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This programme contains
strong language, nudity
and scenes of a sexual nature

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The word virgin,

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people see it as a joke.

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It's quite upsetting.

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In a world where sex is everywhere...

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My God.

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..the truth is surprising,

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there are more adult virgins
than ever.

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Being a young adult in this day
and age, it's difficult.

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Social media. Dating apps.

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TV shows.

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Porn. Porn. Porn.

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Porn is everywhere.

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Are you self-conscious about our
genitals touching each other?

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Now... Yeah.

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..at this radical retreat,

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intimacy experts are offering
a very hands-on solution...

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Oh, yeah.

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She's a miracle worker.

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Woohoo.

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Like that? I like that.

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..to help Britain's virgins...

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Mmm.

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..lose the one thing...

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Do I make you nervous?

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..they feel is holding them back.

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I want to lose my virginity.

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It's now or never.

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But when the moment arrives...

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Would you like to move to the bed?

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..who will be ready...

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I just don't want anyone
to touch me.

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..to go all the way?

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You're so sexy.

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Yeah, so good.

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On the previous phase of
the course...

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This is my body.

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CHEERING

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..the group faced their body
hang-ups.

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This is my body.

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..and had an anatomy lesson.

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Down here is the vaginal opening.

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It inspired Dave
to begin intimate touching...

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I think today was
the biggest thing I've done so far.

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..while Zac...

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I would love to have sex with you.

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..is eager to move things on
with surrogate partner Kat.

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I'm feeling a little bit
of frustration.

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And even though Emma is finding her
flirty side...

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Oh, that's so sweet.

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Turning me on a little bit. Really?

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..one thing eludes her.

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I've never masturbated or
experienced an orgasm.

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Now...

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You can just start with your
fingers...

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Right. ..and then work your way up
to the vibrator.

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..the course is heading towards
its climax.

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Orgasms can come in different ways.

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If you don't know how
to orgasm, you just won't be able

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to share erotic energy
with someone else.

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Morning, boys, you all right?

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Yeah, you all right?

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Is that French toast?
Oh, it's not, no.

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It's another morning on
Virgin Island...

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Oh, no, my cheese.

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..and the next phase of the course

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will be a first for some of
the group...

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..learning about the elusive orgasm.

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Great.

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Oh, man.

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So far, I've found the course
actually quite life-changing,

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but I think it's
going to be difficult for me,

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cos I've never experienced
an orgasm.

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Oh, my.

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I'm ready for it.

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Part of my own,
sort of, ego, I guess,

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would be knowing how
to please a woman.

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In order to reach that sexual peak...

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Good morning. Good morning.

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Hello.

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Hello.

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..Celeste and Danielle are first
going to teach them

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a few positions to raise confidence
in the bedroom.

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So, in this next exercise,
we're going to help you

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get skilful moving bodies around in
a smooth, fluid way.

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And also add a little bit
of passionate talk.

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So, just one sentence
somewhere along

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the line you can say,

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"You're so sexy," or
"I love touching you",

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or, "You're so hot."

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Just something
that has passion in it.

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You ready to see the demo?

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First, there's the
sideways missionary.

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You're so gorgeous.

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Mmm.

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Then they switch to cowgirl.

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Next, it's the secondary missionary.

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And finally, the leapfrog.

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And that's how it's done.

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So, who wants to try it?

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I'll do it.

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GROUP CHEERS

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So far, Zac has been the most eager
in the group.

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Right, starting position.

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Starting position is relaxing.

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THEY LAUGH

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Yeah, right. Yeah, right.

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Yeah, just stay for a moment to
connect.

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Good.

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Sexy.

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Very. Yeah.

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I'm a lucky boy.

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Yeah, like that.

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Good.

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Good.

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Fantastic.

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Ahhhhh.

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Oh, that feels good.

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Like that? Mm-hm.

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THEY CHUCKLE

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Good. Love it.

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Ahhhh.

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Woohoo.

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OK, who's next?

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Yeah, I'll do it. Yeah, I'll do it.

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As the course has progresses,

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Dave is slowly but surely learning

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the skills to turn his
love life around.

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I've gotten to the point where
I'm sitting at home

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every weekend just doing nothing.

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I wanna go out and meet someone.

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I want that level of intimacy
with someone.

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It feels really nice to be here
with you.

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You've got great eyes. Mmm.

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You are very sexy.

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Yeah.

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Mmm, that feels really good.

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Mmmm.

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Ooh, I like that.

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Mmmm.

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Yeah.

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Yes, oh, yes.

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Exactly.

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You rocked it.

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It was surprisingly comfortable.

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In my head, I thought it was
going to be a lot more awkward.

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When the group arrived on
the island...

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Yes, fantastic.

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..they were too self-conscious
to relax into intimacy.

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OK. This is another good one.

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Like that? Oh, yeah.

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I like that.

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I love your lips.

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Yours are nice, too.

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Thank you.

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Now...

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And then you flip me over.

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Like? Exactly.

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..they're gaining the knowledge
to enjoy themselves.

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You're fucking sexy.

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Oh, gosh.

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Love that.

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You don't like compliments?

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No. You can tell me I'm doing well.

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That's different. OK.

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Like, "You're such a good girl?"

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No!

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Anyone else ready?

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Yeah, fuck it, let's do it.

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Oh, God.

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So far on the course,

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Emma hasn't embraced many of
the physical exercises.

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I am uncomfortable with
the idea of sex.

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I would like to be able to have
the confidence to be able

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to overcome my fear,
but it's just so awkward.

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If I ever experienced sex,

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I would be so lost.

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I wouldn't have a clue.

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You can tell me when you
feel ready.

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Yup.

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Take your time.

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I'm ready. You're ready? Yeah. OK.

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I'm going to do it nice and slow.

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Yeah? Mm-hm.

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So get yourself settled there.

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You can touch back.

