1 00:00:07,465 --> 00:00:08,591 ADAM: Who is it? 2 00:00:09,843 --> 00:00:13,054 -Oh, hello! -Hello. I came to see the doctor. 3 00:00:13,847 --> 00:00:16,599 I'm Dr. Gases. Come in and sit down. 4 00:00:16,683 --> 00:00:19,894 Lower your head, You make my job difficult. 5 00:00:19,978 --> 00:00:23,565 Dr. Gas, I'm very sick. Do you think you can help me? 6 00:00:23,648 --> 00:00:24,482 NARRATOR: Doctor Gas. 7 00:00:24,566 --> 00:00:27,193 Yes I can help you with my gases. 8 00:00:27,277 --> 00:00:29,195 With your gases? How does it work? 9 00:00:29,279 --> 00:00:32,949 Am... This It will save your life. 10 00:00:34,409 --> 00:00:35,577 Oh, that makes sense. 11 00:00:35,660 --> 00:00:39,414 (IMITATES GAS SOUND, LAUGHS) 12 00:00:39,497 --> 00:00:42,333 The gases don't work. I still feel sick. 13 00:00:42,417 --> 00:00:46,504 -Do you think it's cancer? -Mm, yes. Yes. 14 00:00:46,588 --> 00:00:49,549 -And what should I do? -Eat my poop 15 00:00:49,632 --> 00:00:51,801 it will make you feel better. 16 00:00:51,885 --> 00:00:54,637 -Your poop? -Yeah. (LAUGHS) 17 00:00:54,721 --> 00:00:56,431 NATHAN FIELDER: Do you want me to eat your poop? 18 00:00:56,514 --> 00:00:58,600 Yes, eat my poop! 19 00:00:58,683 --> 00:00:59,809 (IMITATES GAS SOUND) 20 00:01:01,102 --> 00:01:02,187 (EXHALE DEEPLY) 21 00:01:03,021 --> 00:01:04,063 ADAM: Eat it! 22 00:01:04,522 --> 00:01:08,777 It's poop. (LAUGHS) 23 00:01:08,860 --> 00:01:12,030 -Finish it. All. -NATHAN: Okay. 24 00:01:12,697 --> 00:01:14,365 ADAM: It's crunchy. 25 00:01:15,366 --> 00:01:18,119 NATHAN: Wow! I think I'm cured. 26 00:01:18,203 --> 00:01:19,954 He always eats poop. 27 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:23,416 -(SNACKS LIPS) -That's right. 28 00:01:23,500 --> 00:01:25,627 Wow, wow. 29 00:01:25,710 --> 00:01:27,712 -What do you think? -Yeah. 30 00:01:27,796 --> 00:01:29,756 I think that was disgusting. 31 00:01:30,757 --> 00:01:31,841 It was his idea. 32 00:01:31,925 --> 00:01:33,176 -Was it? -Yeah. 33 00:01:33,259 --> 00:01:34,636 Oh really? 34 00:01:34,719 --> 00:01:36,387 -You don't believe me? -No. 35 00:01:36,471 --> 00:01:37,263 NARRATOR: The rehearsal. 36 00:01:37,347 --> 00:01:38,848 ♪ (EXTRAVAGANT MUSIC PLAYS) ♪ 37 00:01:38,932 --> 00:01:41,309 NATHAN: Very good, where is adam? 38 00:01:41,392 --> 00:01:47,899 Is it under this chair? No. Is it under this chair? 39 00:01:47,982 --> 00:01:51,069 -There it is. There it is. -(LAUGHS) No, no. 40 00:01:51,152 --> 00:01:52,946 NATHAN: Since I came back to convert Adam 41 00:01:53,029 --> 00:01:54,072 in a six year old child, 42 00:01:54,155 --> 00:01:56,115 I was determined to take seriously 43 00:01:56,199 --> 00:01:57,659 my duties as a father. 44 00:01:57,742 --> 00:01:59,953 (ADAM EXCLAIMS) (LAUGHS) 45 00:02:00,036 --> 00:02:01,329 -(ANGELA LAUGHS) -NATHAN: I realized 46 00:02:01,412 --> 00:02:02,497 that neither Angela nor I 47 00:02:02,580 --> 00:02:04,207 we would get something of this essay 48 00:02:04,290 --> 00:02:05,500 unless both we would be 49 00:02:05,583 --> 00:02:07,126 totally committed to it. 50 00:02:07,210 --> 00:02:08,294 Good, good. 51 00:02:08,378 --> 00:02:09,379 NATHAN: so i decided 52 00:02:09,462 --> 00:02:11,381 that there would be no other trials besides this one. 53 00:02:11,464 --> 00:02:13,299 -I won. -NATHAN: What? Oh. (LAUGHS) 54 00:02:13,383 --> 00:02:14,551 -Yes! -You won! 55 00:02:14,634 --> 00:02:17,011 NATHAN: Just. I would dedicate myself to my family. 56 00:02:19,013 --> 00:02:23,560 The Holy Spirit came down from the sky in the shape of a dove... 57 00:02:23,643 --> 00:02:25,937 -Mm-mm. -...and landed in front of Jesus, 58 00:02:26,020 --> 00:02:29,274 then God said: "This is my son." 59 00:02:29,357 --> 00:02:30,525 ANGELA: Mm. 60 00:02:30,608 --> 00:02:32,527 NATHAN: When I joined for the first time to the family, 61 00:02:32,610 --> 00:02:34,696 Angela had expressed strong opinions 62 00:02:34,779 --> 00:02:36,155 about Adam's education. 63 00:02:36,239 --> 00:02:39,701 I think of a study plan at home based on faith. 64 00:02:39,784 --> 00:02:41,202 -What do you think? -Yes, it sounds good. 65 00:02:41,286 --> 00:02:43,371 -I... -ANGELA: Whatever, 66 00:02:43,454 --> 00:02:45,748 you know, like Monday to Friday... 67 00:02:45,832 --> 00:02:47,292 NATHAN: I was raised as a jew, 68 00:02:47,375 --> 00:02:50,086 and I still celebrate all the parties and stuff. 69 00:02:50,169 --> 00:02:51,379 But because Angela 70 00:02:51,462 --> 00:02:53,590 she was so passionate for Christianity, 71 00:02:53,673 --> 00:02:56,175 I thought I could do it in his own way. 72 00:02:56,259 --> 00:02:58,761 "And a hundred million were put standing to attend to him. 73 00:02:58,845 --> 00:03:01,014 His clothes were white like snow 74 00:03:01,097 --> 00:03:03,600 Her hair was like the whitest wool." 75 00:03:05,476 --> 00:03:06,978 -Wow. -Yeah. 76 00:03:07,061 --> 00:03:08,771 NATHAN: But when Adam I was three years old, 77 00:03:08,855 --> 00:03:11,691 my parents came to visit us from Vancouver, Canada. 78 00:03:11,774 --> 00:03:13,902 And I invited them to do a field day 79 00:03:13,985 --> 00:03:16,613 we are trying to raise him together and... 80 00:03:16,696 --> 00:03:17,488 Oh. 81 00:03:17,572 --> 00:03:19,032 ...we make our best effort... 82 00:03:19,115 --> 00:03:19,866 Okay. 83 00:03:19,949 --> 00:03:21,075 NATHAN: We face the challenges. 84 00:03:21,159 --> 00:03:22,243 Okay. 85 00:03:22,327 --> 00:03:25,121 Of course there are many things I don't know, and I feel like... 86 00:03:25,204 --> 00:03:26,915 She has been very generous with... 87 00:03:26,998 --> 00:03:29,167 -She is very well informed. -ANGELA: Yes, 88 00:03:29,250 --> 00:03:31,294 I feel like I'm getting clarity. and perspective 89 00:03:31,377 --> 00:03:32,837 of my relationship with God, 90 00:03:32,921 --> 00:03:36,132 and to learn about it, and what his word says. 91 00:03:36,215 --> 00:03:37,133 Mm. 92 00:03:37,216 --> 00:03:38,635 NATHAN: What was it? the book you suggested? Or... 93 00:03:38,718 --> 00:03:39,552 John 1:1. 94 00:03:39,636 --> 00:03:41,054 -DEB: And certain things... -John 1:1. 95 00:03:41,137 --> 00:03:42,013 ANGELA: Romans 8. 96 00:03:42,096 --> 00:03:43,598 -Certain things... -NATHAN: Romans 8. 97 00:03:43,681 --> 00:03:45,099 -DEB: Excuse me? -Romans 8. 98 00:03:46,559 --> 00:03:48,227 Mm. Romans 8. 