1 00:00:44,140 --> 00:00:46,680 You got it? Yeah. Now let's part. 2 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:51,640 Yeah. Okay, okay, okay. Ready? 3 00:00:52,220 --> 00:00:54,360 You ready? Two hands. 4 00:00:54,660 --> 00:00:55,660 I'm in. 5 00:00:56,260 --> 00:00:57,260 Yeah, 6 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:01,840 okay. 7 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:03,560 So flexible. 8 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:05,500 Okay, one more. 9 00:01:12,679 --> 00:01:14,200 Yeah. Yeah. 10 00:02:21,550 --> 00:02:22,550 That was great. 11 00:02:22,690 --> 00:02:23,690 Good work. 12 00:02:26,010 --> 00:02:32,150 They need a 13 00:02:32,150 --> 00:02:34,050 couple more times. 14 00:02:34,970 --> 00:02:37,690 It's for practice, but good job. 15 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,840 Thank you. 16 00:03:42,030 --> 00:03:44,230 Because you know it's a brave move. 17 00:03:44,790 --> 00:03:46,630 Only life on this earth. 18 00:03:48,110 --> 00:03:50,750 And I don't think I can help you. 19 00:03:51,250 --> 00:03:54,310 I don't think I can help you. 20 00:04:32,620 --> 00:04:33,620 you 21 00:05:27,630 --> 00:05:29,870 Please remind me why you got me this bike. What? 22 00:05:30,490 --> 00:05:31,490 This bike. Why? 23 00:05:31,710 --> 00:05:32,689 Core strength. 24 00:05:32,690 --> 00:05:36,330 Spine health. Remember the doctor said you were supposed to fold it. 25 00:05:37,270 --> 00:05:39,690 Why are you folding me? Fold. 26 00:05:40,090 --> 00:05:43,330 This thing is fucking impossible to fold. You know how hard this is to fold? 27 00:05:43,790 --> 00:05:47,170 It's supposed to be more convenient than a normal bike. It's way less convenient 28 00:05:47,170 --> 00:05:50,830 than a normal bike. Also, the wheels, they're so little. It's like I've got to 29 00:05:50,830 --> 00:05:54,150 pedal four times to get one normal wheel rotation out of it. 30 00:05:56,670 --> 00:05:57,670 Maybe. 31 00:06:00,490 --> 00:06:01,770 Where's Maggie? Yo, Maggie! 32 00:06:02,090 --> 00:06:03,090 No, she's not here. 33 00:06:03,530 --> 00:06:06,010 Where is she? She's, uh, at a sleepover. 34 00:06:06,290 --> 00:06:08,070 Where? At Sadie's. 35 00:06:09,250 --> 00:06:11,070 Nothing's happening at a sleepover with Sadie. Oh, 36 00:06:12,790 --> 00:06:15,270 God. Sadie is so strange, isn't she? 37 00:06:15,530 --> 00:06:17,690 I hope it's good that she's hanging around with Sadie. 38 00:06:17,910 --> 00:06:20,610 I called ahead. Sadie's mother is single. 39 00:06:20,830 --> 00:06:22,610 There are no men or weapons in the home. 40 00:06:23,470 --> 00:06:25,770 You called Sadie's mother to ask if she was single? 41 00:06:25,990 --> 00:06:26,969 Yeah. Of course. 42 00:06:26,970 --> 00:06:27,970 Of course. 43 00:06:29,670 --> 00:06:35,330 Holy shit. 44 00:06:36,470 --> 00:06:39,430 My God, look at all this cheese. No, no, no, no, no, no. Leave it, leave it, 45 00:06:39,450 --> 00:06:42,130 leave it, leave it. Not yet, not yet, not, not yet. What is all this? What is 46 00:06:42,130 --> 00:06:43,130 that? What is that smell? 47 00:06:43,390 --> 00:06:44,390 I'm making a souffle. 48 00:06:45,190 --> 00:06:48,850 You're making a souffle? I mean, 200 pounds of cheese? Is there, like, an 49 00:06:48,930 --> 00:06:50,250 Are we expecting people? 50 00:06:50,570 --> 00:06:51,570 Our neighbors. 51 00:06:53,340 --> 00:06:56,100 Our upstairs neighbors. I told you yesterday, remember? 52 00:06:57,140 --> 00:07:01,460 I've mentioned that for some insane reason you want to invite them over. You 53 00:07:01,460 --> 00:07:04,040 sure didn't tell me they were coming over tonight. What were you asking 54 00:07:04,260 --> 00:07:08,260 I told you yesterday. 55 00:07:08,860 --> 00:07:12,540 Well, telling me and asking you are actually two very different things. And 56 00:07:12,540 --> 00:07:15,020 I'm being honest, I don't even think you told me. I'm not going to listen to 57 00:07:15,020 --> 00:07:18,500 anything that I say anyway. Oh, fuck. Did you forget the wine? 58 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:19,759 The wine? 59 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:22,460 I texted you. I texted you about wine. We don't have any wine. 60 00:07:39,630 --> 00:07:43,230 Can you please call the neighbors and tell them to come another time? 61 00:07:44,950 --> 00:07:46,210 No. No. 62 00:07:46,670 --> 00:07:48,490 It's too late. They're coming in ten minutes. 63 00:07:49,270 --> 00:07:50,270 They're coming in ten? 64 00:07:50,750 --> 00:07:53,770 fucking mid why didn't you tell me any of this because we've been talking about 65 00:07:53,770 --> 00:07:56,850 them coming for like six months okay and they've been so nice about all our 66 00:07:56,850 --> 00:08:01,590 noise from the renovation our noise did you just say they've been nice about our 67 00:08:01,590 --> 00:08:05,350 noise that's nuts you're making us do plays for these people now what is 68 00:08:05,350 --> 00:08:08,310 happening here she said she wanted to see it she just wants to see it now that 69 00:08:08,310 --> 00:08:13,130 it's done it seems very nice they're very very you know they seem cool and 70 00:08:13,130 --> 00:08:19,290 she has like presence and she's she's so she's so pretty 71 00:08:20,159 --> 00:08:25,280 Yeah, she's fucked, but he is a fucking weirdo, okay? Every time I'm in the 72 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:28,320 elevator with him, it's like, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. You know 73 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:29,320 I mean? 74 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,440 Exactly. You need questions, and you want me to ask you questions with the 75 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:35,159 contact and off the dark. Yeah, that's called a conversation. 76 00:08:36,500 --> 00:08:37,700 What is this? 77 00:08:39,020 --> 00:08:40,039 What? That's a rug. 78 00:08:41,100 --> 00:08:42,100 Ew. 79 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,000 Oh, my God. 80 00:08:47,460 --> 00:08:48,500 You are so... 81 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:58,280 Can we please do a reset? 82 00:08:58,860 --> 00:08:59,860 A what? 83 00:09:00,540 --> 00:09:03,660 Can you leave and come back in again? This is for a podcast. Yes, it is. Does 84 00:09:03,660 --> 00:09:06,520 matter? You physically want me to leave the apartment and come back in? Yes, 85 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:10,340 please. No, it's fucking silly. Joe, I'm asking you to just do that for me. 86 00:09:10,380 --> 00:09:13,140 Would that be okay? Fine. I will do that for you, okay? 87 00:09:13,420 --> 00:09:16,840 Great. Here we go. Thank you. Yeah, thank you. This will fix everything. 88 00:10:08,180 --> 00:10:10,560 I don't like how they can see right into our apartment, you know? 89 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:24,560 I can't have any of this cheese. Please don't eat the cheese, Joe. I worked so 90 00:10:24,560 --> 00:10:28,000 hard on that. You just wait, and then they'll come, and you'll eat cheese, and 91 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:30,600 then you can go upstairs and smoke weed. I'll smoke weed in here if you let me. 92 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:34,000 No, I won't, because it gets stuck in the walls. 93 00:10:36,220 --> 00:10:37,220 You know what? 94 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:40,880 I actually think it's really cool that they're coming over tonight. 95 00:10:42,460 --> 00:10:43,460 Why? 96 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:44,880 Because. 97 00:10:45,780 --> 00:10:47,540 We can finally talk to them about the millies. 98 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:49,500 No, Joe, we need a deal. 99 00:10:50,310 --> 00:10:52,770 Let's feel that we weren't gonna say anything. 100 00:10:53,130 --> 00:10:55,550 Well, you know what? I changed my mind. 101 00:10:57,150 --> 00:11:02,570 What they do in the privacy of every night. 102 00:11:03,810 --> 00:11:09,190 How is that none of our business? How is that none of our fucking business? 103 00:11:09,630 --> 00:11:14,470 Are you aware of how difficult that is for her? 104 00:11:16,140 --> 00:11:17,320 What is she, your role model now? 105 00:11:17,540 --> 00:11:20,580 Yeah, she's definitely my role model. Your to -come role model? 106 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:24,080 Yeah. Can we please just take this room already? 107 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:26,680 Well, we haven't picked a color, Joe, so no. 108 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:28,800 Same color, pick a color, who cares? 109 00:11:29,020 --> 00:11:30,020 Not. 110 00:11:35,550 --> 00:11:36,190 We can 111 00:11:36,190 --> 00:11:52,030 finally 112 00:11:52,030 --> 00:11:56,010 get to the bottom of who we are. 113 00:11:58,859 --> 00:11:59,859 Either way, 114 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:05,100 bring it up, we'll laugh about it, and I'll tell them to not get the fuck off! 115 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:07,140 It's like you want everyone to feel uncomfortable. 116 00:12:07,380 --> 00:12:08,720 I'm the one who's uncomfortable? 117 00:12:09,340 --> 00:12:12,940 If our neighbors were waking us up every night at 4 in the morning by blasting 118 00:12:12,940 --> 00:12:15,680 music and I said something about it to them, wouldn't that be completely 119 00:12:15,680 --> 00:12:19,600 reasonable? It's the exact same thing, but it's even more justified than a 120 00:12:19,720 --> 00:12:20,960 Don't say anything! 121 00:12:21,300 --> 00:12:22,780 Just not tonight, please! 122 00:12:29,390 --> 00:12:30,390 Is this also new? 123 00:12:31,510 --> 00:12:32,510 Yes. 124 00:12:33,030 --> 00:12:35,070 Well, it's nice. It looks really good on you. 125 00:12:35,630 --> 00:12:37,490 Well, you can tell me that once in a while. 126 00:12:38,210 --> 00:12:43,130 I can't believe you forgot the wine. 127 00:12:43,330 --> 00:12:47,220 I didn't forget the wine. I'm on this collapsible... bike like a fucking 128 00:12:47,220 --> 00:12:50,780 and I can't answer text messages while I'm on it. Do we have anything nice to 129 00:12:50,780 --> 00:12:53,220 drink? Well, if there's nothing to drink, we probably call them and tell 130 00:12:53,220 --> 00:12:54,199 not to go over, right? 131 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:55,680 Look, this is weird. 132 00:12:56,520 --> 00:12:59,060 New Year's, we're popping champagne with these people. 133 00:12:59,300 --> 00:13:02,880 Fine, look, we'll pre -pop it so by the time they get here, it'll be, you know, 134 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:06,140 fizzed out and it'll be like a sparkling wine. Can't you see this is obviously 135 00:13:06,140 --> 00:13:07,720 not a good time to have company? 136 00:13:14,310 --> 00:13:15,310 Yeah. What? 137 00:13:22,810 --> 00:13:25,550 Was that an ultimatum? Yeah, the choice is yours. 138 00:13:25,870 --> 00:13:26,870 I'm sorry. 139 00:13:27,770 --> 00:13:29,010 You're going to bring up the fucking? 140 00:13:29,230 --> 00:13:30,230 Yeah. 141 00:13:30,410 --> 00:13:31,470 Mm, mm -hmm. 142 00:13:32,070 --> 00:13:37,370 Do you understand how hard it is for a woman to come that hard? Yes, I do, 143 00:13:37,450 --> 00:13:40,290 because you've raised me a hundred times in the last three minutes. I don't 144 00:13:40,290 --> 00:13:43,190 think... I don't think you get it. I don't think you really understand how 145 00:13:43,190 --> 00:13:44,190 difficult it is. 146 00:13:44,410 --> 00:13:46,390 And if we say something, do you know what's going to happen? 147 00:13:46,650 --> 00:13:50,270 Every time they fuck and she comes, they're going to see our dumb faces. 148 00:13:50,570 --> 00:13:51,570 That's not fair. 149 00:13:51,670 --> 00:13:57,330 I could not care less about anything in the world than this woman's fucking 150 00:13:57,330 --> 00:14:00,830 orgasm. I just wanted to have a nice night. I just wanted to have a nice, 151 00:14:00,830 --> 00:14:05,130 fucking night, and you all let me. These people are disrespecting us. They know 152 00:14:05,130 --> 00:14:06,870 we can hear them. Can you not see that? 153 00:14:07,170 --> 00:14:09,670 What are you talking about? You sound like your father. No, that is... 154 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:14,380 They know we can hear them. They get off on it. They're fucking with us. They're 155 00:14:14,380 --> 00:14:17,960 perverts. They're not thinking about us. Well, maybe that's the problem. Maybe 156 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:19,160 they should be thinking about us. 157 00:14:19,420 --> 00:14:21,540 You know what? We're not fucking canceling. Do you know why? 158 00:14:22,020 --> 00:14:23,040 We don't have friends. 159 00:14:23,660 --> 00:14:25,880 We have to be friends with them? Are you kidding? 160 00:14:26,340 --> 00:14:27,860 It's not my fault we don't have a girlfriend. 