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Yeah, feel free.

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OK, come down here to me.

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Down here.

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Hmmm. There we go.

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Oh. That's perfect.

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Perfect.

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Hmmm.

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You want a little tap?

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Mm-hm. Why not?

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Woo.

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Wow.

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You all right?

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That was a massive step up from
what we usually do. Yeah.

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I mean, you, you were definitely
the dominant one.

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Exactly,
I was having a good time as well.

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All that being thrown around.

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You, yours was the hardest to watch,

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only cos of how intimate it was,
do you know what I mean?

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Yeah. Honestly, it was proper like
softcore porn.

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Yeah.

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Did you get a boner?

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Yeah, of course I did.
You did, yeah?

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Yeah, dude.

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I found the workshop a little bit
tough.

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I thought that I was ready for it,

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but once I was on the bed with
Celeste,

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I don't think I was.

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I mean, I'm glad that I gave it a
go,

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but I just think I was like a dead,
limp fish.

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I think, with Emma,

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I was a little bit surprised when
she said

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she wanted to do the positions.

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It was still a little bit too much
for her.

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I also think that she maybe doesn't
know what she likes,

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{\an8}so maybe some work supporting her
to discover more of her body.

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Yeah. We're going to talk with all
the women

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about their masturbation practises,

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because my mission is for all of
them to have orgasms

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before they leave the island.

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To do that,

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the experts decide to give the girls
a lesson in pleasuring...

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Hey, beauties!
THEY SHOUT GREETINGS

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..self-pleasuring.

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So, here we have a box of toys.

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This is an opportunity to find
pleasure with yourself.

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A lot of times, women don't even
know that self-pleasure is for them,

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they don't even think about
masturbating,

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and a lot of women are, like,
hesitant to even try it.

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But, if you learn the experience of
orgasm for yourself,

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you actually have a much easier
time doing it with a partner.

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These little pulse vibrators,

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you have quite even distribution
of vibration.

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These tongue-like toys

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are for moving up and down the
front of your vulva.

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Don't just hold the toy there
and lie limp,

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in order to have an orgasm, the
blood has to move to your genitals,

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and moving makes a huge difference.

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I do it. I miss my box at home.

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THEY LAUGH
Ah!

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Your pleasure box!

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It's an opportunity to explore,
like, what feels good for you.

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And, like, being able to build an
association of

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"I have fun with my body. "

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So, are we keeping these? Taking
them back to our cabins?

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Yeah, babe!

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You can choose between you which one
you want to take.

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I want this one.

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THEY LAUGH

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Questions. Tell me.

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Like, whether this would work
for me?

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Like, could I get pleasure from
this?

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This will work for you.

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OK, see you later, have fun! Thank
you! Bye.

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What one are you having, T?

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I haven't decided.

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Ooh, that one works!

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It's like a little fan.

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It is like a little fan.

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Right, OK.

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LAUGHING: OK, I'm going to go and
"read my book!"

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SHE LAUGHS

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With batteries charged, the girls
head off for some privacy,

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and Emma prepares to attempt her
first-ever orgasm...

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00:12:55,040 --> 00:12:56,960
Emma, it's Aisha. Hello.

271
00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:58,640
..with one last tip from Aisha.

272
00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:00,960
Self-pleasuring without lube

273
00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:02,880
is like trying to tongue kiss
without saliva.

274
00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:04,800
Oh, my god!
SHE LAUGHS

275
00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:09,200
Someone's going to walk past and
just hear loads of noise!

276
00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:11,360
VIBRATOR BUZZES

277
00:13:21,760 --> 00:13:25,000
Do it, do it! It's too cold!

278
00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:26,800
On this private island retreat...

279
00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:29,680
HE WHOOPS

280
00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:32,480
..12 virgins have jumped in at the
deep end...

281
00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:34,840
When you go on the rocks, be very
careful you don't get cut up.

282
00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:36,600
I'm not going on the rocks. OK.

283
00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:37,840
I'm not as brave as Viraj.

284
00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:45,880
..and Emma has taken her first steps
into the world of self-pleasure.

285
00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:50,400
I did experiment with my vibrator
for the first time.

286
00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:51,440
It was a little bit...

287
00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:53,880
..uneasy at first -

288
00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:57,760
I think I was just getting used to
the rhythm of my body

289
00:13:57,800 --> 00:13:59,520
and how things work,

290
00:13:59,560 --> 00:14:03,000
but I don't think I actually
experienced an orgasm.

291
00:14:03,040 --> 00:14:04,080
I just...

292
00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:06,280
I think I just need to make myself
feel more "sexy"

293
00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:07,400
in some sort of way.
SHE LAUGHS

294
00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:11,840
As Emma works on her technique,

295
00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:14,320
Dave and Zac discuss it...

296
00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:16,400
I reckon there's loads of people
who've had sex

297
00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:19,920
who are doing it horribly. Yeah,
right. I think so.

298
00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:22,560
Because I there's no way my mates

299
00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:24,520
know all the shit that I've been
taught.

300
00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:29,320
..and one of the key tips for getting
in the mood is good communication.

301
00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:31,920
Does that feel nice, or not? Yeah,
it does.

302
00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:33,640
Could you do it a little bit lower,
as well?

303
00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:35,600
Like, that's really nice,
but a bit lower as well.

304
00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:38,040
Look at us communicating!

305
00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:39,560
Won't Danielle and Celeste be
proud?

306
00:14:39,600 --> 00:14:40,960
Oh, yeah that's it.

307
00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:42,320
That's really nice.

308
00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:43,760
Oh, yeah!

309
00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,160
Now that Taylor has come out as gay,

310
00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,840
Celeste and Danielle have
a new plan for her.

311
00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:52,600
It's all about de-shamifying what
turns her on.

