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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:02,560 Wow. 2 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:04,040 ELIOT: She looked breathtaking. 3 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:05,640 NARRATOR: Previously, 4 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:09,280 Lauren and Eliot were married at first sight. 5 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:11,720 ELIOT: I wanted someone that was younger than me, 6 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:14,680 someone that's right into exercise like me. 7 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:17,720 But Eliot left his wife after three days 8 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:19,800 and exited the experiment. 9 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:21,760 LAUREN: A grown man throwing a tantrum 10 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:23,760 because he didn't get exactly what he wanted. 11 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:28,480 The experts decided to give them both a second chance at love. 12 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:31,040 ELIOT: Oh, my god. Veronica, she's beautiful. 13 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,720 LAUREN: I think Clint's way better than I was expecting. 14 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:36,760 And the final couple to enter this year's experiment, 15 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:40,280 Beth and Teejay formed an instant connection. 16 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:43,200 BETH: He's everything that I have asked the experts for, 17 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:44,680 so I could not be any happier. 18 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:46,800 But their special day was overshadowed 19 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:49,760 by Jacqui and Ryan's relationship. 20 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:52,720 She'd written a rap sheet of every single grudge that had happened 21 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:53,840 since the wedding day. 22 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:57,680 Jeff got a text message from Jacqui asking to catch up without me there. 23 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:59,880 (SPEAKS INDISTINCTLY, CRIES) RYAN: No... 24 00:00:59,960 --> 00:01:02,480 Jacqui... Jacqui, stop. It's not your wedding. 25 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:05,920 Adrian called it quits. 26 00:01:05,960 --> 00:01:07,040 I'm asking you to come back. 27 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:14,120 And after his shock return... 28 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:15,960 Why were you out for dinner with Sierah Saturday night? 29 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:20,680 ..it was revealed that he and Sierah went out for a secret dinner 30 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:23,040 behind their partners' backs. 31 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:24,400 WOMAN: Why did you guys catch up? 32 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:26,200 Like, why were you not with your wife? 33 00:01:26,280 --> 00:01:27,800 I did ask her to come out. No, you didn't. 34 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:31,000 And Lauren and Eliot went head to head. 35 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:32,000 That didn't happen. 36 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,680 You had about five margaritas, so you might not remember. 37 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:36,760 WOMAN: Oh, my god. MAN: No. 38 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:39,560 Tonight... 39 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:42,520 We've been intimate. Oh! 40 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:44,560 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) ..love is in the air... 41 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:46,920 I'm, like... I'm just... I ride or die for people I love. 42 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,360 He's someone that I do have love for. 43 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:51,840 PAUL: It's been amazing. ALESSANDRA: Oh, you guys! 44 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:57,160 But not for all, as the experts ask the hard questions. 45 00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:00,600 Going to dinner with Adrian and breaking Billy's trust, 46 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:02,240 is that something you regret? 47 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:03,800 Um... 48 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:08,800 Will Eliot apologise to Lauren for his behaviour? 49 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,800 You had a chance to say, "You know what, I regret that. I'm sorry." 50 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:12,880 Eliot, what do you say to this? 51 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:16,160 And then... 52 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:18,360 Adrian, I've got it on good authority 53 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:19,800 that you gave an ultimatum - 54 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,400 either put me in the promo or I'll leave. 55 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:25,080 ..Adrian is held to account for his actions. 56 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:26,680 You threw the toys out of the cot. 57 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:28,720 You left her. Everyone reacts different. 58 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:33,440 But it's Awhina who leaves the room speechless. 59 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:35,000 MAN: Oh, my god. 60 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:44,120 (BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS) 61 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:56,240 The countdown is on to the third commitment ceremony. 62 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,000 It's good vibes. It's good vibes. 63 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:02,240 Commitment ceremony day. 64 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:04,920 I quite like you with the shaved 'fotch'. 65 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:06,000 Baby face. 66 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:09,720 And after last night's explosive dinner party, 67 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,400 many are eager to see the experts. 68 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:14,880 I hope tonight's commitment ceremony is not gonna be as... 69 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:16,720 (EXHALES) not gonna be as hectic as last night. 70 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:18,040 Mmm. 71 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:20,200 So much to unpack. 72 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:22,640 I definitely think there's gonna be a few surprises. 73 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:24,720 JEFF: Jacqui and Ryan will both write 'stay'. 74 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:26,320 RHI: They always do the opposite to what... 75 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:28,080 Yep. ..what we think they should do. 76 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:33,800 And across the hall, it's wedded bliss for Jacqui and Ryan... 77 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:35,080 I want to do something fun. Are you ready? 78 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:35,920 What? Alright? 79 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:37,360 We're gonna do our own little thing. 80 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:39,720 ..as he has decided to take her list of grievances on board 81 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:42,800 and make it up to her for his wedding dance faux pas. 82 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:46,600 You haven't really taken any personal accountability. 83 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:50,320 Like, when you dropped me, I did hit my head. 84 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:51,880 I'm gonna dip you. Are you ready? OK. 85 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:52,920 Wait, wait. Left. 86 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:54,360 You're gonna have to catch me, though. 87 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:56,880 (SHRIEKS) (THUD) 88 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,560 (OTHERS EXCLAIM) 89 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:01,680 I'm so sorry. 90 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:03,360 Ready? We'll do a dip. We'll do a dip. Ready? 91 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,040 OK. Ready? Mm-hm. 92 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:06,880 (LAUGHS) Ready? 93 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:09,480 Oh, that way? No, not at the table. 94 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:11,440 It's too dangerous. Oh, you're ready? 95 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,280 Are you ready? Yeah. Ready. (LAUGHS) 96 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:17,360 That was fun. That's it. Redemption. 97 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:18,680 Redemption. (LAUGHS) 98 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:20,880 Now you've got 99 times to go. Actually, 90... 99 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:22,200 99. 99. 100 00:04:22,280 --> 00:04:25,160 Who's counting? 95. I'm counting. 101 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:28,960 Morena and Tony are also in high spirits this morning 102 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:33,960 after taking the experts' advice last week to hit the reset button. 103 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,560 You look nice. Thank you. You look lovely as well. 104 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:38,000 (LAUGHS) Mmm. 105 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:40,480 Really looking forward to tonight, actually. 106 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:42,760 Me and Morena are in a good place at the moment. 107 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:44,960 We've blossomed this week. 108 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:48,360 (CONTESTANTS EXCLAIM) MAN: Jesus! The ethnics! 109 00:04:48,440 --> 00:04:51,120 Look at that! Smell the roses, baby! 110 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:52,360 We're back! 111 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:55,680 And the budding romance between the two 112 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:57,480 was obvious at the dinner party. 113 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:00,560 (LAUGHS) 114 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:11,360 You know, I've put my 50% and more in. 115 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:15,480 We've been having fun and spending time together. 116 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:21,160 She's happy, she's a bit more relaxed, so, yeah, it's been nice. 117 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:22,640 We're going smoothly at the moment, I think. 118 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:25,640 I'm looking forward to seeing what the experts... 119 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:28,000 It'll be interesting to hear what they say this time around 120 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:30,000 when we speak. 121 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:33,600 But as most of our couples look forward to tonight, 122 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:37,320 it's a different story for Awhina and Adrian, 123 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:39,600 who have moved into separate apartments 124 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:43,280 after they failed to come to a resolution last night. 125 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:46,480 And in his solitude, Adrian has been reeling 126 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:50,400 over the way he was received by the group and his wife. 127 00:05:57,440 --> 00:05:59,800 You heard one side and you all come at me 128 00:05:59,880 --> 00:06:01,400 and I was trying to speak and get a word in, 129 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:03,040 but it didn't matter what I said. 130 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:05,200 It was always gonna be wrong according to everyone. 131 00:06:05,280 --> 00:06:07,760 Me and Tony were going out to dinner as well as Sierah. 132 00:06:07,840 --> 00:06:10,200 On that night, Sierah, she looked upset. 133 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:11,680 I was just trying to help. 134 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:13,040 TONY: All there was was a friendship. 135 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:18,600 Why were you not with your wife? Your wife is your priority. 136 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:21,280 AWHINA: I was sad too, but. 137 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:24,120 ADRIAN: I know, Awhina, she's hurt. 138 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:27,040 But again, this is a two-way relationship. 139 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:29,600 I'm getting used to this now. 140 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:33,040 There's things that I'm upset about. 141 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:36,720 Everyone's there on the promo but me. 142 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:38,360 And then she saying "You left. It was wrong." 143 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:40,360 No, it was right. It was right. 144 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:43,640 Being excluded made me feel like I wasn't good enough. 145 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:45,080 And not once has she checked in, like, 146 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:47,000 "Adrian, hope you're feeling better." 147 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:49,760 It's been about just her, how she feels. 148 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:53,400 I think she owes me an apology, 149 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:55,600 so, yeah, I'm gonna try and talk to her, for sure. 150 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:57,760 Hopefully she's had a minute to sleep on it, 151 00:06:57,840 --> 00:07:00,440 think about it and, you know, and say sorry. 152 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:13,360 Hey. 153 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:15,160 Didn't know you were gonna answer the door. 154 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:22,720 (TENSE MUSIC) Forgot what our place looks like. 155 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:23,760 Hmm? 156 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:25,400 I said I forgot what our place looks like. 157 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:27,360 It's my place now. Yeah. 158 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:30,160 How are you feeling after last night? 159 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:33,200 (SIGHS) 160 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:37,520 Mm-mm. Get your hand away from me. 161 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:43,240 How do you feel after last night? 162 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:44,760 Um... 163 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:48,320 Yeah, I mean, it was... It was obviously a bit intense. 164 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:51,400 I wasn't happy how that went. 165 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:55,360 I want to ask a question. 