00:47:57,760 --> 00:47:58,840
OK. Second question.
1132
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:03,640
'It's not Jacqui and I's duty
to satisfy your confusion,
1133
00:48:03,720 --> 00:48:06,120
'but what is the main aspect
you want clarified?
1134
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:09,240
'Being as you know very little
about us.'
1135
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,920
I don't understand
how you can go from so hot to cold.
1136
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:15,160
I'm talking for me and Teejay.
It does not make sense to us.
1137
00:48:15,240 --> 00:48:17,120
That's all I ever hear from you
and Teejay -
1138
00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:18,600
is, "I'm confused.
It doesn't make sense."
1139
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:20,160
It doesn't mean anything to us.
1140
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,000
We don't give a shit any more.
1141
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:23,360
As we're going through
the challenge,
1142
00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:25,200
the way he's talking to me,
and his questions,
1143
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,320
are really starting to sink in,
and I'm like, "Hang on.
1144
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:30,320
"He's obviously using this challenge
as, like,
1145
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,280
"an opportunity to confront me
1146
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:34,440
"and my behaviour
and what he doesn't like about me,"
1147
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:35,920
which is not what the challenge was.
1148
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:39,520
'You've spoken quite aggressively
against me and our marriage.'
1149
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:40,560
Mm-hm.
1150
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:43,640
'Is that the way
you conduct yourself in real life
1151
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,040
'when you don't have the facts?'
1152
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:50,040
(TENSE MUSIC)
1153
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:52,120
I've only heard bad things
about your relationship,
1154
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:54,120
and I've only witnessed bad things.
1155
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,440
Of course I'm going to have
nothing to say to you both.
1156
00:48:58,240 --> 00:48:59,280
Roger that.
1157
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:02,480
'What would be your honest
and helpful advice
1158
00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,760
'to Jacqui and I for the future?
1159
00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:06,840
'Instead of, maybe,
attacking our sex life.'
1160
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:10,360
'Cause you don't have any knowledge
of how we conduct ourselves
1161
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:12,000
as individuals
or in the relationship -
1162
00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:13,680
only what you've "heard".
1163
00:49:13,720 --> 00:49:15,080
And seen.
1164
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:16,440
If I've seen shit behaviour,
1165
00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:19,080
I'm going to call it out...
Mm-hm.
1166
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:20,600
..whether you like it or not.
1167
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:21,640
The way Ryan went into the task
1168
00:49:21,720 --> 00:49:24,320
was actually not to hear
what I had to say at all.
1169
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:26,160
It was just to have a dig at me.
1170
00:49:26,240 --> 00:49:28,160
He didn't really take
any accountability
1171
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:29,760
for what he does.
1172
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:32,160
So, yeah,
I think it's kind of just summed up
1173
00:49:32,240 --> 00:49:34,560
how I was already feeling
about Ryan, to be honest.
1174
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:36,720
Cool. Done.
1175
00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:42,360
I think
he's a complete and utter (BLEEP).
1176
00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:49,400
WOMAN: Our participants continue
1177
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:52,840
to face the task
designed by the experts.
1178
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:55,560
And after having the day apart
from his wife,
1179
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:59,000
Paul is ready to present
his hard-hitting questions
1180
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:00,400
to Awhina.
1181
00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:02,640
I've even put the pillow fort there.
I'm respecting boundaries.
1182
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:03,680
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
1183
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:05,440
That's interesting.
Need to have a barricade.
1184
00:50:07,720 --> 00:50:08,840
I think Carina and Paul
1185
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:11,440
are one of
the strongest couples here,
1186
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:12,960
throughout this entire experiment.
1187
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:19,160
So I'm interested
to see Paul voicing his concerns.
1188
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:23,200
OK, so, the first one.
1189
00:50:23,240 --> 00:50:24,240
Um...
1190
00:50:26,720 --> 00:50:28,800
It's probably, like, the one that...
(SIGHS)
1191
00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:30,080
..probably worries me the most.
