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I would like to say a few words
about weddings.

2
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I've just been through one.

3
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Not my own. My daughter's.

4
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Someday in the far future
I may be able to remember it

5
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with tender indulgence, but not now.

6
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I always used to think
that marriage was a simple affair.

7
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Boy and girl meet,
they fall in love, get married.

8
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They have babies,
eventually the babies grow up,

9
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meet other babies,
they fall in love and get married,

10
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so on and on and on.

11
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Looked at that way, it's not only simple,
it's downright monotonous.

12
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But I was wrong.
I figured without the wedding.

13
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Now you fathers will understand.
You have a little girl.

14
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She looks up to you. You're her oracle.
You're her hero.

15
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And then the day comes when
she gets her first permanent wave

16
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and goes to her first real party,

17
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and from that day on
you're in a constant state of panic.

18
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If the boys swarm around,
you're in a panic

19
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for fear she'll marry one of them.

20
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If they don't swarm around, why,

21
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of course you're in another
kind of a panic,

22
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and you wonder what's the matter with her.

23
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So you don't worry about it.

24
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You say to yourself, "I've got
plenty of time to worry about that.

25
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<i>"I'll</i> just put Off thinking about it."

26
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And then suddenly it is upon you.

27
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It was just three months ago,
exactly three months ago,

28
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that the storm broke here.

29
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It was an ordinary day,
very much like any other day.

30
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I had caught the commuters' train home,
as usual.

31
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It was late, as usual.

32
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<i>We own our own home in the suburbs,
at least we almost own it.</i>

33
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<i>Had it built when my law firm
made me a full-fledged partner.</i>

34
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<i>As usual it was Ellie
who was the first to greet me.</i>

35
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<i>She asked me what kind of a day I'd had,</i>

36
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<i>and I asked her
what kind of a day she'd had.</i>

37
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<i>And our Delilah, she was always the same.</i>

38
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<i>Another kitchen crisis,
but that's routine.</i>

39
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- Oh, hi, Dad.
- Hello, son.

40
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May I have the keys to the car?

41
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- Yeah. Be careful now.
- Okay.

42
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Good night.

43
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<i>As usual, Ben wanted the car.</i>

44
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<i>Ben's a nice, steady boy in college,
studying engineering.</i>

45
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Hi, Pop.

46
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- How you doing?
- Hi.

47
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<i>And Tommy. No worry about him,
except to try to keep him fed.</i>

48
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<i>It was "hi" and "goodbye" that night,
but I'm used to that.</i>

49
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<i>I was wondering if my daughter
had deserted us too,</i>

50
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<i>when I heard her voice.</i>

51
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Pops!Pops!

52
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<i>- Hi, Pops.
- Kay was our only daughter.</i>

53
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<i>I know a father's
not supposed to have favorites,</i>

54
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<i>but when it's Kay...</i>

55
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- Mmm, you smell good.
- You like it?

56
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- What's that?
- An atomizer.

57
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- Where'd you get it? A present?
- Mmm-hmm.

58
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- Who from?
- Oh. Somebody.

59
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What's happened to you?
You look different.

60
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- I do?
- Yeah.

61
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You look all lit up inside.

62
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You're not wearing
your usual deadpan look,

63
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that "how did I ever
get into this family" look.

64
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Oh, Pops.

65
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I know. You've been taking
those vitamins that Dr. Gray sent you.

66
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That's right.

68
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I guess I'll get me
some of those vitamins.

70
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I'll get it, Delilah!

71
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What's the matter with her?
She seems kind of queer.

72
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I don't know. Maybe she's in love.

73
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- In love. Who would she be in love with?
- I haven't the wildest idea.

74
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You must have some idea
or you wouldn't have mentioned it.

75
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Well...

76
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Buckley.

77
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- Who?
- Buckley.

78
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- Buckley who?
- You know that boy.

79
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Buckley something-or-other.
I don't know his last name.

80
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Never heard of him.

81
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Oh, of course you have.
He's been here again and again.

82
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- That doesn't mean anything.
- All right, I'm wrong.

83
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Sorry. Forgive me.

84
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- Who was it, dear?
- Buckley.

85
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- He's coming for me in a few minutes.
- I'll get your coffee.

86
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- Where did the boys go?
- Ben had some date,

87
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and Tommy went for basketball practice.

88
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Oh, Delilah, will you bring
the coffee, please?

89
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Yes, Miss Banks.

90
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Wouldn't you think those boys
would stay home once in a while?

91
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Ben's not a boy, Pops. He's a man.

92
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- He's old enough to have a family.
- At 19?

93
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Buckley says that's not too young
for a man to marry.

94
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I didn't marry your mother till I was 25.

95
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Oh, I know, Pops,
but that was millions of years ago.

96
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Look at all the men
in Ben's class at college.

97
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Loads of them are married
and have children.

98
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Gl's.

99
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Buckley says everyone should marry young.

100
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Did Buckley happen to mention who was
going to finance these child marriages?

101
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Oh, he says the family
should support them.

102
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He says it's really economy
in the long run.

103
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The men work better
and the babies are healthier.

104
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<i>From the way
she talked about this Buckley,</i>

105
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<i>you'd think he was Moses and
Einstein and Gallup all rolled into one.</i>

106
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<i>I tried to remember which one he was.</i>

107
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<i>There'd been so many boys
who had beat a path to our door.</i>

108
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<i>Which one of them was Buckley?</i>

109
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<i>Was it the boy with the teeth?</i>

110
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<i>Or the guy with the porcupine hair?</i>

111
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<i>Or the English teacher,
that poop-a-doop that Ellie liked?</i>

112
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<i>I hoped he wasn't that muscle-bound ham
with the shoulders.</i>

113
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<i>And she'd never fall for that bebop hound.</i>

114
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<i>It couldn't be that genius
who said he'd fix my radio.</i>

115
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<i>She couldn't do that to me.</i>

116
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<i>Couldn't be the radical.
He hadn't been on a picket line in years.</i>

117
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<i>Surely my daughter wouldn't fall
for any of them, or would she?</i>

118
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<i>Since the country's
in better shape...</i>

119
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<i>She was still going on about him.</i>

120
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<i>Buckley has it all figured out.</i>

121
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He says there isn't going to be
any depression.

122
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Oh, that reminds me.
I won't be home for the weekend.

123
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- Where are you going, dear?
- I'm spending it with Buckley's family.

124
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Uh, are you going to marry this character?

125
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I guess so.

126
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And just when are you planning
on getting married?

127
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Well, I really don't know yet, Mother.

128
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It all depends on Buckley's plans.

129
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<i>Maybe months, maybe a few weeks,
or maybe any time at all.</i>

130
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<i>We can't tell yet.</i>

131
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But there's one thing,
we won't be pinned down.

132
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Buckley's very decided
about that sort of thing.

133
00:09:04,961 --> 00:09:06,629
<i>He just won't be pinned down.</i>

134
00:09:09,966 --> 00:09:12,510
I hope that Buckley
won't think I'm too nosy

135
00:09:12,719 --> 00:09:14,637
if I ask a few simple questions.

136
00:09:15,555 --> 00:09:18,475
Okay, Pops.
I suppose we have to go through this.

137
00:09:18,850 --> 00:09:21,478
- It seems to me--
- Who is this Buckley anyway?

138
00:09:22,187 --> 00:09:23,646
- Now listen, Pops--
- And what's his last name?

139
00:09:23,855 --> 00:09:26,441
- I hope it's better than his first one.
- Now listen--

140
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Where the devil does he come from,

141
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and who does he think
is going to support him?

142
00:09:30,236 --> 00:09:32,280
If he thinks I am,
he's got another thing coming.

143
00:09:32,489 --> 00:09:33,907
- I don't give a hoot--
- Stanley!

144
00:09:34,157 --> 00:09:36,701
Stanley, you don't have to shout.
Nobody's deaf.

145
00:09:36,951 --> 00:09:40,330
It's mortifying, with...
Right in there. Please.

146
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The idea, acting like an outraged father.

147
00:09:45,543 --> 00:09:49,422
Sorry. You broke it to me so casually,
over the ice cream.

148
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You might have at least waited
until I got the coffee.

149
00:09:53,384 --> 00:09:55,345
Thanks, Delilah. I'll pour it.

150
00:09:58,348 --> 00:10:01,226
- You don't give Kay a chance.
- Now listen, Pops.

151
00:10:01,684 --> 00:10:04,395
I'm 20, and Buckley's 26,
and we're grown people.

152
00:10:04,979 --> 00:10:07,649
And as far as your supporting Buckley,
I'll tell you this right now.

153
00:10:08,024 --> 00:10:09,943
<i>He's the kind
that wouldn't let anyone support him.</i>

154
00:10:10,193 --> 00:10:11,361
<i>He'd rather die first.</i>

155
00:10:11,694 --> 00:10:13,196
<i>That's the kind of a person he is.</i>

156
00:10:13,655 --> 00:10:15,365
He's a wonderful person.

157
00:10:15,990 --> 00:10:18,201
He's the kind of a person
that's absolutely...

158
00:10:18,535 --> 00:10:20,578
I mean, absolutely independent.

159
00:10:21,663 --> 00:10:23,832
<i>Buckley wouldn't come to you for help,</i>

160
00:10:24,249 --> 00:10:26,126
<i>not even if we were starving
in the gutter.</i>

161
00:10:30,171 --> 00:10:32,132
And his name is Dunstan.

162
00:10:32,298 --> 00:10:34,801
That's what it is. Buckley Dunstan.

163
00:10:35,426 --> 00:10:37,303
And he's a wonderful businessman.

164
00:10:37,595 --> 00:10:39,264
I mean, a really wonderful businessman.

165
00:10:39,430 --> 00:10:41,891
- And he has a wonderful job.
- Doing what?

166
00:10:42,225 --> 00:10:44,769
I don't know, Pops. He makes something.

167
00:10:45,436 --> 00:10:47,355
Does it really matter what it is?

168
00:10:47,730 --> 00:10:50,692
He's the kind of a person
that can do anything, anything at all.

169
00:10:50,859 --> 00:10:53,111
He's... He's...

170
00:10:53,278 --> 00:10:56,406
Absolutely terribly wonderful.

171
00:10:59,075 --> 00:11:00,910
Stanley, you've hurt her.

172
00:11:02,203 --> 00:11:05,915
You know, while she was talking,
all I could think of was a little girl

173
00:11:06,082 --> 00:11:08,126
in brown pigtails and dirty overalls,

174
00:11:08,334 --> 00:11:10,628
flying at the boys
when they pushed her too far.

175
00:11:11,379 --> 00:11:14,174
Seems like such
an incredibly short time ago.

176
00:11:14,424 --> 00:11:16,885
Go speak to her. I'm afraid she's crying.

177
00:11:28,938 --> 00:11:30,064
<i>KEY-</i>

178
00:11:30,648 --> 00:11:33,985
And as for his parents,
I'll tell you this right now, Pops.

179
00:11:34,319 --> 00:11:36,446
They're just as good as you and Moms.

180
00:11:37,488 --> 00:11:40,283
They're fine people,
and they live in Westbridge.

181
00:11:41,201 --> 00:11:44,746
I guess you'll agree that Westbridge
is just as good a place as Fairview Manor.

182
00:11:45,747 --> 00:11:48,124
Oh, I don't see
what that has to do with it anyway.

183
00:11:49,626 --> 00:11:52,337
Okay, kitten. I love him already.

185
00:11:55,006 --> 00:11:56,591
What'd you say his last name was?

186
00:11:56,966 --> 00:11:58,718
Oh, Pops!

187
00:12:07,435 --> 00:12:09,938
Stanley! Come away from that window.

188
00:12:10,188 --> 00:12:12,607
I want to get a peek at this Superman.

190
00:12:34,420 --> 00:12:35,755
How nice. Come in.

191
00:12:36,047 --> 00:12:38,341
- Stanley.
- Good evening, Mrs. Banks.

192
00:12:39,384 --> 00:12:41,386
Kay will be down in a minute.
She went up to get her things.

193
00:12:41,844 --> 00:12:43,221
Won't you come in and sit down?

194
00:12:43,471 --> 00:12:45,556
- Well, I...
- Stanley?

195
00:12:46,933 --> 00:12:48,059
Stanley.

196
00:12:50,061 --> 00:12:54,524
Darling, you remember Mr...
Somehow I can't call you Mr. anything.

197
00:12:54,691 --> 00:12:56,276
You won't mind if I call you Buckley,
will you?

198
00:12:56,442 --> 00:12:57,527
Please do.

199
00:12:57,735 --> 00:12:59,320
Good evening, sir.

200
00:12:59,696 --> 00:13:01,864
- How are you?
- Fine.

201
00:13:03,157 --> 00:13:04,659
- And you?
- Fine.

202
00:13:05,702 --> 00:13:08,162
Kay's just been telling us
some very exciting news.

203
00:13:08,329 --> 00:13:09,539
I hope you don't mind.

204
00:13:09,706 --> 00:13:11,791
No, indeed. We're delighted.
Aren't we, Stanley?

205
00:13:12,041 --> 00:13:14,836
It's wonderful, so exciting,
having a romance right under our...

206
00:13:15,169 --> 00:13:20,049
That is, well, you might say,
right in our midst, isn't it, Stanley?

207
00:13:21,217 --> 00:13:23,303
- Stanley.
- Hmm? Oh, yes.

208
00:13:24,887 --> 00:13:29,142
I'm afraid it was a little sudden,
but I couldn't...

209
00:13:39,068 --> 00:13:41,029
- Hello there.
- Hello.

210
00:13:41,362 --> 00:13:43,448
- Was I too early?
- Oh, no.

211
00:13:46,909 --> 00:13:49,078
Better put on your heavy coat,
there's no warmth in that thing.

212
00:13:49,329 --> 00:13:52,373
Pops, I'd die in that heavy coat.
I'd simply smother to death.

213
00:13:52,707 --> 00:13:55,293
- Just the same, I'd wear it.
- Oh, Pops, don't fuss.

214
00:13:55,710 --> 00:13:58,463
- I'll be perfectly all right.
- I think you'd better take it.

215
00:14:00,548 --> 00:14:02,258
- You do?
- Yes.

216
00:14:03,134 --> 00:14:04,218
Okay.

217
00:14:11,934 --> 00:14:14,645
<i>Right then I realized
that my day was over.</i>

218
00:14:15,271 --> 00:14:18,608
<i>She'll always love us, of course,
but not in the old way.</i>

219
00:14:18,858 --> 00:14:20,943
<i>From here on her love will be doled out</i>

220
00:14:21,110 --> 00:14:24,405
<i>like a farmer's wife
tossing scraps to a family rooster.</i>

221
00:14:26,657 --> 00:14:28,117
- Good night, Moms.
- Good night, dear.

222
00:14:28,284 --> 00:14:30,620
Good night, Pops. Oh, don't wait up.
We'll probably be late.

223
00:14:30,912 --> 00:14:32,288
- Good night.
- Good night.

224
00:14:40,296 --> 00:14:41,964
I don't like him.

225
00:14:42,131 --> 00:14:44,008
Oh, darling, I know he isn't
good enough for Kay.

226
00:14:44,175 --> 00:14:46,302
But then no one is or ever will be.

227
00:14:46,761 --> 00:14:49,055
At least he's head and shoulders
above all her other beaus.

228
00:14:49,222 --> 00:14:50,681
That's certainly a great recommendation.

229
00:14:50,848 --> 00:14:52,517
Now, Stanley, she's old enough
to know her own mind.

230
00:14:52,767 --> 00:14:53,810
Old enough? That child?

231
00:14:53,976 --> 00:14:56,187
You didn't mind that I was only 18
when I married you.

232
00:14:56,437 --> 00:14:59,482
- Oh, that's different.
- That's different.

233
00:15:00,608 --> 00:15:02,652
Oh, she'll make a beautiful bride.

234
00:15:03,820 --> 00:15:06,239
She has just the coloring and figure.

235
00:15:06,406 --> 00:15:09,200
I know exactly the dress she should wear.
It was in last month's Vogue.

236
00:15:09,409 --> 00:15:12,495
<i>I couldn't believe it.
Ellie was as happy as a lark.</i>

237
00:15:12,829 --> 00:15:16,124
<i>She wasn't worrying about this Buckley.
Her mind was on the wedding.</i>

238
00:15:16,374 --> 00:15:18,000
Some of them can make you look
simply ghastly.

239
00:15:18,167 --> 00:15:19,752
But this was perfect.
I'll find it for you.

240
00:15:19,919 --> 00:15:22,088
It had just a touch of eggshell pink.

