1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 3 00:00:14,682 --> 00:00:19,854 Concentrate, Pasanen. Concentrate. Keep calm. Search. Search. 4 00:00:19,937 --> 00:00:22,648 There! Colors and shapes. 5 00:00:22,732 --> 00:00:26,485 Beans. Beanie beanie beans. Vinegar, cream, sugar. 6 00:00:26,569 --> 00:00:28,612 Where 's the milk? Milk? 7 00:00:36,328 --> 00:00:38,622 Bloody slipper! 8 00:00:40,082 --> 00:00:43,419 I need to know the name of the stuff that comes out of the tits. 9 00:00:43,502 --> 00:00:48,215 For babies. What's the trade name? 10 00:00:48,299 --> 00:00:50,634 Mother's milk. 11 00:00:50,718 --> 00:00:55,556 What do I buy? What's the trademark? 12 00:00:55,639 --> 00:01:00,686 Have a milkie. Have a tittie. Have a babymoo. Have a sucky. 13 00:01:00,770 --> 00:01:05,983 Have a babywhey. Have an oasis. Fuck fuckin fuckin fuck. 14 00:01:07,276 --> 00:01:11,197 Goo-goo. Goody-goo. 15 00:01:18,037 --> 00:01:22,833 Sorry but I need to talk to your wife. We're the neighbors. 16 00:01:22,917 --> 00:01:27,046 Why? - We live there. For two months now. 17 00:01:27,129 --> 00:01:31,926 We've met once, at the garbage cans. 18 00:01:32,009 --> 00:01:35,179 It was amiable. Like hi, hi. 19 00:01:35,262 --> 00:01:40,309 Why do you need to talk to Anna? - Cause I have one of these. A baby. 20 00:01:40,392 --> 00:01:42,478 What? - A baby. 21 00:01:42,561 --> 00:01:47,066 You have a few yourselves. I'm this one's daddy. 22 00:01:47,149 --> 00:01:49,026 Anna! 23 00:01:50,277 --> 00:01:54,031 My wife had some complications. 24 00:01:54,115 --> 00:01:59,578 Anesthesia. Surgery. Stitches. 25 00:01:59,662 --> 00:02:02,790 I can't explain the details. 26 00:02:02,873 --> 00:02:07,711 She'll be home soon. But I left the bag behind. 27 00:02:07,795 --> 00:02:11,173 What? - I left it there. 28 00:02:11,257 --> 00:02:18,347 What? -A bag of breastmilk. In the hospital. 29 00:02:18,430 --> 00:02:22,434 We've only been home a few hours. 30 00:02:22,518 --> 00:02:25,896 We were going to the shop but didn't. 31 00:02:29,066 --> 00:02:34,697 What if I'll go to the supermarket? The baby can stay here. 32 00:02:40,452 --> 00:02:44,415 Were you at the delivery? - Didn't have time. 33 00:02:44,498 --> 00:02:47,459 Too busy at work? -just didn't have the time. 34 00:02:47,543 --> 00:02:51,380 Pia forgot to tell me. - That she's giving birth? 35 00:02:52,673 --> 00:02:55,551 Yep. -Okay. 36 00:02:57,887 --> 00:03:03,142 For the record, a newborn never goes home without the mother. 37 00:03:05,436 --> 00:03:07,730 No? - No. 38 00:03:09,398 --> 00:03:12,526 Not even under exceptional circumstances? 39 00:03:17,406 --> 00:03:19,325 MAN AND A BABY 40 00:03:19,408 --> 00:03:23,329 Welcome home-sign, check. 41 00:03:23,412 --> 00:03:27,082 Vacuuming, check. Dusting, check. 42 00:03:27,166 --> 00:03:31,170 Mobile, check. Breastfeeding pillow, check. Baby alarm. 43 00:03:31,253 --> 00:03:33,255 Do you copy? Copy. 44 00:03:33,339 --> 00:03:35,799 Cot. Pushchair. 45 00:03:35,883 --> 00:03:41,680 Sausages and chockies, in the same bowl, yuck, check. Yummy. 46 00:03:41,764 --> 00:03:45,476 Hospital bag, Pia 's bag. Check. Check. 47 00:03:45,559 --> 00:03:48,437 Aw! Check. 48 00:04:13,754 --> 00:04:19,260 Howdy, daddy here, to take you home. Hi. 49 00:04:22,137 --> 00:04:24,598 Where's the boy? - What? 50 00:04:24,682 --> 00:04:27,601 Where's the boy? - Not here. 51 00:04:28,519 --> 00:04:32,731 You get the hell out of here. Stalker. 52 00:04:35,317 --> 00:04:37,569 The stress relief - 53 00:04:37,653 --> 00:04:41,991 and the burden of having a baby make her afraid. 54 00:04:42,074 --> 00:04:46,745 New mothers can be irritated, restless. 55 00:04:46,829 --> 00:04:50,582 But soon they sense the baby's needs - 56 00:04:50,666 --> 00:04:52,584 and grow to motherhood. 57 00:04:52,668 --> 00:04:55,170 Never lose your humor in the childbed. 58 00:04:55,254 --> 00:04:58,590 Later, you'll laugh at all this, together. 59 00:04:58,674 --> 00:05:03,095 I'll give you three pieces of advice and they are crucial. First: 60 00:05:03,178 --> 00:05:05,180 make him burp. 61 00:05:05,264 --> 00:05:09,476 Second: make him burp. 62 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:13,897 Third: make him burp. - Roger that. 63 00:05:22,740 --> 00:05:29,163 Come here. Let's see the safety seat daddy has brought here. 64 00:05:37,755 --> 00:05:39,757 Where the fuck is our car? 65 00:05:39,840 --> 00:05:42,676 At the parking lot. Can't park here. 66 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:47,056 I'll get it. just keep an eye on these. 67 00:05:47,139 --> 00:05:50,392 Daddy will get the car. We drive dada's car. 68 00:05:50,476 --> 00:05:54,021 Like this! 69 00:05:54,104 --> 00:05:57,107 I can't fucking do this. - Do what? 70 00:05:57,191 --> 00:06:00,819 This whole fucking deal. - The car's right there. 71 00:06:03,822 --> 00:06:06,950 Pia! What the hell? 72 00:06:10,496 --> 00:06:11,997 Pia! 73 00:06:40,734 --> 00:06:42,736 Thanks. 74 00:06:44,196 --> 00:06:47,199 Are you going to be OK? 75 00:07:54,349 --> 00:07:59,438 We're not buying anything. We're not believers. Thanks. Bye. 76 00:07:59,521 --> 00:08:03,233 Hold on. This is an agreed visit. 77 00:08:03,317 --> 00:08:06,403 The deals made by my wife don't apply with me. 78 00:08:06,487 --> 00:08:11,408 I'm Ulla. From the child health centre. Didn't Pia mention this? 79 00:08:11,492 --> 00:08:14,161 You must be Antti. We've never met. 80 00:08:14,244 --> 00:08:18,499 You never came to the prenatal clinic. 81 00:08:18,582 --> 00:08:21,752 Do you want me to join you? - Where? 82 00:08:21,835 --> 00:08:24,630 To the prenatal clinic. - What? 83 00:08:24,713 --> 00:08:28,800 OK, I'm on my way. Close the door, I'm cold. 84 00:08:28,884 --> 00:08:30,969 Work. A lot of work. 85 00:08:31,053 --> 00:08:35,516 Almost four kilos. Any problems with breastfeeding? 86 00:08:35,599 --> 00:08:38,644 How come? - Artificial milk everywhere. 87 00:08:38,727 --> 00:08:43,607 I'm out of tit milk. This is the artificial stuff. 88 00:08:43,690 --> 00:08:49,488 The tits have gone jogging. The tits go where Pia goes. 89 00:08:49,571 --> 00:08:55,869 When is she coming back? - Oh, she can run for hours. 90 00:08:55,953 --> 00:09:01,875 So soon after labour? She never told me she's an athlete. 91 00:09:01,959 --> 00:09:05,212 When did she leave? - Right away. 92 00:09:08,215 --> 00:09:10,968 Come back! 93 00:09:12,469 --> 00:09:15,347 Just before you came by. 94 00:09:21,228 --> 00:09:25,190 I have to go now. I have two more house calls. 95 00:09:25,274 --> 00:09:28,318 Too bad she wasn't around. 96 00:09:28,402 --> 00:09:33,407 Things are under control here. - Oh, I'm not so sure. I've been busy. 97 00:09:33,490 --> 00:09:37,744 Here you are. Resource questionnaires. 98 00:09:37,828 --> 00:09:42,541 Fill them out. Come see me next week, all of you. 99 00:09:42,624 --> 00:09:45,544 I'm not sure. I might be working. 100 00:09:45,627 --> 00:09:50,215 Just tell her when and where. - As soon as she walks in. 101 00:09:50,299 --> 00:09:53,677 Do you have any questions? 102 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:56,138 Yes! Yes! 103 00:09:56,221 --> 00:10:00,267 Nothing special. - Bye then. 104 00:10:00,350 --> 00:10:01,810 Don 't go! 105 00:10:05,897 --> 00:10:08,275 I'll let this cool for a while. 106 00:10:12,446 --> 00:10:18,243 Mirkku will tell what's the problem. Markku flies away! Whoo! 107 00:10:18,327 --> 00:10:21,705 Mirkku flies away! Whoo! 108 00:10:48,023 --> 00:10:52,402 Ignoring your own needs, check. Be present, check. 109 00:10:52,486 --> 00:10:55,030 Be a man, check. 110 00:10:55,113 --> 00:10:59,326 Grow up, check. Become a father, check. 111 00:10:59,409 --> 00:11:05,582 Don't give up! You're happy, I'm happy. We're happy. 112 00:11:05,666 --> 00:11:09,002 Don't give up! What the hell? Why am I skiing? 113 00:11:09,086 --> 00:11:14,549 This is Antti Pasanen's show and he reaches the line... 114 00:11:14,633 --> 00:11:19,179 This is a weird dream. This has to stop. This is a nightmare. 