312
00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:54,720
She outed herself for liking a
praise kink,

313
00:14:54,760 --> 00:14:56,480
she loved being called a 'good
girl',

314
00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:58,000
which was very embarrassing for
her...

315
00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:00,600
SHE LAUGHS
..so all of her work is to explore

316
00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:02,720
pleasure and sensation with a woman.

317
00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:04,240
Yeah, I think in session today,

318
00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:06,160
we'll just keep normalising
her desire

319
00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:08,240
so she can learn what she likes,

320
00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:10,200
and to just have a chance
to experience it.

321
00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:15,040
But first, surrogate partner Kat

322
00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:19,520
must help Taylor overcome her fear
of intimacy and rejection.

323
00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:22,920
My biggest fear is that I finally
have sex with someone

324
00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:24,520
and I'm really bad at it.

325
00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:27,200
Are they gonna then turn around
and it will be my fault? And...

326
00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:30,360
Yeah, it's one of those where you
just...

327
00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:33,280
You don't want to do it in case it
goes wrong.

328
00:15:35,840 --> 00:15:37,920
I was thinking we could maybe try,
like,

329
00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:39,640
something a little more organic.
Mm-hm.

330
00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:42,360
Like maybe some, like, kissing
and, like... Oh... ..moving.

331
00:15:42,400 --> 00:15:44,120
SHE LAUGHS
Does that feel...?Um...

332
00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:47,240
Um... We can start slow.

333
00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:49,120
Yeah. Yeah. If we could start slow,

334
00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:51,400
because I've never kissed anyone
sober, so...

335
00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:53,280
Never? No.

336
00:15:57,800 --> 00:15:59,360
Is that OK? Mm-hm.

337
00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:03,760
Are you sure? Mm-hm.

338
00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:07,320
I feel like this is, like, really
nice, and we're really close,

339
00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:08,720
but I also feel like...

340
00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:11,120
I feel really not pretty, and I
don't like... Oh...

341
00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:12,680
I know but, like...

342
00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:17,560
Thank you.

343
00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:21,840
I just feel, like...big and clunky
and...

344
00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:25,600
It feels so good.
SHE CHUCKLES

345
00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:28,720
Like, I promise you - it feels
so good.

346
00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:30,480
Mm.

347
00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:31,840
Do you want to go on top of me?

348
00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:35,160
Can I try?

349
00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:38,440
It feels like you would be too
pretty for me.

350
00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:41,760
I understand what you're thinking...
Mm-hm.

351
00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:44,840
..but I feel like you're wrong. You
don't know what I like.

352
00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:47,640
I have a lot of desire, and what
I'm thinking is -

353
00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:49,600
I'm wondering what's comfortable
for you,

354
00:16:49,640 --> 00:16:51,880
and I'm wondering what you feel
safe with,

355
00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:55,160
and I don't want my desire to be
too much, as...

356
00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:58,640
THEY LAUGH

357
00:16:58,680 --> 00:17:00,840
Sorry, I panicked!
THEY LAUGH

358
00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:03,120
That was excellent!
THEY LAUGH

359
00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:05,520
You want more?

360
00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:06,640
I want more.

361
00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:09,080
THEY LAUGH
I don't know.

362
00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:35,440
Fuck it.

363
00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:36,840
THEY CHUCKLE

364
00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:46,920
TAYLOR CHUCKLES

365
00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:55,760
TAYLOR CHUCKLES

366
00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:11,400
How did it go?

367
00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:13,000
Really good. Uh...
SHE LAUGHS

368
00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:15,960
We kissed. Aw!

369
00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:17,520
We were, like, sat this far apart,

370
00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:21,080
literally just whispering at each
other - like, really, really close -

371
00:18:21,120 --> 00:18:23,520
and that's when I started to feel
really connected.

372
00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:24,960
I really, like, enjoyed it.

373
00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:27,680
When I arrived at the island,

374
00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:30,720
I felt scared. I felt scared of
sex, I felt scared of my sexuality,

375
00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:33,720
and I felt scared of just
everything to do with sex.

376
00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:36,560
But now I feel a lot more confident,
I feel like I learned a lot,

377
00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:40,720
and, obviously, I feel a lot more
gay!

378
00:18:40,760 --> 00:18:42,840
SHE LAUGHS

379
00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:47,360
So, what's your prostate? What's a
prostate?

380
00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:48,720
It's, like, further up.

381
00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:51,320
Oh, I thought your prostate was
your testicles. No.

382
00:18:51,360 --> 00:18:52,360
Oh, shit.

383
00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:53,600
But I got a B in biology.

384
00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:58,360
After Taylor experienced her first
meaningful kiss...

385
00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,000
The only thing I haven't done before
is kissing. Yeah.

386
00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:01,920
That's the only thing I want to
know. Yeah. Kissing.

387
00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:05,120
..Jason hopes to follow suit.

388
00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:06,440
Never kissed anyone.

389
00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:08,160
In my adult life, never kissed
anyone.

390
00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:09,280
Ever.

391
00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:11,640
So, I know my first kiss is going to
be sloppy and weird,

392
00:19:11,680 --> 00:19:13,200
and get my tongue, go "blurgh,"

393
00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:14,640
that kind of thing.
HE LAUGHS

394
00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:17,280
I can only imagine the horror...the
horror of the first one.

395
00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:21,520
Having arrived at the retreat unable
to even hug,

396
00:19:21,560 --> 00:19:23,840
Jason is conquering his fear of
intimacy...

397
00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:27,840
..so now, expert Joy wants to raise
the stakes.

398
00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:36,600
What I want to do today is continue
to feel the present moment,,,

399
00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:38,200
Mm-hm. ..while we connect.

400
00:19:38,240 --> 00:19:41,400
And we can practice also... Yeah.

401
00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:43,680
..taking clothes off, if you feel
comfortable.

402
00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:44,800
I can do that, yeah.

403
00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:46,200
You don't have to take it off.

