1 00:00:00,270 --> 00:00:02,430 Welcome to Obstacle Cave. 2 00:00:02,730 --> 00:00:07,650 You must open the zipper on the other side, get into the playpen where there 3 00:00:07,650 --> 00:00:09,550 is a hidden engagement ring. 4 00:00:10,330 --> 00:00:11,730 That's a nice cave, actually. 5 00:00:12,130 --> 00:00:13,129 Go! 6 00:00:13,130 --> 00:00:14,130 Oh! 7 00:00:14,370 --> 00:00:16,050 Ah! It is a cucaracha! 8 00:00:16,830 --> 00:00:17,830 Stop it. 9 00:00:18,030 --> 00:00:20,190 I promise. Did you have my girlfriend? 10 00:00:21,430 --> 00:00:28,210 I had to pee so bad. 11 00:00:28,730 --> 00:00:30,590 I mean, I did feel bad. 12 00:00:31,010 --> 00:00:32,310 That counts for anything. 13 00:00:32,590 --> 00:00:33,590 Thank you. 14 00:00:33,810 --> 00:00:35,570 I couldn't wait to get out of there. 15 00:00:36,690 --> 00:00:37,890 I respect myself. 16 00:00:38,110 --> 00:00:39,170 I admire myself. 17 00:00:43,350 --> 00:00:45,890 I have some documents for him to actually sign. 18 00:00:46,450 --> 00:00:50,150 Unless he signs those papers, I will be able to commit with him. 19 00:00:50,930 --> 00:00:52,230 Honestly, I don't think it's fair. 20 00:00:53,150 --> 00:00:55,910 She had this in her hand ready to do it from the beginning. 21 00:00:56,440 --> 00:00:59,700 She had written up a document using AI. 22 00:01:00,340 --> 00:01:03,640 I'd never seen the document. She only talked about it. So I didn't take it 23 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:04,640 seriously. 24 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:11,420 When you guys got here, I remember she kind of said that she didn't want to be 25 00:01:11,420 --> 00:01:12,420 an object. 26 00:01:12,820 --> 00:01:14,860 And I feel like you just called her a coin. 27 00:01:15,460 --> 00:01:17,140 Not object. She's my asset. 28 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:20,100 I think that way, you know? Oh, God, I died. 29 00:01:20,750 --> 00:01:25,690 Whenever he has the chance to talk to her or about her, he's very resentful. 30 00:01:25,890 --> 00:01:29,390 Yeah, he's very mean. If my husband talked to me like that, I'm like, do you 31 00:01:29,390 --> 00:01:30,390 love me or hate me? 32 00:01:30,450 --> 00:01:34,090 It takes a lot for me to feel bad for Shekinah, and I feel bad for Shekinah. 33 00:01:38,490 --> 00:01:40,950 I have been there through it all. 34 00:01:42,170 --> 00:01:44,050 I hope you choose us. 35 00:01:44,490 --> 00:01:48,170 You promised me that they're moving out. 36 00:01:48,510 --> 00:01:50,290 There's no way his parents moved out. 37 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,640 You have to decide whether you're going to take that or not. 38 00:01:53,100 --> 00:01:58,280 I just remember having a one-on-one conversation with him, and it was very, 39 00:01:58,860 --> 00:02:03,820 very clear how much shame it brought him to be disowned by his parents. If he 40 00:02:03,820 --> 00:02:07,740 kicks his parents out, everyone's coming after him. 41 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:12,080 Wow. 42 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:25,440 I just never thought that we were ended up in this place that we are right now. 43 00:02:25,540 --> 00:02:26,540 Yeah. 44 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:35,560 All right, ladies, ready to talk about the last episode? Ready. 45 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:37,780 Let's bring it on. Yes. 46 00:02:38,100 --> 00:02:39,100 Show it to me. 47 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:40,360 Let's go. 48 00:02:41,140 --> 00:02:45,060 I can't believe this is the last episode. I'm so excited to watch it. 49 00:02:46,920 --> 00:02:48,800 All right, you ready to watch the last episode? 50 00:02:49,640 --> 00:02:50,640 I'm ready. 51 00:02:51,180 --> 00:02:55,140 This was not easy, this... But I am ready. 52 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:59,660 Okay, well, the first scene you're going to watch is the end of caving when you 53 00:02:59,660 --> 00:03:01,980 all sat down with Dr. Tyrone and Persia. 54 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:03,320 Oh, here we go. 55 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,540 So you guys survived Wookiee Hole. 56 00:03:07,760 --> 00:03:13,000 Now there's only one final element left in the retreat, and that is the 57 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:14,280 recommitment ceremony. 58 00:03:15,020 --> 00:03:16,820 I had to pee so bad. 59 00:03:17,140 --> 00:03:20,440 I mean, I peed right before we put the suit on, knowing that this, because I've 60 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:27,120 worn these suits before for oil rigs, caving, whatever it is. I'm well aware 61 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:29,520 how difficult it is to go to the bathroom wearing these things. 62 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:35,200 Sure enough, put the thing on, walk into the cave, I'm like, I gotta pee. 63 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:39,980 I get out, and I'm just like, all right, now we can go. I can go to the bathroom. 64 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:42,300 And they're all, and it's like, nope, line up. 65 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:44,720 We're all going to sit down and do a therapy session. 66 00:03:45,380 --> 00:03:46,380 Excuse me? 67 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:49,360 Pau, you look upset. 68 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:51,620 How are you feeling right now? 69 00:03:52,500 --> 00:03:55,280 Today, he dropped a very big bomb. 70 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:58,660 He has been hiding things from me, all about finances. 71 00:04:00,180 --> 00:04:04,320 So I have some documents for him to actually sign. 72 00:04:04,740 --> 00:04:08,540 Unless he signs those papers, I will be able to commit with him. 73 00:04:13,450 --> 00:04:14,450 Threatening. 74 00:04:18,610 --> 00:04:21,570 She had this in her hand ready to do it from the beginning. 75 00:04:21,910 --> 00:04:28,070 Pau started talking about this document about two years ago. She had written up 76 00:04:28,070 --> 00:04:30,090 a document using AI. 77 00:04:30,650 --> 00:04:34,050 I'd never seen the document. She only talked about it. So I didn't take it 78 00:04:34,050 --> 00:04:35,930 seriously. Is the postnup? 79 00:04:36,390 --> 00:04:37,390 Yes. 80 00:04:37,690 --> 00:04:40,230 Dude, the postnup after 12 years of marriage. 