242
00:16:04,881 --> 00:16:06,924
What's the matter, darling?
Can't you sleep?

243
00:16:07,091 --> 00:16:09,302
- No.
- You want some hot milk?

244
00:16:09,469 --> 00:16:11,596
- No.
- Well, then, good night.

245
00:16:16,392 --> 00:16:18,895
- You're wonderful.
- Thank you, darling.

246
00:16:21,355 --> 00:16:23,900
If Kay was out
at some little dance somewhere,

247
00:16:24,066 --> 00:16:26,402
you wouldn't close your eyes
until you heard her come in.

248
00:16:26,777 --> 00:16:29,572
Now, when it's a question of whether
she's gonna eat for the rest of her life,

249
00:16:29,780 --> 00:16:33,409
-you go to sleep like a baby.
- Eat? You want something to eat?

250
00:16:33,951 --> 00:16:37,455
I am talking about Kay, Ellie. Kay.

251
00:16:39,248 --> 00:16:42,627
She sits there tonight and says, "I'm
going to marry Buckley. Isn't he cute?"

252
00:16:43,419 --> 00:16:46,923
And we all dance and make faces.
What do we know about him?

253
00:16:47,715 --> 00:16:49,967
Darling, if you're gonna sit up,
you better put on your robe.

254
00:16:50,259 --> 00:16:52,261
We don't know a thing about him.
Not a darn thing.

255
00:16:53,137 --> 00:16:55,681
Not where he comes from,
what he makes, or what he makes making it.

256
00:16:56,432 --> 00:16:59,435
Only thing we know about him is his name,
and you weren't too sure about that.

257
00:16:59,602 --> 00:17:01,562
Yet he walks in, and we hand him Kay.

258
00:17:01,729 --> 00:17:04,106
Darling, you only have to look at him
to know that he's nice

259
00:17:04,273 --> 00:17:05,900
and that he comes from a nice family.

260
00:17:06,067 --> 00:17:10,029
He calls you "sir"
and holds my chair for me.

261
00:17:10,446 --> 00:17:13,282
That reminds me, I must call
his family tomorrow morning,

262
00:17:13,616 --> 00:17:15,243
tell them how happy we are.

263
00:17:15,409 --> 00:17:16,452
Is that all you need?
Is that all you need?

264
00:17:16,619 --> 00:17:19,455
That he holds your chair for you
and that he says "sir" to me?

265
00:17:19,789 --> 00:17:22,833
Is that all you want?
Well, it isn't all I want!

266
00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:25,127
I want to know whether
he's going to make her happy.

267
00:17:25,294 --> 00:17:27,463
Whether he's going to make a home for her,
can he support her?

268
00:17:27,630 --> 00:17:29,590
You heard his ideas on marriage,
didn't you?

269
00:17:29,882 --> 00:17:31,551
He thinks the family should support them.

270
00:17:31,759 --> 00:17:34,512
And you know which family he means,
don't you, honey?

271
00:17:34,804 --> 00:17:36,013
He means us.

272
00:17:36,472 --> 00:17:39,308
Sure, sure, he figures
on moving in with us.

273
00:17:39,725 --> 00:17:43,521
Then when the food gets a little bad,
he'll dump the kids on us and skip.

274
00:17:43,813 --> 00:17:46,482
Probably done it before.
Probably got a wife somewhere else.

275
00:17:46,649 --> 00:17:47,984
Read about those things all the time.

276
00:17:48,192 --> 00:17:50,653
Fellas have wives
in three or four places. Families.

277
00:17:50,820 --> 00:17:52,780
How do we know?
Maybe he's got a criminal record.

278
00:17:52,989 --> 00:17:55,658
Fella might be a counterfeiter
or a confidence man.

279
00:17:55,992 --> 00:17:59,954
Those are the ones,
those smooth-talking ones

280
00:18:00,246 --> 00:18:01,706
that have the manners.

281
00:18:02,206 --> 00:18:04,542
Manners are their stock-in-trade. Yeah.

282
00:18:04,709 --> 00:18:07,753
Those soft-spoken fellas
who look you right in the eye

283
00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:11,507
and would put a bullet in the back
of her neck and never turn a hair.

284
00:18:11,674 --> 00:18:14,677
You mark my words,
this is going to end in tragedy.

285
00:18:21,892 --> 00:18:23,811
But, Stanley, I...

286
00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:26,439
<i>I got it off my chest.</i>

287
00:18:27,064 --> 00:18:28,816
<i>Funny, the minute
you get someone else worrying,</i>

288
00:18:28,983 --> 00:18:30,568
<i>you stop worrying yourself.</i>

291
00:18:52,673 --> 00:18:53,841
Come in.

292
00:18:59,221 --> 00:19:01,223
Well, you're an early bird.

293
00:19:05,227 --> 00:19:07,605
How you could sleep last night
I don't know.

294
00:19:07,772 --> 00:19:10,524
I couldn't close my eyes.
I was so upset about Kay.

295
00:19:10,691 --> 00:19:12,401
Kay? What's Kay done now?

296
00:19:12,568 --> 00:19:14,570
Oh, I kept thinking about what you said.

297
00:19:15,321 --> 00:19:19,033
Suppose he is a good-for-nothing.
Suppose he doesn't mean to make a home--

298
00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:21,619
Oh, now, stop worrying, Ellie.

299
00:19:21,786 --> 00:19:25,706
Stanley, you've got to have a talk with
him before this thing goes any farther.

300
00:19:25,873 --> 00:19:29,126
You've got to come right out and ask him
about what he has and everything.

301
00:19:29,293 --> 00:19:31,045
Oh, darling, I can't do that.

302
00:19:31,253 --> 00:19:33,881
I can't walk up and say,
"How's your bank balance, kid?"

303
00:19:34,090 --> 00:19:37,718
- Why not? You're her father.
- I know, but even a father--

304
00:19:37,885 --> 00:19:41,764
Stanley, I believe you're afraid of him.

305
00:19:43,099 --> 00:19:46,977
- Well, that's a fine remark, I must say.
- Stanley, Kay's up.

306
00:19:47,770 --> 00:19:50,940
You tell her you want to see this boy
and see him right away.

307
00:20:05,329 --> 00:20:06,622
- Finished?
- Mmm.

308
00:20:12,837 --> 00:20:14,130
- Hi, Pops.
- Hi.

309
00:20:14,296 --> 00:20:15,631
- How are you?
- Fine.

310
00:20:15,798 --> 00:20:17,258
Uh, Kay?

311
00:20:17,842 --> 00:20:20,261
Uh... About Buckley.

312
00:20:22,972 --> 00:20:24,473
What about him?

313
00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:28,227
Oh, I think he's great. Fine.
Nice clean-cut chap.

314
00:20:28,394 --> 00:20:29,812
- Thanks.
- Yeah.

315
00:20:29,979 --> 00:20:33,149
I thought, you know,
we might have a little talk.

316
00:20:33,315 --> 00:20:36,610
I thought I'd talk to him about
what he's earning, you know.

317
00:20:36,777 --> 00:20:39,822
You're kidding.
I didn't believe they really did that.

318
00:20:39,989 --> 00:20:42,450
- Thought it was just a gag.
- Well, you know, after all,

319
00:20:42,616 --> 00:20:44,118
when a man's only daughter
is gonna be married--

320
00:20:44,285 --> 00:20:45,286
Okay.

321
00:20:45,453 --> 00:20:47,329
If you want to go through
all that old-fashioned rigmarole,

322
00:20:47,538 --> 00:20:48,622
it's okay with me.

323
00:20:49,165 --> 00:20:52,251
- When do you want to see him?
- Well, what about tonight?

324
00:20:53,169 --> 00:20:56,172
- We have a date at 9:00.
- Why don't you ask him to dinner?

325
00:20:56,338 --> 00:20:58,257
Then we can talk before dinner.
About 6:30?

326
00:20:58,549 --> 00:21:00,217
Okay. I'll deliver him.

327
00:21:00,384 --> 00:21:03,846
Kay, you know, tell him
we're just gonna have a little chat.

328
00:21:04,013 --> 00:21:07,600
Don't make it sound too formidable.
I don't want to frighten the boy to death.

329
00:21:07,767 --> 00:21:09,727
Oh, don't worry about Buckley.

330
00:21:09,894 --> 00:21:11,479
He's big enough to take it.

331
00:21:29,622 --> 00:21:30,706
Hi.

332
00:21:31,290 --> 00:21:32,374
Hi.

333
00:21:38,589 --> 00:21:39,590
Oh.

335
00:21:43,803 --> 00:21:46,263
- Good evening.
- Good evening, Mrs. Banks.

336
00:21:46,514 --> 00:21:47,681
I hope you'll forgive us.

337
00:21:47,848 --> 00:21:49,892
It's Delilah's night out,
and Kay and I are cooking dinner.

338
00:21:50,100 --> 00:21:51,435
We might even put you to work.
I have an apron--

339
00:21:51,602 --> 00:21:55,105
Oh, not now, Mother.
Let him get his talk with Pops over first.

340
00:21:55,272 --> 00:21:59,276
- Talk? You're gonna have a talk?
- Yes, a talk.

341
00:21:59,693 --> 00:22:00,945
- Oh.
- Where's Pops?

342
00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:03,572
<i>He's in the living room, I think.
Come on.</i>

343
00:22:09,703 --> 00:22:12,081
- Here he is, Pops.
- Oh, hello.

344
00:22:12,248 --> 00:22:14,333
- Good evening, sir.
- Make it snappy.

345
00:22:14,500 --> 00:22:16,085
Dinner is in half an hour.

346
00:22:16,252 --> 00:22:17,962
- Sit down, sit down.
- Thanks.

347
00:22:18,128 --> 00:22:21,215
- I'll take that.
- Thanks, but I'll need the papers.

348
00:22:21,382 --> 00:22:24,760
- Okay.
- Kay said you wanted to talk to me.

349
00:22:24,927 --> 00:22:26,428
Yeah. Would you like to have
a little drink first?

350
00:22:26,595 --> 00:22:27,638
No, sir.

351
00:22:27,847 --> 00:22:30,099
- Smoke, then?
- I have some, thanks.

352
00:22:30,266 --> 00:22:33,227
- Will you?
- No, thanks. I'll smoke a pipe.

353
00:22:34,144 --> 00:22:35,437
Wonderful thing, a pipe. You smoke a pipe?

354
00:22:35,604 --> 00:22:36,605
No, sir.

355
00:22:36,814 --> 00:22:40,359
I like a pipe,
especially after a hard day.

356
00:22:40,526 --> 00:22:43,779
All the rush and fuss.
It sort of changes your pace.

357
00:22:43,946 --> 00:22:45,948
- Rests you.
- Yes, sir.

358
00:22:48,617 --> 00:22:50,995
- Are you comfortable there?
- Yes, sir.

359
00:22:51,537 --> 00:22:53,497
I brought some papers
that I wanted you to--

360
00:22:53,789 --> 00:22:57,126
Oh, I suppose you think it's
kind of silly, this financial talk,

361
00:22:57,293 --> 00:23:01,046
but I want to tell you that I wish
my father-in-law had sat down with me

362
00:23:01,213 --> 00:23:02,298
before Ellie and I got married.

363
00:23:02,464 --> 00:23:04,717
- I think it sort of clears the air.
- You're right, sir.

364
00:23:06,093 --> 00:23:07,136
You sure you wouldn't like a little drink?

365
00:23:07,303 --> 00:23:08,470
- Yes, sir.
- You would?

366
00:23:08,637 --> 00:23:11,515
- I mean, yes, sir, I'm sure I won't.
- Oh.

367
00:23:14,310 --> 00:23:15,811
- Where were we?
- Oh...

368
00:23:15,978 --> 00:23:18,689
We were talking about your father-in-law.

369
00:23:18,856 --> 00:23:21,817
Oh, yes. Well, someday...

370
00:23:21,984 --> 00:23:24,570
I think that I probably understand,

371
00:23:24,737 --> 00:23:28,908
you know, the problems of young couples,
what they're up against, of course.

372
00:23:29,491 --> 00:23:32,202
Matter of fact,
the parents are up against it too,

373
00:23:32,369 --> 00:23:35,915
what with high prices
and high taxes and everything.

374
00:23:36,081 --> 00:23:39,668
The long and short of it is,
I think that probably you're entitled

375
00:23:39,835 --> 00:23:43,213
to know what you can expect from me
just as I'm entitled to know

376
00:23:43,380 --> 00:23:46,216
what I can expect from you.
Sort of get to know about each other.

377
00:23:46,508 --> 00:23:47,885
- Yes, sir.
- Yes.

378
00:23:48,594 --> 00:23:50,804
So, my proposal is this.

379
00:23:50,971 --> 00:23:53,098
I thought I'd tell you
a little about my set-up,

380
00:23:53,265 --> 00:23:56,101
and then we could go
into your financial picture.

381
00:23:56,268 --> 00:23:57,353
Yes, sir.

382
00:23:57,519 --> 00:23:59,229
Well, in the first place, Buckley,

383
00:23:59,438 --> 00:24:01,690
you look around at this house
and everything,

384
00:24:01,899 --> 00:24:03,859
and you probably think,
"Well, he's pretty well-off."

385
00:24:04,109 --> 00:24:07,321
But let me tell you, my boy,
that doesn't mean a thing.

386
00:24:08,489 --> 00:24:11,075
The day I married Ellie,
my position with the law firm

387
00:24:11,367 --> 00:24:14,536
of Bartham, Henderson and Peck
was as nebulous...

388
00:24:14,995 --> 00:24:17,206
<i>In half an hour,
I told him more about my affairs</i>

389
00:24:17,373 --> 00:24:19,333
<i>than I had told Ellie in a lifetime.</i>

390
00:24:20,376 --> 00:24:23,879
<i>Well, you take all of those things,
the insurance, the mortgages,</i>

391
00:24:24,046 --> 00:24:26,882
<i>the kids' schooling,
straightening Tommy's teeth,</i>

392
00:24:27,049 --> 00:24:29,677
<i>they all sound tough,
but as I look back upon it</i>

393
00:24:29,843 --> 00:24:32,221
<i>I think it was good to assume
some responsibility.</i>

394
00:24:32,388 --> 00:24:35,015
<i>- Gives you something to work for.
- Yes, sir.</i>

395
00:24:36,892 --> 00:24:39,979
Now, if you'd like to look
at some of these papers that I brought--

396
00:24:40,145 --> 00:24:42,231
Come on, you two. Soup's on the table.

397
00:24:42,398 --> 00:24:45,818
We'll have to go into that another time.
We mustn't keep Kay waiting any longer.

398
00:24:45,985 --> 00:24:48,112
- Did you have a nice talk?
- Wonderful. Wonderful.

399
00:24:48,278 --> 00:24:50,239
I feel much better about everything.
Don't we, son?

400
00:24:50,447 --> 00:24:51,699
- Yes, sir.
- Run along now, son.

401
00:24:51,907 --> 00:24:52,908
Don't keep Kay waiting.

402
00:24:53,075 --> 00:24:54,410
He's a smart boy.

403
00:24:54,618 --> 00:24:56,745
Got a good head on his shoulders.
Fine business sense.

404
00:24:56,954 --> 00:24:58,747
I should say he has.
When Kay told me he'd saved $5,000,

405
00:24:58,914 --> 00:25:01,125
and being the head of his own company
at his age.

406
00:25:01,417 --> 00:25:04,294
You see how silly we were to worry?
Come on.

407
00:25:08,716 --> 00:25:10,092
This is the street.

408
00:25:11,093 --> 00:25:14,388
Too bad Kay couldn't have picked
her in-laws from somebody we knew

409
00:25:14,555 --> 00:25:15,931
instead of somebody we never laid eyes on.

410
00:25:16,140 --> 00:25:17,766
362, 364.

411
00:25:18,642 --> 00:25:21,603
- Bet they won't even have a drink.
- What makes you think they won't?

412
00:25:21,937 --> 00:25:23,981
Mmm, just that kind of people, I'll bet.

413
00:25:24,148 --> 00:25:26,608
What if they don't?
You're not an alcoholic, are you?

414
00:25:26,775 --> 00:25:28,318
I don't know why you get yourself
in such a lather

415
00:25:28,485 --> 00:25:30,863
at the thought of meeting
the Dunstans, anyway.

416
00:25:31,030 --> 00:25:32,906
I'm not in a lather. Who's in a lather?

417
00:25:33,073 --> 00:25:36,744
- Ought to be around here someplace.
- Bet it's a shack.

418
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,124
Here it is. 394.

419
00:25:48,964 --> 00:25:50,716
There's your shack.

