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I left my-

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Your phone.

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Thanks sweetness.

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I had fun tonight,

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you?

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Well, maybe dinner next week?

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Talk soon.

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♪ You got my attention babe

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♪ And I can't make a move

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♪ Like a child that's
starved for love ♪

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♪ I'll stay there as
long as I have to ♪

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♪ I'll cry a river of tears

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♪ That flows out to the sea

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♪ Baby if you run away,
baby if you leave ♪

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♪ I'm so in love with you girl

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♪ You make me feel brand new

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♪ Come on give it up to me

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♪ Let me take care of you

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♪ I know that your mama says

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♪ I'm gonna make
you cry all night ♪

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♪ I'll cry a river of tears

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♪ That flows out to the sea

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♪ Baby if you run away,
baby if you leave ♪

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You've got to come
with me next time.

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I know.

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Whatever, you always say that.

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No, for real this time.

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Okay, tell me about the men.

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Girl.

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I tell you they
never left me alone.

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They loved my blackness,
my afro, my lips.

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Yeah?

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I don't know if we're
exotic to them or what,

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but they seem to
love my naturalness.

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You know I think natural
comes off as sexiness

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outside the US.

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Men seem to be
attracted to that.

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Whatever it is they
sure love giving head.

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Wait.

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What does one thing have
to do with the other?

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Okay.

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Oh, damn.

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Is there more?

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Nope.

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Well, I'ma light up.

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Is that cool?

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Yeah.

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Wanna hit it?

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I can't believe in 2018
you're still a weed virgin.

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The little old lady
next door smokes.

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Nope, not once.

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You wear that "Taylor
Swift" like a badge of honor.

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Huh?

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You know, "Pollyanna."
I'm so sweet and pure.

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There are a lot
of things I've never tried

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but I'm no Pollyanna.

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I mean I've done my dirt.

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You forget I've known
your ass since high school.

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I know all your dirt.

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It's more like dust.

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It does smell good though.

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Here.

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Nah.

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What are you afraid of?

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Nothing, it's just not my thing.

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But the Naked Project is?

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The Nu Project,

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and I didn't say
I was gonna do it.

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I just said that those
women were very courageous.

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Scars and cellulite and all.

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That does take courage.

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To be that comfortable
with your body.

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I love my body, but yeah,
I'm not sure I could do it.

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I mean the thought of anybody
anywhere all over the world

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being able to look at my flaws.

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I just can't imagine.

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Young girls do it just
for fun on the Gram.

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I know right?

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Where's the modesty?

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Oh, we sound like
two old ass women.

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'Cause we are.

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Speak for yourself.

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Oh!

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Who is this?

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Oh, that's Gerard.

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He's a travel contact from
the site that sent me.

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He's cute.

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Mm-hm, and pretty good in bed.

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You slept with this young boy?

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He looks like a kid.

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I know, but he's no kid.

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He's 30.

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Really?

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Have you noticed that since
hitting 35 all the young men,

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with their pants
hanging off their asses,

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wanna push up on you?

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Girl, you couldn't pay
me to date a younger guy.

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I mean, what can they do for me?

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And I especially hate
the term "cougar."

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Young men can be
pretty fun though.

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Great for sex.

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Yeah but, I'm too old
for, "Just for fun".

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I want the real deal.

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Marriage?

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Yeah, why not?

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Marriage is dead.

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No, I don't believe that.

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That's just what people say.

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2018 is about
living without labels.

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He.

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She.

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Dead.
No.

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It's "They" now.

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I just think that
marriage is the next step.

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If that's what you want,

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then why are you
hibernating in this house

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and dressing like an old lady?

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And wasting time on
old man booty call.

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I do not dress like an old lady.

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Okay, maybe sometimes.

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But I'm kicking booty
call to the curb,

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he just doesn't satisfy me.

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What a surprise.

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You know I even
tried getting drunk,

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and that didn't even help.

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Ain't that the worst.

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These crackers are stale.

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Yeah, I meant to throw them out.

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Then why'd you let me eat them?

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You seem to be enjoying them.

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All right dad, it's your turn.

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Okay, okay, okay. Let's do it.

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No!

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I hope these clues are
better than the last time.

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Yeah, well, just guess
it right this time please.

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Yeah aunt Juanita 'cause
we're beating you guys.

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Time is running out.

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Hello.

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Hey, sis.

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Philip, baby brother.

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Really? Still?

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Like how old do I have to be

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before you stop calling
me baby brother?

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Uh, you'll always
be younger than me.

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How crazy you called I was
just thinking about you.

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00:10:32,508 --> 00:10:34,641
See, and I was
thinking about you.

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How much do you need?

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Ha, ha, ha, very funny.

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You know today is the
anniversary right?

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Yeah.

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I was just looking at pictures.

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Depressed or nostalgic?

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Not depressed.

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Happy memories.

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I was just laughing, thinking
about one of those stories

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that he used to tell us.

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00:11:02,103 --> 00:11:03,757
Oh don't get me
started on those stories.

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00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:05,323
You talking about the neighbors,

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00:11:05,367 --> 00:11:08,152
or when he took down a gang
of five all by himself right?

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00:11:10,502 --> 00:11:12,679
Any of them, they
were all hilarious.

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00:11:12,722 --> 00:11:14,332
The old man was crazy.

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00:11:14,376 --> 00:11:15,788
He wouldn't like
you calling him old.

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00:11:15,812 --> 00:11:19,903
I guess not, right?

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00:11:21,775 --> 00:11:25,866
I don't know I've just been
thinking a lot about him lately.

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Yeah.

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That time of the year.

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00:11:30,740 --> 00:11:33,047
Yeah, maybe, I don't know.

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I miss him.

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00:11:37,834 --> 00:11:38,834
Me too.

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00:11:40,315 --> 00:11:42,491
I miss you too, big sis.

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When you gonna come
down and visit?

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To Texas?

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No way you're not
getting me to Texas.

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It's too damn hot.

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And too Republican.

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And you're actually
right about both, yeah.

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But you know, I gotta go
where the government sends me,

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which reminds me,
I'm actually running.

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I just wanted to say hello.

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00:12:06,341 --> 00:12:07,821
Hey, Maya.
Yeah?

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Love you, sis.

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You too.

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♪ Opposite of Urkel
when I pull up flying ♪

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♪ Purple People eaters
couldn't bite at me ♪

185
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♪ I sealed the
fate of Herschel ♪

186
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♪ And I just leave
em on a limb ♪

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♪ And handle my business, these
rappers are walking dead ♪

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♪ I already killed 'em

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♪ Skin blanco

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♪ Lyrical weapon
kicking like a bronco ♪

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♪ Head honcho

192
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♪ Spherical presence
came from the grotto ♪

193
00:12:35,674 --> 00:12:37,633
♪ A dead rapper rap
his body in a poncho ♪

194
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♪ And crack his melon
with a combo like pronto ♪

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I'm coming!

196
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♪ Hard enough to body box a
bull and shake it's mainframe ♪

197
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♪ He got sand disappeared

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I'm coming!

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♪ Some great relationships

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♪ Due to a passion I
was chasing quick ♪

201
00:12:54,128 --> 00:12:55,409
♪ But when you've got
everything to lose ♪

202
00:12:55,433 --> 00:12:57,194
♪ And nothing to gain
unless you make it big ♪

203
00:12:57,218 --> 00:12:58,673
♪ Well, old friends
can stay at home ♪

204
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♪ And watch me like their
getting paid to babysit ♪

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00:13:00,003 --> 00:13:01,241
Yo I was just calling you, man.

206
00:13:01,265 --> 00:13:02,789
I rang the buzzer
like eight times.

207
00:13:02,832 --> 00:13:05,704
Yeah man, I said "I'm
coming" like eight times.

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00:13:05,748 --> 00:13:06,836
Oh.

209
00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:09,360
My bad, I had these
headphones on.

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00:13:15,758 --> 00:13:16,758
Okay cool.

211
00:13:17,586 --> 00:13:18,848
Exact change.

212
00:13:18,892 --> 00:13:19,892
Tip?

213
00:13:21,198 --> 00:13:23,853
Ah, it's cool Mama, next time.

214
00:13:27,596 --> 00:13:28,989
Get that fixed too

215
00:13:29,032 --> 00:13:29,946
♪ You're offered
something take it ♪

216
00:13:29,990 --> 00:13:31,054
♪ So screw it I'm on my own

217
00:13:31,078 --> 00:13:32,383
♪ I wanna tell the world

218
00:13:32,427 --> 00:13:33,665
♪ Don't stress it your
life is a blessing ♪

219
00:13:33,689 --> 00:13:35,014
♪ Don't be a slave
to the work force ♪

220
00:13:35,038 --> 00:13:38,868
♪ Because time is the essence

221
00:14:20,954 --> 00:14:22,694
I wanted to take real women

222
00:14:22,738 --> 00:14:24,566
of any shape and size,

223
00:14:26,785 --> 00:14:31,355
treat them like models
photographing their real bodies,

224
00:14:33,531 --> 00:14:36,708
without the sexual
under or overtones.

225
00:15:44,689 --> 00:15:45,689
Shit.

226
00:15:51,218 --> 00:15:52,567
Hi, how are you?

227
00:15:52,610 --> 00:15:54,003
Hi.

228
00:15:54,047 --> 00:15:57,702
Um, can I please have a large
soy caramel latte and a-

229
00:15:57,746 --> 00:15:59,574
Blueberry scone.

230
00:16:00,749 --> 00:16:01,837
You know me so well.

231
00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:03,099
Hey, how are you?

232
00:16:03,143 --> 00:16:04,840
What's going on?

233
00:16:04,883 --> 00:16:05,797
Oh, you know.

234
00:16:05,841 --> 00:16:06,905
I haven't seen you in a while.

235
00:16:06,929 --> 00:16:08,887
So, is this to stay or to go?

236
00:16:08,931 --> 00:16:10,367
Oh I can't stay today.

237
00:16:10,411 --> 00:16:13,022
I got some things that I'm
working on back at the house.

238
00:16:13,066 --> 00:16:14,023
Okay, wait a minute.

239
00:16:14,067 --> 00:16:16,243
Did you change your hair?

240
00:16:16,286 --> 00:16:18,245
No, it's the same.

241
00:16:18,288 --> 00:16:20,203
You sure you can't stay?

242
00:16:20,247 --> 00:16:22,075
What'chu been working
on these days?

243
00:16:22,118 --> 00:16:23,728
Oh, you know I've been-

244
00:16:23,772 --> 00:16:26,557
Hold on, wait, you lost weight.

245
00:16:26,601 --> 00:16:29,691
Definitely not.

246
00:16:29,734 --> 00:16:31,134
All right look,
what about tomorrow?

247
00:16:31,171 --> 00:16:34,174
I wanna sit down with
you and catch up.

248
00:16:34,217 --> 00:16:35,088
Oh, oh, thank you.

249
00:16:35,131 --> 00:16:36,131
Thank you.

250
00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:39,527
Oh shit!

251
00:16:39,570 --> 00:16:40,876
What's wrong?

252
00:16:40,919 --> 00:16:42,399
I left my wallet at home.

253
00:16:42,443 --> 00:16:45,011
You don't have
apple pay or cash app?

254
00:16:45,054 --> 00:16:47,578
No. It's okay, I can just...

255
00:16:47,622 --> 00:16:48,753
I can run home and grab it.

256
00:16:48,797 --> 00:16:50,799
No, no, no. It's on the house.

257
00:16:50,842 --> 00:16:52,322
No, no, you don't
have to do that.

258
00:16:52,366 --> 00:16:57,066
Hey look, it's my way of
getting you back here tomorrow.

259
00:16:57,806 --> 00:16:58,981
Sure, tomorrow.

260
00:16:59,895 --> 00:17:01,027
- Okay.
- Thank you.

261
00:17:01,070 --> 00:17:03,203
- You're welcome.
- Thank you.

262
00:17:15,432 --> 00:17:16,999
Hey, there, Maya.

263
00:17:18,261 --> 00:17:19,088
Hey, Mr. Ross.

264
00:17:19,132 --> 00:17:20,220
How you doing today?

265
00:17:20,263 --> 00:17:22,135
I can't do everything
like I use to do,

266
00:17:22,178 --> 00:17:24,050
but I still can do it.

267
00:17:25,442 --> 00:17:26,704
That one again.

268
00:17:26,748 --> 00:17:29,055
Fred?
Was there mail?

269
00:17:29,098 --> 00:17:30,621
All right, see you later.

270
00:17:34,016 --> 00:17:35,800
Honey could you
help me with that.

271
00:17:35,844 --> 00:17:36,844
Sure.

272
00:17:42,459 --> 00:17:43,654
You know, if I weren't married,

273
00:17:43,678 --> 00:17:45,984
I could give you a
run for your money.

274
00:17:46,028 --> 00:17:48,074
Fred! Fred!

275
00:17:49,249 --> 00:17:50,989
Isn't that your wife Mr. Ross?

276
00:17:51,033 --> 00:17:53,949
Don't let this cane fool you.

277
00:17:53,992 --> 00:17:56,560
Goodbye, Mr. Ross I gotta go.

278
00:18:02,131 --> 00:18:03,131
Mr. Ross!

279
00:18:47,089 --> 00:18:48,917
Welcome to the

280
00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,180
I'm your host Trevite Willis

281
00:19:10,721 --> 00:19:13,855
One day when I was picking
up a bottle of wine

282
00:19:13,898 --> 00:19:17,250
family has been able to survive

283
00:19:17,293 --> 00:19:20,035
Harlem changes.

284
00:19:40,186 --> 00:19:42,666
Hey Mr. Sorry for the delay.

285
00:19:44,277 --> 00:19:48,716
Sorry, we haven't had much
time. It's crazy busy today.

286
00:19:48,759 --> 00:19:49,847
That's a good thing.

287
00:19:49,891 --> 00:19:51,719
I'm not complaining.

288
00:19:51,762 --> 00:19:53,242
Anyway, where were we?

289
00:19:53,286 --> 00:19:57,333
Oh you know what, you ever
finish that photo book, exhibit?

290
00:19:57,377 --> 00:19:59,901
No, I'm still working on it.

291
00:20:02,208 --> 00:20:05,515
What's that, design
workshop? More school?

292
00:20:05,559 --> 00:20:07,778
Not sure, just checking it out.

293
00:20:07,822 --> 00:20:10,303
You and school. You
got more education

294
00:20:10,346 --> 00:20:12,043
than anybody I know.

295
00:20:13,349 --> 00:20:15,221
You can never have
too much education.

296
00:20:15,264 --> 00:20:18,789
True. But at some point you
gotta do something with it.

297
00:20:18,833 --> 00:20:20,313
Yeah, I'm also thinking about.

298
00:20:20,356 --> 00:20:21,357
Babatunde!

299
00:20:22,228 --> 00:20:24,491
Oh, hell naw, my brother.

300
00:20:28,059 --> 00:20:29,147
Man you look good.

301
00:20:29,191 --> 00:20:30,061
Thanks man, you too.

302
00:20:30,105 --> 00:20:31,280
So you back in Brooklyn now?

303
00:20:31,324 --> 00:20:33,413
Yeah, you know I can't
stay away too long.

304
00:20:33,456 --> 00:20:35,328
Right, right.
Hey, have a seat.

305
00:20:35,371 --> 00:20:37,634
Oh shit, number two lady.

306
00:20:37,678 --> 00:20:39,201
Excuse me.

307
00:20:39,245 --> 00:20:41,551
You always order the number 2.

308
00:20:41,595 --> 00:20:43,423
I don't cook much.

