1 00:00:02,536 --> 00:00:04,781 Coming up on Before The 90 Days: The Couples Tell All... 2 00:00:04,805 --> 00:00:06,605 Nothing is off limits. 3 00:00:12,913 --> 00:00:15,447 You know, you got to reciprocate that passion. 4 00:00:15,516 --> 00:00:17,716 We get into arguments frequently, 5 00:00:17,718 --> 00:00:19,518 and that does affect it. 6 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:20,953 Okay? It does. 7 00:00:33,233 --> 00:00:36,101 - Nelcy, shut up! - Do not tell me to shut up. 8 00:00:36,103 --> 00:00:38,003 Then just... just leave. 9 00:00:39,807 --> 00:00:41,487 Nelcy, sit down. 10 00:00:42,510 --> 00:00:44,843 The emotions reach a breaking point. 11 00:00:44,945 --> 00:00:47,046 If you're in an international relationship, 12 00:00:47,048 --> 00:00:48,213 you don't cheat. 13 00:00:48,215 --> 00:00:49,815 I have zero respect for you for that. 14 00:00:49,817 --> 00:00:53,252 Are you a grown adult? Do you need people to, like, coddle you? 15 00:00:53,353 --> 00:00:56,855 You have not been with anybody else since that time? 16 00:00:58,059 --> 00:01:01,260 What about your birthday? 17 00:01:01,328 --> 00:01:03,128 And I'd like for you to be honest. 18 00:01:32,827 --> 00:01:35,260 And secrets are revealed. 19 00:01:35,329 --> 00:01:36,829 That's up. 20 00:01:36,831 --> 00:01:39,665 You didn't know that Usman had called Zara? 21 00:01:41,102 --> 00:01:43,135 Nope. I did not. 22 00:01:48,409 --> 00:01:51,443 And it all starts now. 23 00:02:07,161 --> 00:02:08,227 Hey. 24 00:02:08,229 --> 00:02:10,229 I'm excited about today. 25 00:02:10,231 --> 00:02:11,830 I am a little nervous, but, you know, 26 00:02:11,832 --> 00:02:13,577 exciting at the same time, you know. 27 00:02:17,738 --> 00:02:20,339 What are people going to think of my story? 28 00:02:20,407 --> 00:02:22,407 Are they going to have any criticism of me. 29 00:02:30,618 --> 00:02:32,050 I'm feeling a little nervous. 30 00:02:32,152 --> 00:02:33,418 I don't know what's going to happen. 31 00:02:33,420 --> 00:02:35,721 Um, I don't know what questions I'm going to be asked. 32 00:02:35,723 --> 00:02:38,690 I might have to defend myself today. 33 00:02:38,692 --> 00:02:41,727 At the end of the day, I want to be prepared for everything. 34 00:02:41,729 --> 00:02:44,363 How you doing, Gino? 35 00:02:44,431 --> 00:02:46,798 Thank you. 36 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:48,834 - I still got the hat on. - Yeah. 37 00:02:48,936 --> 00:02:50,502 You gotta take that thing off there, bud. 38 00:02:50,504 --> 00:02:51,703 Yeah, right. 39 00:02:52,940 --> 00:02:54,806 See? Bald. 40 00:02:54,808 --> 00:02:56,108 Jeez. 41 00:02:57,511 --> 00:02:58,911 So where is everyone else at? 42 00:02:58,913 --> 00:03:00,245 I don't know. 43 00:03:00,314 --> 00:03:04,116 I'm a little bit, uh, nervous because I'm not sure, 44 00:03:04,118 --> 00:03:07,119 you know, what questions are going to come at me, right? 45 00:03:07,121 --> 00:03:10,222 I know some of my friends had their concerns about Ximena. 46 00:03:11,525 --> 00:03:13,725 I just ignore all those comments. 47 00:03:13,727 --> 00:03:16,161 I want to know what Ximena is in this for. 48 00:03:16,197 --> 00:03:19,598 Is she in it for a green car to come to America? 49 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:21,400 That's the question that I would have. 50 00:03:24,705 --> 00:03:26,316 I'm excited to be here in New York 51 00:03:26,340 --> 00:03:27,806 because my son lives here, 52 00:03:27,808 --> 00:03:29,942 but I'm nervous to be here at the same time. 53 00:03:29,944 --> 00:03:31,510 - Hi. - Hey, Kim. 54 00:03:31,512 --> 00:03:33,812 - Hey. - How are you doing? 55 00:03:36,917 --> 00:03:38,817 There's... there's things about the other couples 56 00:03:38,819 --> 00:03:40,953 that I've seen that they concern me. 57 00:03:41,021 --> 00:03:44,323 I'm really not looking forward to seeing Ximena or Ella. 58 00:03:45,626 --> 00:03:46,903 Like, how are you all doing? Good? 59 00:03:46,927 --> 00:03:48,137 - Good. - Yeah, I'm doing great. 60 00:03:48,161 --> 00:03:50,340 Is there anybody you're, like, excited to meet or excited 61 00:03:50,364 --> 00:03:51,763 to, like, see their story? 62 00:03:51,832 --> 00:03:53,932 It's a tough question because they're all interesting to me. 63 00:03:53,934 --> 00:03:56,435 Yeah, Mike and Ximena, I'm interested in that one. 64 00:03:56,503 --> 00:03:59,605 And then the whole Ella and Johnny thing, I don't condone that. 65 00:04:00,808 --> 00:04:04,743 I think Ella was... trash for sleeping on this... 66 00:04:04,812 --> 00:04:07,512 this nice man and the hurt on his face, when I saw it, 67 00:04:07,514 --> 00:04:09,848 it was just... It hurt my heart, you know? 68 00:04:14,121 --> 00:04:16,588 I am freaking out inside. 69 00:04:16,590 --> 00:04:19,958 I am not very confident and I'm just a little nervous. 70 00:04:20,027 --> 00:04:23,362 I'm nervous as to whether Mahogany is going to show up or not. 71 00:04:23,463 --> 00:04:24,663 I don't know if she will. 72 00:04:24,765 --> 00:04:27,132 I can take the bullets. I just don't know if she can. 73 00:04:27,201 --> 00:04:28,800 I don't know if she's ready to. 74 00:04:28,802 --> 00:04:31,503 - Hey, guys. - Hi. 75 00:04:31,505 --> 00:04:33,105 - What's up? - How's it going? 76 00:04:33,107 --> 00:04:34,506 - Good to see you. - Yeah. 77 00:04:34,508 --> 00:04:36,108 Ben, you're so cute. 78 00:04:37,211 --> 00:04:38,810 - Oh, my God. - So are you. 79 00:04:38,812 --> 00:04:41,046 And I love my man, but you're gorgeous. 