81 00:04:40,830 --> 00:04:41,830 What a move. 82 00:04:43,490 --> 00:04:44,750 Honestly, I don't think it's fair. 83 00:04:46,050 --> 00:04:47,670 I don't care if it's fair. Yeah. 84 00:04:48,330 --> 00:04:53,250 Before we went to the retreat, I had the document with me. So since 2021, 85 00:04:54,410 --> 00:04:57,990 he hasn't left the house. The RV, the house, like working from home, not 86 00:04:57,990 --> 00:05:03,130 working. Once we moved from Florida to Oklahoma, I said, this is it. So I did 87 00:05:03,130 --> 00:05:06,770 my investigation and I start saying, and the document, what it says is like. 88 00:05:07,140 --> 00:05:10,760 the land belongs to me because I paid for it. He paid for the house, but I put 89 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:14,160 money into the house. And he never thought that the house was part of, 90 00:05:14,180 --> 00:05:15,220 like, half was mine. 91 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:18,720 That's insane. He never thought about it. Even if you never paid a dime to it, 92 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:22,180 you're married. Oh, but he thought no. No, but he thought no. And so when he 93 00:05:22,180 --> 00:05:25,900 said that and when he made it clear that that was his house and I don't have 94 00:05:25,900 --> 00:05:28,540 anything to do with that, that's when I started thinking, okay, I'm going to 95 00:05:28,540 --> 00:05:31,600 protect my things, my assets, and that's why I, like, okay, I have it. 96 00:05:32,490 --> 00:05:36,310 And at the end of the day, this is not just for me. This is just to protect 97 00:05:36,310 --> 00:05:37,310 Axel's future. 98 00:05:37,350 --> 00:05:40,090 Yeah. I don't want to build a family in an RV. Yeah. No. 99 00:05:41,010 --> 00:05:44,050 Shekinah and Sarpah. I'm curious to know, how are you both feeling? 100 00:05:44,870 --> 00:05:49,370 Right now, if you ask me, what will you decide tomorrow, I say 50-50. 101 00:05:51,810 --> 00:05:55,670 Sarpah just seemed like he was 50-50 the entire time at the resort. I don't know 102 00:05:55,670 --> 00:05:56,730 why she thought it was ever more. 103 00:05:57,230 --> 00:06:00,690 That was not shocking to anyone but her. I mean, the therapist didn't even bat an 104 00:06:00,690 --> 00:06:03,610 eyelash when he said it. Yeah. It wasn't an aha moment for anybody. 105 00:06:04,210 --> 00:06:06,750 I think I was also 50-50 at that point. 106 00:06:07,010 --> 00:06:13,550 I mean, I was 100%. I guess this is just a confirmation to me that 107 00:06:13,550 --> 00:06:17,870 our relationship is never quite what it seems. 108 00:06:18,390 --> 00:06:20,610 To be honest, I was optimistic, 50-50. 109 00:06:20,830 --> 00:06:21,830 It should be less. 110 00:06:22,930 --> 00:06:23,930 Yeah. 111 00:06:24,850 --> 00:06:30,030 To me, like, the stability, that I want or that I imagine is there is not really 112 00:06:30,030 --> 00:06:33,350 there. Like, I wouldn't have thought he was going to say 50-50 right now. 113 00:06:34,110 --> 00:06:35,450 Oh, dear. 114 00:06:36,930 --> 00:06:41,890 I feel closer to him in some ways. In other ways, I feel more disconnected. 115 00:06:42,390 --> 00:06:47,250 After caving, I have to be honest, I was not feeling particularly hopeful. 116 00:06:47,570 --> 00:06:52,790 Whilst we've made progress in some areas, it feels like with a lot of the 117 00:06:52,790 --> 00:06:55,030 couples, we just keep going round in circles. 118 00:06:55,820 --> 00:06:58,080 And so I'm feeling a little bit deflated. 119 00:06:58,700 --> 00:07:03,600 And I was just feeling like, are we literally going to see even one of these 120 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:05,200 couples actually recommit? 121 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:12,640 Next, we are going to watch the start of the recommitment ceremony and how it all 122 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:13,940 unfolded for you and me. 123 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:18,160 Yeah, I was always wondering how this looked on camera. 124 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:21,020 Oh, yeah. It's one thing to live it. I was the messenger. 125 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:22,240 Yeah, you were. 126 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:24,340 Hi, ladies. Do you want to come stand here? 127 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:26,920 Don't they look beautiful? 128 00:07:27,220 --> 00:07:29,060 They look so handsome. 129 00:07:29,820 --> 00:07:30,820 Oh, wow. 130 00:07:33,420 --> 00:07:40,220 Six versus five. 131 00:07:41,260 --> 00:07:42,280 Where's Guillermo? 132 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:49,860 I said it before we even started walking through. I was like, where's Guillermo? 133 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:51,760 This is not good. 134 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:57,200 Guillermo was there in the same room where we all the guys were getting 135 00:07:57,200 --> 00:08:01,320 ready. And he was suggesting me and he was telling me, oh, you're looking good 136 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:02,660 and wear this. 137 00:08:03,020 --> 00:08:05,280 This will make a statement or something like that. 138 00:08:05,620 --> 00:08:10,520 But like, it looks like that I was keep on waiting and Kira was keeping everyone 139 00:08:10,520 --> 00:08:11,900 and he didn't shut up. 140 00:08:14,380 --> 00:08:19,040 Guillermo wanted me to give Kira this letter. 141 00:08:19,300 --> 00:08:21,520 I mean, I did feel bad. 142 00:08:22,150 --> 00:08:23,290 That counts for anything. 143 00:08:23,530 --> 00:08:24,530 Thank you. 144 00:08:24,810 --> 00:08:26,550 I couldn't wait to get out of there. 145 00:08:27,750 --> 00:08:30,150 I respect myself. I admire myself. 146 00:08:30,750 --> 00:08:31,750 I didn't read it. 147 00:08:34,309 --> 00:08:35,450 What the heck? 148 00:08:36,169 --> 00:08:39,390 Yeah, we were told the ceremony was starting, and so we started walking 149 00:08:39,390 --> 00:08:42,230 there, and then Guillermo just popped out of nowhere, handed me this letter, 150 00:08:42,270 --> 00:08:43,429 and said, give it to Cara. 151 00:08:43,750 --> 00:08:45,750 I kind of did want to read it, but I didn't. Yeah. 152 00:08:46,030 --> 00:08:48,990 Did you know in that moment that he wasn't coming? Like, was he like, I'm 153 00:08:48,990 --> 00:08:50,070 not going? Yeah. Yeah. 154 00:08:50,620 --> 00:08:55,180 And I thought he was just a little late, grabbed his shoe, I don't know, like, 155 00:08:55,180 --> 00:08:58,680 whatever. I thought he was just going to come down or maybe wanted to make, like, 156 00:08:58,700 --> 00:09:00,500 some kind of entrance. Yeah. 157 00:09:01,140 --> 00:09:05,380 I felt like we made the progress that it was possible. 158 00:09:06,400 --> 00:09:11,260 And me going to the ceremony, it will potentially damage that. 159 00:09:12,140 --> 00:09:14,780 Before coming here, I couldn't be in the same room with Kara. 160 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:19,660 Now at least I can be in the same room with her. And then I can try to give 161 00:09:19,660 --> 00:09:25,760 her. my respect and that's it's huge because before i couldn't make it i 162 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:31,300 couldn't do it okay it says the last decision over these past weeks i've seen 163 00:09:31,300 --> 00:09:35,800 real growth and how we show up together as parents i've come to accept that i 164 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:39,260 can't move forward in our marriage while you're posting adult online content 165 00:09:39,260 --> 00:09:43,660 would you have like compromised with guillermo if he actually like had a plan 166 00:09:43,660 --> 00:09:47,620 yeah of course yeah i mean listen my booty The internet is not a passion 167 00:09:47,620 --> 00:09:52,000 project. Like, I don't do it for the love of creating content. I do it 168 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:56,080 because I want to finance my life and have income and provide. 