1 00:00:01,627 --> 00:00:07,007 ♪ I want to buy my innocence ♪ 2 00:00:07,549 --> 00:00:08,880 Six months ago, 3 00:00:08,884 --> 00:00:11,382 my grandfather was a complete stranger to me. 4 00:00:11,386 --> 00:00:13,968 I still don't know why I trust him, but I do. 5 00:00:13,972 --> 00:00:16,721 Maybe because he's more of a friend than anyone else I know. 6 00:00:16,725 --> 00:00:19,015 He makes me able to do things I wouldn't do otherwise... 7 00:00:19,019 --> 00:00:21,684 Sweetheart, come on. Please? We're late, come on. 8 00:00:21,688 --> 00:00:23,811 College fair, woo-hoo! 9 00:00:23,815 --> 00:00:25,688 ...because sometimes, 10 00:00:25,692 --> 00:00:28,779 my anxiety makes even getting out of bed hard. 11 00:00:31,573 --> 00:00:34,197 ♪ Now I overthink things ♪ 12 00:00:34,201 --> 00:00:37,242 ♪ That I shouldn't, I couldn't ♪ 13 00:00:37,246 --> 00:00:44,165 ♪ You wouldn't believe what I did as a kid back in 2016 ♪ 14 00:00:44,169 --> 00:00:47,669 Yo, what's up, Finn? How those Legos doin'? 15 00:00:47,673 --> 00:00:49,170 When most people are scared, 16 00:00:49,174 --> 00:00:51,256 they get this thing called "fight or flight." 17 00:00:51,260 --> 00:00:52,882 Me? I freeze. 18 00:00:52,886 --> 00:00:55,927 - Who was that? - Uh, nobody. 19 00:00:55,931 --> 00:00:58,763 Yeah, I've had to smack a few nobodies in my life. 20 00:00:58,767 --> 00:01:00,519 You don't pay 'em no mind, yeah? 21 00:01:01,186 --> 00:01:02,684 I'm gonna go check out that school over there. 22 00:01:02,688 --> 00:01:04,189 - Okay, yeah. - Alright. 23 00:01:04,940 --> 00:01:07,146 Finn, that's a girls' school, son. 24 00:01:07,150 --> 00:01:08,314 Is it? 25 00:01:08,318 --> 00:01:11,693 Oh, no. Do you. Be fluid, go ahead. 26 00:01:11,697 --> 00:01:13,615 Welcome, everyone. 27 00:01:14,575 --> 00:01:15,993 Excuse me. 28 00:01:16,577 --> 00:01:19,830 Can... Hello?! Everybody! 29 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:24,372 The lovely Ms. Dunlap has something she would like to share. 30 00:01:24,376 --> 00:01:27,500 If we could all just pay attention for a second. 31 00:01:27,504 --> 00:01:29,169 - Please, go right ahead. - Thanks... 32 00:01:29,173 --> 00:01:30,883 - Yeah. - ...but you can call me Kim. 33 00:01:31,466 --> 00:01:32,467 I will do that. 34 00:01:33,385 --> 00:01:36,593 So, welcome to college night. 35 00:01:36,597 --> 00:01:38,678 We are lucky to have representatives from... 36 00:01:38,682 --> 00:01:40,263 - Dad? Would it be okay... - Yes? 37 00:01:40,267 --> 00:01:43,308 ...if we don't hit on people at college night? 38 00:01:43,312 --> 00:01:45,059 - 'Cause it's not a pickup joint. - Okay, okay. 39 00:01:45,063 --> 00:01:46,561 I was just being friendly, girl. 40 00:01:46,565 --> 00:01:49,147 - That's all. - Oh, that's friendly? 41 00:01:49,151 --> 00:01:51,566 Dad, be honest with me, do I have siblings? 42 00:01:51,570 --> 00:01:53,318 - Walk around, explore. - We... 43 00:01:53,322 --> 00:01:54,986 We're not doin' this right now. 44 00:01:54,990 --> 00:01:57,780 The good news, Finn is very bright. 45 00:01:57,784 --> 00:01:59,532 So, when somebody starts with the good news, 46 00:01:59,536 --> 00:02:00,617 it's hard for me to hear it 47 00:02:00,621 --> 00:02:02,452 because I'm just waiting for the bad news, so. 48 00:02:02,456 --> 00:02:04,370 Um, just give it to us straight. 49 00:02:04,374 --> 00:02:06,581 - Yeah, yeah. - Okay, well, Finn has 50 00:02:06,585 --> 00:02:08,212 some major work to do. 51 00:02:08,504 --> 00:02:11,336 He doesn't have any extracurriculars or community service, 52 00:02:11,340 --> 00:02:14,464 so I'm worried about how strong his application will be. 53 00:02:14,468 --> 00:02:17,217 I should've let you start with the good news. 54 00:02:17,221 --> 00:02:19,511 His grades are solid and he tests well. 55 00:02:19,515 --> 00:02:21,012 - Okay. - Uh, but for the more 56 00:02:21,016 --> 00:02:25,099 competitive schools, he'll need a great essay to help him stand out. 57 00:02:25,103 --> 00:02:27,727 Alternatively, there's no shame in community college. 58 00:02:27,731 --> 00:02:30,605 Or gettin' a job? I mean, college is not for everybody. 59 00:02:30,609 --> 00:02:32,315 - That is true. - No, it is for everybody 60 00:02:32,319 --> 00:02:34,859 named Finn Alexander. You're going to college. 61 00:02:34,863 --> 00:02:36,569 But if ya don't fit that profile... 62 00:02:36,573 --> 00:02:37,654 - But when you do... - ...then... 63 00:02:37,658 --> 00:02:39,364 - ...and he does. - Okay, you guys need to get 64 00:02:39,368 --> 00:02:40,657 on the same page. 65 00:02:40,661 --> 00:02:43,326 The Good Dad/Bad Mom act is just gonna confuse him. 66 00:02:43,330 --> 00:02:45,745 I think you mean Bad Dad/Good Mom, right? 67 00:02:45,749 --> 00:02:47,455 You said what you meant, didn't you, 68 00:02:47,459 --> 00:02:48,957 - Kim? - No, I'm not sure she did. 69 00:02:48,961 --> 00:02:51,125 I don't mean to speak for you, but obviously, standing here, 70 00:02:51,129 --> 00:02:53,419 - we know who the good parent is. - Well, let her speak for herself. 