309
00:20:43,466 --> 00:20:44,337
Oh Kaseem, this is...

310
00:20:44,380 --> 00:20:46,469
I'm Kaseem, nice to meet you.

311
00:20:46,513 --> 00:20:47,644
I'm Maya.

312
00:20:47,688 --> 00:20:49,167
Have a sit, let's talk.

313
00:20:49,211 --> 00:20:50,430
Babatunde man, I wish I could

314
00:20:50,473 --> 00:20:52,606
but I got things to
do, places to be man.

315
00:20:52,649 --> 00:20:54,323
As long as you promise
to come back through.

316
00:20:54,347 --> 00:20:55,478
Oh no doubt.

317
00:21:09,405 --> 00:21:11,233
You seem excited to see him.

318
00:21:11,277 --> 00:21:13,844
That's my man right there.

319
00:21:13,888 --> 00:21:15,585
More like a boy.

320
00:21:15,629 --> 00:21:18,632
I mean he may be
young, but up here,

321
00:21:18,675 --> 00:21:22,070
he's twice as smart
as most men his age.

322
00:22:00,630 --> 00:22:03,198
Hello, Sweetness, this is Henry.

323
00:22:03,241 --> 00:22:05,983
Call me, I have
tickets for Hamilton,

324
00:22:06,027 --> 00:22:08,334
thought you might wanna go.

325
00:22:09,726 --> 00:22:12,555
Hello, Mrs. Trudeau,
this is Jim from the IRS,

326
00:22:12,599 --> 00:22:15,210
first I just want to say
you are not in trouble

327
00:22:15,253 --> 00:22:18,082
but it does seem there was
a mistake on your taxes

328
00:22:18,126 --> 00:22:19,606
all we need is your credit card

329
00:22:19,649 --> 00:22:22,043
and its urgent that
you call us back...

330
00:22:22,086 --> 00:22:23,086
Sure.

331
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:26,960
Seriously.

332
00:22:29,616 --> 00:22:33,402
It's raining outside,
no shit Sherlock.

333
00:22:47,938 --> 00:22:48,939
Who is this?

334
00:22:51,986 --> 00:22:54,118
Ah, the young delivery fella,

335
00:22:58,558 --> 00:23:01,256
I know he aint flirting with me.

336
00:23:11,962 --> 00:23:14,182
Girl, that key is
for emergencies,

337
00:23:14,225 --> 00:23:16,314
not for you to let
yourself in whenever

338
00:23:16,358 --> 00:23:18,142
What if I was in here
butt naked with a man?

339
00:23:18,186 --> 00:23:19,448
Girl, scones.

340
00:23:20,710 --> 00:23:21,494
Blueberry?

341
00:23:21,537 --> 00:23:22,538
Of course.

342
00:23:24,018 --> 00:23:26,150
You will never believe what
happened to me last night.

343
00:23:26,194 --> 00:23:27,474
Wait, let me get
coffee for this.

344
00:23:27,500 --> 00:23:28,500
Okay.

345
00:23:29,371 --> 00:23:31,678
SO, a deaf man asked me out.

346
00:23:32,679 --> 00:23:33,593
Wait, what?

347
00:23:33,636 --> 00:23:37,074
I shit you not.

348
00:23:39,425 --> 00:23:40,469
I'm organizing.

349
00:23:40,513 --> 00:23:41,688
Again?

350
00:23:41,731 --> 00:23:44,255
Seriously, okay, a deaf guy.

351
00:23:46,083 --> 00:23:49,391
So, I was waiting for the train,

352
00:23:49,435 --> 00:23:52,394
and this gorgeous man
kept staring at me.

353
00:23:52,438 --> 00:23:55,963
At first I was flattered,
but he kept staring

354
00:23:56,006 --> 00:23:58,269
and kept staring,
and I got annoyed,

355
00:23:58,313 --> 00:24:00,707
so I gave him the
"don't even" look.

356
00:24:00,750 --> 00:24:02,099
Like, keep it moving buddy.

357
00:24:02,143 --> 00:24:05,407
Exactly, then he
gave me a thumbs up.

358
00:24:06,364 --> 00:24:07,801
A thumbs up?

359
00:24:07,844 --> 00:24:12,414
Cheezy, yes. But then he
smiles, a really sexy smile.

360
00:24:13,763 --> 00:24:17,288
Oh, yeah. A sexy smile
will do it every time.

361
00:24:17,332 --> 00:24:22,293
He comes over, still smiling
and holds up his cell phone.

362
00:24:24,818 --> 00:24:29,431
He had typed out, "I think
you're beautiful, I'm David,

363
00:24:30,519 --> 00:24:32,869
I'm deaf and I'd
like to take you out.

364
00:24:32,913 --> 00:24:35,089
Can I call you?"

365
00:24:35,132 --> 00:24:36,525
But how's he gonna...

366
00:24:36,569 --> 00:24:40,703
I said, "How?" And then
realized he couldn't hear me.

367
00:24:40,747 --> 00:24:44,446
So, of course I said
it again, only louder.

368
00:24:45,273 --> 00:24:46,317
So...

369
00:24:46,361 --> 00:24:47,971
Oh you need help.

370
00:24:49,146 --> 00:24:51,148
But, he reads lips
so he understood.

371
00:24:51,192 --> 00:24:52,410
But, of course.

372
00:24:52,454 --> 00:24:55,326
So he typed back, "I
have a machine that..."

373
00:24:55,370 --> 00:24:57,198
and then the train
pulls into the station.

374
00:24:57,241 --> 00:24:58,460
So what did you do?

375
00:24:58,504 --> 00:25:00,636
I gave him my number.

376
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:02,159
I don't want to discriminate.

377
00:25:02,203 --> 00:25:04,074
Plus I was curious.

378
00:25:04,118 --> 00:25:06,990
You meet the most random,
outlandish and interesting men

379
00:25:07,034 --> 00:25:07,948
I swear.

380
00:25:07,991 --> 00:25:09,906
I do. Maybe it's the hair.

381
00:25:09,950 --> 00:25:11,299
What?

382
00:25:11,342 --> 00:25:12,605
But, wait, it gets better.

383
00:25:12,648 --> 00:25:14,998
Okay wait, coffee
is not gonna cut it,

384
00:25:15,042 --> 00:25:18,828
I gonna get wine for
the rest of this story.

385
00:25:18,872 --> 00:25:23,180
So, I'm home last night
giving myself a pedicure,

386
00:25:24,704 --> 00:25:25,704
Oh nice.

387
00:25:28,316 --> 00:25:31,319
And I get a call,
a woman's voice.

388
00:25:32,712 --> 00:25:36,280
She's like, "We met the
other day, this is David.

389
00:25:36,324 --> 00:25:39,022
You mean like a
robot, like Siri?

390
00:25:39,066 --> 00:25:41,242
No, it was a real live person.

391
00:25:41,285 --> 00:25:43,026
I said, "OK, hello."

392
00:25:44,941 --> 00:25:49,119
He/she said, "Is it weird
hearing me like this?"

393
00:25:49,163 --> 00:25:50,163
Duh!

394
00:25:51,513 --> 00:25:54,124
He said, "I type into a machine

395
00:25:54,168 --> 00:25:57,693
and the operator
repeats what I type,

396
00:25:57,737 --> 00:25:59,608
then types to me what you say."

397
00:25:59,652 --> 00:26:01,088
Kinky.

398
00:26:01,131 --> 00:26:03,307
So, in this woman's voice,

399
00:26:03,351 --> 00:26:05,483
he starts telling
me how hot I am

400
00:26:05,527 --> 00:26:08,661
and asks if he can
come over my house.

401
00:26:10,227 --> 00:26:12,012
And he wasn't taking
no for an answer.

402
00:26:12,055 --> 00:26:13,317
He called three times.

403
00:26:13,361 --> 00:26:16,103
I had to tell him
to stop calling.

404
00:26:16,146 --> 00:26:18,496
He was way too aggressive.

405
00:26:18,540 --> 00:26:19,672
It was creepy.

406
00:26:22,631 --> 00:26:26,200
It's him. Let me tell
this mutha something.

407
00:26:27,070 --> 00:26:28,070
Hello!

408
00:26:28,811 --> 00:26:29,943
Hola.

409
00:26:29,986 --> 00:26:31,509
Yeah, hey, what's up?

410
00:26:31,553 --> 00:26:33,424
Hey, who is this?

411
00:26:33,468 --> 00:26:36,036
We back to that
again? It's Kaseem.

412
00:26:36,079 --> 00:26:38,691
Hi Kaseem, I wasn't
expecting you to call me.

413
00:26:38,734 --> 00:26:39,605
You Dominican?

414
00:26:39,648 --> 00:26:40,518
What?

415
00:26:40,562 --> 00:26:42,477
You answered the phone "hola."

416
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:43,957
Just being silly.

417
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,220
I really don't wanna have
to call the cops, but I will.

418
00:26:46,263 --> 00:26:47,656
Is this a bad time?

419
00:26:47,700 --> 00:26:49,658
No, what's up?

420
00:26:49,702 --> 00:26:50,964
Just wanted some advice.

421
00:26:51,007 --> 00:26:52,966
And you thought to call me?

422
00:26:53,009 --> 00:26:54,620
You're funny.

423
00:26:54,663 --> 00:26:58,624
I know you can't hear
me, but you DO understand.

424
00:26:58,667 --> 00:27:00,756
Babatunde told me
you was a college girl.

425
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:02,149
Aha, what about it?

426
00:27:02,192 --> 00:27:04,586
Look tryna' soak up
all the knowledge I can

427
00:27:04,630 --> 00:27:05,868
from someone such as yourself..

428
00:27:05,892 --> 00:27:07,676
I'm sure Babatunde
can put you in touch

429
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:09,635
with somebody who can help you.

430
00:27:09,678 --> 00:27:10,723
Who's that?

431
00:27:19,166 --> 00:27:21,211
I just need a couple
minutes of your time.

432
00:27:21,255 --> 00:27:22,430
Come on, help a brother out.

433
00:27:22,473 --> 00:27:23,387
Okay sure, okay.

434
00:27:23,431 --> 00:27:24,582
How about later on at Nola's?

435
00:27:24,606 --> 00:27:26,086
Ok, fine. Bye.

436
00:27:26,129 --> 00:27:28,784
Damn, he's making
you nervous like that?

437
00:27:28,828 --> 00:27:30,220
He doesn't make me nervous.

438
00:27:30,264 --> 00:27:31,918
What did he say?

439
00:27:31,961 --> 00:27:34,790
He said he wants to get together
and talk about business,

440
00:27:34,834 --> 00:27:36,705
but I think he was
mostly flirting.

441
00:27:36,749 --> 00:27:37,880
Clearly.

442
00:27:37,924 --> 00:27:40,230
But he's just a
baby, I think he is 22.

443
00:27:40,274 --> 00:27:42,450
You remember How Stella
Got Her Groove Back?

444
00:27:42,493 --> 00:27:44,408
You remember how it ended.

445
00:27:44,452 --> 00:27:47,063
You don't have to marry
him, just have some fun.

446
00:27:47,107 --> 00:27:49,631
Oh, I hate that term cougar.

447
00:27:50,545 --> 00:27:51,981
I'm not taking somebody's baby.

448
00:27:52,025 --> 00:27:55,071
You are the only one
who keeps using that word.

449
00:27:55,115 --> 00:27:56,353
Besides, you can
do what you want -

450
00:27:56,377 --> 00:27:59,119
he's not your child
plus he's legal.

451
00:27:59,162 --> 00:28:00,642
Yeah, barely...

452
00:28:13,220 --> 00:28:16,702
I bet you glad we came
here 'stead of Nola's -

453
00:28:16,745 --> 00:28:18,268
they don't serve wine.

454
00:28:18,312 --> 00:28:22,708
I'm not completely sure
you didn't plan it that way.

455
00:28:22,751 --> 00:28:25,623
Naw, seriously,
they just closed early.

456
00:28:25,667 --> 00:28:27,625
Why don't you just
fill up the glass,

457
00:28:27,669 --> 00:28:30,106
that way you don't have to
refill it so many times?

458
00:28:30,150 --> 00:28:32,369
It's part of the experience,

459
00:28:32,413 --> 00:28:37,200
you need room in the glass
for the wine to, breathe.

460
00:28:37,244 --> 00:28:39,072
Whatever, man. You
can keep that alcohol.

461
00:28:39,115 --> 00:28:40,963
I told you I'm a Muslim,
I don't smoke or drink.

462
00:28:40,987 --> 00:28:43,641
So you have no vices?

463
00:28:43,685 --> 00:28:45,078
Vices?

464
00:28:45,121 --> 00:28:48,472
Addictions?
Cigarettes, weed, molly?

465
00:28:48,516 --> 00:28:50,561
Hold up so what you like
a pill head or a junkie?

466
00:28:50,605 --> 00:28:53,651
Excuse me. I don't do drugs.

467
00:28:53,695 --> 00:28:56,785
Occasionally, I..drink wine.

468
00:28:56,829 --> 00:28:58,656
Alright, you threw
me off for a second.

469
00:28:58,700 --> 00:28:59,832
Talking all that molly shit.

470
00:28:59,875 --> 00:29:03,052
Kids your age are
into all kind of drugs.

471
00:29:03,096 --> 00:29:07,317
Kids, huh. Well, I'm not like
most men my age or any age.

472
00:29:07,361 --> 00:29:10,016
Really, how are you different?

473
00:29:12,235 --> 00:29:13,410
Any dessert?

474
00:29:16,849 --> 00:29:18,459
You want dessert?

475
00:29:23,072 --> 00:29:24,247
None for me.

476
00:29:25,683 --> 00:29:27,947
Come on man, you girls kill me.

477
00:29:27,990 --> 00:29:32,255
You know you want dessert -
why don't you just get it.

478
00:29:32,299 --> 00:29:33,561
Don't tell me you're on a diet?

479
00:29:33,604 --> 00:29:37,565
No. But I do like
to watch what I eat.

480
00:29:37,608 --> 00:29:40,394
So you buy into that
hype? A sister like you?

481
00:29:40,437 --> 00:29:41,874
Like me?

482
00:29:41,917 --> 00:29:44,137
Sexy, successful.

483
00:29:44,180 --> 00:29:46,574
You're thick too but
black men like that,

484
00:29:46,617 --> 00:29:48,837
we like a woman that
look like a woman.

485
00:29:48,881 --> 00:29:50,230
You should know
that at your age.

486
00:29:50,273 --> 00:29:51,666
My age?

487
00:29:51,709 --> 00:29:52,904
Oh what you thought
I was gonna let that,

488
00:29:52,928 --> 00:29:55,583
kids your age thing slide?

489
00:29:55,626 --> 00:29:56,802
Touche.

490
00:29:56,845 --> 00:29:58,716
No but seriously, why
do you feel the need

491
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:00,022
to look like Europeans?

492
00:30:00,066 --> 00:30:03,591
I'm not interested in
looking like Europeans.

493
00:30:03,634 --> 00:30:06,855
You straighten your hair,
you're trying to be skinny.

494
00:30:06,899 --> 00:30:08,770
This is just a hairstyle.

495
00:30:08,814 --> 00:30:11,077
I could stand to
lose a few pounds,

496
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:12,948
but I love my curves

497
00:30:12,992 --> 00:30:16,256
and I not interested in
looking skinny, just healthy.

