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NARRATOR: Previously...
Leave.
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I just wrote 'leave'.
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..Sierah and Billy both chose
to leave the experiment
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and their marriage.
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JOHN: You had a chance to say,
"You know what, I regret that.
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"I'm sorry."
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And when the experts held Eliot
to account...
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Eliot, what do you say to this?
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..he apologised
for abandoning Lauren.
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It might not ever be something
that you'll forgive
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but I'm sorry nonetheless.
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Thanks.
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I will be staying.
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I'm staying. (LAUGHS)
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
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Love blossomed
for most of our couples.
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Those feelings are definitely there.
I care about her so much.
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I really wasn't expecting to kind of
click this quickly with someone.
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We've been intimate.
ALESSANDRA: Oh!
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(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
Good news!
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I wrote 'sorry, leave'.
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NARRATOR: Awhina drew her line
in the sand with Adrian.
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Stay.
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JOHN: With the rules
of this experiment,
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if one person says stay
and the other says leave,
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they stay for another week
to see if they can turn it around.
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It's on your shoulders to really do
some big-time lifting.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Tonight...
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CLINT: Wow. Here we go.
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..our three newest couples
move into the apartments...
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Oh, how cute is that!
Oh, my god! Look!
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..as they get a crash course
in married life.
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Well, obviously
this dirty, stinky rat goes there.
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I just kind of want to hear, like,
your side.
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I feel so sorry for you.
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Eliot's about as shallow
as a pond in a desert.
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But is Lauren poisoning
Veronica and Eliot's well?
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Eliot is a narcissist.
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It is really disheartening
to hear that insight into Eliot.
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Run.
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And then the next phase
of the experiment begins.
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Where are our guests?
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(SCREAMING AND LAUGHTER)
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Over two big nights...
Hi, guys.
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..family and friends week returns.
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You guys are happy?
We are, we are.
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Our couples get
much-needed perspective...
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You've gotta have each other's back.
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..from their partners' loved ones.
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This is gaslighting.
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That's your interpretation of it
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but that doesn't mean
that it's true.
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But for Awhina and Adrian...
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You are focusing a lot on
the negatives, because from what...
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He hasn't even shown up.
So let's just stop it there.
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I was talking.
I don't care.
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..when their families
come together...
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How dare you!
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..all hell breaks loose.
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I actually... I just... I don't need
to listen to this.
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Goodbye.
Pointless conversation.
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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Today marks an important milestone
in the experiment...
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Hopefully we've got enough
wardrobe space for all your luggage.
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(LAUGHS)
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..with our newest couples
moving into their apartments.
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We have a booking
for Beth and Teejay.
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I think it was the penthouse
or something like that.
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Starting over four weeks
behind the others...
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CLINT: Wow. Here we go.
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It's the metal
that we've been waiting for.
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(LAUGHS)
Congratulations. You've made it.
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..they'll now be taking
a crash course in the experiment
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to help fast-track
their relationships
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and get them to the same level
as the other couples.
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CLINT: Oh, wow.
How good's this?
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Oh, wow.
So spacious. Oh, my gosh.
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(EXCLAIMS)
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VERONICA: Oh, cute!
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Moving in together after a matter
of days will be challenging.
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(GASPS) Oh, my god! Look!
(LAUGHS)
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Aw!
What?!
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But it's a great way
for our newest couples
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to learn how the relationship
could work in the real world.
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Oh, I'm so glad
they got the shoes in.
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Those shoes are so cute,
don't you reckon?
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Yeah, yeah.
(LAUGHS)
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Look at us. (LAUGHS)
I can't believe this!
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This has the potential to help them
deepen their bonds, build trust
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and create
some much-needed intimacy.
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See, look, you don't need much space
on the bed.
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(BOTH LAUGH)
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Oh, there's a picture of us
next to the bed!
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Oh, my god, I love it!
Oh, my god.
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Oh, how cute is that!
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That's a really nice photo.
Oh, how pretty.
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Oh, we look so cute.
School formal.
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School formal.
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Remember that day
like it was yesterday.
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Oh, my god.
This is so nice, isn't it?
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This is so nice.
Feels amazing.
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Like, seeing our names on the door,
I'm just... I'm so happy to be here.
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I think we'll go very well
living together.
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(LAUGHS)
(HUMS)
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Don't drop me.
That was good, wasn't it?
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That was very good.
(HUMS)
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(BOTH LAUGH)
Right?
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He makes me laugh so much.
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Like, honestly,
I have so much fun with him.
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He makes me laugh and I literally
have tears coming out of my eyes,
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so he's just so much fun
to be around.
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So I just love living with him.
He's great.
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Is it hot?
Of course it's hot.
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Hey?
Do you know who else is hot?
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(LAUGHS)
Me.
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Argh!
He was smacking me bum.
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He calls me 'Sugar Tush'.
He loves my little tushy.
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I think we'll be great.
Green flags everywhere.
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Oh, this is so nice, isn't it?
This is luxury living.
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It is. I love it.
Home sweet home.
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LAUREN: Can we open the door?
CLINT: Get some fresh air in.
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Yeah.
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(FUMBLES WITH LOCK)
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(LAUGHS) First time opening it.
Have you been opening doors long?
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(LAUGHS) Uh...
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I think it's locked.
We can have balcony parties.
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(LAUGHS)
Wow.
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There we go.
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Hopefully you're better
at being a husband
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than you are at opening doors.
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(LAUGHS)
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We just moved into the apartment,
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which is further than I got
with Eliot.
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Need to do actually
quite a bit of washing.
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I actually enjoy washing.
Do you?
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Do you like washing?
Yeah, I think it's a girl's job.
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Really?
Yeah.
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What are you saying?
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(BOTH LAUGH)
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I'm saying
just leave the washing to me.
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I actually really want to do
the washing.
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Oh, god.
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LAUREN: I mean, I've never met a man
that wants to do washing.
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For me, gender roles
are very important.
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I want to look after
and, like, serve my husband.
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That makes me happy.
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So we'll see.
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(FUMBLES WITH LOCK)
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Not this again.
(LAUGHS)
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As our newlyweds
are just settling in,
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elsewhere,
an original groom is moving out.
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(LOUD KNOCK AT DOOR)
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What the (BLEEP)!
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That is the most aggressive
knock.
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(TENSE MUSIC)
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Oh!
Hey, guys!
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(LAUGHS)
Honey, I'm home!
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(LAUGHS)
Who's this?
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These are my kids.
And I've got one last favour to ask.
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Can you look after my kids, please?
Yes.
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Please.
Chuck them in here.
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They need to be looked after.
We need this.
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You need to look after Mila
and Penny.
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JAMIE: No.
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Billy came and dropped us off fish
and now I'm a fish mum.
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(SIGHS)
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A bloody fish mum.
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This is filthy.
It is.
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This is probably why...
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They've been shitting
all over the place.
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This is the epitome of yours
and Sierah's relationship.
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It's just a (BLEEP) bowl of shit.
(LAUGHS)
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A dirty tank.
What the (BLEEP) is this?
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I mean,
I'm not gonna argue with you there.
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And if I come home
and the fish is dead...
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Because I don't know how
to look after fish.
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He wants me to look after a fish and
now I'm gonna have two dead fish.
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And I feel like also
it's a bad juju.
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Like, this was
Sierah and Billy's babies
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and look what happened
to their relationship.
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Oh, man, I'm gonna miss you, bro.
I'm gonna miss you, brother.
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Thanks for everything.
Appreciate you loads.
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See you later, alright?
Bye.
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And I'm rooting
for both of you guys.
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On a positive note, my relationship
is going really well.
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Are you feeling OK?
Yeah, I'll be alright. I'm just sad.
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I'm great mates with Billy
and I'm gonna miss him so much,
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but also I'm pretty proud
of Jamie and I, to be honest.
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It's... Like I said, coming into
this experience, it's sort of...
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You don't know which way
you're gonna go
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and, you know,
lots are up in the air.
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All the effort
to smile when we talk...
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Look back at our friends
in the group and sort of, you know,
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show them that it can work.
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You gotta just put in the time.
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I think you sort of...from the start
I had Jamie's back
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and, you know, she's let me know
that she's got mine,
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so it's really blossomed
into this relationship.
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And they we're like
the strong couple.
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Leading from the front.
Yeah.
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We're the leaders of the pack.
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While Jamie and Dave
continue to move forward with ease...
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MORENA: You're the only one, Tony.
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..Morena and Tony are
simply retreading familiar ground.
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I don't think any of them,
any of them headlock their women.
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I've asked him to stop
headlocking me and he still does it.
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A little "Khhh!" on the head
that he does. (LAUGHS)
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That's how I show sometimes
my affection
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and my touch and things like that.
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A headlock is affection?
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(LAUGHTER)
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OK.
I don't like it.
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That's my way of just being nice
to you. I don't hurt you.
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What I've got from the couch
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is that I'm gonna keep my comments
down to a bare minimum.
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Like, still gonna be myself
and still be Tony
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and see how she handles it
with the less comments
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and the jokes and the hug-locks
and the fist-pumps. (LAUGHS)
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Down the hallway,
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Awhina and Adrian are still very much
staying in separate rooms,
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following a tumultuous
commitment ceremony.
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You know, I heard everything
Awhina had to say tonight.
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She wasn't being seen
and she was unheard.
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And the only way to fix that
was to say 'stay'.
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(APPLAUSE)
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(CLEARS THROAT)
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Um...
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You know, like, confessions week
when we all had to write letters?
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I went through my drawer today
and I read through it.
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At the end of it, I wrote how
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"Being a mum,
you have to put your child first
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"and now, here I am, being selfish,
missing out on real milestones
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"in the pursuit of love.
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"I guess time will tell if I made
the right decision or not..."
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and coming on this experiment,
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how I felt today
didn't feel worth being away
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from those very real milestones.
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So, yeah, I'm...
Yeah, I wrote...
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I wrote 'sorry, leave'.
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Now, as per the rules
of the experiment,
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Awhina will continue
in the relationship
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following her husband Adrian's
decision to stay,
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giving them another week
to work on their relationship.
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Hey.
What's happening?
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Not a lot. How are you?
Hmm?
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Come on, give me a hug.
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I wrote 'stay' for a reason and
I'm willing to put in the effort.
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How are you feeling
after last night?
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I'm feeling pretty flat.
Mmm.
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Are you feeling the same?
Yeah, tired.
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Just like tired? Yeah.
Yeah.
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How are you feeling about us?
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Haven't really got any...
feelings on it right now.
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But, I mean, looking forward
to the future
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and today and onwards,
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do you think, you know, we can
come back from the past few days?
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You know, if I'm willing
to put the effort in,
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like I said last night, I need to
know you're willing to do the same.
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Because it takes two tango,
you know what I'm saying?
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Yeah, it definitely does take two
to tango.
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I'm sorry, but you don't just go
to a commitment ceremony
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and sit down and just be, like,
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"OK, my feelings that I was feeling
are now gone
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"and I completely forgive you
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"and let's just go back to
how we were before,
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"where I was doing 85% of the work
and you were doing 15,"
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because I heard him say
"It takes two to tango."
