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This programme contains
strong language,

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nudity and scenes
of a sexual nature

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12 virgins have travelled
to a paradise island

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to take part in a unique experiment.

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The word virgin,
people see it as a joke.

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It's quite upsetting.

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I'm 23, still a virgin.

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I feel like
there's something wrong with me.

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In a world where sex is
everywhere...

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My God.

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Terrified, absolutely terrified.

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..the truth is surprising -

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there are more
adult virgins than ever.

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Being a young adult in this day
and age - it's difficult.

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Social media. Dating apps.

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Influencers. TV shows.

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Porn. Porn. Porn. Porn.

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Porn is everywhere.

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Are you self-conscious about
our genitals touching each other?

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Now... Yeah.

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..this radical retreat is offering
a very hands-on solution.

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HE GROANS
Ohh, yeah.

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She's a miracle worker!

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Woohoo.

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Oh, God, yes.

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Overseen by a group of experts...

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Yeah. Like that?

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I like that.

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..ready to do anything
to help Britain's virgins...

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There's the clitoris.

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Do you have any questions?

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..lose the one thing...

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MOANING

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Do I make you feel nervous?

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..they feel is holding them back.

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I would love to have sex with you.

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I do feel like there's
a barrier between me and sex.

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I want to lose my virginity.

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It's now or never.

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But when the moment arrives...

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Would you like to move to the bed?

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..who will be ready...

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I just don't want anyone
to touch me.

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..to go all the way?

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You're so sexy.

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Yes. Oh, yes.

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MOANING

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The last few days on Virgin Island

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saw a focus on intimate touch.

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It was like watching a porno.
That's necessary?

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We can explore the things
that you came here to explore.

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It made Taylor,
who identifies as bi-sexual...

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I'm scared.

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..confused about her feelings.

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I'm sorry.
Can I just have one minute?

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And when Ben...

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What does it feel like to you?

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Bewitching.

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..fell under Charlotte's spell...

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Yeah, all right. I'll do it, then.

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..he was rejected.

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This is my friend,

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but I'm not interested.

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Now, as they enter the next phase,

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things are hotting up.

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That felt good.

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Confidence is really
key to this group of people.

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And I am ready to make them be able
to look into someone else's eyes

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and just go after what they want.

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LAUGHTER

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Feels nice.

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Good morning. Morning. Morning.

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It's another day on Virgin Island.

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Oh, here we go.

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And the start of
a new two-day phase of the course.

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The next phase of the course
is all about confidence.

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Everything here is making
me nervous,

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{\an8}so, yeah, just another one

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{\an8}in a long line of,

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{\an8}"Ahh, what does this mean?"

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God.

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I'm confident in my intelligence,

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I'm confident as a person,

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but I'm not confident about
believing that people

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want me in that way.

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Especially after what happened
with Charlotte.

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You know, I just feel like
I'm not good enough.

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So I think this is going to be
tough for me.

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Confidence?

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I think I'm confident when
I'm someone else most of the time.

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OK, yeah.
That's why I do drama and all that.

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There are times where
I didn't won't chat to anyone,

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cos I just hate myself so much.

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Like I wouldn't even get on the bus

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cos I didn't want to talk
to the bus driver,

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so I'd just walk everywhere.

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So, I need confidence,

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and hopefully this
place will give it to me.

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Oh, they're all down there already,
look at them.

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Bunch of hippies.

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Good morning. Good morning.

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Celeste and Danielle's first group
workshop will test how ready

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the group are
to banish embarrassment.

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We are moving into
the next phase - confidence.

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If you're walking in the world and
you're feeling kind of shut down,

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you're not going to be attractive.

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But really accepting yourself
for who you are,

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you're going to BE more attractive.

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They've all prepared a dating
or rejection story from their past,

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which has destroyed
their confidence.

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So, you're going to take turns
to share your rejection story.

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Who wants to come first?

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I'll go.

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Great.
APPLAUSE

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First up, drama graduate, Tom.

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Being a virgin has definitely
affected my confidence.

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In school, I felt like, socially,

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I wasn't developing as well as
all my other classmates.

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They were all going out,
drinking in the park,

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having fun
and all those sorts of things.

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I was bit of a goody two shoes,

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and I felt like I was trailing
behind everyone else in the end.

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I always have a voice on my shoulder

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always telling me
that I'm not good enough.

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So, my story takes place
third year of uni.

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I'd just received a message
from a former friend,

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and we started chatting more
and more.

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And it felt like it was getting
a little bit flirty,

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so I invited her down to my place
for my housemate's birthday.

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Got to the club, erm...

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I thought I was going
to make my move there.

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I introduced her to my housemate.

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So, I went to the bar,

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and when I turned around
bringing drinks,

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they're making out with each other.

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Revealing their most vulnerable
moments to the group

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is only half of the process.

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So, each person is going to say
their biggest rejection,

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and then immediately getting
the feedback

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that you are lovable,
that you are attractive.

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There's something that like shifts
in your brain

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when you do all of that
at the same time.

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Standing up for Tom is Taylor.

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I think, in that story,
she was in the wrong

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for playing with
your emotions like that.

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You're a really lovely person,
you need to remember that,

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and she - she sucks.

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Ha-ha. She sucks. Thank you.

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Thank you.Thank you.
APPLAUSE

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As well as rejection...

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I stayed over her house, and...

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And there was almost
this unspoken sort of expectation

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that, oh, well, there would be sex.

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..not being ready for sex...

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I was so nervous about doing
something wrong

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that I just shut down.

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I just wasn't ready.

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..and running away...

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He says to me,

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"So are we going to go all the way?"

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And, erm... I just, yeah,
I think I just got the fear.

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..are recurring themes.

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We were in bed,

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he started saying he didn't believe
that I was a virgin.

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And he was quite persistent,
like I was lying.

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I haven't seen anyone since that

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just because now I feel like
I don't want to put myself

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in that position.

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But...

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Ben, you should be proud
of yourself

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that you didn't feel like
you had to go all the way.

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And the right person will come
to you when it's right for you.

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Thanks.

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..Celeste and Danielle believe
that together...

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You're just so smiley

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and you make everybody else smile,

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and also, he's a dick,
as well, yeah.

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LAUGHTER

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..they can change.

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APPLAUSE

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Being able to get the antidote,
like get the medicine,

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is so crucial and it builds
so much confidence.

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Each story also gives
the experts clues

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on individual needs to resolve
their issue with intimacy.

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APPLAUSE

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Last is Taylor,

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who since coming out
as bi-sexual at university,

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has never had a positive encounter
with women or men.

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I was dancing with some friends
and one of my friends was like,

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"That boy's making eyes at you,"

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and like pointed out a quite
good-looking lad on the dance floor,

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and I was like, "OK."

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And then one of them went,

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"He's coming over,"
and I hid behind her and said,

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"Dance me to the stairs
so I can get out."

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And I just remembered that
I was almost at the stairs

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and I'm crouched over
and the crowd's parted,

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and the lights flashed for a second

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and I looked straight into
this guy's eyes, like...

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And my heart just dropped.

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And I saw his face, like...

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So, it was one of those moments

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where, like, I was always expecting
to be rejected.

