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tonight on the Girls Guide to 21st century sex

secrets the female orgasm and how women

me check you make hmm best way to make love licking overweight

what happens inside vagina during manage actuation

and what many you can learn from women who have sex with other women

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welcome to a Girl's Guide to 21st century sex

the definitive coaching manual for having better sex

I don't Catherine hood and over the next eight weeks

I'll be exploring every aspect lovemaking to improve you

and your partner's performance each time in the show will dissect and analyze the

world's favorite sexual positions

with %uh specially-designed cameras we'll see what really happens to your

body

during into Queens and will explode sexual myths and mysteries

from how to get a bigger penis how to find the g-spot

have safe anal sex and how to have sex while pregnant

will also bring the cautionary tales of sexually transmitted infections

and the horror stories about how sex income Rome

and on every show are world famous sex therapist Lou Paget

in Los Angeles will give you your very own personal expectations sessions

on everything from stimulating your g-spot exercises for the perfect penis

coming up tonight will discover have been clinically obese

is no barrier to having great sex

first

most women can orgasm at practice and some can even ejaculate

he's what you need to know about the female orgasm the female orgasm

is also called coming time same for having a baby and

riding and drinking with pleasure a spine-tingling orgasm

is the climax to great sense whether you have yours from full-page tipsense

all sex with your partner by masturbating

there are ways to make you orgasm longer even more explosive

did my orgasms are liaising

really intense and

it just feels like to have gone happen 34-year-old

Taylor Morgan caution has been in a relationship with Pete

26 years but doesn't find orgasm easy

I can its come myself from

tentative sex alone the data suggest that

only 30 percent women can achieve orgasm with traditional penile vaginal

intercourse

the female orgasm is appealing the increase in sexual excitement

the bills to appoint want in ecstasy do small gas make moment

is characterized by surges that muscular contractions in the sex organs

I'll the breathing becomes shallower

and comes faster the heart rate increases

and often a woman can and become quite balm

quite hot and inside the vagina the plans that line the

and blown the China will start to sweat

the piggies women can't orgasm in several places simultaneously

we have unique awsome which is either a clitoral orgasm

or a g-spot orgasm then we have a by gasoline which is

the two orgasms at the same time and and they try gas am

which is the a nice g-spot and clitoris at the same time

I'll say like it when my clip to spur and

a mess stimulated because that list is like

Korean War minutes amazin

just fails really really hard

have a portable gas im some women have reported the expulsion of a mysterious

liquid

however the medical community is divided on whether these claims to

scientifically justifiable

female ejaculation is a phenomenon its hotly debated by

many researches scientists and doctors

we think it might be and we know for certain

definitely happens is that women have experienced what they call an expulsion

affluent the plentiful chasm so the jury's still out on the female

ejaculation

but for some women Jackie 18 fluid during orgasm

is a frequent occurrence for me it started out as a very small amount

and then it just took off from there I got really excited about it like how my

body can do this

and I can jack LA is often as I want

well the orgasm itself does not change on a 2d performer for lease is really

wonderful and it's a whole different experience is just a life of it's

wonderful

I've had some partners who love n some partners who are a little freaked out

first

and it can be such a very erotic thing I mean when you're both covered in a

jacket that's wonderful

you have it all over his face or and you have it all over yourself that

very fine it's very whacked it's very wild sucking a huge turn on in Badin

on especially when it's totally explosive that is just gushing

