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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:02,080 WOMAN: Previously... 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:04,080 You talk as though you're above them. 3 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:06,880 ..the experts delivered some hard truths 4 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:08,000 at the Commitment Ceremony... 5 00:00:08,040 --> 00:00:09,880 That's your problem. 6 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:11,240 ..as Lauren and Clint 7 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:13,160 chose to leave the experiment. 8 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:14,800 MAN: I'm actually pretty embarrassed for you. 9 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:19,320 Can you see yourself falling in love with Rhi? 10 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:20,720 Yeah. 11 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:23,560 Love and happiness were on full display... 12 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:26,000 Can you see yourself falling in love with Jeff? 13 00:00:26,040 --> 00:00:27,720 I can. 14 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:29,040 ..as relationships continued 15 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:31,040 their positive progress. 16 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,160 I'm happy, you know. We're in a great place right now. 17 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:34,240 I'm also staying. 18 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:36,400 ALESSANDRA: That's an enthusiastic, big 'stay'. 19 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:37,760 We love it. 20 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:38,960 I defended you and your husband. 21 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:40,240 When? When? 22 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:43,640 Alessandra called out Jamie's fight style. 23 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:45,760 I'm like a mother bear. 24 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:48,200 Mama bears don't do this to their cubs. 25 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:50,800 When you somebody conduct themselves horribly, 26 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:54,720 emulating that, you become worse than the perpetrator. 27 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:58,000 And thanks to the experts' intervention, 28 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,440 a friendship was rekindled... 29 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:02,120 How I spoke to you, 30 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:03,640 conducted myself, 31 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:05,120 that was wrong, and I'm sorry. 32 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:06,400 Thank you, Jamie. 33 00:01:06,480 --> 00:01:09,960 ..before Jamie's bold declaration to Dave. 34 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,640 I said, "I love you. Like, I really love you." 35 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:14,880 OK, so you haven't said it back. 36 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:17,760 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 37 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:18,800 No. 38 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,680 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 39 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:22,880 Tonight... 40 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:24,160 (KNOCK AT DOOR) 41 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:25,320 Oh, my gosh. 42 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:26,680 What?! (LAUGHS) 43 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:29,480 Are you lying? 44 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:30,640 What's happening? 45 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:34,560 ..the experiment enters a critical new phase. 46 00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:37,800 We have decided to bring back a polarising element 47 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:39,680 of Feedback Week, 48 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:40,920 the partner swap. 49 00:01:40,960 --> 00:01:43,480 Over two big nights, 50 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:46,400 Feedback Week will see temporary new pairings... 51 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:48,400 Honey, I'm home. 52 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:50,240 RHI: 'Jacqui will pack her bags and move in with Jeff.' 53 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:54,000 TEEJAY: 'Beth will pack her bags and move in with Ryan'. (LAUGHS) 54 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:57,760 ..as these new combinations offer fresh perspective. 55 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:00,640 ELIOT: Rhi and Jeff - I see them as a kind of model couple. 56 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:02,280 Maybe there's something I can learn from this. 57 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:05,640 While some embrace Feedback Week and the partner swap... 58 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:07,480 That's really constructive. 59 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:11,520 Do you honestly think Dave and I will last beyond this experiment? 60 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:14,200 No. 61 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:18,520 ..others will be put to the ultimate test. 62 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:20,920 I don't wanna be doing this. 63 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:24,480 What threatens to derail Paul's marriage to Carina? 64 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:27,720 Yeah. Wow. That is so wrong. 65 00:02:28,920 --> 00:02:30,720 I'm quite of how she's gonna react. 66 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:35,240 (SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC) 67 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:38,240 (JAUNTY MUSIC) 68 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:44,240 It's the morning after the fifth Commitment Ceremony, 69 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,680 and everyone is still processing 70 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:49,680 Lauren and Clint's confrontational couch session... 71 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,760 ..which saw them face off with the group... 72 00:02:55,840 --> 00:02:58,120 I do feel like the behaviour at dinner parties, 73 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:00,760 which is usually led by the four of you in the corner there, 74 00:03:00,800 --> 00:03:02,120 is boganic behaviour. 75 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:04,960 ..and resulted in the couple's abrupt exit 76 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:06,400 from the experiment. 77 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:09,600 JOHN: 'Leaving the zoo.' 78 00:03:09,640 --> 00:03:10,960 And another barb. 79 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:13,240 I just feel like she still couldn't see 80 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:14,920 what was wrong with her behaviour. TEEJAY: Yeah. 81 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:16,760 She didn't have a spark with her husband, 82 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:18,160 she didn't care about anyone's opinion, 83 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:19,920 She couldn't learn anything from the environment, 84 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:21,320 and I'm really glad she's left, 85 00:03:21,400 --> 00:03:24,400 because she caused a rift amongst all my friends. 86 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:28,080 And the rift Lauren created at the retreat 87 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:32,240 came to a head last night during Carina's couch session. 88 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,120 The behaviour that I saw at the girls' night, 89 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:39,240 it was like a 'Mean Girls' 2.0 environment. 90 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:42,160 JAMIE: You're still suggesting that I'm a mean girl. 91 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:43,600 I defended you and your husband. 92 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:45,920 And, in front of the experts, 93 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:48,480 Jamie doubled down on her defence. 94 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:50,920 I defend the cubs. 95 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:53,360 I'm like a mother bear. 96 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:57,120 ALESSANDRA: Mama bears don't do this to their cubs. 97 00:03:57,200 --> 00:04:00,400 Your friends were intimidated by you. 98 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:05,200 And Alessandra's stern words helped Jamie to see the light. 99 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:10,000 Carina, that is my behaviour that was wrong, and I'm sorry. 100 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:11,880 Thank you, Jamie. 101 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:14,920 (THOUGHTFUL MUSIC) 102 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,120 I could see on your face that you're feeling a lot better. 103 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:21,520 Like, yeah, it's good. I'm glad. 104 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:25,480 Yeah, I feel like a massive weight has just lifted off my shoulders. 105 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:27,120 Yeah. 106 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:30,040 At the end of the day, like, I am here for you 107 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:31,720 and our relationship. Yeah, exactly. 108 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:35,600 So it feels so much lighter already between you and me, 109 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:37,680 knowing that that's sorted. Yeah. 110 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:40,920 And it means so much to me... Yeah. 111 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,640 ..that you were literally by my side. 112 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,000 And that's all I could hope for. 113 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:51,320 Paul and I just got through a really tough time, 114 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:53,720 so now I'm feeling very energised. 115 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:56,400 I'm feeling really good in my relationship with Paul. 116 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,440 I feel like we are so connected 117 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:00,080 and we are on the same page, 118 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:02,280 like we were at the very beginning, 119 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:04,560 and we, yeah, couldn't be any better. 120 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:08,160 While Carina and Paul are ready to look ahead... 121 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:11,120 (JAMIE SIGHS) 122 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:15,160 ..Jamie remains remorseful. 123 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:19,520 I took the retreat as, like, an opportunity 124 00:05:19,560 --> 00:05:21,120 to just release 125 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:24,960 and say nasty things and hurt people with my words. 126 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:29,440 I was aggressive, like, all these things, 127 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:33,120 like, that I personally don't agree with. 128 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:35,800 But, like, I'm really trying to remind myself 129 00:05:35,840 --> 00:05:37,840 that that's not who I am. 130 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:40,200 DAVE: You are a good person, 131 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:41,480 and you do have a good heart. 132 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:42,920 And I know that, because I know who you are. 133 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:46,280 (GENTLE MUSIC) 134 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:47,680 Thank you. 135 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:52,080 The only silver lining in this is Dave and I - 136 00:05:52,120 --> 00:05:53,920 we've come closer together. 137 00:05:54,840 --> 00:05:58,040 He was like, you know, just reassuring me, 138 00:05:58,080 --> 00:05:59,520 and he comforted me the whole time. 139 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,360 It was the couple's strong bond 140 00:06:02,440 --> 00:06:05,680 that prompted Jamie to reveal her true feelings. 141 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:07,520 Yeah, I covered his mouth. 142 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:09,000 I said, "I'm gonna say something, 143 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:10,680 "and I don't want you to say anything." 144 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:13,600 And I said, "I love you. Like, I really love you. 145 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:15,680 "Now goodnight," and I told him to go to bed. 146 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:20,000 OK, so you haven't said it back. 147 00:06:22,560 --> 00:06:23,560 No. 148 00:06:26,280 --> 00:06:29,000 I obviously have stronger feelings for Dave than he has for me. 149 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,080 I've said I loved him, and he hasn't. 150 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:33,800 But I do think he's got real feelings, 151 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:37,480 and we are talking a life beyond this experiment. 152 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:40,200 Just because he's not right where I am right now 153 00:06:40,280 --> 00:06:42,840 doesn't mean he's not on his path to get there. 154 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:46,480 Jamie saying that she loves me six weeks in here 155 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:49,080 sort of caught me by surprise. 156 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:51,840 I'm not there yet with the love side. 157 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:54,520 I normally take a lot longer to... to say those words. 158 00:06:57,160 --> 00:07:00,760 Jamie wasn't the only one to confess her love last night. 159 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:02,760 Our couch session was a bit cute. 160 00:07:02,840 --> 00:07:04,200 (LAUGHS) It was a bit cute. Wasn't it? 161 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,280 Can you see yourself falling in love with Rhi? 162 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:09,640 (LAUGHS) Real hard-hitting. 163 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:12,160 Um... 164 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:13,760 Yeah. (LAUGHS) 165 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:15,560 Yeah. 166 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:18,280 So, Rhi, what about from your perspective? 167 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:20,160 Can you see yourself falling in love with Jeff? 168 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:23,800 I can. 169 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,200 I'm glad that happened, because, you know, 170 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:31,080 we haven't even talked about that ourselves, and... 171 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:34,280 ..you know, I think without Mel sort of drawing that out... 172 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:35,560 Yeah. It wouldn't have probably... 173 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:37,720 It probably wouldn't have come out of my mouth otherwise. 174 00:07:37,760 --> 00:07:39,120 (LAUGHS) 175 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:40,960 You know, Mel brought that out of Rhi last night, 176 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:43,320 and I didn't have to do it, so it made my job pretty easy. 177 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:47,000 I'm blushing again. 178 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:48,040 (CHUCKLES) 179 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:49,760 You know, I don't wanna get too far into the future, 180 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:52,480 but if it is like it is now, then it's gonna be awesome. 181 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:55,960 Ah! (GRUNTS) 182 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:58,200 (BOTH LAUGH) 183 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:00,440 Mwah. 184 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:05,080 (UPLIFTING MUSIC) 185 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:10,200 This morning marks a major milestone for our couples... 186 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:14,600 ..as they embark on one of the most important phases 187 00:08:14,640 --> 00:08:15,800 of the experiment... 188 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:18,480 ..Feedback Week. 189 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:22,760 And this year, our couples are in for a major surprise. 190 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:24,720 It just... It just... (KNOCK AT DOOR) 191 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:26,720 Oh. (LAUGHS) 192 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:27,960 Baby, go get it. 193 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:30,000 (LAUGHS) Yay! Haven't heard a knock for a while. 194 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:31,160 I know. 195 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:32,400 Oh, my gosh. 196 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:36,560 Don't read it in your head. Read it out loud. 197 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:37,800 Ooh. 198 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:39,080 What? (LAUGHS) 199 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:40,480 No, what's happening? 