1 00:00:14,681 --> 00:00:16,808 I don't know if I feel it. 2 00:00:19,185 --> 00:00:21,438 I think sex is important. 3 00:00:22,272 --> 00:00:25,775 I thought we could… Or I'll get over it. 4 00:00:26,276 --> 00:00:30,780 You are a great person and I care about you. I know how you feel about me. 5 00:00:30,864 --> 00:00:37,412 I thought we'd get over it jollain tavalla. 6 00:00:37,912 --> 00:00:39,622 Nyt mietin, että… 7 00:00:42,333 --> 00:00:44,335 I don't want to fake anything. 8 00:00:45,712 --> 00:00:48,631 The more we do it… 9 00:00:55,221 --> 00:00:57,182 I have not spoken to this person. 10 00:00:58,099 --> 00:01:00,685 But I've been thinking about it for the past couple of days. 11 00:01:00,769 --> 00:01:06,649 What would it be like to be with him. I was just tossing that thought around. 12 00:01:06,733 --> 00:01:08,026 Ketä tarkoitat? 13 00:01:08,109 --> 00:01:09,402 Kakkosvalintaani. 14 00:01:10,195 --> 00:01:14,032 I was just thinking about it. I share my thoughts honestly. 15 00:01:14,115 --> 00:01:15,950 I wondered what it would be like. 16 00:01:16,034 --> 00:01:18,661 I don't know, maybe it would be doomed. 17 00:01:18,745 --> 00:01:19,662 Do you know? 18 00:01:26,795 --> 00:01:29,964 That person… I'm just saying what's going on in my head. 19 00:01:30,048 --> 00:01:32,717 Yeah. This is really hard to hear. 20 00:01:32,801 --> 00:01:34,844 Clear. I thought so. 21 00:01:37,222 --> 00:01:41,392 i feel like that in these couple of days I had time to think... 22 00:01:47,023 --> 00:01:53,113 I was thinking long term. 5 to 20 years. It feels like it's hard. 23 00:01:53,196 --> 00:01:57,784 But my feelings were still genuine. 24 00:01:57,867 --> 00:02:01,329 I truly felt for you. 25 00:02:12,465 --> 00:02:15,468 I just don't… I don't want you to be sad. 26 00:02:15,552 --> 00:02:18,763 I know. -I still want to try… 27 00:02:18,847 --> 00:02:22,267 Maybe this will work out, because we have fun together. 28 00:02:26,437 --> 00:02:27,689 Right? 29 00:02:29,566 --> 00:02:32,193 I don't know how could this be any more fun. 30 00:02:32,277 --> 00:02:33,528 Oops. Clear. 31 00:02:34,737 --> 00:02:36,364 It feels really stupid. 32 00:02:36,447 --> 00:02:37,490 Why? 33 00:02:41,161 --> 00:02:42,245 Why? 34 00:02:42,328 --> 00:02:44,164 Honestly, it… 35 00:02:47,542 --> 00:02:52,547 It's amazing that you commented on that, that I don't work out every day. 36 00:02:52,630 --> 00:02:55,133 Damn it. I didn't mean it. 37 00:02:55,216 --> 00:02:57,135 That's what you said. 38 00:02:57,218 --> 00:02:59,929 I'm not trying to… -I'm just trying to shape it. 39 00:03:00,013 --> 00:03:02,765 I mean, that my previous dates did that. 40 00:03:02,849 --> 00:03:06,769 That's what I look for in a person. -I work in a hospital during the day. 41 00:03:06,853 --> 00:03:09,147 Sorry if… -I understand. 42 00:03:09,230 --> 00:03:11,482 Kerroin siitä heti rehellisesti. 43 00:03:11,566 --> 00:03:15,361 I didn't believe että käyn Pilateksessa päivittäin. 44 00:03:15,445 --> 00:03:16,404 I see. 45 00:03:16,487 --> 00:03:19,073 Tästä tuli tosi paska fiilis. 46 00:03:22,327 --> 00:03:23,870 I'm not good for you. 47 00:03:25,079 --> 00:03:27,624 Tavalla, jota en voi hallita. 48 00:03:28,958 --> 00:03:31,544 Tunnen itseni riittämättömäksi. 49 00:03:33,254 --> 00:03:36,341 Jos olisit sanonut kolme päivää sitten, that I doubt… 50 00:03:36,424 --> 00:03:38,384 Se olisi tuntunut järjettömältä. 51 00:03:38,468 --> 00:03:41,763 Olet kohdellut minua paremmin like no one else. 52 00:03:41,846 --> 00:03:46,684 You say you love me ja haluavasi tulevaisuuden kanssani. 53 00:03:46,768 --> 00:03:49,270 Tämä päivä muutti kaiken. 54 00:03:49,354 --> 00:03:55,151 I thought you were excited for me but apparently you don't. 55 00:04:00,406 --> 00:04:06,204 If my body is not good for you, I won't stay begging for your love. 56 00:04:06,287 --> 00:04:08,164 That's not what I came here for. 57 00:04:21,636 --> 00:04:23,721 I have to get home. 58 00:04:37,026 --> 00:04:40,738 Love was blind to me. I was madly in love with Chris. 59 00:04:40,822 --> 00:04:45,285 I really thought we were celebrating the rest of our lives together. 60 00:04:45,368 --> 00:04:49,539 He did a full turn and feel like a completely different person. 61 00:04:49,622 --> 00:04:52,125 I couldn't look at him the same way. 62 00:04:52,208 --> 00:04:56,045 I am extremely disappointed and really hurt. 63 00:04:56,129 --> 00:05:00,425 But I know I can do it. I always manage. I take care of myself. 64 00:05:00,508 --> 00:05:02,218 I have a wonderful life. 65 00:05:02,302 --> 00:05:05,847 I don't want to be with anyone unless he makes it better. 66 00:05:26,451 --> 00:05:29,829 I believe that love is blind. I fell in love with a person blindly. 67 00:05:29,912 --> 00:05:31,622 I always wanted to be together. 68 00:05:31,706 --> 00:05:34,876 But when we commit fornication or we put… 69 00:05:34,959 --> 00:05:39,255 Maybe it doesn't bother everyone. It is said to be 5-10% of the ratio. 70 00:05:39,339 --> 00:05:42,633 I understand that not everyone shows up good at 90 years old. 71 00:05:42,717 --> 00:05:43,760 I get it. 72 00:05:44,260 --> 00:05:45,928 But I'm not 90. 73 00:05:46,012 --> 00:05:48,556 I'm disappointed with the end result. 74 00:05:48,639 --> 00:05:52,185 He said he doesn't work out. I see. There's nothing to it. 75 00:05:52,268 --> 00:05:54,520 Mutta Bri oli kakkoseni, ja se on… 76 00:05:54,604 --> 00:05:55,938 Tiedäthän. 77 00:05:56,439 --> 00:05:59,525 Ehkä hän vetoaisi minuun enemmän. 78 00:05:59,609 --> 00:06:06,574 Ajattelin, että voisin puhua tästä tuntematta oloani huonoksi ihmiseksi. 79 00:06:06,657 --> 00:06:08,451 I was wrong. 80 00:06:08,534 --> 00:06:13,122 Jos hän ei pidä tunteistani eikä voi olla kanssani niiden pohjalta… 81 00:06:14,707 --> 00:06:15,875 Sitten se on niin. 82 00:06:24,092 --> 00:06:28,012 IS LOVE BLIND? 83 00:06:29,972 --> 00:06:32,892 Collegeasusi on sängyllä. -Näin sen. Thanks. 84 00:06:32,975 --> 00:06:36,813 Onko kivaa, kun pyykit on hoidettu? -En sano sitä ääneen. 85 00:06:36,896 --> 00:06:39,982 Kotityöt ja siisti koti on… 86 00:06:42,693 --> 00:06:46,406 Hän arvostaa elämän pieniä asioita. 87 00:06:46,906 --> 00:06:48,449 Like a clean home. 88 00:06:49,534 --> 00:06:53,121 And you appreciate me for it. - It smells good in here. Yes. 89 00:06:53,204 --> 00:06:56,791 "Positive reinforcement." -Don't defend yourself. I said so. 90 00:06:56,874 --> 00:06:59,377 You were away from me all day. -So. 91 00:06:59,460 --> 00:07:01,045 Oh no. 92 00:07:01,796 --> 00:07:04,340 What are you going to do? - I'll take care of you. 93 00:07:04,424 --> 00:07:07,260 What will you do when I leave again tomorrow? 94 00:07:07,343 --> 00:07:08,344 I'm crying. 95 00:07:08,428 --> 00:07:13,057 Maybe you earn so much, that I can stay at home. 96 00:07:13,141 --> 00:07:14,976 I'll stay here forever. 97 00:07:16,727 --> 00:07:21,482 I guess I don't have to go to the office before the wedding. 98 00:07:21,566 --> 00:07:23,067 But maybe after that. 99 00:07:23,151 --> 00:07:25,653 What? Do you go to the office? -Once a month. 100 00:07:26,154 --> 00:07:29,657 We meet once a month with the ladder. 101 00:07:30,575 --> 00:07:32,869 When you hugged me… 102 00:07:34,704 --> 00:07:38,374 For God's sake. You're quite the cutie. 103 00:07:39,333 --> 00:07:41,252 I'll do what's needed. -Clear. 104 00:07:41,335 --> 00:07:43,045 It's that efficiency. 105 00:07:43,129 --> 00:07:45,173 And delegation. -True. 106 00:07:45,256 --> 00:07:48,968 We delegate our housework too. 107 00:07:49,969 --> 00:07:52,263 I have to admit… - We take care of huusholli. 108 00:07:52,346 --> 00:07:54,807 Do you realize that? We cook in the evening. 109 00:07:54,891 --> 00:07:57,477 Our first dinner in this apartment. 110 00:07:58,227 --> 00:07:59,729 Now it's squeaking. 111 00:07:59,812 --> 00:08:01,189 Yeah, baby. 112 00:08:01,272 --> 00:08:03,733 Are you careful? -I am. 113 00:08:09,322 --> 00:08:11,908 Now. - Maybe we'll change the instrument. 114 00:08:11,991 --> 00:08:14,744 Is this butter? It's hard as a rock. 115 00:08:14,827 --> 00:08:17,288 Does it need to be heated? - Yes, probably. 116 00:08:19,749 --> 00:08:21,042 Connor. 117 00:08:21,125 --> 00:08:22,293 It's plastic. 118 00:08:22,376 --> 00:08:24,504 20 seconds is fine! 119 00:08:24,587 --> 00:08:28,174 I just look away. I get cancer with you. 120 00:08:28,257 --> 00:08:29,800 Good lord… 121 00:08:29,884 --> 00:08:31,886 Maybe I'm a bit of an idiot sometimes. 122 00:08:33,763 --> 00:08:37,099 I'm secretly thinking that you are the father figure of the brotherhood. 123 00:08:37,183 --> 00:08:40,019 Neither do I. I wasn't even part of a fraternity. 124 00:08:40,102 --> 00:08:41,562 It would have been worth it. 125 00:08:42,146 --> 00:08:44,690 But you can do it in your thirties. 126 00:08:44,774 --> 00:08:46,651 You are pretty… - Nose? 127 00:08:46,734 --> 00:08:47,902 Yeah. -Yeah. 128 00:08:47,985 --> 00:08:50,488 Sometimes a bit mean. -Clear. 129 00:08:50,571 --> 00:08:53,491 I need ice… - Do you see? Now it started to snow. 130 00:08:53,574 --> 00:08:54,784 i love you 131 00:08:54,867 --> 00:08:56,744 You're doing great, honey. 132 00:08:57,620 --> 00:08:59,038 See what you can do. 133 00:08:59,664 --> 00:09:01,666 A clean room. 134 00:09:02,166 --> 00:09:03,751 Look now. He cooks! 135 00:09:03,834 --> 00:09:05,753 He's got the job in hand. 136 00:09:06,420 --> 00:09:10,466 Come on. I'm kinder. That's true. That was good feedback. 137 00:09:10,550 --> 00:09:12,009 But whatever... 138 00:09:12,510 --> 00:09:14,554 I just got a message from Jess. 139 00:09:15,054 --> 00:09:16,889 I got a message from Chris. 140 00:09:21,352 --> 00:09:22,687 What? - I don't know. 141 00:09:23,354 --> 00:09:25,398 Did he say he was going home? 142 00:09:25,481 --> 00:09:26,774 No. 143 00:09:29,860 --> 00:09:31,320 I'll ask a little more. 144 00:09:31,946 --> 00:09:36,242 Chris will probably want to chat after that. 145 00:09:38,202 --> 00:09:39,203 Wow. 146 00:09:39,287 --> 00:09:42,456 We are good friends to our friends. 147 00:09:46,210 --> 00:09:48,379 14 DAYS TO THE WEDDING 148 00:09:53,217 --> 00:09:55,219 Are you embarrassing me? -Yes. 149 00:09:55,303 --> 00:09:56,887 We'll see. 150 00:09:56,971 --> 00:09:58,139 You are too strong. 151 00:10:01,100 --> 00:10:02,602 And not! 152 00:10:02,685 --> 00:10:04,020 Did we make a bet? 153 00:10:04,854 --> 00:10:07,189 It's good now. You let me win. 154 00:10:07,690 --> 00:10:09,317 I'm a bad loser. 155 00:10:11,569 --> 00:10:12,778 Perfect. 156 00:10:12,862 --> 00:10:14,488 are you nice to me -Yeah. 157 00:10:14,572 --> 00:10:17,158 You get one hole. -I want them all. 158 00:10:17,241 --> 00:10:19,827 I cheated that too well. -Yes. 159 00:10:20,578 --> 00:10:21,621 Good shot. 160 00:10:21,704 --> 00:10:23,331 He came back. -I didn't go. 161 00:10:24,332 --> 00:10:25,333 You just have to. 162 00:10:25,416 --> 00:10:30,087 Our first quarrel was trying. But we are unchanged again. 163 00:10:30,671 --> 00:10:32,256 There is. - Impressive. 164 00:10:32,340 --> 00:10:33,591 You like me. -Yes. 165 00:10:33,674 --> 00:10:35,760 He likes me. - That's true. 166 00:10:35,843 --> 00:10:37,261 You look nice. 167 00:10:37,762 --> 00:10:39,055 Give it. 168 00:10:39,138 --> 00:10:40,765 I have been lacking. 