420
00:25:53,260 --> 00:25:56,638
I have a feeling they're behind
those curtains watching us.

421
00:26:03,729 --> 00:26:05,981
- Good afternoon.
- Good...

422
00:26:10,444 --> 00:26:12,071
May I have your coat?

423
00:26:13,989 --> 00:26:15,032
Thank you.

424
00:26:23,665 --> 00:26:25,000
- Hello.
- Hi.

425
00:26:25,167 --> 00:26:28,337
- Good to see you.
- How do you do, Mrs. Banks?

426
00:26:28,504 --> 00:26:30,297
Well, well, look at this.

427
00:26:30,464 --> 00:26:32,716
There's the wedding, sure has gotten us.

428
00:26:32,883 --> 00:26:35,594
I can't tell you
how crazy we are about your Kay.

429
00:26:35,761 --> 00:26:38,138
We feel just the same way about Buckley.

430
00:26:38,305 --> 00:26:40,057
Yes, he's a wonderful boy.

431
00:26:40,224 --> 00:26:44,019
Well, I'll tell you one thing,
he's a lucky boy to get a girl like Kay.

432
00:26:44,186 --> 00:26:47,689
- Would you like to wash your hands?
- I washed them before I came.

433
00:26:47,856 --> 00:26:49,733
- Shall we go in?
- Yes, will you...

434
00:26:49,900 --> 00:26:53,278
<i>We did more bare-faced lying
in those few minutes</i>

435
00:26:53,445 --> 00:26:56,031
<i>than we had done in our entire lives.</i>

436
00:26:56,907 --> 00:26:59,243
I sent Kay and Buckley out to dinner.

437
00:26:59,409 --> 00:27:03,122
I thought we could get better acquainted
if it were just the four of us.

438
00:27:03,288 --> 00:27:04,373
It's much cozier this way.

439
00:27:04,540 --> 00:27:05,833
I don't know how you feel about it,

440
00:27:05,999 --> 00:27:07,960
but would you like a little snifter
before dinner?

441
00:27:08,127 --> 00:27:10,671
- I beg your pardon?
- I have some Madeira here.

442
00:27:10,838 --> 00:27:13,757
Put it down 25 years ago.
Been saving it for a special occasion.

443
00:27:14,007 --> 00:27:17,302
I must say, I don't know of
a more special occasion than this.

444
00:27:17,803 --> 00:27:19,179
- Here we are.
- Thank you.

445
00:27:19,429 --> 00:27:21,515
I think we should drink
to the bride and groom.

446
00:27:21,682 --> 00:27:23,267
Hear! Hear!

447
00:27:26,812 --> 00:27:29,022
Not too sweet, yet not too dry.

448
00:27:32,651 --> 00:27:34,069
I've been trying to decide

449
00:27:34,236 --> 00:27:36,196
whether Buckley looks like you,
Mrs. Dunstan, or Mr. Dunstan.

450
00:27:37,739 --> 00:27:42,369
Oh, do please call us Doris and Herbert,
not Mr. and Mrs. Dunstan.

451
00:27:42,744 --> 00:27:44,913
Stanley and Ellie.

452
00:27:46,832 --> 00:27:50,502
- Play golf, Herbert?
- Well, I play at it, Stanley.

453
00:27:50,836 --> 00:27:52,129
Well...

454
00:27:52,754 --> 00:27:55,966
- I love your house, Doris.
- Oh, thank you, Ellie.

455
00:27:56,216 --> 00:28:00,179
I'm crazy to see yours.
Buckley's always talking about it.

456
00:28:00,345 --> 00:28:03,473
- A little more, Stan?
- Just to help you out, Herb.

457
00:28:04,099 --> 00:28:07,394
There we are. Now that we're all friends,
I'll tell you something.

458
00:28:08,020 --> 00:28:10,272
- I was scared stiff about this meeting.
- Herbert.

459
00:28:10,522 --> 00:28:11,607
Big argument this morning.

460
00:28:11,773 --> 00:28:13,609
Should we or should we not
offer you a drink?

461
00:28:13,817 --> 00:28:16,612
I was all for it, to break the ice,
but Doris was against it.

462
00:28:16,778 --> 00:28:19,281
Afraid you wouldn't approve.
Stickly situation, you know.

463
00:28:19,698 --> 00:28:21,658
<i>We didn't want to start off
on the wrong foot.</i>

465
00:28:23,118 --> 00:28:25,495
Now I'll tell you something funny.

466
00:28:26,288 --> 00:28:28,582
Ellie here must have
changed her clothes three times.

467
00:28:28,749 --> 00:28:30,626
- Stanley.
- Well, you did, didn't you?

468
00:28:30,792 --> 00:28:32,961
I wasn't so scared
I had to stop and get a martini.

469
00:28:34,338 --> 00:28:35,631
- Martini? Is that your drink?
- Well, I...

470
00:28:35,797 --> 00:28:38,842
Then why are we wasting time with this?

471
00:28:39,218 --> 00:28:40,636
Come on!

472
00:28:49,144 --> 00:28:50,729
Now, then.

473
00:28:52,022 --> 00:28:55,859
Well, well, well! Look at that.
Look at that, Ellie.

474
00:28:56,276 --> 00:28:58,153
Well, well, what do you know.

475
00:28:59,863 --> 00:29:02,491
- Can I help you, Herb?
- Well, thanks, Stan.

476
00:29:03,075 --> 00:29:06,161
The minute I laid eyes on your boy,
I liked him.

477
00:29:06,620 --> 00:29:09,915
And now that I've met his mother
and father, I like him even more.

478
00:29:10,415 --> 00:29:15,003
I'm sure that the Dunstan-Banks family
are gonna be as one from now on.

480
00:29:18,507 --> 00:29:21,426
And now I want to hear
all about our new daughter.

481
00:29:21,593 --> 00:29:23,887
- There's nothing to tell, really.
- Oh, nonsense!

482
00:29:24,054 --> 00:29:26,223
Would you like to hear
about the time Kay was a baby

483
00:29:26,390 --> 00:29:28,684
and Ellie left her out in front
of the grocery store in the carriage,

484
00:29:28,850 --> 00:29:30,310
went home and forgot all about her?

485
00:29:30,519 --> 00:29:34,064
- It's the truth, though.
- There's a drop left, Stan. How about it?

486
00:29:34,231 --> 00:29:35,774
Kay was about nine months old.

487
00:29:35,941 --> 00:29:38,944
I know every father thinks
his daughter is wonderful,

488
00:29:39,111 --> 00:29:40,862
but I want to tell you,
Kay was really something.

489
00:29:41,697 --> 00:29:44,616
She was five years old
when I gave her her first swimming lesson.

490
00:29:44,783 --> 00:29:47,703
She was absolutely wonderful.
Not frightened a bit.

491
00:29:47,995 --> 00:29:51,123
You know how Ellie is about the water.
Kay takes after me.

492
00:29:51,290 --> 00:29:55,877
After all, a daughter takes after the
father and the father takes... Vice versa.

493
00:29:56,169 --> 00:29:58,130
- Isn't that so, Edith?
- Doris.

494
00:29:58,380 --> 00:30:00,173
- Huh?
- Doris, dear.

495
00:30:00,382 --> 00:30:04,052
Doris, yes. Oh, Doris!

496
00:30:04,636 --> 00:30:07,389
Oh, imagine. I said Edith. Where did I...

497
00:30:07,681 --> 00:30:11,059
Well, anyway,
she just took like a duck to water.

498
00:30:11,852 --> 00:30:13,270
Like a... When she was about six,

499
00:30:13,562 --> 00:30:17,566
I started taking her out to the raft
with the other kids and throwing her in.

500
00:30:18,191 --> 00:30:19,234
Yeah.

501
00:30:19,568 --> 00:30:22,738
She'd just plop in.
Diving in, she calls it.

503
00:30:25,532 --> 00:30:29,036
She was only 15
when the boys started crowding in.

504
00:30:29,202 --> 00:30:32,247
They were all over the house.
I used to come home at night

505
00:30:32,414 --> 00:30:35,083
and find a stranger sleeping
on the sofa in the living room

506
00:30:35,292 --> 00:30:38,754
and one in the hammock
on the porch and one...

507
00:30:39,212 --> 00:30:41,923
<i>And then, all of a sudden,
she seemed to lose interest in them.</i>

508
00:30:42,591 --> 00:30:44,593
- And then--
- Then she met Buckley.

509
00:30:44,885 --> 00:30:48,430
- Now you must tell us all about Buckley.
- Yeah, tell us all about Balky.

510
00:30:50,349 --> 00:30:53,060
Well, Buckley was always a good boy.

511
00:30:53,810 --> 00:30:56,146
A thoughtful, sweet boy.

512
00:30:56,521 --> 00:30:59,941
Even when he was only five
I remember him saying,

513
00:31:00,108 --> 00:31:03,612
"Mummy..." That's what
he used to call me, Mummy.

514
00:31:03,779 --> 00:31:08,325
He said, "Mummy, you won't ever die,
will you, Mummy?"

515
00:31:08,492 --> 00:31:09,701
How sweet.

516
00:31:09,951 --> 00:31:12,454
<i>He was a good boy
but he wasn't any angel.</i>

517
00:31:12,621 --> 00:31:15,082
<i>He could hold his own
with any of the kids in the block.</i>

518
00:31:15,248 --> 00:31:17,918
<i>And he loved sports.
How that boy loved sports...</i>

519
00:31:18,502 --> 00:31:20,504
<i>It is the duty
of the bride's family</i>

520
00:31:20,754 --> 00:31:22,839
<i>to give a party
to announce the engagement.</i>

521
00:31:23,673 --> 00:31:26,468
<i>Apparently this is done
only after everyone knows it.</i>

522
00:31:26,802 --> 00:31:28,929
- Ready?
-It's only 5:00.

523
00:31:29,137 --> 00:31:31,181
You got everything you need?
I borrowed every glass ever made.

524
00:31:31,348 --> 00:31:33,642
Oh, everything's fine, everything's fine,
everything's fine.

525
00:31:33,809 --> 00:31:35,644
In fact, I made a lot of martinis.

526
00:31:36,019 --> 00:31:39,272
That's all anybody ever drinks
at these things, you know, martinis.

527
00:31:39,981 --> 00:31:42,901
Now, Ellie, after I bring in the drinks,

528
00:31:43,151 --> 00:31:45,320
and everybody's got a drink
and something to eat,

529
00:31:45,487 --> 00:31:48,698
then I'm gonna come in ringing the bell.
Oh, yes, ringing the bell.

530
00:31:48,990 --> 00:31:51,827
And you call for silence,
then I'll make the speech.

531
00:31:51,993 --> 00:31:54,663
What do you think of this?
I thought I'd start out,

532
00:31:54,830 --> 00:31:57,249
"Uh, friends, when I was
a very young lawyer--"

534
00:31:58,375 --> 00:31:59,418
They're starting to come.
Excuse me, dear.

535
00:32:00,043 --> 00:32:01,336
Oh, they're coming?

536
00:32:07,384 --> 00:32:12,848
Friends, when I was a young lawyer,
I made a speech and the man got 10 years.

537
00:32:13,557 --> 00:32:15,851
NOW With today's... Oh! Oh!

538
00:32:16,184 --> 00:32:19,813
Well, I see I found the right place.
How are you, Banks?

539
00:32:20,021 --> 00:32:22,357
How about a couple of old-fashioneds
to start things off?

540
00:32:22,524 --> 00:32:25,610
- How about a couple of martinis--
- No, thanks. That's very kind of you,

541
00:32:25,777 --> 00:32:28,155
but a couple of old-fashioneds
would be fine.

542
00:32:28,321 --> 00:32:30,490
I just fixed these up to take out there.

543
00:32:30,657 --> 00:32:32,701
Well, well...

544
00:32:32,868 --> 00:32:36,037
- Tom Collins, please.
- Bourbon and soda.

545
00:32:36,329 --> 00:32:39,749
Wouldn't you like a martini?
Martinis are awful nice.

546
00:32:39,958 --> 00:32:41,835
I hope you have better luck than I did.

547
00:32:42,127 --> 00:32:44,296
I spent 5,000 on my daughter's wedding.

548
00:32:44,463 --> 00:32:47,883
Six months later she was on her way
to Reno. Thanks.

549
00:32:48,091 --> 00:32:49,718
Two old-fashioneds.

550
00:32:49,885 --> 00:32:52,762
Dixon, old boy, how've you been?
Hiya, Stanley.

551
00:32:52,929 --> 00:32:55,640
I see they got you working at last.
Two bourbons in plain water.

552
00:32:55,891 --> 00:32:57,476
How about a nice martini?

553
00:32:57,976 --> 00:33:01,396
- Stanley, Doris and Herbert are here.
- Doris and Herbert who?

554
00:33:01,730 --> 00:33:03,857
- Hello, hello!
- How are you?

555
00:33:04,024 --> 00:33:07,360
- How are you?
- I've got your drinks all ready.

556
00:33:07,527 --> 00:33:09,988
If you don't mind, I think
it's a little early for a martini.

557
00:33:10,238 --> 00:33:13,241
- We'll have scotch.
- I don't think I've got any scotch.

558
00:33:13,408 --> 00:33:17,078
No scotch? Bourbon? Yes, of course. Sure.

559
00:33:17,245 --> 00:33:19,581
Too early for a martini?

561
00:33:21,458 --> 00:33:24,878
- Hi there, Stan.
- Hello, hello. Hi.

562
00:33:26,755 --> 00:33:28,423
The girls want three old-fashioneds.

563
00:33:28,757 --> 00:33:31,426
What do they think I'm doing in here,
filling prescriptions?

564
00:33:31,593 --> 00:33:33,220
Where are the drinks
for the Dunstans, Mr. Banks?

565
00:33:33,386 --> 00:33:35,222
Right here. There you are, Delilah.

566
00:33:35,597 --> 00:33:37,265
Now, four old-fashioneds.

567
00:33:49,694 --> 00:33:53,657
- When are you going to make your speech?
- Soon as I can get in there.

568
00:33:54,783 --> 00:33:57,827
Enjoy your minute in the limelight.
It'll be your last.

569
00:33:57,994 --> 00:34:00,622
From now on the gals take over.

570
00:34:00,789 --> 00:34:02,791
You think they can't add two and two.

571
00:34:02,958 --> 00:34:06,169
When it comes to weddings,
they're giants of industry.

572
00:34:07,295 --> 00:34:09,589
They put it on like
a big theatrical production, too.

573
00:34:09,839 --> 00:34:11,591
The bigger the better.

574
00:34:12,092 --> 00:34:16,012
From now on,
your only function is to pay the bills.

575
00:34:16,221 --> 00:34:18,682
No, no, this is going to be
a very simple wedding.

576
00:34:18,974 --> 00:34:21,309
I'm warning you, keep it with family.

577
00:34:21,476 --> 00:34:24,521
Weddings are either confined
to the bosom of the family

578
00:34:24,688 --> 00:34:27,732
or held in Madison Square Garden.
Got my drinks ready?

579
00:34:27,899 --> 00:34:29,859
- Yes, right here.
- Thank you.

580
00:34:30,026 --> 00:34:31,069
- Here.
- Thank you.

581
00:34:31,236 --> 00:34:33,071
- How do you do, sir?
- How do you do?

582
00:34:33,238 --> 00:34:34,614
Nice party, isn't it?

583
00:34:34,781 --> 00:34:36,074
I don't know,
I haven't been out there yet.

584
00:34:36,241 --> 00:34:38,910
Now what do you want?
Couple of dozen frozen daiquiris?

585
00:34:39,244 --> 00:34:41,955
No, I'd like a couple of martinis, sir,
if it's not too much trouble.

586
00:34:42,289 --> 00:34:44,332
Did you say martinis?

587
00:34:44,624 --> 00:34:47,294
Here. Here. Have a couple
and pass the rest around.

588
00:34:47,586 --> 00:34:50,880
- Why, thank you, sir.
- Say, could I have a couple of Cokes?

589
00:34:51,339 --> 00:34:53,174
- Couple of what?
- Cokes.

590
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:55,677
Couple of Cokes.

591
00:34:58,096 --> 00:34:59,681
Couple of Cokes.

592
00:35:07,022 --> 00:35:08,523
Here, sir, let me.

593
00:35:20,035 --> 00:35:21,244
Thank you, sir.

595
00:35:44,059 --> 00:35:46,686
Five mintjuleps, if you please.

596
00:35:47,729 --> 00:35:49,856
Can I help? It'll speed things up.

597
00:35:50,148 --> 00:35:51,816
Oh, no. No. No.

