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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:02,880 NARRATOR: Previously... Leave. 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:04,600 I just wrote 'leave'. 3 00:00:04,680 --> 00:00:07,640 ..Sierah and Billy both chose to leave the experiment 4 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:08,880 and their marriage. 5 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:11,880 JOHN: You had a chance to say, "You know what, I regret that. 6 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:13,200 "I'm sorry." 7 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:15,880 And when the experts held Eliot to account... 8 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:17,280 Eliot, what do you say to this? 9 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:20,520 ..he apologised for abandoning Lauren. 10 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:23,200 It might not ever be something that you'll forgive 11 00:00:23,240 --> 00:00:24,520 but I'm sorry nonetheless. 12 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:26,720 Thanks. 13 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:30,880 I will be staying. 14 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:32,480 I'm staying. (LAUGHS) (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 15 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:35,720 Love blossomed for most of our couples. 16 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:38,640 Those feelings are definitely there. I care about her so much. 17 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:42,040 I really wasn't expecting to kind of click this quickly with someone. 18 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:43,920 We've been intimate. ALESSANDRA: Oh! 19 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,720 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) Good news! 20 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,160 I wrote 'sorry, leave'. 21 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:51,760 NARRATOR: Awhina drew her line in the sand with Adrian. 22 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:53,720 Stay. 23 00:00:53,800 --> 00:00:55,000 JOHN: With the rules of this experiment, 24 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:56,960 if one person says stay and the other says leave, 25 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:00,080 they stay for another week to see if they can turn it around. 26 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:03,880 It's on your shoulders to really do some big-time lifting. 27 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:06,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 28 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:08,280 Tonight... 29 00:01:08,320 --> 00:01:09,840 CLINT: Wow. Here we go. 30 00:01:09,920 --> 00:01:12,720 ..our three newest couples move into the apartments... 31 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:16,320 Oh, how cute is that! Oh, my god! Look! 32 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,760 ..as they get a crash course in married life. 33 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:22,760 Well, obviously this dirty, stinky rat goes there. 34 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:25,440 I just kind of want to hear, like, your side. 35 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:26,880 I feel so sorry for you. 36 00:01:26,960 --> 00:01:29,400 Eliot's about as shallow as a pond in a desert. 37 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:33,160 But is Lauren poisoning Veronica and Eliot's well? 38 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:34,880 Eliot is a narcissist. 39 00:01:34,960 --> 00:01:37,960 It is really disheartening to hear that insight into Eliot. 40 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:39,640 Run. 41 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:44,240 And then the next phase of the experiment begins. 42 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:45,600 Where are our guests? 43 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:47,920 (SCREAMING AND LAUGHTER) 44 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:50,920 Over two big nights... Hi, guys. 45 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:54,040 ..family and friends week returns. 46 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:56,160 You guys are happy? We are, we are. 47 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:59,160 Our couples get much-needed perspective... 48 00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:00,720 You've gotta have each other's back. 49 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:02,960 ..from their partners' loved ones. 50 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:04,400 This is gaslighting. 51 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:07,200 That's your interpretation of it 52 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:08,960 but that doesn't mean that it's true. 53 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,720 But for Awhina and Adrian... 54 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:15,080 You are focusing a lot on the negatives, because from what... 55 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:17,280 He hasn't even shown up. So let's just stop it there. 56 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:18,680 I was talking. I don't care. 57 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:20,840 ..when their families come together... 58 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:22,480 How dare you! 59 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:24,360 ..all hell breaks loose. 60 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:26,720 I actually... I just... I don't need to listen to this. 61 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:28,640 Goodbye. Pointless conversation. 62 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:32,200 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 63 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:43,000 Today marks an important milestone in the experiment... 64 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,960 Hopefully we've got enough wardrobe space for all your luggage. 65 00:02:46,000 --> 00:02:47,000 (LAUGHS) 66 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:50,560 ..with our newest couples moving into their apartments. 67 00:02:50,640 --> 00:02:53,400 We have a booking for Beth and Teejay. 68 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:55,400 I think it was the penthouse or something like that. 69 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:57,680 Starting over four weeks behind the others... 70 00:02:57,720 --> 00:02:59,200 CLINT: Wow. Here we go. 71 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,120 It's the metal that we've been waiting for. 72 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:02,920 (LAUGHS) Congratulations. You've made it. 73 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:06,600 ..they'll now be taking a crash course in the experiment 74 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:09,400 to help fast-track their relationships 75 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:12,480 and get them to the same level as the other couples. 76 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:16,440 CLINT: Oh, wow. How good's this? 77 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:20,280 Oh, wow. So spacious. Oh, my gosh. 78 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,120 (EXCLAIMS) 79 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:26,440 VERONICA: Oh, cute! 80 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:29,920 Moving in together after a matter of days will be challenging. 81 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:33,440 (GASPS) Oh, my god! Look! (LAUGHS) 82 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:35,680 Aw! What?! 83 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:38,600 But it's a great way for our newest couples 84 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:41,360 to learn how the relationship could work in the real world. 85 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:43,760 Oh, I'm so glad they got the shoes in. 86 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:45,360 Those shoes are so cute, don't you reckon? 87 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:47,400 Yeah, yeah. (LAUGHS) 88 00:03:47,480 --> 00:03:50,160 Look at us. (LAUGHS) I can't believe this! 89 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:54,240 This has the potential to help them deepen their bonds, build trust 90 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:56,200 and create some much-needed intimacy. 91 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:00,520 See, look, you don't need much space on the bed. 92 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:02,080 (BOTH LAUGH) 93 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:05,800 Oh, there's a picture of us next to the bed! 94 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:06,880 Oh, my god, I love it! Oh, my god. 95 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:08,400 Oh, how cute is that! 96 00:04:08,480 --> 00:04:10,560 That's a really nice photo. Oh, how pretty. 97 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:13,320 Oh, we look so cute. School formal. 98 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:14,360 School formal. 99 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:15,680 Remember that day like it was yesterday. 100 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:16,960 Oh, my god. This is so nice, isn't it? 101 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:18,480 This is so nice. Feels amazing. 102 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:22,040 Like, seeing our names on the door, I'm just... I'm so happy to be here. 103 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,000 I think we'll go very well living together. 104 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,880 (LAUGHS) (HUMS) 105 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,480 Don't drop me. That was good, wasn't it? 106 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,160 That was very good. (HUMS) 107 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:33,920 (BOTH LAUGH) Right? 108 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:35,760 He makes me laugh so much. 109 00:04:35,840 --> 00:04:38,040 Like, honestly, I have so much fun with him. 110 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:40,880 He makes me laugh and I literally have tears coming out of my eyes, 111 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:42,360 so he's just so much fun to be around. 112 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:44,920 So I just love living with him. He's great. 113 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:46,920 Is it hot? Of course it's hot. 114 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:49,920 Hey? Do you know who else is hot? 115 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:51,000 (LAUGHS) Me. 116 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:53,320 Argh! He was smacking me bum. 117 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,320 He calls me 'Sugar Tush'. He loves my little tushy. 118 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:58,560 I think we'll be great. Green flags everywhere. 119 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,080 Oh, this is so nice, isn't it? This is luxury living. 120 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,520 It is. I love it. Home sweet home. 121 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:08,840 LAUREN: Can we open the door? CLINT: Get some fresh air in. 122 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:10,240 Yeah. 123 00:05:10,280 --> 00:05:12,000 (FUMBLES WITH LOCK) 124 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:14,360 (LAUGHS) First time opening it. Have you been opening doors long? 125 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:15,880 (LAUGHS) Uh... 126 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:20,240 I think it's locked. We can have balcony parties. 127 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,160 (LAUGHS) Wow. 128 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:23,440 There we go. 129 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:25,080 Hopefully you're better at being a husband 130 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:26,200 than you are at opening doors. 131 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:27,840 (LAUGHS) 132 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:29,360 We just moved into the apartment, 133 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:31,920 which is further than I got with Eliot. 134 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:34,040 Need to do actually quite a bit of washing. 135 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:37,120 I actually enjoy washing. Do you? 136 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:39,840 Do you like washing? Yeah, I think it's a girl's job. 137 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:41,400 Really? Yeah. 138 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:43,720 What are you saying? 139 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:45,160 (BOTH LAUGH) 140 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:47,000 I'm saying just leave the washing to me. 141 00:05:47,080 --> 00:05:50,000 I actually really want to do the washing. 142 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:52,760 Oh, god. 143 00:05:52,840 --> 00:05:55,560 LAUREN: I mean, I've never met a man that wants to do washing. 144 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:59,480 For me, gender roles are very important. 145 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:01,640 I want to look after and, like, serve my husband. 146 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:03,560 That makes me happy. 147 00:06:03,600 --> 00:06:06,320 So we'll see. 148 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,120 (FUMBLES WITH LOCK) 149 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:13,080 Not this again. (LAUGHS) 150 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:15,680 As our newlyweds are just settling in, 151 00:06:15,760 --> 00:06:20,840 elsewhere, an original groom is moving out. 152 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:21,960 (LOUD KNOCK AT DOOR) 153 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:23,800 What the (BLEEP)! 154 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:26,320 That is the most aggressive knock. 155 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:29,320 (TENSE MUSIC) 156 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,520 Oh! Hey, guys! 157 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:36,360 (LAUGHS) Honey, I'm home! 158 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:37,800 (LAUGHS) Who's this? 159 00:06:37,880 --> 00:06:41,920 These are my kids. And I've got one last favour to ask. 160 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,720 Can you look after my kids, please? Yes. 161 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:46,440 Please. Chuck them in here. 162 00:06:46,520 --> 00:06:48,600 They need to be looked after. We need this. 163 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:51,000 You need to look after Mila and Penny. 164 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:52,640 JAMIE: No. 165 00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:59,760 Billy came and dropped us off fish and now I'm a fish mum. 166 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:01,360 (SIGHS) 167 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:02,920 A bloody fish mum. 168 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,160 This is filthy. It is. 169 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:06,560 This is probably why... 170 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:07,880 They've been shitting all over the place. 171 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:10,680 This is the epitome of yours and Sierah's relationship. 172 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:12,640 It's just a (BLEEP) bowl of shit. (LAUGHS) 173 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:14,760 A dirty tank. What the (BLEEP) is this? 174 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:16,200 I mean, I'm not gonna argue with you there. 175 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:18,080 And if I come home and the fish is dead... 176 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:19,800 Because I don't know how to look after fish. 177 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:22,320 He wants me to look after a fish and now I'm gonna have two dead fish. 178 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:24,400 And I feel like also it's a bad juju. 179 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:27,000 Like, this was Sierah and Billy's babies 180 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:28,920 and look what happened to their relationship. 181 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:31,160 Oh, man, I'm gonna miss you, bro. I'm gonna miss you, brother. 182 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:33,120 Thanks for everything. Appreciate you loads. 183 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,720 See you later, alright? Bye. 184 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:38,240 And I'm rooting for both of you guys. 185 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:41,920 On a positive note, my relationship is going really well. 186 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:45,360 Are you feeling OK? Yeah, I'll be alright. I'm just sad. 187 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:48,080 I'm great mates with Billy and I'm gonna miss him so much, 188 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:51,680 but also I'm pretty proud of Jamie and I, to be honest. 189 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:56,800 It's... Like I said, coming into this experience, it's sort of... 190 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:58,720 You don't know which way you're gonna go 191 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:00,320 and, you know, lots are up in the air. 192 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:02,560 All the effort to smile when we talk... 193 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:05,360 Look back at our friends in the group and sort of, you know, 194 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,640 show them that it can work. 195 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:08,920 You gotta just put in the time. 196 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:12,360 I think you sort of...from the start I had Jamie's back 197 00:08:12,440 --> 00:08:14,400 and, you know, she's let me know that she's got mine, 198 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:18,640 so it's really blossomed into this relationship. 