1 00:00:06,573 --> 00:00:07,107 . 2 00:00:07,140 --> 00:00:08,808 - Isabella, would you mind signing this? 3 00:00:09,275 --> 00:00:10,944 - Of course I will. 4 00:00:11,011 --> 00:00:14,881 Now, I better not find this on eBay. 5 00:00:14,948 --> 00:00:16,483 - Did you enjoy that? 6 00:00:16,549 --> 00:00:17,450 - I did. 7 00:00:19,953 --> 00:00:20,920 - Oh, hang on. 8 00:00:20,987 --> 00:00:22,422 You got my pen. 9 00:00:22,489 --> 00:00:23,490 - Sorry. 10 00:00:23,556 --> 00:00:25,392 - Whoa-ho. 11 00:00:25,458 --> 00:00:29,596 You had my pen in your hand, and it didn't bother you. 12 00:00:31,097 --> 00:00:35,035 You have no idea where this pen's been. 13 00:00:35,101 --> 00:00:39,873 - And you just handed it back like it was nothing. 14 00:00:39,939 --> 00:00:42,108 Are you feeling OK? 15 00:00:42,175 --> 00:00:45,612 Because you're acting OK, and that has me worried. 16 00:00:45,679 --> 00:00:46,746 - I'm fine. 17 00:00:46,813 --> 00:00:49,249 I've been working really hard on my germophobia. 18 00:00:49,315 --> 00:00:51,384 I just told myself how sanitary you are 19 00:00:51,451 --> 00:00:52,952 and how often I see you wash your hands. 20 00:00:53,019 --> 00:00:55,588 - Oh, I'm impressed. 21 00:00:55,655 --> 00:00:56,990 Wow. 22 00:00:57,057 --> 00:00:58,992 It just goes to show you, you can whip any problem 23 00:00:59,059 --> 00:01:00,827 once you set your mind to it. 24 00:01:00,894 --> 00:01:02,228 - Thank you. 25 00:01:02,295 --> 00:01:03,997 That means a lot to me. 26 00:01:04,064 --> 00:01:06,366 - I'm impressed, too. 27 00:01:07,867 --> 00:01:09,035 Here, take my pen. 28 00:01:09,102 --> 00:01:10,837 - That's OK. 29 00:01:16,476 --> 00:01:19,079 - You know I wash my hands all the time, right? 30 00:01:19,145 --> 00:01:20,480 - Ignore him. 31 00:01:20,547 --> 00:01:22,182 Steve just likes to torture people 32 00:01:22,248 --> 00:01:23,717 when he's feeling good about himself. 33 00:01:23,783 --> 00:01:24,651 It's cute. 34 00:01:24,718 --> 00:01:26,486 - Well, he should feel good. 35 00:01:26,553 --> 00:01:29,456 But we--the two of us, not just you-- 36 00:01:29,522 --> 00:01:32,025 should probably be more careful when we comment 37 00:01:32,092 --> 00:01:33,626 on his mental health progress. 38 00:01:33,693 --> 00:01:34,794 - Oh, baloney. 39 00:01:34,861 --> 00:01:36,563 Letting people know that they're doing something great 40 00:01:36,629 --> 00:01:38,598 never hurt anyone. 41 00:01:38,665 --> 00:01:41,368 - Bobbie, did you really mean it when you said 42 00:01:41,434 --> 00:01:43,737 I could beat any problem I put my mind to? 43 00:01:43,803 --> 00:01:45,005 - 100%. 44 00:01:45,071 --> 00:01:46,940 I believe in you. 45 00:01:47,007 --> 00:01:48,241 - Thank you. 46 00:01:48,308 --> 00:01:51,044 I needed to hear that, because now 47 00:01:51,111 --> 00:01:55,682 I finally have the courage to quit therapy. 48 00:01:59,219 --> 00:02:03,490 - * Sometimes it feels like a big ol' fight * 49 00:02:03,556 --> 00:02:05,492 * To get through the day * 50 00:02:05,558 --> 00:02:07,160 * And sleep on through the night * 51 00:02:07,227 --> 00:02:09,562 * But here you'll find a place * 52 00:02:09,629 --> 00:02:12,999 * That'll surely lift your spirits * 53 00:02:13,066 --> 00:02:18,104 * You belong at Happy's Place * 54 00:02:18,171 --> 00:02:21,174 - I just feel so light, 55 00:02:21,241 --> 00:02:25,211 like this weight has been lifted off my shoulders. 56 00:02:25,278 --> 00:02:27,113 - You look lighter. 57 00:02:27,180 --> 00:02:30,417 - And now I'm gonna have all this free time, 58 00:02:30,483 --> 00:02:33,687 I don't know what I'm gonna do with myself. 59 00:02:33,753 --> 00:02:36,589 Do you need any help? 60 00:02:36,656 --> 00:02:38,124 - No, I'm good, bro. 61 00:02:38,191 --> 00:02:41,695 - And that is the real joy of being your own boss-- 62 00:02:41,761 --> 00:02:43,029 freedom. 63 00:02:43,096 --> 00:02:44,230 - Hey, what's up, Emmett? 