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I know, because I've been tangoing
on my own
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for the last four weeks, so...
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I think the last past few weeks,
not just the weekend in itself,
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we've been speaking a lot
about the past
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and obviously the issues
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and I think we just need to be
a bit more transparent and more open
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and understanding, most importantly,
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of why we are feeling the way
we're feeling, on both ends
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and accepting that.
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Mmm.
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What are you thinking?
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AWHINA: Do you know
what I would've really loved?
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If he walked in this morning
and said,
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"Hey, I know last night went the way
it did, but I truly am sorry.
282
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"Like, I truly didn't see
how me leaving Friday,
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"my ring on the counter,
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"going out for dinner
Saturday night with Sierah,
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"not telling you about it
for 24 hours,
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"not texting you,
not checking in on you
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"and then coming in
and expecting an apology,
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"I truly didn't see
how that could come across
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"as a bad thing for you, you know."
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I would've really appreciated
an apology.
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Honestly, I'm really struggling
to have this conversation right now
292
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or even just talk about feelings
in general.
293
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I'm not even talking about feelings.
Or just like...
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I don't even want to
talk about them.
295
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Like, I'm literally just talking
about going forward.
296
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I'm not talking about feelings,
I'm not talking about, you know...
297
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We don't have to relive what we
already know and speak about.
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I'm not wanting to relive anything.
That's what I'm saying.
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Like, hear me right now.
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I don't want to talk about
anything right now.
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Um...
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It's been an intense few weeks.
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A bit of an emotional rollercoaster.
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AWHINA: He doesn't cater to me
at all.
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He doesn't ask me questions.
306
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Also, at the end of last night's
commitment ceremony,
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he ended it with "I understand
Awhina's giving up a lot to be here.
308
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"You know, she's got a son
back home."
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My son, who I... This is...
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Like, he has not asked me one time
since I've met him how my son is.
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Not once.
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I mean, I think...
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And moving forward, I think,
you know, have some hope
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that we can get back to how we were.
315
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(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
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(JEFF EXCLAIMS)
WOMAN: Hello!
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Coming up, friends and family week
gets underway.
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WOMAN: Hello.
MAN: Hello, peanuts!
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PEOPLE: Hey!
A peck on ze lips!
320
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And things go from bad...
Have you been crying?
321
00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:38,760
No.
She's been sleeping, actually.
322
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..to worse for Awhina and Adrian.
323
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You deserve more than this.
324
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WOMAN: Actually, I I don't need
to listen to this shit.
325
00:14:46,400 --> 00:14:47,400
Goodbye.
Pointless conversation.
326
00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:48,480
It is.
It really is.
327
00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:49,960
You can't reason...
I think this is just ridiculous.
328
00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:52,000
I'm done.
329
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NARRATOR:
With the start of a new week,
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our original couples
are about to enter
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the next exciting stage
of the experiment -
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family and friends week.
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DAVE: Are you excited?
JAMIE: I'm excited to see everyone.
334
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ADRIAN: How do you think
it's gonna go?
335
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AWHINA: I don't really know.
336
00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:17,480
Usually when I hang out with family,
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it's to sit down
and have a really good time.
338
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JOHN: In the past,
we have seen this week
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make or break some of our couples.
340
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The opinions and influence
of loved ones
341
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can sometimes have
a positive and constructive impact
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or a devastating one
on our couples' relationships.
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TONY: Where are we at?
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This is what I'm thinking.
Where is it going?
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JOHN: But the goal remains the same -
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for our couples to reflect
on the journey so far
347
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and to identify and address
any issues that may have come up
348
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during their time in the experiment
349
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with the help and support
of the people who know them best.
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(EXCLAIMS)
WOMAN: Hello!
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NARRATOR: Rhi and Jeff are meeting
Rhi's cousin Shayna...
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Oh, hello, Cheryl.
..mum Cheryl...
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Come here. I'm a hugger.
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00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:05,760
..and sister Emily...
355
00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:08,520
Hi. Nice to meet you. Mwah.
Hi, Emily. Nice to meet you.
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CHERYL: All any parent ever wants
is for their child to be happy.
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That's all we ever want.
358
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So, hopefully I'll get down
to the nitty-gritty with her.
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Tell Mama.
360
00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:20,880
..and Jeff's mates
Lachlan and Cameron.
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Hey, brother. How are you?
What's going on?
362
00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:25,160
Good to see you, mate.
Yeah, good.
363
00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:26,040
This is Rhi.
Rhi. I'm Rhi.
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00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:27,320
Hi, brother.
Nice to meet you.
365
00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:28,600
How are you?
366
00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:31,120
I think it'll be good to find out
if they've got a connection,
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00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:33,160
first and foremost -
I think that's important.
368
00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:35,080
Yeah, how they've been going
living together.
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LACHLAN: How are you guys going
with the experiment?
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00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:39,880
RHI: Yeah, we're actually going
really good,
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00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:42,400
like, considering obviously
we knew each other...
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Yeah.
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00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:44,880
..and, like, turning around
and knowing each other
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00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:46,200
was a bit of a shock
'cause, you know,
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00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:47,520
you think you're going to marry
a stranger.
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00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:48,920
LACHLAN: Yeah.
EMILY: That's actually wild.
377
00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:51,920
Do you feel like it took away
from the day at all for you, though?
378
00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:54,840
For me personally, I was,
like, expecting a stranger,
379
00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:57,640
so, like, it was no disappointment
that it was Rhi by any means
380
00:16:57,720 --> 00:16:59,240
but it was, like,
I was expecting that
381
00:16:59,280 --> 00:17:01,000
and I had my mind fixated on that
382
00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:02,880
and then when I that didn't happen,
I was a bit, like, "Oh."
383
00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:03,720
Yeah.
384
00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:06,120
But now, like, now, we we're at,
like, I'm, like,
385
00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:07,200
I couldn't be more thankful.
386
00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:09,240
Like, it's just worked out so well.
Yeah. Good.
387
00:17:09,320 --> 00:17:11,120
And we look around at all the
other couples in the experiment,
388
00:17:11,200 --> 00:17:12,440
like, a lot of struggling.
Yeah.
389
00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:13,920
And, like, we've just really had
no struggles.
390
00:17:13,960 --> 00:17:15,280
No, it's been good.
391
00:17:15,360 --> 00:17:16,960
Are you both glad now that you
didn't get matched with a stranger?
392
00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:19,600
Yeah.
Are you glad that it's each other?
393
00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:20,800
Now we are.
100%.
394
00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:23,160
Yeah.
Like, I've said this before, like...
395
00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:24,320
But not in terms of
just being comfortable.
396
00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:26,920
Like, in terms of, like,
finding love.
397
00:17:26,960 --> 00:17:28,520
(LAUGHTER)
398
00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:31,680
Thank you for making it...so meme
so quickly, Shay-Shay.
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00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:34,440
We've got limited time, guys,
come on. (LAUGHS)
400
00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:38,400
When we are on our honeymoon,
we were, like, quite separate.
401
00:17:38,440 --> 00:17:40,120
Like, we slept in the same bed
402
00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:42,320
but, like, we weren't,
like, obviously affectionate
403
00:17:42,360 --> 00:17:43,560
or anything like that
404
00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:45,120
and I remember
in the honeymoon thinking, like,
405
00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:47,600
I don't know if there's ever
going to be anything
406
00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:48,760
more than this friendship.
407
00:17:48,840 --> 00:17:51,520
But then, like, we had to do
confessions week
408
00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:53,080
and then we had to do intimacy week.
409
00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:53,960
OTHERS: Yeah.
Yeah.
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00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:56,320
So, those two weeks of, like,
confessions week and intimacy week
411
00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,840
progressed our relationship
quite a lot
412
00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:00,560
because we had to really open up.
413
00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:02,160
It's just like Rhi said.
414
00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:03,880
It's taken us to, like, a new level
415
00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:05,920
and advanced our relationship
by, like, light years.
416
00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:07,080
LACHLAN: That's good.
417
00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:09,200
It's, like, sort of pushed it, like,
a year forward, almost.
418
00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:10,400
Like, that's how it feels.
That's great.
419
00:18:10,480 --> 00:18:13,280
Rhi knows me better than, like,
a lot of people in my life.
420
00:18:13,320 --> 00:18:15,840
Like, 99% of people in my life...
421
00:18:15,920 --> 00:18:18,760
Like, I've said things to Rhi that,
you know, people don't know.
422
00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:21,120
WOMAN: Do you struggle getting
no alone time?
423
00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:23,560
Like, I guess alone time for us
is we don't have a lot.
424
00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:24,400
Yeah.
425
00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:25,920
Getting your hair cut
and getting my nails done.
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00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:28,800
But even then, like, I literally...
I'm happy, like...
427
00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:31,680
I'm happy to spend
literally every second with Rhi,
428
00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:33,920
like, and when I'm by myself,
I'm the same.
429
00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:35,080
Mmm.
"Where is she?"
430
00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:36,840
(LAUGHTER)
"Where is she?"
431
00:18:36,920 --> 00:18:39,560
She's pretty lovely.
Yeah, extremely lucky.
432
00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:40,640
Eyes tell everything.
433
00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:41,800
You can look in someone's eyes
434
00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:44,280
and when you've got children and
you're so invested in their future,
435
00:18:44,360 --> 00:18:47,280
when you've got someone
sitting next to them, you really...
436
00:18:47,360 --> 00:18:49,640
you listen and you observe
and I think he's lovely.
437
00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:50,920
Honestly, I do.
438
00:18:52,320 --> 00:18:55,120
You know, they're warming
and loving and caring
439
00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:56,480
and they just want
what's best for Rhi
440
00:18:56,560 --> 00:19:00,240
and the vibe I got off family
is at the moment Rhi's happy
441
00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:01,640
and that's all they care about.
442
00:19:01,720 --> 00:19:03,920
And they want to know
that she's being taken care of,
443
00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:05,280
which I feel like I'm doing,
444
00:19:05,360 --> 00:19:07,680
so, yeah, I feel like
I've passed the family test.
445
00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:10,920
MAN: So you guys have had no issues
throughout the experiment at all?
446
00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:13,000
Not with us.
Not with us.
447
00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:15,160
Like, there was a bit of drama
with another couple.
448
00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:19,720
WOMAN: The couple together
or, like, the girl or the boy?
449
00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:23,920
RHI: So, she reached out to Jeff
450
00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:27,480
and wanted to catch up with Jeff
for a coffee without me there.
451
00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:28,560
What?
Oooh.
452
00:19:28,600 --> 00:19:30,360
Yeah.
453
00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:32,200
I guess it's 'cause
he's so handsome.
454
00:19:32,240 --> 00:19:35,440
(LAUGHTER)
455
00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:49,000
I'm feeling great about having
some mates over. Yeah.
456
00:19:50,560 --> 00:19:52,400
They're from
completely different areas,
457
00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:53,680
completely different backgrounds,
so...
458
00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:54,720
Right.
459
00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:56,680
..there's gonna be, like,
a lot of different energies around.
460
00:19:56,720 --> 00:19:59,400
Can't wait to get my bro a beer.