200 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:46,040 'Carina and Paul, as the experiment enters its final weeks...' 201 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:48,600 '..may be contemplating whether your bond with your partner 202 00:08:48,680 --> 00:08:50,800 'is strong enough to withstand life away from the experiment.' 203 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:54,080 'Sometimes the best perspective is an outsider's point of view'. 204 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:57,240 We have decided to bring back a polarising element 205 00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:59,120 of Feedback Week, 206 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:00,400 the partner swap. 207 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:01,760 'For the next three days, 208 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,120 'Veronica will pack her bags and move in with Dave...' 209 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:05,160 What? 210 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:08,920 '..while Rhi will move into your apartment with Eliot.' (LAUGHS) 211 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:12,840 This is not about trading partners. 212 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:14,960 That's crazy. 213 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:17,600 This is designed to give a fresh perspective 214 00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:18,800 to the relationship. 215 00:09:18,880 --> 00:09:23,880 TEEJAY: 'Beth will pack her bags and move in with Ryan...' (LAUGHS) 216 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:24,920 Are you joking? 217 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,680 '..while Carina will move into your apartment with Teejay.' 218 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:29,880 (LAUGHS) 219 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:31,840 Are you... Are you lying? (LAUGHS) That's... 220 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:33,840 What the hell am I gonna learn from Ryan? 221 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:37,240 His relationship's a shitshow. What's he gonna do, 222 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:38,760 tell me to stop speaking and silence me? 223 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:39,880 I don't think so, mate. 224 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:43,440 If he does serve you up a large serving of bullshit... 225 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:45,440 ..you can bite your lip. 226 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:48,320 I will absolutely not be biting my lip with Ryan. 227 00:09:50,680 --> 00:09:51,680 'For the next three days, 228 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:54,200 'Jacqui will pack her bags and move in with Jeff 229 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:57,080 'while Beth will move into your apartment with Ryan.' 230 00:09:57,120 --> 00:09:58,720 (LAUGHS) 231 00:09:58,760 --> 00:10:00,400 (COUGHS AND LAUGHS) 232 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:02,840 You got Beth. Good lord. 233 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:05,320 She's gonna be such a nightmare for you. 234 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:06,840 No! 235 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:10,280 So, Beth's gonna be telling you what to work on. 236 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:11,800 You've gotta tell Beth what to work on. 237 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:15,280 I'm not seeing Beth help any relationship so far. 238 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:18,600 She's kind of, like, just been explosive or vulgar. 239 00:10:18,680 --> 00:10:20,280 And if she's asking about our relationship, 240 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:22,600 it's gonna be, you know, sunshine and rainbows 241 00:10:22,680 --> 00:10:24,600 as far as she's concerned. (CHUCKLES) 242 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:25,920 Thankfully, it's gonna be easy, 243 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,520 because Jacqui and I are in a really good spot. 244 00:10:28,560 --> 00:10:30,240 How are you gonna go with Jeff? 245 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:32,480 I don't wanna go into their room. It's apparently... 246 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:33,920 Well, it's a studio. 247 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:35,800 I've been in it before. It's tiny. 248 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:38,440 So that's your biggest issue - is the size of the room? 249 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:43,080 Well, I'm a bit worried about Rhi. 250 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:44,120 She thinks, yeah... 251 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:45,720 Oh, can you imagine her reading the letter now? 252 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:46,760 She will be freaking out. 253 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:48,920 They'll be having a conversation now about it, like... (GASPS) 254 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,400 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 255 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:52,720 'For the next three days, 256 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:55,160 'Rhi will pack her bags and move in with Eliot... 257 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:58,120 '..while Jacqui will move into your apartment with Jeff.' 258 00:10:58,200 --> 00:10:59,400 What?! (LAUGHS) 259 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:02,440 (LAUGHS) 260 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:03,640 Jacqui? 261 00:11:03,680 --> 00:11:05,320 (SLURPS) 262 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:07,160 (LAUGHS) Oh, my god. 263 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:08,400 Well, she thinks you're a bit cute, 264 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:09,800 so that makes sense. (GROANS) 265 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:11,520 I don't think Jacqui has any feelings for me. 266 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:13,600 Well, I hope she has no feelings for me, 267 00:11:13,680 --> 00:11:17,840 because, yeah, that would be very strange and uncomfortable. 268 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:19,040 Either way, 269 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:20,680 Jacqui's quite a lot. 270 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:23,320 This three days is gonna feel like three years, seriously. 271 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,600 (LAUGHS) 272 00:11:25,680 --> 00:11:27,520 I'm really confident in mine and Jeff's relationship, 273 00:11:27,600 --> 00:11:29,960 so I personally don't feel bothered by it. 274 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:31,600 I think it'll be very interesting. 275 00:11:31,680 --> 00:11:35,080 She's not gonna wanna move back in with Ryan after living with you. 276 00:11:35,120 --> 00:11:37,280 (LAUGHS) 277 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:39,680 While Rhi is finding some humour in the task... 278 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:43,640 ..Eliot is looking at the positives. 279 00:11:43,680 --> 00:11:45,480 I was not expecting this. 280 00:11:46,680 --> 00:11:47,720 But it might be good for us. 281 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,200 It might be good to get some outside perspective 282 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:52,720 on day-to-day living. 283 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:54,320 Looking at Rhi and Jeff, 284 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:56,480 I see them as a kind of a model couple. 285 00:11:56,560 --> 00:11:58,720 They have a really good understanding 286 00:11:58,760 --> 00:11:59,800 of each other. 287 00:11:59,880 --> 00:12:02,160 You contrast that with my relationship with Veronica. 288 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:05,840 I really find that there's kind of very little understanding. 289 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:08,400 Maybe there's something I can learn from this. 290 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:10,640 I'm curious to see how much reading you're gonna get done with Rhi. 291 00:12:10,680 --> 00:12:12,120 (CHUCKLES) 292 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:17,640 I'm looking forward to seeing if Dave gets through the three days. 293 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:20,480 You think he might get...? 294 00:12:20,560 --> 00:12:22,640 Why would he wouldn't get through the three days? 295 00:12:22,680 --> 00:12:23,880 (LAUGHS) Why can't you...? 296 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:25,080 Why would you say that? You just... 297 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:26,360 What's a criticism, though? 298 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:28,120 You just had a dig at me because I'm always reading. 299 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:30,200 I'm not digging. I'm observing. 300 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:32,440 Yeah, no, I... So I can... It's an observation. 301 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:34,040 I read sometimes, and sometimes I don't read. 302 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:35,240 You read very often. 303 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:38,560 Yeah. OK. You do read a lot. 304 00:12:38,600 --> 00:12:39,640 I'm not criticising. 305 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:41,240 I would say I spend less time reading 306 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:42,600 than you spend in the bathroom. 307 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:45,440 (TENSE MUSIC) 308 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:48,360 That's just... That's really just being honest. 309 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:49,800 OK, babe. 310 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:53,440 You are always negative towards me, and I don't know how to, like... 311 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:55,120 You literally just said... ..navigate it. 312 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:56,160 .."All you do is read." 313 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:58,000 I'm just addressing the things that you're saying... 314 00:12:58,080 --> 00:12:59,360 No, you read all... ..that aren't true. 315 00:12:59,440 --> 00:13:01,880 I said I under... I wonder if you'll read as much with me 316 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:03,560 as you will with Rhi. That's a snide remark. 317 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,160 It's not a snide remark. Of course I'm gonna... 318 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:06,400 BOTH: Obviously... No, it's not. 319 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:07,600 I'm allowed to address things. 320 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:12,840 Veronica didn't really tell me much about... 321 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:14,720 ..what she's expecting. 322 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:18,080 It felt like she was just more focused on 323 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:19,160 trying to criticise me. 324 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:21,200 You never have anything positive to say to me. 325 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:23,520 Everything is so negative with you. 326 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:25,000 You know, I'm at the point where it's like 327 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:28,680 I need someone to move in here with us, basically, 328 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:30,680 to have a functional relationship with Veronica. 329 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:33,240 I'm done with this conversation now, Eliot. 330 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:36,480 I'm gonna go start packing my bags to move in with Dave. 331 00:13:36,560 --> 00:13:38,560 Hopefully he's able to have a normal conversation with me. 332 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:40,760 I find that hard to believe. 333 00:13:42,680 --> 00:13:44,920 I think Rhi will be much more reasonable, 334 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:46,760 like I'll know what... 335 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:50,880 ..you know, Rhi is thinking, what she's trying to tell me. 336 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:54,120 (TENSE MUSIC) 337 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:56,840 While Eliot is looking forward to Rhi's perspective... 338 00:13:58,120 --> 00:13:59,200 ..across the hall, 339 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:01,760 Awhina is apprehensive. 340 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:04,360 Three days. 341 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:06,560 Adrian. It'd be weird for you, to be honest. 342 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:07,600 Why? What am I doing? 343 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:09,280 (CHUCKLES) 344 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:12,280 'Awhina will pack her bags and move in with... 345 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:14,880 (SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC) 346 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:16,000 '..Paul.' 347 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:18,040 That is weird. That's weird. 348 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:21,080 (TENSE MUSIC) 349 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:28,200 Not really, though. 350 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:34,720 (TENSE MUSIC) 351 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:37,600 '..while Awhina moves into your apartment with Paul.' 352 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:39,120 (LAUGHS) What the (BLEEP)? No! 353 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:42,080 I don't like that. 354 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:43,400 No, I don't wanna do that. 355 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:48,560 Why Awhina out of all the girls? 356 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:51,600 A few weeks ago... 357 00:14:52,400 --> 00:14:56,280 ..Paul told me that he had a little fling back in the day... 358 00:14:57,960 --> 00:14:59,440 ..with Awhina's twin sister. 359 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:02,840 (TENSE MUSIC) 360 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:07,720 So, yeah... 361 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:11,280 You've already slept with her sister. 362 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:12,960 Now you're gonna sleep in the same bed as her. 363 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:16,000 (TENSE MUSIC) 364 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:21,480 Yeah, obviously thought... Yeah. 365 00:15:21,560 --> 00:15:23,840 'Cause, like, your sister dated, like... 366 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:27,600 It is a bit odd. 367 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:31,400 He and my twin sister have a history prior to this experience. 368 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:33,360 Beautiful. 369 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:35,480 But they're both from Perth, 370 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:38,760 and they were very casual a couple of years ago. 371 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:40,360 I can't really remember the timeframe. 372 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:41,760 It was very short-lived. 373 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:45,280 But she had nothing bad to say about Paul, 374 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,880 so I feel like it'll be a breeze for me. 375 00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:50,520 My twin sister and I speak every day, 376 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:52,200 maybe, like, two, three, four times a day. 377 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:55,040 She knows that... 378 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:57,760 I've spoken to her in regards to Paul being here 379 00:15:57,840 --> 00:15:59,760 and saying that we've actually become, 380 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:01,000 like, good friends. 381 00:16:02,920 --> 00:16:04,720 Paul's a really nice guy... 382 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:07,240 ..so this doesn't need to be a big deal. 383 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:11,760 (SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC) 384 00:16:13,760 --> 00:16:15,400 My heart's racing. (CHUCKLES) 385 00:16:15,480 --> 00:16:17,320 What's up? My heart is actually racing. 386 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:21,120 (TENSE MUSIC) 387 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:23,080 Look, I mean... (SIGHS) 388 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:26,120 ..no hard feelings towards Awhina, but... 389 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:30,400 ..Awhina and her sister look identical. 390 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:35,520 So I don't want Awhina moving into our apartment 391 00:16:35,600 --> 00:16:38,480 and sleeping in our bed with my husband. 392 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:41,520 (TENSE MUSIC) 393 00:16:47,240 --> 00:16:48,840 WOMAN: Our couples are in shock... 394 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:51,000 JEFF: Don't leave me. (LAUGHS) 395 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:52,880 Please? 396 00:16:52,920 --> 00:16:53,920 No! 397 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:56,120 Do I get conjugal visits? 398 00:16:56,960 --> 00:16:58,920 ..after learning that, for the first stage 399 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:00,480 of Feedback Week, 400 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:04,920 the experts are reintroducing the partner-swap task. 401 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:06,720 Are you writing me a little letter? 