404
00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:09,920
Do you want to lie down?

405
00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:11,840
Yeah, yeah. Yeah, lets... I'm up
for that, yeah.

406
00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:13,400
That sounds good?
HE LAUGHS

407
00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:19,320
As Joy escalates the intimacy,

408
00:20:19,360 --> 00:20:21,160
Jason isn't holding back.

409
00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:25,840
So, is he ready for another first?

410
00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,440
HE EXHALES

411
00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,920
HE BREATHES HEAVILY

412
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:05,160
Phew!Yeah.
THEY CHUCKLE

413
00:21:05,200 --> 00:21:06,600
I've come a long way.
HE CHUCKLES

414
00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:09,960
Yeah, you really have. You really
have, seriously.

415
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:11,320
I never thought I'd get this far.

416
00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:14,120
Wow, you kiss good!
THEY LAUGH

417
00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:15,160
And you touch good.

418
00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:18,040
Well, thank you.

419
00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:20,120
I hope I kiss half as good as you.

420
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,080
It's beautiful, connecting with you.

421
00:21:22,120 --> 00:21:23,360
You are a beautiful man.

422
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:25,760
You're a beautiful woman.Yeah, thank
you.

423
00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:32,080
OK, bye.

424
00:21:32,120 --> 00:21:33,160
It's hard to put into words. I...

425
00:21:35,200 --> 00:21:36,680
The best feeling in the world.

426
00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:39,640
All my life, I've been wondering how
my first kiss will go

427
00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,320
with a woman on the lips.

428
00:21:41,360 --> 00:21:44,680
I know it's not sex, but still...it
feels great.

429
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:47,200
I thought I'd be crap, but
apparently I'm a natural.

430
00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:52,520
How did it go? Great.

431
00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:54,760
What happened? We was kissing on
the lips, and shit.

432
00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:57,560
I haven't got to that yet. On the
lips? Yeah. Oh, shit.

433
00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,400
I thought we weren't meant
to kiss on the lips.

434
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:00,440
I think we can get to that.

435
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:04,000
When do we think people's therapy
sessions will move to, like,

436
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,760
touching and that? Mine already
have. They already have, yeah.

437
00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:08,960
What, your therapist has sucked
you off?

438
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:11,200
No, not yet, but they might do
today.

439
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:12,840
I might ask her for that, she would
probably do it.

440
00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:17,040
Zac feels he's made such good
progress, that he's ready for more.

441
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:21,080
I might fucking lose my virginity
tonight.

442
00:22:21,120 --> 00:22:22,360
I dunno. I reckon tonight...

443
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:23,480
I don't think it will get to it
tonight,

444
00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:26,080
I think it will be the next one.
Mm. Cos I think there's still...

445
00:22:26,120 --> 00:22:27,960
What for you? No, for you.
JASON: There's still plenty of time.

446
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:29,960
Well, I mean... I would know better
than you... Don't rush it.

447
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:31,560
No, I'm not saying that, but I'm...
..about that.

448
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:33,280
I'm not trying to assume what
you want... I know.

449
00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:35,960
I'm saying what they will... I'm
saying what I think they will do.

450
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:37,600
EMMA: Yeah, they might think it's
too fast. Yeah.

451
00:22:43,120 --> 00:22:45,120
As evening falls...

452
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:47,520
See you later, Zac. Have fun!

453
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:51,080
..Zac's extreme confidence is still
playing on Emma's mind.

454
00:22:51,120 --> 00:22:54,720
The thing is, Zac reckons he's
going to lose his virginity tonight,

455
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:58,120
and I'm like, fair play - I really
like his ambitious thinking -

456
00:22:58,160 --> 00:22:59,920
but if you go into it thinking
that,

457
00:22:59,960 --> 00:23:02,120
are you setting yourself a false
expectation?

458
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:05,440
And then are you going to be upset
if it doesn't happen? Mmm.

459
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:08,840
Hello. Hello.

460
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:10,320
And also, I feel like the
therapists -

461
00:23:10,360 --> 00:23:13,720
if they don't think someone's ready
for something that severe... Mm.

462
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:15,800
..they are not going to let it
happen. No.

463
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,640
How have you been feeling since our
last session?

464
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,000
I'm feeling good excited, actually.
Yeah. Yeah.

465
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:25,960
Um...

466
00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:27,720
Yeah, I'm keen to move forward,
definitely.

467
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:30,960
Do you want to get going?

468
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:33,280
Yes, please. Yep? Yeah.

469
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:35,040
OK. So, we're just going to start
standing.

470
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:40,600
If it feels OK, we're going to take
off our clothes. Does it feel OK?

471
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:41,880
Yeah. Yeah? OK.

472
00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:47,760
Surrogate partner therapy is
definitely about way more than sex.

473
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:51,960
It's about teaching really basic
relationship skills

474
00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:56,560
like connections, how to relate to
others, being more organic.

475
00:23:56,600 --> 00:24:00,680
So I think people need to connect
in a therapeutic way.

476
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:06,040
Kat has an exercise to build that
bond.

477
00:24:07,120 --> 00:24:09,080
She wants them to look into
each other's eyes

478
00:24:09,120 --> 00:24:11,840
and share their honest,
unspoken feelings.

479
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,960
I think I want to move forward.

480
00:24:23,120 --> 00:24:24,120
What does that mean?

481
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:28,440
I want to touch you, and be touched
by you. Mm-hm.

482
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:32,200
I think there's something in, like,

483
00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:34,400
emphasis on wanting to connect
with your touch

484
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:36,520
that makes me feel like an
immediate, like,

485
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:37,600
"Oh, wait - I'm here."

486
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:40,600
Hmm.

487
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:43,160
So what are you noticing? Honestly,
I feel a little...

488
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:47,760
..coldness from you.

489
00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:49,240
Yeah, I'm just not feeling...