80 00:04:41,115 --> 00:04:44,549 A lot of the guys are not, uh, 81 00:04:44,651 --> 00:04:46,618 standing up to their women, 82 00:04:46,620 --> 00:04:50,489 and they're allowing them to cross their personal boundaries 83 00:04:50,491 --> 00:04:52,024 of human dignity. 84 00:04:52,026 --> 00:04:54,003 I just want to know if they're, like, willing to stand for themselves. 85 00:04:54,027 --> 00:04:55,547 It's... it's going to be interesting. 86 00:04:58,399 --> 00:05:01,800 I'm nervous, but I'm really, really, 87 00:05:01,802 --> 00:05:04,503 really excited to meet everybody. 88 00:05:05,739 --> 00:05:09,641 I am so sad that I'm coming here knowing 89 00:05:09,743 --> 00:05:13,045 that I'm the only one who has not seen my man. 90 00:05:13,113 --> 00:05:14,513 - Ella. - Hey... 91 00:05:14,515 --> 00:05:16,315 How are you? Good to see you in the flesh. 92 00:05:16,317 --> 00:05:20,319 My moment of weakness when I decided 93 00:05:20,321 --> 00:05:21,820 to get animalistic, 94 00:05:21,822 --> 00:05:24,656 I definitely know I'm going to get a lot of flak for tha 95 00:05:24,725 --> 00:05:27,492 Johnny is... is definitely an amazing man. 96 00:05:27,494 --> 00:05:29,227 And I did him wrong. 97 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:35,701 I'm pretty sure I'm going to get some harsh judgment 98 00:05:35,703 --> 00:05:37,663 on one of my things that happened in my story. 99 00:05:37,705 --> 00:05:39,571 So I'm interested to see what happens with that. 100 00:05:39,573 --> 00:05:41,773 You know, when you cheat, this is what you deal with. 101 00:05:43,143 --> 00:05:46,022 But for me, there's a lot of judgment for him going over there 102 00:05:46,046 --> 00:05:48,046 and following my heart, which is crazy to me 103 00:05:48,048 --> 00:05:49,915 because that's what I should have done, you know. 104 00:05:49,917 --> 00:05:51,928 You seemed to come on pretty strong from what I saw. 105 00:05:51,952 --> 00:05:53,930 - I went for what I wanted. - Well, like... 106 00:05:53,954 --> 00:05:55,787 Okay, guys are... I'm going to stereotype now, 107 00:05:55,789 --> 00:05:57,000 so I'm going to get in trouble. 108 00:05:57,024 --> 00:05:59,491 - Okay. - We as men are the predators. 109 00:05:59,493 --> 00:06:01,827 We are lions looking for gazelles. 110 00:06:01,829 --> 00:06:04,963 And you're kind of hoping that it's a bit of a race. 111 00:06:05,032 --> 00:06:06,898 You know, you don't want it to just, like, lay down. 112 00:06:06,900 --> 00:06:08,378 It's like, "Well, that wasn't fun." 113 00:06:08,402 --> 00:06:11,436 So, like, if a gazelle ever attacked me, 114 00:06:11,538 --> 00:06:12,637 I wouldn't know what to do. 115 00:06:14,041 --> 00:06:15,741 I mean, to me, it's just a turn-off. 116 00:06:17,244 --> 00:06:19,544 But if Usman likes that sort of thing, 117 00:06:19,613 --> 00:06:22,414 all the power to him, but he seemed like he didn't. 118 00:06:30,457 --> 00:06:31,656 Sorry, guys. 119 00:06:31,658 --> 00:06:33,436 I lost my respect for him when he called me a predator. 120 00:06:33,460 --> 00:06:35,427 I did not like that. 121 00:06:35,429 --> 00:06:38,230 Everybody is only seeing a part of me, you know what I'm saying? 122 00:06:38,232 --> 00:06:40,599 And I don't feel like I was a predator. 123 00:06:40,601 --> 00:06:43,335 I feel like I'm 51 years old, I went for what I wanted. 124 00:06:43,437 --> 00:06:45,504 That's how I feel. 125 00:06:45,506 --> 00:06:48,407 And if it came across that I'm a predator, get the out of here. 126 00:06:48,409 --> 00:06:50,209 You shouldn't have even said that to me. 127 00:06:50,243 --> 00:06:52,144 It was an insult to me as a woman. 128 00:06:52,245 --> 00:06:53,712 There's my girl. 129 00:06:53,714 --> 00:06:56,148 - Memphis, oh, my God. - Okay. 130 00:06:56,249 --> 00:06:58,116 Okay, we got a little competition, girl. 131 00:06:58,118 --> 00:07:00,051 I love Memphis. 132 00:07:00,053 --> 00:07:03,622 Memphis and I actually became really good friends, and we talk a lot. 133 00:07:03,624 --> 00:07:06,425 So Ben called me a predator. 134 00:07:09,196 --> 00:07:10,962 He called you a predator? 135 00:07:11,064 --> 00:07:14,032 He called me a predator. He said I was... What was it? 136 00:07:14,134 --> 00:07:15,500 The gazelle and the lion. 137 00:07:17,037 --> 00:07:19,004 Yeah, I think that's... Yeah, I think it's rude. 138 00:07:19,006 --> 00:07:21,473 Here you are dating all these really young women, 139 00:07:21,475 --> 00:07:23,442 but, you know, why can't a woman do that? 140 00:07:23,510 --> 00:07:25,811 That's what I don't like about the double standard. 141 00:07:25,813 --> 00:07:27,512 And that's how I feel, too. 142 00:07:32,419 --> 00:07:33,552 Let's go. 143 00:07:37,524 --> 00:07:39,124 - I'm a little nervous. - That'll be your chair. 144 00:07:39,126 --> 00:07:40,258 Okay. 145 00:07:40,326 --> 00:07:41,927 I don't think people are going to be happy with me 146 00:07:41,929 --> 00:07:44,563 for some silly things that I did. 147 00:07:45,666 --> 00:07:47,599 Unfortunately, I'm a people pleaser 148 00:07:47,601 --> 00:07:51,203 and I'm quite terrified to upset everybody. 149 00:07:52,406 --> 00:07:55,540 There's a couple of things I wasn't proud of. 150 00:07:55,642 --> 00:07:58,109 I just hope the other couples think I'm a good, 151 00:07:58,111 --> 00:08:00,445 genuine person. 152 00:08:02,316 --> 00:08:06,518 I'm probably going to get called out for not confronting her enough 153 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:08,653 about some of the inconsistencies 154 00:08:08,755 --> 00:08:11,423 and just being love blind. 155 00:08:11,558 --> 00:08:14,038 I'm going to tell my opinion. I'm a very straightforward woman. 