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Wow.
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ELIOT: She looked breathtaking.
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NARRATOR: Previously,
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Lauren and Eliot were married
at first sight.
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ELIOT: I wanted someone
that was younger than me,
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someone that's right into exercise
like me.
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But Eliot left his wife
after three days
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and exited the experiment.
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LAUREN: A grown man
throwing a tantrum
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because he didn't get
exactly what he wanted.
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The experts decided to give them
both a second chance at love.
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ELIOT: Oh, my god.
Veronica, she's beautiful.
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LAUREN: I think Clint's way better
than I was expecting.
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And the final couple
to enter this year's experiment,
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Beth and Teejay
formed an instant connection.
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BETH: He's everything
that I have asked the experts for,
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so I could not be any happier.
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But their special day
was overshadowed
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by Jacqui and Ryan's relationship.
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She'd written a rap sheet of every
single grudge that had happened
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since the wedding day.
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Jeff got a text message from Jacqui
asking to catch up without me there.
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(SPEAKS INDISTINCTLY, CRIES)
RYAN: No...
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Jacqui... Jacqui, stop.
It's not your wedding.
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Adrian called it quits.
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I'm asking you to come back.
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And after his shock return...
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Why were you out for dinner
with Sierah Saturday night?
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..it was revealed that he and Sierah
went out for a secret dinner
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behind their partners' backs.
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WOMAN: Why did you guys catch up?
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Like, why were you not
with your wife?
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I did ask her to come out.
No, you didn't.
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And Lauren and Eliot
went head to head.
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That didn't happen.
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You had about five margaritas,
so you might not remember.
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WOMAN: Oh, my god.
MAN: No.
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Tonight...
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We've been intimate.
Oh!
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(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
..love is in the air...
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I'm, like... I'm just...
I ride or die for people I love.
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He's someone
that I do have love for.
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PAUL: It's been amazing.
ALESSANDRA: Oh, you guys!
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But not for all, as the experts ask
the hard questions.
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Going to dinner with Adrian
and breaking Billy's trust,
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is that something you regret?
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Um...
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Will Eliot apologise to Lauren
for his behaviour?
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You had a chance to say, "You know
what, I regret that. I'm sorry."
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Eliot, what do you say to this?
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And then...
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Adrian, I've got it
on good authority
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that you gave an ultimatum -
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either put me in the promo
or I'll leave.
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..Adrian is held to account
for his actions.
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You threw the toys out of the cot.
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You left her.
Everyone reacts different.
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But it's Awhina
who leaves the room speechless.
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MAN: Oh, my god.
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(BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
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The countdown is on
to the third commitment ceremony.
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It's good vibes.
It's good vibes.
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Commitment ceremony day.
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I quite like you
with the shaved 'fotch'.
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Baby face.
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And after last night's
explosive dinner party,
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many are eager to see the experts.
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I hope tonight's commitment
ceremony is not gonna be as...
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(EXHALES) not gonna be as hectic
as last night.
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Mmm.
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So much to unpack.
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I definitely think there's gonna be
a few surprises.
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JEFF: Jacqui and Ryan
will both write 'stay'.
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RHI: They always do the opposite
to what...
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Yep.
..what we think they should do.
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And across the hall, it's wedded
bliss for Jacqui and Ryan...
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I want to do something fun.
Are you ready?
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What?
Alright?
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We're gonna do our own little thing.
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..as he has decided to take
her list of grievances on board
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and make it up to her
for his wedding dance faux pas.
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You haven't really taken
any personal accountability.
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Like, when you dropped me,
I did hit my head.
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I'm gonna dip you. Are you ready?
OK.
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Wait, wait.
Left.
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You're gonna have to catch me,
though.
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(SHRIEKS)
(THUD)
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(OTHERS EXCLAIM)
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I'm so sorry.
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Ready? We'll do a dip.
We'll do a dip. Ready?
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OK. Ready?
Mm-hm.
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(LAUGHS)
Ready?
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Oh, that way?
No, not at the table.
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It's too dangerous.
Oh, you're ready?
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Are you ready?
Yeah. Ready. (LAUGHS)
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That was fun.
That's it. Redemption.
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Redemption.
(LAUGHS)
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Now you've got 99 times to go.
Actually, 90...
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99.
99.
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Who's counting?
95. I'm counting.
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Morena and Tony are also
in high spirits this morning
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after taking the experts' advice
last week to hit the reset button.
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You look nice.
Thank you. You look lovely as well.
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(LAUGHS)
Mmm.
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Really looking forward to tonight,
actually.
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Me and Morena are in a good place
at the moment.
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We've blossomed this week.
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(CONTESTANTS EXCLAIM)
MAN: Jesus! The ethnics!
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Look at that!
Smell the roses, baby!
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We're back!
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And the budding romance
between the two
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was obvious at the dinner party.
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(LAUGHS)
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You know, I've put my 50%
and more in.
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We've been having fun
and spending time together.
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She's happy, she's a bit more
relaxed, so, yeah, it's been nice.
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We're going smoothly
at the moment, I think.
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I'm looking forward to seeing
what the experts...
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It'll be interesting to hear
what they say this time around
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when we speak.
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But as most of our couples
look forward to tonight,
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it's a different story for Awhina
and Adrian,
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who have moved
into separate apartments
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after they failed to come
to a resolution last night.
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And in his solitude,
Adrian has been reeling
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over the way he was received
by the group and his wife.
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You heard one side
and you all come at me
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and I was trying to speak
and get a word in,
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but it didn't matter what I said.
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It was always gonna be wrong
according to everyone.
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Me and Tony were going out to dinner
as well as Sierah.
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On that night, Sierah,
she looked upset.
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I was just trying to help.
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TONY: All there was
was a friendship.
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Why were you not with your wife?
Your wife is your priority.
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AWHINA: I was sad too, but.
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ADRIAN: I know, Awhina, she's hurt.
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But again, this is
a two-way relationship.
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I'm getting used to this now.
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There's things
that I'm upset about.
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Everyone's there on the promo
but me.
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And then she saying
"You left. It was wrong."
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No, it was right. It was right.
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Being excluded made me feel like
I wasn't good enough.
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And not once
has she checked in, like,
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"Adrian, hope you're feeling
better."
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It's been about just her,
how she feels.
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I think she owes me an apology,
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so, yeah, I'm gonna try
and talk to her, for sure.
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Hopefully
she's had a minute to sleep on it,
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think about it
and, you know, and say sorry.
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Hey.
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Didn't know you were
gonna answer the door.
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(TENSE MUSIC)
Forgot what our place looks like.
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Hmm?
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I said I forgot what our place
looks like.
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It's my place now.
Yeah.
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How are you feeling
after last night?
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(SIGHS)
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Mm-mm.
Get your hand away from me.
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How do you feel after last night?
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Um...
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Yeah, I mean, it was...
It was obviously a bit intense.
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I wasn't happy how that went.
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I want to ask a question.
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Do you think... Do you think
that in the last two weeks,
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the way I've acted had nothing to do
with how you acted?
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My god, Adrian.
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I have... You honestly...
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So you have...
Do you listen to your question?
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I'm asking.
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You're asking me whether or not
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to validate your behaviour
towards me due to my actions?
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That is not OK, Adrian.
I'm saying certain times.
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Why are you getting defensive?
That is not OK.
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It's so frustrating to me
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that you are still trying to pin
your actions on me.
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You actually left.
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Let's be very real here.
Yes.
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And I felt hurt and unseen by you...
Oh, also, though...
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..like I have done for six weeks...
Also, though...
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..throughout this environment.
You're not in the wrong any time.
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Adrian...
You're not in the wrong any time.
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OK. Now you're trying to
deflect on me again.
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(SCOFFS)
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He doesn't actually hold himself
accountable for any of his actions.
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And I've had enough.
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The reality is,
he should just be here for me.
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That's what this experiment's about.
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But he left because he wasn't
included in a 30-second promo.
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Not only that, he went to dinner
with Sierah.
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I'm giving you a platform again.
I'm over it.
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Deflecting, deflecting, deflecting.
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I really didn't know
how I was gonna approach
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the commitment ceremony tonight,
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but now I've got more clarity.
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Deflecting, deflecting, deflecting.
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Adrian...
This is all I'm copping, deflecting.
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Yeah.
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You haven't said one thing
that you're doing wrong
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to why you're understanding
how I'm feeling.
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You're not taking any accountability
in there.
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That's why I'm getting frustrated.
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I'm taking accountability
and I'm sorry...
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No, you haven't.
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Your actions right now show
that you're not accountable at all.
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(SIGHS) OK.
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(DOOR CLOSES)
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Down the hall, Billy is also shaken
from the events of last night.
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BILLY: Yeah, mixed emotions
this morning.
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I feel hurt and really, really
let down by Sierah.
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The couple have been
living separately
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since the last commitment ceremony,
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where Billy was blindsided
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after Sierah revealed she had
opened up to Adrian about her past.
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His sense of betrayal only worsened
at the dinner party.
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BILLY: Yeah, Adrian and Sierah
caught up for dinner.
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And Sierah's failure
to acknowledge him...
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I did the wrong thing by Awhina.
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I'm really sorry that
I wasn't forthcoming with it.
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..unsettled Billy even further.
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BILLY: What about me?
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I just kind of wanted Sierah
to hold herself accountable
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for what actually happened
and just go, "Look, OK, sorry.
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"I did go out to dinner
with Adrian."
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She did it to Awhina
but she didn't do it to me
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and surely I should be
the first person.
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It makes me very, very disappointed
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because I've dropped everything
to be here.
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(GROANS)
(BLEEP).
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(SIGHS)
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I've tried putting myself the
whole way through this experiment...
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I've been open, I've been honest
but I just feel so lost with Sierah.