71 00:02:53,423 --> 00:02:56,339 And when freezing doesn't feel like enough, 72 00:02:56,343 --> 00:02:58,262 I wish I could disappear. 73 00:03:04,518 --> 00:03:07,267 Finn, we need to talk about this college stuff. 74 00:03:07,271 --> 00:03:08,852 Man, that's a lotta coffee. 75 00:03:08,856 --> 00:03:10,687 Yeah, well, I have a panel discussion later today, 76 00:03:10,691 --> 00:03:12,564 so if I could have a cappuccino IV, I would. 77 00:03:12,568 --> 00:03:13,857 Do not deflect. 78 00:03:13,861 --> 00:03:16,234 You're behind and we need to deal with it. 79 00:03:16,238 --> 00:03:17,819 You need to go easy on my man. 80 00:03:17,823 --> 00:03:20,572 'Kay, Dad, this is what the guidance counselor was talking about. 81 00:03:20,576 --> 00:03:22,949 You and I need to present a united front. 82 00:03:22,953 --> 00:03:26,536 - Then stop disagreeing with me. - What, what? 83 00:03:26,540 --> 00:03:29,956 Look, Paige, this lady said his grades are good. 84 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:34,002 So, what you need to do, let him take a break, 85 00:03:34,006 --> 00:03:35,879 come on down to the halfway house with me. 86 00:03:35,883 --> 00:03:38,548 - Yeah, I like hangin' out with Grandpa. - Great, hang out at home. 87 00:03:38,552 --> 00:03:40,633 Okay, but Murphy said I need to come out of my shell 88 00:03:40,637 --> 00:03:43,178 and it gives me somethin' to write about on my applications. 89 00:03:43,182 --> 00:03:45,597 Well, it's hard to write when you've been killed in a prison riot. 90 00:03:45,601 --> 00:03:47,432 It's not a prison and you know that, Paige. 91 00:03:47,436 --> 00:03:49,851 Okay, a post-prison riot. 92 00:03:49,855 --> 00:03:51,686 Mm-hm, it's about Mal. 93 00:03:51,690 --> 00:03:54,522 - Mm! - No, no, no, this is not about Mal. 94 00:03:54,526 --> 00:03:56,357 Mal and I are officially friendly. 95 00:03:56,361 --> 00:03:58,443 And that means what now? 96 00:03:58,447 --> 00:04:00,361 It means that he texted me 97 00:04:00,365 --> 00:04:02,864 to say "no hard feelings" and "let's be friends." 98 00:04:02,868 --> 00:04:05,700 I said "same-sies." So, brand-new world. 99 00:04:05,704 --> 00:04:07,202 I am friends with a guy. 100 00:04:07,206 --> 00:04:09,704 Okay, well, Ms. Dunlap said I need community service. 101 00:04:09,708 --> 00:04:10,997 Right? 102 00:04:11,001 --> 00:04:14,042 Oh, shit, one of my panelists just canceled. Shit, okay. 103 00:04:14,046 --> 00:04:17,045 We, uh, we have to have this conversation, but not right now. 104 00:04:17,049 --> 00:04:18,880 Cool, 'cause this conversation can be over right now 105 00:04:18,884 --> 00:04:21,053 - if you just let me go. - Okay now. 106 00:04:22,054 --> 00:04:23,676 Okay, go, go. Yes, that's fine. 107 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:26,179 - But I, but I, I have to take you. - We goin' to prison. 108 00:04:26,183 --> 00:04:27,722 - See you at prison. - We goin' to prison. 109 00:04:27,726 --> 00:04:29,265 - Dad, really? - I'll see you at prison. 110 00:04:29,269 --> 00:04:30,475 That's not funny, Finn. It's not funny. 111 00:04:30,479 --> 00:04:31,559 Oh... 112 00:04:31,563 --> 00:04:32,977 Hey, hey, Finn. 113 00:04:32,981 --> 00:04:34,854 If anything happens while you're here, 114 00:04:34,858 --> 00:04:36,689 don't be too proud to just run, okay? 115 00:04:36,693 --> 00:04:37,982 - Where? - As fast as you can. 116 00:04:37,986 --> 00:04:39,400 - Hey! - Look who's here. 117 00:04:39,404 --> 00:04:42,111 Hey, big man, I heard you'll be joining us today. 118 00:04:42,115 --> 00:04:43,947 - Yes, sir, all day. - Well... 119 00:04:43,951 --> 00:04:47,408 So, look, we gon' take off before somebody changes her mind. 120 00:04:47,412 --> 00:04:49,915 - Wait, Dad. Hey! - Gotta go! 121 00:04:50,415 --> 00:04:53,748 Don't worry, he's good. I'll personally make sure of it. 122 00:04:53,752 --> 00:04:55,045 Okay. 123 00:04:55,671 --> 00:04:58,086 - How you been? - Uh, great. 124 00:04:58,090 --> 00:05:01,506 You know, super busy going viral, which is a lot more work. 125 00:05:01,510 --> 00:05:04,467 Oh, you could really help me. 126 00:05:04,471 --> 00:05:06,177 - I can? - Yeah. 127 00:05:06,181 --> 00:05:10,265 I have this panel and it's called "Social Media to Social Work," 128 00:05:10,269 --> 00:05:11,683 and somebody just dropped out. 129 00:05:11,687 --> 00:05:13,434 It's only an hour. You would be perfect. 130 00:05:13,438 --> 00:05:15,478 So, just say that you'll do it? 131 00:05:15,482 --> 00:05:18,606 I don't know. I mean, you think that'd be cool or... 132 00:05:18,610 --> 00:05:19,903 Why, because... 