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<i>Previously on</i>
<i>"Before the 90 Days."</i>

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[shouts]

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[chuckles]
Trish!

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[both giggle]

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-I'm here, baby.
-I can't believe it.

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I really believe
that she's the one.

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I love you so, so, so much.

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I know that I've been very
suspicious of Trish.

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After the ghosting incident.

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But right now, all I wanna
focus on is our bond.

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Surprise!
[chuckles]

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Ooh, damn!
[laughs loudly]

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What?

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[giggles]

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My boyfriend is just a charmer.

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He is a famous singer
and rapper in Belize.

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But my aunt hears
a lot of rumors.

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They actually just did
a big concert.

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And I was getting messages
that she was at the concert

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and that they left together.

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I hope that Stig and I
prove everybody wrong, but

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there's definitely
a part of me that wonders

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if what my aunt
is saying is true.

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Birkan is absolutely, like,
the hot main character,

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straight out of a romance novel.

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I'm ready to take
the next step with him,

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but I think my best friend,
Michael,

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has feelings for me that are
more than just friendship.

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You want my time and attention
as though I am your girlfriend,

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but it can't go both ways.

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[Michael speaking]

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[sobs]

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I want a man who wants
to be a man.

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I want a man who wants
to make me a priority.

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[cries]

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[Forrest] I'm headed
to the Philippines today,

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but last night,

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Sheena tells me she has been
giving all her money

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to her parents this entire time.

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I am not happy,

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and I don't feel
like I can trust her.

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[Sheena]
And I would have the most
painful heartbreak in my life.

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[tense music intensifies]

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♪ It's a beautiful day ♪

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♪♪

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[Laura]
I hate packing.

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I feel like I'm gonna
forget something.

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So yeah, I don't like that.
I'm like super nervous.

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Did not expect to be
this nervous.

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I've never gone on a trip
for this long.

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I've never flown
over the ocean.

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I've never left the continent.

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But I am leaving
for Türkiye today.

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I am so incredibly excited
to finally be on my way to meet

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what could be the love
of my life.

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I've been talking about doing
this for so long,

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for so many months.

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And now that it's here,

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I'm way more nervous than
I thought I was going to be.

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The situation with Michael is
giving me a little bit

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more anxiety, too.

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When I confronted Michael,
I really was...

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trying to give him a chance,
so I could have a clear head

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before going to Türkiye
to meet Birkan.

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But Michael does not seem
like he's ever going to come

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to terms with his feelings
and his emotions.

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And that's not fair to me.

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So I'm ready to take the next
step with someone else.

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Michael and I have a really
great friendship.

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We do a lot of things together.

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We spend a lot
of time together.

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And I know that that is not
really common to have that kind

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of male-female friendship
in other cultures,

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other religions.

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And so that's scary to feel
like I might possibly have

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to choose between somebody who's
my best friend and somebody

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who could be the love
of my life.

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[knocking]

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It's open.

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-Hey, how are you?
-Hey.

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-Good, how are you?
-Oh, hi, Laura.

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[Ellen]
Are you excited?

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Yeah, a little
terrified, actually.

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Yeah, I know.
I bet.

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-Hi.
-Hey.

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I'm terrified for you.

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My parents offered to take me
to the airport,

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which is really nice.

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But my relationship
has felt a little bit strained

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with my parents
since I started dating Birkan.

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They are very conservative
and very Catholic.

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And Birkan is not at all

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who they would expect
to see me end up with.

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So I've tried not to talk
about it with them very much.

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You ready
for your big adventure?

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[Laura]
So excited.

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♪♪

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I can't believe
today's the day.

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I appreciate you guys taking me
to the airport.

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I know it's a little bit
of a drive.

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Well, I wanted you
to feel supported,

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but I'm not in favor
of all this.

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I can't believe you would go
clear to Türkiye and meet a guy

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you never met, who is a Muslim.

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It's not even in my wheelhouse
to think that that would ever

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have been something
that was possible.

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You know what I'm saying?

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It seems irresponsible to me.

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But it's not like I'm going in

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completely blind

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or without
the same concerns and questions.

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The age thing is the single
biggest concern that I have.

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I mean, how old's he, Laura?

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He's 20 years younger
than I am.

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Oh, my God.
Laura, are you serious?

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I think I got hair on my chin
older than that.

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-Don't make jokes.
-Holy mackerel!

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That's not funny.

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What is he thinking?
What the --

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[Laura] What is he thinking?
I'm awesome.

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What the heck is he thinking?

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I think he's thinking
I'm awesome.

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No, I think he's thinking
he wants a ticket to America.

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That's what I think
he's thinking.

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Were you ever suspicious?

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Like, "Gee, he's a young man
talking to an older woman

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and saying
all the right things."

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Has he told you he loved you?

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-Yeah.
-OK.

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'Cause red flag.
Because he doesn't love you.

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That's not what love is.

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You haven't even met
this guy yet.

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You've had a conversation
with an unknown entity.

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Right now, it's not love.

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It's some infatuation
or some...

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to me, I will not be convinced
it's nothing but...

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that guy wants out of Türkiye.

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I don't --

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Like I said, it's a concern.

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-I agree.
-A concern?

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It's more like ten giant
red flags.

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My word in Heaven.

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You actually think
that there's a possibility

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that this could work

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and this could be
a lifelong commitment?

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-Yeah, I do.
-You do?

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If I didn't think
that there was a possibility,

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I wouldn't be getting on a plane
and flying to Türkiye.

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Oh, my -- I'm --

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Oh, my God.

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[Laura]
I feel blindsided.

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I knew that they
didn't really approve.

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I just didn't know
that they felt this strongly.

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I just, honey, I disagree
with the whole thing.

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All of it.

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I wanna be happy for you.

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But I can't.

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[Laura]
I'm already so overwhelmed.

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I'm feeling every
emotion possible.

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And for my mom to unleash
all of these concerns on me

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at this point,

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it is just messing
with my head.

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It keeps me awake at night,
thinking about you going

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over there and doing all that.

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Don't sell yourself short.

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Don't ever settle.

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♪♪

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♪ I got a funny feeling
Ain't nobody gonna understand ♪

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♪ No trouble in the alley and..♪

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[Lisa]
We have to make a pit stop.

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[Faith]
Why?

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Because your mother
is picking out condoms.

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-[sighs]
-[giggle]

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[Lisa] Are you sure
you don't wanna come in with me?

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Yeah, yeah.
No.

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[Lisa laughs]
Yeah.

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♪ I'm gonna do it once
Do it twice ♪

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♪ Take the cake,
not just a slice ♪

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♪ I got a funny feeling
Ain't nobody gonna understand ♪

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[Faith]
What did you tell me earlier?

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You're how old?

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And you said
you were an adult?

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I'm an adult.

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You don't need my help
picking out [bleep] condoms.

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My name is Lisa.

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I'm 52 years old,

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and I live in King of Prussia,
Pennsylvania.

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I thought you would feel better
knowing that your mother's

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taking precautions.

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I mean, he did say
he was a playboy, so...

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I said a lot of women
seem to like him.

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No, you said he used to play
the field a lot.

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Is that not a playboy?

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Playboy's somebody
who's like a gigolo.

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-He didn't say...
-No!

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...he went out with a lot
of women.

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Gigolo and playboys
are way different.

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-Gigolos are male hooker.
-No, that's not.

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That's what a gigolo is.

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A pimp is the one
who takes out female hookers

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and gets the money.
-OK.

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I live with my daughter, Faith,
or Faith lives with me.

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We live with each other.

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And she is the apple of my eye.

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We talk about everything,

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whether it's a topic of sex

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and...masturbating

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to dirty dishes in the sink

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and who's gonna do
the laundry tomorrow.

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I don't know
what I'm looking for.

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What if I buy the wrong one?

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How do I know what size it is?

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Has he ever told you in inch?

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Well, I guess it wouldn't be.

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In kilometers?

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No.

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I have never used
a condom before.

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[laughs]

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I have been married five times.

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Husband number one,
I was young, I was dumb,

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and it led to an annulment.

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Husband number two,
he was my very best friend,

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and it led to my daughter,
Faith.

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But after a few years,

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I realized he made a better
friend than he made a husband.

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Husband number three,
he was actually my favorite

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of all of them.
He was a really good guy.

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So why did I leave him?

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I realized I was a lesbian.

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And for the past 21 years,
I've been with women only.

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♪ Let's go with the flow ♪

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♪ Relax and watch what happens ♪

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[Lisa] Women are nice
and curvy and soft.

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And I've had one wife,
and then I've had another wife.

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But neither of them worked out.

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But I forgot about men,
to be quite honest with you.

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I wasn't even thinking that
I'd be interested in a man

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after 21 years.

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But sure enough,
Daniel came along and...

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Yeah, Daniel came along.

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[Lisa]
He is 39 years old,

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and he lives
in Owerri, Nigeria.

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He's not built like a woman
in any sense of the way,

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shape, or form,
so I don't know what it is.

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He messaged me
on social media.

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We didn't know each other
from Adam or Eve.

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So at first, I thought,
this is a scam artist.

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I said,
"I'm not talking to you.

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You're not real."

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But he kept trying
to talk to me.

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And you know what?
He is a smooth operator.

252
00:12:11,300 --> 00:12:12,166
He says the sweetest,
most charming things

253
00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:13,667
I've ever heard.

254
00:12:18,467 --> 00:12:20,000
[Laura]
I just fell in love with him.

255
00:12:21,367 --> 00:12:25,367
He is so sweet, it hurts
my teeth like a bad candy bar.

256
00:12:26,433 --> 00:12:29,367
I love you, Lisa, and I will
continue to love you.

257
00:12:30,333 --> 00:12:32,000
Daniel says I'm exquisite,
and I'm beautiful

258
00:12:32,533 --> 00:12:34,166
and gorgeous daily.

259
00:12:35,300 --> 00:12:37,967
And he [bleep] better,
because this damn thing is itchy

260
00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:40,567
as all hell,
and it's uncomfortable.

261
00:12:41,066 --> 00:12:41,667
Can I take it off?

262
00:12:43,066 --> 00:12:44,300
[groans]

263
00:12:45,967 --> 00:12:47,767
[quirky music plays]

264
00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:55,600
Oh, my God,
it feels so much better.

265
00:12:56,834 --> 00:12:59,200
One of my exes had me cut off
my hair really, really short,

266
00:12:59,934 --> 00:13:01,967
and I miss my long hair
so much,

267
00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:03,800
so I wear wigs.

268
00:13:04,700 --> 00:13:05,867
Daniel saw me
in my natural hair first,

269
00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:09,266
and then he saw me in my wigs,
and he was like, "Damn."

270
00:13:11,100 --> 00:13:12,767
So now I wear wigs every day,

271
00:13:13,700 --> 00:13:15,367
and I plan on wearing my wig
the whole time

272
00:13:16,133 --> 00:13:17,166
when I go visit
Daniel in Nigeria

273
00:13:17,700 --> 00:13:18,400
in less than a week.

274
00:13:19,667 --> 00:13:22,667
-OK, here goes nothing.
-Try a flavored one.

275
00:13:23,734 --> 00:13:24,600
-You might like it.
-No, I'm not getting flavored.

276
00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:27,567
-Maybe ribbed.
-No, I don't know.

277
00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:34,367
Growing up with Mom
was a roller coaster.

278
00:13:35,567 --> 00:13:39,467
My mom is somebody who's always
fallen in love so quickly,

279
00:13:40,200 --> 00:13:40,867
at least what she thinks
is love.

280
00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:44,867
She's been through
a lot of relationships.

281
00:13:45,533 --> 00:13:47,100
We've moved so many places.

282
00:13:47,867 --> 00:13:48,900
I've been to 15
different schools,

283
00:13:49,567 --> 00:13:51,066
if that tells you something.

284
00:13:52,133 --> 00:13:54,166
Part of me is surprised
she's switching over to men

285
00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:56,100
after 21 years.

286
00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:57,700
I didn't see this one coming.

287
00:14:00,066 --> 00:14:01,000
[Lisa]
Oh, gosh.

288
00:14:02,467 --> 00:14:03,900
Oh, it's a very small selection.

289
00:14:05,367 --> 00:14:06,500
[sighs]

290
00:14:07,367 --> 00:14:08,867
Oh, there's different sizes.
Holy crap.

291
00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:12,667
Daniel and I,
we've had video sex.

292
00:14:13,467 --> 00:14:14,467
We've sent pictures
to each other,

293
00:14:15,166 --> 00:14:17,900
and I am attracted
to Daniel.

294
00:14:18,667 --> 00:14:20,967
But the idea
of laying with a man

295
00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:22,967
after 21 years,

296
00:14:23,633 --> 00:14:24,400
I can't even think about it.

297
00:14:25,333 --> 00:14:27,467
They have different body parts
than women.

298
00:14:28,467 --> 00:14:31,100
The smells, the tastes,
the feels, the cleanup.

299
00:14:32,300 --> 00:14:36,767
I mean, I remember 21 years ago
just walking to the bathroom

300
00:14:37,834 --> 00:14:40,100
to have to take care of myself
and still dripping.