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Like, I...I just feel so confused
by her actions.
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She doesn't want to open up to me
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and I'm still trying to understand
as to why
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because I've put everything
on the table for her.
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While Billy remains confused,
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Sierah is still coming to terms with
Billy's shocking wife-swap comment.
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Billy, what about when you called me
on Thursday...
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No, no. ..on Thursday and said you
want to do a wife swap.
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(OTHERS EXCLAIM)
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MAN: Oh, my god.
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I'm open now. I said that.
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I was fuming with
what I've heard.
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SIERAH: I'm sorry, but I'm not
a commodity that you can trade,
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first of all.
248
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Second of all, why would you
want a wife swap
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if you were so happy?
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If you actually liked me,
you'd want me for yourself.
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And now he's clung onto this dinner
with Tony and Adrian.
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Tonight also marks
the first commitment ceremony
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for the experiment's
three new couples.
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TEEJAY: I'm excited to see
how the experts think we're going.
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BETH: I know.
I feel a little bit nervous.
256
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You are?
Yeah.
257
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'Cause you just don't know
what they're gonna say.
258
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You can't?
259
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Um...
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It is somewhere. I have seen it.
261
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This is really bad, isn't it?
Oh, my god. You've sold it.
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You've gone to Cheap As Chips...
I've got it. Found it.
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I'm just glad it just means so much
to you.
264
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It does. It's the most precious
thing in the world.
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(LAUGHS)
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And for Lauren and Clint,
267
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the anticipation for tonight
is at an all-time high,
268
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as Lauren processes her reunion
with ex-husband Eliot.
269
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If last night's dinner
is any indication
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of how tonight's gonna go,
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I'm scared.
272
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Yeah. It wasn't nice,
what happened to you.
273
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That's not OK.
Mmm.
274
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That's not how you treat someone.
275
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Last night was the first time exes
Lauren and Eliot came face to face
276
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after he abandoned her
and their marriage on the honeymoon.
277
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(PEOPLE EXCLAIM)
278
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WOMAN: Oh, my god!
279
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That's Eliot!
280
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And their reunion
was not a happy one.
281
00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:11,080
You wanted someone who was 25
and said I wasn't into fitness
282
00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:13,200
because I only go to the gym
once a week.
283
00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:17,040
Also that I liked handbags.
What?
284
00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:18,080
No.
Yes, you did.
285
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CLINT: So you deny that?
Yes.
286
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I was perfectly consistent
from the beginning. I said...
287
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Consistently shit.
(MOCKINGLY) Bro, consistently shit.
288
00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:31,960
Yeah, I think him denying everything
that he said was quite funny.
289
00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:34,080
I mean, why would you come
to this experiment
290
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if you weren't willing to
learn anything, you know.
291
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CLINT: Yeah, well,
that's a good question.
292
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It was actually just repulsive.
293
00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:43,040
Like, he thinks he's just
so perfect and wonderful
294
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and doesn't need to take
any accountability.
295
00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:48,640
To learn, you need to have,
like, self-reflection
296
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and I think that's something
that he definitely lacks.
297
00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:55,520
Yeah, it was... It was just
embarrassing, really.
298
00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:57,960
Lauren isn't the only person
299
00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:01,360
disappointed by Eliot's behaviour
last night.
300
00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:06,160
Yeah.
301
00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:08,280
I'm not impressed.
302
00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:13,920
Last night, I saw a side to Eliot
that I've not seen before.
303
00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,640
When Eliot exited the experiment,
304
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it highlighted his questionable
relationship habits.
305
00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:26,160
The person I was matched with was
nothing like what I was looking for.
306
00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:28,280
I had to get out of there.
307
00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:30,320
This is a pattern
308
00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:34,360
and it is time to decide
what you want to do with it.
309
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And this feedback from the experts
310
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prompted Eliot to reflect
on his behaviour.
311
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I want to do better this time.
312
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I'm gonna try to not just tick
the boxes.
313
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I'm gonna stick around.
314
00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:51,240
And after getting a second chance
at love,
315
00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:53,960
he was blown away
by his new bride Veronica.
316
00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:56,320
Wow.
317
00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:58,320
Hi.
Hey.
318
00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:03,200
Oh, my god. She's beautiful.
(LAUGHS)
319
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And despite the fact
that one of his non-negotiables
320
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is to have a large family...
321
00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:10,880
I've actually got endometriosis.
Yeah.
322
00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:15,680
So there is, like, a 50% chance
I probably am infertile.
323
00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:16,800
Mmm.
324
00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:20,640
..Eliot stayed true to his word
and remained open-minded.
325
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It's not a concern for me.
326
00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:25,880
I kind of felt for her there,
you know, in that moment.
327
00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:27,840
The lack of accountability
328
00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:29,800
and the way that he was responding
to everybody last night
329
00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:32,520
is probably my biggest red flag
at the moment.
330
00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:35,160
But I really want to believe
331
00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:39,320
that the Eliot that I've seen over
the last five days is really Eliot.
332
00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:41,400
So, in the commitment ceremony
tonight,
333
00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:44,400
I really just need him to be
completely open and honest
334
00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:49,320
about the way that he handled
the situation.
335
00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:52,960
He needs to take accountability
of his behaviour
336
00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:54,760
if he wants this to work.
337
00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:07,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
338
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Hello there again.
339
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JOHN: Greetings, gents. Come on in.
340
00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:17,320
Hi, John. Hi, Mel.
341
00:17:17,360 --> 00:17:18,240
ALESSANDRA: Welcome.
342
00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:19,720
MEL: Hello, hello.
343
00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:23,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC CONTINUES)
344
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Hello, ladies.
Hi. Welcome.
345
00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:39,560
Come on in. Take a seat.
346
00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:43,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC CONTINUES)
347
00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:56,360
Welcome, everybody,
to the third commitment ceremony.
348
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Now, before we kick off,
349
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we would like to welcome our three
new couples into the experiment -
350
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Teejay and Beth,
Lauren and Clint
351
00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:11,920
and Veronica and Eliot.
352
00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:19,080
Now, I'm sure, for all of you,
last night was an eye-opener.
353
00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:26,200
Dinner parties can get explosive.
This was one for the ages.
354
00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:31,880
There are certain things
that have deeply concerned us
355
00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:35,640
and this
we will be shining a light upon.
356
00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:38,760
There's no hiding tonight.
357
00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:45,320
Be completely prepared to lay
everything out on the table,
358
00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:50,400
because for some of you, you're in
deep crisis and you need help.
359
00:18:54,120 --> 00:18:56,320
Our first couple up on the couch...
360
00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:00,120
Eliot and Veronica.
361
00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:03,520
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
362
00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:06,920
(LAUGHS)
363
00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:08,920
LAUREN: It's time to face the music.
364
00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:11,320
I look forward to seeing the experts
365
00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:13,640
finally call him out
on his bullshit.
366
00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:17,320
JOHN: Greetings, you two.
Eliot, we meet again.
367
00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:21,120
And there's no running
for the hills this time.
368
00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:31,080
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
369
00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:35,320
Eliot, we meet again.
How we doing?
370
00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:40,240
We're doing well.
And greetings to you, Veronica.
371
00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:41,960
Hi.
MEL: Welcome.
372
00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:45,200
Here we go.
373
00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:49,480
JOHN: It was a bit of a baptism
of fire, wasn't it,
374
00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:50,920
last night, at the dinner party.
375
00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:52,000
Yes.
Yeah.
376
00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,240
To say the least.
To say the least. Definitely.
377
00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,640
Tell me about what it was like
for you.
378
00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:59,480
Veronica, why don't you kick it off?
379
00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:03,440
Yeah, it was very confronting.
Mmm.
380
00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:06,560
What was so confronting about it
for you?
381
00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:14,960
Well... Well, we had
a great honeymoon.
382
00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:17,120
We had... We had a lot of fun.
383
00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,640
But, yeah, I mean, obviously,
hearing Lauren's side of the story,
384
00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:25,720
what she went through, is not a side
of Eliot that I've ever seen.
385
00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:31,560
And then, I guess, the way that he
was kind of responding to everybody
386
00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:33,040
was disappointing.
387
00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:38,920
Lauren was very clearly upset
and hurt by what had happened
388
00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:44,680
and, like, I just didn't really feel
like Eliot was empathetic
389
00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:46,560
or open to it.
390
00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:50,520
There was a lot of rebuttal,
391
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:54,080
a lot of, you know, kind of mocking
at one point.
392
00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:57,400
There was, like... He was kind of
putting Lauren down,
393
00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:00,640
at another point, like, shaming her
for having a few drinks,
394
00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:03,160
saying to her
that it wasn't possible
395
00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,840
that she could recount events
because she had five margaritas.
396
00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:12,360
Yeah.
397
00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:14,280
Just the general way
that he handled himself
398
00:21:14,360 --> 00:21:15,440
didn't really sit well with me...
Mmm.
399
00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:16,440
..at all.
400
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:21,680
I mean, there's no doubt that
you copped a lot of heat last night.
401
00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,840
But in saying that, you know,
402
00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:28,120
you had a chance to say,
"You know what, I regret that.
403
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:31,080
"I could do that better. I'm sorry."
404
00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,920
And unfortunately
you doubled down on it.
405
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:39,800
So, Eliot, what do you say to this?
406
00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:43,800
I'll take ownership of that.
407
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:53,760
I guess my kind of defences went up
a little bit
408
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:56,760
when the fire turned towards me
409
00:21:56,800 --> 00:22:00,320
and I 100% think that that's wrong.
410
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:05,760
Like, you know, I should be able to
sit there and, you know...
411
00:22:07,360 --> 00:22:09,160
say I'm sorry
412
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:15,960
because I 100% have regrets about
how I handled the whole situation.