64 00:02:44,297 --> 00:02:46,332 - Gabby's loud phone calls annoy me, 65 00:02:46,399 --> 00:02:47,967 so I thought I'd walk over here 66 00:02:48,034 --> 00:02:49,769 and see if that could change anything. 67 00:02:49,836 --> 00:02:52,072 - [laughs loudly] I can't! 68 00:02:52,138 --> 00:02:55,475 [laughing] 69 00:02:55,542 --> 00:02:57,677 - Nope. 70 00:02:57,744 --> 00:03:01,414 - Emmett, do you need any help in the kitchen? 71 00:03:02,615 --> 00:03:04,818 - No, and stay out of my kitchen. 72 00:03:06,353 --> 00:03:08,621 - I still feel lighter. 73 00:03:10,023 --> 00:03:11,024 Hi! 74 00:03:11,091 --> 00:03:13,727 - OK, that's weird. 75 00:03:13,793 --> 00:03:16,463 Thank you for covering for me, Takoda. 76 00:03:16,529 --> 00:03:20,633 Yeah, I had to take a pretty important call. 77 00:03:22,902 --> 00:03:23,870 - Uh-huh. 78 00:03:25,505 --> 00:03:31,478 - Pretty important business call. 79 00:03:33,346 --> 00:03:36,016 OK, someone just ask me what for? 80 00:03:36,082 --> 00:03:37,050 - What for? 81 00:03:37,117 --> 00:03:38,251 - Thank you. 82 00:03:38,318 --> 00:03:39,719 I've got a new side hustle. 83 00:03:39,786 --> 00:03:41,654 I need to earn enough extra money 84 00:03:41,721 --> 00:03:43,790 so that I can do something very special. 85 00:03:43,857 --> 00:03:45,291 - Me too. 86 00:03:45,358 --> 00:03:47,060 I've been taking extra handyman jobs 87 00:03:47,127 --> 00:03:48,928 so I can save up to send my kids to camp. 88 00:03:48,995 --> 00:03:50,063 What's your goal? 89 00:03:50,130 --> 00:03:52,766 - To buy an espresso machine. [laughs] 90 00:03:52,832 --> 00:03:55,235 I mean, can you imagine waking up in the morning 91 00:03:55,301 --> 00:03:58,071 and not having to put on pants to get a latte? 92 00:03:58,138 --> 00:03:59,105 I mean, mm! 93 00:03:59,172 --> 00:04:01,307 I love it. 94 00:04:01,374 --> 00:04:03,309 - I thought you gave up coffee-- 95 00:04:03,376 --> 00:04:07,313 something about your body being a temple or a... 96 00:04:07,380 --> 00:04:10,050 windmill or something. 97 00:04:10,116 --> 00:04:12,419 - Emmett, I gave up caffeine, OK? 98 00:04:12,485 --> 00:04:14,421 Not coffee culture. 99 00:04:14,487 --> 00:04:17,624 The frothed milk, the hipsters, the superior attitude-- 100 00:04:17,691 --> 00:04:20,293 I love it. 101 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:21,961 - So what's the side hustle? 102 00:04:22,028 --> 00:04:26,766 - Oh, I recruit ambassadors to sell Serenity bracelets. 103 00:04:26,833 --> 00:04:28,201 - That's not a job. 104 00:04:28,268 --> 00:04:31,538 both: Coal mining's a job. 105 00:04:31,604 --> 00:04:33,206 - Is that it? - Oh, yeah. 106 00:04:33,273 --> 00:04:34,507 This right here? 107 00:04:34,574 --> 00:04:38,645 Yeah, the Serenity team gave it to me for free. 108 00:04:38,712 --> 00:04:41,247 It has got cobalt and copper in it. 109 00:04:41,314 --> 00:04:43,917 cobalt for energy and copper for grounding. 110 00:04:43,983 --> 00:04:45,118 I mean, look at me. 111 00:04:45,185 --> 00:04:49,389 I'm energized, yet so down to earth. 112 00:04:50,824 --> 00:04:52,359 - You've been ruining my peace and quiet 113 00:04:52,425 --> 00:04:54,494 to hawk goofy bracelets? 114 00:04:54,561 --> 00:04:57,697 - I'm not "hawking" them, OK? 115 00:04:57,764 --> 00:04:59,432 All right? 116 00:04:59,499 --> 00:05:01,835 I am recruiting ambassadors into the Serenity family, 117 00:05:01,901 --> 00:05:03,303 and then they... 118 00:05:03,370 --> 00:05:05,905 hawk them. 119 00:05:05,972 --> 00:05:07,374 - Well, do me a favor. 120 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:09,709 Find another spot to make your phone calls. 121 00:05:09,776 --> 00:05:11,111 OK? 122 00:05:12,846 --> 00:05:15,448 - So you get paid 123 00:05:15,515 --> 00:05:18,318 making people get other people 124 00:05:18,385 --> 00:05:20,820 to buy things? 125 00:05:20,887 --> 00:05:23,023 Money is crazy. 126 00:05:24,324 --> 00:05:26,426 [doorbell rings] 127 00:05:28,995 --> 00:05:30,897 - Hello? 