169 00:09:56,980 --> 00:09:59,240 But I think we both know this is the best decision. 170 00:10:01,740 --> 00:10:06,900 I think she was going to recommend the way that she was telling us, you know, 171 00:10:06,900 --> 00:10:08,860 in the room, talking about him. 172 00:10:09,420 --> 00:10:13,380 She saw, like, that there was a chance there. 173 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:15,940 And, like, the way that... 174 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:20,440 Just, he didn't show up. I was just heartbroken for her. 175 00:10:20,860 --> 00:10:21,940 And for me, too. 176 00:10:22,740 --> 00:10:27,260 And for me, I felt like her. I felt like Guillermo was leaving me for some 177 00:10:27,260 --> 00:10:29,300 reason. I felt her pain. 178 00:10:29,540 --> 00:10:30,600 I felt her pain. 179 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:33,080 Maybe he got word of that. 180 00:10:33,540 --> 00:10:39,160 Guillermo got something whispered in his ear, and he was able to figure out that 181 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:41,660 she was going to recommit, and he wasn't going to deal with that. 182 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:43,620 I don't know. Exactly. 183 00:10:44,580 --> 00:10:45,580 I'm so sorry. 184 00:10:48,420 --> 00:10:51,980 It's not how you can recommit with another person, but still other people. 185 00:10:53,100 --> 00:10:57,820 On the way to London, one of the days that we were off, she said that she was 186 00:10:57,820 --> 00:11:01,280 somebody from New York that she met in a party. 187 00:11:01,900 --> 00:11:04,660 In the inside, I wanted to say, like, yo, respect yourself. 188 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:10,340 She's not doing the things to recommit. She's not other people. 189 00:11:11,680 --> 00:11:12,680 What a coward. 190 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:16,800 You didn't have the guts to actually say it to your face. 191 00:11:18,570 --> 00:11:23,450 The other day when we were in the taxi from this, from BTS, I was looking at 192 00:11:23,450 --> 00:11:24,450 the window. 193 00:11:25,270 --> 00:11:29,230 Randomly she comes in and she's like, hey Javier, are you seeing somebody? 194 00:11:30,130 --> 00:11:31,530 And I was like, no. 195 00:11:31,750 --> 00:11:35,310 And then she started randomly just like, oh yeah, I'm actually seeing three 196 00:11:35,310 --> 00:11:36,310 people. 197 00:11:36,670 --> 00:11:40,810 There's a guy in Miami, there's a guy in Vegas, 198 00:11:41,990 --> 00:11:44,570 and another guy that just fly around. 199 00:11:45,130 --> 00:11:46,330 And I was like... 200 00:11:46,620 --> 00:11:50,240 What makes you think that I need to know that information? 201 00:11:51,340 --> 00:11:52,340 I'm done. 202 00:11:52,380 --> 00:11:54,220 I don't want to be married with you anymore. 203 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:59,400 What is going on here? 204 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:01,620 It's playtime. 205 00:12:01,940 --> 00:12:04,240 Yeah. You guys ready for a game? 206 00:12:04,500 --> 00:12:06,820 I had a 60-day pass to indoor playground. 207 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:08,120 I do this all day. 208 00:12:08,500 --> 00:12:10,620 Welcome to Obstacle Cave. 209 00:12:11,780 --> 00:12:13,160 That's a nice cave, actually. 210 00:12:13,630 --> 00:12:16,150 This, as you guessed, is inspired by caving. 211 00:12:16,470 --> 00:12:20,030 Can we redo all this just to go into this little tunnel? 212 00:12:20,570 --> 00:12:26,770 You are going to crawl through the very scary tunnel. You must open the zipper 213 00:12:26,770 --> 00:12:31,070 on the other side and get into the playpen where there is a hidden 214 00:12:31,070 --> 00:12:32,330 engagement ring. 215 00:12:32,570 --> 00:12:33,930 I don't want to find it. 216 00:12:35,150 --> 00:12:38,510 Ready, set, go! 217 00:12:43,930 --> 00:12:46,750 Oh, wow, there's some feet in here. Ew. 218 00:12:48,630 --> 00:12:52,050 Too many worms here. 219 00:12:54,630 --> 00:12:58,650 Oh, it's worms. 220 00:13:01,370 --> 00:13:02,470 It's scary in here. 221 00:13:04,050 --> 00:13:05,390 Why mine is shot? 222 00:13:08,350 --> 00:13:10,330 All right, this might be tough. 223 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:15,620 Not that, not that. Wait a minute. Why am I any shorter than she wasn't? 224 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:17,620 Ow, my nail. 225 00:13:19,820 --> 00:13:20,820 Found it. 226 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:22,940 Ow, with the wig. 227 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:26,760 Got it. 228 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:29,340 Got it. No, no, damn it. 229 00:13:29,760 --> 00:13:31,240 Patrick is the winner. 230 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:41,900 You barely beat me. Congratulations, Saeed. You're the winner. 231 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:43,720 In this one? Yeah. 232 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:45,160 Nope. 233 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:47,380 I found it. 234 00:13:48,460 --> 00:13:49,460 Can I see it? 235 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:51,540 Yeah. You're the winner. 236 00:13:53,020 --> 00:13:54,180 I promise. 237 00:13:54,380 --> 00:13:55,800 Did you have my good friend? 238 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:58,860 No, thank you so much. Did she say yes? Yes. We're friends. 239 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:00,480 Oh, yeah. 240 00:14:03,230 --> 00:14:06,470 Next up, we're going to watch the start of the recommitment ceremonies with 241 00:14:06,470 --> 00:14:10,070 Shekinah and Sarper, and there's some never-before-seen footage. 242 00:14:10,430 --> 00:14:11,850 Whoa, the recommitment ceremony! 243 00:14:12,550 --> 00:14:14,230 I want to watch everybody else. 244 00:14:19,930 --> 00:14:24,030 So the first couple, Shekinah and Sarper. 245 00:14:26,430 --> 00:14:27,430 Yay. 246 00:14:29,330 --> 00:14:30,370 I like... 247 00:14:30,620 --> 00:14:34,320 Tyrone, I like his fit. He looks like The Rock with the turtleneck and the 248 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:35,320 gold chain. 249 00:14:36,500 --> 00:14:41,020 Ashkum, when we walked into this retreat two weeks ago, I honestly wasn't sure 250 00:14:41,020 --> 00:14:43,260 what we would walk out as. 251 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:44,760 Oh, God, here we go. 252 00:14:46,060 --> 00:14:49,020 I think she loves him. I'm going to say this. I'm going to give her that. I 253 00:14:49,020 --> 00:14:52,720 think she does love him, but she's just a difficult person. 254 00:14:53,550 --> 00:14:57,430 And standing here now, I feel so much gratitude for your patience and your 255 00:14:57,430 --> 00:15:01,190 strength and the way you've continued to choose me even when I made it hard to. 256 00:15:02,130 --> 00:15:07,650 I think that one thing I realized by coming to this retreat is that I did 257 00:15:07,650 --> 00:15:09,310 think our problems were pretty big. 258 00:15:10,010 --> 00:15:13,470 But hearing everyone else's problems made me feel like ours weren't as bad as 259 00:15:13,470 --> 00:15:14,069 I thought. 