169 00:10:40,848 --> 00:10:45,436 Based on tonight, it's likely that my needs are met. 170 00:10:46,437 --> 00:10:48,314 Maybe they were already answered. 171 00:10:49,148 --> 00:10:51,567 This has to be put in the hole. -Yes. 172 00:10:51,651 --> 00:10:53,486 Don't tell my parents. 173 00:10:53,986 --> 00:10:55,655 Good pace. Great. 174 00:10:56,238 --> 00:10:57,490 Give a little… 175 00:11:02,870 --> 00:11:05,706 Where are we baby? - I work there. 176 00:11:05,790 --> 00:11:07,792 Could I come to lunch with you? 177 00:11:07,875 --> 00:11:10,961 Necessarily. -Really? We sit outside. 178 00:11:11,587 --> 00:11:16,175 It's cool to see Vic caught up in everyday life. 179 00:11:16,258 --> 00:11:18,094 Dr. St. John. 180 00:11:18,886 --> 00:11:20,429 These will be switched on. 181 00:11:20,513 --> 00:11:23,516 They hear a voice. I teach them and they refer. 182 00:11:23,599 --> 00:11:26,894 I'll come sit in the corner one day. 183 00:11:26,977 --> 00:11:31,565 I want to show him too everything I love in my life. 184 00:11:31,649 --> 00:11:33,651 It's all what brought me here. 185 00:11:34,902 --> 00:11:38,739 Where are we going? You don't have to look as you drive. 186 00:11:38,823 --> 00:11:40,741 We're going to Hillsboro, Ohio. 187 00:11:40,825 --> 00:11:42,702 Hillsboro, Ohio. 188 00:11:42,785 --> 00:11:44,912 Yes, hometown. 189 00:11:44,995 --> 00:11:46,163 Home town. 190 00:11:46,247 --> 00:11:48,249 Do you want to show the scenery? 191 00:11:48,332 --> 00:11:50,918 I'll show you where we are. 192 00:11:51,001 --> 00:11:54,630 If I disappear into the countryside, you get the idea. 193 00:11:54,714 --> 00:11:56,048 This is a big deal. 194 00:11:56,132 --> 00:11:59,844 I'm not bringing anyone to my hometown to see my childhood landscapes. 195 00:11:59,927 --> 00:12:02,221 We're almost there. - I'm excited. 196 00:12:02,304 --> 00:12:03,806 Horse carriage on the sign. 197 00:12:03,889 --> 00:12:06,976 I was insecure and embarrassed about my hometown. 198 00:12:07,059 --> 00:12:09,395 Here's a cow killed in a tornado. 199 00:12:09,478 --> 00:12:12,231 In the air? Like in the movies? 200 00:12:12,314 --> 00:12:16,777 Partly I wonder if I am enough for him. 201 00:12:16,861 --> 00:12:18,654 "Why would he choose me?" 202 00:12:18,738 --> 00:12:20,364 We are in your hometown. 203 00:12:20,865 --> 00:12:22,575 If you want to say so. 204 00:12:26,829 --> 00:12:32,501 What was the best thing about your childhood here? 205 00:12:33,002 --> 00:12:35,713 What made you who you are now? 206 00:12:37,923 --> 00:12:40,801 I played outside and got to be a kid. 207 00:12:41,302 --> 00:12:45,848 We entertained ourselves, we explored, learned and grew. 208 00:12:45,931 --> 00:12:48,350 Things work here differently than in the city. 209 00:12:48,434 --> 00:12:49,518 So. 210 00:12:57,151 --> 00:13:00,321 We sipped beer and we sat in the back of the car. 211 00:13:00,404 --> 00:13:02,531 We hung out in the parking lot of the bowling alley. 212 00:13:02,615 --> 00:13:04,074 Let's go bowling. 213 00:13:04,158 --> 00:13:06,535 Are you good at bowling? -For real. 214 00:13:07,203 --> 00:13:08,537 Is that where you were born? 215 00:13:08,621 --> 00:13:10,039 That's where Christine was born. 216 00:13:10,539 --> 00:13:13,000 Give them to it. - Come on, jerk. 217 00:13:16,045 --> 00:13:19,215 First encounter with a horse. -So. 218 00:13:19,715 --> 00:13:21,801 Hello, honey. - Beautiful. 219 00:13:21,884 --> 00:13:24,595 I can see him throwing himself into this. 220 00:13:25,763 --> 00:13:28,265 He immediately felt at home. 221 00:13:28,349 --> 00:13:31,101 I'm safe and happy with him. 222 00:13:31,185 --> 00:13:33,938 You put flannel on. -Yes. 223 00:13:45,908 --> 00:13:47,493 Hey, mom. 224 00:13:47,576 --> 00:13:50,371 Nice to see. This is Amber. -Likewise. Amber. 225 00:13:50,454 --> 00:13:52,498 Nice to meet you. -Same words. 226 00:13:52,581 --> 00:13:56,126 We brought a small gift. - Jeez. You guys are wonderful. 227 00:13:56,210 --> 00:13:58,796 Of course you brought a gift. -You like plants. 228 00:13:58,879 --> 00:14:01,465 I love plants. Lovely. 229 00:14:01,549 --> 00:14:02,925 You look really pretty. 230 00:14:03,008 --> 00:14:04,426 Cute. - I like your outfit. 231 00:14:04,510 --> 00:14:05,928 Thanks. 232 00:14:06,011 --> 00:14:07,429 Are you showing the ring? 233 00:14:07,513 --> 00:14:09,223 Yukra. It's beautiful. 234 00:14:09,306 --> 00:14:10,307 Thanks. -Nice. 235 00:14:10,391 --> 00:14:11,517 He chose well. 236 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:12,852 Very pretty. 237 00:14:12,935 --> 00:14:15,646 Jordan is our little baby brother. 238 00:14:15,729 --> 00:14:18,315 We are like mother hens. -Yes. 239 00:14:18,399 --> 00:14:21,652 I babysat you as a child. You were mean and pulled my hair. 240 00:14:21,735 --> 00:14:23,404 So… -Oh my god. 241 00:14:23,487 --> 00:14:25,739 You were really mean to me. - Sorry. 242 00:14:27,616 --> 00:14:30,160 How old is your daughter? -Seven. 243 00:14:30,244 --> 00:14:33,455 My son turns seven in April. - That's what I heard. 244 00:14:33,539 --> 00:14:37,001 We both have sons. To them, Jordan is "funny eno". 245 00:14:37,084 --> 00:14:38,419 So. 246 00:14:38,502 --> 00:14:41,171 They beat him and climb on him. 247 00:14:41,255 --> 00:14:42,965 Yeah. -So. 248 00:14:43,048 --> 00:14:45,467 Did you meet Emma? - I don't. 249 00:14:45,551 --> 00:14:50,556 I only met Matti, Emma's father. It went well. 250 00:14:50,639 --> 00:14:51,640 Good. -Awesome. 251 00:14:51,724 --> 00:14:55,519 Will you ever have children together? 252 00:14:55,603 --> 00:14:56,729 We talked about it. 253 00:14:57,313 --> 00:15:00,232 Even if you don't have children, you would be a great dad. 254 00:15:00,316 --> 00:15:01,317 That's true. 255 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:05,571 I haven't met anyone else, with whom I would like to have children. 256 00:15:06,155 --> 00:15:07,323 Oh that. 257 00:15:07,406 --> 00:15:09,700 How does it feel to meet Emma? 258 00:15:09,783 --> 00:15:11,076 I look forward to it. 259 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:14,288 It's a bit exciting. What if the girl doesn't like me. 260 00:15:14,371 --> 00:15:16,081 It's not possible. 261 00:15:16,165 --> 00:15:19,793 Did you know he has a CPAP machine before Cabo? 262 00:15:19,877 --> 00:15:21,712 Yeah. - Didn't he surprise you? 263 00:15:21,795 --> 00:15:25,591 Suddenly Darth Vader is lying next to him. 264 00:15:26,175 --> 00:15:28,302 He sees it every morning. 265 00:15:28,385 --> 00:15:31,221 That was the highlight of the day. -Oh my god. 266 00:15:31,305 --> 00:15:33,766 I also like to ride his back. -What? 267 00:15:33,849 --> 00:15:35,935 That's true love. 268 00:15:36,018 --> 00:15:38,395 He's a furry guy. -Indeed. 269 00:15:38,479 --> 00:15:41,148 Do what you have to. - Do you shave his butt too? 270 00:16:07,174 --> 00:16:08,801 Is it bad? -No… 271 00:16:08,884 --> 00:16:11,762 Why would I sneeze here if it's bad? 272 00:16:13,597 --> 00:16:16,725 I hope you like it. I only tasted the broccoli. 273 00:16:18,936 --> 00:16:21,647 Thanks for cooking. -Please. 274 00:16:22,231 --> 00:16:24,024 Chicken is good. - Is it? 275 00:16:24,858 --> 00:16:27,820 It is semi-ripe today. 276 00:16:30,322 --> 00:16:32,116 A chicken? 277 00:16:32,199 --> 00:16:34,076 Are you trying to kill us? 278 00:16:34,576 --> 00:16:36,453 We won't live until the wedding. 279 00:16:36,537 --> 00:16:38,038 We are terminally ill. 280 00:16:38,122 --> 00:16:40,165 I want to look slim in my suit. 281 00:16:40,249 --> 00:16:43,335 Let's get Big Macs in the evening. It was a joke. 282 00:16:43,836 --> 00:16:47,715 Your eyes. You haven't looked at me like that after disclosure. 283 00:16:49,133 --> 00:16:51,969 "Help, what do I do?" 284 00:16:52,052 --> 00:16:54,430 Does it feel like it's been a long time? -Yeah. 285 00:16:54,513 --> 00:16:56,640 We did it blindly. 286 00:16:57,141 --> 00:16:59,685 Do I cover my face so you can't see it? 287 00:16:59,768 --> 00:17:02,187 We pretend to be in agreement. 288 00:17:04,398 --> 00:17:06,150 Oh damn. 289 00:17:07,735 --> 00:17:11,447 This is inconvenient, but… 290 00:17:13,741 --> 00:17:17,745 I don't feel as safe with you as agreed. 291 00:17:19,163 --> 00:17:23,417 I don't like that you don't praise me. I don't know if I am attracted to you. 292 00:17:23,500 --> 00:17:25,919 You only compliment my clothes. 293 00:17:26,003 --> 00:17:30,591 I get reassurance from compliments, that you find me attractive. 294 00:17:30,674 --> 00:17:32,217 And you want me. 295 00:17:32,301 --> 00:17:35,095 I don't always feel that way. 296 00:17:35,179 --> 00:17:41,060 When I complimented your swimmers in Cabo, I started to open up. 297 00:17:41,143 --> 00:17:45,898 I don't remember exactly. But you said I wouldn't praise you as beautiful. 298 00:17:45,981 --> 00:17:48,233 Inwardly I thought, 299 00:17:48,317 --> 00:17:51,779 that I don't want to say it anymore because patties. 300 00:17:51,862 --> 00:17:55,115 My compliments would no longer feel genuine. 301 00:17:55,991 --> 00:17:58,535 If I seem distant or I avoid contact, 302 00:17:58,619 --> 00:18:00,913 it's because I put up a wall. 303 00:18:00,996 --> 00:18:07,711 Now I feel like I'm doing it on command. I thought you criticized it right away. 304 00:18:07,795 --> 00:18:11,548 When I comment or praise something, 305 00:18:11,632 --> 00:18:15,552 it would be easier if you didn't criticize. 306 00:18:15,636 --> 00:18:18,263 I'm going on the defensive. 307 00:18:18,347 --> 00:18:22,893 I think there's no point in trying if I don't get the same back. 308 00:18:22,976 --> 00:18:29,691 So. That's why it's good to talk about it like this. Instead of poking. 309 00:18:29,775 --> 00:18:33,445 You can ask if everything is fine, and ensure that… 310 00:18:33,529 --> 00:18:40,202 I feel better talking than just criticizing. 311 00:18:40,285 --> 00:18:44,331 We'll get over this easily and we came up with a solution. 312 00:18:44,414 --> 00:18:46,125 But it would help me. 313 00:18:46,208 --> 00:18:49,419 I know it would help you that I will do it. 314 00:18:49,503 --> 00:18:51,630 I say that so… 315 00:18:53,924 --> 00:18:57,094 I guess I need to stop projecting - 316 00:18:58,303 --> 00:19:01,932 the insecurities of my past relationships to you. 317 00:19:02,015 --> 00:19:08,772 That means I have too there is work to be done outside of our relationship. 318 00:19:08,856 --> 00:19:10,107 So. 319 00:19:10,691 --> 00:19:12,025 But I hear you. 320 00:19:12,943 --> 00:19:18,240 I try not to project my pain onto you. 321 00:19:18,323 --> 00:19:19,741 Thanks. 322 00:19:20,242 --> 00:19:22,411 I know it's not easy. 323 00:19:22,494 --> 00:19:24,663 This was therapeutic. 324 00:19:24,746 --> 00:19:29,001 Apparently both have had dams, which we haven't talked about. 325 00:19:30,043 --> 00:19:31,628 But it explains a lot. 326 00:19:33,046 --> 00:19:36,925 So. I think you're really pretty. 327 00:19:37,009 --> 00:19:39,678 i like it that you are naturally beautiful. 328 00:19:39,761 --> 00:19:42,890 I don't care about makeup. I'm a simple man. 329 00:19:42,973 --> 00:19:48,437 I think it's beautiful that you are beautiful in your own skin. 330 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:51,440 I like your eyelashes. They are gorgeous. 