490
00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:53,080
..that desire from you that I need.

491
00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:55,960
Yeah.

492
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:57,800
I mean, if I'm being totally honest,

493
00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:02,040
I feel that, like, emphasis on that
physical part... Yeah.

494
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:04,240
..that's when I get a little
protective.

495
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:13,480
I think I came in here, you know,
confident and...

496
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,720
..Excited. Mm-hm. I don't if...

497
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:23,200
..you're as used to that in this
line of work,

498
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:27,280
and I don't know if you find that
intimidating?

499
00:25:32,600 --> 00:25:36,560
And I'm trying to help you learn how
to, like, attune.

500
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:40,480
But I don't know. I'm feeling
blocked,

501
00:25:40,520 --> 00:25:42,080
and I'm trying to understand why.

502
00:25:47,120 --> 00:25:50,480
Maybe it just doesn't work between
you and me.

503
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:51,520
That might be.

504
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:01,200
OK, then I think we'll get dressed

505
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:03,640
and that's enough for today. OK.

506
00:26:16,360 --> 00:26:19,440
Hey. Hi. You all right? No.

507
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:22,160
What's up?

508
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:25,760
We're here to support each other,
yeah?

509
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,040
ZAC SIGHS

510
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,680
{\an8}Morning, morning. Morning. Morning.

511
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:45,720
Morning Viraj, you all right?

512
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,680
It's morning on day ten of the
retreat...

513
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,920
What do you think was on the cards
today then, eh?

514
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:53,080
Um...

515
00:26:53,120 --> 00:26:56,160
Oh, god, what if today is like,
just whack it off or something?

516
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:57,920
THEY LAUGH

517
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:01,160
..Zac is feeling reflective...

518
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:06,000
My session with Kat yesterday
went terribly.

519
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:09,000
It caused me a lot of distress that
I would rather do without.

520
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,640
I'm feeling a lot more reserved and
cautious.

521
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:19,600
..and everyone has noticed.

522
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,600
Who do you think is actually going
to sleep with their therapist?

523
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:25,160
I would've said Zac, but after his
little tumble yesterday,

524
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:28,040
now I'm not so sure he's going to.
He wasn't good this morning.

525
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:29,080
He walked past my cabin,

526
00:27:29,120 --> 00:27:31,080
and I was like, "How are you?" And
he was like, he's shit. Yeah.

527
00:27:31,120 --> 00:27:32,120
Damn.

528
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:38,360
Issues inevitably arise in surrogate
partner therapy

529
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:40,920
as it's such a unique relationship,

530
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:44,880
which is why a clinical therapist is
on hand to help solve problems.

531
00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:46,680
DOOR OPENS
Hello.Hi!

532
00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:59,640
{\an8}All righty, so I'm going to kind
of open it up.

533
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,800
I want to hear a little bit from
you both of.. Mm-hm.

534
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:03,760
...what's been going on, so if
you...

535
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:05,800
Can you kind of share a little with
me?

536
00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:13,560
So, I left our session last night
feeling very confused.

537
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:16,520
It's not that I felt like I did
anything wrong, but...

538
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:21,320
..I felt like maybe I might've made
you uncomfortable?

539
00:28:21,360 --> 00:28:23,400
And, you know, I'm sorry if that's
the case.

540
00:28:25,360 --> 00:28:29,760
Can you, you know, give me a little
bit about your experience Kat?

541
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:32,320
So we undressed, and we were
standing across from each other,

542
00:28:32,360 --> 00:28:34,160
do you remember exactly what you
said?

543
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:35,760
Yeah, I...
HE SIGHS

544
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,600
I said that I thought you might
feel maybe intimidated.

545
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:41,000
That's what it was. Yeah. Saying I
felt intimidated by... Yeah.

546
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,640
It, like... That was definitely the
point at which I was like,

547
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:44,960
"And the door is closed."
SHE CHUCKLES

548
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:48,000
Yeah, I'm sorry that my words

549
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:49,480
sort of, did that.
HE CHUCKLES

550
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:54,200
Yeah. What were you noticing inside
of yourself?

551
00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:00,400
I was trying to figure out what was,
I think, going on inside your head,

552
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:02,320
but I'm not a mind-reader.
HE LAUGHS

553
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,840
I wasn't expecting you to be
a mind-reader,

554
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:08,120
I was telling you what was going on,
and I felt like,

555
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:11,320
instead of meeting that
vulnerability with vulnerability,

556
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:12,560
you met it with blame.

557
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:16,520
Mm.

558
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:19,360
Is it OK if I touch your knee?
HE SNIFFLES

559
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,760
Yeah? Talk to me about what's coming
up?

560
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:33,040
You know, I find it hard to trust
others emotionally.

561
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:36,040
And be vulnerable...

562
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:39,360
..that's something I can't do.

563
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:40,640
Hmm.

564
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,720
Can I challenge your language
there?

565
00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:49,840
I think it's something you can do,
and I think it's OK to work with Kat

566
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:51,040
building that muscle.

567
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:52,200
She's willing to meet you

568
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,440
in your humanity, and your
vulnerability, and your fear

569
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,960
because that's what a partnership
is.

570
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:00,240
Thank you.

571
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:01,560
I want be more vulnerable.

572
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,040
I want to share that with you.

573
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:10,440
I want that connection.

574
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:20,240
See you soon.

575
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:26,120
I understand a little bit more how,
perhaps,

576
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:27,320
things could've gone better,

577
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:32,080
and how I should shape my
expectations, as well.

578
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:33,600
Maybe just slow it down,

579
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,800
go at a better pace, and try again
next time.

580
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:40,840
Hello, beautiful people.

581
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,320
Hey, hey! Feeling any better?

582
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:47,120
Yeah. A lot better, actually. Good.

583
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,400
I feel like I have a plan of what I
need to do.