461
00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:02,920
Where are our guests?
Oooh. I don't have a watch.
462
00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:05,720
Yeah, I'm keen to get cracking.
463
00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:07,280
(KNOCK AT DOOR)
464
00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:08,480
(SINGSONGS) Who is it?
465
00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:09,720
JACQUI: Trick or treat.
466
00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:13,120
(SCREAMING AND LAUGHTER)
467
00:20:13,160 --> 00:20:16,680
(LOW-LEVEL CONVERSATION)
468
00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:22,760
WOMAN: Jacqui deserves someone
who is worthy of her.
469
00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:25,800
She's 100% in, you know.
She opens her heart.
470
00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,920
She just bares it all
and she's so truthful and honest.
471
00:20:29,000 --> 00:20:30,240
Oh, gorgeous.
Yeah.
472
00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:33,200
MAN: Hello, peanuts!
Hey!
473
00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,360
A peck on ze lips!
(WOMAN LAUGHS)
474
00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,760
Oh, my brother!
Hi!
475
00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:41,240
Usually he's the most happy,
positive guy you'd meet.
476
00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:42,480
KARLA: Always. (LAUGHS)
477
00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:44,040
It's next-level, you know,
478
00:20:44,120 --> 00:20:46,280
and just a few times
I've spoken to him on the phone,
479
00:20:46,360 --> 00:20:49,320
just that spark in his voice
isn't there 100%.
480
00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:51,600
He's, like, dealing with shit...
Stuff. Sorry.
481
00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:53,640
Let's have a toast.
OK.
482
00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:54,960
To everyone coming together.
Cheers.
483
00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:56,600
Cheers.
Wedding crew reunited.
484
00:20:56,680 --> 00:20:58,040
Cheers.
Cheers.
485
00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:01,560
Mmm.
486
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:03,320
That's a tasty drop, that one.
It is.
487
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:05,440
It's nice.
(LAUGHTER)
488
00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:07,720
So, how have youse two
getting along?
489
00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:09,440
(LAUGHTER)
490
00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:11,120
Tell me. I want to know.
Straight into it.
491
00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:12,320
Yeah, of course.
492
00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:15,640
Our relationship was probably...
We started off positive...
493
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,320
We were probably
the second-strongest couple
494
00:21:17,360 --> 00:21:19,440
coming into...after the honeymoons.
495
00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:21,920
ANNA: How was the honeymoon?
Let's start with the highlights.
496
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,480
It was the most luxurious place
in Australia.
497
00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:25,400
Like...
Where did you guys go?
498
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:28,200
It was in Adelaide Hills.
The hills of Adelaide.
499
00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:29,920
Oh, beautiful.
Yeah. We mixed things up too.
500
00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:32,200
I did my first ever yoga sesh.
Oh, right.
501
00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:35,000
Yeah. I didn't fall over.
I didn't fall over.
502
00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:37,600
Speaking of falling over, how was
your concussion after the wedding?
503
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:38,680
(LAUGHS)
504
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,720
(SHRIEKS)
(THUD)
505
00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:44,080
(PEOPLE EXCLAIM)
MAN: Oh, my god!
506
00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:47,760
RYAN: I'm so sorry.
507
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:49,760
He ignored everything.
508
00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:51,560
(LAUGHS)
509
00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:53,600
JACQUI: Do you want to talk, Ryan,
or shall I?
510
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,200
KARLA: He redeemed himself
really well after that, though.
511
00:21:56,240 --> 00:21:57,480
Did he?
512
00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:00,520
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
513
00:22:09,360 --> 00:22:13,120
ADAM: How was your concussion
after the wedding? (LAUGHS)
514
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,800
He redeemed himself
really well after that, though.
515
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:18,120
Did he?
516
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:20,320
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
517
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:24,000
He didn't actually do anything
to make it up to me.
518
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:26,400
Yeah, but it's not something
that he should grovel over.
519
00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:27,960
Like, I thought that was hilarious.
520
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:29,440
Should've just turned around
and just been, like,
521
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:30,960
"That was pretty funny."
522
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:32,960
I know, I felt really horrible
for her as well
523
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,320
'cause first dance is so
undignified, you know what I mean?
524
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:36,840
It's one of those things
you've got to own.
525
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:38,760
It would've been bad
if he just kind of left it at that.
526
00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:40,480
No, the reason why I was crying...
Don't interrupt her.
527
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:42,000
Don't interrupt her.
528
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:45,200
The reason why I was crying
529
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:49,200
is because that night I was seen by
a paramedic to check on my head.
530
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:50,960
It wasn't the drop.
531
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:54,400
It was the fact that you didn't
find out I was seen by a paramedic
532
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:57,040
until a week later when I told you,
because you didn't ask.
533
00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:58,920
That's why I was crying.
534
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:02,520
I can't believe we're talking about
the wedding drop still.
535
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:06,120
Man, like, that's some bullshit.
Like... (LAUGHS)
536
00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:09,000
Don't have those massive hangups
about it.
537
00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,920
Don't keep pulling things back to
that moment to try and make a point.
538
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,120
So how did youse get through that,
then?
539
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:18,080
Um... I cried about it, but...
540
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:21,960
I do.
That's what makes Jacqui so special.
541
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:24,000
Yeah.
ADAM: Agree to disagree.
542
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:25,640
No, this is gaslighting.
543
00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:33,200
That's your interpretation of it,
but that doesn't mean that it's true.
544
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,960
Are you feeling heard
and are you feeling heard
545
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:37,880
or is it just one of those
"I need to be heard"
546
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:39,360
and that's the end of the story?
547
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,960
Because that's what it sounds like.
548
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,400
Well, I think as we went along,
549
00:23:44,480 --> 00:23:46,840
like, we did say have
some difficulties communicating,
550
00:23:46,920 --> 00:23:50,040
like, with empathy and, like, trying
to find emotional common ground
551
00:23:50,120 --> 00:23:51,120
and whatnot...
Yeah. Absolutely.
552
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,560
..and that threw some spanners
in the works too
553
00:23:53,640 --> 00:23:56,920
and, like, we were doing the
intimacy session with Alessandra,
554
00:23:57,000 --> 00:24:00,480
right, and I got, like,
a little bit too comfortable,
555
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:03,120
a little bit too candid with
the other gentlemen sitting around,
556
00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,320
so I made a little follow-on joke
557
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:09,040
about what one of the other grooms
had said about Jacqui.
558
00:24:09,120 --> 00:24:12,240
So his name was Jake
and he was actually making jokes,
559
00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,000
like, pretty disrespectful ones
about all the other brides
560
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:17,600
and he actually told Jacqui,
in front of everyone,
561
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:20,360
he said, "Oh, Jacqui,
I said you had crazy eyes."
562
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:24,680
(LAUGHTER)
563
00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,040
I'll take it.
564
00:24:26,120 --> 00:24:28,080
(LAUGHTER)
ANNA: Yeah. I love that.
565
00:24:28,120 --> 00:24:29,760
But then, what did you say?
566
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,600
One thing I was right
to be called out on,
567
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:36,320
I've gotta take ownership of...
568
00:24:36,360 --> 00:24:38,360
I said to the group...
569
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,040
I said, "Oh, you know,
it's not all bad.
570
00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:43,320
"She gives awesome (BLEEP)."
571
00:24:43,360 --> 00:24:46,600
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
572
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,120
They... They obviously were
a little bit shocked by it.
573
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:56,240
And, like, as most people would be.
574
00:24:56,320 --> 00:24:58,920
For me, a gentleman doesn't
kiss and tell.
575
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,000
It's kind of a marker of...
576
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,920
Yeah, I don't think I've ever had
partners that would talk about,
577
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,720
you know, all of that
because it's like...that's personal.
578
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:11,080
I apologised in front of everybody
and, yeah, that's on me.
579
00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:14,640
That's a goose moment.
(LAUGHS)
580
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,840
That's a goose moment, man.
Thank you, all.
581
00:25:17,920 --> 00:25:19,600
Yeah, I don't mind
owning my mistakes.
582
00:25:19,640 --> 00:25:20,880
I've got no problem at all.
583
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,040
ANNA: One thing to remember
when we first had our friendship,
584
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:25,120
Jacqui said to me,
585
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:27,880
"By the way, I'm a friend
that needs constant reassurance."
586
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:29,560
Mmm.
And I'm, like, "That's OK.
587
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:30,960
"Like, I can give that."
588
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,120
And you said "That's a friend,
let alone a partner."
589
00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,400
Have you both spoken about
your different, like, needs?
590
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,600
Yeah, constant reassurance is,
I think...can be very difficult.
591
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:42,680
But also, you also got to
understand
592
00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:46,360
from his perspective, he hasn't been
in a relationship for a while
593
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:47,720
and he hasn't needed to do
that sort of stuff,
594
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:51,280
so he's trying to learn and evolve
into being in a relationship.
595
00:25:51,360 --> 00:25:54,520
So, with these sorts of things,
you need to also help him,
596
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:57,920
give him a little kick up the arse,
say "Where's my compliments today?"
597
00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:59,120
(LAUGHTER)
She does.
598
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,360
She goes,
"How does my arse look today?"
599
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,640
I'm, like, "It looks great, babe."
(LAUGHTER)
600
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:05,000
Yeah, that's true.
601
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:09,360
To just get the most important
points out from Karla and Adam
602
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:10,600
has been helpful
603
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:13,280
because it allows me to connect more
deeply with Ryan and understand...
604
00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:14,600
see him for who he is
605
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:16,440
and understand
where he's coming from
606
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,160
and maybe just appreciate
his actions for what they are.
607
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:22,560
So, like, we said to everyone,
we're gonna press the reset button.
608
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:24,000
We're gonna be a team.
We're gonna stand united.
609
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,760
And have I not cheered you up
on multiple, multiple occasions,
610
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,880
giving you hugs, especially when
you have been crying and whatnot?
611
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,040
A lot of the time
that's what I do...
612
00:26:32,120 --> 00:26:34,080
No, that's really great.
There's, like, a lot of good things.
613
00:26:34,120 --> 00:26:35,120
KARLA: That makes me happy.
614
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,240
There's a lot of good things
and there's a lot of, like...
615
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,280
And they're the things
that you need to really focus on
616
00:26:39,360 --> 00:26:41,560
because, like, yeah,
youse are trying to navigate
617
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:42,440
and figure each other out
618
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:43,840
and I'm not saying
you're always wrong
619
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:45,400
in everything
that you're trying to get across
620
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:46,400
and nor is Ryan.
621
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:47,920
It's just youse are literally
trying to navigate
622
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,840
and it's really nice to see that you
can acknowledge and appreciate that
623
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:51,760
and so can he.
624
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,160
Like, that's a really good start.
625
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:56,560
JACQUI: I've been struggling
to understand him,
626
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,120
where he's coming from.
627
00:26:58,200 --> 00:26:59,440
Like, I've always known
from the beginning
628
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:00,760
he's got the right intentions
629
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:03,320
but I've never really understood
why he's behaving the way he is
630
00:27:03,360 --> 00:27:04,720
and now, listening to Adam and Karla
631
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,240
actually explain
where Ryan's coming from,
632
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,000
it was really helpful
in a weird way.