402 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:09,720 That will be cute when I read that later. 403 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:12,480 The partner-swap task will allow our couples 404 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:15,920 to gain an outside perspective on their relationships 405 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:20,080 so they can make informed decisions when deciding their future 406 00:17:20,120 --> 00:17:21,320 beyond the experiment. 407 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:23,600 JACQUI: What if she cuts our photos in half? 408 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:25,520 This is our shrine, and no-one's gonna touch it. 409 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:29,360 While this is unconventional and confronting, 410 00:17:29,400 --> 00:17:31,080 it could also be the very thing 411 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,880 that gives our couples some much-needed clarity 412 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:35,160 over their relationships. 413 00:17:37,120 --> 00:17:41,160 While Awhina's twin sister shares a past romance with Paul, 414 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:43,880 Awhina's been quick to embrace the idea 415 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:46,400 of moving into Paul's apartment. 416 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:48,480 How do you think it's gonna be living with Paul? 417 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:51,040 I actually reckon it's gonna be very easy. 418 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:54,600 Like, he and I have, like, formed a friendship here. 419 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:56,680 He seems pretty quiet. 420 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:59,280 Paul's a really nice guy. We are friends. 421 00:17:59,360 --> 00:18:00,680 I'm telling you, I survived my husband 422 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:03,120 for the last eight weeks. I can survive anyone for three days. 423 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:04,520 (LAUGHS) 424 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:07,600 Do you think Carina and Paul are on the same page? 425 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:09,640 They seem pretty smitten with each other. 426 00:18:10,680 --> 00:18:11,760 And they seem in a good place. 427 00:18:13,680 --> 00:18:14,880 Are you gonna miss me? (LAUGHS) 428 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:16,120 No. (LAUGHS) 429 00:18:16,200 --> 00:18:17,960 Yeah, me and Awhina are in a good place right now. 430 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:21,800 I think maybe she'll realise maybe she does miss me. 431 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:24,960 Maybe she might realise how good she has it. 432 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:27,640 Oops. (SNORTS) 433 00:18:27,680 --> 00:18:28,680 Do not help me, please. 434 00:18:28,720 --> 00:18:30,040 Thanks, babe. No, thanks. 435 00:18:30,080 --> 00:18:31,760 (LAUGHS) 436 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:33,640 But down the hall... 437 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:38,080 ..Carina's still struggling to come to terms with the idea 438 00:18:38,120 --> 00:18:40,000 of Awhina moving in. 439 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:42,040 Are you OK? No, I'm not OK. 440 00:18:42,080 --> 00:18:43,240 Oh. 441 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:45,040 I'm uncomfortable. 442 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:47,680 Oh, baby. 443 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:50,960 (DOWNBEAT MUSIC) 444 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:52,920 Oh, hey. 445 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:53,960 Sit down. 446 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:57,200 I'm just thinking about the fact 447 00:18:57,280 --> 00:19:01,520 that I have to actively loan my husband out to Awhina 448 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:04,880 when Paul has history with her twin sister. 449 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:06,120 It's just weird. 450 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,360 Look at me. What's going on through your head at the moment? 451 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:11,000 Everything. I'm trying to process it all... 452 00:19:11,040 --> 00:19:12,080 Yeah, I get it. 453 00:19:12,160 --> 00:19:14,000 ..and how, like, uncomfortable I am with it. 454 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:18,560 I get a bit protective and possessive, 455 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:23,160 and sharing my husband with another woman... 456 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:25,960 ..it's like a form of cheating. 457 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:27,320 (SNIFFLES) 458 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:30,520 It completely goes against my values, 459 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:31,960 my religion, 460 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:33,480 the way I was raised. 461 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:36,800 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 462 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,280 So, before we start, I'll just say a very quick prayer. 463 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:40,840 Father, Son, Holy Spirit. 464 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:42,240 Amen. Dear Lord, 465 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:43,440 we thank you for... 466 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:45,880 I was born and raised as a Catholic. 467 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:49,280 I see it as a sense of community, 468 00:19:49,360 --> 00:19:51,480 and it brings out the good in people. 469 00:19:52,360 --> 00:19:54,000 Guys, help yourself, please. 470 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:55,120 (LAUGHTER) 471 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:56,800 Everyone dig in. 472 00:19:57,760 --> 00:19:59,280 Yes, like, 473 00:19:59,360 --> 00:20:03,440 I can be very conservative and traditional, but, you know, 474 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:07,080 from seeing my parents being married for almost 45 years, 475 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:10,760 and they met when they were 15 and 16. 476 00:20:10,840 --> 00:20:14,360 I just think of marriage as like a fairytale - 477 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:19,360 you know, being married once and once only, 478 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:22,000 so that's where I come from. 479 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,200 For me, like, loyalty is everything. 480 00:20:27,360 --> 00:20:28,960 I don't wanna do it. 481 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:31,200 (SIGHS) I don't. But... 482 00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:32,800 (VOICE BREAKS) I don't agree with it. 483 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:35,720 Like, I don't wanna be doing this. 484 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:41,440 Like, this doesn't feel like it's gonna bring me closer to you. 485 00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:47,640 Is there something that scares you? Are you scared of anything? 486 00:20:47,720 --> 00:20:49,640 I'm not... No, I just... I just wanna... 487 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:51,400 ..think it's very weird. It's like... 488 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:52,440 Yeah, maybe. 489 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:53,480 ..the fact that, you know, 490 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:57,720 like, you'll be having a shower, and then she's, like, in the room. 491 00:20:57,760 --> 00:20:59,800 I can't. It's just (BLEEP) weird, 492 00:20:59,840 --> 00:21:02,040 and they're our... It's our bed. 493 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:04,920 (TENSE MUSIC) 494 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,840 The thing I've had with Awhina's twin sister, Cleo, 495 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:09,280 was two years ago, 496 00:21:09,360 --> 00:21:12,200 and Carina has absolutely nothing to worry about. 497 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:13,240 It is weird. 498 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:16,680 I'm feeling hell awkward and weird about the whole thing as well. 499 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:19,920 I feel like Carina's just gone for a little holiday with Teejay. 500 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:21,360 That's it. (LAUGHS) 501 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,520 Yeah, honestly, I'm OK. Yeah, I'm fine with it. Yeah. 502 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:28,960 (TENSE MUSIC) 503 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:31,840 (KNOCK AT DOOR) 504 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:37,800 (SIGHS) 505 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:39,600 What the hell is that? 506 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:43,400 (SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC) 507 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:44,440 AWHINA: Hi. (LAUGHS) 508 00:21:44,520 --> 00:21:46,080 Oh shit. (LAUGHS) 509 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:48,960 How are you? 510 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:50,200 Carina's just there. 511 00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:54,280 Hi. Are you OK? (LAUGHS) 512 00:21:54,360 --> 00:21:56,760 Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm OK. Are you... Have you been crying? 513 00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:58,200 Yeah, I just don't like this. Yeah. 514 00:21:58,280 --> 00:21:59,600 She's... Yeah. Oh, mate. 515 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:01,040 Carina's feeling really uncomfortable 516 00:22:01,120 --> 00:22:02,440 with the whole... Carina. 517 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:06,400 Carina and I were just having a chat about it, 518 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:08,520 and then, yeah, next minute Cleo walked in. 519 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:11,080 It was very awkward. 520 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:12,800 Kind of like didn't know where to stand. 521 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:13,880 I was like, "Oh." (CHUCKLES) 522 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:17,400 No. 523 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,760 (LAUGHS) 524 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:21,320 (BLEEP) Cleo, Awhina. Sorry. 525 00:22:21,360 --> 00:22:22,400 You know what? 526 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,800 Adrian practically threw me out of the room. 527 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:26,720 (LAUGHS) 528 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:28,760 He was like, "Get out!" 529 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,280 (LAUGHS) He even told me he'll pack my bags. 530 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:32,320 (LAUGHS) 531 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:34,080 Oh, my gosh. (LAUGHS) He did. 532 00:22:34,120 --> 00:22:35,560 (LAUGHS) 533 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:36,680 And you know what I was like? 534 00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:37,800 I literally was like, 535 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:40,040 "This is gonna be a cruisy three days for me." 536 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:41,680 Like, it's a long time. 537 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:42,800 One night is fine. 538 00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:45,000 A sleepover, no worries. But... Babe, sweetie, three days. 539 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:46,920 Saturday, we'll be back. (SIGHS) 540 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:51,280 Kind of understand where Carina is at with this task. 541 00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,040 But I'm used to being in relationships 542 00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:55,640 where my partner worked away, 543 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:58,160 so I don't think it's such a big deal. 544 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:00,320 Is Carina sad 'cause she's gonna miss you 545 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,600 or she feels uncomfortable living with someone else? 546 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,640 Well, she feels uncomfortable with the whole situation. 547 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:07,600 (TENSE MUSIC) 548 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:09,120 Literally from day one, you know, 549 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,560 I haven't done anything for Carina to not trust me. 550 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,840 So it does come across as Carina's, you know, 551 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:17,280 a little bit jealous about the situation. 552 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:18,320 All good? 553 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:24,360 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 554 00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:25,720 OK, bye. 555 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:28,200 Bye, babe. Have fun. 556 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:29,480 You have fun with Teejay. 557 00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:30,760 Yes, thank you. 558 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,200 Um, yeah... 559 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,320 I'll see you... See you, baby. 560 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:37,480 Come here. ..in three days. 561 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:41,360 (TENSE MUSIC) 562 00:23:44,360 --> 00:23:46,880 (GROANS) This is... Oh... 563 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:48,760 Well, this is weird. (CHUCKLES) 564 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:49,800 (CHUCKLES) 565 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:51,440 (CHUCKLES) 566 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,360 I kind of just feel like it's like a friend sleepover now. 567 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:54,960 Yeah, legit. 568 00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:57,040 But our reaction was definitely different 569 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:58,960 to yours and Carina's. (LAUGHS) 570 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:02,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 571 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:04,760 (CARINA SNIFFLES) 572 00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:06,920 (CRIES) 573 00:24:08,360 --> 00:24:11,360 (DOWNBEAT MUSIC) 574 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:13,280 Feeling overwhelmed with emotion... 575 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,160 ..Carina's requested a temporary room to go to 576 00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,400 until she decides whether or not 577 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:22,880 to participate in the partner-swap task. 578 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:27,080 I wouldn't be doing this in the outside world. 579 00:24:27,120 --> 00:24:28,680 Like, you don't, like, sleep... 580 00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:30,640 ..do sleepovers. 581 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:32,880 Like, imagine if my husband was doing, like, 582 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:34,640 a sleepover with another woman, 583 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:36,600 like, that's just (BLEEP) weird. 584 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:38,680 Even if they're just friends, 585 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:39,840 like, it's... 586 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:41,960 Like, he'll be showering, and then she's, like, 587 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:43,000 in the room next door. 588 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,360 Like, that's just weird to me. 589 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,920 Like, I don't feel comfortable with that. (SNIFFLES) 590 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:53,640 (SIGHS) I trust him a lot, but it's just like... 591 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,040 ..this doesn't seem right in my gut. 592 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:58,400 Like, I feel off about it. 593 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:02,280 (SOBS) 594 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:05,320 (POIGNANT MUSIC) 595 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,880 (UPLIFTING MUSIC) 596 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:13,400 WOMAN: The partner-swap stage of Feedback Week 597 00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:14,640 has officially begun... 598 00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,480 Time to go. 599 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:18,320 OK. Oh! 600 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:22,160 ..and our brides are preparing to move into their new apartments 601 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:24,280 for the next three days. 602 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,080 Rhi is moving in with Eliot... 603 00:25:26,120 --> 00:25:27,520 (LAUGHS) 604 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:28,560 Hey, hey. Hey. 605 00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:29,600 Oh, my god. How are you? 606 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:30,960 How's it going? Good. 607 00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:33,240 Oh, my goodness. 