301
00:14:41,166 --> 00:14:42,667
That's disgusting.
You don't have that with women.

302
00:14:44,100 --> 00:14:45,567
It's a whole
different ballgame.

303
00:14:46,133 --> 00:14:47,367
Oh, I'm gonna be sick.

304
00:14:48,700 --> 00:14:49,867
Um, sir?

305
00:14:50,433 --> 00:14:50,867
If you have a moment,

306
00:14:51,667 --> 00:14:53,367
could I ask you
a question, please?

307
00:14:54,233 --> 00:14:54,600
-How can I help you?
-So embarrassing.

308
00:14:54,967 --> 00:14:55,667
I'm sorry.

309
00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:57,567
This is my first time
I'm buying condoms.

310
00:14:58,333 --> 00:14:59,567
-OK.
-They have to be latex-free.

311
00:15:00,333 --> 00:15:01,400
-OK.
-I'm allergic to latex.

312
00:15:01,834 --> 00:15:03,667
I'm...[sighs]

313
00:15:04,033 --> 00:15:04,867
Oh, gosh.

314
00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:07,200
When it says thinnest,
does that mean that

315
00:15:08,300 --> 00:15:10,667
you feel more like
it's a natural skin on it?
-Yeah.

316
00:15:11,900 --> 00:15:13,600
It's just, it doesn't feel like
there's plastic going in you,

317
00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:15,767
or...I'm sorry, I'm crying.
-No, you're good.

318
00:15:16,567 --> 00:15:17,166
I'm just really,
really embarrassed.

319
00:15:17,667 --> 00:15:18,467
No, no, it's good.

320
00:15:19,533 --> 00:15:20,600
I'm buying the condoms myself
because I'm worried

321
00:15:21,834 --> 00:15:25,367
that I'll get there and there
won't be a latex-free condom.

322
00:15:26,166 --> 00:15:28,667
But this is incredibly
overwhelming

323
00:15:29,233 --> 00:15:30,266
and emotional for me.

324
00:15:31,133 --> 00:15:32,367
This is not just
about the embarrassment

325
00:15:32,867 --> 00:15:33,567
over the condoms.

326
00:15:35,367 --> 00:15:38,166
All I can think about is Daniel
and how he has no idea

327
00:15:39,166 --> 00:15:40,800
that I lived my life
as a lesbian for 21 years.

328
00:15:41,900 --> 00:15:42,767
Thank you so much.

329
00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:45,000
-Yeah, no problem.
-I appreciate it.

330
00:15:46,066 --> 00:15:48,066
A couple of months ago,
I wanted to test the waters

331
00:15:49,066 --> 00:15:51,166
to see if I could come out
with my whole truth.

332
00:15:52,300 --> 00:15:56,000
And I told him in the past
I had a fling with a woman.

333
00:15:57,367 --> 00:15:59,667
Daniel said to me,
how could I do that to myself?

334
00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:01,300
How could I do that to God?

335
00:16:02,367 --> 00:16:05,100
God doesn't believe
in same sexes being together.

336
00:16:05,667 --> 00:16:07,200
And he was disgusted.

337
00:16:08,300 --> 00:16:09,166
There you go.

338
00:16:09,900 --> 00:16:10,367
-Thank you.
-Yeah, no problem.

339
00:16:11,567 --> 00:16:12,000
-Enjoy the rest of your day.
-Gonna hide them in my purse.

340
00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:13,066
[man laughs]

341
00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:15,467
I plan on telling Daniel
the truth in person

342
00:16:16,266 --> 00:16:18,367
because I am not ashamed
of who I am,

343
00:16:19,066 --> 00:16:20,300
but I'm terrified to tell him

344
00:16:21,233 --> 00:16:22,100
because of how he responded
to the fling.

345
00:16:22,533 --> 00:16:23,200
I'm terrified.

346
00:16:26,867 --> 00:16:29,900
I'm worried that he's gonna say
that this is a mistake

347
00:16:30,333 --> 00:16:31,867
and walk away,

348
00:16:32,633 --> 00:16:33,600
and I'm gonna be
left heartbroken.

349
00:16:34,867 --> 00:16:37,000
OK, that's over
and done with.

350
00:16:37,367 --> 00:16:38,100
Thank God!

351
00:16:39,166 --> 00:16:40,367
[nervous laughter]

352
00:16:44,900 --> 00:16:46,567
[speaking In Belizean Kriol]

353
00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,667
[Stig] I was a player
for most of my life.

354
00:16:53,367 --> 00:16:54,166
Now, I actually want a family.

355
00:16:54,967 --> 00:16:55,667
I want somebody to be
here for me.

356
00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:57,300
[6ixFrass speaking]

357
00:16:57,734 --> 00:16:59,467
[Stig speaking]

358
00:17:01,066 --> 00:17:02,567
[6ixFrass speaking]

359
00:17:05,266 --> 00:17:08,400
[Sheena speaking]

360
00:17:12,500 --> 00:17:13,567
[Forrest speaking]

361
00:17:15,700 --> 00:17:17,500
[Molly speaking]

362
00:17:17,934 --> 00:17:18,500
[Dev speaking]

363
00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:19,867
[Forrest speaking]

364
00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:25,467
[Aviva speaking]

365
00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:43,767
I'm rushing to my next gate
right now.

366
00:17:44,467 --> 00:17:45,400
I don't wanna miss
my flight.

367
00:17:46,533 --> 00:17:48,900
It's a good thing that
I've been keeping up in the gym

368
00:17:50,133 --> 00:17:52,967
because I am having to run to
my connecting flight to Belize

369
00:17:53,967 --> 00:17:56,100
to meet my boyfriend Stig
for the first time.

370
00:17:56,767 --> 00:17:57,500
Stig, you better be worth it

371
00:17:58,300 --> 00:17:58,967
because running
through the airport

372
00:17:59,533 --> 00:18:01,200
is really embarrassing.

373
00:18:01,967 --> 00:18:03,600
Stig's a famous musician
in Belize,

374
00:18:04,333 --> 00:18:05,867
and the women there
love him.

375
00:18:06,667 --> 00:18:08,367
So, the last thing
I wanna do is --

376
00:18:11,467 --> 00:18:13,500
But I don't really have
a choice right now.

377
00:18:13,934 --> 00:18:15,567
Four minutes.

378
00:18:16,133 --> 00:18:17,166
Just getting to my gate.

379
00:18:20,066 --> 00:18:25,000
I made it with perfect timing.
Thank the Lord.

380
00:18:25,500 --> 00:18:26,467
Next stop, Belize.

381
00:18:28,367 --> 00:18:32,300
After waiting for so long,
I'm super nervous to meet Stig,

382
00:18:33,200 --> 00:18:35,400
but I cannot wait to get
my hands on him

383
00:18:36,066 --> 00:18:37,300
and start a future together.

384
00:18:38,367 --> 00:18:40,667
My second plane to Belize.

385
00:18:41,367 --> 00:18:42,600
♪ I'm coming for you, baby ♪

386
00:18:43,300 --> 00:18:44,500
♪ I'm coming for you, baby ♪

387
00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:50,767
[music playing]

388
00:18:51,233 --> 00:18:52,266
[Stig]
Listen!

389
00:18:53,467 --> 00:18:55,767
Everyone...
[speaks in Belizean Kriol]

390
00:19:00,100 --> 00:19:03,166
Ladies...
[speaks in Belizean Kriol]

391
00:19:04,200 --> 00:19:05,467
-[hip-hop music plays]
-[sings in Belizean Kriol]

392
00:19:16,800 --> 00:19:18,467
[audience cheers]

393
00:19:19,667 --> 00:19:20,767
[music stops]

394
00:19:21,300 --> 00:19:22,867
[audience shouting]

395
00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:26,567
What's up?
I am Earlyn Dwayne.

396
00:19:27,166 --> 00:19:28,500
I go by Stig Da Artist.

397
00:19:29,500 --> 00:19:32,567
[Stig speaking]

398
00:19:46,900 --> 00:19:49,200
I love what I do.
I love music.

399
00:19:50,033 --> 00:19:51,166
I love singing
for the ladies, them.

400
00:19:52,166 --> 00:19:54,100
And the girls, you know,
they can get pretty wild

401
00:19:54,500 --> 00:19:55,767
at my show.

402
00:19:57,100 --> 00:19:59,100
There's this one time,
this girl was literally trying

403
00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:00,867
to get in my pants.
She was front stage.

404
00:20:01,433 --> 00:20:02,166
I'm like, "Yo, chill."

405
00:20:03,066 --> 00:20:04,100
But if that's what my music
gives them,

406
00:20:05,233 --> 00:20:07,667
that kind of joy, then [bleep]
I'm doing the right job.

407
00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:10,166
♪ I can't take you off my mind ♪

408
00:20:11,133 --> 00:20:12,967
About 10 years ago, I put out
my first song,

409
00:20:13,533 --> 00:20:14,567
my first music video.

410
00:20:15,500 --> 00:20:16,867
I recorded every single day
in the studio.

411
00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:18,266
I grew my fan base,

412
00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:20,867
and now I'm at the highest
level of Belize

413
00:20:21,300 --> 00:20:22,000
as an artist.

414
00:20:23,066 --> 00:20:24,967
So everybody recognized me,
and I am very grateful

415
00:20:25,834 --> 00:20:27,066
for the love and support
that I get here.

416
00:20:27,734 --> 00:20:28,900
♪ There can only be one ♪

417
00:20:29,834 --> 00:20:32,567
♪ One you, one man,
one soul, one love ♪

418
00:20:33,500 --> 00:20:35,000
[Stig] I'm very proud
of what I've become,

419
00:20:35,867 --> 00:20:37,467
but I couldn't have
done it by myself.

420
00:20:38,467 --> 00:20:39,767
[Stig speaking]

421
00:20:50,967 --> 00:20:53,266
And I know they're always
looking out for me.

422
00:20:58,300 --> 00:20:59,367
-[Richie] What, here?
-Cheers, yeah?

423
00:21:00,133 --> 00:21:01,266
[all speak in Belizean Kriol]

424
00:21:04,667 --> 00:21:05,600
-[Perf speaks]
-Yo!

425
00:21:06,300 --> 00:21:08,200
[all speak in Belizean Kriol]

426
00:21:08,567 --> 00:21:09,300
[giggling]

427
00:21:09,934 --> 00:21:11,800
[speaks in Belizean Kriol]

428
00:21:12,166 --> 00:21:13,600
[mocking]

429
00:21:14,667 --> 00:21:16,767
Listen, my friends,
they could joke around as much

430
00:21:17,767 --> 00:21:19,200
as they want and tease me,
but I'm very serious

431
00:21:19,834 --> 00:21:20,767
about my girlfriend Aviva.

432
00:21:22,767 --> 00:21:25,066
Two years ago,
I started talking to Aviva

433
00:21:25,533 --> 00:21:26,500
on social media.

434
00:21:27,433 --> 00:21:28,600
At first, we were both
in a relationship...

435
00:21:39,266 --> 00:21:41,800
But one of the most attractive
things about Aviva

436
00:21:42,333 --> 00:21:43,100
is her personality.

437
00:21:56,567 --> 00:21:58,600
And that's why I feel like
she's the person I wanna

438
00:21:59,300 --> 00:21:59,667
spend the rest of my life with.

439
00:22:07,300 --> 00:22:08,467
[Richie speaks]

440
00:22:10,500 --> 00:22:11,500
[Stig]
I don't know.

441
00:22:13,500 --> 00:22:15,166
[tense music plays]

442
00:22:18,367 --> 00:22:19,200
[all laugh]

443
00:22:19,567 --> 00:22:20,567
I mean...

444
00:22:24,500 --> 00:22:26,700
[speaking Belizean Kriol]

445
00:22:42,667 --> 00:22:43,800
[Stig speaking]

446
00:22:45,367 --> 00:22:46,767
I mean, she's, you know, like...

447
00:22:53,767 --> 00:22:54,867
[Perf speaks]

448
00:23:00,767 --> 00:23:02,100
Yee haw!

449
00:23:02,667 --> 00:23:03,700
[speaks Belizean Kriol]

450
00:23:10,500 --> 00:23:12,166
[all laugh]

451
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,166
[speaks in Belizean Kriol]

452
00:23:33,767 --> 00:23:35,000
[Perf speaks]

453
00:23:41,467 --> 00:23:42,400
[Stig speaks]

454
00:23:49,967 --> 00:23:51,100
[Stig]
Uh-huh.

455
00:23:52,867 --> 00:23:54,700
[boys laugh]

456
00:23:55,100 --> 00:23:55,967
Yeah, but...

457
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,900
[Stig] A lot of my relations
in the past have failed

458
00:24:04,567 --> 00:24:05,700
because of this very issue.

459
00:24:06,633 --> 00:24:08,467
You know, I was a player
for most of my life.

460
00:24:09,767 --> 00:24:11,467
Now, I actually want a family.

461
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:13,266
I want somebody
I can go home to at night,

462
00:24:14,066 --> 00:24:14,967
and they're there
to listen to me,

463
00:24:15,500 --> 00:24:16,066
to be there for me.

