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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:06,400 NARRATOR: Previously... 2 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:07,480 Hi, guys! 3 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:09,160 Family and friends week... 4 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:11,200 You guys are happy? We are, we are. 5 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:13,920 ..deepened most of our couple's bonds. 6 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:15,920 WOMAN: You can see the way Carina looks at you. 7 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:18,200 Yeah, you look happy. You really do. 8 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:20,760 You can tell the chemistry is definitely there, 9 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:22,800 and I do see a future. 10 00:00:22,880 --> 00:00:25,240 To new beginnings and family. WOMEN: Yes! 11 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:28,800 Um... 12 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:31,400 I've always wanted to have a child. 13 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:34,600 Tony had a shock revelation. 14 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:36,000 He wants to have a baby. 15 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:37,240 Serious! 16 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:38,560 I can't reproduce. 17 00:00:39,160 --> 00:00:41,640 My stamp expired. 18 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:42,680 (WHISTLES) 19 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:44,480 They are not good enough to be in your life. 20 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:46,440 He is definitely not good enough to be in my nephew's life. 21 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:49,480 When Awhina and Adrian's families caught up... 22 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:51,560 I'd been mentioning my son. 23 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:55,200 How dare you? How dare you? 24 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:56,880 ..emotions ran high. 25 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:58,160 Actually, I'm just... 26 00:00:58,240 --> 00:00:59,720 I don't need to listen to this. Bye. 27 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:00,880 I'm done. 28 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:02,440 Make sure you leave the apartment. 29 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:07,600 Tonight... 30 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:09,320 (HAUNTING MUSIC) 31 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:10,600 WAITER: Dinner is served. 32 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:13,960 PAUL: It's making me nervous coming into the group now 33 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:16,920 because I'm going to admit to everyone what I've done. 34 00:01:16,960 --> 00:01:18,160 (GLASS DINGS) 35 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,640 I did something that I absolutely regret. 36 00:01:22,520 --> 00:01:24,200 What shocking act... 37 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:25,720 It's unacceptable, it's disgusting 38 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:27,880 and I'm hating myself for doing this. 39 00:01:27,960 --> 00:01:33,440 ..threatens to tear apart one of the experiment's strongest couples? 40 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:35,720 I, um... 41 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:38,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC BUILDS) 42 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,120 JOHN: It's very serious. 43 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:44,960 Very, very, very serious. 44 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,160 (HAUNTING MUSIC) 45 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:52,960 (FOREBODING MUSIC) 46 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:57,360 NARRATOR: It's the morning of the fourth dinner party, 47 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:01,440 and, after an eventful week meeting each other's friends and family, 48 00:02:01,520 --> 00:02:04,960 overnight, there's been a dramatic development. 49 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:08,640 One of the experiment's strongest couples 50 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:12,120 are waking up in separate apartments. 51 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:15,000 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 52 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,600 I felt anxious waking up this morning, 53 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:23,040 um, a little bit on edge and just sad. 54 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:24,280 Mm. 55 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:32,320 So, last night, Paul and I were coming back 56 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:36,360 from a day out with Rhi and Jeff in the Uber. 57 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:41,040 We had a really good day together, enjoying the sun. 58 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:43,400 Very happy, lovey-dovey. 59 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:48,600 And, in the Uber, I was putting on music and requests and stuff, 60 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,440 and I put on a song and I said a comment 61 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:56,960 that I've slept with this rapper, and, um... 62 00:02:58,200 --> 00:02:59,880 I didn't think it was awkward. 63 00:02:59,960 --> 00:03:03,080 Paul and I, we've spoken about our pasts 64 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,120 and we've been open about that, 65 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:07,960 so I didn't think there was an issue at all. 66 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:13,080 We just all laughed because, obviously, everyone has a history, 67 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,480 you know, before the experiment. 68 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:19,000 And, honestly, I just thought it was like a passing comment. 69 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:23,160 Like, say, if Jeff had hooked up with Dua Lipa once and he was like, 70 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:25,600 "Do you know that I hooked up with Dua Lipa when I was 25?" 71 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:28,960 I'd be like, "Holy shit, well done. That's actually insane." 72 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,760 We sort of laughed and thought nothing of it. 73 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:36,360 And then we get home and Paul's really upset. 74 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:39,000 (UNEASY MUSIC) 75 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:41,440 CARINA: Paul obviously got offended by it, 76 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:44,600 and got...felt a bit disrespected in how I said it. 77 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:47,640 He definitely, yeah, wasn't his usual self. 78 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:51,000 Um, he...you could tell he was quite upset, 79 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:53,560 and I, like, instantly was like, "I'm so sorry." 80 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:58,160 And I just, like, jumped at him and hugged him and apologised and... 81 00:03:58,200 --> 00:03:59,560 (WIND WHISTLES) 82 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:04,760 I was cuddling him and, yeah, like, wrapped around him 83 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:06,800 and he was like, "I just need space." 84 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:10,480 And he obviously didn't like that. 85 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:13,800 So, I just said, "Okay, fine, fine, go." 86 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:15,040 (ECHOES) 87 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:18,280 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 88 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,320 And I turned around and I went to bed, 89 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:23,560 and that's when he got really angry and he, yeah, punched the wall. 90 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,760 I just completely lost my nerves and... 91 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:36,000 (SNIFFLES) 92 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:39,400 (BREATHES SHAKILY) 93 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:42,960 I...yeah, she couldn't give me my space and I just absolutely lost it, 94 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:44,640 and I just burst out outside the room, 95 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:45,880 and I just ended up just... 96 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:47,160 (BREATHES SHAKILY) 97 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:48,880 ..punching a hole in the wall. 98 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:54,280 (GENTLE, EERIE MUSIC) 99 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:57,960 It escalated really quickly. 100 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:05,120 I was just in shock and I just stared and then he left, yeah. 101 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:11,240 He slept in his own apartment last night. 102 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:16,120 I don't even know 103 00:05:16,200 --> 00:05:18,320 what my relationship is with Carina right now, I don't know. 104 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:20,920 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 105 00:05:21,840 --> 00:05:23,320 I'm just upset at myself right now. 106 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:24,480 I'm just... 107 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,360 I actually feel so ashamed and so remorseful right now. 108 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:29,760 (SNIFFLES) 109 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:36,960 I definitely don't condone his behaviour, 110 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,000 and I don't think it's acceptable. 111 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:40,320 Um... 112 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:43,880 It's not something I would want to put up with, 113 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:47,720 especially if I'm going into, like, a lifetime with this person. 114 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:50,720 So, I think we've got some things we need to sort out. 115 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:53,840 But I'm not scared. 116 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:55,080 I'm not scared of him. 117 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:57,560 I'm not scared of being in the same environment with him. 118 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:03,880 So, I just want to speak to him and hear what he has to say. 119 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:08,320 (MUSIC SOFTLY FADES) 120 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:18,080 Hi. 121 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:22,800 You're okay. 122 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:28,000 (DELICATE MUSIC) 123 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:30,600 (PAUL SOBS) 124 00:06:34,280 --> 00:06:35,680 (SOBBING) 125 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:38,960 I'm sorry. 126 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:45,320 (SOBS, BREATHES DEEPLY) 127 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:48,960 I'm so sorry, babe. 128 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:54,560 How are you feeling? You okay? 129 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:57,400 Yeah, I'm worried for you. 130 00:06:58,120 --> 00:06:59,200 Just, like, what, what... 131 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:01,280 Like, when can I speak to you? 132 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:03,680 When can I see you? I know. 133 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:07,720 I'm so sorry. 134 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:09,880 (BREATHES HEAVILY) 135 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:12,440 Oh, my goodness. 136 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:14,720 So, how are you feeling? 137 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:16,480 I'm so sorry. 138 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,240 I just... I just... I just couldn't stop thinking about it. 139 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:21,680 I just haven't slept last night. Just... 140 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:26,080 I should have never reacted that way, I swear. 141 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:27,880 It's just... I just don't... 142 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:29,000 (EXHALES) 143 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:32,760 I promise you, like, that's never going to happen again. 144 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:34,640 (BREATHES SHAKILY) 145 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:37,960 Just trying to understand what... 146 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:41,720 Like, I didn't raise my voice and I was, like, apologetic 147 00:07:41,800 --> 00:07:47,600 and, you know, kept trying to, like, speak to you about it, 148 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:50,640 and you were not wanting anything, 149 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:53,760 like, so I'm just trying to understand, like... 150 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:56,600 I was really upset and... 151 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:58,800 I was so... 152 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,360 ..so angry at that... at that comment in the cab. 153 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:06,840 It just felt... I felt so uncomfortable and disrespected. 154 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,080 Like, I was just like, "Whoa, like, what the hell?" 155 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:10,600 I just felt like an idiot. 156 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:11,880 And... 157 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:15,200 ..I could hear you trying to apologise, 158 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:19,160 but I was... I was getting worked up because it was a... it was... 159 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:20,440 (STAMMERS) 160 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:22,040 ..because it was like, "I'm sorry, but." 161 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:24,560 (DISQUIETING MUSIC) 162 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:28,280 I just... I couldn't really take your apology sincerely 163 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:30,200 because it was like you were saying you're sorry, 164 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:32,080 but then you're adding in "but". 165 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:33,360 Does that make sense? 166 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:34,440 And then I just... 167 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:35,760 And all I wanted, like... 168 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:38,480 I just wanted some space to get my head straight 169 00:08:38,560 --> 00:08:41,040 because I'm the kind of person, like, when I... 170 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:44,400 When I get hella emotional, I can't have a constructive chat, 171 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:45,680 and I feel like... 172 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:49,880 It's the fact that you couldn't give me that space I needed. 173 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:51,680 You got all upset at me 174 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:53,560 about the fact that I wanted to leave to go for a walk. 175 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,240 You were... You were really... 176 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:57,040 You were really angry at me and you were like, 177 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:59,320 "Well, if that's what you want, then just, yeah..." 178 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:01,320 You go, "Like, I'm your wife," and you just... 179 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:03,920 You kinda... you just... you were like, "Yeah, then leave." 180 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:05,800 And you just get hella upset at me and that's why... 181 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:07,480 I didn't do that, Paul. Relax. Babe... 182 00:09:07,560 --> 00:09:09,560 You are so dramatic and it's pissing me off. 183 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:10,600 No, babe... 184 00:09:10,680 --> 00:09:13,400 Like, now I'm getting angry because you make... 185 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:15,120 So, I punched a wall out of thin air for nothing? 186 00:09:17,680 --> 00:09:21,320 Paul, I said, "That's fine." I was like, "Go, go, go." 187 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:25,280 And I turned around and I went... and I faced the other way. 188 00:09:25,320 --> 00:09:28,320 (TENSE MUSIC) 189 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:32,560 Like, it just didn't have to be as big as it was. 190 00:09:33,880 --> 00:09:37,800 Look, I have 100% overreacted last night, okay? 191 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:38,920 And I...and I know that, 192 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:41,720 and I am genuinely... I'm so sorry for that. 193 00:09:43,160 --> 00:09:44,800 (BREATHES SHAKILY) 194 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:46,880 (GENTLE MUSIC) 195 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:50,520 I'm seriously hating myself for what I've done last night. 