133 00:05:20,821 --> 00:05:24,195 Yeah, come on, this is as friends, colleagues, 134 00:05:24,199 --> 00:05:25,280 - you know? - Mm. 135 00:05:25,284 --> 00:05:26,865 Like, this is... I'm cool, you're cool. 136 00:05:26,869 --> 00:05:28,449 - We're cool. - Cool. 137 00:05:28,453 --> 00:05:29,534 - Yeah. - Yeah. 138 00:05:29,538 --> 00:05:32,245 Also, um, I just really need this to go well 139 00:05:32,249 --> 00:05:36,166 because I don't know if you saw the disastrous TV thing that I did. 140 00:05:36,170 --> 00:05:38,297 Ooh, yeah, who didn't see that? 141 00:05:39,298 --> 00:05:42,046 Right, so, since then I've been bleeding clients. 142 00:05:42,050 --> 00:05:45,133 I just need to remind people that I still know what I'm talking about. 143 00:05:45,137 --> 00:05:46,221 Mm... 144 00:05:47,431 --> 00:05:48,887 fuck it, sure. 145 00:05:48,891 --> 00:05:49,971 - Really? - Mm-hm. 146 00:05:49,975 --> 00:05:51,764 Okay, but Mal doesn't swear. 147 00:05:51,768 --> 00:05:53,683 - Friend Mal does. - Friend Mal? 148 00:05:53,687 --> 00:05:54,976 - Mm-hm. - Okay, friend. 149 00:05:54,980 --> 00:05:56,811 That's amazing, thank you. 150 00:05:56,815 --> 00:05:59,981 - So I'll text you the fuckin' address. - Text me the fuckin' address. 151 00:05:59,985 --> 00:06:01,983 - Okay, great. Okay, thanks. - Cool. 152 00:06:01,987 --> 00:06:04,235 - Oh, yay. - Yep. 153 00:06:04,239 --> 00:06:06,613 - Alright, thanks. Okay. - See ya. 154 00:06:06,617 --> 00:06:08,489 I didn't wanna answer a survey. 155 00:06:08,493 --> 00:06:11,914 I just stayed in the line to hear a woman's voice. 156 00:06:12,873 --> 00:06:15,497 Finn, you ain't never had a girlfriend, right? 157 00:06:15,501 --> 00:06:18,500 - No. - You do like girls, right? 158 00:06:18,504 --> 00:06:20,418 - Hey. - Not, not that I give a shit, man. 159 00:06:20,422 --> 00:06:22,670 Look, I'm tryna hear about some ass, man. 160 00:06:22,674 --> 00:06:25,381 You a'right over there? What size shoes are those? 161 00:06:25,385 --> 00:06:28,384 - Hey, hey, hey. Nix that, man. - Ten and a half. 162 00:06:28,388 --> 00:06:30,345 Hey, come on, Old School, 163 00:06:30,349 --> 00:06:31,930 you ain't teach the kid nothin'. 164 00:06:31,934 --> 00:06:34,015 Y'all forget I was locked up his whole life, man. 165 00:06:34,019 --> 00:06:35,099 Teach me what? 166 00:06:35,103 --> 00:06:37,602 That shoe thing is just some old jailhouse nonsense. 167 00:06:37,606 --> 00:06:40,146 If a dude asks you what size your shoes are, 168 00:06:40,150 --> 00:06:41,648 he plan on takin' 'em from you. 169 00:06:41,652 --> 00:06:44,571 But we ain't doin' that here, am I right? 170 00:06:45,489 --> 00:06:46,698 I see. 171 00:06:48,367 --> 00:06:49,572 Is there a bathroom here? 172 00:06:49,576 --> 00:06:51,991 Yeah, uh, you go down the hall on the left. 173 00:06:51,995 --> 00:06:55,286 Mm, alright... Okay. 174 00:06:55,290 --> 00:06:57,376 - Be careful, hear? - Yep. 175 00:06:59,545 --> 00:07:00,875 That's my dude right there, y'all. 176 00:07:00,879 --> 00:07:02,377 Now Mama made him a little soft, 177 00:07:02,381 --> 00:07:05,088 but we gonna help him learn how to stand up for himself. 178 00:07:05,092 --> 00:07:06,256 Yeah, are you sure about that? 179 00:07:06,260 --> 00:07:09,096 'Cause he, he left with that "I'll see you in the car" energy. 180 00:07:10,931 --> 00:07:12,140 Let me go check on him. 181 00:07:13,559 --> 00:07:15,060 Hey, Finn? 182 00:07:15,936 --> 00:07:19,936 Malcolm Kennedy, you do truly meaningful work 183 00:07:19,940 --> 00:07:23,898 with justice-impacted individuals like my dad. 184 00:07:23,902 --> 00:07:28,740 So, tell us, how does social media figure into reentry? 185 00:07:29,283 --> 00:07:34,284 Well, um, look, the only true power any marginalized group has 186 00:07:34,288 --> 00:07:36,494 is to bring an awareness to their struggle. 187 00:07:36,498 --> 00:07:41,207 So, when you consider how legacy media has been complicit 188 00:07:41,211 --> 00:07:43,293 in perpetuating injustice, 189 00:07:43,297 --> 00:07:45,211 why wouldn't we take advantage of social media? 190 00:07:45,215 --> 00:07:47,797 And so, what does that look like? 191 00:07:47,801 --> 00:07:50,508 Well, I encourage my clients to document both 192 00:07:50,512 --> 00:07:53,303 the rehabilitation and the roadblocks 193 00:07:53,307 --> 00:07:54,808 put in their path. 194 00:07:55,309 --> 00:07:59,851 Wow... that's amazing. 195 00:07:59,855 --> 00:08:02,061 Thank you for being a lifesaver. 196 00:08:02,065 --> 00:08:04,355 - Of course. - I actually got two new clients 197 00:08:04,359 --> 00:08:07,108 and a "good job" from the VP of my department. 198 00:08:07,112 --> 00:08:11,029 So, you know, people are trusting Paige Alexander again. 199 00:08:11,033 --> 00:08:13,535 You know, I was happy to do it, so. 200 00:08:14,244 --> 00:08:15,867 I knew you were good at your job, 201 00:08:15,871 --> 00:08:19,871 but you're, like, really, really good at your job. 202 00:08:19,875 --> 00:08:22,999 You sound really, really surprised. 203 00:08:23,003 --> 00:08:28,217 No, more like proud... of myself for inviting you. 204 00:08:30,093 --> 00:08:34,761 So, friend, do we need to, like, process the past or just... 205 00:08:34,765 --> 00:08:38,473 - Uh, let's not, let's not. - That's great. Okay, so, alright. 