598
00:35:52,901 --> 00:35:55,737
No, I like doing this. It's my hobby.

599
00:35:55,904 --> 00:35:58,823
You were right about that.
Tom Collins, please.

600
00:35:58,990 --> 00:36:00,950
I'll have four rum and Cokes.

601
00:36:01,117 --> 00:36:02,452
Another bourbon and soda.

602
00:36:03,495 --> 00:36:04,454
Good night, Ellie.

603
00:36:04,621 --> 00:36:06,414
Wonderful party. Wonderful.

604
00:36:09,209 --> 00:36:12,629
Well, you're a big help, I must say.
Where have you been?

605
00:36:12,879 --> 00:36:15,090
Where do you think I've been,
shooting pool?

606
00:36:15,340 --> 00:36:17,967
Why must you always
leave everything on my shoulders?

607
00:36:18,176 --> 00:36:20,512
- Has everybody gone?
- Of course. It's almost 8:00.

608
00:36:20,720 --> 00:36:23,264
- I haven't made my speech.
- Well it's too late now.

609
00:36:23,515 --> 00:36:25,684
Now, now, Ellie.
You can't do that to Stan.

610
00:36:25,934 --> 00:36:29,354
You can't deny this man the right
to announce his daughter's engagement.

611
00:36:29,521 --> 00:36:32,440
You don't realize
what a delicate condition he's in.

612
00:36:32,607 --> 00:36:34,442
He's about to become a grandfather.

613
00:36:34,693 --> 00:36:37,195
Come on, Stan. Let's hear your speech.

614
00:36:38,613 --> 00:36:42,200
"As I look at all the old faces
I used to shake hands with...

615
00:36:42,784 --> 00:36:45,120
"Wait for the laugh."

616
00:36:46,663 --> 00:36:49,249
Come on. Let's get one of those martinis.

618
00:36:51,918 --> 00:36:54,129
Oh, yes, yes, Yes-

619
00:36:55,296 --> 00:36:58,299
<i>We finally got around
to discussing the wedding.</i>

620
00:37:01,970 --> 00:37:05,515
Well, then, we're all agreed.
It's going to be a small wedding.

621
00:37:06,725 --> 00:37:07,892
Ellie?

622
00:37:08,268 --> 00:37:09,310
Small wedding, huh?

623
00:37:09,561 --> 00:37:12,063
Yes, of course, that's what
we all want, a small wedding.

624
00:37:13,064 --> 00:37:15,233
- A small wedding and a small reception.
- Mmm.

625
00:37:16,443 --> 00:37:18,194
That's what I want, too.

626
00:37:20,321 --> 00:37:23,491
- Oh, come on, Buckley. We've got--
- Kay, you're not leaving now?

627
00:37:23,658 --> 00:37:25,410
I've got a million things
to talk to you about.

628
00:37:25,618 --> 00:37:28,413
I never get you two alone.
We've got to make plans.

629
00:37:28,663 --> 00:37:31,541
We've got to set the date, we've got to
make the arrangements about the church--

630
00:37:31,708 --> 00:37:33,001
The church? The what?

631
00:37:33,168 --> 00:37:35,920
- You're not planning on a church wedding?
- Of course.

632
00:37:36,171 --> 00:37:37,338
You weren't married in a church.

633
00:37:37,505 --> 00:37:38,757
We were married in your front parlor
in a blue suit.

634
00:37:38,923 --> 00:37:40,508
- That's just it.
- Just what?

635
00:37:40,675 --> 00:37:42,719
Look, whose wedding are you talking about,
yours or Kay's?

636
00:37:42,886 --> 00:37:45,722
Haven't you got some schoolwork to do?

637
00:37:47,182 --> 00:37:49,601
- Why not May or July?
- May's too early.

638
00:37:49,768 --> 00:37:51,186
- Ellie, what do you mean?
- I'm going to camp in July.

639
00:37:51,436 --> 00:37:54,647
This isn't a kids' party.
It's my wedding and my friends.

641
00:37:56,775 --> 00:37:59,652
No one has to raise a finger.
When the time comes, I'll do everything.

642
00:37:59,861 --> 00:38:01,029
I mean everything.

644
00:38:03,406 --> 00:38:04,908
Ellie! Buckley!

645
00:38:05,241 --> 00:38:06,284
Now, look here, young man.

646
00:38:06,493 --> 00:38:08,161
If you insist upon a church wedding,
you can count me out.

647
00:38:08,369 --> 00:38:10,330
- I wash my hands of the whole affair!
- Stanley!

648
00:38:13,875 --> 00:38:16,169
You two run along.
We'll talk about it tomorrow night.

649
00:38:16,336 --> 00:38:18,213
Don't worry about it. It'll be all right.

650
00:38:29,015 --> 00:38:32,560
Stanley, I don't know
what's the matter with you.

651
00:38:33,019 --> 00:38:36,064
We're having a simple little talk about
the wedding and you fly off the handle.

652
00:38:36,231 --> 00:38:38,358
Now, Ellie, you heard Buckley.
You heard Kay, didn't you?

653
00:38:38,525 --> 00:38:40,568
You said yourself
it was going to be a small wedding.

654
00:38:40,735 --> 00:38:43,071
I know, darling, and it's going to be
a small wedding.

655
00:38:43,404 --> 00:38:45,240
With the things you're talking about?

656
00:38:45,406 --> 00:38:50,119
Bridesmaids and churches and automobiles
and flowers and heaven knows what.

657
00:38:50,453 --> 00:38:52,997
But, Stanley, all her friends
are given weddings like that.

658
00:38:53,164 --> 00:38:55,917
If her friends want to go out and bankrupt
themselves, that's their business,

659
00:38:56,125 --> 00:38:59,254
not mine, but we've always lived
very simply, within our means.

660
00:38:59,546 --> 00:39:00,713
Now here, what are we going to do?

661
00:39:00,922 --> 00:39:04,050
Put on a big show,
a big flashy show that we can't afford?

662
00:39:10,265 --> 00:39:11,516
Stan,

663
00:39:13,226 --> 00:39:16,771
there's only one time in a girl's life
that she can be married in a bridal dress.

664
00:39:17,146 --> 00:39:20,608
Just once, and I don't want Kay
to miss it the way I did.

665
00:39:21,192 --> 00:39:23,403
Miss it? Miss it?

666
00:39:23,611 --> 00:39:26,447
Don't you think I wanted a wedding
with all the trimmings?

667
00:39:26,823 --> 00:39:28,074
Then why didn't you have it?

668
00:39:28,408 --> 00:39:31,160
Because you didn't want it,
so I pretended I didn't either.

669
00:39:32,412 --> 00:39:35,123
And you've been brooding about it
all this time?

670
00:39:35,456 --> 00:39:38,293
No, of course not,
but I have thought about it.

671
00:39:39,669 --> 00:39:42,130
You go on out
and buy yourself a wedding dress

672
00:39:42,297 --> 00:39:46,301
-and I'll marry you all over again.
- I'll be satisfied to see Kay in one.

673
00:39:46,467 --> 00:39:51,014
Stanley, I don't know how to explain,
but a wedding, a church wedding,

674
00:39:51,764 --> 00:39:53,892
it's what every girl dreams of.

675
00:39:54,309 --> 00:39:57,562
A bridal dress, orange blossoms,
the music.

676
00:39:57,937 --> 00:40:01,024
It's something lovely
for her to remember all her life,

677
00:40:01,316 --> 00:40:03,860
and something for us to remember, too.

678
00:40:05,987 --> 00:40:08,197
<i>From then on, I was a dead duck.</i>

679
00:40:08,364 --> 00:40:10,825
You should've seen it from the back.

680
00:40:10,992 --> 00:40:13,578
- The look on the poor man's--
- Hi, Pops.

681
00:40:13,828 --> 00:40:15,788
Hello, darling.
I'm sorry we're so late getting home.

682
00:40:15,997 --> 00:40:18,333
- We had a very busy day.
- Pops, just wait until you see these.

683
00:40:18,583 --> 00:40:21,294
Delilah, did the dress come for me today?

684
00:40:21,502 --> 00:40:23,755
There were six or seven packages.
I left them upstairs.

685
00:40:24,005 --> 00:40:25,465
Pops, wait till you see this one.

686
00:40:25,673 --> 00:40:27,675
How about I show you these slippers?
They were such a bargain.

687
00:40:27,842 --> 00:40:30,720
Yes, darling, look, if you could let
the clothes carnival go for a minute.

688
00:40:30,887 --> 00:40:32,347
- Have you got the list yet?
- The list?

689
00:40:32,555 --> 00:40:35,183
Yeah, the list. I have to have it
to give Miss Bellamy at the office.

690
00:40:35,391 --> 00:40:37,810
She has to get the order in for
the invitations and the announcements.

691
00:40:38,102 --> 00:40:39,187
Aren't these pretty?

692
00:40:39,354 --> 00:40:42,649
- The list, darling. Have you got the list?
- Yes, I have it right here in my bag.

693
00:40:42,857 --> 00:40:45,526
The bag is here. Here's the bag.

694
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:48,655
Look, Stanley, isn't that lovely?

695
00:40:48,863 --> 00:40:50,448
That's what the bridesmaids
are going to wear.

696
00:40:50,698 --> 00:40:53,618
- Aren't you afraid of the cops?
-It should give the idea of spring,

697
00:40:53,785 --> 00:40:55,119
of wood nymphs and glades.

698
00:40:55,286 --> 00:40:58,581
- Like the girl on the White Rock bottle.
- Here's the list.

699
00:41:01,542 --> 00:41:03,795
<i>- WOMAN: Kay, Kay!
- Tw0--</i>

700
00:41:04,045 --> 00:41:07,048
- Kay? Kay? Hi. Where is she?
- She's upstairs.

701
00:41:07,298 --> 00:41:10,718
- Kay, what <i>did you get today?
- Come up, see my new evening dress.</i>

702
00:41:12,053 --> 00:41:15,056
"Two spectator sports suits,
one spectator sport..."

703
00:41:15,223 --> 00:41:18,267
This is no list.
This is something to do about clothes.

704
00:41:18,434 --> 00:41:20,770
"Two country suits, trousers,
suit and shoes to match.

705
00:41:20,937 --> 00:41:22,772
"Two town suits, trousers, shoes to match.

706
00:41:23,064 --> 00:41:24,732
"Two afternoon dresses,
shoes, bags to match.

707
00:41:24,899 --> 00:41:27,568
"Evening dress, shoes and bags to match.
Jewelry to match.

708
00:41:27,735 --> 00:41:31,406
"One hostess dress, four negligees,
hats, furs, six snuggeries,

709
00:41:31,698 --> 00:41:32,907
"raincoat, a dozen slippers..."

710
00:41:33,074 --> 00:41:34,617
- What is this?
- Wrong list.

711
00:41:34,867 --> 00:41:36,285
-It's her trousseau.
- Her trousseau?

712
00:41:36,452 --> 00:41:38,413
- Is she going to get all that?
- Of course, dear.

713
00:41:38,579 --> 00:41:41,666
- But her closets are bulging already.
- She can't wear those old things.

714
00:41:41,874 --> 00:41:45,253
Darling, you know what "trousseau" means?
It's from the French.

715
00:41:45,545 --> 00:41:49,549
It means a little bundle that the bride
carries under her arm to her new home.

716
00:41:49,757 --> 00:41:52,927
How sweet. I've got good news for you.
The church is free.

717
00:41:53,094 --> 00:41:55,930
The church is...
Well, I'm glad something's free.

718
00:41:56,097 --> 00:41:58,307
I mean it's available on the 10th of June.

719
00:41:58,474 --> 00:42:00,101
You mean we pay for the church?

720
00:42:00,268 --> 00:42:02,729
There were some telephone messages.
I left them on your desk.

721
00:42:02,895 --> 00:42:05,481
A man called about doing the flowers
for the church and the reception,

722
00:42:05,690 --> 00:42:07,400
and Mrs. Gibbons
left the name of her dressmaker,

723
00:42:07,608 --> 00:42:10,028
-and the candid cameraman called--
- Candid cameraman?

724
00:42:10,278 --> 00:42:13,281
- Thanks, Delilah. I'll look at them later.
- The candid cameraman?

725
00:42:13,948 --> 00:42:15,074
Ben!

726
00:42:16,868 --> 00:42:17,869
How do I look?

727
00:42:18,077 --> 00:42:19,370
<i>If you take your hands
out of your pocket,</i>

728
00:42:19,537 --> 00:42:21,581
<i>I could tell. Come down, let me see.</i>

729
00:42:21,956 --> 00:42:23,249
Turn around.

730
00:42:23,875 --> 00:42:25,418
Oh, it fits perfectly. That reminds me.

731
00:42:25,626 --> 00:42:27,420
I've got to get yours
out of that trunk in the attic.

732
00:42:27,670 --> 00:42:29,297
- Like it, Pop?
- What are you doing?

733
00:42:29,505 --> 00:42:32,133
- Are you getting a trousseau, too?
- Didn't we tell you?

734
00:42:32,300 --> 00:42:36,846
- Buckley asked Ben to be his best man.
- Oh, he did, huh? $150?

735
00:42:37,305 --> 00:42:38,973
Why didn't he pick on
one of his own friends?

736
00:42:39,223 --> 00:42:42,060
I thought it was swell of him.
I hardly know the guy.

737
00:42:43,436 --> 00:42:46,314
It's only two syllables
from Banks to bankruptcy.

739
00:42:48,733 --> 00:42:50,818
Hello? The what?

740
00:42:51,486 --> 00:42:54,655
- An orchestra? You got the wrong number.
- Wait, Stanley.

741
00:42:55,114 --> 00:42:57,825
Hello, are you the orchestra
Mrs. Parkman recommended?

742
00:42:57,992 --> 00:43:00,661
How many of you are there?
That sounds very nice.

743
00:43:01,496 --> 00:43:04,415
The 10th of June.
I'll be hearing from you then. Goodbye.

744
00:43:04,832 --> 00:43:07,251
Stanley, from now on,
don't answer the phone.

745
00:43:07,460 --> 00:43:10,088
- An orchestra? Are you out of your head?
- For the reception, darling.

746
00:43:10,254 --> 00:43:12,924
We have to have some music,
and it only costs $85.

747
00:43:13,174 --> 00:43:15,843
Oh, only $85? Oh, only $85?

748
00:43:16,135 --> 00:43:18,429
What are people gonna say
when I'm in the gutter

749
00:43:18,596 --> 00:43:21,182
because I tried to put on a wedding
like a Roman emperor?

750
00:43:23,226 --> 00:43:25,520
<i>While my secretary went over
the list of wedding guests,</i>

751
00:43:25,686 --> 00:43:27,188
<i>I went over the bills.</i>

752
00:43:33,236 --> 00:43:34,403
Yeah.

753
00:43:34,695 --> 00:43:36,864
Before I order the invitations,
I thought you ought to know

754
00:43:37,031 --> 00:43:38,825
how many people Mrs. Banks is asking.

755
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:41,702
- A hundred?
-572.

756
00:43:42,328 --> 00:43:44,872
572? There must be some mistake.

757
00:43:45,081 --> 00:43:47,834
Of course, Mrs. Banks doesn't mean
to ask them all to the reception,

758
00:43:48,251 --> 00:43:49,752
only 280 of them.

759
00:43:50,044 --> 00:43:51,629
The rest just get asked to the church.

760
00:43:51,879 --> 00:43:54,048
Only 280 come to the house?

761
00:43:54,674 --> 00:43:57,009
The house won't hold 280 people.

762
00:43:57,844 --> 00:44:02,473
I was talking to our accountant.
He's married off four daughters.

763
00:44:02,765 --> 00:44:04,809
He breaks each of his wedding guests
down into units,

764
00:44:04,976 --> 00:44:06,561
reception units and church units.

765
00:44:07,061 --> 00:44:11,357
Each reception unit includes
the cost of champagne, caterers,

766
00:44:11,566 --> 00:44:14,068
-tips, flowers, extra insurance--
-insurance?

767
00:44:14,318 --> 00:44:17,446
Oh, breakage and fire, cigarette burns,
that sort of thing.

768
00:44:18,030 --> 00:44:22,660
Broken down that way, he said the cost
of each reception unit comes to $3.75.

769
00:44:24,162 --> 00:44:26,622
- A couple?
- A head.

770
00:44:29,041 --> 00:44:31,085
$3.75 a head?

771
00:44:34,172 --> 00:44:38,134
Thank you, Miss Bellamy, and good night.

772
00:44:41,762 --> 00:44:43,472
$3.75 a head.