331 00:19:52,691 --> 00:19:55,986 I like your soft curls. 332 00:19:56,069 --> 00:19:57,613 You have a nice height. 333 00:19:57,696 --> 00:19:59,239 For real? 334 00:19:59,823 --> 00:20:02,784 Yeah, because I can hide my treats to the big closet. 335 00:20:02,868 --> 00:20:04,077 Right. 336 00:20:04,161 --> 00:20:06,330 It's really charming. 337 00:20:07,331 --> 00:20:09,291 And your smile is contagious. 338 00:20:11,460 --> 00:20:13,795 Thank you. -Please. 339 00:20:14,379 --> 00:20:15,464 Thanks. 340 00:20:22,930 --> 00:20:24,473 12 DAYS TO THE WEDDING 341 00:20:25,557 --> 00:20:27,768 What man? -Night. 342 00:20:27,851 --> 00:20:29,269 How is it going? -Healthy. 343 00:20:29,770 --> 00:20:32,439 Are you staying together? - Nice to see you. Yeah. 344 00:20:33,690 --> 00:20:35,442 Tell me. 345 00:20:35,525 --> 00:20:37,027 He doesn't want to continue anymore. 346 00:20:37,861 --> 00:20:43,200 I don't know if there is a physical connection yet, and can it grow. 347 00:20:43,700 --> 00:20:46,036 But he is attractive to you. Right? 348 00:20:47,037 --> 00:20:49,831 Yeah. She is beautiful. -Good looking. 349 00:20:49,915 --> 00:20:51,833 But I tried to be honest. 350 00:20:51,917 --> 00:20:54,920 I guess he didn't take it well. 351 00:20:55,003 --> 00:20:56,838 Not at all. 352 00:20:56,922 --> 00:20:59,007 And I didn't say I wanted to quit. 353 00:20:59,091 --> 00:21:00,968 Did he want to stop? 354 00:21:01,051 --> 00:21:03,553 Yeah. I guess so. 355 00:21:04,054 --> 00:21:06,848 Did he say that? -That's what it sounded like. 356 00:21:06,932 --> 00:21:08,934 Sounded, but not directly? -Yeah. 357 00:21:09,017 --> 00:21:11,728 So there it is… Did you try to pursue him? 358 00:21:13,397 --> 00:21:16,608 He basically said, can't bear to be near me. 359 00:21:22,281 --> 00:21:25,242 It's sad. - I didn't say I wanted to quit. 360 00:21:25,325 --> 00:21:27,619 I said we have work to do. 361 00:21:27,703 --> 00:21:31,707 He thinks that I am not fully involved in this. 362 00:21:31,790 --> 00:21:35,043 You talked for 50 hours. -Yes, literally. 363 00:21:35,127 --> 00:21:37,671 And it went well in Cabo. Did you have fun? 364 00:21:37,754 --> 00:21:42,050 It's bound to be fun there. -But it's more fun with a partner. 365 00:21:42,134 --> 00:21:44,511 That's what I mean. -Cabo is always fun. 366 00:21:44,594 --> 00:21:47,889 But it feels special with your own gold. 367 00:21:48,390 --> 00:21:49,766 So… 368 00:21:50,726 --> 00:21:52,561 Yeah. Oh my god. 369 00:21:52,644 --> 00:21:54,980 I appreciate that. I just… 370 00:21:55,063 --> 00:21:57,649 You are a great match. I thought about that too. 371 00:21:57,733 --> 00:22:01,153 It's frustrating, because I saw how you loved each other. 372 00:22:01,236 --> 00:22:04,281 And there is definitely still love. 373 00:22:04,364 --> 00:22:09,578 He was also a good friend of Bri. You are both important friends. 374 00:22:09,661 --> 00:22:13,874 We want you to be well and you stay together. 375 00:22:13,957 --> 00:22:17,002 You do what's best for you. 376 00:22:18,462 --> 00:22:23,842 Yeah. Couples always argue. Too bad it got to this point. 377 00:22:23,925 --> 00:22:26,219 I don't know. Maybe you wait a couple of days. 378 00:22:26,303 --> 00:22:27,804 Yeah, I guess… 379 00:22:27,888 --> 00:22:32,559 Maybe you send him a letter. Not just a message. 380 00:22:32,642 --> 00:22:36,396 You tell why you feel the way you do. 381 00:22:36,980 --> 00:22:39,232 You're not just here for form. 382 00:22:39,316 --> 00:22:41,485 So. -That you still want to continue. 383 00:22:41,568 --> 00:22:44,696 You say in style, that above all you want to continue. 384 00:22:44,780 --> 00:22:47,908 Write down your feelings honestly. 385 00:22:48,575 --> 00:22:52,537 If you put your all into it, at least you can sleep at night. 386 00:22:56,041 --> 00:23:00,295 I like the idea. I will take your advice. 387 00:23:00,379 --> 00:23:03,340 Of course. Call if you need anything. 388 00:23:03,423 --> 00:23:04,674 Yeah. -Let me know. 389 00:23:04,758 --> 00:23:07,260 Maybe we'll go For a double date with Jess. 390 00:23:07,344 --> 00:23:08,345 Hopefully. 391 00:23:08,428 --> 00:23:10,972 If I see Jessi, i tell him to talk to you. 392 00:23:11,056 --> 00:23:12,724 "You guys are lovely." 393 00:23:13,225 --> 00:23:14,393 Sure did. 394 00:23:14,476 --> 00:23:16,520 We encourage you. -Clear. See you. 395 00:23:19,314 --> 00:23:21,400 Write down your thoughts. - Yep. 396 00:23:29,116 --> 00:23:31,410 Hello! - There's my son. 397 00:23:31,493 --> 00:23:35,247 Such a place. This is my fiance Ashley. 398 00:23:35,330 --> 00:23:36,540 Jeez. -Hello. 399 00:23:36,623 --> 00:23:39,000 Ashley, this is my mom. - Nice to meet you. 400 00:23:39,084 --> 00:23:41,503 Same words. -I've heard a lot about you. 401 00:23:41,586 --> 00:23:44,297 I heard a little about you. It's a beautiful color. 402 00:23:44,381 --> 00:23:46,967 Thanks. Welcome to our home. 403 00:23:47,551 --> 00:23:49,010 Where are you from? 404 00:23:49,094 --> 00:23:52,597 You were in Arizona or Montana, when we called. It was new. 405 00:23:52,681 --> 00:23:54,015 This is how it is. 406 00:23:54,099 --> 00:23:56,810 I was in Arizona when you called. -I said it. 407 00:23:56,893 --> 00:23:59,896 He travels around. You are alike. 408 00:23:59,980 --> 00:24:03,608 Yes. I may have instilled it in my son. Sorry. 409 00:24:03,692 --> 00:24:05,110 No problem. 410 00:24:05,193 --> 00:24:07,654 So you drive a delivery truck? -Yes. 411 00:24:07,737 --> 00:24:11,950 I drive a semi-trailer combination… - Jeez. 412 00:24:12,033 --> 00:24:12,951 Pretty wild. 413 00:24:13,034 --> 00:24:14,619 Yeah. - Shall we sit down? 414 00:24:14,703 --> 00:24:18,373 I test drove tractors for a while To Alaska and back. 415 00:24:18,957 --> 00:24:22,002 It's beautiful. Did you put it together, Ashley? -Yes. 416 00:24:22,085 --> 00:24:24,379 Well, do you drive fast? 417 00:24:24,463 --> 00:24:25,714 I don't. -Would you like to? 418 00:24:25,797 --> 00:24:29,009 I was pretty much on board. I haven't driven myself. 419 00:24:29,092 --> 00:24:30,969 I inherited it from my mother. -So. 420 00:24:31,052 --> 00:24:33,096 We are traveling and changing places. 421 00:24:33,180 --> 00:24:37,309 Experiences are important to me. Things are not important. 422 00:24:37,392 --> 00:24:42,606 I know we live our lives a little differently than many others. 423 00:24:42,689 --> 00:24:47,360 Although living as a nomad is kind of trending. 424 00:24:47,444 --> 00:24:50,363 I don't know. Have you traveled a lot? 425 00:24:50,447 --> 00:24:54,659 I don't. That appealed to Alex. I haven't traveled much. 426 00:24:54,743 --> 00:24:57,537 I always wanted to travel and explore places. 427 00:24:57,621 --> 00:25:02,000 He likes to explore. I supported him in that. Absolutely. It's worth traveling now. 428 00:25:02,083 --> 00:25:05,962 We thought about settling down to either Arizona or Florida. 429 00:25:06,046 --> 00:25:08,340 Will he be able to live in one place… 430 00:25:08,423 --> 00:25:10,091 Yeah, better than me. 431 00:25:10,175 --> 00:25:13,428 He likes to plan. I'm planning too, but... 432 00:25:13,512 --> 00:25:16,431 I'm a Virgo. I don't go with the flow. I plan. 433 00:25:16,515 --> 00:25:18,600 It's not a weakness. -So. 434 00:25:18,683 --> 00:25:22,187 The question is how it fits together with the partner. 435 00:25:22,270 --> 00:25:24,064 He complements it well. 436 00:25:24,147 --> 00:25:28,235 He looks at me and says, that everything will be alright. "Shut up." 437 00:25:28,318 --> 00:25:31,571 Yours truly. -I usually say: "Okay." 438 00:25:32,155 --> 00:25:35,534 He yelled at me, because I organized the water bottles in the fridge. 439 00:25:35,617 --> 00:25:36,952 Let's format again. 440 00:25:37,035 --> 00:25:40,372 I found them. - I already lined them up. 441 00:25:40,455 --> 00:25:43,416 Wow! I'm impressed. - I know. I was too. 442 00:25:43,500 --> 00:25:46,336 I opened the door and I noticed he had moved them. 443 00:25:46,419 --> 00:25:49,548 I take comfort in that. I clean when I'm stressed. 444 00:25:49,631 --> 00:25:51,883 Do you expect that from him? Or… - I don't. 445 00:25:51,967 --> 00:25:57,180 That's what I was thinking too. Because I thought I'd see trouble. 446 00:25:57,264 --> 00:26:00,392 You have to give for him to be himself. 447 00:26:00,475 --> 00:26:03,395 That's what we talked about. - It's new. We live together. 448 00:26:03,478 --> 00:26:07,399 We have to be flexible… -We learn each other's language. 449 00:26:07,482 --> 00:26:09,985 Especially if we get married. -So. 450 00:26:11,361 --> 00:26:12,821 Awesome. 451 00:26:14,698 --> 00:26:18,994 I'll let you enjoy the treats. I'll see you in a moment. 452 00:26:19,077 --> 00:26:21,496 I'm a truck driver. I can't get real food. 453 00:26:23,456 --> 00:26:26,626 What were they like Alex's previous girlfriends? 454 00:26:28,128 --> 00:26:30,964 Let's talk directly between the girls. -Yeah. 455 00:26:31,047 --> 00:26:35,468 I don't know, He told about his last serious relationship. 456 00:26:35,552 --> 00:26:38,972 He gave it too many chances. 457 00:26:39,055 --> 00:26:40,557 I have done the same. -So. 458 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:42,892 And… -Was the woman in Chicago? 459 00:26:42,976 --> 00:26:45,645 Yeah. There was hold in him. -Clear. 460 00:26:45,729 --> 00:26:49,566 Was she a nurse, who would they go to australia with? 461 00:26:49,649 --> 00:26:51,735 No. -Because I just heard… 462 00:26:52,319 --> 00:26:54,988 Now there are two of them. Nurse and Chicago. 463 00:26:55,071 --> 00:26:56,656 I thought they were the same. 464 00:26:56,740 --> 00:26:57,657 No. 465 00:26:57,741 --> 00:27:00,535 He doesn't like to talk about his past. 466 00:27:00,619 --> 00:27:01,995 I do understand. 467 00:27:02,078 --> 00:27:04,581 He's had a tough… - Yes? 468 00:27:04,664 --> 00:27:10,795 Women have not been genuine, honest and loyal. 469 00:27:10,879 --> 00:27:12,172 So. -So... 470 00:27:12,255 --> 00:27:16,384 Have you seen anything disturbing? 471 00:27:16,885 --> 00:27:21,848 I analyze the timeline the most. 472 00:27:21,931 --> 00:27:24,142 His timeline is insane. 473 00:27:24,225 --> 00:27:26,061 I don't know where to live. 474 00:27:26,144 --> 00:27:29,481 I will try to explain it, when I meet my girlfriends. 475 00:27:29,564 --> 00:27:33,610 They are amazed and I can't explain. 476 00:27:33,693 --> 00:27:37,489 he knows that his story is hard to follow. 477 00:27:37,572 --> 00:27:39,616 So. -And the same goes for me. 478 00:27:39,699 --> 00:27:43,078 People's heads just… They're right down the alley. 479 00:27:43,787 --> 00:27:47,290 I guess he's finally going to die his lost football career. 480 00:27:47,374 --> 00:27:51,795 It was a big part of his life. -He is passionate about coaching. 481 00:27:51,878 --> 00:27:55,256 My one concern is that we are moving away. 482 00:27:55,340 --> 00:27:58,593 we have talked that he would do financial work. 483 00:27:58,677 --> 00:28:01,012 He doesn't want to do it. -Absolutely. 484 00:28:01,096 --> 00:28:05,558 It must be tough to rethink his life. 485 00:28:05,642 --> 00:28:07,602 I'm about to cry. 486 00:28:07,686 --> 00:28:09,187 I'm sorry. 