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NARRATOR: Previously...
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Hi, guys!
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Family and friends week...
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You guys are happy?
We are, we are.
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..deepened most of
our couple's bonds.
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WOMAN: You can see the way
Carina looks at you.
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Yeah, you look happy.
You really do.
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You can tell the chemistry
is definitely there,
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and I do see a future.
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To new beginnings and family.
WOMEN: Yes!
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Um...
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I've always wanted
to have a child.
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Tony had a shock revelation.
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He wants to have a baby.
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Serious!
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I can't reproduce.
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My stamp expired.
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(WHISTLES)
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They are not good enough
to be in your life.
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He is definitely not good enough
to be in my nephew's life.
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When Awhina and Adrian's families
caught up...
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I'd been mentioning my son.
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How dare you? How dare you?
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..emotions ran high.
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Actually, I'm just...
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I don't need to listen to this.
Bye.
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I'm done.
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Make sure you leave the apartment.
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Tonight...
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(HAUNTING MUSIC)
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WAITER: Dinner is served.
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PAUL: It's making me nervous
coming into the group now
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because I'm going to admit
to everyone what I've done.
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(GLASS DINGS)
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I did something that
I absolutely regret.
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What shocking act...
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It's unacceptable,
it's disgusting
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and I'm hating myself
for doing this.
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..threatens to tear apart one of
the experiment's strongest couples?
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I, um...
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC BUILDS)
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JOHN: It's very serious.
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Very, very, very serious.
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(HAUNTING MUSIC)
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(FOREBODING MUSIC)
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NARRATOR: It's the morning
of the fourth dinner party,
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and, after an eventful week meeting
each other's friends and family,
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overnight, there's been
a dramatic development.
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One of the experiment's
strongest couples
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are waking up
in separate apartments.
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(MUSIC CONTINUES)
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I felt anxious
waking up this morning,
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um, a little bit on edge
and just sad.
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Mm.
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So, last night,
Paul and I were coming back
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from a day out
with Rhi and Jeff in the Uber.
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We had a really good day together,
enjoying the sun.
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Very happy, lovey-dovey.
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And, in the Uber, I was putting on
music and requests and stuff,
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and I put on a song
and I said a comment
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that I've slept with this rapper,
and, um...
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I didn't think it was awkward.
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Paul and I,
we've spoken about our pasts
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and we've been open about that,
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so I didn't think
there was an issue at all.
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We just all laughed because,
obviously, everyone has a history,
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you know, before the experiment.
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And, honestly, I just thought
it was like a passing comment.
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Like, say, if Jeff had hooked up
with Dua Lipa once and he was like,
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"Do you know that I hooked up
with Dua Lipa when I was 25?"
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I'd be like, "Holy shit, well done.
That's actually insane."
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We sort of laughed
and thought nothing of it.
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And then we get home
and Paul's really upset.
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(UNEASY MUSIC)
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CARINA: Paul obviously
got offended by it,
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and got...felt a bit disrespected
in how I said it.
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He definitely, yeah,
wasn't his usual self.
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Um, he...you could tell
he was quite upset,
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and I, like, instantly was like,
"I'm so sorry."
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And I just, like, jumped at him
and hugged him and apologised and...
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(WIND WHISTLES)
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I was cuddling him
and, yeah, like, wrapped around him
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and he was like,
"I just need space."
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And he obviously didn't like that.
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So, I just said,
"Okay, fine, fine, go."
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(ECHOES)
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(MUSIC CONTINUES)
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And I turned around
and I went to bed,
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and that's when he got really angry
and he, yeah, punched the wall.
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I just completely
lost my nerves and...
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(SNIFFLES)
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(BREATHES SHAKILY)
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I...yeah, she couldn't give me my
space and I just absolutely lost it,
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and I just burst out
outside the room,
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and I just ended up just...
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(BREATHES SHAKILY)
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..punching a hole in the wall.
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(GENTLE, EERIE MUSIC)
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It escalated really quickly.
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I was just in shock and I just
stared and then he left, yeah.
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He slept in his own apartment
last night.
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I don't even know
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what my relationship is with Carina
right now, I don't know.
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(MUSIC CONTINUES)
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I'm just upset at myself right now.
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I'm just...
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I actually feel so ashamed
and so remorseful right now.
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(SNIFFLES)
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I definitely don't
condone his behaviour,
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and I don't think it's acceptable.
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Um...
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It's not something
I would want to put up with,
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especially if I'm going into,
like, a lifetime with this person.
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So, I think we've got some things
we need to sort out.
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But I'm not scared.
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I'm not scared of him.
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I'm not scared of being
in the same environment with him.
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So, I just want to speak to him
and hear what he has to say.
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(MUSIC SOFTLY FADES)
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Hi.
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You're okay.
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(DELICATE MUSIC)
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(PAUL SOBS)
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(SOBBING)
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I'm sorry.
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(SOBS, BREATHES DEEPLY)
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I'm so sorry, babe.
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How are you feeling? You okay?
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Yeah, I'm worried for you.
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Just, like, what, what...
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Like, when can I speak to you?
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When can I see you?
I know.
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I'm so sorry.
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(BREATHES HEAVILY)
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Oh, my goodness.
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So, how are you feeling?
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I'm so sorry.
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I just... I just... I just
couldn't stop thinking about it.
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I just haven't slept last night.
Just...
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I should have never
reacted that way, I swear.
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It's just... I just don't...
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(EXHALES)
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I promise you, like, that's
never going to happen again.
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(BREATHES SHAKILY)
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Just trying to understand what...
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Like, I didn't raise my voice
and I was, like, apologetic
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and, you know, kept trying to,
like, speak to you about it,
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and you were not wanting anything,
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like, so I'm just
trying to understand, like...
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I was really upset and...
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I was so...
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..so angry at that...
at that comment in the cab.
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It just felt... I felt
so uncomfortable and disrespected.
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Like, I was just like,
"Whoa, like, what the hell?"
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I just felt like an idiot.
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And...
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..I could hear you
trying to apologise,
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but I was... I was getting worked up
because it was a... it was...
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(STAMMERS)
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..because it was like,
"I'm sorry, but."
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(DISQUIETING MUSIC)
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I just... I couldn't really
take your apology sincerely
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because it was like
you were saying you're sorry,
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but then you're adding in "but".
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Does that make sense?
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And then I just...
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And all I wanted, like...
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I just wanted some space
to get my head straight
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because I'm the kind of person,
like, when I...
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When I get hella emotional,
I can't have a constructive chat,
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and I feel like...
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It's the fact that you couldn't
give me that space I needed.
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You got all upset at me
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about the fact that I wanted
to leave to go for a walk.
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You were...
You were really...
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You were really angry at me
and you were like,
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"Well, if that's what you want,
then just, yeah..."
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You go, "Like, I'm your wife,"
and you just...
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You kinda... you just...
you were like, "Yeah, then leave."
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And you just get hella upset at me
and that's why...
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I didn't do that, Paul. Relax.
Babe...
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You are so dramatic
and it's pissing me off.
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No, babe...
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Like, now I'm getting angry
because you make...
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So, I punched a wall
out of thin air for nothing?
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Paul, I said, "That's fine."
I was like, "Go, go, go."
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And I turned around and I went...
and I faced the other way.
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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Like, it just didn't
have to be as big as it was.
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Look, I have 100% overreacted
last night, okay?
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And I...and I know that,
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and I am genuinely...
I'm so sorry for that.
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(BREATHES SHAKILY)
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(GENTLE MUSIC)
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I'm seriously hating myself
for what I've done last night.
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I'm hating myself for it.
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Um, it's obviously
a bit aggravating.
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It's a bit annoying.
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It's a bit frustrating because
Paul has done the wrong thing.
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But...
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Yeah, I know, like, wholeheartedly,
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that he is not proud of himself
and his actions last night.
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And, obviously, everything up
to today has been going really well
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and, you know, we both
have feelings for one another
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and we care for one another.
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So, I'm not giving up.
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I want to give him
the benefit of the doubt.
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I want to give Paul the opportunity
to make it up to me.
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So, it's really up to him
to put in the work moving forward.
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Hm?
Yeah.
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(UPLIFTING MUSIC)
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NARRATOR: Tonight's dinner party
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officially marks the halfway point
of the experiment.
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And meeting friends and family
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has left many of our
original couples stronger than ever.
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JAMIE: Dave and I, we had
a really good meet the family day.
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Like, our families got along
like a house on fire,
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and I felt like
it brought us closer.
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So, like, I feel like my fuel
has just, like, kicked up heaps.
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Look at you, huh?
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Go Latin dancin'
at the dinner party.
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Cha-cha-cha.
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Feel like now I can really
picture my life with Dave,
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like, out of here.
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Like, it just became real.
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It's nice.
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(JEFF WOLF-WHISTLES)
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Wow.
Thank you.
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Jeff and I are at a really
good place at the moment.
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I feel like, every week,
we seem to get stronger as a couple.
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I think we've had a great week.
Yeah, same.
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I think, like, after
the friends and family visits,
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like, it was nice to share
to our loved ones,
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like, where we are
in the experiment.
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Yeah.
Um, but, no, I feel really...
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I feel really good at going
into the dinner party together.
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Same.
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While Jacqui and Ryan
have also had a great week together,
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heading into the dinner party,
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there's something weighing heavily
on Jacqui's mind.
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Ryan was really supportive for
the past week when I was really,
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I would say, distraught
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after Rhi had a big attack at me
at the commitment ceremony.
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Jacqui and Ryan have obviously had
some troubles in their relationship,
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and Jacqui reached out to Jeff
to catch up for a coffee
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without me there.
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I just feel like
it's not girl code to do that.
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I think
it's a little bit disrespectful.
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I'm upset at Rhi because
she's felt it necessary
250
00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:39,120
to spend her relationship time
at the commitment ceremony
251
00:12:39,200 --> 00:12:41,960
throwing shade on somebody else,
which is just disgusting.
252
00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:45,560
And I think that's
a crime against humanity.
253
00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:48,880
So, she thinks I broke girl code.
254
00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:50,720
I think she broke
the rules of humanity.
255
00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:53,560
I do want to, obviously,
stand up for myself today
256
00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:56,520
and, like, address what Rhi
has done to me and say, like,
257
00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:58,720
"I don't stand for that,
I'm not okay with it,"
258
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so I definitely will bring it up.
259
00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:01,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
260
00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:04,360
People deserve to know the truth
and, to be honest,
261
00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:06,640
her assumptions are getting
in the way of truth and justice
262
00:13:06,680 --> 00:13:07,800
in this case.
263
00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:10,840
(EERIE MUSIC)
264
00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:14,720
Down the hall,
the atmosphere is tense.
265
00:13:16,560 --> 00:13:17,560
You look good, Morena.
266
00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,040
(GASPS IN JEST)
Thank you.
267
00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:25,360
Morena is still coming to terms
with Tony's bombshell announcement.
268
00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,200
He wants to have a baby.
269
00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:30,360
That's why I'm not
into a 57-year-old.