206 00:08:38,477 --> 00:08:40,975 I was thinking maybe, um, 207 00:08:40,979 --> 00:08:43,603 we could just get a quick, friendly drink, you know? 208 00:08:43,607 --> 00:08:46,231 So, I could thank you for showing up for me tonight. 209 00:08:46,235 --> 00:08:47,774 - Sure. - Okay, great. 210 00:08:47,778 --> 00:08:50,151 - We'll be there. - Oh. 211 00:08:50,155 --> 00:08:52,153 The fuck you mean he's bringing 212 00:08:52,157 --> 00:08:53,446 - his girlfriend? - Well, apparently, 213 00:08:53,450 --> 00:08:54,864 she used to be his ex-girlfriend, 214 00:08:54,868 --> 00:08:56,783 but then they got back together after we broke up. 215 00:08:56,787 --> 00:08:58,284 You were a rebound? 216 00:08:58,288 --> 00:09:00,995 Or, or she is. Paige, what are you thinking? 217 00:09:00,999 --> 00:09:03,498 I am thinking that Mal and I are friends 218 00:09:03,502 --> 00:09:05,583 and you know I have never been friends with a guy before, 219 00:09:05,587 --> 00:09:07,502 so maybe this is really good for me. 220 00:09:07,506 --> 00:09:09,212 Or maybe it'll be a disaster. 221 00:09:09,216 --> 00:09:12,215 Why are you acting like When Harry Met Sally is for real? 222 00:09:12,219 --> 00:09:15,134 Like, people can be friends with the opposite sex. 223 00:09:15,138 --> 00:09:16,427 Not if you break up with them. 224 00:09:16,431 --> 00:09:19,013 If you break up with someone, they'll always be in love with you 225 00:09:19,017 --> 00:09:20,431 or you'll always be in love with them. 226 00:09:20,435 --> 00:09:22,350 The point is, someone is always still in love, 227 00:09:22,354 --> 00:09:23,643 they just don't admit it. 228 00:09:23,647 --> 00:09:25,979 There is a reason that movie is a classic. 229 00:09:25,983 --> 00:09:30,316 - Can I just be happy for him? - Yeah, you could, but why, Paige? 230 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:32,151 This is a bad idea. Turn around. 231 00:09:32,155 --> 00:09:34,863 - No, I'm still parked. - Then crash your car. 232 00:09:34,867 --> 00:09:37,198 This is literally what insurance is for. 233 00:09:37,202 --> 00:09:38,700 I think it's gonna be fine. 234 00:09:38,704 --> 00:09:42,416 I'm, I'm, I am gonna call you and tell you how great it was. 235 00:09:44,293 --> 00:09:48,293 Yeah, I don't think I've ever met a pole dancing instructor before. 236 00:09:48,297 --> 00:09:50,003 That's, that's exciting. 237 00:09:50,007 --> 00:09:52,338 Mm-hm, I mean, you know, Ava's being modest. 238 00:09:52,342 --> 00:09:53,840 - Oh. - The, uh, teaching pole 239 00:09:53,844 --> 00:09:54,924 is her side hustle. 240 00:09:54,928 --> 00:09:57,677 Oh, okay. What is your main hustle? 241 00:09:57,681 --> 00:09:59,262 I just finished law school. 242 00:09:59,266 --> 00:10:00,972 Fourth in her class. 243 00:10:00,976 --> 00:10:02,473 She takes the bar next month. 244 00:10:02,477 --> 00:10:06,561 Wow, I feel like those things are so opposite. 245 00:10:06,565 --> 00:10:08,062 Well, actually, the law and the pole 246 00:10:08,066 --> 00:10:09,522 have more in common than you might think. 247 00:10:09,526 --> 00:10:12,650 For me, they're both tools to empower women in a world 248 00:10:12,654 --> 00:10:14,611 that would rather we forfeit our power. 249 00:10:14,615 --> 00:10:17,447 Whoa, beauty and brains. 250 00:10:17,451 --> 00:10:19,953 Or should I say booty and brains? 251 00:10:22,164 --> 00:10:25,538 I mean, she's a jackpot. 252 00:10:25,542 --> 00:10:29,292 Says the obvious lottery winner. I saw you up there on that panel. 253 00:10:29,296 --> 00:10:32,128 - Oh. - You're a boss and you're hot. 254 00:10:32,132 --> 00:10:33,213 - Me? - Mm-hm. 255 00:10:33,217 --> 00:10:36,049 No, I think of myself as more lukewarm. 256 00:10:36,053 --> 00:10:39,636 Mm-hm. Uh, anyway, uh, I-I think we should go. 257 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:41,346 What? You should come to a class sometime. 258 00:10:41,350 --> 00:10:43,264 - No. - I could never. 259 00:10:43,268 --> 00:10:46,059 That's what I thought. The pole makes me strong. 260 00:10:46,063 --> 00:10:48,895 And it really helps me get in touch with the power in my body. 261 00:10:48,899 --> 00:10:51,231 I honestly can't imagine myself on a pole 262 00:10:51,235 --> 00:10:54,442 'cause I feel like it would trigger my daddy issues. 263 00:10:54,446 --> 00:10:56,611 Girl, don't even get me started. 264 00:10:56,615 --> 00:10:59,781 I have massive issues with my dad being in jail my whole life. 265 00:10:59,785 --> 00:11:01,074 - Wait, what? - Mm-hm. 266 00:11:01,078 --> 00:11:02,909 - Excuse me? Same! - What? 267 00:11:02,913 --> 00:11:04,953 Same! 268 00:11:04,957 --> 00:11:06,746 You are so cool! 269 00:11:06,750 --> 00:11:08,748 - Was your dad in federal or state? - State. 270 00:11:08,752 --> 00:11:11,668 Oh, mine was in federal, so I guess he was a little more ambitious. 271 00:11:11,672 --> 00:11:14,754 Wow, how did you two meet? 272 00:11:14,758 --> 00:11:17,465 Is there some sort of halfway house dating app I don't know about? 