464
00:24:17,166 --> 00:24:19,100
I hope Aviva can be that person

465
00:24:19,967 --> 00:24:22,600
and that I can be
a faithful partner.

466
00:24:23,300 --> 00:24:24,400
You guys are gonna love Aviva.

467
00:24:24,967 --> 00:24:25,900
You know, I love her.

468
00:24:26,533 --> 00:24:27,667
So let's see how it goes.

469
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:32,567
God damn!

470
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:40,600
[Forrest speaking]

471
00:24:51,767 --> 00:24:53,800
[singing in Filipino]

472
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:07,367
[city traffic noises]

473
00:25:09,967 --> 00:25:11,400
[Sheena speaks in Filipino]

474
00:25:23,367 --> 00:25:24,367
[laughs nervously]

475
00:25:29,100 --> 00:25:31,500
I'm on my way
to the airport now.

476
00:25:32,734 --> 00:25:35,166
He rented a bigger apartment
where we can all stay together.

477
00:25:35,967 --> 00:25:38,467
So I'm carrying quite
a few bags.

478
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:40,500
[speaks in Filipino]

479
00:25:54,100 --> 00:25:58,567
I'm really quite nervous,
and I don't know to react.

480
00:26:04,100 --> 00:26:05,100
Or not.

481
00:26:21,100 --> 00:26:22,166
So...

482
00:26:36,166 --> 00:26:38,700
[anticipatory music plays]

483
00:26:39,133 --> 00:26:40,100
[Molly speaks]

484
00:26:51,567 --> 00:26:53,300
[Molly]
Forrest, this sure is a long way

485
00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:55,500
to come traveling for a girl.

486
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:56,900
Yeah.

487
00:27:04,100 --> 00:27:05,066
[Sheena speaks]

488
00:27:11,467 --> 00:27:14,367
[anticipatory music plays]

489
00:27:24,567 --> 00:27:28,000
After 30 hours of being
on an airplane,

490
00:27:28,867 --> 00:27:29,700
I finally made it
to the Philippines.

491
00:27:30,900 --> 00:27:33,100
I'm feeling ecstatic.

492
00:27:34,066 --> 00:27:35,600
I feel like I drank,
like, six energy drinks.

493
00:27:35,967 --> 00:27:36,767
[giggles]

494
00:27:39,367 --> 00:27:40,467
Remember his phone...

495
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,266
[Molly speaks]

496
00:27:47,867 --> 00:27:48,367
[Forrest]
Always, Mom?

497
00:27:50,166 --> 00:27:51,300
[Dev speaks]

498
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:53,967
[Forrest speaks]

499
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:55,600
[Molly speaks]

500
00:27:59,467 --> 00:28:02,100
[Sheena speaks]

501
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:10,467
[speaks in Filipino]

502
00:28:14,166 --> 00:28:15,467
[Molly speaks]

503
00:28:15,900 --> 00:28:16,767
[Forrest speaks]

504
00:28:18,567 --> 00:28:20,266
[Molly speaks]

505
00:28:21,367 --> 00:28:22,767
[Sheena]
Oh, my God.

506
00:28:24,300 --> 00:28:26,767
[Dev and Molly speak]

507
00:28:31,467 --> 00:28:33,700
[singing]

508
00:28:34,266 --> 00:28:35,266
[Caribbean music plays]

509
00:28:37,767 --> 00:28:41,400
I'm starting to fall more
in love with Trish, but I think

510
00:28:42,433 --> 00:28:44,367
it's important that we're
completely transparent

511
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:45,800
with each other.

512
00:28:46,700 --> 00:28:49,467
I wanted to touch bases
with you about...

513
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:20,000
[Trisha speaks]

514
00:29:20,433 --> 00:29:22,266
[Rick speaks]

515
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:24,500
You're so beautiful
in the morning, babe.

516
00:29:24,934 --> 00:29:26,367
[both giggle]

517
00:29:27,066 --> 00:29:29,767
[singing in foreign language]

518
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:39,500
[Trisha speaks]

519
00:29:39,934 --> 00:29:41,700
[both giggle]

520
00:29:43,066 --> 00:29:45,667
So was it everything
you expected it to be?

521
00:29:46,033 --> 00:29:47,166
Even more.

522
00:29:50,467 --> 00:29:53,667
Yesterday
night, we had sex two times.

523
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:56,667
[Rick chuckles]

524
00:29:57,700 --> 00:29:59,900
He's older, and I didn't think,
like, he can do

525
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:01,967
all of the stuff he did to me.

526
00:30:02,834 --> 00:30:07,000
Like, for the second round,
it was...

527
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:08,500
Oh, my God.

528
00:30:09,667 --> 00:30:11,700
Mmm!

529
00:30:12,100 --> 00:30:13,567
[both laugh]

530
00:30:24,266 --> 00:30:25,900
-[Trisha] You good?
-Yeah.

531
00:30:26,300 --> 00:30:27,867
We're here.

532
00:30:28,667 --> 00:30:30,200
-Wow, so this is the market.
-Yeah.

533
00:30:31,667 --> 00:30:34,100
I only gave Trish a little
sample of what I could do.

534
00:30:34,967 --> 00:30:37,867
I have some more tricks
up my sleeve.

535
00:30:39,033 --> 00:30:41,266
If it were up to me, I'd just
stay at the hotel all day.

536
00:30:42,333 --> 00:30:44,200
But this is our first day
in Madagascar together,

537
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:46,667
and Trish wants to take me
to explore her city.

538
00:30:48,033 --> 00:30:49,900
-What's that,
fried fish right there?
-[Trisha] Yeah.

539
00:30:50,934 --> 00:30:52,367
This is so different
from anywhere I've ever been

540
00:30:52,767 --> 00:30:53,767
in my life.

541
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:55,367
[Trisha laughs]

542
00:30:56,333 --> 00:30:58,166
Today, I want to show him
everything around

543
00:30:58,600 --> 00:30:59,467
in Antananarivo.

544
00:31:09,300 --> 00:31:11,100
[Rick] The butcher shop
right here, huh?

545
00:31:11,567 --> 00:31:12,200
[Trisha]
Mm-hmm.

546
00:31:14,567 --> 00:31:16,300
And they just leave
the meat out like this

547
00:31:16,867 --> 00:31:17,967
without refrigeration?

548
00:31:19,867 --> 00:31:21,467
Yeah.

549
00:31:21,900 --> 00:31:23,467
Ooh, pig face!

550
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:25,166
-Yeah.
-Oh, my God!

551
00:31:25,967 --> 00:31:26,867
What is that, baby?
What is that?

552
00:31:27,367 --> 00:31:29,667
[Trisha]
That's...

553
00:31:30,700 --> 00:31:31,467
-That's the stomach?
-The stomach -- yeah, yeah.

554
00:31:32,500 --> 00:31:34,100
And then is this also, like,
intestines or what?

555
00:31:34,367 --> 00:31:35,166
Yes.

556
00:31:35,967 --> 00:31:36,967
I think I see a heart
over there.

557
00:31:37,567 --> 00:31:39,300
[Trisha]
Yeah, that's it.

558
00:31:39,834 --> 00:31:40,767
[Rick]
Oh, my God.

559
00:31:41,567 --> 00:31:43,467
I'm feeling like Trish
deceived me.

560
00:31:44,166 --> 00:31:45,667
I mean, this is our first date.

561
00:31:46,700 --> 00:31:48,100
All this raw meat is gonna
mess up the sexy vibes

562
00:31:48,734 --> 00:31:49,367
we had going this morning.

563
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:53,000
So this is all
the leftover stuff

564
00:31:53,967 --> 00:31:54,867
that people usually
don't eat?
-Yes, yeah.

565
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:58,100
No, don't say that.

566
00:31:58,867 --> 00:32:01,266
In my culture,
we eat everything.

567
00:32:02,066 --> 00:32:05,000
We don't waste something
in the cow.

568
00:32:05,533 --> 00:32:06,367
[Rick]
Oh, my God!

569
00:32:07,166 --> 00:32:09,467
Even the feet,
the head, intestine,

570
00:32:10,166 --> 00:32:12,166
the heart, liver, everything.

571
00:32:13,367 --> 00:32:16,100
Rick, it's just food.
Relax!

572
00:32:17,066 --> 00:32:18,767
Baby, I know that's not
a brain right there!

573
00:32:19,300 --> 00:32:20,000
It's a brain, yeah.

574
00:32:20,867 --> 00:32:22,367
-[Rick] Oh, Lord.
-[Trish] Yeah, why?

575
00:32:23,166 --> 00:32:26,000
-And would you eat that?
-Of course.

576
00:32:27,133 --> 00:32:28,567
Well, baby, don't put
that in no stew that you cooked

577
00:32:29,133 --> 00:32:30,667
for me.
Please don't!

578
00:32:37,967 --> 00:32:39,567
[cars honking]

579
00:32:42,867 --> 00:32:44,266
[Trish]
Woo!

580
00:32:46,867 --> 00:32:48,800
Oh, wow.
What a view.

581
00:32:50,066 --> 00:32:53,266
[Trish speaks]

582
00:32:53,667 --> 00:32:54,667
[Rick]
Wow.

583
00:32:55,467 --> 00:32:56,967
-I can see the whole island.
-Yeah.

584
00:32:57,367 --> 00:32:58,300
Oh, my God.

585
00:33:02,700 --> 00:33:04,166
[singing in Malagasy]

586
00:33:04,734 --> 00:33:06,567
[percussive music plays]

587
00:33:16,667 --> 00:33:19,567
[Trisha laughs]

588
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:29,567
[Trisha sings along]

589
00:33:35,066 --> 00:33:37,000
[Rick]
Yeah!

590
00:33:39,300 --> 00:33:41,066
Yay!

591
00:33:41,767 --> 00:33:43,066
Hey!
Hey, baby, [indistinct]!

592
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,967
I know how to tap dance,
but this is not tap dancing.

593
00:33:55,734 --> 00:33:56,367
This is something
foreign to me.

594
00:33:57,300 --> 00:33:58,867
I've never seen this style
of dance before.

595
00:34:00,066 --> 00:34:01,367
But I'm realizing that there's
a lot that I don't know

596
00:34:02,467 --> 00:34:04,000
about Trish just from talking
to her over the phone.

597
00:34:04,700 --> 00:34:05,967
Like, she's an amazing dancer.

598
00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:08,967
I didn't know she had
that in her.

599
00:34:11,266 --> 00:34:13,266
-[Rick] All right!
-[shouting]

600
00:34:13,767 --> 00:34:15,867
Woo-hoo, woo-hoo!

601
00:34:17,066 --> 00:34:19,867
Every minute, I'm starting
to fall more in love with Trish,

602
00:34:20,967 --> 00:34:22,967
but I think it's important
I get to know her better,

603
00:34:24,100 --> 00:34:27,300
and they we're completely
transparent with each other.

604
00:34:28,066 --> 00:34:29,266
[Rick] Wow!
That was something.

605
00:34:30,033 --> 00:34:31,400
Was that your
traditional dance?

606
00:34:35,700 --> 00:34:38,266
-[Trisha] You like it?
-[Rick] Oh, it's beautiful.

607
00:34:38,700 --> 00:34:40,967
[Trisha speaks]

608
00:34:41,467 --> 00:34:42,900
Rofa?
Ah, Rova.

609
00:34:44,867 --> 00:34:47,266
Oh.
OK, now where's the palace?

610
00:34:48,100 --> 00:34:48,967
-It's there.
-Oh, that's the palace.

611
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:50,300
[Rick speaks]

612
00:34:52,467 --> 00:34:54,266
Oh, I'm tired, even.

613
00:34:57,767 --> 00:34:59,266
This is so beautiful, baby.

614
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:02,100
I'm having such a great time
with you.

615
00:35:03,300 --> 00:35:06,467
But, um, you know, there's
some things that I want to talk

616
00:35:06,900 --> 00:35:07,567
to you about.

617
00:35:09,700 --> 00:35:12,567
So I wanted to

618
00:35:13,700 --> 00:35:17,400
touch bases with you about
what exactly you were doing

619
00:35:18,033 --> 00:35:18,667
for those five days and...

620
00:35:20,066 --> 00:35:21,767
why you weren't
in contact with me.

621
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:26,266
I already told you,
like,

622
00:35:27,333 --> 00:35:30,600
you want me to explain
to you everything happened?

623
00:35:31,767 --> 00:35:33,467
You know that all of these
things that you're telling me,

624
00:35:34,266 --> 00:35:37,467
you know, kind of sounds
unbelievable

625
00:35:37,834 --> 00:35:39,266
in a way.

626
00:35:40,467 --> 00:35:43,100
I would like you to be open
and honest with me right now.

627
00:35:45,667 --> 00:35:47,867
I promise I will tell you
everything,

628
00:35:48,734 --> 00:35:51,166
but promise me
that you won't get mad.

629
00:35:53,700 --> 00:35:56,166
[tense music plays]

630
00:36:01,700 --> 00:36:03,200
You sent him money, right?