166 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:03,960 Do you think... Do you think that in the last two weeks, 167 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:07,560 the way I've acted had nothing to do with how you acted? 168 00:08:07,600 --> 00:08:10,120 My god, Adrian. 169 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:13,840 I have... You honestly... 170 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:19,000 So you have... Do you listen to your question? 171 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:20,040 I'm asking. 172 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:21,360 You're asking me whether or not 173 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:24,080 to validate your behaviour towards me due to my actions? 174 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:26,480 That is not OK, Adrian. I'm saying certain times. 175 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:28,920 Why are you getting defensive? That is not OK. 176 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:30,120 It's so frustrating to me 177 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:33,360 that you are still trying to pin your actions on me. 178 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:35,800 You actually left. 179 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:37,800 Let's be very real here. Yes. 180 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:39,840 And I felt hurt and unseen by you... Oh, also, though... 181 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:41,760 ..like I have done for six weeks... Also, though... 182 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:43,920 ..throughout this environment. You're not in the wrong any time. 183 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:45,240 Adrian... You're not in the wrong any time. 184 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:47,320 OK. Now you're trying to deflect on me again. 185 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:48,680 (SCOFFS) 186 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:57,520 He doesn't actually hold himself accountable for any of his actions. 187 00:08:57,560 --> 00:09:00,920 And I've had enough. 188 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:03,400 The reality is, he should just be here for me. 189 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:05,240 That's what this experiment's about. 190 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:10,400 But he left because he wasn't included in a 30-second promo. 191 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:14,280 Not only that, he went to dinner with Sierah. 192 00:09:14,360 --> 00:09:15,920 I'm giving you a platform again. I'm over it. 193 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:18,880 Deflecting, deflecting, deflecting. 194 00:09:18,960 --> 00:09:20,880 I really didn't know how I was gonna approach 195 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:22,400 the commitment ceremony tonight, 196 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:25,200 but now I've got more clarity. 197 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:27,640 Deflecting, deflecting, deflecting. 198 00:09:31,560 --> 00:09:33,160 Adrian... This is all I'm copping, deflecting. 199 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:34,080 Yeah. 200 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,240 You haven't said one thing that you're doing wrong 201 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:38,080 to why you're understanding how I'm feeling. 202 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:39,480 You're not taking any accountability in there. 203 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:40,560 That's why I'm getting frustrated. 204 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:42,320 I'm taking accountability and I'm sorry... 205 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:43,320 No, you haven't. 206 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:45,640 Your actions right now show that you're not accountable at all. 207 00:09:45,680 --> 00:09:47,080 (SIGHS) OK. 208 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:57,560 (DOOR CLOSES) 209 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:16,440 Down the hall, Billy is also shaken from the events of last night. 210 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:21,960 BILLY: Yeah, mixed emotions this morning. 211 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:27,280 I feel hurt and really, really let down by Sierah. 212 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:29,520 The couple have been living separately 213 00:10:29,560 --> 00:10:31,680 since the last commitment ceremony, 214 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:33,440 where Billy was blindsided 215 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:38,560 after Sierah revealed she had opened up to Adrian about her past. 216 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:42,280 His sense of betrayal only worsened at the dinner party. 217 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:46,280 BILLY: Yeah, Adrian and Sierah caught up for dinner. 218 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:49,440 And Sierah's failure to acknowledge him... 219 00:10:49,480 --> 00:10:51,320 I did the wrong thing by Awhina. 220 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:54,360 I'm really sorry that I wasn't forthcoming with it. 221 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:57,320 ..unsettled Billy even further. 222 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:59,880 BILLY: What about me? 223 00:10:59,960 --> 00:11:03,760 I just kind of wanted Sierah to hold herself accountable 224 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:06,720 for what actually happened and just go, "Look, OK, sorry. 225 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:09,080 "I did go out to dinner with Adrian." 226 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:11,960 She did it to Awhina but she didn't do it to me 227 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:17,840 and surely I should be the first person. 228 00:11:17,880 --> 00:11:20,160 It makes me very, very disappointed 229 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:21,600 because I've dropped everything to be here. 230 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:27,480 (GROANS) (BLEEP). 231 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:38,040 (SIGHS) 232 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:45,600 I've tried putting myself the whole way through this experiment... 233 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:53,240 I've been open, I've been honest but I just feel so lost with Sierah. 234 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:59,680 Like, I...I just feel so confused by her actions. 235 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:01,800 She doesn't want to open up to me 236 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:04,200 and I'm still trying to understand as to why 237 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:07,440 because I've put everything on the table for her. 238 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:10,440 While Billy remains confused, 239 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:15,560 Sierah is still coming to terms with Billy's shocking wife-swap comment. 240 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:20,840 Billy, what about when you called me on Thursday... 241 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:23,560 No, no. ..on Thursday and said you want to do a wife swap. 242 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:26,400 (OTHERS EXCLAIM) 243 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:27,640 MAN: Oh, my god. 244 00:12:27,680 --> 00:12:29,760 I'm open now. I said that. 245 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:31,160 I was fuming with what I've heard. 246 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:37,160 SIERAH: I'm sorry, but I'm not a commodity that you can trade, 247 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:38,720 first of all. 248 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:41,640 Second of all, why would you want a wife swap 249 00:12:41,680 --> 00:12:42,760 if you were so happy? 250 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:46,600 If you actually liked me, you'd want me for yourself. 251 00:12:46,680 --> 00:12:50,840 And now he's clung onto this dinner with Tony and Adrian. 252 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:59,480 Tonight also marks the first commitment ceremony 253 00:12:59,560 --> 00:13:02,560 for the experiment's three new couples. 254 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:05,840 TEEJAY: I'm excited to see how the experts think we're going. 255 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:07,880 BETH: I know. I feel a little bit nervous. 256 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:09,120 You are? Yeah. 257 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:10,840 'Cause you just don't know what they're gonna say. 258 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,080 You can't? 259 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:16,600 Um... 260 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:19,080 It is somewhere. I have seen it. 261 00:13:19,160 --> 00:13:21,320 This is really bad, isn't it? Oh, my god. You've sold it. 262 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:23,520 You've gone to Cheap As Chips... I've got it. Found it. 263 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:25,440 I'm just glad it just means so much to you. 264 00:13:25,520 --> 00:13:27,880 It does. It's the most precious thing in the world. 265 00:13:27,920 --> 00:13:29,720 (LAUGHS) 266 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:33,520 And for Lauren and Clint, 267 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:37,080 the anticipation for tonight is at an all-time high, 268 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:41,240 as Lauren processes her reunion with ex-husband Eliot. 269 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:43,960 If last night's dinner is any indication 270 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:45,760 of how tonight's gonna go, 271 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:47,000 I'm scared. 272 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:49,320 Yeah. It wasn't nice, what happened to you. 273 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:50,800 That's not OK. Mmm. 274 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:52,360 That's not how you treat someone. 275 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:57,840 Last night was the first time exes Lauren and Eliot came face to face 276 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:01,360 after he abandoned her and their marriage on the honeymoon. 277 00:14:01,400 --> 00:14:02,680 (PEOPLE EXCLAIM) 278 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:04,520 WOMAN: Oh, my god! 279 00:14:04,560 --> 00:14:05,480 That's Eliot! 280 00:14:05,560 --> 00:14:08,200 And their reunion was not a happy one. 281 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:11,080 You wanted someone who was 25 and said I wasn't into fitness 282 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:13,200 because I only go to the gym once a week. 283 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:17,040 Also that I liked handbags. What? 284 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:18,080 No. Yes, you did. 285 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:20,680 CLINT: So you deny that? Yes. 286 00:14:20,760 --> 00:14:22,760 I was perfectly consistent from the beginning. I said... 287 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:25,920 Consistently shit. (MOCKINGLY) Bro, consistently shit. 288 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:31,960 Yeah, I think him denying everything that he said was quite funny. 289 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:34,080 I mean, why would you come to this experiment 290 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:36,400 if you weren't willing to learn anything, you know. 291 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:38,640 CLINT: Yeah, well, that's a good question. 292 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:40,680 It was actually just repulsive. 293 00:14:40,760 --> 00:14:43,040 Like, he thinks he's just so perfect and wonderful 294 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:45,520 and doesn't need to take any accountability. 295 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:48,640 To learn, you need to have, like, self-reflection 296 00:14:48,720 --> 00:14:51,880 and I think that's something that he definitely lacks. 297 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:55,520 Yeah, it was... It was just embarrassing, really. 298 00:14:55,560 --> 00:14:57,960 Lauren isn't the only person 299 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:01,360 disappointed by Eliot's behaviour last night. 300 00:15:04,840 --> 00:15:06,160 Yeah. 301 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:08,280 I'm not impressed. 302 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:13,920 Last night, I saw a side to Eliot that I've not seen before. 303 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,640 When Eliot exited the experiment, 304 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:20,560 it highlighted his questionable relationship habits. 305 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:26,160 The person I was matched with was nothing like what I was looking for. 306 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:28,280 I had to get out of there. 307 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:30,320 This is a pattern 308 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:34,360 and it is time to decide what you want to do with it. 309 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:37,480 And this feedback from the experts 310 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:40,000 prompted Eliot to reflect on his behaviour. 311 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:43,480 I want to do better this time. 312 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,160 I'm gonna try to not just tick the boxes. 313 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:47,800 I'm gonna stick around. 314 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:51,240 And after getting a second chance at love, 315 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:53,960 he was blown away by his new bride Veronica. 316 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:56,320 Wow. 317 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:58,320 Hi. Hey. 318 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:03,200 Oh, my god. She's beautiful. (LAUGHS) 319 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:06,240 And despite the fact that one of his non-negotiables 320 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:07,880 is to have a large family... 321 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:10,880 I've actually got endometriosis. Yeah. 322 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:15,680 So there is, like, a 50% chance I probably am infertile. 323 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:16,800 Mmm. 324 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:20,640 ..Eliot stayed true to his word and remained open-minded. 325 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:22,280 It's not a concern for me. 326 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:25,880 I kind of felt for her there, you know, in that moment. 327 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:27,840 The lack of accountability 328 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:29,800 and the way that he was responding to everybody last night 329 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:32,520 is probably my biggest red flag at the moment. 330 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:35,160 But I really want to believe 331 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:39,320 that the Eliot that I've seen over the last five days is really Eliot. 