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You're really nice,
you're fantastic, pretty,

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and it's really nice seeing
how you've come out of your shell.

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Well, you was always
out of your shell - out more.

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SHE CHUCKLES
But, yeah, you're amazing.

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Whoo.
APPLAUSE

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DANIELLE: I just really want
to applaud your bravery

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and your vulnerability
to every one of you here.

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I felt really awkward. Yeah.

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I didn't mind sharing my story,

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I didn't like being told
I was nice.

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Yeah, I know.

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I suffer from quite a lot of, like,
self-doubt and paranoia.

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But I think self-confidence is
different for everyone and for me,

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I usually just try and fake it
till I make it.

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You OK?

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I just feel a bit, like, other.

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SHE EXHALES

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I still feel like they're trying
to get to grips with me.

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I thought with Taylor,

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it was such like
a running away story.

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You kind of picture her hiding
behind someone else,

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like backing away and it's like,

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what is happening here, so...?
What is happening?

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Yeah, it seemed like she was

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{\an8}so afraid of connection

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{\an8}that she just couldn't even bear
the thought of it.

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Yeah.

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I do feel like there's
a barrier between me and sex.

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Like, I've been on nights out
where you're like,

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"'m going to do it, I'm going to
have that one-night stand."

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And you meet someone and they want
to take you back to their place,

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and then you hit this wall
and you just think,

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" can't."

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When you see people in love,

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it is a lot
that you're missing out on.

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And I can't have what
everyone else gets to have.

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After a string of
failed encounters with men,

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and an unsuccessful session
with male surrogate Andre,

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could a different approach help?

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So, I just want to say,
I'm kind of taking over from Andre.

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OK. How does it feel?

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A lot calmer, weirdly. OK.

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Because when Andre...

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Really lovely,
want to be his best friend,

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but like, just didn't want to like
have any kind of sexual contact.

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Do you want to move
into some body work?

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Yeah. Yeah?

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So I just want you
to bring awareness into your feet...

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..noticing any tension
that you feel.

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Kat wants Taylor to concentrate

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on how it feels
to be touched by a woman.

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Then we'll move to the ankles
and the lower legs.

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Sorry.

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No, no, don't apologise, it's OK.

258
00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,120
Is it, like, does it feel like
a release? Does it feel...

259
00:11:31,160 --> 00:11:33,080
Yeah, OK.

260
00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:34,520
TAYLOR SNIFFLES

261
00:11:34,560 --> 00:11:37,080
It's just such a relief
to not feel scared at all.

262
00:11:37,120 --> 00:11:39,520
Mmm, that's amazing.

263
00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:43,040
TAYLOR SOBS

264
00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:47,440
Mmm.

265
00:11:49,680 --> 00:11:51,120
I feel so silly.

266
00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:52,640
No, why?

267
00:11:52,680 --> 00:11:57,640
Just, for like, wasting my own time
and everyone else's for so long.

268
00:11:57,680 --> 00:11:59,440
No.

269
00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:00,800
By feeling uncertain?

270
00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:03,760
Yeah.

271
00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:08,960
TAYLOR SOBS

272
00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:16,400
SOFTLY: It's OK.

273
00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:19,840
Yeah, it's OK.

274
00:12:21,560 --> 00:12:23,160
I think that's enough for today.

275
00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:27,840
After years of confusion,

276
00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:30,680
it's the breakthrough
Taylor's been looking for.

277
00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:32,520
I always thought I was bi,

278
00:12:32,560 --> 00:12:35,240
but being here and having
to like, kind of, confront it...

279
00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:36,400
Yeah. ..I think I'm...

280
00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:39,600
I might not like men, like, at all.

281
00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:43,640
OK, and how does it feel like
to sit with it and own it?

282
00:12:43,680 --> 00:12:46,240
It feels good to own it,
but it's also really scary.

283
00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:48,080
It is really scary. Yeah. Yeah.

284
00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:54,960
Oh, God, finally.

285
00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:56,160
KAT CHUCKLES

286
00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:58,320
Yay! I'm so excited. Yay.

287
00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:00,040
This feels so good. Yay!

288
00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,480
But it feels so good, a good cry.

289
00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:04,000
Yay, I'm glad.

290
00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:05,400
Oh, thank you so much,

291
00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:07,000
I really appreciate it.

292
00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:13,040
I'm just gay and I think
I've been deluding myself into,

293
00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:16,080
like, "No, I like men as well,
because that's normal and good."

294
00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:17,840
But, like, I didn't feel scared.

295
00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:21,240
That felt really good.

296
00:13:25,000 --> 00:13:26,240
Hello.

297
00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:28,480
So, how was your... What was it,
a one-on-one session you did?

298
00:13:28,520 --> 00:13:30,720
I went to my one-to-one session.
Who was it with?

299
00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:32,520
Good? It was with Kat,

300
00:13:32,560 --> 00:13:34,400
and it was the best one I've had.

301
00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:37,200
Oh, really? And I'm definitely gay.

302
00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:39,960
APPLAUSE
I know, thank you.

303
00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:41,320
What a breakthrough.

304
00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:44,240
SOBS: I know,
I've wasted all fuckin' week!

305
00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:46,760
Aw, we love... Happy tears.
We love you, Taylor.

306
00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:48,160
Thank you.

307
00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:50,640
I feel like now I can get
more out of the retreat

308
00:13:50,680 --> 00:13:53,080
because I know kind of what I want

309
00:13:53,120 --> 00:13:56,160
and I'm not pretending that
I want other things just to fit in.

310
00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:09,680
Would you sell your virginity?

311
00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:11,000
I would.

312
00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:12,640
I've considered it before.

313
00:14:12,680 --> 00:14:14,960
Well, how much would you sell
your virginity for?

314
00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,400
I'd say couple of 100K, plus.

315
00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:19,840
I'd do it for a tenner
and a packet of doughnuts.

316
00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:21,960
Different for boys.
What about your anal virginity?

317
00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:24,880
Yeah. Noooo. No.

318
00:14:24,920 --> 00:14:27,360
That's his boundary.
That's... Yeah, That's my boundary.

319
00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:29,160
Yeah. At least £1,000,000.

320
00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:30,760
Ha!

321
00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:35,160
It's the first afternoon of
the confidence phase at the retreat.

322
00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:37,360
What language do lesbians speak?

323
00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:38,440
What?

324
00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:39,600
Gay-lick.

325
00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:41,600
LAUGHTER

326
00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:43,280
What do you call a lesbian dinosaur?

327
00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:44,560
Don't know.

328
00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:45,680
Lick-a-lot-of-pus.

329
00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:46,800
Ahh!
CHUCKLING

330
00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:47,840
Like that one.

331
00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:51,680
After helping Taylor find
her true self,

332
00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:54,680
Celeste and Danielle have left
something for the boys

333
00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:56,680
to see if any of them have
the confidence

334
00:14:56,720 --> 00:14:58,800
to explore their identities, too.

335
00:14:58,840 --> 00:14:59,960
Do you want a pamper, Tom?

336
00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:01,640
I would love a pamper, to be fair.

337
00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:02,760
What do you want, a face mask?