156 00:08:17,231 --> 00:08:18,341 All right, here we go. 157 00:08:18,365 --> 00:08:20,031 Okay. Here we go, guys. 158 00:08:20,033 --> 00:08:22,601 Three, two. 159 00:08:22,603 --> 00:08:26,505 Hello and welcome to Before the 90 Days: The Couples Tell All. 160 00:08:26,507 --> 00:08:27,772 I'm Shaun Robinson. 161 00:08:27,774 --> 00:08:30,008 We have six couples with us today, 162 00:08:30,010 --> 00:08:31,309 either in studio 163 00:08:31,311 --> 00:08:33,812 or joining remotely from all over the world. 164 00:08:33,814 --> 00:08:36,314 Everyone here has something in common, 165 00:08:36,316 --> 00:08:38,316 they've been looking for love, 166 00:08:38,318 --> 00:08:40,552 but finding love, you know, isn't easy 167 00:08:40,654 --> 00:08:43,054 and keeping it can be even harder. 168 00:08:43,156 --> 00:08:45,457 Some relationships stand the test of time, 169 00:08:45,559 --> 00:08:47,692 while others flicker out. 170 00:08:47,694 --> 00:08:50,529 So let's get right into it. 171 00:08:50,531 --> 00:08:53,798 Now, there is one couple who will not be joining us tonight, 172 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:55,433 Caleb and Alina. 173 00:08:55,502 --> 00:08:58,737 However, to our surprise, one of our couples 174 00:08:58,805 --> 00:09:02,741 will be with us together and in person. 175 00:09:04,678 --> 00:09:06,358 Does everybody want to know who it is? 176 00:09:06,413 --> 00:09:07,913 - Yeah. - Ready? 177 00:09:07,915 --> 00:09:09,447 Okay. 178 00:09:10,817 --> 00:09:13,518 Let's bring out Hamza. 179 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:15,120 - What? - Yeah. 180 00:09:16,323 --> 00:09:18,657 Hey. 181 00:09:18,725 --> 00:09:21,226 - Hey, how you doing? - Hi. 182 00:09:21,228 --> 00:09:22,627 Welcome. 183 00:09:22,629 --> 00:09:25,964 We're all very surprised and excited to see you and Memphis. 184 00:09:26,033 --> 00:09:28,400 It's a pleasure to meet you for the very first time. 185 00:09:33,807 --> 00:09:37,042 We have an interpreter for Hamza. 186 00:09:37,110 --> 00:09:40,045 His name is Ed, and Ed will be speaking 187 00:09:40,146 --> 00:09:41,947 with us throughout the show. 188 00:09:41,949 --> 00:09:44,950 Now I want to move on to Ella and Johnny. 189 00:09:45,018 --> 00:09:46,718 Ella, good to see you in person. 190 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:48,320 Good to see you, too. 191 00:09:48,322 --> 00:09:50,322 And, Johnny, thank you for joining us 192 00:09:50,324 --> 00:09:52,457 from all the way around the world in China. 193 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:53,592 How are you today? 194 00:09:57,631 --> 00:09:58,730 Yes, very nice. 195 00:09:58,732 --> 00:10:01,232 And I can't wait to get into your story. 196 00:10:01,301 --> 00:10:05,003 And we have here, Gino and Jasmine. 197 00:10:05,005 --> 00:10:06,805 Welcome. Good to meet you guys. 198 00:10:06,807 --> 00:10:09,608 Jasmine, thank you for joining us remotely 199 00:10:09,610 --> 00:10:10,809 from Panama. 200 00:10:10,811 --> 00:10:12,010 Whoo! 201 00:10:12,012 --> 00:10:13,511 Whoo! 202 00:10:13,513 --> 00:10:17,215 Well, now, one of the things you guys talked about 203 00:10:17,217 --> 00:10:19,551 was your hat, Gino. 204 00:10:19,653 --> 00:10:21,119 - Oh, my hat? - What? 205 00:10:21,121 --> 00:10:23,121 Your hat. 206 00:10:36,703 --> 00:10:38,536 Why don't you just take it off, Gino? 207 00:10:38,638 --> 00:10:40,216 - Take it off. - Take it off. 208 00:10:41,641 --> 00:10:43,186 - Babe, do it. - He's not gonna do it. 209 00:10:43,210 --> 00:10:44,509 He's not gonna do it. 210 00:10:46,613 --> 00:10:49,114 Mike and Ximena, it is good to see you. 211 00:10:49,116 --> 00:10:51,016 Um, Ximena, thank you for joining us 212 00:10:51,018 --> 00:10:54,452 from all the way from Colombia. 213 00:10:54,521 --> 00:10:59,190 Mike, the last time that we saw you and Ximena, 214 00:10:59,192 --> 00:11:02,427 things were not going well at all. 215 00:11:02,429 --> 00:11:05,630 So, Mike, what is the status of your relationship today? 216 00:11:10,303 --> 00:11:14,205 Um, we were able to work it out, 217 00:11:14,207 --> 00:11:16,441 and today we're back together. 218 00:11:16,543 --> 00:11:18,243 - Wow. - Yeah. 219 00:11:18,311 --> 00:11:19,689 - Thank you. - Way to go, Mike. 220 00:11:19,713 --> 00:11:21,012 Okay. 221 00:11:22,215 --> 00:11:25,417 I did not expect you to say that, I'm telling you. 222 00:11:25,419 --> 00:11:27,952 You guys had so many ups and downs, 223 00:11:27,954 --> 00:11:29,120 that's going to be quite a story. 224 00:11:29,122 --> 00:11:31,156 So I, uh, can't wait to talk to you about that. 225 00:11:31,224 --> 00:11:36,327 Okay. Now, let's move over to Kimberly. 226 00:11:36,329 --> 00:11:38,307 - Nice to meet you. Kim. - Nice to meet you, too. 227 00:11:38,331 --> 00:11:39,998 - How are you? - I'm good, thank you. 228 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:41,099 - How are you? - Great. 229 00:11:41,101 --> 00:11:43,234 And, Usman, it's good to see you again. 230 00:11:45,806 --> 00:11:47,505 Kimberly. 231 00:11:48,709 --> 00:11:51,643 - Benjamin. - Nice to meet you, Sean. 232 00:11:51,745 --> 00:11:55,046 And we have Mahogany joining us 233 00:11:55,115 --> 00:11:56,815 all the way from Peru. 234 00:11:56,817 --> 00:12:00,518 You are a couple that ended on a really sad note 235 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:01,653 after breaking up. 236 00:12:01,755 --> 00:12:03,822 It was just kind of a disaster, you know? 237 00:12:06,226 --> 00:12:08,493 When was the last time you guys spoke? 238 00:12:08,495 --> 00:12:11,763 Uh, we spoke last night. 239 00:12:11,832 --> 00:12:14,933 I can't wait to hear what that conversation was like, Benjamin. 