1192
00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:34,760
So... 'After seeing
Carina's reactions today,
1193
00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:36,560
'about moving us together,
1194
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:38,680
'do you think
she is a jealous person,
1195
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:41,640
'and that this could be an issue
in our relationship in the future,
1196
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:42,680
'and why?'
1197
00:50:42,720 --> 00:50:44,160
Hmm.
1198
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:46,400
(TENSE MUSIC)
1199
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:47,480
(CHUCKLES)
1200
00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:48,880
Oh...
1201
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:50,840
God, you hit me
straight with the hard one.
1202
00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:52,480
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
1203
00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:57,760
Hmm.
1204
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:02,840
I could see she was visibly upset,
clearly.
1205
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:03,880
Yeah.
1206
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:05,920
(CHUCKLES)
Really upset over this challenge.
1207
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:10,480
And I know Carina -
or anyone, really -
1208
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:12,600
would feel uncomfortable
with someone,
1209
00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:15,240
a female, coming into the apartment
for three days with their partner.
1210
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:16,560
Yeah.
1211
00:51:17,720 --> 00:51:19,480
But, then again, I laughed.
1212
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:22,760
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
1213
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:25,800
It's a hard one.
1214
00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:29,960
I could understand feeling upset
with the situation,
1215
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:31,080
but, then again,
1216
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:33,640
I'm really good friends
with Paul and Carina.
1217
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:35,160
You know what I mean? So,
1218
00:51:35,240 --> 00:51:38,040
like, I'm not sure
what she could be jealous of.
1219
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:42,280
The reason why I'm asking that
is because she did say to me,
1220
00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:43,720
before you walked in...
1221
00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:46,720
that, if it would have been
any other girl,
1222
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:48,640
she would have probably felt
a lot better
1223
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:50,120
about the whole situation.
1224
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:52,560
Wow.
1225
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:55,720
You know,
because I've had the thing with...
1226
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:57,160
..with your sister,
and blah, blah, blah.
1227
00:51:57,240 --> 00:51:59,360
And then she's...
She's a massive overthinker,
1228
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:00,400
and then she's...
Yeah.
1229
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:01,880
..started overthinking
a lot of things.
1230
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,040
Hearing him say that,
it definitely frustrated me.
1231
00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:07,480
Like, we're friends.
1232
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:10,320
I thought
we were in a healthy place.
1233
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:13,760
But, also,
twins aren't the same people.
1234
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:15,720
They have their own identity.
1235
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:19,200
Cleo and I, we're so different.
1236
00:52:19,240 --> 00:52:22,280
(TENSE MUSIC)
1237
00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:23,960
If anything,
1238
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,440
Carina should be reassured
in knowing
1239
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:29,600
that I would never want to
sleep in a bed
1240
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:31,520
with someone my twin sister has.
(CHUCKLES)
1241
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:32,560
Legit.
1242
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:33,680
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
1243
00:52:33,720 --> 00:52:34,920
Right?
1244
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:39,240
It's hard, 'cause I am, like,
not a jealous person,
1245
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:42,720
and I trust you so much, and...
1246
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:46,080
(TENSE MUSIC)
1247
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:48,520
I think, in your relationship,
1248
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:51,440
you might struggle later on.
1249
00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:56,800
So, right now, you guys
are still in that honeymoon phase.
1250
00:52:56,880 --> 00:52:59,000
You give her those affirmations.
You're reassuring her.
1251
00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:00,040
Yeah.
1252
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,400
You guys
are quite physically connected.
1253
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:04,320
But relationships
aren't always like that.
1254
00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:09,640
I am worried that
if she's feeling uncomfortable now,
1255
00:53:09,720 --> 00:53:11,120
when you're in a good place...
Yep.
1256
00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:13,920
..imagine
when you're not in a good place.
1257
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:17,920
That's probably
when those jealous tendencies
1258
00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:19,280
will probably rear their ugly head -
1259
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:21,120
when you are going out
with the boys...
1260
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:22,200
Yeah.
1261
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:23,960
..and whether or not
she trusts you.
1262
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:29,800
It's nice to see
that Awhina obviously agreed about,
1263
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:33,480
you know, Carina potentially being
a jealous person.