161 00:14:28,220 --> 00:14:29,660 I would love to have... 162 00:14:46,700 --> 00:14:47,700 Happy you're here. 163 00:14:49,740 --> 00:14:50,740 Bye. 164 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:52,840 Ah, two. 165 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:54,460 Angela, hi. Me too. 166 00:14:55,260 --> 00:14:58,940 Yes. Joe, you remember Peanut Hawk? 167 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:05,920 Yeah. 168 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:07,480 Yeah. 169 00:15:08,020 --> 00:15:09,800 Are you sure we are not interrupting? 170 00:15:10,140 --> 00:15:11,580 No. Good for you. 171 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:13,880 Yes, great for us. Yeah, we love, yep. 172 00:15:15,450 --> 00:15:21,770 it took you a while to come to the door and it sounded like you were arguing no 173 00:15:21,770 --> 00:15:25,630 filter no i just want to be honest we were we were we were at the door before 174 00:15:25,630 --> 00:15:31,230 rang and we could hear you were fighting oh we were talking we were um we were 175 00:15:31,230 --> 00:15:36,430 fighting a contentious environment in here so i understand if that's repellent 176 00:15:36,430 --> 00:15:40,310 to you no hard feelings you know what i mean completely understand you know we 177 00:15:40,310 --> 00:15:42,570 love a contentious environment 178 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:46,960 We love it. 179 00:15:47,980 --> 00:15:49,160 Really, it's fun. 180 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:51,460 You got the jackpot then, my friend. 181 00:15:53,140 --> 00:15:54,140 You're in for a treat. 182 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:56,100 Okay? Yeah, great. 183 00:15:56,380 --> 00:15:59,000 Do we have to take our shoes off? Oh, God, no, no, no. 184 00:15:59,200 --> 00:15:59,959 No, I don't. 185 00:15:59,960 --> 00:16:00,960 Yeah, okay, great. 186 00:16:01,480 --> 00:16:02,480 Hey, Joe. 187 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:06,040 Yeah, thank you. Joe, be honest. Do you want us to take them off? 188 00:16:07,860 --> 00:16:10,100 I don't give a fuck if you take your shoes off, personally. 189 00:16:18,730 --> 00:16:19,730 Hawk, yeah. 190 00:16:20,110 --> 00:16:21,049 Like a bird. 191 00:16:21,050 --> 00:16:22,050 Yep, like a bird. 192 00:16:23,050 --> 00:16:24,050 Cool. 193 00:16:27,690 --> 00:16:29,570 We've been dying to see your apartment. 194 00:16:29,910 --> 00:16:34,390 Oh. Oh, God. I'm so sorry. We wanted to invite you. It wasn't quite ready 195 00:16:34,390 --> 00:16:36,390 before. It wasn't quite ready because of me. 196 00:16:36,690 --> 00:16:39,650 You mentioned it in the elevator, but then you never called. 197 00:16:40,310 --> 00:16:44,910 We, uh... I mean, we wondered if we did something wrong. No, God, no, no, no. 198 00:16:45,250 --> 00:16:46,970 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. 199 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:48,560 No, I'm sorry about that. No. 200 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:50,420 What do you think? 201 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:52,379 It's huge. 202 00:16:52,380 --> 00:16:54,820 Oh, much bigger than that. And you have such a nice flow. 203 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:56,080 Is that the money? 204 00:16:56,340 --> 00:16:57,340 Yes. 205 00:16:57,720 --> 00:16:58,720 No, 206 00:16:59,260 --> 00:17:00,099 is it? No. 207 00:17:00,100 --> 00:17:06,599 You really 208 00:17:06,599 --> 00:17:10,740 got some beautiful pieces. 209 00:17:12,140 --> 00:17:14,000 I know what I like, but it's actually not all expensive. 210 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:15,760 Some of it. Most of it's not. 211 00:17:16,099 --> 00:17:18,760 Yeah, I'm not everything, but not everything. 212 00:17:19,099 --> 00:17:22,300 I guess what I meant to say is you can tell that it's been done with a lot of 213 00:17:22,300 --> 00:17:25,040 care, and you have a really great eye. 214 00:17:26,220 --> 00:17:27,059 That's true. 215 00:17:27,060 --> 00:17:30,760 I can feel it. I feel you put so much love. 216 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:38,520 I did that. Thank you. Yeah. I love it. I do love it. I really care. 217 00:17:38,660 --> 00:17:41,320 I do. Thank you for saying that. I see it. 218 00:17:41,660 --> 00:17:48,440 i care i do care a lot i'm getting emotional 219 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:53,840 i don't know why but i thank you thank you energy 220 00:17:53,840 --> 00:18:00,800 is what i was 221 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:03,840 going for that's what i wanted energy is great we talked a lot about how to 222 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:06,460 capture energy as though that was a real thing we could do 223 00:18:09,250 --> 00:18:12,710 Kinetic, chemical, potential, nuclear, sexual. 224 00:18:13,250 --> 00:18:19,210 You cannot really create it or destroy it, but you can find ways to shape it. 225 00:18:20,470 --> 00:18:21,470 Beautiful. 226 00:18:22,150 --> 00:18:24,850 You shaped it really beautifully here. I love the shape. 227 00:18:25,090 --> 00:18:26,090 Thank you. 228 00:18:26,710 --> 00:18:28,610 Too existential for you, Joe? 229 00:18:28,970 --> 00:18:31,930 No, hey, not existential enough for me. Let's get deep. 230 00:18:32,130 --> 00:18:33,150 What is life? 231 00:18:37,940 --> 00:18:39,880 Oh, that is my Spanish man. 232 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:44,360 No. Oh, my God. Flan. Oh, how elegant. 233 00:18:44,780 --> 00:18:45,439 Fair warning. 234 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:48,020 Once you try Peanuts Flan, there's no going back. 235 00:18:48,700 --> 00:18:53,240 You'll be at our door late at night like a junkie under the bridge, and we need 236 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:55,580 a score like heroin. 237 00:19:02,230 --> 00:19:06,070 You might want to put it in the fridge. Yeah. Yeah. Come on. You want to 238 00:19:06,070 --> 00:19:08,130 refrigerate it. Is it flan or flan? 239 00:19:08,490 --> 00:19:09,490 Flan. Flan. 240 00:19:09,630 --> 00:19:10,630 I thought it was flan. 241 00:19:23,870 --> 00:19:30,750 I'm so sorry. I haven't, I literally haven't offered you anything 242 00:19:30,750 --> 00:19:31,750 great. 243 00:19:32,430 --> 00:19:39,130 We have a beautiful, powerful, you know, um, 244 00:19:39,430 --> 00:19:43,170 um, or maybe you prefer wine. Wine is better. 245 00:19:43,430 --> 00:19:44,430 Wine. Wine. 246 00:19:45,330 --> 00:19:47,090 Wine. Do we have wine? 247 00:19:47,610 --> 00:19:48,610 We do. 248 00:20:04,360 --> 00:20:09,480 we have we've been waiting for the perfect moment yeah yeah yeah yeah 249 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:16,380 great finally there it is 250 00:20:16,380 --> 00:20:23,260 1982. yeah you want to save that for another time oh my god no one time this 251 00:20:23,260 --> 00:20:28,580 is it hitting me yeah that's not like the president all right you want to open 252 00:20:28,580 --> 00:20:29,580 it 253 00:20:51,740 --> 00:20:56,540 Sorry, we don't have people over very often. 254 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:14,200 I knew I'd get there. 255 00:21:15,860 --> 00:21:19,680 Yeah, thank you so much. Yes. 256 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:22,820 Salud. Sure, thank you, uncle. 257 00:21:23,300 --> 00:21:26,500 He's dead, so maybe next time. 258 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:28,920 Oh, 259 00:21:29,240 --> 00:21:30,240 how is your daughter? 260 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:33,240 Maggie. She's so cool. She is cool, yeah. 261 00:21:33,460 --> 00:21:36,000 I love her style. I know, right? She's awesome. 262 00:21:36,300 --> 00:21:38,780 Yeah, she's amazing. I'm really going to miss her. 263 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:40,840 Where is she going? 264 00:21:48,010 --> 00:21:52,670 I don't know, but I'm going to answer, and I'm just going to be alone. 265 00:21:53,570 --> 00:21:54,570 Where am I going? 266 00:21:55,210 --> 00:21:57,750 I'm just saying it's going to be different. 267 00:21:58,090 --> 00:21:59,970 Do you know something? No, I don't know. 268 00:22:00,470 --> 00:22:01,750 It won't be the same. 269 00:22:02,030 --> 00:22:04,010 It's not going to be the same. I'm sorry. 270 00:22:04,230 --> 00:22:06,290 I feel like I'm becoming emotional again. 271 00:22:06,550 --> 00:22:08,730 I'm sorry for what? 272 00:22:08,990 --> 00:22:11,070 It would be crazy if we didn't play. 273 00:22:11,670 --> 00:22:13,230 You know, it's the best way to read it. 274 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:15,280 Oh, 275 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:17,520 a lot of nothing. That's what I do. 276 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:20,820 There's nothing in the world better than being a mom. 277 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:28,640 Ever. But not everyone, because that isn't your 278 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:34,420 path. No. I mean, we talk about it. We think about it. Right. 279 00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:36,060 Hasn't been that bright already. 280 00:22:36,300 --> 00:22:37,880 Yeah. I don't know. Maybe. 281 00:22:38,580 --> 00:22:39,660 Maybe. That's great. 282 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:41,860 She probably decides sooner than later. 283 00:22:45,710 --> 00:22:46,990 What? Well, I don't know. 284 00:22:47,590 --> 00:22:48,590 What? 285 00:22:52,810 --> 00:22:53,930 You don't just do that. 286 00:22:54,910 --> 00:22:55,910 Age. 287 00:22:58,970 --> 00:22:59,970 Who's age? 288 00:23:00,170 --> 00:23:01,170 I don't know. 289 00:23:01,750 --> 00:23:07,110 Picasso had a baby name. It's 90s. It's more. It's more of a... stuff. 290 00:23:07,610 --> 00:23:08,690 Hmm. Exciting. 291 00:23:09,330 --> 00:23:10,330 So, you know. 292 00:23:11,639 --> 00:23:13,060 Woman, I didn't want to talk. 293 00:23:13,380 --> 00:23:15,280 Actually, I have something. 294 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:17,420 Do you know what time she marched in? I don't know if you saw it. 295 00:23:18,220 --> 00:23:22,240 It's just something, a gesture to remind you of home. 296 00:23:23,260 --> 00:23:25,500 It's just a little, um, come on. 297 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:28,500 Oh, that is so sweet, and I love how you take it and you say it again. 298 00:23:28,700 --> 00:23:29,740 Come on. Oh, my God. 299 00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:33,020 What do you do? I cannot. I don't eat meat. 300 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:34,280 Huh? 301 00:23:35,260 --> 00:23:36,260 No, he does. 302 00:23:36,580 --> 00:23:38,040 I do. Yeah, whole turtle. 303 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:45,370 Cheese? We have so much cheese. I mean, no. For me, no cheese. Oh, you don't eat 304 00:23:45,370 --> 00:23:46,370 cheese. No. 305 00:23:46,750 --> 00:23:50,950 For me, 306 00:23:51,790 --> 00:23:55,250 also no. No gluten, no milk, no meat, no sugar. 307 00:23:55,490 --> 00:23:56,490 We got all the meat. 308 00:23:58,650 --> 00:24:03,010 Really failed on the meat then, huh? 309 00:24:03,830 --> 00:24:07,930 Meat fail, failed on the meat. I will eat peanut cheese. 310 00:24:08,510 --> 00:24:10,650 All your beautiful me will get eaten. I'm sorry. 311 00:24:12,870 --> 00:24:13,870 It's great. 312 00:24:14,550 --> 00:24:16,930 Thank you. Is there a bathroom like this? Yeah. 313 00:24:17,530 --> 00:24:20,390 Thank you. It's lovely. 314 00:24:20,630 --> 00:24:25,650 Great. What do you want to eat? Whatever you want. I can get it. I can order it. 315 00:24:25,810 --> 00:24:26,810 I can get here so fast. 316 00:24:27,030 --> 00:24:29,110 Five minutes, six months, six months on a bike. Anything. 317 00:24:29,310 --> 00:24:30,209 Anything you like. 318 00:24:30,210 --> 00:24:31,210 What do you like? 319 00:24:31,310 --> 00:24:32,730 I don't want anything. 320 00:24:33,070 --> 00:24:33,889 Yeah, it's good. 321 00:24:33,890 --> 00:24:37,090 But I don't understand how you put all of this together so quickly. 322 00:24:38,210 --> 00:24:41,330 We only planned this morning because it's like magic. 323 00:24:41,690 --> 00:24:42,690 Really? 324 00:24:43,390 --> 00:24:46,470 I think you guys guessed yesterday morning. 325 00:24:46,710 --> 00:24:47,369 This morning. 326 00:24:47,370 --> 00:24:48,370 Not yesterday. 327 00:24:48,630 --> 00:24:49,650 Last morning. 328 00:24:49,890 --> 00:24:51,150 This morning. Last morning. 329 00:24:51,450 --> 00:24:52,450 That's not experience. 330 00:24:52,490 --> 00:24:53,490 Of course. 331 00:24:53,770 --> 00:24:54,770 Not today. 332 00:24:54,790 --> 00:24:59,210 Today. You know how they. They kind of blur the words. Yeah. This morning. 333 00:24:59,210 --> 00:25:00,129 You know. 334 00:25:00,130 --> 00:25:02,410 Are you cold? Mm -hmm. What are you doing? 335 00:25:02,630 --> 00:25:04,330 What are you doing? 336 00:25:04,710 --> 00:25:06,130 Am I okay? 337 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:07,920 I don't know. Are you joking? 338 00:25:08,380 --> 00:25:14,980 Are you joking? No, I'm... I have a 339 00:25:14,980 --> 00:25:17,540 little... I have a little... It happens at all times. 