332 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:41,400 So, in the commitment ceremony tonight, 333 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:44,400 I really just need him to be completely open and honest 334 00:16:44,480 --> 00:16:49,320 about the way that he handled the situation. 335 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:52,960 He needs to take accountability of his behaviour 336 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:54,760 if he wants this to work. 337 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:07,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 338 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:14,200 Hello there again. 339 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:16,280 JOHN: Greetings, gents. Come on in. 340 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:17,320 Hi, John. Hi, Mel. 341 00:17:17,360 --> 00:17:18,240 ALESSANDRA: Welcome. 342 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:19,720 MEL: Hello, hello. 343 00:17:19,760 --> 00:17:23,160 (DRAMATIC MUSIC CONTINUES) 344 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:38,480 Hello, ladies. Hi. Welcome. 345 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:39,560 Come on in. Take a seat. 346 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:43,160 (DRAMATIC MUSIC CONTINUES) 347 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:56,360 Welcome, everybody, to the third commitment ceremony. 348 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,960 Now, before we kick off, 349 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:04,120 we would like to welcome our three new couples into the experiment - 350 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:07,920 Teejay and Beth, Lauren and Clint 351 00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:11,920 and Veronica and Eliot. 352 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:19,080 Now, I'm sure, for all of you, last night was an eye-opener. 353 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:26,200 Dinner parties can get explosive. This was one for the ages. 354 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:31,880 There are certain things that have deeply concerned us 355 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:35,640 and this we will be shining a light upon. 356 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:38,760 There's no hiding tonight. 357 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:45,320 Be completely prepared to lay everything out on the table, 358 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:50,400 because for some of you, you're in deep crisis and you need help. 359 00:18:54,120 --> 00:18:56,320 Our first couple up on the couch... 360 00:18:58,840 --> 00:19:00,120 Eliot and Veronica. 361 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:03,520 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 362 00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:06,920 (LAUGHS) 363 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:08,920 LAUREN: It's time to face the music. 364 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:11,320 I look forward to seeing the experts 365 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:13,640 finally call him out on his bullshit. 366 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:17,320 JOHN: Greetings, you two. Eliot, we meet again. 367 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:21,120 And there's no running for the hills this time. 368 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:31,080 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 369 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:35,320 Eliot, we meet again. How we doing? 370 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:40,240 We're doing well. And greetings to you, Veronica. 371 00:19:40,320 --> 00:19:41,960 Hi. MEL: Welcome. 372 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:45,200 Here we go. 373 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:49,480 JOHN: It was a bit of a baptism of fire, wasn't it, 374 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:50,920 last night, at the dinner party. 375 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:52,000 Yes. Yeah. 376 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,240 To say the least. To say the least. Definitely. 377 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,640 Tell me about what it was like for you. 378 00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:59,480 Veronica, why don't you kick it off? 379 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:03,440 Yeah, it was very confronting. Mmm. 380 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:06,560 What was so confronting about it for you? 381 00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:14,960 Well... Well, we had a great honeymoon. 382 00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:17,120 We had... We had a lot of fun. 383 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,640 But, yeah, I mean, obviously, hearing Lauren's side of the story, 384 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:25,720 what she went through, is not a side of Eliot that I've ever seen. 385 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:31,560 And then, I guess, the way that he was kind of responding to everybody 386 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:33,040 was disappointing. 387 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:38,920 Lauren was very clearly upset and hurt by what had happened 388 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:44,680 and, like, I just didn't really feel like Eliot was empathetic 389 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:46,560 or open to it. 390 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:50,520 There was a lot of rebuttal, 391 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:54,080 a lot of, you know, kind of mocking at one point. 392 00:20:54,160 --> 00:20:57,400 There was, like... He was kind of putting Lauren down, 393 00:20:57,480 --> 00:21:00,640 at another point, like, shaming her for having a few drinks, 394 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:03,160 saying to her that it wasn't possible 395 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:06,840 that she could recount events because she had five margaritas. 396 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:12,360 Yeah. 397 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:14,280 Just the general way that he handled himself 398 00:21:14,360 --> 00:21:15,440 didn't really sit well with me... Mmm. 399 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:16,440 ..at all. 400 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:21,680 I mean, there's no doubt that you copped a lot of heat last night. 401 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,840 But in saying that, you know, 402 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:28,120 you had a chance to say, "You know what, I regret that. 403 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:31,080 "I could do that better. I'm sorry." 404 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,920 And unfortunately you doubled down on it. 405 00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:39,800 So, Eliot, what do you say to this? 406 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:43,800 I'll take ownership of that. 407 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:53,760 I guess my kind of defences went up a little bit 408 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:56,760 when the fire turned towards me 409 00:21:56,800 --> 00:22:00,320 and I 100% think that that's wrong. 410 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:05,760 Like, you know, I should be able to sit there and, you know... 411 00:22:07,360 --> 00:22:09,160 say I'm sorry 412 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:15,960 because I 100% have regrets about how I handled the whole situation. 413 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:19,560 What specific regrets have you got for Lauren? 414 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:23,520 Well, number one, the manner in which I left. 415 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:26,160 I think that's quite clearly a mistake. 416 00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:32,040 When I did that, it was a bit of a panic decision. 417 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:37,240 I didn't feel any kind of connection 418 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:41,760 and then I was trying to clumsily rationalise it with checkboxes... 419 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,400 and I was wrong. 420 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,560 Lauren, 421 00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:53,760 I didn't fully consider your feelings in that process 422 00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:56,000 and I made a mistake. 423 00:22:57,440 --> 00:22:59,800 It might not ever be something that you'll forgive... 424 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:03,480 but I'm sorry nonetheless. 425 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:06,320 Like, I mean that sincerely. 426 00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:09,520 LAUREN: Thanks. 427 00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,560 (BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS) 428 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:16,480 Mmm. 429 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,440 VERONICA: Good job! 430 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:21,760 Why does that mean so much to you, Veronica? 431 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,880 Because it's an acknowledgement. Like, "I'm sorry." 432 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:28,160 And what's the problem when someone can't do that? 433 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:30,280 You'll just never move forward. 434 00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:37,000 Eliot, I'm curious. Where is that checklist for you now? 435 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:41,960 In the bin. 436 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:45,520 (BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS) 437 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,320 Obviously people can have preferences 438 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:53,200 but being so rigid in them I don't think is productive. 439 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:54,800 Wow. 440 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,280 So this is a different guy... MEL: Mmm. 441 00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:58,680 ..that I'm speaking to right now. 442 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:06,640 What has brought about this change? When did this happen? 443 00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:12,680 Probably the biggest thing is, you know, 444 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:17,000 I've got someone by my side kind of talking sense into me. 445 00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:18,440 Mmm. 446 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:21,680 So, do you really like Veronica, Eliot? 447 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:24,360 Yeah. 448 00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:27,680 Mmm. Yeah, I think it's pretty obvious. 449 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:32,760 (LAUGHS) (OTHERS LAUGH) 450 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:35,960 You know, one thing that is very important for you to realise 451 00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:37,880 is that this wasn't an easy decision... 452 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:39,040 No. 453 00:24:39,120 --> 00:24:41,280 ..you know, bringing you back into this experiment. 454 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:44,080 But we felt like you, 455 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:47,120 among all the people that we've seen over the years, 456 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,800 could absolutely benefit... Mmm. 457 00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:53,960 ..and we are all very pleased 458 00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,960 to see you apologise to Lauren. 459 00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:59,760 I didn't know whether you had it in you. 460 00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:02,920 But tonight... MEL: Mmm. 461 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:04,960 ..we like what we see. 462 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:10,600 Alright, well, we're gonna go to the decision now. 463 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:12,920 We'll go with you first, Eliot. 464 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:17,400 Alright, so... (LAUGHS) I will be staying. 465 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:20,080 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) Staying. There we go. 466 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,080 Veronica, are you gonna stay or leave? 467 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:27,520 It's a tough one. 468 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:30,280 No, I'm kidding. (LAUGHS) I'm staying. (LAUGHS) 469 00:25:30,360 --> 00:25:31,520 There we go. (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 470 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,480 MEL: Lovely. 471 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:35,680 You can go back to the group. VERONICA: Thank you. 472 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:37,560 Well done. (APPLAUSE) 473 00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,360 Our next couple up on the couch... 474 00:25:47,400 --> 00:25:49,680 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 475 00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:54,680 ..Lauren and Clint. 476 00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:59,640 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 477 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,040 MEL: Well, hello. JOHN: Hello, you two. 478 00:26:02,120 --> 00:26:03,480 CLINT: Hello. Welcome back. 479 00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:04,440 LAUREN: Thank you. Well, hello. 480 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:05,840 MEL: And welcome. Hello. 481 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:09,720 Lauren, it is so lovely to see you again. 482 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:10,880 LAUREN: Thank you. You too. 483 00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:12,160 You're with Clint now. 484 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:16,240 How has this experience been for you, Lauren, a second time around? 485 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:24,240 It's definitely been an upgrade of an experience from the get-go. 486 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:31,440 I think Clint has pretty much all the qualities that I look for. 487 00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:35,040 Like, one of the main things that I really want 488 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:38,320 is, like, a masculine energy, 489 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:40,680 which is just, like, innately in him. 490 00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:44,360 Like, he's actually curious about my life and family and work 491 00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:48,040 and he just straight away is like my teammate 492 00:26:48,120 --> 00:26:49,840 and I feel like we have each other's back. 493 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:54,120 And, like, with Eliot's vows, 494 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:57,600 it's like he talked a lot about certain things, 495 00:26:57,640 --> 00:26:59,440 like, traits that I asked for, 496 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:01,560 but his actions were completely different... 497 00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,440 whereas Clint is showing it in his actions 498 00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:08,480 just in the short time that I've known him. 499 00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,120 You see that alignment. Yeah. 500 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:12,520 OK. Definitely. 