you're told the guy she's very hot women that Kenny Jackett late

have well-developed keen's plans

teens plans are the residual are you comin to the prostate gland in men

and its surrounding you re for a and with sexual stimulation whether it be

clear on national geo spider

other the skins clans becoming in gore's and

secrete fluid the fluid in

is and has been studied eighty and consistent with

I serum arm blood so it has so you an epic ass in calcium

is also PSA net prostatic specific antigen in some cases

urine in some cases it is you're in some cases the combination between

ejaculate fluid and urine and sometimes it's purely you know the schemes clans

fluid

the spin a lot I'll research done looking at this fluid

but still we don't know whether it is your incall fluid from another part of

the jail

a woman can have an orgasm through tentacles also explain all sex

manual stimulation at the bar by her partner body mapping

of fraud charge on masturbation some women can even have orgasms just by

touching their breasts

of my fantasizing about sex for many women the contact has to be much more

direct

right in the Champions and in a regular mitnick packing

most women will have one orgasm and then they need to take a long break

stop orgy sex play before the next one but some women

can have several in a row they can have multiple orgasms

but about 10 percent women a thought to be

an orgasmic and others frigid

Danish researchers have even discovered that by wearing socks during sex

twice as many women are able to achieve orgasm and how can you spot a woman

who's faking

the difference is that during a real orgasm her muscles may contract

involuntarily

not even a great actress committing bad

most women will have times in the final

achieving orgasm a challenge relationship issues negative thoughts

and simple day-to-day stresses can make it hard to climax

because it could be the is simply not being sexually stimulated an aroused

in the right way for you after the break will be teaching

everything you need to know about most populous sexual position

mission %uh and helpless woman does has signed stop it from happening

great in fulfilling sex life

welcome back to a Girl's Guide to 21st century sex

coming up sexually transmitted disease that has no symptoms

and how being morbidly obese hasn't stopped one woman enjoying a fulfilling

sex life

now

all sex most men love it but 45 percent to women don't like doing it

this done properly you could be one of the most enjoyable parts a sec

supposedly

his Hollywood certified sex educator Lou Paget

with her formula to giving your man the best real sex

good evening and welcome to tonight's 21st century sex workshop

this evening you're going to learn how to give your man the ultimate in sexual

pleasure

also known as blowjobs I did not like the term blowjob I think it's rather a

king

and b-sides we as women know it has nothing to do with glowing

be action at this is more about me making and making your hands and your

mouth

an imposter pagina that's really what you're creating here

you're creating the three sensations the men say absolutely

make for great intercourse and when they first enter one

it's a combination of heat pressure and moisture

say I'm out is creating heat and moisture your hands creating oppression

you it said that your job get yeah my job always her

yeah done and that's good you're using a job for the pressure you attach your

hand to your mouth like this

and imagine there's like little ball bearings right here your job isn't

creating the pressure

your mouth is open its more open and

this is creating the pressure the ring this and the polling

up or straight up and down or and the other thing you doing

your tongue is not just hanging out okay

your town is creating sensation on the back Ari

almost one in sensitive areas your hand in your mouth feel together

you got four main motions you got an up-and-down motion

you got the twisting motion other hand coming out you've got

this is creating the pressure coming out your mouth is creating heat and moisture

in your time is doing a back-and-forth motion I'm gonna show you something

that you can incorporate where your mouth is here different things to do

with the scrotum

these are also called the stepchildren a because they belong to somebody else and