487 00:28:17,612 --> 00:28:24,119 I would like him to coach, because he has a lot to offer. 488 00:28:26,079 --> 00:28:28,081 He loved that sport. 489 00:28:31,751 --> 00:28:37,757 And I think he needs to something a little more free. 490 00:28:37,841 --> 00:28:40,260 Something other than office work. 491 00:28:40,343 --> 00:28:43,888 It's not his business. -Yeah. 492 00:28:45,056 --> 00:28:48,727 What is the most difficult trial in your life? 493 00:28:48,810 --> 00:28:50,854 Probably my previous relationship. 494 00:28:50,937 --> 00:28:55,275 My friends and family saw how i lost myself 495 00:28:55,775 --> 00:28:58,903 I was a bright and sparkling person. 496 00:28:58,987 --> 00:29:02,991 I was bubbly, smart, intelligent, determined, beautiful inside and out. 497 00:29:03,074 --> 00:29:05,702 I was completely sucked in. 498 00:29:05,785 --> 00:29:08,747 I'm no longer dating potential. I don't marry potential. 499 00:29:08,830 --> 00:29:11,291 I haven't felt that way with Alex. 500 00:29:11,374 --> 00:29:14,127 For him, it's not a potential. 501 00:29:14,210 --> 00:29:16,337 Nice to hear. -He is himself. 502 00:29:16,421 --> 00:29:19,424 I fell in love with him through the wall. 503 00:29:19,507 --> 00:29:23,595 That's crazy to say out loud. He showed what kind of man he is. 504 00:29:23,678 --> 00:29:27,599 What a protector and provider he is for me and our family. 505 00:29:27,682 --> 00:29:32,103 No one has chosen me completely unquestioned. 506 00:29:32,187 --> 00:29:35,482 Alex chose me as his only priority. 507 00:29:35,565 --> 00:29:38,485 I appreciate those things. - That's how he is. 508 00:29:38,568 --> 00:29:40,737 How is it going? -Very. 509 00:29:40,820 --> 00:29:42,947 He avoids. It was a joke. 510 00:29:43,031 --> 00:29:46,242 We will be besties. We're just talking about you, and… 511 00:29:46,326 --> 00:29:48,244 I'm going golfing. 512 00:29:49,245 --> 00:29:51,206 Alex wants to settle down. 513 00:29:51,289 --> 00:29:54,292 He hardly gives up from traveling and exploring. 514 00:29:54,375 --> 00:29:59,506 But she misses something, which would bring security and stability. 515 00:29:59,589 --> 00:30:01,841 Ashley would make a wonderful daughter-in-law. 516 00:30:01,925 --> 00:30:06,346 Virgo and Pisces can get along. It is one of the good… 517 00:30:06,429 --> 00:30:08,264 They can. -Absolutely. 518 00:30:19,275 --> 00:30:21,194 Where is my family? 519 00:30:21,277 --> 00:30:22,821 I'm so excited! 520 00:30:22,904 --> 00:30:24,572 You've been a nerve. - I know. 521 00:30:26,366 --> 00:30:27,742 Hello! 522 00:30:31,663 --> 00:30:32,914 Mike meets my family. 523 00:30:32,997 --> 00:30:38,628 Mike meets the whole gang. My parents and sister. 524 00:30:38,711 --> 00:30:40,672 This is Mike. -Nice to meet you. 525 00:30:40,755 --> 00:30:41,756 Nice to meet you. 526 00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,259 He will be tested by everyone. 527 00:30:44,342 --> 00:30:47,428 Hi, Mike. Likewise. -Nice to meet you. 528 00:30:47,512 --> 00:30:49,973 How is it going? -Nice to meet you. I'm Geoff. 529 00:30:50,056 --> 00:30:51,724 Mike, nice to meet you. -Likewise. 530 00:30:51,808 --> 00:30:53,393 Shall we sit down? -Yeah. 531 00:30:53,476 --> 00:30:55,979 You can sit on it next to my notebook. 532 00:30:56,062 --> 00:30:58,314 Did he tell… -Yes. 533 00:30:58,398 --> 00:31:00,233 I asked if I would be put on the torture bench. 534 00:31:00,316 --> 00:31:01,401 Yes. -Yeah. 535 00:31:02,694 --> 00:31:06,781 I value balance in marriage. 536 00:31:07,365 --> 00:31:12,370 What weak points could you fill? 537 00:31:12,453 --> 00:31:16,374 I think I can ground him. - Great. 538 00:31:16,457 --> 00:31:19,252 You should have seen how he excited your coming. 539 00:31:19,335 --> 00:31:21,754 Really? - We get nervous. 540 00:31:21,838 --> 00:31:23,923 We're good at getting nervous. 541 00:31:24,007 --> 00:31:28,553 Women need grounding. We all have that kind of person. 542 00:31:28,636 --> 00:31:32,932 That was the biggest differentiating factor. Mike grounded me in agreement. 543 00:31:33,016 --> 00:31:36,185 We met and I said I was stressed. 544 00:31:36,269 --> 00:31:37,478 Awesome. 545 00:31:37,562 --> 00:31:40,690 Our communication has been wonderful. -That's good. 546 00:31:40,773 --> 00:31:47,363 We talked about children. He challenged me to think about it more. 547 00:31:47,447 --> 00:31:51,075 I wonder why I don't want children. 548 00:31:51,910 --> 00:31:54,913 First of all, I have no maternal instincts. - That too. 549 00:31:58,666 --> 00:32:01,920 But I think… - It's there. Please take care of Monch. 550 00:32:02,003 --> 00:32:06,174 It's a different thing to take care of a dog like children. 551 00:32:06,257 --> 00:32:09,510 You know what I mean. You still have to take care of the dog. 552 00:32:09,594 --> 00:32:14,098 There are runs, schedules, feeding... -And you can't leave the dog for a long time. 553 00:32:14,182 --> 00:32:16,893 I am strongly… - Yes. Not as a puppy. 554 00:32:16,976 --> 00:32:19,687 I always wanted to be a mother. I have two children. 555 00:32:19,771 --> 00:32:22,106 Sometimes I wake up and wonder why… 556 00:32:22,190 --> 00:32:24,067 He said it. - That's the hardest... 557 00:32:24,150 --> 00:32:27,654 Maybe you told him. I still question my choice. 558 00:32:27,737 --> 00:32:29,447 I asked if you regret it. 559 00:32:29,948 --> 00:32:33,076 He answered no. That says it all for me. 560 00:32:33,159 --> 00:32:35,703 However, I would say that in another life… 561 00:32:35,787 --> 00:32:38,957 I don't regret my children. I love them. 562 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:42,794 If I could choose again when I die, I wouldn't have children. 563 00:32:42,877 --> 00:32:43,878 Clear. 564 00:32:43,962 --> 00:32:47,507 It is also beautiful to live only for yourself. 565 00:32:47,590 --> 00:32:48,508 Of course. 566 00:32:48,591 --> 00:32:53,429 I wanted this for myself. It's my life. I know the difficulties of it. 567 00:32:53,513 --> 00:32:58,643 If someone wants children just to satisfy his partner, 568 00:32:58,726 --> 00:33:00,687 that's an absolutely horrible thought. 569 00:33:00,770 --> 00:33:03,106 And especially for Emma. I love him. 570 00:33:03,189 --> 00:33:06,567 I couldn't live with myself if I didn't say this. 571 00:33:07,902 --> 00:33:11,280 Could you live without children, or is it not even heard? 572 00:33:11,364 --> 00:33:13,741 I tried to be open about it. 573 00:33:13,825 --> 00:33:16,619 The more I think about it, i don't think i can. 574 00:33:16,703 --> 00:33:18,204 Clear. -Yeah. 575 00:33:19,706 --> 00:33:23,209 No one needs to justify dreams of having children. 576 00:33:23,292 --> 00:33:27,630 I love being a grandmother. I like being Mimi to my grandchildren. 577 00:33:28,131 --> 00:33:29,173 But… 578 00:33:29,757 --> 00:33:33,386 I also want to support you. -So. 579 00:33:33,469 --> 00:33:34,887 And I'm not… 580 00:33:34,971 --> 00:33:36,222 I haven't asked. - You don't. 581 00:33:36,305 --> 00:33:38,182 I said I wouldn't bother you. 582 00:33:38,266 --> 00:33:41,686 And I don't feel pressured by this. 583 00:33:41,769 --> 00:33:44,564 I respect your decision anyway. -Good. 584 00:33:44,647 --> 00:33:50,361 Family is important to me. I wouldn't have agreed 585 00:33:50,445 --> 00:33:53,364 unless I was open to the idea. 586 00:33:54,073 --> 00:33:56,701 But you said no for a long time. -So. 587 00:33:56,784 --> 00:33:58,786 That's why we're a bit protective. 588 00:33:58,870 --> 00:34:03,374 We were pretty sure you weren't going to have kids. 589 00:34:03,458 --> 00:34:07,170 He always let me be myself. 590 00:34:07,670 --> 00:34:10,423 I am independent and I can choose. 591 00:34:10,506 --> 00:34:13,342 But he's still there for me when I need him. 592 00:34:13,426 --> 00:34:17,013 I didn't want to tell the deal about my adoption or surgeries. 593 00:34:17,096 --> 00:34:19,223 They are deep inside me. 594 00:34:19,307 --> 00:34:22,477 My identity is based on it. -Right. 595 00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:24,896 You were so kind and encouraging. 596 00:34:24,979 --> 00:34:27,940 I started to get sensitive, and he said he supports me. 597 00:34:28,024 --> 00:34:30,735 "Take it easy. I'm not going anywhere." 598 00:34:30,818 --> 00:34:35,323 The more I think about children… I don't know if my birthmarks are inherited. 599 00:34:35,406 --> 00:34:39,452 I don't know did my parents have other birth defects. 600 00:34:39,535 --> 00:34:42,205 I don't know did my mother have labor difficulties. 601 00:34:42,288 --> 00:34:43,206 Right. 602 00:34:43,289 --> 00:34:47,502 Are you afraid of having children? because of your birthmarks? 603 00:34:47,585 --> 00:34:49,128 Absolutely. 604 00:34:50,004 --> 00:34:53,758 I had a great childhood, but… 605 00:34:56,177 --> 00:35:02,391 It was related to that very tough mental challenges. 606 00:35:02,975 --> 00:35:07,188 I felt like I wasn't enough compared to others... 607 00:35:07,688 --> 00:35:11,400 I don't want to bring a child to it, because it's tough. 608 00:35:11,484 --> 00:35:12,985 Because of your scars? 609 00:35:14,529 --> 00:35:15,655 For real? -Yeah. 610 00:35:15,738 --> 00:35:17,782 So. We didn't know. 611 00:35:19,325 --> 00:35:23,746 You always proved yourself to be so strong. 612 00:35:23,830 --> 00:35:28,626 We were curious about how much he covered up… 613 00:35:28,709 --> 00:35:30,503 You must have been in middle school. 614 00:35:30,586 --> 00:35:35,758 He locked himself in the basement after school. He didn't want to talk. 615 00:35:35,842 --> 00:35:38,511 At the parent-teacher conference, the teacher said, 616 00:35:38,594 --> 00:35:42,515 that Emma lights up the whole room. He talks and engages in conversation. 617 00:35:42,598 --> 00:35:46,227 The teacher threw that we already know that. We didn't even know. 618 00:35:46,310 --> 00:35:48,855 Communication is not my strongest field. 619 00:35:49,438 --> 00:35:51,816 I wasn't bullied. -You had a great… 620 00:35:51,899 --> 00:35:55,862 I had a great life and great friends. It was purely mental. 621 00:35:55,945 --> 00:36:02,910 Right. -I always felt somehow... 622 00:36:02,994 --> 00:36:07,707 As a child, I felt that I was different in everything. 623 00:36:10,293 --> 00:36:14,881 And dating is a whole other world. Especially in Wisconsin. 624 00:36:14,964 --> 00:36:17,508 So. -You feel different in that too. 625 00:36:18,843 --> 00:36:21,762 A person wants to be chosen. 626 00:36:21,846 --> 00:36:23,639 So. -And… 627 00:36:24,515 --> 00:36:27,643 Sometimes I wasn't chosen. 628 00:36:30,146 --> 00:36:33,733 We try to ask and make sure, that everything is fine. 629 00:36:33,816 --> 00:36:36,194 Outwardly, you were fine. -Yeah. 630 00:36:36,277 --> 00:36:40,323 I hope we are doing well. 631 00:36:40,406 --> 00:36:42,491 No. You guys were awesome. 632 00:36:42,575 --> 00:36:46,078 I'm just so independent. 633 00:36:46,996 --> 00:36:49,624 I'm not asking for help. - You don't. 634 00:36:49,707 --> 00:36:51,042 I can manage myself. 635 00:36:51,125 --> 00:36:55,421 What I admire most about Emma is that he takes care of himself. 