338
00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:05,920
Oh, I'd be up for any of it,
mascara, lipstick.

339
00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:07,280
Perf.

340
00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:15,400
This is an exercise that helps
people lower their inhibitions.

341
00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:17,080
Welcome to Emma's salon.

342
00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:20,680
Society can give young men such
a narrow view of masculinity.

343
00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:23,920
So we really wanted to help them
start to get past

344
00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:25,400
some of those myths.

345
00:15:25,440 --> 00:15:27,640
How do you feel now? Relaxed?

346
00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:29,040
Like I'm being operated on.

347
00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:32,880
Although Ben isn't made up
with the make-up...

348
00:15:32,920 --> 00:15:36,560
I wanted it to look like good,
and natural, and not drag-queeny.

349
00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:38,600
That's all right,
I can be drag queen.

350
00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:39,840
THEY CHUCKLE

351
00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:42,000
..Tom is in the pink.

352
00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:44,280
He looks like a...
Like a nice, young German boy.

353
00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:45,800
CHUCKLING

354
00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:48,560
I've never had a girlfriend
in my life, no.

355
00:15:48,600 --> 00:15:51,440
Sometimes I come across quite camp.

356
00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:54,640
I'll go out to the club,
and I'll start slut dropping,

357
00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:57,640
I will start singing along
to Taylor Swift,

358
00:15:57,680 --> 00:16:00,120
Katy Perry, bit of Abba,

359
00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:03,040
but a lot of people didn't know how
to differentiate

360
00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:04,680
between camp and being gay,

361
00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:06,560
so they kind of saw them as one
and the same.

362
00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:07,800
You trust me, yeah?

363
00:16:07,840 --> 00:16:10,000
Why are you holding it like that?

364
00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:11,360
Oh, my God.

365
00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:12,480
CHUCKLING

366
00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:14,880
I want to lose my virginity,

367
00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:16,280
but people just aren't interested

368
00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:19,080
in someone who doesn't have
confidence in themselves.

369
00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:21,560
That ain't bad!

370
00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:23,040
That's not bad, come on.

371
00:16:23,080 --> 00:16:24,800
It feels so wrong, yet so right.

372
00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:26,080
LAUGHTER

373
00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:30,480
Made up, the boys have engaged
with their soft side.

374
00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:34,480
But now the experts want them
to reinforce their strength, too,

375
00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:38,120
and try to get good with wood.
MAN YELLS

376
00:16:38,160 --> 00:16:41,640
Has anyone felt an emotion
and they were afraid to show it

377
00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:43,960
because of what someone else
might think?

378
00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:46,680
Yeah.

379
00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:51,880
But today we're going to get
to let those emotions out.

380
00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:54,320
So, we're letting go of
the emotion as the axe splits

381
00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:56,160
the wood, you know?

382
00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:57,640
HE ROARS

383
00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:00,840
Just tune into some primal emotion
in your body.

384
00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:03,320
All right, who feels like
they'd like to go first?

385
00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:06,000
Go on, Dave.
GROUP MURMUR

386
00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:08,320
Dave. All right, lads.

387
00:17:08,360 --> 00:17:10,000
Hi. Thank you.

388
00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:14,480
DAVE ROARS

389
00:17:14,520 --> 00:17:16,600
Yes, good job, Dave.

390
00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:20,200
HE ROARS

391
00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:21,640
Yeah, ho-ho!

392
00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:23,720
CHUCKLING, APPLAUSE

393
00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:25,280
CHEERING

394
00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:28,400
Yeah!
CHEERING

395
00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:32,200
Not only are they letting out
some raw emotion...

396
00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:33,520
TOM GRUNTS

397
00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:35,240
Yeah. Good job, bro.

398
00:17:36,640 --> 00:17:37,800
Ah!

399
00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:39,280
SOFTLY:Ah, shit.
CHUCKLING

400
00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:40,960
That was bad.

401
00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:44,360
..for 25-year-old Viraj,
it's a lesson in resilience.

402
00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:46,200
Ha! Oh, my God.

403
00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:47,440
Come on, you've got this!

404
00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:51,360
VIRAJ GRUNTS
ALL CHEER

405
00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:53,360
LAUGHTER, APPLAUSE

406
00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:54,640
Good job, Viraj.

407
00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:01,240
Heya! Hi. Hey.

408
00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:02,440
How was the chopping?

409
00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:03,720
Oh, I sucked, I was the worst.

410
00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:05,560
Man chop wood. Man chop wood.

411
00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,080
Man use axe.

412
00:18:07,120 --> 00:18:10,560
Getting manly has left
many of the boys on a high.

413
00:18:10,600 --> 00:18:12,400
Man talk to girls.

414
00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:13,840
Man break wind.

415
00:18:13,880 --> 00:18:15,200
HE CHUCKLES

416
00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,040
Are you desperately trying
to get your nail varnish off?

417
00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:19,160
Yes.

418
00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:20,360
Have you taken yours off?

419
00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:22,640
No, I might just stick it out.

420
00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:24,960
I think it's about trying
to be in touch with your emotions

421
00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:27,840
rather than letting it
all boil up inside you.

422
00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,200
Do you think it worked?

423
00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:31,960
I'm still virgin, so not yet.

424
00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:38,000
To try and change that...

425
00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:41,840
So, I'll just be touching all over
your body, but not your genitals.

426
00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:45,240
..the experts believe
Dave's ready to start

427
00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:47,840
the island's most
advanced treatment,

428
00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:49,320
surrogate partner therapy.

429
00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:51,680
How are you feeling?

430
00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:54,040
Good. Yeah? Yeah.

431
00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:55,480
SOFTLY: OK.

432
00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:58,840
It was really nice.

433
00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:01,040
It felt natural and enjoyable.

434
00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:02,520
Erm...

435
00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:05,160
It's given me
a massive confidence boost.

436
00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:06,760
Meanwhile...

437
00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:10,560
I'd like to just go into
an experience

438
00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:12,440
of connecting with your body.

439
00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:14,000
Yeah, let's do it. Yeah. Mm.

440
00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:15,680
OK, let's try that. Yeah.

441
00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:19,240
..Jason's lessons on
how to hug are moving up a step.

442
00:19:19,280 --> 00:19:22,360
You can touch me in
a way that feels good to you.

443
00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:23,520
So amazing.

444
00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:25,280
HE CHUCKLES

445
00:19:28,760 --> 00:19:30,360
THEY LAUGH

446
00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:34,280
Yeah.

447
00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:37,560
Across the island,

448
00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:40,960
the make-up session has raised more
questions than answers for Tom.

449
00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:42,480
Doing the woodchopping,

450
00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:44,320
doing the whole make-up thing,

451
00:19:44,360 --> 00:19:48,120
I really enjoyed that,
but I don't know, it just felt like

452
00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:50,920
a lot of things about, like,
gender end up coming into it.

453
00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:54,360
I just feel a bit weird, I think.

454
00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,760
The experts have noticed
a change in Tom, too,

455
00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:03,040
so they're sending him for
a session with Kat

456
00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,600
to see if she can find out
what's really going on.