270
00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:31,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
271
00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:33,360
Well, that makes it hard for me
to really...
272
00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:37,080
..fall for somebody that's older
and, you know...
273
00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:38,480
You've never said that.
274
00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,440
See this human being here?
275
00:13:42,040 --> 00:13:43,320
Have a good look at her.
276
00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:44,880
She's 57.
277
00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:46,840
She can't reproduce children.
278
00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:51,480
So, this is just another excuse,
another deflection.
279
00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:53,320
I've really had enough.
280
00:13:54,080 --> 00:13:55,920
You know, it's almost like
a dead end.
281
00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:57,600
Come to a T-intersection.
282
00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:00,640
I think we're going to be hopefully
best dressed again tonight.
283
00:14:00,680 --> 00:14:03,120
(MUSIC FADES)
284
00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:10,360
For one of the experiment's
most tumultuous couples,
285
00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:12,200
Awhina and Adrian.
286
00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:15,840
this week has left them
more divided than ever,
287
00:14:15,920 --> 00:14:19,480
and they're currently getting ready
in separate apartments.
288
00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:23,520
Adrian made a bunch of promises
on that couch last week
289
00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:27,520
to the group, to the experts,
to me,
290
00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:31,600
and I don't feel like
he's done anything of what he said.
291
00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:34,880
Last week,
Adrian left the experiment
292
00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:38,560
after he wasn't included in
a Channel 9 promo shoot.
293
00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:39,960
Where are you?
294
00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:47,080
When he finally returned,
295
00:14:47,160 --> 00:14:51,160
it was revealed he had been
to dinner with another bride.
296
00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:53,000
Why were you out for dinner
with Sierah Saturday night?
297
00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:54,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
298
00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:56,640
So, Awhina wanted out.
299
00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:59,000
I wrote "Sorry, leave".
300
00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:00,960
(MUSIC BUILDS THEN FADES)
301
00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:05,280
It's on your shoulders
to really do some big-time lifting.
302
00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:08,600
Yeah, I'm well aware
she's taking time from her son.
303
00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:11,200
Yeah.
So, it's like, I need to show up.
304
00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:16,920
However, an explosive family lunch
pushed them even further apart.
305
00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:20,840
I think you are focusing
a lot on the negatives because...
306
00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:23,240
He hasn't even shown up,
so let's just stop it there.
307
00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:24,720
From what I've heard...
He has not even shown up.
308
00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:26,280
From what I've heard...
Not even once.
309
00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:27,880
I was talking.
He has not even showed up.
310
00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:29,000
I don't care.
311
00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:31,000
You know what, I...
I actually... I'm just...
312
00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:32,640
I don't need to listen to this shit.
Goodbye.
313
00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:34,240
Pointless conversation.
It is.
314
00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:37,720
AWHINA: I was really blindsided
once again
315
00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:39,880
at our friends and family catch-up.
316
00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:42,480
Definitely felt like an attack.
317
00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:45,360
Felt like I was walking
into an interrogation.
318
00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:48,240
I feel like, if you want something
to really work with someone,
319
00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:50,320
you'd want your friends
and family to like them.
320
00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:52,880
So, I think,
if he truly wanted this to work,
321
00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:55,880
I would have walked into
a very different situation,
322
00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:57,400
and that's disappointing.
323
00:15:57,480 --> 00:16:00,520
You know, this was supposed to be
Adrian's redemption week,
324
00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:03,560
and it just doesn't feel like
that's happened.
325
00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:09,920
While our original couples have been
meeting with friends and family,
326
00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:14,000
this week, our newlyweds have
fast-tracked their marriages...
327
00:16:14,080 --> 00:16:15,680
Your shirt looks good.
Oh, thank you.
328
00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:16,680
Matching.
329
00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:19,280
..undertaking a relationship
crash course
330
00:16:19,320 --> 00:16:21,760
designed to strengthen their bond
331
00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:24,640
and bring them up to speed
with the other couples.
332
00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:25,880
TEEJAY: Dinner party x2.
333
00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:27,720
Do we have any beans to spill?
Nope.
334
00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:29,040
No beans?
Not really.
335
00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:32,560
Me and Teejay, I feel like we've
kind of nailed the tasks this week,
336
00:16:32,640 --> 00:16:35,480
and I do think
it brought us closer together.
337
00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:39,320
So, yeah, I'm feeling really good
about where we are at the moment.
338
00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:41,000
LAUREN: How exciting.
Another dinner.
339
00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:42,840
CLINT: Oh, I can't wait.
(SIGHS)
340
00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,320
I actually think it'll be
a pretty quiet night tonight.
341
00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:46,440
What makes you think that?
342
00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:48,080
I don't know.
343
00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:50,640
I just think that it's time
that everyone gets along.
344
00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:51,720
(BOTH LAUGH)
345
00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:54,200
I feel good about walking
into the dinner party with Clint.
346
00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:56,240
I mean, we're building
a friendship.
347
00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:59,080
He's very easy to hang out with,
get along with.
348
00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:00,800
So, yeah, it's going well.
349
00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:02,080
Cheers.
Cheers.
350
00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:03,440
(GLASSES CLINK)
351
00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:06,160
But, while
Lauren and Clint celebrate...
352
00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:07,440
(DRAMATIC BOOM)
353
00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:11,440
..Veronica and Eliot are getting
ready in separate apartments.
354
00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:15,400
Veronica and I, we're having issues.
355
00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:18,120
And, you know, it's upsetting
356
00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:21,400
because I really
put myself out there this week,
357
00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:25,880
and I tried to be vulnerable
but she didn't acknowledge that,
358
00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:28,560
and I don't really understand why.
359
00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:31,720
My younger sister, Bridie,
she fell into a coma.
360
00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:35,080
It felt like
it was the end of the world.
361
00:17:35,160 --> 00:17:36,880
Like, it felt like
there was no hope.
362
00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:39,960
Oh, what did you feel in your heart?
363
00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:42,280
Hopelessness.
Mm.
364
00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:46,760
This was the perfect opportunity
for him
365
00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:52,040
to just tell me something, anything,
and he chose nothing.
366
00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:55,880
I would love to know why
367
00:17:55,960 --> 00:18:00,200
my most painful memory
isn't enough for you.
368
00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:02,240
I didn't feel like
I learnt anything about you.
369
00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:03,840
Well, listen. Listen.
370
00:18:03,920 --> 00:18:06,000
No, I don't want to
listen to you anymore.
371
00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:08,920
While the pair later
tried to reconcile,
372
00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:11,680
it only made the situation worse.
373
00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:13,480
I don't trust you.
So, your walls are up.
374
00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:15,760
100%. Are you kidding me?
Yes.
375
00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:18,400
The way you spoke to Lauren
that night at the dinner party.
376
00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:19,480
Yeah, okay.
377
00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:20,920
The way you spoke to me...
378
00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:22,480
How did I speak to you?
..put my walls up.
379
00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:24,560
We're just going around in...
No, we're not.
380
00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:26,920
We just got to this thing
about how you don't trust me.
381
00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:28,240
Don't raise your voice at me.
382
00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:30,800
You were being unreasonable
and I will not tolerate it.
383
00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:32,520
This is so civil.
No, I've had enough.
384
00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:34,480
This is so civil.
I've had enough.
385
00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,240
Veronica admitted that
she's got her walls up.
386
00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:39,920
She doesn't trust me.
387
00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,560
But, when she said that,
I felt like,
388
00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:45,480
okay, now at least
it's out in the open.
389
00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:48,200
We can talk about it
and work to resolve it.
390
00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:51,960
But I feel like, every time
we start to get somewhere,
391
00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:54,920
she just loses it and storms out.
392
00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:59,480
And I really want to get past that
and try to make things work
393
00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:02,000
because I actually really like her.
394
00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:05,120
So, I'm going to go
knock on Veronica's door
395
00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:06,520
and see how she's doing.
396
00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:07,920
I think it would be good for us
397
00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:09,840
to walk in together
to the dinner party.
398
00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,520
I'm hoping she wants
to do that, as well.
399
00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:15,600
Hi.
Hey.
400
00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:18,640
How's it going?
Good. How are you?
401
00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:20,400
You look beautiful.
Thanks.
402
00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:22,200
Do you want to talk?
403
00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:24,720
Do I?
Yeah.
404
00:19:24,760 --> 00:19:25,920
Um, sure.
405
00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:27,920
Can I come in?
(FINGERNAILS TAP)
406
00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:29,080
Okay.
407
00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:32,360
What would you like to say?
408
00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:38,160
From my perspective, it felt like
we were starting to get somewhere.
409
00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:40,840
I don't feel that way.
410
00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:46,680
So... so, you saying to me
that you've got your walls up
411
00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:48,440
and that you don't trust me.
412
00:19:49,240 --> 00:19:52,600
That was a really big development
for me. Like, I didn't know that.
413
00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:56,160
So, that's what I mean by that.
414
00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:58,440
Well, I'm glad
that you got some insight from me,
415
00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:00,680
but I still have nothing from you.
416
00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:02,800
So, I don't feel that way.
417
00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:04,000
Right.
418
00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:06,960
(DELICATE, UNEASY MUSIC)
419
00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:10,000
So... so, like, what do you want?
420
00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:11,520
Like, what do you want from me?
421
00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:12,920
I'm not going to
spell it out to you.
422
00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:16,520
I've been really clear with you
about everything that I want
423
00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:18,560
from the beginning.
424
00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:20,360
Like, I'm not hearing,
like, an apology.
425
00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:22,800
I'm not hearing
any kind of accountability.
426
00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:24,360
What do you want an apology for?
427
00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:26,920
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
428
00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:30,720
If you don't believe that you
have a reason to apologise to me...
429
00:20:30,800 --> 00:20:33,320
I'm not your mother.
I wasn't brought here to fix you.
430
00:20:33,400 --> 00:20:35,640
It's up to you to tell me.
Nobody said that you're my mum.
431
00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:37,800
Sorry, just one sentence
that I could finish,
432
00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:40,200
I would really appreciate it, Eliot.
433
00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:41,920
Just one.
434
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:45,160
I don't appreciate you coming
in here and inciting an argument.
435
00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:48,200
I was minding my own business.
436
00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:51,280
You've come in here with
no apology, no accountability,
437
00:20:51,360 --> 00:20:53,720
no effort
to try and make this better.
438
00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:55,880
You're just starting an argument.
439
00:20:55,960 --> 00:20:57,840
I'm not interested in
doing this with you.
440
00:20:57,920 --> 00:20:59,720
I would really appreciate it
if you could leave.
441
00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:02,200
(TENSE MUSIC)
442
00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:05,560
All right, well,
enjoy your last dinner party.
443
00:21:08,120 --> 00:21:10,320
(DOOR OPENS AND SLAMS)
444
00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:17,480
(UPLIFTING MUSIC BUILDS)
445
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,520
Well, here we are.
Dinner party number four.
446
00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:28,000
Halfway through the experiment.
MEL: Yes.