608 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:36,480 ..and Jamie's going to be living with Adrian... 609 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:39,720 Oh, that is so cute. 610 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:42,920 I can't believe this is... You guys have sex on this bed. 611 00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:46,040 ..while Veronica moves in with Dave. 612 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,080 How fun, huh? 613 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:49,520 I was a bit nervous. I'm not gonna lie. 614 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:53,000 I was like, "Jamie loves me." (LAUGHS) 615 00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,800 From what I've seen, Dave's quite a nice guy, 616 00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,880 so I think this is gonna be a really chill couple of days. 617 00:26:00,120 --> 00:26:01,760 But while the other participants 618 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:05,080 are settling into their temporary new homes, 619 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:09,920 Beth is taking her time packing to delay her move-in with Ryan. 620 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:11,160 I just feel like it's never been 621 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,000 a productive conversation with him at all, so... 622 00:26:14,040 --> 00:26:15,360 Yeah. 623 00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:17,400 The two of them clashed at the retreat 624 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:21,320 when Beth confronted Ryan for prioritising the gym 625 00:26:21,360 --> 00:26:23,440 over intimacy with his wife. 626 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:24,920 You'd rather save your energy for the... 627 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,560 ..the iron than her (BLEEP)? (JACQUI LAUGHS) 628 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:28,880 Excuse my language. Jeez Louise. No, well, 629 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,200 you better be excused... But like... 630 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:31,400 ..because that's like... Come on, 631 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,680 you're being really, really blunt and offensive about it. 632 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:34,920 That's offensive. 633 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:39,960 I'm, like... I'm open to learning things, 634 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:41,160 but I'm like... I... 635 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:43,400 I hope I learn something. 636 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,400 So, Beth's gonna be telling you what to work on. 637 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,480 You've gotta tell Beth what to work on. 638 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,320 It could be a disaster when she comes in, 639 00:26:51,360 --> 00:26:52,520 she's argumentative, she's rude, 640 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:54,920 and she could be on a reconnaissance mission 641 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:57,160 to try get up dirt on our relationship. 642 00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,440 You know what? Jeff's gonna ask you a lot of questions as well, 643 00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:01,880 you know? About you? 644 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:03,240 About me, about the relationship. 645 00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,120 I think he's gonna be like, 646 00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:10,320 "Jacqui, do you see, like, living forever with this guy?" 647 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,160 Are you nervous? 648 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:14,560 Well, I mean, not nervous, 649 00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:17,360 but I know that you don't have much of a filter. (CHUCKLES) 650 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:21,280 Interesting. 651 00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:23,920 Some people might wanna sort of dig in 652 00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:27,800 and create a more divisive angle for this task, 653 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:31,120 but we've discussed it, like, four or five times already. 654 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:33,080 I've got faith that she's gonna speak on the work 655 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:35,640 that we've put in day in, day out to be better. 656 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,080 Just remember, like, outside opinions, 657 00:27:39,120 --> 00:27:41,600 outside 'advice' has... 658 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,840 Is not helpful. ..has been helpful 1% of the time. 659 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:46,160 (LAUGHS) Yeah, I hear you. 660 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:51,840 I've discovered that Ryan has an extreme sense of masculine pride. 661 00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:56,720 Ryan wants me to stay silent and just, like, put on a happy face. 662 00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:00,960 But I do wanna get Jeff's opinion 663 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:04,560 and maybe even help Ryan understand gender equality and that, like, 664 00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:07,840 traditional notions of masculinity are a little bit outdated. 665 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:10,680 But I don't want it to be like, 666 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:12,080 "Ryan, you need to be more like Jeff." 667 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,840 That would really destroy Ryan's pride and ego. 668 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:17,640 I can't even... (LAUGHS) 669 00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:19,120 (KNOCK AT DOOR) 670 00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:22,080 (LAUGHS) (SIGHS) I'll get it. 671 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,920 I'll get it. You stay here. I've got it. 672 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:26,600 (SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC) 673 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,280 Oh, hi. Hi. You're still here. 674 00:28:29,360 --> 00:28:30,320 Yeah. Hi. 675 00:28:30,360 --> 00:28:34,520 (TENSE MUSIC) 676 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:36,080 Hi. Welcome. 677 00:28:36,120 --> 00:28:37,280 Thanks. 678 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:39,680 Wow. 679 00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:42,160 You guys have a lot of pictures. 680 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:43,240 Yeah. 681 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:44,800 Don't you? So that's the shrine over there. 682 00:28:44,840 --> 00:28:45,840 Stunning. 683 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,720 Well, very interesting. Yeah. 684 00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,280 When I walk into their home, 685 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:53,840 there's photos everywhere. 686 00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:57,880 Like, they've got a shrine. They've got a shrine. 687 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,040 It's not the Jacqui and Ryan that we see, is it? 688 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:05,520 Yeah, welcome to our place. 689 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,760 Their relationship seems lovey-dovey. 690 00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,240 (SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC) 691 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:13,720 But when I see them together 692 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,280 at cocktail parties and dinner parties 693 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:18,360 and at the retreat, completely different relationship. 694 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:20,680 That's really shocked me, 695 00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,320 so I wanna get to the bottom of the issues that they're having. 696 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:28,800 What did you feel when you saw the names on the note, on the task? 697 00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:31,320 Um, it was 100% horror. 698 00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,800 And I'm sure I probably wasn't your first choice either. 699 00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:36,000 No, no. Yeah. 700 00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:37,760 So, yeah... 701 00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:41,520 I think about this with glee. 702 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,720 When Teejay and Beth open the envelope and saw my name, 703 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:46,720 how they squirmed. You know, it's delicious. 704 00:29:48,200 --> 00:29:49,200 What? 705 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,720 Oh, yeah, um... (CHUCKLES) We might be... 706 00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,360 We might be putting out a swear jar. 707 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:57,520 Yeah. (LAUGHS) 708 00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:58,960 You've got to be (BLEEP) joking. 709 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:00,520 (COUPLE LAUGH) 710 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:03,200 The swear jar was like a bit of a gag, 711 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:05,840 but if she starts swearing at me, like, that'd be the end of it. 712 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:07,680 You can piss off out of here. 713 00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,320 Well, I've already broke it. (COUPLE LAUGH) 714 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,480 That's OK. We can give you one warning. 715 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:15,520 (LAUGHS) 716 00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:16,800 I won't be here to enforce the rules, 717 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,120 so I'll leave it in my... trusted hands of my husband, 718 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:20,440 who'll enforce the rules. Mm. 719 00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:23,480 (TENSE MUSIC) 720 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:28,840 Beth's spent a lot of time judging our relationship, 721 00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:31,920 just throwing out pure ignorance and vulgarity and swearing, 722 00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:32,960 all that type of stuff. 723 00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:35,360 So she's gonna get an insight into it 724 00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,000 and hopefully maybe shut the (BLEEP) up as well. 725 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:41,520 (SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC) 726 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,160 OK, well, I guess I'm going now. 727 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,080 Alright, I'll give you a hand. Thanks, Ryan. 728 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:48,480 Have fun. Thank you. 729 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:51,800 Enjoy my hubby. Bye. 730 00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:53,080 (RYAN LAUGHS) I will. 731 00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,120 (LAUGHS) I'll get the door for you. 732 00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:56,320 Thank you. 733 00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:58,960 While Beth puts on a brave face, 734 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:02,880 Jacqui has her own concerns over what she's walking into. 735 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:06,080 (SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC) 736 00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,600 Never had any hard feelings towards Jeff, 737 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:12,840 but I know Rhi is probably extra anxious. 738 00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:16,000 Even just a friendly coffee triggered her 739 00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:18,360 to react in this insane way. 740 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:23,720 Like, the smallest thing can upset her. 741 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:25,600 I reached out for support. 742 00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,440 It was that I wanted a man's opinion about some of the things... 743 00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,320 But you could have a man's opinion with me there. 744 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,800 A lot of girls can experience envy and jealousy, 745 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:39,080 and I wouldn't be surprised if Rhi's going through that. 746 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:40,720 (KNOCK AT DOOR) 747 00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:43,160 So I know she's probably gonna take it out on me a little bit, 748 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:47,120 so I have to walk across eggshells while I'm in Jeff's apartment, 749 00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:48,640 because everything I do 750 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,680 will probably be interrogated by Rhi. 751 00:31:51,840 --> 00:31:52,920 Who could this be? 752 00:31:54,720 --> 00:31:56,080 Hello, Jac. (LAUGHS) 753 00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:57,480 Come in. Hello. 754 00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:58,520 Who would have thought? 755 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,120 Who would have thought? How are you? 756 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:01,320 Good. Let me help you with your bag. 757 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:03,600 Thank you. Oh, very nice of you. (GRUNTS) Nah, all good. It's heavy. 758 00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:05,080 I brought you something. 759 00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:07,440 A dress to iron. 760 00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:09,680 Sorry, to steam. (LAUGHS) (LAUGHS) 761 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:11,440 I need this steamed before the next DP, 762 00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:12,600 so it's like, "Why not?" 763 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:14,480 I can steam that for you. Yeah, that'd be great. Thanks. 764 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:15,640 No issues. Come in. 765 00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:16,760 Thank you. 766 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:17,880 Come, come. 767 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:19,160 Yeah, it's a... (LAUGHS) 768 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,640 I did find that quite funny, that Jacqui's walked in the door 769 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:23,200 and gone, "I've got a dress for you to steam." 770 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:24,760 I was like, "Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. # 771 00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:27,080 Hopefully she settles in and chills out a little bit. 772 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:29,160 Hope you like salmon. 773 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:30,920 I love salmon. I actually brought my own salmon. 774 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:32,560 Oh, did you? Don't worry. I'll... I brought... 775 00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:33,880 I'm gonna cook you a dinner tonight. 776 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:34,920 Yay! Oh, my god. Yeah. 777 00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,280 I was like, "OK, I'm gonna show up with my dress ready to be steamed, 778 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,320 "my belly empty and..." (LAUGHS) 779 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,360 Jeff has been incredibly welcoming. 780 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:44,680 Salmon's my favourite, and it'll be the first time 781 00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,520 that someone's cooked for me on this experiment. 782 00:32:46,560 --> 00:32:47,840 (LAUGHS) 783 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:51,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 784 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:54,760 (CLEARS THROAT) Um... 785 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,480 I'm looking forward to 786 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:58,840 understanding more about your relationship. 787 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:00,560 You know, like, obviously, 788 00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,400 you're probably gonna be curious and whatnot. 789 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:03,440 Yeah. 790 00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:04,680 And I'll be as open as I choose to be. 791 00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:07,760 We made a promise to each other 792 00:33:07,840 --> 00:33:09,960 that we wouldn't get other people's opinions 793 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:11,600 and divulge details about our relationship. 794 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:14,640 So I trust Jacqui completely in that regard. 795 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,720 So, who has Jacqui gone to stay with? 796 00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:20,000 She's going to be shacking up with Jeff. 797 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:21,680 Interesting. 