196 00:09:50,560 --> 00:09:52,240 I'm hating myself for it. 197 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:59,120 Um, it's obviously a bit aggravating. 198 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:00,600 It's a bit annoying. 199 00:10:01,560 --> 00:10:06,360 It's a bit frustrating because Paul has done the wrong thing. 200 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:08,440 But... 201 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:13,120 Yeah, I know, like, wholeheartedly, 202 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:17,080 that he is not proud of himself and his actions last night. 203 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:22,600 And, obviously, everything up to today has been going really well 204 00:10:22,680 --> 00:10:26,160 and, you know, we both have feelings for one another 205 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:27,760 and we care for one another. 206 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:31,680 So, I'm not giving up. 207 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:33,760 I want to give him the benefit of the doubt. 208 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:37,640 I want to give Paul the opportunity to make it up to me. 209 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:42,560 So, it's really up to him to put in the work moving forward. 210 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:46,800 Hm? Yeah. 211 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:54,840 (UPLIFTING MUSIC) 212 00:10:54,880 --> 00:10:56,200 NARRATOR: Tonight's dinner party 213 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:59,640 officially marks the halfway point of the experiment. 214 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:02,520 And meeting friends and family 215 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:06,440 has left many of our original couples stronger than ever. 216 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:10,400 JAMIE: Dave and I, we had a really good meet the family day. 217 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:12,880 Like, our families got along like a house on fire, 218 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:15,000 and I felt like it brought us closer. 219 00:11:15,080 --> 00:11:18,440 So, like, I feel like my fuel has just, like, kicked up heaps. 220 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:19,560 Look at you, huh? 221 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:21,520 Go Latin dancin' at the dinner party. 222 00:11:21,560 --> 00:11:22,760 Cha-cha-cha. 223 00:11:22,840 --> 00:11:25,720 Feel like now I can really picture my life with Dave, 224 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:26,920 like, out of here. 225 00:11:26,960 --> 00:11:28,720 Like, it just became real. 226 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:29,920 It's nice. 227 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:32,600 (JEFF WOLF-WHISTLES) 228 00:11:32,680 --> 00:11:34,920 Wow. Thank you. 229 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:37,520 Jeff and I are at a really good place at the moment. 230 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:41,680 I feel like, every week, we seem to get stronger as a couple. 231 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:43,560 I think we've had a great week. Yeah, same. 232 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:45,760 I think, like, after the friends and family visits, 233 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:48,680 like, it was nice to share to our loved ones, 234 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:50,720 like, where we are in the experiment. 235 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:52,560 Yeah. Um, but, no, I feel really... 236 00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:54,400 I feel really good at going into the dinner party together. 237 00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:55,480 Same. 238 00:11:56,880 --> 00:12:01,080 While Jacqui and Ryan have also had a great week together, 239 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:03,520 heading into the dinner party, 240 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:06,840 there's something weighing heavily on Jacqui's mind. 241 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:10,640 Ryan was really supportive for the past week when I was really, 242 00:12:10,680 --> 00:12:12,040 I would say, distraught 243 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:16,520 after Rhi had a big attack at me at the commitment ceremony. 244 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:20,360 Jacqui and Ryan have obviously had some troubles in their relationship, 245 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:25,440 and Jacqui reached out to Jeff to catch up for a coffee 246 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:26,760 without me there. 247 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:29,960 I just feel like it's not girl code to do that. 248 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:32,440 I think it's a little bit disrespectful. 249 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:36,440 I'm upset at Rhi because she's felt it necessary 250 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:39,120 to spend her relationship time at the commitment ceremony 251 00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:41,960 throwing shade on somebody else, which is just disgusting. 252 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:45,560 And I think that's a crime against humanity. 253 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:48,880 So, she thinks I broke girl code. 254 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:50,720 I think she broke the rules of humanity. 255 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:53,560 I do want to, obviously, stand up for myself today 256 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:56,520 and, like, address what Rhi has done to me and say, like, 257 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:58,720 "I don't stand for that, I'm not okay with it," 258 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:00,080 so I definitely will bring it up. 259 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:01,680 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 260 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:04,360 People deserve to know the truth and, to be honest, 261 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:06,640 her assumptions are getting in the way of truth and justice 262 00:13:06,680 --> 00:13:07,800 in this case. 263 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:10,840 (EERIE MUSIC) 264 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:14,720 Down the hall, the atmosphere is tense. 265 00:13:16,560 --> 00:13:17,560 You look good, Morena. 266 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,040 (GASPS IN JEST) Thank you. 267 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:25,360 Morena is still coming to terms with Tony's bombshell announcement. 268 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,200 He wants to have a baby. 269 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:30,360 That's why I'm not into a 57-year-old. 270 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:31,640 (TENSE MUSIC) 271 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:33,360 Well, that makes it hard for me to really... 272 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:37,080 ..fall for somebody that's older and, you know... 273 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:38,480 You've never said that. 274 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,440 See this human being here? 275 00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:43,320 Have a good look at her. 276 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:44,880 She's 57. 277 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:46,840 She can't reproduce children. 278 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:51,480 So, this is just another excuse, another deflection. 279 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:53,320 I've really had enough. 280 00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:55,920 You know, it's almost like a dead end. 281 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:57,600 Come to a T-intersection. 282 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:00,640 I think we're going to be hopefully best dressed again tonight. 283 00:14:00,680 --> 00:14:03,120 (MUSIC FADES) 284 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:10,360 For one of the experiment's most tumultuous couples, 285 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:12,200 Awhina and Adrian. 286 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:15,840 this week has left them more divided than ever, 287 00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:19,480 and they're currently getting ready in separate apartments. 288 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:23,520 Adrian made a bunch of promises on that couch last week 289 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:27,520 to the group, to the experts, to me, 290 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:31,600 and I don't feel like he's done anything of what he said. 291 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:34,880 Last week, Adrian left the experiment 292 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:38,560 after he wasn't included in a Channel 9 promo shoot. 293 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:39,960 Where are you? 294 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:47,080 When he finally returned, 295 00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:51,160 it was revealed he had been to dinner with another bride. 296 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:53,000 Why were you out for dinner with Sierah Saturday night? 297 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:54,800 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 298 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:56,640 So, Awhina wanted out. 299 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:59,000 I wrote "Sorry, leave". 300 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:00,960 (MUSIC BUILDS THEN FADES) 301 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:05,280 It's on your shoulders to really do some big-time lifting. 302 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:08,600 Yeah, I'm well aware she's taking time from her son. 303 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:11,200 Yeah. So, it's like, I need to show up. 304 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:16,920 However, an explosive family lunch pushed them even further apart. 305 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:20,840 I think you are focusing a lot on the negatives because... 306 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:23,240 He hasn't even shown up, so let's just stop it there. 307 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:24,720 From what I've heard... He has not even shown up. 308 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:26,280 From what I've heard... Not even once. 309 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:27,880 I was talking. He has not even showed up. 310 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:29,000 I don't care. 311 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:31,000 You know what, I... I actually... I'm just... 312 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:32,640 I don't need to listen to this shit. Goodbye. 313 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:34,240 Pointless conversation. It is. 314 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:37,720 AWHINA: I was really blindsided once again 315 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:39,880 at our friends and family catch-up. 316 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:42,480 Definitely felt like an attack. 317 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:45,360 Felt like I was walking into an interrogation. 318 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:48,240 I feel like, if you want something to really work with someone, 319 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:50,320 you'd want your friends and family to like them. 320 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:52,880 So, I think, if he truly wanted this to work, 321 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:55,880 I would have walked into a very different situation, 322 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:57,400 and that's disappointing. 323 00:15:57,480 --> 00:16:00,520 You know, this was supposed to be Adrian's redemption week, 324 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:03,560 and it just doesn't feel like that's happened. 325 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:09,920 While our original couples have been meeting with friends and family, 326 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:14,000 this week, our newlyweds have fast-tracked their marriages... 327 00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:15,680 Your shirt looks good. Oh, thank you. 328 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:16,680 Matching. 329 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:19,280 ..undertaking a relationship crash course 330 00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:21,760 designed to strengthen their bond 331 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:24,640 and bring them up to speed with the other couples. 332 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:25,880 TEEJAY: Dinner party x2. 333 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:27,720 Do we have any beans to spill? Nope. 334 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:29,040 No beans? Not really. 335 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:32,560 Me and Teejay, I feel like we've kind of nailed the tasks this week, 336 00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:35,480 and I do think it brought us closer together. 337 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:39,320 So, yeah, I'm feeling really good about where we are at the moment. 338 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:41,000 LAUREN: How exciting. Another dinner. 339 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:42,840 CLINT: Oh, I can't wait. (SIGHS) 340 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,320 I actually think it'll be a pretty quiet night tonight. 341 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:46,440 What makes you think that? 342 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:48,080 I don't know. 343 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:50,640 I just think that it's time that everyone gets along. 344 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:51,720 (BOTH LAUGH) 345 00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:54,200 I feel good about walking into the dinner party with Clint. 346 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:56,240 I mean, we're building a friendship. 347 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:59,080 He's very easy to hang out with, get along with. 348 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:00,800 So, yeah, it's going well. 349 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:02,080 Cheers. Cheers. 350 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:03,440 (GLASSES CLINK) 351 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:06,160 But, while Lauren and Clint celebrate... 352 00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:07,440 (DRAMATIC BOOM) 353 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:11,440 ..Veronica and Eliot are getting ready in separate apartments. 354 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:15,400 Veronica and I, we're having issues. 355 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:18,120 And, you know, it's upsetting 356 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:21,400 because I really put myself out there this week, 357 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:25,880 and I tried to be vulnerable but she didn't acknowledge that, 358 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:28,560 and I don't really understand why. 359 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:31,720 My younger sister, Bridie, she fell into a coma. 360 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:35,080 It felt like it was the end of the world. 361 00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:36,880 Like, it felt like there was no hope. 362 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:39,960 Oh, what did you feel in your heart? 363 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:42,280 Hopelessness. Mm. 364 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:46,760 This was the perfect opportunity for him 365 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:52,040 to just tell me something, anything, and he chose nothing. 366 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:55,880 I would love to know why 367 00:17:55,960 --> 00:18:00,200 my most painful memory isn't enough for you. 368 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:02,240 I didn't feel like I learnt anything about you. 369 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:03,840 Well, listen. Listen. 370 00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:06,000 No, I don't want to listen to you anymore. 371 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:08,920 While the pair later tried to reconcile, 372 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:11,680 it only made the situation worse. 373 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:13,480 I don't trust you. So, your walls are up. 374 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:15,760 100%. Are you kidding me? Yes. 375 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:18,400 The way you spoke to Lauren that night at the dinner party. 