199 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:21,120 And they we're like the strong couple. 200 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:23,440 Leading from the front. Yeah. 201 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:25,360 We're the leaders of the pack. 202 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:29,320 While Jamie and Dave continue to move forward with ease... 203 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:30,640 MORENA: You're the only one, Tony. 204 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:35,720 ..Morena and Tony are simply retreading familiar ground. 205 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:39,440 I don't think any of them, any of them headlock their women. 206 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:43,000 I've asked him to stop headlocking me and he still does it. 207 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:45,520 A little "Khhh!" on the head that he does. (LAUGHS) 208 00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:47,440 That's how I show sometimes my affection 209 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:48,880 and my touch and things like that. 210 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:50,760 A headlock is affection? 211 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:52,720 (LAUGHTER) 212 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:55,840 OK. I don't like it. 213 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:58,760 That's my way of just being nice to you. I don't hurt you. 214 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:02,040 What I've got from the couch 215 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:04,880 is that I'm gonna keep my comments down to a bare minimum. 216 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:09,320 Like, still gonna be myself and still be Tony 217 00:09:09,400 --> 00:09:12,440 and see how she handles it with the less comments 218 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:17,360 and the jokes and the hug-locks and the fist-pumps. (LAUGHS) 219 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:21,840 Down the hallway, 220 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:26,560 Awhina and Adrian are still very much staying in separate rooms, 221 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:29,680 following a tumultuous commitment ceremony. 222 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:33,120 You know, I heard everything Awhina had to say tonight. 223 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:36,520 She wasn't being seen and she was unheard. 224 00:09:36,600 --> 00:09:43,440 And the only way to fix that was to say 'stay'. 225 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:45,400 (APPLAUSE) 226 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:47,480 (CLEARS THROAT) 227 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:50,080 Um... 228 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:52,520 You know, like, confessions week when we all had to write letters? 229 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:55,920 I went through my drawer today and I read through it. 230 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:58,360 At the end of it, I wrote how 231 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:01,000 "Being a mum, you have to put your child first 232 00:10:01,080 --> 00:10:04,800 "and now, here I am, being selfish, missing out on real milestones 233 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:06,800 "in the pursuit of love. 234 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:09,480 "I guess time will tell if I made the right decision or not..." 235 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:14,960 and coming on this experiment, 236 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,920 how I felt today didn't feel worth being away 237 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:19,280 from those very real milestones. 238 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:25,480 So, yeah, I'm... Yeah, I wrote... 239 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:27,280 I wrote 'sorry, leave'. 240 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:32,680 Now, as per the rules of the experiment, 241 00:10:32,760 --> 00:10:35,440 Awhina will continue in the relationship 242 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:39,000 following her husband Adrian's decision to stay, 243 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:42,560 giving them another week to work on their relationship. 244 00:10:44,680 --> 00:10:46,760 Hey. What's happening? 245 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,280 Not a lot. How are you? Hmm? 246 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:51,920 Come on, give me a hug. 247 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:55,880 I wrote 'stay' for a reason and I'm willing to put in the effort. 248 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:00,640 How are you feeling after last night? 249 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,440 I'm feeling pretty flat. Mmm. 250 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:08,360 Are you feeling the same? Yeah, tired. 251 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:10,200 Just like tired? Yeah. Yeah. 252 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:12,720 How are you feeling about us? 253 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:19,240 Haven't really got any... feelings on it right now. 254 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:26,160 But, I mean, looking forward to the future 255 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:28,760 and today and onwards, 256 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:34,320 do you think, you know, we can come back from the past few days? 257 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:37,120 You know, if I'm willing to put the effort in, 258 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:40,240 like I said last night, I need to know you're willing to do the same. 259 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:44,400 Because it takes two tango, you know what I'm saying? 260 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:48,320 Yeah, it definitely does take two to tango. 261 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:52,040 I'm sorry, but you don't just go to a commitment ceremony 262 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:53,520 and sit down and just be, like, 263 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:56,360 "OK, my feelings that I was feeling are now gone 264 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:58,000 "and I completely forgive you 265 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:00,280 "and let's just go back to how we were before, 266 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:02,840 "where I was doing 85% of the work and you were doing 15," 267 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:05,000 because I heard him say "It takes two to tango." 268 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:06,320 I know, because I've been tangoing on my own 269 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:08,440 for the last four weeks, so... 270 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:13,320 I think the last past few weeks, not just the weekend in itself, 271 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:16,000 we've been speaking a lot about the past 272 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:17,240 and obviously the issues 273 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:19,160 and I think we just need to be a bit more transparent and more open 274 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:20,960 and understanding, most importantly, 275 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:23,960 of why we are feeling the way we're feeling, on both ends 276 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:26,520 and accepting that. 277 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:31,200 Mmm. 278 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:33,960 What are you thinking? 279 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:35,800 AWHINA: Do you know what I would've really loved? 280 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:37,760 If he walked in this morning and said, 281 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:43,800 "Hey, I know last night went the way it did, but I truly am sorry. 282 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:47,160 "Like, I truly didn't see how me leaving Friday, 283 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:48,520 "my ring on the counter, 284 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:50,680 "going out for dinner Saturday night with Sierah, 285 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:52,680 "not telling you about it for 24 hours, 286 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:54,360 "not texting you, not checking in on you 287 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:56,280 "and then coming in and expecting an apology, 288 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:58,640 "I truly didn't see how that could come across 289 00:12:58,680 --> 00:13:01,640 "as a bad thing for you, you know." 290 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:04,040 I would've really appreciated an apology. 291 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:07,400 Honestly, I'm really struggling to have this conversation right now 292 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:11,000 or even just talk about feelings in general. 293 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:13,000 I'm not even talking about feelings. Or just like... 294 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:14,800 I don't even want to talk about them. 295 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:17,320 Like, I'm literally just talking about going forward. 296 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:20,560 I'm not talking about feelings, I'm not talking about, you know... 297 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:23,480 We don't have to relive what we already know and speak about. 298 00:13:23,560 --> 00:13:25,360 I'm not wanting to relive anything. That's what I'm saying. 299 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:26,880 Like, hear me right now. 300 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:29,080 I don't want to talk about anything right now. 301 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:31,240 Um... 302 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:34,720 It's been an intense few weeks. 303 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:37,400 A bit of an emotional rollercoaster. 304 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:43,240 AWHINA: He doesn't cater to me at all. 305 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:45,480 He doesn't ask me questions. 306 00:13:45,560 --> 00:13:48,240 Also, at the end of last night's commitment ceremony, 307 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:52,520 he ended it with "I understand Awhina's giving up a lot to be here. 308 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:54,000 "You know, she's got a son back home." 309 00:13:54,040 --> 00:13:56,040 My son, who I... This is... 310 00:13:56,120 --> 00:14:01,720 Like, he has not asked me one time since I've met him how my son is. 311 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:02,960 Not once. 312 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:04,840 I mean, I think... 313 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:16,160 And moving forward, I think, you know, have some hope 314 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:19,520 that we can get back to how we were. 315 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:22,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 316 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:26,880 (JEFF EXCLAIMS) WOMAN: Hello! 317 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:30,360 Coming up, friends and family week gets underway. 318 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:32,280 WOMAN: Hello. MAN: Hello, peanuts! 319 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:34,240 PEOPLE: Hey! A peck on ze lips! 320 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:36,600 And things go from bad... Have you been crying? 321 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:38,760 No. She's been sleeping, actually. 322 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:42,640 ..to worse for Awhina and Adrian. 323 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:43,840 You deserve more than this. 324 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:46,320 WOMAN: Actually, I I don't need to listen to this shit. 325 00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:47,400 Goodbye. Pointless conversation. 326 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:48,480 It is. It really is. 327 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:49,960 You can't reason... I think this is just ridiculous. 328 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:52,000 I'm done. 329 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:00,520 NARRATOR: With the start of a new week, 330 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:02,640 our original couples are about to enter 331 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,840 the next exciting stage of the experiment - 332 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:07,760 family and friends week. 333 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:10,360 DAVE: Are you excited? JAMIE: I'm excited to see everyone. 334 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:12,760 ADRIAN: How do you think it's gonna go? 335 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:15,760 AWHINA: I don't really know. 336 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:17,480 Usually when I hang out with family, 337 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:19,440 it's to sit down and have a really good time. 338 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:22,920 JOHN: In the past, we have seen this week 339 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:25,200 make or break some of our couples. 340 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:27,840 The opinions and influence of loved ones 341 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:30,440 can sometimes have a positive and constructive impact 342 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:34,960 or a devastating one on our couples' relationships. 343 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:36,560 TONY: Where are we at? 344 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:39,680 This is what I'm thinking. Where is it going? 345 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:41,400 JOHN: But the goal remains the same - 346 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:44,160 for our couples to reflect on the journey so far 347 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:48,160 and to identify and address any issues that may have come up 348 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:50,240 during their time in the experiment 349 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:53,800 with the help and support of the people who know them best. 350 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:57,240 (EXCLAIMS) WOMAN: Hello! 351 00:15:57,320 --> 00:16:00,000 NARRATOR: Rhi and Jeff are meeting Rhi's cousin Shayna... 352 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,640 Oh, hello, Cheryl. ..mum Cheryl... 353 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:04,240 Come here. I'm a hugger. 354 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:05,760 ..and sister Emily... 355 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:08,520 Hi. Nice to meet you. Mwah. Hi, Emily. Nice to meet you. 356 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:12,040 CHERYL: All any parent ever wants is for their child to be happy. 357 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:13,840 That's all we ever want. 358 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:17,520 So, hopefully I'll get down to the nitty-gritty with her. 359 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:18,440 Tell Mama. 360 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:20,880 ..and Jeff's mates Lachlan and Cameron. 361 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:23,640 Hey, brother. How are you? What's going on? 362 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:25,160 Good to see you, mate. Yeah, good. 363 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:26,040 This is Rhi. Rhi. I'm Rhi. 364 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:27,320 Hi, brother. Nice to meet you. 365 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:28,600 How are you? 366 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:31,120 I think it'll be good to find out if they've got a connection, 367 00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:33,160 first and foremost - I think that's important. 368 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:35,080 Yeah, how they've been going living together. 369 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:38,040 LACHLAN: How are you guys going with the experiment? 370 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:39,880 RHI: Yeah, we're actually going really good, 371 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:42,400 like, considering obviously we knew each other... 372 00:16:42,440 --> 00:16:43,240 Yeah. 373 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:44,880 ..and, like, turning around and knowing each other 374 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:46,200 was a bit of a shock 'cause, you know, 375 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:47,520 you think you're going to marry a stranger. 376 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:48,920 LACHLAN: Yeah. EMILY: That's actually wild. 377 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:51,920 Do you feel like it took away from the day at all for you, though? 