128 00:05:33,233 --> 00:05:34,734 Hello? 129 00:05:44,978 --> 00:05:45,979 - I'm coming. 130 00:05:46,046 --> 00:05:48,181 - I'm right here. - Ahh! 131 00:05:48,248 --> 00:05:49,983 [gasps] 132 00:05:50,050 --> 00:05:51,951 What are you doing? 133 00:05:52,018 --> 00:05:54,254 - OK, that scream woke me up. 134 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,424 If there's not blood yet, there will be. 135 00:05:57,490 --> 00:05:59,659 - Steve just materialized in our living room 136 00:05:59,726 --> 00:06:02,228 and scared the Beanie Babies out of me. 137 00:06:02,295 --> 00:06:03,763 - Since I don't have therapy anymore, 138 00:06:03,830 --> 00:06:05,532 I decided to come see you, Bobbie. 139 00:06:05,598 --> 00:06:09,436 I wasn't doing anything to her Beanie Babies. 140 00:06:09,502 --> 00:06:10,470 - You two, knock it off. 141 00:06:10,537 --> 00:06:12,539 Can we just sit down? 142 00:06:12,605 --> 00:06:16,443 - Mm, sorry, but I told my blankets I'd be right back, 143 00:06:16,509 --> 00:06:18,478 and they're super needy. 144 00:06:19,612 --> 00:06:20,814 - Steve, what's going on? 145 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:23,750 You've never just dropped by to see me before. 146 00:06:23,817 --> 00:06:25,785 - No, but now that I have all this free time, 147 00:06:25,852 --> 00:06:28,488 I thought, who haven't I talked to lately? 148 00:06:29,656 --> 00:06:31,991 - Jesus? 149 00:06:32,058 --> 00:06:34,394 I know it's not me because I talk to you every day. 150 00:06:34,461 --> 00:06:35,762 - That's business talk. 151 00:06:35,829 --> 00:06:38,031 I want us to get to know each other better personally. 152 00:06:38,098 --> 00:06:41,401 We never have the chance to just stop and talk. 153 00:06:41,468 --> 00:06:43,536 - Oh, my gosh, what a coincidence. 154 00:06:43,603 --> 00:06:45,538 I was just thinking, I never get the chance 155 00:06:45,605 --> 00:06:48,174 to just stop and sleep. 156 00:06:48,241 --> 00:06:50,443 - [chuckling] Like that. 157 00:06:50,510 --> 00:06:52,345 I didn't know you were funny, Bobbie. 158 00:06:52,412 --> 00:06:54,647 - [laughs] 159 00:06:54,714 --> 00:06:57,817 OK, it's early, and I really don't feel like talking, so-- 160 00:06:57,884 --> 00:06:59,085 - That's fine. 161 00:06:59,152 --> 00:07:01,121 I can just talk about myself, and you can listen. 162 00:07:01,187 --> 00:07:03,957 Where to start? 163 00:07:04,891 --> 00:07:07,827 To get to know me, you first have to understand my father. 164 00:07:07,894 --> 00:07:09,896 Take a seat. 165 00:07:09,963 --> 00:07:12,565 It's Colombia, 1950s. 166 00:07:12,632 --> 00:07:13,533 The dictatorship has ended... 167 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:15,035 [upbeat music] 168 00:07:18,738 --> 00:07:19,072 . 169 00:07:19,105 --> 00:07:20,840 - Hailey, you're asking yourself the wrong question. 170 00:07:21,708 --> 00:07:24,077 It's not, do I want to be an ambassador 171 00:07:24,144 --> 00:07:25,445 for Serenity bracelets? 172 00:07:25,512 --> 00:07:31,017 It's, who could I be if I wasn't so afraid? 173 00:07:31,084 --> 00:07:32,719 OK, go ask your mom. 174 00:07:37,857 --> 00:07:40,260 Welcome to the team, Hailey! 175 00:07:40,326 --> 00:07:41,995 Boom! 176 00:07:42,062 --> 00:07:45,365 That is 12 ambassadors in three days. 177 00:07:45,432 --> 00:07:46,700 - Where are you finding these people? 178 00:07:46,766 --> 00:07:49,035 - I'm not finding them, Emmett. 179 00:07:49,102 --> 00:07:52,238 The universe is causing our paths to cross. 180 00:07:54,074 --> 00:07:56,042 Mostly the dog park. 181 00:07:57,944 --> 00:07:59,045 Ooh. 182 00:07:59,112 --> 00:08:02,782 How much moola is my new side hustle making me? 183 00:08:02,849 --> 00:08:04,017 A "lot, eh." 184 00:08:04,084 --> 00:08:06,252 [laughs] Get it? 185 00:08:06,319 --> 00:08:08,955 Lat-te? 186 00:08:09,022 --> 00:08:11,057 - After listening to all these phone calls 187 00:08:11,124 --> 00:08:12,525 for the last couple days, 188 00:08:12,592 --> 00:08:14,928 I'm thinking maybe I should be one of your ambassadors. 