633
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:11,320
Should we do one last cheers?
634
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,840
G, toast.
ADAM: Cheers, big ears.
635
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:15,560
Let's get over the bullshit
and be happy, yeah?
636
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,840
WOMEN: Yeah. Cheers.
637
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:19,400
RYAN: Cheers.
Thanks for coming, guys.
638
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:20,920
JACQUI: Thank you.
KARLA: You're very welcome.
639
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:26,600
NARRATOR: For our newest couples,
640
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:30,480
it is their first night
staying in their apartments...
641
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,480
WOMEN: Hi!
642
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:37,120
..and original brides Rhi and Carina
are taking this opportunity
643
00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,640
to welcome Beth into her new home.
644
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:41,960
Come on in.
We come bearing gifts.
645
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,000
Stunning. Not for you, though, babe.
Yeah.
646
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,400
It's girls' night. You need to go.
TEEJAY: You're joking.
647
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,320
(LAUGHTER)
Not for you.
648
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:50,040
Come on.
Girls' night!
649
00:27:50,120 --> 00:27:52,200
Sorry, babe.
No worries. See you later.
650
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:53,200
WOMEN: Bye.
651
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:54,600
Yum.
(CORK POPS)
652
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,240
(WOMEN EXCLAIM)
Yay!
653
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,800
I am so keen for all of this.
654
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:03,520
Well, isn't this a cute little
ladies' night?
655
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:05,720
My favourite.
WOMEN: Cheers.
656
00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:08,600
Whoo!
I'm obsessed.
657
00:28:08,680 --> 00:28:11,760
I went straight for the chicken.
RHI: Yum.
658
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:13,840
Oh, my god.
Mmm.
659
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:15,000
How are you and Teejay?
660
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:18,120
Yeah, I feel like you do compare
yourself to everybody else
661
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:19,280
in the experiment...
Mmm.
662
00:28:19,360 --> 00:28:22,000
..and it's hard because
it's even more fast-paced for us
663
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:23,360
because we've come in late...
Yeah.
664
00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,760
..but sometimes, yeah,
you kind of do have take a step back
665
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:27,080
and be, like,
"OK, we're actually doing well
666
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:28,880
"for the amount of time
we've been here."
667
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:31,080
I have been initiating
more, like, touching.
668
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,200
Like, we cuddle on the couch.
We had a nap together.
669
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,760
Like, we just...
It's felt nice today.
670
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:37,880
Like, it's felt really comfortable.
That's good.
671
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:38,800
Yeah.
672
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:40,800
Like, I'm now just being myself
and I feel confident.
673
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:42,840
So I'm feeling really good now.
That's good.
674
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:46,000
NARRATOR:
While Beth continues to relish
675
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,920
the successful start
to her relationship with Teejay,
676
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:52,000
down the hall,
677
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:55,800
new bride Veronica is struggling
with some concerns she has
678
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:56,920
about her marriage
679
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,440
and has decided to reach out
680
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,720
to the one other person
in the experiment
681
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:05,160
who has first-hand experience
with Eliot -
682
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,240
his ex-wife Lauren.
683
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:11,280
I thought it would be humorous
to take her some margaritas,
684
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:13,040
'cause we learnt
at the last dinner party
685
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,800
that she loved them so much, so...
(LAUGHS)
686
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:17,560
ELIOT: We had a whole conversation
687
00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:19,720
that we agreed that we weren't right
for each other.
688
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:21,160
That didn't happen.
689
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,600
You had about five margaritas,
so you might not remember.
690
00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:26,080
WOMAN: Oh, my god.
MAN: No, Eliot.
691
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:27,640
Don't even, mate.
692
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:29,720
Well, it's the truth.
693
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,680
VERONICA: The way that Eliot
communicated with Lauren
694
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:34,400
at the dinner party,
695
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:36,760
that's obviously a massive red flag
for me.
696
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:38,640
OK, I brought you these.
LAUREN: Oh!
697
00:29:38,720 --> 00:29:39,880
That is so cute!
They're margaritas.
698
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:41,080
Oh, my god! I love it!
699
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,320
So I would really appreciate
a chat with Lauren.
700
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,560
She's the only other person
who's ever had any time with him
701
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:51,920
who can really say what her
first-hand experience was with him,
702
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:55,040
because I really don't feel like
I know the real Eliot.
703
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:56,160
How's it going?
704
00:29:56,240 --> 00:30:00,240
That's actually part of the reason
why I've come here.
705
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:01,320
OK.
706
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,520
I just kind of want to hear, like,
your side fully...
707
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:05,360
Yeah.
708
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:07,920
..just so I can better understand,
like, what I'm dealing with.
709
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:11,680
Like, when I met you at the dinner,
I was, like, "You're awesome."
710
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:14,000
But I feel so sorry for you.
711
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,400
I feel like you can do
a million times better.
712
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:19,800
Like, he's a difficult person.
He's just so full of shit.
713
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,000
Oh...
714
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,200
I just... OK.
715
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:28,520
At the dinner party, when he said
that to you, I was furious.
716
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,440
Like, that's a huge issue for me.
717
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:32,400
And then
at the commitment ceremony...
718
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:33,400
Mmm.
719
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,640
..he was really doing
his absolute best
720
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:37,920
to try and put his best foot forward
in front of the group.
721
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:39,720
I just don't think
it's gonna last long
722
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:44,000
because I don't know how long
Eliot can keep up the facade.
723
00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:45,520
Right.
I don't know why he's here.
724
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:46,920
Yeah.
725
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:50,360
I do feel sorry for her,
but it's just the truth.
726
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,920
Like, Eliot's about as shallow
as a pond in a desert.
727
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:55,320
Like, he has literally no depth
to him.
728
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:59,320
I think he's very narcissistic and
she's gonna find out very quickly,
729
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:02,120
even more so if she doesn't already
know that.
730
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,120
She probably should run.
731
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:06,440
(LAUGHS)
732
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:08,640
I just thought, like, coming back,
733
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:11,000
he would be trying to save face
or, like, redeem himself.
734
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:12,120
Mmm.
735
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,480
Like, one of my friends was in
a relationship with a narcissist
736
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,920
for, like, ten years
and what I have learnt from her
737
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,080
is that, like, they don't actually
have real feelings.
738
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:21,200
Mmm.
739
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,440
So, I do feel like
Eliot is a narcissist.
740
00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:25,840
OK.
741
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:30,400
But, yeah, I really was hoping
that he would be different for you.
742
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:31,680
I really was.
743
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:36,160
VERONICA: Even though she has
her own experience with him,
744
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,600
it is really disheartening
to hear that insight into Eliot.
745
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:42,560
And so, I don't feel good.
746
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:45,480
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
747
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:48,160
How's everything going with you?
(LAUGHS)
748
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:49,760
Yeah. My husband's lovely.
Oh!
749
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,360
He bought me flowers yesterday.
Oh, gosh.
750
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:54,920
I know.
Wow.
751
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:06,880
NARRATOR: While the original couples
are spending time
752
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,320
with their family and friends,
753
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:13,360
our newest couples are about to start
their crash course.
754
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:14,760
(DOOR CLOSES)
755
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,480
Veronica and Eliot.
756
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:21,720
CLINT: Loz. Got mail.
757
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:23,720
BETH: Oh, my god.
TEEJAY: Oh, jeez!
758
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,600
Wow.
Who wrote us an essay?
759
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:27,240
We've got a stack.
760
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:32,200
"Physical attraction is important
in any romantic relationship."
761
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,400
"Inside this envelope are photos
of all the other brides and grooms
762
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:36,480
"in this experiment."
763
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,080
It's time to get naked...
I'm just joking.
764
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:40,520
(BOTH LAUGH)
765
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:41,800
"It's time to get a better sense
766
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,120
"of what your partner finds
attractive in the opposite sex."
767
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,640
"From left to right,
you must place the photos
768
00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:48,480
"in order
of who you find most attractive
769
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,720
"to who you are
least attracted to."
770
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:55,400
NARRATOR: Newlyweds Beth and Teejay
771
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,000
jump straight into
the photo-ranking task...
772
00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:00,120
I am the most attracted to you
out of everybody here.
773
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:01,560
Thanks, darling.
774
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,480
..and are finding it to be
quite a straightforward challenge.
775
00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:08,160
You'll go...here.
776
00:33:08,240 --> 00:33:11,240
I think you're beautiful
inside and out
777
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,360
and you would be first on my list
778
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,600
if I had to pick these again
any day.
779
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:18,440
(FOREIGN ACCENT) You, number one...
(FOREIGN ACCENT) Number one.
780
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:19,680
..in all of experiment.
781
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:21,400
Yay.
(LAUGHS)
782
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:22,920
That's what I reckon.
783
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:26,480
Next up with the photo-ranking task
are Lauren and Clint,
784
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:30,680
although Lauren would rather they
didn't have to use photos at all.
785
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:33,600
I'd actually rather
they brought the people
786
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:37,240
and we can line them up against
the wall, rather than using photos.
787
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:39,520
(LAUGHS)
788
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:40,640
Nervous?
Not at all.
789
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:42,080
Really?
No.
790
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,440
You seem so confident.
I'm just a confident person.
791
00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:45,520
OK.
OK.
792
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:49,080
Morena, she's actually lovely.
793
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:50,920
It's just age.
794
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:52,920
Beth.
795
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,760
I just don't know her, so...
What about her boobs?
796
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,360
It's probably not something
I even notice, to be honest.
797
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,920
(LAUGHS)
Jamie.
798
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:04,560
Jamie was quite vocal
at the dinner party.
799
00:34:04,640 --> 00:34:06,360
Maybe that would be a bit too much
for me.
800
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:07,200
Mmm.
801
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:09,520
Jacqui.
802
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,960
Physically, on appearance,
803
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,680
I actually would have ranked her
higher but...
804
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,040
Really? Do you think
she's more attractive than Jamie?
805
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,400
I do. She's quite natural.
806
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,520
I think she looks rough.
Really?
807
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:23,520
Yeah.
(LAUGHS)
808
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,640
I think she's very driven
in her career.
809
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:26,960
Mmm.
810
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:28,440
Something like that's
very attractive to me.
811
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:29,600
Yeah, OK.
So...
812
00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:33,120
I would even put Morena
in front of Jacqui.
813
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:34,800
Jeez, you've got it in for Jacqui.
(LAUGHS)
814
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:36,600
Yeah.
815
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:40,000
I like that he liked scruffy women
816
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,640
who have a strong drive in career.
817
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,520
Top three, I've gone with kindness.
818
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,960
I think that elevates
their attractiveness.
819
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:55,440
Cool.
Can I reveal the big one now?
820
00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:57,000
Yeah.
821
00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,160
Do you want me to move out the way
so you can put it down here?
822
00:34:59,240 --> 00:35:02,640
(LAUGHS) I could pretend to go back
and forth and all over the place
823
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:04,640
but it's pretty easy for me
824
00:35:04,720 --> 00:35:06,000
and it's not even
putting you here.