457
00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:10,760
Because so many people over
the years have called me gay,

458
00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:14,120
I've kind of started to question
my own sexuality sometimes.

459
00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:16,520
For a while, I saw myself as
a closeted bisexual,

460
00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:20,680
erm, but one of the prerequisites
of being bisexual is,

461
00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:21,960
like, you have to like men.

462
00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:23,320
I didn't like men that way.

463
00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:26,840
But I want to learn more
about myself

464
00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,200
and my own battles with identity.

465
00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:32,280
There's just so many things
which have made me question that.

466
00:20:34,800 --> 00:20:36,320
How are you doing?

467
00:20:36,360 --> 00:20:39,360
Ah, not so great today, I'd say.

468
00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:42,160
Yeah? Just struggling a little bit,
I think.

469
00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:43,560
Yeah? Yeah.

470
00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:45,680
I think just working out my place,

471
00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:48,680
like, and how I fit into things,
the dynamic,

472
00:20:48,720 --> 00:20:52,600
whether I'm part of the men,
or the women, or the...

473
00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:55,360
Oh, I see. Yeah, yeah. ..where I
belong in that sort of stuff, yeah.

474
00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,760
I think that I really enjoyed,
like, putting the make-up on,

475
00:20:57,800 --> 00:20:59,280
and it feels like...

476
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:02,280
It's OK, it's OK.

477
00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:04,680
SOFTLY: Sorry.

478
00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:06,960
No, don't apologise, it's OK.

479
00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:08,440
Is there a tissue?

480
00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:09,560
Yeah.

481
00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:14,120
Thanks. Yep.

482
00:21:18,800 --> 00:21:19,960
Oh. Oh.

483
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:27,120
I don't feel like I'm quite
the full masculine side of things.

484
00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:28,320
I do think...

485
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:31,960
..I am slightly more
masculine leaning,

486
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,560
but I don't think
I'm fully man, but...

487
00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:38,040
Yeah. ..I'm not too sure.

488
00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:43,560
Yeah. And does it feel scary
to step into the feminine?

489
00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:46,320
{\an8}It's scary because I don't know
what to label myself as.

490
00:21:46,360 --> 00:21:49,120
Nonbinary is quite, I don't know,

491
00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:50,560
it feels quite scary

492
00:21:50,600 --> 00:21:53,920
and I'm not sure it is
a total fit for me either. Mm-hm.

493
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:56,120
I want you to try as much as you can

494
00:21:56,160 --> 00:22:01,400
to like pause from naming things,

495
00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:04,040
ground it in the body a little bit,

496
00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:07,320
and just pay attention
to how you feel. Yeah. OK.

497
00:22:10,360 --> 00:22:12,200
See you soon. Yeah, see you soon.

498
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,040
I'm not sure I'm totally happy
within at the moment,

499
00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:17,720
but that's because it bought up
a lot of stuff

500
00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:19,880
that I'm going to work through,

501
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,120
but definitely in
a happier mindset, let's say.

502
00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:34,920
Hey, Holly, guess what?

503
00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:36,880
Ha. What? I'm a lesbian.

504
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:38,080
Whoo.

505
00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,000
Sup? Morning.

506
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:42,600
Ready to go today, guys?

507
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:44,080
Way!

508
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,840
It's day two of the confidence phase
of the course.

509
00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:51,840
Morning, Dave, you all right?

510
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:53,160
Yeah. Morning.

511
00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:55,160
This is all I want in life,
a good cup of tea.

512
00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:58,560
I'm struggling a little bit
with the confidence,

513
00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,440
but I think it's just taking

514
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:02,200
those little steps for me

515
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:03,400
and I'm really hoping that

516
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:07,280
I can build up myself
and build up my confidence.

517
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,880
That's exactly what Celeste
and Danielle plan to do next,

518
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:14,760
with a lesson on the foundation
of all romance - dating.

519
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:18,120
Ooh, chairs!
Oh, we're going on a date!

520
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:19,600
Ooh!
UNEASY LAUGHTER

521
00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,040
Oh, my God. Oh, my God!

522
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:22,880
Oh, I've been on so many dates,
this will be easy for me.

523
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:24,080
Yeah, it should be.

524
00:23:33,120 --> 00:23:36,040
So we're going to talk
about the skills of a great date.

525
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:38,840
All those skills that
we need to have in order

526
00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:43,000
to have great relationships
are just skills.

527
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:46,240
You want to learn them
and practise them.

528
00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:51,080
Celeste and Danielle have
a rule of three dating skills.

529
00:23:51,120 --> 00:23:54,000
The first one is giving
an in-the-moment compliment.

530
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:58,080
Like "I really love the way your
eyes twinkle when you smile."

531
00:23:58,120 --> 00:23:59,520
You know,
something that really feels

532
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:01,440
like you are connecting
with a person.

533
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:06,240
The second one is to be able
to both give and recognise the look.

534
00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:08,280
And the look means "I'm ready now.

535
00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:09,720
"I'm ready to be kissed."

536
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:13,960
And then finally, the third skill
is the lean-in for the kiss.

537
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:17,040
So we're going to do a little demo

538
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,480
and then you're going to have
opportunities to practise.

539
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:23,120
And in this case,
practise means role play.

540
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:24,440
I'm so glad we finally got here.

541
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:25,800
It's been a lot of planning.
BOTH CHUCKLE

542
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:27,080
I know, right? Yeah.

543
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,200
So, do you like to travel?

544
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:33,040
Oh, my God, I love travelling.

545
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:34,720
Travelling is really my passion.

546
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:36,000
Where's your favourite place?

547
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:39,200
Mmm! Wow,
I can't think about anything.

548
00:24:39,240 --> 00:24:41,400
BOTH LAUGH

549
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,840
I can just listen
to that laugh all day long.

550
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,640
DANIELLE LAUGHS

551
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:47,840
You're embarrassing me a little bit.

552
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:49,920
BOTH LAUGH
But I like it, too.

553
00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:51,560
So that's an in-the-moment.

554
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:54,040
Uh-huh. Did you see - flirting was
going on all the time?

555
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:55,200
Yeah?

556
00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:58,840
You are giving me the look.

557
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:00,280
BOTH LAUGH

558
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,120
I was also getting it from you,
I think.

559
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:05,400
Mm.

560
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:11,000
Mmm.

561
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:14,320
Such a good kisser.

562
00:25:14,360 --> 00:25:15,760
BOTH CHUCKLE

563
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:20,200
OK. You are each other's
practise buddies,

564
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:21,640
and that's really going
to help you.

565
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:23,480
The more you practise,
the more it's just going to be like,

566
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,960
"Oh, this is normal,
this is just what I do."

567
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,240
That's confidence, right?

568
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:29,680
Who wants to...

569
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,280
Yay! Come on up, Emma. Yay, Emma!

570
00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:34,840
I wouldn't really say
I've actually ever been

571
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:35,960
on a date in my life.

572
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:37,080
Who else?

573
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,720
I'll do it.
CHEERING

574
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:43,720
It's hard to, kind of,
open myself up to that world

575
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,200
where I've had such a block on it
for so long.

576
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:49,600
Hello. Hello.