376 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:19,480 Yeah, okay. 377 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:20,920 The way you spoke to me... 378 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:22,480 How did I speak to you? ..put my walls up. 379 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:24,560 We're just going around in... No, we're not. 380 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:26,920 We just got to this thing about how you don't trust me. 381 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:28,240 Don't raise your voice at me. 382 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:30,800 You were being unreasonable and I will not tolerate it. 383 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:32,520 This is so civil. No, I've had enough. 384 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:34,480 This is so civil. I've had enough. 385 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,240 Veronica admitted that she's got her walls up. 386 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:39,920 She doesn't trust me. 387 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,560 But, when she said that, I felt like, 388 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:45,480 okay, now at least it's out in the open. 389 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:48,200 We can talk about it and work to resolve it. 390 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:51,960 But I feel like, every time we start to get somewhere, 391 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:54,920 she just loses it and storms out. 392 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:59,480 And I really want to get past that and try to make things work 393 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:02,000 because I actually really like her. 394 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:05,120 So, I'm going to go knock on Veronica's door 395 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:06,520 and see how she's doing. 396 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:07,920 I think it would be good for us 397 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:09,840 to walk in together to the dinner party. 398 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,520 I'm hoping she wants to do that, as well. 399 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:15,600 Hi. Hey. 400 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:18,640 How's it going? Good. How are you? 401 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:20,400 You look beautiful. Thanks. 402 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:22,200 Do you want to talk? 403 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:24,720 Do I? Yeah. 404 00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:25,920 Um, sure. 405 00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:27,920 Can I come in? (FINGERNAILS TAP) 406 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:29,080 Okay. 407 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:32,360 What would you like to say? 408 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:38,160 From my perspective, it felt like we were starting to get somewhere. 409 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:40,840 I don't feel that way. 410 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:46,680 So... so, you saying to me that you've got your walls up 411 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:48,440 and that you don't trust me. 412 00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:52,600 That was a really big development for me. Like, I didn't know that. 413 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:56,160 So, that's what I mean by that. 414 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:58,440 Well, I'm glad that you got some insight from me, 415 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:00,680 but I still have nothing from you. 416 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:02,800 So, I don't feel that way. 417 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:04,000 Right. 418 00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:06,960 (DELICATE, UNEASY MUSIC) 419 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:10,000 So... so, like, what do you want? 420 00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:11,520 Like, what do you want from me? 421 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:12,920 I'm not going to spell it out to you. 422 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:16,520 I've been really clear with you about everything that I want 423 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:18,560 from the beginning. 424 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:20,360 Like, I'm not hearing, like, an apology. 425 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:22,800 I'm not hearing any kind of accountability. 426 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:24,360 What do you want an apology for? 427 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:26,920 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 428 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:30,720 If you don't believe that you have a reason to apologise to me... 429 00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:33,320 I'm not your mother. I wasn't brought here to fix you. 430 00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:35,640 It's up to you to tell me. Nobody said that you're my mum. 431 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:37,800 Sorry, just one sentence that I could finish, 432 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:40,200 I would really appreciate it, Eliot. 433 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:41,920 Just one. 434 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:45,160 I don't appreciate you coming in here and inciting an argument. 435 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:48,200 I was minding my own business. 436 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:51,280 You've come in here with no apology, no accountability, 437 00:20:51,360 --> 00:20:53,720 no effort to try and make this better. 438 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:55,880 You're just starting an argument. 439 00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:57,840 I'm not interested in doing this with you. 440 00:20:57,920 --> 00:20:59,720 I would really appreciate it if you could leave. 441 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:02,200 (TENSE MUSIC) 442 00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:05,560 All right, well, enjoy your last dinner party. 443 00:21:08,120 --> 00:21:10,320 (DOOR OPENS AND SLAMS) 444 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:17,480 (UPLIFTING MUSIC BUILDS) 445 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,520 Well, here we are. Dinner party number four. 446 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:28,000 Halfway through the experiment. MEL: Yes. 447 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,000 JACQUI: Oh, thank you. 448 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:34,520 And this is a pivotal part for the whole process 449 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:36,320 because, the original couples, 450 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:39,280 they're meeting the nearest and dearest, the family members. 451 00:21:39,360 --> 00:21:42,240 And, for some couples, it will bring them closer together, 452 00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:43,560 no doubt about that. 453 00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:47,000 On a scale of one to ten, how attracted are you to me right now? 454 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:48,520 Forty-five. Oh... 455 00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,160 But we've seen in the past some couples 456 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:56,360 can actually really fall apart when they see the family members, 457 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:57,920 so it can be destabilising for them. 458 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,800 Also, our new arrivals 459 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:05,000 are, in fact, catching up and doing the crash course. 460 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:06,520 (MUSIC SOARS) 461 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:08,160 ALESSANDRA: They've moved in together. 462 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,720 They've been doing intimacy week and confessions week. 463 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:13,280 It's going to be really interesting to see how they've caught on 464 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:15,240 in such a short period of time. 465 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:18,880 (UPLIFTING MUSIC FADES) 466 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,520 MEL: Okay, here we go. 467 00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:25,760 Hey, the floor is ours, baby. Yay. 468 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:27,000 Let's do a twirl. 469 00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:28,600 Can I trust you? 470 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:33,160 Ryan and Jacqui twirling and happy and the first ones in. 471 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:34,960 That's a very fancy entrance. 472 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:37,000 Cheers to being first in. Cheers. 473 00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:38,120 And a fantastic week. 474 00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:39,280 Come on, let's sit down. 475 00:22:39,360 --> 00:22:42,520 I think this is the most together that we've ever seen them 476 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,960 walk into a cocktail party. 477 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:46,120 Yeah. 478 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,000 Look at the way she's looking into his eyes. 479 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:51,320 Yeah, yeah. 480 00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,360 I just feel like we've had such a good week. 481 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,240 Like, I feel like... We've had the best week. 482 00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:58,160 Yeah, and I haven't cried in four days, which is a new record. 483 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,240 Hello! Hey! 484 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,440 MEL: Ah, Teejay and Beth! 485 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,440 Welcome, welcome. How are you? 486 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:09,960 You guys look ravishing. RYAN: Ravishing! 487 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:11,360 Hello! You guys look delectable. 488 00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:13,800 Mwah. I'm good. Good to see you. 489 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:17,760 Shocker. We're together again. 490 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:19,280 Hello! Hello. 491 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:20,920 ALESSANDRA: Dave and Jamie. 492 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:22,240 Oh, here they are. 493 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,120 Hello, senorita. Hello! 494 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,280 MEL: Wow. Looking fabulous, happy. 495 00:23:27,360 --> 00:23:28,880 Very much the team. Yes. 496 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,520 MAN: Hey! How you going? 497 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:34,960 Oh, solo. 498 00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:36,720 Eliot's on his own. On his own. 499 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:38,600 How are you, mate? Yeah, good, mate. 500 00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:39,640 How about yourself? 501 00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:41,320 Riding solo this week? Yeah. 502 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,760 JAMIE: Grab a drink and come sit down, Eliot. 503 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,360 Well, we saw an incredible turnaround with him 504 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:47,800 at the last commitment ceremony. 505 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,320 Didn't we? It was essentially a 180-degree turn. 506 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:54,280 And I guess the question that we were left with was, 507 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:55,400 "Is this real? 508 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:58,720 "Is he able to actually create this change in his life 509 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:00,000 "and live it and breathe it?" 510 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:01,240 Yeah. 511 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:02,680 Hi, Eliot, hi... Yeah! 512 00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:03,840 (LAUGHTER) 513 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,040 Uh, walking in alone wasn't ideal. 514 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,080 I feel a little bit disappointed. 515 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:11,280 It feels like my effort's going to waste a little bit here. 516 00:24:11,360 --> 00:24:14,560 I'm trying to make it work with Veronica, 517 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,760 and she's not reciprocating that. 518 00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:20,840 So, I think tonight is a kind of a bit of a sink-or-swim moment. 519 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,240 But I'm honestly not that hopeful. 520 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,440 JACQUI: How's your week been? 521 00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,320 Yeah, not too bad. Yeah? 522 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,960 So, well, I'm glad to see you and Brian have come in together. 523 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:34,760 So, good vibes continuing? Yeah. 524 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:36,880 Basically, after the commitment ceremony, 525 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,800 I was pretty distraught by the behaviour of Rhi. 526 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,360 (UNSETTLING MUSIC) 527 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,960 JACQUI: I feel like I'm owed an apology. 528 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,360 Um, like, I felt really disrespected 529 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:48,880 and I felt, like, really hurt about it. 530 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:52,040 And I've been pretty distraught the week and crying most days, 531 00:24:52,120 --> 00:24:54,480 and Ryan's just been really, really supportive. 532 00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:57,920 I guess it's nice that, in some way, you know, 533 00:24:57,960 --> 00:24:59,680 it's maybe brought you two together. 534 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:00,840 It brought us together, yeah. 535 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:02,880 (TENSE MUSIC) 536 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,880 (CHEERING AND SHOUTING) Hey! 537 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:08,160 (LAUGHTER) 538 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:09,200 Hi, guys. 539 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,200 Ah, Rhi and Jeff. Ah! 540 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,680 RHI: Hi! How are you? You look great. 541 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:15,440 Thank you. So do you. Thank you. 542 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,000 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 543 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:22,560 I'll tell you what, Jacqui doesn't seem too happy to see Jeff and Rhi. 544 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,200 Yes, she hasn't got up to greet them. 545 00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:25,400 No. 546 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,680 Hey, Jacqui. Hey, Ryan. 547 00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:30,320 JEFF: Hey, guys. Hey, how are youse? 548 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:33,840 (FROSTY, DRAMATIC MUSIC) 549 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:43,520 When Rhi walked in, I felt disgusted. 550 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,840 I don't want to look at her. 551 00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:47,040 I'll go... Is there rose? 552 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:48,280 Yes, please. 553 00:25:48,360 --> 00:25:52,960 She's acting like she's my friend when, the last time I saw her, 554 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:56,520 she ridiculed me, shamed me, humiliated me. 555 00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:58,080 And now she's saying hi to me. 556 00:25:58,120 --> 00:26:00,040 Like, no, mate, like... 557 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:01,840 Cheers. 558 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,040 I've got a lecture for Rhi 559 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,600 I've got a lecture in respect. 560 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:08,760 I've got a lecture in truth. 561 00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,520 And I've got a lecture in... 562 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,240 What's my other lecture about? 563 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,200 (CURIOUS MUSIC) 564 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:16,280 Um... 565 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:18,840 But anyway. 566 00:26:20,360 --> 00:26:22,880 I have a lot of things that I want to educate Rhi on, 567 00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:27,920 and I think I deserve the time to just say my piece. 