773
00:44:43,723 --> 00:44:46,601
I want to tell you one thing,
there are going to be 150 people

774
00:44:46,767 --> 00:44:49,395
invited to this house for the reception
and not one more.

775
00:44:49,562 --> 00:44:51,647
I don't care how many
you invite to the church,

776
00:44:51,814 --> 00:44:53,441
pack them in,
build a grandstand if you want to,

777
00:44:53,608 --> 00:44:55,610
but the 151st person
who comes into this house

778
00:44:55,776 --> 00:44:57,987
is going to be thrown out on his neck.

779
00:44:58,196 --> 00:45:00,948
They're not my friends.
I wanted a small wedding.

780
00:45:01,199 --> 00:45:04,118
Stanley, there are loads and loads of
people you just can't ask to the church.

781
00:45:04,285 --> 00:45:05,494
They'd be insulted.

782
00:45:05,661 --> 00:45:06,996
It's no longer a question
of insulting people.

783
00:45:07,163 --> 00:45:08,497
This is a question of survival.

784
00:45:08,831 --> 00:45:10,833
Now come on, let's put an "x"
next to the names of the people

785
00:45:11,083 --> 00:45:14,295
we have to absolutely invite
to the reception, we throw the rest out.

786
00:45:14,503 --> 00:45:15,922
Come on now, let's get to work.

787
00:45:16,172 --> 00:45:17,298
I can't be any help.

788
00:45:17,506 --> 00:45:19,759
I've already cut my list
absolutely to the bone.

789
00:45:19,967 --> 00:45:23,095
Here's someone, the Sandways.
We never see them anyway.

790
00:45:23,304 --> 00:45:26,098
As for that woman with the dyed hair,
I don't care if I ever see her again.

791
00:45:26,307 --> 00:45:29,977
Harry Sandwayjust happens to be one
of the best friends I have in the world,

792
00:45:30,186 --> 00:45:32,355
besides being one of my very best clients.

793
00:45:32,563 --> 00:45:34,565
Oh, Pops, a client.

794
00:45:34,732 --> 00:45:39,111
Harry Sandway would go to the ends
of the earth for me, and I for Harry.

795
00:45:43,199 --> 00:45:48,079
What about cutting down a little bit
on this Garden Club of yours?

796
00:45:48,246 --> 00:45:49,914
We could get along without them.

797
00:45:50,164 --> 00:45:52,500
Stanley, we have to ask them.
They're running me for president.

798
00:45:52,708 --> 00:45:55,878
Oh, I thought a wedding
was supposed to be a joyous occasion.

799
00:45:56,212 --> 00:45:58,839
This is a business convention.

800
00:46:00,967 --> 00:46:03,636
- What's the matter with her?
- She's nervous.

801
00:46:04,095 --> 00:46:05,846
All women are nervous.

802
00:46:19,902 --> 00:46:22,029
Yes? Come in.

803
00:46:24,031 --> 00:46:25,616
- Hi, Pops.
- Hi.

804
00:46:25,866 --> 00:46:28,077
I'm sorry about the way I acted.

805
00:46:28,327 --> 00:46:30,288
That's all right.
It's my fault. I was a little tough.

806
00:46:30,538 --> 00:46:33,582
We're all unstrung
by this wedding business.

807
00:46:34,083 --> 00:46:35,710
All this fuss and worry.

808
00:46:36,002 --> 00:46:39,463
I never wanted anything like this.
I just wanted a small wedding.

809
00:46:39,755 --> 00:46:42,675
That's what we all wanted,
but it kind of got out of hand, didn't it?

810
00:46:42,883 --> 00:46:45,553
All this money. I feel horribly.

811
00:46:47,263 --> 00:46:49,932
- You know, kitten, I had an idea.
<i>- What is it?</i>

812
00:46:50,099 --> 00:46:53,602
I don't know if it's any good or not,
but I thought...

813
00:46:53,769 --> 00:46:58,190
I was wondering,
if I gave you and Buckley about $1,500,

814
00:46:59,233 --> 00:47:01,152
how would you like to elope?

815
00:47:02,445 --> 00:47:03,487
<i>Hope?</i>

816
00:47:03,654 --> 00:47:06,657
Yeah, you know, tomorrow
or the next day you run off somewhere--

817
00:47:06,824 --> 00:47:10,202
Pops, eloping, sneaking off
and getting married,

818
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:14,749
I'd feel sort of, well,
as if something were wrong.

819
00:47:14,999 --> 00:47:18,336
As if you didn't like Buckley
and didn't want me to marry him.

820
00:47:18,502 --> 00:47:21,964
- Oh, kitten, I don't think it would--
- To get married by the justice of peace

821
00:47:22,173 --> 00:47:25,968
in some dirty little office
with you and Moms not there?

822
00:47:27,094 --> 00:47:29,055
I don't know, Pops, but...

823
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:32,433
I don't think I'd feel as if
I were really getting married.

824
00:47:32,683 --> 00:47:35,728
- Well, it was just an idea.
- Stanley.

825
00:47:35,895 --> 00:47:38,230
Forget about... I'm coming, Ellie.

826
00:47:38,439 --> 00:47:41,942
- Pops, if you're worried about the money--
- No. Just forget all about it.

827
00:47:42,151 --> 00:47:43,778
Forget I ever mentioned it. Forget it.

828
00:47:43,944 --> 00:47:45,112
Stanley, you've just got to help me.

829
00:47:45,279 --> 00:47:47,114
I'm going crazy
trying to cut this thing down.

830
00:47:47,281 --> 00:47:48,282
Take Bob and Betty, for instance.

831
00:47:48,449 --> 00:47:49,575
If we ask them, we have to ask the Dixons.

832
00:47:49,742 --> 00:47:51,452
If we ask the Dixons,
we have to have the Warners.

833
00:47:51,619 --> 00:47:55,039
Mother, let's call the whole thing off.
Let's not have the wedding.

834
00:47:55,206 --> 00:47:57,500
- Kay, what are you talking about?
- Buckley and I could run off.

835
00:47:57,666 --> 00:47:58,793
- We could elope.
- Elope?

836
00:47:58,959 --> 00:48:00,669
Look, I told you that I didn't want you

837
00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:02,630
to talk about
that eloping nonsense anymore.

838
00:48:02,797 --> 00:48:04,799
Now stop it. Stop it. The poor kid.

839
00:48:04,965 --> 00:48:06,717
She's worried,
afraid I'm spending too much money.

840
00:48:06,967 --> 00:48:08,135
Kay, you wouldn't do that.

841
00:48:08,302 --> 00:48:10,054
You wouldn't elope.
Why, it would break my heart.

842
00:48:10,221 --> 00:48:12,431
- Why, of course she wouldn't.
- But Pops, you...

843
00:48:12,765 --> 00:48:16,560
Now I've heard all about this I care to
hear. Stop it. Stop it, really.

844
00:48:18,104 --> 00:48:20,147
Look, we're not going to
cut these down at all.

845
00:48:20,356 --> 00:48:22,483
Not cut them down at all.
We're going to invite all of them.

846
00:48:22,691 --> 00:48:24,777
- Oh, Stanley, can we afford it?
- Of course we can afford it!

847
00:48:24,944 --> 00:48:27,655
After all, what is money for
if it isn't to give my daughter

848
00:48:27,822 --> 00:48:29,698
the finest wedding that's ever...

849
00:48:29,865 --> 00:48:32,493
What are you trying to do,
get me in trouble?

850
00:48:36,414 --> 00:48:39,500
<i>Ellie had dug up
one of those little caterers.</i>

851
00:48:40,501 --> 00:48:44,296
<i>He was willing to take the whole
reception over and take us over, too.</i>

852
00:48:44,672 --> 00:48:47,007
This has been a very successful cake.

853
00:48:47,341 --> 00:48:49,427
We made that for Brenda Santanya.

854
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:52,138
You know, the daughter
of the Princess Schwazese,

855
00:48:52,430 --> 00:48:54,849
-by her second husband.
- Yes, the Princess.

856
00:48:55,099 --> 00:48:56,976
- Delightful person, isn't she?
- Yes, charming.

857
00:48:57,184 --> 00:49:00,438
This is another we made for
the Stoppenshutts for their nuptials.

858
00:49:00,771 --> 00:49:02,606
- Do you like that, Mrs...
- Banks.

859
00:49:02,982 --> 00:49:05,192
Perhaps I better get your name
and the date first.

860
00:49:05,359 --> 00:49:08,237
- Will you step over here, please?
- Ellie, Ellie, Ellie.

861
00:49:12,324 --> 00:49:13,993
Just for the cake.

862
00:49:15,327 --> 00:49:17,371
Will you sit here, please?

863
00:49:20,583 --> 00:49:23,377
- Now, then...
- Mr. and Mrs. Stanley Banks.

864
00:49:24,295 --> 00:49:26,547
24 Maple Drive, Fairview Manor.

865
00:49:27,465 --> 00:49:31,135
- And the wedding is June 10th.
- June 10th. Very good.

866
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:35,431
- Now, about the reception.
- We're not having a large one, I'm afraid.

867
00:49:35,973 --> 00:49:38,350
Small and sedate. I understand perfectly.

868
00:49:38,976 --> 00:49:41,020
And we don't want a cake.

869
00:49:42,062 --> 00:49:44,231
- What, you don't want a cake?
- No.

870
00:49:44,482 --> 00:49:46,192
- Why?
- I think cakes are cheap.

871
00:49:46,358 --> 00:49:47,985
Every Tom, Dick and Harry has one.
We don't want one.

872
00:49:48,194 --> 00:49:49,987
I understand perfectly.

873
00:49:50,154 --> 00:49:52,698
It's true that very select weddings
no longer have them,

874
00:49:52,907 --> 00:49:55,743
but for the ordinary run of people
we have to show them.

875
00:49:56,076 --> 00:49:58,829
Now, um, about the food, let's see.

876
00:49:59,747 --> 00:50:03,000
What about a large salmon
at either end of the table?

877
00:50:03,667 --> 00:50:06,420
With salads in great bowls in the center?

878
00:50:06,837 --> 00:50:10,257
Another very dramatic arrangement is
cold sturgeon in the middle of the table.

879
00:50:11,091 --> 00:50:13,928
Now, for the ices, we pride ourselves
on a very special effect,

880
00:50:14,512 --> 00:50:15,888
with colored lights embedded--

881
00:50:16,096 --> 00:50:18,599
We didn't intend on having
that kind of a reception.

882
00:50:25,147 --> 00:50:26,315
What did you have in mind, madam?

883
00:50:27,274 --> 00:50:29,902
Well, we thought we'd have
some assorted sandwiches,

884
00:50:30,152 --> 00:50:34,448
different kinds, you know.
And some ice cream and little cakes.

885
00:50:35,616 --> 00:50:37,743
Of course you can have
just what you wish, madam,

886
00:50:37,952 --> 00:50:40,746
but that's what we usually serve
for children's parties.

887
00:50:41,372 --> 00:50:42,414
That's what we want.

888
00:50:43,290 --> 00:50:48,629
This 24 Maple Drive.
Is it a club or a country estate?

889
00:50:51,131 --> 00:50:52,216
It's our home.

890
00:50:53,467 --> 00:50:57,304
- What attendance are you anticipating?
- About 250.

891
00:50:57,972 --> 00:51:00,516
- Is it a large house?
- No, it's a small house.

892
00:51:00,975 --> 00:51:04,019
Oh, then, of course, you'll be planning
for a marquee on the terrace.

893
00:51:04,478 --> 00:51:06,897
- This, for instance.
- We don't happen to have a terrace.

894
00:51:07,147 --> 00:51:10,484
If they overflow the house,
they can tramp around out on the lawn.

895
00:51:12,027 --> 00:51:13,654
I tell you what I'll do.

896
00:51:13,862 --> 00:51:16,657
I'll get one of our field engineers
to go over the property.

897
00:51:16,949 --> 00:51:18,742
We always have to do that anyway.

898
00:51:20,119 --> 00:51:23,831
<i>The next Saturday, I finally
got around to trying on my old cutaway.</i>

899
00:53:04,723 --> 00:53:05,849
Ellie!

900
00:53:06,809 --> 00:53:08,727
- Ellie!
- Yes, dear?

901
00:53:09,603 --> 00:53:13,649
- Ellie, look, look, look!
- What is it?

902
00:53:14,108 --> 00:53:17,027
- I'm in it.
- Well, well.

903
00:53:18,987 --> 00:53:22,199
Not so bad, huh? A little snug.

904
00:53:22,950 --> 00:53:27,246
Maybe I can... Maybe I could take off
a pound or two before the wedding.

905
00:53:27,996 --> 00:53:30,082
Are you standing naturally?

906
00:53:30,249 --> 00:53:33,460
You look as though you might have been
strapped up by a surgeon.

907
00:53:36,422 --> 00:53:39,633
I was wondering...
Do you think you ought to get a new one?

908
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:42,970
- I mean, with Ben getting a new one--
- Oh, nonsense!

909
00:53:43,137 --> 00:53:46,098
What are you talking about?
I've only worn this thing twice.

910
00:53:46,265 --> 00:53:47,808
- Stanley--
- Do you realize that most men

911
00:53:47,975 --> 00:53:50,894
couldn't even get into their cutaway
after 20 years?

912
00:53:51,145 --> 00:53:54,064
If that button gives way
it's going to put out somebody's eye.

913
00:53:54,815 --> 00:53:58,485
You know, sometimes
they wear them unbuttoned.

914
00:53:59,486 --> 00:54:02,197
Ah. I kind of like it unbuttoned,
don't you?

915
00:54:02,364 --> 00:54:03,824
Like it better that way.

916
00:54:04,950 --> 00:54:06,660
Just wait, just wait.

917
00:54:06,827 --> 00:54:10,330
Wait till I have this thing
let out just a little.

918
00:54:11,165 --> 00:54:13,167
You'll be surprised. You wait and see.

919
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:18,130
Oh, Stanley, I want you to look at these.

920
00:54:18,505 --> 00:54:21,842
Aren't they lovely?
They're Kay's presents to the bridesmaids.

921
00:54:22,009 --> 00:54:23,886
You'd never dream they cost only $15,
would you?

922
00:54:24,052 --> 00:54:26,889
-$15?
- And this is what she's giving Buckley.

923
00:54:27,055 --> 00:54:29,641
She's giving...
She's giving that to Buckley?

924
00:54:29,808 --> 00:54:32,436
The bride always gives the groom
a present.

925
00:54:32,603 --> 00:54:35,439
Stanley, that reminds me, can you arrange
to meet me in town again on Saturday?

926
00:54:35,647 --> 00:54:38,525
We just have to pick out the flat silver
if we're going to get it marked in time.

927
00:54:38,692 --> 00:54:40,527
- The what?
- Kay's flat silver. The table silver.

928
00:54:40,694 --> 00:54:43,572
Now you know perfectly well we give
Kay the flat silver and the linen--

929
00:54:43,781 --> 00:54:47,034
Yes, yes, yes, I know. What does
Buckley's family give, just Buckley?

930
00:54:47,409 --> 00:54:48,494
Just Buckley.

931
00:54:48,702 --> 00:54:49,995
- Mom?
- Yes, dear?

932
00:54:50,204 --> 00:54:52,623
There's a Mr. Massoula and
another guy downstairs to see you.

933
00:54:52,790 --> 00:54:54,666
That's the fellow with the cake.

934
00:54:56,668 --> 00:54:59,421
- Say, come here.
- What's wrong?

935
00:55:00,005 --> 00:55:02,716
I just happened to think,

936
00:55:03,634 --> 00:55:05,803
you're going to get married
pretty soon, aren't you?

937
00:55:06,053 --> 00:55:09,056
And then it'll be my turn,
my turn to present you

938
00:55:09,264 --> 00:55:13,143
to the father of the bride
as my one and only contribution.

939
00:55:13,352 --> 00:55:15,229
- I feel better, son.
- Stanley.

940
00:55:18,273 --> 00:55:19,775
<i>An experienced caterer</i>

941
00:55:20,025 --> 00:55:22,861
<i>can make you ashamed
of your house in 15 minutes.</i>

942
00:55:23,862 --> 00:55:26,031
<i>Ellie was on the verge of tears.</i>

943
00:55:27,699 --> 00:55:31,578
These doors, they'll have to be
taken off and stored.

944
00:55:32,412 --> 00:55:35,707
You'd be surprised how much circulation
you lose on account of doors,

945
00:55:36,083 --> 00:55:38,001
especially doors like that.

946
00:55:39,920 --> 00:55:42,631
All I know is you can't get
more than 125 in the house.