1264
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:36,400
You know, like,
it's not just in my head.
1265
00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:40,400
I'm giving her so much.
I'm doing everything for her.
1266
00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:42,360
I've told her everything -
you know, my past, everything.
1267
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:45,840
Literally, I'm doing everything
to make her feel safe and to...
1268
00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:47,600
..to make her feel that I...
1269
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:49,280
I can be fully trusted.
You know what I mean?
1270
00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:52,600
It was very clear as day.
1271
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,440
Paul felt a little hurt
by Carina's reaction.
1272
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:57,840
And it really, kind of, showed me
1273
00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:00,560
they aren't
just a picture-perfect couple.
1274
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:03,600
They have some very real issues,
clearly.
1275
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:09,520
How would you navigate
being in a relationship with someone
1276
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:11,920
who might be quite jealous?
1277
00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:14,880
It would push me away,
like, big time.
1278
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:18,200
(TENSE MUSIC)
1279
00:54:18,240 --> 00:54:19,240
Coming up...
1280
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:21,880
When I told Carina about Cleo...
1281
00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:23,560
..Paul doubles down.
1282
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:24,880
..she said...
1283
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:27,640
"Yeah."
1284
00:54:27,720 --> 00:54:29,680
So I feel like she's a bit of a snob
sometimes.
1285
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:32,080
"And, I'll be honest with you,
this is giving me the ick."
1286
00:54:32,120 --> 00:54:33,840
Wow.
1287
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:36,840
(OMINOUS MUSIC)
1288
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:42,640
It's the first night
of the partner-swap stage
1289
00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:44,480
of Feedback Week,
1290
00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:49,880
and both Beth and Ryan are eager
to fast-forward through this phase,
1291
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:51,800
so are calling it an early night.
1292
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:53,680
Alright.
Alright.
1293
00:54:53,720 --> 00:54:54,800
What a day.
1294
00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:58,520
Challenging,
but raw honesty was needed.
1295
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,160
Living with Ryan sucks.
1296
00:55:01,240 --> 00:55:04,080
The way
Ryan wrote those questions today
1297
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:06,880
has proved
he's really disrespectful.
1298
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:08,560
That's just who he is.
1299
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:10,640
We're gonna both do the bed.
We'll put a pillow in the middle.
1300
00:55:10,720 --> 00:55:12,440
Pillow fort.
Yep. Definitely.
1301
00:55:13,720 --> 00:55:15,760
Living with Beth -
it's pretty terrible,
1302
00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:17,240
almost from the moment
she walked in.
1303
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:18,800
And, honestly,
1304
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:21,840
we're just two people
coexisting at the moment.
1305
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,920
Well, this is weird, isn't it?
It's not not awkward.
1306
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:28,440
Yep.
1307
00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:36,880
It's the first thing
you're gonna see. (CHUCKLES)
1308
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:40,280
I think living together
has given me, like,
1309
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,240
a new appreciation for Jacqui and I.
1310
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:44,120
We've both been,
like, texting each other -
1311
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:45,800
like, "Miss you." "Miss you."
1312
00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:46,840
And, yeah, this...
1313
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:49,160
..this will bring Jacqui and I
closer together.
1314
00:55:49,240 --> 00:55:50,480
Goodnight.
Goodnight.
1315
00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:52,880
(QUIRKY MUSIC)
1316
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:54,400
JEFF: This is delicious.
1317
00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:56,440
Uh... And then we use the sauce,
1318
00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:57,800
and we dribble it over the
mash later.
1319
00:55:57,840 --> 00:55:59,240
Oh, wow.
1320
00:55:59,920 --> 00:56:03,800
Jeff's insisted on giving me
the bed, washed all the sheets,
1321
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:05,120
he's cooking me dinner...
1322
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:07,560
Right now, I feel so happy
and relieved and...
1323
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:08,960
This is exactly what I wanted.
1324
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:10,960
Just treat this like a holiday.
1325
00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:13,560
You're in a resort -
get dinner cooked for you.
1326
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:15,360
(LAUGHS)
Having a red wine.