413
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:19,560
What specific regrets have you got
for Lauren?
414
00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:23,520
Well, number one,
the manner in which I left.
415
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,160
I think that's quite clearly
a mistake.
416
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:32,040
When I did that,
it was a bit of a panic decision.
417
00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:37,240
I didn't feel any kind of connection
418
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:41,760
and then I was trying to clumsily
rationalise it with checkboxes...
419
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,400
and I was wrong.
420
00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,560
Lauren,
421
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:53,760
I didn't fully consider
your feelings in that process
422
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,000
and I made a mistake.
423
00:22:57,440 --> 00:22:59,800
It might not ever be something
that you'll forgive...
424
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:03,480
but I'm sorry nonetheless.
425
00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:06,320
Like, I mean that sincerely.
426
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:09,520
LAUREN: Thanks.
427
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,560
(BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
428
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:16,480
Mmm.
429
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,440
VERONICA: Good job!
430
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:21,760
Why does that mean so much to you,
Veronica?
431
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,880
Because it's an acknowledgement.
Like, "I'm sorry."
432
00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:28,160
And what's the problem
when someone can't do that?
433
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:30,280
You'll just never move forward.
434
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:37,000
Eliot, I'm curious.
Where is that checklist for you now?
435
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:41,960
In the bin.
436
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:45,520
(BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
437
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,320
Obviously
people can have preferences
438
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:53,200
but being so rigid in them
I don't think is productive.
439
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:54,800
Wow.
440
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,280
So this is a different guy...
MEL: Mmm.
441
00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:58,680
..that I'm speaking to right now.
442
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:06,640
What has brought about this change?
When did this happen?
443
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:12,680
Probably the biggest thing is,
you know,
444
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:17,000
I've got someone by my side
kind of talking sense into me.
445
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:18,440
Mmm.
446
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:21,680
So, do you really like Veronica,
Eliot?
447
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:24,360
Yeah.
448
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:27,680
Mmm.
Yeah, I think it's pretty obvious.
449
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:32,760
(LAUGHS)
(OTHERS LAUGH)
450
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:35,960
You know, one thing that is
very important for you to realise
451
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:37,880
is that this wasn't
an easy decision...
452
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:39,040
No.
453
00:24:39,120 --> 00:24:41,280
..you know, bringing you back
into this experiment.
454
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:44,080
But we felt like you,
455
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:47,120
among all the people that we've seen
over the years,
456
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,800
could absolutely benefit...
Mmm.
457
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:53,960
..and we are all very pleased
458
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,960
to see you apologise to Lauren.
459
00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,760
I didn't know
whether you had it in you.
460
00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:02,920
But tonight...
MEL: Mmm.
461
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:04,960
..we like what we see.
462
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:10,600
Alright, well, we're gonna go
to the decision now.
463
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:12,920
We'll go with you first, Eliot.
464
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:17,400
Alright, so... (LAUGHS)
I will be staying.
465
00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:20,080
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
Staying. There we go.
466
00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,080
Veronica, are you gonna stay
or leave?
467
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:27,520
It's a tough one.
468
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:30,280
No, I'm kidding. (LAUGHS)
I'm staying. (LAUGHS)
469
00:25:30,360 --> 00:25:31,520
There we go.
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
470
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,480
MEL: Lovely.
471
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:35,680
You can go back to the group.
VERONICA: Thank you.
472
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:37,560
Well done.
(APPLAUSE)
473
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,360
Our next couple up on the couch...
474
00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
475
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,680
..Lauren and Clint.
476
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:59,640
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
477
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,040
MEL: Well, hello.
JOHN: Hello, you two.
478
00:26:02,120 --> 00:26:03,480
CLINT: Hello.
Welcome back.
479
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:04,440
LAUREN: Thank you.
Well, hello.
480
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:05,840
MEL: And welcome.
Hello.
481
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:09,720
Lauren, it is so lovely
to see you again.
482
00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:10,880
LAUREN: Thank you. You too.
483
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:12,160
You're with Clint now.
484
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:16,240
How has this experience been for
you, Lauren, a second time around?
485
00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:24,240
It's definitely been an upgrade
of an experience from the get-go.
486
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:31,440
I think Clint has pretty much
all the qualities that I look for.
487
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:35,040
Like, one of the main things
that I really want
488
00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:38,320
is, like, a masculine energy,
489
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:40,680
which is just, like,
innately in him.
490
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:44,360
Like, he's actually curious about
my life and family and work
491
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:48,040
and he just straight away
is like my teammate
492
00:26:48,120 --> 00:26:49,840
and I feel like
we have each other's back.
493
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:54,120
And, like, with Eliot's vows,
494
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:57,600
it's like he talked a lot about
certain things,
495
00:26:57,640 --> 00:26:59,440
like, traits that I asked for,
496
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:01,560
but his actions were
completely different...
497
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,440
whereas Clint is showing it
in his actions
498
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:08,480
just in the short time
that I've known him.
499
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,120
You see that alignment.
Yeah.
500
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:12,520
OK.
Definitely.
501
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,400
Yeah, I think you guys
have done a great job.
502
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:15,720
Mmm.
503
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,400
I think she ticks a lot of boxes,
for sure.
504
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,200
And no offence to anyone in here,
I look around the room
505
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,480
and I think she's just the most
stunning person in the room, so...
506
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:27,360
OTHERS: Aw!
507
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:29,000
No offence.
508
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,240
Sorry, guys. But she's... Yeah.
509
00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:32,360
That's amazing.
510
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:35,120
And on that note,
let's go to the decision.
511
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,440
And we're gonna start with Clint.
OK.
512
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,200
It's such a tough decision, but...
513
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,440
(LAUGHTER)
..I did get there with that one.
514
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:45,040
MAN: Go, boy!
And Lauren?
515
00:27:45,120 --> 00:27:48,000
LAUREN: Well, it was an easy
decision for me too.
516
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,000
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
517
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:52,440
JOHN: Go back to the group.
MEL: Well done, you two.
518
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:54,400
LAUREN: Thank you.
Have a great week.
519
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,680
After you.
Whew.
520
00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,440
(LAUGHS)
521
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,200
WOMAN: Good job.
522
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,200
Ooh, sorry.
That's OK.
523
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:04,200
Whew.
524
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,000
Our next couple up...
525
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:10,000
Jacqui and Ryan.
526
00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:11,960
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
527
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:15,640
RYAN: Good evening, guys.
MEL: Hello.
528
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:19,160
(EXHALES)
529
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:24,440
Here we go.
530
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:31,880
Alright. Well, Jacqui and Ryan.
531
00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,160
Where are we gonna start tonight
with you two?
532
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,840
Where do we start?
So, the week that was...
533
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:40,840
Beginning with Teejay
and Beth's wedding.
534
00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:42,400
It definitely wasn't
our finest hour.
535
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,680
I just want to apologise
to you guys as well
536
00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:46,320
if there was any kind of...
Yeah, we're sorry.
537
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,600
..disruption to that.
Thanks, guys. Appreciate it.
538
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:54,280
The morning of the wedding,
Jacqui did pull out her laptop...
539
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,000
and she said she had a rap sheet
540
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:03,080
of everything
that she was holding onto -
541
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:04,840
like, little grudges and whatnot.
542
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:06,160
Mmm.
543
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,440
Like, we went as far back
as the wedding with the blooper
544
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,440
and then we went onto
the shoes on the bed thing
545
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,360
and the air conditioning
and whatnot,
546
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,360
so immediately I did feel
quite persecuted by that.
547
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,480
Mmm.
I felt like I was on trial.
548
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,840
And I didn't feel like it was
a healthy or productive way
549
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:24,880
to keep moving forward,
550
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,080
particularly after we pressed
the reset button
551
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:28,440
after the last commitment ceremony.
552
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:30,720
OK.
553
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,600
So, Jacqui, why was
that important for you
554
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,520
to have written that...
I think...
555
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:37,120
..and then to show Ryan?
556
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,320
Yeah. I don't know.
557
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:41,120
I just felt like Ryan's behaviour
was a bit disappointing.
558
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,080
I felt like, as my husband,
559
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:49,000
I would've hoped that
he would've understood my needs.
560
00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:51,000
But I was trying to be so optimistic
561
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:54,680
and still, like, give this man
the best chance I could.
562
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:58,080
So I was trying to find a solution
that worked for both of us.
563
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,560
I actually brought it,
in case I needed it.
564
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,640
MEL: Oh.
WOMAN: What?
565
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,320
(LAUGHTER)
(BLEEP).
566
00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:16,960
(LAUGHS)
567
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:24,120
NARRATOR: Still to come,
Adrian faces the consequences.
568
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:27,600
I've got it on good authority
that you gave an ultimatum.
569
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:31,680
"Either put me in the promo
or I'll leave."
570
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,960
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
571
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,640
I actually brought it
in case I needed it.
572
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,760
(LAUGHTER)
Oh!
573
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,200
(LAUGHS) No, yeah,
there's a lot that, like,
574
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:53,840
I've really been trying to process.
Do you think...
575
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,120
I prefer we didn't go through that
again.
576
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:01,600
No, some of it's good, though.
577
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,400
There's a lot of it
you've improved on.
578
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,320
But, like, the main thing for me
was...
579
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:13,560
So, everyone here knows
580
00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:17,400
that on my wedding day
Ryan dropped me.
581
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:21,520
Oh, my god. Are we still gonna...
(LAUGHS)
582
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:23,000
So I was really struggling
583
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:26,640
because he never really did anything
to make it up to me.
584
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:30,480
Like, I mentioned it would be really
fun if we dance every night
585
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:33,560
and then you dip me 100 times
and make it up to me so I know...
586
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:34,720
I did dip you again after that
just to...