240 00:12:14,935 --> 00:12:16,579 Yeah, I'm interested to hear that. 241 00:12:16,603 --> 00:12:18,303 - Because... Goodness. - Yeah. 242 00:12:18,305 --> 00:12:20,405 But right now, let's kick things off 243 00:12:20,407 --> 00:12:23,208 with Gino and Jasmine. 244 00:12:23,210 --> 00:12:26,711 Congratulations on your proposal. 245 00:12:30,317 --> 00:12:33,351 Yes. Flashing that bling, girl. 246 00:12:33,420 --> 00:12:35,954 That means you got to get her here quick, Gino. 247 00:12:35,956 --> 00:12:37,822 - Yeah. - So what are the formal plans? 248 00:12:37,824 --> 00:12:41,292 Well, I have a K-1 visa in process. 249 00:12:41,294 --> 00:12:42,427 You do? Okay. 250 00:12:42,429 --> 00:12:43,628 I submitted to immigration, 251 00:12:43,630 --> 00:12:46,831 and we're about at the fifth month or so waiting, 252 00:12:46,833 --> 00:12:48,299 or sixth, actually. 253 00:12:48,301 --> 00:12:50,034 Wonderful. 254 00:12:50,036 --> 00:12:53,705 Now, one issue that kept getting in the way of Gino 255 00:12:53,707 --> 00:12:57,342 and Jasmine's love was Jasmine's jealousy. 256 00:12:57,410 --> 00:13:00,745 Let's take a look at how Gino dealt with these moments. 257 00:13:02,449 --> 00:13:05,316 Sometimes Jasmine can get really jealous, 258 00:13:05,318 --> 00:13:07,919 and that concerns me a little bit. 259 00:13:07,921 --> 00:13:11,322 She says, evidence, reports. 260 00:13:11,324 --> 00:13:14,492 So, usually when I go out, I'll send her a screenshot 261 00:13:14,494 --> 00:13:15,627 or check in with her. 262 00:13:15,629 --> 00:13:16,761 Hi. 263 00:13:16,763 --> 00:13:20,598 Yeah, I just got a carry out for fish and chips. 264 00:13:24,504 --> 00:13:25,837 How you doing? 265 00:13:28,608 --> 00:13:29,741 And what's your first name? 266 00:13:29,843 --> 00:13:31,910 - My name's Brittany. - Brittany. Okay. 267 00:13:31,912 --> 00:13:33,711 Yeah, it was nice meeting you. 268 00:13:33,713 --> 00:13:35,113 - Thank you. - Thank you. 269 00:13:35,115 --> 00:13:36,314 - Bye. - Bye. 270 00:13:44,724 --> 00:13:46,558 Yes. 271 00:13:46,659 --> 00:13:47,725 Why not say hi? It's not... 272 00:13:50,130 --> 00:13:52,730 It was my first time in the restaurant. 273 00:13:52,732 --> 00:13:54,772 I never have been there. 274 00:14:24,831 --> 00:14:25,930 Which is true. 275 00:14:25,932 --> 00:14:28,600 You don't have to say nasty stuff. 276 00:14:43,516 --> 00:14:45,450 Whoa! 277 00:14:45,551 --> 00:14:47,518 Jasmine. 278 00:14:50,724 --> 00:14:52,323 I see it. So I understand that. 279 00:14:52,325 --> 00:14:55,360 That was a little much, though, with the little police emoji. 280 00:14:55,428 --> 00:14:56,461 It was a little much. 281 00:15:01,534 --> 00:15:04,602 I want to be nice and say hi, what's your name? 282 00:15:04,604 --> 00:15:07,038 But I wasn't hitting on her. 283 00:15:07,140 --> 00:15:10,208 Jasmine, do you worry that Gino is cheating on you? 284 00:15:12,412 --> 00:15:13,845 All the time? 285 00:15:18,718 --> 00:15:20,652 Why? I never cheated on you. 286 00:15:22,756 --> 00:15:24,500 I have not. It's a fact. 287 00:15:29,629 --> 00:15:34,198 Um, Gino, have you messaged 288 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:36,334 anybody in this cast? 289 00:15:36,403 --> 00:15:38,102 What do you mean? 290 00:15:38,104 --> 00:15:41,306 Have you, like, sent DMs or anything 291 00:15:41,308 --> 00:15:45,877 to anybody that you have met through this cast? 292 00:15:45,879 --> 00:15:48,613 - Through this cast? - Yes. 293 00:15:49,816 --> 00:15:51,516 I mean, I've talked to the cast themselves. 294 00:15:51,518 --> 00:15:53,584 Yeah. 295 00:15:53,586 --> 00:15:55,320 - But no. - But that's it. 296 00:15:55,322 --> 00:15:59,857 Nobody, nobody that has a connection with anybody in this cast? 297 00:15:59,926 --> 00:16:01,459 No. 298 00:16:01,528 --> 00:16:02,527 Okay. 299 00:16:02,529 --> 00:16:06,764 So what about Benjamin's friend Jessica? 300 00:16:08,034 --> 00:16:09,200 What about her? 301 00:16:10,203 --> 00:16:12,203 Have you messaged her? 302 00:16:13,740 --> 00:16:16,207 - Uh... no. - Okay. 303 00:16:16,209 --> 00:16:19,510 But there's not been any communication between you 304 00:16:19,512 --> 00:16:20,945 and her at all. 305 00:16:27,353 --> 00:16:30,154 - Okay. - What happened? 306 00:17:05,058 --> 00:17:06,457 Coming up... 307 00:17:11,898 --> 00:17:13,031 Oh, my God. 308 00:17:18,104 --> 00:17:19,203 And later... 309 00:17:19,205 --> 00:17:21,039 You didn't know? 310 00:17:21,041 --> 00:17:23,741 Nope, I did not. 311 00:17:23,843 --> 00:17:26,711 That's up. 312 00:17:29,616 --> 00:17:30,915 I need a minute. 313 00:17:50,136 --> 00:17:51,702 I don't know. 314 00:17:54,507 --> 00:17:55,907 Tell the truth now, Gino. 315 00:17:55,909 --> 00:17:56,974 I'm telling you. 316 00:17:58,144 --> 00:18:01,045 I think she messaged me hi and I responded back, 317 00:18:01,114 --> 00:18:03,981 "Hello, how are you?" or something. 318 00:18:03,983 --> 00:18:05,082 Okay. 319 00:18:05,151 --> 00:18:08,052 So, first, Gino, there was no communication at all. 320 00:18:08,121 --> 00:18:11,055 Now there is communication. 321 00:18:31,211 --> 00:18:34,345 We actually have the DMs. 322 00:18:37,317 --> 00:18:38,449 No. 323 00:18:38,518 --> 00:18:40,518 Jessica gave this to you, right? 324 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:43,254 Okay. Um... 325 00:18:58,838 --> 00:19:00,798 She responded... 326 00:19:04,911 --> 00:19:08,713 Gino, that shows me that you reached out to her first. 327 00:19:08,715 --> 00:19:11,516 No, she originally reached out and said hello to me first. 