584
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:54,920
While Zac is feeling positive
again...

585
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:56,520
Spray the boobs.

586
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:59,400
..23-year-old Pia hopes to overcome
the one issue

587
00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:01,760
standing in the way of losing her
virginity.

588
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:06,520
I struggle a lot with, like,
penetration and that side of things.

589
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:08,880
Yeah. Fair enough, yeah. So, it's
just, like, figuring out

590
00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,560
what's going on down there.
HE CHUCKLES

591
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:13,960
I haven't had sex.

592
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:15,240
I'm worried about it hurting.

593
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:18,600
I'm worried about having an
uncomfortable, painful experience.

594
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,840
I've gotten to the point where
I think this might be

595
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:22,520
the person I lose my virginity to,

596
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:25,640
but my chest gets tight, I feel
like I can't breathe,

597
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:27,720
I just get so anxious. I just feel
like I can't do it!

598
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,560
SHE LAUGHS
Um...

599
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:32,040
Cos I really want to get past these
anxieties,

600
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:35,200
but I'm not sure...how?

601
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:36,840
Um...

602
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:37,880
Yeah.

603
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,000
Sorry just it's...

604
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:44,720
SHE LAUGHS
It's really hard.

605
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:47,280
Hello, Pia.

606
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,600
The experts have sent Pia
to meet Thomas,

607
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:52,600
who may be able to help
through sensual massage.

608
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:57,240
{\an8}So, I would be curious
to know before we start,

609
00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,520
{\an8}like, what's your intention for
the session, what's your goal.

610
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:04,280
Yeah, so, because of my issues
with, like, penetration and stuff,

611
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,320
I've never really been able
to explore it.

612
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:09,400
Every time I've done it, even with
myself, I've kind of just, like,

613
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,520
panicked and freaked out
and stuff... Yeah.

614
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:13,760
..because it just felt
uncomfortable. Yeah.

615
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,640
So, yeah, if I could just understand
myself a bit better. Yeah.

616
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,640
Learn how to be relaxed while
receiving touch, maybe. Exactly.

617
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:23,400
That's great. So, basically,
this session we'll do, like,

618
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:26,000
step-by-step exploration
of your genitals. OK.

619
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:29,680
What's pleasant, what's pleasurable,
what's not pleasurable.

620
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:33,040
If you wish so,
you can be fully naked.

621
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,200
As you prefer. OK. Cool.

622
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,760
Any more questions before we start?
Erm... I don't think so.

623
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:41,400
OK. We're all good.
Great. Sounds good.

624
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:45,520
Thomas will use a technique
known as "genital mapping" -

625
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:50,880
an erotic exploration of the vagina
through touch that releases tension.

626
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,360
Pia really struggles
with vaginismus.

627
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:58,840
Vaginismus is basically, like,
your vagina really being so clenched

628
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:02,000
that it cannot let anything in.

629
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:05,720
Usually the source is both
physical and mental.

630
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:09,440
I feel she's really anxious,
so it might be really useful

631
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,840
to do some body work
in order to release the tension.

632
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:15,280
So, ready?

633
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:18,080
Yeah, ready.

634
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:22,080
{\an8}Just going really slow. You can
tell me how much pressure you need.

635
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,160
{\an8}Ow. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Painful?

636
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,080
{\an8}A little bit, yeah. Yeah.

637
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,520
{\an8}I can feel a bit of clenching
in your vagina. Yeah.

638
00:33:30,560 --> 00:33:33,000
{\an8}Just try to breathe into it
and see, like,

639
00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:35,160
{\an8}if it moves, if it changes

640
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,200
{\an8}just being really welcoming
with the sensation.

641
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,720
Yeah, that feels less uncomfortable.

642
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,000
Yeah, that feels OK.

643
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:49,520
Perfect.

644
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:53,920
Now I will just apply a bit more
pressure for you to feel it. Yeah.

645
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:55,640
Yeah, that feels OK.

646
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:01,760
{\an8}And applying some motion to see
if it helps with your tightness.

647
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,240
{\an8}That's nice. It's nice? Yeah?

648
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:10,840
Mmm.

649
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:13,320
Mmm.

650
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,000
Mmm.

651
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:18,760
PIA GROANS

652
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,040
Ah, that's beautiful.

653
00:34:22,080 --> 00:34:25,760
I don't feel scared of it anymore.
I feel, erm...

654
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,160
..more like I have
a better understanding

655
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:31,520
of myself and my vagina,
so I'm very happy.

656
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:35,960
As Pia basks in the glow of her
first successful penetration...

657
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:40,520
Jason, look at my little pet.
Oh, my God! OK.

658
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,240
..there's one thing
on Jason's mind, too.

659
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:48,080
It takes men 30 seconds
to two minutes, I think,

660
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:51,520
for a man to get an erection and
stuff, and basically ready for sex,

661
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,600
but it can take women
30 to 40 minutes.

662
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:56,000
Fuck off!

663
00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:01,000
Jason has dived headfirst
into somatic therapy.

664
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:03,520
In some ways I feel like
he gets the most pleasure

665
00:35:03,560 --> 00:35:06,160
out of touch experiences
of anybody who arrived,

666
00:35:06,200 --> 00:35:08,720
and this is somebody
who couldn't even receive a hug.

667
00:35:10,480 --> 00:35:13,240
But there's definitely still
things for him to work on.

668
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,960
After his first kiss, the experts
think Jason is ready to experience

669
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:19,760
a whole new level
of intimate touch...

670
00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:21,520
Hi. Hello. You all right?

671
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:24,240
..so he's having another session
with Joy.

672
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:30,360
So, do you feel ready to take your
clothes off, into the buff? Yeah.

673
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,520
Yeah? Cool. OK. I'm up for it.

674
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:39,280
THEY GIGGLE

675
00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,520
Can we connect? Yes. Just...