631
00:36:04,567 --> 00:36:06,867
Is that not part
of a romance scam?

632
00:36:08,467 --> 00:36:11,100
My mom and I have been having
a lot of hard times

633
00:36:11,700 --> 00:36:12,500
right now, financially.

634
00:36:13,066 --> 00:36:14,000
She's in so much debt.

635
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:16,166
I think this topic needs
to be over,

636
00:36:16,834 --> 00:36:17,867
because this is ridiculous.

637
00:36:26,266 --> 00:36:28,767
♪ I'm gonna put the fire
on the flames ♪

638
00:36:29,500 --> 00:36:30,967
♪ Add a little heat to the sun ♪

639
00:36:31,734 --> 00:36:32,767
[Lisa]
Now we got entertainment.

640
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:35,767
Uh-oh.

641
00:36:36,233 --> 00:36:37,800
And we got fire!

642
00:36:38,767 --> 00:36:40,867
♪ What we gonna do?
Gonna bring that heat ♪

643
00:36:41,834 --> 00:36:43,700
♪ What we gonna do?
Gonna bring that heat ♪

644
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:45,066
♪ Tell the competition... ♪

645
00:36:45,767 --> 00:36:46,166
[Juna]
Oh, go for it, Faith.

646
00:36:47,133 --> 00:36:48,467
♪ What we gonna do?
Gonna bring that heat ♪

647
00:36:48,934 --> 00:36:50,100
[Lisa]
Oh! No!

648
00:36:50,633 --> 00:36:51,567
[Faith]
I can do it.

649
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:53,800
-Oh!
-That was so close!

650
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:55,100
[indistinct]

651
00:36:55,834 --> 00:36:56,600
-[laughing]
-Oh, my dear God!

652
00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:58,300
-[indistinct]
-[Lisa] Let me try.

653
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:00,166
-That was --
-That was way over my head.

654
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:01,367
That was on you.

655
00:37:02,367 --> 00:37:03,166
-That was on you.
-[chef] Oh, yeah, for sure.

656
00:37:03,533 --> 00:37:04,467
[shouting]

657
00:37:05,100 --> 00:37:05,867
I'll give you a good one.

658
00:37:06,500 --> 00:37:07,400
Caught it like a baseball.

659
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:09,100
Oh, my God.

660
00:37:10,467 --> 00:37:13,000
That looks delicious.

661
00:37:13,934 --> 00:37:14,767
What kind of food do they have
in Nigeria?

662
00:37:15,934 --> 00:37:18,500
Well, Daniel has showed me
pictures of some of his meals.

663
00:37:19,066 --> 00:37:20,000
He's always eating rice.

664
00:37:20,834 --> 00:37:21,767
Is it like a fried rice
thingy thing?

665
00:37:22,333 --> 00:37:23,266
[Lisa]
I don't know.

666
00:37:24,066 --> 00:37:25,100
I have no clue
what their food is.

667
00:37:25,734 --> 00:37:26,900
Where are you going again?

668
00:37:27,700 --> 00:37:29,467
I am heading to Africa,
to Nigeria.

669
00:37:29,834 --> 00:37:31,066
Wow.
Why?

670
00:37:32,266 --> 00:37:35,100
I am going to meet a man that
I have not met in person yet

671
00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:37,100
for the very first time.
-Oh, my goodness.

672
00:37:37,934 --> 00:37:39,200
-[Lisa laughs]
-Wow, congratulations.

673
00:37:39,867 --> 00:37:40,266
-Good for you.
-Thank you.

674
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:41,300
-Yeah, no problem.
-Thank you.

675
00:37:42,233 --> 00:37:42,567
-That's some risk taking.
-But it's crazy!

676
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:44,467
-Yeah, might be a little crazy.
-Is it not crazy?

677
00:37:44,900 --> 00:37:46,200
I would agree.

678
00:37:47,300 --> 00:37:47,700
But you know, the heart wants
what the heart wants.

679
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:50,367
-So go for it, I say.
-[Lisa] Thank you.

680
00:37:52,166 --> 00:37:55,166
I'm leaving to Nigeria to meet
Daniel for the first time

681
00:37:55,700 --> 00:37:56,567
in just a few days.

682
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:00,467
I can't believe I'm doing this.
I must be insane.

683
00:38:00,967 --> 00:38:02,166
I really must be.

684
00:38:03,700 --> 00:38:04,967
I'm very, very nervous.

685
00:38:06,100 --> 00:38:07,900
So I wanted to take the edge off
by having a night out

686
00:38:08,834 --> 00:38:09,767
with my daughter Faith
and my friend Juna.

687
00:38:10,300 --> 00:38:11,967
-[wooing]
-Oh, my!

688
00:38:12,734 --> 00:38:13,467
There's a volcano.
Here it comes.

689
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:15,100
-[metallic thuds]
-Choo-choo!

690
00:38:15,633 --> 00:38:16,100
Oh, choo-choo train.

691
00:38:16,367 --> 00:38:17,266
Woo!

692
00:38:18,567 --> 00:38:21,000
Juna is my very best friend.

693
00:38:21,867 --> 00:38:23,700
I swear to God,
if she was a lesbian,

694
00:38:24,433 --> 00:38:26,166
Gina would be
my ideal woman.

695
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,400
Gina knows the ringer I've been
through in past relationships.

696
00:38:31,166 --> 00:38:32,767
And she is supportive
of Daniel.

697
00:38:35,100 --> 00:38:36,200
[Faith indistinct]

698
00:38:36,967 --> 00:38:37,767
-I'm gonna hold you to it.
-What?

699
00:38:38,567 --> 00:38:39,266
That this is my happily
ever after?

700
00:38:43,066 --> 00:38:45,166
My issue is she's saying
it's the last one,

701
00:38:45,934 --> 00:38:47,266
which she's said
every other time,

702
00:38:47,867 --> 00:38:48,767
which we know.
-Right.

703
00:38:49,533 --> 00:38:50,867
He's always talking
sweet to me.

704
00:38:51,767 --> 00:38:53,467
He's always trying so hard
to do things.

705
00:38:54,500 --> 00:38:56,467
He just makes me feel so good
and so wonderful.

706
00:38:57,600 --> 00:38:59,567
[Faith] It's a good thing
that he's treating you well,

707
00:39:00,433 --> 00:39:01,900
but that's part
of what concerns me.

708
00:39:03,033 --> 00:39:07,800
The love bomb right away,
it's part of a romance scam.

709
00:39:09,467 --> 00:39:12,767
They go for single,
and I don't mean to sound rude,

710
00:39:13,467 --> 00:39:16,000
older women who have been hurt

711
00:39:16,934 --> 00:39:18,467
and who are desperately
looking for somebody

712
00:39:19,133 --> 00:39:20,567
and want someone
to give them

713
00:39:21,367 --> 00:39:22,400
all the compliments,
all the love.

714
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:24,000
First off --

715
00:39:24,300 --> 00:39:24,967
hold on.

716
00:39:25,767 --> 00:39:28,467
Do I look like an old,
vulnerable,

717
00:39:29,433 --> 00:39:31,600
searching-for-somebody woman
on the internet?

718
00:39:33,967 --> 00:39:35,667
No, I was minding
my own business,

719
00:39:36,266 --> 00:39:37,300
not looking for anybody.

720
00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:38,767
But you sent him money, right?

721
00:39:40,500 --> 00:39:42,700
Is that not part
of a romance scam,

722
00:39:43,133 --> 00:39:45,200
sending money?

723
00:39:46,100 --> 00:39:47,467
Even though I live
paycheck-to-paycheck,

724
00:39:48,433 --> 00:39:49,867
I send Daniel money
almost every two weeks.

725
00:39:52,467 --> 00:39:54,266
Daniel works in construction.

726
00:39:55,433 --> 00:39:57,467
He makes very little money,
and he lives in a very poor

727
00:39:57,900 --> 00:39:59,000
area of Nigeria.

728
00:39:59,700 --> 00:40:01,700
I give Daniel money for food.

729
00:40:02,333 --> 00:40:04,100
I have bought him clothes.

730
00:40:05,033 --> 00:40:08,200
I give him money for fuel,
for electricity.

731
00:40:11,200 --> 00:40:13,567
Daniel has come straight out
and asked for money

732
00:40:14,266 --> 00:40:15,600
around two, maybe three times.

733
00:40:16,934 --> 00:40:20,600
But I give Daniel money
more for myself because I want

734
00:40:21,834 --> 00:40:24,266
to feel that he's safe, and I
want to feel that he's secure.

735
00:40:25,333 --> 00:40:27,767
[Faith] All I know is
within the first two months,

736
00:40:28,333 --> 00:40:30,367
you sent $2,000, total.

737
00:40:31,033 --> 00:40:32,300
And that was two months ago.

738
00:40:32,967 --> 00:40:33,767
So how much more is it now?

739
00:40:35,967 --> 00:40:37,000
[Lisa]
I don't know.

740
00:40:38,367 --> 00:40:41,467
How did he do it
before he met you?

741
00:40:42,066 --> 00:40:43,066
Does he not have a job?

742
00:40:44,266 --> 00:40:46,000
Yes, he has a job.

743
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:48,300
But lately he's been sick
and he's missed work

744
00:40:49,467 --> 00:40:52,100
because of the malaria and other
things that he has caught.

745
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:54,100
That's not a red flag to you?

746
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:57,200
He meets you and now all
of a sudden he's getting sick

747
00:40:57,633 --> 00:40:58,567
all the time?

748
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:03,367
[Faith] My mom and I have been
having a lot of hard times

749
00:41:03,967 --> 00:41:04,700
right now, financially.

750
00:41:06,100 --> 00:41:08,066
She borrows from June a lot.

751
00:41:08,633 --> 00:41:09,767
She's in so much debt

752
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:14,000
and it has me feeling
more on edge.

753
00:41:14,967 --> 00:41:16,667
You were telling me that Juna
gave you money

754
00:41:17,233 --> 00:41:18,266
to help us with bills.

755
00:41:18,834 --> 00:41:20,467
She has, haven't you?

756
00:41:21,133 --> 00:41:21,600
So she's been giving you...

757
00:41:22,266 --> 00:41:24,000
How much in debt now are we?

758
00:41:24,567 --> 00:41:25,266
You already know I hate

759
00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:27,100
that you're asking for money
all the time.

760
00:41:28,133 --> 00:41:29,900
But it hasn't been the amount
that it has been.

761
00:41:30,333 --> 00:41:32,667
It's still bad.

762
00:41:33,700 --> 00:41:36,500
Daniel seems to be a really,
really nice person.

763
00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:38,867
I see how happy she is, so...

764
00:41:39,734 --> 00:41:42,300
I have given her money
to send to him,

765
00:41:43,467 --> 00:41:47,600
and I gave Lisa the money
for the visa to go to Nigeria.

766
00:41:48,166 --> 00:41:50,667
I do have some concerns,

767
00:41:51,367 --> 00:41:52,066
because if he's scamming her,

768
00:41:52,633 --> 00:41:53,767
then he's scamming me.

769
00:41:56,467 --> 00:41:59,367
This was between Juna, me,
and Daniel.

770
00:42:00,533 --> 00:42:02,567
It had nothing to do with you
and me and your bills.

771
00:42:03,467 --> 00:42:05,367
It had to do with Juna
and I and Daniel.

772
00:42:06,500 --> 00:42:08,967
And you're still not seeing
any red flags about this?

773
00:42:09,533 --> 00:42:10,066
Juna has talked to him.

774
00:42:11,133 --> 00:42:13,367
Does he seem like he's
a real bad man from texting?

775
00:42:14,900 --> 00:42:18,367
No, he doesn't, but, you know,

776
00:42:19,300 --> 00:42:22,266
texting and talking are
different things.

777
00:42:24,900 --> 00:42:27,767
There's no point in me trying
to talk to you about anything.

778
00:42:28,967 --> 00:42:31,667
That's fine, because I know
things that are inside and out

779
00:42:32,500 --> 00:42:33,567
more than you do,
because you're not

780
00:42:34,100 --> 00:42:34,800
in the relationship.

781
00:42:36,266 --> 00:42:38,000
And this may be the worst thing
the best relationship

782
00:42:38,433 --> 00:42:39,100
I've ever had.

783
00:42:47,100 --> 00:42:48,567
This has all been
an emotional wreck,

784
00:42:49,700 --> 00:42:51,266
and we have not had one
positive conversation together.

785
00:42:52,467 --> 00:42:53,900
And it's breaking my heart
as much as it's breaking yours,

786
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:56,200
and I think this topic needs
to be over,

787
00:42:56,867 --> 00:42:57,900
because this is ridiculous.

788
00:43:01,367 --> 00:43:02,300
[Faith]
I'm done.

789
00:43:03,500 --> 00:43:05,000
I'm done...

790
00:43:05,367 --> 00:43:06,100
I'm done.

791
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:10,266
[emotional music plays]

792
00:43:10,667 --> 00:43:11,867
[Faith sobs]

793
00:43:20,467 --> 00:43:21,867
[Stig speaks]

794
00:43:27,100 --> 00:43:29,600
That mean you have one partner.