328 00:19:11,518 --> 00:19:13,017 Okay. 329 00:19:13,019 --> 00:19:16,120 And would you be able to pull that conversation up on your DMs? 330 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,260 I don't think I have that. No. 331 00:19:24,130 --> 00:19:26,130 Why would you delete it? 332 00:19:29,936 --> 00:19:33,704 Well, I was not hitting on her. Okay? 333 00:19:33,706 --> 00:19:35,840 I... I never cheated on Jasmine ever. 334 00:19:39,812 --> 00:19:41,623 No, but she reached... 335 00:19:41,647 --> 00:19:43,548 She reached out to me first, I remember. 336 00:19:46,219 --> 00:19:48,052 And I was just being friendly, 337 00:19:48,054 --> 00:19:49,899 having a friendly conversation with her. 338 00:19:49,923 --> 00:19:51,522 So there's nothing there. 339 00:19:52,559 --> 00:19:55,259 - Because I love Jasmine. I... - Okay. 340 00:19:55,328 --> 00:19:57,662 Okay. 341 00:19:57,763 --> 00:19:59,775 Okay, we're going to dig into that a little later, 342 00:19:59,799 --> 00:20:02,200 but for now, we're going to move on. 343 00:20:02,202 --> 00:20:05,603 When Gino traveled to Panama, he brought along 344 00:20:05,605 --> 00:20:08,206 some blue pills 345 00:20:08,208 --> 00:20:12,009 in case he needed help performing with Jasmine. 346 00:20:12,011 --> 00:20:16,480 He didn't end up needing them for this never-before-seen moment 347 00:20:16,482 --> 00:20:20,017 that brought up a whole lot of questions about their sex life. 348 00:20:20,019 --> 00:20:21,319 Let's take a look. 349 00:20:26,659 --> 00:20:28,459 Huh? 350 00:21:04,030 --> 00:21:06,030 You couldn't wait an hour? 351 00:21:10,036 --> 00:21:11,302 Oh... Look at Mike. 352 00:21:11,304 --> 00:21:12,703 I'm sorry, that's... 353 00:21:12,705 --> 00:21:13,804 Okay. 354 00:21:13,806 --> 00:21:15,940 So, yeah, I mean, I remember that night, 355 00:21:15,942 --> 00:21:17,508 I was super tired. 356 00:21:17,510 --> 00:21:19,744 Not tired enough to play with pee-pee. 357 00:21:19,845 --> 00:21:23,014 I didn't have enough energy to, uh... 358 00:21:23,016 --> 00:21:24,215 Okay. 359 00:21:24,217 --> 00:21:25,716 - Do the wild thing. - All right. 360 00:21:25,718 --> 00:21:28,853 Jasmine, why do you consider that cheating? 361 00:21:36,829 --> 00:21:38,262 Gino, is that true? 362 00:21:38,298 --> 00:21:41,198 No, it's not true. It's not true. 363 00:22:10,596 --> 00:22:13,531 Where do you get the idea that I'm masturbating? 364 00:22:13,533 --> 00:22:16,000 Jasmine, did you see him do it? 365 00:22:16,002 --> 00:22:17,935 No. 366 00:22:24,444 --> 00:22:25,710 I'm telling you... 367 00:22:25,712 --> 00:22:27,578 Well, whatever you're seeing is not what you think 368 00:22:27,580 --> 00:22:29,313 because I'm just telling you for a fact that... 369 00:22:29,315 --> 00:22:30,826 - Okay. - It's not the case. 370 00:22:30,850 --> 00:22:32,016 Oh, man. 371 00:22:53,139 --> 00:22:54,505 I don't know why you keep saying 372 00:22:54,507 --> 00:22:57,508 I like to or prefer to masturbate. It's not true at all. 373 00:22:57,510 --> 00:22:59,710 But you were there for an entire month 374 00:22:59,712 --> 00:23:01,712 and you only had sex one time? 375 00:23:01,714 --> 00:23:04,014 No, that's... No. No, no, no. 376 00:23:04,016 --> 00:23:06,050 - How many times, Gino? - How many times... 377 00:23:06,052 --> 00:23:08,819 I don't know exactly, but it was definitely more than once, 378 00:23:08,821 --> 00:23:09,954 definitely more than once. 379 00:23:43,022 --> 00:23:44,054 Coming up... 380 00:23:44,156 --> 00:23:47,324 Gino, what site did you 381 00:23:47,326 --> 00:23:49,026 and Jasmine meet on? 382 00:23:49,028 --> 00:23:50,728 Um... 383 00:23:52,265 --> 00:23:53,464 I can't remember exactly. 384 00:24:00,606 --> 00:24:02,373 You were there for an entire month 385 00:24:02,375 --> 00:24:04,608 and you only had sex one time? 386 00:24:04,610 --> 00:24:08,045 The thing that happens is we get into arguments frequently 387 00:24:08,047 --> 00:24:10,314 and that does affect it, okay? 388 00:24:10,316 --> 00:24:11,916 It does. 389 00:24:22,061 --> 00:24:23,594 I love you, Jasmine. 390 00:24:23,596 --> 00:24:25,863 Gino, you got to reciprocate that passion. 391 00:24:25,965 --> 00:24:29,700 Yeah. And I want to improve this situation, okay? 392 00:24:29,702 --> 00:24:31,202 And I want to argue less. 393 00:24:31,204 --> 00:24:34,605 But if the argument is over not having sex, just have sex. 394 00:25:00,266 --> 00:25:03,501 Well, during Gino and Jasmine's blowout fight 395 00:25:03,503 --> 00:25:05,035 about sending the nude photos, 396 00:25:05,037 --> 00:25:08,105 some new things were revealed about Gino's dating past. 397 00:25:08,107 --> 00:25:09,807 Let's take a look. 398 00:25:45,278 --> 00:25:47,111 Before I met Jasmine 399 00:25:47,113 --> 00:25:51,448 I was looking for, like, a long-term relationship, 400 00:25:51,550 --> 00:25:56,253 but typical dating sites, they were not working for me. 401 00:25:56,355 --> 00:25:59,823 Um, so I wanted to try something different. 402 00:26:08,234 --> 00:26:12,202 A couple of times, but it was dinner dates. 403 00:26:15,107 --> 00:26:16,807 I paid them. 404 00:26:18,678 --> 00:26:22,680 Wow. Okay. Gino, I found that so... 405 00:26:22,682 --> 00:26:26,350 surprising that you would actually pay women 406 00:26:26,419 --> 00:26:27,952 to go out on dates with you, 407 00:26:28,020 --> 00:26:31,322 not just pay for dinner, but actually pay the women. 408 00:26:31,324 --> 00:26:33,204 Why did you do that? 409 00:26:42,802 --> 00:26:44,702 No, that... 410 00:26:44,704 --> 00:26:47,938 There was more options to girls that were, 411 00:26:47,940 --> 00:26:50,608 I was more attracted to, um... 412 00:26:50,610 --> 00:26:53,444 If you actually paid them? 413 00:26:53,512 --> 00:26:56,347 - For dinner. - Oh, my God. 414 00:26:56,415 --> 00:26:58,449 I was not having sex with these girls. Dinner. 