340 00:25:27,980 --> 00:25:30,540 It could be the beginning of perimenopause. 341 00:25:30,740 --> 00:25:31,740 What? 342 00:25:31,780 --> 00:25:32,780 Perimenopause? 343 00:25:33,360 --> 00:25:39,600 challenging horrible time oh more than 10 years oh my god great makes me so 344 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:45,460 angry how so many people still today talk about hot flashes as the only 345 00:25:45,460 --> 00:25:50,280 i know i mean this is a serious huge neuroendocrine change that affects 346 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:56,840 everything memory cardiovascular health metabolism and we're expected just to 347 00:25:56,840 --> 00:26:01,830 deal with it just deal with depression, anxiety, brain fog, insomnia. 348 00:26:02,410 --> 00:26:03,410 Bootswings? Is that one of them? 349 00:26:04,230 --> 00:26:07,850 Yeah, yeah. Resentment toward your spouse, overspending on home goods and 350 00:26:07,850 --> 00:26:10,170 cheeses, abundance of charcuterie. 351 00:26:12,470 --> 00:26:16,490 I knew you were going to make a joke about it. I am. I'm making a joke about 352 00:26:16,510 --> 00:26:19,730 Let me explain it to you in a different way. Okay. 353 00:26:22,270 --> 00:26:27,790 What if your testicles crippled up and died? 354 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:35,060 And your empty ball sack flopped around in the breeze for 30 years 355 00:26:35,060 --> 00:26:37,560 or so. How would you like that? 356 00:26:39,820 --> 00:26:40,960 I wouldn't like that. 357 00:26:42,820 --> 00:26:48,160 You will. No. So don't joke about it. Okay. Copy that. I won't. I get it. I'm 358 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:49,160 sorry. 359 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,080 Are you a doctor or something like that? 360 00:26:51,420 --> 00:26:52,840 A psychotherapist? 361 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:54,040 Yeah. 362 00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:55,320 I'm a psychologist. 363 00:26:56,649 --> 00:26:58,450 Sexologist. And I also care about women. 364 00:26:58,850 --> 00:27:00,310 I care about women. 365 00:27:06,150 --> 00:27:07,150 That's going to be bad. 366 00:27:07,390 --> 00:27:08,870 Do you play the piano? 367 00:27:09,070 --> 00:27:10,610 No, I don't play the piano, actually. 368 00:27:10,930 --> 00:27:11,930 Nope. 369 00:27:16,310 --> 00:27:17,310 Joe's in a band. 370 00:27:18,070 --> 00:27:19,070 Oh, really? 371 00:27:19,550 --> 00:27:23,010 We know you, and we just don't know. 372 00:27:23,470 --> 00:27:24,129 We know you. 373 00:27:24,130 --> 00:27:26,690 No, definitely not. Yes, I'm positive, yeah. 374 00:27:27,070 --> 00:27:28,070 Nice. 375 00:27:30,950 --> 00:27:32,430 Fiancelot? Yeah, Fiancelot. 376 00:27:32,630 --> 00:27:36,950 They had a song, One Girl. It was very big. One Girl, yeah. It was really big 377 00:27:36,950 --> 00:27:38,690 2008. Yeah, for one week. 378 00:27:38,970 --> 00:27:41,530 In 2008. 2008, yeah. 379 00:27:41,870 --> 00:27:42,870 What do you think, girl? 380 00:27:43,350 --> 00:27:45,450 I was. I was. Still is. 381 00:27:45,650 --> 00:27:46,850 Technically still am. 382 00:27:47,230 --> 00:27:49,810 Yeah. I was, but... 383 00:27:50,490 --> 00:27:53,830 That's kind of weird. No, it's like pop, punk, indie. 384 00:27:54,530 --> 00:27:58,290 It's like, it's not a, it's a dead job. Can I listen to it? No. 385 00:27:59,910 --> 00:28:03,590 But I mean, you know, can we find it on Spotify? No. 386 00:28:04,390 --> 00:28:06,670 Do you ever play live? Come to you? 387 00:28:07,010 --> 00:28:11,070 Yeah, he kind of missed that window by a few decades, unfortunately. 388 00:28:11,490 --> 00:28:14,010 He actually teaches music now. Yeah. 389 00:28:14,290 --> 00:28:15,990 Where? East Bay. 390 00:28:16,790 --> 00:28:17,790 Like, Berkeley? 391 00:28:18,370 --> 00:28:19,370 No. 392 00:28:19,530 --> 00:28:21,630 He's a great musician, but the small kids are really cool. 393 00:28:24,530 --> 00:28:26,550 Your music, what's that? 394 00:28:29,330 --> 00:28:30,330 That's really cool. 395 00:28:30,630 --> 00:28:31,630 Yeah, it's fine. 396 00:28:33,590 --> 00:28:34,590 I'm sorry, wait a minute. 397 00:28:35,050 --> 00:28:36,050 Wait a minute. 398 00:28:36,650 --> 00:28:37,650 I'm sorry. 399 00:28:40,150 --> 00:28:41,150 Come on. 400 00:28:41,230 --> 00:28:45,290 What is going on here? 401 00:28:46,150 --> 00:28:47,150 It's rough. 402 00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:53,680 Where'd you get it? He is obsessed with carpets. Oh, so am I. I love carpets. 403 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:57,740 Joe, not so much. Not so much. More into credenzas, ounces, things like that. 404 00:28:58,060 --> 00:28:59,060 Oh. 405 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:02,220 Oh, shit. I think it's a hurry. 406 00:29:02,940 --> 00:29:03,940 No. 407 00:29:04,260 --> 00:29:07,820 And where did you get this? I got it. A flea market? 408 00:29:08,020 --> 00:29:09,140 No, you didn't. I did. 409 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:13,560 No, you didn't. I just like the color. You did? Well, you found a Van Gogh in a 410 00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:14,379 garage sale. 411 00:29:14,380 --> 00:29:15,380 I did. 412 00:29:15,820 --> 00:29:16,820 But it's a rug. 413 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:21,040 No, it's not. It's a reed. A reed? Rug. 414 00:29:22,540 --> 00:29:23,540 Oh. 415 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:29,920 You didn't pay a fortune for this. I did not. You swear. It's a rug. Wow. You 416 00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,800 have a gift. I mean, that's like, wow. 417 00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:36,440 I want to take off my clothes and the fly I'm making on it. John! 418 00:29:37,060 --> 00:29:40,540 When are you going? 419 00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:41,800 It's really late. 420 00:29:42,380 --> 00:29:43,840 Good. Incredible. 421 00:29:45,479 --> 00:29:52,140 good energy wow really good energy yeah he did our entire 422 00:29:52,140 --> 00:29:56,500 apartment it's so beautiful you have to come over and we really mean it unlike 423 00:29:56,500 --> 00:30:03,400 you jim your design or something what oh thank you no no he's a fireman 424 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:08,640 firefighter you're a firefighter you're not a player you weren't a firefighter 425 00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:14,480 yeah he was fire captain you're a fire captain captain hawk captain hawk oh my 426 00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:19,560 god you're not captain hawk that's bullshit why you don't seem like a 427 00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:26,040 firefighter they're brawnier they have mustaches they're brawnier 428 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:32,020 more fuerte more fuerte he's pretty fuerte 429 00:30:32,020 --> 00:30:37,980 i don't know if he's fireman fuerte more fuerte in the beginning but i was you 430 00:30:37,980 --> 00:30:44,400 know I got to my pension. I just decided I'd had enough and kind of gave up my 431 00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:51,060 hose for the command job. And then I retired and started pursuing my other 432 00:30:51,060 --> 00:30:52,520 interests and new adventures. 433 00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:56,900 Now he's saying roofing. Oh, wow. The adventure of roofing. No, sorry. 434 00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:58,480 Rolfing. Rolfing. 435 00:30:58,680 --> 00:30:59,680 That's what I said. 436 00:30:59,900 --> 00:31:01,860 Rolfing. Rolfing. Say it again. 437 00:31:02,060 --> 00:31:03,060 No. Say it again. 438 00:31:03,380 --> 00:31:04,380 No. 439 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:08,800 You're a masseuse now. 440 00:31:09,220 --> 00:31:10,199 That's cool. 441 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:11,480 Going to work on the Four Seasons? 442 00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:12,659 No, no. 443 00:31:12,660 --> 00:31:16,440 Rolfing's a much deeper modality. 444 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:22,760 It's challenging for both parties, really. But, yeah, it's been healing. 445 00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:25,320 I'm almost certified. You want to jump on my table, Joe? 446 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:27,500 Never in a million years. 447 00:31:30,820 --> 00:31:33,060 I really love you, Joe. 448 00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:35,680 What do you love about me, Hawk? 449 00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:40,200 I like how honest you are about what you're feeling. 450 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:44,720 Well, in the pursuit of honesty. 451 00:31:45,140 --> 00:31:46,140 Who loved her? 452 00:31:46,700 --> 00:31:49,260 Would you like to see more? There's so much more. Great. 453 00:31:49,820 --> 00:31:54,640 Yeah, I'm actually going to smoke a joint. I've seen the place. 454 00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:56,320 No. 455 00:31:56,500 --> 00:31:57,500 Can I come with you? 456 00:31:59,020 --> 00:32:00,700 Really? Yeah, can I? 457 00:32:01,910 --> 00:32:02,910 Sure, totally. 458 00:32:04,250 --> 00:32:08,890 I thought I'd just, you know, maybe go to my office and smoke in there, right? 459 00:32:08,930 --> 00:32:12,130 That's cool, right? Unless you have a problem with that. Oh, yeah, yeah. 460 00:32:12,370 --> 00:32:13,370 Cool. Yeah. 461 00:32:13,690 --> 00:32:15,250 Cool. Cool, right? Yeah. Cool. 462 00:32:15,510 --> 00:32:16,510 Yeah. 463 00:32:17,230 --> 00:32:18,270 Do you want to open a window? 464 00:32:19,070 --> 00:32:20,070 Do you know? 465 00:32:20,170 --> 00:32:21,170 Yeah, sure. Great. 466 00:32:25,950 --> 00:32:27,770 What do you got? 467 00:32:28,510 --> 00:32:29,650 Other than this? 468 00:32:35,379 --> 00:32:41,420 you spend a lot of time here i do you can tell yeah it's 469 00:32:41,420 --> 00:32:45,640 a little messy i'm usually usually alone in here 470 00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:52,120 there you go 471 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:56,860 there you go chaos 472 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:05,120 good great it means you're focused on more important things oh you know that's 473 00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:11,800 how i like to think of it i'm sure i don't know what to do with that i 474 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:18,620 actually did all of this crowding myself which i love i i find it 475 00:33:18,620 --> 00:33:23,300 meditative joe thinks i'm insane and then the floor i mean i'm sure this is 476 00:33:23,300 --> 00:33:29,300 something you might have you know picked up no original ceramic penny tile wow 477 00:33:30,020 --> 00:33:33,540 Anyway, that was sort of similar to what was there before, but that was kind of 478 00:33:33,540 --> 00:33:39,840 what I was going for with the whole theme was renovation without change, 479 00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:46,540 think needed to keep it original but with a new surface. 480 00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:54,780 Admittedly, I know a lot less about tile than I've learned about rugs and a lot 481 00:33:54,780 --> 00:33:55,780 of the bathrooms that I've seen. 482 00:33:56,280 --> 00:34:01,300 have been on fire so my oh no my relationship with them was fleeting but 483 00:34:01,300 --> 00:34:07,760 just said this was an immaculately preserved vintage bathroom 484 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:14,540 wow i mean that's what i was going for you fooled me wow oh 485 00:34:14,540 --> 00:34:17,199 i'm out facebook marketplace come on 486 00:34:41,909 --> 00:34:47,670 i don't want more because of them if i have more than one heat i i started 487 00:34:47,670 --> 00:34:51,770 counting objects And I can't stop and imagine what I would be. 488 00:34:52,010 --> 00:34:55,510 I've never heard of it. 489 00:34:56,030 --> 00:34:57,710 We'd lose you for the rest of your life. 490 00:34:58,590 --> 00:34:59,590 Exactly. 491 00:34:59,970 --> 00:35:00,970 What is this? 492 00:35:02,210 --> 00:35:03,710 It's for a xylophone. 