99 00:03:48,311 --> 00:03:50,813 NATHAN: And then about the food, they talked to me. 100 00:03:50,897 --> 00:03:51,773 I didn't realize 101 00:03:51,856 --> 00:03:53,942 What were you raising? the child with her. 102 00:03:54,025 --> 00:03:55,401 -Yes, I am. -Okay. 103 00:03:55,485 --> 00:03:57,695 Somehow, I got into this after her. 104 00:03:57,779 --> 00:03:58,905 -Yeah. -We are... 105 00:03:58,988 --> 00:04:02,492 Well, I think... you know, there's nothing wrong 106 00:04:02,575 --> 00:04:04,953 to talk about things with which you have grown up, 107 00:04:05,036 --> 00:04:06,913 the traditions the ones you've grown up with 108 00:04:06,996 --> 00:04:09,832 and the values that also you've learned, you know? 109 00:04:09,916 --> 00:04:12,251 NATHAN: At that time, I really didn't understand 110 00:04:12,335 --> 00:04:14,295 why my parents they seemed to care 111 00:04:14,379 --> 00:04:17,340 how I raised a fake child with a fake partner. 112 00:04:17,423 --> 00:04:20,760 But it seems that she It's really in... 113 00:04:20,843 --> 00:04:23,846 all this, you know. And I don't want to ignore it. 114 00:04:23,930 --> 00:04:26,140 and sometimes you feel which is easier 115 00:04:26,224 --> 00:04:28,393 accept things instead of... (SLOCKS LIPS) 116 00:04:28,476 --> 00:04:30,478 ...you know, deal with tension. 117 00:04:31,187 --> 00:04:32,522 -NATHAN: Yes. -Yes. 118 00:04:32,605 --> 00:04:35,191 NATHAN: But the tone my mother made me realize 119 00:04:35,274 --> 00:04:37,819 that they had seen this before. 120 00:04:37,902 --> 00:04:40,613 My relationship with Angela was starting to be 121 00:04:40,697 --> 00:04:43,992 like real relationships that he had had in the past. 122 00:04:44,075 --> 00:04:45,201 Can you go down there 123 00:04:45,284 --> 00:04:46,828 and take the cookies out of the oven? 124 00:04:46,911 --> 00:04:48,204 -NATHAN: Yes. -Thank you. 125 00:04:48,287 --> 00:04:49,872 -NATHAN: Now? -Yeah. 126 00:04:50,415 --> 00:04:51,290 Okay. 127 00:04:51,374 --> 00:04:52,667 ANGELA: Use the oven mitt. 128 00:04:52,750 --> 00:04:55,128 NATHAN: I have a tendency to let my partner 129 00:04:55,211 --> 00:04:57,255 take the reins and the decisions 130 00:04:57,338 --> 00:04:59,549 like a way to avoid conflicts. 131 00:04:59,632 --> 00:05:01,801 Mm. (SNACKS LIPS) Two more minutes. 132 00:05:01,884 --> 00:05:02,885 Two... Okay. 133 00:05:02,969 --> 00:05:04,721 NATHAN: And by not asking Angela 134 00:05:04,804 --> 00:05:07,223 who raised Adam in Judaism too, 135 00:05:07,306 --> 00:05:09,475 was falling in my old habits. 136 00:05:09,559 --> 00:05:11,436 we love you in the name of Jesus. 137 00:05:11,519 --> 00:05:12,812 -Amen. -Amen. 138 00:05:12,895 --> 00:05:15,064 (EXHALE) Amen. 139 00:05:15,148 --> 00:05:17,191 NATHAN: But this could be an opportunity 140 00:05:17,275 --> 00:05:18,651 To change those habits, 141 00:05:18,735 --> 00:05:20,528 to practice get what i want 142 00:05:20,611 --> 00:05:23,448 without converting in a fight. 143 00:05:23,531 --> 00:05:25,867 So I decided to wait until winter, 144 00:05:25,950 --> 00:05:28,202 because I thought to speak of vacation plans 145 00:05:28,286 --> 00:05:31,414 would be a good way to facilitate the conversation. 146 00:05:32,665 --> 00:05:36,753 But it turns out that winter It is very expensive to maintain. 147 00:05:39,213 --> 00:05:42,300 So I knew I couldn't postpone it for a long time. 148 00:05:42,383 --> 00:05:47,430 ♪ (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) ♪ 149 00:05:58,399 --> 00:06:00,902 ♪ (MUSIC CONCLUDES) ♪ 150 00:06:04,155 --> 00:06:05,782 I think, since it's... 151 00:06:06,741 --> 00:06:08,409 winter, ah... 152 00:06:08,493 --> 00:06:11,954 we should talk about our vacation, don't you think? 153 00:06:12,038 --> 00:06:14,582 Yes. Christmas It is very important to me 154 00:06:14,665 --> 00:06:16,459 and there are many things what I want to do, 155 00:06:16,542 --> 00:06:18,628 and we should start planning. 156 00:06:18,711 --> 00:06:20,004 Sooner rather than later. 157 00:06:20,088 --> 00:06:21,297 Yes. Ah... 158 00:06:21,380 --> 00:06:26,010 I was wondering if... ah... maybe we should... 159 00:06:26,094 --> 00:06:27,303 How would you feel 160 00:06:27,387 --> 00:06:31,015 by including some Judaism in Adam's life too? 161 00:06:32,225 --> 00:06:34,102 Am... 162 00:06:34,185 --> 00:06:35,478 (SNACKS LIPS) Very good. 163 00:06:35,561 --> 00:06:37,313 -♪ (SOFT MUSIC PLAYS) ♪ -NATHAN: I had brought 164 00:06:37,396 --> 00:06:39,315 to one of my graduates of the Fielder method 165 00:06:39,398 --> 00:06:40,775 to help me to understand better 166 00:06:40,858 --> 00:06:42,568 to this woman with whom I was living 167 00:06:42,652 --> 00:06:44,695 and how to carry this sensitive conversation. 168 00:06:44,779 --> 00:06:46,322 Very good, I thought. that all this experience 169 00:06:46,405 --> 00:06:48,658 it was going to be for me, and now suddenly 170 00:06:48,741 --> 00:06:50,284 It seems to be for you. 171 00:06:50,368 --> 00:06:51,661 But in a real relationship, 172 00:06:51,744 --> 00:06:53,788 your partner will have feelings different from yours, right? 173 00:06:53,871 --> 00:06:56,082 Yes, but I know that they would be Christians. 174 00:06:56,165 --> 00:06:58,835 But people change their minds all the time, right? 175 00:06:58,918 --> 00:07:01,879 -Were you always a Christian? -(EXHALE DEEPLY) 176 00:07:01,963 --> 00:07:03,131 NATHAN: Exactly! 177 00:07:03,214 --> 00:07:05,466 NATHAN: There couldn't have been. flaws in my approach. 178 00:07:05,550 --> 00:07:08,761 So, I built a replica exact of our entire house 179 00:07:08,845 --> 00:07:10,972 so that every detail was correct. 180 00:07:11,055 --> 00:07:11,973 NATHAN'S FRIEND: Hello. 181 00:07:12,056 --> 00:07:13,182 NATHAN: Hello, come in. This is Angela. 182 00:07:13,266 --> 00:07:14,684 -This is Adam. -NATHAN'S FRIEND: Hello. 183 00:07:14,767 --> 00:07:15,852 How are you? Hello, Adam. 184 00:07:15,935 --> 00:07:17,353 NATHAN: I made the actress was passed 185 00:07:17,436 --> 00:07:19,522 for a new babysitter that he had hired. 186 00:07:19,605 --> 00:07:22,150 Thus, you would be able to observe secretly to Angela 187 00:07:22,233 --> 00:07:24,318 and learn all about what it was like. 188 00:07:24,402 --> 00:07:26,571 Nathan and I are not... 189 00:07:26,654 --> 00:07:28,156 -We have never... -Okay. 190 00:07:28,239 --> 00:07:30,324 These are the teas he drinks. 