498
00:30:16,299 --> 00:30:18,127
See, that's the problem
with us black people,

499
00:30:18,171 --> 00:30:20,303
we don't have any self-respect,

500
00:30:20,347 --> 00:30:21,977
we aspire to be like them
when we need to aspire

501
00:30:22,001 --> 00:30:24,612
to be the best version
of us that we can be.

502
00:30:24,655 --> 00:30:26,440
Natural hair, pure temples.

503
00:30:26,483 --> 00:30:28,659
You certainly do sound
like the Nation of Islam.

504
00:30:28,703 --> 00:30:31,880
This is serious we
have to help our people.

505
00:30:31,924 --> 00:30:34,665
Look, like no other race
we are self destructing,

506
00:30:34,709 --> 00:30:36,972
and it's up to my
generation, yeah I said it,

507
00:30:37,016 --> 00:30:40,628
my generation to do
something about it.

508
00:30:40,671 --> 00:30:43,326
Would you like anything else?

509
00:30:43,370 --> 00:30:44,806
Nothing for me.

510
00:30:46,547 --> 00:30:47,896
Kaseem?

511
00:30:47,940 --> 00:30:49,158
Naw, I'm good.

512
00:30:59,908 --> 00:31:03,694
Oh, don't worry. I got
it. Dinner was on me today.

513
00:31:03,738 --> 00:31:05,653
Naw, I got mine.

514
00:31:05,696 --> 00:31:08,351
Really, don't worry, my treat.

515
00:31:12,703 --> 00:31:17,012
Oh, OK. My pocket is a
little tight this week, too.

516
00:31:36,945 --> 00:31:38,686
You know, you really didn't have

517
00:31:38,729 --> 00:31:39,992
to walk me all the way home,

518
00:31:40,035 --> 00:31:41,907
it's just a couple blocks.

519
00:31:41,950 --> 00:31:43,952
No it's cool, I wanted
you to see my chivalry -

520
00:31:43,996 --> 00:31:46,912
show off my grown
man, you feel me.

521
00:31:48,348 --> 00:31:51,960
Look, I'm really flattered
that somebody your age...

522
00:31:52,004 --> 00:31:53,004
A man.

523
00:31:54,310 --> 00:31:56,834
A man your age would
be interested in me,

524
00:31:56,878 --> 00:32:02,797
but really I'm old
enough to be your... aunt.

525
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:05,539
I've dated older women
before, you're not the first.

526
00:32:05,582 --> 00:32:06,540
We're not dating.

527
00:32:06,583 --> 00:32:08,498
You wouldn't be the first.

528
00:32:08,542 --> 00:32:11,023
Besides girls my age...
Women?

529
00:32:11,066 --> 00:32:13,851
No, girls. They
play too many games.

530
00:32:13,895 --> 00:32:15,375
I don't have time for that shit,

531
00:32:15,418 --> 00:32:16,569
I'm looking for somebody I
can build something with.

532
00:32:16,593 --> 00:32:19,205
Maya! Are you okay?

533
00:32:19,248 --> 00:32:21,294
I'm OK, Mr. Ross, thanks.

534
00:32:21,337 --> 00:32:22,251
Just checking.

535
00:32:22,295 --> 00:32:23,687
Yeah I'm okay too Mr. Ross.

536
00:32:23,731 --> 00:32:24,993
- Keep your voice down
- what?

537
00:32:25,037 --> 00:32:26,299
My neighbors.

538
00:32:30,738 --> 00:32:32,044
Like I said...

539
00:32:33,567 --> 00:32:34,960
What are you doing?

540
00:32:35,003 --> 00:32:38,833
Damn, you thick. You
know you're sexy right?

541
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:41,400
What?

542
00:32:42,315 --> 00:32:44,099
I said you're thick as hell.

543
00:32:44,143 --> 00:32:46,449
Please stop using
the word thick.

544
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:49,191
You know you're sexy right?

545
00:32:49,235 --> 00:32:50,845
Yes, I heard you.

546
00:33:23,573 --> 00:33:24,792
Yes, oh yes.

547
00:33:24,835 --> 00:33:27,229
Don't stop don't
stop, don't stop.

548
00:33:57,564 --> 00:33:58,564
Thick.

549
00:34:29,335 --> 00:34:30,423
Come on down for dinner.

550
00:34:30,466 --> 00:34:31,424
Okay.

551
00:34:31,467 --> 00:34:32,381
Turn around.

552
00:34:32,425 --> 00:34:33,208
Huh?

553
00:34:33,252 --> 00:34:34,427
Turn around.

554
00:34:38,996 --> 00:34:42,435
Oh so that's what we're
doing now? Since when?

555
00:34:42,478 --> 00:34:45,481
Dad I'm 14 every girl
my age wears makeup.

556
00:34:45,525 --> 00:34:49,964
Listen girls wear makeup
to enhance their looks.

557
00:34:50,007 --> 00:34:53,402
Most of the time because
they're not very pretty.

558
00:34:53,446 --> 00:34:55,317
You are beautiful just
the way you are you

559
00:34:55,361 --> 00:34:57,537
don't need to wear makeup.

560
00:34:58,973 --> 00:35:01,671
Clean your face and
come down for dinner.

561
00:35:01,715 --> 00:35:04,544
Only fast girls
wear red lipstick.

562
00:35:24,651 --> 00:35:26,000
Hey.

563
00:35:26,043 --> 00:35:27,958
Yeah, hey, what's up?

564
00:35:36,489 --> 00:35:38,491
You want something to drink?

565
00:35:38,534 --> 00:35:39,534
Nah.

566
00:35:42,234 --> 00:35:44,497
So, show me what you got.

567
00:35:48,022 --> 00:35:50,851
My business plan and LLC papers.

568
00:36:00,774 --> 00:36:03,429
Were you expecting
something a little more grand?

569
00:36:03,472 --> 00:36:05,822
No, not at all, it's nice.

570
00:36:14,657 --> 00:36:15,789
You really need a lawyer.

571
00:36:15,832 --> 00:36:16,832
I know.

572
00:36:17,878 --> 00:36:19,836
And your business plan
needs a lot of work.

573
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:20,880
I know.

574
00:36:23,057 --> 00:36:24,057
Then...

575
00:36:25,407 --> 00:36:29,237
I mean I was hoping that
maybe you can help me with that?

576
00:36:29,281 --> 00:36:31,065
You read this?

577
00:36:31,108 --> 00:36:33,807
Of course. I've
read all those books.

578
00:36:33,850 --> 00:36:35,504
Naw but this one is great.

579
00:36:36,505 --> 00:36:37,289
Oh! You've...

580
00:36:37,332 --> 00:36:38,464
Oh! You've read it?

581
00:36:38,507 --> 00:36:41,989
Don't sound so
surprised, I can read.

582
00:36:42,032 --> 00:36:44,557
It's just that people don't
read as much as they used to,

583
00:36:44,600 --> 00:36:47,081
except for maybe
college students.

584
00:36:47,124 --> 00:36:48,387
I read all the time.

585
00:36:48,430 --> 00:36:51,781
You don't have to be
in college to read.

586
00:36:53,783 --> 00:36:55,263
Damn, you got a lot
of books though.

587
00:36:55,307 --> 00:36:57,613
But do you have Baratunde
Thurston's "How to be Black"

588
00:36:57,657 --> 00:37:00,442
or Kevin Powell-"The
Black Male Handbook?"

589
00:37:00,486 --> 00:37:01,617
You've read all those?

590
00:37:01,661 --> 00:37:03,663
I've read all of them.

591
00:37:05,578 --> 00:37:07,493
What you don't believe me?

592
00:37:07,536 --> 00:37:11,061
"My Soul on Ice", "Manchild
in the Promised Land",

593
00:37:11,105 --> 00:37:14,108
"By Any Means
Necessary." Quiz me.

594
00:37:14,151 --> 00:37:15,849
I'm not gonna quiz you,

595
00:37:15,892 --> 00:37:18,547
I can tell that you
know more than hip hop.

596
00:37:18,591 --> 00:37:20,636
Don't sleep on hip hop,

597
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:24,031
Tupac was one of the greatest
writers/lyricists period.

598
00:37:24,074 --> 00:37:25,946
I'll give you that -
that's my generation.

599
00:37:25,989 --> 00:37:29,123
You saying that your generation
wasn't Eldridge Cleaver?

600
00:37:29,166 --> 00:37:30,166
Old lady?

601
00:37:31,299 --> 00:37:33,127
And don't forget
about Kendrick Lamar,

602
00:37:33,170 --> 00:37:35,564
pulitzer Prize winner.

603
00:37:35,608 --> 00:37:39,699
Hip Hop has come a long
way from 2-Live Crew.

604
00:37:42,789 --> 00:37:43,877
You are so sexy.

605
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:45,095
What?

606
00:37:45,139 --> 00:37:48,011
I'm saying sex was
good the other night.

607
00:37:48,055 --> 00:37:50,318
Let's just deal with
the business plan.

608
00:37:50,362 --> 00:37:52,015
You can't take a compliment?

609
00:37:52,059 --> 00:37:53,558
Is it 'cause you
think that you're fat?

610
00:37:53,582 --> 00:37:57,586
I don't think I'm fat, and,
yes, I can take a compliment.

611
00:37:57,630 --> 00:37:59,806
I forgot your generation
is kind of sensitive.

612
00:37:59,849 --> 00:38:01,155
My generation?

613
00:38:01,198 --> 00:38:02,852
You said it first.

614
00:38:08,641 --> 00:38:11,992
Why are you still single?
And how old are you?

615
00:38:12,035 --> 00:38:14,342
You all up in my business.

616
00:38:16,388 --> 00:38:19,086
Seriously. And what do you do?

617
00:38:21,567 --> 00:38:25,310
I was a photographer,
an interior designer.

618
00:38:27,137 --> 00:38:29,270
I've done a lot things.

619
00:38:29,314 --> 00:38:33,187
I had a real estate
company but I sold that,

620
00:38:33,230 --> 00:38:38,235
and now I'm just trying to
figure out what to do next.

621
00:38:39,411 --> 00:38:41,848
How old are you? And
why are you single?

622
00:38:45,504 --> 00:38:49,943
I'm 39 and I guess I
haven't met the right man yet.

623
00:38:56,950 --> 00:39:01,955
Thirty-nine, you look good
for your age. Really good.

624
00:39:02,521 --> 00:39:03,521
Thanks.

625
00:39:05,959 --> 00:39:08,527
And the pussy still good too.

626
00:39:09,876 --> 00:39:12,531
Have you tried online dating?

627
00:39:12,574 --> 00:39:16,012
I'm sure you could
find a man on there.

628
00:39:16,056 --> 00:39:16,926
What the hell is that?

629
00:39:16,970 --> 00:39:20,147
"King of Kings you have a call."

630
00:39:20,190 --> 00:39:24,194
My phone, hold on.

631
00:39:24,238 --> 00:39:26,414
Hello, yeah, hey what's up?

632
00:39:28,024 --> 00:39:30,766
Alright, I'll be over
in a little while,

633
00:39:30,810 --> 00:39:32,072
alright, peace.

634
00:39:33,900 --> 00:39:36,163
Sorry, I gotta bounce.

635
00:39:36,206 --> 00:39:37,206
Okay.

636
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:43,866
I wasn't trying to
fix you up with anybody,

637
00:39:43,910 --> 00:39:46,216
I just wanted to see
where your head was at.

638
00:39:46,260 --> 00:39:47,870
You are young.

639
00:39:47,914 --> 00:39:50,699
Besides, this isn't happening.

640
00:39:50,743 --> 00:39:52,745
I am too old to date you.

641
00:39:54,486 --> 00:39:57,097
I mean, can I get a hug then?

642
00:39:59,447 --> 00:40:01,493
Since I'm about to leave.

643
00:40:03,233 --> 00:40:06,541
I thought you said
that you had to go?

644
00:40:14,897 --> 00:40:17,422
Don't be scared.

645
00:40:17,987 --> 00:40:20,599
I've already seen what you got.

646
00:40:52,108 --> 00:40:53,893
You checking out my six pack?

647
00:40:53,936 --> 00:40:56,330
No, I was just
straightening the covers.

648
00:40:56,373 --> 00:40:57,723
Good morning?

649
00:40:57,766 --> 00:40:59,333
You just woke up?

650
00:41:00,465 --> 00:41:01,465
Yeah.

651
00:41:02,336 --> 00:41:03,598
What time is it?

652
00:41:03,642 --> 00:41:04,991
Almost eleven.

653
00:41:08,298 --> 00:41:11,388
Damn, you put it on me
last night. I'm starving.

654
00:41:11,432 --> 00:41:13,652
I could make you
something to eat.

655
00:41:13,695 --> 00:41:17,090
You got any cereal? Like
Captain Crunch Frosted Flakes?

656
00:41:17,133 --> 00:41:20,049
No, but I can
make you an omelet.

657
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:22,704
You know how to make those?

658
00:41:22,748 --> 00:41:25,011
I do. Do you eat Omelets?

659
00:41:26,142 --> 00:41:28,405
I'm from the ghetto,
I'll eat anything.

660
00:41:28,449 --> 00:41:29,449
Hello?

661
00:41:30,277 --> 00:41:31,060
Who's that?

662
00:41:31,104 --> 00:41:31,974
My girlfriend.

663
00:41:32,018 --> 00:41:33,193
Your girlfriend, you're gay?

664
00:41:33,236 --> 00:41:36,544
No, my best friend.
She has keys...

665
00:41:36,588 --> 00:41:38,764
- Oops.
- That I'll be taking away.

666
00:41:38,807 --> 00:41:40,176
Sorry, girl, you weren't
answering your phone

667
00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:40,983
and I was worried.

668
00:41:41,027 --> 00:41:42,289
Hello.

669
00:41:42,332 --> 00:41:43,658
The ringer is off.
You remember Kaseem?

670
00:41:43,682 --> 00:41:45,161
You brought breakfast?

671
00:41:45,205 --> 00:41:46,205
Scones.

672
00:41:47,424 --> 00:41:48,338
I'm not a cougar.

673
00:41:48,382 --> 00:41:49,078
I don't know what happened.

674
00:41:49,122 --> 00:41:49,992
How was it?

675
00:41:50,036 --> 00:41:50,819
Good.

676
00:41:50,863 --> 00:41:51,777
Not great?

677
00:41:51,820 --> 00:41:52,517
Better than the first time.

678
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:53,430
First time?

679
00:41:53,474 --> 00:41:54,257
Shhh.

680
00:41:54,301 --> 00:41:55,084
And his...

681
00:41:55,128 --> 00:41:56,216
Nice and big.

682
00:41:56,259 --> 00:41:57,652
Big?

683
00:41:57,696 --> 00:41:59,654
Oh, yeah, all the steroids
in those happy meals

684
00:41:59,698 --> 00:42:01,090
went to the right place.

685
00:42:01,134 --> 00:42:01,917
Six pack?

686
00:42:01,961 --> 00:42:02,961
No fat.

687
00:42:04,964 --> 00:42:06,748
Alright, I gotta go,
I'll call you later.

688
00:42:06,792 --> 00:42:07,792
Have fun.

689
00:42:14,756 --> 00:42:17,150
♪ We can be friends
if you wanna' ♪

690
00:42:17,193 --> 00:42:19,935
♪ We can just talk
if you wanna' ♪

691
00:42:19,979 --> 00:42:22,721
♪ We can hold hands
if you wanna' ♪

692
00:42:22,764 --> 00:42:25,811
♪ Hey tell me what
you wanna' do ♪

693
00:42:25,854 --> 00:42:28,596
♪ We can just laugh
if you wanna' ♪

694
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:31,381
♪ Late nights under
stars if you wanna' ♪

695
00:42:31,425 --> 00:42:33,906
♪ We can just kiss
if you wanna' ♪

696
00:42:33,949 --> 00:42:36,648
♪ Hey tell me what
you wanna' do ♪

697
00:42:36,691 --> 00:42:37,886
See, this is how
it is in the ghetto.