they often get ignored

map their I who do not like that

have been played with it to take measures just like it's not pleasurable

back here is a family show you if I'm able your I'm tired

when you go from point A to point B in a straight line

scratching that's one sensation okay now

when you put in a regular pattern into it is a different thing

altogether feel the difference in you can be doing

this on the scrotum like gently

pulling in if again treated like small break a leg you can gently stretching

with fingers

which build the intensity are the sensation

do not go back to a milder

stimulation or instead of this it's like this

so if your mouth is getting tired

you know and you doing something you things I'm working here and also new

stabbing a man

on the top of your town you basically have dropped your stuff back five

minutes

so that's why if you have your hand incorporated at the same time

you are maintaining the sensation so that's how you give your man

the best oral sex he's ever had and please

do enjoy most diverse only have sex in one or two positions

but there are hundreds of imaginative and adventurous positions to have

intercourse with your partner

each has its own particular benefits for instance

some a more appropriate if you are overweight or pregnant and others are

more suitable chill man has a smaller penis

the first position where abouts demonstrate is often considered the most

likely to give your g-spot

orgasm it's always thought irv is the one most commonly practiced

and will most likely to get you pregnant it's the missionary position

I should warn you that the material you're about to see is a particularly

explicit nature

there are numerous theories as to the origin of the term

missionary position the most accepted it dates from the era of Christian

missionaries

rumor has it that the holy men try to impress me and really sexual practices

at the natives

persuade them that this is the only acceptable sexual position in the eyes

of the Lord

for back home in repressive Victorian England

the position is considered the only one acceptable within marriage

the missionary position remains hugely popular

topping the famous nineteen forties kinsey polled as America's favorite

position

%uh again feather legitimacy in the 1960s

make you pay. deserve the Oxford English Dictionary in 1969

missionary position a position for sexual intercourse with a woman lying on

her back

the man lying on top facing like any sexual position

them to be preceded by food play

essential part intercourse which makes penetration easier ok

ok will play it is extremely important for state just so

you allow both the man and the woman to be fully aroused

you allow the entrance of the vagina to open out

link to the gym to duplicate after the genitive

elongate and to balloon at the end to lot listing to take place without

any discomfort or pain

pull they can involve just normal

kissing can involve touching mass a large

for plea can extend beyond that to manual stimulation with the hands of

the gentle areas up with the gender in the penis or even oral sex

distillation stroking and sucking

make the breast grow in size and the nipples mom

they can increase in height by up to centimeter the genitals become excited

to

the labia flushes to a red color and Consuelo up to three times its normal

size

the stimulation of foreplay causes sixty times the normal amount of blood to rush

the penis

making it fully erect said both bodies and now fully prepared for intercourse

the missionary position is scientifically thought to maximize your

chances at peak production

physiologically and emotionally it's probably the most

intimate sexual union you can achieve it

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the missionary positions quite simply one with the woman lies on the back

will not miss well-known she'll part legs

she may have at least bent Alex straight up neither side

the man will then get on top and

from above usually the woman maneuvering upheld a slight bit

to explore what happens to the body during missionary position

cameras have been attached to the couple skin the woman's middle

man's penis an inside the vagina Duke

in the missionary position the those lips

open slightly this allows the penis to penetrate almost directly

bring to the hilt and in this position you get direct stimulation of the two

trees from the people who love them

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dick lamm's or head of the penis