191 00:07:30,408 --> 00:07:32,577 -This is his handwriting. Do you see her? -Mm-mm. 192 00:07:32,660 --> 00:07:35,413 Do you think it has been healthy for you to be here? 193 00:07:35,496 --> 00:07:39,584 (ANGELA SNACKS LIPS, EXHALE) Mm... 194 00:07:39,667 --> 00:07:42,545 NATHAN: Making my essay be as real as life. 195 00:07:42,628 --> 00:07:45,423 Well, well, now I feel that you are only interested 196 00:07:45,506 --> 00:07:47,049 in winning an argument and not in having 197 00:07:47,133 --> 00:07:49,051 -a conversation with me. -No no. That's absurd. 198 00:07:49,135 --> 00:07:51,220 -ANGELA: So... -No, no. This could work. 199 00:07:51,304 --> 00:07:53,389 There are many couples who... 200 00:07:53,472 --> 00:07:55,474 They have different religions in a relationship, 201 00:07:55,558 --> 00:07:56,767 -it is very common. -ANGELA: Okay. 202 00:07:56,851 --> 00:07:59,562 sometimes when you concentrate on something, 203 00:07:59,645 --> 00:08:01,022 you can't seem to see nothing more. 204 00:08:01,105 --> 00:08:03,983 And I feel like I don't have room to object. 205 00:08:04,066 --> 00:08:06,903 We are... We are... This is where we just talk. 206 00:08:06,986 --> 00:08:09,113 Yes you are saying what are we talking about, 207 00:08:09,197 --> 00:08:10,531 but this is your project. 208 00:08:10,615 --> 00:08:12,742 It's not really that I can give my opinion. (LAUGHTER) 209 00:08:15,494 --> 00:08:16,704 (LAUGHTER) It's just that you... 210 00:08:19,123 --> 00:08:22,001 Did you know that in fragrances 211 00:08:22,084 --> 00:08:24,003 there may be more than 1000 qui-- 212 00:08:24,086 --> 00:08:25,922 1000 chemicals made by man? 213 00:08:26,005 --> 00:08:27,924 -Oh really? -Oh really. That's how it is. 214 00:08:28,007 --> 00:08:30,092 Always chemicals, but, um, yeah. 215 00:08:30,176 --> 00:08:34,805 In fact, sometimes I boil a pot of cloves, 216 00:08:34,889 --> 00:08:36,390 to do make the house smell good. 217 00:08:36,474 --> 00:08:37,767 -Nails? -(NODS) 218 00:08:37,850 --> 00:08:39,519 I thought you said sacks. 219 00:08:39,602 --> 00:08:41,854 -(ANGELA LAUGHS) -(CLEARS THROWS, COUGHS) 220 00:08:41,938 --> 00:08:43,940 Smell of fresh clothes. Yes. 221 00:08:44,023 --> 00:08:49,946 Um... And obviously, It's winter and... they're coming... 222 00:08:50,029 --> 00:08:52,615 -holidays and... -Mm-mm. 223 00:08:52,698 --> 00:08:55,826 You know, It's Christmas time and... 224 00:08:56,702 --> 00:08:59,497 like someone who is Jewish, 225 00:09:00,289 --> 00:09:01,040 and... 226 00:09:01,123 --> 00:09:04,543 you know, could there be a way 227 00:09:04,627 --> 00:09:07,046 to celebrate Hanukkah too, 228 00:09:07,129 --> 00:09:09,715 and maybe even beyond that, 229 00:09:09,799 --> 00:09:11,801 you know, raise Adam as a Jew, 230 00:09:11,884 --> 00:09:14,178 eh, in Judaism? 231 00:09:16,722 --> 00:09:20,059 -In your faith? -NATHAN: Yes, in his faith, yes. 232 00:09:20,142 --> 00:09:24,522 I think the answer is no on the part of faith, because... 233 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,776 Jesus is the way, truth and life. 234 00:09:28,859 --> 00:09:32,029 -So... -I don't try to do 235 00:09:32,113 --> 00:09:34,782 that you compromise your beliefs. I just... 236 00:09:34,865 --> 00:09:37,118 Everything I'm doing I mean, well, there's a... 237 00:09:37,201 --> 00:09:38,202 Can I... 238 00:09:39,328 --> 00:09:40,830 raise him a little too? 239 00:09:40,913 --> 00:09:43,249 And then we do it all the two together. 240 00:09:43,332 --> 00:09:46,502 Both in both, Still, we must... 241 00:09:46,586 --> 00:09:51,674 I, unfortunately, cannot participate in Judaism. 242 00:09:52,425 --> 00:09:54,844 Because Judaism denies 243 00:09:54,927 --> 00:09:57,263 that Christ came and died for us. 244 00:09:58,139 --> 00:09:59,265 And I can't deny that. 245 00:09:59,348 --> 00:10:01,892 -Well... -And I wouldn't raise a child 246 00:10:01,976 --> 00:10:03,102 to deny that... 247 00:10:03,936 --> 00:10:05,855 because it's the truth. 248 00:10:05,938 --> 00:10:07,815 ♪ (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC PLAYS) ♪ 249 00:10:07,898 --> 00:10:09,567 NATHAN: I wanted to. that everything would be maintained 250 00:10:09,650 --> 00:10:11,402 as calm as possible. 251 00:10:11,485 --> 00:10:12,987 Why don't we talk of something else? 252 00:10:13,070 --> 00:10:14,822 -Oh, very good. -Um... 253 00:10:17,074 --> 00:10:18,451 What is your favorite movie? 254 00:10:18,534 --> 00:10:21,120 (EXCLAIMS) I love the movie Apocalypto. 255 00:10:21,954 --> 00:10:23,914 -(LAUGHS) Have you seen her? -Yeah. 256 00:10:23,998 --> 00:10:26,334 I think Mel Gibson he makes very good movies. 257 00:10:26,417 --> 00:10:27,460 Oh yes, it's a classic. 258 00:10:27,543 --> 00:10:29,378 ANGELA: Yes. It's one. of my favorite directors. 259 00:10:29,462 --> 00:10:30,421 Yes, yes. 260 00:10:30,504 --> 00:10:32,840 I like your technique of chamber in which it floats. 261 00:10:33,466 --> 00:10:34,759 It's a little... 262 00:10:36,010 --> 00:10:37,178 I think he said... 263 00:10:38,804 --> 00:10:40,598 bad things about the Jews and... 264 00:10:43,059 --> 00:10:44,018 Mm-mm. 265 00:10:44,644 --> 00:10:45,770 (MONS) 266 00:10:49,899 --> 00:10:50,816 NATHAN: But things 267 00:10:50,900 --> 00:10:52,318 quickly They took another direction. 268 00:10:52,401 --> 00:10:54,653 ANGELA: You pretended. that you ate feces. 269 00:10:54,737 --> 00:10:57,865 -He said it. And I followed him. -With a child. No. 270 00:10:57,948 --> 00:10:59,867 -NATHAN: What does "no" mean? -It is not appropriate. 271 00:10:59,950 --> 00:11:01,285 Do you know comedy of sketches? 272 00:11:01,369 --> 00:11:02,745 -ANGELA: Yes, I never said... -You have to... 273 00:11:02,828 --> 00:11:04,663 I watch Key and Peele, I know sketch comedy. 274 00:11:04,747 --> 00:11:06,248 Good. you have to intensify the sketch, 275 00:11:06,332 --> 00:11:07,541 -you understand? -Let me tell you something. 276 00:11:07,625 --> 00:11:10,169 -If you start with gas, you... -It's an adult topic. 277 00:11:10,252 --> 00:11:12,046 Have you finished washing the dishes? 278 00:11:12,129 --> 00:11:13,881 -ANGELA: Yes. -Okay. 279 00:11:19,887 --> 00:11:21,722 ♪ (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC CONCLUDE) ♪ 280 00:11:23,224 --> 00:11:27,395 (BIRDS CHIRING) 281 00:11:29,105 --> 00:11:30,398 ♪ (INSTRUMENTAL MUSIC PLAYS) ♪ 282 00:11:30,481 --> 00:11:33,901 Okay, can you hold these? Good. Here, put on your jacket. 