115 00:11:21,348 --> 00:11:24,267 Hey, that's Pia. This is a happy dream. 116 00:11:24,351 --> 00:11:29,231 Have you ever thought what a fucking dreary person you are? 117 00:11:47,874 --> 00:11:54,881 Hi. Came to see how you're doing. And found one of these. 118 00:11:54,965 --> 00:11:57,968 Haven't killed her. - Who? 119 00:11:58,051 --> 00:12:03,265 My wife. She just left me. And the boy. Us. 120 00:12:03,348 --> 00:12:06,226 Now you know. Come in, I'll make some coffee. 121 00:12:06,309 --> 00:12:11,064 She's not answering her phone. It's turned off. 122 00:12:11,148 --> 00:12:16,194 Did you notice anything? Things not being OK? 123 00:12:16,278 --> 00:12:19,114 How exactly was it? 124 00:12:37,799 --> 00:12:41,636 No, I didn't. No signs at all. 125 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:44,848 Is there a place she could be at? With her parents? 126 00:12:44,931 --> 00:12:48,351 Don't think so. They live in Spain. Don't think so. 127 00:12:48,435 --> 00:12:53,440 With a friend? - She doesn't have any. 128 00:12:54,941 --> 00:12:59,070 She took some distance when she got pregnant. From everyone. 129 00:12:59,154 --> 00:13:00,906 Even from me. 130 00:13:00,989 --> 00:13:06,411 Then we moved here. We've been married only a year. 131 00:13:06,495 --> 00:13:12,125 A quick decision. Too quick, I guess. 132 00:13:12,959 --> 00:13:15,504 Reponen. - What? 133 00:13:15,587 --> 00:13:18,465 You could ask around a bit. - No, you just go on. 134 00:13:20,300 --> 00:13:22,385 Reponen. At work. 135 00:13:24,012 --> 00:13:28,058 Right. I could ask around a bit at work. 136 00:13:28,141 --> 00:13:31,353 Right. OK. 137 00:13:32,562 --> 00:13:35,273 Thanks. 138 00:13:35,357 --> 00:13:38,568 Nothing. - What nothing? 139 00:13:40,028 --> 00:13:45,450 We have no knowledge of her whereabouts. Not us or the hospitals. 140 00:13:45,534 --> 00:13:49,746 What can we do then? - When it's an adult - 141 00:13:49,830 --> 00:13:53,792 we can't even report her missing. 142 00:13:53,875 --> 00:13:55,585 But she is missing. 143 00:13:55,669 --> 00:13:59,130 When a healthy person leaves her family - 144 00:13:59,214 --> 00:14:02,300 it's not the same as literally going missing. 145 00:14:02,384 --> 00:14:06,972 You just have to think where your wife has gone. 146 00:14:07,055 --> 00:14:10,308 What else do you think I'm thinking? All the time. 147 00:14:10,392 --> 00:14:15,355 Don't know. I'm a policeman. Not a mind reader. 148 00:14:15,438 --> 00:14:19,109 I'll make dinner for the kids. 149 00:14:24,823 --> 00:14:26,658 Hormones... 150 00:14:26,741 --> 00:14:29,995 The second I think about those days I feel sick. 151 00:14:30,078 --> 00:14:33,373 Didn't you want to leave your husband? To split? 152 00:14:33,456 --> 00:14:38,503 Not once. But murder came to my mind a few times. 153 00:14:38,587 --> 00:14:41,798 How long do you think she needs you home? 154 00:14:41,882 --> 00:14:46,303 A few weeks. To get back to her feet. 155 00:14:46,386 --> 00:14:48,346 I feel for her. 156 00:14:48,430 --> 00:14:51,808 I know that breastfeeding can be hell. 157 00:14:51,892 --> 00:14:56,396 When the babies get their first teeth, they're like vampires. 158 00:14:56,479 --> 00:15:02,235 Be a mother's little helper for a while and then we'll re-evaluate. 159 00:15:02,319 --> 00:15:06,323 Was it so easy? Are you going to be OK without me? 160 00:15:06,406 --> 00:15:13,246 No way. The whole company will go belly up. As you can see. 161 00:15:13,330 --> 00:15:18,126 Say hi at home. My condolences. - Thanks. I'll pass them on. 162 00:15:18,209 --> 00:15:21,212 Bye. - Bye. 163 00:15:21,296 --> 00:15:25,050 That went well. Really well. 164 00:15:26,051 --> 00:15:29,054 Except I ate a cookie from the floor. 165 00:15:32,390 --> 00:15:35,685 Peippo? Peippo! Up here! 166 00:15:35,769 --> 00:15:40,607 How do you like the new place? - Pretty OK... 167 00:15:40,690 --> 00:15:43,568 How's, what was it again? - A boy. 168 00:15:43,652 --> 00:15:46,279 How's the boy? - O K. 169 00:15:46,363 --> 00:15:49,866 But Helena's not well? - Pia. 170 00:15:51,785 --> 00:15:54,871 To say it straight - 171 00:15:56,373 --> 00:15:59,584 she's insane. - Helena? 172 00:16:00,835 --> 00:16:02,837 Pia. 173 00:16:04,005 --> 00:16:07,467 She's gone mad? - Yep. Quite insane. 174 00:16:07,550 --> 00:16:12,555 I see. My girlfriend was at the funny farm. 175 00:16:12,639 --> 00:16:15,600 What? - Yep. For over 10 years. 176 00:16:15,684 --> 00:16:18,478 What the hell? 177 00:16:18,561 --> 00:16:22,565 I had no idea. How is she? - Who? 178 00:16:22,649 --> 00:16:25,151 Your girlfriend. - Quite well, I guess. 179 00:16:25,235 --> 00:16:28,863 Must be tough. - To whom? 180 00:16:28,947 --> 00:16:34,077 To you, damn it. To her. Don't know. 181 00:16:35,203 --> 00:16:38,665 How does it feel when your partner goes mad? -Who? 182 00:16:38,748 --> 00:16:43,837 Your bloody girlfriend. -She's not mad. What makes you think so? 183 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:49,134 You just told me. - No. She's a nurse. 184 00:16:49,217 --> 00:16:52,345 She was there 10 years ago when we were dating. 185 00:16:52,429 --> 00:16:55,890 That was before I flipped and she left me. 186 00:16:55,974 --> 00:16:59,602 What? You flipped? 187 00:16:59,686 --> 00:17:02,313 Yep. Quite mad. 188 00:17:22,959 --> 00:17:24,836 Ta-dah! 189 00:17:24,919 --> 00:17:27,881 What? - Can you see it? 190 00:17:27,964 --> 00:17:30,258 See what? 191 00:17:30,341 --> 00:17:33,219 One day there'll a boat here. 192 00:17:33,303 --> 00:17:36,598 That could be our mutual dream... 193 00:17:36,681 --> 00:17:38,808 I'm pregnant. 194 00:17:40,602 --> 00:17:42,604 What? 195 00:17:59,913 --> 00:18:01,915 One day. 196 00:18:13,301 --> 00:18:16,304 What's all this hullabaloo? 197 00:18:23,853 --> 00:18:28,399 Sorry. I'm late. How was it? 198 00:18:28,483 --> 00:18:33,196 OK. Lucas ate some rocks. But the baby slept the whole time. 199 00:18:34,072 --> 00:18:36,908 Here. Thank you. - Thanks. 200 00:18:36,991 --> 00:18:40,912 This is a nice place to come to when he's a bit older. 201 00:18:40,995 --> 00:18:42,956 Bye! 202 00:18:44,791 --> 00:18:48,294 Shake. Straighten. Fold. 203 00:18:48,378 --> 00:18:53,258 Pull. Fold. Very good. 204 00:18:54,968 --> 00:18:58,179 Dad! - And me. 205 00:18:58,263 --> 00:19:01,474 Hi, Janne. -Came to see you. You don't answer your phones. 206 00:19:01,558 --> 00:19:06,104 He doesn't speak yet. Won't need a phone before he goes to school. 207 00:19:06,187 --> 00:19:09,524 No, you and Pia. 208 00:19:09,607 --> 00:19:15,530 Your mailbox is full. The newspapers are sticking out. 209 00:19:16,948 --> 00:19:20,743 We had all sorts of thoughts when we drove in. -What thoughts? 210 00:19:20,827 --> 00:19:24,497 Nothing. It's only a saying. 211 00:19:24,581 --> 00:19:28,501 When you drive in, you get thoughts? - Right. 212 00:19:28,585 --> 00:19:32,005 We brought flowers. - I noticed. 213 00:19:32,088 --> 00:19:35,884 Why don't you give me the flowers and empty the mailbox? 214 00:19:35,967 --> 00:19:37,427 The flowers are for Pia. 215 00:19:37,510 --> 00:19:40,555 Give them to me. Take the keys. Empty the mailbox. 216 00:19:40,638 --> 00:19:43,641 An important assignment for you. 217 00:19:44,726 --> 00:19:46,769 Where? - Where, what? 218 00:19:46,853 --> 00:19:52,525 Where do I empty the mailbox? -just bring everything to me. 219 00:19:53,776 --> 00:19:59,908 How has Pia been with the boy? Must've been tough for her. 220 00:19:59,991 --> 00:20:04,746 Have you thought about the name? - Haven't had time for that. 221 00:20:10,668 --> 00:20:14,172 Look, clad. A nice card. 222 00:20:22,513 --> 00:20:24,182 What? 223 00:20:25,934 --> 00:20:28,478 I... - Come on! 224 00:20:30,271 --> 00:20:36,527 Hi Antti 62 baby. I 'm sorry. I thought I could do that but I couldn 't. 225 00:20:36,611 --> 00:20:41,157 I wanted out, it just wasn't me. 226 00:20:41,241 --> 00:20:47,121 Now my eyes are open. I'm starting to know who I am and what I want. 227 00:20:47,205 --> 00:20:52,377 I can't be a mother, to anyone. I can't and I don't want to. 228 00:20:52,460 --> 00:20:57,548 To be married, to have children. It's not my cup of tea. 229 00:20:58,466 --> 00:21:02,011 Sorry. Greetings, Pia. 230 00:21:13,481 --> 00:21:18,861 A pretty picture. Not from Finland. A sea and a beach. Not from here. 231 00:21:18,945 --> 00:21:24,242 No, it's from Spain. Fuengirola. - Who sent it? 232 00:21:24,325 --> 00:21:27,245 Pia. - Nice! 233 00:21:27,328 --> 00:21:30,123 Real nice. 234 00:21:30,206 --> 00:21:34,544 Can you look after the baby for a sec? Me and daddy, we'll go outside. 