698
00:42:37,910 --> 00:42:39,651
Sleeping on the floor.

699
00:42:39,694 --> 00:42:41,740
Yeah, but I have a bed.

700
00:42:42,915 --> 00:42:44,090
What?

701
00:42:44,133 --> 00:42:45,570
Stop.

702
00:42:45,613 --> 00:42:48,007
You are so rough. I'm a girl.

703
00:42:59,018 --> 00:43:00,106
What the...

704
00:43:03,326 --> 00:43:05,154
- Shit.
- That's crazy.

705
00:43:09,332 --> 00:43:10,638
He is dead?

706
00:43:10,682 --> 00:43:11,465
No he is a...

707
00:43:11,508 --> 00:43:12,509
He's dead.

708
00:43:17,340 --> 00:43:19,038
He just killed him.

709
00:43:21,997 --> 00:43:26,175
He is gonna take his...

710
00:43:28,743 --> 00:43:30,571
You wanna do something?

711
00:43:30,615 --> 00:43:31,616
Like what?

712
00:43:43,018 --> 00:43:45,107
I thought you didn't smoke?

713
00:43:45,151 --> 00:43:47,240
I'm a work in progress.

714
00:43:49,982 --> 00:43:51,723
You never smoked before?

715
00:43:51,766 --> 00:43:53,681
I told you I didn't.

716
00:43:53,725 --> 00:43:56,118
Not even in college?

717
00:43:56,162 --> 00:43:59,818
I was always so afraid
of getting caught.

718
00:43:59,861 --> 00:44:04,823
Ain't that what you college
girls do, smoke and lesbianism?

719
00:44:06,041 --> 00:44:07,695
Well, live a little, yo.

720
00:44:09,523 --> 00:44:11,220
All you gotta do is Inhale,

721
00:44:14,746 --> 00:44:15,746
hold it for a few,

722
00:44:16,878 --> 00:44:17,878
And then,

723
00:44:19,141 --> 00:44:20,141
Blow it out

724
00:44:22,231 --> 00:44:23,231
All right try

725
00:44:27,497 --> 00:44:29,586
alright take it
easy, hold on, slow

726
00:44:31,240 --> 00:44:32,240
hold on.

727
00:44:34,243 --> 00:44:35,941
Alright you good, you good.

728
00:44:45,167 --> 00:44:47,343
What made you get this one?

729
00:44:47,387 --> 00:44:50,042
I got it when my brother died.

730
00:44:56,657 --> 00:44:59,878
And this one? It feels bumpy.

731
00:44:59,921 --> 00:45:01,749
That's where I was stabbed.

732
00:45:01,793 --> 00:45:04,360
Stabbed? How did that happen?

733
00:45:06,101 --> 00:45:08,756
This dude my mother
used to mess with,

734
00:45:08,800 --> 00:45:11,280
used to beat her
up all the time.

735
00:45:11,324 --> 00:45:13,239
One day I got tired of it.

736
00:45:13,282 --> 00:45:15,415
I told him to get the fuck out.

737
00:45:15,458 --> 00:45:16,721
He stabbed me.

738
00:45:17,939 --> 00:45:19,506
How old were you?

739
00:45:20,507 --> 00:45:21,682
Ten, eleven.

740
00:45:23,945 --> 00:45:25,904
That's terrible.

741
00:45:25,947 --> 00:45:28,820
There was so much
blood everywhere.

742
00:45:28,863 --> 00:45:32,998
They thought I was gonna die
'cause of the blood I lost.

743
00:45:33,041 --> 00:45:35,740
What was going
through your mind?

744
00:45:35,783 --> 00:45:40,092
Honestly, I was mad cause
I knew I'd miss school.

745
00:45:41,484 --> 00:45:44,749
Back then I used to
love going to school,

746
00:45:44,792 --> 00:45:47,795
I got all A's and I played ball.

747
00:45:47,839 --> 00:45:48,883
Basketball?

748
00:45:50,276 --> 00:45:53,845
Yeah, we had a game
against PS-88 the next day.

749
00:45:55,672 --> 00:45:58,806
After that, we moved
in with my grandmother,

750
00:45:58,850 --> 00:46:02,418
switched schools, and
I started skipping.

751
00:46:03,637 --> 00:46:04,637
At ten.

752
00:46:05,857 --> 00:46:08,033
Yeah, I was a muthafucka.

753
00:46:11,036 --> 00:46:13,473
You got anymore pizza though?

754
00:46:29,663 --> 00:46:31,447
What's with the cat food?

755
00:46:31,491 --> 00:46:33,536
Awww, my poor cat.

756
00:46:33,580 --> 00:46:34,949
She got out through
the fire escape,

757
00:46:34,973 --> 00:46:36,124
and I'm hoping she comes back.

758
00:46:36,148 --> 00:46:39,542
So I leave the bowl
of just in case.

759
00:46:39,586 --> 00:46:41,806
Old women and their cats.

760
00:46:44,330 --> 00:46:46,723
This is the video
I was talking about.

761
00:46:46,767 --> 00:46:48,290
Wait, hold up, isn't
that the dude from

762
00:46:48,334 --> 00:46:50,118
"Think Like A Man." He
used to be a rapper?

763
00:46:50,162 --> 00:46:53,295
I think he just that one hit.

764
00:46:53,339 --> 00:46:57,082
♪ Oh, it doesn't seem that
I'll be going nowhere ♪

765
00:46:57,125 --> 00:46:59,867
♪ I'm just a victim
of the ghetto, oooh, ♪

766
00:46:59,911 --> 00:47:02,174
♪ It doesn't seem that
I'll be getting too far ♪

767
00:47:02,217 --> 00:47:05,264
♪ Too far too far

768
00:47:05,307 --> 00:47:06,743
I love this song.

769
00:47:06,787 --> 00:47:08,417
What you know about
the ghetto, college girl?

770
00:47:08,441 --> 00:47:09,897
You do know that
people from the ghetto

771
00:47:09,921 --> 00:47:11,923
can go to college, right?

772
00:47:13,620 --> 00:47:14,882
Victim of the ghetto.

773
00:47:14,926 --> 00:47:17,363
So many black
people are victims.

774
00:47:17,406 --> 00:47:18,494
It's a shame.

775
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,282
I refuse to be a victim.

776
00:47:24,936 --> 00:47:25,893
Are you okay?

777
00:47:25,937 --> 00:47:28,156
Yeah, I'm okay.

778
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:29,699
I just get so upset
every time I think about

779
00:47:29,723 --> 00:47:31,551
what's happening to our people.

780
00:47:31,594 --> 00:47:34,032
All this police brutality.

781
00:47:34,075 --> 00:47:37,905
Every other race seem to work
past their history, not us.

782
00:47:37,949 --> 00:47:41,256
You know there's
more to it than that.

783
00:47:43,737 --> 00:47:45,739
Tell me something
personal about you?

784
00:47:45,782 --> 00:47:48,046
Come on man, I don't
like answering questions.

785
00:47:48,089 --> 00:47:51,919
Come on, I answer
all of your questions.

786
00:47:51,963 --> 00:47:53,486
Is Kaseem your real name?

787
00:47:53,529 --> 00:47:55,314
I heard Tunde call
you something else.

788
00:47:55,357 --> 00:47:57,446
Yes. That was just a nickname.

789
00:47:57,490 --> 00:47:59,318
What year did you
graduate high school?

790
00:47:59,361 --> 00:48:00,275
Or did you?

791
00:48:00,319 --> 00:48:01,624
I got a GED.

792
00:48:01,668 --> 00:48:03,017
And where were you?

793
00:48:03,061 --> 00:48:04,845
What'cha mean?

794
00:48:04,889 --> 00:48:09,371
When I first met you,
Tunde said you're back.

795
00:48:09,415 --> 00:48:12,070
Wow, you don't
forget nothing do you?

796
00:48:12,113 --> 00:48:14,899
I was out in New Jersey
trying to stay out of trouble.

797
00:48:14,942 --> 00:48:17,075
You been in trouble a
lot? You been to prison?

798
00:48:17,118 --> 00:48:18,206
No.

799
00:48:18,250 --> 00:48:19,033
Any children?

800
00:48:19,077 --> 00:48:19,904
Nope.

801
00:48:19,947 --> 00:48:21,122
Not one?

802
00:48:21,166 --> 00:48:22,602
I just said no.
What about you?

803
00:48:22,645 --> 00:48:26,301
You get in trouble a
lot? You have any kids?

804
00:48:32,003 --> 00:48:33,221
You wanna pass by the cafe?

805
00:48:33,265 --> 00:48:35,049
No, the little fella
is coming this way now,

806
00:48:35,093 --> 00:48:36,548
I don't wanna run into
him on the street.

807
00:48:36,572 --> 00:48:37,922
Why?

808
00:48:37,965 --> 00:48:39,053
How would that look?

809
00:48:39,097 --> 00:48:41,273
Like two adults talking.

810
00:48:42,491 --> 00:48:44,493
If he kissed me,
I'd be mortified.

811
00:48:44,537 --> 00:48:48,628
It's been months - no one
has seen you two together yet?

812
00:48:48,671 --> 00:48:50,456
We don't leave the apartment.

813
00:48:50,499 --> 00:48:53,067
What kind of
relationship is that?

814
00:48:53,111 --> 00:48:54,808
It's not, he's 22,

815
00:48:56,418 --> 00:49:00,161
I can't even bring myself
to call him daddy in bed.

816
00:49:00,205 --> 00:49:02,337
Then why are you with him?

817
00:49:02,381 --> 00:49:06,254
He's full of ideas and
passionate about his future,

818
00:49:06,298 --> 00:49:08,039
I like that.

819
00:49:08,082 --> 00:49:09,301
And the sex is good?

820
00:49:09,344 --> 00:49:11,346
We've come a long way.

821
00:49:13,914 --> 00:49:16,003
And really sometimes
he can be distant,

822
00:49:16,047 --> 00:49:17,004
almost cold sometimes.

823
00:49:17,048 --> 00:49:19,093
That's a good thing?

824
00:49:19,137 --> 00:49:21,400
And all the young girls
on his Facebook page.

825
00:49:21,443 --> 00:49:23,010
Facebook?

826
00:49:23,054 --> 00:49:25,795
First, never be Instagram or
Facebook friends with a lover,

827
00:49:25,839 --> 00:49:28,233
at any age, it'll
drive you insane,

828
00:49:28,276 --> 00:49:30,365
and, second, is that
why you're dressed

829
00:49:30,409 --> 00:49:32,759
like somebody out of
"Love and Hip Hop?"

830
00:49:32,802 --> 00:49:34,282
What's wrong with my outfit?

831
00:49:34,326 --> 00:49:37,111
It is a little
young don't you think?

832
00:49:37,155 --> 00:49:42,029
You're always talking about
my clothes, I jazzed it up.

833
00:49:42,073 --> 00:49:44,423
Hold up, I wanna run in here
and grab something for dinner.

834
00:49:44,466 --> 00:49:47,817
Damn, look at
shorty. She got an ass.

835
00:49:48,993 --> 00:49:51,256
Man, I'm telling you
she's a grown woman.

836
00:49:51,299 --> 00:49:55,347
But is she fine, you gotta
admit that, she is fine.

837
00:49:55,390 --> 00:49:57,479
You know what I am saying

838
00:49:59,873 --> 00:50:02,223
Hey, what's your name?

839
00:50:02,267 --> 00:50:03,398
Maya.

840
00:50:03,442 --> 00:50:04,443
You in college?

841
00:50:04,486 --> 00:50:06,053
I'm 39.

842
00:50:06,097 --> 00:50:07,228
Really?

843
00:50:07,272 --> 00:50:09,274
Damn son, she mad old.

844
00:50:10,623 --> 00:50:13,321
I'm too old for you,
but I'm not mad old.

845
00:50:13,365 --> 00:50:14,975
Sorry, ma'am.

846
00:50:20,198 --> 00:50:23,549
Shut up. You ain't that
much younger than me.

847
00:50:23,592 --> 00:50:25,768
They said nothing to me.

848
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:49,183
Hey.

849
00:50:49,227 --> 00:50:50,576
What took you so long?

850
00:50:50,619 --> 00:50:52,317
I had to get meat for dinner.

851
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:53,883
I have been out
here for like an hour,

852
00:50:53,927 --> 00:50:55,450
mosquitoes biting
me up and shit.

853
00:50:55,494 --> 00:50:59,889
Well let me get up
here and cook this food.

854
00:50:59,933 --> 00:51:01,369
But that's not the point though,

855
00:51:01,413 --> 00:51:03,893
mosquitoes are messing me
outside, it's inconsiderate.

856
00:51:03,937 --> 00:51:06,113
Matter of fact, what
are you wearing?

857
00:51:06,157 --> 00:51:08,376
You're too old
for that shit man.

858
00:51:08,420 --> 00:51:12,946
What's your problem? And why
don't you answer the phone?

859
00:51:12,989 --> 00:51:14,730
Some girl blowing my phone up.

860
00:51:14,774 --> 00:51:16,254
Who is she?

861
00:51:16,297 --> 00:51:19,648
I don't know, some chick
that I don't fuck with no more.

862
00:51:19,692 --> 00:51:24,218
You don't know? Or some chick
you don't fuck with no more?

863
00:51:24,262 --> 00:51:27,134
Yeah, girls your
age are like that.

864
00:51:30,616 --> 00:51:32,966
Hold up, what that mean?

865
00:51:33,009 --> 00:51:36,317
You're young, they're young,
you play games like that

866
00:51:36,361 --> 00:51:37,275
at that age.

867
00:51:37,318 --> 00:51:38,841
You and this age thing.

868
00:51:38,885 --> 00:51:40,950
I don't see nobody your age
trying to get up in here.

869
00:51:40,974 --> 00:51:43,933
Let me tell you something,

870
00:51:43,977 --> 00:51:46,675
you're more than
welcome to leave,

871
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:48,262
because I was just fine
before your young ass

872
00:51:48,286 --> 00:51:49,504
came up in here.

873
00:51:49,548 --> 00:51:51,506
Cool. I'm out. Peace.

874
00:52:02,343 --> 00:52:05,738
So you just gonna let
me leave like that?

875
00:52:08,088 --> 00:52:13,006
I don't play games. You
didn't know? I'm mad old.

876
00:52:13,049 --> 00:52:17,924
Hey yo, I got a
lot on my mind right now.

877
00:52:19,317 --> 00:52:21,623
My hustle ain't really going
the way I want it to go.

878
00:52:21,667 --> 00:52:23,277
But I really don't wanna leave.

879
00:52:23,321 --> 00:52:26,715
Then you need to
work on your attitude.

880
00:52:29,718 --> 00:52:32,460
I'm sorry. You
forgive me baby?

881
00:52:35,376 --> 00:52:36,376
Whatever.

882
00:52:38,510 --> 00:52:39,510
Cool.

883
00:53:00,009 --> 00:53:02,011
Hey, Grandma, what's up?

884
00:53:03,578 --> 00:53:06,059
Uncle Jimmy said that?

885
00:53:06,102 --> 00:53:07,732
Forget him. Look I
don't never have to come

886
00:53:07,756 --> 00:53:09,149
back again. Period.

887
00:53:09,497 --> 00:53:13,806
End of story. Peace.