189 00:08:14,994 --> 00:08:18,231 - Yeah, I love that. 190 00:08:18,298 --> 00:08:20,934 - Do you know anything about these bracelets, Takoda? 191 00:08:21,001 --> 00:08:22,102 - No. 192 00:08:22,168 --> 00:08:23,470 But I know Gabby. 193 00:08:23,536 --> 00:08:24,838 And if I can help her with her thing 194 00:08:24,904 --> 00:08:27,941 and make some extra cash to send my kid to summer camp, 195 00:08:28,008 --> 00:08:29,943 that's a win-win. 196 00:08:30,010 --> 00:08:31,745 - 13. 197 00:08:36,583 --> 00:08:38,385 - Are you gonna do this to Takoda? 198 00:08:38,451 --> 00:08:40,220 - Do what? 199 00:08:40,286 --> 00:08:42,455 Give him the keys to a gold mine? 200 00:08:42,522 --> 00:08:45,058 Give him a map to Easy Street? 201 00:08:45,125 --> 00:08:47,660 - No, suck him into your bracelet scam 202 00:08:47,727 --> 00:08:50,764 so you can drink coffee without pants. 203 00:08:51,931 --> 00:08:53,700 - You don't know that they're a scam. 204 00:08:53,767 --> 00:08:55,201 - Do you know they're not? 205 00:08:55,268 --> 00:08:58,171 - Hey, you know, it's not my job to know, all right? 206 00:08:58,238 --> 00:09:01,141 I'm not "60 Minutes," OK? 207 00:09:01,207 --> 00:09:04,544 I just recruit people to sell a product. 208 00:09:04,611 --> 00:09:06,680 - You don't recruit them, you convince them. 209 00:09:06,746 --> 00:09:08,281 And you can do that 'cause you're somebody 210 00:09:08,348 --> 00:09:09,983 people can trust-- 211 00:09:10,050 --> 00:09:11,718 people like Takoda. 212 00:09:12,519 --> 00:09:14,354 - Emmett, 213 00:09:14,421 --> 00:09:17,691 I would never use my magnificent 214 00:09:17,757 --> 00:09:20,727 God-given ability to win people over 215 00:09:20,794 --> 00:09:23,663 to take advantage of others. 216 00:09:23,730 --> 00:09:24,664 - Oh, you know what? 217 00:09:24,731 --> 00:09:26,399 I forgot. That's right. 218 00:09:26,466 --> 00:09:28,201 You've got one of those magical bracelets 219 00:09:28,268 --> 00:09:30,136 that keep you grounded. 220 00:09:31,971 --> 00:09:33,573 - And energized! 221 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:37,077 [upbeat music] 222 00:09:37,143 --> 00:09:38,111 - Morning. 223 00:09:38,178 --> 00:09:39,179 You making coffee? 224 00:09:39,245 --> 00:09:41,314 - Yes, I am, because Steve's coming over 225 00:09:41,381 --> 00:09:42,749 for the third morning in a row. 226 00:09:42,816 --> 00:09:44,184 And no, I don't think it's strange, 227 00:09:44,250 --> 00:09:46,619 so don't try to make me feel guilty about it. 228 00:09:49,356 --> 00:09:51,925 - I'll get it myself. 229 00:09:51,991 --> 00:09:54,694 - I'm sorry I snapped at you. 230 00:09:54,761 --> 00:09:55,962 Plus, I lied. 231 00:09:56,029 --> 00:09:57,430 Steve coming over every morning 232 00:09:57,497 --> 00:09:59,399 is really starting to get to me. 233 00:09:59,466 --> 00:10:00,734 - Then just tell him to stop. 234 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:02,302 - Well, I can't do that. 235 00:10:02,369 --> 00:10:03,636 All he wants to do is talk. 236 00:10:03,703 --> 00:10:06,272 And how can you be friends if you don't talk? 237 00:10:06,339 --> 00:10:09,142 - Emmett finds a way. 238 00:10:09,209 --> 00:10:10,744 - Plus, I feel like I owe it to Steve. 239 00:10:10,810 --> 00:10:13,580 I'm the one that was encouraging him. 240 00:10:13,646 --> 00:10:16,082 - OK, well, is he the only one who talks? 241 00:10:16,149 --> 00:10:17,283 Do you talk about your life, too? 242 00:10:17,350 --> 00:10:18,885 - No, not yet. 243 00:10:18,952 --> 00:10:21,287 But he's almost to his middle school years, 244 00:10:21,354 --> 00:10:23,890 so I'm sure my turn's coming. 245 00:10:25,058 --> 00:10:26,059 - I thought so. 246 00:10:26,126 --> 00:10:28,395 This is a clear case of trauma dumping. 