283 00:11:34,485 --> 00:11:35,653 I signed him up for swimming. 284 00:11:35,736 --> 00:11:37,238 -See you later. -Good, wonderful. 285 00:11:37,321 --> 00:11:38,864 -Have fun -NATHAN: Okay. Bye bye. 286 00:11:38,948 --> 00:11:40,116 -Bye bye. -ANGELA: Goodbye. 287 00:11:40,199 --> 00:11:42,076 NATHAN: As much as everyone let's love Mel Gibson 288 00:11:42,159 --> 00:11:43,244 as director, 289 00:11:43,327 --> 00:11:46,080 he is not the director of this program. 290 00:11:46,163 --> 00:11:47,206 And in this program, 291 00:11:47,289 --> 00:11:50,042 I can decide what religion is presented. 292 00:11:50,126 --> 00:11:52,002 What do you know about the, ah... 293 00:11:53,212 --> 00:11:55,423 -Jews? -That? 294 00:11:56,424 --> 00:11:58,300 Judaism, the Jews. 295 00:11:58,926 --> 00:12:00,094 Mm. 296 00:12:00,719 --> 00:12:01,887 What's that? 297 00:12:02,513 --> 00:12:03,597 Here you go. 298 00:12:05,182 --> 00:12:08,227 Good. This is a kippah. 299 00:12:08,310 --> 00:12:12,773 And it's a special hat that only Jews use. 300 00:12:12,857 --> 00:12:14,942 You don't get one of these if you are a Christian. 301 00:12:15,025 --> 00:12:17,445 -Are you Christian or Jewish? -Mm... Jewish. 302 00:12:17,528 --> 00:12:20,489 Jew. Okay, very good. Well, now you have one. 303 00:12:25,661 --> 00:12:26,620 Nice place, huh? 304 00:12:26,704 --> 00:12:28,456 NATHAN: I hadn't been. to a synagogue in years 305 00:12:28,539 --> 00:12:29,707 because it's very boring. 306 00:12:29,790 --> 00:12:31,041 -Hello. -NATHAN: Shabbat shalom. 307 00:12:31,125 --> 00:12:32,293 WOMAN: Shabbat shalom. 308 00:12:32,376 --> 00:12:33,752 NATHAN: But I couldn't help it. feel excited 309 00:12:33,836 --> 00:12:36,881 to reconnect with my faith through my son's eyes. 310 00:12:36,964 --> 00:12:38,424 (VOCALIZING) 311 00:12:38,507 --> 00:12:41,051 ADAM: Do Jews speak English? 312 00:12:41,135 --> 00:12:43,846 NATHAN: Yes, yes. I am Jewish. And I speak English. 313 00:12:43,929 --> 00:12:44,930 ADAM: So... 314 00:12:45,014 --> 00:12:46,599 NATHAN: But Adam. I had many questions, 315 00:12:46,682 --> 00:12:50,311 and I found myself unable to give you clear answers. 316 00:12:50,394 --> 00:12:52,730 ADAM: Why do women Don't they wear hats? 317 00:12:52,813 --> 00:12:54,982 NATHAN: Uh... Actually, I don't know. 318 00:12:55,065 --> 00:12:57,151 ADAM: What are they saying? 319 00:12:57,234 --> 00:12:59,904 NATHAN: Oh... I think they are saying... 320 00:13:01,030 --> 00:13:01,947 Ah... 321 00:13:03,407 --> 00:13:05,784 NATHAN: So I decided that the next step 322 00:13:05,868 --> 00:13:07,036 would be to get him a Jewish tutor, 323 00:13:07,119 --> 00:13:09,497 since that's what I would do in real life. 324 00:13:09,580 --> 00:13:10,998 -I have a question. -Tell me. 325 00:13:11,081 --> 00:13:13,167 Am, Jesus? Was he the first Jew? 326 00:13:14,460 --> 00:13:16,212 Jesus? No no. 327 00:13:16,295 --> 00:13:19,840 The first Jew His name was Abraham. 328 00:13:22,134 --> 00:13:23,177 (SIGH) 329 00:13:23,844 --> 00:13:25,095 Very well, bow your head. 330 00:13:25,179 --> 00:13:26,597 I also needed make sure 331 00:13:26,680 --> 00:13:28,224 that Adam had a clear story 332 00:13:28,307 --> 00:13:30,518 in case Angela I asked him a question. 333 00:13:30,601 --> 00:13:32,561 So, every day, before getting home, 334 00:13:32,645 --> 00:13:34,438 We rehearsed what I would say. 335 00:13:34,522 --> 00:13:36,315 what did you learn in swimming today? 336 00:13:36,398 --> 00:13:38,943 Oh, I learned to swim backstroke. 337 00:13:39,026 --> 00:13:40,945 Ah well, so You looked up. 338 00:13:41,028 --> 00:13:42,947 -What color was the ceiling? -Am... 339 00:13:43,030 --> 00:13:45,032 -It was white. -Was there a lifeguard? 340 00:13:45,115 --> 00:13:46,575 -in the pool? -Ah... Yes. 341 00:13:46,659 --> 00:13:50,329 -And what was his name? -His name was Bob. 342 00:13:51,372 --> 00:13:53,541 -ANGELA: Hello. -ADAM: Hello. 343 00:13:53,624 --> 00:13:56,585 -You're all wet. -It was very fun. 344 00:13:56,669 --> 00:13:57,920 (BREATH DEEP) 345 00:13:58,003 --> 00:14:02,758 And my teacher was Ukrainian and wore a blue swimsuit. 346 00:14:02,841 --> 00:14:04,301 -Oh really? -Mm-mm. 347 00:14:04,843 --> 00:14:05,844 (ANGELA LAUGHS) 348 00:14:05,928 --> 00:14:07,638 The whistle The life jacket was red. 349 00:14:07,721 --> 00:14:09,515 -Good. Oh, good. -Oh. 350 00:14:09,598 --> 00:14:11,559 Yes. Well, I think that you should go to your room. 351 00:14:11,642 --> 00:14:13,519 -I think he had a... -ANGELA: Very good. 352 00:14:13,602 --> 00:14:16,021 NATHAN: There's something tired, a little. 353 00:14:16,105 --> 00:14:19,149 -(EXHALES DEEPLY) Yes. -Would you like a towel? 354 00:14:19,817 --> 00:14:21,485 Yes, yes. I'll give you one. 355 00:14:21,569 --> 00:14:24,446 They got very wet in the water... the children. 356 00:14:24,530 --> 00:14:28,158 ♪ (INSTRUMENTAL MUSIC PLAYS) ♪ 357 00:14:28,242 --> 00:14:29,785 NATHAN: For the first time in a long time, 358 00:14:29,868 --> 00:14:32,204 I felt there was harmony in our home. 359 00:14:32,288 --> 00:14:33,914 -Hey, what do you want to put there? -I like that one. 360 00:14:33,998 --> 00:14:36,208 -ADAM: I want the spaceship. -Okay, hang it up. 361 00:14:36,292 --> 00:14:38,335 NATHAN: We both could. get what we wanted 362 00:14:38,419 --> 00:14:40,004 to raise this child. 363 00:14:40,087 --> 00:14:41,505 We will feed the chickens. 364 00:14:44,550 --> 00:14:45,718 Good. Here. 365 00:14:48,095 --> 00:14:50,055 "Under the reign of king Antiochus, 366 00:14:50,139 --> 00:14:52,474 many jews They feared for their lives. 367 00:14:52,558 --> 00:14:55,728 And they were forced to follow the king's orders. 368 00:14:55,811 --> 00:14:57,896 This group was called the Maccabees." 369 00:14:57,980 --> 00:14:59,982 Can you say "Ha-nu-cá"? 370 00:15:00,065 --> 00:15:01,692 -I hear you. -"Ha-nu-cá." 371 00:15:01,775 --> 00:15:04,653 MIRIAM: Very good. You are very intelligent. 372 00:15:04,737 --> 00:15:07,156 Very good. Could we use the bathroom? 373 00:15:07,239 --> 00:15:07,948 Fast? 374 00:15:08,949 --> 00:15:10,576 -Yeah. Clear. -Thank you. Come on. 375 00:15:10,659 --> 00:15:12,953 NATHAN: But when we started to use Miriam's shower 376 00:15:13,037 --> 00:15:14,455 after each class... 