235 00:21:34,627 --> 00:21:39,257 Can I also look elsewhere? If my eyes get tired. -Of course. 236 00:21:41,259 --> 00:21:44,137 I thought she'd come back - 237 00:21:44,220 --> 00:21:47,849 before I have to start making excuses. 238 00:21:50,810 --> 00:21:53,813 I didn't even know things were so bad between you two. 239 00:21:55,815 --> 00:21:57,817 Neither did I. 240 00:21:59,819 --> 00:22:01,821 I see. 241 00:22:05,033 --> 00:22:07,660 I don't know anything anymore. 242 00:22:09,203 --> 00:22:12,040 Don't know at all what to do. 243 00:22:13,791 --> 00:22:15,376 But I do. 244 00:22:17,295 --> 00:22:23,217 The dishes get clean when you wash them. I'm going to be a dishwasher. 245 00:22:24,302 --> 00:22:30,933 Janne got a job. At a lunch restaurant, run by a foundation. 246 00:22:31,017 --> 00:22:33,102 Starts next week. 247 00:22:33,186 --> 00:22:36,522 What good is all that rushing around? 248 00:22:36,606 --> 00:22:39,067 Prevents the baby getting an asthma. 249 00:22:41,694 --> 00:22:46,407 Good for you, Janne. -From the first salary, I'll buy a car. 250 00:22:46,491 --> 00:22:49,994 Why don't you buy an airplane? - No, a car! 251 00:22:50,078 --> 00:22:53,998 I'll start putting the bookshelf together. You pull yourself together. 252 00:22:54,082 --> 00:22:57,502 Let's see who's ready first. 253 00:22:57,585 --> 00:23:03,049 If you keep things in place, your head stays sane. 254 00:23:03,132 --> 00:23:07,303 Is that the reason our house was so spick 'n span when mommy passed away? 255 00:23:07,387 --> 00:23:10,765 She didn't pass away. She died. 256 00:23:10,848 --> 00:23:14,060 That's right. 257 00:23:14,143 --> 00:23:15,812 Bye. - See you. 258 00:23:57,061 --> 00:23:59,647 Look at them ants. 259 00:23:59,730 --> 00:24:04,735 Off to work. To hobbies. To shops. To families. 260 00:24:06,946 --> 00:24:11,534 Oh no. That's not our thing. The rat race. 261 00:24:12,535 --> 00:24:16,581 Never knew how much I miss my work. 262 00:24:16,664 --> 00:24:21,002 I want to work. So badly. I want to work! 263 00:24:21,085 --> 00:24:25,298 OK. Our employment office is not here. 264 00:24:25,381 --> 00:24:28,384 Shall I pack these for you? - Please. 265 00:24:43,107 --> 00:24:46,861 I want fuck with people. To swear when I want! 266 00:24:46,944 --> 00:24:49,322 I want to be a man! Fuck! 267 00:24:53,326 --> 00:24:56,496 Now, daddy didn't mean that... 268 00:24:58,206 --> 00:25:00,583 Mommy, mommy! 269 00:25:01,834 --> 00:25:04,504 Hold on! Hold on! 270 00:25:05,671 --> 00:25:09,842 So they leave, mothers! Another fine example of that. 271 00:25:10,968 --> 00:25:12,970 Things lose their meaning so fast. 272 00:25:13,054 --> 00:25:17,099 Doesn't matter what time it is. What day it is. 273 00:25:17,183 --> 00:25:18,809 A nice bum. 274 00:25:18,893 --> 00:25:20,436 Your whole reality - 275 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:23,606 is to rock the baby gently. 276 00:25:23,689 --> 00:25:27,735 Heat up the milk. Give the pacifier, wash the bottom. Change the diapers. 277 00:25:27,818 --> 00:25:29,737 Put on the cream. Talcum, zinc. 278 00:25:29,820 --> 00:25:33,407 Vitamins. Clean the belly button - 279 00:25:33,491 --> 00:25:36,827 wash laundry every day. 280 00:25:36,911 --> 00:25:40,039 Suddenly, they're the most important things in the world. 281 00:25:40,122 --> 00:25:42,416 You have to write everything down - 282 00:25:42,500 --> 00:25:43,960 so you remember what's been done. 283 00:25:44,043 --> 00:25:48,673 Cause you don 't sleep, your brains don't bum. 284 00:25:48,756 --> 00:25:55,471 Your brains, brains don't bum. A bum. A bottom. 285 00:25:55,555 --> 00:25:59,141 I know that bum. I've seen you around. 286 00:25:59,225 --> 00:26:02,812 Hi. - Hi. 287 00:26:16,742 --> 00:26:21,747 The District Court has received a divorce application. 288 00:26:21,831 --> 00:26:25,084 We ask you to submit your statement of opinion - 289 00:26:25,167 --> 00:26:28,838 on the petition of the spouse... 290 00:26:28,921 --> 00:26:30,798 What the fuck? 291 00:26:30,881 --> 00:26:34,844 "I am filing a divorce petition after the reconsideration period..." 292 00:26:34,927 --> 00:26:39,682 "...visiting rights... alimony..." 293 00:26:39,765 --> 00:26:44,228 These are not the forms I gave you. - No, they're not. 294 00:26:44,312 --> 00:26:48,691 No wonder you look like that. Real bad. 295 00:26:48,774 --> 00:26:51,444 I'm tired. 296 00:26:51,527 --> 00:26:55,781 Exhausted. And a bit tired. 297 00:26:55,865 --> 00:26:58,701 Do you need any help or something? 298 00:26:58,784 --> 00:27:01,704 Do I? Sure as fuck I do. 299 00:27:01,787 --> 00:27:04,749 I need sleep. Down time. 300 00:27:04,832 --> 00:27:10,338 Work time. Free time. Solitude. To sit in a bar until the last call. 301 00:27:10,421 --> 00:27:12,214 Lie in bed the whole day. 302 00:27:12,298 --> 00:27:15,009 Watch the "Lord Of The Rings"-trilogy. 303 00:27:15,092 --> 00:27:20,348 I need to get laid. And a sailing boat. But first, to get laid. 304 00:27:20,431 --> 00:27:22,475 No, I don't need anything. 305 00:27:22,558 --> 00:27:28,773 Therapy? We have a good psychologist. - Pia should have seen her. 306 00:27:28,856 --> 00:27:33,861 Then you have to report his name to the magistrate. He has a name, right? 307 00:27:36,489 --> 00:27:38,949 How's your support network? - Sorry? 308 00:27:39,033 --> 00:27:43,954 You must have relatives who can help in babycare? 309 00:27:57,927 --> 00:28:01,263 Sorry, I don't have anyone. 310 00:28:01,347 --> 00:28:05,476 I don't know anyone here. 311 00:28:06,852 --> 00:28:10,398 Anna next door, they have four kids. 312 00:28:10,481 --> 00:28:13,859 Going back to work. Anna, not the kids. 313 00:28:13,943 --> 00:28:17,029 The youngest is going back to the nursery soon. Starting it. 314 00:28:17,113 --> 00:28:20,282 The other kids are going back, not the parents. 315 00:28:20,366 --> 00:28:25,162 They're going to school. The parents work, the kids go to school. 316 00:28:25,246 --> 00:28:28,791 The tallest might be in secondary school. 317 00:28:28,874 --> 00:28:32,086 He is between 11 and 14, I guess. 318 00:28:32,169 --> 00:28:36,257 Or the girl who's not that tall. Can't remember. 319 00:28:36,340 --> 00:28:39,009 Here you are. 320 00:28:39,093 --> 00:28:44,724 What is it? -A baby meeting. For young parents. You better show up. 321 00:28:46,726 --> 00:28:52,565 You will. It's nothing special. Coffee and conversation. 322 00:28:52,648 --> 00:28:55,901 You'll meet people who are in the same jam as you are. 323 00:28:55,985 --> 00:28:59,405 I wonder how many of them really are in the same jam as I am? 324 00:29:11,125 --> 00:29:13,335 Let's go. 325 00:29:14,628 --> 00:29:17,298 Come in, Terttu. 326 00:29:19,258 --> 00:29:21,552 She doesn't want to talk to you. 327 00:29:21,635 --> 00:29:24,972 I know. That's why I'm calling you. 328 00:29:25,055 --> 00:29:29,518 I can't be a messenger between two adults. 329 00:29:29,602 --> 00:29:35,441 Quite an overstatement, an adult. Considering Pia's recent actions. 330 00:29:35,524 --> 00:29:41,489 Has she any name suggestions? He needs a name - 331 00:29:41,572 --> 00:29:45,075 cause he exits. Regardless his adult parents getting a divorce. 332 00:29:45,159 --> 00:29:47,369 I'll ask. 333 00:29:51,665 --> 00:29:53,876 Hello. No suggestions. 