587
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:36,560
Yeah, I know. I know. No...
588
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:41,640
We did do some things
to make it better. We did.
589
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,040
You did three dips.
But you didn't do enough.
590
00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,160
I felt like...
MEL: Oh...
591
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,480
(LAUGHS) Yeah, I felt like as well,
like...
592
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:49,480
You've got a quota now. (LAUGHS)
593
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:52,720
No, no, this is how I felt
and I was upset
594
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,240
because, like, I just wanted more.
595
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:59,000
More of what?
596
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,320
Because I did ask you...
I just told you, like, again.
597
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,480
I just told you, I would've wanted
you to dance me 100 times
598
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:08,320
and dip me so I never feel like
you're gonna drop me again
599
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,520
or buy me flowers or, you know...
600
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:16,440
Yeah.
601
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:20,400
I fully acknowledge that you had
a need to get your feelings out
602
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:24,160
and what I should've done was
just listened to the entire thing
603
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:29,120
and then myself come back to you
with how I was going to improve
604
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:33,760
because I recognise you were trying
to help me grow as a man...
605
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:35,240
Mmm.
..and I respect that.
606
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,600
Yeah, and I think he does listen.
607
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:43,680
Like, it does take a few days after
he's kicked and screamed, but...
608
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:44,520
(LAUGHS)
609
00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,800
..like, he does get there
eventually.
610
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:48,680
Um...
611
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,520
Well, look, I'm confused.
612
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:58,840
It may, for many people, seem like
writing down all your grievances
613
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,760
is not something that's very healthy
614
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:05,120
but in a strange, bizarre way,
it worked for you two.
615
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:09,680
You figured out, well,
we just have to listen differently
616
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:11,640
to feel validated.
617
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,760
Did you expect that?
618
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:16,400
Didn't expect it, but I believe
that's exactly the case, yeah.
619
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,920
Alright.
We're gonna go to the decision now.
620
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:23,400
And we're gonna go with you first,
Ryan.
621
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:24,560
OK.
622
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:26,920
I really am committed
to bringing out the best in us
623
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,920
and it can be chaotic,
it can be catastrophic,
624
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,480
can be whatever adjective
you want to give it
625
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:37,040
but at the end of the day,
I really want to stay and find out.
626
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:38,160
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
Yay.
627
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:40,640
Like that.
Oh...
628
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:43,880
Right, up to you, Jacqui.
629
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,040
What have we got?
Stay or leave?
630
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:49,280
Yeah, like, I feel like I owe it
to Ryan to also, like,
631
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:52,080
give him the chance to be the man
I know he could be.
632
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:54,960
So I said 'stay'.
OK.
633
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:57,480
(LAUGHS) Yeah.
(APPLAUSE)
634
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,920
You can go back to the group.
Well done, guys.
635
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:01,160
Thank you so much, guys.
Thank you.
636
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,160
MAN: Well done, guys.
Oh...
637
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:06,800
Thank you.
638
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:10,000
Thank you.
639
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:16,120
Our next couple up on the couch,
Rhi and Jeff.
640
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:19,240
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
641
00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:23,480
MEL: Hello.
Hey, guys.
642
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:24,880
JEFF: Hey, guys.
Hiya.
643
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,080
Hello.
How is it going?
644
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:29,400
What have you been dealing with?
Any issues?
645
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:32,480
What's been going on?
RHI: Yeah.
646
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:36,200
So, over the past week,
there was a little bit of drama
647
00:34:36,240 --> 00:34:37,480
around another couple...
648
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,000
and it flustered me.
649
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:48,520
But Jeff always just has my back.
650
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:52,600
What happened? I don't know.
The heaviness came from what?
651
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,840
So, Jacqui and Ryan
652
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,320
have obviously had some troubles
in their relationship...
653
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:07,920
and Jacqui reached out to Jeff
to catch up for a coffee
654
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:08,920
without me there.
655
00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:14,280
I just feel like it's not girl code
to do that, personally.
656
00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:19,560
And considering this experiment
is about, like, marriages,
657
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:22,880
like, I don't know, I just think
it's a little bit disrespectful.
658
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:26,160
Jacqui...
659
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:29,120
Jacqui...
660
00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:30,520
Yeah.
661
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:35,600
..do you understand why Rhi felt
the way she felt?
662
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,600
(TENSE MUSIC)
663
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:40,760
Um...
664
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:44,400
Yeah, so I think, like,
I mean, from my perspective,
665
00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:49,320
like, I was in
a really, really bad place
666
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:52,720
and I just needed to have,
like, some more people
667
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,960
kind of have my back a little bit
so that when they, you know, like...
668
00:35:57,360 --> 00:36:01,800
they see the behaviour going on in
front of them, they can call it out.
669
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:07,720
Like, I'm in a position where
I can't handle Ryan on my own
670
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:09,400
because it's just constant.
671
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:12,760
I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
672
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:14,760
That just makes me sound terrible.
673
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:17,160
It's true, though, Ryan! It's true!
674
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,160
But you're both here together.
Oh...
675
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:23,800
You're happy together.
676
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:28,960
Anyway, so, yes, yes,
I can relate that she felt,
677
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,520
like, excluded, I guess,
or left out.
678
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:33,360
Yeah.
ALESSANDRA: Mmm.
679
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,040
I didn't mean to make her
feel that way.
680
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:36,160
Thank you, Jacqui.
681
00:36:36,240 --> 00:36:38,400
And I apologised
and I am sorry again, Rhi.
682
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:40,800
That's OK.
She did apologise.
683
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,760
You did feel the support from your
partner in the whole entire thing?
684
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,760
Yeah, I did.
685
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:52,080
Like, I'm not sure
how I would've dealt with that
686
00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:55,480
if I didn't have
a supportive partner like I do.
687
00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:57,840
I feel really heard
688
00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:01,800
and I'm really grateful
that we are in such a great place.
689
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:06,080
Mm-hm.
And so, we've been intimate...
690
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:07,440
Oh!
..which is exciting.
691
00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,160
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
Good news!
692
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:16,280
It is really exciting, especially
with the history that you guys have,
693
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,640
that you chose at this point
to go there.
694
00:37:19,720 --> 00:37:26,320
Yeah, I am really glad that we did
just take our time this time around.
695
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:28,480
JEFF: Yeah. And I agree with that.
696
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,600
I think it was important for us,
like Rhi said.
697
00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:33,880
The foundations were really solid
before we did that
698
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:37,160
and now that it's happened, yeah,
it's a great feeling
699
00:37:37,240 --> 00:37:39,600
and I think we're in a really good
spot at the moment.
700
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:41,120
I love that.
701
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:44,560
Let's go to the decision, you guys.
(LAUGHS)
702
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:46,640
I don't think we're gonna be
too surprised.
703
00:37:46,720 --> 00:37:47,760
(LAUGHS)
But... (LAUGHS)
704
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:49,880
Stay.
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
705
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:52,080
MEL: Lovely.
Stay.
706
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,080
I love it.
Thank you. (LAUGHS)
707
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:56,680
What about you, Jeff? Surprise me.
I'm staying.
708
00:37:56,720 --> 00:37:58,480
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
709
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:00,840
(LAUGHTER)
710
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:02,400
Thank you so much.
Thank you, guys.
711
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:03,840
MEL: Well done.
Thanks, guys.
712
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:06,520
JOHN: Well done, guys. Great work.
(APPLAUSE)
713
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:13,640
MEL: Our next couple
up on the couch...
714
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:15,400
(TENSE MUSIC)
715
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,680
..Sierah and Billy.
716
00:38:21,720 --> 00:38:23,680
(APPLAUSE)
717
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,080
JOHN: Hello, you two.
MEL: Hello.
718
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:29,520
BILLY: Hey, guys.
ALESSANDRA: Hi.
719
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:38,320
MEL: Well, there's clearly a lot
to unpack from last night.
720
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:41,760
It was an incredibly chaotic
dinner party.
721
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:49,640
And in amongst the chaos, we saw two
individuals, certainly not a couple,
722
00:38:49,720 --> 00:38:53,680
who were very separate, disconnected
and fractured
723
00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:57,280
and really confiding in other people
rather than each other.
724
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:03,480
So, we want to understand
what's happened and what led to this.
725
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,840
Why don't we start with you, Sierah?
726
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:09,120
Um...
727
00:39:11,240 --> 00:39:17,520
I mean, obviously I made a mistake
and wronged people
728
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,880
so I guess...
So, just so we're really clear...
729
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:20,880
Yeah.
730
00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:22,600
..what do you see
as the mistake you made?
731
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:29,360
So, the mistake I made
was lying to Awhina, I think,
732
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:31,400
or not being forthcoming.
733
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:37,280
Like, went out with Tony and Adrian
for dinner. It was so innocent.
734
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,880
Like, we just went
for a plate of meat.
735
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:44,160
But then, when I was doing that,
736
00:39:44,240 --> 00:39:47,080
I didn't realise that Awhina and I
were gonna go for a walk.
737
00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:48,800
We hadn't organised it yet.
738
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,360
So when I went for a walk
with Awhina, I didn't mention it
739
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,400
because I knew her and Adrian
weren't in a good place
740
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:55,600
and I didn't want to upset her.
741
00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:57,800
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
742
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:02,440
Obviously, any time Adrian
and my name are mentioned
743
00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,080
in a sentence together,
everyone's, "Oh!"
744
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:11,880
And what made you hold back
from telling Billy about this?
745
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:15,720
I haven't spoken to Billy at all.
746
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:18,880
So there's been no communication
at all?
747
00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:20,880
No communication whatsoever.
No, there's been no communication.
748
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,000
But I do feel like
it might have been quite nice for me
749
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:26,560
to have the same kind of,
I don't know, just conversation.