798 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:23,960 And you're feeling fine about her going to Jeff's? 799 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:25,200 Yeah, absolutely. OK, that's good. 800 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:26,440 Yeah, yeah. That's great. 801 00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:28,240 I think they're just gonna tiptoe around each other. 802 00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:29,440 Yeah, OK. Yeah. 803 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:30,840 (LAUGHS) 804 00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,400 Look at this. Put me on the tools straight away. 805 00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:37,240 Do you enjoy doing this? 806 00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:40,160 It's soothing. 807 00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:47,200 I feel like I've been struggling to connect with Ryan 808 00:33:47,240 --> 00:33:48,480 on certain levels, 809 00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,600 and Jeff is just so hospitable. 810 00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:52,640 (LAUGHS) 811 00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,800 So I think the next few days with Jeff are gonna be great. 812 00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:56,840 (LAUGHS) 813 00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:00,960 I should have brought all my dresses. (LAUGHS) 814 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:02,160 Still to come, 815 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:04,680 Beth and Ryan go head-to-head. 816 00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:08,160 If I've seen shit behaviour, I'm going to call it out... 817 00:34:08,240 --> 00:34:10,480 Mm-hm. ..whether you like it or not. 818 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:12,560 We don't give a shit any more. 819 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:14,360 And Paul drops a bombshell. 820 00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:17,480 When I told Carina about Cleo, 821 00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:18,520 she said... 822 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:21,560 Wow. 823 00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:24,600 (TENSE MUSIC) 824 00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:32,920 (MOMENTOUS MUSIC) 825 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:36,960 WOMAN: The partner-swap phase of Feedback Week continues. 826 00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:39,920 And for Eliot, the thought of getting another perspective 827 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:44,000 on his relationship has him buzzing with excitement. 828 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:46,520 I know that you're into health and fitness, 829 00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:48,840 so I was like, "I'll run down and make a little fruit bowl." 830 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:51,440 Oh, thank you. That's so nice. 831 00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:54,920 There's a lot of things about Jeff and her that work. 832 00:34:55,720 --> 00:34:58,240 It's something to look to aspire to. 833 00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:00,040 We really haven't spoken much, 834 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,880 but I know that you like health and fitness, so... 835 00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:03,920 Thank you. 836 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:07,080 I really want to get to know Eliot a little bit 837 00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:09,680 and see how he lives day to day 838 00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,760 and if I can help their relationship in any way. 839 00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:13,960 Do you want a hand with anything? 840 00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:15,760 Nah, that's so fine. Thank you. 841 00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:18,800 I won't be a sec. I honestly didn't pack that much. 842 00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,200 As the new pairings settle in... 843 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,160 ..the experts are hopeful the tasks they've devised 844 00:35:25,240 --> 00:35:28,200 will help facilitate discussion and feedback. 845 00:35:30,240 --> 00:35:32,600 Oh, what? PAUL: Is there... Oh. (LAUGHS) 846 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:34,760 Another bloody letter! Another letter. 847 00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:36,320 It say 'Rhi and Eliot' on it? 848 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:38,560 (BOTH LAUGH) 849 00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:41,680 'Beth and Ryan, a fresh set of eyes on your relationship 850 00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:43,800 'can help you to explore the reasons why 851 00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:46,120 'things are going wrong or build on what's going well.' 852 00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:47,280 'In this task, 853 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,760 'you will each be required to write tough questions 854 00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:51,160 'about your relationship... 855 00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:55,120 '..seeking your new pairing's opinion.' 856 00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:58,880 'These questions must be well considered and hard-hitting.' 857 00:35:58,920 --> 00:35:59,960 MEL: For our participants, 858 00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:01,360 the hard-hitting questions 859 00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:05,240 will allow them to learn how others view their relationship - 860 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:06,440 the good and the bad. 861 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:10,360 'Be - underlined - brutally honest.' 862 00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:14,040 'Don't waste this opportunity to face the hard truth head-on. 863 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:15,520 'The experts.' 864 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:17,280 By seeking their new pairing's opinions, 865 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:20,640 our hope is that they will learn some strategies to implement 866 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,440 into their own relationships. 867 00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,320 I'm a very honest person, so I'm ready for it. 868 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:25,360 You are? Oh, god, yeah. 869 00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,000 I had no idea. Oh, god, yeah. 870 00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:28,640 (BOTH LAUGH) 871 00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:31,080 WOMAN: And the first pairing 872 00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:33,920 to take on the 'hard-hitting questions' task 873 00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:36,000 are Rhi and Eliot. 874 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:37,200 ELIOT: Looking at Rhi and Jeff, 875 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,560 I don't think there's a lot I can really lend 876 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:40,680 to their relationship, 877 00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,200 but I see them as a kind of a model couple. 878 00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,760 Yeah, I look forward to finding out more about what's going on 879 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:48,960 in their relationship. 880 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,280 Alright, you ready? Ready. 881 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:56,360 Jeff and I dated for a month last year, and it fizzled out. 882 00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:59,160 Can you see that happening again this time around? 883 00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:02,600 Was it like, 884 00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:03,760 um, 885 00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,480 you were moving away from each other or...? 886 00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:10,320 So, both of us had just come out of long-term relationships. 887 00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:13,440 OK. And we were both the first person 888 00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:15,280 that each other had dated. Oh. 889 00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:19,240 So, if I'm being honest... 890 00:37:20,240 --> 00:37:24,160 ..the fact that you have kind of found each other before 891 00:37:24,240 --> 00:37:26,240 tells me that there's a lot of suitability 892 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:27,320 between you two. Yeah. 893 00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:28,400 Do you know what I mean? Yeah. 894 00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:30,440 And now that you're in a better position... 895 00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,280 ..I don't think it'll fizzle out. 896 00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:36,840 Like, watching you two together, 897 00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:41,960 I can tell you kind of understand your differences and accept them. 898 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:45,320 I think that that's beautiful, yeah. 899 00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,520 If I was gonna bet, I'd probably bet that it is gonna continue... 900 00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:49,640 OK. Yeah. ..after this, right? 901 00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:51,040 That's good to hear. 902 00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:52,480 As much as Jeff and I are amazing, 903 00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:55,640 we get on and I can't fault our relationship right now, 904 00:37:55,720 --> 00:37:58,120 it feels great to have that confidence 905 00:37:58,160 --> 00:37:59,880 from an outsider's perspective. 906 00:37:59,920 --> 00:38:01,440 It's really nice to hear. 907 00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:05,240 Alright, so, my turn. 908 00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,480 To be honest, since the Commitment Ceremony, 909 00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,920 I've had Veronica's motivations in question. 910 00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:14,640 When we did have our worst week, 911 00:38:14,720 --> 00:38:17,960 Veronica chose to go and confide in Lauren 912 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,480 and speak to her about the situation. 913 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:22,640 Just seems like... 914 00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:23,960 ..like I'm in this experiment 915 00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:25,680 with someone that doesn't really like me. 916 00:38:25,720 --> 00:38:30,000 (TENSE MUSIC) 917 00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:31,760 And sometimes with Veronica, 918 00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:35,720 it feels like she absolutely hates my guts. 919 00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:40,880 So, like, the fact that Rhi is friendly with Veronica, 920 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:42,680 she can kind of give me a bit of a window 921 00:38:42,720 --> 00:38:44,480 into what Veronica might be feeling. 922 00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:49,160 Then, you know, maybe there's some hope that we can connect. 923 00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:54,440 Based on the conversations that you've had with Veronica... 924 00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,320 ..what is your impression of what she thinks about me? 925 00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:04,280 She mentioned that, you know... 926 00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:07,280 ..when she's walked into a room a couple of times, 927 00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:09,560 like, you haven't made eye contact with her and... 928 00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,120 OK. ..and you're a bit more closed off. 929 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:13,520 Right. 930 00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:15,520 Look, I, like, switch off, read my book 931 00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,080 and, like, have a bit of silence. Like... 932 00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:18,480 Oh, definitely, yeah. Yeah. 933 00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:21,440 She did mention that she wished 934 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,880 that you were a little bit more open. 935 00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:27,200 I feel like there's the smallest things 936 00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:30,120 that you would need to do to help that. 937 00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:31,200 Yeah. 938 00:39:31,240 --> 00:39:33,280 And it could just be that, 939 00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,680 now that she's mentioned the eye-contact thing, 940 00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:36,720 maybe just, yeah... Yeah. 941 00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:38,400 ..upping your game a little bit there. 942 00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:39,760 Yeah. Seeing how you go. 943 00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:41,760 That's really constructive. (CHUCKLES) 944 00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:45,360 While Eliot opens himself up to Rhi's advice... 945 00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:51,480 ..Veronica's eager to raise her own concerns with Dave. 946 00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:57,320 Do you think Eliot and I are emotionally compatible? 947 00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:01,000 DAVE: It's clear to see that there's a disconnect 948 00:40:01,040 --> 00:40:02,320 with you and Eliot. 949 00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,120 From what I hear from your couch sessions, 950 00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:06,760 you've been a lot more open than he has. 951 00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:09,520 Yeah, it's been challenging. 952 00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:16,120 Like, he doesn't tell me much about just even his day. 953 00:40:17,720 --> 00:40:21,400 After what happened with Lauren, I think he's super, super cautious. 954 00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:25,360 And until he's 100%, 120% sure about someone, 955 00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:26,600 I don't think he's gonna let 'em in, 956 00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:29,400 because he's actually probably pretty scarred. 957 00:40:31,720 --> 00:40:35,000 He just isn't willing to hear that I've apologised, 958 00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:40,200 and it does feel like he's not really overly excited 959 00:40:40,240 --> 00:40:41,600 to, like, hear my opinion. 960 00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:44,560 (TENSE MUSIC) 961 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:45,640 In any relationship, 962 00:40:45,720 --> 00:40:47,640 whether it's a friendship or anything, you need to have... 963 00:40:47,720 --> 00:40:48,960 Yeah. ..that sort of comfort in, 964 00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:50,680 "Oh, you're gonna open up? I'll open up." 965 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:52,040 Yeah. If you're not getting that back, 966 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:53,800 then how are you gonna express yourself? 967 00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:54,840 That's it. 968 00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:57,640 Dave is very easy to talk to. 969 00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:59,960 He offers his opinions openly. 970 00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:02,280 We could talk all day long probably. 971 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,320 (TENSE MUSIC) 972 00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:12,040 Do you think Veronica and I are a good match? 973 00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:16,000 Um, 974 00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:17,400 obviously, at the moment, 975 00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:19,480 your couch sessions - 976 00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:20,600 they're hard to watch, 977 00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:23,360 because you can see that both of you mean well. 978 00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:28,040 And, actually, if you did find that middle ground... 979 00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:33,040 ..I think that you and Veronica definitely have potential. 980 00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:35,960 (GENTLE MUSIC) 981 00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:37,280 I think that's a great way to look at it. 982 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:40,240 It's like we are a good match if we can learn to... 983 00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:41,640 Yeah. ..speak each other's language. 984 00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:45,360 Being able to have these conversations with Rhi 985 00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:46,640 I think has been really helpful. 986 00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:51,000 It kind of shows you that there is a path forward... 