273 00:11:17,469 --> 00:11:20,093 I think I have a type. 274 00:11:20,097 --> 00:11:22,387 You're so fun. So, why did you and Mal break up? 275 00:11:22,391 --> 00:11:24,639 - Well, it was really a timing issue... - She fucked her ex. 276 00:11:24,643 --> 00:11:26,520 Oh, I see. 277 00:11:27,521 --> 00:11:31,271 Well, like I said, pole is empowering and healing. 278 00:11:31,275 --> 00:11:33,986 And it can really help a woman get her shit together. 279 00:11:39,074 --> 00:11:42,282 Social anxiety doesn't just make it hard for me to talk to people. 280 00:11:42,286 --> 00:11:44,742 It makes it hard after I've talked to people. 281 00:11:44,746 --> 00:11:46,995 It's like he's in one of those sensory deprivation tanks, 282 00:11:46,999 --> 00:11:48,288 but without the tank. 283 00:11:48,292 --> 00:11:51,753 - Does he do this often? - I have never seen this before. 284 00:11:54,256 --> 00:11:55,962 Now I don't have to go back there, do I? 285 00:11:55,966 --> 00:12:00,008 You done had 17 years of veggie burgers and touch football. 286 00:12:00,012 --> 00:12:01,885 Come on, let's try somethin' new, man. 287 00:12:01,889 --> 00:12:03,469 Well, what if I don't want to? 288 00:12:03,473 --> 00:12:04,600 You trust me? 289 00:12:05,225 --> 00:12:06,890 - I think so. - So, I'm askin' you to give it 290 00:12:06,894 --> 00:12:08,892 another shot, huh? 291 00:12:08,896 --> 00:12:12,107 Finn, it'd be good for you to start pushin' back on folk. 292 00:12:13,984 --> 00:12:15,732 Okay, fine. 293 00:12:15,736 --> 00:12:17,817 - Okay. You eaten today? - No. 294 00:12:17,821 --> 00:12:19,819 Come on, I'ma whip somethin' up for you. 295 00:12:19,823 --> 00:12:21,112 Come here. 296 00:12:21,116 --> 00:12:24,824 Come on. Come on, it ain't gonna be no veggie burger either. 297 00:12:24,828 --> 00:12:26,788 I'm hungry too. 298 00:12:28,207 --> 00:12:30,830 - What'd I miss? - I think it was male bonding? 299 00:12:30,834 --> 00:12:33,750 - Oh, I wanna see. Do it again! - No, no, no, no, no, no. 300 00:12:33,754 --> 00:12:35,960 Tell me about Mal's rebound with his rebound with you. 301 00:12:35,964 --> 00:12:39,134 Oh... Ava is great. 302 00:12:42,471 --> 00:12:45,678 She actually invited me to go to her pole dancing class. 303 00:12:45,682 --> 00:12:47,680 Uh, we grew up going to Hope Lutheran. 304 00:12:47,684 --> 00:12:50,058 - We don't dance on poles. - We repressed? 305 00:12:50,062 --> 00:12:52,602 I think I might be repressed. 306 00:12:52,606 --> 00:12:55,939 Is that what Murphy meant when he said I have to work on this? 307 00:12:55,943 --> 00:12:57,524 Well, show me your swivel. 308 00:12:57,528 --> 00:12:59,692 I'll tell you. Mm-hm, mm-hm. 309 00:12:59,696 --> 00:13:03,033 Okay, here's my swivel. 310 00:13:11,583 --> 00:13:14,503 - I should go to pole class? - You should run straight there. 311 00:13:16,672 --> 00:13:19,879 ♪ Never, ever felt this kind of love before ♪ 312 00:13:19,883 --> 00:13:21,714 Check on the sly, okay? 313 00:13:21,718 --> 00:13:22,799 - Mm-hm. - Alright. 314 00:13:22,803 --> 00:13:23,967 - Okay. - Hey, hey. 315 00:13:23,971 --> 00:13:27,095 Hey, you back, man. Good to see you, big dawg. 316 00:13:27,099 --> 00:13:29,430 - Thanks. - I still like those kicks. 317 00:13:29,434 --> 00:13:31,808 Now you don't ever listen, Tre. You don't listen, man. 318 00:13:31,812 --> 00:13:34,811 Don't you understand, nobody ever taught him how to fight? 319 00:13:34,815 --> 00:13:35,895 Right, son? 320 00:13:35,899 --> 00:13:37,814 Actually, Mom tried to sign me up for debate. 321 00:13:37,818 --> 00:13:40,525 - Oh, that's a firm no. - Yeah, I didn't even do debate. 322 00:13:40,529 --> 00:13:41,985 But I don't wanna fight people. 323 00:13:41,989 --> 00:13:43,653 I don't want you to fight people. 324 00:13:43,657 --> 00:13:45,238 But if you know how to fight, 325 00:13:45,242 --> 00:13:47,490 you stand taller, you'll be more confident. 326 00:13:47,494 --> 00:13:50,869 All those nobodies at school won't seem so big and bad. 327 00:13:50,873 --> 00:13:52,791 How is fighting gonna make me taller? 328 00:13:53,709 --> 00:13:56,040 - Come on, come on. - Oh, my God. 329 00:13:56,044 --> 00:13:59,089 - Always got me doin' something crazy. - Just come with me. 330 00:14:00,591 --> 00:14:02,338 Alright, Finn, look at me. 331 00:14:02,342 --> 00:14:05,425 - What the? - In the joint, they'd strap these things 332 00:14:05,429 --> 00:14:06,926 to they chest before the riots. 333 00:14:06,930 --> 00:14:08,011 - Right? - Right. 334 00:14:08,015 --> 00:14:10,930 Good for blades, worthless for tear gas, a'ight. 335 00:14:10,934 --> 00:14:12,348 - Amen. - I'll keep that in mind. 336 00:14:12,352 --> 00:14:14,434 Okay. Alright, now, 337 00:14:14,438 --> 00:14:18,646 I want you to let your hands fly. 338 00:14:18,650 --> 00:14:21,153 Watch me, watch me. 339 00:14:22,237 --> 00:14:23,776 - Come on. - Do I have to make that noise? 