888
00:53:15,286 --> 00:53:16,417
Is everything all right?

889
00:53:16,461 --> 00:53:17,723
I'm good man com'on,

890
00:53:17,766 --> 00:53:20,508
you know I don't like
that touchy feely shit.

891
00:53:20,552 --> 00:53:22,554
Who was that on the
phone? Your grandmother?

892
00:53:22,597 --> 00:53:23,772
Yeah.

893
00:53:23,816 --> 00:53:25,096
I thought you said she was dead.

894
00:53:25,121 --> 00:53:26,316
No, that was my
other grandmother.

895
00:53:26,340 --> 00:53:27,123
I don't wanna talk
about that. Watch out.

896
00:53:27,167 --> 00:53:28,167
Okay.

897
00:53:30,997 --> 00:53:32,477
You talking to me?

898
00:53:33,869 --> 00:53:35,871
Hello, what did you say?

899
00:53:39,788 --> 00:53:43,270
I said I gotta stay focused...
you gotta stay focused.

900
00:53:43,314 --> 00:53:44,706
And this is you focused?

901
00:53:44,750 --> 00:53:46,550
You can't get defensive
with everything I say.

902
00:53:46,578 --> 00:53:47,796
Just let that sink in.

903
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:49,296
That's why you're holed
up in this brownstone

904
00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:51,626
instead of balling
out of control.

905
00:53:51,670 --> 00:53:53,019
Everything isn't about money.

906
00:53:53,062 --> 00:53:56,022
That's exactly what a
poor person would say.

907
00:53:56,065 --> 00:53:58,198
That's exactly how the
white man wants you think.

908
00:53:58,242 --> 00:53:59,306
That's why they
keep getting richer,

909
00:53:59,330 --> 00:54:00,853
and we keep getting poorer.

910
00:54:00,896 --> 00:54:02,289
I'm not poor.

911
00:54:02,333 --> 00:54:03,856
All right, you've
got a lil money,

912
00:54:03,899 --> 00:54:07,033
but it's not Mark
Zuckerberg money.

913
00:54:07,076 --> 00:54:09,818
You know your rhetoric
is skewed and capricious.

914
00:54:09,862 --> 00:54:11,211
What is capricious?

915
00:54:11,255 --> 00:54:12,754
And you say that
you're for your people,

916
00:54:12,778 --> 00:54:15,389
but really everything
you say is a put down.

917
00:54:15,433 --> 00:54:18,000
It sounds more like
self-hatred than self-esteem.

918
00:54:18,044 --> 00:54:19,804
Look, you don't know what
you're talking about all right.

919
00:54:19,828 --> 00:54:22,527
I love me. I believe
in me and my abilities.

920
00:54:22,570 --> 00:54:24,311
I don't need you
to believe in me,

921
00:54:24,355 --> 00:54:25,486
but if you're ride or die...

922
00:54:25,530 --> 00:54:26,792
Oh here we go.

923
00:54:26,835 --> 00:54:30,186
What about you and your
lack of follow-through?

924
00:54:30,230 --> 00:54:32,232
School, your business plan...

925
00:54:33,668 --> 00:54:37,063
Fuck school. Mark Zuckerberg
didn't go to school.

926
00:54:37,106 --> 00:54:39,848
Mark Zuckerberg
was a Harvard dropout

927
00:54:39,892 --> 00:54:41,981
whose million dollar business
was about to take off.

928
00:54:42,024 --> 00:54:43,548
Not a high school drop out.

929
00:54:43,591 --> 00:54:45,854
So you're saying that Mark
Zuckerberg is better than me?

930
00:54:45,898 --> 00:54:50,076
You saying that I'm worthless
because I got a GED?

931
00:54:50,119 --> 00:54:54,341
You think Mark Zuckerberg
is better than me?

932
00:54:54,385 --> 00:54:55,908
Where are you going?

933
00:54:55,951 --> 00:54:58,389
I'm going to the mosque,
everything is stressing me out

934
00:54:58,432 --> 00:55:01,653
my family, bitches,
and your bullshit.

935
00:55:03,045 --> 00:55:04,308
I need to pray.

936
00:55:16,058 --> 00:55:20,976
Shit, not in a million years
did I expect I was pregnant.

937
00:55:22,456 --> 00:55:25,546
Honestly, I thought I was
going through the change early,

938
00:55:25,590 --> 00:55:27,113
like early, early.

939
00:55:28,897 --> 00:55:32,205
At least you're in a
good position financially.

940
00:55:32,248 --> 00:55:34,773
It takes more than
finances to be a mother,

941
00:55:34,816 --> 00:55:37,515
and I'm sure I don't
want to be one.

942
00:55:37,558 --> 00:55:39,691
Then why are you
taking this so hard?

943
00:55:39,734 --> 00:55:41,693
'Cause who wants to
be in this position?

944
00:55:41,736 --> 00:55:43,303
I'm not a teenager.

945
00:55:44,565 --> 00:55:46,654
I can't believe this happened.

946
00:55:46,698 --> 00:55:48,482
Maybe it's a blessing.

947
00:55:48,526 --> 00:55:49,527
Seriously?

948
00:55:50,745 --> 00:55:52,573
OK, maybe it's not.

949
00:55:54,270 --> 00:55:57,404
I like my life
just the way it is.

950
00:55:57,448 --> 00:55:58,448
What?

951
00:55:59,232 --> 00:56:01,756
Don't you ever feel lonely?

952
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:03,758
I'm used to being alone.

953
00:56:03,802 --> 00:56:05,978
The result of being
an only child.

954
00:56:06,021 --> 00:56:09,285
Which I swore I'd
never do to a kid.

955
00:56:09,329 --> 00:56:14,160
Besides, is loneliness
reason enough to have a baby?

956
00:56:14,203 --> 00:56:18,947
I like my freedom. I like
traveling. I like being able to

957
00:56:22,734 --> 00:56:25,301
pick up and go
whenever I choose want.

958
00:56:25,345 --> 00:56:26,888
And I shouldn't have
to apologize for that.

959
00:56:26,912 --> 00:56:27,912
Okay, I feel you.

960
00:56:29,958 --> 00:56:33,440
But don't you think
its kinda of selfish

961
00:56:35,094 --> 00:56:39,228
women our age choosing
career over family?

962
00:56:39,272 --> 00:56:41,579
And? Isn't that our right.

963
00:56:42,754 --> 00:56:44,582
Isn't that what
feminism is about -

964
00:56:44,625 --> 00:56:46,410
our right to choose?

965
00:56:46,453 --> 00:56:50,849
What percentage of men
our age are childless?

966
00:56:50,892 --> 00:56:55,897
You don't know right? Cause
no one ever talks about that.

967
00:56:59,335 --> 00:57:03,427
This might be your last
chance to have a baby.

968
00:57:05,037 --> 00:57:06,865
I am okay with that.

969
00:57:21,619 --> 00:57:22,968
Ice cold water

970
00:57:23,925 --> 00:57:25,100
Ice cold water

971
00:57:27,363 --> 00:57:31,759
how you doing miss, would
you like ice cold water? No?

972
00:57:31,803 --> 00:57:34,109
I got the small ones
too for the baby.

973
00:57:34,153 --> 00:57:34,936
How much?

974
00:57:34,980 --> 00:57:36,677
It's just a dollar.

975
00:57:41,769 --> 00:57:43,031
Ice cold water.

976
00:58:00,048 --> 00:58:01,048
Hello

977
00:58:02,877 --> 00:58:04,836
Aye, yeah, hey, what's up?

978
00:58:04,879 --> 00:58:05,880
What's up?

979
00:58:06,881 --> 00:58:08,492
What's wrong?

980
00:58:08,535 --> 00:58:09,928
Nothing.

981
00:58:09,971 --> 00:58:11,843
Why you so quiet?

982
00:58:11,886 --> 00:58:16,064
What, I am supposed to be
excited cause you called.

983
00:58:16,108 --> 00:58:18,371
Come on, man. That
was three weeks ago.

984
00:58:18,414 --> 00:58:21,069
I needed time to clear my head.

985
00:58:22,244 --> 00:58:23,376
What're you up to?

986
00:58:23,419 --> 00:58:24,508
Making my dinner.

987
00:58:24,551 --> 00:58:26,640
Can I come by later?

988
00:58:26,684 --> 00:58:27,902
For what?

989
00:58:27,946 --> 00:58:29,774
Just to check you out.

990
00:58:29,817 --> 00:58:31,602
Not a good idea.

991
00:58:31,645 --> 00:58:36,650
Come on, man, I miss you. I
know I was being capricious,

992
00:58:37,564 --> 00:58:38,434
I've been working on myself.

993
00:58:38,478 --> 00:58:41,307
I'm in a better place right now.

994
00:58:41,350 --> 00:58:46,355
I just need a chance to explain.
Please just hear me out.

995
00:58:54,538 --> 00:58:57,453
So check it Maya Angelou is
your favorite author, right?

996
00:58:57,497 --> 00:58:58,629
Yeah.

997
00:58:58,672 --> 00:59:00,152
Why?

998
00:59:00,195 --> 00:59:02,154
What do you mean why?

999
00:59:02,197 --> 00:59:04,417
What is about her
writing over anybody else?

1000
00:59:04,460 --> 00:59:08,987
It's truthful, poetic. And
it makes me feel... happy,

1001
00:59:14,558 --> 00:59:15,558
melancholy.

1002
00:59:17,735 --> 00:59:21,739
For me, Manchild
in the Promised Land.

1003
00:59:21,782 --> 00:59:25,264
In the book the writer
goes to visit his boy

1004
00:59:25,307 --> 00:59:29,268
and his boys sisters are
there arguing over an egg.

1005
00:59:29,311 --> 00:59:32,097
It was the only food
they had to eat.

1006
00:59:32,140 --> 00:59:35,970
They started fighting and shit
and the egg drops and breaks

1007
00:59:36,014 --> 00:59:38,277
and the sisters started crying.

1008
00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:41,715
And how fucked up and
hopeless they felt,

1009
00:59:46,981 --> 00:59:47,981
I get it.

1010
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:42,036
I'm really glad I took
the time to clear my mind

1011
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:43,429
and get focused.

1012
01:00:44,735 --> 01:00:45,910
That's good.

1013
01:00:47,389 --> 01:00:49,565
I wasn't focusing
on my goals before.

1014
01:00:49,609 --> 01:00:52,220
I was letting petty
bullshit distract me.

1015
01:00:52,264 --> 01:00:55,093
From now on everything I
do, every person I deal with

1016
01:00:55,136 --> 01:00:57,312
it will be goal oriented.

1017
01:00:57,356 --> 01:00:59,097
And what's the goal?

1018
01:00:59,140 --> 01:01:00,140
Success.

1019
01:01:01,752 --> 01:01:03,231
Success at what?

1020
01:01:04,580 --> 01:01:06,887
You know now I can
actually answer that question

1021
01:01:06,931 --> 01:01:08,430
I'm a start like a artist
management company.

1022
01:01:08,454 --> 01:01:11,370
But I gotta learn to
manage myself first.

1023
01:01:12,893 --> 01:01:13,893
Good.

1024
01:01:16,157 --> 01:01:19,378
That's why I decided
to be celibate.

1025
01:01:19,421 --> 01:01:20,422
Excuse me.

1026
01:01:22,163 --> 01:01:23,512
We just had sex.

1027
01:01:25,601 --> 01:01:28,996
I know, but I wanted
this to be the last time.

1028
01:01:29,040 --> 01:01:30,606
You're very special,

1029
01:01:30,650 --> 01:01:32,913
and Allah brought us
together for a reason,

1030
01:01:32,957 --> 01:01:35,829
and I want to build
something with you.

1031
01:01:35,873 --> 01:01:39,572
Look, you're 22 and
I'm flattered you think

1032
01:01:39,615 --> 01:01:40,834
that you love me.

1033
01:01:40,878 --> 01:01:44,055
Wait, hold up, I never
said that I loved you,

1034
01:01:44,098 --> 01:01:46,013
and please quit
bringing up my age.

1035
01:01:46,057 --> 01:01:50,148
That blinds you from
what I have to offer you.

1036
01:01:50,191 --> 01:01:53,194
Okay, what did
you mean by build?

1037
01:01:55,283 --> 01:01:59,331
I like you, and I like
spending time with you.

1038
01:01:59,374 --> 01:02:01,681
I think we can help
each other out.

1039
01:02:01,725 --> 01:02:03,770
Your experience can
help me get started,

1040
01:02:03,814 --> 01:02:05,598
my energy can help you
get out of your slump.

1041
01:02:05,641 --> 01:02:06,860
Slump?

1042
01:02:06,904 --> 01:02:09,428
Don't take offense
to what I am saying,

1043
01:02:09,471 --> 01:02:11,256
I am just telling it like it is

1044
01:02:11,299 --> 01:02:13,301
because we as black
people need to...

1045
01:02:13,345 --> 01:02:15,042
Not another speech.

1046
01:02:18,306 --> 01:02:20,613
Just hear me out.

1047
01:02:20,656 --> 01:02:22,049
When I say build something,

1048
01:02:22,093 --> 01:02:25,270
it doesn't necessarily
mean romance.

1049
01:02:25,313 --> 01:02:27,751
I think sex complicates things,

1050
01:02:27,794 --> 01:02:29,187
right now, I need to focus

1051
01:02:29,230 --> 01:02:33,669
on conquer the world
without any distractions.

1052
01:02:33,713 --> 01:02:35,125
I think we can really
work with each other,

1053
01:02:35,149 --> 01:02:36,411
help each other out

1054
01:02:36,455 --> 01:02:39,806
I build you up, you build me up,

1055
01:02:39,850 --> 01:02:42,374
really get to know each other.

1056
01:02:43,723 --> 01:02:45,290
Sure.

1057
01:02:45,333 --> 01:02:48,902
If you want to be celibate,
I can respect that.

1058
01:02:48,946 --> 01:02:53,472
What about the rest? I
said more than just celibate.

1059
01:02:54,865 --> 01:02:57,519
I appreciate that
you're on this journey,

1060
01:02:57,563 --> 01:03:00,914
you're at that age,
and, I'm sorry,

1061
01:03:00,958 --> 01:03:05,310
but it's true, you're on a
self-realization journey,

1062
01:03:08,313 --> 01:03:12,708
I'm not on that journey
been there done that.

1063
01:03:12,752 --> 01:03:17,626
So, this is where you wanna
be? And this is all you want?

1064
01:03:18,497 --> 01:03:20,238
No, but I'm working on it.

1065
01:03:21,500 --> 01:03:24,329
Okay so, let's
work on it together.

1066
01:03:24,372 --> 01:03:26,220
I know that I'm young, and
I can't teach you anything,

1067
01:03:26,244 --> 01:03:28,246
but let's try, old lady.

1068
01:03:58,711 --> 01:04:00,626
But Dad. I won
the competition.

1069
01:04:00,669 --> 01:04:02,323
Yeah, third place.

1070
01:04:03,194 --> 01:04:04,456
First place, dummy.

1071
01:04:04,499 --> 01:04:06,066
They announce the
winners third to first

1072
01:04:06,110 --> 01:04:10,244
Yes, you won this time, but
just barely made the deadline,

1073
01:04:10,288 --> 01:04:12,594
you're such a procrastinator...

1074
01:04:12,638 --> 01:04:14,422
But isn't the fact
that I won enough?

1075
01:04:14,466 --> 01:04:17,251
No. I'm not raising lazy kids

1076
01:04:17,295 --> 01:04:20,211
who are satisfied
with being average.