378 00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:54,840 For me personally, I was, like, expecting a stranger, 379 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:57,640 so, like, it was no disappointment that it was Rhi by any means 380 00:16:57,720 --> 00:16:59,240 but it was, like, I was expecting that 381 00:16:59,280 --> 00:17:01,000 and I had my mind fixated on that 382 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:02,880 and then when I that didn't happen, I was a bit, like, "Oh." 383 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:03,720 Yeah. 384 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:06,120 But now, like, now, we we're at, like, I'm, like, 385 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:07,200 I couldn't be more thankful. 386 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:09,240 Like, it's just worked out so well. Yeah. Good. 387 00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:11,120 And we look around at all the other couples in the experiment, 388 00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:12,440 like, a lot of struggling. Yeah. 389 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:13,920 And, like, we've just really had no struggles. 390 00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:15,280 No, it's been good. 391 00:17:15,360 --> 00:17:16,960 Are you both glad now that you didn't get matched with a stranger? 392 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:19,600 Yeah. Are you glad that it's each other? 393 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:20,800 Now we are. 100%. 394 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:23,160 Yeah. Like, I've said this before, like... 395 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:24,320 But not in terms of just being comfortable. 396 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:26,920 Like, in terms of, like, finding love. 397 00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:28,520 (LAUGHTER) 398 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,680 Thank you for making it...so meme so quickly, Shay-Shay. 399 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:34,440 We've got limited time, guys, come on. (LAUGHS) 400 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:38,400 When we are on our honeymoon, we were, like, quite separate. 401 00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:40,120 Like, we slept in the same bed 402 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:42,320 but, like, we weren't, like, obviously affectionate 403 00:17:42,360 --> 00:17:43,560 or anything like that 404 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:45,120 and I remember in the honeymoon thinking, like, 405 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:47,600 I don't know if there's ever going to be anything 406 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:48,760 more than this friendship. 407 00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:51,520 But then, like, we had to do confessions week 408 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:53,080 and then we had to do intimacy week. 409 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:53,960 OTHERS: Yeah. Yeah. 410 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:56,320 So, those two weeks of, like, confessions week and intimacy week 411 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,840 progressed our relationship quite a lot 412 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:00,560 because we had to really open up. 413 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:02,160 It's just like Rhi said. 414 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:03,880 It's taken us to, like, a new level 415 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:05,920 and advanced our relationship by, like, light years. 416 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:07,080 LACHLAN: That's good. 417 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:09,200 It's, like, sort of pushed it, like, a year forward, almost. 418 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:10,400 Like, that's how it feels. That's great. 419 00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:13,280 Rhi knows me better than, like, a lot of people in my life. 420 00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,840 Like, 99% of people in my life... 421 00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:18,760 Like, I've said things to Rhi that, you know, people don't know. 422 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:21,120 WOMAN: Do you struggle getting no alone time? 423 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:23,560 Like, I guess alone time for us is we don't have a lot. 424 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:24,400 Yeah. 425 00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:25,920 Getting your hair cut and getting my nails done. 426 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:28,800 But even then, like, I literally... I'm happy, like... 427 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:31,680 I'm happy to spend literally every second with Rhi, 428 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:33,920 like, and when I'm by myself, I'm the same. 429 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:35,080 Mmm. "Where is she?" 430 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:36,840 (LAUGHTER) "Where is she?" 431 00:18:36,920 --> 00:18:39,560 She's pretty lovely. Yeah, extremely lucky. 432 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:40,640 Eyes tell everything. 433 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:41,800 You can look in someone's eyes 434 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,280 and when you've got children and you're so invested in their future, 435 00:18:44,360 --> 00:18:47,280 when you've got someone sitting next to them, you really... 436 00:18:47,360 --> 00:18:49,640 you listen and you observe and I think he's lovely. 437 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:50,920 Honestly, I do. 438 00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:55,120 You know, they're warming and loving and caring 439 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:56,480 and they just want what's best for Rhi 440 00:18:56,560 --> 00:19:00,240 and the vibe I got off family is at the moment Rhi's happy 441 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:01,640 and that's all they care about. 442 00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:03,920 And they want to know that she's being taken care of, 443 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:05,280 which I feel like I'm doing, 444 00:19:05,360 --> 00:19:07,680 so, yeah, I feel like I've passed the family test. 445 00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:10,920 MAN: So you guys have had no issues throughout the experiment at all? 446 00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:13,000 Not with us. Not with us. 447 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:15,160 Like, there was a bit of drama with another couple. 448 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:19,720 WOMAN: The couple together or, like, the girl or the boy? 449 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:23,920 RHI: So, she reached out to Jeff 450 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:27,480 and wanted to catch up with Jeff for a coffee without me there. 451 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:28,560 What? Oooh. 452 00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:30,360 Yeah. 453 00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,200 I guess it's 'cause he's so handsome. 454 00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:35,440 (LAUGHTER) 455 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:49,000 I'm feeling great about having some mates over. Yeah. 456 00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:52,400 They're from completely different areas, 457 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:53,680 completely different backgrounds, so... 458 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:54,720 Right. 459 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:56,680 ..there's gonna be, like, a lot of different energies around. 460 00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:59,400 Can't wait to get my bro a beer. 461 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:02,920 Where are our guests? Oooh. I don't have a watch. 462 00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:05,720 Yeah, I'm keen to get cracking. 463 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:07,280 (KNOCK AT DOOR) 464 00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:08,480 (SINGSONGS) Who is it? 465 00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:09,720 JACQUI: Trick or treat. 466 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:13,120 (SCREAMING AND LAUGHTER) 467 00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:16,680 (LOW-LEVEL CONVERSATION) 468 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:22,760 WOMAN: Jacqui deserves someone who is worthy of her. 469 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:25,800 She's 100% in, you know. She opens her heart. 470 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,920 She just bares it all and she's so truthful and honest. 471 00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:30,240 Oh, gorgeous. Yeah. 472 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:33,200 MAN: Hello, peanuts! Hey! 473 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,360 A peck on ze lips! (WOMAN LAUGHS) 474 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,760 Oh, my brother! Hi! 475 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:41,240 Usually he's the most happy, positive guy you'd meet. 476 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:42,480 KARLA: Always. (LAUGHS) 477 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:44,040 It's next-level, you know, 478 00:20:44,120 --> 00:20:46,280 and just a few times I've spoken to him on the phone, 479 00:20:46,360 --> 00:20:49,320 just that spark in his voice isn't there 100%. 480 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:51,600 He's, like, dealing with shit... Stuff. Sorry. 481 00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:53,640 Let's have a toast. OK. 482 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:54,960 To everyone coming together. Cheers. 483 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:56,600 Cheers. Wedding crew reunited. 484 00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:58,040 Cheers. Cheers. 485 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:01,560 Mmm. 486 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:03,320 That's a tasty drop, that one. It is. 487 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,440 It's nice. (LAUGHTER) 488 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:07,720 So, how have youse two getting along? 489 00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:09,440 (LAUGHTER) 490 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:11,120 Tell me. I want to know. Straight into it. 491 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:12,320 Yeah, of course. 492 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,640 Our relationship was probably... We started off positive... 493 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,320 We were probably the second-strongest couple 494 00:21:17,360 --> 00:21:19,440 coming into...after the honeymoons. 495 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:21,920 ANNA: How was the honeymoon? Let's start with the highlights. 496 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,480 It was the most luxurious place in Australia. 497 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:25,400 Like... Where did you guys go? 498 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:28,200 It was in Adelaide Hills. The hills of Adelaide. 499 00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:29,920 Oh, beautiful. Yeah. We mixed things up too. 500 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,200 I did my first ever yoga sesh. Oh, right. 501 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:35,000 Yeah. I didn't fall over. I didn't fall over. 502 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaking of falling over, how was your concussion after the wedding? 503 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:38,680 (LAUGHS) 504 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,720 (SHRIEKS) (THUD) 505 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:44,080 (PEOPLE EXCLAIM) MAN: Oh, my god! 506 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:47,760 RYAN: I'm so sorry. 507 00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,760 He ignored everything. 508 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:51,560 (LAUGHS) 509 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,600 JACQUI: Do you want to talk, Ryan, or shall I? 510 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,200 KARLA: He redeemed himself really well after that, though. 511 00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:57,480 Did he? 512 00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:00,520 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 513 00:22:09,360 --> 00:22:13,120 ADAM: How was your concussion after the wedding? (LAUGHS) 514 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,800 He redeemed himself really well after that, though. 515 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:18,120 Did he? 516 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,320 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 517 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:24,000 He didn't actually do anything to make it up to me. 518 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:26,400 Yeah, but it's not something that he should grovel over. 519 00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:27,960 Like, I thought that was hilarious. 520 00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:29,440 Should've just turned around and just been, like, 521 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:30,960 "That was pretty funny." 522 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:32,960 I know, I felt really horrible for her as well 523 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,320 'cause first dance is so undignified, you know what I mean? 524 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:36,840 It's one of those things you've got to own. 525 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:38,760 It would've been bad if he just kind of left it at that. 526 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:40,480 No, the reason why I was crying... Don't interrupt her. 527 00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:42,000 Don't interrupt her. 528 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:45,200 The reason why I was crying 529 00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:49,200 is because that night I was seen by a paramedic to check on my head. 530 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:50,960 It wasn't the drop. 531 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:54,400 It was the fact that you didn't find out I was seen by a paramedic 532 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:57,040 until a week later when I told you, because you didn't ask. 533 00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:58,920 That's why I was crying. 534 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:02,520 I can't believe we're talking about the wedding drop still. 535 00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:06,120 Man, like, that's some bullshit. Like... (LAUGHS) 536 00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:09,000 Don't have those massive hangups about it. 537 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,920 Don't keep pulling things back to that moment to try and make a point. 538 00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,120 So how did youse get through that, then? 539 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:18,080 Um... I cried about it, but... 540 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:21,960 I do. That's what makes Jacqui so special. 541 00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,000 Yeah. ADAM: Agree to disagree. 542 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:25,640 No, this is gaslighting. 543 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:33,200 That's your interpretation of it, but that doesn't mean that it's true. 544 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,960 Are you feeling heard and are you feeling heard 545 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:37,880 or is it just one of those "I need to be heard" 546 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:39,360 and that's the end of the story? 547 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,960 Because that's what it sounds like. 548 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,400 Well, I think as we went along, 549 00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:46,840 like, we did say have some difficulties communicating, 550 00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:50,040 like, with empathy and, like, trying to find emotional common ground 551 00:23:50,120 --> 00:23:51,120 and whatnot... Yeah. Absolutely. 552 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,560 ..and that threw some spanners in the works too 553 00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,920 and, like, we were doing the intimacy session with Alessandra, 554 00:23:57,000 --> 00:24:00,480 right, and I got, like, a little bit too comfortable, 555 00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:03,120 a little bit too candid with the other gentlemen sitting around, 556 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,320 so I made a little follow-on joke 557 00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:09,040 about what one of the other grooms had said about Jacqui. 558 00:24:09,120 --> 00:24:12,240 So his name was Jake and he was actually making jokes, 559 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,000 like, pretty disrespectful ones about all the other brides 560 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:17,600 and he actually told Jacqui, in front of everyone, 561 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:20,360 he said, "Oh, Jacqui, I said you had crazy eyes." 562 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:24,680 (LAUGHTER) 563 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,040 I'll take it. 564 00:24:26,120 --> 00:24:28,080 (LAUGHTER) ANNA: Yeah. I love that. 565 00:24:28,120 --> 00:24:29,760 But then, what did you say? 566 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,600 One thing I was right to be called out on, 567 00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:36,320 I've gotta take ownership of... 568 00:24:36,360 --> 00:24:38,360 I said to the group... 569 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,040 I said, "Oh, you know, it's not all bad. 570 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:43,320 "She gives awesome (BLEEP)." 