377 00:15:14,538 --> 00:15:15,664 Is the temperature good? 378 00:15:15,748 --> 00:15:17,791 NATHAN: ...started to ask questions. 379 00:15:17,875 --> 00:15:19,168 What happened to you? 380 00:15:19,251 --> 00:15:20,502 NATHAN: You know, he had a... 381 00:15:20,586 --> 00:15:21,670 (EXHALE) 382 00:15:21,754 --> 00:15:23,839 ADAM: The shower turned on. accidentally and I slipped. 383 00:15:23,922 --> 00:15:25,132 It's... it's okay, it's okay. 384 00:15:25,215 --> 00:15:26,550 It's, uh, um... 385 00:15:29,094 --> 00:15:29,887 Ah... 386 00:15:33,015 --> 00:15:34,683 The woman I'm with... 387 00:15:35,601 --> 00:15:37,394 raising Adam... 388 00:15:37,478 --> 00:15:39,563 He doesn't want me to be Jewish, and... 389 00:15:41,023 --> 00:15:45,319 I'm having to do it hidden from her. 390 00:15:46,737 --> 00:15:49,907 Wow. I figured it out for the questions you asked me. 391 00:15:49,990 --> 00:15:51,450 You already know. 392 00:15:51,533 --> 00:15:54,328 he asked me if the Jews killed Jesus. 393 00:15:54,411 --> 00:15:57,373 I spoke with her to commit 394 00:15:57,456 --> 00:15:59,166 -maybe it could be both. -Mm-mm. 395 00:15:59,249 --> 00:16:02,086 And she thinks that Judaism it is a species 396 00:16:02,169 --> 00:16:03,545 insult to Christianity. 397 00:16:03,629 --> 00:16:05,255 So, you don't want... 398 00:16:05,339 --> 00:16:06,131 -Oh... -And... 399 00:16:06,215 --> 00:16:08,050 I wouldn't stand for that, Nathan. 400 00:16:08,133 --> 00:16:09,927 NATHAN: Miriam was making me feel 401 00:16:10,010 --> 00:16:11,053 like a bad jew. 402 00:16:11,136 --> 00:16:14,014 For centuries and centuries, the Christian people 403 00:16:14,098 --> 00:16:18,477 I was terrified of... of the Jews because their religion 404 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:22,981 was older and, you know, "the real one." 405 00:16:23,065 --> 00:16:27,695 And that's why they tried kill us for thousands of years. 406 00:16:27,778 --> 00:16:31,031 So, for me, It's not right, you know? 407 00:16:31,865 --> 00:16:34,743 You have to face it. You are 38. 408 00:16:37,621 --> 00:16:38,706 You are not a child. 409 00:16:38,789 --> 00:16:40,124 -Yeah. -MIRIAM: Do you know? 410 00:16:40,207 --> 00:16:43,085 NATHAN: And I was realizing. what to be a jewish father 411 00:16:43,168 --> 00:16:45,295 it was more complicated than I thought. 412 00:16:45,379 --> 00:16:46,755 MIRIAM: I already heard your part. 413 00:16:46,839 --> 00:16:48,590 I want to listen what she has to say 414 00:16:48,674 --> 00:16:50,759 -about his posture. -Do you want to talk to her? 415 00:16:50,843 --> 00:16:53,095 Well I could give you something of that knowledge 416 00:16:53,178 --> 00:16:55,097 I told you to study. 417 00:16:55,180 --> 00:16:57,349 NATHAN: Miriam I wanted to talk to Angela 418 00:16:57,433 --> 00:16:59,226 about how we were raising Adam. 419 00:16:59,309 --> 00:17:01,979 And I thought maybe could be a good idea. 420 00:17:03,647 --> 00:17:06,358 Do you want to rehearse a little? 421 00:17:08,444 --> 00:17:11,405 I like to be direct. (GENTLE LAUGHTER) 422 00:17:11,488 --> 00:17:12,781 (NERVOUS LAUGHTER) 423 00:17:12,865 --> 00:17:15,659 NATHAN: Miriam knows. more about religion than me. 424 00:17:16,493 --> 00:17:18,370 Maybe she could convince her. 425 00:17:18,454 --> 00:17:20,372 -This is my friend Miriam. -ANGELA: Hello, Miriam. 426 00:17:20,456 --> 00:17:22,458 -Hello. Nice to meet you. -ANGELA: The pleasure is mine. 427 00:17:22,541 --> 00:17:25,961 -It's a pleasure. -So it conflicts you 428 00:17:26,044 --> 00:17:28,589 let Judaism be part 429 00:17:28,672 --> 00:17:30,674 -from the life of Adam. -Mm. 430 00:17:30,758 --> 00:17:33,802 MIRIAM: Can you tell me why or what? 431 00:17:33,886 --> 00:17:37,890 I wouldn't describe the way I feel conflicted. 432 00:17:37,973 --> 00:17:42,311 I would use different words. I could say, um... 433 00:17:42,394 --> 00:17:44,938 (SNACKS LIPS) ...that I am against. 434 00:17:45,481 --> 00:17:46,607 Like faith. 435 00:17:46,690 --> 00:17:48,108 -I understand. -ANGELA: Um, Judaism 436 00:17:48,192 --> 00:17:50,652 denies that Christ has returned yet. 437 00:17:50,736 --> 00:17:52,696 What about the values of judaism 438 00:17:52,780 --> 00:17:54,823 and the values of Christianity? 439 00:17:54,907 --> 00:17:57,117 Do they also enter in conflict with each other? 440 00:17:57,201 --> 00:17:59,620 They are the same, they are the same. 441 00:17:59,703 --> 00:18:01,872 -Yes, yes. -And what is happening? 442 00:18:01,955 --> 00:18:03,665 -What is happening? -NATHAN: Yeah, what's up? 443 00:18:03,749 --> 00:18:06,877 Why are you so persistent at this... at this point? 444 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:11,340 Christ. It's what happens. He is the one who passes. 445 00:18:11,423 --> 00:18:14,885 -He is the most important thing. -Did you know? Forget it. 446 00:18:14,968 --> 00:18:17,012 -Forget it. -NATHAN: Forget what? 447 00:18:17,096 --> 00:18:20,891 Forget everything. I'm not good with anti-Semites. 448 00:18:20,974 --> 00:18:22,476 So, that's all. 449 00:18:23,268 --> 00:18:24,353 I give up on her. 450 00:18:25,813 --> 00:18:26,897 -NATHAN: Okay. -I'm not... 451 00:18:26,980 --> 00:18:28,816 I think it's over the discussion. 452 00:18:28,899 --> 00:18:30,484 She says she's understanding, 453 00:18:30,567 --> 00:18:32,277 but then he insists that... 454 00:18:32,361 --> 00:18:34,029 -ANGELA: I don't hate anyone. -...in what... 455 00:18:34,112 --> 00:18:34,988 I love Jesus Christ 456 00:18:35,072 --> 00:18:36,573 and I will not deny it. That's all. 457 00:18:36,657 --> 00:18:39,326 Good. Maybe one day you will understand 458 00:18:39,409 --> 00:18:42,746 that the world does not turn around Jesus Christ. 459 00:18:42,830 --> 00:18:44,790 Nathan likes it start fights. 460 00:18:44,873 --> 00:18:48,126 There was peace in the house until, You know, he came with this and... 461 00:18:48,210 --> 00:18:50,420 NATHAN: Who does it look like? who likes to start fights 462 00:18:50,504 --> 00:18:51,922 based on what are you watching today? 463 00:18:52,005 --> 00:18:53,257 And... he likes to manipulate to the people. 464 00:18:53,340 --> 00:18:55,759 -NATHAN: What do you think...? -You two are already grown up, ah. 465 00:18:55,843 --> 00:18:57,219 It's hard for him to be honest. 