and friend %um a highly sensitive and he they belong to the China canal

said position is very stimulating firm and work

the woman's nipples direct throughout intercourse penetration in his position

is totally to paul got some for the woman as it stimulates the g-spot

ok

the g-spot is an area a very sensitive tissue

which is just on the front wall the China about 3

to three inches in a slow and during this position the missionary position

the pins will stimulate as the woman approaches on gas and

she may feel her heart beating her vagina throbbing in her pelvis

a climax she experiences involuntary muscle spasms in the afternoon for

vagina and anus

the male orgasm poses seeming to be checking into deep inside the vagina

and it's thought that sex in the missionary position is much more likely

to lead to conceptions

the missionary position allows a pool semen to collect

at the cervix to the neck of the womb and this

can make it easier for women trying to conceive

ok

after orgasm the election subsides rapidly and the major can buy

lips to the John a shrink back both buttons now we turn to free around state

ok you may have thought miss me

position was a little dull thus far more to it than meets the eye

but if you'd like to try something even more adventurous and will be

demonstrating other sexual positions in the coming weeks

a sexually transmitted infections are something we don't

rather ignore but his what can happen if you doing the old

French bread to brothel capping is thought to be the origin of a slang term

for gonorrhea

the tap it remains the most common sexually transmitted infection in the

world

up to two-thirds of new cases I mean young people under the age of 25

many of whom will not know what they have it

connery has been known about is a bacterial infection from 115

produced the cap might not sound that serious

untreated government can cause both serious

in permanent health problems in both men 100

gonorrhea is a bacteria that spread from sexual contact either

oral sex or unprotected vaginal and sex can affect the throat

he can affect the rectum and it can affect the cervix

and you re throw women the unit as amended

going is highly infectious you stand up to a one in four chance of catching it

from infected partner

to unprotected sex

moment diagnosed with gonorrhea is best symptoms

easy to spot slide shows a case the young man can campaigning

up the discharge he concedes that pic yellow discharge come in at the tip of

the penis

the some slight redness around the head of the penis also here this yellow

discharge which had been there for about three days

and it was intensely painful when he went for a pee he described it as Doc

is like peeing broken glass it gonna isn't treated at this stage

the infection can spread up towards the bladder down the chance which connects

with the prostate gland

and into the testicles where it causes severe inflammation

it can cause epidermal kite iz information at the tubes are on

the testicles and the testicles themselves and can be very painful

condition

if you're a man you quite likely to notice if caught gonorrhea

but up to eighty percent of women may not experience any symptoms at all

gonorrhea is more

have a problem from women because they can often have the slightest earned an

old is turned in all

and they don't know they got infection and of course then after by the

infection

can travel up through the uterus into the flow pin tubes

and cause condition called pelvic inflammatory disease

and as for the tubes filled with posts and buckle and get all contorted

and then it becomes a really painful acute condition

and if that's not diagnosed and treated properly the tubes can be damaged

permanently

and one can be left with tubal infertility

and chronic pelvic pain

the dollar it bacteria can attack the body in some quite surprising places

this line to show the young man's got gonorrhea of the I

how it's only get country India well obviously if somebody has a discharge

from the pain is a nickel for pay and the discharged on the finger

and then the road there are you can easily transmitted to yourself like that

are there other ways just use your imagination going is currently on the

rise amongst young people

and particularly inner-cities so what can you do to protect yourself

can I to say no you can say yes

but always with a condom and you can say see

hoops we've made a mistake let's go and get ourselves checked it's amazing that

gonna is still on the rise after all these years

use condoms every time you have sex to protect yourself

and remember you can catch gonorrhea in the throat to from oral sex

now many people acquaint sexiness

with being thin before 2 percent of women are a size 16 0

over so can you still have great sex even when you're overweight

Swedish researchers found in a study of two thousand eight hundred men and women

there were no significant differences in terms of satisfaction

with sex life between obese people and normal-weight people

but in order to achieve that level of satisfaction

overweight people need to make adjustments to their lovemaking

depending on your size

the penis in vagina become more hidden inaccessible is a fact

to not all sexual positions will be achievable to keep

can you still lead a fulfilling sex life back

of course these people can still up six and very full and satisfying six lakes

you don't have to be looking like a keep more stick thin model in order to be

sixty lot of people will find obese people

sixty cultures will find these people 60 for example after Caribbean's Joomla

template heavier women

221 Americans in beer just conditioned in this country into thinking the

skinnies beautiful

is not necessarily the case 36-year-old

Andrew home a is 24 stand and spaced

some the challenges sex brings back on the occasion to have had sex with the

larger woman

it has been quite awkward I for example is is the one time cuz the lady was on

about five footage to have long legs

she could get across me impartially it's been by Alison subsea

you try and find a new position it doesn't mean you can't do it

it's just obviously you've got to work around it its

frustrated sometimes because you miss out on certain things you like to do

because the

your favorites but you can't do 'em to literally for physical reasons

however active the sexual experience choosing the right position is essential

the best sexual position to use as the warm that's comfortable and enjoyed by

both

but clearly sexual activities actually a good form of exercise

even for the morbidly obese on that it's not something that should be discouraged