334 00:29:53,959 --> 00:29:59,673 So, she doesn't care what's the name of our mutual child? -I'll ask. 335 00:30:05,137 --> 00:30:08,307 Couldn't care less. Her exact words. 336 00:30:08,390 --> 00:30:14,146 Tell her in that case, he'll be fucking called... 337 00:30:18,359 --> 00:30:20,528 Paavo. 338 00:30:20,611 --> 00:30:22,822 Fine by her. 339 00:30:22,905 --> 00:30:27,201 How have you raised your kids? - Don 't blame me. 340 00:30:27,284 --> 00:30:28,911 She spent her childhood with her aunt. 341 00:30:28,994 --> 00:30:31,413 I have no idea how to be with kids. 342 00:30:31,497 --> 00:30:36,293 Tell her... -I won't go running after her. She's having a smoke. 343 00:30:36,377 --> 00:30:41,549 When has she started smoking? - She always has. 344 00:30:41,632 --> 00:30:43,467 Hi to Paavo! 345 00:30:43,551 --> 00:30:48,264 Wait! Wait! Wait! Wait! Tell her... 346 00:30:52,852 --> 00:30:54,812 Yep, Yep- 347 00:31:11,245 --> 00:31:15,207 The pacifier's here to stay, it won't take the hunger away. 348 00:31:24,842 --> 00:31:27,219 Hello. - Is this Antti Pasanen? 349 00:31:27,303 --> 00:31:30,848 Speaking. Not a good place, even a worse time. 350 00:31:30,931 --> 00:31:32,391 So if you are offering - 351 00:31:32,474 --> 00:31:36,812 some jolly, special deal, forget it this time. 352 00:31:36,896 --> 00:31:40,232 This is E era Karhula, from Helsinki City Social Services. 353 00:31:40,316 --> 00:31:44,612 Hi. -! am a child welfare officer. 354 00:31:44,695 --> 00:31:48,824 Are you home now? - We're here, both of us. 355 00:31:48,908 --> 00:31:51,201 I'd like to suggest a meeting. In one hour? 356 00:31:51,285 --> 00:31:54,872 I guess it's OK. - See you soon, then. Bye. 357 00:31:56,165 --> 00:32:00,669 Paavo, clean up. The place is a mess! 358 00:32:01,545 --> 00:32:05,549 We'll make you to do what you're good at. Have a nap. 359 00:32:08,427 --> 00:32:11,055 Check? 360 00:32:11,805 --> 00:32:15,100 Check. 361 00:32:40,376 --> 00:32:43,379 Have a seat, please. 362 00:32:48,217 --> 00:32:52,554 Thanks. We had a nail day yesterday. 363 00:32:53,973 --> 00:32:56,141 Sit down, please. 364 00:33:03,357 --> 00:33:06,193 The coffee's ready soon. Would you like some? 365 00:33:08,070 --> 00:33:12,825 No, thanks. - Well, what's going to happen? 366 00:33:12,908 --> 00:33:18,622 You're taking the child away from me? Because the mother left? 367 00:33:18,706 --> 00:33:22,126 I am on paternity leave. Things are under control. 368 00:33:22,209 --> 00:33:27,297 It's not my bloody fault if my wife's suddenly unstable. 369 00:33:38,642 --> 00:33:43,147 This book has all the feedings. Everything. 370 00:33:43,230 --> 00:33:48,777 Last night he ate at 2 AM, 4.45 AM - 371 00:33:48,861 --> 00:33:53,741 and 7 AM. Good quantities every time. Fourth time just before you came in. 372 00:33:53,824 --> 00:33:57,995 We sleep, eat, socialize. 373 00:33:58,078 --> 00:34:01,331 Take baths. I dry him, dress him. 374 00:34:01,415 --> 00:34:05,711 Change diapers. Give him milk. Put him to sleep. 375 00:34:05,794 --> 00:34:09,673 Change him after every pee. So he won't get a rash. 376 00:34:09,757 --> 00:34:12,342 And if he does, I'll apply the cream. 377 00:34:12,426 --> 00:34:16,305 I'm sure you know the drill. Oh, that. Don't even look. 378 00:34:16,388 --> 00:34:20,893 I'll fix that later. They're not important. 379 00:34:20,976 --> 00:34:24,313 If you stop and think about this - 380 00:34:24,396 --> 00:34:28,942 you'll see why we're all here. 381 00:34:29,026 --> 00:34:34,823 Not a typical situation for a newborn. Is it? 382 00:34:37,826 --> 00:34:42,164 Where is the little guy anyway? - Sleeping. 383 00:34:42,247 --> 00:34:44,291 Just woke up. 384 00:34:47,544 --> 00:34:54,635 I have to say I don't see any need for child protection. 385 00:34:54,718 --> 00:34:57,596 Things seem to be well under control. 386 00:34:57,679 --> 00:35:01,642 Only one thing I'd like you to answer. 387 00:35:01,725 --> 00:35:05,771 What happens after the paternity leave? Who'll look after him then? 388 00:35:05,854 --> 00:35:10,609 If and when you're getting a divorce. -!f and when? How can I know? 389 00:35:10,692 --> 00:35:15,447 How can I make them stamp an approval on my papers. 390 00:35:15,531 --> 00:35:18,826 Right. A good question. 391 00:35:18,909 --> 00:35:20,953 Would that be possible? - What? 392 00:35:21,036 --> 00:35:24,123 To stay home. For at least a year. 393 00:35:24,206 --> 00:35:27,543 Now, keep a straight face. 394 00:35:27,626 --> 00:35:31,839 They are trained to read minds and facial movements. 395 00:35:31,922 --> 00:35:36,343 Act naturally. You can't catch me. 396 00:35:36,426 --> 00:35:40,931 Try to read me. Confusion. Let's shuffle the cards. 397 00:35:41,014 --> 00:35:42,808 I wonder what's their work like? 398 00:35:42,891 --> 00:35:45,310 To get into broken homes. 399 00:35:45,394 --> 00:35:48,689 Kids screaming, houses full of puke. 400 00:35:48,772 --> 00:35:50,482 Maybe I should go with them. 401 00:35:50,566 --> 00:35:53,694 Peippo could take pictures and blur them. 402 00:35:53,777 --> 00:35:56,947 What the fuck? They're staring. Oh yeah. 403 00:35:57,030 --> 00:35:59,032 Would that be possible? 404 00:36:01,118 --> 00:36:07,499 Sorry? -Do you have a chance to take a nursing leave? For a year. 405 00:36:07,583 --> 00:36:10,335 Of course. - Very well. 406 00:36:10,419 --> 00:36:14,673 What did I just say? Stay cool now. 407 00:36:14,756 --> 00:36:19,428 It won't happen. My boss won't buy this. No way. 408 00:36:19,511 --> 00:36:26,768 No way it's possible. It sort of came out of the blue. A whole year... 409 00:36:26,852 --> 00:36:30,898 It's quite all right. Listen up, everyone! 410 00:36:30,981 --> 00:36:33,317 Let's give Pasanen a big hand! 411 00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:38,488 He's staying home with the little monkey for a whole year. 412 00:36:38,572 --> 00:36:41,366 Way to go, Pasanen! 413 00:36:41,950 --> 00:36:44,411 Bravo! 414 00:36:56,673 --> 00:37:00,844 I'm proud of you. I could never do that. 415 00:37:00,928 --> 00:37:07,392 You're not a young man any more. - Very uplifting. Thanks. 416 00:37:07,476 --> 00:37:10,896 Paavo Antero Pasanen. 417 00:37:10,979 --> 00:37:15,776 I thought it'd be nice to keep the name Antero in the family. 418 00:37:15,859 --> 00:37:19,780 Thanks. Where did Paavo come from? 419 00:37:21,114 --> 00:37:24,243 A long-time development process. 420 00:37:24,326 --> 00:37:26,870 History and all. 421 00:37:26,954 --> 00:37:29,665 Are you scared? - What? 422 00:37:29,748 --> 00:37:34,878 Now that it's been decided. You have to live with it. 423 00:37:34,962 --> 00:37:39,633 We can still change the name. - No. A whole year? 424 00:37:39,716 --> 00:37:42,552 Are you going to be OK? - Don't think so. 425 00:37:42,636 --> 00:37:45,973 Maybe we'll move to a garbage bin. 426 00:37:57,025 --> 00:37:59,736 Have you blown your nose too hard? Here you go. 427 00:38:04,074 --> 00:38:07,452 Right away. Right away. 428 00:38:11,206 --> 00:38:14,668 Good you could come in on a short notice. Couldn't get anyone else. 429 00:38:14,751 --> 00:38:17,004 I need to go to a dentist. 430 00:38:17,087 --> 00:38:21,800 You have poo on your wrist. - No, it's not... it is. 431 00:38:21,883 --> 00:38:25,804 When he wakes up, give him this. 432 00:38:25,887 --> 00:38:30,642 No improvisation, are we clear? 433 00:38:30,726 --> 00:38:32,978 Is it that? - What? 434 00:38:33,061 --> 00:38:35,439 Is that him? 435 00:38:37,274 --> 00:38:40,027 No, he's Kenneth. 436 00:38:41,194 --> 00:38:42,779 Take care. 437 00:38:42,863 --> 00:38:46,283 First private time for months. 438 00:38:46,366 --> 00:38:49,161 Have to make the most of it. 439 00:38:56,001 --> 00:39:00,005 Light always has a direction. And a character. 440 00:39:01,048 --> 00:39:06,970 What does that mean? It means you have to be in the right place. 441 00:39:07,054 --> 00:39:11,058 In regard to the circumstances of this world. 442 00:39:11,141 --> 00:39:16,730 Do you see, Kenneth? Cause reality can be hard. Complex. 