247 00:10:30,830 --> 00:10:34,100 - I was afraid that's what it was. 248 00:10:34,167 --> 00:10:36,136 - Of course you were. 249 00:10:36,202 --> 00:10:38,405 Because as you know, 250 00:10:38,471 --> 00:10:41,007 that's when somebody unloads all their problems onto you 251 00:10:41,074 --> 00:10:42,876 but never asks about your life. 252 00:10:42,942 --> 00:10:44,911 They're trauma dumping. 253 00:10:44,978 --> 00:10:48,748 - Yeah, that's dumbing it down, but that's it, OK. 254 00:10:49,849 --> 00:10:51,718 - He's not coming to you as a friend. 255 00:10:51,785 --> 00:10:54,254 He's using you as a substitute for therapy. 256 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:55,655 - You think so? 257 00:10:55,722 --> 00:10:57,157 [doorbell rings] 258 00:10:57,223 --> 00:10:58,692 - I do, and I think you need to stop this 259 00:10:58,758 --> 00:10:59,993 because you're both being cheated. 260 00:11:00,060 --> 00:11:01,828 - OK. 261 00:11:01,895 --> 00:11:03,997 Oh, and thanks for not saying "I told you so." 262 00:11:04,064 --> 00:11:08,335 - Well, certainly can't now, so you're welcome. 263 00:11:11,304 --> 00:11:13,206 - Hey, Steve, come on in. 264 00:11:13,273 --> 00:11:15,075 - You seem serious. 265 00:11:15,141 --> 00:11:16,743 What's going on? 266 00:11:16,810 --> 00:11:18,044 - Well, it's just, 267 00:11:18,111 --> 00:11:21,281 I-I don't think you should keep coming over here. 268 00:11:21,348 --> 00:11:22,982 - Why not? 269 00:11:23,049 --> 00:11:26,186 - Well, when we talk, it's a little one-sided. 270 00:11:26,252 --> 00:11:28,121 We're not talking like we're friends. 271 00:11:28,188 --> 00:11:29,456 - Well, what is it? 272 00:11:32,092 --> 00:11:33,860 - Drama humping. 273 00:11:37,263 --> 00:11:38,665 - Excuse me? 274 00:11:38,732 --> 00:11:40,000 - Yeah. 275 00:11:40,066 --> 00:11:42,435 Yeah, you're treating me like your new therapist, 276 00:11:42,502 --> 00:11:44,371 and that's not OK. 277 00:11:44,437 --> 00:11:46,106 - Oh, my God. 278 00:11:46,172 --> 00:11:47,374 You're right. 279 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:48,808 That is what I've been doing. 280 00:11:48,875 --> 00:11:50,310 - Yeah, it's OK. 281 00:11:50,377 --> 00:11:52,812 It took me a while to recognize it, too. 282 00:11:54,948 --> 00:11:57,350 - This is embarrassing. 283 00:11:57,417 --> 00:11:58,752 Don't worry. 284 00:11:58,818 --> 00:12:00,553 I won't be coming over anymore. 285 00:12:00,620 --> 00:12:02,722 - Oh, please don't be upset. 286 00:12:02,789 --> 00:12:04,190 - I'm not upset. 287 00:12:04,257 --> 00:12:05,825 You don't understand. 288 00:12:05,892 --> 00:12:08,361 I feel amazing. 289 00:12:08,428 --> 00:12:09,929 - What? 290 00:12:09,996 --> 00:12:12,665 - Yeah, you rejected me, and I'm totally fine with that. 291 00:12:12,732 --> 00:12:15,068 It's like, talking to you, 292 00:12:15,135 --> 00:12:17,270 it's something I can either take or leave. 293 00:12:17,337 --> 00:12:21,241 - Well, that might be fine for you, but I feel a little hurt. 294 00:12:21,307 --> 00:12:22,342 - Oh, don't be. 295 00:12:22,409 --> 00:12:23,743 This is a good thing. 296 00:12:23,810 --> 00:12:26,246 If this doesn't say, I don't need therapy, 297 00:12:26,312 --> 00:12:27,914 I don't know what does. 298 00:12:27,981 --> 00:12:29,282 Thank you, Bobbie. 299 00:12:29,349 --> 00:12:30,583 - Oh. 300 00:12:30,650 --> 00:12:32,986 - No, I'm not there yet. 301 00:12:37,123 --> 00:12:37,424 . 302 00:12:37,457 --> 00:12:38,992 - I don't know if it's the eight hours of sleep I got 303 00:12:39,726 --> 00:12:41,127 or just being honest with Steve, 304 00:12:41,194 --> 00:12:44,097 but man, I feel fresh as a daisy. 305 00:12:44,164 --> 00:12:46,199 - [sighs] It's the sleep. 306 00:12:46,266 --> 00:12:48,001 - I did the right thing, didn't I? 307 00:12:48,068 --> 00:12:49,769 I mean, Steve's gonna be OK, right? 308 00:12:49,836 --> 00:12:52,138 - You can never really tell with these things. 