501 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:14,400 Yeah, I think you guys have done a great job. 502 00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:15,720 Mmm. 503 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,400 I think she ticks a lot of boxes, for sure. 504 00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,200 And no offence to anyone in here, I look around the room 505 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,480 and I think she's just the most stunning person in the room, so... 506 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:27,360 OTHERS: Aw! 507 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:29,000 No offence. 508 00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,240 Sorry, guys. But she's... Yeah. 509 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:32,360 That's amazing. 510 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:35,120 And on that note, let's go to the decision. 511 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,440 And we're gonna start with Clint. OK. 512 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,200 It's such a tough decision, but... 513 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:42,440 (LAUGHTER) ..I did get there with that one. 514 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:45,040 MAN: Go, boy! And Lauren? 515 00:27:45,120 --> 00:27:48,000 LAUREN: Well, it was an easy decision for me too. 516 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,000 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 517 00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:52,440 JOHN: Go back to the group. MEL: Well done, you two. 518 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:54,400 LAUREN: Thank you. Have a great week. 519 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,680 After you. Whew. 520 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,440 (LAUGHS) 521 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,200 WOMAN: Good job. 522 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,200 Ooh, sorry. That's OK. 523 00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:04,200 Whew. 524 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,000 Our next couple up... 525 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:10,000 Jacqui and Ryan. 526 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:11,960 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 527 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:15,640 RYAN: Good evening, guys. MEL: Hello. 528 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:19,160 (EXHALES) 529 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:24,440 Here we go. 530 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:31,880 Alright. Well, Jacqui and Ryan. 531 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:34,160 Where are we gonna start tonight with you two? 532 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,840 Where do we start? So, the week that was... 533 00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:40,840 Beginning with Teejay and Beth's wedding. 534 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:42,400 It definitely wasn't our finest hour. 535 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,680 I just want to apologise to you guys as well 536 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:46,320 if there was any kind of... Yeah, we're sorry. 537 00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:48,600 ..disruption to that. Thanks, guys. Appreciate it. 538 00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:54,280 The morning of the wedding, Jacqui did pull out her laptop... 539 00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,000 and she said she had a rap sheet 540 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:03,080 of everything that she was holding onto - 541 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:04,840 like, little grudges and whatnot. 542 00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:06,160 Mmm. 543 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,440 Like, we went as far back as the wedding with the blooper 544 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,440 and then we went onto the shoes on the bed thing 545 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,360 and the air conditioning and whatnot, 546 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,360 so immediately I did feel quite persecuted by that. 547 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,480 Mmm. I felt like I was on trial. 548 00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:22,840 And I didn't feel like it was a healthy or productive way 549 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:24,880 to keep moving forward, 550 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,080 particularly after we pressed the reset button 551 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:28,440 after the last commitment ceremony. 552 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:30,720 OK. 553 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,600 So, Jacqui, why was that important for you 554 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,520 to have written that... I think... 555 00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:37,120 ..and then to show Ryan? 556 00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,320 Yeah. I don't know. 557 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:41,120 I just felt like Ryan's behaviour was a bit disappointing. 558 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,080 I felt like, as my husband, 559 00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:49,000 I would've hoped that he would've understood my needs. 560 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:51,000 But I was trying to be so optimistic 561 00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:54,680 and still, like, give this man the best chance I could. 562 00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:58,080 So I was trying to find a solution that worked for both of us. 563 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,560 I actually brought it, in case I needed it. 564 00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,640 MEL: Oh. WOMAN: What? 565 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,320 (LAUGHTER) (BLEEP). 566 00:30:15,160 --> 00:30:16,960 (LAUGHS) 567 00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:24,120 NARRATOR: Still to come, Adrian faces the consequences. 568 00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:27,600 I've got it on good authority that you gave an ultimatum. 569 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:31,680 "Either put me in the promo or I'll leave." 570 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:34,960 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 571 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,640 I actually brought it in case I needed it. 572 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,760 (LAUGHTER) Oh! 573 00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,200 (LAUGHS) No, yeah, there's a lot that, like, 574 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:53,840 I've really been trying to process. Do you think... 575 00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,120 I prefer we didn't go through that again. 576 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:01,600 No, some of it's good, though. 577 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:06,400 There's a lot of it you've improved on. 578 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,320 But, like, the main thing for me was... 579 00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:13,560 So, everyone here knows 580 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:17,400 that on my wedding day Ryan dropped me. 581 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:21,520 Oh, my god. Are we still gonna... (LAUGHS) 582 00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:23,000 So I was really struggling 583 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:26,640 because he never really did anything to make it up to me. 584 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:30,480 Like, I mentioned it would be really fun if we dance every night 585 00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:33,560 and then you dip me 100 times and make it up to me so I know... 586 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:34,720 I did dip you again after that just to... 587 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:36,560 Yeah, I know. I know. No... 588 00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:41,640 We did do some things to make it better. We did. 589 00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:44,040 You did three dips. But you didn't do enough. 590 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,160 I felt like... MEL: Oh... 591 00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,480 (LAUGHS) Yeah, I felt like as well, like... 592 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:49,480 You've got a quota now. (LAUGHS) 593 00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:52,720 No, no, this is how I felt and I was upset 594 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,240 because, like, I just wanted more. 595 00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:59,000 More of what? 596 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,320 Because I did ask you... I just told you, like, again. 597 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,480 I just told you, I would've wanted you to dance me 100 times 598 00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:08,320 and dip me so I never feel like you're gonna drop me again 599 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,520 or buy me flowers or, you know... 600 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:16,440 Yeah. 601 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:20,400 I fully acknowledge that you had a need to get your feelings out 602 00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:24,160 and what I should've done was just listened to the entire thing 603 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:29,120 and then myself come back to you with how I was going to improve 604 00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:33,760 because I recognise you were trying to help me grow as a man... 605 00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:35,240 Mmm. ..and I respect that. 606 00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:39,600 Yeah, and I think he does listen. 607 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:43,680 Like, it does take a few days after he's kicked and screamed, but... 608 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:44,520 (LAUGHS) 609 00:32:44,600 --> 00:32:46,800 ..like, he does get there eventually. 610 00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:48,680 Um... 611 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,520 Well, look, I'm confused. 612 00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:58,840 It may, for many people, seem like writing down all your grievances 613 00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,760 is not something that's very healthy 614 00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:05,120 but in a strange, bizarre way, it worked for you two. 615 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:09,680 You figured out, well, we just have to listen differently 616 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:11,640 to feel validated. 617 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,760 Did you expect that? 618 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:16,400 Didn't expect it, but I believe that's exactly the case, yeah. 619 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,920 Alright. We're gonna go to the decision now. 620 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:23,400 And we're gonna go with you first, Ryan. 621 00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:24,560 OK. 622 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:26,920 I really am committed to bringing out the best in us 623 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,920 and it can be chaotic, it can be catastrophic, 624 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,480 can be whatever adjective you want to give it 625 00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:37,040 but at the end of the day, I really want to stay and find out. 626 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:38,160 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) Yay. 627 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:40,640 Like that. Oh... 628 00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:43,880 Right, up to you, Jacqui. 629 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:46,040 What have we got? Stay or leave? 630 00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:49,280 Yeah, like, I feel like I owe it to Ryan to also, like, 631 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:52,080 give him the chance to be the man I know he could be. 632 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:54,960 So I said 'stay'. OK. 633 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:57,480 (LAUGHS) Yeah. (APPLAUSE) 634 00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:59,920 You can go back to the group. Well done, guys. 635 00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:01,160 Thank you so much, guys. Thank you. 636 00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,160 MAN: Well done, guys. Oh... 637 00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:06,800 Thank you. 638 00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:10,000 Thank you. 639 00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:16,120 Our next couple up on the couch, Rhi and Jeff. 640 00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:19,240 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 641 00:34:21,440 --> 00:34:23,480 MEL: Hello. Hey, guys. 642 00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:24,880 JEFF: Hey, guys. Hiya. 643 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,080 Hello. How is it going? 644 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:29,400 What have you been dealing with? Any issues? 645 00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:32,480 What's been going on? RHI: Yeah. 646 00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:36,200 So, over the past week, there was a little bit of drama 647 00:34:36,240 --> 00:34:37,480 around another couple... 648 00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,000 and it flustered me. 649 00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:48,520 But Jeff always just has my back. 650 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:52,600 What happened? I don't know. The heaviness came from what? 651 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,840 So, Jacqui and Ryan 652 00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:57,320 have obviously had some troubles in their relationship... 653 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:07,920 and Jacqui reached out to Jeff to catch up for a coffee 654 00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:08,920 without me there. 655 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:14,280 I just feel like it's not girl code to do that, personally. 656 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:19,560 And considering this experiment is about, like, marriages, 657 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:22,880 like, I don't know, I just think it's a little bit disrespectful. 658 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:26,160 Jacqui... 659 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:29,120 Jacqui... 