443 00:39:16,813 --> 00:39:20,734 I know, these are distressing things. I've been thinking about them. 444 00:39:20,817 --> 00:39:25,739 And that took me to a funny farm. 445 00:39:52,432 --> 00:39:56,144 Hello all fresh mothers. 446 00:39:56,228 --> 00:39:59,773 And good luck. You're going to need it. 447 00:39:59,856 --> 00:40:03,110 I'll give the floor to our government. 448 00:40:03,193 --> 00:40:09,157 Direct all your interpellations to her. 449 00:40:09,241 --> 00:40:13,245 Like, a government. And interpellations. 450 00:40:14,746 --> 00:40:21,211 She has a fresh bun in the oven. The new muffin's clue next summer. 451 00:40:21,294 --> 00:40:25,340 A 'yoke, a 'yoke, a 'yoke. 452 00:40:26,049 --> 00:40:31,054 Hope no one minds. I'm a genius when it comes to genitalia. 453 00:40:34,266 --> 00:40:38,603 Did you get that? Cause I'm a man. 454 00:40:38,687 --> 00:40:41,690 Men also have genitals. 455 00:40:41,773 --> 00:40:46,945 I was more referring to ladies' labia. 456 00:40:51,950 --> 00:40:55,579 The main thing that's getting us through is the fact - 457 00:40:55,662 --> 00:41:00,125 that my husband helps a lot in babycare. 458 00:41:00,208 --> 00:41:04,129 I recommend that to all of you. 459 00:41:04,212 --> 00:41:08,467 A man that takes part is the best help! Right? 460 00:41:08,550 --> 00:41:12,762 Can we all get his phone number? 461 00:41:12,846 --> 00:41:16,641 Way to go, Satu, Markku and Ada. 462 00:41:16,725 --> 00:41:20,187 Didn't bother to check her diapers before leaving home? 463 00:41:20,270 --> 00:41:26,276 Why didn't you bring a change of nappies? -Why me? 464 00:41:26,359 --> 00:41:29,779 You're her mother. - You're her father. 465 00:41:29,863 --> 00:41:35,202 That's not 100 % certain. She doesn't even look like me. 466 00:41:35,285 --> 00:41:38,914 Eat shit! - That's what I'm fucking doing. 467 00:41:41,833 --> 00:41:44,920 We've met. 468 00:41:45,003 --> 00:41:47,964 I can't remember. - Wait. 469 00:41:50,592 --> 00:41:53,053 Does this ring a bell? 470 00:41:55,180 --> 00:41:58,016 Right. Now I remember. 471 00:41:58,099 --> 00:42:01,728 Do you want some milk? - What? 472 00:42:01,811 --> 00:42:05,273 In your coffee. I can bring you some if you look after her. 473 00:42:05,357 --> 00:42:08,818 I'll have mine black, thanks. 474 00:42:17,369 --> 00:42:19,412 I'm Enni. 475 00:42:20,288 --> 00:42:22,791 Antti Pasanen. And Paavo. 476 00:42:24,501 --> 00:42:28,880 You live next to the park? In the middle? -How did you know? 477 00:42:28,964 --> 00:42:31,424 We live across the street. 478 00:42:31,508 --> 00:42:33,802 You often have lights on all night. 479 00:42:33,885 --> 00:42:37,138 Second floor from the top? - Yep. 480 00:42:38,682 --> 00:42:40,976 I know the window. 481 00:42:41,059 --> 00:42:45,981 I better warm these up. You wait a bit. 482 00:42:58,910 --> 00:43:02,664 Okay. I didn't see this coming. 483 00:43:28,023 --> 00:43:31,610 You can help then? - What? 484 00:43:31,693 --> 00:43:34,446 In the feeding. 485 00:43:36,948 --> 00:43:39,534 Your wife. - Rig ht. 486 00:43:39,618 --> 00:43:43,580 Paavo feeds from the bottle. Terttu won't have that. 487 00:43:44,914 --> 00:43:49,878 Do you feed him at nights? - Yeah, that's my department. 488 00:43:53,006 --> 00:43:56,134 Bye. - Bye. 489 00:44:07,896 --> 00:44:14,110 That went well. Really well. 490 00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:19,366 Let's go. 491 00:44:19,449 --> 00:44:23,119 You want one? - Yep. Thanks. 492 00:44:24,329 --> 00:44:28,208 What are they? - For Paavo. 493 00:44:29,292 --> 00:44:32,504 Can we walk together? - Obviously. 494 00:44:34,547 --> 00:44:39,469 You're as funny as your trousers. - Thanks. 495 00:44:39,552 --> 00:44:43,223 What else is new? -A funny thing happened the other day. 496 00:44:43,306 --> 00:44:46,643 I had been shopping and left my car in the parking hall. 497 00:44:46,726 --> 00:44:49,813 Closed the trunk - 498 00:44:49,896 --> 00:44:54,859 jumped behind the wheel and drove off. 499 00:44:54,943 --> 00:44:59,531 At the first intersection I had this funny feeling. 500 00:44:59,614 --> 00:45:04,994 Looked at the back seat. It was empty. 501 00:45:05,078 --> 00:45:10,375 Oh my God, I have a kid! I'm a father! Where's my kid? 502 00:45:21,344 --> 00:45:24,139 Can I ask you something? - Of course. 503 00:45:24,222 --> 00:45:29,686 When I see you, it's only you two. You never talk about anyone else. 504 00:45:29,769 --> 00:45:34,357 Where's his mother? Your wife? - Pia... 505 00:45:34,441 --> 00:45:40,697 Pia? Let me guess. I like to guess people's professions. 506 00:45:40,780 --> 00:45:44,659 Not now. - Pia could be... 507 00:45:44,743 --> 00:45:48,705 She's never home at nights. Sounds like she's an airline hostess. 508 00:45:48,788 --> 00:45:53,543 No? Not a stewardess. She's a taxi driver. 509 00:45:53,626 --> 00:45:56,963 No. Pia, wait, Pia... 510 00:45:57,046 --> 00:46:02,594 What do I say? Nothing too embarrassing. 511 00:46:02,677 --> 00:46:07,098 Let's just say that... Pia is dead. Died at childbirth. 512 00:46:09,267 --> 00:46:13,313 Right. Really embarrassing. - I'm sorry. 513 00:46:15,231 --> 00:46:20,695 I'm so sorry. I'm really... - No problem. I'm over it. 514 00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:24,908 What do you mean? 515 00:46:24,991 --> 00:46:29,078 Over the initial shock. 516 00:46:29,162 --> 00:46:33,917 We just live day-by-day, the two of us. 517 00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:37,962 Respecting her memory by getting through. 518 00:46:42,717 --> 00:46:45,428 Sorry. Wait. 519 00:46:48,348 --> 00:46:50,809 Be strong. 520 00:46:50,892 --> 00:46:56,523 Come to the park if you feel like it. We're there every clay. -Wait. 521 00:46:58,233 --> 00:47:03,780 I don't want people to talk about this, anywhere. 522 00:47:03,863 --> 00:47:08,076 I want to tell Paavo myself when the time is right. 523 00:47:08,159 --> 00:47:11,830 Of course. I understand, really well. 524 00:47:11,913 --> 00:47:14,249 Bye. - Thanks. 525 00:47:15,208 --> 00:47:19,879 Paavo, you're a half-orphan now. And I'm a widow. 526 00:47:21,589 --> 00:47:23,633 Have you had enough milk? 527 00:47:23,716 --> 00:47:27,470 The stupid journalist has underestimated the situation. 528 00:47:30,765 --> 00:47:32,892 Enjoy your jail time. 529 00:47:32,976 --> 00:47:35,728 I hope you'll walk out of there with your own legs. 530 00:47:44,112 --> 00:47:46,155 Hi! 531 00:47:52,745 --> 00:47:57,792 Do you see, Paavo? One clay, our boat will be here. 532 00:48:02,046 --> 00:48:06,050 All good, he's growing as predicted. 533 00:48:06,134 --> 00:48:11,514 How's Pia? - Must be working on her tan. 534 00:48:11,598 --> 00:48:16,686 Would you like some domestic help? Say, twice a week? 535 00:48:16,769 --> 00:48:19,022 A few hours so you can catch up on your sleep. 536 00:48:19,105 --> 00:48:22,191 I'm sleeping just fine. -You don't look like it. You're losing weight. 537 00:48:22,275 --> 00:48:25,361 Was it this one? - I guess. 538 00:48:25,445 --> 00:48:31,367 It has a name. Your situation. It's called day-to-day tolerance. 539 00:48:31,451 --> 00:48:34,287 Nor many fathers have to deal what you're dealing with. 540 00:48:34,370 --> 00:48:37,874 Our life is wonderful. - Is it? 541 00:48:38,666 --> 00:48:42,378 Yes. -There has to be something else in life than Paavo. 542 00:48:42,462 --> 00:48:44,589 I don't miss anything else. 543 00:48:44,672 --> 00:48:49,594 Except anything else! Give me something else! 544 00:48:49,677 --> 00:48:54,807 Take a night off. Here's some numbers. You'll get babycare help. 545 00:48:54,891 --> 00:48:57,810 But it'll cost you. 546 00:48:57,894 --> 00:49:00,897 Pasanen! Now do as I say! 547 00:49:04,150 --> 00:49:07,612 I don't even feel like going out. 548 00:49:24,879 --> 00:49:27,006 A night out. 549 00:49:28,675 --> 00:49:32,011 First time since my boy was born. 550 00:49:32,095 --> 00:49:37,225 Not the wildest night of the week, Tuesday. 