493 00:35:04,250 --> 00:35:05,850 Exactly. You figure it out. 494 00:35:06,090 --> 00:35:10,230 It's intuitive. Ultimately, there's only one of those, so you're okay. 495 00:35:10,650 --> 00:35:14,310 This is actually, um... 496 00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:21,780 this is where the two apartments were were combined and you can just see that 497 00:35:21,780 --> 00:35:26,780 because it's a little bit thicker there but that's where they um where there 498 00:35:26,780 --> 00:35:33,580 used to be a separation a wall yeah that was what what they call a wall like the 499 00:35:33,580 --> 00:35:37,800 technical term is we we literally are just that much so oh right because you 500 00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:43,720 guys are yeah yeah huh well this so this is maggie's room and i actually did 501 00:35:44,250 --> 00:35:47,670 i've been on the fence like it's probably a little old for now i'm 502 00:35:47,670 --> 00:35:53,870 gonna have to change it but that's good yeah yeah it's it's happening oh 503 00:35:53,870 --> 00:35:59,990 oh oh god that's so good oh is that like 504 00:35:59,990 --> 00:36:04,290 larry fulton oh no no no no that that is me 505 00:36:04,290 --> 00:36:10,710 wow do you work as a photographer 506 00:36:13,230 --> 00:36:17,630 No, I went to art school like a million years ago, and I got a degree I did 507 00:36:17,630 --> 00:36:19,650 literally nothing with, and that is from then. 508 00:36:20,130 --> 00:36:26,710 I mean, I think, you know, creativity is all over in this place. It really 509 00:36:26,710 --> 00:36:27,710 counts. 510 00:36:28,930 --> 00:36:29,930 Thank you. 511 00:36:30,490 --> 00:36:31,490 What about this? 512 00:36:32,030 --> 00:36:34,330 Oh, no, because that's the bedroom. 513 00:36:34,550 --> 00:36:36,850 What's going on in here? Yeah. 514 00:36:37,170 --> 00:36:38,410 No, I know. I didn't. 515 00:36:38,970 --> 00:36:41,370 It's not part of the tour. 516 00:36:42,190 --> 00:36:48,890 a pretty important room yeah yeah yes he's a fireman really a fireman yeah how 517 00:36:48,890 --> 00:36:54,950 long have you been with him uh one year a little less than one year one year 518 00:36:54,950 --> 00:37:01,750 that's it oh well what about longer i was married 519 00:37:01,750 --> 00:37:08,070 before really yeah interesting how did you meet the fireman 520 00:37:08,070 --> 00:37:10,250 he was my patient 521 00:37:25,419 --> 00:37:32,280 right here on this bed no no no different bed oh good yeah like a 522 00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:38,380 little bit he hates people knowing this 523 00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:48,580 No shame in that. Like, nobody in America can afford anything. Yeah, but 524 00:37:48,580 --> 00:37:55,460 really... It's a big... It's not a gift. I mean... Well, 525 00:37:55,660 --> 00:38:02,120 that's what I think. Make it positive, you know? Like, just be grateful and 526 00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:07,380 lean into it. Make it your own, you know? Yeah. So much pleasure in that. 527 00:38:08,220 --> 00:38:09,220 Yeah. 528 00:38:29,919 --> 00:38:35,300 I didn't. That relationship was over when I met him. 529 00:39:02,810 --> 00:39:09,770 I think you really just have to listen to what 530 00:39:09,770 --> 00:39:13,150 is your heart. And I'm pulling you toward what vision of yourself. 531 00:39:14,890 --> 00:39:21,110 You know, I mean, you see yourself walking on a cold beach alone with the 532 00:39:21,110 --> 00:39:22,890 in your face and the clarity of that. 533 00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:29,540 Or sitting on a southern porch in the heat, holding hands and getting old. 534 00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:38,240 Or sitting in a Copenhagen cafe with a stranger. 535 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:42,220 I'd go with Copenhagen. 536 00:39:43,780 --> 00:39:44,780 I'd go that way. 537 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:51,380 For some reason, I knew that you would feel that. It seems so clear now that 538 00:39:51,380 --> 00:39:52,380 we're here looking at it. 539 00:39:53,020 --> 00:39:57,820 And you're so right. It was right there the whole time. God, thank you. You 540 00:39:57,820 --> 00:40:00,380 didn't mean it. I did, though. I did. I needed you. 541 00:40:00,780 --> 00:40:03,820 No, you didn't understand. It's been months of this. I've been tortured. 542 00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:06,880 I'm going to tell you what he already knew. 543 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:08,200 Yeah. 544 00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:11,580 He thinks they all look the same. 545 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:14,560 If he colors one. 546 00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:19,440 There's worse birds. 547 00:40:19,940 --> 00:40:22,780 There's no doubt at the end of the day. 548 00:40:23,060 --> 00:40:26,460 Of all the birds, of all the birds, there's a pretty cool one. 549 00:40:26,720 --> 00:40:27,720 What is your name? 550 00:40:28,700 --> 00:40:29,700 I'm Richard. 551 00:40:32,100 --> 00:40:38,180 No, I... Please, this is not torture. I cannot laugh at his name. No, I'm sorry. 552 00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:39,360 Not there. 553 00:40:39,740 --> 00:40:41,160 It's my boyfriend, Tyler Kim. 554 00:40:41,500 --> 00:40:42,500 He's just a tank. 555 00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:45,880 And I went back in and the dog was ready. It would be. 556 00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:47,540 Nothing around here. 557 00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:49,120 Oh, 558 00:40:49,460 --> 00:40:50,640 God. Oh, no. 559 00:40:50,960 --> 00:40:55,320 Yeah, so I took the long smoke and I burned my lungs and my throat. 560 00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:56,840 Oh, no. 561 00:40:56,960 --> 00:40:59,800 No. And it was time to quit. 562 00:41:00,140 --> 00:41:01,140 No. Yeah. 563 00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:03,360 Yeah. But you know what? 564 00:41:04,340 --> 00:41:05,340 Life's been... 565 00:41:45,180 --> 00:41:47,980 Yeah, yeah. 566 00:42:08,270 --> 00:42:09,270 They are beautiful. 567 00:42:09,350 --> 00:42:10,350 They are impressive. 568 00:42:10,990 --> 00:42:12,790 Yeah, appreciate it. I have this one. 569 00:42:22,510 --> 00:42:23,510 Sorry, 570 00:42:31,210 --> 00:42:32,730 I wanted to take your time. 571 00:42:39,089 --> 00:42:40,089 What is that? 572 00:42:40,230 --> 00:42:41,230 It's two birds. 573 00:42:41,670 --> 00:42:44,390 Pina and Hawk. Pina and Hawk. Look at that. 574 00:42:44,790 --> 00:42:45,790 That's nice. 575 00:42:45,950 --> 00:42:46,950 I like that. 576 00:42:50,850 --> 00:42:54,570 So, when did you get them? When you were in that band? 577 00:42:54,790 --> 00:42:55,709 I did, yeah. 578 00:42:55,710 --> 00:42:57,030 Pretty old. A long time ago. 579 00:42:57,410 --> 00:42:58,910 Maybe 20 years ago, maybe. 580 00:43:16,110 --> 00:43:17,110 You should replace this. 581 00:43:17,570 --> 00:43:18,570 It's really dangerous. 582 00:43:18,750 --> 00:43:20,270 This whole single pane stuff. 583 00:43:20,710 --> 00:43:23,610 It'll shatter with even a little bit of heat. 584 00:43:23,850 --> 00:43:25,150 There's no risk of that. 585 00:43:25,910 --> 00:43:30,810 It's a very cold apartment. There's not a lot of heat. 586 00:43:31,810 --> 00:43:32,810 You never know. 587 00:43:35,350 --> 00:43:37,130 Tequila. Tequila, yeah. Tequila. 588 00:43:39,490 --> 00:43:41,010 Can you do something for me? 589 00:43:43,310 --> 00:43:44,310 Probably. 590 00:43:55,839 --> 00:44:02,260 I should check on Angela, make sure she didn't forget how to breathe, you know 591 00:44:02,260 --> 00:44:03,260 what I mean? 592 00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:13,100 They won't talk whatsoever in the elevator. 593 00:44:13,420 --> 00:44:14,640 I bet they do. 594 00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:15,960 I bet they do. I'm sorry. 595 00:44:18,140 --> 00:44:19,260 Joe, put on some music. 596 00:44:19,780 --> 00:44:23,480 Yeah, I'm putting it on. Yeah, what kind of music you two are? 597 00:44:24,380 --> 00:44:25,660 What is that, Ed? 598 00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:27,200 That's not good. 599 00:44:40,669 --> 00:44:42,730 You don't know any jazz at all? 600 00:44:43,290 --> 00:44:46,990 Jazz, I really want to learn jazz. Where can I start? 601 00:44:47,510 --> 00:44:49,310 Miles Davis, Don Coltrane. 602 00:44:49,730 --> 00:44:53,390 Miles with the cheeks, they go out. I feel like at this point in your life, 603 00:44:53,390 --> 00:44:55,050 harder to not know who you are. 604 00:44:56,010 --> 00:44:57,570 Oh, hey. 605 00:44:58,870 --> 00:44:59,950 Literally, look what I just pulled. 606 00:45:00,170 --> 00:45:05,490 No, no, no. Oh, you have to play. Play. Can we play? Let's play. One girl. Play 607 00:45:05,490 --> 00:45:07,370 a play. Come on, this is your love story right here. 608 00:45:07,570 --> 00:45:11,370 No, no, no, no. Just this one here. Don't put it on. Come on. Don't put it 609 00:45:11,530 --> 00:45:14,670 Don't put it on. Just give it a taste. Don't put it on. We've got the artist 610 00:45:14,670 --> 00:45:15,670 we've got the girl. 611 00:45:18,450 --> 00:45:19,450 No. 612 00:45:20,670 --> 00:45:21,670 Sorry. 613 00:45:23,850 --> 00:45:27,350 You know what? 614 00:45:28,590 --> 00:45:31,250 We actually shouldn't listen to music right now because there's something I've 615 00:45:31,250 --> 00:45:33,970 been wanting to talk to you guys about. Oh, my God. You have your present. 616 00:45:35,770 --> 00:45:37,090 Wow. Isn't that good? 617 00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:39,900 Oh, my God. It's incredible. I can't feel it. 618 00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:41,900 No, it's unbelievable. 619 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,660 It's so good. 620 00:45:44,980 --> 00:45:46,900 It's like milk in your mouth. Yeah, it's so delicious. 621 00:45:47,380 --> 00:45:49,280 Anyway, what I was about to say... No, my God, it doesn't work. 622 00:45:49,740 --> 00:45:54,920 The second bite is when it really just settles in, just slides down. Look, 623 00:45:54,940 --> 00:45:58,380 anyway... Oh, God, it's got sauce. It's got sauce in it. I need to talk to you 624 00:45:58,380 --> 00:45:58,919 about it. 625 00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:01,580 Should we do shots? I think we should have a toast. 626 00:46:02,140 --> 00:46:04,260 Sure. Yeah, I think shots for everybody. 627 00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:05,760 Thank you. 628 00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:11,360 Yeah, anyway, the noise has been a thing that I think we've all been wanting to 629 00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:14,180 talk about. And we want to apologize for it, because it's been loud, and it took 630 00:46:14,180 --> 00:46:18,040 longer. It took longer than we thought, and you guys have been so kind, and we 631 00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:21,280 just wanted to say thank you and sorry. 632 00:46:21,740 --> 00:46:27,940 I mean, look, we're all neighbors, and we really... Salud, 633 00:46:27,940 --> 00:46:29,500 and gracias. 634 00:46:30,720 --> 00:46:33,980 We're just so happy that you invited us, and grateful. 635 00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:38,980 And actually, we also have something we wanted to talk to you about. 636 00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:42,520 You also want to talk to us? That's a funny coincidence. We both have things 637 00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:45,800 want to say to each other. No, it's nothing bad. Nothing bad. I think 638 00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:47,420 something's on Joe's mind. 639 00:46:47,660 --> 00:46:49,480 Why don't you want to go first? No, no, no. 640 00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:52,180 You guys have something. 641 00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:53,400 No, 642 00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:57,680 you first. 643 00:46:58,740 --> 00:46:59,760 You are the guest. 644 00:47:00,540 --> 00:47:04,480 And you should go first. You guys go, and then I'll go right now. 645 00:47:05,770 --> 00:47:08,870 All right, well, um, we wanted to apologize. 646 00:47:09,270 --> 00:47:10,650 Yes? To us? 647 00:47:11,070 --> 00:47:12,070 Yeah. 648 00:47:12,150 --> 00:47:13,150 Yeah, for what? 649 00:47:13,370 --> 00:47:18,350 We feel we may have bothered you. Bothered us? In more than one occasion, 650 00:47:18,490 --> 00:47:20,130 actually. What? When? 651 00:47:20,930 --> 00:47:26,430 Um, at night, usually, and specifically, and sometimes late in the night. 652 00:47:26,670 --> 00:47:27,670 What? 653 00:47:28,930 --> 00:47:29,930 When we had sex. 654 00:47:30,970 --> 00:47:31,970 You? 655 00:47:48,090 --> 00:47:54,450 We know we've been too loud and 656 00:47:54,450 --> 00:48:00,650 we know it was intrusive and we're sorry and we're gonna be more conscientious 657 00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:07,020 oh my god no you guys don't have that no we have not heard anything honestly we 658 00:48:07,020 --> 00:48:13,320 haven't heard anything what right joe we haven't heard anything right 659 00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:20,880 no 660 00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:25,900 we actually haven't heard anything so no need to apologize i i sleep like a log 661 00:48:25,900 --> 00:48:26,900 you know 662 00:48:43,650 --> 00:48:44,650 Joe. What? 663 00:48:44,850 --> 00:48:45,850 Don't lie. 664 00:48:45,890 --> 00:48:49,470 I'm not lying. Joe, you've been telling the truth all night. I love when you 665 00:48:49,470 --> 00:48:50,209 tell the truth. 