795
00:43:34,767 --> 00:43:36,667
Need to make some changes
in my lifestyle.

796
00:43:40,867 --> 00:43:42,467
[anticipatory music plays]

797
00:43:42,900 --> 00:43:43,800
[clears throat]

798
00:43:48,667 --> 00:43:50,667
[Aviva speaks]

799
00:44:19,767 --> 00:44:21,100
♪ Now it's getting
warm in here ♪

800
00:44:22,133 --> 00:44:23,367
♪ As the beat beat crack
into the atmosphere ♪

801
00:44:24,567 --> 00:44:26,667
♪ Come on, let's switch gears
and the power stir and go ♪

802
00:44:27,100 --> 00:44:27,834
♪ Let's go ♪

803
00:44:29,166 --> 00:44:31,367
[Stig]
So today, my girl is coming.

804
00:44:32,233 --> 00:44:34,367
I want to give her
a Belizean welcome.

805
00:44:35,266 --> 00:44:36,600
Beautiful flowers
for a beautiful lady.

806
00:44:38,667 --> 00:44:41,066
Today, I'm meeting
my girlfriend Aviva

807
00:44:41,867 --> 00:44:42,600
for the very first time
in person.

808
00:44:47,266 --> 00:44:50,734
Aviva's probably thinking that
we're going back to my city,

809
00:44:51,867 --> 00:44:53,266
to my apartment, but she don't
know that we have a nice

810
00:44:53,900 --> 00:44:54,934
hotel room in Belize City

811
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:59,166
because I want a nice little
romantic stay tonight.

812
00:45:05,266 --> 00:45:07,967
I have butterflies.
I feel like a kid again.

813
00:45:09,467 --> 00:45:12,834
This might be the start
of the rest of my life...

814
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:21,600
One burner.
That mean you have one partner.

815
00:45:25,967 --> 00:45:29,367
But I need to make some changes
in my life and my lifestyle.

816
00:45:32,867 --> 00:45:35,266
♪ I just wanna hide
in the covers with you ♪

817
00:45:36,066 --> 00:45:36,734
♪ With you, with you
With you ♪

818
00:45:37,533 --> 00:45:38,367
-[Stig speaks]
-[driver] Yes, sir.

819
00:45:38,867 --> 00:45:39,400
[Stig]
All right.

820
00:45:40,133 --> 00:45:41,000
♪ I promise I'm not gonna move ♪

821
00:45:41,433 --> 00:45:42,467
[Stig speaks]

822
00:45:43,233 --> 00:45:44,300
Minutes away
from picking you up.

823
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:49,767
[Aviva speaks]

824
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:54,567
So nervous.

825
00:45:56,867 --> 00:45:59,367
After two years of talking
and six months of dating,

826
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:02,567
I'm finally meeting Stig
for the first time.

827
00:46:03,200 --> 00:46:04,967
We're here.
We made it.

828
00:46:06,100 --> 00:46:08,200
I am super, super nervous,
and it's making me nauseous.

829
00:46:16,100 --> 00:46:19,667
Oh, the flight just landed.
I'm ready.

830
00:46:23,834 --> 00:46:25,100
[speaking Belizean Kriol]

831
00:46:34,367 --> 00:46:35,300
[Aviva speaks]

832
00:46:38,467 --> 00:46:40,867
OK, I'm going to the bathroom
to freshen up.

833
00:46:41,367 --> 00:46:42,667
I'm super nervous.

834
00:46:43,333 --> 00:46:44,734
I know he's outside waiting.

835
00:46:47,567 --> 00:46:49,567
I just want to make sure
that he sees me

836
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:50,867
and he's attracted to me.

837
00:46:51,300 --> 00:46:52,467
I'm so tired.

838
00:46:53,100 --> 00:46:53,934
And it's stressing me out.

839
00:46:57,767 --> 00:47:00,367
I know he's around
beautiful women all the time.

840
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,300
And deep down, there's things
I'm worried about.

841
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:09,867
My biggest fear
is that I'm going

842
00:47:10,700 --> 00:47:13,000
to go in with this big
loving heart,

843
00:47:13,767 --> 00:47:14,767
and it's just gonna
get crushed.

844
00:47:17,266 --> 00:47:18,166
Here we go.

845
00:47:19,133 --> 00:47:20,200
This is what I've been
preparing myself for.

846
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:23,400
Oh...

847
00:47:25,767 --> 00:47:28,200
[soft music plays]

848
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:31,467
[Stig speaks]

849
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:38,066
[Aviva speaks]

850
00:47:38,467 --> 00:47:41,066
[laughs]
Ah!

851
00:47:43,934 --> 00:47:47,100
[anticipatory music plays]

852
00:47:50,667 --> 00:47:53,467
[both giggle]

853
00:47:53,867 --> 00:47:54,667
[Aviva]
Hi!

854
00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:56,867
I am.

855
00:48:08,300 --> 00:48:10,066
-Thank you.
-Looking more beautiful
in person.

856
00:48:10,333 --> 00:48:11,266
No.

857
00:48:13,734 --> 00:48:14,667
[giggles]

858
00:48:16,567 --> 00:48:18,934
She's a good kisser.
You know, it felt good.

859
00:48:19,266 --> 00:48:20,100
Mm-hmm.

860
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:22,100
It felt natural.
It felt good.

861
00:48:22,767 --> 00:48:24,000
It did.
You're getting red?

862
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:25,000
-You're blushing.
-No.

863
00:48:25,633 --> 00:48:26,767
You're blushing.
I love it.

864
00:48:29,667 --> 00:48:31,367
[Stig speaks]

865
00:48:31,700 --> 00:48:32,767
I know.

866
00:48:33,567 --> 00:48:34,667
-You're very beautiful.
-Thank you.

867
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:36,166
-You look really good, too.
-I'm so happy.

868
00:48:36,700 --> 00:48:37,266
And I'm super happy.

869
00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:39,467
Love that booty.

870
00:48:40,100 --> 00:48:42,166
[speaks in Belizean Kriol]

871
00:48:43,834 --> 00:48:45,367
Aviva got a fat ass.

872
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:46,667
I had no idea.

873
00:48:47,633 --> 00:48:48,667
I know she's been in the gym
a lot, but what?

874
00:48:49,033 --> 00:48:49,767
I like it.

875
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:51,667
[both giggle]

876
00:48:52,600 --> 00:48:54,367
It was like, mm-hmm.

877
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:57,467
OK, well,
I brought you Chinese food

878
00:48:58,033 --> 00:48:58,967
since you asked, and...

879
00:48:59,433 --> 00:49:00,767
[Stig]
No way!

880
00:49:03,166 --> 00:49:04,500
Don't eat that.
Don't eat that.

881
00:49:05,300 --> 00:49:06,767
Please don't.
Just throw it away.

882
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:11,266
You did say that if I bring it
to you, you'd marry me, so...

883
00:49:12,100 --> 00:49:13,867
I mean, I brought it.
I brought it.

884
00:49:14,533 --> 00:49:15,000
It's here.
It's a little...

885
00:49:15,700 --> 00:49:16,667
I bet.
I'm a man of my word.

886
00:49:17,333 --> 00:49:18,000
Ask anybody.
Ask about me.

887
00:49:18,300 --> 00:49:19,266
OK, OK.

888
00:49:21,166 --> 00:49:22,767
-Mm-hmm.
-Let's go.

889
00:49:23,433 --> 00:49:25,066
Let me get that one for you.

890
00:49:25,433 --> 00:49:26,266
Thank you.

891
00:49:27,367 --> 00:49:31,066
I definitely feel a spark
right away.

892
00:49:32,066 --> 00:49:35,867
I couldn't have asked
for a better first kiss.

893
00:49:36,567 --> 00:49:38,567
It was a very magical moment.

894
00:49:39,633 --> 00:49:41,867
He definitely smelled better
than the Chinese food

895
00:49:42,300 --> 00:49:43,600
I was carrying.

896
00:49:44,033 --> 00:49:44,867
[Aviva speaks]

897
00:49:45,767 --> 00:49:46,867
-I'm going to eat it.
-You'll get sick.

898
00:49:47,834 --> 00:49:48,600
-We're throwing it away.
-Don't don't -- yeah.

899
00:49:49,233 --> 00:49:49,867
It's going.
It's going.

900
00:49:50,233 --> 00:49:51,000
It's gone.

901
00:49:52,033 --> 00:49:54,000
This thing is just making me
feel really special.

902
00:49:55,100 --> 00:49:57,367
And I know I only just got here,
but it just seems like

903
00:49:58,467 --> 00:50:01,367
the rumors Aunt Spring brought
up that he hasn't been

904
00:50:02,533 --> 00:50:05,166
exclusive with just me seem
a little silly and not true.

905
00:50:06,567 --> 00:50:08,867
-You're actually here.
-I know.

906
00:50:10,266 --> 00:50:11,367
[Stig speaks]

907
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:13,000
[Aviva speaks]

908
00:50:14,166 --> 00:50:15,100
[both giggle]

909
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:18,867
[Birkan]
Laura is coming to Türkiye.

910
00:50:19,567 --> 00:50:21,767
And it makes me feel excited.

911
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:24,066
Also, I feel nauseous
because I'm freaking out.

912
00:50:25,467 --> 00:50:27,200
[speaking Turkish]

913
00:50:32,266 --> 00:50:34,934
I know that's something
that I should tell her,

914
00:50:35,834 --> 00:50:38,467
but I don't know
how she's going to react.

915
00:50:42,767 --> 00:50:44,000
-Bye.
-Thank you.

916
00:50:44,667 --> 00:50:47,033
-Well...take care.
-I will.

917
00:50:47,934 --> 00:50:48,400
-[Eileen speaks]
-[Terry] Be sure to write.

918
00:50:48,834 --> 00:50:50,066
[Laura speaks]

919
00:50:50,433 --> 00:50:51,300
Don't cry.

920
00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:53,200
Just be safe, OK?

921
00:51:01,100 --> 00:51:04,400
I'm about to head to Türkiye
so I can meet Birkan in person

922
00:51:04,967 --> 00:51:06,367
for the very first time.

923
00:51:07,467 --> 00:51:09,834
And I'm trying not to think
about all of the things

924
00:51:10,500 --> 00:51:11,200
that my parents were saying.

925
00:51:11,934 --> 00:51:12,467
-All right.
-[Laura] Love you.

926
00:51:12,900 --> 00:51:13,600
-Bye.
-Bye.

927
00:51:14,100 --> 00:51:18,066
♪ Who are you ♪

928
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:21,100
♪ Singing as I stare from afar ♪

929
00:51:23,166 --> 00:51:26,266
There's an absolute possibility
this is going to blow up

930
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:30,166
in my face, and everyone
that was naysaying against it

931
00:51:30,967 --> 00:51:32,266
will tell me that
they told me so.

932
00:51:33,367 --> 00:51:36,100
But I feel like life is
a series of calculated risks.

933
00:51:37,100 --> 00:51:39,200
And if I'm not willing to take
a risk for love,

934
00:51:40,133 --> 00:51:42,266
then what am I willing
to take a risk for?

935
00:51:43,166 --> 00:51:45,934
♪ Now you're look is
calling my name ♪

936
00:51:46,967 --> 00:51:50,967
♪ It's a similar sensation
Similar sensation ♪

937
00:51:52,567 --> 00:51:56,600
I have about 13 hours
until I get to meet

938
00:51:57,133 --> 00:51:58,200
the love of my life.

939
00:51:59,467 --> 00:52:04,033
And I need to decompress from
just all of the negative energy

940
00:52:05,033 --> 00:52:06,567
from the car ride
with my parents with a good,

941
00:52:07,567 --> 00:52:10,033
smutty book, with some really
steamy moments.

942
00:52:18,667 --> 00:52:20,166
[Birkan speaks]

943
00:52:22,667 --> 00:52:24,967
It's what I love
about Nietzsche.

944
00:52:30,467 --> 00:52:34,100
He was the part of the reason
I wanted to find the light.

945
00:52:57,667 --> 00:53:01,367
...and my knee collapsed
with other one's knee...

946
00:53:06,266 --> 00:53:09,166
But I still play football
for fun.

947
00:53:10,266 --> 00:53:11,500
You know, I love the game.

948
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:27,400
One shot.

949
00:53:29,467 --> 00:53:31,967
After I ruptured my ACL,

950
00:53:32,867 --> 00:53:34,500
it was just end
of everything, you know?

951
00:53:35,667 --> 00:53:39,166
Everything I dream of, now
I rebuild it from the bottom.

952
00:53:41,567 --> 00:53:45,567
And what's helping me the most
is finding Laura, actually.

953
00:53:46,834 --> 00:53:48,467
It was destiny.

954
00:53:50,500 --> 00:53:53,734
I met Laura in Snapchat.

955
00:53:54,567 --> 00:53:57,600
We started talking
and joking around.

956
00:53:58,433 --> 00:54:00,300
She was so supportive,
so optimistic.

957
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:03,767
She made me believe
that dreaming is OK.

958
00:54:05,967 --> 00:54:08,367
That's the point that I realized

959
00:54:08,967 --> 00:54:10,033
she was perfect for me.