1077
01:04:20,254 --> 01:04:22,561
You have to go after what
you want in this life,

1078
01:04:22,604 --> 01:04:25,172
and then you can have anything.

1079
01:04:25,216 --> 01:04:27,131
Dad, I'm not lazy.

1080
01:04:27,174 --> 01:04:28,480
Yes, you are.

1081
01:04:30,308 --> 01:04:34,138
Procrastination is just
another way of saying lazy,

1082
01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:37,402
it's gonna stifle your dreams.

1083
01:04:37,445 --> 01:04:39,839
But I'm gonna make you a
success in spite of yourself.

1084
01:04:39,883 --> 01:04:40,971
Shut up, dummy.

1085
01:04:41,014 --> 01:04:42,276
You shut up, you shut up. No..

1086
01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:45,932
Hey, hey, hey, Maya!
You're gonna sit here

1087
01:04:45,976 --> 01:04:48,587
and argue right in front of me?

1088
01:04:49,980 --> 01:04:53,984
She's a girl, you're a man.
I expect more from you.

1089
01:05:06,997 --> 01:05:08,955
I thought you were gonna
bring me the computer?

1090
01:05:08,999 --> 01:05:11,175
You've were on the
phone for like two hours.

1091
01:05:11,218 --> 01:05:13,003
Yeah, that's 'cause
you were on the computer,

1092
01:05:13,046 --> 01:05:14,439
That's why I need my own.

1093
01:05:14,482 --> 01:05:15,570
Yeah you do.

1094
01:05:17,094 --> 01:05:19,159
I've got an old one back
there you can use if you want.

1095
01:05:19,183 --> 01:05:21,141
Naw, man that's too slow.

1096
01:05:22,273 --> 01:05:24,536
Would you be willing
to invest in me

1097
01:05:24,579 --> 01:05:27,365
in buying my own laptop?

1098
01:05:27,408 --> 01:05:28,583
Nope.

1099
01:05:28,627 --> 01:05:29,933
That's cold.

1100
01:05:29,976 --> 01:05:30,976
Uh, no.

1101
01:05:32,413 --> 01:05:33,849
Alright, hear me out.

1102
01:05:33,893 --> 01:05:35,827
Look I talked to J.T., he
said that he got one on sale,

1103
01:05:35,851 --> 01:05:38,898
and it's cheap,
you can afford it.

1104
01:05:38,942 --> 01:05:42,206
I'm not your mother
or your benefactor.

1105
01:05:42,249 --> 01:05:43,729
I know, that
you're not my mother.

1106
01:05:43,772 --> 01:05:48,168
I got a mother, I don't
need another one. Alright?

1107
01:05:48,212 --> 01:05:52,303
So now you want me to
start giving you money.

1108
01:05:52,346 --> 01:05:54,783
Is that what you meant
by build something?

1109
01:05:54,827 --> 01:05:56,568
You know, I'm not
some lonely old cougar

1110
01:05:56,611 --> 01:05:58,874
looking for a young
stud to take care of -

1111
01:05:58,918 --> 01:06:00,789
a celibate one at that.

1112
01:06:00,833 --> 01:06:04,271
No, I didn't say
that. You're funny.

1113
01:06:04,315 --> 01:06:06,752
What I'm saying is that, if
you really care about me,

1114
01:06:06,795 --> 01:06:10,408
then you should do that
for me, help me out.

1115
01:06:10,451 --> 01:06:12,845
So are you saying what
I do now isn't help?

1116
01:06:12,888 --> 01:06:15,630
No, I am not saying that,
I appreciate what you do,

1117
01:06:15,674 --> 01:06:16,980
I really do.

1118
01:06:17,023 --> 01:06:19,983
I'm just asking
for one more favor.

1119
01:06:21,593 --> 01:06:23,595
You have to sign
a promissory note.

1120
01:06:23,638 --> 01:06:25,118
Thank you, baby.

1121
01:06:35,389 --> 01:06:36,651
Hold up, hold up, not so fast.

1122
01:06:39,611 --> 01:06:41,439
I'm still celibate.

1123
01:06:45,443 --> 01:06:46,922
What's that?

1124
01:06:46,966 --> 01:06:49,186
It's just something
I am looking at.

1125
01:06:49,229 --> 01:06:50,752
Tell me about it.

1126
01:06:50,796 --> 01:06:52,798
There's nothing to tell.

1127
01:06:52,841 --> 01:06:55,540
You realize you always do that.

1128
01:06:56,976 --> 01:06:58,954
Every time I ask you about
something or offer to help you

1129
01:06:58,978 --> 01:07:01,937
shut me down, like some young
kid who has nothing to offer.

1130
01:07:03,113 --> 01:07:06,072
I'm genius with it.
Like I got mad skills.

1131
01:07:12,165 --> 01:07:14,124
It's this website
that I'm obsessed with

1132
01:07:14,167 --> 01:07:15,951
called the Nu project.

1133
01:07:17,953 --> 01:07:20,953
Photos of just regular women. It tells
so much about these women's struggles

1134
01:07:24,612 --> 01:07:29,617
and triumphs, even failures.

1135
01:07:31,402 --> 01:07:33,032
I'm sure I'm making
way too much out of it,

1136
01:07:33,056 --> 01:07:34,753
but I'm so intrigued.

1137
01:07:37,364 --> 01:07:39,714
Oh, OK. Sounds intriguing.

1138
01:07:50,682 --> 01:07:51,944
I need to pray.

1139
01:07:59,734 --> 01:08:01,127
What are you doing?

1140
01:08:01,171 --> 01:08:03,260
My dick is hard, that's
means that's the devil

1141
01:08:03,303 --> 01:08:06,741
trying to enter my
body, I gotta pray.

1142
01:08:27,545 --> 01:08:28,981
Thanks so much.

1143
01:08:38,556 --> 01:08:40,862
You got here so fast.

1144
01:08:40,906 --> 01:08:43,256
Yeah, my friend wasn't
home, so I took an uber.

1145
01:08:43,300 --> 01:08:45,128
Aww. It's so good to see you.

1146
01:08:45,171 --> 01:08:46,955
You, too, Auntie.

1147
01:08:46,999 --> 01:08:49,915
Look at you.
You're all grown up.

1148
01:08:51,612 --> 01:08:56,095
Hey Auntie, can we go
inside? I really have to pee.

1149
01:09:09,804 --> 01:09:13,547
You want something to eat?
I got lots of leftovers.

1150
01:09:13,591 --> 01:09:17,160
No thanks Auntie, I'm
good, I already ate.

1151
01:09:19,205 --> 01:09:20,424
What are you looking at?

1152
01:09:20,467 --> 01:09:22,600
I am looking at our family.

1153
01:09:22,643 --> 01:09:23,688
Oh my God,

1154
01:09:24,776 --> 01:09:27,257
That was your
father's 12th birthday.

1155
01:09:27,300 --> 01:09:29,128
There is your grandma.

1156
01:09:29,172 --> 01:09:30,608
Oh my God she is beautiful.

1157
01:09:30,651 --> 01:09:34,438
And your grandfather, and
that's me in the stroller.

1158
01:09:34,481 --> 01:09:36,744
So cute, chubby cheeks.

1159
01:09:36,788 --> 01:09:38,137
Yeah.

1160
01:09:38,181 --> 01:09:39,356
My goodness.

1161
01:09:39,399 --> 01:09:41,619
I'm gonna show you
all these pictures,

1162
01:09:41,662 --> 01:09:45,057
but for now, I wanna know
what's been going on,

1163
01:09:45,100 --> 01:09:48,234
I wanna here everything,
how's school?

1164
01:09:52,282 --> 01:09:53,718
School is okay.

1165
01:09:56,808 --> 01:09:58,288
Just okay?

1166
01:09:58,331 --> 01:10:02,248
Yeah, I had to drop a class
to keep from flunking it.

1167
01:10:02,292 --> 01:10:04,424
Still haven't told my mom yet.

1168
01:10:04,468 --> 01:10:06,252
Why were you flunking?

1169
01:10:06,296 --> 01:10:11,301
I don't know. I feel like,
I just like couldn't focus.

1170
01:10:12,215 --> 01:10:14,434
FOCUS, focus is overrated.

1171
01:10:14,478 --> 01:10:17,132
I had to take the time,

1172
01:10:17,176 --> 01:10:19,961
just got wrapped up in
other artistic classes

1173
01:10:20,005 --> 01:10:21,441
like painting and writing...

1174
01:10:21,485 --> 01:10:23,008
And partying?

1175
01:10:23,051 --> 01:10:25,967
And partying of course,
just a little bit of that,

1176
01:10:26,011 --> 01:10:29,971
but I love the artistic
stuff and I hate math.

1177
01:10:30,015 --> 01:10:33,018
I know it's so cliche, but I do.

1178
01:10:34,411 --> 01:10:38,676
Ah yes, you got your
grandfather's creative gene.

1179
01:10:39,764 --> 01:10:41,461
Yeah, but I actually don't think

1180
01:10:41,505 --> 01:10:42,656
I'm going to major in the arts.

1181
01:10:42,680 --> 01:10:43,855
No?

1182
01:10:43,898 --> 01:10:45,354
Yeah, I don't know,
I think I'm gonna go

1183
01:10:45,378 --> 01:10:48,251
into political science, I
don't really know yet though.

1184
01:10:48,294 --> 01:10:50,035
Like Mama.

1185
01:10:50,078 --> 01:10:53,212
What are you talking about,
Grandma was a bookkeeper.

1186
01:10:53,256 --> 01:10:56,041
Yeah, but when
she was in college,

1187
01:10:56,084 --> 01:10:58,609
she was a political
science major.

1188
01:10:58,652 --> 01:11:02,308
And her mother was an
activist in the 60s.

1189
01:11:02,352 --> 01:11:05,355
She organized
protests and rallies.

1190
01:11:05,398 --> 01:11:08,140
I think she even got
arrested a few times.

1191
01:11:08,183 --> 01:11:10,577
How come I didn't
know any of this?

1192
01:11:10,621 --> 01:11:12,971
I don't know, I guess it's
just one of those things

1193
01:11:13,014 --> 01:11:14,886
we don't talk about.

1194
01:11:14,929 --> 01:11:17,584
I guess, what about you Auntie?

1195
01:11:17,628 --> 01:11:20,718
Me? No I didn't
inherit that gene.

1196
01:11:20,761 --> 01:11:23,242
The closest that I
ever came to politics

1197
01:11:23,286 --> 01:11:27,855
was when I dated a republican.

1198
01:11:31,772 --> 01:11:36,081
What about your social
life? Is there a boyfriend?

1199
01:11:36,124 --> 01:11:41,129
Well, Auntie,
I'm actually a lesbian.

1200
01:11:43,262 --> 01:11:46,787
What, are you sure?
When did that happen?

1201
01:11:49,616 --> 01:11:52,924
I don't know, it
just kind of, happened.

1202
01:11:52,967 --> 01:11:55,448
OK, I feel you. No judgment.

1203
01:11:58,059 --> 01:12:00,105
Thanks, it's good to
have someone in the family

1204
01:12:00,148 --> 01:12:01,411
on my side.

1205
01:12:01,454 --> 01:12:03,369
Your father is not
taking it too good?

1206
01:12:03,413 --> 01:12:06,459
No, it's not him, it's my mom.

1207
01:12:06,503 --> 01:12:08,635
My dad just kind
of brushed it over.

1208
01:12:08,679 --> 01:12:11,769
He's more upset
about the tattoos.

1209
01:12:11,812 --> 01:12:12,900
What tattoos?

1210
01:12:12,944 --> 01:12:14,641
This one, this one.

1211
01:12:17,949 --> 01:12:18,949
Zoe!

1212
01:12:19,690 --> 01:12:21,518
Isn't it cute though?

1213
01:12:21,561 --> 01:12:23,824
These are the years
of finding yourself,

1214
01:12:23,868 --> 01:12:25,609
so don't spend all
your time trying

1215
01:12:25,652 --> 01:12:27,001
to please everybody else, okay?

1216
01:12:27,045 --> 01:12:28,045
Okay.

1217
01:12:29,482 --> 01:12:32,616
So, tell me about this
man friend you have?

1218
01:12:35,488 --> 01:12:36,881
Man friend?

1219
01:12:36,924 --> 01:12:39,623
Yeah, I saw men's
deodorant in the bathroom

1220
01:12:39,666 --> 01:12:42,843
and men's shoes in the bedroom.

1221
01:12:42,887 --> 01:12:46,847
Oh. Well, He's not really,
I guess he is a friend.

1222
01:12:52,897 --> 01:12:54,353
I don't know if I should
be telling you this.

1223
01:12:54,377 --> 01:12:56,248
I'm almost twenty-one,
you can tell me.

1224
01:12:56,291 --> 01:12:58,555
Yeah he's kind of young too.

1225
01:12:58,598 --> 01:13:00,644
Oh, Auntie are you a cougar?

1226
01:13:00,687 --> 01:13:03,864
No, no. I hate
that, uh I hate that.

1227
01:13:06,301 --> 01:13:08,956
We're just friends, I'm
helping him get into college.

1228
01:13:09,000 --> 01:13:10,218
Like a tutor.

1229
01:13:10,262 --> 01:13:12,046
Oh my God Auntie,
is he in high school?!

1230
01:13:12,090 --> 01:13:14,309
No. He's in his twenties.

1231
01:13:17,530 --> 01:13:21,926
Twenties. Nice. So when
I am gonna get to meet him.

1232
01:13:23,362 --> 01:13:25,320
No, definitely not.

1233
01:13:25,364 --> 01:13:26,365
What, why?

1234
01:13:27,801 --> 01:13:29,629
He's, a little uncouth.

1235
01:13:29,673 --> 01:13:33,851
If you weren't a lesbian now,
I would not let you date him.

1236
01:13:33,894 --> 01:13:37,768
Auntie that is so wrong.
Okay so what's his name?

1237
01:13:39,291 --> 01:13:43,861
Kaseem. But I call him
little fella. Not to his face.

1238
01:13:45,515 --> 01:13:50,041
Yeah I know, I'm staying
at my Auntie's right now.

1239
01:13:50,084 --> 01:13:52,565
Yeah, I haven't seen her
in a really long time,

1240
01:13:52,609 --> 01:13:55,046
it's nice to see her.

1241
01:13:55,089 --> 01:13:58,441
Yeah, shut up.

1242
01:14:04,751 --> 01:14:06,623
Zoe, it's ready.

1243
01:14:06,666 --> 01:14:09,495
Okay, I'll be there in a minute.

1244
01:14:09,539 --> 01:14:10,931
Yeah I don't know,

1245
01:14:10,975 --> 01:14:15,240
she has this like um 22-year-old
friend with benefits.

1246
01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:20,985
Yeah, Nah, uh, she's not that
old. She's like almost 40.

1247
01:14:22,552 --> 01:14:26,773
No honestly I ain't
even mad at her. Okay

1248
01:14:29,863 --> 01:14:31,952
Okay, I will talk to you later.

1249
01:14:33,563 --> 01:14:35,303
This smells really good Auntie,

1250
01:14:35,347 --> 01:14:37,044
I thought you couldn't cook.

1251
01:14:37,088 --> 01:14:39,133
Who says I can't cook?

1252
01:14:39,177 --> 01:14:43,311
My dad, my mom and
everyone else in the family.

1253
01:14:44,704 --> 01:14:48,491
Wow okay, well you tell them
I've been practicing. Okay?

1254
01:14:49,666 --> 01:14:51,755
Let me know what you think.

1255
01:14:51,798 --> 01:14:53,321
Auntie this is so good.