666 00:48:50,210 --> 00:48:51,210 I love it. 667 00:48:51,510 --> 00:48:53,070 Great. Tell the truth. Tell the truth? 668 00:48:53,350 --> 00:48:54,710 You're not telling the truth. 669 00:48:55,330 --> 00:48:56,850 Joe. What? 670 00:48:57,910 --> 00:49:03,690 We know. It doesn't bother me. It doesn't. Look, I can burst your bubble. 671 00:49:03,690 --> 00:49:05,650 your sex isn't as explosive as you think it is. 672 00:49:06,690 --> 00:49:11,370 Joe, we know you knocked on our door the other night. 673 00:49:11,630 --> 00:49:14,450 Joe. You were pounding on our door. 674 00:49:14,730 --> 00:49:15,730 No, it isn't. 675 00:49:15,850 --> 00:49:17,870 We told you. We have a ring camera. 676 00:49:19,590 --> 00:49:21,530 No, you don't. It's hidden. Where? 677 00:49:21,890 --> 00:49:22,890 In our media. 678 00:49:22,970 --> 00:49:23,970 What's a media? 679 00:49:24,190 --> 00:49:26,510 They don't make that. It's a ring. 680 00:49:27,250 --> 00:49:28,250 That's one thing. 681 00:49:29,410 --> 00:49:30,550 When did that come around? 682 00:49:31,630 --> 00:49:32,630 Shuin. 683 00:49:33,250 --> 00:49:37,470 Shuin, do you want to see it? I don't need to see it. We threw the app to our 684 00:49:37,470 --> 00:49:38,470 phone and... 685 00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:43,320 You know, it flags it if it's in regression, and so it spooks us at 686 00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:45,620 look, there, there he comes. 687 00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:49,780 Maybe it's grainy footage and you think it's me, but it's not me, okay? 688 00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:52,820 It looks like me, but it's not. 689 00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:56,040 Sorry, Joe. 690 00:49:57,240 --> 00:50:02,160 He almost walked away, but I cannot believe it. 691 00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:06,440 You were so polite that you... 692 00:50:06,910 --> 00:50:09,250 Stop to even listen. What are you doing? 693 00:50:10,510 --> 00:50:12,630 Oh, my God. 694 00:50:12,910 --> 00:50:16,850 Oh, my God. 695 00:50:17,630 --> 00:50:18,630 Oh, my God. 696 00:50:19,130 --> 00:50:23,310 Just turn it off. Turn it. Look, okay. You know what? Yes. Yes. 697 00:50:23,510 --> 00:50:27,630 I banged on your door because you people are fucking like monsters over there. 698 00:50:27,670 --> 00:50:28,388 What are you doing? 699 00:50:28,390 --> 00:50:29,390 Are you trying to prove? 700 00:50:29,550 --> 00:50:33,310 Are you trying to win a contest or something? It's incredibly 701 00:50:33,310 --> 00:50:34,310 What are you doing? 702 00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:40,660 My daughter can hear it. Did you know that? She can hear it. And I can tell 703 00:50:40,660 --> 00:50:45,140 moving furniture up there. And she knows it's not true. She's on to me. We spend 704 00:50:45,140 --> 00:50:49,980 so much time and energy talking about your fucking orgasms. 705 00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:56,900 You talk about my orgasms? Yes, but not in the bad thing. They're not bad. 706 00:50:56,980 --> 00:50:58,040 They're great. I love them. 707 00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:01,480 You love my orgasms? 708 00:51:01,700 --> 00:51:02,678 I do. 709 00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:05,760 I love them. She really does. I do. I love them. They're amazing. 710 00:51:06,260 --> 00:51:09,680 She especially likes the growl. Are you the growl, Dina? Because she loves the 711 00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:12,360 growl. No, no. No, penis is not a growl. 712 00:51:13,580 --> 00:51:14,580 Oh, really? 713 00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:16,560 You're the growl? 714 00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:18,120 No. 715 00:51:19,180 --> 00:51:20,180 It's Vanessa. 716 00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:23,000 Vanessa is the growler. 717 00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:24,800 Vanessa? 718 00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:28,680 Vanessa is... Wait, who is Vanessa? 719 00:51:29,060 --> 00:51:29,859 A friend. 720 00:51:29,860 --> 00:51:31,780 Oh, yeah. Guy's a pretty big guy. 721 00:51:32,380 --> 00:51:37,180 And he does breathe heavily. That could be what you're calling animalistic 722 00:51:37,180 --> 00:51:39,000 noises. Kai. 723 00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:40,880 Kai. Who's Kai? 724 00:51:41,180 --> 00:51:43,060 I'm another friend. Oh, Kai's another friend. 725 00:51:43,540 --> 00:51:48,820 Vanessa and Kai. Vanessa lives in Nevada City with Kai. Are you talking with us 726 00:51:48,820 --> 00:51:49,638 right now? 727 00:51:49,640 --> 00:51:52,520 Are you whispering to each other? 728 00:51:52,820 --> 00:51:58,960 No, we know you are upset, and you have every right to be. We've had... 729 00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:02,400 A few parties. Things have gotten a little more crazy. 730 00:52:02,720 --> 00:52:03,720 Out of hand. 731 00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:06,520 Parties. Like cocktail parties. 732 00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:09,120 Or sex parties. 733 00:52:09,400 --> 00:52:10,480 Sex parties. Oh. 734 00:52:10,860 --> 00:52:11,940 Sex parties. 735 00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:15,400 Right. That's like a... Parties where people... That's sex. 736 00:52:15,680 --> 00:52:16,680 Sex. Sex. 737 00:52:17,140 --> 00:52:20,300 I think that's a common language. 738 00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:22,060 Yeah. Definitely. 739 00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:23,340 Yeah. Honestly, 740 00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:25,220 I can't think of another one. 741 00:52:25,700 --> 00:52:27,340 And we approach. 742 00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:29,480 No. What? No. You don't have to. 743 00:52:29,950 --> 00:52:32,550 That's not, no, we're not judging. 744 00:52:32,830 --> 00:52:35,150 That's, you don't, so where's that J? 745 00:52:35,850 --> 00:52:36,649 That J? 746 00:52:36,650 --> 00:52:40,790 The J you were, did you, did you leave that in there? The J, I, it is in my 747 00:52:40,790 --> 00:52:43,430 room. You want me to, okay, I'll help you. Yeah, why don't you call me to, to 748 00:52:43,430 --> 00:52:45,590 get the, to get the J, yeah. 749 00:52:48,230 --> 00:52:49,230 Okay. 750 00:52:52,770 --> 00:52:57,250 I sat the parties up there, I was right, that wasn't normal sex. 751 00:53:13,589 --> 00:53:14,589 Hello. 752 00:53:15,570 --> 00:53:16,549 We good? 753 00:53:16,550 --> 00:53:17,550 Yes! 754 00:53:18,830 --> 00:53:22,510 Yeah, the sex party. Really? Paint a picture. Disclose what you will. 755 00:53:22,870 --> 00:53:28,750 They started recently. 756 00:53:29,170 --> 00:53:31,610 Oh, it's a recent development. 757 00:53:32,210 --> 00:53:37,350 The noise uptick probably came because once we started bringing people in, our 758 00:53:37,350 --> 00:53:40,410 bedroom was too small, so we moved into the living room. Overflow. 759 00:53:40,610 --> 00:53:43,750 I got it. That's why the sound kind of reverberates through the apartment. 760 00:53:47,610 --> 00:53:48,730 furniture okay 761 00:53:48,730 --> 00:54:01,230 wait 762 00:54:01,230 --> 00:54:07,710 more so how how does it work like how do you get invited or do you invite people 763 00:54:07,710 --> 00:54:11,270 and are there maybe there's no rules are there parameters and can can anyone do 764 00:54:11,270 --> 00:54:17,880 anything to anyone for starters you've got to have content oh yeah right now 765 00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:23,300 and the connection has to be about joy about expansion it can never be about 766 00:54:23,300 --> 00:54:30,140 anger and patience because you know some people they gotta 767 00:54:30,140 --> 00:54:36,600 find their own entry point entry point yeah yeah they take it back yeah 768 00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:41,200 what's the water looks like i've always been very curious 769 00:54:42,540 --> 00:54:48,140 For me, the pleasure I get from being with a woman is your friend. 770 00:54:48,340 --> 00:54:49,340 Yeah. 771 00:54:50,140 --> 00:54:51,140 Me too. 772 00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:52,160 Hi, 773 00:54:52,620 --> 00:54:53,620 I'm... Valerie. 774 00:54:53,820 --> 00:54:54,820 Vanessa. Vanessa. 775 00:54:55,240 --> 00:54:59,780 Were you guys friends or did you meet on an app? We're pretty negative on the 776 00:54:59,780 --> 00:55:01,200 app. Really? Interesting. 777 00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:03,560 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 778 00:55:03,940 --> 00:55:08,580 Yeah, it's impersonal. Yeah. We like to meet in person. 779 00:55:08,980 --> 00:55:10,200 Like, hi to hi. 780 00:55:11,070 --> 00:55:16,650 like organic real connection no and there are conventions oh yes yes that's 781 00:55:16,650 --> 00:55:20,690 because you do you need rules you need you need some boundaries no no i mean 782 00:55:20,690 --> 00:55:26,890 there are actual conventions oh wow yes conventions are great 783 00:55:26,890 --> 00:55:33,820 they also offer you a menu oh a menu a menu that's good i 784 00:55:33,820 --> 00:55:40,560 like it's organized i like it so when you engage with someone you already know 785 00:55:40,560 --> 00:55:44,680 what they want they have already sent their preferences in that box it's like 786 00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:51,680 below the preference yeah it's not speaking our language yeah we get 787 00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:57,780 it now i think maybe the best thing about group sex is it forces 788 00:55:58,840 --> 00:56:00,260 Total clarity of communication. 789 00:56:00,660 --> 00:56:02,040 Not the best thing I wouldn't imagine. 790 00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:04,600 Probably better, yeah. 791 00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:08,020 What happens if no one picks you? 792 00:56:08,300 --> 00:56:09,178 Oh, yeah. 793 00:56:09,180 --> 00:56:12,340 Like Kim Clash, you get chosen last year. You're going on the corner or 794 00:56:12,340 --> 00:56:13,500 something. No. 795 00:56:16,060 --> 00:56:17,340 You would be chosen. 796 00:56:17,580 --> 00:56:18,580 Yeah. 797 00:56:18,860 --> 00:56:21,800 How does that work? No one gets excluded. 798 00:56:22,140 --> 00:56:23,140 Obviously, 799 00:56:23,820 --> 00:56:25,820 anyone's free to watch. 800 00:56:26,330 --> 00:56:27,910 I don't want to say this. 801 00:56:29,590 --> 00:56:34,330 Jealousy. You don't get jealous? There's no jealousy. I think jealousy is a 802 00:56:34,330 --> 00:56:38,530 natural animalistic instinct, but you have to replace it. We practice 803 00:56:38,530 --> 00:56:41,070 compersion. Compersion. Compersion. 804 00:56:42,170 --> 00:56:43,170 Compersion. 805 00:56:43,810 --> 00:56:47,850 Compersion is all about finding joy in the joy of others. 806 00:56:48,170 --> 00:56:53,170 Well, that would be... Harder after that. And for me, there's nothing 807 00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:56,380 than watching my partner in the hands of another. 808 00:56:56,700 --> 00:56:57,700 Wow. 809 00:56:58,600 --> 00:56:59,600 Beautiful. 810 00:56:59,900 --> 00:57:00,900 Oh, God. 811 00:57:01,980 --> 00:57:02,980 That's nice. 812 00:57:03,540 --> 00:57:04,540 Super nice. 813 00:57:04,720 --> 00:57:06,040 Wow. So healthy. 814 00:57:06,340 --> 00:57:08,320 Very. Yes, I can't help you just seeing it. 815 00:57:09,620 --> 00:57:14,300 You know, I love that it's you and your friends. It's like the four of you get 816 00:57:14,300 --> 00:57:16,200 together. Four is such a good number. 817 00:57:16,620 --> 00:57:17,620 Yes. Wow. 818 00:57:18,380 --> 00:57:20,580 Sometimes. No more than six. 819 00:57:20,820 --> 00:57:24,570 Six. Six people? Six is a lot. That's why it's so loud up there. 820 00:57:26,570 --> 00:57:32,050 So, figure last weekend. That doesn't count because it was a special occasion. 821 00:57:32,410 --> 00:57:33,410 It was Vanessa's birthday. 822 00:57:33,670 --> 00:57:37,050 Wow. Well, a birthday's a birthday. Yeah, gotta celebrate the good things in 823 00:57:37,050 --> 00:57:41,210 life, I guess, right? Yeah, and she wanted to have ten people, so. Ten 824 00:57:41,230 --> 00:57:43,470 Are you fucking kidding? Ten. Holy shit. 825 00:57:43,710 --> 00:57:44,910 Oh, my God. 826 00:57:45,290 --> 00:57:46,970 Ten? We rented a house in Bolivia. 827 00:57:47,290 --> 00:57:49,410 Really nice. Very lovely, yeah. 828 00:57:49,710 --> 00:57:50,850 Yeah, we were so energized. 829 00:57:51,370 --> 00:57:57,730 you don't feel superhuman hi it wasn't for me the best it was the best 830 00:57:57,730 --> 00:58:04,430 experience that we've had it really was god that sounds to be great yeah 831 00:58:04,430 --> 00:58:09,450 she's just like i'm imagining just like a like a ball of youthful energy she's 832 00:58:09,450 --> 00:58:14,170 just like young no vanessa's very mature she's old no i wouldn't say she's 833 00:58:14,170 --> 00:58:20,900 really old i don't know an older Next time you're in there, count the rings. 