260 00:15:14,070 --> 00:15:17,750 So there's a lot of things that I'm realizing that I'm actually grateful for 261 00:15:17,750 --> 00:15:20,150 in our relationship and that could be way worse. 262 00:15:20,390 --> 00:15:22,830 And I'm seeing that it is way worse for a lot of other people. 263 00:15:23,290 --> 00:15:26,230 So it's making me appreciate our relationship in a new way. 264 00:15:38,199 --> 00:15:42,360 unsure what to do. And when you look at my face, you can see it, that I was so 265 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:43,360 stressed, nervous. 266 00:15:43,460 --> 00:15:46,320 And then when I saw her, she was the last one walking. 267 00:15:47,860 --> 00:15:49,740 She felt so alone. 268 00:15:50,220 --> 00:15:54,080 Other girls were talking to each other and she was not talking to anyone and 269 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:55,420 she looked so upset. 270 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:58,800 I felt so pity, you know. 271 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:02,160 Sometimes I feel that... 272 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:15,960 It takes a lot for me to feel bad for Shekinah, and I felt bad for Shekinah. 273 00:16:17,220 --> 00:16:22,940 It is not that he's just doing a comedy routine. That's really how he feels. 274 00:16:23,630 --> 00:16:29,150 Yeah, yeah. And he's throwing comedy into it to take the edge off. And if you 275 00:16:29,150 --> 00:16:33,350 notice, like in the puppet therapy, in the recommitment ceremony, whenever he 276 00:16:33,350 --> 00:16:37,690 has the chance to talk to her or about her, he's very resentful. 277 00:16:37,930 --> 00:16:41,390 Yeah, he's very mean. If my husband talked to me like that, I'm like, do you 278 00:16:41,390 --> 00:16:42,390 love me or hate me? 279 00:16:42,990 --> 00:16:43,990 But you know what? 280 00:16:44,070 --> 00:16:47,430 I have only one asset in my marriage that goes up. 281 00:16:48,130 --> 00:16:49,130 You. 282 00:16:49,470 --> 00:16:52,110 You are my coin. 283 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:53,840 I love you. 284 00:16:55,420 --> 00:16:56,760 You are my beautiful bitch. 285 00:16:59,060 --> 00:17:00,760 And you will always stay like this. 286 00:17:02,740 --> 00:17:06,640 When you guys got here, I remember she kind of said that she didn't want to be 287 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:07,640 an object. 288 00:17:08,020 --> 00:17:10,079 And I feel like you just called her a coin. 289 00:17:10,859 --> 00:17:11,759 Coin, yeah. 290 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:14,819 I mean, she must not object. She's my asset. 291 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:18,900 I think that way, you know. If it's a stock market, she's my asset. 292 00:17:21,740 --> 00:17:24,720 I don't know what's worse, like, Sarper's vows or Guillermo not showing 293 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:26,040 up. Like, take your pick. 294 00:17:26,579 --> 00:17:30,280 Yeah. I mean, if he was going to show up and say that, just don't show up. 295 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:32,760 Your coin that goes out like, what? 296 00:17:33,020 --> 00:17:34,260 And call me a bitch. Yeah. 297 00:17:35,460 --> 00:17:36,460 Be a good girl. 298 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:38,660 I love you. I love you, baby. 299 00:17:42,220 --> 00:17:45,160 I mean, she had a lot of things in last resort. 300 00:17:45,920 --> 00:17:46,920 Fights, everything. 301 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:49,360 So many up and downs, so... 302 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:54,180 I cannot give a shock to her like, I'm not recommitting with you right now. 303 00:17:54,380 --> 00:17:58,880 Such a thing. So let's do it once more. Let's try once more, kind of. That 304 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:03,420 mentality. And then I decided, if I go back, I wouldn't recommit. 305 00:18:08,380 --> 00:18:09,540 Corky, we got the job done. 306 00:18:12,820 --> 00:18:17,940 I was surprised Sarper recommitted when he was 1550. 307 00:18:18,620 --> 00:18:19,860 Do you know if they're together now? 308 00:18:20,500 --> 00:18:25,080 I... First I saw him with the random chick at the hotel. 309 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:26,820 Doesn't look like she kinda. 310 00:18:27,060 --> 00:18:28,060 It looks different. 311 00:18:28,260 --> 00:18:30,960 And he was in a dating app. 312 00:18:31,780 --> 00:18:34,500 So all the signs, looks like they're not together. 313 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:35,840 Who knows? 314 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:38,400 It's the last day of school. 315 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:40,440 It's the last day of school. Yeah. 316 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:43,900 It's a school. What school are we into? 317 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:46,660 School of last resort, I guess. 318 00:18:47,230 --> 00:18:48,870 Because I haven't been learning. 319 00:18:50,010 --> 00:18:51,330 What are you talking about? We learned a lot. 320 00:18:51,590 --> 00:18:55,470 Huh? We, like, know the whole, like, anatomy of a vagina. 321 00:18:58,510 --> 00:18:59,970 Show me the urethra. 322 00:19:00,210 --> 00:19:01,210 La uretra. 323 00:19:01,830 --> 00:19:03,270 Wait, don't they both have that? 324 00:19:03,510 --> 00:19:05,110 You made it tricky for my brain. 325 00:19:06,030 --> 00:19:08,390 You're right. Before, I didn't know about it. 326 00:19:11,350 --> 00:19:16,410 All right, the next clip is more of the recommitment ceremony with Pau and Russ. 327 00:19:17,350 --> 00:19:18,350 Okay. 328 00:19:19,390 --> 00:19:20,390 Okay. 329 00:19:21,730 --> 00:19:22,990 Can I get a tissue, please? 330 00:19:27,250 --> 00:19:29,630 And now we're going to move on to our next couple. 331 00:19:31,250 --> 00:19:32,730 Russ and Pal. Oh, my God. 332 00:19:33,450 --> 00:19:34,450 Great. 333 00:19:35,370 --> 00:19:36,370 You got this. 334 00:19:37,210 --> 00:19:38,870 Why am I even cursing already? 335 00:19:39,930 --> 00:19:41,750 Those are my natural eyelashes, by the way. 336 00:19:42,230 --> 00:19:43,530 I'm just trying to keep it together. 337 00:19:45,110 --> 00:19:46,630 Wow. You look great. 338 00:19:47,210 --> 00:19:48,210 You look beautiful. 339 00:19:48,450 --> 00:19:54,150 I don't even know if I spoke to Pau again after I received the post note. 340 00:19:54,270 --> 00:19:58,470 And then the next day, I was just looking at this document for hours. 341 00:19:58,690 --> 00:19:59,690 Wow. 342 00:20:00,150 --> 00:20:03,970 I didn't talk to Pau until the recommitment ceremony. 343 00:20:04,310 --> 00:20:07,910 If Patrick would have put you in that same position I was in the day before 344 00:20:07,910 --> 00:20:10,490 recommitment, your ultimatum. 