571 00:24:43,360 --> 00:24:46,600 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 572 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,120 They... They obviously were a little bit shocked by it. 573 00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:56,240 And, like, as most people would be. 574 00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,920 For me, a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell. 575 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,000 It's kind of a marker of... 576 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,920 Yeah, I don't think I've ever had partners that would talk about, 577 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,720 you know, all of that because it's like...that's personal. 578 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:11,080 I apologised in front of everybody and, yeah, that's on me. 579 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:14,640 That's a goose moment. (LAUGHS) 580 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,840 That's a goose moment, man. Thank you, all. 581 00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:19,600 Yeah, I don't mind owning my mistakes. 582 00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:20,880 I've got no problem at all. 583 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,040 ANNA: One thing to remember when we first had our friendship, 584 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:25,120 Jacqui said to me, 585 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,880 "By the way, I'm a friend that needs constant reassurance." 586 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:29,560 Mmm. And I'm, like, "That's OK. 587 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:30,960 "Like, I can give that." 588 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,120 And you said "That's a friend, let alone a partner." 589 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,400 Have you both spoken about your different, like, needs? 590 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,600 Yeah, constant reassurance is, I think...can be very difficult. 591 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:42,680 But also, you also got to understand 592 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:46,360 from his perspective, he hasn't been in a relationship for a while 593 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:47,720 and he hasn't needed to do that sort of stuff, 594 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:51,280 so he's trying to learn and evolve into being in a relationship. 595 00:25:51,360 --> 00:25:54,520 So, with these sorts of things, you need to also help him, 596 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:57,920 give him a little kick up the arse, say "Where's my compliments today?" 597 00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:59,120 (LAUGHTER) She does. 598 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,360 She goes, "How does my arse look today?" 599 00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,640 I'm, like, "It looks great, babe." (LAUGHTER) 600 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:05,000 Yeah, that's true. 601 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:09,360 To just get the most important points out from Karla and Adam 602 00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:10,600 has been helpful 603 00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,280 because it allows me to connect more deeply with Ryan and understand... 604 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:14,600 see him for who he is 605 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,440 and understand where he's coming from 606 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,160 and maybe just appreciate his actions for what they are. 607 00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,560 So, like, we said to everyone, we're gonna press the reset button. 608 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:24,000 We're gonna be a team. We're gonna stand united. 609 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,760 And have I not cheered you up on multiple, multiple occasions, 610 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,880 giving you hugs, especially when you have been crying and whatnot? 611 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,040 A lot of the time that's what I do... 612 00:26:32,120 --> 00:26:34,080 No, that's really great. There's, like, a lot of good things. 613 00:26:34,120 --> 00:26:35,120 KARLA: That makes me happy. 614 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,240 There's a lot of good things and there's a lot of, like... 615 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,280 And they're the things that you need to really focus on 616 00:26:39,360 --> 00:26:41,560 because, like, yeah, youse are trying to navigate 617 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:42,440 and figure each other out 618 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:43,840 and I'm not saying you're always wrong 619 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:45,400 in everything that you're trying to get across 620 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:46,400 and nor is Ryan. 621 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:47,920 It's just youse are literally trying to navigate 622 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,840 and it's really nice to see that you can acknowledge and appreciate that 623 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:51,760 and so can he. 624 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,160 Like, that's a really good start. 625 00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:56,560 JACQUI: I've been struggling to understand him, 626 00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,120 where he's coming from. 627 00:26:58,200 --> 00:26:59,440 Like, I've always known from the beginning 628 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:00,760 he's got the right intentions 629 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:03,320 but I've never really understood why he's behaving the way he is 630 00:27:03,360 --> 00:27:04,720 and now, listening to Adam and Karla 631 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,240 actually explain where Ryan's coming from, 632 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,000 it was really helpful in a weird way. 633 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:11,320 Should we do one last cheers? 634 00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,840 G, toast. ADAM: Cheers, big ears. 635 00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:15,560 Let's get over the bullshit and be happy, yeah? 636 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,840 WOMEN: Yeah. Cheers. 637 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:19,400 RYAN: Cheers. Thanks for coming, guys. 638 00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:20,920 JACQUI: Thank you. KARLA: You're very welcome. 639 00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:26,600 NARRATOR: For our newest couples, 640 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:30,480 it is their first night staying in their apartments... 641 00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,480 WOMEN: Hi! 642 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:37,120 ..and original brides Rhi and Carina are taking this opportunity 643 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,640 to welcome Beth into her new home. 644 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:41,960 Come on in. We come bearing gifts. 645 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,000 Stunning. Not for you, though, babe. Yeah. 646 00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,400 It's girls' night. You need to go. TEEJAY: You're joking. 647 00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,320 (LAUGHTER) Not for you. 648 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,040 Come on. Girls' night! 649 00:27:50,120 --> 00:27:52,200 Sorry, babe. No worries. See you later. 650 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:53,200 WOMEN: Bye. 651 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:54,600 Yum. (CORK POPS) 652 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,240 (WOMEN EXCLAIM) Yay! 653 00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,800 I am so keen for all of this. 654 00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:03,520 Well, isn't this a cute little ladies' night? 655 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:05,720 My favourite. WOMEN: Cheers. 656 00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:08,600 Whoo! I'm obsessed. 657 00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,760 I went straight for the chicken. RHI: Yum. 658 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:13,840 Oh, my god. Mmm. 659 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:15,000 How are you and Teejay? 660 00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:18,120 Yeah, I feel like you do compare yourself to everybody else 661 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:19,280 in the experiment... Mmm. 662 00:28:19,360 --> 00:28:22,000 ..and it's hard because it's even more fast-paced for us 663 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:23,360 because we've come in late... Yeah. 664 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,760 ..but sometimes, yeah, you kind of do have take a step back 665 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:27,080 and be, like, "OK, we're actually doing well 666 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:28,880 "for the amount of time we've been here." 667 00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:31,080 I have been initiating more, like, touching. 668 00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,200 Like, we cuddle on the couch. We had a nap together. 669 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,760 Like, we just... It's felt nice today. 670 00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:37,880 Like, it's felt really comfortable. That's good. 671 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:38,800 Yeah. 672 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:40,800 Like, I'm now just being myself and I feel confident. 673 00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:42,840 So I'm feeling really good now. That's good. 674 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:46,000 NARRATOR: While Beth continues to relish 675 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,920 the successful start to her relationship with Teejay, 676 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:52,000 down the hall, 677 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:55,800 new bride Veronica is struggling with some concerns she has 678 00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:56,920 about her marriage 679 00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,440 and has decided to reach out 680 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,720 to the one other person in the experiment 681 00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:05,160 who has first-hand experience with Eliot - 682 00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,240 his ex-wife Lauren. 683 00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:11,280 I thought it would be humorous to take her some margaritas, 684 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:13,040 'cause we learnt at the last dinner party 685 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,800 that she loved them so much, so... (LAUGHS) 686 00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:17,560 ELIOT: We had a whole conversation 687 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:19,720 that we agreed that we weren't right for each other. 688 00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:21,160 That didn't happen. 689 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,600 You had about five margaritas, so you might not remember. 690 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:26,080 WOMAN: Oh, my god. MAN: No, Eliot. 691 00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:27,640 Don't even, mate. 692 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:29,720 Well, it's the truth. 693 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,680 VERONICA: The way that Eliot communicated with Lauren 694 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:34,400 at the dinner party, 695 00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:36,760 that's obviously a massive red flag for me. 696 00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:38,640 OK, I brought you these. LAUREN: Oh! 697 00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:39,880 That is so cute! They're margaritas. 698 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:41,080 Oh, my god! I love it! 699 00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,320 So I would really appreciate a chat with Lauren. 700 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,560 She's the only other person who's ever had any time with him 701 00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:51,920 who can really say what her first-hand experience was with him, 702 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:55,040 because I really don't feel like I know the real Eliot. 703 00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:56,160 How's it going? 704 00:29:56,240 --> 00:30:00,240 That's actually part of the reason why I've come here. 705 00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:01,320 OK. 706 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,520 I just kind of want to hear, like, your side fully... 707 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:05,360 Yeah. 708 00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:07,920 ..just so I can better understand, like, what I'm dealing with. 709 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:11,680 Like, when I met you at the dinner, I was, like, "You're awesome." 710 00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,000 But I feel so sorry for you. 711 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,400 I feel like you can do a million times better. 712 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:19,800 Like, he's a difficult person. He's just so full of shit. 713 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,000 Oh... 714 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,200 I just... OK. 715 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:28,520 At the dinner party, when he said that to you, I was furious. 716 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,440 Like, that's a huge issue for me. 717 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:32,400 And then at the commitment ceremony... 718 00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:33,400 Mmm. 719 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,640 ..he was really doing his absolute best 720 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,920 to try and put his best foot forward in front of the group. 721 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:39,720 I just don't think it's gonna last long 722 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:44,000 because I don't know how long Eliot can keep up the facade. 723 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:45,520 Right. I don't know why he's here. 724 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:46,920 Yeah. 725 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:50,360 I do feel sorry for her, but it's just the truth. 726 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,920 Like, Eliot's about as shallow as a pond in a desert. 727 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,320 Like, he has literally no depth to him. 728 00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:59,320 I think he's very narcissistic and she's gonna find out very quickly, 729 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:02,120 even more so if she doesn't already know that. 730 00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,120 She probably should run. 731 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:06,440 (LAUGHS) 732 00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:08,640 I just thought, like, coming back, 733 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,000 he would be trying to save face or, like, redeem himself. 734 00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:12,120 Mmm. 735 00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,480 Like, one of my friends was in a relationship with a narcissist 736 00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,920 for, like, ten years and what I have learnt from her 737 00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,080 is that, like, they don't actually have real feelings. 738 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:21,200 Mmm. 739 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,440 So, I do feel like Eliot is a narcissist. 740 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:25,840 OK. 741 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:30,400 But, yeah, I really was hoping that he would be different for you. 742 00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:31,680 I really was. 743 00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:36,160 VERONICA: Even though she has her own experience with him, 744 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,600 it is really disheartening to hear that insight into Eliot. 745 00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:42,560 And so, I don't feel good. 746 00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:45,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 747 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:48,160 How's everything going with you? (LAUGHS) 748 00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:49,760 Yeah. My husband's lovely. Oh! 749 00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,360 He bought me flowers yesterday. Oh, gosh. 750 00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:54,920 I know. Wow. 751 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:06,880 NARRATOR: While the original couples are spending time 752 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,320 with their family and friends, 753 00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:13,360 our newest couples are about to start their crash course. 754 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:14,760 (DOOR CLOSES) 755 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,480 Veronica and Eliot. 756 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:21,720 CLINT: Loz. Got mail. 757 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:23,720 BETH: Oh, my god. TEEJAY: Oh, jeez! 758 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,600 Wow. Who wrote us an essay? 