577
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:50,800
HE CHUCKLES
How are you, OK?

578
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:52,880
Very good. Did you enjoy the show?

579
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:54,320
Yeah, I did, yeah.

580
00:25:54,360 --> 00:25:56,000
What did you like the best?

581
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:57,280
Hmm.

582
00:25:57,320 --> 00:25:58,560
Now you've put me on the spot.

583
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:00,080
HE CHUCKLES

584
00:26:00,120 --> 00:26:04,080
I like how you get lost
in your thoughts there. Yeah.

585
00:26:04,120 --> 00:26:06,320
Always, always getting lost.
Somewhere else?

586
00:26:06,360 --> 00:26:08,920
Yeah! Yeah, in my own world.

587
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:10,440
Mm. Mm.

588
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:13,160
I like that you noticed that.
You're very observant.

589
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:29,520
That was phenomenal.

590
00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:32,480
Any tips for Zac on
how he could even give it...

591
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:34,240
I... I need the tips.

592
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:38,280
Maybe if you just took care of
the hand that little bit more.

593
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:39,920
HE CHUCKLES
And then just pay attention

594
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:41,360
to how it feels on your skin.

595
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:42,600
Yeah. OK.

596
00:26:42,640 --> 00:26:44,680
Just slow down and like...
Slow down.

597
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:48,000
Yeah. OK. Make sure that
it's the right level. Yep. Mmm.

598
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:49,600
CHEERING, APPLAUSE
Great job, Zac.

599
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:51,720
That was beautiful.
Good job. Good job.

600
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,240
After Zac and Emma's masterclass...

601
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:58,760
A fully nude cafe,
bold choice for our first date.

602
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,040
LAUGHTER

603
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,960
..the others step up to
the dating plate.

604
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,480
I'm a bus driver.

605
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:06,720
Do you enjoy it?

606
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:08,560
No.
BOTH CHUCKLE

607
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:11,640
Do you want to just try
giving her the look?

608
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:13,400
See if... That was it.
That was the eyebrows!

609
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:14,880
There it was. There it was!

610
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,600
Just want to see
if you're catching it.

611
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:20,160
No, I didn't catch it, to be fair.
You didn't catch it?

612
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:23,000
OK, I want you to start paying
attention to those things.

613
00:27:33,120 --> 00:27:34,400
It was nice talking to you.

614
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,760
SHE GIGGLES

615
00:27:38,040 --> 00:27:39,280
BOTH: Wow.

616
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:41,000
LAUGHTER

617
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:42,800
APPLAUSE

618
00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,960
Last to take the plunge is
serial dater Ben,

619
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,240
who despite having over 40 dates,

620
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,440
has always been unlucky in love.

621
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:51,880
BEN SIGHS

622
00:27:53,360 --> 00:27:55,240
What's stopped me from taking it
to the next level

623
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,240
with a lot of these dates
I've been on, I think,

624
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,440
is just lack of experience
and lack of success

625
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,200
at reading sort of social signals.

626
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:02,680
I tend to play it safe,

627
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,280
and it think for guys like me
who just struggle with that,

628
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:08,920
making the move and
reading the signs, it's very hard.

629
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,720
Who wants to try it with Ben?

630
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:25,800
Do I get to do it?

631
00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:28,120
Good cos this will be
our second date.

632
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:29,480
Mm-hm. Yeah.

633
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:30,960
SHE CHUCKLES

634
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,160
Well, it's good see you again,
Celeste.

635
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:35,160
It's good to see you, too.

636
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:36,600
What job do you do?

637
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,680
I coach people to have more intimacy

638
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:40,760
and connection with each other.
Ooh. OK.

639
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:50,520
I like your glasses.

640
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,040
Thank you. They suit you.

641
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:53,160
Mmm.

642
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,200
When you, like,
get all into the experience,

643
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:04,800
you're really beautiful.

644
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:06,280
Thank you. So are you.

645
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:08,040
Thank you.

646
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:10,160
Yes!Thank you.
APPLAUSE

647
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,560
Despite Celeste's flirting...

648
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:17,880
You all right, mate?

649
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:19,040
Yeah.

650
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,520
..being rejected by the group
has hurt Ben.

651
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:26,000
So tonight, you're going to have
another opportunity

652
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:28,000
to just practise skills building

653
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,320
as you'll all be going on
practice dates with each other.

654
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:33,800
You'll learn so much
and give each other

655
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,600
so much from that experience.

656
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:41,480
Holly, how was my kissing skills
out of ten?

657
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:42,800
Oh, a solid 9.5.

658
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:44,840
Yes! Yeah, it was really good!
Get in there.

659
00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:48,960
What did everyone
think of that session?

660
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:50,440
No, it was fine.

661
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:51,880
I enjoyed it.

662
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,320
Tell me how you found the workshop?

663
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:57,640
Crap.

664
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:00,640
Awful.

665
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:02,560
I didn't like it.

666
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:04,480
I got up and no-one wanted
to do it with me.

667
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:05,920
I was really hurt.

668
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:08,000
The ironic thing is
the confidence section,

669
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:09,280
which I knew would be hard,

670
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,320
has probably wrecked my confidence.

671
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:13,560
Hello.

672
00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:16,360
Hello.

673
00:30:16,400 --> 00:30:18,680
For Ben, it's yet another setback.

674
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:21,480
You OK?

675
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,240
The confidence round basically
shattered my confidence.

676
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,840
And he's not the only
one struggling.

677
00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,320
I walked out the workshop
feeling worse.

678
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:30,520
Oh, really?

679
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:31,920
What's bothered you today?

680
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:35,760
SHE SIGHS
I don't know.

681
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:41,240
The experts feel something is
holding Emma back,

682
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:44,040
and now they want to find out
what it is.

683
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:46,640
How are you feeling?

684
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:48,840
I'm feeling all right,

685
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:50,960
but I just really feel for Ben.

686
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:52,040
It's hard, isn't it?

687
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:54,040
Like, where I care for other people,

688
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:57,120
it's hard to think about myself.

689
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:58,920
You actually have to -
not so much worry

690
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:00,720
and take care of everyone else.
Yeah.

691
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:03,240
What does it feel like to just say,
"What about me?"

692
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:04,720
SOFTLY: OK. That...

693
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:05,920
That doesn't feel natural.

694
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:07,640
Of course,
it's the opposite of the habit!

695
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,520
The habit is "Are you OK?
Everybody OK? You OK?" Yeah.

696
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:11,840
"What about me?" Yeah.

697
00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:14,000
See if you can say it with some...
OK.

698
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:16,720
What about me?

699
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:19,200
Can you do it a little bit
stronger now?

700
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,040
What about me?

701
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:22,400
Yeah.

702
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:23,920
You deserve to be angry.

703
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:25,240
Like, what about you?

704
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,600
Yeah. You know what I mean? OK.
It's your turn.

705
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,080
Yeah. Yeah? OK.

706
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:32,360
Ahh.

707
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,120
Go, "Ahh," a little bit.

708
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:35,680
Ahh. Ah! Ahh-ahh!

709
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:37,320
THEY LAUGH

710
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:40,400
What about me? Yes!