636 00:36:55,504 --> 00:36:58,925 I know how much mothers lose when having children. 637 00:36:59,508 --> 00:37:01,469 And I don't want you to lose it. 638 00:37:01,552 --> 00:37:02,720 So. 639 00:37:09,602 --> 00:37:12,605 You can't do everything with children. 640 00:37:12,688 --> 00:37:16,234 Many think that children do not change their lives. 641 00:37:16,317 --> 00:37:17,735 But it happens. -Yeah. 642 00:37:17,818 --> 00:37:20,655 They will ruin your vacation. 643 00:37:20,738 --> 00:37:24,075 believe it I've heard that from my own parents. 644 00:37:24,158 --> 00:37:26,827 It's tough but worth it. -Yes. 645 00:37:26,911 --> 00:37:30,748 Unless you don't want children. -My three children were worth it. 646 00:37:30,831 --> 00:37:33,251 It's about Emma. I know. - I'm not saying that. 647 00:37:33,334 --> 00:37:37,004 I'm just defending his wishes. -I understand that. 648 00:37:37,088 --> 00:37:39,131 I have the right to change my mind. 649 00:37:39,215 --> 00:37:41,384 Absolutely. I'm just supporting you. 650 00:37:41,467 --> 00:37:45,137 We make sure that if you change your mind, 651 00:37:45,221 --> 00:37:49,517 Mike can support you in a way, 652 00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:53,104 with which we hope to support you, so that you will continue to flourish. 653 00:37:53,187 --> 00:37:55,606 So. And that's what I want. 654 00:37:55,690 --> 00:37:58,901 Yep. It would be wonderful if you have children. I would like to be an aunt. 655 00:37:58,985 --> 00:38:01,904 That would be lovely. - I really want to be an aunt. 656 00:38:02,738 --> 00:38:04,282 She is our little girl. 657 00:38:04,365 --> 00:38:07,618 He has been adopted. 658 00:38:07,702 --> 00:38:14,000 We always considered him a member of our family. 659 00:38:14,083 --> 00:38:15,668 Yep. 660 00:38:19,213 --> 00:38:20,381 I know. 661 00:38:20,881 --> 00:38:23,509 We love him. He has such a good heart. 662 00:38:24,010 --> 00:38:28,347 Our two oldest children left three years earlier. 663 00:38:28,431 --> 00:38:32,852 Emma stayed after that, to our delight. He became our only one. 664 00:38:32,935 --> 00:38:34,145 It was awesome. 665 00:38:34,228 --> 00:38:36,314 He is affectionate and kind. 666 00:38:36,397 --> 00:38:41,277 My grandmother died a couple of years ago at almost 106 years old. 667 00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:44,030 His belongings were going through. 668 00:38:44,613 --> 00:38:48,617 A stack was found there Emma's handwritten letters. 669 00:38:48,701 --> 00:38:50,077 Who does that? 670 00:38:50,578 --> 00:38:51,829 Emma. 671 00:38:51,912 --> 00:38:53,789 He is just… - Yeah. 672 00:38:53,873 --> 00:38:56,625 We want the best for him, of course. 673 00:38:56,709 --> 00:38:58,085 EMMA'S THREADS 674 00:38:58,169 --> 00:39:00,546 Hello! 675 00:39:01,047 --> 00:39:03,049 Oh my gosh! 676 00:39:03,132 --> 00:39:04,342 EMMA'S NIECES 677 00:39:04,425 --> 00:39:06,177 Hey baby! -Hello! 678 00:39:07,720 --> 00:39:10,264 You've grown up. -How is it going? 679 00:39:10,348 --> 00:39:12,433 Mike. Nice to meet you. -Tim. Likewise. 680 00:39:12,516 --> 00:39:15,353 How is it going? Mike. Nice to meet you. 681 00:39:15,436 --> 00:39:18,731 I will come to you. - Bye. Nice to meet you. 682 00:39:18,814 --> 00:39:20,316 Mike is a genuine guy. 683 00:39:20,399 --> 00:39:23,069 He seems to care about Emma. 684 00:39:23,152 --> 00:39:27,782 I was happy to see that they talk about difficult things. 685 00:39:27,865 --> 00:39:30,785 If Emma chooses him as a life partner... 686 00:39:30,868 --> 00:39:32,661 We choose him. -Yes. 687 00:39:32,745 --> 00:39:36,415 If the girl is ready for it, we stand by him. 688 00:39:36,499 --> 00:39:38,918 Hi, I'm Mike. Nice to meet you. 689 00:39:39,001 --> 00:39:40,461 Nice to meet you too. 690 00:39:40,544 --> 00:39:42,046 How old are you? 691 00:39:42,129 --> 00:39:43,798 I'm five. -Nice. 692 00:39:43,881 --> 00:39:44,882 Two. 693 00:39:44,965 --> 00:39:47,176 He is two. -Yes. 694 00:39:47,259 --> 00:39:49,470 Cute. -Are you shaking Mike's hand? 695 00:39:49,553 --> 00:39:50,471 Hello. 696 00:39:50,554 --> 00:39:51,972 Hi Finley. 697 00:39:52,473 --> 00:39:53,808 It went great. -Good. 698 00:39:54,392 --> 00:39:55,684 Fine, Finney. 699 00:39:55,768 --> 00:39:58,396 Nothing wakes you up? Come on. 700 00:39:58,479 --> 00:39:59,480 Wake up. 701 00:39:59,563 --> 00:40:00,898 Yeah. 702 00:40:18,541 --> 00:40:20,251 Good day. -Hello. 703 00:40:20,334 --> 00:40:22,461 Today we meet my little sister Annie. 704 00:40:22,545 --> 00:40:25,089 My big sister Katie and my parents are coming too. 705 00:40:25,172 --> 00:40:27,716 Lord time. - Geez, what a beautiful bouquet. 706 00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:29,677 Thank you very much. -Hi, I'm Katie. 707 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:31,762 Nice to meet you. -Likewise. 708 00:40:31,846 --> 00:40:36,100 Oh my gosh. Lovely colorful clothes. 709 00:40:36,183 --> 00:40:38,727 Healthy. It's nice to meet you. 710 00:40:38,811 --> 00:40:40,604 These are amazing. 711 00:40:40,688 --> 00:40:41,981 Thank you, my dear. 712 00:40:42,064 --> 00:40:45,025 I hope he sees why am i the favorite child 713 00:40:45,109 --> 00:40:48,529 Connor actually picked the flowers himself. 714 00:40:48,612 --> 00:40:50,197 One by one. 715 00:40:50,281 --> 00:40:52,199 Do you show a little? -Wait. 716 00:40:52,283 --> 00:40:53,325 Right! 717 00:40:53,409 --> 00:40:55,369 Congratulations. My goodness. 718 00:40:55,453 --> 00:40:58,205 Can you believe? I don't know if we believe it either. 719 00:40:58,289 --> 00:41:01,041 We are quite… - I don't understand at all. 720 00:41:01,125 --> 00:41:02,960 And you really did. 721 00:41:03,043 --> 00:41:04,670 Hello. You are from Michigan. 722 00:41:04,753 --> 00:41:07,131 Crazy thing. He's from Michigan too. 723 00:41:07,214 --> 00:41:11,802 I know! Grand Rapids. - That was one thing. I screamed. 724 00:41:11,886 --> 00:41:17,600 We talked about our hometowns. We began to see our life together. 725 00:41:17,683 --> 00:41:21,145 The word "electric" will do for that. My heart was pounding. 726 00:41:21,228 --> 00:41:23,522 I reacted physically to our conversations. 727 00:41:23,606 --> 00:41:26,609 That was the first time from a woman's mouth. - That's crazy! 728 00:41:26,692 --> 00:41:29,028 The weld takes. - It was so weird. 729 00:41:29,111 --> 00:41:31,947 You look good together. -Imagine. 730 00:41:32,031 --> 00:41:34,700 He's not ugly at all. 731 00:41:34,783 --> 00:41:36,285 Because I'm usually… 732 00:41:36,368 --> 00:41:38,871 When you see each other for the first time... 733 00:41:38,954 --> 00:41:41,332 Yes. -I wouldn't have cared about your looks. 734 00:41:41,415 --> 00:41:44,835 He attracts me for various reasons. 735 00:41:44,919 --> 00:41:48,047 I didn't care even if he is a bit ugly. 736 00:41:48,130 --> 00:41:49,632 I still like him. 737 00:41:49,715 --> 00:41:53,052 He says that every day. -He's not an average slob. 738 00:41:53,135 --> 00:41:55,971 I became obsessed. - Shall we sit down? 739 00:41:56,055 --> 00:41:57,181 Yeah. - Let's sit down. 740 00:41:57,264 --> 00:41:58,182 Let's go. 741 00:41:58,265 --> 00:42:01,519 What has it been like living together? 742 00:42:01,602 --> 00:42:05,272 What? You smile. Tell me. -Your smile says it all. 743 00:42:05,356 --> 00:42:08,108 Maybe you will answer. - The question seems to be for you. 744 00:42:08,192 --> 00:42:09,902 No, really… - Connor. 745 00:42:09,985 --> 00:42:13,072 It's been great. I haven't lived with anyone. 746 00:42:13,155 --> 00:42:16,450 To be clear, on the day of the move - 747 00:42:16,534 --> 00:42:20,162 I asked how he fills the dishwasher. 748 00:42:20,246 --> 00:42:22,998 "How do you do your laundry?" -He was waiting for me to download it. 749 00:42:23,082 --> 00:42:25,543 I wanted to see the good, the bad and the ugly. 750 00:42:25,626 --> 00:42:27,670 "How do you put the knives? Where…" 751 00:42:27,753 --> 00:42:30,422 I haven't filled the dishwasher for three years. 752 00:42:30,506 --> 00:42:32,716 I didn't have a dishwasher. -True. 753 00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,553 You cannot judge, because I don't remember the tactics. 754 00:42:35,636 --> 00:42:38,764 You did well with the dishwasher. We cooked together. 755 00:42:38,847 --> 00:42:39,765 I like to cook. 756 00:42:39,848 --> 00:42:42,184 Did he make his chicken tasteless? -Not yet. 757 00:42:42,268 --> 00:42:46,021 Not yet. -He's not the same pasta fan. 758 00:42:46,105 --> 00:42:47,648 Pasta every day. 759 00:42:47,731 --> 00:42:50,025 I tried six things this week. 760 00:42:50,109 --> 00:42:51,110 Oops. -Good. 761 00:42:51,193 --> 00:42:53,571 They say you saw his home. - Jeez. 762 00:42:53,654 --> 00:42:57,741 How did it go? Did you go through a door that won't lock? 763 00:42:57,825 --> 00:42:58,701 Say it straight. 764 00:42:58,784 --> 00:43:01,787 There was a barrel outside. Barrel? - That's a good investment. 765 00:43:01,870 --> 00:43:04,164 That's the problem. - You should see my house. 766 00:43:04,248 --> 00:43:06,750 We are complete opposites. 767 00:43:06,834 --> 00:43:10,129 I look crazy compared to him. -You are exaggerating. 768 00:43:10,212 --> 00:43:12,047 He is single. 769 00:43:12,131 --> 00:43:14,466 He is an ordinary boy. 770 00:43:14,550 --> 00:43:17,428 Inside, everything made sense. 771 00:43:17,511 --> 00:43:19,263 He is a boy. -Stupid boy. 772 00:43:19,346 --> 00:43:21,015 I'm a Midwesterner. 773 00:43:21,098 --> 00:43:22,891 Yeah, I was… - The Danube? 774 00:43:22,975 --> 00:43:24,393 Sorry, what? 775 00:43:24,476 --> 00:43:27,813 I work in the waste industry. - You work from home. 776 00:43:27,896 --> 00:43:28,981 He worked hard. 777 00:43:29,064 --> 00:43:31,275 Your contribution is decisive. It's a dunar. 778 00:43:31,358 --> 00:43:37,239 Did something surprise him after the deal? Was it a house or what? 779 00:43:37,323 --> 00:43:40,242 What surprised me the most was… I'm not used to… 780 00:43:40,326 --> 00:43:42,703 I live alone. I'm really independent. 781 00:43:42,786 --> 00:43:45,581 If I'm having a bad day, I go home. 782 00:43:45,664 --> 00:43:48,667 I'm lying on the couch or reset myself somehow. 783 00:43:48,751 --> 00:43:52,004 It was wild to deal with emotions together. 784 00:43:52,087 --> 00:43:53,756 It takes trust. -Yeah. 785 00:43:53,839 --> 00:43:56,925 I cried because I was overwhelmed. 786 00:43:57,009 --> 00:44:00,179 He asked if it makes it easier? I couldn't answer. 787 00:44:00,262 --> 00:44:03,098 That's a good question. That's awesome. 788 00:44:03,182 --> 00:44:04,433 It's surprising. 789 00:44:04,516 --> 00:44:08,562 I'm not used to it that another supports me like that. 790 00:44:08,646 --> 00:44:10,272 Did the barrel surprise you? Yes. 791 00:44:10,356 --> 00:44:13,692 But what surprised me the most was, how he supports me. 792 00:44:13,776 --> 00:44:15,778 It was wild. -It applies to both. 793 00:44:15,861 --> 00:44:18,322 You know how I feel… 794 00:44:18,405 --> 00:44:19,865 It was wonderful. -Wow. 795 00:44:19,948 --> 00:44:23,494 Without Connor, I wouldn't have chosen anyone. -For real? 796 00:44:23,577 --> 00:44:27,122 Yes. I say that with all my heart. My friends know. 797 00:44:27,206 --> 00:44:31,001 I wouldn't be here if this wasn't true. We can talk about anything. 