750
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:29,800
I felt like I was maybe owed that.
751
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,440
(TENSE MUSIC)
752
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,600
AWHINA: Sierah,
I'm not trying to jump in here,
753
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:38,400
but I do feel like Billy felt...
754
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:40,880
We'd only just found out.
Yeah.
755
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,240
And you saw my face.
Yeah.
756
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,880
I was, like... I was hurting.
757
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:47,200
Yeah.
758
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:49,240
But this is why I think I probably
feel a bit worse towards Awhina,
759
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:50,520
because I was actually with her.
760
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,360
So I feel like it was more of a lie
to her face,
761
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:53,800
if you know what I mean.
762
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:56,880
I know you're worried about
Awhina here
763
00:40:56,960 --> 00:41:01,720
but I just want you to focus on
going to dinner with Adrian
764
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,680
and breaking Billy's trust.
765
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:07,120
Is that something you regret?
766
00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:08,960
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
767
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:10,240
Um...
768
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:28,880
MEL: Going to dinner with Adrian
and breaking Billy's trust,
769
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:31,240
is that something you regret?
770
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:34,360
Um...
771
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,600
I guess maybe
I could've addressed him.
772
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:42,520
Yeah. I don't know.
773
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:45,520
I'm gonna go to you, Billy.
774
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:48,720
What's your response to everything
Sierah's saying here?
775
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,840
I have to be honest.
I feel, like, frustrated.
776
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:03,120
Sierah, can I just ask...
Yeah.
777
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:06,560
..do you feel a deeper connection
with Adrian than you do with Billy?
778
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:10,560
I just find him easy to talk to...
AWHINA: Yeah.
779
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:11,640
..for sure.
780
00:42:11,720 --> 00:42:16,040
And Adrian, do you feel
a deeper connection with Sierah
781
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:17,920
than you do with Awhina?
782
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:21,160
No, I don't.
783
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:28,760
Nothing happened
between Adrian and I.
784
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,680
I just don't believe
that Billy likes me.
785
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,240
And then the things I hear,
like, you want a wife swap...
786
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:38,080
Why would you say that
if you liked me?
787
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:39,400
You would want me all for yourself.
788
00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:43,360
JOHN: Well, Billy, just on that...
789
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:45,640
(TENSE MUSIC)
790
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:49,200
..it really troubled me
791
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:53,720
when I heard that you had mentioned
the possibility of a wife swap.
792
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:58,200
Doesn't matter
how do you say that,
793
00:42:58,240 --> 00:43:00,760
that is poor form.
794
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:06,640
You cannot be treating a woman
like a piece of meat.
795
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:11,800
And when we heard it,
we were shocked.
796
00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:18,080
That's not the Billy we know.
No.
797
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,440
I think this is as well,
like you say,
798
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:24,520
the Billy you know,
he's not here right now.
799
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:27,560
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
800
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:33,880
Them comments, it's not acceptable.
I hold my hands up.
801
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:35,240
It's wrong.
802
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:40,320
And I'm deeply sorry.
It's fine.
803
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,680
I'm sorry to the other girls in here
as well.
804
00:43:42,720 --> 00:43:44,080
You shouldn't have to hear that.
805
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:46,720
I am.
806
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:51,240
I think I just built up frustration
807
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:55,160
and that was me,
being a huge shadow of myself.
808
00:43:55,240 --> 00:43:57,520
That was not me at all.
That is not the person I am.
809
00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:04,080
I just feel like
I've really retreated, you know.
810
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:08,440
I've said multiple times that I need
more of an emotional connection.
811
00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:09,600
I've had a physical touch...
812
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:11,520
I got literally no deep connection
from you.
813
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:13,680
I got nothing...
You took a step further backwards.
814
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,320
All I've ever wanted
was a deeper connection.
815
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:22,480
And I've got nothing,
however many weeks we're in now.
816
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:25,800
I've tried to give you
what you needed
817
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:27,440
but you don't give me what I need.
818
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:30,600
And I don't know why,
819
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,080
because I've expressed
every part of my life to you.
820
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:35,360
My mum doesn't even know
some of the things that I've said.
821
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:40,160
I've tried, because I've come into
this experiment open and honest
822
00:44:40,240 --> 00:44:42,200
because I haven't been like that
in previous relationships.
823
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:47,760
I've got nothing from you, Sierah.
Absolutely sweet FA.
824
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:55,800
MEL: Well, certainly for us
as observers
825
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,560
sitting back and watching
the two of you,
826
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:01,320
it's a real shame
how things have really shifted
827
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:03,440
and you've gotten to this point.
828
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:07,000
And with that said,
we're gonna go to the decision.
829
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:08,800
But we'll go to you first, Billy.
830
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:15,400
Yeah, so, can't see us really coming
back from anything, so...
831
00:45:16,720 --> 00:45:19,400
Yeah, I've wrote 'leave'.
832
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:21,400
Oh. OK. Thank you.
833
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:27,840
And to you, Sierah.
834
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:29,520
Yeah.
835
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:30,960
I just wrote 'leave'.
836
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:34,960
It's OK.
837
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:39,560
We're all very sorry
that this is how things have ended up
838
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,040
for the two of you.
839
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:45,560
Billy, is there anything you'd like
to say to Sierah at this point?
840
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:53,400
I think, Sierah, obviously you are
a beautiful person inside and out
841
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:58,360
and in that first couple of weeks
of getting to know you, I seen that.
842
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:00,760
And it genuinely was nice.
843
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:05,720
I guess going forward
844
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,320
maybe just don't maybe try and go
too in yourself sometimes
845
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,720
when someone's trying
to speak to you...
846
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:16,240
'cause I feel like
I'm a pretty easy person to talk to
847
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:18,400
and when I've tried to talk to you
in them moments,
848
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:20,800
you could've opened up to me
and talked to me
849
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:22,480
and trusted me in them moments.
850
00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:27,120
I just wish that we had
had this conversation before this
851
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:28,760
because now that I've heard you out
852
00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:30,440
and we've sat here
and we've spoken like this,
853
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:31,560
I wish we could stay.
854
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:37,760
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
855
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,320
Do you regret writing 'leave'?
856
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:45,640
Yeah, I feel
actually quite full of regret.
857
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:00,880
I wish we could stay.
858
00:47:06,720 --> 00:47:08,840
Yeah, I feel
actually quite full of regret.
859
00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:13,720
Does this feel like
a missed opportunity?
860
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:19,720
Yeah, I think a little bit now,
because just hearing him out,
861
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:21,800
I think I was just treating him
like the enemy.
862
00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:25,280
I should've tried harder.
We could've spoken about it.
863
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:31,360
But I was just so inside myself,
I think.
864
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:33,280
I actually feel really awful.
865
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:47,800
What about you, Billy?
866
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:52,600
I don't regret my decision.
867
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,000
I'm honest and open, like I've been
in this whole experiment.
868
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:58,400
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
869
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:03,960
And this is the thing.
870
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,280
We could've had these discussions
on numerous occasions
871
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:08,840
but I felt like
you don't really want to talk,
872
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,600
so it's been very, very hard,
you know.
873
00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:13,560
Yeah, I'd shut off.
874
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:19,360
Well, obviously the rules
of the commitment ceremony
875
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:24,720
is that if both partners say 'leave',
you both leave the experiment.
876
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:26,440
You know, I think, in a small way,
877
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:28,480
the two of you have made
a little breakthrough
878
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,720
just as two humans tonight,
not necessarily as a couple,
879
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:33,920
but, you know,
if there is an opportunity
880
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:35,320
for the two of you to keep talking,
881
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:38,000
I think that would be really valuable
for both of you.
882
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:40,600
Thank you.
Thanks, guys. Take a seat.
883
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:42,840
JOHN: Good luck, guys.
Thank you.
884
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:45,600
Thank you.
(APPLAUSE)
885
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,440
And our next couple up tonight...
886
00:48:55,720 --> 00:48:57,280
Beth and Teejay.
887
00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,840
Oooh!
(APPLAUSE)
888
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:04,000
Hello, you two.
TEEJAY: G'day, g'day.
889
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:06,800
Welcome.
COUPLE: Thank you.
890
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:08,960
First time on the couch.
First time on the couch.
891
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:10,680
I know. It's our first one, innit?
Yeah.
892
00:49:10,720 --> 00:49:13,240
(LAUGHS)
893
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:16,840
We are very interested
in how things are going for you.
894
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:20,240
I mean, we're smooth sailing.
Yeah.
895
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:23,360
We're like two cups of still water.
(LAUGHS)
896
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:26,080
From the wedding,
I think we connected really well
897
00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:27,880
and just bantered off each other
and honestly, we've just been
898
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:29,320
taking the piss out of each other
ever since.
899
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:30,360
Yeah.
900
00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:32,440
Obviously when I saw him
in the aisle, yeah,
901
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,200
like, saw them beautiful eyes
light up, you know...
902
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:36,680
(LAUGHS) Stop it.
Joking.
903
00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:38,240
(LAUGHS)
No, it was just...
904
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:40,600
He knows how to play
to his strengths.
905
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:43,120
(LAUGHTER)
Yeah, no, it was just great.
906
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:47,080
I really wasn't expecting to kind of
click this quickly with someone.
907
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:48,200
Yeah.
908
00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:50,600
And obviously this is
really new to me
909
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:54,200
'cause, obviously, as I've shared,
I've never had a relationship, so...
910
00:49:54,240 --> 00:49:55,280
Never had a boyfie?
911
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,520
Never had a boyfie in my life, yeah,
which I'm...
912
00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:01,920
That does embarrass me a lot.
So I did share that with Teejay.