834 00:58:22,780 --> 00:58:26,320 She's the most experienced person in the hour. An oldie but a goodie. 835 00:58:26,680 --> 00:58:28,560 I know so much from that woman. 836 00:58:28,980 --> 00:58:33,200 She knows everything about the depth of contraception. Oh. 837 00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:34,820 Not jizzing. Wow. 838 00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:37,260 Like a thing. She got me to hold up my cheek. 839 00:58:37,500 --> 00:58:39,140 Wow. She pushed us into anal. 840 00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:40,600 She pushed you into anal? 841 00:58:41,020 --> 00:58:43,500 Not for everybody, but... 842 00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:44,760 What's the question, gentlemen? 843 00:58:45,900 --> 00:58:52,860 But I love 844 00:58:52,860 --> 00:58:53,860 TV. 845 00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:59,360 And I don't want to speak for him, but he loves receiving it. 846 00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:02,520 I actually really do. I get a lot of value out of it. 847 00:59:04,320 --> 00:59:05,279 That's podcast. 848 00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:06,280 That's what that is, right? 849 00:59:06,580 --> 00:59:08,200 You wear a dress. 850 00:59:08,780 --> 00:59:09,499 Oh, wow. 851 00:59:09,500 --> 00:59:12,100 Cool. Vanessa, I can't help doing it. 852 00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:14,800 Wow. But it's not really about penetration. 853 00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:16,240 I mean, it is a little bit. 854 00:59:16,340 --> 00:59:18,500 No, it's not really about surrender. 855 00:59:19,180 --> 00:59:22,500 Yeah, you just gotta surrender that body. Yeah, surrender that body. 856 00:59:23,300 --> 00:59:26,940 Sex is not a thing you do. It's a place you go. 857 00:59:27,420 --> 00:59:28,420 It's a big hospital. 858 00:59:30,320 --> 00:59:35,960 And the menu thing is cool because anyone who has a fantasy can just order. 859 00:59:35,960 --> 00:59:40,720 menu is amazing. You've got bondage, you've got role -playing, you've got... 860 00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:42,780 Pass. PP. 861 00:59:48,640 --> 00:59:49,720 I don't do that. 862 00:59:49,940 --> 00:59:51,360 No, we don't. 863 00:59:52,600 --> 00:59:56,000 Porn tropes don't tend to be our group's thing, but it is on the menu. Don't 864 00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:56,959 want to be tropey. 865 00:59:56,960 --> 00:59:57,960 It's on the menu. 866 00:59:58,840 --> 00:59:59,840 It's on the menu. 867 01:00:00,140 --> 01:00:03,560 I'm just saying. I don't have to judge it. It's something that some people 868 01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:04,560 have on there. I'm just saying. 869 01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:05,919 Double penetration. 870 01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,480 Double penetration. You were listing other stuff. Hey, you're a fireman who 871 01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:09,480 likes to be pegged, so. 872 01:00:10,040 --> 01:00:11,140 Firefighter. Firefighter. 873 01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:12,800 To be fair. 874 01:00:13,910 --> 01:00:15,530 Fair point. Fair point. Yeah. 875 01:00:16,490 --> 01:00:17,490 Honestly, 876 01:00:17,890 --> 01:00:22,610 like, this is not how I was expecting this to go. 877 01:00:22,830 --> 01:00:29,570 And I honestly feel like I'm much more incited to what the fuck is going on out 878 01:00:29,570 --> 01:00:33,450 there. And I feel better about it because it's not, you know, you're 879 01:00:33,450 --> 01:00:34,379 mill, Mary. 880 01:00:34,380 --> 01:00:38,880 people's things, I guess. It is something exceptional happening above 881 01:00:38,940 --> 01:00:44,240 And thank you for telling us. And I guess, ultimately, just, you know, maybe 882 01:00:44,240 --> 01:00:48,240 to keep it down. If you have another big birthday or holiday, Arbor Day, maybe 883 01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:51,600 go to Bowling Nest again. We want to get an ear for your healing. 884 01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:56,600 Thank you. Thank you for being so understanding and accepting and so warm. 885 01:00:56,780 --> 01:00:57,800 we are accepting. 886 01:00:58,060 --> 01:00:59,360 Oh, my new friend. 887 01:00:59,740 --> 01:01:01,040 Thank you. 888 01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:10,820 This is so lovely. I know we haven't hung out a lot, but you guys seem cool 889 01:01:10,820 --> 01:01:12,880 progressive. We are, yeah. I mean, I'm an independent. 890 01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:16,400 I don't like being obvious. 891 01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:22,520 No, we weren't there a single time. We don't start at all. Yeah, exactly. 892 01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:26,760 You said when you stopped fighting, you were really funny. We are. 893 01:01:31,880 --> 01:01:37,060 I wasn't sure. Oh, yeah. I'm getting to hang out now. I don't know. I really 894 01:01:37,060 --> 01:01:40,200 appreciate it. How do you know she was so cool? What? Because I'm cool. Oh, 895 01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:41,200 yeah. I'm cool. 896 01:01:41,920 --> 01:01:44,580 I know windows. 897 01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:49,960 Gina knows I'm cool. The what? The window thing? I don't know. What window 898 01:01:49,960 --> 01:01:53,360 thing? No. What window thing? What window thing are you talking about? 899 01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:56,160 Angela likes to be looked at naked. 900 01:01:57,200 --> 01:01:58,800 In the window sometimes. 901 01:02:01,520 --> 01:02:02,960 You forget it, do you? 902 01:02:03,220 --> 01:02:04,620 No, not in person. 903 01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:10,280 In person, she likes to walk around through the window. 904 01:02:10,840 --> 01:02:11,980 Through the window. 905 01:02:12,940 --> 01:02:14,340 It's a little... 906 01:02:34,009 --> 01:02:35,150 What are you talking about? 907 01:02:35,390 --> 01:02:36,690 Tell me what are you talking about? 908 01:02:36,990 --> 01:02:39,930 That might have happened once by accident. 909 01:02:40,150 --> 01:02:41,150 I mean, 910 01:02:41,710 --> 01:02:43,250 it happened more than once. 911 01:02:43,650 --> 01:02:45,530 Word on the street is it was more than once. 912 01:02:47,210 --> 01:02:49,990 Why do I feel like everyone knows something here except for me? 913 01:02:51,710 --> 01:02:54,650 Are we going to come here and explain what the fuck is going on, please? 914 01:02:57,000 --> 01:02:58,000 You want me to explain? 915 01:02:58,100 --> 01:02:59,800 I will explain myself. 916 01:03:00,180 --> 01:03:06,440 The first time I was coming out of the shower, I was nude, and I was on my way 917 01:03:06,440 --> 01:03:11,960 to the living room, and I looked up, and he saw me, and I saw him seeing me, and 918 01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:18,110 then I kept... going that is exactly what happened after i shower i walk past 919 01:03:18,110 --> 01:03:22,650 knowing that he might be watching me that's right ritual that 920 01:03:22,650 --> 01:03:29,170 i actually enjoy because it makes me feel good because i do in fact 921 01:03:29,170 --> 01:03:33,330 like to be looked at naked joe is that okay is there a problem okay why would 922 01:03:33,330 --> 01:03:40,230 that be okay i've never made eye contact never once what does that have to do 923 01:03:40,230 --> 01:03:41,230 with anything 924 01:03:41,310 --> 01:03:42,530 It's a huge deal. 925 01:03:42,750 --> 01:03:45,210 No, it isn't. I don't care about that at all. 926 01:03:45,550 --> 01:03:49,430 Do you even care? Are you barely looking at me? I don't even understand why 927 01:03:49,430 --> 01:03:53,890 you're a vet. So this is somehow my fault. That's fucking crazy. 928 01:03:54,190 --> 01:03:57,610 That's why you don't put blinds on the window so the fireman can see your 929 01:03:57,610 --> 01:03:58,610 fucking... 930 01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:07,560 This is not fucked. Please enlighten me. This isn't fucked. I think what she's 931 01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:09,400 doing is great. It's actually very helpful. 932 01:04:09,640 --> 01:04:10,578 For whom? 933 01:04:10,580 --> 01:04:11,158 For her. 934 01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:12,440 And for our women. 935 01:04:13,040 --> 01:04:16,820 You know how many women let go of their erotic aspirations for good? 936 01:04:17,300 --> 01:04:20,560 You know how difficult it is what she's doing that she's trying to connect with 937 01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:24,220 that part that she has lost? Good for you. Thank you. Bravo. Great work. Thank 938 01:04:24,220 --> 01:04:27,560 you, Joe. It is important. You're going to fucking Pulitzer for this shit. It is 939 01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:32,280 important. Yeah? Yeah. What do we all want? Be honest. To desire. To be 940 01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:38,260 Maybe that's why you look at my boobs in the elevator every time I see you. Oh, 941 01:04:38,260 --> 01:04:44,060 really? Joe looks at your boobs in the elevator. I'm so sorry. Really, Joe? 942 01:04:44,540 --> 01:04:48,620 Wow. He thinks I don't notice, but I do. It's like a little game we have, right? 943 01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:52,740 Such a fucking hypocrite. I don't, I don't. They're out there sometimes. I'm 944 01:04:52,740 --> 01:04:59,400 sorry. When you look at my boobs, do they seem, my boobs, 945 01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:02,280 do they seem out of reach to you? 946 01:05:02,680 --> 01:05:08,060 No, it's a small elevator. I think... Do you feel 947 01:05:08,060 --> 01:05:13,120 worthy of desiring them? 948 01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:17,720 I've never thought about that for one fucking second! 949 01:05:18,140 --> 01:05:19,220 Do me a favor. 950 01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:21,320 Please look at my book right now. 951 01:05:22,100 --> 01:05:24,080 Look at them. Look at them. 952 01:05:25,520 --> 01:05:26,520 Look at them. 953 01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:29,720 I don't want to look at them right now. Don't be rude. Look, it's fine. 954 01:05:30,780 --> 01:05:34,840 Don't be rude. Look at them. I don't want to look at them. Why are you 955 01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:36,200 up on me, for God's sake? 956 01:05:36,460 --> 01:05:40,680 Look, I'm not a sicko like you. I don't need to look at another man's wife's 957 01:05:40,680 --> 01:05:44,360 fucking tits and jerk off to, okay? I'm normal. Who's doing that? 958 01:05:44,580 --> 01:05:45,580 You're doing that. Who? 959 01:05:45,760 --> 01:05:47,900 You. When? Every morning, apparently. 960 01:05:48,160 --> 01:05:49,160 What? No. 961 01:05:49,360 --> 01:05:54,740 I make love to Pina. I tell her about Angela when I see her. 962 01:05:55,400 --> 01:05:56,400 See what? 963 01:05:56,560 --> 01:06:02,580 Are you going to talk about me when you're... 964 01:06:02,580 --> 01:06:04,780 Yes, my love, of course we do. 965 01:06:06,460 --> 01:06:07,460 Really? 966 01:06:09,540 --> 01:06:10,540 I love you. 967 01:06:11,120 --> 01:06:14,180 Wow. I see what's happening right now. What? 968 01:06:14,720 --> 01:06:16,000 This whole thing was a setup. 969 01:06:17,100 --> 01:06:18,380 What the fuck are you talking about? 970 01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:21,000 What 971 01:06:21,000 --> 01:06:28,620 the 972 01:06:28,620 --> 01:06:35,140 fuck are you talking about? 973 01:06:45,380 --> 01:06:46,380 Joe. What? 974 01:06:47,120 --> 01:06:49,300 What has been happening? No, then what? 975 01:06:49,540 --> 01:06:53,180 No, of course not. Did we ever talk to Angela about this? Never. Never? No. 976 01:06:53,740 --> 01:07:00,400 I mean, it is sort of why we came down here, but... 977 01:07:00,400 --> 01:07:04,500 Don't speak Spanish. 978 01:07:07,080 --> 01:07:09,860 Don't speak Spanish! 979 01:07:11,160 --> 01:07:13,200 Okay, okay, okay. 980 01:07:15,300 --> 01:07:21,640 Joe, Angela, we did come down here tonight to invite you. 981 01:07:22,900 --> 01:07:24,920 Invite us to join us. 982 01:07:26,420 --> 01:07:27,420 Join you. 983 01:07:28,020 --> 01:07:29,560 For sex. Sex. 984 01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:32,420 Sex. For group sex. 985 01:07:33,300 --> 01:07:34,420 What else? 986 01:07:35,760 --> 01:07:37,040 Us. Me. 987 01:07:37,660 --> 01:07:39,720 Me? Both of you. 988 01:07:40,680 --> 01:07:41,780 Both of who? 989 01:07:42,100 --> 01:07:43,100 Both of you. 990 01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:44,480 Including me? 991 01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:56,340 We've been talking about this for quite a while, actually. 