551 00:49:37,308 --> 00:49:42,313 OK with me. I wasn't planning to paint the town red. 552 00:49:43,439 --> 00:49:46,776 I could grab a pizza, to take away. 553 00:49:48,820 --> 00:49:52,824 But, first a beer and a... 554 00:49:59,288 --> 00:50:04,335 This your mailbox. This my mailbox. That's why the key not work. 555 00:50:12,010 --> 00:50:15,179 Careful... 556 00:50:16,305 --> 00:50:19,600 ...the most important thing - 557 00:50:19,684 --> 00:50:22,395 the core is... 558 00:50:42,665 --> 00:50:45,418 Salami... Bolognese... 559 00:50:46,711 --> 00:50:50,423 Egg-Jalapeno... 560 00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:11,569 Hey, sorry. 561 00:51:11,652 --> 00:51:15,990 Where are you taking him? 562 00:51:16,074 --> 00:51:19,285 Where are you taking him? - To the drunk tank. 563 00:51:19,368 --> 00:51:21,496 What has he done? - Nothing. 564 00:51:21,579 --> 00:51:26,292 Why are you taking him then? Could you just take him home? 565 00:51:26,375 --> 00:51:30,838 No. Why? - I know him. 566 00:51:30,922 --> 00:51:34,425 His wife died at childbirth some 6 months ago. 567 00:51:34,509 --> 00:51:37,470 And the kid? - No. 568 00:51:37,553 --> 00:51:42,266 Paavo's fine. This Antti is a single father. 569 00:51:42,350 --> 00:51:49,524 ...the comfort factor is 4/5. The pillow's a bit hard... 570 00:51:49,607 --> 00:51:51,818 What's the story here? - The same old story. 571 00:51:51,901 --> 00:51:55,822 Found this one at the bar. We're taking him to the drunk tank. 572 00:51:55,905 --> 00:52:00,535 Just heard he has a kid. Most likely, home alone. 573 00:52:00,618 --> 00:52:04,789 Must call the social services. To check out the kid's OK. 574 00:52:04,872 --> 00:52:08,709 Does the fallen hero has any ID? - Don't know but she knows him. 575 00:52:08,793 --> 00:52:11,879 Antti Pasanen. 576 00:52:11,963 --> 00:52:15,049 I know where he lives. 577 00:52:15,133 --> 00:52:20,972 And I know where the baby is. In my house. The guy's our neighbor. 578 00:52:21,055 --> 00:52:25,768 His son Paavo is on a sleepover. This is his first night off. 579 00:52:25,852 --> 00:52:28,396 Familiar names... 580 00:52:28,479 --> 00:52:32,275 A fine shape he's in! - Say hello... 581 00:52:32,358 --> 00:52:37,572 I'll look after him. Can you give me a hand? 582 00:52:40,491 --> 00:52:46,372 Hey, how about the pizza? It's been paid already. -What pizza is it? 583 00:52:46,455 --> 00:52:51,878 Kebab-salami-Bolognese... egg-jalapeno. Sliced. 584 00:52:51,961 --> 00:52:55,339 It's yours, Ahlström! - Always happy to save a pizza! 585 00:52:55,423 --> 00:52:59,969 You ride with me. You can tuck Pasanen in. 586 00:53:00,052 --> 00:53:04,223 Why me? I'm not a babysitter for old drunks. 587 00:53:04,307 --> 00:53:08,603 To the car. Police orders. - I have a free night. 588 00:53:08,686 --> 00:53:11,772 If you know this guy, you also know what he's been through lately. 589 00:53:11,856 --> 00:53:13,482 A little humanity now. 590 00:53:25,244 --> 00:53:28,122 Zagreb? 09? - What? 591 00:53:28,748 --> 00:53:32,501 You're that karate girl. - What? 592 00:53:32,585 --> 00:53:35,588 European Championship silver in 2009? 593 00:53:37,673 --> 00:53:40,176 Here we go. 594 00:53:40,259 --> 00:53:45,765 I remember your match against Iliewska. -This is my stop. 595 00:53:46,098 --> 00:53:52,605 Lie down. Shoes off. 596 00:53:54,023 --> 00:53:59,612 I guess you'll be OK from here. I must go back to work. -What? 597 00:53:59,695 --> 00:54:03,783 See you tomorrow, Pasanen. Bye now. 598 00:55:37,460 --> 00:55:39,295 Veggie? 599 00:55:39,378 --> 00:55:43,924 Bloody hell. How shitfaced was I? 600 00:56:04,445 --> 00:56:06,238 Hi. - Hi. 601 00:56:06,322 --> 00:56:09,909 Had fun last night? - Not too bad. 602 00:56:12,203 --> 00:56:16,499 Paavo just went for a nap. Oh no. Have two of these. 603 00:56:16,582 --> 00:56:21,504 Anna is a pharmacist. Knows terribly much about meds. 604 00:56:21,587 --> 00:56:25,841 Better stay friendly with her. - I'm going back to work next month. 605 00:56:25,925 --> 00:56:28,677 What? - No point in huffing like that. 606 00:56:28,761 --> 00:56:33,057 You get bored, you go to the park. Always lurking alone in that sandbox. 607 00:56:33,140 --> 00:56:38,145 Not alone. With my son Paavo. - You know what I mean. 608 00:56:39,063 --> 00:56:41,399 He could use some fresh company anyway. 609 00:56:41,482 --> 00:56:44,985 No. We like it best as it is. just the two of us. 610 00:56:45,736 --> 00:56:48,739 Right. Same deal with us two. 611 00:57:00,126 --> 00:57:02,336 Wonderful. 612 00:57:03,796 --> 00:57:06,674 Oh oh oh. 613 00:57:11,470 --> 00:57:13,597 Pasanen? 614 00:57:16,392 --> 00:57:18,853 Could I have a cup of coffee? 615 00:57:32,116 --> 00:57:34,285 ...it absorbs to the scalp when you rub it in. 616 00:57:34,368 --> 00:57:38,038 That's why you can't use it when you're pregnant. 617 00:57:44,128 --> 00:57:46,589 Don't give him those. 618 00:57:49,216 --> 00:57:51,385 You want some? - Thanks. 619 00:57:51,469 --> 00:57:55,139 Don't take them! - Hi, Paavo! 620 00:57:55,222 --> 00:57:56,765 A friend's cousin - 621 00:57:56,849 --> 00:58:00,227 had an apple under the couch for months. 622 00:58:00,311 --> 00:58:02,313 It was completely unchanged. 623 00:58:02,396 --> 00:58:06,066 Even the aroma is perfume and chemicals. 624 00:58:06,150 --> 00:58:11,989 Don't take it. Wouldn't give Paavo any of those. 625 00:58:12,072 --> 00:58:15,784 At least, think about it. - Bye, Paavo! 626 00:58:15,868 --> 00:58:18,913 How do they all know my kid's name? - See you! 627 00:58:18,996 --> 00:58:23,250 We won't bee seeing each other. Good bye, woman. 628 00:58:33,636 --> 00:58:35,638 Nice, isn't it? 629 00:58:39,642 --> 00:58:41,644 God damn it. 630 00:58:43,562 --> 00:58:45,606 Come here. 631 00:58:45,689 --> 00:58:49,944 You can't be sure. - As sure as sure is. 632 00:58:50,027 --> 00:58:52,279 Anyone needs anything from the mall? 633 00:58:52,363 --> 00:58:56,075 Look what I found. - Lovely. 634 00:58:56,867 --> 00:59:01,956 Pyry will need new shoes. - Nea will have tubes. 635 00:59:02,039 --> 00:59:04,291 Tubes? Where? - In her ears. 636 00:59:09,964 --> 00:59:13,175 Don't take! 637 00:59:13,259 --> 00:59:15,344 Just have one. - Don't take. 638 00:59:18,430 --> 00:59:21,141 I don't like cats. I wonder why? 639 00:59:21,225 --> 00:59:26,272 Like the woman who plays a cat on Kid's TV. Looks a bit like this. 640 00:59:28,274 --> 00:59:31,026 Yeah, that catwoman? I'd screw her. 641 00:59:31,110 --> 00:59:35,906 When we go to bed, I can sleep. No matter what my man is up to. 642 00:59:35,990 --> 00:59:42,037 I can list a 100 things more interesting than sex with my man. 643 00:59:42,121 --> 00:59:45,291 Go ahead. I can't think of one. 644 00:59:45,374 --> 00:59:48,836 Haven't seen Enni around lately. 645 00:59:48,919 --> 00:59:53,882 She's up north. Visiting her parents. - In Jyväskylä. 646 00:59:53,966 --> 00:59:56,885 Terttu had a bad case of chickenpox last Xmas. 647 00:59:56,969 --> 01:00:01,348 Tore out all the scabs. The scars got infected. Rotten. A terrible disease. 648 01:00:01,432 --> 01:00:04,810 Rotten? -Yeah. Thankfully there's vaccines nowadays. 649 01:00:04,893 --> 01:00:07,271 Our kids will never be vaccinated. 650 01:00:07,354 --> 01:00:10,774 Arcenicum C, melted... - Your brains have melted. 651 01:00:10,858 --> 01:00:13,444 Our vaccine program is the best in the world. 652 01:00:13,527 --> 01:00:16,405 Your greenie shit will stop - 653 01:00:16,488 --> 01:00:18,949 when despite all the spruce sprout syrups - 654 01:00:19,033 --> 01:00:21,994 your kids die of an ordinary flu. 655 01:00:23,329 --> 01:00:25,873 You can say what you want to me. 656 01:00:25,956 --> 01:00:28,959 But remember who's there next to you. 657 01:00:30,794 --> 01:00:35,257 No worries. Paavo has received all the standard vaccinations. 658 01:00:35,341 --> 01:00:40,262 Hey, you don't have to explain. 659 01:00:40,346 --> 01:00:45,392 Explain what? - Nothing. At all. 660 01:00:50,022 --> 01:00:54,902 Enni. Hi. How are you? - OK. How are you? 661 01:00:55,861 --> 01:00:57,529 We've been going to the park a bit. 662 01:00:57,613 --> 01:01:01,367 Nice and cosy they all know everything about me and Paavo. 