447
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,000
JACQUI: Oh, thank you.
448
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:34,520
And this is a pivotal part
for the whole process
449
00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:36,320
because, the original couples,
450
00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:39,280
they're meeting the nearest
and dearest, the family members.
451
00:21:39,360 --> 00:21:42,240
And, for some couples,
it will bring them closer together,
452
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:43,560
no doubt about that.
453
00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:47,000
On a scale of one to ten, how
attracted are you to me right now?
454
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:48,520
Forty-five.
Oh...
455
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,160
But we've seen in the past
some couples
456
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:56,360
can actually really fall apart
when they see the family members,
457
00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:57,920
so it can be destabilising for them.
458
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:01,800
Also, our new arrivals
459
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:05,000
are, in fact, catching up
and doing the crash course.
460
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:06,520
(MUSIC SOARS)
461
00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:08,160
ALESSANDRA:
They've moved in together.
462
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:10,720
They've been doing intimacy week
and confessions week.
463
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:13,280
It's going to be really interesting
to see how they've caught on
464
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:15,240
in such a short period of time.
465
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:18,880
(UPLIFTING MUSIC FADES)
466
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,520
MEL: Okay, here we go.
467
00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:25,760
Hey, the floor is ours, baby.
Yay.
468
00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:27,000
Let's do a twirl.
469
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:28,600
Can I trust you?
470
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:33,160
Ryan and Jacqui twirling and happy
and the first ones in.
471
00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:34,960
That's a very fancy entrance.
472
00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:37,000
Cheers to being first in.
Cheers.
473
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:38,120
And a fantastic week.
474
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:39,280
Come on, let's sit down.
475
00:22:39,360 --> 00:22:42,520
I think this is the most together
that we've ever seen them
476
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,960
walk into a cocktail party.
477
00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:46,120
Yeah.
478
00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,000
Look at the way
she's looking into his eyes.
479
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:51,320
Yeah, yeah.
480
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:53,360
I just feel like
we've had such a good week.
481
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:55,240
Like, I feel like...
We've had the best week.
482
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:58,160
Yeah, and I haven't cried in
four days, which is a new record.
483
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,240
Hello!
Hey!
484
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,440
MEL: Ah, Teejay and Beth!
485
00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:08,440
Welcome, welcome.
How are you?
486
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:09,960
You guys look ravishing.
RYAN: Ravishing!
487
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:11,360
Hello!
You guys look delectable.
488
00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:13,800
Mwah. I'm good.
Good to see you.
489
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:17,760
Shocker. We're together again.
490
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:19,280
Hello!
Hello.
491
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:20,920
ALESSANDRA: Dave and Jamie.
492
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:22,240
Oh, here they are.
493
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,120
Hello, senorita.
Hello!
494
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,280
MEL: Wow. Looking fabulous, happy.
495
00:23:27,360 --> 00:23:28,880
Very much the team.
Yes.
496
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,520
MAN: Hey!
How you going?
497
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:34,960
Oh, solo.
498
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:36,720
Eliot's on his own.
On his own.
499
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:38,600
How are you, mate?
Yeah, good, mate.
500
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:39,640
How about yourself?
501
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:41,320
Riding solo this week?
Yeah.
502
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,760
JAMIE: Grab a drink
and come sit down, Eliot.
503
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:46,360
Well, we saw
an incredible turnaround with him
504
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:47,800
at the last commitment ceremony.
505
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,320
Didn't we? It was essentially
a 180-degree turn.
506
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:54,280
And I guess the question
that we were left with was,
507
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:55,400
"Is this real?
508
00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:58,720
"Is he able to actually
create this change in his life
509
00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:00,000
"and live it and breathe it?"
510
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:01,240
Yeah.
511
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:02,680
Hi, Eliot, hi...
Yeah!
512
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:03,840
(LAUGHTER)
513
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,040
Uh, walking in alone wasn't ideal.
514
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,080
I feel a little bit disappointed.
515
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:11,280
It feels like my effort's
going to waste a little bit here.
516
00:24:11,360 --> 00:24:14,560
I'm trying to make it work
with Veronica,
517
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,760
and she's not reciprocating that.
518
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:20,840
So, I think tonight is a kind of
a bit of a sink-or-swim moment.
519
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,240
But I'm honestly not that hopeful.
520
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,440
JACQUI: How's your week been?
521
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:29,320
Yeah, not too bad.
Yeah?
522
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,960
So, well, I'm glad to see
you and Brian have come in together.
523
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:34,760
So, good vibes continuing?
Yeah.
524
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:36,880
Basically, after
the commitment ceremony,
525
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,800
I was pretty distraught
by the behaviour of Rhi.
526
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,360
(UNSETTLING MUSIC)
527
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,960
JACQUI: I feel like
I'm owed an apology.
528
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,360
Um, like, I felt really disrespected
529
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:48,880
and I felt, like,
really hurt about it.
530
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:52,040
And I've been pretty distraught
the week and crying most days,
531
00:24:52,120 --> 00:24:54,480
and Ryan's just been
really, really supportive.
532
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:57,920
I guess it's nice that,
in some way, you know,
533
00:24:57,960 --> 00:24:59,680
it's maybe brought you two together.
534
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:00,840
It brought us together, yeah.
535
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:02,880
(TENSE MUSIC)
536
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:06,880
(CHEERING AND SHOUTING)
Hey!
537
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:08,160
(LAUGHTER)
538
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:09,200
Hi, guys.
539
00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:11,200
Ah, Rhi and Jeff.
Ah!
540
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,680
RHI: Hi! How are you?
You look great.
541
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:15,440
Thank you. So do you.
Thank you.
542
00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,000
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
543
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:22,560
I'll tell you what, Jacqui doesn't
seem too happy to see Jeff and Rhi.
544
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,200
Yes, she hasn't got up
to greet them.
545
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:25,400
No.
546
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,680
Hey, Jacqui. Hey, Ryan.
547
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:30,320
JEFF: Hey, guys.
Hey, how are youse?
548
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:33,840
(FROSTY, DRAMATIC MUSIC)
549
00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:43,520
When Rhi walked in,
I felt disgusted.
550
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,840
I don't want to look at her.
551
00:25:45,880 --> 00:25:47,040
I'll go... Is there rose?
552
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:48,280
Yes, please.
553
00:25:48,360 --> 00:25:52,960
She's acting like she's my friend
when, the last time I saw her,
554
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:56,520
she ridiculed me, shamed me,
humiliated me.
555
00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:58,080
And now she's saying hi to me.
556
00:25:58,120 --> 00:26:00,040
Like, no, mate, like...
557
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:01,840
Cheers.
558
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:04,040
I've got a lecture for Rhi
559
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,600
I've got a lecture in respect.
560
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:08,760
I've got a lecture in truth.
561
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,520
And I've got a lecture in...
562
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,240
What's my other lecture about?
563
00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,200
(CURIOUS MUSIC)
564
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:16,280
Um...
565
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:18,840
But anyway.
566
00:26:20,360 --> 00:26:22,880
I have a lot of things
that I want to educate Rhi on,
567
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:27,920
and I think I deserve the time
to just say my piece.
568
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,960
(SINISTER MUSIC)
569
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:37,000
(SOFT, FOREBODING MUSIC)
570
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:38,840
Hey, Jacqui. Hey, Ryan.
571
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:40,960
JEFF: Hey, guys.
Hey. How are youse?
572
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,640
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
573
00:26:50,120 --> 00:26:51,600
Are you okay?
No, I'm fine.
574
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:52,640
I just didn't think
575
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:54,600
we'd actually come into the dinner
party with that, I was like...
576
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:55,720
I thought the whole thing
was like...
577
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,640
that was meant to be,
like, a case closed.
578
00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:58,920
I thought so, too.
579
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,400
But, like, all week,
she's been, like, in tears.
580
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
581
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,920
Jacqui didn't say hi to me,
which is a little bit disheartening
582
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:08,720
because I think
I've put up with her shit
583
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:10,760
for the last...
pretty much since day one,
584
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:15,840
from the moment she messaged
Jeff asking me not to be there,
585
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:20,360
and I feel like, if anyone has
anything to be annoyed about,
586
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:24,040
it's the fact that you have brought
me into your relationship drama.
587
00:27:24,120 --> 00:27:28,760
So, it's a little bit annoying
that she doesn't acknowledge me.
588
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,600
My mind is like...
JAMIE: No, don't worry about that.
589
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:34,400
You focus on what's going on here
first and then we'll address that.
590
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:35,440
Don't worry about that.
591
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:36,840
I don't want to address it,
to be honest.
592
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,040
Then let's focus on
what's been going on...
593
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:40,760
Let's talk about the good stuff.
594
00:27:42,360 --> 00:27:45,360
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
595
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:46,720
What's happening?
596
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:48,160
Adrian's solo.
597
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,840
Oh, no.
No Awhina.
598
00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,440
I lost my wife.
599
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:53,800
How are you, bro?
What's going on?
600
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:55,440
How are you, my man?
Hi.
601
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:57,440
Bad sign
after the commitment ceremony.
602
00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,920
He made so many promises
about changing his approach.
603
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,120
We needed him to step up.
Absolutely.
604
00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:03,400
So, what's happened here?
605
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:04,640
What's happening?
606
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,040
This is your redemption week.
Yeah, was supposed to be.
607
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:08,080
But no.
608
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:11,840
We had the family day,
and it was just a disaster, bro.
609
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:14,000
You know, it didn't last longer
than five minutes.
610
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:15,960
Oh.
Oh, God.
611
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:17,040
It didn't go the best.
612
00:28:17,120 --> 00:28:20,360
My family came in first,
and then they sat down
613
00:28:20,440 --> 00:28:22,240
and we started talking about it,
obviously.
614
00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:24,400
I was like, "Oh, well,
you guys have heard my side.
615
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:26,040
"Let's hear Awhina's."
616
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:29,400
Then her sister comes in.
617
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:32,480
Straight on the defence,
like, yelling at me,
618
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:33,720
I'm like, "Whoa, relax."
619
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,520
I'm just upset that she won't
acknowledge her sister's behaviour.
620
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,440
It's like, "Hey..."
MAN: She should apologise.
621
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,720
Yeah, you shouldn't yell
and you shouldn't say names.
622
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,840
For me, it's not about
the families now. It's about us.
623
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:51,880
It's just about what we do
with what happened,
624
00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:54,720
how we deal with it, that's it,
and how do we go from here?
625
00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:58,720
Hey!
Hi!
626
00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:00,600
What have I missed, everyone?
627
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:03,120
MEL: Here's Awhina.
JOHN: Ah, here we go.
628
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:04,240
Hey, beautiful.
629
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,480
I hope everyone
wasn't gossiping about me.
630
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:09,200
(TENSE MUSIC)
631
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:12,560
Honestly, if Adrian
had approached this past week
632
00:29:12,640 --> 00:29:15,280
with genuine willingness
to do the work,
633
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,480
we would have come in
together today,
634
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,840
and I would have literally
spoke his praises.