825
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:08,600
It's actually putting you,
like, up here.
826
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:10,120
Aw, that's so nice.
827
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:14,000
Yeah, I think
there's only one place.
828
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:15,280
(LAUGHS)
829
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,880
There's daylight
between you and the rest.
830
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:22,560
Clint has voiced many times
that he is attracted to me,
831
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:25,320
so I would've expected him
to put me first.
832
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:28,160
Can I keep this?
Yeah.
833
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,800
Well, obviously,
this dirty, stinky rat goes there.
834
00:35:33,840 --> 00:35:37,840
Worst character, worst smell.
835
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:39,800
Hasn't washed his hair
in five years.
836
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:40,920
(LAUGHS)
837
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:44,080
This guy, I don't know his name.
He looks like a bit of a thumb.
838
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:45,680
(BOTH LAUGH)
839
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:49,120
I don't know how Lauren will rate me
but she is a very direct person.
840
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:51,640
Tony...
Oh, yeah.
841
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:53,440
I feel nothing.
842
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:54,520
Like, she's very honest.
843
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:55,680
She's 100% honest
844
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,040
and what you see with Lauren
is what you get.
845
00:35:58,080 --> 00:35:59,160
Dave.
846
00:35:59,240 --> 00:36:02,200
Normally, like, you know,
neck tats would not be my thing.
847
00:36:02,240 --> 00:36:03,280
Yep.
848
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:05,280
Don't, like, try and go and get
throat tats now.
849
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:06,120
Noted.
850
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:07,600
As much as you think
we've got a connection
851
00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:09,880
and we're getting along
and she does like me,
852
00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:11,400
you never know what surprises
could come up.
853
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:13,840
Whew. A bit nerve-racking now.
Oooh.
854
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:17,160
(LAUGHS)
Um...
855
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,240
Oooh, you're the winner.
856
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:23,200
Oh... Really? Right up there?
857
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:25,360
Well, your, like, traits of,
you know,
858
00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:26,960
making sure I'm OK all the time,
859
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:28,560
just being, like,
a really great partner,
860
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:30,480
you know, you obviously dress well,
861
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:32,840
you've got clean teeth,
you don't smell.
862
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:35,760
(LAUGHS)
863
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:38,080
That could've been a curveball
but luckily,
864
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:40,760
or thankfully, I was up the top.
865
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:43,720
You're number one.
Yeah, that's so nice of you.
866
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:46,800
Look, the nerves have dropped.
Oh, that's good.
867
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:48,080
Yeah. (LAUGHS)
868
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:51,400
Clint gives you, like, a good
feeling when you're around him.
869
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:54,320
(LAUGHS) In my nipples.
870
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:55,880
(LAUGHS)
871
00:36:55,960 --> 00:37:00,480
NARRATOR: Down the hall,
the last of the newlyweds
872
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:03,360
are about to tackle
the photo-ranking task
873
00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:06,040
and Veronica is approaching it
with caution.
874
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:11,040
VERONICA: So, after that
conversation with Lauren yesterday,
875
00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:13,280
it just really helped me
to understand
876
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:15,400
what I should be looking out for
today.
877
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:19,160
I think Eliot has a lot of sides,
I'm learning.
878
00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:22,200
I'm curious to see what side
this one...
879
00:37:22,240 --> 00:37:24,640
this challenge brings out in him.
880
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:27,240
Like, I don't know this guy.
881
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:28,960
Alright.
Alright.
882
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:30,480
Are you ready?
Yeah. Let's go.
883
00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:32,120
Alright. So...
884
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:35,600
OK. So, first up, Jacqui.
885
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:37,400
Yeah.
OK.
886
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:39,320
I don't know...
That's a surprise to me.
887
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:41,960
Like, I'm just not attracted
to her look.
888
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:43,840
Physically.
Yeah. Physically.
889
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:45,480
Purely physical.
890
00:37:47,240 --> 00:37:49,200
For me, like, attraction
is so much more
891
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:50,840
than what someone
physically looks like.
892
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:53,600
But if you want to just maintain
just physical,
893
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:55,120
then we can just do that.
894
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,360
Yeah, for this exercise, anyway.
895
00:37:57,400 --> 00:38:01,160
Next up, Morena.
896
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:04,080
Not someone that I'm drawn to.
897
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:08,440
I just feel like he focused on,
like,
898
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:11,520
the same exact point
for every single person.
899
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:15,160
I don't find her
really that physically attractive.
900
00:38:15,240 --> 00:38:17,040
Not attractive, not attractive,
not attractive.
901
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:20,680
Physically speaking,
not really attracted to her.
902
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:22,200
Of course.
(LAUGHS)
903
00:38:22,240 --> 00:38:23,920
Carina.
904
00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:24,960
Attractive.
905
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:26,120
Yeah.
906
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:30,280
But didn't give me any insight into
what it was that he found attractive
907
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,000
about each of those
individual people.
908
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:34,200
Next, Lauren.
909
00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:38,480
She's beautiful.
Um... Yeah.
910
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:40,960
I think she's an attractive girl.
911
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:46,560
Personally, I didn't really feel
like I learnt anything.
912
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:50,240
He just wasn't coming
at the exercise
913
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:52,560
from the place of trying to
really help me to understand
914
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:56,800
what it is that he finds attractive
in the opposite sex.
915
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,360
So, then we have...
916
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:05,800
Yeah, I would put you up here.
917
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:07,720
Really?
918
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:09,560
Interesting.
Yeah.
919
00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:11,840
I don't know how to describe it.
920
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,280
They're very diplomatic answers.
(LAUGHS)
921
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:20,240
I don't feel like I have any further
insight into Eliot as a person.
922
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,800
You're free to, like,
discuss other elements
923
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:24,360
of what you find attractive
in people as well.
924
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:28,240
The task was
on a physical attractiveness basis.
925
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:32,440
I'm not sure, yeah,
if I read that...
926
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:33,720
Are you supposed to do it
927
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:36,760
just strictly
physical attractiveness or...?
928
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:38,240
Again, last on the board...
929
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:42,960
(CLEARS THROAT) Our dearest Adrian.
That's really surprising.
930
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:46,320
We haven't really had
much of a conversation,
931
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:48,600
but I just know
that he and I would clash.
932
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,800
My list is based on
933
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:57,080
what I know of the people
that I've met so far...
934
00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:58,200
Clint.
935
00:39:58,280 --> 00:40:01,880
..and the effect that meeting them
has had on me
936
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:06,640
in terms of, like, whether or not
I find them attractive.
937
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,320
Paul.
938
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,320
I think it's really sweet
that he's, you know,
939
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:13,240
falling in love with Carina.
940
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:17,760
The fact that he's being
so vulnerable is so attractive.
941
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:21,240
We kind of did the exercise
a little bit differently.
942
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:24,240
Different metrics,
I guess you could say.
943
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:30,000
And then we've got Dave.
He's very emotionally available.
944
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:33,640
He's tall, gorgeous, funny,
loves a joke.
945
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:35,640
He's respectful.
946
00:40:35,720 --> 00:40:37,840
It's pretty hard to top.
Mmm.
947
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:40,160
So, yeah. OK.
948
00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:44,720
So you're... I'm putting you here.
949
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:46,360
(CLICKS TONGUE)
950
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,400
So, you're obviously
physically gorgeous.
951
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:52,640
We can all see that.
952
00:40:52,720 --> 00:40:56,160
But the reason why
I put these guys ahead
953
00:40:56,240 --> 00:41:00,960
is just because I feel that there's,
like, a level of openness
954
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,800
and level of vulnerability
that I haven't seen from you yet.
955
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:07,160
So that's the reason
for my decision.
956
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:08,200
Yeah. That's great.
957
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:13,680
No, no. I'm not upset at all.
958
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:16,920
Like, I'm glad I'm not last,
obviously.
959
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:19,640
Pack it up?
960
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:21,720
Yeah... Uh, yeah. Sure.
961
00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:24,640
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
962
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:38,720
NARRATOR: Our newest couples are
continuing with crash course week.
963
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,120
CLINT: Someone smells nice in here.
LAUREN: That's me.
964
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:42,800
Is it?
Yeah. It's my new one.
965
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:46,800
Lauren and Clint's next task
is designed to give them an insight
966
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:51,440
into what their partner was looking
for before entering the experiment...
967
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:54,600
Here we go.
..by watching their audition videos.
968
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:56,760
How exciting.
Let's go.
969
00:41:58,160 --> 00:41:59,560
Should I get my notepad out?
970
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:02,400
Alright. Clint Rice...
Oh!
971
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,080
..43, from Launceston, Tasmania.
972
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:09,000
And I'm a professional golfer
turned entrepreneur.
973
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:12,600
So I've achieved a lot of things
in my life and career
974
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:15,840
and getting married's definitely one
I've always wanted to do
975
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:20,000
and if I could find someone
spontaneous, active,
976
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:25,320
you know, someone that doesn't
want to just sit on the couch
977
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:27,160
and watch Netflix every day...
(BOTH LAUGH)
978
00:42:27,240 --> 00:42:29,880
Like, actually has some drive to go,
"OK, let's go hiking this weekend
979
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:31,880
"or let's go walk the dogs..."
I hate hiking.
980
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:35,040
Yeah, just have fun.
Like, not take life too seriously.
981
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:37,320
That's pretty fair.
Cool.
982
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:40,440
Even though you watch Netflix.
I love Netflix and I hate hiking.
983
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:44,280
OK. Well, they're kind of not
must-haves.
984
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:45,880
They're like...
Oh, OK, Eliot.
985
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:47,640
(BOTH LAUGH)
(BLEEP).
986
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:49,320
I personally hate hiking.
987
00:42:49,400 --> 00:42:52,160
I like going on walks, like,
with my friends,
988
00:42:52,240 --> 00:42:54,440
but certainly I wouldn't go
make a whole day of it.
989
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:58,840
So, are you ready?
Go for it.
990
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:02,560
Lauren Hall.
I'm 30... I think I'm 37.
991
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:05,160
From Brisbane
and I'm a business owner.
992
00:43:05,240 --> 00:43:08,760
I'm very, like,
gender-role specific.
993
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:12,600
I want to have someone
that I can take care of
994
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:13,960
and, like, I can look up to.
995
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:19,080
They would need to be established.
Like, I'm not into 50-50 at all.
996
00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:23,240
I just don't want to, like,
have to have my business.
997
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:26,160
They would need to have
a house or a couple of properties,
998
00:43:26,240 --> 00:43:29,400
have to be able to afford to
go to Europe,
999
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:30,960
with one million-plus...
1000
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:36,720
No, like, earning.
(LAUGHS)
1001
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:39,320
If I was matched with someone
who wasn't successful,
1002
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:40,560
I would probably hate them.
1003
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:47,440
That's all accurate.
1004
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:50,400
Yeah, OK. Fair enough.
1005
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:53,840
It falls into what you were saying
about your traditional values,
1006
00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:55,040
where you want...
Mmm.
1007
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:58,480
..a husband to be more provider,
more protector.
1008
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:02,880
It's more like a... Yeah.