711
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:41,920
"What about me?!"

712
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:44,320
What about me? Yeah!
"What about me?"

713
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:46,680
What about me? That's right.

714
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,800
I feel like I'm going to need
a punching bag in a minute.

715
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:50,720
Wh...No, no, no...
EMMA LAUGHS

716
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:51,920
Oh, my God, yes!

717
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:53,480
I can be one.

718
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:55,520
That's all
I've ever wanted you to say!

719
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,040
OK, right, let me strip off.

720
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,320
Right. Oh, God, OK.

721
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:02,480
I'm going to push it out.

722
00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:04,200
"What about me?" And then punch it!

723
00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:05,320
OK.

724
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:06,840
Yeah. Yes! "What about me?"

725
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:08,760
What about me? Yeah, more.

726
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:10,400
This is my body. Yes!

727
00:32:10,440 --> 00:32:12,360
This is my body. Yes! Yes, girl!

728
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,000
"It's my turn." What about me?

729
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,360
Fuck you if you have ever
made me feel shit,

730
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:20,320
and fuck everyone who's taken
my kindness for weakness!

731
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:21,480
Yes!

732
00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:22,920
It's all about me.

733
00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:24,240
It's all about you!

734
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,040
Fuck you. Fuck you!

735
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:28,360
Sorry, just need a sec. Yeah. Whoo!

736
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,320
The exercise stirs up old emotion.

737
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:38,360
When I was seven,

738
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:41,720
I did have a really
horrific incident

739
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:45,120
with another child
of them touching me inappropriately.

740
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:47,560
It kind of shut me off

741
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:51,600
and brought up this fear of sex

742
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:54,680
and that was so horrible.

743
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:59,000
So, I want to move past that
horrific experience,

744
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:02,320
but it is so difficult.

745
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,120
It's like a piece of glass,

746
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:05,560
you can shatter some glass,

747
00:33:05,600 --> 00:33:07,280
but even if
you put it back together,

748
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:08,800
it will never be the same again.

749
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,000
Just imagine little Emma
looking up at you

750
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,680
and saying, "Thank you so much."

751
00:33:15,720 --> 00:33:20,040
Thank you f-for looking out for me

752
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:23,640
and being the strong
independent woman

753
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:25,600
that I always wanted to be.

754
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:26,840
SOFTLY: Yeah.

755
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:28,680
TEARFULLY: And you should be
proud of yourself

756
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:32,360
cos you are so stronger than
you think and wiser than you know.

757
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:44,200
How did it go?

758
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:45,480
Had a really good session.

759
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:48,640
I feel like Celeste released
some new energy inside of me

760
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:49,920
that I didn't realise I had.

761
00:33:49,960 --> 00:33:51,800
Right now,
I feel on top of the world.

762
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:58,400
I feel like a brand-new
complete version of Emma,

763
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,800
and I'm not going to let
people's negative input impact me.

764
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:07,880
I feel like now I am more open
to forming new connections

765
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:09,520
which I haven't taken before.

766
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,840
It's not just Emma
who's feeling like a new person.

767
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:15,960
After his session
with Kat yesterday,

768
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,760
Tom has been reflecting
on gender identity.

769
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:20,000
I think my next steps with this,

770
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:23,480
I probably will tell some more
people about my gender fluidity,

771
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,840
so then I don't constantly have this
sort of barrier up all the time,

772
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,200
or like I'm not hiding part
of myself any more -

773
00:34:29,240 --> 00:34:32,000
which I'm constantly having
to do here at the moment.

774
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:33,640
Do you want to sit here? Yes.

775
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:35,920
After her own issues around
identity,

776
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,120
Tom decides to confide in Taylor.

777
00:34:41,240 --> 00:34:44,160
Coming here, I've been learning
a lot more about my own identity.

778
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,040
Uh-huh. I've found that as well.

779
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:47,360
BOTH LAUGH
Yeah!

780
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,520
Yeah. It really puts it
into perspective. It does, 100%.

781
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:52,800
When I had my make-up put on me...
Yes.

782
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:54,920
..and then I had to take it off,
and I felt a bit,

783
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:58,120
"Oh, no, I really wanted to keep
that on." You did say that.

784
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,280
It got me thinking a lot about
my own sort of identity.

785
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:02,640
I... I'm not sure.

786
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:04,840
I think if gender is,
like, on a spectrum... Yes.

787
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:09,440
..I'd say I'm exactly
between a he-him and they-them.

788
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:12,320
Yes. So...
Some masculine, but not bro. Yeah.

789
00:35:12,360 --> 00:35:15,720
Yeah. Do you still identify
as straight - like you like girls?

790
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,920
Yes, I still very much like women.

791
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,440
Doesn't matter, like,
who I go to bed with,

792
00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:22,040
it's like who I go to bed AS.

793
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:24,760
Yeah. Of course! Yeah.
Who do I go to bed as?

794
00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:26,440
Yeah. Oh, how exciting.

795
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:27,720
Yay. How exciting.

796
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:28,920
Thank you.

797
00:35:32,720 --> 00:35:35,040
It's late afternoon on
Virgin Island...

798
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:36,840
You all right? S'up?

799
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:40,440
..and this evening, the group will
pair up for date night.

800
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,040
So how we going to do this today?

801
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,680
I dunno.
Is this my first proper date?

802
00:35:43,720 --> 00:35:45,000
Do I class this as a date?

803
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:46,120
We can make it a date.

804
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,400
We'll see how...
We'll see what happens.

805
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,240
One thing I don't want it to be is
I don't want it to be awkward.

806
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:52,520
Why would it be awkward?

807
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:54,280
I dunno, I feel like I'm just,
like, an awkward person.

808
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:55,680
No, we might fall in love
after this.

809
00:35:55,720 --> 00:35:57,040
Really?

810
00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:58,240
Maybe.

811
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:00,120
Maybe? Sometimes
when you look at me, I do...

812
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:01,680
I do feel like, are you just
looking at me randomly?

813
00:36:01,720 --> 00:36:03,680
Or are you looking at me?

814
00:36:03,720 --> 00:36:05,600
Maybe I shouldn't be
overthinking it.

815
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:06,720
HE SNORTS

816
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,160
You seen the way
you just looked at me there!

817
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,120
Ah, Emma.

818
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:12,880
After her session with Celeste,

819
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:16,360
Emma's new-found positivity
is taking effect.

820
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:19,360
You do realise, like, my dream woman
will have to be someone who,

821
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,480
like, goes to India with me
and has that dream wedding.

822
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:23,840
Oh, my God, yeah. You would look
really good in a sari.

823
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:25,320
No, I actually would love that.

824
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:27,120
Mmm. That's fantastic.
What colour would my dress be?

825
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:29,840
I can pic... Like, red?

826
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:31,360
Yeah, I picture it red.

827
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:32,480
Really?

828
00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:33,600
Yeah, I picture it red.

829
00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:35,000
I don't know whether
red would suit me.

830
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:36,320
I think it would.

831
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,440
I think any colour would suit you,
why not?

832
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:52,480
Now she's opened the flood gates...

833
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:54,200
EMMA SCREAMS

834
00:36:54,240 --> 00:36:55,520
CHEERING

835
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:56,960
..Emma's letting herself go.