992 01:07:57,520 --> 01:08:04,400 We were getting 993 01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:07,340 signals, you know, in the window, in the elevator. 994 01:08:07,800 --> 01:08:11,880 They seemed to be very warm signals, signals we liked. 995 01:08:13,470 --> 01:08:15,210 That's what this has been about. 996 01:08:15,870 --> 01:08:19,729 Okay? That is so nice. Thank you. 997 01:08:20,450 --> 01:08:23,229 Say thank you, Joe. Thank you. Very fun. 998 01:08:24,090 --> 01:08:25,810 I feel very complimented. 999 01:08:26,050 --> 01:08:29,310 We find you very, very attractive. 1000 01:08:30,770 --> 01:08:33,910 Thank you. We talk about you. 1001 01:08:34,330 --> 01:08:35,330 I know. 1002 01:08:36,170 --> 01:08:38,149 We talk about my orgasms. 1003 01:08:38,850 --> 01:08:39,850 A lot. 1004 01:08:41,479 --> 01:08:42,479 They really do. 1005 01:08:43,200 --> 01:08:44,200 Okay. 1006 01:08:44,920 --> 01:08:48,660 Before we came down, we said you guys have a real quiet sex appeal. 1007 01:08:49,540 --> 01:08:53,380 So do you two, too, as well. I wouldn't say it was quiet. No. 1008 01:08:56,660 --> 01:09:01,120 So, we want to propose to you that we share a sexual experience together. 1009 01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:02,920 Okay? 1010 01:09:06,100 --> 01:09:08,240 You, you, her. 1011 01:09:09,420 --> 01:09:12,640 And me. Yes. Me too. Yes, also you. Okay. 1012 01:09:13,540 --> 01:09:17,340 But it doesn't have to be tonight, okay? 1013 01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:21,420 Okay. No pressure. Right. But it definitely could be. Could be tonight. 1014 01:09:21,859 --> 01:09:24,060 I brought condoms. Oh, condoms. 1015 01:09:25,220 --> 01:09:26,640 It's like it's pre -9 -11. 1016 01:09:30,209 --> 01:09:31,250 I mean, 1017 01:09:44,050 --> 01:09:50,830 that's what we were talking about. Just like to recap really 1018 01:09:50,830 --> 01:09:55,090 quick, just specifically, how would this work? 1019 01:09:56,430 --> 01:09:57,630 We can all be together. 1020 01:09:58,640 --> 01:09:59,660 We can watch you. 1021 01:10:02,980 --> 01:10:03,700 Like 1022 01:10:03,700 --> 01:10:12,520 a 1023 01:10:12,520 --> 01:10:13,520 referee. 1024 01:10:20,040 --> 01:10:22,100 I think I went hot on this one. I think it's hot. 1025 01:10:24,140 --> 01:10:26,160 It's whatever we want. Whenever. 1026 01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:30,620 Consider it an open invite. 1027 01:10:31,440 --> 01:10:36,760 But tonight, again, tonight is on the table. 1028 01:10:37,700 --> 01:10:38,700 Okay. 1029 01:10:39,140 --> 01:10:40,940 Weekends are tough because of Maggie. 1030 01:10:41,240 --> 01:10:43,980 Weekends are also tough. I'm actually training for a half -month. 1031 01:10:48,390 --> 01:10:51,650 You've got to overthink everything. You're overthinking this as well. If 1032 01:10:51,650 --> 01:10:54,290 not brave enough to get into schedule, you've literally offered to do this. I'm 1033 01:10:54,290 --> 01:10:54,889 not afraid. 1034 01:10:54,890 --> 01:10:56,290 I'll do this. 1035 01:10:56,890 --> 01:10:59,910 I'll fuck right now. I'll fuck you guys right now. 1036 01:11:02,410 --> 01:11:05,190 I'm getting worried. 1037 01:11:05,650 --> 01:11:11,610 Why? Yeah, because... I'll call me if I am. 1038 01:11:14,070 --> 01:11:17,090 We cannot do this from an angry place. 1039 01:11:17,350 --> 01:11:20,210 Oh, no, no. I'm not angry. I'm actually not angry. This is me happy. 1040 01:11:20,610 --> 01:11:21,970 I haven't seen it yet. 1041 01:11:22,490 --> 01:11:26,250 I don't think you guys have. No, we're there. We're there. I can't speak for 1042 01:11:26,250 --> 01:11:27,188 them, but I'm personally very good. 1043 01:11:27,190 --> 01:11:30,710 I feel very good about this. I feel there. I would actually do this. 1044 01:11:30,930 --> 01:11:32,090 You would actually do this? 1045 01:11:32,830 --> 01:11:35,170 I would do this. We would do this. I think we would do this. 1046 01:11:35,730 --> 01:11:37,470 If this connection is not. 1047 01:11:37,900 --> 01:11:42,600 Coming from a healthy place. Very healthy. We are in need of an expansion. 1048 01:11:43,020 --> 01:11:48,160 I think we'll be very healthy for a very long time. That's a good reason. That 1049 01:11:48,160 --> 01:11:49,880 is a good reason. Everyone's a little fun. 1050 01:11:50,240 --> 01:11:51,880 Yeah. Feeling good, feeling good. 1051 01:11:52,360 --> 01:11:55,760 Yeah, we haven't eaten too much. Right. Yeah, 1052 01:11:56,740 --> 01:12:00,920 Maggie's not home. I'm sorry, I just mean it's like a good time because it's 1053 01:12:00,920 --> 01:12:01,639 free time. 1054 01:12:01,640 --> 01:12:06,780 It's a good time for us. I'd say there's no time like a horror. Yeah. 1055 01:12:07,280 --> 01:12:07,760 I 1056 01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:18,260 don't 1057 01:12:18,260 --> 01:12:20,260 think this is the night for all of us together. 1058 01:12:20,780 --> 01:12:21,780 Right. 1059 01:12:23,360 --> 01:12:27,440 But we could try to connect separately. 1060 01:12:28,260 --> 01:12:29,260 Oh. 1061 01:12:29,700 --> 01:12:31,560 Yeah. All right. 1062 01:12:32,600 --> 01:12:33,600 Okay. 1063 01:12:34,430 --> 01:12:37,790 Yes. How would you feel about spending a little bit of time alone? 1064 01:12:40,930 --> 01:12:42,030 Would you feel awful? 1065 01:12:43,210 --> 01:12:46,890 You'd feel good about it. You'd feel okay about it. Then I would also feel 1066 01:12:46,890 --> 01:12:51,110 about that as a plan of action I would be willing to proceed with. 1067 01:12:51,830 --> 01:12:52,830 As well. 1068 01:12:54,970 --> 01:12:58,690 That's also fair. Yes, I do. Yes, that. 1069 01:12:59,010 --> 01:13:00,250 Yes. Okay. 1070 01:13:03,650 --> 01:13:10,550 I'm going to separate, but they'll be together, so I'm 1071 01:13:10,550 --> 01:13:11,770 positive. 1072 01:13:13,090 --> 01:13:15,310 So, any reservations? 1073 01:13:16,050 --> 01:13:20,610 I would maybe prefer not to have pegging performed on my body. 1074 01:13:22,190 --> 01:13:28,330 Your bedroom? 1075 01:13:28,670 --> 01:13:30,130 No. Not our bedroom. No. 1076 01:13:30,960 --> 01:13:34,720 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, 1077 01:13:34,780 --> 01:13:35,800 no, no, 1078 01:13:36,900 --> 01:13:49,060 no. 1079 01:14:00,620 --> 01:14:01,620 Oh, hello. 1080 01:15:00,470 --> 01:15:01,490 That's better, right? 1081 01:15:51,560 --> 01:15:54,360 Fuck me. 1082 01:16:32,720 --> 01:16:34,120 Sorry, 1083 01:16:35,280 --> 01:16:36,400 sorry. 1084 01:17:03,400 --> 01:17:07,500 Do you actually look in the mirror and not know how sexy you are? No. 1085 01:17:08,640 --> 01:17:09,640 No. 1086 01:17:10,120 --> 01:17:11,120 No. 1087 01:17:11,580 --> 01:17:16,460 You can't do that out of touch with your face. Are you? No, I'm a stupid fucking 1088 01:17:16,460 --> 01:17:17,460 cunt. 1089 01:17:18,700 --> 01:17:22,880 No, that's not my inner monologue. That's just the way I speak to myself. 1090 01:17:22,880 --> 01:17:25,220 the voice of my head. It's not, no, it's good. 1091 01:17:25,440 --> 01:17:26,440 Good. 1092 01:17:31,950 --> 01:17:36,190 Thank you so much for this. Thank you for 1093 01:17:36,190 --> 01:17:39,150 this. 1094 01:18:05,219 --> 01:18:07,740 The menu would culminate. 1095 01:18:08,000 --> 01:18:13,760 I think the, um, I think one would, what, you say. 1096 01:18:14,560 --> 01:18:15,560 You say. 1097 01:18:16,680 --> 01:18:17,680 You say. 1098 01:19:15,020 --> 01:19:16,180 Okay, they both include. 1099 01:19:48,780 --> 01:19:50,300 That's not bad. That's not bad. 1100 01:19:50,880 --> 01:19:53,480 He's fine. No, no, no. He's fine. He's fine. 1101 01:19:53,960 --> 01:19:55,740 He's fine. He's fine. He's fine. Hey, look. 1102 01:19:56,040 --> 01:19:57,320 I really think he's okay. 1103 01:19:57,800 --> 01:19:59,080 I think he's... Yeah, he's just fine. 1104 01:19:59,480 --> 01:20:00,419 No, 1105 01:20:00,420 --> 01:20:02,040 I just want to go in the head. 1106 01:20:02,760 --> 01:20:04,660 Paul! Are you listening to me? What happened? 1107 01:20:05,060 --> 01:20:09,140 He fell. He hurt his back. What happened? 1108 01:20:09,440 --> 01:20:11,320 He hurt his back. He hurt his back. 1109 01:20:12,060 --> 01:20:16,340 Yes, we're back. We're back. Don't touch me. Go away. Get away from me. Just 1110 01:20:16,340 --> 01:20:17,360 fucking leave me. 1111 01:20:17,580 --> 01:20:18,580 Go. 1112 01:20:37,580 --> 01:20:40,460 Please don't do this, whatever you're gonna do, don't do it. 1113 01:20:41,000 --> 01:20:42,200 Oh god, don't do this. 1114 01:20:42,780 --> 01:20:43,780 Please don't do this. 1115 01:20:44,540 --> 01:20:45,540 Oh god. 1116 01:21:03,430 --> 01:21:05,670 Embarrassing. We are so fucking embarrassing. 1117 01:21:05,910 --> 01:21:09,790 I can't believe it. Of course it's your fucking back. Our entire life is about 1118 01:21:09,790 --> 01:21:12,370 your fucking back. Just constant fucking complaining. What are you talking 1119 01:21:12,370 --> 01:21:17,350 about? Sorry, my back is an inconvenience to you having a fucking 1120 01:21:17,350 --> 01:21:20,370 actually is, if you want to know. And I'm not allowed to complain about it. 1121 01:21:20,370 --> 01:21:22,090 not allowed to say a fucking thing about it, ever. 1122 01:21:22,350 --> 01:21:24,250 Well, you're talking about it right now, so congratulations. 1123 01:21:24,990 --> 01:21:27,330 Oh, no. Is it bad? Yes, it's bad. 1124 01:21:27,770 --> 01:21:28,770 Look at me. 1125 01:21:29,030 --> 01:21:31,930 Do not ask me about things. I don't know about your back. 1126 01:21:32,330 --> 01:21:35,710 I think it actually is very much about my back because it's my back pain. 1127 01:21:36,010 --> 01:21:42,930 Your back pain is about everything that you 1128 01:21:42,930 --> 01:21:45,230 don't say, you know? It's your race. 1129 01:21:45,430 --> 01:21:46,730 It's your hunger seeking. 1130 01:21:47,270 --> 01:21:51,910 What are you talking about? Why are you doing this? We were dancing to Chante 30 1131 01:21:51,910 --> 01:21:55,510 seconds ago. We didn't hurt you in there when we were dancing. We were having a 1132 01:21:55,510 --> 01:21:56,750 nice time. I was loose. 1133 01:21:57,090 --> 01:21:58,990 What the fuck are you smiling at? 1134 01:22:00,730 --> 01:22:04,650 feel you man you feel me don't try to connect to me i'm not trying to connect 1135 01:22:04,650 --> 01:22:09,290 okay look i don't want it i've been where you are joe you've been on your 1136 01:22:09,290 --> 01:22:15,730 you're under yeah i've been on the floor angry and in pain and and all of that 1137 01:22:15,730 --> 01:22:21,250 trust me oh my god i don't fucking want you to try to in any way emotionally 1138 01:22:21,250 --> 01:22:26,110 relate to me you fucking pervert we're nothing alike we're nothing alike also 1139 01:22:37,040 --> 01:22:39,040 Come here. What is on your driver's license? 1140 01:22:40,340 --> 01:22:42,360 Howard Wilton Kelly. 1141 01:22:44,920 --> 01:22:45,920 Howard. 1142 01:22:47,440 --> 01:22:48,560 He's Howard. 1143 01:22:49,780 --> 01:22:51,240 Your name is Howard. 1144 01:22:52,700 --> 01:22:56,460 This whole time, it hasn't been Hawk. 1145 01:22:57,080 --> 01:22:58,680 It's been Little Howie. 1146 01:22:59,520 --> 01:23:00,660 Oh, my God. 1147 01:23:01,420 --> 01:23:02,940 That changes everything. 1148 01:23:04,140 --> 01:23:06,380 I didn't know we had a Howard in our midst. 1149 01:23:07,760 --> 01:23:09,160 I would have been so much nicer to you. 1150 01:23:10,000 --> 01:23:11,940 Where did Hawk come from, Howie? 1151 01:23:12,360 --> 01:23:13,580 How'd you land on Hawk? 1152 01:23:14,740 --> 01:23:16,200 The name I gave myself. 1153 01:23:16,460 --> 01:23:18,360 A nickname you gave yourself. 1154 01:23:19,520 --> 01:23:22,960 Literally the lamest words that could have come out of your mouth. 1155 01:23:23,220 --> 01:23:27,540 Oh, my God. Were you biking across the playa burning, man? You saw a fucking 1156 01:23:27,540 --> 01:23:28,640 bird fly by or something? 1157 01:23:29,700 --> 01:23:33,860 No, it's something I did after my wife died. 1158 01:23:37,730 --> 01:23:38,730 Slap. 1159 01:23:39,970 --> 01:23:42,470 Well, you should plead with that next time, I guess. 1160 01:23:43,390 --> 01:23:44,390 She got cancer? 1161 01:23:44,610 --> 01:23:48,610 You don't have to answer his question. Well, I don't have to say anything. 1162 01:23:48,890 --> 01:23:50,550 It's a fair question, you know. 1163 01:23:51,430 --> 01:23:53,350 How does all of this work? 1164 01:23:53,970 --> 01:23:56,270 Well, yeah. 1165 01:23:58,210 --> 01:24:05,110 After she died, I was doing some things that were pretty suicidally 1166 01:24:05,110 --> 01:24:06,150 stupid at work. 1167 01:24:06,920 --> 01:24:09,380 I was going to get some health pills along with me. 1168 01:24:09,800 --> 01:24:13,960 And do you know how, like, people say your life goes before your eyes? 1169 01:24:15,280 --> 01:24:19,260 That happened to me, but not my life. It was our life together. 