Protector, provider and alpha.
1009
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,760
I'm not worried with what Lauren
wants from a man.
1010
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:11,960
I like the fact that I can have
the space to provide and protect.
1011
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:14,600
I just don't understand the whole
alpha male thing... (LAUGHS)
1012
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,800
to see where that actually...
where that sits
1013
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:20,280
and where I fit in that
whole scheme of things, I guess.
1014
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:25,360
So, would you say
I'm masculine enough for you?
1015
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:27,720
I'd say you're definitely masculine.
1016
00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:29,640
I don't know if you're, like,
an alpha.
1017
00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:37,560
I feel like, with Clint,
he definitely isn't an alpha male.
1018
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,000
He shaves his chest.
1019
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:42,920
Even things like, this morning,
he's wanting to book in a spray tan
1020
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:45,280
and, you know, he got a spray tan
1021
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:47,200
and had, like,
the paper G-string thing on
1022
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:49,920
and I was, like... I just don't
think that that's masculine.
1023
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:53,560
I know that you feel like I'm, like,
bit of a dominant personality,
1024
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:56,800
whereas with an alpha male,
I wouldn't feel that way.
1025
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:58,600
It kind of like softens me.
1026
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:01,000
Maybe just, like,
let your chest hair grow out...
1027
00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:04,920
let the fake tan wash off and...
1028
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:10,120
I don't know, just be really secure
in your manhood.
1029
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:16,040
Do you like to share
decision-making?
1030
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:18,680
I want to trust the person enough
1031
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:21,120
that I know that I would respect
the decision
1032
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:22,840
and that I'd be happy
with the decision.
1033
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:24,400
Really?
Yeah.
1034
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:27,040
Um... Yeah.
1035
00:45:28,840 --> 00:45:32,920
Well, I might just grow a big beard
and, yeah, start drinking beers
1036
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,320
and, you know, maybe smash
some beer cans over my head.
1037
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,240
I don't know
if that's an alpha male.
1038
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:39,280
I'd probably have to look up
the definition
1039
00:45:39,320 --> 00:45:40,600
and see probably what it is.
1040
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:43,840
Yeah, well, that's good.
1041
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:45,080
Good chat.
1042
00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:50,880
As Lauren and Clint continue to
understand each other's expectations
1043
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:52,320
through crash course week,
1044
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:56,200
our original couples are in
the middle of friends and family week
1045
00:45:56,280 --> 00:46:01,720
and for Awhina and Adrian,
tensions are at an all-time high
1046
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:04,680
ahead of their catch-up
with their loved ones.
1047
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:06,560
Are you looking forward
to seeing them?
1048
00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:08,480
Yeah, I am, actually.
Yeah?
1049
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:10,960
I'm looking forward to having
a sit-down chat with everyone.
1050
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:12,760
Me too.
1051
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:15,120
I don't really know what to expect
1052
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:17,480
but it'll be good to see everyone
regardless.
1053
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,800
Yeah, I can't wait to see Cleo.
1054
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:22,600
Oh, Cleo means the world to me,
you know.
1055
00:46:22,640 --> 00:46:24,280
She's my twin sister
1056
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:26,680
and usually I'm her support person,
1057
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:30,880
but I feel like with this roundabout
that Adrian and I keep going around,
1058
00:46:30,920 --> 00:46:33,440
it's just gonna be the same story.
1059
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:37,360
My concerns are that
it'll be Adrian,
1060
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,920
his twin sisters and Jasmine,
1061
00:46:39,960 --> 00:46:41,200
three more people backing him up.
1062
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:44,280
(SIGHS)
1063
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:47,920
As if he hasn't had a voice
this whole time. Like...
1064
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:49,960
WOMAN: Here we go, here we go.
1065
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:53,720
WOMAN: From my understanding,
from Adrian,
1066
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:56,160
it sounds like there's a lot of
challenges and obstacles
1067
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:57,480
in their relationship
1068
00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:00,440
and whether or not they can
overcome them, we'll see.
1069
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:02,200
Hi.
Good to see you.
1070
00:47:02,240 --> 00:47:03,560
Hello again.
1071
00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:04,960
Hello.
ADRIAN: What's happening?
1072
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:08,920
The type of family that we are,
we're supportive no matter what,
1073
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,840
so I think that can be difficult
for people.
1074
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:14,160
I don't have any, like,
grave concerns.
1075
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:18,760
I mean, we're all adults, so... Yeah.
1076
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:21,760
You guys are actually
kind of matching with the...
1077
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:23,520
NIKOLA: Was that on purpose?
No.
1078
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:28,720
What's been happening?
JASMINE: Not a whole lot.
1079
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:30,680
We're here for you guys.
1080
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:33,760
What's been going on?
How was this morning?
1081
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:35,280
This morning?
Mmm.
1082
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:36,680
It was alright.
1083
00:47:36,720 --> 00:47:41,680
I did observe an icy greeting.
1084
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:49,320
We've obviously had a few problems
and issues
1085
00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:50,760
in the last couple of weeks.
1086
00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:52,680
Yeah, let's go into it.
What happened?
1087
00:47:53,680 --> 00:47:55,360
We spoke about it
a little bit yesterday
1088
00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:57,080
but we're both so tired
from the last couple of days,
1089
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:58,560
which is fair enough,
so we sort of left it.
1090
00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:00,640
We just said
"Let's bed it for the night."
1091
00:48:00,720 --> 00:48:02,280
Yeah, and then...
Let's bed what? What happened?
1092
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:07,080
Oh, my gosh. (LAUGHS)
1093
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:10,440
I feel like we should've had food
or something first.
1094
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:14,960
What happened?
1095
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:19,520
Just had a bit of a rollercoaster
few weeks.
1096
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:20,920
Mmm.
1097
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:22,840
NIKOLA: But what's the issue?
1098
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:25,000
Like, what is the challenges
that, you know...
1099
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,080
Why is it so up and down?
1100
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:30,880
JASMINE: What's your point of view?
1101
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:34,080
Because obviously we talk to Adrian
and we have somewhat of an idea
1102
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,080
but obviously
we want to hear you out too
1103
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:38,960
because I think it's important
for, you know, both of us,
1104
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,200
all of us to hear you out.
1105
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:44,560
I feel like that's why we're here
also.
1106
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:47,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1107
00:48:47,720 --> 00:48:48,880
Like, this environment, like,
1108
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:51,200
it definitely fast-tracks
a relationship, you know.
1109
00:48:51,240 --> 00:48:53,360
You get pushed to ask questions
1110
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:55,640
and maybe you don't like
the answers to those questions.
1111
00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,120
I think Adrian and I
just really struggle
1112
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,000
to communicate to each other
what we want.
1113
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:04,920
You're in each other's space 24/7
1114
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:06,840
and you've got
different living habits
1115
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:10,040
and you've got different ways
of acting in a relationship.
1116
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:11,880
NIKOLA: Well, no-one's perfect
in a relationship.
1117
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:13,560
Let's not forget that.
1118
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:21,280
NARRATOR: While Adrian chose
to welcome three guests to lunch,
1119
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:26,600
Awhina has opted to invite just one,
her twin sister Cleo.
1120
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:30,440
Cleo first met Adrian
and his family on his wedding day,
1121
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:34,600
where the twin pairing caused
quite the stir.
1122
00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:36,920
(WOMEN SCREAM AND LAUGH)
1123
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:40,320
These our our sisters here,
Elita and Nikola. Twins as well.
1124
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:42,880
(WOMEN LAUGH)
CLEO: You're gonna be surprised.
1125
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:44,200
WOMAN: Yeah. (LAUGHS)
1126
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:46,000
You're twins?
(LAUGHTER)
1127
00:49:46,040 --> 00:49:48,280
No way. Twins and twins.
1128
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:49,760
MAN: Double trouble.
(LAUGHTER)
1129
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:52,480
NARRATOR: But despite observing
Awhina and Adrian
1130
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:53,960
immediately hitting it off...
1131
00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:57,360
Hey, how you going? I'm Adrian.
You're actually way too hot.
1132
00:49:57,440 --> 00:49:59,040
I'm actually not happy.
(LAUGHTER)
1133
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:03,680
..Cleo also witnessed the first
hiccup in the couple's relationship.
1134
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:05,840
ADRIAN: If you haven't noticed,
which you have,
1135
00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:08,880
I'm an identical twin
and so are my sisters.
1136
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,760
Also, you should know
I'm not a one-man package deal.
1137
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:17,120
(CLEO GASPS)
1138
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:20,920
(LAUGHTER)
1139
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:22,600
Don't worry, I don't have kids.
1140
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:25,160
(LAUGHS AWKWARDLY)
1141
00:50:25,240 --> 00:50:27,280
NARRATOR: Cleo has since been
kept up to date
1142
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:28,920
with the recent developments
in the experiment
1143
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:32,360
through regular contact
with her sister.
1144
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:35,240
CLEO: My sister and me
have a really close relationship,
1145
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:40,920
so we talk most nights about what's
currently happening in her life,
1146
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:44,080
you know, how she's feeling,
how she's coping.
1147
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,760
Right now, she's been away from her
friends and family for several weeks
1148
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:48,480
and she's been struggling
1149
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:50,200
just having that distance
from her son.
1150
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:53,520
Hello.
CLEO: Hi!
1151
00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:58,600
This isn't meant to be like this!
We're matching.
1152
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:01,160
CLEO: And she's been telling me
some pretty unsettling things
1153
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:02,800
about her husband Adrian.
1154
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:06,280
She's told me regularly
that he doesn't show up for her
1155
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:07,520
the way a husband should.
1156
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:12,440
She tells me that he regularly puts
her down to make himself look better
1157
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:14,600
and that she doesn't feel seen.
1158
00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:17,120
She feels invisible.
1159
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:18,600
You've missed out on it.
1160
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:20,880
Everyone's
straight into the questions,
1161
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:24,080
asking how are Adrian and I are.
1162
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:27,760
Yeah, how are we?
1163
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:29,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1164
00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:31,160
So, obviously, Adrian...
1165
00:51:31,240 --> 00:51:35,840
Just before you continue,
your eyes are swollen.
1166
00:51:35,880 --> 00:51:37,400
Have you been crying?
1167
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:40,440
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1168
00:51:57,440 --> 00:51:58,720
You've missed out on it.
1169
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:02,040
Everyone's
straight into the questions,
1170
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:05,400
asking how Adrian and I are.
1171
00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:09,080
Yeah, how are we?
1172
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:12,480
So, obviously, Adrian...
1173
00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:16,200
CLEO: Just before you continue,
your eyes are swollen.
1174
00:52:16,240 --> 00:52:17,680
Have you been crying?
1175
00:52:17,720 --> 00:52:18,960
No.
1176
00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:21,120
She's been sleeping, actually.
1177
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:24,000
But, um...
1178
00:52:25,720 --> 00:52:27,640
Oooh, food. (LAUGHS)
1179
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:32,040
What is it?
You won't like it.
1180
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:33,160
Arancini balls.
1181
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:41,840
You know, Awhina seems to have
most of the problems,
1182
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:43,600
so I wanted you guys
to hear her out first.