568 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,960 (SINISTER MUSIC) 569 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:37,000 (SOFT, FOREBODING MUSIC) 570 00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:38,840 Hey, Jacqui. Hey, Ryan. 571 00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:40,960 JEFF: Hey, guys. Hey. How are youse? 572 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,640 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 573 00:26:50,120 --> 00:26:51,600 Are you okay? No, I'm fine. 574 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:52,640 I just didn't think 575 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:54,600 we'd actually come into the dinner party with that, I was like... 576 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:55,720 I thought the whole thing was like... 577 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,640 that was meant to be, like, a case closed. 578 00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:58,920 I thought so, too. 579 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,400 But, like, all week, she's been, like, in tears. 580 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,640 (TENSE MUSIC) 581 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,920 Jacqui didn't say hi to me, which is a little bit disheartening 582 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:08,720 because I think I've put up with her shit 583 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:10,760 for the last... pretty much since day one, 584 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:15,840 from the moment she messaged Jeff asking me not to be there, 585 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:20,360 and I feel like, if anyone has anything to be annoyed about, 586 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:24,040 it's the fact that you have brought me into your relationship drama. 587 00:27:24,120 --> 00:27:28,760 So, it's a little bit annoying that she doesn't acknowledge me. 588 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,600 My mind is like... JAMIE: No, don't worry about that. 589 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:34,400 You focus on what's going on here first and then we'll address that. 590 00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:35,440 Don't worry about that. 591 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:36,840 I don't want to address it, to be honest. 592 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,040 Then let's focus on what's been going on... 593 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:40,760 Let's talk about the good stuff. 594 00:27:42,360 --> 00:27:45,360 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 595 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:46,720 What's happening? 596 00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:48,160 Adrian's solo. 597 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,840 Oh, no. No Awhina. 598 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,440 I lost my wife. 599 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:53,800 How are you, bro? What's going on? 600 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:55,440 How are you, my man? Hi. 601 00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,440 Bad sign after the commitment ceremony. 602 00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,920 He made so many promises about changing his approach. 603 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,120 We needed him to step up. Absolutely. 604 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:03,400 So, what's happened here? 605 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:04,640 What's happening? 606 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,040 This is your redemption week. Yeah, was supposed to be. 607 00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:08,080 But no. 608 00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:11,840 We had the family day, and it was just a disaster, bro. 609 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,000 You know, it didn't last longer than five minutes. 610 00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:15,960 Oh. Oh, God. 611 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:17,040 It didn't go the best. 612 00:28:17,120 --> 00:28:20,360 My family came in first, and then they sat down 613 00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,240 and we started talking about it, obviously. 614 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,400 I was like, "Oh, well, you guys have heard my side. 615 00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:26,040 "Let's hear Awhina's." 616 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:29,400 Then her sister comes in. 617 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:32,480 Straight on the defence, like, yelling at me, 618 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:33,720 I'm like, "Whoa, relax." 619 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,520 I'm just upset that she won't acknowledge her sister's behaviour. 620 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,440 It's like, "Hey..." MAN: She should apologise. 621 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,720 Yeah, you shouldn't yell and you shouldn't say names. 622 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,840 For me, it's not about the families now. It's about us. 623 00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:51,880 It's just about what we do with what happened, 624 00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,720 how we deal with it, that's it, and how do we go from here? 625 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:58,720 Hey! Hi! 626 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:00,600 What have I missed, everyone? 627 00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:03,120 MEL: Here's Awhina. JOHN: Ah, here we go. 628 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:04,240 Hey, beautiful. 629 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,480 I hope everyone wasn't gossiping about me. 630 00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:09,200 (TENSE MUSIC) 631 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:12,560 Honestly, if Adrian had approached this past week 632 00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:15,280 with genuine willingness to do the work, 633 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,480 we would have come in together today, 634 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,840 and I would have literally spoke his praises. 635 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:21,120 Hi. Hi. You look nice. 636 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:23,920 Hey. 637 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:25,200 But there's been none of that. 638 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:31,960 And it's been a reoccurring thing where he's made some bold promises, 639 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:33,600 and he just hasn't lived up to it. 640 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:45,680 Have you not already done that? 641 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,480 Yeah, but I don't want to talk about it in front of everyone 642 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,360 in the sense of, like, trying to defend each other 'cause you're... 643 00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:51,760 But you just did it. 644 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:55,800 Just before I entered the room, 645 00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,920 I could hear Adrian talking to everyone 646 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,320 and essentially addressing friends and family. 647 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:04,000 And then he pulls me aside and goes, "Hey, let's not talk about this." 648 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,120 And I was like, well, hang on a minute. 649 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,440 I don't think you realise but I actually heard you 650 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,720 talking about that day. 651 00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,080 Why is it that only you're allowed to speak about the situation? 652 00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:14,280 If you want to, you can talk about it. 653 00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:16,320 I'm just gonna say I'm not gonna feel the need to talk about it. 654 00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:17,600 But you just did. 655 00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,120 This is the whole control element 656 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:20,640 to what's going on in their relationship. 657 00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,520 What we can talk about, what we can't talk about. 658 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,000 Adrian has one set of rules for himself 659 00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:26,840 and a different set for Awhina. 660 00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:28,800 But did you not say to me you don't want to talk about it? 661 00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:30,480 Yeah. Yeah? 662 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,960 But you've done that with only one side. 663 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,280 Not one side. I haven't said anything... 664 00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:36,600 I actually said this. 665 00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:37,760 I said this is the thing... 666 00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:39,360 But why is it that only you can talk about it? 667 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:41,320 You can talk about it. Okay, that's fine. I'm just saying. 668 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,680 Interesting, though, she seems to be pushing back more. 669 00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:46,920 Yeah. You know, she's calling him out. 670 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,880 She's not just listening and staying quiet. 671 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:51,720 You're so confusing, Adrian. You know what? 672 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:53,640 You tell me one thing and then you do another. 673 00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,520 You know, make up your mind. 674 00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,680 Usually, when I have a conversation with Adrian, 675 00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:02,760 my stomach drops a little when he asks me to do something 676 00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:04,200 because I want to do it. 677 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:09,240 I look at him and I want to heal and I want to fix the situation. 678 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,480 But I didn't get that feeling today. 679 00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:14,280 All I felt was... hang on a minute. 680 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:16,960 When I'm not present, you can say your piece. 681 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:20,280 The moment I come...come around, I have to be silenced. 682 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:21,520 That's not fair. 683 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:24,160 I just want to have my voice heard. 684 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,000 Hello. 685 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:30,120 Hey. 686 00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,520 Oh, Lauren and Clint. Yes. 687 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:33,680 There he is! 688 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:35,800 We've actually felt good about walking into the dinner party. 689 00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:37,200 It was fun vibe. 690 00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:38,480 Hi, sweetheart. Hello. 691 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:40,680 How are you feeling? Good. How are you? 692 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:44,000 No. 693 00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:45,240 Oh, didn't you? No. 694 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:46,760 I'm gonna go get a drink. 695 00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:47,960 Well, that's what... 696 00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:50,280 The bar was that way. He was that way. 697 00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:51,800 Yeah. I know my priorities. 698 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:53,640 Do you want sparkling? Yes, please. 699 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:54,920 Fill her up. 700 00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:57,600 Hey. 701 00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:59,880 (CHEERING AND EXCLAIMING) 702 00:31:59,920 --> 00:32:01,040 You cheeky little... 703 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,400 Oh, Tony! Oh, Tony in pink! 704 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,000 Fabulous once again. 705 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,160 Couple dressing. They are couple dressing. 706 00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:10,400 All right. 707 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:13,560 So, Tony's come up with another story. 708 00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:15,480 He wants to have a baby. 709 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:17,520 That's a lot to take. 710 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:19,600 That's not what I signed up for. 711 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,560 You know, it's really hard. 712 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:23,720 I'm right there with you, trust me. 713 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,640 MAN: Hey! (CHEERING AND EXCLAMATIONS) 714 00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:31,240 Oh. Oh, here's Veronica. 715 00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:34,560 Hey. Hello. 716 00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:37,240 Yeah, I'm open to talking to Eliot tonight, 717 00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,720 but I'm not going to go out of my way. 718 00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:42,600 You're all alone. I'm all alone! 719 00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,560 You look so hot. 720 00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,320 I love spending time with the other couples 721 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:51,120 and getting to know them, and I'm excited to see Lauren. 722 00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:52,800 So sweet. 723 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,400 And, look, we're both in a corset. That's just like... 724 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,840 Mwah! Mwah! 725 00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:00,880 Eliot's looking nervous. 726 00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:07,280 My two wives were arm in arm, and it was like an unholy alliance. 727 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:10,760 I was kind of waiting for the slap, basically. 728 00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:12,320 Yeah. 729 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:14,520 I'm gonna go have a drink. Yeah, go grab one. 730 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,560 It's so interesting because everyone that Eliot gets matched with 731 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,240 spends a lot of time alone. 732 00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,080 JAMIE: I just realised Paul and Carina aren't in yet. 733 00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:26,480 (GENTLE, UNEASY MUSIC) 734 00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:28,760 (PAUL SIGHS) 735 00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:56,560 (MUSIC BUILDS) 736 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,440 (WHISTLING AND CHEERING) Hey! 737 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:03,920 (UNSETTLING MUSIC) Hey. 738 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:05,120 Welcome. Hi. 739 00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:06,880 Carina and Paul. Carina and Paul. 740 00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:08,080 Here we go. 741 00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:09,920 How are ya? Good, you all right? 742 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:11,600 Yeah, I'm okay. Better, better. Yeah, that's good. 743 00:34:12,720 --> 00:34:16,000 Paul and Carina came in and you can see they're struggling. 744 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,120 How are you? Good. How are you going? 745 00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:19,920 Okay. You all right? 746 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:21,320 Paul and Carina, 747 00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,800 I'm looking forward to seeing, I guess, where they're at. 748 00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:25,960 They've had a little bit of a drama. 749 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,440 Okay. I've been better. 750 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:31,080 And I can see that it's really affected both of them. 751 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:36,120 It's a very different feeling coming into this dinner party with Paul. 752 00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:41,000 I'm quite anxious, nervous, a little uncomfortable 753 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:44,120 and just, yeah, not my usual self. 754 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,360 (GLASS DINGS) Dinner is served. 