1327
00:56:16,240 --> 00:56:18,240
Ryan has never cooked for me
in this experiment,
1328
00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:19,400
and the food he eats,
1329
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:21,360
I would not want to be cooked
for me.
1330
00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:24,640
Oh, my gosh!
There you go.
1331
00:56:24,720 --> 00:56:26,800
Thank you.
All good.
1332
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:29,920
This is my dream evening
with a partner,
1333
00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:32,360
and it's a shame that I haven't
been able to experience that
1334
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:34,120
with my match. Yeah.
1335
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:35,760
That's insane.
1336
00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:37,800
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
1337
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:39,240
Literally.
It's good, isn't it?
1338
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:40,840
It's so good.
Yeah.
1339
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:44,560
While Jacqui's on cloud nine,
thanks to Jeff,
1340
00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:47,840
Jamie and her new BFF, Adrian,
1341
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:51,760
are decompressing from the day
with a girls' chat.
1342
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:53,920
We're a package deal now.
1343
00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:54,960
I know.
1344
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:57,360
I think I've got two wives now.
1345
00:56:57,440 --> 00:56:58,920
One was hard enough.
Now I've got two.
1346
00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:00,000
(CHUCKLES)
1347
00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:03,080
If this was a competition,
1348
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,280
I'd like to say we won.
I think so, by far.
1349
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:07,520
Dave and Veronica
might be having a few laughs,
1350
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:09,360
but more fun? No.
1351
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:15,120
Oh...
1352
00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:18,480
(BOTH LAUGH)
1353
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:21,000
I know!
1354
00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:26,720
Look, if these are my last words,
"Mum, I love you."
1355
00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:30,480
It's actually a big bed, though.
It's actually, like...
1356
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:32,040
There's so much room for activities.
1357
00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:34,400
No activities. No activities.
1358
00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:39,160
All I request is this blue blanket
and one pillow.
1359
00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:40,200
Of course.
That's it.
1360
00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:42,240
You sure you don't want me
to sleep...?
1361
00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:44,200
No. I actually prefer the...
1362
00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:45,280
..the couch.
Really?
1363
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:47,040
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Been on the couch many a time.
1364
00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:50,760
Tonight I did hear from Paul,
and Awhina was on speaker.
1365
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:54,120
He cooked gnocchi,
1366
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:57,600
which he told me
he was gonna cook for me. (LAUGHS)
1367
00:57:58,600 --> 00:57:59,960
Alright. Goodnight, darling.
1368
00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:01,520
Alright. Goodnight.
1369
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:04,480
Trying not to overthink
and get inside my head,
1370
00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:07,000
because my brain will just spiral.
1371
00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:12,040
OK. Shutting the light now.
Goodnight, roomie.
1372
00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:17,640
But if I found out
that she did sleep in the bed,
1373
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:20,840
far out. I would be pissed off.
1374
00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:23,720
(SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC)
1375
00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:25,160
(PAUL LAUGHS)
1376
00:58:25,200 --> 00:58:26,920
AWHINA: You are a very big man.
1377
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:29,080
(BOTH LAUGH)
1378
00:58:29,160 --> 00:58:32,320
And you will not fit on this couch.
And watch this.
1379
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:33,640
I fit on it actually perfectly.
1380
00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:34,680
The beds are massive...
1381
00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:40,400
..but, because of Carina's reaction
to this task,
1382
00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:43,200
yeah,
I'll respect Carina's boundaries.
1383
00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:45,360
Goodnight, honey.
1384
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:46,560
(BOTH LAUGH)
1385
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:50,160
(BOTH LAUGH)
1386
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:51,840
Alright. Well, you sleep well.
1387
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:53,280
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
1388
00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:54,360
Ciao.
1389
00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:55,600
(CHUCKLES)
1390
00:58:56,640 --> 00:58:57,720
Alright. Goodnight.
1391
00:58:57,760 --> 00:58:59,040
See... Uh, no. What's...?
1392
00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:00,520
Ah!
1393
00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:02,240
No. It's stayed on. No. (LAUGHS)
There we go.