660 00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:30,520 Yeah. 661 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:35,600 ..do you understand why Rhi felt the way she felt? 662 00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,600 (TENSE MUSIC) 663 00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:40,760 Um... 664 00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:44,400 Yeah, so I think, like, I mean, from my perspective, 665 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:49,320 like, I was in a really, really bad place 666 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:52,720 and I just needed to have, like, some more people 667 00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,960 kind of have my back a little bit so that when they, you know, like... 668 00:35:57,360 --> 00:36:01,800 they see the behaviour going on in front of them, they can call it out. 669 00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:07,720 Like, I'm in a position where I can't handle Ryan on my own 670 00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:09,400 because it's just constant. 671 00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:12,760 I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 672 00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:14,760 That just makes me sound terrible. 673 00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:17,160 It's true, though, Ryan! It's true! 674 00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:22,160 But you're both here together. Oh... 675 00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:23,800 You're happy together. 676 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:28,960 Anyway, so, yes, yes, I can relate that she felt, 677 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,520 like, excluded, I guess, or left out. 678 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:33,360 Yeah. ALESSANDRA: Mmm. 679 00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,040 I didn't mean to make her feel that way. 680 00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:36,160 Thank you, Jacqui. 681 00:36:36,240 --> 00:36:38,400 And I apologised and I am sorry again, Rhi. 682 00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:40,800 That's OK. She did apologise. 683 00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,760 You did feel the support from your partner in the whole entire thing? 684 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,760 Yeah, I did. 685 00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:52,080 Like, I'm not sure how I would've dealt with that 686 00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:55,480 if I didn't have a supportive partner like I do. 687 00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:57,840 I feel really heard 688 00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:01,800 and I'm really grateful that we are in such a great place. 689 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:06,080 Mm-hm. And so, we've been intimate... 690 00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:07,440 Oh! ..which is exciting. 691 00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,160 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) Good news! 692 00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:16,280 It is really exciting, especially with the history that you guys have, 693 00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,640 that you chose at this point to go there. 694 00:37:19,720 --> 00:37:26,320 Yeah, I am really glad that we did just take our time this time around. 695 00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:28,480 JEFF: Yeah. And I agree with that. 696 00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,600 I think it was important for us, like Rhi said. 697 00:37:31,680 --> 00:37:33,880 The foundations were really solid before we did that 698 00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:37,160 and now that it's happened, yeah, it's a great feeling 699 00:37:37,240 --> 00:37:39,600 and I think we're in a really good spot at the moment. 700 00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:41,120 I love that. 701 00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:44,560 Let's go to the decision, you guys. (LAUGHS) 702 00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:46,640 I don't think we're gonna be too surprised. 703 00:37:46,720 --> 00:37:47,760 (LAUGHS) But... (LAUGHS) 704 00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:49,880 Stay. (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 705 00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:52,080 MEL: Lovely. Stay. 706 00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,080 I love it. Thank you. (LAUGHS) 707 00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:56,680 What about you, Jeff? Surprise me. I'm staying. 708 00:37:56,720 --> 00:37:58,480 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 709 00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:00,840 (LAUGHTER) 710 00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:02,400 Thank you so much. Thank you, guys. 711 00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:03,840 MEL: Well done. Thanks, guys. 712 00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:06,520 JOHN: Well done, guys. Great work. (APPLAUSE) 713 00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:13,640 MEL: Our next couple up on the couch... 714 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:15,400 (TENSE MUSIC) 715 00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,680 ..Sierah and Billy. 716 00:38:21,720 --> 00:38:23,680 (APPLAUSE) 717 00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,080 JOHN: Hello, you two. MEL: Hello. 718 00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:29,520 BILLY: Hey, guys. ALESSANDRA: Hi. 719 00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:38,320 MEL: Well, there's clearly a lot to unpack from last night. 720 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:41,760 It was an incredibly chaotic dinner party. 721 00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:49,640 And in amongst the chaos, we saw two individuals, certainly not a couple, 722 00:38:49,720 --> 00:38:53,680 who were very separate, disconnected and fractured 723 00:38:53,760 --> 00:38:57,280 and really confiding in other people rather than each other. 724 00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:03,480 So, we want to understand what's happened and what led to this. 725 00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:05,840 Why don't we start with you, Sierah? 726 00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:09,120 Um... 727 00:39:11,240 --> 00:39:17,520 I mean, obviously I made a mistake and wronged people 728 00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,880 so I guess... So, just so we're really clear... 729 00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:20,880 Yeah. 730 00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:22,600 ..what do you see as the mistake you made? 731 00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:29,360 So, the mistake I made was lying to Awhina, I think, 732 00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:31,400 or not being forthcoming. 733 00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:37,280 Like, went out with Tony and Adrian for dinner. It was so innocent. 734 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,880 Like, we just went for a plate of meat. 735 00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:44,160 But then, when I was doing that, 736 00:39:44,240 --> 00:39:47,080 I didn't realise that Awhina and I were gonna go for a walk. 737 00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:48,800 We hadn't organised it yet. 738 00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,360 So when I went for a walk with Awhina, I didn't mention it 739 00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:53,400 because I knew her and Adrian weren't in a good place 740 00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:55,600 and I didn't want to upset her. 741 00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:57,800 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 742 00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:02,440 Obviously, any time Adrian and my name are mentioned 743 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:04,080 in a sentence together, everyone's, "Oh!" 744 00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:11,880 And what made you hold back from telling Billy about this? 745 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:15,720 I haven't spoken to Billy at all. 746 00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:18,880 So there's been no communication at all? 747 00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:20,880 No communication whatsoever. No, there's been no communication. 748 00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,000 But I do feel like it might have been quite nice for me 749 00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:26,560 to have the same kind of, I don't know, just conversation. 750 00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:29,800 I felt like I was maybe owed that. 751 00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,440 (TENSE MUSIC) 752 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:35,600 AWHINA: Sierah, I'm not trying to jump in here, 753 00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:38,400 but I do feel like Billy felt... 754 00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:40,880 We'd only just found out. Yeah. 755 00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:43,240 And you saw my face. Yeah. 756 00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,880 I was, like... I was hurting. 757 00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:47,200 Yeah. 758 00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:49,240 But this is why I think I probably feel a bit worse towards Awhina, 759 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:50,520 because I was actually with her. 760 00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:52,360 So I feel like it was more of a lie to her face, 761 00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:53,800 if you know what I mean. 762 00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:56,880 I know you're worried about Awhina here 763 00:40:56,960 --> 00:41:01,720 but I just want you to focus on going to dinner with Adrian 764 00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,680 and breaking Billy's trust. 765 00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:07,120 Is that something you regret? 766 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:08,960 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 767 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:10,240 Um... 768 00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:28,880 MEL: Going to dinner with Adrian and breaking Billy's trust, 769 00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:31,240 is that something you regret? 770 00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:34,360 Um... 771 00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:39,600 I guess maybe I could've addressed him. 772 00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:42,520 Yeah. I don't know. 773 00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:45,520 I'm gonna go to you, Billy. 774 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:48,720 What's your response to everything Sierah's saying here? 775 00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,840 I have to be honest. I feel, like, frustrated. 776 00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:03,120 Sierah, can I just ask... Yeah. 777 00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:06,560 ..do you feel a deeper connection with Adrian than you do with Billy? 778 00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:10,560 I just find him easy to talk to... AWHINA: Yeah. 779 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:11,640 ..for sure. 780 00:42:11,720 --> 00:42:16,040 And Adrian, do you feel a deeper connection with Sierah 781 00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:17,920 than you do with Awhina? 782 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:21,160 No, I don't. 783 00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:28,760 Nothing happened between Adrian and I. 784 00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,680 I just don't believe that Billy likes me. 785 00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,240 And then the things I hear, like, you want a wife swap... 786 00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:38,080 Why would you say that if you liked me? 787 00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:39,400 You would want me all for yourself. 788 00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:43,360 JOHN: Well, Billy, just on that... 789 00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:45,640 (TENSE MUSIC) 790 00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:49,200 ..it really troubled me 791 00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:53,720 when I heard that you had mentioned the possibility of a wife swap. 792 00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:58,200 Doesn't matter how do you say that, 793 00:42:58,240 --> 00:43:00,760 that is poor form. 794 00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:06,640 You cannot be treating a woman like a piece of meat. 795 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:11,800 And when we heard it, we were shocked. 796 00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:18,080 That's not the Billy we know. No. 797 00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:20,440 I think this is as well, like you say, 798 00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:24,520 the Billy you know, he's not here right now. 799 00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:27,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 800 00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:33,880 Them comments, it's not acceptable. I hold my hands up. 801 00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:35,240 It's wrong. 802 00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:40,320 And I'm deeply sorry. It's fine. 803 00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:42,680 I'm sorry to the other girls in here as well. 804 00:43:42,720 --> 00:43:44,080 You shouldn't have to hear that. 805 00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:46,720 I am. 806 00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:51,240 I think I just built up frustration 807 00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:55,160 and that was me, being a huge shadow of myself. 808 00:43:55,240 --> 00:43:57,520 That was not me at all. That is not the person I am. 809 00:43:57,600 --> 00:44:04,080 I just feel like I've really retreated, you know. 810 00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:08,440 I've said multiple times that I need more of an emotional connection. 811 00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:09,600 I've had a physical touch... 812 00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:11,520 I got literally no deep connection from you. 813 00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:13,680 I got nothing... You took a step further backwards. 814 00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:19,320 All I've ever wanted was a deeper connection. 815 00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:22,480 And I've got nothing, however many weeks we're in now. 816 00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:25,800 I've tried to give you what you needed 817 00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:27,440 but you don't give me what I need. 818 00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:30,600 And I don't know why, 819 00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,080 because I've expressed every part of my life to you. 820 00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:35,360 My mum doesn't even know some of the things that I've said. 821 00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:40,160 I've tried, because I've come into this experiment open and honest 822 00:44:40,240 --> 00:44:42,200 because I haven't been like that in previous relationships. 823 00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:47,760 I've got nothing from you, Sierah. Absolutely sweet FA. 824 00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:55,800 MEL: Well, certainly for us as observers 825 00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,560 sitting back and watching the two of you, 826 00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:01,320 it's a real shame how things have really shifted 827 00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:03,440 and you've gotten to this point. 