676
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:46,840
Is that nice? Yes.

677
00:35:50,200 --> 00:35:53,000
You see? Yeah.
We don't even have to try.

678
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:57,760
I'm aroused. Yeah. Yeah.

679
00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:01,360
Yeah, I noticed.
Can I give you a kiss?

680
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:02,760
Yeah.

681
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:14,720
JOY LAUGHS

682
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:20,520
Gorgeous eyes. Thank you.

683
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:23,240
So do you. Thank you.

684
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,240
JASON BREATHES HEAVILY

685
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:47,760
Oh, yeah.

686
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,240
JASON BREATHES HEAVILY

687
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:09,520
Woo.

688
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:14,920
THEY LAUGH
Yeah.

689
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:16,520
Thank you, Joy.

690
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:18,760
I seriously mean it. Thank you.

691
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:21,760
There's Jason. Hello.

692
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:24,240
Still a virgin. Ah, dammit.

693
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,440
But we went on the bed, rolled
around on there... Fuck off!

694
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:30,320
..took her bra off...
Was this in the tipi? In the tipi.

695
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,240
Kissing and stuff, and then...

696
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:33,880
And then I climaxed.

697
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:35,440
Wow.

698
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:40,000
It's easier said than done, but just
being in the moment really helps.

699
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,520
I'm ready for the real world now.

700
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:44,360
But I'm really uncomfortable.

701
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:46,840
Can I go to my tent?
I need to change my boxers...

702
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:48,640
HE LAUGHS
..please.

703
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:57,640
It's the afternoon
on Virgin Island.

704
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:02,000
Are you whacking it all off?
All of it? Yep, all of it's going.

705
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:04,920
Who's shaving it? Me.

706
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:08,960
And after his setback with Kat,
Zac's ready for a fresh start.

707
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:13,080
Do you want all these bits
of fuzz to go as well?

708
00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:15,840
Yeah, honestly,
I want everything to go.

709
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:17,400
Ready? I'm ready.

710
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:19,680
Do you want to say anything? No.

711
00:38:19,720 --> 00:38:22,160
Do it.
LAUGHTER

712
00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:25,400
Off it goes. Yay!

713
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,680
OK, here you go. Brilliant.

714
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:33,400
What does this symbolise for you?
New beginnings.

715
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:34,920
Yay!

716
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:38,240
HE LAUGHS
It's been a long time coming.

717
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:41,280
Oh, we're going to slap
this head so hard.

718
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:45,160
I can't wait until it's proper
smooth. It looks so good.

719
00:38:45,200 --> 00:38:48,160
This is a good head.
I'd like rubbing this head.

720
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,680
Like a genie in a lamp.
Feel the fuzz.

721
00:38:50,720 --> 00:38:52,680
Feel the fuzz.

722
00:38:53,720 --> 00:38:55,680
ZAC LAUGHS

723
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:58,520
Feeling good.

724
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:02,560
It's like a fresh fade. Honestly,
it's well nice. It is, isn't it?

725
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:04,160
It's really good.

726
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:06,520
Whilst the group admires
Zac's new look,

727
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,720
Viraj and Emma are talking orgasms.

728
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:11,320
So you didn't go back to your tent
and have a wank?

729
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,400
No, no.
VIRAJ LAUGHS

730
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:15,240
Have you had one since being here?

731
00:39:15,280 --> 00:39:18,400
Do you want to know? Yeah. Yeah,
the fact that you're no answer

732
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:20,040
is definitely an answer.

733
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:21,680
Have you?

734
00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:24,400
Really?!

735
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:26,400
No comment. Come on.

736
00:39:27,720 --> 00:39:30,160
Maybe.Maybe.
VIRAJ LAUGHS

737
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:32,840
I have a little bit,
but I haven't orgasmed though.

738
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:38,280
After Emma's unsuccessful
attempt to reach orgasm,

739
00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:42,680
Celeste wants to teach her how
to get the most out of her vibrator

740
00:39:42,720 --> 00:39:45,680
so that she can climax
for the first time.

741
00:39:45,720 --> 00:39:48,560
Can you bring out your toy and I can
just show you a little bit...

742
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:51,600
Yes, of course I can. ..because
I think that might help you. Yeah.

743
00:39:51,640 --> 00:39:54,800
That's the kind I use, too, so
I'm very familiar. OK, brilliant.

744
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:57,280
The first time you kind of
have to hold it down. Right.

745
00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:00,680
To me, that feels quite, like,
vicious. OK, so, actually...

746
00:40:00,720 --> 00:40:03,920
..you can just start, like,
with your fingers,

747
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:07,160
and then work your way
up to the vibrator.

748
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:11,640
The hands, I'm just a bit unsure
on how to approach it.

749
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:15,160
So, at first, you can just,
like, do, like, very light...

750
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:18,320
OK. ..and then just explore

751
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:22,040
and see where the place feels
like the most sensation... Right.

752
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:24,680
..and then you might just
make little circles there.

753
00:40:24,720 --> 00:40:27,400
Sometimes you have to get kind of
fast in order to actually

754
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:30,120
get to orgasm, and, like,
when I masturbate, it's like,

755
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,880
who cares what my body looks like
or what it's doing.

756
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:35,680
I'm just thinking, "How do
I get that sensation more?"

757
00:40:35,720 --> 00:40:38,880
With an orgasm, as such,
is it an instant, like...

758
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:40,680
..climax and then it drops?

759
00:40:40,720 --> 00:40:44,400
Or when you're up there, does it
last? It'll be like a slow build.

760
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,160
Once you're up there,
you'll probably feel a release.

761
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:50,320
Sometimes you feel your muscles
sort of go like...that. Right, OK.

762
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:53,000
Because that's what actually
happens in your body.

763
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,040
Different women are different. Yeah.

764
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:58,880
So I was thinking today, maybe
we could have a rite of passage...