415 00:26:58,550 --> 00:27:01,051 How much would you pay them 416 00:27:01,120 --> 00:27:03,454 I can't remember exactly. 417 00:27:04,624 --> 00:27:07,958 But it varied. Uh, probably 100 or less. 418 00:27:08,027 --> 00:27:09,760 Hundred dollars. Okay. 419 00:27:09,862 --> 00:27:13,030 But this is my past. This is my past. This is... 420 00:27:14,834 --> 00:27:17,101 How many dates like this did you go on, Gino? 421 00:27:17,103 --> 00:27:19,103 Probably less than five. 422 00:27:26,612 --> 00:27:29,813 How many dates do you think it was, Jasmine? 423 00:27:32,218 --> 00:27:34,251 A minimum of 30? 424 00:27:35,421 --> 00:27:39,623 Gino, what is the sugar baby relationship like? 425 00:27:39,625 --> 00:27:43,227 Like what... what does that whole thing entail? 426 00:27:43,229 --> 00:27:45,963 I mean, it's just like a friendly date 427 00:27:46,065 --> 00:27:49,900 that where the man could help out the, 428 00:27:49,902 --> 00:27:52,102 for companionship, 429 00:27:52,104 --> 00:27:55,239 that the man would could pay some money... 430 00:27:55,307 --> 00:27:57,307 - Okay. - To go on a date. 431 00:27:57,309 --> 00:27:59,309 There's probably some women on there that are looking 432 00:27:59,311 --> 00:28:00,411 for more than just dinner, okay? 433 00:28:00,413 --> 00:28:02,146 - Yeah. Okay. - Oh, man. 434 00:28:03,549 --> 00:28:05,549 Yeah. Okay, Gino. 435 00:28:05,651 --> 00:28:09,319 So what site did you 436 00:28:09,321 --> 00:28:11,455 and Jasmine meet on? 437 00:28:12,625 --> 00:28:14,658 Um... 438 00:28:16,429 --> 00:28:20,130 All right, so we met on... 439 00:28:21,901 --> 00:28:23,901 believe it or not, 440 00:28:23,903 --> 00:28:26,236 a sugar baby site. 441 00:28:53,065 --> 00:28:56,100 Okay, okay. 442 00:28:56,102 --> 00:28:58,235 There is still so much more to talk about. 443 00:28:58,304 --> 00:29:00,404 We'll be right back after the break. 444 00:29:00,406 --> 00:29:02,072 Coming up... 445 00:29:02,074 --> 00:29:05,442 You know, people who are saying that cheating is horrible, like... 446 00:29:05,511 --> 00:29:06,744 It's not the same thing, Ella. 447 00:29:06,812 --> 00:29:09,113 And I'm kind of, I'm kind of offended you said that. 448 00:29:09,115 --> 00:29:11,915 It's not cheating because he's not lying to me about it. 449 00:29:11,917 --> 00:29:13,417 You lied. 450 00:29:13,419 --> 00:29:15,119 It's really up. 451 00:29:17,156 --> 00:29:18,322 And later... 452 00:29:18,324 --> 00:29:21,225 You didn't know that Usman had called Zara? 453 00:29:21,227 --> 00:29:23,761 - Nope, I did not. - Oh, my gosh. 454 00:29:23,862 --> 00:29:26,330 What is that, like... 455 00:29:29,935 --> 00:29:31,835 Wow. This is humiliating. 456 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:36,740 Three, two. 457 00:29:36,809 --> 00:29:39,309 All right. Now let us focus on Kim and Usman. 458 00:29:39,311 --> 00:29:42,713 We first met Usman on season four 459 00:29:42,715 --> 00:29:44,314 of Before the 90 Days, 460 00:29:44,316 --> 00:29:47,751 but unfortunately that marriage did not last. 461 00:29:48,954 --> 00:29:51,522 So he attempted to find true love again, 462 00:29:51,524 --> 00:29:53,690 this time with Kim. 463 00:29:53,692 --> 00:29:57,761 So Kim, how has your dynamic changed 464 00:29:57,863 --> 00:30:01,932 with Usman since you became officially his girlfriend? 465 00:30:01,934 --> 00:30:06,003 Um, since I've been back, things are a little, you know, 466 00:30:06,005 --> 00:30:07,738 I don't talk to him as much. 467 00:30:07,807 --> 00:30:10,207 I don't know, like, making plans is, kind of, hard right now. 468 00:30:13,112 --> 00:30:14,552 Here we go, there's always an excuse. 469 00:30:22,121 --> 00:30:25,155 Kim, you said that you would allow Usman 470 00:30:25,257 --> 00:30:27,958 to marry a second wife and have kids. 471 00:30:34,133 --> 00:30:37,134 I don't really know, to be honest, you know? 472 00:30:37,236 --> 00:30:39,937 I feel, like, if him and I were to get married. 473 00:30:40,038 --> 00:30:41,805 I am 51 years old. 474 00:30:41,807 --> 00:30:43,767 I cannot... I don't want any more children. 475 00:30:43,809 --> 00:30:46,310 I can't have any more children. 476 00:30:46,312 --> 00:30:49,546 But I feel like I would be selfish 477 00:30:49,648 --> 00:30:52,049 if I did not let this man have children. 478 00:30:52,117 --> 00:30:56,019 It's his culture for him to have children to carry on his name. 479 00:30:56,021 --> 00:30:58,099 But like the marriage thing, we haven't talked about that yet. 480 00:30:58,123 --> 00:30:59,089 Whoa! 481 00:30:59,091 --> 00:31:00,624 We haven't even crossed that step. 482 00:31:00,626 --> 00:31:02,926 That's why it's crazy we were even talking about this part. 483 00:31:02,928 --> 00:31:06,430 But I have to, because it's his culture, you know? 484 00:31:06,432 --> 00:31:09,399 So Kim, how would you feel about Usman being intimate 485 00:31:09,401 --> 00:31:11,501 with one other woman? 486 00:31:15,007 --> 00:31:18,041 I don't know, like, how I feel about it. 487 00:31:18,110 --> 00:31:21,245 I can't really say until it happens. 488 00:31:21,313 --> 00:31:23,447 Is it going to be easy? No. 489 00:31:23,548 --> 00:31:25,415 And everybody's like, "Oh, you're crazy. Oh, you're crazy." 