913
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:04,520
But he said that he's so fine
with me
914
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:07,760
coming to him with my emotions
and he's ready to listen
915
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,280
and he's happy for me to share
how I'm feeling.
916
00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:12,400
So that was really big for me.
917
00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:14,760
She mentioned that
when she gets close to someone,
918
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:17,640
it's easier to just sort of
pull away rather than to open up
919
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:19,520
and be vulnerable,
920
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,120
so being able to gain her trust
921
00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:22,640
in order for her to be vulnerable
with me
922
00:50:22,720 --> 00:50:25,280
is something that I'm sort of
putting a big emphasis on.
923
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:29,960
And you're gonna have plenty of
opportunities for building the trust.
924
00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:32,840
Yeah. I'm really ready
for the experiment.
925
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:38,440
Let's go to the decision.
Beth, we'll start with you.
926
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:40,720
Stay.
Oh, it's a clear stay.
927
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:42,000
Yeah.
Wonderful.
928
00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:44,520
With a smiley face. Thank you.
And to you, Teejay.
929
00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:47,760
Me, I did a big old 'stay' too.
Confident.
930
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:49,200
(APPLAUSE)
Yeah.
931
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:50,720
CONTESTANT: Whoo!
I like it.
932
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:52,920
Well, all the best
for the crash course
933
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:54,320
that's coming up in the next week.
934
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:57,320
(LAUGHS)
All the best with moving in together.
935
00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:58,560
Yes.
Enjoy it.
936
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:00,280
I'm excited.
Open up and go for it.
937
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:01,600
Let's get cracking.
Thank you!
938
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:02,800
Come on, Tush.
Good on you, guys.
939
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:04,040
JOHN: Well done, guys.
Thank you.
940
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:05,520
Thanks, guys.
Great to see you.
941
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:07,000
(LAUGHS)
(APPLAUSE)
942
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:14,240
Our next couple up on the couch,
Jamie and Dave.
943
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:16,360
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
944
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:18,560
DAVE: Hey, guys.
MEL: Well, hello there.
945
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:19,680
ALESSANDRA: Hello.
Hello.
946
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:21,000
JOHN: Greetings.
How you going?
947
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:23,640
MEL: We're going very well.
How are you going?
948
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:25,440
Oh, it just feels unreal, honestly.
949
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:30,440
Like, I'm just... I ride or die
for people I love
950
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:34,080
and the fact that he's just
backed me from the get-go...
951
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:35,760
Mmm.
..like, means the most to me...
952
00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:38,040
'cause that's, like, one of my,
like, biggest values.
953
00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:39,040
Mmm.
954
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,360
So if we just go rewind...
Mmm.
955
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:44,360
..and look at that sentence
that you just shared with us...
956
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:45,600
(LAUGHS)
957
00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:48,240
.."I'm ride or die for people I..."
958
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:49,680
Well, OK...
.."love."
959
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:51,240
Ooooh!
..can I just clarify?
960
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:53,360
I'd like to clarify.
961
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:56,240
Like, in love
is a different thing for me,
962
00:51:56,320 --> 00:52:00,680
but of course, like, 100%, he's
someone that I do have love for.
963
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:01,640
Mm-hm.
Yes.
964
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:02,880
Mm-hm.
965
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:07,640
And is that love for him developing
into falling in love with him?
966
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:11,920
I think we're on a good path.
(LAUGHS)
967
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:13,680
I like it.
968
00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:16,760
And what about you, Dave?
Where are you at feelings-wise?
969
00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:19,280
Yeah, tell us.
(LAUGHTER)
970
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:22,680
Are you in love?
(CLEARS THROAT)
971
00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:23,840
Just...
(LAUGHTER)
972
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,880
No, yeah, well, I care about her
so much...
973
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:27,720
Mmm.
974
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:30,560
..and, yeah, I mean, those feelings
are definitely there.
975
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:32,960
They're, like...
It's such an exciting feeling.
976
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:35,720
Mmm. Brilliant.
977
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:37,880
Well, let's go to the decision,
shall we?
978
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:39,480
OK. Who do you want?
979
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:41,440
I think we're gonna start with you,
Jamie.
980
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:44,320
Alright. I have chosen to stay.
981
00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:46,960
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
982
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:48,920
And big Dave.
983
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:51,120
I'm staying.
Oh!
984
00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:54,240
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
JOHN: Well done, team.
985
00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:56,160
You can go back to the group.
986
00:52:56,240 --> 00:52:57,440
MEL: Good on you, guys.
Well done.
987
00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:59,360
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
Thank you.
988
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:09,640
Our next couple up on the couch,
Carina and Paul.
989
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:12,160
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
990
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:16,520
Hello.
Hi. Hi.
991
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:18,200
Hello.
Where do you want to sit?
992
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:20,480
Up to you.
(LAUGHTER)
993
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:27,480
Sit down.
(COUPLE LAUGH)
994
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:30,080
So, Carina and Paul.
995
00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:31,920
How are you, Carina?
Let's start with you.
996
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:34,840
Where are you at?
I'm doing good.
997
00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:37,640
I feel content in the relationship.
998
00:53:37,720 --> 00:53:43,840
I feel like we've had a good ride
and it's still continuing that ride.
999
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:46,360
And, yeah, really, we're blossoming.
1000
00:53:48,240 --> 00:53:49,920
PAUL: It just flows.
I just feel comfortable.
1001
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:51,600
I just feel at ease.
1002
00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:53,920
I feel at peace when I'm around her,
you know.
1003
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:57,840
We're talking about life goals
and just talking about the future.
1004
00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:01,960
So I've been enjoying
every single...every second of it.
1005
00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:04,360
It's been amazing.
1006
00:54:07,240 --> 00:54:09,880
(LAUGHTER)
MAN: Aw.
1007
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:11,360
ALESSANDRA: Let's go
to the decision, you guys.
1008
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:13,400
We're gonna go to Carina.
1009
00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:15,200
Me? OK.
1010
00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:18,640
Stay.
JOHN: Good to see.
1011
00:54:18,720 --> 00:54:21,200
Yeah.
(CARINA AND PAUL LAUGH)
1012
00:54:21,240 --> 00:54:23,000
Mr Paul.
1013
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:27,320
Well, I'm also, for the third time,
staying.
1014
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:30,600
(LAUGHS)
Very well. Stay, stay, stay.
1015
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:36,400
MAN: Hey!
Oh, you guys.
1016
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,800
MEL: Our next couple
up on the couch...
1017
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:45,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1018
00:54:45,720 --> 00:54:47,080
..Morena and Tony.
1019
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:50,560
(APPLAUSE)
1020
00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:53,360
Hello, you two.
TONY: We'll get smiles happening.
1021
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:55,960
So much enthusiasm. We love it.
(LAUGHS)
1022
00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:57,600
Hi, guys. How are you?
JOHN: Good.
1023
00:54:57,640 --> 00:54:59,160
MEL: We're very well.
1024
00:54:59,240 --> 00:55:02,720
And I've gotta say, we enjoyed
your matching outfits last night.
1025
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:04,200
(LAUGHS)
1026
00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:06,880
The flowers, the matching suit...
We blossomed.
1027
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:08,240
It was extravagant.
1028
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:10,280
And you talked about
the blossoming,
1029
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:13,760
which makes us very curious about
what's been going on between you.
1030
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:18,240
Well, we listened to your advice
1031
00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:23,320
and we...you know, 1% a day
and I sort of stopped Houdini-ing
1032
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,680
and decided to spend some more time
with Morena
1033
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:29,280
and, you know, do some dates
and stuff like that.
1034
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:33,080
So, our first date was
we went to dinner.
1035
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:36,360
And I'm sure you've all heard of
Tina Turner.
1036
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:41,960
Meet Morena Turner.
1037
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:44,120
(LAUGHTER)
Mate, I've never...
1038
00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:46,840
I walk into a restaurant
and this lady's singing.
1039
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:50,280
It's, like, "What are you doing?"
But that's Morena.
1040
00:55:50,360 --> 00:55:52,640
You sang?
That's who I am.
1041
00:55:52,720 --> 00:55:55,720
Mmm.
It was so beautiful.
1042
00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:58,600
(BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS)
1043
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:02,120
And then the next day
we had a game of bowls.
1044
00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:04,520
I let her win.
(LAUGHTER)
1045
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:08,440
Well, it sounds like you've been
having a lot of fun together,
1046
00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:11,600
that you've dropped
some of the seriousness,
1047
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:12,800
perhaps the overthinking
1048
00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:15,520
and just started getting playful
and curious with each other,
1049
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:17,000
which is wonderful.
1050
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:19,360
Yeah. We've had a good time.
1051
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:21,880
All in all,
listening to your advice,
1052
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:23,840
it's kind of, you know, been good.
1053
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:26,080
I hope it has. On my side it has.
1054
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:27,960
Now, hopefully the same thing
for Morena.
1055
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:33,960
MORENA: It's...
1056
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:38,720
It's really lovely to hear that.
1057
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:42,840
But I don't feel it.
1058
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:46,400
(TENSE MUSIC)
1059
00:56:56,640 --> 00:56:59,440
So, we've had a good time.
1060
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:03,480
Really nice to hear that.
But I don't feel it.
1061
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:06,520
(TENSE MUSIC)
1062
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,240
OK. What would it take to feel that?
1063
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:16,840
I just want him to be a gentleman.
1064
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:23,120
But I've asked him, "Do not
fist-pump me" and he still does it.
1065
00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:26,160
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1066
00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:30,880
I've ask him, "Stop headlocking me"
and he still does it.
1067
00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:33,400
And he'll grab her and go, "Kkhhh!"
on the head, you know. (LAUGHS)
1068
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:40,760
Now, I'm sorry,
I'm so sorry that I'm not fun.
1069
00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:44,520
And I'm so glad you're all laughing.