828 00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:07,000 And with that said, we're gonna go to the decision. 829 00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:08,800 But we'll go to you first, Billy. 830 00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:15,400 Yeah, so, can't see us really coming back from anything, so... 831 00:45:16,720 --> 00:45:19,400 Yeah, I've wrote 'leave'. 832 00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:21,400 Oh. OK. Thank you. 833 00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:27,840 And to you, Sierah. 834 00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:29,520 Yeah. 835 00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:30,960 I just wrote 'leave'. 836 00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:34,960 It's OK. 837 00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:39,560 We're all very sorry that this is how things have ended up 838 00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,040 for the two of you. 839 00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:45,560 Billy, is there anything you'd like to say to Sierah at this point? 840 00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:53,400 I think, Sierah, obviously you are a beautiful person inside and out 841 00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:58,360 and in that first couple of weeks of getting to know you, I seen that. 842 00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:00,760 And it genuinely was nice. 843 00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:05,720 I guess going forward 844 00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:08,320 maybe just don't maybe try and go too in yourself sometimes 845 00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,720 when someone's trying to speak to you... 846 00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:16,240 'cause I feel like I'm a pretty easy person to talk to 847 00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:18,400 and when I've tried to talk to you in them moments, 848 00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:20,800 you could've opened up to me and talked to me 849 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:22,480 and trusted me in them moments. 850 00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:27,120 I just wish that we had had this conversation before this 851 00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:28,760 because now that I've heard you out 852 00:46:28,840 --> 00:46:30,440 and we've sat here and we've spoken like this, 853 00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:31,560 I wish we could stay. 854 00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:37,760 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 855 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,320 Do you regret writing 'leave'? 856 00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:45,640 Yeah, I feel actually quite full of regret. 857 00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:00,880 I wish we could stay. 858 00:47:06,720 --> 00:47:08,840 Yeah, I feel actually quite full of regret. 859 00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:13,720 Does this feel like a missed opportunity? 860 00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:19,720 Yeah, I think a little bit now, because just hearing him out, 861 00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:21,800 I think I was just treating him like the enemy. 862 00:47:21,880 --> 00:47:25,280 I should've tried harder. We could've spoken about it. 863 00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:31,360 But I was just so inside myself, I think. 864 00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:33,280 I actually feel really awful. 865 00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:47,800 What about you, Billy? 866 00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:52,600 I don't regret my decision. 867 00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,000 I'm honest and open, like I've been in this whole experiment. 868 00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:58,400 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 869 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:03,960 And this is the thing. 870 00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:06,280 We could've had these discussions on numerous occasions 871 00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:08,840 but I felt like you don't really want to talk, 872 00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,600 so it's been very, very hard, you know. 873 00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:13,560 Yeah, I'd shut off. 874 00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:19,360 Well, obviously the rules of the commitment ceremony 875 00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:24,720 is that if both partners say 'leave', you both leave the experiment. 876 00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:26,440 You know, I think, in a small way, 877 00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:28,480 the two of you have made a little breakthrough 878 00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,720 just as two humans tonight, not necessarily as a couple, 879 00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:33,920 but, you know, if there is an opportunity 880 00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:35,320 for the two of you to keep talking, 881 00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:38,000 I think that would be really valuable for both of you. 882 00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:40,600 Thank you. Thanks, guys. Take a seat. 883 00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:42,840 JOHN: Good luck, guys. Thank you. 884 00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:45,600 Thank you. (APPLAUSE) 885 00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,440 And our next couple up tonight... 886 00:48:55,720 --> 00:48:57,280 Beth and Teejay. 887 00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,840 Oooh! (APPLAUSE) 888 00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:04,000 Hello, you two. TEEJAY: G'day, g'day. 889 00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:06,800 Welcome. COUPLE: Thank you. 890 00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:08,960 First time on the couch. First time on the couch. 891 00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:10,680 I know. It's our first one, innit? Yeah. 892 00:49:10,720 --> 00:49:13,240 (LAUGHS) 893 00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:16,840 We are very interested in how things are going for you. 894 00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:20,240 I mean, we're smooth sailing. Yeah. 895 00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:23,360 We're like two cups of still water. (LAUGHS) 896 00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:26,080 From the wedding, I think we connected really well 897 00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:27,880 and just bantered off each other and honestly, we've just been 898 00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:29,320 taking the piss out of each other ever since. 899 00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:30,360 Yeah. 900 00:49:30,440 --> 00:49:32,440 Obviously when I saw him in the aisle, yeah, 901 00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,200 like, saw them beautiful eyes light up, you know... 902 00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:36,680 (LAUGHS) Stop it. Joking. 903 00:49:36,760 --> 00:49:38,240 (LAUGHS) No, it was just... 904 00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:40,600 He knows how to play to his strengths. 905 00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:43,120 (LAUGHTER) Yeah, no, it was just great. 906 00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:47,080 I really wasn't expecting to kind of click this quickly with someone. 907 00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:48,200 Yeah. 908 00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:50,600 And obviously this is really new to me 909 00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:54,200 'cause, obviously, as I've shared, I've never had a relationship, so... 910 00:49:54,240 --> 00:49:55,280 Never had a boyfie? 911 00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,520 Never had a boyfie in my life, yeah, which I'm... 912 00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:01,920 That does embarrass me a lot. So I did share that with Teejay. 913 00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:04,520 But he said that he's so fine with me 914 00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:07,760 coming to him with my emotions and he's ready to listen 915 00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,280 and he's happy for me to share how I'm feeling. 916 00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:12,400 So that was really big for me. 917 00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:14,760 She mentioned that when she gets close to someone, 918 00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:17,640 it's easier to just sort of pull away rather than to open up 919 00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:19,520 and be vulnerable, 920 00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,120 so being able to gain her trust 921 00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:22,640 in order for her to be vulnerable with me 922 00:50:22,720 --> 00:50:25,280 is something that I'm sort of putting a big emphasis on. 923 00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:29,960 And you're gonna have plenty of opportunities for building the trust. 924 00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:32,840 Yeah. I'm really ready for the experiment. 925 00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:38,440 Let's go to the decision. Beth, we'll start with you. 926 00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:40,720 Stay. Oh, it's a clear stay. 927 00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:42,000 Yeah. Wonderful. 928 00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:44,520 With a smiley face. Thank you. And to you, Teejay. 929 00:50:44,600 --> 00:50:47,760 Me, I did a big old 'stay' too. Confident. 930 00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:49,200 (APPLAUSE) Yeah. 931 00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:50,720 CONTESTANT: Whoo! I like it. 932 00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:52,920 Well, all the best for the crash course 933 00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:54,320 that's coming up in the next week. 934 00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:57,320 (LAUGHS) All the best with moving in together. 935 00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:58,560 Yes. Enjoy it. 936 00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:00,280 I'm excited. Open up and go for it. 937 00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:01,600 Let's get cracking. Thank you! 938 00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:02,800 Come on, Tush. Good on you, guys. 939 00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:04,040 JOHN: Well done, guys. Thank you. 940 00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:05,520 Thanks, guys. Great to see you. 941 00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:07,000 (LAUGHS) (APPLAUSE) 942 00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:14,240 Our next couple up on the couch, Jamie and Dave. 943 00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:16,360 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 944 00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:18,560 DAVE: Hey, guys. MEL: Well, hello there. 945 00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:19,680 ALESSANDRA: Hello. Hello. 946 00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:21,000 JOHN: Greetings. How you going? 947 00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:23,640 MEL: We're going very well. How are you going? 948 00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:25,440 Oh, it just feels unreal, honestly. 949 00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:30,440 Like, I'm just... I ride or die for people I love 950 00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:34,080 and the fact that he's just backed me from the get-go... 951 00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:35,760 Mmm. ..like, means the most to me... 952 00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:38,040 'cause that's, like, one of my, like, biggest values. 953 00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:39,040 Mmm. 954 00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,360 So if we just go rewind... Mmm. 955 00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:44,360 ..and look at that sentence that you just shared with us... 956 00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:45,600 (LAUGHS) 957 00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:48,240 .."I'm ride or die for people I..." 958 00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:49,680 Well, OK... .."love." 959 00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:51,240 Ooooh! ..can I just clarify? 960 00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:53,360 I'd like to clarify. 961 00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:56,240 Like, in love is a different thing for me, 962 00:51:56,320 --> 00:52:00,680 but of course, like, 100%, he's someone that I do have love for. 963 00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:01,640 Mm-hm. Yes. 964 00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:02,880 Mm-hm. 965 00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:07,640 And is that love for him developing into falling in love with him? 966 00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:11,920 I think we're on a good path. (LAUGHS) 967 00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:13,680 I like it. 968 00:52:13,760 --> 00:52:16,760 And what about you, Dave? Where are you at feelings-wise? 969 00:52:16,840 --> 00:52:19,280 Yeah, tell us. (LAUGHTER) 970 00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:22,680 Are you in love? (CLEARS THROAT) 971 00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:23,840 Just... (LAUGHTER) 972 00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,880 No, yeah, well, I care about her so much... 973 00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:27,720 Mmm. 974 00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:30,560 ..and, yeah, I mean, those feelings are definitely there. 975 00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:32,960 They're, like... It's such an exciting feeling. 976 00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:35,720 Mmm. Brilliant. 977 00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:37,880 Well, let's go to the decision, shall we? 978 00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:39,480 OK. Who do you want? 979 00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:41,440 I think we're gonna start with you, Jamie. 980 00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:44,320 Alright. I have chosen to stay. 981 00:52:44,360 --> 00:52:46,960 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 982 00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:48,920 And big Dave. 983 00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:51,120 I'm staying. Oh! 984 00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:54,240 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) JOHN: Well done, team. 985 00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:56,160 You can go back to the group. 