340 00:14:23,780 --> 00:14:25,741 You make whatever noise you wanna make. 341 00:14:27,117 --> 00:14:28,118 Okay? 342 00:14:28,952 --> 00:14:30,954 Good. 343 00:14:31,663 --> 00:14:32,748 Okay. 344 00:14:33,957 --> 00:14:35,288 Okay, that's good. 345 00:14:35,292 --> 00:14:38,587 Okay, now, Finn... hit like you're angry. 346 00:14:38,837 --> 00:14:40,168 But I'm not. 347 00:14:40,172 --> 00:14:43,087 Yeah? I think you got a whole lot to be angry about. 348 00:14:43,091 --> 00:14:44,801 Oh, like what? 349 00:14:45,469 --> 00:14:46,803 Seeing me get busted. 350 00:14:47,679 --> 00:14:49,097 Your mama... 351 00:14:49,932 --> 00:14:51,141 like your daddy. 352 00:14:53,143 --> 00:14:54,228 Yeah. 353 00:14:54,561 --> 00:14:59,191 All that baggage... way too much for you to carry, man. 354 00:14:59,566 --> 00:15:01,189 Let it go. Let it out, son. 355 00:15:01,193 --> 00:15:03,608 - Show them bitches. - Give it to 'em, man. 356 00:15:03,612 --> 00:15:05,985 - You heard what he said. - Come on, man. You got this. 357 00:15:05,989 --> 00:15:09,284 I was stuck doing the same thing I always do. 358 00:15:10,327 --> 00:15:12,538 But it was time to step into my power. 359 00:15:19,086 --> 00:15:20,087 Oh! 360 00:15:21,421 --> 00:15:23,173 What's your name? 361 00:15:24,258 --> 00:15:29,634 That's my Finn! Didn't I tell you? Look, that's my man! 362 00:15:29,638 --> 00:15:31,261 ♪ Pussy make him do the cha cha ♪ 363 00:15:31,265 --> 00:15:32,720 ♪ Pussy make him do the cha cha ♪ 364 00:15:32,724 --> 00:15:34,430 Work, Pamela. 365 00:15:34,434 --> 00:15:37,559 Okay. Love it, Sam. Oh. 366 00:15:37,563 --> 00:15:41,271 - Hi. - Oh, my God, you came! 367 00:15:41,275 --> 00:15:42,856 Is that weird? My sister said I should come. 368 00:15:42,860 --> 00:15:44,607 You weren't just inviting me to be nice, right? 369 00:15:44,611 --> 00:15:47,318 - No way. I'm so glad you're here! - Oh, thanks! 370 00:15:47,322 --> 00:15:50,864 Aw, welcome to your new safe space. 371 00:15:50,868 --> 00:15:53,700 - Oh, wow. - You're gonna love it here. 372 00:15:53,704 --> 00:15:55,869 Oh, am I dressed okay? 373 00:15:55,873 --> 00:15:57,704 There's no insecurity in here. 374 00:15:57,708 --> 00:15:59,873 Well, there might be a little. 375 00:15:59,877 --> 00:16:02,754 Ladies, welcome Paige. 376 00:16:05,215 --> 00:16:06,838 This is your pole. 377 00:16:06,842 --> 00:16:09,382 - Oh, I have my own pole. - Mm-hm. 378 00:16:09,386 --> 00:16:11,759 Let's show her what we do, ladies. 379 00:16:11,763 --> 00:16:15,058 - And make it nasty. - Make... Oh. 380 00:16:17,144 --> 00:16:19,893 Nice. If you don't want you, he don't want you. 381 00:16:19,897 --> 00:16:21,565 Let's go. 382 00:16:29,323 --> 00:16:31,237 And sit on it. 383 00:16:31,241 --> 00:16:34,036 And yes, Paige! Yes. 384 00:16:35,329 --> 00:16:37,915 I need that coochy to the mirror, Paige. 385 00:16:39,791 --> 00:16:42,457 - Yes! - Oh... 386 00:16:42,461 --> 00:16:45,210 Face down, ass up. 387 00:16:45,214 --> 00:16:48,046 That's the way we like ass. 388 00:16:48,050 --> 00:16:50,177 - Ah. - Yes! 389 00:16:51,011 --> 00:16:54,010 ♪ You better get your man before I make him break his neck ♪ 390 00:16:54,014 --> 00:16:56,179 ♪ Let my diamonds talk for me, I ain't even gotta flex ♪ 391 00:16:56,183 --> 00:16:58,435 ♪ Big Bank Beisha charm sittin' on my breasts ♪ 392 00:16:58,894 --> 00:17:00,354 Up! 393 00:17:05,901 --> 00:17:08,816 Oh, my God! You're a natural! 394 00:17:08,820 --> 00:17:11,110 - That's so fun! - I told you. 395 00:17:11,114 --> 00:17:12,282 Yeah. 396 00:17:16,745 --> 00:17:18,201 Alright, then. 397 00:17:18,205 --> 00:17:21,037 Mayweather made a career outta not gettin' hit. 398 00:17:21,041 --> 00:17:22,459 Okay, come on, you try. 399 00:17:23,168 --> 00:17:24,165 What if he punches me? 400 00:17:24,169 --> 00:17:26,251 Come on, man, I'm not gon' punch you, bro. 401 00:17:26,255 --> 00:17:29,671 Besides, the worst part of being punched is the fear of being punched. 402 00:17:29,675 --> 00:17:31,923 - Okay, go. - It's just like gettin' spanked, 403 00:17:31,927 --> 00:17:33,675 - but on your face. - Yeah, his mama doesn't believe 404 00:17:33,679 --> 00:17:36,139 - in corporal punishment. - And she's Black? 405 00:17:37,558 --> 00:17:38,763 Now we're gonna do somethin' 406 00:17:38,767 --> 00:17:40,181 - a little bit more advanced, okay? - Okay! 407 00:17:40,185 --> 00:17:42,267 Oh, but don't feel like you have to. 408 00:17:42,271 --> 00:17:44,314 - Okay? - Oh. 409 00:17:49,194 --> 00:17:51,401 Do I smell a challenge? 410 00:17:51,405 --> 00:17:54,988 N-No, she's just being nice. It's my first class. 411 00:17:54,992 --> 00:17:58,950 Nah, bitch, that's a flex. Sis isn't tryna give you her man. 412 00:17:58,954 --> 00:18:02,787 Hoes know if the competition gets too sexy, it's gonna be a wrap. 413 00:18:02,791 --> 00:18:05,460 And that's on period. 