(LAUGHTER)
1070
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:49,240
You've never, ever stopped me
from doing that.
1071
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:51,720
It's just my fun thing
I do with you.
1072
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:53,920
That's how I show sometimes
my affection
1073
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:55,640
and my touch and things like that.
1074
00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:58,720
A headlock is affection?
(LAUGHTER)
1075
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:02,600
(TENSE MUSIC)
1076
00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:06,840
Morena, sorry, can I just ask,
what does... What, like...
1077
00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:10,360
I feel like it's just a jovial
little thing, you know I mean?
1078
00:58:10,400 --> 00:58:11,480
BETH: Playful.
1079
00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:13,640
RHI: Jeff and I have a hand...
1080
00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:17,000
Like, we fist-pump all the time
and have a handshake.
1081
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:23,920
I actually can't believe you guys
are asking me that.
1082
00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:28,200
But how would you like me
to compliment you?
1083
00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:30,000
How would you like me
to show you?
1084
00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:34,080
How do you want to feel?
Just be a gentleman!
1085
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:38,200
Stop headlocking me,
stop fist-pumping me...
1086
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:41,480
Alright, I'll stop. I will stop.
I will stop. I will stop.
1087
00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:46,040
I'm sorry.
1088
00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:49,000
We had a good week this week.
We changed, you know.
1089
00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:50,520
We took it step by step.
1090
00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:52,640
But I think it's time to step it up
a little bit
1091
00:58:52,680 --> 00:58:54,480
and get to that stage, so...
1092
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:56,920
MEL: Aw!
(CHEERING)
1093
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:58,800
(WOMAN LAUGHS)
1094
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:00,800
I can't head...
It's not a headlock.
1095
00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:02,080
It's a hug.
A hug.
1096
00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:05,920
Oh, not a headlock. No, no.
It's a headlock-free zone.
1097
00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:08,200
No, that was actually a hug.
It was.
1098
00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:10,520
And you know what, I actually think
that's... I think...
1099
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:13,360
No headlock.
Oh, that's beautiful.
1100
00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:14,920
Literally...
1101
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:19,960
It's very clear that the two of you
are starting to develop
1102
00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:21,480
a good foundation of friendship here.
1103
00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:27,880
But there needs to be progress.
And there is hope.
1104
00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:31,560
We can see it in the two of you, in
your faces, in your body language,
1105
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:34,360
worlds apart from where you were at
last week.
1106
00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:39,000
So, let's just try and focus on
the good stuff that's here
1107
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:41,360
and have those conversations
with each other
1108
00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:44,480
about what you are comfortable with
and not comfortable with.
1109
00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:47,480
That's really positive, healthy stuff
in relationships.
1110
00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:51,000
We're going to go to the decision.
1111
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:53,280
Morena, we'll start with you, please.
1112
00:59:57,720 --> 00:59:58,720
Stay.
1113
00:59:58,760 --> 01:00:02,600
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
1114
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:05,080
And, Tony, your decision, please?
1115
01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:06,440
Oh.
1116
01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:09,080
(LAUGHS)
1117
01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:10,680
(CHEERING AND APPLAUSE)
1118
01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:12,360
Thank you, both.
1119
01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:13,840
ALESSANDRA: Have a great week.
1120
01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:20,840
WOMAN: Good job, babe.
MAN: Well done, guys.
1121
01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:24,640
Good job.
Well done, guys.
1122
01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:29,640
Our last couple up on the couch,
Adrian and Awhina.
1123
01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:32,360
(APPLAUSE)
(TENSE MUSIC)
1124
01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:33,600
MEL: Hello.
JOHN: Come and grab a seat.
1125
01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:35,320
ADRIAN: Hello.
1126
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:38,920
Literally.
1127
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:45,200
Awhina, where do you want to start?
1128
01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:53,800
Let's get it all out on the table.
Why did Adrian leave on Friday?
1129
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:59,480
So, Adrian wasn't included
in one of the promo shoots.
1130
01:01:02,720 --> 01:01:04,560
And I've gone back
to an empty apartment
1131
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:07,000
and his ring was left
on the counter...
1132
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:12,480
and then I've texted him,
"Where are you?"
1133
01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:15,760
And I got back...
"I left. I've gone home.
1134
01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:17,080
"Can you pack my bag?"
1135
01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:20,120
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1136
01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:25,600
So, Awhina, just so I understand,
Adrian left
1137
01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:29,840
because he wasn't going to be a part
of the promo for the show?
1138
01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:33,480
No, I left
because I was frustrated.
1139
01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:40,360
Adrian, I've got it on good authority
that you gave an ultimatum.
1140
01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:45,160
"Either put me in the promo
or I'll leave."
1141
01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:48,680
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1142
01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:00,760
JOHN: Just so I understand,
Adrian left
1143
01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:04,000
because he wasn't going to be
a part of the promo.
1144
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:06,800
No, I left
because I was frustrated.
1145
01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:11,600
Adrian, I've got it on good authority
that you gave an ultimatum.
1146
01:02:15,480 --> 01:02:17,800
"Either put me in the promo
or I'll leave."
1147
01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:25,440
I did.
1148
01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:31,880
Was that any reason to hold
the production or Awhina to ransom?
1149
01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:35,320
I didn't hold to ransom.
Ransom's not the right word.
1150
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:39,880
Um...
Well, I think it is.
1151
01:02:39,960 --> 01:02:42,720
I mean, you gave an ultimatum.
Yeah.
1152
01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:46,000
I was frustrated. I was upset.
And I had every right to be.
1153
01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:49,680
Why?
Because I felt disrespected.
1154
01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:52,680
I'm, like, "No, (BLEEP) this.
This is, like... This is not fair."
1155
01:02:52,760 --> 01:02:56,400
You know, I reacted in emotions,
you know.
1156
01:02:56,480 --> 01:03:00,080
I'm a man. I make mistakes.
I'm upset.
1157
01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:06,160
And what about Awhina?
Pardon?
1158
01:03:06,240 --> 01:03:07,200
MEL: Yeah.
What about Awhina?
1159
01:03:07,240 --> 01:03:08,560
Wow.
1160
01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:11,240
You left her. She was devastated.
1161
01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:14,040
No, I said I (BLEEP) up.
But, like, "I (BLEEP) up."
1162
01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:16,600
No, where's your care?
You left her!
1163
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:17,680
Everyone reacts different.
1164
01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:25,960
Yeah, but anyways,
like I said, on that day...
1165
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:27,640
You left me, Adrian.
Yeah.
1166
01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:29,560
You left your ring.
1167
01:03:29,640 --> 01:03:32,080
You told me
you were only coming back
1168
01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:34,040
if you were a part of that promo
1169
01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:36,400
and now you're deflecting once again
what I'm telling you how I felt.
1170
01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:38,400
I'm trying to talk here.
1171
01:03:38,480 --> 01:03:43,160
Like I said, I'm human
and we all make mistakes. Like...
1172
01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:44,760
Adrian, I've got to jump in
1173
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:48,200
because the way in which you are
saying this is a real problem.
1174
01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:50,640
You're not showing empathy.
1175
01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:53,720
You're not giving her a sense
that you understand.
1176
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:57,520
The bottom line is you weren't
involved in the promo and you left.
1177
01:03:57,600 --> 01:03:59,160
You threw the toys out of the cot
and took off.
1178
01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:03,680
You then left her hanging
and didn't contact her.
1179
01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:06,440
You went to dinner with Sierah
and she didn't know about it.
1180
01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:10,000
You then came into
the dinner party all fired up
1181
01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:11,200
and got defensive
1182
01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:14,320
and essentially tried to go at anyone
that came at you.
1183
01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:16,640
And you're certainly getting
defensive now.
1184
01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:18,320
So, what I'm feeding back to you,
Adrian,
1185
01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:22,400
is that you're not good
at saying sorry.
1186
01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:24,640
And that's a problem,
1187
01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:29,600
because when things hurt your
feelings, you get on attack mode.
1188
01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:31,920
Your fight style is to get aggressive
and to win.
1189
01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:36,600
And I pointed this out to you
before - it's a pattern
1190
01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:38,720
and you've gotta change it up
1191
01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:42,320
because Awhina is not gonna be able
to get close to you.
1192
01:04:42,400 --> 01:04:46,800
It's also contributing to why
she's dancing around
1193
01:04:46,840 --> 01:04:48,360
saying her true feelings
1194
01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:50,600
'cause she's afraid of your reaction,
1195
01:04:50,680 --> 01:04:54,400
which is to get on the defence
and to put her in her place.
1196
01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:57,400
It's destroying your intimacy.
1197
01:04:57,480 --> 01:05:00,480
It's destroying your bond.
Yeah. I'm aware.
1198
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:07,360
Awhina, how did it land for you
1199
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:09,800
when you found out
that Adrian had left?
1200
01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:12,560
What did it do to you?
What impact did it have?
1201
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:18,640
It was kind of just like
really validating
1202
01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:24,080
how I felt for quite some time,
where I felt invisible...
1203
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:31,240
Because I don't feel like
you considered me at all.
1204
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:37,880
The fact is,
it is just a promo video
1205
01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:40,840
and you should be here for me,
1206
01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:45,040
but these actions show me
that I'm not your priority.
1207
01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:49,720
Yeah, like...
Yeah, I just messed up.
1208
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:53,040
I've done that in my past.
1209
01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:55,160
I just go in this mode, like,
I self-sabotage
1210
01:05:55,240 --> 01:05:57,960
and I don't give a shit about
anything or anyone.
1211
01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:01,280
I was heated
and I reacted on emotion.
1212
01:06:01,360 --> 01:06:03,560
Us men can react heavily
on emotions
1213
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:05,360
and we're not good with emotions.