663 01:01:01,450 --> 01:01:06,914 Have you told them something else besides our names? -Nothing special. 664 01:01:08,165 --> 01:01:10,876 That you're a widow. - You've told them that? 665 01:01:10,959 --> 01:01:14,338 I thought I'd warn them. Why? 666 01:01:14,421 --> 01:01:17,049 Cause it's a lie. 667 01:01:17,591 --> 01:01:20,761 Enni. 668 01:01:22,096 --> 01:01:27,518 Listen. You should know one thing. I'm not a... 669 01:01:27,601 --> 01:01:32,189 I know. Of course I do. I understand. 670 01:01:33,482 --> 01:01:39,988 Not one of my better days. I know that you're not over her death yet. 671 01:01:40,072 --> 01:01:43,158 You can't hide that although you try. - No... 672 01:01:43,242 --> 01:01:47,579 You have to give time to sorrow. - I'll tell you now if you listen. 673 01:01:47,663 --> 01:01:50,165 You don't need to explain. 674 01:01:50,249 --> 01:01:52,668 If the love of my life was dead - 675 01:01:52,751 --> 01:01:55,879 I couldn't look at our photos, either. 676 01:01:55,963 --> 01:01:59,633 But I wouldn't be cutting the heads off, either. 677 01:01:59,717 --> 01:02:02,636 Too weird. See you. 678 01:02:03,846 --> 01:02:08,517 Enni. Stop. - Right now, I can't. Bye. 679 01:02:54,438 --> 01:02:58,442 Paavo's boat. Daddy's boat. Your boat. 680 01:02:59,693 --> 01:03:01,779 Paavo's boat. Paavo is driving. 681 01:03:16,794 --> 01:03:18,796 Hello! 682 01:03:20,547 --> 01:03:25,010 You're here already? - He told me after 3 o'clock. 683 01:03:25,093 --> 01:03:27,137 Congratulations. - Thanks. 684 01:03:28,096 --> 01:03:32,392 Pasanen. Our kids can babysit tonight. 685 01:03:32,476 --> 01:03:35,729 5 euro's per hour or 20 for the whole night. 686 01:03:35,813 --> 01:03:40,192 OK. 20 for the whole night, right? 687 01:03:41,443 --> 01:03:43,529 DeaL - Fifty-fifty? 688 01:04:01,088 --> 01:04:04,383 You have felt marker on your face. 689 01:04:04,466 --> 01:04:08,387 Yeah, we were making a card. - Me as well. 690 01:04:08,470 --> 01:04:12,933 Won't come off. Ever. - It'll wear off. 691 01:04:13,016 --> 01:04:17,062 My husband found a new woman. 692 01:04:17,145 --> 01:04:23,235 She's also Tiina. With one Tina. Cause she's Swedish. 693 01:04:23,318 --> 01:04:29,283 Think. Tina. Tiina. Tina. Tiina. Tina. 694 01:04:30,909 --> 01:04:34,329 Finally he sent a text message to the wrong Tiina. 695 01:04:36,707 --> 01:04:42,045 Sorry. - I'm not sad anymore. Just amused. 696 01:04:42,129 --> 01:04:47,217 How about you? - An ordinary, dull divorce. 697 01:04:47,301 --> 01:04:51,513 Paavo's better off with me. Pia lives in Spain. 698 01:04:51,597 --> 01:04:53,891 Spain's wonderful. 699 01:04:59,062 --> 01:05:03,984 I really like it like this. - Like, how? 700 01:05:04,067 --> 01:05:06,278 Alone. 701 01:05:16,455 --> 01:05:20,667 You can leave Paavo here. Pick him up tomorrow. 702 01:05:20,751 --> 01:05:23,754 No, we're going home now. 703 01:05:33,555 --> 01:05:35,599 Thanks. 704 01:05:37,100 --> 01:05:39,519 He's awake. 705 01:05:39,603 --> 01:05:42,898 Would you like to have dinner or see a movie sometimes? 706 01:05:42,981 --> 01:05:45,901 Movie, dinner, yes! Dinner, movie, yes! 707 01:05:45,984 --> 01:05:48,445 I'm pretty tied up with him. 708 01:05:48,528 --> 01:05:50,697 But I guess I could fix it somehow. 709 01:05:50,781 --> 01:05:55,494 Send me a message then. - Yep. Good night. 710 01:05:55,577 --> 01:05:57,579 Good night. 711 01:06:19,518 --> 01:06:21,603 Good night. 712 01:06:37,119 --> 01:06:40,872 We forgot to change numbers. - Oh. 713 01:07:28,462 --> 01:07:31,506 Morning. - Morning. 714 01:07:35,594 --> 01:07:37,971 Morning. 715 01:07:47,647 --> 01:07:50,108 Bye. - See you. 716 01:07:53,904 --> 01:07:56,239 A man as a single parent... 717 01:07:56,323 --> 01:08:00,494 It shows commitment. But it's also a bit pathetic. 718 01:08:00,577 --> 01:08:04,790 Also, courageous. All these things women find hot. 719 01:08:04,873 --> 01:08:08,960 Just flash some baby pics in a bar... 720 01:08:12,923 --> 01:08:15,884 Outrageous. 721 01:08:15,967 --> 01:08:20,430 Make your own babies. Don't use his pictures to score dates. 722 01:08:21,640 --> 01:08:24,893 The pity points go down as the child gets older. 723 01:08:24,976 --> 01:08:28,438 How do you know? - My daughter's studying up north. 724 01:08:30,065 --> 01:08:33,735 What? You have a child? - Yep. Why? 725 01:08:52,879 --> 01:08:55,465 If he sang? - Samuli Edelmann? 726 01:08:55,549 --> 01:08:58,176 Absolutely. - I'd screw him. 727 01:08:58,260 --> 01:09:01,763 Colin Firth? - A bit old but I'd screw him. 728 01:09:01,847 --> 01:09:06,309 No way. -Of course not. How about Ryan Gosling? 729 01:09:06,393 --> 01:09:08,687 I'd love to screw him! 730 01:09:08,770 --> 01:09:11,940 Antti Pasanen? - Who? 731 01:09:13,024 --> 01:09:17,195 No way. No offense, Pasanen. - Me neither. 732 01:09:17,279 --> 01:09:23,910 Don't take it personally. But a man looking after a baby is a wuss. 733 01:09:23,994 --> 01:09:30,125 Single fathers just are not sexually interesting. Right, Enni? 734 01:09:32,502 --> 01:09:35,088 Wouldn't screw him, no. 735 01:09:35,172 --> 01:09:37,424 Excuse me, dear ladies. 736 01:09:37,507 --> 01:09:40,886 I haven't been able to look after my sexuality. 737 01:09:40,969 --> 01:09:43,054 Been too busy looking after my child. 738 01:09:43,138 --> 01:09:46,016 What do you want? A medal? 739 01:09:46,099 --> 01:09:49,352 For looking after your own child for a whole year? 740 01:09:49,436 --> 01:09:51,897 History is made! Wow! 741 01:09:51,980 --> 01:09:55,483 What do you think we all are doing here, clay in, day out? 742 01:09:55,567 --> 01:09:59,070 Cause you happen to be a man, doesn't make it any more worthwhile. 743 01:10:03,283 --> 01:10:06,453 Do you visit Pia's grave often? - No. 744 01:10:07,329 --> 01:10:10,540 You just can't? - No. I can't. 745 01:10:13,001 --> 01:10:17,214 Is she at the local cemetery? - Who? 746 01:10:17,297 --> 01:10:19,674 Pia. - No, she's in Spain. 747 01:10:19,758 --> 01:10:22,844 Oh, shit. - What? 748 01:10:24,596 --> 01:10:28,016 Well, her ashes were thrown to sea. 749 01:10:28,099 --> 01:10:30,727 Scattered in the Mediterranean. 750 01:10:30,810 --> 01:10:33,730 Why? - Right. Why? 751 01:10:33,813 --> 01:10:38,485 Her parents live in Spain. 752 01:10:38,568 --> 01:10:41,279 And? 753 01:10:41,363 --> 01:10:44,366 It's not a topic I'm willing to talk about. 754 01:10:44,449 --> 01:10:49,371 Can't think of more lies. Can't even remember the old ones. 755 01:10:53,291 --> 01:10:57,963 Iiro split when I was six months pregnant. 756 01:10:58,046 --> 01:11:01,800 Terttu's father. Lives out of town. 757 01:11:01,883 --> 01:11:03,677 Doesn't want to have anything to do with us. 758 01:11:03,760 --> 01:11:06,179 I may be a bit out of line - 759 01:11:06,263 --> 01:11:11,685 but I think it'd be easier to be in a situation like you. -In what sense? 760 01:11:13,853 --> 01:11:17,023 It'd be easier to tell her that her daddy's dead - 761 01:11:17,107 --> 01:11:22,362 instead of that he split and never wants to see you. 762 01:11:25,365 --> 01:11:27,367 Sorry. 763 01:11:31,830 --> 01:11:33,957 Do you see it? 764 01:11:36,001 --> 01:11:38,044 I do. 765 01:11:38,753 --> 01:11:44,467 I can see her here and imagine her on the high seas. 766 01:11:49,139 --> 01:11:52,684 Heeling to the wind. 767 01:11:52,767 --> 01:11:59,149 The sails are snapping. Salt water spraying to the eyes. 768 01:12:00,942 --> 01:12:03,987 Stinging on the skin. 769 01:12:04,070 --> 01:12:06,406 The sun is shining. Hard to see - 770 01:12:06,489 --> 01:12:09,534 where the sea ends and the sky begins. 771 01:12:13,496 --> 01:12:17,667 When you close your eyes, you can imagine yourself on the deck. 772 01:12:22,172 --> 01:12:25,592 A terrible storm. 773 01:12:25,675 --> 01:12:31,973 The oxygen rushes to your mouth. Can't say anything - 774 01:12:32,057 --> 01:12:35,685 can't even think. 