1183
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:45,960
WOMAN: Mmm. I agree.
Mmm...
1184
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:58,880
I think when starting a relationship
with anyone, it's, like...
1185
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:02,080
you don't expect grand, wild things
at the beginning.
1186
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,400
It's the little things
that are important.
1187
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:06,600
Not about the little things,
like the...
1188
00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:09,320
Tell them what the real problem is
that you're having.
1189
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:12,600
Little things also matter, Fi.
Don't forget that.
1190
00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:16,160
The little things
paint a whole picture.
1191
00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:20,840
CLEO: I don't think Awhina's happy
in her relationship with Adrian.
1192
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:23,880
She looks tired, exhausted and sad.
1193
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:25,920
She's given a lot to be here.
1194
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:27,440
She's given up time away
from her son.
1195
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:29,160
She's giving up important milestones.
1196
00:53:29,240 --> 00:53:35,000
Awhina deserves a kind, loving
partner who's going to support her.
1197
00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:38,680
AWHINA: Like, obviously,
I want to show up for Adrian.
1198
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:41,040
Like, that's why I said to him,
"Let's have a conversation
1199
00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:43,560
"where we say what you need from me
and what I need from you."
1200
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:47,520
We didn't even have
that conversation
1201
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:49,040
because it started off...
1202
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:50,640
We got to a disagreement
and it ended...
1203
00:53:50,720 --> 00:53:52,920
What does showing up look like
for you?
1204
00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:57,080
Honestly, just acknowledge
that I exist would be really nice.
1205
00:53:57,120 --> 00:54:00,360
(TENSE MUSIC)
1206
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:04,280
From day one, I've felt like
I'm constantly asking questions
1207
00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:05,600
or I'm constantly complimenting,
1208
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:07,880
even just asking him questions
about what food he likes,
1209
00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:09,880
you know, 'cause I want to know...
I want to get to know him.
1210
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:12,480
And I just haven't felt
the reciprocation on my end.
1211
00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:15,600
OK, so, what I'm hearing is
this is all about Adrian right now.
1212
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:17,520
So you can confidently sit here
1213
00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:19,560
and say that you don't partake
in any of these problems?
1214
00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:22,880
Every time we have a conversation,
I sugar-coat it.
1215
00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:25,080
I very much sugar-coat...
That's on you. That's not on me.
1216
00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:27,000
That's you not communicating
properly.
1217
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:30,200
No, actually. No...
It's actually ridiculous.
1218
00:54:32,400 --> 00:54:34,080
AWHINA: I'm overwhelmed right now.
1219
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:37,920
He has three more people
backing him up.
1220
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:42,240
And so, I don't know how to explain
my point of view to them.
1221
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:46,920
Now, any time I address any
real hurt, he'd get on the defence
1222
00:54:46,960 --> 00:54:48,720
and he'd shut me down
1223
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:51,240
and I've struggled to have a voice
with him.
1224
00:54:51,280 --> 00:54:53,160
It's just difficult.
1225
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,560
It's hard.
1226
00:54:58,240 --> 00:54:59,480
You just keep re-validating
1227
00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:01,360
that you don't see me
or you're not hearing me.
1228
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:03,960
We have these conversations every
single day. Two, three times a day.
1229
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:05,560
That's me hearing you out.
1230
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:11,000
There's hearing, Adrian,
and listening and understanding...
1231
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:12,920
Yeah.
..and actually reassuring me.
1232
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:15,360
And you...
1233
00:55:15,440 --> 00:55:18,240
And then there's hearing.
And then just shutting me down.
1234
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:19,960
I heard you out.
I've heard you out many times.
1235
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:21,760
I definitely have.
1236
00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:23,880
So I'm making an effort,
is what I'm saying.
1237
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:27,680
I'm just gonna say something, Fi.
You look really drained.
1238
00:55:27,720 --> 00:55:30,520
Your eyes are swollen.
1239
00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:36,760
That's not from sleeping.
That's from crying.
1240
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:40,960
(PENSIVE MUSIC)
1241
00:55:42,720 --> 00:55:44,840
Have you cried in front of me?
1242
00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:46,600
I've cried in front of you before,
Adrian.
1243
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:52,120
After last commitment ceremony
and I was visibly upset.
1244
00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:56,200
When I've told you I feel a certain
way, when I've said I'm upset,
1245
00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:57,760
do you know what you say
afterwards?
1246
00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:02,920
Every time, "That's a you problem."
Something...
1247
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:04,440
Can I just say something?
1248
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:06,840
I think it's really...
It's really hard for anyone,
1249
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:08,000
not just Adrian,
1250
00:56:08,080 --> 00:56:09,960
but to continuously show up
for someone
1251
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:12,240
when you are focusing a lot
on the negatives...
1252
00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:15,880
because from what...
1253
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:18,160
He hasn't even shown up,
so let's just stop it there.
1254
00:56:18,240 --> 00:56:20,080
..from what I've heard...
He has not even shown up.
1255
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:21,360
From what I've heard...
Not even once.
1256
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:22,800
I was talking.
He has not even shown up.
1257
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:24,880
I don't care. He has not shown up,
not even once.
1258
00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:28,800
NARRATOR: Coming up...
1259
00:56:28,880 --> 00:56:31,600
CLEO: How dare you!
How dare you!
1260
00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:35,560
..serious family matters
turn into a family feud.
1261
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:37,080
They are not good enough to be
in your life.
1262
00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:39,800
He's definitely not good enough
to be in my nephew's life!
1263
00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:42,200
ELITA: This is ridiculous.
I'm done. It's, like...
1264
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:44,840
AWHINA: Good. Make sure you leave
the apartment.
1265
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:51,880
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1266
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:56,840
AWHINA: There's hearing, Adrian,
and listening and understanding...
1267
00:56:56,920 --> 00:56:58,480
Yeah.
..and actually reassuring me.
1268
00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:00,520
ADRIAN: And you...
1269
00:57:00,600 --> 00:57:04,320
And there's hearing
and then just shutting me down.
1270
00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:07,280
JASMINE: Can I just say something?
I think it's really...
1271
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:10,080
It's really hard for anyone,
not just Adrian,
1272
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:11,920
but to continuously show up
for someone
1273
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:14,560
when you are focusing a lot
on the negatives.
1274
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:18,640
Because from what...
1275
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:20,480
CLEO: He hasn't even shown up,
so let's just stop it there.
1276
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:22,160
From what I've heard...
He has not even shown up.
1277
00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:23,840
Not even once.
I was talking.
1278
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:25,480
He has not even shown up.
I don't care.
1279
00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:26,960
He has not shown up,
not even once.
1280
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:30,960
You were there, were you?
Yeah, I was there.
1281
00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:32,640
ELITA: OK, Jasmine was speaking
1282
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:34,520
and Cleo just started
speaking over the top of her.
1283
00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:36,240
Literally. I didn't even get to
finish what I was saying.
1284
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:39,720
I totally understand where you feel
like you haven't been shown up...
1285
00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:41,920
AWHINA: But I haven't even told you
how I haven't been shown up for yet.
1286
00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:43,480
I've asked you so many times
and you just said...
1287
00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:45,280
I was trying to...
..bouncing around the situation.
1288
00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:48,960
Well, Cleo cut Jasmine off
1289
00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:50,760
when she was trying to get
the answer from you.
1290
00:57:50,840 --> 00:57:52,680
CLEO: That's not how
a husband shows up.
1291
00:57:52,720 --> 00:57:55,200
(TENSE MUSIC)
1292
00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:02,960
Actually, you know what,
I'm not going to lie,
1293
00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:05,720
we just had intruders move in,
right?
1294
00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:06,640
Intruders.
1295
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:09,080
I've been asked
by one of the intruders
1296
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:11,480
more questions about my life
and my son
1297
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:13,880
than I've been asked by Adrian
in the entire experiment.
1298
00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:16,440
ADRIAN: What have you asked me?
Not one time... Everything.
1299
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:22,800
When we went to Fiji,
she said to me...she goes,
1300
00:58:22,880 --> 00:58:25,280
"When I'm ready to talk about my
son, I will talk about her son..."
1301
00:58:25,360 --> 00:58:29,720
We had this conversation.
We agreed. I said to everyone...
1302
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:31,280
That's not exactly
how the conversation went.
1303
00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:32,280
I said to everyone...
1304
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:35,760
I said to everyone, "I feel like
1305
00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:37,960
"this is obviously a special person
in her life.
1306
00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:40,760
"When she's ready to talk and
comfortable to talk about her son,
1307
00:58:40,800 --> 00:58:42,040
'I will talk."
1308
00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:44,040
And that's what she said to me. So I
don't want to overstep my ground.
1309
00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:45,720
This is what she said to me.
1310
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:47,320
ELITA: I happen to be
someone with a son.
1311
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:50,000
If I had said to someone
"I don't want to speak of my son,"
1312
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:52,040
I would hope that they would
take that very seriously...
1313
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:53,640
That's not what I said.
1314
00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:56,840
I've not been once asked by you
how my son is. It's just true.
1315
00:58:56,880 --> 00:58:57,840
You've never even asked me.
1316
00:58:57,920 --> 00:58:59,720
NIKOLA: Wait, can I stop you there
for a second?
1317
00:58:59,800 --> 00:59:02,160
So, initially, you said
when the time is right,
1318
00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:03,520
you'll open up about your son...
1319
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:04,680
No, that's not the conversation,
how it went.
1320
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:06,080
That's what you said.
Something to that effect.
1321
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:08,360
You just said that. You said that.
1322
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:09,640
This is a roadblock for us.
1323
00:59:09,720 --> 00:59:12,520
So when you're ready,
you'll open up about it, right?
1324
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:14,320
That's fine. It'll come naturally.
1325
00:59:14,400 --> 00:59:17,840
I've been naturally mentioning
my son.
1326
00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:20,760
JASMINE: You said when you were
ready you would speak about him.
1327
00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:23,160
I've actually brought up my son
a few times,
1328
00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:25,520
just randomly here and there
and that's actually true.
1329
00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:31,760
Well, actually, of course she did.
She's a fantastic mother.
1330
00:59:31,840 --> 00:59:33,920
So how about we lose that attitude
about her being a mum...
1331
00:59:34,000 --> 00:59:38,400
NIKOLA: You're the only one that...
I do not appreciate that at all.
1332
00:59:38,480 --> 00:59:40,200
When did I say...
The fact that you just denied it...
1333
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:42,520
She's the best fricken mum there is.
When did I say she wasn't?
1334
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:44,760
How dare you! How dare you!
1335
00:59:44,840 --> 00:59:46,720
I make comments about my son
all the time.
1336
00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:49,480
ELITA: Just lower the decibels.
No, how (BLEEP) dare you!
1337
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:54,000
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1338
00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:58,400
She is the best mum there is.
You are wretched.
1339
01:00:01,000 --> 01:00:03,280
Fi, you're fighting, fighting,
fighting with these people
1340
01:00:03,360 --> 01:00:04,960
and it's never gonna get through.
No-one's fighting...