466 00:18:57,302 --> 00:18:58,387 MIRIAM: You don't have to talk. 467 00:18:58,470 --> 00:19:00,556 -of Jesus all the time. -No, we can talk. 468 00:19:00,639 --> 00:19:03,809 Nathan has a problem with the lies. He lies a lot. 469 00:19:05,435 --> 00:19:06,478 He does it. 470 00:19:12,276 --> 00:19:13,986 NATHAN: I felt that I needed a place 471 00:19:14,069 --> 00:19:16,989 to go to from time to time, far from the house. 472 00:19:17,072 --> 00:19:19,116 -(EXHALE DEEPLY) -♪ (SOFT MUSIC PLAYS) ♪ 473 00:19:19,199 --> 00:19:20,534 NATHAN: My replica of the bar 474 00:19:20,617 --> 00:19:22,870 had been empty for months. 475 00:19:22,953 --> 00:19:26,039 I got a license from the state of Oregon for liquor sales 476 00:19:26,123 --> 00:19:28,917 for special events and I built a closed hallway 477 00:19:29,001 --> 00:19:32,254 25 meters that led to the street. 478 00:19:33,255 --> 00:19:34,256 For legal reasons, 479 00:19:34,339 --> 00:19:36,675 I couldn't use the name Alligator Lounge, 480 00:19:36,758 --> 00:19:41,096 but I came up with a new one name that was even cooler. 481 00:19:41,179 --> 00:19:44,266 The sign was enough to attract some locals 482 00:19:44,349 --> 00:19:45,893 that they had no idea that this bar 483 00:19:45,976 --> 00:19:48,937 was actually just one set in a warehouse. 484 00:19:49,021 --> 00:19:52,566 I thought that since I was already here, you might as well use it. 485 00:19:52,649 --> 00:19:56,153 And it was great to have my own bar that HBO paid for. 486 00:19:56,236 --> 00:19:57,154 Oh, I'm John. 487 00:19:57,237 --> 00:19:58,780 I'm Nate from Nate's Lizard Lounge. Yes. 488 00:19:58,864 --> 00:20:01,325 NATHAN: It was also a way to keep some 489 00:20:01,408 --> 00:20:04,036 from my acting students used between trials. 490 00:20:06,455 --> 00:20:09,207 I had been checking the images from the 16 cameras 491 00:20:09,291 --> 00:20:10,792 that I had installed in our house 492 00:20:10,876 --> 00:20:13,629 because I was having more and more difficulties 493 00:20:13,712 --> 00:20:16,632 to interpret Angela's behavior. 494 00:20:16,715 --> 00:20:18,634 we were having more disagreements, 495 00:20:18,717 --> 00:20:21,219 which was a good challenge for a test. 496 00:20:21,303 --> 00:20:22,638 You ate feces. 497 00:20:22,721 --> 00:20:24,973 -You ate the child's feces. -NATHAN: I did... 498 00:20:25,057 --> 00:20:26,558 Angela, it was a chocolate bar 499 00:20:26,642 --> 00:20:27,684 I don't mind. 500 00:20:27,768 --> 00:20:29,394 NATHAN: But sometimes, I couldn't differentiate 501 00:20:29,478 --> 00:20:31,521 if we were arguing as co-parents 502 00:20:31,605 --> 00:20:33,941 or if she was really mad at me. 503 00:20:34,024 --> 00:20:36,735 are you aware about...what to eat poop 504 00:20:36,818 --> 00:20:38,904 actually Is it a satanic ritual? 505 00:20:39,529 --> 00:20:41,073 -(LAUGHS) I... No. -And... 506 00:20:41,156 --> 00:20:42,616 -And I... -You should make me a list 507 00:20:42,699 --> 00:20:44,618 of things that are satanic, 508 00:20:44,701 --> 00:20:47,120 so that when it is to make one, 509 00:20:47,204 --> 00:20:48,205 know how to avoid it. 510 00:20:48,288 --> 00:20:49,748 -ANGELA: Slander. -If I bring oranges home 511 00:20:49,831 --> 00:20:50,958 -from the market... -Slander. 512 00:20:51,041 --> 00:20:52,292 ...you are going to say: "That's satanic." 513 00:20:52,376 --> 00:20:53,669 ♪ (DRAMATIC MUSIC PLAYS) ♪ 514 00:20:53,752 --> 00:20:56,046 NATHAN: I assumed she I was really engaged 515 00:20:56,129 --> 00:20:57,965 with this parenting essay. 516 00:20:59,132 --> 00:21:01,009 But when I started to review the videos 517 00:21:01,093 --> 00:21:03,011 from when I was away of the city, 518 00:21:03,095 --> 00:21:05,764 It was a different story. 519 00:21:05,847 --> 00:21:07,182 From the moment I left, 520 00:21:07,265 --> 00:21:09,518 Angela had forgotten completely the idea 521 00:21:09,601 --> 00:21:11,228 What was I rehearsing about? 522 00:21:11,311 --> 00:21:13,021 for her future life as a mother. 523 00:21:13,105 --> 00:21:15,607 ANGELA: So, your other house Is it in Vancouver? 524 00:21:15,691 --> 00:21:18,860 Oh no, my dad is in Vancouver for his work. 525 00:21:18,944 --> 00:21:20,487 I live in Los Angeles. 526 00:21:20,570 --> 00:21:21,780 But your real name is Josh. 527 00:21:21,863 --> 00:21:23,198 -Yeah. Joshua, yes. -Joshua. 528 00:21:23,281 --> 00:21:25,409 -And do you live in Los Angeles? -Yeah. 529 00:21:25,492 --> 00:21:26,493 -Oh, incredible! -Yeah. 530 00:21:26,576 --> 00:21:28,120 -And you came here for this? -Yeah. 531 00:21:28,203 --> 00:21:31,456 NATHAN: There wasn't any class. at home, or gardening, 532 00:21:31,540 --> 00:21:34,543 and the fake order that was supposed What should I pack? 533 00:21:34,626 --> 00:21:38,005 to simulate future success from your home business 534 00:21:38,088 --> 00:21:40,007 He never did it, 535 00:21:40,090 --> 00:21:43,927 leaving the fake parcel with nothing to collect. 536 00:21:44,011 --> 00:21:46,430 All the effort that I had put into maintaining 537 00:21:46,513 --> 00:21:49,766 this delicate reality It had gone down the drain. 538 00:21:49,850 --> 00:21:51,560 (CELEBRATE) 539 00:21:52,519 --> 00:21:53,603 NATHAN: So, 540 00:21:53,687 --> 00:21:56,648 what was he doing Angela here, actually? 541 00:21:56,732 --> 00:21:59,484 I'm confused. You won't let me... 542 00:22:00,402 --> 00:22:01,862 have the experience I want. 543 00:22:01,945 --> 00:22:05,699 But I don't even know if you're having yours. 544 00:22:06,658 --> 00:22:08,326 I'm having it as best I can. 545 00:22:08,410 --> 00:22:10,871 But all this It's kind of absurd, isn't it? 546 00:22:10,954 --> 00:22:13,331 Change the children through the window, 547 00:22:13,415 --> 00:22:15,375 make them grow three years. 548 00:22:15,459 --> 00:22:19,004 It won't work if you don't try. You must want it to work. 549 00:22:19,963 --> 00:22:21,882 are you angry because I only work 550 00:22:21,965 --> 00:22:24,259 and I have not prioritized our family life? 551 00:22:24,342 --> 00:22:25,510 -Nathan! -Because if so... 552 00:22:25,594 --> 00:22:27,262 -I'm sorry. I... -What family life? 553 00:22:27,346 --> 00:22:29,264 You know we are not your real family, right? 