1214
01:06:05,440 --> 01:06:07,880
Then we make dumb decisions
and that's what I done.
1215
01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:09,720
I would like to jump in.
1216
01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:12,520
Being a man
has nothing to do with it.
1217
01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:14,280
Yeah, yeah, did I say a man?
Yes.
1218
01:06:14,360 --> 01:06:16,400
Any person...
Of course, of course.
1219
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:17,360
..can have difficulty...
Yeah.
1220
01:06:17,440 --> 01:06:18,240
..and all of us...
Mmm.
1221
01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:21,120
..every single human
is an emotional being...
1222
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:21,960
Yeah.
Period.
1223
01:06:22,040 --> 01:06:24,000
That is what defines us
as human beings.
1224
01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:25,960
So, unless you're not human...
Mmm.
1225
01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:27,680
..that capability is in you
1226
01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:30,200
and it has nothing to do with
man and woman.
1227
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:34,120
DAVE: Yeah, I'm not coming for you,
Adrian, at all,
1228
01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:36,640
but, like, wouldn't you love
to learn how to be so open
1229
01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:37,960
with someone like Awhina?
1230
01:06:38,040 --> 01:06:40,000
Like, she's...
Yeah, of course. Of course.
1231
01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:42,040
She'll love you
till the end of the days, mate.
1232
01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:43,560
She's so gorgeous.
Yeah.
1233
01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:48,120
(AWHINA CRIES)
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
1234
01:06:51,480 --> 01:06:53,280
(CRIES)
1235
01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:55,680
DAVE: You've got a good opportunity
1236
01:06:55,760 --> 01:06:58,000
and I really feel like
you need to open up to her, man,
1237
01:06:58,040 --> 01:06:59,640
because she'll show you the way.
1238
01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:01,320
And I agree.
1239
01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:04,080
(AWHINA CRIES)
1240
01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:09,560
'Cause I care for her.
I genuinely do care.
1241
01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:16,320
And I know that I'm doing wrong
and I need to do better.
1242
01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:27,520
So, I guess there's only one way
to prove it.
1243
01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:30,040
OK. You want to go there?
Let's do it.
1244
01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:33,720
You know, I heard everything
Awhina had to say tonight.
1245
01:07:33,800 --> 01:07:37,480
She wasn't being seen
and she was unheard
1246
01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:43,400
and the only way to fix that
was to say 'stay'.
1247
01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:46,360
OK.
(APPLAUSE)
1248
01:07:48,440 --> 01:07:50,800
Awhina, can we have
your decision, please?
1249
01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:53,960
No, we don't need it. Don't worry.
1250
01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:56,760
(TENSE MUSIC)
(CLEARS THROAT)
1251
01:07:58,240 --> 01:07:59,400
Um...
1252
01:07:59,480 --> 01:08:04,280
You know, like, confessions week
we all had to write letters?
1253
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:08,040
Adrian didn't write one line.
He didn't do it.
1254
01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:12,400
Anyways, I went through my drawer
today and I've read through it.
1255
01:08:12,440 --> 01:08:14,800
And a big thing in all of this
1256
01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:19,720
was my most significant milestones
as a mum...
1257
01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:25,320
and I think at the end of it,
I wrote
1258
01:08:25,400 --> 01:08:28,200
how "being a mum,
you have to put your child first.
1259
01:08:28,280 --> 01:08:32,160
"And now, here I am, being selfish,
missing out on real milestones
1260
01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:35,080
"in the pursuit of love.
1261
01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:37,760
"I guess time will tell if I made
the right decision or not.
1262
01:08:41,120 --> 01:08:46,720
"And coming on this experiment,
how I felt today didn't work...
1263
01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:49,480
"in a away, from those
very real milestones."
1264
01:08:49,520 --> 01:08:51,600
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
1265
01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:07,120
So, yeah, I'm...
1266
01:09:07,200 --> 01:09:12,440
Yeah, I wrote...
I wrote 'sorry, leave'.
1267
01:09:12,480 --> 01:09:15,480
(SOLEMN MUSIC)
1268
01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:31,040
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1269
01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:38,320
So, yeah, I wrote...
I wrote 'sorry, leave'.
1270
01:09:44,720 --> 01:09:48,600
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)
1271
01:10:02,080 --> 01:10:04,320
JOHN: So, as we know,
with the rules of this experiment,
1272
01:10:04,400 --> 01:10:06,560
if one person to stay,
the other says leave,
1273
01:10:06,640 --> 01:10:10,040
then they stay for another week
to see if they can turn it around.
1274
01:10:12,840 --> 01:10:17,080
Now, Awhina, do you hear Adrian
saying he wants to improve?
1275
01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:21,720
I heard him say it.
1276
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:23,000
Do you believe it?
1277
01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:27,400
I feel like...
1278
01:10:30,640 --> 01:10:34,800
Tonight was definitely, like,
1279
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:38,040
a big whack-in-the-face moment
for Adrian...
1280
01:10:39,520 --> 01:10:42,440
and he probably does truly believe
1281
01:10:42,520 --> 01:10:44,800
that he wants to start showing up
for me.
1282
01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:50,880
But I'm not sure he's able to.
Yeah.
1283
01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:58,960
So, it's out on the table.
The challenge is there.
1284
01:10:59,040 --> 01:11:03,440
It's on your shoulders to really do
some big-time lifting.
1285
01:11:03,480 --> 01:11:04,840
Yeah.
1286
01:11:04,920 --> 01:11:07,320
You know, learning a lot about
myself and taking it on board
1287
01:11:07,360 --> 01:11:09,760
and listening to it and hearing her.
1288
01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:12,920
And I'm well aware she's taking time
from her son...
1289
01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:15,280
Yeah.
..so it's, like, need to show up.
1290
01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:20,080
I think you've got it in you, but...
1291
01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:24,560
we can only see from what you do
on a day-to-day basis.
1292
01:11:24,600 --> 01:11:25,760
Yeah.
1293
01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:27,560
You've got seven days
to turn it around
1294
01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:29,800
and let's see some big change.
1295
01:11:29,880 --> 01:11:31,920
Go back to the group now.
Thank you, guys.
1296
01:11:32,000 --> 01:11:33,120
(APPLAUSE)
MEL: Well done, guys.
1297
01:11:40,440 --> 01:11:42,000
(KISSES)
1298
01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:49,400
Yeah, it's a tough one.
Like, I wasn't expecting that.
1299
01:11:49,440 --> 01:11:51,080
I'm actually quite shocked.
1300
01:11:53,960 --> 01:11:58,200
But I took accountability
and I hope Awhina heard me.
1301
01:11:58,280 --> 01:12:02,560
Well, so we're rooting for you now.
I appreciate it.
1302
01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:06,200
You know, I know I can show up,
1303
01:12:06,280 --> 01:12:10,000
so I am positive
that we can work things out...
1304
01:12:11,680 --> 01:12:13,560
and get back to where we were.
1305
01:12:15,800 --> 01:12:18,120
NARRATOR: Tomorrow night...
CLINT: Wow. Here we go.
1306
01:12:18,200 --> 01:12:21,000
..our three newest couples
move into the apartments.
1307
01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:24,840
Oh, how cute is that!
Oh, my god! Look!
1308
01:12:24,920 --> 01:12:28,040
..as they get a crash course
in married life.
1309
01:12:28,120 --> 01:12:31,040
Well, obviously
this dirty, stinky rat goes there.
1310
01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:33,720
I just kind of want to hear, like,
your side.
1311
01:12:33,760 --> 01:12:35,160
I feel so sorry for you.
1312
01:12:35,240 --> 01:12:37,680
Eliot's about as shallow
as a pond in a desert.
1313
01:12:37,760 --> 01:12:41,440
But is Lauren poisoning Veronica
and Eliot's well?
1314
01:12:41,480 --> 01:12:43,160
Eliot is a narcissist.
1315
01:12:43,240 --> 01:12:46,240
It is really disheartening to hear
that insight into Eliot.
1316
01:12:46,280 --> 01:12:48,000
Run.
1317
01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:52,520
And then, the next phase
of the experiment begins.
1318
01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:53,880
Where are our guests?
1319
01:12:53,920 --> 01:12:56,200
(SCREAMING AND LAUGHTER)
1320
01:12:56,240 --> 01:12:57,800
Over two big nights...
1321
01:12:57,840 --> 01:12:59,200
Hi, guys.
1322
01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:02,320
..family and friends week returns.
1323
01:13:02,400 --> 01:13:04,440
You guys are happy?
We are, we are.
1324
01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:07,440
Our couples get
much-needed perspective...
1325
01:13:07,520 --> 01:13:09,000
You've gotta have
each other's back.
1326
01:13:09,040 --> 01:13:11,240
..from their partners' loved ones.
1327
01:13:11,280 --> 01:13:12,680
This is gaslighting.
1328
01:13:12,720 --> 01:13:15,480
That's your interpretation of it,
1329
01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:17,240
but that doesn't mean
that it's true.
1330
01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:20,000
But for Awhina and Adrian...
1331
01:13:20,080 --> 01:13:22,800
You are focusing a lot
on the negative because...
1332
01:13:22,880 --> 01:13:24,960
He hasn't even shown up,
so let's just stop it there.
1333
01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:26,960
I was talking.
I don't care.
1334
01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:29,120
..when their families
come together...
1335
01:13:29,160 --> 01:13:30,760
How dare you!
1336
01:13:30,800 --> 01:13:32,640
..all hell breaks loose.
1337
01:13:32,720 --> 01:13:35,000
I actually...
I don't need to listen to this.
1338
01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:36,920
Goodbye.
Pointless conversation.
1339
01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:38,200
I'm done.
1340
01:13:42,280 --> 01:13:45,240
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