1394
00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:04,040
(BOTH CHUCKLE)
1395
00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:07,080
(REFLECTIVE MUSIC)
1396
00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:16,480
(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
1397
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:20,480
WOMAN:
The second day of Feedback Week
1398
00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:24,600
brings with it a brand-new task
devised by the experts.
1399
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:25,680
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
1400
00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:27,400
Oh. (CHUCKLES)
(BLEEP) Ready. (BLEEP).
1401
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:28,600
I'll grab it.
1402
00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:30,600
Oh, another one!
1403
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:32,640
What now?
Another letter!
1404
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:35,000
And Awhina and Paul
1405
00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:36,760
and Carina and Teejay
1406
00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:39,920
are going to be the first pairings
to tackle it.
1407
00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:41,160
Are you excited? (CHUCKLES)
1408
00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:44,840
Somehow I feel a bit nervous
about that one. (CHUCKLES)
1409
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:46,240
Yeah, me too.
(CHUCKLES)
1410
00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:47,600
I'll let you do the honours.
(CHUCKLES)
1411
00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:50,560
'It's easy to become complacent
1412
00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:52,800
'when you are spending every day
with your partner.'
1413
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:54,600
'Take this pen and paper
1414
00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:56,800
'and write an honesty letter...'
Holy (BLEEP).
1415
00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:57,840
Holy shit.
1416
00:59:57,920 --> 01:00:00,880
'When you've completed your letter,
read it loud to each other.'
1417
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:04,520
'Something about your relationship
that's been weighing on your mind.'
1418
01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:05,880
(SIGHS)
1419
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:07,800
Everyone's got concerns
in their relationship...
1420
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:09,160
Yeah.
1421
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:11,400
..and sometimes it's hard
to vocalise that to your partner.
1422
01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:14,360
The honesty letter is designed
to allow the participants
1423
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:16,640
to lay everything out on the table,
1424
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:19,440
particularly issues
that have been holding them back
1425
01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:22,480
from forming a deeper connection
with their partners.
1426
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:27,280
Things are getting serious
with my relationship with Paul.
1427
01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:31,480
I'm excited, to be honest.
1428
01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:34,880
Like, if Paul and I
keep going the way we are,
1429
01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:37,320
I can definitely see myself
falling in love with him.
1430
01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:42,280
But then I know that I have,
yeah, been thinking a lot about...
1431
01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:44,960
..when it comes to the religion
aspect.
1432
01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:47,720
So, yeah, I thought I would,
you know,
1433
01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:49,520
get Teejay's opinion.
1434
01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:52,720
I'm done.
You ready?
1435
01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:53,760
Yeah.
1436
01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:56,800
(POIGNANT MUSIC)
1437
01:00:57,560 --> 01:00:58,560
(SIGHS)
1438
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:02,040
'My darling P...
1439
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:05,840
'..I've learned so much about you
through the journey
1440
01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:09,440
'of this experiment,
and I love spending time with you.
1441
01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:11,720
'The one thing
that's been worrying me
1442
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:13,560
'is how you aren't religious,
1443
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:16,880
'and how we both may have
different ways of raising a family.
1444
01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:20,320
'I don't want to scare you off,
1445
01:01:20,400 --> 01:01:22,680
'but I hope this can open
a conversation up
1446
01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:25,440
'around our different views
about this.'
1447
01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:26,920
Yeah.
Beautiful.
1448
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:29,040
That's the hardest thing
you have to cross in a relationship.
1449
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:31,160
You guys are doing very well.
Yeah.
1450
01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:32,240
I think there...
1451
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:36,040
there would be a compromise
that would be amicable for you both.
1452
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:38,880
Carina and Paul
are focusing on the future,
1453
01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:42,880
and it was cool to hear Carina's
already thinking about children.
1454
01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:43,920
It's beautiful to see.
1455
01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:49,040
That's probably the toughest thing
I've got to encounter.
1456
01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:51,840
Do you wanna go first?
1457
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:52,880
Yeah, sure. I'll go first.