987 00:41:52,720 --> 00:41:56,360 ..and also maybe Veronica has picked up from Dave that... 988 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,600 ..she has been a little bit too critical of me in certain ways. 989 00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:02,680 Is Eliot your type? 990 00:42:02,720 --> 00:42:05,640 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 991 00:42:05,720 --> 00:42:08,640 Like, in terms of a relationship that I would wanna be in, 992 00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:10,560 it's probably like you and Jeff. 993 00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:13,600 I can see that, like, 994 00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:17,280 you guys are considering your partners' needs. 995 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:19,880 Eliot wouldn't even know, 996 00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:21,800 'cause he's not interested. That's.. 997 00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:23,320 You know? That's nice for you to say, though. 998 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,280 Yeah. That's good. That's cool. 999 00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:27,640 Unfortunately, Eliot's not able to reach in 1000 00:42:27,720 --> 00:42:29,480 and talk about things that are, like, 1001 00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:31,320 a little bit more important or vulnerable. 1002 00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:32,600 And, therefore, 1003 00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:34,720 communication with Eliot is far more difficult. 1004 00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:38,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 1005 00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:42,040 I honestly feel like I've had more conversation with you 1006 00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:44,040 than I've had with him the whole time I've known him. 1007 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:47,040 Yeah, I do feel like 1008 00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:48,880 I probably would have been better matched with Dave. 1009 00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:52,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1010 00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:54,080 But I'd also be better matched 1011 00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,480 with probably almost every person on this floor. 1012 00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:58,000 (CHUCKLES) 1013 00:42:58,080 --> 00:43:00,840 I have PTSD from this paper. (BOTH LAUGH) 1014 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:03,840 (TENSE MUSIC) 1015 00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:09,000 (JAUNTY MUSIC) 1016 00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:10,840 WOMAN: The experts have reintroduced 1017 00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:14,480 the partner-swap task as part of Feedback Week. 1018 00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:17,760 And despite her serious reluctance this morning, 1019 00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:22,800 Carina has decided to participate and move into Teejay's apartment. 1020 00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:23,840 (KNOCK AT DOOR) 1021 00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:28,560 Hi! (LAUGHS) Hey, roomie. How are you, darling? 1022 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,560 Good. How are you? Good, thank you. Welcome. 1023 00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:34,000 (BOTH CHUCKLE) Wow. Isn't this...? 1024 00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:36,720 Isn't this a pleasant encounter? 1025 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:38,240 Right? Your Airbnb for the next few days. 1026 00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:40,280 I know. This is so cool. Welcome. Make yourself at home. 1027 00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:41,800 Do you want a coffee or a tea or something? 1028 00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:43,240 I'm OK. Thank you. OK. 1029 00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:46,360 I've taken a bit of time to digest all of this 1030 00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:49,320 and process my many, many emotions 1031 00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:51,400 and feelings that are going on inside me. 1032 00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:55,920 Yeah, I'm trying to embrace more of what has come my way. 1033 00:43:56,720 --> 00:43:58,800 I'm, like, shook... Yeah? 1034 00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:00,200 ..at all of this. 1035 00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:02,360 I'm just still trying to process everything, 1036 00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:04,160 to be honest with you. 1037 00:44:04,240 --> 00:44:07,040 I think I'm trying to look at this from a perspective of, 1038 00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:09,320 like, learning. Beth and I have obviously had issues 1039 00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,160 with that connection kind of thing, which you and Paul are super... 1040 00:44:12,240 --> 00:44:13,760 like, you guys are great at. Yeah. 1041 00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:17,000 So... it would be cool to see, I guess, a different perspective. 1042 00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,000 Although they've had a little bit of a tumultuous past, 1043 00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:22,680 they do have a really beautiful connection, 1044 00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:24,880 and that's something that I want Beth and I to build on. 1045 00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:26,800 Hopefully Carina opens up a bit to me, 1046 00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:29,320 and maybe then I can give a little bit of advice too. 1047 00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,200 I guess I didn't see it from that point of view. 1048 00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,320 I was coming from a place of, like, maybe, protection. 1049 00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:39,240 I think, maybe, I am falling for him more 1050 00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:40,360 than I thought... Yeah. 1051 00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,840 ..because I am, like, very protective. 1052 00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,680 That's beautiful. I'm like, "That's my man." 1053 00:44:44,720 --> 00:44:46,040 Yeah. 1054 00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:47,760 Well, look, let me show you around. 1055 00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:49,360 (BOTH LAUGH) 1056 00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:51,040 You're currently in the lounge room. Wow. Yeah. 1057 00:44:51,120 --> 00:44:53,080 That, way over there, is the dining room. 1058 00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:56,360 I hope she feels more comfortable, you know, having the bed, and... 1059 00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,520 I'm gonna give her her own space and whatnot too, so... 1060 00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:00,680 I hope I can make her feel a little bit more comfortable 1061 00:45:00,720 --> 00:45:02,200 over these next couple of days. 1062 00:45:03,080 --> 00:45:05,840 And that's the tour. (CHUCKLES) Wow. 1063 00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:08,720 So, honestly, make yourself at home. Thank you very much. 1064 00:45:08,760 --> 00:45:10,520 Now that I've reflected on it, 1065 00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:15,400 I can see that if I did not care about Paul so much, 1066 00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:16,960 and what we are building, 1067 00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:20,520 I wouldn't find this as difficult as I have been. 1068 00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:22,840 Beautiful day in Sydney. OK. 1069 00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,480 Across the hall, Jamie is finding herself 1070 00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:27,600 right at home, 1071 00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:31,440 spending Feedback Week with her friend's husband, Adrian. 1072 00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:34,400 I actually think Adrian and I are quite excited. It's, like, 1073 00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:36,480 we actually get along, and we... 1074 00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:38,080 ..we have very similar points of view. 1075 00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:42,560 Welcome home. (LAUGHS) This is so weird. 1076 00:45:44,560 --> 00:45:46,720 Veronica is probably the last person I wanted into... 1077 00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:48,360 ..like, in my apartment. 1078 00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:51,080 Right now, like, I'm very much, like, in Eliot's corner. 1079 00:45:51,160 --> 00:45:53,320 Yeah. Yeah. 1080 00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:55,120 She really tries to make him look like 1081 00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:56,920 he doesn't validate her... That's exactly right. 1082 00:45:57,000 --> 00:45:58,800 ..this, and... I don't know. Yeah. Yeah. 1083 00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:01,160 The minute she sits on the couch, 1084 00:46:01,240 --> 00:46:03,640 it's legit, like, a completely different person. 1085 00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:06,960 She always thinks she's gonna land with the experts. 1086 00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:09,920 Oh, yeah. And then he just goes, "No." 1087 00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:11,000 (CHUCKLES) Legit. 1088 00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:12,160 That's exactly what I said. 1089 00:46:13,920 --> 00:46:16,520 The scary thing is you and I often have the same thoughts. 1090 00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:18,160 Oh, legit. (CHUCKLES) 1091 00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:21,920 Already I felt like I'm coming over 1092 00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:23,920 and having a goss sesh with, like, my girlfriends. 1093 00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:25,840 'Cause me and Adrian were sitting there with our coffee, 1094 00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:29,200 and we were, like... (BABBLES) So off to a good start. (CHUCKLES) 1095 00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:33,080 Down the hall, 1096 00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:36,240 Beth is hoping to finally get some insight 1097 00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:38,440 into Ryan's marriage with Jacqui 1098 00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:43,400 as the pair take on the 'hard-hitting questions' task. 1099 00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:46,320 You ready to nail the task? Oh, we're gonna nail the task. 1100 00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:47,880 Mm-hm. (CHUCKLES) 1101 00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:52,200 As much as me and Ryan have clashed, I am happy to work around it, 1102 00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:55,200 because I do still wanna help him and his relationship. 1103 00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:57,640 Do you wanna start? I will start, yes. 1104 00:46:57,680 --> 00:46:58,720 OK. 1105 00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:00,400 I mean, obviously, I've come into the apartment, 1106 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:01,760 and there's photos of them everywhere, 1107 00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:04,520 and they seem really happy, but why don't we see that, then? 1108 00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:07,840 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1109 00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:09,680 So, first one is... 1110 00:47:09,720 --> 00:47:11,440 (CHUCKLES) 1111 00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:12,760 OK. 1112 00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:15,320 'Rather than having a one-on-one 1113 00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:18,960 'and being actually curious about mine and Jacqui's relationship, 1114 00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:20,640 'you've listened to other opinions 1115 00:47:20,720 --> 00:47:22,760 'and only taken a negative and judgemental view. 1116 00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:24,600 'Why is that?' 1117 00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:26,840 I mean, actions speak louder than words. 1118 00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:28,720 Our reception was going well, and then, I guess, 1119 00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:31,040 I feel like it kind of just got turned to shit, 1120 00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:33,200 because you and Jacqui had a blow-up. 1121 00:47:33,240 --> 00:47:34,240 (CLEARS THROAT) 1122 00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:38,520 It's a betrayal, no matter how you look at it. 1123 00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:39,800 JACQUI: It's not a betrayal, Ryan! 1124 00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:41,760 What's happening? 1125 00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:42,800 Who knows? 1126 00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:49,280 Dinner and a show, babe, innit? 1127 00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,000 The wedding wasn't our finest hour. Yeah. 1128 00:47:52,080 --> 00:47:54,240 But, since then, we've made a lot of progress. 1129 00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:55,280 Mm-hm. 1130 00:47:55,360 --> 00:47:57,720 And you could have asked questions along the way. 1131 00:47:57,760 --> 00:47:58,840 OK. Second question. 1132 00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:03,640 'It's not Jacqui and I's duty to satisfy your confusion, 1133 00:48:03,720 --> 00:48:06,120 'but what is the main aspect you want clarified? 1134 00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:09,240 'Being as you know very little about us.' 1135 00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,920 I don't understand how you can go from so hot to cold. 1136 00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:15,160 I'm talking for me and Teejay. It does not make sense to us. 1137 00:48:15,240 --> 00:48:17,120 That's all I ever hear from you and Teejay - 1138 00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:18,600 is, "I'm confused. It doesn't make sense." 1139 00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:20,160 It doesn't mean anything to us. 1140 00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,000 We don't give a shit any more. 1141 00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:23,360 As we're going through the challenge, 1142 00:48:23,440 --> 00:48:25,200 the way he's talking to me, and his questions, 1143 00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,320 are really starting to sink in, and I'm like, "Hang on. 1144 00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:30,320 "He's obviously using this challenge as, like, 1145 00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,280 "an opportunity to confront me 1146 00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:34,440 "and my behaviour and what he doesn't like about me," 1147 00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:35,920 which is not what the challenge was. 1148 00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:39,520 'You've spoken quite aggressively against me and our marriage.' 1149 00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:40,560 Mm-hm. 1150 00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:43,640 'Is that the way you conduct yourself in real life 1151 00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,040 'when you don't have the facts?' 1152 00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:50,040 (TENSE MUSIC) 1153 00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:52,120 I've only heard bad things about your relationship, 1154 00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:54,120 and I've only witnessed bad things. 1155 00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,440 Of course I'm going to have nothing to say to you both. 1156 00:48:58,240 --> 00:48:59,280 Roger that. 1157 00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:02,480 'What would be your honest and helpful advice 1158 00:49:02,520 --> 00:49:04,760 'to Jacqui and I for the future? 1159 00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:06,840 'Instead of, maybe, attacking our sex life.' 1160 00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:10,360 'Cause you don't have any knowledge of how we conduct ourselves 1161 00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:12,000 as individuals or in the relationship - 1162 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:13,680 only what you've "heard". 1163 00:49:13,720 --> 00:49:15,080 And seen. 1164 00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:16,440 If I've seen shit behaviour, 1165 00:49:16,520 --> 00:49:19,080 I'm going to call it out... Mm-hm. 1166 00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:20,600 ..whether you like it or not. 1167 00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:21,640 The way Ryan went into the task 1168 00:49:21,720 --> 00:49:24,320 was actually not to hear what I had to say at all. 1169 00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:26,160 It was just to have a dig at me. 1170 00:49:26,240 --> 00:49:28,160 He didn't really take any accountability 1171 00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:29,760 for what he does. 1172 00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:32,160 So, yeah, I think it's kind of just summed up 1173 00:49:32,240 --> 00:49:34,560 how I was already feeling about Ryan, to be honest. 1174 00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:36,720 Cool. Done. 1175 00:49:38,840 --> 00:49:42,360 I think he's a complete and utter (BLEEP). 1176 00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:49,400 WOMAN: Our participants continue 1177 00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:52,840 to face the task designed by the experts. 