309 00:12:52,205 --> 00:12:55,742 But my gut tells me he's gonna be just fine. 310 00:12:55,809 --> 00:12:58,144 - Don't come in. I'm not ready! 311 00:13:00,580 --> 00:13:02,615 Stop. It's not ready. 312 00:13:02,682 --> 00:13:04,517 You'll ruin the surprise. 313 00:13:04,584 --> 00:13:07,087 - Oh, wow. 314 00:13:08,621 --> 00:13:10,256 Well, you've sure have been busy. 315 00:13:10,323 --> 00:13:13,760 - Bobbie, you rejecting me was just the kick I needed. 316 00:13:13,827 --> 00:13:15,895 I realized I could use my time 317 00:13:15,962 --> 00:13:17,764 to fix the stuff that bothers me around here 318 00:13:17,831 --> 00:13:19,566 while helping my friends. 319 00:13:19,632 --> 00:13:23,503 - But--but Steve, Emmett said specifically for you 320 00:13:23,570 --> 00:13:25,271 to stay out of his kitchen. 321 00:13:25,338 --> 00:13:27,207 - Right, with a wink. 322 00:13:28,908 --> 00:13:30,543 - Emmett had his spices organized 323 00:13:30,610 --> 00:13:31,544 the way he wants them. 324 00:13:31,611 --> 00:13:33,146 - This is better. 325 00:13:33,213 --> 00:13:35,315 It's not only alphabetical, but within each letter block, 326 00:13:35,382 --> 00:13:36,983 As, Bs, and Cs, 327 00:13:37,050 --> 00:13:40,086 it's organized by height, then cap style, then color. 328 00:13:40,153 --> 00:13:41,988 Cardamom, cayenne, cumin. 329 00:13:42,055 --> 00:13:43,490 Tall, tall skinny, short. 330 00:13:43,556 --> 00:13:45,792 Light brown, dark brown, red. Black pepper, black pepper-- 331 00:13:45,859 --> 00:13:47,627 - Steve! Steve. 332 00:13:49,429 --> 00:13:51,798 Slow down there. 333 00:13:51,865 --> 00:13:54,167 I think you might be sublimating. 334 00:13:54,234 --> 00:13:55,969 - OK, I'm gonna stop pretending to know 335 00:13:56,036 --> 00:13:57,971 what you're talking about. 336 00:13:58,038 --> 00:14:00,774 - It means when a person redirects negative behavior 337 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:04,577 towards helpful and productive activities. 338 00:14:04,644 --> 00:14:06,246 - Is that bad? 339 00:14:06,312 --> 00:14:07,414 - It's not good. 340 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:09,949 Because rather than addressing the real problem, 341 00:14:10,016 --> 00:14:11,551 he's pushing it away somewhere else. 342 00:14:11,618 --> 00:14:12,986 - Stay out of this, Isabella. 343 00:14:13,053 --> 00:14:14,421 If I wanted to talk with a therapist 344 00:14:14,487 --> 00:14:15,722 with no license or training, 345 00:14:15,789 --> 00:14:17,857 I'll hang out with Bobbie again. 346 00:14:17,924 --> 00:14:19,592 - But Isabella's just trying to help. 347 00:14:19,659 --> 00:14:21,628 - Well, I don't need any help. 348 00:14:21,695 --> 00:14:23,697 I'm fine. 349 00:14:23,763 --> 00:14:25,932 And you agreed that I'm fine. 350 00:14:25,999 --> 00:14:27,634 And that's all I need to know. 351 00:14:31,071 --> 00:14:32,739 - Remember the time you told me it never hurt 352 00:14:32,806 --> 00:14:35,408 to tell someone they're doing great? 353 00:14:35,475 --> 00:14:37,644 That didn't age well. 354 00:14:41,348 --> 00:14:42,849 - I'm really looking forward to getting started 355 00:14:42,916 --> 00:14:45,051 on these Serenity bracelets. 356 00:14:45,118 --> 00:14:47,587 This camp for my kids is getting more expensive 357 00:14:47,654 --> 00:14:49,122 every year. 358 00:14:49,189 --> 00:14:51,791 - Well, just make sure you know what you're getting into. 359 00:14:51,858 --> 00:14:53,593 You don't want to make a mistake. 360 00:14:53,660 --> 00:14:55,261 - Well, I trust Gabby. 361 00:14:55,328 --> 00:14:56,663 - Like that. 362 00:14:58,698 --> 00:15:00,467 - What's up, good people? 363 00:15:00,533 --> 00:15:03,536 And Emmett. 364 00:15:03,603 --> 00:15:04,971 - You got everything set up? 365 00:15:05,038 --> 00:15:07,407 I got a check for the bracelets. 366 00:15:09,242 --> 00:15:10,677 - No. 367 00:15:10,744 --> 00:15:13,580 Um, there was a-- 368 00:15:13,646 --> 00:15:14,781 there was a little snag. 369 00:15:14,848 --> 00:15:16,182 - What happened? 