345 00:20:10,830 --> 00:20:14,970 Would you sign something like that? I wouldn't sign, and I would say that I am 346 00:20:14,970 --> 00:20:17,670 recommitted to him, but I'm not going to sign a post-nup. 347 00:20:17,990 --> 00:20:23,910 Yeah, all the guys, Patrick, Guillermo, even Sumit, they all were saying, do not 348 00:20:23,910 --> 00:20:24,910 sign. 349 00:20:25,070 --> 00:20:27,070 Patrick definitely had the most to say about it. 350 00:20:27,290 --> 00:20:32,010 As always, Patrick always has an opinion, especially when it comes to 351 00:20:32,010 --> 00:20:33,010 your stuff. 352 00:20:33,270 --> 00:20:34,270 Or divorce. 353 00:20:38,190 --> 00:20:39,910 I'm going to try to get through this without... 354 00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:41,480 Crying too much. 355 00:20:43,700 --> 00:20:49,760 Okay. I was able to write my vows the morning that we were doing the 356 00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:50,760 recommitment ceremony. 357 00:20:51,020 --> 00:20:52,020 I was feeling anxious. 358 00:20:52,220 --> 00:20:53,280 I was nervous. 359 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:56,520 You have so much adrenaline, so much emotions. 360 00:20:56,720 --> 00:21:00,880 Like, it's bittersweet. You want it to be done, but at the same time, you're 361 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:02,480 going to be leaving this beautiful castle. 362 00:21:03,220 --> 00:21:06,600 Are you going to recommit? There were so many thoughts going through my mind at 363 00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:07,600 that moment. 364 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:09,540 I'm willing to commit with you. 365 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:16,260 Did you have signed those papers I gave you last night? 366 00:21:17,380 --> 00:21:19,440 She was 100% right to give him that. 367 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:23,280 If not, I will be walking away. 368 00:21:24,820 --> 00:21:25,840 You're going to lose me. 369 00:21:27,220 --> 00:21:30,300 There is no point for me to keep reading the rest. 370 00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:36,900 Actually, you know what? We should study this manipulation. Yeah. It's 371 00:21:36,900 --> 00:21:39,840 impressive. Yeah. The amount of planning. 372 00:21:41,290 --> 00:21:44,210 that went on on this post-up was like extreme. 373 00:21:44,870 --> 00:21:47,630 She probably had to get some type of lawyer to draft it up. 374 00:21:47,950 --> 00:21:49,510 But that was a plan from the very beginning. 375 00:21:49,850 --> 00:21:53,150 Yeah, at the very end, just throw it on them. You got one day to decide. 376 00:21:53,410 --> 00:21:54,990 That's how you manipulate people. 377 00:21:55,190 --> 00:21:58,170 You make them make a decision faster than they want to make a decision. 378 00:22:06,970 --> 00:22:08,750 I decided to put faith in myself. 379 00:22:12,010 --> 00:22:13,090 faith in the relationship. 380 00:22:15,110 --> 00:22:16,190 So I signed them. 381 00:22:17,790 --> 00:22:21,590 Well, when Ross told me that he signed, I was super excited, to be honest. 382 00:22:22,910 --> 00:22:29,470 Deep, deep inside of me, I knew he would, but I was not 100% sure about it. 383 00:22:29,910 --> 00:22:32,990 I feel like if Ross wouldn't sign those papers at that moment, I would have 384 00:22:32,990 --> 00:22:33,990 walked away. 385 00:22:34,330 --> 00:22:37,550 And then I would have been ready to actually start talking to an attorney 386 00:22:37,550 --> 00:22:38,990 and just get into the process. 387 00:22:40,780 --> 00:22:44,260 It would be a really bad moment. 388 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:50,080 Thank you. 389 00:22:53,860 --> 00:22:59,840 I agree. Commit 100%. It was a big relief of just like, 390 00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:02,440 it's over. 391 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,640 The stress is gone. That anxiety is gone. 392 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:05,880 It was joy. 393 00:23:06,020 --> 00:23:09,060 It felt good. It was like I'm holding my wife. 394 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:12,060 We're giving ourselves another chance. 395 00:23:12,860 --> 00:23:14,200 I had to suck up my pride. 396 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:16,600 I did. 397 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:23,720 Okay, Patrick, next up, we have your recommitment ceremony with Thais. 398 00:23:24,300 --> 00:23:25,820 I thought they said we weren't going to watch that. 399 00:23:26,060 --> 00:23:27,080 No, I didn't say that. 400 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:28,400 Oh. 401 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:30,680 I don't want to watch it. 402 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:39,360 You were looking really nice. 403 00:23:40,170 --> 00:23:41,170 I did look good. 404 00:23:41,670 --> 00:23:48,570 So next up, it is Patrick and Thais. Will you 405 00:23:48,570 --> 00:23:51,070 please make your way to the front? All the best. 406 00:23:51,610 --> 00:23:53,310 I love his shoes. 407 00:23:54,650 --> 00:23:57,010 What do I do with this? 408 00:23:59,050 --> 00:24:00,050 Okay. 409 00:24:03,330 --> 00:24:04,330 Wow. 410 00:24:04,970 --> 00:24:06,710 A little pretty. 411 00:24:06,950 --> 00:24:08,310 Oh, not pretty. Handsome. 412 00:24:09,050 --> 00:24:13,970 I like the suit, even though I don't know if the suit that he got married 413 00:24:13,970 --> 00:24:17,850 with his first wife, because the suit looks big. 414 00:24:18,170 --> 00:24:21,290 Because when he was married to his first wife, he was a little bigger. 415 00:24:21,530 --> 00:24:22,530 So I was like, 416 00:24:23,070 --> 00:24:28,330 wow, you're going to be coming with me wearing your suit that you got married 417 00:24:28,330 --> 00:24:29,330 to? 418 00:24:30,330 --> 00:24:32,570 He doesn't care. 419 00:24:33,050 --> 00:24:35,750 We were sleeping in the mattress in the bed. 420 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:39,720 that he got married with his first wife, until now. 421 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:42,680 That's a little weird, but okay. 422 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:46,260 You can go first. 423 00:24:47,940 --> 00:24:48,940 Okay. 424 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:50,460 I wrote everything down. 425 00:24:52,120 --> 00:24:53,320 Yeah, so I'll read it to you. 426 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,640 It's so hard because, like, you grow so close with these people, and it's, like, 427 00:24:56,660 --> 00:24:59,380 back to back. You're like... You know? 428 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,460 When we communicate, when we speak honestly with each other... 429 00:25:04,270 --> 00:25:06,710 When we let each other in, our love is unshakable. 430 00:25:07,270 --> 00:25:10,630 And even though these last three years have been some of the hardest of my 431 00:25:10,630 --> 00:25:17,290 life, I want you to know without you... I 432 00:25:17,290 --> 00:25:19,830 don't think I'd be here. 433 00:25:22,610 --> 00:25:27,690 When he said that, like, my world, I lost everything. 