1256
01:14:55,019 --> 01:14:58,109
It must be hard in college,
there must be no good food.

1257
01:14:58,152 --> 01:15:00,067
Oh my God, it is awful.

1258
01:15:13,951 --> 01:15:16,606
Are you gonna get that or
do you want me to get it?

1259
01:15:16,649 --> 01:15:17,868
Um. No, I got it.

1260
01:15:27,878 --> 01:15:29,706
Yeah, hey, what's
up? I been calling you.

1261
01:15:29,749 --> 01:15:33,536
I know. My niece came
into town unexpectedly,

1262
01:15:33,579 --> 01:15:35,102
and I spent the day with her.

1263
01:15:35,146 --> 01:15:36,645
Oh, cool your niece,
so let me meet her.

1264
01:15:36,669 --> 01:15:38,192
No, you can't.

1265
01:15:38,236 --> 01:15:39,672
Why not?

1266
01:15:39,716 --> 01:15:43,241
She's just really young
and she wouldn't understand.

1267
01:15:43,284 --> 01:15:48,289
Understand what? I'm not good
enough to meet your family?

1268
01:15:50,074 --> 01:15:54,774
Just watch your language. I
don't curse around my niece.

1269
01:15:54,818 --> 01:15:56,138
Come on man, you
so old fashioned.

1270
01:15:56,167 --> 01:15:59,257
She probably curses
more than you do.

1271
01:16:06,003 --> 01:16:08,396
I really can't with you.

1272
01:16:08,440 --> 01:16:12,879
But listen, swiping
left and swiping right,

1273
01:16:12,923 --> 01:16:14,881
is another way to
minimize black women,

1274
01:16:14,925 --> 01:16:16,709
'cause they never get
chose on those apps.

1275
01:16:16,753 --> 01:16:18,493
I can agree to that.

1276
01:16:18,537 --> 01:16:20,844
The simple fact that she's
on a predominantly white site

1277
01:16:20,887 --> 01:16:23,324
is just another knock
against the black man

1278
01:16:23,368 --> 01:16:25,675
'cause she's now she
must choose a white man.

1279
01:16:25,718 --> 01:16:27,981
See that's a perspective.

1280
01:16:28,025 --> 01:16:29,548
You know I'm right.

1281
01:16:29,592 --> 01:16:32,116
I can't tell if you're
crazy or if you're just

1282
01:16:32,159 --> 01:16:33,726
full of crap

1283
01:16:33,770 --> 01:16:36,729
You can say, shit. Go
ahead, your aunt doesn't mind

1284
01:16:36,773 --> 01:16:37,948
Not okay.

1285
01:16:37,991 --> 01:16:39,645
She probably does
all types of stuff

1286
01:16:39,689 --> 01:16:40,472
when you're not around?

1287
01:16:40,515 --> 01:16:41,647
I know she does.

1288
01:16:41,691 --> 01:16:43,606
Yeah an she knows
me pretty well.

1289
01:16:43,649 --> 01:16:45,085
But you don't
tell her everything.

1290
01:16:45,129 --> 01:16:47,435
Because it's a sign of respect.

1291
01:16:47,479 --> 01:16:49,326
Okay I've got a question
for you, serious question,

1292
01:16:49,350 --> 01:16:50,438
you got a boyfriend, right?

1293
01:16:50,482 --> 01:16:52,049
I'm a lesbian.

1294
01:16:52,092 --> 01:16:53,616
Not another one.

1295
01:16:54,486 --> 01:16:55,922
Another lesbian?

1296
01:16:55,966 --> 01:16:58,577
Another young
woman that is blind.

1297
01:16:58,621 --> 01:17:00,492
You just following a
trend down a dark path.

1298
01:17:00,535 --> 01:17:02,755
I'm telling you, if poverty
doesn't kill our people,

1299
01:17:02,799 --> 01:17:04,627
this homosexual activity will.

1300
01:17:04,670 --> 01:17:08,021
OK, that's enough philosophical
conversation for tonight.

1301
01:17:08,065 --> 01:17:09,806
And I agreed with that.

1302
01:17:09,849 --> 01:17:14,071
I'm going to bed, I have to
leave early in the morning.

1303
01:17:14,114 --> 01:17:16,639
I'm right behind you.

1304
01:17:16,682 --> 01:17:21,252
Kaseem, it was really
interesting getting to meet you.

1305
01:17:22,906 --> 01:17:26,823
You, too, stay up and
finish your education.

1306
01:17:34,221 --> 01:17:36,571
If you gonna stay, you'll
have to sleep on the couch.

1307
01:17:36,615 --> 01:17:38,878
Word, no problem.

1308
01:17:38,922 --> 01:17:42,273
I'd feel more comfortable
if you didn't stay the night.

1309
01:17:42,316 --> 01:17:44,144
Then why did you say
I could take the couch?

1310
01:17:44,188 --> 01:17:46,059
I don't know.

1311
01:17:46,103 --> 01:17:47,994
Well my boy dropped me off,
and there is no more train

1312
01:17:48,018 --> 01:17:49,541
running back my way tonight.

1313
01:17:50,716 --> 01:17:55,112
Okay but you gotta
use the hall bathroom.

1314
01:17:55,155 --> 01:17:56,524
What you think I'ma do
something to your niece

1315
01:17:56,548 --> 01:18:00,291
No, it's just a sign
of respect like I said

1316
01:18:00,334 --> 01:18:02,249
Yeah, okay, whatever.

1317
01:18:06,036 --> 01:18:07,036
Good night.

1318
01:18:14,305 --> 01:18:16,916
I take a blanket too, please?

1319
01:18:48,078 --> 01:18:50,863
Oh my God, you scared me.

1320
01:18:50,907 --> 01:18:55,128
Have a safe trip, okay? And
seriously, stay at school -

1321
01:18:55,172 --> 01:18:57,304
education is important.

1322
01:18:57,348 --> 01:19:00,830
We need more of our brothers
and sisters to graduate.

1323
01:19:00,873 --> 01:19:02,179
Okay, I will.

1324
01:19:35,299 --> 01:19:36,779
Hey, Tunde.

1325
01:19:36,822 --> 01:19:39,869
Hey Maya, it's funny, I
was just talking about you.

1326
01:19:39,912 --> 01:19:41,435
Why?

1327
01:19:41,479 --> 01:19:42,978
Well, I heard about the work
you've doing with Marshall,

1328
01:19:43,002 --> 01:19:46,832
Kaseem. Tutoring him
or something like that?

1329
01:19:46,876 --> 01:19:49,617
He needs that kind of support.

1330
01:19:49,661 --> 01:19:52,969
He's a smart kid, he
just needs some guidance.

1331
01:19:53,012 --> 01:19:55,406
Especially with a
family like his.

1332
01:19:55,449 --> 01:19:59,802
I'm not, we're not, I
don't know his family.

1333
01:19:59,845 --> 01:20:02,456
Not surprised he
didn't mention them.

1334
01:20:02,500 --> 01:20:03,936
His Mom moved out
of state running

1335
01:20:03,980 --> 01:20:07,287
from child protective services.
Why?

1336
01:20:07,331 --> 01:20:11,422
He was breaking up a fight
between her and her boyfriend

1337
01:20:11,465 --> 01:20:12,815
and she cut him.

1338
01:20:13,903 --> 01:20:16,949
She cut him? Intentionally?

1339
01:20:16,993 --> 01:20:21,127
Yes - that's the kind
of worthless woman she is.

1340
01:20:21,171 --> 01:20:23,738
Then he gets bounced around
between his grandmother

1341
01:20:23,782 --> 01:20:26,959
and degenerate uncles
then ends up in a shelter.

1342
01:20:27,003 --> 01:20:28,482
That's horrible.

1343
01:20:28,526 --> 01:20:32,095
Yeah, but you know what he,
he has a really good heart.

1344
01:20:32,138 --> 01:20:35,141
I hooked him up with my
boy, Rashaad, down the block

1345
01:20:35,185 --> 01:20:37,491
at the mosque to
help him get his GED,

1346
01:20:37,535 --> 01:20:41,408
you know that's part of
his parole requirements.

1347
01:20:41,452 --> 01:20:43,846
Four years in prison.

1348
01:20:43,889 --> 01:20:48,459
It must be tough to away as
a kid and come home an adult.

1349
01:20:48,502 --> 01:20:51,418
Especially when you have
no family to speak of.

1350
01:20:51,462 --> 01:20:55,292
I hear now he has
a baby on the way,

1351
01:20:55,335 --> 01:20:57,120
something like that.

1352
01:20:57,163 --> 01:20:59,339
You know what, I think
I left something at home,

1353
01:20:59,383 --> 01:21:01,864
it was good to see you though.

1354
01:21:04,301 --> 01:21:05,301
Yo what's up, bae.

1355
01:21:07,173 --> 01:21:09,175
Where my keys?

1356
01:21:09,219 --> 01:21:10,481
It's on my key ring, why?

1357
01:21:10,524 --> 01:21:11,699
I'm taking them.

1358
01:21:11,743 --> 01:21:13,266
How, will I get in later?

1359
01:21:13,310 --> 01:21:14,310
You won't.

1360
01:21:16,617 --> 01:21:21,100
What's the problem? You
just gave those to me,

1361
01:21:21,144 --> 01:21:23,537
come on man, you too
emotional for me.

1362
01:21:23,581 --> 01:21:25,626
Is that what they
taught you in prison?

1363
01:21:25,670 --> 01:21:26,889
What?

1364
01:21:26,932 --> 01:21:29,021
Yeah, I know you spent
four years in prison.

1365
01:21:29,065 --> 01:21:30,457
Who told you that?

1366
01:21:30,501 --> 01:21:34,505
Does it matter, you
saying you didn't? Marshall.

1367
01:21:35,898 --> 01:21:37,310
I told you I changed
my name to Kaseem.

1368
01:21:37,334 --> 01:21:40,728
No, you told me it
was your birth name.

1369
01:21:40,772 --> 01:21:43,035
Why didn't you tell
me you went to prison?

1370
01:21:43,079 --> 01:21:44,907
I asked you and you lied.

1371
01:21:44,950 --> 01:21:46,691
Because I knew this
is how you would react.

1372
01:21:46,734 --> 01:21:48,321
You hear a brother was
incarcerated for drugs...

1373
01:21:48,345 --> 01:21:50,477
No, not drugs I checked.

1374
01:21:50,521 --> 01:21:52,392
Hold up, so you
spying on me now?

1375
01:21:52,436 --> 01:21:53,935
See that's the problem,
black women don't know how

1376
01:21:53,959 --> 01:21:56,962
to support a black man when
it's absolutely necessary.

1377
01:21:57,006 --> 01:21:59,095
Oh, don't give me
that cliche bullshit,

1378
01:21:59,138 --> 01:22:00,748
'Cause this it the
same black woman

1379
01:22:00,792 --> 01:22:03,403
who bought you a computer,
who feeds your ass

1380
01:22:03,447 --> 01:22:04,927
and lets you stay in her house.

1381
01:22:04,970 --> 01:22:07,233
But you're kicking me out now.

1382
01:22:07,277 --> 01:22:09,844
Because you're a
liar, and I realize

1383
01:22:09,888 --> 01:22:11,977
I don't know anything about you.

1384
01:22:12,021 --> 01:22:14,588
You don't wanna know,
you're just like my family,

1385
01:22:14,632 --> 01:22:16,112
you kicking a me when I'm down.

1386
01:22:16,155 --> 01:22:17,983
So you can fuck me, but
you can't support me

1387
01:22:18,027 --> 01:22:20,855
Fuck you, we haven't
fucked in forever

1388
01:22:20,899 --> 01:22:23,902
because you want to be "celibate"
and wanna build something.

1389
01:22:23,946 --> 01:22:25,773
And I was the fool
who agreed to it.

1390
01:22:25,817 --> 01:22:27,384
What are those quotes for?

1391
01:22:27,427 --> 01:22:30,387
Forget this, I'm not arguing
with you, you have got to go.

1392
01:22:30,430 --> 01:22:33,129
You know, I thought you were
good for me, energizing.

1393
01:22:33,172 --> 01:22:36,654
But now I realize, it was
just a ball of confusion

1394
01:22:36,697 --> 01:22:39,048
and frustration and lies.

1395
01:22:39,091 --> 01:22:41,702
No, it's you, you're a loser,

1396
01:22:43,269 --> 01:22:44,943
all you wanna do is be
shacked up in this brownstone

1397
01:22:44,967 --> 01:22:49,972
living off your savings, you
keep living in the past man.

1398
01:22:50,842 --> 01:22:53,105
You don't know shit about me.

1399
01:22:53,149 --> 01:22:55,542
Look I didn't expect this
to work out 'cause I'm Muslim

1400
01:22:55,586 --> 01:22:57,327
so we have no future,

1401
01:22:57,370 --> 01:23:01,070
but also, I was afraid
that you'd hold me back.

1402
01:23:01,113 --> 01:23:03,115
I know I lied about
the jail thing...

1403
01:23:03,159 --> 01:23:07,250
And your name, and school
and the GED and the baby...

1404
01:23:07,293 --> 01:23:08,555
I told you I don't have a baby.

1405
01:23:08,599 --> 01:23:09,861
I don't believe you.

1406
01:23:09,904 --> 01:23:11,099
I don't have a job,
I don't have money,

1407
01:23:11,123 --> 01:23:12,622
and sometimes not
even a place to stay.

1408
01:23:12,646 --> 01:23:14,320
But you know what, I'm
out here everyday pushing

1409
01:23:14,344 --> 01:23:16,650
and planning, towards
my dreams and my goals.

1410
01:23:16,694 --> 01:23:20,393
I don't live in my past and my
time in prison don't matter.

1411
01:23:20,437 --> 01:23:22,047
I don't want to be
39 and look back

1412
01:23:22,091 --> 01:23:24,397
and all I have is memories.

1413
01:23:26,878 --> 01:23:29,794
Enjoy your life
man, 'cause I will.

1414
01:23:29,837 --> 01:23:31,187
I hope you get
your shit together.

1415
01:23:31,230 --> 01:23:34,581
Yeah, hope you get
your shit together.

1416
01:23:51,424 --> 01:23:53,557
So, you weren't fucking
anyway, what good was he?

1417
01:23:53,600 --> 01:23:56,734
I swear I would have been
told his ass to get lost.

1418
01:23:56,777 --> 01:24:01,782
I don't know, there was
something about his earnestness.

1419
01:24:02,653 --> 01:24:04,437
He was hopeful, desperate.

1420
01:24:08,746 --> 01:24:12,489
Something about him that
made me feel almost maternal,

1421
01:24:12,532 --> 01:24:15,144
like he needed my
encouragement and support.

1422
01:24:15,187 --> 01:24:17,624
OK, but what were
you getting out of it?

1423
01:24:17,668 --> 01:24:20,932
I don't know. I
liked his company.

1424
01:24:20,975 --> 01:24:23,021
So we're back to lonely.

1425
01:24:23,065 --> 01:24:28,070
No, it was more than that
we had great conversations,

1426
01:24:28,635 --> 01:24:29,635
he was fun.

1427
01:24:29,897 --> 01:24:31,725
Well, at least you had fun.

1428
01:24:31,769 --> 01:24:34,380
Parts of it. On
second thought, really,

1429
01:24:34,424 --> 01:24:36,121
it was a lot of work.

1430
01:24:37,122 --> 01:24:37,905
You love him?

1431
01:24:37,949 --> 01:24:39,037
Not at all.