635
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:21,120
Hi.
Hi. You look nice.
636
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:23,920
Hey.
637
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:25,200
But there's been none of that.
638
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:31,960
And it's been a reoccurring thing
where he's made some bold promises,
639
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:33,600
and he just hasn't lived up to it.
640
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:45,680
Have you not already done that?
641
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,480
Yeah, but I don't want to talk
about it in front of everyone
642
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,360
in the sense of, like, trying to
defend each other 'cause you're...
643
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:51,760
But you just did it.
644
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:55,800
Just before I entered the room,
645
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,920
I could hear Adrian
talking to everyone
646
00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,320
and essentially addressing
friends and family.
647
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:04,000
And then he pulls me aside and goes,
"Hey, let's not talk about this."
648
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,120
And I was like, well,
hang on a minute.
649
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,440
I don't think you realise
but I actually heard you
650
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,720
talking about that day.
651
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,080
Why is it that only you're allowed
to speak about the situation?
652
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:14,280
If you want to,
you can talk about it.
653
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:16,320
I'm just gonna say I'm not gonna
feel the need to talk about it.
654
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:17,600
But you just did.
655
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,120
This is the whole control element
656
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:20,640
to what's going on
in their relationship.
657
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,520
What we can talk about,
what we can't talk about.
658
00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:25,000
Adrian has one set of rules
for himself
659
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:26,840
and a different set for Awhina.
660
00:30:26,920 --> 00:30:28,800
But did you not say to me you
don't want to talk about it?
661
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:30,480
Yeah.
Yeah?
662
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,960
But you've done that
with only one side.
663
00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,280
Not one side.
I haven't said anything...
664
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:36,600
I actually said this.
665
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:37,760
I said this is the thing...
666
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:39,360
But why is it that only you
can talk about it?
667
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:41,320
You can talk about it.
Okay, that's fine. I'm just saying.
668
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,680
Interesting, though,
she seems to be pushing back more.
669
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:46,920
Yeah.
You know, she's calling him out.
670
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,880
She's not just listening
and staying quiet.
671
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:51,720
You're so confusing, Adrian.
You know what?
672
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:53,640
You tell me one thing
and then you do another.
673
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,520
You know, make up your mind.
674
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,680
Usually, when I have
a conversation with Adrian,
675
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:02,760
my stomach drops a little
when he asks me to do something
676
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:04,200
because I want to do it.
677
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:09,240
I look at him and I want to heal
and I want to fix the situation.
678
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:11,480
But I didn't get that feeling today.
679
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:14,280
All I felt was...
hang on a minute.
680
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:16,960
When I'm not present,
you can say your piece.
681
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:20,280
The moment I come...come around,
I have to be silenced.
682
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:21,520
That's not fair.
683
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:24,160
I just want to have my voice heard.
684
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,000
Hello.
685
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:30,120
Hey.
686
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,520
Oh, Lauren and Clint.
Yes.
687
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:33,680
There he is!
688
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:35,800
We've actually felt good about
walking into the dinner party.
689
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:37,200
It was fun vibe.
690
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:38,480
Hi, sweetheart.
Hello.
691
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:40,680
How are you feeling?
Good. How are you?
692
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:44,000
No.
693
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:45,240
Oh, didn't you?
No.
694
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:46,760
I'm gonna go get a drink.
695
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:47,960
Well, that's what...
696
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:50,280
The bar was that way.
He was that way.
697
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:51,800
Yeah.
I know my priorities.
698
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:53,640
Do you want sparkling?
Yes, please.
699
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:54,920
Fill her up.
700
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:57,600
Hey.
701
00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:59,880
(CHEERING AND EXCLAIMING)
702
00:31:59,920 --> 00:32:01,040
You cheeky little...
703
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,400
Oh, Tony!
Oh, Tony in pink!
704
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,000
Fabulous once again.
705
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,160
Couple dressing.
They are couple dressing.
706
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:10,400
All right.
707
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:13,560
So, Tony's come up
with another story.
708
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:15,480
He wants to have a baby.
709
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:17,520
That's a lot to take.
710
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:19,600
That's not what I signed up for.
711
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,560
You know, it's really hard.
712
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:23,720
I'm right there with you, trust me.
713
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,640
MAN: Hey!
(CHEERING AND EXCLAMATIONS)
714
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:31,240
Oh.
Oh, here's Veronica.
715
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:34,560
Hey.
Hello.
716
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:37,240
Yeah, I'm open to
talking to Eliot tonight,
717
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,720
but I'm not going to
go out of my way.
718
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:42,600
You're all alone.
I'm all alone!
719
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,560
You look so hot.
720
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,320
I love spending time
with the other couples
721
00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:51,120
and getting to know them,
and I'm excited to see Lauren.
722
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:52,800
So sweet.
723
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,400
And, look, we're both in a corset.
That's just like...
724
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,840
Mwah!
Mwah!
725
00:32:59,080 --> 00:33:00,880
Eliot's looking nervous.
726
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:07,280
My two wives were arm in arm,
and it was like an unholy alliance.
727
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:10,760
I was kind of
waiting for the slap, basically.
728
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:12,320
Yeah.
729
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:14,520
I'm gonna go have a drink.
Yeah, go grab one.
730
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,560
It's so interesting because everyone
that Eliot gets matched with
731
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,240
spends a lot of time alone.
732
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:23,080
JAMIE: I just realised
Paul and Carina aren't in yet.
733
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:26,480
(GENTLE, UNEASY MUSIC)
734
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:28,760
(PAUL SIGHS)
735
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:56,560
(MUSIC BUILDS)
736
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,440
(WHISTLING AND CHEERING)
Hey!
737
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:03,920
(UNSETTLING MUSIC)
Hey.
738
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:05,120
Welcome.
Hi.
739
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:06,880
Carina and Paul.
Carina and Paul.
740
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:08,080
Here we go.
741
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:09,920
How are ya?
Good, you all right?
742
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:11,600
Yeah, I'm okay. Better, better.
Yeah, that's good.
743
00:34:12,720 --> 00:34:16,000
Paul and Carina came in
and you can see they're struggling.
744
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,120
How are you?
Good. How are you going?
745
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:19,920
Okay.
You all right?
746
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:21,320
Paul and Carina,
747
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:23,800
I'm looking forward to seeing,
I guess, where they're at.
748
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:25,960
They've had a little bit of a drama.
749
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,440
Okay. I've been better.
750
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:31,080
And I can see that
it's really affected both of them.
751
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:36,120
It's a very different feeling coming
into this dinner party with Paul.
752
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:41,000
I'm quite anxious, nervous,
a little uncomfortable
753
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:44,120
and just, yeah, not my usual self.
754
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:49,360
(GLASS DINGS)
Dinner is served.
755
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,440
(ETHEREAL MUSIC)
756
00:34:57,720 --> 00:35:00,160
(MUSIC WARPS DRAMATICALLY)
757
00:35:02,240 --> 00:35:03,520
Yes.
(WOMAN'S VOICE ECHOES)
758
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,640
It's making me nervous coming here
to...into the group now because...
759
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:14,240
..I'm going to admit to everyone
what I've done.
760
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:16,960
(HAUNTING MUSIC)
761
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:22,160
I did something
that I'm really not proud of
762
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,120
that I'm still regretting right now.
763
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:28,600
MAN: Cheers.
MAN: Cheers, guys.
764
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,800
I don't know how
people are going to react.
765
00:35:34,080 --> 00:35:37,480
Hopefully, I'm not going to
be judged too much for that,
766
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:40,680
but, if I do, then... my own fault.
767
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,440
(JACQUI GIGGLES)
Sorry.
768
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:44,520
Cheers.
769
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:45,880
Cheers, guys.
Cheers.
770
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:47,400
(VOICES MUFFLED, DARK MUSIC)
771
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:48,720
So, I'm going to...
772
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,000
Probably straight away, I'll
probably just get it off my chest
773
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,000
and admit to everyone
what I've done.
774
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:55,400
(GLASS DINGS)
775
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:58,600
(FOREBODING MUSIC)
776
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:01,360
Sorry, I just want to, um...
777
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:04,720
(MUSIC CONTINUES SOFTLY)
778
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:08,040
Um...
(CLEARS THROAT)
779
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,560
I'm sure a few of you have realised
780
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:13,240
that I haven't been my full self
walking in here tonight.
781
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:21,520
I did something that
I absolutely regret.
782
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:24,560
(MUSIC WARPS AND RACES)
783
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:28,160
Something that is...
that is absolutely unacceptable.
784
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:33,120
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
785
00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:36,600
Um...
786
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:43,560
(MUSIC AMPLIFIES)
787
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:46,880
(MUSIC FADES)
788
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,920
(UNNERVING MUSIC)
789
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:57,520
(GLASS DINGS)
790
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,760
(MUFFLED CONVERSATION, EERIE MUSIC)
791
00:37:03,720 --> 00:37:05,640
Sorry, I just want to, um...
792
00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:09,040
Um...
793
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:13,880
I'm sure a few of you have realised
794
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:16,680
that I haven't been my full self
walking in here tonight.
795
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:25,560
I did something that
I absolutely regret.
796
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:32,200
Something that is...
that is absolutely unacceptable.
797
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:33,320
Ooh.
Oh, no.
798
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:35,080
Come on. What's happened?
799
00:37:41,240 --> 00:37:42,360
Um...
800
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:46,840
Um...
(CLEARS THROAT)
801
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:51,960
Carina and I,
we had our first big fight...
802
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:53,880
(TENSE MUSIC)
803
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:57,920
..um, after a few things
that she said to me
804
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:04,800
that made me feel, uh, you know,
embarrassed and betrayed and...
805
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:08,760
and we had a massive argument.
806
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:09,920
Um...
807
00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:14,000
Ooh.
808
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:18,840
Whenever I go through a big fight,
I'm someone who withdraw,
809
00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:20,760
and I need my space,
and I need to be left alone.
810
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,600
But Carina chased me
and just asked me to stay,
811
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:26,320
and that's when
I started to feel trapped.
812
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,560
And I understand that Carina
just wanted to resolve the situation
813
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:31,640
straight away.
814
00:38:31,720 --> 00:38:33,880
She just wanted to be able
to go to bed at peace.
815
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:37,880
But I felt trapped
and I just wanted to leave
816
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:39,960
and obviously that made me
even more angry,
817
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:43,720
and, yeah, and then,
in just that moment, I just, I...
818
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:45,920
Everything just happened so fast.
819
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:47,720
(MUSIC INTENSIFIES)
820
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:49,360
And then, um...
821
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:51,920
I...
822
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:53,600
(CLEARS THROAT)
823
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:58,200
I threw a punch in our...
in our bedroom door.
824
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:05,000
I lost control and I punched
a hole in the bedroom door.
825
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:06,960
Oh, no.
826
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:09,560
(UNSETTLING MUSIC)
827
00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:12,080
Threw a punch.
828
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:15,680
In the door.
829
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:22,840
It's very serious.
Yeah.
830
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:25,520
Very, very, very serious.