1178 00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:55,560 And after having the day apart from his wife, 1179 00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:59,000 Paul is ready to present his hard-hitting questions 1180 00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:00,400 to Awhina. 1181 00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:02,640 I've even put the pillow fort there. I'm respecting boundaries. 1182 00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:03,680 (BOTH CHUCKLE) 1183 00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:05,440 That's interesting. Need to have a barricade. 1184 00:50:07,720 --> 00:50:08,840 I think Carina and Paul 1185 00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:11,440 are one of the strongest couples here, 1186 00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:12,960 throughout this entire experiment. 1187 00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:19,160 So I'm interested to see Paul voicing his concerns. 1188 00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:23,200 OK, so, the first one. 1189 00:50:23,240 --> 00:50:24,240 Um... 1190 00:50:26,720 --> 00:50:28,800 It's probably, like, the one that... (SIGHS) 1191 00:50:28,840 --> 00:50:30,080 ..probably worries me the most. 1192 00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:34,760 So... 'After seeing Carina's reactions today, 1193 00:50:34,800 --> 00:50:36,560 'about moving us together, 1194 00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:38,680 'do you think she is a jealous person, 1195 00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:41,640 'and that this could be an issue in our relationship in the future, 1196 00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:42,680 'and why?' 1197 00:50:42,720 --> 00:50:44,160 Hmm. 1198 00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:46,400 (TENSE MUSIC) 1199 00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:47,480 (CHUCKLES) 1200 00:50:47,520 --> 00:50:48,880 Oh... 1201 00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:50,840 God, you hit me straight with the hard one. 1202 00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:52,480 (BOTH CHUCKLE) 1203 00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:57,760 Hmm. 1204 00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:02,840 I could see she was visibly upset, clearly. 1205 00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:03,880 Yeah. 1206 00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:05,920 (CHUCKLES) Really upset over this challenge. 1207 00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:10,480 And I know Carina - or anyone, really - 1208 00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:12,600 would feel uncomfortable with someone, 1209 00:51:12,680 --> 00:51:15,240 a female, coming into the apartment for three days with their partner. 1210 00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:16,560 Yeah. 1211 00:51:17,720 --> 00:51:19,480 But, then again, I laughed. 1212 00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:22,760 (BOTH CHUCKLE) 1213 00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:25,800 It's a hard one. 1214 00:51:25,880 --> 00:51:29,960 I could understand feeling upset with the situation, 1215 00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:31,080 but, then again, 1216 00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:33,640 I'm really good friends with Paul and Carina. 1217 00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:35,160 You know what I mean? So, 1218 00:51:35,240 --> 00:51:38,040 like, I'm not sure what she could be jealous of. 1219 00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:42,280 The reason why I'm asking that is because she did say to me, 1220 00:51:42,320 --> 00:51:43,720 before you walked in... 1221 00:51:44,880 --> 00:51:46,720 that, if it would have been any other girl, 1222 00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:48,640 she would have probably felt a lot better 1223 00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:50,120 about the whole situation. 1224 00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:52,560 Wow. 1225 00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:55,720 You know, because I've had the thing with... 1226 00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:57,160 ..with your sister, and blah, blah, blah. 1227 00:51:57,240 --> 00:51:59,360 And then she's... She's a massive overthinker, 1228 00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:00,400 and then she's... Yeah. 1229 00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:01,880 ..started overthinking a lot of things. 1230 00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,040 Hearing him say that, it definitely frustrated me. 1231 00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:07,480 Like, we're friends. 1232 00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:10,320 I thought we were in a healthy place. 1233 00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:13,760 But, also, twins aren't the same people. 1234 00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:15,720 They have their own identity. 1235 00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:19,200 Cleo and I, we're so different. 1236 00:52:19,240 --> 00:52:22,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 1237 00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:23,960 If anything, 1238 00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,440 Carina should be reassured in knowing 1239 00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:29,600 that I would never want to sleep in a bed 1240 00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:31,520 with someone my twin sister has. (CHUCKLES) 1241 00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:32,560 Legit. 1242 00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:33,680 (BOTH CHUCKLE) 1243 00:52:33,720 --> 00:52:34,920 Right? 1244 00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:39,240 It's hard, 'cause I am, like, not a jealous person, 1245 00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:42,720 and I trust you so much, and... 1246 00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:46,080 (TENSE MUSIC) 1247 00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:48,520 I think, in your relationship, 1248 00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:51,440 you might struggle later on. 1249 00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:56,800 So, right now, you guys are still in that honeymoon phase. 1250 00:52:56,880 --> 00:52:59,000 You give her those affirmations. You're reassuring her. 1251 00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:00,040 Yeah. 1252 00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,400 You guys are quite physically connected. 1253 00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:04,320 But relationships aren't always like that. 1254 00:53:06,640 --> 00:53:09,640 I am worried that if she's feeling uncomfortable now, 1255 00:53:09,720 --> 00:53:11,120 when you're in a good place... Yep. 1256 00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:13,920 ..imagine when you're not in a good place. 1257 00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:17,920 That's probably when those jealous tendencies 1258 00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:19,280 will probably rear their ugly head - 1259 00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:21,120 when you are going out with the boys... 1260 00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:22,200 Yeah. 1261 00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:23,960 ..and whether or not she trusts you. 1262 00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:29,800 It's nice to see that Awhina obviously agreed about, 1263 00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:33,480 you know, Carina potentially being a jealous person. 1264 00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:36,400 You know, like, it's not just in my head. 1265 00:53:37,760 --> 00:53:40,400 I'm giving her so much. I'm doing everything for her. 1266 00:53:40,480 --> 00:53:42,360 I've told her everything - you know, my past, everything. 1267 00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:45,840 Literally, I'm doing everything to make her feel safe and to... 1268 00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:47,600 ..to make her feel that I... 1269 00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:49,280 I can be fully trusted. You know what I mean? 1270 00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:52,600 It was very clear as day. 1271 00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,440 Paul felt a little hurt by Carina's reaction. 1272 00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:57,840 And it really, kind of, showed me 1273 00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:00,560 they aren't just a picture-perfect couple. 1274 00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:03,600 They have some very real issues, clearly. 1275 00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:09,520 How would you navigate being in a relationship with someone 1276 00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:11,920 who might be quite jealous? 1277 00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:14,880 It would push me away, like, big time. 1278 00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:18,200 (TENSE MUSIC) 1279 00:54:18,240 --> 00:54:19,240 Coming up... 1280 00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:21,880 When I told Carina about Cleo... 1281 00:54:21,920 --> 00:54:23,560 ..Paul doubles down. 1282 00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:24,880 ..she said... 1283 00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:27,640 "Yeah." 1284 00:54:27,720 --> 00:54:29,680 So I feel like she's a bit of a snob sometimes. 1285 00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:32,080 "And, I'll be honest with you, this is giving me the ick." 1286 00:54:32,120 --> 00:54:33,840 Wow. 1287 00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:36,840 (OMINOUS MUSIC) 1288 00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:42,640 It's the first night of the partner-swap stage 1289 00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:44,480 of Feedback Week, 1290 00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:49,880 and both Beth and Ryan are eager to fast-forward through this phase, 1291 00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:51,800 so are calling it an early night. 1292 00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:53,680 Alright. Alright. 1293 00:54:53,720 --> 00:54:54,800 What a day. 1294 00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:58,520 Challenging, but raw honesty was needed. 1295 00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,160 Living with Ryan sucks. 1296 00:55:01,240 --> 00:55:04,080 The way Ryan wrote those questions today 1297 00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:06,880 has proved he's really disrespectful. 1298 00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:08,560 That's just who he is. 1299 00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:10,640 We're gonna both do the bed. We'll put a pillow in the middle. 1300 00:55:10,720 --> 00:55:12,440 Pillow fort. Yep. Definitely. 1301 00:55:13,720 --> 00:55:15,760 Living with Beth - it's pretty terrible, 1302 00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:17,240 almost from the moment she walked in. 1303 00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:18,800 And, honestly, 1304 00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:21,840 we're just two people coexisting at the moment. 1305 00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,920 Well, this is weird, isn't it? It's not not awkward. 1306 00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:28,440 Yep. 1307 00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:36,880 It's the first thing you're gonna see. (CHUCKLES) 1308 00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:40,280 I think living together has given me, like, 1309 00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,240 a new appreciation for Jacqui and I. 1310 00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:44,120 We've both been, like, texting each other - 1311 00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:45,800 like, "Miss you." "Miss you." 1312 00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:46,840 And, yeah, this... 1313 00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:49,160 ..this will bring Jacqui and I closer together. 1314 00:55:49,240 --> 00:55:50,480 Goodnight. Goodnight. 1315 00:55:50,520 --> 00:55:52,880 (QUIRKY MUSIC) 1316 00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:54,400 JEFF: This is delicious. 1317 00:55:54,440 --> 00:55:56,440 Uh... And then we use the sauce, 1318 00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:57,800 and we dribble it over the mash later. 1319 00:55:57,840 --> 00:55:59,240 Oh, wow. 1320 00:55:59,920 --> 00:56:03,800 Jeff's insisted on giving me the bed, washed all the sheets, 1321 00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:05,120 he's cooking me dinner... 1322 00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:07,560 Right now, I feel so happy and relieved and... 1323 00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:08,960 This is exactly what I wanted. 1324 00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:10,960 Just treat this like a holiday. 1325 00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:13,560 You're in a resort - get dinner cooked for you. 1326 00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:15,360 (LAUGHS) Having a red wine. 1327 00:56:16,240 --> 00:56:18,240 Ryan has never cooked for me in this experiment, 1328 00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:19,400 and the food he eats, 1329 00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:21,360 I would not want to be cooked for me. 1330 00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:24,640 Oh, my gosh! There you go. 1331 00:56:24,720 --> 00:56:26,800 Thank you. All good. 1332 00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:29,920 This is my dream evening with a partner, 1333 00:56:30,000 --> 00:56:32,360 and it's a shame that I haven't been able to experience that 1334 00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:34,120 with my match. Yeah. 1335 00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:35,760 That's insane. 1336 00:56:35,800 --> 00:56:37,800 (BOTH CHUCKLE) 1337 00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:39,240 Literally. It's good, isn't it? 1338 00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:40,840 It's so good. Yeah. 1339 00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:44,560 While Jacqui's on cloud nine, thanks to Jeff, 1340 00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:47,840 Jamie and her new BFF, Adrian, 1341 00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:51,760 are decompressing from the day with a girls' chat. 1342 00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:53,920 We're a package deal now. 1343 00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:54,960 I know. 1344 00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:57,360 I think I've got two wives now. 1345 00:56:57,440 --> 00:56:58,920 One was hard enough. Now I've got two. 1346 00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:00,000 (CHUCKLES) 1347 00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:03,080 If this was a competition, 1348 00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:05,280 I'd like to say we won. I think so, by far. 1349 00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:07,520 Dave and Veronica might be having a few laughs, 1350 00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:09,360 but more fun? No. 1351 00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:15,120 Oh... 1352 00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:18,480 (BOTH LAUGH) 1353 00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:21,000 I know! 1354 00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:26,720 Look, if these are my last words, "Mum, I love you." 1355 00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:30,480 It's actually a big bed, though. It's actually, like... 1356 00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:32,040 There's so much room for activities. 1357 00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:34,400 No activities. No activities. 1358 00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:39,160 All I request is this blue blanket and one pillow. 1359 00:57:39,240 --> 00:57:40,200 Of course. That's it. 1360 00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:42,240 You sure you don't want me to sleep...? 1361 00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:44,200 No. I actually prefer the... 1362 00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:45,280 ..the couch. Really? 1363 00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:47,040 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Been on the couch many a time. 1364 00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:50,760 Tonight I did hear from Paul, and Awhina was on speaker. 1365 00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:54,120 He cooked gnocchi, 1366 00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:57,600 which he told me he was gonna cook for me. (LAUGHS) 1367 00:57:58,600 --> 00:57:59,960 Alright. Goodnight, darling. 1368 00:58:00,000 --> 00:58:01,520 Alright. Goodnight. 1369 00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:04,480 Trying not to overthink and get inside my head, 1370 00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:07,000 because my brain will just spiral. 1371 00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:12,040 OK. Shutting the light now. Goodnight, roomie. 1372 00:58:14,000 --> 00:58:17,640 But if I found out that she did sleep in the bed, 1373 00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:20,840 far out. I would be pissed off. 1374 00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:23,720 (SUSPENSEFUL MUSIC) 1375 00:58:23,760 --> 00:58:25,160 (PAUL LAUGHS) 1376 00:58:25,200 --> 00:58:26,920 AWHINA: You are a very big man. 1377 00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:29,080 (BOTH LAUGH) 1378 00:58:29,160 --> 00:58:32,320 And you will not fit on this couch. And watch this. 1379 00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:33,640 I fit on it actually perfectly. 1380 00:58:33,680 --> 00:58:34,680 The beds are massive... 