765
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:02,680
Yeah. ..where you become an adult
in the erotic realm. Yes.

766
00:41:02,720 --> 00:41:04,680
Yes? OK, yeah. Is that OK? Yeah.

767
00:41:04,720 --> 00:41:07,680
I want you to think of this
self-pleasuring experience

768
00:41:07,720 --> 00:41:12,360
like this is Emma
becoming a powerful,

769
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:16,080
wise woman in the world. Yeah.

770
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:19,160
We've made a special space... OK.

771
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:22,200
..for you to be able to
have that alone time. OK.

772
00:41:22,240 --> 00:41:24,240
Ready?

773
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,240
Oh, my God,
is it going to happen now?

774
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:29,400
Oh, my God! Yeah, I'm taking you
over to the room.

775
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:31,640
Fuck. OK, OK...
CELESTE LAUGHS

776
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:33,200
Thank you, thank you.

777
00:41:33,240 --> 00:41:35,000
Right, OK.

778
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,400
This is scary.
SHE LAUGHS

779
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,920
After an hour of alone time,
Emma emerges.

780
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:59,880
I think I managed to achieve
my first orgasm ever.

781
00:41:59,920 --> 00:42:04,680
It's such a weird feeling
because it's kind of unpredictable

782
00:42:04,720 --> 00:42:06,480
and it's hard to explain.

783
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,600
It kind of left me speechless
a little bit.

784
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,160
It just... I feel like
everything makes sense.

785
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:15,080
That sounds so weird
but I just feel a lot more at peace.

786
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:18,200
I couldn't even imagine
the feeling of it.

787
00:42:18,240 --> 00:42:20,400
All this build up,

788
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:23,320
and, "How have I only just
done that?", sort of thing.

789
00:42:23,360 --> 00:42:25,600
How have I not explored this before?

790
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:28,400
And I think I'm just looking
forward to the next one.

791
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,800
But it's not just Emma
that's learning more

792
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:38,520
about the female anatomy.

793
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:41,920
The first time I touched her vagina,
Kat started laughing at me because

794
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:45,080
I made a really weird face because
I didn't expect it to feel...

795
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:47,720
It's so, like, jelly-like.
I didn't expect that.

796
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:50,160
Hang on. Have you felt it, then?
Yeah.

797
00:42:50,200 --> 00:42:52,240
What, Kat? Yeah.

798
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,160
Really? Oh, cool.

799
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,240
After touching a vagina,
Dave's a changed man.

800
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,160
But he still hasn't had any sex
with a partner.

801
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:06,160
I just want to actually get over
these difficulties I have.

802
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:10,520
That could be really,
really life-changing.

803
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:13,680
Hi. Hello. How're you?

804
00:43:13,720 --> 00:43:15,160
Good.

805
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:19,720
I'm really scared that I could just
be too awkward and I could blow it.

806
00:43:23,720 --> 00:43:28,440
So, on the orgasm phase
of the course, Kat escalates.

807
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:33,120
My suggestion for today
would be to do turn taking

808
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:37,720
more erotic genital touch
with, like, a soft goal of orgasm.

809
00:43:41,720 --> 00:43:44,720
I feel, obviously,
slightly nervous.

810
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:46,400
About escalation?

811
00:43:46,440 --> 00:43:48,160
Yeah... Yeah.

812
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:51,680
Like...

813
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:55,680
Do you know what I mean?

814
00:43:55,720 --> 00:43:58,160
I wouldn't be hard on yourself
about it.

815
00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:01,040
Try just relaxing. Yeah. Yeah.

816
00:44:01,080 --> 00:44:04,360
OK, are you ready to get going?
Yeah, sure.

817
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:07,600
So we're going to undress.

818
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:14,960
So you can go ahead and lie down.

819
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:18,680
And I want you to just
direct my touch.

820
00:44:18,720 --> 00:44:20,360
OK. Yeah?

821
00:44:21,960 --> 00:44:25,680
{\an8}Would you be able to just start
on my balls?

822
00:44:26,720 --> 00:44:28,600
{\an8}Like that? Yeah.

823
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:31,560
And maybe move up to...

824
00:44:32,720 --> 00:44:35,680
..the bottom of, erm...

825
00:44:35,720 --> 00:44:37,640
..my dick.

826
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:44,160
Yeah, that's nice.

827
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:46,760
That feels good?
Yeah, that feels good.

828
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,520
All of it feels good.

829
00:44:51,800 --> 00:44:53,680
Just close your eyes.

830
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:11,680
Yes? Yeah.

831
00:45:12,720 --> 00:45:14,480
THEY GIGGLE

832
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:17,680
But this session is all about
taking turns.

833
00:45:17,720 --> 00:45:20,160
The oil is there. Yeah.

834
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,160
And go for it.

835
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:23,680
OK.

836
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:28,360
Mm, a little slower.

837
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:33,600
{\an8}And then just do
a little more pressure.

838
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,080
KAT GROANS

839
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:45,400
I had a little orgasm.

840
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,680
{\an8}Is it OK to go into, like, cuddling?

841
00:45:50,720 --> 00:45:52,320
{\an8}Cuddling? Yeah.

842
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,280
{\an8}THEY LAUGH
Yeah.

843
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:02,080
What would you like to do
with the next session?

844
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:06,320
{\an8}I would like to lose my virginity.
You would? Yeah. Yay.

845
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:08,160
{\an8}THEY LAUGH

846
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:13,600
Next time... Would you like to move
to the bed? Yeah, let's do it.

847
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:15,640
..who out of the group...

848
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:19,120
You are a fuckin' goddess.

849
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:21,120
..will make the most of...

850
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:27,200
..their last days on Virgin Island?

851
00:46:27,240 --> 00:46:29,600
HE BREATHES HEAVILY

852
00:46:56,680 --> 00:46:59,640
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