Yeah.
831
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:28,520
It's just not the right thing to do.
It's...
832
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:30,040
It's unacceptable.
It's disgusting.
833
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:34,080
And I'm still hating myself
for doing this.
834
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:37,000
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
835
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:40,680
It should bother you.
Mm.
836
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:43,280
Yes.
And it should bother Carina.
837
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,440
I've apologised to Carina
multiple times.
838
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:50,600
I want to apologise to you again
in front of everyone here.
839
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,880
I am genuinely...
I'm so sorry for that.
840
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:59,200
This is...
This is not me.
841
00:39:59,240 --> 00:40:00,800
Um, I've never done that before.
842
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:02,120
I've never done that in my life.
843
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:06,760
That's obviously
not going to happen again.
844
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:10,000
Well, this is something
that can never happen again.
845
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:11,440
No.
Not ever.
846
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:14,480
Paul has behaved
in a totally unacceptable way.
847
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:15,560
That's right.
848
00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:19,000
And he needs to be able
to control his behaviour, period.
849
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,880
(MUSIC CONTINUES GENTLY)
850
00:40:22,680 --> 00:40:24,200
Did you notice the energy
in the room?
851
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:26,960
It's very...
it's quite low and quiet and...
852
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:28,000
Yeah.
853
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:29,720
And that just tells me
854
00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:31,480
the group just doesn't know
how to handle this.
855
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:38,080
I think, like,
you know, where I stand, Paul,
856
00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:40,480
and, like,
you're a good mate of mine in here.
857
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,320
I'd be wrong if I said
it didn't let me down a little bit.
858
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:46,560
Yeah, I don't...
I don't condone it at all, so...
859
00:40:48,280 --> 00:40:50,400
If you're that angry, you move away.
860
00:40:51,720 --> 00:40:53,320
You could just take yourself
out of the situation.
861
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:54,400
I don't think...
862
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:57,080
That's not okay.
863
00:40:57,760 --> 00:40:59,920
I've been feeling sick
because I've never reacted this way.
864
00:41:00,000 --> 00:41:02,840
And then I just... Oh, I'm just...
I just... I just... yeah, I'm...
865
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:05,000
I'm just so disappointed in myself.
866
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,400
In any circumstances where there is
heightened emotions and whatnot,
867
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:12,120
lashing out physically,
never acceptable ever,
868
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:14,520
under any circumstances.
869
00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:17,360
(SOMBRE MUSIC)
870
00:41:17,400 --> 00:41:19,640
Carina, how are you feeling?
871
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:21,800
Yeah, um...
872
00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:28,680
I can't read her face.
Mm.
873
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:34,160
Um, yeah.
874
00:41:34,240 --> 00:41:38,280
This behaviour
obviously came by surprise.
875
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:41,520
It was a little bit of a shock,
I guess,
876
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:46,960
but like, honestly, like,
he's not one to be like this.
877
00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:50,880
He doesn't treat me incorrectly,
like...
878
00:41:51,720 --> 00:41:54,800
So, I wasn't scared.
I'm not scared.
879
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:58,240
I'm not scared to be in
the apartment with him,
880
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:01,800
and he was so upset
about his behaviour and what he did.
881
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:04,880
So, to be able to recognise
the behaviour and...
882
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:09,000
and I know that's not acceptable and
I will not accept it or tolerate it,
883
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:12,400
but he understands what he's done.
884
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:17,320
He's taking accountability
and owning his actions.
885
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:21,200
And, like, I forgive him.
886
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:28,920
I'm embarrassed about what happened
and how Paul acted
887
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:32,520
because Paul isn't
that type of character at all
888
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:36,960
and, you know, it's a very
out-of-character experience.
889
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:41,720
We have a very strong relationship
and, you know, this is real life.
890
00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:45,560
Like, we are a real relationship
where fights happen,
891
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:47,200
situations happen.
892
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:49,920
It's not all
rainbows and butterflies.
893
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:53,440
But I hope he learns from this.
894
00:42:54,360 --> 00:42:56,840
You do have ups and downs,
you know, and it's just like,
895
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:58,080
how do you move forward?
896
00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:01,400
And I don't want to throw
in the towel and give up.
897
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:04,360
Carina is obviously
putting on a very brave face,
898
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:08,240
She's very much representing
the two of them as a united front,
899
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:11,200
but surely this has had
an impact on her.
900
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:12,400
Mm.
Let's be very clear.
901
00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:13,960
There's nothing normal
about that behaviour.
902
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:15,440
No, there is not.
903
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:19,000
There's nothing acceptable
about that behaviour or appropriate.
904
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:23,480
(DELICATE MUSIC)
905
00:43:23,560 --> 00:43:26,560
The last thing I want is for
Carina to feel unsafe around me,
906
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,960
um, and...
907
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:30,160
Yeah. So...
908
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:33,200
Yeah. Sorry again.
909
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,560
He did take accountability for it
910
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:42,920
but, like, you know, that's
something that should be called out,
911
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:44,080
that behaviour.
912
00:43:44,160 --> 00:43:48,120
Even if you're able
to acknowledge it,
913
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:50,000
it's still despicable behaviour,
914
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,840
and that's something I want
to have a chat with him about
915
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:55,880
and say, like, you know,
hold him to account
916
00:43:55,960 --> 00:44:00,640
from one man to another,
but that wasn't the right time.
917
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:04,800
What he did isn't good enough
and it's not acceptable.
918
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:08,760
He's made a bad mistake and
he's hopefully learned from that
919
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:10,240
and doesn't do it again.
920
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:18,000
I mean, this is absolutely,
totally unexpected for this couple.
921
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:22,120
They were really our loved-up,
you know, relationship
922
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:23,200
from the word go.
923
00:44:23,240 --> 00:44:24,280
Yeah, yeah.
924
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,320
This is clearly
their biggest challenge,
925
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,560
and it's a very serious one
926
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:33,320
and this is something that
we absolutely have to call out...
927
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:36,560
..and explore in great depth.
928
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:39,280
(TENSE MUSIC BUILDS THEN FADES)
929
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,720
(LIVELY MUSIC)
930
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,280
So, I'm a fish mum now.
931
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:51,640
Yes!
(LAUGHTER)
932
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:53,160
We adopted Billy's fish.
933
00:44:53,240 --> 00:44:57,560
Um, but we are... we're navigating
through parenthood.
934
00:44:57,640 --> 00:44:59,320
(LAUGHTER)
I'm the fun mum.
935
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:00,840
Not really. I wish I was.
936
00:45:00,920 --> 00:45:02,880
He always lets them
get away with murder.
937
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:04,480
(LAUGHTER)
938
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:06,320
We had our family day, as well.
We had family day.
939
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:07,920
That was really...
It was really good.
940
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,920
Um, it was good to see,
like, my mum and her parents
941
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:13,760
with...you know, you see
the happiness in their eyes.
942
00:45:13,840 --> 00:45:16,080
Dave and I, I guess,
are, like, boring
943
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:17,840
but it's really good to be boring.
944
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,520
I mean, he looks like
a bloody snack.
945
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,840
I'm like, cha-cha,
slide on him after.
946
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:25,080
(TANGO MUSIC)
947
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:27,000
His mum asked about our sex life
948
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:29,320
first question with
my dad at the table.
949
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,480
The "Are you satisfied?"
question was my favourite,
950
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:34,960
and my dad acted like
he's never seen a table before.
951
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:36,200
He's like...
952
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:38,440
(SQUEALS OF LAUGHTER)
WOMAN: That is hilarious.
953
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:42,640
Jamie and I's bond
and our strengths,
954
00:45:42,720 --> 00:45:45,360
I think it's visible to everyone,
you know, it's easy to see.
955
00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,560
You know, it gives me
a nice, warm, fuzzy feeling
956
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,240
sitting there and knowing
that we're going really well.
957
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:54,840
(LAUGHTER, INTROSPECTIVE MUSIC)
958
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:05,040
It's hard for me to look around the
room and see all the happy couples
959
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:08,520
because, Adrian and I,
we're not okay,
960
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,920
and I can't put on a front
for everyone.
961
00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:16,040
But it's uncomfortable having
to talk about your relationship
962
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:17,800
when things aren't going great.
963
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,320
JEFF: Where are you guys at
at the moment, Awhina?
964
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:25,920
Um, we're in separate apartments.
965
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:27,280
Right.
Oh.
966
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:29,200
Unfortunately, we had
967
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:32,120
a really upsetting
friends and family catch-up.
968
00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:34,560
Ours went for less than ten minutes.
969
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:35,840
Oh, shit.
970
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:41,640
His sisters, they asked me, "What
does showing up look like to you?
971
00:46:41,720 --> 00:46:46,200
"Because Adrian has shown up for you
more than he has any other partner.
972
00:46:46,240 --> 00:46:48,240
"You're not recognising the good.
973
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:50,000
"You're only pointing out
his failures."
974
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:53,440
I haven't even pointed out
his failures at this point.
975
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:55,160
I haven't even said anything
at this point.
976
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:56,160
That's not how it went.
977
00:46:56,240 --> 00:46:57,640
I couldn't even articulate
a conversation.
978
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:00,600
The reason why that
upset me so much
979
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:02,640
is, because if you see a future
with someone,
980
00:47:02,720 --> 00:47:06,160
why would you want to alienate them
against your friends and family?
981
00:47:06,200 --> 00:47:08,920
(DISQUIETING MUSIC)
982
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:10,840
I think, just,
at the end of the day,
983
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,160
there was a lot of false promises
made by Adrian to me
984
00:47:13,240 --> 00:47:14,600
at the commitment ceremony...
No, there wasn't.
985
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:17,000
..and he didn't...
he didn't mean any of it
986
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:19,480
because his actions
speak louder than words,
987
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,920
and there was no reconciliation
on your end.
988
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,680
There was no redemption week
on your end.
989
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:29,480
If anything, I'm actually confused
as to why you wrote 'stay'
990
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:31,640
because it doesn't feel like
it was for me.
991
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:32,760
Okay.
992
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:34,680
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
993
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:37,200
I mean, this is the very
key question here, isn't it?
994
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:41,240
Because we challenged him and said,
"Awhina's written 'leave'.
995
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,120
"You're saying 'stay'.
996
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:45,480
"So, you're going to
have to up your game here.
997
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:48,800
On the couch, though, you said,
"It's my turn to show up."
998
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:50,040
So, how did you show up this week?
999
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:51,760
Yeah, yeah.
Show up when? Show up when?
1000
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:53,680
Did you see a change
in his behaviour?
1001
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:56,200
Yeah. Okay, okay. Perfect example.
Yes. Perfect example.
1002
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:58,280
How have you shown up?
How have you shown up?
1003
00:47:58,320 --> 00:47:59,400
'Cause she's not seen it?
1004
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:00,840
We went... We went for a walk.
1005
00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:02,720
I said,
"Hey, come for a walk together."
1006
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:04,880
So, that was me
trying to make an effort.
1007
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:07,440
Um...