1458
01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:54,560
I feel like you've got a lot
to unpack there, so...
1459
01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:56,400
Yeah, there's actually quite a few,
yeah.
1460
01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:00,320
I've had a little bit of time
away from Carina now.
1461
01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:04,120
Yeah, and of course her reaction
yesterday made it clear...
1462
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:08,280
..there's a few things
that have been,
1463
01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:10,520
you know, bothering me a little bit.
1464
01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:11,560
OK, so...
1465
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:13,000
'Before coming into this experiment,
1466
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:15,280
'I told myself I wasn't going to
make the same mistakes
1467
01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:17,760
'I've made
in my previous relationship,
1468
01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:19,160
'which was ignoring the red flags,
1469
01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:21,680
'because of the fear
of the relationship failing.
1470
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:25,000
(POIGNANT MUSIC)
1471
01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:29,160
'After 12 months of engagement,
her true self came out,
1472
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:32,600
'and I realised that we weren't
as compatible as I thought we were.
1473
01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:36,520
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1474
01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:40,440
'My fear is that
this may be happening with Carina.
1475
01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:45,240
(TENSE MUSIC)
1476
01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:47,320
'I feel like she is a bit of a snob
sometimes...
1477
01:02:49,040 --> 01:02:51,600
'..and can come across
as very judgy.
1478
01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:57,760
'And, I'll be honest with you,
this is giving me the ick.
1479
01:02:57,800 --> 01:03:01,360
(OMINOUS MUSIC)
1480
01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:04,280
'Now, when...'
1481
01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:06,080
(CHUCKLES)
1482
01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:10,840
When I told Carina the reason why
I knew you,
1483
01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:16,040
she made a comment about Cleo
that...
1484
01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:17,800
..sort of gave me the ick.
1485
01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:20,320
She said...
1486
01:03:26,120 --> 01:03:27,360
Yeah.
Wow.
1487
01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:31,320
(TENSE MUSIC)
1488
01:03:36,080 --> 01:03:40,200
(TENSE MUSIC)
1489
01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:47,680
PAUL:
When I told Carina about Cleo...
1490
01:03:48,640 --> 01:03:50,000
..she said, "Oh, I didn't know
1491
01:03:50,080 --> 01:03:51,480
"you would go for
that kind of calibre."
1492
01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:54,160
Yeah.
Wow.
1493
01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:55,200
You know?
1494
01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:58,240
'So I feel like she is
a bit of a snob sometimes
1495
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:01,280
'and can come across as very judgy.
1496
01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:03,280
'And, I'll be honest with you,
this is giving me the ick.'
1497
01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:07,400
(TENSE MUSIC)
1498
01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:08,440
Ooh.
1499
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:11,760
Saying someone's
in a different calibre to you,
1500
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:13,840
you're essentially saying
you're better than them.
1501
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:15,880
I would love to know
what makes you better
1502
01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:17,040
than my twin sister.
1503
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:18,360
Oh, that was heavy.
1504
01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:20,360
The 'calibre' comment -
1505
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:22,960
is that because my twin sister's
covered in tattoos?
1506
01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:24,360
Well, yeah.
1507
01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:25,480
And that's...
1508
01:04:25,560 --> 01:04:28,080
And that's something
that really gives me the ick,
1509
01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:29,360
because that's not who I am.
1510
01:04:29,440 --> 01:04:31,720
Like, I'm not gonna judge someone
because they have tattoos,
1511
01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:33,600
or because of where they're from -
stuff like that.
1512
01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:36,760
Yeah.
My twin sister owns her own house,
1513
01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:38,320
and she doesn't work for
a family business.
1514
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:41,840
Like, that... I don't know.
That comment - like...
1515
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:44,360
I would never,
ever say these things to people.
1516
01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:48,200
Where are you in your life, Carina,
to look down at my twin sister?
1517
01:04:48,240 --> 01:04:49,240
Exactly.
1518
01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:51,240
I could also, in return, judge you.
1519
01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:53,040
I know you live at home
with your family.
1520
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:54,920
I know you work for
your family's business.