370 00:15:16,249 --> 00:15:19,452 - I told the company to go to hell. 371 00:15:19,519 --> 00:15:20,987 - Wow. 372 00:15:21,054 --> 00:15:24,624 Your perspective on this thing really shifted. 373 00:15:24,691 --> 00:15:26,626 - Mine too. 374 00:15:26,693 --> 00:15:30,497 - Well, I started asking the Serenity people some questions, 375 00:15:30,563 --> 00:15:31,865 you know? 376 00:15:31,931 --> 00:15:34,100 Like giving them the old "60 Minutes" treatment. 377 00:15:34,167 --> 00:15:39,205 Like, why do you spell copper with a K? 378 00:15:39,272 --> 00:15:43,843 Are these bracelets supposed to burn the hair off my wrist? 379 00:15:43,910 --> 00:15:48,048 And they-- they didn't care for that. 380 00:15:48,114 --> 00:15:50,850 - And so you told them to go to hell. 381 00:15:50,917 --> 00:15:52,652 Good for you, Gabby. 382 00:15:52,719 --> 00:15:54,154 - Thanks. 383 00:15:54,220 --> 00:15:57,223 Actually, they may have told me to go to hell. 384 00:15:59,359 --> 00:16:02,729 It was a pretty heated phone call, a lot of back and forth, 385 00:16:02,796 --> 00:16:03,930 some name-calling. 386 00:16:03,997 --> 00:16:05,932 Anyway, the point is, 387 00:16:05,999 --> 00:16:09,636 I am out of the fake bracelet business. 388 00:16:09,703 --> 00:16:11,938 In fact, you know, 389 00:16:12,005 --> 00:16:14,007 buh-bye. 390 00:16:14,074 --> 00:16:17,444 It'll probably grow back. 391 00:16:17,510 --> 00:16:20,847 - Well, I guess I got to get myself some more handyman jobs 392 00:16:20,914 --> 00:16:22,682 or find a cheaper summer camp. 393 00:16:23,950 --> 00:16:27,687 - No, you don't, you know, 'cause, um, 394 00:16:27,754 --> 00:16:33,059 I realized that I don't even want a stupid espresso machine. 395 00:16:33,126 --> 00:16:36,730 And I can always put on pants, right? 396 00:16:36,796 --> 00:16:39,199 - Exactly. 397 00:16:39,265 --> 00:16:42,769 - And I'm gonna give you the money that I've been making. 398 00:16:42,836 --> 00:16:47,240 And you are going to use it for your kids' summer camp. 399 00:16:47,307 --> 00:16:49,743 - No, Gabby, you can't do that. 400 00:16:49,809 --> 00:16:52,145 - Yeah, I can, Takoda. 401 00:16:52,212 --> 00:16:56,216 And you have to let me do this. 402 00:16:56,282 --> 00:16:58,184 [whispers] It's blood money. 403 00:16:59,319 --> 00:17:01,955 - But-- - Don't argue with her, Takoda. 404 00:17:02,022 --> 00:17:04,724 She's got this magnificent God-given ability 405 00:17:04,791 --> 00:17:06,559 to win people over. 406 00:17:08,428 --> 00:17:12,065 - My daughter made this bracelet for me 407 00:17:12,132 --> 00:17:13,967 last summer at summer camp. 408 00:17:14,034 --> 00:17:15,468 I want you to have it. 409 00:17:16,770 --> 00:17:18,138 - Oh. 410 00:17:19,539 --> 00:17:22,308 - Thank you, Gabby. 411 00:17:25,578 --> 00:17:28,214 - Well, look at that. 412 00:17:28,281 --> 00:17:32,085 Finally got a bracelet to keep you grounded. 413 00:17:34,954 --> 00:17:36,423 - It's really beautiful. 414 00:17:36,489 --> 00:17:38,458 - Yeah. 415 00:17:38,525 --> 00:17:40,026 - Damn, we could probably sell these for, like-- 416 00:17:40,093 --> 00:17:42,495 - No, no. - No. No. 417 00:17:47,567 --> 00:17:47,867 . 418 00:17:48,101 --> 00:17:49,235 - You wanted to see me, Bobbie? - Yeah. 419 00:17:49,736 --> 00:17:51,237 Come in. have a seat. 420 00:17:53,239 --> 00:17:56,042 I've been a little concerned about you lately. 421 00:17:56,109 --> 00:17:57,544 - This is because of what Isabella said. 422 00:17:57,610 --> 00:18:00,280 - No, it's how you've been acting. 423 00:18:00,347 --> 00:18:02,048 That was quite the performance over there. 424 00:18:02,115 --> 00:18:03,550 - I'm fine. 425 00:18:03,616 --> 00:18:05,418 That was a blip. 426 00:18:05,485 --> 00:18:07,587 You were the one who said I could handle things on my own. 427 00:18:07,654 --> 00:18:10,290 - Yeah, but I didn't mean you had to. 428 00:18:10,357 --> 00:18:12,192 - OK. Thanks for the chat. 429 00:18:12,258 --> 00:18:13,693 - Well, wait a minute. 