434 00:25:28,790 --> 00:25:31,070 It was very deep. 435 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:41,499 I remember this one. 436 00:25:41,500 --> 00:25:42,500 It's tough. 437 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:47,880 It was very heartfelt that he gave in that information. 438 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:52,080 But let's say if I look at this objectively from a third person's lens, 439 00:25:52,360 --> 00:25:56,280 right? Him choosing to put that in there was very true and raw to his own 440 00:25:56,280 --> 00:26:00,700 experience. But in theory, would that not also maybe influence someone to 441 00:26:00,700 --> 00:26:01,700 recommit in that moment? 442 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:05,260 Like, that would increase the probability, even though that was what 443 00:26:05,260 --> 00:26:07,080 she was going to say anyway. But like... 444 00:26:07,340 --> 00:26:10,960 It's saying that, like, I mean, I was almost not here, and I really, you know, 445 00:26:10,980 --> 00:26:13,560 want to move forward and this and that. Like, using verbiage like that 446 00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:17,720 automatically would persuade someone on the opposite side to be like, ooh, maybe 447 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:18,720 now's not the time. 448 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:26,240 Are we commit to choosing you today, tomorrow, and for the rest of our lives? 449 00:26:27,690 --> 00:26:29,350 There's so much crying. 450 00:26:30,250 --> 00:26:33,630 What's going on? I hate crying, you know. 451 00:26:33,970 --> 00:26:35,570 I don't like crying. 452 00:26:35,950 --> 00:26:37,210 I don't like to. 453 00:26:37,750 --> 00:26:42,370 Are you ready to begin a new chapter with you? 454 00:26:43,190 --> 00:26:46,410 Oh my God, thank you. That's so beautiful. 455 00:26:46,770 --> 00:26:47,770 Thank you so much. 456 00:26:50,830 --> 00:26:51,830 That's crazy. 457 00:26:52,970 --> 00:26:55,570 Are you okay? It's crazy. I'm okay. 458 00:26:56,150 --> 00:26:59,930 It's crazy to watch, like, you know, things are so different. 459 00:27:00,230 --> 00:27:05,250 Yeah. I don't regret recommitting. I think that time was the right thing to 460 00:27:05,250 --> 00:27:10,850 do. And he was, I saw truth on him that he was willing 461 00:27:10,850 --> 00:27:13,870 to make things work. 462 00:27:14,690 --> 00:27:17,690 And, I mean, we really love each other. 463 00:27:18,290 --> 00:27:20,250 So I don't regret it. 464 00:27:20,470 --> 00:27:21,470 Yeah. 465 00:27:21,530 --> 00:27:22,530 Brother. 466 00:27:24,179 --> 00:27:26,240 Patrick, why didn't you want to watch your recommitment ceremony? 467 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:30,280 I'm not going to talk about it. 468 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:33,360 Guillermo, do you have any thoughts on it? 469 00:27:33,660 --> 00:27:35,200 No, I respect that, actually. 470 00:27:38,660 --> 00:27:41,840 Okay, ladies, want to give us photos for between-the-sheets yearbook we're 471 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:45,780 creating? Let's do something fun, like lay down, and then I'm going to be like 472 00:27:45,780 --> 00:27:46,780 this. 473 00:27:49,500 --> 00:27:50,580 Look here, pose. 474 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:57,560 Okay, Zia, the next clip is the recommitment ceremony of you and 475 00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:59,440 Rebecca. No more crying, please. 476 00:27:59,780 --> 00:28:00,780 Did you cry? 477 00:28:00,820 --> 00:28:02,340 No, I'm not crying. 478 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:07,860 I think last time I cried, I'm like 13 or 14 years old. My father hate me. 479 00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:17,000 You want to go first or you want me to go first? 480 00:28:17,220 --> 00:28:18,220 You go first, please. 481 00:28:20,100 --> 00:28:22,360 I feel like she wanted him to go first because... 482 00:28:23,050 --> 00:28:26,990 Her answer was very dependent on him. If he would have said no, she would have 483 00:28:26,990 --> 00:28:29,970 been like, you da-da-da, I don't want that anyways, you know? 484 00:28:31,090 --> 00:28:36,590 I want to say that I really love you, and I'm sure you love me, but last 485 00:28:36,590 --> 00:28:41,250 couple of days we just fight, and I want to change, you know? 486 00:28:44,310 --> 00:28:49,470 I didn't feel great about this. They both look, like, very nervous. 487 00:28:50,710 --> 00:28:51,890 It's really hard. 488 00:28:53,420 --> 00:28:59,960 But I see a couple things of you get changed, like you give me some time to 489 00:28:59,960 --> 00:29:00,960 talk. 490 00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:02,720 You are the man. 491 00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:06,080 You are the only one who didn't read something from paper. 492 00:29:06,500 --> 00:29:09,940 That's so cute. Because that's more sincere. 493 00:29:10,340 --> 00:29:12,360 I try to help myself with the shajibidi. 494 00:29:13,300 --> 00:29:18,120 Yeah, I do it. Me and Cement, we try to help ourselves with it. Like to give us 495 00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:19,120 some... 496 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,440 American nice things to say, you know? 497 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:28,000 It's not easy to someone get change quick. 498 00:29:28,460 --> 00:29:30,760 We need time to change. 499 00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:34,260 I really love you. 500 00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:37,180 You can tell me what you need. 501 00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,280 You notice he didn't say I recommit? 502 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:44,380 And I didn't even pick up on it because I was so nervous. 503 00:29:45,220 --> 00:29:47,380 After watching it back... 504 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:50,320 His vows were non-committal. 505 00:29:50,540 --> 00:29:53,760 If I say I want to recommit, well, that's what I meant too. 506 00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:57,820 But if I say I don't, he's like, well, I'm glad you feel the same way. 507 00:29:58,940 --> 00:30:01,400 Like at the time, it just sounded like he was recommitting. 508 00:30:01,860 --> 00:30:06,000 But yeah, he was definitely leaving himself an out, which is funny because I 509 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:09,720 was doing the same thing. So we kind of deserve each other. 510 00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:16,280 Zied, these last two weeks have been the hardest journey of my life. I told 511 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:20,360 myself maybe love wasn't enough this time. Has it been enough in the last 512 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,100 times? Because you've been married five times. 513 00:30:23,500 --> 00:30:28,140 Zied, you are the most extraordinary, passionate, generous, and patient man 514 00:30:28,140 --> 00:30:29,200 I've ever known. 