986 00:52:56,240 --> 00:52:57,440 MEL: Good on you, guys. Well done. 987 00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:59,360 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) Thank you. 988 00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:09,640 Our next couple up on the couch, Carina and Paul. 989 00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:12,160 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 990 00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:16,520 Hello. Hi. Hi. 991 00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:18,200 Hello. Where do you want to sit? 992 00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:20,480 Up to you. (LAUGHTER) 993 00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:27,480 Sit down. (COUPLE LAUGH) 994 00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:30,080 So, Carina and Paul. 995 00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:31,920 How are you, Carina? Let's start with you. 996 00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:34,840 Where are you at? I'm doing good. 997 00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:37,640 I feel content in the relationship. 998 00:53:37,720 --> 00:53:43,840 I feel like we've had a good ride and it's still continuing that ride. 999 00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:46,360 And, yeah, really, we're blossoming. 1000 00:53:48,240 --> 00:53:49,920 PAUL: It just flows. I just feel comfortable. 1001 00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:51,600 I just feel at ease. 1002 00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:53,920 I feel at peace when I'm around her, you know. 1003 00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:57,840 We're talking about life goals and just talking about the future. 1004 00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:01,960 So I've been enjoying every single...every second of it. 1005 00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:04,360 It's been amazing. 1006 00:54:07,240 --> 00:54:09,880 (LAUGHTER) MAN: Aw. 1007 00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:11,360 ALESSANDRA: Let's go to the decision, you guys. 1008 00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:13,400 We're gonna go to Carina. 1009 00:54:13,440 --> 00:54:15,200 Me? OK. 1010 00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:18,640 Stay. JOHN: Good to see. 1011 00:54:18,720 --> 00:54:21,200 Yeah. (CARINA AND PAUL LAUGH) 1012 00:54:21,240 --> 00:54:23,000 Mr Paul. 1013 00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:27,320 Well, I'm also, for the third time, staying. 1014 00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:30,600 (LAUGHS) Very well. Stay, stay, stay. 1015 00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:36,400 MAN: Hey! Oh, you guys. 1016 00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,800 MEL: Our next couple up on the couch... 1017 00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:45,680 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1018 00:54:45,720 --> 00:54:47,080 ..Morena and Tony. 1019 00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:50,560 (APPLAUSE) 1020 00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:53,360 Hello, you two. TONY: We'll get smiles happening. 1021 00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:55,960 So much enthusiasm. We love it. (LAUGHS) 1022 00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:57,600 Hi, guys. How are you? JOHN: Good. 1023 00:54:57,640 --> 00:54:59,160 MEL: We're very well. 1024 00:54:59,240 --> 00:55:02,720 And I've gotta say, we enjoyed your matching outfits last night. 1025 00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:04,200 (LAUGHS) 1026 00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:06,880 The flowers, the matching suit... We blossomed. 1027 00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:08,240 It was extravagant. 1028 00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:10,280 And you talked about the blossoming, 1029 00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:13,760 which makes us very curious about what's been going on between you. 1030 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:18,240 Well, we listened to your advice 1031 00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:23,320 and we...you know, 1% a day and I sort of stopped Houdini-ing 1032 00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,680 and decided to spend some more time with Morena 1033 00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:29,280 and, you know, do some dates and stuff like that. 1034 00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:33,080 So, our first date was we went to dinner. 1035 00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:36,360 And I'm sure you've all heard of Tina Turner. 1036 00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:41,960 Meet Morena Turner. 1037 00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:44,120 (LAUGHTER) Mate, I've never... 1038 00:55:44,200 --> 00:55:46,840 I walk into a restaurant and this lady's singing. 1039 00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:50,280 It's, like, "What are you doing?" But that's Morena. 1040 00:55:50,360 --> 00:55:52,640 You sang? That's who I am. 1041 00:55:52,720 --> 00:55:55,720 Mmm. It was so beautiful. 1042 00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:58,600 (BRIGHT MUSIC PLAYS) 1043 00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:02,120 And then the next day we had a game of bowls. 1044 00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:04,520 I let her win. (LAUGHTER) 1045 00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:08,440 Well, it sounds like you've been having a lot of fun together, 1046 00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:11,600 that you've dropped some of the seriousness, 1047 00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:12,800 perhaps the overthinking 1048 00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:15,520 and just started getting playful and curious with each other, 1049 00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:17,000 which is wonderful. 1050 00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:19,360 Yeah. We've had a good time. 1051 00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:21,880 All in all, listening to your advice, 1052 00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:23,840 it's kind of, you know, been good. 1053 00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:26,080 I hope it has. On my side it has. 1054 00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:27,960 Now, hopefully the same thing for Morena. 1055 00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:33,960 MORENA: It's... 1056 00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:38,720 It's really lovely to hear that. 1057 00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:42,840 But I don't feel it. 1058 00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:46,400 (TENSE MUSIC) 1059 00:56:56,640 --> 00:56:59,440 So, we've had a good time. 1060 00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:03,480 Really nice to hear that. But I don't feel it. 1061 00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:06,520 (TENSE MUSIC) 1062 00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:13,240 OK. What would it take to feel that? 1063 00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:16,840 I just want him to be a gentleman. 1064 00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:23,120 But I've asked him, "Do not fist-pump me" and he still does it. 1065 00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:26,160 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1066 00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:30,880 I've ask him, "Stop headlocking me" and he still does it. 1067 00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:33,400 And he'll grab her and go, "Kkhhh!" on the head, you know. (LAUGHS) 1068 00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:40,760 Now, I'm sorry, I'm so sorry that I'm not fun. 1069 00:57:40,840 --> 00:57:44,520 And I'm so glad you're all laughing. (LAUGHTER) 1070 00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:49,240 You've never, ever stopped me from doing that. 1071 00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:51,720 It's just my fun thing I do with you. 1072 00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:53,920 That's how I show sometimes my affection 1073 00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:55,640 and my touch and things like that. 1074 00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:58,720 A headlock is affection? (LAUGHTER) 1075 00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:02,600 (TENSE MUSIC) 1076 00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:06,840 Morena, sorry, can I just ask, what does... What, like... 1077 00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:10,360 I feel like it's just a jovial little thing, you know I mean? 1078 00:58:10,400 --> 00:58:11,480 BETH: Playful. 1079 00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:13,640 RHI: Jeff and I have a hand... 1080 00:58:13,720 --> 00:58:17,000 Like, we fist-pump all the time and have a handshake. 1081 00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:23,920 I actually can't believe you guys are asking me that. 1082 00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:28,200 But how would you like me to compliment you? 1083 00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:30,000 How would you like me to show you? 1084 00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:34,080 How do you want to feel? Just be a gentleman! 1085 00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:38,200 Stop headlocking me, stop fist-pumping me... 1086 00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:41,480 Alright, I'll stop. I will stop. I will stop. I will stop. 1087 00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:46,040 I'm sorry. 1088 00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:49,000 We had a good week this week. We changed, you know. 1089 00:58:49,040 --> 00:58:50,520 We took it step by step. 1090 00:58:50,600 --> 00:58:52,640 But I think it's time to step it up a little bit 1091 00:58:52,680 --> 00:58:54,480 and get to that stage, so... 1092 00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:56,920 MEL: Aw! (CHEERING) 1093 00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:58,800 (WOMAN LAUGHS) 1094 00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:00,800 I can't head... It's not a headlock. 1095 00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:02,080 It's a hug. A hug. 1096 00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:05,920 Oh, not a headlock. No, no. It's a headlock-free zone. 1097 00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:08,200 No, that was actually a hug. It was. 1098 00:59:08,280 --> 00:59:10,520 And you know what, I actually think that's... I think... 1099 00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:13,360 No headlock. Oh, that's beautiful. 1100 00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:14,920 Literally... 1101 00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:19,960 It's very clear that the two of you are starting to develop 1102 00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:21,480 a good foundation of friendship here. 1103 00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:27,880 But there needs to be progress. And there is hope. 1104 00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:31,560 We can see it in the two of you, in your faces, in your body language, 1105 00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:34,360 worlds apart from where you were at last week. 1106 00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:39,000 So, let's just try and focus on the good stuff that's here 1107 00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:41,360 and have those conversations with each other 1108 00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:44,480 about what you are comfortable with and not comfortable with. 1109 00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:47,480 That's really positive, healthy stuff in relationships. 1110 00:59:49,520 --> 00:59:51,000 We're going to go to the decision. 1111 00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:53,280 Morena, we'll start with you, please. 1112 00:59:57,720 --> 00:59:58,720 Stay. 1113 00:59:58,760 --> 01:00:02,600 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 1114 01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:05,080 And, Tony, your decision, please? 1115 01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:06,440 Oh. 1116 01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:09,080 (LAUGHS) 1117 01:00:09,120 --> 01:00:10,680 (CHEERING AND APPLAUSE) 1118 01:00:10,720 --> 01:00:12,360 Thank you, both. 1119 01:00:12,400 --> 01:00:13,840 ALESSANDRA: Have a great week. 1120 01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:20,840 WOMAN: Good job, babe. MAN: Well done, guys. 1121 01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:24,640 Good job. Well done, guys. 1122 01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:29,640 Our last couple up on the couch, Adrian and Awhina. 1123 01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:32,360 (APPLAUSE) (TENSE MUSIC) 1124 01:00:32,440 --> 01:00:33,600 MEL: Hello. JOHN: Come and grab a seat. 1125 01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:35,320 ADRIAN: Hello. 1126 01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:38,920 Literally. 1127 01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:45,200 Awhina, where do you want to start? 1128 01:00:49,240 --> 01:00:53,800 Let's get it all out on the table. Why did Adrian leave on Friday? 1129 01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:59,480 So, Adrian wasn't included in one of the promo shoots. 1130 01:01:02,720 --> 01:01:04,560 And I've gone back to an empty apartment 1131 01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:07,000 and his ring was left on the counter... 1132 01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:12,480 and then I've texted him, "Where are you?" 1133 01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:15,760 And I got back... "I left. I've gone home. 1134 01:01:15,800 --> 01:01:17,080 "Can you pack my bag?" 1135 01:01:17,120 --> 01:01:20,120 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1136 01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:25,600 So, Awhina, just so I understand, Adrian left 1137 01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:29,840 because he wasn't going to be a part of the promo for the show? 1138 01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:33,480 No, I left because I was frustrated. 1139 01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:40,360 Adrian, I've got it on good authority that you gave an ultimatum. 1140 01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:45,160 "Either put me in the promo or I'll leave." 1141 01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:48,680 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1142 01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:00,760 JOHN: Just so I understand, Adrian left 1143 01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:04,000 because he wasn't going to be a part of the promo. 1144 01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:06,800 No, I left because I was frustrated. 1145 01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:11,600 Adrian, I've got it on good authority that you gave an ultimatum. 1146 01:02:15,480 --> 01:02:17,800 "Either put me in the promo or I'll leave." 1147 01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:25,440 I did. 1148 01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:31,880 Was that any reason to hold the production or Awhina to ransom? 1149 01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:35,320 I didn't hold to ransom. Ransom's not the right word. 1150 01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:39,880 Um... Well, I think it is. 1151 01:02:39,960 --> 01:02:42,720 I mean, you gave an ultimatum. Yeah. 1152 01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:46,000 I was frustrated. I was upset. And I had every right to be. 1153 01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:49,680 Why? Because I felt disrespected. 1154 01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:52,680 I'm, like, "No, (BLEEP) this. This is, like... This is not fair." 1155 01:02:52,760 --> 01:02:56,400 You know, I reacted in emotions, you know. 1156 01:02:56,480 --> 01:03:00,080 I'm a man. I make mistakes. I'm upset. 1157 01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:06,160 And what about Awhina? Pardon? 