414 00:18:08,297 --> 00:18:10,507 - Okay. - I wanna try. 415 00:18:11,341 --> 00:18:12,422 - Really? - Yeah. 416 00:18:12,426 --> 00:18:13,631 - Yeah. - Oh, okay. 417 00:18:13,635 --> 00:18:15,304 Go get the mat. 418 00:18:15,721 --> 00:18:17,719 Look, really listen to your body, okay? 419 00:18:17,723 --> 00:18:18,803 - Okay. - Okay. 420 00:18:18,807 --> 00:18:20,180 - So here? This high? - Yes. 421 00:18:20,184 --> 00:18:22,227 - Good. Reach. - Okay. Yeah? 422 00:18:23,228 --> 00:18:24,893 You got it. Yes. 423 00:18:24,897 --> 00:18:27,478 Wow, okay. Yes. 424 00:18:27,482 --> 00:18:28,563 Squeeze. 425 00:18:28,567 --> 00:18:31,191 ♪ Pockets full of guapo, I get money like I'm Pablo ♪ 426 00:18:31,195 --> 00:18:33,401 ♪ Big-stepping, trend-setting, all these bitches follow ♪ 427 00:18:33,405 --> 00:18:35,820 ♪ Money over everything the mothafuckin' motto ♪ 428 00:18:35,824 --> 00:18:38,281 ♪ Took off on these bitches they can't see me like I'm Waldo ♪ 429 00:18:38,285 --> 00:18:40,871 ♪ Bitch, I'm 'bout my money, I look like I hit the Lotto ♪ 430 00:18:41,580 --> 00:18:44,204 I love it, you're amazing! 431 00:18:44,208 --> 00:18:46,706 She better recognize! Go me! 432 00:18:46,710 --> 00:18:49,167 - Look at you go! - Thank you, thank you. 433 00:18:49,171 --> 00:18:50,877 I think I did it! 434 00:18:50,881 --> 00:18:52,670 Oh! 435 00:18:52,674 --> 00:18:55,173 Oh, my God! Quick, get some ice! Get some ice! 436 00:18:55,177 --> 00:18:56,674 - Are you okay? - No. 437 00:18:56,678 --> 00:18:59,969 Breathe, breathe, breathe. Oh, shit. 438 00:18:59,973 --> 00:19:02,931 Oh, my God, breathe, breathe, breathe, breathe. 439 00:19:02,935 --> 00:19:06,434 - You looked beautiful, though. - Thank you. 440 00:19:06,438 --> 00:19:09,358 You did sign the waiver, right? 441 00:19:10,484 --> 00:19:11,898 - You ready? - Yeah. 442 00:19:11,902 --> 00:19:14,404 - Alright. - Relax, relax your body. 443 00:19:15,781 --> 00:19:17,491 - Good. - Oh, shit. 444 00:19:18,700 --> 00:19:20,782 There you go, just like that, just like that. 445 00:19:20,786 --> 00:19:22,367 - Go, Finny, - Yeah. Shake it off. 446 00:19:22,371 --> 00:19:23,576 Bob and weave. 447 00:19:23,580 --> 00:19:25,620 Oh, oh, my God. 448 00:19:25,624 --> 00:19:27,539 Oh, he gettin' fancy with it now. 449 00:19:27,543 --> 00:19:29,586 You ready? I'm gonna come with it. You ready? 450 00:19:32,673 --> 00:19:34,170 Oh, Miles! 451 00:19:34,174 --> 00:19:36,464 What the hell is wrong with you?! 452 00:19:36,468 --> 00:19:39,425 Baby, baby, you weren't supposed to hit him. 453 00:19:39,429 --> 00:19:41,845 - You said that wasn't gonna hurt. - Oka... Oh, look at that. 454 00:19:41,849 --> 00:19:43,346 - Go get some ice, man. - I got you. 455 00:19:43,350 --> 00:19:44,639 - Y-You okay? - How bad is it? 456 00:19:44,643 --> 00:19:45,807 Okay, it's not that bad... 457 00:19:45,811 --> 00:19:47,225 Go help. Get a towel. Get a towel. 458 00:19:47,229 --> 00:19:48,814 It's, it's pretty bad. 459 00:19:50,774 --> 00:19:52,776 Come on. 460 00:19:54,570 --> 00:19:57,197 - Oh, Jesus Christ. - Hey. 461 00:19:57,823 --> 00:20:01,072 - Oh, what happened? - It's no big deal, what happened to you? 462 00:20:01,076 --> 00:20:03,116 No, no, no, what happened to him? 463 00:20:03,120 --> 00:20:04,909 Mom, it was an accident. 464 00:20:04,913 --> 00:20:08,663 I was just tryin' to teach the boy how to fight and the punch missed, 465 00:20:08,667 --> 00:20:10,081 - that's it. - You hit my son?! 466 00:20:10,085 --> 00:20:11,416 What? Grandpa wouldn't do that. 467 00:20:11,420 --> 00:20:13,626 You let somebody else hit my son? 468 00:20:13,630 --> 00:20:14,836 - Maybe. - Paige. 469 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:16,880 This is why I didn't want him to go down there. 470 00:20:16,884 --> 00:20:19,674 Are you okay, Finn? You have blood on your shirt. 471 00:20:19,678 --> 00:20:22,347 Oh, my God, stop. I'm fine. I'm fine. 472 00:20:24,057 --> 00:20:25,597 - He is not fine. - I'm fine! 473 00:20:25,601 --> 00:20:27,432 - He said he's fine. - You are not fine! 474 00:20:27,436 --> 00:20:29,104 Are you happy? 475 00:20:34,943 --> 00:20:38,026 - Ugh, you. - Hold on. 476 00:20:38,030 --> 00:20:39,736 - You... - Okay. Please, let me tell you 477 00:20:39,740 --> 00:20:40,820 what happened. 478 00:20:40,824 --> 00:20:43,531 You let some guy who just got out of prison hit my son. 479 00:20:43,535 --> 00:20:45,533 It does sound crazy when you say it like that. 480 00:20:45,537 --> 00:20:47,619 And how would you say it, Mal? 481 00:20:47,623 --> 00:20:49,245 First off, I would say, I'm sorry. 482 00:20:49,249 --> 00:20:51,039 Okay? They were teaching him how to box. 483 00:20:51,043 --> 00:20:53,166 He's young and green, and bobbed when he should've weaved. 484 00:20:53,170 --> 00:20:55,710 But the medic checked him out, he is fine. 485 00:20:55,714 --> 00:20:57,545 And your dad got an earful from me already, 486 00:20:57,549 --> 00:21:00,969 so, again, I am sorry. 487 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:05,345 Thank you for getting him checked out. 488 00:21:05,349 --> 00:21:07,305 I know he's fine. I just... 489 00:21:07,309 --> 00:21:09,599 Yeah, no mom wants her kid comin' home 490 00:21:09,603 --> 00:21:12,189 - with a bloody nose. - Exactly. 