759 00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:27,240 We've got a stack. 760 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:32,200 "Physical attraction is important in any romantic relationship." 761 00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,400 "Inside this envelope are photos of all the other brides and grooms 762 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:36,480 "in this experiment." 763 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,080 It's time to get naked... I'm just joking. 764 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:40,520 (BOTH LAUGH) 765 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:41,800 "It's time to get a better sense 766 00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,120 "of what your partner finds attractive in the opposite sex." 767 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,640 "From left to right, you must place the photos 768 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:48,480 "in order of who you find most attractive 769 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,720 "to who you are least attracted to." 770 00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:55,400 NARRATOR: Newlyweds Beth and Teejay 771 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,000 jump straight into the photo-ranking task... 772 00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:00,120 I am the most attracted to you out of everybody here. 773 00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:01,560 Thanks, darling. 774 00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,480 ..and are finding it to be quite a straightforward challenge. 775 00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:08,160 You'll go...here. 776 00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:11,240 I think you're beautiful inside and out 777 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,360 and you would be first on my list 778 00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,600 if I had to pick these again any day. 779 00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:18,440 (FOREIGN ACCENT) You, number one... (FOREIGN ACCENT) Number one. 780 00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:19,680 ..in all of experiment. 781 00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:21,400 Yay. (LAUGHS) 782 00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:22,920 That's what I reckon. 783 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:26,480 Next up with the photo-ranking task are Lauren and Clint, 784 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:30,680 although Lauren would rather they didn't have to use photos at all. 785 00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:33,600 I'd actually rather they brought the people 786 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:37,240 and we can line them up against the wall, rather than using photos. 787 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:39,520 (LAUGHS) 788 00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:40,640 Nervous? Not at all. 789 00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:42,080 Really? No. 790 00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,440 You seem so confident. I'm just a confident person. 791 00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:45,520 OK. OK. 792 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:49,080 Morena, she's actually lovely. 793 00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:50,920 It's just age. 794 00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:52,920 Beth. 795 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,760 I just don't know her, so... What about her boobs? 796 00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,360 It's probably not something I even notice, to be honest. 797 00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,920 (LAUGHS) Jamie. 798 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:04,560 Jamie was quite vocal at the dinner party. 799 00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:06,360 Maybe that would be a bit too much for me. 800 00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:07,200 Mmm. 801 00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:09,520 Jacqui. 802 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,960 Physically, on appearance, 803 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,680 I actually would have ranked her higher but... 804 00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,040 Really? Do you think she's more attractive than Jamie? 805 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,400 I do. She's quite natural. 806 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,520 I think she looks rough. Really? 807 00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:23,520 Yeah. (LAUGHS) 808 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,640 I think she's very driven in her career. 809 00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:26,960 Mmm. 810 00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:28,440 Something like that's very attractive to me. 811 00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:29,600 Yeah, OK. So... 812 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:33,120 I would even put Morena in front of Jacqui. 813 00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:34,800 Jeez, you've got it in for Jacqui. (LAUGHS) 814 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:36,600 Yeah. 815 00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:40,000 I like that he liked scruffy women 816 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,640 who have a strong drive in career. 817 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,520 Top three, I've gone with kindness. 818 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,960 I think that elevates their attractiveness. 819 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:55,440 Cool. Can I reveal the big one now? 820 00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:57,000 Yeah. 821 00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,160 Do you want me to move out the way so you can put it down here? 822 00:34:59,240 --> 00:35:02,640 (LAUGHS) I could pretend to go back and forth and all over the place 823 00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:04,640 but it's pretty easy for me 824 00:35:04,720 --> 00:35:06,000 and it's not even putting you here. 825 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:08,600 It's actually putting you, like, up here. 826 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:10,120 Aw, that's so nice. 827 00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:14,000 Yeah, I think there's only one place. 828 00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:15,280 (LAUGHS) 829 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,880 There's daylight between you and the rest. 830 00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:22,560 Clint has voiced many times that he is attracted to me, 831 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:25,320 so I would've expected him to put me first. 832 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:28,160 Can I keep this? Yeah. 833 00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,800 Well, obviously, this dirty, stinky rat goes there. 834 00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:37,840 Worst character, worst smell. 835 00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:39,800 Hasn't washed his hair in five years. 836 00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:40,920 (LAUGHS) 837 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:44,080 This guy, I don't know his name. He looks like a bit of a thumb. 838 00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:45,680 (BOTH LAUGH) 839 00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:49,120 I don't know how Lauren will rate me but she is a very direct person. 840 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:51,640 Tony... Oh, yeah. 841 00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:53,440 I feel nothing. 842 00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:54,520 Like, she's very honest. 843 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:55,680 She's 100% honest 844 00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,040 and what you see with Lauren is what you get. 845 00:35:58,080 --> 00:35:59,160 Dave. 846 00:35:59,240 --> 00:36:02,200 Normally, like, you know, neck tats would not be my thing. 847 00:36:02,240 --> 00:36:03,280 Yep. 848 00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:05,280 Don't, like, try and go and get throat tats now. 849 00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:06,120 Noted. 850 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:07,600 As much as you think we've got a connection 851 00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:09,880 and we're getting along and she does like me, 852 00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:11,400 you never know what surprises could come up. 853 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:13,840 Whew. A bit nerve-racking now. Oooh. 854 00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:17,160 (LAUGHS) Um... 855 00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,240 Oooh, you're the winner. 856 00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,200 Oh... Really? Right up there? 857 00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:25,360 Well, your, like, traits of, you know, 858 00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:26,960 making sure I'm OK all the time, 859 00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:28,560 just being, like, a really great partner, 860 00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:30,480 you know, you obviously dress well, 861 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:32,840 you've got clean teeth, you don't smell. 862 00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:35,760 (LAUGHS) 863 00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:38,080 That could've been a curveball but luckily, 864 00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,760 or thankfully, I was up the top. 865 00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:43,720 You're number one. Yeah, that's so nice of you. 866 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,800 Look, the nerves have dropped. Oh, that's good. 867 00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:48,080 Yeah. (LAUGHS) 868 00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:51,400 Clint gives you, like, a good feeling when you're around him. 869 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,320 (LAUGHS) In my nipples. 870 00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:55,880 (LAUGHS) 871 00:36:55,960 --> 00:37:00,480 NARRATOR: Down the hall, the last of the newlyweds 872 00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:03,360 are about to tackle the photo-ranking task 873 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:06,040 and Veronica is approaching it with caution. 874 00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:11,040 VERONICA: So, after that conversation with Lauren yesterday, 875 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,280 it just really helped me to understand 876 00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:15,400 what I should be looking out for today. 877 00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:19,160 I think Eliot has a lot of sides, I'm learning. 878 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:22,200 I'm curious to see what side this one... 879 00:37:22,240 --> 00:37:24,640 this challenge brings out in him. 880 00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,240 Like, I don't know this guy. 881 00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:28,960 Alright. Alright. 882 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:30,480 Are you ready? Yeah. Let's go. 883 00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:32,120 Alright. So... 884 00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:35,600 OK. So, first up, Jacqui. 885 00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:37,400 Yeah. OK. 886 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:39,320 I don't know... That's a surprise to me. 887 00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:41,960 Like, I'm just not attracted to her look. 888 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:43,840 Physically. Yeah. Physically. 889 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:45,480 Purely physical. 890 00:37:47,240 --> 00:37:49,200 For me, like, attraction is so much more 891 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:50,840 than what someone physically looks like. 892 00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:53,600 But if you want to just maintain just physical, 893 00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:55,120 then we can just do that. 894 00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,360 Yeah, for this exercise, anyway. 895 00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:01,160 Next up, Morena. 896 00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:04,080 Not someone that I'm drawn to. 897 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:08,440 I just feel like he focused on, like, 898 00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:11,520 the same exact point for every single person. 899 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:15,160 I don't find her really that physically attractive. 900 00:38:15,240 --> 00:38:17,040 Not attractive, not attractive, not attractive. 901 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:20,680 Physically speaking, not really attracted to her. 902 00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:22,200 Of course. (LAUGHS) 903 00:38:22,240 --> 00:38:23,920 Carina. 904 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:24,960 Attractive. 905 00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:26,120 Yeah. 906 00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:30,280 But didn't give me any insight into what it was that he found attractive 907 00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,000 about each of those individual people. 908 00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:34,200 Next, Lauren. 909 00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:38,480 She's beautiful. Um... Yeah. 910 00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:40,960 I think she's an attractive girl. 911 00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:46,560 Personally, I didn't really feel like I learnt anything. 912 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:50,240 He just wasn't coming at the exercise 913 00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:52,560 from the place of trying to really help me to understand 914 00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:56,800 what it is that he finds attractive in the opposite sex. 915 00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,360 So, then we have... 916 00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:05,800 Yeah, I would put you up here. 917 00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:07,720 Really? 918 00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:09,560 Interesting. Yeah. 919 00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:11,840 I don't know how to describe it. 920 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,280 They're very diplomatic answers. (LAUGHS) 921 00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:20,240 I don't feel like I have any further insight into Eliot as a person. 922 00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,800 You're free to, like, discuss other elements 923 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:24,360 of what you find attractive in people as well. 924 00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:28,240 The task was on a physical attractiveness basis. 925 00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,440 I'm not sure, yeah, if I read that... 926 00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:33,720 Are you supposed to do it 927 00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:36,760 just strictly physical attractiveness or...? 928 00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:38,240 Again, last on the board... 929 00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:42,960 (CLEARS THROAT) Our dearest Adrian. That's really surprising. 930 00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:46,320 We haven't really had much of a conversation, 931 00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:48,600 but I just know that he and I would clash. 932 00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,800 My list is based on 933 00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:57,080 what I know of the people that I've met so far... 934 00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:58,200 Clint. 935 00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:01,880 ..and the effect that meeting them has had on me 936 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:06,640 in terms of, like, whether or not I find them attractive. 937 00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,320 Paul. 938 00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,320 I think it's really sweet that he's, you know, 939 00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:13,240 falling in love with Carina. 940 00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:17,760 The fact that he's being so vulnerable is so attractive. 941 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:21,240 We kind of did the exercise a little bit differently. 942 00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:24,240 Different metrics, I guess you could say. 943 00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:30,000 And then we've got Dave. He's very emotionally available. 944 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:33,640 He's tall, gorgeous, funny, loves a joke. 945 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:35,640 He's respectful. 946 00:40:35,720 --> 00:40:37,840 It's pretty hard to top. Mmm. 947 00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,160 So, yeah. OK. 948 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:44,720 So you're... I'm putting you here. 949 00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:46,360 (CLICKS TONGUE) 950 00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,400 So, you're obviously physically gorgeous. 