554 00:22:29,347 --> 00:22:31,808 This is your job. All this. (SIGH) 555 00:22:31,892 --> 00:22:34,019 -♪ (SOFT MUSIC PLAYS) ♪ -NATHAN: I was just starting 556 00:22:34,102 --> 00:22:35,771 to lose track what version of me 557 00:22:35,854 --> 00:22:38,231 was supposed to be in these trials. 558 00:22:38,315 --> 00:22:40,567 but I wanted to know What did Angela hope to get? 559 00:22:40,650 --> 00:22:42,027 of all this. 560 00:22:42,110 --> 00:22:44,404 And will it be something absurd? 561 00:22:44,488 --> 00:22:47,240 Or is it something What should I take seriously? 562 00:22:47,324 --> 00:22:49,993 (LAUGHTER) It's absurd and serious. 563 00:22:50,660 --> 00:22:52,037 It's just... it's complicated. 564 00:22:52,120 --> 00:22:54,247 life can be More than one thing, right? 565 00:22:54,331 --> 00:22:57,084 Life is complicated, and why are you here, huh? 566 00:22:57,167 --> 00:22:58,919 What is the real reason? Honestly? 567 00:22:59,002 --> 00:23:01,088 Well, well, why are you here, huh? 568 00:23:01,171 --> 00:23:02,589 Why do you do this? 569 00:23:02,672 --> 00:23:04,674 really are you trying to help me? 570 00:23:04,758 --> 00:23:07,427 Or am I the absurd part What are you talking about, huh? 571 00:23:07,511 --> 00:23:09,638 Is my life a joke? 572 00:23:09,721 --> 00:23:11,306 Do you sit here with your friends 573 00:23:11,389 --> 00:23:13,391 at the end of the day and laugh at me? 574 00:23:13,475 --> 00:23:15,936 No, you're not a joke. Not at all. No. 575 00:23:16,019 --> 00:23:19,022 No, no one is a joke. The situations are funny, 576 00:23:19,106 --> 00:23:20,941 -but interesting too. -Oh, God, shut up. 577 00:23:21,024 --> 00:23:22,776 But this can be the opportunity 578 00:23:22,859 --> 00:23:26,279 -raising your children in a... -(SCREAMING) Shut up now! 579 00:23:26,363 --> 00:23:28,782 ♪ (MUSIC CONCLUDES) ♪ 580 00:23:28,865 --> 00:23:32,202 You are a liar, because if this were real, 581 00:23:32,285 --> 00:23:34,955 you would have some kind of emotion 582 00:23:35,038 --> 00:23:37,749 instead of staying there like a rock 583 00:23:40,961 --> 00:23:43,338 Do you really want to feel something? 584 00:23:44,256 --> 00:23:47,050 Do you really want feel something real? 585 00:23:49,010 --> 00:23:50,137 Yes. 586 00:23:50,220 --> 00:23:51,388 Yes. (EXHALE) 587 00:23:52,806 --> 00:23:53,974 It's sad. 588 00:23:55,016 --> 00:23:56,059 You never will. 589 00:23:56,935 --> 00:23:58,895 No matter how hard you try... 590 00:24:01,481 --> 00:24:02,774 You never will. 591 00:24:10,574 --> 00:24:11,616 Oh... 592 00:24:13,827 --> 00:24:14,870 Good. 593 00:24:15,579 --> 00:24:17,080 Maybe we can do... 594 00:24:17,164 --> 00:24:19,374 -a kinder version of... -Yes. 595 00:24:19,457 --> 00:24:20,625 ...the interaction, or... 596 00:24:20,709 --> 00:24:22,460 Good. Yes, we can do it. 597 00:24:23,128 --> 00:24:24,671 ♪ (SOFT MUSIC PLAYS) ♪ 598 00:24:24,754 --> 00:24:26,965 -This was very good. -ANGELA: Okay. 599 00:24:27,048 --> 00:24:29,426 ♪ (SOFT MUSIC CONCLUDES) ♪ 600 00:24:30,468 --> 00:24:31,428 How are you? 601 00:24:31,511 --> 00:24:33,805 (SNACKS LIPS) I'm very well, thank you. 602 00:24:34,806 --> 00:24:36,725 -And you? -Good. 603 00:24:37,475 --> 00:24:39,561 -Good. -Am... 604 00:24:42,063 --> 00:24:43,523 I watched some of the videos 605 00:24:43,607 --> 00:24:46,359 from when I was away of the city. 606 00:24:46,443 --> 00:24:47,527 Mm-mm. 607 00:24:47,611 --> 00:24:51,239 And it seems that, perhaps, When I'm not here, you know, 608 00:24:52,073 --> 00:24:54,367 you don't care so much about the feeling 609 00:24:54,451 --> 00:24:56,036 from this experience, 610 00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:58,371 But when I'm here, you are very controlling 611 00:24:58,455 --> 00:25:01,416 about what I can experiment... 612 00:25:01,500 --> 00:25:05,045 -(SNOCKS LIPS) Oh... -...in her. 613 00:25:05,128 --> 00:25:07,797 -Is what I said true? -It definitely is. 614 00:25:08,465 --> 00:25:10,592 -Mm-mm. -Am... 615 00:25:10,675 --> 00:25:14,638 I lived many situations that... 616 00:25:14,721 --> 00:25:17,265 you know, they were difficult and uncertain, 617 00:25:17,349 --> 00:25:19,684 and they didn't give me a lot of direction. 618 00:25:19,768 --> 00:25:23,313 Um, it could have been a Collaborate with you on this. 619 00:25:23,980 --> 00:25:25,941 More than... than you let me. 620 00:25:26,024 --> 00:25:29,736 Angela, a collaborator? This... this is for you. 621 00:25:29,819 --> 00:25:31,696 -This is your dream house. -I... I mean... 622 00:25:31,780 --> 00:25:32,739 to the psychological aspect. 623 00:25:32,822 --> 00:25:34,658 This is how you wanted to raise to the children. 624 00:25:34,741 --> 00:25:36,826 -You have everything. -But I had never done this. 625 00:25:36,910 --> 00:25:37,911 NATHAN: Yes, and neither do I. 626 00:25:37,994 --> 00:25:39,079 -No, I don't know how. -Me neither. 627 00:25:39,162 --> 00:25:40,080 ANGELA: I don't know how to do it well. 628 00:25:40,163 --> 00:25:41,498 -And we are learning. -ANGELA: Good. 629 00:25:41,581 --> 00:25:43,917 And I feel that... that I still We make mistakes, but... 630 00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:45,252 -ANGELA: Yes. -...we are going very well. 631 00:25:45,335 --> 00:25:48,171 ANGELA: I, originally, I wanted the whole process. 632 00:25:48,255 --> 00:25:50,131 -Uh-huh. -I wanted it from 0 to 18. 633 00:25:50,215 --> 00:25:54,302 -Yes, we can still do it. -ANGELA: Yes, but it's like... 634 00:25:56,263 --> 00:25:58,348 as if they didn't know, 635 00:25:58,431 --> 00:25:59,808 I don't see an end in sight. 636 00:25:59,891 --> 00:26:01,726 I don't know when we will arrive when I'm 18. 637 00:26:01,810 --> 00:26:02,936 I, I, I don't know. 638 00:26:03,019 --> 00:26:04,479 -Uh-huh. -ANGELA: Do you understand me? 639 00:26:04,562 --> 00:26:06,439 And I think it's a good time 640 00:26:06,523 --> 00:26:09,317 to finish the test. 641 00:26:10,235 --> 00:26:12,237 Yes, I think it's a good time. 642 00:26:13,613 --> 00:26:15,282 Good. Um... 643 00:26:15,365 --> 00:26:18,118 ♪ (MELANCHOLIC MUSIC PLAYS) ♪ 644 00:26:18,201 --> 00:26:23,206 I... feel very grateful having been chosen for this. 645 00:26:23,290 --> 00:26:26,918 And... yes, thank you for everything the work you did 646 00:26:27,002 --> 00:26:30,505 to adapt this to my experience. 