1158 01:03:06,240 --> 01:03:07,200 MEL: Yeah. What about Awhina? 1159 01:03:07,240 --> 01:03:08,560 Wow. 1160 01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:11,240 You left her. She was devastated. 1161 01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:14,040 No, I said I (BLEEP) up. But, like, "I (BLEEP) up." 1162 01:03:14,120 --> 01:03:16,600 No, where's your care? You left her! 1163 01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:17,680 Everyone reacts different. 1164 01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:25,960 Yeah, but anyways, like I said, on that day... 1165 01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:27,640 You left me, Adrian. Yeah. 1166 01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:29,560 You left your ring. 1167 01:03:29,640 --> 01:03:32,080 You told me you were only coming back 1168 01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:34,040 if you were a part of that promo 1169 01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:36,400 and now you're deflecting once again what I'm telling you how I felt. 1170 01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:38,400 I'm trying to talk here. 1171 01:03:38,480 --> 01:03:43,160 Like I said, I'm human and we all make mistakes. Like... 1172 01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:44,760 Adrian, I've got to jump in 1173 01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:48,200 because the way in which you are saying this is a real problem. 1174 01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:50,640 You're not showing empathy. 1175 01:03:50,720 --> 01:03:53,720 You're not giving her a sense that you understand. 1176 01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:57,520 The bottom line is you weren't involved in the promo and you left. 1177 01:03:57,600 --> 01:03:59,160 You threw the toys out of the cot and took off. 1178 01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:03,680 You then left her hanging and didn't contact her. 1179 01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:06,440 You went to dinner with Sierah and she didn't know about it. 1180 01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:10,000 You then came into the dinner party all fired up 1181 01:04:10,040 --> 01:04:11,200 and got defensive 1182 01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:14,320 and essentially tried to go at anyone that came at you. 1183 01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:16,640 And you're certainly getting defensive now. 1184 01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:18,320 So, what I'm feeding back to you, Adrian, 1185 01:04:18,400 --> 01:04:22,400 is that you're not good at saying sorry. 1186 01:04:22,440 --> 01:04:24,640 And that's a problem, 1187 01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:29,600 because when things hurt your feelings, you get on attack mode. 1188 01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:31,920 Your fight style is to get aggressive and to win. 1189 01:04:32,000 --> 01:04:36,600 And I pointed this out to you before - it's a pattern 1190 01:04:36,640 --> 01:04:38,720 and you've gotta change it up 1191 01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:42,320 because Awhina is not gonna be able to get close to you. 1192 01:04:42,400 --> 01:04:46,800 It's also contributing to why she's dancing around 1193 01:04:46,840 --> 01:04:48,360 saying her true feelings 1194 01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:50,600 'cause she's afraid of your reaction, 1195 01:04:50,680 --> 01:04:54,400 which is to get on the defence and to put her in her place. 1196 01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:57,400 It's destroying your intimacy. 1197 01:04:57,480 --> 01:05:00,480 It's destroying your bond. Yeah. I'm aware. 1198 01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:07,360 Awhina, how did it land for you 1199 01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:09,800 when you found out that Adrian had left? 1200 01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:12,560 What did it do to you? What impact did it have? 1201 01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:18,640 It was kind of just like really validating 1202 01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:24,080 how I felt for quite some time, where I felt invisible... 1203 01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:31,240 Because I don't feel like you considered me at all. 1204 01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:37,880 The fact is, it is just a promo video 1205 01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:40,840 and you should be here for me, 1206 01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:45,040 but these actions show me that I'm not your priority. 1207 01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:49,720 Yeah, like... Yeah, I just messed up. 1208 01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:53,040 I've done that in my past. 1209 01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:55,160 I just go in this mode, like, I self-sabotage 1210 01:05:55,240 --> 01:05:57,960 and I don't give a shit about anything or anyone. 1211 01:05:58,040 --> 01:06:01,280 I was heated and I reacted on emotion. 1212 01:06:01,360 --> 01:06:03,560 Us men can react heavily on emotions 1213 01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:05,360 and we're not good with emotions. 1214 01:06:05,440 --> 01:06:07,880 Then we make dumb decisions and that's what I done. 1215 01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:09,720 I would like to jump in. 1216 01:06:09,800 --> 01:06:12,520 Being a man has nothing to do with it. 1217 01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:14,280 Yeah, yeah, did I say a man? Yes. 1218 01:06:14,360 --> 01:06:16,400 Any person... Of course, of course. 1219 01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:17,360 ..can have difficulty... Yeah. 1220 01:06:17,440 --> 01:06:18,240 ..and all of us... Mmm. 1221 01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:21,120 ..every single human is an emotional being... 1222 01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:21,960 Yeah. Period. 1223 01:06:22,040 --> 01:06:24,000 That is what defines us as human beings. 1224 01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:25,960 So, unless you're not human... Mmm. 1225 01:06:26,000 --> 01:06:27,680 ..that capability is in you 1226 01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:30,200 and it has nothing to do with man and woman. 1227 01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:34,120 DAVE: Yeah, I'm not coming for you, Adrian, at all, 1228 01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:36,640 but, like, wouldn't you love to learn how to be so open 1229 01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:37,960 with someone like Awhina? 1230 01:06:38,040 --> 01:06:40,000 Like, she's... Yeah, of course. Of course. 1231 01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:42,040 She'll love you till the end of the days, mate. 1232 01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:43,560 She's so gorgeous. Yeah. 1233 01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:48,120 (AWHINA CRIES) (SOLEMN MUSIC) 1234 01:06:51,480 --> 01:06:53,280 (CRIES) 1235 01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:55,680 DAVE: You've got a good opportunity 1236 01:06:55,760 --> 01:06:58,000 and I really feel like you need to open up to her, man, 1237 01:06:58,040 --> 01:06:59,640 because she'll show you the way. 1238 01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:01,320 And I agree. 1239 01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:04,080 (AWHINA CRIES) 1240 01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:09,560 'Cause I care for her. I genuinely do care. 1241 01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:16,320 And I know that I'm doing wrong and I need to do better. 1242 01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:27,520 So, I guess there's only one way to prove it. 1243 01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:30,040 OK. You want to go there? Let's do it. 1244 01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:33,720 You know, I heard everything Awhina had to say tonight. 1245 01:07:33,800 --> 01:07:37,480 She wasn't being seen and she was unheard 1246 01:07:37,560 --> 01:07:43,400 and the only way to fix that was to say 'stay'. 1247 01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:46,360 OK. (APPLAUSE) 1248 01:07:48,440 --> 01:07:50,800 Awhina, can we have your decision, please? 1249 01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:53,960 No, we don't need it. Don't worry. 1250 01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:56,760 (TENSE MUSIC) (CLEARS THROAT) 1251 01:07:58,240 --> 01:07:59,400 Um... 1252 01:07:59,480 --> 01:08:04,280 You know, like, confessions week we all had to write letters? 1253 01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:08,040 Adrian didn't write one line. He didn't do it. 1254 01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:12,400 Anyways, I went through my drawer today and I've read through it. 1255 01:08:12,440 --> 01:08:14,800 And a big thing in all of this 1256 01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:19,720 was my most significant milestones as a mum... 1257 01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:25,320 and I think at the end of it, I wrote 1258 01:08:25,400 --> 01:08:28,200 how "being a mum, you have to put your child first. 1259 01:08:28,280 --> 01:08:32,160 "And now, here I am, being selfish, missing out on real milestones 1260 01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:35,080 "in the pursuit of love. 1261 01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:37,760 "I guess time will tell if I made the right decision or not. 1262 01:08:41,120 --> 01:08:46,720 "And coming on this experiment, how I felt today didn't work... 1263 01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:49,480 "in a away, from those very real milestones." 1264 01:08:49,520 --> 01:08:51,600 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 1265 01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:07,120 So, yeah, I'm... 1266 01:09:07,200 --> 01:09:12,440 Yeah, I wrote... I wrote 'sorry, leave'. 1267 01:09:12,480 --> 01:09:15,480 (SOLEMN MUSIC) 1268 01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:31,040 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1269 01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:38,320 So, yeah, I wrote... I wrote 'sorry, leave'. 1270 01:09:44,720 --> 01:09:48,600 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 1271 01:10:02,080 --> 01:10:04,320 JOHN: So, as we know, with the rules of this experiment, 1272 01:10:04,400 --> 01:10:06,560 if one person to stay, the other says leave, 1273 01:10:06,640 --> 01:10:10,040 then they stay for another week to see if they can turn it around. 1274 01:10:12,840 --> 01:10:17,080 Now, Awhina, do you hear Adrian saying he wants to improve? 1275 01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:21,720 I heard him say it. 1276 01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:23,000 Do you believe it? 1277 01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:27,400 I feel like... 1278 01:10:30,640 --> 01:10:34,800 Tonight was definitely, like, 1279 01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:38,040 a big whack-in-the-face moment for Adrian... 1280 01:10:39,520 --> 01:10:42,440 and he probably does truly believe 1281 01:10:42,520 --> 01:10:44,800 that he wants to start showing up for me. 1282 01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:50,880 But I'm not sure he's able to. Yeah. 1283 01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:58,960 So, it's out on the table. The challenge is there. 1284 01:10:59,040 --> 01:11:03,440 It's on your shoulders to really do some big-time lifting. 1285 01:11:03,480 --> 01:11:04,840 Yeah. 1286 01:11:04,920 --> 01:11:07,320 You know, learning a lot about myself and taking it on board 1287 01:11:07,360 --> 01:11:09,760 and listening to it and hearing her. 1288 01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:12,920 And I'm well aware she's taking time from her son... 1289 01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:15,280 Yeah. ..so it's, like, need to show up. 1290 01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:20,080 I think you've got it in you, but... 1291 01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:24,560 we can only see from what you do on a day-to-day basis. 1292 01:11:24,600 --> 01:11:25,760 Yeah. 1293 01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:27,560 You've got seven days to turn it around 1294 01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:29,800 and let's see some big change. 1295 01:11:29,880 --> 01:11:31,920 Go back to the group now. Thank you, guys. 1296 01:11:32,000 --> 01:11:33,120 (APPLAUSE) MEL: Well done, guys. 1297 01:11:40,440 --> 01:11:42,000 (KISSES) 1298 01:11:44,600 --> 01:11:49,400 Yeah, it's a tough one. Like, I wasn't expecting that. 1299 01:11:49,440 --> 01:11:51,080 I'm actually quite shocked. 1300 01:11:53,960 --> 01:11:58,200 But I took accountability and I hope Awhina heard me. 1301 01:11:58,280 --> 01:12:02,560 Well, so we're rooting for you now. I appreciate it. 1302 01:12:02,600 --> 01:12:06,200 You know, I know I can show up, 1303 01:12:06,280 --> 01:12:10,000 so I am positive that we can work things out... 1304 01:12:11,680 --> 01:12:13,560 and get back to where we were. 1305 01:12:15,800 --> 01:12:18,120 NARRATOR: Tomorrow night... CLINT: Wow. Here we go. 1306 01:12:18,200 --> 01:12:21,000 ..our three newest couples move into the apartments. 1307 01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:24,840 Oh, how cute is that! Oh, my god! Look! 1308 01:12:24,920 --> 01:12:28,040 ..as they get a crash course in married life. 1309 01:12:28,120 --> 01:12:31,040 Well, obviously this dirty, stinky rat goes there. 1310 01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:33,720 I just kind of want to hear, like, your side. 1311 01:12:33,760 --> 01:12:35,160 I feel so sorry for you. 1312 01:12:35,240 --> 01:12:37,680 Eliot's about as shallow as a pond in a desert. 1313 01:12:37,760 --> 01:12:41,440 But is Lauren poisoning Veronica and Eliot's well? 1314 01:12:41,480 --> 01:12:43,160 Eliot is a narcissist. 1315 01:12:43,240 --> 01:12:46,240 It is really disheartening to hear that insight into Eliot. 1316 01:12:46,280 --> 01:12:48,000 Run. 1317 01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:52,520 And then, the next phase of the experiment begins. 1318 01:12:52,560 --> 01:12:53,880 Where are our guests? 1319 01:12:53,920 --> 01:12:56,200 (SCREAMING AND LAUGHTER) 1320 01:12:56,240 --> 01:12:57,800 Over two big nights... 1321 01:12:57,840 --> 01:12:59,200 Hi, guys. 1322 01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:02,320 ..family and friends week returns. 1323 01:13:02,400 --> 01:13:04,440 You guys are happy? We are, we are. 1324 01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:07,440 Our couples get much-needed perspective... 1325 01:13:07,520 --> 01:13:09,000 You've gotta have each other's back. 1326 01:13:09,040 --> 01:13:11,240 ..from their partners' loved ones. 1327 01:13:11,280 --> 01:13:12,680 This is gaslighting. 1328 01:13:12,720 --> 01:13:15,480 That's your interpretation of it, 1329 01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:17,240 but that doesn't mean that it's true. 1330 01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:20,000 But for Awhina and Adrian... 1331 01:13:20,080 --> 01:13:22,800 You are focusing a lot on the negative because... 1332 01:13:22,880 --> 01:13:24,960 He hasn't even shown up, so let's just stop it there. 1333 01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:26,960 I was talking. I don't care. 1334 01:13:27,040 --> 01:13:29,120 ..when their families come together... 1335 01:13:29,160 --> 01:13:30,760 How dare you! 1336 01:13:30,800 --> 01:13:32,640 ..all hell breaks loose. 1337 01:13:32,720 --> 01:13:35,000 I actually... I don't need to listen to this. 1338 01:13:35,080 --> 01:13:36,920 Goodbye. Pointless conversation. 1339 01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:38,200 I'm done. 1340 01:13:42,280 --> 01:13:45,240 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv 99340

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