775 01:12:44,527 --> 01:12:48,531 You just feel free. More than ever before. 776 01:12:57,207 --> 01:12:59,501 Pretty good. 777 01:13:01,252 --> 01:13:03,838 Maybe we should go? 778 01:13:07,842 --> 01:13:12,514 Terttu won't sleep at night if she catnaps a minute longer. 779 01:13:23,358 --> 01:13:26,611 Look, a cute family. 780 01:13:30,031 --> 01:13:33,243 How about this? 781 01:13:34,244 --> 01:13:36,579 How are you feeling? 782 01:13:37,539 --> 01:13:39,999 Pretty outstanding. 783 01:13:40,917 --> 01:13:46,923 Mommy, mommy, look at this. - Nice. Let's go. 784 01:13:47,006 --> 01:13:53,179 Right, the anniversary of sorrow. Widow. Widow. Widow. Widow... 785 01:13:56,141 --> 01:13:58,268 You're doing just fine. 786 01:14:00,812 --> 01:14:04,482 That's for 8 years old and over. 787 01:14:04,566 --> 01:14:07,777 Yeah, it's for me. Let's get something for Paavo. 788 01:14:08,153 --> 01:14:11,239 Not a word about Pia. 789 01:14:11,322 --> 01:14:12,991 Why not? 790 01:14:13,074 --> 01:14:14,826 The topic's still a bit sore. 791 01:14:14,909 --> 01:14:18,288 To whom? - To me and Paavo. 792 01:14:18,371 --> 01:14:21,291 Tell Reponen too. - What? 793 01:14:21,374 --> 01:14:25,253 Not a word about Pia. - How about Helena? 794 01:14:25,336 --> 01:14:27,297 Helena who? 795 01:14:28,840 --> 01:14:32,802 The fad that he's such a strong lad - 796 01:14:32,886 --> 01:14:36,681 and celebrates his first full year - 797 01:14:36,764 --> 01:14:40,935 is more his own strength 798 01:14:41,019 --> 01:14:45,190 than his daddy's credit in his upbringing. 799 01:14:46,149 --> 01:14:51,279 Paavo, congratulations. One year down, many more to go. 800 01:14:51,362 --> 01:14:53,948 Congrats, Paavo. 801 01:14:58,661 --> 01:15:01,456 Can you take these? I'll open the door. 802 01:15:01,539 --> 01:15:05,084 Hi. Is that for Paavo Pasanen? 803 01:15:06,669 --> 01:15:10,131 Do I need to sign somewhere? - No. 804 01:15:11,591 --> 01:15:13,843 OK, thanks. 805 01:15:15,136 --> 01:15:18,014 "Happy birthday, Paavo. 806 01:15:18,097 --> 01:15:22,810 Now you can be in touch with your mom whenever you want. 807 01:15:22,894 --> 01:15:25,271 Love, your mother Pia." 808 01:15:25,355 --> 01:15:29,526 A cell phone? Who's so dumb to give a phone to an 1-year old? A relative? 809 01:15:29,609 --> 01:15:33,446 Don't know. You're right. Don't know. 810 01:15:33,530 --> 01:15:38,451 You don't know? There's a card. - No. 811 01:15:38,535 --> 01:15:41,746 It doesn't have a name? Show me. 812 01:15:41,829 --> 01:15:45,833 Enni, don't. -"Love, your mother Pia." 813 01:15:49,254 --> 01:15:52,340 The one who's dead? - What? 814 01:15:54,968 --> 01:15:57,011 What? 815 01:15:58,721 --> 01:16:04,227 Isn't that Pia dead? Ashes scattered in the Mediterranean? -I'm not dead. 816 01:16:05,603 --> 01:16:10,358 She is. Principally. Spiritually. 817 01:16:10,441 --> 01:16:13,778 And she does swim every clay in the Mediterranean. 818 01:16:13,861 --> 01:16:18,741 Have you been lying to me? - I had to. 819 01:16:18,825 --> 01:16:21,744 But I can explain. - We're divorced. 820 01:16:21,828 --> 01:16:25,206 You, shut up! - Go inside for a moment. 821 01:16:25,290 --> 01:16:28,918 We have to go through this among ourselves. 822 01:16:29,002 --> 01:16:32,380 What are you... -This looks a bit more dramatic than it actually is. 823 01:16:32,463 --> 01:16:35,425 It looks a bit unpleasant. - I, I can explain. 824 01:16:35,508 --> 01:16:40,388 Go ahead. Explain. - Well, Paavo... 825 01:16:41,848 --> 01:16:47,186 You're so sick. You make me puke. 826 01:17:04,329 --> 01:17:09,208 Have to say, I'm disappointed in you. 827 01:17:09,292 --> 01:17:12,837 As a policeman, but also, as a man. 828 01:17:12,920 --> 01:17:17,175 Go after her. - What? After who? 829 01:17:17,258 --> 01:17:19,969 Enni. - Why? 830 01:17:20,053 --> 01:17:23,222 Not you. The other idiot! 831 01:17:23,306 --> 01:17:26,476 Okay! - Peippo. Wait. 832 01:17:27,894 --> 01:17:30,438 You take this. 833 01:17:30,521 --> 01:17:33,983 Enni! Wait! - Go to hell. 834 01:17:34,067 --> 01:17:37,487 Let me explain. - I don't want to hear. 835 01:17:37,570 --> 01:17:41,282 I've seen a lot of shit in my time. But this... fuck! 836 01:17:41,366 --> 01:17:44,786 It's a misunderstanding. - I was trying to help you. 837 01:17:44,869 --> 01:17:48,414 I thought you were lonely. Everyone tried to help. 838 01:17:48,498 --> 01:17:52,418 Had to think about every word in the park because of the dead wife. 839 01:17:52,502 --> 01:17:57,840 Can't you see I've been admiring you? Sitting up there, a 100 times. 840 01:17:57,924 --> 01:18:01,219 There he sits, with a baby and a bottle and won't even complain. 841 01:18:01,302 --> 01:18:02,970 Now I now where we stand. 842 01:18:03,054 --> 01:18:06,099 Being an asshole is a man's privilege. -Don't be like that! 843 01:18:10,812 --> 01:18:13,272 If you ever touch me again... 844 01:18:13,356 --> 01:18:16,734 You never told me you know karate. - Why would've I? 845 01:18:16,818 --> 01:18:19,487 I don't even know you. 846 01:18:20,780 --> 01:18:24,117 Don't even want to know you. 847 01:18:24,200 --> 01:18:27,787 It can't be like this. Enni? 848 01:18:38,548 --> 01:18:41,551 Not a pleasant surprise, I guess? 849 01:18:43,302 --> 01:18:45,555 What do you want? 850 01:18:45,638 --> 01:18:50,852 I've been putting myself back together. -Ah. And? 851 01:18:50,935 --> 01:18:55,648 I'm in much better mental shape than... well, you know. 852 01:18:55,732 --> 01:19:01,988 Came all the way here to tell me that? On Paavo's birthday? 853 01:19:02,071 --> 01:19:07,326 I'm not trying to make a comeback. First I thought I'd mail the present. 854 01:19:07,410 --> 01:19:11,456 But then I realized I want to see my child. -Did I hear correct? 855 01:19:11,539 --> 01:19:14,876 My child? My child? - Yes. 856 01:19:14,959 --> 01:19:19,005 What do you mean, my child? He's my son! Not yours! 857 01:19:19,088 --> 01:19:22,675 He's mine as well. I want to see him. - Enough! 858 01:19:30,516 --> 01:19:33,686 No one says a word! Not a single word! 859 01:20:03,633 --> 01:20:05,635 Listen, Paavo. 860 01:20:06,844 --> 01:20:09,263 There's a lady out there who'd like to see you. 861 01:20:46,259 --> 01:20:49,262 This is only a start. 862 01:20:50,596 --> 01:20:53,599 Our next year together will be something else! 863 01:20:54,976 --> 01:20:56,561 Daddy. 864 01:20:57,979 --> 01:21:01,315 What? - Daddy. 865 01:21:03,150 --> 01:21:08,072 What? Did you say something? Did you say daddy? 866 01:21:10,533 --> 01:21:15,079 Did you just say daddy? - Daddy. 867 01:21:20,293 --> 01:21:24,046 Soon we can talk about everything. 868 01:21:24,130 --> 01:21:27,300 You'll tell me you want to be a seaman. 869 01:21:27,383 --> 01:21:30,595 You'll miss me but will come back. 870 01:22:00,875 --> 01:22:02,335 Paavo? 871 01:22:07,340 --> 01:22:09,425 Paavo? 872 01:22:15,723 --> 01:22:18,976 Paavo? Paavo! 873 01:22:24,231 --> 01:22:26,108 Paavo! 874 01:22:28,361 --> 01:22:30,404 Paavo! 875 01:22:31,530 --> 01:22:35,076 Paavo! - Pasanen! 876 01:22:40,539 --> 01:22:42,917 Daddy's right there. 877 01:22:50,424 --> 01:22:53,469 No problem, no problem. 878 01:22:53,552 --> 01:22:57,807 I was so hot, had to take a dip. 879 01:22:57,890 --> 01:23:00,893 Very refreshing, the sea. 880 01:23:14,782 --> 01:23:17,785 You know, Paavo spoke to me today. 881 01:23:19,620 --> 01:23:25,626 Guess what he said? - Some unpleasant lies to your face. 882 01:23:25,710 --> 01:23:27,920 If he's your son. 883 01:23:33,718 --> 01:23:36,512 You could've told me the truth. 884 01:23:41,726 --> 01:23:43,853 I didn't have the nerve. 885 01:23:46,272 --> 01:23:50,818 And when I did, it was way too late. And way too much fun. 886 01:23:53,195 --> 01:23:55,156 Right. 887 01:23:55,239 --> 01:23:58,367 Can I tell you the whole story now? 888 01:24:00,369 --> 01:24:02,371 Enni? 889 01:24:05,833 --> 01:24:09,628 Tell me. - Well... 890 01:24:10,963 --> 01:24:14,550 To start with there was this funny incident... 891 01:26:04,660 --> 01:26:07,788 Subtitles by: Mika Karttunen