490 00:31:25,417 --> 00:31:27,050 Maybe. But I love him. 491 00:31:31,724 --> 00:31:35,726 Is there anybody who thinks this ain't going to work? 492 00:31:38,330 --> 00:31:40,797 - Memphis. - I can't share my man. 493 00:31:40,799 --> 00:31:42,699 I really can't. 494 00:31:42,701 --> 00:31:47,704 But at the end of the day, if she's willing to sacrifice for the person that she loves, 495 00:31:47,706 --> 00:31:50,207 I mean, who am I to tell her that that's wrong? 496 00:31:50,209 --> 00:31:52,309 That's something that she, you know, 497 00:31:52,311 --> 00:31:54,044 that they will have to deal with, but he... 498 00:31:54,046 --> 00:31:56,113 Mm-mm. 499 00:32:02,621 --> 00:32:05,022 I know that. 500 00:32:05,024 --> 00:32:07,324 And I know that. 501 00:32:07,326 --> 00:32:11,428 You know, people who are saying, you know, 502 00:32:11,430 --> 00:32:12,996 that cheating is horrible, like... 503 00:32:12,998 --> 00:32:14,331 It's not the same thing, Ella. 504 00:32:14,333 --> 00:32:16,800 And I'm, kind of, I'm kind of offended you said that 505 00:32:16,802 --> 00:32:19,536 because when and if this day happens, 506 00:32:19,638 --> 00:32:22,105 that's not cheating because he's not lying to me about it. 507 00:32:22,107 --> 00:32:24,708 I'm going in knowing about it. You lied. 508 00:32:24,710 --> 00:32:27,244 And he's not lying to me. 509 00:32:27,346 --> 00:32:30,147 Let me tell you, if some other woman, 510 00:32:30,215 --> 00:32:31,515 like, he just cheated on me with, 511 00:32:31,517 --> 00:32:33,684 this whole relationship would be over. 512 00:32:33,686 --> 00:32:35,229 But this is something... 513 00:32:35,253 --> 00:32:36,520 This is a culture thing. 514 00:32:36,522 --> 00:32:37,999 It might not be right... 515 00:32:38,023 --> 00:32:39,423 Let me finish. Let me finish. 516 00:32:40,793 --> 00:32:42,604 It might not be right for you, but I don't look at it as like 517 00:32:42,628 --> 00:32:45,295 he's cheating on me because I'm aware of it, right? 518 00:32:45,297 --> 00:32:47,130 Do you see what I'm saying? 519 00:32:47,132 --> 00:32:50,033 I'm very well aware that it would rip my heart out 520 00:32:50,035 --> 00:32:52,035 to know that he's going to lay down 521 00:32:52,104 --> 00:32:53,303 with some other woman to have children 522 00:32:53,305 --> 00:32:55,706 because I can't, 523 00:32:55,708 --> 00:32:58,342 but it's a respect issue. 524 00:32:59,411 --> 00:33:01,812 We'll cross that bridge when we come to it. 525 00:33:01,814 --> 00:33:04,348 I mean, let me enjoy being Sojaboy's girlfriend. 526 00:33:07,953 --> 00:33:09,987 Let's move on to another topic. 527 00:33:09,989 --> 00:33:11,955 Along with their physical connection, 528 00:33:11,957 --> 00:33:14,257 another important aspect to this relationship 529 00:33:14,326 --> 00:33:17,761 was Usman's relationship with Kim's son, Jamal. 530 00:33:17,830 --> 00:33:19,830 Now we're going to bring in Jamal 531 00:33:19,832 --> 00:33:22,933 to see how he feels about Usman possibly 532 00:33:22,935 --> 00:33:24,735 becoming his stepdad. 533 00:33:24,803 --> 00:33:27,104 Please welcome Jamal. 534 00:33:27,106 --> 00:33:28,338 What's up, what's up? 535 00:33:28,340 --> 00:33:30,707 - How are you doing, Jamal? - I'm good. 536 00:33:30,709 --> 00:33:33,010 Jamal, tell me how you feel about Usman 537 00:33:33,012 --> 00:33:37,214 possibly becoming your stepdad 538 00:33:37,216 --> 00:33:39,449 now that you have seen how things 539 00:33:39,518 --> 00:33:41,618 have transpired between them. 540 00:33:45,457 --> 00:33:48,103 Well, first, I'm never going to call Usman my stepdad. 541 00:33:48,127 --> 00:33:49,926 That just sounds weird off the bat. 542 00:33:49,928 --> 00:33:52,629 And why not? 543 00:33:52,631 --> 00:33:54,798 Um, because he could be my mom's son, for one. 544 00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:56,277 - Wow. - Which is kind of weird. 545 00:33:56,301 --> 00:33:59,036 I'm sorry. But I don't know, like... 546 00:33:59,104 --> 00:34:02,039 From what I've seen, you know, his intentions, you know, 547 00:34:02,140 --> 00:34:04,341 are still, it's still kind of a puzzle to me. 548 00:34:04,410 --> 00:34:07,811 You know, I can't sit here and say, like, 549 00:34:07,813 --> 00:34:09,546 I wouldn't disrupt the wedding. 550 00:34:11,316 --> 00:34:14,918 You can't say you wouldn't disrupt the wedding. 551 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,821 You know, y'all's relationship is a little mysterious. 552 00:34:18,857 --> 00:34:20,957 Well, it looks a little strange, doesn't it? 553 00:34:20,959 --> 00:34:23,226 What... what is strange about it? 554 00:34:24,663 --> 00:34:27,364 I mean, for one, it's the age difference. 555 00:34:27,466 --> 00:34:31,301 For two, you know, she's been taken advantage of plenty of time. 556 00:34:31,303 --> 00:34:36,606 So, I mean, you got Usman a MacBook and a PS5. 557 00:34:36,608 --> 00:34:39,309 Those are expensive gifts, you know, 558 00:34:39,311 --> 00:34:42,712 and she managed a lot for him there. 559 00:34:42,714 --> 00:34:44,514 So it's, like, I don't know if he wants an assistant 560 00:34:44,516 --> 00:34:46,316 or if he wants a girlfriend. 561 00:34:47,820 --> 00:34:49,086 Wow. 562 00:34:49,088 --> 00:34:50,720 I don't know. 563 00:34:50,722 --> 00:34:52,689 It's like he doesn't, he doesn't cut straight. 564 00:34:52,691 --> 00:34:54,524 I mean, I would never call someone of my potential. 565 00:34:54,526 --> 00:34:56,226 I feel like that's just disrespectful. 566 00:34:56,228 --> 00:34:59,162 So do you think Usman is playing your mom? 567 00:34:59,264 --> 00:35:00,530 Oh... 568 00:35:00,532 --> 00:35:02,132 Say it, Jamal. 569 00:35:08,207 --> 00:35:09,940 Coming up... 570 00:35:12,311 --> 00:35:14,845 Oh, you called her? 571 00:35:14,913 --> 00:35:16,046 That's up. 572 00:35:23,222 --> 00:35:26,556 So, Jamal, you think Usman is playing your mom? 573 00:35:26,625 --> 00:35:28,258 Oh... 574 00:35:31,964 --> 00:35:33,630 Say it, Jamal. 