1341
01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:07,760
You are a fantastic mother,
you're a beautiful person.
1342
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:10,560
You give, give, give, give
on a daily basis.
1343
01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:14,000
You have so much light
that you share with everyone
1344
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:16,600
and I don't see any of that light
in you today.
1345
01:00:16,680 --> 01:00:18,360
They are not good enough to be
in your life.
1346
01:00:18,440 --> 01:00:20,000
He's definitely not good enough
to be in my nephew's life.
1347
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:23,360
You will never, ever, ever
let him meet my nephew.
1348
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:24,480
NIKOLA: ..this aggressive and...
1349
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:25,800
I'm actually quite embarrassed
by her.
1350
01:00:25,880 --> 01:00:27,880
You deserve more than this.
ELITA: You know what, I actually...
1351
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:29,680
I just don't need to listen
to this shit.
1352
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:30,800
Goodbye.
JASMINE: Pointless conversation.
1353
01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:32,440
It really is.
You can't reason.
1354
01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:35,760
This is just ridiculous. I'm done.
It's, like...
1355
01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:39,320
AWHINA: Good. Make sure you leave
the apartment.
1356
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:42,480
And actually pack your stuff
this time.
1357
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:44,320
(TENSE MUSIC)
1358
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:50,080
He sat there the entire time
making snarky remarks...
1359
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:51,480
You know what, they planned it.
They planned it.
1360
01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:52,520
They did.
1361
01:00:55,560 --> 01:00:58,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1362
01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:02,760
It's time for you to come home.
1363
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:05,920
I thought I would come in alone
1364
01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:09,240
because obviously I don't think
anything is gonna resolve itself
1365
01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:10,640
with everybody.
1366
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:12,040
But I thought, like, you know,
1367
01:01:12,120 --> 01:01:14,000
I would come in
and have a conversation
1368
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:16,880
because, you know, as a mother,
I know what you've given up.
1369
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:19,360
But, you know, I've given up time
with my son
1370
01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:20,920
for these four days to come here
1371
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:25,600
and to feel this attack, number one,
at us, right, let alone my brother,
1372
01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:28,120
so that's a really difficult
situation to be in.
1373
01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:30,880
I think there's, like,
a lot of finger-pointing.
1374
01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:36,160
But, you know, I think you did have
an opportunity to leave.
1375
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:39,320
Your brother actually asked me
to stay to my face.
1376
01:01:39,400 --> 01:01:41,520
I think, you know,
you're only looking at yourself...
1377
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:42,800
You literally sat there
and you think
1378
01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:44,240
that was me attacking your brother?
1379
01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:45,760
I barely needed
to point a finger at him.
1380
01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:47,960
I'm sorry, but you guys came in
very aggressive.
1381
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:49,240
Jasmine was simply asking,
1382
01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:51,680
how do you perceive showing up,
right,
1383
01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:53,840
and you couldn't even answer
that question, so...
1384
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:55,760
Oh, my god. Do you know why?
1385
01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:58,680
Because when I said I just want to
be seen just the littlest bit,
1386
01:01:58,720 --> 01:02:00,760
I mean genuinely just a little bit.
1387
01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:02,640
Everybody has different ways
of showing up.
1388
01:02:02,720 --> 01:02:04,320
I think, you know...
He completely ignores me.
1389
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:05,320
..you have this expectation...
1390
01:02:05,400 --> 01:02:06,720
No, actually,
I had zero expectations.
1391
01:02:06,800 --> 01:02:08,400
You've not been there
for the last few weeks
1392
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:09,640
and I will not have
this conversation.
1393
01:02:09,720 --> 01:02:11,280
Do you know why I won't have
this conversation?
1394
01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:14,960
There's, like, no reasoning
with unreasonable people...
1395
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:16,880
Back at you, babe.
I'm gonna tell you right now.
1396
01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:19,160
I'm not gonna tolerate
this kind of behaviour anymore.
1397
01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:20,240
OK.
Walk along.
1398
01:02:20,320 --> 01:02:21,920
Oh...
Goodbye, babe.
1399
01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:23,720
You're just not worth it, honey.
Oh, you are not worth it.
1400
01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:27,080
Trust me. You, your brother, no-one.
1401
01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:39,080
I think, you know,
you have this expectation...
1402
01:02:39,160 --> 01:02:41,200
No, actually,
I have zero expectation.
1403
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:42,960
You've not been there
for the last few weeks
1404
01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:44,520
and I will not have
this conversation.
1405
01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:45,880
Do you know why I won't have
this conversation?
1406
01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:49,200
There's, like, no reasoning
with unreasonable people...
1407
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:51,480
Back at you, babe.
I'm just gonna tell you right now.
1408
01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:52,320
Oh, gosh...
1409
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:53,960
I'm not gonna tolerate
this kind of behaviour anymore.
1410
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:54,800
OK.
Walk along.
1411
01:02:54,880 --> 01:02:56,880
Oh...you're just not worth it,
honey.
1412
01:02:56,960 --> 01:03:00,120
Oh, you are not worth it, trust me.
You, your brother, no-one.
1413
01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:03,800
She came in here...
Yeah, I know. Babe...
1414
01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:05,360
..said straight off the bat...
Shoo, fly.
1415
01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:08,080
Straight off the bat, she said,
"You could have left.
1416
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:10,760
"Why are you here?
You could have left."
1417
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:14,280
At the end of the day,
you said 'leave'.
1418
01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:17,800
If he sat there giving you
empty promises and false hope,
1419
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:19,080
of course you'll stay.
1420
01:03:19,120 --> 01:03:20,840
It was three against one
1421
01:03:20,920 --> 01:03:26,600
and I just wish that Fi had
more support there to defend her.
1422
01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:28,480
You know, every time
she opened her mouth,
1423
01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:34,360
they tried to make her look bad
or they were condescending.
1424
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:38,680
This could've been a nice lunch.
It was never going to be.
1425
01:03:38,760 --> 01:03:43,000
I actually feel quite embarrassed
and upset, actually.
1426
01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:45,000
I feel embarrassed for Awhina
and her sister.
1427
01:03:45,040 --> 01:03:46,240
Mainly Cleo.
1428
01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:49,600
And I feel upset that I put
my sisters and Jasmine
1429
01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:51,040
in that situation.
1430
01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:53,760
CLEO: The fact that she even made
a 'hmm' about you being a mum...
1431
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:56,920
You are the best mum in this world.
1432
01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:58,600
This really sucks.
I know it does.
1433
01:03:58,640 --> 01:04:00,400
(CRIES)
1434
01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:02,880
(SIGHS)
1435
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:05,080
I hate seeing you like this.
1436
01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:07,280
I haven't cried all morning!
1437
01:04:07,360 --> 01:04:09,280
I knew that, because I can see it
in your eyes.
1438
01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:12,000
(CRIES)
1439
01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:17,400
Not only has Adrian
treated me really poorly
1440
01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:18,520
throughout this experiment
1441
01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:21,120
and treated me
as such an afterthought
1442
01:04:21,160 --> 01:04:23,840
and had very conditional affection,
1443
01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:25,360
he's gaslit me...
1444
01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:26,760
(CRIES)
1445
01:04:26,840 --> 01:04:31,520
But he's also tried to shine
a very horrible light on me
1446
01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:32,920
any chance he gets.
1447
01:04:33,000 --> 01:04:36,560
I gave up a lot to be here,
in Sydney, away from my child.
1448
01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:38,840
Now I'm just mad
and I'm pissed off.
1449
01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:40,240
And how's Cleo?
1450
01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:42,440
You've left so much behind...
I know.
1451
01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:44,000
..as if you don't have a life
of your own also.
1452
01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:46,920
We all gave up something,
so we're all in the same boat.
1453
01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:48,800
And it's not just because you have
a son that you've given up more.
1454
01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:50,240
Yeah. I've given up
just as much as her.
1455
01:04:50,320 --> 01:04:54,800
I've given up time away from my job.
I've given up time away from my dog.
1456
01:04:56,240 --> 01:04:58,240
I don't even think he knows
your son's name.
1457
01:04:58,320 --> 01:05:02,040
I don't think he pays any attention
to you and it's sad to see.
1458
01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:06,040
(CRIES) If he wrote 'stay'
and genuinely tried, like...
1459
01:05:06,080 --> 01:05:07,520
CLEO: You deserve it.
1460
01:05:07,600 --> 01:05:12,920
You are asking for so little,
when you deserve so much more.
1461
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:15,920
I just keep giving him
all these opportunities
1462
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:17,720
to show me that he's a nice person
1463
01:05:17,800 --> 01:05:22,840
or that he actually has
just the tiniest bit of care for me.
1464
01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:26,560
But there's... There's nothing.
1465
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:28,520
Listen, you've done what you can.
1466
01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:31,440
At the same time,
you know what, I did write 'stay',
1467
01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:34,760
so it's only fair for me in the man
that I am to stay to the end.
1468
01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:36,400
Like, I'm staying
for that commitment ceremony,
1469
01:05:36,440 --> 01:05:39,040
because that's me showing up again.
1470
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:40,960
Now, I'm a twin.
My sisters are twins.
1471
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:43,320
I understand, like,
you're defensive for your sister,
1472
01:05:43,360 --> 01:05:44,960
she's going off her head.
1473
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:47,560
Like, even though
I felt like pulling up Cleo...
1474
01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:50,080
but at the same time, I just wanted
to let her embarrass herself.
1475
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:57,200
What are you, (BLEEP) ten years old?
Like...
1476
01:05:57,280 --> 01:06:01,600
Look, you can put a ribbon
on a garbage bin, but what is that?
1477
01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:03,200
It's still trash.
WOMAN: Yeah.
1478
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:06,080
Like, let's just be honest.
(WOMEN LAUGH)
1479
01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:07,560
NARRATOR: Tomorrow night...
1480
01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:09,120
(WOMAN LAUGHS)
1481
01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:11,960
..friends and family week continues.
1482
01:06:12,040 --> 01:06:14,200
WOMAN: We can see the way
Carina looks at you.
1483
01:06:14,280 --> 01:06:17,080
WOMAN: You look happy.
You really do.
1484
01:06:17,160 --> 01:06:19,640
You can tell the chemistry
is definitely there
1485
01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:21,240
and I do see a future.
1486
01:06:21,320 --> 01:06:23,840
To new beginnings and family.
Yes.
1487
01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:26,600
You are being unreasonable
and I will not tolerate it.
1488
01:06:26,680 --> 01:06:30,320
What causes Veronica
to lash out at Eliot?
1489
01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:32,720
Do not raise your voice at me.
I've had enough.
1490
01:06:32,800 --> 01:06:34,480
ELIOT: This is so civil.
I've had enough!
1491
01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:36,720
Emotions reach breaking point
1492
01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:39,880
as they navigate
the first week of married life.
1493
01:06:39,920 --> 01:06:41,760
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1494
01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:47,440
And in an unexpected
turn of events,
1495
01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:51,360
which couple will announce
their exciting baby news?
1496
01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:54,360
(GENTLE MUSIC BOX MELODY PLAYS)
1497
01:06:58,480 --> 01:07:01,440
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