1008
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:09,400
(WHIMSICAL MUSIC)
1009
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:11,240
"I've been showing up.
1010
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:14,000
"I asked Awhina to go for a walk."
1011
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:16,920
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1012
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:19,360
What? That's...
1013
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:20,600
Wow!
1014
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:22,200
Are you joking?
1015
00:48:22,240 --> 00:48:23,800
How aren't you married already?
1016
00:48:24,720 --> 00:48:25,920
And then...
1017
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:28,320
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1018
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:31,360
And then, so I said, "Let's make...
let's watch a movie tonight."
1019
00:48:32,720 --> 00:48:33,680
Did we watch a movie?
1020
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:36,160
Yeah, because we finished the day
at 10:00 and we got tired.
1021
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:37,160
And then...
1022
00:48:37,240 --> 00:48:38,880
So, you didn't?
Yeah.
1023
00:48:38,960 --> 00:48:41,240
Yeah, so, we didn't watch a movie
that night because it was late.
1024
00:48:42,240 --> 00:48:45,360
And then I messaged her
and I was just like,
1025
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:47,520
"Oh, hey, let's go for dinner,
1026
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:49,680
"so we can we can
sort of come to terms..."
1027
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:52,080
Did you have dinner?
No, well, she came in late.
1028
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:54,400
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1029
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:55,800
I'm lost.
1030
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:58,640
Have you guys gone out
for a nice dinner?
1031
00:48:58,680 --> 00:48:59,680
Yeah, of course.
1032
00:48:59,720 --> 00:49:01,760
You haven't once this whole time?
1033
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:03,160
Yeah, we have.
No, we haven't.
1034
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:06,840
We went to Nando's.
Oh, fuck.
1035
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:10,600
(SQUEALS OF LAUGHTER)
1036
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:11,760
Plot twist.
1037
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,240
"Yeah, we went to Nando's together."
1038
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:17,280
MAN: What's wrong with Nando's?
(LAUGHTER)
1039
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:19,840
JAMIE: Adrian, Adrian,
if your siblings reckon
1040
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:21,840
this is the most you've shown up
in a relationship,
1041
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:23,960
then you must have just been
breathing in your other one.
1042
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:25,280
What?
1043
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:28,880
All he had to do was exist
next to his other girlfriend.
1044
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:31,040
(LAUGHTER)
MORENA: We're sorted.
1045
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:32,800
Everyone's missing how I'm feeling.
1046
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,120
Has anyone heard here what I need?
1047
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:37,520
(PLAYFUL MUSIC)
1048
00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,920
Do I not exist in this relationship?
Do my feelings not exist?
1049
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:42,320
Do what I need not exist?
1050
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:45,280
You're so focused on
the negatives and what I don't...
1051
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:47,040
Adrian, I...
You never see what I actually do.
1052
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:48,640
Doesn't matter what I do.
1053
00:49:48,720 --> 00:49:51,200
I can literally say
I move mountains for her
1054
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:53,640
and have it on recording
and people will...
1055
00:49:53,720 --> 00:49:55,600
Everyone on this table
will still say, "No, you didn't."
1056
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:57,000
And Awhina will say,
"No, you didn't.
1057
00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,240
"It's good enough, not showing up."
So...
1058
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,760
Forget it, bro. It doesn't matter
what I do, it's not good enough.
1059
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:03,040
RHI: I can't even listen to him.
1060
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:07,040
It's pretty obvious that Adrian's
done nothing to show up for Awhina
1061
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:10,920
since the last commitment ceremony,
nothing.
1062
00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:13,000
So, how do I show up, then?
How do I show up, then?
1063
00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:14,760
Just be more understanding,
that's all.
1064
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:16,840
Just, like, stop being so combative.
I'm not combative.
1065
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:19,240
Actually understand...
I'm just...I'm just telling my side.
1066
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,680
She likes you, Adrian.
She wants it to work.
1067
00:50:21,720 --> 00:50:22,800
She likes you.
1068
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,880
She wants to give you
the best chance.
1069
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:27,400
She's not hard to please.
1070
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:28,880
She's really not.
1071
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:33,760
I'm honestly really fed up
with how Adrian treats Awhina.
1072
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:37,080
The look on her face
just goes to show how sad she is.
1073
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:39,040
Whatever you're doing is wrong.
1074
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:43,240
Just admit that
you haven't done anything
1075
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:46,280
that the experts sent you to do
to improve your relationship.
1076
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:47,360
Do you think
1077
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:49,320
you did absolutely everything
you could've done this week?
1078
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,320
Because that's what this week
was about.
1079
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,080
Again, right,
yes, I think I did it for me.
1080
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,480
Yeah, in my mind, I tried the best.
1081
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:57,480
I didn't come here for a lesson.
1082
00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:59,360
I came here for a life partner.
1083
00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:03,360
And I think there's just only so
many times someone can let you down
1084
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:08,840
with their actions
that you just stop trying so hard.
1085
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:10,280
Do you know what, Adrian?
1086
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:12,600
I feel like there's been
so many times where you've asked me
1087
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:13,880
what I need from a partner.
1088
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,280
And the reason why
you still don't know
1089
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:18,360
is 'cause you don't actually
care enough to listen.
1090
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:19,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
1091
00:51:19,720 --> 00:51:22,960
Surely, he understands
we're both exhausted, right?
1092
00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,120
We're not working.
1093
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:29,880
So, why are you staying
if not to do the actual work?
1094
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:32,480
I'm done talking about it.
Why are you pushing?
1095
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:33,880
I've got nothing to say.
1096
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:36,320
(BOISTEROUS CONVERSATION)
1097
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:38,200
Oh, bro.
1098
00:51:40,160 --> 00:51:42,640
(CONVERSATIONS OVERLAP)
1099
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:44,840
NARRATOR: Still to come...
1100
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:46,920
I felt like I actually
didn't owe you an apology.
1101
00:51:47,000 --> 00:51:48,560
First of all...
(SHOCKED GASPS)
1102
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:50,560
MAN: Wow.
Jacqui confronts Rhi.
1103
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:52,280
I've taken it back
after I've realised
1104
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:54,080
that there's no acceptance in it.
1105
00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:55,800
But, Jacqui,
hang on just two seconds.
1106
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:57,080
Can you just let me speak?
1107
00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:58,600
You've had your chance.
1108
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,000
You humiliated me
in front of everyone.
1109
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:02,240
Now let me speak.
1110
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:05,640
(DRAMATIC MUSICAL BOOM)
1111
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:10,920
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
1112
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:14,800
TEEJAY: Morena, Tony?
BETH: Yeah, how are you guys going?
1113
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:15,920
Pretty in pink.
1114
00:52:17,080 --> 00:52:18,680
The friends and family,
how was it?
1115
00:52:18,720 --> 00:52:20,480
Come on, spill the beans.
1116
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:24,040
It's... it's... it's...
1117
00:52:24,080 --> 00:52:26,400
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1118
00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:28,160
I'm kind of...
1119
00:52:28,240 --> 00:52:30,520
This week, it's been...
it's been hard for me.
1120
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:33,200
Honestly, Morena,
you know, I'm struggling.
1121
00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:36,160
So, that's how I'm feeling
at the moment.
1122
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:39,800
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1123
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:44,520
You've had that from day one
when you found out I'm 57.
1124
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:46,320
(GROOMS GROAN)
1125
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:47,920
No, enough.
1126
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:49,320
Don't even...
don't even bring it up.
1127
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:50,560
You guys weren't at the wedding.
1128
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:52,040
You weren't there.
1129
00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:55,480
I understand that
you wanted someone young.
1130
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:56,800
Oh, I know now why
1131
00:52:56,880 --> 00:52:58,960
because we found out
at family and friends.
1132
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:00,200
Because...
1133
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:04,000
We found out the plot of why Tony
doesn't want a 57.
1134
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:05,440
Why? What was it?
Why?
1135
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:09,120
He would like to have a baby.
1136
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:11,960
(WHIMSICAL MUSIC)
1137
00:53:12,840 --> 00:53:14,440
Tony wants a baby?
1138
00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:17,000
Well, this is the first
we've heard of it.
1139
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:18,080
Yes.
1140
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:20,720
Why wouldn't you just
tell me that at the start?
1141
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:24,320
What do I do with that?
1142
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:26,960
I hope God sends him triplets.
1143
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:28,920
Cheers.
1144
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:32,280
(TENSE MUSIC)
1145
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:35,800
This is where I have the problem
1146
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:38,920
because when you get angry
and challenge everyone
1147
00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:42,360
and talk to everybody the way
you do pushes me away even more.
1148
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:45,440
You know how beautiful you are
and how pretty you are.
1149
00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:49,040
But your personality
gives me the shits, man.
1150
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:52,000
(TENSE MUSIC RACES)
1151
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:57,680
Wow.
Mm.
1152
00:53:57,760 --> 00:53:59,200
That's harsh.
Yeah.
1153
00:53:59,240 --> 00:54:01,720
Tony's reached his threshold.
1154
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:04,320
This is where I'm having my problem,
mate.
1155
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:06,080
That's okay.
I'm sorry but that's how I feel.
1156
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,800
(TENSE MUSIC CONTINUES)
1157
00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:10,960
I've got a lot of love to give.
1158
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:13,960
I deserve that back.
1159
00:54:15,240 --> 00:54:16,840
I deserve to shine.
1160
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:21,080
I deserve to be treated like a lady.
1161
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:24,000
I know what I'm looking for.
1162
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:26,400
And that's...
1163
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:28,760
..not to have a baby.
1164
00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:32,560
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1165
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:37,360
All right, Beth and Teejay.
1166
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:40,600
We're doing well.
Yeah, we're doing great, sorry.
1167
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:43,000
Sorry, guys. Not really any drama.
(LAUGHTER)
1168
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:45,640
The pressure's on, isn't it,
for our new couples.
1169
00:54:45,720 --> 00:54:47,760
They've seen the way
the other couples are getting on
1170
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:49,880
or not getting on in some cases,
1171
00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:53,120
and they know that,
in order to be a part of this group,
1172
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:54,800
they need to fast-track
their relationship.
1173
00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:57,600
So, we had to do the...
1174
00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:00,160
It was like an intimacy...
Yeah, sexual desires.
1175
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:02,560
And it was just like...
1176
00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:06,640
All those questions are great
but, um...
1177
00:55:06,720 --> 00:55:09,600
they're probably more suitable
in potentially a few weeks
1178
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:10,960
or a few months for us.
1179
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,080
You know, it's like
talking dirty to each other.
1180
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:15,200
He did try...
(LAUGHTER)
1181
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:18,080
I tried it this morning, but...
He did try and pick it up again.
1182
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:23,160
But... but I said, just the way
she was spreading her toast,
1183
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:25,280
it was just so erotic and...
1184
00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:27,480
But, nah, that was a joke,
nah, nah.
1185
00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:28,640
She doesn't have toast, anyway.