1432
01:24:41,605 --> 01:24:43,694
I would tell you it if I did.

1433
01:24:45,478 --> 01:24:49,047
It's like I was just
reliving my twenties

1434
01:24:49,091 --> 01:24:51,441
or maybe he was just
something to do.

1435
01:24:51,484 --> 01:24:53,288
I couldn't deal with his
mood swings and his age.

1436
01:24:53,312 --> 01:24:55,793
I don't know how other
women deal with it.

1437
01:24:55,836 --> 01:24:59,623
Then why does it look
like you've been crying?

1438
01:24:59,666 --> 01:25:02,539
Some of the things that he said.

1439
01:25:02,582 --> 01:25:03,582
Breakups.

1440
01:25:05,759 --> 01:25:07,021
Have I changed?

1441
01:25:08,153 --> 01:25:09,937
What do you mean?

1442
01:25:09,981 --> 01:25:14,072
Than when we were younger...
then before my father died?

1443
01:25:14,116 --> 01:25:15,856
Am I different?

1444
01:25:15,900 --> 01:25:17,336
I don't know.

1445
01:25:17,380 --> 01:25:22,124
Really you can tell me.
You won't hurt my feelings.

1446
01:25:23,473 --> 01:25:26,780
I think your father dying
caused you to retreat a little.

1447
01:25:26,824 --> 01:25:29,174
You were always a daddy's girl.

1448
01:25:29,218 --> 01:25:31,176
You wouldn't do anything
without worrying

1449
01:25:31,220 --> 01:25:33,526
about what he would think.

1450
01:25:33,570 --> 01:25:37,095
But get it, wanting to
please your parents.

1451
01:25:38,314 --> 01:25:41,273
Besides how could his
death not affect you?

1452
01:25:41,317 --> 01:25:42,317
Yeah

1453
01:25:47,236 --> 01:25:49,629
My appointment is tomorrow.

1454
01:25:55,026 --> 01:25:56,897
You want me to go with you?

1455
01:25:56,941 --> 01:25:57,942
Hell yeah.

1456
01:26:02,686 --> 01:26:03,686
Okay.

1457
01:26:09,693 --> 01:26:12,174
I'm 200% percent sure.

1458
01:26:12,217 --> 01:26:13,217
Okay.

1459
01:26:14,045 --> 01:26:15,002
Happy birthday to me.

1460
01:26:15,046 --> 01:26:16,439
Happy birthday.

1461
01:27:42,307 --> 01:27:45,919
♪ Don't lie to me

1462
01:27:45,963 --> 01:27:49,445
♪ Don't lie to me

1463
01:27:49,488 --> 01:27:54,493
♪ Quit playing games
with our hearts ♪

1464
01:27:56,626 --> 01:28:00,194
♪ I feel like a fool

1465
01:28:00,238 --> 01:28:04,198
♪ I feel like a fool

1466
01:28:04,242 --> 01:28:09,247
♪ But I will run away and hide

1467
01:28:10,204 --> 01:28:11,467
♪ This was a lesson learned

1468
01:28:11,510 --> 01:28:13,338
♪ I have had my fingers burned

1469
01:28:13,382 --> 01:28:15,297
♪ I won't do this again

1470
01:28:15,340 --> 01:28:16,863
♪ If I can help it

1471
01:28:16,907 --> 01:28:18,909
♪ I better on my own

1472
01:28:18,952 --> 01:28:20,737
♪ All the sticks and stones

1473
01:28:20,780 --> 01:28:24,610
♪ Nobody is gonna let me down

1474
01:28:30,007 --> 01:28:31,007
Hello.

1475
01:28:31,835 --> 01:28:33,663
Hey, baby bro.

1476
01:28:33,706 --> 01:28:36,143
Hey, Maya. What's up?

1477
01:28:36,187 --> 01:28:38,363
You know Zoe came to visit me.

1478
01:28:38,407 --> 01:28:41,627
Wait, hold on, I
can hardly hear you.

1479
01:28:41,671 --> 01:28:43,977
I said, Zoe came to see me.

1480
01:28:44,021 --> 01:28:45,718
I know she told me.

1481
01:28:46,980 --> 01:28:49,983
She's such a
beautiful young girl.

1482
01:28:56,555 --> 01:28:58,688
You guys really
raised her right,

1483
01:28:58,731 --> 01:29:01,473
even though you
aren't still together.

1484
01:29:01,517 --> 01:29:03,345
Thanks. You alright?

1485
01:29:05,085 --> 01:29:07,044
You sound like
you've been drinking.

1486
01:29:07,087 --> 01:29:08,872
Yeah, a little bit.

1487
01:29:08,915 --> 01:29:11,353
She told me about
your boyfriend.

1488
01:29:11,396 --> 01:29:13,180
He's not my boyfriend.

1489
01:29:13,224 --> 01:29:15,792
He's young. What's that about?

1490
01:29:16,923 --> 01:29:19,796
Listen, that's
not why I'm calling.

1491
01:29:21,232 --> 01:29:25,584
I know you're giving Zoe a hard
time about being a lesbian,

1492
01:29:30,154 --> 01:29:33,375
but I think you
should give her break.

1493
01:29:34,898 --> 01:29:39,729
She needs time to figure out
what her life is going to be.

1494
01:29:43,907 --> 01:29:45,996
You hearing me?

1495
01:29:46,039 --> 01:29:47,039
I'm here.

1496
01:29:48,390 --> 01:29:50,230
She don't need anyone
telling her what to do...

1497
01:29:50,261 --> 01:29:52,089
Don't do that, Maya.

1498
01:29:53,612 --> 01:29:55,309
Do what? I'm
talking about Zoe.

1499
01:29:55,353 --> 01:29:57,834
I don't know what's
going on with you,

1500
01:29:57,877 --> 01:30:00,097
but you seem to be drunk...

1501
01:30:00,140 --> 01:30:01,446
And...

1502
01:30:01,490 --> 01:30:03,796
And? A 22-year-old boy toy.

1503
01:30:06,059 --> 01:30:08,453
You really know
how to kill a buzz.

1504
01:30:08,497 --> 01:30:11,500
You shouldn't be
so high and mighty,

1505
01:30:12,979 --> 01:30:16,505
which one of us had a baby
while still in high school?

1506
01:30:16,548 --> 01:30:19,377
Dad would've never let
me get away with that.

1507
01:30:19,421 --> 01:30:22,902
Our father, your father
would be so ashamed

1508
01:30:24,382 --> 01:30:25,775
of you right now.

1509
01:30:27,516 --> 01:30:29,256
Wait, hello, hello.

1510
01:31:16,608 --> 01:31:17,957
What happened?

1511
01:31:18,001 --> 01:31:20,525
Mr. Ross' wife passed away.

1512
01:31:20,569 --> 01:31:21,700
What?

1513
01:31:21,744 --> 01:31:24,268
Yeah, she died in her sleep.

1514
01:31:25,965 --> 01:31:28,794
We all gotta die sometime.

1515
01:31:28,838 --> 01:31:32,015
Going in your sleep
is as good as any.

1516
01:32:14,361 --> 01:32:15,058
BOO!

1517
01:32:15,101 --> 01:32:16,146
What the hell?

1518
01:32:16,189 --> 01:32:17,626
Oh, sorry, excuse me.

1519
01:32:17,669 --> 01:32:18,583
I thought you were someone
else. I didn't, I... I'm..

1520
01:32:18,627 --> 01:32:19,628
Oh my god, you scared me.

1521
01:32:19,671 --> 01:32:21,194
I'm so, so sorry.

1522
01:32:21,238 --> 01:32:23,414
It's alright, I'm fine.

1523
01:33:25,258 --> 01:33:26,172
Hey guys

1524
01:33:26,216 --> 01:33:28,610
heeey, Lola, Lola

1525
01:33:58,727 --> 01:34:01,860
Oh, I'm sorry I'm
sorry, oh my God.

1526
01:35:47,313 --> 01:35:51,491
She a girl, you are man,
I expect more from you.

1527
01:36:02,633 --> 01:36:06,158
It's something Maya is not
gonna have because of her career

1528
01:36:06,202 --> 01:36:07,202
Children?

1529
01:36:08,595 --> 01:36:09,595
Yeah.

1530
01:36:13,426 --> 01:36:16,778
You are beautiful
just the way you are.

1531
01:36:48,070 --> 01:36:53,075
See how that works? I knock,
you answer, then I come in

1532
01:36:54,293 --> 01:36:55,947
That's 'cause you
don't have a key.

1533
01:36:55,991 --> 01:36:56,905
I got pastries.

1534
01:36:56,948 --> 01:36:58,776
Ohhh... Sock it to me cake.

1535
01:36:58,820 --> 01:37:01,213
Oh, I wanted to try this.

1536
01:37:06,479 --> 01:37:11,093
Looking good in here. So,
this is what Harlem looks like.

1537
01:37:11,136 --> 01:37:12,529
The new Harlem, yeah.

1538
01:37:14,923 --> 01:37:16,402
So how you doing today?

1539
01:37:16,446 --> 01:37:18,883
You mean am I
still glad I did it?

1540
01:37:18,927 --> 01:37:19,927
That too?

1541
01:37:21,103 --> 01:37:24,454
250 percent. Doesn't
mean it was easy,

1542
01:37:25,585 --> 01:37:28,937
but I'm sure it was
the right thing for me.

1543
01:37:31,765 --> 01:37:33,158
This shit is getting harder.

1544
01:37:33,202 --> 01:37:34,203
What?

1545
01:37:34,246 --> 01:37:35,246
Life.

1546
01:37:36,335 --> 01:37:38,511
When you were young, you
unnecessarily worried

1547
01:37:38,555 --> 01:37:42,907
about making life-altering
decisions, but at this age...

1548
01:37:42,951 --> 01:37:44,517
It can all be life-altering.

1549
01:37:44,561 --> 01:37:45,997
Right, it's now or never.

1550
01:37:46,041 --> 01:37:50,436
You can't say I'll worry
about that when I'm older.

1551
01:37:50,480 --> 01:37:51,437
You are older.

1552
01:37:51,481 --> 01:37:53,875
But 40 is still very young.

1553
01:37:55,485 --> 01:37:58,096
I just keep thinking
about Mrs. Ross,

1554
01:37:58,140 --> 01:38:00,272
she lived to be 90 years old.

1555
01:38:00,316 --> 01:38:03,058
Can you imagine seeing 90?

1556
01:38:03,101 --> 01:38:05,887
Yes I can. I want
to live to be 105.

1557
01:38:05,930 --> 01:38:08,541
That gives me another
60 plus years.

1558
01:38:08,585 --> 01:38:10,587
You're not asking for much.

1559
01:38:10,630 --> 01:38:13,764
I am asking for much.
And so should you.

1560
01:38:13,807 --> 01:38:17,333
Do you want mediocre
food? Pastries? Wine?

1561
01:38:17,376 --> 01:38:20,727
Why accept a short
mediocre life?

1562
01:38:20,771 --> 01:38:22,120
Good point.

1563
01:38:22,164 --> 01:38:24,122
But it can't just be
longit has to be fulfilling.

1564
01:38:24,166 --> 01:38:26,255
What's that Bob Marley quote?

1565
01:38:26,298 --> 01:38:30,781
"It's not the length of
life, but the depth of life."

1566
01:38:30,824 --> 01:38:32,261
That's Emerson.

1567
01:38:34,480 --> 01:38:38,571
Sounds like something
Marley would've said.

1568
01:38:38,615 --> 01:38:42,010
This is a heart attack
waiting to happen.

1569
01:38:43,620 --> 01:38:45,361
But it's sooo good.

1570
01:38:58,896 --> 01:39:00,767
Yeah, hey, what's up?

1571
01:39:02,291 --> 01:39:04,858
Yeah, hey, what's up?

1572
01:39:04,902 --> 01:39:05,903
Long time.

1573
01:39:06,730 --> 01:39:09,515
Yeah, long time.

1574
01:39:09,559 --> 01:39:11,648
Spring cleaning?

1575
01:39:11,691 --> 01:39:14,303
Something like that.

1576
01:39:14,346 --> 01:39:16,435
I got something for you.

1577
01:39:18,350 --> 01:39:20,831
Thanks, but I'm off scones.

1578
01:39:22,224 --> 01:39:26,532
OK, trying new things. I
like that. No, really, here.

1579
01:39:29,405 --> 01:39:31,015
What's this?

1580
01:39:31,059 --> 01:39:33,322
It's the money for the laptop.

1581
01:39:34,149 --> 01:39:36,151
Really, I'm impressed.

1582
01:39:37,587 --> 01:39:41,069
I said I would pay you back,
and I'm a man of my word.

1583
01:39:41,112 --> 01:39:43,245
It took me a minute.

1584
01:39:43,288 --> 01:39:45,987
Plus, I wanted to apologize
for not telling you

1585
01:39:46,030 --> 01:39:47,336
the whole truth.

1586
01:39:48,206 --> 01:39:51,122
You don't need to apologize.

1587
01:39:51,166 --> 01:39:52,950
I'm trying to find my way.

1588
01:39:52,994 --> 01:39:54,430
I don't have it all figured out,

1589
01:39:54,473 --> 01:39:57,781
but I didn't lie about the
baby, that was a rumor,

1590
01:39:57,824 --> 01:39:59,652
I'd never deny a seed of mine.

1591
01:39:59,696 --> 01:40:02,742
Like I said, you
don't have to apologize.

1592
01:40:02,786 --> 01:40:05,093
Besides, it wasn't all bad.

1593
01:40:09,227 --> 01:40:11,142
It helps with the celibacy.

1594
01:40:11,186 --> 01:40:13,579
You still doing that.

1595
01:40:13,623 --> 01:40:15,799
I hit a few bumps
but like I said,

1596
01:40:15,842 --> 01:40:17,714
I'm a work in progress.

1597
01:40:26,766 --> 01:40:28,812
And you're still the
nicest old lady I know.

1598
01:40:28,855 --> 01:40:33,599
Yeah, I better
getting back to work.

1599
01:40:33,643 --> 01:40:35,775
Right, spring cleaning.

1600
01:40:37,821 --> 01:40:39,910
Oh by the way, looking good.

1601
01:40:41,042 --> 01:40:45,481
Still thick as hell and
that's a good thing.

1602
01:40:45,524 --> 01:40:47,874
Yeah, I know and thank you.

1603
01:41:02,324 --> 01:41:03,324
Thick.

1604
01:41:11,072 --> 01:41:12,595
♪ Hey what you thinking

1605
01:41:12,638 --> 01:41:15,293
♪ When you thinking you miss
the whole point of you ♪

1606
01:41:15,337 --> 01:41:17,339
♪ You can choose not to bruise

1607
01:41:17,382 --> 01:41:19,428
♪ Your beautiful muse look

1608
01:41:19,471 --> 01:41:21,473
♪ All those feelings
they ain't real ♪

1609
01:41:21,517 --> 01:41:23,301
♪ Its just in your head

1610
01:41:23,345 --> 01:41:24,955
♪ And if you are
into healing try ♪

1611
01:41:24,998 --> 01:41:29,481
♪ Try to feel it
without going mad ♪

1612
01:41:29,525 --> 01:41:34,530
♪ Without going mad

1613
01:41:38,403 --> 01:41:43,408
♪ Without going mad

1614
01:41:44,583 --> 01:41:48,805
♪ You can turn the
switch on many days ♪

1615
01:41:51,416 --> 01:41:55,681
♪ No one is getting
falling in this rain ♪

1616
01:41:55,725 --> 01:42:00,295
♪ You can turn the
switch on many days ♪