947
00:55:43,006 --> 00:55:45,592
Squash them in
like a lot of bugs if you did.

948
00:55:46,844 --> 00:55:50,013
We were planning to take some
of this furniture upstairs into the attic.

949
00:55:50,222 --> 00:55:52,266
Yes, we were going to take up
the small chairs

950
00:55:52,432 --> 00:55:54,268
and the small tables
and the standing lamp,

951
00:55:54,434 --> 00:55:56,019
and we were even thinking
of taking up the rug.

952
00:55:56,186 --> 00:55:59,231
Taking up the rug, lady,
ain't going to give us any more room.

953
00:55:59,606 --> 00:56:02,568
- Have you any suggestions?
- Yes, madam, I have.

954
00:56:02,943 --> 00:56:05,153
Even with the marquee out there,
you're going to be cramped.

955
00:56:05,404 --> 00:56:07,239
Joe, go out in the back
and measure for that marquee.

956
00:56:07,614 --> 00:56:08,615
Right.

957
00:56:08,949 --> 00:56:11,577
You see, madam,
circulation is your big problem.

958
00:56:11,952 --> 00:56:14,955
Now, the first thing you've got to do
is clear this room of all furniture.

959
00:56:15,163 --> 00:56:17,624
- You mean the settee and the armchairs--
- And the piano.

960
00:56:17,833 --> 00:56:20,127
And in the dining room,
the same thing, too.

961
00:56:20,460 --> 00:56:23,547
What do you think I have upstairs,
a cold storage warehouse?

962
00:56:23,797 --> 00:56:25,799
I have an attic that's full now.

963
00:56:25,966 --> 00:56:28,176
I suggest you do
what our other clients do.

964
00:56:28,343 --> 00:56:30,971
Hire a moving van to take the things out
before the reception

965
00:56:31,263 --> 00:56:34,308
and bring them back when it's over.
Now, the marquee.

966
00:56:34,850 --> 00:56:38,478
Um, we'll attach the marquee
to this French door.

967
00:56:39,187 --> 00:56:41,481
It's stuck. It's stuck.

968
00:56:41,815 --> 00:56:43,317
I'll say it is.

969
00:56:44,776 --> 00:56:47,070
Yes, I've been meaning to get it fixed.

970
00:56:47,404 --> 00:56:49,573
Doesn't matter.
They've got to come off anyway.

971
00:56:49,823 --> 00:56:51,950
It's really quite simple.
All you have to do is push...

972
00:56:52,326 --> 00:56:55,996
Look, you stop! Stop! Just stand still.

973
00:57:10,177 --> 00:57:13,013
<i>I decided after all
I might as well get a new cutaway.</i>

974
00:57:18,518 --> 00:57:20,854
<i>Every mail brought a new terror.</i>

975
00:57:22,022 --> 00:57:24,566
- The Cramptons are coming.
- Uh-huh.

976
00:57:25,192 --> 00:57:28,779
The Lewises, the Quincy Browns
and the Gaylords.

977
00:57:30,530 --> 00:57:32,574
Apparently Kay picked a day
for her wedding

978
00:57:32,741 --> 00:57:35,702
when nobody within 400 miles
has got anything to do.

979
00:57:35,869 --> 00:57:38,038
- Oh, how nice.
- Somebody refuse?

980
00:57:38,246 --> 00:57:39,831
No, the Whiteheads were asked
to another wedding

981
00:57:39,998 --> 00:57:41,959
and gave it up to come to ours.
Isn't that sweet?

982
00:57:42,125 --> 00:57:43,543
How nice... The Whiteheads?

983
00:57:43,794 --> 00:57:45,504
They live in Pittsburgh.

984
00:57:45,796 --> 00:57:48,215
What crust, coming all the way
from Pittsburgh.

985
00:57:48,423 --> 00:57:51,510
<i>Moms! Pops! Look, I got a present!</i>

986
00:57:51,677 --> 00:57:54,846
A wedding present! Look, a tray.

987
00:57:55,013 --> 00:57:57,724
A lovely hand-painted tray. Delilah!

988
00:57:58,058 --> 00:58:00,143
Delilah, come and see.
Look, I've got a present.

989
00:58:00,394 --> 00:58:03,021
<i>We were not
accustomed to such bounty.</i>

990
00:58:03,230 --> 00:58:06,400
<i>The idea anyone should actually go out
and purchase a gift with hard money</i>

991
00:58:06,566 --> 00:58:08,860
<i>filled us with tender gratitude.</i>

992
00:58:10,112 --> 00:58:14,366
<i>For a few days, it looked as if this
might be the last as well as the first,</i>

993
00:58:14,533 --> 00:58:16,410
<i>but then they began to come in.</i>

994
00:58:16,576 --> 00:58:20,580
<i>A thin trickle at first,
then more and more.</i>

995
00:58:41,601 --> 00:58:44,604
<i>Given enough ointment,
there's always a fly.</i>

996
00:58:45,105 --> 00:58:48,442
<i>Given enough presents,
there's bound to be a stinker.</i>

997
00:58:53,613 --> 00:58:56,742
- Who sent that?
-"With love from Aunt Hattie."

998
00:58:57,617 --> 00:59:00,954
- Aunt Hattie.
- Kay was expecting a nice, fat check.

999
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:04,583
When I think of all the guff
I've taken from that old--

1000
00:59:04,916 --> 00:59:07,961
- What are we going to do with it?
- Would you really like me to tell you?

1001
00:59:08,128 --> 00:59:09,379
You could always drop it.

1002
00:59:09,546 --> 00:59:12,340
Oh, Kay! Kay, come take a look
at what Aunt Hattie sent you.

1003
00:59:12,507 --> 00:59:15,761
- Yeah.
- You can send it back.

1004
00:59:16,219 --> 00:59:18,680
Darling, no one would take that back
once they got rid of it.

1005
00:59:19,639 --> 00:59:22,309
You can send them all back.
The Wedding's off.

1006
00:59:24,102 --> 00:59:25,228
Kay, what are you saying?

1007
00:59:26,229 --> 00:59:29,524
Just that. I'm not going to marry Buckley.

1008
00:59:30,525 --> 00:59:33,653
I found out something about him
that's unforgivable.

1009
00:59:35,530 --> 00:59:37,574
- What could have happened?
- I don't know.

1010
00:59:38,158 --> 00:59:41,536
Ellie, let me go to her.

1011
00:59:46,708 --> 00:59:48,835
<i>Kitten?</i>

1012
00:59:58,303 --> 01:00:00,764
Please, Pops, it's no use talking.

1013
01:00:01,139 --> 01:00:02,349
I'm not going to talk, honey.

1014
01:00:02,599 --> 01:00:04,351
I just wanted to tell you
everything's all right.

1015
01:00:04,518 --> 01:00:07,354
Whatever you choose to do,
it's okay with us, you know.

1016
01:00:08,772 --> 01:00:09,940
Thank you, Pops.

1018
01:00:19,908 --> 01:00:21,243
You know,

1019
01:00:22,494 --> 01:00:26,373
you always used to talk about
taking a little trip to Europe.

1020
01:00:26,706 --> 01:00:28,458
Why don't I fix that up tomorrow?

1021
01:00:28,708 --> 01:00:30,544
You could take
one of your friends with you.

1022
01:00:30,836 --> 01:00:33,213
Oh, Pops, I couldn't.

1023
01:00:33,839 --> 01:00:35,924
Not after all you've been through.

1024
01:00:36,925 --> 01:00:39,136
All this horrible expense and everything.

1025
01:00:39,302 --> 01:00:41,805
Oh, heavens, that doesn't matter.

1026
01:00:42,097 --> 01:00:45,559
Nothing matters, except your happiness.

1027
01:00:46,226 --> 01:00:47,769
We can arrange everything.

1028
01:00:48,019 --> 01:00:50,397
We'll make some excuse,
say that you're ill or something.

1029
01:00:51,231 --> 01:00:54,234
We'll send back the presents,
notify the people...

1031
01:00:57,154 --> 01:00:58,196
Aw, don't.

1033
01:01:03,076 --> 01:01:07,414
Oh, he should have told me before.
He shouldn't have kept it from me.

1034
01:01:07,747 --> 01:01:10,333
He had this thing come out of the blue.

1035
01:01:11,042 --> 01:01:14,337
There, there, there. Don't cry, kitten.

1036
01:01:14,546 --> 01:01:16,923
Nova Scotia for our honeymoon.

1037
01:01:17,757 --> 01:01:19,926
A camp in Nova Scotia,

1038
01:01:20,260 --> 01:01:23,847
so he can fish for some
horrible salmon or something.

1039
01:01:25,348 --> 01:01:28,268
He knew I bought millions
of evening clothes and things.

1040
01:01:28,768 --> 01:01:31,688
That didn't matter to him. Oh, no.

1041
01:01:32,189 --> 01:01:35,775
He loves to go fishing,
so he decides we're going fishing.

1043
01:01:38,528 --> 01:01:40,280
Well, after all...

1044
01:01:42,157 --> 01:01:43,617
What do you mean?

1045
01:01:44,409 --> 01:01:48,163
Well, I mean, I thought it was
something even worse than that,

1046
01:01:48,371 --> 01:01:50,624
maybe like another girl or something.

1047
01:01:50,790 --> 01:01:52,834
A girl wouldn't be so bad.

1048
01:01:54,044 --> 01:01:56,296
At least you can get your teeth in a girl.

1049
01:01:57,631 --> 01:02:01,760
But this, this is our whole life.
It's our whole future.

1050
01:02:02,719 --> 01:02:07,098
If he's just this selfish now, so mean
when it's a question of our honeymoon,

1051
01:02:08,433 --> 01:02:10,435
what's he gonna be like
after we're married?

1052
01:02:11,102 --> 01:02:14,147
- Had you talked it over?
- Of course we had.

1053
01:02:14,648 --> 01:02:17,442
I told him I wanted to go
someplace romantic,

1054
01:02:17,817 --> 01:02:22,489
but he said there was nothing as romantic
as a fishing shack in Nova Scotia.

1055
01:02:25,784 --> 01:02:27,702
We had a horrible fight.

1056
01:02:28,787 --> 01:02:30,789
I said terrible things to him.

1057
01:02:31,331 --> 01:02:33,667
And he called me a spoiled brat.

1058
01:02:35,585 --> 01:02:38,964
I made him stop the car,
and ljumped out and left him right there.

1060
01:02:47,597 --> 01:02:49,099
Buckley's here.

1061
01:02:50,183 --> 01:02:52,686
The poor boy's stricken.
He looks terrible.

1062
01:02:53,103 --> 01:02:56,022
- Will you see him?
- No.

1063
01:03:04,197 --> 01:03:06,825
I never saw anyone who was suffering so.

1064
01:03:07,367 --> 01:03:08,743
He'll get over it.

1065
01:03:18,712 --> 01:03:21,381
- Good evening, sir.
- Won't see you, Buckley.

1066
01:03:21,548 --> 01:03:23,049
- If I could speak to her...
-it's no use, son.

1067
01:03:23,216 --> 01:03:26,011
Will you tell her that I'm sorry,
that she's right about the whole thing?

1068
01:03:26,219 --> 01:03:30,056
I was selfish and pigheaded.
I didn't realize. I should have asked her.

1069
01:03:30,223 --> 01:03:33,435
I'll go anywhere, I'll do anything.
Just tell her that I'm sorry.

1070
01:03:33,643 --> 01:03:36,229
I'd give anything to take back
what I said. Will you tell her?

1071
01:03:36,396 --> 01:03:40,650
Yes, I'll tell her. I'll tell her. Yes.
Go on home, now. Pull yourself together.

1072
01:03:41,026 --> 01:03:43,403
- What'd you do to your hand?
- Nothing!

1073
01:03:44,738 --> 01:03:46,823
Kay slammed the car door on it.

1074
01:03:47,741 --> 01:03:49,367
- <i>Buckley!
- Let's get some...</i>

1075
01:03:49,743 --> 01:03:53,455
- Buckley! Darling! Oh, darling!
- Darling!

1076
01:03:53,830 --> 01:03:55,915
- Oh, darling, I'm sorry.
- No, it was my fault.

1077
01:03:56,082 --> 01:03:58,001
- No, it wasn't.
- Forgive me. No, it was mine.

1078
01:03:58,168 --> 01:03:59,210
It wasn't your fault, it was mine.

1079
01:03:59,419 --> 01:04:00,712
I was selfish and pigheaded. I was stupid.

1080
01:04:01,421 --> 01:04:04,257
- I did act like a spoiled brat.
- I'll go anywhere you want to go.

1081
01:04:04,549 --> 01:04:07,385
Darling, does it hurt? I'm sorry.

1082
01:04:07,594 --> 01:04:08,845
It doesn't matter,
just as long as we're together.

1083
01:04:09,054 --> 01:04:10,221
Anywhere you want to go.

1084
01:04:10,513 --> 01:04:12,849
I'm sorry, darling. It was all my fault.

1085
01:04:13,099 --> 01:04:15,477
I'll never do that again,
I promise you I won't.

1086
01:04:15,727 --> 01:04:16,811
It's all right.

1087
01:04:18,938 --> 01:04:20,899
<i>By the time we got
to the wedding rehearsal,</i>

1088
01:04:21,066 --> 01:04:23,485
<i>everyone but me
seemed to have lost interest.</i>

1089
01:04:23,693 --> 01:04:26,488
<i>And to make it even worse,
it was raining cats and dogs.</i>

1090
01:04:26,988 --> 01:04:28,406
Now, you have to take the bride's party.

1091
01:04:28,615 --> 01:04:31,284
You're the only one who knows
the Banks family and where to put them.

1092
01:04:31,534 --> 01:04:35,789
Now, the usher for the groom
is Edward Owen. Edward Owen.

1093
01:04:35,997 --> 01:04:38,416
He couldn't come tonight, Mr. Banks,
but I'll see him tomorrow.

1094
01:04:38,625 --> 01:04:40,585
- Oh, he couldn't come tonight, huh?
- No, sir.

1095
01:04:40,794 --> 01:04:41,795
Great.

1096
01:04:42,045 --> 01:04:44,089
Now, boys and girls, listen.

1097
01:04:44,297 --> 01:04:48,176
Now I'm sure that you want this
to come off perfect in every detail--

1098
01:04:48,885 --> 01:04:50,845
God bless you. Just as I do.

1099
01:04:51,179 --> 01:04:53,431
So, what we're going to do
is just stick here tonight

1100
01:04:53,598 --> 01:04:55,642
until we get it right,
even if it takes all night.

1102
01:04:58,478 --> 01:04:59,979
Kay, it's about time.

1103
01:05:00,230 --> 01:05:01,981
- I'm sorry.
- Where's Buckley?

1104
01:05:02,273 --> 01:05:04,150
I just got through
talking to him on the phone.

1105
01:05:04,317 --> 01:05:06,027
He said he'd try to be here
as soon as he could.

1106
01:05:06,277 --> 01:05:08,947
- He'd try to be here?
- What do you say we start rehearsing?

1107
01:05:09,489 --> 01:05:12,117
- Good evening.
- The bridegroom isn't here.

1108
01:05:12,283 --> 01:05:13,827
Half of the wedding party isn't here.

1109
01:05:13,993 --> 01:05:16,246
Half of the wedding party never is here.
It's quite all right.

1110
01:05:17,122 --> 01:05:18,790
We can't very well go on
without the minister.

1111
01:05:18,998 --> 01:05:20,500
It doesn't matter. I take the rehearsal.

1112
01:05:20,667 --> 01:05:22,502
Everything will be all right.
Just don't worry.

1113
01:05:22,669 --> 01:05:24,045
Now come on, boys and girls,
take your places.

1114
01:05:24,212 --> 01:05:27,507
Shouldn't you be up front?
Why don't you go?

1115
01:05:27,841 --> 01:05:29,467
Come on, let's get going.

1116
01:05:29,759 --> 01:05:32,345
Pops, the bride never rehearses.
It's bad luck.

1117
01:05:32,595 --> 01:05:35,140
Ben, there's no reason
why you shouldn't rehearse.

1118
01:05:35,390 --> 01:05:36,850
Come on, get up front.

1119
01:05:37,016 --> 01:05:39,436
- Who's this?
- He belongs up at the altar here.

1120
01:05:39,686 --> 01:05:41,354
Yes, of course. Up at the altar.

1121
01:05:41,521 --> 01:05:44,941
Get back there. Two girls in front.

1122
01:05:45,108 --> 01:05:48,820
You go over here, and you there.
There, that's right.