1186
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:29,800
(JACQUI CACKLES)
1187
00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:32,080
I think we definitely, like, we're
building a really good friendship
1188
00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:34,240
and I think, like, friendship
is always the basis for me
1189
00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:35,360
in any relationship.
1190
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:37,400
(OFFBEAT MUSIC)
1191
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:41,120
Clint is the, you know,
most supportive person ever.
1192
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:44,120
So, I think, like, it's
a strong foundation that we're...
1193
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:45,200
that we're building.
1194
00:55:45,280 --> 00:55:47,680
Like, we both have a lot of respect
for each other,
1195
00:55:47,720 --> 00:55:51,480
which is refreshing, and...yeah.
1196
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:54,400
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1197
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:56,320
JEFF: Veronica and Eliot.
1198
00:55:57,040 --> 00:55:59,480
JAMIE: You came in individually.
We want to know what's up.
1199
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:04,800
Uh, obviously,
we had to do tasks this week,
1200
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:10,560
so, we got the confession letter,
and I...
1201
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:14,080
Um...
It's okay, babe.
1202
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:16,320
I know, I know it's okay.
1203
00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:18,200
(VOICE SHAKES, EXHALES)
1204
00:56:18,240 --> 00:56:21,800
So, I was very disheartened
1205
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:26,520
when Eliot told me his story
about his sister
1206
00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:30,480
because, in telling me that story,
1207
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:35,560
you didn't mention anything at all
about how the story impacted you.
1208
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:38,480
Like, I didn't learn
a single thing about you.
1209
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:42,680
All I know is that your sister
has diabetes now.
1210
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:46,080
She has to be on medication.
1211
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:50,000
I got nothing from it.
1212
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:52,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1213
00:56:56,680 --> 00:57:01,240
Well, from my perspective,
I put everything into my story.
1214
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:04,640
That was me being so deep
and so vulnerable.
1215
00:57:05,720 --> 00:57:08,720
And then for it to
come back as like,
1216
00:57:08,800 --> 00:57:12,160
"Oh, no, that's not good enough,"
it was like...that to me was like...
1217
00:57:12,240 --> 00:57:14,280
WOMAN: It's hurtful.
Yeah. Like, it hurt.
1218
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:15,440
So, I was then hurt.
1219
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:17,120
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
1220
00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:19,840
And then it went in this spiral
of like,
1221
00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:21,840
so, my pain isn't good enough.
1222
00:57:21,880 --> 00:57:24,640
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1223
00:57:25,960 --> 00:57:27,240
That's what it felt like.
1224
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,320
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1225
00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:37,080
What was your pain, though?
1226
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:39,480
(TENSE MUSIC RACES)
1227
00:57:39,560 --> 00:57:42,080
Because I don't know how you feel
about that situation.
1228
00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:43,960
Having my younger sister
fall into a coma.
1229
00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:47,160
(MUSIC BECOMES SOMBRE)
1230
00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:49,880
And grapple with this illness
for her whole life.
1231
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:55,920
(MUSIC CONTINUES)
1232
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:02,280
(GENTLY LILTING MUSIC)
1233
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:05,840
From my perspective,
I put everything into my story.
1234
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:09,800
That was me being so deep
and so vulnerable.
1235
00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:13,960
And then for it to come back
as like,
1236
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:17,640
"Oh, no, that's not good enough,"
it was like...that to me was like...
1237
00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:19,800
WOMAN: It's hurtful.
Yeah. Like, it hurt.
1238
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:21,200
So, I was then hurt.
1239
00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:24,360
And then it went into this spiral
of like,
1240
00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:26,440
so, my pain isn't good enough.
1241
00:58:28,040 --> 00:58:29,200
That's what it felt like.
1242
00:58:29,960 --> 00:58:32,560
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
1243
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:34,960
What was your pain, though?
1244
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:37,800
Because I don't know how
you feel about that situation.
1245
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:39,920
Having my younger sister
fall into a coma...
1246
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:43,800
..and grapple with this illness
for her whole life.
1247
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:45,200
(TENSE MUSIC)
1248
00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:47,920
It was the fact that
it was the person that I care for,
1249
00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:50,400
like, most in the whole world,
my baby sister.
1250
00:58:50,440 --> 00:58:53,440
It was so traumatising.
1251
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:56,280
That memory affects me to this day.
1252
00:58:57,320 --> 00:59:00,880
I never want to feel like
I've lost control of my emotions.
1253
00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:03,760
That's why it was my pain.
1254
00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:06,920
(UNSETTLING MUSIC)
1255
00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:10,680
Veronica made it sound like
it wasn't really an important issue
1256
00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:13,160
of what Eliot had confessed,
1257
00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:17,480
but then, when he, like, mentioned
your sister was in, like, a coma,
1258
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:20,160
that is something
that's quite significant.
1259
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:23,560
Veronica, I understand
how you want more feeling,
1260
00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:26,880
but it is a bit unfair to be like,
well, that's not empath...
1261
00:59:26,920 --> 00:59:27,920
that's not enough empathy.
1262
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:29,280
I never said,
"That's not good enough."
1263
00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:30,360
I never said those words.
1264
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:31,480
I said I'm disappointed
1265
00:59:31,560 --> 00:59:33,440
because I don't feel like
I understand you more.
1266
00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:37,840
I mean, you can imagine here
Eliot feeling very judged...
1267
00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:40,720
Yeah.
..because he has made a real effort.
1268
00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:43,680
He is judged because
she was just rolling her eyes.
1269
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:44,680
Yeah.
1270
00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:47,360
V, can I just ask, do you
think that maybe that was Eliot
1271
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:49,640
trying to be as deep as he could
in that moment...
1272
00:59:49,720 --> 00:59:51,760
Listen, it could possibly be.
..and it maybe wasn't as deep
1273
00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:54,480
as you wanted it,
and that was that was his reality.
1274
00:59:54,520 --> 00:59:55,840
It could possibly be. I agree.
1275
00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:57,880
And that's what I said
when I came back into the room.
1276
00:59:57,960 --> 01:00:00,160
I said to you,
"Maybe that's all you've got."
1277
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:02,400
But at the time I was disappointed.
1278
01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:05,800
I think Eliot can learn so much
from how you approach things.
1279
01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:07,720
Yeah, but what can I learn
from Eliot?
1280
01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:09,520
Maybe to be patient.
1281
01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:12,560
(GENTLE MUSIC)
1282
01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:15,680
Just put yourself
in the flip situation.
1283
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:17,720
Maybe it's hard for him
to say those things.
1284
01:00:17,800 --> 01:00:19,720
He's still here.
He's open to learning.
1285
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:23,160
Like, I think that's pretty mature
considering his past situation.
1286
01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:26,880
I think you guys
need to work together on this.
1287
01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:29,720
And I think, Veronica, that's
what you can learn, patience.
1288
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:31,720
100%, I do not have patience.
1289
01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:34,120
I know that about myself.
Like, I'm not dumb.
1290
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:38,080
It was interesting to hear
the perspectives
1291
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:40,360
of obviously everyone else
in the group
1292
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:42,640
on, you know, how Eliot's feeling.
1293
01:00:43,720 --> 01:00:46,600
And I do acknowledge
that, you know,
1294
01:00:46,680 --> 01:00:51,200
maybe I do want more
than he can give me at the moment.
1295
01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:56,800
Do you both want it to work,
though?
1296
01:00:56,880 --> 01:00:59,520
Like, are you both willing to
work on your relationship or not?
1297
01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:02,360
(GENTLE MUSIC)
1298
01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:06,800
JEFF: This is important.
1299
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:09,800
Do you both want to move forward
and work on your relationship?
1300
01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:11,400
This is the most important question,
I guess.
1301
01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:14,880
(MUSIC UPLIFTS)
1302
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:17,120
You do?
1303
01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:21,040
Amazing. Good job.
Eliot, do you want to?
1304
01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:24,240
Yeah.
Fantastic!
1305
01:01:26,200 --> 01:01:30,320
Tonight was probably,
you know, the best-case scenario
1306
01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:32,280
in terms of how things unfolded.
1307
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:35,000
(BETH CHEERS)
1308
01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:41,480
And we came into it very icy
and we came out with some hope.
1309
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:50,920
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1310
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:54,560
Tonight, I have some things I want
to address to the group about Rhi.
1311
01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:57,840
It is about behaviour
that's been directed towards me
1312
01:01:57,880 --> 01:01:59,280
that I do not tolerate.
1313
01:02:00,320 --> 01:02:02,560
So, I'm sick of being a doormat.
I'm going to stand up for myself.
1314
01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:04,240
I don't tolerate her behaviour.
1315
01:02:04,320 --> 01:02:07,720
She's been really disrespectful
and rude and, honestly,
1316
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:09,880
I hope that some justice
is done today.
1317
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:13,120
There's something that's
been weighing on my mind a lot,
1318
01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:15,200
and I feel like
I need to address it.
1319
01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:20,720
And kind of just stand up for myself
on this one.
1320
01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:25,400
So, I guess, like,
the last time everyone saw us
1321
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:27,520
was at the commitment ceremony
and...
1322
01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:31,640
So, I felt really disrespected.
Um...
1323
01:02:31,680 --> 01:02:34,800
(TENSE MUSIC)
1324
01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:36,520
It's all right. Sorry, sorry.
1325
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:37,720
Um...
1326
01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:43,600
I've been crying a lot this week
just based on what you did, Rhi.
1327
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:48,480
What did she do?
Yeah, what did she actually do?
1328
01:02:48,560 --> 01:02:52,200
So, I think, like,
taking your relationship time
1329
01:02:52,280 --> 01:02:57,280
at the last commitment ceremony
to throw shade and humiliate,
1330
01:02:57,360 --> 01:03:01,840
ridicule and say mean things
about another bride isn't...
1331
01:03:01,920 --> 01:03:04,280
Those are really big words, Jacqui.
They are very big.
1332
01:03:04,360 --> 01:03:06,160
Let her talk. Let her talk.
Let her talk.
1333
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:07,480
Everyone's had an opportunity.
1334
01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:09,240
Everyone's had an opportunity.
1335
01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:10,640
You'll let my wife talk.
1336
01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:12,040
You let my wife talk now, all right?
1337
01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:13,960
BETH: Ugh.
(LAUGHTER)
1338
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:19,160
I would really like some respect
just so that I can say this. Um...
1339
01:03:19,240 --> 01:03:22,760
Honest to God, Jacqui's
sense of reality sometimes,
1340
01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:24,320
it's something else.
1341
01:03:25,040 --> 01:03:27,960
You really hurt me. You did.
1342
01:03:29,520 --> 01:03:31,800
Jacqui and Ryan are
a prime example of,
1343
01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:34,360
"We've resolved something but
let's just keep bringing it up."
1344
01:03:34,400 --> 01:03:36,720
So, she's kicking off again.
1345
01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:40,960
You just spent that time
basically discrediting me,
1346
01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:42,480
which I felt, like, undermined
1347
01:03:42,560 --> 01:03:44,320
the very purpose
of these commitment ceremonies,
1348
01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:46,320
which is actually
to work on your relationship.