951 00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:52,640 We can all see that. 952 00:40:52,720 --> 00:40:56,160 But the reason why I put these guys ahead 953 00:40:56,240 --> 00:41:00,960 is just because I feel that there's, like, a level of openness 954 00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,800 and level of vulnerability that I haven't seen from you yet. 955 00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:07,160 So that's the reason for my decision. 956 00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:08,200 Yeah. That's great. 957 00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:13,680 No, no. I'm not upset at all. 958 00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:16,920 Like, I'm glad I'm not last, obviously. 959 00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:19,640 Pack it up? 960 00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:21,720 Yeah... Uh, yeah. Sure. 961 00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:24,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 962 00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:38,720 NARRATOR: Our newest couples are continuing with crash course week. 963 00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,120 CLINT: Someone smells nice in here. LAUREN: That's me. 964 00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:42,800 Is it? Yeah. It's my new one. 965 00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:46,800 Lauren and Clint's next task is designed to give them an insight 966 00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:51,440 into what their partner was looking for before entering the experiment... 967 00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:54,600 Here we go. ..by watching their audition videos. 968 00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:56,760 How exciting. Let's go. 969 00:41:58,160 --> 00:41:59,560 Should I get my notepad out? 970 00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:02,400 Alright. Clint Rice... Oh! 971 00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,080 ..43, from Launceston, Tasmania. 972 00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:09,000 And I'm a professional golfer turned entrepreneur. 973 00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:12,600 So I've achieved a lot of things in my life and career 974 00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:15,840 and getting married's definitely one I've always wanted to do 975 00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:20,000 and if I could find someone spontaneous, active, 976 00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:25,320 you know, someone that doesn't want to just sit on the couch 977 00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:27,160 and watch Netflix every day... (BOTH LAUGH) 978 00:42:27,240 --> 00:42:29,880 Like, actually has some drive to go, "OK, let's go hiking this weekend 979 00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:31,880 "or let's go walk the dogs..." I hate hiking. 980 00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:35,040 Yeah, just have fun. Like, not take life too seriously. 981 00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:37,320 That's pretty fair. Cool. 982 00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:40,440 Even though you watch Netflix. I love Netflix and I hate hiking. 983 00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:44,280 OK. Well, they're kind of not must-haves. 984 00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:45,880 They're like... Oh, OK, Eliot. 985 00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:47,640 (BOTH LAUGH) (BLEEP). 986 00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:49,320 I personally hate hiking. 987 00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:52,160 I like going on walks, like, with my friends, 988 00:42:52,240 --> 00:42:54,440 but certainly I wouldn't go make a whole day of it. 989 00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:58,840 So, are you ready? Go for it. 990 00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:02,560 Lauren Hall. I'm 30... I think I'm 37. 991 00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:05,160 From Brisbane and I'm a business owner. 992 00:43:05,240 --> 00:43:08,760 I'm very, like, gender-role specific. 993 00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:12,600 I want to have someone that I can take care of 994 00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:13,960 and, like, I can look up to. 995 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:19,080 They would need to be established. Like, I'm not into 50-50 at all. 996 00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:23,240 I just don't want to, like, have to have my business. 997 00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:26,160 They would need to have a house or a couple of properties, 998 00:43:26,240 --> 00:43:29,400 have to be able to afford to go to Europe, 999 00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:30,960 with one million-plus... 1000 00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:36,720 No, like, earning. (LAUGHS) 1001 00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:39,320 If I was matched with someone who wasn't successful, 1002 00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:40,560 I would probably hate them. 1003 00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:47,440 That's all accurate. 1004 00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:50,400 Yeah, OK. Fair enough. 1005 00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:53,840 It falls into what you were saying about your traditional values, 1006 00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:55,040 where you want... Mmm. 1007 00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:58,480 ..a husband to be more provider, more protector. 1008 00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:02,880 It's more like a... Yeah. Protector, provider and alpha. 1009 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,760 I'm not worried with what Lauren wants from a man. 1010 00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:11,960 I like the fact that I can have the space to provide and protect. 1011 00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:14,600 I just don't understand the whole alpha male thing... (LAUGHS) 1012 00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,800 to see where that actually... where that sits 1013 00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,280 and where I fit in that whole scheme of things, I guess. 1014 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:25,360 So, would you say I'm masculine enough for you? 1015 00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:27,720 I'd say you're definitely masculine. 1016 00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:29,640 I don't know if you're, like, an alpha. 1017 00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:37,560 I feel like, with Clint, he definitely isn't an alpha male. 1018 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,000 He shaves his chest. 1019 00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:42,920 Even things like, this morning, he's wanting to book in a spray tan 1020 00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:45,280 and, you know, he got a spray tan 1021 00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:47,200 and had, like, the paper G-string thing on 1022 00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:49,920 and I was, like... I just don't think that that's masculine. 1023 00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:53,560 I know that you feel like I'm, like, bit of a dominant personality, 1024 00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:56,800 whereas with an alpha male, I wouldn't feel that way. 1025 00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:58,600 It kind of like softens me. 1026 00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:01,000 Maybe just, like, let your chest hair grow out... 1027 00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:04,920 let the fake tan wash off and... 1028 00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:10,120 I don't know, just be really secure in your manhood. 1029 00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:16,040 Do you like to share decision-making? 1030 00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:18,680 I want to trust the person enough 1031 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:21,120 that I know that I would respect the decision 1032 00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:22,840 and that I'd be happy with the decision. 1033 00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:24,400 Really? Yeah. 1034 00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:27,040 Um... Yeah. 1035 00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:32,920 Well, I might just grow a big beard and, yeah, start drinking beers 1036 00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,320 and, you know, maybe smash some beer cans over my head. 1037 00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,240 I don't know if that's an alpha male. 1038 00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:39,280 I'd probably have to look up the definition 1039 00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:40,600 and see probably what it is. 1040 00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:43,840 Yeah, well, that's good. 1041 00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:45,080 Good chat. 1042 00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:50,880 As Lauren and Clint continue to understand each other's expectations 1043 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:52,320 through crash course week, 1044 00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:56,200 our original couples are in the middle of friends and family week 1045 00:45:56,280 --> 00:46:01,720 and for Awhina and Adrian, tensions are at an all-time high 1046 00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:04,680 ahead of their catch-up with their loved ones. 1047 00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:06,560 Are you looking forward to seeing them? 1048 00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:08,480 Yeah, I am, actually. Yeah? 1049 00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:10,960 I'm looking forward to having a sit-down chat with everyone. 1050 00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:12,760 Me too. 1051 00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,120 I don't really know what to expect 1052 00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:17,480 but it'll be good to see everyone regardless. 1053 00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,800 Yeah, I can't wait to see Cleo. 1054 00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:22,600 Oh, Cleo means the world to me, you know. 1055 00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:24,280 She's my twin sister 1056 00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:26,680 and usually I'm her support person, 1057 00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:30,880 but I feel like with this roundabout that Adrian and I keep going around, 1058 00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:33,440 it's just gonna be the same story. 1059 00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:37,360 My concerns are that it'll be Adrian, 1060 00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,920 his twin sisters and Jasmine, 1061 00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:41,200 three more people backing him up. 1062 00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:44,280 (SIGHS) 1063 00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:47,920 As if he hasn't had a voice this whole time. Like... 1064 00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:49,960 WOMAN: Here we go, here we go. 1065 00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:53,720 WOMAN: From my understanding, from Adrian, 1066 00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:56,160 it sounds like there's a lot of challenges and obstacles 1067 00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:57,480 in their relationship 1068 00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:00,440 and whether or not they can overcome them, we'll see. 1069 00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:02,200 Hi. Good to see you. 1070 00:47:02,240 --> 00:47:03,560 Hello again. 1071 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:04,960 Hello. ADRIAN: What's happening? 1072 00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:08,920 The type of family that we are, we're supportive no matter what, 1073 00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,840 so I think that can be difficult for people. 1074 00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:14,160 I don't have any, like, grave concerns. 1075 00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:18,760 I mean, we're all adults, so... Yeah. 1076 00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:21,760 You guys are actually kind of matching with the... 1077 00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:23,520 NIKOLA: Was that on purpose? No. 1078 00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:28,720 What's been happening? JASMINE: Not a whole lot. 1079 00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:30,680 We're here for you guys. 1080 00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:33,760 What's been going on? How was this morning? 1081 00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:35,280 This morning? Mmm. 1082 00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:36,680 It was alright. 1083 00:47:36,720 --> 00:47:41,680 I did observe an icy greeting. 1084 00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:49,320 We've obviously had a few problems and issues 1085 00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:50,760 in the last couple of weeks. 1086 00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:52,680 Yeah, let's go into it. What happened? 1087 00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:55,360 We spoke about it a little bit yesterday 1088 00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:57,080 but we're both so tired from the last couple of days, 1089 00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:58,560 which is fair enough, so we sort of left it. 1090 00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:00,640 We just said "Let's bed it for the night." 1091 00:48:00,720 --> 00:48:02,280 Yeah, and then... Let's bed what? What happened? 1092 00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:07,080 Oh, my gosh. (LAUGHS) 1093 00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:10,440 I feel like we should've had food or something first. 1094 00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:14,960 What happened? 1095 00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:19,520 Just had a bit of a rollercoaster few weeks. 1096 00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:20,920 Mmm. 1097 00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:22,840 NIKOLA: But what's the issue? 1098 00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,000 Like, what is the challenges that, you know... 1099 00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,080 Why is it so up and down? 1100 00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:30,880 JASMINE: What's your point of view? 1101 00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:34,080 Because obviously we talk to Adrian and we have somewhat of an idea 1102 00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,080 but obviously we want to hear you out too 1103 00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:38,960 because I think it's important for, you know, both of us, 1104 00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,200 all of us to hear you out. 1105 00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:44,560 I feel like that's why we're here also. 1106 00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:47,680 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1107 00:48:47,720 --> 00:48:48,880 Like, this environment, like, 1108 00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:51,200 it definitely fast-tracks a relationship, you know. 1109 00:48:51,240 --> 00:48:53,360 You get pushed to ask questions 1110 00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:55,640 and maybe you don't like the answers to those questions. 1111 00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,120 I think Adrian and I just really struggle 1112 00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,000 to communicate to each other what we want. 1113 00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:04,920 You're in each other's space 24/7 1114 00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:06,840 and you've got different living habits 1115 00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:10,040 and you've got different ways of acting in a relationship. 1116 00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:11,880 NIKOLA: Well, no-one's perfect in a relationship. 1117 00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:13,560 Let's not forget that. 1118 00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:21,280 NARRATOR: While Adrian chose to welcome three guests to lunch, 1119 00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:26,600 Awhina has opted to invite just one, her twin sister Cleo. 1120 00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:30,440 Cleo first met Adrian and his family on his wedding day, 1121 00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:34,600 where the twin pairing caused quite the stir. 1122 00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:36,920 (WOMEN SCREAM AND LAUGH) 1123 00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:40,320 These our our sisters here, Elita and Nikola. Twins as well. 1124 00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:42,880 (WOMEN LAUGH) CLEO: You're gonna be surprised. 1125 00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:44,200 WOMAN: Yeah. (LAUGHS) 1126 00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:46,000 You're twins? (LAUGHTER) 1127 00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,280 No way. Twins and twins. 1128 00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:49,760 MAN: Double trouble. (LAUGHTER) 1129 00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:52,480 NARRATOR: But despite observing Awhina and Adrian 1130 00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:53,960 immediately hitting it off... 1131 00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:57,360 Hey, how you going? I'm Adrian. You're actually way too hot. 1132 00:49:57,440 --> 00:49:59,040 I'm actually not happy. (LAUGHTER) 1133 00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:03,680 ..Cleo also witnessed the first hiccup in the couple's relationship. 