1381 00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:40,400 ..but, because of Carina's reaction to this task, 1382 00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:43,200 yeah, I'll respect Carina's boundaries. 1383 00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:45,360 Goodnight, honey. 1384 00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:46,560 (BOTH LAUGH) 1385 00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:50,160 (BOTH LAUGH) 1386 00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:51,840 Alright. Well, you sleep well. 1387 00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:53,280 (BOTH CHUCKLE) 1388 00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:54,360 Ciao. 1389 00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:55,600 (CHUCKLES) 1390 00:58:56,640 --> 00:58:57,720 Alright. Goodnight. 1391 00:58:57,760 --> 00:58:59,040 See... Uh, no. What's...? 1392 00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:00,520 Ah! 1393 00:59:00,600 --> 00:59:02,240 No. It's stayed on. No. (LAUGHS) There we go. 1394 00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:04,040 (BOTH CHUCKLE) 1395 00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:07,080 (REFLECTIVE MUSIC) 1396 00:59:13,480 --> 00:59:16,480 (UPLIFTING MUSIC) 1397 00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:20,480 WOMAN: The second day of Feedback Week 1398 00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:24,600 brings with it a brand-new task devised by the experts. 1399 00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:25,680 (KNOCK AT DOOR) 1400 00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:27,400 Oh. (CHUCKLES) (BLEEP) Ready. (BLEEP). 1401 00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:28,600 I'll grab it. 1402 00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:30,600 Oh, another one! 1403 00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:32,640 What now? Another letter! 1404 00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:35,000 And Awhina and Paul 1405 00:59:35,040 --> 00:59:36,760 and Carina and Teejay 1406 00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:39,920 are going to be the first pairings to tackle it. 1407 00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:41,160 Are you excited? (CHUCKLES) 1408 00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:44,840 Somehow I feel a bit nervous about that one. (CHUCKLES) 1409 00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:46,240 Yeah, me too. (CHUCKLES) 1410 00:59:46,320 --> 00:59:47,600 I'll let you do the honours. (CHUCKLES) 1411 00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:50,560 'It's easy to become complacent 1412 00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:52,800 'when you are spending every day with your partner.' 1413 00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:54,600 'Take this pen and paper 1414 00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:56,800 'and write an honesty letter...' Holy (BLEEP). 1415 00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:57,840 Holy shit. 1416 00:59:57,920 --> 01:00:00,880 'When you've completed your letter, read it loud to each other.' 1417 01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:04,520 'Something about your relationship that's been weighing on your mind.' 1418 01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:05,880 (SIGHS) 1419 01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:07,800 Everyone's got concerns in their relationship... 1420 01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:09,160 Yeah. 1421 01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:11,400 ..and sometimes it's hard to vocalise that to your partner. 1422 01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:14,360 The honesty letter is designed to allow the participants 1423 01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:16,640 to lay everything out on the table, 1424 01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:19,440 particularly issues that have been holding them back 1425 01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:22,480 from forming a deeper connection with their partners. 1426 01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:27,280 Things are getting serious with my relationship with Paul. 1427 01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:31,480 I'm excited, to be honest. 1428 01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:34,880 Like, if Paul and I keep going the way we are, 1429 01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:37,320 I can definitely see myself falling in love with him. 1430 01:00:37,400 --> 01:00:42,280 But then I know that I have, yeah, been thinking a lot about... 1431 01:00:42,360 --> 01:00:44,960 ..when it comes to the religion aspect. 1432 01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:47,720 So, yeah, I thought I would, you know, 1433 01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:49,520 get Teejay's opinion. 1434 01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:52,720 I'm done. You ready? 1435 01:00:52,760 --> 01:00:53,760 Yeah. 1436 01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:56,800 (POIGNANT MUSIC) 1437 01:00:57,560 --> 01:00:58,560 (SIGHS) 1438 01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:02,040 'My darling P... 1439 01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:05,840 '..I've learned so much about you through the journey 1440 01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:09,440 'of this experiment, and I love spending time with you. 1441 01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:11,720 'The one thing that's been worrying me 1442 01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:13,560 'is how you aren't religious, 1443 01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:16,880 'and how we both may have different ways of raising a family. 1444 01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:20,320 'I don't want to scare you off, 1445 01:01:20,400 --> 01:01:22,680 'but I hope this can open a conversation up 1446 01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:25,440 'around our different views about this.' 1447 01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:26,920 Yeah. Beautiful. 1448 01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:29,040 That's the hardest thing you have to cross in a relationship. 1449 01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:31,160 You guys are doing very well. Yeah. 1450 01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:32,240 I think there... 1451 01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:36,040 there would be a compromise that would be amicable for you both. 1452 01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:38,880 Carina and Paul are focusing on the future, 1453 01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:42,880 and it was cool to hear Carina's already thinking about children. 1454 01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:43,920 It's beautiful to see. 1455 01:01:44,680 --> 01:01:49,040 That's probably the toughest thing I've got to encounter. 1456 01:01:50,720 --> 01:01:51,840 Do you wanna go first? 1457 01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:52,880 Yeah, sure. I'll go first. 1458 01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:54,560 I feel like you've got a lot to unpack there, so... 1459 01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:56,400 Yeah, there's actually quite a few, yeah. 1460 01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:00,320 I've had a little bit of time away from Carina now. 1461 01:02:01,600 --> 01:02:04,120 Yeah, and of course her reaction yesterday made it clear... 1462 01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:08,280 ..there's a few things that have been, 1463 01:02:08,320 --> 01:02:10,520 you know, bothering me a little bit. 1464 01:02:10,560 --> 01:02:11,560 OK, so... 1465 01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:13,000 'Before coming into this experiment, 1466 01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:15,280 'I told myself I wasn't going to make the same mistakes 1467 01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:17,760 'I've made in my previous relationship, 1468 01:02:17,800 --> 01:02:19,160 'which was ignoring the red flags, 1469 01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:21,680 'because of the fear of the relationship failing. 1470 01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:25,000 (POIGNANT MUSIC) 1471 01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:29,160 'After 12 months of engagement, her true self came out, 1472 01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:32,600 'and I realised that we weren't as compatible as I thought we were. 1473 01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:36,520 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1474 01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:40,440 'My fear is that this may be happening with Carina. 1475 01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:45,240 (TENSE MUSIC) 1476 01:02:45,320 --> 01:02:47,320 'I feel like she is a bit of a snob sometimes... 1477 01:02:49,040 --> 01:02:51,600 '..and can come across as very judgy. 1478 01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:57,760 'And, I'll be honest with you, this is giving me the ick. 1479 01:02:57,800 --> 01:03:01,360 (OMINOUS MUSIC) 1480 01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:04,280 'Now, when...' 1481 01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:06,080 (CHUCKLES) 1482 01:03:06,760 --> 01:03:10,840 When I told Carina the reason why I knew you, 1483 01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:16,040 she made a comment about Cleo that... 1484 01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:17,800 ..sort of gave me the ick. 1485 01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:20,320 She said... 1486 01:03:26,120 --> 01:03:27,360 Yeah. Wow. 1487 01:03:27,400 --> 01:03:31,320 (TENSE MUSIC) 1488 01:03:36,080 --> 01:03:40,200 (TENSE MUSIC) 1489 01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:47,680 PAUL: When I told Carina about Cleo... 1490 01:03:48,640 --> 01:03:50,000 ..she said, "Oh, I didn't know 1491 01:03:50,080 --> 01:03:51,480 "you would go for that kind of calibre." 1492 01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:54,160 Yeah. Wow. 1493 01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:55,200 You know? 1494 01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:58,240 'So I feel like she is a bit of a snob sometimes 1495 01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:01,280 'and can come across as very judgy. 1496 01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:03,280 'And, I'll be honest with you, this is giving me the ick.' 1497 01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:07,400 (TENSE MUSIC) 1498 01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:08,440 Ooh. 1499 01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:11,760 Saying someone's in a different calibre to you, 1500 01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:13,840 you're essentially saying you're better than them. 1501 01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:15,880 I would love to know what makes you better 1502 01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:17,040 than my twin sister. 1503 01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:18,360 Oh, that was heavy. 1504 01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:20,360 The 'calibre' comment - 1505 01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:22,960 is that because my twin sister's covered in tattoos? 1506 01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:24,360 Well, yeah. 1507 01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:25,480 And that's... 1508 01:04:25,560 --> 01:04:28,080 And that's something that really gives me the ick, 1509 01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:29,360 because that's not who I am. 1510 01:04:29,440 --> 01:04:31,720 Like, I'm not gonna judge someone because they have tattoos, 1511 01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:33,600 or because of where they're from - stuff like that. 1512 01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:36,760 Yeah. My twin sister owns her own house, 1513 01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:38,320 and she doesn't work for a family business. 1514 01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:41,840 Like, that... I don't know. That comment - like... 1515 01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:44,360 I would never, ever say these things to people. 1516 01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:48,200 Where are you in your life, Carina, to look down at my twin sister? 1517 01:04:48,240 --> 01:04:49,240 Exactly. 1518 01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:51,240 I could also, in return, judge you. 1519 01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:53,040 I know you live at home with your family. 1520 01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:54,920 I know you work for your family's business. 1521 01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:58,200 I could then call you an entitled, sheltered princess. 1522 01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:01,000 Do not say my twin sister's in a different calibre, babe, 1523 01:05:01,040 --> 01:05:02,040 'cause she is, 1524 01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:03,600 and the different calibre is a different way. 1525 01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:04,760 I'll tell you that. 1526 01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:07,080 No. (CHUCKLES) That was really... I knew... I knew that was gonna... 1527 01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:08,880 No, my twin sister... I knew that was gonna upset you. 1528 01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:10,400 My twin sister is beautiful. 1529 01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:12,520 She's an amazing auntie. She's loving. 1530 01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:14,720 And I don't like fake people. 1531 01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:16,240 I don't like people who think they're better 1532 01:05:16,280 --> 01:05:17,400 than other people. 1533 01:05:17,480 --> 01:05:18,960 I actually would have loved for Carina 1534 01:05:19,040 --> 01:05:21,440 to have said that comment to me. I would have loved it. 1535 01:05:21,520 --> 01:05:25,040 Because of all these little comments that she's made, here and there, 1536 01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:28,600 I have a feeling that we might not be as compatible as we... 1537 01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:30,000 ..as we think we are. 1538 01:05:30,040 --> 01:05:31,080 And, yeah, I'm not gonna lie - 1539 01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:32,800 I'm quite scared of how she's gonna react 1540 01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:34,240 if I ever bring those things up. 1541 01:05:35,600 --> 01:05:37,640 Is she gonna full attack? Is she gonna deflect? 1542 01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:38,680 Is she just gonna...? 1543 01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:40,400 Is she gonna just, like, lose her shit 1544 01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:41,680 or start crying or whatever? 1545 01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:43,160 No, bring it up. 1546 01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:44,640 Yeah, OK. Yeah, bring it up. 1547 01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:47,880 (TENSE MUSIC) 1548 01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:50,200 You've gotta have raw honesty in a relationship. 1549 01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:53,080 Yeah. You can't just sugar-coat things. 1550 01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:54,600 Yeah. 1551 01:05:54,640 --> 01:05:55,880 I'm really pissed off. 1552 01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:58,680 Carina and I had a good friendship. 1553 01:05:58,720 --> 01:06:00,400 We were texting. 1554 01:06:00,480 --> 01:06:02,200 We were supposed to go on a double date. 1555 01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:04,400 So to know she's made 'calibre' comments 1556 01:06:04,440 --> 01:06:05,920 about my twin sister, 1557 01:06:06,000 --> 01:06:08,760 which extends to me, that is so wrong. 1558 01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:11,360 Trust me - like, 1559 01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:14,040 I'm not gonna let her get away with it. 1560 01:06:14,080 --> 01:06:18,120 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1561 01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:19,280 WOMAN: Tomorrow night... 1562 01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:23,240 ..Adrian's brutal feedback. 1563 01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:34,880 Jamie asks Dave the hard questions. 1564 01:06:34,920 --> 01:06:36,880 Are we having a lack of sex 1565 01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:38,560 because you're not in the 'love' stage? 1566 01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:40,160 I feel like... Yes or no. 1567 01:06:41,600 --> 01:06:43,080 (LAUGHS) 1568 01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:44,720 RHI: Oh. JEFF: I missed you. 1569 01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:49,440 And our couples are reunited after spending three days apart. 1570 01:06:49,480 --> 01:06:50,800 Being away from Rhi, 1571 01:06:50,880 --> 01:06:53,360 it made me realise how much I really want this to work. 1572 01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:55,400 You are so cute. (CHUCKLES) 1573 01:06:57,040 --> 01:07:00,160 However, not everyone will receive a warm welcome. 1574 01:07:00,200 --> 01:07:02,640 'She can come across as very judgy. 1575 01:07:04,200 --> 01:07:05,560 'You said to me that you were surprised 1576 01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:07,480 'that I would go for that kind of calibre.' 1577 01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:09,960 CARINA: Wow. 1578 01:07:10,040 --> 01:07:14,440 Paul faces up to what he confessed behind Carina's back. 1579 01:07:14,520 --> 01:07:16,800 I didn't see any of that coming from Paul. 1580 01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:19,440 Bit of a slap in the face. 1581 01:07:19,520 --> 01:07:22,480 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv 112394

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