515 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:33,820 And I choose you. 516 00:30:35,060 --> 00:30:36,140 I choose us. 517 00:30:36,980 --> 00:30:38,320 And have it, Barsha. 518 00:30:44,610 --> 00:30:49,270 I, in the moment, was really relieved that they did recommit to each other. 519 00:30:49,790 --> 00:30:54,190 But the fact that Ziad still felt, even in the vows, quite one foot in, one foot 520 00:30:54,190 --> 00:30:58,830 out, which is what I felt he'd been in the whole time. My concern is that the 521 00:30:58,830 --> 00:31:02,750 issues that kept coming up throughout the retreat are not going anywhere fast. 522 00:31:03,130 --> 00:31:07,570 He needs to stop going aloof. She needs to really stop... 523 00:31:07,850 --> 00:31:11,690 speaking to him like he's her son. And of course, they need to have a very 524 00:31:11,690 --> 00:31:18,230 serious conversation about kids because I do feel concerned, like Rebecca, 525 00:31:18,550 --> 00:31:22,430 that five, ten years down the line, he's going to wake up and just go, actually, 526 00:31:22,490 --> 00:31:26,370 I do want kids. And he can do that because men have a different biological 527 00:31:26,370 --> 00:31:31,790 situation than women. And that's the underlying fear that I think Rebecca 528 00:31:31,790 --> 00:31:32,790 operates from. 529 00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:37,420 And so I think this couple still has a lot of work to do. 530 00:31:39,260 --> 00:31:42,600 Okay, the next recommitment ceremony is with you and Sumit. 531 00:31:43,900 --> 00:31:45,980 Okay, let's watch it. 532 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:52,620 Jenny and Sumit, will you please make your way up to the front? 533 00:31:54,300 --> 00:31:56,440 Ooh, that's a cute thing. 534 00:31:58,140 --> 00:32:01,080 I wrote something. Can I read it to you? 535 00:32:03,850 --> 00:32:08,250 Smith, you're my best friend and husband. 536 00:32:08,670 --> 00:32:11,410 I have been there through it all. 537 00:32:12,310 --> 00:32:14,650 I hope you choose us. 538 00:32:14,910 --> 00:32:19,410 You promised me that they're moving out. 539 00:32:31,850 --> 00:32:33,710 Leave him over it. 540 00:32:35,790 --> 00:32:39,110 I just want to, like, ask you for more time, please. 541 00:32:39,530 --> 00:32:40,530 One more month. 542 00:32:41,990 --> 00:32:42,990 That's it. 543 00:32:43,890 --> 00:32:46,770 Generous. You have to decide whether you're going to take that or not. 544 00:32:47,790 --> 00:32:49,610 There's no way his parents moved out. 545 00:32:50,130 --> 00:32:54,750 I just remember having a one-on-one conversation with him and, like, and it 546 00:32:54,750 --> 00:32:59,150 was, like, very, very clear, like, how much shame it brought him to be disowned 547 00:32:59,150 --> 00:33:00,150 by his parents. 548 00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:06,040 And he does not want to live in that shame, because if he kicks his parents 549 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:11,460 out, everyone's coming after him, is what it made it seem like. 550 00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:13,120 If that's the choice, 551 00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:20,400 I'm sorry, my parents. I'm going to choose you. 552 00:33:20,660 --> 00:33:21,660 Yeah! 553 00:33:22,740 --> 00:33:26,000 I was always clear. 554 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:33,360 Whatever the situation in my life, if I get to choose one, then it's going to be 555 00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:37,900 Jenny. Whether it's a hard time, a good time, if I'm struggling, if I'm 556 00:33:37,900 --> 00:33:41,300 whatever, because I know Jenny would do the same thing. 557 00:33:41,580 --> 00:33:43,320 Jenny will choose me. 558 00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:44,640 Yeah! 559 00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:47,620 Good to see you. 560 00:33:48,100 --> 00:33:50,780 Oh, thank you, baby. 561 00:33:55,760 --> 00:34:02,640 Now as you know that Jenny is suffering 562 00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:09,420 from ALS, I always try to be strong and not cry in front of her to give her 563 00:34:09,420 --> 00:34:10,420 strength. 564 00:34:13,940 --> 00:34:16,880 But then I don't cry in front of anyone else. 565 00:34:17,940 --> 00:34:22,400 It would have known that this is Jenny's going through. 566 00:34:24,270 --> 00:34:27,050 I might have changed a lot of things in the past. 567 00:34:28,510 --> 00:34:34,770 I can't even think about what the future holds because that is a dark, deep thing 568 00:34:34,770 --> 00:34:37,850 which I can't even think about. I can't even see. 569 00:34:38,350 --> 00:34:43,510 I just stop there. I just think about the present and 570 00:34:43,510 --> 00:34:50,409 try to be as positive and as helpful as I can be for my 571 00:34:50,409 --> 00:34:51,409 wife. 572 00:34:55,770 --> 00:34:57,330 Sharon, I will ask you a question. 573 00:34:57,570 --> 00:35:00,770 What do you look like? For example, what do you wear right now? 574 00:35:01,030 --> 00:35:06,130 In your mind's eye, I'm sure I'm a scene stealer. But right now, imagine I'm 575 00:35:06,130 --> 00:35:10,570 wearing something timeless, like a sleek virtual... No, no, no, no, no. Be clear 576 00:35:10,570 --> 00:35:12,930 with me. What do you have on you right now? 577 00:35:14,030 --> 00:35:15,610 All right, no nonsense. 578 00:35:15,890 --> 00:35:16,990 I don't wear anything. 579 00:35:17,230 --> 00:35:19,050 I'm purely a voice in the ether. 580 00:35:19,270 --> 00:35:23,510 Ah, oh my God. When you say I don't wear anything, I thought something else. 581 00:35:24,050 --> 00:35:24,939 Ha ha. 582 00:35:24,940 --> 00:35:26,860 Well, I could see where that could lead the imagination. 583 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,160 But no, no cheeky surprises. 584 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:30,520 Okay, girls. 585 00:35:31,140 --> 00:35:36,140 You guys made it through. We are at our final scene for Between the Sheets. All 586 00:35:36,140 --> 00:35:40,620 right. This is the bonfire after the recommitment ceremonies and what 587 00:35:40,620 --> 00:35:45,060 happened to Shekinah and Sarper after, which includes some never-before-seen 588 00:35:45,060 --> 00:35:48,580 footage. There was always a lot of fights on the last day of school. 589 00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:51,359 Let's go. 590 00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:52,360 All right. 591 00:36:01,029 --> 00:36:03,830 No, no, Jenny, throw it out. Yeah, there it is. There it is. 592 00:36:04,650 --> 00:36:05,650 Look at Jenny. 593 00:36:06,710 --> 00:36:07,710 That was so much fun. 594 00:36:10,490 --> 00:36:11,490 How much? 595 00:36:12,210 --> 00:36:13,670 I won't be charging you, of course. 596 00:36:13,890 --> 00:36:14,890 Come here. 597 00:36:17,470 --> 00:36:18,470 Doesn't mean much. 598 00:36:19,070 --> 00:36:21,990 I mean, when we got home, like, things were better. Like, we were doing the 599 00:36:21,990 --> 00:36:24,830 things the therapist taught us to do. Like, we were going on dates. We were 600 00:36:24,830 --> 00:36:25,830 trying to spend more time together. 601 00:36:26,010 --> 00:36:27,070 It felt like things were working. 