430 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:15,261 I-I don't understand. 431 00:18:16,262 --> 00:18:17,731 You were doing so good. 432 00:18:17,797 --> 00:18:18,732 Why'd you quit? 433 00:18:18,798 --> 00:18:20,000 - Because I want to. 434 00:18:20,066 --> 00:18:22,002 - Now, that's a bunch of bull crap. 435 00:18:22,068 --> 00:18:25,038 - Then because it's exhausting. 436 00:18:25,105 --> 00:18:26,840 Every minute of every day, 437 00:18:26,906 --> 00:18:30,643 I have to remind myself to do this or not do that. 438 00:18:31,978 --> 00:18:33,947 When you sit, 439 00:18:34,014 --> 00:18:35,115 you don't have to think. 440 00:18:35,181 --> 00:18:37,751 You just sit. I... 441 00:18:37,817 --> 00:18:39,686 have to tell myself 442 00:18:39,753 --> 00:18:42,022 that I'm gonna be OK 443 00:18:42,088 --> 00:18:43,523 if I sit or if I don't sit. 444 00:18:43,590 --> 00:18:46,760 And I have to do those thoughts every second of every day. 445 00:18:49,262 --> 00:18:52,065 - Wow, that is exhausting. 446 00:18:52,132 --> 00:18:54,367 - When do I get to stop, Bobbie? 447 00:18:54,434 --> 00:18:56,670 When will I be fixed enough? 448 00:18:56,736 --> 00:18:58,238 [sniffles] 449 00:18:59,139 --> 00:19:01,408 - Steve, you're not broken. 450 00:19:01,474 --> 00:19:03,743 Let me show you something. 451 00:19:03,810 --> 00:19:05,512 You remember this? 452 00:19:06,579 --> 00:19:09,382 - My old bottle of hand sanitizer. 453 00:19:11,317 --> 00:19:14,554 I haven't seen Patricia in years. 454 00:19:16,189 --> 00:19:18,058 - I found it sitting in storage. 455 00:19:18,124 --> 00:19:21,594 Makes you wonder if sanitizer goes bad. 456 00:19:22,495 --> 00:19:24,531 - Why are you showing me this? 457 00:19:25,565 --> 00:19:30,203 - Since I've known you, you've gone from this to that. 458 00:19:30,270 --> 00:19:31,638 - But I needed help. 459 00:19:31,705 --> 00:19:33,873 I want to be able to handle things on my own 460 00:19:33,940 --> 00:19:35,275 like everyone else. 461 00:19:35,342 --> 00:19:39,045 - [laughs] Where'd you get that? 462 00:19:39,112 --> 00:19:40,714 We don't handle things on our own. 463 00:19:40,780 --> 00:19:42,315 No one does. 464 00:19:42,382 --> 00:19:46,319 We rely on God and each other. 465 00:19:46,386 --> 00:19:49,055 Just think of your therapist as one of us, 466 00:19:49,122 --> 00:19:52,225 except they know what they're doing. 467 00:19:53,827 --> 00:19:56,029 - Did I ever tell you I threw my back out once 468 00:19:56,096 --> 00:19:57,530 carrying this bottle? 469 00:19:57,597 --> 00:19:58,431 - No. 470 00:19:58,498 --> 00:20:00,100 Is that why it's still here? 471 00:20:00,166 --> 00:20:01,801 - Probably. 472 00:20:01,868 --> 00:20:04,704 That was a good day when I left it behind. 473 00:20:05,905 --> 00:20:07,974 - Yeah, it was. 474 00:20:08,041 --> 00:20:09,743 - I was really proud of myself. 475 00:20:09,809 --> 00:20:11,444 - You should be. 476 00:20:12,746 --> 00:20:16,349 - Be a shame to stop now that I'm so close. 477 00:20:17,684 --> 00:20:21,554 - Steve, you can come talk to me any time you want to-- 478 00:20:21,621 --> 00:20:24,391 just not early morning or at my house. 479 00:20:26,993 --> 00:20:28,828 - Thank you, Bobbie. 480 00:20:28,895 --> 00:20:30,330 - You're most welcome. 481 00:20:38,905 --> 00:20:41,608 - Have you been messing around with my spices? 482 00:20:41,675 --> 00:20:43,076 - I'm sorry, I just did it 'cause 483 00:20:43,143 --> 00:20:44,778 Bobbie rejected me. 484 00:20:49,616 --> 00:20:51,851 - I understand what you're doing. 485 00:20:51,918 --> 00:20:57,390 But in the future, I'd like that you respect my space. 486 00:20:58,825 --> 00:21:00,694 Thanks. 487 00:21:04,898 --> 00:21:06,066 - See? 488 00:21:06,132 --> 00:21:08,568 There's something you can talk to your therapist about.