1521
01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:58,200
I could then call you an entitled,
sheltered princess.
1522
01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:01,000
Do not say my twin sister's
in a different calibre, babe,
1523
01:05:01,040 --> 01:05:02,040
'cause she is,
1524
01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:03,600
and the different calibre
is a different way.
1525
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:04,760
I'll tell you that.
1526
01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:07,080
No. (CHUCKLES) That was really...
I knew... I knew that was gonna...
1527
01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:08,880
No, my twin sister...
I knew that was gonna upset you.
1528
01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:10,400
My twin sister is beautiful.
1529
01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:12,520
She's an amazing auntie.
She's loving.
1530
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:14,720
And I don't like fake people.
1531
01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:16,240
I don't like people
who think they're better
1532
01:05:16,280 --> 01:05:17,400
than other people.
1533
01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:18,960
I actually would have loved
for Carina
1534
01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:21,440
to have said that comment to me.
I would have loved it.
1535
01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:25,040
Because of all these little comments
that she's made, here and there,
1536
01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:28,600
I have a feeling that we might
not be as compatible as we...
1537
01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:30,000
..as we think we are.
1538
01:05:30,040 --> 01:05:31,080
And, yeah, I'm not gonna lie -
1539
01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:32,800
I'm quite scared
of how she's gonna react
1540
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:34,240
if I ever bring those things up.
1541
01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:37,640
Is she gonna full attack?
Is she gonna deflect?
1542
01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:38,680
Is she just gonna...?
1543
01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:40,400
Is she gonna just,
like, lose her shit
1544
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:41,680
or start crying or whatever?
1545
01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:43,160
No, bring it up.
1546
01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:44,640
Yeah, OK.
Yeah, bring it up.
1547
01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:47,880
(TENSE MUSIC)
1548
01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:50,200
You've gotta have raw honesty
in a relationship.
1549
01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:53,080
Yeah.
You can't just sugar-coat things.
1550
01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:54,600
Yeah.
1551
01:05:54,640 --> 01:05:55,880
I'm really pissed off.
1552
01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:58,680
Carina and I had a good friendship.
1553
01:05:58,720 --> 01:06:00,400
We were texting.
1554
01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:02,200
We were supposed
to go on a double date.
1555
01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:04,400
So to know she's made
'calibre' comments
1556
01:06:04,440 --> 01:06:05,920
about my twin sister,
1557
01:06:06,000 --> 01:06:08,760
which extends to me,
that is so wrong.
1558
01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:11,360
Trust me - like,
1559
01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:14,040
I'm not gonna let her
get away with it.
1560
01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:18,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1561
01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:19,280
WOMAN: Tomorrow night...
1562
01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:23,240
..Adrian's brutal feedback.
1563
01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:34,880
Jamie asks Dave the hard questions.
1564
01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:36,880
Are we having a lack of sex
1565
01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:38,560
because you're not
in the 'love' stage?
1566
01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:40,160
I feel like...
Yes or no.
1567
01:06:41,600 --> 01:06:43,080
(LAUGHS)
1568
01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:44,720
RHI: Oh.
JEFF: I missed you.
1569
01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:49,440
And our couples are reunited
after spending three days apart.
1570
01:06:49,480 --> 01:06:50,800
Being away from Rhi,
1571
01:06:50,880 --> 01:06:53,360
it made me realise
how much I really want this to work.
1572
01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:55,400
You are so cute. (CHUCKLES)
1573
01:06:57,040 --> 01:07:00,160
However, not everyone will receive
a warm welcome.
1574
01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:02,640
'She can come across as very judgy.
1575
01:07:04,200 --> 01:07:05,560
'You said to me
that you were surprised
1576
01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:07,480
'that I would go for
that kind of calibre.'
1577
01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:09,960
CARINA: Wow.
1578
01:07:10,040 --> 01:07:14,440
Paul faces up to what he confessed
behind Carina's back.
1579
01:07:14,520 --> 01:07:16,800
I didn't see any of that
coming from Paul.
1580
01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:19,440
Bit of a slap in the face.
1581
01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:22,480
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