1134 00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:05,840 ADRIAN: If you haven't noticed, which you have, 1135 00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:08,880 I'm an identical twin and so are my sisters. 1136 00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,760 Also, you should know I'm not a one-man package deal. 1137 00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:17,120 (CLEO GASPS) 1138 00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:20,920 (LAUGHTER) 1139 00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:22,600 Don't worry, I don't have kids. 1140 00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:25,160 (LAUGHS AWKWARDLY) 1141 00:50:25,240 --> 00:50:27,280 NARRATOR: Cleo has since been kept up to date 1142 00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:28,920 with the recent developments in the experiment 1143 00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:32,360 through regular contact with her sister. 1144 00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:35,240 CLEO: My sister and me have a really close relationship, 1145 00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:40,920 so we talk most nights about what's currently happening in her life, 1146 00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:44,080 you know, how she's feeling, how she's coping. 1147 00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,760 Right now, she's been away from her friends and family for several weeks 1148 00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:48,480 and she's been struggling 1149 00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:50,200 just having that distance from her son. 1150 00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:53,520 Hello. CLEO: Hi! 1151 00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:58,600 This isn't meant to be like this! We're matching. 1152 00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:01,160 CLEO: And she's been telling me some pretty unsettling things 1153 00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:02,800 about her husband Adrian. 1154 00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:06,280 She's told me regularly that he doesn't show up for her 1155 00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:07,520 the way a husband should. 1156 00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:12,440 She tells me that he regularly puts her down to make himself look better 1157 00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:14,600 and that she doesn't feel seen. 1158 00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:17,120 She feels invisible. 1159 00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:18,600 You've missed out on it. 1160 00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:20,880 Everyone's straight into the questions, 1161 00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:24,080 asking how are Adrian and I are. 1162 00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:27,760 Yeah, how are we? 1163 00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:29,800 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1164 00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:31,160 So, obviously, Adrian... 1165 00:51:31,240 --> 00:51:35,840 Just before you continue, your eyes are swollen. 1166 00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:37,400 Have you been crying? 1167 00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:40,440 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1168 00:51:57,440 --> 00:51:58,720 You've missed out on it. 1169 00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:02,040 Everyone's straight into the questions, 1170 00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:05,400 asking how Adrian and I are. 1171 00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:09,080 Yeah, how are we? 1172 00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:12,480 So, obviously, Adrian... 1173 00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:16,200 CLEO: Just before you continue, your eyes are swollen. 1174 00:52:16,240 --> 00:52:17,680 Have you been crying? 1175 00:52:17,720 --> 00:52:18,960 No. 1176 00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:21,120 She's been sleeping, actually. 1177 00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:24,000 But, um... 1178 00:52:25,720 --> 00:52:27,640 Oooh, food. (LAUGHS) 1179 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:32,040 What is it? You won't like it. 1180 00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:33,160 Arancini balls. 1181 00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:41,840 You know, Awhina seems to have most of the problems, 1182 00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:43,600 so I wanted you guys to hear her out first. 1183 00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:45,960 WOMAN: Mmm. I agree. Mmm... 1184 00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:58,880 I think when starting a relationship with anyone, it's, like... 1185 00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:02,080 you don't expect grand, wild things at the beginning. 1186 00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,400 It's the little things that are important. 1187 00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:06,600 Not about the little things, like the... 1188 00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:09,320 Tell them what the real problem is that you're having. 1189 00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:12,600 Little things also matter, Fi. Don't forget that. 1190 00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:16,160 The little things paint a whole picture. 1191 00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:20,840 CLEO: I don't think Awhina's happy in her relationship with Adrian. 1192 00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:23,880 She looks tired, exhausted and sad. 1193 00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:25,920 She's given a lot to be here. 1194 00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:27,440 She's given up time away from her son. 1195 00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:29,160 She's giving up important milestones. 1196 00:53:29,240 --> 00:53:35,000 Awhina deserves a kind, loving partner who's going to support her. 1197 00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:38,680 AWHINA: Like, obviously, I want to show up for Adrian. 1198 00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:41,040 Like, that's why I said to him, "Let's have a conversation 1199 00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:43,560 "where we say what you need from me and what I need from you." 1200 00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:47,520 We didn't even have that conversation 1201 00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:49,040 because it started off... 1202 00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:50,640 We got to a disagreement and it ended... 1203 00:53:50,720 --> 00:53:52,920 What does showing up look like for you? 1204 00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:57,080 Honestly, just acknowledge that I exist would be really nice. 1205 00:53:57,120 --> 00:54:00,360 (TENSE MUSIC) 1206 00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:04,280 From day one, I've felt like I'm constantly asking questions 1207 00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:05,600 or I'm constantly complimenting, 1208 00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:07,880 even just asking him questions about what food he likes, 1209 00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:09,880 you know, 'cause I want to know... I want to get to know him. 1210 00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:12,480 And I just haven't felt the reciprocation on my end. 1211 00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:15,600 OK, so, what I'm hearing is this is all about Adrian right now. 1212 00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:17,520 So you can confidently sit here 1213 00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:19,560 and say that you don't partake in any of these problems? 1214 00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:22,880 Every time we have a conversation, I sugar-coat it. 1215 00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:25,080 I very much sugar-coat... That's on you. That's not on me. 1216 00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:27,000 That's you not communicating properly. 1217 00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:30,200 No, actually. No... It's actually ridiculous. 1218 00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:34,080 AWHINA: I'm overwhelmed right now. 1219 00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:37,920 He has three more people backing him up. 1220 00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:42,240 And so, I don't know how to explain my point of view to them. 1221 00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:46,920 Now, any time I address any real hurt, he'd get on the defence 1222 00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:48,720 and he'd shut me down 1223 00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:51,240 and I've struggled to have a voice with him. 1224 00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:53,160 It's just difficult. 1225 00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,560 It's hard. 1226 00:54:58,240 --> 00:54:59,480 You just keep re-validating 1227 00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:01,360 that you don't see me or you're not hearing me. 1228 00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:03,960 We have these conversations every single day. Two, three times a day. 1229 00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:05,560 That's me hearing you out. 1230 00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:11,000 There's hearing, Adrian, and listening and understanding... 1231 00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:12,920 Yeah. ..and actually reassuring me. 1232 00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:15,360 And you... 1233 00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:18,240 And then there's hearing. And then just shutting me down. 1234 00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:19,960 I heard you out. I've heard you out many times. 1235 00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:21,760 I definitely have. 1236 00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:23,880 So I'm making an effort, is what I'm saying. 1237 00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:27,680 I'm just gonna say something, Fi. You look really drained. 1238 00:55:27,720 --> 00:55:30,520 Your eyes are swollen. 1239 00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:36,760 That's not from sleeping. That's from crying. 1240 00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:40,960 (PENSIVE MUSIC) 1241 00:55:42,720 --> 00:55:44,840 Have you cried in front of me? 1242 00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:46,600 I've cried in front of you before, Adrian. 1243 00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:52,120 After last commitment ceremony and I was visibly upset. 1244 00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:56,200 When I've told you I feel a certain way, when I've said I'm upset, 1245 00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:57,760 do you know what you say afterwards? 1246 00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:02,920 Every time, "That's a you problem." Something... 1247 00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:04,440 Can I just say something? 1248 00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:06,840 I think it's really... It's really hard for anyone, 1249 00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:08,000 not just Adrian, 1250 00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:09,960 but to continuously show up for someone 1251 00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:12,240 when you are focusing a lot on the negatives... 1252 00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:15,880 because from what... 1253 00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:18,160 He hasn't even shown up, so let's just stop it there. 1254 00:56:18,240 --> 00:56:20,080 ..from what I've heard... He has not even shown up. 1255 00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:21,360 From what I've heard... Not even once. 1256 00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:22,800 I was talking. He has not even shown up. 1257 00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:24,880 I don't care. He has not shown up, not even once. 1258 00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:28,800 NARRATOR: Coming up... 1259 00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:31,600 CLEO: How dare you! How dare you! 1260 00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:35,560 ..serious family matters turn into a family feud. 1261 00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:37,080 They are not good enough to be in your life. 1262 00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:39,800 He's definitely not good enough to be in my nephew's life! 1263 00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:42,200 ELITA: This is ridiculous. I'm done. It's, like... 1264 00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:44,840 AWHINA: Good. Make sure you leave the apartment. 1265 00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:51,880 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1266 00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:56,840 AWHINA: There's hearing, Adrian, and listening and understanding... 1267 00:56:56,920 --> 00:56:58,480 Yeah. ..and actually reassuring me. 1268 00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:00,520 ADRIAN: And you... 1269 00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:04,320 And there's hearing and then just shutting me down. 1270 00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:07,280 JASMINE: Can I just say something? I think it's really... 1271 00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:10,080 It's really hard for anyone, not just Adrian, 1272 00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:11,920 but to continuously show up for someone 1273 00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:14,560 when you are focusing a lot on the negatives. 1274 00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:18,640 Because from what... 1275 00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:20,480 CLEO: He hasn't even shown up, so let's just stop it there. 1276 00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:22,160 From what I've heard... He has not even shown up. 1277 00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:23,840 Not even once. I was talking. 1278 00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:25,480 He has not even shown up. I don't care. 1279 00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:26,960 He has not shown up, not even once. 1280 00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:30,960 You were there, were you? Yeah, I was there. 1281 00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:32,640 ELITA: OK, Jasmine was speaking 1282 00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:34,520 and Cleo just started speaking over the top of her. 1283 00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:36,240 Literally. I didn't even get to finish what I was saying. 1284 00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:39,720 I totally understand where you feel like you haven't been shown up... 1285 00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:41,920 AWHINA: But I haven't even told you how I haven't been shown up for yet. 1286 00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:43,480 I've asked you so many times and you just said... 1287 00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:45,280 I was trying to... ..bouncing around the situation. 1288 00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:48,960 Well, Cleo cut Jasmine off 1289 00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:50,760 when she was trying to get the answer from you. 1290 00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:52,680 CLEO: That's not how a husband shows up. 1291 00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:55,200 (TENSE MUSIC) 1292 00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:02,960 Actually, you know what, I'm not going to lie, 1293 00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:05,720 we just had intruders move in, right? 1294 00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:06,640 Intruders. 1295 00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:09,080 I've been asked by one of the intruders 1296 00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:11,480 more questions about my life and my son 1297 00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:13,880 than I've been asked by Adrian in the entire experiment. 1298 00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:16,440 ADRIAN: What have you asked me? Not one time... Everything. 1299 00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:22,800 When we went to Fiji, she said to me...she goes, 1300 00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:25,280 "When I'm ready to talk about my son, I will talk about her son..." 1301 00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:29,720 We had this conversation. We agreed. I said to everyone... 1302 00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:31,280 That's not exactly how the conversation went. 1303 00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:32,280 I said to everyone... 1304 00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:35,760 I said to everyone, "I feel like 1305 00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:37,960 "this is obviously a special person in her life. 1306 00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:40,760 "When she's ready to talk and comfortable to talk about her son, 1307 00:58:40,800 --> 00:58:42,040 'I will talk." 1308 00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:44,040 And that's what she said to me. So I don't want to overstep my ground. 1309 00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:45,720 This is what she said to me. 1310 00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:47,320 ELITA: I happen to be someone with a son. 1311 00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:50,000 If I had said to someone "I don't want to speak of my son," 1312 00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:52,040 I would hope that they would take that very seriously... 1313 00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:53,640 That's not what I said. 1314 00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:56,840 I've not been once asked by you how my son is. It's just true. 1315 00:58:56,880 --> 00:58:57,840 You've never even asked me. 1316 00:58:57,920 --> 00:58:59,720 NIKOLA: Wait, can I stop you there for a second? 