798 00:44:31,085 --> 00:44:34,630 As a single woman - 799 00:44:34,713 --> 00:44:38,258 my biggest insecurity is am i too much 800 00:44:38,342 --> 00:44:40,052 "What if I'm not enough?" -So. 801 00:44:40,135 --> 00:44:41,720 "How do I seem?" 802 00:44:41,804 --> 00:44:44,765 And for once it felt that I can be myself. 803 00:44:44,848 --> 00:44:47,726 We talked about fertility. I am 33 years old. 804 00:44:47,810 --> 00:44:49,269 Yes! -Yeah. 805 00:44:49,353 --> 00:44:51,313 I took a fertility test. 806 00:44:51,397 --> 00:44:56,819 This matters. I realized that the speed of falling in love doesn't matter. 807 00:44:56,902 --> 00:45:00,030 It's about whether we fall in love. -Right. 808 00:45:00,114 --> 00:45:03,367 i love you - The blood circulation in these hands is insane. 809 00:45:03,450 --> 00:45:05,911 I was wondering how you like sweaty hands? 810 00:45:05,994 --> 00:45:08,831 You should see the revelation. - Now they are ice cold. 811 00:45:08,914 --> 00:45:10,416 We have hyperhidrosis. 812 00:45:10,499 --> 00:45:12,668 We admired each other in it. 813 00:45:12,751 --> 00:45:15,546 His palm… He grabbed my hands. 814 00:45:15,629 --> 00:45:17,923 They were drenched in sweat. -Yes. 815 00:45:18,006 --> 00:45:19,883 It was from bedbugs. - I appreciate it. 816 00:45:19,967 --> 00:45:22,761 Isn't that crazy? Isn't he a bitch? 817 00:45:22,845 --> 00:45:26,014 I actually asked for a mustache. 818 00:45:26,098 --> 00:45:28,434 He likes them. - I think I like them. 819 00:45:28,517 --> 00:45:30,519 A very good bet. - Very good. 820 00:45:30,602 --> 00:45:33,105 I said the mustache suits him. 821 00:45:33,188 --> 00:45:35,858 I guess I'll ask how much I owe Bri. 822 00:45:35,941 --> 00:45:37,735 Yeah. 823 00:45:38,527 --> 00:45:41,572 And not. It's great to see 824 00:45:41,655 --> 00:45:46,076 when our children find their partners. 825 00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:48,495 They seem to be in love. 826 00:45:48,579 --> 00:45:51,874 I would be proud if Bri became my daughter-in-law. 827 00:45:51,957 --> 00:45:53,375 Welcome to the family. 828 00:46:01,925 --> 00:46:05,679 How do you feel after meeting your mother? -Good. It was nice to see. 829 00:46:05,763 --> 00:46:08,307 I understand where you got your trip fly. 830 00:46:08,390 --> 00:46:10,350 We had time to talk a bit. 831 00:46:10,434 --> 00:46:13,228 Do you want to talk more? about your previous relationships? 832 00:46:13,312 --> 00:46:15,355 I'm not trying to attack. -Yeah. 833 00:46:15,439 --> 00:46:17,816 I want to know your story. You know me. 834 00:46:17,900 --> 00:46:22,029 College was young love. Same sports schedules. It made sense. 835 00:46:22,112 --> 00:46:27,868 Her ex was in the pictures as a friend. That was a big red flag. 836 00:46:27,951 --> 00:46:29,912 "Why are you still friends?" 837 00:46:29,995 --> 00:46:32,539 I told more about my relationship in Chicago. 838 00:46:34,333 --> 00:46:37,044 We broke up and reconciled. It was a long distance relationship at first. 839 00:46:37,127 --> 00:46:39,046 I don't blame him for leaving. 840 00:46:39,129 --> 00:46:42,049 He just didn't do it in the best way. 841 00:46:42,132 --> 00:46:44,009 And I don't like it. 842 00:46:44,092 --> 00:46:47,971 He cheated on me behind the scenes. 843 00:46:48,055 --> 00:46:51,016 "I don't like it." -Yeah. Of course I don't like it. 844 00:46:51,099 --> 00:46:53,727 I also blame myself. I had growing to do. 845 00:46:53,811 --> 00:46:59,149 I found out who I am outside of football. By that I mean… The relationship ended. 846 00:46:59,233 --> 00:47:02,236 I look for myself elsewhere by traveling. 847 00:47:02,319 --> 00:47:05,113 Clear. Were there just two of them? 848 00:47:05,197 --> 00:47:06,824 They were the most serious. 849 00:47:06,907 --> 00:47:10,786 The third took a little longer. 850 00:47:11,370 --> 00:47:13,831 Traveling nurse? -Right. 851 00:47:13,914 --> 00:47:16,416 Was he supposed to come with you to Australia? 852 00:47:16,500 --> 00:47:17,584 Yes. Yeah. 853 00:47:17,668 --> 00:47:19,878 You said it wasn't serious. 854 00:47:19,962 --> 00:47:22,673 It lasted a good four months. Over the summer. 855 00:47:22,756 --> 00:47:25,217 Did it end before Australia? 856 00:47:25,300 --> 00:47:27,803 Right. Yes. -Why did it end? 857 00:47:28,512 --> 00:47:31,682 I was leaving and he didn't want to travel for his job. 858 00:47:31,765 --> 00:47:33,433 Did you end up being friends? 859 00:47:33,517 --> 00:47:34,434 Yeah. 860 00:47:34,518 --> 00:47:36,895 Are you still in touch with your ex? 861 00:47:36,979 --> 00:47:41,191 I'm his friend. She has a new boyfriend. 862 00:47:41,275 --> 00:47:46,238 We exchange information from time to time. But we're not getting back together. 863 00:47:46,321 --> 00:47:49,700 When was the last time you spoke or did you see each other? 864 00:47:49,783 --> 00:47:54,955 It's been a while. We saw a week in Austin. 865 00:47:55,038 --> 00:47:56,623 When was that? 866 00:47:58,625 --> 00:48:00,043 When? In September. 867 00:48:00,127 --> 00:48:04,172 Did you visit him in Austin? -I visited many in Austin. 868 00:48:04,256 --> 00:48:06,425 Was he one of them? -Yes. 869 00:48:06,508 --> 00:48:09,219 What was your dynamic like then? 870 00:48:09,303 --> 00:48:12,347 We hummed. - September is not long ago. 871 00:48:12,431 --> 00:48:15,350 That's weird because I'm not friends with my ex. 872 00:48:15,434 --> 00:48:18,896 I don't send him messages and exchange messages. 873 00:48:18,979 --> 00:48:22,774 I'm the same with a woman, who betrayed me. 874 00:48:22,858 --> 00:48:24,067 So. 875 00:48:24,151 --> 00:48:26,945 But I can break up if that's a problem. 876 00:48:27,029 --> 00:48:29,948 No, I just… If you trust it, there's nothing wrong with it. 877 00:48:30,032 --> 00:48:33,118 What was your dating life like? In Cleveland? 878 00:48:33,201 --> 00:48:37,414 You were in Cleveland for a year and a half. I assume you met people. 879 00:48:37,497 --> 00:48:40,667 There was some adjustment. I met a woman at the gym. 880 00:48:40,751 --> 00:48:45,005 We were together for four months. He ended it. 881 00:48:45,088 --> 00:48:46,882 He didn't understand my lifestyle. 882 00:48:46,965 --> 00:48:50,802 I have lived as a nomad three or four years. 883 00:48:50,886 --> 00:48:52,846 He ended our talk. 884 00:48:52,930 --> 00:48:59,895 And maybe a month later I received a LinkedIn invitation to the program. 885 00:48:59,978 --> 00:49:02,981 That's where I cut the gaps. -When was it? 886 00:49:04,858 --> 00:49:06,401 I don't know… In October? 887 00:49:07,069 --> 00:49:09,488 I think. I should check. 888 00:49:09,571 --> 00:49:12,032 It was probably the beginning of October. And then… 889 00:49:12,115 --> 00:49:13,450 So… -Tell me. 890 00:49:13,533 --> 00:49:16,036 You received a LinkedIn invite a month later. 891 00:49:16,119 --> 00:49:17,371 In October? -Yeah. 892 00:49:17,454 --> 00:49:21,041 It means that you met a woman in September. 893 00:49:22,417 --> 00:49:24,586 That's when you went to Austin. 894 00:49:27,756 --> 00:49:28,757 No. 895 00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:32,886 The woman in Austin was immediately— 896 00:49:33,387 --> 00:49:35,973 after the Clevelander. 897 00:49:36,056 --> 00:49:36,974 Clear. 898 00:49:37,057 --> 00:49:39,559 But you were in a relationship with an Austinite. 899 00:49:39,643 --> 00:49:43,605 You probably wouldn't go to Austin otherwise to meet a woman. 900 00:49:43,689 --> 00:49:47,651 A couple of days after she left me in Cleveland, 901 00:49:48,235 --> 00:49:49,653 I contacted my ex. 902 00:49:50,237 --> 00:49:54,074 My ego wanted to tell him off. 903 00:49:54,157 --> 00:49:57,703 "I'm free to do whatever I want." I'm not bragging about it. 904 00:49:57,786 --> 00:50:00,622 I didn't like being left. 905 00:50:00,706 --> 00:50:03,583 Then I went back to Cleveland. That's how it went. 906 00:50:03,667 --> 00:50:07,462 I don't look good, but I'm telling the truth. -So. Clear. 907 00:50:08,296 --> 00:50:10,716 Okay. I was just making sure. 908 00:50:10,799 --> 00:50:13,885 Yeah. You must have felt uncomfortable. 909 00:50:13,969 --> 00:50:16,888 No, like I said, I wanted to make sure… 910 00:50:16,972 --> 00:50:19,307 We said cheating is not acceptable. 911 00:50:19,391 --> 00:50:23,103 When you told the timeline and you talked about September, I was wondering… 912 00:50:23,186 --> 00:50:25,147 All right. -There was no overlap. 913 00:50:25,230 --> 00:50:27,941 And even if it were we were not exclusive. 914 00:50:28,025 --> 00:50:31,403 I asked and he didn't want it. There was no overlap. 915 00:50:31,486 --> 00:50:34,322 Clear. All right. 916 00:50:34,406 --> 00:50:38,285 When I struggle, I try to remember to the exact day two years ago... 917 00:50:38,368 --> 00:50:40,954 I'm not trying to blame or make fun of you. 918 00:50:41,038 --> 00:50:42,372 I know that. 919 00:50:42,456 --> 00:50:46,251 I wanted to make it clear, that there was no overlap. 920 00:50:46,334 --> 00:50:49,880 I don't think it's cheating. - I wouldn't say that either. 921 00:50:49,963 --> 00:50:50,964 Clear. 922 00:50:51,048 --> 00:50:52,883 Everyone deals with it in their own way. 923 00:50:52,966 --> 00:50:57,220 I think about it the most, that I was in a relationship a year ago. 924 00:50:57,304 --> 00:50:59,723 I thought he was the father of my children. 925 00:50:59,806 --> 00:51:03,101 I thought we were having kids. All I ask is honesty. 926 00:51:03,185 --> 00:51:05,771 Yeah. -Don't let me down. 927 00:51:05,854 --> 00:51:09,399 That doesn't happen. I'm sorry it happened to you. 928 00:51:09,483 --> 00:51:11,651 It's not my place to apologize. 929 00:51:11,735 --> 00:51:14,362 But it was sad. -No need to be sorry. 930 00:51:18,950 --> 00:51:20,827 I'm here. 931 00:51:23,205 --> 00:51:24,706 Yeah. 932 00:51:41,723 --> 00:51:44,601 11 DAYS UNTIL THE WEDDING 933 00:51:46,853 --> 00:51:48,730 Shall we bowl? -Yeah. 934 00:51:55,612 --> 00:51:57,739 A couple more, fingers crossed. 935 00:51:59,449 --> 00:52:00,951 Vic came. 936 00:52:01,034 --> 00:52:05,288 Awesome! 937 00:52:09,084 --> 00:52:11,628 Oh good time! 938 00:52:11,711 --> 00:52:14,631 What the fuck? - Nice to see you. You god. 939 00:52:14,714 --> 00:52:16,174 How is it going? -Healthy. 940 00:52:17,926 --> 00:52:20,428 It's nice to see. You smell good. 941 00:52:22,180 --> 00:52:23,098 No weld! 942 00:52:23,181 --> 00:52:24,099 SOPPIAN 943 00:52:24,182 --> 00:52:25,350 Hello! 944 00:52:25,433 --> 00:52:26,643 Healthy! 945 00:52:28,728 --> 00:52:29,646 Hello. 946 00:52:31,064 --> 00:52:33,191 I wanted to see you guys. Yay! 947 00:52:33,275 --> 00:52:35,152 Jeez, nice to see you. 948 00:52:35,235 --> 00:52:37,404 I wanted to party with my friends. 949 00:52:37,487 --> 00:52:39,072 For real? 950 00:52:39,156 --> 00:52:41,116 You are wonderful. -Likewise. 951 00:52:41,199 --> 00:52:43,660 You are wonderful. Let's have fun. 952 00:52:48,748 --> 00:52:51,585 SOPPIAN 953 00:52:51,668 --> 00:52:53,753 how are you -You look nice. 954 00:52:53,837 --> 00:52:56,006 How are you? -Good. 955 00:52:56,089 --> 00:52:57,007 Good. 956 00:52:57,090 --> 00:52:58,758 My goodness. -So. 957 00:53:04,931 --> 00:53:07,350 Potty stories are good. - They are. 958 00:53:07,434 --> 00:53:09,603 It feels good. Nice to see everyone. 