575 00:35:35,734 --> 00:35:38,034 I think it's two different types of love. 576 00:35:38,103 --> 00:35:41,404 I think my mom is in love with Usman, 577 00:35:41,406 --> 00:35:44,407 and I think he loves the idea of my mom. 578 00:35:45,811 --> 00:35:47,310 Okay. 579 00:35:47,312 --> 00:35:50,147 I don't think it's cool to call her your potential. 580 00:35:50,248 --> 00:35:51,292 Like, what the is that? 581 00:35:51,316 --> 00:35:53,416 Like, what is a potential? 582 00:35:56,355 --> 00:35:59,356 Well, Kim and Usman hit a snag 583 00:35:59,457 --> 00:36:02,058 when Usman revealed his past relationship 584 00:36:02,060 --> 00:36:05,162 with another American woman named Zara. 585 00:36:05,230 --> 00:36:08,665 When Kim found out the real meaning 586 00:36:08,733 --> 00:36:10,600 behind his song "Zara" 587 00:36:10,602 --> 00:36:14,204 they had their biggest fight yet. 588 00:36:21,346 --> 00:36:22,612 Wow. 589 00:36:30,122 --> 00:36:32,222 I don't understand how somebody could just 590 00:36:32,224 --> 00:36:34,457 tell me he loves me and then just, like, 591 00:36:34,559 --> 00:36:37,627 the whole... I feel like everything was a lie now, you know? 592 00:36:40,532 --> 00:36:42,165 You need to do something big. 593 00:36:42,234 --> 00:36:45,402 I don't know what the that is because I'm not you. 594 00:36:45,404 --> 00:36:46,503 But I'm not... 595 00:36:46,505 --> 00:36:48,905 Until you prove it and you prove I'm the one, 596 00:36:48,907 --> 00:36:50,707 I don't even want to be around you, seriously. 597 00:36:52,711 --> 00:36:55,145 Oh, is it funny? 598 00:36:55,247 --> 00:36:57,514 Is this funny, too? 599 00:36:58,917 --> 00:37:00,951 I hope that was funny, too. 600 00:37:06,058 --> 00:37:07,791 Jamal, how did it make you feel 601 00:37:07,793 --> 00:37:09,759 seeing your mother so upset? 602 00:37:09,828 --> 00:37:11,628 Usman, you know, that was up. 603 00:37:21,039 --> 00:37:24,407 To find out that Zara was an "actual woman" 604 00:37:24,409 --> 00:37:26,309 was like a slap in my face. 605 00:37:29,414 --> 00:37:31,314 He should have been honest with me 606 00:37:31,316 --> 00:37:33,216 because I would have never pursued anything with him 607 00:37:33,218 --> 00:37:35,819 if I thought that he was dating somebody else. 608 00:37:38,223 --> 00:37:40,201 When I told you I was falling in love with you, 609 00:37:40,225 --> 00:37:42,225 you should have been like, "Hey, you know, 610 00:37:42,227 --> 00:37:45,528 I respect you enough to tell you right now 611 00:37:45,530 --> 00:37:47,308 that I'm in a relationship with somebody." 612 00:37:49,934 --> 00:37:51,801 Oh, my gosh. 613 00:37:53,305 --> 00:37:56,206 You're over here trying to justify yourself whereas 614 00:37:56,208 --> 00:37:58,386 you should just admit, like, "Yeah, I should have told you." 615 00:37:58,410 --> 00:37:59,709 Like, that's it. 616 00:37:59,711 --> 00:38:03,813 Well, when Kim left Tanzania, she thought she was leaving 617 00:38:03,815 --> 00:38:06,416 her issues about Zara behind. 618 00:38:06,418 --> 00:38:09,319 What she didn't realize was that Usman 619 00:38:09,321 --> 00:38:12,122 might not have closed that book entirely. 620 00:38:12,124 --> 00:38:13,523 Take a look. 621 00:38:19,464 --> 00:38:20,964 Oh, no. 622 00:38:20,966 --> 00:38:24,034 Oh, you called her? 623 00:38:26,938 --> 00:38:29,406 Well, thank you for calling me. 624 00:38:29,408 --> 00:38:30,540 Okay. 625 00:38:49,461 --> 00:38:50,694 - Wow. - Are you sure about that? 626 00:38:50,696 --> 00:38:52,228 Wow. This is humiliating. 627 00:39:21,526 --> 00:39:22,826 That's up. 628 00:39:22,828 --> 00:39:24,728 That's really up. 629 00:39:33,438 --> 00:39:36,406 You didn't know that Usman had called Zara? 630 00:39:37,743 --> 00:39:40,410 Nope. I did not. 631 00:39:41,613 --> 00:39:42,712 Like, what the is that? 632 00:39:42,714 --> 00:39:44,948 Like... 633 00:40:15,514 --> 00:40:17,313 I need a minute. 634 00:40:19,718 --> 00:40:21,518 Why are you clapping at her like that? 635 00:40:30,061 --> 00:40:32,328 Next time, Before the 90 Days: 636 00:40:32,330 --> 00:40:34,631 The Couples Tell All continues. 637 00:40:37,502 --> 00:40:40,804 After everything I did, to call Zara, 638 00:40:40,806 --> 00:40:42,205 is a slap in my face. 639 00:40:42,207 --> 00:40:43,317 Feel like, "What do I do now? 640 00:40:43,341 --> 00:40:45,241 Do I make it work now?" 641 00:40:45,343 --> 00:40:47,088 I had a friend come out and hang out with me. 642 00:40:47,112 --> 00:40:48,812 Not the same one, but a different one. 643 00:40:48,814 --> 00:40:50,814 Were you guys intimate at all? 644 00:40:52,017 --> 00:40:53,727 I'll tell you one thing, you're not ready 645 00:40:53,751 --> 00:40:55,552 for this type of relationship, honey. 646 00:40:55,620 --> 00:40:56,653 Are you a grown adult? 647 00:40:56,721 --> 00:40:58,721 Do you need people to, like, coddle you? 648 00:40:58,723 --> 00:41:01,224 Yeah, I know I up. I owned it. 649 00:41:13,104 --> 00:41:15,205 This was meant to be a one-time thing only. 650 00:41:21,646 --> 00:41:22,712 No, no, no. 651 00:41:22,714 --> 00:41:24,514 That's something you should just never do. 652 00:41:27,219 --> 00:41:30,019 You had so much criticism for my relationship 653 00:41:30,021 --> 00:41:31,521 and for everybody on here, 654 00:41:31,523 --> 00:41:33,223 and yours is the worst one here. 655 00:41:48,039 --> 00:41:51,508 This is Benjamin's friend that Gino was talking to. 656 00:42:10,428 --> 00:42:12,228 Ximena, are you back together? 657 00:42:20,505 --> 00:42:21,604 Wow.