960
00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:13,934
I am in the dark, yes,
but I can see the sun.

961
00:54:15,567 --> 00:54:17,367
It is about third
or fourth weeks,

962
00:54:17,934 --> 00:54:19,967
I told her I love her.

963
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:22,100
And now Laura is coming
to Türkiye.

964
00:54:42,567 --> 00:54:44,667
[speaking Turkish]

965
00:54:51,867 --> 00:54:53,834
I'm not close with my family,

966
00:54:54,700 --> 00:54:56,767
so they are
the closest people I have.

967
00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:01,100
-[speaking Turkish]
-[giggling]

968
00:55:01,533 --> 00:55:02,100
[Memo speaks]

969
00:55:02,500 --> 00:55:03,767
[all giggle]

970
00:55:04,266 --> 00:55:06,600
[speaking Turkish]

971
00:56:12,100 --> 00:56:14,367
[speaking Turkish]

972
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,667
[Birkan] When my football career
is over.

973
00:56:38,467 --> 00:56:41,066
I opened up a couple
of businesses.

974
00:56:41,867 --> 00:56:43,834
Eventually,
everything has failed,

975
00:56:44,667 --> 00:56:46,967
and I couldn't find
the proper job.

976
00:56:47,800 --> 00:56:49,300
She knows that I have
some troubles,

977
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:52,967
but she doesn't know how much.

978
00:56:53,967 --> 00:56:55,967
I know that's something
that I should tell her,

979
00:56:56,867 --> 00:56:59,266
but I don't know
how she's going to react.

980
00:57:00,767 --> 00:57:02,600
[speaking Turkish]

981
00:57:22,367 --> 00:57:24,934
[Tugba speaks]

982
00:57:32,266 --> 00:57:33,834
[Birkan speaks]

983
00:57:42,367 --> 00:57:45,600
[Birkan] I don't feel good
about Michael at all.

984
00:57:51,166 --> 00:57:52,166
I don't buy it.

985
00:57:53,467 --> 00:57:56,500
I'm not comfortable
with this friendship she has.

986
00:57:57,500 --> 00:58:00,066
And if she doesn't cut
Michael out of her life,

987
00:58:01,100 --> 00:58:03,033
I don't know this relationship
is going to work.

988
00:58:08,567 --> 00:58:10,467
I'm supposed to be
your confidant.

989
00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:12,867
I thought that you were
with somebody else.

990
00:58:14,100 --> 00:58:17,033
Now that we're face-to-face,
I feel like I can see the truth

991
00:58:17,433 --> 00:58:18,100
in her eyes.

992
00:58:22,767 --> 00:58:24,867
Oh, man.
I'm scared now.

993
00:58:32,567 --> 00:58:34,166
[Faith]
I'm done.

994
00:58:34,533 --> 00:58:35,300
I'm done.

995
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:39,967
[dramatic music plays]

996
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:48,567
I can't -- I can't.

997
00:58:50,467 --> 00:58:52,266
[Lisa]
Now I'm worried about her.

998
00:58:53,133 --> 00:58:54,000
I don't know what to do
at this point,

999
00:58:54,900 --> 00:58:56,367
because it always ends up
being a fight.

1000
00:58:58,100 --> 00:59:01,967
[Faith] Every time I've tried
to voice my opinion,

1001
00:59:02,700 --> 00:59:04,133
she doesn't wanna talk about it.

1002
00:59:04,767 --> 00:59:06,266
She doesn't wanna hear me.

1003
00:59:07,300 --> 00:59:10,100
Or she tells me I'm not allowed
to feel that way.

1004
00:59:10,934 --> 00:59:11,567
[Lisa]
Let's see if we can find her.

1005
00:59:12,133 --> 00:59:13,300
See if we can fix this.

1006
00:59:24,166 --> 00:59:27,667
[Lisa] Faith, let me talk
to you for a minute.

1007
00:59:28,467 --> 00:59:28,967
-I really don't want to.
-[Lisa] No.

1008
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:31,467
Look at me.
Look at me.

1009
00:59:32,000 --> 00:59:32,567
Please, look at me.

1010
00:59:34,066 --> 00:59:36,467
I love Daniel and I know
that you're worried

1011
00:59:37,300 --> 00:59:38,467
that I'm in another bad
relationship

1012
00:59:39,133 --> 00:59:40,100
and things are gonna go sour

1013
00:59:40,967 --> 00:59:42,066
and you're trying to save me
from that.

1014
00:59:43,300 --> 00:59:44,834
But I don't want you to feel
like you're being second choice.

1015
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:47,266
I will always choose you
before somebody else.

1016
00:59:47,800 --> 00:59:49,266
Look at me, I will.

1017
00:59:50,333 --> 00:59:51,967
You said do not marry Daniel
while I'm in Nigeria.

1018
00:59:52,900 --> 00:59:53,834
I promise you with the bottom
of my heart,

1019
00:59:54,800 --> 00:59:56,767
I am not marrying Daniel
while I'm in Nigeria.

1020
00:59:58,000 --> 00:59:59,166
I'm not.

1021
01:00:00,066 --> 01:00:01,600
Just give me the opportunity
to do this.

1022
01:00:02,834 --> 01:00:04,400
If you break this promise...

1023
01:00:05,233 --> 01:00:05,867
I'm not going to break
this promise.

1024
01:00:06,633 --> 01:00:08,667
If you break this promise,
again,

1025
01:00:09,867 --> 01:00:11,166
I can't do this anymore.

1026
01:00:11,900 --> 01:00:12,667
No, 'cause that would be toxic,

1027
01:00:13,533 --> 01:00:15,867
and I'm not a toxic person
anymore, OK?

1028
01:00:16,567 --> 01:00:18,066
So just please, give me a hug.

1029
01:00:18,834 --> 01:00:20,300
I really need some space
right now.

1030
01:00:21,667 --> 01:00:23,300
OK, I'll do that.

1031
01:00:28,734 --> 01:00:30,667
[Lisa] This was an awful
lot for her today.

1032
01:00:34,834 --> 01:00:37,133
I have been in so many
relationships and moved around

1033
01:00:38,133 --> 01:00:39,567
so much on this poor child
when she was little.

1034
01:00:42,033 --> 01:00:45,133
But at that time,
I was searching for who I was.

1035
01:00:46,066 --> 01:00:48,133
I want to show her
that this is different.

1036
01:00:48,567 --> 01:00:50,033
I'm a grown-up.

1037
01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:51,934
I'm not this young mom

1038
01:00:52,867 --> 01:00:53,767
who is trying to take care
of a young child

1039
01:00:54,700 --> 01:00:56,367
and have a relationship
after relationship.

1040
01:00:57,066 --> 01:00:58,166
I want my happily-ever-after.

1041
01:00:58,800 --> 01:00:59,667
I want this to be forever.

1042
01:01:03,467 --> 01:01:05,367
And Faith doesn't see that yet.

1043
01:01:14,266 --> 01:01:15,467
Can I talk to you for a minute?

1044
01:01:20,767 --> 01:01:22,734
I'm trying to understand
your feelings

1045
01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:25,867
and I'm trying to not
fight about it.

1046
01:01:26,834 --> 01:01:27,834
Is your biggest fear
that I'm gonna marry him

1047
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:29,166
without you knowing him

1048
01:01:30,066 --> 01:01:30,934
and that I'm gonna choose him
over you?

1049
01:01:34,166 --> 01:01:36,033
[Faith]
You never listen.

1050
01:01:37,166 --> 01:01:43,066
I'm telling you
to think about us first.

1051
01:01:45,166 --> 01:01:47,767
Listen, I understand
your point of view.

1052
01:01:48,300 --> 01:01:49,133
I'm listening to you

1053
01:01:50,133 --> 01:01:51,166
and I'm going there to get
to know him better.

1054
01:01:52,133 --> 01:01:53,567
I'm going there to see
if we are compatible.

1055
01:01:54,633 --> 01:01:57,133
I'm not going there just
to run off and get married.

1056
01:01:57,834 --> 01:01:58,867
I'm listening to your concerns

1057
01:01:59,500 --> 01:02:00,300
and I am gonna voice them.

1058
01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:04,166
I promise you I will, OK?

1059
01:02:04,734 --> 01:02:05,867
Can I have a hug now?

1060
01:02:06,533 --> 01:02:08,233
OK, come here.
I love you.

1061
01:02:08,934 --> 01:02:09,667
I will start listening better.

1062
01:02:10,867 --> 01:02:12,266
I'm proud
of everything you do.

1063
01:02:13,066 --> 01:02:14,066
You are wonderful
and kind-hearted

1064
01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:15,567
and loving and sweet

1065
01:02:16,767 --> 01:02:19,166
and caring and you have been
good to your mother regardless

1066
01:02:20,200 --> 01:02:21,400
of what I've put you through
and I'm proud of you

1067
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:23,400
and I will listen
to you more, OK?

1068
01:02:23,767 --> 01:02:24,500
All right.

1069
01:02:26,834 --> 01:02:28,567
I understand where Faith
is coming from,

1070
01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:31,867
and I understand
that she has been down this road

1071
01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:34,967
with past relationships
over and over again.

1072
01:02:35,834 --> 01:02:39,367
I hold her opinion deeply
in my heart,

1073
01:02:40,567 --> 01:02:43,233
but I think Daniel's different.
I think he's the real deal.

1074
01:02:44,266 --> 01:02:46,266
I think he's a very precious man
who is very rare,

1075
01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:49,667
and I would be a fool
not to go after him.

1076
01:02:51,934 --> 01:02:52,867
Can we go home now?

1077
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:04,567
[Aviva]
Ooh!

1078
01:03:05,166 --> 01:03:06,834
-Welcome, welcome.
-OK!

1079
01:03:07,734 --> 01:03:08,834
Stig is everything I thought
he would be.

1080
01:03:09,367 --> 01:03:10,367
He looks super good.

1081
01:03:11,200 --> 01:03:13,233
There is definitely
some chemistry,

1082
01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:16,066
but it's a bit scary.

1083
01:03:17,133 --> 01:03:18,767
I mean, I definitely wanna
respect your lifestyle,

1084
01:03:19,767 --> 01:03:21,233
and I don't want to be super
jealous or crazy,

1085
01:03:22,300 --> 01:03:25,467
but I hope that you haven't been
seeing other people.

1086
01:03:27,500 --> 01:03:28,767
[Forrest speaks]

1087
01:03:29,467 --> 01:03:30,567
You got this.
You're a man.

1088
01:03:31,734 --> 01:03:33,266
Sheena and I have been
waiting seven years

1089
01:03:33,934 --> 01:03:34,467
to meet up with each other,

1090
01:03:35,500 --> 01:03:37,834
and I'm hoping my mom will not
fight with Sheena.

1091
01:03:38,967 --> 01:03:40,300
I just don't know how to feel
on this whole situation.

1092
01:03:41,233 --> 01:03:42,567
-Yeah.
-[Molly] There's still
some things

1093
01:03:43,600 --> 01:03:46,300
that have to be discussed
before we can proceed.

1094
01:03:51,467 --> 01:03:52,834
[Sheena cries]

1095
01:04:00,367 --> 01:04:01,767
[Stig speaks]

1096
01:04:02,066 --> 01:04:03,033
No way!

1097
01:04:03,467 --> 01:04:04,500
[both giggle]

1098
01:04:04,867 --> 01:04:06,000
I love it!

1099
01:04:06,700 --> 01:04:07,166
-[Stig] Uh-huh.
-[Aviva] Woo!

1100
01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:09,767
[Aviva speaks]

1101
01:04:10,133 --> 01:04:11,467
[giggles]

1102
01:04:12,500 --> 01:04:13,467
-Can I take a picture of it?
-[Stig] Yeah, sure.

1103
01:04:13,834 --> 01:04:14,367
[shutter]

1104
01:04:14,934 --> 01:04:17,233
♪ Lovely lovely girl ♪

1105
01:04:19,266 --> 01:04:22,333
♪ You know you can
change the world ♪

1106
01:04:25,467 --> 01:04:27,000
So where are we going?

1107
01:04:27,834 --> 01:04:28,467
I don't even know
where we're going.

1108
01:04:28,900 --> 01:04:29,467
I don't know.

1109
01:04:30,200 --> 01:04:30,400
-I don't know.
-You don't know?

1110
01:04:31,266 --> 01:04:31,467
-No, I don't.
-Yes, you do.

1111
01:04:32,700 --> 01:04:32,900
Hey, driver,
you know where we're going?

1112
01:04:33,900 --> 01:04:34,066
The driver's just taking us?

1113
01:04:35,300 --> 01:04:35,500
He don't know
where we're going either.

1114
01:04:36,600 --> 01:04:36,800
-Oh, whatever.
-So I don't know.

1115
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:37,967
But I can tell you, though,

1116
01:04:39,467 --> 01:04:40,266
we're going to spend the night
in Belize City at a hotel.

1117
01:04:41,467 --> 01:04:42,467
Tomorrow...

1118
01:04:45,567 --> 01:04:46,367
[Aviva] OK.