959 00:53:09,686 --> 00:53:12,147 I missed Jess. If only he were… - The same. 960 00:53:12,230 --> 00:53:13,231 I know. 961 00:53:13,315 --> 00:53:16,818 He was such a sweet and gentle angel. 962 00:53:16,902 --> 00:53:18,236 I don't understand Chris. 963 00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,947 He is delusional. -Damn delusional. 964 00:53:21,031 --> 00:53:24,743 I got some weird "ou jeen" by private message. 965 00:53:24,826 --> 00:53:26,620 I was amazed. -From whom? 966 00:53:26,703 --> 00:53:28,246 From Chris. - You don't! 967 00:53:28,330 --> 00:53:32,083 Yeah. We cooked with Connor. I glanced at my phone. 968 00:53:32,167 --> 00:53:34,377 I received a friend request from Chris. 969 00:53:34,461 --> 00:53:36,546 I thought what the hell. 970 00:53:36,630 --> 00:53:37,964 I accepted it. 971 00:53:38,048 --> 00:53:41,092 He sent a message at half past two: "Oh yeah." 972 00:53:42,969 --> 00:53:45,472 I asked what happened. He said to call. 973 00:53:45,555 --> 00:53:46,806 I was that… -Hi! 974 00:53:46,890 --> 00:53:49,809 I thought stop it. I showed it to Chris. 975 00:53:49,893 --> 00:53:51,645 Did Connor talk to him? 976 00:53:51,728 --> 00:53:56,816 I said not to make a number out of this. The man is stirring. I won't get involved. 977 00:53:56,900 --> 00:53:58,235 "It's nothing." 978 00:53:58,318 --> 00:54:00,654 Listen. He bought followers. 979 00:54:00,737 --> 00:54:02,113 And not. I… Yeah. -What? 980 00:54:02,197 --> 00:54:05,158 We spoke… -Did he buy followers? 981 00:54:05,242 --> 00:54:06,910 Bought it. - I'm unfollowing. 982 00:54:06,993 --> 00:54:08,662 He can't afford me. 983 00:54:08,745 --> 00:54:13,375 He has random followers, who do not follow the same people. 984 00:54:13,458 --> 00:54:17,420 There are only a couple of publications, and all are from Mexico. 985 00:54:17,504 --> 00:54:21,299 I don't understand. He was my second. He is a different person. 986 00:54:21,383 --> 00:54:24,219 He went on his first single night at a strip club. 987 00:54:24,803 --> 00:54:27,264 I was in complete disbelief. 988 00:54:27,347 --> 00:54:28,932 Strip club photo. 989 00:54:29,015 --> 00:54:31,351 So. And the bar in the background. 990 00:54:31,434 --> 00:54:33,270 And a stripper in her lap! 991 00:54:33,353 --> 00:54:35,897 It went from one extreme to the other. 992 00:54:35,981 --> 00:54:37,565 Reckless. -Indeed. 993 00:54:37,649 --> 00:54:39,818 Fucking nasty bitch. -Exactly. 994 00:54:39,901 --> 00:54:42,445 Something just doesn't add up here. 995 00:54:42,529 --> 00:54:44,155 Narcissistic asshole. 996 00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:47,075 He told Connor he would 21–25 year olds. 997 00:54:47,158 --> 00:54:48,994 He is 38 himself. 998 00:54:49,077 --> 00:54:50,954 So... What? 999 00:54:51,037 --> 00:54:54,708 That's why I said you fucking scumbags. He is like that. 1000 00:54:54,791 --> 00:54:56,960 You're too short to be tall. 1001 00:54:58,295 --> 00:55:00,088 Too short for this ride. 1002 00:55:00,171 --> 00:55:01,631 Never. - That's the truth. 1003 00:55:09,347 --> 00:55:10,390 How is it going? 1004 00:55:14,227 --> 00:55:15,937 It didn't work. 1005 00:55:16,021 --> 00:55:19,149 Oh my god. -My goodness. 1006 00:55:19,232 --> 00:55:20,442 How is it going? 1007 00:55:20,525 --> 00:55:21,985 What the fuck? -How are you? 1008 00:55:22,068 --> 00:55:23,403 Nice to see. -Likewise. 1009 00:55:23,486 --> 00:55:25,405 The Chris and Jess thing is weird. 1010 00:55:25,488 --> 00:55:29,117 They seemed to fit together, but I don't think much about it. 1011 00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:32,662 I came here to find Bri, so… 1012 00:55:32,746 --> 00:55:33,955 Hello! -How are you? 1013 00:55:34,039 --> 00:55:35,582 Nice to see. -Likewise. 1014 00:55:35,665 --> 00:55:38,084 How is it going? -Welcome to the crazy mill. 1015 00:55:38,168 --> 00:55:39,252 Here we are. 1016 00:55:39,336 --> 00:55:41,838 I don't know. Men are idiots after all. 1017 00:55:41,921 --> 00:55:43,214 Amber. -How is it going? 1018 00:55:43,298 --> 00:55:45,258 How are you? -Good. 1019 00:55:49,596 --> 00:55:51,348 So. 1020 00:55:59,147 --> 00:56:00,231 Hello, honey. 1021 00:56:00,315 --> 00:56:02,650 Okay. You look amazing. 1022 00:56:04,527 --> 00:56:06,112 Oh heaven. - Did you like… 1023 00:56:07,072 --> 00:56:08,531 Not a sambar. 1024 00:56:12,327 --> 00:56:13,995 I missed it. - I won't let go. 1025 00:56:14,079 --> 00:56:15,622 You look amazing. 1026 00:56:15,705 --> 00:56:18,416 You look nice. -Your body is perfect! 1027 00:56:18,500 --> 00:56:20,960 Crazy body. - Are you working out? 1028 00:56:21,044 --> 00:56:23,463 Have you been working out? - Not actually. 1029 00:56:23,546 --> 00:56:24,881 I wanted to ask the same thing. 1030 00:56:24,964 --> 00:56:27,175 Don't you? I don't work out anymore either. 1031 00:56:27,258 --> 00:56:30,845 They hate me. I don't give a damn. 1032 00:56:34,474 --> 00:56:36,101 Pri! 1033 00:56:36,184 --> 00:56:37,185 SOPPIAN 1034 00:56:37,268 --> 00:56:40,271 Hello! - Come here. 1035 00:56:40,355 --> 00:56:42,148 Healthy! 1036 00:56:42,857 --> 00:56:44,734 Wait a minute. Who came? 1037 00:56:45,235 --> 00:56:47,278 I don't know. - Priyanka? 1038 00:56:47,362 --> 00:56:49,239 Oh my gosh. 1039 00:56:49,739 --> 00:56:51,783 I fancy. I don't know. Is that Pri? 1040 00:56:51,866 --> 00:56:52,867 Yeah. 1041 00:56:52,951 --> 00:56:54,202 Hell no. 1042 00:56:54,702 --> 00:56:56,413 Is there? - I can't say. 1043 00:56:57,497 --> 00:57:01,668 How do you know Priyanka? -He was in my group of friends in Chicago. 1044 00:57:01,751 --> 00:57:03,545 We have known each other for a long time. 1045 00:57:03,628 --> 00:57:04,838 Hello! -How is it going? 1046 00:57:04,921 --> 00:57:05,964 Hi! -How are you? 1047 00:57:06,047 --> 00:57:08,007 Good. What about you? - I'm Jordan. 1048 00:57:08,091 --> 00:57:09,801 Priyanka. - Nice to meet you. 1049 00:57:09,884 --> 00:57:10,885 He was in agreement. 1050 00:57:10,969 --> 00:57:14,597 I wanted Priyanka to get a flawless experience. 1051 00:57:14,681 --> 00:57:18,768 If I say we feel, that might not happen. 1052 00:57:18,852 --> 00:57:20,311 Hello. -Hello! 1053 00:57:20,395 --> 00:57:23,273 How did we manage without each other? -Exactly. 1054 00:57:23,356 --> 00:57:26,025 Oh my god. -Never let go. 1055 00:57:26,526 --> 00:57:28,153 You look nice. -Likewise. 1056 00:57:28,236 --> 00:57:30,488 Thanks! I know. - It's been a long time. 1057 00:57:30,572 --> 00:57:33,575 Are you sure? -I'm a simulation. 1058 00:57:36,286 --> 00:57:38,246 This is really nice. -Thanks. 1059 00:57:38,329 --> 00:57:40,331 Nice sweater. -Yeah. 1060 00:57:40,415 --> 00:57:42,709 Touch gently. It's expensive. 1061 00:57:43,293 --> 00:57:44,669 It was a joke. 1062 00:57:44,752 --> 00:57:46,796 I spit on it. - It's expensive. 1063 00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:49,632 He's funny. Do you think you're funny? 1064 00:57:53,803 --> 00:57:55,305 Oh you. 1065 00:57:57,640 --> 00:58:00,310 Was it nice in Mexico? - It was amazing. 1066 00:58:00,393 --> 00:58:02,645 We were in love. Everything was wonderful. 1067 00:58:02,729 --> 00:58:05,732 We thought they were already married. - I was thinking the same thing. 1068 00:58:05,815 --> 00:58:08,026 It was awesome. We returned home. 1069 00:58:08,109 --> 00:58:12,572 He asked what grade I would give to our physical connection. 1070 00:58:12,655 --> 00:58:14,741 I kick his teeth in the throat. 1071 00:58:14,824 --> 00:58:17,035 I was amazed. "What do you mean?" 1072 00:58:17,118 --> 00:58:21,956 He is said to be used to women, who exercise daily. 1073 00:58:22,540 --> 00:58:25,960 Are you fucking serious? - I kicked his teeth in the throat. 1074 00:58:26,044 --> 00:58:28,463 I am confused. 1075 00:58:28,546 --> 00:58:30,340 That was rudely said. 1076 00:58:31,174 --> 00:58:34,177 Before the end of the conversation he said he was thinking about it 1077 00:58:34,260 --> 00:58:36,971 what it would be like to be with his second choice. 1078 00:58:38,431 --> 00:58:40,642 Who was second? - Bri. Breezy. 1079 00:58:41,643 --> 00:58:44,771 That night he set up Instagram out of nowhere. 1080 00:58:44,854 --> 00:58:50,693 He published the story at a strip club with his friends, a stripper in his arms. 1081 00:58:51,194 --> 00:58:55,156 Christine can't fathom. - Rima is on the floor. 1082 00:58:55,740 --> 00:58:59,869 And of course I don't follow him, Christine. I don't want to get involved. 1083 00:58:59,953 --> 00:59:02,497 But I got screenshots from everyone. 1084 00:59:02,580 --> 00:59:04,666 I know I won't digest that. 1085 00:59:04,749 --> 00:59:07,502 And I don't want to be dealing with him. 1086 00:59:07,585 --> 00:59:13,299 He also sent a private message to the woman, who told about it right away. 1087 00:59:13,383 --> 00:59:15,843 I'm just an honest person. - I know that. 1088 00:59:15,927 --> 00:59:19,389 People don't like it. I'll be back soon. I'm going to pee. 1089 00:59:19,472 --> 00:59:25,103 Jess, you know he has issues. This is not about you. 1090 00:59:25,186 --> 00:59:28,940 I was 110 percent on board. I was head over heels in love. 1091 00:59:29,023 --> 00:59:31,693 Three years ago I would have completely collapsed. 1092 00:59:35,196 --> 00:59:39,033 Listen. Bri is damn sexy. 1093 00:59:39,117 --> 00:59:42,370 I saw Bri and thought, that he has to pull. 1094 00:59:42,870 --> 00:59:45,999 I want to talk to him. And I don't care about Connor. 1095 00:59:46,082 --> 00:59:49,877 What is he doing? Will he beat me? -So. 1096 00:59:49,961 --> 00:59:51,254 I guess so. 1097 01:00:00,096 --> 01:00:01,097 Yeah. 1098 01:00:04,475 --> 01:00:07,145 Amber, your husband is awesome. -That's right. 1099 01:00:07,228 --> 01:00:09,564 Chris is the best. -I love this guy. 1100 01:00:09,647 --> 01:00:11,733 We feel good. -He's a good guy. 1101 01:00:11,816 --> 01:00:15,111 Everyone said Amber is fierce. 1102 01:00:15,194 --> 01:00:18,448 "He's too much for us." But you are perfect for him. 1103 01:00:18,531 --> 01:00:20,283 You and Amber are… 1104 01:00:20,366 --> 01:00:23,786 Jukoliste. You are the only ones who get married. 1105 01:00:23,870 --> 01:00:26,331 I told Jordan straight up. -Yeah. 1106 01:00:26,414 --> 01:00:28,583 He is good to me. -Really! 1107 01:00:28,666 --> 01:00:31,502 We are good together. - I tamed him. 1108 01:00:31,586 --> 01:00:32,503 Yes. 1109 01:00:32,587 --> 01:00:36,174 It's too bad for Jordan. - Be nice to Chris. I like him. 1110 01:00:36,257 --> 01:00:40,053 In a good way, Amber. I know you must hate me. 1111 01:00:40,136 --> 01:00:41,929 A little, but… -Don't now. 1112 01:00:42,013 --> 01:00:48,353 i feel like that you don't know me personally. 1113 01:00:48,436 --> 01:00:52,732 I promise I'm not a crazy asshole. I can swear it. 1114 01:00:52,815 --> 01:00:56,402 Chris only cares about himself. I don't care about him. 1115 01:00:56,486 --> 01:00:58,446 Can you find another hot doctor? 1116 01:00:59,364 --> 01:01:01,658 I'm just saying! -Clear. 1117 01:01:07,914 --> 01:01:09,082 Are you OK? 1118 01:01:09,165 --> 01:01:10,625 I am, indeed. 