755 00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,440 (ETHEREAL MUSIC) 756 00:34:57,720 --> 00:35:00,160 (MUSIC WARPS DRAMATICALLY) 757 00:35:02,240 --> 00:35:03,520 Yes. (WOMAN'S VOICE ECHOES) 758 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,640 It's making me nervous coming here to...into the group now because... 759 00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:14,240 ..I'm going to admit to everyone what I've done. 760 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,960 (HAUNTING MUSIC) 761 00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,160 I did something that I'm really not proud of 762 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,120 that I'm still regretting right now. 763 00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:28,600 MAN: Cheers. MAN: Cheers, guys. 764 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,800 I don't know how people are going to react. 765 00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:37,480 Hopefully, I'm not going to be judged too much for that, 766 00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:40,680 but, if I do, then... my own fault. 767 00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,440 (JACQUI GIGGLES) Sorry. 768 00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:44,520 Cheers. 769 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:45,880 Cheers, guys. Cheers. 770 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:47,400 (VOICES MUFFLED, DARK MUSIC) 771 00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:48,720 So, I'm going to... 772 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,000 Probably straight away, I'll probably just get it off my chest 773 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,000 and admit to everyone what I've done. 774 00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:55,400 (GLASS DINGS) 775 00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:58,600 (FOREBODING MUSIC) 776 00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:01,360 Sorry, I just want to, um... 777 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,720 (MUSIC CONTINUES SOFTLY) 778 00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,040 Um... (CLEARS THROAT) 779 00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,560 I'm sure a few of you have realised 780 00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:13,240 that I haven't been my full self walking in here tonight. 781 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:21,520 I did something that I absolutely regret. 782 00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:24,560 (MUSIC WARPS AND RACES) 783 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:28,160 Something that is... that is absolutely unacceptable. 784 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:33,120 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 785 00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:36,600 Um... 786 00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:43,560 (MUSIC AMPLIFIES) 787 00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:46,880 (MUSIC FADES) 788 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,920 (UNNERVING MUSIC) 789 00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:57,520 (GLASS DINGS) 790 00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,760 (MUFFLED CONVERSATION, EERIE MUSIC) 791 00:37:03,720 --> 00:37:05,640 Sorry, I just want to, um... 792 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:09,040 Um... 793 00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:13,880 I'm sure a few of you have realised 794 00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:16,680 that I haven't been my full self walking in here tonight. 795 00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:25,560 I did something that I absolutely regret. 796 00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:32,200 Something that is... that is absolutely unacceptable. 797 00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:33,320 Ooh. Oh, no. 798 00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:35,080 Come on. What's happened? 799 00:37:41,240 --> 00:37:42,360 Um... 800 00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:46,840 Um... (CLEARS THROAT) 801 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,960 Carina and I, we had our first big fight... 802 00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:53,880 (TENSE MUSIC) 803 00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:57,920 ..um, after a few things that she said to me 804 00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:04,800 that made me feel, uh, you know, embarrassed and betrayed and... 805 00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:08,760 and we had a massive argument. 806 00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:09,920 Um... 807 00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:14,000 Ooh. 808 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:18,840 Whenever I go through a big fight, I'm someone who withdraw, 809 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:20,760 and I need my space, and I need to be left alone. 810 00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,600 But Carina chased me and just asked me to stay, 811 00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:26,320 and that's when I started to feel trapped. 812 00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,560 And I understand that Carina just wanted to resolve the situation 813 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:31,640 straight away. 814 00:38:31,720 --> 00:38:33,880 She just wanted to be able to go to bed at peace. 815 00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:37,880 But I felt trapped and I just wanted to leave 816 00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:39,960 and obviously that made me even more angry, 817 00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:43,720 and, yeah, and then, in just that moment, I just, I... 818 00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:45,920 Everything just happened so fast. 819 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:47,720 (MUSIC INTENSIFIES) 820 00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:49,360 And then, um... 821 00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:51,920 I... 822 00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:53,600 (CLEARS THROAT) 823 00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:58,200 I threw a punch in our... in our bedroom door. 824 00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:05,000 I lost control and I punched a hole in the bedroom door. 825 00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:06,960 Oh, no. 826 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:09,560 (UNSETTLING MUSIC) 827 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:12,080 Threw a punch. 828 00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:15,680 In the door. 829 00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:22,840 It's very serious. Yeah. 830 00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:25,520 Very, very, very serious. Yeah. 831 00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:28,520 It's just not the right thing to do. It's... 832 00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:30,040 It's unacceptable. It's disgusting. 833 00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:34,080 And I'm still hating myself for doing this. 834 00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:37,000 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 835 00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:40,680 It should bother you. Mm. 836 00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:43,280 Yes. And it should bother Carina. 837 00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,440 I've apologised to Carina multiple times. 838 00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:50,600 I want to apologise to you again in front of everyone here. 839 00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,880 I am genuinely... I'm so sorry for that. 840 00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,200 This is... This is not me. 841 00:39:59,240 --> 00:40:00,800 Um, I've never done that before. 842 00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:02,120 I've never done that in my life. 843 00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:06,760 That's obviously not going to happen again. 844 00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:10,000 Well, this is something that can never happen again. 845 00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:11,440 No. Not ever. 846 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:14,480 Paul has behaved in a totally unacceptable way. 847 00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:15,560 That's right. 848 00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:19,000 And he needs to be able to control his behaviour, period. 849 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,880 (MUSIC CONTINUES GENTLY) 850 00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:24,200 Did you notice the energy in the room? 851 00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:26,960 It's very... it's quite low and quiet and... 852 00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:28,000 Yeah. 853 00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:29,720 And that just tells me 854 00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:31,480 the group just doesn't know how to handle this. 855 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:38,080 I think, like, you know, where I stand, Paul, 856 00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:40,480 and, like, you're a good mate of mine in here. 857 00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,320 I'd be wrong if I said it didn't let me down a little bit. 858 00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:46,560 Yeah, I don't... I don't condone it at all, so... 859 00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:50,400 If you're that angry, you move away. 860 00:40:51,720 --> 00:40:53,320 You could just take yourself out of the situation. 861 00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:54,400 I don't think... 862 00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:57,080 That's not okay. 863 00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,920 I've been feeling sick because I've never reacted this way. 864 00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:02,840 And then I just... Oh, I'm just... I just... I just... yeah, I'm... 865 00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:05,000 I'm just so disappointed in myself. 866 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,400 In any circumstances where there is heightened emotions and whatnot, 867 00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:12,120 lashing out physically, never acceptable ever, 868 00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:14,520 under any circumstances. 869 00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:17,360 (SOMBRE MUSIC) 870 00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:19,640 Carina, how are you feeling? 871 00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:21,800 Yeah, um... 872 00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:28,680 I can't read her face. Mm. 873 00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,160 Um, yeah. 874 00:41:34,240 --> 00:41:38,280 This behaviour obviously came by surprise. 875 00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:41,520 It was a little bit of a shock, I guess, 876 00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:46,960 but like, honestly, like, he's not one to be like this. 877 00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:50,880 He doesn't treat me incorrectly, like... 878 00:41:51,720 --> 00:41:54,800 So, I wasn't scared. I'm not scared. 879 00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:58,240 I'm not scared to be in the apartment with him, 880 00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:01,800 and he was so upset about his behaviour and what he did. 881 00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,880 So, to be able to recognise the behaviour and... 882 00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:09,000 and I know that's not acceptable and I will not accept it or tolerate it, 883 00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:12,400 but he understands what he's done. 884 00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:17,320 He's taking accountability and owning his actions. 885 00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:21,200 And, like, I forgive him. 886 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:28,920 I'm embarrassed about what happened and how Paul acted 887 00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:32,520 because Paul isn't that type of character at all 888 00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:36,960 and, you know, it's a very out-of-character experience. 889 00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:41,720 We have a very strong relationship and, you know, this is real life. 890 00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:45,560 Like, we are a real relationship where fights happen, 891 00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,200 situations happen. 892 00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:49,920 It's not all rainbows and butterflies. 893 00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:53,440 But I hope he learns from this. 894 00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,840 You do have ups and downs, you know, and it's just like, 895 00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:58,080 how do you move forward? 896 00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:01,400 And I don't want to throw in the towel and give up. 897 00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:04,360 Carina is obviously putting on a very brave face, 898 00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:08,240 She's very much representing the two of them as a united front, 899 00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:11,200 but surely this has had an impact on her. 900 00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:12,400 Mm. Let's be very clear. 901 00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:13,960 There's nothing normal about that behaviour. 902 00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:15,440 No, there is not. 903 00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:19,000 There's nothing acceptable about that behaviour or appropriate. 904 00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:23,480 (DELICATE MUSIC) 905 00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:26,560 The last thing I want is for Carina to feel unsafe around me, 906 00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,960 um, and... 907 00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:30,160 Yeah. So... 908 00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:33,200 Yeah. Sorry again. 909 00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,560 He did take accountability for it 910 00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:42,920 but, like, you know, that's something that should be called out, 911 00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:44,080 that behaviour. 912 00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:48,120 Even if you're able to acknowledge it, 913 00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:50,000 it's still despicable behaviour, 914 00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,840 and that's something I want to have a chat with him about 915 00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:55,880 and say, like, you know, hold him to account 916 00:43:55,960 --> 00:44:00,640 from one man to another, but that wasn't the right time. 917 00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:04,800 What he did isn't good enough and it's not acceptable. 918 00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:08,760 He's made a bad mistake and he's hopefully learned from that 919 00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:10,240 and doesn't do it again. 920 00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:18,000 I mean, this is absolutely, totally unexpected for this couple. 921 00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:22,120 They were really our loved-up, you know, relationship 922 00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:23,200 from the word go. 923 00:44:23,240 --> 00:44:24,280 Yeah, yeah. 924 00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,320 This is clearly their biggest challenge, 925 00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,560 and it's a very serious one 926 00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:33,320 and this is something that we absolutely have to call out... 927 00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:36,560 ..and explore in great depth. 928 00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:39,280 (TENSE MUSIC BUILDS THEN FADES) 929 00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,720 (LIVELY MUSIC) 930 00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,280 So, I'm a fish mum now. 931 00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:51,640 Yes! (LAUGHTER) 932 00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:53,160 We adopted Billy's fish. 933 00:44:53,240 --> 00:44:57,560 Um, but we are... we're navigating through parenthood. 934 00:44:57,640 --> 00:44:59,320 (LAUGHTER) I'm the fun mum. 935 00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:00,840 Not really. I wish I was. 936 00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:02,880 He always lets them get away with murder. 937 00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:04,480 (LAUGHTER) 938 00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:06,320 We had our family day, as well. We had family day. 939 00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:07,920 That was really... It was really good. 940 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,920 Um, it was good to see, like, my mum and her parents 941 00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:13,760 with...you know, you see the happiness in their eyes. 942 00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:16,080 Dave and I, I guess, are, like, boring 943 00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:17,840 but it's really good to be boring. 