1349
01:03:48,160 --> 01:03:52,400
I feel like the whole
texting Jeff situation,
1350
01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:54,760
like, I feel like
you took it too far.
1351
01:03:54,800 --> 01:03:56,400
MAN: What?
1352
01:03:56,440 --> 01:03:57,640
Too far?
1353
01:03:57,680 --> 01:03:59,560
(MUSIC RACES)
1354
01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:02,920
And I felt like that had nothing
to do with your relationship,
1355
01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:06,040
and I apologised for that,
1356
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:08,400
and I felt like I actually
didn't owe you an apology.
1357
01:04:08,480 --> 01:04:09,680
First of all...
(SHOCKED GASPS)
1358
01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:10,960
Wow.
Wow!
1359
01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:12,560
First of all,
I had actually reached out...
1360
01:04:12,640 --> 01:04:14,840
Just keep digging yourself...
Rhi, Rhi, Rhi.
1361
01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:16,200
Please let me speak.
1362
01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:19,640
I should let a lot of things
slide with you.
1363
01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:21,680
I even apologised for...
But you're not sorry.
1364
01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:23,360
I was genuinely sorry
because I apologised...
1365
01:04:23,440 --> 01:04:25,320
But you aren't because
you just said you aren't sorry.
1366
01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:26,960
I've taken it back
after I've realised
1367
01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:28,520
that there's no acceptance in you.
1368
01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:30,240
But, Jacqui,
hang on just two seconds.
1369
01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:31,800
Can you just let me speak?
1370
01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:33,040
You've had your chance.
1371
01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:35,280
You humiliated me
in front of everyone.
1372
01:04:35,320 --> 01:04:36,480
Now let me speak.
1373
01:04:36,520 --> 01:04:38,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC BUILDS)
1374
01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:42,800
(MUSIC FADES)
1375
01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:47,480
(STORMY MUSIC)
1376
01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:51,880
I feel like, the whole
texting Jeff situation,
1377
01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:54,360
I felt like I actually
didn't owe you an apology.
1378
01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:55,720
First of all...
(SHOCKED GASPS)
1379
01:04:55,800 --> 01:04:56,720
Wow.
Wow!
1380
01:04:56,800 --> 01:04:58,480
You're saying you're sorry,
but you're not sorry.
1381
01:04:58,560 --> 01:05:00,480
I was genuinely sorry
because I apologised...
1382
01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:02,080
But you aren't because you
just said you aren't sorry.
1383
01:05:02,160 --> 01:05:03,560
I've taken it back
after I've realised
1384
01:05:03,600 --> 01:05:05,200
that there's no acceptance in you.
1385
01:05:05,280 --> 01:05:07,000
But, Jacqui,
hang on just two seconds.
1386
01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:08,280
You had your chance.
Can I...?
1387
01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:10,120
You humiliated me
in front of everyone.
1388
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:11,320
Now let me speak.
1389
01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:19,960
Wait, so, you apologised to Rhi
but you're pissed off at Rhi?
1390
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:22,280
Make that make sense.
1391
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:25,080
You can't make sense of it.
1392
01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:27,400
I don't stand for that behaviour.
1393
01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:29,880
I don't tolerate.
I'm not okay with it.
1394
01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:31,120
What?
God!
1395
01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:34,320
Jacqui, you text Rhi's husband,
1396
01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:36,520
and then you want an apology
for that?
1397
01:05:36,560 --> 01:05:38,480
That doesn't make sense.
1398
01:05:38,560 --> 01:05:42,600
Why are you still bringing it up
and ridiculing me
1399
01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:43,640
and shaming me?
1400
01:05:43,680 --> 01:05:44,640
MAN: Ridiculing?
1401
01:05:44,720 --> 01:05:47,080
Because they asked about
how my relationship was going...
1402
01:05:47,160 --> 01:05:49,760
It's got nothing to do
with your relationship.
1403
01:05:49,840 --> 01:05:51,640
What are you talking about?
Your drama...
1404
01:05:51,680 --> 01:05:52,800
We were shocked...
1405
01:05:52,880 --> 01:05:54,160
Your drama brought shit...
..it was even touched on.
1406
01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:55,520
Excuse me. Excuse me.
1407
01:05:55,560 --> 01:05:56,760
It's between her and I.
1408
01:05:56,840 --> 01:05:59,240
Your drama brought heaviness
on our relationship,
1409
01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:01,520
and I said our relationship
was going great,
1410
01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:04,240
although outside external drama
1411
01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:06,520
has brought heaviness
on our relationship.
1412
01:06:08,160 --> 01:06:10,720
I haven't done anything
to create this drama.
1413
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:14,400
You started this
with contacting my husband
1414
01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:16,000
and asking me not to be there.
1415
01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:19,040
So, this is a you issue.
This is not a me issue.
1416
01:06:20,240 --> 01:06:23,360
I've tried to be understanding,
but it's impossible to understand
1417
01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:27,440
someone who is extremely
inconsistent with their emotions,
1418
01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:29,560
and she cannot let things go.
1419
01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:31,960
Jacqui, how did this start?
How did this start?
1420
01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:34,640
How did...? All this conflict...
How did all this conflict start?
1421
01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:36,800
Well, you were the ones that did it.
I was the one?
1422
01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:39,080
You're the one that started
this whole thing, Jacqui.
1423
01:06:39,160 --> 01:06:41,240
This is what...how it all started.
I didn't start it.
1424
01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:43,240
Oh, hang on,
you text me behind her back?
1425
01:06:43,280 --> 01:06:44,680
So, you didn't start it?
1426
01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:47,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1427
01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:49,840
I thought Ryan and Jacqui's
attack on Rhi and myself
1428
01:06:49,880 --> 01:06:51,080
was a bit of a joke tonight.
1429
01:06:51,160 --> 01:06:53,120
I'm sick and tired
of talking about it.
1430
01:06:53,200 --> 01:06:55,160
I want to concentrate on
my relationship with Rhi,
1431
01:06:55,240 --> 01:06:56,920
and that's all I want,
that's all I'm worried about.
1432
01:06:57,840 --> 01:06:59,880
Jacqui, I actually don't
want to fight with you,
1433
01:06:59,960 --> 01:07:02,960
and I'm actually...
I'm actually really done with it.
1434
01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:04,120
Okay.
Do you want to put this behind us?
1435
01:07:04,200 --> 01:07:05,920
Yeah, absolutely.
I do. I do.
1436
01:07:05,960 --> 01:07:07,080
Okay.
1437
01:07:08,680 --> 01:07:11,400
I'm really hoping that
we can move forward after today
1438
01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:12,840
and just not talk about this
1439
01:07:12,920 --> 01:07:15,600
because I'm really done
with Jacqui's drama.
1440
01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:18,000
When we had
our commitment ceremony
1441
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:20,720
and we talked about how we felt
in our relationships,
1442
01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:22,760
Jeff and I, yes, we are going great
1443
01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:24,480
and I'm very, very grateful
for Jeff.
1444
01:07:24,520 --> 01:07:26,040
In saying that, the drama
1445
01:07:26,120 --> 01:07:30,320
that you have now introduced to
our relationship was quite heavy
1446
01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:34,800
on our relationship,
which we discussed multiple times.
1447
01:07:34,880 --> 01:07:37,560
So, I was just explaining
what had happened.
1448
01:07:37,640 --> 01:07:40,320
And I'm really, really,
genuinely sorry
1449
01:07:40,400 --> 01:07:42,640
that that made you feel bad
in front of everybody.
1450
01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:43,880
Yeah.
1451
01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:46,840
Thank you. That means a lot.
1452
01:07:46,880 --> 01:07:48,040
Yeah.
1453
01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:52,040
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1454
01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:56,480
I said what I needed to say, and
I got an apology for the behaviour
1455
01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:58,240
I thought that was unacceptable.
1456
01:07:59,240 --> 01:08:00,480
(PLAYFUL YAWN)
1457
01:08:00,560 --> 01:08:02,600
Perhaps, maybe
she'll get the message
1458
01:08:02,680 --> 01:08:05,080
and it will just stop and disappear,
yeah.
1459
01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:09,520
And I do think she'll be more
careful about what she says
1460
01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:11,280
and, to be honest,
that's all I was asking for.
1461
01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:15,280
So, I'm quite happy, to be honest,
and...yeah.
1462
01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:21,920
Do you know what, I love how
she throws digs out there
1463
01:08:21,960 --> 01:08:23,280
and she sits there laughing.
1464
01:08:23,320 --> 01:08:25,280
It's so weird.
1465
01:08:25,320 --> 01:08:27,000
(JACQUI GIGGLES)
1466
01:08:28,080 --> 01:08:30,880
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1467
01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:36,400
NARRATOR: Sunday night...
1468
01:08:36,480 --> 01:08:38,160
I'm just, like,
obsessed with him now.
1469
01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:39,920
I've never felt like this before.
1470
01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:43,880
Marital bliss deepens
for most of our couples.
1471
01:08:43,920 --> 01:08:46,360
This feels so natural and good.
1472
01:08:46,440 --> 01:08:48,720
We're just two idiots that get
along really well, to be honest.
1473
01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:50,400
Exactly what we said
when we were matching them.
1474
01:08:50,440 --> 01:08:51,800
(LAUGHTER)
1475
01:08:51,840 --> 01:08:53,200
And then...
1476
01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:54,680
There was something that happened.
1477
01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:56,280
..Clint exposed.
1478
01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:57,680
What happened?
1479
01:08:57,760 --> 01:09:01,920
I come home, and I instantly
know something's not right.
1480
01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:06,000
The unexpected turn of events
that no-one saw coming.
1481
01:09:06,040 --> 01:09:08,920
I had to kind of divert my gaze.
1482
01:09:08,960 --> 01:09:10,960
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1483
01:09:12,320 --> 01:09:13,800
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
1484
01:09:13,880 --> 01:09:16,000
We're going to get
straight to the matter at hand.
1485
01:09:16,880 --> 01:09:18,720
Paul's moment of truth...
1486
01:09:18,800 --> 01:09:20,400
I...
(STAMMERS)
1487
01:09:20,480 --> 01:09:23,600
I've never done this
in the past ever.
1488
01:09:23,680 --> 01:09:24,760
Oh, I'm sorry.
Please.
1489
01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:26,200
I need to jump in here.
I...
1490
01:09:26,280 --> 01:09:29,040
..as he is held to account
by the experts.
1491
01:09:29,120 --> 01:09:33,480
I cannot sit here and listen
to this justification.
1492
01:09:34,480 --> 01:09:38,640
This is toxic, inappropriate
and unacceptable behaviour.
1493
01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:42,200
Is this the end of the road
for Carina and Paul?
1494
01:09:42,240 --> 01:09:44,280
I want you to tell us
1495
01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:47,800
why we should not kick you out
of the experiment right now.
1496
01:09:50,120 --> 01:09:53,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1497
01:09:56,040 --> 01:09:58,760
(MUSIC FADES)
1498
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:03,040
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