836
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:59,120
Even went through to
the second layer.

837
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:00,200
CHEERING

838
00:37:00,240 --> 00:37:01,960
Later we'll all pose for
a calendar.

839
00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:03,520
LAUGHTER

840
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:06,520
And so are the boys.

841
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:08,240
What do you guys, like, like?

842
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:09,440
What do you mean?

843
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:11,120
What do you like?
But that's such a weird question.

844
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:12,600
What do you mean?
How do you want to have sex?

845
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,680
I know what I want.
I want to feel powerful.

846
00:37:14,720 --> 00:37:17,800
I mean, yeah, I'd like it if
a girl rides on top of me, sure.

847
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:19,000
I would like to be dominated.

848
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:20,960
I think that's what I like.
You like that?

849
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:22,520
Yeah. That's interesting!

850
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,720
But that's because
I'm like a shy virgin.

851
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,000
I think I want something
really boring - like missionary.

852
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:28,720
That's me.

853
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:30,840
After being rejected earlier,

854
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:34,560
the confidence phase of the course
has yet to help Ben.

855
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,720
I think what's scary about the whole
approaching somebody in real life

856
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:39,080
is the prospect of rejection.

857
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:40,680
It's just awkward.

858
00:37:40,720 --> 00:37:44,960
Ben struggles to turn dates
from the vertical to the horizontal.

859
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:49,120
So the experts want to see
if they can teach him how.

860
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:50,760
Coming out of this
and feeling more confident

861
00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:51,800
is why I am doing it.

862
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:55,800
JOY: Let's get a little closer.

863
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:58,600
And just so our hands are touching.

864
00:37:59,960 --> 00:38:02,680
{\an8}Your job is to stay present
with the touch.

865
00:38:02,720 --> 00:38:05,320
How do I make the first move,
the first physical move?

866
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,360
That's quite a bit step
and something I always worry about.

867
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:10,920
If there is a moment that you
feel a connection,

868
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,680
you might just look at her
and be like,

869
00:38:13,720 --> 00:38:14,960
"You're so cute.

870
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:17,960
"You know?"

871
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:20,480
Like that?

872
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:24,560
Yeah. Yeah, it has to feel
like it's time, though.

873
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:25,680
Natural. Yeah.

874
00:38:25,720 --> 00:38:29,280
When you're confident, that's
one of the most important things.

875
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:30,360
Mmm.

876
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,000
With the basics covered,

877
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,520
Ben takes the giant leap to the bed.

878
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:40,600
That's nice.

879
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:47,920
That's really nice, Ben.

880
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:53,800
Yeah.

881
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:57,080
Slowly, Ben's confidence
seems to be rising.

882
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:06,800
And whatever you do,

883
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:08,920
don't try and get it right.

884
00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:11,720
There's no getting it right,
there's only exploring.

885
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:19,440
Squeeze me if that helps you
to feel more of me.

886
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,320
See you soon. See you soon.

887
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:33,360
What I found most helpful is that
she can help me get out of my head

888
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:35,120
and get more in the moment.

889
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:37,640
I just feel like I'm going to be
a lot more confident going into

890
00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:38,960
these sorts of situations now.

891
00:39:41,720 --> 00:39:43,560
After Ben's confidence boost...

892
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:50,200
..the whole group get themselves
ready for date night.

893
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,320
This feels like a bigger deal
than I thought it was going to be.

894
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:55,640
Ooh, a tie.

895
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:57,240
You're looking good, though, dude.
Yeah.

896
00:39:57,280 --> 00:39:58,480
We all look good. Yeah.

897
00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:00,200
Who knew virgins could be so sexy?

898
00:40:00,240 --> 00:40:01,680
CHUCKLING

899
00:40:01,720 --> 00:40:03,240
SHE IMITATES SIZZLING

900
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,200
Ooh, lovely!

901
00:40:07,240 --> 00:40:10,560
The experts have paired them up,
ready to test their date skills.

902
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:12,920
This is nice. This IS nice.

903
00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:14,560
Ladies first.

904
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:15,960
Too kind.

905
00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:19,320
And they've hit the island's
most romantic spots.

906
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:20,640
There you go, my lady.

907
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:22,840
Thank you very much, thank you.
OK.

908
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:25,280
You look lovely. Aw, thank you.

909
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,200
I was worried I'd be overdressed
and I was like changing...

910
00:40:27,240 --> 00:40:28,720
I was worried about the same thing!

911
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,320
Having come out as gay,

912
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:32,800
Taylor's dating expert Aisha,

913
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:36,560
giving Ben the chance to carry on
where he left off with Joy.

914
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:39,680
How have you been since we last met?

915
00:40:39,720 --> 00:40:41,200
Yeah, fine, waiting for you.

916
00:40:41,240 --> 00:40:43,120
You're late.
THEY CHUCKLE

917
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:44,560
I hope this is Vodka.

918
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:45,960
BOTH LAUGH

919
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:47,640
So, do I, actually. Cheers. Cheers.

920
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:49,920
As they sit down to chat up...

921
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:51,720
You all right? Nice to meet you.

922
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:52,880
Nice to meet you.

923
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:57,040
..they must remember Celeste and
Danielle's three steps of dating.

924
00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:00,360
I wanted to know actually,
what's it like in Glasgow?

925
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,160
Is it just full of,
like, Frankie Boyle posters?

926
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:06,000
Yeah. He's, like,
actually like our mascot.

927
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:09,000
THEY LAUGH

928
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:10,680
What state did you grow up in?

929
00:41:10,720 --> 00:41:13,200
Florida. Oh, Florida!
I never would have guessed.

930
00:41:13,240 --> 00:41:15,560
Really? Apparently Florida people
are crazy.

931
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:17,640
SHE LAUGHS
Does that mean you're crazy?

932
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:19,600
Erm... I think I am a little.

933
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:22,800
We may be about to get rained on.

934
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:24,320
Erm... You don't like getting wet?

935
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:26,080
I thought that was your whole thing.

936
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:29,120
BOTH LAUGH
Wow! Ooh!

937
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:32,520
I appreciate that,
I appreciate you taking it sexual.

938
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:35,600
Step one,

939
00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:37,960
giving an in-the-moment compliment.

940
00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:39,560
You look nice. Thanks.

941
00:41:39,600 --> 00:41:40,800
You look very nice. How nice?

942
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:42,080
Out of ten?

943
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:43,120
Ten.

944
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:45,840
I don't know what to say.
NERVOUS LAUGHTER

945
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:47,600
Me neither. Bit awkward here.

946
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,360
Shall we look for some dolphins?

947
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:50,920
I like how rosy your cheeks are.

948
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:52,480
Thank you.

949
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,640
It's the one thing I hate
about myself. Is it?

950
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:57,320
Yeah. Oh, well I'm glad
I bought it up, then.

951
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:58,600
THEY CHUCKLE

952
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:01,320
You have very nice earrings.

953
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:02,560
You like them? Yeah!

954
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:03,920
Thank you, my friend made them.

955
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:05,480
You've definitely got
a good fashion sense.