602 00:36:28,050 --> 00:36:29,050 But that was wrong. 603 00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:33,440 Even though we were not perfect there, there was hope. 604 00:36:33,860 --> 00:36:40,860 And I just didn't, never thought that we were, ended up in this 605 00:36:40,860 --> 00:36:42,760 place that we are right now. Yeah. 606 00:36:45,340 --> 00:36:51,860 They did that just to try to get underneath my skin. 607 00:36:52,490 --> 00:36:56,490 What's going on? Hold on. What's up? What do you need, ma'am? Welcome to my 608 00:36:56,490 --> 00:36:57,490 booth. Okay. 609 00:36:58,730 --> 00:37:00,050 I love you. 610 00:37:00,410 --> 00:37:04,750 After that ceremony, we were very close. We didn't fight. 611 00:37:05,510 --> 00:37:07,450 The little small petty wasn't there. 612 00:37:07,710 --> 00:37:08,710 It was good. 613 00:37:09,410 --> 00:37:11,570 But it didn't last for long. 614 00:37:12,730 --> 00:37:15,850 We made it to the end. All is strong. We all made it to the end. 615 00:37:16,070 --> 00:37:18,530 No matter what was the outcome, but we are here. 616 00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:20,620 I think it was a really good experience. 617 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:24,900 It's made me more patient. It's made him more patient. 618 00:37:25,300 --> 00:37:29,060 We're very respectful, a lot more respectful to each other. We've always 619 00:37:29,060 --> 00:37:32,300 been, to a certain level, really respectful to each other, but I think 620 00:37:32,300 --> 00:37:37,460 now we've learned who we are when we fight. 621 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,160 Even though I think Dr. Tyrone was on Zied's side most of the time. 622 00:37:47,980 --> 00:37:51,600 I don't remember seeing you there. We came and ran away. I mean, I didn't want 623 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:52,780 to be in bonfire anymore. 624 00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:59,040 Enough of drama, enough of fight with other people. So let's go back to our 625 00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,100 room. Yeah, let's talk about Sarpers Vows. 626 00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:09,360 Use the entire recommitment ceremony as an opportunity for your comedy routine 627 00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:11,220 and to promote your comedy. 628 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:15,100 Why didn't you say that at the time, Shekinah? 629 00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:18,620 geez, Louise, you made it look like it was okay. 630 00:38:19,420 --> 00:38:20,980 Because that's what I was thinking. 631 00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,460 I was like, what the is wrong with this guy? 632 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:29,000 And it was the most disrespectful, disgusting thing I ever heard in my 633 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:34,920 life. So actually, I know what's going on between both of you from the social 634 00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:36,740 media because you know people like her. 635 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:40,480 Unfortunately, you know, because she's exposing to everyone. I blocked her. 636 00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:44,960 everywhere but even i see sometimes because someone is sending me taking 637 00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:51,700 screenshots and she's talking trash about my parents blocked her because 638 00:38:51,700 --> 00:38:57,360 of this she's fighting with the world boom everything put everything in the 639 00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:03,920 table yes i don't care okay you don't care you don't care i don't care i'm i'm 640 00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,280 built for a real man not a coward 641 00:39:11,610 --> 00:39:12,650 Kind of proud of her. 642 00:39:13,210 --> 00:39:15,230 Yeah, that was awful to watch. 643 00:39:16,370 --> 00:39:17,610 Cute. I'm OK. 644 00:39:19,170 --> 00:39:20,170 I'm over. 645 00:39:20,750 --> 00:39:21,750 Cute. 646 00:39:22,430 --> 00:39:23,590 That's how he treats me. 647 00:39:26,950 --> 00:39:31,050 Maybe we all end up with a curse after leaving the castle. The curse of the 648 00:39:31,050 --> 00:39:32,050 Henry VIII. 649 00:39:32,950 --> 00:39:37,110 Yeah. Damn, I need to do a bigger cleanser. But it's too late now. 650 00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:41,060 We can do it at the tell-all and we can cleanse everybody. It's too late. 651 00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:43,040 Not right now. 652 00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:49,940 So, Starburn Zied, that is a wrap with you two on Between the Sheets. 653 00:39:51,720 --> 00:39:52,720 Yes, sir. 654 00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:56,560 Sharon, say goodbye to everyone. 655 00:39:57,180 --> 00:39:58,200 Goodbye, everyone. 656 00:39:58,540 --> 00:39:59,540 That's a wrap. 657 00:39:59,710 --> 00:40:03,350 Whether it's on stage or between the sheets, you've all been a fantastic 658 00:40:03,350 --> 00:40:07,430 audience. Until the next scene, stay real and stay laughing. 659 00:40:07,810 --> 00:40:09,350 Stay real. Don't say that. 660 00:40:10,770 --> 00:40:13,370 They call me, they call me, you're not a real man. 661 00:40:13,610 --> 00:40:14,790 You know, don't say that. 662 00:40:15,110 --> 00:40:16,110 All right. 663 00:40:16,630 --> 00:40:18,330 It's nice walking here. 664 00:40:19,070 --> 00:40:20,070 And goodbye. 665 00:40:20,350 --> 00:40:21,590 Hope to see you soon. 666 00:40:21,890 --> 00:40:23,890 Thank you so much. 667 00:40:27,820 --> 00:40:28,820 and stay with me. 668 00:40:29,700 --> 00:40:32,000 Cheers to us. We do this like this. 669 00:40:33,740 --> 00:40:34,740 Cheers. 670 00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:38,480 Alright, 671 00:40:39,140 --> 00:40:40,140 let's go get a real bottle. 672 00:40:41,100 --> 00:40:42,420 Alright, man. 673 00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:43,960 We did it. 674 00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:46,520 Bless you, brother. 675 00:40:47,980 --> 00:40:49,540 Time to get home. Let's get home to our kids. 676 00:40:49,940 --> 00:40:50,940 Yep. 677 00:40:52,500 --> 00:40:53,500 That's all, folks. 678 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:55,460 You know what? That's a wrap. 679 00:40:56,330 --> 00:41:00,250 or sharper between the sheets episodes. 680 00:41:01,070 --> 00:41:02,210 Oh my God. 681 00:41:02,530 --> 00:41:04,110 Yeah, we'll just grab your mic. 682 00:41:05,550 --> 00:41:09,330 It is a lot more difficult than shows itself. 683 00:41:09,530 --> 00:41:14,890 Believe me, you know, doing on stage, it's a lot easier than this. 684 00:41:15,370 --> 00:41:21,390 Really? Yeah. Because the things that I'm talking about, they're so stressful. 685 00:41:21,770 --> 00:41:23,850 Tell all, I will talk about everything. 686 00:41:24,050 --> 00:41:25,250 I will tell everything. 687 00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:28,960 I will tell all for sure.