944 00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,520 I mean, he looks like a bloody snack. 945 00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,840 I'm like, cha-cha, slide on him after. 946 00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:25,080 (TANGO MUSIC) 947 00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:27,000 His mum asked about our sex life 948 00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,320 first question with my dad at the table. 949 00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,480 The "Are you satisfied?" question was my favourite, 950 00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:34,960 and my dad acted like he's never seen a table before. 951 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:36,200 He's like... 952 00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:38,440 (SQUEALS OF LAUGHTER) WOMAN: That is hilarious. 953 00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:42,640 Jamie and I's bond and our strengths, 954 00:45:42,720 --> 00:45:45,360 I think it's visible to everyone, you know, it's easy to see. 955 00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,560 You know, it gives me a nice, warm, fuzzy feeling 956 00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,240 sitting there and knowing that we're going really well. 957 00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,840 (LAUGHTER, INTROSPECTIVE MUSIC) 958 00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:05,040 It's hard for me to look around the room and see all the happy couples 959 00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:08,520 because, Adrian and I, we're not okay, 960 00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,920 and I can't put on a front for everyone. 961 00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:16,040 But it's uncomfortable having to talk about your relationship 962 00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:17,800 when things aren't going great. 963 00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,320 JEFF: Where are you guys at at the moment, Awhina? 964 00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:25,920 Um, we're in separate apartments. 965 00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:27,280 Right. Oh. 966 00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:29,200 Unfortunately, we had 967 00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:32,120 a really upsetting friends and family catch-up. 968 00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:34,560 Ours went for less than ten minutes. 969 00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:35,840 Oh, shit. 970 00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:41,640 His sisters, they asked me, "What does showing up look like to you? 971 00:46:41,720 --> 00:46:46,200 "Because Adrian has shown up for you more than he has any other partner. 972 00:46:46,240 --> 00:46:48,240 "You're not recognising the good. 973 00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:50,000 "You're only pointing out his failures." 974 00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:53,440 I haven't even pointed out his failures at this point. 975 00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:55,160 I haven't even said anything at this point. 976 00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:56,160 That's not how it went. 977 00:46:56,240 --> 00:46:57,640 I couldn't even articulate a conversation. 978 00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:00,600 The reason why that upset me so much 979 00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:02,640 is, because if you see a future with someone, 980 00:47:02,720 --> 00:47:06,160 why would you want to alienate them against your friends and family? 981 00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:08,920 (DISQUIETING MUSIC) 982 00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:10,840 I think, just, at the end of the day, 983 00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,160 there was a lot of false promises made by Adrian to me 984 00:47:13,240 --> 00:47:14,600 at the commitment ceremony... No, there wasn't. 985 00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:17,000 ..and he didn't... he didn't mean any of it 986 00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:19,480 because his actions speak louder than words, 987 00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,920 and there was no reconciliation on your end. 988 00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,680 There was no redemption week on your end. 989 00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:29,480 If anything, I'm actually confused as to why you wrote 'stay' 990 00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:31,640 because it doesn't feel like it was for me. 991 00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:32,760 Okay. 992 00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:34,680 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 993 00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:37,200 I mean, this is the very key question here, isn't it? 994 00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:41,240 Because we challenged him and said, "Awhina's written 'leave'. 995 00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,120 "You're saying 'stay'. 996 00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:45,480 "So, you're going to have to up your game here. 997 00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:48,800 On the couch, though, you said, "It's my turn to show up." 998 00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:50,040 So, how did you show up this week? 999 00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:51,760 Yeah, yeah. Show up when? Show up when? 1000 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:53,680 Did you see a change in his behaviour? 1001 00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:56,200 Yeah. Okay, okay. Perfect example. Yes. Perfect example. 1002 00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:58,280 How have you shown up? How have you shown up? 1003 00:47:58,320 --> 00:47:59,400 'Cause she's not seen it? 1004 00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:00,840 We went... We went for a walk. 1005 00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:02,720 I said, "Hey, come for a walk together." 1006 00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:04,880 So, that was me trying to make an effort. 1007 00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:07,440 Um... 1008 00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:09,400 (WHIMSICAL MUSIC) 1009 00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:11,240 "I've been showing up. 1010 00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:14,000 "I asked Awhina to go for a walk." 1011 00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:16,920 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1012 00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:19,360 What? That's... 1013 00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:20,600 Wow! 1014 00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:22,200 Are you joking? 1015 00:48:22,240 --> 00:48:23,800 How aren't you married already? 1016 00:48:24,720 --> 00:48:25,920 And then... 1017 00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:28,320 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1018 00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:31,360 And then, so I said, "Let's make... let's watch a movie tonight." 1019 00:48:32,720 --> 00:48:33,680 Did we watch a movie? 1020 00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:36,160 Yeah, because we finished the day at 10:00 and we got tired. 1021 00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:37,160 And then... 1022 00:48:37,240 --> 00:48:38,880 So, you didn't? Yeah. 1023 00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:41,240 Yeah, so, we didn't watch a movie that night because it was late. 1024 00:48:42,240 --> 00:48:45,360 And then I messaged her and I was just like, 1025 00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:47,520 "Oh, hey, let's go for dinner, 1026 00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:49,680 "so we can we can sort of come to terms..." 1027 00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:52,080 Did you have dinner? No, well, she came in late. 1028 00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:54,400 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1029 00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:55,800 I'm lost. 1030 00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:58,640 Have you guys gone out for a nice dinner? 1031 00:48:58,680 --> 00:48:59,680 Yeah, of course. 1032 00:48:59,720 --> 00:49:01,760 You haven't once this whole time? 1033 00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:03,160 Yeah, we have. No, we haven't. 1034 00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:06,840 We went to Nando's. Oh, fuck. 1035 00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:10,600 (SQUEALS OF LAUGHTER) 1036 00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:11,760 Plot twist. 1037 00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,240 "Yeah, we went to Nando's together." 1038 00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:17,280 MAN: What's wrong with Nando's? (LAUGHTER) 1039 00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:19,840 JAMIE: Adrian, Adrian, if your siblings reckon 1040 00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:21,840 this is the most you've shown up in a relationship, 1041 00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:23,960 then you must have just been breathing in your other one. 1042 00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:25,280 What? 1043 00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:28,880 All he had to do was exist next to his other girlfriend. 1044 00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:31,040 (LAUGHTER) MORENA: We're sorted. 1045 00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:32,800 Everyone's missing how I'm feeling. 1046 00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,120 Has anyone heard here what I need? 1047 00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:37,520 (PLAYFUL MUSIC) 1048 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,920 Do I not exist in this relationship? Do my feelings not exist? 1049 00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:42,320 Do what I need not exist? 1050 00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:45,280 You're so focused on the negatives and what I don't... 1051 00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:47,040 Adrian, I... You never see what I actually do. 1052 00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:48,640 Doesn't matter what I do. 1053 00:49:48,720 --> 00:49:51,200 I can literally say I move mountains for her 1054 00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:53,640 and have it on recording and people will... 1055 00:49:53,720 --> 00:49:55,600 Everyone on this table will still say, "No, you didn't." 1056 00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:57,000 And Awhina will say, "No, you didn't. 1057 00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,240 "It's good enough, not showing up." So... 1058 00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,760 Forget it, bro. It doesn't matter what I do, it's not good enough. 1059 00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:03,040 RHI: I can't even listen to him. 1060 00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:07,040 It's pretty obvious that Adrian's done nothing to show up for Awhina 1061 00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:10,920 since the last commitment ceremony, nothing. 1062 00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:13,000 So, how do I show up, then? How do I show up, then? 1063 00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:14,760 Just be more understanding, that's all. 1064 00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:16,840 Just, like, stop being so combative. I'm not combative. 1065 00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:19,240 Actually understand... I'm just...I'm just telling my side. 1066 00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,680 She likes you, Adrian. She wants it to work. 1067 00:50:21,720 --> 00:50:22,800 She likes you. 1068 00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,880 She wants to give you the best chance. 1069 00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:27,400 She's not hard to please. 1070 00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:28,880 She's really not. 1071 00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:33,760 I'm honestly really fed up with how Adrian treats Awhina. 1072 00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:37,080 The look on her face just goes to show how sad she is. 1073 00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:39,040 Whatever you're doing is wrong. 1074 00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:43,240 Just admit that you haven't done anything 1075 00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:46,280 that the experts sent you to do to improve your relationship. 1076 00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:47,360 Do you think 1077 00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:49,320 you did absolutely everything you could've done this week? 1078 00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,320 Because that's what this week was about. 1079 00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,080 Again, right, yes, I think I did it for me. 1080 00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,480 Yeah, in my mind, I tried the best. 1081 00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:57,480 I didn't come here for a lesson. 1082 00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:59,360 I came here for a life partner. 1083 00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:03,360 And I think there's just only so many times someone can let you down 1084 00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:08,840 with their actions that you just stop trying so hard. 1085 00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:10,280 Do you know what, Adrian? 1086 00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:12,600 I feel like there's been so many times where you've asked me 1087 00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:13,880 what I need from a partner. 1088 00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,280 And the reason why you still don't know 1089 00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:18,360 is 'cause you don't actually care enough to listen. 1090 00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:19,640 (TENSE MUSIC) 1091 00:51:19,720 --> 00:51:22,960 Surely, he understands we're both exhausted, right? 1092 00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,120 We're not working. 1093 00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:29,880 So, why are you staying if not to do the actual work? 1094 00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:32,480 I'm done talking about it. Why are you pushing? 1095 00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:33,880 I've got nothing to say. 1096 00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:36,320 (BOISTEROUS CONVERSATION) 1097 00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:38,200 Oh, bro. 1098 00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:42,640 (CONVERSATIONS OVERLAP) 1099 00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:44,840 NARRATOR: Still to come... 1100 00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:46,920 I felt like I actually didn't owe you an apology. 1101 00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:48,560 First of all... (SHOCKED GASPS) 1102 00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:50,560 MAN: Wow. Jacqui confronts Rhi. 1103 00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:52,280 I've taken it back after I've realised 1104 00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:54,080 that there's no acceptance in it. 1105 00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:55,800 But, Jacqui, hang on just two seconds. 1106 00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:57,080 Can you just let me speak? 1107 00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:58,600 You've had your chance. 1108 00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,000 You humiliated me in front of everyone. 1109 00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:02,240 Now let me speak. 1110 00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:05,640 (DRAMATIC MUSICAL BOOM) 1111 00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:10,920 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 1112 00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:14,800 TEEJAY: Morena, Tony? BETH: Yeah, how are you guys going? 1113 00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:15,920 Pretty in pink. 1114 00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:18,680 The friends and family, how was it? 1115 00:52:18,720 --> 00:52:20,480 Come on, spill the beans. 1116 00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:24,040 It's... it's... it's... 1117 00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:26,400 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1118 00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:28,160 I'm kind of... 1119 00:52:28,240 --> 00:52:30,520 This week, it's been... it's been hard for me. 1120 00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:33,200 Honestly, Morena, you know, I'm struggling. 1121 00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:36,160 So, that's how I'm feeling at the moment. 1122 00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:39,800 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1123 00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:44,520 You've had that from day one when you found out I'm 57. 1124 00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:46,320 (GROOMS GROAN) 1125 00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:47,920 No, enough. 