1123
01:05:49,028 --> 01:05:52,115
Now then, now we want a bride.
You'll do for the bride.

1124
01:05:52,365 --> 01:05:55,034
You come over here,
take Mr. Banks' arm like that.

1125
01:05:56,035 --> 01:05:58,830
- We won't need that.
- It'll be fine tomorrow, I'm sure.

1126
01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:02,250
Go right back, please, Mr. Banks.
There we are.

1127
01:06:02,709 --> 01:06:06,880
- Excuse me. Sorry.
- There, that's fine.

1128
01:06:07,213 --> 01:06:09,883
All right, then.
Now then, as for the simple step.

1129
01:06:10,049 --> 01:06:11,968
The simple step you have to do
is perfectly easy.

1130
01:06:12,218 --> 01:06:14,512
You'll all get the hang of it.
Just watch me.

1131
01:06:14,679 --> 01:06:16,431
Girls, watch me very carefully.

1132
01:06:16,723 --> 01:06:20,101
Step, stop, and step, stop.

1133
01:06:20,602 --> 01:06:22,479
Step, stop, and... See, that's all it is.

1134
01:06:22,687 --> 01:06:24,522
That's all there is to it.
This is perfectly easy, isn't it?

1135
01:06:24,689 --> 01:06:26,316
Now then, boys,
when I give you the word "go",

1136
01:06:26,524 --> 01:06:29,569
start off with the right foot.
All right, Fritz. Fritz!

1138
01:06:34,699 --> 01:06:37,994
Now then, right... Don't hesitate.

1139
01:06:38,161 --> 01:06:40,413
Just an ordinary walk,
just a dignified walk.

1140
01:06:40,830 --> 01:06:44,501
Come on, get a move on. Little faster.
That's right. Come on, come on.

1141
01:06:44,751 --> 01:06:47,128
Another boy with you there.
Come on, girls.

1142
01:06:47,295 --> 01:06:49,339
When I tell you to go.
Listen to the music.

1143
01:06:49,506 --> 01:06:51,925
Now... Wait, wait. Right foot.

1145
01:06:55,678 --> 01:06:59,307
Are you by yourself? Come on, here.

1146
01:06:59,724 --> 01:07:03,102
Come on, get a move on. Go.

1147
01:07:03,269 --> 01:07:06,689
- It's all going too fast.
- Now the bride and the father.

1148
01:07:07,106 --> 01:07:10,109
Now, the right foot, Mr. Banks.
The right foot. Here we go.

1150
01:07:13,446 --> 01:07:15,698
- Never mind that. Right foot.
- All right, all right.

1151
01:07:15,907 --> 01:07:17,283
The right foot first, please.

1152
01:07:17,450 --> 01:07:19,118
It's quite simple,
it is really simple, Mr. Banks.

1154
01:07:24,958 --> 01:07:27,335
Good heavens! What's going on up there?
What are you doing here?

1155
01:07:27,544 --> 01:07:30,630
- I'm the best man.
- The best man has got to be by the altar.

1156
01:07:31,381 --> 01:07:33,716
Now, then, boys and girls,
each side of the aisle.

1157
01:07:33,883 --> 01:07:37,470
No, boys over there.
Bridesmaids, that's right.

1158
01:07:37,637 --> 01:07:39,931
Come on, over here. The boys on the right.

1159
01:07:40,098 --> 01:07:42,600
There you are. That's right.

1160
01:07:43,017 --> 01:07:45,395
You really must practice
at home, Mr. Banks.

1161
01:07:45,562 --> 01:07:47,939
Come on, there we are. That's right.
You stay there.

1162
01:07:48,106 --> 01:07:50,316
Now, then. So, so, so-so-so, so-so.

1163
01:07:50,483 --> 01:07:53,987
Then after "Who giveth?" "I do."
Then you go back and join Mrs. Banks.

1164
01:07:54,153 --> 01:07:57,407
No, you back gracefully.
Doesn't matter which foot first.

1165
01:07:57,574 --> 01:08:00,827
Then you slide in. That's right.
When the ceremony's over,

1166
01:08:00,994 --> 01:08:03,580
the bridegroom takes the bride
down the aisle.

1167
01:08:03,746 --> 01:08:07,333
- I'll be the bridegroom.
- Where are you going?

1168
01:08:07,500 --> 01:08:12,964
Then you take the lady of honor...
She's gone now.

1169
01:08:13,172 --> 01:08:14,716
She'll be here tomorrow.

1170
01:08:14,924 --> 01:08:17,260
Each bridesmaid takes an usher,
and away you go.

1171
01:08:17,427 --> 01:08:19,345
That's right. That's right.

1172
01:08:19,512 --> 01:08:21,931
You got it? Yes, you've got it. Splendid.

1173
01:08:22,098 --> 01:08:24,183
Yes, you be here tomorrow.

1174
01:08:24,350 --> 01:08:28,479
Now, let's get down to brass tacks
and have a real good rehearsal.

1175
01:08:28,688 --> 01:08:31,649
- But I thought it was fine.
- Fine? That was a rat race.

1176
01:08:31,858 --> 01:08:33,776
Well, you should've...

1178
01:08:35,778 --> 01:08:39,490
All through, I see.
That means that I'm just in time, eh?

1179
01:08:39,782 --> 01:08:43,369
I'm so sorry, I had a meeting.
Tringle here is an old hand.

1180
01:08:43,536 --> 01:08:46,205
- They all know their stuff, Tringle?
- Oh, good, good.

1181
01:08:46,372 --> 01:08:50,168
I'm sure everything will go smoothly
and be a beautiful wedding.

1182
01:08:50,376 --> 01:08:52,337
Now, if you'll forgive me,
I have a meeting.

1183
01:08:52,545 --> 01:08:55,465
Just a moment, Reverend Galsworthy.
We haven't had a rehearsal.

1184
01:08:55,757 --> 01:08:56,799
The groom isn't here.

1185
01:08:57,008 --> 01:08:59,886
Oh, the groom isn't very important,
is he, my dear?

1187
01:09:01,429 --> 01:09:03,640
You're not nervous, are you, my dear?
She's not nervous.

1188
01:09:03,806 --> 01:09:05,475
Have your young man
call me in the morning.

1189
01:09:05,725 --> 01:09:08,853
I'll put him through his paces.
Now, I must run.

1190
01:09:09,020 --> 01:09:10,188
I hate to, but I must.

1191
01:09:10,396 --> 01:09:12,982
Don't worry, because everything
will go beautifully tomorrow.

1192
01:09:13,274 --> 01:09:14,942
I know. I've done it before.

1193
01:09:15,401 --> 01:09:17,403
Good luck, my dear.
Such a beautiful bride.

1194
01:09:17,695 --> 01:09:20,031
I'm sure you'll be very happy. Goodbye.

1195
01:09:23,326 --> 01:09:24,369
Chaos.

1196
01:09:24,994 --> 01:09:27,246
Don't worry, darling.
You'll have Kay with you.

1197
01:09:27,413 --> 01:09:30,958
She's been a bridesmaid so many times
she could walk up the aisle blindfolded.

1198
01:09:31,167 --> 01:09:33,252
Absolute complete chaos.

1199
01:09:44,347 --> 01:09:47,892
<i>When I finally got to sleep
that night, I dreamed of the wedding.</i>

1200
01:09:50,103 --> 01:09:51,187
<i>I was late.</i>

1201
01:09:55,108 --> 01:09:57,610
<i>Somehow I couldn't seem to move my feet.</i>

1203
01:11:38,377 --> 01:11:39,504
Hi, Pops.

1204
01:11:39,879 --> 01:11:41,547
What are you doing here?

1205
01:11:42,215 --> 01:11:45,009
I couldn't sleep. What are you doing?

1206
01:11:45,843 --> 01:11:47,637
I was hungry.

1207
01:11:56,229 --> 01:11:58,314
Pops, I know I'm a fool,

1208
01:11:58,564 --> 01:12:02,860
but if I tell you something,
you won't think I'm silly, will you?

1209
01:12:03,986 --> 01:12:06,280
Of course not, kitten.
What's bothering you?

1210
01:12:07,406 --> 01:12:10,243
I'm scared, Pops. Scared to death.

1211
01:12:11,869 --> 01:12:15,081
Why, what are you scared of?
There's nothing to be scared of.

1212
01:12:15,373 --> 01:12:18,292
- Marriage is the most normal thing--
- Oh, I know, Pops.

1213
01:12:18,501 --> 01:12:22,046
I'm not scared of marriage.
It's much sillier than that.

1214
01:12:24,215 --> 01:12:25,591
See, it's this way.

1215
01:12:25,758 --> 01:12:29,554
You know how I wanted a simple wedding,
out in the country somewhere.

1216
01:12:29,762 --> 01:12:32,807
Well, that's out.
We don't live in the country, period.

1217
01:12:33,432 --> 01:12:36,936
But this thing's gotten bigger
and bigger and bigger.

1218
01:12:37,520 --> 01:12:40,022
I know it's ungrateful of me.

1219
01:12:40,439 --> 01:12:43,776
Sometimes it scares
the living daylights out of me.

1220
01:12:44,277 --> 01:12:47,572
You mean, walking down the aisle, huh?

1221
01:12:47,864 --> 01:12:52,702
Yeah. Every time I think about it,
I break into a cold sweat.

1222
01:12:53,995 --> 01:12:57,206
Suppose my knees got shaking
just as I started.

1223
01:12:57,915 --> 01:13:00,793
Suppose they shook
till finally they let me down entirely,

1224
01:13:01,127 --> 01:13:04,463
you had to drag me down the aisle
like a sack of meal.

1225
01:13:07,300 --> 01:13:10,636
We could always take a short snort
just before the show begins.

1226
01:13:10,887 --> 01:13:12,096
Oh, Pops.

1227
01:13:13,472 --> 01:13:16,517
Now, look, kitten.
Get this into your head.

1228
01:13:16,684 --> 01:13:19,604
There is nothing to worry about.
Not a thing.

1229
01:13:20,980 --> 01:13:23,983
Whenever you've been bothered,
I've always been around, haven't I?

1230
01:13:24,233 --> 01:13:27,111
I'll <i>be</i> around when
<i>that Wedding March starts,</i> too.

1231
01:13:27,778 --> 01:13:33,451
All you have to do is take my arm
and lean against me and relax.

1232
01:13:34,994 --> 01:13:36,412
I'll do the rest.

1233
01:13:37,788 --> 01:13:39,790
Oh, you are wonderful.

1234
01:13:41,208 --> 01:13:43,419
Nothing ever fazes you, does it?

1235
01:13:50,051 --> 01:13:52,261
<i>The day of the wedding
dawned at last.</i>

1237
01:13:55,056 --> 01:13:56,515
Haven't you got this stuff
out of here yet?

1238
01:13:56,682 --> 01:13:59,518
I'm sorry. I didn't know you were
in a hurry. We were just relaxing.

1239
01:13:59,685 --> 01:14:01,771
The quicker you get it out
the better off we'll all be.

1240
01:14:02,939 --> 01:14:05,274
No flowers! Take them out of here!

1241
01:14:05,483 --> 01:14:08,319
Hold it, hold it! Hello?

1242
01:14:09,070 --> 01:14:11,280
Hello, Aunt Hattie!

1243
01:14:11,447 --> 01:14:14,867
Well, Aunt Hattie.
Yes, this is the day, Aunt Hattie.

1244
01:14:15,701 --> 01:14:19,038
Sorry you couldn't make it.
What? Oh, you're here.

1245
01:14:19,372 --> 01:14:22,166
- Well, yeah. Just a minute.
- From Aunt Hattie.

1246
01:14:25,169 --> 01:14:29,215
Where are you, Aunt Hattie?
Where? At the depot?

1247
01:14:29,548 --> 01:14:32,426
Oh, Ben! Ben, Ben. Thank you.

1248
01:14:32,843 --> 01:14:35,388
Aunt Hattie's down at the depot.
Take the car and go down and get her.

1249
01:14:35,554 --> 01:14:38,182
Oh, I can't, Pop. I gotta collect
Buckley's things and bring them here.

1250
01:14:38,391 --> 01:14:40,142
I thought it was understood
that your domestic staff

1251
01:14:40,351 --> 01:14:41,519
is to stay out of the kitchen.

1252
01:14:41,686 --> 01:14:43,854
My domestic staff is getting me
a bicarbonate of soda.

1253
01:14:44,063 --> 01:14:45,272
Make your choice.

1254
01:14:45,523 --> 01:14:47,900
Wedding banquet or bicarbonate of soda,
you can't have both.

1255
01:14:48,109 --> 01:14:51,070
Aunt Hattie. Hello? Hello, Aunt Hattie.

1256
01:14:51,320 --> 01:14:52,321
Ah, ah, ah, ah.

1257
01:14:52,488 --> 01:14:55,408
- If you'll just wait outside the station--
- Mr. Banks, where's Kay?

1258
01:14:55,741 --> 01:14:57,618
- I've got to see her right away.
- Upstairs, upstairs.

1259
01:14:57,910 --> 01:15:00,496
Somebody will pick you up. Yes. Yes.

1261
01:15:02,581 --> 01:15:04,291
Tommy! Aunt Hattie is down at the station.

1262
01:15:04,458 --> 01:15:07,294
Forget it, Pop. I can't.
I gotta borrow a white shirt.

1263
01:15:07,586 --> 01:15:09,213
Hello, Joe.

1264
01:15:09,463 --> 01:15:12,675
- What are you trying to do, trip me up?
- I'm sorry, sorry.

1265
01:15:12,925 --> 01:15:15,886
Joe? Joe? Take the pipe lane,
turn off at Durand.

1266
01:15:16,262 --> 01:15:19,181
- Yeah. Follow Durand for two miles...
- Why don't you look where you're going?

1267
01:15:19,432 --> 01:15:21,100
Do you want this stuff moved out
ordonWyou?

1268
01:15:21,308 --> 01:15:23,477
- Yeah, of course, I do.
- Then tell this guy to keep his pots...

1269
01:15:23,769 --> 01:15:25,479
Ask at the gas station!

1270
01:15:25,688 --> 01:15:27,398
I'll tell you what you can do...

1271
01:15:27,565 --> 01:15:30,443
- We've been here--
- Why don't you wait with your pots?

1272
01:15:30,693 --> 01:15:32,862
And let all these ferns and things
wilt out there in that sun?

1273
01:15:33,112 --> 01:15:34,405
You know how much these things cost?

1274
01:15:34,572 --> 01:15:36,824
You're not buying this stuff, Mac,
you're just renting it.

1275
01:15:37,158 --> 01:15:40,786
How do you like the nerve of this guy?
There's your boss! He's my boss, too!

1276
01:15:40,953 --> 01:15:42,455
Gangway...

1277
01:15:45,958 --> 01:15:47,001
Gangway!

1280
01:15:56,969 --> 01:15:58,971
<i>By 3:00, I was dressed.</i>

1281
01:15:59,346 --> 01:16:02,808
<i>I took the precaution
of wearing a belt and suspenders.</i>

1282
01:16:06,353 --> 01:16:07,438
Ellie.

1283
01:16:07,813 --> 01:16:10,775
Ellie, do you know what time it is?
Quarter past 4:00.

1284
01:16:10,941 --> 01:16:13,444
We should be there right now. Hurry up.

1285
01:16:15,029 --> 01:16:17,656
Where's this automobile?

1286
01:16:20,367 --> 01:16:22,161
Well, I'll be a...

1287
01:16:23,996 --> 01:16:25,831
Hello? Hello?

1288
01:16:26,457 --> 01:16:28,918
Operator, will you get me
Jake's Garage, please?

1289
01:16:30,044 --> 01:16:33,839
Well, keep on trying, will you? Please?

1290
01:16:34,173 --> 01:16:39,011
We've got a wedding
and no way to get to the church. No cars.

1291
01:16:39,428 --> 01:16:43,307
- Will you do that? Thanks very much.
- <i>Don't</i> worry, darling.

1292
01:16:44,225 --> 01:16:46,811
There's one thing we know,
they can't start without us.

1293
01:16:47,686 --> 01:16:50,689
<i>I knew I'd never be able to
remember what Ellie wore that day.</i>

1294
01:16:51,440 --> 01:16:54,235
<i>But I also knew I'd never forget
the way she looked</i>

1295
01:16:54,610 --> 01:16:56,737
<i>with all the beauty
of her own wedding day on her.</i>

1296
01:16:57,113 --> 01:16:58,197
Ellie.

1297
01:17:02,201 --> 01:17:04,495
- Ellie, you look...
- Thank you, darling.