1170 01:24:21,000 --> 01:24:26,740 It went by me in this high -speed film. And 1171 01:24:26,740 --> 01:24:33,700 I kept seeing this woman that's, like, very gentle, very 1172 01:24:33,700 --> 01:24:34,700 shy. 1173 01:24:35,050 --> 01:24:38,730 sweet girl who, like, she thought I hung the moon. 1174 01:24:41,370 --> 01:24:47,330 And in the film, she hung over again. She tried to 1175 01:24:47,330 --> 01:24:53,090 open up about her fantasy life to me, to, you know, 1176 01:24:53,090 --> 01:24:58,950 share this kind of sensual, inventive side of herself 1177 01:24:58,950 --> 01:25:01,970 so that I would enter into it with her. 1178 01:25:03,820 --> 01:25:07,240 I didn't just, you know, resist it. 1179 01:25:08,400 --> 01:25:14,560 I got really tight and judgmental and insecure, and I made 1180 01:25:14,560 --> 01:25:21,400 her feel so bad about it that somewhere in that movie she just stops 1181 01:25:21,400 --> 01:25:24,600 trying to connect with me at all. 1182 01:25:26,980 --> 01:25:29,320 I suppressed her, you know? 1183 01:25:32,390 --> 01:25:39,310 shut down her attempt to, like, live more boldly. 1184 01:25:41,070 --> 01:25:46,170 For now, you never put me on this one couch and 1185 01:25:46,170 --> 01:25:50,750 told me, you know, you got two choices. 1186 01:25:50,970 --> 01:25:57,390 Go set yourself on fire for real or change who you are and make yourself 1187 01:25:57,390 --> 01:25:58,630 available. 1188 01:26:02,570 --> 01:26:07,550 I decided I really better change my name if I was going to change my life. 1189 01:26:07,770 --> 01:26:08,770 And so I did. 1190 01:26:12,590 --> 01:26:13,590 Well, 1191 01:26:14,030 --> 01:26:19,230 I'm sorry your wife passed away. I'm glad you found a woman who would peg you 1192 01:26:19,230 --> 01:26:21,930 after you didn't let your wife peg you. 1193 01:26:22,210 --> 01:26:25,030 Oh, my God. You have to be sorry. 1194 01:26:25,510 --> 01:26:27,770 That's the moral of that story as far as I'm concerned. Oh, my God. 1195 01:26:28,350 --> 01:26:31,970 My boyfriend shares that very difficult. 1196 01:26:32,540 --> 01:26:37,680 and painful story with you, and you're making fun of him? I'm living a 1197 01:26:37,680 --> 01:26:40,620 and painful story right now, in real life! 1198 01:26:40,860 --> 01:26:43,700 I really didn't expect this from you. It is fucking disappointing. 1199 01:26:44,680 --> 01:26:46,840 No, no, no, no, no, really. Shut up. 1200 01:26:47,540 --> 01:26:49,880 Stop being unrespectful to my boyfriend. 1201 01:26:50,320 --> 01:26:51,320 Don't be disrespectful. 1202 01:26:51,500 --> 01:26:52,500 It's his thing. 1203 01:26:53,780 --> 01:26:54,759 His thing? 1204 01:26:54,760 --> 01:27:00,020 What? No, no. I was just clarifying. Are you going to interrupt? 1205 01:27:00,510 --> 01:27:02,090 Sorry. Correct my English right now? 1206 01:27:02,370 --> 01:27:03,810 No, no more. I was trying to clarify. 1207 01:27:04,050 --> 01:27:09,390 No! You are always interrupting me. Always correcting me. Do you know how 1208 01:27:09,390 --> 01:27:14,010 your Spanish is? And I never tell you, right? What do I do? I help you. I've 1209 01:27:14,010 --> 01:27:15,010 been telling you all night. 1210 01:27:15,090 --> 01:27:18,010 This is not going to work. It's not the night. They're not ready. Look at this 1211 01:27:18,010 --> 01:27:18,849 fucking mess. 1212 01:27:18,850 --> 01:27:19,850 And you keep pushing. 1213 01:27:20,250 --> 01:27:22,170 You keep pushing because you're always pushing. 1214 01:27:22,430 --> 01:27:24,310 And you know why? Because you don't listen. 1215 01:27:24,710 --> 01:27:25,790 Just fucking listen. 1216 01:27:26,130 --> 01:27:27,130 Okay, okay. 1217 01:27:31,250 --> 01:27:33,230 Shut the fuck up. Shut the fuck up. 1218 01:27:33,590 --> 01:27:34,590 Shut the fuck up. 1219 01:27:35,170 --> 01:27:36,870 Shut the fuck up. Shut the fuck up. 1220 01:27:37,270 --> 01:27:38,270 Shut the fuck up. 1221 01:27:38,710 --> 01:27:39,709 Shut the fuck up. 1222 01:27:39,710 --> 01:27:41,110 Shut the fuck up. Shut the fuck up. Shut the fuck up. Shut the fuck up. Shut the 1223 01:27:41,110 --> 01:27:42,110 fuck up. 1224 01:28:16,440 --> 01:28:19,880 We are sorry, okay? We're a fucking disaster. 1225 01:28:20,180 --> 01:28:25,660 We couldn't even pull off an orgy, okay? We are dead inside, so I apologize for 1226 01:28:25,660 --> 01:28:27,280 that. Oh, no, don't worry about that. 1227 01:28:28,140 --> 01:28:30,900 Definitely not that you wanted to fuck this over. 1228 01:28:31,340 --> 01:28:32,740 It just wasn't the right thing. 1229 01:28:33,120 --> 01:28:37,040 But what I don't understand is how you can even have sex with each other. 1230 01:28:37,400 --> 01:28:39,840 You're so mean to each other. 1231 01:28:45,600 --> 01:28:49,100 Because you do have sex with each other, eh? 1232 01:28:54,040 --> 01:28:56,200 When was the last time you two had sex? 1233 01:28:58,629 --> 01:28:59,629 Hello. 1234 01:29:02,170 --> 01:29:03,910 Oh, sorry. I thought you didn't hear. 1235 01:29:05,590 --> 01:29:09,270 Did you say a year? A year? A year ago. 1236 01:29:09,850 --> 01:29:16,170 Oh, my God. No wonder why you are so awkward and horny 1237 01:29:16,170 --> 01:29:17,470 and weird. 1238 01:29:17,810 --> 01:29:20,390 Do you know why you don't want it? 1239 01:29:20,650 --> 01:29:21,750 Because of him. 1240 01:29:22,760 --> 01:29:23,820 It's your fault. What? 1241 01:29:24,420 --> 01:29:27,520 It's not my fault. Of course it's her fault. We don't have sex because she 1242 01:29:27,520 --> 01:29:31,100 have sex with me. That's why. You won't have sex with me. You don't try. She 1243 01:29:31,100 --> 01:29:34,080 says I stop trying because how many times can I try before I'm just 1244 01:29:34,080 --> 01:29:38,600 myself? It's humiliating. I'm being humiliated. Am I not worth just a little 1245 01:29:38,600 --> 01:29:41,360 more effort than that? Do you mean to be trying a little bit harder? How much 1246 01:29:41,360 --> 01:29:45,260 effort do I need to put into having sex with a woman who's supposed to want to 1247 01:29:45,260 --> 01:29:48,240 have sex with me? Why should that take so much effort? 1248 01:29:48,480 --> 01:29:51,440 You're supposed to be attracted to me. You're my wife. 1249 01:29:52,080 --> 01:29:55,900 What are you talking about? You know what? You don't want to do anything, 1250 01:29:55,960 --> 01:30:00,080 So that's where I'm starting, okay? It's not very attractive to be with someone 1251 01:30:00,080 --> 01:30:03,100 who's just fucking miserable. So because you're miserable, then I'm miserable. 1252 01:30:03,260 --> 01:30:06,220 You're miserable, too. So congratulations. I guess we're both 1253 01:30:06,220 --> 01:30:08,300 even, okay? You've nothing to be upset about. 1254 01:30:08,880 --> 01:30:11,200 Angela, would you fuck yourself? 1255 01:30:12,440 --> 01:30:13,440 Me? 1256 01:30:13,780 --> 01:30:15,240 Would you fuck yourself? 1257 01:30:18,720 --> 01:30:20,120 Would you? 1258 01:30:20,500 --> 01:30:21,500 Fuck yourself. 1259 01:30:21,600 --> 01:30:22,660 All I do is fuck myself. 1260 01:30:23,780 --> 01:30:25,640 I'm the only person who fucks me, currently. 1261 01:30:25,940 --> 01:30:26,940 So, yes. 1262 01:30:30,240 --> 01:30:32,860 Do you remember a time when you were multiple? 1263 01:30:34,680 --> 01:30:35,680 What's the difference? 1264 01:30:37,460 --> 01:30:38,460 Yeah, I do. 1265 01:30:43,440 --> 01:30:44,740 How did it turn out? 1266 01:30:51,600 --> 01:30:58,460 i'll tell you um i 1267 01:30:58,460 --> 01:31:05,260 was on a very bad date at this dive bar where joe was 1268 01:31:05,260 --> 01:31:11,800 playing with his band and he was flirting with me the 1269 01:31:11,800 --> 01:31:17,820 entire show from the stage was making me laugh and so i made my date drop me off 1270 01:31:18,240 --> 01:31:23,040 and i sprinted back to the bar so i could see if i could catch joe and i i 1271 01:31:23,040 --> 01:31:29,760 but i don't think you ever realized that i ran 11 blocks that night did you know 1272 01:31:29,760 --> 01:31:30,760 that 1273 01:31:47,310 --> 01:31:52,030 And we had sex all the time. We actually had great sex. It was great. It was 1274 01:31:52,030 --> 01:31:53,030 really fun. 1275 01:31:53,130 --> 01:31:54,210 We were best friends. 1276 01:32:01,070 --> 01:32:03,350 And then we decided to be miserable. 1277 01:32:06,370 --> 01:32:07,850 Are you kidding me right now? 1278 01:32:09,230 --> 01:32:10,630 Are you fucking for real? 1279 01:32:11,470 --> 01:32:13,450 I decided to be so miserable? 1280 01:32:16,270 --> 01:32:18,130 Do you actually not understand how I feel? 1281 01:32:19,630 --> 01:32:21,550 At all? Do you not get it? 1282 01:32:24,030 --> 01:32:29,090 I was bullied, and I was in all the wrong departments. 1283 01:32:30,810 --> 01:32:33,250 Millions of teachers at a bad school. 1284 01:32:34,330 --> 01:32:40,230 But I don't know a little bit about it at all. And nothing is going to change 1285 01:32:40,230 --> 01:32:43,410 anytime soon. So this is my life. So I'm just a fool. 1286 01:32:43,890 --> 01:32:45,670 Yes. Why can't you just let me be miserable? 1287 01:32:45,910 --> 01:32:49,150 Why can't you just accept that I am not happy? 1288 01:32:49,370 --> 01:32:51,270 And just let me be not happy. 1289 01:32:52,730 --> 01:32:58,970 I'm sorry that your band didn't work out, Joe. I'm really sorry. You still 1290 01:32:58,970 --> 01:33:03,930 music every single day. You get to live in a beautiful home. You have a kid 1291 01:33:03,930 --> 01:33:09,420 who... fucking worship you you have a life that i think many people would kill 1292 01:33:09,420 --> 01:33:13,280 for but you've just decided to make the choice to not get over your bullshit and 1293 01:33:13,280 --> 01:33:17,640 to just be miserable you won't even fucking touch the piano that you used to 1294 01:33:17,640 --> 01:33:21,760 love and we all have this tiptoe around you you're just like a sad wounded puppy 1295 01:33:21,760 --> 01:33:24,020 oh fuck off 1296 01:33:27,220 --> 01:33:31,360 I am the one who gave everything up. You did that. There's one reason that 1297 01:33:31,360 --> 01:33:34,600 you're not doing what you are not doing, and that is because you are not doing 1298 01:33:34,600 --> 01:33:35,599 it. You quit. 1299 01:33:35,600 --> 01:33:36,600 You gave up. 1300 01:33:36,900 --> 01:33:40,220 Can I ask you a question? For real. What do you do all day? 1301 01:33:40,740 --> 01:33:46,120 Maggie goes to school. I go to work. You go fucking insane in this apartment. 1302 01:33:46,380 --> 01:33:50,480 I don't know what the fuck you're doing. You're buying fucking lamps and pillows 1303 01:33:50,480 --> 01:33:54,920 and shit. And then you just fucking control everything. 1304 01:33:55,420 --> 01:33:58,360 Aspect of my life when I get home at the end of every fucking day. 1305 01:33:58,980 --> 01:34:01,920 What are you doing here? What are you fucking doing? 1306 01:34:02,260 --> 01:34:07,300 Fuck me? Yeah, fuck me. Fuck you, and I am not trying to control you. I am not 1307 01:34:07,300 --> 01:34:09,920 controlling you. You don't let me do anything. You don't let me get a fucking 1308 01:34:09,920 --> 01:34:12,940 cat. I don't like cats. They're fucking me. There you go. Congratulations. 1309 01:34:13,860 --> 01:34:15,360 I wanted one fucking thing. 1310 01:34:15,760 --> 01:34:21,120 Do you see how you don't do each other? Do you see how you're blaming each other 1311 01:34:21,120 --> 01:34:22,120 for your unhappiness? 1312 01:34:28,170 --> 01:34:29,330 You made this choice. 1313 01:34:29,610 --> 01:34:30,870 They are your choices. 1314 01:34:33,610 --> 01:34:35,230 So much you can think. 1315 01:34:36,350 --> 01:34:37,350 So much. 1316 01:34:38,630 --> 01:34:40,290 Why are you in this marriage? 1317 01:34:41,550 --> 01:34:42,550 Great. 1318 01:34:43,770 --> 01:34:46,750 That's going to be really, really great for her. 1319 01:34:48,550 --> 01:34:52,190 To just think it doesn't not, right? It doesn't feel this. 1320 01:34:54,310 --> 01:34:56,550 You prefer to stay close up. 1321 01:34:57,230 --> 01:35:01,050 marinating in this horrible anxiety every day. 1322 01:35:01,910 --> 01:35:06,390 What's better, to have happy parents who are separate or to have very miserable 1323 01:35:06,390 --> 01:35:08,750 parents that stay together for their lives? 1324 01:35:14,070 --> 01:35:20,710 I think we only get a few chances for 1325 01:35:20,710 --> 01:35:22,890 meaningful relationships in life. 1326 01:35:24,530 --> 01:35:26,050 Usually we won't soon. 1327 01:35:26,890 --> 01:35:27,890 Different people. 1328 01:35:29,070 --> 01:35:33,830 Sometimes we can have a new relationship with the same person. 1329 01:35:40,790 --> 01:35:45,050 But I think this relationship is old. 1330 01:36:23,630 --> 01:36:24,710 I just wanted to leave the apartment. 1331 01:36:26,850 --> 01:36:27,850 Maybe fuck a little. 1332 01:36:30,790 --> 01:36:31,790 Sorry to leave. 1333 01:36:33,690 --> 01:36:34,690 Maybe not stop. 1334 01:36:35,270 --> 01:36:38,110 Can I have my cutter roll back, please? 1335 01:37:43,820 --> 01:37:45,300 I'm gonna grab some more. 1336 01:37:54,200 --> 01:38:00,080 We have that place in Tahoe and I guess Maggie went to the fair and all that. 1337 01:38:01,320 --> 01:38:02,340 You'll love that. 1338 01:38:05,380 --> 01:38:06,540 How's your back? 1339 01:38:24,360 --> 01:38:25,360 I'm so tired. 1340 01:38:27,160 --> 01:38:28,160 Me too. 1341 01:38:33,580 --> 01:38:34,580 I'm gonna go to bed. 1342 01:38:54,510 --> 01:38:56,430 Should I sleep in my office, I guess?