1126 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:49,320 Don't even... don't even bring it up. 1127 00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:50,560 You guys weren't at the wedding. 1128 00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:52,040 You weren't there. 1129 00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:55,480 I understand that you wanted someone young. 1130 00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:56,800 Oh, I know now why 1131 00:52:56,880 --> 00:52:58,960 because we found out at family and friends. 1132 00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:00,200 Because... 1133 00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:04,000 We found out the plot of why Tony doesn't want a 57. 1134 00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:05,440 Why? What was it? Why? 1135 00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:09,120 He would like to have a baby. 1136 00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:11,960 (WHIMSICAL MUSIC) 1137 00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:14,440 Tony wants a baby? 1138 00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:17,000 Well, this is the first we've heard of it. 1139 00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:18,080 Yes. 1140 00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:20,720 Why wouldn't you just tell me that at the start? 1141 00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:24,320 What do I do with that? 1142 00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:26,960 I hope God sends him triplets. 1143 00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:28,920 Cheers. 1144 00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:32,280 (TENSE MUSIC) 1145 00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:35,800 This is where I have the problem 1146 00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,920 because when you get angry and challenge everyone 1147 00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:42,360 and talk to everybody the way you do pushes me away even more. 1148 00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:45,440 You know how beautiful you are and how pretty you are. 1149 00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:49,040 But your personality gives me the shits, man. 1150 00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:52,000 (TENSE MUSIC RACES) 1151 00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:57,680 Wow. Mm. 1152 00:53:57,760 --> 00:53:59,200 That's harsh. Yeah. 1153 00:53:59,240 --> 00:54:01,720 Tony's reached his threshold. 1154 00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:04,320 This is where I'm having my problem, mate. 1155 00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:06,080 That's okay. I'm sorry but that's how I feel. 1156 00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,800 (TENSE MUSIC CONTINUES) 1157 00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:10,960 I've got a lot of love to give. 1158 00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:13,960 I deserve that back. 1159 00:54:15,240 --> 00:54:16,840 I deserve to shine. 1160 00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:21,080 I deserve to be treated like a lady. 1161 00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:24,000 I know what I'm looking for. 1162 00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:26,400 And that's... 1163 00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:28,760 ..not to have a baby. 1164 00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:32,560 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1165 00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:37,360 All right, Beth and Teejay. 1166 00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:40,600 We're doing well. Yeah, we're doing great, sorry. 1167 00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:43,000 Sorry, guys. Not really any drama. (LAUGHTER) 1168 00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,640 The pressure's on, isn't it, for our new couples. 1169 00:54:45,720 --> 00:54:47,760 They've seen the way the other couples are getting on 1170 00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:49,880 or not getting on in some cases, 1171 00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:53,120 and they know that, in order to be a part of this group, 1172 00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:54,800 they need to fast-track their relationship. 1173 00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:57,600 So, we had to do the... 1174 00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:00,160 It was like an intimacy... Yeah, sexual desires. 1175 00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:02,560 And it was just like... 1176 00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:06,640 All those questions are great but, um... 1177 00:55:06,720 --> 00:55:09,600 they're probably more suitable in potentially a few weeks 1178 00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:10,960 or a few months for us. 1179 00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,080 You know, it's like talking dirty to each other. 1180 00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:15,200 He did try... (LAUGHTER) 1181 00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:18,080 I tried it this morning, but... He did try and pick it up again. 1182 00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:23,160 But... but I said, just the way she was spreading her toast, 1183 00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:25,280 it was just so erotic and... 1184 00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:27,480 But, nah, that was a joke, nah, nah. 1185 00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:28,640 She doesn't have toast, anyway. 1186 00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:29,800 (JACQUI CACKLES) 1187 00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:32,080 I think we definitely, like, we're building a really good friendship 1188 00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:34,240 and I think, like, friendship is always the basis for me 1189 00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:35,360 in any relationship. 1190 00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:37,400 (OFFBEAT MUSIC) 1191 00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:41,120 Clint is the, you know, most supportive person ever. 1192 00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:44,120 So, I think, like, it's a strong foundation that we're... 1193 00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:45,200 that we're building. 1194 00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:47,680 Like, we both have a lot of respect for each other, 1195 00:55:47,720 --> 00:55:51,480 which is refreshing, and...yeah. 1196 00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:54,400 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1197 00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:56,320 JEFF: Veronica and Eliot. 1198 00:55:57,040 --> 00:55:59,480 JAMIE: You came in individually. We want to know what's up. 1199 00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:04,800 Uh, obviously, we had to do tasks this week, 1200 00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:10,560 so, we got the confession letter, and I... 1201 00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:14,080 Um... It's okay, babe. 1202 00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:16,320 I know, I know it's okay. 1203 00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:18,200 (VOICE SHAKES, EXHALES) 1204 00:56:18,240 --> 00:56:21,800 So, I was very disheartened 1205 00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:26,520 when Eliot told me his story about his sister 1206 00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:30,480 because, in telling me that story, 1207 00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:35,560 you didn't mention anything at all about how the story impacted you. 1208 00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:38,480 Like, I didn't learn a single thing about you. 1209 00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:42,680 All I know is that your sister has diabetes now. 1210 00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:46,080 She has to be on medication. 1211 00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:50,000 I got nothing from it. 1212 00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:52,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1213 00:56:56,680 --> 00:57:01,240 Well, from my perspective, I put everything into my story. 1214 00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:04,640 That was me being so deep and so vulnerable. 1215 00:57:05,720 --> 00:57:08,720 And then for it to come back as like, 1216 00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:12,160 "Oh, no, that's not good enough," it was like...that to me was like... 1217 00:57:12,240 --> 00:57:14,280 WOMAN: It's hurtful. Yeah. Like, it hurt. 1218 00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:15,440 So, I was then hurt. 1219 00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:17,120 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 1220 00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:19,840 And then it went in this spiral of like, 1221 00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:21,840 so, my pain isn't good enough. 1222 00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:24,640 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1223 00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:27,240 That's what it felt like. 1224 00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,320 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1225 00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:37,080 What was your pain, though? 1226 00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:39,480 (TENSE MUSIC RACES) 1227 00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:42,080 Because I don't know how you feel about that situation. 1228 00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:43,960 Having my younger sister fall into a coma. 1229 00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:47,160 (MUSIC BECOMES SOMBRE) 1230 00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:49,880 And grapple with this illness for her whole life. 1231 00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:55,920 (MUSIC CONTINUES) 1232 00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:02,280 (GENTLY LILTING MUSIC) 1233 00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:05,840 From my perspective, I put everything into my story. 1234 00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:09,800 That was me being so deep and so vulnerable. 1235 00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:13,960 And then for it to come back as like, 1236 00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:17,640 "Oh, no, that's not good enough," it was like...that to me was like... 1237 00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:19,800 WOMAN: It's hurtful. Yeah. Like, it hurt. 1238 00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:21,200 So, I was then hurt. 1239 00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:24,360 And then it went into this spiral of like, 1240 00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:26,440 so, my pain isn't good enough. 1241 00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:29,200 That's what it felt like. 1242 00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:32,560 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 1243 00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:34,960 What was your pain, though? 1244 00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:37,800 Because I don't know how you feel about that situation. 1245 00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:39,920 Having my younger sister fall into a coma... 1246 00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:43,800 ..and grapple with this illness for her whole life. 1247 00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:45,200 (TENSE MUSIC) 1248 00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:47,920 It was the fact that it was the person that I care for, 1249 00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:50,400 like, most in the whole world, my baby sister. 1250 00:58:50,440 --> 00:58:53,440 It was so traumatising. 1251 00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:56,280 That memory affects me to this day. 1252 00:58:57,320 --> 00:59:00,880 I never want to feel like I've lost control of my emotions. 1253 00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:03,760 That's why it was my pain. 1254 00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:06,920 (UNSETTLING MUSIC) 1255 00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:10,680 Veronica made it sound like it wasn't really an important issue 1256 00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:13,160 of what Eliot had confessed, 1257 00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:17,480 but then, when he, like, mentioned your sister was in, like, a coma, 1258 00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:20,160 that is something that's quite significant. 1259 00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:23,560 Veronica, I understand how you want more feeling, 1260 00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:26,880 but it is a bit unfair to be like, well, that's not empath... 1261 00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:27,920 that's not enough empathy. 1262 00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:29,280 I never said, "That's not good enough." 1263 00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:30,360 I never said those words. 1264 00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:31,480 I said I'm disappointed 1265 00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:33,440 because I don't feel like I understand you more. 1266 00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:37,840 I mean, you can imagine here Eliot feeling very judged... 1267 00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:40,720 Yeah. ..because he has made a real effort. 1268 00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:43,680 He is judged because she was just rolling her eyes. 1269 00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:44,680 Yeah. 1270 00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:47,360 V, can I just ask, do you think that maybe that was Eliot 1271 00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:49,640 trying to be as deep as he could in that moment... 1272 00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:51,760 Listen, it could possibly be. ..and it maybe wasn't as deep 1273 00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:54,480 as you wanted it, and that was that was his reality. 1274 00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:55,840 It could possibly be. I agree. 1275 00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:57,880 And that's what I said when I came back into the room. 1276 00:59:57,960 --> 01:00:00,160 I said to you, "Maybe that's all you've got." 1277 01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:02,400 But at the time I was disappointed. 1278 01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:05,800 I think Eliot can learn so much from how you approach things. 1279 01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:07,720 Yeah, but what can I learn from Eliot? 1280 01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:09,520 Maybe to be patient. 1281 01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:12,560 (GENTLE MUSIC) 1282 01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:15,680 Just put yourself in the flip situation. 1283 01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:17,720 Maybe it's hard for him to say those things. 1284 01:00:17,800 --> 01:00:19,720 He's still here. He's open to learning. 1285 01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:23,160 Like, I think that's pretty mature considering his past situation. 1286 01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:26,880 I think you guys need to work together on this. 1287 01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:29,720 And I think, Veronica, that's what you can learn, patience. 1288 01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:31,720 100%, I do not have patience. 1289 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:34,120 I know that about myself. Like, I'm not dumb. 1290 01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:38,080 It was interesting to hear the perspectives 1291 01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:40,360 of obviously everyone else in the group 1292 01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:42,640 on, you know, how Eliot's feeling. 1293 01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:46,600 And I do acknowledge that, you know, 1294 01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:51,200 maybe I do want more than he can give me at the moment. 1295 01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:56,800 Do you both want it to work, though? 1296 01:00:56,880 --> 01:00:59,520 Like, are you both willing to work on your relationship or not? 1297 01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:02,360 (GENTLE MUSIC) 1298 01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:06,800 JEFF: This is important. 1299 01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:09,800 Do you both want to move forward and work on your relationship? 1300 01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:11,400 This is the most important question, I guess. 1301 01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:14,880 (MUSIC UPLIFTS) 1302 01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:17,120 You do? 1303 01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:21,040 Amazing. Good job. Eliot, do you want to? 1304 01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:24,240 Yeah. Fantastic! 1305 01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:30,320 Tonight was probably, you know, the best-case scenario 1306 01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:32,280 in terms of how things unfolded. 