1298
01:17:04,787 --> 01:17:07,039
You don't have to say another word.

1299
01:17:09,875 --> 01:17:13,212
You have no right to look like this.
It isn't fair to the bride.

1301
01:17:18,384 --> 01:17:20,678
Hello? Hello? Is this Jake's Garage?

1302
01:17:21,428 --> 01:17:23,848
What? Holy smoke,
Aunt Hattie, where are you?

1303
01:17:24,140 --> 01:17:25,891
They're here, the cars are here.
Never mind.

1304
01:17:26,267 --> 01:17:28,561
- Kay, Delilah, the cars are here.
- Just a minute.

1305
01:17:28,978 --> 01:17:30,938
It's Aunt Hattie. She's been
at the station all morning,

1306
01:17:31,147 --> 01:17:32,481
wants to know how to get to the church.

1307
01:17:32,690 --> 01:17:34,316
We'll take the first car.
You follow with Kay.

1308
01:17:34,525 --> 01:17:37,570
Ellie, Ellie! What am I gonna tell her?
This is your relative.

1309
01:17:37,778 --> 01:17:39,196
Tell hertojump in a lake.

1310
01:17:39,405 --> 01:17:41,615
Aunt Hattie, go outside the station,
there's a lake...

1311
01:17:41,907 --> 01:17:45,411
There's some taxis out there. Take one,
go to the church. I'll pay for it later.

1312
01:17:45,703 --> 01:17:47,621
All right, Aunt Hattie. All right.

1313
01:17:48,080 --> 01:17:50,666
Kay! Kay, you know what time it is?

1314
01:17:52,084 --> 01:17:55,921
- Kay, Kay, Kay, it's 4:20.
- I'm ready. Come in.

1315
01:18:00,467 --> 01:18:03,512
<i>She looked like the princess
in a fairy tale.</i>

1316
01:18:04,263 --> 01:18:08,142
<i>I wouldn't have been surprised
if she'd held out her hand for me to kiss.</i>

1317
01:18:12,605 --> 01:18:16,108
You're wonderful, kitten. Just wonderful.

1318
01:18:18,944 --> 01:18:20,529
Thanks, Pops.

1319
01:18:21,906 --> 01:18:25,826
- Well, on to the slaughter.
- Yeah. This is it, isn't it?

1320
01:18:26,076 --> 01:18:30,873
- All right. Take this, your bouquet.
- Thanks, Pops.

1321
01:18:31,290 --> 01:18:33,125
Thanks. Thanks. Goodbye.

1323
01:18:36,629 --> 01:18:40,216
- Hello, I'm Duffy, the candid cameraman.
- You just store that thing.

1324
01:18:53,646 --> 01:18:55,189
Here they are.

1325
01:18:55,648 --> 01:18:57,316
Kay! She's beautiful!

1327
01:19:29,223 --> 01:19:31,392
Ushers, come on. All the ushers.
Quickly, come.

1328
01:19:31,767 --> 01:19:33,894
Remember, right foot forward. Go.

1329
01:19:37,690 --> 01:19:41,026
Bridesmaids, come on. Take your place.

1330
01:19:41,402 --> 01:19:43,362
<i>Now, Mr. Banks, this is the Wedding March.</i>

1332
01:19:46,198 --> 01:19:47,241
Get ready.

1333
01:19:48,075 --> 01:19:51,328
Right, stop. Left, stop.

1334
01:19:58,669 --> 01:20:00,629
Well, Pops, we're off.

1335
01:20:05,259 --> 01:20:07,803
Get ready.
Remember, the right foot forward.

1336
01:20:08,137 --> 01:20:09,888
Right foot. Right.

1337
01:20:11,223 --> 01:20:13,225
Right. Right.

1338
01:20:19,982 --> 01:20:21,150
Right.

1339
01:20:22,443 --> 01:20:23,819
Hold it, Pops.

1340
01:20:48,552 --> 01:20:50,012
<i>Kay overwhelmed me.</i>

1341
01:20:50,262 --> 01:20:53,098
<i>She waited for the proper moment
with the calmness of a general</i>

1342
01:20:53,349 --> 01:20:55,601
<i>watching his forces deploy into battle.</i>

1343
01:20:56,101 --> 01:20:59,355
<i>Buckley, on the other hand,
had the haggard look</i>

1344
01:20:59,605 --> 01:21:02,691
<i>of a man who had just completed
a dangerous bombing mission.</i>

1345
01:21:03,859 --> 01:21:04,943
Ready?

1347
01:22:04,253 --> 01:22:05,838
Dearly beloved,

1348
01:22:06,004 --> 01:22:08,674
we are gathered together here
in the sight of God

1349
01:22:08,841 --> 01:22:10,467
and in the face of this company

1350
01:22:10,634 --> 01:22:13,345
to join together this man and this woman

1351
01:22:13,512 --> 01:22:16,223
in holy matrimony,
which is an honorable estate,

1352
01:22:16,390 --> 01:22:18,517
instituted of God, signifying unto us

1353
01:22:18,684 --> 01:22:22,104
the mystical union
that is betwixt Christ and his church.

1354
01:22:23,397 --> 01:22:25,816
<i>All I could think of
was the part I had to play.</i>

1355
01:22:26,233 --> 01:22:27,943
<i>I knew I had a cue coming.</i>

1356
01:22:28,110 --> 01:22:30,988
<i>When the Reverend Galsworthy
got to the place where he asked,</i>

1357
01:22:31,238 --> 01:22:34,533
<i>"Who giveth this woman?"
I had to say "I do."</i>

1358
01:22:35,033 --> 01:22:37,661
<i>It was my only line in the show
and I wanted to get it right.</i>

1359
01:22:38,036 --> 01:22:40,873
<i>Then I was supposed
to drop back a step, turn,</i>

1360
01:22:41,123 --> 01:22:42,875
<i>and join Ellie in the front pew.</i>

1361
01:22:43,333 --> 01:22:46,003
<i>I couldn't remember
what was immediately in my rear.</i>

1362
01:22:46,879 --> 01:22:50,340
<i>I began to explore.
I didn't want to trip or fall.</i>

1363
01:22:50,674 --> 01:22:54,011
<i>People are so quick to attribute
such things to alcohol.</i>

1364
01:22:54,887 --> 01:22:57,389
<i>While I was still exploring, it was on me.</i>

1365
01:22:57,764 --> 01:23:00,559
Who giveth this woman
to be married to this man?

1366
01:23:01,059 --> 01:23:02,311
I do.

1367
01:23:16,825 --> 01:23:18,452
<i>"Who giveth this woman?"</i>

1368
01:23:19,328 --> 01:23:20,537
<i>"This woman?"</i>

1369
01:23:20,996 --> 01:23:23,415
<i>But she's not a woman,
she's still a child,</i>

1370
01:23:23,707 --> 01:23:25,250
<i>and she's leaving us.</i>

1371
01:23:25,751 --> 01:23:28,253
<i>What's it going to be like
to come home and not find her?</i>

1372
01:23:28,754 --> 01:23:31,965
<i>Not to hear her voice calling,
"Hi, Pops" as I come in.</i>

1373
01:23:32,674 --> 01:23:36,386
<i>I suddenly realized what I was doing.
I was giving up Kay.</i>

1374
01:23:37,012 --> 01:23:39,014
<i>Something inside me began to hurt.</i>

1375
01:23:39,932 --> 01:23:41,808
I, Buckley Dunstan...

1376
01:23:42,601 --> 01:23:44,061
I, Buckley Dunstan...

1377
01:23:44,394 --> 01:23:48,106
-...take thee, Katherine Banks...
-...take thee, Katherine Banks...

1378
01:23:48,315 --> 01:23:50,984
-...to my wedded wife.
-...to my wedded wife.

1379
01:23:51,193 --> 01:23:53,987
<i>- To have and to hold...
- To have and to how...</i>

1380
01:23:54,238 --> 01:23:57,241
-. . . from <i>this day</i> fon/vard.
-...from this day forward.

1381
01:24:04,665 --> 01:24:08,794
- With this ring I thee wed.
- With this ring I thee wed.

1382
01:24:09,127 --> 01:24:11,588
- In the name of the Father...
- In the name of the Father...

1383
01:24:11,797 --> 01:24:13,674
-...and of the Son...
-...and of the Son...

1384
01:24:13,924 --> 01:24:18,220
-...and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.
-...and of the Holy Ghost. Amen.

1385
01:24:19,721 --> 01:24:22,516
For as much as Buckley Dunstan
and Katherine Banks

1386
01:24:22,766 --> 01:24:24,977
have consented together in holy wedlock,

1387
01:24:25,310 --> 01:24:27,354
I pronounce that they are man and wife

1388
01:24:27,854 --> 01:24:32,025
in the name of the Father,
and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost.

1389
01:24:36,154 --> 01:24:40,576
God the Father, God the Son,
God the Holy Ghost

1390
01:24:40,993 --> 01:24:43,453
bless and preserve and keep you.

1391
01:24:43,870 --> 01:24:46,456
<i>The Lord mercifully
with his favor look upon you</i>

1392
01:24:46,665 --> 01:24:49,543
<i>and fill you with all spiritual
benediction and grace</i>

1393
01:24:50,168 --> 01:24:52,588
that ye may so live together in this life

1394
01:24:53,255 --> 01:24:57,175
that in the world to come
ye may have life everlasting.

1395
01:24:58,010 --> 01:24:59,052
Amen.

1398
01:25:42,054 --> 01:25:43,221
<i>Now the race was on,</i>

1399
01:25:43,388 --> 01:25:45,932
<i>to get back to the house
and the free champagne.</i>

1401
01:25:56,610 --> 01:25:58,278
<i>The house was bursting at the seams.</i>

1402
01:25:58,445 --> 01:26:01,657
<i>Everywhere I looked there were faces,
most of them I'd never seen before.</i>

1403
01:26:02,032 --> 01:26:05,619
<i>I wondered if someone had broadcast
a general invitation by radio.</i>

1404
01:26:08,914 --> 01:26:10,499
<i>The temperature under the marquee</i>

1405
01:26:10,707 --> 01:26:13,543
<i>was midway between a Turkish bath
and a greenhouse.</i>

1407
01:26:17,422 --> 01:26:21,802
<i>No one was listening to the orchestra.
Ellie could have saved that 85 bucks.</i>

1409
01:26:31,645 --> 01:26:33,563
<i>The caterer was having his trouble, too.</i>

1410
01:26:33,730 --> 01:26:36,775
<i>Something was wrong,
very wrong, with his circulation.</i>

1411
01:26:37,025 --> 01:26:38,777
Yes. Yes. Ladies and gentlemen,

1412
01:26:39,027 --> 01:26:42,030
I must insist that you pass
through the door into the parkway. Please.

1413
01:26:44,282 --> 01:26:45,867
<i>But there was nothing wrong
with the waiters.</i>

1414
01:26:46,201 --> 01:26:48,036
<i>The moment a person tilted a glass,</i>

1415
01:26:48,245 --> 01:26:50,288
<i>they were waiting at his elbow
with a fresh supply.</i>

1416
01:26:50,664 --> 01:26:53,875
<i>Never have I seen men
more devoted to their work.</i>

1417
01:26:55,043 --> 01:26:58,714
<i>I was looking for Kay.
I still hadn't kissed the bride.</i>

1418
01:27:00,424 --> 01:27:03,844
Well, you know, Miss Cale's daughter
moved into the palace...

1419
01:27:04,803 --> 01:27:06,221
Where's Kay? I can't find her.

1420
01:27:06,430 --> 01:27:08,432
Oh, they're in the garden,
having their pictures taken.

1421
01:27:08,932 --> 01:27:11,143
Stanley, first will you see
about the champagne? I'm worried.

1422
01:27:11,309 --> 01:27:12,644
Yeah, the way they're handing it out,

1423
01:27:12,894 --> 01:27:14,271
you'd think they were working
on the piece basis.

1424
01:27:14,438 --> 01:27:16,314
- See about it, will you?
- All right. All right.

1426
01:27:25,490 --> 01:27:27,993
How's the champagne holding up?

1427
01:27:28,326 --> 01:27:31,371
Okay, okay, mister, don't worry.
You'll get yours.

1428
01:27:31,621 --> 01:27:35,375
Edith! Edith! Hurry up!
Kay's going to throw the bouquet.

1429
01:27:36,168 --> 01:27:38,879
Kay! Pardon, miss. Kay!

1430
01:27:40,630 --> 01:27:42,174
I want to see this.

1432
01:27:53,560 --> 01:27:56,855
- Where's Pops? I don't see him.
- I haven't seen him either.

1433
01:28:01,234 --> 01:28:03,028
Pardon me. I'm sorry.

1436
01:28:17,292 --> 01:28:20,837
Stanley, where on earth have you been?
Kay just threw her bouquet.

1437
01:28:21,046 --> 01:28:24,758
Ellie, look, look, please be nice to me.
For once in your life be nice to me...

1438
01:28:25,050 --> 01:28:27,260
No, you can't go up now.
She's changing her clothes.

1439
01:28:28,261 --> 01:28:30,388
<i>The reception
had turned into a party.</i>

1440
01:28:30,889 --> 01:28:34,768
<i>I was skulking around the edges,
still waiting for a chance to see Kay.</i>

1441
01:28:38,063 --> 01:28:40,440
They're going! They're going!
Come and get your confetti.

1442
01:28:40,607 --> 01:28:42,150
Get out of my way, Pop!

1443
01:28:43,944 --> 01:28:45,487
Get your confetti.

1444
01:28:46,279 --> 01:28:50,575
<i>All of you, get your confetti.
Get it while it lasts. It's going fast.</i>

1447
01:29:37,414 --> 01:29:40,083
<i>She was gone. My Kay was gone.</i>

1448
01:29:41,293 --> 01:29:43,587
<i>And I'd been too late
to say goodbye to her.</i>

1449
01:29:51,970 --> 01:29:53,930
<i>When the last guest had gone,</i>

1450
01:29:54,347 --> 01:29:57,058
<i>and the last glass of champagne
had been drunk,</i>

1451
01:29:57,392 --> 01:29:59,060
<i>we surveyed the wreckage.</i>

1452
01:29:59,394 --> 01:30:00,937
I suppose we better clean up

1453
01:30:01,104 --> 01:30:03,315
and not leave this mess
for Delilah tomorrow.

1454
01:30:04,190 --> 01:30:07,319
I'll go up and change my dress.
Would you get the vacuum, darling?

1455
01:30:07,527 --> 01:30:09,779
Hmm. Oh.

1456
01:30:10,614 --> 01:30:13,783
Funny how empty a house
can suddenly get, isn't it?

1457
01:30:13,992 --> 01:30:15,994
Oh, I'm sorry you missed
saying goodbye to her.

1458
01:30:16,369 --> 01:30:17,495
It's all right.

1459
01:30:17,746 --> 01:30:20,874
I think she's going to be happy with him.
That's the important thing, isn't it?

1460
01:30:21,124 --> 01:30:22,667
Oh, sure, sure, sure.

1461
01:30:24,210 --> 01:30:25,879
Ellie, look.

1464
01:30:38,224 --> 01:30:39,517
Hello?

1465
01:30:41,144 --> 01:30:42,729
Hello, kitten!

1466
01:30:44,147 --> 01:30:45,315
Where are you?

1467
01:30:45,482 --> 01:30:47,901
New York. Our train's leaving in a second,

1468
01:30:48,068 --> 01:30:50,487
but I just couldn't leave
without saying goodbye to you.

1469
01:30:51,154 --> 01:30:52,364
I'm coming.

1470
01:30:52,530 --> 01:30:56,493
Pops, say goodbye again to Moms,
and thank her for all she did.

1471
01:30:57,369 --> 01:31:00,330
And, Pops, you've been just wonderful.

1472
01:31:01,164 --> 01:31:02,332
I love you.

1473
01:31:02,916 --> 01:31:04,417
I love you very much.

1474
01:31:05,752 --> 01:31:07,420
Goodbye, kitten.

1475
01:31:08,755 --> 01:31:10,048
Catch a lot of fish.

1476
01:31:10,382 --> 01:31:11,633
Bye-bye.

1477
01:31:20,392 --> 01:31:22,060
All right now?

1478
01:31:22,519 --> 01:31:24,729
Nothing's really changed, has it?

1479
01:31:29,859 --> 01:31:31,403
You know what they say.

1480
01:31:31,861 --> 01:31:34,239
My son's my son until he gets him a wife,

1481
01:31:34,447 --> 01:31:37,200
but my daughter's my daughter
all of her life.

1482
01:31:37,784 --> 01:31:39,577
All of our life.