491 00:21:13,148 --> 00:21:14,771 Rough day for the Alexanders? 492 00:21:14,775 --> 00:21:16,397 What do you mean? I'm great. 493 00:21:16,401 --> 00:21:21,736 Well, um, I heard the pole won a round. 494 00:21:21,740 --> 00:21:23,154 - Oh, did you? - Yeah. 495 00:21:23,158 --> 00:21:24,701 Hm. 496 00:21:25,994 --> 00:21:27,283 That's gonna bruise. 497 00:21:27,287 --> 00:21:30,207 Yeah, I'm gonna tell everybody I got filler. 498 00:21:31,583 --> 00:21:34,082 You know, you take care of everybody else. 499 00:21:34,086 --> 00:21:36,125 I just hope you let somebody take care of you. 500 00:21:36,129 --> 00:21:37,210 These are terrible. 501 00:21:37,214 --> 00:21:38,711 Yeah, because they're Brussel sprouts. 502 00:21:38,715 --> 00:21:40,630 Peas would be better, but peas have too much sugar. 503 00:21:40,634 --> 00:21:42,507 Mm, true. 504 00:21:42,511 --> 00:21:46,135 You know, I'm not gonna lie, 505 00:21:46,139 --> 00:21:50,223 I wasn't sure us bein' friends would work, 506 00:21:50,227 --> 00:21:53,730 but, uh... this is cool. 507 00:21:57,317 --> 00:21:58,731 - Mal. - What? 508 00:21:58,735 --> 00:22:00,028 Um... 509 00:22:03,282 --> 00:22:08,575 I don't know if I'm ready to be friends with you or Ava, just yet. 510 00:22:08,579 --> 00:22:10,076 Sor... I thought that I did. 511 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:13,746 I-I thought I was ready, but I, I, um... Is that okay? 512 00:22:13,750 --> 00:22:15,460 Perfectly okay. 513 00:22:17,504 --> 00:22:18,505 I get it. 514 00:22:25,804 --> 00:22:27,222 Apology tea. 515 00:22:28,557 --> 00:22:31,185 Well, then you should've brought me the whole pot. 516 00:22:33,228 --> 00:22:35,647 - Baby, I'm sorry. - I know. 517 00:22:36,690 --> 00:22:39,022 I know you didn't mean for it to happen. 518 00:22:39,026 --> 00:22:40,857 God, he had no business bein' down there. 519 00:22:40,861 --> 00:22:42,567 Well, I told you that. 520 00:22:42,571 --> 00:22:46,404 And that school counselor was right. She was right, she was right. 521 00:22:46,408 --> 00:22:51,201 The boy needs to see his elders being unified, right? 522 00:22:51,205 --> 00:22:52,493 Elders? 523 00:22:52,497 --> 00:22:54,833 You are older than he is, Paige. 524 00:22:56,210 --> 00:23:00,214 I don't like being the bad mom. 525 00:23:01,215 --> 00:23:02,841 It's not fun. 526 00:23:03,759 --> 00:23:07,592 I know I'm... sometimes a better runnin' buddy 527 00:23:07,596 --> 00:23:13,143 than a... responsible dad type. 528 00:23:14,061 --> 00:23:15,479 Paige... 529 00:23:16,355 --> 00:23:18,982 I'm still learning what that is, baby. 530 00:23:24,696 --> 00:23:29,697 - You wanna learn some Big Dad Energy? - You can't school me. 531 00:23:29,701 --> 00:23:33,952 Okay, go upstairs. 532 00:23:33,956 --> 00:23:38,373 You tell him to put his damn clothes in the dryer. 533 00:23:38,377 --> 00:23:41,213 Just like that. 534 00:23:45,259 --> 00:23:50,176 ♪ Don't want the world to know that side of me ♪ 535 00:23:50,180 --> 00:23:51,511 Mike Tyson said, 536 00:23:51,515 --> 00:23:54,059 "Everyone has a plan until they get punched." 537 00:23:55,143 --> 00:23:57,809 What I think he meant is there's no time to think. 538 00:23:57,813 --> 00:23:59,769 You just have to react. 539 00:23:59,773 --> 00:24:03,356 My granddad taught me lessons I would never learn in any book. 540 00:24:03,360 --> 00:24:08,862 I learned that life and manhood isn't just about throwing punches, 541 00:24:08,866 --> 00:24:11,030 it's also about taking them. 542 00:24:11,034 --> 00:24:13,283 Sometimes you end up with a bloody nose, 543 00:24:13,287 --> 00:24:16,286 but once you stare down the barrel of a fist, 544 00:24:16,290 --> 00:24:20,419 tests, and grades, and even people seem less scary. 545 00:24:22,171 --> 00:24:24,673 Thanks to my grandpa, I'll never freeze again. 546 00:24:25,465 --> 00:24:27,463 So I'm ready for whatever comes my way. 547 00:24:27,467 --> 00:24:30,470 ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪ 548 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:40,727 ♪ Don't try your best to stall stay for the night ♪ 549 00:24:40,731 --> 00:24:42,733 Oh, shit. Sadiiq. 550 00:24:43,358 --> 00:24:45,523 ♪ Nothing's right if you're gone ♪ 551 00:24:45,527 --> 00:24:48,776 ♪ Stay for the night, if it's all a lie ♪ 552 00:24:48,780 --> 00:24:51,241 ♪ I wouldn't mind if you're wrong ♪ 553 00:24:51,783 --> 00:24:55,283 ♪ Stay for the night, we've been alright ♪ 554 00:24:55,287 --> 00:24:57,243 ♪ For so long ♪ 555 00:24:57,247 --> 00:25:01,206 ♪ There's no coloring around us anymore ♪ 556 00:25:01,210 --> 00:25:05,293 ♪ You either know or you don't ♪ 557 00:25:05,297 --> 00:25:09,384 ♪ 558 00:25:11,011 --> 00:25:15,140 ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪ 559 00:25:20,187 --> 00:25:24,191 ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh ♪ 560 00:25:24,900 --> 00:25:27,277 ♪ 561 00:25:37,412 --> 00:25:39,414 Woo-hoo!