but what's important is that something is done in a way that is comfortable

that it puts the neither do most significant risk and one which brings

for them both the the back to a satisfactory conclusion

because the months apart his way on his arms and be in a big guy

you know you can go for something before you start to be placed back into a

popular

as well as economic eat you do tend to sweat which isn't nice obviously

be a bacon is not nice for the person and an eighth because obviously

you know probably takes effect you nicer it

it's not the it's not the best thing in the world unfortunate because you can't

really do a lot you mean

you can't move and it's hard to get up because and it's like

when you like not in ay you've got to use a lot of energy to sup

pushes off backup if you need to get out the way if you can't get into certain

position at the time

don't kill the mood don't spoil it just go to something else

yeah

before play but current just keep going to going to go in

and because at the end of the day it's not all about penetration

an alternative to penetration is for the man to have his penis along the fact

found someone's body

this type of sex can be performed with relative ease

but whichever way you choose to have sex pp overweight

need to be cautious the health risks associated with being

very obese for a man are much greater risk of heart disease

both four times the normal rate but only becomes a super obese you looking at

as many as twenty times risk of heart disease forty times the risk for type 2

diabetes

and of course a reptile dysfunction problems having

and maintaining an erection and just physical inability

to become sexually active super size model

Taylor weighs in at over 500 pounds

she has no problem enjoying great sex but I think the biggest myths about

to fat people is that we can't have sex that'd

orgasm is achievable are nothing could be further from the truth Taylor

have no problem attracting the opposite sex back how to head to retain my own

horn but

I do get a lot of letters is because

three years they've drawn pictures

a women like me thinking there's never anybody really out there that looks like

that

and then Here I am a plus we call the men who like large women FA's which

stands for fat admirer

men who like large women consider us so very feminine and very pillow-like

because we do feel like home little clouds

for them

once they found the right partner there is no psychological reasons why people

who are overweight or obese

can enjoy 6 is a boat self-esteem if the

with someone who makes them feel good than the good have a good sex life

while many people who read the wait will enjoy a healthy sex life you must be

careful

if you experience any breathlessness of chest pain during sex

you should contact a doctor still to come

why some women prefer to have sex with other women what they can teach men

about arousal

and organs

welcome back to a Girl's Guide to 21st century sex

one in four women have fantasized about having sex with another woman

is this because they believe only another woman truly knows how to arouse

them

many men to commit to fantasizing about

skewed sex by definition lesbians hot sexually interested in men

Hollywood star Angelina Jolie has been voted as the woman

most lessons want to have sex with it's now

even the cheek and it doesn't take long for Hollywood's finest to embrace a new

trend

Hollywood's most famous lesbian couple in recent years

Ellen DeGeneres and Alexander Henderson split last year after Allen's very

public affair

with Ally McBeal actress Portia de Rossi 0

the word died first appeared in a British newspaper in 1710

to describe to cross dressing Pirates and Bonnie

name read ok

once perceived as an insult dike is now being retrieved prudently by some has

been to categorize themselves because butch dykes

became a masculine all baby dikes if they're young and we stand out

and the term lipstick lesbian sometimes refers to women

who express them all to homicide in the UK

around six percent of the population a gay lesbian or bisexual

it's impossible to determine an exact figure for

because people sexual preference is prone to change throughout their

lifetime

you find a little awesome curious or

questioning women who will experiment with lesbian sex these days

computer the used to be i think thats we society's going and you know that's

that's not unhealthy thing

a lot of women that will bisexual and some lesbian women clearly that will

tell you that

it's about person it might not be necessarily just about quotes body parts

everybody is born with the ability to love the same sex

physically and emotionally but our environment in our experiences

you know deter who we become as a doubt parts of my life I've

just wanted to be with on the intestine man has friends great still fat see them

but I'm not interested in having a relationship with them

there is now face a lesbians today

day can be anywhere anyone

you know they can be judged years they can be teachers they can be down says

and that's what it's all about if I look at feminine women

I cannot town who is gay and who is not but remember they've got this

or about them that just screams out I am a nice p.m. as well where is feminine

women 0

because we had to fight any more feminine girly perhaps

we haven't got that or about us you we're will leave with a mysterious way

like

is she isn't she see contact now

car like that I form more fun

we of a mile we know our bodies really well sorry no

you know I is probably easier for us to give

a woman pleasure than perhaps a man eroticism the touching sensuality the

connection it's about

the bodies together and just the way women are with one another it's just

I almost think it's just an innate tuned feeling that women have with each other

a lot of people think that lesbian sex is on Channel caressing

sweet n nice as opposed to

and man ravaging the woman had with actually but now women can get pretty

nasty with each other and tear each others clothes off and go at it

sex is sax with lesbians

its possible to do every single position

that is from male-female from

you all 69 positions to doggystyle spoons scissors

going on top owner that is exactly what he could do with a guy

and that is there's no boundaries because you can do everything

isn't you put your mind to it even do anything you wanted a

compared to how things used to be women are more sexually months

PT the better able to express a sexual desires and

to experiment and be in control 6 before

you know by pulling up into the seventies and eighties main word almost

in charge sexually there's no

women can be quite happily take control I like to have sex with women pretty

much

the same way as I do with Mom I mean there's not much difference that we use

toy

that Ive a real penis which sometimes even better because they vibrate

sixty-seven percent of women having sex with women

use sex toys as part of their lovemaking and 15 percent admit to using a strap on

but what's the appeal for substitute payments

I feel quite masculine it's not the easiest things to you by the you do have

to get Mac a bit because

my swing is a saying in an hour you have to get the Mac

the kind aggressive a bit i think is in

that masculine famous brand a cock

slideshow not burn internet Victor

ok

because I'm feel like by map I'm taking control

and cuz you you really are taking control and I'm

NN desire really enjoyed a company can day

do yourself and my teacher burden minutes

for more of the day because you by sharing

at the same time so it's very much I conceive

be mandatory and had she can see the time I am A

and we're both working together and I think we've both given each other

pleasure at the same time

you don't have to just use it like front one which you can turn around

Mindy anything with you my one concern capable into each others were ever

United in yeah I just think it's just a more passionate 288

the biggest methods that lesbians awaiting pro real man

can change them there is no

real man out there that can change their perception

then love out the human female folk

I can say the beauty in a woman and

why wouldn't you wanna be overwhelming basically main card their amazing a

gorgeous

I much rather have a pretty beauty faux

I would just stunning go kids that's what's nice

to more now I in nine this makes you think for night

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