1119 01:01:10,708 --> 01:01:15,630 He can be a neurosurgeon or owns a fund of one hundred million dollars. 1120 01:01:15,713 --> 01:01:19,300 If I marry someone for the rest of my life, it must have… 1121 01:01:23,554 --> 01:01:27,642 No need to explain. -No. I'll say it. I don't give a damn. 1122 01:01:28,351 --> 01:01:31,604 That was already the fourth time, when he doesn't give a damn. 1123 01:01:32,105 --> 01:01:34,565 I wouldn't listen to that for a fee. 1124 01:01:35,149 --> 01:01:37,902 Sex and all… 1125 01:01:38,403 --> 01:01:40,530 I watched it grow. -Yeah. 1126 01:01:40,613 --> 01:01:41,781 And so… 1127 01:01:42,865 --> 01:01:46,285 I said it. This will be on tape. I don't give a damn. 1128 01:01:46,369 --> 01:01:50,039 i need someone who does Pilates or works out… 1129 01:01:50,123 --> 01:01:51,958 Did he keep it a secret? 1130 01:01:52,041 --> 01:01:54,252 No. She said she had been dancing for 15 years. 1131 01:01:54,335 --> 01:01:57,380 I thought maybe it would make a difference. But never mind. 1132 01:01:57,463 --> 01:02:01,134 I've dated women who do not exercise but are taller. 1133 01:02:01,217 --> 01:02:04,220 I don't give a damn. Someone even danced ballet. 1134 01:02:04,303 --> 01:02:06,556 He's not morbidly obese. 1135 01:02:06,639 --> 01:02:10,017 It isn't. She is beautiful and hot. -He's a knockout. 1136 01:02:10,101 --> 01:02:12,854 I agree. I said she's beautiful. 1137 01:02:12,937 --> 01:02:14,981 You want a roommate. 1138 01:02:15,064 --> 01:02:18,443 That's why it's different. Is it a physical thing? 1139 01:02:18,526 --> 01:02:21,070 Or is it about routine? -It's different. 1140 01:02:21,154 --> 01:02:22,572 It is disciplined… 1141 01:02:22,655 --> 01:02:24,991 I want sexual attraction naked. 1142 01:02:25,074 --> 01:02:30,580 When we have sex with someone, it has pheromones and is… 1143 01:02:30,663 --> 01:02:33,499 You are together and you like it together. 1144 01:02:33,583 --> 01:02:37,170 I tried it many times. It just wasn't there. 1145 01:02:37,253 --> 01:02:40,173 I don't know if I could take it for the rest of my life. 1146 01:02:40,256 --> 01:02:42,759 I thought I'd talk about it. It was a big deal. 1147 01:02:42,842 --> 01:02:45,511 I said we have a deep emotional connection… 1148 01:02:45,595 --> 01:02:49,015 I couldn't take it for the rest of my life. Say what you want. 1149 01:02:49,098 --> 01:02:52,852 I don't know. I'm on stage two. I see. -I'm not trying to… 1150 01:02:52,935 --> 01:02:55,313 If I'm with someone for the rest of my life… 1151 01:02:55,396 --> 01:02:56,814 Listen to… -I'm not trying to… 1152 01:02:56,898 --> 01:02:59,859 Ashley and Pri, listen up. -If you can't get over it. 1153 01:02:59,942 --> 01:03:02,904 I don't give a damn in my 90s. But listen. 1154 01:03:02,987 --> 01:03:05,239 I am 30 years old. I want to put… 1155 01:03:05,323 --> 01:03:06,866 Women. -Yes. 1156 01:03:06,949 --> 01:03:10,661 I want to enjoy it at least another 40 years. 1157 01:03:10,745 --> 01:03:13,539 And if I don't… -If it doesn't exist, it doesn't exist. 1158 01:03:13,623 --> 01:03:16,667 If I don't experience sexual attraction, I don't force it. 1159 01:03:16,751 --> 01:03:19,837 I told him maybe this could grow. 1160 01:03:19,921 --> 01:03:23,174 He said "adios" to it. So bye. 1161 01:03:23,257 --> 01:03:26,219 I swear I wasn't trying to be mean. 1162 01:03:26,302 --> 01:03:29,013 If I get married, I want to make sure that… 1163 01:03:29,096 --> 01:03:32,308 It doesn't have to be 100%, but I want to enjoy it. 1164 01:03:32,391 --> 01:03:34,685 It was the worst ever. -You scream. 1165 01:03:34,769 --> 01:03:37,104 Why are you raising your voice? -Your voice echoes. 1166 01:03:37,188 --> 01:03:39,315 Sorry. - I'm loud, but still. 1167 01:03:39,398 --> 01:03:43,653 Let's do something together. Me and you three. 1168 01:03:43,736 --> 01:03:46,614 Want to chat with Alex? 1169 01:03:46,697 --> 01:03:47,990 Sure. 1170 01:03:48,074 --> 01:03:50,117 What do you mean? I'm done. Sorry. 1171 01:03:50,201 --> 01:03:52,203 Let's go back. -For real? 1172 01:03:52,787 --> 01:03:55,164 I'm not on anyone's side. 1173 01:03:55,248 --> 01:03:57,208 This challenges everyone. -I like it. 1174 01:03:57,291 --> 01:04:00,086 We've done our own thing With Connor. 1175 01:04:00,169 --> 01:04:03,297 It's hard to open up and hear everyone's stories. 1176 01:04:03,381 --> 01:04:05,758 I hear Jess and you. 1177 01:04:05,842 --> 01:04:08,344 But I understand. We're making a big decision. 1178 01:04:08,427 --> 01:04:12,223 I laughed out loud, since you are talking about you and Connor… 1179 01:04:12,306 --> 01:04:14,934 What? Why is it funny? 1180 01:04:18,813 --> 01:04:20,731 Do you want me to say it directly? 1181 01:04:20,815 --> 01:04:23,317 I like Connor but he is submissive. 1182 01:04:26,779 --> 01:04:30,867 I could have bet on you and Connor wouldn't be… 1183 01:04:30,950 --> 01:04:32,869 What do you mean? -...in existence. 1184 01:04:32,952 --> 01:04:35,621 Oh, okay? -So. 1185 01:04:39,125 --> 01:04:41,669 I see it in real life, and I was wrong. 1186 01:04:44,213 --> 01:04:47,174 Connor loves me. -He's a good guy. 1187 01:04:47,258 --> 01:04:50,469 He's gorgeous. That's it. -He agrees at the altar. 1188 01:04:50,553 --> 01:04:54,181 He says he will always love you, washing and cleaning. 1189 01:04:54,265 --> 01:04:55,266 Yes. So. 1190 01:04:55,349 --> 01:04:59,979 You realize you need someone, which does much more. 1191 01:05:00,062 --> 01:05:04,108 I'm taking her to my hometown this weekend. My father and family… 1192 01:05:04,191 --> 01:05:06,485 Does he meet your father? -Finally. 1193 01:05:06,569 --> 01:05:09,322 Your father is a great and successful man. 1194 01:05:09,405 --> 01:05:14,327 She wants your man to show His Charles Schwab account - 1195 01:05:14,410 --> 01:05:16,746 and tells about his life. 1196 01:05:16,829 --> 01:05:21,792 He shows his three-year plan. That's what you need. Come on. 1197 01:05:23,628 --> 01:05:26,464 We're going to Grand Rapids this weekend. - I heard. 1198 01:05:26,547 --> 01:05:29,258 Are you ready and confident? 1199 01:05:29,342 --> 01:05:32,762 We'll talk for sure. I'm just an ordinary dunian. 1200 01:05:32,845 --> 01:05:34,639 We rent waste containers. 1201 01:05:34,722 --> 01:05:37,850 If Bri trusts someone, it's extreme. 1202 01:05:37,934 --> 01:05:40,770 Indeed. -He doesn't mess with anyone. 1203 01:05:40,853 --> 01:05:42,772 I talked to his friend. 1204 01:05:42,855 --> 01:05:45,650 I don't believe that I should beat him. 1205 01:05:45,733 --> 01:05:47,902 Or be more motivated and alpha. 1206 01:05:47,985 --> 01:05:53,991 Bri and I are the same. He needs exactly that kind of support. 1207 01:05:54,075 --> 01:05:55,284 So. 1208 01:05:57,578 --> 01:06:00,373 Is it the best thing ever? -What? Sex? 1209 01:06:01,457 --> 01:06:03,876 No, but it's good. -Okay. I… 1210 01:06:03,960 --> 01:06:06,253 Looking for the best sex ever? 1211 01:06:06,337 --> 01:06:11,676 I want to give the best ever. -Yeah. 1212 01:06:11,759 --> 01:06:15,179 It's important. It is said to be 5% of the ratio. 1213 01:06:15,262 --> 01:06:18,099 No. That's why I thought... - It's important to me. 1214 01:06:18,182 --> 01:06:20,768 Everyone has their reasons. Right. Sometimes it crashes. 1215 01:06:20,851 --> 01:06:22,436 I see. - It's not that. 1216 01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:24,397 It's difficult. - It's horrible. 1217 01:06:25,564 --> 01:06:29,610 I'll say it straight now. I don't think you're getting married. 1218 01:06:29,694 --> 01:06:32,780 You need someone more dominant, 1219 01:06:32,863 --> 01:06:36,075 who guides and shows you new places. 1220 01:06:37,576 --> 01:06:39,787 He is a submissive type. I don't. 1221 01:06:39,870 --> 01:06:41,372 I know. - I'm not like that. 1222 01:06:41,455 --> 01:06:43,290 I would never submit. - I know. 1223 01:06:43,374 --> 01:06:45,960 I want to do it with you. - Stop it. 1224 01:06:46,043 --> 01:06:47,169 I swear it. 1225 01:06:47,253 --> 01:06:48,796 I told Jess that too. 1226 01:06:48,879 --> 01:06:52,049 You are the kind of woman who I would meet in real life. 1227 01:06:52,633 --> 01:06:57,096 I said you're hot. The way you look and everything you do. 1228 01:06:57,179 --> 01:06:58,723 I'm just saying. 1229 01:07:00,850 --> 01:07:05,730 I regret because i saw you and realized… 1230 01:07:07,273 --> 01:07:12,194 You are the kind of woman who I would actually propose to. 1231 01:07:23,330 --> 01:07:24,248 COMING 1232 01:07:24,331 --> 01:07:25,875 I haven't felt like this. 1233 01:07:25,958 --> 01:07:28,794 I love you deeply, baby. 1234 01:07:30,004 --> 01:07:32,882 I fully believe that you are the right partner for me. 1235 01:07:32,965 --> 01:07:34,508 He is wonderfully genuine. 1236 01:07:34,592 --> 01:07:36,135 Are you expecting a wedding? 1237 01:07:36,218 --> 01:07:37,928 Nice to see you in a tuxedo. 1238 01:07:38,596 --> 01:07:42,349 Now I know what it's like to be loved. 1239 01:07:42,433 --> 01:07:43,893 You love me. 1240 01:07:43,976 --> 01:07:47,480 I love you more every day. This lasts forever. 1241 01:07:47,563 --> 01:07:50,107 I want to live with you and experience all kinds of things. 1242 01:07:50,191 --> 01:07:53,194 At the same time, if you are not sure about me… 1243 01:07:53,277 --> 01:07:56,405 Uncertainties rise to the surface. That's what I fear with you. 1244 01:07:57,239 --> 01:08:01,577 My feelings are stronger than his, and it scares me. 1245 01:08:01,660 --> 01:08:02,787 I just want to be. 1246 01:08:03,370 --> 01:08:06,832 Sounds like you have a backup plan. - I don't know. 1247 01:08:06,916 --> 01:08:11,504 He's not my type. I want a brunette and brown eyes. 1248 01:08:11,587 --> 01:08:13,506 You were in touch over the years. 1249 01:08:13,589 --> 01:08:15,132 Now it feels like you're attacking. 1250 01:08:15,841 --> 01:08:18,302 I haven't dated a woman with a child. 1251 01:08:18,385 --> 01:08:22,181 I'm trying to think this through before a lifetime commitment. 1252 01:08:22,264 --> 01:08:24,183 I'm really in love with you. 1253 01:08:24,266 --> 01:08:28,312 I trusted you with all my heart, that you tell me everything 1254 01:08:28,395 --> 01:08:32,399 I love him, but he wants children within 2-5 years. 1255 01:08:32,483 --> 01:08:35,653 I don't want children before I decide so myself. 1256 01:08:35,736 --> 01:08:38,364 It's difficult. I don't want to over talk him. 1257 01:08:38,447 --> 01:08:40,491 He has to make a decision for himself. 1258 01:08:40,574 --> 01:08:44,453 Can I ask something crazy? Are you honest about your engagement ring? 1259 01:08:44,537 --> 01:08:45,955 Yeah. I'm out. 1260 01:08:46,038 --> 01:08:48,916 If you had to choose one person… 1261 01:08:49,416 --> 01:08:51,961 A rose for Mr. Fusco? -Stop it, honey. 1262 01:08:53,170 --> 01:08:56,132 You knew what you were doing. -Are you ready for marriage? 1263 01:08:57,508 --> 01:09:01,720 I am truly blessed and grateful. -The whole future is in front of you. 1264 01:09:01,804 --> 01:09:03,681 I am so happy. 1265 01:09:03,764 --> 01:09:04,765 Oh, Emma. 1266 01:09:04,849 --> 01:09:09,019 Now is the time to decide if love is blind. 1267 01:09:09,103 --> 01:09:11,355 This is the most important moment of my life. 1268 01:09:44,930 --> 01:09:46,849 Subtitles: Katariina Uusitupa