956
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:07,040
Yeah? Better than I've got.

957
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:09,360
Thank you, thank you so much.
All these compliments!

958
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:11,280
I don't know what to do
with them all.

959
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:12,760
THEY LAUGH

960
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:14,400
Step two is the look.

961
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:16,120
I've practised the look,
I've practised the look.

962
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:17,360
Oh, yes. OK.

963
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:19,240
I'm going to... OK, give me...
Feel my energy. Give me the look.

964
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:21,280
Feel my energy. I'm going to turn
away and look back at you.

965
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,040
OK. OK, now, turn around. OK.

966
00:42:24,720 --> 00:42:25,840
THEY SNORT

967
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:28,360
Goddamn it!

968
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,440
Finally, followed by the kiss.

969
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:33,440
You're a beautiful girl.
Oh, stop it.

970
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:34,680
You really are.

971
00:42:34,720 --> 00:42:36,520
You're a beautiful guy,
inside and out.

972
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:37,800
SHE GIGGLES

973
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:39,120
Aw!

974
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:40,840
But for one couple...

975
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:42,120
My niche is, like, weight loss.

976
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:45,000
I like your motivation
to want to do personal trainer

977
00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:46,320
and want to help other people.

978
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:48,160
Yeah. I like that about you. Thanks.

979
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:51,200
..date practice is perfect.

980
00:42:51,240 --> 00:42:53,000
Are you OK? I'm good.

981
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:54,400
Mmm. You sure?

982
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:56,400
Yeah, I'm all right.

983
00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:57,600
Do I make you nervous?

984
00:42:57,640 --> 00:42:58,920
A little bit. Don't be.

985
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:01,280
You don't need to be nervous.

986
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:03,880
I need to try and be a bit more
confident with women.

987
00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,480
My family and our Hindu culture
still believe

988
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,000
in, like, arranged marriages.

989
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:10,320
I don't see that as a bad thing,

990
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:13,800
but I just don't think I'd ever
put myself in that position.

991
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:15,640
Once I'm a lot more
confident in myself,

992
00:43:15,680 --> 00:43:17,720
I think the type of path
I want to go down

993
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:19,160
would be a love marriage,

994
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:22,360
but if I don't put myself out there,
it definitely won't happen.

995
00:43:23,720 --> 00:43:24,920
Can I take your hand?

996
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:26,200
Sure, let's do it.

997
00:43:26,240 --> 00:43:28,320
I'm just going to...
I have cold hands, though.

998
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:30,000
No, it's OK. They're OK.

999
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:31,920
You have nice hands, though.
Thank you.

1000
00:43:33,720 --> 00:43:36,040
You've got nice skin, haven't you?
I feel like I've gotten darker -

1001
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:37,840
by being here more.
To be honest, you actually have.

1002
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:39,000
But you're a nice colour.

1003
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:46,200
You OK?
Yeah, I'm all right. Are you OK?

1004
00:43:46,240 --> 00:43:48,520
Yeah, I'm good. Yeah?
I'm all good in the hood. Yeah.

1005
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:54,560
Look, you can tell how cold I am,

1006
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:56,040
cos that one's going a bit purple.

1007
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:57,960
Yeah. You are going a bit purple,
aren't you?

1008
00:43:58,000 --> 00:43:59,840
Maybe you can warm them up for me?

1009
00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:01,520
Do you want me
to warm them up for you? Yeah.

1010
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:02,720
I give you a little peck?

1011
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:03,800
Yeah, go on.

1012
00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:06,560
Beautiful.

1013
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:08,320
How was that? Yeah, lovely.

1014
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:09,400
Yeah? Good for you?

1015
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:11,160
'Course! Good.

1016
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:12,680
We got on quite well

1017
00:44:12,720 --> 00:44:15,320
and I'm just looking forward
to getting to know him more.

1018
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:18,400
I don't know whether
it could be a bit romantic,

1019
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:23,280
but I've never had a connection
with anyone like I do with Viraj.

1020
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:25,640
Enjoy that? Yeah, no,
it was good, actually. Did you?

1021
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:26,880
Yeah. I'll probably...

1022
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:28,320
Oh, sh...

1023
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,200
That was awkward.

1024
00:44:30,240 --> 00:44:32,320
I feel really great,
I feel confident,

1025
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,800
and I feel like I've pushed outside
like a massive barrier

1026
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:36,800
with me with like going on dates.

1027
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:38,280
She's just an amazing girl

1028
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:41,440
and I really glad that I was
with her for that date.

1029
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:42,640
You want to hold my hand?

1030
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:44,480
You want to make it
like an official date?

1031
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:45,680
LAUGHS: Yeah!

1032
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:50,840
And with that,
it's time to celebrate

1033
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:53,240
the end of another phase
of the course.

1034
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:55,280
CHEERING

1035
00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:57,720
Are you feeling confident?

1036
00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:00,240
GROUP: Yes.

1037
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:02,760
My confidence has definitely grown
over the last few days.

1038
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:06,200
I've kind of been on a journey
in terms of my gender.

1039
00:45:06,240 --> 00:45:08,680
Not quite sure who I am,

1040
00:45:08,720 --> 00:45:11,240
but I know at least I'm Tom.
TOM CHUCKLES

1041
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:12,960
GROUP: Cheers!

1042
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:14,920
CHEERING

1043
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:18,480
Over the last few days,
my confidence has skyrocketed

1044
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:20,760
so much more
than I thought it ever would,

1045
00:45:20,800 --> 00:45:21,920
and I'm really looking forward

1046
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:24,920
to where the journey
may take me next.

1047
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:28,440
It's so exciting and it's so nice
to feel like these new feelings

1048
00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:29,760
that I'm feeling.

1049
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:32,560
Now, that I'm kind of...
I know myself a bit better,

1050
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,360
the fear is gone. So
I'm hoping I can progress faster

1051
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,160
now that I'm not being held back
by my own fear.

1052
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:42,480
Tomorrow we are taking it to
the next level.

1053
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:43,720
Oh, my God.
CHUCKLING

1054
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:45,480
Are you ready?
LAUGHTER

1055
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,040
We've come on a journey together

1056
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:50,960
and you never know
what's coming next,

1057
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:52,920
and I just hope
we don't go in tomorrow

1058
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:54,440
and, like,
they're all naked or something.

1059
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:55,480
That would be quite scary.

1060
00:45:56,880 --> 00:45:58,000
Next Time...

1061
00:45:58,040 --> 00:45:59,240
So, this is my body.

1062
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:00,880
For fuck's sake.

1063
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:03,560
..the course enters
its toughest phase yet.

1064
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:05,240
We're going to invite you

1065
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:08,720
one by one to show yourself out.

1066
00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:10,360
Do you know what? YOLO.

1067
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:13,120
CHEERING

1068
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:15,640
And the one-on-one's...

1069
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:18,120
What's the feeling in your body?
The sensation of it?

1070
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:19,600
Disgusting.

1071
00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:22,760
..push the virgins
further than ever before.

1072
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:24,200
{\an8}Just, like, explore.

1073
00:46:24,240 --> 00:46:25,600
THEY LAUGH

1074
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:52,320
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