647 00:26:30,588 --> 00:26:33,883 Am, it was a... They did excellent job with... 648 00:26:33,967 --> 00:26:36,720 Even in the details. So, thank you. 649 00:26:37,554 --> 00:26:38,638 Thank you so much. 650 00:26:38,722 --> 00:26:40,682 -Yes that's how it is. -It was very special. 651 00:26:40,765 --> 00:26:42,684 -You are welcome. -Thank you. 652 00:26:43,393 --> 00:26:45,103 Thank you for being part. 653 00:26:45,186 --> 00:26:46,354 -Yeah. -Yeah. 654 00:26:47,272 --> 00:26:48,648 -Yes, definitely. -Good. 655 00:26:49,399 --> 00:26:50,608 Good. I'll take... 656 00:26:54,029 --> 00:26:55,071 Thank you. 657 00:27:03,246 --> 00:27:04,289 (SIP) 658 00:27:13,256 --> 00:27:15,425 Oh, God. Thank you! 659 00:27:19,971 --> 00:27:21,723 Thank you for this experience. 660 00:27:21,806 --> 00:27:23,391 -You are welcome. -I really appreciate it. 661 00:27:23,475 --> 00:27:24,392 -Yeah. -ADAM: Daddy! 662 00:27:24,476 --> 00:27:26,227 NATHAN: The woman for which it was designed 663 00:27:26,311 --> 00:27:28,646 this essay was gone. 664 00:27:28,730 --> 00:27:30,857 (HORN SOUNDS) 665 00:27:32,484 --> 00:27:34,819 NATHAN: So why I felt an impulse inside me 666 00:27:34,903 --> 00:27:36,154 to continue with it? 667 00:27:37,614 --> 00:27:38,823 (BOTH SCREAM) 668 00:27:38,907 --> 00:27:41,201 Hello, friend! Can I talk to you about something? 669 00:27:41,284 --> 00:27:42,911 About what? 670 00:27:42,994 --> 00:27:45,830 Your mom has decided leave the family, you understand? 671 00:27:45,914 --> 00:27:48,416 -Because? -Don't know. 672 00:27:48,500 --> 00:27:51,169 But hey. has nothing What to do with you, okay? 673 00:27:51,252 --> 00:27:54,339 -Yeah. -You still have me, right? 674 00:27:55,340 --> 00:27:56,424 Who am I? 675 00:27:58,635 --> 00:27:59,719 Who am I? 676 00:28:00,678 --> 00:28:02,138 Daddy. 677 00:28:02,222 --> 00:28:04,682 NATHAN: Maybe do this. It's just what I needed 678 00:28:04,766 --> 00:28:08,812 to stop or continue on my own terms. 679 00:28:10,188 --> 00:28:12,565 ♪ (INSPIRING MUSIC PLAYS) ♪ 680 00:28:20,490 --> 00:28:23,410 NATHAN: It was time to defend my own values. 681 00:28:24,452 --> 00:28:25,912 (GRUNTS) 682 00:28:25,995 --> 00:28:28,623 NATHAN: And the values of those They were before me. 683 00:28:31,209 --> 00:28:34,421 We can't always choose what happens in life, 684 00:28:34,504 --> 00:28:38,341 but we can decide if we rehearse for it. 685 00:28:38,425 --> 00:28:40,927 ♪ (INSPIRING MUSIC CONCLUDE) ♪ 686 00:28:42,887 --> 00:28:43,930 (SIP) 687 00:28:48,810 --> 00:28:51,271 (THEY SPEAK IN HEBREW) 688 00:28:51,938 --> 00:28:54,190 NATHAN: And, uh, he's gone. 689 00:28:55,316 --> 00:28:56,568 -MIRIAM: What? -NATHAN: Yes. 690 00:28:56,651 --> 00:28:58,611 MIRIAM: Congratulations, dear! 691 00:28:58,695 --> 00:29:00,321 What's going to happen to Adam? 692 00:29:01,114 --> 00:29:02,949 -I'll take care of him. -Will you take care of him? 693 00:29:03,032 --> 00:29:04,659 -Yes, he is with me. -Did you forget about him? 694 00:29:04,742 --> 00:29:06,619 -Yeah. -Incredible. 695 00:29:06,703 --> 00:29:08,872 -Yeah. It turned out well, huh? -(LAUGHS) Yes! 696 00:29:08,955 --> 00:29:10,874 -We are going to create another Jew. -Let's go in. 697 00:29:10,957 --> 00:29:13,334 Hold him while we bless him. 698 00:29:13,418 --> 00:29:20,592 ♪ (BOTH SING IN HEBREW) ♪ 699 00:29:24,596 --> 00:29:26,931 (CELEBRATIONS AND APPLAUSE) 700 00:29:27,015 --> 00:29:28,975 Israel warned those civilians 701 00:29:29,058 --> 00:29:30,560 that there was going to be a bombing. 702 00:29:30,643 --> 00:29:33,188 They had time to go out if they wanted. 703 00:29:33,271 --> 00:29:35,899 Now we blame to Israel for everything. 704 00:29:35,982 --> 00:29:38,359 And the media is biased for the palestinians 705 00:29:38,443 --> 00:29:40,153 -against the Israelis. -Okay. 706 00:29:40,236 --> 00:29:42,363 And this is how they present the news. 707 00:29:42,447 --> 00:29:44,824 And what do you think about Israel? 708 00:29:44,908 --> 00:29:48,286 It's like... a sensitive topic right now, right? 709 00:29:48,369 --> 00:29:49,662 -MIRIAM: What? -Israel. 710 00:29:49,746 --> 00:29:52,624 You have a platform, you should support Israel. 711 00:29:52,707 --> 00:29:54,459 -That's part of being Jewish... -Yes. 712 00:29:54,542 --> 00:29:55,710 ...support Israel. 713 00:29:55,793 --> 00:29:58,046 I should... I should say, um... 714 00:29:59,088 --> 00:30:01,883 -ah, my opinion or... -MIRIAM: What do you think? 715 00:30:01,966 --> 00:30:05,053 -about the problem in Palestine? -Well, um... 716 00:30:05,803 --> 00:30:07,222 I... it's just... it's just... 717 00:30:07,305 --> 00:30:08,473 ♪ (CHEERY MUSIC PLAYS) ♪ 718 00:30:08,556 --> 00:30:11,809 (HESITATING) I... I... I guess I support, huh... 719 00:30:11,893 --> 00:30:13,561 It's just... It's complicated because, you know, 720 00:30:13,645 --> 00:30:15,897 I know there are many people with strong opinions on the matter... 721 00:30:15,980 --> 00:30:17,774 MIRIAM: You have a platform, you should talk 722 00:30:17,857 --> 00:30:19,609 about how beautiful Israel is, 723 00:30:19,692 --> 00:30:21,110 how important it is 724 00:30:21,194 --> 00:30:23,029 -throughout the Middle East. -Yeah. Good. 725 00:30:23,112 --> 00:30:25,073 MIRIAM: How nations They trust us. 726 00:30:25,156 --> 00:30:27,116 -NATHAN: Yes. -MIRIAM: How, in Israel, 727 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,745 all kinds were invented of medical advances 728 00:30:30,828 --> 00:30:33,706 that help everyone people from all over the world 729 00:30:33,790 --> 00:30:37,210 and some of them don't even They know they were invented there. 730 00:30:37,293 --> 00:30:38,461 NATHAN: Mm-mm. 731 00:30:38,545 --> 00:30:42,382 MIRIAM: And also... it's... the... the chips and microchips, 732 00:30:42,465 --> 00:30:45,093 and computers, and medical advances, 733 00:30:45,176 --> 00:30:48,012 and all kinds of things that we gave them. 734 00:30:48,096 --> 00:30:50,890 (SPEAKS IN HEBREW) ...to the nations. 735 00:30:50,974 --> 00:30:53,268 NATHAN: These donuts. They are delicious. 736 00:30:53,351 --> 00:30:56,938 MIRIAM: Oh. in Hebrew we call them sufganyot. 737 00:30:57,021 --> 00:30:57,939 NATHAN: Sufganiót. I understand. 738 00:30:58,022 --> 00:30:59,315 MIRIAM: They are not exactly sufganiót, 739 00:30:59,399 --> 00:31:01,818 because the sufganios They are not sugar coated. 740 00:31:01,901 --> 00:31:03,653 These are just donuts with jelly 741 00:31:03,736 --> 00:31:04,988 The recipe...