1317 00:58:59,800 --> 00:59:02,160 So, initially, you said when the time is right, 1318 00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:03,520 you'll open up about your son... 1319 00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:04,680 No, that's not the conversation, how it went. 1320 00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:06,080 That's what you said. Something to that effect. 1321 00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:08,360 You just said that. You said that. 1322 00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:09,640 This is a roadblock for us. 1323 00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:12,520 So when you're ready, you'll open up about it, right? 1324 00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:14,320 That's fine. It'll come naturally. 1325 00:59:14,400 --> 00:59:17,840 I've been naturally mentioning my son. 1326 00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:20,760 JASMINE: You said when you were ready you would speak about him. 1327 00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:23,160 I've actually brought up my son a few times, 1328 00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:25,520 just randomly here and there and that's actually true. 1329 00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:31,760 Well, actually, of course she did. She's a fantastic mother. 1330 00:59:31,840 --> 00:59:33,920 So how about we lose that attitude about her being a mum... 1331 00:59:34,000 --> 00:59:38,400 NIKOLA: You're the only one that... I do not appreciate that at all. 1332 00:59:38,480 --> 00:59:40,200 When did I say... The fact that you just denied it... 1333 00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:42,520 She's the best fricken mum there is. When did I say she wasn't? 1334 00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:44,760 How dare you! How dare you! 1335 00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:46,720 I make comments about my son all the time. 1336 00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:49,480 ELITA: Just lower the decibels. No, how (BLEEP) dare you! 1337 00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:54,000 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1338 00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:58,400 She is the best mum there is. You are wretched. 1339 01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:03,280 Fi, you're fighting, fighting, fighting with these people 1340 01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:04,960 and it's never gonna get through. No-one's fighting... 1341 01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:07,760 You are a fantastic mother, you're a beautiful person. 1342 01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:10,560 You give, give, give, give on a daily basis. 1343 01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:14,000 You have so much light that you share with everyone 1344 01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:16,600 and I don't see any of that light in you today. 1345 01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:18,360 They are not good enough to be in your life. 1346 01:00:18,440 --> 01:00:20,000 He's definitely not good enough to be in my nephew's life. 1347 01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:23,360 You will never, ever, ever let him meet my nephew. 1348 01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:24,480 NIKOLA: ..this aggressive and... 1349 01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:25,800 I'm actually quite embarrassed by her. 1350 01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:27,880 You deserve more than this. ELITA: You know what, I actually... 1351 01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:29,680 I just don't need to listen to this shit. 1352 01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:30,800 Goodbye. JASMINE: Pointless conversation. 1353 01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:32,440 It really is. You can't reason. 1354 01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:35,760 This is just ridiculous. I'm done. It's, like... 1355 01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:39,320 AWHINA: Good. Make sure you leave the apartment. 1356 01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:42,480 And actually pack your stuff this time. 1357 01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:44,320 (TENSE MUSIC) 1358 01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:50,080 He sat there the entire time making snarky remarks... 1359 01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:51,480 You know what, they planned it. They planned it. 1360 01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:52,520 They did. 1361 01:00:55,560 --> 01:00:58,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1362 01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:02,760 It's time for you to come home. 1363 01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:05,920 I thought I would come in alone 1364 01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:09,240 because obviously I don't think anything is gonna resolve itself 1365 01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:10,640 with everybody. 1366 01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:12,040 But I thought, like, you know, 1367 01:01:12,120 --> 01:01:14,000 I would come in and have a conversation 1368 01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:16,880 because, you know, as a mother, I know what you've given up. 1369 01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:19,360 But, you know, I've given up time with my son 1370 01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:20,920 for these four days to come here 1371 01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:25,600 and to feel this attack, number one, at us, right, let alone my brother, 1372 01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:28,120 so that's a really difficult situation to be in. 1373 01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:30,880 I think there's, like, a lot of finger-pointing. 1374 01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:36,160 But, you know, I think you did have an opportunity to leave. 1375 01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:39,320 Your brother actually asked me to stay to my face. 1376 01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:41,520 I think, you know, you're only looking at yourself... 1377 01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:42,800 You literally sat there and you think 1378 01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:44,240 that was me attacking your brother? 1379 01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:45,760 I barely needed to point a finger at him. 1380 01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:47,960 I'm sorry, but you guys came in very aggressive. 1381 01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:49,240 Jasmine was simply asking, 1382 01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:51,680 how do you perceive showing up, right, 1383 01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:53,840 and you couldn't even answer that question, so... 1384 01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:55,760 Oh, my god. Do you know why? 1385 01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:58,680 Because when I said I just want to be seen just the littlest bit, 1386 01:01:58,720 --> 01:02:00,760 I mean genuinely just a little bit. 1387 01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:02,640 Everybody has different ways of showing up. 1388 01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:04,320 I think, you know... He completely ignores me. 1389 01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:05,320 ..you have this expectation... 1390 01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:06,720 No, actually, I had zero expectations. 1391 01:02:06,800 --> 01:02:08,400 You've not been there for the last few weeks 1392 01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:09,640 and I will not have this conversation. 1393 01:02:09,720 --> 01:02:11,280 Do you know why I won't have this conversation? 1394 01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:14,960 There's, like, no reasoning with unreasonable people... 1395 01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:16,880 Back at you, babe. I'm gonna tell you right now. 1396 01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:19,160 I'm not gonna tolerate this kind of behaviour anymore. 1397 01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:20,240 OK. Walk along. 1398 01:02:20,320 --> 01:02:21,920 Oh... Goodbye, babe. 1399 01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:23,720 You're just not worth it, honey. Oh, you are not worth it. 1400 01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:27,080 Trust me. You, your brother, no-one. 1401 01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:39,080 I think, you know, you have this expectation... 1402 01:02:39,160 --> 01:02:41,200 No, actually, I have zero expectation. 1403 01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:42,960 You've not been there for the last few weeks 1404 01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:44,520 and I will not have this conversation. 1405 01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:45,880 Do you know why I won't have this conversation? 1406 01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:49,200 There's, like, no reasoning with unreasonable people... 1407 01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:51,480 Back at you, babe. I'm just gonna tell you right now. 1408 01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:52,320 Oh, gosh... 1409 01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:53,960 I'm not gonna tolerate this kind of behaviour anymore. 1410 01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:54,800 OK. Walk along. 1411 01:02:54,880 --> 01:02:56,880 Oh...you're just not worth it, honey. 1412 01:02:56,960 --> 01:03:00,120 Oh, you are not worth it, trust me. You, your brother, no-one. 1413 01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:03,800 She came in here... Yeah, I know. Babe... 1414 01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:05,360 ..said straight off the bat... Shoo, fly. 1415 01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:08,080 Straight off the bat, she said, "You could have left. 1416 01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:10,760 "Why are you here? You could have left." 1417 01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:14,280 At the end of the day, you said 'leave'. 1418 01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:17,800 If he sat there giving you empty promises and false hope, 1419 01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:19,080 of course you'll stay. 1420 01:03:19,120 --> 01:03:20,840 It was three against one 1421 01:03:20,920 --> 01:03:26,600 and I just wish that Fi had more support there to defend her. 1422 01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:28,480 You know, every time she opened her mouth, 1423 01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:34,360 they tried to make her look bad or they were condescending. 1424 01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:38,680 This could've been a nice lunch. It was never going to be. 1425 01:03:38,760 --> 01:03:43,000 I actually feel quite embarrassed and upset, actually. 1426 01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:45,000 I feel embarrassed for Awhina and her sister. 1427 01:03:45,040 --> 01:03:46,240 Mainly Cleo. 1428 01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:49,600 And I feel upset that I put my sisters and Jasmine 1429 01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:51,040 in that situation. 1430 01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:53,760 CLEO: The fact that she even made a 'hmm' about you being a mum... 1431 01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:56,920 You are the best mum in this world. 1432 01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:58,600 This really sucks. I know it does. 1433 01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:00,400 (CRIES) 1434 01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:02,880 (SIGHS) 1435 01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:05,080 I hate seeing you like this. 1436 01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:07,280 I haven't cried all morning! 1437 01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:09,280 I knew that, because I can see it in your eyes. 1438 01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:12,000 (CRIES) 1439 01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:17,400 Not only has Adrian treated me really poorly 1440 01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:18,520 throughout this experiment 1441 01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:21,120 and treated me as such an afterthought 1442 01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:23,840 and had very conditional affection, 1443 01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:25,360 he's gaslit me... 1444 01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:26,760 (CRIES) 1445 01:04:26,840 --> 01:04:31,520 But he's also tried to shine a very horrible light on me 1446 01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:32,920 any chance he gets. 1447 01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:36,560 I gave up a lot to be here, in Sydney, away from my child. 1448 01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:38,840 Now I'm just mad and I'm pissed off. 1449 01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:40,240 And how's Cleo? 1450 01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:42,440 You've left so much behind... I know. 1451 01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:44,000 ..as if you don't have a life of your own also. 1452 01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:46,920 We all gave up something, so we're all in the same boat. 1453 01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:48,800 And it's not just because you have a son that you've given up more. 1454 01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:50,240 Yeah. I've given up just as much as her. 1455 01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:54,800 I've given up time away from my job. I've given up time away from my dog. 1456 01:04:56,240 --> 01:04:58,240 I don't even think he knows your son's name. 1457 01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:02,040 I don't think he pays any attention to you and it's sad to see. 1458 01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:06,040 (CRIES) If he wrote 'stay' and genuinely tried, like... 1459 01:05:06,080 --> 01:05:07,520 CLEO: You deserve it. 1460 01:05:07,600 --> 01:05:12,920 You are asking for so little, when you deserve so much more. 1461 01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:15,920 I just keep giving him all these opportunities 1462 01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:17,720 to show me that he's a nice person 1463 01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:22,840 or that he actually has just the tiniest bit of care for me. 1464 01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:26,560 But there's... There's nothing. 1465 01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:28,520 Listen, you've done what you can. 1466 01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:31,440 At the same time, you know what, I did write 'stay', 1467 01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:34,760 so it's only fair for me in the man that I am to stay to the end. 1468 01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:36,400 Like, I'm staying for that commitment ceremony, 1469 01:05:36,440 --> 01:05:39,040 because that's me showing up again. 1470 01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:40,960 Now, I'm a twin. My sisters are twins. 1471 01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:43,320 I understand, like, you're defensive for your sister, 1472 01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:44,960 she's going off her head. 1473 01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:47,560 Like, even though I felt like pulling up Cleo... 1474 01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:50,080 but at the same time, I just wanted to let her embarrass herself. 1475 01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:57,200 What are you, (BLEEP) ten years old? Like... 1476 01:05:57,280 --> 01:06:01,600 Look, you can put a ribbon on a garbage bin, but what is that? 1477 01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:03,200 It's still trash. WOMAN: Yeah. 1478 01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:06,080 Like, let's just be honest. (WOMEN LAUGH) 1479 01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:07,560 NARRATOR: Tomorrow night... 1480 01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:09,120 (WOMAN LAUGHS) 1481 01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:11,960 ..friends and family week continues. 1482 01:06:12,040 --> 01:06:14,200 WOMAN: We can see the way Carina looks at you. 1483 01:06:14,280 --> 01:06:17,080 WOMAN: You look happy. You really do. 1484 01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:19,640 You can tell the chemistry is definitely there 1485 01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:21,240 and I do see a future. 1486 01:06:21,320 --> 01:06:23,840 To new beginnings and family. Yes. 1487 01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:26,600 You are being unreasonable and I will not tolerate it. 1488 01:06:26,680 --> 01:06:30,320 What causes Veronica to lash out at Eliot? 1489 01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:32,720 Do not raise your voice at me. I've had enough. 1490 01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:34,480 ELIOT: This is so civil. I've had enough! 1491 01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:36,720 Emotions reach breaking point 1492 01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:39,880 as they navigate the first week of married life. 1493 01:06:39,920 --> 01:06:41,760 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1494 01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:47,440 And in an unexpected turn of events, 1495 01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:51,360 which couple will announce their exciting baby news? 1496 01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:54,360 (GENTLE MUSIC BOX MELODY PLAYS) 1497 01:06:58,480 --> 01:07:01,440 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv 113453

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