1307 01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:35,000 (BETH CHEERS) 1308 01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:41,480 And we came into it very icy and we came out with some hope. 1309 01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:50,920 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1310 01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:54,560 Tonight, I have some things I want to address to the group about Rhi. 1311 01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:57,840 It is about behaviour that's been directed towards me 1312 01:01:57,880 --> 01:01:59,280 that I do not tolerate. 1313 01:02:00,320 --> 01:02:02,560 So, I'm sick of being a doormat. I'm going to stand up for myself. 1314 01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:04,240 I don't tolerate her behaviour. 1315 01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:07,720 She's been really disrespectful and rude and, honestly, 1316 01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:09,880 I hope that some justice is done today. 1317 01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:13,120 There's something that's been weighing on my mind a lot, 1318 01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:15,200 and I feel like I need to address it. 1319 01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:20,720 And kind of just stand up for myself on this one. 1320 01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:25,400 So, I guess, like, the last time everyone saw us 1321 01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:27,520 was at the commitment ceremony and... 1322 01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:31,640 So, I felt really disrespected. Um... 1323 01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:34,800 (TENSE MUSIC) 1324 01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:36,520 It's all right. Sorry, sorry. 1325 01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:37,720 Um... 1326 01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:43,600 I've been crying a lot this week just based on what you did, Rhi. 1327 01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:48,480 What did she do? Yeah, what did she actually do? 1328 01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:52,200 So, I think, like, taking your relationship time 1329 01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:57,280 at the last commitment ceremony to throw shade and humiliate, 1330 01:02:57,360 --> 01:03:01,840 ridicule and say mean things about another bride isn't... 1331 01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:04,280 Those are really big words, Jacqui. They are very big. 1332 01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:06,160 Let her talk. Let her talk. Let her talk. 1333 01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:07,480 Everyone's had an opportunity. 1334 01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:09,240 Everyone's had an opportunity. 1335 01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:10,640 You'll let my wife talk. 1336 01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:12,040 You let my wife talk now, all right? 1337 01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:13,960 BETH: Ugh. (LAUGHTER) 1338 01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:19,160 I would really like some respect just so that I can say this. Um... 1339 01:03:19,240 --> 01:03:22,760 Honest to God, Jacqui's sense of reality sometimes, 1340 01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:24,320 it's something else. 1341 01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:27,960 You really hurt me. You did. 1342 01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:31,800 Jacqui and Ryan are a prime example of, 1343 01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:34,360 "We've resolved something but let's just keep bringing it up." 1344 01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:36,720 So, she's kicking off again. 1345 01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:40,960 You just spent that time basically discrediting me, 1346 01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:42,480 which I felt, like, undermined 1347 01:03:42,560 --> 01:03:44,320 the very purpose of these commitment ceremonies, 1348 01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:46,320 which is actually to work on your relationship. 1349 01:03:48,160 --> 01:03:52,400 I feel like the whole texting Jeff situation, 1350 01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:54,760 like, I feel like you took it too far. 1351 01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:56,400 MAN: What? 1352 01:03:56,440 --> 01:03:57,640 Too far? 1353 01:03:57,680 --> 01:03:59,560 (MUSIC RACES) 1354 01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:02,920 And I felt like that had nothing to do with your relationship, 1355 01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:06,040 and I apologised for that, 1356 01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:08,400 and I felt like I actually didn't owe you an apology. 1357 01:04:08,480 --> 01:04:09,680 First of all... (SHOCKED GASPS) 1358 01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:10,960 Wow. Wow! 1359 01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:12,560 First of all, I had actually reached out... 1360 01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:14,840 Just keep digging yourself... Rhi, Rhi, Rhi. 1361 01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:16,200 Please let me speak. 1362 01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:19,640 I should let a lot of things slide with you. 1363 01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:21,680 I even apologised for... But you're not sorry. 1364 01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:23,360 I was genuinely sorry because I apologised... 1365 01:04:23,440 --> 01:04:25,320 But you aren't because you just said you aren't sorry. 1366 01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:26,960 I've taken it back after I've realised 1367 01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:28,520 that there's no acceptance in you. 1368 01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:30,240 But, Jacqui, hang on just two seconds. 1369 01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:31,800 Can you just let me speak? 1370 01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:33,040 You've had your chance. 1371 01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:35,280 You humiliated me in front of everyone. 1372 01:04:35,320 --> 01:04:36,480 Now let me speak. 1373 01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:38,520 (DRAMATIC MUSIC BUILDS) 1374 01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:42,800 (MUSIC FADES) 1375 01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:47,480 (STORMY MUSIC) 1376 01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:51,880 I feel like, the whole texting Jeff situation, 1377 01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:54,360 I felt like I actually didn't owe you an apology. 1378 01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:55,720 First of all... (SHOCKED GASPS) 1379 01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:56,720 Wow. Wow! 1380 01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:58,480 You're saying you're sorry, but you're not sorry. 1381 01:04:58,560 --> 01:05:00,480 I was genuinely sorry because I apologised... 1382 01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:02,080 But you aren't because you just said you aren't sorry. 1383 01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:03,560 I've taken it back after I've realised 1384 01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:05,200 that there's no acceptance in you. 1385 01:05:05,280 --> 01:05:07,000 But, Jacqui, hang on just two seconds. 1386 01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:08,280 You had your chance. Can I...? 1387 01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:10,120 You humiliated me in front of everyone. 1388 01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:11,320 Now let me speak. 1389 01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:19,960 Wait, so, you apologised to Rhi but you're pissed off at Rhi? 1390 01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:22,280 Make that make sense. 1391 01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:25,080 You can't make sense of it. 1392 01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:27,400 I don't stand for that behaviour. 1393 01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:29,880 I don't tolerate. I'm not okay with it. 1394 01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:31,120 What? God! 1395 01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:34,320 Jacqui, you text Rhi's husband, 1396 01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:36,520 and then you want an apology for that? 1397 01:05:36,560 --> 01:05:38,480 That doesn't make sense. 1398 01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:42,600 Why are you still bringing it up and ridiculing me 1399 01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:43,640 and shaming me? 1400 01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:44,640 MAN: Ridiculing? 1401 01:05:44,720 --> 01:05:47,080 Because they asked about how my relationship was going... 1402 01:05:47,160 --> 01:05:49,760 It's got nothing to do with your relationship. 1403 01:05:49,840 --> 01:05:51,640 What are you talking about? Your drama... 1404 01:05:51,680 --> 01:05:52,800 We were shocked... 1405 01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:54,160 Your drama brought shit... ..it was even touched on. 1406 01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:55,520 Excuse me. Excuse me. 1407 01:05:55,560 --> 01:05:56,760 It's between her and I. 1408 01:05:56,840 --> 01:05:59,240 Your drama brought heaviness on our relationship, 1409 01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:01,520 and I said our relationship was going great, 1410 01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:04,240 although outside external drama 1411 01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:06,520 has brought heaviness on our relationship. 1412 01:06:08,160 --> 01:06:10,720 I haven't done anything to create this drama. 1413 01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:14,400 You started this with contacting my husband 1414 01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:16,000 and asking me not to be there. 1415 01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:19,040 So, this is a you issue. This is not a me issue. 1416 01:06:20,240 --> 01:06:23,360 I've tried to be understanding, but it's impossible to understand 1417 01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:27,440 someone who is extremely inconsistent with their emotions, 1418 01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:29,560 and she cannot let things go. 1419 01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:31,960 Jacqui, how did this start? How did this start? 1420 01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:34,640 How did...? All this conflict... How did all this conflict start? 1421 01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:36,800 Well, you were the ones that did it. I was the one? 1422 01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:39,080 You're the one that started this whole thing, Jacqui. 1423 01:06:39,160 --> 01:06:41,240 This is what...how it all started. I didn't start it. 1424 01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:43,240 Oh, hang on, you text me behind her back? 1425 01:06:43,280 --> 01:06:44,680 So, you didn't start it? 1426 01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:47,120 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1427 01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:49,840 I thought Ryan and Jacqui's attack on Rhi and myself 1428 01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:51,080 was a bit of a joke tonight. 1429 01:06:51,160 --> 01:06:53,120 I'm sick and tired of talking about it. 1430 01:06:53,200 --> 01:06:55,160 I want to concentrate on my relationship with Rhi, 1431 01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:56,920 and that's all I want, that's all I'm worried about. 1432 01:06:57,840 --> 01:06:59,880 Jacqui, I actually don't want to fight with you, 1433 01:06:59,960 --> 01:07:02,960 and I'm actually... I'm actually really done with it. 1434 01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:04,120 Okay. Do you want to put this behind us? 1435 01:07:04,200 --> 01:07:05,920 Yeah, absolutely. I do. I do. 1436 01:07:05,960 --> 01:07:07,080 Okay. 1437 01:07:08,680 --> 01:07:11,400 I'm really hoping that we can move forward after today 1438 01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:12,840 and just not talk about this 1439 01:07:12,920 --> 01:07:15,600 because I'm really done with Jacqui's drama. 1440 01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:18,000 When we had our commitment ceremony 1441 01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:20,720 and we talked about how we felt in our relationships, 1442 01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:22,760 Jeff and I, yes, we are going great 1443 01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:24,480 and I'm very, very grateful for Jeff. 1444 01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:26,040 In saying that, the drama 1445 01:07:26,120 --> 01:07:30,320 that you have now introduced to our relationship was quite heavy 1446 01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:34,800 on our relationship, which we discussed multiple times. 1447 01:07:34,880 --> 01:07:37,560 So, I was just explaining what had happened. 1448 01:07:37,640 --> 01:07:40,320 And I'm really, really, genuinely sorry 1449 01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:42,640 that that made you feel bad in front of everybody. 1450 01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:43,880 Yeah. 1451 01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:46,840 Thank you. That means a lot. 1452 01:07:46,880 --> 01:07:48,040 Yeah. 1453 01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:52,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1454 01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:56,480 I said what I needed to say, and I got an apology for the behaviour 1455 01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:58,240 I thought that was unacceptable. 1456 01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:00,480 (PLAYFUL YAWN) 1457 01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:02,600 Perhaps, maybe she'll get the message 1458 01:08:02,680 --> 01:08:05,080 and it will just stop and disappear, yeah. 1459 01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:09,520 And I do think she'll be more careful about what she says 1460 01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:11,280 and, to be honest, that's all I was asking for. 1461 01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:15,280 So, I'm quite happy, to be honest, and...yeah. 1462 01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:21,920 Do you know what, I love how she throws digs out there 1463 01:08:21,960 --> 01:08:23,280 and she sits there laughing. 1464 01:08:23,320 --> 01:08:25,280 It's so weird. 1465 01:08:25,320 --> 01:08:27,000 (JACQUI GIGGLES) 1466 01:08:28,080 --> 01:08:30,880 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1467 01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:36,400 NARRATOR: Sunday night... 1468 01:08:36,480 --> 01:08:38,160 I'm just, like, obsessed with him now. 1469 01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:39,920 I've never felt like this before. 1470 01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:43,880 Marital bliss deepens for most of our couples. 1471 01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:46,360 This feels so natural and good. 1472 01:08:46,440 --> 01:08:48,720 We're just two idiots that get along really well, to be honest. 1473 01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:50,400 Exactly what we said when we were matching them. 1474 01:08:50,440 --> 01:08:51,800 (LAUGHTER) 1475 01:08:51,840 --> 01:08:53,200 And then... 1476 01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:54,680 There was something that happened. 1477 01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:56,280 ..Clint exposed. 1478 01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:57,680 What happened? 1479 01:08:57,760 --> 01:09:01,920 I come home, and I instantly know something's not right. 1480 01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:06,000 The unexpected turn of events that no-one saw coming. 1481 01:09:06,040 --> 01:09:08,920 I had to kind of divert my gaze. 1482 01:09:08,960 --> 01:09:10,960 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1483 01:09:12,320 --> 01:09:13,800 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 1484 01:09:13,880 --> 01:09:16,000 We're going to get straight to the matter at hand. 1485 01:09:16,880 --> 01:09:18,720 Paul's moment of truth... 1486 01:09:18,800 --> 01:09:20,400 I... (STAMMERS) 1487 01:09:20,480 --> 01:09:23,600 I've never done this in the past ever. 1488 01:09:23,680 --> 01:09:24,760 Oh, I'm sorry. Please. 1489 01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:26,200 I need to jump in here. I... 1490 01:09:26,280 --> 01:09:29,040 ..as he is held to account by the experts. 1491 01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:33,480 I cannot sit here and listen to this justification. 1492 01:09:34,480 --> 01:09:38,640 This is toxic, inappropriate and unacceptable behaviour. 1493 01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:42,200 Is this the end of the road for Carina and Paul? 1494 01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:44,280 I want you to tell us 1495 01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:47,800 why we should not kick you out of the experiment right now. 1496 01:09:50,120 --> 01:09:53,120 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1497 01:09:56,040 --> 01:09:58,760 (MUSIC FADES) 1498 01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:03,040 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv 108917

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