1119
01:04:46,967 --> 01:04:48,867
[Stig]
Some new songs.

1120
01:04:49,900 --> 01:04:50,567
-I'm excited to perform those.
-[Aviva] Excited.

1121
01:04:51,367 --> 01:04:52,767
-Hopefully I kill it, you know?
-OK.

1122
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:54,166
A lot of people are
gonna be there?

1123
01:04:54,900 --> 01:04:56,767
Yep.
Are you ready to be there?

1124
01:04:57,600 --> 01:04:58,166
-Are you ready for that?
-I'm nervous.

1125
01:04:59,367 --> 01:05:01,834
-Do you want me there even?
-Of course, I want you there.

1126
01:05:02,100 --> 01:05:02,934
OK.

1127
01:05:06,500 --> 01:05:09,000
I know Stig can't stop working
while I'm here.

1128
01:05:09,800 --> 01:05:11,467
I would never ask him
to do that.

1129
01:05:12,667 --> 01:05:16,433
But I'm really shocked to hear
that I'm seeing Stig perform

1130
01:05:17,200 --> 01:05:18,734
already in just
a couple of days.

1131
01:05:19,166 --> 01:05:19,834
[Stig speaks]

1132
01:05:20,266 --> 01:05:21,734
[both giggle]

1133
01:05:22,900 --> 01:05:24,600
I've been a little bit nervous
about having to watch him

1134
01:05:25,133 --> 01:05:26,133
on stage with girls

1135
01:05:27,166 --> 01:05:29,100
and having him interact
with fans in front of me.

1136
01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:33,834
And now I'm going to be
thrusted into it right away.

1137
01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:35,233
And it's a bit scary.

1138
01:05:36,166 --> 01:05:38,834
-Ooh! OK!
-Welcome, welcome.

1139
01:05:39,834 --> 01:05:41,166
-I'll leave these here for now.
-This is nice!

1140
01:05:42,133 --> 01:05:44,567
This is super nice.
OK.

1141
01:05:45,467 --> 01:05:46,667
Since you said
that you love the flower,

1142
01:05:47,333 --> 01:05:48,667
I got you some more flowers.

1143
01:05:49,700 --> 01:05:50,133
-Oh, those are so pretty.
-Something beautiful.

1144
01:05:50,934 --> 01:05:51,867
-Thank you.
-This was to show you

1145
01:05:52,533 --> 01:05:52,967
that you're my one and only.

1146
01:05:53,467 --> 01:05:54,266
-OK.
-And this is

1147
01:05:55,166 --> 01:05:56,467
to show some gratitude
that you're here.

1148
01:05:57,133 --> 01:05:58,667
Oh, thank you.
I like them.

1149
01:05:59,500 --> 01:05:59,867
-They're so pretty.
-Check them out.

1150
01:06:02,100 --> 01:06:03,834
Stig is everything
I thought he would be.

1151
01:06:04,367 --> 01:06:05,567
He looks super good.

1152
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:08,433
There is definitely
some chemistry.

1153
01:06:09,233 --> 01:06:09,934
What are you gonna do
with those?

1154
01:06:10,367 --> 01:06:11,767
[Stig speaks]

1155
01:06:12,533 --> 01:06:13,367
We've been touching
each other,

1156
01:06:14,533 --> 01:06:17,767
kissing each other, so I hope
the night continues on...

1157
01:06:19,834 --> 01:06:20,967
sexually.

1158
01:06:22,100 --> 01:06:25,367
-Let's get comfy.
-That sounds good to me.

1159
01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:27,767
[Stig] I'm attracted to her
even more in person.

1160
01:06:28,300 --> 01:06:29,233
But I'm a gentleman.

1161
01:06:30,066 --> 01:06:31,266
I'm not going to just
push up on her

1162
01:06:32,100 --> 01:06:34,600
and try to get
some the first night.

1163
01:06:35,166 --> 01:06:35,734
We'll see how it goes.

1164
01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:37,467
I'm gonna let it play out
the way it should play.

1165
01:06:38,934 --> 01:06:40,266
Now, get more comfy.

1166
01:06:42,433 --> 01:06:43,433
So...

1167
01:06:47,266 --> 01:06:48,433
What is it?
Is it a rose?

1168
01:06:53,000 --> 01:06:54,667
-You could get it here.
-Only if you get "Aviva."

1169
01:06:54,967 --> 01:06:55,867
There.

1170
01:06:59,367 --> 01:07:00,433
[Aviva] Same.

1171
01:07:02,667 --> 01:07:04,467
Mm-hmm.

1172
01:07:05,166 --> 01:07:05,767
Unless you make me leave you.

1173
01:07:06,033 --> 01:07:06,767
Oh.

1174
01:07:07,567 --> 01:07:09,567
What would make you want
to leave me?

1175
01:07:10,600 --> 01:07:11,734
Ooh, that's a good question.

1176
01:07:12,266 --> 01:07:13,367
[Stig]
If you, um,

1177
01:07:14,233 --> 01:07:16,266
you can't understand
what I do for work

1178
01:07:16,800 --> 01:07:17,767
and how I, you know,

1179
01:07:18,767 --> 01:07:19,967
my lifestyle because
of what I do and who I am.

1180
01:07:21,100 --> 01:07:23,567
Yeah, I mean, I definitely wanna
respect your lifestyle,

1181
01:07:24,367 --> 01:07:25,567
and I don't wanna be
super jealous.

1182
01:07:26,000 --> 01:07:27,066
Or crazy, like,

1183
01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:30,233
but I also wanna be, like,
respected, too.

1184
01:07:30,633 --> 01:07:31,266
Just, like,

1185
01:07:32,300 --> 01:07:35,066
I hope that you haven't been
seeing other people,

1186
01:07:36,233 --> 01:07:37,367
'cause I feel like we've been
talking seriously, but...

1187
01:07:39,567 --> 01:07:41,266
Why are you rolling your eyes
like that?

1188
01:07:42,333 --> 01:07:43,500
-I don't know, 'cause, like...
-You don't trust me?

1189
01:07:44,066 --> 01:07:44,867
Oh, you don't trust me?

1190
01:07:45,567 --> 01:07:47,934
I mean, I know your lifestyle.

1191
01:07:49,133 --> 01:07:50,667
There's a lot of beautiful
women around you, always, so...

1192
01:07:51,233 --> 01:07:51,767
They're not you, though.

1193
01:07:53,367 --> 01:07:54,367
OK, Mr. Charming.

1194
01:07:55,467 --> 01:07:56,834
Ooh!

1195
01:07:58,033 --> 01:07:59,033
OK.

1196
01:08:00,266 --> 01:08:01,500
[kissing]

1197
01:08:05,266 --> 01:08:07,333
I do have one more thing
for you that's not

1198
01:08:08,000 --> 01:08:09,934
spilled Chinese food.
-OK.

1199
01:08:10,367 --> 01:08:10,934
[Aviva]
Yeah.

1200
01:08:11,800 --> 01:08:13,467
Stig makes me feel
really comfortable.

1201
01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:15,467
He just knows the exact
right thing to say.

1202
01:08:16,333 --> 01:08:18,367
And Stig and I just feel
right together.

1203
01:08:19,133 --> 01:08:20,567
It's just a spark,
a connection,

1204
01:08:21,600 --> 01:08:25,834
a happiness, all...
wrapped together with a bow.

1205
01:08:26,967 --> 01:08:28,500
I don't know how to explain it.

1206
01:08:34,367 --> 01:08:35,967
-Hi.
-Hi.

1207
01:08:39,600 --> 01:08:40,667
[Stig speaks]

1208
01:08:41,934 --> 01:08:43,967
Wow, hey!

1209
01:08:45,433 --> 01:08:47,266
-Uh-huh.
-OK.

1210
01:08:57,567 --> 01:08:59,033
[giggling]

1211
01:09:00,667 --> 01:09:02,433
Yes, man.
That is it.

1212
01:09:03,567 --> 01:09:04,867
She's finest [bleep].

1213
01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:07,000
-[Aviva giggles]
-[Stig speaks]

1214
01:09:11,467 --> 01:09:13,266
[Stig]
Aviva just might be the one.

1215
01:09:14,233 --> 01:09:15,667
But I don't think
she understands the extent

1216
01:09:16,367 --> 01:09:17,767
of my lifestyle as a performer.

1217
01:09:18,667 --> 01:09:20,567
Sometimes girls go on stage,
dance on me.

1218
01:09:21,600 --> 01:09:24,266
You know, girls be in my DMs.
Some pretty girls.

1219
01:09:25,166 --> 01:09:26,266
I don't know
if she can handle all that.

1220
01:09:27,033 --> 01:09:30,233
She said she will,
but we'll see.

1221
01:09:33,233 --> 01:09:34,367
-[Aviva giggles]
-[Stig] Mmm-hmm.

1222
01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:36,066
Mmm, mmm, mmm!

1223
01:09:38,867 --> 01:09:39,834
[Forrest]
All right.

1224
01:09:52,433 --> 01:09:54,734
♪ I woke up in time ♪

1225
01:09:57,734 --> 01:10:00,667
♪ If I ruled the world ♪

1226
01:10:01,133 --> 01:10:02,066
[Sheena speaks]

1227
01:10:11,266 --> 01:10:14,367
[Molly]
All right, here we go.

1228
01:10:15,433 --> 01:10:16,233
I actually have to go
freshen up in the bathroom.

1229
01:10:17,100 --> 01:10:17,500
-Go ahead.
-Oh, man, I got to find it.

1230
01:10:18,133 --> 01:10:19,333
I'll see you in a minute.

1231
01:10:19,900 --> 01:10:21,000
[Forrest]
This way.

1232
01:10:21,433 --> 01:10:22,467
[Molly speaks]

1233
01:10:23,600 --> 01:10:24,767
I just don't know how to feel
on this whole situation.

1234
01:10:25,066 --> 01:10:26,033
Yeah.

1235
01:10:27,133 --> 01:10:28,667
It's just, I mean, I think
that I have these ideas of

1236
01:10:29,667 --> 01:10:31,867
what I want to say
because emotions get there,

1237
01:10:32,433 --> 01:10:33,567
the feelings get there.

1238
01:10:34,433 --> 01:10:35,467
[Dev] Settle down, Molly.
Settle down.

1239
01:10:43,166 --> 01:10:44,934
[Forrest speaks]

1240
01:10:48,667 --> 01:10:50,467
You got this.
You got this.

1241
01:10:51,266 --> 01:10:53,333
You're a man.
Keep moving forward.

1242
01:10:54,433 --> 01:10:55,967
[Forrest] My mom did not take
kindly to Sheena lying

1243
01:10:56,533 --> 01:10:57,967
about the money again.

1244
01:10:58,967 --> 01:11:01,033
She sent text messages
to Sheena that made her

1245
01:11:01,600 --> 01:11:03,333
really upset and hurt.

1246
01:11:04,867 --> 01:11:08,467
So, I'm hoping that my mom
will not fight with Sheena.

1247
01:11:09,734 --> 01:11:12,033
-Woo!
-Hey, Mom.

1248
01:11:13,133 --> 01:11:14,467
Sheena and I have been waiting
seven years to meet up

1249
01:11:15,633 --> 01:11:18,133
with each other, and I just want
everything to go smoothly.

1250
01:11:19,667 --> 01:11:22,433
You look good.
Let's get this mixed up
a little bit.

1251
01:11:23,433 --> 01:11:25,066
Here, let me get this little...
There you go.

1252
01:11:25,734 --> 01:11:26,767
-You look good.
-Thank you.

1253
01:11:27,533 --> 01:11:28,166
-Are you ready?
-Yeah, I'm ready.

1254
01:11:28,734 --> 01:11:29,767
This is your moment, OK?

1255
01:11:33,367 --> 01:11:34,834
[Sheena speaks]

1256
01:11:41,433 --> 01:11:43,266
-[Forrest] Let's do this thing.
-[Molly] Here it comes.

1257
01:11:44,033 --> 01:11:45,033
You got this.
You will do fine.

1258
01:11:45,767 --> 01:11:46,600
You tell her hello.
You say...

1259
01:11:47,300 --> 01:11:48,166
Well, just do whatever you feel.

1260
01:11:49,066 --> 01:11:49,834
-[Forrest] OK.
-[Dev] Go for it, Forrest.

1261
01:11:50,700 --> 01:11:52,500
[Molly]
You got this.
Go, Forrest, go.

1262
01:11:52,934 --> 01:11:53,867
[Forrest speaks]

1263
01:11:56,834 --> 01:11:58,433
[anticipatory music plays]

1264
01:12:04,667 --> 01:12:05,867
[Forrest speaks]

1265
01:12:21,767 --> 01:12:23,100
[Sheena sobbing]

1266
01:12:28,567 --> 01:12:29,967
[both cry]

1267
01:12:56,333 --> 01:13:00,767
Meeting you and getting to be
with you finally is my world.

1268
01:13:02,166 --> 01:13:03,333
My everything.

1269
01:13:12,767 --> 01:13:14,867
It feels like heaven.

1270
01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:18,567
[giggles]
It's the best I have ever felt.

1271
01:13:29,567 --> 01:13:31,066
[Sheena speaks]

1272
01:13:32,100 --> 01:13:32,967
[Forrest]
Kissing you...

1273
01:13:33,500 --> 01:13:35,867
oh, it was ecstatic.

1274
01:13:37,000 --> 01:13:40,166
She has some really good, like,
perfume or something on.

1275
01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:44,166
[Forrest] Oh!

1276
01:13:45,567 --> 01:13:46,767
Oh, I'm loving it right now.

1277
01:13:47,700 --> 01:13:48,367
-I think I got it all over me.
-Oh, really?

1278
01:13:48,934 --> 01:13:49,667
-Yeah.
-[both giggle]

1279
01:13:52,333 --> 01:13:54,934
I got Mom and Dad here,
too, with us.

1280
01:13:57,667 --> 01:13:59,433
I want us to be a big family.

1281
01:14:02,934 --> 01:14:04,333
[both cry and giggle]

1282
01:14:15,266 --> 01:14:16,266
[Dev speaks]

1283
01:14:21,967 --> 01:14:22,934
Oh, boy.

1284
01:14:23,800 --> 01:14:26,000
Seeing Sheena cry,
seeing Forrest cry,

1285
01:14:26,834 --> 01:14:28,600
and then the big trigger
was just Dev,

1286
01:14:29,400 --> 01:14:30,333
and then that was
the waterworks.

1287
01:14:31,233 --> 01:14:33,166
You're all right, Sheena.
You're OK, OK?

1288
01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:35,233
[Sheena cries]

1289
01:14:38,767 --> 01:14:40,266
I don't cry very often.

1290
01:14:46,767 --> 01:14:48,166
[Sheena speaks]

1291
01:14:51,166 --> 01:14:53,233
Well, I thank you
for apologizing,

1292
01:14:54,233 --> 01:14:55,166
but let's make this
a happy moment, all right?

1293
01:14:55,934 --> 01:14:56,367
-Yes, all right.
-Because we're --

1294
01:14:57,200 --> 01:14:58,266
We're gonna be,
today is a happy day.

1295
01:14:59,133 --> 01:15:00,066
-We are all together, right?
-Yes, yes.

1296
01:15:01,166 --> 01:15:04,000
I'm so glad to see you guys.
It's been like a family.

1297
01:15:04,834 --> 01:15:06,033
We're a family now.
We're a family.

1298
01:15:06,467 --> 01:15:06,967
[Sheena cries]

1299
01:15:07,867 --> 01:15:08,734
[Forrest]
You're with family now, Sheen.

1300
01:15:10,834 --> 01:15:13,066
Seeing her face-to-face
with him,

1301
01:15:13,633 --> 01:15:14,567
face-to-face with me,

1302
01:15:15,433 --> 01:15:17,333
this whole thing is just
so overwhelming.

1303
01:15:17,967 --> 01:15:19,367
[Forrest and Sheena speak]

1304
01:15:20,667 --> 01:15:22,066
[Forrest speaks]

1305
01:15:22,467 --> 01:15:23,734
Oh, really?

1306
01:15:24,166 --> 01:15:25,033
[both giggle]

1307
01:15:26,266 --> 01:15:30,166
But apology aside,
there's still some things

1308
01:15:31,100 --> 01:15:33,066
that have to be discussed
and talked about

1309
01:15:33,633 --> 01:15:36,100
before we can proceed.

1310
01:15:36,734 --> 01:15:38,133
That's just how I see it.

1311
01:15:42,233 --> 01:15:45,734
I would call you,
you would press decline,

1312
01:15:46,633 --> 01:15:48,000
and then I wouldn't hear back
for hours.

1313
01:15:52,767 --> 01:15:53,867
[sighs]

1314
01:15:54,934 --> 01:15:57,233
During the time
that Trish ghosted me

1315
01:15:57,767 --> 01:15:58,567
for those five days,

1316
01:15:59,433 --> 01:16:01,266
I made the biggest
mistake of my life.

1317
01:16:06,166 --> 01:16:07,667
[tense music plays]

1318
01:16:15,633 --> 01:16:17,533
[Trisha] I promise
I will tell you everything,

1319
01:16:18,400 --> 01:16:20,533
but promise me
that you won't get mad.

1320
01:16:34,767 --> 01:16:37,433
OK, I can promise you
that I won't get mad,

1321
01:16:38,367 --> 01:16:40,667
but I can't promise
that it won't hurt me.

1322
01:17:04,467 --> 01:17:06,834
-Right, yeah, you told me
about that.
-Yeah.

1323
01:17:07,533 --> 01:17:09,000
And you said that he blamed you?

1324
01:17:09,700 --> 01:17:11,033
Yeah, he blames me.
Like...

1325
01:17:25,633 --> 01:17:27,967
Oh, man.
I'm scared now.

1326
01:17:29,333 --> 01:17:31,834
After my ex-boyfriend
got robbed...

1327
01:17:44,033 --> 01:17:48,100
...and the guy at the hospital,
we paying for his food

1328
01:17:48,934 --> 01:17:50,633
and paying for everything
he needs.

1329
01:17:56,066 --> 01:17:57,467
But why didn't you
tell me that?

1330
01:17:58,834 --> 01:18:01,867
I mean, I would call you,
call you.

1331
01:18:02,500 --> 01:18:04,233
You would press "decline."

1332
01:18:05,367 --> 01:18:07,266
-I didn't press decline.
-Or you would just not pick up.

1333
01:18:07,767 --> 01:18:08,567
I didn't pick up.

1334
01:18:09,667 --> 01:18:10,266
And I would text you,
and then I wouldn't hear back

1335
01:18:10,633 --> 01:18:12,100
for hours.

1336
01:18:13,033 --> 01:18:14,567
I thought that you were
with somebody else.

1337
01:18:25,266 --> 01:18:27,934
I was nervous and really upset.
-I'm not just anybody.

1338
01:18:28,734 --> 01:18:29,867
I'm supposed to be
your confidant.

1339
01:18:30,500 --> 01:18:31,567
We have to work together.

1340
01:18:38,433 --> 01:18:40,667
Maybe just say,
"That's not true.

1341
01:18:41,600 --> 01:18:44,266
I don't believe.
Maybe she just wants money."

1342
01:18:44,700 --> 01:18:47,166
Maybe you will

1343
01:18:47,934 --> 01:18:51,266
judge me.
But yeah, I was wrong.

1344
01:18:56,066 --> 01:18:59,367
I'm really, really sorry
to hurt you so much.

1345
01:19:00,333 --> 01:19:02,767
But it's different now,
because I see you.

1346
01:19:03,266 --> 01:19:04,066
I see who you are.

1347
01:19:05,367 --> 01:19:09,133
So I can share, like, everything
happens to my life.

1348
01:19:11,867 --> 01:19:14,133
You OK?

1349
01:19:14,433 --> 01:19:15,266
Um...

1350
01:19:18,767 --> 01:19:19,867
I'm OK.

1351
01:19:20,867 --> 01:19:23,834
I completely understand
what you're saying now.

1352
01:19:24,400 --> 01:19:25,633
Thank you so much for...

1353
01:19:26,333 --> 01:19:27,000
for explaining everything to me.

1354
01:19:29,333 --> 01:19:31,367
I just didn't know
what to do, baby.

1355
01:19:33,467 --> 01:19:37,266
What she was telling me
before just wasn't adding up

1356
01:19:37,734 --> 01:19:38,567
in that moment.

1357
01:19:39,667 --> 01:19:41,767
But now that we're
face to face,

1358
01:19:42,734 --> 01:19:45,367
I feel like I can see
the truth in her eyes.

1359
01:19:46,467 --> 01:19:51,033
And I feel a little bit guilty
for not trusting her.

1360
01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:53,467
Here she is going through
all these things.

1361
01:19:54,266 --> 01:19:56,734
And instead of being
there for her,

1362
01:19:57,600 --> 01:19:59,467
I made the biggest mistake
of my life.

1363
01:20:07,567 --> 01:20:09,533
During the time
that Trish ghosted me

1364
01:20:10,066 --> 01:20:11,433
for those five days,

1365
01:20:12,133 --> 01:20:16,567
I talked to my ex from Colombia.

1366
01:20:17,133 --> 01:20:18,867
And she said, you know,

1367
01:20:19,900 --> 01:20:22,967
"Why don't you come down here?
I'm missing you."

1368
01:20:23,333 --> 01:20:24,166
And so...

1369
01:20:24,967 --> 01:20:27,667
you know,
I decided to book a trip

1370
01:20:28,333 --> 01:20:31,667
and go spend time with her.

1371
01:20:34,066 --> 01:20:36,667
Even though Trish
started talking to me again,

1372
01:20:37,700 --> 01:20:38,934
in my heart, I believed
that she cheated on me.

1373
01:20:40,266 --> 01:20:43,867
And so I still went to Colombia.

1374
01:20:44,667 --> 01:20:45,867
My ex stayed with me
for the week.

1375
01:20:46,967 --> 01:20:50,266
We were acting as a couple
once again.

1376
01:20:52,467 --> 01:20:56,667
We had sex all the time,
the whole time.

1377
01:20:57,433 --> 01:20:58,867
Multiple times a day,
every day.

1378
01:21:00,767 --> 01:21:03,667
I feel bad for that.

1379
01:21:04,467 --> 01:21:06,367
So I know that I need
to tell her.

1380
01:21:07,433 --> 01:21:10,266
But I'm extremely scared
that it'll be something that

1381
01:21:10,900 --> 01:21:12,333
she can't forgive me for.

1382
01:21:13,033 --> 01:21:14,734
And it might be the end of us.

1383
01:21:19,633 --> 01:21:22,934
[Lisa] <i>Next time on</i>
<i>"Before the 90 Days."</i>

1384
01:21:23,333 --> 01:21:24,367
This is it?

1385
01:21:25,200 --> 01:21:26,467
I can't believe
I'm about to meet him.

1386
01:21:27,567 --> 01:21:29,166
I'm really proud of the progress
that I've made, but...

1387
01:21:30,233 --> 01:21:33,000
If I am nervous Birkan
won't be as attracted to me

1388
01:21:33,367 --> 01:21:34,233
in person.

1389
01:21:35,567 --> 01:21:37,533
[Laura]
Oh, my God.
Here we go.

1390
01:21:42,066 --> 01:21:43,066
[Daniel speaks]

1391
01:21:53,667 --> 01:21:55,166
[speaking in Igbo]

1392
01:22:08,834 --> 01:22:10,667
We hear you're going
to the Philippines.

1393
01:22:11,367 --> 01:22:12,734
Yes, I'm going to see my wife.

1394
01:22:13,533 --> 01:22:15,066
I've never even met
my wife here.

1395
01:22:15,934 --> 01:22:17,166
This will be actually
our first meet.

1396
01:22:18,367 --> 01:22:20,233
Oh, OK.

1397
01:22:21,166 --> 01:22:23,834
Me and Anna,
we've been married two years.

1398
01:22:24,400 --> 01:22:25,367
[Anna]
He said that?

1399
01:22:26,367 --> 01:22:28,266
No, we have been
in a relationship for six years.

1400
01:22:29,066 --> 01:22:30,433
And married for almost
three years.

1401
01:22:34,734 --> 01:22:38,066
Did you guys do the old
nooky nooky?

1402
01:22:39,633 --> 01:22:40,767
[Forrest speaks]

1403
01:22:41,567 --> 01:22:42,567
This isn't the right
time or place.

1404
01:22:42,867 --> 01:22:43,567
Yeah.

1405
01:22:44,100 --> 01:22:44,767
[tense music plays]

1406
01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:47,667
Sheena already has that control,
that thumb on him.

1407
01:22:48,166 --> 01:22:48,867
Let's not forget,

1408
01:22:49,834 --> 01:22:51,166
she was giving all of her money
to her parents

1409
01:22:52,000 --> 01:22:53,767
instead of saving
for their future.

1410
01:22:54,600 --> 01:22:56,367
You haven't given me
a direct answer

1411
01:22:56,900 --> 01:22:59,266
as to why you lied?

1412
01:23:00,233 --> 01:23:01,367
The pieces aren't lining up.

1413
01:23:01,800 --> 01:23:02,767
[Sheena cries]

1414
01:23:06,567 --> 01:23:08,066
[Emma] I don't like that we were
fighting yesterday,

1415
01:23:09,233 --> 01:23:11,533
but there's something else
I wanted to talk to you about

1416
01:23:12,200 --> 01:23:13,767
that I didn't tell you yet.

1417
01:23:14,600 --> 01:23:15,767
What? What is this?
What's happened?

1418
01:23:17,367 --> 01:23:20,166
I really want to tell Ziad
about my last engagement

1419
01:23:21,433 --> 01:23:23,467
because I think it's the only
way that we could move forward.

1420
01:23:26,433 --> 01:23:27,266
[Ziad speaks]

1421
01:23:28,133 --> 01:23:28,667
[Emma] I don't know
what I'm gonna do.

1422
01:23:30,266 --> 01:23:31,266
[sob]